/g/ - girl talk

>>319491

nonna how did you bring your period back while still underweight if you dont mind me asking?

>>319567
I didn't do anything special, I think they came back around bmi of 16?

As a b/p anorexic:
Does anyone else often find other anorexics really, really insufferable? Despite that I've been just as big of a delusional retard or a judgemental shallow bitch as I've complained about them being. Maybe I'm wrong to feel superior that I have more perspective on my disordered thoughts because it's mostly the younger anorexics who are the worst. Do you know what I mean?

>>319614
In the end you're all ruining your health and wasting your time doing something inane for a false sense of control

>>319614
Well, usually you get obsessed with weight loss and food, and this is normal so far, cause that's what ED is. But a lot of anachans can't see how stupid they look when they act like their ED is their whole personality. So they start acting catty, vapid etc. I notice that most people grow out of this with time. But some stay the same teenage girls whose only joy in the world is to compare herself to heavier women. This is okay when you are 13, cause everybody is dumb in that age. It's not okay when you are fucking grown ass women who still does this shit.

>>319503
Tbh the amount of women I run into who say they prefer to be single over being in a bad relationship boggles my mind a bit, so yeah. I am the same. Would much rather be single. In fact it's so much better to be single, it's so pleasant I truly don't know if I can go back.


Also the birthrate is plummeting which is a good thing.

>>319518
the birth rate is not actually plummeting, unfortunately

>>319519
I most places it is.

>>319420
Nona, your post hits hard. Especially the part about how being ignored and growing up being detached from the people around you makes you observe all of this hell from a perspective that sees no worth in it. My mom was and still is stuck in a shitty relationship with a low grade emotionally impaired moid (my dad) and watching her sacrifice herself time and time again while he does absolutely nothing is so depressing and I would never want a life like that for myself. I understand why women allow themselves to be exploited like that because it's literally programmed into us since birth, but I hate how everyone acts like it's a force of nature that can't be meddled with. It's like all women fear that if they stand up for themselves, men will collectively take away our rights - sort of what has happened with the abortion rights being revoked in the US completely as a reaction to the popularity of feminism.

But that said, the main reason seems to ultimately be the absolute concern over remaining attractive to men: you can't be the mean bitch setting up boundaries for the men around you or he'll stop seeing you as a person. The women I know might be very staunch feminists but when they have to stand the fuck up and tell a man to stop, they immediately turn their heads to avoid ever exposing themselves as anything else but the Cool Girls. It's so depressing and disillusioning that it actually makes me want to rope thinking back to all the times I expected them to have my back only to be disappointed in their nonexistent spine.

>>319422
God, yes. I'm now in my 30's and in that exact age of the women I know getting married and having kids, and I dread this every single day. Even the childfree women become those "wifeys" who lose all their interest in everything outside of their homes and just want to stay indoors with their shitty husbands or they bring their "hubby" literally everywhere they go like he was some sort of an emotional support pet. I'm hoping that things settle when we're in our 40's to 50's and everyone has finally blackpilled on men and just want to get outside of their homes.

>>319551
Yes but who gives a fuck about most men since they're breath-takingly ugly unless they're young and breathtakingly ugly in personality even more ??? There's is literally not much to be attracted to accept in really rare cases. It's so much easier and more fun to sever from their shit entirely and ngaf. No amount of charm makes me unsee what they usually do, as a group.

Dating itself. The entire whirlwind of shitty interaction you encounter seeking out a moid. It takes away all motivation for me and I notice a ton of the same from other women online.

>>319549
>As long as you have this attitude it will keep manifesting in your life, get better.
So if you think hard enough about hot guys one will appear. Wow

>>319535
You answered it yourself, probably a newfag from. Crystal cafe.

>>319600
Congrats anon, you just bumped it again.

>>319557
Kek it's always the women who are already in a relationship with attractive men who say this shit.

>>319557
>>319612
I wanted to say attractive personality will multiply your general attractivity.
Trying to work on yourself won't make things worse.

>>319369
Current guy. He's been saying almost every month now that he wants to move on at some point but he always comes back. He says we're casually dating but its been almost a year at this point

Broke up with my ex a few months ago after a year and a half of dating. There have been a few times where I missed him, but overall I don't regret my decision at all. He was an okay guy but not the perfect fit and a little too immature. He was totally heartbroken and blocked me on everything and told me he was going to go to therapy (lol). I do feel bad about breaking his heart but then I remember all of the bullshit he pulled on me that drove me to the point of breaking up with him.

The thought of getting into a new relationship seems so EXAUSTING and not fun. I want a good relationship but at the same time I kinda like being alone and having time for myself. However I am in my mid twenties and I'm starting to feel the pressure of marriage and children (which I want!) I know I still have time to figure it out but it does worry me. All I can do now is just enjoy my life for what it is I guess.

>>319430
I’m going through something similar. A 6-7 month “talking/dating stage” then just over a year of actually being together. He told me 2-3 big lies that I just couldn’t get over and every now and then we’d argue and if was bad enough I decided to end it.

We’re older (im 31 he’s almost 36) and we had 4-5 years of friendship between us before dating so this really hurts. I miss my best friend. We’re almost one month no contact and it sucks, I’m dreading running into him in a public space. The worst part is bc I’m old is that I have lost all interest in dating. I’m emotionally exhausted and feel completely defeated by this.

>>319598
>31
>old
Girl

>>319601
I know I know, but I just feel overwhelmed by so many things in life right now that it’s like I can feel every day of those 31 years. Are we all old in this thread?? lolol

>>319216
It's entirely possible to just be born without one, I'm pretty sure I was too. I remember hearing about them for the first time when I was like, 8, feeling around and getting confused that there was no semblance of any sort of membrane

>>319209
I bled bright red when I broke mine (while masturbating, surprisingly, before my first time). I switched from my fingers and much smaller toys to a larger dildo, and it snapped. Got easier with time, eventually lost my virginity!! but damn, at the time I was scrambling around scared and my pussy ached for like two days

I remember googling "does your hymen bleed" and freaking out when it didn't stop immediately.

