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No. 146198[Reply]

Have you ever had a guy or a girl pretend to like you? I just found out a guy I've been talking to for a while now only pretended to like me because they were insecure and I gave them attention and validation. I feel so pathetic and humiliated right now.
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No. 146500

>tfw I've been going through this too
Been talking to a guy for a few months now and he seems pretty interested but I always wonder if it's not me, but just that I'm a female who actually gives him attention.

He has his shit together and isn't an incel which is even weirder

No. 146509

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I always tend to get people going full retard and telling me everything and anything that has ever happened in their life, they just want attention, and I usually give them a few crumbles here and there, but I don’t really get involved in their lives as they want me to.

I guess some people just attract those attention seekers more than others, I’ve had at least three weirdos telling me about their last breakup, their suicidal tendencies or that one person they really really like.

I particularly feel extremely uncomfortable when they start talking to me for a few hours and then they go:

>hey! I like this person a lot and I wish they paid attention to me!!1!1!

Like, why? Specially after flirting with me, it’s weird af and a huge turn off, I usually give them some love advice even though I’m single and then just let the whole thing die.

No. 146538

Omg the same thing happens to me, i think i might just be to nice, people irl and on the internet will tell me the story of their life and use me as their therapist.

I know i just should tell them to fuck off but i want to be liked so badly.

No. 146551

This is why I don't bother with e-friendships anymore. Does it happen to you in private messages? Guys get too attached it's ridiculous.

No. 146555

Ugh, it depends. My partner knows a shitload of people and keeps internet contact with many, I'd be jealous if he kept some of these hidden from me, but I do not hide the fact that this guy was DMing me, he even was in the same room with me several times during these chats.
When he asked me about it I told him the guy was initially trying to hit on me.
My partner could access my fb account anytime and read all the chats no problem, I never gave the guy any hope nor talked inappropriate stuff (we mostly speak about everything and anything, often about his problems with girls and with getting laid).
I don't expect it to become an actual friendship and it is not proper flirtation either.
I don't think it will go on much longer anyway, the only reason it did until now is because 90% of the times it's him starting a new conversation and me just being glad to respond.

I know, the strangest thing is that none of us knows much about the other, because none of us is using real name for the account nor pictures of ourselves. There is no chance in hell I am ever showing him a picture of me, and I am not interested in his looks either.
Paradoxically, "attracting" him without looks or personal details being involved is what fascinated me the most about the random chats.

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No. 146204[Reply]

Size chart for the underwear at Hollister(Gilly Hicks). My waist is 28 inches but my hips are 33. What size do I fucking get, the XXS or the medium?

No. 146207


I’d probably go with the XXS, but consider the cut of the underwear. Most undies these days are very low rise and will sit well below the waist, so you want it to fit most snugly around your butt.

If it is high rise underwear then I wouldn’t get anything from them because their sizing doesn’t seem suitable for your body type.

No. 146208

It's this: https://www.hollisterco.com/shop/us/p/lace-trim-cotton-boyshort-40266823?categoryId=6943192&seq=06&faceout=prod1
Actually I remember I bought underwear from here a while ago, it was a size S and was somehow very small, I could barely get it on and it rode up horribly. Which doesn't make sense because you said XXS would be best for me(and it was kind of low cut).

I guess this is underwear general now? it's hard trying to find underwear that fits and looks cute and isn't horribly expensive.

No. 146215

It's got 7% elastaine in it so it should stretch plenty.

No. 146258

Hrm sorry then anon, seems their sizing is kinda weird and unreliable overall. You could definitely give the medium a shot then.

Have you ever tried Aerie underwear? I can’t say they have the most consistent sizing either, but they’re pretty cute overall and the stuff I’ve got from them holds up well enough. I’d wait until one of their 10 for $25 sales because I think they’re overpriced otherwise.

No. 146328

Thanks, I've been looking at them too. There's actually a 10 for 35 sale rn… so close yet so far. How often do they do 10 for 25 sales?

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No. 115141[Reply]

last thread: >>87606
No shame no gain
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No. 146781

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My most recent awful sexual fantasy has been being fucked by a guy and then right after he finishes, him shooting me in the head. Preferavle in special forces uniform

No. 147275

I love fantasizing about repressed bisexual, straight-presenting guys. I don't even like yaoi/bl very much, but the idea of a loving, committed guy with a girlfriend/wife getting seduced by a handsome taller man who wants to top him is so hot to me. I've kinda just accepted I have a cuckqueaning fetish at this point, and love imagining an mmf threesome with the guy doing vaginal penetration and taking anal penetration at the same time.

