>>437588There are more and more women who have married non-muslim men, especially as people immigrate and younger generations age. I will be one of them because I'm converting I can't exactly just abandon my long-term relationship. Of course I hope he will convert to make everything easier for both of us, especially in terms of moral alignments. You could look into other religious dating apps or just filter for religious men on regular ones. Just make your boundaries very clear.
Quran doesn't explicitly say anything about who women can marry, and the Prophet's swt own daughter Zaynab married a pagan. The main reason why scholars agree men can do interfaith is because of trad patriarchal societies' view on children, but modern women are perfectly capable of ensuring faith in their households. Having children is encouraged but not required, not sure where you got that idea from, you will be fine living a child-free life.
Finally for the parents,
https://islam.stackexchange.com/questions/49501/does-islam-excuse-abusive-parenting You do not need to submit to mistreatment and there are multiple examples of prophets and disciples distancing themselves from their parents. 'Only when we are mentally healthy can we give others their rights according to Islam. If you feel that you can have a better relationship with your mother from a long distance, then distancing yourself from her would be rewarding for you" I think this sums it up perfectly. My relationship with my parents was extremely bad, bordering on no contact. Distance significantly helped heal this relationship, and helped maintain the respect. All you can do is try to be the best person you can be without enduring harm.