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No. 2327452

What's looking up, Nonnie?

Previous thread: >>>/ot/1601035

No. 2327456

I actually changed out of my pajamas and did something besides the bare minimum for my appearance. I’m just being lazy around the house today but I wanted to ring in the new year with a better mindset than what I was ending it with. I feel really happy and proud about myself.♥

No. 2327461

just got a new vape, my favorite podcast just dropped an episode, eating some takis, it’s a beautiful NYE afternoon!

No. 2327507

I love my new outfit that I got as a Christmas gift from my family, I will wear it today for NYE.

No. 2330560

I don't have intense feelings for my ex anymore. I'm freeee

No. 2331137

I just woke up to the sounds of firetrucks and sirens zooming by on the street below. I love living in the city. The loud noises are comforting and remind me where I am. I am never living outside of downtown ever againnn

No. 2332030

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I did whatever i want over my holiday break and just accepted that i would gain around 10 pounds, but even though all I did for two weeks was sleep for 16 hours a day and eat limitless amounts of holiday cookies, when i finally weighed myself at the end, I actually lost 2 pounds. I genuinely don't understand how that's possible, but I guess it's a Christmas season miracle.

No. 2332094

I went to the gym today and made a new pb. I'll probably never improve on it but feels good.

No. 2333102

>>2327452
I made a good meal and I did it in time, and it suddenly clicked. I think I know how to cook now

No. 2333158

I'm forcing myself to draw. Work is slow tonight. I have three weeks of suffering and then I'll be back in the clear. My bi-weekly paycheck is going to be over 100 hours of wages this Friday, and I'm really, really excited that I'll be able to make a huge dent in my debt and give myself some breathing room.

No. 2333181

>>2332030
sleep helps with weight loss and apetite control, also less stress does too

No. 2338423

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Some little things that always make me happy:
>Clean, fresh warm sheets that still smell like laundry detergent
>A peanut butter and jelly sandwich with a glass of milk
>A warm bubble bath when it's cold outside
>Waking up before my alarm clock and realizing I still have time to sleep
>Cat sits on my lap while I'm at the PC

No. 2338979

Finally deleted every trace of my ex from my life. Deleted all call logs. Blocked all numbers. Donated all his clothes. Removed his bank details from my banking app. Deleted every photo. Put every card in the recycling. The chapter is over and I'm committed to never reflecting back on it. It was a terrible time. My self esteem took a massive hit and I'm focused on only embracing good things in my life and being true to myself. Never again will I suppress my personality in a romantic relationship. Never again will I not stand up for myself when I am being disrespected by a man. My friend is coming over tomorrow night and it's the first time I've had a friend over since the beginning and end of that relationship which is ridiculous. I'm back baby.

No. 2339008

>>2338979
Proud of you!

No. 2341156

Hi nonnies, just wanted to share this video as it helped me. So this is for anyone feeling alone, having to deal with people who devalue you one way or another. Stay strong

No. 2341231

Thank you to whoever made the new thread, I hope you're having a good day. This year I'm getting out of victim mode and taking positivity into my own hands. People who want to be toxic and shit on my day are getting cut. I made a positive vibes playlist and it really helps to get out of a funk, highly recommend! Music is so fantastic.

No. 2341290

I cut my hair today from belly button length to shoulder length, got new glasses and I feel so cute! My ex always threw a fit whenever I cut my hair and over time it became a hassle to manage. It is now at a length where I don't have to spend hours combing it through and making it look presentable and now I can do a different hairstyle within a minute.

No. 2341379

>>2327452
Aww I love this pic

No. 2342314

i thought my sadness and anguish were gonna last forever, but talking to people i like and journaling my heart out makes me feel so much better, they weren't lying. i have these positivity spurts where i want to keep being strong and building relationships and a good future for myself like my parents want. my depression still attacks me badly kind of often but i PREVAIL and happy moments are still there. strength is real, nonnies.

No. 2342321

>>2341290
that combination of new glasses + short hair sounds adorable! i'm glad you're rocking it proudly and that it's comfortable

No. 2342337

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It’s my birthday today! I’ve turned 30.

