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No. 180309[Reply]

I noticed we have a lot of ladies on here who struggle with drinking problems so I decided to make this thread.

>Talk about your relationship with alcohol, negative or positive
>Are you an alcoholic, how much do you drink and how often
>Healthy coping mechanisms
>Brag about sober streaks and encourage other anons
>Tapering, rehab etc discussion

If you're happy and drunk go to the drunk thread. >>>/ot/204765 This is for more critical discussion of drinking once you're sober.
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No. 406839

I need to stop. I am not an alcoholic in the "every day" type of way. But every drink turns into a binge rager. My body is tired. I feel guilty. I didn't grow up around alcohol. When I first used alcohol, it was to feel better about my shitty life…I never learned to drink in moderation. Nearly 10 years later and I should have learned that, but I didn't. I just need to stop entirely and accept I can't drink at all.

No. 421087

I have been sober for a week and realised than even though I shower every day the sweet hangover sweat smell permeates every soft furnishing in my house.

No. 447998

Tired of venting in other threads about this but I am in such a dark place right now. I genuinely feel powerless to drinking and its embarrassing looking at my new years resolution from last year in this thread, a six month update that I was failing at it (I stayed sober for about 3 months after that), and then I've been on a tear for the past 3 months. I want to cut back but I don't know how.

I'm considering going to a meeting but it seems so awkward and what if I do what I usually do (stay sober for three months and then relapse). I am so sick at myself for constantly fucking up my life and my health. The three months I was sober my apartment was clean, I was well-rested and motivated, my hair and skin looked great, I was exercising, I wasn't constantly anxious. I'm actually fucking ruining my life and it's all because I cant stand to have a bottle of whiskey in my apartment without drinking every. single. night.

How old were you all when you realized you had a problem with alcohol? I'm 24 so I feel young and like I'll grow out of it but I also recognize that well-adjusted people around me don't drink like this.

No. 448101

>>447998
I realized around 23/24. Don’t be too hard on yourself. I haven’t gone a month without drinking since I was probably 20. 3 months is still really good.

No. 456034

A story of an alcoholic teacher who recovered, interesting part at minute 31:29


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No. 445663[Reply]

Discuss goth music, makeup, fashion that you love. People you admire, gossip, news, etc.

previous thread:
>>86956
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No. 455561

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No. 455566

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Kind of woodland witch, but it works for winter.

No. 455652

>>455468
ID on the snow boots in the second outfit?

No. 455991

>>455652
I think it's this one

https://www.amazon.ae/Pleaser-Demonia-Womens-Cubby-311-Black/dp/B000YQVMKW


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No. 297242[Reply]

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No. 453732

>>453517
you sound so cool but this thread is scary

No. 454040

>>449067
Sent you a friend request nona. My user starts with z.

No. 454062

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>>453683
damn it's too bad you're so much younger than me because aikatsu is my turbo autism interest and it's really rare to see anyone talk about it. good luck finding friends nonnie!

No. 455930

>>425533
Hello! I sent you an friend request if you're still active. starts with Tr

No. 455962

>>449067
you sound unhinged


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No. 392562[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting
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No. 455136

>>453421
Amerie fan did you know that she has a YouTube channel where she reviews books? She’s been doing it for years now

No. 455522

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@another.rando2.0 on tiktok

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>>455522

No. 455889

>>455136
I'm not a fan perse, I just know one song so far but I'm interested in her because of my little crush on her right now. I'm not into books or reading but thank you for telling me this!

No. 456092

>>455522
I hate to post this because it impliedly gasses her up but I thought for a while that this was a younger Anna Khachiyan


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No. 447876[Reply]

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No. 454906

>>454832
>I didn’t realise how difficult I’d find it to sexualise myself after being a virgin and convincing I was unloveable for so long
Damn I relate to this so much it hurts lol.

No. 455025

>>454832
He is negging you to get you to coerce you into doing things he knows you are uncomfortable with. Im not saying dump him(i am), but really consider if you want someone who enjoys making you insecure for his own sexual gain as your partner.

No. 455056

>>454832
AYRT, I rescind my previous benefit of the doubt. He's bringing it up to pressure, shame, and coerce you into doing things you aren't comfortable with by making you think you're competing with her.

No. 455765

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I find it so hard to connect with my boyfriend.

Don't get me wrong, he is caring. He's always willing to help me. But he's a screen addict. Anytime I talk to him, he's either staring at a screen or seems like he's counting down the time until he can stare at it again.

I never get his undivided attention. I want to cuddle, him to look in my eyes and say how much I mean to him… I try to do that to him but it doesnt seem like he likes it. He almost never even compliments my looks.

