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No. 114320[Reply]

In this looks obsessed world. Especially as a woman, honest people will admit our entire worth is based on our looks by society.
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No. 209017

nta but not everyone wants that look, especially if they want to pull off dramatic high fashion or look androgynous

No. 209052

I have a similar body and while I relate to some of the things other anons are saying (I also wish I could come off more androgynous and elegant, and that I didn't feel so stocky and short and… dwarven??? sometimes), I really enjoy the fact that I have nice thick thighs, wide hips, and a small waist. it gives you an automatic nice shape that a lot of women strive for. similarly, I think it's a very feminine body shape, and you can still be slender with it; with a shape like this, as long as you're relatively slim, your shoulders are still small and your wrists and arms are slender and thin. I hope you can feel better about it soon, anon - it really isn't an ugly body type to have, and you're still perfectly capable of having the slender, ethereal, beautiful kind of vibe you want to have.

No. 209210

I'm not ugly anymore since I grew out of puberty, but I make me look bad/frumpy on purpose because, as dumb as it sounds, I can't handle the double standards and how people finally treat me like a valuable human being just for how much I changed, it makes my inner ugly child cry, its not fair and it fills me with sadness. My old self went through a lot for being ugly, i used to get heavily bullied from elementary to highschool, people went sometimes too far just to remind me I wasn't a supposed to love myself, even my parents hated how I used to look so they compared me to other kids, I was also getting beaten by them all the time, is like the whole world wanted me to kill myself. Now that i look good the difference is abysmal, is like everyone but me is happy that "ugly, frumpy and fat" girl died: my parents treat me with respect, they have more patience with me even when I don't deserve it, they barely ground me or punish me anymore and this true to most adults I interact with. People automatically assume I'm competent and stable (the later is far from reality, I'm very unhinged but they just ignore it for some reason), people casually talk to me and don't mock me for being awkward/goofy. My old self was very kind, innocent, less toxic and with good intentions, she deserved this treatment not me, tbh I'm not the best person but people treat me a lot better, is gross and I hate it. To see people that once wanted to destroy your self-esteem praising and loving you like nothing happened is surreal, to be aware of how many nice things you weren't allowed to be and how fast people changed their perception is heartbreaking. We truly live in a society.

No. 209212

Honey if you are young enough to be grounded by your parents you shouldn't be here. The internet will do a number on your psyche if you engage too much with it from a young age. Save yourself while you still can.

No. 209217

I'm 20yo from a hispanic house, and by "grounded" I mean punished in any form (physical/psychological, very common here)

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No. 158895[Reply]

We have threads for men, but how about our bi and lesbian farmers on /g/? What women are you ashamed to say you'd fuck or crush on for any reason?
>unconventionally attractive?
Share your thirst, farmers.
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No. 209137

Sweet Anita, I would put up with her tics while smashing her.

She's got a good body and she's one of the ideal milfs i'd fuck.

No. 209207

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I can see it, but what about Carmella? I could never understand why everyone hates her character so much and calls her ugly, I think its just that there are so many scrote Sopranos fans who think she's worse for marrying the mob psychopath than actual the psychopath? I just want to help her around the house, bake ziti with her and give her the love and affection she never got from Tony.

No. 209208

milf? i think she's hot but like 30 and has no kids i'm pretty sure. not milf range yet.

No. 209235

AYRT, sorry to blogpost but during my depression induced hibernation when I was rewatching The Sopranos when I made that post I was also considering a writing fanfic where I project like a lighthouse onto an original character who has an affair with Adriana. I was also thinking about how that character would interact with Carmela though. I think Carm would probably be standoffish at first because she's probably never really spoke to a lesbian before, let alone a butch one. But I think she would become more accepting as time goes on (there's a scene in the show where Tony says that Carmella used to say gays should go to hell but she tells him she's changed now) and I just got to thinking how it would be nice to have that character help her around the house doing chores that Tony won't and then after she'll give me something to eat and we'll talk about books and movies and whatever interests her and basically the tl;dr is that I ended up daydreaming about helping Carmella and boosting her self-esteem instead of writing my lesbian pulp romance novel with Adriana lol. I absolutely love Carmella as a character, she's a good woman with good intentions. Of course her proximity to Tony gives her bad habits (she expects the waters to part everywhere she goes, like when she badgers Jeanie Cusamano's sister for a university letter for Meadow) but she's no psychopath. Her solo therapy sessions show that, particularly with the guy who tells her to leave Tony and won't take the blood money. But yes, Carmella is beautiful and I love her dress sense too. More than anything though I just want to compliment her and help her with chores and let her true personality flourish. The Furio storyline was a beautifully acted portrayal of intense longing for the most simple of things in life like a friendly "how are you" in the morning. She makes me want to be that person that builds her confidence back up for her and makes her feel like an individual and not just Mrs Anthony Soprano. Rosalie will always be my favourite mafia MILF though, sorry Carm.

