/g/ - girl talk

>>391034
Hopefully you never act on it, so many couples that pursue that lifestyle always end up being contempt towards each other. Balance of both is always the best option for a successful future. Some things are best left as a idea you roll around in your head.

>>391053
Most successful relationships, even lesbian relationships, have some kind of power imbalance. Like, one makes more money or is more physically attractive or is more independent or more dominant in bed.

>>391067
? This is such a weird thing to assert. I mean statistically speaking, sure, no couple is ever going to be perfectly matched in every single attribute a human can have but I'm sure that's not what the ayrt was saying

>>390969
>>391034
Every now and then, this works out really well, but it also has the chance of going bad. While I’ve never been in this type of relationship, it has the same pros and cons as the straight version. There’s still a chance that the breadwinner might leave the housewife, and she’s completely fucked. It’s worse when it happens with lesbians in my area, cause these women often don’t have accepting families to go back to, so they end up in a shitty situation. But I’d be lying if I said it turns out bad like that every time, I know two women in a relationship like this, and they’ve been married for 10 years.

>>390641
I’m the person who originally posted that question. I’m also the person who likes the ftm. I watched the video I think last night I moved up more into a level 5-6 with her, but I can’t tell if she actually reciprocated or not.

>>389703
My ex was a redpill tard who fell for the ‘men who eat pussy are gay and effeminate’ scrote meme. So glad I left his lame ass. My new Nigel literally went down on me without being asked.

>>389823
Do you really think so? I was willing to believe it because I have seen proof of women who forgo their own pleasure like a moid in the past who had scratch mark scars all over his back from his ex who he would just do missionary for like 3 minutes with. And every ex I had had to be trained on how to eat pussy but that could have just been weaponized incompetence to try and get out of doing it. My last ex seemed enthusiastic though and said that he wanted to learn but his ex girlfriends weren’t into it kek. Whatever colorful sexual pasts and stories will never affect my willingness to do degrading things or forgo things that I like. I recommend every woman build her self esteem so that she doesn’t fall into doubting herself when the stories of the exes get told. Just because a moid did something degrading with another ex doesn’t mean you have to stoop to that level to do it too. A lot of women really hate themselves given how they fall into abuse/rape kinks.

I dated a fat moid who blew up to 350 lbs during the course of the relationship. He was circumcised and it ruined the sensitivity of his penis, so he was really weird about "hitting" certain parts, and after we had sex he would often immediately talk about how it "rubbed the good part", which I found incredibly strange and selfish. His idea of initiating sex was walking into the living room butt naked and pointing at his flaccid penis. He decided to grow a disgusting beard and it kept irritating my pussy, which I told him about several times, but somehow he didn't take the hint to SHAVE. He would complain when it took me a long time to cum from oral sex, but the reason why was always because he did it poorly until the very end, and didn't listen to my clear instructions. When he looked up at me while licking me his eyes looked really ugly and creepy lol. I have a foot fetish but couldn't do shit with his feet because he seldom cut his toenails and always had dirty soles at home. So fucking disgusting. One time I was giving him head and I stopped after 20 seconds because his groin smelled rotten. He had some kind of rash caused by being disgustingly obese, and when I told him, he didn't take it seriously. He's the only man I've ever had to use lube with because I never truly felt aroused around him. He kept saying that he was good at sex, when it was painfully obvious that he was subpar. He didn't act like he appreciated my body enough even though I'm significantly more attractive than him. Don't date fat or ugly moids, they will use you like a trophy in public and then try to destroy your self esteem behind closed doors.
Another guy I dated was great at sex but had multiple weird fetishes and sent me cringey voice messages where he spoke about being kicked in the balls etc. in a baby voice. There was another guy I briefly dated who would sit in his desk chair naked after sex and his flaccid penis "melted" into his ballsack, it looked so god damn funny. One time he asked if he could give me head, and said, "trust me, I really like doing this," and proceeded to give me the most mediocre head ever and didn't even come close to making me cum. He had sleep apnea because of his recessed jaw which he hid under a beard, and it felt like I was laying next to a dying person when I slept over, because of the sound of his CPAP machine.
When I was a teenager a 27 year old sociopath with erectile dysfunction who groomed me gave me head and it caused a yeast inPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>390991
girl are you ok? I'm worried about you

>>390991
Nonna… please get help.

>>389468
How did it go nonna? I always get worried when women dump their tard boyfriends.

