/g/ - girl talk

>>518632
Me. My fetish is cannibalism. Especially fat men.

>>519590
I get that, but it kinda sucks to be around people who'd regard you as a freak for the things you like? That's not my kind of life.

>>519756
you want to eat fat moids? Damn ok

This reddit post was most likely made by some guy taking the piss but I am not joking, I AM SERIOUS.
>>518045
Haha, same.

>>518045
Which of the two do you like better?

>>519144
I'd be a bit of a hypocrite for getting mad since there are some old songs with racist lyrics against asians (Tyler's lol) that I still love listening to. I care more how I'm treated directly. The U.S. has cops killing black people for no reason every day and many hate crimes disguised as "standing your ground", but I never heard of a black person being killed in Korea just for existing. There's racism in both countries, but the U.S. is much more anti-black (then and now) and also gives non-black immigrants way more priority over black ones by giving them free shit and kissing their ass. at least Korea is xenophobic towards all non-koreans.

>>519156
I just don't defend any of them. I also feel like black women have no reason to defend Tyler after the weird murder/rape lyrics (I know he was "being edgy" and blablabla, but at the end of the day, he's a moid lol) and that "got all the black bitches mad 'cause my main bitch vanilla" line.
I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, S Korea wouldn't care or report on it if a black person was killed, and they verifiably treat white foreigners better because they want white power/validation. I've seen blasians and wasians attest to this too.

>>519158
Not defending btw. But it's not just moids. nicki and meg also had sus lyrics regarding asians in songs I enjoy, and it doesn't make me wanna cancel them. And the very pretty white foreigners do get good treatment, but it's surface-level compared to how well non-black foreigner are treated in the US. Do you see the Korean government giving thousands of them free hotel rooms and apartments and food stamps (or whatever the Korean equivalent is) just for being white? No, only stupid racist white democrats in the US do that bullshit for Mexcians.

>>519020
Not everyone who dislikes troon defending sjws is a fag nonnie.

do you have any recommendations for relatively low stress jobs that you can work your way up or be paid well enough to live off of? I don't need anything fancy, I have a bachelors but the climate (and also my personality) really doesn't suit the corporate world and the passive-aggressiveness and undercurrent of hostility that I'm not actually wanted there because they're petty enough to be bothered that i'm both black and a woman. Even if it's being a fucking janitor, what are your suggestions? I am also open to multiple jobs at once but like most of us online people I do prefer wfh jobs.

kek, I kind of wanted to rant about the little things about my husbando. some people claim he has no redeeming qualities but in my view he does. well. some of the following is pretty subjective!
>the only one in his conniving group that actually shows care for another one, wanting her to truly enjoy herself and even got murderous when someone else tried to kill her
>super expressive, the silliest things can drive him to joy or whimsical exasperation, he's so fun to witness
>he's actually a huge bookworm and probably has a scientific mindset sometime in spite of how feral he seems
>just wants to have fun, part of why he's so hated is because he's so unconstrained
>I adore how soft, pretty and sweet he sounds sometime but how brutal and visceral he voice can get too
>moe gap. nobody else sees it but I do
>probably counts as monster fucking which I find really funny, but also hot because he just has so much potential
>in some state of nudity for half of the time and has a gorgeous, virile body given suspicious amounts of screentime
>nonzero chance that the mangaka likes him more than most of the actual fan faves, there's just so much life and creativity poured into this character
that's just the more superficial stuff.

I haven't keep up with his series news in a while. There's an alarm clock app. It's paid for but if I find a pirated APK you bet your ass I'm going to spend an abusrd amount of time trying to rip the voices from whatever server the app uses so I can listen to him all the time everytime everyday 24/7 on every device that can play an mp4 file.

>>520097
i've really been liking the dancing edits lol even though they are super ironic given the story
the skinwalking is pretty creepy tbh

I’m so horny for him I’m thinking about him every waking hour of the day.

>>520047
kek i was joking. they are terrible, but known for wearing similar big chains.
it's crazy how things which are red flags irl are free of bad connotations in 2d. big chains on 2d men are hot.

>>516363
and her

>>516364
and also her

Wanted to post this but there's a moid. Sorry for the shoddy emojis

>>518871
>>518980
>>519547
I appreciate the supportive replies. I feel so alone right now and none of my friends check on me. Maybe it's because I don't show my emotions so freely, but I'm dying inside lol.
People are so incredibly negative about the 30's dating pool that it makes me feel blackpilled. Plus I just can't believe I've been rug pulled by someone I trusted. This just makes me feel so scared of getting close to anyone. And I don't think I could financially swing being a single mom by choice.
There will be no oopsie baby with a rando, I want to do it right or not at all. I'll try again some day to find someone, but in the mean time, I just have to fill my life up with things that give it meaning regardless if this all works out or not.

