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>>662308
No.

>>662308
Don't do it

>>662306
Are you old enough for pre menopause?

>>662314
I'm in my twenties, so no

>>662306
I get those, not during every period though. I figured it's normal. Weirder shit happening during periods is considered normal, that's nothing

>>662016
mun mielestä se että suomessa on paljon paremmin asiat ku monissa maissa ja silti taso on mitä on on vaan kertomus siitä miten paskasti naisilla asiat on maailmassa kun kerta tässä yhdessä parhaimmistakin on niin paljon parannettavaa

>>662027
Erittäin hyvä pointti

Täysin samoja fiiliksiä miehistä täälläkin.
Kattelee omien kavereiden parisuhteita ja ei tunnu näkyvän mitään muita ku miehiä jotka on ainakin 10 kertaa rumempia ja tyhmempiä kuin parisuhteen toinen puolisko, jotka vielä kaiken lisäksi heittää kaikenlaista läppää siitä miten hölmöjä kanoja kaikki naiset on. Eikä kotona sitten auteta edes siivoomisessa vaan piereskellään sohvalla örisemässä kunnes on perjantaina aika avata kalja. Joskus vaan tekis mieli kysyä että kai kyseiset naiset tajuaa että niiden ei tarvii tyytyä siihen hääppösimpään ja rumimpaan otukseen jonka on joskus yläkoululaisena tai amis/lukio iässä pokannut.

Ja kun nyt Tinder ja rumat miehet aiemmin mainittiin. Edes ne ilmeisesti hyvän näkösenä pidetyt miehet ei useimmin tuo mitään parisuhteelle. Luonne on yleensä tyhjä ja tylsä, kiinnostuksen kohteet on kaljan kittaamisen lisäks erittäin pintapuolisesti autot ja jääkiekko. Muustahan noi ei sitten uskalla edes kiinnostuakkaan.

Tuntuu vielä kaikenlisäks että sellanen suomalainen mies joka ei ole rasisti, homofoobikko, seksisti tai etenkään herkullinen yhistelmä kaikkia kolmea on todellinen yksisarvinen.

>>662036
Tää on muuten hyvä pointti: miksi vitussa suomalaiset miehet inhoavat ihan suureen ääneen naisia? Miksi niiden pitää nälviä ja vähätellä naisia ja tyttöjä? Ja miksi vitussa naiset sitten pariutuu näiden ääliöiden kanssa…

Tykkään ihan helvetisti suomalaisista naisista, ja oon ylpeä siitä, miten fiksuja, ahkeria, aktiivisia, ja kaikin puolin vahvoja suomi-mimmit on. Finskimimmiltä odotetaan paljon, mutta nykyään ei tosiaan siltä "vahvemmalta sukupuolelta" paljon mitään. Ne miehet, jotka suurin piirtein vielä vastaavat sitä, mitä naisten odotetaan tässä maassa tuovan pöytään, on jo jotain viisikymppisiä (enkä todellakaan sano, että pankaa jotain Tarmo 55-vtä) - loput on pudottaneet pallon.

Heteronaiset saa olla sille ihanalle sohvamörököllille äiti ja piika ja terapeutti ja sihteeri ja seksipeto ja kodinhoitaja ja uraohjaaja jne jne jne, ja vastikkeeksi saadaan… mies, joka ei muista syntymäpäivääsi, hääpäiväänne, tai lempiruokaasi, ja joka suureen ääneen selittää, miten akat on turhia ja muijat on heikkoja ja tyhmiä, höhö. Samaan aikaan talouden nainen on suunnitellut viikon ruokalistan, käynyt kaupoilla, laittanut ruuan, siivonnut, haravoinut pihan, päivittänyt kalenteriin lasten, lemmikkien ja autojen huoltoaikataulut, lenkittänyt koirat ja penskat, soittanut omalle ja miehen äidille ja isovanhemmille, käynyt 8h päivän töissä, pitänyt itsestään huolta että hei niinq kelpaa sille ihanalle miehelleen "vielä kaikesta huolimatta", auttanut lapsia läksyissä, leiponut niiden koulun leivosmyyjäisiin, varannut perheelle ajan kausirokotuksia varten hammaslääkäriin, katsonut omat ja miehen työvaatteet valmiiksi seuraavalle viikolle, jne jne jne. Ukko on ehkä tässä ajassa vaihtanut telkkarista kanavaa kaksi kertaa, napsauttanut saunan lämpenemään, ja avannut kaljan, ja katsoo tehneensä pitkän, raskaan päivän, kun kävi vielä töissäkin - ei siinä jaksa päälle nyt vielä vaikka imuroida, vaikka se Janita nyt tuossa nalkuttaa ja itkee vieressä. Make it make sense.

