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No. 453732

>>453517
you sound so cool but this thread is scary

No. 454040

>>449067
Sent you a friend request nona. My user starts with z.

No. 454062

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>>453683
damn it's too bad you're so much younger than me because aikatsu is my turbo autism interest and it's really rare to see anyone talk about it. good luck finding friends nonnie!

No. 455930

>>425533
Hello! I sent you an friend request if you're still active. starts with Tr

No. 455962

>>449067
you sound unhinged


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No. 392562[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive women you'd want to fuck and have no shame admitting
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No. 455136

>>453421
Amerie fan did you know that she has a YouTube channel where she reviews books? She’s been doing it for years now

No. 455522

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@another.rando2.0 on tiktok

No. 455527

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>>455522

No. 455889

>>455136
I'm not a fan perse, I just know one song so far but I'm interested in her because of my little crush on her right now. I'm not into books or reading but thank you for telling me this!

No. 456092

>>455522
I hate to post this because it impliedly gasses her up but I thought for a while that this was a younger Anna Khachiyan


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No. 447876[Reply]

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No. 454906

>>454832
>I didn’t realise how difficult I’d find it to sexualise myself after being a virgin and convincing I was unloveable for so long
Damn I relate to this so much it hurts lol.

No. 455025

>>454832
He is negging you to get you to coerce you into doing things he knows you are uncomfortable with. Im not saying dump him(i am), but really consider if you want someone who enjoys making you insecure for his own sexual gain as your partner.

No. 455056

>>454832
AYRT, I rescind my previous benefit of the doubt. He's bringing it up to pressure, shame, and coerce you into doing things you aren't comfortable with by making you think you're competing with her.

No. 455765

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I find it so hard to connect with my boyfriend.

Don't get me wrong, he is caring. He's always willing to help me. But he's a screen addict. Anytime I talk to him, he's either staring at a screen or seems like he's counting down the time until he can stare at it again.

I never get his undivided attention. I want to cuddle, him to look in my eyes and say how much I mean to him… I try to do that to him but it doesnt seem like he likes it. He almost never even compliments my looks.

My gay best friend talks me up so much I have to tell him to tone it down. Sometines it breaks my heart

No. 456200

>>450851
Red flag, when I told my bf I was playing neopets all weekend he said that was cute. A man who likes you won’t be embarrassed by you.


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No. 445681[Reply]

Support for nonas going through breakups/divorce and moving on.

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No. 449470

>>448674
>16 years
>not married
if you want to be married then you're truly wasting your time with this guy thats keeping you around for, whats most likely, convenience.
If you just want sex, maybe try asking him if you can find it outside of the relationship with other people? Communicate those issues with him and see what he says, his answer will determine what you should do next.
Don't stay unhappy when you don't need to.

No. 454853

>>446008
I finally let him go for the new year. Also he got hot after gaining weight. Even though he looks good, I feel bad for whoever is next. Good luck, future woman. I wish I could warn you.

No. 455735

I broke no contact after 9 months because I felt confused and lonely and scared of being forgotten even though I ended it. I'm selfish and destructive and I'm so cripplingly embarrassed and annoyed that I can't love myself unless somebody else wants me.

No. 456044

>>455735
Big, big mistake. When someone gets removed from your life, it's best not to try and bring them back. It especially applies to scrotes, who will treat you even worse (because they think u came crawling back).

No. 456347

>>456044
what do I do now? I take it I just cease all contact again?


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No. 394660[Reply]

Discuss family planning, birth, pregnancy, conception, fertility, and any other baby-related topic in this thread.
Refrain from posting if you dislike children or are childfree.
Old threads
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No. 453614

>>451933
>I mentioned this to my OB and she said these types of intrusive thoughts are normal for late stage pregnancy and even a bit after birth. I can't imagine how paranoid I'll be when baby is actually born.
I had these sorts of thoughts too. It winds down by 6 to 8 months PP if you don't breastfeed. Hang in there.
I'd be wary about getting baby gear off FB marketplace too tbh. If you need used items for cheap, there are children's consignment shops and big swap meet sales, depending on the city you live in if youre in the US. Or just send your brother to pick stuff up for you if you do use FB marketplace

No. 453826

>>452557
I have 2 under 2 and honestly I wish I waited until my oldest was in school first (starts at 3 here). I'm lucky my youngest wasn't colicky and slept well cause I would've lost my mind if he wasn't

No. 453829

>>451933
A lot of it is connected to misogyny/hate boner for mums. A lot of these could've been prevented with better protections for pregnant women and new moms but people actually advocate to put pregnant women in even more dangerous situations to "prove their accountability"

No. 453920

>>451933
Strangers aren’t the ones killing pregnant women; it’s partners and family members.

