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No. 62165[Reply]

Post loser ex-boyfriend (or ex-gf for gayfags) stories here.

>Online neckbeards you met in chatrooms at 15, that one autist you depression-dated when you had no self esteem and then couldn't shake off, the lanklet dude who played xbox all day and couldn't hold down a job and forgot your birthday. Vent or share funny stories ITT!
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No. 76442

Update: yesterday I found out he was into that MGTOW crap. Which, in hindsight, makes sense, I didn't even realise that I'd been negged the whole time until I rewound the film a bit. I just didn't expect that I'd find a guy like that in the wild.
I'm actually glad I dodged that bullet.

I don't think I'm going to approach any guys and openly tell them I like them anymore, all it seems to do is attract insecure losers who want an ego boost and free sex before dumping me when they get bored of playing boyfriend and treating me like shit in the meantime. I don't even put out until like months in, idgi. I don't even have that much relationship experience but this feels like a lifetime's worth, Christ.

The only problem is I'm practically invisible irl and people simply never talk to me if they don't need to, even though I'm relatively friendly. But idk where to meet decent guys online, I'm avoiding dating apps and chan boards.

No. 76443

>friends with guy for a few years, had a brief crush on idealised version of him in college (chill low-maintenance stoner)
>start working at the same place as him, cheat on bf with him (i know, bad, but i had an issue bc of csa where i felt obligated to let guys do whatever they wanted to me)
>start dating him instead
>turns out he’s a piss fetishist who wears adult diapers and sends me pictures of him in them telling me shit like “filled it up! :)”
>impotent so we never had sex, all we ever did was watch tv while he got high
>he stopped contacting me so i went to his (parents’) house to ask why
>he blamed it on depression and said he’d speak to me soon!
>never replied to me so a few months later i moved across the country with my best friend and got a new boyfriend who doesn’t suck
>he ‘likes’ facebook photos of me with my new bf
>i wish i could just eternal sunshine that shit i’m so embarrassed by past me

No. 76451

It's great to live vicariously through all of you. Thank you.

No. 76459

I love this thread because I have dated WAY too many manchilds and losers. I won't post them all, but the boy that made me hard delete Tinder is worth talking about:

>Gets my heart broken and in super sulk mode for months.

>Friend recommends I get sum dick on Tinder to get my mind off ex boyfriend.
>Download app, meet a guy my age who lives a town over.
>He's cute, let's meet tomorrow.
>Meet up, have an awesome night just talking. I can dig this.
>Tell him I'm in no place to date. He isn't either? Awesome!
>I'm sober from alcohol at this point. He drinks, but doesn't do it around me out of respect.
>He lives with his grandparents, so he stays over at my house when we hang.
>We're out one day. Stop at a gas station to get oil for my shit car. The cashier tells me they don't have funnels and manchild full on spergs out on the dude. Tells the cashier to go fuck himself for not having FUNNELS.
>I finally calm him down, but not feeling too fond of him after this.
>He slowly begins moving his stuff into my house. At first, NBD because I understand the need for your own toothbrush. But then my closet slowly becomes overwhelmed with his clothes.
>He completely blows off friends to hang out with me. I tell him this is not okay, so he goes out.
>Calls me a few hours later begging to be picked up.
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No. 76484

>started dating ex when i was 19
>broke up last year just after i turned 24
>relationship not always great, but not necessarily bad
>mistakes made on both ends, still had a lot of happy times together though
>I've moved on, am in a happy grown up relationship
>new partner and I are moving in together next month
>ex has recently flipped his shit and started posting ambiguously on social media calling me toxic and claiming i was emotionally and physically abusive for the entirety of our relationship

coincidence? sure thing.

