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No. 378416

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A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.

Follow site/board rules. Avoid infighting, report and ignore bait.

No. 378417

Finally got us a new title and thread description. I wanted to get a group of women for the pic, but I couldn't find one that I didn't think would make some anons bitch kek. Here's to a new thread!

No. 378426

Maybe when I was young, but no. Not anymore. I'm not saying this in a supremacist way but I think being a black woman is the best regardless of the issues I've experienced related to it, or how other people may perceive me. I can't imagine being anything but black, and I don't want to even consider not being able to fully understand and appreciate other black women like only another black woman can. I don't feel like my race is an inhibitor. I feel as if I can do anything any other woman can, imo my social anxiety and economic status has held me back more in life than my race actually.

I also recognize now that there isn't a big difference from me and other women. Black women are one of the groups most afflicted by misogyny but life sucks for all women.

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When I was young I always felt very weary of other black girls despite being black myself, because even though I went to a majority white school, the few black kids (and teachers) that were there, especially black girls, were just downright villainous towards me. I still get nervous interacting with other black people which is pathetic, I want that to stop. I want to be more in touch, I want to understand my own community so that's why I made the first thread which I still cringe at. I really didn't know that was an Asian woman…Anyway these feelings that I had in my youth, this fear of other black people became self loathing eventually. It became source of extreme insecurity. I started to feel like I would be perceived as scary too, and that I was a hypocrite in a way. How can I be nervous around people who look like me, will I become jumpy around my own reflection? Those are the kinds of things I'd ask myself. but now I've had the pleasure of getting to share my experience here and getting to hear yours and seeing that I still share a lot of experiences with other black women, I'm not an outsider. And I think these threads and the people I've been meeting through social media have really helped me work through a lot of my issues, especially in recent times. I remember when these feelings really started. it was in 2016, I was in middle school, I was having lunch with my friend (it was some kind of event because I remember lunch was outside) and a girl came up to me and said that she was going to jump me or something along those lines, she told me that I called her ugly and I was flabbergasted, I didn't know what the hell she was talking about, then I look over and see my long term on and off again bully smirking at me from behind this girl and I knew then that something was very wrong. I go and tell the counselor, the only black woman on the school staff, and she says she'll take care of it… She didn't. That very same lunch break she was outside twerking and dancing to some terrible music with the girls who threatened me. Me and my friend were speechless, to say the least. When my friend's mom was driving us home she mentioned what happened to her mother. Her mother said something I will never forget. "You should be happy you're not like them. You're civilized. Don't let them get to you." It wasn't something I processed as racist at the time but looking back on it the comment about being civilized weren't necessarily kosher. Maybe she didn't mean it in a racist sense, maybe I'm making assumptions and turning it into something it wasn't. But I remember feeling a sense of pride "I'm civilized, that must mean I'm a good girl, good for me!" but that experience shaped me in my youth I think because from then on I would avoid other black girls as much as I could. I had another bad experience that I think might of led to my inability to date black men no matter how nice they are which I feel very deeply guilty about because I know a few nice black guys now that are really cool and all but I just can't date them or be romantic with them, my body physically won't allow it. Which sucks because I feel like if I had a black friend or boyfriend I would feel absolved of my wrong doing, like I've atoned for all the times I've walked across the street when I've seen a group of black people approaching. Stupid, I know. These feeling are complex and hard for me to describe but I'm happy I'm chipping through them. I just wanna be a proper black person, whatever that means, and I don't want to be called white washed at family events anymore.

No. 378541

Cheers for choosing a more tasteful thread pic this time, the last one was weird thirst trap male gaze shit

No. 378643

Are we the only race of women who are better off single than in a relationship?

No. 378644

No, we just have higher self esteem and a lower bullshit tolerance than other races of women have, and are less likely to tolerate disrespect and cheating or let it slide. That’s why men have grown to hate us and instead go for women who are more likely to put up with their crap like Asian girls and low self esteem white girls.

No. 378652

Does anyone else struggle being mixed race? I’m a lightskinned black woman who looks around 1/4 black. You can’t really immediately tell I’m black apart from my coily hair, dark eyes and I guess my nose is a little flatter and broader than a fully white person. I live in an area that’s like 0.2% black and never see other black people around apart from maybe once a week on the street. Everyone else is white or Asian.

I feel like being ‘almost white’ but not quite fully white has made my dating life really hard. I’m not sure what it is about this generation of moids, but they seem to be really autistically obsessed with race. The men I talk to always seem to be either super racist, or have a fetish for ethnic women. Unfortunately or fortunately, this presents a lot of problems for me when trying to date.

I dated a couple guys who didn’t actually realize I was black, and when I told them, they got cold feet and I noticed afterwards they sort of backed off, as if they thought less of me for being part black and didn’t want to get involved with me, which makes me feel shit. I’ve also had dates who would question what our kids would look like and seemed to be unhappy with the fact our kids would be partially black, and were generally just racist as shit. Dodged a bullet I guess.

The other moids I talked to who accepted me for being black were basically white men with a fetish for black women. These men would also make me feel shit about myself because I usually didn’t fulfill their fetish criteria: my skin wasn’t dark or ‘chocolate’ enough for them, my hair isn’t an Afro it’s just curly, I don’t have a big ass or anything, I don’t dress in thotwear or listen to rap or hip hop and couldn’t ‘hook them up with some obscure dope black music’. I’m basically just a spicy white girl to them, and they would openly fetishize darker women or sexualize other black women in front of me, but act like they were willing to ‘accept me’ and use me as a placeholder until they found a black woman who could fulfil their fetish needs. Again, dodged a bullet. Both these types of men have caused me a lot of psychological pain and blows to my self esteem. And unfortunately I seem to keep encountering these same types of men over and over again.

I feel so out of place and not accepted by anybody it makes me want to cry. I wish I could meet a normal guy who doesn’t care about race but it feels like Gen Z is really obsessed.

No. 378668

No, the statistic showing that women are better off single is really about all women. I kind of agree with this anon here >>378644 that a lot of black women put up with less bullshit. IMO, the attention and coddling other races of women has made them weak, made them feel special so when they get treated like they aren't shit, it's a huge shock for them. It also makes them susceptible to falling for more traps that men lay for them. Not to say all black women are this strong, but i feel like in my family it helps that i have family members who will go out of their way to bully a lot of my aunties no good husbands/boyfriends so that even if they are too weak to break up with them on their own, the man will run away because of the pressure. There has been cases of this in my family so that's why i bring this up. I for one appreciate black men and other men being so honest about their hatred for black women, it makes it easy to accept their awful behaviour and act accordingly much faster and my way of dealing with it is permanent celibacy.

No. 378675

I always found it interesting how black women supposedly have the lowest male response rates on dating sites yet report the highest self esteem, meanwhile Asian women have the highest male response rates on dating sites and yet report having the lowest self esteem.

It’s almost like finding a low self esteem doormat woman who will put up with all his garbage/baggage is what most men are looking for in a gf/wife and that women with a lot of self respect are less attractive to males because they know she won’t tolerate it. Really makes you think. On the other hand it’s also hopeful because it means female self esteem does not have to be tied to desirability or male validation and can evolve in women completely separate from men.

Honestly I just hate male sexuality. It really is a pathology at this point.

No. 378683

I’m tired of liberals painting black men as angels all the time. Why are we not allowed to talk about black male violence. Black women are their biggest targets after all.

No. 378690

>That very same lunch break she was outside twerking and dancing to some terrible music with the girls who threatened me. Me and my friend were speechless, to say the least.

adults who do this are fucking losers trying to relive their youth. Fuck her

No. 378691

yes, because we have the least amount of healthy male suitors and dating out isn't a very good long term solution. At most two generations might be able to.

I strongly disagree. Low self-esteem is far more common in black women, especially when you observe their fashion habits and dating choices. The term "pick-me" originated form the black community to describe submissive women who debase themselves for lack male attention. Her self-hatred leads her to act out for attention, via hyper-sexual rap or social justice. I think low self esteem stems from parental neglect and societal hatred.

No. 378692

>white men with a fetish for black women
Never met a sane WM like this, I wish death penalties were still a thing. Glad you avoided him

Have you ever thought about dating a mixed guy, any combo?

No. 378694

Black men are more normalized and assimilated into mainstream society. Post-civili rights, black men made serious efforts nto getting white spouses and moving away from the community. they're omnipresent in all media genres compared to black women and popular in men's sports, which is more popular and better paid than women's sports. The first waves of diverse characters in media had black men as the stand ins for the black race.

An entire generation of white people have better experiences with black men. Defended them and their rap music to their parents.

No. 378696

It’s slim pickings out here in a cold white preppy town. Most men here are outright racist or outright fetishists, with little in between. I went out with one guy for a while who seemed good and then one day confessed to me that he’d love to get me pregnant and ‘make sure my children come out white’. That was already a weird red flag for me but I ignored it, and then a bunch of other stuff he did (including cheating on me) ended up being the final straw. I would happily date a mixed guy because we would immediately have some common ground but they’re also very rare out here and the ones I did meet seemed to have a strong preference for white women and I wasn’t white enough for them. I’ve noticed that European men I’ve talked to were way less race obsessed than American white men are which was refreshing, but I’m not interested in LDRs so looks like that’s not happening either.

No. 378707

>least amount of healthy male suitors
Does this also apply to African women?

No. 378711

that one blasian anon that's currently forcing herself in the asian girls thread is the main reason i'll never be pro-interracial relationships or 'divestment', whatever you wanna call it. sooo many mixed kids fucking act like her, no matter which parent is black - they're hurt because the black kids they went to school with don't and have never actually worshiped mixedness/lightskindedness like their parent(s) do! those types consistantly get rejected by their non-black family members/community, and yet, they never call them out on it! completely unlike how they will on literal black fucking strangers for having the audacity, the gall, to not be on their knees, sucking their metaphorical dicks about their mixededness~ "i am half (insert race here)/lighter than you, so im literally better than you, if you disagree on this, you are just a jealous, bitter black bitch!" sooo many of those types are all up and down black women's online spaces autistically screeching at us those sentiments, including blasian anon! like, how are you gonna come to our thread saying we have no culture when you are literally half korean kek!

No. 378712

Maybe if the black parent stuck around to actually raise that blasian girl she wouldn't be so annoying

No. 378715

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I know the type that you're talking about, but I don't think it's right to assume that's how all mixed people are. I don't even think the blasian anon is like that, it's not like she was attacking black women. She just wants peace with both sides, I can understand it.

No. 378720

i severely doubt it, even a good percentage of mixed people who come from two parental family homes act like her
it's not all of them, true, but it is most. and blasian anon was shitting on black women, nona, did you read what she said about us in the previous thread? did you read what she posted in the asian girls thread? she doesn't like black people, period kek and that's fine, honestly,that's her perogative, but does she really need to try and rally up anti-black bullshit to the asian girls? stop asian hate/black-on-asian crime literally stopped being being reported on mass media after a white man massacured an asian massage parler/underground sex brothel in atlanta

No. 378725

How do you feel when non black people hold their bags closer or make a note of looking at you when they lock their cars? I’m trying my best not to feel offended when this happens.

No. 378727

If I get a chance I do it back to them.

No. 378734

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I find it so weird that when mixies cry about getting bullied, they always have some form of saying "it was all black people's fault", yet have zero smoke for any other race they're part of. If Logic, tiktok, and IRL biracials with mommy issues are anything to go off of, mixed kids are almost always abused by their nonblack parent or side of the family. It's always the whites calling the kids "niggers", it's always the asians calling the kids "darkies", it's always the nonblack latinos seething at the kids for messing up their "mejorar la raza" bullshit. But noooooo, compared to complaining about black people, mixed people never have anything to say about their other side of the family. Nothing to say about any of those nonblack family members and even grandparents who never wanted to see them as a baby. Mixed people always, always, ALWAYS blame black people for 100% of the psychological issues they have going on. I think deep down inside, mixed people KNOW that their nonblack side hates them objectively more than the black side (in general). I think mixed people have so much hatred towards black people because their nonblack family and society makes them feel like having black blood is a failure, and so they get mad at us because some of their DNA is ours and they don't want to be related to us at all. If only they understood that black people as a whole never begged for their existence. I'm not saying black people never act weird about biracials. I have family members and even a mom like that, and it IS obnoxious. I just roll my eyes when mixed people act like it's always/only black people that get weird about biracials, even when their nonblack family members are still calling them "niggers" and gatekeeping them out of their own culture just because they're half black.

No. 378757

Sigh. Another triggered black moid hijacking the thread. Amazing how black men rape beat and murder black women the most yet still expect our undying loyalty and respect.(infighting)

No. 378759

ur probably imagining it tbh

No. 378760

I hate to break it to you, but fully black women are far more likely to be brutalized by black men than anyone else, mostly because BW associate and live with BM more than anyone else. My issue was with black men being violent towards women of all races, particularly black women, but now you’re going off on a schizo tangent and ranting about biracials being evil if they don’t want to associate with black moids and how all their family members secretly hate them. Take your goddamn meds.

But ok keep whining about muh eebil biracials being boogeymen and ignoring the actual problem. You don’t care about black women, if you did, you wouldn’t be capeing for the group most likely to kill them. Most of us just want to be left alone ffs.(infighting)

No. 378768

So true nona. I always find it interesting how women from ‘safer’ cultures fetishize bdsm and abuse. Most of my white and asian friends who came from cushy sheltered backgrounds love fanfics and media centred around abusive bad boys, have kinks that involve choking and being spanked and stuff, all want to meet a daddy dom type guy. Meanwhile most black women I know are desperately trying to avoid any kind of abuse, dislike violence especially during sex and are genuinely just looking for a man who is kind to them and doesn’t hit them.

No. 378770

I don't mind biracial people, but a lot of them have complexes about their race and it does make them kind of weird. I came across a YouTube channel a few days ago, and it was basically just a mixed woman making a bunch of videos talking about how black women are soooo jealous of her looks and always mean to her. It looked like she made 3-5 videos about that stuff every single day. I even saw comments of biracial women saying that even when a black woman is nice to them, they think there's some underlying hatred or jealousy. A lot of them are also very weird about black people saying that they don't see them as (full) black, which I think is so strange because other races will say the same thing (not seeing them as full white, Asian, etc…).

I think whether or not a mixed person is weird depends a lot on how their parents treat them and how they raise them to see their race

No. 378771

>how black women are soooo jealous of her looks
I reckon these folks just need to touch grass. I have interacted with plenty of biracial people in real life and have not felt that vibe.

No. 378781

Rihanna was bullied in school for being lightskin. People would say her parent got cucked and stuff by a white person. Black people can be bullies and roasting people over their appearance is a massive part of black culture, let’s not pretend otherwise.

No. 378786

I never said in my post that black people absolutely are never unwarrantedly mean to mixed people. You came to that conclusion on your own.

No. 378806

Anyone ever feel sad over the fact that neoliberal society has eroded the relationship between Black men and women just to make the 1% richer?

No. 378807

I feel like it spawns from the fact that so many of them are always rejected by whatever other community they come from and are desperate to assimilate into the black community, but they know they will never be black no matter how hard they try. I've always found it retarded that they never bother to make their own community and look to each other for belonging instead of trying to be the faces of the black community. I get that black people can be irritated at them for this specific reason, both men and women. My dad is biracial, is incredibly white passing but grew up in an African country in the 60s-90s and he talked about everyone bullying him for being white. I look completely black, but my brother and sister have an outward biracial looking appearance and if you tell them they aren't 100% black, despite our dad looking white as fuck, they literally throw a fit. I think they get even more enraged when a white person wants to know what they are mixed with knowing that historically they threw all black adjacent people into one box, it's like they want the one drop rule to come back. I get that they go through stuff, but i wish they would understand that they need to stop trying to fit into boxes they don't belong in.

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>I hate to break it to you, but fully black women are far more likely to be brutalized by black men than anyone else, mostly because BW associate and live with BM more than anyone else.
And I'm not talking about that subject, so I don't know why you're coming at me with this sad little swill you got going on.
>My issue was with black men being violent towards women of all races, particularly black women
Again, that's not what I was talking about, so save your woe is me statistics for a Tedtalk.
>but now you’re going off on a schizo tangent and ranting about biracials being evil
Bitch, I never said they were evil. I'm calling out that biracials like little blasian-chan always want to verbally fight with black people about race instead if confronting their white/asian-indingenous/mestizo grandparents for calling them niggers. Never said they were evil, only said they like to act dumb.
>if they don’t want to associate with black moids and how all their family members secretly hate them. Take your goddamn meds.
You think you got me with this point and that super cliche "take your meds" clap, but if we're going by your logic of biracials not wanting to affiliate with black people because of abusive moids, why do they always have beef with black people as a WHOLE and never specify that they only mean black MEN? It's because biracials seem to be emotionally overreactive and insecure, which blinds any proper judgment. Kind of like you, sweetie!
>But ok keep whining about muh eebil biracials being boogeymen and ignoring the actual problem.
Lol. I just don't like that they act like black people saying a few jokes about their lightskin to them is anything comparable to their white fathers going on reddit to ask the other scrotes how he can love his son if he's brown, or hearing aunts and uncles make slave jokes at Thanksgiving. Plus, nonblack people can be and are often super abusive too. Remember that white lesbian couple that killed their adopted black children? It's suspicious that you're painting the hatred biracials have to black people as justified just because black men are often abusive.
>You don’t care about black women,
I AM a black woman. You act like me calling biracials out on their bullshit is me hating black women. Again, you're acting hysterical, and black women and biracial women are not the same. Stop trying to turn this into a feminism issue, feminism is clearly just a copout for you and biracials to justify not wanting to associate with black people to any degree.
>if you did, you wouldn’t be capeing for the group most likely to kill them.
Again, why do you lump all black people together if it's just black men? it is so obvious that you and so many other biracials look down on black people enough to use so many weak excuses to cut off anything black from your identity. You hate being part black, you hate black people, and you hate blackness because society taught you that black is bad. So now you're trying to make it seem like your obvious self-hatred is justified just because a lot of black men suck? Girl bye. Get over yourself.
>Most of us just want to be left alone ffs.
Then you might as well leave the fucking thread because it's not for you in the first place. It's for BLACK WOMEN, not half breeds. this is why nobody likes you. You hate black people but you still want our help, our statistics to justify your emotions, and our spaces. Take your own advice: leave us alone.

No. 378809

Did black women and men ever really have a good relationship though? From my observations, a lot of black men still can't heal from being subjugated by white men and constantly project it onto us and they get coddled for it. Also, they have historical and still do oppress black women outside the western world without any outside influence. Imo, this is the primary thing that holds black people back so much.

No. 378816

>>especially when you observe Their fashion habits and dating choices.
You clearly aren't black and probably aren't a BW why are you here?

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I don't have any problem with biracial people tbh. I just wish internalized racism didn't exist and cause so much friction on either end. Seems like a losing game for everyone.

No. 378831

I do the same to them

No. 378833

true, while I would not deny the misogyny within the community, there's a lot of antagonism towards random black people, especially black women. IMHO, interracial relationships should be rare and based only on the love of the participants. Most mixed people are born from a fetish and thus lack that solid loving ground.

No. 378834


This thread is so disgusting. Pickmes would rather be the ones that are abused by black scrotes.

No. 378835

there's something to be said about the popularity of BDSM in upper class liberal social scenes. Always found it weird and gross people who claim to be loving and progressive turn around and larp as slaveowners

No. 378838

honestly, the community has been dying off for decades. Black men were and still are hostile towards black women and black women refuse to actually look at this issue head on, because that would imply feminism and feminism is only a white woman's thing.

No. 378840

I am. I'm just saying the popularity of wig wearing, skin bleaching, wasting money on getting dangerous BBLs just to appeal to men who openly hate you is very stupid

"Stop beating beating white women who will report and beat black women who won't!" Imagine being so desparate for male attention you defend this

No. 378843

You’re calling biracials half-breeds but you want us to believe you don’t hold strong antagonism against us lol?
And it might surprise you, that some of us have indeed non-racist white families and that the most hatred we experience is with black people. It angers you because it destroys your pro-black fantasy about how y’all are gods & angels and everyone else is evil.(infighting)

No. 378845

Skin bleaching is not at all popular with american black people, maybe Africans/Jamaicans but it's not all popular with the average african american woman. Most black women don't have BBLs and we aren't the only women slicing and dicing our bodies for male attention. Black women aren't even on the top of the list for the people with the most surgeries.
It's a misogyny issue. I do not believe you are black person or woman.

No. 378846

So then leave us alone, you are two races, if one treats you how you like and the other doesn't, go to them. Stop constantly coming into black spaces to bitch at us, it's weird.
Even when Some biracials have great relationships with their non-black side, they still want to be in black spaces and agrue with us. Just go.

No. 378847

Nobody is reading your wall of butthurt, moid-kun.(moidfoiling)

No. 378850

I actually don’t know any African women who bleach their skin to try and look paler/fairer or more white. There is skin bleaching cream in my cabinet right now, but I use it on my armpits and elbows and knees only because those areas of skin are significantly darker than the rest of my body and I’d prefer to have skin that is all the same shade on my body. That’s it. I’m not trying to look white nor do I use it on my face. Afaik most skin bleaching creams are used for this purpose, not for bleaching our entire bodies and trying to look lightskin. That would be pretty stupid and pointless tbh as it’s clear we will never look white even if we removed all the melanin odd our skin, also being pale usually doesn’t suit our features. I know a few AA celebrities like Nicki have done skin lightening but it’s kinda pointless because it barely makes a difference and she’s still obviously black (and Indian), my guess is she did it for a male with that preference.

Most African Americans are biracial you know. Stop embarrassing yourself and sperging out so hard please.

No. 378851

damn I can’t believe anons here are more mad at biracial women on lolcow than black men who are murdering black women at this very moment. im gonna assume it’s the baiting tranny until proven otherwise.

No. 378852

>they still want to come into black spaces
Black biracials are black too lol.
>and try to argue with us
Only when you say dumb shit. Stop trying to silence people who don’t agree with you lol. You sound like a male hotep.(moidfoiling/infighting)

No. 378853

>most african americans are Biracial
No we aren't. Why is it that whenever someone is mixed with black they are black, but they aren't whatever else they are mixed with? How come nobody calls Rihanna/Obama daughters white because they are 1/4 white, but people try to call women with no/one black parent like Ice Spice/Cardi B/Saweetie Black?
It makes no sense, most african americans may have SOME non-black heritage but it's not enough to say we are all biracial.

No. 378854

The slaveplay shit disgusts me so much. I know a couple black pickmes engage in that but in general I think black women avoid this crap the most. It’s always weird musty ass redditor types who are into this. Mostly middle to upper class whites who have never really undergone abuse or hardship, as you said.

No. 378856

It’s really sad. I’m really starting to believe that some DSBW are fine with abuse, femicide, cheating, etc as long as they feel like they’re being picked over a LSBW/mixed/non-black woman by a black scrote.

No. 378857

Your bait is retarded, nobody is saying that fuck off.

No. 378859

Nothing to do with liberalism imo. In Africa black men beat their wives and cheat too, it’s very common. Naturally women grow resentful and unhappy and stop giving a fuck about moids and just want their kids and some money to help take care of them. Black women are naturally pinkpilled on men because we see the worst aspects of men all the time.

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Also, Nicki is the same color if not slightly darker now than she was as a teenager.

No. 378863

I think there needs to be a bigger conversation on the effects of mass fatherlessness in the black community. Unfortunately you can’t bring up this topic without triggering people or getting a ton of jokes on the subject, and understandably, it’s a painful topic for many people. But I really do think it needs to be addressed.

Liberalism is partially to blame at least in the US because it gave financial incentives to women who were single mothers. However I also don’t believe liberalism is all to blame because as said above, in Africa single motherhood is actually very rare but women still get abused and mistreated and cheated on all the time and still do 99.9% of all the child rearing anyway to the point they might as well be single moms. I think the biggest reason for single motherhood in America is the fact men cheat and can’t commit. No woman wants to cohabit with a cheater and it creates a low trust dynamic between the man and woman. The stress and emotional pain is often too much for the woman that she would rather be alone and not have to worry about it than have a man in the house who she needs to constantly sheepdog away from other women. And unfortunately all men are horny opportunistic coomers, black men are no exception to this.

I really do feel like lack of love and parental stability hurts black men and women in so many ways. With black women it can make them need a man to the point of self sabotage and pickmeism. It creates a sense of devaluation because if your own father couldn’t stick around to care for you then what other man will? At least that’s how it can feel. For men it creates a permanent emotional instability and without a good male role model a lot of men turn out like crap, and I also believe it’s part of why so many men are bisexual or on the DL in the black community, because they’re craving that male presence in their life. I don’t know what the solution is. Any nonas care to chime in with their experiences?

No. 378866

No one actually said that though. And also, I've literally seen anons be accused of being moids for talking shit about black men in this thread. I miss when this thread was slower, now it's just constant infighting calling everyone moids.

No. 378867

Also it’s interesting because for the longest time fatherlessness was associated with black people. We do, overall, have the highest rates. But whites are actually catching up very quickly. Many African countries have the lowest single motherhood rates in the world. The countries with the highest single motherhood rates are the US, Canada, Russia and Western Europe. I think we’re also witnessing the fragmentation of white communities and I suspect fatherlessness also plays a big part of it. The incel rhetoric young white males are spewing nowadays is stuff black men were saying about women 20 years ago, a lot of ‘redpill’ talking points is the same misogyny patented by black men. Most of these white incel misogynists come from single mother households and hold a massive resentment towards women. It also feels like there is also a low trust dynamic now between white men and white women that’s beginning to echo the breakdown in trust between black people in the 90s and 2000s.

No. 378868

I stand corrected, I think I was thinking of this older pic comparing her two skin tones then and now where she looked significantly darker in the past. But yeah looks like she’s always been kind of lighter-skinned. There are black celebs who’ve done it like Lil Kim. Personally I hate artificially lightened skin it always looks uncanny as fuck like with Sammy Sosa.

No. 378926

>black biracials are black too
i think i finally understand why i see an increase of comments on black online spaces saying that biracials aren't black at all, they're biracial. still have mixed(kek) feelings on that subject, but i get it now.
>And it might surprise you, that some of us have indeed non-racist white families and that the most hatred we experience is with black people It angers you because it destroys your pro-black fantasy about how y’all are gods & angels and everyone else is evil
so you admit it, a majority of biracials recieve targetted racial aggression from their non-black sides

No. 378928

>I don't bleach
>I use it on my elbows and knees

No. 378929

Acknowledging biracial women's disgust and projection towards black women isn't hatred

What else is new? 95% of all dumb black women decisions are motivated by male attention. If she decentered men, she would have a chance at a normal dignified life

No. 378935

Yes we get it hon. Biracial women are the devil. Black men are angels. Yawn.

No. 378936

Never thought about the lack of trust aspect. What do you think is the solution? I don't have an idea but I prefer being separate from violent men in the first place

No. 378938

Low trust environments and upbringings basically destroy society. Same when there’s a lack of trust in relationships. Black men and black women do not trust each other, usually because they’ve both been hurt and betrayed by each other in the past. Sad thing is I don’t know if there actually is a solution. Maybe if we end up being able to genetically programme males to be monogamous and faithful. Or if we can like invent a procedure to dope men up with oxytocin and vasopressin and other chemicals to make them intensely bond to their female partner for life. Until then, I don’t think it’s going to change.

No. 378939

>I never actually SAID I hate biracial people, I only post endless retarded sperg outs about how they are annoying horrible people
Also, what the fuck do those lesbians who drove off a cliff with their adopted kids have to do with being biracial kek

No. 378946

Thanks for not understanding my point, you non-sager. If you hate black people just avoid them

No. 378964

this video on that subject is good

No. 378979

She feels very liberal, but I did enjoy the video. I guess somethings don’t change.

No. 378985

>equating dealing with hyperpigmentation to bleaching
NTA but are you dumb? Are acne treatments and scar removal the same as bleaching too? Kek

No. 379025

If it’s any consolation, I’m blasian and knowing what it’s like being the “bad type of mixed” and growing up in all Asian environment, I think simping for any racial acceptance is dumb as hell. Racial violence does exist between races but I think pretending like Asians have never showcased anti black sentiments is ridiculous.

No. 379026

The reason that didn’t happen, at least in america is because there are power in numbers and if they made a caste system similar to South Africa black people would end up receiving racism from both white and “colored” (aka mixed race) people. I agree that being biracial is different from black but I think you’re blatantly ignoring history.

No. 379027

Biracial means of two different races. You guys are biracial and in denial.

No. 379032

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I like VNs if that makes you feel better (I also live in the UK too kek). I don’t interact with western otaku spaces because they tend to be cesspools and I’m sure other black women feel the same.

No. 379044

I’m 90% sure the post you’re responding to is that same baiting white moid who shits up every thread. He really expects to be spoonfed basic ass shit that’s been rehashed 100000000 times already by us like ‘defining blackness’, brings up a random bunch of celebrities as proof of his claims and now claims biracial black people aren’t black and that part white part black AAs aren’t biracial kek. And instead suggests they should be referred to as white lmao. And not him using terms like ‘Little blasian chan’ he thinks this is how black women talk lmao, yeah he’s definitely a moid. Just ignore him, he baits in every thread and has a hateboner against Asian women because he gets rejected by them.

No. 379047

This is…embarrassing. And all this seethe just because a farmer said she didn’t like the fact that black men assault black women. What a weird hill to die on. Your whole post is so weird.

No. 379050

Naw you’re right. The simple truth of the matter is black men aint shit. They werent shit when we were living in Africa, they weren’t shit during slavery, and they still aren’t shit. But we can’t say anything about black moids lest sperg-kun starts textwalling and mass reporting all the posts who disagree with him.

‘She’ is totally a black shieldmaiden btw who think mixed black girls are all out to get ‘her’ and will happily die on the sword of ‘her’ moid masters no matter how many women they rape and kill. ‘She’ is totally not just a butthurt baiting moid trying to make black and mixed women hate each other, instead of focusing on our common enemy which is abusive black men. No chance.

