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No. 56468[Reply]

i know there's some kind of lgbt thread on here already, but bisexuality is always the one that gets the least focused attention. It's also probably the one that is taken least seriously in a way, because of so many attention seekers who fake it, and the fact that there are actually people who can't wrap their heads around it being an actual thing??

I'm like perfectly 50/50 bisexual. i have this huge, equal thirst for both body forms. (not to be confused with pansexuality, i'm talking about only being attracted to biological males and females)

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No. 180033

This has never happened to me, although the last time I had an offer I was so disappointed when it fell through. This Chinese girl had come to my country to study and wanted to stop repressing her sexuality and dominate me with her white bf. I'm a switch at heart but I was like sure sounds great because she was hot as fuck, except the weird thing was she wanted me to fuck her bf on my own first without her there. Then I guess I didn't arrange to meet him in time and she got jealous and blocked me. It honestly sounds like a catfish scenario when I write it out except I have proof that it wasn't, but regardless I found it disappointing. I might try and go on apps again this summer so I can arrange something similar, which ones are best to find these girls? Sorry for rambling btw.

As for bi men I prefer them to straight guys although I don't date men in general.

No. 180034

I've had the experience of having a threesome go really well and then planning to make it an ongoing thing…only for them to break up veery soon afterwards. Which made me feel semi responsible.

Then another time a couple spent months chatting to me online, meeting twice for drinks in person. They had the hotel booked..fell though last minute. Rebooked it for another night…they broke up. He still wanted to fuck me solo though right after their break up, like no thanks.

No. 180037

Not gonna lie, if I was the one in the committed relationship I might not be so quick to go looking for threesomes with my partner. But fortunately for me I'm kind of too unstable and probably too unlovable for any actual relationship.

>going for drinks twice

For me that would be a red flag straight away. I've done stuff like cry on the bus home from dates with women because we didn't fuck. Not to sound like an incel because I'm really not, but since I broke up with my gf I've been feeling this shit extra hard.

No. 180070

No offense anons, but these scenarios are my worst nightmare. I hate the idea of being some couple’s “unicorn” or whatever. Feels so nasty to be fetishized like that. I pretty much stopped telling men that I like women because they just badger for a threesome, “but you like girls tooooo!” Ugh.

No. 180251

sometimes I think I understand why some lesbians don't take bi's seriously. Most of the time its straight cunts from a comfortable place taking this label and playing with ideas till they end the relationship by saying "just experimenting! (at your expense)!. I'll be going back to my normal now! silly wittwe me"

ffs explore yourself BEFORE committing to a same sex relationship! It comes off as using the other person when you can't figure urself out and double down on toying around with someone's feelings

the Bi label is so misconstrued these days it's become straight people's scapegoat. it's always them being like "i know I 100% only show interest in (same gender), but i totally like (same sex) too!! #uwugaybabies" or "i keep options open despite never doing that"

fuck all the bs.

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No. 172701[Reply]

Previous thread >>161298

Post men who are unconventionally attractive, gross, unattractive, average, ugly,creepy/weird, or shameful for their reputation.

Roids or not, he looks good for his age
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No. 180245

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Kek I’m glad someone else shares my coke fueled tucker hate fuck fantasy

No. 180248

I can't get over how many people are coming out of the woodwork for Tucker lol

No. 180249

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No. 180254

I know you’re trolling anon but I knew someone in hs who said they had a crush on Brian and I thought they meant on Seth macfarlane, which is shameful but i agreed with. They proceeded to take that as the green light to go into their actual fantasies about Brian the fucking dog and made me watch the episode where Brian and Meg make out at the prom

So yeah, if anyone in this thread feels bad about themselves, at least we are into unconventional human men kek

No. 180280

the actor or his character on Silicon Valley? either way I agree

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No. 180161[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting.

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No. 180244

who is he?

No. 180246

What was that movie everyone watched to see his butt? Can't remember the movie, still remember the butt.

No. 180247

I think it was Bloodsport

No. 180268

Anton chekhov

No. 180269

Come on anon!!!! He's beautiful RIP

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No. 167304[Reply]

Post women you find overrated or ugly when they're shilled as beautiful. Lesbians, bi and straight women are all welcome to contribute!

In my bisexual opinion Cate Blanchett is not that hot.
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Not really related but they did her so dirty in The Crown. Diana was famously glamorous and this looks like the definition of frump. I'd say the actress who plays her fits in this thread but she's not exactly shilled afaik.

No. 178932

I've never watched the show but judging from the screenshot the colorimetry looks drab, I don't think it helps either.

No. 179003

What do you mean, I loved her slight smirk. She's really cute. But yeah I didn't get Diana vibes.

