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No. 135846[Reply]

Does anyone have lanugo on here or had in the past? Mine is getting really out of hand and I'm not sure how to deal with this. I wanna wax it but I'm afraid about they growing back with vengeance. What do?

No. 135851

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I'm an Arab and I absolutely how hairy I am (sorry for not having advice)

No. 135857

gain weight anon

No. 135964

I feel you anon, I used to be a ana-chan and even after being fully recovered I still have it. With my experience waxing does last a little longer apposed to shaving every other day, its never grown back worse after waxing so i say give it a go.

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No. 115426[Reply]

In need of advice? Post here!

Last thread: >>87009
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No. 136635

Need some general advice on what to say when ending a friendship? We've been friends for about 7 years now, and we work for the same company which is adding a tougher level to this. But long story short, her personal issues and constantly negative outlook has drained me and I simply don't want to be close with her anymore - the friendship doesn't make me happy. I want to focus on friendships that are fulfilling to me, so I intend to approach her once we're back to normal living, but how can I explain this but do as little damage as possible? She's very dramatic and will definitely try to guilt trip me into remaining her friend. So I need to go into the conversation with something structured to say…yeah, any tips would be appreciated anons.

No. 137010

When someone at times clearly shows they care about you and check up on how you're feeling and if you're okay but at other times they're saying things that are rude and unnecessary to say and they don't apologize for it, could that person be autistic or something? At other times they're very caring so I don't understand their thought process

No. 137425

How should I go about finding a roommate when I'm moving to a brand new city?

I just graduated university and am moving to Boston for grad school, but I don't know anybody. Boston is pretty expensive and while I do think it'd be cool to live on my own, I also think I might have to find a roommate to split the rent with if it turns out I can't find a reasonable place to stay. A few people have been posting in housing groups and I'm sure some people will start posting in my grad school Facebook group to look for roommates, but it's sort of daunting living with a total stranger. I don't want it to end up in a situation where I dread coming back to my own apartment, especially because my program is supposed to be pretty intensive. I think I'd go insane if I was stressed out by school and by my situation at home.

In university, I ended up meeting a girl who lived in the same dorm as me and I moved in with her and her friend (who later became my friend), so when I moved into my own place it wasn't like I was living with complete strangers. If I were to message someone saying I was interested in being roommates with them, what sort of questions should I ask to see whether I'd get along with them or not? How long after talking to someone should I decide if I want to room with them? I would feel bad if I told someone I was interested in being roommates with them and then backed out after a few months because I felt I didn't vibe with them. (For reference, I plan to move sometime in August)

No. 137476

Anon, I am in a very similar situation to you right now, though I don't work with said friend. Unlike you though, I'm a huge coward and can't tell people to their face that I don't want to see them anymore. Basically, I just said that I was getting really busy and stressed out with my own personal stuff and wanted to spend more time focusing on myself because focusing too much on other people was impacting my mental health (which is only a half lie), so I wanted to greatly reduce the amount of time we saw each other.

Anyway, if you want to be straight up about it, I think you have to word it in a way that makes it seem like it isn't completely her fault. Maybe start with saying that you have been feeling drained in general recently and then gradually point out the fact that the things she's doing aren't helping that you're feeing that way? If she's a negative person around you all the time, I assume she essentially is using you as a therapist for her problems (which is what my friend did to me), so you can add that you don't think you're the kind of person she needs right now (without outright saying she should go see a therapist). But yeah, I've found that if you tell someone you want to focus on your mental health and then withdraw from the relationship, people will leave you alone without becoming incredibly upset.

