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No. 115426[Reply]

In need of advice? Post here!

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No. 121777

So, long story as short as it can get:
>Meets guy ten years ago.
>Love at first sight.
>Falls madly in love, have great relationship.
>He leaves me, it is justified in hindsight bc was kind of a bitch due to life struggles at the time.
>Breaks my heart, takes a long-ass time, gets over him, moves on.
>Stay friends the whole time tho, talk sporadically throughout the years, meet when we are close to one another. Friendship has been good all the way.
>I recently got out of other serious relationship due to wanting to be child-free and that ex does not.
>Guy from ten years ago is in a serious relationship too atm.
>Guy from ten years ago comes to visit, we hang out, we get along massively.
This is where it gets complicated.

He tells me he basically regrets his choice to leave, he misses me, he feels so comfortable with me, that he would like another chance, that he's never felt the same about anyone else (Nor have I). Says he's just waiting for me to say he can come home. (To me that is)
(Nothing sexual or innapropriate happens due to his GF)
I'm not 100% sure I can trust what he says, because im a skeptic.
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No. 121781

I'd be sceptical too, I mean you were apart for a long time and he was doing just fine without you.. now he wants to hop directly from one relationship into another? Doesn't sound like the healthiest person.

Is he staying with the current gf til you tell him what to do? Pretty shitty for her and her future trust in guys

No. 121790

Yeah I think it's a little weird, it's so out of nowhere, ten years later, da fuq?

>Is he staying with the current gf til you tell him what to do? Pretty shitty for her and her future trust in guys

I know, which is why I've been considering telling him if he's not happy to just leave her, and be single for a while to see if he can. (I'm not getting hurt by this guy again. I've never taken back an ex before, this is the first time I've entertained the thought.)
Keep in mind I don't know the following for sure, and I haven't really kept up with his life and what he was doing, but he does seem to be a bit of a serial monogamist. (I say this because he left a gf he had and got with me really soon after, he got a new gf very soon after leaving me, and I didn't pay attention to what happened after that, but for the majority of his time he seems to never really be single for long periods of time.)

If he's not happy with her he should leave for both their sakes IMO. I think its BS to keep her on the burner like that, and come running to me. If that's how you want to get your second chance what in the ever-living fuck makes you think I would ever trust you 100%?
I'm fine on my own and I want to remain single for a while anyways.
I'm only torn because muh first love, and because he's honestly really funny and awesome in general except for this bit.

I just don't know, is it weird to be like "Leave her and be single for a while and then we'll see, maybe." I have no problems telling him straight up I don't trust you, earn my trust. But I don't know if that would be so smart. Thoughts?

No. 121794

Okay, I went through some stuff, majorly depressed, and I pushed all my friends away because I was heavily considering suicide

I'm not dead, I'm not super thinking about it too hard right now, so far from saying I'm not suicidal but I'm not an immediate threat and I'm pretty sure that I'm going to be okay for the next year

problem is, I feel bad for what I did to my friends, two of them in particular, but mostly I just stopped responding to them and told them I didn't want to be friends/we can't be friends anymore
And while I'm okay with not being friends, I have to lie in my bed and all, I still feel like I should apologize and at least let them know that I was just in a bad place and didn't really want to hurt them any further

Would reaching out to them be hypocritical or damaging to them? The worst that I could do is invite them into my life and push them back out when I inevitably get into my feelings too much, so I want to avoid that

I'd be more than open to being friends, but I would just feel bad and I'd know that I'd always have this potential to hurt them
Maybe I should do it anonymously? I still check on them sometimes to see how they are doing

No. 121796

as someone who has been ghosted before, I think reaching out to them would be fine as long as you explained to them why you did what you did (about your mental health etc)

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No. 55352[Reply]

>>Developing a huge crush on a relatively popular fitness YouTuber
>>not something insane I'm-going-to-send-a-bomb type of thing, but it's still something pathetic
>>Super lonely since breakup in April
>>Know we probably won't ever meet because he's becoming more and more popular, and I'm just a sad potato in a different country
>>Daydream about him as if he was someone achievable; feel jealous and shit over him

He seems genuinely sweet and we seem so much alike. I know, maybe it's just a persona, but still.
I've thought of sending a gift, but I worry that might
make me even more helpess in case he opens his gifts on camera again :(

Anyone out there with a similar story? Tell me I'm not totally crazy, pls. I'm pretty sure it will go away, at least a bit, once i meet someone new, but yeah…

Making this in /sty/ because I'm not sure it is /ot/ material and I'm sure this topic has been brought up before.

