>>583482>>583487Dw nonnas even I understand it's weird, but we graduate at 16 in my country so she got invited to the party by her co-worker which is why she was even there. I definitely mentioned it because it was like "realistically the 31 year old would have been the more moral outcome, but because he degraded me and the entire female sex, the 10 years younger girl somehow came out as the better option from the night". Like a dark joke because it's so inappropriate. For clarification, I'm not actually going to pursue and have sex with her, we would not have anything in common to uphold a relationship and I'm not the type to use (or be used by) someone for "fun".
>>583462Done and done, nonna. You might be right, I've been told by one of my childhood friend's housemates that I'm so zen he feels calm around me which was really sweet. Plus I supported her in a small court thing and won the appeal she was involved in by using my observations of her life as evidence that contributed to her case. I'm definitely gonna let that friend know what happened since she's influential in the group and doesn't humour creeps (she told a guy off for me who sent me a thirst trap on the first night we met and then asked me for pictures kek, and since then he's not shown up in the group again). Basically because I'm new to this group It's difficult to know where I stand within the social dynamic so early on, not to mention it's quite a large number of people within it so there are a lot of opinions involved. I'm well-liked so far which is good but lol it's such a pain when guys do things like act so horny it makes them retarded. Outside of the group I'd just give it to them straight.