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No. 110716[Reply]

Has anyone ever seen yandere shit in real life? Or had an unhealthy obsession with someone that could be classified as such?

I had a friend talked all the time about wanting to kill her ex's new girlfriend. She would write extremely detailed rants on her tumblr about it and peaked when she attacked her in the hall one day and carved his name into her arm when she was sent home. Her parents ended up pulling her out of school and homeschooling her after that. I heard through the grape vine that she regularly attempted contact with him for several years after high school to the point where he had to delete all social media.
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No. 124595

>It will fade
I've kinda been waiting for more people to talk about obsessive stuff

I'd love for it to fade sooner because its affecting all aspects of my life
I was depressed before I met them, but now it's really hard to try to will myself to do anything positive because "If this person who I gave my heart and everything to doesn't want me, who will?"
And I know that a relationship wouldn't fix everything, but it would probably make me less likely to obsess over one person if I could internalize the notion that anyone could love me romantically

but of course, it gets hard to do that if you're stuck on one person

[spoiler]as far as yandere notions, I do sometimes wish that something bad would happen to their SO and they would run crying to me, but I think about how sad that might make them feel (and how unlikely it is they would come to me) so I only end up feeling bad about it all

No. 125903

> friends with circle of girls from uni course
> close to a few of them
> one of them I'm less close to has always seemed a little competetive with me
> her bf moves to same uni because living one hour away is too long distance for her
> she made him cut off female friend for smoking with him once
> he's cheating on me
> bitches about him betraying her and constantly seems to have arguments
> fast forward to last year
> her bf is casual friends with me
> we nerd out but we aren't close, just message about anime and he looks up to me like a big sister
> one day they invite me to dinner
> she's being really talkative and hyper
> bf mentions we talk about anime on fb
> she slams the table and storms to the toilet
> bf looks uncomfortable, says she "gets funny about female friends"
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No. 125920

Yandare, atleast as I understand it, is extreme affection to the point of acting and behaving psychotic. That's not yandare, that's just a possessive psycho. The key difference is in how they didn't just lash out from jealousy, but they created their own world where they were the victim and tried to convince everyone of it. And some very skilled manipulation to boot.

People like that exist as men or women and they don't just do it with partners, it can also be siblings, children, anyone they can exert total control over. Interesting story though, thanks for sharing.

No. 125924


bitch you crazy lmao

No. 125927

My ex-bf was a "yandere" I guess. Thankfully, we only "dated" for a very short period of time, I broke it off quickly, but he would exhibit extreme stalkerish behaviour. Sending me thousands of texts in a day, showing up at my work, calling all my close family members, my best friend, harassing me, and some other shit. I used to be very resentful towards him, and he made me pretty scared of men in general, but now I understand a little better that it was because he was mentally ill (BPD).

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No. 125500[Reply]

How does getting a bf even work? Do you have to ask him “do you want to be my boyfriend”? Does it just happen organically? How do I know if someone is my bf?
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No. 125702

Dating and being in a relationship with someone can mean the same thing
It's contextual mostly
Dating can also mean that you are considering someone romantically and are going out on dates, but not officially in a relationship
You could be dating a couple people at the same time and not be in a relationship with any of them

No. 125723

I've always seen dating as being romantically interested in a person and actively spending time together to see if you're compatible enough for a relationship. The details of that can vary - for some people dating is just hanging out but with romantic intent, for others it also includes kissing / sex. Whereas, if I were to ask someone to be my boyfriend, it comes with added responsibility and expectations - the expectation that we try to incorporate each other into our lives (to meet family / close friends etc, show interests in their hobbies and participate as well), to be there for me emotionally and to be dedicated to developing our relationship into something that could be for the long haul.

No. 125734

I think a lot of it is context. Like personally, I only say I’m dating someone if there’s a decided level of commitment and a desire to grow together (aka boyfriend!). But I also understand when people talk about dating and they mean casually getting to know someone/people. “Talking” and “hanging out” are also sometimes ways I describe seeing someone in a more than friends way, but it’s somehow more casual than pursuing romantic interest.. like it’s sexual or just for fun because it’s not gonna go anywhere. Idk, American dating is weird and the slang is very based in context.

No. 125918

I might be pretty old-fashioned regarding dating but with both my past relationships I've just asked them if they wanted to be my boyfriend when I fell in love with him after hanging out as friends.
Only after they said yes to that and we were in a relationship did we kiss and have sex.

