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No. 378416
Previous Thread:
>>>/g/363824A place for black farmers to discuss experiences and topics related to being a black woman and the black community. The positive, the negative, the rants, the raves - it all belongs here.
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No. 378426
>>378377Maybe when I was young, but no. Not anymore. I'm not saying this in a supremacist way but I think being a black woman is the best regardless of the issues I've experienced related to it, or how other people may perceive me. I can't imagine being anything but black, and I don't want to even consider not being able to fully understand and appreciate other black women like only another black woman can. I don't feel like my race is an inhibitor. I feel as if I can do anything any other woman can, imo my social anxiety and economic status has held me back more in life than my race actually.
I also recognize now that there isn't a big difference from me and other women. Black women are one of the groups most afflicted by misogyny but life sucks for all women.
No. 378506
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When I was young I always felt very weary of other black girls despite being black myself, because even though I went to a majority white school, the few black kids (and teachers) that were there, especially black girls, were just downright villainous towards me. I still get nervous interacting with other black people which is pathetic, I want that to stop. I want to be more in touch, I want to understand my own community so that's why I made the first thread which I still cringe at. I really didn't know that was an Asian woman…Anyway these feelings that I had in my youth, this fear of other black people became self loathing eventually. It became source of extreme insecurity. I started to feel like I would be perceived as scary too, and that I was a hypocrite in a way. How can I be nervous around people who look like me, will I become jumpy around my own reflection? Those are the kinds of things I'd ask myself. but now I've had the pleasure of getting to share my experience here and getting to hear yours and seeing that I still share a lot of experiences with other black women, I'm not an outsider. And I think these threads and the people I've been meeting through social media have really helped me work through a lot of my issues, especially in recent times. I remember when these feelings really started. it was in 2016, I was in middle school, I was having lunch with my friend (it was some kind of event because I remember lunch was outside) and a girl came up to me and said that she was going to jump me or something along those lines, she told me that I called her ugly and I was flabbergasted, I didn't know what the hell she was talking about, then I look over and see my long term on and off again bully smirking at me from behind this girl and I knew then that something was very wrong. I go and tell the counselor, the only black woman on the school staff, and she says she'll take care of it… She didn't. That very same lunch break she was outside twerking and dancing to some terrible music with the girls who threatened me. Me and my friend were speechless, to say the least. When my friend's mom was driving us home she mentioned what happened to her mother. Her mother said something I will never forget. "You should be happy you're not like them. You're civilized. Don't let them get to you." It wasn't something I processed as racist at the time but looking back on it the comment about being civilized weren't necessarily kosher. Maybe she didn't mean it in a racist sense, maybe I'm making assumptions and turning it into something it wasn't. But I remember feeling a sense of pride "I'm civilized, that must mean I'm a good girl, good for me!" but that experience shaped me in my youth I think because from then on I would avoid other black girls as much as I could. I had another bad experience that I think might of led to my inability to date black men no matter how nice they are which I feel very deeply guilty about because I know a few nice black guys now that are really cool and all but I just can't date them or be romantic with them, my body physically won't allow it. Which sucks because I feel like if I had a black friend or boyfriend I would feel absolved of my wrong doing, like I've atoned for all the times I've walked across the street when I've seen a group of black people approaching. Stupid, I know. These feeling are complex and hard for me to describe but I'm happy I'm chipping through them. I just wanna be a proper black person, whatever that means, and I don't want to be called white washed at family events anymore.
No. 378652
Does anyone else struggle being mixed race? I’m a lightskinned black woman who looks around 1/4 black. You can’t really immediately tell I’m black apart from my coily hair, dark eyes and I guess my nose is a little flatter and broader than a fully white person. I live in an area that’s like 0.2% black and never see other black people around apart from maybe once a week on the street. Everyone else is white or Asian.
I feel like being ‘almost white’ but not quite fully white has made my dating life really hard. I’m not sure what it is about this generation of moids, but they seem to be really autistically obsessed with race. The men I talk to always seem to be either super racist, or have a fetish for ethnic women. Unfortunately or fortunately, this presents a lot of problems for me when trying to date.
I dated a couple guys who didn’t actually realize I was black, and when I told them, they got cold feet and I noticed afterwards they sort of backed off, as if they thought less of me for being part black and didn’t want to get involved with me, which makes me feel shit. I’ve also had dates who would question what our kids would look like and seemed to be unhappy with the fact our kids would be partially black, and were generally just racist as shit. Dodged a bullet I guess.
The other moids I talked to who accepted me for being black were basically white men with a fetish for black women. These men would also make me feel shit about myself because I usually didn’t fulfill their fetish criteria: my skin wasn’t dark or ‘chocolate’ enough for them, my hair isn’t an Afro it’s just curly, I don’t have a big ass or anything, I don’t dress in thotwear or listen to rap or hip hop and couldn’t ‘hook them up with some obscure dope black music’. I’m basically just a spicy white girl to them, and they would openly fetishize darker women or sexualize other black women in front of me, but act like they were willing to ‘accept me’ and use me as a placeholder until they found a black woman who could fulfil their fetish needs. Again, dodged a bullet. Both these types of men have caused me a lot of psychological pain and blows to my self esteem. And unfortunately I seem to keep encountering these same types of men over and over again.
I feel so out of place and not accepted by anybody it makes me want to cry. I wish I could meet a normal guy who doesn’t care about race but it feels like Gen Z is really obsessed.
No. 378668
>>378643No, the statistic showing that women are better off single is really about all women. I kind of agree with this anon here
>>378644 that a lot of black women put up with less bullshit. IMO, the attention and coddling other races of women has made them weak, made them feel special so when they get treated like they aren't shit, it's a huge shock for them. It also makes them susceptible to falling for more traps that men lay for them. Not to say all black women are this strong, but i feel like in my family it helps that i have family members who will go out of their way to bully a lot of my aunties no good husbands/boyfriends so that even if they are too weak to break up with them on their own, the man will run away because of the pressure. There has been cases of this in my family so that's why i bring this up. I for one appreciate black men and other men being so honest about their hatred for black women, it makes it easy to accept their awful behaviour and act accordingly much faster and my way of dealing with it is permanent celibacy.
No. 378675
>>378668I always found it interesting how black women supposedly have the lowest male response rates on dating sites yet report the highest self esteem, meanwhile Asian women have the highest male response rates on dating sites and yet report having the lowest self esteem.
It’s almost like finding a low self esteem doormat woman who will put up with all his garbage/baggage is what most men are looking for in a gf/wife and that women with a lot of self respect are less attractive to males because they know she won’t tolerate it. Really makes you think. On the other hand it’s also hopeful because it means female self esteem does not have to be tied to desirability or male validation and can evolve in women completely separate from men.
Honestly I just hate male sexuality. It really is a pathology at this point.
No. 378691
>>378643yes, because we have the least amount of healthy male suitors and dating out isn't a very good long term solution. At most two generations might be able to.
>>378644I strongly disagree. Low self-esteem is far more common in black women, especially when you observe their fashion habits and dating choices. The term "pick-me" originated form the black community to describe submissive women who debase themselves for lack male attention. Her self-hatred leads her to act out for attention, via hyper-sexual rap or social justice. I think low self esteem stems from parental neglect and societal hatred.
No. 378692
>>378652>white men with a fetish for black womenNever met a sane WM like this, I wish death penalties were still a thing. Glad you avoided him
Have you ever thought about dating a mixed guy, any combo?
No. 378694
>>378683Black men are more normalized and assimilated into mainstream society. Post-civili rights, black men made serious efforts nto getting white spouses and moving away from the community. they're omnipresent in all media genres compared to black women and popular in men's sports, which is more popular and better paid than women's sports. The first waves of diverse characters in media had black men as the stand ins for the black race.
An entire generation of white people have better experiences with black men. Defended them and their rap music to their parents.
No. 378711
that one blasian anon that's currently forcing herself in the asian girls thread is the main reason i'll never be pro-interracial relationships or 'divestment', whatever you wanna call it. sooo many mixed kids fucking act like her, no matter which parent is black - they're hurt because the black kids they went to school with don't and have never actually worshiped mixedness/lightskindedness like their parent(s) do! those types consistantly get rejected by their non-black family members/community, and yet, they never call them out on it! completely unlike how they will on literal black fucking strangers for having the audacity, the gall, to not be on their knees, sucking their metaphorical dicks about their mixededness~ "i am half (insert race here)/lighter than you, so im literally better than you, if you disagree on this, you are just a jealous, bitter black bitch!" sooo many of those types are all up and down black women's online spaces autistically screeching at us those sentiments, including blasian anon! like, how are you gonna come to our thread saying we have no culture when you are literally half korean kek!
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>>378711I know the type that you're talking about, but I don't think it's right to assume that's how all mixed people are. I don't even think the blasian anon is like that, it's not like she was attacking black women. She just wants peace with both sides, I can understand it.
No. 378720
>>378712i severely doubt it, even a good percentage of mixed people who come from two parental family homes act like her
>>378715it's not all of them, true, but it is
most. and blasian anon
was shitting on black women, nona, did you read what she said about us in the previous thread? did you read what she posted in the asian girls thread? she doesn't like black people, period kek and that's fine, honestly,that's her perogative, but does she really need to try and rally up anti-black bullshit to the asian girls? stop asian hate/black-on-asian crime literally stopped being being reported on mass media after a white man massacured an asian massage parler/underground sex brothel in atlanta
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>>378720I find it so weird that when mixies cry about getting bullied, they always have some form of saying "it was all black people's fault", yet have zero smoke for any other race they're part of. If Logic, tiktok, and IRL biracials with mommy issues are anything to go off of, mixed kids are almost always abused by their nonblack parent or side of the family. It's always the whites calling the kids "niggers", it's always the asians calling the kids "darkies", it's always the nonblack latinos seething at the kids for messing up their "mejorar la raza" bullshit. But noooooo, compared to complaining about black people, mixed people never have anything to say about their other side of the family. Nothing to say about any of those nonblack family members and even grandparents who never wanted to see them as a baby. Mixed people always, always, ALWAYS blame black people for 100% of the psychological issues they have going on. I think deep down inside, mixed people KNOW that their nonblack side hates them objectively more than the black side (in general). I think mixed people have so much hatred towards black people because their nonblack family and society makes them feel like having black blood is a failure, and so they get mad at us because some of their DNA is ours and they don't want to be related to us at all. If only they understood that black people as a whole never
begged for their existence. I'm not saying black people never act weird about biracials. I have family members and even a mom like that, and it IS obnoxious. I just roll my eyes when mixed people act like it's always/only black people that get weird about biracials, even when their nonblack family members are still calling them "niggers" and gatekeeping them out of their own culture just because they're half black.
No. 378760
>>378734I hate to break it to you, but fully black women are far more likely to be brutalized by black men than anyone else, mostly because BW associate and live with BM more than anyone else. My issue was with black men being violent towards women of all races,
particularly black women, but now you’re going off on a schizo tangent and ranting about biracials being evil if they don’t want to associate with black moids and how all their family members secretly hate them. Take your goddamn meds.
But ok keep whining about muh eebil biracials being boogeymen and ignoring the actual problem. You don’t care about black women, if you did, you wouldn’t be capeing for the group most likely to kill them. Most of us just want to be left alone ffs.
(infighting) No. 378768
>>378668So true nona. I always find it interesting how women from ‘safer’ cultures fetishize bdsm and abuse. Most of my white and asian friends who came from cushy sheltered backgrounds love fanfics and media centred around
abusive bad boys, have kinks that involve choking and being spanked and stuff, all want to meet a daddy dom type guy. Meanwhile most black women I know are desperately trying to avoid any kind of abuse, dislike violence especially during sex and are genuinely just looking for a man who is kind to them and doesn’t hit them.
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>>378760>I hate to break it to you, but fully black women are far more likely to be brutalized by black men than anyone else, mostly because BW associate and live with BM more than anyone else. And I'm not talking about that subject, so I don't know why you're coming at me with this sad little swill you got going on.
>My issue was with black men being violent towards women of all races, particularly black womenAgain, that's not what I was talking about, so save your woe is me statistics for a Tedtalk.
>but now you’re going off on a schizo tangent and ranting about biracials being evil Bitch, I never said they were evil. I'm calling out that biracials like little blasian-chan always want to verbally fight with black people about race instead if confronting their white/asian-indingenous/mestizo grandparents for calling them niggers. Never said they were evil, only said they like to act dumb.
