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No. 125183[Reply]

I met a perfect boy at uni. At first I just noticed him because he is the absolute most handsome guy I’ve ever seen. Call me superficial but that alone made me develop a crush. I sort of tried to forget about him since I didn’t think it would go anywhere and tried to tell myself that he probably was a jerk anyway.

However, I was grouped with him and a few other girls for some group assignment, and he turned out to be the nicest person I’ve ever met. He’s ridiculously funny, interesting, cultured, creative (turns out he’s actually semi-famous in multiple fields), exciting, smart, he just has literally everything going for him. I’m not the most beautiful girl ever but I take care of myself (I’m skinny, have very well maintained natural blonde hair, blue eyes etc.). Acne has slways been a problem but after meeting this guy my face was finally clearing up. I suggested that everyone in the group exchanged numbers and everyone obliged.

Then the guy started texting (actually whatsapp which is the norm in my country but whatever) me. Mostly school stuff but also some personal things. He’d always reply to me right away, never left me on read, and was always willing to help and when I helped him he was super grateful and cute about it. I’ve never had text contact as good as this. He’d always say hi to me when we ran into each other, and in class he’d letvme sit with him. If he was talking to other people he’d always try to make me a part of the conversation too.

It got even better when I found out he was basically pure (yes meme af I know, you know what I mean). He was very serious about hygiene (he talked about how he disliked visiting friends who didn’t clean their rooms properly), wasn’t active on FB, IG or dating apps, isn’t part of a frat, and disliked weed (he does drink though but so do I so ehrm yeah). He also never mentioned a gf or anything like that.

The thing is, despite growingsomewhat close he never asked me out or anything and I was afraid to ask him out because I’m not sure if I’m worthy of him and came to the conclusion that he might be gay or something and I didn’t want to embarrass him. He was literally too perfect to not have a gf.

Then it all went wrong.

Last night I went out for drinks with a few uni friends and afterwards walked back to the train station (I don’t live in my uni’s city, I live with my parents in my hometown (which is completely normal in my country, the boy does the samPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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No. 125212

>>125210
Yeah it's literally just a copied and pasted cc thread
https://crystal.cafe/feels/res/16409.html

The "what does it feel like to take a boy's virginity" thread that was recently made is also copied and pasted
https://crystal.cafe/feels/res/26294.html

No. 125245

>don't guys hate tall girls and only like short girls?
some men do, but they are usually the insecure ones. most men don't really care that much about height, they care more about waist/hip ratio (among other things). as a tall woman (175cm) most of the derogatory things said about my height haven't come from men but from short women, even though I've literally never said a bad word about short women (or even short people) in my entire life. lots of rich/famous men (like leonardo dicaprio) almost exclusively date tall women. supermodels still, but if they hated tall women so much I'm sure they could get a short woman easily.

you seem to think you're automatically more deserving of him for having blue eyes, naturally blonde hair and not being tall. no offense but maybe you're the one who's the bitch and just can't see it.

No. 125617

>>125212
Putting on a tinfoil and thinking it was some larper.

No. 126173

>>125183
It's okay to feel the way you do and it's okay for him to feel the way he does. There's a possibility he just viewed you as a good friend and maybe there's the possibility he just didn't have the courage to approach you in that way. In any case I don't think you should resent him or be too surprised. You never really know. Let him do what he wants.

No. 126343

I'm super confused as to why this thread never got locked but other threads (like the "my dad is dating the girl who bullied me in high school" one) got locked and redtext? The reason for locking the other ones was because they could fit in other threads that already exist but so can this one? I don't understand the mods.



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No. 122000[Reply]

What problems do you experience when you like a guy who is skinny or fit and you want to approach him and would like a relationship with him?
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No. 125149

all my exes have been twigs but it's more apparent with my current boyfriend because he's the same height as me at 5'6 whereas my exes were both over 6'. we look really weird together because he's tiny and i'm a couple stone overweight. it makes me feel bad about myself but he's very reassuring without being weird.

i broke up with one of my exes when i started losing weight because he began to lose interest, and then i found out he was a fat fetishist (i was a UK 22 before losing weight.) most if not all of the guys who have shown interest have been slim/skinnyfat so i must carry my weight well now.

