/g/ - girl talk

>Contact
m68299651@gmail.com

>How long this contact will remain active?
as long as i remember to check it. knowing me i will forget to check it for months after the first few weeks. i'll give my discord over email.

>Timezone
eastern

>Age
24

>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
idc about how much older - but no one younger than 21

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>>579832
sent you a request!

>>584774
i sent you an email!

>>583679
Do you have a contact? Not in Stavanger but could easily take a trip if we connected properly!

>>529492
Damn, so the gods of wage slavery finally came for you. How's your brother doing?

>>586296
Is it overkill to have all 3? First time birthing. Been full of anxiety since I had a positive result.

How do you know if you want children? I’m kind of at a crossroads and I just don’t know. I don’t want to be alone forever with no family or community. But I find it hard to imagine ever not living alone, however much that it fills me with dread.

>>586327
your birth, your rules. But if it's your first, home birth is highly highly advised against for your safety. Home births have almost twice the rate of death for infants and also skyrockets with moms

>>586327
Probably an overkill, but if it makes you feel better about the birth, you can do it. Just remember it won't be pleasant no matter what you do, you can't really control what happens, and that the vast majority of women survive and recover well.

>>586279
Being so against hospitals that you’re willing to risk your baby’s life to avoid them is something I don’t get.

>>584265
Fuck, I feel you. I really want to be gently rubbed and fingered by a hot, soft-spoken, caring male nurse. Ideally, before, I manage to shamelessly flirt with him and completely dismiss the other male staff. Also, In this scenario my arms are also completely unusable for whatever reason. Despite this he doesn't take advantage of me, he calmly gives me an orgasm and he just tucks my bedsheet in and says goodnight.

I want to be a MILF with a college aged son and I have an affair with one of his athlete friends in secret. In fact I’m the one who takes his virginity. We only fuck for a couple semesters before he gets a girlfriend and we stop seeing each other, but to my amusement his gf bears a striking resemblance to me. We never discuss it ever again and he grows up into a fine young man, but every time I look into his eyes I can tell he still thinks about the pleasures we shared together…

I am absolutely going to hell for getting horny over this case.

Life is unfair I cant lick my favorite serial killers armpits clean and keep him chained to a battery. That motherfucker has been dead for years. Why live. I keep having retarded fantasies about blackmailing him into being with me and physically abusing him and making him develop stockholm syndrome because Ive had an eerily simmilar life to him so I understand why hes the way he is and his thought patterns though morally abhorrent seem very easy to understand and deconstruct to me. This is not a "i can fix him" female savior fantasy btw I dont care for that shit. I think Im this way because Im not a very good person + Ive been pushed to the edge by society and ostracized for being extremely mentally ill (at moments rightfully so to be honest) so the fantasy of someone whos the same but like worse being there makes me feel less alone. Kind of like "actually I dont give a fuck if the rest of the humankind thinks Im a nutcase because I now have this one person whos also a nutcase and I dont need anyone else".

>>586485
im tempted to ask who your favorite serial killer is but im not sure if i even should

>>586452
It's the Muh Nigel brainworm. It always end up the same. "U tellin' me this worthless loser who managed to stay virgin until his mid 20s wasn't some special snowflake meant just for my wonder vision eyes, but actually a completely unnatractive and utterly repellent person? Whoa."

>>586445
yes, but it's a two way street: if a moid is objectively attractive but you personally don't feel attraction to him, you should just date him anyway.

>>586480
No you shouldnt wtf. How many times does it need to be said that dating people you arent attracted to is a horrible idea lmao

>>586486
your mixing up two different things. The original anon is saying that she isn't attracted to the guy BECAUSE he isn't objectively attractive. Obviously in that case you shouldn't date him

this is just general advice but nonnas…always remind yourself that it's a two way street and you shouldn't get too stuck in your own head. So if you're torn up about the looks of your male partner ask yourself this: would the man you're with be accepting and happy if you were 10 years older and fatter? The answer will almost always be "no" even if he's older and fatter than what you are now. Don't make compromises that your bf would never make for you or would devalue you over.

