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/g/ is for all things girly, bathroom talk for advice, lifestyle, fashion, cosmetics, makeup, periodtalk. Anything you would ask and talk about with your female friends.

>/ot/ is for offtopic, discussions, debates and sperging
>/m/ is for image spam unrelated to beauty or vidya and movie talk
Do not post porn, talking about porn or sexual preferences is fine though.
You can see all the rules here https://lolcow.farm/rules

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No. 208345[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about the fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your lolita friendships. Ex lolitas and newbies are welcomed too. Etc.
For drama, check out the tread on /w/: >>>/w/143376
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No. 445684

>>445298
Passing up a $80 old school op that was rotting on lm for ages because I was bigger at the time and it wouldn't fit. Haven't seen it for sale since but it would definitely go for more. Also seconding starting with taobao. Ordered a massive haul of super sweet stuff only to have my style take a 180 and selling it all… I somehow still made a small profit though I really don't like the aesthetic tastes of Chinese lolita at all tbh it's too over designed

No. 445787

When did lolita start accepting taobao and stuff like that? 15 years ago it seemed like if you wore bodyline instead of burando or handmade then you weren't a real lolita

No. 445806

>>445787
I theorize it happened around the pandemic when alternative fashion became mainstream and "gatekeeping" the fashion from shitty cheap quick fashion brands was considered classism or some other dumb shit.
That is to say not all taobao brands are bad, and some brando quality has gone downhill after they started switching to polyester fabrics, however theres no denying that taobao is a very vague term, and could apply to the very same manufacturers that produce cheap sweatshop fast fashion found in sites like shien or amazon.

No. 445832

>>445806
Yea lolita used to have a somewhat elitist and exclusive vibe tbh, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. TikTok has probably made the hobby too accessible

No. 445839

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>>445787
Idk I've seen taobao and bodyline be acceptable lolita even back when I got into lolita in 2009. That said, it had to still follow some basic guidelines.

Modern clolita looks like costumes and that is the "lolita" most normies and zoomers have in mind. I hate that this stuff gets called lolita and accepted in the community now, and that IS a post pandemic thing, plus influenced by people like lovelylor saying fuck the rules and go buy from DevilInspired. The most popular "lolita" account on Xitter with the mainstream is MyLolitaDress and that's a perfect example of what I'm talking about, sure ita stuff has always existed but at least back then it tried to look like lolita (lacemonsters, black and white, maxipad headdresses). Now it straight up looks like random stage costumes


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No. 445681[Reply]

Support for nonas going through breakups/divorce and moving on.

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No. 445693

thanks for making a new thread nona

No. 445695

>>445688
Average military wife experience, please never settle for one ever again, you'll realize how much it's not worth it.

No. 445696

this person has me so fucked up, never in my life thought i would feel like this and it makes me feel so pathetic. i feel like being cheated on by someone who convinced me to fall in love with them despite my hesitancy, has ruined my life. my other ex cheated and it didn't hurt the same as this. why did he convince me i should trust him just to destroy me like this? i feel like i will never get over this and that I'm ruined for relationships now because I will never be able to trust. the fact that it's been this long and it still hurts as much as the first day i found out. the fact that they appear remorseful and beg me to stay is not helping things. It feels so unfair. I'm so confused and heartbroken.

No. 445697

>>445688
I'm sorry nona. Divorce is very hard. Mourning the future you thought was set in stone, feels like grieving a loss, but no one around you gets it because no one died. Do you have friends or anyone for support that you don't have to put on a positive face for? Going to therapy also helped me when I went through my divorce but finding the right match can be hit or miss.

No. 445837

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>>445695
Yeah they always joke about how so many couples divorce when ones in the military and I never thought it would happen with us but here I am.

>>445697
I have a therapist and she's helped a little bit and I try to be honest about how I am doing when I talk to my friends and my mom but I'm definitely masking how low I really feel to not worry them. I really don't want to return to an inpatient facility and don't really think they would be able to help me much as it really is just going through the grieving process. Posting here on occasion helps me out because of anonymity, I feel like I can be more honest with myself in my vents. I redownload the finch app and started a new bird (didn't think to backup my old one) so hoping it'll help me feel more accountable and productive. I really want to start doing yoga and drinking coffee in the mornings like I use to when I was married but every day I end up sleeping in until it's time to do some doordashing. I have an appointment with my psychiatrist next week and I'm going to see if he can adjust my meds for me.


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No. 418013[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/399516
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No. 445805

>>445795
No hope for women

No. 445809

Perhaps this is retarded, but should I be concerned if my nigel has based but controversial views? For instance, he hates gender ideology, and sometimes he says the word “tranny” in public when we’re discussing it, and I’m worried someone will overhear. He treats me so well though, and it’s the first time in my life I can be 100% honest with someone irl about my views. However, I’m worried about introducing him to my very liberal friends in case he says something controversial in front of them because he doesn’t have much patience for political correctness.

