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TONIGHT

DANCE PARTY TUNESDAY
> Share music to dance all night to! Dance music genres and subgenres welcome.

SHOWTIME
8PM CET / 7PM GMT / 2PM ET / 11AM PT

https://cytu.be/r/moovieroom

>>2615176
DANCE PARTY TUNESDAY STARTS NOW!!

https://cytu.be/r/moovieroom

playlist will be available here tomorrow morning: https://moovieroom.github.io/tunesday-playlists

>>2592926
shoutout to whichever nona drew the ultrakill. i really wish that game's team wasn't full of retards lol

>>2592926
OMG IS THAT THE LITTLE CREEPY KID FROM DIABOLIK LOVERS???? He looks amazing great job to the nonna who drew him!!

>>2592924
The quality art that Elsie gets is honestly insane. In all my years of posting on Vietnamese basket weaving websites I’ve never seen a board-tan get this much amazing art kek

>>2616091
I agree and also southern california filipinos specifically

>>2616091
>>2616145
Errr… why though?

>>2615744
As someone who doesn't give a shit about either side: dis gon b gud.

>>2615761
If poor people paid their "fair share" according to you they would be living in literal trashcans wearing plastic bags for clothes. The rich pay more because they can afford more. If that sucks then just don't be rich, simple as.

Why do white women get reprimanded for the most mildly offensive things and get degraded constantly by both men and women of all different races (including whites) while white men get a pass for literally everything.

I’ve seen white women get full-blown cancelled just for not posting about whichever cause-of-the-week is trending while a recording of a white male athlete saying the n word like 5 times in a row resurfaced and it had absolutely no impact on his career. In fact, it made him more well-liked if anything - I even saw black men in the comments saying they “gave him the pass.” People accuse Billie Eilish of cultural appropriation but Timothee Chalamet and Chet Hanks get praised for leeching off of black culture. Even white women who dedicate their whole lives to fighting racial injustice get called “white saviors.”

Whenever people talk about the story of Emmett Till I’ve noticed that people always express the most rage towards the white woman who accused him of flirting with her rather than the white men who brutally murdered a little boy (she was still a piece of shit, don’t get me wrong, but still).

I'm soo tired of my friend…

I hate hearing her say she has nothing to eat cause she runs out of money twards the end of the month.
I hate it because I don't like knowing that my loved ones aren't eating, I'm scared of starvation especially shince she used to be anorexic.

But god there really is no reason to not eat:
>She doesn't work and she splits rent with ther bf and roomate
>Doesn't wanna get a job again cause it's gonna drain her energy and she'll have no time for her projects
Ok fair
But then when the money from his job and her parents come, she spends it on stuff that's unecesary for someone who is tight with money for the whole month. It's not the fancy premium food sure but like, dude, don't eat out soo often, don't drink out soo often, don't buy soo many clothes even if they're second on websites.

If I tell her it concerns me she quickly has a reason for it.
>I grew up with mostly nothing, ofc I'm gonna want nice things now
>Oh I have a whatever house in whatever planet it means i'm good with handling money
>I'm used to this way of living
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I'm researching surgeons that do areola reduction surgery right now, and it honestly feels like I'm so out of luck. Most of the results I see on women with a similar complexion to me have awful lollipop scars. I know for a fact I would also get really dark, stubborn scars. I just would like smaller areolas and more even breasts. It's like I'm destined to have ugly tits whether they're natural or fake. Call it vain, but my breasts are the one thing on my body I'm actually insecure about. I would like to look at my body without feeling horrible about it.

>>2616317
Sounds like BPD and I'm being for real.

>>2616313
Please do, I genuinely love reading about things like this

>>2616322
She does have bpd…the remision kind too

>>2616272
>realise
>fetishise
Oh no, the tif is british

>>2616272
Is this from the KF fujo/yaoi/mpreg containment thread kek? It’s always interesting to me how wrong moids on there are about women’s online communities

>>2616293
>Is this from the KF fujo/yaoi/mpreg containment thread kek
It's from trannies posting their Ls but i found this reply from that thread. By the way, what's your thoughts on it?

>>2616298
I guarantee all those wholesome chungus updoot stickers are from men who LARP as Catholics. There's nothing kiwifags love more than clutching their pearls at women's "degeneracy" and acting like it's exactly the same as their own.

>>2616298
Samefag, this user cannot be a man
>People are fetishising ME!
I'm keking so hard, she types exactly like those 16 years old twitter fujotifs from 2020. Gay moids are too busy blowing their assholes in nightclubs to care about "fetishization" or fujos and irl gay man are too gross for fujos. Fart huffer is a very fitting name for her

How fucking cucked everyone is about our healthcare system. How people almost compete with eachother about how much boot they're willing to deepthroat from the public system. "yeah well I had a pelvic exam in the middle of a hallway while the crackhead in the bed next to me watched BUT I'M SOOOOOO GRATEFUL AND SOOOOOO LUCKY TO HAVE RECEIVED CARE IT'S A HOSPITAL NOT A HOTEL.". Fuck off. Hallway medicine is evil. But instead of acknowledging how evil it is everyone just acts like it's unreasonable and entitled to want basic standards of care that should be achievable in a first-world country.