/Ryoga best character
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No. 120225

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this man is absolutely perfect.
>has long hair
>into linguistics
>really sweet to his gf

No. 120404

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6vcadTSSQKVsdOudnbqwtg This ordinary man whose channel I found a few days ago, he's my kind of handsome and his videos are wholesome. I think he's really lucky he can choose to do what he's doing.

No. 121786

I have a stupid crush on my coworker who's 9 years older than me (hes in his early 30s…wish that wasn't hot to me but it is lmao) and I have to see him every day at work since we have the same schedule. He's very private and mysterious but I know he's single and as far as I know doesn't date around much. He's kind of a manlet which I like and is on the petite side but also buff af. I get vibes from him sometimes that he's being flirty with me and we make sort of intense eye contact and work closer than what's necessary with one another but other times he ignores me. I also can't tell if the flirtiness is just wishful thinking because he's definitely more attractive than I am. We also joke around a lot and compliment each other (not on physical attributes though lol) and banter and idk. He's a very hard worker and good at what he does which is super attractive to me too.

Honestly as long as we both work there, it'd be dumb as hell to do anything about it and I have a rule to not shit where I eat especially since we work at a small company. And he's also too old for me. And he's a manager, though he's not a part of my department. Wish I could just stop crushin on him because it's distracting.

No. 121788

I'm glad I'm not the only one that found him attractive. I know he's a creepy cult guy but he at least put on the facade of being attentive and sweet. I think for me it's also partly because he reminds me of my ex's hot friend that I always kinda had a thing for.

No. 121793

Some small-ish boobtuber who makes vids/streams essentially reviewing lolcows.
He's just a basic neckbeard and not dating material by any stretch, nor am I physically attracted to him. Just gives me first-crush-before-I-figured-out-what-I-was-attracted-to feelings for some fucking reason. Probably because his personality type is familiar.

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No. 91134[Reply]

What celebrities have you been told that you look like?

About 95%, it’s usually Bjork for me. Because I’m white but I also look vaguely Asian. I’ve also gotten Selena Gomez, Miranda Crosgrove, Jackie O and Six from Blossom. Also one time a crackhead compared me to Emma Stone (because of my man jaw) and another time, I got compared to Lindsay Lohan (probably because of my freckles). Being compared to Lindsay Lohan actually made me angry lol.

What celebrities/famous people have you guys been compared to?
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No. 121726

doesn't look like Audrey either more like Lynda Carter

No. 121742

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I’m 22. The only irl comparison I’ve gotten is younger Uma Thurman

No. 121747

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mikey from my chemical romance. not so much anymore, but when I was younger and skinnier I looked like the female version of him.

I never get compared to female celebs.

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No. 121783

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i'll take it. p good for a horse face.

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No. 101084[Reply]

Talk about skin stuff here. Old thread is at 1200+ posts.
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Anyone have any experience with rosacea? I'm wondering if I have it. I'm fair skinned and have always flushed easily, but the last couple years I flush very intensely and my cheeks always feel like they're burning, and recently it's been getting even more painful. I'm on a 4 month waiting list for a derm even with a referral and not sure how to cope in the meantime.
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No. 121337

It's a little pricey but this stuff cures me of enlarged nose pores and also closed comedones. I use it about once a week.

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No. 121752

How do i get rid of the tiny red bumps under your skin that aren't like millia or capable of being popped? like under skin whiteheads that will stay under your skin forever

No. 121766

If you're referring to closed comedones, I use Mizon 8% AHA, or any of the AHA/BHA peels referred to upthread would probably do it. Tbh I like mine because it works fine and it's cheaper. If you're referring to skin texture, I've still got some of that after the peels, and it really isn't going anywhere :( General skin maintenance is probably the best thing for that really - water-adding toner, oil-adding moisturizer, maybe a night mask, drink plenty of water.

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No. 113718[Reply]

Continued from >>71573
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No. 121722

DEFINITELY agree with other anons, Always Infinity. I recommend the extra heavy/overnight pad to anyone who has a very heavy flow like myself. If someone isn't using this brand and is having issues (like I did) with leaking and a heavy flow. I'd 100% recommend it.

While i'm here do any anons have lube suggestions for someone who has an allergy/sensitive problem? I have a sensitivity (possible allergy) to lube and no luck on a replacement. Any reputable brands?
The issues I have been having every time I use lube is burning/itching then swelling. The swelling happening over time not immediate.

Any recommendations would be great!

