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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 448727

>>448710
rude and ive been here for years. why is everybody on this website so catty and bitchy damn

No. 452593

>very sweet and caring person in general
>literal cinnamon roll
>cooks dinner for me almost every night
>very generous in bed, eager to please, loves giving oral
>cute blond twink four years younger than me
>doesn't give a shit that I'm older than him, calls me pretty and beautiful all the time
>finishing his master's degree in a STEM field, going into PhD
>drives me around everywhere
>generally pays for everything
>loves cats
>has a very good relationship with his parents and family in general
>patrician taste in music
>plays guitar

Nonnas, I think I'm in love

No. 452645

>>452593
Aahh nona im so jealous of you, I would commit homicide for a younger bf (especially one who is motivated like yours). Whenever i read about the Nigels you guys have i wonder why i never meet guys. Like how do you even find guys like that? Im in stem but all the guys at work are conservatives or incel atheists

No. 452658

>Texts me all day pretty much
>calls me whenever he’s going out and on the way home
>sends voice note good nights every night with funny stories and jokes
>goes to the gym with me five days a week and hangs out after too
>helped me quit weed without being judgy
>pays for everything
>said he loved me first
>goes nuts over anything nice I do for him (in a good way)
>calls me his princess and means it
>its been a year and he’s still as into me as day 1
>took me to my dogs favorite place last weekend to scatter some of her ashes, did not make fun of me for crying but instead held me for all to see.
>many more things I won’t post for brevity’s sake

Nonnas I’m just so happy. We have so much in common and we never run out of things to talk about, and he gives me love exactly the way I need it.

No. 453260

>Kind, goes out of his way to help strangers
>Extremely romantic, totally shattered my view that the type of love I was looking for was unrealistic
>Always surprising me with flowers, love letters, plans for special occasions
>Follows the sidewalk rule and opens doors for me
>Calls me stunning even when I'm in lazy mode
>Constantly looks at me with the most tender, loving smile
>Has made it clear he intends on marrying me
>Nerdy but not in a chronically online le Redditor type of way (I had to explain to him what an incel was kek)
>Has a vasectomy scheduled lol
>Pays rent and for food anytime we go out
>Hard working and responsible, even helps take care of stuff around my Grandma's house
>Super clean and organized
>Honest, leaves his phone home when he goes for runs and doesn't care if I use it (Sounds weird but I've been cheated on so it's a little thing that means a lot)
>Good communicator, emotionally open, we haven't had any fights
>Doesn't have that toxic masculinity bro thing going on with his friends, they talk about their lives and tell each other "love you"
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No. 180491[Reply]

A thread for anons who sew. Feel free to discuss anything related to sewing, ask for help and advice or show off your projects!
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No. 448331

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>>448326
Thank you nonnie! Hmm, when I first started sewing I also had the problems of fabric getting caught, it usually happened because of any of the following:
-too short sewing allowance (I started using bigger allowance than needed and trimmed it down afterwards)
-too blunt or too thick needle (best to start a project with a new needle, also pick a thick needle for thick fabric and vice versa)
-incorrect threading (just rethrrading solved the issue)
As for the face embroidering, yes it's always by hand. I use a water soluble topping stabilizer / embroidery film whenever I'm embroidering on plush fabric with long fur, see picrel.
First, I place the transparent embroidery film on either a printed copy of my embroidery design or the digital image I drew on computer monitor/tablet and trace the design with a water or heat erasable pen. Then I place the embroidery film on top of the project fabric, making sure to align the drawing on the film with the fabric properly. Then I secure the fabrics together with basting stitch and start embroidering the face, first stitching along the design on the film using outline/stem stitch (backstitch for tiny parts) and then filling up the pattern with satin or long and short stitch.

Here are some links to purchase the film if you're unfamiliar with them:
https://www.amazon.com/Embroidery-Stabilizer-Soluble-Topping-Transparent/dp/B095P9LJZ8
https://a.aliexpress.com/_oE48el7

No. 448332

>>448331
your hand embroidery is incredible and almost indiscernible from machine embroidery! how do you manage to make the satin stitching look so smooth and flat?

