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No. 341574[Reply]

A thread for any questions you may have in regards for your breasts
>any health concerns, bumps, lumps, dry spots and etc.
>breast surgery such as reduction, lifts or implants
>insecurities with breast size and more
And anything else you can think of.

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No. 462045

Is it weird for me to wish that I had no tits? I see posts and things in various places where girls talk about how they wish that they had bigger boobs, and I just always felt kind of confused because I never understood the appeal of them outside of appeasing the aesthetic desires of horned up dudes. I honestly kinda hate having boobs because they're so damn inconvenient and annoying in so many ways.
I've considered saving up to get breast reduction surgery, though when I look online at pics I never see images of women getting reductions which make them flat like I would want (I'm a D cup and would want to go down to like an A or something, but most things I see for reduction still look pretty big afterwards).
I just feel weird for wanting to make my tits smaller because I worry some ppl will think it's me wanting to become a tranny or something which is not my goal whatsoever. I just want to be less busty and curvy because I think it looks nice and male attention scares me.

No. 463926

My nipples get really itchy sometimes around the time my period is arriving or after it finishes, reading about it, it's due to hormonal fluctuations and whatnot. But how can I prevent it from ever occurring or at least stop it at the time being? It's driving me insane because how constant it is. It also started around the time my boobs got sore, which is another sign my period is approaching.

No. 464143

>>462045
I was in a very similar boat in my early 20s so not super weird.

No. 464150

>>461816
Nona, I know this probably isn’t any consolation, but I really think low-hanging boobs are attractive. I also have low-hanging, “saggy” boobs and I think they look great. I really admire them on other women too (I am gay kek). They suit every body type. The sway of them and the shape is just really beautiful and feminine to me. There’s nothing wrong with you or your boobs!

No. 464176

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>>462045
I think it's really common. I feel the same way, mine aren't super big but combined with my body shape they make me look really top heavy, I hate it. The clothes I like look best on women with no boobs and even when I lose weight my breasts stay the same. I went through a phase where I really wanted to get the full tranny tit chop but I'm glad I never went through with it tbh, still thinking about other options though.
You probably won't see anyone with A cups after reduction because most women can't afford or don't care to get the surgery unless their breasts are debilitatingly large. Usually they do one of the incisions that's less invasive but can't drastically change the size. The "anchor" one has the worst scarring, recovery, loss of nipple sensation/ability to breastfeed, and complications (I will never forget the skin flaps and weird bulges some TIFs get under their arms when it doesn't heal right). But it's also the only way to go flat if you're above like a B cup. Unfortunately there is no easy way to get to the size you want afaik but it may be worth going to a consultation just to see what they can do. It's hypocritical for me to say but I hope you can find peace with your breasts even with the inconveniences and moids being gross and to be clear, moids will be weird creeps regardless of if you're AAA or DDD they just change their technique


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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 464124

>>464095
That sucks.
I rely on my online friends for my social needs since my long term friends from school are married with kids now and I don’t have much in common with them anymore.
Hope find some new connections soon.

No. 464162

>>463626
>Be part of some fandom space
How, xitter? It's all full of gendie kids

No. 464326

>>464095
has it been a long time since you've had friends? you might just need to get used to the process of socializing again if it's been awhile

No. 464419

I’m probably older than everyone here (late 30s) but fuck I hate being so isolated and lonely. This is more of a rant.. so feel free to move past my post.
I have read a few posts and I echo the having a support circle when younger, going through something traumatic and then being left with basically nothing.
I have done things to try and better myself, all positive; seeking therapy etc etc. but I lack a support circle to help me through it.
You can have all the therapy in the world but if you don’t have at least one person in your life that you can relate to, life is just nothing.
I feel my age and the fact I am now sober really hinders my chances of making new friends. I live in buttfuck nowhere, there’s nothing to do in terms of hobbies for me to be social, and I can’t afford to move.
I am stuck and despite all the little things I have done to help me mentally, I’m worried I’m going to just revert back and end up in the loony bin.
It has been so long that I have had actual friends I am woefully inept at being normal. I desperately just want to be myself but I have to pretend to be something I’m not all the time and it is exhausting.
I don’t know what to do, I have exhausted everything I could do and now my options are bleak.
I do have hobbies, a job that requires me to work on site, and I am trying to make friends but that may change imminently as I have to move.

