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No. 425438[Reply]

Not trying to vent? Not annoyed? Not asking a dumb question? Post it here.

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No. 425849

Male humans should be more like male birds, I'm serious. Peacocks know how to impress a lady.

No. 425868

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No. 425871

>look up something medical or health related on youtube
>recommended videos turns into extremely disgusting rotten teeth thumbnails or gory footage of surgeries that should really be on liveleak

No. 425890

I get what you're saying, but this doesn't necessarily mean they're submissive. I think there are probably a lot of guys that are considerate in this way, but aren't submissive. You can totally find guys like this though. I get easily turned off by guys that want to take "sexy" photos of themselves, or ones that take photos of themselves at all, really, but I can tell you I've come across many. They're out there. Most of the time it's less about consideration and more about narcissism though.

No. 425969

I feel this
I still like to keyboard mash

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No. 354814[Reply]

Vent about how parents and/or other family fucked over you/your dreams by making terrible choices for you via neglect, close mindedness, laziness, totally ignoring what you wanted etc and how your coping as an adult.
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No. 424361

>>424164 the problem i have is that i live in a nice area, and this sort of thing just doesn't happen here. And if it does, who cares because you're privileged. I have no other family members that could help. I do have friends, but then their tied to my parents? My parents have everyone fooled. They even had the NHS fooled into thinking I'm just autistic (I'm not) and that they are poor suffering parents. The NHS didn't believe me. They knew they got physical, but for some reason they kinda acted like it what a bit outdated but not awful. Since then, I realised that I was abused in more ways. I can't go back to the NHS for help. I didn't even get help for my PTSD in the first place. Teachers have failed me. I was showing clear signs of PTSD from the moment I started school, but again my parents lied their way out of it. I'm about to move countries in the next few months, which I help will be my escape. But who knows. I'm so fucking damaged and it scares me.

No. 424371

My dad left while my mum was pregnant with me I believe, he would visit occasionally when I was younger but stopped at some point. Whenever he came around I’d be so uncomfortable like “who tf is this man and why is he hugging me”. He’s a loser who did nothing with his life, he’s been a “musician” since I was younger, yeah he plays small gigs occasionally and surprisingly has a few fans but Christ his music is awful. It’s like try-hard industrial screamo. He’s a piece of shit that uses and cheats on women and manipulates and lies to them. He always tells women he still sees me and my brother but I haven’t seen him since I was like around 5, he literally visits my city constantly and never even bothers to tell me when he’s here. His own mother hates him lol. He also said some creepy thing about me to one of his girlfriends that he helped pick my first bra when I was younger, he’s such a creep. I was briefly in contact with him when I was 17/18, quite literally to just ask him for money because I was struggling with my drinking at the time but even if that was shitty I don’t feel bad because he hasn’t paid my mum a single penny in child support. He hasn’t messaged me since last year on my birthday to say happy birthday, he’s also one of those people that say they’re bipolar and stuff without an actual diagnosis and constantly says he has ___ and ____ wrong with his health for sympathy.

My mum isn’t that much better I guess, when I was an adolescent she hated me for some reason. She and my brother ganged up on me it felt like, and I was also being teased a lot in school so I didn’t have a safe space really since home also sucked. She and her boyfriend constantly spied on my social media; they read my messages, they read my posts secretly from adding me as fake accounts, they watched my internet history, I was given NO privacy. They went through my pockets and bag often to make sure I didn’t have anything “bad” in there. It’s kinda stupid that they did that yet when they knew I was being groomed online by my pedophile ex they didn’t say anything????
My mum constantly criticised me, would always call me a selfish cow, a bitch, would call me a slut (again. When I was being groomed), we would have physical fights. When she got with her boyfriend and he was horrible to me she would always take his side. One time when she was drunk she just came in and started hitting me for no reason. I hate my parents and I’m not surprised I used to be such a shit Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 424399

That's a lot to go through, anon. Your parents really do sound terrible. No one should have to go through any of that, it's just so wrong. I'm so sorry and I know you can do absolutely anything you set your mind to.

No. 425132

I'm pretty sure my mom knew I wasn't my dad's biological child and just hid it from everyone. I remember when I got the DNA Ancestry results back and it said someone else was my father the first thing she asked me was "Why did you go and do that?" Because I wanted to, it was free so I thought it'd be neat to see the ancestry results. I was more interested in that, not even expecting to see a biological father result lol.
Anyways, when that happened she made it all about her and she was so sad for "ruining the family" when everyone else was perfectly fine. My dad's still my dad, duh. Now I just have another dad to connect with. It ain't that big of a deal I guess. Kek. My dad abused me and now he enables my mom to do narcissist shit so I was relieved not knowing I was blood related to him.

