/ot/ - off-topic

>>425808
Male humans should be more like male birds, I'm serious. Peacocks know how to impress a lady.

>>425808
I get what you're saying, but this doesn't necessarily mean they're submissive. I think there are probably a lot of guys that are considerate in this way, but aren't submissive. You can totally find guys like this though. I get easily turned off by guys that want to take "sexy" photos of themselves, or ones that take photos of themselves at all, really, but I can tell you I've come across many. They're out there. Most of the time it's less about consideration and more about narcissism though.

>>425838
I feel this
I still like to keyboard mash

>>424164 the problem i have is that i live in a nice area, and this sort of thing just doesn't happen here. And if it does, who cares because you're privileged. I have no other family members that could help. I do have friends, but then their tied to my parents? My parents have everyone fooled. They even had the NHS fooled into thinking I'm just autistic (I'm not) and that they are poor suffering parents. The NHS didn't believe me. They knew they got physical, but for some reason they kinda acted like it what a bit outdated but not awful. Since then, I realised that I was abused in more ways. I can't go back to the NHS for help. I didn't even get help for my PTSD in the first place. Teachers have failed me. I was showing clear signs of PTSD from the moment I started school, but again my parents lied their way out of it. I'm about to move countries in the next few months, which I help will be my escape. But who knows. I'm so fucking damaged and it scares me.

My dad left while my mum was pregnant with me I believe, he would visit occasionally when I was younger but stopped at some point. Whenever he came around I’d be so uncomfortable like “who tf is this man and why is he hugging me”. He’s a loser who did nothing with his life, he’s been a “musician” since I was younger, yeah he plays small gigs occasionally and surprisingly has a few fans but Christ his music is awful. It’s like try-hard industrial screamo. He’s a piece of shit that uses and cheats on women and manipulates and lies to them. He always tells women he still sees me and my brother but I haven’t seen him since I was like around 5, he literally visits my city constantly and never even bothers to tell me when he’s here. His own mother hates him lol. He also said some creepy thing about me to one of his girlfriends that he helped pick my first bra when I was younger, he’s such a creep. I was briefly in contact with him when I was 17/18, quite literally to just ask him for money because I was struggling with my drinking at the time but even if that was shitty I don’t feel bad because he hasn’t paid my mum a single penny in child support. He hasn’t messaged me since last year on my birthday to say happy birthday, he’s also one of those people that say they’re bipolar and stuff without an actual diagnosis and constantly says he has ___ and ____ wrong with his health for sympathy.

My mum isn’t that much better I guess, when I was an adolescent she hated me for some reason. She and my brother ganged up on me it felt like, and I was also being teased a lot in school so I didn’t have a safe space really since home also sucked. She and her boyfriend constantly spied on my social media; they read my messages, they read my posts secretly from adding me as fake accounts, they watched my internet history, I was given NO privacy. They went through my pockets and bag often to make sure I didn’t have anything “bad” in there. It’s kinda stupid that they did that yet when they knew I was being groomed online by my pedophile ex they didn’t say anything????
My mum constantly criticised me, would always call me a selfish cow, a bitch, would call me a slut (again. When I was being groomed), we would have physical fights. When she got with her boyfriend and he was horrible to me she would always take his side. One time when she was drunk she just came in and started hitting me for no reason. I hate my parents and I’m not surprised I used to be such a shit Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>424371
That's a lot to go through, anon. Your parents really do sound terrible. No one should have to go through any of that, it's just so wrong. I'm so sorry and I know you can do absolutely anything you set your mind to.

I'm pretty sure my mom knew I wasn't my dad's biological child and just hid it from everyone. I remember when I got the DNA Ancestry results back and it said someone else was my father the first thing she asked me was "Why did you go and do that?" Because I wanted to, it was free so I thought it'd be neat to see the ancestry results. I was more interested in that, not even expecting to see a biological father result lol.
Anyways, when that happened she made it all about her and she was so sad for "ruining the family" when everyone else was perfectly fine. My dad's still my dad, duh. Now I just have another dad to connect with. It ain't that big of a deal I guess. Kek. My dad abused me and now he enables my mom to do narcissist shit so I was relieved not knowing I was blood related to him.

My mom said some really messed up shit a few years ago that prompted me to google her exact words… The only results that popped up were from the reddit raisedbynarcissists where apparently it's a common thing that narcs say to their kids. From that day on I've visited there very often..

Well, she got me in a fight again today by saying that she NEEDED to give me the silent treatment and lock me in my room for weeks at a time because I was SOOO ill behaved that I might FORCE her to hurt me. When I was 5 years old. Never stopped her from kicking my ass anyway, though. So fucking sorry, mom.

>>425729
was she hooked on drugs when she died or did she simply take too much?

this is an interesting thread, but i can't contribute

>>425643
Don't know who or what this is but she's cute.

>>425616 that's the one! Damn, i remember she had a blog or somethimg where she went full emo so i always figured it was a suicide OR that she meddled with bad people. She was pretty tho, shame. I'm gonna find the blog brb.

>>425793
http://gyarusekai.blogspot.com/2013/07/flying-to-japan-pink-hair-mars-packages.html?m=1 yikes, found it

>>425769
I have no idea, and the articles I’ve found do not answer this question. Her boyfriend was allegedly unaware of her heroin usage so I’d guess it was not a full blown addiction?

>>420503
I hate that Leah is like this. I assume that since she is friends with Terri she does actual good activism. I don’t always agree with Terri (especially her videos on motherhood privilege), but she does more for women that most self-proclaimed radfems, and I think people’s negative reaction to her is disproportionate.