No. 138216

I know the world isn’t really built for chicks like me and that I’ll never find the girl I’m looking for and I really don’t know how to cope with that? Like I just want a pretty girlfriend whose pinkpilled, fully lesbian, an appropriate age (I’m 19 so 18-24 I guess?), not butch, and doesn’t mind that I’m sort of a bummer. Life’s a drag and instead of letting it get me down I just make fun of everything and everybody. Sure, most of the people around me think I’m an asshole cause of it but it’s better than just being sad all the time. But it’s rare to find lesbian girls nowadays, lesbian dating apps and groups and events are just full of bisexual/pansexual/i-like-dick-and-pussy-sexual girls who don’t really want to date women for more than a few weeks or are just looking for someone to bring back home to their boyfriends. Even in the rare times I encounter a girl who identifies as exclusively lesbian she’s so ~trans inclusive~ and into queer culture that it’s not worth pursuing. Sometimes I feel like the world just isn’t built for girls like me and I have no chance at ever being happy and I think that I’d probably be better off dead because of how lesbians and women in general are treated in society. I’m not gonna kill myself or anything, I’m too much of a pussy to do that. But I’m always daydreaming about dating a cute girl who shares my worldviews and likes me exactly how I am and will be there to support me when nobody else does even though I know this realistically is never gonna happen so I’m just left with this empty longing feeling and it’s shitty. I don’t know what to do about it. I wanna die. Also everything I just typed is ramble-y and dumb. I’ve been drinking sorry y’all. But I need to just let this all out because it’s been weighing on me for the whole ass last year of my life.

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No. 135321[Reply]

Is marriage a scam in your opinion? I think it is
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No. 135587

do you even know how to cook and clean the house? being a housewife is not as easy as it seems
also few good men are willing to let their wives lazy around all day, the marriage'd fall apart

No. 135593

what do you mean by intentions? i didn't think that far it was just a passing thought tbh i like the stupid idea of it

>do you even know how to cook and clean the house? being a housewife is not as easy as it seems

yeah lmao i've been living by myself for 7 years, how old are you?

i don't care if the marriage falls apart, this is just a stupid idea, i just like the fantasy of doing whatever i want without thinking about money or obligations. i wouldn't be a dumb tradwife, i'd probably have time and means to set up my own business with all that free time and resources

No. 135609

Nta but how does sharing a vague fantasy of "I want to stay home and have fun and live off my husband, lots of hobbies and eww no kids!" add to this conversation? It's the kind of naive fantasy a little girl would have. Yes a millionaire pushover husband would be great but everyone else is discussing the reality of married life here.

No. 135610

You'd bring nothing to the table exept housekeeping and he'd bring everything to the table. So what's in it for him to have a wife that sits at home all day? He either wants a live-in housemaid he can have sex with and/or enjoys having the complete control and power over you in the relationship.

Or he's a pushover like >>135609 said

No. 135742

What about when the monoparent is wealthy or well off? I know a lot of problems stem from poverty and single motherhood tends to have that decrease in standard of living.

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No. 135555[Reply]

Trans woman here why do you girls hate us so much?(MALE)

No. 135557

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I don't hate transwomen/men who legitimately feel gender dysphoria.I'm alright with them going to a psychiatrist to actually be diagnosed by a professional psychiatrist with gender dysphoria and transitioning to try to cure their gender dysphoria,but I do dislike transwomen/men who convince themselves they're trans because they watch too much trap porn/ yaoi and don't speak to a psychiatrist (even then, they're just misguided and it's their enablers fault)

No. 135558

Also I hate the ones who are obviously doing it as a fetish and then expect some form of rights.

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No. 51324[Reply]

Ok, so there was already a thread talking about some uni stuff, but I wanted to start a more general thread where we could all let off a little steam, ask for advice, etc.

I'm about to go back to uni to do a post-grad and people on the Facebook group are already pissing me off. 90% of the people on the course are whiny girls who haven't grown up since high school and all they have done is sit and bitch about how bad everything is away to be. I'm feeling really apprehensive about meeting people in person now, because I really wanted to just have a group of friends who I could hang out and study with.

These are definitely not the kind of people I want to have to spend time with if possible, but I don't wanna end up just hanging out with a bunch of dudes all year, so now i'm stressing out. What should I do?
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No. 128498

I'm struggling with a random class that's required to graduate and it has nothing to do with my major or minor yet it's needed and writing intensive. I'm struggling to balance everything so I'm neglecting classes I'm doing well in so I can study more for this one..

No. 135473

Tips/places to download publications online?

Yeah I know I wouldn't steal a television and poor academics are suffering. My uni library sucks right now so I can't get the course book I need.

Sometimes I get lucky finding books I need in pdfdrive.com.

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No. 135480

thank you, kind anon!
I wish you success in your studies/work/whatever you are doing with your life

No. 135481

Most people would send you a paper if you ask them, since they don't earn much from review publication.
Here's a list for you, Anon, other than Sci-hub and libgen.






