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Like the title says.
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No. 333405

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Does anyone have any tips for gently correcting technique with guys without making it awkward or ruining the momentum? I basically have a lot of trouble advocating for myself even in a fwb situation where it should be totally acceptable to be self-centered. Basically: What kind of stuff do you say if someone's earnestly trying to get you off but just not doing it right without bringing it to a screeching halt and still being sexy?

No. 333413

some low-libido woman who wants little more than one or two kids from her male partner will be ecstatic to have your disinterested man after you dump him.

No. 333418

set up your expectations beforehand / during foreplay. you could propose a game where he has to get a sound of pleasure from you. each time he does something good enough to make you respond, you advance in small steps past foreplay.
obviously you have to make sure not to play sexy during this or it will defeat the point (no making noises just to move things along or get a rise out of him). the less response you have if he's not really hitting the good spots, the better. framing it like a game will keep him from thinking you're just disinterested or suddenly got into dead-fish play.
just an idea. for the record I think it's ok to bring it to a screeching halt sometimes and go "I don't know how to tell you this but that feels like nothing" and kill his boner a little before he gets too far ahead of himself.

No. 333430

My bf is getting doughy and it's affecting my attraction to him. Idk what to do because he would never say that to me. In fact even when I was 25lbs heavier he didn't even notice. There are other things too and I'm scared bc he's probably going to not react well to this but seriously, enough is enough. I can't stand running my hands over flab instead of muscle. We've been together for a million years and he's dealt with a lotttttttt a lot a lot of sexless months from me so I feel extra shit but I can't help it. He's an absolute sweetheart who dotes on me in many ways but he needs to be brought down a peg or two. He needs to fucking take care of his hair and beard, it's really not cute to have a wild pube beard, and I'm seriously sick of dancing around the fact that I can hear him liquid shitting every day through the fucking bathroom door and he needs to do something about it. I'm basically at the point where despite all the really good things about being with this man, if he's going to throw a fit about this, I'm somewhat okay with this ending. Even if he is a non-pornsick, extremely kind, otherwise very attractive, super masculine man. It's do or die at this point because of how long we've been together and I don't think I can live the rest of my life with someone who doesn't take care of themselves and "procrastinates" for actual years. It would really fucking suck to break up because I'm a neet without him but I can't do it anymore.

No. 333449

"You're getting fat. Stop it"

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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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My Nigel’s biggest positive is that he was raised by a single mom since like 4 and had no shitty toxic dad to imprint on him, like many men have.

He’s still a man and imperfect but he’s a great one. Very patient. Has never insulted me in 4 years, even in our worst arguments. Great communicator. Loves to cook and is AMAZING at it. Frequently compliments me and showers me with affection. Likes to go to places like museums and trying new restaurants with me. Does zero drugs and only drinks on special occasions (I’m normally fine with weed smoking but it’s been cool to be with someone who doesn’t). Drives me everywhere. 30 and still has all his hair kek. Has nice friends and family, no toxicity or shady bad influences.

No. 333294

>Renovating his house to suit my specific needs/wants
>Started with the kitchen, because of how much I love to cook/bake
>So appreciative of my cooking. He follows me around in the kitchen while I cook, kissing my neck and hugging me and telling me how good everything smells
>Every time I make him something new he says "This is literally the best (insert dish here) I have ever had"
>"No you cooked everything, I'm going to do the dishes. Sit down"
>Got me all new appliances and cookware when I moved in with him
>I'm an artist and he's always offering to support my art hobbies
>Says he'll buy or build me anything I need, just built me a frame from rug making, offered to get me a Glowforge
>Is in the process of building me my dream garden, with a greenhouse
>Doesn't watch porn, decided he didn't like it in his teens
>Was a virgin when I met him, by choice, he said he didn't want to have sex with someone he couldn't see himself marrying. Wouldn't have sex with me for months until he knew for sure he had strong feelings about me
>I drink cold brew every morning, and he's secretly been researching different types of coffees to surprise me with a cold brew maker and a sampling of coffee types
>We both work from home. He's equally supportive of me continuing to work as he is me quitting my job to raise kids one day
>Taking me to Japan this Fall
>Mention being sad I no longer have a cat, since mine passed. Tell him I miss the energy cats bring into the house (he already has a dog that I do still love very much)
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No. 333425

I love calling my boyfriend "poop" or "my little poop" affectionately, am I the only one?