>if they don’t want to associate with black moids and how all their family members secretly hate them. Take your goddamn meds.You think you got me with this point and that super cliche "take your meds" clap, but if we're going by your logic of biracials not wanting to affiliate with black people because of
abusive moids, why do they always have beef with black people as a WHOLE and never specify that they only mean black MEN? It's because biracials seem to be emotionally overreactive and insecure, which blinds any proper judgment. Kind of like you, sweetie!
>But ok keep whining about muh eebil biracials being boogeymen and ignoring the actual problem.Lol. I just don't like that they act like black people saying a few jokes about their lightskin to them is anything comparable to their white fathers going on reddit to ask the other scrotes how he can love his son if he's brown, or hearing aunts and uncles make slave jokes at Thanksgiving. Plus, nonblack people can be and are often super
abusive too. Remember that white lesbian couple that killed their adopted black children? It's suspicious that you're painting the hatred biracials have to black people as justified just because black men are often
abusive.
>You don’t care about black women,I AM a black woman. You act like me calling biracials out on their bullshit is me hating black women. Again, you're acting hysterical, and black women and biracial women are not the same. Stop trying to turn this into a feminism issue, feminism is clearly just a copout for you and biracials to justify not wanting to associate with black people to any degree.
>if you did, you wouldn’t be capeing for the group most likely to kill them.Again, why do you lump all black people together if it's just black men?
it is so obvious that you and so many other biracials look down on black people enough to use so many weak excuses to cut off anything black from your identity. You hate being part black, you hate black people, and you hate blackness because society taught you that black is bad. So now you're trying to make it seem like your obvious self-hatred is justified just because a lot of black men suck? Girl bye. Get over yourself.
>Most of us just want to be left alone ffs.Then you might as well leave the fucking thread because it's not for you in the first place. It's for BLACK WOMEN, not half breeds.
this is why nobody likes you. You hate black people but you still want our help, our statistics to justify your emotions, and our spaces. Take your own advice:
leave us alone.
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I don't have any problem with biracial people tbh. I just wish internalized racism didn't exist and cause so much friction on either end. Seems like a losing game for everyone.
No. 378840
>>378816I am. I'm just saying the popularity of wig wearing, skin bleaching, wasting money on getting dangerous BBLs just to appeal to men who openly hate you is very stupid
>>378834"Stop beating beating white women who will report and beat black women who won't!" Imagine being so desparate for male attention you defend this
No. 378843
>>378808You’re calling biracials half-breeds but you want us to believe you don’t hold strong antagonism against us lol?
And it might surprise you, that some of us have indeed non-racist white families and that the most hatred we experience is with black people. It angers you because it destroys your pro-black fantasy about how y’all are gods & angels and everyone else is evil.
(infighting) No. 378845
>>378840Skin bleaching is not at all popular with american black people, maybe Africans/Jamaicans but it's not all popular with the average african american woman. Most black women don't have BBLs and we aren't the only women slicing and dicing our bodies for male attention. Black women aren't even on the top of the list for the people with the most surgeries.
It's a misogyny issue. I do not believe you are black person or woman.
No. 378846
>>378843So then leave us alone, you are two races, if one treats you how you like and the other doesn't, go to them. Stop constantly coming into black spaces to bitch at us, it's weird.
Even when
Some biracials have great relationships with their non-black side, they still want to be in black spaces and agrue with us. Just go.
No. 378850
>>378845I actually don’t know any African women who bleach their skin to try and look paler/fairer or more white. There is skin bleaching cream in my cabinet right now, but I use it on my armpits and elbows and knees only because those areas of skin are significantly darker than the rest of my body and I’d prefer to have skin that is all the same shade on my body. That’s it. I’m not trying to look white nor do I use it on my face. Afaik most skin bleaching creams are used for this purpose, not for bleaching our entire bodies and trying to look lightskin. That would be pretty stupid and pointless tbh as it’s clear we will never look white even if we removed all the melanin odd our skin, also being pale usually doesn’t suit our features. I know a few AA celebrities like Nicki have done skin lightening but it’s kinda pointless because it barely makes a difference and she’s still obviously black (and Indian), my guess is she did it for a male with that preference.
>>378808Most African Americans are biracial you know. Stop embarrassing yourself and sperging out so hard please.
No. 378852
>>378846>they still want to come into black spacesBlack biracials are black too lol.
>and try to argue with usOnly when you say dumb shit. Stop trying to silence people who don’t agree with you lol. You sound like a male hotep.
(moidfoiling/infighting) No. 378853
>>378850>most african americans are BiracialNo we aren't. Why is it that whenever someone is mixed with black they are black, but they aren't whatever else they are mixed with? How come nobody calls Rihanna/Obama daughters white because they are 1/4 white, but people try to call women with no/one black parent like Ice Spice/Cardi B/Saweetie Black?
It makes no sense, most african americans may have SOME non-black heritage but it's not enough to say we are all biracial.
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>>378850Also, Nicki is the same color if not slightly darker now than she was as a teenager.
No. 378926
>>378852>black biracials are black tooi think i finally understand why i see an increase of comments on black online spaces saying that biracials aren't black at all, they're biracial. still have mixed(kek) feelings on that subject, but i get it now.
>And it might surprise you, that some of us have indeed non-racist white families and that the most hatred we experience is with black people It angers you because it destroys your pro-black fantasy about how y’all are gods & angels and everyone else is evilso you admit it, a majority of biracials recieve targetted racial aggression from their non-black sides
No. 378929
>>378851Acknowledging biracial women's disgust and projection towards black women isn't hatred
>>378856What else is new? 95% of all dumb black women decisions are motivated by male attention. If she decentered men, she would have a chance at a normal dignified life
No. 378935
>>378929Yes we get it hon. Biracial women are the devil. Black men are angels.
Yawn.
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>>377463I like VNs if that makes you feel better (I also live in the UK too kek). I don’t interact with western otaku spaces because they tend to be cesspools and I’m sure other black women feel the same.
No. 379050
>>378809Naw you’re right. The simple truth of the matter is black men aint shit. They werent shit when we were living in Africa, they weren’t shit during slavery, and they still aren’t shit. But we can’t say anything about black moids lest sperg-kun starts textwalling and mass reporting all the posts who disagree with him.
‘She’ is totally a black shieldmaiden btw who think mixed black girls are all out to get ‘her’ and will happily die on the sword of ‘her’ moid masters no matter how many women they rape and kill. ‘She’ is totally not just a butthurt baiting moid trying to make black and mixed women hate each other, instead of focusing on our common enemy which is
abusive black men. No chance.
No. 379058
>>379044I hate how you swear everyone is the same person. I'm
>>378853 and I'm not white or a moid. Nor did I say some shit about "blaming chan" or made any comments about Asian people. I'm someone who simply finds people claiming all black people are biracial is retarded. I didn't day half the shit you are accusing me of because I'm not that/those anons.
I'm a black woman who has been in this thread and the last having a discussion.
No. 379075
>>379072Probably not. I notice people tend to not use these weird rules when it comes to white people. They don't want black people to gatekeep what it means to be black, but white people really do gatekeep being white. They will NOT call Obama's daughters white despite them having a white grandmother, but they will call Halsey/Cardi/Ice Spice black for having one black parent/one biracial black/white parent and/or no black parent but black ancestry.
It's the one drop rule, everyone with some black in them is black, but not everyone who has white in them is white. It will never make sense to me, when I first heard the "Biracials aren't black, they are biracial" i thought it was silly until i really thought about it.
How come some people push for biracials who are half black to be called black or 'Black biracials"? When they aren't just black, why do people get so mad when you point this out?
No. 379076
>>379075and i'm not saying they are white, they are both and can (if they are accepted, which is a whole nother can of worms) exist in both communities. Also Biracials can call themselves whatever they want, I do understand that some do connect to their black side due to many factors, maybe they look more black, or maybe they were raised around black people/their black family, maybe they went to a majority black school etc.
For some biracials they have no choice but to be accepted as what they look like etc. I have no hate towards Biracials, I can imagine it's hard.
No. 379082
>>379075I think much of it has to do with perception by society. For example, my brother and I are both biracial from the exact same parents, but our appearances are different, he looks way more Asian and I look way more Black. So our socialization has been very different, it even shows in our families treating us differently, the friends we make, etc. And re: people who are mixed with White, I think it is the modern one drop rule–that is, if you don't look 100% White, they automatically reject you. I knew a Hapa girl who would get asked where she's from and genuinely didn't understand no one was asking about her White side. No one saw her as White, if she called herself White people would have laughed at her. Mixed White biracials are defined by their "other"ness in predominantly White societies. I think as the world gets more interracial, this all might change because then there will be more people with these experiences. You're not wrong, but it's hard to make generalizations on this topic because biracials are so different even from each other.
No. 379111
>>379058African Americans aren’t all black people
nonny.
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>>379226I think that's a fair take. IMO, the only problem is when people start getting huffy specifically at black people for saying that they perceive biracial people not as black, but mixed (or as being closer to the "other" race), as if black people are some kind of "cast off" group for every other community.
No. 379244
>>379082People forget how much of an impact the one drop rule and the ability to "blend in" in general has on how we perceive this. Black communities in countries where the slave trade took place have had biracial people as part of communities for a long, long time, and that influences the reception that biracial people get.
That said I myself as someone that grew up in the West Indies haven't seen anyone my age with a complex about their blackness/not belonging. But the West Indies and my island in particular is a lot more like what someone was erroneously trying to say about Black Americans, where many people are some form of mixed.
No. 379386
>>379276For real, black people can go all day talking about wanting to be included but will go out of their way to make biracial people feel bad for existing.
Kind of off topic but I remember watching one black female YouTuber names amandabb who was becoming a doctor who said some real hateful stuff about biracial girls. It’s like she forgets her dads a doctor but cause she’s dark she can call biracial girls weird and say we act like animals. Like ok girl.
No. 379406
>black girl thread being overrun by biracialsTypical.
>>379392>>379276As a fully black woman I'm sorry this happens to y'all. I fully agree biracials need their own safe spaces. You guys aren't black or the other race you're mixed with. Biracial is its own thing and more people need to understand that.
No. 379407
>>379406According the stats most American Africans are at least 11% European.
Explains when I saw the girl shit herself when her DNA results came back from one side of her family she was white.
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Any other African anons here? Looking at the comments on this post enraged me. Chinese men killed off all their baby girls, so now they're going to poorer countries to pick up young girls and women to be wives. They typically do this in SEA countries, but now they're expanding to Africa.
If you look at the thread, this fat, ugly old moid literally lives in worse conditions in China than the girl and her family in Zambia. Meanwhile, worthless moids/incels are cheering this on because they wish they could passport bro and sex traffick their way into exploiting pretty young girls too, and ignorant western cuckubine libfems with sugar daddy pipe dreams are going "Get that bag girl slayyyyyyyy". This, those Chinese scrotes who go to African countries and filming themselves sexually harassing young girls on their way to school and exploiting/physically abusing children for clicks/money from their fellow roach males back home and other cursed shit I've witnessed make me wish for total male genocide.
No. 379538
>>379535
I grew up in West Africa and only left last year. Stopped reading your shit at the first sentence, lmao. I did see the last sentence, I invite you to read about how much China's police gives a shit about their own women being raped/murdered and beaten by their bosses, teachers or family members. Spoiler: They don't. Now look how they feel about non-American black people in any of their communities, how they treated Nigerians during COVID (I know Americans don't care, but West Africans saw and discussed it), the black woman who got punched by a male higher-up while teaching in China (they literally tried to lock her in the building, female teachers participated too), or how Chinese males in general behave toward ANY foreign women, much less dark-skinned women.
Stop defending sex tourism, retard.
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>>379539
>How dare an African person disagree with my China simping!!!
I know you want to type "Africans are too dumb and illiterate to use the internet like me", so go ahead and do it kek.
If you're a scrote: Die in a mining accident, Li Huang.(alogging)
No. 379613
>>379609Like
>"I hate sex tourist moids and think they are bad">"You're a LARPing male for saying sex tourist moids are bad, what about local moids? You're defending them">"Local moids are bad too, I never defended them. I want something better than sex tourist pedophiles or abusive pedophilic local moids">"You're a LARPing male"There's a really weird samefag in this thread.
No. 379614
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>>379611And now he's deleted his post after getting clocked.
No. 379636
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>>379614And he deleted this too. He's pretty much admitting to being a male, and it's not even the first time. At least the mods will see. I wish there was a surefire way to ban him.
No. 379648
>>379643And he's still samefagging pretending to be someone who agrees with him. I'd point out what part makes his posts obvious, but it's probably better that he's in the dark.