Like you aren't making things better by "being reasonable" and accepting it. The reason hallway medicine is standard is because nobody complained when it started happening and now it's fully normalized. Continuing to normalize it makes it worse.

Some self-employed people are so embarassingly self-fellating and self-righteous about the fact that they're self-employed. The kind that overdosed on Tim Ferris and think they're so far above anyone with a regular 9 to 5. It comes off as incredibly insecure, like they developed some kind of complex from having to hear their boomer parents/aunts/uncles ask them when they're going to get a real job. I know people who work freelance who aren't like this, and I know people with regular jobs who actually like what they do, and there are definitely pros and cons to each. Not everyone with a salaried position with insurance + a 401k is some tortured corporate slave. Some people actually like stability, and some people need it.

People who ask the most mundane shit question on any forum like "I really love this song from this super popular game I played" or "I listen to X videos on YouTube every night to sleep" and then ends it with "Am i the only one?"
Yes motherfucker, youre the ONE person on the entire internet, in the entire world who do that basic shit.
I'm starting to think people do it in the hope others will say "yes" so they can feel super mega extra speshiul. Are people really this out of touch?

>>2615841
I don't think that's what anon was referring to

>>2616224
I usually assume they want to start a discussion about the thing they like and just don't know how else to phrase it because they're awkward kek

>>2615282
Imo this belongs in the /snow/ thread as well since it's discussing one of the high-profile 'trans creators' but this is honestly so unsurprising, especially the part about fishing for his 'Disney Princess wife' in online fandoms. It's just the classic anime girl fixation/objectification except Western animation. Wish 'John' had actually provided screen caps though

>>2615276
>dysphoria becomes she wants to be a bottom BL character from a manhwa or yaoi
Kill me if I ever become like that at 35. I don’t think you can peak a retard like her nonna, cut your losses because that level of retardness might be contagious.

>>2615276
>Ever since she gave up on engaging with anything that's not BL
I like mxm fiction but god damn no fucking way would that be the ONLY thing I'm into. I think some people don't understand that you need a fine balance of escapist hobbies and reality focused hobbies to maintain sanity.
I am heartbroken at the modern state of mxm. It was bad before (mostly from outsiders) but back then at least mxm enjoyers had one another. Now gendie shit has blighted it the way G4 blighted the MLP fandom.

>>2615324
It's not really trolling since so many of them suck up to TIMs. One of the most infamous "afab transfem" types that gets posted sometimes in personal cows on snow was married to a TIM (they divorced because of cheating) and surrounds herself with some of the masculine looking TIMs I have ever seen (picrel). She's not some troll who wants moids to seethe. She desperately wants to be a TIM if anything. She's also a massive Ethel Cain fan and has been defending her, if that tells you anything.

>>2616309
>defending her
Tells me a lot about you kek

>>2615746
I know someone from PEI, although she recently moved to Labrador because she said there were no opportunities left for work in PEI and she couldn't support herself there any more. I don't think it's a good situation there now. She was born and raised in PEI but said she couldn't afford to stay.

Fucking hate it when progressives act like TFWs are only taking the shitty jobs that Canadians "don't want to work anyway.". I would like to work those jobs thanks! Either give me a UBI or give me a job at WalMart, not everyone has a fancy degree and idk what I'm supposed to do other than die on the streets if there's 0 employment possibilities for anyone outside of tech/healthcare.

>>2616143
This was exactly the point I tried bringing up to my ex-friend group of middle class whites. Absolutely no response, just ignored for their own comfort of not rocking the boat because acknowledging that our own country is throwing it's working class under the bus for cheap foreign labour is "racist".

>>2616143
>>2616216
There was some yuppie woman who was complaining about her teenage kids being unable to find summer jobs due to Indian migration, and the chuds brought up tweets of hers from 3 years ago saying "If an immigrant is taking your jobs you're just lazy lol" and rolling her for it. Nobody cares until it impacts them.

>>2601449
Apparently many Punjabis don't want to live around other Punjabis, they like being the few token minorities in a sea of whites. A lot of them grew up victimized by their own community, there's a lot of brutal nasty stuff that happens in those insular "everything for the family" areas. There's some Mormon owned company here, they make a habit of finding some young, gullible Mormon and getting him to load up on debt, and then rugpulling him with business foreclosure. Because he's young and doesn't want to be excommunicated, he'll say yes and go along with it, even though it means he'll be poor with terrible credit rating for the new few decades. The elders will then move along to their next victim.

