Late 30s Dandy kei. I wore ouji in highschool and after, but transitioned into a more cohesive, subtle look. I haven't owned brand, instead opting to make or modify thrifted items paired with relevant basics and accessories. If I like a brand item, I might seek out a similar base to edit to my tastes. Its a fine line between looking Ouji/Dandy and looking like a waiter I'll tell you that.
>Mature style icons in J-fashionEnjoying this thread. I enjoy watching Lolita fashion shows and watching some youtubers who live elegantly. She isn't Lolita, but I love
https://youtube.com/@anzukitty>Translating sub styles for everyday/casual wearFor work formal events, some outings and work "costume" events. I work in an office and can wear what I want for the most part but opt for comfort. Dressing well, in good silhouettes with an interesting or ornate accessory can accomplish this look if done right.
>Motivation & inspiration on keeping your hobbiesMy main relevant hobbies are drawing and jewelry making. I love jewelry and gaudy, sparkling items. Trying to keep up with hobbies as an adult is difficult. My main advice is make time for it.. Easier said than done. Watching old VK videos with my wife, looking at GLB or reading old forum posts are nice walks down memory lane. I still like anime but nothing new, and I enjoy video games. It's a bit lonely but I won't buy that I'm old, because I'm not.
>Vent about aging in world catered to being forever 21The topic of age and oldness is this regard is depressing. Old is 70, 80, 90 and even then, does it matter?.. Health and enjoyment of life matter. More relevantly, I wish every and anything wasn't called Lolita, and I wish that the kids acted a bit more hinged. I see less genuine interest from some and a lot of attention seeking. This has always been the case, but it flourishes today, especially with each access to poorly made clothes. As an aside, I always thought that while dressing it was almost like putting on another part of your persona. Classy, darker, cuter, aristocratic, whatever that might be. So, seeing people act up whether in brand or just faux style is disappointing. I feel like the magica
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