The farmhands will be able to tell, anyway.
No. 379661
>>379649Literally. They try to block us from discussing moids of any demographic being bad (including black men) and make snide posts like
>>379381 to racebait.
The weird nude-baiting stuff makes him even more obvious. No woman on earth wants to see an ugly tranny body.
No. 379666
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Virginity testing is legal in the US.
No. 379676
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Gotta love how plots that are literally straight out of some dystopian body horror movie are just reality for black women. Whenever I see some horrifically disgusting story about a coroner or morgue worker raping corpses, women being medically experimented on without their knowledge, a little girl being sold for drugs then being tossed away like trash or being sex trafficked and nobody even bothers to look for them, it’s almost always a black female victim. The most horrifying news stories are always black female victims. I’m so fucking tired of it. Why are black women never safe to just live their lives.
No. 379677
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>>379676White doctors would literally give black patients placebos without their knowledge when they went to the doctor instead of actually treating their illnesses. These experiments went on for 4 decades and no one was ever told about it until the 1970s. I fucking can’t. The state treats black bodies like public property.
No. 379685
>>379609I think it’s the opposite. Tinfoil but I think these threads are full of American larpers who pretend to be third and second world women just out of boredom and wanting attention. There’s been a lot of anons who claim to be ESL and live in Europe Africa Asia India etc but somehow they always have a perfect grasp of English and talk with Americanisms that most ESLs wouldn’t even know. It’s possible but still highly
sus imo.
No. 379686
>>379683not trying to invalidate your experience but mine was really the opposite, the only spaces ive felt truly accepted and tolerated were weeb and otaku spaces for some reason. all the moids were huge spergs and seemed to be way more interested in the anime and games than my race, they didn’t even notice me or pay attention to me most of the time. and there were a lot of
woc at japan culture exchange and comic cons too, i met a lot of nice asian girls. latinas and other black girls. this is why ive always liked weeb shit, it kind of unites all races and nationalities under one love for japanese nerdy shit. then again im sure there’s racists who spoil it sometimes so i understand.
No. 379708
>>379516InshaAllah
>>379517Imagine defending this trafficking instead of wanting a better life to be built in Africa
No. 379714
>>379710Can you even read, retard? You called them half breeds here
>>378808Nobody is falling for your racist ass divide and conquer shit, you just have a hateboner for mixed (especially blasian) women.
No. 379718
>>379716It's the moid again, he's trying to start another infight.
Also, I'm
>>379575, and no other posts he's attempting to lump together. As I said here
>>379559, the blasian women I've met have been wonderful people. Pedos, rapists, sex tourists and their defenders like the obsessive moid are not. He's very upset actual women want to live life freely.
No. 379719
>>379682literal sci-fi horror
>>379673>>379676>>379677>>379678Call me a conspiracy theorist but I fear more experimentation this century, especially with the rising cost of living and the "benefits" of blood/bone marrow/egg donations
No. 379724
>>379711I was making a joke
>>379709I don't hate biracials I just think America is the best place to be blasian. And I think age gaps are disgusting and trafficking is immoral
No. 379743
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I wish I grew up in the age of Brandy. I miss that time period, I love her music, and I think she's peak cute teen black girl aesthetic, something the modern world is sorely lacking.
No. 379755
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just gonna post beautiful women
A shame a perfect 10/10 beauty turned out to be so evil
No. 379759
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No. 379760
>>379758Hmm. She seems to have disavowed him tho and said what he did was disgusting. I don’t think Naomi was that bad because she was never named as a recruiter or pimp for other girls afaik (correct me if I’m wrong). My guess is she probably had to keep sleeping with these disgusting scrotes for money and modelling gigs. They say that Jeffrey Epstein slept with pretty much every VS model and was their unofficial recruiter/agent. I don’t think Naomi is a bad person I think she just wanted the bag and slept to keep her career going. She’s kind of a
victim honestly. I heard a weird rumor that she slept with Putin and he was so violent with her that he broke her arm. Not sure if true or not, anyway I don’t think Nana is exactly a nice person but I don’t think she is evil just because she was on the list, I think the moids and stuff on the list were definitely pedos tho, like Leo DiCaprio.
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No. 379844
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>>379824a massive shame, I feel hurt thinking about it
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No. 379847
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she has such a perfect smile
No. 379848
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>>379824>People only started listening to Chloe x Halle when they started singing about going to the club butI feel like they were somehow more liked and respected before they started trying to be "hood", but I see what you mean. I wish things had turned out differently with them.
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>>379848everything went wrong when they took the shaderoom and adjacent seriously. Especially Halle, she had so many rooting for her via TLM and her stupid love drama with DVD, pisses me off. She had Beyonce's support! How could you fuck that up
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(do not spam pics)
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No. 379854
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>>379842I agree its the same tranny as before, but pretty please stop replying to him. Report his smelly posts. Just post pretty black women like the other anon.
No. 379887
>>379854I agree with you about reporting, but I'm kind of worried the mods might leave this and the Asian girl thread to rot because they're becoming too much trouble.
>>379879NTA, but I see both sides. If every time we try to discuss something, one moid (or two) shits up the thread, samefags, says we're him, demands photos of us and accuses us of posting xyz schizo style, anyone would rather look at pictures for a while instead. At least until the farmhands do something.
No. 379903
>>379891Any response, even picture spam, is food for trolls. Report and
ignore. It's not that hard.
No. 379956
>>379690Where I live there are a shitton of black anime, cosplay and nerd groups popping up left and right, and they're full of black women. Even online I've found so many more black woman-centred spaces for all types of hobbies in the last few years.
>>379903If as a black woman on the internet you haven't learned to just put your horse blinders on when it comes to that sort of thing already, you're setting yourself up for failure. This applies to real life too but especially the internet where there's no real idiot standing there in front of you.
No. 379964
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>>379947I was the creator of the previous thread, and looking back I definitely should have waited for more feedback on that image since a lot people ended up not liking it when it was finalized. It seems like the best thing for us to do in the future is that we suggest several images, and we all vote on which will be the best one for the next thread.
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>>379947I just wanted to post something positive and uplifting. Notice how none of the pictures I posted were pornographic. I focused on style. Are there specific pictures you’d prefer?
No. 380083
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Really hate all the baiting, so I'll bring up something more lighthearted. Which way do you have your hair styled nonnies? Mine are in twists like picrel.
No. 380084
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This is silly but I figure this thread needs some posts that aren't so serious.
Anons, what would you do with your hair if the end of the world came? Honestly, I think about this more than I'd like to admit since I consume so much apocalyptic content and I lowkey think the world could always just completely flip over. Realistically it makes the most sense to have locs, right? But in games and tv shows, it's actually pretty rare to see black characters with locs. Michonne from TWD and Maria from the TLOU show adaptation are the only characters I can think of who have locs.
No. 380085
>>380083I used to have them in twists and braids for the longest time, braids are nice cause you can have them colored without actually dying your hair. As of now, I've decided to embrace a more natural look so I'm wearing it out and letting it breathe for a bit. When I go out I usually style my hair in an afro with it coming forward a bit on my forehead and ears.
However, I did dye it a nice red yesterday so it kind of defeats the point of going natural I suppose>>380084>Anons, what would you do with your hair if the end of the world came? Shave it down, it seems like the most manageable style during the apocalypse. It wouldn't be flattering on me but that doesn't matter when the world is ending.
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>>380083I shaved my head a while ago so my natural hair is just super short right now. I usually wear wigs over it when I'm out. I'm very tempted to start sisterlocs when my hair grows out enough because it means a cute low maintenance natural style that i can also wear wigs over, but I would be so sad to not be able to get braids anymore.
No. 380184
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>>380157I saw the cutest braids yesterday on twitter!! Can't imagine how heavy her head felt but I loved this
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>>380083Side part mini twists, but my hair has layers so it’s less uniform than picrel
No. 380437
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I wish I had black female friends. I wish I had that connection and normalcy. I spent most of my life in white environments and being the token. I never felt normal and to this day I still have that strong desire to be normal. One of the reasons why I prefer a black boyfriend is so I can be normal and be introduced into a black friend group. I want the freedom to speak honestly and be silly without fear.
I secretly dislike when my non- black co-workers would ask me about a black topic. I usually say very little and try to redirect them to a book or website. I know they ask those kinds of questions because I’m not normal, I’m not one of them. I wonder how long do I have to keep myself restrained and polite. I feel like being independent will become financially impossible for me as I grow older and I’ll be forced to forever play the token role just to maintain a living.
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2023 was just a bad year to exist as a black woman. I never felt so demoralized about existing.
No. 380467
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Does anyone else have brown lines on their nails? I have them in varying shades on most of my nails. I always see people say dark lines on your nails is a cause for concern, but honestly I think it must be normal for people with more melanin.
In general, I think a lot of medical advice in regards to skin conditions doesn't really keep people with brown skin in mind.
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>>380437I have other black friends but I'm genuinely considered dropping some of them. They never make time for me in their plans. Last year I had my toughest year and had to face it online because they were constantly to busy for any of the plans I made with them. And yet when I check their socials, they're going partying, clubbing, brunches, all the things they were too busy to do with me.
This year I want to have friends who make time for me, I want to be included in all the moments worthy of taking pictures to remember. Not just a back up friend they call when no one else is available. My breaking point was seeing these girls make galentines plans. It was at that point I realised that nope it's time to find new friends.
Trying to get into the indie/artsy scene in my city because it does have a decent amount of black people. Especially the DIY music scene.
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https://our-true-nature.com/?p=5873I think she was spitting. Too many black people desperate for external validation and set themselves up for failure.
No. 380762
>>380745Lol another self post?
>go to profile>zero posts >go to their linked website >its just a blog crying about how evil and unempathetic black people are for not constantly virtue signalling on social media about Congo JFL.
No. 381013
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>>380745Yeah, this is why I don't concern myself with collectives of people anymore. The human race is pretty much cooked. Retards would rather fight over skin color, religion and territory than live decent lives or be kind to eachother. It's been like this since before I was born, and it'll likely continue to be that way long after I die, so why should I concern myself with causes for the same people who'd hate me for my ancestry? About the only things I do are avoid going out of my way to bash any demographic or mock their suffering, and I try to treat people as individuals. Even that's still much more than I can say for some others - we've all seen how randoms love to bash black women and girls completely unprovoked. Even some so-called feminists throw us under the bus (both libfems and radfems). I think some people will always despise us on principle. It's almost like they think we're a hivemind, and only they are capable of individuality. I can't relate to their hatred, and tbh, I don't want to participate or try to prove them wrong. I'd rather just let them eat eachother's faces off and mind my own business.
I still care about animals, the environment and my loved ones, but that's pretty much it. I'd rather save an innocent cat or dog than some homeless scrote who'll spit in my face, call me slurs, and/or make sexual comments at me.
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I can't lie, it feels great to get paid more than others based on skin color. This is reparations.(racebaiting)
No. 381377
>>381290I feel like back in the 2010s it was really fun for reading about milk to do with influencers and random internet personalities, but it bugs me that their website isn't the best for archiving things as say this site or kiwifarms. There was some stellar milk that's now lost to the sands of time and it makes me sad. Aside from that, i don't really like the userbase, but it blows me away that the nurse ratchet user is still there after all these years. To me, if you want to learn about the ace family or any family channel, lipstick alley is the first place to go since they are probably on their 50th thread.
>>381355They are probably seething and jealous or feel somewhat threatened by your bodily autonomy. I don't really like talking about this, but some black women just have children as if they have no control over their bodies or because they feel like it's a requirement to have kids, either for religious purposes or to keep their partner from leaving them.
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>>381616positive representation is not profitable. Corporations love putting people into boxes because it makes marketing easier. Positive black female representation make others uncomfortable as well.
>>354778>i'm likely going to sound schizo, but i believe there's a silent agreement the west has on "black" being less a race (see: the one drop rule and its continued prevalence), and more an underclass. an underclass needs to perform its role, and be easily visually marked. everyone has to do "their part". part of the black woman's role is to embody at least one of the three archetypes: jezebel, sapphire and mammy. i'm sure i don't need to explain what those are in detail. if you perform none of them, you are upsetting the delicate racist balance set in place by the society you live in, and not in the current media-sanctioned way deemed "empowering" (though it's actually just more of the same). a lot of black people have completely swallowed "black" being more than a race, but a specific personality, likes/dislikes, etc under the banner of "culture" (ignoring that there are multiple black cultures, and that culture does not dictate the entirety of anyone's being, unless they have literally no self-awareness or individual thought). they don't see it as bad, because it's been repackaged as "cool" by shitty burger media, and they've effectively been pacified via small concessions. most black people will not question why we're still not really in charge of our own representation, why "our" music so often has destructive, anti-social messages, and why those in charge of the record labels, media companies, etc pushing this stuff are old-ass degenerate moids who aren't even black. none of it is in good faith, but they can't see it.
