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No. 437641[Reply]

This thread passes the Bechdel Test. Do not mention the opposite sex in any context.

If you need to vent about febfem, polilez, horrendous experiences with bisexual women, go to this thread >>>/2X/17680

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction towards the opposite gender it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread (check the catalog). Please ignore obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc ragebait as well. Remember that when we take the bait and infight, the trannies win! If you suspect a poster is XY, pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).

Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:
>first crush?
>what’s your local lesbian scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media? lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>tips for coping with being lonely
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No. 456456

>>456248
It's not a big deal at all. I can only orgasm from a vibrator and my gf doesn't care at all and there are a lot of incredibly pleasurable things we do together. It's not a reflection on her or on me, it's just the way the body works and maybe it'll change someday. Not everyone is compatible with that and that's not wrong either. But the right partner for you won't mind or take it personally.

No. 456468

>mid 30s
>become hermit
>still haven’t come out yet

I can’t really be sure that I’m a homosexual and not asexual who thinks about coochie

No. 456474

>>456403
Ayrt, no I’m British.

No. 456477

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>>456334
>>456398
>>456402
You're all overthinking it… each woman has her own tastes, you know. Calling women who don't prefer shapeless skellies "chubby-chasers" is a bit telling. I think picrel has a perfect body, and she's neither a bony becky nor fat. If I had to guess, wouldn't the average woman prefer a woman who's decently fit but still has feminine softness? The anachan uwu smol littol breasts uguu fawn legs lanky gf thirstposting seems to be contained to this site, at least in my experience, women irl like curvy women. It doesn't really matter either way, the key takeaway is that there's women attracted to literally everything, so really, every body type is desirable.

No. 456484

>>456477
anons saying "i love tall lanky women" is not
>"anachan uwu smol littol breasts uguu fawn legs lanky gf thirstposting"
you know damn well no one means that. You just sound overly bitter that some people have a different preference than you.


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No. 397215[Reply]

What women are you ashamed to say you'd fuck or crush on for any reason?
>unconventionally attractive?
>problematique?
>controversial?
Share your thirst, farmers.

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No. 456226

>>456216
Ugh she's such a moid-obsessed pickme though nonnie I can't even imagine what it'd be like to be in the same room with her for more than a few minutes.

No. 456379

>>456216
She's pretty standard for an early 20s brunette. I'm not sure where you find these anymore, they used to be at clubs and really easy to make out with or take home because they're all bisexual but hate making the first move

No. 456475

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>>443392
Anon I am watching the S2 episodes right now and she is peak fucking qt I am lowkey embarrassed this is my perfect type. She could be insanely mentally ill and I still absolutely WOULD. Ngl I would the BPDemon too… I’m also enjoying the show way too much kek I need them to release more episodes… sad I didn’t catch it live. Do anons have a thread to talk about it or would I have to go to the trenches
>I wish she still looked like this now
Has she changed style or?

No. 456492

>>456475
I thought this was paul dano in a wig

No. 456496

>>456203
Isn’t this Phoebe Bridgers? lol

>>456208
She’s hated because she’s a holier than thou SJW and pick me who 'hates TERFs' and attacks other women over nothing, but has no problem with her disgusting racist moid friends. But enjoy your crush nonna, she has pretty face but she always looks unwashed to me.


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No. 437064[Reply]

You know the drill
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No. 455043

>>454972
I did this as a teen and honestly it was very fun nostalgia in retrospect.

No. 455491

>>455043
there are people with lives greater than i can imagine. le sigh. hate being retarded and weird. who did you cosplay as heh

No. 455624

>>455043
Nta but it does sounds like a lot fun. I'd like to do that kind of stuff nowadays but I think I've already aged out of the primary demographics kek (I'm in my early 20's).

No. 456473

>>440357

This post has been ruminating in my mind for over a week now, nonnie. I should have replied earlier honestly. I feel a need to thank you for being the first person I’ve ever seen perfectly articulating what I find the appeal of guro/dissection/medical/biology/vore (whatever this is all under the umbrella of) kink to be.

>I want to see the organs inside him that make his little heart and mind tick and keep him alive like clockwork.

You’ve hit the nail on the head so perfectly. An extra appeal for me personally that goes along with this is if the subject is some monsterboy and has internal anatomy completely foreign to human knowledge too… it doesn’t get tiring to imagine.

