/g/ - girl talk

This is what men are supposed to be doing. Instead they wanna sit in front of computer all day recording video whining about online drama and keeping their nose bridge deep in women's business

>>585010
Cringe to flex his good deed. Jesus doesn't approve but I agree this should become the norm.

>>585016
I disagree. This is how he raises money to keep doing good deeds. He spends hours working on these projects, there is sincerity behind his actions.

>>585016
i see it as more about telling a story than a pure flex. He obviously has a YT channel that he values and he is looking for views, not for praise. He also basically admits at the beginning that he did the job out of sheer boredom, not out of any care for the neighbors who he doesn't even seem to really know

>>585021
>doesn't seem to really know
>gives all the grandma's tea from the past 3 years
Kek he wants to help rebuild his entire community. That requires money, I get it and I respect it. What are the other men in the community doing? Jerking off and playing ps5

>>126426
Well she was kind of manipulative but your points are valid. He’s going to the military so he wanted something cas and probs saw it as a good excuse. Idgaf if he leaves me cause like…we ARE just using each other for our bodies. Either he he has to leave me or I gotta leave him, can’t last forever

I unknowingly took a guy's virginity. After we slept together one of this friends told me. He ended up being super clingy, wanting to hang out 24/7, told me he loved me, etc. It sucked and was annoying af

>>126494
HE TOLD YOU HE LOVED YOU???!!!!! I am so sorry

>>126494
>>126501
How truly awful, what a fucking creep, he should have just pump and dumped you.

It can be nice if you aren't afraid to voice your needs/be a guide. Also, patience helps.

>>584403

he looks better than 95% of white men his age

>>584399
hm he actually looks the same as he looked 10 years ago that’s especially impression for a britbong

>>584399
I remember seeing a tweet saying that he looks how some people think benedict cumberbatch looks and i have to agree.

Unsure whether or not I think Nick Mullen has hit the wall yet or if it's mainly a lack of proper styling. Made a collage where the biggest pic is him semi recently surrounded by pics from his prime.

>>585007
To be fair, this is an even more recent pic of him and he doesn't look bad for almost 37? Idk. Just no longer in his prime I think.

>>582842
natural leader with somewhat feline facial features, job hopper with lot's of inner turmoil and anxiety, get stressed out and overwhelmed very easily. Bit of a hypochondriac. Digestive system is a total mess.
Reserved and modest on the outside, determined and ambitious on the inside. Not necessarily one of the cool kids in hs, but friends with lot's of different people of all different types. Generally well liked by others.
Never let the rest of the world see all the pain and self hatred within. Lot's of secrets that nobodies knows about you.

I'm curious to know about my future in all aspects. Career, location (if i'm in a big city or just another ordinary town), relationship, mood etc. Thanks in advance nonnas!

>>583906
Are you goth? Or just generally interested in weird/dark stuff? I see a lot of darkness and restlessness. You're a deeply emotional person but have to keep a tight rein on your feelings. Or maybe you don't have much control at all. You would be a great mortician or funeral director. You need a career that allows you to express the passionate parts of yourself, whatever that may mean for you.

>>583924
Weird. No, I am not goth. But I do love the style along with scene. I couldn't see myself ever dressing up in that aesthetic though. Losing control sounds like me although, I try not to. I do have an interest in weird/dark stuff but it's very surface level and not to an extent that you may be implying. I appreciate your reading nona.

If anyone would be willing to read my chart, I'd like to know the same things the anon above mentioned. I just feel so lost and confused and I don't even know where I'm headed. Does my chart reflect my inner disarray?

>>584401
Not at all. It's well within the normal range. They say that you should only start being worried if it doesn't start by 16/17.

Just venting but I hate it when the period acts like it's slowing down or stopping for a while (like several hours or almost a day) and then suddenly gets heavy again out of fucking nowhere, then repeats until it's actually over. Like it's some bipolar pussy

>>584497
ohh i had something similar happen to me a few months ago, my period was pretty much over and i had started wearing small wingless pads (dunno their names in eng) and when i was out with my friend i randomly felt the biggest piece of clot leave my body, it felt like i literally laid an egg, i had to change my pad immediately after cus i was feeling it move around as i walked, really annoying lmao

I can smell when girls are on their period sometimes. Usually when it’s a really hot day. I can’t help but judge them and ik it makes me kind of a bad person but it’s just so gross. Like I went to an amusement park during a heat wave and sometimes I’d walk past someone and just get a stench of period. I’m Hispanic in an area where mostly Hispanics live so a lot of girls around me feel afraid to use tampons bc of stigma or bc they’re uncomfortable “shoving something up there” aka touching their own vaginas. I can’t help but feel bad for them. For example I remember being like 11 and wearing pads to p.e. class and it just felt so gross and disgusting bc of how sweaty it would be. I usually only wear tampons bc of those memories. I only ever use pads on the last days of my period tho bc by then if I use a tampon it comes out dry and painful. Some ppl have their valid reasons like vaginismus or sexual trauma but I wish more women would free themselves from stigmas so I wouldn’t have to smell their period pads from 6 ft away.

