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No. 536154[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about EGL & EGA fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your Lolita friendships. Ex Lolitas and newbies are welcomed too.
Old thread >>>/g/208345
Ita Thread >>>/g/466899
Favorite coords thread: >>>/g/528205

For drama, check out the tread on /w/
most recent: >>>/w/338177
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No. 585943

>>585051
When I started, Meta had only just begun to ship overseas and shipping and customs made it ridiculously expensive, like €400 for a basic JSK. Meta wasn’t exactly coveted back then either (with few exceptions) so I don’t know anyone who ordered from them. The only ‘shopping services’ were friends/family who travelled to Japan for work or holiday and could buy dresses in-store for you. The only other option was Bodyline, which was even shittier back then and sold for almost brand prices at conventions. Ironically my local comm was genuinely elitist then and the inner circle was this tiny club of girls who could afford to travel to Japan once a year and shop in-store. Everyone else was on the margins, kind of awkwardly socialising at cons and other public events but not allowed in the ‘official’ lolita community. I remember trying to talk to the brand girls after a fashion show they’d organised at a con once, wearing a handmade dress, and they completely ignored me, like pretended I wasn’t there and they couldn’t hear me talking. I was 14 and cried when I got home kek

Anyway it’s wild to me when people act like the lolita community in 2025 is elitist and the clothes are hard to get. It has never been easier to wear lolita or find a community that accepts you. There’s people in my comm now who post ‘coords’ that consist largely of Genshin Impact cosplay pieces and people still praise them. The bar is on the floor.

No. 585945

>>585943
That's very similar to my experience when I started out in maybe 2010. I would've killed for something like Lacemarket back then. However in Germany we had this small social media website to share coords with that also had a 2nd hand clothing section so it was possible to get your hands on burando already. There used to be a big section to help you coordinate and that helped explain rules too so everything you need to start out. RIP Dunkelsüß

No. 585957

>>585785
As >>585794 said you should try washing and air-drying first. Maybe add vinegar in the softener compartment if your piece can handle it as vinegar's really efficient at getting smells out. If you freeze your skirt don't stretch the shirring until it gets back to room temperature, that way the elastic should stay mostly intact.

No. 585958

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No. 586013

New thread here >>>/g/585962
Nonna who made it didn't post link and I accidentally made a repeat and had to delete kek, so I'm posting it.


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No. 408697[Reply]

Explain why you‘re against plastic surgery, discuss its influence on women and society as a whole, share stories of botched plastic surgery, expose evil plastic surgeons etc. etc.
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No. 585878

>>585740
Why would such a cute normal looking woman choose to become an ayy lmao… Looks gaunt and scary

No. 585880

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>>585740
Genuinely tragic. She had such a sweet face and all her features fit her, I love her natural nose.

No. 585881

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>>585880
Something like this should facilitate a change in contracts for actors, like you can't get feature-altering plastic surgery for continuity purposes or something if you want to remain on the show.

No. 585890

>>585807
She does not have lupus. She has Graves' disease, which causes facial swelling due to fat expansion. I believe she tried to get work done to correct it but went too far.

No. 585892

>>585890
That's an excuse for her extreme filler, in the same way Zac Effron claimed his gigantic chin implant is actually just swelling from a convoluted accident where he tripped and fell.


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No. 444697[Reply]

Previous Thread: >>393926
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No. 585803

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No. 585805

>>585802
but like did "the conversation" ever came up? were you asked if it was your first time, or did you just went in and did it without the other one asking? like i won't lie about my inexperience, but at the same time, i worry that if i keep it too real 24/7 i'll never be able to do it haha. like i just want to get it out of the way, a relationship doesn't even have to happen after.

No. 585806

>>585805
She already knew I was inexperienced. It wasn’t a problem though. I think she was mostly worried about rushing me or making me feel uncomfortable, but I ended up being the crazy slavering animal in bed kek.

No. 586906

Hi guys. I'm coming back from an exchange year in a week and a bit. I unfortunately missed my BFF's graduation + party so I want to make up for it. I know specific things she likes but like… I want to do something big and nice. Do you have any ideas? We live in the city so I thought maybe high tea at a fancy place, but what are some good GIFT ideas? She likes anything cute, lolita fashion (but she's been out of it recently), Sylvanian families, etc. Anything helps, ty.

No. 587305

Nonnas who are prescribed antidepressants, can you give me any advice? I've been depressed for the past 10 years just about and I'm finally seeking help. I think it's time I tried medicating it, but I have some second thoughts.


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No. 482587[Reply]

It's time to revive my favorite /g/ thread after seven months. Post unusual and nitpicky things that turn you off of a person.

