/g/ - girl talk

>>582169
Anon you can have my husband. He has a 145 IQ but he's fucking clueless about everything else and I need a break from him kek.

I fantasise about a moid who gets hard from my voice alone, feels faint if I touch his arm, passes out before I can even take his clothes off. I wish they were real.

soo.. where do I even start with this one.

my "best friend" through out most of my teen years (she was a little bit older than me) came out as bi, I knew for a fact she had a crush on me at one point which made me uneasy but at the same time kind of aroused by it. I really wanted to experiment with her but was way too afraid to actually do anything, I don't remember at the time what I wanted to with her (it at least included fingering and probably spanking) but the closest I ever did to that was "accidentally" falling asleep next to her with my skirt hiked up really high (I was just pretending to be asleep) to see if she'd do anything. in my adulthood I'd hardly ever think of her except occasionally when I got really horny and masturbated she'd pop into my head, but for the most part didn't really think of her that much. but now that I've been on and off antidepressants a few times this seems to be the only thing that turns me on enough to have an orgasm. I have all these twisted fantasies of being in the house I used to live in and having her sleep over and we end up doing sexual stuff. I always think about inviting my imaginary boyfriend over and having him fuck her while I either watch and masturbate or make out with her and fondle her, or us watching porn together then decided to experiment, or me being naked in a room waiting for her to walk in and then pretend to be surprised, or I think about us just cuddling naked etc. sometimes I legitimately regret not doing anything like that, but also it's probably a good thing we didn't. our friendship was really toxic and she was basically just my bully, also we haven't talked in years and she has 2 kids now. the other day I came across a porn gif of 2 women vaguely dressed like schoolgirls making out with each other, I actually downloaded it which is the first time in a very long time that I've downloaded anything pornographic on my phone then deleted it the next day. ugh, I feel so disgusted with myself, why am I like this

>>584741
No literally

>>584741
>>585073
Please stop spamming these two posts across boards and actually contribute to threads.

Silence can be comfortable if you let it, there's no pressure

>>585046
I get that if the silence is occasionally anchored by meaningful conversation, I just feel like 99% of what we say is like, how I would talk to a stranger and it almost makes me feel.. guilty? Idk. I just wish I felt more genuine connection with my dad.

This is me with both of my parents. Also can newfags stop making shitty thread like this and lurk more?

>>584164
ayrt, damn it is easy to end up in my situation especially if you grew up with no safety net. I hope I do not end up paycheck to paycheck my whole life. But with student loans and the rising cost of living, it seems impossible to financially get ahead. I have been working on getting up earlier. I had an interview today.

>>584801
It truly is. I guarantee if you're insecure about people younger than you condescending you or making fun of you for not ~grinding~ or whatever, you shouldn't be because all of those young people will either be like you or be in a marriage as a semi-depressive SAHM. Worse, they'll be a weird minstrely "content creator" and ebeggar trying to game the algo, so while they may have money they're desperate and with no dignity or lobe development. Go at a pace designed for you. If you get behind or drag your feet, don't punish yourself or wallow in self loathing. Just get back up and keep walking forward. There is literally no formula to follow on earth that is any better than any other, if you arent hurting anyone else and trying to support yourself you are still doing lighyears greater than evil billionares or bad people.

>>584802
nta but this is very encouraging thank you

>>584854
Your life is uniquely your own. A lot of the simplistic, kind of cheesy words of encouragement that feel corny to say are absolutely right. Any of you–pursuing a life of sincerity, focusing on using a vocabulary that isn't snatched from new internet trends and developing interests that don't require convoluted online knowledge, and ridding yourself of irony poisoning are the first few steps toward hating yourself less for not achieving grandiose things. Nothing about your existence requires that you live a media-approved life. The basics are enough. Gratitude for each small milestone in the face of a world that views you as valueless without money or enterprise to exploit is genuinely a fuck you to people/establishments who want you powerless and miserable. If you feel you have to pursue alternative means of living, do that, but make sure you find support and community where you are.

