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No. 285473[Reply]

A thread for all of us recovering from an eating disorder, be it recovered, in recovery or wanting to recover.

Discuss your recovery journey, your ED progression and your thoughts on it.

Some questions to start:

How did your ED start and why?
What made you/makes you want to recover?
How long have you been in recovery?
Have you been inpatient or in therapy? Did it help?
Was your ED a coping/self-harming mechanism? How do you cope with difficult emotions now?
Have you gained weight in recovery?
Has your attitude towards weight changed?
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No. 466882

After 3.5 years of being in big fat relapse mode I had a psychological change of perspective over the last year that I've been referring to as "lifting the veil" in my head: I don't count calories anymore, I don't try to lose weight or compare myself to other anorexic people or overexercise etc because I see how pointless it all is. Normal people don't care about any of that. But… I'm still afraid of weight gain and feel so much shame when I do eat that I haven't managed to break my fasting cycle at all. BMI is stuck in the 14s because of this. I can't live the life I want cause I'm so exhausted all the time, can barely stay in my part time job or get up the stairs sometimes. Why can't I just be brave and eat more? I feel "out of control" if I even have an extra cup of coffee with sugar in it. I don't want to live like this. I'm scared I'll be ugly at a healthy weight.

No. 466902

>>466882
People who stay healthy don't think about BMIs or calories. You would need to stop treating your eating disorder as a hobby to recover from it, so replacing it with something else and avoiding food or places that trigger you until you've reshaped your brain. Try "safe fats" like avocadoes or seeds for now and add more triggering foods later. The sooner you can replenish your brain, the sooner you'll be making rational decisions

No. 467513

the worst part after gaining weight and letting it redistribute is trying to fix electrolyte and hormone imbalance. year 4 of recovery and still having crazy water retention. magnesium and zinc supplements, MSM, K2. have not yet fixed the lack of progesterone and i don't think my body will make it anymore. i have not yet had any professional medical help but i am thinking about taking hormone replacement therapy to combat the estrogen dominance to debloat. i was/still am a lonely repellent autist trying to compensate with people-pleasing and thought that people would like me if i could physically fit the mold and looked like girls in the media. seeing celebs on screen with anorexia and how people reacted to them on social media made me realize how much they were visibly suffering only to be despised for it yet have it still be expected of them. men who are obsessed with that body type hate you the most. i regret all the energy i wasted and opportunities i lost in school and work because now i am nearing middle age empty handed and without wisdom.

No. 574993

i wasn't really sure where to post this since the diet accountability thread asks for no anas and it feels wrong putting it into the ed thread where there are people actively going through it so i hope here is okay, does anyone have any advice for getting fit/healthy and improving their relationship with food and exercise in the long run? i have been recovered for about 2 years now but have recently started binging and engaging in behaviors that originally made me gain weight that then led to me developing ana for 3 years. I want to be able to have the self control to reverse the binging i've been doing safely but am unsure about how to do it without triggering myself completely and spiraling for another few years all over again. do any recovered anons have any advice for me? i've thought about making meal plans but that feels like a slippery slope into counting cals again, same with hardcore exercise. if anyone has any advice or has gone through/is going through something similar it would be greatly appreciated

No. 575029

>>574993
The thing that helped me still have control but eat “whatever” I want (to an extent) was giving myself some kind of dietary restriction: vegan, all organic, low fat, no seed oils, etc etc etc take your pick. For me, looking at literally everything as something I could eat was overwhelming, but having limited options - yet eating as much as I needed to be satisfied within that limit - helps me mentally SOOO much. I’m already a vegetarian but sticking to organic foods too means I am automatically eating healthily with no like calorie counting or guilt.



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No. 574552 [Reply]

The rats are fleeing the SS Weegee edition

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi

Previous threads:
>>450007
>>451665
>>453384
>>455202
>>456930
>>458496
>>460350
>>462677
>>465438
>>467757
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No. 576196

>>576189
He has been raised his entire life into believing his superiority, that comment from his mom saying he was a genius is an example. Not surprising if he has a messiah complex.

