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No. 174637
Talk about bits, toys, techniques, etc.
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No. 174840
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What lube do you girls use? I use a lot of fantasy silicone toys so I'm limited to water based lubes, and I wanted to buy some powdered lube since it seems like it would be cheaper in the long run, but I just found out some popular ones like J-lube are like 75% sucrose so it's a no-no for vaginas. I'm also super prone to UTIs and don't really want to figure out how prone I am to yeast infections so I don't feel like risking it. I can't seem to find the ingredients list for X-lube either but apparently it's 100% polyethylene oxide. I currently use Good Clean Love's bionude lube and like it but it's kinda expensive at almost $12 for 3 oz, though this is the first ever lube I bought so I'm not sure if it's really expensive or not in the grand scheme of lubes lol.
No. 174844
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>>174840I use one called Liquid Silk which is primarily water based but does have some silicone in so it stays "wet" longer and you don't have to keep reapplying. It's low content though so it is safe for use with silicone toys. No issues with irritation internally or externally.
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>>174840I've shilled this before but it's bomb. It doesn't dry sticky and it's the closest thing to natural I've found. I think the pH balance helps cos I'm also really prone to UTIs and yeast infections, and I get them way less when I use this. Sounds pretty similar to the stuff you're using currently though, IMO your bits are worth the money and cheaping out on lube is miserable
No. 174914
>>174898Thanks for the rec anon! I went down a lube rabbit hole yesterday and also read some stuff about how (good) lube for vaginal use tends to be more expensive because of lack of weird ingredients and shit. I also found this guide if anyone is interested
http://dangerouslilly.com/lube-guide/ Guess I'll just cough up the money since it's a smaller price to pay than a doctor's visit lol.
No. 174937
>>174844seconding this! It feels like what you wish you felt like, it's so good
>>174912I used to when I was younger but luckily I trained myself out of it. I think squeezing my thighs pushed my labia together so it simulated insertion (idk if you'll get what I mean lol)
No. 175243
>>175234I use the fastest pulse setting like ratatatatatata because it doesn't numb my clit like the constant buzz does
the other ones are super useless doe
No. 175645
>>175252nayrt but I have the we vibe tango and I love it, I'm on my second one (broke the first one from throwing it across the room in a rage after the battery died during a session lmao) but I didn't know they updated it. will definitely be getting this whenever my little tango dies
>>175609it's different for everyone, anon. I thought I was one of the early ones when I started at around 11 or 12 and was surprised when I read some girls start at like 8. but really it's different for everyone
No. 175656
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>>175646Its one of those clit/nipple vibrators that has a small tongue in it! Pic related its the exact model
No. 175681
I bought an expensive fantasy dildo last week and requested a custom color and it was supposed to ship out yesterday but they haven't sent me the shipping email yet… I know I shouldn't be impatient, especially since I requested a custom color so of course it wouldn't be ready to ship immediately, but fuckkkkkkk. I want my new dildo already lol.
>>175656This is so cute… what website did you buy it off of anon?
No. 175823
>>175748yaay, you too anon?
>to this day I cringe when I remember showing my brother that rubbing feels goodI had my period at 8 too, so I guess I'm just an early bloomer.
No. 176587
>>176549yup, I actually talked to another anon about this in one of the turn on threads. I'm not even sure why I started doing it but I think it originally stemmed from wanting to get to know my body and having a good look at my vuvla. I just started doing it more and more cause I enjoyed it.
what do you mean by it feeling cinematic?
No. 176711
>>176591good for you anon! your cds are gonna be way better for you than hentai. I had a similar transition from porn to erotic audios. I know a lot of anons find it creepy listening to a random guy's voice as he acts out a scene or just talks dirty but once I find a voice I like I love them. makes me feel way less dirty/guilty than watching porn. good luck going from visual to audio stimulation and then finally on to your thoughts alone, if that's your goal
>>176593why feel guilty? you can masturbate as much as you like unless it begins interfering with your life and you start choosing to masturbate over other activities. also, as
>>176597 anon said, three times a week isn't much at all. it's perfectly healthy. also congrats on being 1 month porn free!
No. 176753
>>176543Lmao happened to me once
I masturbated 10 times from morning to midnight and thought I would die
No. 176811
>>176752The cervix changes position like
>>176755 said, when it's low like that it's usually during or just before the periods. I thought I had a short vagina too because I can effortlessly touch my cervix most of the time, but I started using dildos and I could put them inside with no problems, you should be fine.
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>>176967…I don't think that's true, anon
No. 177104
>>177064>Like wanting to make feel like you need to shit?I only feel that way when my pipes aren't clear. The wall between your vaginal insides and your rectum is thin.
Try angling the dildo towards your bladder and find your sweet spot by moving it towards your spine.
No. 177147
>>176983Thanks, gotta admit I'm a little lost with how to navigate it, but I'll figure it out!
>>177138Thanks for this suggestion too, anon, the filter feature really helps!
>>177146I saw you mention your cds upthread! I don't think my country has r18 cd's, at least I've never seen people talk about them. But I'll check Soundcloud too like you mentioned, thanks!
No. 177616
>>177483I completely sympathise anon. I've been on SSRIS since I was 19, I'm now almost 31. I don't have normal orgasms at all anymore, can't remember I had a worthwhile orgasm. I edge for ages cause the actual 'climax' sucks. I also cannot just stop my meds.
>I thought it was just how I'm build down there.hey at least you know that's not how you're built. there will come a time you'll be healthy enough to stop the meds
had you not ever had an orgasm before you began your SSRIs? I knew that it was the medication fucking with my ability to come normally since I'd had great orgasms before 19.
>I'm bi so I'm worried about if I get into bed with a woman, it would be an issueI think most people are understanding of these things, men and women. I think, as someone who has this issue, sexual things can still be fun, I've got to the point I realise I don't have to come/finish to have a good time and enjoy the experience. you could always use your vibe with a partner too. don't let this issue deter you from finding someone new anon!
No. 179218
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I wanna buy a more high end sex toy that is specifically for clitoral stimulation but I'm torn on which one I should choose. It's probably gonna be one of the Sona models from LELO or the Baci from Lora Dicarlo. Do any anons have some experience with them or maybe a different recommendation?
No. 179220
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>>179218LELO's products in general really have that incredible premium feel to them, with both design and the feel of the materials but I've tried the one you show and I have Satisfyer Pro Penguin which is half the price and feels exactly the same. Still, if you have the money, LELO is worth it for the prestige experience
No. 179282
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>>179220Well thats a bit dissappointing. I already have a Satisfyer Pro 2 so I thought getting a better (read pricier) one would feel different. Do you have another rec on good sex toys? I do have some money to spend but I don't wanna blow it on something thats exactly the same.
This one is the other one in question. Anybody got experience with pic rel?
>>179232Yeah thats something I experience sometimes, too. I guess it won't be an entirely new experience but still worth the price.
>>179273Yeah it does. You place it on the clit and covers the whole of it. But because its just air pressure its still quite gentle. Its not gonna suck the life out of your clit
No. 179308
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Really love the Tango X from wevibe, although I only use the absolute weakest setting. It feels nothing like my old cheap bullet vibe which would numb my clit instantly; it feels more like it's rubbing me.
Also, I think about this when it comes to bullet vibes: does anyone actually get off on the weird gimmicky rythms? I only ever use one setting lmao
No. 179617
>>179608I spent years chasing the experience of a squirting orgasm, bought different toys with an extreme curve to them and I would orgasm that way but with no squirt.
Then a few years ago I dated a guy where his fingering technique was almost a little too rough and I guess I 'gushed' a few times from that but there was either no orgasm to accompany the gush or it wasn't quite an orgasm. It was like reaching the very edge and then nothing. I've never had an actual orgasm and release of fluids match up in timing with each other.
No. 180895
>>180345I'd love to try one (I have a dildo but it hasn't got a suction cup) but like
>>180352 anon said the only place I could use them where I live is the shower wall and I'd be concerned about tearing the tile off the wall (seen this happen in a gif once) or falling over in the tub. where have you been sticking it? like to what surface?
No. 181200
>>181198Are you a virgin anon? I had the same issues before I lost mine (which was a long and awkward affair).
Anyway, I don't think lying on your side helps a lot as it doesn't leave a lot of room down there. Personally what sounds easiest to me is lying on your back, legs spread, and go to town with your clit until you're relaxed enough. At this point feel around a bit with a finger and only go in to the point it feels comfortable to you. Next time go a little further in, etc. It might take a while but it could allow you to get used to it and not be so tense anymore.
