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No. 285054[Reply]

This thread is for talking about the trauma girls get from losing a best friend. Stories, advice, and venting welcome
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No. 311416

I guess we just grew apart. I miss her so so much, it's like she's forgotten about me. I don't think she knows much much I loved her. It hurts me that I meant so little to her in comparison. She made me laugh harder than anyone else in the world. It's been years but I still miss her achingly.

No. 311445

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We were joined at the hip for years, spent hours on the phone every day. People often asked if we were lesbians bc we dressed like butches and had bad haircuts. She dumped me in high school because I hooked up with a boy. I was too young and I regret it but I don’t know why she dumped me over it. She was the one who was obsessed with sex and never showed a puritanical mentality. I regret not trying to get her back. I was too hurt. We just never spoke about it even though we were in the same social circle and had a few classes together.

I’m an adult now and haven’t seen her since we graduated. One time she accidentally texted me but that was years ago now. She doesn’t have social media so idk how to reach her but I’ve been tempted to. It really sucks because I’ve had other “best friends” and it’s never been the same. Everyone pisses me off. I just watch stupid anime like Nana and Carole & Tuesday and live vicariously through these fictional friendships. I doubt I’ll ever have anything like that again. It hurts because this website really reminds me of her because I feel like it’s something she would use… idk. She might be full normie now.

If any nonna reads this pls lmk if you think it would be too creepy if I tried to reach out to her after so many years.

No. 311448


I don’t think it would be creepy! I personally wouldn’t do it because if I didn’t get a response it would make me too sad, but I don’t think it would be creepy to try!

No. 311458

You have nothing to lose by reaching out and everything to gain by doing so. She was lame and hypocritical for dumping you for hooking up with a moid but teenagers are all insanely retarded and she has to have changed throughout the years. Reach out nonnie!!

No. 311467

No it's not creepy at all if you send her a short casual message, if she doesn't want to talk to you she can just not reply. I have an online friend of 10+ years I got in touch with again after years of not talking to each other (it was mainly me being an asshole that was the reason for that) and I can def recommend.

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No. 222273[Reply]

Anything you want or desire, the Universe will provide you with it.

Post about your manifestation journey, goals and successes.

Tips and advice are welcome!
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No. 311206

I will lose at least 40lb by the end of the year.

No. 311244

you should strive to become a kinder person this year

No. 311298

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I will give my room a makeover with a more aesthetic look. I will organize and clear up all junk in our house and yard. It's already the second month of a new year and I'm so tired of living in clutter with old ugly stuff with my family.

No. 311425

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I passed emergency medicine with 31/30. It was very chill and easy I overstudied per usual but it definitely paid off because I answered all of the questions correctly, seeing 100% correct with a full green circle on the screen at the end of my exam was the most satisfying feeling in the entire world. Another exam out of the way! I'm super happy and relieved. I'm going out with my friends to celebrate the exams we've passed!

No. 311438

they will both call me for an interview very soon

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No. 255346[Reply]

thread for harm reduction, support and venting
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No. 310920

nta but if you are back at normal bmi and eat a healthy diet i'd just wait, let everything heal and balance out instead of freaking out about having to gain more. stress won't help with anything.

No. 310921

For me it took 5 years, but there might've been psychological stuff interfering. Admittedly I didn't do much about it, apart from going to the gynecologist once, she prescribed me progesterone pills but they did nothing so I just shrugged it off and two years after that my period just appeared out of nowhere.

No. 311030

mine came back after around 5 6 months? because i lost weight slowly and was skinny to start with, i lost my period relatively later than other patients. idk if your situation is similar but maybe like me, you can re-gain your period at a higher weight than you lost it. (for reference, i got my period back around 1 bmi point higher than when i lost it).

No. 311059

My situation was the opposite, and my period became weird even before becoming uw but I appreciate the answer still. I'll just keep waiting.

Unrelated, but does anyone look at photos from their lowest point and cringe? I just feel embarassed knowing I walked around like that and acted like everything was normal. The weirdest thing is I got a lot of attention from normie men, even though I looked like skeletor.

