/g/ - girl talk

>>136699
Dom from" Dick and Dom in da bungalow" (Right) anyone here from the uk??? lol I used to wake up early on a Saturday to watch them

>>152651
Kek, me AND my mum had a crush on him too and one day I cried because she told me she was closer to his age and had a bigger chance of marrying him. Good times.

>>152604
Fuck! I've been trying to remember what this show was for ages.
Tysm anon.

>>152496
This is an important post

>>152651
BOOOOOOOOGIEEEEEES

>>150756
This. He needs to trim that shit

I think it'd be hot to date a genuinely good man I dislike for extremely petty reasons, like his voice, mannerisms, etc. I'm neurotic and being conflicted in my attraction and annoyance sounds fun. I'm not sure if I'd let him know though.

>>149521
Jeans kill me. The Levi's with the button fly? Just pull and they go poppoppoppop

I love guys with moustaches and dark hair like on pic related. Especially paired with slight stubble and buttoned-up shirt.

>>100046
Good Taste

>>152544
My bf wears those exclusively. Very good.

>>152623
>tall girls are hot as hell though anon, don't be afraid to stand out a little - especially if you're going to a party/clubbing (?)
harrrrrd agree. Tall girls/women who're confident and rock their height especially in heels are hot af, you would stand out in the most positive way.

I've talked about her before on lolcow so lol if someone recognizes this story, but I have a friend who's 182cm (5'11) who wears heels to uni and she's 100% confident in her height and looks and she looks amazing. Confidence in your height is so attractive.

>>152623
Please don’t wear this

>>152636
Why not

>>152636
NTA but fuck off. I wouldn't wear those shoes either but there's nothing wrong with them. They're just not my taste. Let people where what they want, autist

>>152636
>>152636
lol i posted the pic and they're not even my taste, i'm just trying to help op find some cute flat shoes. weirdo

Does anyone else hate cardio because it feels like having a panic attack? Like once I get to an intense level I feel like I'm not in control of my body at all and I hate it. Especially running my brain goes "oh we're being chased yes?" and I get overwhelmed with fear.

My goal for the rest of the year is to build up my cardio fitness slowly. It's the best exercise for my mental health so it's ironic I'm too damaged to enjoy doing it.

This morning I did a short cardio kickboxing class, low intensity but still broke a sweat. It's not much but it's a start.

>>152584
Maybe you can try dancing? I'm sure there are dance routines to music that you enjoy and tons of styles to try! I'm also building up my cardio resistance and aside from walking and running, I love to dance to Just Dance lol

>>152584
I absolutely felt like this and yes you do just have to retrain your body's associations.
I got into running on a treadmill because I made a really good playlist and concentrated on 'dancing in a straight line', because I love dancing. I made the playlist around the same bpm which helped with that.
I also got into interval training using a skipping rope because the sprinting makes me anxious but you only do it for a minute.

I have a super flabby stomach and lots of back fat but I'm fairly low in weight on the scale (130 lbs at 5'10). I'm limited on what exercise I could do (due to a bad back) so I'm curious if you guys have any suggestions on what exercise I could do? Or diet?

>>152612
I definitely don't think you should focus on losing weight anon, it sounds like you're already on the lower end of where you should be. Likely just a matter of needing to recomp. I'd follow a basic "clean" diet i.e. not a lot of trans fats or carbs but make sure you're getting enough protein so your body can build more muscle. If there's a place you can swim, that's good for reducing impact. You can also adapt a lot of typical exercises to be more back-friendly, like doing planks instead of crunches or wall sits instead of squats. Incorporating weights into a basic routine will be useful for toning, and you can get some pretty cheap dumbbells.

>>152357
I'm sorry but who in their right mind thinks it's ok after you've just had sex with your partner for the first time to then compare their genitals to the genitals of all your exes!!?… what the hell is wrong with this man?

Clits are small, even as a lesbian I need to get to know what works for each new partner that I have, it's not an anatomy issue, different strokes work for different women and it can just take a bit of communication to learn what works. You don't give up on the idea of them ever coming after one or two sessions. I'm way more concerned about the way he's talking to you (when you've only just started being intimate) and I'm less inclined to think you have some anomaly going on with your genitals. He sounds like a selfish lover if he's so quick to say this
> he was unsure he could get me off with it being so small
I'm going to say this is a red flag for him being a selfish lover and someone who is quick to misplace blame onto you, it reads as
>I'm probably not going to get you off, I've given up already, but that's your fault
Isn't that just too convenient.

>>152108
Late reply but, I used a dildo before ever having sex. The first 5 or 6 times using the toy I still bled. It wasn't alot and it wasn't bright red either. It was pink (blood mixed with my own natural lube I guess) I wasn't expecting to bleed beyond the first time but everyones hymen stretches a little differently and mine was a tough one. I had pain for the first few sessions too but I liked that I had both control over it and privacy in that moment? It's not something I would've wanted to share with a partner.