No. 445821

>>445809
>Perhaps this is retarded, but should I be concerned if my nigel has based but controversial views?
It's great that you share similar values and hate troons together, but you should be concerned if he can't learn to mask and behave for social "politeness" if anything. I think there is a time and place for talking about certain topics, and he shouldn't talk about troons or whatever else that may be offensive in front of your liberal friends. Just tell him ahead of time to tone it down and not discuss X and Y topic if it's a concern for you. You can't have him casually say tranny faggots in front of them kek.

No. 445825

>>445809
saying tranny in public is like saying faggot in public, it's just not done unless you are one yourself. tell him to be less socially retarded.

No. 445836

>>445809
I'd be concerned about him having misogynistic opinions since trans'phobia' and misogyny often go hand in hand.


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No. 445663[Reply]

Discuss goth music, makeup, fashion that you love. People you admire, gossip, news, etc.

previous thread:
>>86956
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No. 445739

>>445724
Despite all the shit Spotify pulls, being able to find rarities and compilations in a few clicks and listen instantly is pretty great

No. 445740

>>445672
Yeah I'm a goth butch, what do you wanna know?

No. 445758

>>445691
It's more of poking fun at idea that you have to be of specific features to enjoy gothic rock.

No. 445768

>>445739
Agreed. I'm happy I can hear music I wouldn't find otherwise. Singers who are unsigned to any label upload their songs to Bandcamp or Spotify and we get to hear them. That's really cool because they aren't pressured to be the next Robert Smith or Siouxie. They just make music for the creative outlet.

No. 445835

>>445768
There have not been a better time for gothic rock - you can start a band in South America and get listeners on another continents the same week. Unheard of in earlier times.


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No. 437641[Reply]

This thread passes the Bechdel Test. Do not mention the opposite sex in any context.

If you need to vent about febfem, polilez, horrendous experiences with bisexual women, go to this thread >>>/2X/17680

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction towards the opposite gender it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread (check the catalog). Please ignore obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc ragebait as well. Remember that when we take the bait and infight, the trannies win! If you suspect a poster is XY, pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).

Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:
>first crush?
>what’s your local lesbian scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media? lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>tips for coping with being lonely
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No. 445798

>>445778
>studs generally date black femmes but some do date interracially
I have noticed the opposite. Dating interracially is the rule rather than the exception to studs, especially if they are successful financially.

No. 445816

>>445789
Just a woman who rejects feminine clothing. I'm complaining about retards who see a goth girl or an assertive feminine woman and calls her butch because she acts dominant.

No. 445822

>>445791
>>445816
being butch is about making the effort to break out of feminine stereotypes and expectations, not the mere rejection of it. you don't have to be butch to not wear makeup and heels and dresses and skirts, but you probably are butch if you go out of your way to wear vests and suits and cut your hair short and look like a visible dyke. if someone says you "look like a lesbian" it's a good way of knowing if you're butch or not imo kek.

No. 445831

>>445778
I like studs with long hair like brittney griner but she doesn't have to be tall as her

No. 445838

>>445788
Reminds me of how the entire internet memes zendaya as butch just because she wore hats kek


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Welcome to the Emergency Room! Experiencing symptoms and need some quick guidance? This thread is here for anyone looking to discuss health concerns, symptoms, or urgent questions. While this isn’t a substitute for professional medical care, farmers can share insights and personal experiences to help you navigate your next steps. But remember, when in doubt, always seek immediate help from a healthcare provider!
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No. 445810

>>445734
thanks anon. i put my chicken back into the freezer yesterday because i couldn't decide what to do. i'm gonna throw it away

No. 445811

>>445810
Glad to have helped! Hope you had a good dinner!

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Recently my hands have been entering this phase on and off where they're wildly overreacting to mild heat. For example I'll try to pick up a spoon that's in warm food, and it feels like I grabbed super hot metal even though it's probably barely above room temperature. I don't get what's going on because they look normal, like my skin is maybe slightly dry if you nitpick but there's no redness or injury. Touching cold stuff helps so I've been icing my hands whenever I can but the burning pain returns if they get room temperature or warmer. This will last for hours at a time when it starts and then goes away, idk what triggers it.
This is an issue because I work in a restaurant where my job is literally handling hot food. Anyone know what could cause the sensation of intense burning pain when everything looks normal? I don't even know how to report this because there's no visible symptoms. It definitely feels like a surface thing as opposed to bone pain or something so idk do I have nerve issues or something

No. 445828

How do I know if I'm having panic attacks? I think I've been getting them everyday for a while now, but the thing is, I'm not sure if that's what they are. It's hard to describe what happens to me but it's basically a surge of anxiety and it makes me cry and shiver. I'm embarassed so I don't really want to explain. This hasn't happened to me since I was a teen and I was never diagnosed. What should I do?