Also you might want to look into vaginismus if you haven't already.
(Also some women just aren't into penetration and that's fine.)
No. 181265
>>180893I can happily put fingers up there while I'm bleeding. Feels so much more sensitive.
On another note, I've been masturbating since I was 8, having orgasms since then, but I can't orgasm with another person. I'm too used to being on my own, not having to think about how my face and body look, thinking about the other person's pleasure, etc. Anyone here who's managed to overcome this?
No. 181267
>>181265Having a patient partner who doesn't give a shit, wearing something that makes you feel sexy (even if it's a t-shirt), and exercising enough to feel like things don't jiggle as much. I find that being on top also helps so that I'm not so much 'on display' and it also makes me focus on my own pleasure– if I think less about his pleasure, I'm also less self conscious funny enough
You could also try getting drunk, or high, or if you're comfortable, doing ecstasy. I remember it changing the game for me because it made me experience how it was to not be self-conscious.
No. 181296
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I really want to buy this bad boy, the limba flex. it looks as though it has a shape that'd be good for me, I've been looking for a dildo with a 'flatter' head for a long time. I just wish it wasn't £50. sex toys are so expensive. it's a lot to spend on something that might not be right for you
question to it interesting - what is the most you've spent on a sex toy? I bought a g spot vibe for £85 or so once. I don't like it or use it either! it doesn't work for my body. such a waste of money. I wish you could sell sex toys but I don't know who'd buy something secondhand that'd been in someone else's vagina
No. 181428
>>181296I've spent stupid money on toys over the years but I have my finger technique down and nothing feels better than that. Based on that and my dwindling interest in full on penetration.. I just got rid of my collection last time I moved.
My collection was all silicone so I did manage to sell some of it. You can boil silicone dildos and that fully sterilizes them. There used to be message boards where people sold mostly bad dragon toys but anything silicone could sell on there too. Think it was called dragon hoard.
No. 182754
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I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'll never be able to masturbate with my fingers
>just do it lmao
I can't feel anything from touching my clit or the general area of my vulva. The thought of mastubating with my fingers, yet alone a sex toy, makes me anxious and immediately stops me from being horny.
No. 182800
I am 22 now and i need a real goddamn dildo. I can't do this hairbrush handle thing anymore god damn it. HOWEVER I have an issue called I currently live with my family and my parents circle the mailbox like a bunch of starving vultures waiting for their next delivery of instant coffee from amazon or some shit, so ordering anything would be suicide.
I'm going out of town in a few weeks and am seriously contemplating walking into an IRL sex shop to buy one but idk if when push comes to shove I'll be able to gather up enough guts to walk in there, pick up a big rubber penis, and slap it down on the checkout counter in front of another human being who is actively perceiving me. any fucking advice for how to handle this? thanks
>>182758nta but it's soooo true. I think it's because it gives your vaginal contractions something to cling onto?
No. 182803
>>182726The clit is bigger than just the little nub so it's sort of stimulating both sides when you have something inside too right?
>>182800Most places don't have obvious sex shop stuff as their shipping address, they wouldn't actually open your packages would they?
No. 182805
>>182803Probably not, but they WOULD ask what it is and want to see it. Even if i was like "it's soap" my mom would be like "oooh soap what kind" and if i was like "it's a book" theyd be like "ooh a book what book is it" and if I was like "It's dental floss" my dad would be like "oh what kind? show me so i can recommend you better dental floss because I am all knowing"
I genuinely can't think of a single item I could say it was that they would not want to see. I love them but holy fuck
No. 182822
>>182800Buy two things
Go to a normal store and buy a shirt then order the dildo. When they ask about package say it's the shirt then tell them you will show it to them after you try it on. You want to see what it looks like on you in private first.
No. 182847
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>>182726The clit is actually mostly buried inside, there's a bunch of hidden nerves (iirc the g-spot is a part of the clit, correct me if I'm wrong). I rarely masturbate the nub while using a dildo because I get overwhelmed quickly, but it does feel so fucking good, almost makes me wanna try having sex.
>>182800I've bought a vibrator at a sex shop once, one of those classy ones that advertise themselves as "spicing up the relationship", don't go to those sleazy ones owned by creepy old men. I was a bit nervous at first but it was super cool actually, the saleslady was very helpful. They sell sex toys, of course they know what you are going to do with them, but everybody masturbates and has sex, as long as you don't act like a weirdo you'll be fine. Retail workers don't care.
No. 182957
>>181296>I wish you could sell sex toys but I don't know who'd buy something secondhand that'd been in someone else's vaginaAnon, I-
If you're willing, you can sell it to some guy that's into it. There are dudes that buy used socks or underwear on Etsy. If there's a will, there's a way.
No. 182997
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>>1829741-2 times a week unless I'm PMSing. During my PMS I masturbate everyday and can achieve multiple orgasm.
I can masturbate everyday, and I used to, but the orgasms become weaker the longer my daily masturbation streak is. It's not a nerve issue because I only use my fingers and not some super powerful vibrator.
>>182980>Lowkey hoping it goes back down soon so I don't wind up in some stupid relationship just out of horniness kekSomewhat related question, but do you ever get stupid crushes when you're PMS horny? I sometimes do research on specific writers and when the research crosses over with my PMS I develop crushes on them. Fell in love with pic related that way,censored cause most anons would find him ugly.
The worst part is the crushes out live the PMS
No. 183217
>>183212Your doctor really ought to have told you about that, zoloft will literally numb your body, not just your capacity for emotion
Zoloft sucks honestly, I'm sorry
No. 183348
>>182974it's really sporadic for me tbh. sometimes I'll masturbate everyday for like a week, and can't keep my hands out of my pants because I'm really horny. but other times I'll not masturbat for a week or two. it just doesn't interest me sometimes.
when I was younger I use to masturbate most nights but that was back before anti-depressants and I could get myself off quick.
No. 183609
>>183584Really? How so?
I’ve only ever used vibrators but I’m missing penetration lol. What would you say is the difference in types of dildos and how do they feel ?
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God fucking damn it I'm always horniest on my period but I can't jerk off because it'll make a big bloody mess. I can't even do it in the shower because the people I live with would pester me for being in there too long. Fml
No. 185603
>>185601I like a combination of clit/internal stimulation, so I feel like the plastic cup would be distracting. Also the idea of having to boil it once a month after each cycle makes me want to vomit.
I just use tampons. I know that they're ~bad for the environment~ but I don't care. The idea of a personal carbon footprint is bullshit because a handful of enormous corporations and shitty governments are responsible for most of the destruction. What I put in my vagina isn't going to do dickall to fix that.
Sorry that turned into a sperg lmao. It's totally understandable to use a cup, it's just not my thing.
No. 185767
>>185760I was tempted to get some sort of intimate piercing a few years back. I already had all sorts of other piercings..never went through with it though. Glad I didn't because one day I removed all my piercings at once and abandoned them permanently. I just suddenly got real sick of say towel drying myself and having various spots get snagged on.
Respect to anyone working around genital piercings.
No. 185967
>>185900Can you be a little more specific when you say robotic?
Like, just sort of a strange dildo with a silver colour or do you mean flat out Wall-E robocock
No. 185970
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>>185900Maybe something like this from Bad Dragon? Cool Giger-like vibe. They have a huge color selection since their dildos are all custom made.
No. 185974
>>185973You've obviously never watched the popular 1979 documentary series 'Alien' where totally real xenomorphs were shown to have cool looking robotic/knotted dicks that everyone would just die to fuck..
Perfectly natural
No. 185977
So many answers, thanks a lot!
>>185967I'm looking for something clearly robotic yes, something that the terminator could have. I don't want anything too tacky like those lightsabers dildos from that geek sex toys store.
>>185970It looks gorgeous, it's true, but I refuse to buy anything Bad Dragon. Not exactly what I was looking for but now I want a xenomorph dick too…
>>185972Oooh I love this one, exactly what I was looking for, thank you so much anon! The fact that they are based in the UK is also a plus.
No. 186366
>>186339I masturbate daily but 29/30 days of the month it's all just clit play. Then 1 day of the month the stars align (or my hormones levels do) and I crave/enjoy a dildo. Then it's back to clitty town for another month.
Dating used to be shitty because of it.
No. 186562
>>186512Get a small discreet vibe from Adam and Eve, the ones that are like 2-3 inches, then a dildo that's no more than 5 inches that're sometimes labeled "beginner". Purchase good water-based lube that's also safe for toys– I recommend Liquid Silk.