Totally up to you whether you want to stretch it by yourself or wait.

>>152108
Follow the advice other girls gave you, but also let me tell you from personal experience there was no blood for me when I broke my hymen, all me and my bf at the time noticed were tiny bits of skin. You know that type of skin where you bite the inside of your mouth and a piece of skin falls out? If you ever took it out of your mouth to see what it looks like - that's what a broken hymen looked like for me kek
So once you break your hymen yourself it might not be that big of a deal after all.

I got into a mild bike accident today and suffered from a straddle injury. I basically crushed my whole weight onto the cross bar and fell. It hurt so much and there's so much blood - swelling has started and there's a hematoma. Any other anons ever had this? It hurts a lot to touch the labia majora and I have two incision-like wounds. Any advice? I put on some cream and let it breathe so far.

>>152625
Did you go to a doctor? Sounds dangerous, hope you feel better, my instinct tells me to ice it but idk would that be safe

>>114320
Keep up basic things like hygiene and maintaining a moderate weight, maybe do some hair or skin care, and you're good. Perhaps I just have a warped sense of reality from all the time I've spent online, but after all these years of seeing people praise homely girls or being generally desperate for any human affection at all, I don't think others really give a shit what you look like.
But who knows, maybe I am just coping with being hairy.

Do anons really think getting strangers' attention means you aren't ugly?

This isnt a humblebrag, I genuinely live on a rollercoaster of "Im ok how i look" to "Im an abomination who should kms." Pretty much any time I notice my looks in a pic or whatever, it's the latter. I can't get a good read on what I look like. I just know I have a big nose, weird smaller mouth, yellowish teeth, and my hips/thighs are too wide with small boobs. The nose, but also the pear shape bothers me the most. I feel embarrassed especially to sit, so wide like a frumpy mom. Im trying to improve what I wear, but it always comes back to me. Not underweight but i guess skinny fat, and it gathers there

I'm asking because in this thread, some say "Men dont pay me attention so I must be ugly." There could be other reasons? And, isnt it possible to be average/ugly even if they do? Ive had guys approach before and such, but I thought scrotes were just desperate? Maybe they see a homely girl and feel secure enough to do so, actually.

I guess I am hoping it may be true that I'm not ugly, but I highly doubt it. The features I described tear me apart every time I get ready for the day

>>152575
It's hard to tell without pics but pear shape is the second best after the perfect hourglass imo, wide hips will always be considered attractive by anyone who's into women, I much prefer it to the wide shoulders and big boobs + no ass body type, also ages much better.
I relate to how you feel though, I was bullied for my looks when I was young (tall and lanky, pale as a ghost with acne and dark hair) and I still feel like that dorky kid even though I look ok now I guess? I have some really good pictures of myself but they are the ones that people look at and say "wow I wouldn't recognize you there!" so it's hard to know what I look like when photos make me look like a different person.
Back to your post, I don't think men would approach you if you were ugly (unless they're also ugly). You can definitely be average and get approached, but average doesn't equal bad/unattractive. I think most ugly people would give a limb to be average.

>>152576
Oh man, im ayrt and it bothers me you were bullied for that. Other than the acne (which is normal) I see those qualities as beautiful, it's a shame you still have to feel the effects. I am sorry that just sounds so harsh.

Thank you for your input, I appreciate it. And I know people say pear shape is good but for me it makes my head look small and is hard to dress. (aside from feeling freakish) Im slowly assembling better outfits but its such a chore to redo your closet. Feels like pants in general aren't flattering to hips(if the top's too tight they look big, if it's loose head small) but Im trying to find ways

I feel I could learn to just accept myself, but I'll never get over the fact that my ugliness also caused me to be stupider from lack of oxygen/energy. Mouth breather face is a curse.

ntayrt
>>152489
Do you genuinely do this though anon?
It's a difficult one.

>>152502
>I restrain his arms behind back, I lay on my side as he clumsily struggles to balance himself while thrusting.

That sounds like a fun idea. Sometimes you don't want to do all the work.

how do i find a femdom gf if i live in chicago? i have been called a cute twink. sorry im a male.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

>>152594
Leave, scrote

>>152596
>pretends
classic scrote. liars. can't even fucking sage. go back to r/r4r

>>152217
Wish people would stop using the phrase 'you are literally insane if you think this thing'

More than 6 inches is a bonus

>>152246
Not necessarily. Over 16 or 17 cm equals pain

>>152217
Guys lie about their size all the time and I doubt most guys are letting people fucking them take out a tape measure to get the exact figure. Half the time a 6inch cock and really a 4inch one blah blah blah. So for some girls "6 inches" will feel unfulfilling whereas "4 inches" for some will be snug.

