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First dick I ever encountered IRL was 8 inches and I never put it in me because it barely fit in my mouth lol. Smallest I've actually fucked would have been a little over 5", largest around 7.5". I had no issues with either of those sizes but neither of the guys using them knew what they were doing. My current boyfriend is dead on 6" and uses it very well.
In that sense, I don't think size matters nearly as much as people seem to believe it does until you get in monster (+8") or micro (-4") territory.
100% this. Cut dick = rough and dry on your vag and harder to make cum (a really bad thing for bjs). Literally the only benefit is that the excessive friction makes them easier to ride, but that doesn't make it feel good. Uncut is a smooth and well hydrated experience.
Americans are straight up brainwashed and crazy about circumcision.
Italians have massive dicks because they are Mediterranean.
I would never ever fuck a French dude again 10/10 avoid at all costs
>>95261>>95263>tales about 8 inches asian dicks
LOL go back to r/AsianMasculinity/
You aren't fooling anybody.
NTA but I fucked an asian gymrat before with a sizable dong
Why are you so paranoid about anyone liking asian men must be a larper from reddit? Go back to your mgtow blog
why has this anon been banned?
Anyways I only said they were big liars because I actually live in France and I only got mediocre tiny dicks, feels bad man.
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god, i feel so sorry for asian men. i bet the indians and chinese brought down australia's average too.
It hits parts of you that you didn't even know you could feel, especially in certain positions where they can get deep. Fiance is about ~6.5-7" and fairly thick. First time we did that position where you're on your back and he basically folds you in half with your legs on his shoulders, I had a loud, involuntary gasp and grabbed my stomach. I believe that means he hit my cervix, which some girls say is painful, but I thought it was amazing. Never had another guy do that.>>95337
I wouldn't blame yourself. Your vagina probably isn't a black hole. You guys can try different positions and techniques to try to make it better, but sometimes it be like that. Sometimes it's a really great guy but his dick game just isn't on the level you need.
How is this guy not banned but the anon fucking a french dude was. He admitted that he is a guy "us men">>95337
How big is he? If he is actually tiny either ditch him or if you like him get creative with sex. You can do a lot more then just stick benis in bagina .If you have any kinks or stuff like that.
For some reason I always thought that arab guys had small dicks
Anyway I'm a virgin so I can't say for sure but lengthwise I think probably 5.5-6 and girth idk but my vibrator is 4.5" around and it seems like pretty much the right size
As a german virgin that pic makes me scared… Why would everybody but the guys from here have the same shape, just different sizes?
I also always thought Arab guys have smaller dicks since most of them are very short.
I've slept with a couple of German guys and none of them had a dick shaped like that (I have seen this type of dick on a Dutch guy once though).
Tbh I believe that the shapes displayed in the chart were chosen randomly. I doubt there is reliable data on what dick shapes are most common in those countries.
feels weird because boyfriend is french, has an average dick and I'm the loon in the relationship. hes definitely good at sex though. tbh I think hes a diamond in terms of french men? hes super fucking serious and not at all overly emotional like some latin men I've seen. hes also not in the same age group as me, and I've noticed young guys in general are dramatic and extra.>>95288
i think a lot of australians get circumcised, i had 2 and they were both cut
biggest dick I ever had was on a 6'4 guy, hit my cervix and made me bleed every time we fugged but I'm a masochistic slime so it was fine for me. smallest was this little shit from tennessee, I swear it was like 3 inches max. he was my first time so it was actually really comfortable. weirdest penis was a pencil dick, had to be at least 6 inches but it was so strange to hold and put in my mouth, at least it went in easy. any one else deal with weird penises before?
This is me exactly.
Also, I'm not picky about height, except for preferring between 5'7"-6'0" (I'm very short), and a 5" looks bigger on a short guy than a tall one, which plays into how appealing it looks aesthetically.
I'm opposite too. Once i had sex with a big dick and it was fucking hell so i am scared for life.
It wasn't even that thick but he was a complete idiot in the sack.
It pisses me off just to remember because the man was a pain in the ass, opinionated af and very self absorbed. I only had sex with him because he had such a good rep among women cause of hic big dick and i thought that i would finally have a good experience but no.
Bick dicks are worth shit when the guy is retarded. And also women need to sopt putting idiots on a pedestal just cause of their size jfc.
>>96466>>96476>inexperienced>~smol~>virgin>don't know men irl
Being inexperienced is perfectly fine but imho it's kinda pointless to talk about what dick size feels good to you then. You can't know. Even if you used toys of different sizes on yourself, you still can't know. Also, quality and quantity are different dimensions, not opposites.>>96470
Wtf that dude had some kind of harem praising him for his large cock? Lol. That's like an irl Chad meme
Hi all it's >>95337
. We fucked again and it was much, much better. He was actually half soft last time due to performance anxiety lol, and I was very relaxed and a bit tmi but I produce a lot of wetness. So all those things made me believe he was a dicklet, but actually he's pretty average.
Summary:>maybe the shortest I've had>not the thinnest tho>def most aesthetic>nice, fat head>surprisingly not at all that hairy>neutral taste and fits very nicely in my mouth
Actually, he is Egyptian and it is pretty close to the OP pic. 8/10 dick, thanks for the moral support ladies.
Arabs can have admixture from Africans, esp north African arabs (obviously).
In terms of aesthetics:
I wouldn't have thought Swedes had smaller dicks like that. And WTF is Greece and Germany? Regardless of nationality, just cull any dude with a weird ass shaped dick like those.
