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Losing Virginity 05/22/17 (Mon) 07:19:33 PM No. 61334 [Reply]

Post your stories about when you lost your virginity and thoughts about virginity/fist time sex in general.

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Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:33:32 PM No. 534802

I was convinced I had vaginismus as the first few times I attempted sex with my ex resulted in failure as I found it too intense and painful. Several months later I tried it again with my current bf and I still wasn’t able to relax, but when we did it for the second time (this was during the third day of my period) we were able to have full on sex even though it was a little painful, guess I was just too nervous and needed better foreplay which my ex didn’t provide. Thank god I don’t have to see a gyno and dilate for 3+ months.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:40:46 PM No. 534810

>>534635
Not a virgin but seriously ignore the other anons because I know what you mean. It's not schizo to think like that if your only experiences have been extremely painful due to vaginismus, I was always really scared to have sex because I grew up as a girl thinking "oh god, I have to have sex like this?!" Meanwhile all my friends were happy having boyfriends and I felt left out. It's not like I was ever taught about medical conditions in sex education so I didn't even understand my own body. I remember my first time at the gyno too and it was so painful I still remember it and it's been years, even though she was gentle I still left there thinking "that felt like rape". On top of that it's not like most men of the world have exactly collectively said "porn is bad, it's not like that!!" instead they just defend it as free speech. Like how does that make women excited to have sex with a man in any form? It's anxiety inducing.

Like piv sex in a healthy relationship will not be rape but it will feel like that in this pornified world and with vaginismus too? No matter how wet and aroused a woman with the condition is, it will literally feel like searing pain because it's an involuntary muscle response. On top of that heterosexual couples are often socialised so differently that often sex the only thing that will glue them together, which leads to situations such as people telling me that because of my condition any bf I have deserves to cheat on me because he deserves "real" sex. It's so belittling. On the chance you ever fall into a relationship I hope you find an understanding partner. Wish you the best nonna.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 10:21:11 PM No. 534952

>>534594
My shitty first time with a manipulative ex nona

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 11:32:34 PM No. 535012

>>534635
PIV sex is retarded and too risky for women.

Anonymous 04/24/25 (Thu) 03:50:16 PM No. 535562

>>530575
People definitely talk like this in the Instagram comment section.

t. virgin

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30+ & Nearing 30 Discussion Anonymous 06/02/23 (Fri) 10:29:07 AM No. 332611 [Reply]

I’ve been here for quite some years and I know a lot of you have been, too. Surely a percentage of posters here are around 30, or over 30. For those of you that are - how are you handling it?

Share your successes, insecurities, and life wisdom. Share fashion and beauty advice.

How do you feel about nearing 30/being over 30? Have you found the incel cope about 30+ women to be true in any way? What were your biggest fears, and what are your biggest triumphs at your current age?

Absolutely no Zoomers allowed in this thread, unless you’re an elder Zoomer. Zoomer ageism is peak stupidity and we won’t have it here.

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Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 06:32:28 PM No. 534748

>>534569
Me reading this knowing I've learned to code and several languages from the screentime but yes generally it's better to not be online all the time.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 06:57:35 PM No. 534765

>>534748
Well yes I meant unproductive screentime like mindless browsing and hours of netflix, not productive activities. Good for you for teaching yourself all that.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 09:07:20 PM No. 534899

>>534364
>be more selfish and self centered, especially if you lack confidence or rely on others to get information and advice
>don't get married yet
>don't have kids yet, especially if you're still a student
>be careful what you post online

Anonymous 04/24/25 (Thu) 03:42:23 AM No. 535341

>>534565
>I don't think that every single person who says things like that has an ulterior motive
Of course. It's hard to really nail down into words but you need a certain level of discernment, and maintaining a level of skepticism never hurts. I say all this because I'm at the point where it's becoming more and more apparent how selfish, manipulative, and heartless some of the people I loved and considered close to me actually are (including family). And what I've noticed is that time and time again these people come to me feigning these garbage platitudes about how nice I am etc just to eventually ask me for something - whether it's money to cover their wrongdoings (that they aren't always honest about), time they dont' deserve, very large asks and favors, etc. It's only in recent years I've started to recognize it all and put my foot down and you should see how quickly the mask falls…

Anonymous 04/24/25 (Thu) 11:45:41 AM No. 535505

>>535341
Ayrt, ty for this nonna. It helps me look at some of my own relationships too, especially with family who think they get a pass for anything just because we’re related. I wish they could self-reflect a little more.

