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No. 2440815[Reply]

What are Moovie Nights?
Moovie Nights are events taking place in our dedicated moovie room: https://cytu.be/r/moovieroom. These include movies, themed videos, and livestreams that we all enjoy together.

What is Tunesday?
Tunesdays are days when we listen to music together, often according to a theme. They are held on Tuesdays, but you are free to hop in whenever and organize your own! Everyone is allowed to add music to the playlist. The host will alternate by who added what so everyone gets a chance to listen to their picks.

Where?
We have a dedicated room for Moovie Nights here:
https://cytu.be/r/moovieroom

When?
Anytime! Tunesdays are typically on Tuesdays and we have no "set" schedule beyond that. If you want to see a calendar of events that nonnies have already planned to host, you can check it out here and subscribe anonymously: https://moovieroom.github.io/host-helper

Rules
1. Be nice!
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No. 2577520

>>2576982
SUMMERTIME TUNESDAY STARTS IN 1 HOUR!!

No. 2577576

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>>2576982
SUMMERTIME TUNESDAY STARTS NOW!!

https://cytu.be/r/moovieroom

No. 2577620

>>2577576
Can we have a playlist please?


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No. 1575241 [Reply]

Previous Thread >>>/ot/1337722

Come draw together with anons! Nobody else in? Leave a doodle before you go! Everyone welcomed, artfags or not. Drawings of board-tan highly appreciated.

>How it works
Every doodle board has a theme to encourage creativity. There are currently 4 main boards that are cycled through, and when the current board is nearly full a poll will be posted for users to vote on the next theme. Polls stay up for about 2-3 days, and they are your sign that the board will be cleared soon. A picture of the completed board and the new theme name will be posted. Occasional reminders will be posted with the link and theme of the current board. Miss the previous theme? That's alright! Just go to the previous board and add your doodle. Make sure to post it to the thread when you're done.

If you have any theme requests, please post them! We always appreciate new theme suggestions. Themes are merely a suggestion, you can draw whatever you like on the board but please keep in mind that we have a shitpost/no theme board.

Aside from the main board(s), there may also be multiple active side boards at any given time. These side boards have themes such as coloring book, vent/horror, shitposting/no theme, etc.

If you make a new layer and then leave the board you may not be able to access that layer again due to restrictions put on the boards to protect against raids and defacing. In this case, feel free to ask in this thread for your layer back and an admin will assist you.

In general, please do not be afraid to ask for help with anything. Admins cannot be active 24/7 but we will try to help you work out any issues as soon as possible.

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No. 2569176

>>2568431
It's not a big deal don't worry nona lol, the real problem is how easy it is to take over another layer by mistake when we aren't supposed to be able to do it without the admin

No. 2569295

>>2569176
Admin here! you shouldn't be able to take over or delete anyone's else's layer as that permission is disabled .it could be the drawing settings got bugged out because there was maintenance recently or the artnona accidentally deleted it >>2565535 the delete and add layer buttons seem very close for that mishap to possibly happen it quite unfortunate to lose nonas art but its a reminder to all nonnies to be aware of what buttons you click/touch on,ive lost art myself too because of this when I was a phonefag kek I will try to archive the boards biweekly so next time If any other anon loses her art it can be pasted back

No. 2573658

>>2569295
i have the thing on a couple of old drawboards where i now have someone else's layer (and someone else has mine). other people there probably got switched around as well. i make sure not to go to those boards to avoid accidentally deleting someone's drawing. might be a magma thing.


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No. 2408236 [Reply]

Post about your employment status, successes, woes, anxieties, rants, etc.

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No. 2578274

>>2578238
Which job sector? Sounds like it's time to try another sector if possible.

No. 2578309

>>2578238
I was in this position for nearly five years. Ngl I was starting to wonder if people were being deliberately cruel by inviting me over for office tours and to meet everyone, then choosing the other candidate. Like I know I’m an autist but that’s already clear as day in the interviews, so why even invite me if that’s such a dealbreaker? Just as I was resigned to stop trying I got a job offer for what was essentially my dream job, had 3+ office tours, had coffee with a bunch of would-be colleagues, had my would-be supervisor asking my input on future department outings… and then the offer fell through. If I didn’t have dependents I would’ve ended it right there.
Now I do gig work that still doesn’t pay the bills and could probably be replaced by AI if they knew how to use it properly but it’s better than nothing, I guess?