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dicklets are pathetic
The art is killing me, the accuracy as well. My favourite is>girth is more important
because NO SHIT, what do they think women mean when they say a dick is big? An 8 inch pencil? Big refers to both length and girth, it's just far easier to measure/compare length so people use it as reference point.
So I finally had sex with him and he did have a beautiful dick (biggest I've ever been with) and I enjoyed myself so much it was ridiculous, I always had a difficult time getting wet but when we got into pronebone I became extremely wet in only a few minutes, I would moan and gasp every single he trusted inside me because he hit an extremely sweet spot.
I didn't came from PIV but it was okay since he fingered me until I came before he penetrated me. Told him I thought he had the perfect dick for me and he seemed very happy and flattered.
Bottom line don't fall for the size doesn't matter meme.
Why is there ALWAYS another penis size thread? it's not like we don't know the answer already…>>96900
this needs to be posted every time
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Used to date an American. He had a small dick and came within 15 seconds of penetration and always wanted to sleep for an hour afterwards. He wanted me to cup his balls all the time and do a million sex positions that always involved me sucking or stroking him.
My current boyfriend is Puerto Rican. We can last pretty long and go at it 2 or 3 times within a few hours if we're horny enough. It's rare though. Sometimes we have to change positions because he'll hit a wall and it starts to hurt. Most of our positions are vanilla and we don't have to do much extra stuff besides a bit of foreplay before insertion.
Overall, big dicks require less effort. 10/10 experience.
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So I feel kinda stupid for asking this but I need to know.
I'm from a European country where no one is circumcised. I've only seen cut dicks in porn, but never actually.. touched one, let alone fucked one.
My boyfriend is American and he is circumcised. We're seeing each other a month from now. I'm a bit intimidated honestly. Is there a difference between handling a cut vs uncut dick? I don't even know.
Different vaginas can tilt different ways and vary in length, so no one penis can "hit the spot" with every canal.
That guy sounds like a high-schooler, maybe all his partners are those kinds of girls that feel the need to fake it being good so that he'll stop
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Please consider donating to Foregen.org, they are working on a foreskin regeneration procedure to heal cirumcised men, but need more money to fund their research and everything. You can donate one time, or ideally, do x amount per month so they can plan ahead.
I have a cut, somewhat thin, 5.5" dick and I fully understand that it is worthless for sex and that no woman would ever want to stay in a relationship with me. I have been nothing but extremely miserable (and extremely sexually frustrated) my entire life. All I have ever wanted is to have a decent, uncut, average-sized dick and have a loving relationship with a sweet girl. I never will. Foregen is my only hope of someday potentially having a real penis that can feel some real pleasure, and maybe having a relationship with a short, virgin girl that wouldn't hate me for my size. Until their procedure becomes available (assuming all goes well), I'm just going to be alone, there's no point in attempting a relationship when it's going to be ruined as soon as the girl wants to have sex, something that it would quickly become clear that I cannot provide. It really sucks because there have been plenty of girls that have liked me over the years- I'm not bad looking or socially inept or anything- but I always ignore them because I know that I'm worthless as a mate because of my penis. It's the only thing wrong with me, I hate it so much. You cannot comprehend how terrible it is to live this life. Please, spread the word about infant circumcision being an atrocity and cut dicks being ruined, consider supporting Foregen, but don't dehumanize us guys that were subjected to this torture against our will as babies. It's not my fault, never for one fraction of a second did I ever think that genital mutilation was a good idea, and I've been a miserable wreck ever since I learned about it.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
Hate to break it to you but depending on where you're from, you ARE average. Stop blaming your inability to find a gf or fuckbuddy on your dick or you will never make it anywhere.
Generally we don't like men coming in here waving their dicks around, this is /g/. You seem to be very self-loathing and need to take a break from the internet.
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>>101117>I always ignore them because I know that I'm worthless as a mate because of my penis
The only thing keeping you from being in a relationship is YOU, you self-sabotaging sperg. Maybe unless you live in a place where circumcision isn't common, how the hell is that going to stop you from finding someone to be in a relationship with? Jesus, I can understand being upset about being mutilated without your permission but there are still millions of circumcised men who have partners and enjoy sex. It's almost like you want
to have a miserable life.
Men always have the most defeatist attitude when it comes to their insecurities I swear to god. They have one seemingly undesirable trait and throw in the towel for the rest of their lives. This is why most incels exist.
I didn't want to post here again, but I need to clear a few things up that I should have foreseen and clarified in advance.>>101128>Hate to break it to you but depending on where you're from, you ARE average.
Average isn't good enough, read this thread. Virtually all women prefer above-average penises, and it's unanimous among non-brainwashed people that cut dicks are completely worthless. If my penis were the same exact size, but intact, I wouldn't have that much of a serious problem; sure, women might be unsatisfied and dump me because I'm too small, but at least I would get pleasure out of it. Since I'm cut, there's no point in attempting a relationship or sex at all.>Stop blaming your inability to find a gf or fuckbuddy on your dick or you will never make it anywhere.>>101157>The only thing keeping you from being in a relationship is YOU, you self-sabotaging sperg. Maybe unless you live in a place where circumcision isn't common, how the hell is that going to stop you from finding someone to be in a relationship with?