No. 333429

Take it to the dumbass shit thread in /ot/

No. 333458

yeah and if i posted in the dumbass shit thread they'd say "we don't care about your nigel"

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No. 222273[Reply]

Anything you want or desire, the Universe will provide you with it.

Post about your manifestation journey, goals and successes.

Tips and advice are welcome!
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No. 331795

Before 2024 starts ill be happy with a boyfriend that respects me and wants to spend the future with me.

No. 331923

it will all work out for me in the end

No. 333350

Okay I'm done manifesting for now because over the past few months it didn't do anything for me, and then the last thing I manifested, I literally got the OPPOSITE which was upsetting. And this was based on a neutral situation where anything could happen, but of course exactly what I didn't want ended up happening.

No. 333392

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I will find a girlfriend who loves me. Who let's me spoil her, who spoils me back, who supports and encourages me. With whom I feel like I'm home with, who wants to share her life with me. ;__;

No. 333569

We'll still be friends. It'll be okay again and we'll talk like we used to.

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No. 323080[Reply]

I see this come up as a topic in the relationship thread a lot and thought maybe it should be it's own thread.

So as a straight woman if you don't want to die alone you will eventually have to have to try to find a man who isn't totally disgusting, which is extremely hard. One of the most important qualities a man needs to have is not watching porn. So here are some questions to discuss:

How do you find a man who doesn't watch porn?
Is it possible or impossible?
Can you convince a man to give up porn for you?
Do you think a man can give up porn forever?
How do you trust a man not to watch porn?

Personally I think that a man will probably never quit using porn fully. I have had two relationships with men who told me they won't watch porn because it hurts me and I consider it cheating. The first one I straight up caught watching porn, the second one I found out was trying to skirt around the rule of "no porn" by not considering things like gifs of women doing a sexy dance or still images of naked women as porn. He'd also listen to women doing ASMR and I think he was also watching porn whenever we had a fight and he was angry at me. At this point I don't think it's possible anymore.
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No. 333136

I don’t think you got the memo. This is now the thread for women who have been hurt by porn addicts to sperg about the evils of scrotes. All scrotes are porn addicts by default and any relationship with them is doomed from the start.

Seriously speaking though, like >>333119 said, lurking his social media can give off clues. I’m guessing it’s a little early still, but if/when you start being intimate it can also be telling. Porn-addicts are frequently either hypersexual and overly focused on kink, or low-libido (may also have erectile dysfunction). He shouldn’t have problems becoming sexually aroused by you or reaching orgasm, and sex should feel intimate and connected (though it’s normal for things to be a bit awkward at first so give it a couple of goes if you’re on the fence).

In reality there is no way to be 100% certain whether anyone is a porn addict (now termed Schrödinger’s coomer). You can not know everything about any person and there’s always a risk of getting hurt when you enter a relationship. Does this mean you should swear off moids forever? It’s up to you. Entering an intimate relationship is a leap of faith but can be rewarding. Sometimes you have to take a risk and be wary of any red flags that pops up. If he breaks your trust then don’t compromise, just move on. In my belief, if his actions reflects his words in other areas of his life then he’s usually a quality moid. I told my bf about my views of porn and sex a couple of months into our relationship and left it at that. If it becomes a problem down the road then he knows where I stand, but it also means I have to follow through with consequences and not be a sucker who forgives him x amount of times. So far things are going good.

No. 333147

Like the other nonnies said, you should definitely check his social media. Watch how he talks about women he knows, and women he doesn't. Observe his tastes in media (especially if he likes games) and observe how he talks about fictional women. Generally, if a guy is good news, he won't talk about women (even fictional ones) in an objectifying or demeaning way ever.

Also, a green flag would be that he hates lying, even about small things. For example, he won't lie to make things easier for himself. Or he will bring up things he feels might be undesirable about himself so he doesn't lead you on. This is important because there are plenty of men who will lie about shit to keep a woman around. You need a moid with enough integrity (yeah, I know) who won't lie to your face while he's watching beastility loli porn. Maybe once you've determined he's not a complete liar you can bring up your stance on porn like >>333136 said. Or perhaps just keep that hidden altogether, and pretend to be the cool girl who is into everything. Depends on the approach you want to take.

