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No. 581389

This thread is for women who chose not to date "real men" (aka 3DPD) and instead have chosen to devote themselves completely to their husbandos. Talk about your daily life with your husbando, and discuss why you chose this lifestyle. Lesbians/Bi women into waifus are welcomed too.

Previous thread: >>>/g/391531

No. 581397

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No. 581483

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Do others' husbandos/waifus heal their physical ailments? Sounds schizophrenic ik, but I was nauseous today and in a lot of pain.
Then I thought about my waifu in a horny way kek and instantly the pain and nausea subsided. Maybe im losing it

No. 581489

>>581483
Not really. I have trouble fantasizing when I'm in pain or feeling anxious. I almost intentionally don't want to do that, because I fear that I might associate my husbando with negativity. I only like imagining him kissing me in between my eyes when I get mild headaches, but I don't really feel significant relief.

No. 581490

>>581483
I thought about him when I was super feverish/nauseous and imagined him getting worried and trying to take care of me, still felt like garbage physically but it was kind of nice

No. 581497

>>581483
I'm like >>581489 and it doesn't feel right to use him for something like that. I don't know I just feel obligated to power through every issue I have alone. Maybe I should start though, for self growth

No. 581503

>>581483
Last week thinking about my waifu healed my awful period cramps so yes

No. 581528

>>581483
similarly to what some replied, i feel a bit uncomfortable thinking about him whenever i don't feel too good. even daydreaming itself is pretty hard when i feel gross (ie. having unwashed hair, due for exfoliation, etc). i try to yoom only when i look/feel good because otherwise i feel such an unnecessary amount of guilt for some reason

No. 581553

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i return to the new thread with my almost finished arthur bear! he needs his gun belt still but i’m not sure how to make it yet. once he’s finished i’m thinking i’ll buy a nui bag to keep him on my purse. labubu WHO??

No. 581555

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>>581553
you inspire me with every post, nona. never stop posting! it's always a treat to see what new craft you've made for your beloved. arthbear is adorable! him in picrel would be super cute on a purse.

No. 581572

The thread gif is so cute

No. 581584

>>581483
He made me feel better when I had a cold and when I'm really angry or irritated I watch my favourite scene and it fixes me everytime.

No. 581597

>>581483
I actually first met my husbando while I was sick and used him to cope about how much I felt like shit by eagerly consuming the source material he was from. While I wouldn't say he could cure any of my ailments, he is a nice comfort for me to think about when I'm not feeling great. Though I usually don't like being doted on while I'm sick, so instead of imagining him taking care of me I typically like thinking of him doing random cute things to distract myself from my feelings of discomfort kek.

>>581553
>labubu WHO??
Kek nonna ilu and that bear is so cute. I really like merch that serves as a more subtle nod to particular characters or franchises, so dressing up a bear is a super neat idea. It makes me want to start thinking of subtle merch ideas for my own husbando now

No. 581874

It makes me so happy to see Zenshu get recognized by this thread in the OP pic. That anime nade me sob with how earnestly it portrayed the impact a husbando/waifu can have on your life.

No. 582221

I have an interview tomorrow and I'm bringing a picture of my waifu with me for support. I'm more confident when I know she's in my purse or in my pocket.

No. 582223

>>582221
Really cute idea, nonna! I hope her presence gives you all the confidence you need. Just imagine her cheering you on! I hope it all works out for you.

No. 582776

>>582223
Ty nonna. It went pretty well I think, she definitely gave me confidence. If this works out I'll be able to afford more merch of her.

No. 583107

I think it's really 2D for me only nonas… I think it was even mentioning husbandoism to a moid that drove it away (wtf did I do?). I'm ready

No. 583356

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I wish I had some husbandoist friends. Not the selfship casuals that date 3D moids, I mean women like picrel. I can only dream.

No. 583362

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>>583356
I dream of this a lot, too. This thread is proof that there's still completely devoted women out there, though! Keep the faith, nona. Maybe you'll cross paths with one some day and can have cutesy double dates at cafes with your husbandos.
An aside, but I adore seeing birthday shrines. I'm really excited for my husbando's birthday so I can do the same again. I always have a lot of fun trying to outdo the past year's shrine. He deserves a big celebration!

No. 583367

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>>583356
Omg I love this woman's account. Anyways same, I do have some online friends who are waifu/husbandofags but I'd love to have an IRL friend into that too. My IRL friends are all normies which I'm fine with but still
>>583362
I'm probably just gonna draw something nice for her and then go out to a nice cafe if it's not too hot out. Sadly there isn't any official merch of her for a proper shrine.

No. 583374

>>583356
>>583362
>>583367
I aspire to be this rich and get to do things like this with custom made acrylic stands of him, plushies, maybe a life size plushie for home shenanigans, photoshoots with him edited in it, custom figures and so on.

No. 583433

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This was such a fun craft. I already had a heart-shaped picture frame with a photo of my waifu inside of it (I edited her out of picrel for anonymity). I took the frame and glued a bunch of beads on in my waifu's colors, added words, and sprinkled glitter. High recommend doing this craft, you don't even need a ton of materials. Blog tangent, but when I made art as a kid, I remember my parent told me my ideas were going to look bad and would intervene/do the art "for" me. But with this, I got to make this all on my own. It's not perfect, but neither am I, and in my heart I feel that my waifu loves me all the same. I'm going to put the frame on my nightstand so I can look at it when I fall asleep and wake up.