No. 379052

nta but by this logic, most european americans are biracial too. do you believe that? not judging if you do

No. 379058

I hate how you swear everyone is the same person. I'm >>378853 and I'm not white or a moid. Nor did I say some shit about "blaming chan" or made any comments about Asian people. I'm someone who simply finds people claiming all black people are biracial is retarded. I didn't day half the shit you are accusing me of because I'm not that/those anons.
I'm a black woman who has been in this thread and the last having a discussion.

No. 379068

NTA but I thought biracial meant having parents of two different races? I never saw it applied to people with white ancestors from hundreds of years ago if the parents they're directly born from are both black.

No. 379071

Yes, that's how it's used by most normal people. I think calling yourself "biracial" when your parents are the same race would generally be considered weird IRL. I feel like that anon has weird fringe political beliefs, or just doesn't know you can have a somewhat mixed background without falsely equating yourself to someone who's 50/50.

No. 379072

Samefag but I wonder does this logic apply to white people with a small drop of black ancestry too?

No. 379075

Probably not. I notice people tend to not use these weird rules when it comes to white people. They don't want black people to gatekeep what it means to be black, but white people really do gatekeep being white. They will NOT call Obama's daughters white despite them having a white grandmother, but they will call Halsey/Cardi/Ice Spice black for having one black parent/one biracial black/white parent and/or no black parent but black ancestry.
It's the one drop rule, everyone with some black in them is black, but not everyone who has white in them is white. It will never make sense to me, when I first heard the "Biracials aren't black, they are biracial" i thought it was silly until i really thought about it.
How come some people push for biracials who are half black to be called black or 'Black biracials"? When they aren't just black, why do people get so mad when you point this out?

No. 379076

and i'm not saying they are white, they are both and can (if they are accepted, which is a whole nother can of worms) exist in both communities. Also Biracials can call themselves whatever they want, I do understand that some do connect to their black side due to many factors, maybe they look more black, or maybe they were raised around black people/their black family, maybe they went to a majority black school etc.
For some biracials they have no choice but to be accepted as what they look like etc. I have no hate towards Biracials, I can imagine it's hard.

No. 379082

I think much of it has to do with perception by society. For example, my brother and I are both biracial from the exact same parents, but our appearances are different, he looks way more Asian and I look way more Black. So our socialization has been very different, it even shows in our families treating us differently, the friends we make, etc. And re: people who are mixed with White, I think it is the modern one drop rule–that is, if you don't look 100% White, they automatically reject you. I knew a Hapa girl who would get asked where she's from and genuinely didn't understand no one was asking about her White side. No one saw her as White, if she called herself White people would have laughed at her. Mixed White biracials are defined by their "other"ness in predominantly White societies. I think as the world gets more interracial, this all might change because then there will be more people with these experiences. You're not wrong, but it's hard to make generalizations on this topic because biracials are so different even from each other.

No. 379084

Does anyone else have a lightskin mom who bullied them for being an unambiguous dark skin black woman?

No. 379090

No, but my dad who is biracial and a lot of people on his side of the family would always get on my case for being dark or getting a tan. When i started using skincare apparently my skin lightened even though i noticed nothing and they were less aggressive about it. At one point he even suggested i bleach my skin. The thing keeping this shit from getting to me is because most black people who bleach their skin look like vybz kartel with their lips looking like they have no blood circulation.

No. 379110

Yes. I come from a country where it’s actually ethnically homogenous.

No. 379111

African Americans aren’t all black people nonny.

No. 379112

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No. 379226

i am black and jewish, but my skin is dark and my hair is curly so i am perceived as black, despite identifying as half black and half jewish. other people will identify you as what you look more like to them, it's just going to be like that.

No. 379236

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I think that's a fair take. IMO, the only problem is when people start getting huffy specifically at black people for saying that they perceive biracial people not as black, but mixed (or as being closer to the "other" race), as if black people are some kind of "cast off" group for every other community.

No. 379244

People forget how much of an impact the one drop rule and the ability to "blend in" in general has on how we perceive this. Black communities in countries where the slave trade took place have had biracial people as part of communities for a long, long time, and that influences the reception that biracial people get.

That said I myself as someone that grew up in the West Indies haven't seen anyone my age with a complex about their blackness/not belonging. But the West Indies and my island in particular is a lot more like what someone was erroneously trying to say about Black Americans, where many people are some form of mixed.

No. 379275

What I meant was that they aren’t the only representatives of black people.

No. 379276

I just feel a type of way about this because anytime I see anyone trying to create a “biracial space” for biracial people black people come out the woodwork booing.

No. 379381

Do you try extra hard to show that you’re supportive of a black male/non-black female couple amongst your social circle so you don’t read as racist?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 379386

For real, black people can go all day talking about wanting to be included but will go out of their way to make biracial people feel bad for existing.

Kind of off topic but I remember watching one black female YouTuber names amandabb who was becoming a doctor who said some real hateful stuff about biracial girls. It’s like she forgets her dads a doctor but cause she’s dark she can call biracial girls weird and say we act like animals. Like ok girl.

No. 379392

This meme is stupid. I’ve never had a white person tell me how to identify in my entire life. Meanwhile black people make it their job to tell us if we should identify as black or biracial like bipolar lunatics.

No. 379406

>black girl thread being overrun by biracials
As a fully black woman I'm sorry this happens to y'all. I fully agree biracials need their own safe spaces. You guys aren't black or the other race you're mixed with. Biracial is its own thing and more people need to understand that.

No. 379407

According the stats most American Africans are at least 11% European.

Explains when I saw the girl shit herself when her DNA results came back from one side of her family she was white.

No. 379409

isn't this sort of thing what leads to white americans claiming to be native american just because their great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great grandma was one kek

No. 379416

which is also funny because whenever white americans take dna tests, their great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great native american grandma almost always turns out to be just black kek

No. 379515

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Any other African anons here? Looking at the comments on this post enraged me. Chinese men killed off all their baby girls, so now they're going to poorer countries to pick up young girls and women to be wives. They typically do this in SEA countries, but now they're expanding to Africa.

If you look at the thread, this fat, ugly old moid literally lives in worse conditions in China than the girl and her family in Zambia. Meanwhile, worthless moids/incels are cheering this on because they wish they could passport bro and sex traffick their way into exploiting pretty young girls too, and ignorant western cuckubine libfems with sugar daddy pipe dreams are going "Get that bag girl slayyyyyyyy". This, those Chinese scrotes who go to African countries and filming themselves sexually harassing young girls on their way to school and exploiting/physically abusing children for clicks/money from their fellow roach males back home and other cursed shit I've witnessed make me wish for total male genocide.

No. 379516

I hope the children grow up to be radicalised and commit terrorism in China as adults

No. 379517

She’ll have a way better life in China than Africa. I don’t really see the problem. I’d want to escape that continent too.(racebaiting)

No. 379518

The biracial hate ITT and among the black community is retarded and typical divide and conquer shit to keep black people hating each other and prevent us uniting. I don’t trust anyone who peddles it, they’re either a white person arguing in bad faith and trying to divide us or a self hating person who’s been brainwashed to resent other blacks.

No. 379531

>She’ll have a way better life in China than Africa.
You sound like a retarded burger and/or scrote who knows nothing about life in rural China or the continent of Africa as a whole. Even Chinese netizens said her family's house was better. An old pedoscrote husband will never be an upgrade.

No. 379538

I grew up in West Africa and only left last year. Stopped reading your shit at the first sentence, lmao. I did see the last sentence, I invite you to read about how much China's police gives a shit about their own women being raped/murdered and beaten by their bosses, teachers or family members. Spoiler: They don't. Now look how they feel about non-American black people in any of their communities, how they treated Nigerians during COVID (I know Americans don't care, but West Africans saw and discussed it), the black woman who got punched by a male higher-up while teaching in China (they literally tried to lock her in the building, female teachers participated too), or how Chinese males in general behave toward ANY foreign women, much less dark-skinned women.
Stop defending sex tourism, retard.

No. 379541

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>How dare an African person disagree with my China simping!!!
I know you want to type "Africans are too dumb and illiterate to use the internet like me", so go ahead and do it kek.
If you're a scrote: Die in a mining accident, Li Huang.(alogging)

No. 379553

You're the moid, and that's why you're triggered by me shitting on moids and passport bro bullshit. I have nothing against any race of women because they actually behave like humans. Useless, misogynistic men don't, and you repeat the same behaviors from country to country.
I hope the Thai child bride you probably seek out poisons you and gets no jail time.

No. 379559

What is "African slang", lmao? Do you think we all speak the same languages? Even pidgin differs from place to place. You're so full of shit, and have no "relatives from Africa". I'm not going to start bashing you on being FBA like some others would since I know you'll play victim, but I know exactly where your stereotyping bullshit about me "not being African" is coming from. You're not fooling anyone.
The only blasian people I've met were decent and kind, so stop projecting your own racial hatred.

No. 379561

Imagine crying "larp" and "scrote" after trying to cover for rape ape sex tourist moids and betraying how little you know about the people you're poorly trying to speak for. Thank god your bloodline will end with you.

No. 379569

>You’re the one trying to claim west Africa is a good place for women and that the moids there are better somehow kek. Even though Nigerian moids are notorious for rape and murder of women all over the world.
I never said this, you schizophrenic pickme tard. I despise Nigerian men and want them to be region-locked and sterilized, but that doesn't mean I'm going to pretend moids from China are better. They're even worse because they don't see us as human, just slaves and incubators.
You don't have a West African father, you've never been denied the right to own an apartment because you don't have a husband, you haven't been sexually propositioned by college professors and you haven't gone through 1/4th of what any Nigerian or Ivorian woman has in your sheltered burger life. Stop trying to speak on the behalf of women like me to defend pedophilic sex tourists because "uwu it's better". It's not better unless you also think prostitution is a "valid choice" and not coerced. Hang yourself.(infighting)

No. 379575

>1/3 of Nigerian women have their clits cut off
You don't give a shit about FGM victims, let's be real. When is the last time you even discussed this except to simp for China in this instance?
>60% of all children trafficked to Europe are Nigerian children, being used for god knows what.
So they should go to China instead? Thank you so much for your service in solidarity to POC moids, clap for yourself.
>Massive HIV rates and African moids who think raping kids is the cure to AIDS.
This is a South African issue. You're a retarded, racist bitch who thinks Africa is a monolith and China is perfect lmao. Ghana also has a lower murder rate per capita than the USA, which is funny because Ghana is still horrible to live in.
>Imagine dying on a hill for African moids and claiming west Africa is a good place for women to live. Top kek my sides.
More delusions to cuck for a country that treats African women like vermin. Do you have a Chinese Nigel? Go live with him there if you like it so much, stop wishing it on us.

No. 379579

>You’re screeching about a black woman daring to move to a more developed country
You're stupid as hell. Her parents exchanged her for money, this is how it goes for third world women. You're absolutely one of the retarded western sugar baby wannabes projecting her fantasies onto an exploited young woman.
>trying to gatekeep African women
This is how I know you're a moid. You can't allow us to marry and date men without some framework of an old/evil piece of shit taking advantage. That's outside your world view, and you see us as cattle than be "gatekept" from your fellow moids, not independent humans. She could've been sent to a school or a decent job abroad, and find someone who's her age and isn't just trying to knock her up to boost shitty birth rates. You can't conceive that, in typical black fashion.
I didn't stay in Nigeria, but you should be sent there, thrown in a prison and get violated by other men.


Are you the circumcision sperg who was spamming /ot/? We really don't care, FGM is still a million times worse than your lost foreskin, castrate yourself.

No. 379585

Stop comparing your mutilated chafedick to FGM. I know you have male narcissism and have to center your penis in every way, but no one wants to hear about your dick, your cuck fetish for Chinese men or your gross fantasies.
Once again: No actual woman thinks an ugly old pedoscrote improves her life.


>doesn't deny being the circumcision scrote
>doesn't deny thinking African women are cattle
>just accuses others of making more of his own posts
You always do this. Kill yourself, I'm so serious.(infighting/alogging)

No. 379588

This is just a lolcow problem in general, to be fair. I want to vent about scrotes, but I'm not against other topics.

No. 379589

>Sorry to dash your hopes but I’m a biological woman
No, you're obviously not. You're a man with a dick obsession who gets mad when women don't adhere to your porn and exploitation fantasies.

No. 379590

I wish all pedophilic men and rapists, regardless of race, would die.

No. 379593

>n-n-no u
No woman thinks sex tourism is a net positive, try again.

No. 379594

Especially the one lying about "muh african relatives" and defending his fellow circumcised Chinese pedos, kekkk

No. 379598

>Nobody said sex tourism is a net positive you fucking retard kek.
You literally said it improved women's lives. You don't want us to succeed or be happy, you want to trade us with other men, or you get off on fantasizing about being exploited like all third world women are as the world gets worse and coomers keep coooming. Your larp is so shit you can't even talk about the horrors of FGM for one second without bringing up your ugly foreskinless penis and non-existent vagina.
>women would rather die en route to Asia and Europe
Nope, we'd rather be given actual opportunities to leave and have good lives. You're the one who wants us to die, and we already know it.
>I know you’re upset that there’s one less woman for you to perform FGM on, sorry Obinna.
And you're joking about FGM because you're not affected by it, and don't know anyone who has been. You're not a woman, definitely not a black woman or we're truly cooked.

No. 379605

This is the same poster. Chinese pedo moids have never been brought up in these threads before, either. YWNBAW, you'll never convince any of us that white, black, arab, jewish OR asian rapists are good. Give it up.

No. 379609

i honestly just think you guys are esl

No. 379611

Why does the tranny always ask for hand pics? Pretty sure he did this in one of the last threads, too. It's gross and creepy.

No. 379613

>"I hate sex tourist moids and think they are bad"
>"You're a LARPing male for saying sex tourist moids are bad, what about local moids? You're defending them"
>"Local moids are bad too, I never defended them. I want something better than sex tourist pedophiles or abusive pedophilic local moids"
>"You're a LARPing male"
There's a really weird samefag in this thread.

No. 379614

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And now he's deleted his post after getting clocked.

No. 379618

Can we stop derailing? This is ridiculous. If you thing it’s a moid then ignore it, jesus

No. 379621

I don't know why he always asks for women's hand pics.

No. 379627

I said her family's house is better. If you look at the twitter thread and compare the rural Henen building to her parent's compound, anyone could see that, and the OP says those were the words of other Chinese people. You're so delusional you literally make up posts. It's unreal, just 41% already, I'll never feel bad that you lost your foreskin.

No. 379630

This is a moid who wants to say "nigga", but is scared it'll blow his cover (as if the rest of his posts don't).

No. 379634

The fact that he's 36 and told his cousin to "find him a wife in Zambia" is enough for me to distrust him tbh. If he was a good man, he'd want to meet her first and help build her life with school or work. He's a predator looking for a broodmare. The UK is definitely a better option, there are good unis there. I agree that marrying an African man is a shit idea, I just don't like seeing African women get screwed over by other backward moids either. A normal Asian, latino or white man around her age would be leagues better.

No. 379635

YWNBAW, Blaine, and no one here will post their hand for you.

No. 379636

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And he deleted this too. He's pretty much admitting to being a male, and it's not even the first time. At least the mods will see. I wish there was a surefire way to ban him.

No. 379641

>tee hee i'd totally post nudes for an internet argument fellow women
Okay, now we know to ignore him.

No. 379643

sounds like something a tranny would say

No. 379648

And he's still samefagging pretending to be someone who agrees with him. I'd point out what part makes his posts obvious, but it's probably better that he's in the dark.
The farmhands will be able to tell, anyway.

No. 379649

honestly cracker trannies are always so obsessed with black women, this guy is so typical

No. 379657

Yup, first the "post hand", and since that's not working, he's trying to pull shitty reverse psychology to make it seem normal and something a woman would totally do to post your body on imageboards to "prove" you're female to scrotes. The hand thing is what happened in the last black girl thread, too IIRC.

No. 379658

The weird tranny in here is probably the same one that camps in /meta/ constantly replying to themselves to infight and bait others into responding. He's been going into /ot/ to racebait too but probably just found this thread to continue his retarded antics. He changes the nature of his spergs every so often to avoid detection but it's always the same bullshit. This time he's on a racebait train.

No. 379661

Literally. They try to block us from discussing moids of any demographic being bad (including black men) and make snide posts like >>379381 to racebait.
The weird nude-baiting stuff makes him even more obvious. No woman on earth wants to see an ugly tranny body.

No. 379666

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Virginity testing is legal in the US.

No. 379668

Glad the baiting Blaine tranny got banned.

No. 379670

The mods actually finally deleted the WMBF and WMAF fetish porn he was posting across the board. Wtf. Actually based mods? Rare mod W.

No. 379671

Same, thank you mods

No. 379673

1 in 10 American doctors have done a virginity test on a young girl for her disgusting patriarchal moid dad or husband. This is actually so depressing. This is why I will never ever EVER trust the medical field. Doctors are fucking evil, especially when it comes to black womens bodies. Aren’t they literally using black womens stem cells from the 1950s for medical research to this day? Absolutely disgusting.

No. 379674

>Archbishop Johannes Ndanga said girls as young as 12 are examined by church elders. If a man marries a woman who is not a virgin, he said she must then find a virgin for her husband to marry in a polygamous union as compensation.

I want to cry. Please make it stop.

No. 379676

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Gotta love how plots that are literally straight out of some dystopian body horror movie are just reality for black women. Whenever I see some horrifically disgusting story about a coroner or morgue worker raping corpses, women being medically experimented on without their knowledge, a little girl being sold for drugs then being tossed away like trash or being sex trafficked and nobody even bothers to look for them, it’s almost always a black female victim. The most horrifying news stories are always black female victims. I’m so fucking tired of it. Why are black women never safe to just live their lives.

No. 379677

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White doctors would literally give black patients placebos without their knowledge when they went to the doctor instead of actually treating their illnesses. These experiments went on for 4 decades and no one was ever told about it until the 1970s. I fucking can’t. The state treats black bodies like public property.

No. 379678

stolen stem cells, no less

No. 379679

i would know, i was taken to a doctor to confirm my virginity/intact hymen. doctors will do anything if you pay them a few hundred bucks.

No. 379682

That can’t be good for your soul, something so creepy about black womens cells and body parts just sitting in a lab and companies making billions off them

No. 379683

True. I feel like anime spaces became more (overtly) racist in the 2010s. I miss my early memories of interacting with new fiction and new forums. I miss the old internet sometimes

No. 379685

I think it’s the opposite. Tinfoil but I think these threads are full of American larpers who pretend to be third and second world women just out of boredom and wanting attention. There’s been a lot of anons who claim to be ESL and live in Europe Africa Asia India etc but somehow they always have a perfect grasp of English and talk with Americanisms that most ESLs wouldn’t even know. It’s possible but still highly sus imo.

No. 379686

not trying to invalidate your experience but mine was really the opposite, the only spaces ive felt truly accepted and tolerated were weeb and otaku spaces for some reason. all the moids were huge spergs and seemed to be way more interested in the anime and games than my race, they didn’t even notice me or pay attention to me most of the time. and there were a lot of woc at japan culture exchange and comic cons too, i met a lot of nice asian girls. latinas and other black girls. this is why ive always liked weeb shit, it kind of unites all races and nationalities under one love for japanese nerdy shit. then again im sure there’s racists who spoil it sometimes so i understand.

No. 379687

NTA. The average person who finds a site like Lolcow while not being American is more likely to have a good grasp of the English language, and know about American slang. It's not like American online culture is obscure, lol.

No. 379689

and i also agree that poltards and racist trannies have started invading weeb spaces more in the last couple years because they idealize japan as a homogenous nation with barely any black people. at every con and meet ive been to, race was never brought up and there were all colors and creeds of people represented which was nice. luckily in my state the chud tranny and poltard craze isn’t very strong so ive never encounter it firsthand but i have heard that a lot of racists are beginning to coopt weeb spaces so that really sucks. i wish racists would fuck off and die, the otaku community is my comfort zone and ill fight anyone who tries to shit it up with racist crap.

No. 379690

also i literally met my first gf (who is also a black woman) at a japanese matsuri con in 2011 lol so i have very fond associations with these events. we were literally two black women who would walk around holding hands and never had any harassment luckily, but again i guess it completely depends on state and what kind of people attend. i guess im lucky.

No. 379691

sorry for blog posting btw

No. 379695

I didn’t know inciting terrorism was legal on lolcor.

No. 379704

Og great a whole new generation of self-hating blasians to be made. China should deal with their consequences of killing their girls by making life in China a utopia for Chinese women. Stealing poor African girls is a recipe for geopolitical disaster.(racebaiting)

No. 379708


Imagine defending this trafficking instead of wanting a better life to be built in Africa

No. 379709

Ooh great the biracial hating sperg who quotes every sentence followed by a textwall and hates Asians and ‘half breeds’ is back. Why don’t you shut your racist ass up. Who hurt you.(racebaiting)

No. 379711

Imagine pretending to care about African women’s rights then being Muslim and saying ‘inshallah’ like it’s not one of the most misogynistic religions on earth. You don’t pass here. Go back, moid.(infighting)

No. 379713

Nothing in any of those first two posts says anything about biracial people or calls them "half-breeds" (disgusting term btw, you sound like a porn addict). The third post is probably yours, no one else would use that term. You're so obviously the tranny ban-evading, ywnbaw.

No. 379714

Can you even read, retard? You called them half breeds here
Nobody is falling for your racist ass divide and conquer shit, you just have a hateboner for mixed (especially blasian) women.

No. 379715

You’re painfully obvious by your posting style. Just say you hate mixed women and blasians and go.(infighting)

No. 379716

NTA but that was obviously said as a joke.

No. 379717

Yeah it’s sooooo funny to joke using a religion responsible for millions of rapes and thousands of kidnaps of black women and girls. Jihadi loving twat.(racebaiting/infighting)

No. 379718

It's the moid again, he's trying to start another infight.

Also, I'm >>379575, and no other posts he's attempting to lump together. As I said here >>379559, the blasian women I've met have been wonderful people. Pedos, rapists, sex tourists and their defenders like the obsessive moid are not. He's very upset actual women want to live life freely.

No. 379719

literal sci-fi horror

Call me a conspiracy theorist but I fear more experimentation this century, especially with the rising cost of living and the "benefits" of blood/bone marrow/egg donations

No. 379720

Stop pretending you aren’t the same poster as the one calling mixed girls half breeds lol you literally have the exact same syntax and posting style as him. Fuck off and die.(infighting/alogging)

No. 379721

once again offline reality is superior to online falsehoods

No. 379722

>exact same speech style
>exact same syntax and post formatting
>has a hateboner for blasians and mixed girls and calls them half breeds
>immediately starts ranting about blasian women again as soon as he gets the chance
>but it’s totally not me guise! i love blasian girls!

No. 379724

I was making a joke

I don't hate biracials I just think America is the best place to be blasian. And I think age gaps are disgusting and trafficking is immoral

No. 379725

inshaallah = if gods will it

No. 379726

Yeah it’s so funny to use terms from a moid religion that’s currently responsible for kidnapping and raping little girls and enslaving millions of black women in the MENA region and joke about how you hope kids grow up to be jihadis. You’re seriously fucking mentally ill. Get help.(infighting)

No. 379728

He was joking about FGM and equating it to male circumcision. He's not offended by the "inshallah" thing, just derailing and seething bc we're "kink-shaming" him.

No. 379735

I think you're over-reacting to a bad joke. I'd rather this sex trafficking thing not exist. I wish Africa wasn't so religious and I think they're only like that because the living conditions are so terrible

No. 379741

I miss when these threads were slow and genuine. Now all of them get filled up by 200 bait and infighting posts a day by trolls.

No. 379743

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I wish I grew up in the age of Brandy. I miss that time period, I love her music, and I think she's peak cute teen black girl aesthetic, something the modern world is sorely lacking.

No. 379745

Nobody days inshallah as a joke. It’s not even funny.

No. 379746

In fact the only people I’ve ever seen use this term jokingly are incels and moids when hoping for or congratulating some terrorist attack or an attack on women. No woman especially the kind of woman who browse lolcow wants anything to do with Islam. Most of us are strongly against any religion.

No. 379747

Samefagging newfag, look here:
It's been a meme here for years. We don't all say it, but it's not uncommon.

No. 379749

Looks like it’s all the same poster who posts the same unfunny meme pics alongside it.

No. 379750

No. 379755

File: 1708061920569.jpg (39.95 KB, 446x680, GD_E7QiW8AAir4e.jpg)

just gonna post beautiful women

A shame a perfect 10/10 beauty turned out to be so evil

No. 379756

How is Nana evil?

No. 379758

No. 379759

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No. 379760

Hmm. She seems to have disavowed him tho and said what he did was disgusting. I don’t think Naomi was that bad because she was never named as a recruiter or pimp for other girls afaik (correct me if I’m wrong). My guess is she probably had to keep sleeping with these disgusting scrotes for money and modelling gigs. They say that Jeffrey Epstein slept with pretty much every VS model and was their unofficial recruiter/agent. I don’t think Naomi is a bad person I think she just wanted the bag and slept to keep her career going. She’s kind of a victim honestly. I heard a weird rumor that she slept with Putin and he was so violent with her that he broke her arm. Not sure if true or not, anyway I don’t think Nana is exactly a nice person but I don’t think she is evil just because she was on the list, I think the moids and stuff on the list were definitely pedos tho, like Leo DiCaprio.

No. 379786

Russian men are extremely violent during sex. I can believe it.

No. 379792


Fuck off, schizo tranny. You do this every thread.(report and move on)

No. 379805

Not a tranny. Go shave ur 5 o clock shadow, manbeast.(infighting/moidfoiling)

No. 379809

Only two pics? Please post more. I could do with some pretty girl blackspo.

No. 379824

To be fair I think there is still a lot of cute black girl content, it’s just no one cares about it. People only started listening to Chloe x Halle when they started singing about going to the club but, they had cute teen girl stuff before then too.

No. 379827

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No. 379828

File: 1708085762071.jpeg (51.78 KB, 678x452, 258C1415-F3A6-403B-B300-4F39B9…)

Angella summer

No. 379830

File: 1708085784119.jpeg (37.62 KB, 400x400, B2167C0F-8534-4896-B04F-B985A7…)

Anok yai

No. 379841

File: 1708088443873.jpg (83.48 KB, 512x680, E5erCKVXEAQYHWY.jpg)

as you wish

No. 379842

ywnbaw, ywnbb(infighting)

No. 379843

File: 1708088561808.jpg (97.66 KB, 544x680, Fp4__utWYAAPpT3.jpg)

No. 379844

File: 1708088641368.jpg (96 KB, 720x883, 1642877845966.jpg)

a massive shame, I feel hurt thinking about it

No. 379846

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No. 379847

File: 1708088802828.jpg (26.34 KB, 555x452, vintage-somalia20152.jpg)

she has such a perfect smile

No. 379848

File: 1708088992548.jpg (68.19 KB, 728x728, DhsKfyvXUAEba4D.jpg)

>People only started listening to Chloe x Halle when they started singing about going to the club but
I feel like they were somehow more liked and respected before they started trying to be "hood", but I see what you mean. I wish things had turned out differently with them.

No. 379850

File: 1708089228385.jpg (135.31 KB, 1179x1890, F5b_qk3XwAEOm_d.jpg)

everything went wrong when they took the shaderoom and adjacent seriously. Especially Halle, she had so many rooting for her via TLM and her stupid love drama with DVD, pisses me off. She had Beyonce's support! How could you fuck that up

No. 379852

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(do not spam pics)

No. 379853

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No. 379854

File: 1708089737919.jpeg (116.42 KB, 1080x1327, IMG_0122.jpeg)

I agree its the same tranny as before, but pretty please stop replying to him. Report his smelly posts. Just post pretty black women like the other anon.

No. 379879

This is not a picture spam thread anon. If you're going to do it and tell other anons to, at least encourage some kind of actual discussion.

No. 379887

I agree with you about reporting, but I'm kind of worried the mods might leave this and the Asian girl thread to rot because they're becoming too much trouble.

NTA, but I see both sides. If every time we try to discuss something, one moid (or two) shits up the thread, samefags, says we're him, demands photos of us and accuses us of posting xyz schizo style, anyone would rather look at pictures for a while instead. At least until the farmhands do something.

No. 379889

Or you can just learn to ignore and report scrotes. Not to be rude but is literally everyone here a newfag?

No. 379891

I do report them, but who the fuck wants to see them posting back to back unquestioned?

No. 379903

Any response, even picture spam, is food for trolls. Report and ignore. It's not that hard.

No. 379941

please just report the baiting infighting, do not even respond or give them any attention.

No. 379945

YWNBAW. Go shave ur 5 o clock shadow.(infighting)

No. 379946

Leaving this thread and the Asian girl thread to rot would be the best thing possible. These threads are not productive at all and full of bait, men, and infighting shitflinging tards who are super annoying.

No. 379947

I dislike these pic spams, the pics they use always feel moidy and I swear most of them are saved from a ‘fuckable black girls thread’ on 4chan which makes their origin and the person who saved thm even more sus. Just feels moidy to me.

No. 379956

Where I live there are a shitton of black anime, cosplay and nerd groups popping up left and right, and they're full of black women. Even online I've found so many more black woman-centred spaces for all types of hobbies in the last few years.

If as a black woman on the internet you haven't learned to just put your horse blinders on when it comes to that sort of thing already, you're setting yourself up for failure. This applies to real life too but especially the internet where there's no real idiot standing there in front of you.

No. 379964

File: 1708125997072.jpg (234.45 KB, 900x1200, 1000008163.jpg)

I was the creator of the previous thread, and looking back I definitely should have waited for more feedback on that image since a lot people ended up not liking it when it was finalized. It seems like the best thing for us to do in the future is that we suggest several images, and we all vote on which will be the best one for the next thread.

