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No. 332611[Reply]

I’ve been here for quite some years and I know a lot of you have been, too. Surely a percentage of posters here are around 30, or over 30. For those of you that are - how are you handling it?

Share your successes, insecurities, and life wisdom. Share fashion and beauty advice.

How do you feel about nearing 30/being over 30? Have you found the incel cope about 30+ women to be true in any way? What were your biggest fears, and what are your biggest triumphs at your current age?

Absolutely no Zoomers allowed in this thread, unless you’re an elder Zoomer. Zoomer ageism is peak stupidity and we won’t have it here.
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No. 519022

>>518401
This is nonsensical. Younger women become single moms too

No. 519030

>>519015
Freezing eggs is a scam if you’re healthy though. unless you’re about to go through cancer treatment (radiation and some chemo drugs can damage the eggs), or you’re looking to put off kids until like a few years from menopause (50s for most women, but can vary). I grew up in a town where it was common for women to have kids older though. I can see why women would be worried if they’re from somewhere with younger mothers and it’s out of the norm, but if you’re healthy and have a regular cycle, there really is no need to waste money freezing them. A lot of the risks associated with older pregnancy are just fear mongering, most women still have healthy kids, and there is inherent risk with pregnancy at literally any age, younger women do have kids with health issues as well but that’s never discussed for some reason. I think some of it is ageism.

No. 519036

>>518324
I have noticed lot of people fear mongering women over having kids later are just loser guys who are mad at women. These same guys think it’s good for 80 year old celebrity men to father kids with one foot in the grave, as if that makes more sense than a healthy 40 year old woman having a child

No. 519547

>>519036
>>519030

when manosphere peaked scrotes would make memes about women being empty cartons at 35, dried up, expired, etc. Yea, that's not how it works. Until you hit menopause in your 40s, your chances of getting pregnancy are still high. I bet for childfree women they wish their reproduction system shut down at 35 so they dont have to care about BC anymore but yea thats the not the reality.
And i'll see comments in reddit and etc of people spreading misinfo that at 35 a woman's chances significantly decreases every year which isn't true too. The difference between a healthy 27 year old vs a healthy 37 year old is 4%ish (87% v 82% chance in the first year, https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14704244). But then they'll bring up disabilities, and I forgot where the study was but when they say the risks doubles, it's like .01% to .02% or something like that. It's all like fearmongering to pressure and spook women. But if you're overweight, health issues, pcos, family illnesses, THEN you're kinda fucked.

>>518136 so dont worry about it, you have plenty of time. Take your time to find the right person otherwise you'll regret being connected to a loser for like 18-20 years.

No. 519563

>>518871
>>518980
>>519547
I appreciate the supportive replies. I feel so alone right now and none of my friends check on me. Maybe it's because I don't show my emotions so freely, but I'm dying inside lol.
People are so incredibly negative about the 30's dating pool that it makes me feel blackpilled. Plus I just can't believe I've been rug pulled by someone I trusted. This just makes me feel so scared of getting close to anyone. And I don't think I could financially swing being a single mom by choice.
There will be no oopsie baby with a rando, I want to do it right or not at all. I'll try again some day to find someone, but in the mean time, I just have to fill my life up with things that give it meaning regardless if this all works out or not.



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No. 518779[Reply]

What it says on the tin.

Previous threads:
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No. 518840

Actual previous threads:
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Sorry nonnies, I thought I had successfully deleted the thread after I noticed the typo but the April Fool’s CSS got the better of me.

No. 518940

im so glad i never killed myself. i finally dont feel extreme anxiety and depression and panic attacks every day. i feel like a functioning member of society lately but i also feel a lot of emotional blunting. but at the moment idc cuz its better than extreme mental suffering



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No. 444331[Reply]

Welcome to the Emergency Room! Experiencing symptoms and need some quick guidance? This thread is here for anyone looking to discuss health concerns, symptoms, or urgent questions. While this isn’t a substitute for professional medical care, farmers can share insights and personal experiences to help you navigate your next steps. But remember, when in doubt, always seek immediate help from a healthcare provider!
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No. 518539

>>513246
A bit late and might not be related to your issue at all, since I didn't have the same problems, but I slept on a hard mattress for two years and as soon as I got a softer one, it resolved a surprising amount of issues I had. Maybe check if something about your mattress could be causing this.