No. 455671

>>452576
>>453611
>>453826
I think I'll aim for 2.5 years. Thanks for the advice.


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No. 90960[Reply]

I can't be the only one who constantly has to deal with selfish and clueless guys who've obviously got their idea of sex from watching too much porn.

So let's share our worst and cringeworthies sexual experiences in this thread!
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No. 454679

>>454524
Pillow princess piss me the fuck off, sorry not sorry. I want my fun too, it’s just unfair for someone to just sit there and do shit.

No. 454681

>>454550
When I read gummy bears I knew that there were the sugar free ones kek. I’m sorry nonna.

No. 454707

>>454679
Starfishers in general should all die, men or women. Give me my pounding or fuck off.

No. 454711

>>454550
I am… so fucking sorry

No. 455668

>>454681
>>454711
Yeah…he did laugh about it the next day and despite reconnecting recently, he's never brought it up again so I'm ok with it now.


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No. 420991[Reply]

Share tips, vent, advice, similar experiences, how to get out of such a rut, what can be changed, what helped you personally, where to meet women you can relate to.

This thread is for:
-those of us who spent our formative years on 4chan/other male dominated spaces and got internet poisoning from it
-those of us who realised men aren't your friends but are now alone
-gender dysphoric women especially socially dysphoric
-ex-TIFs who have come to terms with being female but are now adrift
-those of us who are gender non-conforming in personality, not only appearance
-assorted spergs/speds who have difficulty understanding social norms, unwritten rules, tone of voice, and reading between the lines
-low-empathy or low EQ women
-general loners and NEETs

This thread is NOT for humblebragging about how cool and rational and edgy you are. Please.

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No. 455465

>>455238
>I envy passionate women and any woman with a strong sense of self
Well don't worry anon, as lamented above these are qualities many women lack so you shouldn't have a shortage of friendship options. I'm literally >>454787 so we have the opposite problem and you'd probably dislike me as I'm everything you can't relate to, but i can tell you there's a bunch of other women out there exactly like that. I suggest bonding with them through mocking the traits and interests of the more passionate women around you, it worked for my former bullies, they seemed really close kek

No. 455528

>>455463
I know i'm supposed to like smart passionate people instead of envying them, buy nothing I do can change my feelings. I just act as if I liked them and wished them well. Why is this shitty or wrong?
Instead of chosing to be a loner I chose to give them social services in exchange for company to leave the house. I listen to them, laugh at their jokes, ask questions, don't disagree, don't change subjects, don't talk to them umprompted, never ask for favours, offer them help etc. None of that transaction requires us to like each other.
I know it's not ideal but it also isn't mean or wrong to be unable to feel adequate feelings for them.

No. 455596

>>454762
LOL that's true but my experiences are consistent on other radfem platforms as well
>>454767
that's really unfortunate regarding your experiences with those friends, i'm sorry. i haven't heard of that happening, but i believe you 100% and that's so fucking corny of them.
>any "movement" or ideology that depends upon the mythologization (and thereby reification) of femininity is not legitimately feminist
i love this take and it scratched an itch in my brain i couldn't put in words, thanks so much nonna. you are right and it creeps me out how many of these supposed feminist movements (whether they call themselves that or merely adopt some values like fds as you mentioned) jork it over "divine femininity". i especially hate the ones who say "women are powerful and amazing because they can create life" because i can't put it into proper words; it just sounds so tone-deaf and bordering on trad-wife mental. its as if they're again trying to push us into being terminal baby makers to "connect to ur spiritual uterus cosmic energy" or some shit lmao
>>454787
based and truth speaking take i love bringing out hater energy in normie women when we have 1 on 1 conversations
usually they'll tell me about a little goal they've done that is against their usual docile behavior and i celebrate. sometimes they need a little encouragement. at my job we have a lazy male manager that never does anything no matter how much we're struggling and maybe a female coworker will go "ohh lazy manager is working today..? oh.." and ill go "yeah honestly i think he is a fat lazy tard and i hope his girlfriend beats him every day" unprompted. they giggle and start ranting (sometimes leads to deeper convos) because i've already hit the extreme so they feel more comfortable. sorry if thats not the type of example you were really getting at but i hope it entertains the fine ladies in this thread regardless

No. 455733

I wish I knew where to meet women. My mother has a lot of female friends, a lot from adulthood. Where the fuck did she meet them? The spaces I inhabit are horrible though for it though. I do yoga but a lot of the women are older, they seem really nice but the 20 year age gap just makes it difficult. I joined a womens book club and it was the exact same issue. I joined mtg drafts a while back but it was mostly men and they seemed distant, like they didn't want to interact with me much and seemed more interested with talking with the other guys. I don't really blame them for that. Maybe I need to get a job and meet women there?

