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No. 110714[Reply]

I would like to discuss the concept of Girl Code when it comes to relationships with men.

What would you say are the appropriate boundaries of Girl Code? Do you think it should only apply to exes or do you apply it to crushes as well? Do you have any stories relevant to it?

In my personal experience, Girl Code has been completely abused as a concept and used to place unwarranted guilt on people for not doing what you want them to. Some examples…
>continuing to be friends with someone who fucked your other friend's ex after they broke up is "breaking girl code"
>being with someone's unrequited crush is "breaking girl code"
>being with someone's ex from high school literally a decade after they broke up and she's engaged to someone else is "breaking girl code"
>facilitating the ex they brutally dumped dating someone else is "breaking girl code"

My rules regarding Girl Code are simple:
>ex husbands and baby daddies are always off-limits
>other exes are acceptable if a decently long time has passed
>crushes are absolutely free game, just because someone declared liking them first doesn't mean they have any claim to them whatsoever

What about you guys?
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No. 110741

>>110732
If you really feel like she should know, I would bring it up to the husband instead. Give him the chance to tell her or to explain to you that that flies in their relationship if it does.

No. 110743

>>110734
I love that you gave bechdel test-type exemples! I agree with the first 3 ones, the other 3 ones are like… nice things to do but not "code".

No. 110744

>>110734
>If another woman asks for a pad/tampon and you have one, you give it to her, even if she is your worst enemy.
I laughed IRL at this because I actually was in a situation where my worst enemy was freaking out about bleeding all over herself and I intentionally didn't give her a pad, even though I had plenty, because she was a massive bitch to me the night before. My girl code only applies to women who aren't total cunts to me.

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>>110734
I usually keep a stockpile of pads and tampons with me in the off chance someone asks me for one. In uni I dedicated a whole pocket of my backpack just for menstrual products lol. (ppl at my uni would regularly hand out packets of different products: pads, tampons, liners, and while most women were usually shy about taking one I'd just take them to replenish my stash)

>>110714
as for the other stuff,
my friends and I have wildly different tastes in men, so I've never had the experience, but
>ex husbands and baby daddies are always off-limits
>other exes are acceptable if a decently long time has passed
>crushes are absolutely free game, just because someone declared liking them first doesn't mean they have any claim to them whatsoever
sounds about right. though, I'd probably wait a bit if her crush rejected her outright.

>>110732
No, especially if I don't know her. I don't know her life, her boundaries, insecurities, or relationship. Meddling like that might make more problems than solve them.

No. 110749

>>110746
samefag, but to add onto my third reply, I think part of girlcode is to respect the other woman's autonomy. I will not say anything if I don't know the situation.

If I knew her and knew she would absolutely want to know if her bf/husband is being shady, I'll tell.



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No. 110713[Reply]

Has anyone had laser tattoo removal? What was the cost? Why did you get it? How painful was it? Is it still visible at all?
I am considering getting it done myself as I stupidly got a visible tattoo as a kid and am worried about finding work in Japan

No. 110720

There's a lot of factors that impact it. How big a tattoo are we talking here and where is it? How old is it? What colors are used?

The older and lighter, the easier it's gonna be. It's quite expensive and painful, most say much more painful than getting a tattoo.

No. 110742

>>110720
Op here, i have two, one on my finger that is small, and ones the size of my forearm practically but its a very simple line drawing, so no shading or anything. Just black ink. Hopefully it'll go well as its around 3 years old. Sucksss about the price

No. 110755

>>110713

I got a groupon from a highly rated place in my city to get a terrible finger tattoo that unfortunately never faded over a course of ten years I'm on my second treatment and it's starting to fade a bit…i have 2 more with my groupon (which cost $60) and after will have her assess if I need more and get an estimate again!