>Finally got /fit/ and lost a lot of weight since Ive struggled with my weight and looks since jr high
>Wear cute clothes that my younger self always wanted to wear
>less insecure overall
>happier in general
>Broke up with my awful ex bf and am now in a long term relationship with a younger man who treats me well
>Got to experience peak internet

I genuinely am ok with turning 30 soon tbh The only insecurity that I have with my age is that I’m still struggling to finish school and don’t have a “big girl” job yet. That’s the one thing I hate about getting older is the expectation for you to have achieved certain things by a certain age. I think the attitude is slowly changing though especially with how the economy is going. I’m just happy I’m not homeless. Overall, I know my younger self would be so happy and proud of current me and that’s keeping me going. she’d also be happy I didn’t end up killing myself but improving my self

>>519708
Awww I'm glad you made her proud nona, never forget what you are capable of!

>>519030
> younger women do have kids with health issues as well
This so much. I know someone who had a Down’s syndrome kid at 30 with a 37 yr old scrote. Who’d have thunk 37 yrs is geriatric for male sperm in some men? I think it’s 30-35 when sperm declines in quality depending on lifestyle factors. He probably fucked up his dna too by being an alcoholic.

>>332611
I just turned 28 and I think it's crazy I'm so close to 30 while still feeling like a loser teenager. I'm on my 3rd attempt in uni, still stuck with family, no love life. Never had the money to really live the life I want, and I always tried telling myself to wait until I'm older to party, and live the fun adult life later. Now, it's later and I have nothing to show for it. Without a degree, I'm stuck in minimum wage and I'm trying but I never get anywhere. I pray everyday for a lotto win but I know how likely that is. I feel sick with envy when I see someone my age or younger with the life I want. Some days I wish I wasn't alive. I just needed to vent.

>>518578
They're hypocrites. Society is bombarded with straight stuff 24/7, almost NSFW. We need to bring back being prudes.

>>519730
Nonnie you are in the lesbian thread, none of us want to be with anyone but women. We may be a very tiny slice of the populace but we are out here. I don't know where you are in the world but please do not feel too awful about yourself. I think we're all just trying to find each other at this point.

>>514442
AYRT I heard complaints about this too, I think there was discourse about it. I don't agree that it's male gaze-y because if it was then it would be a whole lot more explicit. It's just really sensual. I heard all the sex scenes were filmed with the (male) director in a different room, leaving just the female actors and a female crew member, so as to respect their space and intimacy.

I think it may be the tism but uh… does anyone else here have paranoia about STDs?

Like, I haven't had sex in a long time but I just couldn't do it with just anyone and she'd have to get a full STD panel beforehand… help?

It's just that [redacted] often do it with [redacted] and carry god knows what… I'm a gold star personally so I worry.

>>520108
This is why I'm happy my gf and I lost our virginity together. I can't imagine getting with a normie woman consider the higher risk of STDs and herpes…

>>519262
Of course we don't need more than one outfit, music, clubs or makeup. Isn't this common sense? People have hobbies and interest. Physical items are sometimes the interest or way to express ones self. Clothing and any form of artifice are complimentary and inform others about yourself.

>>519691
do we need to buy music CDs/vinyls/tapes/wax cylinders/files?

>>519691
I'm obviously not critical of individuality, I'm critical of the rampant shopping addictions in the goth subculture.

>>519864
they are buying too much crap and not enough quality

>>517483
>As a fellow millennial, I hate to say it but you are right. I mean personally, I didn't have too many bad experiences with trads compared to others but tbf, I didn't interact with a lot of them and the few I did were helpful though I did hear stories of some of the not so welcoming trads who didn't help newcomers as much
Where I lived the Trads were very close knit. They thought we were there for the clothes and Marilyn Manson. They weren't welcoming to us, sometimes they'd give us disgusted looks and we thought they were bullies. I remember the online forums I found nicer Trads in the group. Most of them were women, I don't remember if men joined the conversation. But now that I'm older I get why they were territorial.

>Because so many of our generation practice openness to the point where we allowed things that didn't have anything to do with goth, namely politics & "gender identity". I know that politics had somewhat been a thing with the trads but they made sure for the most part to keep the goth subculture and politics separate.
Yeah that was us. Too open and accepting of everything because we were encouraged to do it and because we thought our parents weren't accepting enough. Politics was there with Trads but it wasn't harped on like it is now. I recall one said "George Bush is a fucking idiot!" and everyone agreed Dubya was a dummy. We left it like that because goth isn't solely about politics. People had their ideas but like you said it stayed separate.