>>152257
I meant personally.., I'm not saying what other women like. That's my own preference

>>151991
>Pornsick scrote
>only got off with hours of masochism
>Extremely downward curved dick

Even his dick was disappointed in him, glad you're free anon

>>152509
I would love to have children, but I'm in my late 20s and I don't see how I could get my life together within the next 5 years so that I might be able to support a family


>>152541
This is one my major concerns as well. The mere thought of my mom and dad dying instantly brings tears to my eyes and a crushing feeling in my chest. Very few people around me seem to be able to relate to this sentiment

>>152541
i'm having similar fears about my grandparents who pretty much raised me. they're both 87 and in great health, but i'm 27 and they aren't gonna live forever and it scares the shit out of me. that's the part i hate about aging, i don't care about how i'll too much, i'm just terrified of my family dying all around me and having no control over it.

>>152559
All my grandparents died very recently in short succession and it's such a bizarre, melancholy feeling.
I loved my paternal grandparents and I loved visiting them/staying at their family house as a child, now the house has been sold and walking past it whenever I visit my hometown makes me feel so weird. I have this urge to walk into the yard and say hello but then I remember nobody I know lives there anymore. My father and my aunt haven't been on speaking terms since they died and nobody wants to tell me why.

My mom's eyes well up every time I mention my maternal grandma, the two of them were really close since my grandpa died when mom was 7 and was very physically abusive.
Now my mom is all alone and I can see she's taking it very hard, and I live abroad so both my parents are alone with nobody else to talk to except some friends here and there, plus the corona situation is really bad where they live and they're in their 60s so I'm scared for them a lot but can't visit until the epidemic is over.

I don't care much about getting older, even my parents never mention missing their youth much, my dad always says "I wish I were 35 again, back then I still had prospects to do new things and now I'm a tired pensioner and there's nothing for me to do", neither of them miss their 20s but their 30s. I just want them to live long and be healthy for as long as possible, I can't stand the thought of them getting sick and slowly wasting away far away from me, or dying suddenly and leaving me all alone. They're huge tinfoil retards who don't know how to take care of themselves but I love them and I'm so scared of them dying.

They're all I have in life, I come from a third world shithole, was born into a poor family with no political connections and had to move abroad to find work so I could have some savings to take care of them when they're older and so my mom can renovate her bathroom like she's been wanting to for 10 years. Just thinking about losing my parents makes me have a panic attack, I'd miss them so much I don't know what I would do. They've given me everything.

Sorry for the massive post, I just had to get this out of my system.

>>152541
My mom died when I was 20, all my grandparents were dead before then. I'm not even close to my dad but I dread that day because I'll truly have no family after that.

Never lost a nights sleep to worries about getting my own wrinkles or anything like that, that barely gets a moments thought from me. It's losing people that keeps me awake at night

>>152541
This is the only thing that I'm looking forward to as I age. They were terrible parents and I hope to live long enough to dance on their graves.

>>152560
I recently came back to 4chan after years of sporadic visits and I wonder if woman hate there was always this bad and I had been too young to notice back then, or if it got worse lately. Even /co/mblr is full of incels now.

>>152561
It's a coping mechanism for undesirable men who understand that in the modern world, where women have choices and no longer need the support of men, they don't stand a chance. The ones in denial (who refuse to settle) will go online and anonymously shame women to settle for them. It's really the only card they have to play and it makes perfect sense imo.

It's also ridiculously easy to spot these kinds of guys in the wild because they usually live in a fantasy world. Unless you are a literal gremlin (even then it is iffy) looks alone will not exclude you from love. I've seen soooo many couples who would both generally be considered unattractive but found happiness in each other regardless. These guys just have had their brains melted by too many fictional movies/TV/games/porn.

>>152563
It was always bad, also many boards are full of pedos (I'm not talking just about guys jerking off to teens but kids under 10, like /tv/ only recently started banning "cunny" threads where men were lusting after 7-10 year old child "models" from instagram, I still remember guys saying they would love to perform oral sex on a 7 year old girl someone posted). They only hate homosexual pedophilia but straight pedophilia is ok. I don't know why but I tried to argue with one of those subhumans (probably because I'm a victim of CSA myself and my blood was boiling) and he sent me "studies" that prove pedophilia isn't harmful but the taboo around it is https://pastebin.com/rtwHRvbW

>>152569
Forgot to add: age of consent is jewish agenda and should be abolished

>>152569
That picture in the screencap makes me cringe every time I see it. That guy was incredibly rich and their marriage was controversial even at the time. It got a ton of shitty media coverage for Tennessee and they almost immediately upped the legal age of marriage after this case became known.

For some reason, pedos seem to think it was the norm back in Ye Olden Days for old men to marry little girls, but that's pretty inaccurate. The census information from England and the US says the average median age of marriage for women was around 20-25 from the 1700s-1800s. The lowest (recorded) median age is probably in the 1950s.

Child marriages still happened because women had no rights, but that particular case wasn't normal or accepted at all by most people. Children also worked in factories and men died in coalmines, super great times for everyone.