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No. 122519[Reply]

I don't think I've seen a thread for this but I know we discuss fuckboys a lot: experiences with softboys and opinions?

Urban dictionary has it defined as:

> Similar to a fuckboy but without the cocky attitude. The Softboy will butter a girl up by appealing to her emotions and showing a "sensitive" side long enough for her to sleep with him, whether or not he actually cares about her or not. Then, like the fuckboy, he can't/won't commit. Differs from the fuckboy because he goes for the heart and emotions rather than just the body.

Experiences with softboys? overcoming these types of guys and anything else.

I recently had the pleasure of dealing with an incredibly manipulative hybrid of a softboy with a cocky fuckboy, and once I started to see through him, his true colors came out and so did the gaslighting. Still ignoring his incredibly guilt tripping messages to this day about how "he's sorry that I felt that way" when I called him out for his emotional abuse and that "his insecurities get the better of him and hurt people" and he romanticises the shit out of unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Anyone else had to deal with these incredibly fake and crocodile-teared men?
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No. 131624

>>131600
Thought that too. OP's pic is not softboy at all?? I thought softboy was emotionally immature pricks with curly hair who wear sweaters.

No. 131714

>>131600
It reminds me of those early-mid 20s edgy bi/gay guys who try to have that damaged and eccentric "aesthetics" going on on insta lol.

No. 132474

>>122519

Not sure if counts as a soft boy but this dude literally wanted to be some bad boy type. He would wear some dumb leather jackets, smoke, drink whiskey, and play Artic Monkeys unironically. He'd compare himself to other guys calling them softboys when he pretty much does the same thing a soft boy does by turning "muh depression" into a personality trait. Also he cheated on me too lmao

No. 132522

They're witty and have their shit together. Open to new experiences. Egocentric and victim syndrom though, which is a big turn off. No my dude, you're not Jesus bis just a faggot. But normal hot guys are out of my league so hey

No. 132524

>>132522
>They're witty and have their shit together.
never seen one that was either of these things and especially not both


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No. 63860[Reply]

anyone else annoyed with the weight gaining trend? I understand if it's an anorexic girl recovering, but I'm talking about the girls who look fine but shove every little debbie and pizza they can find down their throat and think it will go straight to their ass and tits then come to the sad disappointment when everything BUT their ass and tits get larger
it's trending on the internet and being encouraged by moronic men who think gaining weight will make a girls butt or boobs bigger, it's sad when perfectly thin petite girls with slight curves become average chubby girls because of the weight gain shit

anyone had experiences with this or anything like this? thoughts on the weight gain trend?
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No. 132479

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>puffy face
>protruding belly
>huge butt
>big thighs
>monster calves
A model for letting other girls feel better about themselves for sure!

No. 132484

>>132348
No, fat girls get laid, the guy just doesn't stay/ want to be seen in public with them.

Men stick their dicks into anything that moves. So getting laid isn't really an accomplishment.

No. 132497

>>132484
>the guy just doesn't stay/ want to be seen in public with them.
That appears to be mostly true
So why don't these fat girls tone up then(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 132514

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>>132497
Maybe they don't live for mediocre dick like you do.

No. 132520

Is this a pretext to shit on fat girls? Because this shit is not a trend at all and it mostly concerns ex-ana


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No. 122000[Reply]

What problems do you experience when you like a guy who is skinny or fit and you want to approach him and would like a relationship with him?
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No. 126151

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>>122761
Ok(male)

No. 126162

>>124466
Sure

No. 126179

>>124264
His head, face doesn't fit the body. It is a very bad shoop.

No. 126211

>>126151
Let's see her without the Snapchat filter, mega lift bra, shitty camera, back breaking positions and yeast infection giving panties

No. 132439

I'm constantly wondering if they are lying about wanting to be intimate.let alone liking me


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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 131504

I somehow managed to find a really amazing boyfriend. I have food issues and weight issues, and the other day he told me "I would rather you gain every pound possible than deprive yourself of food". It made me cry. I hateread a lot of posts in pinkpill and on reddit, and I think about how all men only want 100lb 10/10 waifs.

He's kind and sensitive, spoils me (previous boyfriends never gifted me anything), is a good listener.

I didn't think it was possible, anons. I thought I would go through life ugly and unloved and used by guys until they found someone hotter. I stopped hatereading reddit and I feel mentally better.

No. 132322

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I was browsing the old 'fetishes you're ashamed of' thread and came across this and realised this is exactly what my boyfriend is like. I feel so incredibly lucky. He really is the ideal bf to most girls. I'm so happy that I snatched him up lol

No. 132330

>>132322
You can tell that a teen wrote that post

No. 132339

>>132330
The tell was "popular". Aside from that though it's pretty wholesome.