The first time was HELLA painful…she onl.y put ice on it for about 15 seconds and just went at it…the procedure itself really only lasted about 20 seconds and I am not exaggerating…my finger was swollen for about 4 days…no ice to leave…no numbing cream for the day

Second time she left the ice on for about a minute and again about 20 seconds to treat the tattoo! She gave me an ice pack to go and its was only swollen for a few hours after that and was tender for one day.

I highly recommend to get it done. It does hurt like hell but if it will make you feel better and you no longer want the tattoo…do it!! I put off getting it done for months because I was scared.

Black is easier to take out than color though, and depending on the ink and way it was put on.

Maybe look for groupon for a good rated place in town mine was $60 for 4 sessions for a small 2x2 inch tattoo

No. 110760

A couple things from personal experience. Large tattoos are fucking painful, worse than getting the tattoo, but it only takes about 1 minute for a shin size tattoo. I'm guessing the small ones you describe would take 15 seconds (but they are the longest seconds I ever lived, lol). It can take quite a few sessions to completely get it removed, but it will be less noticeable after the first. You have to wait a certain amount of weeks/months between each treatment. Black ink is easier to get out than colour. I had more skin irritation afterwards when I used numbing creams than when I went without. Just go it without if you can.

No. 112056

I only have one regret tattoo that i'm looking into saving up to get removed. i got it done when i was 18 and it's the only one i hate because it's dead center in the middle of my chest and i cant hide it unless i wear high collar shirts.

thankfully this was more than 10 years ago and laser removal has gotten much better. I'm hoping it will only be 2-3 sessions tops.



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No. 107439[Reply]

General thread for women who are in high-power positions, well-educated, career-oriented, well-paid, etc., or women/girls who are interested in becoming professional women.

Some topic-starters:

- What is life like for you?
- What are some hurdles you've had to overcome?
- What is your perception on how social media is influencing womens' values and path to success?
- What's your office culture like?
- What advice would you give to girls interested in your career path?
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No. 109423

>>107445
In which country did you move, anon? Also, where did you start to be skilled in your job?

No. 109427

>>109359
This thread is so underrated. I check this thing every day, because the ladies here have inspired me so much. I can’t wait to have an update story to post here someday.

No. 109431

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>>109371
This felt good to read. I dropped out too, but I have not gone back yet.

>What is life like for you?

I have a salaried, all benefits paid job at a small consulting/lobbying firm. I have my own office, get to go to cool events, and get to rub elbows with politicians and business people alike.
>What are some hurdles you've had to overcome?
I struggled a lot in my teenage years. I started drinking very heavily in college and dropped out after my first year. Heavy drinking led to me being put on bunch of anti-depressants, and I went through about 2 years of in-patient stays, "suicide attempts", and became severely anorexic. It was the first time in my life where I could not imagine a future, and I really did want to die.

I still struggle with self-image and doubt myself a lot. In this industry, "looking the part" is critical, and sometimes I compare myself too much to those around me. Also, imposter syndrome…
>What is your perception on how social media is influencing womens' values and path to success?
I think social media gives girls the wrong idea of how a "strong woman" should act. The loudest voice in the room is always heard, but seldom listened to. The loud women only make it so far, just like the loud men.
- What's your office culture like?
Because it is a small office, we are pretty laid back here and have fun. Attire is business professional. If I need a day off, sick day, vacation, etc… I just ask, there's no formal process.
>What advice would you give to girls interested in your career path?
There is this idea of women not being taken seriously in the workplace. However, some of the most respected and prominent figures I have encountered ARE women. They got where they are because they broke down the common issues that affect professional women and overcame them. Learn how to dress. Speak less and listen more. No, not in a "submissive" way. Too many women make themselves an open book and overshare… When you walk into a room, introduce yourself to everyone you see. I know it's uncomfortable but this is really important, and something I have had to force myself to do. Lastly, do not compare yourself to anyone else. Use others as a tool in your belt– youPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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>>109431
>When you fucked up like I did, knowing that what you're currently doing would make your old self proud is a really good feeling. I hope that if you are struggling too, you find solace in knowing that no matter how deep in the hole you may feel, there is always a ladder waiting to be found.

