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No. 86733[Reply]

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Share or vent your relationship problems. Get advice from helpful farmers.
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No. 108311

Lol wtf that makes no sense on his part. And whats up with the amount of anons dealing with video game addicted losers as boyfriends? I stg I see these stories like 7 days a week now

No. 108315

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>you had better figure out real quick
>either I am quitting my job and leaving or you are leaving
>this is the final warning
>it's very rude to help me be late
>I cannot even say how many evenings you ruined

He doesn't love you. Your his scapegoat mommy that he fucks occasionally, and can claim he at least has a gf.
This is someone who hates you, is an enemy, and isn't ever thinking about your interests. I feel abused just having read this secondhand, anon…….

Reposting because I also forgot to mention that a lot of this sounds like shit that came from his parents after he ran to whine to them about you. I know because I had an ex who talked down to me like this, and a lot of his material came from his batshit mother. The fact that he defers to his parent's relationship in your arguments as if it's the ideal relationship tells me all I need to know. He's a fucking momma's boy and no wonder he thinks you're responsible for his actions.

No. 108318

I hate using this as an excuse but I am afraid to leave him. He has helped me get my job and a lot of my connections are because of him. He has done so much for me and I really do love him.

But also, when we fight, he will threaten violence. He will say “stop talking now or I am literally going to attack you” and “i am going to kill you” (which is so outrageous it makes me laugh at the the time) it comes out very quickly when we fight.

We’ve lived together for two years and I think he is very dependent on me even though he tries to spin it around. I really am afraid of what he might do if I left. I left my family states away to be with him. And I really do love him, I just wish he wasn’t so angry.

Also, he hates his mother more than he hates me and tells her nothing. That should have been a red flag from the beginning. He hates his parents and looks down on them and only relates us to him when it is convenient to his argument.

No. 108321

When you say to him "I love you," understand that you're saying this to someone who is reptilian. I'm sure he performs in the way a boyfriend ought to superficially, but this is someone who acts on impulse. This is someone who, under pressure, cannot love you in the moment and threatens violence against you. He cannot control his feelings.
All physically violent men start out at first as emotional abusers. It will escalate.
You laugh because your brain is at a paradox because while the actions are absurd, your brain knows it could become credible one day. It's nervous laughter in the face of insanity.

Don't care about what happens to him because he clearly doesn't care about what's happening to you. It's all about him. Even after he's been abusive to you, he's got you thinking it should still be about him.
Contact your family, at least tell them your situation and how it might not be safe. See what their feedback is and what they're willing to do to support you at zero hour.

Two years is awhile to be with someone, but don't make living with an abuser five years, or ten. And that's who he is–a violent abuser. You didn't "fail" because this guy baited you in and then started to turn on you. If anything, leaving a relationship like this should be considered a personal victory.

No. 108327

listen to me. you are in an abusive relationship. he is abusing you, and you need to leave. i understand that you love him and that you're worried about what would happen to him if you left, but your concern is not to take care of a grown fucking man and his problems when he is actively abusing you and threatening violence when he gets angry.

for the love of god, do not become another statistic. leave him. you don't have to tell him why. you don't have to tell him you're leaving. you can just go, block him, avoid him, go full no contact. he is not owed an explanation, but YOU are owed your safety and comfort within a home of your own.

good luck to you.

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No. 98077[Reply]

Any farmers here with chronic illnesses? I was recently diagnosed with IBS-PI and wanted to have a thread where people talk about their chronic illnesses, life with them, and how they handle them. I was hoping I could also get some tips on how to deal with IBS, if anyone else here has it.
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No. 103283

Would you ever try psilocybin/mushrooms to see if it would help your migraines?


(No full text access sorry)

No. 103284

I'd love to try them at least once, but I'm pretty much migraine-free now.

Even if I do get the occasional one, it's so mild that I might not need to take an aspirin.

