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No. 135428
I like my boobs fine but bras are just the worst and I struggle so hard to find good ones. Even reading through stuff like
>>135409, using calculators and measuring tape, getting professionally fitted, etc. The only bras I've ever liked are random shitty kmart ones that are ugly but happen to be comfortable. And that's a crapshoot, I'll buy the same size in a different style and it will fit badly. But the time I got professionally fitted and bought a bunch of expensive bras at their recommendation, they were all uncomfortable and poorly fitted. It was such a waste of money I can't bring myself to try anything but cheap bras.
I think the problem is I have a wide ribcage with small boobs and I must be particularly sensitive to tightness in that area. It's the same with sports bras, it feels like it's always too tight, even if I go up multiple sizes. I also feel like straps are often too short and don't extend long enough to sit comfortable.
No. 135447
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Am kinda happy with my tits but they have rather puffy areolas and when I bend down they look like pic related. Not a concern in my daily virginal life kek but makes me kinda embarrassed thinking about any future partners ever seeing them from that angle. They get less like that when I put on weight but I am like smack dab the middle of BMI so I would rather the fuck not.
Overall I spent many years hating my tits and wishing they were smaller because they developed early and I wanted to reject the notion of me being female (read: sexism and objectification) but I have grown to accept them over the years. Besides the nipples/thing above.
No. 135458
>>135438Same anon, I feel you
I even feel kinda guilty when taking my bra off before sex, they're not prepared for the disappointement.
I couldn't care less about the size, I just want a decent boob shape
No. 135488
>>135430I thought about getting reduction surgery but my mom had to get her breasts removed and then build up again with implants due to health reasons and it didn't turn out well at all, she's super unhappy about it. Plus I'm still a student, so atm I wouldn't have the money for it.
In my country if they're really big, so that you've get back pain, they might grant you surgery for free, but that's certainly not the case for me.
Has anybody had surgery already? Are there good clinics for especially that?
>>135486Damn, I'm jealous, that's exactly what I would want.
Having large ones just always makes you look like a bimbo if you attempt to wear something that's not completely baggy.
No. 135492
>>13539432C cup.
They’re perky and even. The nipple on my left is a little oddly shapen, but I don’t mind it any more. I hate how my chest is veiny.
No. 135505
>>135501Can I ask you a couple of questions? How old were you when you got it done? What size were you before and after? And how much did it cost?
I know that some people would tell me being a D is still okay, and it's not like I have any pain whatsoever, so I'm a bit worried that a surgeon would just tell me off.
If I got skinnier I might could go back to a C cup but a B like in my earlier teens is probably pretty much impossible.
No. 135707
>>135699Yeah, and they're quite dark. Yeah, a guy would notice but if he gives you shit about it then he wasn't worth undressing for.
I pluck them sometimes but they just grow back
No. 135731
>>135449I'm exactly the same anon, it's comforting to know somebody else is in the same boat. The only boobs I've ever really seen that look like mine have been early transition trans women.
I started smoking when I was 14 and also had a brief sort-of eating disorder around the same age, I always wonder if either of those things sort of stunted their growth?
No. 135732
>>135728I'm a DD and I go braless mostly in the winter months. I have back issues that get worse in the cold but I take advantage of having multiple layers on and go braless whenever I have hoodies or a jacket on anyway.
I feel too exposed doing it in just a t-shirt or single layer.
No. 135744
>>135717Literally same! I didn't even know there's anything wrong with my boobs until I came across it online one day when looking up something unrelated.
I kinda accepted they will never look "nice" as I would never get breast surgery. I cringe at the thought of having fillers there.
No. 135745
>>135717Sorry for doubleposting, I'm the anon from
>>135744If it makes anyone feel better 99% of men will not notice shit. I have never gotten a single comment and all of them were just happy to play with them idk
I am not sure how that would work with women but I can't imagine anyone minding much tbh if they're a decent human being.
No. 135887
>>135839My mom had a lump checked out at our local family planning centre (probably the equivalent to say planned parenthood in the us?) sadly it did turn out to be cancer and her diagnosis was pretty swift after an exam led to a quick referral to hospital. At no point did they pester her go get a gyno exam. If you have a clear concern over a lump or change in breast tissue they will concentrate on that issue.
Are you overdue for a smear test and worried because of that?
No. 136108
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my tits have started sagging noticeably. i'm 27 and they look like pic related. is this tragic or is this normal as you get into your late twenties?
they were perfect when i was 20, i considered them my best physical attribute. now they're kind of sad.
No. 136120
>>136108mine are saggier and smaller than the picture and im 21 lmao
I am sure yours are really great anon!
No. 136362
>>135755I feel so much less alone now!! I get a decent amount of hair around my nipples too but it's pretty unnoticeable except a few strands, which always end up ingrown. I've had scarring to at least some extent for around two years because it's a never-ending cycle of healing them, getting bothered by the ugly ingrown dots when they grow back, plucking, and repeat. I'm planning on getting laser hair removal once the corona bullshit blows off because I think it'd be a worthwhile investment.
Otherwise, I like my boobs tbh. They're small but perky and getting nipple piercings has helped me feel like they can actually be ~sexy~.
No. 136482
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Anybody here get insecure about their areolae? Mine are quite large and my sister used to call them “burger nipples”.
No. 136522
>>136511I have many reasons for not wanting kids but maintaining the structural integrity of my vag/boobs is near top of the list. I don't want to fuck them up and I don't want surgery, I can't stand the thought of permanent changes to my body.
I thought big boobs held up better after breastfeeding compared to small boobs though, I have small ones and don't wanna end up looking like gimpgirl.
No. 136557
>>136511I think it depends on genetics. I have two kids (different ages), breastfed them until they were 15 months, and my boobs are as perky as they were before. I went from a 34b to 34F (while breastfeeding) and then down to a 34c. I have just a couple of stretchmarks on each boob but that's it.
My sister had the same results (except her boobs were smaller so after she was done with her kid she got implants).
No. 136666
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Ever since i read about tubular breasts I got anxious to see if mine were. I’m not really sure what my breast shape is tbh since Ive grown up fat all my life but I’m sure that they were meant to be small
No. 136847
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Hairy nip girls, does it ever go away? Have any of you plucked, shaved, waxed, lasered your titty hairs and they STAY gone? I'm just getting real tired of plucking and hoping one day they will be too weak and brittle to even grow back, but this has been going on for some years now…
No. 136848
>>136847Plucked mine from my teens til my late twenties and it made no difference here. Always grew back the same.
I leave em alone now, just happy that my body hair stopped bothering me after all those years of obsessing over it
No. 137115
>>136993what was your size before and after the reduction? how saggy were they compared to now? was it just a reduction, or reduction + lift?
i've thought about it but all the before/after pics i find have had a lift and/or implants…
No. 137169
>>137111Really? Well then I must have naturally anti-gravity boobs. Which one is more likely?
Jokes aside, the most important part, not having kids, has nothing to do with gravity. I admit the rest could just be lucky genetics, but working out and not having them hang loose surely benefited at least a bit.
No. 137214
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Has anyone had a breast lift? I had kids stupidly young and now I'm 23 with super saggy boobs (they look like grade 3) I've worked hard to get in shape but my boobs make it all seem pointless. I want to get a breast lift but I'm nervous about it and would like to hear from people who either have really saggy boobs or had them but got them fixed. Any advice on making them look perkier is super welcome.
No. 137229
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guess mine are around 75cm
what about you anons
No. 137232
>>137229I just realized that's a SC chart HAH.
I am Tira.
>>137214It's tempting anon but really think about it because the scars are pretty bad. Momokun got it and I can see her lollipop scars every now and then even thru her shoop because she redid her areola too.
Note that if you have significant sagging it is impossible to do the breast lift without redoing your areola.
Imo unless you're personally affected because you don't have gravity-defying boobs, no one else cares about the sagging. I've literally had guys tell me it's just because my tits are big. Basically the sagging is expected, anyone who isn't a porn-addicted cumbrain understands how volume and gravity work.
No. 137253
>>137214I feel like mine is the last one, they're saggy but my nipples aren't low or pointing downwards…? What causes that?
Also, does anybody else have the problem that their tits sit low in general, like not even sagging, they just naturally grew too low on your ribcage?
No. 137303
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>>137194some of you guys need to go look at the types of nudes guys share between each other. Everyones got their own preferences. There is no "perfect ideal"
No. 137314
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>>137214Oof anon mine are grade 3 too! kinda look like pic related.
I've thought about getting a lift too, but I'd be afraid of them being botched and ending up looking like Himeka/Angela's. Doesn't seem worth it in the end.
>>137303I mean I was under the impression that most people don't care. Most decent people anyway.
No. 139161
>>135501How were they ruining your life, they sounded like a blessing?
>>135505Large breasts causing back pain is mostly a myth. Back pain is one of them most common ailments for both men and women and it's usually caused by a mixture of poor posture, pinched nerves, not working on flexibility, and obesity. Getting a breast reduction just for the potential of getting back pain in the future is misguided.
No. 139221
I have most possibly the ugliest breasts in existence and I still need to find a woman with similar ones.
They're a D/E cup, saggy as hell, and big. (think
>>137314 but more triangular in shape)
However the breast tissue starts under my armpits. I thought with losing weight it would go down but nah, they still start under there.
I can put my whole hand in between my tits, to the point where even if i wear a cute bra and a tight shirt I still have a big ass gap in between them. Even if I squish them together there's still a gap there.
Oh and to end it all, i have pancake nipples.
Even my mother admits my tits are tragic.
I can't wait to get them done.
No. 139236
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>>135394My boobs are probably my biggest insecurity. Last time I got them measured they were D cups, but they look pretty average sized. It’s their shape that bothers me, they seem really low-set so there’s this unflattering area of flatness at the top of my chest, and then beneath that my boobs bulge out. My nipples are low on the boob, not facing downwards but kind of outwards, it’s like two water balloons coming off my chest. One of them is a little lower than the other as well. I just wish they were rounder and fuller — actually, I’d rather just be flat. It’s weird how much it bothers me, knowing if it was on another girl I’d see no problem at all.
No. 139237
>>139221Hey it's me you're looking for! Exact same description lol, including the the distance between them and the massive hideous areolas. Fuck my entire life honestly, I have never been able to undress with a partner without feeling unbearable shame, and even on my own I'm repulsed if I see myself in the mirror. It sucks the joy out of getting fit or finding cute clothes, what's even the point when no one would ever find me genuinely hot without clothes.
I'm also going to get a lift. I already tried getting the areolas reduced, which was a really quick operation under local analgesia, and it did make them perky enough because so much skin was removed, but who would've guessed it, in a few months they had stretched back to the original size. I stg I'm going to fix them, I don't want to feel like this anymore.
No. 139247
>>139221>>139237Hey, I'm just a nobody (straight female to boot lol).
But at least that image isn't as bad as you guys seem to make it to be.
I think the ones pictured has some beauty to them, just like many other breasts out there.
Any boy- or girlfriend worth their salt shouldn't complain imo.
No. 139635
>>139237>>139380I'm OP coming with an update cause why not.
Do you girls both also have the "boob starting under armpit" thing too?
Cause it's being my nightmare right now.
They reopened shops here so my mother and I quickly went looking for clothes, I needed new bras. To my surprise I'm a full E cup, not a D. (I didnt gain weight I just forgot lmao) In my country it's very hard to find cute E bras..
However, what is making my shopping journey impossible right now is the under-arm boobs. I hate the fat deposit there. Every bra looks EXTREMELY bad on me unless it has additional vertical underwire on the straps.
My mother even looked confused at me and asked:"Wait why do you have fat there??" out of frustration as everything looked bad on me.
Thanks mother.. I'm build like this. Whatever.
I'm 23 btw I'm just close with her and we like shopping together.
To add, since first anon said she hates her big areolas and got them done: I don't hate mine per se, I think the shape of my boobs and unfortunate structure is far worse than the big areolas. When I talk boob job, I talk a whole re-shaping.. which would probably cost me a fortune :(
I also recently got a small-boobed gf and I already feel like dying at the thought of undressing in front of her.
No. 141277
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Do shallow 28D cup breasts 'look' closer to A-cups or B-cups?
No. 141440
>>135458>>135438Fuck I can relate so much. Thank you for making me feel not alone dear anons. I couldn't care less about size, but fuck the deflated sag and huge and wrinkly areolas. They have been like that since earliest development. On top I have such a veiny chest, so I look like a map. I have an hourglass figure, a nice face, but my boobs look like shit, in every position. I hate taking my clothes off, I even look stupid in most bras, I can't find a well looking bikini and push ups don't work for me at all.
I have always felt like I'm the only young person with sad saggers and I've been self conscious for decades now.
I really want surgery but am afraid and poor. fml
No. 141461
>>141440Ugh you're not the only one, I always looked like that from the time my breasts developed and I waited for them to become pretty but turns out that's not how it works.
I feel like shit reading the replies to support threads where women with small breasts talk about their insecurities, which are also very
valid of course, just the responses are always like "many guys like small breasts, all boobs are great to us so don't worry we're just happy if we get to play with boobs haha! And at least small breasts aren't saggy, that's much worse, saggy boobs are so disgusting and gross and I had an ex whose ugly boobs looked like two oven mitts and I was so revolted. So don't worry, your breasts are good, all boobs are so nice and women stress about this way too much!!!"
I've been saving a bunch of money and will get surgery after this corona shit is over. I hate seeing the moment of hidden disappointment even in kind guys who want to make me feel confident, I just want to enjoy being intimate without all this shame and stress. It makes me cry tears of joy to think it doesn't have to be this way if I get in a relationship again. I've gotten so much stronger and leaner too during quarantine, I would actually love my body so much, finally.
No. 141465
>>141461Samefag from above, I totally feel you anon, could've written this myself.
> Tears of you joy to think it doesn't have to be this way I hate waking up naked just to make sure my own bf doesn't see an inch of my breasts in broad daylight.
I hope your surgery goes well and that you can enjoy your new found self-love. I too will save up because honestly, all the scarring and debt couldn't be uglier than what I have now. I've tried so long to love myself and accept my body as it is but I just can't and it's about time to feel secure in my own skin.
No. 141478
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I know most breasts are asymmetrical but mine bothers me so much. I think my right was is super nice and I like the way it looks, but my left one sags significantly more. Right is all cute and perky and the left goes almost underneath itself.
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>>141483nayrt
the right side of my face is my good side but my left tit is the better tit
No. 142370
>>142362The term would be breast tissue which I mentioned already.
And it's not easy to tell. There are far more fakebois and FtMs than fitgirls (and fitgirls can get flat). So all the search engine results for getting a flatter chest just point to surgery or FtM stuff.
No. 142798
>>142711I didn't like them when I was growing them and I still don't like them, it doesn't mean I want to take hormones or graft a sausage made out of my arm skin onto my crotch.
Going to have to question "desperate" or any negative connotation. I find exercise as a healthier way of going about this than going under the knife, or trying to convince myself that I'm the opposite gender and something "wrong" happened just because I'd be androgynous.
No. 142804
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Anyone else have axillary/accessory breast tissue? Mine looks like pic related but a bit less noticeable. I went and got it checked out earlier this year because it was a sore lump, and I thought it could be a swollen lymph node or worse. Nope, the doctor told me that during fetal development, we have vestigial mammary stem cells along the "milk line", which runs down each side of the torso like where cat/dog/etc nipples are. Usually these go away leaving only our 2 human breasts but sometimes the process gets fucked up and leaves a patch of breast tissue behind. This is also apparently how some people have 3rd nipples. Mine changes size slightly with my menstrual cycle along with my normal breast tissue.
I'm wondering if anyone has experience with this, did their tissue change size when they gained weight? I don't mind how mine looks now, it is a bit asymmetrical but not enough that I want surgery, but it does get sore and tender often and if it got much bigger it would start to be a problem aesthetically. Have you had any other problems with it?
No. 142805
>>142623That's the exact amount of weight I lost. Obviously it's different for everyone, but mine got significantly smaller, like down 3 cup sizes. They're not as full as they were, but not necessarily saggy either. The biggest bummer is the tiny stretch marks I had there got much more noticeable. Turns out you get stretch marks not only from gaining weight, but from losing it too. Ive still gotten compliments on them, so it can't be that bad I guess.
I've heard microneedling is good for stretch marks, but I'm scared to do that on my tits. Does anybody know anything about that?
No. 143052
>>143051I've been arguing with the shitty anons over their nasty posts about Kiwi specifically thinking of posts like
>>142822, your reaction is exactly what I was worried about.