Use coupon codes from Retailmenot or TRISH, lol. Good luck, anon
No. 188433
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im determined to try and orgasm through penetration anons
i own pic related and it’s amazing but only when i use a vibrator with it. i know it’s not by any means bizarre that i can’t, but something in me just keeps pushing me to try. i’ve gotten really close before after orgasming a few times with my vibrator alone, but for some reason after a while i just mentally lose interest and then i either stop or i just play with my clit
does anyone know any good tips? i know maybe penetration just isn’t my thing but i’m eager to see if i can do it before i give up entirely lmao
No. 188440
>>188433I think you'll have an easier time with a curved dildo for penetrative orgasms. At least in my experience, it reaches the g-spot more easily. It doesn't even have to be too long. Better yet if it vibrates.
Try to pinpoint with your fingers where exactly is your g-spot (it's usually around 5-7cm in) and then proceed to stimulate it with the dildo.
I really like riding it or raising my butt with a pillow for convenience, but you find what works best for you. Good luck!
No. 189031
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So after almost two-ish years of not putting anything inside my vagina, I tried to put a finger in and it HURT, I lubed it up pretty good but it seriously hurt a lot. Then after a few days I tried again and it still hurts so much, two fingers is underbearable, it's like my vagina just doesn't want anything there. It didn't used to be like this at all, when I was younger I could put like 4 fingers in there without pain. And I've even had sex, I guess it could be considered statutory rape but I've never considered it that way. Anyways I guess because I had some awful sexual experiences two years back, it completely shut down my pussy or something… I'm not sure. I've turned into an extremely non-sexual person because of this too, as in, I get horny like once every 3 months. I feel so broken, I miss how I used to be before. Should I consult someone for this?
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I have so many psycho-sexual problems that I don't think I'll ever address
No. 190066
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I was so horny and wet and having such a good fantasy and then I had to poop and ruined the whole thing
No. 190194
>>188461I also did this a few times and immediately shot myself in the head so nobody would ever find out. Just to be sure
>>190066I hope it was at least a nice poo
No. 190693
>>183212I have been on Zoloft for +10 years and it takes A LOT for me to orgasm and sometimes it just doesn’t work.
(Trying different medications isn’t a safe option for me right now)
No. 190826
I been having a problem while masturbating which is being unable to get over the edge of pleasure and into the pleasurable abyss. Like I feel good, enjoying myself. teetering over the edge then BAM nothing like I haven't been touching myself for the last couple of minutes. I try again, nothing and I take a nap since all I have been doing is tiring myself out for nothing. The last time I had a real orgasm was 2-3 years ago when I overstimulated myself with a very similar model of this but was the nosiest vibrator I have ever used
>>179218 and just felt incredibly numb along with feeling like I just abused my clit…
Please help me nonnies. I get so so close before the feeling goes away and I feel like I need to be physically pushed into the abyss
No. 190923
>>190835I'm the same, my orgasms have always been weak. I've never used a toy or anything, just my hands.The buildup feels nice, but when I orgasm it's so… Meh. Just feels underwhelming.
I can only remember one time it actually felt good.
I don't even masturbate that much, maybe like 3 times a month, so it can't be lose of sensitivity either.
No. 190962
>>190835I had weak orgasms until my mid twenties, I just thought that were overrated before that. I don't know what changed, whether it was a physical or hormonal change or if I became more confident about what I want but it's a big difference. For a brief while in my teens I even thought I was asexual but it turned out only that I had no chemistry with my boyfriend kek
I hope you find the orgasm you are looking for
No. 191450
>>190835I noticed my orgasms vary and feel the best when I close my eyes and use my mind while paying close attention to what I'm feeling
as much as I like fanfiction, using imagination feels better physically
No. 191652
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Does anyone else get so horny you get super nauseous sometimes
No. 193591
>>193586Yeah, I'm embarrassed of it because it happens around other people, I don't drive. Worst when bus or plane.
I didn't write it at first precisely because I'm embarrassed, but I orgasmed once from it in a full bus, the fucking road would not stop going up and down up and down. I was in the very back and only let out a muffled moan, I'm pretty sure nobody noticed.
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When I orgasm the week before my period actually begins I get super painful cramps for about 30 seconds. What the fuck. Once I start my period then I’m good but it’s annoying as fuck to not be able to get off for a week, especially when I’m extra horny
No. 193700
>>188461Galaxy-brained anon
>>193685They're not meant to be a sexual organ if that's what you mean. They're not linked to the reproductive system in any way other than breastfeeding after birth, so being numb is normal.
No. 194017
>>175169i have to be REALLY turned on in order for penetration to do anything for me. i have to start off really slow, almost barely moving my finger (more like a wiggle instead) and then work myself up to actually fucking myself. however i barely have any experience with penetration so maybe it's something i have to learn more and more. i used to be really scared to penetrate myself and i would tense up, so i guess i'm improving?
but i don't think penetration will ever top a clit rub.
No. 195230
>>195225A whole lot of girls start out with the same issue. Masturbating through underwear is common and you have to adapt new techniques. I switched from doing that to a technique where I push my lips together and press down and rub. That way my clit is underneath and getting enough stimulation without it being direct. It doesn't start to hurt and lubrication isn't an issue that way. If partners try to go direct I just show them my thing or skip to oral so it's wet.
An inexperienced man won't know that you need either a barrier like clothing/my technique or you need lube to be there from the start. You don't rub it raw first and then add lube as an afterthought. If you do that you've ruined the session already because it overstims and it's hard to recover from that.
Don't rush into penetration given you guys are barely getting the hang of this stuff. If he can't make you orgasm through methods like this there's no point in even thinking about moving on to that. You already know it would be bad if he doesn't even know how to work a clit yet. Take your time.
No. 195261
>>195225I used the same technique. You get used to the small friction pleasure so that's what feels good. Start out doing that technique, then when you're wet inside take some of that and spread it on the clit/vulvu, then touch the clit/vulvu directly. It has to be wet to feel good.
If you have a hooded clit then you can just rud the hood, touching the clit may be very sensitive to the point of pain.
No. 196574
I have the same problem as this anon
>>195225 but in addition there's something else scaring me.
Maybe it's eyeroll worthy but I'm single and saving myself especially for penetration with someone special and committed to me. However I've tried before to finger myself and haven't been successful. I am really scared that when I finally reach that point with someone, after all the waiting it won't work, disappointing me and him. What if I am broken?
That's why I want to learn to at least finger myself, but when I try it's clamped shut (I can't even find my vagina by feeling only, I'd need a mirror). Even though I spend all this time building up, it gets wet but it's never been wet enough. I used to try forcing a finger in (bad idea I know now) and was only met with pain and can't breach even my finger tip. I am so sad and scared that I'm broken. I know the solution needs to involve getting wet enough first and relaxing, but looks like I can't get wet enough and I can't ever relax once I decide to try.
I know I don't
have to do it but I am very determined both for my future and because I want to stop feeling broken
No. 196625
>>196574It's 100% vaginismus, anon. Buy a sex toy and lube and experiment. The most important thing is to get to know your body and how it works and accept it. Do you notice tension in your lower body even when you're not masturbating? Do you find it easy or difficult to breathe from your stomach? Diaphragmatic breathing is great for relaxing the muscles that are below the hips. Yoga is also good. This anon
>>196601 wrote some excellent points as well. This kind of muscle tension is mostly psychological, so the most important thing is to accept yourself and experiment with an open mind (when you masturbate you shouldn't make fingering or penetration the final goal. Your goal should be to enjoy yourself and if you manage to finger yourself, it's fine, and if you don't, that's fine as well. Try to cultivate this mindset. You can't force yourself to relax)
No. 199114
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>>193609Women - children of God
Men - Penis monsters
No. 199770
>>199704Kek, you're still growing up, how can you think it's from age? Ridiculous.
Ease on the bean flicking and drink more water.
No. 199774
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I need help with dildo sizing, I'm hesitating between the small and medium size. I already own one dildo that has similar length to the small one (but smaller girth) and the medium one is more appealing for monster fucking fantasies but I wonder if it would be too big for me to enjoy (my vaginas is not very deep). What would you recommend based on picrel?
No. 201440
>>201409I cum within 2 mins of clit rubbing and that suits me because I need to get up in the morning.
About once a month tho I get PMS horny and I have a long session with a dildo. I dont even cum from those sessions but I get my whole months worth of penetration in all in one long go.
No. 204967
>>204911>most women who talk about issues due to meds like that say they can't orgasm at allI was on depression/anxiety meds for a better part of my teens into early 20s and I had the same issues as you're describing.