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No. 50356[Reply]

i mean girls have been doing it forever. from being a sugar baby to just being online and recieving things because you're cute or nice, how do you guys feel about it?

sometimes i get jealous that a girl got a 500 dollar purse from a rando, but then i just feel happy for her and strive to get to that level one day.
i usually feel a little guilty when recieving money or gifts from others because it's simply in my nature to want to give back or do something for them.
this is hypocritical im sure, but when i dont necessarily have talent or a lot of money, it is nice to recieve something from your wishlist once in a while.

so yeah im rambling, but any opinions?

is it bad/trashy? or fine? im not sure if it's taking advantage of some, but no one is forcing people to donate or gift you things.
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No. 76475

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>make SA profile long time ago
>get messages from ton of dudes
>narrow it down to foreign guy
>he wants to meet an hour away in a hotel
>obvs sex
>say fuck it, negotiate price
>he tells me I look like his crush
>his student
>be skeeved out but it's $1000
>he constantly messages me over the next few days
>I work and have a life
>realize that if I say anything remotely off that he gets very insecure and starts bombing me with messages
>day before trip
>he asks me if he could use a sleeve for his tiny dick
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No. 76477

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>university student
>date a lot of guys in tinder and in ikc
>semi popular in the community I was in
>Ana chan peak
>rumour starts that I’m a sugar baby
>guy at mate’s work asks me if I’d go with him to the Xmas party for $
> no touching allowed
> continue going to office Xmas parties for money with several IT guys
>kinda creepy guys but mostly well paid autismos
>come back to a guys place because I knew him for months and told my friends about where I’m staying who I’m with.
>asleep in guest house
>sleep in underwear bc I packed change clothes
>wake up
>he was cuddling me
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No. 76480

>My friend was anally raped with a curling iron turned on.
Holy shit, that's fucking terrifying and awful. I hope your friend recovered well.

No. 76482

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a hell nah

No. 76483

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Jesus christ mate i hope your friend is recovering well

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No. 76132[Reply]

Muscles? Masculine, feminine, intelligent, kinks, what's your ideal man. Have you ever met a man who met that or atleast was close to that ideal?
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No. 76467

I have a bf im happy with
>hairy, the hairer the better
>tall but not freak of nature, I'm 5'0 for reference so 5'9+
>wide shoulders, wide chest
>olive skin
>slim or toned, like swimmer body
>black or brown hair, wavyish
>facial hair
>brown almond eyes
>small moles in random places, especially on the chest, not huge freak ones though
>dresses business casual but not intimidating
>dominant but not the pretentious kind, not abusive either, knows my limits and respects them
>babys me
>likes having fun, isn't a pussy and trying new things
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No. 76468

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>(Richard Ramirez type, ye ik its cringy but he is my type)
i feel this anon, bundy is my type physically, but he’s literally an incubus.

No. 76469

Someone mentally and emotionally stable, understanding and patient, kind, who has ambitions and who is loyal.

I am fortunate enough to be in a relationship with someone who fits those characteristics.

No. 76474

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I actually made a list in my phone for whenever I decide to re-enter the dating world. Taller than me, jawline for days, and big dick are givens.

>Likes to eat/isn't picky

>thinks hugs are super great
>Wants to do things with me, even if they're out of the box or bothersome
>Little problem falling asleep
>Wants to marry and have kids someday
>Relatively in-shape, doesn't obsess too much
>Great work ethic
>emotionally supports my stupidass j-fashion interests

>is moot

No. 76479

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yes girl yes. I was expecting to get hate for saying that, but its good that you feel me. Like I dont support what Richard or Ted did but they're fine men physically.

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No. 75631[Reply]

There is another thread for fit girl problems, but this is a thread open for everyone regardless of your experience with fitness and exercise.

Some ideas for what to discuss:
>share your fitness/body/health goals
>ask questions
>exchange tips and advice
>post routines
>update on progress
>vent about roadblocks
>give support!

Hopefully this thread can be a mix of people who are totally new and people who have been at it for a while. We can help each other out.
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No. 76464

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How much do you guys reckon she weighs (at 1,68m) and how can i achieve this?
She's really my "goal", not just her body, but everything…

No. 76465

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Another pic as reference

No. 76471

run. a lot.

her legs have a lot of definition but everywhere else she's just super thin.

No. 76472

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I love Joy too, fellow anon.
Her weight fluctuates a bit, and it depends on her muscle mass, but I think she's about 48~54kg at most.

No. 76478

I always thought she's clearly over 50…?
How about here?

