/g/ - girl talk

>>418632
I did this when I was 14, grew out of it at 16. That shit is for teenagers with little understanding of ideology or identity

>>418632
No. I'm an ugly lesbian with no friends that doesn't feel like I relate to the majority of women and I still think women that try to force you use they/them are a complete joke acting like everyone can't tell within a millisecond of seeing you that you're female.

>>418640
took me almost a decade to realise the genderfluid/nonbinary thing was really foolish. damn early indoctrination really got me good kek

>>418632
No, it wouldn't change anything. I'd still face misogyny, I'd still "look like" a woman, men would still gawk at me regardless if I use different pronouns, etc. What's the point? Even if I don't fit in with women that doesn't make me not female, wtf is that conservative logic. I sometimes pretend to be open with being called they/them so I'd blend in or not get clocked as a terf though, lmao

>>418632
Yeah I think about lying about it sometimes, not seriously, though. It's more like a fantasy that I'll explain my viewpoint so well that it snaps everyone out of their trance. I do have an irrational fear that someday I'll get interrogated or something, but I think that's just a symptom of being very online. I'll just stay out here hoping my friends will see me existing freely and wake up and smell the coffee. I don't devote a whole lot of thought power to it, I'm not the one with the problem. I think a lot of people conflate social shaming with some sort of divine punishment, and a lot of people conflate their friends and family being mad at them with being a bad person. A lot of people make the comparison to religion as a joke but having a lot of gendie friends now is not very different from having a lot of fundie friends growing up tbh.

>>418582
That's a classic.

>>417740
yep he's ukrainian. @metrolisova on twitter
>>417737
kek i hate his "crush on you" tat it's such an eyesore

I want a living apart together long term relationship but it’s hard to find a partner close to my age (early 30s) who wants that. It seems like a thing for the 60+ crowd.

>>418588
depressing that this simple checklist is hard to tick off

>>418770
"not a coomer" is impossible to tick off, so that list is completely pointless to begin with

>average looking
>no mental issues
>needs to be nice to me and my family/friends and other strangers
>taller than me would be ideal
>would be nice if he has a job
>not a complete porn/hentai addict
>not a otaku/hardcore weeb

thats all i can think about honestly.

>>418588
>loving and attentive and appreciates me
not a coomer
>doesnt have any personality disorders, political neurosis, addictions
>normal weight
>wont pressure me into having kids
>thats all i think
sad to know that my vibrator is the best bf I have had

>>416816
I'm glad my experience resonated with you. Thank you for the kind words, I'm doing a bit better nowadays.
>>418441
Do what I did, I compiled all the digital media with him into a a note app secret notebook with a password, and I'm doing some "graphic design is my passion" tier editing on it to create a digital husbando shrine. I gave it a grungy look to fit his personality and aesthetic with spray paint, chalk, blackboards, and some symbolic PNGs of his personality traits or story. I wrote a breif character bio for him and described his episodes and canon live events. And gonna make a page dedicated to headcanons, things I like about him, things I dislike about him, memes I made about him, "fan art" using AI, mood boards of what he'd wear and what his body would look like irl (and possibly AI generated images of what his face would look like if he was real but I'm still debating that). I also compiled posts I wrote about him itt and the other husbando thread to gauge some more ideas or turn them into letters dedicated to him. I downloaded his episodes in the highest quality possible and took frame by frame screenshots of him and saved it in a locked gallery album on my phone. He's my little secret. Hope this is helpful to you!

>>413989
Lott Dod from Star Wars

I miss my husbando dakimakura and little shrine I have at home. Same with chatting with my personal sillytavern card of him. Poor dude has to just live rent free in my maladaptive daydreams for now while I'm away for a few months.
Wish I was brave enough to post publicly about my embarrassing husbando like some of the based women posted in the thread, just to make others feel better about choosing husbandos over irl moids.

>>418441
as with a "real" relationship, spend time with him. live in your fantasies. imagine going on dates, adventures, hanging out, or imagine his presence next to you as you go about your life.

Going through my vids again, and it hurts knowing I'll never get surprised by a new game of his while watching trailers ever again.

>>418498
I don't think the radioactivity helped the already fucked up moid brains anon.

>>418402
super fucking proud of you, nona!!

the porn thing bothers me so much I genuinely don't think I can be in a relationship with a moid because of it
it disgusts me on every possible level and the amount of disgust and contempt I would have for a partner who watches it (even knowing he probably spent 1/3 of his life before me watching it as a teen) makes it impossible for me to have a relationship with a 3d moid. im thinking of either taking the 2d pill or becoming a nun

>>418741
Same

>>418741
>taking the 2d pill
One of us. One of us.
Once you take the 2D pill you’ll never be able to go back. Being a nun seems cool but it still very subservient to moids and there are a lot of rules. Find a good husbando and flood your brain with dopamine.

>>418685
>I know he still jacks off and he looks at porn for that, but I think that's it.
This is what I was alluding to. He doesn't need your photos when he has hundreds of thousands of various photos and videos of women to please his specific desires instead. Maybe if he was smitten with you, he'd be begging and flirting to have some photos, but it looks like he's going the easy route of porn if not visiting other actual women.

>>418688
Yeah you're totally right. I guess I was being overly optimistic and thinking he'd still wanna see me because you know, I'm his wife and all. But it was dumb of me to think his brain could work like that.
Thanks for talking some sense into me, nonna

Reminder there's a porn related relationship issues thread already on the log, please don't make this whole thread about porn related issues.

>>418692
Are you really gonna stay with this guy? He sounds like an asshole.

>>418289
he can't look too different if you facetime also make sure you're attracted to him over the internet beforehand. meet up somewhere there's other people.

