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No. 248328[Reply]

The good, the bad, the ugly. Share your experiences here, what are the best apps to use, your success stories, cringeist interactions, horror, etc.

Previously >>>/g/82463
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No. 290415

>>290409
I hate the hikers so much. It's like 90% of men on there, what are they chances they're all serious hikers? More like they pretend to have a hobby that conveniently takes no particular skill, knowledge or gear to prove you're genuinely into it (anyone can go bushwalking and take a photo), and lbr it's a 'no fat chicks' dogwhistle, since they always claim they want someone fit enough to ~keep up with them~ lmao. I mean, not that they need to like fat girls but we all know they'd be fine with an unfit skinny girl.

No. 290598

>>290409
>The whole app is full of fit single fuckboys that are happy to do casual sex, why the hell would anyone want some shady fucking dude while also going behind a woman's back for that.
The only explanation I can think of is that they've heard dating apps have made casual hook up easier, just thought that meant anyone would fuck anyone and have no grasp of their "competition". But it's baffling anyway because it's common knowledge by now that men complain about not getting matches or whatever equivalent. I doubt these people get any interaction, except maybe from scammers.

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No. 290747

>>290409
this is why i deleted all my dating apps and havent been on in a while. (why am i itt??) everyone sounds the same.

>>290415
i used to hate the "i love hiking types" but i genuinely love going on trails now and i see a lot of people claim they love it only to not want to actually go out. lol. and btw, i have a friend i go hiking with often who is overweight, being fat does not exclude you from enjoying the outdoors

No. 290752

>>290415
Hiking is more or less code for "I don't date fatties"



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No. 112815[Reply]

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like yout weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Also, a reminder that we all have our ups and downs. You're human, allow yourself to fail. Just pick yourself up again and don't give up.

No ana, please.
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No. 290648

>>290638
you may not believe me but you can learn to like them! I had to teach myself and it took longer than most, I really eased into it, but it can absolutely be done. I am much happier about it and it's worth the effort!

Keep up with the pastas. You said "most" vegetables, so what are the ones you do like? Any fruits and nuts?

No. 290662

>>290638
fry them with savory batter, If oil is an issue just use extra virgin olive oil

No. 290664

>>290638
just really take advantage of seasonings, oil, lemon, (margarine if you're very desperate to stay low cal). zoodles are awesome imo. i could easily live off of zoodles and never need real pasta

No. 290666

>>290664
also samefag but the best low cal option to make salads delicious and irresistable that i stand by is the ginger-carrot dressing you get at japanese restaurants in america. don't add the honey to your recipe, carrots are already sweet enough and it only needs extremely minimal oil. i pull back on the oil in the recipe

No. 290691

>>290648
>Any fruits and nuts?
Nta but I actually like plenty of fruits and nuts but I've heard they make you fat because of how much sugars they have and too many nuts make me break out like crazy



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No. 48533[Reply]

Please feel free to vent or ask for advice in this thread pertaining to sexual abuse or harassment, etc



I'm looking for advice on how to build a healthy sexual relationship with my partner after my bad past. We've been married two years and he's fantastic. But my libido is very low and I have a feeling it might be tied to poor sexual relationships I'd had before. Starting at 8 years old and then on out. I'm not really bothered by the past but I think my mind is instantly associating sex with bad times, which shouldn't be the case since my husband is lovely. But my brain instantly is telling me that I dont want to do this or that its just a hassle. Often times when we begin fooling around I get stomach aches that will go away basically instantly when we stop, like he can tell I'm not in the mood so we wont continue. I never thought much of it, I always thought it was just something I ate. But today I figured out maybe it could be anxiety related.

I just want to be able to have a normal sex life with him where we can fool around and have fun, but I feel so bad for having something -wrong- with me. If anons have any advice i'd love to hear. I'm too poor for a therapist and I've scoured the internet for advice as well
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No. 288316

>>250737
Yes. I dislike certain positions because of this. My husband is the complete oposite of my abuser, and I've often wondered if that's the reason.
I also HATE the smell of male perfume because of it. Can't tolerate it, I get anxious if someone passes by smelling strongly like men perfume or deodorant.

