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No. 429613
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Confession: I don't like when other black people have completely pink lips with no darker coloration around the edges/a completely brown top lip. It just doesn't look right. If you do have completely pink lips, I definitely recommend lip liner. I mean no harm.
No. 429618
>>429584The respectability politics! I live in a country where there are few black immigrants and the few who are here are hardly integrated. My mom has always instilled me the notion that I had to be always presentable and impeccable no matter what, because the white people here already had an opinion regarding people like me. This has always caused me a great deal of anxiety but now that I’m older I can appreciate it.
Looks do play a big part on how people view you unfortunately.
No. 429626
>>429613im the opposite i love this look and think its gorgeous
it looks so nice that latinas and white women began copying us and using brown liner to emulate it
>>429506i think we have the nicest skin of any race by far, honestly. when i see white people close up i kind of recoil at how dry crackled and porous their skin really is. asian skin is fine but they use so many products its kind of cheating. meanwhile all black people need is some shea/cocoa butter and we have the most gorgeous sheeny smooth flawless skin until we're 70. i really think our collagen or skin cell structure is just superior or something, ive also noticed that when we are in shape we are so much more naturally taut and toned than other races who seem to get very saggy and skinnyfat even when theyre lower weight
(racebait) No. 429639
>>429506the fact we're not as sexually deviant as other races
never met a black person who was into furry shit, incest or lolicon
meanwhile it feels like every second white person is into that crap
(racebait) No. 429687
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Why does this feel like fetish content?
No. 429688
>>429687did you watch the vid? It looks like she's analyzing cringe
WOC who worship WM online.
No. 429722
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I went natural again after a big chop, wanted to give it another go so im making an attempt, Im twisting it rn for the first time in my life. Never twisted my own hair before and…its torture. My arms have never burned like this and my hair is so short rn its like maybe 6 inches long at the most! my arms are tired i hate this! Now i see why my mom got us up so early to do our hair! I cant believe i thought i could cornrow it today. I only got the back done so im looking so crazy rn kek but it is rewarding that they dont just unravel. I really really hope I can eventually become a pro at my natural hair. I was originally planning to go to a salon but they were trying to charge me $55 for cornrows so I'm really taking my natural hair seriously this time. Im really excited but a part of me does miss having long hair. I know its gonna grow back but i still feel a little sad about it sometimes.
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Made this white girl pay me 400 for box braids, I can feel Angela Davis laughing somewhere
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I've been doing knotless braids on myself and it's so hard. It's not my first time doing them, but the last time I've done them was 2/3 years ago. I find that it's so hard to braid close to the scalp, especially when doing the back of your head, so sometimes the braid looks old and like it's slipping down the natural hair. Plus the hair I'm using sucks (fuck sensationnel) so I'm losing a lot of hair from having to detangle it. And somehow I keep finding hair in my ass crack.
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>>429824I live in a major city too but a lot of black salons here LOVE to over-charge and be so unbelievably unprofessional while they do it. When I went natural for the first time my mom and I came to this woman to get some crochet braids done a couple years back when I was like 17 or so. My mom and I didn't really know how to manage my hair. She came 2 hours late and then charged us 250 dollars despite making us sit there all day and only finishing at like 5pm despite us getting there at 11am. All of them are like this in my area, I swear. They miss appointments all together without notifying you, complain the entire time they're doing your hair, change the price on you out of nowhere when they told you a completely different price over the phone…AND still complain when people don't come to them anymore. I'm just done with trying to find a decent hairdresser, it's pointless so I'm learning my natural hair from scratch so I don't have to be getting scammed for basic protective styles. Its sad because I really do want to support local black women trying to make something with their talents but I cant support the unprofessional shit they pull.
No. 430003
>>429999definitely a retarded take, the odds are strongly stacked against black women in many areas of life especially dating which is why more black women are single than any other demographic, bw have every right to be mad and complain about it, anyone who tries to say we're martyrs or 'choosing' to be
victims is just a wilfully ignorant ass and probably white. most bw would love to have a happy healthy relationship with a man of any race who treats them right but instead we have to deal with
abusive black men, weirdo white moids who dont have an interest in loving or committing to us or simply have a slaveowner fetish for destroying black genes, asian men who think we are easier and more desperate than other races, and arab men who see us as forbidden fruit but subhuman. its amazing black women are as stoic about this subject as they are
No. 430224
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Question, nonnies - I'm going to try doing a sew-in on myself for the first time this weekend, but I'm conflicted whether I should buy a closure or just silk press my leave out. Do you think I'd get longer wear out of a closure?
No. 430267
>>429999I don't get them either. Men are not the prize. I think black
femcels just suffer from being pickmes to the point where even men can sense it and avoid them. Their self esteem is in the gutter and it's destructive
No. 430296
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I saw this on Hulu earlier and found the caption to be disgusting. I don't get how being black fits the same category as being fat or broke, especially in the context of being undesirable.
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>>430296Currently, America really likes black women to be fat and miserable because it makes them seem "humbled" through shame/struggle, plays into the mammy trope, and props up the low self-esteem of pickmes of other demographics.
No. 430391
>>430307Sure, but it isn't lost on me that we "need" multiple shows to tell the unique struggles of being a fat or otherwise unattractive black woman who's broke and has never known love, but we somehow don't "need" multiple shows to tell the stories of, say, morbidly obese and broke white women who suspect they might have autism or BPD, and the love/dating issues that may tie into that. That's a unique struggle that deserves to be heard, too, but that story goes untold for some reason, and there aren't weird hyperlibs telling white women it's what they should want to see above all else and that they're being bigoted if they don't like or relate to it, either.
Hollywood repeatedly "blesses" black women with certain kinds of backhanded "representation", but other groups are either conveniently absent, or "shamed" with the small minority of attractive people being used to represent the majority of average/below average people.
No. 430402
>>430395>Also a large proportion of black women are broke, overweight, havent had a relationship before, are we just going to pretend that huge chunk of black women does not exist?To be honest, the average woman in America is fat, finances aren't good for most people, and many relationships range from scarce to dysfunctional. The "
femcel" community was spearheaded by and is majority white women. And yet, black women are the only ones expected to want that to be their most frequent representation. Why?
No. 430410
>>429453someone plssss tell me how to achieve threadpics twists. what hair texture do i buy at the shop? hers might be really her hair but like if not how does she achieve this authenticity??
IN OTHER WORDS WHO SHE?
No. 430411
>>430409And does that change that the average white or Mestizo women are overweight, not financially well-off and also struggling? I'm not talking about one show, I'm asking why other groups can use the 1% of attractive and admirable people to represent them, but if black women are like "Why is this all fat depressed unloved failwoman self-pity shit or gross hypersexuality lol", some of you lose your minds. Lose weight, care for your appearance and yourself. Being unattractive and sad is not a racial trait.
Also, black women having the highest sexlessness rate does not match up with other statistical data, I'm sure I don't need to get into it, so do you have a source on that one? When I googled for it, nothing stating as such came up. I'd be kind of glad if it was true. Sex is easy to get for all women, but low value, so it'd be impressive for black women in reality to be avoiding it.
