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No. 385665[Reply]

Last thread >>>/ot/374294
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No. 391657

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ordered a different than usual moisturiser (bc my go-to one is fucking expensive and i feel terrible about my vanity causing me such expenses kek) as the cos-dna results seemed excellent, however i looked up the wrong fucking version of it and the one i ordered has Cetearyl Alcohol as 3rd ingredient, i want to kms (at least i realised in time and could still cancel the order)

No. 391658

Same anon, same.

No. 391667

I slapped a van that nearly ran me over in a parking lot as it went by and the lady got out and yelled and me and I yelled back that she nearly ran me over. Then she got quiet and parked but I was so hupped on adrenaline for like an hour after that I had never felt that way before. It was a better feeling than the panic attacks, for sure.

No. 391676

New thread >>>/ot/391675

No. 392196

Saw a post on Pink Pall that made rage
Anon has perfect bf that treats like her queen,says she loves him but can't understand that when he gets offended when she acts like a misandrist and says all men are awful and evil even then he puts up with her
I want to find him and take him away from that awful woman

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No. 303056[Reply]

Has any farmer here been a victim of an online child predator?

I've been in a LDR with my abuser for over 4 years. It started when I was 13 (we met when a month before my birthday) and ended when I was 18. He was 17 and a colleague of my father from an online game that he played.
Because of the relationship, my depression worsened, I have developed PTSD and a cluster of identity and self-esteem issues. Throughout the relationship, I acted like textbook BPD case.

Even though he is nothing but a blurred memory now (I am 26), he still affects me. Recently I started having the recurring dreams about him coming back into my life to snatch me into his reality. In those dreams, I am exactic about him coming back and heartbroken cause I have to break up with my bf for him (which I would never do, I want to be together forever with him). Every time I wake up confused and disgusted.

I read some memoirs of victims of child sexual abuse to feel less alone, however I feel guilty for relating to them - after all, their experiences were so much worse, being physical for the start. Sometimes I think I am some Soren-type freak, appropriating other people's nightmares to feel better. But there are no resources for people who went through that and deal with the fallout, only for parents concerned about their child and potential victims.

It makes me feel even worse that I got destroyed by something that so many people would laugh at as not being real (not for a lack of trying, though - it went as far as him traveling from the other side of the country to the city I lived near and me bailing on him as he was getting on the train to my village. As much as I have worshipped him, I knew that he would rape, kidnap me or worse had we met). I have never since experienced such an intense relationship. It was so much more than a sum of it's parts. As an adult, I know that it was shit, that he manipulated me and that we had nothing to talk about, to be honest. But when I was going through it, he was my God, my life, just everything. We had our secret world just for the two of us. I loved him so damn much I thought if I ever lost him, my life would end. I wished that it truly did for so many uears, as I have outlived my usefulness.
I am not even touching the tip of the iceberg here… I feel like only people who went through something similar can understand me.
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No. 392142

I honestly would've gone to the police but my abuser is rich and nationally famous. His lawyers probably would've gotten him out of it and i'd be known as "the girl who made fake rape accusations to get media attention" or whatever…

I thought i had no chance against him because i thought it's not rape when you're already 19, drunk and no vaginal penetration happened.

Honestly just go for it unless the process would be too traumatic for you. Those men need to be punished.

No. 392143

I have thought about it often. The stalker who solicited pics and shit from me and made my life hell when I was a very young teenager lives in a different country though. I've thought many times that I wish it was possible to anon tip a police station in his area to basically check his computer because its guaranteed full of fucking cp. But I cant, and I would be terrified of ever seeing him again or him having an opportunity to see me after I finally got rid of him.

No. 392158

I've been involved in reporting people who fuck with other girls online or who say damning stuff (teachers talking about their students or generally saying pedo shit for instance)
Unfortunately I was too young and stupid to have done the same for myself, but I take pride in knowing that I can always help out other women and girls even if just by spreading the word that someone is a scumbag.

No. 392171

I did go to the police. After about a week they sent me a letter saying they didn't have enough proof and were just dropping it.

No. 400555

yes, when i was 12 and it lasted for 2 months before i just completely cut the internet out of my life for about half a year. im just starting to talk about it now in my inpatient unit. it fucks you up, but your not alone <3 (i know its fucking gay)

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No. 37809[Reply]

I don't think I could. itd get annoying too quick.
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No. 388464

Maybe. Everything is dependent on the person themselves and how they handle their disorder. I struggled with an eating disorder for years, and have recovered from most of it on my own. That being said, I occasionally binge and purge, and still have a small set of fear foods (nothing like it once was). I'm likely going to see a therapist now since I think I need help eliminating what's left of my toxic thinking. People who are still deep in their disorder would make recovering difficult, as they wouldn't support me in getting better if I relapsed, and would likely encourage my bad behaviors. Friends who have and ED, but are also trying to recover, I would actually like to have. I don't get triggered when a friend has a relapse, but if their behavior was constant and they were verbally negative all the time, it would take it's toll on me, energy wise.