No. 465827

I want people to leave me alone, I want them to hate me if that's possible but the only way for that to happen is if I'm overtly an asshole and bully them which I obviously can't do


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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 463906

>>463903
I think like any addiction, it is possible to recover. But it would take the addict himself wanting to make that change. It's not something you can do to him or train him out of, and the majority of men probably won't wake up to the fact that what they're doing is extremely problematic and decide they actively want to do the work to change themselves. They find ways to justify the behavior especially because it's so pervasive and normalized in our society.

No. 463914

>>414796
I have a friend about 30 years old who does boudoir and BDSM photoshoots and doesn't care what other people think. She was in a relationship with a narcissist who introduced her to BDSM fetish and some swinger/BDSM clubs.
Now they appear to be broken up but she's still a fetish and BDSM model.
Is this what libfem is doing to some people?

No. 463986

>>463903
https://easypeasymethod.org

No. 464005

>>463903
I would say no. Because even the ones that admit they have a problem and attempt to fix their issue, still continue to have long lasting issues with ED and a fucked up way of viewing the world (basically sexualizing everything). It’s more than just not watching porn or masturbation. They would need a ton of therapy, avoid the internet, and most men just aren’t willing to put up that kind of effort. At most they will manage a couple/few months and then begin to hide it from you.

No. 464091

>>463903
A man who can't even practice basic self control is trash


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No. 445663[Reply]

Discuss goth music, makeup, fashion that you love. People you admire, gossip, news, etc.

previous thread:
>>86956
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No. 463910

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No. 463936

>>463908
They do it with punk. Remember when everything was getting a -punk suffix? And pop punk? Metal just doesn't get touched because of its association with neckbeards.

No. 463937

>>463798
At least Angela is doing her best to keep the subculture alive. These big YouTubers like ToxicTears, ItsBlackFriday and Jake Munro are superficial and commercialize goth by using #goth when they aren't. I'm glad she put her foot down and tells people know what we're about, and it's not unboxing cheap crap from fast fashion brands.

No. 463957

>>463937
AYRT and I agree, Angela is a awesome when it comes to goth youtube as she makes tons of videos about what the goth scene and music actually is. I also appreciate that she makes the distinction between industrial music and synth pop music not calling them "goth" as well. And even though she has calmed down a bit (by her admission), it's still good that when push comes to shove, she's not afraid to tell it like it is.

Toxic Tears & Jake Munro were never goth at all and were some of the biggest example of goth posers before Emily Boo came in and joined that trifecta. They never talked about music, Jake has even said that goth music sounds like shit and the people in the scene are douchebags. Kaya has said she prefers pop music and doesn't really listen to goth music as well so yeah, it's not surprising that their content reflected a poser take on goth by only focusing on unboxing videos and in Jake's case, just making videos about TikTok people.

ItsBlackFriday is a weird one as she actually does listen to the music or so it seems anyway compared to TT & Jake. But she too only made haul & makeup videos and didn't talk about the music. In the altcows thread people are saying she's just a goth for attention so she can be seen as a celebrity and based on how she acts, I'm kind of inclined to believe it.

So yeah, when it comes to the bigger "goth" youtubers, Angela is easily the best and most authentic one we have. It's pretty amazing that she was able to reach 100k subs for a channel that talks about goth content and not some goff QVC channel who makes their name by shilling cheap goff crap.

No. 463962

>>463908
>That's basically what I wear in spring and summer
No lie, me too, though I tend to do Dark Mori inspired looks in the fall and winter, the layering is perfect for colder weather. But I agree that there's no need to call this goth since it has nothing to do with the scene. It's like these people don't realize that something like "romantic goth" (when it actually is a mix of goth with some romantic elements) came from goth because musicians in the goth scene were dressing like that on stage which inspired the look. With things like Dark Mori, Steampunk, and creepy cute ("pastel goth"), you didn't see musicians of goth bands dressing like this and that's why it's not accepted as a goth thing as it didn't come from goth music or a person who is into goth.

>I still don't get it how any weird dark idea can be labelled "goth".
I think it's because they focus on how black is such a predominant color of choice in our scene and they believe that goth has the copyright (sortaspeak) on the color when it's not true, anyone remember beatniks? They wore a lot of black but you don't see people calling it goth.

