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No. 335170[Reply]

for anyone dealing with sexual problems that may or may not stem from sexual trauma. no active thread specifically for this topic. a place to vent and/or discuss, to feel less alone in these struggles.
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No. 517223

>>516553
My chronic pain also relates to this. Because of what happened to me, I didn't like to touch myself, even to wash. Because I didn't wash properly, and because I never touched myself, I developed clitoral phimosis. At 24 I got my first bf and at 26 the sex I had with my bf at the time partially detached my phimosis. Because it didn't detach completely, it got infected and I developed a chronic UTI. The chronic UTI gave me vuvlodynia, nerve pain, pelvic floor dysfunction, plus clitorodynia from the phimosis. At 26 I became disabled with chronic pain and at 29 I still have pain, a chronic UTI, plus all the other issues that stem from it. Now I have to get surgery to remove the phimosis and hope that stops the UTIs from coming back.
And all of this because a deranged moid had to touch me. My ex bf also coerced me into sex while this was happening, so I got abused twice as well. Wish I could just kms honestly.

No. 518877

I am a dead fish in bed. I can't find it in myself to be responsive, and I can't really imagine changing. I don't want to express that the moid is giving me pleasure or that I'm reacting to anything he's doing.

No. 518878

>>518877
Either you've made up your mind that you don't want to show any vulnerability to a man and that's that- or you feel like you havent yet met a man that deserves the sexual respect of responding to pleasure. If its the former then that's your choice to make. If it's the latter than it's time to find someone who you aren't afraid to show that sort of vulnerability to.

No. 518939

i take zoloft for ptsd, anxiety and depression and it eases my symptoms so much during the day but i still keep having disturbing rape molestation nightmares. during the day i dont feel any negative thoughts related to my trauma anymore, but its like my deep subconscious is still in pain

No. 519298

I've been out as a lesbian for a long time, had three long-term relationships, fell in love, had sex, almost married, etc. But I've been so sex repulsed for the past year that nothing makes sense anymore. No sexual trauma happened, I've never even kissed anyone else after breaking up my last relationship three years ago, because it feels weird and hopeless.
I really know that intimacy only sits right with me when I like the woman so it might be that I just haven't trusted/liked anyone lately. But I can't even feel attraction if I don't see a future, and I can't see a future if I can't feel attraction.
It's genuinely so stupid. My last orgasms were from sexual dreams about masturbating only. Can this be from medication? Am I a late-bloomer autist? Is it just the 30s approaching?


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No. 482015[Reply]

A thread to share, appreciate and discuss male hands
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No. 482749

>>482222
hands that signal you actually use them for more than video games. also incels have weirdly soft hands, I assume it's all the lotion from jacking off

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No. 488047

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>>486948
Does anybody really like rings? Especially when the guy obviously has hand hair but you can tell he's a little insecure about it and shaves it?
I think 3 per hand is a little too much though, and this hand is a little ugly but this is the best image I could find on goog

No. 488052

>>488047
signet ring on the pinkie is a classic and always hot to me, but I feel like younger guys don't wear them that much. seems like an old moid trend

I think that hand is hot too lol, like when the fingers look like uniform sausages and the palm is broad and meaty

No. 519296

I've never touched a guy's hands before and I want to so badly. Whenever I'm working with a guy if it's during school or work I will just hyper focus on their hands. I love online media that has their hands in them but they don't know how much attention it's drawing to me. I loveee mirror pictures for this reason. I try to go to subreddits like r/malehands but they just try so hard.


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No. 203705[Reply]

I believe we should have a thread about binge eating. A lot of women suffer from this issue and it is very embarrassing to discuss. The rona virus hasn't helped a lot of us binge eaters, and in my case personally, it's only increased my eating.
Feel free to discuss whatever you want, what you binge eat, how long you've been doing it, how does it affect your day to day life, how long have you gone without having a binge etc.
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No. 489757

>>476689
I refuse to go back on SSRIs because the emotional blunting and anhedonia is too much for me, but if anyone has other meds that worked for them I'd like to know. I just can't afford stimulants or Wellbutrin.