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No. 49363[Reply]

Any of you guys suffering from anything? because I am.
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No. 76324

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My derealization/depersonalization, C-PTSD, and severe depression combined with crippling loneliness after losing contact with all my friends makes me feel like I'm going crazy. Everything around me looks and feels like I'm in an episode of serial experiments lain while I just sort of move my body on autopilot. Sometimes I get so in my head, I just start thinking about my existence and end up crying my eyes out for hours even if I'm at work in front of everybody. It's embarrassing but at the same time I don't really care if anyone sees.

I really hate myself. I have this problem where I get tired of people easily for minor things they say/do and I drive myself deeper into isolation every time I throw people away but it's also like I don't want to talk to anyone because I don't want to exist. I just want to quietly disappear but being a human and natural social animal, that's difficult for the brain to deal with so it's also scary for me to not exist even though that's my position right now. It feels like I'm running away from the past and present but I'm just damaging my now nonexistent social life. I'm in a total mindfuck and can't escape it because I'm too pussy to kill myself. I don't even want to die I just want to stop hurting so badly. I can't believe I literally ended up a friendless loser even the nerdiest, dorkiest aquaintances I know have friends how is this possible? I actually feel like I'm suffocating everything is so surreal.

No. 76326

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same here anon.

i tend to hallucinate and form delusions when my anxiety gets bad, but im too scared to talk about it with a psychiatrist. i dont want to be locked up in a psych ward

No. 76327

I could have written this myself!
I'm sorry you feel like this too anon. how are you feeling right now? I hope you can find something to give your life the meaning it deserves. I'm still trying to find it too.

No. 76341

Interesting, I feel the same.
I wonder how common this is.

No. 76476

If I go to inpatient with alcohol in my system, will they take me seriously?

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No. 76354[Reply]

An escape from animu, kpop and co

As much as i love lolcow, i can't help but feel fed up by the amount of yellow fever, not just here, but on the rest of the internet as well. There's no place you can go to without being confronted by it.

So many girls are feeling insecure because they're never gonna be the perfect azn waifu and that's seriously not healthy. There would be so many interesting things from different countries out there, yet most of us here concentrate on those two, whether it’s their music, movies, fashion or beauty standards in general.

Post your girl-/boy crushes, movies, tv shows, books or music you like, languages or countries you’re interested in, people you admire, no matter what, as long as it's not japanese or korean.
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No. 76386

do you not take care of your skin or something? korean skincare has been used by everybody and their mom for the past 5 years that's why you're seeing it in skincare threads. it's a lot more advanced than western products and I don't even like korea's fucked up culture. people don't even post asian makeup that often. most of the products are western shit from your local sephora. i understand where youre coming from but we have music, books, tv show, int threads, and girl/boy crush threads. i rarely see any asian related shit in those threads. you've just gone excessive retard and that's why people are questioning you

No. 76455

waifuism fucks with my self esteem big time

No. 76461

What do you mean?

No. 76470

Stop dating weebs.

No. 76481

if my hunch is right and it's about the guys who talk about 2d being superior and listing reasons why, most of those guys are incredibly insecure and too daft to realize that women can also be insecure like them. They're trying to "get back at" who they perceive as confident coniving popular girls they desire without realizing or caring that they hurt their nerdy female peers in the process. they only pity themselves and paint all women with a broad brush and take out their insecurities on half the population via waifu comparisons. You should be angry or grossed out, not take it out on yourself. you've already given them way more of your time and energy than they've ever given you.

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No. 69748[Reply]

Is this a thread topic we haven't covered yet? I know we've got the friend finder, but that's not really a general thing, and advice thread is too broad. It seems like a lot of us have issues with this. Seems like a good thing to talk about. I'll post my question/story below.
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No. 75957


Am the same but I think it stems from a self protective mehcanism of not wanting to get involved with others for the fear of getting trampled on or discarded. You've been like it so long that you probably don't relate with what I've said though. Its natural to push it down and accept it as your normality.

No. 75974

Oh I know what it's like to be in a group of women that are the complete opposite of you. It's just not fun. So maybe try to still join them but not as often? Go out with them every few weeks and say you're busy when it gets too often. This way you don't come off as you don't want anything to do with them. I couldn't deal with hanging out with people where I feel like an alien.

No. 76008

Agreed with everything until you started that 'not like the other girls' bullshit. Men are infinitely needier than women because 99% of the time they want in your pants, if girls were clingy I wouldn't lose contact with them so easily.