No. 518859

>>518369
if your pcp is being a bastard you can go to urgent care or the ER. tell them you've VERY recently started having extreme thirst and peeing an insane amount, now you're feeling weak and like something is really wrong. that'll get them to run the tests to check your blood sugar, urine, and kidney function at the very least and you'll have a better answer. don't dick around waiting for retarded pcps to do the right thing nona.

No. 518874

I have an itchy bump on the inside of my labia that appeared yesterday. Went to the doctor and got tested just in case but she told me it likely is just a dry irritated patch of skin. Has anyone else experienced this, im freaking out.

No. 518921

>>518482
Sounds like your body is processing the stress. You still have all the hormone related issues but may miss a month of "bleeding". If it happens again, then it is time to consult your obygyn. It isn't uncommon after major body changes, inflammation, weight loss or infections to miss a period. Your body may have focused it's resources on the stressors elsewhere. Document it for now and talk to a dr if it repeats.

No. 519498

>>518859
gonna try urgent care when I next feel horrible. I'd love to try the ER but I'm not sure if my insurance would cover such a thing so I'd only go if I again feel like I'm dying like I did a few times last year.

also another gross thing I noticed that is new and feeling bad is that my BO is absolutely terrible, almost like ammonia or some other chemical, rotten scent even if I shower daily probably just is a stress thing and not some kind of clue but it's so embarrassing. it seems to take a few days to wear off and I start smelling normal again after I have a particularly bad episode.



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No. 516186[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting

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No. 516363

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>>516186
>Attractive Women You’d Want to Fuck
lowkey all of you
But particularly the goff ones

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>>516363
and her

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>>516364
and also her

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Wanted to post this but there's a moid. Sorry for the shoddy emojis

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No. 369903[Reply]

A thread for discussing hair care, hair problems, hair styles, and hair product recommendations.

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No. 516874

>>516650
Does the perm involve any significant heat or chemicals at all? If not, perm. If yes, stay frizzy, use a lot of gel, and try to regrow healthy hair again.

No. 517148

hi! i have long (mid-back length) and thick 3a curly hair. i'm biracial (black + white) and can use products for natural hair comfortably. i've been a bit of a hermit for a couple years while finishing my degree so i've just been letting it grow and throwing it in a braid, but i'm starting an outdoorsy job this summer and i need to do… something with it. it's a bit unruly and gets frizzy if i leave it out of protective styles for too long.

my curls are healthy, but i've never really taken care of long curly hair. the humid weather where i live now also affects it a lot.

so two questions, i guess. 1. how do people cut 3a hair so it actually has a bit of shape/style? 2. products for keeping it tame while it's out of braids? i currently use 'not your mother's' curl cream, it works okay. i've also used almond oil but i'm not a huge fan of it. like i said, i can use heavier products and my hair will just eat it up, so not too concerned about that.

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I wanted a lighter brown but stylist gave me auburn brown and now dark brown. I want to get it lighter and dye it a lighter brown with box dye myself.
Would you recommend using a color remover like pic related or the classic baking soda, vitamin c and head and shoulders diy thing? I want the best integrity for my hair possible. Im not trying to lift the color a lot just a lighter brown but not blonde. Not looking for bleach. I used color oops years ago and it made my hair damaged imo so I’m thinking of using color fix now.

No. 518855

Does anyone have any recommendations for a hair product to use in order to keep braids sleek? Braids are one of the only hair styles I can do but they look so frizzy.