No. 126145

if you start talking to someone and the conversations get progressively more flirty and intimate, at a certain point it feels natural and not awkward to ask him to be your bf, or at least ask him out, in which case after a few dates that go well it would be normal to ask him to be your bf.

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No. 125641[Reply]

>New study suggests psychopathic men have a personality style that makes them attractive to women
>findings indicate that psychopathy may include features that make men appear as more attractive romantic partners despite having a reduced interest in committed relationships.
>inmates with more psychopathic features tenaciously try (i.e., are preoccupied with sex) and often succeed (i.e., must offer some attractive qualities, even if faked) at seducing prison staff, including clinical staff supposedly equipped with the tools to not be subverted by manipulation and charm that psychopathic men deploy

Are psychopaths attractive?

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No. 125839

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>is literally (read: "literally", not "figuratively") barely capable of understanding imageboard posts
>calls others brainlets
From the sight of this post, you may be well on your way to figuring out the meaning of the "P" word next, considering how well you're demonstrating it.
Keep it up. Your ambition may take you places one day, like a remedial English class for adults.

No. 125845

>implying internet hasn't been making people more retarded

If you were on the internet in 2003 and on it now in 2019 and also aware/engaged in people of 2003 and 2019 it's obvious to know people got more retarded.

No. 125846

>balding and already wrinkling
Worst aging genetics ever


>north european autism+coldness mixed in with actual psychopathic coldness and autism


No. 125847

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>that nigga's lego head

LMAO here's an actual attractive psychopath

No. 125850

Couldn't he basically kill by opening his mouth?

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No. 49328[Reply]

Alright so there are these makeup / skin care threads but I didn't see any PS one yet it's something that's mentioned a lot at /pt/ and /snow/.
I got a nose job some years ago and I'm VERY satisfied with the outcome (feel free to ask me questions about rhinoplasty if you have any concern about it). RN I'm looking forward getting jaw surgery done but I don't have much information about this procedure in Europe. Any advice?
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No. 129756

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I have the same shit and its hard to accept it too bc i think it is really ugly and if i ever have an opportunity to fix it like getting a surgery id definitely do it

No. 129757

Hi anon! I'm an anon who's had a rhino-septo procedure done. While my nose wasn't similar to yours, I did in fact have a bump on the bridge that I did not like, as well as excessive width. Tbh it's all down to you whether you want it or not. Alot of people told me that I didnt need a rhinoplasty but I had gotten one anyway simply because I myself didnt like how my nose looked on my face. If you ultimately end up accepting the way your nose looks, I feel great for you. But if you end up getting a rhinoplasty, I'll still feel great for you. Its whatever you want and however it affects you and the way you feel. Also, the anesthesias not too terribly bad. I had a mini freak out about it an hour before I had to go in for surgery, but really, if you are a healthy individual with no pre-existing conditions, you should be more then fine. They told me the anesthetic would take up to a minute to work but I was out like a light in only 5 seconds. And itll make a 4 hour procedure feel like two minutes. It was like I was temporarily stopped in time. Sooner then I knew it, I awoke to a lady shoving ice chips in my mouth lol.

No. 129758

Sageing for the samefaggery but also, they can either put you under local or general and I think the only reason I had to get general was because I had a deviated septum as well.

No. 129773


Thank you guys for your responses. The anaesthesia is the most scariest part for me. Idk why, I feel like I'm going to die while they putting me into sleep lol

Funny enough, irl no one ever told me that my nose looks fine or similar. Everyone sort of understood where I was coming from or why I would want to get surgery.

Guess I will just get it over with in 2020

No. 130842

I have a consultation with a facial surgeon in a few weeks about my underbite and chin jutting out, and now I'm second-guessing myself. I know exactly what's bothering me, but what if it's not enough to warrant surgery? When I told my mom about it, she got really mad? I finally have enough saved up, but she says that it's money down the drain. I'm also sort of afraid of following through with it and not liking the result. I just want to not look like a neanderthaal..

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No. 125416[Reply]

>my dad is dating the girl who bullied me in high school
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No. 125439

honestly i would probably already have stopped talking to my father for the mere fact of dating someone my age (that shit is creepy as fuck even if he's "handsome" and "young looking") but if he's dating straight up your former bully classmate, tell him its either her or you and if he chooses her, never talk to him again. Unless he's loaded with money and planning on leaving you a hefty inheritance, you have nothing bt a creepy bad father to loose.

