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No. 2205883 [Reply]

Let's fix our lives.
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No. 2469004

>>2448291
I have had the same issues because of sexual traumas. Honestly there's no quick fix, you have to accept that he has done a lot of damage to you and it will take time to build that up. But it should be your top priority to build your self-worth back and love yourself. This is your root issue and things like not wanting to dress up, being shy, losing libido are only symptoms. Also, lacking self-worth puts you at risk of being abused once again.

The easiest thing I did to fix that issue seems kinda silly but it worked quickly : I just told myself things like "I love myself, I look good, I feel good, I'm confident, I feel grateful" while staring at myself in the mirror, atleast once a day. After a week or two my brain automatically spurs positive thoughts when seeing my reflection, instead of the usual "I look tired today, I have a huge pimple, I don't even wan't to go out". In the same vein, when I'm anxious before a social interaction, I'll repeat in my heads encouraging things like "I'm a confident, nice person, and others enjoy my company". It may sound stupid but you probably already do this with negative thoughts, and those negative thoughts have shaped your perception of yourself with enough repetition and time - the goal is to reverse that process.

Pair that with something more engaging but that you won't regret: find a sport you like, yoga, going to the gym, running, stretching or whatever. Something that will make you feel great in your body and proud of yourself. Really stick with something, even if it's just a few minutes a day. It's not an instant fix but just a month of daily activity will make you feel better about yourself, guaranteed.

Just take care of yourself in general, body and mind. Say nice things to yourself. Act like you're a mom taking care of an hurt child, so be gentle and patient with yourself. Change will come in time but you will not go back to who you were before, you'll be an even stronger and better version of yourself. This guy doesn't hold any power over you anymore, you have the power and will to grow out of this and reclaim your love back. Good luck nona, I believe in you.

No. 2495966

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>be me, chronically lonely bpdfag
>read article about someone in the same profession as me nursing who got struck off for stealing controlled drugs and using on the job
>probably just some addict but project onto her
>"wow a bpdfag, just like me!" (i smoke weed once in a blue moon at most)
>start imaginging our life together as girlfriends
>unsuccessfully attempt to google her so i can find out more about her and see her cute face again

What the fuck?

No. 2495979

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>>2495966
What if you bailed her out anon? Then the good times can begin, exactly like how you imagined

No. 2495981

>>2495966
this could be us for real nona
for real though i don't know how to merge being a normie nurse at work with also being a chronically online freak of nature im just happy to know theres more than one of us

No. 2496007

>>2495979
I don't believe she 100% doesn't have a Nigel and it would kill me

>>2495981
Everyone at my workplace knows I'm weird at this point due to my BPD/autism combo, inability to not overshare and a few other things. I think it only adds to my loneliness especially since I went off social media but I try to hide it. btw I'm a britbong, call me x



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No. 2494833 [Reply]

SUMMARY:

Lucinda is an anorexic, bulimic self-harmer with schizophrenia who is convinced starving and puking helps condition her into a "unicorn state". Creepy, cooky, mysterious and spooky, and overall a trainwreck who makes for great entertainment and milky(often harmless) misadventures.

>trans and neurodivergent

>member from twitter's eating disorder and self harm communities (edtwt and shtwt)
>puerto rican unicorn starving and peeing everywhere
>terminally online, often daily posts naked photos to her mostly underage fanbase
>notorious self harmer, has visible cuts all over her body
>has eaten garbage, cat food, hand sanitizer and hydrogen peroxide
>purges 11 times a day
>medication is evil and schizophrenia is a lie, i have powers
>poor hygiene, needs a shower
>returned from major heart surgery and a several month long hiatus to recover
>immediately relapsed
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No. 2494835

screwed up the previous link here is the corrected one
>>>/snow/1775242

No. 2494836

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guys i think she may actually be on a recovery arc she relapsed really bad back in november.
this is her as of a few weeks ago

No. 2494837

Anon, this is /ot/…

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No. 2494448 [Reply]

2000 years ago Jesus Christ died in a cross for you, for your sins

Jesus loves you, thats why we are celebrating this date today

God bless al of you nonnas


<3(Unnecessary thread )
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No. 2494617

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>>2494595
When I was a kid we would do an egg hunt with the plastic eggs filled with candy in addition to 2-3 bigger gifts. I remember one year I got hamtaro ham ham heartbreak as part of my Easter presents for example. Everything was “hidden” around the yard so it was like a scavenger hunt finding all of your presents and putting them in your basket. Then for dinner we would have a fancier meal than usual like ham but nothing too extravagant like for Christmas.

