/ot/ - off-topic

>>1242223
I hope this is real it probs isn’t

>>1242334
I mean he's literally just some dude sitting on the stairs and the girl is taking a selfie

>>1242328
Yukipon is the artist. I just found their stuff, and immediately thought their style was adorable, so I decided to dig deeper to find more. Their stuff is scattered in a few places because most of their work was posted in the early 2000's, but I saw they're into shipping snarry and other pedophilic shit, which lead to an old snarry website I found where their comics are hosted. I wish they did more innocent work instead of doing so much weird shit.

>>1242363
The name and art style seem familiar. That honestly doesn't sound as bad as I thought it'd be, but it's still bad nonetheless. In the 2000s, most fujos were into or at least ok with shotacon/teen boy x older man shit in yaoi (same with young girl x adult man in shoujo and otome, really), so it's not surprising.

>>1242363
Holy fuck this took me back

>>1242221
W-wow, is this for me??

>>1242240
ayrt
if youre THE original spinning cows poster… y-yes

Meet me in the trap, it's goin' down
Meet me in the mall, it's goin' down
Meet me in the club, it's goin' down
Anywhere you meet me, guaranteed to go down

i hate doing my homework aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

>>1242246
Holy shit wowie thank you anon! I love it so much

>>1240652
This gif makes me so happy. And good for you!! Well deserved.

I love you nonas

>>1240712
love you nonnie

I have always wanted to learn to play piano and was going to save up for a keyboard, and by pure luck I found one of the beginner ones I was going to buy on FB marketplace in like-new condition for only $50 when it retails for $250-300! I bought it and now I can finally learn!

>>1242333
sweet af

>>1241995
Those are freckles.

>>1242331
The amount of "well actually men like this and not this!!" is so fucking annoying.

>>1242331
Shay had no hips but she definitely didn't look like a little boy, she actually had nice boobs before she fucked them up

>>1242392
>those are freckles
Bollocks. What kind of freckles are red and inflamed and only on the ass cheek? Kys white knight.

>>1242419
I used to think Shayna was cute KEK. She didn’t have an hourglass figure but she did have a great body.

>>1242341
First she was Cristy from the first season now she’s Cristy from the second. Occult powers at play?

>>1240996
he's ugly as fuck at both ages. Women took the leopill so easily, who the fuck perpetuated the idea that this man is attractive? They've even convinced him of it too, look at his punchable smug ugly face. Disgusting, nasty greasy man.

>>1240996
I noticed that the way men age is that their facial features remain the same but their heads get bigger. It's comical

>>1242353
I wish, literally am so embarrassed to admit that I got it wrong (crying, repenting). She’s so iconic could’ve sworn she had to be OG season one, but no. She just eclipsed everyone and made me forget the first season.

She is everything Ezra Miller could fucking never be.

>>1241091
Read this comment like 3 times and still do not understand what you are trying to say, sound like a personal problem on your end tho

>>1242008
This would maybe check out if they didn’t consistently constantly blur out her scooped out eyesockets

>>1232667
Anon I have the same issue. I hate how the rumination takes over so quick but you have to snap yourself out of it. Have you tried using the tip skill where you hold ice in your head or dunk your head in ice water?

so it's celeb obsessed anon from >>1215502
I'm finally trying to seek trauma therapy but I'm not sure if my current therapist is trained in anything but DBT which I am prepared to do again. in conjunction with DBT is there any other type of therapy should consider that will help my celeb worship problem? I still look at pictures of him almost everyday and I'm trying to taper off. My therapist said EDMR hasn't worked for a lot of her bpdfag patients, but I'm willing to try anything, anything to make it stop.

I have trouble remembering a lot of events and a lot of my traumatic memories were repackaged into my aforementioned celebrity dreams depersonalizations and dissociating where we were in a relationship and he abused me >>1215607

recommendations from someone who has similar experiences would be great. or just anything. I want to heal. I know someone who knows a different therapist (she serves a lot of fucked up patients) and im going to ask both of them for advice on what's best (my main already said she's not sure EDMR will work for me)