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>>430477Kaitlyn Tiffany types don't like it when black women call the weird ways they like to push and market us just that. I remember that black video game character designer guy talking about having a character concept for a young, pretty black woman like Tolami Benson, and his "bosses" wanted the whole thing changed so she'd be fat, unattractive and significantly older, kek. He said it wasn't the first time that had happened, either.
It's also not done out of good will. The people giving certain types of content more of a push than others aren't "just trying to help tell someone's unique story" 9 times out of 10. They don't care about our "unique stories" or us. If they did have any degree of compassion, they wouldn't be promoting normalized drug use, being "down" for crime and promiscuity. Alternatively, if they genuinely thought those things were good and "real", they'd be promoting them
far more for their own groups, but they don't.
At best, it's just bitter pickmes being passive-aggressive under the guise of "woke". At worst, they do believe in all the things they put on us. They just prefer to use black women to shield themselves from criticism. Being painted as the designated "woke" demographic and the media's firebrands or whatever isn't good. It just means we have all the redditors from other groups glomming onto us in weird ways and pulling "Look, we're showing a black woman doing this unhealthy thing! Surely, you wouldn't dare to disagree with something we purposely portrayed a
black woman doing, right? That would be
racist, heh, gotcha" to legitimize things they'd rightfully get backlash for trying with their own community. That also means that other idiots, instead of noticing the pattern and calling out their own for cowardice, think it's "real" and start despising and blaming us for it. They believe that we not only agree with, but embody everything fucked up in the world, conveniently forgetting that it's their own kind funding, producing and promoting all of it to society.
It's insane that if I just want to see shows or movies with normal, even pretty (fully) black women, I have to avoid the current era and consume media from the 60s to the early 2000s. Media is just slop. I'm not saying it was evergreen in the past, but it's pure garbage now. We're not allowed to just be human beings anymore. Current media deliberately primes people to believe black women are inherently subversive and controversial, I hate it.
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>>430506My therapist agrees with me and also dislikes the narratives modern media perpetuates about us, kek. I'm a black woman, and I'm allowed to not like how strange white people with too much time and money on their hands portray my demographic. Maybe you like being stereotyped and insulted, but not all of us do (and this is assuming you're black, since I know this thread attracts all kinds of people who are either ignorant, or just have weird ideas about what we should accept from them). Many other black women have complained about the same things, and they will continue to do so up until things change.
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>>430509She's the exact type who'd try to gaslight an entire meeting room into thinking that "a morbidly obese woman who's constantly angry (but make it black)" is the perfect black or "BIPOC" (gross acronym) representation. Weird and snakey, including to other white women.
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I dont understand this black women are fat narrative, is this to do with african Americans? Id appreciate if someone could explain to me. There are plenty of africans that are thin and its weird that people assume that black women are all fat. My family are african and are all tall and slim.
No. 430532
>>430520Agreed. It is to do with African-Americans, but even then, it doesn't make sense from a statistical standpoint. According to Google, there is a 10% difference between black and white women's average weights in the USA (170.9lbs vs 187lbs). It's very weird that some people act like black women are all just landwhales while all other women are thin/normal, when it's more like America is full of fat people. Certain racial groups are allowed to chiefly represent themselves with thin, fit or normal weight actors and actresses, though.
The mammy stereotype of the slavery days coalesces with the fat acceptance movement (which was started by an American white man for his wife), which, in turn, ties into America's fucked up food culture, love of excess and odd, two-faced racism. The fat acceptance stuff gained traction in left-leaning academic spaces, often coming up as a feminist discussion, and since intersectionality became a popular (and heavily abused/misinterpreted) talking point in the 2010s, they also started latching onto black women and using them as figureheads for media operations. There are still some white fat acceptance people who say being fat is like being black, and go on about "fatphobia" as if it's racism, and there are some black enablers who try to argue that being fat is some kind of inherent black trait, and being "fatphobic" is the same as being "anti-black", but neither science or history corroborate these talking points. Both people like that and more obvious racists whose only form of confidence comes from shitting on black women tend to get annoyed when anyone questions this sort of thing.
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>>43052050% of african american woman are obese, the highest of any race. this trend is even more pronounced among black women for some reason compared to black men
source:
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>>430537It is a difference, but if the average for both demographics are essentially "overweight, obese and a handful of normal women" and "obese, overweight, and a smaller handful of normal women", it means that if we're actually out to reflect reality through media narratives, both should have their main representation be fat people until they lose significant amounts of weight. Like, being fat is considered something to rein in for white women, and overweight/obesity ""activism"" is considered counterculture, but for black women, people act like it's somehow good/normal and we should be okay with it, despite the health risks and the weight of all the other issues already facing the black community, especially when it comes to medical discrimination. The whole thing is very weird and not in our best interest IMO.
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>>430477We will never have those hot black women like they did in the 1990s
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I like not being fat. Some of my friends are, but they are working on losing weight, and I support them. I don't support any habits that send black women into an early grave. I also don't support media that encourages or frames obesity as some integral part of "being black". Fat acceptance is a movement by and for a certain subgroup of white people, they're into it for their own (misguided, consoomerist) reasons, and there are no benefits to it for us. There is an undoubtedly predatory and racist aspect to how they apply it to us, too. Poor health and food choices have no place in a community of insanely resilient people who struggled tirelessly to earn their freedom from inhumane forced labor and subjugation (some are still trying to attain freedom in many parts of the world) while still maintaining insane athletic prowess, skin literally advantageous to grass-touching and sunshine, and naturally beautiful hip to waist ratios (BBLs are a hideous, porn-brained mockery of nature's perfection btw). Obesity is a waste of what we were born with.
No. 430782
>>430777>propaganda Schizophrenia full stop
You should stop getting so angry about non issues it's really not that serious
No. 430886
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I kind of hate listening to a nice song by a black female artist, just for it to break into a section for some rapper scrote. The rap is always half-assed, and sometimes the lyrics have fuck-all to do with the rest of the song.
Like, the music stood well on its own, lmao. It's not women's fault that scrote listeners will only care if there's a fellow degenerate male talking about pussy and drugs somewhere in it, and female artists shouldn't have to give these men spots just to sell. At least put on female rappers who understand and work with the themes you're singing about, not random scrotes talking nonsense. I always forget how common it is because I mostly listen to rock and electronic music, and then I'm reminded again with other genres and pop-oriented stuff.
No. 430897
>>430886Nobody gives a fuck
Stream twigs
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What do you think?
No. 431007
>>430987I have never heard a black person bash immigrants. I have no idea what she's talking about
This is the problem with spending too much time on Twitter. That shit isn't real life
No. 431098
>>431030Yeah, a lot of black people who do that forget that they're trying very hard to appease the lowest common denominator. We're talking about people so dumb that they still regularly mistake Indians for black. In much the same way no Haitian is exempt from the harsh stereotypes and discrimination applied to African-Americans, African-Americans are subject to the stereotypes and discrimination other black communities get.
At best, they'll pretend to know the difference for the sake of a single argument, but the LARP falls apart in practice (and when you hear them talk for more than 5 minutes, or ask them to identify who is from what group with pictures). And yeah, at the end of the day, no matter how much of a normal, decent person you are, right wing retards still see you as "the jew's golem" that eventually needs to be eradicated. The best we can all do is denounce and punish people who do fucked up things without selling each other under the river.
