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No. 392852

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>>392754
hi nona, this is >>392749. Not trying to nitpick, but I'll go through the points you listed and point out any warning signs/things I'd want any friend of mine to watch out for.

>the back section of his shop wasn't fully enclosed and not more than 15ft from the entrance to his shop
Did the shop have any customers? Is the inside of the shop and the inside of the back area of the shop visible from the street? Were there people on the street? How small is the back area?
>i watched him make the tea and ate an orange after he tried to offer me snacks from the shop.
It's good that you watched him prepare the food. As a rule I'm just wary of strange men offering it in general, and because of things like picrel.
>he asked my age and i guess men of that generation see nothing wrong with that kind of age gap, i think if i had said younger he would've been respectful.
1. So he was being disrespectful
2. Please don't try to read his mind or excuse his actions for him. This is a strange outside party you don't know anything about. Anything goes, especially when he's a strange older and bigger man and it's late at night and alone.
>he invited me to his apartment nearby, not to stay in the shop
Horrifying. He's trying to get you to an unknown location in an area you're already not familiar with (how do you even confirm it's "nearby" until you get there? what's stopping him from lying to you and saying 'just a little bit longer, we're almost there' until he finds a good alleyway? what's preventing him from limiting the number of strange men around you to just himself?)
>he never tried to text me again after the single text he sent the next day. he shook my hand that i offered when i left, he never tried to initiate physical contact.
thank god for small mercies
>he was weird in the sense that he didn't realise how strange it was to be offering me work and a place to sleep the night. i think yes he was speedrunning marriage with me in his head a little bit because he kept saying he never met a woman like me in this country (tbf the city he is in has less demure female demographicPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 393007

Yesterday a woman started yelling at me metres from my face and I could vaguely make out "go home" and "you people" over my music. I am mixed but very white so she is retarded but this happens often. I looked her in the eyes and they were so wide. I just kept walking without looking affected and I hope seeing my headphones in made her feel small. She was outside her flat smoking. Is it ever worth reporting these things? I go down that alley (it's more like a big open shortcut to town centre) often so I don't want to bump into her again. Anything I can be doing to protect myself if getting yelled at in broad daylight is a common occurence? Is it bad to ever respond? I live in a small English town and always having to just take verbal abuse is making me lose confidence.

No. 393009

>>393007
100% worth reporting if only to establish a paper trail. The police response may be that they can't do anything, but having it down means that they're more likely to actually take things seriously if things escalate, whether that's with you or any other poor racially ambiguous person that crosses that lady's path. Sorry you went through that.

No. 393035

>>392745
I…you’re so stupid this physically hurt. I pray the whole post is bait. You’re not mature enough to be having sex tbh if this is something you genuinely considered doing. I’m probably not much older than you but I want to scold you like I’m your mother. Shame on you. Protect yourself, especially from moids like that.

No. 393042

>>392745
You're already anticipating that even if you go there consensually and give the creep what he wants that he may not let you leave afterwards.. come on anon, you know this screams dodgy and you're only fighting common sense here. Meeting in a cafe won't help you if ultimately your plan is to end up alone with him anyway.

In general don't unload vulnerable info (your neet status or life story esp negative stuff) to random older men you've just met. Hold back on that because you'll keep on finding that these guys just happen to be into you in a sexual way. Because it's not deep or charitable or a kind connection. It's just another form of what pick up artists do too. Saying shit to get into your head and make you think one chance convo was so profound that you've just got to ruminate over it afterwards. Stop thinking about him, about that day and stay tf away from 40 year olds like that.


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No. 391276[Reply]

What would you say is the best thing you learned as as a woman that you would tell another woman? What do you wish someone told you earlier?

Can be a word of wisdom from a woman in your life, a piece of media, a band, anything that moved you or you learned to be true

Just nothing detailed about killing men I think we all know about that.

For instance:
Be fully conscious about the feelings someone gives you and make sure you really want them in your life.
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No. 393001

Stop caring about others’ opinions of you.

No. 393010

The longer you stay single the less you want to accommodate a partner.

No. 393017

>>392983
>Practicing positive self talk has made such a difference in my life.
Me too! Fake it until you make it, one day you end up meaning the words for real.
>>392988
>I want to try this but I would feel like pixielocks if I did…
kek just don't pretend it's a real other person living in your head. Imagine there's a person/character next to you encouraging you instead.

And in the same spirit: if you keep saying, thinking, writing "I'm crazy", "I'm a lost cause", "I suck", you are actively harming yourself and causing yourself to act worse. You really do become what you tell yourself you are. Being positive literally makes cancer treatment more effective, and being negative makes it less effective and more likely the patient dies.

No. 393034

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>>392983
I second this! Resetting my default way of thinking from extremely negative self talk to kindness and appreciation for myself has changed everything for me. No matter what happens in my life now I don't ever question my character or my self worth anymore.

It's so uncomfortable to make the change in the way you speak to yourself, I found it embarrassing to like myself, like it was just vanity and that was wrong. but after a little while it became natural and I can't believe I was ever so cruel to myself. we get to be in this body once and no matter what we do we cannot change that so we may as well love and cherish ourselves. why would we not?