No. 103288

I have ulcerative colitis which is autoimmune and my meds suck because I literally catch about 10 colds a year bc of my suppressed immune system and still get monthly flare ups. Gonna get a colonoscopy next month (fucking yay) but hopefully they can figure out a new medicine plan that actually works

No. 108262

It's been a while since this thread was bumped. How is everyone keeping?

It's 5:40 in the morning and I'm going to a mental health support group at 10. I'm in so much pain that I can't sleep. I feel like I have to go anyway because I was on a waiting list to get into this group and I only have one more meeting left after this one.

No. 108296

I'm another anon who used to have chronic migraines, and I can attest that high protein low carb (practically carb-free) diet did wonders for me too.

I started the diet because I've read somewhere else that it helped and I'm so happy that I don't spend that much time in pain anymore. If any other anons are suffering from migraines, consider having a diet rich in animal fats. Not only have I reached my weight goal but more importantly, I'm more productive.

I'm also glad that I don't drink pills anymore. Even though aspirin and the like are not deadly, the amounts I used to take due to migraines were not healthy.

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No. 78217[Reply]

Idea stolen from >/g/res/77493
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No. 108217

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Thx for the name. I think she looks good in her selfies but she has a very punchable manly looking face in candids like >>108180
She has knock knees, no waist or hip definition and is literally build like a refrigerator. Where's the anon, who always sperged about that whole Hollywood is transgender? Kek

No. 109090

trans?? seriously??

No. 109091

her pug ass face is so ugly

No. 113151

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EW. I’m a huge fan of Game of Thrones but I can’t stand watching Maisie Williams’ scenes. Her face is just awful, especially when she screws it up the way she does. While reading about some of GOT’s actors, I found out that Maisie is on some campaign against beauty stereotypes in the acting industry. “But I think it’s sad that you only get to see one type of beautiful on screen.” It’s not one type of beauty that gets casted, you’re just ugly. If she wants to mean what she says, she shouldn’t be bowing down to and following Sophie Turner around like a puppy dog. Reading about this made me really dislike her.

No. 113491

so fucking ugly, looks like a child with some sort of developmental disorder

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No. 63860[Reply]

anyone else annoyed with the weight gaining trend? I understand if it's an anorexic girl recovering, but I'm talking about the girls who look fine but shove every little debbie and pizza they can find down their throat and think it will go straight to their ass and tits then come to the sad disappointment when everything BUT their ass and tits get larger
it's trending on the internet and being encouraged by moronic men who think gaining weight will make a girls butt or boobs bigger, it's sad when perfectly thin petite girls with slight curves become average chubby girls because of the weight gain shit

anyone had experiences with this or anything like this? thoughts on the weight gain trend?
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No. 107714

Haha you're so angry.
But yeah, continue to hatefully go off about this girl's body to prove to me how you so obviously don't have issues.

No. 107781

holy fuck this thread is ridiculous
stop sperging you fucking idiots get off the internet for a second

No. 107783

Tfs going on in here?

No. 107785

Anachan bumps her thread once a month to post someone who she thinks is "meme fat" and then there's a fight. This thread needs to be locked, nothing good has ever come from it.

No. 107786

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Ana-chan can't even lift a fork though

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No. 78397[Reply]

Years of spending all my free time on the internet (especially on boards) has left me completely fucked up.

Of course, staying true to yourself is important, but in order to find friends, get a career, etc. fitting in is also necessary.
I just want to be a "basic" girl that takes care of her body without feeling the need to look like some anime chara or idol, that takes care of her skin normally, without worrying about shit like "nasolabial folds", that dresses cute, but doesn't stand out in a negative way, but how to do that?
How do normal girls do their makeup or hair, how should i dress and most importantly how should i behave so that other girls will like me?
There's nothing i want more than having girlfriends for simply having movie nights together, eating pizza and chatting…
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No. 104573

It's not about your appearance, tons of normie girls are friends with homely or tomboy girls.
Women are not going to chase you like some thirsty dude for your friendship, they might take some initial steps but if you're hesitant they will back off.
You just have to make an effort, if a girl comes and chats you up and you can barely respond, it's also pretty awkward for them. Open up, be more positive, make plans too.
That can require anything from just pushing yourself a bit more to intense therapy and medication, but it is what it is.

