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No. 399454[Reply]

ITT:Post your Ideal Matriarchal world and how you live in that world

You can have a Patriarchy Flip - Identical to patriarchy, but with the genders flipped.

An Enlightened Matriarchy - A more benevolent or enlightened rule than patriarchy.

just make it what ever you want but please no futa,no mlpreg or anyone weird fetish shit

No. 399464

Communal, "village" living with brief visits from top tier men to get women pregnant before being kicked out again. They can also make themselves useful by doing manual labour. I don't want a flipped patriarchy, just being mostly separate and using them when necessary.

Obviously not even remotely feasible because you can't just divide infrastructure and the workforce up like that, but I don't think the nuclear family structure is natural or conducive to women having any freedom or agency.

No. 399467

Locked because this is one of many radfem oriented threads:
-handmaiden thread
-gender critical
-radical feminism thread
-pink pill thread
Even koreaboos don't get this many threads. Discussion can be continued in the pink pill thread.

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No. 383856[Reply]

This topic has been unbanned, so vent about XY's here! Share your experiences with annoying, terrible, abusive men you've encountered. Post screenshots of men being awful. Talk about how you avoid shitty men and why.

-no femcel sperging
-please do not respond to scrotbait
-chill with the handmaiden accusations
Doing so will result in a 3 day ban from /ot/, no appeals.

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No. 398583

Imagine sperging this hard because some women might wanna have sex for money.
I wonder if it's insecurity.

No. 398587

This is my first post.

No. 398628

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why is it so hard for men to empathize with women? imagine saying this kind of shit to a victim of child abuse, god im so mad

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No. 377370[Reply]

This thread is for the discussion of transgenderism / trans ideology from a gender critical and radical feminist perspective. It was originally created by Admin as an amalgamation of the TERF and Transgender threads.

Gender critical and radical feminism define gender as sociological (feminine/masculine) and sex as biological (female/male). Woman is defined as an adult human female. Radical feminists seek to abolish gender as it is used by patriarchy to oppress women socially, reproductively, and financially. They strive to preserve women's spaces (such as restrooms, locker rooms, and health care providers) and areas of artistic and intellectual expression separate from men.

Trans ideology posits that one's gender is self-determined based on one's feelings and defines woman as the characteristics and behaviors traditionally ascribed to females by society. Increasingly, transactivists are conflating gender and sex and asserting that a person can self-identify both gender and sex.

Gender critical feminists strive to maintain the distinction between gender and sex. The conflation of gender and sex erases the biological reality of women, eliminates women-only spaces, and disestablishes women as a protected class. Existing laws and legislation currently being passed around the world allowing for self-identification on legal documents do not differentiate between gender and sex.

The acronym TERF (Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminism) is used primarily by transactivists and their allies to denigrate radical feminists and other women who express gender critical ideas. Transactivists portray TERFs as violent oppressors by virtue of their ideas alone.

Posts of related news and web articles are welcome. Posts of photos, videos, and blogs of transactivists for the purposes of discussion and critique are welcome. Please refrain from derailing, infighting, and ad hominem attacks. This thread is not intended for the general discussion of feminism, sexuality, misogyny, or misandry.

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the aforementioned trans “woman”

No. 388154

please be a fucking joke, this is just some bisexual soyboy

No. 388167

Huh…his English is way too good for someone who claims to be so dirty poor.

No. 388181

>Why is everyone so obsessed with being gay and totes oppressed

I just watched a video from a girl who identifies as asexual/"ace". I clock her as 100% straight. She made this long ass video about how asexual people belong in gay pride parades. She was getting more and more angry and annoyed as she talked. I think she has a guilty conscience.

She wants to go be in the parade with all the fun colors and attention but she isn't LGBT in the slightest. I would bet anything despite being "ace" she will end up settling down with a dude in 5-10 years

No. 399343

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A question on the housing application for my university.