No. 431176
>>431156I absolutely agree, black women have to respect higher standards in order to be considered beautiful. In order for a black woman to be considered beautiful she has to have a great body (hourglass, with shape, but not fat) and she has to have a slimer nose , soft feature , even skin tone, light skin etc…and if she is ever that then her features are considered “eurocentric” kek. We can never win. An example of this is Anok Yai.
There’s also no in between, you’re either beautiful or you’re ugly.
I live in europe and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard “you’re pretty…for a black girl” or “your nose is different from all other Africans” or other retarded comments.
I mean I still think that women, no matter their skincolor are just pressured to look a certain way, society empathizes that women who have no attractiveness hold no value, just look at how ugly women are treated. It’s just that for us racism plays a big part too.
No. 431183
>>430987I’m not from the USA so I can’t really speak about the situation.
But I just want to say that we’re all black at the end of the day, the racist man or woman won’t ever stop and see “oh this is not an Afro American, it’s a dirty immigrant from Africa” , they won’t care. They simply start with them because it’s easier and more vulnerable.
Playing the token minority does nothing, look at asians for example. They protested against the affirmative action but instead got their ass handed to them, instead of going after legacy admission.
No. 431185
>>431183>the racist man or woman won’t ever stop and see “oh this is not an Afro American, it’s a dirty immigrant from Africa” In America it sorta works in reverse, blacks from Africa have higher status than American born blacks. You kinda have to be American to get it. If you ever see a black person in America bash immigrants (and that never actually happens outside of Twitter, btw), they are bashing the Latinos/Asians/Middle Easterners who are invading their neighborhoods, not the immigrants from Africa who nobody gives a shit about.
>Playing the token minority does nothing, look at asians for example. They protested against the affirmative action but instead got their ass handed to themThey weren't protesting affirmative action, they were protesting how colleges were deliberately selecting against Asians by adopting a de facto Asian quota. Even if not a single black person was going to those schools the Asian applicants would have faced the exact same issues
No. 431203
>>431176I never got comments like that in the US. And people always say Europeans are less racists than Americans.
>>431156They just see it as typical gross black rapper behavior so it doesn't shock them that much. Cassie opened the can of worms, she isn't black, and it still wasn't huge news then, so I'm not sure what the race of
victims has to do with it.
No. 431208
>>431203Samefag, the racism is absolutely present, it just manifests in a different manner. It’s most often in the form of micro aggressions and it’s hard to rent houses too because they don’t like renting to immigrants , same goes for jobs and dating too. For example someone might be attracted to me but they never get past the “being with a black girl” mentality so I just don’t bother with it. I do get asked out by the men here , but I can see that most of them just want the “exotic” experience kek. And the few black men my age don’t date black women lol, they chase after the white ones.
There’s not a lot of integration where I live as of now and I plan to just finish my studies and love hopefully.
No. 431212
>>431203>it still wasn't big huge newsCassie's lawsuit was big news, Diddy's raid/the video of him beating her was literally revealed on CNN, all of these things were trending on twitter, and even youtubers who barely touch famous people degeneracy were making videos on Diddy. Even chalking it up to "Degenerate black rapper" is weird because this goes beyond some small conflict. This is a billionare being accused or systemtically raping/beating/black mailing women/men into filming videos of sexual acts, Trafficking women and girls (alledgy). They even said after Cassie exposed him he was still doing his "freak offs". Diddy's not lil Baby or some sound cloud rapper.
He once hosted one of the biggest parties in hollywood, he was once respected by people of all professions, and now he's going to jail for being a sex obessed
abusive rapist freak.
No. 431221
>>431217You are confusing me, I am that nonna who brought up CNN, I think you are misreading what I'm writing. I'm
>>431214 >>431212
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>>431156You're right on both things. I think the standards tend to be lower for white people because they're seen as the default. They don't have to prove white people can be attractive, because they obviously don't "other" themselves in their own culture, and they have the money and power to give themselves good PR internationally. Black people aren't really considered the norm and don't have the wealth for good global PR, so we don't have that assumption. It's more like we have to "prove" we're attractive to change certain narratives, some people will still make you out to be an exception if you're attractive, and racists have a vested interest in disparaging us and trying to claim any of us that are attractive must have white/non-black ancestry. They're pathetic lol.
And yeah, I think it's assumed that most of Diddy's
victims were young black girls, and since little black girls are the most hypersexualized/made out to be more "grown up" than they actually are and neglected, other people tend to ignore what they go through. There was a time I'd feel bad being reminded of this and want to talk about it with other anons or radfems, but I feel like there's no way to really discuss it without attracting bad faith freaks and /pol/tards. It may change with time, I know not everyone thinks that way, but I'm not really getting my hopes up. I'm just glad that disgusting creature is going to jail.
This is also one reason why even though I hate misogyny and am quick to defend women over men (race aside), I don't invest myself too much in mainstream feminism anymore, outside of the most obvious stuff. Some of us are seen as inherently less worthy of protection, and I'd rather not support that. Sadly, even intraracial female solidarity seems to be getting rarer among all groups of women these days. No. 431486
>>431443The only effort they think we are capable of is slave work, and sex slavery. They can’t imagine that we can actually do the math, create projects, actually network with people, etc.
It sucks knowing that most feminists don’t feel anything to us, even though we do benefit from some feminism. Thank god for the laws but I feel like we could be better. This is like the failed attempt with intersectionality.
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>>431443The root of AA discourse is the idea that we’re here at all, the idea that we can be competition. Most nonblack people have very low opinions of us and believe there is a low place for us in life, and we can never rise above it (at least without extreme coonery).
People forget there are millions of students worldwide trying to apply for a scant 1000 spots, it’s crazy competition. Colleges have to increase standards and make new rules for who gets to come in. Legacy students come first because that’s where the money is. Schools in the US care more about status and money than pure merit.
I want to expand on this later, but a lot of people, especially progressive whites, do not see us as fellow people but as tools. They love using black women for their weird neuroticisms and making us the face of their deranged ideologies. We aren’t seen as individuals so nonblack people just assume whatever is in media is always true of us.
It feels like no matter the time period, we’re always the problem, the scapegoat for all politics.I don’t wanna be too down. Honestly, the best thing we can do is focus on what we can control—our actions, our growth, and our mindset. Limit time on social media, even here on lolcow as they are distractions to your higher goals in life. People are always gonna have opinions on us, and a lot of them are wrong, but stressing over it won’t change a thing. Just live according to your values, keep pushing forward, and let the rest go. What others think or say is out of your hands, so why give it space in your head?
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Excerpts from From Women's Consciousness and the Southern Black Movement by Sara Evans. Apparently nothing is new under the sun, and the gender dynamics between BW and BM has always been like this (1/2)
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>>431547More Excerpts From Women's Consciousness and the Southern Black Movement by Sara Evans. (2/2)
Look at this woman, what is there to be afraid? You’re not the one being beaten from police brutality
No. 431575
>>431566But why were black women on the streets? Where were the black men?