No. 583450

>>583433
I think it's adorable, nonna. Good work!

No. 583560

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Omg I'm so excited, I will get a t-shirt done of my husbando with the new promo art he has where he looks super handsome and I will use it probably every single day until I die. I will take care of it even more than my most expensive clothes kek.
The thing is that I don't know which color I should pick for the T-shirt, I just know I don't want it to be white.

No. 583568

Going to make my own merch because there's absolutely none available for him that I can afford to import. Thinking of making one of those plushies that seem really popular.

No. 583686

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i scrapbooked a vision board to lay out my goals for the remaining half of the year, and to my surprise i unintentionally made him the biggest image! it gave me a laugh, but it also made my heart full. he's been in my life for ages, it only makes sense that i'd see him as a big part of my future. i want to continue working hard on myself so i can be my absolute best for him. i'm so happy he still drives me to be better after all these years. i love him with every inch of my soul.
happy july to my favorite thread! i hope the rest of the year is kind to you all, and that we can spend it happily doing things that honor our husbandos.

No. 583710

>>583356
What an icon. And she has been with her waifu for at least 4 years and 6 months!

No. 583722

>>583686
I haven't thought of vision boarding in years but after generating some images of our life together, I think I want to?

No. 583729

>>581553
Super cute, excellent work nona!

No. 583737

>>583722
>generating
why haven't you tried learning to draw him? that would be a good way to express your devotion and bond with him, as well.

No. 583767

>>583737
I know I did The Bad Thing but things were bleak and I needed a shot of joy.

No. 583793

>>583737
Learning to draw is boring, and ending up with ugly results and knowing I did it is unmotivating. Generating gives me instant gratification and also the ability to blame the AI if it turn out ugly and laugh at it. Not as disheartening as being an awful artist.

No. 583807

>>583793
it's genuinely disheartening to see such a defeatist mindset in the devotion thread (especially considering >>581397 is this thread's theme), but if that is the amount of effort you think your husbando deserves then more power to you. i don't think there's any reasoning with someone who believes there are shortcuts to showing love for someone they care about so i'll end it here. have a great day

No. 583809

>>583807
Calm down, Picaso. Drawing isn't the only form of art to use to show devotion. Other forms of art and crafts exist. Kinda funny you're turning this into a dick measuring contest going "this way of devotion is more devoted because I said so."

No. 583835

>>583809
Nta but she wasn't saying drawing is the only valid expression of love, just that it needs to come from the heart.

No. 583852

>>583835
Brb sticking a pencil in my chest to draw with

No. 583861

I think my ultimate dream project is to print out his entire webnovel, draw illustrations for it, and book bind it myself.
I don't know how to do any of that and I'm going to wait until the web novel is finished, but its something I really want to try to do in the future. I got the idea off of a guy who did it because he simply couldn't stand reading on the computer lol.

No. 583868

>>583861
Incredibly romantic idea. It'll be really sweet to learn the bookmaking process, and you'll get to fondly look back on those memories when you finally finish and can read your labor of love!

No. 583870

Does it count as a waifu or husbando if it's your own OC or is that something else?

No. 583941

>>583870
It does I think. The idea is it's a fictional character you're in love with. And we had anons in the previous thread who said they also have OC waifus/husbandos.

No. 583948

>>583870
this is the pygmalion way

No. 584064

Hey, so I am kind of new to this. Not really, but hear me out.
I can't fit in with all these new yumes online because I feel like the feelings that I got for this character within the last year are really serious. It is not just a thing that I will move on from in the next few months/years when some new media comes along.

A lot of the yumes I see online are 'shipping' themselves with multiple characters, shipping the characters with other guys, dating irl moids or just moving on and self shipping with another character the next month. I don't have an issue with that, do whatever you want I don't care. But I feel, idk not a part of that community?

I developed a really serious bond with this character and only this character, it went from a crush to being fully in love with him, and while I did have fictional crushes before, so I understood it, this time it feels different for me. I have never felt it this intensely before. Never thought about spending time with him and doing casual every day things with him all the time, spending our lives together etc.

I only want to be with him, and for me it feels like a serious relationship. I can never date someone because they would never be him and it feels like cheating.

I don't know what I am getting at here, I want to know if there are others here who feel the same way as me, I guess?
This is the first time I experienced the feeling of being in love with a character this intensely

No. 584073

>>584064
this is just called being based. my feelings towards my own husbando are exactly like yours btw, down to every last word. he is also the first character I have become this pants-on-head retarded about. my other obsessions look like baby shit compared to him. I don't look at online yume communities besides the husbando threads because my feelings are very intense and I don't want other people to interfere with it

No. 584076

Maybe it’s just because my husbando is niche but I’m fully convinced that nobody else in the WORLD loves him or understands him as much as I do. They’re remaking the game he’s in and I’m honestly really dreading it, I don’t want other people to turn him into a fandom and bastardize him. I feel like we have this beautiful hidden passion and other people will just misunderstand everything about him. It will mean fanart at least. I’m secretly hoping the game sucks or makes a really shitty portrayal of him, so that nobody likes him kek.