No. 576198

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>>576084
The bpdemons did call him out about the books

No. 576200

>>576198
Her never asked for all the fucking books they should blame Ashley and themselves for listening to that fat idiot

No. 576201

>>576200
That’s what I’m not understanding. He compiled books on goodreads for 6 years. But he only currently read like 15. And really only focused in on 1 book. The fantasy about him being a bookworm should’ve disappeared on 12/9. He never was. Nor did he present himself as such. And a lot of people weren’t even looking at his “read” list only his “want to read” list. Want to read means he didn’t read it. Plus what’s he supposed to do, read the 100+ he’s been sent already. He even said on the website in February that people should slow down in sending him so many.

No. 576219

>>576143
>Without them nobody would even care, the general populations has already moved on from him.
He doesn't know this. He thinks the letters he's getting are an indicator he is overwhelmingly loved by the public and even said in the letter that J has to bring him down when he gets too full of himself. Imagine. J thinks Luigi is an entitled prick too.



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No. 518779[Reply]

What it says on the tin.

Previous threads:
>>/g/141299
>>/g/49363
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No. 566867

>>566850
Just don't take the meds and say you did, how would they know? Are they testing you?

No. 566905

I thought I was doing well managing my small life with grace and efficiency, but it turns out I'm as dissociated as ever once placed out of a context I'm intimately familiar enough to handle. Quite demoralising.

No. 566997

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>>566037
I grew up similar. There were enough kids that were really hard on me at school, home, church that I came to have 0 trust in others as time went on. There probably were good relationships I missed because I treated any unexpected kindness (it was almost always unexpected) as the start of a prank or mocking or at best pity treatment. But I’ve been working hard on it and have gotten a lot better.

No. 574080

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I'm such a retarded avoidant that I keep trying to impulsively disappear from spaces online for no reason. Then I feel like I have to make up a lie for the reason I left, unless I want to expose myself as childish and retarded.

Don't know if it wasn't just my PMS but yesterday I felt particularly like shit and just wanted to go nuclear by deleting all my social media. I deactivated Discord and left my friend's group chat. Wanted to stay away longer but I couldn't do it and came back just in a couple of hours. I'm constantly in a mental prison of "it doesn't matter, no1curr" and needing attention at the same time. I am a fundamentally broken human being.

No. 583537

I feel like I absorbed a bunch of bad energy from this thread, no offense



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No. 572764 [Reply]

bpdemons leaving Weegee for Michael edition

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi

Previous threads:
>>450007
>>451665
>>453384
>>455202
>>456930
>>458496
>>460350
>>462677
>>465438
>>467757
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No. 574541

>>574535
His face mole was only a baby freckle here. He's gotta have skin cancer.

No. 574542

>>574539
He is in a bad situation right now, he needs his dick sucked for an ego boost.

No. 574543

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>>574538
Same, nonny. Weegee wives for life

No. 574545

>>574543
When I see his nostril hairs I start touching myself.

No. 574546

>>574536
You will be right back in 2 weeks when we see him again



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No. 66545[Reply]

I couldn't find a recent thread similar enough on here so I wanted to start one myself.

Do any of you struggle with addiction to drugs/alcohol etc? Do you have advice for those who do?

Personally I don't think i have an 'addiction' but a habit which could turn into one. I struggle to go to sleep at night by myself without a few bottles of wine or weed. For the last couple of months I've been going out drinking/smoking every other day. I also picked up smoking because of the people around me even though I don't necessarily like it. I'm still a teenager and I have alcoholics and ex drug addicts in my family so this worries me. I've tried other drugs like Coke and Molly very briefly so I know it isn't very extreme case. Advice/thoughts are appreciated
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No. 570766

>>570715
i just realized it was kind of retarded. i actually had no health issues from it other than some anxiety, and it took me three times to really quit (i regretted it each time i went back, it begins to taste disgusting) and it has been over a year now. i still get cravings once in a blue moon, but i just let myself pout and feel the urge until it passes.