I thought it was something else as well because none of my experiences lined up with what I was told or found online… so I'm here to tell you that your meds might indeed be the problem! Everyone's experience is different obviously, but my issue was that even though I felt the meds helped, they actually weren't the ones I needed. I got re-evaluated as an adult, put on proper meds, and my problem was more or less solved.
This is clearly something that's stressing you out and I do hope you can get something figured out soon, anon!
No. 205032
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Just treated myself and ordered a nice quality dildo and a lelo wand. It is about to be pound hog day up in here.
No. 205377
>>204911ayrt, sorry for late reply but thank you for your input about your experience. I was actually contemplating switching up my meds for unrelated reasons so I’ll hold out hope lol
>>204989Maybe we’re just cursed anon, kek. I wish female sexual pleasure wasn’t so hard to nail down. We’re out here playing 5D Chess With Multiverse Timetravel on our coochies while scrotes literally nut in their sleep on the regular
No. 205382
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>>205380Well it's basically the same as grinding on a pillow or blanket, I just have fat thighs so I'm able to do it without. It's supposedly stimulates the inner parts of the clitoris that are just under the skin, and also the labia with a monotonous mechanical friction while cross-legged lying back or sitting back on a chair, there really isn't much to it. You also flex your lower abdominals into it a bit. Because I'm used to this "deep" stimulation, direct stimulation on the head is actually too intense and just makes my legs twitch without any pleasure. I haven't tried it with a vibrator yet though.
No. 205397
>>205395That's how I do it too. I don't think there's a name for it though I haven't ever searched to much about it.
Interesting thing similar to what
>>205382 said, it gives me this deep stimulation feeling as opposed to masturbating with a shower head for example.
No. 205478
>>205476wtf how can a dildo be used externally, I'm so confused.
maybe it's just saying that to cover their asses legally if someone does something stupid with their product like sticking it in places it shouldn't be/accidentally hurting themselves?
No. 205479
>>205478I hope so, but I doubt it. I just read up on the jelly dildo/phtalate thing and now I'm ~90% sure its because of that, like "if you get cancer from all the chemicals we loaded this thing up with its not our fault, shoulda read the label" even though it mentions it nowhere on the site and is in an extremely easy to miss spot on the box. Granted I'm not overly worried about it, but definitely gonna invest in one that I know wont fuck up my vag in 2 years.
Here is the article on phthalates btw, found in the last thread:
https://dangerouslilly.com/2010/10/yes-jelly-sex-toys-can-be-dangerous/ No. 206131
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I've never come from partnered sex and scared I never will, and I think masturbation is the reason. It was habitual during high school and I think the stress of university made it almost chronic/compulsive. All the info about how cooming disrupts normal sexual behaviour is directed at men. Any advice? Will breaking the habit just be enough? Or am I tainted and gonna be dead to a man's touch forever?
No. 206299
>>206156>>206292I get this. The sensation can
trigger a vasovagal response (look up the vagus nerve) and can make you feel sick/skeeved about by things. I never finger myself and I once tried to use a menstrual cup and blacked out trying to remove it once because I couldn't bring myself to put my fingers in. It's also just not for everyone. I hate anything going in there other than a toy.
No. 207233
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I don't think I'll ever get off in my entire life
No. 207235
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>>207233Nooo,
nonnie, I thought (and wish) I was the only one! Don't give up! You deserve it!
No. 207342
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ladies a few weeks ago i splurged and bought the womaizer liberty clit sucker thing and its the best investment i have ever made. i like vibrators but the wand i have was more of a "shallow" orgasm if you know what i mean. this thing almost gets rid of my bi-monthly horny impulses to fuck a dude. i highly recommend if you like clit stimulation
No. 207411
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>>207342I really want to get the premium model. But is it degen to spend £170 on a vibrator? I've also heard it doesn't work on all womens' clits.
No. 207425
>>207363Which knock off?
>>207342It’s not too much right on the clit? I use a wand and I can’t ever just go directly on my clit. It’s usually like right above. So I’ve been hesitant on getting one even tho I’ve heard nothing but good things about it.
No. 207443
>>207411not degen. do it if you have the funds
>>207424really? there are two different sized "cups" that came with mine that go over the clit and when i used the bigger one it wasn't mind blowing but once i switched it to the smaller one it was amazing
>>207425i also hate wands directly on my clit. the one i got has like 6 different intensity settings and the lighter ones are nice and soft. feels like a little suck and pop over and over, it can definitely get overstimulating on the higher settings but thats a bonus to me tbh. wands have nothing on this thing
No. 207584
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Ladies are my masturbation habits weird?
>been getting off the same way since I started touching myself at 13, just rubbing my clit/labia mnr from over my lab mjr
>guaranteed to work
>have tried vibrators in the past but didn’t like them bc of the direct clit stimulation even though that’s what makes me come
>love dildos even though I’ve never come from penetrative sex
??
No. 207590
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>>207584Not weird. You might like the feeling of the vibrator if you use it on your labia majora, just like you do now with your fingers, to indirectly stimulate the clit. One with a broad area of contact and rumbly vibrations also helps.
As for the dildo, I've never orgasmed from just penetration either. But I find dildo + clitoral stimulation results in a significantly more intense, deep orgasm.
I prefer glass ones myself. Their angle/curve is more pronounced so it hits the right spot without having to be girthy. Because of that, and their material, they're also easy to insert without lube.
No. 207695
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>>206131I DID IT!! I finally fucking came from something besides my own hands!!!
I bought a satisfyer after months of hesitancy thanks to a friend’s recommendation and holy shit it was great. The first few tries were really frustrating because I’m so used to just rubbing myself to a sad little forced O and I was mad that I wasn’t gaining the same results. But I read some smut to get in the mood and got to it, it took about 15 minutes but god was it worth it. I was worried towards the end that I was gonna lose my momentum and have to start over because my hands and arms were shaking so much and I couldn’t hold it in place.
I feel great, but most of all I’m just happy to know that I can still come by other means. I’m gonna limit myself to once a week with the satisfyer only and try and rebuild my sensitivity. Thank you ladies for reading.
No. 207992
>>207991That's a tricky one. I think it comes down to the individual. I have a 7inch long dildo but it's not insanely thick, and it hasn't negatively influenced my ability to get off through either clitoral or gspot stimulation
Are you worried about desensitization or that no regular penis will ever be able to top the toy?
No. 208001
>>207992Yep, I mean I like the feeling of being stretched otherwise I feel nothing from penetration.
But mainly about getting looser. If I'm using 6+ inch girth then a regular 4+ man comes along and I'll just be loose.
No. 208006
>>207991You won't 'get permanently loose'. But if you happen to like bigger than average then get a guy who is fine with warming you up and watching you with the toy afterwards.
Guys tend to be fans of watching large insertions.. unless they're stupidly insecure about their dick needing to be the best thing on earth. S
No. 208018
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>>208001A regular 4 inch man? In your vagina?
It's more likely than you think.
No. 208085
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I have vaginal atrophy and I used a dildo too fast too soon and now my pussy's been bleeding for like 4 days. I know it's not my period because it's thin dark red blood instead of brownish blood and clots. How long until it stops? Am I gonna die?
No. 208103
>>208102samefag I just read this
>Bupropion is only approved as a smoking cessation aid in the UK; it is not approved for the treatment of depressionfuck
No. 208195
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Is getting a bf a good way to get over some hurdles? Im a virgin and can't masturbate any way other than humping my bed with underwear and leggings on and I can't insert a tampon. I have pretty long fingernails and I don't like clipping them so whenever I'd touch my vulva, I would just feel like I'm touching skin. I've heard from other anons they were able to get over these sorts of things by just getting a bf
No. 208200
>>208195it can definitely be helpful in terms of just having someone else to do these things so that you know what it feels like.
using some good beginners toys could also help. i used to struggle putting stuff in my vagina because it felt weird and like i was doing it wrong (and fingering myself felt a bit gross), but i think trying out some items specifically made to be used like that helped me enjoy myself more.
good luck anon anyway, whichever you decide!
No. 208362
>>208195Advantages: exploring your body and learning with a guy
Disadvantages: have something like a sex pet at home
No. 210272
Nonitas, no judgment here, please. I'm turning 20 soon and I still haven't had an orgasm.
Overall, I have pretty low libido due to depression and stress, and was on the pill for over 3 years (I stopped recently due to health issues and actually did notice an improvement with wetness). I get overwhelmed and push my partner away or stop masturbating.