I already explained that there have been plenty of girls that wanted to be in a relationship with me. I ignored them because there is no point because my penis is not good enough. One in particular, a cute, shy, redhead girl, would sit in front of me in class every day and brush her hair, hoping I would notice her. I completely ignored her and probably destroyed her self confidence for years. If I had instead asked her out on a date, we would have a happy relationship for a few months. Then, she would want to lose her virginity, and the relationship would be ruined because she is expecting sexual pleasure that I cannot provide because I lack the requisite anatomy. My penis is the only thing wrong with me- yes, I might not be some 6'2 Chad with a jaw that can cut glass, but you don't need to be; I'm otherwise good enough. You do need a decent-sized, intact penis, however, and I don't have that.
Yes, I can chat with a girl, flirt with her, we like eachother, I take her out on dates, we hug and kiss, everything is fine and dandy. But eventually, she will want to have sex, and I cannot provide sex. It would be uncomfortable and devoid of pleasure, and once we try it, she would lose all attraction to me as a result. It would be a complete waste of both of our time, and I'd only feel worse afterwards.>I can understand being upset about being mutilated without your permission but there are still millions of circumcised men who have partners and enjoy sex.
Their relationships are terrible because the sex is terrible. They only 'enjoy' sex because they don't realize how pathetic and terrible it is compared to real sex with an intact penis. They've never known anything else. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high? Why do you think so many women cheat? Because the average man has a small penis, and in the USA, a huge percentage are cut.>Men always have the most defeatist attitude when it comes to their insecurities I swear to god. They have one seemingly undesirable trait and throw in the towel for the rest of their lives. This is why most incels exist.
If you have a small, cut dick like mine, nothing else matters. There is nothing that can make up for it. Sex is by far the most important part of a relationship, at least for a woman. If a man has a large, intact penis and can provide a woman with intense sexual pleasure, she will never leave him, even if he abuses her. However, if a man has a small and/or cut penis, there isn't a woman in the world that would want to be with him. Even if she is genuinely in love with him, she will still cheat with 7" intact penises off Tinder because her sexual appetite will always come before sentimental romantic attraction. Penis size and the presence of a foreskin are the primary determinants of the value of a man to women; I don't have a nice dick, and therefore there is no reason why any woman would want to remain in a relationship with me once it reaches the point where she expects sexual fulfillment.
>>101171>I already explained that there have been plenty of girls that wanted to be in a relationship with me. I ignored them because there is no point because my penis is not good enough.
That's exactly the point, retard. You've had many opportunities to pursue a succesfull relationship but cock-blocked your own damn self because of an irrational insecurity. Some people's preferences don't equate to what everyone is willing to take in relationships. You have a victim mentality like all men of your type and that's clear as day.>Why do you think so many women cheat?
Men cheat more than women and that is statistically verified.>If a man has a large, intact penis and can provide a woman with intense sexual pleasure, she will never leave him, even if he abuses her. However, if a man has a small and/or cut penis, there isn't a woman in the world that would want to be with him. Even if she is genuinely in love with him, she will still cheat with 7" intact penises off Tinder because her sexual appetite will always come before sentimental romantic attraction
Damn, I almost sorry for you but you're absolutely pathetic. Now fuck off you miserable cunt. Not even going to bother responding to anything else because 95% of the novel you wrote is just more wah wah wah self-pitying bullshit.
Give up on him anon, he's a typical man that won't listen to a woman even though he came to /g/
It makes my skin crawl that people can be this pathetic when there's no reason for it
I don't know why you are on this site but >One in particular, a cute, shy, redhead girl, would sit in front of me in class every day and brush her hair, hoping I would notice her. I completely ignored her and probably destroyed her self confidence for years
Uuuuhhhhhhh sorry to tell you, brushing hair is not a mating call for women.
>>101171>a large, intact penis and can provide a woman with intense sexual pleasure
Virgin who got his sex-ed from porn. There are no pleasure points in the birth canal. There are only pleasurable areas outside. You don't need a penis at all
to pleasure a woman. Ever heard of lesbians?
Plenty of women are dick-shy or have low libidos. You're psyching yourself out of a relationship or even sex because>muh dick
Most of women's sexual attraction is based upon personality, trust, affection, and attention paid to her. A dick, or a big one, is less important than you think.
Unless I'm misreading and it's 5.5 cm
I legit laughed at that>bitches want me bcuz they brush their hair around me>but I don't want them bcuz I know they won't like mah weewee>therefore I destroyed her confidence with my own lack of self-confidence
Like wat, that's so pathetically amusing.
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>>101173>You've had many opportunities to pursue a succesfull relationship but cock-blocked your own damn self because of an irrational insecurity.
It would be definition not be a "successful relationship". It would only be successful until the girl expects sexual fulfillment- at which point it would be ruined, because I cannot provide that, because I lack the requisite anatomy. It is am empirical, scientific fact that a mutilated penis (especially one of my somewhat below statistical average dimensions) cannot provide a significant amount of sexual pleasure to either partner. This entire thread is women unanimously agreeing upon this objective fact.
Yes, there have been plenty of girls that liked me, and that I could enter a relationship with. However, they wouldn't like me if they knew what I had for a penis. A girl "liking a guy" is essentially her "considering him as a potential candidate for a mate, provided his phallic organ is up to snuff". I do not fulfill that criteria.>Some people's preferences don't equate to what everyone is willing to take in relationships.