>unlike some other minorities, there is also no way for a black woman to not be visibly and clearly black, so we can't really just "blend into" any subculture and live in peace IRL. our existence constantly gets politicized, and since a lot of people are dumb and don't see what's going on (or, you know, just racist), they'll blame every single one of us for it. easiest example is spergs who believe a black character in anything is automatically "woke". a black woman not "doing black things", "talking black", "acting black" or "dressing black" becomes a betrayal of what it means to be "black" (which, again, is not a race, but a position, and it's not one to be defined by us as individual black women, but everybody else, lmao), and a sort of challenge to the established status quo. you can literally just be a person with hobbies or interests, and a bunch of freaks who think we're all in some kind of race pyramid or ant colony will essentially screech at you to get back "in line" (and "in line" for us means shaking our asses, being loud, illiterate, masculine and/or morbidly obese so that we can be constant sexual/comedic entertainment, living "proof" that it's natural and totally healthy to be fat so that fat hyperlibfem white women can feel better about themselves ala the fat acceptance movement, and allow other races of women to appear "softer" and "more feminine" - irish women were made to play the last role before the irish were considered white). you're enraging black people who think it's your job and "actually powerful!!!1" to conform to identities you never signed up for, and also making racists uncomfortable because you don't fit into the autistic set of "traits" they applied to you and regurgitated to each other like a religion. all of it is just very insidious.
>i think more black girls and women are picking up on this, and media execs can see the fatigue building up, so they've been throwing a bone here and there by allowing actresses like ayo edibiri who don't fit stereotypes to show up in movies/shows, but the main representation still is (and probably always will be) the jezebel, mammy or sapphire because it's what sells and keeps the racist/lowbrow majority comfortable. all of it just makes me sad, honestly. it must be so peaceful to just be allowed to have your own individuality. No. 381834
>>381726Tbf, i do encounter a lot of this on social media, but people just prefer drama and messiness.
>>381817It's a sign to not bother with dating. If you have to go out of your way like that you aren't that interested in the first place.
No. 382059
>>382056No man can love women.
Black women are blackpilled on the nature of men as men collectively treat us worse than every other race of women.
No. 382116
I wish that locked LSA hate thread was unlocked. I'm noticing this gross trend of them calling any man whose 24-25 dating a woman in her 30's, a "Little boy" or "Child" meanwhile, they regularly harshly judge 25 and even younger black women for making choices with men that are wrong or being immature.
There's a thread about a football player or boxer, who has 2 kids by 2 women and he's like 26. He's dating a woman who has 2 kids by 2 men and she's in her 30's. People are calling him a "Child" or a "Kid". No he's not, he's a grown man with 2 kids.
Compare that to any thread about any black woman who ever does anything, I rarely see them calling 24-25 year old black women "little girls' or "Babies" in age gaps. And if they ARE calling them a "Little girl" it's in a insulting way.
>This little ass girl needs to sit down somewhere
And it's usually people being mad at a young black woman for not being mature/smart or wise in a situation involving a man.
Even when lsa is critical of age gaps, it's just, "She could be his daughter" it's never pretending the woman is not an adult.
Even in my personal life, I was expected to make all the right choices at all times, rather it came to dating, or navigating the world while my brothers could do whatever and up until they were in their 30's it was, "They are still young" or "they going to make mistakes", my mother would always come at me hard.
I was expected to "know" how to be right and be wise. I wasn't allowed to be immature or figure shit out without EVERYONE on my back. Meanwhile, as we can see black men/men in general are allowed to be immature or reckless and still not be judged as harshly, if at all.
I can tell a lot of the genuinely black female posters on lipstick alley are male identified and probably treat their daughters differently then their sons.
No. 382117
>>382116Same anon, I've had friends who told me their mothers gave them the same identical speech of, "I'm harder on you because this, that and thrid" or "I don't want you to be like me". It's so fucked up how many black women, I know now who have expressed they were treated harshly by their mothers when it came to dating or really anything compared to their brothers. My mother even NOW comes at me and my sisters with an weird agression she doesn't my brothers. Flat out told me once, "I don't care if you are mad at me, but i care if your (named some of my brothers)". I'm constantly being told, "yeah I treat you differently, because you are a woman and-"
I think a lot of women like me who grew up in single mother households, have mothers who are jaded and beat down by the failures of black males and their own decisions, plus their mothers decisions. It's a ever ending cycle, of broken women, trying to "fix' their mistakes with their daughters, by treating some of us like we are their equals instead of their child. While not treating their sons like that OR if they do, they are treated as the man "of the house' meaning they are given a certain amount of respect and authority.
I hope this makes sense.
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Hate how normalized extreme surgery in the black community is, I’m tired of black women being pressured to look like Bratz dolls and ridding themselves of their features as much as possible. You just know the moid surgeon asshole intentionally took the pic on the left at a harsh angle to make her look as cartoonishly negro as possible. And her edges, I’m weeping for them, literally tearing her hair out and looking like MJ on the right.
No. 382477
>>382172I do as an individual but don't hold your breath for a statistically significant minority to even try.
>>382194For economic reasons. I swear it's easier for people to focus on the "gender wars" than even acknowledge extreme capitalism and competition for scraps created their situation
No. 382479
>>382473I'm not surprised. Black women have been told form birth, inside and outside their communities, that they are ugly and unloveable because of their ugliness. Even if you had a feminist mom who tried to raise you with self-love, it's hopeless in the age of social media.
You see how much better mixed/non-black women are treated, how powerfully true pretty privilege is and how easy it is to access plastic surgery. If I had more money, I would have gotten full body plastic surgery. I know how much better people treat you and think of you when your are pretty and mixed.
I don't have a solution or answer to this. It's so hopeless.
No. 382481
>>378863>”I think there needs to be a bigger convo on black fatherlessness”
>blogpost incoming btw kek No, we just need to breed responsibly and stop birthing black males. Fatherlessness is only a problem when you keep generating a bunch of children particularly (and mostly) black males who love shooting, looting and killing while the women are placed with most of the brunt of the domestic affairs, financial and political burdens (ex. picking up the laundry AND picking up and explaining why Tyrone’s dead body has been littered on a gas station floor and having to lie to the media that he ain’t “du NUFFIN!!! mah son would never be a menace!!”) that tires and exhausts us out way more than other groups of women who have better fuckability/beauty mandate points that grants them a crumb of at least fauxprotection from this BS. The faulty normie logic that always permeates these conversation is the false equivalence that black men and black women (even
POC) have always been subject to the same kinds of oppressive conditions, despite half of our community being women and also being subjected to sex-based oppression on top of crippling racial oppression and negative racial outlooks despite us again doing most of the heavy work that gets us mistreated and bombarded with thankless jabs of us “weave wearers and black male birthers” from everyone globally. We’re the ones who need radfeminism the most and yet we constantly reject it because white women who unfortunately all happen to be libfems/sex-pozzies for a status signal/“good girl” boost unconsciously aid into the hypersexualized negative image of black women and other groups of women we see today, having us run on a circular hamster wheel of male validation and hand pats. My rant is going everywhere and some of it isn’t related to anything to your post or in this thread and the jannies might find this post
sus but time after time I think we understand that black males lack of responsibility for their own children and desire of fatherhood goes beyond space and time, wayyy before the Diaspora and it’s something that can’t be fixed through “socializing” and “rehabilitating” bc those disgusting ass creatures who have always been black women’s enemy from day one. We should be moving like those 4B korean women and carefully, surgically thinking about which XY we continue to shit out to the world and evaluate why were even continuing to have sex with our close-quartered oppressors who have contributed to our bullying, harassment, degradation and suffering with other groups of men while hiding their hands and whinging to any black XY sympathizers who will listen to their distorted POV about the detriment of racism and white supremacy, because their language is always coded with male-entitlement and unfettered access to other groups of women without any laws getting in their way from that happening (the main optics of the civil rights movement). They don’t like it when the shit hits for them but will promote it for their own female counterparts. We keep reproaching this “fatherless” issue countless times and running in circles anons, it can’t be solved by wasting time trying to include them thinking in the past that there hasn’t been measures to incentivize them to keep their useless asses in the home (apparently there have been!!!!). We have to completely take them out of the factor and deal with them as it really is: the average man’s aversion to caring for something that’s way beyond himself and beyond his small egocentric world of individual goals and obligations. Women especially black women have to take total control of the reproductive/childbearing process that still lays in the hand of patriarchal society, trying to restructure the home into a model that’s been oppressive for women is not gonna solve the reason why black males are defective. Black males are defective because they are men.
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Thoughts?
No. 382642
>>382473This isn't normalized anywhere but online, most black people are walking around with the features that God gave us. I swear I feel like people keep trying to convince black women every black women has a bbl or chopping up her nose on average. Even online this shit isn't normalized, people don't treat Szas surgery like it's normal. People acknowledge it and praise her for "looking better" or they trash her for changing her features/body. Megan the3 stallion is praised for not having surgeries because all the female rappers do, not because shes the rare bw who didn't touch her face in general.
Most of us are natural. There's diffently cultures where plastic surgery is normal, it's not the black community.
No. 382644
>>382473also anon where did you get this picture from?
>made her look as cartoonishly negro as possibleIf thats how her face LOOKS and how she came in how is it on the doctor? It sounds like you think her natural features look cartoonish. It's a simple front on picture, probably one they took right before surgery.
And you're picking at her edges and natural looks but then pretending to be weeping about the "Normalized" plastic surgery in the black community, when again MOST of us don't have extreme surgeries let alone surgeries at all.
This whole post sets off my bullshit alarm. I ask for a source because the second picture looks clearly edited or as if it has some kind of filter on it. I'd like to see how this woman looks without that.
No. 382648
>>382481>Tyrone>Du Nuffin!!>Mah Son!>that tires and exhausts "us" out way more than other groups of women who have better fuckability/beauty mandate points that grants them a crumb of at least fauxprotection from this BSSomething I notice is that there's BW who exist who can criticize black males without using 4chan/white supremacist like language. I could be wrong but I know for a fact that racists tend to target black female spaces to rant/discuss our issues to spew racism towards us or about their obsession with black men.
If you are black maybe you should work on how you talk about this subject, you say the 'jannies" may find this
sus, but any black woman whose recognized the type of language used by racist would as well.
>>382634They know it's unrealistic.
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>>382642ok i also agree that a vast majority of black american women aren't actually getting plastic surgery and i do believe this whole thing is a psy-op by the medical industry to convince more women, in general, to get work done by using the "cool blacks" to expand to everyone because even stormfront types can agree on black americans starting and mainstreaming trends worldwide - basically bombardered black girls online that they are ugly and mean and undesirable from multiple anglepoints like 'online dating profile studies', shove racially ambiguous women who may or may not have black ancestry themselves as
the beauty standard - mostly t.v./muisc industry, "o, wait those women have plastic surgery, i can look like them if i also get plastic surgery" - which hopefully leads to "if the black girls are getting work done,
im getting work done" from other races of women, boom profit
anyways all celebrities get work done, no matter the race or sex, that includes megan the stallion! i have no idea why people online don't seem notice her's when it's so obvious to me…
No. 382653
>>382648The posts calling for black male genocide are written by a white moid from 4chan with a fetish for black women. They’re starting to invade LSA and LARPing as black women, saying how all block women need to marry white men and cull black babies in the womb. Complete mental illness.
>>382473Men will say they hate plastic surgery then simp for instathots and Korean women who’ve had 90% of their face surgically reconstructed
No. 382663
>>382634It’s not “unrealistic”, you would just have to stop chasing and obsessing over dick for it to actually come into fruition, but I guess women place a higher priority of pretending they like sex from men than actually making livable, non-violent environments for their own daughters and themselves to live in.
>>382628And? Do you think black men will ever give you the same grace or have they ever given black women the same graces you give for them?? Does that make any sense anon?
