No. 430575[Reply]
Unsure if you're actually straight? Actually gay? Anything in between? Ask for advice here.
Also welcome are "late bloomers" who realized their true selves long after their teen years who'd like to share their experience and tell others what signs to look out for.
Please be kind to questioning anons, no matter how "obvious" it might seem to you what they are.
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>>437312The thing I hate about this thread is that anons are so theoretical with people’s sexuality if someone says
>”Yeah I’ve had crushes on boys as a kid but never felt any sexual attraction and am repulsed by the male body but I am turned on by women ”people will rush to call her a bihet/straight woman, even if realistically, she would NEVER be compatible irl with a man unless he was celibate. People in the thread love to speculate on anon’s sexualities based on like a paragraph of their sexual history, when really they should be giving them advice on what to do to help them figure out their sexuality on their own.
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>>437312>>437321i don't think its helpful to focus on how you were feeling when you were just a child though because how many times have we've heard of kids going "when i grow up i want to marry my mommy/daddy" or something else that's weird? its because when you're super young, you think its love if someone makes you feel happy for whatever reason that may be.
imho REAL love REQUIRES sexual attraction. you can absolutely love and care deeply for someone or a group of people on a platonic level, but that's not the same as actually being in love with someone in all seriousness because that requires sexual attraction.
as an adult, when you're not viewing pornographic material and outside of a sexual content, who is it that turns you on? who is it that makes you feel a real bodily yearning for? therein lies your answer. everything else is just splitting hairs and making yourself go crazy for no reason.
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i need advice more for a compulsive behavior rather than strictly a questioning situation, though it does have a relationship with it. anyway, i have this weird need to keep exposing myself to pictures, images, or even videos of naked men or things that focuses on their private areas only, despite causing me to either cringe at best to nearly throwing up and start crying at worst. it's like a part of me still cannot reconcile with the fact that i absolutely hate dick, but then i tell myself, well, what if you come across the perfect one and it will cure you of whatever hangup you have over it? i've never in my entire life seen one that turned me on, but it's like i don't want to accept it and idk why that is. i don't know if this is the right thread for this kind of question so let me know.