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No. 464530
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>>253921 No. 464535
Anyone else had vaginal problems caused by sex for seemingly no reason? Did you ever find a solution aside from no longer having sex with that person? I keep getting problems with my boyfriend and he is my first sex partner, so I can't tell if it's just related to him. We are also long distance and are only together irl twice a year for a month at a time, so the only time we have sex is during these visits, unsure if this could be relevant.
>First met and had sex with my boyfriend in summer of 2023, I was his first and he was also my first
>I was on the pill and we did not use condoms, he also finished inside
>After the first time we had sex, I noticed that I had yellow discharge, but I assumed it was probably just leftover semen, so I wasn't really concerned
>Yellow discharge ended up never going away even after the visit ended, but I kind of got used to it and didn't think much of it
>Visited and had regular unprotected sex with him again in winter of 2023
>Yellow discharge continued, but no new symptoms
>Visited and had regular unprotected sex again in summer of 2024
>Started getting symptoms of a UTI shortly after, but when tested the results came back negative
>Assumed it could possibly be BV given the yellow discharge, used treatment gel but my symptoms didn't improve
>Symptoms continued on and off for a couple of months, seemed to only be getting worse
>Started getting spots of blood in my underwear so I got a vaginal swab, came back positive for staph bacteria
>Hospitalised for pelvic inflammatory disease a month later, November 2024
>Also tested at hospital for STDs, results all came back negative
>Was given a two week course of antibiotics that ended up giving me both vaginal and oral thrush
>Decided that I wouldn't let him finish inside of me after this experience, stopped taking BC anyway so it wouldn't be possible regardless
>Visited him again in December 2024, first had sex almost immediately after treatment ended
>First time was without condom but he pulled out
>Yellow discharge appeared to restart almost immediately after
>Due to the fact that the time between finishing treatment and having sex again was super short, and that I was on my period during the second week of treatment, I honestly don't know for sure if the yellow discharge did ever truly go away
>Do however know that even if it didn't go away, it wasn't anywhere near as bad as it was after I first had sex
>Started mostly using condoms after that, did go without a couple of times but he always pulled out
>Around a week and a half after the first time, I started having terrible shooting pains in my vagina which has never happened before, but this only lasted a couple of days
>Fast forward to now, starting to get a constant burning feeling in my vagina again and have noticed an odor a couple of times, scared it could be PID again
What the hell could be causing this? He showers at least once a day, often twice. He isn't circumcised but he washes his dick in the shower and I can visibly see that it is clean. He definitely doesn't have any STDs either. Are our microbiomes just incompatible or something? Will it ever get better?
No. 464547
>>464535Your vagina's PH and bacteria culture might just hate your boyfriend. Semen can make the vagina smelly fishy, which some bio-troofers have theorized is a reproductive defense mechanism.
Since you've ruled out every other denominator but your boyfriend and his semen, it's probably safe to say that's what's causing it. If you have wildly different ph levels and bacteria (i.e, he is too acidic and your levels are too base, he's a meat eater and you're a vegan), you'll either find an equilibrium and symptoms will subside or you'll have to live with symptoms. You can also change your diet to make your vagina's PH balance more acidic, which could counteract this and probably reduce your chances of getting pregnant (not BC tho, ofc)
No. 464627
>>464535Probably not the case if it looks clean underneath the foreskin but could it be that his idea of good hygiene is standing underneath the shower and just letting water run down there, nothing else while you've been thinking he's actually been washing his dick this whole time? I'd consider getting him to use intimate wash to 1000% rule out the possibility his hygiene is the issue.
I don't know how
valid these claims are but I've heard before that shower gel can mess up the pH of genitals, maybe there's something going on there?
No. 471700
>>471680Samefag, I wanted to add onto this a little more. I haven't read your posts in the autism thread but to expand upon what I said, and to answer other parts of your post :
Blowjobs are one of the most common acts depicted in porn, and a large chunk of men nowadays are porn addicts, particularly the younger generation. This is obviously going to influence their sexual expectations and how they treat sexual partners. Even the small amount of men who don't watch porn, will still learn about what is expected of women sexually just by interacting with other moids and society as a whole (which has obviously been heavily influenced by porn too).
It is true that the majority of the stories you see online regarding sex are fake, or at least heavily exaggerated. They're usually either fantasies written by moids, or whores trying to gain money. Outside of that, the women who share that stuff are usually still doing it for pickme reasons, or feeling as if its something to "brag" to other women about, therefore also exaggerate things to make the experience seem better or more extreme than it was in reality. This still doesn't change the fact that blowjobs are commonplace though, the lies just tend to manifest when it comes to their supposed capabilities or enjoyment gained from doing so.
