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No. 475253
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Black women are too beautiful to this world.
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>>475347Every time someone says this, it just makes me like her a bit more, idk. South Sudanese women are just beautiful, they can't help it.
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I'm trying to avoid the news and just focus on myself. I know I should have done this earlier last term, but I'm serious now. Back in school and the gym. What about you guys?
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>>475793Her name is thenyla_ on Instagram. I thought she wasn’t real either at first but she very much is.
>>475361This south Sudanese people are the most beautiful people in the world and they are currently being genocided by Arabs who want to take over Sudan. They already took over north Sudan which is why most people assume Sudanese people look Arabic or lighter skinned when they are originally one of the darkest people in the world. This genocide is even larger than Palestine but no one cares because it’s happening to dark people. 100 women killed themselves this past winter after all the men died in that village because they didn’t want to be used as sex slaves.they set themselves on fire. White feminism won’t teach you that smh. Black women we are still suffering the worst of the patriarchy and capitalism. Never forget
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I knew the mlk files would be pretty bad since we knew he had a white mistress but holy shit moids are absolute dogshit even with the CIA literally trying to suicide bait them.
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>>475823I recall seeing the Sudan conflicts so much on the news when they decided to split the country in two and i feel like everyone acted like the problem was solved and moved on. I also remember seeing some cringy tiktok saying that radfems "over focusing" on genital mutilation in Africa was transphobic and promoted gender essentialism so there is very little hope that the plight of black women will ever get the attention it deserves.
No. 476280
>>476238Kek, I don’t really care about being in competition with women, but it’s kind of funny when you can see the jealousy and how they seethe about “a blackie being beautiful”. It’s not really racist per se, but some white women really see their whiteness as an automatic win over any
POC.
No. 476376
>>476221Imagine being more offended but he female part in female genital mutilation
Stupid trannies and their handmaidens were a major reason why trump is back in office and now we have to suffer, fucking hell
No. 476564
>>476280>it's not really racist per seAre you retarded? Someone thinking they're more attractive than black women solely because they're not black themselves is absolutely racist. You need to spend less time on this site if you're starting to bargain with whether or not to label obvious racism as…racism.
Auntie tom.
No. 476688
>>476564I expressed myself wrong kek. English is not my first language nonnita.
It’s still racism, just not the out there kind. Is it called a “micro-aggression” maybe?
No. 476721
>>476280Not to be doomer but in reality, whiteness is seen as a win over beauty. It's why you'll see
POC chasing after and dating the middest of whites. A black woman being beautiful won't stop her getting shot by cops, picked over Beckies, or mainstreamly regarded as beautiful. The comments from both white men and women under articles about black female celebrities are always incredibly cruel and disparaging. Black people roast the shit out of each other, black men value fat white women over slim in shape pretty black women. Truth is blackness is a constant uphill struggle, even in African areas not exposed to white nonsense, colorism is a huge issue and lighter skinned women are still prized over darker skinned women, every singe time. It's honestly sad how many beautiful black women I know who struggle incredibly hard finding dates or men who want them for anything other than a one night experiment. The world is a cruel place for black women.
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>>476721NTA. I'm not going to say the things you're talking about don't ever happen just because I haven't personally experienced them all (maybe I'm just incredibly lucky?), but even with all those risks in mind, I'd still rather be me, a ""pretty"" black girl, than some of these other people I've been seeing around that are (supposed to be) more privileged or "winning over" my kind in a way. Idk, life isn't always so bleak. I wish I could give you a hug nonna
No. 476821
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Being a black out girl is aaah! its so fucking frustrating I hate it I hate it! Today a woman came up to me and told me my mom shouldn't let me go out with my hair looking so disheveled (Im 23) and that "Us black women need to keep up appearances" or something along those lines. This was an employee at a grocery store…I'm so tired of the looks other black women have been giving me since going natural. I am learning to braid, I literally just washed and blow dried my hair, I was on a snack run so I just went out with my short blown out hair. Anyway I'm gonna attempt cornrows today but I am thinking about buying a wig until my hair gets long enough to actually do shit with again. Starting from scratch is tough, I don't need aunties telling me I look bad. It's not like this was any better when my hair was long but relaxed. One time I was at walmart, checking out at the self checkout. I was looking around waiting for an employee to take something off of the machine for me and I noticed this woman with a little boy in her cart staring at me. I half smiled and looked away but before I knew it she was walking over to me. She came over to me and asked me a very strange question, "Do you like asian boys?" And like an IDIOT I said "Sure. I had an asian boyfriend once." I'm not kidding, she looked me up and down and said "I can tell."…??? Huh? She told me asian guys like black girls who act like black girls and to stop trying to be something I'm not. I was pretty befuddled. I half heartedly said something like "You've got the wrong idea, my boyfriend is mexican" and she gave me this weird smile, she put her hand on my shoulder and followed it up with this weird soft nod like this was some kind of intervention or something. I was so utterly BAFFLED I must have just stood there with my mouth open for a few minutes. When I got into the car I realized why she'd been so concerned. Now I laugh looking back but at the time I was so embarrassed I could die. I had relaxed hair with straight wispy bangs (They were trendy at the time and I wanted to try something new) I'd also been wearing my boyfriends hoodie. It had a dragon on it with some japanese on the sleeves and on the back. I felt so embarrassed when I got into the car. I was wondering if I looked like a weird asian cosplayer to her and started regretting the bangs. Like I guess I can either have bangs or where my boyfriends hoodie but never 2 of those things at once kek. It's nice that older black women are concerned for me, don't get me wrong, it's kind of them to want to look out for me but I'm so tired of it. I try to take it in good faith (I'm guessing they just want to help) but sometimes it feels like they're just concerned about how I make black women as a whole look with my imperfect awkward looks. Like they think "That girl is so disheveled, she's the kind of girl that drags us down." and that makes me feel profoundly insecure when around other black women. I always wonder how I can avoid looking like a freak in the eyes of my own ilk. I wonder if women of other races go through the same thing, my korean friend said something similar happens with older Korean women but it doesn't seem to be at the same level of insane invasiveness.
No. 476895
>>476882that sounds like another psyop to keep black women down, asexual, alone, touch starved, forced to be 'strong and independent'. other races of women get spoiled, simped for, romanced, etc. why should black women be forced to suck it up and forego the basic human experiences of love and relationships?
>the singleness is voluntary for black gen z womenand what are your stats to back that statement up?
No. 476896
Truth is non-black women have tried to force the asexual foreveralone cucked Mammie role who raises the non-black woman's children onto black women for centuries. Every generous, caring, loving man that ends up with a black woman is one less quality man for themselves, and they can't have that.
Every beautiful black woman who recognizes her value and believes she is entitled to the best treatment is a direct threat to the non black woman and a form of competition. Non-black women benefit greatly from keeping black women at the bottom of the pile in order to elevate themselves. They're fine with black women never experiencing being wined and dined, indulged, flattered, treated well, romanced, or having high expectations. That would only take more attention, love and indulgence away from themselves. Non-black women live to sabotage black women through fake empowerment. It's also why you'll see them shoving obese black women in undies in ads to try and reinforce the idea that BW are unattractive and low value. The Wicked movie was a perfect example of that. Pretending to be woke and about acceptance and humanizing the other, while also deliberately pushing the contrasting imagery of the pure angelic blonde white woman vs the ugly black ogre woman that we're supposed to pity. Non-black women excel at this backhanded behaviour against BW and it's vile.
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>>476929Yeah, they want to take you down a couple of notches and put you in what they see as "your place". Some start getting
triggered and genuinely think that if things are going well for you (whether it be in finances or beauty), it means they must be literal serfs of the earth, or that you somehow snatched something they "deserved". They shouldn't be entertained.
People, at large, are very retarded and easily malleable through media conditioning. I don't hold it against them (humans are just animals), but it has to be noted, and it's why I've never fallen for copes that "representation doesn't matter!!1". In fact, the people who seethe the hardest when black women talk about how we're portrayed (even in our own spaces) are typically the main ones who have sperg fits about how their own demographic is viewed by the public at large these days (eg white men who feel like they're constantly and solely being made the butt of jokes in movies and TV shows, black men who think they're constantly being "emasculated" in the same media, white women who see white men on Twitter make jokes like "white women amirite?" to feel better about themselves and face little to no social punishments, etc).
I don't like it when black women deliberately play into stereotypes for personal gain because I feel like it harms all of us (the ones who do it with our most damaging stereotypes and help to dehumanize us are basically enemies IMO), but I understand it. I think it's good for black women to be aware that a lot of these people (not all) operate on some kind of bizarre cartoon cookie-cutter logic instead of reality. It's not a simple matter of not seeing you as human, they literally design a blueprint for you in their heads and range from pleasant surprise to confusion and rage if you don't conform to it. It's literally more effort for them to view you as an individual person than it is to craft these bot-tier narratives. You can either be upset, ignore it, purposely distance yourself from them or try to figure out how to use it to your advantage. I don't really fault any option. It's really weird, and it took me a while to accept these things because I was raised to think people are just people, not "types", and that I could assume others felt the same looking at me (very naive, but it helped me in some ways, and kept me from becoming too jaded).
No. 477015
>>476895>Other races get spoiledI need every divestment black girl to go actually make some non-black friends instead of getting envious at whatever superior treatment y'all think they’re all experiencing. Like the things separating you from being “spoiled” isn’t race, it’s class. The spoiled white girls have access to rich scrotes, same as the baddie ATL type girls who date rich black boys. Your fantasy isn’t happening not because you’re black but because you’re middle class. Go be pretty enough to be plucked by a richer dude, or go spend so much time in rich people spaces, making friends with rich black kids, that one of them catches feelings for you, despite you being mid. There. But stop fantasizing about some random Ashley’s life with men when her experience with men is also boring and pathetic. Lmao, you see white girls crashing out on TikTok everyday on about how their men don’t do enough for their birthday, Valentine’s Day, don’t plan dates, not emotionally available etc. You’re envying the wrong demographic. You’re looking across, start looking up.
No. 477028
>>477015Yeah, I agree. I don't really know where this narrative that on average, women of other races easily get spoiled without even trying comes from, besides lack of experience and internalized inferiority complexes. IMO it's not much different from when white people claim we get free everything and endless opportunities because we're black women. For both viewpoints, you have to be disconnected from reality and only pay attention to what emotionally touches on you to end up believing it.
Men drag women of all races through the mud, and said women will be the first to announce it when they feel emotionally safe to do so.
No. 477037
>>476721Also
>black men value fat white women over slim in shape pretty black womenStatistically, the most successful/wealthy black men (all men, really) marry within their own race and are more attracted to fit/slim women, but porn addicts and incels try to obscure this fact to scare the women of their own respective races into "behaving well" and pedestalizing them. It's always the same script of "This other group of women are so much better and more submissive, I will leave you for them" (eg white incels love to attack white women by saying this about Asian women).
The kinds of black men who make a huge show of preferring white or other non-black women over black women largely end up treating those women as poorly as the "inferior" black women (eg single motherhood, cheating, domestic violence - this is according to data on interracial relationships). I think this is further compounded with the obesity aspect. The type of man who'd go after an obese woman over one of a healthy weight is typically not very desirable, forward-thinking or stable to begin with, but the extra hurdle of a racial and/or cultural difference would also indicate poor planning. Tbh, outside the stats, actually listening to how black men discuss this killed any narrative of other women "getting the good black men" for me. The way so many of them brag about relying on those women (and sometimes even their families) for money, how "easy" and open to all kinds of sex they are, etc is fucked. I know men say things about us too, but I don't want to be seen the way black fetishizing males see white women. It really is some sadistic ego/pump and dump or "carry my baby, fuck you" game to a lot of them.
I also don't comprehend the white pickme types who pine for it. Maybe they're just unaware of what goes on (which I kind of doubt, the information is everywhere by now), they just don't know what these men are saying, or they don't care because they like the sex. Either that, or it's not just that they specifically look down on black women and think they'll be treated differently, they also feel like they're better than other white women up until they get their wake-up call. No. 477155
>>477025Do you have a remote job? You still have superiors. Even if you own a business, you have clients. Also, some of them have enough common sense to not go spewing their awful opinions. They get it out through tiny ways. You won’t even know till it’s too late.
Unless you literally live in a homogenous place in Africa you will inevitably deal with the repercussions of our lack of social capital. Anyway, the best thing to do isn’t to isolate yourself the best thing to do is increase your social, financial capital to the best of your ability and if you’re socially aware enough, you can spin this to your advantage and weed out the racists. Money can couch you from racism but it won’t get rid of it completely.
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Saw this on Twitter. I assumed it was a horror, historical tragedy or something. It’s a romance. The writing is so shit and I don't understand how any Black woman (or any woman in general) could find this sexy.
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>>477201This is the author Jamila Jasper.
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>>477201>>477202I don't understand why this biracial woman is specifically and seemingly exclusively writing black women for her fetishes and fantasies. Tbh, I don't even see why she'd have this insane raceplay fetish. I don't care about the one drop rule, dating white men shouldn't be any more out of the ordinary for her than dating black ones because both races are part of her immediate family.
Apparently, her mom is white and her dad is black too. I really wonder.
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>>477202From her website.
That's nice of her and everything, but can't she just write nice stories? On the representation thing, maybe include both black and biracial women as sisters or friends? Stuff that isn't fucked up interracial porn? Whatever happened to The Cheetah Girls lol
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>>477201Who is buying these?
No. 477247
Black girls fucked up lowkey by overly complaining about being "fetishized" by non-black moids to be honest. Now, as a radfem I don't really care about scrote validation as caring about it strongly is ant ethical to my core values of female liberation. But if I were strictly to think about this from a young black girl's perspective who'd want more confirmation of her desirability from more than just taper-fade wearing black men, then yeah those conversations lowkey could've ostracized us away from a larger dating pool. Fetishization is real and can be especially egregious when a moid dates you because they have a caricature of you they want you to play. But I also remember a few years back, online where mid-20's to 30's black women were complaining LOUDLY if a non-black man was heavy handed with the compliments. A white man earnestly saying "God, Black women are so sexy, I've always wanted to date one." Would've had all of black twitter firing up their mentions for days, and would've had academic black women writing tweets long thinkpieces or tiktok videos. Reread that earlier sentence again, but replace "Black" with "Asian" or "Latina." All of a sudden the sentence sounded less malicious right? Now replace it with "Brazilian" or "French". Still feels less weird, why? Because those other groups of women wouldn't fight every single fetishy comment ever made online, especially the less creepy or delusional ones. Latina's are fetishized for being "fiery" but you don't see anyone but the 'latinx' Latin Americans screeching online about how it harm's them. They either lean into it, or ignore it, and continued doing so for so long, until considering their group as sexy and desirable from moids of all races became commonplace. Ya'll started getting mad at every Connor who wanted ya'll. Which I get, because white people's intentions are always suspicious, but ya'll did that shit so loudly ya'll killed the oxygen in the flame of desire before it could really spread. Non-black moids aren't part of our race, and don't know many of us intimately, what did you want them to say? That they were sexually attracted to us because of our hobbies or something? No, they could only describe the cause of their desire, with what they could see, which is that Black women were "physically" attractive. That's why all these terms: 'Brown, Black, thick, sexy, rich, dark, chocolate, fine.' come up in their vocabulary and nothing meaningful or deep. All I'm saying is that maybe some of the zoomer black girls today, would've been on their third shaggy brunette haired Tyler if ya'll let those little boys fantasize a little longer like…
Ya'll wanted to fight them for calling us "thick, ebony, chocolate etc" Got ya'll wish lmao, because now they're back to calling us what they been calling us. Which is intimidating, so idk ya'll…obvs this isn't a perfect theory, just thinking out loud.
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black women are hypocrites about fetishization when it comes to skin color. if a man likes a woman darker than him, it's a fetish. if he likes a woman lighter than him, it's a preference or type. it's obvious low self-esteem talking. women who think they're this repulsive should not date and just stay celibate the rest of their lives.
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>>477264Reread
>>477259 and try again
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>>477247It's because black women on Twitter (and on certain black news publications) are obsessed with being woke and proving their allegiance to black men. Unfortunately, there's no reward to it because moids, as a rule, don't really care about anything that isn't directly benefiting them. They'll come out for fellow black men, but they're largely not going to raise the torch to support black women en masse, and a sad number of them are happy to sell us out for pennies and validation from white/non-black people. I still remember when black women started that #BlackBoyJoy thing to uplift black men in their lives (especially their sons), and how to this day, black men who live on Twitter and speak on "black issues" have done nothing of the sort in turn. Like, they can't even be on code with the good-natured little bits of internet activism and goodwill, but black women are out marching for them IRL and sacrificing their whole lives to carry their stupid seed, even when they have no money or are in poor health.