No. 2342348

>>2342337
Happy birthday, nona!

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>>2342337
HBD!!!

No. 2342359

>>2342337
Happy birthday lady! Make this decade a good one, you're coming into your womanly wise ways and epiphanies will be hitting you left and right lol

No. 2342360

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>>2342337
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WELCOME TO THE 3O CLUB

No. 2342361

>>2342337
Happy Birthday!! 30s are great.

No. 2342393

>>2342337
Happy Birthday nonnie!

>>2342314
Your post brings me hope. Going through some tough times and journaling and talking to positive people help.

No. 2342497

>>2342360
She legit looks like me but older, I'm so excited for my future self, I'll be so cool

No. 2342530

I always hate going to the grocery store during the weekends but today was very chill, I wasn't overwhelmed, got to use up my loyalty card points so I didn't spend any money and the weather was wintery but comfortable

No. 2342533

Using red light therapy for the last month has actually made my skin so much softer and smoother looking

No. 2342553

>>2342337
Happy birthday, queen, and welcome to your 30s!

No. 2342588

>>2342497
You’re blessed, she is beautiful

No. 2343052

>>2342314
samefag but i hung out with my girl best friend whom i know since kindergarten, we don't really see each other often at all, so we had a bunch of catching up to do and we ate biscuits and drank apple juice and laughed about our mutual friends doing stupid things and danced gangnam style afterwards. life does indeed get better

No. 2343142

>>2342337
we share the same birthday nonnie! though i have just turned 23! i am so glad we can celebrate life today!

No. 2343836

I've been working tirelessly for weeks on a paper and couldn't manage to be satisfied and finish it in time so I was already more than then days past my deadline. Didn't check my mailbox for a few days and turns out the deadline was pushed to 8 months from now! I still can't believe it. I felt so guilty like I couldn't do anything else, be it hobby or workwise, and now I finally have time to journal and do yoga again, and also work on other things to keep me from going insane. I'm so grateful and relieved!

No. 2344530

>>2342393
i'm glad it brought you hope ♥ journaling, drinking tons of tea, and going out to the park on a nice sunny, windy day to read psychology books about family and how trauma or mental conditions can be inherited and how to deal with that helped me a TON. i feel much better.

No. 2347478

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It’s my birthday! I don’t have anything exciting planned but it’s already better than the last two years.

No. 2347479

>>2347478
Happy birthday nonna

No. 2347532

>>2347478
Happy birthday nonita ♥

No. 2347542

>>2347478
happy birthday nonnie! i hope your birthday today is wonderful!!

No. 2347709

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I thought of you girlies

No. 2348822

My sisters, I posted in the vent thread a few months ago about how I was diagnosed as prediabetic… I was so depressed and it felt like the world was crashing down around me. Diabetes runs in my family so it felt inevitable, but I do my best to exercise and take care of myself and yet I was still starting to enter into that territory… But today I got my test results back from a follow up blood test and I am no longer considered prediabetic!!!! My A1C is in the normal range!!

No. 2348857

>>2348822
excellent nonnie! congrats to you. It feels so fulfilling when your care for yourself pays off!

I quit drinking nonnies. I was in the alcoholic /g/ thread telling another nonnie they inspired me to continue my taper. I feel way, way better than I thought I would, and I shit you not, I went from drinking an entire pint of rum a day in December to a week of one glass bottle of light beer a day. I haven't drank in 3 days. I sleep better, I feel better, I'm less anxious every morning, the only issue is I have stinky terrible night sweats, but hopefully after pushing all the grime out of my body and eating healthy that will neutralize. Hurray for not being physically addicted to a substance that makes me fat and scared!

No. 2348885

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>>2347479
>>2347532
>>2347542
Thank you nonnies!! It was very low key and I didn’t do much of anything. Only a couple of people irl wished me happy birthday so I appreciate all of the wishes on here.

No. 2348911

I made the correct decision in buying this cute small green laptop when I had a job. It's clean, it's lush and it can get me another job. It's speedy and fast and it's always a significant time when I'm using it. I love you green computer

No. 2348954

>>2348822
Oh hell yeah anon, hope your levels stay put!