No. 132397

Lets me cry when I need to and never tells me to "calm down" just lets me cry and he comes to cuddle me. That's all I needed my whole life. Just the ability to cry and quiet comfort. My mom never let me cry.


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No. 90960[Reply]

I can't be the only one who constantly has to deal with selfish and clueless guys who've obviously got their idea of sex from watching too much porn.

So let's share our worst and cringeworthies sexual experiences in this thread!
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No. 131837

>>131829
You're going to have serious problems in your future relationships if you put yourself through this. That shit follows you

I'm in my 30s and still fucked up by shitty sexual experiences I had at 19. Don't let this guy ruin sex for you

No. 131845

>>131829
He's super selfish, the sad part is he likely carried on with his ways. You weren't spineless, you were just trying to be nice and most men would aren't pornsick cartoon watchers would have appreciated your effort.
>and he was sick too
I had some ugly bastard give me a cold once too for this reason, lied to me about being sick and I wound up having to spend big bucks going to an emergency care to get antibiotics when it got worse. I remember him being so non-chalant about it too, I should have slapped him so the assault I felt would have been even.

No. 131848

>>131829
>he puts one arm around his dakimakura and one arm around me
>says something like "2D waifu and 3D gf, best of both worlds"

Funniest shit I've read in awhile

No. 131849

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>>131829
>he puts one arm around his dakimakura and one arm around me
>says something like "2D waifu and 3D gf, best of both worlds"

No. 135980

>>131829
None of this is even funny. This is just sad what men have come to.


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No. 56050[Reply]

What's pham opinion of so called "slut shaming" do you believe it's deserved or even real? Have you ever been slut shamed? share your experience/opinions on the topic.


Imo it is a real thing and is pretty unfair for some but it also is almost justified for example dressing too provocatively in an office setting or a hospital, though I believe women have more freedoms with dressing than men with greater creative options e.g skirts, lose fitting tops and crop tops, shorts etc. this same freedom can lead to outfits not matching the setting. There are no double standards for men as they lack this creative oppurtunity to dress I believe. I am anti-feminist and a critic of the sufferigist movement and almost all waves of feminism though I do believe slut shaming is too real. I have been slut shamed many times and felt it was unjustified what about farmers?
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No. 131669

>>131666
lonely and gay.
>666
not today, satan.

No. 131683

>>131666
larp

No. 131685

>>131683
i thought the same thing.

No. 131755

>>131666
are you retarded?

No. 131780

>>58248
Where is this listed?
https://www.koreaboo.com/stories/10-strict-rules-korean-entertainers-must-follow-told-kpop-idol/


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No. 59063[Reply]

Would anyone be interested in a girl-oriented anonymous imageboard? Including boards like

skincare
advice
fashion
jfash
feels
career
sex

Would you be a user?
Which boards should be considered?
How friendly would you want the board tone to be (strict moderation)?
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No. 107746

Was the imageboard made already? Sorry for the stupid question

No. 109437

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(Begone scrot)

No. 109467

>>105761
>said boyfriend was from r9k and they "met" during an r9k raid of CC and she openly bragged about it on the site
It's impossible to brag about such a thing. It's openly advertising how desperate and lacking in self-respect you have to be to knowingly date a dude who goes on /r9k/. What a dumbass she is.

No. 118424

>>105772
Scrots generally become obvious after a few posts.

No. 131599

>>59063
why are the girls bald?


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No. 63152[Reply]

Old thread: >>47022

We've got plenty of underrated dudes on lolcow but are there any men that you're ashamed to say you'd fuck for any reason? Men who are ugly, unattractive, average-looking, creepy, weird or just plain shameful? It doesn't have to be a big reason that you're ashamed, just say why.

Admit your thirst, farmers.
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No. 95029

>>94973
>scroll down
>see this
>choke on my arepa

No. 95037

>>86675
You are not the only one, that's basically what got him elected

No. 95042

>>94971
He was handsome.

No. 131535

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>>64960
great taste anon. i fantasizing about him as well and his young photograph is actually pretty cute.

No. 131536

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>>86467
he make a perfect black twink if he doesnt dress like that


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No. 114835[Reply]

What are your thoughts on casual sex?