No. 425847

My mom said some really messed up shit a few years ago that prompted me to google her exact words… The only results that popped up were from the reddit raisedbynarcissists where apparently it's a common thing that narcs say to their kids. From that day on I've visited there very often..

Well, she got me in a fight again today by saying that she NEEDED to give me the silent treatment and lock me in my room for weeks at a time because I was SOOO ill behaved that I might FORCE her to hurt me. When I was 5 years old. Never stopped her from kicking my ass anyway, though. So fucking sorry, mom.

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No. 425447[Reply]

I’m sure I’m not the only one who throughout the years was enchanted by some minor social media person who passed away, scrolling through their pages and trying to imagine the world inside their head. Some still haunt me, some I have probably forgotten. Sure it happened to some of you? Tell me about your favorite ghost, farmers.
Mine currently are Sara Anne Jones (pictured) and a dead friend of a friend whose page I sadly cannot find.
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No. 425769

was she hooked on drugs when she died or did she simply take too much?

this is an interesting thread, but i can't contribute

No. 425778

Don't know who or what this is but she's cute.

No. 425793

>>425616 that's the one! Damn, i remember she had a blog or somethimg where she went full emo so i always figured it was a suicide OR that she meddled with bad people. She was pretty tho, shame. I'm gonna find the blog brb.

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No. 425843

I have no idea, and the articles I’ve found do not answer this question. Her boyfriend was allegedly unaware of her heroin usage so I’d guess it was not a full blown addiction?

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No. 408612[Reply]

This thread is for the discussion of transgenderism / trans ideology from a gender critical and radical feminist perspective. It was originally created by Admin as an amalgamation of the TERF and Transgender threads.

Gender critical and radical feminism define gender as sociological (feminine/masculine) and sex as biological (female/male). Woman is defined as an adult human female. Radical feminists seek to abolish gender as it is used by patriarchy to oppress women socially, reproductively, and financially. They strive to preserve women's spaces (such as restrooms, locker rooms, and health care providers) and areas of artistic and intellectual expression separate from men.

Trans ideology posits that one's gender is self-determined based on one's feelings and defines woman as the characteristics and behaviors traditionally ascribed to females by society. Increasingly, transactivists are conflating gender and sex and asserting that a person can self-identify both gender and sex.

Gender critical feminists strive to maintain the distinction between gender and sex. The conflation of gender and sex erases the biological reality of women, eliminates women-only spaces, and disestablishes women as a protected class. Existing laws and legislation currently being passed around the world allowing for self-identification on legal documents do not differentiate between gender and sex.

The acronym TERF (Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminism) is used primarily by transactivists and their allies to denigrate radical feminists and other women who express gender critical ideas. Transactivists portray TERFs as violent oppressors by virtue of their ideas alone.

Posts of related news and web articles are welcome. Posts of photos, videos, and blogs of transactivists for the purposes of discussion and critique are welcome. Please refrain from derailing, infighting, and ad hominem attacks. This thread is not intended for the general discussion of feminism, sexuality, misogyny, or misandry.

Radical Feminism thread >>>/ot/373459

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No. 420824

I hate that Leah is like this. I assume that since she is friends with Terri she does actual good activism. I don’t always agree with Terri (especially her videos on motherhood privilege), but she does more for women that most self-proclaimed radfems, and I think people’s negative reaction to her is disproportionate.

But I didn’t like just how crass Leah is (and I love sassy and rude women..) and how she talks about women who need support and help and aren’t quite there yet calling them HOPs and saying absolutely disgusting stuff about them. Then seeing her weird worship of male musicians with fucking creep David Bowie on her walls like what a hypocrite. And now people say she fucks around with shady men, too? Fucking lol

Leah’s face and voice and way of talking also just elicits the strongest urge to punch her in her stupid mouth

No. 420973

Leah is also a narcissist as stated in her fake female friendships video. She's says shes so good looking that women want to be seen with her and has admitted to flirting with her female friends and telling them to leave their boyfriends for her. She's like the female onision I swear.

No. 425469

Plus all those hormone pills means a big check for the pharmaceutical companies too.

No. 425829

What is it with troons and their desperation to be sexual assault victims? One of the cows I follow on here has a roommate that is being outed for "sexual assault" by two troons (the "victim" and his friend) because she was dating him and kept asking to have sex one day while they were making out one day. He had to turn her down too many times, but she never actually tried to make him do anything, just asked more times than she should have, but did give up. She even texted him apologizing and said she was just confused because they had agreed upon a certain code system with their own safe words or some shit. Now he's literally comparing it to Brock Turner and priests raping children because their LARP group won't kick her out over it. He's saying how he has nightmares and cries all the time because of it. He clearly just wants victim asspats. It's so fucking gross.

