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No. 1413046[Reply]

Italian thread / Filo o thread italiano
Previous thread / Filo o thread precedente:
>>>/ot/470594

Cosa c'è di nuovo?
Cosplayer, scene varie, personaggi dell'Internet italiano vari, virus, vaccini, nuove presidentesse e quant'altro nella sfera italofona
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No. 2440763

>>2440755
e tu non sei sfigata a rispondere senza senso? Che comunque ha totale ragione, Luna non si usa mai come nome se non per il tuo cagnolino che si piscia sul tavolo

No. 2440802

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>>2439714
Ho fatto un paio di ricerche in pausa pranzo per noia e ho trovato un subreddit di uomini che si chiamano Luna. Si creano gli stereotipi da soli, sono dei geni. https://www.reddit.com/r/transfemmesnamedluna/
Hanno rotto il cazzo per tanti anni con Karen, finalmente c'è un corrispettivo, mi dispiace solo che sia un nome così carino ma lo vedo come il loro personale cartellino rosso per evitarlo, d'ora in poi me ne guarderò altamente dalle varie "Luna" online

No. 2447161

Porcoddio credevo fossero tutti morti.
Qualcuno invece sa che fine ha fatto il contabile? non si è ancora ammazzato?

No. 2454124

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Il nuovo ragazzo di Shanti o ha 20 anni o è una donna.
Quello non è il corpo di un ragazzo sui 30 anni, pure le mani mi sanno di ragazzino o da donna.

No. 2459691

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Beh, quando un ragazzo con forti turbe psichiche che mette le proprie delicatezze e debolezze online si ammazza per queste turbe psichiche è colpa degli altri, giusto?



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No. 2444802[Reply]

This thread is for voluntary NEETs who wish to keep up this lifestyle, or are not ready to reintegrate into society yet. NEET stands for Not in Employment, Education or Training, having little/no active social life does not make you a NEET.

Previous thread: >>>/ot/859842

This is not a place for ex-NEETs, those attempting to return to society, or those who wish to. Here is the link to the current recovering NEET thread: >>>/ot/1714003

Some topics to discuss may include:
>How you earn or spend NEETbux
>Ways you spend your free time
>Opinions of others and how you feel
>The positive and negatives that come with NEETdom

Be considerate of others and refrain from shaming or sharing opinions that are not relevant here.
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No. 2459627

I have a few questions for neet anons because I need to think about a lot of things right now. Basically I'm sick of my corporate job, I'm very close to a burnout, I'm living with my parents because of the rent prices in my city and I hate it, especially at my age and I'd like to take a long break soon. Here are my questions:
>have you ever worked? If yes, did you quit, were you fired, did you last contract simply end on a set date?
>are you earning unemployment benefits? If you're disabled, are you earning disability benefits instead? Is it enough or do you need a bf/husband or parents to financially help?
>do you plan to stay a neet for as long as possible or do you maybe plan on staying one for a specific amount of time? (example, my big sister only accepts job contracts for 6 months or a year at most and doesn't do shit until she can't earn unemployement benefits anymore on purpose so she can have as much free time as possible)
>do you still keep yourself busy during your free time or are you bored most of the time?