No other race of woman is so loyal to their male counterparts that they'd not only reject other men and constantly seethe about being fetishized by them,
but also debase themselves to the point where they happily accept the label of whore/baby mama at the exact same time (see: rap culture), insist that sort of fetishization/objectification and abuse is empowering and defend it with stupid cope arguments about how marriage simply "isn't part of black culture" and that the pimps exploiting them/their daughters are "actually guiding young black girls". These women even take it upon themselves to do mate-guarding for black men by bashing
both black and biracial women and calling them "white man's whores", traitors, etc for dating white men. I've never seen this kind of mentality outside of horrible Arab states that tolerate shit like child marriage. But let those same black men tell it, black women are all disloyal sluts and "bedwenches" regardless, kek.
Normal, high self-esteem women just see compliments, accept what's positive, reject the destructive/negative and go, but shea butter twitter wants black women constantly doing political labor, always in the fucking trenches fighting for or with someone, maintaining position in the mammy/slave/warrior class, broodmares and underdogs holding up the world. They think it's noble to be miserable and act as the stand-in for "ugliness" in society. It's like they get some sort of martyr's high from it, and resent anything that challenges that notion. It's so dumb. I can't really blame them, some of them learned to make money through these "self-victimizing grifter" tactics they picked up from people with last names ending in "berg" or "stein" in university, and half of them would be jobless if they couldn't follow the pattern (write think pieces that make all social situations worse, write new think pieces complaining about the result, worsen things even more, rinse and repeat).
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>>477202>>477217>>477201I want her to fucking die, hope her precious white man t-bones her car and she suffers from permanent brain and spinal damage an she can never write this fucking drivel again. Dead serious
(a-logging) No. 477315
>>477247>Reread that earlier sentence again, but replace "Black" with "Asian" or "Latina." All of a sudden the sentence sounded less malicious right?Not really. Yellowfever moids and the ones going on about "big booty latinas" are rightfully mocked
>>477307Plus the self esteem argument makes no sense, women with high self esteem expect basic decency and respect
No. 477329
>>477280samefag, and I love you nonna. I found myself nodding along to every single sentence. You didn't miss once. I love the way you articulate yourself because every sentence was a (positive) smack in the face, set my head on right. Especially when you said that black women "mate-guard" for black men by shaming black women who date out. It's so true! Just in the last thread alone there was a black anon shaming another black girl because she said "I prefer dating white boys to black boys." That black anon was seething, telling her that same boring old script of "it must be self-hate, how can you not be attracted to your own people?" Thankfully some other nonnas told her to shut the fuck up and stop looking for proof of socially taboo explanations to define a black girl's likely attraction. Leave that caping shit on black twitter. Also reminds me of the thought experiment I had earlier where I imagined that if I told a small crowd of black people my age that I like white boys you'd see the girls turn up their nose in disgust, and start bickering with me, before the black boys would even get a word in. That's how retarded black women are, to be offended on behalf of black men… not being able to fuck me. Also to add this discussion, I was thinking about how the "#black love" era on twitter wasn't even about black love, it was a political middle finger to whatever imaginary white man those black girls who made those posts were imagining in their head. Black women live their life through political campaigns and political optics, and get mad when other black women like me don't want to roleplay the same life as them. These women were so hurt when black men didn't join them in their "revolutionary, us against the world, dystopian YA novel" black love idealizations. Black men chose their personal sexual desires over this live action roleplay, and black women looked foolish as fuck letting those men call us "bitter, jealous, bald" 3,000 times before it clicked in their head that black men didn't bind themselves to some imaginary race loyalty for their choice in partners or even friends, like we did. They weren't holding themselves to some stupid pro-black soldier oath like we were, and those black women became hurt when the men refused to play along. No ones wasting their one life on earth, during the kindest century ever to exist for black people in years, to bind themselves to cosplaying members of the black panther party, instead of actually living their lives. Realizing that black men enjoyed the mandingo dick fetishization as it affirmed their manhood, loved dating out and didn't think they owed us anything just for sharing a race, and thought we were bitter busy bodies who couldn't ever mind our own business, and enjoyed disparaging us in front of non-black women in order to boost their ego up, was a much needed wakeup call for black women. Slow ass group who need people to be outright cruel and violent to us before we learn to stop caping and just be selfish with our lives and happiness. We seriously ruined our optics the past few years. Black men were happy to let us do it too, in their little groups with non-black men saying "black women are such sjw's, they're annoying and bitter as shit."
No. 477341
>>477336Agreed. They probably think all those young girls should just "get over it" (eg internalize it in silence and pick-me hard for black men to "prove a point").
>According to this anon things said on the internet never make their way into real life.Literally. Boys say and repeat all that garbage to their face in real life anyway, so the "It's just the internet" nonsense is just that. The "your body, my choice" shit leaking into schools should've been a wakeup call.
No. 477342
>>477333>>477336samefag but I really despise the "it's only happening on the internet therefore it's not real" argument. They have pronouns as part of university policy now, as if that didn't literally start from troons on the internet aggressively complaining online about how bad it is to assume people's pronouns without asking. There's also a pendulum swing towards conservatism happening right now, that's been brewing on the internet for years if you've been paying attention. Yet you're convinced that no rhetoric circulating the internet will ever have an impact on the real world?
You have to have a record breaking low IQ, to genuinely believe that in 2025. After everything that's happened in the past decade alone.
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>>477346I think a lot of you need to go outside and stop doom scrolling on the worst apps known to man. Men say the worst shit about women they know they can’t get. I know the kids are being cruel and saying it to black girls but that’s why you gotta teach black girls how to roast. No boy popular or otherwise could step to me as a kid because my roasting game was Immaculate. Popular boys even started to respect me because I knew how to come for their insecurities by simply studying what made them tick and using it against them. Did it almost get me beat up? Sure but did I earn respect and they stopped coming to me with disrespect? HELL YEAH. Start teaching black girls the art of roasting again. As an adult it’s always been crickets irl because men have conned y’all into believing they have racial types. THEY DONT. Even the most racist man has been obsessed with and fallen for me because at the end of the day I’m a pretty woman with a soft voice, hourglass figure and witty humor. A lot of you don’t use your “fetishization” to your advantage and it shows. I always use it to get me jobs,raises, get out of work etc, the caveat is to never stop being yourself and advocating for black women starting with yourself. The second a man compliments me by bringing other black women down I make sure to embarrass him by saying I do that too. I do the same thing if a man from another race brings down their women to uplift me. I don’t play their games but I will play the “I’m just a girl” game to get what I want. Personally I don’t have a type and never have. Fine is fine and has no racial lines. But I’m currently with an Asian guy and he’s never called me no “chocolate queen” the most he’ll do that i guess is fetishy is that he is obsessed with my ass. He likes smacking it and touching it. But I have a big butt so everyone does that to me even girls kek. But he is also equally obsessed with my legs because they are skinny. In fact dare I say he likes my legs more than any other body part. One time I wore a long maxi dress that was figure hugging and showed how big my butt was and he literally pouted and said “why would you wear such a long dress I can’t see your legs”. A black man would’ve seen how nice my ass looked and thanked me kek. I was shocked because black men love long figure hugging dresses as long as it shows the butt curve. This proves my theory true that all guys just have a body type and not a race type. They just use race to guilt trip women from their race into being loyal to them. But I’m telling you every date I’ve gone on with an Asian wether they were FOB or American as soon as they saw my legs they couldn’t stop touching me and wanting to be with me. Race be damned. Black guys love thick curvy women and appealing to nonblack men’s types. White guys love oppression, boobs and hair. Latino guys I haven’t done the research on them but I feel like they like hair ass and tits. But Asian guys I know for a fact like long skinny legs. Honestly Asian people in general and randomly white women go crazy for my thigh gap kek. It’s interesting how different races view women’s bodies. Whatever body type you land on find what group of men like it and go from there. It’s never steered me wrong. I think I don’t attract black men as much as other races of men because while I do have a butt and boobs I’m too skinny and I don’t have thick thighs. I think that’s what black men like more than anything is thick thighs. Notice how they always date thick versions of every race of woman. Men have body types! I think we all do but we’ve all memed ourselves into having racial types when again Fine is fine!
No. 477398
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>>477329I’m inclined to agree with you, but I just hate the idea of saying white guys are the best type of guys. You’re like “oh this is the largest group of men, you have to go out with them and pander to them.” And I feel like there’s this sentiment that you can never really be honest with a white guy. I get that trying to speak for black guys has not been the best plan, but I feel like running to the other side is just stupid. There are anons defending that pro-slavery bwwm drivel upthread. I think many black women just need a long time to just be alone self reflect and actually learn to love themselves first.
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>>477388I think this is the real reason we push back so hard. There is no benefit to us being stuck or forced back into our stereotype. Stupid, slutty big booty retard? Who wants to be seen like that? That’s why I encourage younger black women to focus on education and fitness and therapy.
No. 477495
>>477388>>477398>>477404Even now, on the topic of fethisization yall can’t help yourselves but to create a more dramatic boogeyman version of the examples anons used earlier. Anons were saying that being called “beautiful, ebony, chocolate” by non-black men isn’t that deep and didn’t warrant angry mobs. Unlike other, more harmful fetishistic stereotypes. And now ya’ll schizophrenic asses are shifting the conversation to “big booty retard jezebal” because you’re so committed to the paranoia of thinking the sky is falling everytime a non-black person interacts with you positively instead of ignoring your existence or being rude to you.
Anon:
>being called chocolate isn’t that deep. We need to loosen up on what we call fetishization.Ya’ll:
>it’s the same as being called a fat booty mammy jezebal retard!! Stay guarded! No one’s asking you to kiss white male feet, we’re just saying stop having pitchforks up at the ready at the slightest hint that someone’s attracted to us. You guys are always looking over your shoulder like someone’s out to get you by saying ya’ll have big butts, or your complexion is beautiful. Mind you this was shit ya’ll was BRAGGING about having “naturally” all over the Internet for YEARS, now you’re fuming because the men who are attracted to you started using the same language you used to describe yourselves?
Black women:
>we’re the only race that has X,Y,ZNon-black men:
>I want black women because they’re the only race that has X,Y,ZBlack women:
>no that’s bad. Just because some black girl online had a Twitter storytime about having a racist boyfriend, doesn’t mean the rest of us have to stay guarded the moment a white boy even so much as smiles at us.
The black men be fetishizing your wide hips and fat asses, and y'all jump up and cheer. Black women fetishize the men’s big dick, and say that “I want a man who has dark skin, and white teeth” shit. Which is fetishization as well.
Now if a non-black man says he wants black girls because of their nice skin, hair, and big ass, the whole community, but black women especially, will shame him until he represses it. But if a non-black woman, wants black men’s big dicks, and their dark skin, black men RUN to hop in their pussy. Ya’ll will be seething in the corner by yourselves because you thought this “getting angry with non-blacks for being attracted to us” shit was gonna be a group project. Kek.
You wanted to be acknowledged for the desirability of your natural features, until more than just black men started finding that desirable. Now yall crying online about how other races get chose. Maybe take a page out of their book and let the compliments go to your head, gas you up and pad your self-esteem. Unless you’re a radical feminist monk committed to never seeking validation from your desirability, then stop pretending not being loudly desired won’t make y'all feel more confident, especially when it’s not that creepy. It does for black men, it does for white “everybody wants us” women and men, it does for latinas, and it does for Asian women. But ya’ll want to be in the invisible pile alongside Indian men.
You guys are such cucks.
No. 477499
>>477378I’m actually mad you came into this thread just to write the most painfully dull blog post on lolcor. I wasted all that time reading just to read
>I’m skinny with a big butt! Repeated in 6,000 different ways.
No. 477505
>>477495nobody here defended black men, non-black men were only mentioned because that's what the original post was about. i can't speak for the other anons but personally i get annoyed when black men say this stuff too.
>But if a non-black woman, wants black men’s big dicks, and their dark skin, black men RUN to hop in their pussy. that's because men in general are desperate and will fuck anything. not everyone wants to be like them. also consider that the women bragging about butts or whatever aren't the exact same women who are against it. people aren't a monolith
No. 477540
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>>477495I want to be desired for who I am, as a person. I don’t want to be looked at through stereotypical lens. I try to judge people case by case, but I fear today is the worst time to date. It was easier to do to date in the 1990s.
I see myself as a normal person and I’m attracted to normal people. I want a normal person to be attracted to me.
No. 477543
>>477495This. Literally stop the hyper-autism around "fetishization".
>You're very beautiful, your skin looks like chocolate>Aww haha thanksDone, it doesn't matter. We do have pretty skin, nice bodies and super curly hair. These aren't bad to acknowledge unless the person is being disrespectful. It's not the same as actual racism and the "big booty retard" fetishization, it's so insane how weird autists psyopped so many black women into thinking being found pretty by anyone non-black is evil or fake. It's fine.
No. 477618
>>477571NTA but I don't think it's about the word itself, but the way it's said. Like this
>>477543 sounds fine imo but
>>477201 in the screencap is way too vulgar
No. 477955
>>477931My thing is if someone you are interested in or not calls you chocolate and it makes you feel uncomfortable TELL THEM. People won’t know that they are making you uncomfortable if you don’t tell them right then and there. A lot of Black women like being called chocolate and refer to themselves as such. So it makes sense if other people do it too. I just don’t see the issue when more dangerous words like bed wench and mammy are being used to describe us online.
>>477572It’s just funny to me that you refute having a flat ass and that’s where you feel the most offended but you don’t refute being called illiterate you don’t even bring it up. I would personally be more offended at my intelligence being questioned but that’s just me kek.
No. 477997
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>>477961NTA but screenshot gives an idea of the story
No. 478362
>>478312>I can understand the need for wigs but I don’t understand why straight/wavy/curly texture to be honest.Legacy of white people sperging and seething at black people over their hair texture, trying to kick them out of school, refusing to hire them, etc. We have natural hair, it's a problem. We straighten our hair or wear wigs, it's still a problem. I have long hair naturally, and grew up with non-black people weirdly raging about it and accusing me of having fake hair. I didn't talk about hair because I just wasn't raised that way, so it weirded me out every time. It's like seeing my hair somehow hurt their feelings, idk. I don't know why, but other people are just weird and fixated on our hair, our skin, our features and our bodies, and they'll say anything, even if they contradict themselves.
I want natural hair uplifted over the alternatives, but not from the standpoint of "reee what do the non-blacks think?!" because those people shouldn't be taken seriously. They'd rather talk about black women's hair than address their insane rates of head lice infestation compared to us, or the issue of their males balding at younger and younger ages (if baldness at 13 is part of your bloodline, stop it). They'll always find an excuse to bash you because you committed the sin of being black
and female. Black women look the most beautiful with variations of the hair that naturally comes with our phenotypes, but straight hair and other textures can look good too. I also like that we can kind of do anything with our hair, it's fun and creative. The more important problems are black girls not being taught to care for their real hair, and dumb black people who bash our natural textures within the community.
No. 478369
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What's with the retarded psy op against Angela Davis do white people sit around raging about random celebs? Mental illness is a national concern
No. 478473
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>>478362On the subject of black hair care, I believe there should be more of a discussion on the alarming amount of hair products marketed to black people with cancer causing and endocrine disrupting chemicals
No. 478502
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Thoughts? I do believe that some white women do not realize that they are affected by misogyny, though that might just be because of their race and that sexism is so undermined (reason why white women are considered acceptable targets even on the left)
No. 478512
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>>478369I was trying to find what this was all about and kinda unrelated but didn't know she was 5'8". Damn she's tall
No. 478520
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>>478502This is what happened with affirmative action, too. White women were statistically the biggest beneficiaries of it by far, but tons of dumb grifters made a whole show of it being a "minority thing", and they either followed along, or ultimately decided that they hate The Blax more than they love succeeding. Over the next few years, get ready for useless think pieces asking why there aren't as many (white) women in successful positions, kek.
You just have to accept that a high amount of people hate you, and some of them are so stupid that they'll happily take Ls on the promise that you'll be harmed even more. The general populace will continue to fall for dumb, easy tricks. Black women really don't need to be at the forefront of any social justice stuff, because very few people are actually pro-social, most of them actually start malding when an "N" tries to tell them anything, and they'll just let you take the heat when things get rough. 99% of your attempts to talk sense into people who hate you will go ignored, punished or backstabbed. I think more black women would benefit from "These people are fucking retarded, how can we quietly leverage the current situation to save ourselves and our own loved ones?" than "We need to help all these people, explain everything, be open about all that we do, march in the streets and discuss all these political issues on public platforms".