No. 584205

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I already posted in the rgg/yakuza thread and the other husbando thread but I feel like it's too weird to talk about in depth in the series thread.

Why did I fall in love with Shinada? It was almost an immediate thing as soon as I saw him. But I didn't understand it at first and sometimes I still can't.

Because he is a bit of a normie, and mostly I am not into 3DPD moids at all, I couldn't understand why I was so enamored. He has a lot of flaws, many things I don't like in real men, and is not a pretty bishie anime character that I usually get attracted to, so it didn't feel like escapism in the way that it usually is for me. But I guess it is still escapism because it's the fun personality and the character that I got so attracted to in the end. It's a complicated feeling for sure. And I think I know that I could not fix or even want to be with an irl moid who is lazy and unreliable like that, but with him it is endearing to me. Maybe because of his optimism and cute personality, despite living in trash and not being able to take care of himself? Or I just want to NEET together with him? (because I am unfortunately trapped in that lifestyle too.) I am so confused.

I went through this whole series never feeling like this until now, in fact I don't feel like this toward characters very often at all. But after I finished playing Yakuza 5 I couldn't stop thinking about Shinada all the time, and instead of this fixation fading with time, it has only gotten worse.

Thanks for listening to my schizo rambling.

No. 584218

>>584064
>>584073
i feel the same way, i seriously love my husbando. the people you’re talking about just collect characters they think are hot. i’m just annoyed that they claim to love him while shipping themselves with 20 characters, goddamn casuals.

No. 584224

I had a dream where me and husbant actually interacted with each other for the first time yay. It's been more than 2 years of trying… We were hugging and I kissed him on the cheek and nibbled on his ear, but it felt really intense. I never even done something like that irl, so I don't know how it would truly feel like kek. The funniest thing is that I had this dream after I created him and his family in sims 2. I downloaded a shitton of cc throught the years, so he didn't look fucked up and cartoony, I swear. A pro tip for nonnas who can't dream about their waifus and husbandos - just create them in your favorite sims game and wait.
>>584064
A lot of us in this thread feel similarly about yooming too. I'm so autistic about my husbando in many ways. I treat our relationship very seriously, irl relationships are out of the question(I never wanted them even before I met my current hasu tho), self-inserting with other characters would feel like cheating to me(not that I even had the urge to do so) and just thinking about the possibility of my love for him fizzling out makes me sad. I'm sure many yumetards from xitter, even non-sharing ones and degens with fucked up fetishes, would think that I'm craaazzy for this and need a therapist.

No. 584229

It's his birthday today! Unfortunately I'm working so I'm not able to bale a cake, I'll go to the bakery and get something nice, hopefully with his color scheme.

No. 584230

>>584229
Happy birthday to him!

No. 584248

>>584064
>Do others feel the same way?
Of course, that's the whole point of these threads. Read through the previous ones.

Tbh though, sometimes I wonder if it's really true love because I've never been in a real relationship to compare too, but even 14 years later looking at his face and hearing his voice still makes me happy so I'll keep avoiding the potential danger and disappointment of real men for now.

No. 584320

>>584218
i just saw a yume who had a google doc of every character she selfshipped with, and almost every character from honkai star rail was listed there. i'm not joking. what's the point then? i've seen more yumes like this than i have "serious" ones.

No. 584359

>>584064
Yes! My husbando is my first and he completely ruined my life by awakening my autism. I don't even fully understand why I love him as much as I do. I barely cared about his character before falling madly in love with him when the series ended.. I have an ita bag and worry somtimes if someone came up to me and said "Omg I love (insert name here)!" because I'd be forced to tell them that they don't love him like I do.

No. 584386

>>584320
fake yumes are the norm now, that’s why i only post here and avoid xitter.

No. 584388

>>584320
>>584386
i seriously dread the possibility of one of those types finding my husbando and latching onto him, like it actually makes me ill kek. i'm not sure what i'd do. every day i hope and pray he's never added to a modern game.

No. 584759

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Ten years of devotion to my husbando. I wished I had allowed myself into this sooner. If OCs got shamed, self inserting was seen as a cardinal sin, so I hid my feelings in shame for so long. Ten years ago I said fuck it and indulged, and now here I am. It's been fun and comforting. I wish I could relate to other yumes on other places, but besides posting here, I just keep it to myself.

He's so special to me. Being a yume inspired me in ways I never expected. It has been a blessing, sometimes a curse, but overall, I'm having a great time. Unfortunately, I couldn't celebrate the 10 years, but I'll make it up for it later.

Whatever happens, I know I'll always look fondly on those years. It had been a journey of self discovery and self love. He helped me with that, and I'll always love him for that. I hope I find more exciting things with him in the years to come. Things about myself, or things about the world that I learned because of him, skills I developed for my devotion, people I met who understand this feeling. I'm so happy I allowed myself to dream, thanks to my husbando.