No. 2494719

>>2494595
I went to the beach and ate fish n chips.

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Greek tradition is to spend it with family and roast a lamb on the spit in the backyard or bake it in the oven, crack dyed boiled eggs, eat greek food and pastries, and tsoureki (sweet braided bread) is important. It's super fun. there's also usually dancing. the night before you gather and light candles. there's fireworks on both days.

No. 2494734

>>2494595
Go to church, sit around for a few hours, and then eat the most delicious food known to man, prepared for you by a legion of little old ladies who have perfected their craft over decades of Easter Sunday brunch competition.

No. 2494743

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he rises



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No. 794335 [Reply]

Discuss the good, the bad and the ugly of the once shitholecommie-state turned high tech superpower.


Taiwan discussion is also permitted as it hasn’t abandoned its ROC label.
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No. 2490494

I feel like insane for saying this, but has anyone else noticed that the evil pink bear from Toy Story seems really popular in China? When I'm on the China side of youtube, it seems like his face pops up a lot. For example, in this vid (Im fairly certain this channel is based in China) at 22:00 they're using a container with the evil pink bear's face. Did Pixar just market the evil pink bear super hard in China??????

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No. 2491244

>>2489775
people are unable to have nuanced takes when it comes to the china - there's obviously a lot of bad, but it gets idiotic when even debunking purposely outlandish and easily disproved news like "winnie the pooh is banned in china" gets you called a shill by the people that regurgitate ragebait without research.

the people who spout "free tibet" and the like for clout don't bother looking into tibet or anything china. tibetan girl in vidrel went from holding sheep for money to owning her own hotel for tourists visiting. but at the same time, there are relocated farmers who have rightfully complained about having to be moved out of their homes to work on a fixed schedule for salary when they previously could decide their own hours and workload in their own countryside. yet, there are also those who are unable to move for the long term yet wish they could, having to constantly go back and forth on long distances safe infrastructure and the temporary ones that get built on mountainsides are shoddy and dangerous

No. 2492719

This channel showed up in my feed a while ago, I had no idea China had this extreme of trends. I don't know where to get Chinese news like this and I don't use tiktok, I'd like to think this is a very small niche. What do you nonnies think?

No. 2492724

>>2492719
I always thought high cranial tops were ugly because of them making your skull look like the upper half of an octopus.



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No. 2477631 [Reply]

Previous thread >>>/ot/2151490
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No. 2491938

>>2491932
neither of tayrt but to moids, as their own scrotheren regularly say, "where did the pixels hurt you?"

No. 2491940

>4chin down
>sudden influx of posts in the women you want to fuck thread
hmm

No. 2491944

>>2491932
Nayrt but no one is triggered, just why engage in their retarded behavior then post about it here as some kind of gotcha? You look stupid

No. 2491946

>>2491942
>>2491931
>>2491921
>You're just as bad as them!
I'm NTA, but posters like you guys are genuinely perplexing kek. You see examples of subhuman male behaviour that gets posted here, radfem rhetoric clearly doesn't bother you if you keep coming back, you either make "GRRRR I HATE MOIDS I HOPE THEY ALL DIE" posts or are at least indifferent to them…but when someone does the MILDEST thing to slight the annoying imageboard scrotes as a joke, you freak out and start purity spiralling for no reason.

No. 2491950

>>2491946
>call someone stupid for posting mild porn on soyjack a gotcha
>YOU'RE SPIRALING IN ANGER
kek okay retard



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No. 2491837 [Reply]

There was a hoots and birds chat link that I used to have that I don't have any more.

I don't remember what the name of the place is called either I just remember it was related to birds and I could chat to people.

Anybody know the link?(Unnecessary thread)


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No. 2482244 [Reply]

A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.

Previous vent thread:
>>>/ot/2470733


Follow all the /ot/ board rules & do not reply to bait.