>>585019
I am the anon from the original comment and this was so encouraging to read. I screenshoted it so I can revisit it. Thank you.

>>584983
It really is like an inferiority complex. They feel like they have to pick apart brand to shreds and over-analyze it in order to poison the idea of ever wanting to get it in their brains. Quantity matters more than quality to them, but fast quantity matters even more than that. Newlitas look at veteran brand whores who have a full and cohesive closet they accumulated over years and seethe that they don't have that. They forget that not all fashion is fast fashion and conclude that brand whores are all rich snobby elitists who also conveniently hate all fat people and that owning brand and liking brand makes you a rich skinny snob; that looking good in your expensive clothes is a privilege only afforded to the "other". Common self victimization mentality.

>>585041
Agreed. It's crazy, they could have anything a "brand whore" has if they just learned to be patience. Hell, it's even 1000 times easier today to get brand. When I started in 2010, you needed a shopping service to make purchases.

>>584983
>>585041
In addition to all of that, I've noticed the western taobao fans also seem to heavily dickride China in general and believe themselves to be far more enlightened & progressive than western lolitas who prefer Japanese brands. They try to say that China is a perfect angel country with no unfair treatment of minorities, advanced gender equality, no military aspirations, etc, even though there are many areas where China is lacking. When you point these shortcomings out to them, they find excuses to write them off, such as with the Xinjiang cotton controversy a few years ago. They are also extremely quick to jump people's asses for calling a brand as a "taobao brand" instead of "Chinese indie" even though the brands in question are brands on taobao. They then try to say "you don't call brands sold on etsy as 'etsy brands!'" which is true… but that's only because we call those regretsy brands instead.

>>584983
>how unfair their sizes were or how it was sooo expensive
and yet these same people will wax lyrical about how they care about ethical fashion. People are so entitled about sizing, like they dont realize that lolita already has a slim profit margin & calls for many yards of fabric per dress, and that adding more sizes to the range is often just not fiscally possible for most brands.

I lose brain cells every time a post from r/lolita ends up in my feed. I’m glad we at least have places like this to discuss lolita without the massive amount of arrogant perma-ita idiots and disgusting fetishists that subreddit is swarming with.

I have a short friend who constantly posts about how she’s mistaken for a kid, but it’s broken the suspicion of disbelief at this point. First it was high school, then someone thought she was in middle school, and recently she claimed an elementary bus driver stopped on the street to pick her up. Next she’s going to say she was wandering through a hospital and a nurse tried to take her to a maternity ward.

>>584492
I'm 5'0. I tend to perceive fat women at a similar height as "taller" than me, and slim women as "shorter". I'm relatively stocky, so I also generally perceive myself as taller and larger than I am. I'm often surprised in pictures how small I look relative to other people, I don't "feel" that small.

>>584400
Demoralization? Kek it reminds me of this tranny I met on a game a while ago. He was almost 7ft tall and claimed to be a real woman and specified that he was totally NOT a Troon but would refuse to voice chat, send pictures of his face or hands, literally anything. Said he was the shortest girl in his family and that his real female aunts were totes taller than him. Then we found his instagram and his pfp was his hideous rapehon face complete with the agp curls and 80s serial killer glasses + stare

I'm 5'1" and I like being short. It feels like it gives me an advantage in new social situations because short people are generally perceived as less of a threat but I could be imagining that. I also like that being short makes me a bit "cuter" feeling. Finding a romantic partner (man or woman) who is taller than me is incredibly easy and I prefer tall men and women as partners. I like to travel as well and being short makes being comfortable on an airplane really easy too since my legs don't cramp up from being squished into a space without much leg room.

I think the biggest con to being short is that short people can't eat as much as average and tall people without gaining weight. Having a tall partner can make it difficult to not overeat too if you're sharing mealtimes often.