Agree 100% with you. It's a risk, and a woman needs to be willing to immediately dump her scrote if she finds out that he lied and watched porn behind her back. A lot of women don't follow through with this and instead make excuses for their moid. You take a chance and that's how a moid repays you? Dump his ass. Either you believe there is someone out there that is right for you or you don't date at all. None of this settling bullshit. Women are way more happy and fulfilled being single rather than settling for a crappy partner.

No. 333391

yeah its kind of funny the baiters ignored me, some of the women here type exactly like the incels on /r9k/ with how hard they seethe over straight women doing what normal human beings do and seeking companionship. I agree with you women either don't care or cope very hard.
But I will say over the years with regular interaction from men, a LOT of them are degenerates. The nutty anons are not entirely baseless, I'm sure you already know. Men in my city follow a lot of thirst traps, thotties, etc any half naked woman to a degree. When I tell them my husband doesn't do that they look bewildered. It is REALLY hard to find a guy that doesn't have any interest in any of this. I am 26 and have only met one other guy that hasn't done that, and it's my husband's bestfriend.
Here's a list of green flags for any nonnitas, based off of my husband.
>look at his friends, birds of a feather flock together to an extent
>understand this may be complicated, he has some weird friends but he doesn't hang out with them and barely interacts with them. only does so out of necessity and only hangs with the green flag best friend majority of the time
He is human and childhood friends who grow up to be shitty people can be hard to break off, you can't black and white human behavior and sometimes it will be grey.
>see how he treats other women, he shouldn't break any boundaries while with you but he should still treat them as human beings
>he never makes any sexual jokes
>his eyes do not have the brain pornrot stare (eyes like this are dark and soulless, as if they're looking through you)
>if his mom isn't abusive, he respects her and appreciates her sacrifices, helps her as much as he can without neglecting your needs as well
Remember to separate your own trauma from his experiences. I thought his mom was a user at first because my own mom was abusive, but over the years I cooled down and respected her as well and help her too. She has done a lot, she's an amazing woman. I could go on and on but anyways
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No. 333481

Stop baiting for infighting you insufferable cunt.

No. 333532

nta but that was a pretty milquetoast response, you're unhinged (to the shock of no one)

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>Don't forget to stay anonymous. Don't give key details about you like your real name or address. Have basic cyber security common sense.
>Don't organize any type of discord/telegram/etc group in this thread or anywhere else on lolcow. Organize it elsewhere.
>Don't get discouraged if you get ghosted or don't immediately click with someone, shit happens. Keep trying.
>This website is 18+ only, don't post here if you are a minor.

Guidelines to consider:
>How long this contact will remain active?
>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?
>How would you describe yourself?
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No. 333088

I think it's a male because of several clues
>32 but says she's scared to go outside at all because of men
>refers to the female related boards as "girly advice" which sounds tranny-ish
>mentions femdom randomly, uses a flirty emoji while doing so
>breaks emoji rule several times and admits she(?) comes from kiwifarms
Idk. She/he mentions femdom and most femdomfag males specifically go for older women. Just be cautious contacting anyone from here.

No. 333095

nta but at the very least it's clearly an outsider using this thread before even having bothered to integrate, that's enough reason to not interact. This thread isn't for LC outsiders to come and make use of when they want to.

No. 333141

sure but not every newfag is a scrote

No. 333279

I don't blame newfags for wanting to make a friend and peace out rather than integrate. If I was socially competent I would do the same.

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>How long will this line of contact remain active

As long as I have discord installed probably





>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?

As long as ur 20-80 I can be friends with you all day!

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No. 275449[Reply]

Post your experiences and future plans – have you had plastic surgery? Would you like to get anything done? Tell us about it.

Old thread: >>203731
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No. 329766

Lol that "study" from France should not be referenced for anything, it holds no weight. Actually look into it before spouting dumb shit

No. 329772

Male/chestlet(flat tits) logic. Perky tits depend on if a woman lost weight and her genetics more than anything. Also majority of your tits ain't muscle but fatty tissue but you wouldn't know because you probably don't have tits, kek.