>>431563They go together like PB and J. There are times I think that the black race should slowly mix with other groups and cease to exist in this earth in the next few millennia (maybe speed up the process with genetic engineering?). No one can maintain a family, BM will always hate BW and there’s nothing you can do to change his mind. Every political movement post-1965 flops, mainstream media is so ghetto, everyone feels so grossed out by you, I hate this community and I hate being born into it
No. 431577
>>431575The entire human species will be gone soon for hating everything related to nature, including the color brown.
Not sorry to tinfoil, but trees are brown and some retarded ass cultures think dark colors are ominous, so they hate the color of trees and all other brown things in nature, including soil. Whites hate that color so much, they had no empathy for the trees and soil they destroyed with their "inventions." This is a reversal of the past when dark femme figures that represented the dark soil were worshipped globally. Humans let go of that to chase a sterile soulless existence and are going to burn literally.
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>>431547Kek, sorry, but aside from the black groups of the past obviously being more sympathetic, I don't see this dynamic as much different from how white women in RW/""trad"" spaces today have to watch white men link up with and thirst over non-white women (except that white men do it with more than one race).
Across the board, it seems like women are always more "loyal" to any specific race or a cause.
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IMO, this is also pertinent to both the past and present positions of black women in the feminist and anti-racist struggles.
It's from Intimate Justice: The Black Female Body and the Body Politic by Shatema Threadcraft.
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>>431692Same book. It's not lost on me that militant black men would shame black women out of feminine activities like wearing makeup and going to beauty salons, and they weren't to be "flirty" with men outside their race, but these same black men were happy with white women doing all those things. Black women were fighting police officers in the streets and essentially got pushed into not only de-feminizing, but essentially unsexing themselves to be race warriors who disregarded their own female struggle, all while black men still put them in a secondary (not equal or leading) position and championed the cause of "reclaiming" their own masculinity.
No. 431901
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Why do makeup brands hate Golloria and DSBW in the first place? First Youthforia, and now YSL? Seems like mocking black women is cheap marketing. I’ve seen this pattern where brands use the image of a black woman or one mocking her to gain attention, because they can’t sell something based on quality alone.
No. 431963
>>431901Youthphoria was just incompetency, laziness and poor quality IMO. I forgot that brand existed after the foundation thing, and haven't seen people bring it up since (justifiably). I don't know if a large brand like YSL would need to market themselves on "We don't know how to make blush", either. I'm sure cheap/very low quality brands dip into marketing the way you described, though.
What's funny to me is that there are delusional people who think DSBW "bully" brands into including them. Oh no, the poor, defenseless little multi-million dollar corporations are being "forced" by the women with dark skin.
No. 431991
>>431892Yeah, I also find it hard to believe that THAT many black women are chan-browsing
femcels.
Although if most of this isn’t just some weird LARP, then I feel deeply sympathetic to all the shit black girls are going through. I don’t have much experience with black moids (or moids in general because I’m gay), but I genuinely hope that the black community overall can genuinely solve all its deep-seated issues,
For what it’s worth, I also think natural black women are beautiful and I’d love to date one someday (unfortunately where I live there are not many…)
No. 432013
>>431892Whenever you see a weird post insinuating every black woman on the planet is automatically fat and ugly and undateable or whatever, its definitely one of them. Men want women (especially black and brown women) to believe femceldom possible and common so they'll be desperate with low standards, but try as they might, they'll never actually leave women alone, and we see the proof interpersonally and in passing.
The other thing is that it's not just white/jewish moids posting, but you already know that. Unfortunately, a man being misogynistic doesn't make him avoid or ignore women, especially if they're women who might resemble his family members. It's kind of the opposite. Misogyny isn't about not wanting to sleep with somebody, it's about the femicide, abuse, entitlement and constant haranguing moids love to engage in.
No. 432171
>>432157this
>tfw you can’t live in a cute little shithole drinking water out of plastic baggies i watched some of this woman’s videos and apparently in the “apartment” she lives in their electricity is shut off at a specific time, now imagine a bunch of pampered westerners like us having to work around our life schedule because of this inconvenience. poverty, ruralism is the way to stopping environmental destruction, if only we can teach them to stop giving birth to so many scrotes it would be sustainable
No. 432195
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>Wanna ask a genuine question about racism
>Look in past threads and see that most of them turn into into back-to-back /pol/ racebait arguing
I suppose this leaves room to ask, what are you supposed to do if you want to talk about race-related things and you have no friends of your race/in your country to talk to who will understand? I feel like finding friends is so difficult lately, even online.
No. 432229
>>432192>this whole hellhole world functions on the back of unpaid black labor for centuriesDude what? If anything it functions off the backs of unpaid Chinese children. For the past 20 years about 30% of the world’s exports come from China. Extrapolating the trans-atlantic slave trade to today’s globalized economy and the western world to the entire world is illogical at best.
>>432193America isn’t the world. The West isn’t the world.
No. 432276
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Why do retards who don't realize that Africa is constantly being exploited for natural resources, used as an easy hub for international human trafficking (women, children and men), and being forced to pay "colonial taxes" always have the most to say? Things that could be learned about in 20 minutes, but their attention spans are too short. They don't care about the subject, but they sperg endlessly.
>butbut what about China>the west isn't the worldAnd Chinese scrotes exploit African women and children, while MENA countries traffic them for modern slavery and go completely unchecked. Of course you don't know about this because you're a retard who only takes what he's spoonfed, ie whatever's easiest to digest within the context of burger racial hierarchies, which place Asians as babyish, meek and submissive, blacks as big, strong and domineering and Arabs as religious nutjobs who only ever hurt Europeans and no one else. I do not care.
>>432232Not to mention Europeans and Americans dumping their broken electronics illegally in African countries after they're done, and deliberately forcing their used clothes onto those countries, threatening economic sanctions for wanting to improve their local clothing manufacturers.
https://www.africanews.com/2017/06/21/rwanda-tanzania-and-uganda-face-us-sanction-after-used-clothes-ban/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electronic_waste_in_Africa No. 432385
sigh this is what happens when you start a black race general thread on an imageboard, male and female pol-tards camp out in the threads! it’s the only reason why the black girl ones have so many more compared to the other race themed female generals, autist racists and their obsessive tendencies towards their special interests, the niggers
seriously, other races are so fucking obsessed with black women, black people honestly. like, there's never been an instance where a group of black supremacist have gone to troll up a white supremacy forum like stormfront, unlike vice-versa, the closest they’ve ever gotten were random retarded black kids trying to show their humanity to those grown ass retards on some “why can’t we all just get along, why must you be so hateful”, bullshit. lsa posters know about 4channers being mods there, they’ve had threads about david duke, the dude who made stormfront, giving a shout out about lsa on twitter! reddit has always been racist as fuck and filled blackfishers and coons trying to appeal to everyone that isn’t black, damn near every damn race that is not black stay camped out in the black targeted forums! initially, i was mad as fuck that this thread was made, imageboards have always been racist, but i get it now - there’s legit nowhere to fucking go online
No. 432390
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>>432358Who said anything about "foundational black americans"? Do you think America is the only place in the world with black people?