I guess I rationally think about sex multiple times per day. I don't really get horny, it's more of "me want. fuck." -> masturbate -> feel some dull pleasure -> stop
My fingers get tired pretty fast because I do a lot of work with fine motor skills, so I even bought a clit stimulator. It's really good for the price (Plus One, got it at Target) but I still end up turning it off when I'm getting close. Another major turn off is having to be silent, as I don't live alone. When I'm able to have loud sex it's waaaaay better (not often, unfortunately).
The intensity of an orgasm per se isn't what irks me, idek why I do this. I get kind of nervous and tense, not sure what I even feel. If I think too much about this shit it ruins my day i feel tears welling up in my eyes as i type. So…
1. Anyone else took long to have an orgasm?
2. Has anyone else dealt with stopping midway? How did you muster up the courage to stop pulling away?
this means the world to me
No. 210275
>>207357sorry for responding to an old post but i'm the same anon from above but one of the main reasons that made me buy a vibrator was nausea
for some reason when i used to stimulate my clit with my fingers i'd always get super nauseous, it'd send me FLYING to the bathroom and made me shit everytime.
wonderful when i was stress-constipated i think i threw up once even
(wtf) stopped completely once i switched the methods
No. 210276
>>210272When I was 18 and living at home I bought an electric facial massager and I remember I mostly used it when my mom was out doing the weekly shop on Saturdays. It was my only chance to get away with the noise.
It took alot of time because I remmber giving up because the intensity felt too overwhelming or I'd go numb, my muscles would cramp, I'd tire out, all that and I almost had a fear of what was going to happen. When I got there for the first time it was like I just unlocked the ability and I never quite struggled from that point on. The first just took some perseverance.
No. 210278
>>210272tbh ive always struggled with orgasming so i feel for you anon, there is never a moment where im like 'okay i definitely just came' - - it's more like i have to guess, usually i just reach a point where i stop feeling good and it starts getting over stimulated instead.
my main advice is honestly not to worry about it too much. i used to get frustrated that i wasn't experiencing these amazing orgasms like most other women seem to talk about, but when i thought about it a bit i realised that i don't really care? like i know for a fact that there are times when i can still feel great and have so much fun during sex, it still feels good so who cares if i don't rreach definitive orgasm. at least to me it seems like you are so fixated on this problem that you aren't able to enjoy the rest of the experience, so iguess my advice is to just try relaxing and being more in the moment.
trying new things also helps! and if you are by yourself, just give yourself some time to relax and enjoy yourself because there really is no rush. sorry this ended up long winded and a bit generic, im wishing you good luck anon i hope it gets easier for you
No. 210998
>>210994You can't break your clit. If you're masturbating a lot then its probably just getting a bit too routine and not really doing it for you anymore. That's pretty common. Even dudes with who end up with deathgrip syndrome can overcome it by changing up their habits. Do you live at home/are worried about getting caught? Do you watch porn?
Take a few days off and try again when you're not panicking about it. If you're worried about the vibe usage then put them away and use your fingers for a while until you get used to it again. Don't do it just for a quick orgasm, but take your time and try lots of different things that feel good.
No. 213273
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Are you not supposed to wash your hands with generic hand wash? I’ve heard that it’s a bad idea if you want to masturbate that night
No. 214665
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Nonas im stupid as shit and theres this dildo i want because it looks super nice and its ribbed but the girth is 1.75"/4.4 cm and im not sure how big that is. Pic related its the dildo i want
No. 215044
>>215018All my orgasms are clitoral, some are weirdly weak and almost not even worth having.. the build up can be good and then the orgasm itself feels ruined but I don't know why it went downhill right at the climax. Other times it's huge and I'm up singing and dancing afterwards, floating on air for the rest of the day lol
In my case I don't think there's even a clear reason why some orgasms are just lackluster and others aren't. That's always been my mixed experience.
No. 215072
>>215053I could orgasm in a cramped elevator full of people and not a single person would know. Not every orgasm is a good orgasm, and I think a lot of people don't realise this because orgasms are only ever depicted as leg shaking screaming ones. If you ask any woman their honest answer is going to be that they moan and maybe twitch a little bit
>>215054I used to only be able to masturbate laying on my back with clit stimulation. It's only in the last 2 years that I've learned to orgasm from penetration and in different positions
No. 215094
>>215018I just want to weigh in that even though it's absolutely normal to have weaker orgasms, strong female orgasms aren't only a meme porn thing like many farmers replying to it make it out to be.
But it's totally normal to experience it differently. Everyone's body is different.
No. 215109
>>215054I had to learn how to masturbate with a dildo- at that point I experienced cumming with a penis but I didn't really know how it worked. Honestly it has really helped me with cumming more during piv sex. I've noticed that if I just masturbate with my clit (my lazy and more convenient way) it gets harder to cum with dicks
>>215075Drink more water, ya silly
No. 215557
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>>215553contracts for a while as in stays contracted or is it supposed to be intermittent? thank u
No. 215750
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i bought the rose toy thats been shilled everywhere because i needed a new vibe and thought why not. I honestly thought people were being dramatic and just lying because its the internet. But bitch i made it only like 10 seconds before i came and that was only the 1st setting. When i finally worked up the courage to go to setting 2 im pretty sure i squirted. Idk though because i've never squirted before. i stopped before i got carried away because im honestly scared. i never felt such intense orgasms before. Ladies the internet was right get you a rose toy. I also love that it isnt phallic and its girly because dicks dont make girls cum anyway why shape vibrators after that (i know why shutup). pic unrelated.
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>>215799Is it this one? Nta.
No. 215806
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Anyone here tried glass dildos? I've always been afraid of them…
No. 215808
>>215806recommend reading this:
https://dangerouslilly.com/2016/05/glass-sex-toy-safety/tldr is cheap glass toys are more likely to break and colored cheap glass toys are probably actually clear glass coated in a "luster" (as opposed to using colored glass) that is
toxic and can come off
No. 216908
Late but I've owned glass toys before and ime purely smooth shaped glass toys can be really underwhelming. Some light texture or a shaped head is good seeing as the finish on glass is so smooth it takes all the friction away. And I would always pay a little bit more to get a branded toy rather than a chinese no name one. There's alot of no name glass toys around and some look identical to brands but if you're going for glass or silicone (meant to be safe materials) then you need to make sure it's a brand that isn't lying to you about their materials or cutting corners. Hell even some well known brands are dodgy so a few extra mins of research before you commit to buying is good. Generally if a price seems too good to be right..
>>215808Not saying her info is wrong or anything but dangerous lily is a lolcow within the sex toy reviewing community. Crazy histrionic cow who lives up to her name. This is bringing back memories lol
No. 218319
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Just bought the arc g spot vibrator from Dame. I've tried different vibes in the past but this is the first one I got for myself. I wanted something versatile that I could use solo or with another woman, internally or externally, and that didn't resemble a dildo. Any anons familiar with it?
No. 219286
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Imagine being proud of being a degenerate coomer moid who jerks his tiny pickle to disgusting porn several times in a row. Now imagine thinking women should be impressed by that instead of utterly disgusted. Have sex, incel.
No. 219289
To get back on topic
>>218319 Have you had a chance to try this yet? I looked up the brand seeing as I'd never heard of them before and I like the non-penis non-hotpink designs. Bit pricey so wondering if they're worth the price tag?
No. 219293
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Pelle Whim Soft Silicone Grinding Toys, 95 euros.. just 2 lumps of silicone. I mean I like external play but I feel like some companies are taking the piss with prices versus what it does
No. 219304
>>219303Samefag to add that maybe it's aimed at disabled people? but even then that pricepoint is insane
As much as I used to hate everything being pink jelly cocks years ago.. the cost that's attached to alot of the newer gender neutral classy/simple designed toys is above what it should be. Even factoring in that they're silicone often doesn't explain it.
No. 219566
>>219289Not yet, still waiting for it to arrive in the mail. I was drawn to this brand for those reasons, toys in neutral colours and designs are surprisingly uncommon so I guess that's reflected in the price tag. The reviews I looked at described the tip as being soft and a bit squishy so I hope the contours aren't uncomfortable as
>>219292 mentioned. I'll report back when i finally get to try it out.
No. 220055
>>220010I have the exact same orgasms.
There's a specialist in San Diego (Dr Irwin Goldstein)who is supposedly a miracle worker. There's no way I can afford him anytime soon.
>>220032No, mine wasn't caused by antidepressants
No. 220132
>>220055someone i knew with a similar problem said that goldstein told her during a free consult over the phone that addyi (aka the "female viagra") can help with orgasm-anhedonia, but i've read 90% bad things about that medication. it's super expensive and the side effects are risky, so that makes me feel like i'll always be broken
>>220115he has free phone consultations, at least, so you can get a professional opinion. no idea if they do telehealth outside of san diego
No. 220142
>>220132Have you heard of that vagina book by Naomi Wolf?