No. 329912

Do you Nonnies think going from an A cup to a C cup through boobjob would look natural? Would an implant or a fat transfer work better? I want bigger boobs so bad and have since about 12/13 but I can't get past how fake boobjobs tend to look 99% of the time. My boobs went close to a D cup when I was breastfeeding and I loved how my body looked, they suited my frame.

No. 333356

Do any Nonna's here have any good resources or insight on PRF fillers (like EZ gel)? They seem too good to be true and I'm wondering if they even last that long or of they're even worth it.

No. 333617

Keep seething because your worthless sacks of fat need to be restrained with corsets for you to function like a normal person. Saggy little fatty

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No. 170405[Reply]

This thread is for everyone who is struggling with pornography, sexual frustration, and masturbation addiction. Post sources and information or your personal experience on how to quit or lower your usage.

Antiporn thread (por a more serious discussion about pornography): >>>/g/159633
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No. 332768

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I'm definitely addicted to porn. I haven't analysed it before but I think it's affecting my sex life. I find sex boring and I'd rather watch porn and masturbate. I don't feel sensitive at all – having sex barely feels pleasurable. It's ok, but not pleasurable. The problem is I definitely, definitely can't orgasm, no matter what. It's starting to worry me; sometimes when my bf finishes and goes to shower I secretly watch porn on my phone to help with the frustration. What's worse is that I fake it and the acting makes me feel ridiculous. Occasionally I get a little shock of pleasure that prompts me to produce a genuine response but it's exceedingly rare and I'm not sure how to… conjure it.

Head doesn't feel good, fingering doesn't feel good, kink stuff I abhor, PIV feels alright but it's always over too soon and it's getting to the point where I can take it or leave it… I feel hopeless! When I first started having regular sex the novelty made me feel at least aroused but I'm worried that particular 'well' is also drying up.

Like most, I started watching hardcore porn at a young age. I think I started with bizarre-o hentai and then moved to real people pretty exclusively in BDSM situations. I was very insecure growing up and felt uncomfortable with the fact I was a girl – not in a trans way, I mostly just felt unworthy and hideous. My clit is also on the bigger side so when I saw in porn that the actress' bodies looked different to mine I was very freaked out and for many years I thought I needed surgery. I desperately searched for ways to mutilate my own vagina to make it look 'normal'. I remember looking at the knives in the kitchen and wondering if there was something I could do, I must've been about 13. When I first had sex with my current boyfriend I was very reluctant; he was eager to give me head but I kept putting it off and I only had sex with my clothes still partially on. When I eventually relented I cried and told him that I didn't look like other girls and that he wouldn't like it. Big, big, ugly cry.

I was disgusted by myself and I guess that manifested in the types of porn I consumed. During my pre-to-late teens I'd exclusively consume porn that abused males, proper guro doujins or weird BDSM stuff, pegging etc. The woman had to be in control and ideally clothed. I don't watch those things anymore but I did for about 6 or 7 years. By the time I started having sex and getting into relationshPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

No. 332787

I'm dating a normal guy now who doesn't watch porn and I catch myself every now and then saying I want to do something sexually that really weirds him out and makes him uncomfortable, or I'll use the word "fetish" and he'll question me on how a fetish ever develops. I've never told him how heavily I was into porn for so much of my adult life and I forget what things are a part of normal sexuality and what things are perverted that I've picked up along the way. He's already said a few times its made him uncomfortable how I've talked about certain things or things I've wanted to try (which to me have not been the wildest things even) and it reminds me how damaged my brain is. Anyone else dealing with this?

No. 332788

Samefag but while I'm here I may as well continue venting, but my ex before this one was a full blown porn addict (hentai only, he couldn't get hard to real women in porn at all) and we would act out all these crazy scenarios and watch hentai together. I really thought I had such a healthy sexual relationship because I was completely free to do whatever I wanted sexually with him and even watch hentai together. Now I'm in a relationship where not only does my guy not watch porn but never got deep into it anyway even as a teenager and explicitly says he is uncomfortable with me watching it.. its been a learning process to say the least. Please no sperging out about how "anon every man watches porn!!" please

No. 332919

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I posted here a few times about my struggles and I've been doing good these past several months. No relapses. I don't masturbate often anymore and when I do, it's to my imagination. The scrote-tier hentai material I broke my brain to no longer does anything for me. I didn't quit cold turkey, but I immediately moved to female-friendly material like josei smut works and fanfiction that is very vanilla which albeit is still porn but leaves a lot to the imagination. I did break periods where I wouldn't consume anything R18 at all and would consciously consume it less and less. Then eventually just stopped using it entirely. I know it's always going to be an ongoing struggle, but I feel so much better about myself these days.