No. 519200

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>>517148
I've got thick long hair but a bit looser (2C-3A) so take this with a grain of salt, but a recent game changer has been to apply a strong hold gel then NOT scrunch out the gel cast after drying the hair. By letting the wear of the day and sleep do the work of removing the cast you end up with curls that stay in place with minimal frizz for a few days. I would suggest something like a curl custard since it'll have ingredients that both moisturize and lock in that moisture (picrel is my recommendation). As far as haircuts go, you can't go wrong with layers. They'll free up some weight to allow the curls to spring up and create fun textures around the head. You don't necessarily have to spend $200+ on a curly cut these days but when shopping for hairdressers definitely look at their portfolio/before and afters



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No. 507540[Reply]

ITT Post male bodies you find attractive. This thread is just for bodies, so faces must be omitted via cropping or camera angle. If you want to include the face, please use one of the other male attractions threads.

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No. 518724

>>518552
>>518584
Not those anons but the butt clenches do look a bit silly tbf

No. 518735

>>518584
it's not that deep nona.. butt funny haha

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Another xhs male

No. 518801

>>518584
I like imagining /fit/ moids have an inside joke that’s just a butt

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>>518800
eww why did it give me a rance pfp



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No. 448891[Reply]

Anything you want or desire, the Universe will provide you with it.

Post your desires, affirmations, about your manifestation journey, goals and successes.

Tips for anons:
>Do not write it in the future tense (I will, they will, etc). Do it in the present or even the past tense.
>Avoid negatives (I don't, I can't, I won't, etc)
>Avoid "wish" or "want", think of it as if it's already happening and you don't have to wish or want anymore
>Keep your mind relaxed, focus on the good feelings of the outcome. Desperation attracts more desperation
>Trust the process

Advices and inputs are welcomed!
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No. 500534

Manifesting I get hit by a bus badly enough to survive but not have to work ever again.

No. 505950

>>461090
>>474811
>>487241
I get pregnant in april

No. 518793

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I am happy and healthy, as are my family members and friends. I have a great job that fills me with joy and is really well paid, way better than I expected. I rent my own cute apartment, it is so cozy and wonderful, I enjoy living here very much. I have a boyfriend who adores me and is handsome, sweet and chill. Things are going great for my friends as well and I get to see them often and we travel together.

No. 518838

I don't have an incurable std, I'm just being paranoid or it's an easily treatable infection like syphilis

No. 519143

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I’m so happy that I have my dream job here in L.A. I’m so so happy that I have INDEPENDENCE! I love going to concerts here, I always meet wonderful people and even some artists.
Also I’m so glad that my family is healthy and doing AWESOME, can’t wait to visit them again and go to the beachside like we always do. Also I’m so happy with my body, my legs and ass look phenomenal lol I can see that everyone is always asking for my workout routine. I’m so glad for everything!



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No. 459210[Reply]

This thread passes the Bechdel Test. Do not center your post around the opposite sex.

If you need to vent about febfem, polilez, or horrendous experiences with bisexual women, go to this thread >>>/2X/17680

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about your attraction towards the opposite gender, it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning sexuality thread (check the catalogue). Please ignore the obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc. ragebait as well. If you suspect a poster is XY, pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).

Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:
>first crush?
>what’s your local lesbian scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media? lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>tips for coping with being lonely
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No. 516176

>>515730
it has been long time coming and some people posting in these threads have been the exact people to encourage it

No. 517418

>>515730

straight women are just as put off about lesbians as straight men are with gay men they just are more passive and thus show it in more subtle ways. like with shady comments or social ostracism.

No. 518578

>>517418
Exactly, most people are grossed out by the sex they're not attracted to doing it. Lesbians are disgusted by straight shit as a result. It's retarded as fuck that straight people go out of their way to be pricks about it. It's 2025 and these straight women still think we're sex offenders by default

No. 518784

i feel crushingly lonely. no irl friends at the moment. my last female friend has been ghosting me for months. sometimes i feel like i wont ever find a woman who will share her life with me the way i want her to. all the women in my area are handmaidens. im tired of being lonely and craving intimacy

No. 519194

>>518784
I hope I’m not the friend that’s been ghosting you…



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No. 366897[Reply]

A place for Asian women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss Asian culture.
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No. 502681

>>501175
Femcels arent real and neither are incels. Most 'femcels' are black, brown and Asian women who aimed for a white guy who was out of their league, got pumped and dumped by him or rejected for a blonde Stacy, and now have a hateboner for white women and think not being able to get a top tier model bf makes them celibate. Incels are the exact same, 3/10 guys who wont settle for anything less than a 8/10 woman.