No. 379967

I save pics like that from pinterest…

No. 379977

Anons not talking about the thread pic, they're talking about the picture spam that someone was doing no one really had an issue with the last thread pic except for one anon. And honestly that post screams huge bait so I would ignore it.

No. 379980

There's nothing wrong with those pictures. The poster you're replying to is probably the same baiter that seems to hypersexualize black women and sperged out about the last OP picture.

No. 379984

File: 1708135469042.jpeg (338.25 KB, 1242x1537, 912C700F-C1B1-4618-9136-751B0D…)

I just wanted to post something positive and uplifting. Notice how none of the pictures I posted were pornographic. I focused on style. Are there specific pictures you’d prefer?

No. 379992

NTA but the women look gorgeous, there isn't anything sexual or pornographic about them. I remember someone in the very first thread repeatedly bringing up 4chan moids when no one asked, then spamming violent porn and screenshots of racist 4chan threads about black women saying "look at this, isn't it terrible??". They want attention.

No. 380083

File: 1708187590066.jpg (54.08 KB, 515x658, 1000008177.jpg)

Really hate all the baiting, so I'll bring up something more lighthearted. Which way do you have your hair styled nonnies? Mine are in twists like picrel.

No. 380084

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This is silly but I figure this thread needs some posts that aren't so serious.
Anons, what would you do with your hair if the end of the world came? Honestly, I think about this more than I'd like to admit since I consume so much apocalyptic content and I lowkey think the world could always just completely flip over. Realistically it makes the most sense to have locs, right? But in games and tv shows, it's actually pretty rare to see black characters with locs. Michonne from TWD and Maria from the TLOU show adaptation are the only characters I can think of who have locs.

No. 380085

I used to have them in twists and braids for the longest time, braids are nice cause you can have them colored without actually dying your hair. As of now, I've decided to embrace a more natural look so I'm wearing it out and letting it breathe for a bit. When I go out I usually style my hair in an afro with it coming forward a bit on my forehead and ears. However, I did dye it a nice red yesterday so it kind of defeats the point of going natural I suppose
>Anons, what would you do with your hair if the end of the world came?
Shave it down, it seems like the most manageable style during the apocalypse. It wouldn't be flattering on me but that doesn't matter when the world is ending.

No. 380146

Her hairstyle is very cute, I usually wear mine in a bun

No. 380147

I'd keep my hair as short as possible. Mostly for water scarcity reasons. and I think that's the best excuse for short hair

No. 380157

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I shaved my head a while ago so my natural hair is just super short right now. I usually wear wigs over it when I'm out. I'm very tempted to start sisterlocs when my hair grows out enough because it means a cute low maintenance natural style that i can also wear wigs over, but I would be so sad to not be able to get braids anymore.

No. 380179

This is how shiny my hair looks like when I straighten it. I like the way it looks but I don't do it too often because of the effort.

No. 380184

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I saw the cutest braids yesterday on twitter!! Can't imagine how heavy her head felt but I loved this

No. 380210

whyd you make the last thread when the first one was not filled? there were also several requests to make it a general like this. what were you thinking?

No. 380247

This and jade braids are so cute. I love experimental black hairstyles

No. 380248

Locs are always the answer I think.

No. 380249

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Side part mini twists, but my hair has layers so it’s less uniform than picrel

No. 380250

I’m really thinking of doing a more neo soul/Afro futuristic clothing style. I’m sort of in a mental space where I really want to reclaim femininity for myself. I feel like if I lean into something that feels natural for me, then no one can take it away from me.

No. 380403

is it really sex tourism if the man is poorer than the woman? not bait, genuinely curious.

No. 380411

he probably lied about being rich to her and her family. passport bros do it too.

No. 380437

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I wish I had black female friends. I wish I had that connection and normalcy. I spent most of my life in white environments and being the token. I never felt normal and to this day I still have that strong desire to be normal. One of the reasons why I prefer a black boyfriend is so I can be normal and be introduced into a black friend group. I want the freedom to speak honestly and be silly without fear.

I secretly dislike when my non- black co-workers would ask me about a black topic. I usually say very little and try to redirect them to a book or website. I know they ask those kinds of questions because I’m not normal, I’m not one of them. I wonder how long do I have to keep myself restrained and polite. I feel like being independent will become financially impossible for me as I grow older and I’ll be forced to forever play the token role just to maintain a living.

No. 380448

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2023 was just a bad year to exist as a black woman. I never felt so demoralized about existing.

No. 380467

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Does anyone else have brown lines on their nails? I have them in varying shades on most of my nails. I always see people say dark lines on your nails is a cause for concern, but honestly I think it must be normal for people with more melanin.

In general, I think a lot of medical advice in regards to skin conditions doesn't really keep people with brown skin in mind.

No. 380545

How so? I feel like things were worse in 2014-2020. Nowadays black women are being humanized a bit more. Before we were just seen as ghetto troublemakers

No. 380554

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I have other black friends but I'm genuinely considered dropping some of them. They never make time for me in their plans. Last year I had my toughest year and had to face it online because they were constantly to busy for any of the plans I made with them. And yet when I check their socials, they're going partying, clubbing, brunches, all the things they were too busy to do with me.
This year I want to have friends who make time for me, I want to be included in all the moments worthy of taking pictures to remember. Not just a back up friend they call when no one else is available. My breaking point was seeing these girls make galentines plans. It was at that point I realised that nope it's time to find new friends.
Trying to get into the indie/artsy scene in my city because it does have a decent amount of black people. Especially the DIY music scene.

No. 380745

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I think she was spitting. Too many black people desperate for external validation and set themselves up for failure.

No. 380748

This is still reality if you attend public schools. Black people dropped the ball when it came to making our own institutions the older generations were so desperate to integrate and mix in with the greater non-black population that our own stuff fell to pieces. You can’t complain about poor representation when you don’t own any production networks. You can whine about networking when you refuse to build up the networks. It’s a constant pattern. From dating out to migrants, it’s so much easier to just run away than to build up.

No. 380760

Oh look the Jewish moid is back and arguing in bad faith again and trying to divide and conquer. Israel is not a real country, get over it dude.("hi moid")

No. 380762

Lol another self post?
>go to profile
>zero posts
>go to their linked website
>its just a blog crying about how evil and unempathetic black people are for not constantly virtue signalling on social media about Congo

No. 380767

It’s about black women refusing to be social justice mammies for other people especially when she gets nothing in return for her behavior. It’s an extension of religious behavior and hoping to get external promise for doing what God/society thinks of you

No. 381013

File: 1708593339980.jpg (165.71 KB, 828x786, 1669746020359657.jpg)

Yeah, this is why I don't concern myself with collectives of people anymore. The human race is pretty much cooked. Retards would rather fight over skin color, religion and territory than live decent lives or be kind to eachother. It's been like this since before I was born, and it'll likely continue to be that way long after I die, so why should I concern myself with causes for the same people who'd hate me for my ancestry? About the only things I do are avoid going out of my way to bash any demographic or mock their suffering, and I try to treat people as individuals. Even that's still much more than I can say for some others - we've all seen how randoms love to bash black women and girls completely unprovoked. Even some so-called feminists throw us under the bus (both libfems and radfems). I think some people will always despise us on principle. It's almost like they think we're a hivemind, and only they are capable of individuality. I can't relate to their hatred, and tbh, I don't want to participate or try to prove them wrong. I'd rather just let them eat eachother's faces off and mind my own business.
I still care about animals, the environment and my loved ones, but that's pretty much it. I'd rather save an innocent cat or dog than some homeless scrote who'll spit in my face, call me slurs, and/or make sexual comments at me.

No. 381254

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I can't lie, it feels great to get paid more than others based on skin color. This is reparations.(racebaiting)

No. 381268

>look at me im so doomer and societypilled
God shut up

No. 381281

>reeeeee why don't the black foids care about me after i bashed them
Keep crying, faggot. No one is "doomer", I care about me, those important to me and the planet. I know you can't relate when your whole life is spent crying about muh pronouns and the 97th battle of scrottenstock on moidmountain.

No. 381290

what do nonas think of lipstick alley? last time i went was….2020-ish and i stopped going because i kept running into "well i'm a white male but…" posts

No. 381291

only good for the influencer gossip threads

No. 381296

I feel like the userbase is mostly homosexual white men pretending to be black women.

No. 381301

yes, i have a few. was worried that i had skin cancer (lol) for a while until went to the doc.

No. 381308

it could've been based with how many terfs are on that site but its ruined by tards simping for michael jackson

No. 381355

Why are other black people I barely know feel entitled to share their opinion on my single and childfree status? Strangers of races might gossip at but they generally don’t bother me about it.

No. 381377

I feel like back in the 2010s it was really fun for reading about milk to do with influencers and random internet personalities, but it bugs me that their website isn't the best for archiving things as say this site or kiwifarms. There was some stellar milk that's now lost to the sands of time and it makes me sad. Aside from that, i don't really like the userbase, but it blows me away that the nurse ratchet user is still there after all these years. To me, if you want to learn about the ace family or any family channel, lipstick alley is the first place to go since they are probably on their 50th thread.
They are probably seething and jealous or feel somewhat threatened by your bodily autonomy. I don't really like talking about this, but some black women just have children as if they have no control over their bodies or because they feel like it's a requirement to have kids, either for religious purposes or to keep their partner from leaving them.

No. 381382

No. 381385

this is very pessimistic, but probably a huge amount had a child in traumatic or just really bad/unplanned circumstances so seeing a woman just existing probably makes them feel less in control because it is a reality check. crabs in the bucket mentality?

No. 381422

The milk has been dry for over a decade now, the women’s re whining and always get into screech feasts, self-hatred and delusional self-worship collide daily, the men are just KS clones, the memes are millennial-tier, the hidden boards are just celebrity porn. It once had a decent hidden GC group but it was infiltrated by tranny loving woke mods (who came in around 2022) and I haven’t been back since. I used to be addicted to that site because it felt like a place where I could be normal, amount who I thought were my peers and say/read things that are impolite in regular conversations. A corpse of the old internet. Sadly you can only deleted certain posts but not the whole account

No. 381616

Sometimes I see all those stan accounts who put in so much time and effort showcasing whatever media (whether is a singer or a tv show or anything else) and I do wonder why there isn’t more attempts to push positive depictions of black women in media like that.

No. 381679

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positive representation is not profitable. Corporations love putting people into boxes because it makes marketing easier. Positive black female representation make others uncomfortable as well.

>i'm likely going to sound schizo, but i believe there's a silent agreement the west has on "black" being less a race (see: the one drop rule and its continued prevalence), and more an underclass. an underclass needs to perform its role, and be easily visually marked. everyone has to do "their part". part of the black woman's role is to embody at least one of the three archetypes: jezebel, sapphire and mammy. i'm sure i don't need to explain what those are in detail. if you perform none of them, you are upsetting the delicate racist balance set in place by the society you live in, and not in the current media-sanctioned way deemed "empowering" (though it's actually just more of the same). a lot of black people have completely swallowed "black" being more than a race, but a specific personality, likes/dislikes, etc under the banner of "culture" (ignoring that there are multiple black cultures, and that culture does not dictate the entirety of anyone's being, unless they have literally no self-awareness or individual thought). they don't see it as bad, because it's been repackaged as "cool" by shitty burger media, and they've effectively been pacified via small concessions. most black people will not question why we're still not really in charge of our own representation, why "our" music so often has destructive, anti-social messages, and why those in charge of the record labels, media companies, etc pushing this stuff are old-ass degenerate moids who aren't even black. none of it is in good faith, but they can't see it.

>unlike some other minorities, there is also no way for a black woman to not be visibly and clearly black, so we can't really just "blend into" any subculture and live in peace IRL. our existence constantly gets politicized, and since a lot of people are dumb and don't see what's going on (or, you know, just racist), they'll blame every single one of us for it. easiest example is spergs who believe a black character in anything is automatically "woke". a black woman not "doing black things", "talking black", "acting black" or "dressing black" becomes a betrayal of what it means to be "black" (which, again, is not a race, but a position, and it's not one to be defined by us as individual black women, but everybody else, lmao), and a sort of challenge to the established status quo. you can literally just be a person with hobbies or interests, and a bunch of freaks who think we're all in some kind of race pyramid or ant colony will essentially screech at you to get back "in line" (and "in line" for us means shaking our asses, being loud, illiterate, masculine and/or morbidly obese so that we can be constant sexual/comedic entertainment, living "proof" that it's natural and totally healthy to be fat so that fat hyperlibfem white women can feel better about themselves ala the fat acceptance movement, and allow other races of women to appear "softer" and "more feminine" - irish women were made to play the last role before the irish were considered white). you're enraging black people who think it's your job and "actually powerful!!!1" to conform to identities you never signed up for, and also making racists uncomfortable because you don't fit into the autistic set of "traits" they applied to you and regurgitated to each other like a religion. all of it is just very insidious.

>i think more black girls and women are picking up on this, and media execs can see the fatigue building up, so they've been throwing a bone here and there by allowing actresses like ayo edibiri who don't fit stereotypes to show up in movies/shows, but the main representation still is (and probably always will be) the jezebel, mammy or sapphire because it's what sells and keeps the racist/lowbrow majority comfortable. all of it just makes me sad, honestly. it must be so peaceful to just be allowed to have your own individuality.

No. 381710

>ayo edibiri
Looks like the type who is comfortable playing a black best friend.

No. 381724

she's a better deal than what we've gotten in the past few years, I just hope it opens the door to less cringe

No. 381726

I hate the fact there’s so little representation of black girls who are super close with their moms and dads and have a very loving positive relationship. I keep seeing white, Arab and even Asian girls showing off their super close relationship with their mom and talking about how she’s their best friend and love of their life, but I never see black girls doing that. It’s so depressing.

No. 381817

I literally never meet men I find attractive.
Will moving to a place with a higher proportion of Black people help?

No. 381818

99% of men are ugly. It’s the same all over the world.

No. 381834

Tbf, i do encounter a lot of this on social media, but people just prefer drama and messiness.
It's a sign to not bother with dating. If you have to go out of your way like that you aren't that interested in the first place.

No. 381867

Lol what? I moved to a country that’s full of the specific nationality of men I’m most attracted to and it’s heaven because I see endless hot guys each day. Compare that to my home country where every male was ugly af to me.

No. 381884

Good for you anon. I've always been in a racially diverse environment and spoilt for choice in moids but i personally have never found a single one sexually appealing once and i am pushing 30. I unironically only get turned on by 2d moids, never 3dp. I came to the decision to not to bother forcing it and it's been a good decision.

No. 381947

Thats mento illness luv x

No. 381956

You guys need to start saving this conversation thread

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No. 382056

>hate the way black men treat black women, become convinced black men can’t genuinely love or care for us, want nothing to do with them
>start dating white guys because they’re supposed to be the respectful and feminist race or something
>find out they’re all perverts, coomers and degenerates under that nice boy facade
>realize they can’t love black women genuinely either because they can’t see us as fully human like they are
>realize they’re all simping for the same bpd white girl who rejected them and using desperate non white women as a placeholder until she messages them back and they’ll come running
I’m disappointed but not surprised. Can any race of man love or are they all like this?

No. 382059

No man can love women.
Black women are blackpilled on the nature of men as men collectively treat us worse than every other race of women.

No. 382060

Yes they’re all like that. What you desire is a fantasy that has never been proven to exist. get some SSRIs and kill off that sex drive. Get your money up and move to a quiet beachfront. You missed out on the golden age of dating for no other reason than your age. Accept it and move on

No. 382082

The people more satisfied with their relationships with their parents are less likely to feel a need to compensate for something by sharing it online. I am biased though, I have a great relationship with both of mine so never felt a need to seek similar dynamics out online.

No. 382116

I wish that locked LSA hate thread was unlocked. I'm noticing this gross trend of them calling any man whose 24-25 dating a woman in her 30's, a "Little boy" or "Child" meanwhile, they regularly harshly judge 25 and even younger black women for making choices with men that are wrong or being immature.
There's a thread about a football player or boxer, who has 2 kids by 2 women and he's like 26. He's dating a woman who has 2 kids by 2 men and she's in her 30's. People are calling him a "Child" or a "Kid". No he's not, he's a grown man with 2 kids.
Compare that to any thread about any black woman who ever does anything, I rarely see them calling 24-25 year old black women "little girls' or "Babies" in age gaps. And if they ARE calling them a "Little girl" it's in a insulting way.
>This little ass girl needs to sit down somewhere
And it's usually people being mad at a young black woman for not being mature/smart or wise in a situation involving a man.
Even when lsa is critical of age gaps, it's just, "She could be his daughter" it's never pretending the woman is not an adult.
Even in my personal life, I was expected to make all the right choices at all times, rather it came to dating, or navigating the world while my brothers could do whatever and up until they were in their 30's it was, "They are still young" or "they going to make mistakes", my mother would always come at me hard.
I was expected to "know" how to be right and be wise. I wasn't allowed to be immature or figure shit out without EVERYONE on my back. Meanwhile, as we can see black men/men in general are allowed to be immature or reckless and still not be judged as harshly, if at all.

I can tell a lot of the genuinely black female posters on lipstick alley are male identified and probably treat their daughters differently then their sons.

No. 382117

Same anon, I've had friends who told me their mothers gave them the same identical speech of, "I'm harder on you because this, that and thrid" or "I don't want you to be like me". It's so fucked up how many black women, I know now who have expressed they were treated harshly by their mothers when it came to dating or really anything compared to their brothers. My mother even NOW comes at me and my sisters with an weird agression she doesn't my brothers. Flat out told me once, "I don't care if you are mad at me, but i care if your (named some of my brothers)". I'm constantly being told, "yeah I treat you differently, because you are a woman and-"
I think a lot of women like me who grew up in single mother households, have mothers who are jaded and beat down by the failures of black males and their own decisions, plus their mothers decisions. It's a ever ending cycle, of broken women, trying to "fix' their mistakes with their daughters, by treating some of us like we are their equals instead of their child. While not treating their sons like that OR if they do, they are treated as the man "of the house' meaning they are given a certain amount of respect and authority.
I hope this makes sense.

No. 382172

Should black women go on strike from relationships and babies until men learn how to treat us proper?

No. 382194

Korean women are doing it

No. 382200

Aren't we kind of already doing it? I feel like it's a popular thing to do among certain black women even if they don't intend to do it to punish men.

No. 382201

I've always felt like with black people they always act like every single little girl is one step away from making an onlyfans.

No. 382287

Black women have already been doing that for decades and it hasn’t changed anything or made us get treated better. Moids know that no matter how much we withdraw from them and deny them sex, they can always go find some impoverished third world woman who will put up with his shit out of desperation. The passport bros meme was literally started by black men, although white moids were doing it first with importing impoverished uneducated SEA women. I’m not sure what the solution is men will always be shitty regardless of how you behave for them.

No. 382351

How does one deal with loneliness in their 30s if they’ve decentered men but realise that hat most of your real life friends are male centred?

No. 382461

Where the Black (lesbian) women at?

No. 382473

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Hate how normalized extreme surgery in the black community is, I’m tired of black women being pressured to look like Bratz dolls and ridding themselves of their features as much as possible. You just know the moid surgeon asshole intentionally took the pic on the left at a harsh angle to make her look as cartoonishly negro as possible. And her edges, I’m weeping for them, literally tearing her hair out and looking like MJ on the right.

No. 382476

This is on of many reasons why I never want to have kids. I got that same lecture as well and was parentifed. So much trauma exists and is never spoken for

No. 382477

I do as an individual but don't hold your breath for a statistically significant minority to even try.

For economic reasons. I swear it's easier for people to focus on the "gender wars" than even acknowledge extreme capitalism and competition for scraps created their situation

No. 382479

I'm not surprised. Black women have been told form birth, inside and outside their communities, that they are ugly and unloveable because of their ugliness. Even if you had a feminist mom who tried to raise you with self-love, it's hopeless in the age of social media.

You see how much better mixed/non-black women are treated, how powerfully true pretty privilege is and how easy it is to access plastic surgery. If I had more money, I would have gotten full body plastic surgery. I know how much better people treat you and think of you when your are pretty and mixed.

I don't have a solution or answer to this. It's so hopeless.

No. 382480

why do they always wear makeup in the after pic? How are you supposed to actually compare the two pictures like this?

No. 382481

>”I think there needs to be a bigger convo on black fatherlessness”

>blogpost incoming btw kek

No, we just need to breed responsibly and stop birthing black males. Fatherlessness is only a problem when you keep generating a bunch of children particularly (and mostly) black males who love shooting, looting and killing while the women are placed with most of the brunt of the domestic affairs, financial and political burdens (ex. picking up the laundry AND picking up and explaining why Tyrone’s dead body has been littered on a gas station floor and having to lie to the media that he ain’t “du NUFFIN!!! mah son would never be a menace!!”) that tires and exhausts us out way more than other groups of women who have better fuckability/beauty mandate points that grants them a crumb of at least fauxprotection from this BS. The faulty normie logic that always permeates these conversation is the false equivalence that black men and black women (even POC) have always been subject to the same kinds of oppressive conditions, despite half of our community being women and also being subjected to sex-based oppression on top of crippling racial oppression and negative racial outlooks despite us again doing most of the heavy work that gets us mistreated and bombarded with thankless jabs of us “weave wearers and black male birthers” from everyone globally. We’re the ones who need radfeminism the most and yet we constantly reject it because white women who unfortunately all happen to be libfems/sex-pozzies for a status signal/“good girl” boost unconsciously aid into the hypersexualized negative image of black women and other groups of women we see today, having us run on a circular hamster wheel of male validation and hand pats. My rant is going everywhere and some of it isn’t related to anything to your post or in this thread and the jannies might find this post sus but time after time I think we understand that black males lack of responsibility for their own children and desire of fatherhood goes beyond space and time, wayyy before the Diaspora and it’s something that can’t be fixed through “socializing” and “rehabilitating” bc those disgusting ass creatures who have always been black women’s enemy from day one. We should be moving like those 4B korean women and carefully, surgically thinking about which XY we continue to shit out to the world and evaluate why were even continuing to have sex with our close-quartered oppressors who have contributed to our bullying, harassment, degradation and suffering with other groups of men while hiding their hands and whinging to any black XY sympathizers who will listen to their distorted POV about the detriment of racism and white supremacy, because their language is always coded with male-entitlement and unfettered access to other groups of women without any laws getting in their way from that happening (the main optics of the civil rights movement). They don’t like it when the shit hits for them but will promote it for their own female counterparts. We keep reproaching this “fatherless” issue countless times and running in circles anons, it can’t be solved by wasting time trying to include them thinking in the past that there hasn’t been measures to incentivize them to keep their useless asses in the home (apparently there have been!!!!). We have to completely take them out of the factor and deal with them as it really is: the average man’s aversion to caring for something that’s way beyond himself and beyond his small egocentric world of individual goals and obligations. Women especially black women have to take total control of the reproductive/childbearing process that still lays in the hand of patriarchal society, trying to restructure the home into a model that’s been oppressive for women is not gonna solve the reason why black males are defective. Black males are defective because they are men.

No. 382622

It's not just an upsetting situation but a lonely one as well. People ostracize, mock, treat us like we're not human and when the sorrow sets in she's told no one thinks that way. It's her fault for victimizing herself. Some of us try so hard to only be barely tolerated.

No. 382628

Some of you start to sound like racist white moids when black men are mentioned. You use the same exact lingo as they do it’s honestly pathetic

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No. 382634

>No, we just need to breed responsibly and stop birthing black males.
This is unrealistic and even if black women did stop right now, there's still hundreds and thousands of black children already in this world

No. 382642

This isn't normalized anywhere but online, most black people are walking around with the features that God gave us. I swear I feel like people keep trying to convince black women every black women has a bbl or chopping up her nose on average. Even online this shit isn't normalized, people don't treat Szas surgery like it's normal. People acknowledge it and praise her for "looking better" or they trash her for changing her features/body. Megan the3 stallion is praised for not having surgeries because all the female rappers do, not because shes the rare bw who didn't touch her face in general.
Most of us are natural. There's diffently cultures where plastic surgery is normal, it's not the black community.

No. 382644

also anon where did you get this picture from?
>made her look as cartoonishly negro as possible
If thats how her face LOOKS and how she came in how is it on the doctor? It sounds like you think her natural features look cartoonish. It's a simple front on picture, probably one they took right before surgery.
And you're picking at her edges and natural looks but then pretending to be weeping about the "Normalized" plastic surgery in the black community, when again MOST of us don't have extreme surgeries let alone surgeries at all.
This whole post sets off my bullshit alarm. I ask for a source because the second picture looks clearly edited or as if it has some kind of filter on it. I'd like to see how this woman looks without that.

No. 382648

>Du Nuffin!!
>Mah Son!
>that tires and exhausts "us" out way more than other groups of women who have better fuckability/beauty mandate points that grants them a crumb of at least fauxprotection from this BS
Something I notice is that there's BW who exist who can criticize black males without using 4chan/white supremacist like language. I could be wrong but I know for a fact that racists tend to target black female spaces to rant/discuss our issues to spew racism towards us or about their obsession with black men.
If you are black maybe you should work on how you talk about this subject, you say the 'jannies" may find this sus, but any black woman whose recognized the type of language used by racist would as well.
They know it's unrealistic.

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ok i also agree that a vast majority of black american women aren't actually getting plastic surgery and i do believe this whole thing is a psy-op by the medical industry to convince more women, in general, to get work done by using the "cool blacks" to expand to everyone because even stormfront types can agree on black americans starting and mainstreaming trends worldwide - basically bombardered black girls online that they are ugly and mean and undesirable from multiple anglepoints like 'online dating profile studies', shove racially ambiguous women who may or may not have black ancestry themselves as the beauty standard - mostly t.v./muisc industry, "o, wait those women have plastic surgery, i can look like them if i also get plastic surgery" - which hopefully leads to "if the black girls are getting work done, im getting work done" from other races of women, boom profit
anyways all celebrities get work done, no matter the race or sex, that includes megan the stallion! i have no idea why people online don't seem notice her's when it's so obvious to me…

No. 382653

The posts calling for black male genocide are written by a white moid from 4chan with a fetish for black women. They’re starting to invade LSA and LARPing as black women, saying how all block women need to marry white men and cull black babies in the womb. Complete mental illness.

Men will say they hate plastic surgery then simp for instathots and Korean women who’ve had 90% of their face surgically reconstructed

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No. 382663

It’s not “unrealistic”, you would just have to stop chasing and obsessing over dick for it to actually come into fruition, but I guess women place a higher priority of pretending they like sex from men than actually making livable, non-violent environments for their own daughters and themselves to live in.

And? Do you think black men will ever give you the same grace or have they ever given black women the same graces you give for them?? Does that make any sense anon?

>”ermmm gourls dis language really makes me uncomfortable~ I’m just liek gonna call you a moid because I’m paranoid and like policing other women’s thoughts so I can get you banned by lying~”

You’re the cancer killing /g/. Guess everyone who speaks in a way your paranoid ass sniffs as being typed up by a scrote should just be banned, that would have to include 98% of the entire website. I hate the hyper vigilance and hyper policing when you damn well know most people who use this site also came from and also still use 4chan.

No. 382720

I agree, especially when you listen in to their manosphere talks. They have so much hatred and disgust for their mothers and black motherhood. Even modern society hate black motherhood. Centuries of medical experimentation to control our bodies, our genes to better service the capitalist machine. I never once felt like it's worth raising a black kid in the modern age.

No. 382721

Unsurprising. There were similar results back with that 2010 OkCupid study.

No. 382737

My issue with this primarily is how this preference manifests in daily life. I could care less about who wants to date me.
I really wish black woman put more of an effort into upholding each other and supporting each other instead of being in a “who can get picked/get more men” competition. Call me crazy but I feel most opposition towards black women socially and romantically isn’t due to some inherent ugliness of black woman rather what the image of a “black woman” means in greater society. I do believe optics are important but in a larger scale than just partner selection.

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why do leftists keep pushing this shit? The quote tweets are so demoralizing.
>People think dark skin chicks are the same as men, so you have to defend us trannies!"
Leftists do this to no other group. Like their insanity makes me wanna rip my hair out.

No. 382906

we don't have full control over our image. Black men and multimedia corporations pushed that ghetto rap for decades, long before many of us were born and that suck for billions of people. And the failure of modern social justice, especially restorative justice has only sullied our image. And not to mention race swaps. I think we will forever have a bad image to our name and the best of us will be remembered as "not like the other blacks", which I hate but I can't seem to find another solution. At least with self-improvement or a black woman, comes with a strange anonymity. The less "ghetto" or stereotypical you are, the less mental space you occupy in other people's minds and you are closer to a peaceful life. Exception exist like Michelle Obama, but I'd rather aim for her archetype than settle for racthet instagram clone #75858765.

No. 382972

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this is what liberals think of us, I fucking hate them so much

No. 382980

Most women, nay people, wish to have a partner and get married. It’s a completely normal drive that most people have. I wish you idiots would stop referring to the completely normal instinct to attract a romantic partner as ‘getting picked’. I don’t understand why every other race of women is allowed to dream of Prince Charming sweeping her off her feet and invest time and money into her appearance to attract men without being shat on for it or called a pickme, but black women are expected to stay alone and celibate and shamed for self care and making themselves hot, as if the idea of a black woman being loveable and having a happy marriage is some impossible feat and that black women should just give up before even trying. I low-key think a lot of you are just racist larpers who don’t want black women reproducing or being happy and loved up.

No. 382981

>why do leftists keep pushing this shit?
unironically racism

No. 382983

I really don’t know why you keep posting screenshots of dumb random ragebait tweets from literal who accounts ITT, and acting like this represents mainstream views. Do you really think this is going to make more black women vote for republicans or something? Is this your little recruitment process? You want black women to vote for the same people who want more poor black women dying of back alley abortions and medical negligence? Sorry moid, take your fantasies of black women waving the confederate flag and shove them up your ass.