What woman would remain faithful to a man that can only provide her with mediocre intercourse? The only ones that I can think of are women with vaginismus, because they're not particularly interested in intercourse. And even then, because I'm cut, it would be even more painful for her. Women with vaginismus would be best matched with a small, intact penis to maximize the chances of enjoyable intercourse. No woman wants or needs a cut penis, other than a Jewess, or maybe a Muslima, or some maybe brainwashed American thot that would want a large cut penis, none of which I would want to be with.>You have a victim mentality
Because I am a victim of infant genital mutilation.>Men cheat more than women and that is statistically verified.
Only the Chads that have the sexual capital to do so. Virtually all women have the requisite sexual capital to do the same.>>101180
That was only one example of her behavior, she clearly liked me.>>101182>Virgin who got his sex-ed from porn. There are no pleasure points in the birth canal.
False. There is the g-spot- within reach of an average sized penis, but better stimulated by the girth of a large penis. And there are the fornices that only a long penis can reach. For some women, the risk of bumping their cervix discourages them from wanting their fornices stimulated, but for others, the fornices (particularly the anterior fornix) are their favorite erogeneous zone that gives them the best orgams.
Your "dicklet internet defence force" (DIDF)-type argument is proven patently false by this entire thread. Virtually all women prefer an intact, above average penis, although the exact preferred dimensions vary both by the woman and depending on how aroused she is, among other factors.>Plenty of women are dick-shy or have low libidos.
Where do I find them? They're definitely a minority.>Most of women's sexual attraction is based upon personality, trust, affection, and attention paid to her. A dick, or a big one, is less important than you think.
I am genuinely incapable of comprehending this, I am not a woman. This is the way I see it:>women want to be in a relationship with a man that can fulfill her sexually>women require an adequate penis to be sexually fulfilled>I do not have an adequate penis>therefore, I cannot sexually fulfill a woman>therefore, no woman would want to be in a relationship with me, once she realizes the fact
There may be women that are attracted to 'me', regardless of my penis, but they will not be sexually satisfied, and that's what matters. Ultimately, sex is what holds a relationship together. It doesn't matter how much she 'loves' him if he doesn't give her the cummies she feels entitled to. There are plenty of other men out there that can provide them. I simply lack the sexual capital that would justify a woman choosing me over other men that have intact and/or larger penises.>Unless I'm misreading and it's 5.5 cm
5.5 inches, or 14cm. Slightly below the American average of 5.6 inches, and significantly below women's preferred size.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
This manon is either autistic as fuck or just very dedicated to fucking with us.
Probably both lmao.
you fucking moron,>I am genuinely incapable of comprehending this, I am not a woman. This is the way I see it:…
you are correct about one thing, that being no woman WOULD want to be with you, but it's not because of your dick, it's the thing attached to it. I'm telling you right now, your "incapability" of understanding that there is more to human relationships beyond peepee in vagene has nothing to do with you being a man. "Autism" gets tossed around as a general insult, and I'm not a mental health professional so I'm not going to diagnose you, but you need to talk to one. If you have any sincere desire to improve your life and stop wallowing in self pity then you need therapy. You are stuck in a self defeating mental loop and you need a change in external stimulus over a long period of time to get out of it. Now fuck off, and good luck.
I just wish there was a way to increase dick size, if there was every guy would do it and not for their 'ego' either trust me.
The only reason guys ever care about penis size is because almost all women have the same preference of above average and thick.
At least 90% and they're always so disappointed when it's not. If the worldwide average is 5.1 like most studies show, that means a lot of them vary from 4-6. However according to this thread only the larger tail end can actual be felt or enjoyable. Sucks don't it?
I have no hate, only disappointment within myself and my limitations in 'dick game' that basically concludes as being not as good as others or un-preferred in an aspect that i'd probably trade a testicle for in order to have some control over.
So to conclude: Sorry we're not big enough. Sorry I can't please you in that way as much as your ex could when he gave you that "sweet full feeling", and sorry for guys constantly being insecure about it too, but these things will always go hand-in-hand.
I hope you all find the perfect above average dick with a good thickness and I hope you don't have to settle for anything smaller because you'll only be unsatisfied and eventually detest your man for it. Also think about him if you can, don't get his hopes up only to find your Internet history about how "he's not the best I've ever had and I sometimes wish he were bigger but he has good health insurance" Please.
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Jesus Christ you are autistic. Get the fuck off of lolcow and go to therapy.
Already done and noted homie.>>101223
Yeah but the guys that do are fucking assholes who have no right. Whenever they complain it's always something pedantic, they should just leave. >>101225
Why? Therapy isn't this magical thing that makes everything go away. If you have a permanent scar, you either do magic to fix it or live life with a scar. Therapy doesn't do anything for these types of issues and if it did it would only do a complete reverse when the shit you already knew comes back inevitably. Because therapy can change you but not the world. I won't reply anymore. Sorry for being autistic but I have no hatred I just wanted to make it clear why men are so obsessed with penis size (hint: the whole thread).(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
Girls weigh other things as more important in a relationship.
Get that through your head.
GIRLS WEIGH OTHER THINGS AS MORE IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU'LL NEVER BE PERFECT TO ANYONE AND SHE PROBABLY WON'T BE FOR YOU, BUT SHE'LL LOVE YOU WHICH IS WHAT MATTERS.
And take a peek in the vagina thread, many (if not most) women can't have vaginal orgasms so oral is preferred. And no, you don't know a woman's body better than she does before you pull that bullshit.
I personally don't give a fuck if my bf has a fucking vagina as long as he's cute and sweet.
