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No. 115009[Reply]

When's the last time you cried? Was it over something stupid/serious?

I cried at a funeral today, not neceissarily over the death, but over my having to deal with being around my family's emotions & drama and not being able to leave.
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No. 115247

I don't understand the charcoal thing but it sounds bad. Please stay safe. Your problems can be solved without harming yourself

(sorry if I'm misreading the post)

No. 115258

It's a suicide method.

No. 115275

Killing yourself will ruin your kids life worse than leaving your partner will.
Get help,reach out to an emergency suicide prevention line now if you don't have any close friends. Then speak to your school about your home life and mental health issues to see if you can extend or resit.

No. 115278

Last time I cried was 2 hours ago over my granddad — who's like a father to me — possibly having to go into hospice soon. I feel like I jinxed everything somehow by asking him in December if he'd be around for my 21st birthday (which is next month) and since then he's rapidly gone downhill. I've been helping take care of him since I was 17 and it'll be the first major loss in my life.

No. 115286

Last time I cried was a few weeks ago, when my narc mom threatened me with law enforcement, because I didn't answer her texts as I was trying to get ready to go to work. I called her screaming to leave me alone. I went no contact a couple days after that.

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No. 110716[Reply]

Has anyone ever seen yandere shit in real life? Or had an unhealthy obsession with someone that could be classified as such?

I had a friend talked all the time about wanting to kill her ex's new girlfriend. She would write extremely detailed rants on her tumblr about it and peaked when she attacked her in the hall one day and carved his name into her arm when she was sent home. Her parents ended up pulling her out of school and homeschooling her after that. I heard through the grape vine that she regularly attempted contact with him for several years after high school to the point where he had to delete all social media.
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No. 111117

Lmfao sadly true! Underrated post.

No. 115104

I realize this thread is kinda old, but can anyone let me know if I'm a yandere?

>meet someone online like 2 years ago

>try my hardest to be with them despite being a depressed, fat, sack of shit
>still doesn't like me (makes sense), but I fell really hard and have never felt this way before and thought there was a real connection there
>a year passes and I move out of town following a psychotic/suicidal break (partially fueled by lack of progress/them getting into a relationship and saying marriage was on the way)
>another year passes, haven't talked to them since last november, but I still keep expecting them to call/text

Right now, I'm in the middle of learning how to crochet and learning how to 3D print so I can send them a bunch of gifts

I guess I'm not really looking for advice because I'm pretty sure that if I could move on, I'd just be jaded and go into any potential relationship just weird
I just wanted to know if I was yandere

I used to text everyday and rarely get a response so I just stopped because
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No. 115105

That’s not what yandere is but you definitely have a lot of issues.

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No. 115148

I do have these kind of thoughts that I don't want anyone around my boyfriend and that if he would die while dating me he would be mine forever and not able to be with anyone else ever again.
Also the sweeter I am and not picking unnecessary fights, in case of breakup, will make him miss me so fast when new gf starts getting moody.

Then again I know I have issues and would rather be just sweet girlfriend who is not possessive or jealous. Or if i am a jealous i try to play it down little bit and seem cute about it.

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No. 115124[Reply]

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I will do any comissions, check me out, OC's, traditional as well as digital, whatever you feel like.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 115133

You should take a few years to improve. Your art is of very low quality, not worth the money.

No. 115134

what's wrong with it? i see worse people getting $60 for ridiculous, no effort needed commissions

No. 115139

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>A few years
mf you can improve your art to a decent level in three months, sounds like you never drew in your life

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No. 44548[Reply]

New relationshit general since the other has reached post limit.

Any ideas on how to get partner to try rougher sex (choking, etc)? He's so afraid of hurting me or leaving marks but I'm into that shit. I guess it doesn't help he personally knew my ex who did sexually abuse me.
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No. 114957

Made sure you go get some emergency contraception asap and use a condom from now on. The relationship is a mess obviously, so don't add any more misery by bringing a baby into it.