No. 491731

Anyone binge so hard that their body hurts from water retention the next day? I've never met anyone that has related to this but it's like my whole body retains water and my skin hurts from stretching. My binges are upwards of 5-6k calories

No. 493060

>>491731
kind of, at my worst there were days I had to call in sick the morning after a binge because I was so bloated everything hurt + the emotional pain from it probably worsened those symptoms too

No. 519171

I noticed my binging happens due to cope. If I'm suffering at work or have a responsibly I'm afraid of or back when I had exams and was worried about my grades I would destroy anything edible because eating meant avoiding. And I ate despite not liking the food or feeling full. It really is escape. Fix your lives nonas, all our problems are not worth ruining our health and well being for

No. 519258

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Do any other nonnas here have any impulse control disorders like adhd or aspd? I have the latter and its making my binge eating problem so much worse. I have zero self control when it comes to anything that brings me pleasure and this includes food. I can finish a huge bag of groceries in less than a day its fucking horrid. The only reason why Im not a fatass by now is because I have an anomally fast metabolism. Half the time Im binging I dont even chew Im just stuffing my face with food without a thought. Theres something missing inside of me and Im trying to replace it with food (and other hedonistic pleasures). Im not even sure that I want to quit because shit it just feels good but one day I will have to do something about my binging problem if I dont wanna be subjected to countless potentially lethal health issues


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No. 418500[Reply]

thread #1 >>56468
thread #2 >>199767
thread #3 >>333126

if you're still extremely unsure if you're bisexual, the questioning thread is likely a better fit. talk about your gender preferences, how you discovered you were bi, what's your type in men and women, how you feel in the community, any struggles you've had with bisexuality, etc.
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No. 518733

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A really handsome GNC woman I was infatuated with more than anyone else in my life got married to an obese older man and I think I legitimately have trauma from it. If I remember it when I’m not expecting it, I wind up having panic attacks. I am a grown woman.

Due to this, my self esteem could literally not be lower. What do I do? I am such a mental dumpster fire. Like seriously, no one knows how much this one dumb thing has completely destroyed me mentally. I wish memory erasing was real because aside from that idk how to fix myself.

No. 518879

>>518733
That's horrible nonnie. I can relate, unfortunately. I bet you also thought "my GNC QUEEN would NEVER fall head over heels for a moid and start transforming into a tradwife" before reality hit you out of nowhere.

No. 518911

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I really feel like I'm going insane. I'm 26 and I've never had any romantic or sexual experience. It didn't bother me at all to live without that until the last couple years, and suddenly it's like the very most basal part of my monkey brain finally turned on and started screaming that it's touch starved. All I daydream about is being skin to skin with another person, I have dreams about sharing a bed with someone and intertwining our legs, a bare chested hug with someone sounds amazing, I need intimate skin contact so bad. But I can't imagine who I could possibly ever want to do this with that I could encounter in my daily life. I just don't find the people around me attractive in that way. How am I interested in both sexes AND touch-starved, and yet still no natural sexual reaction to anyone I encounter? How? Why? I'm seriously considering buying a weighted blanket to see if it can make that basal part of my monkey brain stop screaming 24/7

No. 518932

>be me, >30, frequent sites such as fetlife and lgbt/queer socials
>woman or she/they who is partnered with a man and has no clear history of dating or even fucking women says she's bi
>still fall for it every time and even attempt to approach at times hoping for chemistry

Why why why am I so autistic

No. 519245

>>518932
>spoiler
Wtf


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A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Report and ignore bait (especially from those defending male violence and brutality on black women). Be aware of common infight & bait topics (diaspora wars, Africans vs African-Americans, interracial dating, etc.) and act accordingly.
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No. 519144

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I hope this isn't considered kpop sperging, but I'm tired of seeing random black people defend those idols that were caught singing the n-word.
I don't even particularly care that they said it in songs (they are racist regardless, tell yourself otherwise if you want), I'm just sick of kpop stan hypocrisy and how they try to cancel everyone but these worthless "idols". Enough of the obnoxious retards with "they/them" pronouns in their bios lecturing people about how twansphobia is bad, but surged-up Asian scrotes who love to date rape women, call people slurs, paint themselves black with big red lips and eat watermelon and refuse to shake the hands of black fans are just misunderstood little babies who never did anything wrong.
It's not even like the music is good. It's generic slop ripped off of black and white music/pop culture, and the whole industry is run by abusive rapists. Moreover, the country has told the world 299 different ways they no like black people (they just want to grift off what black people have built for themselves) and that they don't even value the lives of their own Korean women/girls, but so many black women keep assigning themselves as their ATMs, defenders and worshipers. I don't know if it's because black women are socialized to worship and make excuses for abusive black men that they don't see how ridiculous this is, but I'm tired. Just fucking pack it up. I hate Hollywood and all the stupid bitches who were defending moids like Chris Brown and that family of Armenian goblins for years too. I wish celebrity culture would die already.