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I am the anon that made these three posts, and no more:>>101117>>101171>>101191
I have carefully read all of your responses multiple times. Do not think that I am 'not listening' to you. So far, the most interesting ones are:>>101173>Some people's preferences don't equate to what everyone is willing to take in relationships.>>101182>Plenty of women are dick-shy or have low libidos.>Most of women's sexual attraction is based upon personality, trust, affection, and attention paid to her. A dick, or a big one, is less important than you think. >>101230>GIRLS WEIGH OTHER THINGS AS MORE IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU'LL NEVER BE PERFECT TO ANYONE AND SHE PROBABLY WON'T BE FOR YOU, BUT SHE'LL LOVE YOU WHICH IS WHAT MATTERS.
My mental state has not changed (and is basically summmed up by what this guy >>101229
said); I have heard all this probably hundreds of times over the years that I've been complaining about my penis over the internet to strangers. Omegle is one site where I used to do this a lot. Anyway, I understand that you ladies don't want men posting here, so I'll stop. I do not have autism and I am not going to see a therapist; anything that is fucked up with my brain is either due to what happened to me as a baby, or due to a decade of pornography consumption (which I deeply despise have tried to stop numerous times, but ultimately cannot because it is my only means of sexual release). If anybody wishes to message me and maybe help me work my way through this issue, you can reach me via firstname.lastname@example.org. I would really appreciate it because this is a very long-term issue that has a severe effect on my well-being, and I'm clearly incapable of resolving it by myself.
I will leave you all with one last question. How would YOU feel, femanon, if a guy that you liked and that you were dating turned out to have a 5.5", cut dick? What would that change about how you perceive him? When you have sex, wouldn't your mind be filled with thoughts like, "ugh, this sucks, his dick is so pathetic, why can't he just have a nice one? then this would feel amazing and he would be perfect." How can a relationship survive when the woman is never satisfied with the intercourse, how could she still respect him? Those responses that I quoted above generally say something to the effect that women are willing to forgive a man for having an inadequate penis because they care about him as a person, and that how they feel about 'him' justifies wanting to be with him even though they don't like his dick and aren't getting the sexual fulfillment that they crave that can only be provided by a nice dick. If this is true (for some women, anyway), then I would like to read some femanon put her money where her mouth is and explain to me the female perspective of how this kind of relationship would actually work.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
Answering your question, I'm >>101230
Glad you ignored my original post in your blanket statement of all posts itt wanting monster dicks.
I'm sure some women are "size queens" but most are fine as you don't neglect getting her to to orgasm during sex.
I also reckon the meaner posts itt are a sort of response to the strict guidelines men often expect us to adhere to (.6 whr, huge tits, perfect face, etc.).
It does just seem that you have a weird neurosis about your penis, it's very strange but relatable. Happ3ns to tge best of us. I hope you can overcome it.
>>101234>I have heard all this probably hundreds of times over the years that I've been complaining about my penis over the internet to strangers
You continue to need therapy, even if you say you don't. You're literally asking us to email you and be your free therapist.
Please: Therapy, then work on making friends, then natural relationship may blossom which didn't start with you talking about your dick on the internet.
It's even more disgusting with them actually trying to answer him honestly even though he's not changing his mind
I think I prefer them taking the bait and being angry instead of actually trying to be sincere in responding
I (>>101234) am back. I know I said that I wouldn't come back, but I've been doing a lot of thinking and I'd like to share some of my progress with you. My intention is not to cause discontent; if you are bothered by my posts, you don't need to read them or reply to them.
I have placed the various ideas behind the sentiment that a man with a lame penis is not completely doomed to be alone forever into several categories:
Diminished Significance of Phallic Dimensions Theory (mostly bullshit, imho)
"When high sexual expectations remain, but the blame for dissatisfaction is targeted at the man, rather than his penis."
>cervix contact is too painful for many girls- thus, excessive length is often undesireable
>women generally overestimate penis size, both in person and in their expectations and preferences
>"average" sizes can still reach the g-spot and the most sensitive portion of the vagina
>women of smaller stature likely have smaller preferences
>cunnillingus is allegedly superior to penetration for many women
Phallic Prerequisite Negation
"For some women, the need for sexual fulfillment is either forgone, or expected from non-phallic means, such as oral."
>penetration less desired due to "dick-shyness" or vaginismus
>low sex drive, or generally 'not too fussed about sex'
>struggle to orgasm from vaginal anyway, prefer oral for own pleasure
>may put her partner's pleasure above her own, finding her own pleasure in his
Phallic Prerequisite Forgiveness
"There is more to human relationships beyond peepee in vagene."
>some women are willing to reduce their sexual expectations due a man's other redeemable factors (see below)
I have included some dictionary definitions for terms that have been used:
the type of person you are, shown by the way you behave, feel, and think
to believe that someone is good and honest and will not harm you, or that something is safe and reliable
a feeling of liking for a person or place
notice, thought, or interest
to like another adult very much and be romantically and sexually attracted to them
And have paraphrased and consolidated them, plus some femanons' posts, into a summary of the idea that I am supposed to understand:
>Some girls weigh things other than the penis as more important in a relationship because they believe that 'there is more to human relationships beyond peepee in vagene'. Such a girl may like a man very much and be romantically and sexually attracted to him because she believes that he is good, honest, safe, reliable, and will not harm her; she enjoys that they have a mutual feeling of liking for each other, granting each other notice, thought, and interest; and she likes the type of person that he is, shown by the way that he behaves, feels, and thinks.
