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/g/ is for all things girly, bathroom talk for advice, lifestyle, fashion, cosmetics, makeup, periodtalk. Anything you would ask and talk about with your female friends.

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Do not post porn, talking about porn or sexual preferences is fine though.
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No. 112815[Reply]

This is for diet and fitness related things only.

-Post your goals, your current state, like yout weight or measurements;
-What you're going to do to change it and your methods (Weight training? Intermittent Fasting? Running? Raw eating? MyFitnessPal logs?);
-And how to be held accountable for it, like biweekly weigh-ins or measurings.

Feel free to post charts of your progress! If you're doing daily reports, remember to sage.

Also, a reminder that we all have our ups and downs. You're human, allow yourself to fail. Just pick yourself up again and don't give up.

No ana, please.
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No. 132818

Starting weight: 104kg
Current weight: 98kg
Weight goal: 80kg

Since the start of the year I've lost 6 kgs doing Keto and intermittent fasting.

I did Keto last year and I lost about 25kgs, I had issues with loss of hair and lack of nutrients but I gained half back, so this time I'm trying to be more conscious about my health by taking vitamins and fasting so I can consume less.

I want to hit 80kg cause I haven't been that weight since 2008, then hopefully I can become my bmi weight

No. 132909

Are dates actually a good alternative to sugar? Why? Because it offers some fiber?

No. 132911

Yes. Fat and fibre change the speed at which the body processes sugar, which goes some way to negate the negative side of heavy carbs/sugar.

No. 132937

It's hard motivating yourself to lose weight and keep it up when you have a long way to go! But you got this!

No. 133092

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If you still need an app, you can grab an apk (if your phone is an android) of MyFitnessPal (the paid version) to be able to view the recipes section for free

>filter on many things

There isn't much of a filter option besides the options in pic related

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No. 48662[Reply]

Hi! I don't know if this belongs in /g/ or here…but most of us will never have a sexual partner so here we can give masturbation tips to each other to improve our solo sex lives! DIY sex toys for those of us who still live with their parents, sex toys recommendation, rub techniques, tips and tricks for multiple orgasms, kawaii pastel sex toys, kawaii sex videos etc…
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No. 133079

my girlfriend says shes been using an electric toothbrush for years to get off, and she says it's become difficult and painful because of the bristles and the side effects of her medication

her sensitivity has lowered a lot and says she can't use her hands any more effectively, shes nervous about buying any sort of sex toy because her parents are nosy, snoop on her credit card history etc

any advice? it sounds like it really bothers her and i just want to help my gf in some way

No. 133086

Can't she take out some cash and buy a cheap and small sex toy in store and hide it somewhere? Surely it'd be worth the risk if it's really bothering her.

No. 133088

if its the meds, its the meds, you can't make that shit better with sex toys, its super annoying and once i got off mine i was legit surprised how easy it was. i'd recommend her to take a break and then try her hands again and if it still doesn't work just buy her a small undetectable vibrator like one of those bullets that look like a lipstick. also tell her to mix up the porn she watches

No. 133090

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the obvious answer though is she sends you the money for the toy and you send it to her in a different box. if shes STILL worried about her parents finding out (why do they care so much, how old is this girl?) you can mail it to her friends house or legit just ask the local post office to hold it for her and she can pick it up. again again, her taking out cash and visiting a physical sex shop also makes sense and leaves zero trail. Yet here I am again, with ANOTHER option that may surprise you, there are electric dog nail filers that have a large guard around the file that vibrate IMMENSELY, to the great joy of my young dog owning self growing up. if anyone asks questions she can say she wanted to try it on a friends dog or her own nails for lols, nobodys gonna look too deep.

No. 133091

omfg that is so retarded, you don't use the head of the toothbrush to get off, you use it without it as a vib.

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No. 121350[Reply]

Previous: >>107593

Post men who are unconventionally attractive, gross, unattractive, average, ugly,creepy/weird, or shameful for their reputation.

Men you're ashamed to say you'd fuck… or not.
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No. 133069

I feel like every other day I learn that another famous man is actually an abusive swine. Disappointing.

No. 133077

Oh god yes please, especially him in Liar Liar

No. 133081

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Young Steve Buscemi vibes

No. 133083

I'm all about those tired eyes apparently.

No. 133087

he really got me as donny in the big lebowski for some reason. those kind eyes

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No. 103439[Reply]

Old thread seems to have reached it's limit.

>Post hair related advice, tips, questions etc.
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No. 132998

I have the same hair and face shape as you. If you don't wanna do bangs, look at liv Tyler for inspo. I tried bangs for years but they just don't work for me because I have cow licks in my hairline. (As far as I can tell, so do you)

Also, fill in your eyebrows properly, they make a huge difference.

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I have the same faceshape and I was thinking about getting bangs like this

No. 133003

Mine does the same thing and I think it might just be the hair type :/

No. 133037

getting layers and thinning it out might help. you could ask a stylist if they agree.

