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Townhall Chat on Friday, March 20 @ 2PM GMT

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No. 122519[Reply]

I don't think I've seen a thread for this but I know we discuss fuckboys a lot: experiences with softboys and opinions?

Urban dictionary has it defined as:

> Similar to a fuckboy but without the cocky attitude. The Softboy will butter a girl up by appealing to her emotions and showing a "sensitive" side long enough for her to sleep with him, whether or not he actually cares about her or not. Then, like the fuckboy, he can't/won't commit. Differs from the fuckboy because he goes for the heart and emotions rather than just the body.

Experiences with softboys? overcoming these types of guys and anything else.

I recently had the pleasure of dealing with an incredibly manipulative hybrid of a softboy with a cocky fuckboy, and once I started to see through him, his true colors came out and so did the gaslighting. Still ignoring his incredibly guilt tripping messages to this day about how "he's sorry that I felt that way" when I called him out for his emotional abuse and that "his insecurities get the better of him and hurt people" and he romanticises the shit out of unhealthy relationship dynamics.

Anyone else had to deal with these incredibly fake and crocodile-teared men?
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No. 131624

Thought that too. OP's pic is not softboy at all?? I thought softboy was emotionally immature pricks with curly hair who wear sweaters.

No. 131714

It reminds me of those early-mid 20s edgy bi/gay guys who try to have that damaged and eccentric "aesthetics" going on on insta lol.

No. 132474


Not sure if counts as a soft boy but this dude literally wanted to be some bad boy type. He would wear some dumb leather jackets, smoke, drink whiskey, and play Artic Monkeys unironically. He'd compare himself to other guys calling them softboys when he pretty much does the same thing a soft boy does by turning "muh depression" into a personality trait. Also he cheated on me too lmao

No. 132522

They're witty and have their shit together. Open to new experiences. Egocentric and victim syndrom though, which is a big turn off. No my dude, you're not Jesus bis just a faggot. But normal hot guys are out of my league so hey

No. 132524

>They're witty and have their shit together.
never seen one that was either of these things and especially not both

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No. 63860[Reply]

anyone else annoyed with the weight gaining trend? I understand if it's an anorexic girl recovering, but I'm talking about the girls who look fine but shove every little debbie and pizza they can find down their throat and think it will go straight to their ass and tits then come to the sad disappointment when everything BUT their ass and tits get larger
it's trending on the internet and being encouraged by moronic men who think gaining weight will make a girls butt or boobs bigger, it's sad when perfectly thin petite girls with slight curves become average chubby girls because of the weight gain shit

anyone had experiences with this or anything like this? thoughts on the weight gain trend?
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No. 132479

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>puffy face
>protruding belly
>huge butt
>big thighs
>monster calves
A model for letting other girls feel better about themselves for sure!

No. 132484

No, fat girls get laid, the guy just doesn't stay/ want to be seen in public with them.

Men stick their dicks into anything that moves. So getting laid isn't really an accomplishment.

No. 132497

>the guy just doesn't stay/ want to be seen in public with them.
That appears to be mostly true
So why don't these fat girls tone up then(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 132514

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Maybe they don't live for mediocre dick like you do.

No. 132520

Is this a pretext to shit on fat girls? Because this shit is not a trend at all and it mostly concerns ex-ana

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No. 122000[Reply]

What problems do you experience when you like a guy who is skinny or fit and you want to approach him and would like a relationship with him?
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No. 126151

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No. 126179

His head, face doesn't fit the body. It is a very bad shoop.

No. 126211

Let's see her without the Snapchat filter, mega lift bra, shitty camera, back breaking positions and yeast infection giving panties

No. 132439

I'm constantly wondering if they are lying about wanting to be intimate.let alone liking me

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No. 113303[Reply]

ITT:Just brag about your boyfriend or husband and what he does for you
mine does the cooking,cleans the bathroom,does the yard-work,works out so he's fit,cares for his sick grandmother and loves me unconditionally even when I'm not as fit as I used to be
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No. 131504

I somehow managed to find a really amazing boyfriend. I have food issues and weight issues, and the other day he told me "I would rather you gain every pound possible than deprive yourself of food". It made me cry. I hateread a lot of posts in pinkpill and on reddit, and I think about how all men only want 100lb 10/10 waifs.