(Listing is alphabetical which is why Woman is at the bottom, but the whole visual effect of it was just stroke-inducing)

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No. 393353[Reply]

Who are some men who actually restore your faith in men as a whole? Could be family members or celebrities or anyone.
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No. 399191

There was nothing wrong with Obama. You must be a yuppie

No. 399305

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>Derrick Jensen
I just want to hold him and tell him that its all gonna be okay

No. 399318

Yeah, Schonpenhauer took his shit on women back in a way too (after all he'd said about us lmao):

"When the elderly Schopenhauer sat for a sculpture portrait by the Prussian sculptor Elisabet Ney in 1859, he was much impressed by the young woman's wit and independence, as well as by her skill as a visual artist.[201] After his time with Ney, he told Richard Wagner's friend Malwida von Meysenbug, "I have not yet spoken my last word about women. I believe that if a woman succeeds in withdrawing from the mass, or rather raising herself above the mass, she grows ceaselessly and more than a man."

Sage for this off-topic/man-hate territory rant but I have to.

You need to see these fucks as a product of their time. The women they were surrounded by were indeed inferior, but I mean, they were quite literally forced to grow up that way. That's the part these guys ignored in their original masturbatory works. Like Beauvoir said: ‘The American white relegates the black to the rank of shoeshine boy; and he concludes from this that the black is good for nothing but shining shoes.’

At least they backtracked, but it would've been nice if they, or all men for that matter, could use their little primitive brain and explore all possibilities from the start.

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Too many 3D pigs.

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No. 371854[Reply]

I see many threads on here venting about mental illness, but how many of you are working to overcome them and the obstacles they bring? What are your personal goals for this year and long-term, what are your goals for today? What have you done to get there?

Post your achievement, no matter how small: from getting up to take a shower, to applying for your dream job.
Share your current progress inspire other anons so they can better themselves.

One rule: No advice.
This is a listening thread with no judgement, similar to Alcoholics/Narcotics/Codependents Anonymous.
The goal is that no one knows each other or holds each other accountable; we're just stating what we would LIKE to happen, and figuring out what steps we need to take to ACTUALLY achieve this.
Some may realize their goals are not realistic or are too overwhelming for their current situation. By not judging or giving advice, we're allowing anons to change their minds, to evaluate, to make progress freely on their own accord.
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No. 382861

Decided to channel my constant terror of being attacked anywhere at any time inside or outside my house into learning some self defense. Once I have enough money I'm gonna start taking krav maga classes. It'll also help my brain just exercising

No. 387715

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Recently realized I have wasted 10 years of my life and have nothing to really show for it. I let my fear of failure make me completely apathetic to pursue anything or take any risks. Not only that, but having limited experience with relationships has shown me how little emotional depth I have. It hit me pretty hard.

But starting this spring, I'm hoping to change this. I want to start taking classes towards something I think I'll thrive in. I want to challenge myself to take risks. I want to invest in myself rather than coddle my feeble mental state through retail therapy.

I've collected so many things in the past decade just to fill some void inside me and this isn't the person I want to be. I'm going to try and get rid of 70% of these useless items in my life. This idea in and of itself has revitalized my mentality and feels so freeing. It makes me genuinely excited for the future, something which used to give me anxiety.

It's never too late to make changes in your life, anons!

No. 387811

Last month, after 18 years of wanting to die every day, I finally got diagnosed with depression and OCD. I started taking meds and I have a workbook for the OCD.

I was excited to be moving forward, but when I asked my therapist for help on the third question in the book, she told me it was too much for me to handle at the moment. I got discouraged and gave up over it. But I think now I'm just gonna say fuck it, answer to the best of my ability and try to move forward.

I hate being stuck like this and I hate wasting my days away. Even if the meds don't help I can still try my hardest to improve my life.

No. 387890

Ive been in and out of counseling/therapy my whole life. After a bad experience with being misdiagnosed in my teens and going on and off of various medications for years that only made things worse Im afraid to try again.
However, I'm struggling to succeed in life because my mental health. I can't handle very much stress at all nor can I handle social interaction. Even though I do okay in the moment as soon as it's over I just feel sick with anxiety over what I said/did and what other people thought of me to the point that I shut down.
I'm trying to go to school (online) but I find myself constantly dropping classes and only being able to handle half the workload that my peers would. I also dropped out of high school for similar reasons.
I just feel broken, like I've never be able to live a normal life working a job, having friends etc. (aside from my spouse I haven't been able to make a real friend since I was in middle school).
I don't know how other people do it and I don't know how to make myself be like them.