No. 388477

One of my best friends who i have known since my early teens developed an ED in her early twenties (we're mid-late twenties now).
She is better now but back then it broke my heart watching her suffer and not being able to help her.
I think the most important thing is to see the person behind the ED, love them for who they are and not beat yourself up when you can't help them.

No. 388482

My best friend used to have one. I didn't mind supporting her but now that I have some disordered eating habits myself (not a full-on ED like her) I find that I have to pretend like I don't (like skipping lunch if we're going to hang out, in case she wants to get dinner).

No. 389045

>Yes but with boundaries
This, I have a family member with an ED and I'm happy to listen to her talk about exercise but the moment she starts talking about what terribly unhealthy things she's been eating or tries to get me to agree with any other bodyshaming I change the subject. If she talks about wanting a body like mine or another young person I bore her with a rant about how society is wrong to pressure women in their 50s to unnaturally have bodies of teen girls. I don't laugh when she jokes that a skinny person must have an ED or if she makes mean comments about fat people on the street, instead I clearly tell her that I'm not taking part in her bullying anyone else or herself, she gets very defensive and angry but over time she does it less.
I used to buy into her bullshit that she was just being open about her issues but one time she laughed when I admitted my own issues, and belittled them compared to hers, and then I saw how toxic it really is.
It's hard not to take her bait and talk about my own body issues but standing my ground is paying off and she is learning that it's just not appropriate for her to bring this stuff up.

Through doing this I have also realized how complicated these issues are. Growing up around someone that was always talking about their ED meant that I did the same because I thought it was 'good to talk about things', and I still do believe that being able to talk about your problems is important, but I worry about the damage that my own teenage outspoken bodyshaming might have had on my curvier friends.

I really recommend just gently saying "I'm not comfortable talking about this" and immediately swapping to a different topic. Give them some bullshit about how you read something about mindfulness and positivity instead of letting them trick you into opening up about your own body issues, because if you let it become about your own body issues then they will turn it into a competition.

No. 391630

I had a ED but went into a recovery. Tbh, anyone who isnt in recovery with a recovery oriented mind with a ED i can't be friends with. I had people from my old treatment try to stay friends with me but because they weren't pro-recovery and just wanted to stew in their illness it was the WORST to be around since having a ED really can make you so self centered.
And also coming from having a ED, when you're really sick in it and not recovering/recovered you can be a extremely toxic person and cause pain for everyone around you. You really can't get better unless you decide you want it so being friends with someone who's actively participating in behaviors with their ED is extremely difficult imo

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No. 221917[Reply]

Like the title implies, bitch about obnoxious kids and parents here.

Yesterday, I went to Disneyland and while I was in line for Pirates of the Caribbean, the lady behind me asked me to watch her two small children while she ran to the bathroom. I said point blank I wasn't comfortable with that and she proceeded to treat me like the fucking devil. She actually fucking said "what kind of woman can't handle watching a couple kids for a few minutes?" I responded with "what kind of woman leaves her children with a complete stranger?" and she was like "how dare you!" and stormed out of line with her crotch spawn.

Even though I appropriately stood up for myself and don't feel like there's anything I should have done differently, I'm still raging about the incident. Partially because I feel like it was almost like an embodiment of the ridiculous entitlement many parents have with strangers that I've dealt with in the past. Not to mention, how it was absolutely terrible parenting. That lady had no idea what my name even was, yet she was more than happy to leave her kids with me if it saved her the extra fifteen more minutes she'd be waiting in line. Am I being unreasonable for thinking that's disturbingly irresponsible?
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No. 391616

That's fucking bananas. Fellow childcarer here and I can really picture this happening.

How did the agency respond?

No. 391617

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Pfff I'm as white as a toilet. Stop derailing

No. 391619

They acted concerned, but I don't know if they really were. At the end of the day, it's my word against mother's, and I'm sure she shittalked me thoroughly, possibly even before I could. I just hope they put two and two together and realize that I've been the second babysitter in a row to leave early on very bad terms - there was the first babysitter before me, and mother shittalked her to me saying she did drugs in front of the little girl and beat up the mother, but seeing how aggressive and crazy the mom is, I don't believe her not even one bit. Also, a 5'1 girl beating up a gargantuan 6' fat woman? Lmao sure

No. 391621

You sure are a toilet

No. 391705

>fetal alcohol syndrome
>45 year old mother at birth

I’d be suicidal too if it was guaranteed I’d be a vegetable thanks to my mums selfish choices

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No. 391383[Reply]

im completely disheartened by this site every cute kawaii influencer that I like has been ruined for me, they're all cunts anybody know cute youtubers instagramers and even tumbler girls to help get the bad taste of Kelly eden out my mouth

No. 391407

Moved to >>>/w/41649.

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No. 369217[Reply]

Last thread: >>351253

There is now an Azealia Banks thread in /snow/, keep discussions about her there: >>>/snow/771485
Grimes and Muskrat still fair game.

