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No. 82463[Reply]

Share your experiences, advice, tips.
What was your cringiest story? Have you had a successful interaction? Do you think dating apps are worth the effort?
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No. 152083

I see this advice online all the time - "get her number within 3 messages". It never works with me, feels like some cheap exchange and if you have my number you have access to my Whatsapp profile, will probably get me suggested on FB and so on. Shit I don't want when I don't know you.

On a similar note, how long do you girls typically talk with. someone on the apps before you exchange numbers and go out? Been texting this guy on Hinge for a week and he hasn't asked yet though we talk all day long and get along extremely well.

No. 152095

Number/instagram a couple days, meeting at least a week but not more than three weeks (at least before the pandemic). Always trusting my gut.

No. 152105

Is he Japanese or are you? Otherwise wtf does this mean lol

A week or two is the longest I'll wait before making plans to meet up. Reluctance to that means he's catfishing in my experience.

No. 152110

Nope, both white. I kinda wish I asked him what he meant before unmatching him, but I didn't want to risk the wrath of the tentacle

No. 152133

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most likely it was about shibari since it's probably the only "essentially japanese" sex related practice, or at least the best known one… althought super weird to propose on the first date

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No. 144816[Reply]

Here we discuss our experiences with tarot or any other form of divination, be on the giving or recieving end.

If you are a divination reader or learning how to do divination, you can also offer some readings here, just mention what your requirements are and how many spots you offer.
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No. 151202

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Thanks anon, I really needed to hear this, especially the victim mentality part. Sometimes I do get trapped in that rut thinking that nobody would want to be friends with me and that I shouldn't try. I'm gonna try my best to put myself out there when I have the chance and whatever happens will happen!

No. 151299

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Sure thing anon, don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Every person you meet may not end up being a BFF, but I have no doubts that you have a ton of great qualities that the right people will appreciate. At the least, whatever you do to meet people now will be unique and interesting experiences you can look back on. Have fun with it!

No. 151300

Gender:Female (ofc)
Sign: Taurus, Leo rising, Aries moon

Query: What does the next year look like for me?

Not sure if context hurts or helps, but I've broken up with my partner and have some weeks to move out. Either finding a job in this country (I hope) or back to my home country to live with my parents. Super unstable times and very uncertain of even my immediate future!

Thanks to the anons that do this. I'd try out tarot myself if I had the time/money.

No. 151310

gender: female

age: 19

sign: pisces sun, scorpio rising, gemini moon

query: did i choose the right career path? what should i expect from the relationship i have with a guy im romantically involved with?

thanks in advance to whoever chooses to do a reading on me! u guys are so cool!

No. 152101

Age: 32
Gender: f
Sign: Scorpio
Query: will I ever make friends of my own?

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No. 72061[Reply]

New makeup thread because >>45820 is being locked.

Anyone try the new Fenty foundations and are they suitable for oily skin?
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No. 151980

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I like this one, it's only 3 euro and since you're in the EU you can probably get it? I only use it on blemishes though, it's too thick for under the eyes imo. I've gone through multiple of these throughout the years. It doesn't have a large shaderange but the lightest color is still pretty light

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Samefag, swatches of the lightest shades.

I also like Maybelinne Age rewind (the one with the sponge on top) and it's suitable for under the eyes but it sells for 13 euro (where I am anyway) which is not really on the cheap side imo

No. 152054

Thanks anons!! You've been very helpful!

No. 152072

What's a good eyepencil to tightline with?

No. 152073

Best eyeliners specifically for the waterline? Preferably nothing too expensive. I live in a hot climate and have oily skin and my eyeballs are sensitive (just the eyeballs, the skin around the eye isn't sensitive) if that helps. I own a shit ton of eyeliners but I'm cycling between MAC eye pencil in coffee and Colourpop gel pencils in Stomper and Sunnyvale.

Alternatively, is there some sort of trick to make pigment on the waterline last that I'm not aware of? I feel like things should be lasting longer on me.

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No. 147192[Reply]

for all the gross, weird, embarrassing shit your body does. shame is optional.
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No. 151778

You're doing it right! For good hygiene it's also recommended to try to piss after sex to make sure no semen stays in your vagina (obv different holes but the pressure will make it leak out better). You can use gentle soap around vaginal entrance, but never inside to keep the good bacteria cozy and safe. It's messy but I agree, feels much better than with a condom, would be hard for me to go back to using it.

