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No. 2456895 [Reply]

Did you just remember something? What was it?

Adhere to site and board rules, report and ignore bait

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No. 2516740

i got taylor swift's "bad blood" stuck in my head and i just remembered how iconic the music video was at the time. it's still amazing how many famous women she got in the mv (zendaya, cindy, selena, etc etc) and how big it was. couldn't go a day without hearing that song playing somehow.
i also somehow completely forgot that kendrick lamar was in the song kek. can't believe it's already a decade old…

No. 2516768

>>2516059
I have a feeling she was grifting. I knew several guys who would post those kind of pictures like "help me move out!!" and despite being proven to be lying their fans would still give them money kek. Sometimes big accounts get approached to join a scam that involved thousands of dollars and they split the donations. Anyway I am actually proud you didn't become a twitter artist because that website became so coomerfied once tumblr had its porn ban and everyone defected to twitter.

No. 2516823

>>2516740
I remember it because I discovered it through the Lego Ninjago movie trailer since it was used in it. It was my jam at the time because of this mere connection.

No. 2516837

>>2516740
>decade old
>decade
>old
>10 years
Oh god

No. 2517582

>>2516768
Ty nonna, it was a hard dream to give up at the time but I’ll take being a corporate slave with a good salary and PTO over a freewheeling artist living off of the disposable income of twitter coomers any day of the week.


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No. 1773054 [Reply]

Post sane takes and common sense. Ignore bait, adhere to the rules. Have fun.
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No. 2516700

>>2516665
I'm with you, anon. Aside from allergies and shit, grown-ass adults with toddler tastes in food are annoying. Like, I know you tried a tomato on something once when you were 7 and you didn't like it because mommy or the lunch lady prepared it shittily, but that doesn't mean you get "no tomato" on everything for all eternity. Fuckin' choose life.

No. 2516709

>>2516687
In your opinion you think that all of us who feel this way are wrong. That’s why it was recommended that you take your househusband fantasy to unpopular opinions, because that’s what that thread is exactly made for.

No. 2516723

>>2516665
>>2516700
I don't understand how adult picky eaters don't die of malnutrition. Like, how do you live without a leafy green or two and only eat chicken nuggets and drink soda?

No. 2516726

>>2516723
My ex-boyfriend’s sister was the pickiest eater. She only ate chicken and no other meat. Her wedding was catered by a bbq restaurant and they had to make sure the restaurant could provide chicken tenders too so she would have something to eat. This woman was 26.

No. 2516751

>>2516723
Yeah, I've known a few picky eaters and I've wondered the same thing. I understand not liking the taste of something if you've tried it prepared a few different ways. But deciding you hate vegetables as an adolescent and never trying any dish that contains vegetables forever after? You're gonna get the scurvy. Or at the very least a greasy complexion and shitty digestion. I knew a woman who was like this. She was always sick.


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No. 2311735 [Reply]

As the title says.
Post experiences, why you can't stand them and such.
This is NOT about your own disorder, so don't blogpost/vent, there's already a thread for that.
This thread is about mental illness you can't stand in others.
Please refrain from coming in this thread and say stupid shit like "Oh that's why nobody likes me" or "Damn seeing this thread as a [thing] sufferer makes me uncomfortable" because nobody will pity you OR to defend a specific disorder because "[thing] people are actually etc etc" because seeing patterns is not illegal. If your disorder gets posted here, cope and hide the thread, don't be a little bitch.

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No. 2516363

>>2516309
I’m the OP anon and it sounds like youre being hoovered pretty consistently as it is? Yours is not some grand declaration of apology accompanied by tears, but they want you to know that they’re still out there and want you in their harem of poor unfortunate souls. I know you already know this but, I understand that while maybe it’s funny to watch them “suffer” and attempt to bring you back into their orbit, you can’t ever let yourself be in a position to speak with them again. The cycle that led up to this last fight with my narc started with the soppy and emotional “please please please” type of Hoover, and he really turned up the bullying and abuse after I was baited again because he was never able to let go of the rage of me leaving him the first time.
>>2516322
So I actually don’t know for sure. I’m slightly leaning towards narc for mine but that may be because I’m less familiar with BPD. I relate to most of the posts I see on both r/BPDlovedones and r/narcissisticabuse. There must be a lot of overlap between the two disorders?