Ehkä mun sukupolven (nyt yli 30) naiset on vähän murroksessa, kun on nähty, millaisia suomalaiset miehet on ollut joskus (suht hyödyllisiä, joskin silti "ei puhu ei pussaa" sohvajurottajia), ja sitten mitä on nyt tarjolla markkinoilla (persehien hajuisia, hyödyttömiä, lukutaidottomia, kouluttamattomia ja käytöstavattomia, jotka eivät pidä huolta itsestään tai kenestäkään muustaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>662233
Toi on niin fucked up et pitää olla äiti ja seksivaumimmi, mut ei mitää omia haluja tai tarpeita. Suomessa on oman kokemuksen mukaan aika vähän stigmaa esim. Avioeroon, mutta olis niin terveellistä jos opetettais nuoresta siihen, että ei oo pakko todellakaa mennä naimisiin, mutta jos meet ja eroot, se ei oo mikää häviö. Tajusit ettei tässä oo enää hyötyy sulle ja siirryt eteenpäin etkä kitkuta vielä 20v pyöräyttämässä lapsia, jotka neki vaa vituttaa (vaikka oliski rakkaita) ja saa kasvaa ahistavas ilmapiirissä. Mä en sheimaa naista joka on tuhlannu mieheen aikaa, vaikka se oliski 60v ku tajuu niiden turhuuden, ainaku suomalainen nainen tajuaa oman arvonsa, se on hyvä juttu, mut käy sääliks. Totta kai ajat on vähä erilaiset ollu meillä vs. Niillä 60v, mutta you know what I mean.
Suomalaiset naiset on oikeesti upeita, ja ite kävin joskus teininä sellasen mitä kai vois sanoo fakeboy lite vaiheen läpi, mikä jälkikäteen katottuna johtu siitä kui halus sitä samaa arvostusta ja arvoo kui jätkillä oli. Sisäistettyy naisvihaa, sanoisin, outo käsittää näin paljon myöhemmin. Kyllä sillonkin olin varsin homo, mutta sen ikäsenä mielummin hyökkää itteään vastaan ku miettii että ehkä nää muut ei vaa arvosta, koska ne on väärässä lol. Välillä näkee näitä esavesapekan kaltoinkohdeltui vaimoja netissä tai otsikoissa jotka kovast vihaa "femakkoja" yms, ja sillonkin ajattelen, että mä oon senkin puolella silti, en mä sillekää paskaa toivo vaa sen miehelle muutosta/nopsaa kuolemaa ja hyvää henkivakuutusta eli naiselle parempaa.

>>662250
the 2000s misogyny makes 1960s and 1970s misogyny look like a cake walk. Just look at the tropes used in movies and shows from then to the 2000s. There were far more intelligent characterized women or women with more diverse personalities other than "bimbo" or "freak" like in the 2000s. the 2000s was absolutely shit outside of the internet.

the 2000s was also a time where the really obnoxious internet/rl personalities we see today started to be normalized, like manchildren who base their whole identity off of childhood nostalgia or women who found it empowering to look/act like bimbos. african-american music/culture took a massive hit during this time as well for reasons that warrants its own discussion

>>662301
Not only that, but girls who were drugge, raped, and filmed or photographed were ostracized to a terrifying degree and blamed for sexual assault. Plus like rampant cp all over the internet.

>>662232
Some of the fashions of that time period were retarded. I have fond memories of it because it was acceptable live in shell toed trainers and tracksuits. I also hate the skinny jeans trend that appeared in the late 2000s, so Avril Lavigne style baggy pants were preferable to me.

>>662315
I miss the baggies too. Old those books I've put in those big ass pockets.

>>662315
I miss the fuck out of rollerball-everything

I got so sick of my skinwalker and how disgustingly long they kept going that I finally took action against them. I created fake profiles and updated them occasionally to make them seem like they were mine, fed them fake details and name from the very beginning, and they’ve thought they’ve hit the jackpot but every bit of it was bullshit. I did something more extreme offline as well, and I’m hoping they learned their lesson. No point in giving much context but I’m sure anons know that some people deserve to experience their own medicine. I’m very smug because this entire time they’ve fancied themselves a genius sleuth all the while they’re the exact opposite and I have an entire arsenal of metaphorical ammunition. Feels good.

