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No. 196103[Reply]

The term "energy vampire" is used metaphorically to refer to people whose influence leaves a person feeling exhausted, unfocused, and depressed. The phrase "emotional vampire" can be used for people with various personality disorders who are often considered to drain emotional energy from others, however not every emotional vampire has a personality disorder.
It could be your mom, aunt, neighbor, nephews or the like. They suck all the energy and optimism out of you, leaving you exhausted. While some people think these tendencies come from paranormal or supernatural origin, it can be explained by someone simply taking a lot of resources out of us. However some individuals who work with energy therapies such as reiki do report on feeling different after encountering an emotional vampire.

The common types of emotional vampires are:
The Narcissist
The Victim
The Controller
The Chatterbox
The Drama Llama
The Judge
The Critic
The "I Am Better Than You"
The Innocent

Discuss if you have encountered any of them and share tips on how to avoid or disarm these types of people.
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No. 196182

>My parents made it very clear at a very young age that I was the emotional backbone of the family and that without me they would kill themselves.
My parents have said this to me before. It sucks. I'm sorry anon.

No. 196183

I think you can always change for the better, you just gotta know how

No. 196184

No, I just value my limited time on Earth too much to waste it on things that don't give enough return for the effort.

No. 196259

Bless this mentality.

No. 196688

tbh, I would've disagreed with this not even a year ago, but after cutting my emotional vampire friend of 10-11 years out of my life I whole-heartedly believe this to be true. He was a victim type, always would complain about being poor, not being able to get a gf, and how he felt like his life was going nowhere etc. I sorta sympathized with him for a time since I had similar issues, but whereas I could occasionally vent before trying to change things and/or focusing on what I had that did make me happy he eventually got to a point where he literally couldn't talk about anything else. The worst part was when he would use anything good that happened to me against me. I finally get a better paying job? Time for him to cry about how he's still poor. I get my first bf? Time to whine about how "pathetic" he is for being virgin at 20 years old (kek). I have some fond memories of him when we were still friends, he was closest friend I had too, but I don't regret cutting him out at all.

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No. 195511[Reply]

(im not a professional just some dumbass up at 3am LOL)
Pros of tampons:
Easy to insert
Easy to carry around
Don't need washed (disposable)
Cons of tampons:
More likely to cause TSS
Don't last as long
Wasteful and harmful to the environment
Absorbs the blood (idk why but I feel like thats kind of gross for ABSOLUTELY no reason)
Pros of menstrual cups:
Not wasteful
Collects the blood (its interesting to see how much you REALLY bleed imo)
Can last for up to ten years
Good for the environment
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No. 159633[Reply]

For anyone who is anti-porn, a recovering porn addict, or wants to lower their usage.

>Why are you anti-porn?

>When did you decide to quit?
>Did porn make you depressed?
>Are people around you supportive of this choice?
>and whatever else you want to say
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No. 195187

I think in a few years we are going to see suicide rates spike due to all those people who regret having Onlyfans or posting amateur porn (like those who post on Reddit). In the past it was mainly people who worked in the actual industry but now there are tons of average people who are producing porn from their own homes. They often start before their brains are finished developing and don't understand the consequences, now that content is out there until the end of time.

No. 195212

I wouldn't be sure how to class myself, I think at the very least the idea I have is that I'm pro sex worker but not pro sex work if that can make sense, I think it's something that can take advantage of people and cause immense damage and issues but I can't ever see something as sex work or porn in general ever going away, its a vice or a crutch for some people and tool to exploit others.

I don't go out og my way to watch porn either, I find a lot of it unappealing and fake but I admit that I do like amateur but by that I usually find a channel shared by a couple, check to see if they have chemistry and enjoy one another and that's what makes it appealing to me to watch, I suppose in my own way I'm using it for my own lack of intimacy while single.

>It's a bubbly Domme and sub couple

I think porn as a whole isn't a bad thing, but it's like alcohol where it causes a lot of problems, easily abused and can and does ruin lives.

>Why are you anti-porn?