In the book she says she had intense transcendental orgasms her whole life but then her orgasms started to be less intense
She got her pelvis scanned, they found a trapped nerve, performed surgery to fix it and her orgasms became intense again
The surgery could have just been a placebo of course but it might actually have fixed her problem. The surgeon was some New York pelvic specialist.
No. 220181
>>220165Yeah she's definitely insane and not very bright.
I was just mentioning the surgery she had that fixed her orgasms, might help that anon. I myself might look up the doctor who treated her, see if it's a good option for me.
No. 220862
>>215808thank you anon!!
This site is something I’ve been searching for a long time.
No. 221058
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so i can get horny, but touching myself or using a toy isnt stimulating at all. the only time i've found to feel ANYTHING is when i squeeze my legs together really fucking hard, but even that barely does anything, and it gets boring real quick. it's frustrating, so i have to mentally force myself to calm the fuck down since i cant do anything about it.
No. 221387
>>221380Wait, so sticking a sharpie in and out of your vagina feels good?
Penetration always feels like nothing to me so I'm always surprised that people enjoy it, even with small/thin objects.
No. 221410
>>221408Thanks.
Yeah I was never turned on during sex, and only barely turned on during masturbation. Of course it will feel like nothing.
No. 221415
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>>221410Super sad to hear that, anon. I hope you find your horniness and/or very hot person soon
No. 221453
>>221446I have no problem getting turned on/horny mentally. In fact sometimes I get so horny it's unbearable. It just doesn't make my vagina sensitive. Mental arousal is through the roof, maximum. Physical arousal is barely there, minimum.
And I've only ever had casual sex, mostly with men I didn't find attractive because that's all I can get. So I was not aroused mentally or physically during sex. I was just disgusted the whole time, no pleasure at all.
No. 221621
>>221592A desire to be fucked violently, imagining various sexual scenes, a dissatisfaction like an itch that needs to be scratched, lots of horny thoughts, thinking about men's bodies, dicks, chests, shoulders hands etc, desperation, getting "hot and bothered", getting worked up
I don't know if I managed to give a useful description but I tried
No. 221628
>>221627Yeah it's not fun. All that pressure and nowhere for it to go.
I usually have a cold shower, maybe go for a run, maybe cry for a few hours to get it all out and feel ok again.
Hope you figure out how to cure your anhedonia. We're all gonna make it etc.
No. 222861
>>222792Not sure how much higher quality you can get? BD dildos made of 100% body safe silicone and are solid all the way through unless you get the cumtube. I'm not a BD defender, I think they're overpriced and there are many more indie fantasy dildo companies out there with similar/more interesting designs for a fraction of the price, but pretty much all fantasy dildo makers use 100% body safe silicone. As long as you dont tear it open or scratch it or do some crazy shit to get some nicks into it, it is a safe, non porous material. You can boil it or submerge it in a 10% bleach solution to sanitize it, I don't think you can do that with anything other sort of dildo without it melting besides glass since that's the only other non-porous material you can get. I think it's much safer than anything you could buy from any regular sex shop that is made of questionable, most likely cheap and porous material that can never be 100% properly cleaned.
I've own a few from BD and other indie companies and they are all fine, no pussy cancer here. My friend has even bought some secondhand (yes, secondhand since they can be boiled to be properly sanitized) and is fine too. If you are still unsure I'd just find glass dildos.
No. 224500
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Does anyone else feel like there’s a difference between ‘orgasming’ and ‘cunning’? Maybe I’m being sexually obtuse, but I feel like when I usually masturbate, I’m ‘cunning’ because it feels nice and I very much enjoy it, but it’s usually not a full-body experience, but I’d say I haven’t ’orgasmed’ since I was 13. Or are both of these the same, and I’m just being dumb?
No. 224559
>>224500sorry
nonnie but I don't have the first clue what you're on about kek
No. 225161
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I have several vibrators that no longer work. Three of them are from Unbound. I bought an Ollie, it broke after 3 months, got another under warranty, and that one broke too. Pep as well. The trouble is, since they're rechargeable, they all have lithium ion batteries, so they really shouldn't just be thrown into the trash. I'm really not sure what to do with them, and have decided to not get a working vibrator until these ones are properly disposed of. I thought about soaking them all in bleach and then dropping them off in an opaque trash bag in the electronics recycling bin on my university campus with a note, but it just feels kind too embarrassing. Does anyone have any experience getting rid of such items?
No. 225197
>>225161Do you think you could cut the dildo part off so it's just the battery and motor to deal with?
This is why I bought a separate pocket rocket and silicon dildo after my last vibe broke. Vibes are intentionally unbalanced motors and you can't open them up to fix them even if it's just a lose wire or something, so they're guaranteed not to last that long.
No. 225234
>>224644What are you doing to get these intense orgasms?
My orgasms are pleasureless so I'm very jealous.
No. 225259
>>225234Idk it's different every time, but the common factors are
>hands, not toys are the star. Toys are good for quick pleasure but for earthquake orgasms I mostly use hands, maybe a toy at the very end >obviously privacy is key, I play white noise through bedroom speakers too>get turned on before touching starts, reading smut sometimes works but it's always best when I imagine my own fantasy, sometimes when I'm alone I whisper it to myself like a story I'm telling someone. It's important to be in the first person, imagine it's happening to you and not like you're watching a movie>pussy needs to be dripping wet at all times, I like saliva over lube before my juices start flowing >focus on clit with very soft, SPARING movements. I go numb easily so I have to be very light and every touch is intentional, be present and don't just mess around on autopilot >vary motions like don't just go up and down, do swirls, flicks, trace the alphabet, whatever>don't force or rush. when pleasure fades, relax and take a break, just doze or think about something else and soon enough you start to feel the buzz of pleasure again>this sounds weird but let your pleasure pull you in, don't push it to get bigger because that's how you get a weak shitty orgasm>this is where fantasy helps most, my fantasies are often about exhibitionist/voyeur scenarios so every touch feels high stakes, like you're crossing a line and that makes you enjoy the moment rather than thinking about the orgasm>escalate your fantasy along with your actions, I don't penetrate until maybe the last 20% of my session because it needs to make sense with the fantasy, it's so much more satisfying when you build up to it>when you feel the orgasm near, completely let go, hands off the wheel and do whatever your body wants, squirm or slap your pussy or grab extra toys to shove in, there are no wrong moves and your only goal is more pleasure>this is again where privacy is power, as long as I'm not even thinking about being too loud or being barged in on, I'll have a good orgasm - if I'm worried or self conscious in any way then it'll be much weaker>stick around for multiples if you have time, after the first orgasm I can have more if I'm patient and spend maybe 20 minutes distracting myself with something else, the second can come much faster than the first and be just as intense or more Hope that helps nona!
No. 225912
>>225869I’m the same way Nona. It’s super annoying because all I want to think about is sweet romantic vanilla crap, and I can’t get off to it. So I end up thinking about degenerate shit and finish in like 60 seconds. I don’t watch porn either.
I think (in my case) it just has to do with my sex life and the moids I have sex with. I don’t really ever have cute vanilla sex with them and my ex was porn sick so it was always degenerate things that got him off. So my brain associates that kind of sex with pleasure. Even tho I hated it, I still endured because I got off most of the time.
No. 225969
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is it weird that i can't seem to get off from a vibrator? it makes me feel 'broken' because vibrators are seen as the most amazing thing for a woman to own for her self pleasure, yet it doesn't make me cum at all. even though it feels good for the first 2 minutes or so, i feel it then gets too repetitive and starts to even hurt. it's like if i wanted to cum with it i couldn't because it's too intense. maybe i am too sensitive for a vibrator/need to get a lower frequency one. i've only ever tried this one (pic for reference). does anyone have any suggestions on a more suitable one for me or am i just not meant for them?
No. 226068
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>>225969For me the blunt tipped ones can't get me off I can only use the bullet type, the stimulation is more directed which results in a better sensation instead of feeling like it's going to vibrate your labia off
No. 227190
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>>227186nta, I also experience lengthy sessions sometimes. this is my holy grail–
https://www.stuffgoodies.com/products/eves-twirling-rabbit-thrusterVibrations, thrusting, girth/length, heavy weight, nice silicon feel, and clit stimulation. I paid $50 for this, you can probably find something at a similar price. When I first used it I came in like thirty seconds, it was really startling and now I only really use it if I'm in a hurry (I'm afraid it'll make sex boring if I use it too much lol).