I'm also diagnosed with autism, but not enough for it to effect me much sexually, and I can tell you first hand that the men I've interacted with all expected/expressed desire to get their dick sucked, the majority being virgins too. From the young age of around 12, I'd also hear classmates talking about it in school as if it was normal. Obviously these things probably also vary by the country or area that you live in, but I'd say that for at least western countries, this is the case.
No. 471708
>>471675Just read your posts quickly and want to come from a place of understanding as I also have distaste for the power men inherently seem to have in sex.
First, I'm not sure why you denied that clitoral stimulation exists? I've ridden my boyfriend's face and it was great. My many years of masturbation were almost solely clitoral and involved no penetration.
Second, you do not need to give blowjobs or have sex with men if it upsets you so much. When it comes to kinks and fetishes that people have, even if it is most people, you don't need to understand it completely nor like it yourself. You just shrug and move on. You can determine what you allow in your own sex life and you cannot control what other people do. If you keep replaying the thoughts that upset you in your head, you should speak about it in therapy. Really, I'm not even teasing. I'm concerned.
Third, people like to give oral to their partners because they like to see their partners experience pleasure. Often this is related to love. I am bisexual and in a vacuum outside of systemic sexism it just turns me on to make someone squirm, no matter what their hardware is. I'm not a pickme it's just hot and contributes to getting me off too, genuinely. You don't need to be service oriented with sex but some of us are. Like I said you just need to accept it. My boyfriend also likes being smothered in my genitals, which is uncomfortable in its own way as I am much larger than him, so it's not uneven. Which is another point, you mentioned men being "larger" people but you are in control of that. You can get jacked and date manlets kek, discovering my preference for that has helped me overcome hangups when I engage in hetero activities.
Fourth, as other anons mentioned unfortunately many women do just have sex as expected be because of sexism. This can be upsetting but ultimately all you can do is choose NOT to live like that and instead do your own thing. Maybe let them know they don't have to do that if they're venting to you and seem miserable.
Hope this helps at least a little. Please remember your clitoris, and remember that men are a dime a dozen and if he pressures you to give him BJs IF you are uncomfortable then kick him to the curb.
No. 471712
>>471675I'm given to understand that performing oral on men is considered a less involved/personal sexual practice, and so is more often practiced without actual sex. From what I've gathered, it's generally regarded as a kind of reward or enticement for the man; delivering a quick, expectation-free orgasm to express the woman's sexual desire for him. Ultimately, most women view it as a necessary chore, while there are those on the extremes of the spectrum who find it a degrading and disgusting experience, and those who find it very erotic or an enjoyable part of a dom/sub dynamic.
In my personal experience…I don't really know. In my imagination, it's an erotic act to make him desire me and surrender some control to let me pleasure him, but in reality my boyfriend will only begrudgingly accept blowjobs on very rare occasions when I'm feeling very in-control and kind of "seduce" him into accepting. It was kind of a blow to my erotic fantasies when he admitted that he found the idea of cumming on my face an incredibly demeaning act and if I seriously asked him to do it, it'd change his perception of me.
No. 471755
>>471723Did you really say
>Suck him off? Do you have a degradation kink?
