/g/ - girl talk

>>448119
awesome

>>448306
only if you believe it

why is my love life shit

Why do I feel so trapped

Am I EVER going to find love in this lifetime?
PS. I've been told my birth chart says I will make a lot of money and I've done pretty well for myself! lol

>>442510
i just finished watching mouthwashing play through and i’m obsessed. she’s perfect and i’m so sorry for everything she’s been through. i love her so much

>>442510
>>448266
I've been considering getting into the game just for her

>>448267
do it nonna! i’ve been too hesitant to approach the game myself, but turns out it’s fine. the game is just alright, it has some classic horror elements, gore & a somewhat decent plot. but i really don’t care for any other characters besides anya. i wish her dreams came true. to me, there is an alternative universe, where she killed her rapist and escaped that damn ship safely. she’s attending a nurse school like she’s always wanted.

She is so fucking hot I need her nose buried between my pussy folds.

>>369352
Based anon you totally get her 100%. Unfortunately I fantasize about being in an abusive marriage type situation with Makima as an emotionally battered wife, there's just no way to be in an equal relationship with her given fundamentally who she is. She could never understand or appreciate my genuine love for her. I want to express how much I love her through doing coupley mundane things like eating and sleeping together just like the companionship she wants deep down. Honestly even if she beat my ass I would still stay KEKKK

>>446549
It's insane how men, despite vastly outnumbering women on dating apps and crying about it, still won't put in any effort. Like you'd think they'd actively be competing with each other but no.

What are some of you guys' personal green flags when meeting someone for a date?

I just met this guy off tinder for a first date and it went really well actually. He paid for everything, held open the doors, was super polite, flirty but not over the top, very respectful too.

Walked me to my car, we kissed and he told me to text him when I got home safely. We've got a second date planned in two days. I want to be excited but a part of me is genuinely really scared to get hurt. I've never had to do this dating this before as i've had two LTR in the past and never had to subject myself to the apps.

>>425145
Like the guys without social skills are the attractive type. Not into men who want princess treatment either.

>>442659
I'm in the same boat nona. I've been single for the last nine months after a break up and I feel like I want to start dating again, but I've only ever met long term bfs in an organic way. at this point I feel like I have to accept dating apps are the simplest way, but every time I go on there I feel sick. I feel like everyone on there just seems desperate and lonely. I need to just get over myself but god I really am miserable about the death of meeting people the normal way kek.

>>442659
You can always delete your account if it doesn't work out. It's something I'm torn about because I used apps for years and never got a date or found someone functional on them, but meeting someone organically just isn't going to happen when I have little free time besides work and most women I meet organically as friends are simply straight.

>>449351
Nta but a real answer: he's sort of a creep who got with a 20 year old when he was 49 and is best friends with Dicaprio

>>449379
Lmao he should've been cast for harry osborn

>>449387
I mean internet sources state that she's 32 years old. Still weirdly young but nowhere near Dicaprio's level

Obsessed with this video

>>450000
As you should be, it feels so pure, like a time capsule of everything that was good about the 2000s. I love this video too.

>>447606
Aw I definitely will, hopefully soon ♥

How are your experiences with parents if they were immigrants? I love my mom but sometimes she can be so genuinely retarded about people's intentions. She's that type of immigrant who worships and bootlicks the country she moved into and thinks they're absolutely not capable of harm. Being Asian we have white moids sexually harass us all the time and she thinks they're just being friendly. She's not a pickme type, she's just genuinely fucking clueless. She would berate me for "being cruel to people" when I wouldn't reply to grown moids yelling at me across the street "Nee how! Nice tits girl!" or "Yoo I love Asian girls" in a blatantly derogatory way when I was a preteen, saying they "just wanted to be friendly". Good lord. Sarcasm or rhetoric doesn't really exist much in my language so if some moid licked his lips and said he loved Asian women to her face she would just think he was interested in our culture/food/fashion etc. and would probably invite him to her place to cook him dinner kek.
My dad is just like this but worse. He sees every white person as inherently smarter than us and has the mentality that being immigrants, we need to socialise and make alliances and "learn" from them to survive, which is understandable, but ramped up to an exponential amount. I remember him yelling at me for hours that I was incredibly stupid would never be successful with my "friendless and antisocial mentality" after I was visibly uncomfortable and didn't reply when a grown white middle aged moid that he knew was fucking touching me inappropriately when I was ELEVEN. Reason? The moid was a business owner with a PhD, and that's the peak of success and perfection in his eyes. And of course, if I'd actually gotten molested he would've blamed me for purposely seducing the moid even though I barely understood what sex was at the time.

Jesus Christ I hate passport bros so fucking much "euugggh evil wuyestern wahmen with their eicky yucky PHDs. But fear not! My beautiful submissive Asian wi—"

FUCK OFF FUCK OFF FUCK OFF. You're Thai/Filipino/Viet GF is only with you for your money you fucking retard. Hate seeing those "Asian women are soooooo much better 'cause they're kawiwi and kiss the ground their moids walk on" as if that's a compliment, apparently we should appreciate comments like that.