No. 126151

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>>122761
Ok(male)

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No. 126179

>>124264
His head, face doesn't fit the body. It is a very bad shoop.

No. 126211

>>126151
Let's see her without the Snapchat filter, mega lift bra, shitty camera, back breaking positions and yeast infection giving panties



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No. 123029[Reply]

Can we have a thread where we just talk about the nice things about our relationships & partners? We have several threads for negative things, a positive one might be nice.

Tell us about nice moments/dates, things you love about your partner, ways your partner makes you feel good… ect.
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No. 123458

My boyfriend and I have almost been together for 4 years now. The first 2.5 were really turbulent. Lots of huge fights and breaks during what I thought was supposed to be the honeymoon phase.

About a year ago we were on a trip with our friends at the beach. The two of us had gone on a walk by ourselves. We kept walking and walking until we and sat down by the water as the sun was starting to go down. We were just smiling back and forth without speaking and for some reason we were both tearing up a little. It’s hard to explain. I think we were just really happy.

I remember saying, “You know we’ve had some really rough times. But I’ve never loved anyone like this before. That’s why I’ve always tried so hard to make it work.”

And then he turned to me and said, “I’ve never loved anyone like this before either. I’m sorry if I’ve made you ever feel otherwise. I hope we never forget this moment.”

A friend caught a picture of us walking back because she said we were looking at each other in a cute way. I made a little watercolor of that photo for our 3 year anniversary, and he keeps it on his desk. I sometimes find it on his nightstand like he’s been looking at it.

We haven’t had a single fight since that day.

No. 123468

>>123458
I would generally give anyone the advice that if things are that turbulent during the honeymoon phase to dip and not waste years, a relationship like that is -nearly always- doomed

Glad to hear you've been in the minority to turn that around though, that day almost sounds like an epiphany for you both

No. 125935

I feel so lucky to be in the relationship I'm in. 4 years ago, my husband and I met online and were long distance (usa and uk), we made trips to see each other and each visit got longer and longer until we decided not to separate again. We got married and moved to Europe and we've been the happiest. It took a lot of patience and commitment on both of our parts, but it was so incredibly worth it. I feel like a stronger person with him.

No. 125937

>>125935
Anon how did you do it? I’m in LDR right now but we’re both too poor to see each other

No. 125940

>>125937
partially luck because we met when we were both working full time jobs but didn't have too many expenses and were able to prioritize saving for the visits. I'm not sure what your situation is like financially, but if you could spare a bit to put away from each paycheck until you can afford it, it's worth it. Maybe you guys can split for like you to visit them for example and it could be faster to save. stay strong, anon! if you both really want this, it's worth the wait until you're financially able to come together.



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No. 110716[Reply]

Has anyone ever seen yandere shit in real life? Or had an unhealthy obsession with someone that could be classified as such?

I had a friend talked all the time about wanting to kill her ex's new girlfriend. She would write extremely detailed rants on her tumblr about it and peaked when she attacked her in the hall one day and carved his name into her arm when she was sent home. Her parents ended up pulling her out of school and homeschooling her after that. I heard through the grape vine that she regularly attempted contact with him for several years after high school to the point where he had to delete all social media.
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No. 124595

>>124576
>It will fade
Thanks
I've kinda been waiting for more people to talk about obsessive stuff