No. 311429

I've noticed I've lost weight again, especially because I'm not sedentary anymore, and all I can think about is that I've been passively restricting. I'm so disappointed nonitas

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No. 303497[Reply]

a lifetime of chronic stress and trauma has manifested as chronic pain. i believe i have piriformis syndrome, the muscle over the sciatic nerve is fucked up and im in excruciating pain constantly. please offer any advice, opinions, or suggestions you might have to help alleviate the pain, im really desperate. ive been suffering with this pain for almost two years now and i dont know what to do. stretching makes it worse, walking is painful, the pain is not alleviated by literally anything im so fucking desperate please help

No. 303501

A traumatic event left me with chronic pain. For two years I’m trying to make it better. Try vagus nerve massages you can find it all over YT. Also vidrel I find effective. My vagus nerve is fucked up idk if your plays a role in it you can google how to check that. Other than that relaxation. Body awareness meditations for example yoga nidra. Breathing exercises. Fight the stress. Make your life as comfy as possible. Believe in recovery. You are not alone I’m here suffering too. I believe in us

No. 303507

My sister has similar issues. However, many people think that fibromyalgia, chronic pain, inability to walk without pain, etc is fake. Do you know why people think it's fake? Is it because there are a lot of fakers out there? Are there even a lot of fakers?

No. 311368

yeah i think that's why, lots of ppl that are chronically ill are vocal about it and very fat, so most ppl will assume their fatness is causing the problems
i'm in a 5 week pain therapy atm and it's great at letting me understand my own pain better
i may have eds but i'll go get genetically tested to make sure cus i don't want to sound like a spoonie

No. 311418

I honestly think people in general just aren’t very empathetic if they can’t see visual proof of something they don’t believe it’s real. I can’t show people my pain and I’m skinny and healthy looking so they assume I must be healthy and if I try to explain it I come off as a snowflake.

I think I have EDS— I had a PT who said she was certain of it— but every doctor I’ve ever brought it up to has done the “well we don’t have a means of testing for it or curing it so Idk what you want from me” script which is so fuckijg annoying

Some times it’s randomly way worse than other time. Some days punching the buttons on my microwave hurts my fingers or I can injure my wrist trying to open a fucking jar or my knee randomly can’t support my weight and other times I’m just an average bendy bitch

No. 311426

OP do you think you might have CRPS?

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No. 310088[Reply]

Discuss family planning, birth, pregnancy, conception, fertility, and any other baby-related topic in this thread.
Refrain from posting if you dislike children or are childfree.
Old threads
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No. 311388

For me, the hair loss started 6mo postpartum and lasted for about 6 weeks. Lost about a cm around my entire hairline, my “sideburns”, and about 70% of the volume in triangular sections near my temples. It looked and felt like a lot to me, but wasn’t immediately obvious to anyone else apparently. It’s been about 16 months since then and everything has come back, although some of the stubborn areas are only at about 10cm of growth. Like you, I was seriously freaked out and considering consulting a doctor, but I guess some of us just draw the short straw on those hormones. It’s fairly normal.

No. 311410

Been half ass trying for a baby after my miscarriage, but a part of me feels exhausted and dread the thought of becoming pregnant again. It was a rough 3 months of miscarriage healing and the 3 months I was pregnant was so miserable I hated every moment of it. The whole ordeal was traumatic and I felt like cattle constantly undressing for my doctors to probe me for every visit. I feel less human now than before and im depressed for my loss. I guess nobody really talks about the sad parts of pregnancy.

No. 311412

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so i purchased an amazon c shaped pregnancy pillow a couple of weeks ago but absolutely hated it. it was so bulky and took up like 3/4 of my bed, plus it got flat after a week of use. i really wanted a bbhugme but the price is insane to get it shipped to canada. i luckily found it on fb marketplace the other day for $50, and omg. it is so worth the money. you can adjust the firmness and position in it so many ways. i highly recommend it! try to find it second hand if you can

No. 311413

I had similar but I also had cancer before pregnancy. I just took fish oil and vitamins and it helped tons

No. 311478

Anon lmaooooooooooooo I love it thank you

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No. 160656[Reply]

Ever since I can remember I have felt old, even as a child in elementary school. Back then I told myself it's silly and I'm still a child but now, after turning 20, I am slowly starting to stress over my age again despite still being very young.
I am convinced that many women and girls feel the same as social media is especially obsessed with youth which must be rotting our brains to a degree.

>What are your thoughts on getting older? Do you struggle with accepting it?