No. 2516397

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I'm very tired of picrel being shared as a meme like it's funny or relatable. This is funny if you're a teen with no living experience but this type of behaviour has to be eradicated before it's too late. My ex boyfriend never had a good day and I went overboard to make him happy and he seemed like the bar was always higher and still was never enough, he especially seemed to have bad days when I was the happiest and he had to make sure I was on the phone while I was out with friends or told me that I was a narc bitch if I didn't check my phone and went out knowing he was having a bad day. Maybe I'm too paranoid but I stop talking to everyone who jokes about this shit, it's not funny and it's better to be seen as boring than finding manipulation tacticts funny

No. 2516534

>>2516322
I'm going to do a shit job of explaining this but BPDs like to self insert into a main character whereas narcs need to be the main character.
They exhibit the same behaviors because they're all emotionally stunted defective men. It's impossible to fix them but they sure want you to try! BPD moids cycle through personalities, narc moids cycle through goals. They both project like crazy but narc moids get soap opera levels of jealous over anyone who has what he wants or is insecure about, whereas BPD moids are more likely to skinwalk that person instead. They both have no self esteem but BPD moids tend to do crazy and dangerous things for attention and to be accepted as one of the lads, whereas narc moids like to destroy everyone else's lives until the narc is on top by default.

No. 2516715

>>2516322
Narcs are more grandiose and don't like negative attention. BPDs don't tend to mind negative attention as long as it gets them what they want. Either way I don't stick around long enough to bother distinguishing, if I smell moid mental illness I run

No. 2517080

>>2516229
My paranoid dad would threaten me that he'd call up my uni/work to find out where I was (his delusions involved me being halfway across the country whenever I was at those things) and one day I threatened him to actually do it kek. Like no workplace or uni is going to reveal the location of one of its members to some random caller who claims to be their family member. Obviously that would look like stalking to a crazy degree. Likewise I knew a bippie who would suicide bait right in front of me with a knife and I guess I was retarded but I just said "okay do it then". I was underage, but I didn't understand why he wouldn't just stab me rather than himself.


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No. 2445354 [Reply]

Can't remember where you saw that thing? Want to know the name of someone? Ask here.

If you're not searching for something specific, try the request thread >>>/ot/1343869


Previous threads:
#1 - >>>/ot/861432
#2 - >>>/ot/1068958
#3 - >>>/ot/1288369
#4 - >>>/ot/1561582
#5 - >>>/ot/1951096
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No. 2513588

That image of a fujo soyjak holding a phone with white "I heart yaoi" shirt

No. 2515471

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The songs from this album

No. 2515533

there was a tiktok/youtube girl where her followers would volunteer their boyfriends for her to DM to find out if their boyfriends were faithful. if they cheated, she would make a tiktok/video releasing the DMs of the cheating boyfriend. anyone know her channel? it's not Trinitykayh. it is based, but the girl im thinking of didnt charge money for it

No. 2516572

Why do I remember us having a lolcow cringe thread? It wasn’t “you cringe you lose” or the caps thread and I can’t find it using the searchbar

No. 2516625

that gif of a pretty black woman coming through a door looking excited, i think she is carrying bags


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No. 2303329 [Reply]

Don't know whether to go sleep or binge-read another cow thread? Get milk or tea? Dedicate your remaining life time to Dr*ver or Dano, and don't want to keep any of those important decisions in Sanic-samas capable hands? Fret not–present your dilemma, let farmers burn some sage and have them take that burden off of your exhausted shoulders.
Keep US laws, and more importantly, TPO, in mind and don't ask whether to an hero or which fun method to use, we're not serious like that.

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No. 2513464

>>2513399
pick the one you would less likely be able to make at home

No. 2514328

I napped after work for 4 hours, it's now 2:30am, should I sleep before work starts? I have to be up at 5am

No. 2514367

>>2514328
YES

No. 2516525

what should i do today
>draw/write
>read a book
>read manga
>watch a movie

No. 2516542

>>2516525
Watch a movie


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No. 1985099 [Reply]

Witajcie nonki, gdzieś wątek polski zniknął, więc zakładam nowy. Niech żaden mod go nie usuwa.
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No. 2505097

Jak jestem ojkofobką to nie lubię ludzi fałszujących historii Polski.

No. 2507698

viszą jeszcze jeździ? jest w ogole jakiś szą gdzie nie trzeba udawac spierdoliny?

