/g/ - girl talk

>>101191
This manon is either autistic as fuck or just very dedicated to fucking with us.
Probably both lmao.

>>101191
you fucking moron,
>I am genuinely incapable of comprehending this, I am not a woman. This is the way I see it:…
you are correct about one thing, that being no woman WOULD want to be with you, but it's not because of your dick, it's the thing attached to it. I'm telling you right now, your "incapability" of understanding that there is more to human relationships beyond peepee in vagene has nothing to do with you being a man. "Autism" gets tossed around as a general insult, and I'm not a mental health professional so I'm not going to diagnose you, but you need to talk to one. If you have any sincere desire to improve your life and stop wallowing in self pity then you need therapy. You are stuck in a self defeating mental loop and you need a change in external stimulus over a long period of time to get out of it. Now fuck off, and good luck.

Sorry ladies, but you're being stupid right now. If you see a scrot, report its bullshit. Don't talk to it. He's useless, dumb as shit and won't ever shut up. Report and ignore.

>>101197
Based AND redpilled

>>101196
This Anon is 100% correct. Men are predisposed to cyclical (or obsessive) thinking, and he even says "I don't understand" and then repeats his cyclical train of thought. I agree he needs therapy or a diagnosis of some kind. It is not helping anyone, least of all himself, to trap himself in a feedback loop like this.

>>101144
Nah he belongs here. Definitely not attractive.

>>101152
You’re crazy. I’d fuck him for days.

>>101152
Why? Because he’s not a Kpop pretty boy?

>>101184
What made you assume I like kpop twinks? Projecting? How bizarre.

>>101184
What is this site's obsession with K-pop bullshit. Shockingly we're not all obsessed with small menkids.

I don't see why Michael B. Jordan belongs on this thread only because I don't see what's shameful about liking him. He's not some cringe weirdo and I can see why someone would like him.
I think he's fucking ugly. His gigantic lips look terrible to me but he's just too normal. He's the current famous black man everyone now pretends is out of this world handsome.

>>101120
>>101133
i dont see what there is to be triggered about, everyone knows curvy/thick are just softer/positive words for overweight/fat since fat is a dirty word and usually used in a derogatory way.

also when did this become a fat hate thread? post styling tips or get out

>>101120
>>101133
i dont see what there is to be triggered about, everyone knows curvy/thick are just softer/positive words for overweight/fat since fat is a dirty word and usually used in a derogatory way.

also when did this become a fat hate thread? post styling tips or get out

>>101136
you've never been to a porn board, guys get into giant flamewars about people posting apples in "thicc" threads and where the line is between thicc and fat.

>>100809
you can lose it after baby comes. congrats btw. :)

>>100809
You an still lose weight while pregnant if you’re overweight. It’s actually recommended if you’re overweight or obese. Exercise and eating healthy are great during pregnancy

>>100880
Don’t do it anon. You’re worth more than that. You can absolutely pick yourself up from 0. Do you have any counseling options in your area? There are hotlines for people who struggle with addiction, they can help you negate the system and find something that may help. I’ve been through this process for many years of my life. Don’t give up on yourself anon.

>>100916
I'm in the process of getting off drugs, and the anxiety is killing me. I can't trust anyone and I'm just off balance.

idk if this counts as mental health, but i’ve been taking wellbutrin for my depression for over a year now and while it’s worked very well i think it’s damaged my vision :( i found out that what i’m experiencing is visual snow and it’s been giving me migraines. i’m also kind of a hypochondriac so it doesn’t help that i feel like i’m going blind, haha. anyone else have this/something similar? i really don’t want to stop taking wellbutrin when it’s the most success i’ve had on a medication.

I have bulimia and I'm so fucking done with it. I just can't stop. If I stop now I will be able to save my teeth before I do any horrific damage (I'm 2 years into daily purging and so close to crossing that line)
I had some therapy last year but it hasn't done anything.
I just want off this train so badly, I can't live like this

I have bulimia and I'm so fucking done with it. I just can't stop. If I stop now I will be able to save my teeth before I do any horrific damage (I'm 2 years into daily purging and so close to crossing that line)
I had some therapy last year but it hasn't done anything.
I just want off this train so badly, I can't live like this

>>101131
i don't really want it validated, i forgot where i am and i'm used to being forced to use stupid words to explain that i just don't like sex

i think you're right about compatibility and that really scares me. i've never been happier or more comfortable with someone, but a lot of things about us don't line up. it would hurt too much to let him go, so i don't know how i could ever accept that we just aren't compatible

I think my best friend is lowkey abusive, but I'm not sure. We're both fucking crazy: I'm bipolar, he has BPD, but we're usually absolutely great with each other until a minor conflict comes.