what keeps me away is realizing it can fuck my health and breathing/lung function up long term, and the little hit is NOT worth it. it just wasn’t a vice i could justify anymore. i hated relying on some chemical device just to function. what made quitting hard was that it really helped my productivity and focus. but again, the temporary good feeling didn’t seem worth the potential damage.

i think i ate quite a bit more at first, but it leveled off and my appetite is normal again. straws and deep breathing helped me the most. you just have to find a reason to quit that outweighs the reason to vape, and be consistent with it and true to your values. you can also keep a tracker for motivation. also try replacing it with something neutral or of a lesser evil. positive if you have the power.

again, it ultimately is up to you whether you feel it is worth quitting.

No. 573181

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>>66545
I basically smoke weed all day, every day. Been doing this for around 7 months now. I've always had really bad OCD, and weed has actually helped me more than my SSRI's have. Even though it helps me significantly, it's also made me fat as fuck and I am really embarrassed about being high all the time. 7 months isn't that long, but I honestly predict I will be addicted for life.

No. 573255

>>573181
Once you reach a certain weight, you can probably apply for GLP-1 prescription. Also, try giving yourself 1-2 days free of it, and maybe try lowering your usage until you only need it every now and then, like a long acting less debilitating klonopin.
I'm just worried about what will happen to you if you run into money issues or a supply problem is all. I'm happy you found something that works for your OCD, it sounds like a real nightmare from what other anons have described!

No. 573378

>>573181
Same thing, anon. Except I lost weight switching to weed instead of SSRIs. The one time I was off both I was way thinner. Try to train yourself to not eat while stoned, force yourself to wait to eat. It will get easier with time. Otherwise I'd say try to plan your main meals around your smoke schedule so you at least are eating a healthy meal.

No. 582505

>>573181
i was in your shoes for years, nonny. i finally realized i just can't control myself with bud or carts around and switched to edibles only. the onset time & quickly-building tolerance acts as a buffer for me where i can only really get high once or twice a day, three if i really push it. when you're only high for 2-6 hours or so, that leaves a lot more time to be productive and brings back the magic of getting stoned, in my experience.



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No. 425085[Reply]

A thread for anons who do not want kids in any context, whether biological, adopted, or step. Discuss anything relevant to a childfree lifestyle here. Antinatalist viewpoints/discussion welcome.
Previous thread: >>>/g/156622
Please abstain from posting if you have children.
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No. 572904

>>572875
>and permission from my husband
wat

No. 572993

>>572904
The US is truly a backwards country in some places kek. This also means lesbian cannot get abortions. Varies from place to place.

No. 573013

>>572993
That's insane, anon. I assumed you must've been from some Muslim shithole.

No. 573034

>>572993
wait you're in the US? I thought you're a thirdie from India or something what the heck??

No. 581327

Anyone struggle with making childfree friends in real life? I try to make friends with progressive childfree women but they usually leave me in the acquaintance zone.
The people who are interested in being my friend usually have kids.



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No. 546841[Reply]

In this thread, please write down the earliest red flags you realized you had ignored after the friendship or relationship went to shit. Let's learn from eachother the early signs of future abuse or just a shit person so we can avoid people like that in the future.
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No. 571953

very obvious
1. hes in contact with an ex
2. history nearly always repeats itself, ask him what issues his exes had with him and why things ended between them. these problems/flaws will come up again if you two date long enough.
3. this one is obvious but if hes into anime ask him if he has had any waifus, and if his waifus are showing a lot of skin/wearing revealing clothing then theyre most likely sexualized and it can be indicative of him being a coomer/having had a porn addiction
4. the first flaw/problem that arises in a relationship will usually be present at the end of a relationship too, so you need to ask yourself when problems arise if youre willing to continue dealing with it because it will most likely pop up again eventually and might be one of the last things you have to deal with before a relationship ends
the most common flaw among toxic people are their inability to have a healthy reaction to criticism. but this one doesnt reveal itself early. theyre all victim complexed and will usually accuse you of being abusive. but idk how to screen for that yet

No. 572304

>>572280
Sounds like you'd do great in a culture where your parents marry you off to some scrote when you're 16.

