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No. 107505[Reply]

This is a thread for crochet and knitting, and other yarn-related crafts.

Anyone starting any new projects or completing old ones? Share some patterns!
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No. 443556

>>443506
Go ahead and share it anon, I’m happy to help

No. 443622

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I've finished the 'back of heel' part and ended like it said on a row 3 with right side facing, I haven't turned my work. I have reversed YO stitches on my right needle and single stitches + reversed YOs on the left.

The next part 'bottom of heel' is where I'm stuck. I think I might be misunderstanding what 'leaving YO' means? What does the leaving part mean?

I must be doing something wrong because on row 2 it says to p to paired stitches, but I can only purl 1 stitch before getting to the paired stitches so idk.

No. 443674

>>443622
Never mind looking at it again I don't think I ended on the right row after all lol.

Still what does leaving yarn over mean?

No. 444723

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How do you girls keep tracking your projects? Made my first garment out of linen and it’s a pick and choose of different techniques that I forgot where I found them. Videos, instructions…how would you get an overview of your project? I’m stuck at the right sleeve and forgot how I did that

No. 444813

Why is this in /g/


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No. 280759[Reply]

A concept generally related to disfuncional families, toxic family bonds, lack of boundaries with parents, infantilization in adulthood, the mother wound, growing up too quickly, and much more.

In enmeshed families, members are emotionally fused together in an unhealthy way. More than one member is codependent of the other and individual goals are discouraged. A lot of shame and guilt happens when you try to become independent. You can read more here:
https://www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com/enmeshment/
https://www.healthline.com/health/enmeshed-family#signs-of-enmeshment
https://tessrene.com/emotional-enmeshment/

As this is something I very much struggle with, I wanted to see if more anons here have gone through similar stuff, and how were you able to overcome it (or maybe just like me, you are in the process of recovering from). Please share your own experience with family enmeshment here.
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No. 424059

>>421683
>>421669

Okay so just an update.

Mom and manchild have been getting more distant and snubbing me more. Manchild is still always, ALWAYS talking or sitting around or walking in/out, so when I leave my room, I must pretend everything is fine and talk when he speaks. While Im trying to emotionally detach, its not easy as Im isolated so theyre just about I have irl. Pathetic ik.

When I was showering, I heard mom walk by (you can hear everything in this place), so she knows I was in there. All of a sudden the water turns super hot, scalding, due to laundry, so she did it on purpose, I think. Other times she told me she waits to do the laundry when manchild is in the shower for that reason.

Stupidly, I couldnt take it anymore and talked to mom about this. I was so wrecked up ugly crying and shaking what I was holding. She got mad at me! She raised her voice and started swearing, saying, "Fine! I wont fucking wash anything while youre in there!", "You think I would do that?", "FFS theres always something wrong!", "You hate us (her & manchild), I can feel it!". She threatened to not take the dog to the vet this week for its appointment, if "youre (me) going to be like this!" I told her to not punish our pet for this. She said she just said that cause she was mad, and that we are bringing the dog to the vet. Then she cried and said me and manchild are all she has, so she would never do such a thing (scalding) deliberately to me.

Stupidly I told her I was really depressed due to grief, and she asked if I should go to a psychologist. So now theyll probably make me out to be crazy, when really, they could use some therapy themselves. I said Id rather work on getting a career. Later on she apologized for her behavior and denied scalding on purpose.

Later that evening after dinner, not really late, they were both sleeping. I really, really wanted to leave. Ive never gone on a walk or out by myself in so long, due to agoraphobia and not being in the safest area.

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No. 430372

MIL said her and husband are going to retire next year but they'll be 2k in the hole every month. Tell your husband he can't retire at 65 because we wont be able to afford kids if we're coughing up 2k post tax, the audacity, for you every month.

No. 430381

>>424059
Ideally, try to get a job (waitress or cashier), take a small credit to pay for a secondhand car or to rent a small place for a month so you can touch your first payroll or go to a female (domestic abuse) shelter. Run girl, you only have one life.

