/ot/ - off-topic

>>1856053
moid(constant low quality bait&infighting)

>>1855617
notice how no one gives a shit about the quality of life?

>>1855769
fatty(constant low quality bait&infighting)

>>1855844
imagine being pissed women don't want to spend hours of their day cleaning up piss and shit

Natalists are implicit white supremacists, always dog-whistling about how the "productive" population has too few kids while the "lazy" populations have too much. Instead of harassing women, go build some artificial wombs(Spamming countless posts in a row to fill up the thread)

bump

Necroing the thread because it's a good idea and good timing.

For the nonnas reading self help books, always check out any info on the life of the author before you bother reading the book.

>>1856066
Gonna reply because this thread is so needed. I read the first few replies and I have the same procrastination problem. What's worse is knowing that I have so much to do but instead of doing it I just sit here…not doing anything. What I wanna know is if anyone has had longterm success with holding themselves accountable and improving these habits instead of random bursts of motivation now and then

> post the goal you're working towards

I really need to be consistent with working out 4-5 days a week.

My other goal is to just think positively as I’ve really let my mind get swamped with intrusive and negative thoughts.

> detail whether or not you took an actions towards that goal today

I did attempt to do some running (lasted ten minutes …) and some yoga (lasted 20) I’m really out of shape and lost myself after some events happened but it’s no excuse, just gotta get back up again.

Thinking positively has been difficult but I will keep trying to distract myself and consume little to no social media. Probably just music and how-to videos.

can we update here or no?

>>1856089
Hi! I'm also a procrastinator. In addition to reading the excellent "Wait But Why" article, I actually made a lot of progress on my procrastination last year, though I'm certainly not out of the woods. In addition to telling myself to get over the discomfort of being in the dark woods, I also try to confront the source of my anxiety as soon as possible. I know that sounds obvious and stupid, but hear me out: by now, I know myself enough that the only time I'm gonna stop feeling panicked and nervous is if I tackle the bull head-on. Again, it's a duh-moment but I keep telling myself that nothing will alleviate my bad feelings until I do what my brain is telling me to avoid. No lolcow, cleaning, eating something yummy will cure my nerves other than facing that bull in the corner of my mind. So I am practicing saying "hey, this is scary and uncomfortable, but I am compassionate towards you, Future-Me. The sooner I start on this, the sooner it will be over. It's okay if I'm not perfect; half-assing something is a heck of a lot better than no-assing it." I give my courage some fuel sometimes if it's still hard– I might talk to my mom or dad and just vent or take valerian drops. If it's bad, I'll allow myself a glass of wine or a puff of weed, not enough to get inebriated but enough to shake off some of the panic. It's not the best thing, but again I don't have to do something perfectly– I just have to DO it. I'm not "cured" of procrastination, but I am actually proud of my improvement over 2023.

For example, today I procrastinated a little bit though I didn't let myself spiral. I need to do this one thing for my language class done, but it's making me nervous because even though I love my study language, I'm coming to this class after a long time without speaking it. I knew that only sitting down and preparing would actually help instead of The Dark Woods like in the article. I need to help Future-Me feel better about speaking, so let's draft the speaking part! I'm doing it now and guess what? It's not as scary as I made it in my head (it never is!!). And even though I'm still nervous for this speaking portion, the fact that I'm preparing without letting the dread and procrastination rule me today is making me feel eons better than youtube or a videogame ever could.

It's such an uphill battle! It sucks, so so much. But I would recommePost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>1853571
Seperate shows, she was really jumping on any tv work. In the bubbles show she didn't look comfortable visiting the place because the chimps scared her even at a distance from within their enclosures. Made for weird viewing.

I don't really relate to tiktok autism at all. So many people make posts about masking and experiences like of people telling them "I didn't know you were autistic" and them being offended by that. Neither of those things has ever happened to me, people will just bluntly ask me or tell me I am autistic. And then they all say things like their special interest is being hot. It's not that I think they're lying but it's so weird how its like, they're pushing the idea that the average autist is just nothing like an autist. It's weird.