No. 448333

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>>448332
Using the embroidery film helps a lot, since it then feels like I'm just emnrodering on a flat furless fabric. The film can be gently torn off after I'm done embroidering. As for the uniformity of the satin stitch, stitching the design outline and then filling it helps with making all the stitches the same length. Using single strands (most cotton embroidery floss had 6 strands twisted into groups, I take out only one) a longer time. Satin stitch also looks a bit weird if the area is big, so I use long and short stitch (the eye in picrel) for those parts.The rest of it is practice~

No. 448334

>>448333
>Using single strands gives a neater result but takes a longer time
Bleh, typo

No. 453213

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I’m obsessed with picrel. I’ve used tissue paper and printer paper as tear away stabilizers before, but I always hated the aftermath. I bought the wash away stuff and it’s such a joy in comparison. No tiny bits of paper to tear out of seams, no worries about accidental added bulk, no concerns about a papery mess in your washer.

I originally bought it to stabilize a stretch knit that would have extensive machine applique on it. Worked like a charm. I just used a scrap from that project to help me in finishing the edges of a patch I am making, also by machine satin stitch. It turned out so good compared to my tests without. It looks like I used an embroidery machine or serger for my patch’s edges it turned out so neat and tidy.


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No. 220643[Reply]

A thread for the loners here (all of us). Venting, how you deal with it, how you spend your time etc.
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No. 452727

>>452698
>Not liking your options isn't the same as not having any
Why is it so hard to believe I don't have any option? Nobody is interested in me.

No. 453054

Do you ever feel like the root of all your problems is that you're not getting enough love? Or not enough love in the right ways? I've done the whole no romance, self-love first thing and it's not enough. I'm so starved that I keep acting out and isolating myself from the people who already care about me. It's a viscious cycle. If I could wake up everyday to attention from someone who prioritized me and actively attended to my need for affection, someone who legitimately enjoyed doing it and did it in the very specific ways that I want and need, then I think I'd be unstoppable actually. And before you tell me to give up because men are incapable of love, I'm a lesbian. I know that I could get this relationship if I really focused on it but at the same time I second guess myself like "yes love would help but maybe it's not the ultimate solution." And if I'm so socially anxious that I can't talk to friends I already know, how tf am I gonna meet a brand new person who becomes my gf? Basically I just have a lot of doubts and honestly even if I think love would solve everything, that I can get the love I want if I try, I still don't believe I really deserve it. It's just hard to be lonely nonas. And I do it to myself too. It's all my fault. Wish I could just be normal and functional.

No. 453090

i was talking to my coworker (old gay) and he was saying how i need to get out of my shell and start dating because i should be dating when im young (im a lesbian in my 20s). it made me really sad because he started telling me how much people fought for gay people to live freely in the past and now in 2024 someone like me isnt taking advantage of it. i really wish i could date someone but im so shy and socially anxious i have trouble building meaningful relationships because of it. it made me think that i would wake up one day and be 40 and still be a lezcel virgin.

No. 453138

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I had a difficult childhood living basically in isolation till I was 7. I feel like a dog that wasn't socialized as a puppy and now has behavioral issues because of it. Making friends has always been very hard for me, and keeping the few I have got has been even harder. I always feel like an outsider, and end up weirding people out. I've lost so many friends over the years. I have some (not very close ones) currently, but I can feel them slipping through my fingers as well. I have intentionally and unintentionally not taken so many of the chances I've had to make new friends, because it takes so much effort. I'm currently trying to attend social events etc, get to know women around where I live etc but I just want to ghost everyone and stop trying.

I'm not close with my family at all either, I never see them. I broke up with my partner and I'm spending Christmas alone. I don't mind it that much (I'm quite excited actually), but I'm still ashamed of it and I don't know what to say if people ask about my plans. I date, but I don't know if I can get into a new relationship - what do I have to offer as a mentally ill loner? I've ghosted 100% of the people I've dated so far kek. I think I'll become a hermit.