No. 433099

I was doing pretty good at having my own boundaries and understanding how to deal with my family dynamics. My moms mental illness, coldness, stubborness and dependency among other things. But one of my older sisters would always go back and forth from reaching out every year or so, to dissapearing completely again and going through some terrible isolation with bad jobs. She'd shower me with compliments for a night, then, radio silence for weeks or more usually months. but I wouldnt see her for years even.
We were always pit against eachother because of my moms illness, so I figured she wanted to mend things maybe and we would all try and pitch in and heal. I felt like I was making progress getting closer to her, opened up a lot with eachother, I was trying to boost her self esteem, combating the self deprecation and taking her out when she'd agree, nudging her away from dangerous situations, self destructive thinking and mistreatment from moids.
But we were helping our mom out with a difficult part of her life, and something seemed to overflow? She became so vicious to me, I figured she was stressed so I rolled with it. But it got bad so quickly when she was visiting me, started intensly saying kind of bizzare accusations about me and she started saying vicious, unkind and angry things. She then kept trying to fight me and when I resisted she got angry and kept trying to knock me over. Im sturdy so I was fine and didnt need to fight back and just braced when she'd swing, but it was disturbing so I bluff warned her Id get legal intervention if she didnt stop attacking and destroying my things, and this is what crossed her line. Still not sure if I was weird for that. She cut me off not too long after and has disappeared since. Im worried about her and unsure if I should try and find her.
Anyone have something similar happen?

No. 444574

Anyone's social skills just busted because of their parents? Growing up I was never allowed to have friends. I'd talk to people at school obviously but my mother never let me go out with anyone after school or bring any friends home. I never even had a birthday party with friends, they would always just be me and my parents and maybeeee an aunt. She didn't even like hearing about my schoolfriends and called them horrible things like "bitches" and "assholes" even though they never did anything wrong. She always acted like they were going to lead me down a path of drugs and partying even though they were nerds who spent their time reading Harry Potter and watching anime. I don't think any of my friends ever even got a detention in school.
I obviously wasn't allowed to date either, but that didn't stop my mother from being suspicious I was even though I went to an all girls school and never left the house except for school unless she was with me. Once she saw an exercise book that I'd doodled hearts on and went off because that was a sign in her mind that I liked a boy, and she kept interrogating me about who the boy was even though I didn't know any boys.
I find it very hard to make friendships as an adult, and relationships are out of the question as long as I live with her. Unfortunately we have a housing crisis and as inconvenient as it is, I think I'm better off being lonely for a few more years while I save up instead of spending 1k that I can't afford to live in a shoebox with three strangers. My mother isn't against me dating now and even tells me she hopes I find someone, but I just can't bring someone home to my parent's craziness, and I think it would be pretty hard to date if I could never even have them over at my place.


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No. 378181[Reply]

Not everyone can be beautiful, and for some, even "average" is out of reach. If that sounds like you, how are you coping in this looks-obsessed world?

I'm reviving this thread series since the last one has long since closed and I think it's a topic a lot of women could use a place to vent about.

Previous thread: >>>/g/114320
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No. 444306

>>444162
>Every person I met who was genuinely ugly didn't benefit that much from plastic surgery
It depends on the surgery tbh.

No. 444388

>>444304
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Artificial_cranial_deformation
sure it is
you can find even the most ridiculous features to be a beauty standard in a certain culture
stop buying into the psyop

No. 444541

>>444228
Try a septum piercing first before unnecessary surgery. The scar is invisible if you want to take it out. There is lots of beautiful and ornate septum jewelery to match all styles and it is very normie nowadays and won't cost you a job. It makes the philtrum appears shorter. This is just my opinion but perhaps it will have the same affect as women with strong noses who get a nose piercing, it makes them seem confident of their noses and psychologically forces you to view the feature outside of your immediate brainwashed idea of what a beautiful nose should be and view it more subjectively and find it attractive because you see they find it attractive.