>>1240610
I think it's great that you already have enough insight to see where your anxieties lie. As you said, you look for emotional validation when you're venting and if someone doesn't tell you what you want to hear then you take it as rejection. I have felt that way exactly before, but I think it's helped me to think of the overall benefits of the friendship. Overall, if we have a nice friendship then I just see those instances where I feel rejected as bumps in the road. I have a friend who I vent to a lot and because I talk to her a lot about personal things, there are some times I feel frustrated or upset when she says something that feels invalidating or like she really doesn't understand where I'm coming from. For a while I thought that maybe we were growing apart and I should just stop talking to her, but I tried to put it into perspective. Just as there have been times I feel like she really doesn't understand me, there have also been times that she has really validated my issues and made me feel cared for. I think those good experiences with her outweigh the bad so that helps me when I'm feeling frustrated. I also think that venting to friends is okay, but doing it too much can cause you to become codependent on others to provide you with the emotional validation that ultimately you can only provide yourself. It's not your friends' jobs to tell you what you want to hear to feel better, although they can listen and try to understand if they're good friends. Everyone misses the mark sometimes and it doesn't mean that they disagree with you or that they think you're worthless. Heck there have been times my friends have vented to me and despite my hardest to console them and validate them, I could tell I just wasn't able to tell them what they wanted to hear (nor could I figure it out). It's just a matter of perspectives not matching up. As for why it's helpful to have friends- I really do think it's important to talk to others every once in a while. When you get too wrapped up in your own thoughts, it's easy to lose touch with reality and that can be tough if you're someone who is very anxious and self-critical.

>>1242231
Address the core trauma. You’ll stop worshipping fugly men who will never love you once you’ve been bullied enough and/or get a boyfriend.

>>1242280
okay, I'll address what i can remember. My memory once again is pretty shit but I'll try my hardest

>>1239263
Unfortunately I don't have any classic milk saved from her as a lot of it happened before I discovered lolcow or when I just lurked here. Laura is very good at disappearing from the internet and nuking everything, she's like a human whack-a-mole popping up all over radblr and troonblr. I wish I saved those rap videos though, that was some delicious full fat milk. She was like Eminem's even more retarded Portuguese cousin.

“Girlfag” hate how tumblr kweers make a mockery of homophobia. Almost certain “boydyke” must be a thing somewhere makes me want to a-log. The pronouns are all edgy and stupid too

>>1242253
She also has this on the main page kek

>>1233720
>1st generation American
>Latino

Give me strength not to beat this gringa. Seconding the other anon that I believe the NPD lmfao

>>1242255
Why do they type so obnoxiously? These kids should learn to use apostrophes and commas, jfc

>>1242243
Click above and find out

>>1242245
I see it but I'm still confused? Are they polyamorous bdsm furries? What the fuck are they?

>>1242249
Your guess is as good as mine kek. I don't get them either and have know idea why they're so popular or have become synonymous with gay stuff, or that they need an entire fucking organization dedicated to them. I guess it's like modern day leather daddy stuff for furries? But I think non furries use them too so idk

>>1224141
I find it ironic that white people are now represented on the flag, and not just anywhere but first and foremost, thanks to trannies. thanks sweeties, love you too.
>>1228340
I had a gay coworker grope my boobs. i was dumb at the time and allowed it because i thought if he was gay it was fine. honestly weird, because lesbians wouldn't go up to scrotes and play with their dicks. (and yes he really was gay, he told me in detail what he did at bathhouses.) i don't believe men are actually ever gay, i think some just give up on women like fox and grapes style because they're afraid to try and fail, but gay men have lower standards and will fuck even them. or maybe prostate orgasms are addictive like pornography is and causes their dicks to break so they can't enjoy PIV sex anymore. maybe both.

>>1242232
I’m >>1241978 and I would like to issue a public apology for my insolence. I meant moderately sexy men in puphoods, forgive me.

>>1240764
Sanic. Should I take edibles?

Will my life get better?

>>1230405
Did I do well in my last exam?

should i go to work tomorrow

Will it be alright?

>>1241179
>>1241690
Right? Imagine buying stickers, void tickets, and vintage paper just to look like you have an interesting life. Sad.

>>1242171
Is it really that deep though? She probably just likes the look of it and doesn't want to spend ages combing through old newspaper to find clippings. Ever since anime rooms started getting posted there's been so much anons insisting every single thing someone does has to be original or else they have no personality kek.

>>1242336
Yeah anon, you'd be right if they were like, putting anime posters up, but the entire point of making a little scrap journal is… making a scrap journal. She could literally just print out pages of others people's journals and staple them together and claim it's hers at this point. It's not about "AnoNs WanT OriGInalitY" it's about that person's hobby being a hobby that is wholly based around themself.

i think part of it also is how much the things they do but are plastic shitcrap. plastic sheets with pretty pictures of the sky, you could.. print those out yourself. pinterest exists. and then you have exactly what you want. washi tape.. you can buy in person for much easier and cheaper. cheap daiso/dollar store quality stationary probably being sold for 500% of retail price, plus shipping. and vintage paperscraps, you can get mass lots of online pretty cheap. to me it's not that these people buy it, it's that they also buy the most hollow, soulless version possible, when a "better"/less consoomy version is almost equal effort, aside from having to make choices about what you personally like.

>>1242346
I don't journal so maybe I'm misunderstanding it but isn't it just making art? All the videos of journals I've got reccomended to me seem to just be like collage art pieces.