I hope I caught/catch my friend's strep throat so I can have a legitimate reason not to see anyone this weekend. (I saw my friend yesterday when they were asymptomatic, just caught it today)
I'll probably go or tell them straight up I just want to be alone, but catching strep is the less disappointing reason as to why I can't hang out

There is no one I loathe more than myself.

Some qt emofag otter adrogynous looking long haired dude who is 22 but still looks the same as he did when he was in high school (where i had a crush on him) is messaging me and hitting on me
Why the Fuck is he doing this now that he lives in another city and I am with someone I am lusting so hard over him, anons he reminds me of fucking ATUSHI SAKURAI

>>662307
Fucking weebs

Hunter Biden is apparently dead.

>>660348

lol, what? link cuz there's no info on this online

>>660348
Seeing that he overdosed on twitter but not from any news sources. Probably a rumor.

Aside from Al Jourgensen being a crackhead and sticking his dick in an uncooked chicken for the record label’s dinner, this film reveals more than expected about the music industry. I doubt nor miss would pay attention to this shit anyway.

Jello Biafra reveals how record labels are really fond of drugs and use them to control their artists.

Timothy Leary and William S. Burroughs make a cameo appearance.

“Fix”: https://www.bitchute.com/video/240olwyzfFkA/

>>662282
Normies* fuck you autocorrect

I can't stop thinking about suicide. Objectively, I know what the problems are that I should work on - I focus too much on the negative, I can't stop comparing myself to others and think that I'm behind them in every possible way, even if I'm doing something enjoyable I can't really enjoy it, I always have this feeling that I'm missing something that everyone else has, I have random bouts of shame and guilt over random stuff - but I can't escape the feeling that it'll never get better. Time passing makes me panic. I feel like I should have accomplished something already, I should be something or someone -but I never do anything and just ruminate on stuff, which makes me guilty for not accomplishing anything…and the circle of self-sabotage continues. Even if I accomplish something I feel like I've accomplished nothing, or it was due to luck. I cannot think of the future with a positive mindframe. When I think of the future I feel tired, the thought of having to exist for more years to come makes me feel exhausted. I don't work in the field I want to and I feel like I never will. I don't have a romantic partner and I feel like I never will find one. I have a useless degree that everyone laughs at. I feel like I will never have the lifestyle I want. I have one friend I can count on and she already expressed feeling stressed out and our friendship being in danger due to my constant mood swings and suicidal thoughts which in retrospect, I regret sharing with her. I hate the way I am and I hate what I am. I recently went on a few job interviews to find a new job because the one I work at now is pretty toxic - but the prospect of working at another place doesn't excite me either, it just fills me with more dread.
I really really really really want to understand how people wake up every single day, go about their every day life and still manage to muster up joy and positivity and warmth and a drive to do things and enjoy life. I can't understand it. I've never felt that. I always felt like I'm an empty bag of skin filled with occasional bursts of melancholy on autopilot.
I've been in therapy multiple times, for many years and I've found that I always grow completely dependent on my therapists - while I'm in therapy, I feel fine, my mood swings get lighter, my sense of hopelessness disappears, but as soon as we terminate (I wish I could be in therapy forever!!) everything returns to the way things Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

GOD online classes are so fucking annoying. Instead of discussing, all my prof does is complain and overshare about her life and then suddenly, she'll quote something "inspirational" to us, as if we have the same problems she has. After that, she comments on whatever we do, like our handwriting and also our faces . Then, she goes back to sperging again about how "dumb" her other students are for asking questions and get mad at another sick student for not attending class.

Now she's talking about her watercolors. I can't mute her because she frequently asks "Don't you agree anon? give me an example about what you think of blablabla". She gets angry when you don't answer back immediately, and says shit like "Your attendance is also a requirement" to threaten us.

Every meeting, Our only purpose is to hear her vent. It's like she doesn't even care her own students can hear her and have better things to do and have to finish. Now I get why the principal, who's my relative, told me that she's kind of off her rocker. It's as if she speaks anything that goes through her mind. WHY CAN'T SHE JUST STOP TALKING REEE SHUT UP

>tfw you realize shota/loli porn is morally better than regular porn
Think about it, no one is hurt by hentai. The porn industry actively preys upon women.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

I can't fathom that there are people like this in the world. I genuinely, fucking hate people.