No. 114959

How would you feel if your male partner suggested opening up the relationship? It has not happened to me but to a close friend and I would be devastated. If I'm not enough to someone I'd rather not stick around.

No. 114967

I'd break up if they really wanted to do it. Theres no saving a long-term/serious relationship when one partner wants to fuck around with someone else that isn't you. I would think they have already moved on in their head and just want my approval so they don't feel guilty.
I know it can work out, i guess, if there is a bunch of consent, rules and no jealousy but its rare and usually ends bad.

No. 114973

Use the newer thread >>>/g/108637

No. 114974


Thread has exceeded 1200 posts and is about to be locked! Please create a new thread and post a link to it.

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No. 109507[Reply]

The last thread of this is a year old, SO, NEW THREAD! Post your room inspos/ideas/decor

Selfposting welcome
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No. 114937

this picture made me want dark green bedding ugh

No. 114954

I love this room so much anon, it reminds me of a granny's comfy little house.

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No. 114841[Reply]

What are your thoughts on casual sex?

Personally, I am extremely against it. I think more bad comes from it than good. I don't judge people for doing it, I just think it's a bad idea. I'm not saying you should only be with one person your entire life or you fucked up, I'm just saying that sex with someone you don't know that well or are in a relationship with us a bad idea.

No. 114842

>sex with someone you don't know that well or aren't in a relationship with is a bad idea.

Sorry, I'm drunk.

No. 114843

I was extremely against casual sex then I went through a phase and I wanted to experiment, didn't do it often but I found that it's just not worth the trouble (in my opinion)

No. 114844

Opposed, not for any moral reasons but because we just don't win with it.

Men get
>an ego boost
>a status/reputation boost
>bragging rights

We get
>maybe pleasure if we're lucky but an orgasm is unlikely
>a drop in status/reputation
>a potential drop in self esteem depending on how shitty the guy treats you in and out of bed
>pregnancy risks

It's literally letting a man look down on us and think we're easy sluts (not necessarily fair or true but that's how they think), and making him feel good about himself/rewarding him for it with pussy. Unless he is so crazy hot that the dick is worth it, or he is an uncommonly kind guy who won't think less of you for it, it's not worth it. Some girls like the validation and attention but I really think, overall, it's a net loss to our self esteem and confidence.

No. 114845

Moved to >>>/g/114835.

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No. 82463[Reply]

Share your experiences, advice, tips.
What was your cringiest story? Have you had a successful interaction? Do you think dating apps are worth the effort?
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No. 114610


If he doesn't reply anymore, he's probably not that into you or has found someone else he prefers talking to. Don't demean yourself, move on.

No. 114688

just joined bumble. i'm barely swiping right. the ones i do swipe right and start convo with, they're absolute shit at returning convo and don't ask questions so i assume they're not interested and unmatch. i'm seeing people show up again after i've swiped left… am i running out of matches already?

No. 114693

yeah you have - you might need to widen your search unfortunately

No. 114755

This guy i went to middle school with, and haven't seen since that time period, liked me on okc. i kinda want to match and catch up, but idk if he even recognized me or takes it the wrong way or something. what would you anons do?

also, is there a way on okc to hide your profile from men? i have it hidden from straight people, but bi/queer/whatever men seem to have great trouble reading "gay" and "looking for women" and understanding what that means…

No. 114894

It would have been way easier like years ago when you can actually send messages to people who like you. Proceed with caution since he may read that you are interest in women. If you do go for it then start out that you are only interested in being friends (works more if you have "seeking friends" in your profile, despite it being a big meme because people are scared). I personally wouldn't do it since there could always be the chance that I can run into them irl and start a convo from there.

I really don't know what to tell you… It doesn't matter if you are a lesbo or not since men will try to get in anyways. It's been happening a lot on tinder with women getting matched with troons/men on either side. I guess your best bet would be to manually hide them.