Do they really think their words have no impact on anyone other than the person they're criticizing? When you call them out on it, they have every excuse in the book. Like oh, she deserves it because she's a bad person, she deserves it because she's naked on the internet, it's her job to have a perfect body. But that's not how reality works, anyone who looks similar will feel insulted. And the dumbest part is… she has a great body and nice boobs. It's totally unwarranted and I honestly just think they're jealous. They really can't stand girls getting attention from men for any reason and have a knee jerk reaction to pick on anything they possibly can. And since she's got a nice body, they have to go for her nipples.
No. 143057
>>143052Ah yes I think I saw you on there
Ya know it’s hypocritical cuz I obviously am on this website, but there is a lot of nasty vibes coming off of some farmers.
There’s a lot of girls who self admittedly like to cause negativity and arguments on the threads, and on top of that imageboard culture thrives on internalized misogyny.
That kiwi chick is cute as hell, she seems annoying but wtf so does everyone else on the Internet. I feel like the people tearing apart her image are feuding for what shoes going through, even though they hate her
No. 143073
I'm
>>142822 anon and I also read the Kiwi nitpick
>>143052 mentioned. I wanted to post in here again but whatever, it seems to be a moot point. It's not that I'm not nitpicky myself sometimes, but usually it's about stuff that people could fix. Never about stuff like stretchmarks, cellulite or how someone is built. You can't perk up saggy boobs. There are slim girls with saggy breasts and big nipples. It really makes me sad and I just think that I'm right and no other young person looks like me and can relate. Those boobs are just not seen anywhere. I guess I will just have to spend thousands of dollars to look ok.
No. 143109
>>143051It's unnecessary and should be banned imo. The kinds of people that go on and on about a cow's parts (esp vagina and breasts) are doing nothing but clog threads and spread shitty incel tier body image. I don't doubt the people that talk shit have body image issues themselves but it's better to take away their ability to vomit their brain-damage out at everyone. Maybe if they stop being able to nitpick cows, they will learn that nitpicking isn't fruitful to anybody.
Legitimate cows have qualities besides being sort of ugly so it won't degrade board quality to ban these people on-sight.
No. 143260
>>143243Mine are pierced, does that count?
I have to admit that I find erect nipples kind of nicer than inverted ones.
No. 143359
>>143246So it can relate to being horny. The more you know.
Glad I'm not alone!
>>143260I guess it counts. Perky is perky.
Yeah, they look nice but somehow I still got insecure because I feel different.
No. 143428
>>143360Google 'nipple close up' and you will see lots of variation, but also some gross stuff.
I have no pleasurable feeling in mine either and know a friend with the same, maybe you will feel something in them one day but maybe not. It's up to you if you want to keep trying to feel something there but just never waste your time by lying about it or forcing yourself to put up with something you don't enjoy.
No. 143748
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I found this weird scar/blister on my right tit after taking off my shirt to shower. It originally had dark, dead skin over it until I accidentally removed it then it started hurting, I haven’t touched it since then and now it looks infected or something.
I have no idea what’s going on but I hope it’s not breast cancer.
It’s been like that for a few days, please help!
No. 143767
>>143748>>143749Just a blister; keep it clean and let it scab over- try wear things that won't rub against it.
So far it looks very sore so expect to wait a few days for it to heal.
No. 143872
>>143139hey!
thanks, im still recovering. i feel better in my body though :) totally recommend!
No. 144580
>>144552don't touch them. I pulled out one niphair when I was a teen and the hair that came back was dark. A decade later and I still have one dark hair poking out even though the rest is blonde and I keep pulling it out
also it's normal
No. 144859
>>144842>>144854Similarly, I can always tell when a disgusting male is writing a script because in movies, small breasted women will get made fun of by women with bigger boobs which just… doesn't happen??? Not that I've seen in real life ever.
"Itty Bitty Titty Committee" was probably invented by a man. Then make writers inserted it into female dialogue.
No. 144861
>>144580That's because your hair gets darker as you get older, not because you plucked it. Shaving or waxing does not make your hair grow back thicker or darker, that is a myth.
Hormonal changes are the reason this happens, also when you shave your hair the ends are blunt instead of pointed, which makes the hair that grows back appear thicker.
No. 144864
>>144842I’ve always had small boobs imo and used to be really insecure about it (tbf, I’m really tiny with a small frame so like, now I know d-cups would look absolutely ridiculous on me) but I’ve had partners tell me I had big/perfect tits. It’s one of those things where it’s like, to each their own, I’m not gonna get
triggered by girls with big tits cause they’re hot and we just have different looks & different guys will appreciate different things. Being insecure past the age of 19 is so passé lol.
No. 144947
>>144945I wasn't talking about that movie.
Itty Bitty Titty Committee is a phrase that came before the movie. And I'm saying, I think a dude probably invented that phrase.
Additionally, the movie is satirical LGBT movie and the plot doesn't involve women making fun of other smaller breasted women.
No. 145655
>>137214Mine are grade 3 since they popped up during puberty.
Truly disgusting and with big areolas too.
No. 146394
>>137214i'm gonna keep it real with u; surgery is the only solution if you want to make them less saggy. i had a reduction a couple of months after i turned 18. my boobs were well past grade 3 and i felt so terrible about them, they almost reached my belly button. for almost two years (from age 15-17) i desperately looked for natural ways to change them, but there aren't any if your breasts are that saggy. my best advice is to either learn how to accept & love them or to get surgery.
i got a reduction + a lift 6.5 years ago. i do have some light scarring, but i don't mind. i was past an H cup pre-surgery i think (it's long ago and i don't think i ever found the right bra size), now I use C/D (i have a very wide ribcage btw). my breasts weren't only saggy, they were also way too huge compared to the rest of my body and were a legitimate health issue as they fucked my back up. i got everything covered (except the post-surgery bra lol, that was like $35). however, i would 100% have saved up for the surgery if i had to.
because i was so young when getting a breast reduction (my surgery was like, 3-4 weeks after my consultation) i didn't really have time to think about the risks, i was more focused on my final exams tbh. a part under my nipple on my right breast (where the scar goes straight down) is numb, but i don't mind. my nipples became more sensitive after the surgery, but i have heard that some can lose the feeling in their nipples. i had the "anchor" method done, but know there are other methods that don't leave as much scarring.
truthfully i'm 100% satisfied with my breasts atm, the surgery changed my life for the better.
No. 148037
>>147949What is your actual size, anon?
If they really are small and it's not just your own perception tricking you, maybe consider surgery? I'd usually never recommend this but it sounds like it's a huge deal for your confidence so getting them surgically enhanced might be a game changer in how you feel about yourself.
No. 148155
>>148053yea, went from a 34B to a 32C
but apparently those are "sister sizes"
i'm dumb. wtf is a sister size?
No. 148156
>>148155theyre the same "circumference"
just different ratio of cup size to band size. in that example, 32c is smaller band size and increased cup size, but still the same bust size altogether as 34 b
No. 148182
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AaH i hate how much smaller my left boob is compared to my right. My bras dont even fit correctly because of it, its like almost 2 cups of difference (well i didnt actually measure it but it feels and seems like it). I hope so much that maybe my left breast will grow a bit bigger so that the difference isnt that bad. Im thinking of doing some exercise for my left breast but im not sure if it will help much.
No. 148192
>>148182Same.
Decided to lose 15 kilos and get a breast lift and make them even too.
No. 148196
>>148192gl on your weight loss, you can do it anon! I hope your surgery goes well to!
Idk how i feel about surgery myself, i just think its annoying that i most bras dont fit properly. I'm hoping that i wont have to get surgery to make the difference smaller. I know most women have different sized breast but i feel like my difference is bigger then most women. I'm also 19 so if i do get surgery it will probably be 10 years later kek.
No. 148215
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I hate how consuming porn in my preteen and early teen years has made me hate my breasts for the longest time. I never saw anyone IRL or even in porn have the same breast/nipple shape and it made me feel so insecure.
They look like something between
>>136108 and pic rel and I feel like they're really saggy for my age (I'm almost 20). My nipples are almost always puffy and spherical with big areolas, even more than pic rel. My partner likes them and thinks they're "unique", but god, I would much rather be normal.
What helped me immensely with hating my terrible nipples was getting them pierced, so anons, if your pain tolerance allows for that, I can't recommend that enough. I love how the piercings look on me and they actually made my puffy nipples look a lot more "normal".
No. 148226
>>148215…these are not saggy boobs at all.
No offense but some of you need to be slapped lmao.
No. 148251
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>>148215Those are perfectly normal and attractive boobs. All natural breasts even on the youngest women have a "slope" to them (unless they're quite small) due to gravity. And I promise, guys aren't picky. Fake and real, large and small, most are into all of them lol. Personally I think the common porn image of balloon tits that don't move and are just kinda mountains stacked on top of a chest look stupid, so I'm glad you realize that stuff isn't typical. And I don't want to link out to it here, but I can assure you there is also a lot of porn with women who have natural breasts.
No. 148265
>>148260You sound fine. I have huge areolas for what that might matter, so you'd think I should have extra reactive nipples, but nothing. I touch myself and I can feel the pressure but there's nothing arousing about it and even the actual touch sensation is minimal. Boyfriend does the same, touches with fingers, tongue, also nothing. Barely feel it even if he literally bites them.
I've actually found that very light, sort of ticklish touching along the sides of my breasts feels nice, so you might need to experiment more or it may be that your breasts just aren't a very sensitive area for you. Nothing wrong with that.
No. 148289
>>148249Nta, but I can answer the other two questions:
>Also, are they uncomfortable in bras?No, you won't notice them at all once the initial pain and sensitivity is gone
>Are there any particular cons?It takes a year for them to heal and there's always a chance of them getting snagged on stuff if you're not careful, other than that there are really none
>>148275Some dudes have really sensitive nipples, wonder if that's maybe where it came from?
No. 148299
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>>148249
>can you elaborate how piercings changed your nipples?Of course! Like I said before, I have really puffy nipples 90% of the time. IDK how to explain it better, but before I got the piercings, there would be absolutely no definition between where the nipple part ends and where the areola begins, it felt like the areola was kind of… flowing over into the nipple area? It was just sphere-shaped like in pic related.
After the piercing there's now a noticeable definition between the nipple and areola and if I go braless, my nipples look "normal" through my shirt. Does wonders for my confidence, ngl.
Other than that, what anon in
>>148289 says is pretty much true, but I'll elaborate a bit more-
>Are there any particular cons?The piercing hurt only a little, it feels like someone pinches your nips and that's it. They were a bit sore for like 1-2 weeks after the procedure, though. It hurt when I accidentally slept on them, but other than that, I can't recommend it enough! You gotta avoid swimming in unknown water until they're healed, though. I didn't even let them touch pool water until about 6 months in, and even then, I wore waterproof bandages. You gotta take care of them like a baby!!
>Also, are they uncomfortable in bras?I can't really say, anon, I didn't really wear bras to begin with (they gave me terrible backaches) and I stopped wearing them completely for the healing process. I'm slowly starting to wear them again for workout reasons (don't like my titties flapping around in the wind), and I don't even notice the piercings being there unless I've snagged them on something. Hope that answers your questions hehe
No. 148403
>>148384Nta, but nothing really changes
>>148394I even wear low cut shirts now without a bra (but tuck them in so nothing can accidentally show). If you're worried about nips showing you can get pasties
No. 148412
>>148411thank you boo <3
Damn Im a 32E. My whole life I thought I was a 34B/ C.
tfw live in japan and theres NO way they'll have that cup size, anywhere.
No. 148433
>>148430Please dont take this in a rude way anon, but could you just have a fetish for extremely large breasts? A quick google on macromastia and it looks incredibly painful and sad to live through.
It is mostly grass is greener. I wish a had smaller cute breasts because you can get really cute bra options.
No. 148434
>>148433I don't think it's a fetish since I have no actual sexual feelings towards breasts, just a fascination with large ones. And I don't want them to be unmanageably huge, just maybe 3-4 cup sizes bigger. Anything that interferes with daily life sounds horrific. I've tried nearly every avenue short of surgery. Suppliments, herbal treatments, strength training my pectorals.
As for bras, I've never had much of a problem with the selection for me. Actually finding my band + cup is a challenge (and expensive) but I have no desire to have especially cute or fancy underwear.
No. 149377
>>149371Kek my mom did this shit too, only she has large breasts and would constantly disparage any woman with small tits. Any time she got in an argument or didn't like some random woman (including any female relative), she'd always say they were just jealous of her big boobs.
After I went through puberty, she'd make unsolicited jabs about my breasts, how they're "not really
that big," and humblebrag about big boob problems, but "you're only a C cup, so you don't really get it." Weird as hell.
No. 149484
>>149371My grandma always brings up how big a woman's boobs are, like if we're out shopping or she sees someone on the TV. I find it so weird and unnecessary. And she even says it with young teenage girls, like there'd be one on TV and she'd comment on how big her boobs already are and it's just so inappropriate
>>149384Fucking sucks you had to go through that anon, I hope you're in a happier place
No. 149498
>>149371Does she think she's paying you the best compliment ever cos big boobs are so desirable in her eyes?
My weird memory is when I had grown some c cups and I knew it was time to get a bra. I had to wear my heavy school jumper (school had a uniform) during the summer because my breasts would show through the light coloured shirts that we wore underneath. Other girls could wear just the shirt because they were all wearing bras well before me despite being the same or behind me in terms of development.
I had to ask my mom, she made me strip in front of her to prove I had breasts (you could see I had them even in clothes, I was underweight around the waist and then had these pokey shaped c cup breasts) Only then did she agree and buy me the most childish training bras that you see actual kids wearing. I don't know why she was so reluctant. Looking back I had bigger breasts at that time than half my friends have as adults, there was no need to strip to prove it and no need to get a training bra instead of an actual bra.
When I got my period the same happened, no prep, no giving me products in advance and I had to prove that I had bled in order to get that pack of towels. Then I wasn't allowed try tampons.. I think she wanted to keep me young.
No. 149535
>>149501All the time I wish I never developed so early, the psychological damage was pretty bad, and it took a long time before I finally understood none of it was my fault. My mom would treat me really badly and yell at me a lot, accusing me of strange things I didn’t understand because I was only 11-14 and just wanted to play with my friends. My stepdad would peep on me in the bathroom. I started restricting a lot by 12, tried the whole “chewing and spitting” thing before I became a fullblown bulimic at late 13. It didn’t matter how thin my body got, the breasts and hips were still there and it made me feel disgusting. I stopped wearing shorts and shorts sleeves and wore sweatshirts even when it was hot outside. The way you’re treated as a little girl with breast development can be really scary, I hope that doesn’t sound dramatic but it’s very true, but I guess it varies by what you look like and where you live. Anyways looking back as an adult a lot of things I couldn’t process or understand now make sense and they’re all horrifying lol. I’m angry for the child I was and I don’t think I will ever be able to get back the parts of me that were stolen so early, even now I try my best to rationalise everything but it still makes me sad. I see girls lamenting over being flat and I’m extremely jealous, being sexualised when I didn’t even know anything about sex was really detrimental to me. I recovered from my eating disorder in my early 20s but it’s really hard to reconcile with the self loathing, I still hate that people talk about my chest and I hate the way men look at it. It isn’t complimentary to me because I don’t find the attention flattering, it just makes me feel bad. Idk.
No. 149557
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>>149535Yeah I definitely think there’s a link between being sexually objectified as a kid and eating disorders. Relevant research paper:
https://www.apa.org/education/ce/sexual-objectification.pdf No. 149659
>>149557Nta but Jesus this shit pisses me off
Hope it gets better for anons out there struggling.
No. 149920
>>149846Thank you! I'm sick of internet media/society/culture only valuing small breasts on smol ppl like fuck you? I'm tall with broad shoulders and no (basically 0) boobs but not tall or ana enough to be a supermodel so apparently I'm a "fridge" just really rustled my jimmies
>>149848I hope you find a decent dr my friend only needed a letter from a therapist no hormones or anything (well cause she's cis) she just wanted a reduction. Fishy how you dont need Jack shit for silicone balloons
No. 150336
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My boobs used to look like first pic when I was around 18-21, now I'm 25 and they look more like second pic. They've dropped a lot. I gained and lost 10 kg since then (haven't had kids, though I was pregnant until week 12 once and they were swollen af already) but I think it's mostly genetic, my mom has huge saggy boobs too and she's been at her ideal weight her entire life.