Ultimately, I am not remotely confident in my ability to satisfy a woman with my penis. I could not have a successful relationship with a woman that expects her man to have a nice dick and provide her with impressive, satisfying intercourse involving vaginal orgasms. However, it is theoretically possible that not all women are like this and that I could find a girl that would want to be with me because she likes me for non-sexual reasons; her sexual expectations would need to be modest, or at least she would need to have a strong preference for cunnillingus.
I would like to thank those of you that offered sincere and helpful responses. I am still extremely unhappy with my penis, and my self-esteem and confidence are still extremely low. The length is not atrocious, but the girth and having been mutilated render it entirely dissatisfactory; it may be very close to the statistical average, but whatever it is, it's garbage, quite frankly. The chance that I would be compatible with a given woman is still, I believe, very low. However, there is a slight glimmer of hope that perhaps there are some women out there that I could be compatible with, that would not disqualify and dehumanize me because of what hangs between my legs. I've always had a sense of this, but having discussed this matter with some of you, it seems a bit more real.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
Not only are the pictures complete nonsense, but the numbers are as well- the studies are self-reported. What could be a less reliable source of data than a self-reported penis size survey? The studies that have been conducted involving actually measuring the subjects' penises:>a) generally have a significantly smaller average size than self-reported >b) show little to no correlation between factors like race, height, hand size, shoe size, etc.>>101941>penises and how its the end all be all to any relationship
It is. Whether the penis is nice or not determines whether the sex is good or bad, and whether the sex is good or bad determines whether the relationship even has a potential to succeed. You cannot have a relationship with bad sex, and you cannot have good sex with an inadequate penis (either cut, thin, or under 6" without being disproportionately thick).>You think personality doesn't matter in a relationship
That's not exactly what I mean; what I'm saying is that the penis is more important. It doesn't matter what personality a man has, or what he looks like, or how much money he has, or whatever if he has a small penis. No woman would ever want to be with him because he can't provide sex, and sex is the most important part of a relationship. The only possible exception is some mentally ill imageboard girl that fetishizes "small, weak men" with tiny penises, or a woman with vaginismus. In other words, <1% of the female population.>>101946
She was probably thinking of South Korea.>>101959>Their obsession with genitalia does not represent the majority. Projecting his opinion onto strange women (who most certainly don't hold that opinion)
Let's say a guy that you liked happened to have a small penis. Would you still want him to ask you out? Would you still want to date him or even marry him? Remaining faithful to him? Note that this means you would never be able to enjoy a good dick again. The rest of your life would be spent cuddled up next to your small dick husband, because you "love" him. Personally, I doubt that any woman would want that. There's no trait(s) or 'personality' that any individual man can have that would make him better than another man with a better dick. Good sex with a good dick from a woman's perspective (and thus the pinnacle of sexuality) is too good to justify sacrificing it for sentimental, emotional attachment to a person.
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She probably loves him.
Are you dick-sperg-manon? pls go.
Dated a Japanese guy, his dick was pretty small maybe like 4.5 inches max and not thick. Not the smallest I’ve seen though (I had an ex with a smaller dick and he was white).
My old fuck buddy was Chinese and his was pretty average/normal to me around 5 inches maybe and average thickness.
The thinnest dick I’ve ever seen was from a Spanish guy, straight up pencil dick and like 5 inches. I legit just touched his dick and de escalated the situation and left because it was such a turn off.
Well they're averages. Of course you can have bigger ones and smaller ones.
I once slept with a Korean guy who had the tiniest dick anyone has ever seen, which was really awkward. Partner now is Japanese, never measured but it's rather thick and feels good which is all that matters.
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but you can never average out countries with extremely diverse and large populations
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I‘ve given a blowjob to a guy with a really thick but weirdly flat dick. A bit like the head of a snake, just less pointy.
Like, I could literally not put it in my mouth sideways, I just couldn’t open my mouth wide enough. Kneeling in front of him worked perfectly fine though.
It was so awkward and made me appreciate perfectly round dicks.
Haha Benis :DDD
In all seriousness, 7 inches looks huge on this scale holy shit.
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>>116124>tfw manlet chaser
Is it not just proportions though? I imagine 6" would look bigger on a 5'2" man than on a 6'2" man.Too big is frightening anyway, don't scare me off tiny boys anon!
Are there a lot of manlet chasers here?? I swear this is the only place I go where I see women actually going for really short guys, it's kind of cute/cool tbh
Also do you guys think that really skinny guy's dick might look proportionally bigger for the same reason a manlet's would? Just occurred to me
Oh shit. Are small heads really that ugly? The current guy I like told me his is 3” thick at the head but the majority of his dick is 6” thick. Should I smash or no? >>116154
I typically don’t like manlets and used to chase after giant men (6’3”+ tall) because I was all about that cutesy ~height difference~ but then I saw the cutest little manlet in my class that changed my perspective. He was my height (5’6”) and had the prettiest boy face ever and curly long thick hair… I find shorter guys don’t bald as quick as taller men.
He was very feminine looking but was obvi a guy and not trans. Never knew how big his dick was but apparently the longer the ring finger compared to index finger the bigger the dick… and his was rather long lol.
ayrt and I'll be honest, I post about it a lot across various threads which may inflate the numbers. I'm a lonely lady.
That said I have seen a good number of other posters who dig them and it's quite nice. A lot of femdomfags here tend towards liking smaller men.