Previous
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No. 584132

>>584071
>>584077
Kek it depends, I should've been more clear. Those vocal fry giggles that they do to come off hot and dominant are cringe. But the natural ones are fine and cute.

No. 584660

A man that falls often in love

No. 585653

uncircumcised cocks

No. 585655

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>>485638
He looks like an average strongman contestant.

No. 585681

>>585653
jude(bait)


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No. 379519[Reply]

for mixed-race women to chat, vent, discuss culture dynamics, and generally gather. this goes for any mixed ethnicity woman. thread was suggested in the Asian girl problems thread.

Refer to site/board rules. Avoid infighting, please.
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No. 580027

>>580025
yeah it is a different experience, so idk why you're here, but maybe you'll relate to biracials who only have contact with one side of the family

No. 580029

>>580027
As I stated
> I don't mean to intrude, but I have this strange problem

Not trying to be hostile I just don't know where else to go. Trying to address this elsewhere just gets the "yea, I have Hazel eyes and waist length straight hair and for some reason nobody thinks I'm what I am" types.

This may not be the place, you're correct. Have a good day.

No. 580036

>>580009
insecurity about effeminate stereotypes and being caught between two cultures as different as Venus and Pluto, imho.
>>580014
I can't answer you directly, but I think it begs a critical question of identity
>How much of your identity do you decide for yourself, and how much is decide by other people?
Black, white, mixed, etc. or whatever I think we have a lot more agency than we give ourselves credit for. If you've decided you're black and think that's important live your best black life. If someone actually cares enough to try to convince you otherwise it's still YOU making the decision about who you are.

No. 580045

>>580029
there's a black girl thread

No. 585182

Do you ever feel like you're being studied by interracial couples of your mix? instead of being treated like a normal person.

idk what even to say. imo this mix creates people who are functionally monoracial, or just aggressively cringe


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No. 55375[Reply]

There isn't a j-fashion thread anymore so here's one. Talk about tips, makeup, hair tutorials, coords, jfash in general etc.

Pic related has cute makeup (though it's personally too much for me, I don't wear lenses). I usually prefer the very girly look for clothes (ruffly skirts, blouses, long socks, "kawaii" high heels, blouses, cardigans, lots of pink and white, etc) but it's almost always too over the top for me to wear in real life :(
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No. 559385

>>559367
Westerners tend to be about 10 years behind on jfashion trends

No. 559587

>>559367
>>559385
I'm sure some people just stay in the style they like and don't have the objective to follow the newest trend. Probably counts for Japanese people too.

No. 585105

What is everyone's favorite affordable brands that make more modest dresses? I don't really like showing my ass when I bend down. I have a few longer Axes Femme and Amavel pieces but the quality is a hit or miss for me. I love Misako Aoki's brand but there's not a lot to choose from.

No. 585126

>>585105
Pink House and Samansa Mos2, but it probably depends on the style you're looking for

No. 588883

>>559367
>>559385
I'm willing to bet most of us are now working adults who still love the jfashion we saw online as a teenager a decade ago


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No. 585043[Reply]

Does anyone else have an awkward relationship with their dad where they feel like they never know what to say to them? I feel like most of what I say to my dad is just superficial talk about like, the weather or something, sandwiched between lots of awkward silence. How do you overcome this?

No. 585046

Silence can be comfortable if you let it, there's no pressure

No. 585049

>>585046
I get that if the silence is occasionally anchored by meaningful conversation, I just feel like 99% of what we say is like, how I would talk to a stranger and it almost makes me feel.. guilty? Idk. I just wish I felt more genuine connection with my dad.

No. 585050

This is me with both of my parents. Also can newfags stop making shitty thread like this and lurk more?


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No. 57290[Reply]

Can we have a thread for depressed NEETs who use their bed as a sanctuary?

Do you spend most of your time in bed? Does anything work for you? Does exercise change your outlook? Have any changes helped?

Any contribution is appreciated. We all need a hand sometimes.
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No. 584802

>>584801
It truly is. I guarantee if you're insecure about people younger than you condescending you or making fun of you for not ~grinding~ or whatever, you shouldn't be because all of those young people will either be like you or be in a marriage as a semi-depressive SAHM. Worse, they'll be a weird minstrely "content creator" and ebeggar trying to game the algo, so while they may have money they're desperate and with no dignity or lobe development. Go at a pace designed for you. If you get behind or drag your feet, don't punish yourself or wallow in self loathing. Just get back up and keep walking forward. There is literally no formula to follow on earth that is any better than any other, if you arent hurting anyone else and trying to support yourself you are still doing lighyears greater than evil billionares or bad people.

