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No. 145472[Reply]

Pretty self explanatory. Continued from >>113718
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No. 152357

Is there such thing as having too small of clit? I always thought my clit was normal but I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and he was trying to find my clit and help get me off and he told me it was really small and he never had any issues with his exes and that theirs were bigger and he was unsure he could get me off with it being so small. Ive been with a couple other men before and they never made any comments about my clit but I do remember both of them kind of having an issue with touching it properly in a way that felt pleasurable with me but they both did eventually figure it out and get me to orgasm. It feels dumb but I'm starting to feel a bit insecure lol.

No. 152363


Don't let stupid boys make you feel insecure, I'm sure if you told him his dick was smaller than all your exes he wouldn't like that either, but it's not like you would say something negative about something someone is born with and can't change because… Why would anyone do that?
It's not your fault, he's just trying to blame you because he's bad at what he's doing without trying to learn how to do it right. You deserve kindness sensitivity and respect in intimate situations, not someone who makes you dread it.

No. 152371

I'm sorry but who in their right mind thinks it's ok after you've just had sex with your partner for the first time to then compare their genitals to the genitals of all your exes!!?… what the hell is wrong with this man?

Clits are small, even as a lesbian I need to get to know what works for each new partner that I have, it's not an anatomy issue, different strokes work for different women and it can just take a bit of communication to learn what works. You don't give up on the idea of them ever coming after one or two sessions. I'm way more concerned about the way he's talking to you (when you've only just started being intimate) and I'm less inclined to think you have some anomaly going on with your genitals. He sounds like a selfish lover if he's so quick to say this
> he was unsure he could get me off with it being so small
I'm going to say this is a red flag for him being a selfish lover and someone who is quick to misplace blame onto you, it reads as
>I'm probably not going to get you off, I've given up already, but that's your fault
Isn't that just too convenient.

No. 152382

Late reply but, I used a dildo before ever having sex. The first 5 or 6 times using the toy I still bled. It wasn't alot and it wasn't bright red either. It was pink (blood mixed with my own natural lube I guess) I wasn't expecting to bleed beyond the first time but everyones hymen stretches a little differently and mine was a tough one. I had pain for the first few sessions too but I liked that I had both control over it and privacy in that moment? It's not something I would've wanted to share with a partner.

Totally up to you whether you want to stretch it by yourself or wait.

No. 152408

Follow the advice other girls gave you, but also let me tell you from personal experience there was no blood for me when I broke my hymen, all me and my bf at the time noticed were tiny bits of skin. You know that type of skin where you bite the inside of your mouth and a piece of skin falls out? If you ever took it out of your mouth to see what it looks like - that's what a broken hymen looked like for me kek
So once you break your hymen yourself it might not be that big of a deal after all.

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No. 92682[Reply]

Ever wondered why certain clothes don't look as good on you as on another girl with similar stats?

How to find your type:

Aly Art has many videos with very good tips on how each type can dress and style themself to look their best.
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No. 152354

SD for sure. length+narrowness+curves

No. 152362

Thanks anon! I'll do some more reading but I'm 90% set on SD now

No. 152367

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Trying to figure out my type but I'm just getting more confused, would be really grateful for another opinion?

No. 152370

i'd say soft classic, just because you don't look short enough to be a romantic
t. don't know shit about kibbe

No. 152398

The height thing is mostly irrelevant imo. It's more about your proportions, how tall you look out of context, when nobody is standing near you and no object that indicates relative scale is around you. I do think you look tall but soft so SD does make sense. At first the contrast between the dark tights nude upper body and the lighting threw me off.

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No. 121656[Reply]

Hey ladies, can we get a breakup support thread for anons who don't want to clog up the relationship advice thread? We can share stories and advice for moving on after a breakup.
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No. 152247

I've been in a similar situation so I can totally relate. If you feel secure enough that reconnecting with her will not undo all the work you did moving on after the breakup, you can reach out to her, just to say you thought of her and hope she's doing fine. It definitely could help with getting closure and allowing yourself to finally really move on.

No. 152300

Thanks for the response, I think the idea of reaching out was in the back of my mind so this is probably wanted I wanted to hear, haha. I don't think we could be friends again but I do want to I guess leave things on a better note, so I'll try it.