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Makeup Thread #4 maybe we need a pastebin edition Anonymous 12/08/22 (Thu) 05:30:06 PM No. 303045 [Reply]

Previous thread: >>170544

Post anything and everything makeup here: product reviews, product questions, cool looks, etc. Thinking of compiling a document with products that get mentioned a lot for future OP posts so feel free to suggest your faves!

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Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 10:40:54 PM No. 534361

>>534324
Thanks! Now I need to figure out how to remove all that glitter from my skin, lol. I used a benzol broxide face wash, a cerave face wash, and micellar water and I still have glitter all over my face.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 11:23:58 PM No. 534389

>>534315
Nona, I thought this was a picture you grabbed from online. You have such pretty eyes, the kind I have always wanted to have. The makeup you have done for them fits perfectly and is very eye-catching, great work.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 11:43:45 PM No. 534396

>>534315
Wow this look is gorgeous nonna

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 12:57:05 AM No. 534432

>>534389
>>534396
Thanks! My eyes are the only saving grace for my face so this makes me happy, kek.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:59:56 PM No. 534842

>>530169
I really like the Judy Doll liquid brown eyeliner get it before tariffs hit

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Manifestation Thread #2 Anonymous 12/06/24 (Fri) 10:16:04 PM No. 448891 [Reply]

Anything you want or desire, the Universe will provide you with it.

Post your desires, affirmations, about your manifestation journey, goals and successes.

Tips for anons:
>Do not write it in the future tense (I will, they will, etc). Do it in the present or even the past tense.
>Avoid negatives (I don't, I can't, I won't, etc)
>Avoid "wish" or "want", think of it as if it's already happening and you don't have to wish or want anymore
>Keep your mind relaxed, focus on the good feelings of the outcome. Desperation attracts more desperation
>Trust the process

Advices and inputs are welcomed!

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Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 01:59:38 PM No. 534040

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I weigh 12 stone
I weigh 12 stone
I weigh 12 stone
I weigh 12 stone
I weigh 12 stone
I weigh 12 stone

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:25:33 PM No. 534797

I woke up and have a beautiful smooth hairline. It just disappeared one day. My skin is clear. Also somehow I grew a little bit taller. And all my extra fat just up and left. I have my original beautiful body.

I also own a small private island. I live on this island with my cats and chinchilla. Life is good.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:33:45 PM No. 534803

>>534797
>>534797
>>534797
And by that I mean baby hairs. Curly small little hairs.
You fulfilled your purpose as I am an adult now.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 07:35:22 PM No. 534806

I forget about him.

Anonymous 04/24/25 (Thu) 04:46:28 AM No. 535389

I get my green card in the mail, after all these years being in limbo I can move on in life. I can see my best friend for the first time in 3 years and the rest of my family. I can travel with my husband in his new career and our life together will have security.

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Perfume #2 Anonymous 01/04/24 (Thu) 11:03:23 PM No. 371060 [Reply]

Talk about all things perfume, share your favorite scents, and get recommendations.

Previous thread
>>>/g/359691

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Anonymous 04/21/25 (Mon) 10:24:46 PM No. 533519

>>533518
I was just asking bc most of them smelled like dookie in there idk why people would wear them. This one was the only scent that I felt was even wearable.

Anonymous 04/21/25 (Mon) 11:05:48 PM No. 533547

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>>414629
>>411927
picked this up and it hits the scratch of being twin-peaks-adjacent memorabilia but also an acceptable/affordable adjacent scent to tom ford's lost cherry at an OK price point.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 12:17:50 AM No. 533572

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>>456286

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 03:45:13 PM No. 534073

>>533572
Fragrantica reviews are so entertaining

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 06:36:58 PM No. 534751

come for me for having bad taste idc but my favorite perfume is britney spears’ fantasy, which smells exactly like cotton candy. however it’s a little one note and i do like a more complex scent even when it’s candy based, so if anyone has any suggestions for similar perfumes with a little more going on i would love to try something new. i love perfume oils bc they tend to last longer for me but i feel like i struggle to find oil-based scents that are still light and sweet and fruity, most of the ones i’ve tried have been muskier or more floral but i can’t find a candy kinda scent in an oil format so i’d love any recs for that too.

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Goth praising #2 Anonymous 11/20/24 (Wed) 06:56:34 AM No. 445663 [Reply]

Discuss goth music, makeup, fashion that you love. People you admire, gossip, news, etc.

previous thread:
>>86956

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Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 07:46:59 PM No. 534216

>>532728
>Yeah the singer sings in a somewhat classical voice that you rend to hear with women in symphonic metal but the instrumentals are not symphonic metal at all. You're right, it sounds like generic nu-metal with a classical vocalist.
I remember hearing this type of music in the 2000s. Not always with the female singer but just a "generic" feel to it. So many bands were mimicking that sound that they kinda blurred into each other.