>>586459
>>586461
These are more to my taste. Big and muscular but cute. Not fat looking.

>>586467
Some you guys have no idea what a sturdy modelled ass like that can do to a woman. Thrusting power from the hips alone is so underrated.

>>586429
How are they competing with you? I feel like I can relate but IDK if you're thinking of what I'm thinking about. I have one friend that for some reason loves to bring up shit I've mentioned and use it as a way to make herself feel really Esoteric and Cool, shit like "oh MOST PEOPLE prefer this movie in a franchise but I prefer the first one which is the best", except the "most people" in her opinion pieces were just me. I don't think you can get women like this to stop, there is something deeply wrong with them internally and they're searching externally for a quick fix for their shit egos.

NLOG the thread. Just get your autism diagnosis already(bait)

>>586433
>>586432
I think a good example is when someone just acknowledges their appearance or a feature (ie, my eyes are green) and another person goes into tard rage over the perceived insult. Or when people try to one-up you and you're not even aware you're participating (oh, you think your job is great? my nigel can…).

to summarize best as i can, someone insecure thinks youre trying to threaten or insult them and they get patronizing and condescending, or putting you down for male attention you detest in the first place but most the time its for ego's sake and not men. sperg over

>>586434
Congrats you can read

women have been nothing but narcissistic cunts or bpd schizos towards me where they pretend to be friends with me til they see im not the passive submissive quiet uwu bestie they thought i was and dump me and then trash my name everywhere, im fucking sick of it, female bullying is on a whole other level, id almost prefer to be physically beaten up than this psychological torture. ive given up on people as a whole since and im much happier back in my NEET hole, i rarely relate to other women and ive tried to fix whatever inherent retardedness is in me to be more normie or at least normie passing but nothing helps or works and the cycle just repeats, ive done so much self reflection like "wait maybe im the problem" but turns out no, i just attract retarded bpdchans for some reason and narcissists, im fucking sick of it, if i ever bother with society again i need to change my personality to one that retarded bpdchans arent drawn to, i think my problem is im kinda quiet which psychotic bpdchans latch onto to try yap their shitty self inflicted problems away to because they think ill be too scared or passive to say anything challenging to them. i fucking wish i was born male everyday so i dont have to deal woth these retards, at least bpdchans give moids infinite passes because they thrive on scrotes orbiting them

>>586328
Cards: page of swords, five of cups, eight of swords, world, four of wands reversed, judgement, king of cups, six of swords, empress, hierophant, six of cups reversed, ten of pentacles, ace of cups, ace of pentacles, two of pentacles reversed, emperor reversed, four of pentacles, strength reversed, eight of cups, page of wands reversed, and knight of swords.
Ok so you compare your relationship a lot to other relationships, and feel something is wholly missing or gaping in your relationship but there’s a lot of comparison: “if he provides for me then why do I still feel empty” sort of thing. Another emotionally constipated or incompetent moid. You’re also financially entangled with him and this decision was probably made during the lovebombing OOPS I MEAN honeymoon period of the relationship, a shared home, something that grows both of your equity I think which could possibly make it very difficult for you to back out easily, because if you break that moid’s heart or he decides to break it off, he could get very controlling and if he knows your vulnerabilities and weak spots it could become a hellish rest of the year for you. Good luck nonna kek
>>586334
>Career
Cards: empress reversed, sun reversed, knight of pentacles, chariot, three of cups, seven of cups reversed, six of pentacles reversed, temperance reversed, knight of cups, king of cups reversed, six of swords reversed, fool reversed, three of pentacles, two of cups reversed, underworld version of the world card reversed, devil reversed, hermit, seven of wands reversed, ten of pentacles, six of cups, seven of swords, ace of wands, five of cups reversed, ace of pentacles reversed, and emperor reversed.
You’re not very happy at your job or your financial situation I mean obviously, it feels like you can barely afford the basic essentials for yourself. Also the situation with your other friends yeahhhh um some of them are not paying their fair share at all and it feels like you’re working hard to elevate them or keep them from crashing or collapsing on the very little shit you have. You gotta stop telling people your plans and your dreams as well, it seems like there’s sabotage here and feeling like your ideas are getting stolen to keep others afloat while you remain uncreditePost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>585879
pretty pleaseee
My looks, my apparent innate talent of being a complete repellent for relationships, sex, etc. Why?
In the future, is it gonna stay the same? Am I so poor quality, bi, so into both, no one into me though

>>585879
Cat nona! Can I ask if I will I get a good job soon, please?

