/g/ - girl talk

>>156131
Eep. Anon. You just reminded me of that happening to me with a sex toy from Amazon, same sleeve that can be unraveled for a peek inside… And I got a card that it's been left with my neighbour. I swear he had a fucking smirk on his face when I went to get it. Cringe

My rabbit vibrator nearly fucking exploded/set fire. While it was inside me. I spent at least 50 bucks on that thing and it was from a “trusted” online shop. Possibly traumatised out of using vibrators ever again.

>>156216
Holy fuck. Are you okay? What do mean exploded? Lile it started sparking & smoking? I've had that happen with a computer charger before, not something inside me. I'd try to look that up online or leave a review, if it's a common issue they should recall that.

>>156216
>my rabbit vibrator nearly fucking exploded/set fire

Woah, going pretty hard there anon

I feel like this is a shot in the dark but has anyone ever ordered from https://unlocktheo.com/ before? I'd love to hear from you because I've had incredibly bad luck with their customer service rep

>>156088
Nta but I put her, Doja Cat, and Azealia Banks all in the same "hot, but have weird personalities where they enjoy trolling a little too much" category. They all have musical talent too of course, but that's beside the point.

>>156089
Nokia isn’t a troll she’s just retarded.

>>149284
aileen was based

>>45754
>not noomi rapace
>>140437
>not amber
shame for bad taste

>>156164
This. I'm surprised people don't put her on blast for being a cow more often, as another mentioned she puts on a million personalities for attention and woke points to the extent that it makes her seem like a compulsive liar. She also dated this guy in LA that became a tranny sometime after they broke up, lol. I agree that she looks good though, even if she uses way too much self tanner.

>>156174
Everyone where I live still dresses like this lol.

>>156174
i think those skater skirts will stick around forever

>>156174
I will be wine-mom aged so who the fuck cares.

>>156209
but you can pull that hipster look off even at wine mom age

>>156174
it’s kind of coming back with the rising popularity of 00s fashion and earth toned wardrobes.

Is it normal that after washing my hair only once, my roots get lighter immediately?

>>156014
>s it worth it if it smells like a dehydrated alcoholic pissed up my bathroom walls for a week after doing it?
This made me kek

How should I apply olaplex 3? Before or after washing my hair?


In the bottle, it says to put on towel-damp hair

>>156014
from what i've read, you're not supposed to let it ferment for that long. some people use it after only a half hour of soaking but i feel like 12 hours to one day (depending on the heat / humidity in your house and whether it's exposed to direct sunlight, sometimes it ferments much faster due to those factors) is the sweet spot for actual benefit to the health of your hair as opposed to just making it sleeker/shinier
if it's been fermenting for several hours to a day, you're also supposed to dilute it because the acidity increases the longer it ferments and too much acidity can be harmful for many types of hair (think of things like apple cider vinegar rinses and how they tell you to dilute it to avoid damaging your hair)
i've forgotten about my huge jars of rice
water for several days, i just dump it because even if i dilute it to the point where it's mostly filtered water and barely rice water, it smells and feels very acidic which i feel probably isn't good for my hair.
i hope this post isn't patronizing or rude, i'm not sure about the traditional ways to ferment and use rice water but i agree with you that it gets very gross after a few days, and i think it is also likely
to damage many types of hair because of the acidity
>>156072
they make hydrating and moisturizing masks for your scalp, klorane's soothing shampoo with peony is supposed to be good for things like this but i haven't tried it personally
most people who have worked with hair for a long time say to avoid scalp scrubs and harsh clarifying shampoos because the scrubs can create microtears on your scalp (similarly to coarse scrubs for the face) and the really harsh stripping clarifying shampoos tend to dry out your scalp and roots
rene furterer's complexe 5 plant stimulating concentrate oil comes recommended by people who work a lot with hair and has good reviews, it's very expensive but might go on sale for the holidays. oils and creams specially formulated for the scalp are really good for a dry flaky scalp, you'll probably want to check the ingredients for fragrance and anything irritating though
a fragrance free dry oil for hair with non irritating ingredients might be a good alternative to a 50$ special scalp oil, they tend to absorb decently well and won't leave you greaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

does biotin works for a receding hairline? It's not that drastic and due to having my hair pulled back all my childhood and teenage years, but idk what to do, i'm insecure about it

>>156074
Speaking of The Office
Creed

>>156211
for me itd be robert california

i have such a huge crush on paul merton

>>156214
Yeah, I normally wouldn’t bang spader, but I definitely would in this role

>>150287
>>150205
isnt he an autist?