No. 478623
>>478338Not bait.
>>478362I think we need to start saying straight hair doesn’t look good. This whole idea of ‘let us do what we want’ isn’t helping anyone because it refuses to interrogate why we default to a straight wig. If a wig at all.
No. 478759
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See what I mean when I say that men of color are lames. If they weren’t black they would be rightoid racists.
So many black men are like this compared to black women.
No. 478781
>>478759all men are lames*
FTFY
there is no non lame MOC
No. 479481
>>479479Like there are Latinos and latinas yapping about black women not calling speaking out about ICE etc..as if 58% and 32% of them didn’t vote for Trump kek? Or the rampant racism they have in their communities.
Lay on the bed you made and stop expecting black people, especially black women to fight your fight.
No. 479765
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>>479481The crazy thing is Black women are speaking up about it still because a lot are teachers and are seeing their kids not show up and it goes viral every time. These people complaining about us are just rage baiting because if you go outside it’s always Black women in social work. For Latinos someone made up a good point that their whole existence is predicated on anti Blackness. They purposely breed out their Black DNA hence why it’s only their grand and great grandparents that are 100% Black. Look up the history of Argentina and that’s just one country of many. You look at Argentina today and it’s filled with the most racist white looking Hispanics but if you read their history you’d see Black people were there as slaves since at least the 1500s but were bred out and murdered. Colombia has
whole cities of Black people in fact it’s the third largest Black population in Latin America but you’d never know since the Latinos that always get highlighted are the white ones. Pic related is a Black Colombiana. They don’t even big up Mestizos only Latinos mixed with white get praised the rest get called slurs….oh sorry I mean “nicknames” and are hidden from the public and placed in ghettos. Sound familiar? And don’t get me started on the men being some of the most sexist men on the planet. Machismo is
toxic af. The femicide rates in Mexico are depressing and fucked up. Bring all that together and you see clearly why they voted for trump with 0 cognitive dissonance. And even still I still don’t think they should be ripped from their families and I’ve met many undocumented immigrants who were the sweetest kindest people and I pray they are okay. But at the same time there is literal centuries of evidence that this country only uses non Anglo Saxons for indentured work but no one listens to Black people until it’s time to feel. Oh well
Also everything I said about Latinos can be said about south Asians and what they do to their darkest population, literally call them untouchables and put them at the lowest caste. All of these countries are anti Black and therefore my opps kek lol. But sadly I was born with empathy and I realistically assume the best of people when history should have me assuming the absolute worst smh
No. 479844
>>479820Me too
nonnie. Keeping myself healthy long enough to see the robot bfs
No. 479904
just gonna put my opinions here since there’s no new celebricow thread at the moment and i’m only gonna talk about the black nominees/winners;
>chris brown won r&b grammy
expected, his only real competition was usher whose recent album was fucking ass! in fact, let me go off a little bit - 2024 was supposed to be usher’s fucking year; he headlined the superbowl - which while not a complete mess like the weeknd’s, was not all the way put together and his guest performers were not good - proceeded to release his trash ass album afterwords, which everyone agrees is ass and then do a world tour off of it and nostalgia, tickets sell good, but then usher gets caught on one of the very first dates for using an offbeat doppelgänger with a spanish accent singing ¡yeah! this isn’t including multiple reviews saying the shows were cringe due to a certain part in the show i shall not mention, but iykyk. i will end this review by saying usher is 45 fucking years old, he needs to put his goddamn shirt on
>beyonce won album of the year, apparently
undeserved, her album only charted for 3 months, even her stans aren’t crazy about it, her huzzband is going to jail!!! in fact, that’s probably why they gave her album of the year
>doechii got a grammy
idgaf nobody can ever get me to like this cringe tryhard
>kendrick lamar won two grammys for ‘not like us’
kekekekekekekkekekek
final thoughts; i wish normani got an award for her album, not necessarily a grammy, just anything really, cuz my ass was playing her shit back to back to back, that shit was nothing but bangers!!! but it’s clear to see that her record label hates her entire existence, so i don’t expect much. im still mad tho
No. 480199
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>>480171You talk as if black women are powerful or something. We all know who's really in charge. The Democratic Party chose to trot out all these poster children and be ineffectual on its own. Republicans are doing what they literally said they would do, the results aren't looking pretty and dems are sitting on their hands. Blaming black women for this because of "their narcissism" is pointless because 99.9% of people in politics are narcs, you're mad at the clouds. America loves its racial tropes, what are you going to do?
OTOH, I agree with you in the sense that I don't believe in black women sticking their necks out, trying to be woke heroes and fronting all these causes. Insularity and secrecy are the best approach IMO. If you can't stop caring about politics, get enough to pull strings without getting your hands dirty. Increase funds, decrease protests, marches and large shows of…whatever. It isn't our fight to be had. All these people were told what was coming, and they still voted the way they did. Little D wants any excuse to declare martial law, his people are getting mad there haven't been any black riots to televise, and the other pee oh see are wondering why the blacks aren't doing "the black thing" (rioting, looting, making massive waves on social media - basically doing their dirty work and taking all the punches lol). I hope black women continue to stay uninvolved, and if violence breaks out, it needs to be by the same demographics who tried to play both sides and lost.
No. 480210
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>>480199Yes! Exactly my thoughts! I swear 2020 changed me and I vowed to never get involved in that street work again. Personally I want all the Dearborn Arabs to go march for their precious causes. Demographics like that demand us to go and die for them. As if!
No. 480293
>>480174celebrities use look-alike all the time, nona, micheal jackson was
notorious for using them! it’s just crazy when they actually get caught using them kek people were theorizing that usher’s was dominican
No. 480466
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>>480171you might have a point, women like this are gonna cause backlash
No. 480514
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>>480466The issue is that in pretending all these mean black women are using their true and honest freeze peach to speak their minds on the white man and simply go too far, we're still buying into the performance and mainstream white humiliation meme of "soft, victimized unassuming little white people DESTROYED by aggressive, hard black people with wokeness". Both the right and left subscribe to this idea and adore it. A lot of white superlibs enjoy kidding themselves that they're these smol harmless beans who have no choice but to "unlearn whiteness", sit down and shut up while the ethnics dominate them, even though in reality, they have all the money, connections and actual power. It's like they're ecstatic to fester racial agitation,
trigger other white people and let black people soak up the metaphorical bullets. Right-wingers are the same in that they also view themselves as smol beans who need to "reclaim their power" and love an unruly negro they can point to and say "This is the problem, we need to subjugate these people or they'll run you over and cut off your balls!" to distract the poorer, dumber white people from the fact that they're robbing them blind lmao.
What no one wants to acknowledge is that a black woman who goes on national TV and bashes white men, knowing damn well there are thousands of less privileged black women who'll have to reckon with unhinged, belligerent white male bosses the next morning, is just as bought and paid for as a Candace Owens figure. She doesn't care what happens to people in her own community, she's trying to get a check, and is playing the role pre-written by some generationally wealthy people with higher rates of lactose intolerance. You're not allowed to say a woman is an adult human female or talk about black femicide, but I'm to believe that all the sperging about white people is/was totally organic and not pushed to worsen race relations? It's all "rahrah we hate white men" up until the white man puts on a skirt, then he's literally God (she/her) and beyond reproach and we need to protest on his behalf right now, but I'm supposed to believe this is real? They also block out black women who don't say or think things like in that screenshot. I remember that black woman who said diversity of opinion is more important to her than racial diversity in her "progressive" workplace, only to get fired and replaced with a white woman kek.
Any black person who enters politics just to seethe loudly about white people without offering an effective mass segregation or exit strategy for black people is a paid shill and racial agitator (they'll never allow talk of segregation, but they will continue to stoke racial animosity, ask yourself why). Do not entertain them. No matter how much racist white people annoy you, don't take part in any public acts that could feasibly threaten your money or reputation, disavow. Do what directly and tangibly benefits you, never be the first to talk about race, never throw the first punch. Let them make themselves look bad before anything, and keep proof if you can.
And to be honest, black women already have their hands full with black men. The ones who need to be complaining about "mediocre white men" are their own white wives, daughters, sisters, etc lol. If those women refuse to do so, just accept that looking innocent is more important to them than changing anything, and focus on your own issues.
No. 480604
>>480585I hate diaspora wars, they're a distraction. White immigrants certainly aren't having baby race wars with white locals. I support AA people being proud of who they are and representing their culture, but I don't support hatred, and that's the same way I feel about all the other black people in the diaspora.
I notice a lot of FBA types throw the colorist and racist insults that racist white people launch at them onto Africans. I've even seen them harass dark-skinned AA women and tell them they "must be a tether". It's vile, delusional and sad to see. I can't even properly feel "offended" like they intend, it just feels like having a relative go schizo and start screeching at you out of their own trauma. I guess that behavior
is just one more trauma response, all the communities have at least one.
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Nonnies, a reminder to watch out for toxic ingredients in everyday products (beauty products, food or even toys) you use and buy.
I know you’re not gonna check every product, but at least do it with products you usually purchase.
No. 480724
>>480585I could not give less of a fuck what Africans are doing and I don't think other AA's care too. Having pride for their native country is a good thing who gives a fuck.
>>475975Look it's the retarded moid obsessed with black people point and laugh
No. 480746
>>480585I’m African and not a burger. I don’t really care. We have different experiences from African Americans and it’s okay, take for example black history month, it has a lot of importance in America.
I hate it when they try to somehow paints as inferiors though, we’re all black at the end of the day.
No. 480965
>>480514Jasmine has done quite a bit for her district (which is largely black) you genuinely have no idea what you're talking about. She introduced local policy to help clean up the addicts in the area, and, help the hospitals obtain more social workers to better serve the community. There are staff members in trump's cabinet saying we shouldn't be allowed jobs solely based off skin color but jasmine pushing back is your breaking point? We've been targeted by white people for years but a black woman pointing out the obvious is self serving and going to get us all killed.
Lmao.
No. 481473
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>>481267most of my family moved from Canada to America but are seriously talking about moving back. I was actually planning on doing a PhD in America but I don't what's gonna happen in the next few years. I'm glad in retrospect I never joined any DEI stuff, but that doesn't erase the target on my back
Kinda wish the media wasn't so loud about the 92% stuff I don't know where the future is going to go
No. 481518
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america's punching bag everyone
why is it so hard for some women to read the room
No. 481520
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I can't help bu feel like this is planned
No. 481527
>>481520Black women need to disavow this behavior loudly and publicly. Don't let them jacket you, no more attack dog bullshit. We can't let democrats use us as human shields again, especially since every other demographic are the ones who disappointed this election.
Don't do
>>481518 either because it's obviously the same retarded trap ("be our mulessss be our mulessss reeee" it never fucking ends with these freaks).
No. 481552
>>481542less than 6% of the population is the backbone? No wonder Dems lost.
>>481527>>481532Honestly I think it might be over for us. We have no allies and we're always expected to be human shields. BM are killing us at higher rates than ever and there are no guard rails. The trump loyalists are in charge and are going after anyone who isn't an ass-kissing loyalist and we're gonna see some nasty results. Take care of yourselves ladies
No. 481582
>>481552I don't think it's over for us, but there's one thing we need to accept: Black women cannot "save America", and our preservation lies in the care we put into our own community, not in what we can do for people who routinely dehumanize us. Even if we don't want to accept that it's not our job (it truly isn't, and it's an insult to expect us to do everyone's work), just look at our femicide rates, look at how we die in childbirth, look at doctors still assuming we feel no pain. Look at the fucking obesity rates in the US and see which demographic gets the worst of it. We don't need speakers "clapping back" at hateful whites like it's fucking 2017. Those people won't change, and it just lets morons feel justified to punch down on us even further. We need insularity, especially as all these systems start to fall apart.
It is anti-black to be broke and have out of wedlock children with
abusive men. It is anti-black to rely purely on a healthcare system full of doctors and nurses who don't think of you as a person, and it is anti-black to promote drugs and obesity.
No. 481583
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>>481542Tbh that's their problem. I don't buy that white people are so unpopular with each other. It's more like they prefer to see minorities behaving badly than their own kind, and a lot of white liberals like being able to play demure and soft so they can take advantage of any given paradigm for their own gain. No reason to give them that option anymore, though. Unless they want the entire country to fall apart for themselves too, Brad and Brunhilde better get out on the frontlines to make being a liberal white man cool again and being a "white feminist" a non-insult again instead of sending black people to get shot in protests and hop on their news outlets to say "umm whypipo bad" for the 38984938493438943th time to "prove" how "tolerant" they are. They need to take some real action.
Democrats want to be able to blame the scawy black women boolying the white man for this shift, distract retards from their lack of decisive action, and create more and more racial disharmony specifically for us as black women because it works for their purposes. We have the clear choice on how to respond and what to do, and I think you'd have to be an idiot to play along with their games anymore. They don't have our best interests at heart, we
cannot clean their messes (especially at this magnitude), and black presence at protests is just considered a "go-ahead" sign for state violence. Non-black protesters also don't/won't protect black protesters in those cases, and that's because they believe in Mandingo stereotypes about us being superhumans who don't feel pain (and they also just enjoy the idea of being part of a violent protest without getting most of the violence, kek).
A lot of black women need to drop the martyr/hero complex, prioritize our own kind's well-being (we need it) and accept that the country will never find its moral backbone until leftist white people decide
on their own to act for change instead of participating in stupid racial games and using us a proxy for all the things they're scared to do and say to their own brethren. Even the other minorities are too busy trying to ingratiate themselves to racist white people who hate them to mobilize on any kind of "
POC solidarity". On the latter note, it's still so funny how so many black people tried to champion that for years, only to get spit in their faces because these others see black political lobbying as a battering ram for their own gain, and black people themselves as non-humans. The whole thing is retarded, and I'm not planning to use 2025 to help backstabbing retards. I'm going to chill, make money and protect myself.
No. 481662
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lowkey hate how much black people, especially women, showcase their self-hate online. i'm going to bring up the topic of hair because i've been consuming a lot of "natural hair" content. anytime i see things like, "i cannot 4c this in my future" or "cries in 4c" or another video crying about how much they hate their hair it makes me roll my eyes a little. i feel bad because of course it isn't their fault for feeling that way, but why do are we as a whole ALWAYS putting our hatred on display? not even posting in a predominately black space where we can understand and try to help each other, but out in the open..? also, what do these people expect to come out of comments like these? i feel like its a common belief among non-black ppl that we hate our appearance, especially our hair and those comments just further push these narratives. and if you try to explain it like that, you're told "its not my fault i hate my hair, stop blaming the victim" or simply "its just a joke." maybe i'm just too serious, but i don't find racist self deprecating humor funny. the picrel is an example, obviously its meant to be a joke but i don't think its lands to call yourself a negro in a white woman's comment section haha
No. 483134
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Am I the only one disgusted by the comparison in reactions between peoples reactions to Beyoncés half time show on Christmas and Kendrick’s? Idk if you ladies were all on tik tok during sucklegate. But basically after Beyoncé performed on Christmas some biracial leftist lady on tik tok said that Beyonce was promoting pro American Propaganda and that basically she was promoting fascist America by having American flags worn. Mind you if you watch her performance she is stepping on the American flag and in the lyrics of her songs she is calling out America’s fascism. Meanwhile Kendrick just had the bloods and crips come together to make an American flag, had Samuel L Jackson dressed up as Uncle Sam etc etc and no one cares. In fact these same leftists that were calling Beyoncé a terrible human and to boycott her are singing Kendrick Lamar’s praises. This is exactly why I don’t trust leftist spaces. So many of them are anti black woman. You ladies should’ve been there for sucklegate. A southern black woman had to call out the biracial by saying “you don’t know shit about southern black culture because you suckled on the tit of your oppressor” when I tell you everyone came in defense of that biracial lady , black women and black men alike all put on their capes to defend a biracial woman and tear down 2 black women. It’s so scary how Black women are expected to be saviors of the planet no matter what career we take on. Also crazy how Kendrick was in the room with Trump but spent his entire performance shitting on Drake and glorifying gang culture. Beyonce glorified southern black history and got called anti black for it by her own community. This is exactly why I root for Beyoncé because Black women get shitted on for EVERYTHING even when we do everything perfect
No. 483140
>>483134It makes sense that pickmeishas and fake deep ninjas would coddle Kendrick, but find a million reasons why any popular black woman is
problematic. It's not even about whatever Beyonce did, you're just hearing pickme mating calls masquerading as "woke discourse". Don't even bother with those people.