I think it can often be abused and cause more harm than good.
>When did you decide to quit?
I still watch but maybe a couple times a month, really depends on my mood but most of the time I prefer reading a kink story.
>Did porn make you depressed?
No but the lack of intimacy I found from it did and feeling like I needed to behave like X or do Y acts.
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No. 195213

Last night I was looking up whether a certain male porn star had retired or not (don't lecture me. I know lol) I found a discussion on some porn message boards and yeah apparently he has moved on from it.

It was in the middle of a discussion where a bunch of guys were discussing 'young male performers in scenes with milfs' Some asking for links to who looks the youngest… ugh. They were straight guys lusting after how young you can go with a male performer. Some were crying over a bunch of young guys who've entered and left the industry again. Some thought that many left because staying hard was difficult for them and it showed in their scenes. Then it turned into some weird woke 'don't shame men who can't perform on cue!' chat. A board that is 99percent men lusting over the most unrealistic female bodies and unrealistic types of gape you out sex with projectile squirting and assgasms galore… Gotta stay senstitive to the one struggle a man might have. Sooo unrealistic to expect a man who is paid to have sex for a living to have an erection on set. Just thought it was funny. All this in the middle of a pedo sounding chat.

What's the most unrealistic thing in porn? Keeping an erection. ok lol

There was also a discussion on how shemales look better than the real deal. I nearly screenshotted it because it was just perfect. From memory;
> 5 years ago I would've never touched trans porn! Now it's the main thing I watch. I hate the term she-male and think it should be removed from our vocab. Trans women are real women. Most of them look better than other women do. I just love the thought of being with a woman who I view as all-woman and her having this absurd thing dangling between her legs.

No. 195224

Yeah your brain only finishes developing around 25, part of the reason why I don't see 18 year old teenagers as adults..

No. 195426

I'd like to lower my usage of porn mostly. Especially the visual ones. It gets borderline nasty and violent that it completely fucks up my brain. Both drawn/animated and real life ones. Written porn is nice imo because the ones I've read are mostly reader inserts that are written by women in fandom spaces and it sort of warped my perception of how my partner should be kek

>Why are you anti-porn?

50/50. I enjoy porn as stated from above but I'm also against porn that's directed to the male audience because it gets so disgusting/violent that it seeps into some scrote's way of thinking. Example are porn sick male weaboos who develop a fetish for, in my case, east asian women. Porn in my country is either : a leaked/revenge porn video, a white expat who fucks and films escorts in some dingy hotel or just straight up cp or minors who are forced/enticed to do it

>Did porn make you depressed?

Both anger and sadness. You never know if it was consensually released, the woman or man is of legal age, was exploited, etc. Aside from that it just gives me short bursts of happiness and it completely drains me right after.

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No. 189347[Reply]

Manifest your inner Stacy here.

>How to become a Stacy

>What is a Stacy for you, personally
>When did you decide it was ENOUGH and became a Stacy
>Talk about your Stacy progress
>Who's your Stacy rolemodel
>Support others in their Stacy jorney
>Share your Stacy stories, music, pictures, workouts, etc
>What kind of Stacy are you (Fujo Stacy, Pinkpilled Stacy, Lesbian Stacy, Muscular Stacy etc)

>don't take this thread so seriously
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No. 194994

Is someone prepared to elaborate on these types of Stacy? Fujo, pinkpilled, etc.?

I've just discovered Stacies through this thread and it feels like the ultimate enlightenment(lolcow.farm/info)

No. 194996

Do some basic googling mimi_ray.xo@outlook.com

No. 195016

I think fujo/pinkpilled Stacey is an oxymoron - both fujo and pinkpilled imply being extremely online, and Stacey is inherently a normie who gets enough validation in real life that she doesn't find herself in those corners of the internet.
I think Staceys are more born than made. If you used to be a chubby NEET internet addict but now you're attractive, you can't truly be a Stacey because you know what life is like outside of the bubble.

No. 195073

A true stacy doesn't give a shit about being a "stacy" in the first place. They just are.