No. 382986

So many black women refuse to even think of protecting a shred of their piece and mald daily over random shit people say on social media. I don't understand it. Is life not difficult enough without the added weight of a thousand social media amplified idiots buzzing in your ear all the time?

Facebook and Tiktok. It's a tragedy.

No. 382989

A lot of men get off on concerntrolling black women because a) they know that black women tend to take the bait and react strongly and b) they are racists who find making black women angry and insecure funny. Also some moids think that if they neg and lower black womens self esteem enough, they will be more open to dating bottom of the barrel losers like themselves.

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Sorry, I'm going to say it. I'm sure I'll sound schizo or unintentionally offend someone, but I'm sick of being quiet and trying to be nice about this.
I'm tired of unattractive, insecure black women trying to get in good graces with the lowest rung of white people (trannies and other deranged paraphiliacs and mentally ill individuals who adopt new pronouns and "gender identities") via this self-deprecation, and dragging us all under the bus alongside them.

I've never been mistaken for a man once in my entire life. No one actually thinks black women are men, there is nothing inherently masculine about being black. It didn't even happen during the days of slavery. Black women faced distinctly sex-based and sexualized oppression that black men did not. Black men got the vote, black women did not. Black women were literally experimented on to form modern gynecology as we know it, raped and impregnated en masse and forced to care for the slaveowner's children as wet maids, nurses and caregivers. "Black women are men!!" is a recent insult from racists, not reality. It's the sad racist moid's way of saying "Your behavior is intimidating, and I'm finding you unattractive. You should care about my opinion, because you are a woman and I am a man - me likening you to a man should put you in check and make you want to act in ways I deem more agreeable. You're an inherently servile class as negro and woman, and I say you're doing your job wrong". Nothing more, nothing less. Note racist trannies sticking to this exact same script (the goal is to make you serve them and their cause), except they throw in "and you're just like me". This accomplishes three goals: Making the tranny feel a little bit better about being a literal male by likening himself to actual women, obscuring their own racism, and dangling the carrot of (illusory) racial equality and (faux) allyship to the self-hating black woman. Another reason it works so well for a certain type of black woman is that it offers them a rope out of the often neurosis-inducing (and very female-socialized) thought of "I'm unattractive because I don't care for my looks/don't know how to style myself/am personally unlucky" and lets them climb up to a more freeing, but inherently flawed and unrealistic "I'm not pretty, and it's not because of anything to do with me, it's because I'm black. In fact, beauty is inherently racist". This is also how they end up doggedly accusing all conventionally attractive black women of having "eurocentric features" without a drop of European blood, and how they scramble to spread lies about African cultures "having no gender roles" or knowledge of the differences between men and women. It's all to keep up the delusion built off insecurities capitalized on by trannies and racist liberals.

Equating biological women who face distinctly racial and sex-based abuse to biological men with dysphoria who get rudely reminded me of their literal anatomical reality every now and again is laughable and pathetic.

No. 382993

Samefag to quickly add that I don't support right wingers (because they are the same thing, just mask-off), but I am not and never will be blind to the fact that those same right-wing unironic "Nazi" failsons are getting sissy porn addictions, putting on stripey socks and playing the victim. Their opinions have not changed. They just feel oppressed because they can't do their fetish play 24/7 and make us all participate. Praying all women stop falling for male manipulation in 2024.

No. 383004

Agreed. I don't know why some posters preach volceldom so much ITT, but it's suspicious. I know a lot of incels really, really want vulnerable, easy women who identify as "femcels" to exist so they can get an in.
Some people on the internet are hell-bent on making it seem like it's some kind of hopeless battle to be loved or have anyone attracted to you if you're a black woman, but if you're even a little pretty and not morbidly obese, you're literally fine.

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For real it’s become more common and I hope young black girls see right through it

No. 383006

I want what’s best for me and black women. It just cringe to see run towards men who hate her or mock her and she wastes her tome begging and pleading for acceptance. You see women fucking themselves up with plastic surgery or cutting off friends and family to get closer to a man. It’s the tactics that women, especially black women to gain attention and affection. Some things like dignity is more valuable than getting picked.

No. 383007

I want black women to cuss out bad calll out progressives and liberals trying to bully us into certain ideological positions. I don’t even bother interacting with right wingers since they always call for mass black incarceration and genocide. I just want less cringe in this world

No. 383012

Why do you keep posting these irrelevant tweets with 2 likes? We know trannies see black women as men no need to remind us

No. 383025

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The most important relationship is the one that you have with yourself. Work on that before prioritising a man if you want to have a healthy relationship fr.

No. 383026

The family bubble would include the man you're married to, in the context of the post you replied to.The post is only about her desire to meet a man and grow a family with him and how its often brushed off as "getting picked", it doesnt look like she said anything about having a poor relationship with herself. Also, having a desire to have a relationship means that it takes over your whole existence like the left bubble, its not prioritizing a relationship with a man over all of your other duties in life.

No. 383027

I started dating my ex again who is a trust fund baby and I suddenly remembered why we broke up. No matter where we go I'm always the only black girl in the room and the white people chimp out every time without fail. I'm tired of going to these dumbass events and having them try to touch my hair or ask where I'm from all the time. It's like they expect me to tap dance constantly. He recently landed a job as a private hedge fund manager so now we have to kiss his clients ass all the time at events. The things I hear from these people is insane, they're so out of touch with reality. This shit is hell.

No. 383162

Anyone find it liberating to stop giving a damn about spinster stigma?
Am 34 and I just do whatever hobby I want on the weekend. My life is so much better than when I had a bf.

No. 383163

Upper class WASP Americans are so incredibly racist. I went to an Ivy League school on a scholarship and most people wouldn’t even make eye contact with me let alone associate with me. But hell, I wouldn’t even want to associate with people who probably (actually, definitely) call me the n word behind my back. The Asians were just as bad although they usually tried to be polite to my face for social justice points I guess. The white people just had nothing but disdain for me without even getting to know me at all.

One of the other black kids there was basically an Uncle Ruckus who constantly shat on black people and would make jokes about black crime stats when there were white people around us to try and appease them, and the sad thing is it kinda worked because the white people would laugh along and were a lot more accepting of this coon type (they still hated the blackness tho)

Being black is such a struggle because you never know if the non black person you’re talking to hates you or not. I know that there are people who aren’t racist, but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. I just assume most people are racist by default to save myself getting hurt and don’t even bother trying anymore, as unhealthy as that is. The same people who were racist to me in high school are now doing the BLM thing on instagram. Unfortunately many people are good at hiding their racism in social situations, which makes it even more unsettling.

No. 383165

Also the stuff about the younger generation being more racist is definitely true. I miss the 2009-2015 millennial era a lot, although it wasn’t perfect, the anti black pushback since then has been absolutely insane. People in yt comments, on reddit, on twitter, even zoomers irl are just openly racist as fuck nowadays and don’t give a shit about getting called out for it. Everything got worse after Trump for sure.

No. 383176

it's hard to explain it but it does feel like society is way more racist and it's a constant downer. I fucking hate zoomers and their sheltered edginess, I fucking hope any kids they have beats their asses. I feel like my nerves act up every time someone blames something they don't like as "woke" or "DEI" I never asked for the raceswaping thats Disney trying to save money of marketing. AA has been ruled out as unconstitutional and hasn't existed in some places for decades. Most american neighbourhoods are segregated. IR is rare and yet it's never enough for them. I can't even talk to therapist about this because most of them of true blue Biden loving liberals and think everything is A-OK.

No. 383178

A lot of black women allow this "drive" to literally destroy their lives. I don't want to be like them feeling sorry for myself because nobody wants to marry black women or trying to make it work with shitty abusive men. This dream of prince charming is childish and stupid no matter what race you are. I don't care how hot or desirable you are, things like that are not promised to you no matter how hard you try and you need to learn how to cope with it.

No. 383188

>nobody wants to marry black women
Get off incel spaces lol

No. 383191

You know happy black couples exist?
Just because you allow shitty treatment from men doesn’t mean black women all behave like you.

No. 383196

Both of you misunderstood the post. It’s not about never finding love but not being stupid in your search of it. The desire for love is normal but how she is taught in attaining it is problematic. Having standards, knowing what’s best for you, realistic expectations of others, etc.

No. 383215

I think racism is more open now because most kids spend all day online saying this edgy stuff and there aren’t any real consequences for it. Like these kids are spamming the n word in their discord servers and group chats with their friends being like ‘lmao based’ and the worst repercussion that happens for it is they maybe get a temporary kick or ban from the server. Nobody shames them for it, their parents don’t chastize them for saying it, nobody is keeping an eye on these kids or monitoring what they’re saying, and because the digital world is so overlapped with reality now, a lot of them think they can say the same stuff irl as they do online without getting their ass beat.

No. 383233

Yes! You get it! There weren't that many black kids on campus but almost every semester one of them that was the token black friend would go through some sort of fallout then come running to us to complain about how they were treated by the white students. It gets old really fucking fast.
I'm around the Asian students a lot because boyfriend is one but they were worse than the self hating black students in my opinion. Even one of the white students apologized to me for how the Asian students act. The southeast asian and middle eastern students were pretty cool, surprisingly.
I wish I knew you back then anon, I think we would've been really good friends.

No. 383286

Both men and women have to work hard on attracting a quality mate. Its not just about looks but also being ambitious, trying to be a good person and bringing something worthwhile to the table. It’s part of life, whining about how unfair it all is to experience pressure is so dumb. Pressure to be and look good to attract the opposite sex is part of life.

No. 383490

I always see people here talking about feeling demoralized by other races. But does anyone else get demoralized by other black women? This happens to me in various ways. For instance, I’ll think of a makeup/hair/outfit look and want to try it out and look cute, then I’ll see another black woman whose already done it before me and absolutely killed it by putting in 100x more effort than me and looks so
much hotter and is going so far with it. And then I just feel like okay whatever I give up, I’ll stick to my silk bonnet and sweatpants and no makeup now because I can’t compete with this cuter girl who pulls this stuff off better than I could. I also get demoralized by hearing other black women talk about relationships. Half the black women I know either hate men and think they aren’t shit and are good for nothing and spend every waking moment preaching about how relationships are a waste of time and black women should stay alone, the other half are delusional pickmes it seems who cape for shitty men and make attaining a penis haver the most important endgame of all time for a woman, and don’t respect women without partners. It’s all so tiresome.

No. 383494

I get annoyed listening to some black women talk about relationships but mostly when they talk about other women like competition. Especially with topics like colorism, I don't understand the fixation some black women have with mixed women. And I don't understand how some women spend more time complaining about mixed women than they do about men. Saying this a dark skinned black women, colorism is very real but the constant bashing of mixed women will always come off as annoying because the people who are loudest about it usually also date nonblack guys.
So they spend all that time complaining about how annoying mixed women are when there's 70% chance they're gonna raise one kek

No. 383496

I mean it's not like it's one-sided, when some of them constantly bash dark skinned women.

No. 383540

Less often as I grew older and it’s mostly due to behavior toward me than her style. I feel demoralized by cruel jokes and threats of violence, which I feel is more common post-2020. This and the shitty economy me feel like it will never get better. I fucking hate when boomer liberals brag about how great the economy and Biden is. Fucking old folks, they had all the economic opportunities and throw the ladder down when they had kids.

No. 383543

Maybe it’s because mixed women are the preferred choice (which normally isn’ta problem) but others harass and describe you in vulgar derogatory terms just for your cookout. Or how most first black whatever are mixed people (BMWF) and it’s an open secret compared to other groups. Or how black beauty standards are about the literally unattainable standard of light skin and loose hair. If you are not brown with those features, have fun spending tens of thousands of dollars chasing after it. Or how no blacks, especially liberals whites have better social reactions and opinions of mixed people compared to black people.

If you can recognize race or sec privilege, then it’s not hard to understand how mixed black women have the better deal compared to unambiguous black women. Most of the time, actually dark skin women are supposed to keep quiet about this social trends to not sound “bitter”. At best, we are different groups with radically social outcomes. It’s more fair if we described and behaved as the very distinct women we are.

No. 383544

There is no negative social consequences for mocking, beating or raping dark skin women. Even so called feminists join in on the harassment.

No. 383547

> the people who are loudest about it usually also date nonblack guys.
So they spend all that time complaining about how annoying mixed women are when there's 70% chance they're gonna raise one kek

God’s cruel jokes. Most people don’t have the patience to even raise mixed kids. Imagine having to fish the wide open ocean for men for someone who tolerates you as opposed to someone within your own community with similar values and outlook on life

No. 383548

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>dark skin women
Can we stop making mixed women = light skinned women. This is why I've seen people like Halle Bailey or Chloe Bailey get called dark skinned in comparison to mixed women like Zendaya
I can recognise colorism privelages but I'm over black people who complain about mixed people 24/7 but also fetishize interracial relationships. There are two kinds of people who pedestal mixed people, the covert colorists who bash dark skinned and then the ones who spend all the time talking about how the privelage mixed people have but actively try to have mixed kids because they want to get closer to it. Both are trying to live vicariously through their kids.

No. 383549

I'm not anti dating nonblack guys because no one is entitled to dating black women and black women can date whoever they want.
But I do want the people who clearly hate mixed women to ask themselves why they are getting into relationship that could make one? It's the same colorist mixed women or light skinned black women who fetishize dark skinned men but bash dark skinned women. What are you gonna do when your daughter ends up looking like the people you have deep seated resentment towards cause that stuff doesn’t dissappear after kids.

No. 383553

‘Now I’m raising a lightskin boss’. This is a really weird thing for her to say. I just checked the LSA thread about her and they’re saying the same thing. Disappointing.

>Colorism is about societal discrimination against dark skin persons. Not romantic preference. A whole BIRD.

Have to agree with this. Also, Jodie spent most of her childhood in the UK where colorism isn’t as big an issue as it is for African Americans so she doesn’t really have room to talk about this.

No. 383554

Women who try to live vicariously through their biracial children are so damn weird. Like girl, your kid is going to be instantly categorized as black no matter where she goes in the world. People sum up someone’s race in their head the second they see them, that’s just how reality works. White people don’t care whether your kid is a lightskin. She’s just black to them.

No. 383556

>White people don’t care whether your kid is a lightskin. She’s just black to them.
I'm not going to blogpost, but this is sadly not true.

No. 383557

Colorism is even worse in the UK and especially when it comes to mixed vs black people. They might as well have a caste system for mixed people in the UK

No. 383558

This is the funniest thing to me about black people, all that time spent pedestaling mixed people but they get trashed on as soon as they leave the black community. Black people are literally the only people who hype them up and if we stopped they would have nothing. That's why I never let a mixed person try to talk down on my features because they are 100% whining in their head about how they're not blonde or their hair is curly or some other bs.

No. 383559

No, it’s true. Unless you’re blonde haired blue eyes with Caucasian features, everyone around you is gonna clock you as black. Even normies can tell people like Tyler1 are mixed.

No. 383560

They're not going to treat you the same as a fully black person, we already know this.

No. 383561

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On a lighter note. I haven't watched the movie WISH but I've seen all the discourse related to it. I'm living for all the fanartists and fanfic writer basically making an entire AU to rewrite the movie kek.
I used to be a Disney kid and this reminds of the time people would ship jack/elsa. It sucks that Disney fucked up the movie because the animation and character design looks cute especially the braids.

No. 383562

They're just coping, we know mixed people don't look fully black but we also know that mixed regularly get put down by white and have insecurities about it. This whole "well we're basically white people lite" schitck they do with black people is a massive cope.

No. 383563

Lol no, if a white person is racist enough to treat black people badly because of their ethnicity, then they’re not going to be any less disgusted or treat you better if you’re lightskin black, because you still display black ancestry. If anything, racists get angrier at lightskins because it shows they’re mixed with white and they’re seen as ‘tainting’ the white parents bloodline. Look at how angry and disgusted white racists were by Robert DeNiros sons and talking about how they don’t look anything like their father. Those boys are light skinned as hell, too.

Why do you think there’s so many racist jokes about ‘le 56% face’ and calling mixed or lightskin black people goblins/goblinas/mutts?

The only people I’ve seen refusing to believe very lightskin ppl like Tyler1 are part black are dark skinned black people like Kai Cenat. Whereas white people can always tell they’re mixed with black somehow.

Reminder white people are much much stricter about what qualifies as ‘white’ than black people. Whereas darkskin black people tend to call anyone lighter than NC45 ‘white’.

No. 383565

>being into Disney shit as an adult
Seek help

No. 383566

i remember there was a blonde blue eyed biracial girl on tv here in the uk. white people were calling her black and black people were calling her white. her name was ruby tandoh. interesting how different the perception of race is among the races.

No. 383567

>This whole "well we're basically white people lite" schitck they do with black people is a massive cope.
I agree with this, biracial people are not seen as white. I'm just saying white people are not blind to a mixed (or just lighter) black person vs a ""real"" black person (their words, not mine), and they often have more unnecessary spite for darker and fully black people. Racist ones also try to pit the two against eachother pretty often. They're not colorblind, and they also participate in colorism. It's not just a black person thing.

No. 383568

also, i remember white people calling her an annoying diversity hire/token black girl, and black people calling her a privileged white girl trying to play the poc card. the media was accusing her of sleeping with the male judges and being overly flirty to stay on the show. turns out she’s a lesbian irl and married to a woman. just shows no matter what black women do or look like, they’ll always get hate for it.

No. 383569

Part-black biracials are usually seen as black but still "at least not too black" basically. "Interesting" how white + anything else = not white, yet black + anything else = black. Hmmm

No. 383570

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Booking a flight to florida and hotel at Disney land as we speak
She looks like she's from Cape Town and knows how to make a mean malva pudding

No. 383571

They do the same thing to mixed asians though look at the way mitski and zayn are talked about. Heck even the casting in Avatar's live action, both the actors for Aang and Azula are biracial but they are just treated as basically asian

No. 383573

Shes 1/4 Ghanaian on her paternal side. Is she considered black in America?

No. 383574

Ngl there's something off about the UK, the black people who I've met from there always have deep seated insecurities. I know america gets a bad rep for annoying their discussions of race are but the UK imo is way more neurotic and unhinged

No. 383575

True. Azealia called Zayn a curry scented bitch. I’m tired of people acting like darkskin women can’t be racist too. I know most of them are acting out from their own pain, but that doesn’t give you the right to attack lightskin black women or other ethnicities.

No. 383576

I mean blasians are still seen as more Black than Asian. White + Black = Black, White + Asian = Asian, but Black + Asian = Black

No. 383578

Probably not despite what people say about 1 drop rule, I don't see Wentworth miller getting called black

No. 383579

>1/4th black, 3/4ths white
By DNA, she has more white ancestry than black, so IMO it'd be more logically sound to just view her as white with a bit of black ancestry. I understand that the racist people who called her a "diversity hire" don't think in terms of logic or reality, though.

No. 383580

What you get defined as by others simply depends on what side of your ethnicity is more instantly visible imo. Terms like ‘white’ and ‘black’ are made up terms with no defined or scientific basis.

If you ask a racist white person what constitutes white, they often can’t even fully answer it. Some will say anyone with blue eyes and blonde hair (even if they’re Pashtuns, Siberians, Mahgrebi etc). Others will say no it’s about European ancestry. If you push it further and ask what percentage of European ancestry is considered white, then they struggle more. Is 1% non European ancestry mean you can’t be white? What about 5%?. Is a swarthy Sicilian person considered white but a blonde Algerian person is non white? All the definitions begin to break down, because none of them are based in reality or science.

No. 383581

I think she’s obviously mixed. I would have assumed she was North African or something. She might get privileges from colourblind people who don’t notice race as much and think anyone with blue eyes is white. But imo that’s becoming rarer since white people are getting increasingly right wing and paranoid about/biased against racemixing.

No. 383582

Even Varg, the most autistically racist and anti semitic person in the world, said blonde Jews like Scarlett Johansson and Gwyneth Paltrow are white/Aryan in his book. It seems that white people are only interested in claiming good looking mixed people for themselves, but disown any mixed people who aren’t good looking.

No. 383586

And that’s the problem. Instead of working to be their best selves and set themselves their descendants for the future, too many back women worship mixed women. It’s always obvious when a parents tries to live through a kid

No. 383590

Yeah and that’s why Dolezal was able to fool you for so long. do you ever wonder why blacks people have suspiciously wide nets of aesthetics compared to other groups?

No. 383591

Tinfoil moment: I think it’s because people think she looks weird and they (subconsciously) don’t want them as part of their group. Compared to attractive mixed people, then everyone wants to claim you as theirs

No. 383592

Exactly. The one drop rule is really a curse, lmao.

No. 383593

There are some people who really want black people to view biracial people as "just black" because white people refuse to accept them as "white". I won't do that, because I don't place white people's opinions over the literal reality of DNA or my own perception when it comes to the community I'm a part of (why would I?), and I think it's wrong to ignore that biracial people have unique experiences that monoracial people (of either race) simply don't. We can still be connected without erasing one another or attracting fakers like Dolezal, but instead, it just ends up messy.
Also, it's dumb when monoracial black people get annoyed at mixed people for claiming their heritage. I get that to them, it probably feels like rejection or an attempt at a flex after being taught for years to accept these people as black, but they are mixed. That's what they are. Why lie?

No. 383599

It makes more sense when you see black/african american as an ethnic group and not a race (excluding immigrant Black Americans though).
To be honest between one drop rule vs separating mixed people it doesn't make any difference. Like if you look at the treatment of black Brazilians vs black Americans where they have opposite views of mixed people I'm not sure who is doing better when it comes to colorism.

No. 383603

I'm not offended or saying I don't believe you but from the moment I saw that season of GBBO I thought she was one of the most beautiful people on the face of the earth so this post did leave me completely speechless.

No. 383609

I don’t think black women worship mixed women tbh. I think mixed women are the only women who get romantic roles or make it in Hollywood in general. Therefore black women have to find some celebrity to identify with or live vicariously through they have to find the lighter skinned women because they tend to get more jobs and become more successful and wealthy. Most darkskin women get minor or side roles at best and almost never earn as much money as lighter skinned actresses.

No. 383610

Defining peoples lives on the color of their skin is stupid imo. Yes, darkskin black people are statistically more likely to be jailed, murdered etc. But there are also other factors at play there, like socioeconomic ones and location in the world/country they are in.

But saying
>all darkskins will have terrible lives and will be oppressed
>all lightskins will have better lives and have privileges
Is so dumb too, yet I see people act like this is fact, all the time. Everyone’s lives are completely individual and unique with their own experiences. There’s darkskins with great lives and lightskins with horrible lives. A lot of dark skin black people believe that having lighter skinned kids will give their children easier lives. I know from experience this simply isn’t true. It more depends on wealth and the people you grow up around. I’m pretty sure that mixed kids are also at higher risk for sexual abuse and homicide too.

No. 383616

Mixed people are also overrepresented in the porn industry and mental illness stats. It's 100% because of the parents having deep seated issues.

No. 383617

Disagree. Slavery existed within the UK but on a much smaller scale than the US. The British elites owned a lot of slaves (at least 800,000 from what I’ve read), but those slaves mostly lived in the Caribbean and the US. I think in Britain itself there were about 15,000 black slaves by the time abolition was enacted, and mostly only extremely wealthy people could own them. Compared to the US where there were 10 million black slaves by the time of abolition and even middle class families could afford to own some slaves.

The slavery aspect is somewhat hidden in the UK and not really talked about (I actually went to a seminar about slavery in Britain based in the biggest historical slave trading city in the UK, and to be honest there wasn’t many sites to visit or archives to read because there weren’t many black people living here at that time) for that reason there isn’t as much bitterness and racial tension over it as there is in the US. Not even the Jamaican immigrants who come here really talk about it to be honest, which surprises me.

I guess people know that only a tiny percentage of whites in the UK owned slaves, and these same small percentage of whites also treated poorer whites like slaves/property so there isn’t as much racial anger or resentment there. 95% of peoples ancestors in the uk were dirt poor peasants, and most people are still quite poor. America always had much more wealth and far more wealthy families who made profit off of slave labour than the UK did. For that reason I think there’s much less racial tension between blacks and whites in Britain.

Of course there’s plenty of white racists here, but in general it’s very taboo to be openly racist and everyone around them, white or otherwise, will tell them to shut up. Black people also date interracially far more than they do in the US. Last time I checked, 85% of African Americans are in a relationship with another African American person. In the UK, half of all black British men and 20% of black British women are in a relationship with a white person. Black people dating out is very normal here.

No. 383622

I'm talking the internalized racism in Black british people.Them dating out more isn't exactly a great sign when they show extreme colorism.

No. 383675

I think that differs from person to person. I know a ton of other black people here and I wouldn’t really describe any of them as self hating tbh, except one girl I used to know who bleached her skin because she was from Senegal and very dark and some stupid boy said something rude about her skintone once. I genuinely think Americans are more unhealthily obsessed with race than people are here tbh, although it depends on who you talk to.

No. 383692

Acknowledging our history isn’t obsession.

No. 384182

Getting racially profiled is truly the worst, especially after a shitty day already. I went to get some items from the grocery store and this guy was just standing right next to me watching me self checkout. How obvious can you be? As if I need to steal these 2 items, why would I even go to self checkout to steal them?

No. 384231

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Why do so many black people get weird when you say diversity quotas are problematic? I think it's kind of obvious picking candidates based on their ancestry is racist and classist.(bait)

No. 384247

Because we rightfully, more often than not assume the person pointing it out is insinuating that any Black person of high status within a company wouldn’t have reached their position without quotas. Very few people know how to broach the subject without it becoming a self-soothing session for corporate ngmi’s.

No. 384293

I wish quotas are better implemented. I’m not against the idea of them but I wish they were more private. If anything white women benefitted from AA more than any group. Helps being the daughter of rich men

No. 384295

Sometimes I wish racists were more open so I could more effectively avoid them but we are a minority and we must interact with people like this for decent economic opportunities.

No. 384297

And people I see why I don’t want to date white guys, especially nerdy white guys in tech.

No. 384366

Weird thing to say even though I get your point. I try to avoid that demographic even back in the late 2000s. My gut was right

No. 384763

Cryptoracists scare me more than Nazis

No. 384784

Most innovation in tech in the modern day of silicon valley is centred around being a sexual degenerate. Youtube only exists to keep a permanent record of Janet Jackson's nip slip, Facebook was about doing smash or pass on random women, so many sites exist either to perv on women or to find "dates" and only turn it around when it doesn't really make them money. That coupled with the fact that they already see themselves as victims for being nerds, so they feel bitter whenever they aren't being affirmed for being the next Bill Gates, who is deviant, but i don't want to derail too much.

No. 384887

Soooo tired of white people saying excluding them from stuff is racist. Everyone knows it's impossible to discriminate against the majority.

No. 384893

Silicon Valley types really, really hate black people. Reminder these are the power tripping little racist geeks who say ‘kill all n words’ as a ‘joke’ in their private work chats and want to harvest everyone’s data and snoop on all their shit. These people are absolutely serious about their hatred and they worship people like Curtis Yarvin and BAP who basically hint that they want to kill all black people.

No. 384925

That’s why the so-called rationalists creep me out. I used to lurk Scott Alexander’s blog back in the day, and most of the comments had some variation “neo-reaction” using modern tech to reinforce old social values

No. 384928

The jocks were doing us a favor all this time, lmao

could this be due to the early official desegregation of sports?

No. 385398

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Unpopular opinion: it's alright for people with coily hair to wash our hair frequently (I'm a once a week person, personally. Especially cause I love somewhere hot, but I acknowledge that everyone's hair needs are different), and 4c hair isn't dry. It's just coily so sebum doesn't go down the strands as easily as straight hair, so our hair doesn't get greasy.

No. 385454

I feel like this type of hair receives the most racist remarks (aside from locs) because everyone assumes black people with this hair texture or locs have smelly scalps because they don’t wash their hair often and even assume they have lice because it looks hard to comb through. People seem to be fine with fluffy afros and braids but these tight 4c type coils and locs always get the most hate imo.

No. 385540

It’s actually better to wash it frequently. The longer you wait the more shed hair gets trapped, which becomes a nightmare for detangling.

No. 385544

I understand why some people feel the need to wear wigs or weaves (thin hair, alopecia, etc) but I wish it was standard practice to wear type 4 (whoever your hair is) wigs.
I also don’t understand women who say they wear wigs for hair growth but never show the hair they grow.

No. 385553

I think washing your scalp is good and while I think showering frequently is important I find the "ewww you don't wash your hair everyday?" discourse to be ridiculous. Once a week sounds reasonable, even 2-3 times a week is fine if you have issues with itching and dandruff.

No. 385594

Not much to add but she’s gorgeous

No. 385896

I’m watching Aftershock, a documentary on black maternal mortality and it follows the story of this woman and her family. I could never be a mother. I already have enough of a hard time at the doctor’s office. They kept asking her about drugs and assumed she was a druggie. It feels like some things don’t change.

No. 385898

That’s the main thing about wig and wig discourse. The texture is the problem. That’s why I think it’s wrong to compare it to extensions. Most women in wigs are not enhancing their natural texture but assimilating. Thanks to choice feminism you can’t actually acknowledge this anymore.

No. 385958

There was one poster in these threads who suddenly started sperging about Discord relationships when anons mentioned having partners after he/she implied no men want black women and they should all be alone. If that was even a black woman, it's really sad that some posters here believe every woman in their own demographic so undesirable that any BW with a boyfriend must automatically be a Discord kitten. The low self esteem is off the charts sometimes.

No. 385974

Does anyone like living in a predominantly non black city?
As an introvert I appreciate not having social pressure to interact with anyone from concerned “aunties”. I can be a loner without feeling judged for it.

