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Last one got locked, tell us where it hurts.
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No. 112614

That's such a wonderful alternative. Hopefully you do enjoy volunteering, sometimes it's hard work because you're doing the high maintenance stuff you would a normal pet, but instead it's majority of the time you're working. If you ever stop volunteering for any reason, I think getting a cat would probably be more beneficial to you when you want to wind down in your own home. I could barely take care of one small dog due due to me being forgetful and my mental health at the time was not the best, but I can easily take care of 3 cats at once. The hardest thing is just remembering to scoop their litter box every couple days, which is only a 5 or 10 minute job depending on how many litter boxes you have and how long it's been since the last cleaning/scoop.

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No. 112702

How the fuck do I stop becoming extremely head over heels for anyone that likes me too?

Recently started dating again, was just playing the field, but then I met a guy I was extremely attracted to. I was still talking to other people and hanging out with him, but then I started to talk to everyone else less and less. Let my anxiety get the best of me and stopped playing it cool. Now I think I’ve scared him off because he’s a very relaxed person. I am too in most cases, except for when I actually like somebody.

What are some things I could be doing that are scaring/pushing away potential partners?

No. 112757

I'm 24 and I have night terrors. They aren't frequent but when they happen I feel so guilty. Some of them have been in my own home, it'll always be the same sequence of a man stood over my bed I can't see properly, I start screaming, waking my neighbour up probably. This seems to happen more when I'm sleeping over a friend's or in a new bed or environment.

Why do I have these? it's not normal to wake up screaming and worry my friends when they happen to be there and get waken up by it.

The worst one I had at my home was so intense that when I came to I was on my feet feeling the wall trying to find the light switch.

No. 112867

see a therapist

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Didn't see a thread specifically for this kind of stuff so use this for discussion about things relating to bathroom stuff, advice, how to better your gut, how you personally maintain a healthy gut, general frustrations if you have an unhealthy gut (IBS, Crohns, etc) and/or how you manage it, asshole insecurities, etc.
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No. 112425


Are you sure the bleeding is just from fissures? If you have dark stool or any blood in your poo then definitely go see a doctor. If not and its a just a fleshy growth that is causing you to strain to the point of tearing then still definitely see if you can get a doctor's opinion on it. Straining will just continue to exascerbate the problem by actually causing hemheroids ontop of whatever you already have there.

No. 112429

You're probably right that this it's an issue due to straining. I keep putting it off because it's embarrassing to me and I keep considering it a low priority issue but it might just keep getting worse if I ignore it.

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I've had issues with anal fissures for a while, if it's bright red blood either in the toilet (just a small amount) or when you wipe along with a sharp splitting feeling when you go to the bathroom then that's most likely it. More fiber and water should help

Also if the skin lump just looks like a ridge of skin then that's normal, a good amount of women have that. NSFW image but if it looks like this then you have a perineal raphe and it's nothing to worry about, this happens during fetal development so it's normal for those who have it

No. 112433

That's almost exactly what I have except that the the part on my anus that connects to the raphe is way bigger than other pics I've seen online and often gets a bit inflamed and irritated. Part of the reason why I get discouraged by seeking treatment for it is because it's generally seen as a cosmetic issue and not something that insurance covers. I'm not sure if there's a connection between that and all the general straining problems I have. Anyways, more reason to just suck it up and finally go to the doctor about it.

No. 112436

You could also have a hemorrhoid where it connects to the anus as well but it can't hurt to ask a doc just to be sure. If you think it's a hemorrhoid pick up some prep H and up your fiber intake and that might help in the meantime, also don't spend more time on the toilet than you need to, straining and sitting too long can definitely contribute to hemorrhoids.

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No. 112366[Reply]

For any and all discussions about your vagina

Previous thread >>>/g/71573

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Is it possible to get to low bmis without being Ana and starving yourself and keeping you skin and face looking healthy?any tips? This is a thread for people who want to discuss getting to low weights in healthy ways. 5'5 at 120 but I'd like to be 100lbs. I use to be 95 lbs in my teens but it's easier to not look completely sick and haggard at low eights when you're young. I've flirted with the idea of losing weight but I don't wanna end up looking like a crack head.
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Kind of lol. My skin is super acne prone and it sucks. Candies made it worst tho, so when I cut those out, my skin went back to "normal" (a pimple here, a pimple there, rocky road on the chin).

No. 110826


Saging b/c blogpost. I'm the anon who wrote these posts. Wanna update to say I will be starting some medications soon to treat depression and disordered eating as well as some other obsessive behaviors. Have to gain some weight (at least 10 lbs, am currently 95). Very scared. Thank you to the anons who were level-headed in telling me 90 is too skelly. That is all.

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Have you been doing your cardiovascular exercise today?

