AYRT (I hope I used that right), but unfortunately, there is more loss when you age. All the adults in my life from my childhood are gone now, you’ll lose a lot in life, not just lovers. I don’t want to sound like everything is worse when you’re older, cause it’s something you get used to. I’ve found the best way to cope is forcing yourself through it. This comes easier if you have things to survive for, things that you can’t allow yourself to rot away with, because you don’t want to bring that pain on another being. At first I only trudged through the loss for my cat, then for my daughters, and now it’s for my entire family. Nowadays, it’s very easy to rot away at home when you mourn. I truly think if I was born in this generation, I would not have gotten through my first loss, the others would be unthinkable. You just have to find something else in life worth living for, and force yourself to be present for it. Even if you just have to keep your plants alive, it’s better than withering away in bed. >>1795815
I love a good gossip, but most women my age wouldn’t really care for the gossip I enjoy reading about here. If I tried to talk to my grandma group about Shay or Mariah or Luna, I think they’d assume I’ve completely lost it and that I’m making up words Hehe. But I think older women would enjoy the g board>>1796072
Women like you who denounce everything they hear as false never get far in life. It’s wise to be cautious and take stories with a grain of salt, especially anonymous stories, but if you used your big girl brain, you’d be able to tell a lie from the truth. Do you think a prankster would be so specific? I bet you don’t even remember your grandmothers birth year, but I can name the exact date and time I learned my lovers died. Maybe zip your lips and keep those rude thoughts inside.