/g/ - girl talk

I want k18 so bad but Im comically poor and my cosmetologist friends are ghosting me when I ask to buy it off them. Awesome.

>>586046
>>586058
Wtf don’t tell her that, hair extensions make you go bald faster. Yes even the super fancy expensive ones. Better to accept the thinning or maybe experiment with wigs, wig technology is crazy these days.

>>586066
whats the hype with k18?

>>586071
nayrt but it works amazingly. the travel size one was $30 and it's lasted me a year, i heat styled each time i used it and my stylist was surprised at how healthy my hair was

I need your help. I'm honestly the worst when it comes to anything visual, no joke, if I had the money, I'd totally hire someone to dress me and do my hair. I don’t think I’m completely clueless though, ‘cause I do know I look good with my hair like in picrel.
I thought maybe it was about the length, so I cut it to chin-length… and now I just look dumb kek. The problem is, when my hair is long and I leave it down, I look awful, like full-on witch vibes.
Am I just doomed to have medium-length hair styled this one specific way for the rest of my life?? Please nonnies that aren't as blind as me, tell me if there's any haircut who would make me look as good as this damn hairstyle.

>>585098
I'm on chatbot websites and something like this is the premise of like every 5th female targeted bot I see. Sprinkling holy water on my younger sisters and praying for your recovery.

Being kidnapped or held hostage then gently cared for and developing a full-blown stockholm syndrome. It ranges from things like ending at an older woman's castle (fantasy setting) and being locked up in the tower to being kidnapped by an obsessed male friend and falling for him. I like the idea of warming up to it quickly and surprising whoever kidnapped me, imagining how and why they plan my captivity. There's usually a forced separation and i like to picture the older woman or friend going insane in my absence before we are reunited. Pretty sure it's just a twist on a genuine wish to be rescued but it feels super cringe kekk

>>586076
it's actually not. there would have to be a way to organically recreate the setting…have the hatred be authentic rather than her trying to roleplay, and for him to never try fucking her beforehand or even attempting to be fake nice. 95% of options are also ruled out for not having a correct dick and being bad in bed too.

>>584265
Fuck, I feel you. I really want to be gently rubbed and fingered by a hot, soft-spoken, caring male nurse. Ideally, before, I manage to shamelessly flirt with him and completely dismiss the other male staff. Also, In this scenario my arms are also completely unusable for whatever reason. Despite this he doesn't take advantage of me, he calmly gives me an orgasm and he just tucks my bedsheet in and says goodnight.

I want to be a MILF with a college aged son and I have an affair with one of his athlete friends in secret. In fact I’m the one who takes his virginity. We only fuck for a couple semesters before he gets a girlfriend and we stop seeing each other, but to my amusement his gf bears a striking resemblance to me. We never discuss it ever again and he grows up into a fine young man, but every time I look into his eyes I can tell he still thinks about the pleasures we shared together…

One of my biggest fantasies is masturbating with her underwear. Specifically a pair she was wearing during ovulation, that are still wet and slick with her discharge. First, I would smell them deeply and let the scent of her overwhelm me and make my brain fuzzy with lust. Then I would touch my lips to the slick parts before putting them on myself. The feeling of the cool wetness against my own labia would be insanely arousing. I would make sure to carefully coat my clit by rubbing it into the slick patch, and after that I wouldn’t be able to stop myself from rubbing myself to orgasm through the fabric over and over again until my wetness combines with hers. I would probably get off for hours that way and have a difficult time stopping. But when I was done, I would take them off to smell and lick them again to see what our fluids smell like together. And probably fall asleep clutching them to my chest.

>>583108
These are types of fantasies that took root in my mind during my adolescence, and that I've never grown out of. Foundational psychosexual experience. I love it.

It's time I come to terms with the fact that I prefer being dominated over being dominant. It makes me so fucking wet when women tell me what to do, put their fingers in my mouth, make me beg, it makes me so horny I get retarded, like empty brain. It really kind of pisses me off that this is the way that I am, because I usually only disclose my dominant fantasies to my friends. Being dominant is very fun and it does get me off, but the most mind-breaking orgasms I have are from being fucked rough and hard and having to beg the whole way through. Sigh. I want to be forced into cutesy lingerie, I want to be forced to strip, to follow her instructions, to hear her tell me what a good girl I am, to be teased, to be forced to state out loud how much I like getting fucked. SIGH.