>Seriously, they don't do this with punk or metal but they have to do it to us.
Punk kinda gets it like >>463936 with pop punk. There was also "seapunk" (it's mentioned in >>463798 ) which was another tumblr style that had nothing to do with punk but you know, gotta be edgy.


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No. 70148[Reply]

Is anyone a gold digger? Not a sugar baby. The type of gold diggers I talk about are basically scammers because they never give up sex.
How did you get started and what was the biggest gift/request you received?
I've started reading the book Ho Tactics and it's pretty good.
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No. 408552

>>408549
Arranged marriages

No. 408578

>>408552
That makes them not incels then

No. 463737

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how do I convince this nerd to knock me up

No. 463745

>>463737
Be blonde and nerdy

No. 463755

>>463737
Did someone put a curse on you to feel this way? Involving a jinn, perhaps?


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No. 297242[Reply]

Previous Thread: >>215102

Rules
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>Don't organize any type of discord/telegram/etc group in this thread or anywhere else on lolcow. Organize it elsewhere.
>Don't get discouraged if you get ghosted or don't immediately click with someone, shit happens. Keep trying.
>This website is 18+ only, don't post here if you are a minor.

Guidelines to consider:
>Contact
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No. 463238

>>462231
nonnie if you see this nemarisunstrider tried to add you on discord but the message isnt going through <3(wrong heart)

No. 463239

>>463236
btw this is the same poster and i just wanted to warn if its a deal breaker but i loatheeee anime, except for literally just studio ghibli and sailor moon. i know a lot of girlies on here mentioned anime and manga but i just cannot bring myself to like it.

No. 463307

>>463236
Do you have email or another way to contact you nonna? You sound so lovely but I don't use discord.

No. 463337

>>463236
it says you're not accepting friend requests

No. 463340

>>463237
Hi! I have a discord too, pennypetal


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No. 141299[Reply]

previous thread: >>>/g/49363


Discuss your shitty brain here.
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No. 462210

Alright, who here has severe body dysmorphia? I feel like most people diagnosed with BDD have mild symptoms compared to mine and can’t relate to my struggles.
I can’t go outside, can’t take pictures or look at old ones (I haven’t take one for years and I’ve deleted every single picture of me that was taken after I was 8), I even disabled the Face ID thing on my iPhone despite it not actually showing my face kek. I ruined my life and my mother’s by having mental breakdowns almost everyday and by not attending school or work anymore.
Part of why I keep getting better and relapsing is because of people feeding my delusions (both negative and positive). People can’t stop commenting about young women’s faces and I dread even talking to a man because of that.
I took all kinds of anti depressants, anxiolytics and anti psychotics,as well as seeking help from the top BDD specialists in my country but nothing is helping me.
I also can’t help but resent the people who made me that way (the ones who excluded me because of my face and race when I was a child and a teenager), and I’m thinking about finding a girl that traumatized me in middle school just to humiliate her back. I even considered studying fashion and working in the industry (her dream) just to spite her kek

No. 463091

I've been chronically suicidal my whole life. I hope I die this year.

No. 463098

>>463091
even as a child

No. 463147

>>463098
Yes. I wrote suicide letter when I was around 9. I'm 25 currently

No. 464286

>>462194
You’re almost identical to me, nonna, even up to the art part. For me this feeling started way earlier because of trauma. I had hoped it would go away once I’m older, only for it to become exponentially worse. I appear like a normally functioning person but I’m far from it. I don’t wanna do any task or hobby besides consuming media to get away from real life. I feel this burning emptiness in my chest and I don’t know what to do with it. It feels like I’m in some sort state of quasi dissociation. I look back and I’m like wow I just really wasted most of my teens and twenties with…nothing. Unlike you I didn’t try many medications just because they didn’t do much except numbing me, and not in a good way, so unfortunately I can’t give any advice. I’m sorry you’re also going through this, I hope you eventually find the right medications or feel better otherwise…


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No. 383644[Reply]

A thread to vent your frustrations at certain zodiac signs in general or people in your life who embody that sign itself. All zodiacs welcome (yes including the Chinese one).