>Sorry I admit I don't understand what you mean. Do you mean in how people are calling non-goth music "goth" or that goth music is now sounding like the vidrel?
Goth music is sounding like Eleine in that the sound is generic. And yeah, people calling non-goth music "goth" because it's dark or weird. Night Club(vidrel) gives me Jack Off Jill vibes with the whiney little girl asthetic. Just because it's dark and creepy doesn't make it goth. I feel like we're having a resurgence of that kind of music. idk if it's because they are using A.I. or what, but these new bands are reminding me of 2000s era misappropriation of goth.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 08:23:34 PM No. 534232

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>>533589
>i'm tired of zoomer baby bats denying the influence of christianism/catholicism in goth culture.
What about Siouxsie Sioux? Her iconic eye makeup came from ancient Egypt. In the 80s goths were taking inspiration from the occult and I don't recall seeing a lot of Christian influence other than rosaries.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 12:37:58 AM No. 534425

>>533971
Something looking cool and being easily attainable doesn't mean it influenced the music. It wasn't because they were tied to a religion. When goth emerged from the punk movement These things were Motifs in gothic literature and pop culture horror. These items were very thriftable. In the 80's rosaries were worn as a layering fashion accessory.
Does anyone else remember when you used to be able to mail order Gregorian chants on cassette or compact disc? Yeah, most people buying that didn't incorporate that in their lives other than it sounding cool. Common things are commonly consumed.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 04:26:41 PM No. 534632

Yup. It's mostly aesthetics that is being influencing goth. Aesthetics of various religious rituals like burning frankincense. Not too much deep thinking aside from maybe few bands here and there.

>>534232
I think it mostly comes from art deco era influence in cinema. Ancient Egypt being major trend in the era of Art Deco. As for Ankhs they made it's way into churches of Rome and Byzantium centuries ago.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 09:38:11 PM No. 534929

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>>534216
>I remember hearing this type of music in the 2000s. Not always with the female singer but just a "generic" feel to it. So many bands were mimicking that sound that they kinda blurred into each other.
Yeah you're right, these generic symphonic metal bands were all over the 2000s to the point where unless they had something significant that made them stick out, they were generic to boring to listen to me. Personally it was why I tended to prefer finding vocalists who sounded like actual opera singers with dramatic vibratos as opposed to the safer classical soprana style that most of these middling singers used.

>goth music is sounding like Eleine in that the sound is generic.
Oh okay. Yeah I see what you mean though I guess to be fair, this has seemed to be a problem since the 90s when many bands were trying to sound like The Sisters of Mercy but at the very least, at least they were making goth music no matter how generic it sounded.

>And yeah, people calling non-goth music "goth" because it's dark or weird. Night Club(vidrel) gives me Jack Off Jill vibes with the whiney little girl asthetic.
It really is and it's so annoying because it's so common these days, even more then the 2000s though I think that's because social media is such a big prominent thing these days compared to like 2005/2007 where things felt more contained.

Also the vidrel you posted, I see what you mean but I Jack Off Jill is so much better lol. I admit I was really into them back in the 2000s and I especially love Scarling. That stuff sounds al ot more interesting than than the generic dark pop song shared in vidrel,

>Just because it's dark and creepy doesn't make it goth. I feel like we're having a resurgence of that kind of music. idk if it's because they are using A.I. or what, but these new bands are reminding me of 2000s era misappropriation of goth.
Yeah you're right, history is repeating itself and I think it's because of the use of AI for sure. Because AI music is being a lot more accessible to the every day consumer, these people are farting out AI music thinking that they are now musicians and it's making a mockery of actual music. I mean I won't lie, there have been some AI songs I've heard that made me lauPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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Non Kinky/Benine Sexual Turn ons Anonymous 02/18/21 (Thu) 01:20:05 PM No. 172132 [Reply]

ITT:Discuss unconventional and conversational turn ons that aren't related to kink or bdsm and are mostly Benine

I'll start, having sex with a guy while he's wearing glasses

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Anonymous 04/13/25 (Sun) 11:47:56 AM No. 527395

A nice pair of hands that look soft and well cared for. I like to imagine how good and gentle they'd feel touching me

Anonymous 04/13/25 (Sun) 11:59:45 PM No. 527954

Belly pooch on women, literally so cute

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 04:53:01 AM No. 534496

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Women who wear gloves. They have to be nice gloves that fit them well though. The way that a really well-fitted glove lets you focus the shape of the hand is very sexy to me for some reason. Also gloves often signal sophistication and class. Although I also like it when women wear latex gloves, doctors are hot.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 09:02:50 AM No. 534533

Being generous

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 12:18:37 PM No. 534568

just passing by to say i laughed at the spelling of benign kek

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Do you believe in true love? Anonymous 11/30/20 (Mon) 07:15:32 PM No. 161744 [Reply]

Anons, do you think true love is real? Like real, unconditional love? Have you ever experienced it? Do you think it’s a lie? I want to know.