No. 227192
>>227174ime it's less what you're doing and what is stimulating you.
there are certain things that make me super horny and get me off FAST, to the point i feel guilty for being so aroused by them, but fuck it. it's your mind. no one else knows. guilt and shame totally kill sex drive. indulge fully in whatever porn you like or fantasy in your head and you will come faster.
No. 227723
>>227174gonna repost what I said in the unpopular thread. I somehow managed to figure out how to stimulate my clit and finger myself simultaneously, and I work up to it by first stimulating my clit and then fingering myself individually. I use both hands. this takes a little time, I enjoy exploring my body while I do it. I consider myself a ridiculously hypersexual woman but I've discovered I don't like getting off too quickly despite my libido, and that building up to a climax benefits me more than a quick orgasm.
I also started using my non dominant hand to finger myself and it works like a charm.
I've never really discussed itt so I don't know if this is a normal way to masturbate at all but for some reason it's what brings me maximum pleasure and I thought I'd reshare it here.
No. 236214
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Hello, I just came here to flex with my cute as fuck magic wand
That is all
No. 236268
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>>236265Like this for example
No. 236335
>>236214Omg that is so cute,
nonny!
No. 238454
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I feel like a degenerate but does anyone else enjoy something in their butt? I don't mean anal sex, I'm talking strictly about masturbation. I had a smallish dildo I used once (with a condom) in there and it felt so good. I would never have anal but something smallish in my butt while I play with my clit feels amazing. I'm thinking of getting a butt plug for this reason. I'm wondering if I'm in the minority here.
No. 238457
>>227553Why would we laugh or judge? I'm older than you and still a virgin and I love my vibe. Enjoy yourself
nonny!
No. 238687
>>235643Get a rabbit, you can always leave the vibration off and use it as a regular dildo. Get more bang for your buck,
nonny>>238454You are definitely in the minority. I also enjoy pressure on my hole whenever I top, gets me off faster. Don't remember what anal plugs feel like (it's been several years), but I don't think I would hate it. But this would be for sex where getting off is much harder, masturbation is easy.
No. 241333
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I ordered this Satisfyer air pulse clit stimulator. It's gonna arrive Monday or Tuesday. I didn't intend to buy a cutesy toy but in the class of affordable clit suckers it had great reviews and people seem to be in agreement that it's among the quietest and that's super important to me.
No. 251676
My question would be how would I translate what I like when masturbating to an an actual sexual relationship? I’m a virgin but I want to be able to be able to, in a relationship,be able to direct my partner to what I’d want, so it’s easier for the both of us. The problem is that I don’t know WHAT I like, or have an understanding of why I like something (to the point where I can translate that into something that I can actually use as a direction for a potential partner). Do I just let him ‘use’/test with my body and see what I liked from it?
This is going to sounds like a jarbled mess of a rant but whatever. I’ll be using vulva and clit interchangeably because I can’t honestly pinpoint the specific areas that cause my pleasure. I just feel stuff and don’t go ‘ah yes, this must be stimulating my clit specifically’-I just feel warm and enjoy it
For me, I usually masturbate by dry humping my bed with multiple layers of fabric separating my crotch, otherwise I feel like my vulva is just skin,but sometimes I’m able to get off partially (though I haven’t tried to fully orgasm from it) through slouching, having my legs open and doing slight hip-jerking motions. I also felt aroused when I went to a bumpy motorcycle ride I guess. I kinda like the sensation of water against my vulva, but I can’t imagine orgasming from it, but I haven’t tried because I haven’t tried and Im not exactly interested in trying. I’m 99% sure I can only orgasm laying down or sitting. I think this means I might have a sensitive clit or something but I’m not exactly sure. If I do have a sensitive clit, wtf am I supposed to do with it? That seems awful because you can’t exactly do much with it directly
I idea of using my fingers at all is an immediate turn off and I feel like I’ll probably never get off with my fingers. It just feels like I’m touching skin and that’s a similar reason why
I’m kinda disgusted and scared about the idea of using toys of any sort. I just don’t want to put such a area near a machine and idk where I’d put it exactly.
No. 251697
>>251676don’t try anything you’re not completely comfortable with but have you ever thought about almost “training” your body to experience something different? i say this because i used to only masturbate by grinding against a table but i knew it was getting to be a problem because i couldn’t feel anything touching my clit directly. i read something online about a type of condition that happens when you only masturbate one way for too long (most of the people experiencing it were men who got used to, ironically enough, grinding against their bed through their clothes and could not enjoy any other type of masturbation or sex). this made me slowly try other types of masturbation but it took a while for me to be able to orgasm from it. i now can with no issues.
one other thing to consider is that sex is a completely different experience to masturbating and you might discover things you like that you were not capable of experiencing on your own.
No. 251877
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I've given up on masturbating completely. Even in the best of times I don't feel anything. And at worst touching my clit actually hurts me and I have no idea why. I don't get what everyone else is feeling when they do it and I'm a little jealous that I can't do that too. And I can't figure out what's wrong. I don't watch porn at all. I'm plenty aroused when I try. And there's nothing wrong with me physically. At this point I don't think there's much I can do about it so I'm just gonna stop trying.
No. 251922
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>>251921Now I am, but I was like this for years before I started medications so it's not that. I guess if I was like this before antidepressants I should definitely just give up now.
No. 251975
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>>251697I did a little research and I think that the type of masturbation I've been doing since I started masturbating is called 'prone masturbation'. 99% of the articles about it is directed towards men, but it seems like it can happen to women too, Apparently 'Due to the increased pressure on the clitoris in such females, vaginal intercourse with a partner or oral sex becomes less pleasing. Even hand stimulation may not be enough to reach climax' and corroborates with my experiences with
being unable to reach orgasm/get aroused at all by any other ways of masturbating. All the resources suggest that I should probably quit masturbation for a while and try other methods
so here's what I'm thinking:
-Imposing a complete ban of prone masturbation unto myself (preferably I'll not do it at all, but I'll probably fail a few times)
-spend 6-12 months not masturbating at all. I know that some may consider this drastic, but, from my own experiences, I find that my body needs multiple months to reset my sensitivity
-during the 6-12 months, I'd get used to seeing/touching my clit/vulva in a non-sexual way. It's been kinda difficult for me to do this because I think my vagina/clit is located lower on my body compared to most people, so I basically have to do gymnastics (opening up my legs, holding my knees close to my shoulders, and trying to lift my head up to see) and having to use both hands to push the skin surrounding my labia apart so I can even get a glimpse of my vag
-after the 6-12 months period, I'll start introducing masturbation methods that aren't as 'intense' as prone, but idk what I'd do
>>251874>have you ever thought about wearing a glove as a barrier or sort if you don’t like the feeling of your skin touching? (like one of those plastic disposable gloves) It's less so that I 'hate the feeling or my skin touching', though that's a factor, it's mainly because I feel nothing from it. I know I sound crazy, but I struggle to even think about fingering myself without crying a little bit which is weird because I've never been sexually abused or anything. The idea of fingering myself gives me anxiety and puts a pit in my stomach just thinking about it. I think it might be built-up of insecurity of being unable to masturbate the 'normal' way for years.
>or touching yourself over your underwear?I've actually tried that before years ago but I felt basically nothing. It just wasn't good at getting me off and wasn't enough to achieve orgasm
No. 251982
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>>251697>>251975Nonnas I masturbate in a similar way maybe I should stop it as well
No. 252000
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>>251975Nooooooo I just googled it and I have the same thing. I can't reach an orgasm unless I'm on my stomach and it has always been this way ugh.
No. 252511
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Last night I masturbated to a smut fic I wrote years ago and forgot about and it felt weirdly like jerking off to my own nudes kek
No. 252536
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Am I the only human capable of not needing to masturbate to enjoy arousal? Like, if I’m horny, I’m still satisfied I even if I don’t masturbate, I just enjoy the feeling of being aroused and even enjoy the feeling of wanting to masturbate
No. 252712
>>252536I love it too. I've stopped masturbating a while ago, just because I discovered I love the feeling of being horny. Sometimes I just push myself as far as possible around my girlfriend and just enjoy the feeling of being sexually frustrated. I love being desperately aroused by her and then spending days that way. When I do eventually have time to stay over and fuck her it feels incredible to release all that energy.
My view on sex has changed a lot. I now see the whole of the time I spend with her or thinking of her as part of my sex life. It all builds into the experience.
No. 253375
>>252985I got the sex machine in the mail. Used it tonight. It was interesting. I definitely will be using it another day.
