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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 527309

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It's been 5 years together. In the past year he's really started to improve lots, and we were doing so well. But he just won't stop entirely, and there's no way for me to 100% know if he's doing it or not. He doesn't tell me until I find out, I've asked him to tell me and he says he will but then he says it's too embarrassing. I just want him to tell me when he's struggling so I can help. I just want him to tell me as soon as he screws up so we can try to fix whatever's gone wrong. He says I don't understand how hard it is for him. I'm starting to think he'll never, ever stop. I'm starting to think he's trying to wear me down so I just give in and let him watch whatever, but I know I can't do that. I want to ask him, what do I do? What am I supposed to do? I can't afford to live on my own, he owes me money too that he's working to pay back. I just don't know if I can do this forever. Every year I hope that when summer comes, we'll be okay and I won't have to worry about him seeing all the scantily clad young women in our college town. I hope that we can go to the water park together, or to the river. Maybe next year.

No. 527316

>>527309
You break up with him and go live with a female roommate. He’ll still have to pay you back; if he refuses, you can take him to small claims with whatever text evidence you have of the debt. You already know he’s not gonna stop, why keep stringing yourself along like this? You deserve so much better and you can’t “fix him.”
> In the past year he's really started to improve lots, and we were doing so well.
Or he’s just gotten better at hiding it from you.

No. 527367

>>527309
Don’t you find him pathetic? He’s making excuses after excuses. Being addicted to porn is the most failure attribute you can have as a man, you should lose all respect for someone like this. Don’t bother because they never change, because they don’t want to, the truth is that he’s prioritizing porn over you, you’ll always come second. Process that and do what’s best for you.

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>>527309
Hey nonna, I second what the other nonnas have said and I know it's harder than words can describe but I know you know deep down that you have to leave him - as said, find a female roommate and keep yourself safe. It's going to take a while to heal but you deserve to not fear summer rolling around each year. I wish I'd dumped my ex Nigel way sooner for that reason and years later I'm so much happier now and with a partner who is healthy and honest and doesn't do this stuff. It's not your job to fix him but it sounds like you've been endlessly considerate of him. There is no changing him, please get out of there.

No. 527735

>>463903
so…idk about sex, but there is some research that suggests that porn use - not just addiction - can restructure the brain in ways similar to substance abuse. and honestly you probably should worry a lot more about the damage you could do to yourself by obsessively trying to fix a guy like that.


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No. 119060[Reply]

Pride Rules.
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No. 527524

>>527510
AYRT, this is my dilemma, do i date this guy seriously (we were friends for years prior to anything happening between us) or should i indulge my fetish more…

No. 527529

>>527524
Well, is he a decent moid or just hot? Do you even want a serious relationship?

No. 527551

Idk if it counts as a fetish, but I really LOVE long hair on other people, male or female. Straight soft fluffy silky long hair. I want to brush it and touch it and put pins and hairclips in it. It makes a person instantly more attractive to me if they're already good looking. I'm talking about 1+ meter long hair and such.

No. 527556

>>527529
he's more than decent, i would like to get back into a serious relationship eventually, but i'm horny and would like to fuck around a little. i'll figure something out lol. only wish this period of my life would last forever and i could have good times and a male harem.

No. 527557

i'm not ashamed of how sadistic i am and i play it up as a personality trait. i like that most people find it fun and endearing since i'm not a moid.


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No. 271193[Reply]

I find it really confusing when nonnas post in the relationship advice thread as if they were having real relationship and then it turns out it's just some dude on discord they are talking to. Usually this information is not divulged until much later.

I propose we have two threads, one for real relationships and one for online relationships. Talk about your discord-kitten problems in this thread and get help from other discord-kittens. Leave the relationship advice thread for people who actually have to deal with moids face to face.
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No. 527318

>>526969
Being the woman who pays in a discord LDR is a uniquely humiliating experience
t. Did it twice

No. 527364

>>526926
Damn you could have sent me this money nonna kek.

No. 527365

>>527279
The only way I would be in a LDR is if it started and the other person had to move temporarily for studying or work and even then we would have to be together for at least a year for it to work.
Starting a LDR is retarded, especially for women, you aren’t seeing the person, you don’t know how they truly are, because texts and video calls aren’t the real thing, they can fabricate their persona and you can’t see their flaws either.

No. 527430

>>526944
you're being retarded, just tell him you're not coming and go on a vacation by yourself. next month it will be nice weather all over the country, go enjoy yourself.
stay away from this psycho. if a guy in the states can't get a girlfriend in the states he is 100% bottom of the barrel human trash, because the bar for men is literally in hell over here. everyone around him can probably tell he psycho or they already heard how he beat up his last gf or something, guaranteed.

No. 527459

>>526926
this sounds like the kind of guy to rape or kill you. money sucks but this is your life


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No. 526314[Reply]

MOGS(retard)

No. 526320

Based.