No. 151808

IDK if it's normal or not but I get this too. I never noticed it until I lost a lot of weight.

No. 151816

I haven’t shaved my pits in months and they’re pretty damn thick but I can’t say I’ve ever experienced pit stains or anything like that. I think you might have hyperhidrosis

No. 151858

Maybe you're right. I have debilitating anxiety and I get nervous from damn near anything which is probably why I have it. Trust me I try to control it and luckily I don't stink or make people notice it. I'll go to the doctor and get checked for hyperhidrosis though I was just wondering if other people experience it and what I can do about it.

No. 152022

Story time. Once when I was like 10 I started getting this orangish red discharge in my underwear. My mom was confused by it but thought maybe I was just starting my period. It’d be young but not ridiculously young.

Anyway it kept going on like that, but sometimes some would end up in the toilet when I peed and it’d float on the water like oil. Ended up getting taken to the doctor where we worked out that it was because I’d eaten like three packages of cashews a few days before. I guess if you overeat cashews the fat can’t get digested and just slowly oozes out of you?

I still cant eat straight cashews without thinking about it.

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No. 44295[Reply]

This is a thread for females seeking female friends.

If you see a male post in this thread, report them then ignore their post. No need to point it out or reply.

Please include the following info in your post:

> Your age

> Preferred age range for friends
> Your hobbies, interests, and why you are looking for friends
> Contact info
> Any other relevant details (location, language, timezone, whatever)

Don't be afraid to reach out! You will meet more potential friends if you post your info and respond to others rather than just posting and never checking the thread again.
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No. 151171

Toxic in what way? The only one I joined ended up dead

No. 151374

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> Your age


> Preferred age range for friends


> Your hobbies, interests, and why you are looking for friends

Looking for other terminally online women to sperg with, if anyone here has a group chat it's all the better. I like video games (PC and PlayStation, singleplayer only), tacky 90s - early 00s media (fashion, music, TV, movies, you name it), programming, studying languages. To be honest, I'm here because the vast majority of gamers 21+ in my area are nasty greasy dudes.

> Contact info

Paris Hilton#8190 on discord

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No. 151375

What pc games do you play

No. 151376

Mostly shooters (both FPS and third person), as well as stealth games, survival horror and yes, The Sims.

Most recent games I've played on PC, but not yet finished, were Doom Eternal and Black Mesa. I also have the Resident Evil 3 remake installed, but haven't touched it yet. One game I keep coming back again and again is the first Dishonored. Also I'm somewhat interested in Far Cry 6, always liked Far Cry games, but not enough to pre-order it.

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No. 151754[Reply]

The goth gf is a popular niche right now, but what other niches are there? I don't have a style but would like one, I'm trying to minmax my appearance. I'm short, pear shaped slightly fatty, white, with kind of a dumpy face.
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No. 151802

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Anon, where do you think you are? The fucking cheerleading Facebook group of your high school? Barely anyone here considers themselves pretty or even average unless they’re anonymous. So here is some advice for you:
First off, stop thinking about how miserable you feel about being under your own skin, sure, being ugly sucks, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be changed, genius.
Second, after you get over your woe is me phase and figure out what is it that you think is “wrong” with you, figure out whether it can be fixed or you should just make a way to accept that part of yourself.
So, if you’re fat, workout and eat healthish food. If you feel like your body type is just weird for your own standards, learn how to appreciate the good things of your body type and stop giving a fuck about whatever some retarded scrote says about your body type, because the moment you get that loving yourself is more important than some fucking retard -male or female or genderspecial- you will feel lighter.
If you feel like you’re asymmetrical or something, learn how to style your hair to make your face look symmetrical, looking pretty isn’t something you’re born with, it’s something you have to work for, just because someone has nice genes, doesn’t mean they will automatically look great, and just because someone has shit genes, doesn’t mean they have to look like shit.
Dress accordingly to your fucking body type and the weather, don’t try to wear shorts on winter and turtleneck sweaters during summer unless you can handle it.
You can use an “a e s t e t h i c” as a guide, but also wear regular clothes, wearing jeans and a t-shirt isn’t a sin, just wear the right size and the cut that suits you better and makes you feel comfortable, hell, wear shit that makes you feel like a princess/goddess/boss lady/non-abused pornstar/whatever makes you feel powerful, that shit matters more than you think, mind over matter.
So there, that’s how I got over being a fucking retard, say ahhh and catch the plane.
If this helps, cool, if it doesn’t, get a therapist.