No. 112323

those fake boobs are TRAGIC

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i'm 5'2 and 137 pounds, i look huge. years of failed dieting have made me not care for being fit. i really just want to be small. one of my biggest goals is to lose the huge hips and get a 23' inch waist. i want to do 1200 calories for the long term cos exercising just makes me hungry but i always fail

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No. 48662[Reply]

Hi! I don't know if this belongs in /g/ or here…but most of us will never have a sexual partner so here we can give masturbation tips to each other to improve our solo sex lives! DIY sex toys for those of us who still live with their parents, sex toys recommendation, rub techniques, tips and tricks for multiple orgasms, kawaii pastel sex toys, kawaii sex videos etc…
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No. 111866

This is a good suggestion. I have a Satisfyer, which is a knock-off of this, and it's pretty good. My favorite toy is my Eroscillator, but it's pricey for a first toy.

No. 112076


My bf bought this for me (without consulting me first so I couldn't veto it). It has known issues with connecting to your phone via blue tooth, which we observed. also, to charge it you have to pierce the silicone to get the cord in and that isn't hygienic at all. Germs will accumulate there over time in a part of the toy that will go inside your body.

I don't recommend it at all.

No. 112240

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I bought one of these “no touch” vibrators and it’s blown my mind. I need pretty strong vibrations to get off, but this one uses a really gentle suction and it feels like someone’s eating you out. I can usually only get off once in a sitting but this gets me twice every time. 12/10 and not very expensive, I think amazon has one type

No. 112241

Oh I just scrolled up and saw people talking about it lmao. Def reccomend it

No. 112280

Might give the Sliquid stuff a try sometime. Thanks!

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A thread for all things Home, Living spaces, Happy Places, Comfort Zones, etc.

>Where's your "Happy Place"? If it's your home, what makes it that?
>What's your living space like? Do you like it? Pros & Cons?
>City? Suburb? Middle of nowhere? (Specific city, if you want)
>Do you think the rent is reasonable for the location?
>How do you unwind in your space?
>How long after you get home for the day do you keep your bra on? Pants?
>Do you live alone? Partner? Roommates? Parents? Pets?
>If you live alone, do you feel safe?
>Is decoration important to you? Organization? Tidiness?
>If so, what's your decoration inspo?
>Do you prefer isolation? Or do you always have friends over? Are you comfortable with people in your space?
>What's important to you in a home? What do you wish you had?
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just like what >>103925 said, if it's clothes you won't need to be getting out more than once a week then sure. You don't need to clutter up your room with dressers etc if you take advantage of other spaces, like under the bed storage is something overlooked which is super useful, if you have other shelves in your room (like a bookcase) you could get those little woven square boxes that slide right in that don't take up much space but can hold your clothes, and maybe you can use your clothing as decoration with those standing clothing racks that you can get for like $10 at ikea that make it easier to pick out your clothes/outfits for the week. I'd suggest doing a big spring clean for your clothing and deciding what you want to keep. That will make it easier to decide what type of storage you will need. You can use things like suitcases, and if you've got a built in wardrobe you can use those fold out hanging shelves and you could even put a simple dresser in your wardrobe. Godspeed anon!!

No. 112221

Yes, this is my favorite aesthetic. My apartment is filled with this kind of lighting.

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this direction

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I really want to cover our place in plants and greenery but my cat, an indoor cat, is OBSESSED with greens of any kind, salad, sprouts, spinach, the tops of strawberries, and especially flowers and plants and chews them up and devours them until she gets sick. Also I dont want my house full of bugs

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Ok, so there was already a thread talking about some uni stuff, but I wanted to start a more general thread where we could all let off a little steam, ask for advice, etc.

I'm about to go back to uni to do a post-grad and people on the Facebook group are already pissing me off. 90% of the people on the course are whiny girls who haven't grown up since high school and all they have done is sit and bitch about how bad everything is away to be. I'm feeling really apprehensive about meeting people in person now, because I really wanted to just have a group of friends who I could hang out and study with.

These are definitely not the kind of people I want to have to spend time with if possible, but I don't wanna end up just hanging out with a bunch of dudes all year, so now i'm stressing out. What should I do?
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No. 111991

Thanks, anon! I kinda hope my teacher misses it but I kinda doubt it lol. Congratulations on your A!

No. 112021

my teacher didn't miss it, just put a bunch of question marks as a comment haha, thank fuck it wasn't an important sentence, and thank you!

No. 112041

>grow up in abusive home with alcoholic shithole parents. home schooled so isolated my whole life.

>get abused by men all my life because prior to therapy I felt like I deserved to be abused like my parents abused me, making me super mentally unstable.

>tank in school, shit grades, academic suspension

>Decided I was going to change my life for the better, one last shot.

>moved out with nothing and no money, packed my shit in trash bags and moved to a random ass shitty house. Done with my biological family.

>re applied for school, they are letting me back in, going to therapy, working on my issues, so much more stable mentally and ready to work my ass off

>still feel anxiety and worried about school but I feel hopeful it will go well now that I don't have to deal with all the problems at home

>landed a great job related to my field, learning so much, starting school in a month again.

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Good luck anon! You're doing great!

No. 112088

I have to work on my dissertation that I have to complete for June and my laziness is catching up to me. I wrote over half of it already but it's been a while since I've had enough time to do anything about it so I have to re-read everything I wrote from the beginning so I can make sure I didn't forget anything. But I don't want to. I've been thinking about going to the university's library everyday so I can focus, instead of staying at home, but public transport from my home to the library is trash and the library is always crowded and closed early during the weekend.