Optional questions:
>Who do you get along with more?
>What signs can't you deal with at all?
>Worst zodiac signs for males?
>Worst zodiac signs for women?
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No. 386998

>Who do you get along with more?
Taurus, Virgo, Aquarius, Pisces, Sagittarius
>What signs can't you deal with at all?
Aries, Scorpio, Libra; Leos are hit or miss
>Worst zodiac signs for males?
Libra. Overbearing, arrogant, OCD, typically enmeshed with their mother. Quiet anger (if not outright silent treatment) or verbally abusing you at the top of their lungs - no middle ground. Selective empathy (it'll never be for you) or none at all. Shallow. Source: My father, my ex-best friend's husband, and my current boyfriend. All 3 need to cut the chord with their mom.
>Worst zodiac signs for women?
Scorpio. Prone to disappearing/blocking everyone for perceived slights, fragile sense of self, lash out, stalkers, make terrible life-changing decisions and then make it everyone else's problem.

No. 387007

>>384291
You have just described me at 100%.

No. 390346

>Who do you get along with more?
Scorpio, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius
>What signs can't you deal with at all?
Gemini, Leo
>Worst zodiac signs for males?
Leo's- zero accountability and no impulse control, just dangerous people to be around
Gemini- spineless and easily influenced
>Worst zodiac signs for women?
Cancer & Gemini- thinks that they can play all sides and still come out ahead. Massive pick mes

No. 417650

I hate Taurus, Virgo, Leo, and Scorpio females. All the ones I've interacted with ended up being cluster b's (NPD and BPD). Males I hate cancer and pisces and some Leo males.

No. 463138

>no posts in 5 months
as an astrology newbie so excited to break this spell, wow! I'm a Scorpio, if it matters.
>Who do you get along with more?
Idk why Tauruses and I love eachother so much. I attract so many Tauruses it's insane. I saw my Taurus ladies got some hate in this thread, I love you Taurus queens. Aries and I share mutual respect
>What signs can't you deal with at all?
Fucking hate Capricorns they are so fucking insufferable. Both men and women. I honestly posted mainly to rant about Caps. These retards are so egotistical, think they're the smartest and know everything while they consistently fuck up their own lives and make the dumbest decisions. Every single one I've met is manipulative too and thinks I'm as much of a tard as they are to fall for their dumb fucking attempts. Then they act shocked when I point out that I know what they're trying to do. I hate this sign so much. Consistently shit experiences with this sign made me start to believe in astrology.
>Worst zodiac signs for males?
All pisces males should die. I hate scorpio men too, more insufferable faggots who think they're smart.
>Worst zodiac signs for women?
Not sure, I'm a little suspicious of Pisces women though. Usually the ones I meet are kinda bpd


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No. 397215[Reply]

What women are you ashamed to say you'd fuck or crush on for any reason?
>unconventionally attractive?
>problematique?
>controversial?
Share your thirst, farmers.

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No. 461538

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this photo especially, I want to kiss the corner of her smirk

No. 461539

>>461538
She's an evil cunt though
Hate that tranny smirk too

No. 461584

>>460719
Me too. Who is she?

No. 462226

>>461538
Based on the face alone, I wasn't expecting her to be so chunky

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I’m watching Girls for the first time and god she was so attractive in 2012


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No. 448480[Reply]

A thread for women who experience exclusive attraction to fictional characters and discussing fictophilia, how it affects you, what causes it, etc.

This is not a husbando/waifu thread, refrain from husbando/waifuposting unless relevant.
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No. 449104

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I enjoy my maladaptive daydreaming tbh. Helps me distract myself from the horrors of reality and it gives me a lot to think autistically about.
I know most people would insist it's unhealthy, but I genuinely prefer keeping to myself and just watching people rather than interacting with them.
The big downside is that my social skills are really shit and I can only open up on anonymous sites like this, but I can do the bare minimum to go shopping, deal with people I have to etc.

No. 449107

Is this what they call as “yume”

No. 449127

>>449107
No, yume is just shipping yourself with a character. You can be attracted to real life people and be a yume.

No. 449281

>>449101
I'm sure you're not unlovable anon. For me I'm kind of the opposite though, schizoid-ish traits say no real love could work for me kek. I feel a loneliness that irl love is supposed to cure but it doesn't, so into my head I go.

No. 462969

It feels safe, because I think sometimes I might have too many issues for a real person. But then real people do like me and I get confused.


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