No. 444544

>>444541
I've done this except with a medusa piercing. I always get compliments that it suits my face and as an added bonus I wear kinda large jewelry and the way it sits kinda gives me a lip flip. It's subtle but I definitely notice a difference

No. 444551

>>444541
I think it draws attention to it more than anything and it wouldn’t match my style (corporate). I’m just praying the scar won’t be that noticeable to people.


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No. 315174[Reply]

To the lesbian anon with a 2D crush, here is something to consider:
>think of your husbando
>really visualise him
>remember all the things you like about him
>now… ask yourself
>what if there were boobies under there?

Welcome to the Lesbian Hornyposting Yumejo Thread, the illegitimate daughter of the Retarded Husbando Hornyposting Shitposting Thread and the Female Fantasies Thread. Here you are free to imagine your favourite fictional woman in any scenario, sexual or otherwise, and post about her to your heart's content. Even better if, in her source material, that woman is a guy.

Example posts
>I just know Komaeda's pussy tastes like battery acid
>I want to fuck Goro Akechi until she is too overstimulated to monologue
>(3 paragraph description of a romantic date with Neku TWEWY which ends in passionate tribbing)

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No. 442536

>>442510
This art style is cute, who is this?

No. 442540

>>442536
Nyart but the character is Anya from a horror game called Mouthwashing. The artist is asteresnX

No. 443083

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I fucking love her in her trench coat it makes her look so cute, but what I really love about her is her quietly domineering aura. She has the kind of soft power that makes nations kneel. Been fantasizing about her sitting me on her lap, putting two fingers in my mouth and then pinching my tongue inbetween her index and thumb and pulling me forward closer to her like that

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moids will never understand or appreciate her the way i do. Holo doesnt deserve this perfect queen.

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She's so…sturdy…


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No. 434936[Reply]

Previous thread:
>>>/g/291804
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No. 444471

Nonners, it's been around three months i think, I have been having long cuts behind both my labia minora, deep enough to bleed and also bruising my clitoral hood when i masturbate. I can't go to the gynecologist atm because im unemployed and when i searched for it nothing came out. I don't have any other symptoms in my vulva other than these that are actually fucking hell on its own. Any nonna have any experience with this? Does any nonna have an idea of what it could be?

No. 444472

>>444471
Forgot to mention that the cuts itches and my bruised clit hood does too. Shower daily, virgin, no panties at home.

No. 444594

>>444471
I think this could be a sign of an infection. You should check the vulvodynia subreddit, I've seen several posts about having cuts in the vulva.

No. 444607

>>444594
Samefag, I just remembered it could also be vulvar lichen sclerosis. The LS subreddit is also helpful.

No. 444617

>>444607
thank you nonny, i will look into it, just having some sort of light as to why this is happening is very helpful already, thanks!


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No. 443146[Reply]

Post men who are shilled as attractive but you think are ugly/overrated.
prev thread
>>215207
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No. 443468

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His pictures alone make me feel uncomfortable I don't get what women see in him. He looks like someone who would betray Jesus.

No. 444417

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I just don't get it.

No. 444453

>>444417
fuck. FUCK i hate this fucking man. I hope he dies. I want him to fucking die. Ugly son of a bitch. Old getriatic FUCK. I need to watch him be slowly tortured. How dare he, I saw my crush thirst for him and call old men hot and I think that was the worst day of my life, worse than all the times my mother beat me on Christmas. I felt so depressed and defeated. I won’t ever be happy until he dies. He better fucking die soon. Sorry I don’t usually participate in this thread I just saw his face and it sent me into orbit. Thanks. I was having a really good night too.

No. 444454

>>444453
SHE TALKED ABOUT WHAT POSITIONS SHE WANTED TO DO WITH HIM!