>>382653>”ermmm gourls dis language really makes me uncomfortable~ I’m just liek gonna call you a moid because I’m paranoid and like policing other women’s thoughts so I can get you banned by lying~”You’re the cancer killing /g/. Guess everyone who speaks in a way your paranoid ass sniffs as being typed up by a scrote should just be banned, that would have to include 98% of the entire website. I hate the hyper vigilance and hyper policing when you damn well know most people who use this site also came from and also still use 4chan.
No. 382737
>>382631My issue with this primarily is how this preference manifests in daily life. I could care less about who wants to date me.
I really wish black woman put more of an effort into upholding each other and supporting each other instead of being in a “who can get picked/get more men” competition. Call me crazy but I feel most opposition towards black women socially and romantically isn’t due to some inherent ugliness of black woman rather what the image of a “black woman” means in greater society. I do believe optics are important but in a larger scale than just partner selection.
No. 382904
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why do leftists keep pushing this shit? The quote tweets are so demoralizing.
>People think dark skin chicks are the same as men, so you have to defend us trannies!"
Leftists do this to no other group. Like their insanity makes me wanna rip my hair out.
No. 382972
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>>382904this is what liberals think of us, I fucking hate them so much
No. 382986
So many black women refuse to even think of protecting a shred of their piece and mald daily over random shit people say on social media. I don't understand it. Is life not difficult enough without the added weight of a thousand social media amplified idiots buzzing in your ear all the time?
>>382461Facebook and Tiktok. It's a tragedy.
No. 382991
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>>382972Sorry, I'm going to say it. I'm sure I'll sound schizo or unintentionally offend someone, but I'm sick of being quiet and trying to be nice about this.
I'm tired of unattractive, insecure black women trying to get in good graces with the lowest rung of white people (trannies and other deranged paraphiliacs and mentally ill individuals who adopt new pronouns and "gender identities") via this self-deprecation, and dragging us all under the bus alongside them.
I've never been mistaken for a man once in my entire life. No one actually thinks black women are men, there is nothing inherently masculine about being black. It didn't even happen during the days of slavery. Black women faced distinctly sex-based and sexualized oppression that black men did not. Black men got the vote, black women did not. Black women were literally experimented on to form modern gynecology as we know it, raped and impregnated en masse and forced to care for the slaveowner's children as wet maids, nurses and caregivers. "Black women are men!!" is a recent insult from racists, not reality. It's the sad racist moid's way of saying "Your behavior is intimidating, and I'm finding you unattractive. You should care about my opinion, because you are a woman and I am a man - me likening you to a man should put you in check and make you want to act in ways I deem more agreeable. You're an inherently servile class as negro and woman, and I say you're doing your job wrong". Nothing more, nothing less. Note racist trannies sticking to this exact same script (the goal is to make you serve them and their cause), except they throw in "and you're just like me". This accomplishes three goals: Making the tranny feel a little bit better about being a literal male by likening himself to actual women, obscuring their own racism,
and dangling the carrot of (illusory) racial equality and (faux) allyship to the self-hating black woman. Another reason it works so well for a certain type of black woman is that it offers them a rope out of the often neurosis-inducing (and very female-socialized) thought of "I'm unattractive because I don't care for my looks/don't know how to style myself/am personally unlucky" and lets them climb up to a more freeing, but inherently flawed and unrealistic "I'm not pretty, and it's not because of anything to do with me, it's because I'm black. In fact, beauty is inherently racist". This is also how they end up doggedly accusing all conventionally attractive black women of having "eurocentric features" without a drop of European blood, and how they scramble to spread lies about African cultures "having no gender roles" or knowledge of the differences between men and women. It's all to keep up the delusion built off insecurities capitalized on by trannies and racist liberals.
Equating biological women who face distinctly racial and sex-based abuse to biological men with dysphoria who get rudely reminded me of their literal anatomical reality every now and again is laughable and pathetic.
No. 382993
>>382991Samefag to quickly add that I don't support right wingers (because they are the same thing, just mask-off), but I am not and never will be blind to the fact that those same right-wing unironic "Nazi" failsons are getting sissy porn addictions, putting on stripey socks and playing the
victim. Their opinions have not changed. They just feel oppressed because they can't do their fetish play 24/7 and make us all participate. Praying all women stop falling for male manipulation in 2024.
No. 383004
>>382980Agreed. I don't know why some posters preach volceldom so much ITT, but it's suspicious. I know a lot of incels really, really want vulnerable, easy women who identify as "
femcels" to exist so they can get an in.
Some people on the internet are hell-bent on making it seem like it's some kind of hopeless battle to be loved or have anyone attracted to you if you're a black woman, but if you're even a little pretty and not morbidly obese, you're literally fine.
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For real it’s become more common and I hope young black girls see right through it
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>>382980The most important relationship is the one that you have with yourself. Work on that before prioritising a man if you want to have a healthy relationship fr.
No. 383163
>>383027Upper class WASP Americans are so incredibly racist. I went to an Ivy League school on a scholarship and most people wouldn’t even make eye contact with me let alone associate with me. But hell, I wouldn’t even want to associate with people who probably (actually, definitely) call me the n word behind my back. The Asians were just as bad although they usually tried to be polite to my face for social justice points I guess. The white people just had nothing but disdain for me without even getting to know me at all.
One of the other black kids there was basically an Uncle Ruckus who constantly shat on black people and would make jokes about black crime stats when there were white people around us to try and appease them, and the sad thing is it kinda worked because the white people would laugh along and were a lot more accepting of this coon type (they still hated the blackness tho)
Being black is such a struggle because you never know if the non black person you’re talking to hates you or not. I know that there are people who aren’t racist, but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. I just assume most people are racist by default to save myself getting hurt and don’t even bother trying anymore, as unhealthy as that is. The same people who were racist to me in high school are now doing the BLM thing on instagram. Unfortunately many people are good at hiding their racism in social situations, which makes it even more unsettling.
No. 383178
>>382980A lot of black women allow this "drive" to literally destroy their lives. I don't want to be like them feeling sorry for myself because nobody wants to marry black women or trying to make it work with shitty
abusive men. This dream of prince charming is childish and stupid no matter what race you are. I don't care how hot or desirable you are, things like that are not promised to you no matter how hard you try and you need to learn how to cope with it.
No. 383191
>>383178You know happy black couples exist?
Just because you allow shitty treatment from men doesn’t mean black women all behave like you.
No. 383196
>>383191>>383188Both of you misunderstood the post. It’s not about never finding love but not being stupid in your search of it. The desire for love is normal but how she is taught in attaining it is
problematic. Having standards, knowing what’s best for you, realistic expectations of others, etc.
No. 383233
>>383163Yes! You get it! There weren't that many black kids on campus but almost every semester one of them that was the token black friend would go through some sort of fallout then come running to us to complain about how they were treated by the white students. It gets old really fucking fast.
I'm around the Asian students a lot because boyfriend is one but they were worse than the self hating black students in my opinion. Even one of the white students apologized to me for how the Asian students act. The southeast asian and middle eastern students were pretty cool, surprisingly.
I wish I knew you back then anon, I think we would've been really good friends.
No. 383494
>>383490I get annoyed listening to some black women talk about relationships but mostly when they talk about other women like competition. Especially with topics like colorism, I don't understand the fixation some black women have with mixed women. And I don't understand how some women spend more time complaining about mixed women than they do about men. Saying this a dark skinned black women, colorism is very real but the constant bashing of mixed women will always come off as annoying because the people who are loudest about it usually also date nonblack guys.
So they spend all that time complaining about how annoying mixed women are when there's 70% chance they're gonna raise one kek
No. 383543
>>383494Maybe it’s because mixed women are the preferred choice (which normally isn’ta problem) but others harass and describe you in vulgar derogatory terms just for your cookout. Or how most first black whatever are mixed people (BMWF) and it’s an open secret compared to other groups. Or how black beauty standards are about the literally unattainable standard of light skin and loose hair. If you are not brown with those features, have fun spending tens of thousands of dollars chasing after it. Or how no blacks, especially liberals whites have better social reactions and opinions of mixed people compared to black people.
If you can recognize race or sec privilege, then it’s not hard to understand how mixed black women have the better deal compared to unambiguous black women. Most of the time, actually dark skin women are supposed to keep quiet about this social trends to not sound “bitter”. At best, we are different groups with radically social outcomes. It’s more fair if we described and behaved as the very distinct women we are.
No. 383547
>>383494> the people who are loudest about it usually also date nonblack guys. So they spend all that time complaining about how annoying mixed women are when there's 70% chance they're gonna raise one kek
God’s cruel jokes. Most people don’t have the patience to even raise mixed kids. Imagine having to fish the wide open ocean for men for someone who tolerates you as opposed to someone within your own community with similar values and outlook on life
No. 383548
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>>383544>dark skin womenCan we stop making mixed women = light skinned women. This is why I've seen people like Halle Bailey or Chloe Bailey get called dark skinned in comparison to mixed women like Zendaya
>>383540I can recognise colorism privelages but I'm over black people who complain about mixed people 24/7 but also fetishize interracial relationships. There are two kinds of people who pedestal mixed people, the covert colorists who bash dark skinned and then the ones who spend all the time talking about how the privelage mixed people have but actively try to have mixed kids because they want to get closer to it. Both are trying to live vicariously through their kids.
No. 383549
>>383547I'm not anti dating nonblack guys because no one is entitled to dating black women and black women can date whoever they want.
But I do want the people who clearly hate mixed women to ask themselves why they are getting into relationship that could make one? It's the same colorist mixed women or light skinned black women who fetishize dark skinned men but bash dark skinned women. What are you gonna do when your daughter ends up looking like the people you have deep seated resentment towards cause that stuff doesn’t dissappear after kids.
No. 383553
>>383548‘Now I’m raising a lightskin boss’. This is a really weird thing for her to say. I just checked the LSA thread about her and they’re saying the same thing. Disappointing.
>Colorism is about societal discrimination against dark skin persons. Not romantic preference. A whole BIRD. Have to agree with this. Also, Jodie spent most of her childhood in the UK where colorism isn’t as big an issue as it is for African Americans so she doesn’t really have room to talk about this.
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On a lighter note. I haven't watched the movie WISH but I've seen all the discourse related to it. I'm living for all the fanartists and fanfic writer basically making an entire AU to rewrite the movie kek.
I used to be a Disney kid and this reminds of the time people would ship jack/elsa. It sucks that Disney fucked up the movie because the animation and character design looks cute especially the braids.
No. 383563
>>383560Lol no, if a white person is racist enough to treat black people badly because of their ethnicity, then they’re not going to be any less disgusted or treat you better if you’re lightskin black, because you still display black ancestry. If anything, racists get angrier at lightskins because it shows they’re mixed with white and they’re seen as ‘tainting’ the white parents bloodline. Look at how angry and disgusted white racists were by Robert DeNiros sons and talking about how they don’t look anything like their father. Those boys are light skinned as hell, too.
Why do you think there’s so many racist jokes about ‘le 56% face’ and calling mixed or lightskin black people goblins/goblinas/mutts?
The only people I’ve seen refusing to believe very lightskin ppl like Tyler1 are part black are dark skinned black people like Kai Cenat. Whereas white people can always tell they’re mixed with black somehow.
Reminder white people are much much stricter about what qualifies as ‘white’ than black people. Whereas darkskin black people tend to call anyone lighter than NC45 ‘white’.
No. 383568
>>383566also, i remember white people calling her an annoying diversity hire/token black girl, and black people calling her a privileged white girl trying to play the
poc card. the media was accusing her of sleeping with the male judges and being overly flirty to stay on the show. turns out she’s a lesbian irl and married to a woman. just shows no matter what black women do or look like, they’ll always get hate for it.
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>>383565Booking a flight to florida and hotel at Disney land as we speak
>>383566She looks like she's from Cape Town and knows how to make a mean malva pudding
No. 383580
>>383576What you get defined as by others simply depends on what side of your ethnicity is more instantly visible imo. Terms like ‘white’ and ‘black’ are made up terms with no defined or scientific basis.
If you ask a racist white person what constitutes white, they often can’t even fully answer it. Some will say anyone with blue eyes and blonde hair (even if they’re Pashtuns, Siberians, Mahgrebi etc). Others will say no it’s about European ancestry. If you push it further and ask what percentage of European ancestry is considered white, then they struggle more. Is 1% non European ancestry mean you can’t be white? What about 5%?. Is a swarthy Sicilian person considered white but a blonde Algerian person is non white? All the definitions begin to break down, because none of them are based in reality or science.
No. 383599
>>383593It makes more sense when you see black/african american as an ethnic group and not a race (excluding immigrant Black Americans though).