No. 2459643

>>2459627
Unfortunately I'm a big retard so even if I wanted to be productive during all my free time, I mostly struggle with trying to make myself do even basic shit. I can answer your question about disability checks though.
Off social security disability payments, which increase or decrease depending on where you live to account for cost of living (what a joke haha), I still need other benefits to make it work. Primarily food stamps, I would be kind of fucked without them. There are also apartment units with reduced rent set aside for those who are disabled/elderly, and you need your benefit statement as proof you are on SSI/SSDI so you qualify to rent there. However, since there are never enough of these units built, the waitlists are years and years long. And a lot of the residents don't move out unless they become unable to be left alone, or die. When I'm not renting in these kinds of units, I'm living with family.
I have never worked. I was declared disabled when I turned 18, before I finished high school.
I do not ever plan to work a normal job, for many reasons which all add up to being unable to perform at a normal job. If I ever escape being on benefits or the charity of my family, it will be because I found something niche that allows me to go at my own pace from home, or on commission. I have a few plans for this, but it's a toss up whether they'll pan out. I've accepted this after many years of grief, it is what it is.
If you thrive off of leaving the house and interacting with people, this life will probably make you want to die. You are pretty broke, so you have to be okay with being a homebody. If you're okay with that, it's hard to get bored. I have an internet connection, my issue is pulling myself away from the internet or sleeping for long enough to be productive. I have started so many retarded projects and hobbies just because I could. Even if I get sick enough to be bedbound, I can pull up lolcow threads on my phone and let the hours go by.
Your biggest enemy will be "lack of enrichment". You gotta shower, you gotta get out of bed and walk outside sometimes, you gotta put down your week long Netflix binge and read a book. You need to mix things up semi-regularly so you don't start feeling dull and depressed. It's the #1 trap of being a NEET, in my opinion, you have to be on point and not let yourself fall into a ditch.

No. 2459656

>>2459643
I see, thanks for the answer. I'm not American so benefits for disabled adults are different, I know because my mother stopped working because of a physical disability and she isn't educated enough to have an office job to compensate. What's fucked is that in her case she would have gotten a lot more money thanks to that if she divorced so a lot of couples like that divorce and go back to becoming boyfriends and girlfriends, so that's why I asked about it and about parents or a bf/husband. She likes to travel whenever she can now that she doesn't have to raise kids anymore but it's hard on her body, it really sucks. Some of my friends told me some of their own friends are high functioning autists and rich as fuck so they're neets, earn unemployment benefits they don't really need and own several apartments gifted by their parents but they all spend their days online arguing about trans rights instead of doing more fun things. I don't know why it shocked me when I learned this because I easily guessed they were autistic when I met them but I thought with that much free time they could both indulge in hobbies they've had for a long time but I guess even that becomes boring at some point.

No. 2459662

>>2459656
I think. Maybe those high functioning autists have something else wrong with them. Even at my most mentally ill I wasn't wasting time getting into retarded internet arguments, much less about troons.
The situation about being married giving you less benefits is true in the US as well. It's why disability rights activists have "the right to marry" as one of their talking points. You will be forced to rely on your spouse or family members if you try to be on disability and married, which then leads to increased rates of domestic violence against the disabled. I should have clarified in my response, but the other disability benefits like food stamps and reduced rent keep me from having to rely on family. Which is good, because if my parents die when I need to rely on them, I'm totally fucked.
Sorry I couldn't answer your questions more in depth since I am amerifag, hopefully someone else with more helpful info will be by soon.

No. 2459669

>>2459662
>Even at my most mentally ill I wasn't wasting time getting into retarded internet arguments, much less about troons.
We're all nerdy late millennial women in Europe so tbh some of my friends care too much about this topic without even being autistic. I think in the case of the two women I'm talking about it's really just that they were on tumblr and twitter as teenagers and then young adults to talk about fandoms and arguing on the internet became their new special interest later. If we were zoomers maybe things would have been different because we would have been exposed to different information and opinions, I believe it's a matter of wrong time and wrong place here. They both were diagnosed a few years ago as adults too. One of my close friends is a neet too and she does the same thing but she has anxiety on top of that and has been doing a lot better since she started taking antidepressants recently so maybe you're right and they all have both issues at the same time or something similar.

>Sorry I couldn't answer your questions more in depth since I am amerifag

No need to apologize, I just want to have personal experiences and opinions so I can see what I should do next before my job gives me a mental breakdown and I suspect I should try and be a neet for some time to "recover" and use my free time on hobbies.



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No. 581191[Reply]

Since we have a thread similar to this(ugly women with hot men).

Let's discuss it here.
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No. 2437477

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The kids aren't hers, but still tragic.

No. 2437565

>>2437477
Looks like the dad has crouzon syndrome and passed it on to the kids

No. 2459447

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She's 47, idk how old he is, but he looked like a blobfish since they met in 2005 and just keeps deteriorating. Money isn't worth this. She had 4 kids with him, too. Tragic.