No. 333251

its so bizarre my sex dreams centers around me watching porn. instead dreaming of me being in sexual acts all my sexual dreams are of me lying in bed while browsing porn. The "arousing" part of the dream is me clicking on a 2d porn video and then the video starts playing.
to be fair my sex dreams have always been bizarre even before I started watching porn. they used to be about me grinding(while clothed) against people I'm not attracted to (I always woke up feeling gross after those dreams) but I hate that I have become so disconnected to my own sexuality that even in my dreams I rely on porn
that's awesome anon! proud of yoy

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No. 86956[Reply]

Goth music, makeup, fashion, literature that you love. People you're admiring, gossip, news etc.
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No. 332883

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Is it just me of do you think Robert Smith is very wholesome? Maybe I just dont understand him too well in interviews kek

No. 333086

From the interviews I've seen, he seems pretty endearing.

No. 333233

Anyone else go to a Sisters show on the recent tour? Philly show was kinda bad. Major audio flubs. I was gifted a ticket and so I wasn't out any cash but if you're thinking of going or selling it may be something to consider. It was pretty painful if your were paying attention; a beginner level drag queen could have done better than Andrew.

No. 333296

100%, he seems like such an unproblematic old guy. With his wife for nearly 50 years I think, gives interviewers conflicting answers sometimes just for the fun of it and has a healthy disdain for Ticketmaster. Good egg.

No. 333297


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No. 308124[Reply]

A thread for the discussion of robots and robot husbandos.

Will realistic robot husbandos ever become available in our lifetimes? Would you marry one?
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No. 330119

I would absolutely do this
280k plus I get to see a cool ass robot that looks like me? It's like having a doll made after you, and getting paid for it
I don't care if moids cum in it, it's going to a handful of weirdos who can afford it but thats not most of the population, and those men will never know who I am

No. 330122

I literally went to the tiktok account and they are all of the same ugly robot named "alex"

No. 333039

So I was deep thinking about ai husbands…for those who will base their ai from your fictional husbandos(live action or 2D) how do you think the ai will react? Like will he go through some sort of identity crisis? Since women are a little more emotional than men and need an emotional connection with their partner, I feel like male ai bots will be more emotional then the female ones. Since moids will just want come soulless sexbot to have sex with, maybe it will occasionally say “I love you” to please the shallow moid brain, however I feel like male ai bots will be a bit different to please women. Also…will male bots develop some superiority complex over human men? Since most women who are getting married to robot men either dislike or are not interested in human males, how will robot men respond to this? Will they take pleasure in cucking human males?

Sorry for sperging like some autist, was having some shower thoughts about ai husbands. Interested in your thoughts nonnies.

No. 333041

I am really thirsty for nonhumanoid robot husbands.

No. 333107

>Would you marry one?
I'd marry at least 3

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No. 289276[Reply]

previous thread >>>/g/193846

the anticipated second containment thread for the irl husbandofags is here! sperg freely about your trash men here and don't forget to have fun
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No. 332966

>Very happy for her for bagging him
wasn't he a coomer or something? maybe i'm thinking of the wrong dude

No. 332969

>man are afraid of tall rich women
This is delusional. Most men always go for women who are out of their leagues and manlets are notorious for fetishizing any tall woman

No. 332975

No, he and his fiancé are highschool sweethearts and wendi never posted any coomer shit, he is a gun nut tho lmao but being southern thats a given.

No. 332985

nonna I just switch my brain off when he starts talking about god (and I choose not to watch those videos kek)

There has to be some trade off, and if I'm going to crush on a southern guy with a pretty voice - the god and guns shit is a given.

No. 332996

Was he insecure about his eyes? Thats why he wore sunglasses for the longest time?

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