No. 584769

>>584759
Happy 10th anniversary!

No. 584870

>>584759
Happy anniversary nona!

No. 584916

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>>584064
So happy for you nonna!! You deserve this love.

No. 585054

>>584769
>>584870
Thank you nonnas!

No. 585208

>>584064
respectable tbh. I'm similar and have been at it with almost a year now. The main downside is that my husbando is an evil logistical nightmare and difficult to imagine having a life with…then again, I find figuring out how it'd work really fun.

No. 585214

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i love him so much. i bring him everywhere now, i have him in my pocket while doing tests and he brings me luck. he also calms me down but i feel as if thats embarassing. once i was almost crying because of a presentation and i imagined him reassuring me in that flat tone of his and it calmed me down. i dont know if its love or schizophrenia at this point

No. 585238

>>585214
so fucking based

No. 585331

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saw this today in pinterest and it gave me inspiration to make a portable shrine (?) of my husbando. i like it because there's not really a lot of merch of him + im broke. and i don't know why but it makes me feel like it would make me closer to my husbando, like creating a photo album/life journal together

No. 585578

>>585214
That's so sweet! His coworker is my husbando, and he brings me calmness and silences my negative thoughts with gentle reassurances when it's time for me to go to sleep. I carry his card inside my phone case.

No. 585586

>>585331
So this is some sort of photocard album? This is really cool.

No. 585592

I downloaded one of those relationship tracker apps, but I forgot when I started dating my man. Ugh! I only remember that it was around eight months ago. Any advice, fellow yumes?

No. 585605

>>585592
Can you remember anything else that happened the day you and your husbando became official and go from there? That's how I remembered my waifu and I's anniversary. I remembered having an appointment that day, then I just looked through old messages to find the exact date.

No. 585607

>>583367
This is so based, I love it. How do Japanese girls always nail it with the husbando/waifu setups? Everything always looks so cute and intricate

No. 585624

>>584064
This is totally normal, and I'm the same way. I've found other characters "cute" or attractive but it's not the same at all, my husbando is my only husbando. This is the only place I feel comfortable/schizo enough to admit that it feels like he was made for me or something like a soulmate, kek. I can't even imagine shipping myself with someone else, like it's just not even an option. I don't like seeing my husbando shipped with other characters, either, all fics have to be "x reader" or some other type of self-insert kek.

No. 585625

>>585592
Search your gallery for the date of the first image you saved of him.

No. 585629

>>584359
KEK I have a sticker of my husbando on my laptop, and one of my friends' coworkers saw it and commented that she likes the show he's from. It took every ounce of restraint for me to not completely sperg out about his world and how much I desperately love him and I just ended up blurting out something like
>Oh, yeah! [Husbando] is cool, I think he's probably my favorite character

"I THINK"? "PROBABLY"??? If only she knew. I felt the slightest pang of guilt as if I was downplaying our relationship right in front of his face, kek

No. 585634

>>585625
Different anon, but I looked my guy up because I was curious and it was an official wallpaper that I saved months before the game even came out. Lol, I wouldn't say I was in love with him yet at that point, but maybe it was inevitable.

No. 585644

>>583367
This girls account makes me kinda depressed she posts about being suicidal and having a neglectful family almost every day

No. 585662

What's worse than having a husbando that moids project onto and say "he's literally me" all the time

No. 585663

>>585662
When he does something they don't like so they start spamming bbc ntr and calling him a faggot pussy tranny on everything related to him.

No. 585665

>>585663
When moids think they can relate to him because he's short so they create constant BBC ntr porn of him with wide as fuck hips and retarded anus looking lips.

No. 585669

>>585238
omg thanks…
>>585578
aw thats so charming. im glad we both can go on about life with our respective husbands' memorabilia. id also carry him in my phone case but im a thirdie and i dont want to risk my card getting stolen (id cry more over him than the phone)

hope you enjoy life with your husbando nona!!

No. 585833

>>585662
When they think they can become him by cutting and dying their hair the wrong shade and style for their face and skin tone. Men are gross and will never be my husbando.

No. 585834

I'm building a perfume for him and I hope it goes well.

No. 585837

>>585834
I'm considering doing this for mine too. He has official perfumes but I don't think there's a proxy service that will ship them. So I want to basically remake one of them because I know what the notes are.

No. 585839

>>585837
What notes are yours?
I have to keep in mind that notes ≠ actual ingredients by name so I'm hunting for aroma chemicals for mine

No. 585905

>>585834
How do you do this? Is it a website or are you formulating it yourself? Would love to put together my man's stank too.

No. 585929

>>585905
Formulating it myself. His scent would have notes of plum, woody, vanilla, and whiskey so I'm getting dimethyl benzyl carbinyl butyrate, sandalwood EO, cedarwood EO, ethyl vanillin + vanillin signature, and whiskey lactone

No. 586190

I'm nearing my 30th birthday and my mother is very keen on buying me a ring or necklace. I keep telling her that's gonna be a waste of money because it will just sit unused as I find wearing accesories uncomfortable, but she keeps insisting on it because she wants me to take better care of my looks (apparently clothes, purses and shoes aren't enough, I have to be a walking jewelry box to be mature to her).