No. 425830


Use the new thread.

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No. 131699[Reply]

I checked around for a thread like this and didn't see one, so here is an all-purpose employment thread.

Post about your employment status, successes, woes, anxieties, rants, etc.
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No. 425664

I just applied for a new job opening. I've been with my current company for 3-4 years which might not seem like much but it is since I'm so young and it's the only long-term job I've had. They haven't even responded, they might not, but it still makes me terribly nervous knowing this is something I'm doing. Changing the status quo is a bit terrifying but I really want more money…

No. 425737

I don’t blame you, this sounds legit terrifying

No. 425753

Anon, you are probably more competent than you think. I think your perception of yourself may be skewed, and just because you feel awkward doesn't mean you act it or other people can tell.
I am the same way as you, I'm awful at small talk and fake smiling, have trouble approaching people (but do so anyway) and feel like the most incompetent person on the earth but my coworkers and boss love me. They always get me to train new people and want to promote me to manager and shit, when I thought I've been sucking this entire time. You are probably way better than you think you are.

No. 425814

I hate my job so fucking much. I'm going through med withdrawal right now i can barely function. I don't want to be here.

No. 425860

I'm sure there must be _something_ about your job that is at least OK, Anon? One obvious positive thing about it is that you earn a paycheck. What else is nice about it?

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No. 269167[Reply]

Bitch about your friends here. Feel free to consult the thread on whether you should have the person in your life if you're at the point where you're not sure anymore.

>be overweight and trying to lose at least 30 lbs

>be friends with obese girl who keeps complaining about how tiny I am, that I don't need to lose weight, and how it's driving her crazy
Note that I don't even discuss it with her much, I'll just make passive comments about having to watch what I eat when she suggests we go out for bad food. I've been trying to skirt around pointing out that I'm factually overweight when she goes on these rants to avoid making her feel bad about herself, but the last one she was so offended and actually angry at me, so I think it's time to bring her into reality. Like, sorry that you're way bigger than me but that doesn't make my weight any less unhealthy?

Same friend
>shits on me for things I often later find out she's totally fine with other friends saying/doing or even agrees with
>bitter AF when it comes to money and disapproves of people spending it in anyway she wouldn't (like she'll judge you for spending money on video games but $5 every day on coffee and eating out every night for dinner is a necessity in her world)
>has straight up asked me to confront her SO about conflicts they're having that don't involve me in any way and state I'm on her side
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No. 425751

>be overweight and constantly being a nuisance because of it
>over-exaggerates literally everything
>compulsively steals just to steal, not bc she needs it
>pretends to be huge SJW online but actions don't hold up in person
>thinks she's much cooler than she actually is
>name drops
>pretends to not chase clout
>never listens to other people's problems unless she gets something from it
>can't take responsibility for literally anything, can't apologize, makes excuses
>talks about being gay all the time despite dating a man

No. 425756

oh my god this meme is fucking killing me
but it forgot "she/her they/them"

No. 425762

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>rarely pays attention when the topic isn't about her
I've known too many people like this and let me tell you that ditching them is the best decision you can ever make.
I hope you and other anons here can find better friends!

No. 425775

Are you friends with Phoebe?

No. 425794

literally following that phoebe thread made me hate my friend they’re so similar

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No. 411618[Reply]

This topic has been unbanned, so vent about XY's here! Share your experiences with annoying, terrible, abusive men you've encountered. Post screenshots of men being awful. Talk about how you avoid shitty men and why.

-no femcel sperging
-please do not respond to scrotbait
-chill with the handmaiden accusations
Doing so will result in a 3 day ban from /ot/, no appeals.

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No. 425800

Fuck, sorry, I forgot to sage

No. 425802

What's his name? I wanna look him up

No. 425811

He knows he's attractive. If he didn't he wouldn't have several pictures online.

No. 425819

He looks like a pretty child, not a hot man/guy

No. 425827


yeah, obviously. just a quick google search of his username leads to many of his pictures of him

he doesn't look like a child anon, but i agree that he isn't the "hot" type.

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No. 419669[Reply]

>What is Breadtube and the leftist sphere?
A new leftist movement aiming to address, fight, and destroy the growing presence of fascism in the USA. AKA, breadtube is keyboard warriors making response videos to anti-SJW’s and the leftist sphere is a place that preaches diversity while all their biggest players are white or TIM.

>General summary of their beliefs

- They are not liberals. Liberals believe first and foremost on changing the system from the inside while Leftists want to destroy it.
-They have slap fights over the intricacies of their political beliefs every other wednesday. The only thing uniting them is leftism.

