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No. 153564[Reply]

First Thread : >>112815

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like yout weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Also, a reminder that we all have our ups and downs. You're human, allow yourself to fail. Just pick yourself up again and don't give up.

No ana, please.
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No. 180071

How do I get /fit/ as an absolute weakling? I'm talking more along the lines of powerlifting and all that. I can barely lift a gallon of water up my apartment stairs, and feel embarassed trying to lift at the gym bc I'm super weak. /fit/ anons how did you do it?

No. 180094

Lift and eat more, that's pretty much it.

No. 180117

If it's that bad, just start out by lifting 250ml water bottles at home. Also eat more protein and raise your calorie intake, but do research so you don't end up fat instead. Or depending on your size you might want to look into recomping.

No. 180153

its probably just how you are if you are still pretty young. if you're in your 20s, you should probably try to gain a little. if you are wondering if its some sort of mental illness then it might be a sign that its linked to that.

No. 180241

Yeah I am. I have an anorexic auntie and I think that's why people freak out but she's 5'6 and easily gets down to the 75-80 pound range and is hospitalized. I don't think we are similar at all. I have a lot of Korean and Japanese friends and they all talk about being enormous when they weigh like 88 pounds at most so I am scared of gaining, especially when I am living overseas.

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No. 114320[Reply]

In this looks obsessed world. Especially as a woman, honest people will admit our entire worth is based on our looks by society.
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No. 180041

more like it accidentally came out when we were joking around. She was bemoaning about not having a bf and how men befriend fat women only to get access to their hotter friends but she "doesn't even have any hot friends!". She noticed what she said after I started acting awkward and said "Not that I think you are ugly" and added right after "but you aren't that cute either". lol
But tbh I got over myself and now I think it's just a case of different tastes. She send me a photo of a girl she finds ugly, I think she is cute. She thinks Timothee Chalamet is the hottest guy around, I think he is a rat.

No. 180045

that's actually probably a really healthy and well-adjusted way of thinking about it (in terms of taste). if someone finds you unattractive, it's way easier to take it less personally if you know that what they consider attractive is butt-ugly in your eyes.

No. 180047

she evidently has shit taste but even if she finds you unattractive you dont say that to people especially your friends, maybe i'm super sensitive but i think its very inappropriate, granted i understand "i dont have any hot friends" part mainly because hot and beautiful are 2 different things especially what men consider "hot" is very different from my taste so in that sense i get it, but saying "you're not that cute either" is an asshole move, she's probably insecure and tried to attack your self esteem, it really depends on her tone i mean if this is how you guys joke around its okay i guess but just so you know you can easily find other female friends that'll hype you she seems toxic

No. 180048

I'm glad you didn't let it hit your self-esteem, but you should realize her saying "you aren't that cute either" is a big asshole move on her part. Like >>180047 said it sounded like she was trying to hurt your self-esteem, because how dare you even think for a second you might be cute? Idc if it's a joke, it's fucking disrespectful.

No. 180052

i slowly stopped wearing makeup after the quarantine, i was average, maybe slightly below average in highschool and hated my face and body in general, i started dressing more and more feminine in uni and got better at makeup, i started drawing more attention and getting compliments, since i wasnt used to this type of attention before i got super dependent on makeup to the point where i wouldnt go to the supermarket without winged eyeliner, i felt hideous barefaced and never took pictures without makeup, during quarantine i just stopped caring and rarely wore makeup outside, now for the first time in my life im starting to like my face and ive been taking pictures with no makeup, i still feel more confident with makeup/dressed up because i experience a drastic difference in how people treat me with and without it and i unfortunately internalize that, but i personally like my face as it is and feel more comfortable in my skin without makeup and that makes me happy

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No. 139461[Reply]

post your experiences with plastic surgery or future plans
I plan on getting full face fat graft, a nose job and lip fillers

what about you guys

would you get anything done

I hate the stigma about plastic surgery and I hate being average/unattractive, I want to be pretty
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No. 178360

It's impossible to separate 'internal' motivation and patriarchal society influence on how we perceive what beauty is. A person may think this is what they want but why? Unless it's linked to some medical issues (changing a nose shape to deal with breating issues or so), it's to appeal to modern beauty standards unfortunately dictated by what men judge as attractive.
I think everyone should do whatever they want, but let's not delude ourselves here.

No. 178458

There might be slight sagging. Most I've seen turned out just fine but I'm prepared to get a face lift if needed. Do you remember the YouTubers name?

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No. 180014

One of my eyes is bigger than the other since I was born. It's mostly obvious in photos and I tend to avoid being photographed because of it but it's also more pronounced when I'm tired or have an allergic reaction. I don't think it's an eye-size issue, more like ptosis of the lid. It's not as obvious for most people but I have a pretty big complex because of it.
I've been thinking of getting a blepharoplasty on the smaller eye but man, I'm so afraid I'm gonna scar or they mess it up and it's gonna look much more uneven than now.
Anyone has any info or experience with this?

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I used to have mild ptosis as a teenager and it went away on its own as I aged into adulthood. I wasn't born with it though, so your mileage may vary. have you tried using makeup to hide it?

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No. 172132[Reply]

ITT:Discuss unconventional and conversational turn ons that aren't related to kink or bdsm and are mostly Benine

I'll start, having sex with a guy while he's wearing glasses
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No. 179848

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Asian and Native American men with high cheekbones. This feature looks so good on them in particular, almost like it was made for them.