To be honest between one drop rule vs separating mixed people it doesn't make any difference. Like if you look at the treatment of black Brazilians vs black Americans where they have opposite views of mixed people I'm not sure who is doing better when it comes to colorism.
No. 383610
>>383593Defining peoples lives on the color of their skin is stupid imo. Yes, darkskin black people are statistically more likely to be jailed, murdered etc. But there are also other factors at play there, like socioeconomic ones and location in the world/country they are in.
But saying
>all darkskins will have terrible lives and will be oppressed >all lightskins will have better lives and have privileges Is so dumb too, yet I see people act like this is fact, all the time. Everyone’s lives are completely individual and unique with their own experiences. There’s darkskins with great lives and lightskins with horrible lives. A lot of dark skin black people believe that having lighter skinned kids will give their children easier lives. I know from experience this simply isn’t true. It more depends on wealth and the people you grow up around. I’m pretty sure that mixed kids are also at higher risk for sexual abuse and homicide too.
No. 383617
>>383574Disagree. Slavery existed within the UK but on a much smaller scale than the US. The British elites owned a lot of slaves (at least 800,000 from what I’ve read), but those slaves mostly lived in the Caribbean and the US. I think in Britain itself there were about 15,000 black slaves by the time abolition was enacted, and mostly only extremely wealthy people could own them. Compared to the US where there were 10 million black slaves by the time of abolition and even middle class families could afford to own some slaves.
The slavery aspect is somewhat hidden in the UK and not really talked about (I actually went to a seminar about slavery in Britain based in the biggest historical slave trading city in the UK, and to be honest there wasn’t many sites to visit or archives to read because there weren’t many black people living here at that time) for that reason there isn’t as much bitterness and racial tension over it as there is in the US. Not even the Jamaican immigrants who come here really talk about it to be honest, which surprises me.
I guess people know that only a tiny percentage of whites in the UK owned slaves, and these same small percentage of whites also treated poorer whites like slaves/property so there isn’t as much racial anger or resentment there. 95% of peoples ancestors in the uk were dirt poor peasants, and most people are still quite poor. America always had much more wealth and far more wealthy families who made profit off of slave labour than the UK did. For that reason I think there’s much less racial tension between blacks and whites in Britain.
Of course there’s plenty of white racists here, but in general it’s very taboo to be openly racist and everyone around them, white or otherwise, will tell them to shut up. Black people also date interracially far more than they do in the US. Last time I checked, 85% of African Americans are in a relationship with another African American person. In the UK, half of all black British men and 20% of black British women are in a relationship with a white person. Black people dating out is very normal here.
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Why do so many black people get weird when you say diversity quotas are problematic? I think it's kind of obvious picking candidates based on their ancestry is racist and classist.(bait)
No. 384247
>>384231Because we
rightfully, more often than not assume the person pointing it out is insinuating that any Black person of high status within a company wouldn’t have reached their position without quotas. Very few people know how to broach the subject without it becoming a self-soothing session for corporate ngmi’s.
No. 384784
>>384297Most innovation in tech in the modern day of silicon valley is centred around being a sexual degenerate. Youtube only exists to keep a permanent record of Janet Jackson's nip slip, Facebook was about doing smash or pass on random women, so many sites exist either to perv on women or to find "dates" and only turn it around when it doesn't really make them money. That coupled with the fact that they already see themselves as
victims for being nerds, so they feel bitter whenever they aren't being affirmed for being the next Bill Gates, who is deviant, but i don't want to derail too much.
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Unpopular opinion: it's alright for people with coily hair to wash our hair frequently (I'm a once a week person, personally. Especially cause I love somewhere hot, but I acknowledge that everyone's hair needs are different), and 4c hair isn't dry. It's just coily so sebum doesn't go down the strands as easily as straight hair, so our hair doesn't get greasy.
No. 386119
>>386087Maybe they did in the past. Millennial and Gen Z grew up with constant online bullshit. Maybe they lack the resilience. Maybe they weren’t bombarded with statistics on every negative thing about black women.
>>385974That’s my goal. I just wish living costs weren’t so high
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Saging because I don't want to be accused of promoting political infighting ITT for posting picrel.
But what are your thoughts on this news? I know Candace is a veery controversial figure for a lot of black women, her views can be very divisive. But something about kicking out the only woman (and woman of color at that) on the DailyWire team seems pretty suspect. Not to mention that rumors were circulating since October of Candace possibly parting ways ever since she got into that heated argument with Ben Shapiro over the Gaza conflict.
No. 386775
>>386764I've read a lot of comments in conservative circles that support her. I don't think race was -the- factor in this situation, because Candace was essentially kicked off for being a Christian and saying that America should stop funding other people's wars and focus on the border. Shapiro, being a jew and netenyahu supporter, didn't like that so she had to leave. As an aside: as more situations like this happen, more Americans will finally wake up to how much control jews on both political sides have over the country, especially in the media. Most Americans didn't realize that it's literally illegal to boycott Israel in nearly all states until this recent Gaza shitshow happened. Those who refuse to see how
problematic this is and dismiss people who question is as anti-semetic/tinfoil will have to eat their words eventually. The far-right Christians don't wield this much control.
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>>386764She's a grifter that only went to the right wing for profit after her attempt to pander to the left with Social Autopsy failed miserably. Anyone invested in her or what she's doing beyond realising that she's trying to earn money by any means is a moron.
No. 387052
>>387026For the ones that don’t just straight up agree, I assume it’s a “Cry in a Bentley or cry on the bus?” mentality. I feel bad for the kids that
come from this duo, though. Imagine your dad being emotionally stunted like most men, not because he was a military hardass or was raised by a similarly masculine and stoic man, but because he spent all his formative years building N-word towers on Twitter and sperging on /pol/. Poor babies never stood a chance.
No. 387343
>>387005men are so threatened by single moms because they're ultimate proof that they have become useless and obsolete.
If you have the money and want a kid I say go for it.
No. 387505
>>387286I try but it’s hard to find other like minded women. I’ve been in a few discords but it always dies out or devolves into interpersonal delusions.
I get the feeling like our mere presence annoys people. Like any media presence is automatically woke. I feel like it’s because there’s not really niche black women have, outside of stereotypical ghetto nonsense. I have to accept the fact that there is no place for me, as a black woman, anywhere in modern American society
No. 387511
>>387286I just lean into the ghetto stereotype at work.
Might as well have fun with playing a character if you’re not going to be humanised.
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Unpopular opinion: only black women know how to write black female characters, will full humanity and no ghetto bullshit. I have given hope in media in portraying us in human ways
No. 387520
>>387511But you risk violence if you play into stereotypes and people will take you at your word because people don’t recognize sarcasm and banter from black women. Everything we do and say is taken seriously, like the worst possible interpreatation.
Everyone hates black women and has nothing but contempt for us. All I ever do is bite my tongue and mind my business and someone still calls me slurs. it’s never enough.
No. 387536
>>387534How? By shucking and jiving, like other known black (male) comedians? Chris Rock? Tiffany Haddish?
>>387533This is why there are no black atheists. Raw-dogging reality only makes you suicidal
No. 387558
>>387542Most religious people are, especially Christians and Muslims. They way African Muslims grovel to Arabs and brag about their own non-existent Arab ancestry makes me sick. The only reason Arab supremacy gets a pass is because Arab slavery lasted longer and is deeply tied to religion
Religion is both a coping mechanism and a tool for main ting community. I know the church was effective at holding secret meetings for civil rights activists but they way black women onto the anti-women teachings concerns me. Especially the parts on sacrificing oneself for others
No. 387571
>>387542I agree. it's so frustrating because no matter the country the strongest communities you'll find among black people are almost always religious. And any serious talk is discouraged. I was just talking to my hair stylist about religion (she brought it up) because she's doing stuff for Easter and she's super Christian. Islam came up bc it's Ramadan and she has a Muslim sister and she refused to believe me when I told her Prophet Mohammad married a 9 year old. "That's not true"
It's better to just steer clear of the topic entirely even when directly asked. My go to will be "I'm spiritual" lmao
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Aside from the white male worship, I think she’s right on black women avoiding bisexual men.
https://femmefelines.blogspot.com/2024/03/bisexual-men-are-not-entitled-to-black.html No. 387947
>>387922I don’t support obesity either, but I don’t see how the reactions to fat people, like demeaning them or calling them disgusting, helps. Controversial I guess, but they still deserve to be treated with empathy. Being constantly insulted isn’t a good motivator for improvement, and it’s fat black girls who are more likely to get targeted and made the butt of jokes (like what happened after Precious). I don’t want attitudes that lead to girls getting bullied, you can encourage losing weight without demeaning them. Struggling students aren’t going to automatically improve from people calling them stupid all the time.
For fat people to lose a lot of weight, it requires several months to a year of consistent training, maintaining a proper diet, and self-discipline. You need to believe in yourself that you can improve and for that you need to have a sense of self-worth. I’m skinny because I stuggle with eating, and it’s my chubbier friends who work out way more often. They’re also more confident and don’t hate on themselves for being fat, they just work on improving. I’ve seen how fat girls and women get bullied and I don’t doubt that shit fucks with you mentally. The problem with fat-posi and anti fat-posi is it’s 2 extremes. No shit a lot of people with self-confidence issues are gonna go for the side that praises them over the side insulting them.
>I'm seeing more and more young black women become anachans, and I almost don't blame them with all the disgusting messaging going around.That is an equally serious health problem but closer to your aesthetic, anorexia is linked to higher health risks and high mortality rates and for these girls it’s based in the fear and shame of being fat. Fat women and anachans both need help and understanding for there to be any real improvement
No. 388003
>>387533I never want to embrace this type of misery for myself or other black women. It feels like a psyop.
>>387983Racism + misogyny. That's it.
No. 388007
>>387533I think stuff like this is so weird. By finding things and people that fulfill you and make you happy? By pushing forward and working to lead a life that makes you happy? Obviously being a black woman is hard, but experiencing hardships is just life. You guys act like being a black woman is always bleak and just complete misery. Like it's impossible to find enjoyment if you are a black woman. People want you to be miserable and you're letting it work. Sorry but I refuse to become embittered when there are still so many beautiful things and people in this world to experience, and other black woman should do the same.
And I say all of this as someone who's agnostic and doesn't really do spiritual shit besides occasionally indulging in a little light astrology.
No. 388073
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Funny how hypocritical (white) radfems can be
No. 388082
>>388073hilarious that this user is also a lesbian separatist.
Black radfems look retarded as fuck being the white woman defense league when white radfems will go about their own business whenever their fellow whites are spewing misogynoir.
No. 388186
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Question for the other Americans here: am I the only one who doesn't like the term "African-American"? I prefer Black or American or Black American. I think Africa is gorgeous and I would love to visit, but I literally have no connections to the country or family from there, so it feels strange to call myself African. Plus, we have our own culture distinct from those in Africa. I'm not African, I'm American and Black.
No. 388200
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I like how I look with unnaturally colored hair, including wigs, but I keep getting anxious that people are looking down on me for not being natural. It makes me feel guilty somehow, too, like I'm wasting my real hair (but I don't want to dye it).
At the same time, there's no winning. My real hair is long/thick, and people used to get mad at me for some reason, make nasty comments and insist it was "fake" growing up anyway. And then there's natural hair being seen as "political" or "rebellious". And if I had short hair, there'd be nothing but insults about being "bald-headed", "unable to grow hair", etc. I feel like the black woman hair experience is someone raging at or bashing you for something, no matter what.
No. 388429
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Did anyone see the original of this video? I lowkey feel for that woman, because while everyone was making their little rebuttal and reaction videos to it there was a kernel of truth and understanding in her video. The entire black community loves to break you down, loves to play pretend, gaslight, and then immediately hide their hands and act like they’re all fully secure, responsible, mentally healthy individuals who “wouldn’t be like that woman” and after they’ve played mind games and broken your spirit, you’re to collect the pieces through psychiatry and individualist self-help to go and repeat the same mindfuck and mindbreak process with people who wouldn’t even begin to understand.
No. 388572
>>388429My only problem with that video is that in her venting, she added to the existing degradation and lies that get thrown at us. It's a racist, moneymaking American lie that black women's natural hair inherently "isn't feminine" or doesn't grow, and sadly, many black women got bullied into buying into it, perpetuating it and making it into a self-fulfilling prophecy. The root is in racism, but white people don't even have to say it anymore. Black people do it for free. I've seen so many black women talk about how black men were the cruelest to them about their natural hair. It's so unnatural to me, our hair should literally be what's normal to us. It's like if some groups didn't just have things like double lid eye surgery available, but they actively made it some kind of deranged life mission to bash eachother for having epicanthic folds at all (with special, but not exclusive hatred for monolid eyes). I don't understand it.