No. 210221

I'm invested anon, is it the tennis coach, D girl or the FBI agent? I like to think that after Tony is popped Furio makes his way back to the states and him and Carmella live their dream life together.

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No. 147547[Reply]

A collection of before and after pictures for inspiration and motivation – post your best finds! Feel free to post your own success story as well.
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No. 187945

nta but I'm confused, the pic on the right is the before pic and the hank hill ass, she looks much better on the left. She's still not naturally curvy and that's just genetics but she looks better for sure.

No. 187959

I think anon is trying to say she didn't really change the shape of her ass, just added a bit of mass, and found more flattering shorts. What's making it look extreme is the fact she lost a lot from her back and waist, so of course her ass will look better when her general proportions are better.

No. 187961

She's not ugly at all

No. 209186


As a shorter girl this is a really inspiring thread for me, also >>147611 congrats, I love your sweater and your hair is so pretty!

I'm not completely overweight, but in the first lockdown I got really trim and started to get muscles. When gyms closed and winter depression hit hard I gained weight again so I'm looking to work it back off and I'm finding the progress pictures really inspiring.

No. 209267

Did that anon really think the right was the after? Kek

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No. 192771[Reply]

I have these things all over my body. Literally everywhere. I already had some laser treatments done on the area but it was a waste of money really, it didn't change much.

I am hopeless. Really, people can cut their noses off and change completely their faces but there is no solution for stretch marks? Nothing seems to work on them.

Have you ever had something done that actually worked? What can I do?
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No. 195391

I had a boyfriend that was full of stretch marks from a growth spurt. He was the shortest one during school and just suddenly grew out relatively late. It's not uncommon.

No. 198335

Don’t be ashamed of them, if fat scrotes can have them unbothered, so should we. They are a normal part of being human, embrace your stretch marks. Leave them be, your meat shell requires no medical intervention.

No. 199240

I have similar stretch marks anon, without a bra they aren't just 'cute little tiger stripes' like most women get but deep fucking grooves of thin crinkly white skin that look like wrinkles when I take off my bra and bend over. I have them on my hips and inner thighs too, but I care way less about those since they look way more 'normal' and they aren't deep.

After some investigation, I'd say there is basically nothing to be done besides skin grafts (theoretically since nobody has ever suggested this), thigh lifts, breast reduction/removal and other procedures that essentially just remove the skin altogether since the torn skin underneath can't be 'repaired' with any derma treatment that exists currently.

the anons saying 'get over it it's natural and there is no treatment anyway' are right in a sense though. I have never had a sexual partner insult me over them. It just makes me feel ugly privately and I can't wear certain cuts of tops.

No. 209182

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I grew up with heavy puberty hitting on my titties very early on. I'm in my late twenties now with really big breasts (above a G cup) and as a result I've got quite deep stretch marks near the armpit and around that area on the fronts of my breasts, below the collar line. The more I gym and lose weight, the more aware I become that I can accidentally stretch this more with muscle. Has anyone else dealt with this?

No. 209188

I love stretch marks, I think they are so cute. My ex had a ton from being a former fattie and I loved how they looked. Like thick bolts of lightning. My current fwb has some large ones too from building mucle and they are so cute.

I have a few on my ass and on my (tiny) tits, who cares, they're just a sign of growing curves.

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No. 189347[Reply]

Manifest your inner Stacy here.

>How to become a Stacy

>What is a Stacy for you, personally
>When did you decide it was ENOUGH and became a Stacy
>Talk about your Stacy progress
>Who's your Stacy rolemodel
>Support others in their Stacy jorney
>Share your Stacy stories, music, pictures, workouts, etc
>What kind of Stacy are you (Fujo Stacy, Pinkpilled Stacy, Lesbian Stacy, Muscular Stacy etc)

>don't take this thread so seriously
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No. 207977

>Hari Nef
uuhhhhhhhh… isn't that a tran?