I'm finally a healthy BMI and have lost 20kg but I feel more awful about my body than ever. I know people always claim than you're unhappy as a fatty, but I actually really did feel good about myself. I was fat but I put it on pretty nicely and attracted my hot tall boyfriend when I looked like that. I always worry about my boobs looking like they lack volume now and want to die when I think of someone looking at me. I miss being a carefree fatty, lol.

>>661493
My mom had it, beat it… two years later it came back and spread to pretty much every part of the body that can't be operated on. No matter how much treatment she took it just kept on spreading. Having watched her go through all that I'd be tempted to just sit back and let it get me.

>>647795
Same here anon driving is my biggest fear and paranoia other than getting rabies or a STD. It's why I still don't have a license well past the age your supposed to have one. The idea of getting into an accident and getting an innocent person killed or getting ripped to shreds keeps me up at night. I hate the city but I'm debating moving to one with a good public transit system just to avoid driving.

I had/have psychotic depression (used to be worse) and I remember sitting in class and thinking that outside of the room was like a science lab with doctors observing me. Truman show shit also.
I still feel some paranoia/delusions, like that I’m sort of breaking the fourth wall and none of reality exists. Not sure what’s behind it which is scary and feels lonely and spacey

dark windows I guess. maybe not as far fetched as crazy but i definitely get a surge of anxiety sometimes if i think about it too hard. i can’t help but think someone’s watching me from the other side and i can’t see it

I always think people are laughing at me.

I also have a weird paranoia that any man I talk to, even extended relatives, might have access to my webcam or my internet activity.

I need help kek.

>>660092
Came back here to say you’re a little bitch for lying and pretending you didn’t know ot was locked instead of just taking your L

>>657694
Is this actually true, or just something memed half to death?
I think it's just the point where you are very cognizant of having to actually study in order to learn. Also, being older we are much more critical of ourselves, then when we were kids. Feel free to post with an examples you find.

>>657837
But, like this Anon says, people over the age of 25 usually have determination and the sense of direction to do self directed study. This is commonly said about mature students and their work ethic. They can do so well in whatever path they choose to study in, whether it's for pleasure or whether it is to get a degree or to get a professional qualification or change career path.
Not all hope is lost.

>>660562
I have no idea why you are so aggressive and grudge-filled that you need to reply to this six days later. The thread wasn't locked and people can misread.

For all the anons worried about starting their studies late: I finished my bachelor at 30, with classmates who have kids already, and a student rep that was like 45. Some people had worked before and others had already several years of studies behind them in a field they realised they don't like. We all did great. I'm ready to bet you won't be the oldest there nor will you have the worst grades.

I also see people starting new hobbies in their 30's and 40's and either not giving a fuck about their skill level or actually doing really well. I take a beginner's language class, the average age is around 40 I'd say, and after a few lessons we can already joke around and have small convos in the language. All it takes is good group dynamics, fuck neuroplasticity. I also have a family member who's writing their second book at past 80.

I know it's petty but it makes me happy to see people proving the "you're done if you're not successful/settled at 25" schtick wrong.

>>661504
Reading this made me so happy good for you anon

>>661489
It isn’t aggressive to lightheartedly clown someone for lying about something that silly, all the threads around it were locked and they clearly sought that one out because it wasn’t. Dumb shit to lie about.

>>662257
Oh man, Americunts leaving reviews about foreign countries not being up to their lofty, lofty expectations… due to not being Americn is my favourite thing. Like whining about Italian pizza being "tiny", or restaurant portions being "kid-sized", or coming to Europe and then being absolutely amazed that they can't find some product from back home in the supermarket.

>>662198
on a similar note – when people use an online recipe and heavily change it for whatever reason, and then rate the recipe based on the outcome. If you have to change the recipe significantly to make it edible, then don't give the recipe 5 stars!! Now this shit tier recipe has a 5 star rating and is getting pushed to the top of the search results!

>>662270
>Like whining about Italian pizza being "tiny", or restaurant portions being "kid-sized"
Every fucking time I look up restaurants abroad. Americans leaving 1-star reviews because the portion was "overpriced" and "kid sized" i.e. normal portion size instead of a humongous American steakhouse platter worth 5000 kcal you pay 10 bucks for.

>>662200
Probably boomers who don't know how to use the notation system correctly, so they think leaving a positive comment is enough, when the star notation is actually more important.

People that don't use their turn signals. It's dangerous, annoying, and shows a lack of basic driving skills.

I know it's such a basic non issue, but it sends me into a foul language rage every time.