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No. 418500[Reply]

thread #1 >>56468
thread #2 >>199767
thread #3 >>333126

if you're still extremely unsure if you're bisexual, the questioning thread is likely a better fit. talk about your gender preferences, how you discovered you were bi, what's your type in men and women, how you feel in the community, any struggles you've had with bisexuality, etc.
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No. 546186

>>546172
I would definitely look like a hobo in that or a toddler playing in parents clothes kek. I have short arms and legs. And yeah there are events for my work that I need to dress formally for. It’s like I need to figure out something that is slim and semi form fitting without being girly. I don’t think that exists though kek.

No. 548421

>>546008
>face massage and dieting to fix babyface

You sound mildly unhinged. The anon you're replying to is probably just young like many LC anons and still has the youthful facial fat thing going on. Usually women lose some of that after their mid 20s or so. I got more attention from women >5 years ago when I had much more of a youthful looking face/awkward androgynous style than I ever do now at 30. My advice to her is to not sweat it, most of us hate candid pics of ourselves at least to some extent.

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No. 548454

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>>546141
What about masculine women's clothing? there some butch and TIF brands that specialize in stuff like that for suits in particular, but just style women's clothes in a masculine way? instead of a dress, do a turtleneck/blouse/cool top and trousers. Idk what level of formal your aiming for, but you can pair this with a blazer/suit jacket too. I think a turtleneck/non button up looks better on women in suits too. The button up is always tricky on women.

No. 548480

>>548421
Seconding all of this



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No. 397215[Reply]

What women are you ashamed to say you'd fuck or crush on for any reason?
>unconventionally attractive?
>problematique?
>controversial?
Share your thirst, farmers.

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No. 546653

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would

No. 546801

>>546653
Who? She looks cute in a downy way

No. 547060

>>546653
Is this fucking terje

No. 547147

>>546801
jen izaakson from redfem podcast
>>547060
who?

No. 548417

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>zoomer ?grifter aligned with the (cringe and terrible) reform uk party, first got popular on social media for her rightful gender critical views and getting cancelled by her uni for them

Every day she doesn't take her rightful throne on my face is a day of suffering.



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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 540848

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>Be autist hikiNEET with a fear of going outside
>See this app dedicated to making friends
>Download it in hopes of making (FEMALE) friends
>Set my messages to female
>Hardly any messages, the ones who I briefly chat with dip immediately
>Set my messages to female and male
>Immediately flooded with scrotes, some of whom can't even chat in English
>"Hi dear", "Hello dear", "Hello baby"

Why.

No. 541246

Sometimes it really hurts when I realize how many years I've gone without having friends or a relationship with my family that isn't strained. At this point my mom is pretty much my only friend and I'm not sure if that is a good thing or not. My dad is a pretty controlling alcoholic so I don't recall her having any close friends besides her sisters.

We currently meet up once or twice a week but she recently mentioned going to a concert with me after I told her that I bought a ticket. I'm not sure if I'd really want to go with her? I can't tell if she brought it up because she feels bad that I'd be going alone, but she helped me out a lot this year as the only person I really talk to.

No. 541996

>>540514
no actually I'm weird like this too. Games where the character is interested in you (like literally any romance games) aren't interesting to me. I don't play or enjoy that genre. Or books or fanfic like that I guess…

No. 546356

I dont know if this is some new mento illness but I am addicted to blocking anyone who I speak to after 2-3 days. I wish it had a more rational reason like me being some mean narc who thinks they're not worth my time or wants to hurt them but no. It's like I refuse to be seen or noticed and realising I just talked to someone out there terrifies me. I induce my own loneliness but I feel really disgusted if I keep talking to anyone for that long