No. 107657

This is really really good advice.

I did this, and the amount of self-cringe is well worth being comfortable in conversations, fuck. People don't care.

No. 107679

I’m starting a job at an upscale place soon
22-25 yr Farmers what do you wear to work?

No. 107702

Uh…whats the occupation?

No. 107720

Like >>107702 said, specifics. But just look at "business casual" on pinterest. Everything on pinterest is normie

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No. 43395[Reply]

Any of you guys have an actual doll face?
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No. 61386

Venus doesn't look Slavic, and besides, she isn't.

No. 61390

Wow, I never expected lolcow to be full of tiny, petite, doll-like girls lol

No. 107375

I've had people say I have a doll face before. But I don't see it.

I knew a girl in art school who had a face that looked like with the right make up she could pull of a BJD look.

No. 107377

Depending on my makeup people at work tell me I have a doll face. I have a round face and small but plump lips, and that's about all. My eyes are too small, my forehead is too big and I hate my potato nose. I look like a fatface mix between Miley Cyrus and Jennifer Lawrence.

No. 107381

Of all the threads to necro, why this pile of cringe?

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No. 93056[Reply]

post yours, ill reply with blank
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No. 105339


I think bodysuits have crotch snaps.

No. 105384

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Speaking as someone who wore a lot of leotards/tights, pull everything down and pee topless.

No. 105504

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I love just… so many of these looks

No. 105540

Thank u kind anon!
And yeah, bodysuits with crotch snaps are easy to use.

No. 107334


i love your style anons!! do you have any favourite stores that you would recc?

where did you get that jacket n dress? They look amazing!

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No. 98588[Reply]

Do you fear your old age? If so, why?

Do you know any women in your family who are total train wrecks later in life?
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No. 107043

It was a meme before those assholes found it, you think they invented it?

A friend of my mom's is a living embodiment of the cool wine aunt OP posted, and a near 40yo lady at my old job was stuck in the cycle until she married some divorced fat guy with kids. Now she is a not-cool wine stepmother since all she does is tweet pics of her drinking wine. Before it was all about her travels and uploading gopro of her going zip lining or some other basic shit.

>and I know men are shitty about age

Everyone is shitty about age, men get maybe 10 years more than women and after that they are too old for most people. Only robots think old men have it easy since they already failed to get any in their 20s and 30s so they now think they be slayin' pussy in their 40s and 50s.

No. 107053

I look forward to getting older and getting my shit together more.
My bf has an older women fetish so I'll be fine in that regard.

No. 107057

I'm 26 and the only thing that terrifies me is that I won't get my shit together before it's too late for me to have children. I'd love to have kids but I'm a huge mess with no job experience or a degree, I'm probably going to be over 30 when I can concider myself stable enough to start a family. And I don't mean that being over 30 is ancient for that, but my family has history of fertility problems, cervical growths, endometriosis etc. that start showing up around that age.

Look-wise I'm ok with getting old, the only thing that will bother me is getting wrinkly and loose skin on my face because it's gonna make putting makeup on a lot harder.

No. 107097

every time this thread gets bumped, i read it as "bioshock general"

>I'm 26 and the only thing that terrifies me is that I won't get my shit together before it's too late for me to have children. I'd love to have kids but I'm a huge mess with no job experience or a degree, I'm probably going to be over 30 when I can concider myself stable enough to start a family.

I'm 28 but otherwise, same. I have a chronic illness that means I can't even completely take care of myself day to day. Taking care of a tiny human in my current state just wouldn't be an option. I'm learning more about how to manage my condition all the time so there is hope that I won't be as helpless in a few years, but I have to be realistic.
I'm still not even sure if I want kids, but the thought of not having the option is starting to worry me. I think I'll still have pretty good odds of conceiving 8-12 years from now, seeing as my mum, maternal aunts and cousins have been able to conceive into their mid 40s. One of my paternal aunts has a chromosomal disorder that made her infertile, and her sister only had one kid around age 30 so it's kind of a toss up there.
idk if you read the alt thread on /snow/ but angela benedict made a video recently about trying to get pregnant at 39. she has to get all these tests and screenings done. I've never looked at someone that age and thought they were old enough to have trouble conceiving. She looks a little younger than she is, so maybe that's just messing with my head even more. It woke me up a little and made me think more seriously about this.