My gay best friend talks me up so much I have to tell him to tone it down. Sometines it breaks my heart

No. 456200

>>450851
Red flag, when I told my bf I was playing neopets all weekend he said that was cute. A man who likes you won’t be embarrassed by you.


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No. 434936[Reply]

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No. 454256

>>453759
I have a gyno appointment on February , it’s my first!
But I’ve also always had problems with fingering or putting tampons , it just feels uncomfortable and I never even managed with the tampons kek. I had sex only once and I honestly didn’t have that good of an experience, the guy I was with fingered me with no problem, but I really didn’t like it at all. And when it came to PIV I was really tight and it really hurt despite him being slow, but once I got more relaxed I managed and it started being good. He tried putting me on top but it couldn’t really enter kek.
Despite having sex that one time I still can’t put more than one finger without feeling discomfort and I can’t put tampons either.

No. 454257

>>454256
I don’t know how I would be with regular sex since I don’t have it kek. But I wanted to try and buy a dildo and get more used to it if I get an okay from my doctor that everything is good down there.

No. 455737

I keep getting told my vagina is really cold, I thought it was just moid negging but I recently hooked up with a woman and she like blurted out the same thing. I feel like it’s just kinda lukewarm, like the same temperature as my finger? Is it supposed to be very warm? Do I have a circulation issue? I’ve never really noticed genital temperatures kek…Idk if it’s something to see a gyno over though

No. 455901

>>455737
My vagina is pretty warm, it's because of all the blood rushing. Definitely warmer than my hands

No. 455903

>>455737
I do a lot of intentionally obtuse humble brags on this board bc I think they're kek but mine emits heat. I have an ex with your situation and it was genuinely startling the first time I realized she had a room temp. vagina. They're probably wondering if you're wearing a prosthetic and are really trans, especially the woman you hooked up with. It probably does have to with your circulation since my ex had issues with that but I would just tell people you have "cool chi" or an "autumn pussy". If you insist it's already an established thing, others will buy it and follow suit. Confidence is key, anon


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No. 445681[Reply]

Support for nonas going through breakups/divorce and moving on.

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No. 449470

>>448674
>16 years
>not married
if you want to be married then you're truly wasting your time with this guy thats keeping you around for, whats most likely, convenience.
If you just want sex, maybe try asking him if you can find it outside of the relationship with other people? Communicate those issues with him and see what he says, his answer will determine what you should do next.
Don't stay unhappy when you don't need to.

No. 454853

>>446008
I finally let him go for the new year. Also he got hot after gaining weight. Even though he looks good, I feel bad for whoever is next. Good luck, future woman. I wish I could warn you.

No. 455735

I broke no contact after 9 months because I felt confused and lonely and scared of being forgotten even though I ended it. I'm selfish and destructive and I'm so cripplingly embarrassed and annoyed that I can't love myself unless somebody else wants me.

No. 456044

>>455735
Big, big mistake. When someone gets removed from your life, it's best not to try and bring them back. It especially applies to scrotes, who will treat you even worse (because they think u came crawling back).

No. 456347

>>456044
what do I do now? I take it I just cease all contact again?


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No. 394660[Reply]

Discuss family planning, birth, pregnancy, conception, fertility, and any other baby-related topic in this thread.
Refrain from posting if you dislike children or are childfree.
Old threads
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No. 453614

>>451933
>I mentioned this to my OB and she said these types of intrusive thoughts are normal for late stage pregnancy and even a bit after birth. I can't imagine how paranoid I'll be when baby is actually born.
I had these sorts of thoughts too. It winds down by 6 to 8 months PP if you don't breastfeed. Hang in there.
I'd be wary about getting baby gear off FB marketplace too tbh. If you need used items for cheap, there are children's consignment shops and big swap meet sales, depending on the city you live in if youre in the US. Or just send your brother to pick stuff up for you if you do use FB marketplace

No. 453826

>>452557
I have 2 under 2 and honestly I wish I waited until my oldest was in school first (starts at 3 here). I'm lucky my youngest wasn't colicky and slept well cause I would've lost my mind if he wasn't

No. 453829

>>451933
A lot of it is connected to misogyny/hate boner for mums. A lot of these could've been prevented with better protections for pregnant women and new moms but people actually advocate to put pregnant women in even more dangerous situations to "prove their accountability"

No. 453920

>>451933
Strangers aren’t the ones killing pregnant women; it’s partners and family members.

No. 455671

>>452576
>>453611
>>453826
I think I'll aim for 2.5 years. Thanks for the advice.


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No. 90960[Reply]

I can't be the only one who constantly has to deal with selfish and clueless guys who've obviously got their idea of sex from watching too much porn.