I'm pretty agressive when I'm hypomanic and he's very oversensitive like… always, so it leads to tons of problems from every direction possible. I'm organizing a small poetry reading every month and usually it's just two of us reading works to a dozen of friends in a cafe, but this time a new dude asked if he can join and read his works and I said sure why not. When I texted so to the friend, he was really passive agressive, but I tried to stand up to him and not let him make me feel bad like always. I joked around (cause we have a running joke that I'm a domme female and he's a shy pushover man) and said he doesn't have any say in the matter anyway, but he just kept being passive agressive and annoying, so I straight up told him to cut this shit out because we agreed he won't be passive agressive to me and try to articulate when he has a problem with something clearly. I sent him a message that contained three different points about the whole situation and he started accusing me of doing "what I always do", which is talking really fast and bringing up a lot of different claims. That apparently means I'm blaming everything on him and refusing any responsibility. Well, my fast talking is the result of hypomania and I'm still learning how to deal with that, but most importantly, this was a fucking text message. Last time we had an argument he told me he has a problem with me talking fast because he doesn't have the time to process everything, not because it's me blaming him for everything, but now suddenly bam here we go

It doesn't help that three of my close relationships have recently ended in the other parties being outed as assholes, but gaslighting me into believing I was "manipulative" and "mean". One of them accused me of being a narc lol. When i told the friend how hurt his accusation made me feel, he just made an excuse, so I started (for the first time ever because it's usually just me who's trying to solve all arguments between us and he's just passive and passive agressive) replying in one word messages and giving him the cold shoulder. That worked surprisingly well because he apologized and said he only "feels like" I'm blaming him for everything and that it actually might not be true and that he simply misunderstood. I just told hiPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

I'm currently 10 months into a relationship and I'm starting to have serious doubts. For context, I moved out at 18, pay for myself (food,rent, etc), have a full time job, good terms with family and friends. I'm quite a mellow/non confrontational person by nature, but I'm making an effort to not be walked all over.

My boyfriend is cute and charming, but x years older than me and basically still a teenage boy. Lives rent free, doesn't pay for his own food, lives off government benefits, has a very odd, pessimistic but idealistic (does that make sense?) view of the world, often cussing out that the world isn't like his flavour of the month anime, isn't exciting enough apparently. Unfortunately the type of guy who thinks "These people are so dumb, I would survive so easily" when he watches a disaster/zombie movie. Except hes not 12, hes a fully grown man who still acknowledges himself as a boy.

Basically, this relationship has just been a weird swing depending on how my boyfriend wants to act. One month, he's incredibly sweet, loving, we're having sex regularly and he actually chats with me and wants to see me like a normal boyfriend. But the next month… Blanking me, ignoring me, treating me like I'm some harpy (or his mother) whos trying to ruin his life, refuses sex, complains about being "forced" to spend time with me or cuddle me or even just a little kiss.

I was used to that, but recently, we had a string of fights that made me start to think things aren't going to get better.

His last girlfriend had a very bad case of BPD and didn't take her meds. I almost feel like he's using the mental tactics she used on him on me.

These fights always come about fron him saying something incredibly cold or very insulting about me and then when I don't allow myself to be walked all over, he starts trying to mentally tear me down. Telling me:
>He started dating me because my life was together and I was happy (I wasnt; I was worse than I am now) and now I was sad he didn't want to spend time with me anymore after i expressed my worry that I didn't feel afraid of killing myself anymore
>Despite the fact he is constantly telling me how awful his life is and all I do is support him

>That I have no life outside of him, no hobbies, no friends, nothing. Its not the case. I knew his friends before he did. I have more hobbies Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>101140

There ain't nobody inside a container sis. That's him. That's a there is to him. Is that really how you want to spend your youth? Have a look in the ex bf stores thread. That will be you years later wishing you killed it off today.

>>101140
If you just met the guy today for the first time, but knew all the awful things he's done or said, would you still get into this relationship? It sounds like he's terrible no matter how many "oh but he also x" you could try to dilute it with. I feel like you've given him a lot of time to improve as a person, but don't fall into the sunken cost trap, don't lose another ten months of your life when you could be moving on and finding someone out there who is looking for someone like you.

It hurts to let go even of a one-sided love, but you need to find someone that can properly love you back. You can grow from this experience too, you need to love yourself.

Does anyone have any recommendations for dresses/skirts that would look nice and feminine without heels? I don’t want to damage my feet just for the sake of looking cute, and I also consider comfort to be the most important aspect of my clothing. So far I’ve found that tshirt or bodycon dresses work really with sneakers, but I would love to hear more suggestions for cuts that would look nice with non heeled shoes that aren’t necessarily flats as they can be difficult to walk long distances in.

>>101149

I find that the higher the skirt, the better it will look with flat shoes. Skirts that end somewhere above the knee are usually the best, and you can pair them with pantyhose if you don't feel like shaving your legs that day.

‪i think this collection is really cute but i worry most of them are too cutesy/childish ‬to wear in public… guess i can at least use the hoodies as loungewear.

(spoilered bc of the size of the pic)

>>101155

As someone that has been buying stuff from this brand and others similar too it, I would say no it’s not too cutesy. Unless you go over the top with your stylization you should be fine.