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Anonymous 04/15/25 (Tue) 06:34:58 AM No. 528779

Yes but not for me.

Anonymous 04/15/25 (Tue) 06:47:06 AM No. 528782

>>528036
>Randomly mentally ill
More money = more access to health care = more diagnoses smartass

Anonymous 04/15/25 (Tue) 07:15:53 AM No. 528793

I believe true love exists but the kind of love most people fixate on tends to be a lot more transactional, animalistic, and performative.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 06:40:24 AM No. 534511

No. Love doesn't exist and never has. All relationships form the way they do based on power dynamics.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 06:37:34 PM No. 534752

Only in my head and dreams, and that's all I need.

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Questioning Sexuality Thread #3 Anonymous 09/17/24 (Tue) 04:39:09 PM No. 430575 [Reply]

Unsure if you're actually straight? Actually gay? Anything in between? Ask for advice here.

Also welcome are "late bloomers" who realized their true selves long after their teen years who'd like to share their experience and tell others what signs to look out for.

Please be kind to questioning anons, no matter how "obvious" it might seem to you what they are.

Thread #1: >>153246
Thread #2: >>>/g/344673

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Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 01:59:47 AM No. 534454

>>534450
They'll use whatever excuses they can. Even before troonshit took off and girldick fics were just some fringe fetish shit for degenerates you could still easily find well-written F/F erotica fanfics and lesbian literature written by and for women. The complaint that lesbian literature panders to booktokfags is such a zoomer take too.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 02:58:43 AM No. 534476

>>534449
That retard RPs as having a dick.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 03:50:52 AM No. 534486

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>nonnas actually acknowledge they are bisexual
>it's still not enough to prevent the spergery

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 04:23:01 AM No. 534494

>>534486
No one is sperging at the one who is bisexual.

Anonymous 04/23/25 (Wed) 04:50:56 AM No. 534495

>>534431
Mental illness

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Black Girl General #7 Anonymous 01/23/25 (Thu) 05:32:01 AM No. 475221 [Reply]

Previous Threads: >>>/g/429453
>>>/g/418638
>>>/g/409041
>>>/g/378416
>>>/g/363824
>>>/g/199512

A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Report and ignore bait (especially from those defending male violence and brutality on black women). Be aware of common infight & bait topics (diaspora wars, Africans vs African-Americans, interracial dating, etc.) and act accordingly.

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Anonymous 04/21/25 (Mon) 08:20:31 PM No. 533417

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Please forgive me for the insanely stupid post incoming. All my life I've been told I am to blame for my big butt. Even when I was severely underweight, the one thing that retained its shape was my ass??? I was told it was my diet, it was my exercising, it was because I was bulimic for a while due to stress, etc. Is this just something I can never get rid of? I also don't like it when people fetishize having a massive ass because it makes me insanely self conscious. Asking here because my white friends won't stop praising this shit and I know this is probably an isolated issue.
Plus, I have no tits, so it looks pretty bad overall.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 01:12:10 AM No. 533598

>>533417
Why are you so self conscious of it? The best way to truly lose bodyfat overall is strength training I think. But if you chase a look that is hard to maintain or unrealistic for you that's worse than just accepting yourself.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 01:17:31 AM No. 533605

>>533598
Mostly? Cat calling from moids. I don't need that. I also don't need family commenting on it as a joke. I need it gone. I'll look into strength training though.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 02:27:47 PM No. 534045

>>533417
Nona, I'm exactly the same. It doesn't matter my weight, I've just got a fat ass. I've gone my whole life, including when I was a literal child not even double digits, with people commenting on it constantly. No amount of strength training, running, or anything else has gotten rid of it. Some of us are just built that way and there's not much you can do beyond maintaining a healthy weight so that you don't add more on there, as usually being built like that means a lot of your fat goes there if you gain weight, too. My condolences.

Anonymous 04/22/25 (Tue) 03:31:43 PM No. 534068

>>533417
This is a total crapshoot but there are tons of weird Asian exercise videos that promise a smaller ass. They won't give you a totally flat nonexistent ass but they could potentially tone your butt in a way that makes it smaller.

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