/g/ - girl talk

Being a picky eater. Like, I can understand having likes and dislikes, but if you are a chicken nuggies fries and "no lettuce tomato or onion on my burger" person who cringes at the idea of vegetables … I'll immediately pass on the idea of dating and they'll become a child in my eyes

Off the top of my head..

– A moid who hates cats is a definite turn off/red flag. He doesnt respect boundaries, does not have patience, and hates true innocence, love, and beauty. He views all other beings, including women, like dogs who are "supposed to" blindly obey him. He only likes dogs not for their inherent worth, but because they reinforce his narcissistic supply of being the "alpha" in a relationship.

– Moids who are pushovers, and moids who are bossy.

– Moids who listen to angry and/or misogynistic music. Moids who have anger or other emotional issues in general. Often manlets but not always, as manlets are more statistically likely to have anger issues. Moids who panic easily are exhausting to be around.

– Moids who enjoy true crime or horror types of media. Feels like he is either plotting something, or views legit horrific crimes as entertainment.

– Moids who glorify and worship veterans or similar professions. These moids will not tolerate their precious murderers for hire being questioned or criticized. Cult like behaviors like wearing a poppy, when they couldnt care less about the women affected by mens stupid wars of aggression. These moids worship other men.

– Mommies boys. Nuff said.

– Moids who are picky eaters. Moids who dont do their own laundry/dishes. These moids usually employ weaponized incompetence. Theyre lying, cowardly scrotes who view all women as appliances.
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>>496300
it looks like baby clothes

Scrotes who wear slips as swimwear, you can have the prettiest face on earth but you’ll look disgusting to me in an instant kek.

Blue eyes

>>510045
are you a slav

>>510054
TRANNIES ARE NOT WOMEN

>>510270
Funny thing is that the moid Wehraboos like this always accuse you for not liking these uniforms only for political reasons, even though my hate for SS uniforms is ALMOST purely aesthetic based. I obviously don't like Nazi shit (because I haven't had a lobotomy yet) but the Soviets were notoriously rapey and committed a fuck ton of war crimes as well, but I still really like their uniforms. I mostly like them because of how scrappy and cheap they look, I still prefer Cold War era Soviet uniforms though, because the fuzzy collars on the jackets are really cute ♥
>>511015
Yeah, western Slav though, but I guess it still counts. Was it that obvious from my post? Kek. The guy in my pic is from the IRA though, he's Irish, so probably not slavic unless he's an immigrant that's really into larping as a Celt.
>>511093
Lmao, wonder why only one of these guys has his face censored? My tinfoil is that he's a Fed

Please make Flat Luigi (artnonna's version) the new thread pic

New thread:
>>511080

>>511079
Agreed

>>510891
if only we could selectively breed his looks but without the glass spine and muddled brain

>>511053
They don’t care. It’s all “oh this isn’t that bad” or other excuses

>>489166
A good qualify faux fur won't shed after your plushie is done, it'd shed only during cutting. If always sheds then I would recommend you use something else.
My way of working with faux fur is
>cut carefully so I mostly cut the fabric supporting the fur and not the fur itself, see vidrel. The plushie I made using this was >>>/g/448324
>follow a pattern and cut all the pieces in one go
>grab the big parts resulting mess and shove it into a bag + use a lint roller to collect the rest of the sheddings, cleaning/replacing the lint roller if it gets too dirty

sewing is a lot more difficult than I thought it would be. made a pair of bloomers as my second project (pillowcases were my first - those turned out ok) and the bloomers turned out pretty bad. they're still wearable but have a very sloppy handmade look to them. I was going to make a dress and a skirt using patterns from otome no sewing but now I feel discouraged. about how many projects did you complete or about how long were you learning to sew for before your projects started to look more professional? how do I get past the "babys first project" stage to make wearable garments that look decent?

>>510642
Honestly, probably about four years. Mind you, I was really impulsive about how I'd go about completing projects and barely used the internet to look up anything to do with construction, materials science, pattern making etc during this time. When I first started out, I'd just buy second-hand home-sewing patterns and an old polyester bedsheet and try to make sense of it all on my own. In some ways this was alright, at least it shows I can be persistent, but obviously I missed out on a lot of extremely basic information that would've probably cut down the learning curve to about a year. Please don't feel discouraged and remember you can always practice what you are planning to make on cheaper, cruddier materials first (making samples of different construction methods on scraps/offcuts as well for references later is well worth your time when you are new to them) so you feel confident once you cut into your preferred fabric of choice.

>>477559
Boiled wool provides decent water resistance so it might be worth trying out some experiments if you've got any scrap wool lying around.