No. 2459624

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He genuinely looks geriatric

No. 2459625

>>2459624
what. the fuck.



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No. 2455647[Reply]

From wikipedia:
>Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD), or anxious personality disorder, is a cluster C personality disorder characterized by excessive social anxiety and inhibition, fear of intimacy (despite an intense desire for it), severe feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, and an overreliance on avoidance of feared stimuli (e.g., self-imposed social isolation) as a maladaptive coping method. Those affected typically display a pattern of extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation and rejection, a belief that one is socially inept or personally unappealing to others, and avoidance of social interaction despite a strong desire for it.
Do you have avpd? You can talk about your struggles here.
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No. 2459398

>>2459363
Thank you nonna.

No. 2459487

>>2459365
I used to agonize about playground kids nona.
As a toddler Id just beat them up.

No. 2459496

>>2459365
I only struggle with this in business emails bc I say unprofessional things and then regret them later, bc they could get me in trouble. The value of real friends vs acquaintances is not having to struggle with this or play a role. Do you have any friends you've achieved that with, guru-anon?

No. 2459538

>>2458726
I have AVPD and recurring depression and I've been taking venlafaxine 75mg for about half a year now. My life has greatly improved and the anxious part of my brain is kind of switched off that was always preoccupied with obsessively thinking about how people might perceive me. I love it. If I could just eject that part of my brain I would 100% do it because it held me back for so many years. I can now verbalize my thoughts that I always held back and I don't give a shit. Coworkers like me more because I am more open. Idgaf anymore and it's glorious

No. 2459548

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I've struggled with a lot of avoidant behaviours because of serious childhood trauma that borders on AvPD. I've done the entire merry-go-round, incapable of maintaining relationship, incapable of texting, ghosting people for months without explanation, avoiding social gatherings and avoiding doing my hobbies or things I love. What helps me the most is having a trauma-informed therapist and dropping all of my failed relationships. Being alone and bored with nothing "to avoid" while doing intensive therapy was the only way I managed to do progress. A lot of my avoidant behaviour comes from being overstimulated and overstressed, feeling like I'm drowning in responsibilities. Now when I meet someone I tell them honestly that I don't have or use social media and that I prefer calling to text. What I found is that I was stuck between being so scared of being alone but being so anxious around people and that was completely blocking my life. Fixing the being alone part and is essential if you are avoidant because you will be with yourself a lot.



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No. 2311735[Reply]

As the title says.
Post experiences, why you can't stand them and such.
This is NOT about your own disorder, so don't blogpost/vent, there's already a thread for that.
This thread is about mental illness you can't stand in others.
Please refrain from coming in this thread and say stupid shit like "Oh that's why nobody likes me" or "Damn seeing this thread as a [thing] sufferer makes me uncomfortable" because nobody will pity you OR to defend a specific disorder because "[thing] people are actually etc etc" because seeing patterns is not illegal. If your disorder gets posted here, cope and hide the thread, don't be a little bitch.

Previous: >>>/ot/1470488
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No. 2447294

>>2447240
fasd is not a mental condition why the hell is it even posted here.

No. 2447313

>>2447294
>t. Angry nonna with FASD

No. 2447315

>>2447294
Eh, it's an intellectual disability to an extent. FASD is technically a group of disorders affecting many systems.
I say let anon hate.

No. 2449686

>>2447294
It is though. Neurological counts for the spirit of this thread anyway. I mean, autism and ADHD are more neurological than mental but they're constantly brought up here so

No. 2458994

I invited an acquaintance I know who has BPD and a multitude of other mental health issues to a girls’ group. I’ve been through some shit in my life and I’m trying to be a nicer person and genuinely trying to be more accepting. She claims to have autism too but I’m not sure if she has an official diagnosis. First she tried to beg for money immediately as soon as she joined the group. Then I noticed she was hiding certain important details of her life to make herself look even more like a victim. She was constantly victimizing herself and talking about her abuse. And then she went on a huge tone deaf rant about a minimum wage worker and she received backlash from a lot of members of the group. She was name calling them until she was asked to leave. There are other members of this group who are open about their BPD diagnosis but they’re getting help and are reasonable members but she went total batshit in a couple of weeks. It was the biggest meltdown I’ve ever seen and now I wonder if all of those ex friends she loves to hate actually had a point.