>>390110
I didn't yet, fuck me. I keep wanting to but it's hard breaking up with someone who made me so happy once and who's family has been so nice to me. Anyway I don't deserve to be treated like a bangmaid, I need to get up the nerve to do it.

>>62343
>>62272
reading this is so funny.
Seeing the current trend of Nonnitas shouting they only want to date younger guys from the rooftops.

>>390117
it will only get worse if you don't do it. one more day with him is one less day with a guy who will "make you so happy" ALL the time. I believe in you anon

>>389338
Some designers never sewed anything in their life and it's so frustrating that women with a good education have to work with moids that don't know anything about the craft. Throughout my education there were 97% women and the 3% men were migrants from Syria and similar countries, sewing since they were 5 years old or gay men. And every time a man would appear in a group everyone was like "oh, how amazing, a moid that is sewing, oh, how creative he is, how strong he is that he is among all those women and look what he has done, how good he is." It's just bullshit as it's been a job for men all those years before and now we celebrate them for doing stuff their ancestors thought that was below them.
I've always said that if I would want an independent career in the fashion industry I would use my male sibling as the person who created and did everything, being in the public eye, getting all the attention because I know, if people think he is the one who did all of it, it would be so much easier to achieve something.

>>389367
not to continue bumping an old subject, but yes I agree. Also the book is filled with constant mythical allusions, nymphs being just the start, and I'm pretty sure he took the name's genesis as you described to invert (or pervert, at least from a western straitlaced christian perspective switching to the at that time 'pagan' exotic spiritual view) from Dolores, Our Lady of Sorrows to the Hindu goddess Lalita.

Anyway, the real irony is that in the book she dresses like a total tomboy, not at all the lolishit that's been popularised in its wake

Agreeing with everything about moid designers and shit tailoring.

Reminds me of the mirror palais designer, he gets all the accolades for uninspired repros of shit we've all seen before and then upcharges a fortune for 100% viscose. But instead of taking the money and criticism silently, he snaps back at customers and tries to convince morons that it's worth every penny.

Picrel is a £1000 pound dress that in any other era would be an undergarment, with the hideous prefab bra cups that fit no woman and with the lace cut deep enough that nipple will always be exposed. Thanks fags, every woman wants to drop a band on a nightdress of lower quality than La Perla and wear it outside. For a mere £1400 you can buy the same shit in all black lace. At least the hookers in pretty woman could show there asses on the sidewalk on a budget.

I still remember a weird fascist dogwhistle tiktok from mirror palais captioned "Argentina, 1946" and when people questioned it he told them to fuck off and that it was because the background song was argentinian from the 40s… ok.

>>389405
I really love Dion Lee for this. The style might not be to everyone’s taste but the way the clothes fit you can tell he actually understands the female body.

I just found out Roberto Cavalli died. It makes me so sad that all of the fashion legends are dying. RIP.

>>389695
You're fine. If you don't have a problem with how your current routine is servicing you, you're fine.
I think some MUAs think it's necessary for "setting" the foundation/look, but it sounds like your makeup is staying put throughout the day without it. It's important to keep in mind that a ton of what MUAs say isn't applicable to the majority of people for day to day needs.

Girls thank you so so much for the replies!
>>389699 you are spot on, my skin is dry and i think that is why the makeup sticks for so long, even without setting spray. And thank you for the product recommendation!
>>389734 that's exactly what happens! It sticks to dry patches just as you mentioned! I will take your advice on putting it so that my hair doesn't stick to my face, because it constantly happens with my sides and bangs, because of the sticky sunscreen. (I can't help but wonder if the sponge sucks out the sunscreen's properties?)
>>389774 thank you for the reassurance. And yes, i think that is exactly what they meant. Since i posted the question, i learned that there are different kinds of powder: mattifying, translucent, setting.. i think they meant the setting one, because then i would understand it looking "ratchet and crazy" if the products start moving around the face.
I have a new question then: so if powder is to set creamy products and more fitting for oily skin, then setting spray is for drier skin, right? Basically the opposite (not all the time of course, i see some tutorials use both)

I’m thinking about getting a besame lipstick. Does anyone have any experience with the brand? How’s the service?