My biggest problem with finding clothes is that I'm extremely picky when it comes to comfort:
>I always feel cold, but find nearly all pullovers to be too scratchy
>I have a very sensitive neck, to the point of feeling like I'm choking when something touches it lighty, so no turtle necks, scarves, etc - but on the other hand I also don't want to show cleavage
>everything remotely tight on my waist like skirts or skinny jeans triggers my ibs
>leggings or yoga pants always feel too tight and make my skin itch
>I probably own over 30 pair of shoes yet have only one that doesn't give me blisters
>can't even put my hair into a ponytail because even that gives me a headache
I wish I could just wear a loose tshirt, trackpants and my favourite sneakers all year long… What should I do? I buy things but then end up only wearing them only once because I can't stand the feel of them. If something is itchy or tight it literally ruins my while day.
Pic related would unironically be my ideal…

>>101169
I’m a woman, it’s not like it’s a common occurrence it has happened maybe a handful of times over many years. Sorry for not pretending that I shit flowers? Vulgar I can see but how am I being rude. I’m aware this isn’t the asshole thread I was just chiming in since it was brought up

>>101170
nta but you're acting like everyone who doesn't think you're gross is fucking retarded. what you said in your first reply also has nothing to do with what the OP was talking about and seemed pretty aggressive for no reason (considering it was mostly about your habits)

>>101169
… why is having shit in your rectum gross? I'm confused.

I'm >>101172 (haven't commented since btw) and I do apologise if what I said was crass, off-putting and seemed a bit harsh. I didn't mean to come off like that.

I'm just genuinely confused as to why something like that would put someone off this much. Maybe I do feel so different about it because I also enjoy anal stuff in general and therefore - as the other anon(s) already said - you know what to expect if you go there.

But anyways… you aren't really touching anything besides your vagina so this entire disgust about it is genuinely confusing to me. I also feel like this is a really unhealthy relationship to have with your own body. Sounds a bit like a result of the whole
>muh girls having bodily functions is so gross
stigma.

You don't have to have a full-on scat fetish to come to terms with the fact that the food you put into your body comes out very close to your vagina.

Sorry and sage for blogposting but I'm a bit tipsy and still very confused.

>>101189
What it seems like to me is that this entire discussion sprouted off from one comment about feeling poop through your vaginal wall. Which is a thing, and I've done my fair share of pushing things out that way myself.

My confusion is why some anons are suggesting that your asshole/rectum is nasty if it has any trace of poop despite it being it's natural habitat. Maybe I'm missing something but I don't make it a personal habit to perform enemas or finger myself with soap.

Are there any good skincare fixes for prominent nasolabial folds or am I stuck with them until I work up the money and courage for botox?

>>101147
jesus christ one more time I read about nasolabial folds here, I an hero
It's mostly genetic and won't magically disappear, unless you have shitty skincare. Improve it and they may stop being so prominent; use better moisturizers, incorporate stuff like hialuronic acid, aloe gel and oils into your skincare, don't drink alcohol, drink more water, get enough sleep, don't tan. When I started paying more attention to my routine, my skin improved overall - along with my folds.
If this doesn't help, try to work on your self-image rather than getting botox, coz it's rarely enough and you'll find something else

>>101081
Umm… but it is.

>>101060
Can you post a photo of her before all of these surgeries you think she had? Why would you otherwise just randomly assume someone had their eyes or forehead done? I get assuming lip fillers or a nosejob since those are pretty common with people in the business but I mean… I kinda get why your bf would be a bit weirded out by your behavior.

>>101097
Lol, sure thing, anon. Feel free to tell me what surgeries you think that girl had as well!

>>101097
that anon is retarded, ignore them.

Anyone addicted to getting fillers?

>>93641
Late but if you’re short you’re probably gamine, and very likely not dramatic at all. You’re overcompensating yang answers because you feel like your lines are manly but you describe yourself as “narrow,” and dramatic is broader. Retake the test and try to be more objective.

>>101121
Maybe you are a soft classic then, or theatrical romantic

Is it possible to be a mix between soft gamine and soft classical?

A: 1
B: 2
C: 4
D: 8
E: 1

I can't figure out what this means, and Aly didn't mention anything like me in her video.

I'm tallish (173cm but usually mistaken for shorter) with broad shoulders, wide hips (~0.72 WHR regardless of weight), long legs, long hands (19.5cm), big feet (US 11), a small but soft waist, average boobs (usually a D cup regardless of weight), and a rounded diamond face with a round nose, slightly full lips, soft cheeks, and roundish almond eyes. I gain weight pretty evenly, I always look slightly soft no matter how much weight I lose, and when I eat healthily my BMI sits around 22.5 (it's currently down to 19 due to an illness, and I look super weird). My hair is soft and slightly wavy (2a), and although the strands themselves are fine, I have a lot of them, so it looks fairly thick.

I'm not soft enough to be a romantic, but I'm too soft to be any of the others. Maybe I'll try again when I've gained my weight back - I really need a new wardrobe.

It's stupid that the body and faces are lumped into a category. I think it makes more sense to separate face types and body types.