No. 456502

I fantasize about kidnapping him for hours. I have lots of fantasies about him but the most vivid and detailed are about making him my long-term petvictim. At first he’d be strapped in a chair and eventually, on good behavior, he’d get a collar chained to the wall and a mattress. I don’t necessarily have a “feeder” fetish in the sense that I want to force him to gain weight but I would like to feed him nice sweet things by hand. Pour water or milk into his mouth. Watch him wrap his lips around a straw and suck. It would all feel very maternal. If he’s ever mean to me I’ll deprive him of as much stimulation as I can for a while to teach him what not to do. I wouldn’t want him to go insane but I want him to be glad to see me when I come back and let him feel the touch of another human. Eventually I want him to beg for it. He’ll be so lonely and bored and sad that he’ll want me to touch him, even though he hates me for taking him away from his former life and all the things he loves.


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No. 447644[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive men you would enjoy having sex with.

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No. 453127

>>447880
Based I want to fuck frodo

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would


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No. 208345[Reply]

Since /cgl/ has been invaded by scrotes and trannies, let's discuss general things about the fashion here, from new releases to your dream dress. Share makeup looks and diy's, or your favorite coords. Talk about the comm you are in and your lolita friendships. Ex lolitas and newbies are welcomed too. Etc.
For drama, check out the tread on /w/: >>>/w/143376
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No. 452896

>>452481
Start with a smaller project like a skirt rather than jumping straight to a dress. I usually see petticoat get tossed around as a starter project, but unless there's a specific type you want (e.g. I just finished a cotton/flannel reversible one for colder weather) it's now become so cheap to buy a reliable one with decent materials that it's harder to justify making your own given how much startup costs are for sewing projects.
Depending on where you are, some libraries offer lending programs for sewing machines, or sometimes craft studios have open studio hours for access to their machines for a couple of hours at a time. I've also taken community college classes in fashion and got some of my personal sewing done whenever there was downtime or open lab hours - mine had industrial straight stitch machines along with sergers, which is all you really need.

No. 453044

>>440543
Shipped out all my gifts for CGL Secret Santa this week. It's my first time participating and I had fun shopping for my match since she and I have similar tastes. Apparently my santa is experiencing delays so I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I wasnt matched with a moid kek

No. 453813

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>tfw genuinely nostalgic for 2000s ita because those were the girls i would feel jealous of as a kid when i didn't know any better
The cheap shiny satin, the raschel lace, smudged pencil eyeliner with no other makeup, the greasy bangs, the Demonias, the fishnets, the random plushies, the occasional neon wig from a local costume store…

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What's up with western "lolitas" and putting on the most god awful 50 pounds of makeup on Earth

No. 456399

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Anyone remember when the Amuse Alpacassos were big amongst lolitas? I regret selling my collection, they were such cute plushes! The sad part is that they aren't made anymore. I wanted to start collecting again, but unfortunately my only route will have to be hunting for resellers on ebay of mercari.


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No. 418500[Reply]

thread #1 >>56468
thread #2 >>199767
thread #3 >>333126

if you're still extremely unsure if you're bisexual, the questioning thread is likely a better fit. talk about your gender preferences, how you discovered you were bi, what's your type in men and women, how you feel in the community, any struggles you've had with bisexuality, etc.
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No. 451484

>>451407
No, might be because I am a big ugly woman but moids show no interests in me unless I aggressively pursue them and women act creeped out if I am straight foward.

No. 451572

>>451225
Aw, I'm so happy for you nona ♥ That's really nice. You're living the dream

No. 451683

>>451225
Congrats nona that is so sweet!(Kek'd at your autism levels though, could she have made it more obvious.)

No. 456367

heartbreak/yearning over a woman is so, so much worse than over a man. for me at least. i keep waiting and waiting for time to heal me as they say, and i guess it has a little bit, but it's been a really long time and I still cry if I really allow myself to feel my emotions instead of tamping them down to be functional. it's a totally different scale of pain than anything i've ever felt over a man before, i was totally unprepared.

No. 456461

>>456367
Same boat here. It's truly devastating


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No. 371060[Reply]

Talk about all things perfume, share your favorite scents, and get recommendations.