>These people certainly existed back in the 2000s but it went into overdrive when Instagram and later TikTok became popular.
That's the sad part because it gave those people a platform when they didn't need one. Now any freaky, retarded, or undiagnosed schizophrenic can misrepresent any topic because they have an IP address. Back then if people had borderline psychotic ideas we gave them a wide berth. KingCobraJFS reminds me of someone like that. Unhinged rants that we would have ignored or straight up told him to chill the fuck out. Now if a genderspecial wants to scream "Gothisaboutblackeyelinerandanime and if you don't agree with me you're all gatekeeping elitist MOTHERFUCKERRRSSSS!" They can do it and forever change the definition of _______ (fill in the blank.)
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>>498551
MANY are, which is why I will only date a man who can at least fucking initiate and show interest in asking me out on a first date. Men gain so much more from a relationship than a woman. The bare minimum is that a man can be sexy and confident and ask you out. Men who wait for women to do this are gross.

>>498236
>Have you ever had an attractive guy approach you and just straight up ask for your number?
No never, this is why I have to take matters into my own hands.

Matched with a woman on bumble, she had really thirst trap-y pics so I shot my shot and said something really cringe about wanting her to sit on my face. But she seemed to love it and we had a VERY sexual convo about her tying me up and using me as a sex toy and she started sending me lingerie pics and stuff. But then mid convo she just unmatched me? Did she just want attention or what? She seemed to be into it but I guess not? I hate it here.

I thought I could put bumble just to have a good looking scelte and go on a date after my exam, but why is it so fucking boring? I thought I could even have sex here and there with the ones who I really liked , but that seems far fetched now kek. I think I have lost interest in men and dating men but I still struggle with the idea of wanting them I guess.
And I’ve tried real life too, it’s the same, no one ever catches my eye so much that I want to engage with them.

God I hate when moids use full body pics of themselves when they’re like 9+ feet away from the camera and you can hardly gauge what they look like post a proper selfie you coward

I wanted a lighter brown but stylist gave me auburn brown and now dark brown. I want to get it lighter and dye it a lighter brown with box dye myself.
Would you recommend using a color remover like pic related or the classic baking soda, vitamin c and head and shoulders diy thing? I want the best integrity for my hair possible. Im not trying to lift the color a lot just a lighter brown but not blonde. Not looking for bleach. I used color oops years ago and it made my hair damaged imo so I’m thinking of using color fix now.

Does anyone have any recommendations for a hair product to use in order to keep braids sleek? Braids are one of the only hair styles I can do but they look so frizzy.

>>517148
I've got thick long hair but a bit looser (2C-3A) so take this with a grain of salt, but a recent game changer has been to apply a strong hold gel then NOT scrunch out the gel cast after drying the hair. By letting the wear of the day and sleep do the work of removing the cast you end up with curls that stay in place with minimal frizz for a few days. I would suggest something like a curl custard since it'll have ingredients that both moisturize and lock in that moisture (picrel is my recommendation). As far as haircuts go, you can't go wrong with layers. They'll free up some weight to allow the curls to spring up and create fun textures around the head. You don't necessarily have to spend $200+ on a curly cut these days but when shopping for hairdressers definitely look at their portfolio/before and afters

My birthday is coming up and I want to get a Dyson hair dryer from Costco. Does anyone else have one and think it’s worth it? Keep in mind my husband is paying.

>>519200
you're a lifesaver, thank you so much! i'll give your method a try after my shower today, and i'll look into the curlsmith styling soufflé.

i also just picked up that product skala that every curly influencer recommends and it's actually pretty great, so there's my contribution to the thread- if you're looking for a mask or leave-in for 2c and beyond curls, the blue skala made an immediate difference on my (healthy) curls.

>>519902
Please do.

Im in a really retarded position because my taste doesnt match my femdom desires. Im a permadom, huge sadist and degrader and all of that, men who are into that shit are either fat degens or twinks who are two months away from trooning out and thats just not what I like. I like buff, tall, traditionally masculine men. And the logistics dont match my kink too dammit, Im short as fuck so I wouldnt be able to pin a 6'0 man to a wall or anything like that. At times I wish I was more into women because it would be easier to dom and shove around someone whos my size, but unforunately I have a male pref. Such stupidity.

>>519963
My boyfriend is a foot taller than me, has 70 lbs on me, and I dominate him just fine. I've pinned his wrists, slapped him, choked him, and pushed him down. I lead him around by his balls. It's really not a big deal. And if you don't want to do all that, then that's what words are for. Command him to do what you want. Do you think you need to fully restrain a moid as he's fighting back at 100% to be in control?
A lot of dominant women like masculine men by the way, not many want trooned out sissyfags.

>>519823
Any Tomino male character really since the man himself has an older woman femdom kink and it bleeds into his work. But Cronicle is probably the biggest examples imo with Char not far behind.

>>519893
you're so right for this.
god i love him…