No. 519156

>>519144
I'd be a bit of a hypocrite for getting mad since there are some old songs with racist lyrics against asians (Tyler's lol) that I still love listening to. I care more how I'm treated directly. The U.S. has cops killing black people for no reason every day and many hate crimes disguised as "standing your ground", but I never heard of a black person being killed in Korea just for existing. There's racism in both countries, but the U.S. is much more anti-black (then and now) and also gives non-black immigrants way more priority over black ones by giving them free shit and kissing their ass. at least Korea is xenophobic towards all non-koreans.

No. 519158

>>519156
I just don't defend any of them. I also feel like black women have no reason to defend Tyler after the weird murder/rape lyrics (I know he was "being edgy" and blablabla, but at the end of the day, he's a moid lol) and that "got all the black bitches mad 'cause my main bitch vanilla" line.
I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, S Korea wouldn't care or report on it if a black person was killed, and they verifiably treat white foreigners better because they want white power/validation. I've seen blasians and wasians attest to this too.

No. 519216

>>519158
Not defending btw. But it's not just moids. nicki and meg also had sus lyrics regarding asians in songs I enjoy, and it doesn't make me wanna cancel them. And the very pretty white foreigners do get good treatment, but it's surface-level compared to how well non-black foreigner are treated in the US. Do you see the Korean government giving thousands of them free hotel rooms and apartments and food stamps (or whatever the Korean equivalent is) just for being white? No, only stupid racist white democrats in the US do that bullshit for Mexcians.

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>>519020
Not everyone who dislikes troon defending sjws is a fag nonnie.


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No. 300321[Reply]

A thread to talk about everything related to your menstrual cycle and ovulation! Please don’t be creepy or make any sexual posts about period “fetishes” that’s gross however discussion of sexual feelings during different times of your cycle is acceptable as long as you’re not being egregious or overdescriptive
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No. 513540

>>510560
ntayrt but as someone who also suffers with really bad pms and already lifts, I highly doubt lifting weights is a cure and recommending microdosing drugs to someone who is already feeling like absolute shit is really bad advice and could end up making her worse. exercise is good for you but it's not a cure-all for something that's fundamentally wrong with your hormones.

>>510433
please try and look into PMDD it's unfortunately more common than we think and it's under reported due to a lot of women thinking it's normal. i've heard that antihistamines are good for bad pms/pmdd symptoms but like every women's issue there's not a lot of research on it.

No. 514061

>>513540
I'm just sharing what helped me and microdosing drugs doesn't have any perceivable effect and it's completely unheard of that it would make people feel worse. In fact mushrooms are very safe (probably safer than antidepressants that are being prescribed like candy) even at higher doses but the suggestion comes from the fact that they help with serotonin inbalance as well as other things. I'm not ordering anyone to do anything and people on this board should really stop treating suggestions in this way and the recipients like mindless children. You have to be an adult to post here, everyone is responsible for their own actions and suggesting something is just showing that there are options that can improve their situation rather than sitting around doing nothing and complaining, like a lot of people unfortunately tend to do. In my experience, microdosing mushrooms for extended periods of time actually completely removed all the mental issues caused by pms that included extreme suicidal ideation, extreme irritability that caused me to argue over anything, anxiety, lack of motivation, wanting to self harm, being hysterical etc. you get the idea. Now I don't have any pms symptoms at all except for some cramps. It all stopped when I started taking shrooms and working out regularly. So I'm not pulling the advice out of my ass, genuinely want to help

No. 514694

>>514061
>I feel like dying each time
>just go to the gym

No. 514864

My doctor prescribed me Prozac for perimenopause symptoms but I don't even know if I am in perimenopause. I told her I was having more mood swings and spotting between periods. I have PCOS so I figured my meds needed to be adjusted but instead I got prozac? Has anyone been put on prozac for pms, pmdd or menopause symptoms? Did it work? I don't really want to add another medication to my list.

No. 519175

Has anyone experienced a desidual cast before (your whole vagina sheds the uterine lining all in one go)? It feels like labour pains and really intense cramps and once it’s out it’s a regular to light period with regular period cramps. They commonly happen to women who use a progesterone birth control method for the first time and tbh I’ve been using the combination pill since I was 14 so over a decade now. So idk why I got a desidual cast? Like why now??

I experienced one for the first time yesterday and it wasn’t excruciating where I fainted. I think I’ve experienced it once before but thought nothing of it because it wasn’t too bad but this time it was worse. I felt lightheaded and dizzy and nauseous before and after. My dumbass actually managed to go to the gym and run for 50mins and I thought I was dizzy because of the exercise. Also I had an intense urge to poop around the desidual cast shedding, I went 3 times.