No. 399201

I'm >>376860
I quit the job shortly after from poor management and an overall terrible experience that put me over the edge, sacrificing my mental health isn't worth it. I decided to open up a booth at an antique style market selling jewelry; it's just a hobby, but I hope it pushes me forward into a business idea I have. I'm actually packaging my things to sell this weekend as I am typing.

To reward myself for how far I've gotten, I bought something I've never had, a new pair of shoes. I splurged $70 on a pair of Nikes and it's one of the best decisions I've made! They're the most comfortable shoes I've ever owned. My screwed up posture has improved a little bit. I got them just because I was so excited I finally joined the gym. Speaking of, I need to go today.

I've actually been loosening up and buying more of what I need and not stinging "just in case." I bought marijuana, some glass, and a lighter (which I've wanted for other reasons, for years, also). Years ago, if you asked me, I would have told you I'd NEVER touch drugs, but it has been progress for me to admit I need help, and I need to try other routes in order to get better. By trying it, I found out it wasn't for me. One of those times, I did a little too much and had a bad trip, but that trip slowed my thoughts down enough that I was able to observe how my depressive episodes start. I now realize I need a therapist, and am going to save up the money to go. I now know this is what I want, and that I need to make friends and create a social network. That high made me realize how much I talk to myself and that I live in replayed scenarios in my head because I'm not experiencing life. I don't want to be a NEET anymore; I need CBT. I NEED to start somewhere. My emotions are slowly returning. I thought I was stuck, but when I re-read the posts I made on this thread, I actually realize I've come a long way, which is why I started it in the first place, because I knew this would happen. This is like my personal accountability diary.

Right now, I'm struggling with body dysphoria, and a depressive episode with some anxiety and what feels like mania. I've been numb because of my PTSD for a few years; even though these aren't positive emotions, I'm breaking out of apathy so I know I'm healing. I've been consistently showering, flossing, brushing, and eating properly every day, but I noticed my Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

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No. 256122[Reply]

How often do you poop? Serious question.

My digestive system is horribly fucked up since an eating disorder a few years back, and I only poop once every 2 weeks or so. It hurts, and I'm constantly bloated. Enemas and Laxatives work, but I try to avoid those because it'll slowly become my only option. Fiber supplements don't work either. Everyone just says "Eat more!" They don't understand that I physically CAN'T, because I'm in so much pain and discomfort from not pooping regularly.

And yes, I've tried coffee and smokes.

How about you?
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No. 399117

you need to explain the shells

No. 399162

Nta but the best part of nuts are the salted shells

No. 399166

I've been able to poop daily (sometimes twice) from what would be once every week/biweekly ever since I've been using an ikea waste pale as a stool(pun intended) and my god it helps, how come no one talks about stools to put your feet on more often?

No. 399187

I used to drink a lot of soy milk(vegan) I had the same problem, but really what can you expect when you're drinking literal bean water.I just stopped drinking milks.Coconut/Soy/Almond are the most accessible but if money is not a problem cashew/oat/hemp/rice are other options + consider getting milks with preservatives.
some are really oily..
oatmeal is under-rated also how you cook + how much water to oatmeal you use is important.
Yes I'm not sure if it's something I've always had or a result of some risky sexual behavior.Either way it's been getting better lately, but I'm still worried.
sometimes you have to force it but I don't think it should be considered safe: https://www.webmd.com/digestive-disorders/for-women#1
>inb4 webmd is 怖い

I realized sort of late how old this thread is but maybe someone can find this useful.Also I don't study shit.. I just know shit

No. 399195

Just wash your ass in the shower if you're taking that disgusting and messy of a shit.

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No. 276137[Reply]

Etant donné le nombre surprenant de farmers français sur ce site, et la déchance du dernier thread envahi par des posts affligeants tout droit sortis du 15-18 , voilà un nouveau thread pour nous, les baguette people.
Ici, discutons politique, YouTube francophone, infos, culture, etc.

Europe general : >>>/ot/276072
Nationalities Thread : >>>/ot/244320
J-Fashion francophone : >>>/ot/221968
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No. 399010

C'est tellement étrange, hier je parlais avec une amie de l'agenda de conservation du patrimoine architectural derrière "Notre-Dame de Paris" de Hugo. C'est vraiment triste de voir un monument aussi iconique partir en flamme.