>>510871
wow that's a really long time… I think what is also frustrating me is that I'm relying on tutorials to do projects for things I want to make but all the tutorials expect you to know the basics which includes a bunch of sewing jargon. there are also things that are never mentioned like what tension setting to use, what thread, if the fabric should be cut on the grain or weft or bias etc.

>>510450
In one entire screenshot. Like for example >>509254 go back on Astro.com

>>510504
Ah ok, I see now. Sorry about that!

>>510537
Hey nona fyi your information is visible in the top left corner

>>510537
>>510553
It’s so over for nonna kek

You're so close but not yet nona. You can do this!

>>495159
Venus in the 6th and Mars in the 9th

Hey to any astro anons here, how do you feel about astro compatibility charts or ratings? Asking because i did a astro comp chart with multiple people and basically almost all of the people that showed a 90% or 100% with me were people who i do not care about, do not find attractive or are dead.
Do astro signs complementing each other mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.

I have so many placements in the 12th house. Am I destined to be a schizo? Am I already a schizo?

Pretty fascinating astrological setup we got going on

Anyone else suffer from two inner planets at an almost exact degree opposition? My Mars and Moon make me feel mentally ill on their own, and it's made even more prominent by them being in angular houses. Hate how double-faced and unreliable I come across.

>>499144
Have you ever tried period panties nonna?

>>510433
>Am I the only one
no and the solution to your problem is weight lifting.

>>510497
Nonna I literally feel SUICIDAL, a whole week before, lifting weights is bullshif advice.

>>510540
And I do go to the gym already.

>>510540
>>510542
do you go to the gym during pms or take a break? it's probably the serotonin dip, if gym doesn't help try offsetting that with a better diet (tryptophane rich foods), supplements like 5-htp or you can try microdosing mushrooms or lsd

>>510223
I am soo sorry this happened to you and that those around you didn't keep a better eye.
Considering your high mental distress and multiple witnesses saying that, in no way, were you of sound mind and Trump saying he "felt bad" and you being in and out of conciousness, I'm afraid you have been raped.

First of all, dont fall for his bullshit.
Men have a tendency to deflect responsability with a gaslighting skill the likes oil refinaries have never seen before, combined with willfull ignorance and roid rage.

>He is panicking, saying he has to go now! I am his friends ex!
>He was panicked, said i was coming on to him more than he to me, that he felt bad for my ex and didn’t continue because of it etc
>that he felt bad
>Trump claims i pressured him and that he said no several times, that i wasn’t as drunk as i claim etc.

I think the guilt of his action got to him, not bc you're his friends ex, bc he knew who you were even before the crime he comitted.
The more time passes the more he deflects. How do you go from multiple people saying you were blasted and out of it and unable to consent to "i was coming on to him more than he to me" to "i pressured him and that he said no several times".

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>>510238
First of all nona i want to thank you for replying, it really meand alot. I have talked it to death with girlfriends and they all validate me, but i am still so scared that maybe i pressured him, and i am also a rapist or something or atleast a really horrible person.
I want to clear one thing up, i don’t believe i was slipping in and out of conciousness in the way that i was passed out, atleast at my place like in the cab. I’m so scared that i maybe did pressure him og that he stopped midway through and ran away because he was so distraught?
I am a person who always puts other peoples opinions over my own and always doubt myself (childhood trauma yay), but i have been working on it for years. I just wanted to try to talk to you nonas because i know you would be more objective than my friends.

>>510251
How could you really pressure him? You wouldn't be able to force him or threaten him or anything. He was more sober and he's a man. That's some bullshit anon. Of course he wouldn't admit he took advantage of the condition you were in, even if he freaked out and changed his mind later. I'm not saying he necessarrily raped you but it seems like something did happen and he tried to do some damage control afterwards.

>>510251
You cannot pressure a man into sex, to pressure someone into sex, you’d have to have had a tangible threat to make them comply.
Are you stronger than him? No
Did you have a weapon you could access to hurt him in case he refused? No

Someone cannot be pressured into sex if there aren’t some consequence they’re afraid will happen to them if they don’t comply.
If you’re drunk, weaker, and a woman, there’s nothing you could’ve done to him to make him so afraid he’d have to comply. He innately is in a more safe position. Imagine if you tried to pressure him, and he said no, what could you do to him after that? Nothing. Because you don’t have the physical power, or another threat to punish him with in case he said no. And he knew that.