>they wouldn’t be tapping on their phones and computers without widespread global exploitationThis is not a smart thing to say, lol. Do you guys say this to white women? "You can't complain about global misogyny and female exploitation, you wouldn't even have a shirt to wear if it wasn't for women being forced to work under inhumane conditions in sweatshops day and night! And who would mine all those parts for your phones and computers if it wasn't for underage girls in faraway countries being raped and/or forced to carry babies under conditions of poverty?? Lol you benefit off the so-called exploitation, how dare you call these things bad"? What a disgusting view of the world.
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>>432385>the closest they’ve ever gotten were random retarded black kids trying to show their humanity to those grown ass retards on some “why can’t we all just get along, why must you be so hateful”, bullshit.This is so sad and true. I feel like every little introverted black or biracial kid has had that "We can end racism by being nice and trying to make friends" phase. Nope. Unfortunately, some people are just shit to the core and dedicated to hating you without reason, then self-victimizing. They have to learn by themselves, and some never will. It's funny to see a certain type of white person go on about being instilled with "white guilt" while harassing innocent black people any way they can, at every turn, from history to the present. They're the types of people who swear violence, hatred and aggression are in our genes, and just ignore how they've acted, what they've done, what they still do and how they still act.
>"but but muh black crime"I hope everyone who's made a living off bashing innocent black children and women over what others have done (especially moids) gets stranded in Detroit lol.
No. 432395
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I always wondered, if black criminality is the problem, the thing "making them racist", why do they venerate Dylann Roof, the autistic bowlcut /pol/tard who used to go strip clubs for black women to exploit, and call him "based" for killing 9 kind, elderly black people in a church who welcomed him? It's because all of those pathetic subhumans are too weak and cowardly to do anything about anyone who's actually violent. They're deathly terrified of anyone as fucked up as them or worse. It'll always be easier to prey on the naive and good-hearted, then cry that they're actually the good guys.
No. 432431
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>>432385LEGIT everyone is obsessed with us please nonnies don't be naive to assume it's just white people its EVERYONE nonblack. I can't wait for the sun to get brighter and hotter and burn and poision all these racist pale creatures. It makes me so happy seeing people abuse bleaching and being obsessed with being as white as a4 paper. yes make your skin vulnerable to the UVs. The Sun is God she sees everything and she will get her lick back.
(alogging) No. 432441
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Anons I wish you all wouldn't get so wound up about nonblacks and their obsession with us. Being a black woman is tough but let's try and keep things positive for the mental health of us all here okay?
No. 432442
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>>432441Having said that what's everybody's favorite black anime character?
No. 432464
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>>432442Carole from Carole&Tuesday!
No. 432549
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>>432385Racism is a delusional disorder. If you really didn’t like someone, you would just avoid them instead of agitating them and mimicking them online. For example, I don’t like frat boys, I always avoid them at school. I’m not harassing them or putting them down or anything like that. I go my way and so do they.
As Toni Morrison once said, racism is a distraction. Racists try to get you to waste your time proving your humanity over and over agin. Take that energy you would on smacking them down and refocus it onto yourself. Log off, pick up a hobby, read something new, talk to an old friend - your world gets better when you focus on what is truly important to you
>>432442Can I bring up this classic character, Michiko Malandro?
No. 432673
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>>432442I love canary, she's so cute
No. 433117
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>>432969>a demographic who are more marginalized Kek. You haven't had much exposure to those people or heard what they say about us. They are not more marginalized than us. A man does not put on a skirt and face more struggle than a black woman in life, sorry. They themselves are acutely aware of this and love trying to use black women as a footstool. They do not feel allyship with you or look up to you except in the sense that they're envious of your status as an oppressed woman and will try to make you suffer for it, demand your service and attempt to skin-walk you, all at different points. Outbursts like pic related are common, trans Nazis are common, derisive comments casually made about black women are extremely easy to find. There are white trannies seething that a straight man will date a black woman, but not them, and black trannies like Laverne Cox blaming black women for black men not wanting to sleep with them and "claim" them openly. You genuinely have to hate yourself and be the most insecure being alive to support trannies after actually listening to them about black women for 5 minutes, and that's still ignoring their male crime patterns and insanely high rates of sex offense.
No. 433204
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>>433196That's what the entire community accepts and tolerates, and nobody checks them. There are a ridiculous number of examples of this behavior, and it's considered acceptable in their safe spaces. If anti-black racism is fine by you, feel free to check out some literature and quotes by powerful, respected trans figures like Alok Vai and Andrea Long-Chu, as well as the support from the trans community, just to figure out what else you're fine with when the speaker insists they're oppressed and marginalized.
I do wonder why you ended up on this site if you're a handmaiden, but if you're an actual woman, you'll just learn the same way everyone else did.
Anyway, to bring it back to black women, I'm glad I stopped muling for other groups' causes. I've noticed that people respect you more when they sense that you aren't some kind of weird savior/martyr complex type and that they can't pull the wool over your eyes. I'll always advocate for keeping the same energy others give us.
No. 433275
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>>433210theyre literally bait idk how you guys dont see this
>>433269 this fuck is probably the same one saying "im not twansphobic" to keep baiting. just report idiots and farmhands will literally remove them. This site is literally known as the transphobic
terf site to anyone who could stumble into it nowadays. And if they don't see the neon signs they'll eventually show their tranny kissing ass and get banned.
In other news I want to personally thank rihanna's brand for creating the perfect shade match for my skin tone, literally every other brand is either too dark,light, or reddish to match my skin tone but 350c is somehow the magic formula and it covers everything! So if anyone is struggling finding a good concealer that doesn't turn us micheal jacksonish i really recommend "Soft'Lit Naturally Luminous Hydrating Longwear Concealer/Foundation"
No. 433293
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>>432127You complain "Black people love to cry and never solve their problems" and then you continue to saying cultures mixing "solved" our problems, as if it's something to be proud about KEK. This is just pathetic rambling.
No. 433322
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and i swear bm are the only men who openly brag about ditching women as single moms and use us having their babies as a weapon against bw. they tell us 'now no other man will want you' and '3 kids, a little too late for you now' bragging that they've tanked our romantic option and marked us as 'theirs'. it's disgusting. even if other races of men share these sentiments i dont think ive seen anyone except bm openly weaponize motherhood and childbirth against us the way bm do all the time. there was that tiktok of that one dumb white lady who exposed her black ex for saying 'who's gonna want a single mom of two black kids now?' makes my skin crawl, god.
No. 433330
>>433317>all men with money or power get corrupted but black men are the worst for itThat's what I'm trying to say, Diddy was always bad. He wasn't corrupted by power/wealth, he was a born predator
If Biggie had lived, can you imagine him ever having done something like what Diddy is accused of? Hell no
No. 433339
>>433334mill has always been the zestiest of the zesty lmao
poor nicki i hope she didnt catch anything from that nasty dick
No. 433353
I personally like that I make people seethe by existing idk if it’s just me maybe I’m mentally ill but it gives me a self esteem boost knowing that I could look bummy as hell in a room full of beautiful girls but everyone is going to pay attention to me simply because I’m black.
