/g/ - girl talk

>>469956
No that’s Chappie. Same director tho

>>469956
That's Chappie, same director.

>>469906
They do. I can't remember the exact moment in all but Sylus says "take a day off or work closer to me when you're on your period" pretty early on in the audio. The others are also clearly when you're on your period, I think they still also say it. It would be weird if they talked about sex this openly but avoided saying the word period, this is a game for women after all. But apparently JP fans found it weird so maybe JP otomes treat it as a taboo thing, idk.

>>452832
I'd tell him not to self harm over his guilt because it just spreads the guilt over to you. He needs to accept that what he did was wrong and if he wants to really make any sort of atonements he needs to figure out what made him think that it was okay to try molest you in the first place.

Basically the best he can do is try to prevent other kids from being molested but that burden is NOT on you. You're the one who needs to learn how to move on in life with your scars and he's the one who needs to carry the weight of his sins.

my one year anniversary of getting raped at a party is coming up. i remember waking up from blacking out drunk in the middle of it and how bad it hurt, but i did nothing and i let him drive me back to my house. it happened again, i let him into my house again. i remember him asking me the second time if i was scared he was going to rape me. i feel miserable. i haven't told anyone, but i cut contact with him completely. i feel like i'm letting a monster walk free but no one at the party even cared about what happened because he was friends with them all.

Anons, was I sexually abused? I had a gynecologist appointment with a male provider, everything went well/normal but after he was finished he winked at me? I interpreted his wink as in “good luck kiddo” (he’s much older, around my dads age) but even if friendly, I still consider it very inappropriate considering he was just dealing with a very private part of myself. What do you all think, it’s been bothering me.

>>469891
would identifying as sexually abused help you in any way or would it reinforce a victim and inferiority complex within you? not sure why youd want to turn the situation violent in your mind when it was merely awkward. youre just flattering yourself

>>469891
Personally I wouldn't trust the intentions of any male gyno, they're all creeps. Even when it comes to regular male doctors, I've experienced more that've acted creepy in some way than ones that have acted professionally. Regardless though, I am sorry that happened to you, and I would suggest you file a complaint as it is inappropriate regardless of his intentions. To answer your question, I wouldn't consider it sexual abuse, but rather harrassment.

>>469812
Not really, it's just being safe. You get to know the person and see if you have chemistry before having sex, usually you don't go on dates etc. after you decide to start a sexual relationship (unless it's like a fwb/situationship you also do stuff you would do with friends). You don't have to indicate anything, you just flat out tell them you are looking for something casual.

>>469814
Got it, thanks.

>>469784
Thank you for the laugh nonna KEK, what possessed him to do that kek.

My worst sex experience which I still fret about sometimes is hooking up with a guy and on my way out I’m sure I clocked a hidden recording device. I didn’t have time to process it properly at the time and it was something I’ve only really pieced together in hindsight. I’d say there’s a high chance there’s footage of me now being shared amongst degenerates and there’s nothing I can do. Just wanted to add this to the discussion about how having sex with men really isn’t safe at all, even if you think you know them.

>>469714
My nigel and I lost our virginities together and we while we both were inexperienced and had no idea what we were doing the sex was always good. Over time we both got better, and sex is amazing. It might sound crazy and I know people will think I’m retarded for this, but we dated 3 years before having sex and I think that contributed to how good our sex life is surprisingly. We are super close and know eachother super well. We’ve been together 6 years now and we still have sex daily sometimes multiple times. So, it definitely can get better over time if you two are compatible. I guess it also really depends on the moid. It sounds like your moid didn’t actually care about getting you off, or thought it was “too much work”

I'm a sucker for artsy boys who shop at skate shops and thrift stores, and make / alter their own clothes

I don't know how to label picrel but it's perfect, it's at the intersection of all my menswear fixations
>>447842
>I know they really just wear the male equivalents of burqas
Not really. Tuareg's turbans are for scalding hot winds in the desert, they function as a kind of sunscreen aswell, it's not for modesty. Women in those regions wrap their clothing around their head for the same reasons. Sperging aside, you're absolutely right, they're really elegant in an effortless way. They're often really tall too so it helps