No. 548404

Two years before I graduated high school, my boyfriend killed himself in a freak accident. I distanced myself from my friends while we were together because I felt like I only needed him in my life. Binge ate the entire relationship and gained like 20 pounds but for some reason he still found me beautiful. I think about him constantly and still haven’t been in a relationship since. I reconnected with my friends after he died and made a couple new ones but it left me feeling completely inhuman. I still rarely make time for anyone and am trying to get over the severe bulimia I developed following his passing. It’s been so long and I still haven’t received professional help or therapy (my fault.) I still talk to his family but it pains me to know that so many people including myself get to live on but not him. He was so special and I’m convinced this loneliness will end up snuffing my life out, literally or just in a general sense (end up obese and with no plans or future.) I want to have kids and love and be loved but who would want a girl who still wakes up in the middle of the night dry heaving and sobbing out another mans name? I still see him so lifeless on that gurney every time I drift off to sleep. I don’t think my friends like me very much because I am merely half a person. My professors started treating me like a sick puppy when I opened up about what happened and my selfish afflictions too. I was always a quiet, self conscious teenager but I figured once I turned 18 or 19 it would let up, then I met him and became a better person, only for my world to be turned into my own personal inferno. “We stand in a wide field - I am at one end, you are at the other. Two small pianos, playing in the dark.” I miss him.



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No. 394891[Reply]

A thread for butch lovers, by butch lovers.

>Post images of butches you find cute please

>Opinion on the terms butch? Masc?
>Vent for troonism within the community?
>History with butches or current crushes?
>Butch Lesbian Scene?
>Media with butches?
>Are you butch4butch, butch4femme, or butch4both?
>Are you stone, switch, or a bottom?
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No. 548286

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>>548263
It’s still pretty bad today but oh my god was it BAD as a preteen. We learned about pregnancy and reproductive systems and I’d literally ask my teacher to leave the room to go to the bathroom and I’d cry. I was never sexually abused and didn’t have that kind of trauma, i still don’t, but I was so scared of my own body. Talked to the school therapist about it and she was pretty confused but kind of logic’d me out of the fear. Nowadays I would’ve been trooned out or some shit kek. My dysphoria now just comes randomly if I see something that “triggers” it I guess or if I think too much about anatomy or dimorphism or if I get jealous of a moid with a cute girlfriend. Puberty was hell though. My body was hell to me.
Fond tomboy childhood memories? When I cut my hair for the first time as a tall girl (younger teenager) and got a shit ton of compliments from women that’d usually ignore me. It felt so good and made me lean into being masculine way more. They’d fuck off as soon as they found out I was an autistic lesbo dork though lol

No. 548292

>>548263
I didn’t actually, and even though I was ‘tomboyish’ in my hobbies as a teen (video games and being a nerd I guess) and slightly in personality I was not as a very young child. I had no interest in toys boys liked and just played with dress up dolls and stuff. Did not get cars and all of that, seemed very boring. The only ‘girl’ thing I did not play with was the baby dolls - I hated them. I remember even as a kid I told them it was sexist kek.
I hear about the idea of lesbians especially masc-leaning ones relating more to men or boys growing up but I feel the exact opposite. I could not understand males in the slightest and had absolutely zero male friends, did not like them at all. Guys seemed more foreign to me than they did to my heterosexual friends. I only liked interacting with girls. As I grew up I had to learn how to befriend them especially if we liked the same stuff.
My dysphoria emerged as a teen. Initially it was to do with clothing. I only ever started experimenting with dressing masculine because I wanted women to like me - I wanted them to see me like that. As an adult I stopped feeling this way about clothes especially as I found myself and what I’m comfortable with, but started to feeling dysphoric towards my gender as a whole, like >>548286 anger when I see a moid with a girl. I feel insecure that because I’m a woman, “women won’t like me” even though I had evidence to refute the fact. But I’ve never wished I were male or identified more with maleness. Weirdly, I did feel extreme distress learning about reproduction at school and felt sick afterwards but honestly I think it was just the idea of pregnancy and mating that seemed horrible. I also disliked hearing about male anatomy and sperm TBH, grossed me out when they described them swimming or penetrating the egg or whatever. Gross. I don’t think I disliked being female or hated my body.