Different Anon than >>116160
, but I’m also a manlet-chaser. I don’t know if it’s me being 5’10” or being an edgy domina, but wew, I like ‘em twee.
Not perfectly related to the topic but I find uncut dicks to be really cute/sexy, especially when the head peeks out just a little bit.
I love the idea of a cute, subby, uncut boy.>>116154
I wouldn't necessarily describe myself as a "manelt chaser", but I like men that are my height (5'6") or a few inches taller. My current boyfriend is 5'8". I don't like enormous men bc they're hard to kiss.
who the fuck measures their genitals so autistically? not that the usual "i'm 5.75 inches" is much better but imagine this dude just sitting there with a tape measure kek. imagine if it was commonplace for women to say "yeah,my vagina has a 25cm^3 capacity and my clit has like a 7mm projection but it is a grower, i swear!!"
actually nvm, troons do just that
I had a similar problem, anon. My bf is not as large as yours but I couldn't have sex with him for the same reason. What I did was start with very small things and progress up to a dildo close in size to my bf. I started using tampons once I was able to fit them, I was honestly that tight. If your hymen is thick and covering up a lot of the opening, there is simple surgery to remove it, but beware because my insurance called it "cosmetic" and would not cover it (wtf?) I'm able to have sex comfortably now so the non-surgical method worked for me.
Take some time in a low-pressure to try penetrating with your own fingers. If your bf makes you feel calm, he can do it, but it's possible that unknowingly he's making you feel under pressure to "perform" or loosen up faster, even if he isn't treating you that way.
usually larger loads/more testosterone the bigger they get
maybe they'll slap up against you
sometimes more fun to play with
won't affect the dick for the most part
I've seen 7-8 inch dudes with tiny balls
pseudoscience says that tiny balls make a dude a better father, but that's not a given
the only thing I’ve noticed is bigger balls do have that slapping effect in certain positions and it can be enjoyable.
load size varies a ton, doesn’t seem to correlate with ball size.
I think small balls look funny bc when they get cold and scrunch up, they practically don’t exist. But really big balls are kinda gross, it’s less the testicals being big and more the sack being oversized. “Average” is best imo
hen's egg is large.
ping pong ball is small.
Yeah, what >>119562
My bf loves getting his balls touched when I blow him or give him a handjob. That alone won’t make him cum and if I did he would lose his erection at some point. But it sure as hell is stumulating and feels good (to him).
You just shouldn’t treat them like a stress ball or yank them really hard. Because that sure will hurt. I mean, unless the guy is into that kind of stuff.
If his balls are sensitive enough that touching alone will hurt, he definitely should get them checked because that sure as hell ain’t normal.
you can just look up averages if you want>>119525
when people say stuff like this, I can't tell if they are talking about the entire thing or just each separate one
Well, if he only ever touched my labia and literally nothing else I at some point would lose arousal too. And I never watch porn. Teasing is nice and all but at some point there would have to be some kind of actual stimulation like penetration oder touching my clit.
But maybe we‘re just both not the kind of person for that kind of teasing.
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Some studies say that dick size is very similar across all races, but when you look at porn you see black and white men with ridiculously big dicks, but the biggest asians barely reach 8 inches.
So why don't asian men have those huge dicks too? I'm talking about sizes like pic related.
It's definitely possible, it's probably just that there are more people with bigger dicks in parts of the world where people are just bigger
A lot of asian people are shorter on average, but every now and then there are super tall asian people in the news. I'm sure the same goes for dicks
Not only that, but a lot of American Porn focuses on how big dicks are because American porn is made for American men and American men think that a huge dick is the only way to please a woman
Correct me if I'm wrong, but basically anyone in japan can become a porn star because so few people actually want to be in porn, leading to a smaller sample size
So there's a lot more people with big dicks in American porn–and it's hard because there's a lot of bias in getting answers from anywhere
But it's so weird that you never see one of the massive ones. I've seen so many dicks in the internet but none of the massive ones have been asian.
I think by now some asian guy would have showed off a dick that big.
Admittedly, it's harder to find, but it's not impossible
Just 30 seconds on google led me to a bunch of gay porn I'm not going to post links to here
I'm guessing it pokes their cervix in a weird way? I've found that toys with a pointed tip do this too
I love feeling my cervix get ..bashed. I thought all women did til an experienced fuck buddy told me alot of women hate that
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I have a strong suspicion that 50% of posts ITT are r9k poking jokes at themselves
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There are people who will actually believe this chart is real
There are other snarky reaction pics, why would you choose one with a kid?
And thanks, would love to as long as you pay for it!
At what point does it start to go from pleasurable to painful?
At the point where you're not into it (having sex) / not into him. I.e. when you're not aroused.
Nothing to do with dick size.
Depends on your body.
Some girls can take something longer or thicker some can't.
I've only had dildos but I'm pretty sure my limit is 6 inches before it pokes weird.
And that one is 5" in circumference. But I could probably take more.
I'd say anything smaller than 4" long, or smaller than 3" in circumference is too small.
For me personally:>bigger at the base and tapering to the head
Imagining something like the German dick in OP/small head, thick base: Feels weird. I can’t even put into words what it is, but it just feels like there’s something missing. It also makes it feel like his cock is half flaccid the whole time.
>bigger at the head and narrowing at the base
Depends on how much bigger than the base the head is. I have a dildo that has a really thin base but a big bulbous head. It feels okay and kind of hits the G-spot well, but overall it’s not ideal. Most women are most sensitive at the entrance of their vagina (plus the clitoris is there) so a thin shaft can fail to stimulate that area well enough.