No. 526331

fogs


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No. 524572[Reply]

Finally Updated his Appendix Edition

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi
Previous threads:
>>450007
>>451665
>>453384
>>455202
>>456930
>>458496
>>460350
>>462677
>>465438
>>467757
>>470150
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.
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No. 526212

>>526209
Cope, it's his handwriting

No. 526213

>>526162
ashley, bitch, never cross me. I opened this up because you're an entitled little spoiled girl. cry about it now that people can find out you support luigi since you're too fucking embarrassed about it to say it in person "Alex." Don't fuckin mess with his case anymore.

No. 526214

>>526210
in b4 he actually ends up writing something like this when some truly evil shit comes out

No. 526224

>>526214
when that notebook comes out……

No. 526228

>>525916
KEK her fat ass arms are photoshopped. She's a whale.


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No. 425085[Reply]

A thread for anons who do not want kids in any context, whether biological, adopted, or step. Discuss anything relevant to a childfree lifestyle here. Antinatalist viewpoints/discussion welcome.
Previous thread: >>>/g/156622
Please abstain from posting if you have children.
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No. 524622

Told my 45+ year old cousin that I disliked kids and no, I will not watch her 4 year old. She told me "get over it, because some of us need extra hands". Mind you, I just moved here, when I was across the country and far from these people. Her younger sister is also now pregnant recently from sleeping with her exhusband that she's been separated from for nearly a year. Hm.

No. 524935

>>524622
Tell her you'll watch her kid if she pays you 15 bucks an hour.

No. 525945

>>524622
Just don't be available to help them. If they try to hand you the child walk away/go home. If she shows up at your place with the kid do not answer the door. If she leaves the kid outside depending on the level of drama you're okay with making call CPS and say a child was abandoned outside your home.

No. 526250

>>513304
I'm with you anon. I just find babies and children irritating. I know they behave the way they do because their brains are developing, but that does not stop them being annoying as fuck. Especially when they cry. That high pitched screaming goes through me, it doesn't make me want to comfort them, it makes me want to run in the opposite direction

No. 529038

>>513304
I don't mind kids, but I don't feel my "womb ticking" (it rings so untrue the concept just feels like a moid psyop lmao) nor do I want any for myself. I don't mind interacting with them but I'm grateful there's a set point I can just leave and not keep dealing with them.

>>524622
Sounds like someone is expecting you to do it for free, sounds more like she needed extra condoms.


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No. 248328[Reply]

The good, the bad, the ugly. Share your experiences here, what are the best apps to use, your success stories, cringeist interactions, horror, etc.

Previously >>>/g/82463
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No. 525242

>>525160
for future reference I wanna recommend you read something like "Why Does He Do That" or a summary of the key points. isn't a masterpiece but it's by someone that's used to working with abusers and is very helpful to understand the controlling attitude and mood swings and to walk away from men like this. I also recommend looking into dread game and hot-cold manipulation. not saying that's what he was doing on purpose but it's good to be aware of because it shows how much conflicting emotions can really derail basic logic and self-preservation. millions of men online coach one another on how to do it to women.
>>525179
and I know I'm dropping a lot of buzz terms here kek but honestly he seems like the type to narcissistically devalue others too. a lot of guys like this obsess over those they can't get - like that person he wasn't even dating - and idealize them at first only to emotionally rebound. huge reason for dumb shit like the madonna whore complex that's common among men. you got lucky because he seems neurotic so the two of you getting relatively intimate for the first dates made him quickly drop the facade.

No. 525787

>>525160
Update from OP: I went on a date with another guy that I really was liking so far and before I knew it, he’s also an “open book” who wanted to know details about my relationship with my parents and my family. He divulged his own information but again my family is way worse and god I’m so terrified that he’s going to be just like the others once again.
>>525242
Ty for the recommendation, I need to read that book in full again. There are so many things pointing to that guy being a huge narcissist—mainly that he can’t hold a job or finish a degree and the outlandish stories that are probably all lies. I felt like if we did date that eventually I would have to go through his stuff to make sure his “company” and business activities actually existed…

No. 525808

>>525787
How old are you Nona? You need to learn to screen men better before you meet them irl. This guy sounds unhinged as well. You probably need to do some soul searching as to why you seem to go for these dudes. You also need to learn not to second guess yourself like you were about the first crazy moid and trust your intuition and dip out immediately when they show their true colors.

No. 526341

>>525808
26 kek. Where do you suggest learning to screen men? I thought that I was doing a pretty good job but apparently not.

No. 528868

>>525157
Get rid of him. I can't stand people, much less moids, who drive aggressively. They always turn out to be horrible angry people.