No. 2349016

I think I'm finally getting out of my covid-induced depression…It's been so long but I finally feel like I'm beginning to see the light. I haven't felt this normal in so long. I'm grooming myself properly, eating well, going to the gym, studying and the negative self talk is finally going away. I hope I don't jinx it by posting

No. 2349026

My asshole ex finally paid me some of the money he owed me, so I bought the bike I've been wanting and am now going to buy some accessories. I love biking, I can't wait to explore the city on my bike.

No. 2350928

>on top of finances
>eating well
>regularly working out
>buying a house
I'm gonna make 2025 the best year I can!

No. 2351062

weighed myself this morning before getting ready expecting me to be the same weight or have gained a bit (unfortunately an ongoing pattern the past 3 months) but I actually lost some weight! I know it's probably water weight but seeing it actually go down was very motivating.

No. 2351416

I finished the last seams on my blanket just in time for the polar vortex. Can't wait until it's out of the dryer and I can test it outside on the upcoming cold nights.

No. 2351447

>>2350928
keep it up anon

No. 2351673

MANIFESTING YOUR FUTURE IS REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!! SAY WHAT YOU WANT OUT LOUD!!!!! YOU WILL BRING IT TO REALITY!!

No. 2351678

>>2351673
I'm so having drunk sex with the guy I fancy woo

No. 2351691

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>>2351673
I will 100% graduate and get a good job plus be happy about the state of my life in the near future.

No. 2351699

>>2351673
My back will stop hurting and i will learn how to draw

No. 2352436

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Last night I had an epiphany about how much I actually love being a woman. Back when I was in high school, I had a brief phase where me and my best friend TIF'd out. I had my friends start calling me by a "male" version of my name and using he/him pronouns on me. It came to a point I didn't like my breasts and wanted them gone. At one point my friend got two binders to use from a they/them she made friends with and ge me the extra one to use. I tried it once and quit because the binder was too small and I couldn't breathe in it. I'm so glad I never continued. I love my breasts now so I couldn't imagine not having them. I am not friends with the TIF I mentioned anymore but last time we talked, she is still very much a TIF and doesn't seem like she'll ever snap out of it. That's unfortunate, because I wish I could have shared the following with her.

Women age better than men - Even the most unattractive-considered middle-aged women tends to look better than a walled moid of the same age that has a receding hairline and fat gut. Our softer and gentler features are simply much harder to get rid of. Thigh highs were made for us because we can have nice legs. They look atrocious on TIMs because they have fridge bodies.

Women govern better than men. See the Mosuo in China, Queen Elizabeth of Russia, current Mexican president…It turns out you can be a more sensible leader when you are not a rape ape.

Women sound and move better. I'm tomboyish, but even I can have grace because we still have feminity built into us. The same delicate movements can't be replicate as well by moids without them looking retarded, gay, or creepy. We can sound sensual and husky without having to sound like Elmo.

Women feel better. It is known that sex feel better for women than it does for men. Maybe that's because we actually spend time savoring the experience instead of going "URGH!", splooging everywhere and then calling it done. We are more selective because our bodies are a temple.

I could go on but now it's clear why TIMs want to be us so badly. Except I guess for the days I have to deal with period cramps and the thought of going through childbirth, I'm glad I was born a woman and that my retarded brain back in high school didn't actually go through with mutilating an important part of my body. I treasure my boobs too much to get rid of them. Plus, real boobs feel better than a TIM's bolt-ons ever will. I hope what I wrote will help any of you ladies going through the same and thank you if you read this.

No. 2355666

I had a great birthday weekend even if most of my friends forgot. I went snowshoeing with my boyfriend, then we went out to a nice little Italian restaurant for dinner. We got home and I used a gift card I had to buy a bracelet online, and I bought the Full House boxset on tv so I can watch it whenever now.
We also went to the mall the next day and I bought a couple new bathing suits for our vacation next month which I am so happy about! I feel like I never actually like bathing suits when I buy them and I just get them because I need one and it will do, but I actually really like these ones and didn't feel like total shit trying them on. It feels good and exciting!



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