No. 121725

Are you using silicone based lube? A lot of people are sensitive to that.

No. 121744

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YES lube is very gentle.

No. 121745

I like the System Jo H20 lube. I have extremely sensitive skin, and have never had a problem with it.

No. 121756

Hey anon, from what the lube says in ingredients, no it's a water based formula. No silicone.

Thank you anons! I'll check them out.

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No. 119060[Reply]

Pride Rules.
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No. 121616

I'm in pretty much the same boat as you. i hate sissy hypnosis with a fucking passion. since it became a huge thing in the last like 3-4 years, every single content creator caters to them almost exclusively because they're fucking whales. I don't even like telling people I'm into hypnosis because they'll probably think it's some weird sissy shit, and I can't really blame them. The sissy hypnosis subreddit is over 2x the size of the normal erotic hypnosis one (though that one is far too redditmale to look at anyway). The 8chan hypnosis board literally has (had I guess) wars where sissy people get pissy that people are making fun of them, and they just spam the entire board to kill every other thread.

anyway… i haven't really found a good source for hypnosis content that I like. there are a couple tumblrs with gifs that have those GOOD moments, but that's really it other than youtube, and the tumblrs like barely post.

No. 121642

do you have any reccs on where I can see those really good (non sissy) ones?

No. 121644

well i'm a little hesitant because it's quite spaghetti. but ok! there's hypnogirlgifs and eyedreaming, those are both run by straight men and a little…idk sketchy energy. there's also fegerty which is all guys being hypnotized. i don't look at male content all that much, so there are probably others findable from the likes on fegerty's posts. all of those are dot tumblr dot com.

No. 121753

big dick

No. 121764

that's not a fetish that's a basic requirement lmao

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No. 121656[Reply]

Hey ladies, can we get a breakup support thread for anons who don't want to clog up the relationship advice thread? We can share stories and advice for moving on after a breakup.
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No. 121737

Anon those are extremely minor things. You can find a bunch of guys who would be better for you and treat you better than that man.

No. 121749

I need support now. I just moved out of a place I shared with my “partner”

They are still coming around so far as they’ve helped me move but we have to break us as they have done too many fucked up things

How do I distance myself and be ok? I’ve spent a whole year almost solely with this person and I’m feeling almost separation anxiety

It sucks

No. 121750

Do you guys think it's possible to remain friends with an ex?

We were together for 5 years and split up about a year ago. But he still came around my new place all the time so it didn't really feel like we were 'broken up'. In january I moved back to my home country and we talk every few days… I think I'm still in love with him, but i'd be happy just to have him be my friend too. I always let him contact me first (because I dont like seeming overbearing or whatever) and he never goes more than a few days

i just feel like this is unusual?

Also I still masturbate to him.. ugh

No. 121763

I don't think it's wise to try and "stay friends" with your ex if you still clearly have feelings them. I don't oppose to staying in touch with exes as I have pretty good relationships with most of mine and the girl from my previous relationship is someone I consider to be my best friend, but it's all because these relationships ended due to the romance dying out. You're only gonna end up feeling unfulfilled and unhappy if you keep him around while still longing for him in some ways. You could try and cut contact with him drastically for some time and then see if you've moved on and could still be his friend again without any ulterior motives.

No. 121792

I also forgot to add that he broke up with me over FaceTime with the camera facing the wall, but didn't even say it himself. He kept saying negative shit about us and then I texted him later.

We were supposed to be together in 2 weeks, in person, and he couldn't have waited? Like this was a 2+ year relationship and he keeps ignoring me and when he does answer, he changes his explanations. Like one minute, it's him that's the issue, and a day later, it's me who was the problem.

I wasted over 2 years to a guy who couldn't even break up with me himself, and couldn't even face me to say anything.

Are there ANY good men out there? Fml

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No. 108748[Reply]

I have a question regarding IUDs. I've been on the pill since early 2017 and I get pretty bad side effects. My breasts swell up (they become REALLY painful) and I get extremely nauseous. I haven't been off the pill since 2017 and the symptoms haven't disappeared. I'm honestly sick of it and decided to get an IUD. Have any of you had experiences with IUDs? I am not sure whether to get the hormonal or non-hormonal one. I absolutely hate and almost can't stand the side effects of hormonal birth control, but I get very painful periods and I heard that the copper IUD makes them 10x worse. ;-;
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No. 121643

Copper IUD user here, been on it for 2 years and overall never had an issue. But now my period is four days late lmao, I’m gonna wait a couple more days before I take a test but damn I’m a little worried. I’m really hoping it’s nothing, my cycle sometimes will change if I’m around another woman a lot (like once it was a week late and started the same day as a new coworker) and my roommates girlfriend just moved in so… maybe my period decided to match hers?? But idk if that’s even a real thing that happens.