>>432934It isn’t lost on me that the nonblax came crawling out after you said that. Nothing worse in the world than a bw that outright refuses to mule lol. The concept is just so upsetting that it made them come out from hiding I’m dead
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>>433353Literally, we have weird non-blacks and trannies stalking this thread, foaming at the mouth and calling eachother "based" for going psycho. I kind of hope they keep showing their true colors and proving us right. The few remaining black women who defend them will be freed from their bleeding hearts, and everyone else will stop wondering why we avoid and dismiss them kekkkk
No. 433501
>>433478NTA but shut up, even
she doesn't see herself as black, kek.
No. 433586
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>>433576perfect timing anon, my parents just coerced my sister to call me to send my uncle in Africa some money because he has prostate cancer and mental health issues. They always do shit like that, wanting me to waste my money on some family member i barely know. He will probably die anyways and i bought a candle right after that call for $40. Even if i knew them, tbh i still wouldn't spend money on anyone for whatever reason because i don't believe anybody would do it for me and because i am not doing out of the kindness of my heart, i am being bullied into it.
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No. 433645
>>433589Never settle and don’t waste time on those who seem confused, it has to an enthusiastic yes , otherwise it’s a no or just someone who wants to waste your time and have an “exotic” experience (ew).
Dating as a minority is always going to be hard when you live in a predominantly white country, surrounded by people who don’t look like you.
No. 433717
Is anyone familiar with Exoticals United? I saw her mentioned in these threads some time ago. She's becoming cow-tier to me. I kind of want to post about her in the personal cows thread, but I'm scared she'll purge her channel and delete everything, and I'm not entirely convinced most non-black people can comprehend this particular brand of racial schizophrenia.
>makes an entire channel talking about being biracial/racially ambiguous (ie an "exotical") and how jealous dark-skinned black women bullied and mistreated her all her life
>mocks dark-skinned black women for wearing wigs/weaves, uses unflattering photos in her slideshows to represent them, accuses them of bleaching their skin (with special accusations launched against a YouTuber named Paris Milan), insists mixed women are the beauty standard of the entire black community, etc
>makes "life guru" style videos on decentering men (bit contradictory since most of her talking points re: race are about desirability politics and male attention), storytimes about "life as an exotical", celebrity gossip, etc
>has a special dislike for a black female YouTuber named Chrissie and gets into drama with her
>all her talk about dark-skinned black women gets her negative attention from LSA, including some mixed users who find her questionable
>she mocks LSA users at first (never addressing the mixed users, only the ones she assumes to be black), then she starts watering down what she defines as "exotical" from being visibly mixed or very light-skinned to just having 25% non-black ancestry, or being fully black, having medium brown (or even dark) skin and occasionally being asked if you're mixed (eg she started describing Megan Thee Stallion and women from certain African countries as "exotical")
>seemingly out of nowhere, she also starts to soften her comments on skin bleaching, wigs/weaves and talk about liking the look of synthetic hair, having different skin bleaching products in her arsenal to "get rid of tans" and claims that "exoticals like her" see no problem with "maintaining their light skin" and "leveling up their beauty", etc
>her rationalization for this is that it's "okay" for anyone to do those things as long as they "pay their exotical tax"
>some users on LSA smell a rat and start trying to doxx her
>she continues to mock LSA, but doesn't address the doxxing attempts except to say that she'll never confirm or deny anything
>makes a few more videos on "colorism crybabies" and sells courses on "dark femininity"
>after a couple of faildoxxes, LSA end up finding her
>she's a dark-skinned, black-passing woman named Artonique Nelson who now calls herself "Blaxican Baddie" (her mother is mixed race, while her father is black - before she underwent some changes to her appearance she looked like Keke Palmer with slightly darker skin)
>she's confirmed to have been bleaching her skin for a few years when comparing new photos with old modelling ones, and she always wore weaves or wigs
>all doubt that the dox is real are removed after they find out she runs/ran at least two other channels (one on Shein clothing reviews, and an older one on being Christian and married to an Asian man, who she divorced at some point, vidrel is a clip from her old Christian channel), she was featured on the news a couple of times as a reporter, and her voice and certain life details (modelling in the past, height, university) are the exact same as the EU channel
>some biracial YouTubers start discussing the dox and how she's been claiming to be one of them for her inflammatory talking points, one YouTuber who she's openly admitted knows her real name and life confirms the dox is real, and another says she once joined one of their streams to ask if she "counts" as light-skinned and sent them her face (something they say they've never seen an actual biracial person ask)
>around the same time, EU posts an AI generated recording of Chrissie bashing biracial women and claiming they should be murdered and raped, says that it was "hidden behind her (Chrissie's) paywall" and begins attacking black women, calling them "nappy-headed", saying "There's nothing for you here if you are 100% black, the world is our oyster as exoticals" and other unhinged shit
>she makes another video claiming the dox is fake and accuses Chrissie of being the ringleader, calls the mixed YouTubers who were talking about and confirming the dox's validity "white supremacist biracials" and says "unambiguous black women" are just fat and jealous because "the exoticals are finally speaking out"
>Chrissie strikes down the video of the audio clip EU posted, makes a video calling her out on lying about her ancestry/appearance and says this is just another example of what dark-skinned black women face for holding colorists accountable
>EU posts multiple videos in a row spiralling about the whole mess, and then one more video with herself as the thumbnail with the title "They're Hating On You Because You're a STAR"
No. 433718
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>>433717This is her prior to bleaching, back when she appeared in her HBCU's fashion shows.
https://voguediaspora.blogspot.com/2012/07/ready-for-runway-artonique.html No. 433725
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>>433718And this is her now. It's not lost on me that in her "They're Hating On You Because You're a STAR" video on the EU channel, she makes sure to
only use photos/videos of herself from after her divorce and skin bleaching.
https://www.instagram.com/blaxican_baddie/reel/DAYi5BWRVSj/Learning more about her and her life (she grew up somewhere with a very low black population and got bullied, her dad was in jail, etc) I kind of feel bad for her, but she's honestly been very vile toward women of her own natural skintone/phenotype, and IMO it's wrong for her to pass her own specific issues off as the "biracial/exotical experience" when she's not that. It's clear to me now that all the insane, verbally
abusive things she said about fully black women were projections of her own self hatred.
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>>433725On her Flickr account from 2012 with more old photos of her, she titled herself things like "Indian Queen", and on an old ask.fm people found, there are some obvious self-sent questions saying things like "What's it like being light-skinned and beautiful?". She was never ugly, but I think she was always mentally ill and hung up on looking like her mother/avoiding her blackness.
https://www.flickr.com/photos/artoniquenelson/ No. 433728
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i love hair grease. My headcanon is the only reason why grease stopped being a staple and started to be ridiculed is because biracials with looser textured hair started to become the face of the natural hair movement and i don't think grease work's as good on their hair. (correct me if im wrong biracial nonnies). So far Grease has been the only thing to combat my shrinkage, maintain my texture, moisturize my hair and get rid of my dandruff. I still use leave ins but I started adding grease as the final sealant and my hair really enjoys it. I will say you will become a grease ball but no one is touching my hair but me so i really dgaf and honestly I think it helps with nail growth over time anyway. If you have 4c high porosity hair and are struggling to maintain moisture try adding grease. People also say it's impossible to wash out but all you need is a clarifying shampoo. If you are scared of clarifying shampoos make sure you deep condition to get the moisture back. More than anything though grease is cheap af in this struggling economy and we won't ever have to worry about others gentrifying it because it is so damn greasy lol. I hope more black owned hair companies start researching more about grease and coming out with their own lines.