No. 393087

>>393010
THIS IS SO TRUE. WOW


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No. 355199[Reply]

A home to post your nerdy crushes here. Whether he just wears nerdy glasses, or if has nerdy hobbies, or is just, a plain nerd.

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No. 392388

>>391248
oh, absolutely not, the mustache is essential

No. 392936

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I go wild for younger Jay. I honestly prefer his doofus oversized glasses look to whatever he’s got going on now. He’s adorable either way though.

No. 392958

>>391248
agreed, we cant have shit. He looks like a sex offender now.

No. 393002

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>>392936
I genuinely prefer him older or at least when he knew how to use facial hair properly. One exception to the moids age terribly rule.

No. 393110

>>392958
true dat


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No. 363202[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive men that you have no shame admitting you'd fuck.
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No. 392648

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>>390784
>young Dave Mustaine
God yes

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>>392648
Yes! You get it!

No. 392975

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This random gay dude. Pity he's gay

No. 392977

>>392975
looks like Gerbert Johnson. Gerbert is straight, ask him out

No. 392982

>>390745
God he is so hot, where can you even find guys like this in outside of Tokyo or on the west coast of the US? Not that I’ll actually succeed in finding one but still


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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 392896

I don't know if this is something to really brag about but we were just staring into each other's eyes romantically and his dick got hard. He's such a romantic and gets turned on by me even when I look like a mess. After seeing other women complain about pornsick scrotes who only get off to weird shit I just feel so blessed…

No. 392909

My Nigel was so inspired by me starting law school in the fall he’s going to community college, we wouldn’t be getting married for a few more years at least since we’re both in our early 20s but his reasoning was that “he doesn’t want to be a deadbeat husband that just had a minimum wage job” and that he wants to make a decent amount of money too so we can build a life together (ie. Buy a house, have kids). I am so lucky to be with him, I had such bad luck with guys before I met him.

He is really thoughtful and just has a genuine joy in his heart, his default is to be happy all the time which is so wonderful to be around. In over a year of dating, he has truly never been mad at me, and he loves when I nag him about things???? Whenever I’ve apologized for nagging him about making healthier choices or getting something he needs to get done, he tells me that he is so appreciative of how much I care about him and that he can tell it comes from a place of love. He is a once in a lifetime kind of guy I really cannot believe it.

No. 392922

>>392909
It’s my dream to meet a moid who loves being nagged and yelled at.

No. 392924

>>392922
tons of comments from moids to this video talking about how turn on they are

No. 392964

>>392922
Ayrt and I literally did not think it was possible for someone to find my objectively most grating trait attractive and lovable. He tells me he’s never been mad at me and we’ve been together for over a year so sometimes he gets on my nerves for small things because we spend a lot of time together, but he has NEVER been irritated at me. It’s really beyond anything I could’ve imagined.


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No. 366897[Reply]

A place for Asian women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss Asian culture.
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No. 392946

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>>392882
>>392834
>>392879
My understanding is lactose intolerance really only affects drinking skim milk, other dairy products like cheese, cream etc are not high enough in lactose to cause serious issues unless you eat/drink a lot of it

No. 392949

>>392946
I have that lactose intolerance. I can only drink whole milk, but the fat amount isn't recommendable to drink it everyday.

No. 392953

>>392949
That sucks. I have one lactose tolerance gene and one intolerance gene (hapa) and I can drink milk without an issue but if I eat something with a lot of cheese or cream in it I get horribly gassy
Carbs + lactose seems to be the nightmare combo

No. 392957

>>392879
ayrt I live in America but I am the only Western-born member of my family. My family actually apparently sort of thinks food intolerances and allergies are like a white person thing because it was unheard of when they were growing up, they were too poor to really be picky
>>392946
>>392949
Did not realize there was a significant difference between skim and whole milk, that's interesting. I don't really ever drink skim milk because I don't prefer the taste but I drank like 6 cups of whole milk today (trying to finish a gallon before it expires) and I feel great

No. 392960

>>392957
Honestly there are a lot of allergies with my cousins on my dad's side, I don't know if its a white thing or some environmental thing, but I never had them
Skim milk has the most lactose in it because it has the least amount of fat (hence the skim)
Cream is the opposite, it has a lot more fat content so the lactose % is small


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No. 248328[Reply]

The good, the bad, the ugly. Share your experiences here, what are the best apps to use, your success stories, cringeist interactions, horror, etc.

Previously >>>/g/82463
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No. 392321

>>392297
all i’m saying is that the turning point was shit like belle delphine and that didn’t happen until recently. when i was 13 my peers were following her on instagram.