No. 148335

I like the entire idea of having sex in a mental hospital it makes me so fucking ashamed. I also don't know if it haves a specific name so if any anons know where I can find written stuff about this please let me know

No. 149826

I want to fuck a horse

No. 152214

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this you?

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No. 145649[Reply]

Post anything related to styles that are not typically associated with traditional femininity.
Anything considered boyish, masculine, androginous etc.

>Have you always dressed like a tomboy?

>What is your experience with it?
>Post a picture of the kind of clothes you like
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No. 145774

That's a nice waist/hip ratio. I guess some waist emphasis would be nice.

No. 145807

Our torso proportions aren't similar but I'm a fellow short hourglass so maybe I can help out! waist emphasis is good (as well as high-waisted bottoms) but in the end you will always look very feminine and will fill out the clothes so you'll never have an androgynous illusion if that is what you're after. It just will never, not ever, happen for us. Sorry to say but it just be like that.

As for what I do, I almost exclusively wear cropped denim (sometimes rolled to show ankles) that fits tight at the thighs and hips and loosens at the bottom but not too loose. Overall I keep the silhouette on the fitted side with slight looseness at the most. If I want to wear a loose shirt, I will wear a button-down thing that is rather big and flowy and underneath I will wear a very form-fitting tank top that I tuck under my denim. That way people can see I'm not fat but I still get to have a loose top. Definitely very fond of tucking tops in for that waist emphasis, I always do it. For fabrics I go for things that aren't too stiff. Stiff fabrics look blocky and the softness to my body clashes with it's structure so the fat effect happens.

Shorts look insanely femme on me as well and I hate them. I do wear them if it's simply too hot but if I'm gonna look that femme I'll throw on a dress and be even comfier tbh.

Overall I had to just accept that my shape is feminine and I can't look as androgynous as I want but I've found a way to mix casual pieces with cuts that flatter my shape. Imo looking at inspo pics of beanpole girls that have several inches of inseam length on you is a bad call and unfortunately those women are the main audience for tomboy fashion. But there are ways to make it work albeit in a "softer" way.

I don't think a baggy top that conceals her waist is a good idea because that is a big no-no for short women but hard to say without hearing her actual cm/inch measurements.

No. 145868

Any suggestions for belts to pair with white Air Force ones? Ever since growing my hair out I’ve felt more comfortable dressing more tomboyish while not looking like a teenager, so I wear a lot of baggy pants. I used to only wear doc martens so I would just wear black braided belts, like guys wear with business casual looks but I don’t know what to pair with white shoes that’s not girly, all I can think of is the white egirl grommet type belt and I hate that look. Sorry if this isn’t the right thread but I want to put this here rather than fashion general cause I don’t know if I’ll get the results I want!

No. 145875

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maybe these?

No. 146072

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>Have you always dressed like a tomboy?
Yes. I outright take clothes from the mens section of the store. I generally don't like womens clothes since, if not fashion, the space around the chest and thighs come off weird. I'm taller than some men so finding a fit isn't a major issue.

>What is your experience with it?

I got called a lesbian a few times in middle and high school or assumed to be trans. (I'm neither, but one time I was asked for my pronouns.) I've gotten negative comments about my dress style before or how I'm picking clothes from the men's section, but in every case I haven't given a fuck.

>Post a picture of the kind of clothes you like

It's almost always going to be something plain or not very showy, but the texture and quality of the clothes is aesthetic. Sir Integra's awesome, not in a sense I'd try to emulate her style as I'm nowhere near being blond, anime-tall, and Protestant enough.

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No. 72269[Reply]

General discussion for everything fashion:Styles,Brands,favorite influences, favorite icons etc.

Post outfit coordination for critique and advice. :)

Posting one I came up with for starters, not sure what to call my personal style.
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No. 145968

Is there a way I can avoid having camel toes in dress pants?

No. 145983

What bras have cute straps that I can show under a tank top and where can I find them? Or soft comfortable bandeau style bras?

No. 146005

Lace bralettes for sure, I have a white one to wear under tank tops/see through white shirts that I have to wear a bra with. You can find them at pretty much any store, mine actually has underwire (got it at target) but I’ve seen similar ones without underwire at free people, francesca’s, aerie, etc.

No. 146009

Please take it to the new fashion thread anons >>124317

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No. 145271[Reply]

Did you use to wear Jfashion but don't do it anymore? Did you try to look like your favorite celeb/idol but then changed your style completely? Did you use to look like an alternative girl but now look like a normie? This is the thread for you!