I'd love for it to fade sooner because its affecting all aspects of my life
I was depressed before I met them, but now it's really hard to try to will myself to do anything positive because "If this person who I gave my heart and everything to doesn't want me, who will?"
And I know that a relationship wouldn't fix everything, but it would probably make me less likely to obsess over one person if I could internalize the notion that anyone could love me romantically

but of course, it gets hard to do that if you're stuck on one person

[spoiler]as far as yandere notions, I do sometimes wish that something bad would happen to their SO and they would run crying to me, but I think about how sad that might make them feel (and how unlikely it is they would come to me) so I only end up feeling bad about it all

No. 125903

> friends with circle of girls from uni course
> close to a few of them
> one of them I'm less close to has always seemed a little competetive with me
> her bf moves to same uni because living one hour away is too long distance for her
> she made him cut off female friend for smoking with him once
> he's cheating on me
> bitches about him betraying her and constantly seems to have arguments
> fast forward to last year
> her bf is casual friends with me
> we nerd out but we aren't close, just message about anime and he looks up to me like a big sister
> one day they invite me to dinner
> she's being really talkative and hyper
> bf mentions we talk about anime on fb
> she slams the table and storms to the toilet
> bf looks uncomfortable, says she "gets funny about female friends"
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No. 125920

>>125903
Yandare, atleast as I understand it, is extreme affection to the point of acting and behaving psychotic. That's not yandare, that's just a possessive psycho. The key difference is in how they didn't just lash out from jealousy, but they created their own world where they were the victim and tried to convince everyone of it. And some very skilled manipulation to boot.

People like that exist as men or women and they don't just do it with partners, it can also be siblings, children, anyone they can exert total control over. Interesting story though, thanks for sharing.

No. 125924

>>124585

bitch you crazy lmao

No. 125927

>>110716
My ex-bf was a "yandere" I guess. Thankfully, we only "dated" for a very short period of time, I broke it off quickly, but he would exhibit extreme stalkerish behaviour. Sending me thousands of texts in a day, showing up at my work, calling all my close family members, my best friend, harassing me, and some other shit. I used to be very resentful towards him, and he made me pretty scared of men in general, but now I understand a little better that it was because he was mentally ill (BPD).



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No. 125500[Reply]

How does getting a bf even work? Do you have to ask him “do you want to be my boyfriend”? Does it just happen organically? How do I know if someone is my bf?
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No. 125702

>>125662
Dating and being in a relationship with someone can mean the same thing
It's contextual mostly
Dating can also mean that you are considering someone romantically and are going out on dates, but not officially in a relationship
You could be dating a couple people at the same time and not be in a relationship with any of them

No. 125723

>>125662
I've always seen dating as being romantically interested in a person and actively spending time together to see if you're compatible enough for a relationship. The details of that can vary - for some people dating is just hanging out but with romantic intent, for others it also includes kissing / sex. Whereas, if I were to ask someone to be my boyfriend, it comes with added responsibility and expectations - the expectation that we try to incorporate each other into our lives (to meet family / close friends etc, show interests in their hobbies and participate as well), to be there for me emotionally and to be dedicated to developing our relationship into something that could be for the long haul.

No. 125734

>>125662
I think a lot of it is context. Like personally, I only say I’m dating someone if there’s a decided level of commitment and a desire to grow together (aka boyfriend!). But I also understand when people talk about dating and they mean casually getting to know someone/people. “Talking” and “hanging out” are also sometimes ways I describe seeing someone in a more than friends way, but it’s somehow more casual than pursuing romantic interest.. like it’s sexual or just for fun because it’s not gonna go anywhere. Idk, American dating is weird and the slang is very based in context.

No. 125918

I might be pretty old-fashioned regarding dating but with both my past relationships I've just asked them if they wanted to be my boyfriend when I fell in love with him after hanging out as friends.
Only after they said yes to that and we were in a relationship did we kiss and have sex.

No. 126145

if you start talking to someone and the conversations get progressively more flirty and intimate, at a certain point it feels natural and not awkward to ask him to be your bf, or at least ask him out, in which case after a few dates that go well it would be normal to ask him to be your bf.