I don't know what to call this but I love those moids that dress in oversized sweaters and pants (bonus points for having the hood over their heads and wearing a cap). I think it's mostly east asians dressing like this and I love how it looks. Sorry for shitty pic i couldn't find a better one kek

>>462974
Saw a guy wearing this on pinterest and wanted to post it to ideal male body thread but didn't post it since the page reloaded. I should try to look for it again

Binging has ruined my life for the past 6-7 years, I've tried to stop so many times and I've seen short periods of success here and there but I never 100% stopped. It was the worst during covid, when I ate 4k-5k calories a day easily and barely moved, reached 75kg. This year I weighed at my lowest adult weight, 63kg. The way I managed to lose this weight is totally unsustainable though, because I did hours and hours of cardio to try to burn off my binges. I would literally run half marathons on random Tuesday evenings, use the stairmaster for hours at a time etc… But alas, I lost weight. I've put on 4kg since the beginning of December though, because I don't have access to my exercise machines and I haven't been able to burn off my binges. The exercise has also been putting a toll on my knees and ankles.
This year I will stop this, I'm determined. I know my binging is totally in my control and I'm not gonna let this disorder ruin my life and health any longer.

Things I've learned as a binge eater:
>prozac helps
>vyvanse helps
>STOP counting calories and trying to compensate by exercising and starve yourself the following day - it only agitates the cycle
I say this as a person who has been bulimic for all of her teens and 20s, and has stopped at 29 and hasn't relapsed into bulimic behavior since.
Binge eating could be a symptom of so many things, so here's a small list:
>anxiety, depression, ADHD, nutritional deficiencies, hormonal imbalances

>>467878
i'm so happy for you nonny. I hope I can succeed like you one day

>>468966
what i've learned is you gotta keep trying until you find something that works for you, and sometimes, the things that people are telling you only work for them.
If you have anything that's untreated, anything that seems to line up with your binge eating behaviors, address that instead, and you may find your way back to actually treating your BED.

I started binge eating due to things that happened in my childhood as a child. No one would notice because I didnt put on much weight, however I was able to break this pattern after getting heavily into mediatation. I ended up settling at my set weight, which is genetically at a lower range. However after meeting a family member for the first time last year, she relentlessly started pushing me to eat more. Saying my spine would break if I don't put on weight, although there was no indication of me being unhealthy, and my blood work was always perfect. Now I know how insane that is, but it still ended up triggering my binging to return. Meditation isn't helping me either now, because I'm still processing losses of those close to me. So I still struggle with it now, while I just have a growing resentment against her. I feel bad about this too, because I know she probably meant well

>>446511
i feel like i post itt too much but you inspired me to actually learn astrology and i'm getting a better grasp on houses, aspects, and meaning of the planets. but i'm truly curious on how you got history of sexual/physical trauma from sun-uranus? this has been living rent free in my head the past few days
looking at uranus in aquarius
>uranus is change, rebellion, progress, individuality in 7th house (partnerships)
>saturn is traditional ruler of aquarius, saturn is limitations/restrictions/challenges
then the sun
>sun represents the ego/father in 4th house(home and family) in scorpio
>scorpio is ruled by pluto (transformation/death) which is in the 5th house (self-expression, creativity, pleasure)
>sun is being squared by neptune & uranus, neptune is planet of idealism in 7th house (partnerships)
>conjunct venus (4th house scorpio - obsession/family)
like am i looking way too hard into this and does it also have something to do with my lilith and chiron in scorpio, 4th and 5th house respectively too? as a newbie i would interpret it as the father doing something to harm the progress/"the self" of the person. and the sun square neptune/uranus is shattering that idealism and progress so stunting their growth? but im curious on how you got it so specific. when i tried looking online i see there's a lot of avoidance of reading trauma in the chart.