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No. 2428639[Reply]

Discuss the current psyop regarding ugly and old men being shilled as attractive.
This thread is also for talking about topics like beauty double standards in media, ugly fictional and irl men shilled as attractive, science about male aging and unattractiveness, etc.
>do not try to defend ugly men ITT, go to unconventional male attractions to discuss uggos you like
>report/ignore racebait
>this thread is specifically for what moids look like; extended discussions of moid behavior, crimes, sexuality, etc. are better suited to the manhate thread.

prev
>>2398330
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No. 2458996

>>2458781
>>2458793
Agreed.
>>2458878
They don't feel guilt and would never even consider dating the ugly nice girl unless they were extremely desperate, but they'll still seethe about how all women want is an asshole chad and expect them to date their ugly ass because they're nice or whatever. I used to feel this guilt but I don't at all anymore especially knowing these ugly men don't even actually treat women better long term anyway. An ugly moid wanted to date me and the instant he got rejected he started acting like a huge piece of shit so I just felt like I dodged a massive bullet.

No. 2459001

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>>2458878
and i'm supposed to care about the opinions of ugly men why?

No. 2459012

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No. 2459017

>>2459001
Put on some makeup then, fag. You're not doing it because you know makeup doesn't do shit for fuggos, and women still mog you without makeup.

No. 2459047

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No, for real. If the enormous disparity is merely a result of face paint, what's stopping you? There are smarter, hotter men than you already using makeup.
>abloobloo it's just makeup abloobloo it's just plastic surgery
And you can afford more of it than ANY woman, so why do you still look like shit? If makeup is such a cheat code, why aren't you using it, faggots? Afraid that it will only highlight that you are in fact objectively uglier than women?



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No. 2458694[Reply]

Are you a fat loser? Do you want to argue because that's how you learned to get attention in your dysfunctional household growing up? Do you have no friends? Well then, this is the thread for you!

Come here to bait and infight! Post something really stupid, and other anons will fight you about it! Prime topics are: abortion, clothing, eye colour, lesbianism, really anything that you can fight over!

Remember that everyone that disagrees with you is a man, so make sure you call them out for being men!

Last thread
>>>/ot/2442637

The "rules" are:
>no racebait
You can still do it because jannies are absent for 12-14 hours a day!
>no infighting
This one isn't a rule we only added this so we don't get put on autosage like our last thread, Dumbass Shit!
>don't reply to bait
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.(duplicate thread)
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No. 2458816

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>>2458786
Mirabel is a self insert of the director. Its why she stands out so much next to the rest of the cast.

No. 2458869

>>2458779
I agree. I absolutely love cats and I really want one as a pet but i don't want them crawling all over my house

No. 2458880

>>2458869
Then don't have one as a pet.

No. 2458890

>>2458786
>didn't like
I've never seen this ai slop but that song is extremely annoying and dumb. It sounds like the person who wrote it love memes and I'm not surprised by this dei hire situation >>2458816

No. 2458896

>>2458722
Amo troppo italiana kek



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No. 2443295[Reply]

This thread is dedicated to all and any fandom discourse. Global rules apply: don't infight, report and ignore bait, etc.

Current topics include, but are not limited to:
> Proshipping vs Antishipping
> Ao3 Censorship and TOS
> Slapfights between slash, femslash, and het shippers
> Carrds, DNIs and Call-out Threads
> Whitewashed/blackwashed/colorist fanart drama
> ‘[Insert Sexuality/Gender]-Coded’ Characters
> Debates over death of the author
> Stalking/harassment experienced by actors/creators

Related threads:

Fujo vs. anti-fujo discourse:
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No. 2458861

>>2458573
Love Live was super tame compared to other mobage that were alive at the time, probably cuz they knew that about half the fanbase was female.