>>1853603
Agreed, the average autist struggles a lot with knowing “how” to be hot or do a lot of beauty things, it’s part of the whole social communication issues integral to the diagnosis. I just don’t get why someone would identify with being any disorder/disability at all if they require no therapy or additional supports, seems like another nlog thing or a severely childish/narc-like inability to see others as complex people

>>1853603
I could never "mask" and I feel incredibly inferior for it now with all the outgoing and successful "high masking" women. Even looking at me you can kind of tell I'm autistic and it's been a lifelong insecurity of mine, now it hurts even more because I don't have an excuse anymore

>>1853603
>It's not that I think they're lying
oh, they are

>>1852659
No, there's nothing wrong with that if you use them. I would also say only buy full size bottles of fragrances you absolutely know you like and will use, everything else get a sample size of. Saves you space and money.

>>1852659
>buy multiple (say, 10) bottles of perfume?
If you're buying 10 multiples of the same scent, then that's consumerism.
>have the urge to buy multiple bottles of various perfumes that I know I'd like
I suggest buying samples rather than blind-buying full size perfumes. You might think you like something based on notes, but some perfumes smell completely different once you actually get it.

>>1852677
don't try to make sense of it, trannies said the shark is trans so now its trans, its really that stupid.

The shark already existed for 5 years before it and was actually a popular thing to share cute wholesome pictures of the shark just doing daily things and then trannies came screaming incoherently that it now belongs to them, now you can't search anything about a shark plush online without tranny bombardment in your feed.

>>1852677
Because it's a predator, of course

>>1852391
Not to be mean but your post made me want to kill myself. Please speak normally.

>>1852390
>>1852388
We get it you're ugly.(infighting)

>>1852392
her feminine penis

>>1851918
Based. Perfect female power fantasy MCs are the best. I love Bloom.

>>1852336
Well what's your definition of pretty? All I see is you putting me down/rationalizing under a male lens for what I find attractive.

>>1852352
Absolutely horrible characters. Written and look wise.

>>1850953
gross

>>1850943
America is gonna what

new thread >>>/ot/1850977

>>1850953
cute

>>1847187
I always thought she was short or average since the first time i saw her in that Alejandro MV

>>1847184
I think it started because she flashed an audience at a concert and people thought she had tucked a dick because the video had like 3 pixels and you couldn't see her labia.

New thread >>>/ot/1847248

>>1846440
what even are his nipples? they look like ugly cockroaches

>>1847307
He is wearing the troon uniform

>>1847307
>>1847310
only needs the catgirl ears

>>1847307
The "plot twist" to this comic makes me wanna die. Absolutely disgusting, and clearly a fetish.

>>1847307
Surprisingly the artist looks like an actual woman, going by the link to their Twitter and tumblr accounts

>>1847350
>active in r/MTF
doubt. Also trannies always wear masks so that's another tip-off. It hides their hideous male lower thirds.

I remade the thread because some nonnies including me want a more direct discussion on specific topics that don't really fit anywhere else (or those threads don't get as much traffic) please adhere to site rules and use the correct threads so we don't get locked again.

>>1846848
Thanks mods the retarded cat spam was insufferable. Newfags make it impossible to have real discussions anymore.

My noonecurr rant is that i wish fishing was more popular with women. I really miss fishing but i cant go alone because third world shithole, i would kill for some female fishing buddies. Also, fishing games are super relaxing i want a king of the hill fishing game, no, screw that, i want a king of the hill animal crossing clone. Imagine how comfy it would be.

Someone suggest a thread title and pic for a different thread

>>1846292
Or this

>>1846294
(last samefag) maybe?

this entire thread reeks of newfaggotry. Alongside the derailing, no sage, and meta conversations. Locking the thread. Whoever makes the next one please put real effort into it.