>>466933
you’re lucky i even decided to come into this sad thread but yeah the reason why is because most of it is occupied by a bunch of pink-pilly divine feminine weirdos obsessed with celebrities, fame and beauty so of course talks of regular life and life scripts is completely out of the question with those people but i have found some very useful info on the web, i would suggest honestly starting from absolute scratch and reading beginner books and guides and then work your way up to more advanced knowledge. idk how i read your stuff, like i said I’m just a sloppy intuitive and can only do it sometimes. sun-uranus would be an abruptive force against the father, the masculine, some people think this is an aspect for gay people and trannies (idk why? maybe because of the rebellion or because Uranus in his myth had his penis chopped off by his own son creating venus-Aphrodite kek) but again uranus along with aquarius feels like the planet of taboos imo and not that sexual trauma is consensual or anything i just personally felt like it was some sort of sexual abuse or moral violations happening under the home also your father being incredibly flighty and the lack of commitment to your mother. think of Lilith as the negative aspects of womanhood or the collective junkyard of womankind where we find bpdettes, disordered women, pixyteris, sex workers, jealous women and even men, sexual predation, victim-prey dynamics, imo hidden enemies and bullies and things that hold you back, abortions, female socialization in her early years again bringing back the darker side of her own mother that reflects into herself because you are her daughter. sometimes with this lilith especially what i’m getting now and what i’ve heard from many women talking about their upbringing is that you may be a painful reminder of your mother’s wishes and what she wanted her life to be, in some aspects it could mean she didn’t really want children in the first place but it feels like cyclical events when Lilith is reflected back to the child, now that Lilith as your mother has traumatized you, you’ve kind of adopted the same feelings and imo you’re using it to transform yourself using your own mother’s wishes which is probably why you abhor the thought of giving birth or being pregnant, also like you said your traumatic birth where you said yoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>467166
oh my god thank you so much that helped a lot. it's reassuring knowing I'm atleast on the right path when interpreting. I've tried to ask so many diff astrologers and they always stop responding. honestly it feels like astrology is filled with those types of divine feminine weirdos like you said and super pretentious people too it's a bit annoying. I ordered some books yesterday (hellenistic astrology by Brennan, astrology and the authentic self by demetra, and the wisdom of the stars by carole) been practicing on friends too and so far apparently I've been really good at my interpretations apparently, so im excited.i don't think I'll ever be in the tier of telling people about their finances and professions and shit though but who knows.
until those books come in I've been relying on contradicting descriptors for everything. your interpretation of chiron and lillith was very, very helpful
having to sift through finding the meanings online has been a headache since it's all hidden behind pseudo mysticism spiritual word garbage instead of being straightforward or using consistent examples.
am >>464200 so I still pop in to see if you guys mention your art requests unless it's posted on another board and im retarded

Can I get some rads please?

i really wish to know what you think nonnies, thank you in advance!

>>457011
Wow, first time i am hearing someone use only 1°. Do you read most charts as not having aspects?

>>457036
Oh sorry, to be clear I'm talking about daily/weekly transits

>>457036
Now I feel guilty for posting like an unhelpful noob, but I really only read my own chart I'm very fast and loose with orb degrees. If two aspects are in alignment at 6-7d in the house of my moon sign then I don't care if some blogger says past 5d isn't significant or whatever, although I wouldn't go past 10d. The important thing to remember is that outer planet alignments are more likely to be outwards facing trends and less deeply personal, so a distantly spaced alignment with neptune or whatever may not really carry that much personal significance, but it really all depends on how it interplays with your entire chart and it could still have had some impact in your life

Neptune enters Aries on my birthday this year (I am an aries obvi). Any idea on what this could mean for me personally? I've been reading about Neptune entering aries but I feel like this happening in my sun house and on my birthday has to have some significance.

Can I get some readings? Terrible chart regarding people, right?

The beard… it thickens.

>>439255
OP of >>438952 here, they put me on birth control too, not even to correct my high T but just to make sure I had more regular i.e shorter cycles. It doesn't benefit me at all to have periods more often so I stopped. Sorry to hear they didn't do shit for you besides a pointless prescription, I hope you can tail off if you think you don't need it, I think that basically doing HRT at our ages is a bit of a risk if we're not sure it's actually treating anything.