No. 399011

Not even French but, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

No. 399020

Ca me fait tellement mal au coeur…
Voilà pourquoi, à mon sens, l'argent de la culture devrait être exclusivement consacré à la réfection et l'entretien du patrimoine (ce n'est pas ça qui manque par chez nous) et non plus dans des pièces de théâtre/films subventionnés au piston et qui deviennent fatalement de "l'art d'état" en mode Russie Soviétique.

No. 399070

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Ben pour le coup, l'incendie aurait démarré dans les combles et serait apparemment causé par les travaux de réfection qui étaient entrepris. (C'est pour ça que l'utilisation d'avions pour bombarder de l'eau n'est pas possible, entre la structure déjà quasi éliminée et l'énorme échafaudage qui commence à fondre, lâcher une grosse quantité d'eau risquerait de détruire encore plus)
Les trésors (couronne de St Louis etc) seraient en sécurité.
Selon le Parisien, il va y avoir une grande collecte organisée dès demain…

Update de 23h heure française : (voir l'image, lien de l'article : https://www.google.fr/amp/s/m.20minutes.fr/amp/l/2497471 )

No. 399090

Elle affiche moins sa vie en ce moment mais il y a pire: sa meilleure amie qui a 25 ans, ne travaille pas (et pas étudiante hein, elle fait juste rien) et est littéralement h24 sur Twitter entrain de s'énerver contre le monde entier @alexeidelilah

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No. 388926[Reply]

Share your worst, get raked over the coals, have fun.

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No. 399131

So what will that achieve? You seem to think you have to "win" something by screwing with the other person in the relationship. Have a fun life.

No. 399135

>not taking pleasure in inflicting cognitive dissonance and mental anguish upon insolent scrots

>not watching your cuck screech with impotent rage as he struggles to explain why chasing hotter young meat is okay for him but not for you

I appreciate the finer things in life, anon.

No. 399137

Lol you are funny anon I like your perspective

No. 399146

Beautiful, anon. Brings a tear to my eye

No. 399148

Jesus christ you must have incredibly shit luck, what kind of men do have in your life that do those shit so much that you genuinely believe these actions are monolithic of men.

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No. 396218[Reply]

if you could have three wishes granted, what would they be? the only rule is you can’t wish for infinite wishes.

>want all my close family+pets to live in perfect health and happiness til the end
>enough money to buy a small house and live comfortably
>somehow reverse climate change

go wild
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No. 398643

>tfw already posted and missed my chance to wish for widespread mpreg

No. 398768

Thread OP:
>Go wild
not this wild

No. 398775

>a house near the forest, idyllic and serene; I have a sexy, fit bod from chopping wood and physical labor; occasionally big, wild animals roam my garden
>undocumented, unbureaucratic, simple life
>a smart wife that loves me for some odd reason, even when I'm smelly from working; she is quiet and mysterious and pragmatic, I'll never know her thoughts

No. 398780

not OP
Please take your degeneracy somewhere else

No. 398791

please write a novella based on this, I beg of you anon!

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No. 231750[Reply]

Following the newly made author cows thread - >>>/snow/516563, let's have a general writing life thread! Post your favorite writing tips, advice, inspiration, problems, questions, memes, and vents.
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No. 398700

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You don't have to make your poetry sound more 'profound'. Just write how you feel like to, even if it sounds awkward. Of course reading what other people have written is really helpful. You'll find your own voice when you write, write and write. Trying different poetry styles works too: try sometimes a haiku or a limerick for example.

No. 398726

NTA but any good resources (books, webpages) on writing freestyle/'internet' type poetry but not making it cringy?

No. 398755

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I don't know any books about this (maybe some other anon might know?) but I found this: https://www.write-out-loud.com/how-to-write-a-poem.html and I thought that was kind of good 'instruction manual'. At least it's not a WikiHow article…
It's hard for me to give good advice, because I prefer writing poems that are not free verse. So that web page is a good lesson for me too, hah.

No. 398764

don't avatarfag.

No. 398795

Thank you very much, anon! I'm definitely going to try all different types but starting with free verse since it will be easiest for me. Thanks again for the link too!

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