He's kind and sensitive, spoils me (previous boyfriends never gifted me anything), is a good listener.

I didn't think it was possible, anons. I thought I would go through life ugly and unloved and used by guys until they found someone hotter. I stopped hatereading reddit and I feel mentally better.

No. 132322

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I was browsing the old 'fetishes you're ashamed of' thread and came across this and realised this is exactly what my boyfriend is like. I feel so incredibly lucky. He really is the ideal bf to most girls. I'm so happy that I snatched him up lol

No. 132330

You can tell that a teen wrote that post

No. 132339

The tell was "popular". Aside from that though it's pretty wholesome.

No. 132397

Lets me cry when I need to and never tells me to "calm down" just lets me cry and he comes to cuddle me. That's all I needed my whole life. Just the ability to cry and quiet comfort. My mom never let me cry.

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No. 58242[Reply]

Post the (Somewhat reasonable) Dreams you always had but are literally Impossible.

I always wanted to be a model, since i was a kid but i never grew past 5'1 and ended up being allergic to cosmetics.

Still makes me lowkey suicidal when i think of it.
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No. 130290

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I'm not a real programmer I just program for school when I have to (I find it really fun though). I think thinking mathematically helps a lot but you can do without it. Programming is mostly just trial and error, just think of what you want to program, look up what functions are available that can help you and try to write something, if it doesn't work, read the error messages and try to change some of your code, and then try again, and then if it doesn't work google it, and then try again, and again and again…
If you want to try, you can install Jupyter Notebook, it's an interface for programming in the python language. I think it's nice for beginners because you can do fun stuff like making graphs. I frickin love graphs, pic related is a graph I made of a ball bouncing off inclined walls, aint it cool

No. 130308

Thank you for your advice and recommendation. Now I know where to start #♥(#♥)

No. 130311

To add onto what the other anon said, a really good thing to do would be to really, really think about the problem before you start writing any code.Try breaking up a problem into little bits.
When I first learned how to program, I just started typing away at a solution that was inefficient, buggy, or both. For my job process, I was writing a piece of code that was garbage for two days, then realized that the first solution that I had before, but abandoned because it seemed "too complicated" (woops), was actually the efficient and cleaner solution.  Planning really pays off.

Also, debugging tools are good to learn; otherwise, you just end up writing multiple print statements and also going crazy ie. me.

Gl, hf anon!

No. 132003

My dream is to live in a cute village like in harvest moon or stardew valley. Everyone would be kind and get along well with each other and we would be surrounded by nature. It's not going to happen because I can't afford to buy a home, I have to live in an urban area to work in my field (at least at my level in my career), and I probably couldn't find a village like that anyway. Most rural towns I go to are just depressing and the people are poor or really conservative.

These hit me hard anons. I wish I could redo my teen years too. I was so shy and I assumed everyone thought I was annoying, so I missed out on so much.

No. 132604

idk, you don't need math but you do need logical reasoning, otherwise you're just googling forever and ever…

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No. 90960[Reply]

I can't be the only one who constantly has to deal with selfish and clueless guys who've obviously got their idea of sex from watching too much porn.

So let's share our worst and cringeworthies sexual experiences in this thread!
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No. 131831

thank u anon.. I feel kind of pathetic with how much I put up with from him lol.

No. 131837

You're going to have serious problems in your future relationships if you put yourself through this. That shit follows you

I'm in my 30s and still fucked up by shitty sexual experiences I had at 19. Don't let this guy ruin sex for you

No. 131845

He's super selfish, the sad part is he likely carried on with his ways. You weren't spineless, you were just trying to be nice and most men would aren't pornsick cartoon watchers would have appreciated your effort.
>and he was sick too
I had some ugly bastard give me a cold once too for this reason, lied to me about being sick and I wound up having to spend big bucks going to an emergency care to get antibiotics when it got worse. I remember him being so non-chalant about it too, I should have slapped him so the assault I felt would have been even.