No. 2458870

There was the ultraviolence era of anime in the 80s and 90s, it ended up dying out but back then things were violently pornographic while now it's more ridiculously pornographic.

No. 2458911

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Apparently Araki listed Dio Brando as "androgyne" with the androgyne symbol in this character sheet and now everyone is calling him enby? Please God someone tell me Araki didn't fall for gendie shit

No. 2459005

>>2458861
>cuz they knew that about half the fanbase was female.
The fanbase is like 90% male in japan tho. I remember they said they were surprised to see that many women when they went overseas kek.
That said, I don't think LL was ever peak coom, just the gatcha with the nost insane male fans (to the point women had to put "No LL fans" in their dating app bio). The only time it was more coom was during the end days of Super Star where they made feet pic cards and such.

No. 2459016

>>2458911
Isn't there a man with boobs in the latest Jojo? The guy always leaned into fashion, unfortunately gendie shit is fashionable.



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No. 2126145[Reply]

Last thread got ugly. Refrain from migrant talk, or bog off!

Britbong Thread #1 >>>/ot/1433914
Britbong Thread #2 >>>/ot/1730353
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No. 2458674

Did any other nonas know of any issues with surveyors half assing their jobs? I was getting roasted on Plebbit for not getting a survey, I had no idea they were so incompetent and or rudimentary in their assessment of the building.

No. 2458678

>>2458652
How many times do you fucking newfags have to be told, you don’t need to sage in an /ot/ thread except for celebricows.
>toryfag
Because I said parents should help their kids buy property? Instead of telling them to fuck off and bootstrap themselves out of it?

No. 2458682

Lolcow is the only place on the internet where someone can pour their heart out about losing their Mom and potentially their home and still be told to kill themselves

No. 2458685

>>2458661
Lmao ok salty poorfag, there’s nothing you people hate more than someone who works hard and makes smart decisions to provide generational wealth for their families instead of pissing it all away at the boozer, gambling or loitering around on benefits. It’s hard for this generation but if you’re gen x or boomer and you’re poor, it’s most likely your own fault.(bait)

No. 2458686

>>2458678
You don't have to, but due to your non-saging it's pretty obvious that you're same the anon repeatedly antagonising another anon about her brutal tribulation and trying to redirect undeserved sympathy to yourself, and then calling anyone who disagrees with you a Pikey, and that is Tory behaviour. Kinda wish LC wasn't anonymous sometimes so that we could all take the piss out of you in the Cluster B thread



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No. 2442637[Reply]

Are you a fat loser? Do you want to argue because that's how you learned to get attention in your dysfunctional household growing up? Do you have no friends? Well then, this is the thread for you!

Come here to bait and infight! Post something really stupid, and other anons will fight you about it! Prime topics are: abortion, clothing, eye colour, lesbianism, really anything that you can fight over!

Remember that everyone that disagrees with you is a man, so make sure you call them out for being men!

Last thread
>>>/ot/2432184

The "rules" are:
>no racebait
You can still do it because jannies are absent for 12-14 hours a day!
>no infighting

This one isn't a rule we only added this so we don't get put on autosage like our last thread, Dumbass Shit!
>don't reply to bait
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.
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No. 2458553

>>2458544
Wrong, they should’ve made Dolores look like a dirty child. That movie is why “nymphette” bullshit abounds

No. 2458561

>>2458553
they aged her up though

No. 2458562

>>2458548
Anon asked for an example of a woman who men think looks like a tranny and everyone has seen tranvestigations by now. This is literally an example of what she asked for. Just bc you take it personally, doesn't change the fact that she has very masculine features that everyone else notices

No. 2458563

>>2458472
I haven't read through this discussion but it generally holds true, you just need to look at the Safa thread. Nobody gets into the habit of autistically scrutinising others' appearances and proportions unless they have something to be insecure about themselves, even if they're not necessarily ugly. It's body dysmorphia rhetoric which they've trained themselves to externalise. Also oldfags will remember Lorena's grandiose sense of self and how that turned out kek

No. 2458571

>>2458456
bella hadid, hailey bieber (selena's fans always say she looks mannish)



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