It might be a good idea to try to branch out, even if just for the variety. Though tbh where I live, a year of job searching apparently isn’t even that long for those of us who don’t luck into a job immediately after graduation. Also reach out to anyone you know who’s even remotely connected to the field you want to work in. More people here find work though connections than by applying normally.

No. 2578327

>>2578251
new zealand. we're at 5.1 percent unemployment (expected to peak at 5.7, stats are supposed to come out soon for the june quarter) and our stupid chud government has done nothing but make it worse since they got elected by cutting a ton of jobs and enforcing hiring freezes in areas i was interested in working in and wasting money on stupid law changes that only some smarmy rat-man from epsom wants.
>>2578274
general office work. i have a lot of admin experience and customer service from a part-time mall job i had for a little under two years. i was hoping to go into the public sector but like i mentioned above our chud government has been culling jobs like crazy while wasting money.
>>2578309
honestly, im considering spending another 4 years at uni. hopefully the economy and job market will be better after, and i'll come out the other end with a law degree. my previous degree (english) was already beneficial and i had a high gpa along with good quals from high school in relevant subjects, so i'm very likely to get a place.
thank you nonas for being kind to me, shit sucks for real

No. 2578354

>>2578327
law degree is a great investment that can put you on a lot of different jobs but the downside is that you will never be able to leave your country if you want to. I'd say go for it since NZ seems like a good place to live at.

No. 2578358

>>2578327
So am I nonna, I'm 25 so it feels like late in the game to change (and I'm also burnt out from studying) but I want to do something, and Law seems like a good option. Unfortunately getting a job in the legal field, even something basic like Paralegal, is impossible in my country!


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No. 2572581 [Reply]

A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.

Previous vent thread: >>>/ot/2558523

Follow all the /ot/ board rules & do not reply to bait.

Please, do not come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you do not have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
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No. 2578341

>>2578297
Get covid
>>2578304
I mean if you wanted to smell metal as much as possible I would assume that getting a septum is the next best option.

No. 2578344

>>2578340
Picrel really made me laugh nonna.
The fact that you have clear skin already puts you many steps ahead nonna. I would just suggest you to literally go out and look at the people around you. Most of us are average , not exceptional, not ugly, not breathing, just normal and that’s okay. You probably fall into that category too. Stop comparing yourself with the women you see on social media because it isn’t healthy.
Like you said, be clean, dress well, maybe get a new haircut to find your self confidence again. But you literally don’t need to change your whole face.

No. 2578345

>>2578340
i think the first step starts with getting rid of social media, or if you can't, unfollowing every influencer who doesn't look like you. you need to spend more time seeing your own face every day and i assure you that you'll start finding things about yourself that you find cute, too. wishing the best for you nona

No. 2578349

>>2578345
I really second this. since I stopped looking at model tier instathots and other people with god tier looks at social media I've been at much better terms with how I look. besides, a lot of influencer content you see is very curated and manipulated, you have to always remember most if not all of these women look much worse irl, which is fine, but it's literally their job to make you feel worse so you buy more things or do more procedures. don't fall for the psyop.

No. 2578357

>>2578341
>Get covid
I wonder if that might actually be connected to OP’s problem. I have the same issue and I feel like it either started or became worse after I got covid.


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No. 2417659 [Reply]

Continue to discuss news stories that upset and disturb you more than usual, crimes, disasters and events that stay on your mind, stories of criminals, victims and survivors that you want to discuss etc. Try to post relevant pictures, names, links to articles, websites etc if you can, so that people can look up the cases for themselves easier.
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No. 2578346

>>2578338
>Are you the girl in the picture
you sound like the new one kek
>>2578339
you sound like a mentally ill bdd zoomer if you think a homely average looking girl with no PS is fugly I pity you. praying your mentality evolves before you reach your 30s otherwise you might kys.

No. 2578350

>>2578346
Are you trolling rn?

No. 2578351

>>2578346
Lashing out and getting angry at other people for pointing out that someone is not conventionally attractive is not productive. You need to take a breath. It's not a moral failing that she's not pretty, but she isn't pretty and anons were mentioning it because it's relevant to the discussion.

No. 2578353

>>2578351
your brain is on several layers of delusion if you think being conventionally attractive means you have to be a 10/10 instagram model. maybe go outside and talk to real people and you will notice most people look not that attractive. what is ugly is her behavior, but she is small town attractive.

No. 2578360

>>2578353
Oh my god go back, we're not going to coddle you here because you're mid


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No. 2575975 [Reply]

Are you a fat loser? Do you want to argue because that's how you learned to get attention in your dysfunctional household growing up? Do you have no friends? Well then, this is the thread for you!