>Have you ever had an experience in which you were perceived as lesser due to your age?
>How do you cope with the unrealistic age related expectations put on women?
>Do you have any tips to help other women with the problems mentioned above?
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No. 311351

>wanting highschoolers to have kids

No. 311373

the reason there's an increased amount of autism is therapists overdiagnosing autism combined with social media and retards like you

No. 311375

For someone who hates autistics this hard, you sound like an autist yourself. I'm someone who works in med field and the rise of autism is definitely because of over diagnosis, wrongly diagnosing normal but antisocial or weird people as autists is unfortunately very common.

No. 311377

you sound like a pedophile

No. 311411

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I literally dressed like picrel after I hit 25 because I thought it was "age appropriate" and being into altfash was at that age was "cringe" and people were judging me, then at 30 I found an alternative fashion I absolutely fell in love with and now my entire wardrobe is filled with it and I'm just loving it so much and going to wear it to my old folks home. Thinking that it's only for the very tiny age slot of 16 to 24 is retarded, I'm not going to wear mom attire for 50 years just so some insecure petty bitches don't have to feel bad about not having the spine to put on anything past sweaters and skinny jeans themselves.

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No. 180309[Reply]

I noticed we have a lot of ladies on here who struggle with drinking problems so I decided to make this thread.

>Talk about your relationship with alcohol, negative or positive

>Are you an alcoholic, how much do you drink and how often
>Healthy coping mechanisms
>Brag about sober streaks and encourage other anons
>Tapering, rehab etc discussion

If you're happy and drunk go to the drunk thread. >>>/ot/204765 This is for more critical discussion of drinking once you're sober.
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No. 307224

I started drinking right around 20, to cope with stress. Anytime I drank I felt better and had less "aches and pains" which I mentioned to doctors several times. They all just labeled it as part of my depression, anxiety and PTSD blah blah. Well… the drinking got worse and worse. A few very embarrassing incidents, painful ones for me and my loved ones. Finally cut back but drank in secret to cope with daily pain and fatigue. One morning I woke up with searing pain in my heels, blurred vision and extreme joint stiffness. Far more than I had ever experienced. After months of testing it turns out I have rheumatoid arthritis and another AI disease. All that pain I was drinking away came from a legitimate condition, which worsened due to the alcohol consumption. Nonnas, if you're drinking to cope for whatever reason please go see a Healthcare professional. Don't fuck yourself up like I did. Fortunately I'll be alright, but I lost years and made terrible mistakes. Always seek help and don't give up.

No. 307427

I've been reading this thread and it's crazy how a lot of people picked up the worst of there habits from quarantine. I did as well so I feel a little comfort in knowing it's not just me. I didn't really drink like that until I was 22 after overdosing on molly and had to pick up a new vice. At first it was normal amounts and only when going out or at house parties but slowly turned into binge drinking during those events. During quarantine I'd be able to kill a 12 pack and some more by myself and that's also when drinking by myself became normalized to me. When things started opening up again, I got broken up with (mainly bc of my binge drinking) and immediately started seeing an old fwb who would eventually become my partner at the time. We only had weekends together and he'd always wanna go to the bar which was cool but it was very much enabling looking back bc I definitely warned him about how I drink. That relationship, like the previous ended as well bc he couldn't handle my binge drinking despite my warnings. That relationship was only 6 months long but that break up wrecked my world to this day for various reasons and was the cause of so many fucked up things I've said or done while drunk in the months after. I'm currently 25 and trying to do a dry January but I fucked up twice already. I keep trying to remind myself how I feel after a night of binge drinking and how depressed I get in the days after. I drank on Friday, missed work Saturday and I've barely gotten out of bed and haven't ate since.

No. 307434

Samefagging but I also wanted to mention that besides the depression I deal with from binge drinking on top of regular depression, I've also started blacking out way too easily and going into psychosis. I'm positive I deal with psychosis while sober but some of the day after stories I've been hearing about myself have been worrying. For comic relief… recently I met up with a guy from tinder at his place and after knocking back all the beer he bought for me I demanded food which was a pound of pastrami he made, got it all over, played the same song 3 times in a row and went into psychosis and told him I have to go outside because "the people outside were being too loud". It's not really funny when I take a step back and look at it but idk how else to deal with these stupid things I do while drinking. I just blamed it on being quirky and blocked him lmao

No. 311400

Also same. I just hit one year sober though, nonas! I hope it’s ok to bump with that. If you have any questions or want to get sober I’d like to be available to answer and help if I can. ♥

No. 311407

I've been sober for a week and I absolutely hate it. When is the point where it starts getting better? The only reason I wanted to quit drinking was because I couldn't handle the effect on my mood, but my mood is worse than ever.