Please, do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
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No. 2491437

I'm so fucking tired of having to be morally correct and trying to look good and be a better person and eating properly and taking care of myself and holding my emotions back and taking care of other people. I am so jealous of men they can just be and nobody gets on their asses. The minute I slack off on being a perfect flawless girlboss I'm the most evil person to walk the earth. I want to simply be, without judgement.

No. 2491453

my ex broke up with me in a really shitty way. which i could deal with going our separate ways, but now he’s going out of his way to behave spitefully towards me and i don’t feel like this is warranted. i now realise he hated me towards the end of the relationship but i didn’t actually do anything to him? and he’s going out of his way to hurt me now. this man is 30 btw.

No. 2491467

I wish I could kill myself

No. 2491470

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I had to get fitted for an armor vest today, the guy measuring me was new and hadn't taken measurements before, so his incredibly hot boss was showing him how to measure me. He was very professional and respectful but he had to get very close to me and touch me a lot, plus he smelled incredible. I got so horny. I am so touch-starved it's pathetic.

No. 2491471

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This thread is to discuss your grievances with gender ideology.
>What is gender ideology?
Foundational to transgenderism, gender ideology is the belief that one’s “internal gender” can contradict one’s biological sex.

Gender ideology operates much like a religious cult. There is no scientific evidence that supports the notion that we have an “internal gender,” and yet doctors now medicalize and sterilize children with “transgender identities” who have been groomed by the cult. Anyone who does not reaffirm these delusions is labelled as a “transphobe” in order to discredit any dissenting voices of the cult.

Previous threads:
>>>/ot/2444792
>>>/ot/2373578
>>>/ot/2351915
>>>/ot/2290853
>>>/ot/2252408
>>>/ot/2191693
>>>/ot/2121106
>>>/ot/2097274
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No. 2490045

>>2490042
This is really nice to see and think about nona, great pic

No. 2490046

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No. 2490047

>>2490042
Such a cool photo

No. 2490051

>>2488924
This picture is so sweet

No. 2490067

New thread
>>>/ot/2490064



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No. 2458998 [Reply]

Discuss the current psyop regarding ugly and old men being shilled as attractive.
This thread is also for talking about topics like beauty double standards in media, ugly fictional and irl men shilled as attractive, science about male aging and unattractiveness, etc.
>do not try to defend ugly men ITT, go to unconventional male attractions to discuss uggos you like
>report/ignore racebait
>this thread is specifically for what moids look like; extended discussions of moid behavior, crimes, sexuality, etc. are better suited to the manhate thread.

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>>2428639
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No. 2489467

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Daughter and father

No. 2489479

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I'm gonna make this next threadpic

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No. 2489552

>>2489137
>not supporting shitty sperm going through is eugenics

I doubt any of these dumbasses would ever want to raise a disabled child lmao

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>>2489479
free my sister



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No. 2442735 [Reply]

ITT: share uneventful, mundane, or just downright ordinary events from your everyday life.

Previous thread: >>>/ot/2423171

This thread is not for sharing random passing thoughts. This thread is for sharing mundane or otherwise ordinary events that you have experienced in your life. If your post does not contain a mundane event that you experienced, then it is off-topic and doesn't belong in this thread.

Lolcow is NOT a chatroom. If you want to discuss a topic, you have to discuss it in the appropriate thread. All off-topic posts in this thread should be reported.

For anons that struggle to understand the topic of this thread:
>Examples of mundane events:
>>2423333
>>2427539
>>2431892
>>2428345
>Examples of off-topic posts that belong in different threads:
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No. 2488606

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I'm so excited to go to the spa on Thursday! One of my clients got me a giftcard for Christmas and I'm finally getting around to using it, just in time for the long weekend. I'm getting a deep tissue massage and doing the water circuit. I'm stoked.

No. 2488617

>>2488382
Because she has no actual rebuttal and just want to sound smart

No. 2488652

>>2488382
It would be more insulting to her intellect if I had explained why it was wrong.
>>2488617
If I say "the moon is made of cheese," you wouldn't need to write a rebuttal to know that it's incorrect.

No. 2488653

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No. 2489477

>>2488652
Literally incomparable analogy. We know the moon isn't made of cheese because there's scientific evidence it's made of rocks and because of common sense. No one knows everything about the brain to know if the temperature of water shocks the nervous system or not. You'd need to actually explain why is that true or not.



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