No. 386087

I still don’t understand why black women are reported to have the highest self esteem. I honestly think it’s just culturally reinforced larping

No. 386119

Maybe they did in the past. Millennial and Gen Z grew up with constant online bullshit. Maybe they lack the resilience. Maybe they weren’t bombarded with statistics on every negative thing about black women.

That’s my goal. I just wish living costs weren’t so high

No. 386764

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Saging because I don't want to be accused of promoting political infighting ITT for posting picrel.
But what are your thoughts on this news? I know Candace is a veery controversial figure for a lot of black women, her views can be very divisive. But something about kicking out the only woman (and woman of color at that) on the DailyWire team seems pretty suspect. Not to mention that rumors were circulating since October of Candace possibly parting ways ever since she got into that heated argument with Ben Shapiro over the Gaza conflict.

No. 386775

I've read a lot of comments in conservative circles that support her. I don't think race was -the- factor in this situation, because Candace was essentially kicked off for being a Christian and saying that America should stop funding other people's wars and focus on the border. Shapiro, being a jew and netenyahu supporter, didn't like that so she had to leave. As an aside: as more situations like this happen, more Americans will finally wake up to how much control jews on both political sides have over the country, especially in the media. Most Americans didn't realize that it's literally illegal to boycott Israel in nearly all states until this recent Gaza shitshow happened. Those who refuse to see how problematic this is and dismiss people who question is as anti-semetic/tinfoil will have to eat their words eventually. The far-right Christians don't wield this much control.(bait)

No. 386793

>But something about kicking out the only woman (and woman of color at that)
Kek why are we trying to pull the woman of color card for Candace Owens of all people. She herself would probably even reject that. Sorry but I really don't care about her getting fired.

No. 386796

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She's a grifter that only went to the right wing for profit after her attempt to pander to the left with Social Autopsy failed miserably. Anyone invested in her or what she's doing beyond realising that she's trying to earn money by any means is a moron.

No. 386870

I’m sort of hopeful that perhaps the massive amount of hate on black women is slowly but surely turning over. I see a lot more black women being more internet savvy and more people willing to stick up for us.

No. 386964

What are your thoughts on single motherhood by choice via sperm donor?

No. 386972

People aren’t retarded anymore. They keep their views to themselves because of how easy it is to be doxed nowadays. If you want to be blackpilled go to instagram were you can find people calling you racial slurs with their job/college/high school in their bio. A lot of the big meme misogyny pages are run by black guys too who hide their BW hatred under the guise of sexism like they pretend to hate all women but the meme in question will be focused on BW. Maybe it’s because I’ve never heard of it until now but slurs (I consider them slurs) like weavehead are becoming the new sheboon. If someone says sheboon everyone will admit that they’re a racist or they hate BW but seeing people defend weavehead under the guise of “oh well not every black woman wears wigs” is upsetting. I curse the incel who came up with that term everyday

No. 387003

Funny when you consider how much other people hate natural kinky hair. Dammed if we do and damned if we don’t.

No. 387005

Always a bad idea. Your kid will hate you and your family will shun you. You will have no community. An aberration of a proper family.

No. 387026

I genuinely don't see how asian girls put up with these type of men between their coomer fetishes and constant race sperging.

No. 387052

For the ones that don’t just straight up agree, I assume it’s a “Cry in a Bentley or cry on the bus?” mentality. I feel bad for the kids that
come from this duo, though. Imagine your dad being emotionally stunted like most men, not because he was a military hardass or was raised by a similarly masculine and stoic man, but because he spent all his formative years building N-word towers on Twitter and sperging on /pol/. Poor babies never stood a chance.

No. 387286

Maybe it’s just the internet but I’m getting to the point I think black women need to start isolating from other people. I don’t think having this much exposure worldwide is good for us. I don’t think other people, other women will ever care about us or humanize us and it’s better to dead that dream and move in silence. In actual silence, not in that corny drake twitter way.

No. 387339

Are non black women nasty towards you if they find out you’re better off than them?

No. 387343

men are so threatened by single moms because they're ultimate proof that they have become useless and obsolete.
If you have the money and want a kid I say go for it.

No. 387352

Why do so many replies in this thread assume everyone lacks supportive family and friends? Or even that they live in an area/country where they'd be able to do different things? Crabs in a barrel ass mentality.

No. 387357

Maybe. I experience bitterness at work a lot from older white women, not sure why

No. 387370

Some of us have the self awareness to know that our family and friends cannot be relied upon for anything important.

No. 387419

I think about this a lot. I've even had a friend who is non-white tell me to do this and i am hesitant about dealing with microaggressions at work constantly.

No. 387505

I try but it’s hard to find other like minded women. I’ve been in a few discords but it always dies out or devolves into interpersonal delusions.

I get the feeling like our mere presence annoys people. Like any media presence is automatically woke. I feel like it’s because there’s not really niche black women have, outside of stereotypical ghetto nonsense. I have to accept the fact that there is no place for me, as a black woman, anywhere in modern American society

No. 387506

I have some financial support form family, but nothing emotionally. they usually ignore me and dismiss any attempts at discussions. I have tried and failed at talking about my feelings with them. I don’t even bother anymore. I’ve drifted from college friends. I have no romantic relationships at the moment. For better or for worse, I have mostly myself.

No. 387511

I just lean into the ghetto stereotype at work.
Might as well have fun with playing a character if you’re not going to be humanised.

No. 387519

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Unpopular opinion: only black women know how to write black female characters, will full humanity and no ghetto bullshit. I have given hope in media in portraying us in human ways

No. 387520

But you risk violence if you play into stereotypes and people will take you at your word because people don’t recognize sarcasm and banter from black women. Everything we do and say is taken seriously, like the worst possible interpreatation.

Everyone hates black women and has nothing but contempt for us. All I ever do is bite my tongue and mind my business and someone still calls me slurs. it’s never enough.

No. 387533

Is it even possible to be optimistic as a black women? Without religion or spirituality?

No. 387534

You could try using humor as a cope for the bleakness of your existence.

No. 387536

How? By shucking and jiving, like other known black (male) comedians? Chris Rock? Tiffany Haddish?
This is why there are no black atheists. Raw-dogging reality only makes you suicidal

No. 387537

If it makes money then why not? Integrity doesn’t pay.

No. 387538

I care. I crave dignity. I see myself as human and deeply desire for others to see my humanity as well. I have principles. And I hate being forced out of them. If I didn’t care about dignity, I would have dropped out of school and sold drugs or OF. Way more money like that

No. 387542

Does anyone else find religion to be anti black? There should be more black atheists not less.

No. 387558

Most religious people are, especially Christians and Muslims. They way African Muslims grovel to Arabs and brag about their own non-existent Arab ancestry makes me sick. The only reason Arab supremacy gets a pass is because Arab slavery lasted longer and is deeply tied to religion

Religion is both a coping mechanism and a tool for main ting community. I know the church was effective at holding secret meetings for civil rights activists but they way black women onto the anti-women teachings concerns me. Especially the parts on sacrificing oneself for others

No. 387571

I agree. it's so frustrating because no matter the country the strongest communities you'll find among black people are almost always religious. And any serious talk is discouraged. I was just talking to my hair stylist about religion (she brought it up) because she's doing stuff for Easter and she's super Christian. Islam came up bc it's Ramadan and she has a Muslim sister and she refused to believe me when I told her Prophet Mohammad married a 9 year old. "That's not true"
It's better to just steer clear of the topic entirely even when directly asked. My go to will be "I'm spiritual" lmao

No. 387596

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Aside from the white male worship, I think she’s right on black women avoiding bisexual men.


No. 387601

I'm sick of being treated like filth by the migratory populations in my city. It doesn't matter where they come from, they bring the values of black people being a lesser class with them. You can be a high earner, well spoken, well dressed, doesn't matter. It feels topsy turvy because I was here first. Why do you have to get used to me?

No. 387616

because they want someone to look down on and feel superior to

No. 387617

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No. 387620

All migrants think we are lazy and disgusting thanks to American media. Is it any wonder blacks people obsess over media representation?

No. 387623

Why not be upset at the elites that brought them here instead? Migrants were brought in to put downward pressure on wages.

No. 387636

Black women are scapegoats especially with all the DEI whining

No. 387644

This is an imageboard newfag, learn to screenshot.

No. 387681

Obsess over but don’t do anything about. I’d be fine with no representation at this point and it seems like the only black shows black people support are the ones about being from the hood. Anything new or different with black people in it seems to always commercially fail. From I’m a Virgo to Iwájú. I wish black people actually supported non stereotypical depictions of black people, black musicians.

No. 387695

Sad but true. I’m the only person I know who has watched Blood and Water or Kizazi Moto. the rotten luck of being born too late for actually enjoyable black media. I often just rewatch old shows over and over agin instead

No. 387696

I actually like her and agree with a lot of her takes but she needs to take the (white) dick out of her mouth and stop pandering to right wing moids. She’s right though that women are debased through porn, modern men being allergic to responsibility, and she’s also right about the Gaza stuff. The fact she’s being deplatformed as a black woman shows she’s doing something right.

No. 387712

Does anyone find it funny how non blacks behave as though we’re about to steal from them even when we are physically smaller?

No. 387740

I just to spook them by reacting fast. Very funny.

No. 387795

On another note, why are we constantly portrayed as physically larger than other races? Europeans are a lot taller than Africans on average, aren't they? Even when it's meant to be flattering it's still bizarre how common this pattern is.

No. 387870

Number one, people will equivocate all black women with black men. Two, people will assume the most masculine/ugliest woman (not to say masculine woman are ugly) as representative of very black woman. Also, tall white women are stereotyped as model-like, which means thin, frail. Whereas we are seen as a naturally muscular, wider race.

No. 387872

Also, Every white woman built like Pearl will be seen as the exception to the rule, and castor semenya is seen as our default. Media tends to reflect this everywhere.

No. 387921

I hate that so many fat positive SJW types expect all black women to automatically be on board with them.
>"but lots of black people are fat"
Should I be pro-crack, too? Fuck off

No. 387922

Samefag: It's even dumber when they cope by insisting that being fat is somehow innate to being black, and that being skinny is a white woman thing. I'm not fat, and I don't want to be. No amount of weird copers will change the fact that obesity is unhealthy, and exposure to its effects would turn any sensible person even further against it. I'm seeing more and more young black women become anachans, and I almost don't blame them with all the disgusting messaging going around.

No. 387924

Controversial but I think white women get a shit ton of hate nowadays. Not as much hate as black women obviously, but it’s clear society hates any women that are seen as feminist or independent.

No. 387932

I’m sure they do. It is pretty obvious, though that many of them are willing to push us down to benefit from the racial-gender hierarchy so I can’t feel too bad for them. Solidarity is a two way street. Often times black women feel like if we grovel enough they’re going to get sympathy. But it actually just gets turned against us. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not dumb enough to be anti feminist but I’m also not going to appeal my humanity to those women either. It’s pretty obvious even on this site that they don’t like us very much.

No. 387934

All racist posts are made by male trolls

No. 387935

you really think there's no racist white and nonblack women on here? most of the most blatant racism I've witnessed irl was from women.

No. 387936

Why the need to pretend women can’t be racist. Regardless if it’s because of patriarchy or not, someone’s actions are her actions and she decides to act the way she does.

No. 387947

I don’t support obesity either, but I don’t see how the reactions to fat people, like demeaning them or calling them disgusting, helps. Controversial I guess, but they still deserve to be treated with empathy. Being constantly insulted isn’t a good motivator for improvement, and it’s fat black girls who are more likely to get targeted and made the butt of jokes (like what happened after Precious). I don’t want attitudes that lead to girls getting bullied, you can encourage losing weight without demeaning them. Struggling students aren’t going to automatically improve from people calling them stupid all the time.

For fat people to lose a lot of weight, it requires several months to a year of consistent training, maintaining a proper diet, and self-discipline. You need to believe in yourself that you can improve and for that you need to have a sense of self-worth. I’m skinny because I stuggle with eating, and it’s my chubbier friends who work out way more often. They’re also more confident and don’t hate on themselves for being fat, they just work on improving. I’ve seen how fat girls and women get bullied and I don’t doubt that shit fucks with you mentally. The problem with fat-posi and anti fat-posi is it’s 2 extremes. No shit a lot of people with self-confidence issues are gonna go for the side that praises them over the side insulting them.

>I'm seeing more and more young black women become anachans, and I almost don't blame them with all the disgusting messaging going around.

That is an equally serious health problem but closer to your aesthetic, anorexia is linked to higher health risks and high mortality rates and for these girls it’s based in the fear and shame of being fat. Fat women and anachans both need help and understanding for there to be any real improvement

No. 387983

Why do you guys think there’s so much animosity for race swaps that involve black women compared to other groups? Like I learned recently that Morgan Freeman‘s character in the Shawshank redemption was originally meant to be a red haired Irish man. But there was basically no backlash for that decision. No backlash for will Smiths character in MIB. Even modern characters like Miles Morales gets significantly less hatred than other black characters.

Personally I think it’s connected to the idea that men think the woman in main stream media represent what a man supposed to be attracted to. You’ll have guys get angry at the presence of plus size women and advertisements, especially advertisements for women. There’s a sense of anger there that I can’t pinpoint exactly.

No. 387984

It’s all because of that bullshit book searing the black body. What people think material conditions that lead to poverty is inherent to the black condition. In America poverty and obesity are correlated. The cheapest foods are often the most caloric and unhealthy. The richest women are often the thinnest woman

No. 388003

I never want to embrace this type of misery for myself or other black women. It feels like a psyop.

Racism + misogyny. That's it.

No. 388005

Black women are seen as inherently political "tokens of wokeness" to an extent black men or non-black women usually are not. It's not even just about race-swaps but original characters too.

No. 388007

I think stuff like this is so weird. By finding things and people that fulfill you and make you happy? By pushing forward and working to lead a life that makes you happy? Obviously being a black woman is hard, but experiencing hardships is just life. You guys act like being a black woman is always bleak and just complete misery. Like it's impossible to find enjoyment if you are a black woman. People want you to be miserable and you're letting it work. Sorry but I refuse to become embittered when there are still so many beautiful things and people in this world to experience, and other black woman should do the same.

And I say all of this as someone who's agnostic and doesn't really do spiritual shit besides occasionally indulging in a little light astrology.

No. 388032

It feels alienating. Like the good intentions of wanting better representation more interesting characters non-racist storylines, as ironically led to BW being a punching bag. I don’t know if it’s going to change in my lifetime. I don’t think it’s gonna get better. I feel like the only woman who might be able to “escape” this characterization might be extremely conservative woman who pander heavily to conservative people

No. 388073

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Funny how hypocritical (white) radfems can be

No. 388082

hilarious that this user is also a lesbian separatist.

Black radfems look retarded as fuck being the white woman defense league when white radfems will go about their own business whenever their fellow whites are spewing misogynoir.

No. 388093

The joke here is that I'm pretty sure that person wouldn't care about being in a "black girl gamer" group under normal circumstances, so this is literally just being petulant and dumb. How does she understand why lesbians would want their own spaces from men and straight women, but then get mad when minority women want their own spaces? "Rules for thee and not for me" nonsense.

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Question for the other Americans here: am I the only one who doesn't like the term "African-American"? I prefer Black or American or Black American. I think Africa is gorgeous and I would love to visit, but I literally have no connections to the country or family from there, so it feels strange to call myself African. Plus, we have our own culture distinct from those in Africa. I'm not African, I'm American and Black.

No. 388187

Samefag but I also think there is something regressive about putting every American who's not white in a sub-category. Asian-American, hispanic-American, y'know? Although, I will say that it makes more sense for other races because they usually have recent relatives that immigrated, like a lot Asian-Americans have parents or grandparents who came from Asia.

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I like how I look with unnaturally colored hair, including wigs, but I keep getting anxious that people are looking down on me for not being natural. It makes me feel guilty somehow, too, like I'm wasting my real hair (but I don't want to dye it).
At the same time, there's no winning. My real hair is long/thick, and people used to get mad at me for some reason, make nasty comments and insist it was "fake" growing up anyway. And then there's natural hair being seen as "political" or "rebellious". And if I had short hair, there'd be nothing but insults about being "bald-headed", "unable to grow hair", etc. I feel like the black woman hair experience is someone raging at or bashing you for something, no matter what.

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No. 388273

Not burger but I have to ask why does "Caucasian (American)" seem to be used far more often than "European American"?

No. 388283

Where are the black brazilian anons?

No. 388289

Because in the States there is a distinction between White European (Caucasian or white from anything between France and Germany and UK and Scandinavia) and Hispanic European (white from Spain and Portugal and Mexican criollos whites and mestizos mixed race spanish-natives)

No. 388337

Africa is a continent with 54 countries.

No. 388352

Typo, you know what I meant nonna.

No. 388386

It's the same problem with "Asians", but Africa had no countries in 1850 from the European perspective as we know them today (that's how people identified English American, Irish American, Italian American, Mexican American etc) therefore your ancestors could be retroactively defined as Nigerian American, Angolan American, Mozambican American, etc. but in fact the various countries of Africa were created after 1884 with the Berlin Conference and well after slavery with the Atlantic trade was abolished.

No. 388387

Must be because of the recent bodycam videos getting posted on Youtube where they show black-skinned shoplifters, loss prevention guards are becoming concerned but really shoplifting happens with all races

No. 388392

I'm not american but I think it's weird anyone who isn't white has to say they're something-american. if you're born in america aren't you american on default?

No. 388429

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Did anyone see the original of this video? I lowkey feel for that woman, because while everyone was making their little rebuttal and reaction videos to it there was a kernel of truth and understanding in her video. The entire black community loves to break you down, loves to play pretend, gaslight, and then immediately hide their hands and act like they’re all fully secure, responsible, mentally healthy individuals who “wouldn’t be like that woman” and after they’ve played mind games and broken your spirit, you’re to collect the pieces through psychiatry and individualist self-help to go and repeat the same mindfuck and mindbreak process with people who wouldn’t even begin to understand.

No. 388572

My only problem with that video is that in her venting, she added to the existing degradation and lies that get thrown at us. It's a racist, moneymaking American lie that black women's natural hair inherently "isn't feminine" or doesn't grow, and sadly, many black women got bullied into buying into it, perpetuating it and making it into a self-fulfilling prophecy. The root is in racism, but white people don't even have to say it anymore. Black people do it for free. I've seen so many black women talk about how black men were the cruelest to them about their natural hair. It's so unnatural to me, our hair should literally be what's normal to us. It's like if some groups didn't just have things like double lid eye surgery available, but they actively made it some kind of deranged life mission to bash eachother for having epicanthic folds at all (with special, but not exclusive hatred for monolid eyes). I don't understand it.
I agree with everything else you said, though.These are all messages fed to her by other black people. This is why I don't operate in terms of a racial collective unity or "rooting for anyone black". I don't see a group of other black people and just expect them not to be cruel, because sometimes, they're the fucking worst. I feel like individualism was the right move from the start, and we've all just been fed lies about racial solidarity.

No. 388657

Do you hate it when non black women assume you’re bitter about them having a black boyfriend/husband?

No. 388669

Could leaning into positive stereotypes help us get ahead?

No. 388707

It just seems like a cope to me. I feel bad for any woman dating a black man in the current era.
What's weirder IMO is when they try to make it seem "woke" and "feminist" to date non-white men and ignore that on average, those men are even more misogynistic if you look at their cultures and upbringing. They're happy to ignore all the pain women of other races go through because they think being white makes them exempt, then are shocked when they get the same treatment. Like, of course a brown Muslim man or a black American man is abusive. What did you think? Were you not listening?

No. 388719

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I have to stop using Twitter. I thought I could handle the Musk takeover and just mute/block people I find annoying but it feels like certain pages keep popping up on my screen. It’s like the worst of 2009 Twitter with the blue checks making nasty post every single day. I need to find a way to connect with my mutuals elsewhere

No. 388720

I think it's hypocritical when they get mad about black women having non-black boyfriends/husbands of whatever race they are.

No. 388722

It feels like an ancient cultural leftover. The only women who are mad are those with a scarcity mindset. Like the amount of BM who want to date are so rare you have to get into fights with women to secure the few good BM. when you detach and acknowledge people really are people, it doesn’t matter as much. Plus growing up and failing life experience helps

No. 388723

Depends. Most “positive” black female stereotypes center on how submissive and subservient a proper “mammy” is supposed to be. Like in the link above here >>387617 you can read how most BF attention is based on how motherly they are towards non-black people. An actually successful, slim, natural BW goes against the status quo and is more hated than a stereotypical woman. America is more tolerant towards the Tiffany Haddishs and Sexxy Reds of the world than the Michelle Obama archetype.

No. 388735

I find it weird how white women will do this weird mateguarding/gatekeeping technique where they'll say any white man who shows an interest in a non white women is a fetishist but then they'll date Black/Brown/Asian dudes whose level of fetishism of white women is so off the charts that it has simply been normalized. Other than that I don't care. I do think other black women exaggerate the degree to which white women are into black men though, whether this is a selection bias thing or whatever. In my relatively middle class friendship group with about ten white women, only one dated a black guy and she ended that quickly after it became clear he was a misogynist (he was second gen African). The rest all date or are married to white men.

No. 388760

>white man who shows an interest in a non white women is a fetishist
As a group, white moids who prefer non white women come across as more racist than those who stick to their own kind.

No. 388762

NTA, but IMO/IME non-white men who prefer white women over their own are often far more racist in comparison, it's almost cartoonish. They're typically more explicit and harsh about their hatred because people let them get away with it, too.

No. 388885

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What are good places for black women to work and live in?

No. 389009

I used to make myself small to protect others from feeling envious of me.
I do think I cop a lot of envious hate from racist sexist folks who feel slighted by the fact that a single black woman is doing better than them.

No. 389041

same here except it doesn't work. what do you do now?

No. 389108

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I was looking around to see if there are any black atheist women mentioned anywhere online. I came across this article which lists a few. I haven't read more about any of them just yet, but wanted to share this here just incase it could be useful for anyone else.


No. 389315

Someplace warm and civilized, like Costa Rice

No. 389320

Am I racist for asking someone’s ethnic heritage if they’re not black but they say their nationality is Tanzanian?
I don’t believe non Black people can identify as sub Saharan African.

No. 389322

No, just weird- if there clearly non black people will rightfully assume their Just talking about their nationality/ cultural background.

No. 389350

No, i feel the same way about white south Africans, idgaf what anyone says, the others can catch this smoke too. They will always be invaders to me, the monstrosity of their actions against the African people is still in recent enough memory that most people who suffered and inflicted pain are still alive to tell a tale.

No. 389524

>My real hair is long/thick, and people used to get mad at me for some reason, make nasty comments and insist it was "fake" growing up anyway
I had the same experience during childhood, they would either say this or accuse me of showing off and wanting attention. Even wearing it in braids wasn't good enough and resulted in the same remarks along with them pulling and tugging my hair. I hate to say this but at least in my experience, it was always the same few stereotypical ghetto kids that acted this way towards me. Although black classmates who were more like myself (so just well behaved and not loud basically) and students of other races treated me normally.

No. 389577

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I think this is payback for BLM and that sad part is BW did it for BM. black women are an easy scapegoat and less integrated in American culture, which is why all this is happening


No. 389579

How do you feel about non black POC living in Africa?

No. 389651

No, you're fine. In the same way that some people absolutely crease and insist black people born in non-black countries can't actually "be" a "real" part of those countries as natives, no matter how much the culture is embedded in them from birth, I don't see any issue with saying non-black people can't actually "be" African. If someone thinks the latter is racist, they should go deal with the former and work from there. If it's about blood for one, it's about blood for the other. IMO it's even more justified in cases like South Africa, but that's another discussion.

No. 389992

The more racism I see the more I realize black women really need to stand up for ourselves and stop thing to solve everyone else’s issues because solidarity really doesn’t exist. It’s sad but it’s true. If that means fucking someone else over that’s just what needs to happen.

No. 390274

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Tbh not much unless they are overtly racist, I grew up in Southern Africa (not SA) and there are nonblack people from my country at every income level. It wasn't just an "only see these people at private schools" thing. Had a lot of indian/arab friends as a kid didn't really think about how foreign they are, there's coloureds too but that's a whole diff discussion because they do have genetic ancestry from my country lol.
But my views on immigration are pretty conservative I just don't obsess over nonblack people in my country who already have citizenship cause what's there to do? Take away their passports and make them stateless? That's a whole warcrime. I know a lot of africans from other regions would say that but it's whatever my country has bigger things to worry about than trying to ethnic cleanse (also the people who say this shit live overseas kek).
well duh white south africans flip flop on claiming to be african a lot the older generation made a disnction of being european while everyone was either coloured or "native". But now emphasising their africaness because of coloured and black south africans are trying to make land claims.

No. 390275

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I came here to talk about how I think it's cool that debbie allen and phylicia rashad are related. Also they are both upper class southern black americans (the AKA/Jack and Jill kind). I wish I got to see more of that culture in the media (along with gullah and creole culture), because it's interesting
also forgot to add I'm not the ayrt

No. 390281

Sorry but what does Jack and Jill mean in this context? I’m not American

No. 390290

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Sometimes I see posts like the second comment that sound so dumb I just tell myself it's bait and ignore it. But then I see posts, like the third comment, that prop up the dumb comment and I feel crazy. No matter how ignorant it sounds, is it better to just ignore?
It's not worth it to argue on here with people who don't see anything malicious about the top image, claim there's no prejudice at all, or are just apathetic to an anatomy book playing into bogus race science. But it's so irritating because I didn't see this kind of denial from anons when the artist's misogyny got posted (I'm worried to see how this artist would draw a black woman, how he draws black people is all like in picrel). But in the end it's all just bait, isn't it

No. 390384

I've seen anons in confessions threads (not just the current one but threads from months ago too) admit to being racist so at least some of them really mean it. Not just towards nonwhite moids either like they claim.

No. 390388

I don’t know why they always pretend like they only hate nonwhite men. It’s very obvious it extends to the women.

No. 390395

Something something banter, moids, blackwashing anime, twitter users. A lot of reasonings but many users don't particularly think of us as fellow women really. We're a separate third thing that comes up in conversation too much for them to think of us more than a memetic intrusion.

No. 390446

We need to not only stand up for ourselves, but only focus on ourselves. the past 4 years made me see how obsessed black women are with black men. We blame all their misogyny and hatred towards us on white supremacy and waste time yelling at random whites to fix the problem of violent men. Now look, black men are a protected class as the embodiment of anti-racism and black women are the evil DEI scapegoats. And now black conservative male podcasters and ideologues are pointing their fingers at black women and fanning the flames of hate.

Avoid n*ggas and focus only the most important things in life: family, money, education, peace of mind, etc.

I wish that upper class “Huxtable” archetype was the norm in the black community. I’m sick of ghetto behavior, because it has become inescapable and any criticism of it is seen as “internalized racism”

No strong opinion although sometimes I fear a possible recolonization in my lifetime.

No. 390448

This is so common in so-called feminist spaces. And those women always run to the right to be their “tradwives”. Modern feminism is a corpse

No. 390449

all the women are white, all the blacks are men and where are we to stand?

Also “memetic intrusion”, I’ll remember that for the future

No. 390873

when I hear "minorities and women" it makes my skin crawl because it just solidifies further that they don't really even think of us as human

No. 390907

Does anyone else feel ‘ugly’ because you hardly get any male attention despite working on losing weight and dressing better?

No. 390921

well they can't say "minorities and white women", which is what everyone knows that they mean. I think they get a pass for that one.

No. 390954

I mean, it really depends on where you are, what the culture and beauty standards of that place is and what you exactly look like.

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Wtf is wrong with black women?! Why they speak like this? As a collective, when their own men hate them? Even the comments below scare me. It’s so fucking terrible. What will it take for these women to give it up


No. 390963

I never got any attention in my small town but got plenty of matches and even relationships when I moved to a large city. Location matters, for real estate and love.

No. 390964

This is what the old school definition of white feminism was referring to, not trans debates or anti-child marriage sentiments

No. 390965

Didn't they use to say OJ was innocent? Now they're admitting he was a murderer?

No. 390972

A lot of black people thought he was innocent, and a large minority thought he was guilty but the prosecution fucked up. Today most people of all groups believe he was guilty. As someone born in 2000, I think he should have been beaten to death on camera. A bastard like him deserved that

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What is it with Black women and joining every femcel trend? There's a tiktok trend of south asian women complaining about not fitting beauty standards and the backlash against avantika for rapunzel. And ofc some black women have to be like "me too! I also don't feel pretty!".
It's so annoying how some black women have an inferiority complex and need to make sure everyone knows they think they're at the bottom. Can't even say it's a zoomer/tiktok thing cause so many women did this shit on reddit and twitter too.

No. 391301

They’re just acting out centuries of hatred and contempt and racism towards black features. How can you blame them for feeling hurt and having internalized self hatred?

No. 391317

they can feel hurt and have internalized self hatred without constantly feeling the need to prove to everyone that they are inferior. there's internalized self hatred and then there's having an inferiority complex that prevents you from having perspective/common perspective. You can feel insecure about your features but if it gets to the point to where you see someone else complaining about their features and feel the need to go "well I have it worse", also make sure to mention that everyone sees black women at the bottom. Then it's just making them a shittier person both to other BW they defo project these insecurities to and to the nonblack women whose insecurities they turn into a competition about.
Like I'm not one to police venting but it's literally not about us and just other black women putting themselves down because that's the expectation.

No. 391356

The femcel label is new, but the behavior is not. Black women who don’t meet conventional beauty standards or their own community standards are shunned everywhere and thus they feel a sense of strong desire to show they belong. whether that is by religion, social justice, nerd stuff, etc.

I know those ladies are better off for not fucking with ghetto men but there’s more to life than relationships.

No. 391358

The girls who feel like this have every right to express how the world has made them felt. And who the fuck says "femcel"?

No. 391400

>there’s more to life than relationships.
True, though some women really want to get married and raise kids. It is okay to grieve for missing out on that instead of pretend to be a strong independent woman.

