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A Thread for former NEETs who escaped the NEET lifestyle and are trying to stay out and current NEETs who wish who want to get out of NEETdom
This is not a thread for wilful NEETsTopics regarding NEETdom may include but are not limited to:
>Reasons why you became a NEET and why you want to leave it.>Little things that motivate your escape/recovery.>Changes that you face regarding leaving NEETdom.>What made you slip up on your NEETdom escape/recovery.>Asking for advice/help.>Your success at becoming a normie.Previous thread
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>>2604536If you don't provide a reasonable explanation they kick you out or?
>>2604534Wish that were true in my part of Europe
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I started working four weeks ago, and I still deal with imposter syndrome and anxiety every morning. I've lost a lot of weight because I can barely eat. I'm hungry, but the thought of eating makes me feel sick. I only eat properly at dinner, but sometimes I don't eat because I'm so tired that I just shower and go to sleep. My anxiety manifests as an urge to vomit while brushing my teeth and trying to eat, morning diarrhea, random urges to cry, going mute, and sweating more with an intense smell (thankfully improving). During the first couple of days, I went blank when dealing with customers and stuttered a lot, but that has also improved. Regarding the imposter syndrome, I'm afraid people will ask me about my past, even though I can lie. I'm afraid my normie mask will fall off. Luckily, people don't seem to care much, and we talk about other things. However, I'm afraid it will come up in conversation. My colleagues are all genuinely cool, and I'm afraid I'll mess things up. I'm scared to mess everything up. I'm afraid I'll ruin this opportunity. I don't want to embarrass myself or burn out. Medication is out of the question; I'm not gaining weight again and dealing with horrible depersonalization side effects. Affirmations and self-care can only do so much. I have no friends. All I do is come home and vent to ChatGPT. I love my family, but I wish I had my own space or a partner to share my daily burdens with. I'm stressed, lonely, and overwhelmed. I'm also sexually frustrated. I hope I make it.
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>>2607647You don't really need your coworkers to think highly of you nona, all you need them to be is friendly to you so your working hours will be pleasant, they serve no real purpose beyond that. Especially the ones that don't have friend-potential if that's something you're after. So if something comes out that you didn't want revealed, they might think something of it and that might be uncomfortable for a bit but that's okay, because their opinion is basically irrelevant to you (and you're not at the center of their lives either, you might find certain comfort in that)
Maybe get a self help book to see if it can help you get some control over your thought patterns, your anxiety/imposter syndrome is really bad.