No. 288356

When I was young I was molested by a girl who was two years older than me. I never told anyone because it felt too weird, and I don't think I will because what good can come of it now? She was more than likely being molested if she thought that was a normal thing to do and I don't want to speak up and ruin her life over this

No. 288366

>>286954
You should shut your mouth if you have no fucking idea what you’re saying. You have no experience and don’t know shit. It is the most common psychological reaction to have, to process trauma only years after it happened.

No. 290634

My parents divorced when I was a toddler, I was living with my mother, with visits from my dad. When I was 6, mom got a boyfriend, he was not violent physically or verbally, but he was cold. A few weeks passed, and he started to be inappropriate with me, a few months later he started abused me with pencils (forcible penetration with a foreign object) while he masturbated. My mom knew of the abuse. I told my dad, and he called the authorities and I was put in his custody. I don't know what happened to them, since I was too little to know, and as an adult it would make me feel uncomfortable to ask my dad.

My dad is a good enough person for a moid, but growing up without female figures really fucked me up. When I was younger, I was needy towards my friend's moms and my (female) teachers. I do not feel comfortable around men, specially alone, and I repressed my sexuality as a teenager. To this day, whenever I masturbate, the face of that monster will flash for a second and kill my mood.

No. 290669

>>288314
you can try to file a civil suit. honestly would probably scare him and his daddy more, plus less ability for the bullshit "justice" system to side with and protect him.



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No. 63152[Reply]

Old thread: >>47022

We've got plenty of underrated dudes on lolcow but are there any men that you're ashamed to say you'd fuck for any reason? Men who are ugly, unattractive, average-looking, creepy, weird or just plain shameful? It doesn't have to be a big reason that you're ashamed, just say why.

Admit your thirst, farmers.
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No. 290605

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His behavior is shit, but appearance..

No. 290607

>>290605
>see this on homepage
>please dont be the unconventional male attractions thread

No. 290609

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>>290605
In retrospect he looks gay

No. 290618

>>290609
always thought he had major gayface

No. 290681

Who tf keeps necroing old threads here?



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No. 209722[Reply]

This thread is for women who chose not to date "real men" (aka 3DPD) and instead have chosen to devote themselves completely to their husbandos. Talk about your daily life with your husbando, and discuss why you chose this lifestyle. Lesbians/Bi women into waifus are welcomed too.
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No. 290381

Does anyone else find their imagination and emotional capacity isn’t working as well as it used to? It saddens and scares me a bit. I used to be able to imagine such vivid scenarios and induce strong feelings of emotion and arousal in myself that would overwhelm me.

Then, last year, I was in a brief abusive relationship (also my only relationship) that I forced myself into because society was pressuring me to settle down, I ended up dissociating and becoming incredibly numb with PTSD afterwards. Ever since, my imagination doesn’t work as well as it used to and I feel so emotionally dead inside compared to my old self. I also feel terrible for ever thinking an irl moid could ever meet my expectations and feel guilty for betraying my husbando, who I can’t even feel deeply for anymore as I’m still numb and therapy isn’t helping. It’s not fair. I just want to be able to feel things and be happy again.

No. 290430

>>290260
Marriage makes me cringe IRL and even before being a husbando fag I would always say I would never get married, same with pregnancy stuff. Also most of my husbandos are villains/weird a d would never fit a traditional western wedding lmao.

No. 290441

>>290381
Are all your feelings numb, or just the ones related to your husbando? Are you able to be creative in other capacities? I think the best thing to do here is try to get in touch with any and all of your emotions, as often as you can. Try to recognise them when they appear, and name them. This includes painful emotions like sadness and regret and frustration, perhaps even related to this temporary loss of your feelings for your husbando. Check in with yourself multiple times an hour to see how you're feeling, where the emotion manifests in your body, and tell yourself or write down what you'd call that emotion.

No. 290591

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>>289475
I actually found more or less what I meant in my post here. This has embroidered details so it could even add more textural sensation to your husbando if you feel like it! There's many ways to make your husbando pillow more lifelike or pleasant to hug.

yugi is not my husbando though

No. 290594

>>289697
>>289867
slaps hired sticker onto your forhead if this pipe dream ever comes to fruition, you will be my first employee, thank you for your support i love you too!
>>289731
>>289697
Thanks nonas!
>>289698
Also i was the same fagging anon that suggested the acryluc box shelf and im glad it has lead you to something more helpful.