>>584492
For me it's the opposite, I see short fat women as tiny (for context I'm on the taller side). I just notice height first.

I am so grateful for music. I'm grateful to have the opportunity to learn an instrument, it's one of the most rewarding experiences i know

I am grateful to have a functioning body with autonomy that still lets me do things when I choose to, even if I struggle with them

>>264598
I have a roof over my head and comfortable clothes. No chronic pain. My life is good.

>>584920
Exactly. The ability to walk, talk, and have all your senses accounted for is a gift we often take for granted.

Sometimes smelling the rain or sitting in quiet with the mist hitting my arms moves me to tears.

This is what men are supposed to be doing. Instead they wanna sit in front of computer all day recording video whining about online drama and keeping their nose bridge deep in women's business

>>585010
Cringe to flex his good deed. Jesus doesn't approve but I agree this should become the norm.

>>585016
I disagree. This is how he raises money to keep doing good deeds. He spends hours working on these projects, there is sincerity behind his actions.

>>585016
i see it as more about telling a story than a pure flex. He obviously has a YT channel that he values and he is looking for views, not for praise. He also basically admits at the beginning that he did the job out of sheer boredom, not out of any care for the neighbors who he doesn't even seem to really know

>>585021
>doesn't seem to really know
>gives all the grandma's tea from the past 3 years
Kek he wants to help rebuild his entire community. That requires money, I get it and I respect it. What are the other men in the community doing? Jerking off and playing ps5

I unknowingly took a guy's virginity. After we slept together one of this friends told me. He ended up being super clingy, wanting to hang out 24/7, told me he loved me, etc. It sucked and was annoying af

>>126494
HE TOLD YOU HE LOVED YOU???!!!!! I am so sorry

>>126494
>>126501
How truly awful, what a fucking creep, he should have just pump and dumped you.

It can be nice if you aren't afraid to voice your needs/be a guide. Also, patience helps.

they finish fast the first time but can actually go again

>>584403

he looks better than 95% of white men his age

>>584399
hm he actually looks the same as he looked 10 years ago that’s especially impression for a britbong

>>584399
I remember seeing a tweet saying that he looks how some people think benedict cumberbatch looks and i have to agree.

Unsure whether or not I think Nick Mullen has hit the wall yet or if it's mainly a lack of proper styling. Made a collage where the biggest pic is him semi recently surrounded by pics from his prime.

>>585007
To be fair, this is an even more recent pic of him and he doesn't look bad for almost 37? Idk. Just no longer in his prime I think.

>>582842
natural leader with somewhat feline facial features, job hopper with lot's of inner turmoil and anxiety, get stressed out and overwhelmed very easily. Bit of a hypochondriac. Digestive system is a total mess.
Reserved and modest on the outside, determined and ambitious on the inside. Not necessarily one of the cool kids in hs, but friends with lot's of different people of all different types. Generally well liked by others.
Never let the rest of the world see all the pain and self hatred within. Lot's of secrets that nobodies knows about you.

I'm curious to know about my future in all aspects. Career, location (if i'm in a big city or just another ordinary town), relationship, mood etc. Thanks in advance nonnas!

>>583906
Are you goth? Or just generally interested in weird/dark stuff? I see a lot of darkness and restlessness. You're a deeply emotional person but have to keep a tight rein on your feelings. Or maybe you don't have much control at all. You would be a great mortician or funeral director. You need a career that allows you to express the passionate parts of yourself, whatever that may mean for you.

>>583924
Weird. No, I am not goth. But I do love the style along with scene. I couldn't see myself ever dressing up in that aesthetic though. Losing control sounds like me although, I try not to. I do have an interest in weird/dark stuff but it's very surface level and not to an extent that you may be implying. I appreciate your reading nona.

If anyone would be willing to read my chart, I'd like to know the same things the anon above mentioned. I just feel so lost and confused and I don't even know where I'm headed. Does my chart reflect my inner disarray?