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No. 111676[Reply]

I know their is a femdom genral but this is for all BDSM related stuff

Thread for:
>subs and dommes
>female subs interested in women
>BDSM images and media
>advice and stories
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No. 113195

It doesn't mean he'll be hurt you wont do it. Men get all sorts of ideas from porn they might not even be that interested in doing IRL. Finding someone that only likes what you like isn't very likely tbh.

No. 113239

Also cringed about the uwu kitten part but yES. Kinky dating is exhausting.

I recently had a weirdly horny phase and ended up creating a tinder profile that was basically just me very blatantly seeking sex. Since I’m a bit of a brat I wrote a bio that was a bit provocative. The amount of guys that were like
>Oh I can dom and spank you if you want ;)
… I ended up deleting just a few hours later.

There was a tumblr (I don’t remember the name, unfortunately) that collected ‘I’m the domliest dom you’ll ever meet so pls be my sub this is an order’-messages etc and I could relate to pretty much all of them.

Also the amount of guys that think a good way to assert dominance is by just sending a dick pick (optionally with a command)…

God I’m glad I don’t have to deal with that atm

No. 114727

i want so badly to be involved in BDSM but i'm just scared. i'm 20, only had sex with 2 men i was in relationships with and engaged in (uninformed) bdsm with one of them. now that i'm single and living in a city for the first time over the summer i really want to get into the "community" i guess but i'm just completely uninformed and scared of the unknown.
+ i've never tried to have casual sex before due to deep rooted social anxiety etc. i dunno if i'll even like it or not
i've just always always been into BDSM since age ~11 or something (fuckt i know) and it'd be a dream to be able to do a scene
also concerned that the community is mad lifestyle oriented. i do not want BDSM to cross over into my personal life at all.
should i just make a fetlife and force myself to try?

No. 114744

Doesn't hurt to give it a try. I'm also 20 and starting at BDSM now though I have a more specific situation than just dom/sub.
Be VERY attentive if you are looking for a maledom. So many guys are just looking for an easy opportunity to hit and torture women and are nasty mysoginistic fucks. But there are good ones too, of course. Not everybody wants it to be a lifestyle, all those things need to be communicated.

No. 114754


Go to a munch in your area, and meet new people. And have your big girl panties on for the inevitable manipulative types there looking to take advantage of you - the ones who will compliment you for "being so mature for your age", for being "a real sub", the ones who are in a corner by themselves and who do not have obvious close friends in the scene.

There's a type of dude that crops up in BDSM bars all over the globe, and is there to be a shitty, manipulative, gaslighting "dom", and I've yet to see a scene without one. They prey on noobs and those unsure of themselves, so keep yourself safe and make friends at your local munch first and take the temp of the scene. Good luck!

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No. 51324[Reply]

Ok, so there was already a thread talking about some uni stuff, but I wanted to start a more general thread where we could all let off a little steam, ask for advice, etc.

I'm about to go back to uni to do a post-grad and people on the Facebook group are already pissing me off. 90% of the people on the course are whiny girls who haven't grown up since high school and all they have done is sit and bitch about how bad everything is away to be. I'm feeling really apprehensive about meeting people in person now, because I really wanted to just have a group of friends who I could hang out and study with.

These are definitely not the kind of people I want to have to spend time with if possible, but I don't wanna end up just hanging out with a bunch of dudes all year, so now i'm stressing out. What should I do?
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No. 112083

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Good luck anon! You're doing great!

No. 112088

I have to work on my dissertation that I have to complete for June and my laziness is catching up to me. I wrote over half of it already but it's been a while since I've had enough time to do anything about it so I have to re-read everything I wrote from the beginning so I can make sure I didn't forget anything. But I don't want to. I've been thinking about going to the university's library everyday so I can focus, instead of staying at home, but public transport from my home to the library is trash and the library is always crowded and closed early during the weekend.

No. 114543

I'm going to study Fine Arts the next year, but I have the feeling that the place would have some elitist teachers and students. I can't stand that behaviour in art related subjects, it makes me sick and I always disagree with every person who presents themselves as a "know-it-all" who speaks the "absolute truth" in terms of "aesthetic" or "technique/art theory". (but in fact, they are just insecure and jealous people who want to tear down other's work).