>It’s so scary how Black women are expected to be saviors of the planet no matter what career we take on.Sorry to say this, but a lot of black women do it to themselves too. There's no point in trying to be these people's superhero, it isn't reciprocated and you don't owe them shit.
No. 483142
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>>481662I’ve been natural since 2013 and they’ve been saying “I dont 4c this” under biracial and white girls videos since back THEN. It’s why I stopped watching 4c content and stuck with 4a/4B cuz they dont cry and just get to the tutorial. The only negative thing about 4c hair is shrinkage but just stretch your hair. People say it’s time consuming but so is installing a wig, weave, braids. It’s ugly how they can say it takes up too much work but they spend more hours laying down a wig of hair that looks nothing like theirs. Embarrassing bitches.
They need to be fucking shamed but instead other low self esteem losers come to their defense. Little black girls can’t even look up hair tutorials of their hair type without being bombarded with GROWN women calling their hair ugly and that straight stringy boring and greasy hair is better. No one will ever convince me that their hair type is better than mine. I don’t even like defined curls as quiet as it’s kept. Get some self worth in 2025 or shave your head bald or get a perm cuz my 4c hair can do everything I want it to do. Maybe you low self worth losers need to stop trying to look white and biracial that’s why your hair is not growing.
Why would hair grow for someone that hates on it and calls it ugly and worthless? They say more positive things about a synthetic wig than their own natural hair. Our hair is literally a plant and you can’t talk shit about a plant even if you water it it will not grow as big and beautiful if you don’t also sing its praises. That’s why y’all are all bald now, you rip through your hair don’t wash weekly, don’t moisturize and then have the audacity to get mad at it when you should be getting mad at yourself for neglecting a part of your body. Nasty
No. 483271
>>483134Kendrick looovves Dr Dre (woman better), stood up for Iggy Azelia (racist), got mad when they wanted to take down R Kelly's music from Spotify.
He only had a issue with Drake being a creep, when he fucked him over. I despise Kendrick and his "fans". On LSA some of them sound like they are doing the "rick and morty copypasta". Acting like we all are too dumb to understand Kendrick Lamar.
It was boring as fuck & as per usual the same black women who will dissect Beyonce or even SZA are kissing Kendrick's ass.
Another thing too, everything that a black woman does in entertainment that references our struggles is "trauma porn". Meanwhile, black moids do it and it's some high level shit and he's doing us some big favor.
No. 483319
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>>483134You unemployed bitches sit on here refreshing social media for talking points nobody is saying in real life and get mad cherry picking the thought pieces from accounts with 30 followers. If you're so bothered get off the internet bitch and shut up!
No. 483358
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>>483273>thats how we got fucking Kanye.This brings me back to something I want to say. I despise how the black community malded at Doja Cat (I know she's biracial) over being in a tinychat and saying the n-word and called her a Nazi, etc, but they're still venerating Kanye. It's just so blatant how moids in the community can do whatever they want, but if you, as a woman, are not kissing black moid asses, if you dare to "have a preference" like some black men do and openly boast about while disparaging black women (did she even say she dislikes black men?), or even if you do side with black men (like Beyonce, Megan Thee Stallion or SZA do), there's always a pack of idiots waiting for any excuse to cancel you.
In what world is this and all the other shit Kanye has done and said up til now more forgivable than whatever Doja did to
trigger black men? I saw people comparing her to the black teenage moid shooter who believed in white supremacy, but not a single one wanted to acknowledge that he was far more similar to Kanye. That little "Dindu Nuffin" song is absolutely nothing compared to Kanye's trajectory, but while she had to apologize and explain that she was trying to reclaim that term after having it used on her (I feel like the group of people who did the same with the n-word should've understood that intuitively, especially since there were no anti-black lines in the song itself, but I digress), Kanye never apologized for shit. Why are men handled with kid gloves, and why is their "art" allowed to be shocking/
problematic and even offensive, but women have to be perfectly squeaky clean (except when it comes to the whole "sexual liberation" meme), unproblematic and never, ever ""snitch"" on a moid, even if he abused her?
No. 483438
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>>483319>>483319The projection kek. I wrote this on my way to my 6 figure job in an enviable city try again. Also the superbowl was yesterday and the think pieces start the second major American events end. Beyoncés sucklegate happened during CHRISTMAS aka winter break. Maybe you don’t get those so you wouldn’t know about paid time off. And it wasn’t people with 30 views maybe research or stfu. it was every prominent black tik toker making an opinion piece on Beyoncé and calling her “not really black ” and saying Black women shouldnt support her because she’s unrelatable because she grew up middle class and that makes her a fascist. As if there aren’t many black people that were raised middle and upper middle class in Texas and never knew struggle. This was bigger than Beyoncé it’s about how Black women are put to the highest standard possible and still criticized for meeting expectations while Black men can support abusers and be
abusive and are untouchable gods treated with respect still but you’re too dumb to realize the bigger picture. Sorry
No. 483450
>>483358Bro I was so confused when the Dindu nuffin song was Found out and everyone was mad at her. I thought we all knew she was reclaiming it. Personally I never stopped listening to Doja I like her new album she is extremely talented, can dance and can sing all at once. Her Black dad is literally a stereotype for knocking her momma up and leaving. I could not imagine being raised by a white single mother who was abandoned by a Black man who went on to be a famous artist in his home country while never acknowledging their existence. I just know Doja was surrounded by nothing but anti blackness and bitterness so I hold space for her awkward white validation.especially since she looks just like her daddy and I know it probably pissed her momma OFF. And you can tell she was starting to get over her white validation when she was rocking her natural hair and with her most recent album but of course everyone clowned her, no one came to her defense and they didn’t listen to the album. It’s crazy because Doechii and her have similar flows. So sad. But with Doha’s upbringing it makes so much sense why she would be in those weird racial chat rooms showing feet. She was raised around nothing but white people and just wanted to fit in.
Meanwhile Kanye west was raised by a highly intelligent Black woman who taught him so much about Black history, had him going to school in China to get cultured in the 80s! Her dad was a civil rights leader who even participated in a sit in. Just for him to shit on her and her dad’s entire legacy and everything they worked so hard for. I just couldn’t imagine. Kanye hates women and it starts with his mother. He hates his mother for dying. That’s what all of this is imo
No. 483535
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>>483531Idc about the superbowl, but she looks so pretty here
No. 483579
>>483529Not even just black men any man all you have to do is have a high pitched voice and men of all races do your bidding. It also helps if you are pretty and skinny but still have a big butt then the world is your oyster no matter what color you are. Men and women will want you kek. Idk why you ladies don’t know this. A lot of you are way too terminally online and or have way too many nonblack female friends. Also it’s 2025 why are you guys still competing with other races of women for male validation when we all get treated like shit and have high femicide rates no matter what race we fall under!? WAKE IT UP. Every thread has to bring this up it’s annoying and such a blanketed false statement. My mom had 4 kids with a huge rock on her hand and men of all
races STILL begged her to get a divorce and marry them kek while her 4 big headed kids were right there. Men of all races would still openly flirt because she was fit beautiful and confident. Which leads me to my question….are you guys just not surrounded by attractive confident Black women? Because I’ve never met a Black woman who was pressed for a man. In fact a lot of them got men obsessed with them. Hell I’d even go as far as to say the ones who got wifed up the quickest were always overweight but still beautiful imo. But that’s from my personal experience. I just don’t get posts like
>>483467 because it paints such a broad brush and assumes every black girl is downtrodden and down on her luck with the male species and not to mention vents like these treat men like they are a prize we should need in our lives and we are missing out if we don’t partake in it. Meanwhile go to the relationship advice thread and it’s all of these “preferences” still not getting picked and absolutely dogged out in similar ways. No thanks
No. 484864
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>>484655This is how I know the the thread attracts non-black interlopers, the lack of nuance. The average, modern day black person doesn't care about Jewish people. Some don't even know they exist. Their historical dislike of the community stems from its mistreatment toward black people. James Baldwin has discussed this. It's also just a sad fact of American history that Jewish people did participate in slavery, and today, they enjoy the fruits of white presentation and statistically disproportionate wealth compared to other groups. That's life, whether anyone hates them for it, likes them, or wants to argue about how many participated. Nowadays, since there's less of a distinctively Jewish presence in majority-black areas, Jewish people are not a hot topic. A few black people do enter specific fields and integrate with certain groups, have racist experiences and start naming problems.
Talk to a random, everyday black person in 2025, and Jewish people are a nonentity. If you show them a Jewish person, they may say "Oh, it's a white person", "Oh, it's an Arab" or "Oh, it's an Ethiopian/African" respectively, while a white person may make a comment on a Jewish person's nose or say that Ethiopian Jews aren't Jews because they are black. You might be able to bring up the Palestine topic, but even that is a movement spearheaded and mostly populated by white and Arab people, who routinely complain about black non-participation in their fight, kek.
In attempting to avoid accountability for all the occasions their parents and grandparents complained about negroes, "schwartzes", etc and some of their behaviors even today, some members of the Jewish-American community make jabs on Twitter about how black people are licherally anti-semitic nazis, with their "proof" being things like Cardi B (a non-black woman cosplaying) mentioning her Jewish lawyer in a positive light.
Kanye is completely different from any of the black people mentioned, because his dislike of Jewish people stems from Nazism and white worship. Malcolm X never walked around donning a swastika, and that's because he understood Hitler as his enemy, and the German/WASP conflict with Jews as a separate battle from his own people's.
tl;dr: Those of us who even recognize Jewish existence in daily life tend to dislike them because they're pretty racist. Even the pro-Palestine ones started disliking them because they perceive them as white colonizers of innocent Arab people, not because Hitler good. Kanye doesn't like Jewish people because
he is deeply racist, and thinks Hitler good. Big difference. Moreover, Kanye hates other black people, especially black women, and believes slavery to be a choice, kek. He is the furthest thing from a black militant. I dislike black militant groups, and even I can see the two aren't the same. Respectfully, we don't think about you the way you think about us.
No. 484935
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Need some opinions. Is it gross to wash your hair in braids? I do my own knotless braids and last time I did my hair, I braided my natural hair and then braided the natural braid into the weave. Now that it's time to do them over, I just want to keep my natural hair in braids so that I can wash it and won't have to spend time pre-parting it next time I do my hair. Do you guys think my hair would get thoroughly clean this way? I know it seems dramatic, but doing this whole process every 2 weeks is killing me.
No. 486087
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What do you think nonnas? I’ve definitely experienced this kek.
No. 486161
>>486087>omg, based black woman pitting women of all races against each other over moid validationDamn, she's so based and real for this!
eyerollOnly braindead mouth breathers watch the Super Bowl halftime show anyway so that isn't saying much.
No. 486382
>>486381It’s not men getting a boner. I could care less about white men or any men in general. It’s the reaction of women who aren’t black and the lack of solidarity they have with us.
We have been shown time and time again that white women , who side with their counterpart when it benefits them, and even Asian women don’t care about us. It’s not just being lusted over , it’s workplace, it’s academics too.
You retards have peanuts in your head and aren’t ready for this kind of conversation I see.
No. 486383
>>483467Is this really all you guys talk about? Moids, dating, and desirability politics? Don’t you ever get tired of wallowing in self hate and acting like a doomer about everything? I’m a skinny “cute mid” maybe a 6 at best and I don’t experience any of this. I’m not even interested in men right now, yet I still meet plenty who treat me kindly and show genuine interest in me. I also have a close group of friends from all races who respect and care for me. My black girl friends don’t have these issues either nor do any of the women I follow online… why? Because I focus on meeting people who treat me well and share my interests.
So many chronically online black women would benefit from getting off the internet, joining clubs, picking up hobbies, going to therapy, and surrounding themselves with aspirational Black women and others who actually like them. Stop whining online every other minute about how being a Black woman is supposedly a cursed existence just because you and your circle are miserable. Any moid who acts like a racist dick is also going to be a dick towards his own woman, so why do you even care? It’s one thing to acknowledge how society treats Black women; it’s another to post these insecure, teen like rants day after day. And when confronted, claim you’re just “sharing your experience” or “letting off steam.” That’s not it. You’re unhappy and trying to drag everyone else down with you by pinning it on being an ingrained part of the black experience. I’m so tired of seeing it everywhere.
No. 486537
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>>486087I've seen and experienced this. It's weird. I hate pickmes, and I hate female desirability competitions. Stupid women lose their minds and stab eachother in the back for men who look (and act) like all manner of unclean beings. Just look at the fight between Grimes and Azealia Banks over Elon Musk.
Being gaslit about this by embarrassed non-black women (even ones who call themselves feminists) who not only believe in, but
depend on the narrative of black female jealousy/undesirability to boost their low self-worth is just one part of what made me detach from most feminist communities. Can't hold solidarity with women who'll throw me under the bus.
I know I don't need to say it, but anyone who holds spite for conventionally pretty black women needs to be avoided. Don't let them pull the wool over your eyes by going on about how beauty is evil and inherently white supremacist reeee femininity bad you're supposed to be fat and masc etc etc. It took me the longest time to accept it, but they don't believe any of that shit themselves, it's just wokespeak for the same bullshit female competition. Too many straight/male-attracted women are obsessed with validation from dick, and they want other women unhealthy, miserable and constantly bashed so they can attain it more easily. There are also black women who aren't saying it to compete, but have a martyr-like fixation on being a doormat for men and women of every other group, and they also need to be cut off. About the only time it's "sincere" is when it's coming from a butch lesbian (and if she's butch4butch, understand that it's 99% just another kind of psyop to make you more fuckable to her tastes anyway lol).
No. 486549
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>>486537Im inclined to agree, but I feel like “divested” women also fall into the femininity spiral. The obsession with being the most feminine comes from a reactionary position. You respond to trolls, who mock you for your lack of femininity and then it’s a barrage of no we really are the prettiest. Sadly everyone is too much of a mouth breather to ascend beyond these politics. And evil predatory butch lesbians are so fucking rare, you mention them just to be homophobic. You can always step over them. The average black woman is more likely to be murdered by a gangbanging retard.
No. 486561
>>486549>The obsession with being the most feminine comes from a reactionary position. You respond to trolls, who mock you for your lack of femininity and then it’s a barrage of no we really are the prettiest. Sadly everyone is too much of a mouth breather to ascend beyond these politics.This is a common problem, too. It's a waste of time trying to prove things to people who are opposed to us at the root. We're best off avoiding those groups/individuals on both sides.
Also, I didn't mention butch lesbians to be homophobic or frame them as predators. I actually don't think it's inherently wrong or evil for women to want to see more people they find attractive, kek. It's certainly better and shows more concern than how men constantly try to bully and neg women to fit their own tastes. I just see the gain for them, besides all the female liberation stuff.
No. 486799
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>three months back accidently curl my thick detangling comb inwards in on itself twice with a thick chunk of the hair at the front of my head with it.
>it gets fucking stuck in my thick curls
>have to cut a huge chunk out to free my comb
>hair shrinks a lot when dry
>hair now is super uneven with a small pouf shaped chunk in the front while everything else is relatively long
>femur_breaker_scream.wav
>can now longer do many of the natural styles I'm used to because it required general evenness
>when I have bed-head I have a 1:1 recreation of Vegeta's hairstyle and when I moisturize and oil my hair it resembles a poodle's like pic related
>hair will continue to grow at an uneven rate for the foreseeable future and will not be naturally symmetrical in length
>have mini sperg-outs every time I look at my hair because of how uneven it is
>want to cut it so badly to even everything out but wary of how I'd even look with my hair short but I'm kinda tempted to test out a semi-short pixie afro
>after asking my mother for advice, mother say's I'd "hate it so much"
>live under my mother's roof and love her too much to disagree
>now getting my hair braided next week so I don't go Postal
Nonnies, nonnies, nonnies. Don't be a retard like me. Never curl your comb backwards and down twice.
No. 486801
>>486087A friend of mine, Chinese-American, always has to hit me with a solid insult any time I get a compliment. I don't know if it's just her or something but I always just presumed it was because I have bad luck or am genuinely too ugly to deserve compliments. Thought she was doing me a favor by dishing out the harsh truth.