I pray to Allah that they all get the Eliot Eastman treatment, inshallah.

>>449795
I love how moids think woc should feel complimented whenever they prefer us over white women. It just shows they see us as an object to spite said white women only. Funnily enough men also pride themselves on how they're supposedly not picky and would fuck anything

>>449911
this and tbh the very second that the white scrote finds a white woman who has the same exact values and outlook in life and relationships like he does, he will pretty much dump the woc for her. that or cheat on the woc and hope that pushes her to break up with him so that he can be the victim like all moids like to do. white men are okay with wocs for sexual purposes but its extremely rare for them to actually be able to fall in love with one in all seriousness.

>>449375
>>446310
Osmolarity is not a process, it's a measurement of how molecules/particles move in a solution. The study isn't even about glycerin at all. It's about nonoxynol-9, which is a form of birth control. glycerin provides moisture to the skin through attracting it from the air. If the air is very low in humidity, or you apply the moisturiser too late after washing your face, then your skin might be very dry after applying it. The same goes for hyaluronic acid, which is essentially an inferior version of glycerin. These kinds of people spread this misinformation because people have reasonable fear of what's in their products thanks to past incidents where agencies meant to prevent harm to us have failed and i'd recommend you actually read scientific papers past the abstract and ask yourself if it has been relayed to you in a way that's honest, in this woman's case, she purposely lied. A lot of times, they do this because they want you to buy products from them and are simply trying trash talk their competition. Also, there are a lot of junk science papers out there were the method to obtain results are straight shit, so be careful when doing your research. Btw, i am not trying to say nobody should use natural skincare or that everyone needs a 10-step skincare routine. I have not watched her video and i am not trying to make myself mad with her bullshit. Lab muffin science beauty on youtube is a much more reliable youtuber to watch if you want a proper breakdown on ingredients and how skincare is formulated because she actually works as a cosmetic chemist, it's more complicated that people make it out to be.

>>449685
I live in the US so I've never tried any of those, but the local brand sunscreen here also made me burn and I haven't had that issue with Asian sunscreens. Plus they usually have a nicer consistency too. I'd say you should try it, avoid buying from Amazon though because they're known to send knockoffs often. Here's the ones I've tried and liked:
>nivea sun water gel
>beauty of joseon relief sun
>COSRX aloe soothing sunscreen
>canmake mermaid skin gel UV (my favorite but a bit expensive online here)

>>449685
Chemical sunscreens tend to irritate me, I usually go for mineral although they're usually harder to get on. Patting them on at least tends to keep the white cast even. Sun bum's mineral is decent if you pat it, supergoop's is less fussy to get on and also decent but it's slightly pricier

>>337378
nonnie you will probably never see this but while reading through the thread i saw your post, and i tried those green little exfoliating towels and holy fuck. literal years of dry skin solved immediately. may all your dreams come true thank you forever and ever

>>448002
Yeah not only do the undertones not match but he also expects us to believe that the same person has a full untrimmed bush but also an impeccably depilated butthole.

>>448012
lmao

I have pic of hairy bootyhole before shaving but celebration has been done already. Sorry for the inconvenience

Hairy foot anon wherever you are I hope you're having a nice day

>>449588
I'm sure she's having a nice day
Btw here's armpit hair

>>449220
In what world is sam hyde jewish you retard

>>448927
If he didn't have some weird Telegram drama shit happening with him I think I'd still be attracted to him.

>>449220
I’m pretty sure he and his podcast friends are extremely hateful towards Jews.

>>449138
KEEEEK no fucking way

>>449216
Gooood I want him so bad.He fits almost exactly the kind of shlubbish dudes I’m into.I want to have a smoke sesh with him and suck him off

I was doing pretty good at having my own boundaries and understanding how to deal with my family dynamics. My moms mental illness, coldness, stubborness and dependency among other things. But one of my older sisters would always go back and forth from reaching out every year or so, to dissapearing completely again and going through some terrible isolation with bad jobs. She'd shower me with compliments for a night, then, radio silence for weeks or more usually months. but I wouldnt see her for years even.
We were always pit against eachother because of my moms illness, so I figured she wanted to mend things maybe and we would all try and pitch in and heal. I felt like I was making progress getting closer to her, opened up a lot with eachother, I was trying to boost her self esteem, combating the self deprecation and taking her out when she'd agree, nudging her away from dangerous situations, self destructive thinking and mistreatment from moids.
But we were helping our mom out with a difficult part of her life, and something seemed to overflow? She became so vicious to me, I figured she was stressed so I rolled with it. But it got bad so quickly when she was visiting me, started intensly saying kind of bizzare accusations about me and she started saying vicious, unkind and angry things. She then kept trying to fight me and when I resisted she got angry and kept trying to knock me over. Im sturdy so I was fine and didnt need to fight back and just braced when she'd swing, but it was disturbing so I bluff warned her Id get legal intervention if she didnt stop attacking and destroying my things, and this is what crossed her line. Still not sure if I was weird for that. She cut me off not too long after and has disappeared since. Im worried about her and unsure if I should try and find her.
Anyone have something similar happen?