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No. 76339[Reply]

Anyone from Lithuania? I really want a friend to hang out with..
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No. 127060

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Man įdomu, kas iš mūsų gyvena Lietuvoj, vs. užsienyj. Aš pvz vienišas grybas, neturiu jokių normalių lietuvių su kuriais galėčiau draugaut. Aplinkui mane, iš esančiujų lietuvių išvis nėra su kuom bendraut, o jei ir yra keli bendraamžiai tai visiški vištagalviai. Gaila. Norėtūsi dažniau su bendrašaliais pabendraut.

Iš kur tu sužinojai apie lolcow?

No. 131161

ne žmogus iš viršaus bet
gyvenu vln,nemažai lyg ir draugų bet artimų nelabai turiu, lolcow tai radau kai kažką reverse image searchinau

No. 131371

Ayy finaly some lithuanianfags. Was also wondering if there are many of us here
P.S. Vilnius

No. 133513

Esu ne mergina iš Kauno. Šitą š saitą radau labai, labai atsitiktinai.
Lankausi čia 1-2x į mėnesį.
Čia mano pirmas postas. (tik atsižymėjau)

No. 135274

wow so many lithuanians you should check out Grimoire on youtube or twitch or other platforms shes great and would probably love to see a bunch of other lith girls

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No. 122983[Reply]

Old thread hit the limit! >>>/g/108637
Having some relationship issues or questions and need to vent or get advice? Come here and talk with fellow farmers for another point of view.
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No. 134631

he's trying to get a rise out of you, don't give him the satisfaction

No. 134633

How do I explain to my partner the impact that watching snuff porn as a child had on me? I came across it when I was maybe 7/8 years old and kept reading and watching that kind of content until maybe age 13. I hate to act like it was some kind of trauma inflicted upon me because I viewed it all out of my own volition, but it messed me up. I have all these morbid kinks and obsessions and I'm completely desensitised to a lot of disturbing stuff. I'm ashamed of being this way. even being sexually assaulted did not make me feel so bad. How do I talk about it? Should I? Or should I just keep it hidden from her in case it weirds her out and drives her away? She knows I'm into gross stuff and knows I've been watching porn since childhood but I've never told her the extent and how it distresses me. Am I being dramatic for feeling this way?

No. 134656


Thank y'all for giving me your opinions on this. I don't feel like an ass anymore. He can cry more, I have no intention to talk to him any time soon. He can go fuck himself.

No. 134690

okay good, that's what I was going to do anyway. he basically said that he was upset because me kissing another guy so soon 'confirms what he already thought' before we broke up? like what the fuck does that mean - I hate when men are obviously insecure and they insist on taking it out on their partner. I'm horrifically insecure but I wouldn't ever dream of projecting that onto another person. Good to know I wasn't just being irrational, thank god I ended it when I did

No. 134795

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No. 110770[Reply]

I am a "manly" female. I was a tomboy growing up. When I was a child I hated wearing dresses, I always felt stupid or that I would be ridiculed for wearing them. In elementary school I insisted on wearing "boys" clothes, even boxer shorts, and my parents went along with it. In middle and high school I wore pretty "gender neutral" clothing, but I was heavily into the punk scene so it was still strange clothing by average standards.
Now I'm an adult and I've tried to ignore my past and embrace femininity.
I dress pretty basic, just jeans and shirts.
I am struggling as an adult female though. I have no female friends and I don't know how to make any. I have not had any since I was a child, and back then it was forced friendship and not genuine. I have not even had a single friend for many years. The only "friends" I make that I can be myself around, are men who either want to be in a relationship with me (but I refuse, so the friendship dissolves), or men who I enter a relationship with (but I am never happy in).
I feel like I can only relate to men, but I cannot be friends with men, because men only want to fuck women.
I feel like friendships between women are not and will never be as deep or meaningful as friendships between men. I understand that this is something I will never experience, and it fucking hurts me so much.
I feel I am experiencing gender dysphoria, however I will absolutely never transition or put it out in the open.
I just don't understand what is happening in my mind, but I feel like there may be some kind of childhood trauma that I cannot trace.
Can anyone offer any help as to why I feel this way, or should I go straight to a psychiatrist? I am now 28, and I am in so much emotional pain. I feel my biological clock ticking away and I don't know where to even start with my problems.
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No. 134022

This is just me, but I have makeup and dyed hair (incl. theater, halloween, and beauty purposes) heavily associated with bad odor. Not as in BO, but as in chemical and artificial. I can barely scroll through /snow/ and /w/ while eating.
If you think of it this way, if you define feminimity as make-up and fashion, then it's easily appropriated by drag queens and stage performers who also wear make-up and feminine fashion. Or any man that's a make-up artist. Except obviously, they're not any less men than they were before, for having used makeup. It's a consumer product for an industry.