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No. 125641[Reply]

>New study suggests psychopathic men have a personality style that makes them attractive to women
>findings indicate that psychopathy may include features that make men appear as more attractive romantic partners despite having a reduced interest in committed relationships.
>inmates with more psychopathic features tenaciously try (i.e., are preoccupied with sex) and often succeed (i.e., must offer some attractive qualities, even if faked) at seducing prison staff, including clinical staff supposedly equipped with the tools to not be subverted by manipulation and charm that psychopathic men deploy

Are psychopaths attractive?

https://www.psypost.org/2019/10/new-study-suggests-psychopathic-men-have-a-personality-style-that-makes-them-attractive-to-women-54676
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No. 125839

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>>125838
>is literally (read: "literally", not "figuratively") barely capable of understanding imageboard posts
>calls others brainlets
From the sight of this post, you may be well on your way to figuring out the meaning of the "P" word next, considering how well you're demonstrating it.
Keep it up. Your ambition may take you places one day, like a remedial English class for adults.

No. 125845

>>125815
>implying internet hasn't been making people more retarded

If you were on the internet in 2003 and on it now in 2019 and also aware/engaged in people of 2003 and 2019 it's obvious to know people got more retarded.

No. 125846

>>125838
>balding and already wrinkling
Worst aging genetics ever

Also,

>north european autism+coldness mixed in with actual psychopathic coldness and autism


Gross.

No. 125847

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>>125841
>that nigga's lego head

LMAO here's an actual attractive psychopath

No. 125850

>>125847
Couldn't he basically kill by opening his mouth?



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No. 49328[Reply]

Alright so there are these makeup / skin care threads but I didn't see any PS one yet it's something that's mentioned a lot at /pt/ and /snow/.
I got a nose job some years ago and I'm VERY satisfied with the outcome (feel free to ask me questions about rhinoplasty if you have any concern about it). RN I'm looking forward getting jaw surgery done but I don't have much information about this procedure in Europe. Any advice?
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No. 125755

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>>125754
Wow, my phone is uncooperative today. Sorry for spamming the thread

No. 125756

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No. 125897

>>125699
Wow so they've lasted 4 years? I'm kind of a noob to this topic but I was under the impression fillers were very temporary. Have you had them redone since your first time?

No. 126019

>>125897
Maybe it was a fat graft? I know those last forever

No. 128125

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I’m really searching for answers in regards to what the fuck happened to her face. Does anyone know? How can we avoid something like this? She was gorgeous and she’s absolutely butchered now



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No. 125416[Reply]

>my dad is dating the girl who bullied me in high school
send help pls(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
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No. 125439

honestly i would probably already have stopped talking to my father for the mere fact of dating someone my age (that shit is creepy as fuck even if he's "handsome" and "young looking") but if he's dating straight up your former bully classmate, tell him its either her or you and if he chooses her, never talk to him again. Unless he's loaded with money and planning on leaving you a hefty inheritance, you have nothing bt a creepy bad father to loose.

No. 125441

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>literally kill him/delete him from your life instead of addressing the problem maturely
lol classic lolcow responses

they're fucking right tho I got deepweb connects anon send me his address I got you bb

No. 125452

>>125438
Wow, what a psycho.

No. 125453

>>125441
deleting him from OP's life (going no contact) is the most mature thing to do here. There's no possible redeeming quality this man could have. he's a shit father, so he shouldn't get to be a father at all.