No. 133084

Anybody got curler/roller layout diagrams? Trying them out and aiming for long, soft curls almost more like waves. I know using larger rollers will give looser curls, but not sure how much the layout/pattern of the rollers will contribute. And all the same direction? Horizontal and rolling down over the roller?

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No. 132014[Reply]

Female Dating Strategy is a subreddit which was created in February 2019 as part of the larger arising of pp’d subreddits (such as r/vindicta, r/pinkpilledfeminism, r/trufemcels, etc.)

Female Dating Strategy is a female-only subreddit that was created in the interest of helping women to achieve their goals in dating, whether that be LTR, marriage or just FWB. It is centred entirely around maximising female benefit and minimising costs/risk. More saliently, due to its policy of being aggressively pro-female, FDS promotes a very unforgiving and cutthroat approach to interactions with males. In many respects, it is a response to the presence of the ‘manosphere’ and in particular TRP.

Important links:
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/ideology Ideology of FDS
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dugj5t/fds_guide_nonmainstream_opinions_and_strategies/ Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by the sub
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/deoi18/psa_femaledatingstrategy_doesnt_believe_in_asking/ PSA on asking men out
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d22vzv/given_that_the_risks_of_sex_are_way_higher_and/ why sex shoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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No. 132137

I find that guys who are the extreme opposite (like guys who constantly make nuke jokes and classic "they deserved it" comments whenever anything japanese is brought up) are also best to avoid.

No. 132138

This makes me so fucking mad. Why are women so accommodating? She's fucking 29 years old and she stays with a bum who rapes her.

No. 132139

I'm always suspicious at big posts with no history because it's a throwaway and no comments from the poster.

But really
>For about 3 years I slept on the floor instead so I wouldn't be bothered.
Paid for everything and yet sleeps like a dog. Well no, worse than. Dogs sleep on comfy beds. She's on the damn floor. And shes hesitant on leaving because he doesn't know how to care for himself… Christ.

No. 132140

That's the entire point of a throwaway… To make a big post you don't want connected to your other accounts and that's it

No. 133082

Women have only themselves to blame. They got their sexual freedom and started fucking random idiots when they should have been selecting their men thoroughly.

It's funny, if FDS and RP were to meet halfway and reach a compromise we'd all go back to a traditional society.

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No. 115426[Reply]

In need of advice? Post here!

Last thread: >>87009
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No. 133071

My first ex did this to me a lot. The biggest example I remember is this stupid argument we had where he claimed I told someone he hated certain sensitive information (our real names and such) when in fact, I never did. I am EXTREMELY cautious about sharing things about myself online with strangers and NEVER share real names so I 100% knew it never happened. He was vehement about it to the point where it was driving me crazy and the his constant accusations left me yelling and screaming (because he almost certainly wanted me to look crazier than him). It took maybe two weeks of me completely denying his stupid claims to finally have him let it go but it was obvious what he was doing. Aside from that, he'd also often tell me I was "mentally ill" and had "poor memory" to dismiss many things I said.

I guess the point is, in my experience at least, being gaslighted at its root involves being dismissed to the point where you question your own mental faculties and erodes your self-esteem as a result. I started to internalize a lot of the verbal abuse he threw at me and felt an overwhelming sense of inadequacy and depression. There was also physical and more verbal abuse alongside all that too though.

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Anons I need some advice.
This guy and I have been close friends for years now, and over the past 7-8 months I’ve developed really intense romantic feelings for him, and he lives about 1000 miles away. In the past, and very recently (like 2-4 weeks ago) he’s expressed his feelings for me in a joking manner, saying things like “what if I asked you out… haha but as a joke haha totally a joke.” “We should go out on valentines. It’s a date.” And then flat out telling me how he feels when he’s drunk. So over the weekend when I was visiting/staying with him for an event, I kept feeling this nagging feeling in the back of my throat, and kept feeling anxious around him. So finally on my last day in town, while we were walking around the event I stopped him and just blurted out how I felt. I told him I really liked him… When I told him his face got red and his response was “Oh shit, oh fuck. Not like this.” I didn’t even know what to say, so I just said “I’m sorry.” And walked off really quickly because I was so embarrassed. When we finally met back up and he dropped me off at the airport, we hugged but I couldn’t look him in the eyes. I apologized again and told him to forget I even said anything, but he hugged me again and said “no no, it’s okay, we’ll talk about this at a later date.” And then I got on my flight and went home. We’ve been talking normally, and he hasn’t mentioned anything about what I said. I’m so confused. I don’t know what to think and my anxiety is getting the better of me.

No. 133080

I don't like myself. How do I get over it?

No. 133085

In my experience what helped me the most is talking to other people who aren't currently in the situation nor have biases towards the person you think is gaslighting you. My ex gaslighted me intensely for months, and it was only when I talked to a friend about it that they said "Y'know, I think they're probably cheating on you" which unfortunately is honestly something I would have never conceptualized myself.