>>156207
Anon I am hesitant to say this is actually a problem. If he doesn't get his feelings hurt and you are having a good sense of humor about it, I would say no big deal. Maybe you can just touch base with him to make sure he isn't hiding any secret resentment over it. Then let it be.

There are a lot of reasons you might feel repulsed by his erections, but there's so much info we don't have that I don't even know where to start. Personally, I went though several years of feeling that way with my husband, because I felt somehow used for sexual gratification (even though our sex was good for me too). I wasn't getting the attention I desired before and after the act. No build up, no appreciation. I too have been sexually assaulted so that led to me being strongly against what I perceive as cheap intimacy.

>>156212
Yeah you're right. It just seems obvious. Equal effort, and the man stereotypically usually texts first more than the girl anyway.

>I struggle to text first cause my dumb ass brain thinks no one would want to talk to me. Could be the same.
Me too, but it feels even worse now because not only do I think that no one wants to talk to me but it's confirmed.

>>156215

You make a really good point and I can relate on the bit about cheap intimacy stemming from assault, so you might be right on the mark. Thank you for your input!

I'm married and recently my husband and I decided we're poly
I'm bisexual but I don't want to date just any woman, I want someone we both love and have a connection with as weird as that may sound
We've met a few women that fit perfectly but we're taking things slow. Any advice for us wayward crazy lovebirds
There's one girl in particular we're really fond of, I'm so excited about it.

>>156230
Idk if this is the place to find poly advice lol. No offense anon.

>>155893
I… huh. Why did you ever put up with this anon? Like there is literally not a single part of this that is remotely sane or redeemable and most people would've recognized that immediately. Why did you think it was okay?

It's hard to convey online but I'm not judging you rn, I'm genuinely wondering how in the hell any of this became normalized for you because holy shit. I'm glad you're doing better now and safely away from this deranged piece of garbage.

>>155895

i honestly do not know anon, he manipulated me pretty badly, i was naive and vulnerable also. But got my eyes opened by some internet people im very good friends with now.

Also, my fiance who helped me also through all of that talked to my ex's sister, apparently my ex is depressive and is still with his parents and constantly bringing me up, that was months ago i think when i heard that about him.

But i honeslty could give 0 fucks if hes depressed, it is yet sad but funny to know that he still acts the same way and mentions me, he sounds insane and delusional.

but anyway, gotta go and play my gacha games

>>155896
I'm so sorry you went through all that, damn. I was in an emotionally manipulative relationship at one point as well and also turned to the internet for help. Gets a bad rap but people can give surprisingly good advice, and it helps to get a less biased opinion.

I agree it sucks that he's in a bad place, but definitely not your job to "heal" him or whatever. Nothing is an excuse to be a gross abuser towards your partner. I'm happy to hear you have a supportive fiance now, too. Have fun with your gachas!

not as awful as others but

>older teen in virtual chat who claimed to be alexei romanov, reincarnated. we didn't do anything but called ourselves a couple. turns out he was gay
then I had the misfortune of dating 2 guys irl who used /pol/. I was a socially inept airhead teen so I didn't realize at the time.
>first one showed like no interest in me, I'm tempted to think he was also gay (closeted). we didnt even kiss but it was high school. I don't care to know what hes like now. he was a neglectful asshole. eventually he sperged irl about race. that was after we broke up. he grew more bitter and unhinged over time
>second had wack extreme politics whichever side he was on. he ended up trooning out and I naively played right in. I went along with anything at that time including sexual, which I deeply regret. Still he was not a bad person and ultimately didn't transition. for a while it sucked, I saw all the catgirl, waifu, bussy memes unfolding irl. I was disgusted but lost on how to handle that. I also wasn't without my own major issues
It's like a timeline of only understanding the situation after the fact. seeing shit online and thinking "Oh. that's what that came from" it's wild how some people's personality is from the internet. But I was pretty stupid and deranged myself. I could probably also fit that description