I feel so weird about it. I used to really like my boobs and now I don't even recognise them when I look in the mirror. It happened so fast, too. I just feel like a mountain of flubber, especially when I sit down without a bra. I can fit and carry around a whole ass remote control under my boobs.
My boyfriend tells me they're perfect and like his dream boobs, thank god he isn't a coomer. Is this worth considering surgery for? I've read that chest excercise doing wonders for your boobs is a myth.
I'm so scared of what will happen if I ever have children, I don't want them to sag down to my belly button.
No. 150338
>>150336Both boobs in the picture are beautiful. I really don't see whats wrong with the second picture. Everyone I know 25+ has those saggier boobs unless they're an A-cup.
I may be biased though as a bisexual.
No. 150376
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>>150375Just like in pic, for the first time ever when I’m massaging my tiddies I can see the axillary nodes really clearly… losing my marbles over this
No. 150441
>>150435I have the same issues except they are large and starting to sag due to the cup size. Completely know what you mean re: big areola - if I could just reposition them a little higher or somehow shrink them I’d almost not want the whole breast to be lifted. However I also hate having big boobs so am saving for a reduction/uplift
It’s a big decision to make and you could use the time you spend saving for research. I know YouTube is full of sensationalist storytimes but I do recommend watching Nelly London’s video about her breast surgery. Her surgery went very wrong but it’s informative and not just ‘pity me’. Her body rejected the stitches which messed up her healing massively - that’s a risk you’ll have to consider
Also look at average women’s breasts (online unless you have that kind of access irl lol). It’s a minefield as even then, you get a skewed perspective of women confident enough to share their photos. Even though I don’t follow celebrities, I found that I was basically comparing my body to Barbie and doing that made me guaranteed to find flaws. Get some perspective
Also most guys don’t really care - boobs are boobs. Sure there are some guys with very high standards out there (usually the ones who put fuck all effort in themselves) but if a guy is fucking you, he thinks you’re hot. Forget their feelings and focus on how your boobs make YOU feel
No. 150442
>>150435Mine are similar but bigger, always been saggy and wide set too (so I can’t wear anything with cleavage). I’ve had one friend make a mean comment about it once but it didn’t affect me, it says more about her bitchiness than about me. Though I am a bit more careful about turning my back when changing now. No one I’ve slept with ever had a problem with my boobs either, but maybe I have the size going for me in that regard so I don’t know if that’s helpful.
Anon if I may give some unasked for advice - you can always decide to get the surgery later. Please don’t let plastic surgery stand in the way of other, more important life goals in terms of money.
No. 150443
>>150435>>150441>>150442https://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.phpHere's a gallery that features some natural boobs of different shapes and sizes.
This is why I hate titpicking. I'm all for calling out cows for their cowish behaviours but the nitpicking of their boobs is just… too much. Especially considering that boob size and shape is largely genetic, it's not like you have much of a choice.
>you can always decide to get the surgery later. Please don’t let plastic surgery stand in the way of other, more important life goals in terms of moneyAlso seconding this
No. 150444
>>150441Thanks for your feedback. As for the areola, honestly they’re not the biggest but if they were posted here I’d never hear the end of it, kinda like Kiwi’s or a bit bigger? But yeah when I lift my breasts by myself, I’m totally ok with their size suddenly. I realised that they just make my tits saggier compared to gals that have very small areola and same placement.
I know they’re totally normal and healthy boobs, albeit not the best looking out there (not the worst looking either). It sucks that I live in a city where people often re-do their tits, and lots of Brazilians girls live here too. Never seen as many tit jobs before I moved. Even a few friends had one and I think they healed nicely.
>>150442Forgot to add but they’re ALSO wide set ahah. Like they’ll never have that cleavage line effect unless I wear a push-up bra. But honestly I don’t mind that issue personally, it’s one of the least offensive trait to me.
>>150443Totally agree on the sentiment.
I also know that tits come in a variety of shapes and looks, but honestly as a bi girl, I don’t especially find mine attractive and I’m not sure I’d be attracted if someone had super tubular tits for example.
That makes me even more self-conscious when I’m flirting with women than men. I had one woman call them squishy lovingly (?) but it just made me feel more conscious of them.
No. 150447
>>148412They do, just go to Bradelis instead of cheaping out at somewhere like Peach John. They can do really professional, in-depth fittings too.
I swear some English speakers in this country need to learn how to do a proper google search in jp. Just because most cheap shit fast fashion clothes don’t fit doesn’t mean bigger/properly sized options don’t exist.
No. 150480
>>150478Yea i go braless at home. I've heard about it helping too but honestly i'm confused since some people and articles say gravity is the culprit, too strong support is bad and an unsupportive bra is bad too, i don't know anymore.
Should my bra allow for some bounce or something? What is the truth here
No. 150497
>>150493i got one a year ago and it was the best decision ive made
>Im a C cup but I pretty small framed, would a doctor agree to give me an A cup, or even an AA?that entirely depends on your body structure and the surgeon them self, i wanted to be an A cup (was a F before + with a small frame) but my doctor took me to a B and mentioned that was as small as he could go; some people with the same proportions have gone done to an AA
i recommend checking out r/reduction on reddit since there are lots of commonly asked questions/concerns that others have experienced and addressed there (+ before/after pictures that can be helpful)
No. 150528
>>150518There are different bra styles that are suited for certain shapes though. Examples, balconette and demi bras I think are best suited for boobs that are fuller on the bottom. And some push up bras can help wide set boobs look closer.
Unless you’re talking about the overall shape that bras turn boobs into, because that’s all going to be the same unless you want vintage conical boobs.
No. 152380
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>>15237832 is too loose and my tits fall out through the bottom. And teen/petite sizes have really small cup volumes.
No. 152453
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>>152380I know I already shilled it to another anon earlier in the thread, but if you’re a burger you can try checking out Bradelis
No. 152476
>>152453i have weird wide set boobs that look like they hate each other, ill definitely check this out, thank you anon. wish it wasnt so expensive though
>>152454you can cut the band on the 32c to make it smaller and re-sew it into a 28 band size. it kind of sucks to do but it helps a lot
No. 152847
Ok fam, have you had any success with beautifying boob treatments? I'm really unhappy with my sagging mess, I tried exercises, bodylotions, oils, massages, nothing seems to really work. I wouldn't even want more in size, just a little less sagging or more volume in the top part of the breast for it not to look like a pudding-filled sock. I know there's a lot of tipps online, but did anything really work for you personally? If so, what was it and what did you achieve? I'm really considering changing my birth control/hormones to get more volume or even surgery, but I'm afraid of having implants in my body
No. 152939
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>>152873I am
>>152454 and I ended up buying a few things from Amazon.
No. 153513
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>>153507i don't know my measurements, as ive never had the need for them kek, but i'd say my boobs look like pic above.
my boobs have gotten both bigger and smaller while braless, but it had to do more with losing and gaining weight than not wearing a bra. their shape has remained the same though, and i'd say they are tougher if anything, like they act more like muscle than fat. obviously i wont run or jump around braless, but i dont feel like my boobs are floppin around when using the stairs or walking around. when i wore bras, my aereolas were way bigger and i remember it being uncomfortable for a while. either they got smaller or my breasts got bigger, idk. don't know the studies between being braless versus wearing a bra, but if you are on the smaller side i definitely recommend it as much as possible. could be an anxiety thing but i feel like i can actually breathe normally without having a band around my chest. i also like the toughness my nipples have attained, im not bothered by most tshirt materials and barely deal with any dryness or chaffing which is a godsend.
No. 155276
>>155176they’re pretty normal to have at any point in life. even men have them, and nipple size is not indicative of how many you will get. they’re just oil glands on the areola and appear as small bumps. i wouldn’t be too concerned, they probably popped up during puberty and there’s not much you can do to get rid of them. i would be more concerned if they suddenly started looking like a whitehead or become inflamed, usually means the gland has been blocked and is infected.
if you’re really worried about the state of your nipples, i’d see a doctor. there’s nothing they can do to reduce the appearance or number, but an examination can ease your nerves if you’re super worried. on the plus side if you ever decide to have children, women with more nodules are shown to have healthier, faster growing babies compared to women who do not.
No. 155660
>>135394Not a question, I just need to vent. I really, really, hate my small breasts. I'm an A cup. I've never had a bra fit me, and I shop at the preteen section. I can't help but cringe when I remember my past sexual partners teasing my breasts and the memory makes me want to tear them off. To remember that other people touched my breasts, makes me want to vomit from shame.
I can't shower or look at myself in the mirror without hating myself. I became addicted to porn as a preteen so that made my insecurities worse.
To top it off, my boyfriend likes to grab my boob and say how i'm "not an adult yet" because i'm flat. (i'm 19)
Someone on this thread talked about how ridiculous it is to compare yourself to and judge other women because of breast size. But honestly, i'm guilty. All my friends are so well endowed and i'm over here looking like a 10 year old.
I felt at home at r/smallboobproblems until I found out it was ran by a man with a boob envy fetish. Great…
No. 155704
>>155660Embrace your flatness anon. Small breasts are more convenient, depending on your body type they make you look more slim, elegant and you can enjoy braless life.
I had the same thoughts as you did when I was a teen, I tried buying overpadded a cup bras that barely fit me, was always depressed I couldn't have cleavage, was porn addicted and obsessed with breast centric porn but suddenly as I aged I started giving less of a shit when it came to what people think about me and now I'm content. Idk how it happened but it did and I'm glad. I hope you go through the same.
No. 155842
>>155820ntayrt but for me it was basically to make my breasts seem bigger. Nowadays I'm braless most of the time or just wear bralettes if I don't want my nipples to be too visible and that's it.
I think small breasted girls sometimes don't realize how much of a blessing it is, grass is greener on the other side etc.
No. 156567
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>>135394YOU GUYS
WHY HAS NO ONE TOLD ME ABOUT THIS
THIS COULD SOLVE ALL MY BOOB PROBLEMS
i have the smallest tits ever and i would love to be able to switch between big and small tits. this is an amazing invention. d'you think it's realistic? it might only look god for photos which would be a shame but i wonder if i got it in silicone and could be blended well it might work fo IRL too, or maybe for use under dresses and such.
No. 156703
>>156567nooo anon they will look awful. also really heavy too, I've seen those flung around on the drag race tv show and they look like they weigh a tonne. not worth it
>>155426I have them but they're not super dark. I do get one thick dark one like grows now and then and I pluck it out. don't feel disgusting anon! it's totally normal, it's such a small area I'd just pluck if you really don't like them. I imagine the areola/nipple would be a very sensitive place for laser too
No. 160017
>>160015Can only pass on advice as I am currently in the same position as you, but in my country there are very commercial clinics that put out adverts and are popular with the women who like the obvious plastic surgery look. Then there are clinics which are more… medical? More expensive and boring looking. If this is the same where you are, then the second bet is better. The first type are used to everyone wanting the same boobs (normally as X celebrity) so will give you the bolt on look. The second will pay more attention to what is achievable with your body type, what will look best, they will advise against something you like if they don’t think it’ll work.
Check the realself website for specific surgeons results. Have consultations with several before choosing. Make sure they listen to you and understand what you want. Check the surgeons register and research their name to check if they have been involved in any controversies.
Hope someone with real experience comes along soon. Good luck!
No. 160040
Does anyone else have small breasts that hurt all the time, and if so have you ever seen a doctor about it? Does anyone have any pain relief tips? I have wanted to see a doctor about it for a long time but corona
For me it is in both and gets worse with my cycle but never fully goes away so I think it is probably Fibrocystic breasts, which are just lumpy sore breasts. Fortunately I don't have any discharge but on the down side my all searching has turned up that all I can do is need take pain killers until maybe one day goes away. Also to avoid caffeine, which is never going to happen.
I wonder if this anons tits ever calmed down
>>137188>>137213 No. 160417
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>>160392because it looks kind of weird and men are mean about it.
No. 161965
>>136108In terms of lifting the breast tissue, have you done any weight lifting at all? Pushups and bench presses might help simply by strengthening the muscles under and above them. Additionally stuff like posture really helps overall appearance, so don't forget ones to strengthen your back muscles like flys and, you know, simpler stuff by rolling your shoulders back while sitting. I know this comes off as frivolous but it's simple enough that anyone can do it and less expensive than surgery etc. etc. As for the overall appearance, though, I think that's normal and not even bad? Don't let hypersexualized media get you down anon
>>136847I feel so awkward about those random strays, but I usually just pluck them. I tried sugaring once but for lack of better terminology that shit hurted
>>136936From what I've read, a lot of bras that boast support/reshaping (think VS Bombshell Bra types) are actually bad and slowly degrade or destroy the connective tissue. I wear sports bras while working out and that's about it.
No. 162394
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>>162278Be proud of your cute nips and give up and wear these hookless babies. They're all I wear now, they're so comfy and the SO loves them
No. 162569
>>162560Ok, so first off are you on medication that could cause it? I smell awful when I take my Adderall. Second, look into witchhazel pads first, then applying deodorant. Or even glycolic acid in an extremely low percentage. From what I've read, there's a lot that has to do with the ph of the skin's surface and how bacteria thrives in higher alkaline environments for some people, making deodorant less effective.
Ok, I just now thought about this, but my husband is actually from Eastern Europe too and I remember when he first came here he would soak spots on the bed that smelled like straight up diluted vinegar of some kind while he was sleeping. It took a long time for it to stop too, over a year. I don't know what that means for you, but I thought that I might mention it
No. 162593
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>>162560All of the women I know use this cream including myself, I live in Australia and this gets me through 40 degree heat, it's called 3B cream and I bet you could find it online somewhere
No. 162744
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I have this problem that is hard to describe. I'm not sure if it's actually a problem but my chest/breast shape makes me really insecure. They are small, but normally I find women with small breasts cute. However, above my breasts is rather bony and has a weird shape. It's super hard to put to words so I tried to draw it in the pic. It's not part of the boob itself, but my chest has this angle to it I'm not sure is normal. You can see it when I turn sideways a bit, even in clothes. As you can hopefully tell, my breasts are small so they start under that area.
I was worried I have pectus excavatum or something at first. I have this strange memory of a doctor saying I did, but never doing anything about it. However, I looked up pics on females and I don't look like that. There is no real indent that I can tell like it's carved out, so either I don't have it or it's very slight. That worry may be completely unrelated but I thought I'd mention in case. thanks for reading I hope someone knows if this is normal
No. 162749
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>>162744>>162745you should try balconette bras, they don't have the triangle area at the top so nothing to puff out
No. 162777
>>162744Same, I just have a big rib cage with low set breasts and also lose weight on my chest first. It's probably nothing to worry about, just different bodies.
It's one of those things I doubt anyone really notices but you.
No. 162778
>>162749thanks, I hope there are ones that are not the uncomfortable "lingerie" style but they're hard to find
>>162774makes sense thank you. I'll google it but I'm still kind of wondering if i have mild pectus excavatum after all. maybe can ask a doctor
No. 163788
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Any anons struggling with chest acne, I just wanted to give a shout-out to Tretinoin 0.05%. I used to have spots all over my cleavage and after 5 months of using this it’s completely clear.
>>152380I’m a 30D and I wear Aerie, Freya and Lepel, they all carry 28 & 30 band sizes. I usually buy from figleaves because they have always had a huge selection of those “rare” sizes. They’re becoming more common everywhere though, I work for a fashion retailer and their lingerie label recently added 30 bands to their lineup. Have hope anon
No. 163798
>>163787Anon, any masses or lump? Any changes on your skin? Any fever recently? Any swelling around your armpits? Currently breastfeeding? Any recent abnormal US or mammogram?
If none to that and size changes with menses, it’s probably benign fibrocystic changes. See your doctor when you can so they can keep track of it. It’s probably benign.
No. 163807
>>163787Anon, this month was the same for me. 2 weeks of rock hard swollen breasts, it felt horrible. Now my period came and passed and the they're not swollen anymore. It's normal for my breasts to swell when I'm pmsing, that's how I know I'm getting my period and i like that but this month was insanely painful for me too.
Sadly I don't have any advice to give you but I would appreciate if any anons know remedies for this stuff because wow, my breasts felt like they would burst out of my skin kek
No. 163967
>>163807Anon, same advice I gave for the other anon. There’s a wide range of breast conditions that can causes cyclical breast pain. Thing that need to be rule out is malignancy. If it’s not, then here are the following things you can try:
1●Support garments – A well-fitting brassiere to better support the breast is the best. Avoid bra with steel underwire if you have pendulous breasts. Sport bra for exercise can reduce pain related to breast movement. Wearing a soft, supportive bra at nighthelps you sleep better. If you asymmetric breasts, find special bra that accommodate yours.