No. 131848

>he puts one arm around his dakimakura and one arm around me
>says something like "2D waifu and 3D gf, best of both worlds"

Funniest shit I've read in awhile

No. 131849

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>he puts one arm around his dakimakura and one arm around me
>says something like "2D waifu and 3D gf, best of both worlds"

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No. 56050[Reply]

What's pham opinion of so called "slut shaming" do you believe it's deserved or even real? Have you ever been slut shamed? share your experience/opinions on the topic.

Imo it is a real thing and is pretty unfair for some but it also is almost justified for example dressing too provocatively in an office setting or a hospital, though I believe women have more freedoms with dressing than men with greater creative options e.g skirts, lose fitting tops and crop tops, shorts etc. this same freedom can lead to outfits not matching the setting. There are no double standards for men as they lack this creative oppurtunity to dress I believe. I am anti-feminist and a critic of the sufferigist movement and almost all waves of feminism though I do believe slut shaming is too real. I have been slut shamed many times and felt it was unjustified what about farmers?
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No. 131669

lonely and gay.
not today, satan.

No. 131683

No. 131685

i thought the same thing.

No. 131755

are you retarded?

No. 131780

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No. 59063[Reply]

Would anyone be interested in a girl-oriented anonymous imageboard? Including boards like


Would you be a user?
Which boards should be considered?
How friendly would you want the board tone to be (strict moderation)?
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No. 107746

Was the imageboard made already? Sorry for the stupid question

No. 109437

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(Begone scrot)

No. 109467

>said boyfriend was from r9k and they "met" during an r9k raid of CC and she openly bragged about it on the site
It's impossible to brag about such a thing. It's openly advertising how desperate and lacking in self-respect you have to be to knowingly date a dude who goes on /r9k/. What a dumbass she is.

No. 118424

Scrots generally become obvious after a few posts.

No. 131599

why are the girls bald?

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No. 63152[Reply]

Old thread: >>47022

We've got plenty of underrated dudes on lolcow but are there any men that you're ashamed to say you'd fuck for any reason? Men who are ugly, unattractive, average-looking, creepy, weird or just plain shameful? It doesn't have to be a big reason that you're ashamed, just say why.

Admit your thirst, farmers.
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No. 95029

>scroll down
>see this
>choke on my arepa

No. 95037

You are not the only one, that's basically what got him elected

No. 95042

He was handsome.

No. 131535

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great taste anon. i fantasizing about him as well and his young photograph is actually pretty cute.

No. 131536

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he make a perfect black twink if he doesnt dress like that

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No. 114835[Reply]

What are your thoughts on casual sex?

Personally, I am extremely against it. I think more bad comes from it than good. I don't judge people for doing it, I just think it's a bad idea. I'm not saying you should only be with one person your entire life or you fucked up, I'm just saying that sex with someone you don't know that well or are in a relationship with us a bad idea.
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No. 131450

> his dick was skinny

One of the first guys I met up with for casual sex had a skinny lil dick and looking back I almost think that he should warn women about that before meeting them. Waste of my time meeting him. Even my inexperienced younger self could barely feel it

No. 131456

Ot but my bf used to make casual jokes about his small dick. It's 6 inches and has good girth so it isn't even that small, but he's really tall and has huge hands and feet so people tend to asume that he has a huge dick.
And most people still think he has a big dick because he drops these jokes at just the right moment and it's hilarious, so people think he's just kidding.
But he confessed to me that he used to do this so girls would know that his dick is not big, to spare them an unpleasant surprise (if they were mutually interested the girl would always ask if the jokes were true).
Sorry for the blog post but I found it really thoughtful of him, and definitely agree it's the right thing to do.
Being honest about dick size doesn't mean the guy will never get laid, it just means he won't waste the time of girls that are not interested.

No. 131460

That's BDE

No. 131463

Men with small dicks should go for girls significantly less attractive than them to compensate. There's no way to know before actually getting sexual with each other, so it pre-empts his decreased appeal and puts them on the same level even if he does have a small dick.

No. 131464

Volunteers for making ugly girls feel good?

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