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No. 264337[Reply]

Continuation of old previousthread regarding nonna's progress and discussions of glowing up, makeovers and general beauty while looking after selves, goals and other discussions.

Last thread died but was really good for nonnies to discuss tips and progress with general improvements and glowing up, wanted to revive it for anyone interested!

What are your current goals? Are you working on glowing up in any way, mentally or physically?

Previous thread: >>57461
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No. 290518

Good luck to all the glowup nonnies ITT, we can do this together!

>Mentally

I want to start taking more regular walks! Having online classes in my university alongside being on a birth control that really messed with my head has made me have a massive relapse when it comes to agoraphobia/hermit behaviours, and now I leave the house embarrassingly few times per month, it was easy when I worked and could walk there but now courses have started again and I am back to my rotten hermit ways. If walks also results in me toning up a bit then that's a plus, but I want to first just get into a routine of taking a walk at least 3x per week before winter hits.
Also quitting alcohol and trying to have a better understanding of what my body needs in terms of vitamins, mostly through diet but also started taking a few that seem to have helped with my focus.

>Physically

I am learning to take care of my hair, currently been working on phasing out harsher products and parabens, seeing really nice results, and rapid growth for the first time in years. Might learn to DIY a balayage soon.
After that I will try researching skincare more and do the same, try to build a gentle routine because routines are cosy.

Aside from that I also have a kind of extensive beauty reigimine that I'm learning to DIY, before I would spend maybe 200 or 300 every few months on a lash lift and tint and 100s here and there on hair and nails, now I do most of it at home! Right now they look a bit fucked up still, but over time I hope they'll look more natural. Aside from that I would also pay for sculpting tans and am now doing them at home instead. (A fun tip: face contouring with tan works great!)

No. 290545

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>Mentally
I want to become more mentally healthy/sane, I suspect I have a few things that I need to be diagnosed with, but I'm not sure how to go about it. I can't really pay for private healthcare & I know NHS wait times are ridiculous in some places (I live in a dense city so probably bad here). I want to minimise my bouts of depression & burn out from the things I love, not be so anxiety riddled, to be productive.

>Physically

To take care of my skin, hair & get into makeup! I'm scared to since I feel like I'd look stupid, I used to get made fun of a lot for that sort of stuff but I want to feel confident in my looks. I suffer from an ED (ARFID), I'm very skinny and weak, so I want to build my strength and stamina up, nothing crazy just don't want to feel like an anachan every time I walk out the house

>Other

I want to get a decent job so I can afford to spend on stuff for me, start posting my art online again & just productivity creatively in general, I feel like I suffer from terminal art block kek. Probably other stuff but I can't think anything else off the top of my head

No. 290549

this thread seems like a tranny post hth

No. 290592

>>290549
it's the animegirl pic. unless they have a based caption or something they should just be outlawed because they give major troon vibes always

No. 290612

>Mentally
recently relapsed self harming and some ED behaviors but I’m trying to stay motivated to be better. Would like to start going to therapy but my insurance has notoriously shit mental health coverage and I’m broke lol. Taking up journaling to try to keep myself sane. Overall feeling more positive than I was this time last year, and hoping to continue making progress.

>Physically

ED behavior hellpit is my main issue. Been clawing my way out of it, relapsed a few times, finally feeling like I’m getting back to a sense of normal. Mostly I just want to stop feeling so afraid of everything. Big goal is to stay fit and healthy without feeling intimidated by eating. Also refraining from binges is pretty important to me. It’s all about balance! Also feeling more optimistic on this issue than I was this time last year (pits of anachan hell).

Overall I want to learn to take care of my body better. Didn’t have many female friends growing up because I was weird and GNC, so I’m trying to get into “girlier” things to help me take care of myself. Reclaiming femininity, baby!

Shoutout to all the other nonnas here, you got this xo



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No. 203317[Reply]

Share any experiences or thoughts on current day sex work.

Have you ever cammed, sugared or escorted? How did it impact you psychologically?

Can sex work be something empowering and fulfilling, as Twitter prostitutes claim it to be?

Should sex work be legal and regulated? What do you think about Onlyfans and the recent ban reversal on it, etc.