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I agreed based on Gossip Girl but was converted by her character in a Simple Favor, she was so hot and charismatic

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No. 174105[Reply]

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction toward men it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread. Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:

>first crush?

>what’s your local lesbian/LGBT scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media?
>lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>butch? femme? how do you feel about labels?
>how did you know you were gay?
>which lesbian stereotypes do you fit? which ones don’t fit you at all?
>what were you like as a kid? tomboy? girly girl who made her Barbies kiss?
>get mushy and describe your dream relationship/date/etc
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No. 180134

we’ve been together for two years. she’s met my parents. at this stage we haven’t talked seriously about living together and right now we are long distance due to covid wrecking some of our plans. i think she wants to move far away from her family to have a life with me but i still have my doubts about how exactly this will work because i am aware that once our lives become more entwined and we become “partners” more than just girlfriends it will be hard to hide this part of her life (me) . back when we first got together she said that she doesn’t want to get married because she wouldn’t want to have a wedding without her family there. i didn’t think much of it at the time because we had only just got together but now that we’ve been together for a while i’m looking into the future and it’s like looking into darkness. i don’t know what will happen. and i do want to get married at some stage.

i feel so selfish for wishing she could just tell her family that she’s gay but her family come from a very conservative culture and its very likely she would get legally disowned if she were to do this. so she’ll most likely lose something either way.

No. 180136

I think this is something you can resolve only by talking to her. You need to be honest with each other about your wants and needs and goals and where you see yourselves headed, whether that's together or apart, with family support or otherwise. I don't mean to shame you Nonita but it's kind of insane that you could date for two years without discussing this concretely. That said, you're not selfish for wishing that you could be open about your love. It sounds like your girlfriend is very important to you and you want to make it work, so any obstacles will of course become frustrating. My main advice is to think of yourselves as a team confronting a problem with your joint effort, rather than opposing sides with a point to prove.

I really hope that an Anon with experience in this situation can offer more support. Until then, I wish you and your girlfriend all the best.

No. 180216

>at this stage we haven’t talked seriously about living together and right now we are long distance due to covid wrecking some of our plans.
LDRs with no serious talks or means of living together in the near future (as in within a year or less) are a waste of time and often just a bandaid for not being alone.

>i feel so selfish for wishing she could just tell her family that she’s gay but her family come from a very conservative culture and its very likely she would get legally disowned if she were to do this. so she’ll most likely lose something either way.

Unless she's in a country where you can get killed for being gay, I really don't think this is a valid reason to place YOUR life on pause for her. You only have one life. All time you have wasted in an LDR with someone who refuses to come out is time you could've spent finding someone in your local area who doesn't have all that baggage. If I were you I'd move on and tell her that maybe things could work out once she's out to her family and both of you have the means of starting a real life together instead of just being penpals.

No. 180220

yeah that’s the thing, we were in a normal relationship for one year and it’s become indefinitely long distance due to travel restrictions where i live. at the time when we had to make a decision about whether to stay together or break up because we had already been together for a year that seemed like a sufficiently long time that breaking up would be kind of pointless. but now that we’ve been long distance for an entire year and i don’t think it’s going to end anytime soon idk.. i’ve been more preoccupied with the future and where exactly our relationship is headed. if i picture breaking up with her i don’t think i would date someone else for a long time. my life is very small. i study i work and i have a few friends so it’s not like i’m turning down better relationship chances by being with her. long distance relationships are hard and they require a lot of effort and i guess i’m just worried that we could be doing everything to keep it going right now only for it to get even more difficult when we are physically back together and more needs to be done to hide our relationship from her family.

it’s at times like these i wish i could be straight

No. 180226

This relationship is a dead end. Right now, you're her "dirty little secret" and that's really no way you should allow someone to treat you. I don't care how hard it is to find someone, never let yourself be a doormat just to avoid being single. I also come from a conservative family and am only officially out to my mother and siblings who have met my wife (but I'm sure other family members have figured things out) Still, I wouldn't deny being gay if asked. I definitely wouldn't be trying to get into a relationship without sorting my own life first, as your girlfriend should be doing. You mentioned that she doesn't want to get married but you do. That's a fundamental difference in values between the both of you, which I'm sure isn't the only one. It's just that you're too reluctant to move on. The time you already wasted is gone, yes, but you can't get stuck on a woman who doesn't value you and the relationship you're supposedly in. Rip off the bandaid so you can heal and find someone who actually loves you

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No. 154272[Reply]

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No. 180152

i think i've had a goblin fetish my entire life. why tho.

No. 180196

I personally wouldn’t want to risk it; the old adage about urine being sterile is a lie, there is plenty of bacteria in urine. But if you did go through with it I’d say make sure the guy just drinks a frickton of water so that his pee is proportionally mostly water and less of the waste your body also expels when peeing.