I will never look cute or even normal I have the largest eyebrows on anyone I've ever seen man or woman they take up half my forehead. I can wear a mask for the rest of my face but eyebrows can't even be lasered. Fml

Why the fuck do hormonal cysts exist, I fucking hate having to do salt baths for the cysts that show up on my vag and I hate that I can’t move or run without accidentally popping a cyst on my ovaries. I haven’t had them for almost a year but now they’re all coming back and it hurts to sit down

I went to a gyno yesterday looking for an endo diagnosis because now every time I need to shit on my period early on it feels like I'm passing glass and I want to die. But it turns out my right ovary is swollen something like 11oz. Doc said anything over 10oz is questionable and 12oz is most definitely PCOS. My left one is normal at around 7oz. She said my ovaries look like a chocolate chip cookie. And pointed to these dark spots on the ultrasound that could possibly endo. I always thought my pelvis looked lopsided to the right but I thought that was just how my uterus was situated. I tried to get tested for PCOS years ago but I went to a moid doctor, and because my hormones came back normal I was basically told to fuck off and pushed birth control pills before the bloodwork was even sent out. She told me there are varying severities of PCOS, and fitting into more than two criteria is enough for the diagnosis. I fit into a few of them mildly but I guess I just have what they call Type D. My periods were never clockwork but also never missing for months on end. I feel apathetic being diagnosed with what I knew I probably had for years now but it's also nice to have my pain acknowledged.

I think the saddest thing to come out of all of this is when I went to tell my boomer mother about the results. She had really bad PCOS, even now post-menopausal she has white stubble on her chin. They put her on birth control just so she could get a period because she would go months without one. The fact that I'm here and posting on lolcow is a miracle in itself. I asked her what ovary gave her issues to see if we had the same fucked-up one and she said that she "wasn't really sure", and "the doctors thought I had it and never tested me", and asked if there was a test. Nonnas I wanted to cry. They didn't even bother to try to test her and just told her to swallow some pills to try and fix her life. I got results from a transvaginal ultrasound and they've had them since the 80s. Hell they could've ran bloodwork on her and saw her hormones were most likely screwed up. I hate the current world we live in nonnas but I am so, so glad that I did not grow up when my mother did. I would've pulled a Sylvia Plath.

>>468486
how are they not the same race

>>468539
Ethnicity whoops kek

>>468540
I’m not sure why being specifically Italian is important. When I first saw Luigi I really thought he was Egyptian lol.

>>468559
Well yeah his looks matter

less nitpicking more examples of CEO killer lookalikes eating pussy please.

>>466484
It's the 21st century, you don't need to take some guy's name.

>>466484
Please post his last along with other “religious” last names, I am really curious about this. I am Middle Eastern and I cannot imagine a last name being religious.

>>466484
Nona your offspring should have your last name anyways, you're the one giving life to them.
If your nigel's name is retarded please don't give that to the kids t. someone who got bullied bc I got my dad's awful last name (my mom kept her maiden name and said fuck them kids)

>>466546
ayrt I'm obviously not gonna post a unique name and dox him kek, but we're not from an english speaking country so the name wouldn't make sense in english anyway. It's a bit hard to fully convey the feeling in english but it sounds as cringe as "Mr. Priestboy" or "Mr. Christlove" like if someone made a priest NPC in a game.

To all the other nonas, I KNOW I don't have to take his name but like I said I would like us (and future kids) to match and it's hard to convince someone to take a boring ass name instead when they don't see the problem with their own "special" name. I hate that I'm so autistic about it kek
Best suggestion was to come up with a new name, I guess I should try to get him on that track but I have no idea how we would pick one then? My best idea is to go full quirky on him and pretend I love the idea of a special made up name just for us or something. But I'd really be happy with any basic name, just not what he's got kek I'm the worst

My favorite thing about my nigel is that he loves me kek I feel like a narc for thinking that but knowing that I'm his no. 1 priority and that he would be heartbroken if I left makes me feel so warm and fuzzy inside. My exes had me constantly feel sick of anxiety and jealousy that they'd leave me and that I wasn't good enough, but this guy makes me feel like I'm the center of his universe. I've never felt so secure and comfy before.