>>584988
I get it. I think the ideal is a combo. I do pads when I first start spotting (idk if it's normal but i always spot for a couple days before it starts) then tampons + safety pad for the two heaviest days, then tampons for the next two, then switch to pad when it peters off on the last day or two.

>>584647
My bf is also so fat I'm ready to break up, it makes it hard to have sex not that I want to anymore. When I ask him if he'll work out with me he tells everyone I think he's fat and then people look down on me. Fat men are a different breed, I think you should give him one more chance then bail.

>>583287
You want a moid to have sex with but you don't want him to get aroused by/be attracted to you? I'm confused by what the goal is here or what you're looking for.

>>583381
Honestly it sounds like you should leave both these relationships. Your friend giving you the ultimatum doesn't sound very friend-like, and it doesn't sound like you actually like your boyfriend either. It also doesn't sound like you're super in love with your friend or you would have used her unhinged/emotionally manipulative ultimatum as an excuse to leave. It seems like you are just coasting in life on what feels convenient or easy to you, which is not unusual, but I hope you can get some of your own goals and develop your own agency soon, because you sound trapped in inertia and not in a good way where you have positive momentum you're coasting on. You shouldn't stay with a nigel you think is good to you but you mostly just pity, and you shouldn't get with the friend you don't really feel like leaving him for either. You should just find meaning and purpose to your own life if at all possible.

>>584899
That's POS manipulative behavior. And shame on you for lowering yourself this much and sleeping with an obese creature. It's just disgusting and self-abasing in the worst possible sense of the verb to wake up to some disgusting moobs and dickless lard tub every morning.

>>584804
No.

>>584807
That's not true, it doesn't take high IQ to be caring and responsible. Some people want to have more than surface-level conversations with their partners. I agree the sex drive is in and of itself not the biggest issue, but young moids with low sex drive are likely porn addicts or not that attracted to you, or have something else wrong with them, though it depends what you mean by low sex drive. I see the lack of intellectual equality as the biggest issue though.

>>584847
If youre feeling giddy when you usually feel dread thats a good sign. I felt that way about my husband, he guys I'd dated before I'd always kind of been apprehensive about marriage, like it was somrthing id rather put off and not confront. When I started dating my husband within 3 months I was getting giddy and would google search engagement rings and daydream about it.
As for the age gap I dont think its a big deal. My sister in law married a guy 7 years younger than her and they work well together. I always forget theyre different ages too.
Personally I'd go for it. I think you're just getting in your head about the age thing. If the relationship feels easy, that's definitely something worth pursuing.

>>584771
Nta But are you people crazy? Why THE FUCK is that weirdo naked? Why is she lying about the size of objects you can literally just google in five seconds? Or is this woman so retarded (is this a farmer?) that she managed to miscalculate the size of those toilet paper rolls? Weirdest shit I've ever seen in my life.

>>584861
Why would this be a farmer

>>584409
Here's all there is to know, from an actual scientist
Let's all just agree to stop arguing now
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8UQqaMKpBk
Does lc now allow youtube links now?(learn2embed)

>>584936
I feel immature for laughing at this. Ofcourse a German man studied cocks.

>>584936
>(learn2embed)
That's what I'm saying. It only allows imgur links now

>>584714
I don't get why it even has to be an identity. You like what you like.

>>584714
You mean you became straight again?

>>584719
No(not yet anyway). It was a hypothetical. I mean, attraction to men is still there, but it has become weaker. I don't have the urge to think about anything sexual involving a man anymore, I'm not even talking about het sex.
Buuut even when I was like "I can't imagine myself with a woman, I'm only attracted to 2d bishies" I only liked fantasizing about jerking off a dick and everything else seemed not arousing or gross. When I discovered that sex between two women doesn't have to revolve around straps and clinical penetretion I became completely disinterested in imagining myself with a moid