No. 453144

>>453090
I've never liked how people equated dating with being young and having fun, I've always felt some weird pressure when I was told that I should enjoy my 20s by sleeping around, had I dated in my 20s it would have ended in a disaster.


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No. 116931[Reply]

This thread is for farmers to discuss what their ideal kind of man is and why he is better than what other farmers may think.
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No. 453122

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>eurofag
>not broke
>above 5 foot 11
>clean and smells good
>long hair whatever color idc
>strong nose
>blue or green eyes but idc if not
>thin or in shape/some muscle
>dresses well/has sense of style but not corny or too try hard
>respectful
>musically inclined
>doesnt use social media
>actually knows how to fuck
>just a nice kind humble quiet but funny man overall
>not an alcoholic
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No. 453376

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>>452910
That's Nikita Lytkin nonna. Sorry this is the only image I have of him right now

No. 453378

>>453376
Read his wiki page and that's fucking gross

No. 453841

>>222157
2 years late but this is so perfect and well thought-out, puts my to-be post to shame

No. 454800

>>452602
so you just want a man who wants you and you have no other standards
>>452664
based


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No. 408483[Reply]

Welcome to to the divination thread. Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or receiving end. You can also use this thread to practice reads and ask questions to readers. General discussion pertaining to the topic is also allowed.

>Info for people seeking a reading
If you want to get a reading, please leave a post here with your query and general details about it. It's optional but you can include your age, sex, sign, a picture, a song, or any other info you might feel is relevant, anything that might help the reader pick up your energy better. Some readers may ask for distinct requirement according to their reading style. Although you may post your query here, it is not guaranteed that your post will be picked up by a reader quickly, but it may still eventually happen.

>Info for readers
You can come here and offer readings for anons, how many spots you offer and how many questions you'll answer is up to you. You may also pick up any query from this thread and answer it. Remember to disclose what your requirements for a reading are (age, sex, sign, length of the question, etc) and what method of divination you're using. If there's certain questions you won't answer (death and sickness related for example) be sure to disclose it as well.

>Info for people seeking a trade
As a reader, you may come here and ask to trade a reading, meaning you leave your own question and then wait until another reader picks it up. If that reader answers your question, be sure to reply back as soon as possible. Always disclose what method of divination you're using. Try to match the length of the other anon's response, don't leave them hanging or reply with a shorter text than theirs.

>Info for people learning any divination method including tarot
Feel free to come here to practice your skills. You can ask for advice, tips, and feedback. Even if you're not actively learning and are just curious about it, please don't shy away from posting in this thread.

Have fun!
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No. 452367

If a nonna can do either one I'd appreciate it.
>Should I become an author?
>Is my best friend in love with me?

No. 452850

>>452367
>Should I become an author?

knight wands reversed
king swords
seven pentacles

I have this sense that you don't really want to be an author per se, maybe your motivation behind it is more to seem cool/accomplished or to appease someone.
If you do go down that path you may find yourself dissatisfied with teh day to day activities of being an author, but sticking to it with discipline (maybe treating it as a full time job as opposed to a hobby) could give you a moderate success.

>Is my best friend in love with me?
no. you might be complicating things for yourself by looking for a romantic connection with them instead of letting it be as a platonic thing.

No. 452888

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>>451770
I'd say it indicates highly potent energy from that suit. So love, intuition, potential, versatility… If it resonated with your intention then the universe must think this is an important question. Follow your intuition, cupnonny. Court cards also interact, if you want to take the reading any deeper. Picrel.

Can anynonna offer me a reading? I'm happy to trade if you have your own query.
>Which area of my life most needs my focus right now?
I'm changing many different things via many different methods. Today I feel like I'm just throwing spaghetti at the wall and none of it sticks. I need confidence and focus in what I'm doing.

No. 453297

Can someone help with a reading?
Is E thinking about me? Will we reconnect? She's a Piscis.