>>319233
>>319216
it's possible you had a fragile hymen and managed to break it when you started self exploration as a very young child, kids can be surprisingly rough

I always thought what i had going on down there was pretty normal, but I was reading a study on perineum length after falling down a wikipedia rabbit hole (yes i learned about childbirth tearing today and am horrified) and I have discovered I am an extreme pussy outlier. Apparently the average perineum length is 1.5 INCHES (3.81cm) and anything 1cm or below was like 0.5% of the population… which is what I measure. I already never wanted to give birth but now i'm certain about it, holy shit. I wonder what it feels like to have skin between your pussy and your butthole? Most women could get a damn tattoo down there. Amazing. I learn new things every day.

>>319596
I think I might be similar but I am not getting out a mirror and measuring tape to check… I wonder what causes that, long vag? small butt? ???

>>319499
I start fawning over kids more when I see them, it's this insatiable desire to want a baby. I'm nowhere near ready or responsible enough yet kek

anyone else get the most unhinged and insane thoughts right before the period? like having a full mental breakdown and convincing yourself that youre suicidal and telling close people about it weeping but then your period starts the fucking next day…
and now youre not sure which part was the messed up hormones or your actual feelings?… happened to me but also happened to my older sister so i felt a lot less retarded when she told me lol trying to do the same for a nona who needs it…

>>319595
I get a really strong feeling of hopelessness with suicidal thoughts. I also have random crying fits throughout the day. Weirdly enough it took me literally years to realize that my mood swings are connected to my period

>>319595
Not really but I hit people

>>319602
That's got nothing to do with your period, that's just you being a prick

>>319431
>The idea of fem Lestat is just so hot to me. Idc if she would be a total psycho bitch who probably wouldn't want to fuck a human 1/10th her age. I'm GETTING that vampussy.
Hell yesss

not sure if other women experience this too but I get aroused and can come just from listening to certain melodies / bits of songs that I really love. (for example, like…around the 3:50 mark in redbone by childish gambino). I love laying in bed with headphones on super loud and just listening and jerking off. If the sound is really amazing I can come in like 10 seconds.

Anyways I have fantasies of having a girlfriend that can play the electric guitar and she sits in a chair and plays a beautiful cover of that solo while the original song plays in the background; she's fully clothed and femme and she has me laying on the living room rug in front of her as I listen and get aroused just hearing the music. I start pulling off my pants and writhing on the floor and pulling up my sports bra to rub my breasts and grind my ass into the rug and start touching myself. Maybe she leans in as I get close (still shredding on the guitar) and laughs a little at how pathetic and weird I am. I've been single for too long. Sageing because it's dumb

>>319574
Kekkkk that's so sweet and a little weird but I respect you putting it out there nonnie

I have a fantasy that me and my [imaginary] crush would have the same taste in music and we could duet one of my favorite songs of all time together. I'd imagine we could both play the instruments for each part of the song but even one of us just strumming the chorus and finishing the lines would be cute

>>319574
kek nona I think you must have sex themed synesthesia for music

I have a thing for straight pubic hair. It's rare but it's so pretty. My autistic fantasy is for a woman with straight pubic hair to let lay my cheek on it and pet/play with it and maybe braid it or something idk. slick it up like a little pussy mohawk.

>>319427
Don't worry Spongebobanon, I'm also retarded and have a silly kids cartoon husbando too.
I don't know if it makes you feel less alone, but I seriously have a crush on a sentient gumball machine. Benson is unironically everything I want in a boyfriend.

>>319427
Oh wow nona, I don't anymore but you just made me nostalgic for when I was also extremely obsessed and infatuated with Spongebob as a kid as well. I had a Spongebob bed spread, many plushies, multiple sets of Spongebob pajamas, (lots of Spongebob clothes in general), Spongebob swimsuits, Spongebob wall stickers, multiple Spongebob birthday cakes, my Christmas presents were wrapped in Spongebob wrapping paper so I would know they were mine, and there was a whole lot of other merchandise that would take me years to list. I have years worth of stories and drawings of scenarios involving me living in Bikini Bottom with him stashed somewhere, they had over arching plots that I had us finally start dating near the end of one of them. If an episode involved his friends getting mad at him or something I'd leave the room while watching the episode because it used to upset me lol. I was looking though my old Diary of a Wimpy Kid do it yourself book a while back and though I don't have it now I can tell you that a bunch of the pages were basically picrel

>>319524
Goddamn, does she post here or something?

>>319524
I must confess… I had a crush on Marvin the Martian growing up. Here, I said it.

>>312448
Honestly take everything a doctor says with a grain of salt. Get second opinions and listen to patients, and your own body. Some doctors are just obtuse and refuse to accept certain things because it's not established in medical science books. Just like how gynos for years believed that the cervix had no never endings so it didn't feel pain, and some still do.

>>311936
I'm on my first dose and so far no period. I've been on Mirena and Nexplanon before and neither stopped my period, so considering the odds are 50/50 with Depo I figured this would be the one to do it

>>313211
the worst part is that it IS established they're just lazy pigs

I’m going off the pill (I’m on Loryna/Yaz). I’ve been on the pill for a few years but I’m going off for health reasons. I started taking the pill because of acne and painful/heavy periods. Any other nonnas in the same boat? What was is like not taking the pill anymore?

I'm completely healed from my tubal and it's even better than I thought it would be. I feel SO FREE and my sex life has improved because of it. I knew it was going to be good but this fuckin rules.