But today I got light flow and feel much better. Desidual casts aren’t dangerous or anything unless it’s an ectopic pregnancy (which I don’t have). Dunno if I should visit the gyn office…

As I get older (late 20s now), my periods have change. They’re either regular and light flow for 6 days or I get spotting first day followed by heavy cramps and heavy uterine shedding by the second day and light flow for the rest of the week. I’m wondering if I need to get off my pill because the pill is supposed to give you lighter periods not simulated birth/labour cramps.


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No. 249630[Reply]

Find your body type and what suits you best!
>it is not based on weight or height and curves so much as height and bone structure and your limb length and proportions
>Aly Art has some good videos on all the body types
>r/kibbe is a good place to reference and find your body
> if you do post your body, make sure you do not include your face and not include background.
>kibbe body type applies to men as well as women.

please do not accuse anons ITT of being troons or insult their bodies


https://theconceptwardrobe.com/kibbe-body-types/the-kibbe-body-type-test
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No. 518857

>>518757
He can't even keep his own rules consistent though

No. 519102

>>518757
kek

No. 519129

>>518512
Him and his wife dress like cartoon characters

No. 519174

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I just need to bitch about the fact that being a Romantic fucking sucks nowadays kek. The trendier items all look wonky on me and the stuff that does ‘suit’ me usually has some annoying flaw that ruins the silhouette. My personal style seems to constantly be at odds with what’s available. It feels impossible finding flare pants that aren’t denim, and when they are a different material they are high waters or are too tight in the butt and too loose in the waist etc. The recommended essences are all vibes I would never go for kek. Anything that’s not skintight makes me look frumpy as hell. If the fabrics have any thickness I look frumpy. If there is any cute detailing like ruffles or bows that is decently sized I look massive. I have an oversized jacket I use because it’s there but I swear I look 30 lbs heavier when it’s zipped up. I’m not fat but I’m not rail thin anymore either so when I’m thrifting the cute stuff almost none of it fits me. The few modern day brands that do cater to Romantics are also uber-sexy which I’m not super about either. I love cute bralettes but most either don’t run large enough for my boobs or fit weirdly. I’m a DD, got an XL bralette from Free People and it’s still too small. I buy a medium shirt and it’s suffocating my chest but when I get a large the sleeves are loose and look weird. Natural fibres sit weirdly on me, and cheap polyester looks good the first few wears but then gets disgusting over time. I hate being a Romantic so much kek. The right top is cute but it’s not going to keep me warm like a crew neck!

No. 519182

>>519174
Nona i feel your pain so deep i learned how to sew and fix clothes myself. If you learn simple stitches it really helps pull together those cloths that look almost right.


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No. 518894

>>509730
Did something happen or was I just ghosted? Damn, I was hoping to talk to fellow Latina nonnas.

No. 518918

>>518715
Why did you already repost this again? It has only been 2 months

No. 519074

>>518918
Nta but who cares, it's not like this thread is getting ten posts a day.

No. 519140

>>519074
That's my point, you only need to scroll up a little and can already find her other post

No. 519198

>>509730
Estás todavía ahí, nonita? Sage por las dudas, espero que puedas volver.


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No. 420991[Reply]

Share tips, vent, advice, similar experiences, how to get out of such a rut, what can be changed, what helped you personally, where to meet women you can relate to.

This thread is for:
-those of us who spent our formative years on 4chan/other male dominated spaces and got internet poisoning from it
-those of us who realised men aren't your friends but are now alone
-gender dysphoric women especially socially dysphoric
-ex-TIFs who have come to terms with being female but are now adrift
-those of us who are gender non-conforming in personality, not only appearance
-assorted spergs/speds who have difficulty understanding social norms, unwritten rules, tone of voice, and reading between the lines
-low-empathy or low EQ women
-general loners and NEETs

This thread is NOT for humblebragging about how cool and rational and edgy you are. Please.

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No. 516831

>>434994

Are you literally me? Because this is the same experience that I'm having right now. I didn't have a lot of irls growing up and not a lot of friends except online since I was like 12 and up until recently I kinda have more irl friends now (not a lot but still at least people to hang out with) but yeah explaining how I grew up, mentioning being a shut in neet and how it took me until I was like 23 to socialize normally is hard for people to understand or relate. The more I do socialize with normies though the more I realize I like that I enjoy my own company more but I wish I had more female friends who are socially stupid like me irl.