I agree with everything else you said, though.These are all messages fed to her by other black people. This is why I don't operate in terms of a racial collective unity or "rooting for anyone black". I don't see a group of other black people and just expect them not to be cruel, because sometimes, they're the fucking worst. I feel like individualism was the right move from the start, and we've all just been fed lies about racial solidarity.
No. 388707
>>388657It just seems like a cope to me. I feel bad for any woman dating a black man in the current era.
What's weirder IMO is when they try to make it seem "woke" and "feminist" to date non-white men and ignore that on average, those men are even more misogynistic if you look at their cultures and upbringing. They're happy to ignore all the pain women of other races go through because they think being white makes them exempt, then are shocked when they get the same treatment. Like, of course a brown Muslim man or a black American man is
abusive. What did you think? Were you not listening?
No. 388719
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I have to stop using Twitter. I thought I could handle the Musk takeover and just mute/block people I find annoying but it feels like certain pages keep popping up on my screen. It’s like the worst of 2009 Twitter with the blue checks making nasty post every single day. I need to find a way to connect with my mutuals elsewhere
No. 388723
>>388669Depends. Most “positive” black female stereotypes center on how submissive and subservient a proper “mammy” is supposed to be. Like in the link above here
>>387617 you can read how most BF attention is based on how motherly they are towards non-black people. An actually successful, slim, natural BW goes against the status quo and is more hated than a stereotypical woman. America is more tolerant towards the Tiffany Haddishs and Sexxy Reds of the world than the Michelle Obama archetype.
No. 388885
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What are good places for black women to work and live in?
No. 389009
>>387339I used to make myself small to protect others from feeling envious of me.
I do think I cop a lot of envious hate from racist sexist folks who feel slighted by the fact that a single black woman is doing better than them.
No. 389108
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>>387542I was looking around to see if there are any black atheist women mentioned anywhere online. I came across this article which lists a few. I haven't read more about any of them just yet, but wanted to share this here just incase it could be useful for anyone else.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/10-fierce-atheists-unapol_b_9532692 No. 389577
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I think this is payback for BLM and that sad part is BW did it for BM. black women are an easy scapegoat and less integrated in American culture, which is why all this is happening
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna141646 No. 389579
>>389320How do you feel about non black
POC living in Africa?
No. 390274
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>>389579Tbh not much unless they are overtly racist, I grew up in Southern Africa (not SA) and there are nonblack people from my country at every income level. It wasn't just an "only see these people at private schools" thing. Had a lot of indian/arab friends as a kid didn't really think about how foreign they are, there's coloureds too but that's a whole diff discussion because they do have genetic ancestry from my country lol.
But my views on immigration are pretty conservative I just don't obsess over nonblack people in my country who already have citizenship cause what's there to do? Take away their passports and make them stateless? That's a whole warcrime. I know a lot of africans from other regions would say that but it's whatever my country has bigger things to worry about than trying to ethnic cleanse (also the people who say this shit live overseas kek).
>>389651well duh white south africans flip flop on claiming to be african a lot the older generation made a disnction of being european while everyone was either coloured or "native". But now emphasising their africaness because of coloured and black south africans are trying to make land claims.
No. 390275
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I came here to talk about how I think it's cool that debbie allen and phylicia rashad are related. Also they are both upper class southern black americans (the AKA/Jack and Jill kind). I wish I got to see more of that culture in the media (along with gullah and creole culture), because it's interesting
>>390274also forgot to add I'm not the ayrt
No. 390290
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Sometimes I see posts like the second comment that sound so dumb I just tell myself it's bait and ignore it. But then I see posts, like the third comment, that prop up the dumb comment and I feel crazy. No matter how ignorant it sounds, is it better to just ignore?
It's not worth it to argue on here with people who don't see anything malicious about the top image, claim there's no prejudice at all, or are just apathetic to an anatomy book playing into bogus race science. But it's so irritating because I didn't see this kind of denial from anons when the artist's misogyny got posted (I'm worried to see how this artist would draw a black woman, how he draws black people is all like in picrel). But in the end it's all just bait, isn't it
No. 390446
>>389992We need to not only stand up for ourselves, but only focus on ourselves. the past 4 years made me see how obsessed black women are with black men. We blame all their misogyny and hatred towards us on white supremacy and waste time yelling at random whites to fix the problem of violent men. Now look, black men are a protected class as the embodiment of anti-racism and black women are the evil DEI scapegoats. And now black conservative male podcasters and ideologues are pointing their fingers at black women and fanning the flames of hate.
Avoid n*ggas and focus only the most important things in life: family, money, education, peace of mind, etc.
>>390275I wish that upper class “Huxtable” archetype was the norm in the black community. I’m sick of ghetto behavior, because it has become inescapable and any criticism of it is seen as “internalized racism”
>>389579No strong opinion although sometimes I fear a possible recolonization in my lifetime.
No. 390449
>>390395all the women are white, all the blacks are men and where are we to stand?
Also “memetic intrusion”, I’ll remember that for the future
No. 390961
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Wtf is wrong with black women?! Why they speak like this? As a collective, when their own men hate them? Even the comments below scare me. It’s so fucking terrible. What will it take for these women to give it up
https://twitter.com/nypost/status/1778801459200430352 No. 391286
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What is it with Black women and joining every femcel trend? There's a tiktok trend of south asian women complaining about not fitting beauty standards and the backlash against avantika for rapunzel. And ofc some black women have to be like "me too! I also don't feel pretty!".
It's so annoying how some black women have an inferiority complex and need to make sure everyone knows they think they're at the bottom. Can't even say it's a zoomer/tiktok thing cause so many women did this shit on reddit and twitter too.
No. 391317
>>391301they can feel hurt and have internalized self hatred without constantly feeling the need to prove to everyone that they are inferior. there's internalized self hatred and then there's having an inferiority complex that prevents you from having perspective/common perspective. You can feel insecure about your features but if it gets to the point to where you see someone else complaining about their features and feel the need to go "well I have it worse", also make sure to mention that everyone sees black women at the bottom. Then it's just making them a shittier person both to other BW they defo project these insecurities to and to the nonblack women whose insecurities they turn into a competition about.
Like I'm not one to police venting but it's literally not about us and just other black women putting themselves down because that's the expectation.
No. 391356
>>391286The
femcel label is new, but the behavior is not. Black women who don’t meet conventional beauty standards or their own community standards are shunned everywhere and thus they feel a sense of strong desire to show they belong. whether that is by religion, social justice, nerd stuff, etc.
I know those ladies are better off for not fucking with ghetto men but there’s more to life than relationships.
No. 391358
>>391286>>391317The girls who feel like this have every right to express how the world has made them felt. And who the fuck says "
femcel"?
No. 391437
>>391429>White men that fetishize black women also tend to be into the pornified image of black women. BBL and perma-weave types.Not really. Especially in the Nordic countries there are a lot of guys who just prefer black women to other races. Look at the type of black women that Boris Becker dated. These guys are usually nerdy, spergy (especially about punctuality) and boring so I'm not saying black women should all move to Germany or Scandinavia but this idea that educated black women either have to go with guys from the ghetto or just go without simply isn't true
>NTA but I thought Russian moids were known to be racist, or is that a meme? They aren't racist in the sense that they hate black people but they are incapable of understanding that there are certain things about race that you just aren't supposed to say. In Russian culture it is considered perfectly normal to say what we would regard as racist comments about Jews, Asians, Armenians, Chechens and even Russians (Russians will point blank say that Jews and Asians are smarter than they are).
Really, I wouldn't recommend Russian men. Never dated one, but I have dealt with them extensively.
No. 391506
>>391499>They think because BW have such low social value, they can behave in any way to herBut that really isn't it. Some guys just like dark skin and African features.
White guys who date black women aren't any worse than any other type of moid
No. 391835
>>391422>>391426My experience with Nordic men is that they think we are very very sexy, not even for our body types, but more so, just for the fact that our skin color is so different from theirs. The main thing they say they like about it is "the contrast", and how that alone drives them wild. We are very exotic to them. Major league "but" here though. But, while they find you to be insanely sexy and will trip over themselves to be around you, understand that it is entirely fetishistic. It's their ultimate fantasy, that they thought they'd never have an opportunity to experience in real life. What I'm saying is, it's difficult for them to understand you as a person. It almost shocks them to their core, once they realize that you have genuine feelings. They're so busy thinking about wanting to have this fantasy sex with you, that they can't hear much of what you're actually saying. They'll often just swat it away, and tell you to stop thinking so much. Stop being human and experiencing emotions that doesnt follow the fantasy. Understand? It usually scares them away once they realize that you're just as complex as they are. Then suddenly, you're too much work. It isnt going the way that the porn they watched goes. Even the most kindest Nordic man I know struggled for 2 years to understand me and why I was not attracted to him. They are a lot nicer than American men to me, so I do prefer to be around them, but so far I have not met one that I would ever date.
No. 392504
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i just want a hair product that makes all this easier. want to wear me hair out more but i have a lot of it (all the way down my back with no shrinkage) and detangling is so fucking annoying. i usually just wear cute head wraps lol. but i want to wear my actual hair, don't want braids at all
No. 392524
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>>389577Old but blm is more like BMLM(black male lives matter). Its very clear black men think they own us. Not much different from the white supremacist who think white women are causing the white race to go extinct because they have rights. Picrel is from men commenting on a post about a teenaged girl who was killed by her dad. These comments are from 2019(right before the George Floyd shit). I just know they were one of the first to get up and arms over some asshole bottom of the barrel black MAN getting killed.
No. 392675
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How do y'all feel about segregation and ethnostates?
No. 392720
>>392675This is such a black american conversation, and i genuinely would never talk to anyone who isn't also black american about this, even if they, themselves, were still black - they dont understand the history and are usually lacking in their own civil rights/pride. Integration was unironically a mistake and even martin luther king jr admitted his regret on pushing for it. This isn't even mentioning how black wallstreet was bombed. Anyways, these types of conversations should never be fucking had on fucking
reddit of all places, absolutely filled with coons and digital blackface. Deadass, some motherfucker that works for the cia is tracking her phone and labeling her a terrorist this very moment!!
(racebaiting) No. 392726
>>392675I wish it was mandatory for history lessons about africa to be taught in american schools.
>>392724Tbf, more black americans have been visiting Africa lately and it's probably making them soften up on black americans.
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I don’t mind the “pinkie pie is black” headcanons but god, why do so many woke artists draw her as the most racist caricature ever and get praised for being inclusive? It’s like some zoomer artists are allergic to drawing beautiful black women. It’s not like you have to give Eurocentric features to make a black woman beautiful. Picrel has smaller eyes, a flatter nose, and fuller lips, even if her skin was light, you could tell she’s a black woman.
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Why do so many black people think stuff like this happens because of their skin color? My white relatives have been through the same stuff with medical staff of all races..
No. 392994
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Tinfoiling that I pissed a bitch off in /ot/ and she's still mad
>ugly man psyop thread
>post about how gross an old scrote is in a pic where he's kissing on a woman young enough to be his granddaughter
>some racist bitch shits up a tantrum after I say black women are too good for ugly, genetically worthless and senile scrotes
>retard gets banned
>other anon also gets banned for "scrotefoiling" when they respond to the seething retard
>apparently it was a female
>random race-baiting thread posts being made specifically about black women approximately ever since
I have a feeling of who it is, and it starts with the first letter of the word "piss".
No. 393012
>>392675No thanks, look at modern Africa. Men have every access to beat and rape women and they get away with it thanks to culture and religion. The more time I spend around black people the more I hate them. Black misogyny is the core rot in all black communities and no one ever speaks on this.
Imagine being colonized three times. Arabs, whites, and now the Chinese! The Chinese in Africa literally have segregated neighborhoods. Losers!
No. 393100
>>393090I’m not against it at all but I feel like there’s always an ulterior motive with white men, either they are ultra liberal and trying to prove to everyone how based and open minded they are, or they’re porn addicted nazis with an Ebony woman fetish and fantasize about eradicating blackness through ‘bleaching’ us (their gross incel terms)
90% of black men are trash but a white man will never understand our struggle or even pretend to genuinely care about it tbh
No. 393237
>>393090at first i was cool with it but in recent years its been starting to give me the same exact ick as black men and white women relationships but to a way lesser degree. I think tik tok disillusioned me to these relationships because usually the woman seems more obsessed than the man. The white man is not that cute and the black woman is too beautiful. Also the whole pasta and lobster thing is so fucking cringe. But i understand especially for suburban black girls it's due to proximity more often than not and also the fact that black suburban guys are cruel and anti black af so its easy to be turned off by them if you were
victim to their cruelty. However white boys cruelty is worse imo.