No. 180200


Can men even pee with a hard on? I dont think so? Unless its light like morning wood or something

No. 180209

how does that work?

No. 180237

i have done research (don't ask) and they can

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No. 153246[Reply]

Unsure if you're actually straight? Actually gay? Anything in between? Ask for advice here.

Also welcome are "late bloomers" who realized their true selves long after their teen years who'd like to share their experience and tell others what signs to look out for.

Please be kind to questioning anons, no matter how "obvious" it might seem to you what they are.
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No. 180003

You can be bi and not open to men, the expectation that all bi women have to date men is ridiculous and damaging in my opinion, and I’m pretty similar to you except that I find irl men attractive and can enjoy fucking them but no dating/romantic shit. Ngl it’s a lonely world out there if you want to date women so I totally get you, but I also wouldn’t presume to label your sexuality for you.

No. 180188

I am very sorry to bother anyone with this dumb question but could it be that I am a lesbian? I've been together with my boyfriend for more than 4 years but we have never really slept with each other (like pp in vagina sex). We tried it but always stopped because I always hated it. When I masturbate I think about straight sex but I always look at or think about the woman. When I was 16 I had a weird obsession or crush on a girl that was a grade above me. We were secretly friends and often engaged in roleplays on an internet forum for weebs. Am I a lesbian or am I just an idiot? I never had any contact with irl lesbian women before since I live in a very conservative area and have no people I could compare my experiences to. This is all very embarrassing since I am already in my early twenties.

No. 180189

>4 years
>we have never really slept with each other
why did the lesbian get the good bf this is unfair

No. 180192

Can you imagine yourself with other women sexually?

No. 180195

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No. 160323[Reply]

Gaze into the future. Gaze into the past. You seek Braco's advice? Dump his ass.

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No. 175746

I know you're not living together yet but this reminds me of the point you usually reach after living together for a year or more.. he was on his best behaviour in the beginning and now that he's comfortable he's showing you more of who he's going to be longer term. It's often make or break, either you talk it out and he puts an effort in again or he's just the type to totally take partners for granted after a while. If he's the latter then he'll likely have a string of gfs treated to that carry on before he even attempts to change.

The concerning part is that you're a year in and it's heading this way already. Especially when it comes to wanting sex and making no real effort to make sex appealing for you… it's so soon to be reaching that point. Maybe he thinks the abortion experience has you so emotionally tied to him that he has you secured no matter what.

No. 175774

Give him up anon, it's only been four months. Usually you'd assume someone would still be on their best behaviour at that point in time.

No. 180193

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I’m new to dating apps and ended up unintentionally “multi dating” for the first time in my life.
I’m starting to feel serious about one of the people I’ve met, and I can tell they feel the same. I would probably go exclusive with them given the chance.
At what point should I start to tell the others I’m talking to, and most importantly, how? Part of me says not to put all of my eggs in one basket until we’re actually exclusive, and another says I’m leading the others on if I keep talking to them like usual.

No. 180194

Just ghost the others when things get serious with your main dude

No. 180234

Don't tell the others anything yet, he might change his mind or things might not work out. If/when you two do get together, you can just shoot them a simple "Hey, I met someone who I'm interested in being exclusive with, thanks for the great dates" or just ghost. Good luck anon!

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No. 176521[Reply]

Vent your heart out, give and receive relationship advice from fellow farmers.

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No. 180142

It comes across as pretty disrespectful that he'd already know what your feelings are on porn and yet he still asks you for that in spite of that. If he has that knowledge already then surely he knows he's essentially trying to coerce you into a sexual situation you wouldn't ever want. I've been there before (not porn but asking for a sex act I clearly said I'm not into) and it's a red flag I wouldn't ignore again. If you voice that you hate a certain sexual thing it's time for men to just stop requesting it.

It's also a strange convo to have over a call rather than waiting to have it in person. Then the detail that you're only months into dating..Just imagine how much these requests will escalate if you stay.

No. 180145

You got mad and stopped talking to him for a good fucking reason. You know exactly that this is wrong and he isn't right for you. Dump him.

No. 180190

I went no contact. Best decision of my life

No. 180235

> very abusive
> dad acts smugly and looks down on his kids' life choices
> mental torture

No. 180271

If her reaction to Japanese stuff is so off-putting to you, it's a bit perplexing that you'd keep trying talking to her about it after the first or second time.

The advice you're looking for should be obvious, or am I not reading between the lines here?

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No. 137333[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting.

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No. 180123

shadows too crisp

No. 180124

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steve yeun

No. 180125

I thought something looked off but couldn't tell what

No. 180128

Yeah, it gives it an uncanny valley look. Bad photo/editing, hot guy

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