No. 179857

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>Asian and Native American men
I think long hair suits them better too

No. 179871

I agree. The perfect mix of handsome and beautiful.

No. 179893

omg it's corpse

No. 180000

it's really attractive to me when a guy is visibly tired. It totally turns me on to hear him fighting back yawns

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No. 150474[Reply]

Last thread reached the limit so here's a new one.

I confess that I've always had crushes on unobtainable people, e.g. anime characters and internet personalities, more than people I actually know. I feel like the fact they're out of reach makes them more attractive, and I kind of don't mind I'll never date them as it's fun to just daydream about them as escapism.
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No. 179952

Are you that same anon from a few days ago who sent a nude to a british guy just because he's european.

No. 179954

How did you meet anon? Have you both seen what each of you look like? You should tell him how you feel, like you did in that reply

No. 179955

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yeah, I used to have a crush on this man as a kid without really knowing how he looked like.
seeing his paintings on history textbooks depicting massacres always made me a bit emo.

No. 179962

Went on a date with a super posh dude (think very educated job, ultra posh way of talking, ridiculously nerdy hobbies) who then proceeded to ghost me.

My obsessive ass can’t get over it even though I have no idea if he’s all that interesting, good in bed or even at kissing. But I can’t get the fucker out of my head. Posh/proper people make me want to bully them and mess them up a bit arghhh.

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It's because he's dead.

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No. 142100[Reply]

A thread to discuss hair and hair issues.
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No. 179915

>sugar hairstyling creepypasta
Tell me more, please.

No. 179947

Honey wash anon here. Yeah, tried rinsing it out with just water a second time, can confirm it doesn't come out. Best to use eggs if you're going to start putting your kitchen in your hair

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No. 179951

Is there a reason you haven't tried washing it out with a shampoo?

No. 179996

Did you use the right kind of honey? I know people that do it but they mix it with oil, I've never heard of it just being mixed with water.

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No. 149288[Reply]

Haven’t seen one of these here, and I figured this would be a nice place for us to share support, beauty tips & tricks! As well as vent about the stigma around getting older
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No. 179762

Yer doing it wrong. Should go cleanse, moisturize, wait 15-20 minutes for product to be absorbed, THEN apply tret, then a layer of vaseline. Also if you can, get a humidifier. I've been a lazy idiot so I haven't been using mine but it really does help.

No. 179763

Also I should point out this fixed it mostly for my cheeks but my forehead is still fucked. Tonight I tried applying urea cream to it, let's see if it does anything.

No. 179805

urea, like the stuff that's in your pee?

No. 179934

Yes but these days we have this thing called "science" where we have isolated the ingredient and you don't need to piss on yourself anymore.

No. 180067

>you don't need to piss on yourself anymore
why didn't you tell me this earlier

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No. 140946[Reply]

Haven't seen a thread about this yet, so, any tips/discussion with dealing with trauma that still affects you today?

Discuss any specific or odd triggers you may have, how you cope (regressing, etc.), any other conditions you have that may be associated with your trauma, etc.
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No. 179296

I don't have anything of value to add, just to say that our stories are so remarkably similar. You aren't alone in what you went through and you're not a static human. You have already shown the ability to grow, resist mistreatment and reflect on your experiences. You'll get to where you want to be, and you'll break the cycle. Believe in yourself. You're strong and unstoppable

No. 179303

Thank you anon that means a lot to me, I haven't talked about this with anyone except my psychiatrist and it feels good to just say it. I'm sorry you went through similar things but you're strong too. We're going to build our futures despite our pasts, brick by brick.

No. 179894

I started reading the recommended trauma books but they always bring my brain straight to my past… and I always judge myself, and it's just been annoying to try to finish them. Is it worth it? Has anyone been grateful they read books about overcoming cptsd? Or would it be better to stick to dbt stuff and just truck along?

No. 179908

what books are you reading, anon?

No. 179912

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

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No. 178060[Reply]

Discuss anything skincare related!
Previous threads:
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No. 179655

Is there a way to make the TO vitamin C work under sunscreen? Because jfc does it pill. It pills even under moisturizer.

No. 179690

are you giving it enough time to absorb? I usually let it do so for about 5-10 minutes and then proceed with other skincare / makeup steps, never had any issue

No. 179760

Can vitamin C tablets cause acne? I started taking them about two months ago, and shortly after I started getting zits all over my face, chest, arms, and back. I recently got blood tests done, and my hormone and thyroid panels came back normal. I was under the impression that all forms of vitamin c were great for your skin, but I can’t think of any other causes. I’m freaking out a bit.

No. 179878

I mix it with moisturizer and only use it at night (cause I heard it makes your skin sensitive to uv?)

No. 179887

You haven't been stressed lately? Any big changes in your life? Change of diet? How about the weather changing?

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No. 136699[Reply]

ITT: post characters/actors that you had a crush in your youth but may or may not have any feelings for now

mine was Trey Parker
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No. 179861

How old were u anon?

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No. 179864

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I know he was posted ITT already but this man still ticks all of my boxes to this fucking day down to the elf ears and shit attitude. I saw him when I was 10 and instantly fell in love, my questionable taste is all this stupid alien's fault

No. 179868

6 or 7 kek

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