No. 152328

Just curious but does your current partner know about your feelings? I only ask because in the beginning of my relationship my partner had some similar feelings with their ex and it caused some problems, it's totally resolved now but there's still a part of me that sometimes wonders if they still have these types of feelings (not to make your post about me, just really curious to hear from your perspective)

No. 152337

Kind of. He knows the whole story of the break-up and that I still feel guilt about it, I'm not sure how he would feel about me contacting my ex though. That is kinda what has been stopping me from reaching out already– while I am confident there's no romantic feelings left on my end and I just want closure, I know that if I was in my partner's situation I would probably get a little worried about it like you said you felt.

No. 152358

There's an easy solution to that though, just talk to your partner, assure them that they can look at your conversation with your ex anytime they want because you have nothing to hide, and say you'll respect their decision if they say they're uncomfortable with you doing it.

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No. 133562[Reply]

Like the title says.
Previous Thread: >>102887
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No. 152324

I was going to say this is just a hand job and don't overthink it, but apparently there's more to it. It's called lingam massage, there are some techniques discussed here: https://beducated.com/mag/lingam-massage

No. 152325

when i actually am turned on, or sometimes just randomly, it feels pretty nice. just like a full feeling that hits a nice spot. cant orgasm from pure PIV but if you get into it, its still a good feeling
i can only nut dangling off in a weird L position (him facing sideways me kind of forming the bottom part of the L) with my legs slightly spread while I take care of the clit. I don't think its an issue honestly and i've looked into it, its hard to change these habits because they form very early

No. 152335

The position you described is normal, Anon. It's one of the easiest ways to reach the clit while a guy penetrates you.

Everyone I know does this. (Except that one girl, you know the one that can come from piv)

No. 152345

thank you anon!

No. 152346

To me it feels like someone hits just the right spot, like there's an itch (but not really itchy) that needs to be scratched. But I've only experienced it with one partner. With the rest it just felt like nothing. A bit uncomfortable when the person enters me, that's it. Really boring lol

Me too mostly, but I want to learn to do it while being relaxed. I think it can definitely happen, I was just never bothered to really experiment with that. I think it's really common tbh

I think trying to be ok with it is the right and body positive/progressive answer, but you should feel comfortable doing it, so maybe take a shower together right before.

You could try laser or waxing if you're ready to invest more into it.

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No. 149875[Reply]

A thread to appreciate the beauty and achievements of women over the age of 30. Post your role models and women you find inspiringly beautiful, charming, successful and/or intelligent!

(Late 20s is acceptable as well.)
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No. 152298

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No. 152313

jesus fuck is she botched

No. 152314


She doesn't look botched at all wtf, this is prime good plastic surgery

No. 152315

She looks good tho

No. 152318

my fucking girlcrush, her cheek structure and eyes are to die for
Is she doing much these days? last I checked all her socials have been dead for a couple years.

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No. 127692[Reply]

post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting
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No. 152208

lol anon you're on a board dedicated to affectionately poking fun (at best) at random women on the internet and you're mad bc i don't think florence pugh is hot? you're cute and funny too. i love you

No. 152249

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She makes me question my sexuality

No. 152251

I love her!!

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>>152251 God,same

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No. 147547[Reply]

A collection of before and after pictures for inspiration and motivation – post your best finds! Feel free to post your own success story as well.
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No. 151484

the lines in the background are so wonky kek

I don't see any real inspirational before and after transformations because most after pics are heavily shooped but whatever makes you happy I guess

No. 151536

This one is, but go through the thread and you'll see that there are others that aren't shooped.

No. 152045

She had bariatric surgery though.

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No. 112815[Reply]

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like yout weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Also, a reminder that we all have our ups and downs. You're human, allow yourself to fail. Just pick yourself up again and don't give up.

No ana, please.
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No. 152042

That's okay. I've also had back problems in the past and those exercises helped me, so hopefully they will help you too. If it doesn't help it might be worth seeing a physio

No. 152116

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I'd like to see if any anons out there can relate to my goals and help me stay accountable. I don't want to lose weight; however I want to change my crappy eating habits. Cut out sugar and refined carbs completely (my prob is more sugar tho) and more veggies/greens.

My problems is I hate cooking (my kitchen is a old, broke disaster, which contributes to not wanting to use it I guess), there are delis on every corner were I live were you can pop in and buy a snacks, and no one takes me seriously because I'm skinny and they decide it sounds like ED talk and try to convince me not to change anything. My dad and uncle already have beetus, my cousin has borderline beetus and none of them had to reach planet status to get it. We just got the genetic lottery shit end of the stick in term of beetus.