I want to go through my friends search history and find out they're looking at porn of women who look like me. Or walk in on them looking at it.

I found gold
@KoromaruJP

>>585975
And that's a bad thing. Acceptably big dicks are rare enough as is, you don't need to halve that number just cause it's not big enough when it just doesn't matter
>>585982
Just make him wear clothes wtf. No cock is pretty enough to keep looking at 24/7
>>586002
Define big flaccid and big hard

>>586100
not to flex but i posted him already

>>559260
nobody reacted after i took the time to clip it, i was a little disappointed

>>586100
This is like visual asmr. 100000000% satisfaction.

>>585599
Because you don’t have to get hurt or be vulnerable when you’re posting online.

>>585600
okay, ill amend that. i enjoy thinking about thinking about sex, more than thinking about sex or imagining myself in these situations

>>585579
That's exactly it, I've never been aroused by a "real" person, celebrities included (I even tend to find celebrities very boring looking). I cannot imagine myself as being sexual with another person, probably because I don't see myself as sexual in the first place, but it's probably because I'm too "old" to still be a virgin.
>>585590
I don't think being an alien is bad, on one hand I'm glad i don't have to deal with relationship drama, but on the other hand it just feels very isolating.

When I see a woman I know instantly if I find her attractive and how much. When I see men I can't tell at all, it's not even necessarily a definite no, I just cannot tell at all. Lately whenever I see a relatively fit man who might be good looking(? I'm not great at evaluating this) I try to analyze if I'm attracted to him. If I am it's very weak compared to even mild attraction to a woman, but I'm not necessarily completely disgusted and horrified. I just feel nothing, or like I guess it could be tolerable. Sometimes I do get grossed out but not always. I don't get it.

I'm gonna sound autistic and like a retard but I'm curious. I've known I've been attracted to women since I was young and consider myself a lesbian. I used to watch some solo soft-core, but I've never masturbated my entire life. In fact, I'd go as far as to say I don't really know what being "wet" or "turned on" feels like, and I've never felt the urge to start playing with my shit when seeing something that would typically make someone want to do that. I mean, I frequently daydream about going down on a woman or fingering her, getting touchy with her, especially fondling her boobs. I've never liked the idea of strap-ons because it's basically just a dick to me and I wouldn't like a girl to try and fuck me with one (and vice-versa). I am a virgin, and don't really want to have sex, but if I had to it'd definitely be with a woman. Other than that, I also like to think about living domestically with another woman or possibly marrying one one day (more so having a wedding than actually marrying). I can see myself with a girlfriend (and honestly kind of want one) but it's not really something important and I could go without one. I read yuri sometimes and often imagine myself as one of the girls in the relationship, yaoi is a no because I don't want to see two guys fuck. I've never had celebrity/fictional crushes on men and don't find them attractive. The thought of oral or having PIV sex sounds repulsive, and I can't relate to any moid/husbando sexual fantasies I see posted here, even if it's the woman in control or the guy being humiliated/objectified. Moid bodies do nothing for me and I find stereotypical male features (like muscles, short hair) more attractive on women. I can say a guy looks cool or cute but I wouldn't say he looks sexy or makes my pussy quake. I can't find the idea of dating a guy or interacting with them entertaining, even if I try my hardest to make it appealing to me.

The thing is, I've been kind of obsessed with this anime character who's canon gender is iffy but almost everyone in the fandom sees them (as in he/she) as a male + it's somewhat implied they may as well be one so I kinda see them as such. Though they're commonly confused for a girl, I thought they were one at first myself, but I think of them as a woman in any daydreams. Technically, they could be either since they are not human and can take on any form, but I imagine them only with a fPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>586034
Untwist your fucking bloomers. Only redditbased retards are dumb enough to believe that lolita was created to rebell against the patriarchy.

>>586021
I believe that mindset is more prevalent among heavy social media users, partly because social media puts a huge emphasis on moral superiority and adhering to approved actions lest one becomes "canceled." It's a bit preposterous to advocate for "eating the rich" on instagram and twitter when one is routinely spending upwards of $50 to even $300+ on dresses, but if it is done in the name of activism, then of course it becomes perceived as a morally acceptable expenditure and not frivolity. I find those who are not so connected do not care as much about their buying habits being viewed as progressive or not.