Looking back, I think for me it would be uneasiness and feeling strange about situation/interactions, but also the person's reactions to you bringing up those things. Previously we had more open communication about things, but it was different when everything I felt started to become immediately shut down (even small things). Also feeling like when you do voice your feelings, the other person turning it on you or making it feel like you're to blame.
And for me personally, it was a lot of berating me (saying that things were my fault, blaming problems we had together on me, etc), lying to me, ignoring but then also granting me like a speck of time, or communication or whatever but then going back to lying, ignoring me etc. My ex would cause a lot of arguments over things that didn't make sense and use those as excuses to ignore me. They would also project onto me about cheating and infidelity and make me feel bad for accepting compliments or giving them (this was stuff like, me seeing some person on instagram and being like 'wow they're cute' or something). I would recommend you talking to someone you really trust and laying everything out, because an outside opinion can really provide a light to the end of the tunnel.

No. 133089

Oh shit, I'm so sorry you misread the signs. That joking-date thing totally sounded like flirting to me so I'm not surprised this happened. Honestly I think you have two options here
Number one: you continue the friendship and pretend like it never happened. Since he hasn't brought it up again to properly talk about this it seems like the route he wants to go.
Number two: if you feel unable to move past this without talking it through you should. Just tell him that you value and would like to continue the friendship as is. I don't feel like there's any need to apologize. You can't deny your feelings for him. You should probably be aware that you can continue the friendship but it might hurt. Then it could go back to normal. Since he hasn't acted weird or avoided you it seems like he really wants you as a friend which is important to note.
Just for a little input I was madly in love with one of my friends as a teen. I never told him but I remember he caught my eye once when I was literally teary-eyed because I loved him so much (amongst other things) so I think he probably caught on so to speak despite never saying so. It was really painful but my feelings did eventually fade. After not going to the same school we didn't see eachother as much but we would meet sometimes over the years and had a lot of great times so situations similar to yours can definitely work out. Feelings fade and people change - all of that kinda stuff.

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No. 72061[Reply]

New makeup thread because >>45820 is being locked.

Anyone try the new Fenty foundations and are they suitable for oily skin?
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No. 133012

Yeah I like the RT one a lot. If you're like me outside of the US/Canada and the shipping outweighs the cost of the Miss A sponge anon above me mentioned, I'd recommend you get that one.

No. 133055

I'm very very pale with pink undertones and I've struggled to find a foundation that suits my skin type forever. The best and closest I've found is Too Faced Born This Way in 'Cloud' but it's kinda out of my price range (and Too Faced is a company I don't rly wanna give money to).

Any recommendations? UK based btw.

No. 133062

>out of my price range

No. 133072


Thanks anon! It arrived a few days ago and it works like magic.

No. 133076

I don't want to work £30+ on makeup into my budget lmao

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No. 132141[Reply]

One time I was having dinner with my ex and two macho guys approached us to hit on my ex because she's femme. I had to tell these guys to back off because we were on a date but then they just made some nasty comments about how hot we were together.
Any one experience similar things? Its basically a given since men take offense to gay women.
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No. 132842

Sounds like you are bi but men have just been shitty to you so you're cautious around them

I'm bi but my disliking of men (based on shitty exes) makes me wish I was lesbian. Would make life simpler lol

No. 132867

It didn't go as planned. I had a horrible day at work leading up to it and was really stressed out but she was really understanding. She came over with ice cream and we ordered takeout and then we spooned and she caressed my hair while we talked about how shitty our bosses are and vented. Then we watched Aggretsuko on Netflix…kissed a bit, held hands. Not a super romantic Valentine's…but she made all of my worries melt away.

No. 132870

I'm bi but my dating experiences with other girls have been lackluster. They're all identical in my area, lack conviction or an actual personality, generally liberal in the worst ways. They usually end up talking to multiple people at once or not being serious. I don't have time for those games.
Dating men on the other hand is easier but boring, both romantically and sexually.

No. 132894

feel bad but I've been monitoring her SM. she's not taking it well and blaming herself for not doing more for a piece of shit like me. wish I could just tell her it's not worth the brain cycles, and I wouldn't have done more anyway (I'm happier now), but I know that's just life. it's her first breakup and another one in a long line for me.

No. 133073

Strong gf goals.

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No. 112464[Reply]

post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting
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No. 132728

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Precious little Irish fellow

No. 132757

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Taika Waititi is a total dreamboat. I dream of hearing that cute little accent while I fuck his brains out

No. 132758

No just no. Dude looks like someones gay grandpa.

No. 132788

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I really like him too! I had no idea of his nationality and loved his accent when I heard him speak at the baftas

No. 133067

If this was a month ago when I didn't know who he was I would never agree but I get it now, I get it.

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