Thank you so much for these words, sister. My gpa is shit rn and this is so inspiring, I’ll def remember them when I get sad about it.

No. 109442

Hi ladies, maybe you all can give me some tips for my current situation… sorry if not the best thread, and sorry if it's a bit wordy haha

Currently I'm a senior in college and an intern in a professional office environment. I feel like my (female) supervisor is being overly friendly with me and I am used to/prefer more professional relationships with my coworkers. She seems to think we are friends because she's not that much older than me and I'm the first intern she has had, I think. Today we rode together to a meeting across town and she insisted on getting lunch after. I agreed bc she was driving, she's my superior, etc. She just talked to me the whole time like we were friends, about what she did last weekend and her plans this weekend and talked about drinking, complained about dating culture, etc. Typing this out it sounds like she's trying to flirt or something, but I definitely don't think she is (I've experienced that from male coworkers in the past and am now very conscious of it haha).

Any tips on how to distance myself/let her know I'm not comfortable having a close relationship with my boss? Should I just deal with it?I feel like there's a push at a lot of companies for everyone to be closer/team based and have a more relaxed environment, which could be part of this. Honestly i'm not really a fan of that and prefer more rigid structure (team building exercises, gag)

I don't want to be rude or even say anything directly bc this internship could be instrumental in landing a good full time job after I graduate. Any advice is appreciated anons



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No. 59063[Reply]

Would anyone be interested in a girl-oriented anonymous imageboard? Including boards like

skincare
advice
fashion
jfash
feels
career
sex

Would you be a user?
Which boards should be considered?
How friendly would you want the board tone to be (strict moderation)?
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No. 105913

I checked out the site for the first time the other day and seemed like a really depressing feelsposting dump to me. I don't think I'll ever visit again bc my god is it a boring, sad mess.

No. 106482

>>105773
>>105772
A photo of a hand? Hands are what usually give trannies away

No. 107746

Was the imageboard made already? Sorry for the stupid question

No. 109437

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(Begone scrot)

No. 109467

>>105761
>said boyfriend was from r9k and they "met" during an r9k raid of CC and she openly bragged about it on the site
It's impossible to brag about such a thing. It's openly advertising how desperate and lacking in self-respect you have to be to knowingly date a dude who goes on /r9k/. What a dumbass she is.



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No. 108202[Reply]

previous thread >>78217

Post women you find overrated or ugly when they're shilled as beautiful and #goals
Is it because of her nasolabial folds? Is it her face without make-up? Is it her awful personality shining through? Is it her weak bone-structure or weird thumb? Is it her money or cute bf you're jealous of? Is it her PR team brain-washing the whole planet into worshiping her? Tell us here
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No. 109017

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>>108893
Her profile on Instagram is more photoshopped than a monolingual shoot

No. 109019

>>109017
That’s the same person? Her face looks completely different. Shooped the nose a lot, jaw, forehead length, chin, face width, bits of the mouth, …and she photoshopped her godamn tear ducts, I will never understand why that’s a “thing” to shoop in pointy tear ducts.

No. 109343

>>108224
Nope I totally agree. I love her style and confidence, but I don't find her face pretty, edgy, cool or anything.

No. 109367

>>109019
she's likely had tons of plastic surgery in addition to using photoshop excessively

No. 109413

Moved to >>>/ot/381271.



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No. 79436[Reply]

Straight version of the other thread.
Classically cute is preferable.
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No. 109330

>>109325
eww face pubes

No. 109334

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>tfw i'll never wake up to this
why live

No. 109336

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I thought Kaito was so cute in smoking

No. 109337

>>108590
love a man who can pull off a tiny women's t shirt

No. 109356

Moved to >>>/m/6604.