>>586040
I'm assuming you mean aside from basics such as a main piece or a petticoat? There will likely be variations depending on substyle, but I find a suitable bag quite necessary.

>>586051
Are lolita brand bags any good? I've heard mixed things about their quality.

>>586064
Imo it depends if you live in a humid climate. Pleather flakes and peels super easily in humid climates. If you live in a colder, drier place your bag's less likely to crack or peel.
Brand bags are pretty expensive for what they are, though, and there's plenty of alternatives these days if you just want a simple cute bag.
>>586041
Thanks, nona. I'm sorry another anon is suffering in the same way I am. What's worse is I was in Japan this autumn and saw it on the rack but didn't have time to try it on and was unsure how those wa dresses would look on me. Phantom Wolf came in and looked great so I was extra retarded not to get it then.
Anyways you anons see one for sale please think of me and reply to this post or something

>>586040
a decent petticoat; a good quality cotton blouse; a neutral color pair of comfortable, versatile shoes (ie, mary janes); a comfortable, solid colored JSK or skirt that goes well with anything (if you strongly dislike solids, a print with a generic motif such as florals will work fine. you just want something that's very easy to coordinate in a variety of ways); a decent pair of lace topped OTK or crew socks in a neutral shade; at least one generic KC or headdress; and a bag of some sort.

you can always expand your collection of items into a variety of colors, patterns, and prints as you go, but as a newbie, this set of bare bones basic items will get you started and will be easy to incorporate new items into. your coords will probably be a little boring at first, but it's good for getting a grasp of the fundamentals before diving into more creative outfits. a lot of newbies start off with extravagant pieces, prints with unusual motifs, and complex color schemes and then get stuck with an incohesive wardrobe that's difficult to wear in the long run. don't be afraid to go simple, and give yourself some time to figure out what styles, motifs, and colours you really like in practice. think about how you'll wear something before you buy it. there's a lot of items that are cute in theory, but end up wardrobe bloat in the long run.

>>586039
what if someone who looked like Rashida Jones was adopted and grew up to be a racist, only to later find out that she is actually black herself. Does she get a pass?

>>561164

How is this summer going so far nonnas?

I had high expectations for this summer,but I just ended up staying home. I have a comfy routine and I am also starting to dislike my friends. Apparently, it is common between 28-30. I also think easing up on drinking has caused it. I just do not want to hang out with them anymore.

>>585995
>>585984
this is precisely why more abortions are needed, less poor babies existing = less harassment and suffering in this world. If you're not already rich now, your future kid will be plunged into poverty and forced into a amazon warehouse factory, with AI slave drivers. Permanent underclass indeed

>>586086
i would laugh at such a person, lmao

>>586094
i wanted a job to pay off some debt but i wasn't successful in finding anything. Stupid AI ATS scanners. I wish I could win the lottery

>>411589
NOT going to lie, Honestly Carrots are DISGUSTING AND VILE how is this shit actually good whatsoever, How TF is this shit appetizing? I'd rather have a vegan possessed meat hot dog

Anybody watch, Carleigh Bodrug, On YouTube? Her Vegan shorts food videos looks bomb, It's really helped find recipes that look good and on the healthier side of things

>challenges you've faced
Have any nonas heard of the term 'vystopia' before? and if so what are your thoughts, have you ever experienced it before?

I think I want to go vegan or at least less meat / veggie but I don't want to make a big deal out of it or announce it to the world. I love animals and feel hypocritical eating them. I also want to have a healthier diet
>>584557
>vystopia
I only recently heard of this term but I'm experienced it my whole life

I want to be vegan but I'm allergic to soy products and certain bean types. The beans used in vegan meats like fake burgers and ground beef will literally kill me.

I am the cat-gif anon reply if you want a reading ♥

>>585879
Hello there, nona! Could you please do this one for me, please? >>580386
Also to add another layer of context: he's been talking a lot about maybe having kids even though he knew from the beginning it was a huge deal breaker for me.
Another thing is that the readings said the third party was a male. Thank you!

Hello nonnies! Could a kind nonny give me a reading for work/finances and also friendships in the rest of the year?

>>585912
Updating bc I forgot my sign and age! 26 yrs old gemini

>>585593
I don't know what this means, 2 days now I've been puzzling over it and even asked someone and AI to help me…I have no clue and no idea, but thanks for the help. I just think I might be unattractive and have to kill myself