Some guy messaged me once on russian alternative of facebook, he complimented me and we started talking. Now, I guess, I wouldn't find him interesting or something, but back then I was omnivorous in terms of interaction. He seemed witty to me at the time, and encouraged my playfulness (I noticed that some men don't get it, they take everything you say seriously either because they're dumb or think that women can't joke, which is also dumb). So it was pretty entertaining. He found me attractive and didn't hide that he wanted to have sex with me. I wasn't really attracted to him, I just thought he was okay. I didn't take any of that seriously. Also I was a 19 year old virgin (he was seven years older), and I was a bit curious. I told him I was a virgin and he boasted about his big experience.
So we eventually met and went to his flat (it wasn't really his, he lived with a grannie). I knew I didn't want to have sex with him right after waking up, but I was bored and wanted to see what would happen. And, well, it was pretty weird. He started to show me some videos on his computer (scenes from some obscure comedic show that weren't that funny), and I saw porn pics in his folders. His breath smelled sour because of tea. And he got this stupid idea: I had to stand up, and he would hold my hair in a fist, and then we would walk in a circle with him behind my back. We were fully clothed, he didn't try to grip my hair or something, it was just in his hand. Not that I wanted him to, I just didn't understand the point, it wasn't sexy, it was kind of lacklustre. So I started laughing because it was ridiculous and awkward, and he reacted with bewilderment. Probably was expecting me to get wet from this, lol, idk. Then we sat down and talked awkwardly, I was a bit uncomfortable. He mentioned political events in Egypt - I just heard about them but didn't follow closely, so I inquired about certain things, and he reacted like it was something on the need-to-know basis, but then he would just say "well, you're a girl, so it's okay, you don't have to know about that". I started to get really annoyed with this guy, but didn't say anything, just got even more distant. He tried to lick my neck, but it was really meh, like he didn't even know what he was doing, and, well, I just didn't want him. And it was time to go, because I had classes later that day.
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