>>389541
I did that, thanks! I think they look a bit better but maybe I'd be the only one who could tell there is a difference.
Just don't zoom in because a few of the eyebrow hairs I shaved with a face razor were still stuck on my face lol

>>390935
Pretty eyes nona

>>388904
I know it sucks but I think these “negative assumptions” are realistically doing you a favor in the dating pool. Women who operate off of positive assumptions about men are prone to sticking it out with moids who have obvious red flags and actually taking them for their empty words. You know the reality and that’s something I wouldn’t take for granted, as pessimistic as it sounds. You can still find a man, the difference is that you will be pleasantly surprised when the right one comes around and probably will have put him through a proper vetting process.

I will get an A in my class despite having a useless lab partner.

They email me my payslip before tomorrow! pretty please dear universe? im kind and nice

I will find my card, my card will come back to me, if anyone got my card they will return it to me inmediatly.
Nonnas if you can plz help me woth this one or i might die wtf
I 100% HAVE MY CARD with me like right now and all the time

Please come here, I will get married in 2028

>>390624
nta and genuine question as a meat-eater, how can eating produce kill more animals?

>>390876
monocropping kills a massive amount of small animals and when you add up all the insects, worms, rodents and birds that get killed, you end up with a vastly higher bodycount than you get from raising something like beef

>>390876
Additional to what >>390883 said, when it come to environmental concernsz the stress of overproducing a specific crop or transporting it thousands of miles to meet demand is often much more detrimental than the impact of raising animals. You can also factor in that certain crops are directly tied to human rights abuses which you'd assume should also be an issue for those so concerned about animal welfare.

>>390883
Most crops go into feeding livestock. Less livestock, less crops

>>390624
This doesn't make sense to me - meat eaters also eat crops? Nobody is eating only local meat. By this logic, they're contributing to both kinds of animal death.

DAE find a proper purge to be really satisfying? I used to get really deep cystic acne, so these little whiteheads that resolve super quickly and allegedly clean out my skin are a relief in comparison.

>>390302
The amount found in topical products is not enough to poison you.

>>389120
Reporting back to say youve changed my life kek

>>389978
oh, thank you for the tips and recs! surprised to hear lanolin can be counterintuitive.
>>390121
unlikely unless the blood test I had months ago was wrong.

>>390139
>>390156

Thank you guys for your answers! I wanted to reply sooner but I forgot it every time kek

>is it mostly whiteheads? Is it in areas you usually get breakouts?
yes and yes, they came off quiet easily and nothing else happened. I didn't get any new ones and like I said, aside from the ones I got, my skin feels fine.

I'm leaving this cryptic message for the nona that said to reach out to her on here.

>Contact
minty.jam on discord
>How long this contact will remain active?
Idk
>Timezone
Germany
>Age
28
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
20+
>How would you describe yourself?
Depressed, neurotic, spiteful. Scared of forming meaningful relationships but desperately crave them.
>Hobbies and pastimes
Reading manga, books, vocaloid music, roleplay, some games. I like to cook sometimes. Right now I'm learning German.
>Other random tidbits about you
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>388079
He also posts on /toy/ in the Azone doll thread. Kill all male doll owners.

>>355745
sent you a FRQ on discord and will email whenever i wake up in the morning! hope i'm not too late

>>386800
May be too late but either way message me to this email nonna lolcowanon at tutamail dot com we may know each other. (I'm not making another discord account just to contact people you'll have to forgive me)

>>387480
Me too. I don’t even feel human anymore. I see myself as an observer always on the outside.

>>387507
nayrt but this is relatable. It feels like I'm not even the main character of my own life.

>>387486
>normies
Nta but how old are you?

I miss my friends so much. During college I had an amazing group (like three other people) who I'd see all the time and talk to constantly, but I had a falling out with one of them and the other two haven't reached out once in the last nine months, not that I'd expect them to take my side. I know I was in the wrong and don't really deserve them as friends, but do I deserve to be this miserable all the time?

>>387484
>I’m almost more upset about that judgement both from others and from myself than I am about not having friends. It’s been so long since I had any that I no longer miss it much because I don’t remember what it’s like and I can’t imagine how it would ever work again.
I feel this. People are really judgmental and look down on you if you don’t have friends. As if having friends is any indicator that you’re a good person.
I’ve kind of forgotten how it’s like to have friends too. Same as you, I haven’t had friends since high school and we had a falling out at the end. One joined another friend group, and the other started treating me poorly because she thought I stole a guy’s attention from her. In a way, I don’t really want to go through the whole process of making friends again, I’ve lost a lot of trust in people. I don’t want to be backstabbed. Friends look nice on TV shows but I doubt people are that caring to you IRL. Maybe I’m just being cynical.