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Does anyone else have an SO with a lot of female friends? Do you ever get jealous? What kinds of boundaries do you set? What's your relationship like with their friends? Have they ever been shitty to you?

My husband pretty much only gets along with women and gay men, which isn't really an issue for me since it's a bunch of girls and not the token hot female best friend like some guys have. Most of them have been fine, but there were two I had issues with.

First one
>extremely territorial of him
>firmly established herself as #1 in his life and me as #2
>blatantly disrespected me on a level that to this day I have never experienced from a grown ass woman and hope I never do again
>he dropped her pretty much immediately when she started pulling this shit

And then the second friend was friends with her and basically ran with this narrative that I was a controlling psycho who wouldn't let him be friends with girls. Which was rather enraging since there was only one fucking girl out of like 8 I didn't want him to be friends with and she gave me damn good reason. Im also a lot more chill about it than a lot of girls are, like I have no problem letting them hang out one on one reasonably often. He stopped talking to this girl as well, though never formally declared the end of their friendship because she moved away and there was no need to.
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No. 111913

My boyfriend has a lot of female friends and it hasn't really bothered me much, but one of them he told me was his best friend, how his mum thinks they're dating and how they're really cuddly together, and I had really big reservations about him hanging out with her 1:1 as they'd slept together just before I met him. I never asked him not to hang out with her but I did tell him it made me uncomfortable at the very early stages of our relationship just because the last time they had hung out 1:1 they had sex and had feelings for each other briefly.

I've since gotten to know her though and she's actually really lovely. She just posts a lot of nudes on social media and sleeps with a lot of guys so I was a bit intimidated at first and wrongly prejudged her. We talk all the time and I consider her a really close friend of my own.

No. 111917

No, I wouldn’t say he has female friends, just as I don’t really have male friends. We have opposite sex coworkers and acquaintances but these aren’t people we hangout with outside of work. We might text them lightly or things like that but it’s always professional. Really the only exception is I have one male friend who has become his friend too, and his fiancé has become my friend as well. So when we hangout we are all together.

Him having a close female friend would be a big red flag to me, because he keeps his circle very small and his close friends can be counted on his hand. I am the same way and if I was suddenly hanging out with and confiding in another man there would be an issue.

For people who are more open with their friendships, I don’t think having opposite sex friends should be an issue, but for very guarded people like my partner and I it is most definitely a red flag.

No. 111921

their is this woman who is one my Husbands work colleagues and by all accounts they seem to have a professional relationship,I mean their not friends or anything just good workmates
however I started noticing somethings
like she sent me a friend request on Facebook(Husband doesn't have a Facebook account but I have pictures of him on my account)
the few times I have met her she seemed nice but I felt this disdain towards her in the way would compliment always complement my husband and felt she was belittling me
>"oh your taller then I expected"
>"I didn't except [husband] wife to look how you do"

so I'm still on the fence of telling my husband to cut off contact with her

No. 111925

My husband doesn't really have close friends, but quite a few casual friends are female. I'm fine with it as long as they don't hit on him. I trust him not to cheat, I just want other people to respect our marriage.

When we were dating, I asked him to stop talking to two women and it wasn't a big deal because they were just on some dumb video game but it at was at a time in his life when he would spend all day playing video games so I wasn't comfortable with their behavior. Calling him Daddy, flirting, making a valentines day thing for him, nah.

Recently, a coworker of his got our of a relationship and has been making the rounds at work trying to get one of the young guys there to date her and flirting heavily. It's awkward but I don't feel threatened by it.

Basically all I want is
1. for women to not hit on him
2. if he gets hit on, shut it down

No. 112067

My partner doesn't have many friends at all, much less female ones, but I'd only really be bothered in 2 scenarios:

>making these new friends via social media, like following them on IG then suddenly a friendship coming out of nowhere

>if friendships were intense, especially if they only happened somewhere I could never be (like at work), or never/reluctantly included me

Basically I don't have an issue unless it would give me a reason to be suspicious. Which is saying a lot, as I used to be the most jealous person ever. Honestly if a man's gonna cheat he'll cheat, and if you have an issue because the woman is disrespectful then it's up to you to say something and see if he'll take you seriously. If not, then…

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No. 67520[Reply]

It's time for a waifu thread. Post your 2D wives on here. No 3D disgusting pigs.
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No. 112007

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First fictional crush in a long time, she makes my heart melt

No. 112008

what is this from

No. 112011

Doc Ock from Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse

No. 112016

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"not sadako" kuronuma

No. 112117

Moved to >>>/m/22511.

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No. 106527[Reply]

Ask questions, post cute nail art and polish swatches, discus trends, techniques, products, professional services, etc.

What's on your nails right now, farmers?
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No. 111935

i love this idea! the honey nails are amazing.

No. 111959

Paging Trixie Mattel

No. 112012

Those nails look pretty sweet.

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