No. 134183

I feel the same way. Sunscreen is good if you can manage it. Biore Watery essence is good and relatively cheap, but it is more of an indoor sunscreen. Hats and covering skin in general can also help to protect you.

No. 134239

Everywhere you go, tomboys get shitted on. Both being and not being GNC give me different kinds of "dysphoria".

No. 134269

Same… I hate how Tumblr snowflakey it might sound but I feel like I just don't fit in anywhere sometimes

No. 134916

I would consider myself pretty femme but I used to be a tomboy in my earlier years. Funny enough the first time I was ever told to wear makeup by was a man who was trying to groom me to look like a proper "lady" kek

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No. 101084[Reply]

Talk about skin stuff here. Old thread is at 1200+ posts.
Last thread: >>45776

Anyone have any experience with rosacea? I'm wondering if I have it. I'm fair skinned and have always flushed easily, but the last couple years I flush very intensely and my cheeks always feel like they're burning, and recently it's been getting even more painful. I'm on a 4 month waiting list for a derm even with a referral and not sure how to cope in the meantime.
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No. 135140

Lactic acid and niacinamide

And we need a new thread, this one's not getting bumped

No. 135418

yep, i'm on dupixent which has been working wonders for me, but recently with all the pollen and mold in my area + washing my hands so often = dryness flaring up. Not so much the redness, just the dry skin. I use a thick aquafor+triamcinalone compound I have a prescription for, but i can't use that on my face, much less my eyelids:/

No. 136064

Anyone quit smoking and see improvement in their skin? If so how long did it take and what did you observe? I haven’t smoked any weed or cigarettes for coming on 2 weeks now after smoking like everyday for 2 1/2 years and I’m also using really expensive face creams but I don’t really see a different.

No. 136187

I have puffy undereye bags on one side only. The other side is totally fine. Anyone know what could be causing that?? I tried googling but everything showed equal bags under both eyes.

No. 136375

Basically stopped smoking since quarantine in my country which makes it 3 weeks, I used to be a heavy social smoker. My skin was super dry then,but now looks more hydrated minus the T zone that is still oily. I got back my before smoking skin. Few pimples scars I had started to fade. So did discoloration.oh and it's bouncy like my face isn't sagging anymore and I don't look old (27)
Anyway. No specific skin care. Just dove bar soap here and there if I remember. Lot of sleep and home cooked food. Hope I helped

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No. 51836[Reply]

Vagina general. Talk about your vaginas, ask questions, period and other reproductive system stuff is OK too. So is masturbation talk
I'll start
My clit is really fucking small. like the average clit is supposed to be pea sized and mine is maybe a quarter of that size and it makes masturbation frustrating and fruitless (yes even with toys)
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No. 75904

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I produce a lot of discharge on some cycle days, but I just use a cloth liner or a low-capacity menstrual cup depending on the activity, because disposable liners don't breathe enough for me. If it's every day, and you need to use paper towels, you should see a gynecologist. There may very well be nothing wrong, but it's a good idea to check.

No. 75911

I have no inner labia, like it straight up looks like I was born without it but my outer labia wrinkles and makes it look like my inner labia, I hate my outlabia it looks so weird, like fucking dimples or some shit

No. 75912

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What is wrong with you

No. 75938

>vaginal lubrication

Are you sure you aren't referring vaginal discharge? I used to produce an insane amount of this to the point that I would sometimes wear panty liners or pads even when I wasn't on my period. This started when I was really young too. Like around 8. It used to really irritate me and freak me out but if I ever mentioned it to a doctor, they'd say it was normal.

It seemed to calm down in my early 20's after I changed my diet and incorporated more whole foods, namely fruits and veggies. I used to eat like absolute shit and was missing a lot of essential nutrients in my diet. I had other chronic problems in addition to this that also got better after cleaning up my diet.

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