No. 574594

>>571953
>hes in contact with an ex
Having an ex is itself a red flag

No. 577037

>>574594
I think it's more of a matter of what the previous nonna said, as well as how MANY exes. I don't see it as a red flag if they were with someone who was the toxic person (although men can lie about who was in the wrong). Things happen, and people might date someone before realizing they're not good for them. If they have a lot of exes though, then that's definitely a them problem.

No. 578680

They have have been traumatised (regardless of whether they describe themselves as such). People who have been victimised are more likely to victimise others, so if you do want to connect with someone with that kind of past you need be more vigilant about how they have dealt with it (or not)



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No. 392054[Reply]

Post anything you can think of. Specific clothing, styles, whatever.
>suits
>button down shirts
>watches
>more suits
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No. 571839

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little waist corsets and wrap blouses

No. 571856

>>570205
Nonna, rest assured that when I take over the world I will be forcing men to wear these outfits like a reverse Handmaid's Tale. It's been the plan for a while now because I feel this SO hard

No. 571886

>>571856
Wow finally a fascist regime for me

No. 571912

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The fit on remmick specifically

No. 571990

>>571912
Men dressed like this in the 50s and they all looked like a bar of soap fixed to toothpicks



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No. 482015[Reply]

A thread to share, appreciate and discuss male hands
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No. 571082

>>568105
this would be kind of good if he didnt look like a tranny corpse

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No. 572572

As beautiful as their hands are, they are pretty useless, they should use them for the purpose they where design for rubbing a clit



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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc



I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 570443

>>570341
In most cases it goes away eventually after healing internally but I personally would recommend checking for trigger warnings before watching or reading something for the time being. You can limit your media consumption only to things that do not trigger you and it's not wrong or bad, you have the right to do that. Exposing yourself to content that agitates you is like picking a scab, it really does not help heal.

>how are you supposed to forget when there are reminders everywhere

Remember that you have a choice to not watch this content. I personally avoided all fiction from the following horror, thriller and crime adjacent and family drama with abuse etc. for about three years.

No. 570846

>>570443
>it will go away eventually after healing internally
The problem is that I split/buried it away for a long time to survive and it instead made me extremely fragile, neurotic, and unable to thrive no matter what I did and i internalized and blamed myself. When I finally stopped repressing I was filled with an unexplainable anger, I remember more every month it feels like (no false or half memories, just an entire repressed childhood). I deliberately forced myself to not be aware of how horribly I was treated as a child and instead it made me blame and punish myself. Now I have no idea what to do with all of the anger. I feel like I'm too old to feel this way, but I don't know how to put it down.

No. 571241

>>570846
>I have no idea what to do with all of the anger
This is completely normal. Try boxing lessons or similar. It will help you get out the anger and it will make you feel stronger, like you can defend yourself now. Gaining new experiences that are the opposite of what traumatized you are extremely healing!

No. 572174

>>571241
Lol I have no desire to physically hit anything or use any sort of force that harkens to the mental picture of violence for me but thank you for the suggestion

No. 580921

I truly hate all justice system dickriders who believe in the theoretical maxim that lawyers and legal practitioners are "bound by ethical obligations" and that's why they never do shady shit or take bribes. Fucking kek. Nobody believes me because of this bullshit. I tried reporting a family member for what they did to me as a minor, and since I was a minor I had to have a litigation guardian. "The litigation guardian must not be against the interests of the child" so what? That's just a maxim. They appointed me one, who dropped me claiming they couldn't act for a "liar", and the second one straight up spoke over me in the hearing and basically claimed I gave them no evidence to work with when there were literal countless emails I sent (but they couldn't prove that because I would have to prove the email was on that server and some tech shit an average teenager wouldn't know). And he literally admitted he bribed them to go against me and throw my case out a year later. But that's just hearsay. Guess it's on me for being retarded enough at 16 to think the law would help me.



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