Personally I could never date a white man especially the more i learn about black history it just is what it is. I am also paranoid af and would always think that one day he'll read one too many racist memes on reddit and become radicalized lol. And the older I get the more value I see in black love. More than anything though black and white coupling is just such a boring mix to see because the white person in question is always gassed up to a weird degree and the black woman is always so "lucky" to find him. Also also if hes not racist someone in his family for sure is and I just don't got time. And on a racist note I can't date lipless beings who burn in the sun. More power to you if you can get past that. In the end all men are disgusting creatures more often than not no matter the race. It's just white men have the best reputation and the most money on average so it's easier for them to go all out on dates and be heralded as the perfect man when really they all cut from the same cloth of fuckery. i'll take my ban
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I really hate when black people see other black people doing something they don't approve of and claim that white people would never do those types of things. E.g. wearing weave. White women wear fake hair all the time, but black people never question it because they never expect anyone besides black women to prove if their hair is real. And whenever you see a black women doing/wearing something promiscuous people immediately bring white people into the conversation, like go to a rave/EDM festival and I promise you will realize they are not pure saints kek. It's not that white people don't engage in the same behaviors as black people, it's that people either choose to ignore it or aren't exposed to it because they don't actually hang around white people.
No. 394248
>>393833Despite all the "woke snowflakes" comments about zoomers I actually feel they tend to be more misogynistic/racist/misogynoiristic than previous generations, just under a thin veil of virtue signaling. They have no problem believing and perpetuating sexist and racist rhetoric as long as it's worded in the "right" way. It's actually quite depressing how many zoomer black girls and women have such strong internalized misogynoir and do not even see it that way.
>>393752Celibate women are not weird, it's sad that female celibacy is seen as "settling" when in fact for women regardless of race most heterosexual relationships are the real settling. The truth is that the vast majority of men regardless of race are unlovable because they're horrible people, but still manage to trap a woman through societal-level negging and yes, "black women are ugly and unlovable and the best they can get is fetishization" is untrue and yet another form of negging to get black women to settle over any crumb of moid attention. It may seem counterproductive at first, but if you prefer to stay single and prioritize yourself you're actually more likely to find one of the few worthy men. Also shilling either black love or interracial is pointless, putting any race of men on a pedestal over others actually makes you more likely to let your guard down around said race of men and tolerate more of their bullshit.
>>393725Who is she? She's so cute!
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>>394248THANK YOU
NONNIE. we need to wake up and realize that not being "picked" and being seen on the bottom of the dating pool is a BLESSING. Every race of woman is suffering I don't care how hot or unattractive she is behind closed doors they are all miserable and getting on reddit to complain about their alleged nigels. Say what you want about tik tok btu what i love about it is that it opened my eyes to the reality of the world. It doesn't matter the race of woman and the race of the man she chooses to partner, most women are not being fulfilled in relationships and are only seeking romance because it is constantly shilled to us as something we NEED in order to survive. Like we aren't real women if a man doesn't "choose" us in this life. Meanwhile a2 lot of these women of other races with seemingly better dating lives and prospects will end up single the second they stop putting out, get sick or nag too much. Hell all a lot of them have to do is pop a baby out or just dare to age to be left in the dust by a scrote. BLack women we are ahead of society because society thinks not granting us access to these men will destroy us but really its just showing us proof that we don't need to be tethered to men. We can make it on our own and have been for decades.
The more i learn about slavery and what enslaved black women had to go through the more I realize that black women just need to worry about themselves. Did you know enslaved men could opt out of work seen as "women's work" and they would! They would complain to the enslaver and the enslaver would agree and make the woman do the "woman's work" But meanwhile women had to do work the fields AND cook and clean. Not to mention a lot enslaved women were married so after a long day of slaving away they would have to come home and cook and clean for their partner. Once i found this out i was done. Marriage is a trap, the same way settling down wiht a man is a trap. Every black woman that I know that didn't make it to 60 let alone 50 all died early due to the stress the men in their lives caused them. We are blessed to not be "picked".
other races of women may be picked and get that "happily ever after" but it only lasts but for so long before the man shows his true colors. People love to say that black women are all single mothers but most married women are single mothers. if 50% of the population ends up divorced that means 50% of married women are effectively single mothers. Most of these men just get "visitation" Sure there are men who don't cheat or won't switch up. But do you really want to take that chance in 2024 when race relations and gender relations are only getting worse? No maam.
All women need is a good vibrator, a hobby and friends. I used to think hearing that was bullshit but its fucking TRUE. Men have just brainwashed us into thinking we need them they literally just need us to need them.
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>>394265
they only stripped us of our womanhood because they needed to in order to not be seen as hypocrites for making black women work and to justify raping us. A lot of enslavers were puritans and puritans believed that having sex for pleasure was sinful and they would only sleep with their wives to procreate. But of course men are disgusting coomers and were not living celibate lives. They would fuck barnyard animals on the regular. It was so bad that THAT is why we have STDs.
At first the enslaved were only men but they largely kept dying in large numbers due to disease and mistreatment. They needed more slaves and it would be too expensive to keep going back and forth and kidnapping black men and you know damn well they were not letting black men sleep with their women. so they added black women not only to increase the workload but so they could birth more slaves. They HAD to dehumanize black women in order to justify having unfettered access to our bodies and wombs but still preaching the word of their demon god that told them women were pure and not allowed to seek sex. They justified it to their white wives by making them believe their husband is fucking on everything but her because she is "too pure" and black women (really little girls) were "sexual savages" that needed to be tamed.
Did you know in some states an enslaved man and his child could both be labeled free if it was revealed he slept with a white woman and she birthed his child? There were many cases of this happening. But get this! enslaved women (lets be real little girls and teens) who birthed a white man's child was not only STILL not free but both her and her kid had to work the fields. Black men have never been in solidarity with us and have always been in cahoots with white women and men for their own upward mobility.
Did you know black women didnt gain the right to vote until 1965. NINETEEN SIXTY FIVE!! 96 YEARS after black men and 45 years after white women. Obviously we learned this in school but i think we often forget just how recent it is for I need black women to wake up and realize we are all we have and all we have ever needed in this world since we were forced here. Black men were never going to save us and neither are any of these nonblacks. WE are truly the most hated because we are the most anointed. They have to give us insecurities and make us feel like we are less than from birth so we never see our own light. Why do you think everyone works so hard to keep black women insecure? They know with security comes power.
No. 394274
>>394272>Did you know in some states an enslaved man and his child could both be labeled free if it was revealed he slept with a white woman and she birthed his child? There were many cases of this happening. But get this! enslaved women (lets be real little girls and teens) who birthed a white man's child was not only STILL not free but both her and her kid had to work the fieldsThis is insane, I didn't realize mixed race children were granted/denied freedom based on which of their parents were white. The way people talk about this, you'd think they were all automatic slaves if they had a black parent. I wonder why this particular fact isn't usually mentioned in discussions of the slave trade.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Children_of_the_plantation>"Children of the plantation" is a euphemism used[by whom?] to refer to people with ancestry tracing back to the time of slavery in the United States in which the offspring was born to black African female slaves (either still in the state of slavery or freed) in the context of the trans-Atlantic slave trade and Non-Black men, usually the slave's owner, one of the owner's relatives, or the plantation overseer. These children were often considered to be the property of the slave owner and were often subjected to the same treatment as other slaves on the plantation. Many of these children were born into slavery and had no legal rights, as they were not recognized as the legitimate children of their fathers. The men who fathered these children often used their power and authority to force themselves upon the black females (girls and/or women) (often 13 to 16 years old or when they commenced menstruation) who were under their control.
>Plantation owners raping female slaves was a common occurrence. These children were born into slavery, through a legal doctrine known as partus sequitur ventrem.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Partus_sequitur_ventrem>Partus sequitur ventrem (lit. 'that which is born follows the womb'; also partus) was a legal doctrine passed in colonial Virginia in 1662 and other English crown colonies in the Americas which defined the legal status of children born there; the doctrine mandated that children of slave mothers would inherit the legal status of their mothers. As such, children of enslaved women would be born into slavery. >The doctrine's most significant effect was placing into chattel slavery all children born to enslaved women. Partus sequitur ventrem soon spread from the colony of Virginia to all of the Thirteen Colonies. As a function of the political economy of chattel slavery in Colonial America, the legalism of partus sequitur ventrem exempted the biological father from relationship toward children he fathered with enslaved women, and gave all rights in the children to the enslaver. The denial of paternity to enslaved children secured the enslavers' right to profit from exploiting the labour of children engendered, bred, and born into slavery.[2] The doctrine also meant that multiracial children with white mothers were born free. No. 394277
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>>394274thank you for adding sources and more details to this queen! I learned about this reading Angela Davis Book "Women, Race, and Class. I implore all nonnies to read it if you haven't. It talks about the unique triangulation black women have had to face regarding our gender, class, and race in America. It opened my eyes so much to just how badly black women have been treated by EVERYONE yet we always fight for EVERYONE'S rights while everyone fights for themselves.
If anyone has any black feminist book recommendations please let me know!
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Here's another thing that comes to mind that's likely a cultural holdover from partus sequitur ventrem. Elridge Cleaver, a prominent member of the Black Panthers, raped multiple black women, and rationalized his acts as "practice" for raping white women as an "insurrectionary act". I always thought pic related was just his mentally ill opinion and he was a deranged, misogynistic rapist POS, but now I'm convinced he was a deranged, misogynistic rapist POS, and his particular psychosis was based off of a legacy of deliberate, pre-written (not implied or influenced, literally decreed) rules encoded into American society about how moids can attain "freedom" under slavery. Funny how black men could do this and have an "out", but black women couldn't. With this and the voting laws, it feels a lot like men will always write laws that somehow privilege themselves and each other, even if they're separated by racism lol.
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>>394287The one belief that unites men across racial, ethnic, religious, economic class and political lines is that women are their property. The strife arises over which women "belong" to which men. This is also why (especially but not exclusively black) women are more expected to have "race loyalty" and are way harsher judged for being "race traitors" than men are and also why women are derided and blamed even for experiencing abuse in interracial relationships but
abusive males of the same race are defended.
No. 394602
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Anyone struggle with not really being able to relate to "blackness" as a concept? Being "authentic" to the culture(s) I was born into and media made by/for people "just like me" sometimes feels comically inauthentic. I've always felt this profound sense of alienation around other black people, and I don't really know why. One side of my family used to mock me for it, and it doesn't really help that I grew up with a lot of ""white"" oriented books, cartoons, etc. I had a retarded self-hating phase when I was younger until I realized I was just looking for excuses to justify my own feelings of being an outsider. There are definitely lots of cultural issues spanning the diaspora that depress me, but moids are most of the problem, and it's not as if everyone's like that. I still get accused of being white for my interests, my accent, the food I like, and even the way I type online. I know it's because non-black people often struggle to understand us outside the lens of stereotypes and media, but it just adds to that feeling of isolation. Sometimes, my bf jokes about me being white (I don't let him).
I used to feel guilty and kind of embarrassed for gravitating more to "white" and Asian music, fashion and hobbies growing up because that's not considered "being real", but I've always just acted on what feels right and naturally appeals to me. Nowadays, it's easier to find other black women who are into the same things, so I feel less alone, but I don't know if I'll ever shake off that feeling of something not being quite "right". I still feel kind of ashamed for feeling this way, but I can post this because this nona was able to share her story
>>378506. I don't know what to say to her, but I relate to her a lot and I hope she doesn't feel alone. This isn't exactly something I think of every day, but sometimes I'm reminded, and it's just like "Ah".
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>>394602>I was born into and media made by/for people "just like me" sometimes feels comically inauthenticThis reminds me of the Onion article, "Sale of BET to White Supremacist Company Surprisingly Results in No Change of Programming"
The truth is, there is no "right" way to be Black. And what we think of as Black culture is really just Black
American culture. You have to love your people but you don't have to particularly ~like~ them.
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>>394602Are you projecting that you don’t feel black enough to other black people?
I got that vibe from a black acquaintance with a non black husband and friends. Like she was othering me on a subconscious level.
I hope you come to terms with your identity one day.