Anyways send me period vibes or someshit cuz I’m not thrilled about the idea of spending my savings on an abortion

No. 121690

Wear nice white panties and take a test. This should bring on a period.

No. 121693


I know so many women (myself included) who've been a week or more late and then within minutes of peeing on the stick… there it is

No. 121696

Can confirm. Happened to me 3 times.

(Just for clarification: It wasn’t really likely for me to be pregnant but I‘m super paranoid so I take a test basically every time I’m more than a week late. Which happens a lot, so it’s not even that unusual. I’m still super paranoid.)

No. 121706

lmao literally did put on some white underwear yesterday and started it this morning. thank god. now I am convinced another woman’s hormones effected mine because my tampon wrapper isn’t the only one in the trash bin lol

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No. 82463[Reply]

Share your experiences, advice, tips.
What was your cringiest story? Have you had a successful interaction? Do you think dating apps are worth the effort?
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No. 114894

It would have been way easier like years ago when you can actually send messages to people who like you. Proceed with caution since he may read that you are interest in women. If you do go for it then start out that you are only interested in being friends (works more if you have "seeking friends" in your profile, despite it being a big meme because people are scared). I personally wouldn't do it since there could always be the chance that I can run into them irl and start a convo from there.

I really don't know what to tell you… It doesn't matter if you are a lesbo or not since men will try to get in anyways. It's been happening a lot on tinder with women getting matched with troons/men on either side. I guess your best bet would be to manually hide them.

No. 121624

I have like no experience on dating apps or dating in general so excuse me if I sound really retarded.

I downloaded Bumble a few days ago and matched with someone who I think I actually like. We've chatted for a few days, but I've been really busy so I only have time to send 1-2 replies per day.

No. 121625

Shit I accidentally clicked post before I could finish typing.

Anyway, I don't know how exactly you're supposed to go about messaging people on dating apps. I know that the obvious end goal is that we can eventually meet in person, but as of now I still want to get to know him a little better before I feel confident asking him to meet up. Essentially I've just been asking him questions about himself, but as I mentioned above I don't have a lot of time to reply so conversation has been moving really slow. He hasn't been asking me that many questions in return so I don't really have much to work with either. If he's not really asking me that much in conversation does that mean that he isn't really interested in me (even though he's still replying?) or am I giving off the impression that I'm not interested because I only respond once or twice per day and haven't suggested we meet up yet? Or am I just being really boring?

Also as a follow-up question how long do you usually wait from after you message someone to ask them to meet in person? Sorry again for all the questions and autism.

No. 121675

If I'm interested I reply immediately because I hate the pretend wait game people play. And by immediately I mean, as soon as I want. So of course if I'm doing something more important I won't, but if he happens to catch me just chilling and I really like him, I shoot it right back.
Add him on Facebook on talk on messenger it's much easier. If you like him be honest. It's really simple. You probably have more matches than he does, so he will be thinking the same thoughts you are. I would even go so far as to tell him you're interested if you are, the truth is surprisingly effective.

No. 121701

Any time that I found a guy was answering questions but not really asking about me it turned out that the guy was hoping for sex but playing the game of letting me lead the convo in the hopes it'd go there. (that was basically my whole experience on bumble)

It's the time when you should be wanting to know all about each other. I'd keep an eye on whether he starts asking more about you

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No. 75631[Reply]

There is another thread for fit girl problems, but this is a thread open for everyone regardless of your experience with fitness and exercise.

Some ideas for what to discuss:
>share your fitness/body/health goals
>ask questions
>exchange tips and advice
>post routines
>update on progress
>vent about roadblocks
>give support!

Hopefully this thread can be a mix of people who are totally new and people who have been at it for a while. We can help each other out.
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No. 121639

Her legs look normal. You're also complaining about muscular legs while only running.

If you want to look skinnyfat then stop working out.

No. 121640

Her legs don't even look muscular though. Besides, defined and shapely calves look nice…Don't know why so many women see chicken legs as the ideal.

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No. 121654

Lean legs aren’t a meme we’ve seen them on people from pixies group even though they are fatties.

Pilates or standing 8 hours a day will do this

No. 121667

Not to be rude but you were obviously performing the exercises with poor form if that's the case. Thousands upon thousands of people do those exercises for years without injury. It's not the routine.

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