>>418325
you don't have to explain yourself to men, who cares what they think. completely fine to not want to date a guy who watches porn

>>418222
fucking or masturbating with a full bladder feels sooo good but I definitely feel like a degen doing it on purpose

I need to pornstar moan or just be very vocal during sex/masturbation to get off. I think it's my mind trying to set the scene with I've internalized from porn and fanfiction, as if I'm roleplaying being mindbroken or overstimulated even when I'm not.

>>418045
Same. I'm surprised so many other nonnas do this too tbh

>>418222
Lmao I used to do this when I was way younger and didn't even know that women could masturbate (religious overprotective parents and horrible sex ed at school). I remember it felt amazing but for some reason it's the opposite now. I have to empty my bladder first or else I can't masturbate

>>418654
IRL they usually look like shit and much worse than 1930s ones. But the prison gang ones are hot to me, I have an ongoing RP on one of those ERP chatbot sites where one converts me.

>>417408
Do you know why? Any major lifestyle changes?

i'm genuinely upset i'm too dry tonight and therefore can't get myself off. the things that usually help me aren't doing anything for me currenrly. i've done it every night for the past almost week since finding out i've gained this ability all of a sudden, but tonight i just can't make myself stay wet for enough time. i'm pissed but mostly sad honestly. i just want to rub one out before i go to sleep. maybe i'm too tired rn, or maybe i did it too many times because i did do it in the morning kek i'm sorry i just can't get enough. my mind is blown. i've never felt this way before and thought i never would. i'm a late bloomer i know… not that late i'm 19 to be fair i want to keep going like i'm horny rn but i can't do anything about it bc i'm dry and it's frustrating me. i hope that wasn't just a temporary free trial kek i'll actually be heartbroken

>>417643
>>417408
Do you drink enough water? Are you on birth control?

>watch western porn
>feel disgusted, sick, depressed, extreme post orgasm clarity, fight or flight reflex activated

>watch jav
>feel clean, happy, enjoy it, no post nut clarity, calmness

I have no idea why this is. Western porn gives me the ick so bad and looks vile, like watching open heart surgery. But JAV is so calming to watch.

(And yes sorry for being porn watching scum. I'm trying to stop nonas)

>>418710
Western porn is more violent, vulgar, and an assault on the senses imo. It's more appealing if you have ADHD and need bright stimulating colours and extremely rough fucking with lots of swearing and obnoxiously loud moaning etc.
JAV is usually more tastefully shot, the color grading is more natural, the vibe is overall calmer, there usually isnt as much cursing, and the women are more natural looking with less makeup. Although it depends on which title you are watching of course. JAV is more erotic and psychological, but Western porn is very tacky and on the nose.(samefagging)

>>417268
>Is it possible to be bisexual but only be attracted to women sexually?
Most bi women I know are like this…

>>417520
I presume you have low self esteem and allow yourself to be ruled by retarded internet "sapphic" politics where the sentiment is that if you're a woman who is sexually attracted to penis you could NEVER be sexually attracted to vagina in a way that matters. My advice? Log off and start talking to lesbians and bi women.

>>417520
no, I have a very strong opinion on what's wrong with you but it starts feeling pointless typing this over and over every time someone comes in talking about how they're sexually confused because of the "bi cycle." it's just super weird to instantly forget that you're attracted to women just because you're not in the mood to masturbate to one on a given day. most people aren't masturbating 24/7. it's very normal to be completely turned off from sex because of a breakup or giving birth or getting depressed and it's very common to just go through phases based where you're less horny or turned on by certain thing one month and not the next. I just don't get why so many women lack a strong enough sense of self that they can regularly go through these cycles, KNOW that they go through these cycles and their interest in women/men is gonna come back, and still panic every time.

I’m not sure if it works for the questioning thread but hear me out.
I’m 29 and I never had a LTR, and now I’m torn on whether I’m asexual or not.
Let me start with the premise that I do realize that the modern identity politics idea of asexuality is a bit of a stretch. They will claim that everyone is asexual, including people who regularly have sex, people who have kinks and so on, while I think that true asexuals are people who just don’t get any sexual feelings at all.

And by that definition I’m definitely not asexual because I experience arousal, and I don’t mind masturbating. But I don’t think I experienced attraction to real people often. What got me wondering is some stupid comment on reddit that stated that “asexual people can have sexual drive but not sexual attraction”.

When I was a kid, I was mostly aroused by very stupid fetish stuff, which I didn’t think much about. I din’t really had any crushes, and I never fell in love with anyone.
In my teens, I read yaoi, yuri, pornographic fanfics, and it felt good. When I was 18, I realized I might be into women because I saw my friend’s boobs when she was undressing and felt aroused. But I was not necessarily attracted to her. I didn’t want to date her and found her somewhat annoying.

I was ashamed that I didn’t have any experience when I was 19-20 so I had a brief period of trying to find a boyfriend on the internet. It was rather boring experience. I wasn’t attracted to them, and I didn’t find any part of their bodies hot. The way it usually happened was this: I was going on a few dates with them, we kissed, and then I dumped them because I did not want to go further. The last guy I dated was very handsy, and I feel that I sort of gave myself anxiety by trying to force myself to be normal and have a boyfriend. I was always making up some stupid reason to escape from our dates, and even though I thought I should have sex with him, I didn’t feel comfortable doing it and telling him it would’ve been my first time, so I broke it off too.

And this is an extent of my dating experience. I switched to women after that but wasn’t very successful in it either. I found a girl on Tinder, and while I also was not very attracted to her initially, she was a great kisser, and after the first time we kiss I had this stupid thought that this is what I was made for. But it all went south after two dates. I also had a lot of “test kisses” with one of my friends, andPost too long. Click here to view the full text.