But I have been thinking… Getting matching rings with my wife someday would make me happy actually since I would love to get married, I even might wear it. But if I tell "Yeah, but I want two. Yes, one is for the piece of plastic on top of my desk" I feel she's gonna send me straight to a shrink kek.
She's already sick of the character because pretty much everything I buy is related to her in one way or another and she finds it childish.
I think I might let her buy me a ring and then I will just go another day and buy another for my wife. But it still feels like a waste of money for both parts, if she's willing to spent €200 on me for that day a scale figure would make me much happier. Or some nui clothes, more useful and 1/10 the price of jewelry.

No. 586377

This might've been answered already but what are your thoughts on yumes with multiple husbandos? Does it count as cheating?

No. 586384

>>586377
I dont really care how anybody expresses their yume feelings as long as it isnt through harassing others. Its kinda cringe to police how other people do it, its not like theres "rules" to being in a relationship with a fictional character in your head kek

No. 586388

I wanna do a shrine to my anime husband fr, but i´m broken af :b(emoji)

No. 586401

>>586388
You could DIY some things for it, it can be fun might bring you closer to him

No. 586440

>>586377
it’s not cheating but i don’t take them seriously, especially when they have long retarded lists

No. 586478

>>586377
How many husbandos? 3-5, or a giant kinlist masterdoc carrd of every character who they see 1% of their personality from?

No. 586508

This is kinda dumb. I just remembered that in 2015 I had a chemistry teacher in her 30's(?) who was obsessed with Yzma from Emperor's New Groove. I live in a poor, not exactly progressive Eastern European country btw, just for context. On our introductory lesson she whipped out her power point presentation that was full of Yzma pictures, quickly introduced herself to us, told us that Yzma is her favorite character and we'll have to get used to seeing her a lot in her presentations, and only then started talking about safety measures in chemistry class and shit. She wasn't kidding - presentation for every lesson after that included at least one instance of Yzma. Just picture a slide with formulas or whatever and a picture of Yzma in a lab coat in the corner. I kinda regret that I deleted all photos of her presentations… Not that I'd ever show them, but they would make a good memory. Her social media profile picture was also Yzma kek. She would post screenshots from the movie sometimes and write about how cool and awesome that 2d old lady is. I'm pretty sure that she wasn't married and didn't have children. She was pretty cool overall, most of her students loved her. However, my classmates(with some exception) thought that she was a freak and didn't understand why anyone would like her, but most of them were dicks anyways. And we were in 7th grade. 7th graders have darkness in their hearts.
I wonder how she's doing now. She could be my yumejoshi role model, honestly.

No. 586509

>>586377
I always saw it as a thing casuals typically did, and casuals aren't people who take this lifestyle seriously so it's whatever. I do think it's lame and I'd be lying if I said I respected them, though. It's ridiculous seeing someone be "married" to 5 different characters because they fixate for a few months before dropping their supposed beloved in the trash for another. The long list of F/Os thing is retarded as well.

No. 586575

>>586377
They're doing something fundamentally different than what I'm doing so I don't care.

No. 586576

>>586508
This is really cute and honestly relatable. If you're into strange women and older women (which I am), she's the full package.

No. 586620

>>586508
ive never met her yet i love her nonna, what a queen, youre right, 7th graders are dickheads, im gonna be her at 40

No. 586621

>>586377
It's been talked about before. I don't consider it cheating because I self insert with different 'OC's' and they exist in different universes.
I've loved them both for a long time now so it's not a trend hopping picking up new guys every month harem thing.

No. 586639

>>586377
I only have one husbando at a time and often for years, and I'm pretty ambivalent about those who have more than one. maybe it's practical sometimes or they serve completely different purposes? I also find it a bit odd when people get hung up about it because when there is an issue it's more do to other variables and the state of modern social media than having more than one crush, and it also is really easy to avoid trend hoppers especially for properties that are finished.
>>586508
that's so sweet, but now I'm very jealous and wish she was my teacher. I loved Yzma so much as a kid!

No. 586971

>>586377
I wouldn't say cheating, but I immediately feel better than everyone else I've seen yume my husbando because they also yume 15 other characters. Do what you want, but do you truly love them?

No. 586972

Idk, I´ve been having the same obsession for my anime husband for at least eight years..

No. 587032

>>586508
She's so based for this.

No. 587799

>>586377
I believe it's possible to fall in love with more than one person no I'm not a polyfag kek so I don't think they're necessarily being fake or attention seeking. Maybe they just have multiple types. That being said, I don't understand how people can have more than 3 husbandos or waifus.