No. 125465

Why the fuck does this have its own thread? put it in the advice thread or something ffs



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No. 71546[Reply]

what is your daily routine like? particularly health & beauty? i've never had a proper educational female role model in my life and i need help.

background:
>28 years old
>have been suffering from major depressive disorder since forever, basic routine for many many years has been wake up 15 minutes before i have to leave for work, shower & brush teeth/hair, go to work, come home, smoke weed, then sleep
>recently put on short term disability from work with the goal of creating a normal routine (things like health/beauty, cooking & cleaning, etc) without the added stress of work, then gradually integrate work into this routine
>never had anyone to show me how to do girly things like makeup, have a skincare routine, night routine, etc. didn't wear a real bra until i was 19, still don't know how to properly style my hair.
>figured out how to do basic makeup good enough for job interviews & dates, thank you internet
>previously my skin looked and felt nice with just soap & water
>as i'm approaching 30 my skin is becoming dry as fuck, especially my forehead. i want to create a daily skincare routine for this
>also want to implement other health/beauty routines, easy & healthy meal prep routines, cleaning routines, interested in learning where other people place priorities and manage time
>want to feel like a normal woman/person, not some goblin hiding away in her house

please help.
thank you
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No. 71938

>>71915
try looking for quick exercises you can do maybe while you're getting ready in the morning or before you get ready for bed. lord knows I need to start exercising too, or at least start walking again when the weather gets warmer

No. 125360

>>71805
Literally this, but male… Which makes it more sad I think.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 125364

>>71794
Since the thread got necroed I reread it and remembered this is my post… and I am happy to report I'm now regularly doing every single item on my list of things I need to add to my routine. The trick was to make a spreadsheet with daily/weekly to do lists and tick boxes so I don't forget anything and feel guilty if I don't tick them. It was literally like flicking a switch to get me motivated.

No. 125391

My routine:
>wake-up 1,5 to 2 hours before I have to leave for uni.
I get laughed at for waking up this early but I hate rushing in the morning more than anything. If uni starts late or I have nothing to attend that day I'll wake up at 7:30-8 am-ish.
>get dressed, I pick my clothing the night before
>make bed
(seriously do this, one easy accomplishment will motivate you for the rest of the day)
>put on water to boil
>go feed my pets
>water's boiled for tea at this point
>have a long and slow breakfast
>do my hair, skincare and make-up
>brush and floss teeth
>usually have time left over at this point so I'll get some reading for uni done
>leave to catch the bus

I have no set routine for the rest of the day. Evening's just showering, brushing teeth, cleansing skin and skin care before I go to sleep.

No. 125399

>>125391
>(seriously do this, one easy accomplishment will motivate you for the rest of the day)
For sure, making your bed in the morning is a seriously good lifehack. It just makes you take more pride in your surroundings and helps prevent the onset of laziness and a loss of control over your life.



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No. 109507[Reply]

The last thread of this is a year old, SO, NEW THREAD! Post your room inspos/ideas/decor

Selfposting welcome
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No. 124809

>>124808
There’s always dead leaves to pick up, it attracts bugs and gives them lots of hiding places, feeding the plants reeks, soil can grow moulds.. it’s really not that great. A few plants is nice but living in a potted jungle sucks ass.

No. 124811

>>124809
What about air plants?
Less water means less moisture which potentially means less mold/smell
Bugs/leaves might still be an issue though

Also, I hear that watering plants from the bottom helps eliminates mold/smell because the top layer is dry and there's not enough water in the soil to grow much else (because the plants only take up what they need through their roots)

or just have fake plants if you just like the aesthetic–might be nice to pair with LEDs for a magic forest type of feeling?

No. 124814

>>124809
I've always lived with house plants and have literally never encountered any of these problems. I live in an appartment though, not a house. The smell of dirt is very faint and if anything it just smells like the rain, have never had bugs, have had to pick up maybe like 3 leaves per plant per year because they grow very slowly.
To each their own i guess, probably depends on the type and species of plants too, it's just curious to me that i can't relate to any of those problems.
The most annoying thing about owning plants imo is not being able to go on trips without having someone to care for your plants.

No. 124832

>>124807
I've rented several places without a vent over the stove. Wasn't pleased with it but it seems common from cheapo landlords.

No. 124883

>>124809
Have you ever owned plants? Learned how to take care of them properly?

When you know how to take proper care of plants and the plants fit your room's conditions, the chances of encountering these problems are small.



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