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>>548263
As a kid I didn’t really have male interests or dysphoria for that matter. My personality was quite boyish, but I still preferred dolls and princesses. I think it was maybe around 11/12 when I was starting puberty that gender dysphoria just hit me like a truck, I still don’t understand why. My teen years were hell lmao.
It gradually stopped and disappeared when I became an adult, although lately I’ve been feeling dysphoric again. I’m no longer a teen so let’s see if pure logic and reason alone can stop me from trooning out before the feelings go away again.

No. 548336

>>548286
>>548292
>>548328
I wonder why dysphoria ends up hitting so many women during puberty?

No. 548398

>>548336
It’s when you start developing secondary sex characteristics and during puberty you’re often reminded about reproduction 24/7. You’re also reminded that your body can do those things and it makes you hate yourself. Or it just makes you really uncomfortable
>>548292
I also thought the male anatomy was gross but everything about reproduction just made me insanely upset because I was a female, and it was “male and female”. It would always make things worse when the teacher would go “when you all have kids….” or acting like sex with the opposite sex was an inevitability. Every other kid would laugh because pee pee funny but I always ended up feeling sick to my stomach. Learning about male anatomy and their retard strength always made me loathe them too. I think it’s because I’m really competitive though. I was so obsessed with my height as a kid i literally tried to do every trick and tip to make me taller (I ended up pretty tall so lol) but seeing women talking about how they liked “tall men” made me insecure about my height.

My body being able to do things in relation to heterosexuality has always made me so uncomfortable that it makes me want to off myself. It’s so irrational but I can’t get it out of my head no matter what I do. ugh



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A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Report and ignore bait (especially from those defending male violence and brutality on black women). Be aware of common infight & bait topics (diaspora wars, Africans vs African-Americans, interracial dating, etc.) and act accordingly.
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No. 548294

>>548287
our biggest enemies are black men and indirectly white progressive women. It's always this vile symbolic attack. Even in casting. We need to attack them and fast

No. 548302

>>548260
blame black women who say being skinny is a white people thing and that black women look better "thick." Many BW in the US wanna be overweight if it means having a huge butt. BW do contribute to this beauty standard, so it's not all on BM either. BW are constantly saying skinny women look childlike and attract pedos.

No. 548305

>>548294
IMO, we don't even need to attack anyone. Look at how some of these people have been comporting themselves lately. They're literally going crazy. Let them sabotage themselves (especially black men, omg).
Remember that video of the Chinese woman absolutely chimping out at a black woman at a restaurant, and how she just laughed at her instead of giving her a reaction she wanted? And then the former ended up having to apologize because she embarrassed her entire country? We need more of that.
They're comfortable acting up because they expect however we react to be 10x more furious (inadvertently making them look like victims, if not "innocent"). They're betting on the angry black woman thing, and they're completely lost when we give them nothing. The worse they make themselves look hoping to bait a reaction, the better for us when their unhinged behavior is documented.

No. 548333

>>548305
not physically, but symbolically like the way they do to us. Always be blunt, never PC with them

No. 548377

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>Remember that video of the Chinese woman absolutely chimping out at a black woman at a restaurant, and how she just laughed at her instead of giving her a reaction she wanted? And then the former ended up having to apologize because she embarrassed her entire country? We need more of that.
They're comfortable acting up because they expect however we react to be 10x more furious (inadvertently making them look like victims, if not "innocent"). They're betting on the angry black woman thing, and they're completely lost when we give them nothing. The worse they make themselves look hoping to bait a reaction, the better for us when their unhinged behavior is documented.

In one of the earlier Black girl threads, someone mentioned using stoicism as a tool to deal with losers. Boring silence. No meltdown, no rebuttal, no spectacle. Just let them talk themselves into looking insane.

Every time they swing and you don’t flinch, the narrative falls apart.
Let them implode.



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No. 391531[Reply]

This thread is for women who chose not to date "real men" (aka 3DPD) and instead have chosen to devote themselves completely to their husbandos. Talk about your daily life with your husbando, and discuss why you chose this lifestyle.
Lesbians/Bi women into waifus are welcomed too.