I know for a fact it isn't jealousy though. What's there to be jealous of when it comes to me? (personally) Maybe just outright distaste towards the idea of me as a cohabitator of this planet idk kek
No. 486804
>>486383I think my own self esteem is entirely too low to even try any of your suggestions. I mostly lurk this thread every once in a blue moon, but maybe a lot of users here have low self esteem too. I'm probably a wonderful 2 if we really are ranking ourselves, but I feel more comfortable portraying myself as some fictional creation online than having someone perceive me face to face.
It's easier to escape from reality than to face it for some, and I think that's okay. (moid desirability is a bit strange though)
No. 488093
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Something rubs me up the wrong way about these Jewish moids from the diamond district selling chains and overpriced worthless rocks to insecure black people who are desperate to look rich and make up for their inferiority complex. Malcolm was right, nothing has changed since the old days.
No. 488094
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Chains in general have always made me cringe. They look like shackles to me. Almost like admitting they're still owned, just by a different master. Humiliation ritual imo.
No. 488104
>>488094>Almost like admitting they're still owned, just by a different master. Humiliation ritual imoNo, definitely not. That could
maybe apply to chokers but chokers aren't part of hip hop culture (they are part of metal culture, though)
It's actually the opposite, big chains are a way of signifying dominance
btw, I agree that they look stupid
No. 488459
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The fact that black men kill black women more than anyone is telling.
Black men love crying when a cop kills a lifetime criminal who was being aggressive but ignore their own skeletons.
Men are the enemy. Never forget that.
No. 488467
>>488461All scrotes treat women poorly.
No need to bring race into this.
No. 488478
>>488464What i meant is that black women are killed by black men more than they are killed by any other group
>>488472Lmao what? take your meds.
I wanted to make a point about how scrotes are our worst enemy yet want women to believe that achukually its other races/groups that are evil, and wanted to point out how even scrotes who have dealt with discrimination themselves have no problem treating women like subhumans.
No. 488511
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This story always makes me sad. I watched a doc about it a few years back and it still haunts me. Why does it feel like WOC especially black women are often made into invisible background characters.
No. 488614
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I'm black/white biracial and besides my white father and dead white grandparents I never knew the white side of my family. Sometimes I get shocked at how light I am in photos because I picture myself looking more like my mom and her sisters since I spend so much time around them. I love being part black, I love my black family, and I love my black friends. I am so happy I grew up with a black mother
No. 489458
>>488751They're very anti-black, save for a few enlightened people. Black Arabs are treated like hell in MENA countries, and the reasons behind that are a mixture of their own history enslaving black people, and the trafficking of African people (often women and children) they engage in today for slavery/"maid work"/labor/prostitution. It's a common insult in Arab countries to tell someone they look like the maid's child if their skin is dark.
Arab moids argue with eachother about who looks more white (knowing damn well they're all brown and hairy), and the women are encouraged to break their noses, shave/wax their whole bodies, bleach their skin, bleach their hair, and get more surgical operations to look like their moid's idealized vision of a white woman. I think a lot of Americans are unaware of these things because the US narrative has been about "
POC solidarity", but it's becoming more and more difficult to ignore.
No. 489515
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Thinking about the crime thing, let's just look at some contemporary behaviors within the culture. I've seen a black woman say on Twitter that she wouldn't date a man with a criminal record. This caused a lot of anger from black men, who made her post go viral, called her "racist" and "classist" (she never said she'd exclude all black men, that they had to be megamillionaires or she wouldn't look in their direction, or that she would date non-black criminals), and generally seethed at her. Some male-identified women were also part of the mass dogpiling.
Has a black man ever said he personally wouldn't date a woman with a criminal record, and gotten large-scale backlash from several black women accusing him of racism? I've never seen such a thing. This is also why nigcels, when trying to bait black women, often talk about wigs, desirability politics and skintone, not criminal histories. Only one group of people seem to associate themselves so deeply with crime that several of its members will rush to call you racist, classist and every other -ist in the book if you state that you don't want to date criminals (a red flag that's considered normal and understandable among all other groups, btw). That simply doesn't bode well to me.
No. 490206
>>489515>This caused a lot of anger from black men, who made her post go viral, called her "racist" and "classist" (she never said she'd exclude all black men, that they had to be megamillionaires or she wouldn't look in their direction, or that she would date non-black criminals), and generally seethed at her.>"it's racist to not date criminals because muh poor black scrotes can't stop committing crimes"They're defending being a criminal like it's a part of African-American culture itself. Can black scrotes stop unintentionally roasting the ever loving fuck out of themselves for once in their lives? This is why I don't recall a single point in my life where I was upset at nonblack women avoiding black males like the plague. Black moids are basically like Indian moids. Scrotes by race will always be generally shit, but it's like black and indian moids are fighting to break the tie for being the
worst.
No. 490520
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Has anyone seen the drama on gaming twitter? There was a black women in gaming event and it ended up blowing up cause they kicked off a white passing biracial woman. I honestly don't care about mixed people getting involved in black community events. But it's so funny seeing scrotes defend this woman when they spent a whole year arguing that drake and jcole being biracial made them grifters in the hip hop community when compared to kendrick. Picrel is a tweet and the woman
No. 490581
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>>490520It's very simple with them.
>woman who I might have an easier time getting to fuck = good>other man (who might fuck women that I want to fuck) = bad>woman who may even slightly impede my chances of fucking other women (even if it's not their point or intent) = jealous This is also how they end up saying women who try to protect younger girls from moid bullshit are "jealous, bitter hags". Black men think a mixed race woman who calls herself black is inherently sexually accessible to them (and this is why they got angry at Doja Cat for dating white men - it's "unfair", it "wasn't the deal"), while mixed race men are just more competition on their mission to fuck. The "jealousy" argument also lets them flatter themselves with the idea that random women are fiending for their attention.
The actual DNA question is irrelevant to them because Glocktavius and co aren't really that smart, and they're trying to impregnate all kinds of women anyway. I saw black men arguing that Kamala Harris isn't black
not because of her actual ancestry, but for the fact that her husband is white. To them, race is transferred through dick-taking (and can also potentially be confiscated if you make the men involved upset lol). Once you understand that, a lot of other things fall into line.
No. 490617
>>490520This is why I think black people need to start being honest about genetics by telling biracial and mixed people that they're not the same as actual black people. Black people are the most lenient when it comes to their mixed race counterparts, vastly more than every other race. I think black people generally babying mixed race people is a better alternative than how whites and even the Japanese love to bully their mixed race counterparts a lot more often, but instances like this can be where black people do too much with leniency. If a white person that's just 20% black can identify their way into black spaces, what is the actual definition of a black person? If anyone can be black, it's almost like everyone can be. And if everyone is black, no one really is. Then again, it's obvious that black scrotes aren't even confused on what being black even means in THIS context. I feel like in instances like this, black scrotes aren't necessarily
dumb. They're just being
manipulative about mixed race women by giving them "the black card" in hopes that said women will get close enough to fuck. "See? You're black because I said so even if the majority of your DNA is something else. You're still my black queen, see? See?! Can I get some coochie now please?!".
No. 490640
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>>490619Yeah, she's deliberately ignoring the mixed race women who disagree with her because the pattern is "go viral for the meanie black women bullying me just because i'm pretty and mixed race (even though i'm mostly white in ancestry and appearance)". Black women need to be ignoring these obvious plays. She was removed, and that was that.
Even better, do what some other groups do and just keep quiet about some things from the start. Black people tend to be too honest and open. You don't need to explain everything. "Sorry, lineup is full" would've sufficed, and she would've looked like a clown for bringing up race when it wasn't mentioned. I used to think the honesty was refreshing and could bring positive change, but the same thing happens year by year. People like to play dumb. If they're going to gaslight you, just gaslight them back.
No. 490752
>>490742No, just stupid and self-limiting, and you'll start malding and seething about the unfairness of it all if they decide to date white girls. If you're not attacking black men or anything, there's also no reason for them to be demoralized.
It's weird to be concerned about what race of people one's siblings are dating, anyway. They should be worried about whether you're happy and safe, and vice-versa.
No. 490759
>>490752And I'm not trying to necessarily rude when I say this, but that anon's worry about "demoralizing brothers" over dating a nonblack summarizes how black women let too much politics get them stuck being unhappy. It's very good that more black women and girls are becoming politically aware of America and even other countries, but it's become apparent that lots of them seem to overthink themselves into stressing over what's basically nothing. Like interracial dating. Why treat dating a white man like it's gucking Romeo and Juliet? It's 2025, who the fuck cares if you want to date outside your race? Who the hell
should care?
No. 490826
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>>490640she's not even mixed with Black, her dad's an indian carribbean and she failed grifting. I'm glad no one humored her because she really tried to larp as half/black biracial with bone straight hair when she's just wasian
No. 491470
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Am I a self hater for finding black moids unattractive? I find black women absolutely beautiful, but on the contrary I think black moids are ugly. Maybe so much bishounen and kpop consumption has led me to this. I only find kpop moids attractive and occasionally some white prettyboys. I just think that black women's beauty far outweighs that of black scroates. It's not about colorism btw.
No. 491471
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>>491470Like seriously, is there any black scrote that can surpass the beauty of this girl?
No. 491475
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>>491471They’re try to say this dude is her looksmatch or to take off the wig kek
No. 491476
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>>491472I've always thought that black man and black woman couples look like orcs and elves together.
No. 491479
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>>491475They're considered looksmatched
No. 491483
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>>491480She's gorgeous while he looks like an orc.
No. 491496
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>>491483She looks like a brazilian tranny, also that photo is heavily edited. Here’s the real her:
No. 491497
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>>491473Even on the "cute black guys" instagram pages the men are ugly as fuck. Black scroates are just plain ugly, black women can be absolutely stunning while black moids look like orcs.
No. 491499
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>>491496It's a photo taken from a bad angle. She's beautiful at least compared to all her previous boyfriends.
No. 491510
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>>491497I’ve never seen a black woman with such a wide nose like that despite the wokies screeching about how black women should have “big noses” and “big lips” and if they don’t it eurocentric. They are just picrel and they’re living vicariously through black men which is sad, they think they’re supposed to be as ugly as black men lol
No. 491514
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>>491510A wide nose can look absolutely cute on women while on men it looks like shit.
No. 491519
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>>491471Her looksmatch should be something like this
No. 491539
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>>491534It's the least she deserves.
No. 491830
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>>491475Black incel delusion is expecting all women to fall in line to their insane negging.
Also, thinking logically, if a woman is as ugly as that, and she wants to have kids, why would she go and marry a similarly ugly scrote? If other scrotes who clearly look better find her pretty, why wouldn't she go with them, both for the sake of her kids and her own enjoyment in life? All they're doing is pushing women away. Their whole tactic then becomes trying to convince black women that no men would ever find
>>491471 or picrel attractive in the first place, but it just isn't true. In trying to "humble" women, they incur their own losses and then start crying and screaming about women being materialistic, looks-obsessed, and might thrown in some nonsense about bedwrenches (even if there's no interracial relationship in sight lol).
No. 491836
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>>491470I told this thread that same opinion and you wanna know what I got? Screaming retards telling me that something must be wrong with my brain for "hating myself through black males". Do black women like that even realize just how much they're equating black women with black men when they call our attractiveness equal? Our anatomy EQUAL? Do black women like that realize that they're contributing the problem of black women being
masculinized when they directly draw a sense of equality between how black
men and black
women appear? "If you dont think black moids are that attractive, YOU HATE YOURSELF". Black men are not me. I'm a fucking woman, you dumb cunts.
I'll shit all over black scrotes whenever the fuck I want with no strings attached and if these moid-defenders get triggered again, they can lick my asshole. No. 492459
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>>491472african men are more likely to have gracile features than black american men
No. 492517
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>>492459Omg he looks like bishie
No. 492521
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>>492459Men from Horn African are the ones with the most potential to be prettyboys and bishie like, on the contrary, I have seen that they are stereotyped as ugly.
No. 492548
>>491470I mean women are more good looking than men. Still there are black men with delicate and handsome features so funnily enough I think it isn’t all black and white (sorry for the pun).
For every ugly black man I see I see the same number of ugly white men , Asian etc. it’s just men who are ugly.
No. 492549
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>>492548See picrel for example . I’m not necessarily capping for black men by the way, I only care about black women, I was just sharing my opinion on this.
No. 492726
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>>492548The only times I've ever found black men attractive are when they were kind of androgynous. It's so much easier to find black butches or tomboys that are better-looking. I think D'Angelo Wallace is cute, it's too bad he's probably going to troon out.
I've seen black men with dreads or otherwise long/thick hair looking kind of handsome, but other black men bully them into chopping it all off anyway lol. There should be a genocide on ugly moids and "thug" types, all these ugly shit rapper scrotes need to disappear.
No. 493807
>>493772the only difference between you and other
woc is that they're willing to bleach their skin to fit them. seriously, look up how prevalent it is everywhere outside of FBA communities. as for white women, white men only consider them hot up until age 25, which is why they're constantly crashing out about ageism while bw don't bring it up nearly as much.
No. 494147
>>486382>We have been shown time and time again that white women , who side with their counterpart when it benefits them, and even Asian women don’t care about This is true I'm glad someone is finally talking about this. And it's not just white and asian women it's other races as well. Such as arab women. None of them seem to care about black women or want to be around us. No solidarity, friendship, nothing. You can see white and asian women hanging out with eachother and bringing other races too but black women are always left out. I wish I could know why.
It's always girls support girls unless it's a black woman.
No. 494586
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I saw the trailer for picrel, and it reminded me of some of the things discussed in these threads. I straight-up don't watch a movie or show if it does the "designated black character is male #fordiversity" thing. There's little doubt in my mind that companies follow this template because black female consumers support black male characters and follow a "race before gender" mentality, but black male consumers don't do the same for black female characters. I've noticed a lot of the current media doing this also tends to follow corporate templates for other demographics (eg the Asian woman with the streak in her hair). I don't know if that's what's going on here.
No. 494732
>>494586what about something like the 2016 Ghostbusters where Leslie Jones was put into a very "black woman archetype" role?
Jones and Hemsworth ended up being the only decent things in that trainwreck of a film. Hollywood uses these archetypes because they work
No. 494752
>>494732I did see what they were doing, and I avoided that dumpster fire like the plague. Luckily, that entire movie was hated by most people. In general, Leslie Jones leaning so heavily into "that" stereotype for a career doesn't sit right with me, I'm not a fan.
>Hollywood uses these archetypes because they workTrue. They're also very old, dating back to slavery and shit tropes they'd even impose on little black girls to rob them of "innocence", and then to later justify demanding maternal/"womanly" labor from them in adulthood.
All of it disgusts me. I really wish we were just portrayed as normal women without all these fucked up stereotypes, but Hollywood is slop garbage, so that's probably asking too much.
No. 494786
>>494752If you are interested in seeing black women in more "conventional" roles, there are 3 films that come to mind: Boiler Room, 28 Days Later and The Bodyguard.
The Bodyguard is particularly interesting because it is the only western produced film I can think of where a black woman is playing the damsel in distress role. To make it even weirder, the black damsel's (Whitney Houston) savior is the whitest white boy possible in Kevin Costner.
Anyway, it's a really bad movie where the only redeeming feature is Houston's acting so I recommend that you skip it. Boiler Room is a great film however and Nia Long's performance is really stand out.
If you like Italian cinema at all, they make heavy use of black women in more normie type roles. I think Med men have a bit of a fetish for black women
No. 495219
>>495189It's not a cope. It's a fact that non-bw tend to prefer thinness. And this is kinda
victim blamey. We don't tell people who get fat-shamed to learn to be more assertive. I am assertive because I cut people off for crossing boundaries.
No. 495232
>>494919right but people inherently feel more attacked when you say something about their race than when you attack their gender.
>Black female characters in media are always used to symbolize or preach this and that. They almost never just…EXIST on their own. Be their own characterThat's what I was trying to say above, you have to dig but there are black women in normie roles, particularly in Italian/French cinema. You should definitely check out Boiler Room and 28 Days Later
No. 495307
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>>495133Someone has some variation of this rant every thread… Can we think of something more original
No. 495331
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i’m currently watching early victoria’s secret fashion shows right now, and i’m having some revelations come to me; everybody pretty much knows about tyra banks and naomi campbell’s beef that they had back in day, but i feel like people think that shit only really affected tyra because she was aggressively open about her feelings about it and naomi never truly commented on it, but looking at the later years naomi, it is soooo fucking obvious how affected by tyra she was. like, how did none of the black faggots that are obsessed with fashion not notice naomi mirroring tyra with those retarded ass fucking contacts that she wears all the time to this day?