No. 207981

yeah but I dont really care about it, i like her vibe

No. 208050

>What is a Stacy for you, personally
A woman that is confident, friendly but not fake, is true to herself (and that self isn't a cringy neet), she's not afraid to not be perfect. She sincerely loves and respects herself and the people close to her.
>How to become a Stacy
Make sure to smell good all the time, always have well fitting and freshly clean clothes and nice nails. Practice healthy habits like biking places, going to the gym (but not obsessively), eating good quality food. Get a job I can be proud of. Get a nice haircut. I want to be able to rely on myself and I want the people that I love to feel like they can rely on me as well.
>When did you decide it was ENOUGH and became a Stacy
Today after a pretty intense post-birthday therapy session. I'm not going to become that woman by sitting on my ass.
>Talk about your Stacy progress
Just getting started but today I'm gonna update my CV and peruse job ads.
>Who's your Stacy rolemodel

No. 208060

I love her but she's quite open about her insecurities and has said before she thinks she's ugly, not to mention obvious anachan tendencies.

No. 209181

My mum and me started to binge Love Island together as she's been wanting something trashy whilst recovering from cancer surgery. I had never seen it before until now and I feel like a lot of the girls on it are Stacy-like and remind me of growing up with them. It's like they are effortlessly social but the ones on this program have so many arguments about men and appearance that I'm almost wondering if it was better to grow up sort of autistic and cute but not a Stacy. Does anyone else feel like they're in a completely different world to these girls? I could not emulate them, at all (but also the men who seem attracted to them are not my type at all)

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No. 170405[Reply]

This thread is for everyone who is struggling with pornography, sexual frustration, and masturbation addiction. Post sources and information or your personal experience on how to quit or lower your usage.

Antiporn thread (por a more serious discussion about pornography): >>>/g/159633
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No. 171236

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Honestly, what kind of porn? I’m not against erotica, but the problem with porn ive noticed (in others and myself) is that it’s so easy to access and requires no work on your part nor communication with another human being, so it can very easily become a total substitution for actual sex and relationships.

I also noticed that I was more interested in exploring unconventional/ taboo (not anything full on disgusting like loli or scat and stuff) which would then get boring and lead to searching for the next level. Like desensitization of my brain I guess?

But again tbh it’s hard to find good male sexual partners so faced with this total mountain of garbage that is men, I think women utilizing more erotica / porn / dojinshi etc is a bit more understandable, assuming it’s not an addiction. Culture and society is saturated with male coom appeal, anyway

bufftrap not related just amusing.

No. 209014

Just cured my porn addiction. I'd been addicted since the 2000s. After around 15 years I've been cured.

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No. 209150

I keep relapsing every 3-7 months or so and I feel awful and ashamed. Does anyone else have this problem? I haven’t watched porn in a month, if I hadn’t relapsed ever it would be a year and a half

No. 209156

I don't, but this caught my eye because I suffer from other unwanted behaviours. Can you identify your triggers? Where are you, how do you feel when you relapse? What can you replace the behaviour with in those moments? Good luck!

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No. 66358[Reply]

Can we have a thread for lesbian and bi women to discuss their fantasies and desires towards other women? No rules except for no talk about dicks
I never find women my age (20) attractive. It's always older women, usually 30+, especially older butch lesbians. I want an older woman to boss me around
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No. 206184

It’s a shitty joke. Shut up.

No. 206236

>16 days ago
imagine being this mad kek

No. 206795

That sounds so fun. I wish I had a gf or even just a friend who would have an eye for more masc clothes for women.

No. 207237

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i think i'm going to hire a sex worker to hold my hand, most girls i know are either too shallow or straight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No. 209152

I want to finger a girl who is commando and wearing leggings or sweats, or some thin fabric while kissing her all over her neck and making my way down and eat her out passionately, occasionally using my fingers, I want her to twitch in pleasure.
I also really love anthill boobs, they honestly drive me crazy.

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No. 135394[Reply]

Didn't see any threads regarding about the breasts. Ask questions about your breasts, any health concerns, implants etc.

I'll start with mine : I have some small eczema going around my areola on my left breast and it sometimes itches
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No. 207916

muscles do. Funny anecdote, I have a bra that is so ill-fitting that it would strain my boobs and cause them to be sore after a day, like I worked them out or something. My boobs would then temporarily get lifted

>I realized how retarded it was to rely on the bra for perky boobs so now I just do chest exercises lol

No. 207920

Ah makes senses. Will definitely try that. Did it help with the roundness at all or is it more of genetics?