2●Compresses – Some get relief from warm compresses or ice packs or gentle massage.
3.Acetaminophen or NSAID or topical NSAID.
Try 1, 2, 3 for 6 months. If that doesn’t work time to escalate treatment with your doctor help.
Try tamoxifen > danazol. These are hormonal therapy that comes with some nasty side effects. Avoid them if you can. Other treatments which are not clearly proven like OCP and progestin are sometimes used. The rationale is to prevent the burst of estrogen during your cycles.
Maybe I should open a thread for these medical problems so that I filter for problems I can give advice.
No. 164563
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I’m 19, never had a baby (lol), and my breasts are so fucked up due to poor posture, genetics, and weight fluctuations. Drew an outline of what they actually look like. They look and feel horrible, the sagging makes it sore and uncomfortable when I’m not wearing a bra i often have to tuck my shirt under the shirt sag fold just to reduce the pain. It really sucks. My bf has no idea they’re even like this because i wear lingerie when we have sex. Saving up for a breast lift and reduction, just want them gone
No. 168438
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Are most people's nipples inverted most of the time? I find mine stay pretty flat (like you can't see them through a shirt) but pop out randomly
No. 168443
>>168426I have 'perky' B's but they are wide set so I never have cleavage at all, unless I absolutely smash them together and it looks atrocious. I am sure your boobs are just fine anon.
>>168438Mine aren't inverted but are always flat unless it's cold/they have been touched. It makes my tits look a bit of a different shape. It's like they change shape entirely depending on what my nipples are deciding to do.
No. 169396
>>168574Well, let me offer my opinion. There are some possibilities. You could have benign cyst or recurring fibroadenoma. Both can cause cyclical pain due to the surge in the estrogen. I do not have your record so can’t comment on what the heck they saw in the US.
There are some ways to treat it. First try supportive care with bra. NSAID like ibuprofen is second line. OCP is next if that doesn’t work. I’ll leave some other fun medication to your doc if you find no relief with current treatment.
Considering your age and no hx of breast cancer from your family (I assumed), these pain should go away on its own.
You mentioned about plugged duct. Well, it’s a possibility, but it’s unlikely. Considering you are not breast feeding and have no interesting pathology like prolactinoma, it’s unlikely.
There’s no chest muscle sprain. The closer alternative is costochondritis aka inflammation at junction between your rib and the joint. Could it be the cause? Only your doctor who did physical exam on you know. Sorry to bust your bubble but the treatment for costochondritis is simply NSAID. I prefer the topical one. Again, this is unlikely based on your history.
tldr: try supportive bra, give it a few weeks -> try topical nsaid, give it a few week -> try OCP long term. -> ask your doctor for an extensive work (MRI). -> if that doesn’t work, maybe you’re one of the “special” that benefit from having a psychiatrist.
No. 171048
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Why do I get back/neck pains from wearing bras? The bras used to be just fine and my boobs havent changed size. I wore the same brand of sports bras for years, replacing them when they got too loose. I actually like going braless most of the time, but I would prefer to wear a bra with some of my shirts, and bikini tops hurt as well.
No. 171051
>>171048it might be because you are wearing too tight of a bra in straps and band. I would suggest trying other sizes out and measuring yourself. When you measure give yourself an inch wiggle room.
If you don't think it is that, try bralettes and cloth bras over sport and normal bras.
No. 171447
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LADIES MY TITS STARTED FUCKING LEAKING WHITE LIQUID STUFF IM NOT PREGNANT AND IM SCARED IT COULD BE breast cancer related stuff because our family has a history of it…….what's happeniing to my breasts help
No. 171471
>>171449>thyroid problems in the family >breast leakage Call your usual doctor, ask for a referral to an endocrinologist, tell them what's happening
You are probably fine
No. 172778
>>164563Felt this, I can never go braless and it was so horrible to live during "free the nipple" era.
I hate my breasts so much.
No. 172846
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>>171639>wanting to look abnormal because a body part doesn't feel muchYou don't see me trying to remove my elbows.
>>172840Boobs can get bigger at any age due to weight and exercise. Make sure to regularly self-check for breast cancer!
No. 173078
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These fucking 'ptosis' charts make me wanna die ngl. I swear most boobs above a certain size just do not look like the 'normal' examples
No. 173081
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I have grade 4 pseudoptosis, it's terminal and I can't afford treatment. Time to start writing my will I guess
No. 173109
>>173098we all should
just lop off every tit and throw them on the tit pile
pick yourself out a new pair from the tit pile, mix n match if you want, sew em on how ever, take a little off the bottom
No. 174184
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Does anyone else have chunks of crust on their nips? I don't mean on the areola, like right in the middle of the nipple? It looks similar to pic related. I've had them for like 15 years without much changing. I guess the chunks aren't as big anymore? Just kind of small flaky pieces.
No. 177732
>>171082This. Omg. I came here to say the same thing. My boyfriend loves them, lost weight from a big C (almost D) and now I barely fill B-cups because the fat in my upper chest has depleted so much. I feel so ugly, but my boyfriend always says he lovese, boobs are boobs, but it sure feels bad when he never looks at girls with tits like mine. He really loves big, juicy tits, fake or not. He loves the cleavage (which my saggy tits look embarrassing trying to create since they are also wide set) and the plumpness. I'm over here barely with any bottom tit plump anymore too. Surgery scares me. My mom has had 3 jobs, and as you are its very clear you can't avoid the thinning of skin that makes the implant look like shit. Its so hard to believe that when I turn to the side and I look flat. Wearing pushup bras constantly is so painful, I hate the advice people give about just "wear different clothes". It's not that easy because out of the clothes, I look horrible. It's been such a horrifying BDD that I've never had before to the point I've started cutting my upper thighs to cope. I dint want surgery, but I hate how I look. I dint know what to do..
No. 178097
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wanted to have some body positivity but apparently we can't have nice things. fuck you insta
No. 178100
>>178098Lucky you, anon. Sounds perfect.
I have saggy B cups with huge nipples (huge and deflated when soft, too large oval pyramid when hard) and a third boob would fit between my boobs. Even with a push up bra, I don't gain much volume in the upper chest part. It has been like this since I was a teenager and my weight never fluctuated much. I feel so ugly, I don't want to wear tanktops or bathing suits, I never want to have sex naked or in broad daylight. I hate my boobs so much and I really want to get surgery. Even a botchered boobjob would be better than this mess.
No. 178116
>>178098I'm coming to like my boobs. I've committed the monumentally faggot act of going out of my way to learn self love. A lot of things I hated about myself are started to look cute.
I started looking at more natural looking women on social media. It's kind of sad that it's only now aged 21 do I see that boobs are supposed to have variety. The space between my breasts bothers me a lot less and the fact they're not on my collar bones doesn't upset me
No. 178309
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>>178229Can you not shorten bra straps? You could also do upper chest exercises. I posted pic related before but here you go
>>178245Yes. it strengthens the area pulling up your boobs because it doesn't have a crutch anymore. The "not-wearing bra makes your boobs saggy, just look at village African women" thing is a myth, the main reason boobs get saggy like that is because of getting pregnant and breastfeeding kids
No. 178655
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>>135394how to stop feeling insecure of literal mosquito bite boobs and being 5ft? i just want to feel like a woman.
No. 178764
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I really love dresses like picrel but I hate wearing them. I feel like after a certain size it’s not possible to wear dresses and tops like these with bigger breasts. At least not without having to order larger sizes and get them tailored. Every dress like this that would normally be my size ends with a giant seem in the middle of my chest squishing me and I can’t go braless because they’ll just misshape the bust portion of the dress and eventually fall out. Probably because the dress doesn’t have as much support as a bra or something? I don’t fucking know. I don’t really like my boobs and the unfortunate dress situation just makes me upset. I want a reduction for christmas.
No. 178774
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>>178764Wrap dresses and v necks usually fit better and are more comfortable. Sweetheart necklines can be fine but for the perfect fit you'd probably have to get them tailored unless they have shirring in the back or side panels.
No. 178779
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>>178721I'm no expert but I know women get a boob job after having breasts fully removed because of cancer, why then wouldnt tiny titted anon be able to do the same with her body? Would be even easier since the nipple is already there, and 1-2 sizes up wouldnt be too much of a stretch.
No. 178782
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>>178779Ayrt, you're right! I googled a little for micromastia implants earlier and found stuff like pic rel. I'm not good at judging how realistic boob jobs look, but pic doesn't look uncomfortable or anything. I just wasn't sure if mosquito bite boobs would be able to handle implants.
>>178781Maybe it's a tattoo?
No. 179072
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Does anyone have advice on how to make bandana tops work if you’re top heavy? They usually tie with string in the back, and sometimes go over the shoulder with support straps. But my boobs are kind of just free falling and it’s painful and unflattering. Do you think if I added a reinforcement stitch to where underwires would be it would help? I don’t know how it’s stop my boobs from popping out on the sides but my strapless bra is probably the wrong size which is why there’s so much spillage(the stores clerk told me it was the right size though.)
No. 179074
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Also thank you
>>178774 for this but I hate v necks at the moment, I bought a dress with a deep v neck and had to stitch it up because it can’t be worn with a bra and athletic tape hurts. I would try pasties and SKIMS body tape but it’s all sold out.
I know this is more challenging, but if you have any advice on how to wear this kind of top without your breasts completely controlling them it’d be appreciated greatly!
I feel like I should accept this but there really is no point. I guess it could work like a strapless bra that closes in the front? Basically another DIY/tailor job. Fucking hell. No. 185009
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>>178781>>178782it is, indeed, a tattoo! there are tattoo artists that specialize in hyper-realistic nipple tattoos for breast cancer survivors. pretty interesting stuff.
https://www.health.com/condition/breast-cancer/realistic-nipple-tattoo-breast-cancer No. 187901
>>187896If it's not a gender thing, do you hate your breasts because men stare at them? Or because they make you more attractive to them?
I understand it sucks but if you don't have any physical pains, I don't know if it's wise to have surgery just because scrotes are shitty. Fuck them.
No. 188178
>>188150Yes
nonnie, this happens to majority of girls and women if not all
No. 188651
>>188397https://www.007b.com/ has a breast gallery.
It doesn't look as if they have a dedicated post-pregnancy section, but some women have stated in their bio whether they have breastfed or not.
No. 189001
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To what extent is it normal to not have feeling in your breast? When I look up “numbness” it’s associated with tingling, but I mean close to no feeling in the skin at all. I can pinch a lot of my breast skin (like 1/6th - 1/4th) at my underboob really, really hard to where my hand is actually shaking and feel practically nothing. I assume it related to my period because that’s what my doctor and google said, and it’s not like I’ve regularly pinched my skin long enough to know when it does end up hurting.
I figure the lack of feeling in my breasts isn’t too much to worry about since the nipples and areolae still feel, but if I do get a breast reduction I feel like my boobs will be even more fucked regarding sensation. At this point I could get stabbed in my breast and barely notice it. I worry that this is potentially dangerous.
No. 189072
>>188145At least the scrote saved you the headache of dating a retard.
>>188397Also seeking a before and after gallery.
No. 193304
>>173078Sorry to necro but I 100% believe that 'ptosis' is what natural breasts look like and the medical industry is marketing it knowing that the condition is more common than not, with the goal of making as many women feel insecure as possible. Everyone's boobs will look like extreme cases of ptosis when you're past a certain age due to aging so it's guilting ALL women into feeling we have to get their boobs done. Not to mention that there's no actual downsides to having saggy boobs other than aesthetics and inconveniences with clothing. Imo this is so fucked up considering some implants have been proven to be correlated with cancer.
Breasts aren't even supposed to be sexually attractive in the first place. I remember an anthropologist on tiktok saying that this is observable in isolated tribal villages in which the female villagers have their boobs out with no issue. The same villagers couldn't even imagine boobs as a 'turn on' or in a sexual capacity bc they see boobs as being used explicitly for feeding babies. His assertion was that the only visual that is supposed to turn humans on is actual sexual intercourse itself–everything else, including boobs & ass in clothes and women's bodies in general, was invented by men and conditioned into all of us.
>>177722I have the same issue. I wonder if the arousal that others have might be a symptom of birth control, PMS, or a symptom of hormones in general? I used to have different PMS symptoms before I tried birth control and one of them was nipple and boob sensitivity. Ever since I came off birth control and my PMS symptoms changed (now I have cramps), my boobs have barely any feeling–even when I'm horny. I get off more visually by the sight of a guy kissing/fondling my boobs than turned on by the actual sensation.
No. 198883
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Are my boobs sagging? I’m really concerned about it especially as I’m only 18, whenever I see women’s breasts in movies or whatever they seem much firmer, rounder and higher up than mine, like when I lie on my back my boobs sort of flop to the sides but in other women they stay in place. I’ve fluctuated in weight a lot especially in the past couple of years and I’m afraid I’ve done permanent damage to them. Please don’t give me bodyposi cope just tell it to me straight. Pic is my boobs from the side idk what stage of ptosis I am.
No. 198884
>>198883Noo anon delete this asap, don't post yourself here.
But to answer you quickly, breasts have a natural drop. Don't worry about it, you seriously look normal
No. 198886
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My boobs don't seem to have a defined areolas?? Like my skin tone literally fades into my nipples. I've never seen anyone else that has this irl. I'm pretty pale so maybe it's just extremely subtle but it looks weird to me. I only notice a slight change in color when I'm really warm.
No. 198891
>>198883Your boobs look perfectly normal. Not particularly saggy at all. You look really nice, honestly.
Just to add since you mentioned boobs flopping to the sides when you're on the back instead of "staying in place" I have a small handful myself that are very perky and my boobs will still flop to the sides when I lie on my back. I think when they don't flop while laying down breast implants are usually involved.
No. 198896
>>198883I'm so happy that I wasn't this stupid at 18
>>198886Ok now I'm curious what tf they look like cuz that sounds insane
No. 198948
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>>198883Now why did this bitch post herself on here
No. 199248
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>>198961Recently i bought this shitty 8 euro bralette in H&M and it's by far the best bra I had in my 30 years of life. Feels like nothing (no hook closure) but also doesn't roll up anywhere like most soft bras and actually holds shape. It has removable padding and though usually I remove pads cause they never sit well with my boobs these for some reason don't cause weird squishing. Probably not a great option if you still have a bigger cup size but for my floppy conical tits this is a godsent.
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>>199730im really sorry
nonny, i feel your pain. i had the same situation (maybe even two cup size difference and tuberous basically like picrel) but hated the larger one as i prefer a flatchested look with my frame. my parents helped me cover the costs and i was able to get a breast reduction on my larger breast in a cheap state and it has helped a lot because i had the same issues with pain and discomfort pre-op. i'm still not happy with how i look topless and am insecure about it for other reasons but i'm thankful regardless. i feel like it should be covered by insurance because it honestly causes real pain and feels mentally debilitating at times (especially when i had to wear bathing suits around people etc). anyway i hope you are able to get a procedure done sometime in the future and have a better go of things. just wanted you to know you're not alone. interestingly enough my mother also had the same problem but not as severe. must be a genetic thing.
No. 199936
>>199733I have saggy breasts too but I’m really really hesitant about getting a breast lift. The scars are very ugly and they cut your nips off and reattach them. There’s some other techniques available with less scarring like the internal bra lift, but very few surgeons are willing to perform those because they risk complications and also they have to attack these kinds of biomesh threads/straps and anchor them in place by screwing them to your ribs. It’s risky for infection so a lot of surgeons simply wont do it. It also doesn’t lift as fully as the traditional anchor scar breast lift. It’s also twice as expensive. Idk, maybe you should just learn to love them and find someone who loves big saggy tits, a lot of people do actually.
I also can’t find any good doctors whose work I am pleased with. If anyone knows or has had a breast lift and can recommend a good doctor I would be interested in hearing about it.
No. 199954
>>199936How have surgeons not come up with a surefire safe way to do these surgeries yet? Fucking hell, people have been getting them for a long time now.
Thank you for the response anon, I think none of those risks are worth it and I'll just have to suck it up. It's my biggest insecurity but I feel like it'll only make me feel worse if I get a lift and the nipples/scarring end up looking botched
No. 199962
>>199954Yes it’s annoying as fuck that surgeons haven’t come up with a way to lift the breasts but without those big lollipop/anchor shape scars. They look ok in pictures but under harsh lighting I think they would look pretty gnarly.