No. 433732
>>433726it's filled with trannies, white dudes and self haters. it used to be ok but now it's just diaapora wars and retardation. even the celebrity threads are ass now, so not worth the headache to scroll.
On another note does anyone else listen to Alexias(prettyweirdgorl from tiktok) podcast? I feel like every episode she gets closer to being based but her lefty audience holds her back from showing her real opinions.
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>>434124Yeah, it’s crazy how people get treated so differently based on race, even when they're doing the exact same stuff. White girls or even Asian girls can get away with things and still be seen as sweet or innocent, while Black women are instantly judged and labeled in the worst ways. It’s like we don’t even get the chance to mess up without being harshly criticized, while others get a free pass just because of how they look. The double standard is exhausting and so unfair.
No. 434235
>>434221definitely yes. gay white men love pretending to be us and think we're hilarious silly little caricatures. they want to film everything they do like we were a wildlife documentary because they just find it SO hilarious. non-black gay
poc want nothing to do with us but worship campy blonde women like sabrina carpenter and gaga.
No. 434284
>>434240agreed that it's fucked, but I don't know if it's really possible to have your own spaces in an online environment.
Why does lolcow have so many larping moids? Because moids are fascinated by women. Why does the black girl thread have so many larping non blacks? Because non blacks are fascinated with black people
No. 434309
>>434288I lurk white males spaces*,not because I want to larp as a white male, but because most of my work/hobbies just happen to have a lot of white guys. I like metal, so do a lot of white guys. The average fan of metal music is a white guy. I don’t really expect anything unusual about that.
I just hate it when people presume I must exclusively love rap and I must be some kind of “Oreo” for hating its mainstream misogyny. Say what you will about metal, it’s not mainstream and people don’t feel shame or fear when critiquing it’s culture. Also, there’s way more white guys in America than there are black women in total in America. Sometimes it’s a number game.
*Also early internet spaces were mostly white male by default, because they were the first group to have access and thus set the cultural standards in nerdy/online spaces in general
No. 434397
>>434383Half black people aren’t black. It’s ok to make that distinction. And they aren’t being erased. They are being pushed quite heavily as the face of black girl and womanhood.
>>434355 feels the need to defend ir couples because she knows she actually isn’t actually black. If she was she wouldn’t even care about anti race mixing people.
Anyways I don’t really wanna go back and forth about this so we’ll have to agree to disagree.
No. 434683
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>>432442Nobody mentioning dorothy? Weeb jail. All of you.
No. 434819
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The absolute state of LSA
No. 434851
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>>434828I'm not involved in any politics here, but Jasmine Crockett's actually cute, and sorry, but MTG looks like a crypt-keeper. I can see why the latter would be malding about another woman's appearance, but it was dumb of her to say that out loud and then complain when it got thrown back in her face, kek.
No. 434934
>>433728Finally, someone brings this up. I agree 1000%. I cut all my relaxed hair off in January, and stopped using all heat around July. I've since been jumping around to all different types of products from gels, to mousse's, to butters, and truth be told out of everything I've tried, nothing quite quenches my curls like the greases do. Blue Magic, Du grow?, and Indian Hemp are my absolute favorites. Usually even just a little indian hemp grease keeps my ends moisturized perfectly. Dax is good too. I think the key is to just not go overboard, and focus on the ends. I've also found that misting my hair before styling makes dealing with it 20x easier, and that washing 1 to 2 times a week also makes my hair grow noticeably faster. Clean scalp is everything in terms of growth.
I've never had the pillowcase grease issue, but it could be because I wrap my hair every night before I sleep, and in terms of difficulty washing it out, as another said, a clarifying shampoo gets it all out just fine!
No. 435479
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Saw this in another thread and the sad part is, I can't tell if this is a racist white girl or an internet brainrotted black girl. Black academics must pay for their crimes. A lot of them are miserable ivory tower people who intellectualized the misery. This isn't counting people like angela davis but fat activists who brand themselves as academics on twitter and now get 3 likes per post etc
No. 435480
>>434855"What is with black people memeing with the genre of music they created"
Lets ignore the fact that the most popular hip hop remixes of newsworthy moments were all made by white men. But I guess that's ok to you, Candance Owens.
No. 435484
>>435479that's clearly bait. But i understand what you are referring to. I hate a lot of intellectual black women. Mainly the one's with tik tok accounts. They are so self loathing and their low self esteem is so palpable and embarrassing. Even me, who grew up "not pretty" knew it had nothing to do with my blackness and everything to do with my crooked teeth. I was blessed to be surrounded by beautiful black women who were constantly being stopped on the street by men of ALL races. My mom would literally have to flaunt her wedding ring and guys would still say they'll get her another one.White guys loved my mom actually but she thought white men were ugly kek. When i had a white best friend my self esteem was at my lowest when she only would take me to predominately white barsin racist all white towns. As soon as we started going to the city we got hit on equally.
I blame the suburbs I got booed last thread I believe for saying i hate suburban black folk and was told I was just a jealous ghetto uneducated hood rat. But the thing is I lived in both suburbs and urban areas and its night and day how black people from the suburbs vs urban areas act. Suburban blacks are often raised by their hassadity parents who think giving their kids insane trauma by taking them to all white schools is productive because "hur dur education". Meanwhile, Like you said all they do is get advanced degrees intellectualizing their low self esteem and making it EVERY black woman's plight. Say what you want about urban black people but they are much more confident in their identity and don't even look to white women trends or even feel threatened by them. Surburban black women always got white women in their mouth in a way urban black women do not. Imagine feeling threatened by other races of women when we are literally who they turn to for femininity advice even if they don't want to admit it.
No. 435506
>>431156>>431203it is not
>Depp was a victim and white and male! we have to protect him at all costit is
>he is a black person, we should better stay away from this case to not say something "racist", to not provoke le evil racists being vocal>>431710facts
>>431634>>431894for sure we are living on different planets
No. 435531
>>435522Adding to (my post)
>>435526 the way they hold it as this hard truth but you get a different absolutist narrative every time you talk to a girl like that. Even their small dystopian guidelines aren’t cut and dry. Then at the end of the day, oh look you actually aren’t cursed to lose out on h0T mOiDz bc of your this and that etc. The studious political activist angle is 100% used to reinforce their run of the mill, sadgirl low self esteem.