I've been trying to do this for 10+ years I think, with a really minimized selection of what I can eat that's sweet but my maximum endurance for not eating anything sweet was a whole ass 3 days.I no longer drink anything but unsweetened tea, water and the occasional redbull, and the only sweets I can eat are chocolate chip cookies, chocolate croissants, vegan ice cream, and Cliff bars.

I want to be completely sugar free by the end of 2020, I really want this to be the year I glow up my whole life. Right now I am trying to make myself cook more at home, but I really hate it.

No. 152129

I'm a sugar free anon because of my skin, and I can highly recommend using stevia. It made the transition much easier for me because I can still make cookies and ice cream for myself.

Aside from that I do have a self-control technique to offer. I never eat out anywhere or buy any snacks aside from nuts and corn chips because I switched my mindset to it being forbidden. My head just associates it with horrible acne so I get frightened and no longer am tempted.

Basically just give yourself a phobia of sugar. That's my advice.

No. 152145

I have bought an exercise bike so I can work out at home (I have intense agoraphobia and I can't go to the gym) and I am going to start checking my calories via MyFitnessPal! Hopefully I'll be able to stick to it, I am not looking to really achieve any type of look I just want to get more active and lose weight. This is mainly for accountability too, I'll come back in 3 months time and update!

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I wasn’t sure if there is a more relevant fitness advice thread but I’ll just post my question here. When I do plie squats or flex my legs like this the inner thigh muscle is only visible on one side. Does this mean I have a muscle imbalance? What are exercises I should do so that the muscle shows on the other leg?

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No. 49363[Reply]

Any of you guys suffering from anything? because I am.
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No. 152189

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I've been taking 50 mg Kannaway CBD every evening for about 2 months now. I sleep much better but I've not noticed any big changes to my general anxiety level. CBD can help with anxiety but I'm not sure if it's worth the money.

No. 152191

Gotcha, thanks anon. Bummed it isn't as effective as I'd hoped, but relieved I won't lose money on it.

No. 152216

im currently in a psychosis program. my therapist and everyone who works in that program take it very seriously i think. though my GP and old therapist who wasn't apart of the program were much less equipped to handle it. the GP is very awkward and avoids any discussion of it and the old therapist seemed to avoid any psychosis label, even considering DID which is completely stupid because memory issues are common in people like me and i had a hard but average childhood.

though, they may be less casual about it as im very avoidant about telling people about it so when i do its a major breakthrough that they're making. preliminary assessment to get accepted into the program and last week were the only times during a session i actually talked about my psychosis because i have delusions of not being able to tell anyone about them so obviously any info for them is very precious i guess.

No. 152218

In a bit of a pickle now because I have to pretend like I don't have disordered eating because otherwise I'll be taken off my Wellbutrin, which I probably cannot live without

No. 152554

Anon no I did the same thing and had a seizure from it please don't. It's a huge pain in the ass on your end that way outweighs the temporary pain in the ass that is switching meds. Pls pls pls don't fuck w ur health like this (which as a recovering ana-Chan I know is kinda ridic to ask of u so my heart is with u)

I seized for three full minutes and was lucky to not have done more damage to myself. Pls be careful and talk w ur doctor abt your concerns I promise they've seen it before and will not judge (but they MIGHT judge yr ass when they wheel you into the ER for something totally preventable)

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No. 66358[Reply]

Can we have a thread for lesbian and bi women to discuss their fantasies and desires towards other women? No rules except for no talk about dicks
I never find women my age (20) attractive. It's always older women, usually 30+, especially older butch lesbians. I want an older woman to boss me around
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No. 152076

you just wrote the perfect fanfic plot

No. 152080

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My dream girlfriend would be tall (preferably 5'10+) and muscular, with sharp cheekbones, short dark hair and have either warm brown or hazel eyes that really pop in the sunlight. She'd have an alternative fashion sense and wear tank tops that show off her biceps and those punk-y plaid trousers. Her voice would be deep and husky and she'd play the guitar in an indie rock band.

No. 152166

If it can't be real life, somebody should write it out

No. 152175

I want a woman to hold me and tell me that I'm worthy of love and am not the repulsive monster I see myself as. She'll say that even if I'm big and act distant and happy being alone, I can relax around her and allow myself to be cared for. I won't need to worry about proving myself when we're together.

No. 152199

anon i went through this exact thing a while ago and unfortunately i agree with >>148961 – confessed my feelings and they weren't reciprocated. we tried to stay friends after but she started avoiding me and things fell apart from there. Haven't spoken in almost 2 years now and it still hurts like fucking crazy. My sympathies with you.

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