Fine Arts anons, is this true? Have you encountered this type of people there? I just want to prepare myself mentally for it lol.

No. 114554

I am 1/3 through an internship which I hate. Worst thing is, I have only another year to go through my Master's and I have no idea to do next.

No. 114587

I've got like 10 classes left for my graphic design associates and I'm not sure I'm going to make it through… it's taken far longer than expected and I'm ashamed of myself for going so slowly. I can't imagine getting a bachelors at this point and I don't have a sufficient enough graphics portfolio to get a good internship atm unless I can sucker one of my professors into getting me a recommendation. I don't know what I'm going to do after I get out. Die I guess?

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No. 69322[Reply]

Just a thread to freely brag about anything just because why not. No consequences here, this thread is purely just for fun. Can be anything like possessions, body, things that happened to you, or just something you're proud about and want to boast.

I guess I'll start. Today I studied last minute for an exam but managed to ace it!
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No. 114357

I think other anon is correct that I just got lucky genetically.
Also I wish I could brag about the weight loss itself, unfortunately it was more to do with stomach issues that I’ve had for a while. So while I got the measurements, in the end I am still pretty “skinny fat” and flabby.
I really admire the people who do work on their bodies though, it takes a lot of discipline. I doubt I’d ever be this thin if I wasn’t sickly.

No. 114399

I had to ask because most women I've seen who have BIG hips got them not just through genetic giftedness but working out too. Many of the women I've seen online who are 40" hips to 27" waist sort of proportions work out a lot
I'm sure it feels great being thinner but I hope you get better anon!
My waist/hip ratio is closer to a ten inch difference so I'm proud of it since it's in that golden zone, but yours is way more enviable to me. I'm kind of up my ass about my body image lately so to counteract I'll pop in with my brags…
>passing a math class with a strong B despite not studying enough and could probably get an A by the end of the semester
>never failed a class
>no debt
>bf is hot pretty boy
>slim but kind of curvy, leggy, peachy butt
>pretty face, very "classic" features
>popular/likeable with the people I meet
>great cook, complimented by complete strangers before
>don't exercise it enough bc lazy but great sense of style
>professors almost always love me
>really good self-control with things other people struggle with (food, booze, etc.)
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No. 114531

I’ve lost weight! I’m currently 173cm and 52.5kg (5’8 and 116lbs) and I’ve finally gotten a 23 inch waist! (Bust: 31, Waist: 23, Hips:32)

It seems stupid but I used to be overweight and people used to make fun of me, but now I feel really confident.

No. 114534

How did you do it? I’m 5’8” 135 and I absolutely hate it but the only time I got to 115 was by totally starving myself and fucking up my health. Even consistent healthy diet with reasonable calorie restriction and tons of cardio and strength training only got me to 120 for the few years I maintained it.

No. 114539


Recognising my hunger cues and becoming more aware definitely helped. If I was craving something, I’d think ‘Would I eat an apple?’. If the answer is no, then I’m not hungry. If the answer is yes, then I eat an apple. (I always have one on me)
This doesn’t sound that effective but it really helped me to differentiate between real hunger, and the urge to eat out of boredom or habit.

I eat small portions, but try to eat high protein foods to keep myself feeling fuller, which helps to prevent binging later on. I also eat only two meals a day, and barely snack (because I never really need to).

When it comes to satisfying cravings, I don’t have cheat days, I have cheat meals. I’ve noticed that cheat days completely throw me off schedule and can impact the rest of my week, whereas having just one cheat meal allows me to get back on track very quickly. Also, making lower calorie versions of the food in craving is really cool too. Sometimes I make ‘pizza’ and swap the traditional base for a tortilla (or make mini rice cake pizzas). It’s not the same of course, but it does help.

I’ve been doing stuff like this for the past 6 months and I’ve lost 22.5kg (50lbs). However since my tdee is smaller than it was, it’s getting harder to lose more, but nowadays I do more low calorie swaps to keep myself under

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