No. 151804

stop caring so much about looks. just be happy that you look about average, get to a 19 bmi and dress well, be clean, have a decent hair cut and that's all people should expect from you.
as for confidence you need to develop positive relationships with yourself and others. that's what counts. plus hobbies that genuinely bring joy

No. 151812


Neither confidence not clothes will make you less boring and annoying, anon. Build some other interesting things about yourself besides aesthetic and interact with people instead of being an uwu bby wallflower who needs people to approach them, nobody likes that shit. Take some agency in your life and stop being a loser.

No. 151829

Anon, please see a mental health professional and talk to them about the possibility of you having BPD.

No. 151831

>a niche aesthetic to attract people.
You'd attract more people as an attractive normie. A niche remains a niche after all, especially offline.

Lose some weight, get in shape, learn how to your do your make-up and hair, build a warderobe with clothes that look good on you.

Why do you want your style to be niche specifically?

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No. 49996[Reply]

This is probably an odd talk, but can we talk about pregnancies, babies and all that kinda shit? I'm sure some of you farmers have kids here, while some of you are feeling the pressure to have kids and whatnot.
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No. 151792

I’m nearing the end of my first trimester and I’m still horribly nauseated by almost every single smell. Clean laundry, dish soap, toothpaste, the pets, the air conditioning (both pre and post cleaning), mild lingering food smell, the inside of face masks, etc. In order to spend time outside of the bedroom I’ve been plugging my nose, but whenever I’ve had it plugged for more than a couple of minutes and then breath through it again, I can suddenly smell my snot and it’s the worst.

When will this suffering end?

No. 151892

If it's that bad you might have hyperemesis gravidarum. You should talk to your midwife about it as there's different methods of treating it. I found electrolyte drinks to be helpful.

No. 151893


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No. 152146


Agree it sounds like HG. I had it until 8 months. It can be really difficult, you should mention it to your doctor. They might give you recommendations or medication, I tried everything starting with cariban and none of it helped too much, unfortunately, but I definitely second the electrolyte drinks, also keeping cool and having a fan and cold pillow really helped somehow

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Sorry if this is the wrong thread, but I remember somewhere an anon mentioned she was looking into tubal ligations, and I responded saying I was about to have a consult as well… seems pertinent to pregnancy, in this case avoiding it.

I had my consult this morning and it was a breeze. I got approved for the surgery and am going to schedule it once my insurance coverage is confirmed. I was so SO relieved. I'd heard so many horror stories of women having a really hard time getting approved, having to go to a bunch of different doctors until one believed her, etc. My doc just politely asked if he could know my reasons, I explained, he talked more about the surgery and then before we started scheduling he checked one more time, "So you're really certain about this right?" I said yes and we were good to go.

I didn't feel him checking again was patronizing, just addressing the fact that a small percentage of women do regret it and he wanted to cover his ass (which was fine). He didn't try to get me to change my mind, didn't opine the state of women's health, didn't act condescending. What a breath of fresh air. Also I'm so glad I'm going to have this done while Obamacare is still in effect, it'd be crazy expensive otherwise lol. Being able to bang my boyfriend any time without fear of getting pregnant and having to dedicate my entire life to a little human… thank fucking god. It still feels kind of surreal right now.

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No. 58242[Reply]

Post the (Somewhat reasonable) Dreams you always had but are literally Impossible.

I always wanted to be a model, since i was a kid but i never grew past 5'1 and ended up being allergic to cosmetics.

Still makes me lowkey suicidal when i think of it.
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It's so lame but I wish I was more athletic. I wasn't the most sporty of my group of friends and didn't really participate in any sports for school. I was in gymnastics as a child but never ended up going anywhere with it. I have a nice base body to build some muscle onto but I feel like I'll never develop that athletic dexterity that someone who did sports/training as a kid would get.

No. 151721

Same, anon. Trooning out would be just another problem. I wish I born as a man, lived all my life as a man. A lot of shit that traumatized me wouldn't have happened to me if I was a man. I used to hate myself but I accepted my fate. I just hope maybe next life I can be born as a guy. Please, God, I never ask you anything.