No. 107227

i wouldn't mind being the aunt in the pic.
all of the women in my family marry early, i am almost past that age but it doesn't bother me.

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No. 106790[Reply]

Hello everyone, i wanted to make a thread about NBE, i know you might think it's BS or wishful thinking, i did too, but recently stumbled on a site called breastnexus, its a forum where both women and transgender people have increased their bust sizes naturally with herbs!
I'm not talking about bs like "big bust cream" or something like that but herbs like: Saw palmetto, red clover and so on.
Does anyone have experience with this?
I myself am gonna try this method out in a few months:
It's a user who went from a size 32B to 32F with just roasted soy flour and grounded flax seeds.

I can post updates here when i start.

Anyhow, if anyone has something to contribute, please do so!
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No. 106926

increased estrogen from giving birth or taking hormones can increase breast size, but it purely depends on your genetics.

For some it does absolutely nothing. While another girl I knew grew 3 cup sizes and started lactating.

No. 106938

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Women's breasts grow naturally until the age of 25, anon. There are multiple other reasons that affect breasts.

weight loss can make breasts appear larger as mammary gland is not affected by weight loss. Mammary gland has adipose tissue over it , but it's not normal fat tissue.

Japan also does collection of Nasopharyngeal Specimens, aka sticking a q-tip up someones nose to swab and check for a flu. Japan also doesn't use anesthesia for giving birth. Japanese medicine and medical system is bizarre in general.

No. 106941

>Japan also does collection of Nasopharyngeal Specimens, aka sticking a q-tip up someones nose to swab and check for a flu.

Uh, what is so weird about it? That they don't collect these samples from the throat or what?

Also, weight loss can affect breast size. It's not like lowering your body fat percentage doesn't have any effect on your breasts. Of course, it depends on how extensive the weight loss is.

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No. 107050

Well when I say up the nose, I really mean up the nose. It's extremely uncomfortable and painful to have a q tip all the way up next to your eyes. As for comparison the non painless throat swab is much preferable and they do the q tip up the nose just because.

Their medical system has a lot of nonsense, so them approving non surgical breast enhancement is not really meaning it actually works. They allow a lot of nonsensical and useless procedures in general.

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No. 97536[Reply]

Are there any anons that practice witchcraft? Are you a wiccan? How do you use magic?

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No. 106795

Y’all need Jesus.

No. 106829

>believing you're immortal
>thinking you can see hidden meanings in art/television/music

This is textbook schizophrenia.

No. 106832

Nah, it's just textbook snowflake.

No. 106867

lol i see the similarities but i'm not too worried about it. i realize there's always a possibility that i'm completely mistaken about everything. i also don't think any hidden meanings are specifically intended for me as an individual. they're either intended for anyone and everyone who notices them, or they're not intentional at all and i'm just having fun noticing interesting patterns in the limited system of language.

i don't see what i have to feel special about when millions of people before me have had similar experiences and expressed them way more clearly than my inarticulate ramblings. i kinda feel late to the party. i'd only feel special if i discovered something before anyone else did, or if i discovered something that uniquely applies to me and no one else.

i doubt i'm that far ahead in any important way. i think being far ahead is just about how much control you have over your thoughts and how often you maintain that control. a group sounds cool as long as it doesn't turn into a cult and get in the way of self discovery! if you haven't read them already, try quantum psychology by robert anton wilson, wholeness and the implicate order by david bohm, or a new science of life by rupert sheldrake. i think you'd like them. it's really fun to read traditional occult literature and try to fit those ideas into the ones presented by the books i just mentioned.

No. 109412

Moved to >>>/ot/381137.

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