No. 455655

>>452888
Thank you Nona, I appreciate that! I am still very much a beginner.
I did another reading and pulled 2 cup cards: queen reversed and ace upright. Followed by the moon reversed.
The universe is trying to tell me something alright..

I’m not sure I could offer an accurate reading, so please feel free to correct me, but I will try:

>King of pentacles
Hmm, to me this suggests that deep down you are usually focused and have things in order. By focus do you mean fix? Is there a reason you feel you need to focus on something in particular?
>3 of swords
Well ok that explains that.. are you ignoring something you need to deal with emotionally? Did something not go to plan, and now you are ignoring it by starting something else?
>page of pentacles reversed
Maybe as you say; I am changing many different things by many different methods.. I’d say you are just in the early stages of what it is you are trying to do. Maybe you are scared of failing or not finding whatever it is you’re looking for.

Sorry that was v basic.


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No. 414433[Reply]

Since a lot of posts in the relationship advice thread are concerning their bf's porn habits, I thought I'd make a spinoff of the subreddit LAP: a support thread for nonas who have dealt with or are currently dealing with a bf/husband who is a porn user/addict.

Feel free to vent, ask other nonas for advice or advise others, etc.

Please keep it respectful and avoid raging at others, as it's a sensitive and all too common problem for many modern women.
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No. 451097

>>451087
I don't think going through someone's phone once (who gave you permission in advance) due to a flare-up of bad vibes/spidey senses/paranoia/whatever it is at all the same thing as monitoring someone like a child. It would be monitoring him like a child if you knew he was a porn addict and he needed to be supervised in order not to 'relapse,' but in this case it would just be getting information to see if the bad feeling tormenting you seems to have a basis or not. If you did find porn on his phone would it be a dealbreaker? You're right he could be sneaky about it though so it may not assuage your fears even if you find nothing, but for e.g. if you know when he went to the bathroom recently and his browser history actually showed that he went on youtube at that time it might.
> He knows about what I went through with my ex and how it affected me so he should (theoretically) be understanding about my concerns.
This is the part that sounds concerning about your story, I have no idea if your bf is a good person or not but theoretically knowing details about your history with your ex could just lead your bf to be more careful about hiding things from you if he is similar to your ex, which is why alerting him to the fact that you're suspicious of him could be a bad idea. If he's a good guy who cares about you he isn't doing anything like that, but since you're having these worries and suspicions/anxieties they're not likely to go away until you get an answer somehow, are they? Regardless of whether it's a real bad vibe you're picking up on or just paranoia due to your ex. Anyway good luck whatever you choose to do, but personally I'd choose 'directly asking not to take the phone into the bathroom' as the very last option after I'd investigated my suspicions first. And asking not to bring the phone in the bathroom feels just as much like 'monitoring' him to me as checking his phone history does, it's kind of like making your kid use their PC in the family room so you know what they're doing on there.

No. 451098

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No. 451984

>>451069
Shitting is kind of boring. I like scrolling on tiktok when I’m pooping.

No. 452706

>>451984
If it takes you more than 5 minutes to do everything you might have digestive problems

No. 455608

never4get


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No. 393378[Reply]

A thread to discuss your attachment style, attachment issues, venting, how it impacts your life, how you deal with it etc.
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No. 440799

>>440642
>not responding to texts asap makes you an evil avoidant

This. Also why I don't get why people label "ghosting" via text as some evil, emotionally abusive act. Like omg I'll just maybe text you later? Or not. My battery's just drained okay.

No. 440813

>>440799
I think, in a way, instant messaging made people more entitled to other people’s time. And heck, 10 to 15 years ago that stuff wasn’t expected from you. Granted, data plans were fairly limited back then and social media wasn’t as big as it is now.
Also, what is considered ghosting is insane to me - you can ghost someone by just not answering one afternoon. Calling is an option if it really is urgent, but these individuals are above that apparently for some stupid reasons like “anxiety UwU”. Fam, you weren’t anxious when you berated me and started accusing me of cheating even for not being glued to my messaging app kek.