I also want my nipples a bit smaller as they are pretty huge from the stretch and weight of my boobs, and I thought there was a way of doing that with lasers, but apparently the only way doctors can really do it is to physically cut them suture the nipple back on, so there would always be a scar. I know how you feel, I’m also insecure about my saggy boobs and am frustrated there aren’t more options apart from developing frankentitties. If your sagging is really really bad and the weight is hurting your back. Then a traditional breast lift might be worth it, scars and all.
considered putting an implant in to stretch out the excess and just going for massive boobs, but the surgeon told me that if the nipple is dropping too low then they need to do the lift as well, they can’t just stick an implant in there or it makes it even heavier and droopier. Super annoying.
No. 199965
>>199730me too! my left one is a cup size bigger. they're both small so i can get away with wearing no bras, but literally only bralettes feel comfortable to me. swimsuits are my biggest insecurity
i want to get them evened out one day but i'm afraid they're not big enough to get a breast reduction. i also heard stories of nipples falling off after that procedure, but i absolutely don't want to make the other one bigger. not sure if i will ever get them fixed
No. 200378
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I'm only not even 25 and I've got mild sagging according to this. I can't stand to look at my boobs. I haven't even lost large amounts of weight to warrant this. How do people deal with sagging?
No. 200407
>>200378>>200382same boat– my breasts grew in saggy. i don't love the way they look, but i'm ~at peace with their appearance. there really isn't much you can do aside from acceptance or surgery. you can fake perkiness with bras or tape for when you can't wear a bra. if you're worried about partners judging your breasts when you're naked, then they're not the right partner for you anyway.
i am going to start looking into lifts, not because of bullshit aesthetic reasons but more so because i cannot keep dealing with perpetual bra fitting problems and constant underboob rash.
>>200384 is right, though. eventually all breasts will sag to some degree, even if you get a lift. so acceptance is something that you can either focus on now or later, depending on your own personal reasons.
>>199936i'm also worried about scarring, but i've come to terms with the fact that i'll never have "ideal" breasts, which is a nonexistent thing anyway. either my breasts will sag or they will have scars. i think my comfort (less rashes) and the ability to go braless without my breasts hanging uncomfortably will make it worth it for me.
No. 200436
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>>200378Artist here. There is nothing wrong with any of these breasts. In fact, I definitely recall seeing paintings of nude women with "grade 1" breasts. Nobody cares, trust me.
No. 201328
>>201317Autoimmune or melanoma
Birthmarks don't appear like that
No. 201517
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anons i'm 29, recently lost 100lbs, and my breasts look like picrel. are they really really bad? i don't see a lot of natural ones, i just want another woman to tell me straight please.
No. 201566
>>201517Congratulation on your weight loss,
nonny.
No. 201664
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i hate my breasts. the two partners i've had didn't care and said they liked them (though the first one did jokingly point out that they sagged even worse before i found a properly fitting bra for the first time). i can't tell if it's just me being mentally ill or if i should get a lift. i hate going braless, the feeling of them hanging disgusts me. the right one is a lot worse than the left, i don't want perfect perky tits, i think i'd be satisfied if they were at least the same height and size. it bothers me so, so much. can i get some honest opinions? picrel is a stupid trace i did.
No. 201676
>>201666It is possible, and if the difference between your breasts is severe enough it may even be covered (at least, it was for a woman in my family, this might be different depending on where you are).
That said there's nothing wrong with your breasts, asymmetry is perfectly normal! I second trying to embrace yourself and your body before jumping to solutions like surgery.
No. 201679
>>201676how did that work? were they causing her pain or anything? mine don't cause any physical problems so i don't know if that would be covered. did she get implants? is she happy with the result? how different were they?
>>201673how do i work on my self-esteem about them in particular though? i've started taking better care of myself and working out and it's helped my general self-esteem but i still honestly hate them so much. when i was younger and heard about trans shit i thought i had to not be a girl because i hated them THAT much. i'm mostly fine with everything else but my breasts cause me so much distress, i really do cry often over them
sorry to be so dramatic i'm venting a bit
No. 201698
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Lol
No. 201902
>>201899Wishing you luck anon, the vast majority of these things turn out to be benign but still better to play it safe.
I lost my mom to breast cancer when she had some seriously big warning signs and ignored them, her nipple inverted, started to ooze a foul smelling liquid and then the skin around it puckered and had an orange peel texture to it. I look back and I know she was scared of intimate exams but she ignored so many alarming symptoms. Her cancer was advanced but never created a lump because it was a flat shaped tumour that had sprouted tentacles into the surrounding areas (there's names for this stuff but I can't remember all these years later) Those are some symptoms to never ignore if anyone here ever gets them. Not all tumours create a lump.
No. 202136
(no native english speaker)
Hello, I am relatively new to this site, I have been reading the threads for two years and just now I dare to comment on the page since this particular topic made me interesting.
I know many people online and offline who have complexes about their breasts because of the most ridiculous things that exist, and I have not come here to define myself as a special case and worse than the rest, I know that we all feel the same here. Just to vent..
So, in short, I have tuberous breasts (i could add a photo of a case that I find on the internet exactly the same as mine, but I'm not sure how to do it, heh) and a slight pectus excavatum that makes one look very noticeably bigger than the other. They are horrible af (in my opinion) and every time I see them I just want to cut my neck with an electric saw. Lately I am a bit receptive to them since I do not have a partner and because looking at them from the front does not show the deformity too much, but it also causes me a lot of insecurity and I do not know other cases besides mine. As if that were not enough, the only way to fix all my chest and breasts is with surgery, but I fear even of syringes and I'm ridiculously poor, so I'm not really interested in that, besides they are so small and irregulars that they don't fit harmoniously into a 32A at least (yeah, I don't wear a bra and actually hate it since I like lingerie). I just agree to live with it, sadly, and I guess without a partner for life lol.Therefore, if at any time remembering that this condition exists or my personal case makes you feel better about your breasts, you're welcome!
No. 204038
>>203937Ohhh man do I feel this post anon. I wanted to get a lift and still might at some point. I keep thinking about the relief I would feel afterwards, how the years of shame and disgust would finally be over and I could just forget all that and be fully present, fun, and confident. I don't care about scars, I can't imagine they would be worse than two floppy mittens with huge areolas. One half of my sex life has always revolved around shame and worry about how my breasts look, praying that my partner doesn't want me to undress completely, and if naked, always managing my posture and position to minimize how awful they look. I never got any mean comments (some thoughtless ones though, ouch) and my exes mostly acted normal, but it's hard to believe it's sincere when someone wants to touch or see them, I just hate them so much myself and can't find myself sexy or attractive while naked. 2 out of 4 of my exes never even saw them, I just got so tired of the process.
On the other hand, I feel a bit better these days after finding the right partner. It took me weeks to take my bra off but since then he has always been consistent about how much he wishes I wouldn't worry, he loves my breasts and everything about my body. He can't keep his hands off me and understands that undressing during sex is sometimes overwhelming to me, but always reassures me that I have no reason to feel that way.
It's rarer in guys, but I guess for some emotionally stable, well-adjusted, and non-pornsick ones, most of the sexual attraction comes from how much they love you instead of direct visual input. So if you find a guy like this, your physical flaws will just not be salient to him at all, he will just see your body as perfect. I still find it hard to not be self-conscious, but some part of it is sinking in, and I found some well fitting sexy bras for when I want to hide a bit more. He proposed this summer and we got a dog instead of me saving for surgery lol, tbh life can be pretty good even with saggy boobs.
No. 204200
>>204038Awwww
nonnie I'm so happy for you! Your bf sounds lovely, I hope you enjoy raising your dog together.
No. 204244
>>204038Oh man I feel you nonette.
I keep getting tempted to get a breast lift but it cost about 10k and damn that’s a lot of tattoo money.
Same as you I never got any mean comments on it, but had a few “nice” comments around it like describing my boobs a squishy (I lost weight and they have this squishy, part empty feel).
In the end, I don’t think I can justify spending 10k on a boob job that might not even look that good. I know a woman who also lost a ton of weight and it’s pretty obvious that she had a lift + implant, it doesn’t look too bad per se, but it has that “random ball” on her chest look.
I recently had them pierced, which was a major step to me to basically be naked and lie on my back in front of a stranger, but I gotta say they look way cuter and cost less than surgery. If you’re not against piercings and can tolerate a bit of pain, I’d recommend it to love your body a bit more.
No. 206704
>>206702I admittedly have a pretty relaxed attitude towards body hair lately but I just snip mine short and remind myself that realistically most women do have some hair there. Nipples aren't an area where I want to risk scarring or an infection from constantly regrowing hairs.
I have a lil white and dimpled piece of scar tissue on my crotch, like right in the centre of my mound from an ingrown hair that got real hard to dig out years ago. It looks like someone put a cigarette out on my crotch lol
No. 206733
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I absolutely ruined my boobs with fakeboi binding as a teenager. I smashed my perfectly normal breasts down into pancakes every single morning of my freshman year of high school. If there is anything I regret in life, it's this. The feeling of sitting down without a bra on makes me feel like a disgusting ogre and I have come full circle from detransitioning back to female to now just wanting them cut off sometimes. I try to look at a lot of body positive stuff regarding boobs, but it never makes me feel better. I've come to love my face, body, skin color, hair, wholeheartedly, but my boobs feel doomed to dysphoric hatred. I honestly can't even look at them when I bend over without feeling devastating grief, and I know that is dramatic and stupid. I've been pretty opposed to getting plastic surgery because it has always seemed sad to me, but I think I'm going to have to do it. Also as a side note, the ""saggy"" breasts in this thread I would (and probably will) pay $10,000 to have.
No. 206739
>>206733I semi-binded my chest for about 2 years as an adult. The thing that probably saved me was me having a back problem. I have scoliosis so I couldn't go nuts with the tightness of binders or wear them for too long either.
I've seen some detrans women who went ahead and had them removed (even after detransitioning) purely because they knew their breasts had been so badly changed that for them removing still made sense. It's a rough spot to be in. I've seen testosterone use cause less permanent damage than binding caused.
No. 206740
>>206736>>206737Plastic surgery on healthy body parts is just as much, if not worse molestation with many risks and consequences.
Leave them alone.
No. 206748
>>206747I sure did. She said
>but I think I'm going to have to do itI told her to quit it.
Her only reason against surgery was she thought "it was sad". No mention of concern for her health at all.
Idk what your reason for trying to silence me is or for the adverse reaction. But I bet it's personal.
No. 206761
>>206746It's mostly genetics, motherhood, and age. Tits
can sag from bras because they weaken the muscle that keeps your boobs up from disuse, but I don't think it's to the extent you're thinking of.
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I have big saggy boobs my bf doesn’t seem to mind but when we have sex, and I am on top leaning over him and kissing him he’s always trying to whip them out. I’ve come to terms with how floppy they are when my back is straight but leaning forward they look like tube socks stuffed with mashed potatoes how do anons with saggy boobs go bra less and have sex?
No. 207494
>>207426Same boob situation lol. On top I'm sitting straight up or even leaning slightly back, or I'm laying over him with my boobs touching his chest. It's the bent over, but not making contact angle that's not exactly flattering, not just being on top or being braless in general. But idk, my boobs have changed a lot so I am sad that they're not as round and full as they used to be, but eh, they're still boobs and boobs are hot so it doesn't really bother me that much.
And don't worry about him judging you nonita, he's having sex with a hot woman, he couldn't pull enough brain cells together to count to five at that point
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>>207920The ill-fitting bra? Well kinda? I think it was the muscle rounding and filling them out more than the bra. I did eventually gained a little more weight/muscle and the bra started to temporarily shape my boobs into Michael Angelo boobs lololol
No. 209141
>>209082>like a young woman's "should" beI think your expectations are unrealistic anon. I do know what you mean, I’ve never had perky breasts either, but it sounds like you’re being way too hard on yourself. Even as a younger teenager, my body basically developed over night and I went from a training bra to D cups (that
definitely needed a bra) and stretch marks on my thighs. I was a normal weight throughout my teenage years, no major weight fluctuations, but everyone’s body is different. I used to think I had saggy breasts too until I met someone who was crazy about my body and constantly complimenting my breasts, it kind of opened my eyes to how ridiculous I was being. There is no “standard” body for a young woman, having slightly lower set breasts doesn’t make you haggard or whatever. I’m sure you look great anon.
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Are these little bumps around the nipple normal? I'm nearly thirty and not pregnant, but I'm really concious of them. I think they appeared in the last half year.
Spoilered for photo but I hope it's okay to share. Genuinely wasn't sure if I should worry though.
No. 210962
>>210887Check for hormonal issues but I'm in a similar situation as you, I was a B-C all throughout high school, became a D cup after high school and I'm 22 now with a full I cup, with little to no weight gain
bigger doesn't mean better though, I'd honestly take my B cup appearance without a bra any day of the week, my boobs aren't even saggy or anything, I just prefer how small boobs look
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>>212187There’s a pretty wide variety of nipple balms for nursing mothers that would probably do the job. Personally, I’ve always been curious about udder balm (they also use it on cows!)
No. 212253
>>212030I'm not in the USA so I'll have to see how that works with my GP first, and I'll ask her where I can get a mammogram. I have no idea how long it can be to get an appointment but I hope it's not too long.
>>211739Your best friend seems to have what my big sister has too. I talked about it with my mother yesterday and she told me that apparently it's hereditary in our case and that's why she's not too worried about me. My big sister never had her tumor removed according to her.
No. 212516
>>212511>you're either not attracted to me or don't even careIf you've already come to that realization, why are you still with your bf who causes you discomfort..
Rough titplay is a sign he's getting his ideas about what women like from watching porn, not from communicating with his female bed partners.
No. 213430
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I'm not sure if this is the right thread since I couldn't find any piercing related threads on /g/ but since its breast related, im thinking about getting some nipple piercings done. any nonas here who got them as well? tips? advice?
No. 213435
>>213430Yea, what do you want to know?
General advice: do some research on the piercer, get straight implant grade titanium bars, use only saline spray and water to clean them no soap or other shit, don't touch them, no swimming or nipple play for a few months, they take up to a year to heal no not anytime sooner, get them downsized on time and the bar should NOT go through the areola
You can wear whatever you want to the appointment, after getting them done wear whatever feels comfortable for you - bra or no bra
No. 213437
>>213436There is no universal answer for pain. For me it was: left 7/10, right 8/10. The second one usually hurts more.
It would be fine just don't squeez them with it and don't wear it 24/7 in case you'll bleed or sweat through the day, let them breath a bit lol
No. 213457
>>213430I only got one pierced, I knew the healing time was long and I wanted one untouched nipple in case it was a rough heal or in case my sensitivity was affected or lost. I was sexually active and didn't want two nipples off the plate at once.
I'm tatted and pierced in lots of places and ime the pain level was up there. Out of all my piercings it was number one for pain. Didn't exactly have a rough time healing it but I just remember I didn't want someone putting their mouth near it during that time. I was scared of shit getting caught up in it. I'm well used to having percings but this one if anything negatively affected my sex life because I was scared of anything going near it. And that was with just a bar in. I took it out pretty soon after it would've been healed anyway. I do have increased sensitivity in it now since it's been retired?? It's my good nipple now that the bar is out. In a roundabout way there was technically a net gain then I guess..but only in the very long run and only because I retired it lol
No. 213460
>>213430Aerie makes nice soft no padding no underwire bras you should invest in if you're gonna pierce the girls. I did mine at like 21 but between the bars always falling out and my
toxic ex whining about how only whores have nipple rings I ended up letting the holes close. The pain I'd say was like 6ish. And I only say that because it's fast, it hurt like hell to get them done the first time. And that's also the only reason I wouldn't do it again. I used to soak them in warm salt water to clean the hole. (Use a shot glass lmao)
No. 213462
>>213455You can work out the same day if it doesn't hurt, just spray them with saline after and rinse in the shower
>>213460Soaking is actually outdated advice
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>>213462>>213468oh so i should just spray the new piercing instead?
also pic related is what the piercer i asked recommended for aftercare. im not from america and stuff like neilmed is expensive and scarce here. she told me its medical grade saline solution that i can buy from drug stores
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>>214346Apologizes for porn drawing but is this what you mean by tittyfucking? Like most sex acts it's more for a show and not supposed to be pleasurable. I'm a handful (so like a C?) and I'm usually lazy so I'll let men titty fucking me, most of them get off very quick and on that alone so it's always my go-to if I just wanna gtfo or something so it' a good move to use if you aren't enjoying yourself and don't want him to fuck you
Would boob size even matter? I feel like as long as if you can wrap your boobs around the dick then it's fine? I feel like tissue density would matter more since denser/firmer tissue would create a more tight feeling
No. 214447
>>214445it was specifically mentioned that they were quickies. the notion of it being a normal thing to do in any healthy relationship applies both ways, why do you think I would give any scrote a pass for it? you don't have to tell me twice that most scrotes just want to use women and have trouble even fingering or eating out their gf without any strings attached. I'm defending the relationships in where that doesn't exist and where two people just want to make the other feel better.
that's the only kind of romance I can have, because otherwise I don't want to deal with some selfish moidchild that has no interest in my body feeling good/bad.
for what it's worth I do agree that it can make women miserable, but only if they continuously pursue something with a bf that couldn't give less of a shit about them getting off over himself.