No. 471759
>>471680Sucking dick is psychologically the same as bdsm with woman as the sub in service, same with being penetrated on all fours(physically submissive position, head down ass up, body spread at the bottom aka most intimate part of yourself+ that part gets penetrated), extremely vulnerable experience of physical and mental submission, I have a phobia of sexual submission but unfortunately the female body doesn't allow me to be anything but feminine and submissive in sex, I would pass out from mental torment if I had to be in submissive positions like this with my naked bottom and penetarted into the bottom from behind. I will forever be a virgin due to this, I also fing the idea of being fucked agitating and violating, because you have to surrender to dick, men don't have to surrender even cause their gentials are penetrative, so the stimulation they get is always psychologically masculine. The vagina is the negative energy aka feminine and dick positive aka masculine, a polarity, I also don't like being feminine so any kind of sex for me as a female body is not fullifling because I don't find being feminine fullifling… the vagina pulls in, the dick pushes, different psychology, unequal. I'm autistic and highly sensitive, so sex to me looks violent and the woman has the sub position in it, I can't break my mental blockage against this, my female body and the idea of being fucked from behind or sucking dicks constantly agitates me, I don't even wanna find the right man worthy of submitting, women have to feel secure enough to submit and have sex, I don't wanna live on that mental cage of being feminine snd vulnerable in sex, getting sexual pleasure feels like a job to me, blowjobs even have a job I it's name + they are violent and bruise your throat, hurt your jaw, you're in a physically submissive position during then, you have to train yourself to perform these movements etc. I can't stand the way sex looks like for women, and the thought of it gives me the same response trauma
victims have, I shake, I struggle to breath, I feel terror etc. + People who suggest femdom.. femdom doesn't change the psychology of sex for women bc my biology doesn't change+ people who suggest clitoris.. clitoral orgasms are unfulfilling unless you also wanna experience femininity psychologically. Female orgasms are very psychologial and often don't come from physical stimulation but mental submission.. like this woman who said she gets off on sucking dick said. That's a burden to me and I absolutely cannot comprehend human sexual intimacy. I just can't, why are women so cucked in it? Literally most women even have degradation kinks, if you enjoy being fucked it's almost no different from being choked or slapped to me… I grew up hearing the teenage girls around me talking about getting slapped, today I went on nsfw Instagram just to see posts with hundred thousand likes or comments of women with degradation or choking kinks. I have a problem with intimacy as an autistic and I don't understand why women have to experience intimacy in these cucked ways. My brain turns off trying to make sense off this mess, I know many autistic women feel the same. Like I legit would DIE if I were to be fucked esp in certain positions or have a dick put in my mouth. I could bet million dollars that I would literally pass out from the mental pain and feeling of degradation and submisson. As a woman I can't even fuck a man from behind to make it equal lol this is a post of a disordered person ofc that's why I think about sex a lot, cause at the core level of s human being I'm broken, so this world is not normal to me like to women who enjoy their biology, the sexual submission and femininity, they see the dynamic between a man and a woman as normal, but my mind sees something shocking and unacceptable then I get images of these acts and positions haunting me in my mind, natural things haunt me… natural order of things… Natural sexual positions… Women backs are even more arched than males… In some study with some animals when they gave the male ones some hormones the females have, the males started arching their backs like females to get fucked… In almost all species the females get penetarted from behind, to me that's something torturous psychologially, I would shake if you forced me into that position.
(ban evasion) No. 471777
>>471759Then just don't have sex. There are no rules about having to do it to fit in to society. I'm clit anon, and I promise clitoral orgasms feel great to me and yes PHYSICALLY.
Anyway I know you're autistic but this is OCD territory if it's real and you're not just trolling us. It should not be on your mind all the time, distressing you. If therapeutic techniques don't help with thought control then there are meds. I have a friend with severe OCD and she's good with them.
Please also work on your theory of mind skills. This has been hard for me too but if you can remind yourself that people lead different lives, you do not understand them, and you don't have to, then it makes moving on easier. For example, when I was younger I used to get very angry that other people would have sex outside of relationships because I would never do such a thing. I also do not understand why people are attracted to people who I find unattractive, but it is what it is. We can only control our own actions and our own thoughts, anon. Much of socializing is learning how differently other people function, which can be fun if you become confident in yourself and heal your mindset.
No. 471907
>>471759>clitoral orgasms are unfulfilling unless you also wanna experience femininity psychologicallyWhat does this even mean, i had clitoral orgasms before i even reached puberty and became sexually aware/knew what I was doing. It's a physiological reflex to stimuli. I'm sorry for your struggles. I agree with what other anonw said and also think you should stop going on nsfw instagram and the likes just to
trigger yourself.
No. 472389
>>471947The truth is, sex works differently in a long-term relationship. Opportunistic sex or sex in a novel relationship is driven by adrenaline and testosterone (in both genders) and is highly dopaminergic thus addictive, while sex with a long-term partner is driven by oxytocin and vasopressin which promotes pair bonding. Usually when people hit that point where the honeymoon period wears off, they freak out and think they need to sPiCe things up. It's akin to adrenaline junky behavior. But sex can also just be a pleasurable, loving activity you do with someone you trust because it feels good, and with time you get better and better at it. So there are two different schools of thought on this. If you like the former type of sex, the eroticism, spontaneity and excitement, then the book Mating in Captivity is a good resource. For the latter, practices such as tantra can enhance your experience and pair-bonding, but you might have to shift your expectations and mindset a little bit. Moderntantra.blogspot writes about this. The book "Come Together" is another resource, although I find the author a bit cringe and patronizing at times (same woman who wrote Come As You Are). I prefer a bit of both in my relationship, but I think it can be helpful to understand the neurochemistry behind it.