It's the same in Indian communities, every second family has some uncle who ripped off, cheated or stole from the rest of the family that they don't talk to. Typically it has to do with inheritance, doing something like squatting on their grandmas property and then fudging the paperwork saying it's his and his alone. Other time it's a business scam.

>>2616216
It's extra insulting because all these asshole progressive knowledge workers got to take a big fat CERB vacation during COVID while I was working myself to death in essential retail.

Then just when it seemed like maybe market forces would improve retail slightly (due to everyone quitting and giving a negotiation advantage to workers rather than employers) government turns on the TFW tap and now I can't even get an interview, let alone get reasonable scheduling or wages. We came so close to getting improvements in the retail and service sector and now the working conditions are somehow worse than pre-COVID.

Anyone who bitches about "racism" wrt TFW criticism owes me money to pay my bills. Fuck all of them I'm so fucking mad. Absolutely insane that a WalMart job is now an out-of-reach privilege in this country.

>>2616062
gross

>>2574989
This. I think straight women frequently lie to themselves about what they like, and many of them will settle and begrudgingly adopt the identity of uggo-lovers (even if they don't pretend to love ugly men, they will say they really appreciate 'humor'/'stability'/having anything in common at all), knowing that realistically speaking, they have no chance at a male they would actually be attracted. They have to make a lot of compromises if they want to have a relationship, and attraction is the first criteria to sacrifice, if only because it's so unlikely to find an attractive male. Then they just pick a male they aren't attracted to, but are safe choices, hopefully. They don't want their pet moids knowing the truth that, no, they don't want to fuck a norwooded skinnyfat dadbod beardo, they only do it to have some semblance of a 'normal' life. Males get offended that these women aren't ripping their clothes off and riding them in pure lust, and act like this is using them or whatever, but there's nothing to be attracted to and there's not a lot of options. While I still judge these women, it's hardly any fault of their own. There's just not enough attractive males to go around, and the ugly male psyop is only making attractive males rarer. The only valid answer is to simply not play the game if every outcome is variations of '… with a male you're not attracted to'. Like maybe you'll be happy… with a male you're not attracted to'. Or maybe you'll be unhappy… with a male you're not attracted to and maybe even murdered by him too. Some women want to a 'normal' life so bad they're are willing to take a gamble on an uggo.

But despite that, there are still a few rare specimens. This isn't speaking anything of his character otherwise, but you learn all you need to know when you're in a group of women and they're all visibly and audibly arrested by the sight of an actually attractive male (as in young, beautiful face and clean shaven, strong and lithe physique with tapered waist and wide shoulders, full somewhat 'long' hair, etc).

It's not something that happens everyday, and in some places, maybe not in months or even years. But I distinctly remember an event like this as a preteen hanging out with my older female cousins and their friends. It's hard to articulate because it's jPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>2616062
That's a whole other guy.

>>2614272
I've seen similar posts with indian moids, always that feined attraction and funny enough they always use picrel or the men from rrr, men who are considered attractive even in india

>>2616062
I like how the beard changes his entire face for the uglier too. It's almost like they're saying they know a beard makes you uglier, or that if you have one, it's to hide the ugliness of your lower third. They gave him a big old potato nose for no reason. Imagine what the bearded version's jaw looks like underneath. It's either buttchin Jay Leno brick face or receding chin bubble neck.

>>2616213
>Or does it still feel that way even with a woman doing it?
Yes, doesn't matter who. It's a stranger forcing my legs to be spread and touching my genitals either way. I can't help but panic
>>2616214
>Sounds like OCD.
Does it? I don't think I have any other signs of OCD in that case
>>2616218
>I know it's an irrational fear but I feel the exact same way
Thank you nona, at least it's nice to know I'm not alone.

I've never thought about this before but as an older teen I knew a guy with top grades who was in the middle of studying to become a doctor, and he was a complete sexist asshole who loved making racist, sexist and rape jokes. Perhaps that's what led to me knowing health providers are really just normal people and not magical neutral forces of health. He's actually a doctor now, treating real people. That freaks me out a bit too. If I walked into a gyno appointment and he was there I'd commit suicide on the spot.

>>2616201
>>2616214
Yeah this sounds like mental illness - I say this as a mentally ill woman, I'm not trying to demean you. Therapy might really help you accept the reality of needing to have your intimate parts touched by a professional for your own health, and to differentiate that from sexual assault.

>>2616288
>help you accept the reality of needing to have your intimate parts touched by a professional for your own health, and to differentiate that from sexual assault.
Man we live in such a sick world

>>2616265
Typically gynos won't "force your legs open", kek, they will be like
>Okay, now I'm going to need you to spread your legs
>Okay now I am going to insert my finger is that okay
At least all the women gynos and specialists I've been to. Look up your local female gyno/nurse practitioner reviews and you'll get a good idea of who would be best that way. Stop neglecting your vaginal health.

>>2616294
>>2616265
Yeah they are not going to force you if you panic and refuse nona, you will just have wasted time and money