Come here to bait and infight! Post something really stupid, and other anons will fight you about it! Prime topics are: abortion, clothing, eye color, lesbianism, virginity, really anything that you can fight over!

Remember that everyone that disagrees with you is a moid, so make sure you call them out for being scrotes!

Last thread:
>>>/ot/2570205

The "rules" are:
>no racebait
You can still do it because jannies are absent for 12-14 hours a day!
>no infighting
This one isn't a rule we only added this so we don't get put on autosage
>don't reply to bait
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No. 2578171

>>2578142
I’m a biosperg so I don’t distinguish between recreational and reproductive sex. My bad if I interpreted it the wrong way.

No. 2578194

>>2578068
Kek I rather get called a troon or retard than to be doxxed

No. 2578199

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It's hard to complain about my one job I'm apparently not "overqualified" for.

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it's retarded but so predictable how much "leftists" and reddit moids hate these two. leftists were only able to shift the overton window to the center away from insane shit like open borders and trannies because these two took the positions they did and filled in as the public's podcasting heels.

No. 2578343

cowtipping isn't always bad or harmful (to the site)


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No. 2577774

>>2577764
Xitter reporting has been garbage for a while now I still remember reporting accounts that would spam isis decapitations and live footage of mass shootings in people's replies and they would get restricted for a week and then they would go straight back to spamming people

No. 2577849

>>2577764
Meanwhile the mildest moid hate gets an instant suspension. You just know its neckbeard faggots moderating twitter

No. 2577966

>>2577764
one thing that has stuck to me is when i reported two zoophile accounts that actually made porn. they were so quick to say "nuh uh, all fine and dandy here! they haven't broken any rules!". like who the fuck is behind their moderation team?

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Kek I just feel bad for the moms.

No. 2578336

>>2576861
It's a mix of men projecting their competitiveness on us and the fact that they think everything about our lives as women revolve around their sole existences


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No. 2426717 [Reply]

Discuss the happenings, drama, cringe, etc. of Neocities, personal sites, webrings, and other small communities, and how they used to be in the past.

Other possible topics of discussion:
>personal sites vs social media profiles
>creating shrines and fanlistings
>joining webrings and cliques
>how socializing on the internet has changed


Previous threads
thread #4: >>>/ot/2139249
thread #3: >>>/ot/1914925
thread #2: >>>/ot/1520815
thread #1: >>>/ot/1320546

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No. 2578145

>>2577787
Use google fonts, pick a font you like and select “embed code”. https://fonts.google.com/

No. 2578217

>>2577789
tranny and genderspecial stuff is starting to die off, we reached critical mass/rock bottom a couple of years ago and its only been up from there. normal people are more openly sick of them, so they get louder and more aggressive whenever they can. i would just laugh in their faces and reply to their comments to make them even angrier, there is nothing they can do. the only reason people get their accounts stole and hacked is because they are terminally online and giving sensitive info to random people, and those people revenge doxx.

No. 2578257

>>2578217
Part of it is that kids who grew up on tumblr in the 2010s are starting to outgrow it. Tearzah comes to mind as a former lolcow gendie turned chronically online detransitioner, but I see women my age who had a gendie phase and are relatively normal. There’s hope yet kek

No. 2578288

>>2578257
tearzah is a name i haven't heard in a long time kek. what even went on with her?

No. 2578332

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>>2577787
Nona, just use the font-face rule! 90% of free font sites let you download the font to your computer. Just do that, put them inside a folder in your website and simply link them via the font-face tag, it's much simpler to remember and you won't have to be dependent on external websites.
If you want to include a font pre-installed on your computer, navigate to your machine's font folder (Usually it has a very easy access, like My PC/Windows/Fonts) and copy-paste it to your websitw folder.
Been doing that for years and works wonders.


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No. 2578267

>>2577603
I watched a video where she was discussing her past (like with prostitution, as a sex object in general etc) and how motherhood changed her feelings on it, and it's obvious having a child gave her a tonne of perspective on how harmful it was. She did a bit of mental gymnastics about how it was ok for her to do and couldn't articulate why it wouldn't also be ok for her daughter, but you could tell her gut instinct is that it's a terrible thing for a woman to go through and she would never want it for her own child. It was encouraging to see tbh, if she can keep her BPD under control I think her kids have a chance at not inheriting her issues.