>maintaining the same girth and thickness throughout
Of the three you mentioned probably the best. But the ideal would be the head being a bit bigger than the shaft, but the shaft being pretty even.
But again, that’s just my experience and personal preference.
Some people forget that the clitoris isn't just a little bead at the top of the vulva, it's an entire structure that runs along the front of the vagina
In that way, girthier dicks can actually help clitoral stimulation>>135506
Honestly, not worth it
From what I've heard/read, the results are like 1.5 inches in length rather than 3 or 4 inches
The results arent' worth breaking a dick
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Penises around the world // hoe edition
From biggest to smallest
Turkish: 10-12” 5’10
Genuinely painful during some positions, however the sex was good enough to make me deal with the rest of him for about a month
Italian: 9” ish? 5’ 11”
Not remarkable due to it being so thin, he didn’t last long and neither did the relationship
Swedish: 8” 6’0”
Not much to comment bigger than average where I live but he wasn’t the best in bed.
Japanese/Australian: 7ish 6’0”
ok? But his size wasn’t necessarily why it was meh
Vietnamese: 7” 5’10
Sex was great but he knew that he was doing and paid attention to foreplay
Mexican: 5” 6’0”
It was … awful honestly he was self conscious and asked me to tell him it was big which I pretended not to hear
Argentinian: 4’ 5’10”
Second best in bed knew what positions would work best and was really good at gauging how to use it
I know it's been a year or 2 but I'm reporting back to say I finally got the swede d, unexpectedly.
His dick was pretty but his brain was fucking slow lol so I eventually said bye bitch
I'm sure this would be heaven to some women but..
I mean I like when a guy is 6.5 inches and am disappointed when a guy is say only 5. Offer me 10 inches and I'd just tap out though. If I thought I could stretch that much I'd be trying out fisting already.
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Honestly, I used to be a size queen until my current guy.
I had 7in and thick, but he made me cum like once every six months. Circumcised. Only up and down motions did anything for him so it kind of got old quick, but I thought maybe this was as good as it got.
I've only been seeing my boy for a few months and I cum almost every time. I haven't asked, but he's somewhere around 5.5-6in and average girth. I can grind and do all sorts of things. Plus his responsiveness drives me wild.
On the other extreme, I once had a Korean-American Tinder date. He was literally the length and girth of my middle finger, bordering on micropenis… Decided to give it a go, cause heck, what if I'm just being an ass and he knows how to use it? HE DID NOT.
I've never heard of that before. Maybe due to all the inbreeding?>>142633
This truth right here. Nobody wants a pencil dick
Some time ago I got advice on lolcow to prepare myself before having sex and honestly I'll post it everywhere now. My first time was great and nothing hurt. The guy had quite girthy cock as well.
Masturbate with your fingers if you don't already and invest in a toy. And use it vaginally. This way you'll stretch yourself and get way more comfortable so you won't tense up.
This. I used toys for months before having sex for the first time. One of the best decisions I've made.
Maybe my hymen was particularly stubborn but it took a good few sessions and lots of patience and pain tolerance for me to start comfortably taking penetration. The first few sessions consisted of slow insertion without any thrusting because the pain was too much. Even if I had somehow found the sweetest man on earth I wouldn't be able to find any romance or pleasure in 'losing it' that way. I'm glad I took matters into my own hands.
yeah that sub is cancer, but you have to feel for the guys. i think porn is largely to blame for them making it such a huge part of their life though.
on the other hand, they're so vitriolic it's clear they don't want help or reassurance.
The fact that you're asking him to get help and he won't says everything you need to know >he tells me i'm lying
Gonna predict it right now, this won't end well
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>tfw recently broke up with my ex and realize I can finally get an uncut guy now
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dry and crusty yes, and fluff ridden holy fuck yes. i was always so turned off fucking or blowing my ex if he hadn't literally just showered because his tip and shaft were perpetually covered in cloth fibers from his underwear. and there'd be like little fluff balls stuck along the scar tissue too.>>150257>smoother, natural, cuter, healthier
god, i can't wait.
You can but it feels shit to give. You haven't got the natural resistance of the foreskin moving along with your hand. It's like trying to give a massage without any sort of oil or lotion.
Also the uncut dicks smell argument is so tiresome. Nahh, your bfs dick smelled bad because he's a lazy asshole who doesn't know how or when to wash. Never been with a stinky uncut guy, but maybe cut guys who think they don't have to wash properly because they're not intact.
Nah, I don't really even notice if someone's cut or uncut either.>>135956
I know this is old, but: even though I'm in America, only 1 Asian guy I've fucked had a small penis. The rest (like…a good number of them) were all probably around 6 inches and definitely prone to hitting my cervix during rough sex sometimes, so I've never really understood why some people cling to that stereotype.
There's girls who are more experienced and taller than you that won't touch that, and you want to do it as your first one?
I've been fingered but never used any toys.>>151503
He's my bf so I wouldn't feel comfortable with anyone else. I hope we can find another way if it doesn't work out…
Oh, don't scare the already scared girl.
7 inches is on the bigger side and also my favourite size… go slow and use as much lube as you want. Try being on top if you want to make sure that he doesn't go to deep. Be super honest that you're nervous and he'll be happy to help you.
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Do you agree?
Wish people would stop using the phrase 'you are literally insane if you think this thing'
More than 6 inches is a bonus