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>>495331cont.
and it’s not like i completely fault naomi for, like, bullying tyra or whatever kek i know that the industry especially liked to pit the black girls against each other back then, which is funny to me with the whole “there can only be one” mentality shit happening, there were actually more than one black girl per fashion show usually and no asians kek like a typical 90s-00s fashion show would be riddled with white women, a handful of black women, and a few latinas who’re mostly also
just white but a some will be mixed white and black types. like, i do believe some fat cracker producer or designer or whatever went up to naomi during a show and was like “heyyyy, there’s a new, young black girl on the scene and she’s getting aaalll the magazine covers and fashion shows and she’s younger than you and she’s taller than you and her eyes are naturally green
and she’s lighter than you~ be careful or she’s gonna steal your career lol” and naomi took that shit to heart kek
No. 495390
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>>495332nona, naomi is a sex trafficker and has completely
destroyed her face, sometimes retiring is the better decision!
No. 496123
>>496036nope
>>496081karma got his ass, but people wouldn't have known about the case if black women didn't mock his death. it's better for us to keep quiet about coons and focus on ourselves
No. 496848
>>496036holy kek what a fucking faggot, was he indian or something? cuz, i swear to god, those are the only moids who’d actually do some retarded shit like that! legit, no other xy gets pissed scared of dark
women kek how is it that white scrotes, being the ones who created and mass spread the angry, masculine black woman trope, have never been afraid of a lone black woman walking past them, ever?
No. 497251
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>>496036No, I don't feel bad for people like that. Getting called a "motherfuckin' half breed" by some trashy white woman for helping her dumbass get back inside her apartment after she lost her keys taught me that not everyone needs empathy. Not even if they're "vulnerable". Why feel bad for such macaques monkeys if they can't even appreciate decent human aid? Like throwing pearls before swine.
No. 497666
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Today some girl said that I sound like I date white dudes, and I dont know how to feel. I will not lie, I have found some white men attractive, but I dont have any interest in dating white dudes. This isnt the first time someone said something like this to me, I have gotten similar stuff from family as well, anyone here relate?
No. 497760
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>>497729This. It's insecurity and bitterness. They even say this to women with their natural hair out. Let that sink in for a second. A black woman can't wear her hair the way it naturally grows out of her scalp because some demographic of […] think it somehow signals attraction to white men. It's a weak, cucked and porn-addicted male's way of saying you're attractive, and a similarly weak, male-identified woman's way of saying you make her insecure. "You look/sound like a race traitor" doesn't hit in the black community the way it might in other communities if you notice what they consider the apperance and mannerisms of a race "loyalist". It's literally a self-own, I don't know how this community does it to itself so many times lol.
No. 498159
>>498018NTA but tbh it's not even about "going after" anyone, that's a false dichotomy. Nearly every kind of black woman has had this accusation launched at her, and about the only things that I've seen in common with them are appearing quiet or demure, seeming wealthy or being pretty. Pickmeish black women tried to make it about "hard wigs" to help obfuscate things, but black men don't stay on code, so they just kept shooting at every and any women that seemed "less attainable" (or just unattainable) to them, kek. It's just another negging and manipulation tactic.
In general, I've noticed a certain kind of person doesn't keep black women "in the community" by treating them well, but by dragging down their self-esteem and invoking racial politics or colorism on them. In this case, the expectation is that the black woman who hears this will be like "omg no" and go hard in the paint to prove she's "for" black men only, maybe start being super-aggressive about supporting them, or even do something with her appearance to "ratchet" it up and potentially put off other men. I'll be honest, it probably works in real life in isolated cases, especially when the woman is shy or awkward. In the long run, though, it just backfires, especially on social media, where we can see who these men like saying it to.
Also, it's rightfully considered disgusting and pornbrained if a white man goes under a random white woman's photo and says "You look like you date black men" or "built for BBC", but when a black man does it to a black woman, you'll see his fellow black male porn addicts backing him up and an army of pickmeishas joining in like it's normal, kek. Sickness.
No. 498782
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Why are little black girls unprotected by the black community? I'm not even going to touch the migrant thing, but it's so strange to me that George Floyd was buried in a gold coffin and the entire world was made to know his name, but not Aiyana Jones or this little girl.
How did the black community end up babying adult men above everyone else, especially those with criminal pasts? I noticed people ignored the case of the 19(?) year old autistic black boy who was killed by the police while literally begging for his life, too, but we were all expected to fight for a bunch of grown men who committed crimes previously. All of this is so backward to me.
No. 498843
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>>498838>What should BLM protest hereThe "Cool Free Thinking Black Friend" Right and their handlers would say that they should protest for stricter migration laws. He's a Dogetard.
No. 498865
>>498843I'm not concerned with all that, it's just an undeniable fact that black girls go unprotected. Aiyana Jones was also shot by the police, but didn't make anywhere near the same impact.
It's not even like Floyd committed some petty crime in his teens and that was it. At 34, he held a gun to a pregnant black woman's stomach, but his life was still uplifted both in and out of the community over girls and women like Aiyana's and Breonna Taylor's (I haven't seen anyone even mention her in 2025, but with how things are now, maybe that's a blessing). Women and children are treated like collateral damage, it's fucked.
No. 499391
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Trannies and their dicksuckers make me more transphobic each time I stumble upon them. They can all die kek.
>visible hair
Honestly black skinned women tend to have less hair. I’m African and I have never shaved the hair on my arms or legs since it’s few, I only have hair on my armpits, which is small anyway and on my vulva, where it grows rather quickly .
Dangling the fact that racists don’t afford black women femininity is old and outdated, I don’t care if you think I look like a man because I don’t. How many of you nonnas have actually been called that anyway? I’ve never been called a man kek.
This is why I’m always on minding my business, I stand in solidarity with other black women, that’s it.
No. 499454
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>>499391I've never been compared to a man, even when encountering racists, but I stared seeing a bunch of weird and specifically trans internet racists, as well as pro-tranny liberal people, from rougly 2019 to now insist this is totally a real stereotype that's been around since forever. There is literally no historical basis to black women being seen as or equated to men - I've tried to find info on this, and it seems like they straight up made it up. We were dehumanized, uniquely hypersexualized and
victim-blamed/scorned for our female bodies and "availability" as a slave class, given less empathy, forced into motherly roles against our will, and white feminists literally chose to side with black men over us when it came to getting the vote. Being "seen as men" would actually have been a privilege. Under white supremacy, we aren't considered men, we're literally not even human, just female bodies marked for labor and exploitation. Our situation was so inhumanly fucked with the most egregious kinds of both racism and sexism. I don't know where this modern fixation on erasing sexism/the existence of misogynoir and saying we're "seen as men" under racism comes from. About the closest thing to it is back in the 60s "freedom fighter for race" days when black women deliberately avoided grouping on or discussing female interests and were pressured to avoid femininity and beauty (especially stereotypes of being a servile, motherly type) in service to black men and the cause for black liberation. Even then, black women faced the misogynistic, uniquely female humiliation of enforced subordination within the Black Panther party, and we had freaks like Elridge Cleaver bragging about how he raped black women as "practice for war" casually, while other men supported him and treated him as normal.
So, it seems like an ahistorical set-up memed by trannies and handmaidens, yeah. It's allowed to proliferate because black hyper-liberal women are typically very self-hating in nature (despite claiming otherwise), don't really read about black history, and just go with whatever the wokest-seeming white person or moid in the room claims, as long as they pretend to be educated and leftist. They basically act like shooters for these people, and IMO this attitude is some sort of relic of the 60s culture. Unquestioning obedience and attempted praxis for whatever seems politically "right" to them, coupled with extremely high tolerance for being degraded and humiliated the whole time (because many black men commonly degraded and continue to degrade them while schizophrenically claiming they're "pro-black", which you start to understand when you realize they're using "black" as a shorthand for "black male" specifically). A lot of them also subscribe very hard to the "least desired demographic" claim and allow it to inform their whole life, which I think primes them to believe anyone who claims anything negative about black women, even when it flies in the face of everything we've actually experienced.
As far as trannies go, a lot of them would rather stay men than be "ugly" women, because their idea of womanhood is literally about living out a fetish, and not just being sexually desirable, but decorated and uplifted (they don't really believe in misogyny as a horrific experience only women face, their POV is that the average man will always automatically have it worse), so I see where they devised this angle from (testeric, incelic roars of "You aren't even the specialest girls and considered the prettiest, you aren't protected or loved like all women totally are in my headcanon, you wuz literally slaves, so aren't you basically men like me anyway?! You should be supporting me!"). Unfortunately, since we're not actually ugly, male or inherently masculine, and because we still get the sexualization coupled with the dehumanization, we aren't spared the existence of freaks like pic related in the seedy underbelly of fetish communities, there are still moids writing weird black TF stories, tons of gay HSTS continue to copy ghetto black women's vernacular, mannerisms and styling, AGPs are still jerking their dicks to mid 2010s Nicki Minaj videos/photos on the whole "god I wish that were me" mantra, etc. They bank on you not being terminally online enough to watch them and see the patterns, just take them at their word, and never question anything (or else they'll 41%) but I've learned to do the opposite. If anything, MENA women get compared to men the most in real life (IME) because of their body hair and all the bizarre politics about noses, but I understand that they're too busy dealing with literal war for these weirdo white men and sympathizers to try and tug at their apron strings and weaponize beauty politics against them. Plus, MENA women don't have a history of getting political servitude leeched from them the way American black women do.
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Like how can I not kill myself when I see these women.. Non bw are praised for their feminity worldwide meanwhile bw have "ugly man faces".
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>>499506>>499512I'm going to be nice and assume this isn't a creepy man posting bait and slop. You sound very young, and even the image you posted is hyper-edited. Nothing to kill yourself over. Kpop and tiktok have been a disaster for the zoomie mind. Stop assuming people are attractive because of their race, stop placing importance on the opinions of weird neckbeards you wouldn't have dated anyway, never minimize the issues all kinds of women face. Plastic surgery is literally encouraged and given to young girls as "birthday gifts" in certain East Asian cultures because "natural" Asian features aren't considered pretty enough, and East Asian incels like to run on Twitter to bash the same features they, their mothers and entire families have as "ugly"/"mannish"/"froglike", call it "racist" for the west to allow Asian women with monolids, strong/chiseled and un-surged up features like square jaws/chins/wide noses/etc in its media, and try to defend creepy, pedophilic actions within their countries. A lot of East Asian women in feminist spaces have been talking about this deranged activity. After a while, you'll realize all men tell women the exact same bullshit in slightly different tones to humble and subjugate them.
Learn to cultivate and find refuge in your own beauty, surround yourself with content of pretty women with your own phenotype or similar (very easy nowadays) instead of just others, question who exactly is equating you to a man and their motives, try out whatever style you like. Also, avoid being fat (sorry).
No. 499874
>>499512I used to be like you, and very recently too, and like
>>499543anon said, it’s largely because you’re a zoomer exposing yourself to comments that make you envious of other groups of women’s adoration. What this feeling is, is intrasexual mate competition, which is the competition that happens within a gender for a mate, which in your case is probably males. It’s the same phenomenon where nerdy men see popular jocks getting girls and they start envying them. You’re feeling like we’re not getting enough of it, but if you really pay attention; it’s a finicky type of validation anyway. 1. Always question the source: the popular group of non-white women amongst zoomers on tiktok and IG reels to revere was Asian women very recently, and while that still happens, zoomer males have moved onto Latina women. There’s jokes now like “Latina Huzz” and “big booty Latina.”
Which doesn’t even make sense considering a boxy body is a common stereotype amongst Mexican American women. But it doesn’t matter because they’re idolizing the 5 latinas with Colombian BBL’s to be represent their ethnicities attractive features, which shows you how disingenuous this adoration is considering men and women are always whining about not finding “plastic bodies” attractive, and also are 100% aware that the only people who naturally have big butts are black women. So that has started making me deconstruct whether I even trust the perception of the people saying those women are innately desirable. It’s almost like it’s more of a sponsored, inorganic praise. One thing that genuinely helped me was realizing that I was feeling the exact same envy for two different groups. To feel that envy for one group is one thing, but to then feel it again for a second group…that’s a pattern. So I investigated more into why feelings of envy were happening. Which helped me realize this was a constructed feeling that came from wanting that attention and adoration, for myself and other black girls, and not because I cared to desperately look Asian or Latina. Like I briefly thought I did. Again this is a constructed feeling, you might not believe that because the feelings of envy are so intense you would think you’ve struggled with this forever, but you haven’t. There was definitely a time in your life where you wouldn’t have wanted to be Asian. You just wouldn’t have cared to be part of their group, you only desire it now because you think other people desire them. If they were culturally rejected today, to the very back of the America cultural stage, your self esteem in your blackness would return. Your self hate would dissipate and it’d feel like a cloud would lift from over your head. You do not envy their appearance realistically. You envy the fact that you see their ego’s getting boosted in very specific online spaces. Which makes sense to envy, but as a young woman be mindful about how men construct envy in you purposely. What’s happening is triangulation, which is a technique where men pit women (typically mistress and wives) against each other in a competition for his ultimate love. It’s a triangle, with him as the top of the pyramid, and the two bickering females at the bottom Triangulation manipulation keeps women in a perpetual state of envy, mad at each other, and not the man for his cruelty to both of their feelings. It also keeps the two bickering females in a envy match where they try to be a more desirable female so they can be the final female chosen by the man. This means they’re envious of something he desired in the other women, and do things to emulate those traits. Now the wife is dying her hair blonde and trying to look more youthful, but then the mistress is acting less seductive and acting more wifely. The wife starts wearing sultrier clothing and trying to make her tits big, and at the same time the mistress is acting mature and polished. What they’re saying is “Please choose me, because I can be myself, which you admit isn’t good because you haven’t chosen me yet, but now I’m showing you I can be the other woman you desire too.” You’re doing this mentally with Asian women, you want to look like them, or envy them, just to get the same online zoomer male adoration that’s fickle and not rooted in actually observably desirable traits, or honesty, but mostly just a meme to make white girls jealous and humble them, and also black girls by extension. One day they might do the adoration game with us too, but then like those other groups we might crash out when the attention runs dry and moves on. You need to become more autistic as a woman, in many ways it’ll save you. I’m not joking, there’s something beneficial about having a shield to protect you from this type of manipulation. It’ll let you move through the world as if you “don’t understand the social cue” of how you’re supposed to emotionally respond to content of this genre. Instead of inferring “so many people like Asian girls awe man” what you should be doing is having a more black-and-white thinking pattern of “I am looking at a social media post that is boosting Asian women, this is one of 3 that I’ve seen in the past year. But this is not the whole world, it literally has engagement to only 150,000 people in comparison to the 7 billion on earth. Of those 150,000 largely many of them agree casually and not severely. And keep doing that with every situation. Make everything so much more black and white in your head and stop giving it inherent meaning. If you’ve never seen a single post that says “Asian women are hotter than black woman” verbatim, then do not believe anyone in the world has ever had had that thought. And if you have seen someone say that, then that is only 1 person, out of 7 billion. Or 4 out of 7 billion. Odds are you wouldn’t love yourself more if those 4 people were obsessed with black women instead. You’d just be like “okay.” And perceive them the same way you perceive those Reddit white men who are subbed to black girl porn subreddits. Which is likely either disgust or apathy. You have to be an autist with this, you should only operate on black and white facts or experiences. Not inferences, because you’ll attach more meaning to things because of how they ~appear~ to you, than what is actually happening.
No. 500208
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How do I achieve this look?
No. 500383
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>>500321I always thought Kelly was pretty and i also have an auntie who looks just like Kelly which makes me like her more. I just think she had really bad styling in the early 2000s because what the fuck is this shit.
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>>500383Kelly is/was gorgeous. I wish she stayed in Europe and made fun electronic music like the "Love Takes Over" track.
No. 500612
>>500401I kind of believe the rumors that they've been softblocking other women's careers for a while. Kelly, Tianna Marie, Keri Hilson, Amerie, etc. There was some rumor about Tina operating that way even when Beyonce was a child, having other members of pop groups she was in go outside and "tan to look prettier" while keeping Beyonce indoors so she'd look paler and stand out more (obviously, colorism would work in her favor in that instance).
It's sad because I like what Beyonce represents as a black pop star, but I don't agree with the whole "There can only be one" mentality. Also, dark-skinned and more monoracial women and girls deserve to have proper pop/girly representation too. I feel like almost all that gets pushed in the mainstream nowadays for darker girls are crass, hypersexual rappers. Like, bring back pretty girl music. Everyone doesn't need to be serving cunt and bootyhole at all times, it's weird and sometimes racist.