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No. 366897[Reply]

A place for Asian women to chat, vent, offer advice, discuss Asian culture.
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No. 443576

What do you guys think about Wasians in general? On the one hand, I feel bad for some of them because some of them have very severe psychosexual issues and mental illnesses that need to be addressed but on the other hand they are the worst person you have ever met with an inferiority complex, self-hate, and internalized racism.
Funnily enough, I was called a "chink" by a wasian person way before a yt person did and I'm not even Chinese.

No. 443578

>>443576
Most are normal. I had a friend in high school who was wasian and she was pretty chill. but then again she had bad taste in men and would constantly vent about how shitty he was

No. 443595

>>443576
Mixed bag. Some were nice and normal, some were weirdly self-fetishistic of their Asian side. The new fetish for white moids is Wasian women because they’re not “too Asian” which is ugly to the moids and have conventionally attractive white features to them. Other Wasians had deeply internalised racism and would put down full Asians so they’d be seen as one of the good ones to their racist white friends, but this was more in the 2010s.

No. 443649

>>443576
Hapas are almost always cringe

No. 444357

Euuugghghh. I fucking hate kawaii culture shit so much. I especially hate other Asian women who perpetuate it like LilyPichu.

The bow legged stance, cringy high-pitched voice, and the retarded poses. This isn't a hate rant against women who like cute stuff from time to time (I like magical girls and pastel colors), but the way that it's just so ingrained in some Asian cultures—especially in Japan—makes me grit my teeth. It kind of makes me wonder if these women actually like these cute stuff or if it's just a self-infantalizing act to appease… someone. Men? Society as a whole? I literally can't tell.

And it makes me feel like a NLOG "nooo stop having fun guise!" kind of person who hates women who dare to be ~feminine and soft~ in this feminist era uwu uwu~. I just wish this "cute" culture wasn't so Infantilizing and pedophilic.


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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 443403

>>443393
Best of luck with your nigel!
I wish I could show mine off and gush about him too but I don't really have a lot of friends that wouldn't mind and the ones I did mention him to are kind of opposite personalities from me so I don't think they understand (aka they don't have great taste lmao)
I'm sure that with time you could update his wardrobe, dunno what to suggest personality wise without giving him too big an ego

No. 443599

>good sex
>cute boyish look
>spoils me
>takes care of me when I'm sick or on my period
>pretty hands and feet, skinny body
>is kind and patient with kids and animals
>talks about marriage and kids with me often

I'm very lucky

No. 444343

5th year into marriage with this beautiful man:
> Invested in my hobbies, bought me a piano for my 2nd xmas with him & a bunch of yarn when I was in my knitting phase
> well read, likes to read, picks things up quickly and is a fast learner
>i.e, told him I wanted him to learn investing and he’s already made quite a bit of money in a year. I also once gave him a professional massage therapy book and now he knows masseuse techniques & uses them on me every night
> looks exactly like young Adam Kaufman— he is conventionally attractive and is basically Type 1 Sims 2 face and whenever AI generates pics of gorgeous men, he looks like them
> intelligent, high Iq, skipped grades and went to uni as a teen, very good memory
> always makes sure I cum until I can’t cum anymore from cunnilingus before putting his dick in me
> loving and affectionate, loves cuddles and hugs
> always does things I ask of him
> constant massages whenever we’re watching tv or movies
> buys me whatever I want
> sentimental, wrote me love poems and letters while we were dating and does it every birthday/anniversary
> loved me at me heaviest and loves me even when I look like a slob, no pressure to bimbofy myself for him
> into fitness and literally can’t eat junk food (he’s allergic to the things they put in most junk) and ensures he never lets himself go (No beer belly in future because he hates alcohol)
> will never go bald judging by genetics
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No. 444578

>>444343
This was so heartwarming to read, I wish you the best!!!