No. 151737

i want to have a beautiful house, one with a cute yard so i can grow a garden. that's all. but i am too poor.

No. 151740

Pretty impossible is my fantasy of being great at martial arts. Just to be strong and low key buff at 5'3, and secretly have the ability to kick anyone's ass. Ugh just fantasizing how safe it would make me feel in everyday life is euphoric.

Impossible cos not only is it cringy to be adult fatty in a kid's karate class but my joints are decaying before my eyes so contact sport is a bad idea. I can barely keep up with Pilates without fucking up my knees and shoulders somehow.

My main dream is to be a musician + singer that's good enough to make a living off it. Not technically impossible if I worked hard but ADD and self discipline feel like an impossible combination.

No. 151749

I want to live in a hip city (something like New York) and live in a nice eclectically decorated apartment or brownstone and lead a glamorous life. Maybe writing in coffee shops or working in publishing or working behind the scenes on TV shows.

I was a film and TV major in college and thought that this life would be achievable but I realized I’m getting too old to keep up with younger people in my program. On top of that, I probably could never afford the lifestyle I want.

I know I should settle for a normal office job and live in suburbia but sometimes I still catch myself dreaming.

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No. 56468[Reply]

i know there's some kind of lgbt thread on here already, but bisexuality is always the one that gets the least focused attention. It's also probably the one that is taken least seriously in a way, because of so many attention seekers who fake it, and the fact that there are actually people who can't wrap their heads around it being an actual thing??

I'm like perfectly 50/50 bisexual. i have this huge, equal thirst for both body forms. (not to be confused with pansexuality, i'm talking about only being attracted to biological males and females)

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No. 151593

>straight wimin that dont like PIV abloobloo
If those women also listed several other ways they hate the dynamics of a straight relationship, yeah I'd say they're either asexual or are gay in denial.

No. 151594

Okay explain why she doesn’t want to even pursue a relationship with a woman because she can’t fathom a domestic life with one?
Based queen

No. 151597

>I'm very much sexually attracted to women
Everything you wrote after that was you bascially saying lesbian sex seems shit and not worth your time. Girl come on now.

If you can dismiss the idea of sex with women before you've ever even tried it.. go live your straight life and don't worry yourself about the 'what ifs' that you'll never even explore anyway.

No. 151616

I have dealt with one guy implying I'm not bi or "bi enough" because I don't objectify women like dudes do with locker room talk, and another guy who lowkey made me feel like I'm somehow lesser because "bi girls can leave for a woman" and that's bad but leaving for different/more dick is fine. Why can I not just be myself and how is this really that bad and different from the straight option? I don't feel "that bi" since I've had a guy preference for a while and been with a dude for ages but if things went south I had actively considered not dating men anymore.
I just am being reminded of how alone I feel sometimes and how I used to hate/doubt who I am over this. I used to doubt I was really in love with my ex because I didn't want to be bi, even though I was completely heartbroken when she left. I feel like it's totally natural for me to be open to whatever gender if I find the person attractive inside and out, and unnatural to make a big deal out of it. Being bi isn't a huge part of my life since I've been monogamous for so long, and I don't want to be one of those annoying girls with bfs who insert themselves into bi/~queer~ stuff, but I hate having to put up with the judgement. I just want to be without it being a big deal or having people push their assumptions on me instead of judging me for who I actually am personality wise.

No. 152393

The problem is you're giving scrote's opinions WAY too much credit. That's it. Don't talk to them about your sexuality, don't argue in your head with their stupid soundbites that they've forgotten saying, don't try to convince them of anything. Straight men's opinions and your actions/feelings are a whole universe apart.
I say this as somebody who was very hurt when my ex boyfriend told me I wasn't 'really' bisexual because (at the time) I hadn't slept with any women. Then I realized he was just talking bullshit about things he knew nothing about, as usual. The kicker was that he was always extremely, confidently straight, AND I TOOK HIS VIRGINITY. He didn't need experience to confirm his sexuality, but I did apparently. He even said he wished he was bisexual because they 'had more options'. That should have clued me in to how little he knew about bisexuality.