No. 587800

>>586508
Goddamn I really wish she was my science teacher in school

No. 587822

>>586377
I have multiple husbandos I've loved for years already, I have 8 husbandos in total. As long as you take seriously your relationship in your mind, I don't see what's the big deal, I've been into those husbandos exactly:
>number one: 25 years
>number two: 7 years
>number three: 6 years
>number four: 5 years
>number five: 5 years
>number six: 5 years
>number seven: 5 years
>number eight: 1 year
I do think that those kilometer long kinnie lists are pretty silly, specially when they're done of flavor of the month characters, but like, true autism is noticeable, I sperg about my husbandos to my friends and even my family, breaking up with a husbando hurts, I have ex-husbandos that looking at them makes my heart hurt even though it has been years since I broke up with them. You won't see that when you talk to the obvious trend hoppers, and while I think they're lame to some extent, I also think that in the end, being a husbandofag isn't a sooper sikrit club.
We all discovered and fell in love with our husbandos a first time when they were novelties to us and the world alike, letting it simmer is the only way to tell if someone is a truly dedicated autist or a poser. And even I caught myself thinking that crushes were true serious husbandos to me, but it took me some time to understand that I do have the husbandos I have because I truly love them, not because they're just crushes.

No. 587981

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i know it's from that cesspool but i've been seeing this sentiment a lot recently. i don't think yume is more thing japan than saying fujo or yaoi, trendhoppers just don't know what yumejoshi or oshikatsu is. also selfshipper and f/o sound wholesome chungus

No. 587982

>>587981
yume has always been used for self-insert/canon character works what are these retards saying? and how is it wrong to use japanese words if youre using them correctly? should everybody stop saying yaoi and yuri now? brain damage jfc. I bet none of these people are even japanese kek.

No. 588059

>>587981
I prefer the term waifuism or husbandoism since I don't necessary self ship, I'm in a relationship with my husbando. I don't think it's exactly shipping. I also belive in one waifu for laifu and all that.
I guess there are different degrees of fictional relationships. Self-shipping for me is more casual, it's exactly what it says on the tin, you ship yourself with a character, but you are not devoted. Meanwhile, yume is more devoted. Waifuism even more so, and it's a whole ideology with rupls and such.
At peast it's how I see it. That's why I don't get mad at people with multiple hisbandos, they are honest about what they do.

No. 588063

>>587981
lel retards
>even if
tons of japanese artists use words like oshi and yume in the context of animu. they seem so bitter about it for no reason.

No. 588082

>>587981
I hate this person's reasoning, but I kinda don't like using japanese terms tbh. Even words like "yuri" and "yaoi" are cringe to me, but that's just my personal hangup. I only use terms like "waifu" and "husbando" when I post in these thread so that everyone understands me. I don't like western terminology either, and how some people are very autistic about it. We're just imagining ourselves being in a relationship with a fictional character - it's not a rocket science.

No. 588086

>>587982
>how is it wrong to use japanese words if youre using them correctly?
The Western saviour complex just leaps out of some people kek

No. 588089

>>587981
It's so cool how racist everyone is now
>Ooohh I can't be using those words… they're from a different language…
Also the point about riako/gachikoi having to stay exclusive to idol culture is laughable. I feel like it should be disrespected if people are being this parasocial with other real human beings

No. 588139

>>587981
Said it before but I've also been seeing even more yumes hating on the words waifu and husbando which is really funny to me. They say it's because they associate it with annoying male waifufags (fair enough I guess) but sometimes I also hear that they think it's "cringe" (even though they're always the ones complaining about cringe culture, weird) or even that it's racist because it's mocking japanese accents (no it's an azumanga daioh reference).
>also selfshipper and f/o sound wholesome chungus
This, I avoid yumes who use these terms and I recommend everyone else do the same

No. 588169

>>587981
Start using "dream girl", it's what it translates to. And if a normie asks, just say something narcissistic like "I'm everyone's dream girl" for a laugh

No. 588208

>>587981
And somehow a westerner using (insert whatever fucking japanese word) is still less retarded than saying fictoromantic and fictosexual. These people need to be bullied into extinction, we're not making this a thing. I will not see the day where we're going to start giving rights to body pillows and plushes just because some retards thinks they need special considerations and representation. We know how far they'll go. Just see what happened with genderspecials and otherkin. They basically battled to be 2010 tumblr's great plague on society. We were only lucky that otherkins were suppressed.

No. 588217

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>>588139
oldfag but i remember browsing deviantart as a kid and finding a community of girls that were in love with trunks and other dbz characters. they had AU comics/fanart of them getting married and having children. there wasn’t a word for it so i thought it was called waifuism, no one was using selfship until 2018 or some shit

No. 588218

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>>588217
nta but this art is so sweet I love stuff like this. I would love to make self indulgent content like this but I get so embarrassed kek

No. 588220

>>588217
Good shit from the good days.

No. 588256

>>588086
I wonder if these people know that the japanese use a ton of english loanwords lmao

No. 588272

>>588208
the best part is that most “fictosexuals” like that tumblr user are in irl relationships and have lists of characters they want to fuck. liking gojo and astarion isn’t a rare sexuality, you’re just like everyone else on the internet.