No. 502687

>>501175
I guess thats a fair conclusion, though like you mentioned I wouldn't exactly conflate activity for prescence.White women likely consist of the majority just going based on Demographics of english users

I definitely noticed dogma in the vein of -cel thought on here racially. The whole yellow fever thing is kind of a new thing for me and I just cannot for the life of me believe it. I grew up in Hawaii and white moids going after asian women happens ig but not like how its potrayed here. Mainland racism isnt as fun as back home.

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>>502687
>white moids going after asian women happens ig
>The whole yellow fever thing is kind of a new thing for me
literally you

No. 518538

Hope this doesn't count as racebait. Are white parents generally just not as physically affectionate with their kids? I remember my mom kissing me on the head and cheeks a lot in public as an older child and she was seen as a fucking creep for it by my white peers/teachers when it happened at school. It wasn't even on the lips or some shit. I was so confused and still am to this day.

No. 518554

>>518538
Depends on what you mean by white and depends on what someone’s parents are like. I don’t know about Americans but in Europe there’s a lot of cultural differences as well as personal. Some people have jealous demon mothers, some have helicopter parents, some have nice affectionate parents just like anywhere else. My mom did the same and it’s considered normal where I am from, she still kisses my cheeks and forehead and I’m a grown adult. Maybe somewhere like Norway or Sweden it isn’t but I’m sure they have loads of different kinds there too.



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No. 445681[Reply]

Support for nonas going through breakups/divorce and moving on.

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No. 518086

I broke up with him last night. I still love him so much but it was the right decision for me. I'm just so torn apart I don't know how to move forward.

No. 518493

>>517765
long distance, our careers meant that we have to live in separate cities far away from each other. I’ve been looking for jobs in his city but the few that come up just don’t pay enough to make it feasible. His job is really niche so he has to stay there. So we agreed to separate since we never had the chance to see each other (like once every other month at max). It really fucking sucks and I don’t want to move on, and the idea of him moving on without me is just ughhhhh.

No. 518517

>>518493
why is a temporary long distance thing impossible

No. 518551

>>518517
you say temporary but i’ve been looking/applying for an appropriate job there for like 2 years and nothing. He doesn’t have enough money to support me if I took a job making less than I do now, and I couldn’t support myself making less than I do now.

No. 518945

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Finally left my BPDemon boyfriend the other day. I cannot believe at my big age I thought I could fix a man. He really made me believe it was possible. He was so sweet in the beginning, he worshipped me. He swore off porn and let me check his phone and promised to work on himself, but eventually he began snapping at me and demeaning my intelligence. He developed a habit of accusing me of saying things he himself had said, sometimes within minutes of saying it (i.e. "you told me to fuck off and have a nice life" minutes after he told me to fuck off and have a nice life). Real psycho shit. I reached a point of apathy where it no longer made me sad to think about him falling apart in my absence. I am just depressed it took me as long as it did.

Today I logged into an old social media account of mine and could see that he he has been reposting weird fetish porn for months to a locked account that I believed he no longer used. I feel pathetic. Why? Why did I spend a year with him? Why does some part of me still feel a little hurt?

I had to block him everywhere. I fortunately did not have any of his shit at my apartment, but I'm sure I'll never get my belongings back from his place. He threatened to tell everyone we know that I swindled him. I don't care anymore. He is so obviously deranged, I don't know who would believe him. I'm so ashamed of myself. I cannot believe I put myself into this situation. I might be retarded.



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