No. 435535
>>435479your life should be about one person to live under the same roof, healthy relation with family and some friends, not about
>i believe i belong to the prettiest people in the world so everyone on the streets want to fuck meyou should care about your close circle, and society has to be positive/neutral and "let you live", but you demand far more than "let everyone live without stigma"
No. 435550
>>435535NTA. You're right. At the same time, the easiest bait to use on women online is
>you are ugly, men don't want to fuck you, you are so undesirable, and it's because of [insert trait you've had since you were born here] (the less changeable, the better)Even if real life says something different lol. White men troll their own female counterparts all the time this way by bringing up Asian women and Latinas, Asian men do it to Asian women by bringing up white women, the list goes on. It works on all kinds of women, even with shit like hair colors, eye color, breast size, etc because they're all socialized to be neurotic and take men's opinions at face value, and some of them cope with it by trying to drag other women, or internalize it and start trying to spread it. The whole time, men are laughing and enjoying the fruits of all the negging (easy pickings from dumb women looking for validation, especially pretty ones who would've otherwise carried themselves with confidence).
No. 435722
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>>435546 I feel like they're after pity fucks/charity relationships from non-blacks, and it makes my skin crawl, but I honestly don't care what they do besides finding them cringy and insufferable.
My biggest issue is their obsession with dragging other black women down. You can literally be minding your business, looking at hair tutorials, makeup, etc, and some psychotic self-hating commenters pop in with takes about the world hating 4C hair and dark skin, or derisive takes about what white people "must" be thinking (like we're supposed to give a fuck). I'm not talking about a simple/reasonable comment on how hard it is to find good products or something, but a very specific brand of self-hate I'm sure we've all seen. Their profiles are always either completely blank or it's someone fat/unattractive. And these people only ever do it on videos or photos of black women, never the men. Hmmmm.
It's not my fault you feel ugly and don't think you deserve to care for your appearance. Stop including every black woman in your chronicles of pain, stop making entire productions on preaching that blackness is hell/inherently ugly/whatever, stop trying to neg black women who are actually pretty out of your own spite. Even worse are pathetic black moids commenting "she looks like she only dates white men" on black women's photos. Faggots posting cuck shit and derailing any normal content they can find, they need to kill themselves.
No. 435725
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>>435479I appreciate that they tell you the truth. Too many people try to cover up their lies with rationalizations, at least they are brazen with their preferences, not enough are too courageous to say I rather date someone inside my own race just so they can seem cool, agreeable and likeable to the masses. I’m personally not really attracted to most if not all black men but I’m also not really interesting in dating anybody nor is it my life’s purpose to be in a relationship like most people so I don’t really care for non-black people’s approval. Yes, people of similar backgrounds are likely going to be together, this also applies to most black people it’s not racist to say it’s just fact. I don’t think dark skin is ugly though, many of my family members are dark-skinned (actually dark skinned not meme dark skin) and their skin is really impeccable because of the melanin. It actually looks really better when it comes to fashion and has more versatility unlike my skin, I would compliment it more but I know some nonnas would call me weird or a scrote for “fetishization” even though I’m also a black woman kek, whatever. I will admit though I’ve posted some negative things about black women because I wasn’t feeling good about myself but in general and how I objectively feel I’ve seen so many beautiful, gorgeous black women compared to those who are shilled because of the type of skin tone and hair color they have, it’s typical of them to look busted in the face because they prefer mediocrity with pink skin and thin hair over even a beautiful white woman of their own kind. It’s funny because a lot of women of different races think their features are unique to them which is why we will always get slapped with accusations of “asian-fishing” “eurocentric standards” just because they think beauty and style belongs to them when it’s purely false and in many cases the complete opposite. There’s something about us that creates hostility in other groups of people and I honestly wonder why but my existence and my beautiful features, and my sister’s beautiful features, and my mother’s beautiful features the features of the women in my race making people seethe is like drinking coffee in the morning, it makes me feel so warm and snug. Fuck these ugly piggies and seethe bitch
No. 435994
>>435967NTA but what
triggered you about the words “lazy women”? You know, being fat is usually a symptom of laziness. You might feel better if you hop off TikTok and go for a walk, beluga-chan.
No. 435997
>>435970tbh I don’t really get how non black racists and pickmes expect us to all genuinely feel inferior to them when they obsessively and aggressively follow us everywhere online, fixate on our hair (no matter what we do with it), randomly bring us up in conversations and throw tantrums at the most random things. It screams insecurity. They’re almost like trannies. Like, you don’t see a bunch of black women joining mormon wife forums to screech that white wimmin bad, but literally every space with black women seems to attract demented freaks.
I’m thin, have naturally thick, long hair, and have been called pretty by others, but even if I were fat and only wore wigs or whatever, the level of seethe some of these people generate daily would make me start to question things.
No. 436064
>>435997A lot of white people perceive black women wanting inclusivity or complaining about microaggressions as being intrusive. So I don't necessarily agree. The stereotype of a SJW Black woman does exist.
The truth is that black woman are targeted because we are easy targets. We don't have any protection from men under the patriarchy because black men do not perceive us to be an extension of them unlike white or asian men.
My thing is that I think Black women need to start focusing on curating self happiness instead of trying to fix perceptions from others, including other black people. Focus on like-minded black women and support them and uplift them. We can't make people like us but we can ignore them. The biggest sin Black women commit is focusing heavily on people who do not have our best interest in mind. Wondering why they want to demean us, trying to explain their hatred as some sort of twisted insecurity (which may well be true). All this does is zap away your energy.
Conversely, we need to be able to admit that it does affect young black girl's and their self-esteem. That is the only way to learn to prioritize yourself. By holding space for your own emotions.
No. 436126
>>436064I don’t disagree with some of what you’re saying, but their behavior reads as insecurity to me because it’s far from the casual cruelty of a schoolyard or workplace bully. It’s a strange, burning hatred mixed in with stalking behaviors. I haven’t seen or heard of a single other group who is at such a small population count in western countries and that isn’t super wealthy, but still attracts so much attention. For better or worse, black women are considered inherently controversial, and we don’t need to participate in stereotypes or do a single thing for it to be that way. These people quite literally do the work for us. For me, it just takes away from their narrative instead of bolstering it.
I do see how it affects young girls, especially since they’re dealing with the trauma that comes with female socialization, and that’s why I think we need to center and protect eachother. No one really explains these things to them or warns them about the hostility unless it’s to center black men in some way, and I think that does them a massive disservice. Our experience is unique and deserves a specified approach, including care. We also need to focus on building finances instead of worrying about others’ political causes, but I think I’d be preaching to the choir there.
No. 436151
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>>435973I've had mine for seven years now, this is coming from the perspective of someone who got them for utility rather than beauty. Like any hairstyle the way you form, style, and how your hair is textured influences their everyday look. That's something I didn't really know going in. I thought I'd look like picrel but my hair is thick so my locs jut out more on the sides of my head and form a halo rather than lay down, even when retwisted. They pick up anything you lay on so I don't really rest against anything I wouldn't want to bring home. Washing short ones is easy and you only need to watch out for unraveling which can be easily fixed. Depending on what your hair is like now, you could end up paying less going to a loctician every other month to professionally refresh your hair than other (non natural) styling. They're not a great commitment at first because most loc methods don't quite lock the hair together, it happens with maturation. If the waiting period proves too much or you don't enjoy how they look they can be teased out pretty easily. I had a hard time with the beginning months because short hair made me look strange. Other women can look gorg.
No. 436260
>>436243sorry but
>>436196 is right, antiblack racism has existed well before slavery kek