No. 440814

>>440799
I thought ghosting was when you completely ignored someone and never talked to them again, not just being late to respond.

No. 449047

I love my boyfriend thats why I want to be a better person all in all and I've been considering therapy for a while. Anyway, I'm extremely fearful that he'll leave once I open up more. I did that once to him during our talking stage because I was so afraid that he'll leave me first. So I left and did no contact for 3 months but after that I reached out and apologized for what I did .We've been together for 6 months now and Im happy to have him as my person though. I don't buy all the attachment theory bullshit it feels like psuedo science but out of curiousity i took an online test and said I was a Disorganized FA

No. 452584

I’m fairly normal towards my friends. Sometimes I’ll ghost and not speak to them for a bit because I start eating myself alive but it’s never detrimental. We’re adults, this is what’s normal for us. I think they assume I’m just busy with work. But, my poor fiancé, he won’t get a break. I even get jealous when he’s with his family. They all run a business so…that’s a lot of the time. I don’t spend much time with my friends. I have a best friend i text daily, and the rest are just colleagues or girls from med school. I speak with my fiancé daily, constantly. I start shaking and become immensely stressed without him. I’m currently sitting in our place, unsure of what to do without him. He’s been the only man to ever treat me right, but i don’t want to make him have me as another chore to deal with. He does so much. I pick up the slack at home, of course, because he genuinely just has responsibilities outside of me and i hate it. I loathe everyone he talks to. Why can’t we be a family and constantly be connected? It’s so awful. I feel so awful. I know it’s because I have a fucked up past and don’t want to confront it. I want to say he’s wrong, that maybe he’s even cheating, when he’s not. At all. I have to keep all these nasty things to myself. They’ve slipped out a few times before and he honestly seemed very understanding, but I’m ashamed to be myself. I hate being so attached….


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No. 396128[Reply]

Share your favourite lewd mp4s, voice actors, websites, etc.
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No. 448295

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>>448289
>MFW I learned you can buy these ASMR

Bless you, nonna. My wallet might hate you, but you have a place in my heart.

No. 448299

>>448295
Hehe no problem nona, just be careful not to accidentally buy one that isnt translated into English. Have fun browsing!

No. 451693

i feel like you guys are self posters because i dont see why anyone would pay for crappy audios that arent even in english

No. 451765

>>447767
Was literally just listening to this today and it's a script fill but I also have no idea what the previous nona was talking about. His voice sounds really bad and monotone to me and it's really obvious it's not improv cause he's reading off the paper like a robot. I don't even like incest audios that much but I'll be sticking with the F4F ones.

No. 451801

>>451693
Yeah, Japanese indie guys are totally advertising on this website.
Being able to understand ero situation CD's was one of my motivations for learning Japanese.
But then I realized how samey most of them are so I stopped following new releases.


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No. 450007[Reply]

ITT: Post pictures, new developments and conversation about Luigi
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No. 451660

>>451260
Thread pic pls

No. 451663

>>451660
no it should only be luigi's beautiful face alone

No. 451664

Incels mad kek

No. 451666

>>451664
>murderer
Isn't these the niggas always whining about how can they make themselves more masculine? The most masculine thing you can do is take out an evil corpo

No. 451668

>>451666
They probably play vidya about the same premise all the time too


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No. 291182[Reply]

No male larpers please

Post some women who you use as style inspo or have the look you aspire to have. Pic related, i love late 60s-70s giallo actresses
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No. 411216

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I want to be a glamorous, eclectic, fashionable lady like Loulou.

No. 411218

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No. 411369

>>411218
Kekk anon, odd choice, but I get you, I consider her evil but I have a facination with evil women.

No. 418257

>>383016
>>383067
Me too. I wish I could figure out how to get the poofy parts outside the bun. I often pin my hair up in a similar style but curls spilling out in a "romantic style" always yearn for the poof tho

No. 451500

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I really like Atsuko Hashiyasume's look from BISH. She looks really cool.


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