So let's share our worst and cringeworthies sexual experiences in this thread!
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No. 454679

>>454524
Pillow princess piss me the fuck off, sorry not sorry. I want my fun too, it’s just unfair for someone to just sit there and do shit.

No. 454681

>>454550
When I read gummy bears I knew that there were the sugar free ones kek. I’m sorry nonna.

No. 454707

>>454679
Starfishers in general should all die, men or women. Give me my pounding or fuck off.

No. 454711

>>454550
I am… so fucking sorry

No. 455668

>>454681
>>454711
Yeah…he did laugh about it the next day and despite reconnecting recently, he's never brought it up again so I'm ok with it now.


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No. 420991[Reply]

Share tips, vent, advice, similar experiences, how to get out of such a rut, what can be changed, what helped you personally, where to meet women you can relate to.

This thread is for:
-those of us who spent our formative years on 4chan/other male dominated spaces and got internet poisoning from it
-those of us who realised men aren't your friends but are now alone
-gender dysphoric women especially socially dysphoric
-ex-TIFs who have come to terms with being female but are now adrift
-those of us who are gender non-conforming in personality, not only appearance
-assorted spergs/speds who have difficulty understanding social norms, unwritten rules, tone of voice, and reading between the lines
-low-empathy or low EQ women
-general loners and NEETs

This thread is NOT for humblebragging about how cool and rational and edgy you are. Please.

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No. 455465

>>455238
>I envy passionate women and any woman with a strong sense of self
Well don't worry anon, as lamented above these are qualities many women lack so you shouldn't have a shortage of friendship options. I'm literally >>454787 so we have the opposite problem and you'd probably dislike me as I'm everything you can't relate to, but i can tell you there's a bunch of other women out there exactly like that. I suggest bonding with them through mocking the traits and interests of the more passionate women around you, it worked for my former bullies, they seemed really close kek

No. 455528

>>455463
I know i'm supposed to like smart passionate people instead of envying them, buy nothing I do can change my feelings. I just act as if I liked them and wished them well. Why is this shitty or wrong?
Instead of chosing to be a loner I chose to give them social services in exchange for company to leave the house. I listen to them, laugh at their jokes, ask questions, don't disagree, don't change subjects, don't talk to them umprompted, never ask for favours, offer them help etc. None of that transaction requires us to like each other.
I know it's not ideal but it also isn't mean or wrong to be unable to feel adequate feelings for them.

No. 455596

>>454762
LOL that's true but my experiences are consistent on other radfem platforms as well
>>454767
that's really unfortunate regarding your experiences with those friends, i'm sorry. i haven't heard of that happening, but i believe you 100% and that's so fucking corny of them.
>any "movement" or ideology that depends upon the mythologization (and thereby reification) of femininity is not legitimately feminist
i love this take and it scratched an itch in my brain i couldn't put in words, thanks so much nonna. you are right and it creeps me out how many of these supposed feminist movements (whether they call themselves that or merely adopt some values like fds as you mentioned) jork it over "divine femininity". i especially hate the ones who say "women are powerful and amazing because they can create life" because i can't put it into proper words; it just sounds so tone-deaf and bordering on trad-wife mental. its as if they're again trying to push us into being terminal baby makers to "connect to ur spiritual uterus cosmic energy" or some shit lmao
>>454787
based and truth speaking take i love bringing out hater energy in normie women when we have 1 on 1 conversations
usually they'll tell me about a little goal they've done that is against their usual docile behavior and i celebrate. sometimes they need a little encouragement. at my job we have a lazy male manager that never does anything no matter how much we're struggling and maybe a female coworker will go "ohh lazy manager is working today..? oh.." and ill go "yeah honestly i think he is a fat lazy tard and i hope his girlfriend beats him every day" unprompted. they giggle and start ranting (sometimes leads to deeper convos) because i've already hit the extreme so they feel more comfortable. sorry if thats not the type of example you were really getting at but i hope it entertains the fine ladies in this thread regardless

No. 455733

I wish I knew where to meet women. My mother has a lot of female friends, a lot from adulthood. Where the fuck did she meet them? The spaces I inhabit are horrible though for it though. I do yoga but a lot of the women are older, they seem really nice but the 20 year age gap just makes it difficult. I joined a womens book club and it was the exact same issue. I joined mtg drafts a while back but it was mostly men and they seemed distant, like they didn't want to interact with me much and seemed more interested with talking with the other guys. I don't really blame them for that. Maybe I need to get a job and meet women there?

No. 456077

>>455733
Yes you'd have more luck finding someone at your workplace. Best of luck nonna. Personally, I live in a shit country with barely any clubs, and l can't relate to the handful of women l work with. (No hobbies in common, different mindsets, etc…)


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