No. 584854

>>584802
nta but this is very encouraging thank you

No. 585019

>>584854
Your life is uniquely your own. A lot of the simplistic, kind of cheesy words of encouragement that feel corny to say are absolutely right. Any of you–pursuing a life of sincerity, focusing on using a vocabulary that isn't snatched from new internet trends and developing interests that don't require convoluted online knowledge, and ridding yourself of irony poisoning are the first few steps toward hating yourself less for not achieving grandiose things. Nothing about your existence requires that you live a media-approved life. The basics are enough. Gratitude for each small milestone in the face of a world that views you as valueless without money or enterprise to exploit is genuinely a fuck you to people/establishments who want you powerless and miserable. If you feel you have to pursue alternative means of living, do that, but make sure you find support and community where you are.

No. 585064

>>585019
I am the anon from the original comment and this was so encouraging to read. I screenshoted it so I can revisit it. Thank you.

No. 585259

>>57324
Ik this post is old af but this is actually really inspiring nona. I hope you're doing well


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No. 81513[Reply]

What are the pros and cons of being short/tall?
Are you happy with your height or do you wish you could change it?
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No. 584868

I have a short friend who constantly posts about how she’s mistaken for a kid, but it’s broken the suspicion of disbelief at this point. First it was high school, then someone thought she was in middle school, and recently she claimed an elementary bus driver stopped on the street to pick her up. Next she’s going to say she was wandering through a hospital and a nurse tried to take her to a maternity ward.

No. 584909

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>>584492
I'm 5'0. I tend to perceive fat women at a similar height as "taller" than me, and slim women as "shorter". I'm relatively stocky, so I also generally perceive myself as taller and larger than I am. I'm often surprised in pictures how small I look relative to other people, I don't "feel" that small.

No. 584994

>>584400
Demoralization? Kek it reminds me of this tranny I met on a game a while ago. He was almost 7ft tall and claimed to be a real woman and specified that he was totally NOT a Troon but would refuse to voice chat, send pictures of his face or hands, literally anything. Said he was the shortest girl in his family and that his real female aunts were totes taller than him. Then we found his instagram and his pfp was his hideous rapehon face complete with the agp curls and 80s serial killer glasses + stare

No. 585034

I'm 5'1" and I like being short. It feels like it gives me an advantage in new social situations because short people are generally perceived as less of a threat but I could be imagining that. I also like that being short makes me a bit "cuter" feeling. Finding a romantic partner (man or woman) who is taller than me is incredibly easy and I prefer tall men and women as partners. I like to travel as well and being short makes being comfortable on an airplane really easy too since my legs don't cramp up from being squished into a space without much leg room.

I think the biggest con to being short is that short people can't eat as much as average and tall people without gaining weight. Having a tall partner can make it difficult to not overeat too if you're sharing mealtimes often.

No. 585201

>>584492
For me it's the opposite, I see short fat women as tiny (for context I'm on the taller side). I just notice height first.


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No. 54209[Reply]

Maybe it's just me, but I feel as though birth control is something that women don't talk enough about despite it being so complex and many people using it regularly. Let's post our comments/questions about birth control!

- contraception
- acne control
- PCOS management
- hormonal treatment
- ring vs. pill vs. non-hormonal
- side effects/benefits
- weight gain/loss
- etc.
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No. 581056

>>581035
Thanks anon for your insights. I am totally on your side and believe there are dual options here, I'm not one to fall for the tiktok trends discussing medicine so I do believe I probably need a second opinion. I was put on BC to stop the ovulation process which apparently is what creates cysts. But again I'm just not super confident in that information, wouldn't every woman have to be on it forever then? I am just starting to reconsider how I take medications and consider a more natural approach to my body. Maybe I do need BC, but I think it would be best to probably seek more medical advice.

No. 581612

Nonnies idk if this is the right thread but what are the chances of getting pregnant from precum alone? Are they even substantial?

No. 581847

>>581612
I remember learning from sex ed that you can get pregnant from it

No. 582243

I've been on the pill for about 8 years now, for the fact it clears my skin and reduces my menstrual flow. It also seems to maket me less irritable and overemotional. But I miss having even a sliver of libido so I kind of want to get off it now. Any advice of what I could do to fix the aforementionned issues? My blood flow is really heavy so stuff like just drinking cranberry juice or whatever won't work.

No. 584980

Any nonas try the OTC Opill? I have never used birth control in my life since I thought I'd be celibate forever but now have a Nigel. We had sex and were very careful with condoms, but know that's not enough. What appeals most to me is no doctor visits that I'd have to take off work to do to get it.


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