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Is anyone in a interracial relationship right now? Even if you're not, discuss your thoughts, feelings, experiences, hesitations, fears, etc. about them.
My relationships have always been interracial because of where I live and even though my boyfriend is Hispanic like my exes, he looks extremely white because he's mixed - colored eyes, light hair, pale skin, etc. I've been kind of afraid of what people might think because I'm an Asian girl. I wouldn't ever stop dating him because of this, but I don't want people to assume I'm self-hating, hate Asian guys, or worship white dudes, as is the stereotype. I'm really proud of my heritage and would've dated one if I could ever find one who didn't look and act like the usual Asian American guy (tan, buff, not boyish/pretty, doesn't care about his culture, doesn't speak his parent language, etc.) I've never gotten weird looks or anything but I wonder how people would feel if we moved to a place that had a higher white/Asian population. Maybe I'm just too in my head about it.
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>>193854I don't really have any interesting stories about assholes, but I very briefly dated this eccentric dude. It wasn't horrible, just bizarre.
My grandma was working with a guy whose mother moved with him to the US when he was nine. They settled in Florida and his mother remarried a white guy, and to his credit he never acted like he was bitter about it. He became a travelling salesman and he did pretty well because he was fluent in Mandarin. I guess my grandma mentioned that I liked Asian dudes (very work appropriate) and he pestered her to give me his number. I honestly think he wasn't a bad person, but he would say things that would sketch me out a little like, 'My mom's so happy that I'm dating a white girl.' He wanted to move me in with his mom and stepdad a thousand-and-something-miles in Florida after only two months too.
>tells me his biological father is a high-ranking Triad member>named himself after famous businessman in hopes he'd gain some of his mojo>he changes his name every couple of months when it doesn't seem to be working>he'd do alot of coke and suck and my toes>i find out from my grandma he's been trash talking my male friends saying they were short betas>lied to my grandma about his age, he was 2 years older than what he said>he tells me he's the reincarnation of this chinese guy that died mysteriously in the 1930's>he shows me a photo and they really do look alike and have the same birth name. >my ex bf is a coked-out foot-fetish triad zombie who complains about dang dirty short betas to my grandmother.
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>>194670The couple you posted are actually quite a famous couple in Taiwan, the guy was a political leader and the woman was a Belorussian.
Her story is pretty sad, she wasn't abused or anything but she basically got completely cut off from her ancestral culture. She only met another Belorussian later on in her life when she was like 70 or 80 or something after moving to China, and then to Taiwan.
Her husband also didn't even allow her to play Mahjong because it was "unfeminine" or some shit.
>>194585The biggest red flag I've found is if he bitches about white men (or any other group of men really) dating Asian women.
Koreans have this idea that white women are more submissive and expect less of them than Korean women do. Same sort of fetish loser white guys have about Asian women, except it's the entire male population who think this way, not just the losers.