As for your relationship it does seem a little ritualistic although I wanna stress that's there's not necessarily anything wrong with that. I think being overly concerned with hygiene can compromise spontaneity, if that is what you're missing.
No. 472429
Damn I'm
>>464558 and nobody has advice kek. I can't be the only one on here who gets super depressed and cries after sex, no matter if I've had a good time, right? I wonder if I didn't write the term "postcoital dysphoria" would it have been better? That's the actual medical term I googled but it's basically just getting very depressed and crying after sex. I think it's the comedown of hormones and overthinking that I'm not good enough is what causes it. Even though my fiancé of 10 years (we are both each other's first and only sex partners) does genuinely love my body I can not help but compare myself to porn stars for some reason. I'm nearly 30 but for almost 2 decades I watched a lot of porn, literally not even to get off but to compare myself to the women because preteen me convinced myself that is the ideal version of what men want. I haven't watched porn in a long time because of how much it was affecting myself esteem (just reiterating I didn't watch it for pleasure but to compare my own body to) but I can't get rid of those feelings of not being good enough. I remember as a preteen begging my parents to buy my a boobjob. Now nearly 2 decades later I still feel that way. My fiancé doesn't even like boobjobs and told me they are disgusting, yet that doesn't change the fact I feel like they are better. I just feel like I'm too mentally broken to have sex, I don't know.
>>471947Spontaneousness definitely helps combat that boring formulaic feeling, it makes it feel much more exciting imo. Is it possible for you both to shower earlier in the day? Because showering right before it can make it feel too planned out and can ruin the mood sometimes. Also even just switching up the places you have sex, if that's possible, helps a lot. Like for example if you always have sex in the bedroom, maybe switch it up to the living room or in the kitchen or wherever. Different positions can help too, doesn't need to be anything too crazy obviously but even just doing it standing up when you normally are laying down on furniture can spice it up.
No. 472476
Anon post disappeared for me, but I wanted to answer and I'm leaving this places.. she said she enjoys oral sex and making slurping noises while doing it.
Why do you like doing an act that is humiliating to perform (the movements you have to make with your hand and mouth, leaking spit, making embarrassing faces, your face looks like you're in distress, you have to be in a submissive position physically, you have to pretend to not have teeth, your jaw hurts, neck also can hurt, you have to hunch..), only pleasures the man and gives him the pleasure you will never experience, it's a literal job, you have to deal with semen, you have to enjoy extreme submission to do this, the dick is on average 14cm and thick, so it doesn't fit into a human mouth which makes it a violent act (also because dick is penetrative and your mouth gets penetrated with it by you)? I can't comprehend why would a woman wanna do it unless she's okay with bdsm, man doesn't surrender to you.. you surrender to his pleasure you can't even get reciprocated, dick penetrates… It doesn't surrender… You even make penetrative movements into your mouth with it.. the man just lays down there getting serviced. I don't understand, it's just so unequal and unfair it makes me feel bad about being a woman. And the dentists can tell if someone sucked dick recently, cause it causes bruises.
I guess our biology doesn't allow us to have any other position in human intimacy but so cucked..I'm out. I don't enjoy submission. It's hard to not have internalized misogyny(blackpill outside of containment)
No. 472522
>>464547this has absolutely zero to do with him being a meat eater vs you a vegan.
its more like his DNA does not fucking compute with yours.
any other reasoning is cope because it gives way to letting the defective moid "make a change" through eating salads; when he's really scarffing down steaks and jack in the box Dave Meal Deals behind your back while you are snoozing soundly and hopefully about your comfy futures together.
Why even take the risk?
No. 472533
>>464558>>472429Does this also happen after you masturbate and come from that? Or only if you're with your fiancé?
I'm not with anyone but I sometimes cry after masturbation/orgasming if I think about someone I had feelings for kek. I don't feel sad, though, just become really moved or overcome with emotion.
Can you distinguish what the order of events is? First the negative thoughts about your body, then tears? Or do you start crying first bc of the hormones and then the self-hating monologue starts?
What happens after you've had sex, do you cuddle, is your fiancé being sweet and loving? I wonder if he could try to get you distracted from these thoughts.
I'm really sorry nona that you feel so badly about yourself and that porn did such damage to your self esteem. I know it doesn't help that a random stranger says this but you are perfect just as you are and I'm 1000% sure your fiancé adores you and feels super lucky to see and touch your body.