No. 392590

I hope I'm wrong and it's just a coincidence, but why do keep getting ghosted the day before a date? I've been talking a lot with this guy from OKC. 99% match he hasn't seen before, we haven't even met yet, and he's been pretty forward this week. Wants to get married, have kids, etc. I'm glad for this because me too. We quickly move to texting from the app.
Friday night his night unexpectedly became free and he said "if we'd already met, I'd ask if you'd like to see each other, but we already have plans for Sunday." I responded, "yeah let's let our first date have plenty of time to get to know each other" and he told me I'm worth the wait. I haven't really asked about details of the date, but I trust enough he'd tell me. Yesterday morning, he told me he plans for our date to go well so I am expected to enjoy his cooking. Last night he had this big event to go to, he sends me a mirror selfie, so I decided to send him one of myself back. I also had a busy night so I said I'm hitting the hay early. Before I head to my bed, I decided to check OKC and he's not in my messages anymore. I was able to grab history of his OKC profile and it's still there. I'm just confused. Did he mistake my not complimenting him back as not being as interested? I've been still talking to him. I'm just not comfortable doing that until we see each other in person, after that then I'll go hard on the compliments. I can only guess if I am being ghosted is that some guys can't actually handle a woman with self respect. I want this to be a secure relationship. I'm not going to throw myself at just anyone over a couple texts.
I'll update in a few hours if it goes better than expected.

No. 392671

>>392590
Did you look different in your mirror selfie compared to the other photos on your profile? This reads more like he removed you after seeing your photo rather than being annoyed about not receiving a compliment.

No. 392740

>>392671
Not at all. I have other mirror selfies.
He got back to me, he said it's best we disconnect because we're not the same religion and I'm not as religious as he is and he sees it'll create too much stress when raising children. I'm mostly frustrated because my first message to him was telling him "I notice I'm not as religious as you are, if that's an issue, we don't have to continue." And he brushed it aside. A wonderful day to think of religion, Saturday night.
Not sure if that's the real reason, but I guess I'll accept it to move forward.

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I think I'm doing mentally good if I rarely see schizos on OKC. Came across this.


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No. 348009[Reply]

Previous thread: >>>/g/174637
Talk about sex toys, stimulation, techniques, etc.
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No. 392263

>>388356
I have a rose dildo vibrator thing that have a small "tongue" that licks you (feels so hard against your lips, so you need tons of lubricant).

I wish I could buy a realistic dildo, but none of them convince me to buy them.

No. 392333

why are so many dildos and strap ons dick shaped, i hate it

No. 392382

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im someone thats not into penetration but I enjoy receiving oral. are there any toys nonnies can recommend to me that isnt just a womanizer or its clones?

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>>392382
Something like this? Still, I recommend to use some lotion before so it doesn't hurt you at first.

No. 392973

>>392333
what else would they be shaped like?
There's actually a lot of more abstract ones out there, but it sorta has to be cylindrical and tapered to be comfortable.


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No. 208345[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about the fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your lolita friendships. Ex lolitas and newbies are welcomed too. Etc.
For drama, check out the tread on /w/: >>>/w/143376
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No. 381376

>>380450
The discord servers are dead too or packed with n00bs. It would be nice to have a new outlet.

No. 381624

>>380450
Try /cgl/, this thread, Tumblr, blogs, personal websites etc. As >>381376
said, Discord is full of tards.

No. 388867

This is more of a vent, but I wish my comm could just for once have a meet-up that doesn't eventually devolve into a "who has the most severe autism and gender dysphoria" competition. The girls in my comm are (for the most part) fun to talk/hang out with, but every meet-up turns into autism anecdotes and it gets so embarrassing as members loudly try to one-up each other in public.

No. 392055

>>388867
Sounds like my comm. They're 90% itas so I tend to not go to their meetups. This gender confusion epidemic is an absolute scourge on vulnerable young people. It's like I don't fit in because I'm just female and not mentally ill. The biggest itas are always the loudest. I'm wondering if there's a secret comm in the midst of it all

No. 392941

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I've been a long time admirer of Lolita fashion, and now that I'm making money I really want start wearing the clothes myself. I really like classic lolita,sweet lolita on the more elegant side, and 'country Lolita's. I found a brand called Miss Point and they check all my boxes. I'm pretty certain they are a Chinese indie brand, but I love their designs more then the typical mainstream stuff. They are more in my price range too lol. Has anyone here ever bought something from them? Their reviews on Reddit seem to be positive but I wanted a second opinion. Picrel is one op I'm looking at. So many of their pieces are calling my name.


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No. 342272[Reply]

I know Adam Driver gets a lot of controversial lust because his face is cartoonishly ugly, but look at that STUPID body my god, those fat tits and huge shoulders every man’s body should look like this imo.

ITT post a sexy man body, do NOT post his face tho
That’s what the irl husbando or attractive men you wanna fuck thread is for
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No. 392850

>>392849
LMAO you didn't have to do that. thank you I guess

No. 392871

>>392849
KEKK nonnie you even got rid of his mole, I love you

No. 392902

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clip from a cringe streamer, one guy had a nice body

No. 392911

>>392849
But the happy trail was the hottest thing about that picture…

No. 392929

>>392911
it wasn't the happy trail that was the problem, that's fine (to me). it was the fact that the happy trail led to the horrible hack job he did on his pubes.


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