PSA: I WAS HELLA TIRED WHEN I WROTE THIS FINGERS CROSSED IT MAKES SENSE LMAO
ok to preface looking back on all this I kinda feel dumb but never mind that. I went out with this guy (let's call him Jayden) for like three months, to begin with, he was nice and we were both smitten at first. I started noticing little things at first, like how he would hide things from me and lie about stupid insignificant things.
Jayden went on a trip to Melbourne to visit some family over there. when he got back I decided it was time to end things. so I did. while I was in this relationship we never did more than some kissing and quite light-hearted stuff (this will come into play later). At the beginning of the year, he befriended a girl (let's call her Sophie). Sophie was all over him and the two were always talking to each other even when we were together. now I'm not the jealous type, but don't get me wrong I do get annoyed when it's just me and him and he's glued to his phone ignoring me to talk to her. he promised me that there was nothing going on with them, at the time I trusted him, but now I'm not so sure.
anyway like a week after week after the breakup Jayden's with another girl (let's call her Hannah) and his excuse I got when we got back together for the 2nd time was that she was going back to Queensland so they 'had to' date because otherwise, they would never get to. While they were together he would constantly send me drunken and sober voicemails saying he didn't like her and that he loved me and that he hates himself for want he did)He then complains that she was using him and stuff like that. I have no sympathy for this boy. Anyway, I went back to him after all this spite all the red flags this is really when things start to go downhill. As soon as we get back together it's as if everything has gone full circle we got back together when he was in Melbourne again (he goes back and forth often) and when he got back things felt normal again.
As I said above Jayden did not want anything remotely sexual at the beginning of the relationship when we first went out. We were both fine with this rule. Don't get me wrong I'm not fridged but I was just trying to respect his boundaries. Suddenly all he wanted was sex which was really out of character. It was also making me think, if you think about it I doubt he just rolled over one morning and said yes I feel like going all the way today when he has only wanted thaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.(shit thread )