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Vent, ask for relationship advice in this tidy little thread.
Relationship: 12 years, never married, I refuse to marry. For me it makes no sense financially (divorce and widowhood destroy your credit). 2 children 1 from a previous relationship and 1 together.
Finances: I am the sole breadwinner, I am a department head so there is no worry about paying bills should we split. He has not worked in the entirety of our relationship and I don't see him ever actually getting a job. Him not working isn't an issue mostly, although I wish he would do more. He needs hand held.
Sex life: is mostly non existent. We fuck after we fight and that's about it. Now we both are no longer spring chickens so sex drive goes down, I get this. I just want him to realize I need romanced a bit. I'm not a 23 year old fresh face, but I am not some old hag either.
Companionship: He is good to talk to, but when I add something to the conversation he looks distant and goes "uh huh", unless I ask him a question. We talk about his childhood, his interests, and we don't talk about mine. Ever. I know it's because he doesn't like manga comics and I got yelled at for about 2 hours because he despises lolcow and I frequent here for catharsis. (You know what? I think wrestling is stupid and worthless but I remember their names and try to keep informed of the matches). We can be verbally abusive to eachother. He has a very loud temper. He yells. I am quiet and withdrawn when fighting occurs. I don't yell, ever, I just know how to sucker punch with words. (I am working on thinking before I speak and being more assertive).
I know in my heart and mind that we are just together because change scares us. I'm not afraid of being single. I'm more afraid of going through with it. If I could just fast forward to being single, thatdbegreat.gif
To note he is a good dad. I don't have a basis of comparison but the kids are happy.
I bet I need therapy.
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Hello anons, I have a problem… Last night I stayed at my boyfriend's house. I told him that I didn't want to do anything sexual and he was okay with that. We slept in the same bed, we were just cuddling. But during the night, I was constantly woken because he kept touching my butt, my boobs or my vagina. Every time it happened I removed his hand from my body and told him "no", and I fell asleep again. But he kept touching me again, and again, even though I didn't want to… I was so uncomfortable, annoyed and confused. I took my pillow and moved to sleep somewhere else, luckily he didn't follow me, but the damage is done.
When we woke up in the morning, he told me that he didn't remember clearly what he did in the night, but that he feels very ashamed. He asked me for forgiveness but I honestly don't know if I can do that… I'm not naive enough to believe something like that.
We have been together for 4 years, and he has behaved similarly in the past, but never like this.
Do you anons know if this behavior is going to escalate even more? Should I swallow the pink pill?