No. 195332


"go cry in your training bra" sent me, honestly one of my bugbears when other women especially get so judgemental when it comes to how little or how much we wear, bonus points if small tittied ladies they don't bat an eyelash at in skimpier clothes but anyone with cleavage and bam they're a whore, it IS internalised misogyny and this is a thread to channel your inner Stacy and embrace goals not project insecurities

on that note it's a godsend because I have a decent grasp with fashion and get complimented a lot for my appearance and career, but my autism and social awkwardness has meant that I've had to work out a lot of this internally and I get insecure and seek threads like this because they're very helpful. Love to the other fellow nonnies here who have ever felt like the awkward weird one

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No. 47434[Reply]

Why is every Tumblr girl with blue hair and bad tats into pretending to be a child in bed? Why is daddy dom stuff the kink du jour right now? I mean, in terms of tumblr subcultures, the littles are less annoying than the SJWs because they just seem like white trash, but still. Are any of you into it?
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No. 194915

Lmfao I guess we’re using this thread again. I don’t give a fuck about this kink but I wish it weren’t so mainstream. Teens really feel uncomfortable calling their fathers a normal affectionate name. Can you guys please have this fetish a little quieter…

No. 194916

Why did you bump it then dumb ass, just let it die

No. 194930

Damn you're right as fuck. I saged this

No. 194935

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>4 year necrobump just to say "based"
tbh that's kinda based itself

My personal two cents on the subject at hand is that it's another easy way for girls to try to get the fabled "sugar daddy," in a way that's much less work than becoming a findom or whatever.

No. 195047

it's the opposite of based, it stinks of coomer brainrot especially since there is a whole active thread about that particular degeneracy

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No. 91535[Reply]

I can't seem to find the astrology thread, so let's make a new one! I hope everyone is having a lovely Leo season. Post PDFs and book recommendations, your favorite sites, youtubers, and advice etc.
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No. 193557

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Anyone else here have signs that just don't seem to fit them whatsoever?
>supposedly cunning social butterfly who easily makes superficial friends
But I'm a naive social disaster who will feel anxious around anyone except my few really close friends
>taurus rising
>patient realists who dislike change and like to work in groups
But I'm always dreaming, love change and variety, prefer solo work, etc
>capricorn moon
>aloof or seemingly cold, ambitious, goal oriented
But I'm super emotionally open, incapable of hiding my feelings, and a lazy unambitious fuck to boot

I know astrology isn't really something to take seriously and I don't especially mind, but I do think it's funny how I tend to relate more to almost any other sign description.
>'as a gemini you love change and exploring new things'
>'as a taurus rising you dislike changes and prefer to stick to the status quo'
Which is it supposed to be reeee

No. 194728

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I looked up Megan Thee Stallion's birth chart out of curiosity and was surprised to see that we have a lot of major placements in common. Sun Moon, Mercury, and Venus. Any other anons have a celebrity twin?

No. 194735

I discovered almost everything in my chart is Cancer leaning, it kinda offended me because I'm emotionally cold, very unorthodox and hate tradition but my chart was implying I'm a motherly crybaby who cares too much and is tradicional af, disappointed.

No. 194740

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Can someone please explain my chart, why am I so impulsive and prone to sadness

No. 194749

Hilary Duff has the same rising sun and moon as me. I hit a lot of the same aspects as Stalin as well which concerns me as I definitely have a lot of anger issues.

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No. 194686[Reply]

Like when and how did you realize you really liked boys and wanted them to do things to you?

Or when and how did you discover masturbation?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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No. 194711

When I blew his face off with gun

No. 194713

Let it die Wuornos-chan

No. 194716

I was on SSRIs from ages 12 to 19 and had no sexual feelings in them. So I was 19 when I had my first proper sexual feelings

No. 194718

When I stwabbed uwu my first scrote boyfriend owo, it was so magical and there were like lots of glitter, my friends were laughing and we were wearing unicorn pajamas and like doing our makeup and killing ugly scrotes while we watched some movies and ate ice cream uwu, I also wore cat ears because I’m an unicorn cat girl while I was skinning him alive as he cried and screamed for mercy it was magical and fun and cute and we all hugged each other and then we ate more ice cream? Great!