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No. 105230[Reply]

last thread >50546 is about to lock. post the best boys.
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No. 109235

>>109233
Nah, I'm not in that thread (yet, anyway), I just had a huge crush on little creek as a kid.

No. 109295

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I love Hoozuki because he doesn't judge a woman by her looks and says traps r gay and he is handsome and so on
>>109229
very nice. I hate that Teruhashi girl, the show would be better without her.
Also the chuunibyou kid is qt as well.

No. 109306

>>109295
Oh, kaido! Yeah he's adorable c:

Teruhashi is annoying, but useful for my secret self-insertion because she's entertaining when mad abt it uhuhuhu

>inb4 im a degenerate

i already know

No. 109307

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>>109306
woops dropped the pic

No. 109357

Moved to >>>/m/7318.



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No. 97027[Reply]

Previous thread: >>81746
Post pics or gifs of pretty girls.
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No. 109304

>>107969
She's hot as hell and her face is gorgeous. So much more attractive than the ott celeb ps faces or uwu doughy baby face extremes that are considered cute nowadays.

No. 109326

>>107969
That show was my sexual awakening and I'm proud of my good taste.

No. 109355

Moved to >>>/m/6325.



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No. 66358[Reply]

Can we have a thread for lesbian and bi women to discuss their fantasies and desires towards other women? No rules except for no talk about dicks
I never find women my age (20) attractive. It's always older women, usually 30+, especially older butch lesbians. I want an older woman to boss me around
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No. 108965

ignore my sperging and possibly blogposty but back in high school my best friend and I both discovered we were bi through each other and had a fwb thing. ever since we had a ending of friendship, I haven't been with girls. sometimes i feel like i just wouldn't ever have that connection without any other girl like i did with her. i still wish her the best and think about her every once in a while. god i miss her.

No. 109005

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>>70003
This so much. When she has night shift she would tuck me in bed before leaving, and since I won't let her go she would rip off my panties and finger me. She would be fully clothed with the uniform on and I'd be naked. I'd come in less than 5 minutes, lose my grip on her realizing I'm really tired, and she would kiss me on the forehead before leaving for work.

No. 109170

I want a taller, butch girl to kabedon me and tilt my head up to look into her, and she says something like "Not so tough now, huh?" and run her thumb over my lower lip. (im generall p stoic/scary looking. I WANNA BE CONSIDERED CUTE BY A TALL BUTCH GIRL!!)

No. 109198

>>108835
Damn… well I guess I do always come off kind of masculine? So it probably feels unnatural when I think of myself as a girl.
>>108864
Whew I'm glad I admitted this anonymously then. I think I do come off creepy irl too.
>>108867
KEK
>>108881
Just to know her body better? I don't have a sex drive from years of antidepressants like I don't even get wet or masturbate. It's like letting me "know" her… yaeh writing this is super creepy I'm so glad this was anonymous I really thought others would agree.
>>108918
I'm not larping! I think I've just been repressing my femininity all my life so when I do wear makeup or girl clothes it freaks me out. So I have fantasies about getting close to a girl. idk, lmao, this was creepy. I feel sorry for myself sometimes because it feels like I was never allowed to be a girl, cause my mom would call me a whore for wearing a dress and make me feel self conscious… so i use male pronouns online but i guess one day i'd like to have a bf to be girly for.

No. 109236

I am bisexual and would love to have a wife, a proper normie marriage to a loving well-adjusted beautiful woman.
I want her to be bi too so that we sometimes can have threesomes with some hot guy, dominate the shit out of him and ruin his idea of what a mff threesome should be like kek



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No. 109010[Reply]

i've had my first kiss, but we were both drunk and at a get together and at a party. if someone kisses you while you're both drunk, does that mean anything at all or is it just a meaningless event i should forget about despite it being my first kiss

No. 109011

Your diary doesn’t need a thread

No. 109014

you raped eachother, time to fight in court!

No. 109022

what a sad person

No. 109030




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