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>>213430>>213512OKAY same anon as these posts. I have a question. Im already booked and ready to go for nipple piercings and my concern is that I bought saline solution for an IV Bag for my piercing aftercare. My piercer said that I should dispose the liquid of saline solution once its opened within 24 hrs and then it goes bad then I found another piercer selling saline solution in spray bottles says that that it lasts for a month before it goes bad. Uhhh medical anons with experience in IV solutions how long does an opened bottle of IV fluids last? Is it really 24 hrs or just a month?
No. 217051
>>217038As
>>217045 said, the container and delivery method makes a difference in how long the solution will remain sterile. Don't listen to this retard
>>217049 unless you want a higher risk of infection. It's all fun and games until you end up not being one of the lucky ones and getting an infected nipple. Get you a spray can.
No. 217058
>>217045then they fucking sit in your unsterile bra or do you think nipple piercings get sterile bandages packed onto them or something?
nonna you just need saline solution, it doesn't have to be sterile because you arent fucking injecting it.
dont touch your piercings unless you have clean hands. soak them in salt water nightly for the first few weeks to help with the crusties. dont wiggle your jewelry around. just leave your piercings the fuck alone and they will heal fine.
No. 217077
>>217058>then they fucking sit in your unsterile bra or do you think nipple piercings get sterile bandages packed onto them or something?I don't know what your deal is. I was just advising her on not using an IV bag multiple times and between the two choices that she presented, I myself would have chosen the spray bottle.
No item of clothing can be sterile the only importance is that it is clean. Unless
>>217038 has only one bra and wears that daily then that would be what you would deem unsterile as wearing a bra for 2-3 day would still be clean unless she drops food down her shirt and exercises with it on .
>you just need saline solution, it doesn't have to be sterile because you arent fucking injecting it. Saline solution is by default sterile once made and only deemed unsterile if mishandled e.g. If one were to use an IV bag by opening it, scooping out a bit for use and then just closing back shut with tape then that would be unsterile and adds on the possibility of bacteria breeding in the IV bag as there is kind of bacteria that thrives in salty conditions. By soaking the piercing and nipple you are letting the solution get in-between the piercing and the insides of the nipple that is pierced.
Also if one were to "fucking inject it" the solution to the piercing then it would just go out the other side of the opening unless she has shit aim and injects herself in the breast
No. 217094
>>217049>>217055>>217059Nta
That's great and my cousin got his ears pierced with heavy hoops and he cleaned it with alcohol and nothing happened. Different things work for different people but simply using a spray is easier and safer because you just can't fuck that up.
No. 217113
>>217094People can choose either bought solutions or homemade. Both are perfectly fine. You've got options.
It's just dumb how quick some anons are to screech retard and talk about incoming infected breasts at the mention of home-made when experienced piercers, piercing sites, health sites all say its safe and a well known thing to make it at home if you want to. It's not some crazy retard thing. Pick whichever suits you better but neither are dangerous like anon above was weirdly claiming.
No. 217118
>>217077"saline solution" is salt water you retard
its salt. in water. which you can make at home. and you don't need fucking sterile solution because it's a topical application. "i don't know what your problem is" kek
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>>217038Wish me luck nonas im about to get them pierced tomorrow. Pray for me and my nipples. I have a can of NeilMed ready and I'm nervous as to how long will this can last me.
No. 218308
>>218293>as a natural whole person and not some human cow or somethingWhat the fuck, I feel this so much. Like, even looking at my breasts makes me feel weird because all I can think of is how other people see me as a goddamned cow. I developed disordered eating to get rid of them but they didn't budge. All I can say is, I really can relate to what you wrote. I see when people want to compliment girls with smaller breasts, they feel the need to lightly insult the look of bigger breasts ("They all get saggy and gross anyways haha") and it made me feel worse. The pain and swollenness during PMS literally makes me want to rip them out.
I'm far from accepting my body as is but honestly, what helps me is wearing flattering clothes that do not make them so prominent. Focusing on other parts of me, so I don't have my mind on only my boobs, you know what I mean? I hope you know there's people out there who'd be attracted to you not because of the size of your breasts, like really, for more well-adjusted people, it'd not mean much. Don't date some weirdo coomer, you'll find your guy.
No. 218310
>>218308AYRT, glad you feel less alone. I accepted them as a part of me but more in the way someone would accepting having a harmless tumor, I'm not happy about it but else can I do? I know surgeries aren't the answer since my body is healthy (I have weight issues but even when I was skinny my tits were huge) but at the same time if someone gave me 20k I would get a boobs, ass, and stomach reduction lmao.
I don't like guys, which is why I mention how most lesbians/bi women I notice like smaller breasts, which more power to them, but it still makes me feel insecure about myself since I've had the misfortune of knowing female coomers who were into "thicc mommy milkers" shit. Makes my skin crawl lmao, I don't get much attention anymore now that I'm not a teenager but it feels like I have to choose between someone settling for me when she really wants something better or a pervert
No. 218542
>>218371I actually have a good bra, and it's mainly why my back pain is manageable most times. I haven't seen a physio though since it doesn't interfere with my life.
>>218403I am referring to dating, but my non-relationship interactions with women are why it's something I have serious issues with among other things. I have weirdos on apps (not TIMs, shockingly), so it just makes me feel like a magnet for pervs.
No. 221289
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My breasts get too sore and painful during PMS (so, right now) and even just moving is such a pain. Can I do something about it? I'm braless and it fucking hurts to even walk but I know if I wear a bra, it will also hurt. I'm usually okay with having a larger bust but times like these I actually cry wishing my size was something like picrel, it's literally ideal. I know this feeling will pass once I start my period and this tenderness and soreness goes down but right now, I just want them gone so bad, it just hurts.
Do any anons here know how to soothe or lessen the pain? Anything except otc painkillers?
No. 221292
>>221289painful breasts before periods can be caused by low progesterone
https://theantiagingdoctor.com/Survey.htmsee if you have any of the other symptoms
No. 221429
>>221292I've wondered about hormonal issues due to a few other reasons too, maybe I'll take this to a doctor. I actually did once when I was having really bad, sharp pain in one of my breasts but the doc said it's probably nothing. Lol.
>>221305I feel you so much, anon. God, wish we didn't have to struggle through this pain.
No. 221456
>>221429doctors are usually infuriatingly dismissive and completely worthless. They usually gaslight patients saying they're hypochondriacs or it's anxiety or it's nothing to worry about. And the rare times that they actually do something the condition is usually related to lifestyle and can be fixed with no medication but they decide to prescribe pharmaceuticals anyway
Nowadays I only use them to get blood work done
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do any other anons have hyper keratosis nipples? i never knew i had them until i got curious and started googling why my nipples looked like that. i went to the gyno and asked her if my nipple were normal bc i’ve never seen my type on anyone else. she said there was nothing wrong with them, and no one’s ever asked me anything about them. but it does make me insecure that im the only person i know that has them like this. picrel (nipple with hyperkeratosis)
No. 222629
>>221539Depends on your experience, I had a male doctor for the longest time who threw me on birth control and never gave me any sound advice for endo or pcos, all of this I ended up researching myself. Also never bothered letting me know there needs to be more testing. This dude was so bad I didn't even know what a laproscopy, metformin, or any other medication was until recently kek
I moved and got a female doctor, she immediately told me options I can have without birth control, and always scheduled follow ups
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Is it just me or are vanity sizing really taking effects on bras? My boobs are by no means big (I also have body dysmorphia from being called flat chested throughout high school and college so don't take my word on that) and I got a damn XL sports bra from Walmart similar to picrel and I'm literally bursting out of it. I also remember easily fitting into a 32D or 32C and now I'm on the verge of breaking these things? I got measured at a lingerie store and was told I was a 36B or something like that and my stupid ass actually got the B cup which the middle ended up having a 6 inch gap after a few months from stretching. Like I said my boobs are in no means large but it was never this bad? I could only imagine the pain for legitimately large boobed girls
No. 222640
>>222630I find that cup sizes are fine but bands are sooo much tighter than they should be for my measurements. Like, I got professionally fitted but the bands felt so tight it hurt and I couldn't wear them. I buy cheaper bras that come in generic clothes sizes, and I have to go 2 sizes up from my shirt size in the same brand, even after sizing up I prefer using an extender. This applies to regular bras, sports bras, bralettes etc, and has been true whether I was at the higher or lower end of a healthy BMI. I can't tell if I'm just hyper sensitive to tightness around my ribs or it's genuinely just shitty sizing. Or maybe I'm more of a fatass than I realized and shirts are forgiving so I can wear smaller sizes than I should, idk.
I just go braless as often as possible tbh.
No. 222662
>>221292i was lurking and checked this out of curiosity, now i think i should get my thyroid checked because of the symptoms + my mother had to operate on hers due to issues.
thank you so much nona for bringing this to my attention
No. 222946
>>222945Don't worry anon! You are doing the right thing, seeing someone about it asap, and that's all you can do! Sending good wishes and health
nonnie!
No. 223361
>>223147>>223158Thanks nannies. I can't feel the lump now; I only could find it once and my husband also had trouble locating it again. It's probably a normal lobe, but I'll be getting it check early next month. I was hoping to use my freebie annual exam for an IUD removal, but I won't delay getting this checked out. Thanks for all your help.
How do you tell a doctor when your husband found the lump? Just avoid mentioning it unless asked? Say you felt a lump in the shower? I've never had to talk about something like this before.
No. 229178
>>229171 my breasts are very similar nonna, never noticed them being very far apart until I gained weight. I also have a rectangular body shape and wide-set breasts or just a wide ribcage in general I guess.
Mine also have that ski-slope half full thing you describe and it looks stupid in shirts imo.
All of this stuff is like you said completely normal, but I hate how we have to think of ourselves negatively because our body doesn't fit whatever we see online or in media etc.
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>>229178yeah,media is super bad. I watched too much anime. My standards for pretty are not real and therefore can't be reached.
Thank you I feel not alone. I am more skinny, because I thought that I just need to be slimmer to get some curves. Well turns out there are no curves for me. Even if I would get more weight I would only be on the stomach.
No. 230217
>>230199Go to a female doctor? My gynecologist checks my boobs at the yearly check-up. It takes only a minute where they prod them a little bit and they don't touch your nips.
Could the boob pain be related to your period? Some women get pain in the breasts right before their period, it's a hormonal thing.
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Well, looks like I have to make an appointment to the gyno tomorrow bc while scratching myself I came across this lil lump in the top area of my left breast and I do not have the time nor energy for breast cancer FUCK
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>>236347this happens to me, it's psoriasis. i use picrel on my nipples every night after i shower and it stops the itching and redness completely. otherwise my nips are crazy dry and itchy, eventually they develop a bumpy rash and cracked skin. for me it's mostly my left nipple but they both itch sometimes.
No. 247130
>>247119It's very very normal and common
nonnie and I also have quite low-scoring breasts even though they aren't big. Mine also angle outwards like this < > and have that flat top part you also mentioned.
No. 258799
>>258758>>258760>>258764just stumbled upon this thread but want to contribute to this tangent (sorry if i go off topic). i don't feel exactly nauseous when poking my bellybutton, but it feels extremely weird and sometimes i get this weird tiny but sort of sharp pain that shoots directly down to my butt which makes cleaning it when i need to fucking annoying. i don't know why and never thought this was a problem but describing it now does sound like one. it only occurs when i go in it though, which i've only ever done to clean.
having my nipples touched/played with on the other hand, most times it is uncomfortable for me as well. i only enjoy it incredibly rarely but more often even when turned on it'll feel super weird.
No. 258823
>>258756The bellybutton thing… yeah there's a pretty similar uncomfortable feeling from both for me. Gives me the bad type of chills. I had one of my nipples pierced at one point and the guy doing it warned me not to mess with them for a few months. I got it as a visual thing and not for stim so that was easy.
I had never given much thought to nipple stim, it's just never been my thing but then a few years ago my bf att had an affair and while we were stuck living together for a few weeks afterwards he made stabs here and there at me and his new gf liking nipple stim was made out to be a huge deal. I know scrotes have their obsessions, mostly around buttplay but I'd never thought of nipple play as the height of what men want lol. Well tough luck. I still don't like it. Still won't partake in it. I don't feel I'm missing out tbh.
No. 259122
>>259112remember nona that we make fun of luna on here because she's a cow, yes people nitpick at cows appearances, but we wouldn't just do this to a random woman. your body is beautiful! people are mean to luna because she's a bad person. im sure other anons making fun of her have similar breasts, butts, and bodies. a lot of what people say online is projection and because of their own self esteem. women can be mean, especially when its anonymous. don't worry about your body. when it comes to men, they're just happy to see you naked and be close to you! they really don't care much about what your boobs look like, and if you get with some idiot who does he's not worth your time! i have saggy breasts too, low nipples, and mine are small, far apart, and have stretch marks from gaining and losing weight! i can never even make cleavage ! and that's ok! everyones bodies are different and beautiful and someone will love to see your boobs and love you! i hope you can gain some more self love nona, sending you good vibes!
No. 260786
>>260736i managed to clear up my chest acne with this: "Noble Formula 2% Pyrithione Zinc (ZnP) Original Emu Bar Soap, 3.25 oz" on amazon.
>>260688holy shit. yeah my mom never got her implants even replaced, she's had the same ones for almost 30 years. i tried to talk to her about it but she got weirdly defensive and wouldn't listen. even though they're supposed to be replaced every like 10 years or so.
No. 261414
>>261412What, do you think I do it daily? I do it like once in two months. I don't think that should cause breasts to lactate. Or else wouldn't women having sex all lactate because their bfs touch their nipples?
And no she didn't tell me to stop doing anything she said to not worry about it.
No. 261421
>>261414Only masturbating once every two months is weirder tbh. Why'd you even bring it up then lol
Anyway good luck with all that, definitely sounds like a hormone issue to me.
No. 261426
>>261421Only masturbate this way once in two months. I brought it up because the gyno mentioned it as the most probable culprit.
Honestly if you don't have any advice you didn't need to passive-aggressively reply.
No. 266068
>>266063I am too ashamed to go. This started a year ago with no weight gain or weight issues. It keeps going. Should probably see a doctor, thanks
nonny.
No. 266110
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>>265667Surgery can fix wide set breasts With good pocket placement
No. 266119
>>266109Not pregnant nor using any hormones, ie birth control.
>>266074Gonna book one tomorrow.
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>>266119Can you keep us updated,
nonny? Wishing you well
No. 266274
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>>266260Of course the drop didn't happen, she obviously freshly got them done and you don't know much about surgery. This is a few years after the surgery and they look exactly like my natural boobs. Of course they're not going to be "perfect" since natural boobs aren't perfect either. What even would an ideal boob job look like? If it's perky they're bolt ons if they're saggy they're botched, if they're round they're bolt ons and if they're not then you just wasted money. In fact if you didn't see her post op pictures you probably wouldn't even recognize the fact she got implants at all in this
No. 266330
>>266306>former flat chestthe first one in
>>266110 is flat chested to you?
No. 277027
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What do people mean by "exercise won't make your boobs perky it will just make your boobs look perky"?
No. 277040
>>277027i’m no expert, just a girl with big saggy boobs, but nothing changes them. maybe if you have smaller boobs chest exercises lift your breast’s “starting point” on your chest, but nothing can change the way boob fat hangs. especially if you have bigger breasts , this is just a dream sold to you, no amount of “muscle” tissue can lift the weight of big boobs, or change your skin/fat distribution.
even if you get a surgical boob lift they will start to sag again.