>met him on shitty mmo for 13 year olds
>groomed me (i was 15 and he was 24)
>when we moved together for a bit into his moms flat luna style he decided that its a better idea to buy a lifesized lara croft statue from his neighbour than buy groceries for the month.
>ridiculed marriage talk (thank god)
>phimosis but refused to go to the doctor for it
>put his hands on me due to a dumb argument
once he did that i went home and broke up with him via skype. he tried getting back with me a few years later… while he got a new 16 year old gf LOL i rejected that offer and now they are married, most likely for his greencard.

> Your age
24, soon 25
> Preferred age range for friends
22+

> Your hobbies & interests

Past interests
-Lolita fashion and J-fashion (currenlty only midly interested in some, trying to be a normie tomboy now)
-Electronic music generes (like gabber, hardstyle, dnb, breakcore, etc)
-Dark natural-kei (I guess what you would call cottagecore/dark witch academia now, with the spooky autumn trees, fog and deers)
-Random aesthetics
-Random trendy fashion
-Penpals and sending cute shit through physical mail
-Tarot, astrology and divination
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>>156158
It's not that people didn't want a laid back server, but I think you should had thought twice before doing something "in the spur of the moment" like that. People got super heated up, everyone is trolling, falseflagging, and infighting, they were obviously going to target the pitbullposters as well. If you (or anyone else) remake the server I hope you don't do this again, cause time and again lolcow servers get made and deleted and it's just super volatile and annoying. I guess this thread is the way to go if anyone wants to make friends with other people.

>>44406
>I've met so many scary girls that I wouldn't want to be able to find me after I ghosted them.
oh shit
more on this?

>>156143
anon I would love if you sent me a request

>>139390
Hey, I don't know if you remember me but I added you and we talked for a while and even vced but I deleted my discord. I've since made a new one so if you want to add me go ahead, I really enjoyed talking to you, sorry if I was spergy. Here's my new discord if you want to talk: vronsky#4540

I've been considering myself as bisexual ever since middle school. I'm now a third year in college.

Throughout the peak of quarantine, when I was barely seeing anyone and basically in isolation, I did a lot of thinking about my sexuality. I thought about my attraction to girls, and where it originated from, if I was even attracted to guys, and if I was a lesbian.

I had only made out with 3 guys during this time, hated two of the times, and I've never done anything sexual with a girl. Doing anything sexual with a guy kinda repulsed me at the time, and I was really attracted to girls. I was even flirting/talking with one a bit.

Fast forward to now and I just hooked up with a guy recently and really liked it. Ever since this experience I've been viewing guys differently, and I feel way more attracted to them than I did before. My attraction to girls has kinda subsided and can't stop thinking about this guy and guys in general.

Maybe I'm overthinking, maybe I'm still questioning, or maybe I'm just bisexual. Idk

>>156163
I'm not sure I understand. Why would lesbians want to gatekeep? Not trying to be purposefully obtuse but I've never heard anyone explain why they wouldn't fuck with a woman who has dated a man besides possible fear of bisexuals?

>>156168
Yeah, bisexual.
>>156191
Some of it is stereotypes and weird purity-tier shit ("bisluts" leaving for men), but I've also read many say they'd just prefer to be with someone who has the same experience socially.
Even for someone like me, as a bisexual my experience is different since I can still choose to be functionally straight and comfortable. Lesbians don't and will never have that option.
And as a group lesbians have a history of being predated on, so bisexuals claiming lesbianism can come of as coercion/lying to bypass boundaries.

>>156168
what if i'm the reverse of this. i can find some males attractive but the thought of actually fucking, or even just kissing one disgusts me. doesn't matter how nice he is.

>>156210
Thissss, i straight up just see men (the few i do find hot) more as objects that i do not wanna actually touch or know