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No. 548006

>>547970
He notices assertive types more easily, but that doesn’t mean he’s incapable of being attracted to someone softer in a different context. You're someone that has steadily become part of his daily life and gradually becomes important to him. Your presence becomes more and more comforting to him. Instead of falling really hard and doing overt displays of feelings, he starts thinking of you: wanting to know your opinion on things, remembering your habits and preferences, or small things might occur to him to make your life easier/ protect you. Maybe he doesn't even realize he's in love bc he's so disconnected from his emotions until there's a catalyst for it, and he realizes he needs you. After that he could put in the effort to be more traditionally romantic BECAUSE he knows you like that. It's no longer OOC, it's character development —he's acting on love for you.

No. 548235

>>547970
Previous post is great. I relate and a slow burn makes the most sense to me. He wouldn't necessarily "like" me at first I don't think. We're very much opposites and how we are similar may put him off, but as we spent more time together he'd grow to appreciate someone as blunt as he is and his feelings would grow. He'd be deeply in denial. I'd be the one to tell him I love him tbh. I don't like imagining him being romantic in the overt sense. It's just not who he is, but there's plenty of people that would put in that effort for their partner and I wouldn't find it OOC for anyone, really. Ultimately, I cope knowing that I love him so much that I will win his heart.

No. 548247

>>547970
Could be my unrivaled autism, but I have a husbando like that sort of, depending on iteration and adaptation, but in general he has a gigantic ego and never gets attached to anyone and the only one time he does it's absolutely pathetic and incely and not my thing. I'd take the cold egoistic take anytime over the cringe obsessive incel take. That aside, imagining being the one who breaks his walls and be the first person he genuinely cares for and slowly changing his egoistic ways for to keep me gives me a high like no other. Idc it's OOC for him, I'm built so different I destroy canon and bend it to my whims. He loves me and worships me and thinks I'm the best because I said so. Jokes aside, I imagine him showing affection in his reserved egoistic way, so it's still in character while also being in love with me if that makes sense? For example, he praises me indirectly, does nice things for me but tries to disguise them as something else that is more formal or professional to hide his true intentions and feelings, koudere kind of thing if you know what I mean. I also have convoluted fanfiction explaining why he ends up that way in the first place and it's because I fix his life and he owes me but I also owe him for saving me and we hit it off as friends and have tons of things in common, and the romance only comes in after I fall for my other husbando and he gets jealous and realizes his feelings for me and it becomes a competition for him and he tries to win me over/back and gets possessive. This is like him and in character because it fits his egoistic side and shows that he thinks I'm his, and he'd want to win me over rightfully rather than forcefully because he wants to prove himself or has confidence that he can easily do it. I hope this helps you in figuring out how to write your man.

No. 548273

>>547970
You don't have to imagine him being lovey-dovey, he could show you his affection in his own way. Kind of like a cat when you gain its trust. Get creative and think of the littlest excuse that could get him to take an interest in you. Maybe he wouldn't fall head over heels for you at first sight, maybe he'd develop his love over time.



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No. 355199[Reply]

A home to post your nerdy crushes here. Whether he just wears nerdy glasses, or if has nerdy hobbies, or is just, a plain nerd.

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No. 542997

>>542734
That is completely wild. Where did you get the info from?

No. 543265

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>>542997
Just by googling his username. He talked about this stuff on his blog too, and his video "Talking to no one" talks about living in a simulation too. His real name is Mario Alejandro Montano
https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadRedditors/comments/foii87/uvitrifyher/

No. 543274

>>543258
That is so sad, but how the fuck does someone start believing that they're in a simulation with fake people. Just wtf.

No. 543333

>>543274
Schizophrenia probably

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His entire gimmick is cringe and unfunny but ironicelm is so cute



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No. 445663[Reply]

Discuss goth music, makeup, fashion that you love. People you admire, gossip, news, etc.