No. 391422

You may be projecting a bit. There are sooooo many men who fetishize black women. Hell, there are entire ~countries~ where black women are fetishized (Russia, Germany, Scandinavia). If these women really just wanted to find a serviceable moid, there are plenty of guys who'd be interested in them

No. 391426

NTA but I thought Russian moids were known to be racist, or is that a meme? But as for men in general fetishing black women they just want a stereotypical type, I rarely see them show interest in regular everyday black women. I feel like they're going to be disappointed if I'm not "thick" or hypersexual enough.

No. 391429

When the alternative you propose is finding a guy that's "serviceable" that fetishizes your race, is it any wonder these women do not want that? White men that fetishize black women also tend to be into the pornified image of black women. BBL and perma-weave types.

No. 391432

the idea is to not co-opt a different trend though.

No. 391437

>White men that fetishize black women also tend to be into the pornified image of black women. BBL and perma-weave types.
Not really. Especially in the Nordic countries there are a lot of guys who just prefer black women to other races. Look at the type of black women that Boris Becker dated. These guys are usually nerdy, spergy (especially about punctuality) and boring so I'm not saying black women should all move to Germany or Scandinavia but this idea that educated black women either have to go with guys from the ghetto or just go without simply isn't true
>NTA but I thought Russian moids were known to be racist, or is that a meme?
They aren't racist in the sense that they hate black people but they are incapable of understanding that there are certain things about race that you just aren't supposed to say. In Russian culture it is considered perfectly normal to say what we would regard as racist comments about Jews, Asians, Armenians, Chechens and even Russians (Russians will point blank say that Jews and Asians are smarter than they are).
Really, I wouldn't recommend Russian men. Never dated one, but I have dealt with them extensively.

No. 391441

Tell me you spend all day on 4chan without telling me you spend all day on 4chan.

No. 391442

White men who fetishize black women are usually shady as fuck. Michael Fassbender has a fetish for black women and is also an abuser. Boris Becker is a cheater and commits fraud and is also ugly af. Why would you want anything to do with these moids.

No. 391452

You lot are so retarded I'm surprised you're high functioning enough to type.

No. 391455

Why get sad about men being bad partners when being a happy single woman is an option?

No. 391497

Being fetishized is not the same as actually being loved, valued and treated with empathy. Fetishization means being fucked and tossed aside. never tolerate that kind of behavior

No. 391499

Exactly, the types of men who lust over black women happen to be some of the worst men to exist. They think because BW have such low social value, they can behave in any way to her. It’s one of the reasons why I think IR is such a bad deal. But I also know plenty of BM behave like that. Celibacy is the only way to dignity

No. 391506

>They think because BW have such low social value, they can behave in any way to her
But that really isn't it. Some guys just like dark skin and African features.
White guys who date black women aren't any worse than any other type of moid

No. 391508

>They think because BW have such low social value, they can behave in any way to her.
Good point. I only get hit on by losers (single dads, cocaine users) of other ethnicities at my office job despite not being fat/ugly.

No. 391571

Is it really true people prefer you to be stereotypical? It feels like the most successful black people are the ones who lean into the stereotypes

No. 391592

Popularity and fame doesn't equal success, only reason you feel that way is because you arent looking for the ones that arent stereotypical, ive seen plenty who dont follow that, if anything ive found more who dont rather than those that do.

No. 391611

I found pretending to be a bit more ghetto helps me get along with non black people. I can only be my true self around other black people.

No. 391819

Ehh it depends. I used to be big on female looksmaxxing spaces and everyone agrees that slender dark-skinned black women are popular with wealthier high-quality men. It’s the men who fetishise ghetto stereotypes that you have to look out for, because they just want to treat you like crap.

No. 391834

i think joshua jackson is another one. he cheated on jodie turner-smith (while she was pregnant at that) to get with lupita nyong'o. men who fetishize any race of women always treat women like something to collect and toss aside.

No. 391835

My experience with Nordic men is that they think we are very very sexy, not even for our body types, but more so, just for the fact that our skin color is so different from theirs. The main thing they say they like about it is "the contrast", and how that alone drives them wild. We are very exotic to them. Major league "but" here though. But, while they find you to be insanely sexy and will trip over themselves to be around you, understand that it is entirely fetishistic. It's their ultimate fantasy, that they thought they'd never have an opportunity to experience in real life. What I'm saying is, it's difficult for them to understand you as a person. It almost shocks them to their core, once they realize that you have genuine feelings. They're so busy thinking about wanting to have this fantasy sex with you, that they can't hear much of what you're actually saying. They'll often just swat it away, and tell you to stop thinking so much. Stop being human and experiencing emotions that doesnt follow the fantasy. Understand? It usually scares them away once they realize that you're just as complex as they are. Then suddenly, you're too much work. It isnt going the way that the porn they watched goes. Even the most kindest Nordic man I know struggled for 2 years to understand me and why I was not attracted to him. They are a lot nicer than American men to me, so I do prefer to be around them, but so far I have not met one that I would ever date.

No. 391870

I’m becoming much less empathetic over time. Is it because I’m a single loner over 30?

No. 391920

I think that's the nature of woman. There's only so much advantage you can be taken of and cruelty to witness before it makes a jaded person of you.

No. 391930

You have to be either pretty dumb or pretty ugly if you genuinely believe the internet psy-op that no one just prefers normal black women. I imagine the ghetto stereotyping is worse in America but at least here in Europe it’s common enough, just like some guys liking blondes or asians. There’s definitely fetishisation but this doomposting is ridiculous and untrue if you just go outside.

No. 392261

exactly, it's an American thing. Race means something completely different in America than it does anywhere else in the world

No. 392443

What are your thoughts on black men who keep their dating options open to women of all races? Do you think divestment also applies to black men?

No. 392453

As long as they're not bashing black women, that's their business.

No. 392456

i couldn’t imagine acting like this actually matters

No. 392459

Who gives a shit about anyone "divesting"? That's just called dating like a normal person.

No. 392462

This. The term ‘divesting’ makes my skin crawl. It’s so cringe.

No. 392490

What do you think of channels like Exoticals United?

No. 392504

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i just want a hair product that makes all this easier. want to wear me hair out more but i have a lot of it (all the way down my back with no shrinkage) and detangling is so fucking annoying. i usually just wear cute head wraps lol. but i want to wear my actual hair, don't want braids at all

No. 392521

I really hate how black men hate the fuck out of single moms even though THEY are the ones responsible. My dad is always watching weird MGTOW shit and MRA shit shitting on single moms and i was always confused because he and my mom are still together so i didnt get why he cares about this content. I accidentally found out a year ago after trying to find an unrelated secret they were keeping from me that i have a half sister he fathered and obviously abandoned. No one knows that i know. I had no idea. There wasn’t even a hint and there still are no signs besides the messages i saw. Absolute ghetto behavior and my dad is probably trying to trick himself into believing that it was the womens fault because shes a ghetto whore bitch whilst hes a sigma who made a mistake.

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Old but blm is more like BMLM(black male lives matter). Its very clear black men think they own us. Not much different from the white supremacist who think white women are causing the white race to go extinct because they have rights. Picrel is from men commenting on a post about a teenaged girl who was killed by her dad. These comments are from 2019(right before the George Floyd shit). I just know they were one of the first to get up and arms over some asshole bottom of the barrel black MAN getting killed.

No. 392573

Does anyone get the feeling that their mother does not like them?

No. 392581

I was just thinking earlier that I wish there was a style that's low maintenance and looks good but still allows me to wash my hair every week. Right now my hair is short so wigs are good for that, but idk what I'm gonna do when I grow my hair out.

No. 392582

Divesting is different, but I think people confuse it for just interracial dating. There's an entire specific mindset behind divestong.

No. 392584

The Moisture Miracle aloe & Coconut pre-shampoo worked well for me before I shaved my hair off. It can be a bit of a pain to rinse out but made detangling very easy.

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How do y'all feel about segregation and ethnostates?

No. 392704

Everyone in the comments bar a few people were calling her a fucking idiot as they should be. You only get this type of fantasy from people who grow up in the first world that forget that Africa and the Caribbean exist.

No. 392709

There's already a black Ethnostate, it's called Africa and it sucks.

No. 392720

This is such a black american conversation, and i genuinely would never talk to anyone who isn't also black american about this, even if they, themselves, were still black - they dont understand the history and are usually lacking in their own civil rights/pride. Integration was unironically a mistake and even martin luther king jr admitted his regret on pushing for it. This isn't even mentioning how black wallstreet was bombed. Anyways, these types of conversations should never be fucking had on fucking reddit of all places, absolutely filled with coons and digital blackface. Deadass, some motherfucker that works for the cia is tracking her phone and labeling her a terrorist this very moment!!(racebaiting)

No. 392724

Whats funny is that its not even really a ethnostate either, if anything they hate black americans from what ive heard. Especially black americans who act like this or the ghetto hood ones.

No. 392726

I wish it was mandatory for history lessons about africa to be taught in american schools.
Tbf, more black americans have been visiting Africa lately and it's probably making them soften up on black americans.

No. 392727

africa isnt an ethnostate you retards and neither is the carribean

No. 392741

Honestly I would prefer segregation but I don’t want to be around other black men at all. But if we were segregated we wouldn’t have to deal with crazy, competitive, meddling white women and white people and able to keep and own our wealth. Not trying to constantly fit ourselves into places where people clearly don’t want us. Mental sanity, black women finally seeing their own worth because they aren’t constantly inundated with negative reinforcement through media and entertainment. It seems enticing but I’m not fully sold on it yet because the black community is extremely damaged

No. 392840

I lived in an African country before.
I much prefer having first world infrastructure and women’s rights in Australia even if it means experiencing casual racism.

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I don’t mind the “pinkie pie is black” headcanons but god, why do so many woke artists draw her as the most racist caricature ever and get praised for being inclusive? It’s like some zoomer artists are allergic to drawing beautiful black women. It’s not like you have to give Eurocentric features to make a black woman beautiful. Picrel has smaller eyes, a flatter nose, and fuller lips, even if her skin was light, you could tell she’s a black woman.

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Why do so many black people think stuff like this happens because of their skin color? My white relatives have been through the same stuff with medical staff of all races..

No. 392864

Black women have a higher maternal mortality rate than most other women except for indigenous women. I don't get why it's an instinct for other black women to police or gaslights people's reaction to perceived racism/mistreatment

No. 392876

The anon who posted that probably isn't black. It's common knowledge that doctors treat black women like shit and unironically believe medieval-tier medical myths like "black people feel less pain".

No. 392899

I think she scapegoats dark skin black women for her struggles because we’re an easy target.

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Tinfoiling that I pissed a bitch off in /ot/ and she's still mad
>ugly man psyop thread
>post about how gross an old scrote is in a pic where he's kissing on a woman young enough to be his granddaughter
>some racist bitch shits up a tantrum after I say black women are too good for ugly, genetically worthless and senile scrotes
>retard gets banned
>other anon also gets banned for "scrotefoiling" when they respond to the seething retard
>apparently it was a female
>random race-baiting thread posts being made specifically about black women approximately ever since
I have a feeling of who it is, and it starts with the first letter of the word "piss".

No. 392998

>>random race-baiting thread posts being made specifically about black women approximately ever since
Was it the spaghetti eating ones?

No. 393012

No thanks, look at modern Africa. Men have every access to beat and rape women and they get away with it thanks to culture and religion. The more time I spend around black people the more I hate them. Black misogyny is the core rot in all black communities and no one ever speaks on this.

Imagine being colonized three times. Arabs, whites, and now the Chinese! The Chinese in Africa literally have segregated neighborhoods. Losers!

No. 393013

I never had a problem with interracial relationships. I just hate when black men talk down and mock black women. Their jokes serve to alienate black women and normalize hatred towards us.

No. 393014

Not surprised by its existence. They are incapable of empathy towards normal black women

No. 393019

Black male worship is the rot deep inside all black communities

No. 393026

Would you consider Suriname as a suitable place for black people to live in?

No. 393027

don’t ever believe anons saying that every anti-black racist that starts racebait on this website are scrotes. it’s definitely other anons who are extremely ignorant and unwilling to understand groups of women who don’t put their stringy lice-infested hair into a rat’s tail. they throw their hands and hide them by shifting it on to invisible scrotes we can’t prove that are there kek. non-black women predominantly browse this website and their protection takes precedence over ours as it does in real life. imagine the luxury they have when everything is practically catered to them and they don’t have to stick to one containment thread because talking about the things you like and are interested in would get you banned on /ot/. tiresome

No. 393043

I'm sorry you had to experience that, and that someone else who defended you got red texted too. There's so much racist shit on this site that goes untouched. even in fucking /m/ a video thread has a bunch of racebaiting junk in it. It would be easy to blame men, but the truth is regardless of who is posting it, a lot of white and non-black women don't give a shit about racism directed towards us or even engage in it themselves.

No. 393064

We are better off for it, even with its mistakes. People today have more opportunities for everything for school, work, healthcare, etc. we should learn front he past to avoid making mistakes and work to improve ourselves in this ever changing world.

No. 393065

Is it really that bad in Australia? I thought the sun and spiders would be worse

No. 393066

All progressives look down on black people with pity and disgusting and they project their disgust onto anyone who critiques their art

No. 393067

True , I’ve seen so many self-proclaimed feminists from 2020 onward engage in overt racism

No. 393078

it's only the older generation in the diaspora that think like that. most africans in africa, really dgaf about your people

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No. 393090

how do you guys feel about interracial relationships regarding black women and white males?

No. 393094

I reckon you have to dislike being black on some level to entertain a serious relationship with a white man.

No. 393095

what is this retardation whenever race-related dating discussions come up? i date people i mutually like, regardless of race. this includes white women too. black men come with their own set of problems as do white and asian men.

No. 393096

because it's probably someone who this thread isn't for that's asking to stir the pot.

No. 393097

Not to say I can’t objectively find a man of another ethnicity attractive but I would rather be forever alone than deal with racist in laws.

No. 393100

I’m not against it at all but I feel like there’s always an ulterior motive with white men, either they are ultra liberal and trying to prove to everyone how based and open minded they are, or they’re porn addicted nazis with an Ebony woman fetish and fantasize about eradicating blackness through ‘bleaching’ us (their gross incel terms)

90% of black men are trash but a white man will never understand our struggle or even pretend to genuinely care about it tbh

No. 393103

Y’all need to go outside.

No. 393104


i dont have any mental problems, i've been in a relationship with one for about 2 years now its not as bad as people say

No. 393105


im black afab(newfag)

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No. 393123

I'm not attracted to (most) black men so interracial dating is all I have. I think it's fine, no different from any other relationship or interracial relationship. Most couples of black women and white men are normal ime. I only don't like when I see young black girls on social media asking white dudes if they like black women, it's very demeaning. But that's not really an issue of interracial relationships but of young girls seeking approval.

No. 393127

i don't trust men of any race, white ones are no exception

No. 393237

at first i was cool with it but in recent years its been starting to give me the same exact ick as black men and white women relationships but to a way lesser degree. I think tik tok disillusioned me to these relationships because usually the woman seems more obsessed than the man. The white man is not that cute and the black woman is too beautiful. Also the whole pasta and lobster thing is so fucking cringe. But i understand especially for suburban black girls it's due to proximity more often than not and also the fact that black suburban guys are cruel and anti black af so its easy to be turned off by them if you were victim to their cruelty. However white boys cruelty is worse imo.

Personally I could never date a white man especially the more i learn about black history it just is what it is. I am also paranoid af and would always think that one day he'll read one too many racist memes on reddit and become radicalized lol. And the older I get the more value I see in black love. More than anything though black and white coupling is just such a boring mix to see because the white person in question is always gassed up to a weird degree and the black woman is always so "lucky" to find him. Also also if hes not racist someone in his family for sure is and I just don't got time. And on a racist note I can't date lipless beings who burn in the sun. More power to you if you can get past that. In the end all men are disgusting creatures more often than not no matter the race. It's just white men have the best reputation and the most money on average so it's easier for them to go all out on dates and be heralded as the perfect man when really they all cut from the same cloth of fuckery. i'll take my ban

No. 393307

As long as he’s not weird, it doesn’t really matter.

No. 393332

Do men even understand a woman’s struggles? By this logic you would be gay

No. 393334

The more I learn about black history the more angry I get with black men. How many times have they lost the ball? How many opportunities in the 80/90s have they refused and rejected because of race ego?

No. 393451

what happened in the 80's and 90's? I was there and the only notable events I remember are the crack wars and the East Coast/West Coast thing, which was mostly just a media thing anyway

No. 393609

I don’t like the suggestion that black women and white men can’t enter a relationship with each other without there being some form of racism/fetishization involved. I’ve seen plenty of long term interracial couples who genuinely love each other, and being overly cynical about it makes you perceive yourself as unlovable when that is not true. Black women have more to offer than our bodies and plenty of guys recognize that. I would enter a relationship with a guy of another race who genuinely respects me and who I share similar values with.

No. 393611

That just hasn't been my experience personally, the closeted racist ones are all I see.

No. 393630

>black women and white men can’t enter a relationship with each other without there being some form of racism/fetishization involved
that’s possible but very rare

No. 393649

I think the fetishization is mutual most of the time

No. 393699

I think people just like to make it seem as if black woman cannot be loved in any way besides sexually. It's brainwashing.

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I really hate when black people see other black people doing something they don't approve of and claim that white people would never do those types of things. E.g. wearing weave. White women wear fake hair all the time, but black people never question it because they never expect anyone besides black women to prove if their hair is real. And whenever you see a black women doing/wearing something promiscuous people immediately bring white people into the conversation, like go to a rave/EDM festival and I promise you will realize they are not pure saints kek. It's not that white people don't engage in the same behaviors as black people, it's that people either choose to ignore it or aren't exposed to it because they don't actually hang around white people.

No. 393748

Like what? “Babe, your sunburn is so sexy. Love them baby blues on you…tell me about Radiohead~…” lmao

No. 393751

Rap permanently ruined the black image and any chance at a true colorblind society

No. 393752

It really seems that way, I should just accept my fate as weird celibate woman. That way I can maintain some dignity

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No. 393799

Nona. Stop it. I’m creasing. Let her worship her white kang.

No. 393833

fr i feel like it’s gotten worse in some ways since a couple decades ago. i’m not even american and i’m still affected by the hyperviolent, hypersexual image rap culture has created for us. as a teen girl in alternative subcultures i was really jealous of the ‘image’ east asians had over us. i don’t want to be seen that way.

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No. 393837

Understandable. Upper middle class, family gives a shit about education, business minded culture, culture people find cool and interesting, bigger dating pool, members of your group don’t fall into low IQ traps, etc I’d trade not burning in the sun for this

No. 393842

Wrong person

No. 394207

You say this while rubbing the aloe Vera gel on him? Lol

No. 394248

Despite all the "woke snowflakes" comments about zoomers I actually feel they tend to be more misogynistic/racist/misogynoiristic than previous generations, just under a thin veil of virtue signaling. They have no problem believing and perpetuating sexist and racist rhetoric as long as it's worded in the "right" way. It's actually quite depressing how many zoomer black girls and women have such strong internalized misogynoir and do not even see it that way.
Celibate women are not weird, it's sad that female celibacy is seen as "settling" when in fact for women regardless of race most heterosexual relationships are the real settling. The truth is that the vast majority of men regardless of race are unlovable because they're horrible people, but still manage to trap a woman through societal-level negging and yes, "black women are ugly and unlovable and the best they can get is fetishization" is untrue and yet another form of negging to get black women to settle over any crumb of moid attention. It may seem counterproductive at first, but if you prefer to stay single and prioritize yourself you're actually more likely to find one of the few worthy men. Also shilling either black love or interracial is pointless, putting any race of men on a pedestal over others actually makes you more likely to let your guard down around said race of men and tolerate more of their bullshit.
Who is she? She's so cute!

No. 394257

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THANK YOU NONNIE. we need to wake up and realize that not being "picked" and being seen on the bottom of the dating pool is a BLESSING. Every race of woman is suffering I don't care how hot or unattractive she is behind closed doors they are all miserable and getting on reddit to complain about their alleged nigels. Say what you want about tik tok btu what i love about it is that it opened my eyes to the reality of the world. It doesn't matter the race of woman and the race of the man she chooses to partner, most women are not being fulfilled in relationships and are only seeking romance because it is constantly shilled to us as something we NEED in order to survive. Like we aren't real women if a man doesn't "choose" us in this life. Meanwhile a2 lot of these women of other races with seemingly better dating lives and prospects will end up single the second they stop putting out, get sick or nag too much. Hell all a lot of them have to do is pop a baby out or just dare to age to be left in the dust by a scrote. BLack women we are ahead of society because society thinks not granting us access to these men will destroy us but really its just showing us proof that we don't need to be tethered to men. We can make it on our own and have been for decades.

The more i learn about slavery and what enslaved black women had to go through the more I realize that black women just need to worry about themselves. Did you know enslaved men could opt out of work seen as "women's work" and they would! They would complain to the enslaver and the enslaver would agree and make the woman do the "woman's work" But meanwhile women had to do work the fields AND cook and clean. Not to mention a lot enslaved women were married so after a long day of slaving away they would have to come home and cook and clean for their partner. Once i found this out i was done. Marriage is a trap, the same way settling down wiht a man is a trap. Every black woman that I know that didn't make it to 60 let alone 50 all died early due to the stress the men in their lives caused them. We are blessed to not be "picked".

other races of women may be picked and get that "happily ever after" but it only lasts but for so long before the man shows his true colors. People love to say that black women are all single mothers but most married women are single mothers. if 50% of the population ends up divorced that means 50% of married women are effectively single mothers. Most of these men just get "visitation" Sure there are men who don't cheat or won't switch up. But do you really want to take that chance in 2024 when race relations and gender relations are only getting worse? No maam.

All women need is a good vibrator, a hobby and friends. I used to think hearing that was bullshit but its fucking TRUE. Men have just brainwashed us into thinking we need them they literally just need us to need them.

No. 394262

>The more i learn about slavery and what enslaved black women had to go through the more I realize that black women just need to worry about themselves. Did you know enslaved men could opt out of work seen as "women's work" and they would! They would complain to the enslaver and the enslaver would agree and make the woman do the "woman's work" But meanwhile women had to do work the fields AND cook and clean. Not to mention a lot enslaved women were married so after a long day of slaving away they would have to come home and cook and clean for their partner.
This reminds me of how trannies and tranny supporters insist gender "doesn't apply" to black people and black women were/are "basically seen as men" because both were slaves. Uh…no lmao. Black women have always been seen as women, and further punished, raped and exploited for it. That's just the way it was.

No. 394266

The whole of modern gynecology was based on using enslaved black women's bodies as test subjects! You can tell how they just see white women as the default women and black women as an extension of black men.

No. 394272

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they only stripped us of our womanhood because they needed to in order to not be seen as hypocrites for making black women work and to justify raping us. A lot of enslavers were puritans and puritans believed that having sex for pleasure was sinful and they would only sleep with their wives to procreate. But of course men are disgusting coomers and were not living celibate lives. They would fuck barnyard animals on the regular. It was so bad that THAT is why we have STDs.

At first the enslaved were only men but they largely kept dying in large numbers due to disease and mistreatment. They needed more slaves and it would be too expensive to keep going back and forth and kidnapping black men and you know damn well they were not letting black men sleep with their women. so they added black women not only to increase the workload but so they could birth more slaves. They HAD to dehumanize black women in order to justify having unfettered access to our bodies and wombs but still preaching the word of their demon god that told them women were pure and not allowed to seek sex. They justified it to their white wives by making them believe their husband is fucking on everything but her because she is "too pure" and black women (really little girls) were "sexual savages" that needed to be tamed.

Did you know in some states an enslaved man and his child could both be labeled free if it was revealed he slept with a white woman and she birthed his child? There were many cases of this happening. But get this! enslaved women (lets be real little girls and teens) who birthed a white man's child was not only STILL not free but both her and her kid had to work the fields. Black men have never been in solidarity with us and have always been in cahoots with white women and men for their own upward mobility.

Did you know black women didnt gain the right to vote until 1965. NINETEEN SIXTY FIVE!! 96 YEARS after black men and 45 years after white women. Obviously we learned this in school but i think we often forget just how recent it is for I need black women to wake up and realize we are all we have and all we have ever needed in this world since we were forced here. Black men were never going to save us and neither are any of these nonblacks. WE are truly the most hated because we are the most anointed. They have to give us insecurities and make us feel like we are less than from birth so we never see our own light. Why do you think everyone works so hard to keep black women insecure? They know with security comes power.

No. 394274

>Did you know in some states an enslaved man and his child could both be labeled free if it was revealed he slept with a white woman and she birthed his child? There were many cases of this happening. But get this! enslaved women (lets be real little girls and teens) who birthed a white man's child was not only STILL not free but both her and her kid had to work the fields
This is insane, I didn't realize mixed race children were granted/denied freedom based on which of their parents were white. The way people talk about this, you'd think they were all automatic slaves if they had a black parent. I wonder why this particular fact isn't usually mentioned in discussions of the slave trade.

>"Children of the plantation" is a euphemism used[by whom?] to refer to people with ancestry tracing back to the time of slavery in the United States in which the offspring was born to black African female slaves (either still in the state of slavery or freed) in the context of the trans-Atlantic slave trade and Non-Black men, usually the slave's owner, one of the owner's relatives, or the plantation overseer. These children were often considered to be the property of the slave owner and were often subjected to the same treatment as other slaves on the plantation. Many of these children were born into slavery and had no legal rights, as they were not recognized as the legitimate children of their fathers. The men who fathered these children often used their power and authority to force themselves upon the black females (girls and/or women) (often 13 to 16 years old or when they commenced menstruation) who were under their control.

>Plantation owners raping female slaves was a common occurrence. These children were born into slavery, through a legal doctrine known as partus sequitur ventrem.

>Partus sequitur ventrem (lit. 'that which is born follows the womb'; also partus) was a legal doctrine passed in colonial Virginia in 1662 and other English crown colonies in the Americas which defined the legal status of children born there; the doctrine mandated that children of slave mothers would inherit the legal status of their mothers. As such, children of enslaved women would be born into slavery.
>The doctrine's most significant effect was placing into chattel slavery all children born to enslaved women. Partus sequitur ventrem soon spread from the colony of Virginia to all of the Thirteen Colonies. As a function of the political economy of chattel slavery in Colonial America, the legalism of partus sequitur ventrem exempted the biological father from relationship toward children he fathered with enslaved women, and gave all rights in the children to the enslaver. The denial of paternity to enslaved children secured the enslavers' right to profit from exploiting the labour of children engendered, bred, and born into slavery.[2] The doctrine also meant that multiracial children with white mothers were born free.

No. 394277

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thank you for adding sources and more details to this queen! I learned about this reading Angela Davis Book "Women, Race, and Class. I implore all nonnies to read it if you haven't. It talks about the unique triangulation black women have had to face regarding our gender, class, and race in America. It opened my eyes so much to just how badly black women have been treated by EVERYONE yet we always fight for EVERYONE'S rights while everyone fights for themselves.

If anyone has any black feminist book recommendations please let me know!

No. 394279

As an aside it feels hopeless that we're venerated for being a support class and hated for existing at the same time. I really do urge black women to be more selfish. Stop advocating for other races and doing the work to legitimize causes unrelated to us. We reap no rewards. Only suffer further abuse from the overexposure we have in the world landscape.

No. 394287

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Here's another thing that comes to mind that's likely a cultural holdover from partus sequitur ventrem. Elridge Cleaver, a prominent member of the Black Panthers, raped multiple black women, and rationalized his acts as "practice" for raping white women as an "insurrectionary act". I always thought pic related was just his mentally ill opinion and he was a deranged, misogynistic rapist POS, but now I'm convinced he was a deranged, misogynistic rapist POS, and his particular psychosis was based off of a legacy of deliberate, pre-written (not implied or influenced, literally decreed) rules encoded into American society about how moids can attain "freedom" under slavery. Funny how black men could do this and have an "out", but black women couldn't. With this and the voting laws, it feels a lot like men will always write laws that somehow privilege themselves and each other, even if they're separated by racism lol.

No. 394304

women = property and status to other males

No. 394306

The one belief that unites men across racial, ethnic, religious, economic class and political lines is that women are their property. The strife arises over which women "belong" to which men. This is also why (especially but not exclusively black) women are more expected to have "race loyalty" and are way harsher judged for being "race traitors" than men are and also why women are derided and blamed even for experiencing abuse in interracial relationships but abusive males of the same race are defended.

No. 394361

I hope gen alpha and beta spit upon gen z and their regressive leftist hypocrisy

No. 394381

>The strife arises over which women "belong" to which men
They all want every women for themselves.

No. 394602

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Anyone struggle with not really being able to relate to "blackness" as a concept? Being "authentic" to the culture(s) I was born into and media made by/for people "just like me" sometimes feels comically inauthentic. I've always felt this profound sense of alienation around other black people, and I don't really know why. One side of my family used to mock me for it, and it doesn't really help that I grew up with a lot of ""white"" oriented books, cartoons, etc. I had a retarded self-hating phase when I was younger until I realized I was just looking for excuses to justify my own feelings of being an outsider. There are definitely lots of cultural issues spanning the diaspora that depress me, but moids are most of the problem, and it's not as if everyone's like that. I still get accused of being white for my interests, my accent, the food I like, and even the way I type online. I know it's because non-black people often struggle to understand us outside the lens of stereotypes and media, but it just adds to that feeling of isolation. Sometimes, my bf jokes about me being white (I don't let him).
I used to feel guilty and kind of embarrassed for gravitating more to "white" and Asian music, fashion and hobbies growing up because that's not considered "being real", but I've always just acted on what feels right and naturally appeals to me. Nowadays, it's easier to find other black women who are into the same things, so I feel less alone, but I don't know if I'll ever shake off that feeling of something not being quite "right". I still feel kind of ashamed for feeling this way, but I can post this because this nona was able to share her story >>378506. I don't know what to say to her, but I relate to her a lot and I hope she doesn't feel alone. This isn't exactly something I think of every day, but sometimes I'm reminded, and it's just like "Ah". Maybe I'm just autistic, and other cultures happen to be more autist-friendly

No. 394625

>I was born into and media made by/for people "just like me" sometimes feels comically inauthentic
This reminds me of the Onion article, "Sale of BET to White Supremacist Company Surprisingly Results in No Change of Programming"
The truth is, there is no "right" way to be Black. And what we think of as Black culture is really just Black American culture. You have to love your people but you don't have to particularly ~like~ them.