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No. 448405

can someone recommend me something similar to Clinique's Happy but with actual lasting power? I love it but it's so weak on my skin and it lasts 3 hours max…

No. 454395

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Bought a unique sample as a fragrance normie and I genuinely did a double take on the first spray. The moss, mushroom, wool and fruity notes were the strongest but it also kinda smelled like rain. Wouldnt wear it on a date but its so weirdly addicting I cant stop sniffing it. The perfumer D.Greyi is pretty unknown he makes a lot of interesting asian inspired perfumes with unique notes (weed, durian, carrot, matcha, spray paint, pho) if any niche fragrance nonas were looking for something new

No. 456286

What is whore perfume??

I tend to like sweet, floral scents my favorites right now being Gorgeous Magnolia and Goddess by Burberry. Well I was getting ready with some girls and I put Goddess on and when one of the girls asked for the brand another said it was prostitute perfume??? I don't get it.

No. 456330

>>456286
The only time I heard the term "whore perfume" it was always referring to the smell of gloss.
>>454395 I remember seeing fantasy themed fragrances, like World of warcraft etc.. there were some like; leather, bog, brimstone, ogre's sweat, elf… I've always wanted to own them, know what they smell like.

No. 456341

>>456286
They probably mean perfumes that strippers commonly use, which tends to be strong, very sweet, and cheap


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No. 448891[Reply]

Anything you want or desire, the Universe will provide you with it.

Post your desires, affirmations, about your manifestation journey, goals and successes.

Tips for anons:
>Do not write it in the future tense (I will, they will, etc). Do it in the present or even the past tense.
>Avoid negatives (I don't, I can't, I won't, etc)
>Avoid "wish" or "want", think of it as if it's already happening and you don't have to wish or want anymore
>Keep your mind relaxed, focus on the good feelings of the outcome. Desperation attracts more desperation
>Trust the process

Advices and inputs are welcomed!
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No. 456196

>>456019
you have to override your thoughts and discipline your mind. Teach yourself to think nothing first. You are the master. Take control.

No. 456219

>>455821
Why does this hit so hard

No. 456285

>>456196
thank you anon. do you have any practical guides for this or is it just the usual zen buddhist thing?

No. 456324

>>456285
I recommend either long (1 hour+, no music, just sitting) meditation sessions to start with or 40 minutes or longer guided breathwork sessions (you can find these on youtube) done daily for a set amount of time - set a goal for yourself, like 100 days, and keep track of it in a notebook that's dedicated only for that. The breathwork is going to be easier since you manually induce a trance and can achieve non-thinking easier or you can even achieve satori quite easily with some of the practices like the one I linked.

Some other questionable method I came to know was wearing a rubber band on the wrist and snapping it on the wrist whenever you perceive an unwanted thought. I used this method for a while and can say it does work to reduce the amount of unwanted thoughts, but in the end you will achieve more by not engaging with negative thoughts rather than punishing yourself for them physically.

No. 456361

>>456324
Anon if you're a regular meditator, what are the most interesting experiences you've had, and did it help with your other manifestation work?


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No. 444697[Reply]

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No. 454919

>>454818
As a rectangle fag I'm always annoyed by these guides because it's always about creating the illusion of curves to get a more feminine womanly uwu figure, it's hard to find guides about leaning on your natural androgyny.

No. 455602

>>454852
Just wanted to let you know I don't think you should feel like you have to try and change or hide your shape. She was both petite and had a rectangle figure. My thought was that it was another option to play around with. I can see why it looks like her picks were leaning gen x like.

No. 456262

What can you say to someone who is stuck in negative, self hating spirals? Is there a gentle way to snap someone out of it? Or do you have to be firm? I know that deep down this person wants to get better, but they lapse into these patterns of fear and pain and get stuck

No. 456298

Ladies I need to use to a pic for my fb marketplace post for finding a roommate but don't want to use actual photos of my house online. Can you provide me with some wholesome substitutes?

No. 456316

>>456298
If you’re uncomfortable using your own place, take a photo from Google maps and try to get your place plus a neighbor or two if possible. That way they don’t exactly know which is yours.