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wlw nonnas, need your advice
do you think this sex toy (osuga obonny) can work for both partners at the same time? do you know others that can?
my gf says that I'm being delulu…
am i being porn delulu and old-school taking turns is the way to go after all?
No. 477403
>>476922I don't think the sex is bad. I enjoy it and have orgasms. But tbf he is the only person I have had sex with, so I don't have anything to compare it with. I'm sure the problem is my fried brain and my inexperience with sex.
>>477172I wish it was slowburn soulmate fanfics, but I used to consume fanfiction and porn that was much worse. Things I would never do myself or even actually want to read or see, I think I just used that kind of material for too long and now it's just automatically connected to my sexual fantasies. The sex I'm having is nothing like the fantasies and that's just good. I think I should somehow reset my brain but I'm not sure how. Maybe I will just try to focus on how sex feels and not think too much about anything else.
No. 478245
>>478229I hope you get some good advice because I'm in a very similar boat
Nonny. If there isn't some element of embarrassment or humiliation involved it is extremely hard for me to get off, and I know this isn't normal
No. 478317
>>478229I had this for years and it made me feel horrible. I think two things snapped me out of it: better general self-esteem, and actually trying something masochistic that I often fantasized about irl. It felt so strange and unnatural to ask my fiance to humiliate me verbally and I cried afterwards. Like, full-on sobbing and shaking. It made him feel horrible, it made me feel horrible, and then we had to talk it through and kind of started laughing about it at some point because of how gross it made us both feel. It pretty much turned me off of any kindof submission, and I realized it was a socially manufactured facet of my personality.
I also got more into femdom, which is like… barely "real" femdom for me (I don't like hurting my Nigel, just being in control really) but was really just a mental loophole I needed in order to give myself permission to have my needs met. I know it's mental gymnastics to the extreme, but when you're fixated on dynamics of submission and domination it can be helpful to still frame it as some sort of "power exchange" in your brain while you address the cause of the issue.
No. 478326
>>478323AYRT, I think for a lot of women it's a genuine fetish, for a lot of young women we got groomed into BDSM shit via early social media and then have to deal with the consequences later in life.
I'm sort of in the middle, where I'm definitely aroused by my male partner being submissive to me, but I also know this might not be the case had I not been exposed to the content I was at a fairly young age, so you can take that as you will.
No. 478459
>>478323>Whenever anons talk about femdom it just sounds like something they're doing, like any other activityNTA, can't speak for every anon but i find it genuinely enticing. But i get what you mean, sometime i read posts that read more like a vengeance and less like sexual interest. I think femdom is one of those things that's healthy in fantasy, imo it's better than masochism, but in practice it's maladaptive cope for intimacy issues and just not a great idea given the options. I have a theory that women become masochists because of things like SA, difficult puberty, low self-esteem, cultural messaging but some women somehow move from the masochist position to the sadist one. I don't know if it's true for
every woman into femdom though. Agree with
>>478326 that porn exposure is probably a big factor that exists alongside genuine interest.
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I don't know how to get off like I can't tell my boyfriend what I like because I have no idea and masturbation feels like nothing. I have orgasmed once in my life, although I think I might have with a girl when I was fifteen. I am 22 and still clueless about my body. I get excited and want sex but I can never do anything about it. What is an orgasm even supposed to feel like?
No. 479247
>>478591I don't think there's a "universal orgasm" anon. It probably feels different for different people and depends on how aroused they are. If you're rubbing your clit and it feels like nothing, you're probably not that aroused.
>>479243This sounds like a blood flow thing. Think of how a nurse will get you to pump your arm if they need to take blood. Or how a junkie looks for a vein I guess
No. 479399
>>479243I'm the opposite, I have to cross my legs to get stimulation, even during sex, when a guy (tries to) get me off, I instinctively cross my legs because it feels better.
Moids are better than I am at touching me, which makes me depressed kek.
>>479247I'm very aroused when I have sex or masturbate, that has nothing to do with this.
>>479257This is the closest it gets to orgasm for me, too.
>>479298No, thanks. It sounds overwhelming and lame.