No. 394680

Are you projecting that you don’t feel black enough to other black people?
I got that vibe from a black acquaintance with a non black husband and friends. Like she was othering me on a subconscious level.

I hope you come to terms with your identity one day.

No. 394706

More Sranan Tongo

No. 394947

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How do we feel about giving preferential treatment to blacks when it comes to employment? Link related.

No. 394967

Are there studies that demonstrate that this sort of shit actually works? As in genuinely uplifting people from less privileged economic backgrounds? Because it seems that this sort of programs only give them access to entry-level jobs. Seniority positions, higher management and CEOs are still mostly white male (and Indian if you count the IT industry). Most good paying positions within companies are given to ivy league kids that already come from economically advantaged backgrounds. If there is no way to go up in the industry ladder through most companies then there is also very little social mobility and I see moot point in these programs. They're just an excuse to not pay women and minorities a fair salary, and even exclude them from work benefits in places like Europe because they make them work under an org funding this shit instead of under the company itself. It's just so fucking predatory.

No. 394985

I think when you start hiring people who are clearly not right for the job no matter what, it does more harm than good. the vid related is a very extreme example of such hiring practice serving to be really hurtful to black people in multiple capacities. But on the other hand, seeing privileged cunts get to cheat the system because they were lucky to have been born into a rich wasp family makes me not really give a shit. I don't think it matters if those people in particular miss out on a opportunity because they have thousands of other chances in life to do whatever they want and often times they can live their lives doing fuck all on daddy's dime, whilst the person who was put their by whatever diversity program likely only has the one shot even if they are highly talented all because they don't have the right connections or enough money.

No. 395054

I'm not exactly a supporter, but the fact that most of the people I see complaining about things like this just hate black people regardless of whether or not diversity quotas are being used, and insist any black person in any job position or at uni cannot be there by their own merit made me stop caring. 99% of them didn't get that impression from the existence of diversity quotas, either (some of them actually enjoy systems like that when they're the ones benefiting). They just wanted to seethe.

No. 395296

Do you think society has become more racist or is it just me on Twitter?. It feels hard for me to feel hopeful for the future or my place in it. I feel like I have no place in the modern era never mind the future. Why did it have to go so wrong after the year 2000?

No. 395303

>Do you think society has become more racist or is it just me on Twitter?
It's just you on Twitter. It's amazing how much Americans have lost interest in race just over the last few years.

No. 395310

You’ve been lied to about “white and Asian” music because originally those kinds of music were inspired by black music or used to be a genre predominantly innovated by black people and somehow through the years started marketing towards other demographics (rock being co-opted by white Americans and corporate businessmen). Black people don’t even know what it really means to be “black” and dictate their blackness by how pop culture and the rest of society perceives us and in turn becomes an insidious feedback loop that traps us into negative stereotypes and lack of social progression.

No. 395327

If that’s true then why is it everywhere? Entire library sections, whole YouTube channels, everyday conversation, I can’t escape it.

No. 395334

The best cage is social perceptions, far more effective at keeping people trapped than literal cells.

No. 395359

Do you find it to be that true in america? Generally it feels like the landlocked regions have residual irritation at all racial, especially black related, politics which can often translate to immediate association of you with the usual blm pelosi crt fare. Then the coastal areas have larger numbers of foreigners who try to establish their caste systems here where you end up being treated fine by white people but terribly by every other newcomer.

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I honestly think it's so sad and fucked up and so many of us have memories of getting our hair done as young girls and being in pain even to the point of tears, and that's just considered normal. People are just way too rough on black hair in general, that's why so many people have breakage and problems with length retention. I hope if I have daughters they'll never have that experience

No. 395425

irl it seems to me that people are disinterested in race now, including black people themselves. It's not just interracial relationships (which are everywhere, particularly WMBF which didn't exist until recently) anymore either, the gen behind the Zoomers all seem to have interracial friend groups.
I remember how as late as the aughts how black Americans were the simultaneously idolized and resented "other", and now it is like black people are just another ethnic group. It's so weird to see things online where there are altercations involving a black person and a white person and nobody thinks to even bring up the races of the people involved.
One negative change I noticed, however, is that there isn't really much sensitivity towards anti black racism anymore. In the 90's and aughts you really weren't supposed to say anything anti black. These days it's more tolerated. In fact, just in general you can say a lot of stuff that you couldn't back in the day.

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>spend some days away from lolcow to relax with extended relatives
>wake up, bake some Danish cheese pastries for breakfast
>open lolcow to a racebaity infight
>a black anon getting into it with some arabian bitch about slurs
>arab anon says that "black women are pickmes because black people aren't known for high intelligence"
>Google, what's the average IQ of Arabian countries?
>below average, borderline retarded
>Google, what percent of Arabians worship the most violently misogynistic swill that is called "Islam"?
>almost 100%
>sex-based abortion to deliberate birth sons is more common in North Africa and Middle East, where's there's more Arabians than actual Africans
"ooooh okay".
Yeah this isn't to say that black women are perfect, I just find it interesting that this arabian specimen is bringing up low IQ and "pickmeism" to insult black women, when the literal same shit applies to arabian women themselves. Always ni-hao, and salute to that other black anon who was bold enough to cop a ban for that knock-off pakichan.

No. 395450

just ignore the goat herders anon. they have one big chip on their shoulder because they can’t enslave us in open markets anymore and zionists are owning their asses right now kek

No. 395469

Isn't inbreeding a huge problem in Arab countries too? That individual needs to focus on what's going on at home. It's deranged loser behavior to spend time malding about black women with so much on your plate.

No. 395486

You know there are Black Muslims right?

No. 395512

NTA but why would that matter? Islam is an Arab religion. There are also black Mormons lol

No. 395549

Sorry about the racism but it irks me to see how much the definition of pickme has shifted ever since it went mainstream. It’s used as a generic anti-female Pejorative

No. 395551

nta but if you saw what happened on /ot/ earlier today the racist anon was very clearly not a black muslim (if they truly were then they must've been trolling hard)

No. 395556

nonnie the internet in general is a cesspit of degeneracy, retardation and literal bots, to believe anything on it reflects the real world is dumb.

No. 395563

And they are race cucked, always bragging about their supposed Arab ancestry and being the best bulldogs for their causes. They jump on you for even a single mispronounciation, they praise God if one of their family members marries an Arab, they beg God for pale skin and straight hair like an Arab, etc. meanwhile actual Arabs smoke and drink and look down on non-Arabs Muslims, for they will never know the “joy” of being able to read the Quran in their native language i would know because I had the rotten luck of being born into such a family that’s why I prefer hanging out with black Americans, they have actual pride and would rightfully mock their members for even treating a white person the way black Muslims treat arabs

No. 395645

>Like she was othering me on a subconscious level.
how so? ngl I probably come across this way but it's because I'm a sperg and black people are the first ones to pick up on it and roast me for it so I'm a bit guarded with everyone. Not all my friends are white tho

No. 395673

why do black women handle singlehood so well compared to other races of women?

No. 395688

Ehh I think Asian women do it the best if we’re generalizing

No. 395731

Small pickings and maybe the fear of being a baby mama, which I find to be even worse

The few who are, are doing very well thanks to their education and high paying jobs

No. 395782

Do you struggle with self confidence because of the cumulative effects of misogyny, racism, featurism, texturism and colorism?

No. 395785

I feel like black people are more open about what really goes on especially pertaining to relationships. They first see women in their lives dealing with all kinds of bullshit just so they can say they're not single and use those women as an example of what not to be and that relationships aren't guaranteed fulfillment or a sign of success, where as women of other races hide their relationship drama much better. Will you know if the successful white lady with the perfect suburban life fights with her husband every night while he beats her and cheats on her with prostitutes? Probably not. But if you're in a black community everyone knows at least one girl that gets shunned for "letting her man beat on her and cheat" and she's the town clown basically

No. 396298

How can I be a better ally to black women as a non black POC with a Black fiancé?

No. 396316

lmao no way this is true

No. 396399

I think most of us do as kids then we reach a plateau and simply stop giving a shit. There’s only so many shits you can give, and only so many years you can spend on being insecure. I just feel bad for the black women who are 20+ and still dealing with self hate.

No. 396477

Just don't be weird towards black women like some women with (I'm assuming your fiance is male) black boyfriends and husbands are. You don't need to bend over backwards or whiteknight us or some shit, just treat black women like any other woman. Also, don't try to speak over/invalidate us when we talk about our experiences, especially when it comes to experiences with black men.

No. 396593

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Is there anyone here who works in tech? Programmers specifically. I would love to enter the field but the stories I hear from black women who are devs/engineers kinda scare me. At the same time, I also recognize that there's more black women entering tech now than ever so maybe I could just take the plunge.

No. 396595

I'm a dev that got my job through a scheme in my country where you can get paid a wage to get a free degree. I'm still in the middle of completing the scheme, so my earnings aren't as high compared to full fledged devs, but I'm earning a bachelor's at the minute and I'm loving it. I'd recommend looking into that sort of scheme if your country has it.

Never had any issues also, be it with coworkers or encountering others. Everyone in my company has been brilliant. I imagine things will be different when/if I job hop after I'm done with the scheme but for now I have nothing negative to say about my experience within it.

No. 396637

Overall, the tech industry is not amazing for women, and even more-so for women who are not White or Asian. There is still a lot of tokenization. Generally speaking, it is a very culturally homogenous field that draws a lot of socially incompetent people who share much of the same hobbies, values, and lifestyles. I highly recommend finding a mentor in the field through organizations like Black Girls Code. Company culture varies widely and will differ at each organization, so it can really boil down to finding the right fit. I have been lucky enough in my tech career to primarily have worked on women-led teams and would recommend searching for companies that focus on women-oriented products or have many women on their executive board. One of my biggest gripes is that there is A LOT of tranny shit in the professional tech sphere. Another thing is that there's often an expectation to be a ~rockstar coder~ in your personal life outside of work which makes for either a shittier work/life balance or a negative impact on your resume/perceived skillset.

No. 396683

What country are you in? Where and how did you get your job to help you finish your degree?

No. 397436

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Ugh y'all I just bought a wig…a 14-inch body wave. I just don't know shit about lace-work. Like I cut it as close as I could to the kinky edges.. but like it's getting sunny here and now I'm way darker and the lace + my skin tone is way off. so it's really noticeable and embarrassing. I don't have Got2B glue, or whatever, and I'm meeting these people tomorrow who are evaluating me…and this one chick and gay guy (not the folks who will evaluate me) are loudmouths and I know they WILL say something about my wig. If I wear my curly wig instead I'll look like an aunty. Life is pain. I need to get better at this shit fr. I just don't have the timeeeeeeeee.

No. 397449

How do you deal with feelings of internalized racism directed at black men? How can I learn to be comfortable around black men the way I am around women who look like myself?

No. 397462

I'm in the UK. The degree apprenticeship scheme means you work for a company for 4 years and get a bachelor's while you do it. You get one day of training a week that's dedicated to uni courses. So it wasn't them helping me finish, it was them funding it from the start. The degree itself isn't actually a big deal and is a course specifically made for apprentices, it's the four years of experience and no debt that matters.

What feelings are you having exactly? Consider whether or not they are just a natural reaction to them being male.

No. 397481

Reminder to ignore bait and undesirables.

No. 397487

Why do white males feel the need to inject themselves into every conversation? Fuck off.(do not respond to scrotes)

No. 397502

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I like Harry potter and I don't have strong feelings on JKR, but I saw this tweet from her and it literally made me twist my face in disgust. I don't care what point she was trying to make, I hate this "b-but black people!" shit. I'm literally so tired of other groups using black people as points for their arguments. Trannies need to stop comparing black women to them and radfems/anti-troons need to stop with this transracial shit. Sick.

No. 397506

At least she intentionally used inoffensive stereotypes but I get your point and exasperation in general.

No. 397540

>Blacks are so overly sensitive about their culture (Box braids and locs were invented by vikings btw) and history. Nobody cares!
>My argument will be much more salient if I compare it to something Black people go through.
Not saying that’s exactly what JKR did, but many such cases regardless.

No. 397560

I mean this in the nicest way possible but JKR needs to log off

No. 397586

I do sometimes wonder why she, as a billionaire, chooses to partake in internet arguments. If I was a billionaire I wouldn't even spend my time doing that tbh.

No. 397626

What comparison would you find appropriate

No. 397627

As much as I appreciate her being a TERF queen she really does need to log off. I think arguing with troops online is making her increasingly more unhinged and less poetic in how she words things.

No. 397656

One that doesn't involve black people.

No. 397680

You're American, I take it? She's Scottish. They don't understand racism over there.

No. 397727

NTA but don't be retarded.

No. 397795

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so I didn't wear the wig. But I met a girl while waiting for my turn. And…honestly nonnas..I could have worn my wig–bad lace and all. Not to put another sister down, but if she was confident enough to wear hers..which let's be honest wasn't the best..I could have worn one. instead I wore a scarf "gypsy" style lmfao. But I still was classy. I felt so bald-headed though, but idc. What should I do in the future ladies? In regards to lace-work.do y'all even wear wigs??

No. 397804

Does anyone know how to make non black people feel at ease around us? Especially bosses in a corporate environment.

I keep getting told I’m perceived as intimidating or unfriendly. I keep to myself since I’m introverted.

No. 397806

Apparently I’ve been called intimidating because I’m “smart.” (That’s what ppl tell me. Not tootin’ my own horn) I’m also a lot more extraverted and sure of myself nowadays. People don’t like that. Either way we can’t win. So who gives a hoot?

No. 397941

I never called her racist anon.

No. 397945

kek okay who deserves to used as a comparison instead

No. 397946

I sometimes wish we were invisible

No. 397955

Why do you keep asking this as if black people are the only thing you can use to have a comparison? Is that the only option? You really think a creative author who's clearly experienced with world-building and inventing new concepts can't think of anything else?

No. 397996

I used to be very naive about how much racial perceptions matter in the workplace until the last couple years or so.
The "angry black woman" stereotype is strong and I have learned there's nothing you can do to make whites feel at ease around us. Seriously. I've noticed Latinos are ok (unless they're white or the self-hating types), East Asians are ok, Indians look down on everybody (despite smelling like shit), etc. I'm pretty introverted too, but I make the effort and say hi to people in elevators or hallways and sometimes make small talk, and STILL white co-workers see me as intimidating.
At my previous job, whenever performance reviews came up they always emphasized things like how "I seem to be getting along with everyone", as if there were some problem I didn't know about. Ironically, I feel like my black male co-workers have it easier than us. I notice white colleagues more often choose to approach them than me.
As >>397806 says, you can't win.

No. 398074

Just remember that black men do not feel the same neuroticism as black women do. They don’t spend their cognitive energy on race and race dynamics and intersectionality because they are not burdened by it. Remember a black man doesn’t think about you in the way you think about him

No. 398075

JK is right. Even among us, many of us grew up being accused’s of being self-haters or Oreos if we didn’t fit into our own cultures stupid City Girl/Baddie aesthetic. Every black nerd or alt girl can relate to this. If you can’t dance in the specific way that’s cool, or talk in a different accent, if you hate rap, or are focused on other financial endeavors, you’re accused of being white. Even slim, non-ghetto, natural haired hair women are accused of being bedwenches just for their looks alone.

If anything, there’s been a long trend of blackness being less about the genetic aspects of being having African phenotypes/genotype and all about adhering to hyper sexual dysfunctional culture norms. Whiteness is not seen as the total opposite experience, where good traits to have, to strive for like discipline or delayed self-gratification are seen as exclusive to whites only. Troons are just building on a culutral disease that’s already popular among the left.

Of course, those kinds of black peoples cannot just bounce to being white. As much as we are mocked from our own we can’t just claim whiteness. So we stand for ourselves and say blackness is just biology and we are capable of many things. And white people, as delusional as their progressives are, would never accept a transracial black person. There’s a reason why 9.999999% of all transracial news is white-to-something else. They secretly hate black women who don’t fit the mammy/jezebel dichotomy, because those women create cognitive dissonance. JK might sound cringe but I don’t see other people pointing out the racist under logic in this

No. 398076

Instead of trying to play mommy and make white people feel at ease, you are supposed to use that fear to your advantage. Get better at your craft, be the best at it, make direct eye contact and never put yourself down. Don’t play into the self-hating progressive games

No. 398085

Anon, do you seriously think JKR is trying to start a commentary on black girls being rejected by other black people for not fitting in standards? Yes, the thing of not being black if you "like Motown and wear cornrows" is correct, but that's not what I disagreed with or what I had a problem with

No. 398098

People bring up black people because we are visibility different from whites and we have made active effort to not be ask-kissing assimilationists. Too bad the rap loving losers have taken over the meme game

No. 398107

why do people itt have such a problem with rap? It's just music and there is nothing wrong with enjoying it

No. 398121

That's not what she is arguing though.
There's a ton of issues with rap. The glorification of criminality, the rampant misogyny and a bunch of other stuff that honestly just comes with the territory of being in the entertainment industry.

No. 398124

The problem is that it has normalized and pedestalized hatred and violence towards black women and people cannot criticize it without being accused of being anti-black.

No. 398132

>Apparently I’ve been called intimidating because I’m “smart.”
exact same here. I think it's just a covert way of saying they can't handle us bc we're not a stereotype or unattractive. it's weird

No. 398133

Criticize rap music in the presence of any black moid and watch how quickly his misogyny, especially misogynoir, leaps out of him. It's all about dickwaving alphamale bs and most of the top peformers are involved in criminality, especially pedo shit.

No. 398172

I've been in tech education for a bit and to be honest, I've never had any issues when it comes to being black. No, it was all just being a woman. Literally had a class where the guys refused to talk to me and then later on in the class after break time, I walked in and heard them talking to each other about how they didnt want to get "MeToo'd". and so for the rest of that semester, they flat out wouldnt even make eye contact with me or the other women in the class, which by the end it was only maybe 4 of us left. The mainfag who said it got a D by the end, thankfully flunked out. but there are plenty more just like him. I've learned for sure that those types are the main obstacles.
Rap can be ok but the problem is 99% of it is fucking garbage, and thats regardless of gender. There's only so much that I can tolerate when it comes to hearing about "bitches" "hoes" "niggas" cheating on each other and other stupid shit like that. It's just no way around it, most of it is flatout pornographic and mentally retarded. I say that as someone who genuinely loves sensual music. Rap is just nonsense for no reason. and the "conscious" rappers are just as bad. All they do is bitch about the black struggle and then turn around and talk shit about black women relentlessly while chasing the other races. There's no useful point to it anymore.

No. 398176

Wait, so has it been a game of "deserving" this whole time? If so, why do we "deserve" to be used for these retarded comparisons?

No. 398180

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Modern, mainstream rap is just retarded garbage by/for hypersexual pickmes and closeted bisexual men encouraging violence, misogyny and drug addiction. I know what kinds of people are in charge and running the record labels pushing it (hint: no one black lol), why they only want to proliferate those kinds of messages for this demographic, how it ties into the consoomerist hellscape we're expected to just accept as normal, and I feel nothing but resentment for all of it. I especially hate the way it portrays black women, and the knowledge that the tropes in it will automatically be applied to me just because of my race. C Delores Tucker was right. You aren't allowed to say any of this without incurring the wrath of retarded black moids and wiggers.

No. 398189

I know how you feel. That’s why I always ask what kind of music does a new person listen to and keep my distance from rap and hip hop lovers. Makes me sad that rock died out as the dominant form of American music

No. 398190

Men are more afraid of being accused of a crime than actually being raped and murdered. They don’t understand.

More reason to try and connect with the few women in tech

No. 398200

Tupac and Dead Prez had lyrics that were outright feminist. The anti rap sperging itt is ridiculous

No. 398201

Rapist Tupac?

No. 398203

NTA but this is such a problem with women in general. Your standards for moid behavior are so low. An outright rapist and/or someone who domestically abuses, is friends with sex traffickers, calls women hoes/bitches/etc and talks about pimping them out can be slightly sympathetic to women once or twice, and you'll defend them for life. Bet you've defended xxxtentacion before too, or think either moid is "a good guy" in the whole Kendrick/Drake debacle. Stop it.

No. 398204

It's just a bunch of woe is me retarded trolling. Doubt the people here are actually black. you fags just had one bad interaction with some hood nigga and won't get the fuck over it. Whining about this when you're 20+ is overdone. Rap can be misogynistic but acting like all of it is, is retarded.

No. 398206

>as if rock isn't known for having outright misogynistic lyrics with groomers as their singers
You retards need to go outside oh my god

No. 398209

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>n-not all rap!! y'all not black fr smh
All mainstream rap. We're talking about that, not any of the actually talented female rappers who got blacklisted because they wouldn't get diaper-looking BBLs, talk about the colors of their pussy and how much they love slurping on moid's assholes like some of the cows on /snow/ lmfao. Stop crying that there's a single space on the internet where actual black women can talk about not liking degenerate moidbrained porn culture or shit that encourages the existing femicide problem. No one discussing rap ever said anything about actual "hood" moids so far, but yeah, actually. "Hood niggas" are rapists and murderers, I really don't care how "cool" you think they are because your brother's friend's girlfriend's baby daddy didn't smash your head in that one time.
The cancer of all black communities is the male-identified scrote who gets swept into music made by downlow faggots and thinks it's cool and "his culture" to worsen his own life and that of those around him. Hood nigga music is shit, and so are hood nigga values.

No. 398232

mainstream rap is not one iota more misogynistic than any other form of mainstream music. Misogyny hasn't been a big part of rap since the early 90's and even then it wasn't like a major part of the scene
Rap is only misogynistic if you are using Motown as a baseline, never mind that Motown occurred in a completely different cultural context

No. 398237

can we stop with the music sperging already unless it's sharing black women artists? who have you been listening to lately?

No. 398238

I love rap, don’t get why the genre is heavily politicized

No. 398240

this has to be bait, holy shit kek

No. 398256

>you’re not black if you talk about how much you hate rap
You are the problem

No. 398258

Quiet black women are always called intimidating as well. Like I thought everyone thought we were “loud and obnoxious” but there’s so much animosity for quiet and introverted black women? Make up your mind! I’m just minding my own business

No. 398302

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Found an old school hairstylist to get my hair done at. It's nice notnhaving to deal with the bs of these new age stylists. We gossip, they do my hair, and I'm on my way in two hours. No dumbass fees, no stipulations prior to the service, no ig booking, and actually in a salon.
I've been into Victoria monet like everybody else, nova twins, doechii, and stush lately. Nova twins have a good song with bring me the horizon.

No. 398305

Kilo Kush, Amaarae, Kelela and old Chole and Halle songs because their solo stuff kind of sucks. I also enjoy picrel, she's some instagram model i follow who released her first song.

No. 398374

I wanna add that I learned happiness is never gonna come from other people, it makes you miserable because you won’t be enough for someone with different expectations, ideals, ideas etc
I always stay optimistic, think of the positive things in my live and be in my own little bubble ignoring shitty people and live life however I want. Otherwise I feel miserable if I have to think about all the bad things all the time lol. It’s hard growing up as a black girl wondering why you the world thinks your skin is “wrong” and why you want lighter skin, straight hair or be the “default” or that you’re not feminine enough, all lies to put on race above the other to feel better about themselves. It’s only been recent I started to love myself, thanks to my mother and sister, black women speaking up about our issues and learning black is beautiful especially in the media.
But I also see myself more than my skin color. I like doing and enjoying whatever I want and no one can stop me.
I hope this song can uplift someone’s mood.
(Sorry for the long post)

No. 398416

I can’t wear wigs because I’m too spiteful about the stereotype and I’ve invested too much money in my hair.

No. 398455

Nice, this video came up in my recommended. she's so pretty!
thank you for the nice tunes and much needed positivity!

Posting shygirl as one does

No. 398542

I can never get past the idea of not letting social exclusion or attempts at violence stop one from traveling. The world is beautiful, the animals, landscapes, natural phenomena. If I were wealthy I'd see everything privately. As part of the common man I don't want to pay to be mistreated. Community oriented travel isn't important to me but people seem to want to convince me it matters a lot for some reason.

No. 398582

The sad fact of life is that it's dangerous to travel alone as a woman. People will also treat you worse and refuse to investigate if something happens when you are a black woman. I wish it wasn't the case.
>Community oriented travel isn't important to me but people seem to want to convince me it matters a lot for some reason.
Maybe not a community, but one good friend would make a lot of difference. You can have eachother's backs.

No. 398587

>People will also treat you worse and refuse to investigate if something happens when you are a black woman. I wish it wasn't the case.
I want to travel too, but this really is depressing to think about.
They don't take the disappearances of black women and girls seriously here in America, where we supposedly have a functioning law enforcement system. I can't imagine how much worse it'd be overseas where nobody is legally obligated to even give half a damn.

No. 398607

Sorry, I said community oriented travel as a sloppy way to get across the idea of going to places where people gather. The idea of a trip being a thing meant to experience other cultures and humans. Traveling with others however is very, very important.
I can't feel anything but sadness about branching out sometimes. Maybe I'm not able to cope hard enough. Even some black women online laugh about being solicited as a prostitute and yelled at on the streets abroad. Granted it's not just us, I see a lot of excusing bad behavior from women of all types who travel. I genuinely can't imagine going out of my way to pay and experience these things.

No. 398899

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wait hold on what stereotype? is it the same as the "weave" stereotype? I don't do gaudy neon color silky straight wigs with exaggerated crunchy baby hair swoops lmfao. i like curly, body wave, or kinky coily styled wigs that try to look more "natural" you know. my hair is rly short so there's not much i can do with it atm.

No. 399058

Well… and I mean this kindly, you are still wearing fake hair. I think a natural texture is better than anything but yes the stereotype we can’t grow our own hair.

No. 399092

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Saw this, and it was upsetting. This 17 year old should not be posting her self-harm, but this adult male shouldn't be bashing her or even scrolling through her account to get mad about her not wanting to date black men. Tbh this kind of thing is why I avoid black men. This hasn't happened to me, but I've seen enough to know it's a bad idea. White men are bad too, but at least it's the incels who do the worst, not regular fucking people. Maybe I'm wrong, but I can't see a post like this doing numbers on (normie) "white twitter" with laughing moids and idiotic pickmes egging the poster on. The man who posted it would've been mass reported into deletion. This is because they have at least some collective, baseline understanding that certain things are wrong. Aside from some decent women speaking up and getting ignored, that's practically non-existent in the comments of this post.
It just seems like "normal" black men see nothing wrong with mocking black teenage girls for anything from "being fast" (getting groomed), to being prudish, to having hobbies, to not dressing "sexy" enough, to just being depressed or otherwise mentally ill. The disrespect continues well into adulthood, and it's encouraged by weird boymoms, crabs in the bucket and NLOGs/pickmes who gaslight until they get their wake-up call. In general, they don't see women as human, just holes and ego boosters, and they've been allowed to operate this way for political reasons. Dumb faggot probably planned on grooming her, started malding when he saw that post, then decided to try humiliating her, and it worked.
Staunch liberals who get high off "cancelling" people for the most random things will also scroll past that post and pretend they didn't see it, because black men are their sacred cows who can do no wrong, while black women are only good for use as human shields, porn, and mascots for giga-wokeness.

No. 399093

>generalising entire races over twitter posts
Get something better to do

No. 399095

What do you think of the rise of “exotical” YouTube channels aimed at light skin Black women and/or biracials with Black admixture?

No. 399096

Nice try, but it's not just Twitter.

No. 399101

I don't understand their message. Are they saying that they are better/different than other black women? I can't be offended because I can't even figure out what they are trying to say

No. 399102

should probably research on the rappers that spoke out about how hip hop was changed by the companies in the early 90's. They wanted them rapping about drug dealing, gangs, pimps, and hoes.

No. 399109

exoti-what now?! wtf is going on on black youtube kek?? I dipped a while ago.

No. 399121

A natural response to the channels like chrissie. It’s why I stopped engaging with that content. The whole premise of their channels is viewing light skinned women as competition for male attention.

No. 399122

It’s basically saying that they shouldn’t be ashamed of being “the prize”. Then is goes into the power of being light skinned. It freaked me out as a dark skin woman until I realized that it’s simply the pendulum swinging. The whole thing is fucked up imo. Why are we as black women, dark or light viewing ourselves through the lens of men?

No. 399124

That was also run by rapists

No. 399148

I hate how popular and accepted misogynist is. Hopeful this decade we can have serious conversations on black male misogyny, especially considering the decline of BLM support. I know black men will throw us under the bus and put all the blame of DEI onto us to preserve his reputation. Please ladies, don’t march or defend men who hate you. Put your efforts towards anything else. I’d rather have black women advocate for nuclear power, animal welfare, high speed rail or better math education for example.

No. 399149

Weird but harmless. They already have mainstream support compared to actual black women.

No. 399222

Agreed. I'm tired of being told to put race first. I just don't care anymore when men keep the community dangerous and never admit their faults.
I'm still sad over the state of the world when I read about the environment and animals, but at least now I don't care to play defense for anyone who'd stab me in the back.