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No. 377685[Reply]

This is a support thread for women who have been abused by an intimate partner, whether physically, verbally, emotionally, sexually, or in some other form. Discussion of experiences with either male or female abusers are welcome, but please keep the focus of this thread on the unique circumstances involving partners (e.g., boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse) rather than other types of relationships.

Topics of discussion may include things such as:
>lasting damages stemming from manipulative or violent behavior and how to heal
>advice for leaving an ongoing relationship
>tips for protecting your physical, legal, or financial safety after leaving
>venting about past experiences
>recovery milestones, positive growth/changes made after abuses
>unlearning warped beliefs instilled by a past partner
>building new, healthy relationships with genuine love and respect

Please avoid infighting by comparing whose experiences were worse or blaming victims by implying that they "had it coming," "asked for it," or "deserved" the mistreatment. The feelings felt by victims are complex and women frequently experience genuine feelings of affection or attachment to their abusers, or face risks and consequences if they consider leaving; while it is desirable that all women who are in an unhealthy relationship may escape, please try to be sympathetic that sometimes a woman may hold onto lingering sentiments, wind up going back, or not feel ready/safe enough to immediately leave her situation just yet, and that these are all common and normal for these situations.
Many women find it stressful (and reminiscent of the abuser) when they are told what exactly they ought to do or feel in response to abusiveness, and it is often more helpful to encourage her to build her confidence and self-worth rather than push decisions onto her. The average woman attempts to leave 7 times before escaping for good.

Resources:
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No. 442400

>>442397
Nta but I really liked slaughterhouse five and found it weirdly inspiring. I find it safer to read stuff like that because it deals with similar emotions and fears (trauma issues) but it’s not too close to home since it’s about war and a male main character so it doesn’t make me spiral like some more relatable stories do

No. 444935

I've been keeping tabs on an ex that got pretty violent with me. Every few months he gets a new mughshot and another charge for BATTERY-TOUCH OR STRIKE (DOMESTIC). He's gotten three of them in the past year. I feel bad for whoever he's with now, but I'm kinda baffled that he hasn't been tossed in jail for a few days.

No. 455229

I've been in therapy for over a year trying to heal from a narcissistic relationship that ended almost four years ago. I know I'm getting better, but I'm just so sad it happened in the first place and that it destroyed me for so long. I think I'm finally starting to feel like myself again, and it's very unusual. I've literally never had this thought or desire at any point before, but the other week, I found myself wanting to contact my ex. I won't, but I almost miss him. These past three years I had never felt anything positive towards him after leaving him, and all of sudden I'm getting emotional about the good times. Why now? Maybe I just finally feel safe enough to explore that aspect of the relationship.


Also, I don't know if this anon >>407979 will see this but if you do I am still thinking of you fondly and hoping that you are doing okay. I hope you've found some peace in the present.

No. 455659

I know everyone's story is different but I learned something about certain abusers from my marriage (which just ended officially on paper THIS WEEK). He never took pleasure in the abuse. He didn't see himself as a controller or an authority. He always did it because he saw it as self defense when he was victimized. I feel like I got an idea from movies that a man would hit you for fun, or because he's some kind of sadist who accepts and enjoys being a bad person. So it threw me for a loop because he always made me feel like I was victimizing him in some way.
I "hurt him" when:
>I didn't send pictures to prove that I was out with friends instead of cheating
>I asked him to wash; he had "childhood neglect trauma" that I activated because his hippie mother never taught him to bathe or brush his teeth
>I stayed late at work, because it triggered his abandonment issues
>I listened to other musician friends' music, because I should have known he's self-conscious about his music and needs extra validation
>I spoke to someone too long at a party, which triggered his social anxiety
>I wouldn't let him have sex with me, because again, triggered his anxiety
>and more
It was because I was a horrible partner who failed to placate his many sensitivities. So I deserved to get stonewalled for days, have things thrown at me, get locked out of the house, and driven miles away to be kicked out of the car and abandoned on the side of the road. It really is still amazing that some people abuse because they think they are victims standing up for themselves.

No. 456228

>>455659
Sounds like male bippie behavior with the way every ounce of abuse you receive from them is justified in their eyes because they tell themselves it's your fault and insist that they are the eternal victims, with the constant need for validation over the littlest things, and needing your life to revolve around them 24/7 or they'll feel "abandoned".


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