No. 277196
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I feel like a fraud. I only look good with my clothes on, when I take them off it’s all gone.I wear an E cup and I’m slim, and while I’ve gotten used to looking like a bimbo, I feel so disgusting when I look at myself. My breasts are saggy and when I look in the mirror I feel like an 80 yr old woman. I never take my bra off, I never sleep without it, my mom drilled into me the idea that they will sag more if I don’t and to her I own a lot of my disgust with my body because of the things she said.I wish I could wear cute dresses, backless dresses , 80% percent of the things sold in stores basically. I look at what other girls get to wear and look good in while I am limited to my safe choices. All the backless bras I’ve tried weren’t strong enough to sustain them, they are too heavy for them. I wish I could wear a dress without wearing a bra and without having to hide how disgusting I look. For me, bras are just a polite thing I wear not to gross people out. I would rather not be “sexy” than look like this. Are you even allowed to have low hanging boobs? I don’t get to see real boobs in the media so in turn I feel like some weird creature. When I lay on my back they fall to the sides and I get so self conscious. I don’t know what amount of self love could make me feel better in my skin. I can’t talk about this with others because I get ashamed and I don’t want them to imagine how horrible I look underneath my clothes.
No. 277206
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some scrote in the pro-ana scumbags thread was posting about tuberous breast deformities and how being an ana-chan in your teens can cause it. the exact thing happened to me which explains why i feel so insecure about my boobs now at age 22. they're pretty wide-set, no cleavage unless i push them together and i typically get a B cup in bras, the areolas are quite big lurch.jpeg and puffy unless they're cold, and they tend to droop down a bit. is there anyone else here who has tuberous breasts? what, if anything, have you done for them?
i want a breast lift but they're so damn expensive. they don't look that bad if they're cold but if i've just taken my top off or something i literally want to cut them off, they look so bad. i feel so disgusted with them and it's really affecting my self-esteem and confidence with wearing tank tops, bikinis, etc. just want cute perky tits nonnas i'm so sad
also how fucked up is it that society has conditioned us to care this much about some fat glands that were designed to feed our offspring
No. 277209
>>277206i also got self conscious about mine after reading that scrote’s post but it’s exactly like you said, they’re there for feeding my future babies, not for men to approve or disapprove of, so absolutely fuck anyone who doesn’t like them. They can go to hell. As long as they work as intended then I’m going to work on becoming comfortable with them.
I hope you’re able to find some peace too nonna.
No. 277253
>>277196Anon I know my opinion won't change your opinion but I think low hanging breasts look much better than obviously done ones with pepperoni nipples that look like they came from a horror story. The girl in your picture looks good and I knew a few men who were into big boobs, they usually liked women with saggier breasts compared to the plastic ones. I even had one online friend(Ik im sorry) send a picture of a woman whose breasts sagged to her tummy and say this was his ideal. Given she was cute otherwise but still, her body was nowhere near perfect yet it still was beautiful.
If you wanna get them reduced because of your own discomfort orbeauty ideals, go ahead but don't butcher yourself for some cheap dresses. I have C cup and a small frame, even I look exposed when I wear low cut stuff because that's just how it works unless you're really small-chested.
>>277206My boobs look like yours and I've always gotten compliments by my friends(most see them in bikini/bra at most) so don't sweat it. Men obsessed with anachans love negging women and driving them to make dangerous unhealthy choices to get mens dicks hard, don't let a maggot influence your view. They're the same kind of men who will force their wife or gf to get surgery.
No. 277295
>>277209>>277253thank you nonnas, i didn't really think much of them until i was 17 or so and started seeing other girls' breasts and realised that mine were not 'normal'. i'm trying to work on it as my boyfriend says he loves them regardless but i'm not going to lie, i'm still considering saving in secret for a lift.
>>277273not to go OT but i'm 100% certain that skelly fetishists and nonces lurk in those pro-ana scumbag threads, mainly due to the revealing body checks cows post and the tendency for them to skew towards being young women. whoever they were, they weren't even really talking about the 'dangers' of it since there's no real dangers, more just critiquing a 16-year-old's breasts in a thinly-veiled attempt at sounding like a woman 'concerned' for young girls, but i digress
No. 277315
>>277196All boobs with any fat to them fall to the sides when you lie on your back it's called gravity. Most guys would think the woman in that pic is sexy as hell, is it supposed to be a bad example?
>>277206No boobs naturally have cleavage either.
No. 277402
>>277295I just read that skelly post and he
>perved on his cousin probably when she was underage and stared at her tits long enough to analyze them>harassed his cousins underage sister about cousins boobs and told the sister about how cousins boobs didn't look good enough >told anons their tits were deformed so the already mentally ill skellies with body dysmorphia would go through surgery to selfharm moreIt's definitely a male and I really hope he gets taken away before he sexually assaults his relatives. Perving on kids and secretly watching your relatives naked bodies is NOT ok at all.
No. 277612
>>277605If it's cyclical breat pain, it should stop hurting once you get your period. You might want to track it for a while and see if it's indeed related to your period.
I did some research on it and it seems there's unfortunately little research done on cyclical breast pain so there's not much I can offer in terms of how to lessen the pain.
No. 277629
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>>277624I get this so badly. I bought picrel, it's a heating pad that I am able to wrap around my body/chest, since my breast pain is mostly on the outside parts of my boobs and regular heating pads couldn't reach both sides at once. I was really surprised that there aren't (electric) breast-specific heating pads. There was one heating pad bra but it was Chinese as fuck and probably dangerous. I did see a lot of those gel packs that you microwave, made for breastfeeding women. I wanted something electric though because I hate having to reheat those gel packs all the time. You may also be able to find Hot Hands (little packs that you shake and put in your pocket on cold days) that are large enough and stick them inside your bra, just be careful though with the heat against your naked skin obviously. Look up breast massage for pain relief. It can help a bit. Good luck nony! Wishing you all the breast.
The heating pad in picrel is called "Sunbeam Flexfit Heating Pad" if anyone was interested.
No. 277630
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>>277629Samefag, here is a pic of the gel things I was talking about.
No. 277807
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More of a vent but since it's related to breasts, I think other nonnies here might relate. I wish big boobs weren't so, so sexualized and pornified, I feel uncomfortable when how big boobs are depicted in everything as these… bulbous sacks, how bigger the breasts the more vapid the girl is apparently. How they're so objectified in artwork, it's all so uncomfortable. I know everything a woman does is pornified, I'm just talking about one thing right now, I know we will never escape it. I wish big breasts weren't seen as so vulgar and cheap and R18, essentially. Even forgetting moids, cute girly things just don't look cute and girly when you have a huge cleavage on display, they make me feel too grown and matronly. Ever since puberty, I've hated my breasts. They don't fit in cute, trendy dresses and fashion. They just look vulgar, they make me look like a grandma. I get told to be mindful of them and cover them up and wear loose clothes and hide them and just… They are so saggy. I don't like how I look, I really don't. I lost weight, shitton, to reduce them but they stayed the same, somehow got more saggy. But now even more disproportionate. If I want a reduction, I'll have to pay out of my own pocket and I don't have that sort of money, nor do I trust the surgeons in my third-world country. I'm scared of the scarring. I just feel overwhelmed, probably because pms has made them swell up and become painful so it's all I can think about right now. I want chic, fashionable, cute smaller breasts that look nice in clothes. I know that the point of supermodels and high fashion is to literally be exclusionary, I know, I'm just in my feels today and my boobs hurt really bad and feel too huge.
No. 277808
>>277630ooo these sound amazing for painful period boobs, thank you for sharing nona!
>>277697i'm not trying to worry you, but don't think like 'i'm too young to get it' or 'i don't have relatives with it' when it comes to things like this, because that's sadly not how life works. that being said, i don't think you should be concerned in this case - are you sure it couldn't be hormonal? maybe try making a note of when it happens to see if you can find any patterns.
No. 278300
Dumb vent but i wish i was one of those girls who has any sensation in her nipples. I loooove the idea of my nipples being played with, licked, etc, but i just don't feel anything at all, and it's not like if someone were to lick my arm, no, it's worse than that, it's like i have zero nerves. It'd feel better to have my arm licked, any part of my skin is more sensitive than my nipples. They feel exactly how a limb or your mouth feels like after anesthesia, as if it isn't part of my body, i can't even process that it's a part of me. It saddens me.
I know many anons said they didn't feel anything either, but when you say that do you mean it how i mean it? Like literally no feeling at all as if there was no nerves? I heard women who get boobjob can have this problem but i've never gotten surgery. I don't know.
No. 278675
>>278300I'd never been into nipple stuff and I never cared much about it. Then a few years back my ex cheated and left me for that woman. He was pornsick in alot of ways to do with ass play so I assumed some shit like that was what had him fucking around behind my back. I didn't want to know. But then one day around the time I'm packing up to move out he randomly brags that his new gf loves nipple stim and can't get enough of it. Can practically come from it. Random info I never asked for. I never thought that was a thing anyone gave too much of a fuck about at our age. This man has a gaping prolapsed asshole fetish and he's talking about nipple rubbing like it's up there as some crazy fantasy. I think in reality he was just someone who focused on whetever sex acts were out of his reach. Soon as he's regularly getting it he moves onto wanting something else.
I've never felt much of a void from not having sensation there. I gained some sensation after a nipple piercing on one side, I'm not a fan of that side being touched. It reminds me of when you put your finger too deep in your belly button and you get these uncomfortable chills telling you to stop fucking with it. That's my left nipple. My right is numb.
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>>278684I had to google around a bit, I don't know if mine are completely inverted, more like flat like pic rel. They can pop out if its cold or if I flick them but they still have that flatness to the top of them (like a tiny volcano) I am
>>278502 so I guess I have a little sensitivity in them but not the amount I hear others have in them.
No. 278839
>>278833thanks anon. it's not like I don't appreciate people being concerned, but it's like… the reason my breasts look like this in the first place is
because I didn't like my body as it was (ana-chan and genderspecial phase) so in my mind it's like undoing the self-harm-y damage I caused as a stupid kid. I know I can exercise to tone up but there's no undoing smushing my poor breasts into pancakes, damaging the tissue and ruining the skin elasticity, for a year. I like how my bf put it, actually: he thinks I'm fine as I am, and that I should do what I can via natural means first (exercise and such), and
then if I'm still not happy I can seek out the procedure. that seems much more reasonable to me than "just love yourself <3 confidence is what's attractive!" when I'd be much more confident with the lift. like, there are times when I'm fine with how my body looks - squishy belly, stretch marks, and all - but I'm
never okay with how my breasts look. it's my biggest hangup. I'm going to start saving specifically for that and see how I feel after I get some muscle definition. it's not like I can rush the decision either, it's going to take a looong time for a part timer to save up 10k on top of my regular savings.
No. 278869
>>278809>flat saggy breastsNo offence op but loads of girls think of their boobs like this and just don’t realise how run of the mill their features are. Having been an anachan genderspecial and with some dysmorphia, you may just have a less realistic idea of what a standard woman’s body should look like and I think part of you might still be grasping for an issue to pick on yourself with. Obviously I don’t know you but weight fluctuation and binding has to be very serious for it to completely change your breast structure, it’s not like you were nursing babies. You said you did all of this in your teens, so you don’t actually have a memory of properly developed breasts to compare. Overestimating the difference between your current and would’ve been body sounds like excellent aimless spiral fuel. If everyone around you thinks you look fine, you look fine.
Depending on your age, they could still have some growing left. Filling out a little more may naturally provide the visual improvement you’re looking for. If you want a lift, that‘s ultimately up to you but it isn’t wrong to dissuade you from possibly unnecessary cosmetic surgery. It sounds like everyone supports and wants the best for you, plus you have your whole life to get it done so you can afford to wait. The last anon is right that you should try reaching body neutrality first. The way you feel is all in your head and you’re cursing yourself for something you may not have done. It feels so good to love yourself on your own, just because. Maybe try hanging out with your bf naked, so you don’t have to look at yourself directly but so you can get see firsthand how their presence doesn’t make you appear worse or abnormal. Then after becoming a non-issue, they’ll have less control over your mood and you can move on with your life.
No. 278879
>>278869>If everyone around you thinks you look fine, you look fine.my mother saw me without in a bra (I was in my bedroom) and said that no one wants to see my saggy tits and that she would help me pay to fix them. back in high school a girl that saw me changing said they don't even look like boobs. I'm in my mid 20s so I don't think it's a matter of me filling out and growing into them. you're probably right though I honestly can't remember when I started noticing they looked this way, that might have been how they were before the weight loss/gain and binding. it just sucks. I feel gross going braless at night to sleep, showering is harder, being naked around my bf is embarrassing even though he says he really likes how my chest looks, I'm always conscious of them during sex, I never go swimming because finding a bathing suit that's flattering is a nightmare, I cry over them sometimes like I'm an insecure teenager again, it's hell. I guess the body dysmorphia just makes me feel insane, it'd almost be a comfort to know for sure that yes I really do look this way and that it's not all in my head. but it probably is. I don't know
thank you for replying
No. 278915
>>278879Have you ever seen regular women's breasts? Public baths like hammams and saunas, North-European swimming pools, public changing rooms, nude beaches (mixed), shit like that. Anons were talking about it another thread I think, it allows to see regular people naked in a non-sexual context. An ex-anachan friend of mine was deadly afraid of it but she had too, in an European country. It helped her change her outlook on her body, especially in always trying to present it in an attractive way as in those contexts, nobody is looking at you sexually. (Of course I recommend female-only spaces if you can, it's even harder to be comfortable in mixed nude places - but even in those contexts, in my experience nobody is looking at you in a sexual way and if a man does he is not welcome there.)
I'll be honest, it doesn't really matter of your breasts are saggy pr not. The outlook that transpires from your post makes me think you still wouldn't be happy with yourself afterwards. Would you recommend a nosejob to a woman that turned all the mirors in her home and wears a covid mask all day long to avoid seeing her nose? What if you do the surgery and after you'll have an issue with your belly and want a tummy tuck? You said you're overall feeling doughy and this won't change with a breast lift. Why not take up a sport that you enjoy? Don't go into it for the aesthetic benefits, but for the physical and mental ones. Try a bunch of them. I wouldn't recommend weightlifting too, but something more fun and all-encompassing. See where it takes you and what your body is capable of instead of simply looking a certain way. Society's mentality is always to make women see their body as a commodity, as a tool to be attractive, that has to be shaped and modeled to look a certain way. Your body is simply the material part of yourself. It's purpose to make you be alive, stay alive, move, sit, throw shit at a wall, lift, run, swim, jump, sense the world around you. Appearance is not negligible, of course, but it is secondary to function and health, and we have the tendency to take health for granted, chop our bodies in disconnected body parts and try to maximize the looks of each one of them like we're designing a car in a CAD program. It's impossible to be happy with yourself with such an outlook, and even gorgeous women botch themselves because they still have such a mentality.
My advice : get naked around other women that are not bitchy teenage girls, do a sport that you like twice a week, then reevaluate how you feel about your breasts a year or two. You'd be surprised!
No. 278918
>>278915Nta but most types of nosejobs are different from removing excess skin/fixing an unproperly developed feature. It's normalized to get expensive braces to fix even normal looking teeth (even though most people would have naturally imperfect teeth otherwise), seeing a dermatologist, getting tons of hair treatments and eyelashes on perfectly normal looking eyelashes. I don't see why people suddenly foam at the mouth when women want a surgery to have properly formed breasts. Tbh if I had fucked up teeth, no eyelashes, horrible skin and prematurely saggy and shapeless breasts I'd much rather invest in breast surgery. A lot of women just value the appearance of their breasts, why or how is that any different from women fixing fucked up teeth or anything?
I also wanna bring up that no one cares if men remove excess skin, get gyno surgery, etc but it feels extremely unfair that it's taboo for women to get surgeries that could massively benefit their own mental health just because of half ass "love yourself uwu" speeches from people who'd probably turn around and body shame that same woman if she pissed her off
No. 279057
>>278879>>278879> thanks for replying (Ayrt, sorry it’s taken days to respond) no problem anon and I totally get where you’re coming from. Do you experience weird discomfort when the skin touches? Non padded and non wired bras can ease you into overcoming that because you still get some lift and structure with just a little more skin-to-skin contact and natural movement. Bathing suits can be an issue for all types of boobs. Stringy, halterneck tops with padded triangles can give you the control to tighten and hold them up closer to your chest. Try some days here and there at home in a non-standard bra or without a bra and baggy tops. I know it sounds cheesy but also have a go occasionally just telling yourself your boobs are normal or cute in the mirror, you could close your eyes and have your boyfriend say nice things.