No. 399231

there needs to be a collective of people, black women, that reports this shit en mass. its been bad, but I think its getting worse

No. 399234

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During my entire childhood, my parents listened to degenerate rap music about shaking ass, popping pussies, killing rivals, and flaunting money. My dad would blast that garbage in his truck almost every time we got in the car. But when I used the living room computer to listen 'I Like It' by Enrique Iglesias, my dad had an enormous problem because the thumbnail of the youtube video had Enrique shirtless, and my dad wanted to convince my mom that it was porny deneracy….even though 90% of his loud ass rap music is 100x worse degenerate garbage. That event made me hate rap music and rap-lovers even more across my childhood and my teenagehood. And you know, it's a special sense of embarrassment when your parents were adults and supposed to be mature, yet had their children listen to degenerate rap. It made me HATE IT when they had to drop me off to school.

No. 399236

Dad was just jealous

No. 399259

that physiognomy is pure Scorpio rising. He even has the mole! No wonder he's such a douche
>Dad was just jealous
No way her dad was jealous of that insecure hack
>But when I used the living room computer to listen 'I Like It' by Enrique Iglesias
Okay that was a good song, I'll give you that one

p.s.: it isn't rap music's fault that your dad didn't like Enrique

No. 399264

Nonny, the average male rap listener is an insecure scrote

No. 399272

God I fucking HATE when dad try to cockblock younger hotter men from their teenage daughters. Anytime a young attractive actor or singer come son tv my ugly boomer dad bitches about him and calls him gay. Male jealousy is so pathetic.

No. 399278

>p.s.: it isn't rap music's fault that your dad didn't like Enrique
Never said it was. What I was hinting towards is the weird attitude degenerate rapheads have another literally any other genre. They are the last people who should be complaining about any song being "wack" just because it's not rap, or "inappropriate" while blasting shit like "I got blood on my dick from fuckin' a bitch". Yet, they keep those weird attitudes, and that's what made me hate them and rap for a while. Most mainstream rap is garbage, and that kind of rap seems to attract the stupidest people.

No. 399296

>refuses to believe that music made, bought and listened to by misogynistic, often hypocritical degenerates functions as a reflection and affirmation of their mindset
>blames the stars for a man being an asshole
The anon who complained about her dad is right. Mainstream rap is dogshit.

No. 399349

saying rap is inherently misogynistic is racist. Most hip hop comes from underclass culture which is very sexual and has a lot of machismo, hence the ultra aggressive an even "misandrist" lyrics of female rappers.
And people who enjoy rap aren't listening for the lyrics anyway, they just enjoy the music

No. 399361

I've found I'm a lot happier when I'm avoiding any YouTubers who fixate on color. I get that being on either extreme is rough and comes with stereotypes, but there's too much anger and insecurity going on. They make it seem like being light or dark skinned can respectively put you on top of the world, or ruin your entire life. I don't believe either to be true in reality.
Some of the things the "exotical" ones complain about are relatable to me, but I feel like they have a lot of personal trauma they haven't resolved, and now they take it out on monoracial, dark-skinned black women as a whole. The dark-skinned YouTubers are much the same, which is why I don't watch them, and I don't like how either group tends to pigeonhole "black features" for their own given agendas. It also just seems wrong for them to be airing out all these digs at eachother in public spaces. Like, you didn't need to make a 1 hour 30 minute video because some nobody on TikTok said something stupid and rude about dark-skinned women, and the same is true vice-versa. Start a diary, make a private group, get group therapy, post somewhere anonymously (jk).

No. 399366

Not all cultural practices are worth protecting. In fact, the opposite is often true. If violence and hypersexuality are core parts of your identity in any capacity, you should definitely be shamed. Only racists would want an entire race to be represented by the most regressive, destructive aspects of their underclass.
>And people who enjoy rap aren't listening for the lyrics anyway, they just enjoy the music
If this were true, they wouldn't be writing disgusting and misogynistic lyrics to this day. You can really rap about anything, but it's only the garbage that's "allowed" to hit the mainstream. Only women who degrade themselves and talk about dick end up skyrocketing to fame. Funny how that works.

No. 399370

nobody thinks that hip hop represents black culture. It's just music

No. 399372

>nobody thinks that hip hop represents black culture.
nta but if that's the case then why is it "racist" to call out the misogynistic culture, lyrics and the men who write them?

No. 399373

Then it isn't racist to call it what it is (misogynistic).

No. 399686

Any anons here ever tried kojic acid for discoloration/hyperpigmentation? Did it work for you?

No. 399765

I wrote about my experience with it in the skincare thread and some other anons gave some advice to make sure it works well. Long story short, i don't really like it for tackling dark marks, getting aha skin peels have been the most effective form of treatment for me. Anons were talking about how your skin has to be very well exfoliated before using it or else it won't work, which seems to be in line with what i have seen from black people online who have amazing results with the topicals faded serum or kojic acid in the soap form, they all used aha in the morning and the serum/soap at night. Probably won't work if you need topical acne medications tbh.

No. 399805

thanks anon. god why is it so hard being a fucking black woman I just want my ugly hyperpigmentation gone

No. 399810

Same, I have so much discolouration on my knees, armpits and groin. I’m lightskin and these areas are super dark so it makes me self conscious. I remember my ex made fun of my nipples for being so dark brown compared to my lighter skintone, and I’ve hated them ever since even though I know it’s pathetic

No. 399883

I really enjoy this song by Victoria Monet. It's calming and encourages exercise (lol).

No. 399887

She's so cute, I love her looks and the song is fun too. Kilo Kish is great, I've been a fan since I saw the Void music video. Santigold is good, too. I've been listening to them, Lauryn Hill, Angel Haze, Skin (from Skunk Anansie), and Willow lately.

No. 400105

It’s hard to take female solidarity stuff seriously when no one defends us from racist attacks. Or even contributes to it.

No. 400114

Why is there such little mainstream media representation of cute darkskin black women?

No. 400126

I think most white women see themselves as protected by white men and they don't really have to deal with as much trauma or the threats of violence from men, nor can the concieve being a victim of male violence, combined with western hyper individuality. Plus, most white radfems are only in it because the right wing men were mean to them and they want to vent, but will run back to them. Or they hate trannies and think we all hate trannies the same way, as in "eeew i hate people that are different" kind of way. Racism in women goes hand in hand with being a turbo pickme and most women regardless of race or what they go through are huge pickmes. Every single time a white woman is racist to a black woman, it's always about sexual desirability or something to do with men. Even in spaces for black women, say divestment, every single woman in that space is obsessed with sex and male attention. In some sense for me personally, it goes beyond race, i just cannot relate to women being so whipped by men even though i am hetrosexual myself. Even more normie women cannot go 10 seconds without mentioning any man in their lives, you will never know a damn thing about them as an individual. Every single waking moment just thinking about a man, romance, somebody thinking you are hot or being a love with you. Most of the time i'd rather just be alone because thinking about it too much is extremely depressing.

No. 400141

Is being disinterested in international travel normal? I don’t have any interest in experiencing racism abroad.

No. 400152

I understand your concern nonnie but I live in Europe and have travelled to Asia and Africa extensively and that's not something I've had to experience yet thank goodness. Ofc racism exists but it's not a certainty (and it's not like we don't expereince racism in our home countries too sadly) and there's so much to get from travelling! Don't limit yourself

No. 400165

It's normal. I know some people have had amazing experiences travelling abroad whilst being black, but i think people should also be mindful that sometimes when you meet people abroad, it will be their first time ever meeting a black person so you have to accept any awkward curiosity and they probably aren't trying to be offensive. Overall, i think it sucks that we are practically the only racial group who has to be overly cautious of racism tbh.

No. 400238

unironically globohomo and jews pushing for the destruction of monoracial black women.(racebait)

No. 400280

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Just bought a gun. practicing my first amendment rights as an American! Any nonas that shoot?

No. 400298

I went to a shooting range once. I was always so scared of guns before because of stories of them discharging by accident, but it was fun.

No. 400321

>tfw you move to a community where high % of older people reside
>they stare
>forced smiles when greeting each other
I was rushing to catch the bus this morning and left the front door slightly open while running to grab a forgotten item.
>in comes in nosy old person passing by
This old white bitty had the nerve to have her door slightly ajar, observing me as I was frantically locking my door. At the corner of my eye I could tell she was trying to hide herself while still peeking through her door.
>walks by her door
>closes her door hurriedly while struggling to lock it.
Listen idc about the whole rayceeesm shit Americans whine about. I've made peace with the fact that all people suck. But experiences or little reminders like these just grinds my gears..
>dark skinned female utopia when??

No. 400330

I don’t think it’s just a race thing. My neighbours (Black woman and White man) avoid me.

No. 400338

I agree with you. It’s just I know it’s a factor. I’m also triggered because I started music lessons and my instructor kept assuming I wanted to move to America to attend an HBCU. So race has just preoccupied my mind this week. Thanks anon for the nuance.

No. 400345

How do we feel about affirmative action being practiced in California even though it's illegal?

https://freebeacon.com/campus/a-failed-medical-school-how-racial-preferences-supposedly-outlawed-in-california-have-persisted-at-ucla/(ban evading racebaiter)

No. 400346

this isn't the 1990's. Nobody cares about affirmative action anymore. Even avowed white supremacists never bother to complain about it any longer

No. 400347

Although i agree, It's affecting the qualification of the people that graduate. I'm sure the world is not lacking of diverse and educated young persons, so who the fuck are they picking.

No. 400576

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Reposting this here. I hate how TRAs keep comparing mtfs to black women. Its the 'black women are masculine stereotype' but progressive

No. 400586

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Any nonnies here have any non-american backgrounds? I'm Afro-Carribean

No. 400593

Whenever I see black women defending trannies and spouting queer theory online I really have to wonder how they cope with this shit. I never see them call it out. Do they just pretend not to notice?

No. 400594

Same. We have this exact painting hanging up in my house.

No. 400599

As a lesbian I defend trans people because they’re part of LGBT.(bait)

No. 400601

Kek. Do you know where you are?

No. 400602

As a lesbian, no the fuck they're not
Being homosexual, like being black, isn't a choice and it doesn't require constant validation from others. We were born this way and we cannot change it.
Trans is a choice and requires external validation from society.
It is not a sexual orientation.

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No. 400623

I think the crazy thing is that a lot of black people outside the us don't really know shit about HBCUs which makes that assumption even more bizarre.
This is a very unique kind of bait for this thread, i respect that.
My parents are African.
I've seen pro-troon black women defend troons pushing the idea that the transvestigation of black women is a form of transphobia and it makes me furious when clearly it's just misogynoir. They can't see that they allowed mentally ill white men to hijack the oppression of black women.

No. 400632

You do know that lesbianism is considered transphobic right?!

No. 400665

Sir this is a website for females and women. Not for fetishistic males to disappoint everyone and shit everything up. Sorry you chopped your dick off that still doesn’t make you a woman

No. 400692

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I understand now why so many older black women were homophobic, whenever i see the most disgusting racist and misogynistic post on social media it's 9/10 going to be a faggot. What the fuck is with gay men and their fixation on mocking and copying everything they see black women do.

No. 400694

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Trannies are incredibly racist in general, and they think playing into racism will help their cause. Deranged incels and /pol/tards in dresses unironically sit there and try to liken their horselike faces, neanderthal caveman features and barrel-shaped 6'0+ frames even to 5'3 women with hourglass or pear-shaped figures, full lips, short oval faces and soft/rounded features because they have dark skin. They're racist in their own spaces, so they affirm eachother on that for quick self-esteem boosts, no matter how schizo it is. Later, in real life and leftist spaces, they try to spread the same thing, and are absolutely shocked when normal-minded black women are put off and walk away. Only black women who have very low self-esteem and/or are vulnerable to negging seem to give them the time of day.
I've noticed that when it comes to pretty/feminine black women, they either absolutely despise them or attempt to skinwalk them like gay men do, except for porno fantasies instead of just copying slang/style. That, or they try to act as weird fake allies and demand affirmation on trans bullshit. It's dumb.

No. 400702

Does anyone else not like twitter heavy black people? It would be one thing if they were just the way they were but the fact that they keep acting they are the voice for all black people while being purposefully provocative disturbs me. Maybe I’m maturing but I feel these people are hurting us and I wish they would stfu and Stan whatever celeb they Stan despite being communist womxwnist anti humanists

No. 400705

If we’re talking about problems, this is my problem. It seems like large groups of girls my age are wrapped up in that shit and it makes them insufferable to be around. We can’t have fun without them suddenly complaining about the presence of nonblack people and if you’re not in on it with them, they treat you like a race traitor. I

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I hate that stupid things like this are attached to all black women. Only the weird hyperlib white-worshiping black women say things like "Breathing, being on time to appointments and romance are white supremacy" (and tbh all these concepts of "xyz = white supremacy" were invented by people of primarily European descent who are part of a certain religion, not any kind of "black people", but that's another story), but it gets pinned on all of us to bolster a garbage narrative.
The big joke is that the same people who pretend all black women think this way tend to get very, very angry when they're treated like they're responsible for things other people of their group do themselves.

No. 400807

I genuinely believe that some of them are white and/or grifting trolls.

No. 400819

It’s so oversimplified too, someone acting like this book means black women are crying at white women for existing is so dishonest. It’s clearly meant to be a catchy title to gain interest but is more about the nuances of how racism affects dating, romance, and marriage, which is fair to discuss.

No. 400847

Im the anon from earlier and this might be what I’m talking about. But usually there’s more nuance than the headline with these types of memes. She could be discussing trope in romance novels and I’m not a fan of those racist wojacks.

No. 400848

I’d agree if I didn’t have peers literally doing this shit in person. They’re gen z of course.

No. 400927

>I’d agree if I didn’t have peers literally doing this shit in person.
I've been on DEI zoom meetings where these dumbasses straight up said shit like the dictionary is racist and expecting black people to follow rules and know the definition of things is white supremacy.
The brain rot in academia is beyond anything I could've anticipated.

No. 400930

>buy revair (scored for cheap over ebay)
>use it
>works wonderfully
>look like a lion
>few hours later
i will kill myself. apparently this is normal during summertime though. still mad lol

No. 400932

Wtf are we gonna do?

No. 400933

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i don't know, but i agree with you. i'm scratching my head trying to think of cute black women in media (darker than like, zendaya) and all i can really come up with is mel. then again i don't really watch much outside of weebshit/the occasional hbo show

No. 400947

I have coarse 3c hair and lately it's been drying very frizzy and rough. It practically repel water and is not taking well to moisture. I never used to have this issue. It also dries at an alarming rate that i know it not good. Idk what to do. Any recommendations? Should i just go to the salon and fix it?

No. 400963

dare I say this is likely an intentional psy-op going on that some actual black people (even more so zoomers because kids are retarded) too fell for

No. 400982

I believe it. Academia panders to black people so much it becomes infantilizing. Half of my lecturers are terrified of me and won’t even make eye contact with me because I’m black, the other half call for my opinion on almost everything because they think everyone should listen to random black womens thoughts on everything, which frankly is embarrassing as fuck. I just want to be treated normally like the white kids are, but instead I’m either treated like a sacred cow or terrifying angry black woman.

No. 400985

It wasn't like that before, ironically. The more I watch 90s, 80s and early 2000s media, the more I notice this. There were singers like Whitney Houston and Brandy, actresses like Michelle Thomas, characters like Jodie Landon in Daria, etc. I suspect the current shift has something to do with the rise of trannies and all the extreme leftist stuff we're seeing today. Like, all the weird college giga liberals are not black women's friends, lmao. They're passive-aggressive, very racist and often insecure freaks and predators who are genuinely disturbed when stereotypes are not played into. They want dark-skinned black women to be mascots, living experiments, sacrificial lambs, prostitutes and mammies for all their worst takes and opinions. They know what they're pushing is wrong, but they don't care because they don't actually want anything good. They just want to "shake the table".
They also know they're part of the majority group and will remain untouched by ridiculous stereotypes, and they're not bothered by the fact that black women are a minority and will be affected, because they're either stupid, evil or both. Unfortunately, some retarded black people play into it, too. There are especially some bitter black men pulling strings here and there (like that show directed by cringe blackcel Donald Glover with the scene of the angry, screaming black woman mad about her crush dating a white woman, that other show directed by The Weeknd where the only black woman was morbidly obese, etc).

Notice how Asian, biracial and Latina women are left alone, too? I remember one anon here who claimed to work in advertising insisted "Products with morbidly obese black women just sell better, there's no agenda guys!" when other anons noted that it was only black women who seem to strictly have very fat people representing them in ads. She couldn't come up with an answer as to why this treatment isn't given to other races of women when we're supposed to believe it's so obviously profitable that it makes more sense to use than just having fit, well put-together women. I just don't believe anyone with good intentions or that would consider themselves an "ally" would liken an entire demographic of women to trannies or represent them almost exclusively with obesity, hypersexuality and hypermasculinity.

No. 400991

>be a social justice black person
>complain about negative stereotypes towards black people
>reinforce negative stereotypes by thinking literacy and education is da whyte mane’s devil

They adopt these negative stereotypes and genuinely think they are apart of the cultures they come from and it’s sad to watch. That’s why they love bullying alt black women, they can’t conceive of a black woman living fully in her own individuality without looking like an early 2000s R&B music video vixen

No. 401030

God forbid you work in a tech job, it’s nothing but disgust and resentment at your mere presence.

No. 401031

They hate the 2000s video vixen look because it’s softer and more “natural” compared to the trans Instagram look. And let’s not even talk about black tomboys

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This is one of the reasons why I have so much nostalgia for those times. It wasn’t perfect but you had the illusion of a community and normalcy and the promise of a brighter future. I feel like everything I was raised with is a lie and I feel like a scapegoat for whatever future policies to come. I’ll try to vote for Biden because if Trump wins, you’ll never hear the end of him complaint about the evil black ladies at his trial. Every demographic has something to pick with black women and with our new edgy era, get ready.

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Zoomers definitely fell for it. I know because I was one of them until lolcow peaked me. I was a teen when the pandemic started and so naturally spent a lot of time on twitter. Things I “learned”
> Black people are not human and all other groups view us as below animals
> Black trans women were the blueprint for cis black women
> Being anti fat is anti black
> You should be paying black women for their time and even better, black trans women
> There is a right way to be black, you should be speaking aave and suspicious of other black people who may not be “on code”

I can’t stress enough how much I’m not trolling. This is what young black women are reading and yes, they are regurgitating these talking points amongst their friends. They are using these ideas to ruin relationships between peers and this potential opportunities . No one wants to be around the black girl constantly talking about how much she hates nonblack people. Self isolating and intentionally limiting their circles for what? They claim to speak for the most oppressed black people but most black people don’t think like they do which is why they congregate in academic spaces saying the wildest shit.

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No. 401046

I actually get what they're trying to say, but these people would be better off just saying they can be connected rather than saying anti-fatness IS anti-blackness. Racism happens to skinny people, and people who aren't black still get hate for being fat.

No. 401049

I don't feel bad for anyone with this kind of low iq behavior. Someone who argues online all day should already be able to pick up social cues and see they're being used as both parrot and maggot. Screeching how we ultimately need to remain small and insular yet spend each waking moment worshipping black men or trannies or national causes that serve to never benefit us? If you're fighting to keep yourself at the bottom I don't think anyone should even bother with them. Unfortunate they seem to be our representatives according to everyone on the planet.

No. 401052

There’s no logic to this. They’re just saying shit that sounds like it makes sense and that’s how they lure people in. It’s a cult.

No. 401061

Yeah but not every black woman looks like Sara Baartman. Africa is a very diverse content with a variety of body types from tall and long to hourglass. These people again adopt these racist ideals from actual racist people and then enforce these ideals to the rest of the world and our community as something that’s normal when it’s either no/lacks nuance. It’s actually pretty disturbing and evil when you think about it

No. 401069

You're right. Plus, Sara Baartman likely suffered from lipedema. It's insane that those people have spent years insisting that's just the average black/African woman's body while claiming to be anti-racist.

No. 401071

I don't feel bad for them, either. I just wish they'd fuck off and stop trying to speak for all black women. I wish we didn't have to share a race with them.

No. 401129

What's the humidity like where you live? That can change your hair texture, as you may know. Also the water quality may be different. I have 3c hair too and notice that products I use at home work differently when I'm at my girlfriend's apartment.
If it's not that simple, you may wanna get your iron levels checked. I was having a dry hair spell with lots of breakage before my bloodwork came back showing anemia. Things have improved since I started taking iron supplements.

No. 401133

As bad as the 90s-00s were, I felt comfortable because you knew where everyone stood. I feel like American society can never do anything to a reasonable level, everything must be taken to extremes here. This includes correcting for racist ideas and policies. It's gone so far that were now in a place like >>400982 said where we're infantilized or tiptoed around like hungry lions. Unlike in the 90s-00s, where everyone just said what they felt, today you can't tell friend from foe because everyone who isn't an edgelord with a thin blue line bumper sticker will couch their racism in pseudo-academic word salads.

No. 401363

Also Afro-Caribbean from the Lesser Antilles! Hi nona.

No. 401434

lmao this black moid is so retarded how is this a gotcha? She self harms because of the way she's been treated and made to hate herself probably.

No. 401489

I hate the fact that I (and most other black women) are a product of a low trust environment. From the moment we are born we have to be on our guard all the time. If it’s not from black men harassing us, trying to rape us or coax us into taking drugs, it’s attacks from other black women over our appearance, our men, internalized racism and insecurity, physical violence and getting goaded into fighting, or just general nasty bird bitch behavior. Why aren’t we allowed to relax? Why can there never be peace inside black neighborhoods? The only place I feel safe anymore is the house, but even then every black person I know has bars on their windows and/or door and has to keep a gun for personal protection in case of a home invasion or robbery. We really aren’t allowed to relax anywhere. I’d go hang out in upper middle class white spaces, but all I get is filthy or puzzled looks from older white women and boomer men like ‘what is this black chick doing here in my nice white bubble?’. It’s all so tiresome nonas. Why can’t we have nice things. I want to live in a high trust community.

No. 401568

> I’d go hang out in upper middle class white spaces, but all I get is filthy or puzzled looks from older white women and boomer men like ‘what is this black chick doing here in my nice white bubble?’
If it’s any consolation, visibly poor/working class white people deal with similar stares. White American inter-class solidarity seems to peak only around election years kek. That being said, I think there’s a growing number of other Black people that feel the same way, and want the same thing. We’ll be golden once more of us realize that not wanting to live in a violent hood doesn’t mean wanting to live like you’re in Vivarium.

No. 401612

You’re right nona it’s just as much a class thing as a race thing but we know that black people are instantly seen as an underclass even if they’re richer than royalty

No. 401697

It’s a pseudo-caste system. You can succeed individually but you’ll never escape the cultural conditions of your caste.

No. 401699

I actually like the fact that I’m not a trusting person. It’s kept me out of abusive relationships and sexual harassment situations.

No. 401711

Anon if you’re still around would be able to link me the thread where that screenshot came from. Ik which website it’s from what thread, thanks if you link

No. 401720

No. 401735

I know but which thread from lsa

No. 401846

Can pretty privilege outweigh the effects of colorism?

No. 401848

Only to a certain extent. Imo it just means you’ll still be dehumanized but given preferential treatment over less attractive women of your own race, not given the same passes as a white woman much less an attractive white woman. You can never truly break through that ceiling of whiteness as a woc. It’s probably easier for Asian or pale skinned Latina women because they’re more white adjacent, but even they aren’t usually fully accepted into white spaces, and if they are it’s usually only by fetishizers.

No. 401854

hell yes and anyone who tells you otherwise is coping. Beautiful people, particularly women, are worshiped regardless of race

No. 401857

I generally only see black women simping for beautiful black women though. We have to work extra hard to get non black people to acknowledge black beauty and even if they see it they’ll deny it because she’s black. Even if a black girl is a 10/10, most men, even black men still choose the 5/10 white girl because she’s cute and non threatening.

No. 401860

Why do we care if people find us beautiful or not? Like I refuse to waste my time on making myself as pretty as possible for racists. And this is lolcow, what’s going on?

No. 401867

>Even if a black girl is a 10/10, most men, even black men still choose the 5/10 white girl because she’s cute and non threatening
Who tf cares if they do?

No. 401877

Does any find they faced less racism working in the service industry than an office?

No. 401879

>I generally only see black women simping for beautiful black women though
Yeah, well, I just don't know where you're looking. Black women generally aren't presented as beautiful in pop culture, that is true, but any attractive black girl in an irl setting around mostly whites is gonna get simped for haaaaaard. Have none of you ever worked in an office? If you are young and attractive, the white guys are gonna simp the shit out of you.
Of course, a white or Asian girl will get simped for even without being attractive, so maybe that is the point you are trying to make
>Even if a black girl is a 10/10, most men, even black men still choose the 5/10 white girl because she’s cute and non threatening
Yeah I'm sorry, this is such an American mindset. First of all, the black men who deliberately shun black women will be the first to tell you that it isn't about looks, it's because they straight up hate black women. This is not something that they are shy about saying. In my opinion, this is actually even worse. I would find it less offensive if they just weren't attracted to black women but that just isn't what it's about. Secondly, outside of the USA, black women aren't seen as non threatening or unfeminine. Although I guess that isn't too comforting if you yourself are living in America.

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not those anons but i feel like picrel is relevant. even someone as gorgeous as anok yai has been mistreated because of her race, though maybe things are different in the modeling industry compared to normal jobs idk.

No. 401887

We're talking about two different things. Nobody is questioning that black beauty is societally regarded as the lowest. What I'm saying is that, in practice, men of all races will simp for you if you are young and cute. You are thinking like a woman: men literally think with their dicks. Black women may not be their first choice (but for a lot of white men, they are) but once they come in contact with an attractive one, it's just "cock brain engaged". It's amazing that even on lolcow we have women who still insist that men are capable of thinking like fully developed human beings.
Malcolm X used to run both black and white women and he said that when he started he was initially surprised by how many white Johns would explicitly request black women when he had plenty of white women available. He also said that there were plenty of cases of the reverse and the whole experience really soured him on men in general (regardless of race) and was the source of a lot of his later paranoia regarding the safety of his daughters

No. 401901

Is having a good self esteem protect you against feeling the effects of racism?

No. 401928

this isnt true unfortunately, ive seen the things african/carribean men in the uk say about the women there. this behavior is global

No. 401947

No. Doesn’t matter how much you adopt a fake shield of “self-esteem” and “self-love” that shit can easily be broken down or moldable. People constantly tell you to self-love because they’re too lazy to even try to tackle these issues, that’s honestly why I can’t wait for the black community to crumble and fall apart. I wouldn’t need a barrier of self-esteem if people weren’t racist, wouldn’t need a barrier of self-esteem if black men weren’t villains, wouldn’t need a barrier of self-esteem if black women weren’t torn down every damn day and forced to carry many burdens. You’re forced to build character and resilience for issues people have no intention on fixing because many people (white women and men, non-black people, black men, etc.) profit and benefit off of our (black women’s) struggles and hardships.

No. 401958

As you develop self confidence you get better at not being bothered by nasty people.

No. 401967

>fake shield of “self-esteem” and “self-love”
I forget that some of you are beyond miserable and think it's impossible to actually like yourself sometimes

No. 401976

Lol you are nuts. The whole point of developing self love and self esteem is that it comes from being at peace with yourself and nobody else can affect it.

No. 401982

Those men say that British black women are uppity and too feminist in comparison to the black women back home who "know their place". Moids from shit countries always say that the women in more developed countries are trash and I promise you this isn't restricted to black men.
Please don't make me whiteknight for black scrotes. They are pure shit but they really aren't that much worse than any other kind of moid

No. 402099

Too many of us. Then we mistake this doomer mindset for realism.

No. 402222

You need to get professional help jesus. This weird doomer mentality is getting you nowhere fast.
What are the best cities to live in as a black woman?

No. 402227

So you literally agree with me? The post i was responding to thought called it an American mindset and i was giving an example that its not just in America.

No. 402296

I only have black online spaces and white online spaces to go by. I wish I didn’t get exposed to so many depressed black women. They let their mental state warp their view and poison younger black girls with it. It doesn’t help that we’re more outspoken and interested in community on the shared identity of being black women. It only makes us easier, more vulnerable targets. No woman telling you you’re the ugliest, most unprotected and hated woman is for you. They’re having an internal fight with themselves. There’s always going to be individuals who are for you and those who are against you. Some of my worst bullies have been other black women while some of my biggest champions have been white women and vice versa. There is no safety in generalizing humanity or their reception to your existence.

No. 402379

NTA but yeah, models are treated like shit, including the gorgeous ones. That's kind of the whole point, it's an industry for disgusting men to use women as props and sometimes other things. She was racially degraded because she's not just a vulnerable, beautiful young woman in an industry that eats girls like her alive and wants them as insecure/unbelieved as possible, but also "racialized" (ie she's a minority, and people will always talk about that or use it to "humble" you). It's sick, but not proof that everyone hates black women and finds them soooo ugly no matter what.

No. 402381

>Even if a black girl is a 10/10, most men, even black men still choose the 5/10 white girl because she’s cute and non threatening.
Tbh this seems like a cope. A white 5/10 would likely get picked over a black 5/10 for status reasons, but when the gap is as wide as you say, "most men" will not honestly pick a 5/10 over a 10/10 unless they have a fetish of some sort. Worrying about getting picked is a complete misdirection of women's time and energy when they're the ones who ultimately choose what moids get access, anyway.

No. 402394

the internet has made me hate being a black woman. everyone hates black people, everyone hates women, and everyone especially hates black women. this shit sucks man

No. 402425

self degradation only feeds into it, there are plenty of spaces on the internet that aren't complete ass. and idk if youre american or not but depending on where you live there are places irl that can help change your perspective. Don't let those faggots and neckbeards win in your head

No. 402428

also if it helps at least you aren't a indian girl in india, thats hell.

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Imagine this ugly piece of caca multiplied by thousands have the audacity to be this misogynistic. They used to have their bootyholes rented out to ric