No. 516873

>>513230
i don't mind being banned for replying. do you know that women can actually talk in the real world and that most have shitty attitudes about other women? i don't feel bad for pushing her and for wanting my childhood friend to stop saying that teen girls are mini adults or that she didn't deserve to get raped and it should've been a whore instead. maybe you're used to being around conservative women who stick their heads in the sand but i don't want someone i'm vulnerable with to spout the same unimaginative and self-hating bullshit
>>515301
thank you. it feels like every friendship i've had has some kind of invisible wall that prevents us from being serious. i want to be more honest with people

No. 516900

>>434994
This is me minus a relationship, which frustrates me since I'm the odd one out IRL for that. I feel like you're (general you) kinda screwed if you never got the formative socialization of having childhood or adolescent friends. Even as a wagie that makes decent money instead of a NEET, I never understood how coworkers can socialize and just joke around like I never understood how classmates could. But I just find online interactions annoying, most memes and social media is obnoxious and I can't stand how undersocialized people are. Even as an autistic I hate how other spergs purposely ignore social cues and rules and act shocked when people dislike them.

No. 519137

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How am i supposed to relate to other women around me when i am a diagnosed autismo living in a country where everyone places importance in swimming/tanning (i do not partake cause my skin is too sensitive and i like the pale look) and most importantly everyone is super social while i am an introverted loner. Even when i went to artschool for some months before i quit, i still got ostracized because everyone instantly hanged out in a large yet close loud group(i also have audio processing issues) which i just could not fit in.

I just never felt a connection with anyone here since i do not posses the trait of doing well in large friend groups which makes me look insane, being an introvert i feel is seen as extra creepy/psychotic here. Idk maybe i am wrong if there is another gr nona here who can correct me. Only people i ever had connection with to this day as a grown woman is foreigners from online. Even writing this down and remembering/rethinking about it hurts

No. 519185

>>519137
You were born to live in Finland.


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No. 444697[Reply]

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No. 519041

I’m 33 and have been with my bf for 2, almost 3 years. 1 year into our relationship I found he had been looking up specific women on TikTok and Instagram and jerking it. At the start of our relationship I made it clear how I felt that idolising specific women online / OnlyFans felt like cheating to me and I wouldn’t tolerate it. Since that happened I stopped dressing up in nice lingerie for him, stopped making effort in bed because I felt like I was competing for his sexual interest with the girls in his phone. I love him but I don’t trust him. The last time he hurt me was in December when I looked at his YouTube history and saw he looked up all Sabrina Carpenter’s sexual positions in her Juno song (she bends over and shows her vag and pretends to do blow jobs etc.) He excused himself saying it was “only tame” and that people at work were talking about it and he was curious. I was like “so curious you had to watch all 4 minutes of it? And you definitely didn’t watch this at work”

I love him but ugh. Am I wrong for expecting more? Men disgust me. Why can’t they stop consuming women constantly? I even said to him before the Sabrina thing, “if you want other women that aren’t me, if you want porn and only fans or whatever, then don’t be with me because I’ll never be okay with it” yet he does it behind my back.

No. 519042

>>519041
Sorry just to add, I have trauma with this. In my previous long term relationship I discovered my bf was talking to underage trannies in maid dresses on a secret Facebook account, read tons of rape/cp manga and was obsessed with a porn star who looked identical to me but had a penis. I gave my ex his much needed “muh privacy” for 4 years and only when I was done with him I decided to check his history.

My ex before this cheated on me a ton, men/women/trannies, even let old men on Grindr fuck him in the ass and I had to get a HIV test. So yeah. My trust in men is already ruined kek

No. 519121

>>519041
You’re not wrong and not wanting this is the bare minimum. Dump, he clearly doesn’t care

No. 519124

>>519042
That’s horrible but you really don’t need to explain that you have trauma to justify a very reasonable boundary. Porn is harmful to relationships, the people participating in it, and the people consuming it, and that can be proven with a quick google search. There are really men out there who will not watch porn or at the very least stop when you make a clear boundary around it. Don’t let anyone make you feel that that’s unreasonable. 30 years ago this would never be an issue and people that don’t see the rapid overconsumption of porn as disturbing have their heads buried in the sand. You can do better Nona.

No. 519132

>>519041
You needed to drop him the moment he started behaving like this.
>I made it clear how I felt that idolising specific women online / OnlyFans felt like cheating to me and I wouldn’t tolerate it
Staying is tolerating it. Most men are disgusting, but it's up to you to protect yourself by leaving. Let him jerk off to other woman alone in his basement.


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