No. 2578270

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I hope JK Rowling lurks/schizoposts on lolcow (but because she is a galaxybrained gigastacy so she never ever talks about it ever because she knows lolcow is sacred)

No. 2578279

>>2578270
If any famous person could get imageboards, it's her. I'm relistening to the Ink Black Heart and it's reminded me that her knowledge and interpretation of internet subcultures is god tier, she's so switched on. Like, she's writing about stacey and chad memes on an incel's twitter, a munchie character with the holy trinity of CFS/POTS/fibromyalgia, white nationalists larping as vikings, it's so funny and accurate.

No. 2578328

Watching movies with my mom and Letters to Juliet just started. Nothing could have prepared me for the random, poorly drawn anime couple in the intro mixed in with classical paintings and old timey photographs

No. 2578359

>>2578262
Her washing a paper plate always gets me kek


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No. 2507010 [Reply]

Discuss all topics pertaining to ADHD, ADD, or ASD experiences as a woman here.

Talk about the difficulty of diagnosis as a woman, the struggles that accompany ADHD/ADD/ASD, or share strategies that you developed to help cope with your diagnosis. Share your advice to cope with your issues related to your ADHD/ADD/ASD.

Or even discuss your thoughts on how recent attention to ASD/ADD/ADHD on social media affects those really afflicted.

Previous threads:
#6: >>>/ot/2346005
#5: >>>/ot/2022269
#4: >>>/ot/1687145
#3: >>>/ot/1438835
#2: >>>/ot/1198440
#1: >>>/ot/586560

Anons with ADHD, ADD, & ASD should all be best friends. There is much strength to be gained through unity. The spergs need the ADHD crowd to tell them when they're being retarded, and anons need spergs to tell them when they need to focus. We unanimously refuse the balkanization of this thread. Our resolve is represented through the choice of thread picture.
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No. 2577744

>>2577545
It doesn't sound like an autism diagnosis happened in the first place. Maybe it's on your file that it's suspected rn but hasn't been assessed to know yet. Roughly how many questions were you asked? I don't think you could be officially diagnosed without it being really obvious you're in the middle of getting the full assessment done. I never could've missed that mine was happening. Was a whole ordeal tbh.

What your new doc is talking about sounds like she's hinting at something else I won't name it because it starts shit on here but trauma and idenity disturbance are linked to something else that women are overly suspected of having. I'd just be cautious that docs are being clear with you. Don't be afraid to ask for clarity on what is officially diagnosed. They might be in the middle of trying to still figure it out. It's not a bad thing if they're taking time with it. A rushed diagnosis can lead to a misdiagnosis of something you don't want to have on your file.

No. 2578212

>>2577744
When I got diagnosed by my previous doctor, she asked a bunch of questions for about two hours before coming to the conclusion that I have autism and anxiety and she wrote it down on the disability form for my previous college. This recent visit was to fill out a form, not get assessed. I would love to know for sure what is going on with me but things aren't bad and speaking to professionals who just ask you a ton of personal questions feels so violating and I feel sick after. I think maybe I'll just focus on trying to get out more and talk to more people and living my life for now.

No. 2578225

>>2577545
>>2578212
There are talking-only versions of assessments for autism and that sounds like what it was. Pretty typical version for adults, where I'm from anyway. If you want one like the assessments for kids, with puzzles and storybooks and shit, that will be harder to find. There was discussion about these earlier in the thread.

Anyway, you say "doctor" but what kind of doctor is it? Only a neuropsych should be assessing you for autism. If these are regular psychiatrists, they aren't qualified to screen you. That being said, autism and CPTSD symptoms can definitely have a lot of overlap, but also you can have both at the same time. I'm diagnosed with both.

No. 2578240

>>2577545
Autism aside, I’d be wary of any doctor who brings up “gender identity” unprompted. Are you remotely gender non conforming or do you think she could tell you’re a lesbian? Some activist doctors and therapists take pride in “cracking eggs” aka convincing their patients they’re trans and that’s the source of all their mental and emotional problems. Just be careful, nonna.

No. 2578325

>>2578240
>Autism aside, I’d be wary of any doctor who brings up “gender identity” unprompted.
Hard agree. It's on par of them going "so what's your star sign, let's read your horoscope in the daily mail to figure out what to do with you. Oh you're a libra! That explains your depression! Sexual assault? No that's irrelevant, it's from being a libra."
I'd honestly report them for trying to push that ideology on me even if they just mentioned it, you just know they're harming and mistreating multiple patients if they feel comfortable enough to bring it up like that.


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