>>2540008Your health is your business. It's not anybody else's, so you really don't need to be telling people that you're disabled if it isn't already obvious. Maybe you didn't know because your autistic, but going up to people and talking about your disability makes people uncomfortable. It's not so much that they don't understand that it doesn't bother you, it's that they don't understand why you think it's an acceptable thing to bring up in conversation. If other people can tell that you're autistic, you should probably buy some self-help books for autists, or attending therapy to learn how to mitigate the symptoms of your autism.
>normies talk about their classes and/or jobs and their existing friends so much that it feels like I'm just locked out of conversation most of the time.You're locking yourself out of the conversation by refusing to get a job or go to school. Normies talk about their classes or jobs because those topics are used as a starting point for conversations because almost everyone either has a job or goes to school, so it's easy for people to relate and contribute to the conversation.
>people tend to gravitate away from me towards others who actually share their experiences.Working and studying aren't the only 'experiences' that exist. Have you ever thought about volunteering or doing charitable work? Lots of animal shelters need people to play with the animals, lots of old age homes need people to talk to the elderly, lots of soup kitchens need people to help cook.
>How to get out of this dilemma?If you're really going to avoid getting a job and avoid studying, then you have to get a life. That includes volunteering, going to social clubs, going out and about often, traveling, engaging in your hobbies and interests, attending conventions, going to hobby clubs. The more active and full your life is, the less that work and school matter. You probably seem uninteresting in conversation because you are uninteresting (no offense). You have to actually create a life for yourself that you can tell others about.