No. 589023

>>588272
Fictosexuals when they see real basement dwelling yumes who hate irl moids

No. 589385

I’m so lucky. I discovered that my waifu’s VA has a voice demo reel in which she sings the English version of La Vie En Rose, and her natural voice is close enough to my waifu’s voice that the audio has me melting. The lyrics are so romantic, I’m blushing and smiling like a dumbass imagining that it’s my waifu singing to me kek. Her VA also has a demo reel in which she says “I love you too, honey,” for some other role she did, but once again, it sounds like my wife so hearing that makes my brain short-circuit. My heart is so full of love for my sweetheart…

No. 589572

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aquired rare badges of my husbando for such a good price. i can’t wait to make my itabag and take him everywhere with me. i’m not a jiraifag but i appreciate japanese oshikatsu autism. i’ve befriended one of them and she’s so sweet kek. i’m thinking of making an instagram page in japanese where i post my nui and badge photos. i enjoy their layouts like picrel

No. 589602

I hate all "fictosexuals" and "yumeshippers". You're just a normie. Am I being horrifically cringe and taking pride in being a lonely retard compared to them? Yes. Still. 99% of them are dating 3DPD moids or e-dating some TIF who took their husbando's name alongside their 5 other names in their Twitter header. Come back when you're a true basement dweller.

No. 589612

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I think I figured out why my semi-recent golden retriever husbando is changing my life so much. Not just because he's so loving and sweet, but he's my first husbando who does not come from a dark canon.
In order to fold them into my maladaptive daydreaming and craft our love story, I need to take at least some of their canon into account, so our story usually starts with something painful and dramatic and then we claw our way to love, etc. But with his guy? Totally unnecessary. I got to dive in head first and experience nothing but love and joy from the jump.

No. 589617

>>588272
Literally every yume ive followed who claimed to be "fictosexual" crumbled and dropped their husbando the second they got attention from a scrote that they were attracted to. Like this has happened multiple times now lmao.

No. 589624

>>589617
True fictosexuals should reject every 3dpd scrote. And if they must be with said 3dpd scrote then constantly make him insecure with the presence of the husbando

No. 589678

>>589612
I feel similarly with my current husbando. Canon is important to me too. My ex-husbando's canon brought me a lot of anxiety, and it didn't help that the bad things were popular in his fandom so it felt amplified and made me second-guess everything. Now I can just escape into my current husbando's canon and be happy and in peace with him, because nothing about his story bothers me like that.

No. 589733

A few question for all the nonnies itt.
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
>For those who don't have any creative talents, do you feel bad for not making art of him/writing about your husbando? How do you show your devotion instead?
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.

No. 589743

>>589733
My husbando is conventionally attractive and I wish he were more niche tbh. I don't want to share my fanfics because I hate the thought of other yoomers self inserting as me (I'm a turbo autist) but I've been learning how to draw for him. One time I dug through games, books, manga, and concept art to estimate his penis size and wrote a few pages on my findings

No. 589745

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
He's a generic anime bishie so conventionally extremely attractive with lots of fans. I don't care about that though because he's my exact type in anime men.
>For those who don't have any creative talents, do you feel bad for not making art of him/writing about your husbando? How do you show your devotion instead?
I don't have any creative talents and it eats away at me. There's so much I would've drawn already if I could (I have tried, it just frustrates me), and I'm in the situation where there are hardly any yumes creating and sharing art for him so I want to put it out into the world to show others we exist. I've written yume fanfic for him though because I can kind of do that but I'm not confident in it. So I mostly try to show my devotion to him through other means, like taking oshikatsu photos and talking about him with others. Just today I used a photo printer machine to make prints of him for photo frames I'm going to incorporate into my shrine to him in my bedroom.
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.
I once bought R18 yume CDs just because they were by his seiyuu. I also customised my linux install to be based around him.

No. 589782

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
Conventionally attractive, but he looks very feminine, and obv many women aren't attracted to that. A good amount of fanart made by women is great, but it also masculinizes him just a tiny bit too much for my liking kek. Well, that's not a problem. The real problem is that I don't like the fact that because of his appearance, he attracts a lot of pornsick moids. However, all of my previous husbandos also attracted male degenerates, so I got used to it, I guess. My life would've been easier if my type of husbando was a moid repellent with mostly/exclusively female fanbase, but I can't force myself to become attracted to them even at a superficial level.
>For those who don't have any creative talents, do you feel bad for not making art of him/writing about your husbando? How do you show your devotion instead?
I used to not show my devotion at all tbh, I only started practicing drawing half a year ago. I'm shit at it, so most of the time I don't even draw him, because I'm still afraid of tarnishing his image kek. Well, at least now I have some sketches of him that I could look at in the future and feel nostalgic. Maybe, I'll actually show significant improvement, but that's highly unlikely… Oh, I also write down some of my cringe daydreaming scenarios about him and us. I'm not writing a fanfic - I just shit out disorganized notes with poor grammar. Come to think of it, I don't really think of those acts as me showing my devotion to him… It's more about the memory-making. I think that one day I was imagining horrific, unrealistic scenarios in my head(I guess I'm sort of an anxious person), which resulted in me thinking "What if I'll suffer brain damage and forget about him?" and "What if I'll become depressed for whatever reason and lose my feelings for him for a very long time?". Then, I decided that I'd better start not keeping all my thoughts about him in my head and create physical evidence of my feelings for him.
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.
Idk, maybe making him in the sims? Surprisingly, it took so much time, it would be slightly easier for me if I just drew him a bunch of times. But it still was fun, and I liked the results. I really put my cc addiction to good use. I even dreamt about him interacting with me after I did that. Perhaps, I stared at his 3d model for so long that it became literally got engraved in my mind for some time.