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>>500564Like look, she’s gorgeous.
I see women who look like me and I find them beautiful. No one could ever make me hate my skin, not anymore.
Get your issues fixed nonna, because it’s setting you back.
No. 501767
>>499506I read the thoughtful and well written responses to this and they make good points to some extent it's suuuuper naive to believe this is a zoomer/social media thing. I'm in my mid 30s, a second gen immigrant, and I grew up in a very ethnically diverse area with a lot of other immigrants from different backgrounds and ethnicities.
I have experienced this envy my whole life. I can acknowledge it for what it is and I refuse to be shamed for feeling a natural reaction to seeing other people treated better or looked at as having inherently more worth and and value. All of my Asian friends that I grew up with are married, not that that is necessarily a flex, but none of them have ever struggled with being seen as desirable, valuable human beings. I just want to be seen and loved and not have to settle for bottom of the barrel
abusive moids when I inevitably cave into my loneliness. I love being black, I love my hair, I love my skin, I can't avoid the fact that the world hates me and how much that sucks and how shitty it feels to see every other type of woman not be universally hated and derided, they're actually seen as automatically better for not being us. Even food! Like even their food gets to be trendy, upscale, etc. How is that not supposed to be painful? The whole world is constantly spitting at us.
>>500564Kelly is so gorgeous and legitimately has so many bops, we deserve a universe where she is just as adored and uplifted as Beyonce.
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>>501767MOST MOIDS are
abusive regardless of what race of women they date.
No. 501906
Whenever I see the arguments about black women and who we're allowed to date, I feel mildly annoyed for a little while, but then I go back to just ignoring it. It doesn't matter what race you're with. Just be with someone who loves and respects you deeply.
From age 18-30 for me personally, black men treated me like shit to the point where one outright told me to my face, "well black women are the lowest tier". I live near silicon valley, so that likely plays a huge role in that, making location my prime issue with them, but at the same time that doesnt make any of what I experienced less real or valid. The reality was/is that in this area, the majority of black men act like you've insulted them for even just looking at them. So I gave up. I wasted a lot of years trying to be race loyal, and what did it get me? Put down, constantly. "Humbled". Compared to other races, and told to understand it. About 2 years ago, I finally dropped relaxer, big chopped, swapped to natural hair (0 heat styling), dropped makeup, and from that point forward only talked to those who appreciated me exactly as I am, regardless of their race.
Nowadays its kind of funny. Black men when I'm alone, still ignore me just the same as always. But when they see me next to someone else of a different race, sometimes they look or even say something judgmental. But that isnt about wanting me. It's about thinking that I deserve less. I was supposed to be alone and rejected. Whenever I hear these arguments about how we shouldnt be allowed with other races, that's all it ever comes down to for me. "You dont deserve love, and you should've stayed rejected". Well, no.
Everyone has the capability to be bad. but some are actually good. I don't trust the majority of men. but I also don't trust anyone who at any point paints us black women into a corner, telling us out of everyone to sit out and stay alone, and remember that we're hated. The women of other races don't hear that. I don't think we should either. I think black women deserve love and respect too.
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Okay I'm just gonna come out and say it since no one else seems to be talking about it: why does it seem like white women make the most noise about being victims and shit? Rape, domestic violence, childhood abuse. All that. I ask this because I discovered Lana Del Rey's fanbase and decided to look at her lyricism. I find it the same with how they seem to be depicted in movies, shows, and even games. They seem to clutch on playing victimized roles more than anyone else, as far as women go. Black women IIRC are more likely by proportion to be sexually assaulted. Same with native americans. Yet, how is it that black and indigenous women seem to be so much more capable of taking the misogynistic pressures of the world on the chin? Black and indigenous women don't seem to cry as much about being raped nor cling to victim roles as much as white women do, and that's despite both black and indigenous women being so much more likely by population proportion to be found in jeopardizing events.
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>>503213>Black and Indigenous women seem much more capable at taking misogynistic pressures on the chinI don't know if capable is the word here, Nonna. Maybe 'willing'? I think our reactions to these pressures are more poorly internalized, then released elsewhere down the line on an interpersonal level. For example, the "I luhhh my man, my man, my man" women who come home to a broken ps5 and dead infants after a long day of being the only adult with a job, and the "You lil' heffas is too fast tailed nowadays" church ladies that look the other way at their husband's pedophilic tendencies. Are those women endemic to our communities? No. White people have the overzealous parents of well-connected frat boy rapists. But, I don't think it's a sign of enjoying victimhood to speak and create passionately about the topic. Wanting to be an eternal sickly wallflower damsel in the real world on the other hand…I absolutely agree with you there. It's okay and imperative to heal, if only a little.
No. 503346
>>5032131. There are more white women in general
2. People don’t what happens to us. They can barely even humanize you, let alone empathize with your problems
3. People are fine with your degradation and even defend it in the name of status quo and hierarchy
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>>503213To be honest, all women should make a massive fucking deal out of it when they're harmed, and in an ideal world, we'd have eachother's backs. Unfortunately, generations of horrible men breeding and pickme women being the ones to survive misogynistic civilizations have placed us all in this shit situation.
The west makes this a race thing, but it's even more of a class thing IMO. The gist of it is that women are oppressed, and don't support eachother. Rich women think they're immune and that all the bad stuff happens to the poor women "way over there", and are always horrified when they get their wake-up call. Rather than this spurring on class consciousness among the female sex, things just go back to the status quo, because rich men run everything. Poor women see the rich women fall apart and are confused, they're like "So, you just now found out men are evil? Why are you crying? You didn't care when it was us". This pattern is observable pretty much everywhere. Even in India you'll see rich pickmetards downplaying and making excuses for rapist men until the day it happens to them and their daughter(s), and even those cases are buried so the other richfags can ignore it.
To bring it back to race: White men did everything they could to put themselves on top globally, and pickmes to white men delusionally think they're also unconditionally powerful because their daddies are (think back to how white women were the main ones benefiting from affirmative action, but were also extremely loud about wanting it gone lmao). These women merrily tap-dance, scold non-pickme white women for not obeying daddy, and bash black or brown women for points. They're shocked when inevitably, moids moid out and the good girl privileges are revoked, and it becomes a whole production. It's actually good, generally, to be cognizant of women's trauma. The issue is that rather than recognize the male problem, all the disciples and dickriders of white men pretend to be shocked, and then proceed to cover it up or play dumb to keep up the veneer of scrotal innocence. Rich and retarded white pickmes love to deny that white men are rapists, knowing damn well what happens to Slavic women in their own countries, and that when even their super special snowflake Germanic men aren't raping women and girls at home and getting away with it, they're flying to poor Slav, SEA and African countries to rape anyway. We're meant to believe this "never happens", white men are good boys who dindu nuffin and every single incident is somehow a one-off (an eternity of one-offs, and entire racial demographics existing today borne of one-off rapes lol). Alternatively, if the male who harmed the white woman is non-white, it's actually proof that only non-white men abuse and rape, and that the solution to the male problem is for all non-white moids to be put somewhere they'll only be able to abuse non-white women "like they're supposed to". The function of the dramatized victimization you see in media like movies and games is to make you believe it's an earth-shattering event for a white woman to be brutally harmed (it isn't, make some white friends or listen to white women and you'll learn it happens all the time, literal generations of it in families, it's just that white men don't get stereotyped for their evil acts, and men as a whole don't give a fuck about women being victimized). It's also very typical for the wealthiest and most powerful women to have their voices and experiences placed at the forefront, because "low-caste" women are implicitly expected to take the abuse in stride and no one wants to "see" them unless it's to sexually exploit them like show ponies, contrast them against "high-caste" women to uplift them or use them as battering rams for whatever rebellious political cause is in vogue.
No one ever wants to connect the dots on male nature, and what men (as a collective) love to do whenever their power remains unchecked. I actually want to say that white women have probably had the most gains in trying to secure gender equality and rein in the
abusive men through a mix of feminism and financial success, but even their most successful and seemingly empathic men are still raping and killing for no reason. Kpop stans and weebs will see this play out, and they'll
still ignore the problem to try and sell you on Asian men being these docile, gentle creatures, up until you take a microscope to East Asian cultures and find out all the disgusting shit that goes on in their countries freely and with even less fanfare than in white countries. I don't see a way out for any demographic of women. Sorry for the schizo-tier rant, I'm just not sure how the fuck any of us are meant to live in a world this cursed, lmao.
No. 503467
>>503443Samefag, the media push also serves the function of giving the illusion of mobility on the issue. If so many pieces of fiction are talking about how abuse and misogyny are bad, a subset of the population will conclude that it somehow means the powers that be are doing more to punish these things and that they don't need to lobby or protest too much. And yet another aspect is that clutching onto female victimization lets some women have their cake and eat it too re: oppression vs privilege ("Even if I'm racist and do everything in my power to either harm women who aren't part of my demographic or support men in doing the same, my husband beats me, so really, it's canceled out").
I actually like some of LDR's music, but that one rant from a couple of years ago was so emblematic of the snotty rich woman blindness I'm talking about. Pretty sure the kinds of women she compared herself to have also discussed being abused, it's just that no one cared much, and they didn't make most of their music about it, while she made her entire career off a mix of real life experiences and fiction, and then somehow got it in her head that she was the only one "doing it for the sad girls" lol ("I'm the kind of woman who says no and men hear yes!!" you are from a wealthy Scottish-American family and made a single reference to a song by The Crystals coupled with a bunch of songs about a shitty moid named Jim, calm down retard).
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>>503467>you are from a wealthy Scottish-American family and made a single reference to a song by The Crystals coupled with a bunch of songs about a shitty moid named Jim, calm down retardKekk holy shit I'm glad you brought that up. I totally forgot she did that retarded rant, how she genuinely thought she was some kind of pioneer for mopey songs about misogynistic struggles as if
nobody else as ever done that.
No. 503512
>>503213Yeah, I have noticed it too. But only in western white countries.
For example I have Slavic friends (she's born in EE) and it seems like Slavic women pretty much react to misogyny/sexism the same way bw and other non white women do.
Meanwhile white american women seem to be the most SJW/ worried about misogyny/ rape etc.
I always wonder why is it like that.
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>>503550I'm not saying no one should ever talk about it. I just don't get why white media always has their women as such
victims of everything like it's a work of
art. I always see white women portrayed or portraying themselves as damsels in distress, and that's weird. If I was raped, I wouldn't want to be constantly reminded that some scrote took sex from me against my will. So why does western white media like to do that? In that perspective, I can understand why eastern european, and nonwhite women make less of an "aristic scene" about shit like getting raped or abused in any other way. We can talk about it, but we don't have to take the Lana Del Rey route like making our tragic moments into a some kind of cultural identity.
No. 503944
>>500847> Get your issues fixed nonna, because it’s setting you back.Ntayrt, but I’ve always hated black women who do the dismissive “go deal with your insecurities far away from me where I don’t have to see it” shit to other black women who are struggling with the weight of the world’s criticism. And black women are annoying in that they pick and choose which insecurity driven conversations we allow to take space and empathize with. We pick and choose which conversations we’re expected to wrack our brains to actually try to solve with good, actionable advice, and which we leave up to the person struggling to figure out with no help. We also pick and choose which conversations we speak about dismissively, as it’s the fault of the black woman who’s insecure for being so weak as to have let the insecurity happen to her. For example, if a black woman talks about how being dark skin makes her insecure and how she wants to lighten her skin, or how her nose width makes her insecure because of the discourse around wide noses. Black women on every single social media app will respond like robots, they’ll say something snide like “go get fixed/go get therapy/couldn’t be me I love being black/have you tried not being insecure?” But let a black woman talk about how hard it is to find a good black man, and how white and Asian woman have an easier time dating, then there’s black women out there saying shit like “well what worked for me is hitting the gym, wearing my natural hair, or having a purposely bad wig. Also being slimmer attracts white and Asian men more. Be sure to get a country club membership as well.” As a black girl who would never in her life date or have sex with a black men, for their unrelenting abuse and bullying, and also they’re ugly to me and they look like swollen orcs, you would think this advice would entice me? No, maybe because I’m a zoomer but the men I desire are younger college guys/skater guys not some wrinkled silver fox white moid. But when the older black women have that conversation for the 500th time in lolcow or lipstick alley, or TikTok we let them do it. But let it be a black girl whose at her wits end, buckling under the weight of the worlds cruelty, and the resounding advice is some shallow bullshit like “just go love yourself” and the quiet part is really just everyone saying “not my problem.”
Black women react in disgust when you say you hate yourself, hate being black, or find yourself ugly in X,Y,Z ways. I’ve always wondered where this apathy is coming from. We can play therapy for all the lonely older black women, but when the black girl who wants to lighten her skin or relax her hair raises her hand to get help, everyone turns their back and shuns them. It’s only marginally better on this thread. But it’s so pervasive on twitter, tiktok, Reddit, and lipstick alley.
No. 503977
Black men are so ugly to me, and I hate pick-me black women who try to scold you for feeling that way. Black aunties and black aunties-in-training are so cringe
because they think of horrible analogies to explain those feelings like “if you don’t like the opposite gender of your race then you don’t like your yourself/mother/father/siblings/the black community.” When will those retarded women learn that their horrible analogies will never land with black men, or even black women like me, because sex and sexuality don’t react in response to that? What is it with auntie-lite black women and their weirdly incestuous analogies between sexual attraction and black people. Earlier I saw another black anon say that she’s afraid to date non-black boys because of how it might affect her younger brothers self-esteem. That was so bizarre, why are you mate-guarding yourself for your younger brothers? Also why should your brother’s self-esteem depend on who you have sex with? Do your brothers need to see themselves reflected in whose dick you deepthroat? Do they need to see themselves represented in who you have an intimate relationship with? Nevermind the fact that you’re already the closest form of family to them, you now need to bring them even closer by purposely seeking men who share the same features they’d have if they grew up? Doesn’t that sound deranged? Only auntie-lite black women think that way, and they’re the same ones who seethe when black men live their lives for them and not through a series of strange personal sacrifices to please others. Sex and sexuality are the most fun things about being human, the most electrifying and exciting. Imagine sacrificing one of the most euphoric experiences one can have that you don’t need wealth to experience, for some strange loyalty to your family or community. Yes I believe most black men who are strangely obsessed with non-black women do hate themselves, but if it gets to a point where you genuinely can’t see black women as attractive no matter what you do, then stop trying. They don’t see the point of forcing it either, and neither do I. I’ve always thought that black men looked ugly, that they had fat faces and like another anon said “no gracile features.” The softness of a round nose or big lips with little definition, is only attractive on women as we’re already cute or neotenous. Even now when I see an attractive black moid to me nothing beats that skinny long-haired look that non-black pretty boys have. So unlike other black women, I’m challenging my female socialization of constantly suppressing my desires for some imaginary “greater purpose/greater good.” And I’m going to live my life gleefully getting back shots from some twink k-pop looking scrote or pretty young European scrote one day. Other black women can sacrifice embracing one of life’s fewest pleasures for an imaginary medal if they want too though. Everybody can’t be saved.
No. 503989
>>503965Also furthermore if you meant validated in the context that you’re acknowledging their insecurities as real, as opposed to positive, then how is that a bad thing and why would that be mutually exclusive from someone learning to love themselves? Do you think pretending the context around an insecurity doesn’t exist is the first step to resolving the emotional wound or do you think addressing the context and empathizing with the insecurity is a better first step? Would you rather we gaslight other black women on their insecurities so they can “turn inwards and love themselves” as you suggest?
Someone: “I’m struggling with self hate because I feel like my hair texture is nappy.”
You: “No, that’s not real you’re making it up, go love yourself this is a you problem.”
No. 504175
>>503568Except that movie wasn't made by a black woman, it was made by Jews who have the worst 'we are an oppressed pee oh see minority'
victim complex of all, while also larping as white people and exploiting black people whenever they feel like it too. The only time they come together with black people is to bash blondie because they are jealous of Nazis (while also being the biggest consumers of nazi fetish porn)
No. 504295
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>>504290Intelligence is derived from both parents, it's a set of multiple factors. In fact there seems to be a bigger link between outside factors like older parents being less likely to pass higher intelligence being less likely to pass higher intelligence to their children. This is especially bad with moids, who do not reach a point where their bodies stop producing/run out of gametes like in women, so they just continue to get worse
No. 504298
>>504290You just gave one more reason why intelligent black women need to stay away from 99.9% of black men, the majority of which have ridiculously enabling boymoms. They won't side with or understand non-mindless women.