>Breadtube: The big players only. Other tubers exist, but these are the ones pulling the shots.

- HBomberGuy (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClt01z1wHHT7c5lKcU8pxRQ)
Defended his rapist script writer because they were trans and made an entire google plug in the block anti-SJW videos from appearing in ones feed.

-Philosophy Tube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2PA-AKmVpU6NKCGtZq_rKQ)
Can’t find any drama on him.

-Contrapoints (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNvsIonJdJ5E4EXMa65VYpA)
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some "Highlights" from this thread

chapocel advocates for literary throwing bombs at the police

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No. 425672

I don't have the post, but a study appeared on CTH saying alt-righters are more likely to be gym bros and CTH response was 'nationalize gyms'

No. 425675

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found it

also >I'm thinking because gyms are one part of the "self-improvement" scam

No. 425721

He's right tho.

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No. 392418[Reply]

Kinkshaming is back on the menu, girls

For too long our natural inclination to point and laugh at fucktarded fetishes has been suppressed. No more. Amputee fetishes? Fair game. Hybristophiles? Laugh at them, absolutely. Nazi fetishes? You better believe we are pointing and laughing. the more unusual and bizarre the better.

Seriously though amputee fetishists are sick and deserve the shame.
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No. 425454

Sad how these weirdos can never turn off their fetish for one minute. This guy looks like a total freak by replying to an innocent post about animals and relating it to his degenerate relationship.

No. 425481

I'm not putting effort into finding examples, but I've seen furry art that use a dog's dick instead of a human penis. I don't know how anyone can defend being a furry a 'harmless hobby' after seeing that.

No. 425501

How come it was the first time you saw something like this in 2019?

No. 425555

Does public shit count?
I think it's exhibitionist?

I HATE people who feel the need to fuck in public. I saw on tumblr once people fucking on a gravestone and pissing on the grave (same people who also had a piss fetish).
Both are equally nasty.

No. 425562


That's pretty tame in terms of 'Furry', anon.

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No. 303056[Reply]

Has any farmer here been a victim of an online child predator?

I've been in a LDR with my abuser for over 4 years. It started when I was 13 (we met when a month before my birthday) and ended when I was 18. He was 17 and a colleague of my father from an online game that he played.
Because of the relationship, my depression worsened, I have developed PTSD and a cluster of identity and self-esteem issues. Throughout the relationship, I acted like textbook BPD case.

Even though he is nothing but a blurred memory now (I am 26), he still affects me. Recently I started having the recurring dreams about him coming back into my life to snatch me into his reality. In those dreams, I am exactic about him coming back and heartbroken cause I have to break up with my bf for him (which I would never do, I want to be together forever with him). Every time I wake up confused and disgusted.

I read some memoirs of victims of child sexual abuse to feel less alone, however I feel guilty for relating to them - after all, their experiences were so much worse, being physical for the start. Sometimes I think I am some Soren-type freak, appropriating other people's nightmares to feel better. But there are no resources for people who went through that and deal with the fallout, only for parents concerned about their child and potential victims.

It makes me feel even worse that I got destroyed by something that so many people would laugh at as not being real (not for a lack of trying, though - it went as far as him traveling from the other side of the country to the city I lived near and me bailing on him as he was getting on the train to my village. As much as I have worshipped him, I knew that he would rape, kidnap me or worse had we met). I have never since experienced such an intense relationship. It was so much more than a sum of it's parts. As an adult, I know that it was shit, that he manipulated me and that we had nothing to talk about, to be honest. But when I was going through it, he was my God, my life, just everything. We had our secret world just for the two of us. I loved him so damn much I thought if I ever lost him, my life would end. I wished that it truly did for so many uears, as I have outlived my usefulness.
I am not even touching the tip of the iceberg here… I feel like only people who went through something similar can understand me.
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No. 425234

not like sex but had a cult attempt to get me to go along with their death cult. told them to stfu.

No. 425372


because stuff like that is used against you if you ever are incriminated with stuff involving a minor, i dont see why it should be a law when it's more like evidence

No. 425383

…that's why we're saying it should be a law, it shouldn't be simply evidence. there's zero reason pretend you're a minor to a minor. that needs to be against the law.

No. 425498


Yes, because some law is going to stop people from grooming people online and lying to minors.

People do awful things regardless of the law.

Instead of making stupid laws putting more effort in awareness to online grooming in schools and social media itself would be more effective. Especially with how many young teens have access to social media.

Discord has a lot of minor dating servers, it’s really shocking that they haven’t done anything about it yet. Ive heard of a few cases where minors have their nudes exposed. It’s awful.

No. 425521

How about they attack it from all sides? Do you think we need to repeal rape and murder laws for the same reason? Dumb.

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