No. 207968

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The ill-fitting bra? Well kinda? I think it was the muscle rounding and filling them out more than the bra. I did eventually gained a little more weight/muscle and the bra started to temporarily shape my boobs into Michael Angelo boobs lololol

No. 209082

I've never had nice breasts, ever. not even when I was young. as soon as they got larger they sagged, a LOT, and losing/gaining weight so rapidly during my teen ana-chan phase certainly didn't help. I don't know if I was doomed to have ugly breasts (my mother and sister both had/have small perky breasts so I have no one to compare it to) or if I irreversibly fucked up my body. i don't know which is worse. I hate them so much. I want to get work done on them so much. I can't go braless at home because the feeling of them dangling makes me want to cut them off. I don't think I'd be a candidate for a lift because anyone with any decency would call it body dysmorphia, but they're really not nice looking. I get so envious looking at pictures of women with nice breasts, ones that I know for a fact haven't gotten any work done and just had good genetics. I never got to experience that. I think they're so ugly and I don't know how to cope. the people I've been with have said my breasts are normal but I really can't believe them, they are saggy, and they have always been saggy, they have NEVER been perky or full like a young woman's "should" be. I hate them and myself.

sorry for the vent/blogpost. I'm going crazy over this and I don't know what to do.

No. 209141

>like a young woman's "should" be
I think your expectations are unrealistic anon. I do know what you mean, I’ve never had perky breasts either, but it sounds like you’re being way too hard on yourself. Even as a younger teenager, my body basically developed over night and I went from a training bra to D cups (that definitely needed a bra) and stretch marks on my thighs. I was a normal weight throughout my teenage years, no major weight fluctuations, but everyone’s body is different. I used to think I had saggy breasts too until I met someone who was crazy about my body and constantly complimenting my breasts, it kind of opened my eyes to how ridiculous I was being. There is no “standard” body for a young woman, having slightly lower set breasts doesn’t make you haggard or whatever. I’m sure you look great anon.

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No. 106527[Reply]

Ask questions, post cute nail art and polish swatches, discus trends, techniques, products, professional services, etc.

What's on your nails right now, farmers?
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No. 208822

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I just did cloud nails like picrel in gel and they turned out so cute!!

I used
-OPI Samoan Sand
-OPI Angels Flight to Starry Nights
-IBD Whipped Cream
-China Glaze Fairy Dust (not gel)
-OPI gel base + top coat

No. 208823

This video helped me achieve a deeper look to the base color by mixing nude and blue under the clouds. I was overthinking how to paint the clouds at first but it's so easy.

No. 209039

This is blowing my mind. In vid related (starting @ 2:09), the woman says the angle in which you tilt your file will give you different nail shapes. Flat for square, slightly tilted for squoval, and deep tilt for oval, and deeper still for almond. I didn't believe it until i tried it. I filed pretty much underneath my nails and they all came out perfectly, uniformly almond.
No more spending an hour shaping my nails!!!!!!
I'll let you know if they all break off in a week lmao

(also in the comments of the video some people pointed out that the lady in the vid may have mislabeled the round/oval styles but idrc)

No. 209043

omg bless you for sharing this video, I also spend way too much time trying to get them to be almond shaped by filing the sides and they always come out a different shape each kek

No. 209046

kek You ever make the peak point off-centered? I hate that so much!!

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No. 197637[Reply]

Does nothing ever work on these things?

I recently had 3 fractional laser (Fraxel) procedures and I feel like there’s still no improvement many months later. Seeing my face in angled lighting completely wrecks my mood. I don’t know what to do anymore.
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No. 197843

I have the same issue, anon. Haven’t met many other women who also struggle with it.

No. 197923

This is probably going to take multiple treatments. Don't microneedle more than once a month, Penny Smith on youtube has excellent videos about the subject, she's an esthetician. I think a depth of 3 mm is too much, see what you can achieve with .05 mm first.

No. 198018

I suspect it’s the same anon from the skincare thread

No. 209016

Thankfully my scares healed themselves after years.

No. 209021

Have heard microdermabrasion also yields good results. Microneedling also.

If you decide to do microneedling though you should probably have a professional do it instead of getting one of those at-home devices because a lot can go wrong and there can be permanent scarring if you don’t know what you’re doing.

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