Discuss how your style changed, how you dress nowadays, if you still like certain elements or incorporate some into your wardrove, what made you want to change, did you keep your friendships etc.
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No. 145608

>This service is not available
in your region.

aw man

No. 145821

When I entered high school, with the limited resources available to me, I was wearing tight black clothing, heavy winged eyeliner, and gave myself a choppy emo haircut. I transitioned into a normie phase shortly after largely because of the influence of school friends.

Towards the end of high school I regained an interest in weirding out, shaved off some of my hair, experimented with men's shirts and trousers paired with '80s punk style makeup and flamboyant piercing jewelry. I started going to a lot of punk shows at this time and incorporated some staples into my wardrobe like a studded collar, patchwork jacket and combat boots.

As I developed a more active lifestyle I became more comfortable with early '90s streetwear styles. A couple of years into the '90s revivalism I was getting quite bored with my wardrobe and leaning into normie trends until I started collecting vintage clothing. Its been a few years now and I dress almost exclusively in vintage clothing from the 1930s-70s. It makes me happy, I have never had a wardrobe so diverse in colours, prints, fabrics and silhouettes. I love feminine, flamboyant, one of a kind pieces and the quality of vintage clothing. Kind of annoying niche thing to be into, but whatever. It's what I feel confident wearing.

No. 145829

I had a brief emo phase when I was 13-14, emo was already on its death bed back then but it was still fairly present. My fashion sense was horrible though and I hated makeup so it probably didn't read much like emo to others.
When I was 14-15 I had a phase where I all I would wear was cargo pants that I got from the army surplus shop with tank tops (I wanted to be a video game action girl I guess, despite being as unathletic as they come).
After that came the ultra feminine vintage flowy dress phase where I'd look for purples and pastels and lots of lace detailing. This phase kind of transitioned into an interest in classic lolita.

Fast forward to now and I 90% of what I wear is black, be it gothic lolita or other styles of goth.

No. 145872

I worked in the restaurant industry for a decade wearing whatever I wanted, and often would dye my hair a crazy color, shave off half either undershaving or on the side. I have recently gotten into a conservative career field, where during the interview process I had to quickly do my natural hair color and start accumulating 'normal' clothes. I basically tried to dress like Olivia Benson from Law and Order SVU.
My boyfriend is trying to get me to 'mature' my look on my off days too. I tend to dress in t-shirts and jeans on my days off, and at work I have to wear a polo and office pants. I don't really care about maturing my outside of work look though, I'm pretty out of shape and my off days are the only days I feel like myself. So I guess I'm not really NOT alternative anymore…just part time, I guess.

No. 145907

Ot but you sound fucking delightful anon

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No. 145654[Reply]

Gonna share personal feelings I've been going through to start this off
I'm what I would call an 80% bisexual leaning gay woman
I kinda have regrets about marrying at such a young age but my husband is the only man I have ever had sexual relations with
I grew up in a conservative country so I was never free to explore my homosexual side
I dont know why but I still feel supremely drawn to the idea of dating a woman and getting to know her
Feeling comfortable with each other to take things further sexually
Thing is I absolutely love my husband and feel like we are supremely compatible personality wise
It just always feels like something is missing in the romantic/sexual department which I am attributing to my gayness
Every few months/years of me denying my homolust makes me seek out lesbians to talk to hoping someone can understand and give me answers
I feel like I should be 100% happy with what I have but I'm not…
Not knowing yourself fully and exploring it is true suffering(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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No. 145744

op is either a larping scrote or a tranny (aka an even crazier larping scrote)

No. 145745

lolcow isn't 4chan. integrate or go away.

No. 145747

> Thing is I absolutely love my husband and feel like we are supremely compatible
You said you were 'indifferent' to him in a post like 5 mins later.

No. 145749

admin please lock this autistic thread

No. 145757

Locked due to autism. Any anons feel free to make a better bisexual general thread if you please.

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No. 113718[Reply]

Continued from >>71573
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No. 145224

are you a virgin or have you had sex a long time ago? You may be just not stretched enough. Even if you had penetration sex before, after a long time the opening may be "tense" again and you need to work it out slowly, one finger at a time

No. 145227

Eh, just try something new, anon. Like the corner of a chair or table. I definitely have better orgasms after abstaining for a bit, so sure, you could try taking a break, but a few months is a bit over the top. Try a week, you should see a difference just from that.