Previous thread >>90992
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No. 290366

>>290298
No, they do, it's just that british people are up their arse and don't want to do those jobs because they tend to think they are too good for them. I'd imagine they are in abundance after brexit. Nonetheless, i still think anon should still try.

No. 290383

From what I’ve seen, only girls with super incredible bodies (usually surgically enhanced too, or just won some kind of one in a billion genetic lottery) actually become popular enough to make very good money. The most famous amateur porn girls I see always have insanely good boobs and hips and waists, often with almost impossible seeming proportions (and probably are, shooped or filtered to hell)

The other girls that get famous but have mediocre bodies have to have some kind of niche, gimmick, a strong personality that makes them stand out and be very good at marketing and promoting themselves (like Belle Delphine), or just be famous full stop (like Bella Thorne).

No. 290427

>>290301
I understand when people are pushed into it; I was myself although if I were to type it out it'd sound like I have no braincells (substance abuse needed funding whilst full time student)
But I guess I just get triggered seeing the posts from nonnies like "need money this winter I'm gonna try selling my body" PLEASEEEEE last resort, you will not recover, your perception of men will NEVER recover from this

No. 290428

>>290298
You are right in a sense.
I work manual labour, there are no customers typically and the shifts are hard work and antisocial hours, the majority of my colleagues every time are not native, the companies don't tend to advertise through normal channels, mostly word of mouth so it stays within certain communities. The jobs are there though and they are a godsend

No. 290509

>>288426
>>288913
Pretending to be a MTF troon on the internet and posting unhinged rants about how JKR personally attacked you in an alley can get you a surprising amount of cash.
If you're not looking to scam troon supporters, a lot of job agencies are looking for staff for the Christmas period, I've seen some where I live looking for temps for food factories. Pubs and restaurants are also looking for people, and since their workers have been leaving in droves it's possible it'll turn into a permanent job. I've also seen a lot of call centre jobs and some WFH jobs being advertised in agencies.



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No. 137333[Reply]

Post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting.

Previous thread: >>112464
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No. 180128

>>180125
Yeah, it gives it an uncanny valley look. Bad photo/editing, hot guy

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Next thread
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No. 290346

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I would let Bill Hader ruin my goddamn life, no question.



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No. 43395[Reply]

Any of you guys have an actual doll face?
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No. 107377

Depending on my makeup people at work tell me I have a doll face. I have a round face and small but plump lips, and that's about all. My eyes are too small, my forehead is too big and I hate my potato nose. I look like a fatface mix between Miley Cyrus and Jennifer Lawrence.

No. 107381

>>107377
>>107375
Of all the threads to necro, why this pile of cringe?

No. 140686

People tell me I look like a doll all the time. I’m 18 but I look very young

No. 140692

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No. 140735

thank you anon for necro ing this thread so i can have something to laugh at rn



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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 289025

sometimes when i feel low i remember when i complained to my boyfriend that i feel like i look too mousy and he said "mousy? what a strange term" and showed me a picture of an adorable mouse and said "is this not a cutie?" and then proceeded to reassure me that i look wonderful. it was just a very cute and sweet moment

No. 289121

He loves all the things other guys have berated me for and tried to make me feel bad about, he says those things are what made him fall for me.

No. 290009

>>277161
lol this is 100% some sort of fanfic fantasy

No. 290320

>>284827
it's me again

MY BOYFRIEND saw my BEDROOM RAMEN and still loves me. Let that sink in. The man saw my opened pack of uncooked ramen on my nightstand that I tore into like a feral animal some night at 3am and forgot to clean up before he came over made no comment of it and loves me the same.

>told his mum about me

>he is tall and handsome
>always smells nice
>loves my OC memes and art
>supportive of my career (wants to move to wherever I go)
>pays for every meal
>knows my history with 4chan and imageboards and finds it cute
>recently helped me assemble some furniture
>recently trying to move to my city

honestly most of all I think about what a flawed human being I am, what I put him through, the mistakes I make, and see that he is still there for me and that makes me feel loved. He's seen me through all sorts of ailments and stress and is still there for me. I don't know WHAT I've done to deserve this.

No. 290325

>>290320
>knows my history with 4chan and imageboards and finds it cute
I hope you’re not saying he’s a 4chin fag himself



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