Anyone's social skills just busted because of their parents? Growing up I was never allowed to have friends. I'd talk to people at school obviously but my mother never let me go out with anyone after school or bring any friends home. I never even had a birthday party with friends, they would always just be me and my parents and maybeeee an aunt. She didn't even like hearing about my schoolfriends and called them horrible things like "bitches" and "assholes" even though they never did anything wrong. She always acted like they were going to lead me down a path of drugs and partying even though they were nerds who spent their time reading Harry Potter and watching anime. I don't think any of my friends ever even got a detention in school.
I obviously wasn't allowed to date either, but that didn't stop my mother from being suspicious I was even though I went to an all girls school and never left the house except for school unless she was with me. Once she saw an exercise book that I'd doodled hearts on and went off because that was a sign in her mind that I liked a boy, and she kept interrogating me about who the boy was even though I didn't know any boys.
I find it very hard to make friendships as an adult, and relationships are out of the question as long as I live with her. Unfortunately we have a housing crisis and as inconvenient as it is, I think I'm better off being lonely for a few more years while I save up instead of spending 1k that I can't afford to live in a shoebox with three strangers. My mother isn't against me dating now and even tells me she hopes I find someone, but I just can't bring someone home to my parent's craziness, and I think it would be pretty hard to date if I could never even have them over at my place.

>>444574
Late but holey fuck are you me? Your first paragraph is 100% my parents except my father was a genuine paranoid schizo to add with it. Apart from that they'd try and nitpick all my friends because of their biased negative standards for me. Basically if I was friends with A, they'd be like "A is a terrible person! Why don't you hang out with B? They're good!" but if I hung out with B, their mentality would shift and call B terrible and ask me why I wasn't hanging out with A.

>>421758
Probably homelessness.

>>421910
>your situation is far from unique
Ah yes, the common event of someone prevented from even taking a shit in peace. Get a grip on reality and stop watching true crime. All of your know-it-all advice is also useless. This is a victim in a very kidnapped cultlike situation. Most people in these situations get murdered by the scrote. There's a reason everyone is shocked by this story and others like it. Something to this degree and all the odds falling out of her favor isn't common at all.

>>448691
Its me, the nona in the cultlike situation. Just happened to have the tab open among many, saw your reply. Thank you for reading any or all of those long posts, and for validating what I was thinking in the back of my mind for a while, then second guessing my thoughts as wrong.

Since my last post, I finally got the courage to ask a financial place for a credit card so I can build a credit score. Its not a scam either. This will sound dumb but until very recently, I didnt know that having no credit score meant no way of ever getting my own apartment (extremely high cost of living in my country besides..), and a car, and my own phone (the very old phone I use is under a relatives name, cant change this without a credit check). I was never taught anything about finances, surprise surprise. So still no place of my own, no car, no phone of my own, but its a start.

Youre right, homelessness is a big thing that stops me from just leaving. Homeless women get trafficked, raped, etc. Its getting more dangerous where I live, with random moidery and arson attacks. Have no passport either, the application is being stalled by the moid sibling, long story.

Another update is that someone scared the moid sibling by putting something that looks like rock salt(?) (or he thinks its glass), and building materials like nails near his vehicle. It was cold and there is construction nearby, but its automatically assumed to be malicious. The moid and boymom were hostile and furious upon finding it, threatening "whoever did it", even though nothing happened and no one was hurt. It was so silent for a few days in our home, you could hear a pin drop. I was terrified they would take it out on me, but thankfully things turned out ok so far. I was asked if it was me who did it, I said no and grey rocked to the best of my ability. The moid sibling all of a sudden repaired the fence since he obv didnt care about our safety before, only his vehicles safety. He insisted it was NOT the moidlet neighbor who already broke our window. Now theres a camera in the yard, and only the moid sibling has the footage in his room. Now, cant even walk outside or garden in peace without walking by and getting on his camera. Oddly, since the absolutely horrific discovery, the moid sibling and boymom have been nicer and backed off the bathroom harassment, for now. He also stopped inviting Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>448830
I convinced myself I'm unlovable and I'm "sparing" people the burden of loving me by living in a fantasy instead. I get the benefits of a good relationship without bothering anyone else. Also he can never leave me. He only hurts me when I want him to and I can change the story the moment I don't like it. I'm in complete control and that feels really safe and good.

I enjoy my maladaptive daydreaming tbh. Helps me distract myself from the horrors of reality and it gives me a lot to think autistically about.
I know most people would insist it's unhealthy, but I genuinely prefer keeping to myself and just watching people rather than interacting with them.
The big downside is that my social skills are really shit and I can only open up on anonymous sites like this, but I can do the bare minimum to go shopping, deal with people I have to etc.

Is this what they call as “yume”

>>449107
No, yume is just shipping yourself with a character. You can be attracted to real life people and be a yume.

>>449101
I'm sure you're not unlovable anon. For me I'm kind of the opposite though, schizoid-ish traits say no real love could work for me kek. I feel a loneliness that irl love is supposed to cure but it doesn't, so into my head I go.