Anyway my lack of drive to actually make or keep friends is because I'm pretty satisfied by myself. I only ever miss it when there's something specific I want to do that would be more enjoyable or socially acceptable by myself. It's not that I dislike the friendships I haven't maintained, it just never occurs to me to try and keep up conversations via text or invite them places or anything.

No. 76115


No. 76466

has anyone ever tried bumble bff? is that still a thing?

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No. 49328[Reply]

Alright so there are these makeup / skin care threads but I didn't see any PS one yet it's something that's mentioned a lot at /pt/ and /snow/.
I got a nose job some years ago and I'm VERY satisfied with the outcome (feel free to ask me questions about rhinoplasty if you have any concern about it). RN I'm looking forward getting jaw surgery done but I don't have much information about this procedure in Europe. Any advice?
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No. 76350

Your boobs look fantastic anonette!

They look similar to mine (natural), so don't look fake at all. At least to me they look real! :)

No. 76454

So I'm going to go to Korea in May to get epicantholplasty, vline surgery and rhino.

I'm not too worried about it, since I'm trying to get all the changes to look very natural, but ever since I moved to Koreatown, LA, I noticed there's a lot of foreign rich international students that look absolutely FUCKED from their surgeries. I know they could afford to go to good surgeons, so I'm wondering why they look so bad. Is it an aesthetic choice that I can avoid by specifying that I want natural? Or is that how people who get surgery overseas end up looking like?

Does anyone have any examples of people who got surgery in Korea and don't end up looking like a creepy plastic ulzzang?

No. 76456

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I've seen good looking outcomes at GNG. Dr Seong seems pretty good, too bad flying to Korea for me would be crazy expensive.
People who get botched either go to shitty doctors or ask for the fake effect. That, or get too much work done. I've observed that at some point PS stops making you look better and starts making you look worse. Ask for a natural effect and choose a reputable surgeon

No. 76458

Haha thats funny cause I'm going to GNG because of their reputation for looking more natural. That's where all my procedures are being done.

No. 76473


OT but that chick is gorgeous. She was pretty beforehand, but I must confess I like her enhanced version better.

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No. 43180[Reply]

post pictures of awful makeup and makeup trends you hate
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No. 74648

I love Sugarpill products, but I'm not gonna lie I've always found Amy's makeup to be really tacky. It doesn't suit her.

No. 74649

both of them look like reject gyaru tbh.

No. 74669

so are the people with some random kpop idol or even a stolen photo of another random korean ulzzang aesthetic uwu as their profile pic.

No. 76448

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This gross mongoloid ass spawn of a thot

No. 76457

lmao that pic is so good. she's not following the natural shadow so her tits are gonna look like footballs.

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No. 70439[Reply]

Post limit for old thread reached >>>/g/44548

Get amazing advice from fellow farmers, or just vent your relationship feels.
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No. 76420


How can they be this crazy only 2 months in? Like is the honeymoon period 2 weeks long these days before they turn into a turd?

>or did i just land myself another abusive fuck?

Yyyuppp sorry Anon. Also based on my many reads of relationship stories, he who is paranoid about you cheating is always cheating/would cheat himself. Not that you should gaf about that 2 months in and with this crazy guy but yeah.

No. 76429

Ehh I wouldn't say always. A lot of people who have been cheated on before become really insecure and paranoid about it too, as well as people with really low self-esteem. It's definitely a possibility though, usually the paranoid ones are women.

No. 76432

>usually the paranoid ones are women
polite disagreement here, i've seen men pull this kind of behavior just as frequently as women. insecurity has no gender, unfortunately.

No. 76452

I've been going through a rough time lately with some family matters. My Boyfriend's mom has been having some things happening too. My bf has been there for me and is so supportive, and since his mom lives nearby, he's been emotionally supporting his mom, too. What's something nice I can do to show him how much I appreciate him?

No. 76453

If you like baking or cooking you can make him a meal/deserts.

Make him a sweet homemade card full of reasons for why you love amd appreciate him. Or a drawing. My bf really likes this.

Give him a nice massage with candles lit. A happy ending is a nice bonus.

Do the housework for a week so he can relax

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