It sounds like you really want to blame black women and "both sides" the matter, but the fact remains that only one half of the community literally identify as criminals and start getting angry when black women say they don't want to date men with a criminal past.
No. 504538
>>504503>>504525My point is that excluding men of your own race from your dating pool is essentially swapping one type of misogyny for another.
Moids gonna moid. I would prefer the 1% of non shitty black men over an average mois of another race just because I don’t care to deal with racist in laws.
No. 504679
>>504271There is no thriving Black Country or group of people on a global scale. Would you want to birth a child into a group of people that aren't seen favourably. I'm just speaking generally my word is not the law but other groups have their "wins" while we don't. And no, running fast doesn't count.
>>504289Biologically we function properly. Our skin, hair, eyes whatever do what they need to do to ensure our survival. We're worth our weight in gold. Our body parts are apparently coveted in the organ trading(?) world. Also, I could just be pulling it out of my ass but I've noticed non blacks are sick all the time or have mental problems from the smallest things. There are so many of them that have so and so disease or this and that illness. Idk that many black people that would actually kill themselves
No. 504762
>>504679>There is no thriving Black Country or group of people on a global scaleBarbados. There are also several countries in SSA that are showing impressive economic growth, it's just that they are starting from such a low level that it will take time to start showing results.
>Would you want to birth a child into a group of people that aren't seen favourablyBlacks are seen favorably to the point that there are hundreds of millions of non blacks out there who (stupidly, imo) wish that they themselves were black
No. 504852
>>504844>but black women are always expected and harangued toblack
American women. In the rest of the world, people really don't give a shit.
Which I guess kinda makes sense, when you think about it
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The influx of ~model minorities~ getting angry at black people lately is hilarious kekkk
No. 508022
>>506910Yes nonna, it’s so sad. The countries in Africa are being exploited or the governments there are so shitty that they just embezzle money.
Colonialism is responsible for all that, we are even assisting at modern colonialism right now too kek, china has already settled well within my country now, it’s crazy.
No. 508492
>>508019I personally have been fucked over by latinas most frequently. The self hatred is so
toxic with them, like imagine being brainwashed into trying to breed out every trace of non-white blood from your peopleand thinking of that as "improving" you race. It's so sick. I had a particularly bad experience with one who betrayed me personally and professionally. I should have seen it coming after her sister recoiled in horror after seeing me on facetime for the first time. The same sister would always send her racist ass tiktoks where something awful or embarrassing was happening to an obese dark skinned black woman, she loved odd future and loiter squad…
She always pretended to be offended and made a huge deal out of it when someone mistook her for white, like girl because that's what you look like and what your people literally strive for.
No. 508703
>>508613I agree and look at how the most cartoonishly rich and evil man in the world is a white South African. The entitlement of white colonizers in Africa is colossal by default, but he's a mine heir from the country where the white people dug in their heels so strongly with apartheid that the whole world did not fuck with them, but they felt so goddamn entitled to a land and resources they had literally no ties or claim too that they held out for decades to giga-racism after the rest of the continent got independence. Just speaking as an American, how absolutely psychotic racism can make people behave needs to be studied, pathologized, shamed, idek, anything so that it is established that white supremacists are actually insane,
abusive, antisocial, insecure projecting weirdos. Being scary hateful boogeymen is not enough to prevent people from getting sucked into their ideology at varying degrees. A lack of media literacy and regular literacy and critical thinking in the gen pop doesn't help. I'm so depressed that my parents believed the hype and moved here.
No. 508799
You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I’ll rise.
Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
’Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.
Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.
Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?
Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don’t you take it awful hard
’Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own backyard.
You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.
Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?
Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.
No. 508865
>>508852This argument is so stupid. Do children in foster care or orphanages deserve to be abused because they were given up by their parents? I agree black inferiority is a problem but acting like yt ppl didn't commit crimes against humanity is straight up not true. It's always waAh everyone does bad things but then you want to absolve yt ppl for whatever reason. You can still buy people today but you don't see me buying them and then treating them like cattle because they were up for grabs.
Also what is the context of the selling people spin? Afaik ,before the TAST, if you were a slave and did x amount of time or paid x amount of money you could go. When the euros came over, at first they were priests and business men but then discovered that trafficking people would be more profitable instead. There were letters sent back to european nobles asking them to come take back the "businessmen" because they were starting to sell slaves and that was not what was agreed upon. A lot of Africans didn't want to sell their countrymen but were forced to do so(they were killed if they resisted) anyway so it's kind of a moot point to act like yts were strong armed into taking Africans with them to America or something.
No. 508881
>>508874Wether I've been here since the inception of lc or 5 minutes ago what exactly does that have to do with what I'm saying? The topic at hand was TAST but you want to bring up twitter and who's been here longer than who. If you don't anons here replying to you on this topic then why bring it up? This could have been an opportunity for u to enlighten us here on the supposed wrongthink u seem to believe we have.
>I'm not entirely sureThen why act like anyone with an opposing view is wrong? I'm sure there were lots of Africans that didn't care about selling other Africans but Africa is a big continent. Just because someone shares a race that doesn't mean that there is an inherent kinship there. Africans divide themselves up by tribe or language. What does "their own" even mean? If aliens enslaved humanity tomorrow and justified it by saying humans sold "their own" because they don't make racial distinctions and just see us as a human collective, would you just be like, yep ok, makes sense? I personally wouldn't.
>Africans we’re not sweethearts and slavery was an active business before Europeans came to Africa.Nobody said they were angels but acting like everyone was just handed over just like that is ahistorical and not true. Some were happy to do it and others were not. Africa is quite big. Like I mentioned before, even if you were a slave, there were things you could do to pay off your debt and be free which is what makes "regular" slavery different from chattel slavery. And you bring up the Arab slave trade thing. Idk too much about that to speak on how that worked but yea that was wrong too. Idc if someone is "for sale", abusing someone and using that as a justification for the abuse is foul. I think Johns are rapists and I think foster parents who abuse their children need to spend the rest of their lives behind bars even if the prostitute or child was "given to them".
Side note, that thousands of years of failures like you used is not true. It's like half a thousand at max
No. 509732
>>508882Even within the white-approved take of events, they didn't happily roll over and sell their own kind to Europeans like some people insist. As far as West African slave trading went, the Oyo empire (which was probably the most powerful at the time) was largely peaceful and not interested in that. Unfortunately, war broke out with the Dahomey and other groups, and in a bid for expansion, prisoners of war (mainly of the Bariba and Nupe groups IIRC) and criminals were sold to enrich the king. The whole thing caused several revolts in opposition, both on an external and internal level. It's very reductive and transparent when some people try to frame this as black people just unanimously agreeing to sell their own people (and it'd be a lie to proclaim that absolutely nobody was kidnapped or taken under duress, but some people really like lying).
Like, even going by the "Well blacks sold other blacks!!" argument, they're bringing up actions caused/facilitated by greedy nobles in the midst of war at the expense of the common man, not something most people considered fun and good lol.
No. 509809
>>508874>Ppl and moot is newfag speakI think you have a cognitive processing disorder, 1. “Ppl” as abbreviation of “people” has been around for decades, since texting was introduced to mobile phones. 2. moot in that context isn’t a shortened version of “mutual” like what you’re assuming.
This is its definition:
1.
subject to debate, dispute, or uncertainty.
"whether they had been successful or not was a moot point"
There’s something uniquely embarrassing about calling someone a newfag and you’re barely literate. You need to get familiar with a thesaurus. Also the irony in accusing that anon for being a twitter or tiktok user because of the language you incorrectly identified as being twitter and tiktok speech, is so funny because in order to recognize twitter or tiktok speech you’d have to be using the apps yourself to begin with. Mocking people can backfire sometimes. This is one of those times.
No. 509828
>>508852Africa is the heart of the world, it’s the most abundant continent in the world raw resources wise. Why would Europeans have gone through all that trouble to colonize us if they thought we had nothing worth taking? Do you think they went through the scramble-for-Africa because they thought the continent was barren, lifeless and had no potential to create abundant things? Europe was a struggling continent, that’s why colonized us. And not the other way around. You don’t leave and risk sickness, death, scurvy, plagues or even unknown diseases or animals if you have everything you need back home.
You have that annoying zoomer black self hatred that comes with a unique combination of knowing absolutely nothing about Africa’s colonial history, beyond what you’ve gathered from comments people have made on different social media apps, and the addition of self-hate, insecurity, embarrassment and anger you’ve developed from being seen as inferior. You can’t direct that anger torwards the people who facilitate that feeling, i.e white people and other non-black people. So you’re turning around and trying to get some relief/catharsis from that shame and bitterness by joining in on the admonishment of other black people and the black people before you. You’re like a recipe that’s been made before, so trust me you’re not saying enlightening by saying “we sold our own.” You’re just another self hating blackie who hasn’t read a formal book on their own history since they’ve been born despite having a device in their hands 24/7 that could provide knowledge on the history they lack. But you won’t research it because you’re lazy as shit and don’t actually care about Africa’s history. To you it just feels good to be on the side punching down for once, even if you’re punching your own people. By your own admission, you’re another example of black people’s racial inferiority. If you’re a part of the most historically oppressed group in the world, but have access to more resources than your ancestors before you, but haven’t done anything with that access like learning the basics of African history, or researching how to help your community be lifted out of subjugation, then you’ve done nothing as well to help your people. You’re just as useless as they were, but with even more time on your hands and an easier and softer life.
>we’ve been on the losing team for 1,000 years. Yeah and you’re the offspring of that, which makes you another loser by virtue of being born. What makes your case particularly sad is you’re living a life of modern comfort compared to people before you, and you still can’t use a fraction of that free time to learn about Africa’s history at all.
You have a brain with an echo. Another fully grown gamete with no potential. To think your ancestors were put through hell for this to be the final potential of their progeny. Sad.
No. 510184
Spoilered for NSFW. But lowkey had a very soft and nice pro-black racial epiphany. A few hours ago I had a sexual fantasy where I imagined myself getting fucked sensually in the grass, but the moid I imagined doing it was kissing my toes, and mewling everytime he thrusted in, like the assault and pleasure of being inside me was making him weak in the knees. But what I find so interesting about this random little fantasy, was how much more self-assured I became over black women's desirability, and the beauty of our features.Because the imagery of some golden bronzed skin girl being thrusted into, kissed upon and melted into while her round fluffy afro moved with the ministrations sent me into a moment of pure introspection where I suddenly remembered how feminine, sweet, and soft the black phenotype is. It just grew into a stream of consciousness where I suddenly remembered, oh wait we're incredibly female and feminine. To be a people where our lips are puffy and fuller, so sweet. Or how our hips are wider, our bodies curvier, our waist to hip ratio is insane. We have button noses and rounder noses, even the big ones are evidence of our phenotypical softness. Our deep skin literally reminds me of sugary sweets like brown sugar boba, raw natural honey (it's actually very dark brown in the jar), sweet little chocolate cakes, and every other yummy dessert in the world. Our afro is so pretty, and round and fluffy, we have a bunch of little ringlets spread like a crown across our whole scalp. Even tiny features like how are eyelashes and our pubes are beautifully curly. We're actually such an incredibly beautiful race, a unique one too. And that uniqueness has been used to psy-op us into hating ourselves because it makes it harder for us to conform into subsuming white supremacy unlike other races, who just have to change 1 or 2 features to sort of pass, like arabs do with their nose jobs and balayage's. But it's insane how white people could make a group of people hate their soft and uniquely desirable features by exposing them to enough conditioning and a dominant beauty standard that leaves them frustrated because they can't replicate it. It's just evidence of how incredible the science of propaganda really is. You can brain rot a whole group of people into seeing their beauty as nightmarish with enough effort. It's like purposely poisoning a nice dream with a terrible one. I'll be frank, in order to test how I felt I imagined that if given the choice, in a non-racist world, would I switch places with the white ideal, A long blond hair and blue eyed woman. And I just wouldn't. The female phenotypes of other races just remind me of pretty twinks. Like they can be beautiful but in a non-racist and cruel society, I wouldn't trade my phenotype for theirs. Apart from blonde hair and blue eyes, most other races look like duplications of each other with slight variations, they all have that beige skin colour + brunette phenotype in some form. Asians, South Asians, Arabs, Whites, Indigenous people.
We're one of the only ones whose hair grows like a round puff, whose sexual dimorphism has the contrast it has, and whose skin is a consistent deep brown. Any black girl who'd have a negative reaction what I've written is displaying an example of successful propaganda on a test subject. Because it's a dystopian form of evil to have been conditioned so well that some of us now flinch like abused dogs the moment we read the words "dark skin." Just proof of the rest of the world's insane propensity for cruelty and our own ideological mismatch.
No. 510187
I'm going to go natural again. Which to to me means no wigs, sew-ins or even braids. I really want to have my hair exist as it is expected to exist. Knowing what I know now about actual hair science, combined with making peace with shrinkage and recalibrating my expectations of what it'll look like, like how lipglossss spoke about, has made me really excited to take care of it the right way this time. I want to wake up and wash my hair every other day, and use a boujie shampoo and conditioner to care for it like Ouai. Or also use the clinically proven hair masks like K-18 on it. I'm going to look forward to only spending $100+ on hair services like trims that are guaranteed to support it's health for years, and less on braids that cause split ends up the shaft. I'm even just excited to be able to go to them gym, and not worry about sweating out a silk press, or anxious about washing my scalp after cause it'll make my braids frizzy or wtv. I also won't have to be worried about my lace, about getting my cornrows rebraided for an install, about the edge of HD lace frizzing up, about my frontal shifting in public, about braid's getting new growth and needing a new style, about my silk press reverting in humidity, or about getting heat damage from pressing it, or having dry hair from infrequent washing. I've eliminated 99% of my mental blockages by deciding to see it through even if shrinkage makes my afro short. The remaining 1% frustration is breakage and single strand knots. Scientifically afro hair is more likely to have breakage because it has the finest strands so any damage to it via brushing, friction from rubbing against clothes or sheets, or rough styling will cause it snap off easier because the thinner diameter of the strand makes it more fragile. As well as that Afro hair is more likely to develop into an actual knot on single strands, as opposed to straight textures where they develop tangles across multiple hairs. My question is if anyone knows a way to prevent single strand knots as much as possible, because the "straight natural" black girls on tiktok do it by getting it straight enough as to where it obviously can't coil into itself and form knots, nor snap off at bends and dips in the coil like when its curly. But I don't want to wear mine straight so if anyone has advice like silicone hair serums suggestions, routine suggestions etc I'd love to hear about it tbh. r/hairscience is what pointed to the studies that showed this.
No. 510426
>>510210I understand being weary of being approached, you genuinely can't know what's going to happen with another human being. I think your surroundings might play a pretty big role on what you can (generally) expect when you see other black people. Also, physical markers besides race can paint a decent picture (attire/styling, body language, location, whether they're alone or in a group, etc).
>But I've also been ripped into because of my skin color by other black women.I don't know what your extended family is like, but I've only ever seen ignorant, hyper-ghetto women tear into other women for their skintone, and if you listen to what they're saying, it's nearly always rooted in some dumb sexual competition. Trust me, pickmes will find any reason to tear into you, whether it's your hair or your body. There's trauma there for sure (we live in a colorist society etc etc), but it's almost never normal people bashing anyone specifically for their skin color. It's always the ones who have something deeply wrong with them. Some of the same women who insult those with light skin love to tear into women darker than themselves just so they can feel like Big Lightskin for a day. It's mental illness.
I'm saying this because I'm also somewhat light-skinned and I've been treated well by other black women, with only a few exceptions. Even those comments I've gotten are kind of nothing to me, because I see what people say about dark-skinned women. It's always so much worse, and it just makes me sad.
The "why do you talk white" thing also never bothered me because I understood "talking white" to be code for "sounding educated" and just moved on (as fucked up as that sounds). No. 510969
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What type of white guy who dates black women would Guts be ?
No. 511142
>>511010Because they find black people (or their idea of black people) inherently cool/rebellious/subversive, and it's always easier to copy than do your own thing.
It's especially funny when racists do it, they give themselves away.
No. 511470
>>511196Give them a taste of their own medicine nona. Humble brag about how even when you're dressed down everyone pays attention to u when u walk into a room since u stand out. It's especially
triggers them for whatever reason when u highlight when it's mostly men and children doing it. Talk about aging, how u get so much attention for ur shape (doesn't matter if ur skinny or curvaceous ) etc. exploit their sore spots basically