No. 444899

>>361450
What the hell is wrong with you people


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No. 380577[Reply]

A thread for all nonas of Middle Eastern, Arab or North African ethnicity to discuss topics pertaining to being a MENA woman. A place to chat, vent, share, ask and give advice or discuss problems pertaining to being a MENA woman. All religions and nationalities welcome to post, as long as you are of MENA ethnicity.
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No. 443984

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Libya’s Ministry of Interior has made hijab mandatory for women, stating that women are not allowed to leave the house without a male guardian, nor should they wear makeup or dress in a way that attracts attention when outside.
Additionally, men have been instructed to avoid unnecessary mixing with women. The ministry also emphasized that if anyone seeks freedom in the form of immorality or nudity, they should go to Europe.

No. 443985

>>443984
Also, Libyans (and other MENA) seem to be overwhelmingly approving of this from what I saw.

No. 444122

>>443984
>go to europe if you want freedom
>floods europe with a bunch of muslim radicals seeking to rape european women snd turn it into another muslim shithole

No. 444221

>>444122
All the Euros need to do is exclusively let in females

No. 444319

>>426950
>I fucking hate it when our men turn the gene pool into a swamp by breeding with poor slavs
I don't use this word often but… what in the pick me is this. I genuinely just feel sorry for these women because a lot of the time there's control and abuse going on (from what i've seen). How can you look at an arab moid with a woman from a slightly less misogynistic culture and be irritated by the woman..?
t. slav woman appreciator
>gene pool
>swamp
If anything we need more mixing to offset the effects of prolonged cousin marriage kek


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No. 189175[Reply]

What is your experience with body dysmorphia/hating how you look in general? How to cope?
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No. 441288

>>441276
>thinking 20 is an anachan bmi
kek

No. 444168

I've been told i'm pretty a lot but I am convinced it means nothing.I get asked if I model often, which you'd think is a compliment but my mind still tells me its just because i'm tall or because they think I am androgynous/masculine/unique looking. Had a lady go into detail about how there are two different types of pretty, model pretty and regular pretty, and apparently i fit into the former. Maybe I want to be regular pretty so men would like me more. I feel like my height intimidates them even though im only 5'8. Im also shaped like a board with nonexistent tits and ass. I had horrible acne as a teen and just finished a round with accutane which i guess improved my skin but threw me into horrific depression. Also recently got ghosted by a guy who is 6'7 & I was kinda hoping would like that I was tall. I guess i'll never know because he clearly didn't like me enough to respond after meeting twice. Anyways that paired with just getting out of an incredibly unhealthy 2.5 year relationship, I find a new flaw on me everyday. I can't cope. Im only 20 and feel dead inside, like a total failure.

No. 444171

If you think you’re ugly, why don’t you just imagine yourself as someone else? In my own mind, I look like young Brooke Shields

No. 444220

>>444168
>I want men to like me more
how did you type all this out and not get embarrassed(infight bait)

No. 444734

I wish I could give my younger self a hug, and tell her how cute she is. Body dysmorphia is a mind fuck. I have no clue what I really look like, until I see old photos of myself and think about how much I hated myself.
I’ve had a sob story of a childhood, was fucked with, grew up, and now i look like what i wanted to look like, but still see a fat, broad shouldered, dirty looking, dressed dumb woman. I literally can’t stand to leave the house unless it’s necessary because in my head, everyone is laughing at me, I take up too much room, I’m bothering people, yada yada ya. Idk if it has anything to do with the way I grew up. I wish I could love myself, and be sure of myself and confident, I’ve watched videos. I don’t have anyone that I really talk to on a deep level to give me fresh eyes on this (if that’s the correct verbiage) but my indecisiveness, my inability to confidently answer questions or make decisions without fear of something happening, or the fear of things going too good, that I worry I fucked something up is actually ruining my life. I guess it’s like walking around with a cloud of shame that you can’t shake off, but I’ve had this for YEARS. I wouldn’t wish this upon my worst enemy. I can’t make meaningful connections with anyone it sucks


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