No. 194727

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No. 132014[Reply]

Female Dating Strategy is a subreddit which was created in February 2019 as part of the larger arising of pp’d subreddits (such as r/vindicta, r/pinkpilledfeminism, r/trufemcels, etc.)

Female Dating Strategy is a female-only subreddit that was created in the interest of helping women to achieve their goals in dating, whether that be LTR, marriage or just FWB. It is centred entirely around maximising female benefit and minimising costs/risk. More saliently, due to its policy of being aggressively pro-female, FDS promotes a very unforgiving and cutthroat approach to interactions with males. In many respects, it is a response to the presence of the ‘manosphere’ and in particular TRP.

Important links:
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ideology Ideology of FDS
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dugj5t/fds_guide_nonmainstream_opinions_and_strategies/ Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by the sub
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/deoi18/psa_femaledatingstrategy_doesnt_believe_in_asking/ PSA on asking men out
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d22vzv/given_that_the_risks_of_sex_are_way_higher_and/ why sex shoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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No. 194416

I saw this channel mentioned on /fds/, what do nonnies think about it?

No. 194418

i don't know if i care to watch this because i no longer care what men think about my appearance. seriously. i look cute for myself or to show off my clothes to my friends… it's unnatural for women to try to appeal to men. it goes against biological order. men should be the ones impressing us, as we are sexual selectors. no animal in the natural world has females compete for males aside from those weird species that switch sexes or morph into other ones or something. this is why pickme's are selected by the bottom of the barrel and treated with utter disrespect by men. even men know deep down that they should be the impressers, the pursuers, the ones who take initiative.

No. 194420

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Yes, males are the original pick mes. They invented patriarchy so shitty men could get their own woman with no effort.

No. 194422

These femininity channels are so ridiculous to me. I understand wanting to look good and be attractive (and it's perfectly fine to expect your partner to look healthy and "presentable") but women who make it a philosophy or a lifestyle are insane. Men just aren't worth all this thought, especially the ones who don't take care of themselves (which is the majority of them). If a guy likes you, he'll like you even if you "let yourself go" like this women say. And if he doesn't, why are you staying with someone who'll dump you as soon as you stop portraying his fantasies and cares much more about your looks than your personality?
I can't believe it's 2021 and we're still with the "men are visual creatures and women seek providers and stability" thing when the women talking this shit are perfectly capable of providing to themselves. We don't need men for stability. And of course women care about looks as well, seems that nowadays is more than ever and finally lots of girls are expecting the bare minimum regarding looks in men

No. 194431

These anons are correct. One of the greatest tricks that patriarchy ever pulled on women was convincing them that beauty is pain and they are the ones who need to put in the extra work to attract a mate. Men could gloat about how they only want a 10/10 slimthicc instagram baddie with a perfect face all they want but in reality a lot of them are horny, lonely, and desperate enough to fuck any bridge troll who will let him have her. A lot of incels know this, but instead of actually putting in the effort to be attractive to women they just bemoan how it isn't fair.

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No. 91134[Reply]

What celebrities have you been told that you look like?

About 95%, it’s usually Bjork for me. Because I’m white but I also look vaguely Asian. I’ve also gotten Selena Gomez, Miranda Crosgrove, Jackie O and Six from Blossom. Also one time a crackhead compared me to Emma Stone (because of my man jaw) and another time, I got compared to Lindsay Lohan (probably because of my freckles). Being compared to Lindsay Lohan actually made me angry lol.

What celebrities/famous people have you guys been compared to?
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No. 193615

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bit concerned that so many of my ‘matches’ are children on this site, almost don’t want to scroll any further

No. 193618

now kiss to make blasian babies

No. 193619

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No. 194340

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i had picrel of grimes as my profile picture and my ex bf of 8 months thought it was me ._.

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No. 194200[Reply]

Other celebs with the same style as 00s megan fox? I love her casual looks from mid 2000s, i am looking foward to change my wardobe and i need inspirations.

No. 194201

This didn't warrant a whole thread… post it on the fashion thread

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