No. 445829

>>445828
Go to the dr and get tested for deficiencies. Take a big dose of vitamin c in the meantime, vitamin c reduces anxiety and you can take it every day. Have you moved? Can it be mold? Allergies?


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No. 429453[Reply]

Previous Threads: >>>/g/418638
>>>/g/409041
>>>/g/378416
>>>/g/363824
>>>/g/199512

A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Report and ignore bait (especially from those defending male violence and brutality on black women). Be aware of common infight & bait topics (diaspora wars, Africans vs African-Americans, interracial dating, etc.) and act accordingly.
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No. 445503

>>445449
It’s gonna be a long four years. Nothing can be down to pander or please these people. Take care of yourself and your money.

No. 445689

>younger brothers tells me he prefers white women
Why do I feel so heartbroken over this?

No. 445812

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>>445689
Can I keep it real here? I don't understand the possessiveness black women often feel for black moids. Even if I were to dig up statistics about how violent and misogynistic they are to black women, and all the screencaps of black moids saying the most heinous shit about black women, can I just admit that I innately just never really found them attractive? Of course, there's always exceptions. There's going to be black men that are hot to me here and there, but in general? I always innately felt like they were one of the less attractive moids.
And while we're on the subject of interracial relationships, can I come out the gate with this question? Why are biracials of black/white couplings stoll considered "exotic"? Black/White mixture is literally one of, if not then the most common and basic racial combination in the fucking world. I see at least one black and white biracial like every fucking day when I go outside. What is so special about them anymore? The only biracials that are interesting to me are blasians because those fuckers are the only biracials that are actually rare.

No. 445826

>>445689
it’s either because he’s low-key admitting that he’s self-hating and wants to breed out the black in his future bloodline(s) or because black males consecutively choose the worst women whenever they date out. black guys will date a variety of sorts of black women, from church girls to, as cardi b calls it, stripper hoes, yet when they date interracially…! but he also could be saying that just to get a reaction out you kek are you guys suburban?
>>445812
anon, where the hell do you live for half-whites to be considered exotic?? the only partially blacks considered exotic in my neck of the woods were the caribbean latinos, and they weren’t even that popular/barely existed

No. 445834

>>445689
It only hurts if you let it hurt. It’s not an indictment on you. I’ve heard this saying so often from young black men and I think it’s time we just leave them be. Only black women care about black history and culture and everyone else is happy to let it slide into irrelevance. sometimes I wonder if it would have been better for everyone if we just mixed in and let this discourse die off


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No. 433552[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/378038

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like your weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Reminder that we're all human and we all have our ups and downs. Don't blame yourself for failing and don't get fixated on small missteps. This is a marathon, not a race. Self-sabotage will only make things worse. Try to stay positive and think of the positive steps you've made to get here and keep moving forward!

Don't get fixated on numbers and give yourself adequate rest days and rewards to keep yourself motivated.

No ana, please.
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No. 445814

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I have been a fatty-chan my whole life and as such would never exercise my whole life. Well, this year I took up weight lifting and some light yoga, and I would like to announce for the very first time in my life at age 27, I have touched my toes. Kekk, I've never been so excited in my life for something so basic. I've literally never been able to touch my toes even as a kid. It's so exciting to actually be able to do something probably most people can already do.

Anyways, even if it's embarrassingly small progress I'm happy.

No. 445818

>>445814
Good job nonnie, don't downplay your success!

No. 445819

>>445814
Not embarrassing at all nonna! You should be proud and keep trying for more goals like that one, I bet you’ll reach them all in time!

No. 445823

>>445814
I had no idea fat people couldn't touch their toes. How do they put on shoes and socks…?

No. 445827

>>445823
Pretty sure she meant the toe touch stretch


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No. 348009[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/174637
Talk about sex toys, stimulation, techniques, etc.
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No. 445469

>>445452
I prefer using fingers over toys, both externally and for vaginal orgasm. I get more precise stimulation and the texture, firmness etc is more gentle than dildos. It's how I started out exploring.

No. 445472

>>445452
Yeah, I always start out with fingering when I masturbate.

No. 445522

>>445452
I switch between a toy and fingers. Depends on my mood (if I’m super horny it’s gotta be a toy). But I have to be aroused for just vaginal insertion to feel nice. And even then, it’s just a “nice feeling” but nothing amazing until I have clitoral stimulation. And then it’s amazing. I can’t orgasm if it’s just insertion.

No. 445705

>>445078
>>445085
do you guys have any tips on how to achieve them i want one so bad

No. 445807

>>445452
I have to make myself be turned on for a long period of time for penetration to do anything for me. Only issue is if I don't do anything about it my whole pelvis area starts to hurt and I get very sensitive (whenever I look into that online the first result is endo so I just ignore it)


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