No. 456077

>>455733
Yes you'd have more luck finding someone at your workplace. Best of luck nonna. Personally, I live in a shit country with barely any clubs, and l can't relate to the handful of women l work with. (No hobbies in common, different mindsets, etc…)


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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc



I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 439483

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does anyone here feel like they have a fucked up view of their own sexual orientation because of the sexual abuse you've suffered? i worry that the reason why i don't find men arousing is because i've been coerced, assaulted, molested, raped, you name it, by them in my life and since women obviously never did any of those horrible things to me, that THAT'S why i find them arousing instead. but then i hear stories about men who were raped by other men and then wonder if the reason why they like men was also because of what happened to them and they wonder if their orientation is even real, if that makes sense.

No. 452728

If my sexual dreams aren't me being assaulted by men, they're me being the aggressor to women, either as a man or as myself. I don't know why. In my waking life I am borderline asexual due to the trauma so I don't think I'm secretly a repressed monster, but I still hate it. I'm disgusted by my brain.

No. 452832

My brother tried to molest me when I was 11. After I said no, he never did anything like it again and I don’t know what to do. I keep getting panic attacks from it, and I’ve confronted him about it. He feels really bad about it, and said it’s why he would cut himself, he has a lot of self loathing and when I asked why he did it, he said he was stupid and was only thinking about making himself feel good but not how it’d affect me and that I was treated less than human. He’s been nothing but apologetic.
He’s willing to do anything it takes for me to heal, but I don’t know what that means. I’m scared. I don’t hate him, I want to believe it was a one time mistake and he’s willing to go to therapy together to try. Nonnas I wish I knew what to do.

No. 452862

>>452832
I'd tell him not to self harm over his guilt because it just spreads the guilt over to you. He needs to accept that what he did was wrong and if he wants to really make any sort of atonements he needs to figure out what made him think that it was okay to try molest you in the first place.

Basically the best he can do is try to prevent other kids from being molested but that burden is NOT on you. You're the one who needs to learn how to move on in life with your scars and he's the one who needs to carry the weight of his sins.

No. 455534

my one year anniversary of getting raped at a party is coming up. i remember waking up from blacking out drunk in the middle of it and how bad it hurt, but i did nothing and i let him drive me back to my house. it happened again, i let him into my house again. i remember him asking me the second time if i was scared he was going to rape me. i feel miserable. i haven't told anyone, but i cut contact with him completely. i feel like i'm letting a monster walk free but no one at the party even cared about what happened because he was friends with them all.


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No. 391531[Reply]

This thread is for women who chose not to date "real men" (aka 3DPD) and instead have chosen to devote themselves completely to their husbandos. Talk about your daily life with your husbando, and discuss why you chose this lifestyle.
Lesbians/Bi women into waifus are welcomed too.

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No. 455030

What's a good place to buy rings that aren't cheap plastic shit but aren't hundreds of carats? Wanna get one for my husbando…

No. 455071

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>>455030
I'm not well versed in jewelry but I love Bisoulovely. I want to buy an engagement ring from my husbando from there.

No. 455203

>>453026
I never understand these questions, there's not some formula to trick yourself into developing an attachment, if you're just not a person that develops crushes then there's nothing to do about it.

No. 455359

>>453026
if you've never really had crushes for characters then it's probably not for you, why do you want a waifu so bad?

No. 455517

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Need this much cute merch of my waifu so bad


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No. 93899[Reply]

Inspired by >>>/g/93056
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No. 451039

>>418549
The sky blue Vita, I love it so much, I didn't even know they were made in that color. I always carry my standard black one around with me, too.

No. 455297

>>449202
Hype stickers is a cute thing to call it. FOUR WHOLE MEGAPIXELS! I've considered getting one of the Lumix micro 4/3 cameras to keep in my bag as well, but I'm happy with this one for now and it's nice not having to worry about lenses or flash for most everyday photos.
>>447419
If you're NA based try the ArtPrimo paint sticks! They come in cute colors and are pretty cheap, like $4. I think they have them at some stores in Europe, too.

No. 455315

>>447584
My woman

No. 455503

>>449156
Johnny best JoJo, love your purse btw

No. 456075

>>449202
What a neat layout!


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