Work out where the judgement is actually coming from, and learn not to care. If you're pre-judging yourself based on what you think others are thinking? Fine, you can just work on your insecurities. From cumbrained scrotes? Literally not even worth considering. Bitter gatekeeping lesbians? Not anything to do with you.

People will literally always be annoyed at you for being yourself, in any situation. You will always be misunderstood and disliked for reasons that are nothing to do with you, because people view the world through a lens of their own bullshit and issues.

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No. 149079[Reply]

I've wanted to add more piercings to my ears for a long time but can never decide which type. I think it can look very pretty when done right but I'm wary of looking trashy and overdone. Perhaps just a second lobe piercing and a helix. Post about earrings and piercings here I guess!
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No. 151559

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I never wanted a scaffold piercing until I saw this, it looks so fucking cool. Also does anyone recognize the brand(s) these piercings are from?

No. 151574

Just google 'heart body jewelry' and you should find things similar. Just a note too to say the placement of that scaffold piercing is awful. You can see the pressure bump/dent at the top and same for the bottom which indicate it has been pierced incorrectly for this girls anatomy. If you get it done, go to someone whose work you can see online (insta/fb) and ask to see healed pics. A good piercer will be happy to show you the quality of their work before they pierce you.

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This will probably get hate but if you just want a super tiny gauge you could always do it yourself. They used to sell these little self-piercing kits at Sally's, they were white and in the shape of a box that basically functioned like a hole punch, haha. I did a few of these in my teens without issue, they healed up fine and I eventually gauged them up to 16g. Everything else I have was done by professionals working out of a tattoo shop.

I haven't gotten any in years but I used to be a little addicted to cute new piercings! Just to catalog my setup for fun:

Left ear (from bottom to top)
- 5/8" stretched (usually wear silicone tunnels)
- 3x regular holes (16g single spiral/corkscrew jewelry runs through all 3)
- top cartilage (16g little hoop)

Right ear (bottom to top)
- 5/8" stretched (usually silicone tunnels)
- 2x regular holes (16g single spiral/corkscrew jewelry runs through both)
- 2g stretched (silicone tunnel, will sometimes put 16g hoop through it too)
- tragus (16g little hoop)
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sorry if this is blog but i haven't ever had the money to spend on extraneous beauty things like piercings until very recently (i'm in my 20s lol). i just got 3 lobe piercings in february - 2 in left ear, 1 in the right - & i love them! i think i might continue to pierce the cartilage in my left ear (i have rather small ears so the piercer said no more lobe piercings) until i have a full stack on one side. this is what i currently wear daily, anyone have any suggestions on what to add?

No. 151651

Stop telling people to pierce themselves. Piercing guns are dangerous in the wrong hands and do nothing but apply blunt force trauma to soft skin/brittle cartilage, which can cause undue excess damage to it. They can shatter cartilage in an instant. As an ex-piercer, the amount of times I had to direct people to A&E due to self piercing and self piercing with guns was unreal. Embedded jewellery, wonky positioning, masses of scarring from the blunt trauma of the gun, infections, haematomas - the lot. Just don't do it. Go to someone who knows what they're doing and save yourself a world of hurt.

However, I don't disagree with self-stretching on the premise that the person doing it fully understands what the process is and doesn't give themselves blow out, but going from a standard piercing post which is 18g/1mm to 16g/1.2mm is barely even a stretch. If you're going to stretch, use the appropriate sized taper, lube and preferably glass or titanium jewellery to wear in it after the stretch. Don't wear wood or any natural materials as it can contain and hold bacteria, and silicone can adhere to the skin and cause tearing if you try to remove it.

Just please remember that if you do decide to self pierce/stretch, any fuck ups are on you, and as much as piercers like helping people in need of piercing fuck ups and making sure people are safe, there is a bounty of information out there now regarding how to get one safely etc without ruining your body. So while I'm not giving you hate, anon, just remember that it's people like me who had to deal with inconsolable teens, some in hysterics, while I had to help dress severe hypertrophic scarring, use surgical tools to remove embedded/rusting jewellery from someone in a lot of pain and all that kind of stuff. It is pretty rough to see. What I will say is this, if you're going to pierce yourself, the results are on your shoulders and your shoulders alone. Make yourself aware of the risks of using guns - if you're going to do it, get single use, surgical grade piercing needles. Be smart about it and don't act surprised if something goes wrong. p.s anon your ear projects sound cool, can we see?

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