Latest milk:
>>Ariana tattooed "BBQ grill" on her hand instead of 7 rings, receives backlash, cries about muh anxiety and how she's NEVER learning japanese AGAIN
>>Liam Neeson admitted to wanting to murder a black person 40 years ago but never acted on it, now everyone's mad
>>In a stunning tone deaf move, Meghan Markle wrote generic inspiring messages on bananas for sex workers
>>BPDete manages to pull Kate Beckinsale with his magic horse dong
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No. 392195

>no man wants to say #metoo
>implying any woman "wants" to
I feel bad for him, but why do male victims have to make such a big deal about the fact they're male as if it makes it worse because ~muh pride~? You were taken drunken advantage of by a woman you were already planning to cheat on your fiance with anyway. Not that that makes it okay and Cardi did still sexually assault him, but as fucked up as it is to say, there is a scale when it comes to how bad a sexual assault is and what happened to him is waaaaay less horrible than what pretty much any other sexual assault survivor had endured. So stfu with that ~its worse because I'm male~ attitude

No. 392206

cardi b is trash anyhow so it's not surprising. people with money and power act like shits, news at eleven.

No. 392266

So.. Billie Eilish came up with a new album and everything was fine and dandy until I listened to this song. Is it just me or are the lyrics and themes way to sexual? Let me give you a few examples:

I like it when you take control
Even if you know that you don't
Own me, I'll let you play the role
I'll be your animal

Bruises on both my knees for you
Don't say thank you or please
I do what I want when I'm wanting to

So you're a tough guy
Like it really rough guy
Just can't get enough guy
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No. 392353

Eh, I know she’s a minor but she’s over the age of consent and had relationships before, she’s just writing about things that relate to her life experiences or feelings. This isn’t anything too raunchy. I mean let’s compare this to Britney Spears doing scantily clad photo shoots at around 16 or prancing around in sexualised school girl outfits for music videos when she was under 18.

No. 392512

new thread >>392511

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No. 36918[Reply]

or at least girls relatively less attractive than them

I made this thread to boost my self esteem tbh
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No. 386789

The woman looks like that model with the intersex condition

No. 386801

This crappy thread was made of male larping trolls. Man, how come you were so dumb and naive back then.

No. 391141

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This is about to come off petty as fuck but just… Why? I don't even think she's particularly ugly, she's average at best but her batshit crazy childish personality makes her unbearable and she looks like she stinks, Andy on the other hand can have literally any girl he wants..just why?

No. 391155

>still thirsts after andy black in 2019
are you onision?

No. 391158

They're in the same league. Andy is far from perfect, has no chin and is aging like milk.

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No. 390166[Reply]

Mainly affecting VIPPERloids (kasane teto, namine ritsu, yokune ruko, etc.)

>listing pronouns in bio

>head cannoning hermaphrodites as "bigender"
>removing information
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No. 390310

why do we need a separate thread instead of posting those in bad art or gender critical one? Honest question

No. 390338

This. It fits in the Western Vocaloid Community thread in /w/.
Most of these edits sound underage though.

No. 390972

it's more frustrating in this case, no one is bothering to edit it back, and it's locked somehow.

No. 390976

the only utau maker i know of irl is a legitimate, diagnosed autist so I'd say yes.

No. 391019

eh, that one doesn't seem so bad. just remove the trans flag, change "pan" to "bi", make the height more realistic and re-do the art.

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No. 222488[Reply]

Los geht's
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No. 295564

Warum pushst du einen einen Monat alten Thread? Trottel.

No. 345163

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Wenn Bernd das Schaaf auf all diesen Seitenschläferkissen sieht wird ihm ganz warm ums Herz.

Mfw niemals Schaaf auf den eigenen Seitenschläferkissen fotografierend seien. Halte mich Bernd. Wozu leben? ;_;

No. 345949

Penis oder raus, du kennst das Prozedere.

No. 390812

Kennt jemand von euch Katyusha/Katinkaya und Tenjiru/Nicolai?
Erinnere mich noch, dass er ja vorher was mit Akira gehabt hat und ihre mit ihrer damals besten Freundin Geld gegangen ist. Dann haben die beiden es so dargestellt, als sei sie die böse gewesen

Richtig lächerlich

No. 393738

Moved to >>>/w/42255.

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No. 277467[Reply]

previous thread >>>/ot/233156
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No. 390299

Well, this drama went nowhere.

No. 390300


Seriously. You would think that admitting to being Emily's ex would elicit something. I guess it's whatever. I just wanted to vent after getting off the phone with her. I'm pissed that people take shots at her. She's a damn decent person, and I'm grateful to have her in my life.

No. 390615

I can’t stand Kasey. She’s always looking for a gimmick to get people to like her. Emily was pretty bad but at least she’s transparent about it. It’s a little annoying but she knows she used to be obnoxious and doesn’t pretend or deny it. The jury is still out on her new content. Baylee is just so neutral to me anymore. She creates such inoffensive content that I don’t know whether to hate her or avoid her. Rae is amongst the Nickelodeon wacky art challenge ranks, no thank you to her content but she seems like a genuine person. Her art can be really great or garbage, no where inbetween. But I think I like her overall personality

No. 390653

Well it's obvious you are posting here for her benefit only, so there's not much to say. It's cute you want to stand up for your friend, though

No. 390747

I doubt this person even really knows Emily. Just another stan

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