No. 145260

It took me like 3 whole years to finally get penetrated with the same partner. A dildo girth might be too big for you right now. Use your fingers and if not fingers, purchase a skinnier toy. Learn where your vagina hole ACTUALLY is and if your hymen is still there. If the hymen entrance is small, you have to stretch it through, which will take a lot of time and practice. Go slow and dont give yourself high standards and expect to take the whole thing at once. Use a lot of lube (like a lot) and make sure the head of the toy is coated in lube as you press it in. It should be slow and hard to penetrate but after you get past the entrance it slides in smoothly and painless. If you feel a burning sensation pushing in, theres not enough lube. I thought I had vaginismus but it was really just my hymen being hard to push through as cause I was scared of pain (and it was very painful at the time). Just take it very slow and dont get impatient or it will hurt.

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No. 134794[Reply]

No, he's not stupid, he just doesn't give a fuck.

Old thread:
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No. 145199

>used to receive a lot of nudes
>would pick up girls at clubs solely for sex
these two - I would say acceptable depending on your personal world view. Sleeping around is not a crime when under control.
But these two:
>"well I wouldn't say no if a pretty girl wanted to kiss"
>would sleep around often after getting drunk
Clearly imply there's no actual control. I would absolutely not get into something like this if I were you anon. At least he admitted these things so you know what to expect.

I'm dating a guy that slept around for some time in his life, but he has always been honest, told me about his past in a non-braggy way, almost never drinks - never to the point of not being accountable for his actions, and never did anything behind a back of a person he'd be involved in longer term. So on these circumstances it's easy to be cool with a partner who did plenty of hook ups in the past. Your case seems a bit more risky.

No. 145203

he's not like that, but if he was, yeah, I'd leave without doubt

Thanks anons.
I understood quickly that he's this kind of person who "goes with the flow". That's why I didn't do anything first and waited for him to pursue, which was new to him as girls would always take the lead. He was actually very shy with me. I find it a bit funny that he couldn't touch me for so long but would pick up random girls in clubs before.
It is indeed risky, now that I read your thoughts. I'm not sure yet if he has poor impulse control (in which case I should be worried and reconsider) or that was just a phase.
I wanted to avoid this topic but now I think maybe I should ask about it somehow. I don't want to hurt him by saying I'm suspicious he could cheat on a whim, but I guess I need it explained to be calmer. Any idea how to word it nicely?

No. 145205

fucking kek, genuinely sorry you never experienced a good man. No hate. Any time a new guy insisted on paying for me every time, he turns out to be misogynistic garbage who thinks he can pay his way to my puss. Now I just stick to halfsies or we switch every date (it's nice bc it's implying we have a future date).

No. 145211

Men who split the bill are still misogynists, they're just happy to waste your time and not pay for it. 95% of men are trash, might as well get a meal out of the vetting process

No. 145218

damn are you a consultant? i don't need to be paid for my time. if the date was a failure then we both wasted our time.

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No. 58871[Reply]

Here we can discuss black hair issues etc

>be black

>2 years ago I would have been shamed for wearing my natural hair
>the "natural hair" meme started around 2015ish
>now in 2017 you're considered a slut/hood rat if you straighten your hair and or wear weave
>the only acceptable "natural hair" is the mixed girl kind, when people mean go natural that is what they expect your hair to be like.
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No. 144910

You'll need to fully remove them and learn to draw them on, anon.

No. 144913

Have you tried eyebrow lamination

No. 144915

use got2be ultimate hair gel in them. It works amazing. if you want something semi-permanent, try eyebrow lamination. Amazon sells at home kits and they are safe and work great.

No. 144987

finally a thread i mostly relate to!
I have really kinky hair, the most my mom could do when i was a little girl was plaits so i never really styled my hair in my high school years. I got teased a lot by students and one of my upperclassmen even tried to straighten my hair, she ended up burning it a bit and it became short.

at first i decided to have extensions to help grow my hair but then when i started attending university I started wearing wigs. people kept on thinking it was my real hair and I have been wearing wigs a lot since then (while keeping my hair in plaits underneath). I am honestly so envious of the black women who can do stuff with their natural hair and wish I could do the same too but my hair is too rough.

No. 145004

I’m so happy that this thread got bumped back up. I’m mixed with 3c hair and recently changed my routine for the better. I had so many questions I wanted to ask, but I figured that if this thread was dead there wasn’t a big enough demand for it on this board for me to be able to relate to anyone. (also was annoyed by all the previous race baiting.) Hopefully we can stay on topic & help each other out.

>curly eyebrows exist
I learned something new today.

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