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No. 434936[Reply]

Previous thread:
>>>/g/291804
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No. 525018

>>523771
>>524880
Holy shit, NTAYRT but thanks to you I googled some pictures of the anatomy of the clitoris and clitoral adhesions and as it turns out, I think I might have clitoral phimosis. When I pull back the clitoral hood it looks like a little volcano, I can't see a lot of the glans and of course, I can't see the corona at all, just the frenulum going in. If I try to open the hole even more I can see a little white dot on the edge. I think I have adhesions, fuck
It's weird because I've never had any issues reaching orgasm, it does hurt a bit when I try to expose the glans though

No. 525737

>>525018
I never had any problems orgasming from masturbation, but could not do it at all through sex. If not for the chronic UTI I got thanks to the adhesions, I would have never noticed them.

No. 526434

Now I want to check for clitoral adhesions because my shit is all extremely fucked up down there, like I can't even tell what the fuck I am looking at tbh, but any advice for how? Mirror + flashlight isn't close/detailed enough, and I don't want to use a phone. This is an extremely retarded/naive question, but I have avoided looking at myself most of my life.

No. 527597

>>526434
Only way I was able to get a good look is with a small mirror and then use my phone to zoom into the mirror.

No. 528339

I just went to the gyno for the first time and I'm so fucking glad I saw the advice here about letting the doctor know that I was still a virgin. I was told right off the bat that I was getting a pap smear and when she was getting ready to insert the clamp thing she saw the hymen and needed to get a smaller clamp to not tear it.


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No. 355760[Reply]

Post characters/actors that you had a crush in your youth but may or may not have any feelings for now

Previous Thread: >>136699
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No. 522184

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>>522166
They're cute

No. 522754

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>>355763
Mexican ?
Me too I like K dash and joe higashi

No. 524770

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She is is the blueprint.. I love evil women to this day

No. 524776

>>524770
Top tier taste, nona. I'm absolutely in love with her, too.

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She deserved better…


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No. 203705[Reply]

I believe we should have a thread about binge eating. A lot of women suffer from this issue and it is very embarrassing to discuss. The rona virus hasn't helped a lot of us binge eaters, and in my case personally, it's only increased my eating.
Feel free to discuss whatever you want, what you binge eat, how long you've been doing it, how does it affect your day to day life, how long have you gone without having a binge etc.
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No. 491731

Anyone binge so hard that their body hurts from water retention the next day? I've never met anyone that has related to this but it's like my whole body retains water and my skin hurts from stretching. My binges are upwards of 5-6k calories

No. 493060

>>491731
kind of, at my worst there were days I had to call in sick the morning after a binge because I was so bloated everything hurt + the emotional pain from it probably worsened those symptoms too

No. 519171

I noticed my binging happens due to cope. If I'm suffering at work or have a responsibly I'm afraid of or back when I had exams and was worried about my grades I would destroy anything edible because eating meant avoiding. And I ate despite not liking the food or feeling full. It really is escape. Fix your lives nonas, all our problems are not worth ruining our health and well being for

No. 519258

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Do any other nonnas here have any impulse control disorders like adhd or aspd? I have the latter and its making my binge eating problem so much worse. I have zero self control when it comes to anything that brings me pleasure and this includes food. I can finish a huge bag of groceries in less than a day its fucking horrid. The only reason why Im not a fatass by now is because I have an anomally fast metabolism. Half the time Im binging I dont even chew Im just stuffing my face with food without a thought. Theres something missing inside of me and Im trying to replace it with food (and other hedonistic pleasures). Im not even sure that I want to quit because shit it just feels good but one day I will have to do something about my binging problem if I dont wanna be subjected to countless potentially lethal health issues

No. 524812

>>519258
I've had binging issues since 2018 (with some good periods and really bad periods) and recently got diagnosed with ADD inattentive type. I suspect I'm also on the autism spectrum but I'm not diagnosed so I can't say for certain. I'm quite convinced that my binging was a dopamine seeking behavior for the most part. Getting on medication definitely helped, but I don't like how it makes me feel so it's been hard sticking to it. I think the side effects I get from it (racing heart) is mostly because I am a caffeine addict and I haven't given it up yet, so I should probably do that before I start taking the medication regularly kek…
>Im not even sure that I want to quit because shit it just feels good
I understand you nona. Sometimes I get the urge to binge and I'm able to resist it and just sit with it. But I feel so depressed and hopeless as a result of not getting the dopamine hit that I just say "what's the point in not binging if resisting the urge feels so bad?" and I binge anyway (this situation happened last night kek…). But I'm trying to take it one step at a time.
For me trying to quit binging was always primarily with the motivation of weight loss, but recently I have been reading up on the longterm health effects that sugar binges have on the body and it has scared me quite a bit. I'm still in my early 20s and only a few pounds overweight so I'm not feeling the health effects yet, but I know as I get older it will all add up. Let's stay strong and beat this horrible addiction.


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