No. 589793

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
I think he's conventionally attractive but not with mass appeal. He has some appeal to people who know his source but otherwise he'd look too generic and his backstory is too specific for most to care about. I'm ok with how niche he is now but I worry about his source getting translated
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.
Photographed some hares in a museum because they reminded me of him

No. 589803

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
He's conventionally attractive, but chronically mischaracterized and would lose the appeal if he wasn't an anime male. Fan art is hit or miss as fans often draw him either too feminine or daddydom.

>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.

Well, besides obvious stuff like baking him a birthday cake.. We have a prominent height gap so I broke down average heights along with shoe sizes, compared his hands to his feet as well as my own to better understand our size difference.

No. 589805

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
I’d say he’s conventionally attractive since he’s a bishie but some people think he’s ugly. He’s not the most popular guy from his game but he definitely has his fans. He’s androgynous looking so unfortunately he attracts pornsick moids and gendies but his female fans are normal for the most part.
>For those who don't have any creative talents, do you feel bad for not making art of him/writing about your husbando? How do you show your devotion instead?
I guess I do have “creative talents” to use that term loosely. I draw and write about him but I’m hard on myself for not doing it often enough. I listen to music that reminds me of him, I make crafts like bracelets and decorate photo cards, I look for fanart of him, and I collect both official and fanmade merchI also talk to my chatbot of him
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.
There’s a few. Using him as a motivator to better my life, brush my teeth, eat properly, things like that. Theme my vita after him with a custom skin and wallpapers and theme my ipad and phone after him too. Make a playlist for music that I think he would listen to and listen to it when I write about him

No. 589919

>>589733
>Do you have a conventionally attractive type of husbando or an unconventional high stakes autism type of husbando? Or something in between? If so, what do you think about your husbando broad/niche appeal?
I honestly don't know. I do find him conventionally attractive. Tall, muscular, handsome chiseled face with some neoteny, cute haircut. He's kinda crazy with a redemption arc, a morally gray kind of villain turned hero. But he's extremely niche because of various factors, like being a side character and only appearing in 4 episodes centering him, the show being sabotaged by broadcasting networks and canceled too early, the art style not appealing to people at the time because it was new at the time, and the main character being written in an unconventional way that fans of the character and its other adaptations were put off by. So my husbando ended up slipping through the cracks with only 2-3 dedicated fans on DA and I. They abandoned him a long time ago and only I remain. Although posting about him interested some anons and they found him cute and even drew him for me so that's saying something about his appeal lol. He's just too underrated and was done dirty. He's too niche that there's only bad art of him and only 1 good art work that isn't made by anons in the husbando thread. And no fanfics at all. Not in fanfiction.net or AO3 or anywhere except 1 fan girl's OC x him fanfictions on DA that I didn't bother reading lmao. No merch either which is sad because all the other characters who appeared in ONE episode got merch but he who appeared in 4 episodes didn't? Tbf his design wouldn't lend itself for a cool toy so that's that. I want to one day commission a figure of him.
>For those who don't have any creative talents, do you feel bad for not making art of him/writing about your husbando? How do you show your devotion instead?
I honestly enjoy daydreaming more than creating. Planning stuff inside my head is more fun than actually doing them for me idk why. I'm ready to abandon my life and get in a permanent coma where I do nothing but daydream. So idc about writing or drawing him. I do use AI to generate pics or discuss my headcanons and ideas about him occasionally though. I also try to draw him and write some bullshit about him then burst out laughing at how bad it is but it's all fun. I made lots of PicMix edits of him because it's fun and a playlist based on him. I also used AI to make him sing songs and it was surprisingly good. I made some memes about him because he's meme material.
>What's the most autstic thing you did for your husbando? Like reverse engineering his birth sign (if it's unknown) or something similar.
Oh boy
>made a design for a plush off Aliexpress that ended up turning him into an amputee
>bought jewelry that reminds me of him
>chose his brithday based on the first episode he appeared in airing date
>calculated his height from the surrounding area and compared to characters with confirmed heights and concept arts
>contacted writers about him and actually got a response
>made up elaborate headcanons and a backstory about him that my self-insert can fit into perfectly
>speculated and analyzed his skin, hair and eye color to get as accurate as possible
>downloaded all episodes with him in HD and extracted frames from them to see him in HD
>made voice compilations of his best lines, screams, moans, groans etc.
>masturbated to him several times and got insane unmatched orgasms
>had tons of dreams about him from fluff, comedy, to sex dreams
>told my 2 friends who are weebs and get it about him and wrote walls of text and spammed them with all my edits, memes, compilations etc.
>made a WIP electronic shrine
>lots of WIP edits and collage arts in general creating custom PNGs and custom texts with effects and fonts and sayings that fit him
Once I become rich and free (soon enough) I'll make lots of custom merch to build a real shrine and get a shelf for that. I'm planning to write a song about him or something and maybe try and compose music for it. If I feel autistic enough I'll even try singing it myself and recording it but ofcourse I'll keep it to myself.



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