Even if your breasts were affected by binding etc, you don’t deserve to feel that low about yourself. This may sound objectifying but consider that the only aforementioned person attracted to women likes them. Your mother was just plain wrong as they are evidently pretty boobs (and also demented for trying to threaten you with sex appeal). The insulting comments you’ve received only stem from immature or severely warped misogynistic ideas other people have absorbed. You shouldn’t feel ashamed for having this response considering all that unnecessarily negative messaging, but it’s a setback you can get over.
No. 279345
>>279223Nta, Idk if this helps but I'm 25 and recently I just woke up and didn't feel bad about my turbo tubular tiddies anymore. My Nigel never cared that they aren't what we expect them to look like, but suddenly I didn't care either. I didn't believe him before but now I do.
I do think it has to come from within you. Hope this post makes even one woman at least wait before surgery. Can't believe I was considering it. It's wild how debilitating "learned shame" can be.
No. 279414
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>>279356Hey I'm the anon who you originally replied to, I totally get you. I want to feel good in myself and I just can't because unless it's cold I just have these flappy triangles on my chest that have no fullness/roundness, and look like they're sliding away from eachother. People think because I have small boobs that I could easily go braless, I WISH. If they were nice and round and normal looking I would never wear a bra, but with how I am right now, they'd see how tubular-esque they are kek. I couldn't give a shit about moid opinion, I want to feel sexy and good in myself and with my current tits it's impossible. I will hold off for a few years, I am fully aware of how much upkeep and complications that boob jobs can bring. I wish I could tell you that it's fine but it would feel hypocritical to try comfort you if that makes sense because I'm in the exact same situation and hate it. So, yeah, here's to hoping we can reach some kind of neutrality with it or, if you do end up getting ps, I hope it's the outcome you wanted and you feel good! I'm pretty anti-ps, which is so fucking annoying because this feels like a last resort. But, being only 19, I will give myself time to think. I've lost all hope of them being normal, though. I wish we could talk privately non-anonymously, hope that doesn't sound weird but I yearn for someone to talk about this with in-depth. If you know how we could somehow contact eachother let me know (if you don't want to outside of here I totally get it lol.) much love nona
No. 279733
>>279414I would usually be too embarrassed, im not an internet coomer but DAMN GIRL COME ON
As a lesbo I am incredibly attracted to this type just as much as the others. Which means men definitely are too, so don’t worry. Guys will pick stuff out about you and try to make you insecure as a form of control, don’t fall for it. Seriously, I saw this happen to an auntie, a guy she was with who kept knocking her confidence. All booba are beautiful, I’m not even telling white lies, when you love yourself it shows.
No. 283293
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Newfag here, mini vent. got a breast reduction in May, I started as a J cup with the build of an uppercase P. It was terrible, and I got a reduction, down to a B cup. I look normal now with clothes on
I know its common for breast reductions that are super big like that to leave a scar (I got the anchor scar), but mine seems really prominent. I use silicon tape, and all the shit my surgeon says to, but I guess my skin scars differently.
I’m so fucking sad. I finally got the breasts I wanted, and I look proportionate for once. I thought I’d be happy with the results, and I am with clothes on. But naked, I have these ugly troony scars that are way darker than expected. Does anyone know how to lighten these without surgery?
Pic for anchor scar reference
No. 284351
>>279414Ayrt and I’m so sorry for the late reply. I don’t come on here that often but I feel the exact same way and I remember how devastated I was when I was your age and Im just repeating myself but like I said I still struggle with it every day. I don’t think the other anons who don’t have this and tell you to not care about it actually know how incredibly deformed we feel. Seriously, I look at myself in the mirror and cannot imagine any person male or female looking at my body and finding anywhere close to attractive.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope you also manage to somehow feel good about yourself whether it’s through acceptance or ps. You’re so young still pls don’t let this take over your life. I’m so proud of you for being so rational and mature about this. Know that so many others struggle with this or have way more severe forms of this. Pls don’t hesitate to keep posting, I’m always gonna come back to reply. Consider yourself hugged dear nonita.
No. 285912
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>>285890Tbh that's why I completely ignore any space where such discussions take place because it seems mostly like some kind of weird pipeline.
Look. I am bigger framed and taller than, what, 95% of people in the world? I also have huge shoulders, a near 1.0 waist hip ratio, almost no boobs. I probably look 4x chunkier than picrel despite being 19 bmi too. So. Yep. Pretty much most discussions from women about the subject give me massive brain fog.
Not once in my entire life have I ever been crept on either so I don't think I am an amazonian goddess either or even have the potential to be.
I am aware that I will never be hot or whatever so I just try opting out of such discussions or else I'll get even more crazy.
No. 287354
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Haven't lurked in this particular thread so im sorry if something like this has already been spoken about
Any other current nonnas trying to deal with your boobs just suddenly going up several sizes? As a teen I was consistently a 32B (US, since ik not everyone is american here) then I hit 21 and suddenly found none of my bras fit well, only to find out currently I'm 34DDD. Its weird. Im glad mine are pretty perky but sometimes they just feel like water balloons. Tried to Google about it and all I got were pregnancy related things; I haven't had sex in well over a month and tbf my period is about to start, so maybe that's why, but damn is it uncomfortable. Been a few years having bigger tits and im still not used to them; and I have a love hate relationship with them. Any advice?
No. 287468
>>287354I was a C cup for a few years and assumed that was going to be my long term size as long as I didn't gain mad weight. I thought I was done growing. At 21 I went to get measured because my bras seemed snug and I was 34DD. I hadn't gained weight so I was small but then my bust and kinda my rib cage were bigger than the rest of me. I'm not humblebragging about muh small waist/bigger bust because tbh I didn't like those proportions on myself. I tried on these DD bras at the bra fitting and I wanted to cry at how bulky I felt all of a sudden. I left without a bra and chose to look at sports bras instead. Nothing too constrictive but a medium support. The bras in that previous store were all adding bulk and lift that I wasn't on board for. They caused me more of a panic than anything.
Its years later now. I'm not as skinny as I was at 20 but I'm not much bigger either. I feel like I've settled into proportions that I'm comfortable with. I've never worn a 'normal' bra since that day because I don't want to be pushed up and out. I don't know why bras over a certain size still often come with hella padding. Bra choice made the biggest difference to me. I wondered if my new bra choice would lead to sagging but 12 years in I'm not noticing anything like that.
No. 290172
Ummm, this is a weird thing to ask and come up with, but after reading tranny threads I kinda want to rub hormones on my chest to make boobs grow. I have a flat chest, like my boobs are non-existant and only my br nips indicate that I have a female chest. So I asked a gynecologist if it possible to make boobs grow and she said that yes, I can use hormones for that. Now, as I read the MtF general, I know that breasts can grow in a weird way and some get these weird ass tube tits.
Anyone here has any experience with growing their breasts with the use of hormones?
I don't really mind my flat chest, it's very comfy to not have boobs bothering you when you work out, etc. And I don't need to bother with buying a correct bra, since I can just wear a super comfy sports bras, but still being totally flat down there feels a little bit… idk, lacking.
No. 290602
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ik this is an older thread but whatever
im super insecure about my nips. I’m pretty flat chested (32AA) but they’re puffy, so they take up like half my limited boobage. picrel of some rando porn screencap i found on google similar to what mine look like. obvs not posting my own nips lol.
any advice or thoughts? idrc if it’s pos or neg, just want to know what people think of puffy nips. haven’t encountered anyone else irl who has them
No. 319821
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Anyone else's mom weird about your boobs? My mom is 100% flat chested, no discernable breast tissue at all and I get that that's probably been hard for her and I sympathize that she has a huge complex about it, but I wish she would stop commenting about my boobs. It's just weird. It's not like she does it a lot, but I wish she would do it never. She treats me like i've got absolutely massive boobalahoobas when I don't, they're actually just under the smallest size of bra you can find in stores. I'm actually very thankful I have smallish boobs because I'm probably a little ~~~dysphoric~~~ or whatever and so when she points out my boobs and how "nice" and "big" they are it weirds me out and makes me self conscious even though I know they're not that big.
I'm on a medication that has the potential to cause permeant breast growth as a side effect (among other things) and when i tried to discuss with her about if I should follow the doctor's advice and go up a dose, or not do it due to really not liking the way it's redistributing my body fat, all she said is she wished she could go on that medicine and what's the problem boob growth is a good thing! Ugh
No. 321061
>>321026Definitely not. I'm 26 this year and mine are still small enough that I have never had to find my cup size.
It likely depends on genes, so look to how your older female family members developed.
No. 321062
>>321061ok, it's reassuring to hear that it didn't happen to you. I'm turning 24 soon and I now have a newfound fear of boobmageddon.
>look to how your older female family members developed.Mother: flat as a board
Grandmother1: breasting boobily
Grandmother2: breasting boobily
Aunts: Also breasting boobily
Conclusion: I Guess We'll Fucken See
No. 321114
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ok so i have some questions for the nonnies who are on birth control
for context:
i just recently started a different birth control pill, previously was on the minipill but it completely disregulated my period so now i've switched over to yasmin(combo pill)
i knew breast size increase / swelling could happen and was already looking forward to it, however i didnt expect it to be so much and happen so fast. im only on the second month and i've gone from wearing an A cup, to having size 36B bras cut into my boobs
so my questions are
>have u had a similar experience of them very rapidly changing size or even shape when starting birth control?
>if you've been on it for a while, was it rly just swelling and did it go down as the months went by, or did it stay the same?
>if it was swelling, when it decreased did u go back to your original bra size or did u go up/down?
sorry if this is confusing, im bad with words.
No. 321180
>>321139It's a myth in east asia that the more a man touched your boobs the bigger they get hehe. In reality massaging them is good for health and can help maintain a nice shape by distributing the fat and stimulating blood flow so in theory they should grow but alas I think it is not possible.
I massage them at least twice a day, really whenever I can I am squishing my boobs, it's soothing.
No. 321197
>>321026Never happened to me, but my boobs were already big at ~14.
>>321029My areolas are huge and sorta crooked/diagonal? But whatever, who cares I'm not going to get neurotic over something so minor. I wouldn't want to date a guy who would nitpick like that so who cares if a guy hates it.
No. 321329
>>321242wow you have normal breasts. congratulations. i hope you don't have a daughter or you otherwise learn to be a better woman before she starts picking things up from you and you ruin her mental self.
love yourself my god.
https://www.bratabase.com/breast-shapes/ No. 329391
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Is it normal to just have not super sensitive nips? Does it come and go away during certain periods? I've never had them feel sensitive/good like other people talk about, I can pinch squeeze or have them bitten (kek) and it doesn't feel any different than any other part of my skin. I'm wondering if getting them pierced would make them feel something
No. 329396
>>329391yeah, I think we had a discussion maybe in the masturbation thread about this a while back and the two reactions were either
>even the water from the shower on my nips makes me almost come (yes this was a real post)or
>idgi, they don't feel any different than my elbow or somethingI fall into camp 2 like you.
No. 329929
>>329391The only time i feel something is very rare occasions, talking can count on one hand the number of times, my hormones were fluctuating just right that made my entire breasts incredible sore and tender, to the point it hurt while bathing myself. i am not sensitive there at all outside of these rare occasions.
i was looking into it a while back because my boyfriends nipples are sensitive, when we are cuddling or kissing he likes when i rub his chest, and i wanted to see if there was any research into it. i ended up read about how people can make them more sensitive. there is a huge fetish for it online and men and women will buy these little suction cups to put on their nipples and it does two things: elongates them and makes them more sensitive. i found that interesting but I'm not interested in longer nips so I'll pass on that.
No. 330910
>>277206>>277209>>277253>>277273>>277295>>277402>>277403So this is old af but I was just looking through this thread and I wanted to say, I'm the tubular-fag from the scumbags thread and my posts were completely misinterpreted. I wasn't posting to make anyone feel bad about their breasts, I was using the example of "oh my older cousin had it happen to her" when in reality it was both my older cousin and me. I anachanned through puberty with another cousin who was about 8 months younger than me. And her breasts developed fine but mine started looking very unusual. She opened up to me that her older sister was undergoing a breast augmentation and told me it was because one of her breasts was tuberous. And that her older sister also anachanned through puberty and warned her younger sister, who then warned me, and I made the connection that my breast issue could be because of my anachanning. I can see why people thought I was a moid because I brought up the topic of breasts, but then when I tried to explain my reasoning in the post about my cousins everyone jumped to thinking I was a moid who peeped on my cousin naked and then used that knowledge to groom my younger cousin out of starving herself, and I got banned before I could explain. I felt extremely bad about my comment because it was directed at Niamh, who I thought was 19 or 20 at the time, the same age I was when I quit anachanning. I shouldn't have even made the comment, but she reminded me so much of myself I thought maybe a scare tactic like that could set her straight, like it did for me and my cousin. But it was dumb of me and I feel awful about making anyone feel bad about their body, I truly thought it would jump start Niamh's recovery but that was a major overstep and extremely naive of me.
No. 330919
>>330910>everyone jumped to thinking I was a moid and I got bannedTypical lolcow experience.
Mods are supposed to ban baseless moid/tranny accusations now jsyk
No. 335075
>>335074>but I doubt it Cus I’m only 19You do know you need to have given birth to start lactating, right? Or have a hormone-related disease.
Fucking zoomers.
>Is it normalMost likely yes. Check your nipples from time to time.
No. 335081
>>335075Nta but you can definitely lactate without having actually been pregnant. Medication and stimulation can cause it (although not common afaik). There are also ways to purposefully induce lactation.
>>335074You should go to a doctor if possible. "Little white dots" is unclear but if it is lactation, that's not normal.
No. 335290
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>mfw I have the results of the mammogram I had last week and it says the doctor found different cysts compared to the last mammogram last year.
I know my gynecologist will tell me that I shouldn't worry, but still.
No. 341300
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My tits literally look like his because of my huge fucking ribcage I want to end it
No. 341430
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Boyfriend is pressuring me to do retarded breast enlarging massages. I consider it total bullshit, are there any people here who've experienced success from such a thing. Inb4 why are you listening to a man, it's unhealthy to be pressed to change your body, ect. Yes, I know, no lectures please.
No. 341434
>>341430why though? does he want you to have bigger breast or does he just want to touch them more? kek
also i researched about breast growth when i was still developing and everything that included "breast enlarging massages" just said it didn't work and there were no changes
No. 341435
>>341430I tried all the breast enlarging tipz and trickzzz when I was 15-16, trust me they don't work kek. I'm sure you can find proper scientific evidence if you want to.
I hope you're making him epilate his pits, balls and anus to return the favour if you insist on staying with your asshole bf.
No. 341461
>>341434Not touching them. He wants me to do the massages not him. I figured about as much as far as it doing anything. I agreed to do it on account of it not really being harmful either. However I rejected one of the massages that told me to push my lymph spots by my tits till it aches because that seems dangerous. There is a lymph release massage thats not total BS that seems potentially safe but your boob is just one part of it and its typically done by someone who knows the system better than me and I'm not trying to fuck up and hurt myself.
The shit he sent me is made by fucking women too. I can't tell you how much I hate women who spread lies while trying to show off as a representative of women trying to gain some sort of attention. Although I guess there's always the potential some of the girls who blog this shit just hallucinated their tits growing. According to him I'll see growth in 3 months time. So I'll offer myself up as proof that its fucking dumb. Maybe he can spread it among the men he knows afterwards so no goof pesters his girlfriend about this again.
No. 341472
>>341430I've been trying the massages myself for a while and while it feels comforting I don't think it makes much of a difference in the long run especially on its own
That being said your boyfriend is genuinely retarded and tell him to touch the lymph nodes on his ballsack or fuck off. He seems like a coomer
No. 341486
>>341403Sunk cost fallacy, peer pressure, unadressed CSA, then lack of knowledge about the irreversibility of it, I wasn't even 20. I was basically groomed by adult troons into thinking it was some goal ever since I was 13. I clearly remember before going under GA the grifter surgeon asking me if I was "really sure" and replying yes because there was obviously no turning back.
It was retarded and I miss my chest
No. 341519
>>341286nonnie i have a super similar story
They were so fucking oversized when I was younger, developed an eating disorder and got pregnant but lost it at 4 months and ever since they're AWFUL i feel so old when im not wearing a bra but im a 30e so also struggle finding good bras
No. 341560
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>>341466Sorry, ladies. He believes in jelqing so that wouldn't do anything. Hes not evil just a bit gullible about certain things.
No. 341567
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>>341564Yeah my reaction at first was to want pull off and eat my own skin as I'm very sensitive to critique I can't do anything about. But, now if anything I am just mildly annoyed to disaffected to thinking it's kind of funny. I asked because I wondered if anyone against all logic actually got something from this.