Personally, I am extremely against it. I think more bad comes from it than good. I don't judge people for doing it, I just think it's a bad idea. I'm not saying you should only be with one person your entire life or you fucked up, I'm just saying that sex with someone you don't know that well or are in a relationship with us a bad idea.
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No. 131450

>>131448
> his dick was skinny

One of the first guys I met up with for casual sex had a skinny lil dick and looking back I almost think that he should warn women about that before meeting them. Waste of my time meeting him. Even my inexperienced younger self could barely feel it

No. 131456

>>131450
Ot but my bf used to make casual jokes about his small dick. It's 6 inches and has good girth so it isn't even that small, but he's really tall and has huge hands and feet so people tend to asume that he has a huge dick.
And most people still think he has a big dick because he drops these jokes at just the right moment and it's hilarious, so people think he's just kidding.
But he confessed to me that he used to do this so girls would know that his dick is not big, to spare them an unpleasant surprise (if they were mutually interested the girl would always ask if the jokes were true).
Sorry for the blog post but I found it really thoughtful of him, and definitely agree it's the right thing to do.
Being honest about dick size doesn't mean the guy will never get laid, it just means he won't waste the time of girls that are not interested.

No. 131460

>>131456
That's BDE

No. 131463

>>131450
Men with small dicks should go for girls significantly less attractive than them to compensate. There's no way to know before actually getting sexual with each other, so it pre-empts his decreased appeal and puts them on the same level even if he does have a small dick.

No. 131464

>>131463
Volunteers for making ugly girls feel good?


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No. 91012[Reply]

Can we have a body image thread? How do you get over the feeling of feeling absolutely hideous? Please share advice and stories. I'm not bad looking and I'm fairly fit, but I just feel ugly despite my boyfriend telling me otherwise. I want to be more comfortable with myself and being able to show it to him.
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No. 130406

i used to be fairly pretty and had an eating disorder so i was thin, but about two years ago i moved a really long way away from everyone i knew to take care of a sick sibling, got really isolated and depressed, and gained something like 50+ lb because i started drinking almost every day to cope.
anyways i recently ran into an ex of mine from years ago, when i was probably 'peaked' in terms of looks/weight, and we ended up having sex over the course of about a week…until a couple of days ago when he told me that we couldn't date because i was no longer sexually attractive to him due to my weight. because he was 'trained' to like a certain body type.
i dunno, i shouldn't base my self-worth on what other people think of my looks, but it was a huge blow to my ego. i knew i gained weight but i didn't think i had become so ugly that a guy would tell me he loved me and didn't care 'what anyone else thought' one night and then cut me out of his life because i'm too fat for him to tolerate the next day.
it's not like i'm not trying to lose the weight, either. i go to the gym three times a week and i've been cutting back on calories and doing intermittent fasting, but it's so frustrating knowing that he doesn't want to be with me while i'm whittling away at this, he only considers me a romantic prospect once I get down to an ex-ballerina's standards for thinness. It's this kind of shit that gave me an ED when I was a teen and I can feel the same mental state creeping back into my life, especially with fasting being part of my diet plan because after a certain point I hate breaking the fast. it doesn't help that now i'm angry about what he said and I want to prove him wrong and get back to 115lb just to reject his broke alcoholic hipster-moustache starbucks barista ass, so every time that i'm working out or not eating is just like, motivated by spite so much as it's motivated by the desire to get back down to 115lb.

No. 130408

>>130406
>and we ended up having sex over the course of about a week
>he told me that we couldn't date because i was no longer sexually attractive to him due to my weight >he was 'trained' to like a certain body type.

Stop right there. He put his dick inside you and did it over the course of the week. Don't let him tell you a neg so his ego can cope, he never had an intention to date you and the goal was to always get his dick wet.
Don't accept fault as if looking hot would have prevented how he disrespected you when he was gonna use you all along. Men fuck over hot women all the time. They're self serving like that. It has nothing to do with how you look, they just hope you buy that and blame yourself for what they did to you.

No. 130414

>>130390
It's just your natural skin type. Until your early 30's I believe it's quite common to get new moles. Getting moles isn't a bad thing in itself but the more you have the more risk one of them could turn cancerous from sun exposure. Please avoid tanning and getting burnt especially. My dad died from skin cancer. It's no joke.

No. 130424

>>130406
What? He wouldn't have been having sex with you if there was no sexual attraction, what a dick on many levels. Even those guys who hide their chubby gfs at least acknowledge the attraction.

Good for you on getting healthy though. I hope you can get your revenge fantasy without resorting to ED territory!

No. 130746

>>94475
I know this reply is quite old, but we sound quite similar, anon!

I have a nose that's on the larger side, small ish lips and wide ish circular eyes which are typical 'baby' features (if that makes sense) , but then very dark circles which make me look old. I've been told I look tired and older a lot, but I've also been told I look youthful and very young a lot too? It's weird that my featured contradict each other and I don't know how to feel about it. I'm worried that I'm going to age terribly.


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