But I didn’t like just how crass Leah is (and I love sassy and rude women..) and how she talks about women who need support and help and aren’t quite there yet calling them HOPs and saying absolutely disgusting stuff about them. Then seeing her weird worship of male musicians with fucking creep David Bowie on her walls like what a hypocrite. And now people say she fucks around with shady men, too? Fucking lol

Leah’s face and voice and way of talking also just elicits the strongest urge to punch her in her stupid mouth

>>420824
Leah is also a narcissist as stated in her fake female friendships video. She's says shes so good looking that women want to be seen with her and has admitted to flirting with her female friends and telling them to leave their boyfriends for her. She's like the female onision I swear.

>>417813
Plus all those hormone pills means a big check for the pharmaceutical companies too.

What is it with troons and their desperation to be sexual assault victims? One of the cows I follow on here has a roommate that is being outed for "sexual assault" by two troons (the "victim" and his friend) because she was dating him and kept asking to have sex one day while they were making out one day. He had to turn her down too many times, but she never actually tried to make him do anything, just asked more times than she should have, but did give up. She even texted him apologizing and said she was just confused because they had agreed upon a certain code system with their own safe words or some shit. Now he's literally comparing it to Brock Turner and priests raping children because their LARP group won't kick her out over it. He's saying how he has nightmares and cries all the time because of it. He clearly just wants victim asspats. It's so fucking gross.

>>425829

Use the new thread.

I just applied for a new job opening. I've been with my current company for 3-4 years which might not seem like much but it is since I'm so young and it's the only long-term job I've had. They haven't even responded, they might not, but it still makes me terribly nervous knowing this is something I'm doing. Changing the status quo is a bit terrifying but I really want more money…

>>425048
I don’t blame you, this sounds legit terrifying

>>424760
Anon, you are probably more competent than you think. I think your perception of yourself may be skewed, and just because you feel awkward doesn't mean you act it or other people can tell.
I am the same way as you, I'm awful at small talk and fake smiling, have trouble approaching people (but do so anyway) and feel like the most incompetent person on the earth but my coworkers and boss love me. They always get me to train new people and want to promote me to manager and shit, when I thought I've been sucking this entire time. You are probably way better than you think you are.

I hate my job so fucking much. I'm going through med withdrawal right now i can barely function. I don't want to be here.

>>425814
I'm sure there must be _something_ about your job that is at least OK, Anon? One obvious positive thing about it is that you earn a paycheck. What else is nice about it?

>>397027
oh my god this meme is fucking killing me
but it forgot "she/her they/them"

>>425723
>rarely pays attention when the topic isn't about her
I've known too many people like this and let me tell you that ditching them is the best decision you can ever make.
I hope you and other anons here can find better friends!

>>425751
Are you friends with Phoebe?

>>425775
literally following that phoebe thread made me hate my friend they’re so similar

>>425797
Fuck, sorry, I forgot to sage

>>425797
What's his name? I wanna look him up

>>425797
He knows he's attractive. If he didn't he wouldn't have several pictures online.

>>425797
He looks like a pretty child, not a hot man/guy

>>425802
knajjd

>>425797
yeah, obviously. just a quick google search of his username leads to many of his pictures of him

>>425819
he doesn't look like a child anon, but i agree that he isn't the "hot" type.

>>425639
some "Highlights" from this thread
https://old.reddit.com/r/ChapoTrapHouse/comments/94416a/psa_if_you_cant_fight_learn_to_fucking_fight/e3le80d/

chapocel advocates for literary throwing bombs at the police

Learning how to fight to win violent protests is a waste of time

https://old.reddit.com/r/ChapoTrapHouse/comments/94416a/psa_if_you_cant_fight_learn_to_fucking_fight/e3ifta7/

>>425639
I don't have the post, but a study appeared on CTH saying alt-righters are more likely to be gym bros and CTH response was 'nationalize gyms'

>>425672
found it
https://www.reddit.com/r/ChapoTrapHouse/comments/arzbyf/how_do_we_get_the_gymbros_on_our_side/?limit=500

also >I'm thinking because gyms are one part of the "self-improvement" scam

>>425675
He's right tho.

>>425401
Sad how these weirdos can never turn off their fetish for one minute. This guy looks like a total freak by replying to an innocent post about animals and relating it to his degenerate relationship.

I'm not putting effort into finding examples, but I've seen furry art that use a dog's dick instead of a human penis. I don't know how anyone can defend being a furry a 'harmless hobby' after seeing that.

>>425481
How come it was the first time you saw something like this in 2019?

Does public shit count?
I think it's exhibitionist?

I HATE people who feel the need to fuck in public. I saw on tumblr once people fucking on a gravestone and pissing on the grave (same people who also had a piss fetish).
Both are equally nasty.

>>425481

That's pretty tame in terms of 'Furry', anon.

>>303056
not like sex but had a cult attempt to get me to go along with their death cult. told them to stfu.

>>424376
>>424368

because stuff like that is used against you if you ever are incriminated with stuff involving a minor, i dont see why it should be a law when it's more like evidence

>>425372
…that's why we're saying it should be a law, it shouldn't be simply evidence. there's zero reason pretend you're a minor to a minor. that needs to be against the law.

>>425383

Yes, because some law is going to stop people from grooming people online and lying to minors.

People do awful things regardless of the law.

Instead of making stupid laws putting more effort in awareness to online grooming in schools and social media itself would be more effective. Especially with how many young teens have access to social media.

Discord has a lot of minor dating servers, it’s really shocking that they haven’t done anything about it yet. Ive heard of a few cases where minors have their nudes exposed. It’s awful.

>>425498
How about they attack it from all sides? Do you think we need to repeal rape and murder laws for the same reason? Dumb.