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No. 548227

>>548016
>it is countercultural to have the exact same talking points as the traditionalist far right(go back)

No. 548236

>>547763
>Are there even any other Goth Youtubers aside from Kai decadence who don't pander to the lgbt bullshit? I can't think of any others that come to mind.
Not that I know of. Goth YouTube & TikTok are a mess of posers, misinformation, grifting and gender bullshit. Angela was our last Mohican when it came to genuinely being goth because of the music. She may have been goth in the 90s but I've watched her slowly become that shallow side of the subculture. idk if it's because she's being a people pleaser or if she spends too much time on TikTok. First it was filtering her face and then lying about it. Then it was the Kai debaucle. Now she's saying you don't have to like goth music to be goth, all the while talking about goth is music based. I don't know who I'm watching anymore. The advertisements before any video tells me where her head is at. What happened to the quirky trad goth who vocally defended the subculture? All I'm seeing now are clothes hauls, drama videos and baity titles. Don't get me wrong, I still like her story times and reminiscing about 90s goth. But even in her video >>548091 she says things that contradict herself. Goth is a music subculture and she said it often over the years. Now she's saying you can be goth and not listen to the music. She used to be outspoken but it feels like she's playing it safe these days. Talking about goth girls being fetishized is needed. Normies get the wrong idea and assume we're sex toys. But the same thing applies when troons glom onto the culture. Normies will think "Oh shit, my kid is getting into goth because they're gay-trans-whatever." It's not true but she doesn't touch that subject. We don't have real goth heroes anymore. If they aren't grifting like Freyja, they're shilling for Killstar and unboxing shit. Even the ones who we could relate to jump on whatever bandwagon to get more views. Gone are the days when we could watch a goth on YouTube and think That person is really into the scene, it'd be fun to hang out with them. Now it's like they're stuck up celebrities which trips me out because goth was never about being popular.

No. 548245

>>548227
Can you please go back, lolcow is not for trannies or nonbinary women/men.

No. 548259

>>548227
Wtf are u doing on lolcow?

No. 548439

>>548236
I think maybe she is being misunderstood. She said if you think you don't like the music you just haven't found the correct sub-genre and that there is almost always something to appeal to everyone. She also said if you are goth you can listen to music that is not goth. Both mean you must listen to goth to be goth. Most people don't start out listening to goth and she is just suggesting to find something complimentary to what you already started with. It's why there are gateway bands or other pop culture media.



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No. 548246

>>548213
Nona he probably wants you to call him a whore

No. 548254

>>547308
this is pathetic

No. 548255

>>548246
should i call him a whore just to see how he would react?

No. 548256

>>547308
Future TIF, calling it now.

No. 548257

>>535799
>>536301
At least integrate if you're going to be annoying about your friend's ugly Euro Nigel.



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This thread is to do with all gardening related matters!
Feel free to ask for advice or post progress of your garden, indoor plants etc.
Or just have a chat about gardening in general.
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No. 536684

>>534931
I tried this smelly foam that is supposed to repel deer, didn't work at all. For some animals there is a freuency emitting device that they hate that i think can be used. I have it in my car so martnes don't eat my car but i guess it could work in garden too.
>>535448
I also got really spikey "deer resistant" roses but the deer eat them like it's cake.

No. 539677

What’s everyone’s favourite strawberry variety? I recently got my hands on a Mara Des Bois plant which I’ve always heard is the most delicious everbearing variety. The first fruit is almost ripe and I’m just hovering around guarding it like a dragon guarding its egg.

No. 542903

>>539677
Reporting back to say it was delicious. Better than the Elsantas I’m also growing, and definitely better than the ones from the grocery store.

No. 543524

What's with strawberry planting and the colony eventually turning infertile (hardly any flowers) after a couple of years? What's the reason behind it? It doesn't happen with wild strawberries.

No. 548218

>>539677
I love the little alpine strawberries because they were the only ones that managed to grow in my garden for years. Last year I snagged a bunch of strawberries on sale and they're growing beautifully, I can't remember all the varieties though and they went into a ton of different pots.
I'll keep my eyes peeled for a Mara Des Bois when I'm plant shopping, I'm glad your strawberries lived up to the hype! May it churn out tons more fruits!



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