This is why girls can be pressured into sex but men can’t. If women don’t comply to have sex, then the moid can get angry and beat them, or just continue the rape anyway but in a violent and traumatizing way, without the pretense of being nice. Women bargain against experiencing worse sexual violence, by falsely consenting to have the sex so they can receive the least violent outcome in that scenario. Now let’s flip the genders. You have no power to commit violence onto him, either physically or otherwise. So you have no threat to punish him with if he doesn’t comply to sex with you.

Also remember that in order for him to have sex with you, he’d have had to get and stay hard, and then thrust into you repeatedly as well. There’s so many more steps that it takes for a male to be able to functionally have sex, that wouldn’t happen if they were truly afraid or disgusted with the act. If he was truly terrified, why’d he get a boner? If he was truly terrified, why’d he keep thrusting? When he got off of you that meant he had the capacity to stop the sex at some point. So if he could wilfully stop the sex at the point he did, with no physical or violent consequence from you, then why didn’t he stop it right from the start? Why didn’t he stop it just before he entered? Why did he wait until after a length of time has passed before he exercised his autonomy to stop and leave?

I’m sorry Anon, but you were raped. And he knew what he was doing. I’ve been to raves and clubs with my girlfriends, where we’re off flirting seperately, and I eventually find one of my friends to be nearly blackout drunkPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>508304
I do all of this and still get ghosted by most nonnas kek. It's hard to know if it's a problem with me or if it's just to be expected with online friendships.

>>509544
AYRT, I get ghosted by most as well. I think it is just normal unfortunately.

Hello, I come from the latam thread since we were talking about organizing between the Argentine nonners, tho any other latam nonnie is welcome.
You can ignore this if you don't come from the thread

Escribanme x acá con sus users de discord: no.smokingallowed@proton.me
La idea sería hacer verificación de mano y voz antes de entrar.

>>509730
Nonnie, como funcionaría recibir anonitas de otros países? Piensas abrir diversos canales en el discord para países distintos o el enfoque sería Argentina?

>>509932
Pensaba en agregar roles a las que se unan y hacer chats para cada país. Originalmente mi objetivo era buscar nonners de mi zona pero la idea de chat latino internacional tmb me copa

>>508394
It's location location location. If you're new in the area there's always a playground that the local teens know to go to for smoking weed and having sex. Other than that most playgrounds seem either dead or you'll have an occasional other parent to two bringing their kiddos

>>494229
So I know the family a bit better now. The two moms are married to each other and met through their babydaddy, who I think joined the relationship later. Honestly, aside from it being a 3-way relationship, the only red flags I'm seeing are on the financial independence side. They both live in the house he owns and he pays for most bills, but the wives have assets in their names, take turns working and only they have shared finances for their savings, so they have some protection. A massive green flag was just how quickly and happily their boyfriend/husbando/partner/babydaddy changed his plans to get off work and come straight to take the kids so the wives could go out, which I'm pretty envious of.

>>508728
You're incredibly naive if you think this situation isn't going to turn into horrible drama in a few months/year max.

How do you handle the loneliness? I've been a gamer and quite standoff-ish my whole life so I thought I wouldn't need anyone but I'm a SAHM and there's no village. Both my husband's and my family just throw money at us and dont ever once offer to actually help. I even asked to, and they just happened to be so busy. I have a 4 month old and a 2.5 year old and I just really would like to shower without an audience or to just go out for a coffee and not just talk about kids. Husband really puts in the work and does the whole bedtime routine with the toddler after coming home from work but afterwards we have like 1 hour a day to hangout and that's if the baby is also sleeping and not crying. All people my age don't have any kids or don't even want any and I feel like I lost so many. I tried going to postpartum groups and all the women there do is like shit talk their husbands which I can't relate to. It's just lowkey so grueling. How tf do you deal with this? Everyday it's like just hoping it'll be over soon idk if anyone can relate

>>510181
Nona I relate to you so much, I’m a stay at home wife right now but we are preparing to have kids soon and I had to move across the country for his career. I feel lonely and isolated because my family and old friends are in a different state. I’ve tried making friends here but people give you the side eye if you say you’re a housewife with no kids and moms don’t want to befriend me because I don’t have kids yet. I still try to reach out to my old friends online but they are too busy with their careers to chat me up and I can’t help but feel left out in the group chat when they discuss something they did together that day in person.
It’s hard overall to make friends as an adult because there’s no common theme uniting you all save for kids/marriage/family/career, and even then you get all sorts of different experiences that aren’t relatable. I can’t shit talk my husband like those women and wouldn’t be able to join in and fake it. Are any of them stay at home moms? I feel like most women look down on you secretly and try to drag you down with negativity hence the shit talking, they’re trying to see if you will join them and will feel satisfied knowing that your life/marriage is not sunshine and rainbows.