No. 2511746

KROWA NA DZIŚ! Imć Piotr Napierała, polonofob, ojkofob, testovirończyk i mizogin:

No. 2511748

>>2511746
Kolejne wysrywy imcia Piotra Napierały:

No. 2516411

Polska dolacza do apokalipsy zombie


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No. 2499523 [Reply]

A thread for sharing AI prompts, news, and ideas. Discuss your favorite ways to use AI - whether for school, work, personal projects, or maybe get help with an issue you are experiencing.

>What are some ways you currently use AI for?
>What is your favorite AI tool or model? Why?
>What are some prompt techniques you use?
>What's your dream feature you wish AI tools had right now?
>Are there any surprising uses for AI you have found?

This is not the thread for AI debate. Avoid infighting or take it to the containment thread.
AI debate thread: >>>/ot/2472431

Do not post AI-generated art in this thread.
AI image thread: >>>/m/443713
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No. 2515475

>>2507218
Fwiw, I use it to translate Japanese fanfis/web novels and for a while it refused to translate it, even if I said it was fictional. I think I ended up having it censor words like "k*ll" to move past it.

No. 2515524

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Ai should only be used to have horny rp with Ryusui from Dr Stone and nothing else imo

No. 2515565

I'm broke and lonely and I admit to using ChatGPT on a regular basis. I use it for idea generating but Hate ho it write certain stories and characters. Human is still best for fiction. I've been able to really understand why I like what I like and actually working thorough some personal memories and finally letting go. I've only resorted to Chat because my main therapist was too religious (too broke to switch) and I couldn't stand it anymore. I plan on exporting my chats and deleting my account this year.

No. 2515573

>>2515565
I was looking at your post pic for nearly 5 minutes

No. 2516299

>>2515565
Human? Like an AI called human or an actual human? Maybe I have shit taste but I really like the way chatGPT is writing my fanfic so far.


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No. 1060419 [Reply]

A thread for discussing everything tech-related!
What's a good budget laptop for graphic design? Are smartwatches worth it? How can you tell if your company phone is being monitored? Is Mark Zuckerberg actually a robot? You'll find your answers here! or not
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No. 2498762

>>2498741
It's not bad, just that using UEFI is more standard unless you are using old hardware/BIOS, but it also seems like using UEFI+CSM is messing with your display. I've seen some people report the same issue online but I haven't found anything concrete - you might want to google around for this issue for your specific motherboard model. Switching to UEFI should set it right though, I've seen that posted as the sole solution. It's not going to be something to do with your GPU or monitor, it's the motherboard.

No. 2499556

Firefox dipped. What is the next best browser for casual privacy-conscious users?

No. 2499557

>>2499556
It's my fault, they saw me watching gay porn and decided to expose me. Sorry about that.

No. 2500806

Is anyone here knowledgeable of web audio api? Has it changed?

I am struggling to connect audio to a few functions, visualizer bars, frequency equalizer bars, and a left right panner. I've used the exact code in tutorials and the player functions otherwise with buttons, playlist, progress bar, volume bar. I don't see where the issue is. Even ai can't figure it out.

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This was the best place to put this in. Due to losing viewers to short form social media content from places like Instagram and TikTok, Netflix is testing it's own short form video feature.
>These plans include an AI-powered search tool, as well as a redesign of the TV homepage and improved real-time recommendations.
>Netflix’s new mobile-only vertical feed allows users to easily scroll through clips of its original titles. Within this feed, users can tap on buttons to watch the entire show or movie immediately, save it to their “My List,” or share it with friends.


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No. 1149837 [Reply]

Hello, it has occurred to me that a lot of us really have had horrible experiences with therapists and the psychology field in general. This thread is to discuss exactly that, either from personal experience or the way people have seemingly gotten worse after "therapy" (like Pixielocks). Discuss away.
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No. 2514992

>>2514969
Every answer on that hell-hole Reddit site is "have you tried therapy?" Users rush to post this phrase on any question about difficulties in life, friendships, sex, losing weight, dealing with cheating, grief, relationships, family life, pregnancy, etc. Everything can be solved with therapy, according to the self-diagnosed autistics (with AHDH and trauma) on that website.

No. 2516171

Last therapist I had was a young woman, probably a uni student, in training who got mad at me explaining my life story and walked out so now I don't feel like going back. All the counselors I had before her just spout those positivity platitudes and then drag shit out so we keep paying. I'm aware im either very autistic or some kind of bpdemon (my diagnoses have been both in the past so fuck if I know which I truly have) so I clearly need therapy but I can't be bothered with these therapists who either deliberately waste my money and time or essentially just tell me be positive memes. I'm sick of re-hashing my traumatic experiences just to be told to stop thinking about it, more or less.