No. 125441

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>literally kill him/delete him from your life instead of addressing the problem maturely
lol classic lolcow responses

they're fucking right tho I got deepweb connects anon send me his address I got you bb

No. 125452

Wow, what a psycho.

No. 125453

deleting him from OP's life (going no contact) is the most mature thing to do here. There's no possible redeeming quality this man could have. he's a shit father, so he shouldn't get to be a father at all.

No. 125465

Why the fuck does this have its own thread? put it in the advice thread or something ffs

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No. 71546[Reply]

what is your daily routine like? particularly health & beauty? i've never had a proper educational female role model in my life and i need help.

>28 years old
>have been suffering from major depressive disorder since forever, basic routine for many many years has been wake up 15 minutes before i have to leave for work, shower & brush teeth/hair, go to work, come home, smoke weed, then sleep
>recently put on short term disability from work with the goal of creating a normal routine (things like health/beauty, cooking & cleaning, etc) without the added stress of work, then gradually integrate work into this routine
>never had anyone to show me how to do girly things like makeup, have a skincare routine, night routine, etc. didn't wear a real bra until i was 19, still don't know how to properly style my hair.
>figured out how to do basic makeup good enough for job interviews & dates, thank you internet
>previously my skin looked and felt nice with just soap & water
>as i'm approaching 30 my skin is becoming dry as fuck, especially my forehead. i want to create a daily skincare routine for this
>also want to implement other health/beauty routines, easy & healthy meal prep routines, cleaning routines, interested in learning where other people place priorities and manage time
>want to feel like a normal woman/person, not some goblin hiding away in her house

please help.
thank you
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No. 71938

try looking for quick exercises you can do maybe while you're getting ready in the morning or before you get ready for bed. lord knows I need to start exercising too, or at least start walking again when the weather gets warmer

No. 125360

Literally this, but male… Which makes it more sad I think.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 125364

Since the thread got necroed I reread it and remembered this is my post… and I am happy to report I'm now regularly doing every single item on my list of things I need to add to my routine. The trick was to make a spreadsheet with daily/weekly to do lists and tick boxes so I don't forget anything and feel guilty if I don't tick them. It was literally like flicking a switch to get me motivated.

No. 125391

My routine:
>wake-up 1,5 to 2 hours before I have to leave for uni.
I get laughed at for waking up this early but I hate rushing in the morning more than anything. If uni starts late or I have nothing to attend that day I'll wake up at 7:30-8 am-ish.
>get dressed, I pick my clothing the night before
>make bed
(seriously do this, one easy accomplishment will motivate you for the rest of the day)
>put on water to boil
>go feed my pets
>water's boiled for tea at this point
>have a long and slow breakfast
>do my hair, skincare and make-up
>brush and floss teeth
>usually have time left over at this point so I'll get some reading for uni done
>leave to catch the bus

I have no set routine for the rest of the day. Evening's just showering, brushing teeth, cleansing skin and skin care before I go to sleep.

No. 125399

>(seriously do this, one easy accomplishment will motivate you for the rest of the day)
For sure, making your bed in the morning is a seriously good lifehack. It just makes you take more pride in your surroundings and helps prevent the onset of laziness and a loss of control over your life.

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No. 124711[Reply]

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No. 124728

do you even know what ethnic means, anon?

No. 124730

this is like the 6th "post men you like" thread. i'm ashamed.

but yeah Zayn.

No. 124732

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Can they be models?
Although realistically I'd never date a model or celeb.
We hate men but are also thirsty.

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No. 124333[Reply]

lately ive been feeling quite sad and lonely abt people irl and online seeming not to show interest in me, i feel like a waste of space

>ive started to browse 4chan, made a few post and even they dont like me

>if the lowest of the low dont care for me then clearly its a sign that im nothing

anyone else feel like this any tips on how to cope ?
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No. 124416

Wanting validation is fine and all but 4chan anon really? Maybe you lowkey know you'll be treated like that and do it on purpose so it confirms how shit you feel. If you want sexual validation, go on tinder. Or go on those woe is me subreddits, maybe even make up a crazy story, it's pretty easy to bait redditors lol

No. 124588

I got a piece of advice: "people can tell when others are asking for validation, and it's a huge turn-off." I stopped (why continue if it's having the opposite effect of what I want, right?). It was difficult. Now I feel a lot better. I get validated just as often, and it actually means something to me. 10/10 would recommend. Godspeed, anon.