Can someone do a reading on what was naturally attractive about me? When I was younger I had no problem making lots of friends, but I got older and shit happened and I just lost the ability to pull people in that I used to have. What trait did I have back then that attracted people that I lack now, and can I get it back?

I did a reading for myself on how I can tap into my own unique version of beauty and living well, and I got the empress, nine of cups, six of wands and knight of wands. Does this mean I need to be more bold in enjoying the finer things in life? I try not to be too materialistic but these cards suggest enjoying worldly pleasures if I'm correct?

as a kid I had crushes on a few politicians. giancarlo fisichella might be my most normal celebrity crush from back then.

…i crushed on the entire cast the very first time I watched…

I wanted him so bad when I was 11 and part of me still does. I'm afraid of what this says about me as a person.

I wanted her so bad.

>>586277
That voice man …

>>586394
I'm kinda in the same boat as you with the weight loss, and honestly, you kind of have to do two things - try to accept them as much as possible as they are and realise the people that are attracted to you will be attracted to your boobs as well(saggy or not), but also just accept that you will never like them. The first part is about really meditating on the idea that you have probably never been in love with somebody and thought about their physical flaws(at least probably not to the point that it actually bothered you). The second part is just realizing that you will never like them and do whatever feels the best in the moment - wear a bra during sex, get a breast-lift if you want etc. It's very important to understand that even postop they will never be "perfect" and the boobs of your dreams. Most women kind of dislike their boobs.

>>586394
Do a lot of chest exercises. It won't lift the boobs themselves because they have no muscle tissue, but building up the muscles underneath them can make them look more lifted.
Or if you want to go down the route of just learning to accept them, I read an exercise once in a book about becoming more confident as a woman that was aimed at making you feel more comfortable with not having perfect breasts. Basically you have to look at your boobs several times a day, find something you like about them, and write it down. You're not allowed to think any negative thoughts about them. I don't want to write my results down because it's embarrassing kek, but I did manage to get 13 bullet points of things I like and find attractive about them, as someone who has naturally saggy boobs that I've been indecisive about since puberty.

How do you know you have tubular breasts? I just stumbled upon it a couple of days ago and I’m paranoid I have it nonnas. I have always hated my breasts and how shaped they are.

>>586411
But when I’m near my ovulation cycle they get more round

>>586411
A breast augmentation is between 5k and 10k. I’ll start saving I guess…

>>586404
please don't use relaxer, it's a carcinogen and causes so many health issues down the line. if you're committed you could get one of those flat irons that are for very short hair or a hot comb. look into fingerwaves too they're so cute

I noticed black women achieve financial success by being single whereas non black women tend to leech off their men and/or get divorced to build wealth.

>>586573
this is statistically untrue. most non-bw have to work full-time jobs, and a growing number have male leeches like that one asian influencer who went viral over supporting her AM hubby. don't be like the bw version of those incels who claim "all wahmen can make 10,000 on onlyfans selling foot pics."

>>586584
I guess, but life is easier for them and they have more avenues for financial wealth. In this very thread, someone talked about catfishing as non-bw for money, which i think is fair game in this unfair society

>>586608
and an incel could also say bw still have it easier than men of all races because black women can and often do pay their bills just based on their vaginas. at one point, black chyna was the top onlyfans creator ever. a random black chick was also able to marry into a royal family in liechtenstein. incels could use these examples to say even bw live life on easy mode simply for having vaginas.