No. 2516409

Was in therapy for a year, had a great therapist who ended up moving away. The next therapist was a lot younger, which bothered me a bit but oh well. I didn't come back after the first session with her because she seemed afraid of me. Everything in her body language read that she was either extremely intimidated or outright scared. It was so surreal and kinda hard to describe, but the vibes were very off. Like, why? I was in therapy for depression, not murder. Never went back.

No. 2516864

>>2458065
Very late reply, I've been reading through this thread and it's been eye opening as someone who has never really been to therapy. I have a lot of schizoid traits and I've always wondered if there might actually be something wrong with me, but most of the time I don't really care about finding out. I relate so much to your comment, I'm happy being alone but it's annoying how so many things focus on love and relationships. What really bothers me is not having connections to find a good career or help me out if I'm ever in trouble.

No. 2517192

>>2516409
Was she really young?

I'll chime in with my bad experiences. I've seen a few therapists, but I'll only talk about the ones I saw most. The first one was OK, but kind of put it in my head my husband was doing stuff wrong that he wasn't actually. She wasn't really helpful, it just seemed like a waste of money.

The second one mostly stared vacantly at me and would maybe make half assed suggestions. After awhile she said therapy wasn't helping and I wasn't improving, like it was my fault, when I was trying to listen and take her suggestions (when she actually gave them and didn't just stare at me, I had to ask for everything, though). I ended up having a breakdown because I felt like she was telling me I wouldn't get better. She had a therapy dog and I felt like the dog was much more helpful than she was. Looking back, im not really sure what she wanted or expected. She seemed really new.


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No. 2458670 [Reply]

Last thread got ugly. Refrain from complaining about your Mum buying you a house, or bog off!

Britbong Thread #1 >>>/ot/1433914
Britbong Thread #2 >>>/ot/1730353
Britbong thread #3 >>>/ot/2126145
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No. 2515974

>>2515971
Addicts in the UK are given free healthcare, free housing, bennies, free rehab programmes, free everything really. At some point they dont want to get better, they're just intentionally trying to be a burden on society and I cant blame doctors who get compassion fatigue from constantly being around them. Not only that but drunks and druggies are always the most belligerent and abusive to the nurses, paramedics and drs, who are expected to tolerate this and save them regardless (and do). It's just sad that people with genuine emergencies are having to wait 24 hours or more for a bed that's been taken up by some dickhead who went on another bender.

No. 2516026

>>2515971
Nayrt but it’s very sad, I have alcoholic family members myself, but when it comes down to it and you’re in a struggling, sinking healthcare system you have to prioritise the people who actually want to get better. Drug and alcohol abusers are never guaranteed to not end up relapsing. They do it to themselves at the end of the day and only they can truly make themselves better. I can’t imagine fighting to save someone’s life from an OD and then a matter of months later they’re back pulling the same shit. No wonder doctors get tired of them.

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>>251597
>>2516026
I cannot argue with the points you’ve made. I wish that addicts with functional jobs, who pay their own housing costs and families to support who actually want to improve could be prioritised though.

In better news…. BoE cuts rates.

No. 2516366

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I'm not trying to start a race war here, I'm just glad that this will somewhat impede the human trafficking that's so rampant in the UK. The amount of people, particularly women, lured in with fake job offers is beyond appalling and obviously nobody does anything because, uhhhhh, it's their beautiful Albanian culture to kidnap and rape and butcher women. We all know that human trafficking isn't going to stop because of this law but it will make it much harder for gangs to lure victims in with fake job offers. It's less risky than smuggling them in by boat or truck because the lamb pays for its own legal trip to the slaughterhouse, and it's easy for the traffickers to set up ten million fake companies and throw visas around like confetti.
I'm praying that they extend this to marriage visas too. Men are able to ship in women from their own countries from poor as shit rural areas who don't speak a word of English and need to rely on their new family for everything. And when they mysteriously vanish one day nobody knows or cares. If these women were forced to learn enough English to be able to have a conversation, so many lives would be saved.
The article also goes on to say that they'll be asked if they agree with British values as they'll be expected to integrate. I know it's easy to lie but a lot of the really awful moids aren't smart enough to do that. It's not a lot but it's a start.

No. 2516385

>>2516366
People will call this imperialist, but it's LITERALLY the best possible way to ensure the safety of both native and migrant women, just like you said.


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