No. 124601

Validation and attention is all about ego. Humans are social animals. If you try and feed the ego, you'll find it's never enough. This is why I disagree with anons who say the right path is looking inwards and validating yourself. In fact, what your ego is trying to compensate for is lack of connection to the world, belonging.

Here's my advice: pull your head put of your ass. Stop being so self-centred. Go help at a homeless kitchen. Volunteer at an animal shelter. Waltz into your local firefighter department and offer to answer the phone or do paperwork. Ask your elderly neighbour do they need help with something.

If you spend your entire time gazing up your navel, no wonder everything will seem dark and stinky. There is a whole beautiful wide world out there that NEEDS YOU. Be the force of light. Help others. It takes so little, it means so much. It changes lives. It changes you. People who do that are the ones that make this world worth living in. Go make this world worth living in.

No. 124885

Hey anon, I'm feeling a similar way. If you were to drop an email or discord I'd be happy to chat (unless youre a scrote).

No. 131023

This is a very sad, infuriating and pathetic thread.

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No. 75631[Reply]

There is another thread for fit girl problems, but this is a thread open for everyone regardless of your experience with fitness and exercise.

Some ideas for what to discuss:
>share your fitness/body/health goals
>ask questions
>exchange tips and advice
>post routines
>update on progress
>vent about roadblocks
>give support!

Hopefully this thread can be a mix of people who are totally new and people who have been at it for a while. We can help each other out.
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No. 124269

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Does anyone else have this problem? My legs look like they belong on a 60 year old woman because the fat just sags around the knees. How do I get rid of fat around my knees! I can’t wear cute mini skirts without looking like a pudgy toddler

No. 124273

I have this too, anon. Although I think bone structure has a lot to do with it as well (same as the hip dip issue). Personally my mom had similar distribution even when she was very athletic in her youth so I just have trash genes when it comes to legs. When I touch my knees I can even feel that the joints are just slightly more inward than they "should" be.
Accept your ugly legs anon!! Or get really strong so people feel threatened when they're exposed.

No. 124276

No. 124277

Broad hipped/hourglass shaped Anon here with ab lines. I don't mean to come off as humblebraggy but what I did is vacuum exercises or the "sucking in" thing, I also just ate a normal diet, like not too much, not too little but very nutritious, I like the Mediterranean diet but I do have my days where I want soda and junk but my metabolism is fast so it may be harder for those with slow metabolisms. I also have lots of sex like 2-3 times every other day or every three days or whenever my bf can come over. I only noticed my ab lines coming in the more I had sex

No. 124305

Is this just to improve circulation to the legs? It doesn’t seem to be strength training

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No. 98619[Reply]

Is it ever ethical to lie about your sexual past? I feel like I've dealt with a lot of shit and even though I've had tons of partners that's not who I am now.

Asking on lolcow because let's face it, most of us here have a phase or two where we've had sex with men we barely know, hooked up with losers, slept with men we met online etc. We've all been there so I want to know there's light at the end of the tunnel.

I'm just tired of that life now. Want to settle down.
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No. 121959

Promiscuous people are more likely to cheat, I wouldn't date a manwhore.

No. 123792

lying to your partner or avoiding the question is absolutly immoral imo. you're hiding something that tells a lot about someone personality and is also something that is a big predictor of marriage success.

i'm a woman btw, don't think that everyone that has more conservative views must be necesseraly an incel.

No. 123795

i kind of wish i was a slut when i was a teen because now i'm in my twenties and a virgin and terrified of sex. at least if i had experience i'd probably be willing to do it again.

No. 123903

I can feel the frustration in this comment. Theres a moderation, between being a slut and being afraid of it.

There's nothing to be ashamed of, and you can't rush it.

People who are sensitive about it need a good first time more than anyone, a friend of mine had a bad first experience with a guy and she still has negative feelings because of it. It's important to recognize you're afraid, and instead of thinking punishing thoughts like that, come to an understanding that it's not your fault. You can work on it, even without a partner, in many ways.

No. 124221

The general social survey has been keeping track of the numbers of sexual partners in relation to marital happiness for decades. Virgins do have a happiness advantage. And yes. It benefits men to be virgins too. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
I've never seen anything corrilating abuse with virgin marriage.
This may be an unpleasant subject. But you shouldn't live your life by statistics. You should just take them under consideration.

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