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am i just a dumb virgin? don't know what to say when my bf texts me stuff like this. i've been hearting his messages and just not responding for the past half hour while he does this
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>>479414I'm sorry I don't have any advice for you but this is foul. You can tell him that you don't like it nona
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>>479417he doesn't normally say that, i don't know where it came from. now he's being emotional again
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>>479421no it's ldr, i haven't met him irl yet. i genuinely don't know how to respond, he's still going
No. 479426
>>479425nta but nona please break up with him
right now as he's sperging please it will be glorious fuck this braindead ape
>i want to hold your delicious darling snow tofu flesh so fucking muchPLEASE NONA RIP HIM TO SHREDS KEKK
No. 479430
>>479419>>479421am I too naive, or is he just trying to sound like a dark romance guy who's overcome with lust for his own girlfriend? it seems cringe but not rapey to me. I definitely would say "what the fuck are you talking about sedation and trapping for, you dork?" but the feral aspects are whatever
>>479425see, this section is fine/cute to me. honestly I feel like if any of it is disturbing to you, you should immediately stop hearting the messages and tell him it's bad or to pull away from certain topics because they're a turnoff. if you're asking because you're fine with the conversation but have no idea what to say, then keep on hearting them I guess
>I want to make you rest and sleep so fucking much on memight be the funniest thing anyone's ever jerked off while texting, sorry
No. 479433
>>479430first ayrt and he types like a pseud pornbrained retard who's only idea of women and sex is BDSM/abuse porn. by the looks of it, he is your typical coomer who can only think of porn stereotypes and 'dominating/conquering' a woman. also, him spamming her like that is weird as fuck especially given
she is not replying, and they haven't even met. he seems unhinged and disgusting and unable to comprehend basic forms of consent, such as; the person literally not responding
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>>479425>your delicious darling snow tofu flesh>tofu fleshThis you?
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nonnas how can i sus out men who have the "wahhh my dick is small" delusion? i am jealous of any woman who has a guy who is confident and trusts her. i just got out of a relationship and then my ex threw it upon me that he is convinced and has been before we were even together that it's small and that i thought it was small but i literally never once thought it was and have been in shock for days that this fucking asshole was obsessed with that any time we had sex and i was apparently walking on eggshells the entire time and was unaware. it doesn't help that i have my eye on a guy friend who was cheated on. am i going to encounter this again? any advice for me or anyone else who went through this?
No. 480455
>>480436There are different people who behave differently. I’m more of a moaner, I can’t really keep it in, but even then it’s not like in porn…just natural I guess?
Don’t worry too much nonna, unless you’re grunting like a pig kek. I find heavy breaths and sighs very sexy too.
No. 480503
>>479425I love the "I want to make you sleep SO FUCKING MUCH on me" as if you're going to be, like,
aggressively sleeping in his presence compared to just normal sleeping topkek
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>>480534i've found sometimes it smells a bit like cooked lamb. but ideally like nothing
No. 481114
I have a nigel and for the past few months, most of my fantasies involving him have also involved another woman, and I don't know how to stop it. Back when I did watch porn, it was rarely stuff like this, but whenever I'm struggling to orgasm now, thinking about this works so well, including during sex. When we first got together, I went pretty much two years having only vanilla fantasies, all involving just him and nobody else. As time went on though, I'd have occasional moments where I'd be masturbating and have an intrusive thought about him having sex with another women, and then guiltily end up masturbating to it, despite the fact that in reality I am very insecure and easily made jealous. Now I regularly have fantasies like this, and I feel so disgusted with myself. Sometimes it'll be about stuff like double penetration, but most of the time it involves myself or him doing something with another woman. I also have fantasies just with myself and other women, but it's primarily the ones involving him that I feel so guilty about. How do I stop? I can't tell if maybe it's just my bi-cycle acting up or what, but I feel so disgusted with myself. Maybe I'm just bored of fantasizing about vanilla stuff with him now that multiple years have passed, but I really don't want this to be the thing that I fantasise about. I'm very strictly monogamous and against casual sex too so it doesn't make much sense. I feel like I have the mind of a porn addicted moid.
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>>479425>kept liking his messagesnona please….. i just hope you blocked him. give us an update
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>>483082Endo symptoms vary person to person. I have it and I personally don't have any problems with pain during sex, but many women do.
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>>4830821. For me it never hurt but also dont find it very enjoyable. You can try penetration with fingers/sex toy if you want to know how it feels.
3. Asexual men are very rare if they exist at all. There are mostly closeted gay men and men who are so porn addicted they cant be turned on by sex anymore.
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>>483082I would recommend seeing how you go with penetration by yourself if you’re really nervous. Also there’s nothing wrong with being celibate.
I would be very suspicious of any man who claims to be asexual. 99% of the time he’s saying that to bide his time/make you let your guard down/some other sort of weirdo.