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No. 286849[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting.

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No. 311365

there's plenty of moids with those ugly faces though. they were only considered heart throbs back then because there wasn't much of a choice.

No. 311372

They're hideous, wrong thread.

No. 311380

What you mean just a suit and tie? Cause moids still dress like that, you just realized that most moids don't look good while you only get cherry picked good looking ones from the past.

No. 311385

>tfw you will never be a teen in the 60s at the height of beatlemania
I would've been the biggest Paul simp and potentially a McLennon shipper if the fujo spirit still dwelled in me.

No. 311424

AYRT and absolutely, bless you.

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No. 304845[Reply]


previous thread >>>/g/269475
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No. 311366

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Im in my late twenties and want to fuck a guy I know who is 19. Im told I look very young to the point where him and everyone else is shocked by my age and think im late teens/early 20s. Im treated like im younger in daily interactions so I sometimes forget that im actually almost 30. Idk if it makes me creepy or not, but I have definitely been fantasizing about a combination of getting fucked hard by him with whatever pent up young male testosterone he has going on that I know he doesn’t have an outlet for as I think he’s somewhat religious and is very innocent seeming, has only had 2 gfs and they both cheated. I’m very physically attracted to him and even like his stupid Gen Z ass personality. I want him to come to me for advice and I wanna snuggle him when he’s sad. Maybe what I’m liking about him is the lack of “toxic masculinity” a lot of guys my age have. I’ve noticed Gen Z guys are way more open about their emotions and there’s something attractive and refreshing about how they don’t have as many walls up.
Anyway I def feel ashamed of the fact that I’m attracted to innocence rn— I’m usually the opposite where I go crazy for a guy who is experienced and confident.
Picrel Garden of Words I love this movie but definitely weird as it’s a love story between a 15-yr old boy and 27- yr woman
Any anons been attracted to younger guys?

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i'm not too sure where this interest of mine came about, but i think masks and balaclavas (like full face coverings) are so hot. V from V for Vendetta was so sexy, ive watched that movie like 7 times already and he still turns me on. same for women in masks, it's kind of weird but if a woman wore a mask and held a knife to my throat i'd let her use me however she wanted kek.

i've had similar thoughts and still do albeit quite less frequently (only regarding fictional moids now though, since these breeds of moids are extremely unsafe in reality and i do not want any woman to become a statistic at their hands). hope that you can get the help you need for your trauma though.

No. 311379

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nayrt but how are we feeling about akechi?

No. 311394

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Nta but if you're the anon that wanted to shove an akechi figure up their ass, i respect you and your derangement. I always felt that akechi was the vanilla counter to adachi though.

No. 311398

lmfao no I'm not them, I can only aspire to that level of derangement >w< i'll get there someday haha

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No. 107505[Reply]

This is a thread for crochet and knitting, and other yarn-related crafts.

Anyone starting any new projects or completing old ones? Share some patterns!
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No. 311045

Cute! First amigurumi?

No. 311061

Making an amigurumi without a pattern using a very fat yarn. I need a flat, circular base, and therefore tried doing the typical magic circle of 6 chains, and then increasing by 6 stitches per round.
I believe it's due to the fatness of the yarn, but I'm ending up with a bowl shape rather than something flat. What should I do?
Increase more frequently? Add more stitches to each increase? Start with a larger number of stitches in the magic circle?
Any help is appreciated!

No. 311068

Are you doing your increases after a certain amount of stitches? Like doing an increase every 2 stitches in one round, then an increase every 3 stitches in the next round, and so on.

No. 311129

Yep, I'm doing what I usually do when making an amigurumi.
Ended up just using a MUCH larger hook and that resolved the issue.

No. 311369

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Anybody able to figure out how Asako Ito does her work? Rather than the traditional amigurumi made primarily from going in continuous rounds, it looks like she crochets individual panels that she then joins together (in a manner closer to traditionally sewn plushes). Does that sound about right?
I really like the greater level of flexibility this seems to lend her shapes, and am curious about trying the technique.

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