>>584669
I feel like this is what I’m confused about and autistically fixated on. For me it’s the other direction - I feel very attached and fond for some males in my life and when I was younger I labelled these as crushes (like 3 guys in school and a couple celebrities I got attached to) until I got older and realised how it felt to want to have sex with someone (girls/women). I was confused because even though I fantasised about hugging the boys I liked and it made me nervous/happy I had never had any desire for sexual acts, kissing, being called their girlfriend etc until I started feeling attracted to girls. I thought all straight girls had felt the same way I did about boys because some feelings were there. But I was shocked when I realised what people referred to as sexual attraction gave you a tingly/throbbing feeling kek and your brain basically forces you to go there. It made me feel like a pervert for a while because I didn’t know it was the norm. Also made my BPD symptoms manifest, when I fell in love with girls. I also used to hate the romance genre because I never related to it, but then after crushing on girls I finally started understanding it… I could even imagine getting married and starting a family with a woman even though I could never imagine wanting a relationship like that before. After some years I started to wonder why I had never wanted this with males, despite the fact I feel like I can “love” then. (Yes I am also an anon that has stunk up this thread before haha, I guess it’s always the bisexual questioners in either direction)

>>584951
I relate to some of this. Early on, I had crushes on both. I liked a male celebrity in my teens (but in my wet dreams he had a pussy.) I'm sure I'm bisexual with a preference for women. I'll only ever date women, will lose my virginity to a woman. I'm as sure of this as water is wet and the sky is blue. Women are sexier, prettier, understand me on a deeper level, my life would just fit so well with another woman. I imagined marrying my very close friend that I had a crush on but got over but didn't have domestic fantasies about men. We all know how shit they are too, which for me is just another reason not to be intimate with them. When a guy I befriended at work started to crush on me I got the biggest ick, felt sick when he went in for a hug and didn't let him lol. Which is why I don't even want them as friends anymore. All this to say, I'm still bisexual. There's a retarded idea of all sexuality being fluid in mainstream culture now, which justifies bisexuals labeling themselves as lesbian due to "compulsive heterosexuality." It's also saying in a round-about way that bisexuals must be 50/50 and if you swing heavily in either direction but have an exception, you're simply "straight or gay with an exception," when you're just bisexual. The only orientation that experiences fluidity or "bicycling," the only one that has exceptions, is bisexuality. This includes if you had a history of liking one sex but then only stay lusting/loving/pursuing the other till you die. People might call you a lesbian or that you'll go back to men. Still, I communicate my sexuality on dating apps or to others that ask simply by saying "bisexual only interested in other women." I'd say febfem too, if it wasn't attached to politics. Remember that even though our experience might look similar to lesbians, they never had crushes on men, or got attached to male celebrities, or felt that nervous/happy feeling from those fantasies. Once you realize this, you won't get so confused or have to fixate on it. And you can continue lusting after other women and dating them and not have doubts about your orientation anymore. Free yourself from ruminating on this and accept yourself as the kinsey 5 you are.

>>584958
Monk is my leading option right now, but we were both Lutherans, and there is only one Lutheran monastery in America. It's several states away and I still want to take care of my parents as they grow older, which is another reason I'm wondering what I should do.

I'm not baiting, if there was a way to prove it happened without causing further sorrow to her family (because she told me about how crazy you all were) I would prove it.

>>584957
Again, I don't want to get specific

>>584960
I don't want to help you at all if you are the reason she's dead.

>>584956
Damn this was actually kinda interesting

>>584956
Least psychotic duolicious couple kek

Convert to a different church or become an environmental conservationist or something. Never talk to a woman again. Never talk to a man again.

>>581035
Thanks anon for your insights. I am totally on your side and believe there are dual options here, I'm not one to fall for the tiktok trends discussing medicine so I do believe I probably need a second opinion. I was put on BC to stop the ovulation process which apparently is what creates cysts. But again I'm just not super confident in that information, wouldn't every woman have to be on it forever then? I am just starting to reconsider how I take medications and consider a more natural approach to my body. Maybe I do need BC, but I think it would be best to probably seek more medical advice.

Nonnies idk if this is the right thread but what are the chances of getting pregnant from precum alone? Are they even substantial?

>>581612
I remember learning from sex ed that you can get pregnant from it

I've been on the pill for about 8 years now, for the fact it clears my skin and reduces my menstrual flow. It also seems to maket me less irritable and overemotional. But I miss having even a sliver of libido so I kind of want to get off it now. Any advice of what I could do to fix the aforementionned issues? My blood flow is really heavy so stuff like just drinking cranberry juice or whatever won't work.

Any nonas try the OTC Opill? I have never used birth control in my life since I thought I'd be celibate forever but now have a Nigel. We had sex and were very careful with condoms, but know that's not enough. What appeals most to me is no doctor visits that I'd have to take off work to do to get it.