Maybe this is unrelated but I have cramps now. This always happens after I use a dildo, which is extremely rare. I don't get yeast infections, I'm guessing it's me not used to getting penetrated, my muscles are sore.
No. 255437
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I’m currently trying to get myself to enjoy masturbating with my hands. I don’t really know what I’m doing or particularly like it. I usually rub myself over my underwear aggressively so that I can get some semblance of pleasure, even then I need to hump my bed to get myself off before I can get horny enough to use my hand and I can’t imagine myself finishing with my hand at all. My understanding of my anatomy is horrendous too, so idk if I’m stimulating a specific area, like my clit or whatever, but I know it’s near the bottom part of my vulva. I guess it’ll be a long time before I can full get myself off with my hand ugh
No. 255448
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>>255437the clit is near the top part of your vulva, try looking for it with your fingers (gently), it's so sensitive that you can't not find it. the "wetness" comes from the vagina (which is towards the bottom), what feels best to me is getting your fingers wet down there then bringing them back up to, again gently, rub the clit
No. 257210
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how old were you when anons here started using toys? to be honest, they seem interesting and I'm curious about using them but they are quite intimidating looking, especially since I usually get off by applying lots of pressure on my vulva and clit. I also feel like I have to be at least 25 to use them, which might be a weird hang-up to have
No. 257239
>>257210Old lol, like 27 and it was two years ago, I've always managed to get off just fine with my hand and I never had any need for a sex toy, I bought a womanizer to have a taste of those mind blowing orgasms (wasn't particularly impressed) and I probably won't get another clit stimulator. I later bought a dildo because I'll probably never have sex, I actually liked this one and want to get another one for a different size and textures.
I kinda agree with you, I think it's good to know your body and what you like before jumping right to sex toys, 25 may sound old but if you feel this way don't force yourself.
No. 257368
>>257210I was around 28 when I first got a toy, for clit stimulation. I tried a few cheap vibes before that but they had such harsh pressure they just fucking hurt rather than giving me any pleasure. I invested in a Lelo finally and it feels good but similar to
>>257239 I still haven't found anything as good as my hand. Idk guess I'm most familiar with that now but at least it never runs out of batteries
No. 257444
>>257425Can you even orgasm that way?
I'm someone who hates penetration, even if there's no pain I just don't even like the feeling of being stretched. I would kill myself if I felt what you were describing.
No. 258264
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Have the house to myself for the first time in weeks and all I’ve done is use my satisfier on myself 4-5 times in 24 hours, and now I barely have the energy to go to my friends birthday party tonight. Now I understand why coomers are so miserable, this shit is tiring.
No. 264858
>>258291>Reminds of the time I masturbated to yumejoshi content for the first time for an entire afternoon.NTA but god, this happened to me when I discovered otome audio porn for the first time. I couldn't stop masturbating to the audio samples on DLsite that whole week kek
>>252511One time I looked at some porn I drew a couple of years ago and got so horny because I hadn't looked at it in months, that I had to masturbate to it. It might be more common than you think lmao
No. 264861
I've been worried about losing my ability to feel desire, so I've started drinking pineapple + cranberry juice mixed together every night as well as not masturbationg anymore. I'm on day 4 and this is the first time in weeks I've felt genuinely horny and not just wanting to touch myself out of habit.
>>259956I hope you don't mind me saying but this is the first time I've read about a woman having this problem because it's usually the reverse. I've only ever read the experiences of women who struggled to orgasm with penetration
No. 265097
>>264861Maybe it's just a random coincidence and I'm looking too much into it, but if I'm not mixing up time lines, I think the one period in my life where I genuinely, and actually felt horny for the first time in my life was that time where I ate an entire pineapple pretty much every other day or so. Not really feeling anything atm but missing i, so even if it might just be placebo, I'm going to get some pineapples today
and the day after, and the day after, and th– lmao.
No. 265174
Cranberry + pineapple anon here and I think I've made a discovery. I've always wanted to have lucid dream sex. It was always super rare, but ever since I started drinking the juice I've been having increasingly bizarre sexual dreams where I have brief moments of control
>>265059Ayrt. I have a generic one I bought for €40 and it's a banger. I recomend you by one with a rabbit attachment so it can do clit and gspot at the same time, something with more than one setting. Mine has 13 modes with different strengths and rhythms
No. 265176
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>>265097I can't believe I'm only figuring this out recently. I did a quick Google search and apparently pineapple is an aphrodisiac
No. 265209
>>265176So it really were pineapples that jumpstarted my libido? That's… interesting lmao
>>265202Just eat more the next day. You'll get used to the acidity, and then you don't even feel it. You'll go back to it hurting once you don't eat some for some time, though.
No. 266552
I masturbated but felt a bit scared because I do it like this
>>251975 since forever (on a hard surface specifically, I can't do it on anything else) and I feel like I'm destroying my clitoris by crushing it every time. Is that a thing or should I stop worrying about it? It does feel scary sometimes though
No. 267077
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>>265501Picrel made my vagina smell terrible, I swear to god it smelled like burned rubber down there. Never again…
No. 267821
>>267077You're supposed to
eat the sauce!
No. 268402
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>fantasise about myself as a man having rough dirty sex with women when masturbating with my clit
>fantasise about lovey dovey romantic sex with men (and sometimes women) when masturbating vaginally
wut mean
No. 268473
>>267877KEK but tbh i feel the same as ayrt
>>267864you’re not alone, we know our bodies best nona
No. 275061
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>>207411I ended up buying the Womanizer Liberty in Lily Allen's colourway. It was less steep, £55 and I can highly recommend it. At first it was difficult to get it to stay in position, so orgasming took a while. Now that I've had a few tries, it's very easy even without lube.
The orgasms were from the very start fantastic though, deep and strong in an almost painful way…Like your clitoris roots are getting massaged too.
Cleaning it is easy. I like the discrete lid on this model. Only gripe I have is with the magnetic charger - they always slip out of place. Much prefer toys with self-sealing silicone covering the charging port.
No. 275079
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I've spent the last few weeks ordering toys and idk why my body is so fussy but I had a whole goldilocks like search to get the right size and shape. Too small, too big, too curved, too rigid, etc. I live alone but in (an uncomfortably) small town and I resent the fact that one of the reject toys I ordered had 'SEXUAL DEVICE' written on the outside of the fucking parcel?? I used it once and hated it which just adds to my seethe. Then I risked one more order and I liked that one. Pic is muh new Nigel. I won't be ordering anything else any time soon lol
No. 277875
>>277874All orgasms come from the stimulation of the internal (what we call “vaginal” orgasms come from here) or external (direct stimulation of the clitoris) structures of the clit, which has two long legs that go deep inside of you. All pleasure comes from the same organ. The vast majority of women don’t experience pleasure or orgasms from penetration.
Now, about your question: This might differ from woman to woman, but penetration ruins my orgasms big time. Makes them weaker. You shouldn’t need to “train” your body to accommodate bad careless lovers, which isn’t possible anyway. Women’s bodies aren’t designed around men or their wee-wee’s, it’s the other way around.
No. 277991
>>277875Thank you for the biology lesson, that actually really helps! I think penetration might be doing something similar to me. I've noticed that even if I switch from internal to external stimulation mid session, it's really difficult to orgasm.
Most of all, you're right that I shouldn't try to train myself to enjoy bad sex. Not to overshare but my experiences were likely so unsatisfying because my exes hated me and I was afraid of them, so of course I wouldnt be able to relax. I suppose I just internalised their frustration and impatience as my own defect. One guy straight up snapped at me, "how do I finish you already?"
>>277878>>277980Very good points. I don't do it everyday and I don't look at porn, I just use my imagination. It's seeming more and more like I made up a problem where there isn't any, haha
No. 278818
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>>278783Those oversized mega bubble wands that toy stores sell in the summer. Cheap too. Check for seams and throw a condom on.
No. 278828
>>278807nonnie I thought I was the only one… I've never enjoyed feeling my own fingers in my vagina. I have an autistic reaction to it I swear, to the point I'm nauseated. Always have.
But to answer OP, I've only done clitoral stimulation for masturbation. Just what I prefer. Preferably vibrators and the like. If any nonnies have suggestions for additional clitoral toys I'm all ears.
No. 278897
>>278829Nobody really knows. I personally don't trust the newest explanations of female orgasm any more than I do the retarded old ideas about it. I don't trust the people doing them, I don't trust the methodology. The subject is tricky to analyse and very prone to prejudice.
I feel very distinctly different sensations from clitoral and vaginal stimulation and I trust my own body. Just like you I orgasm from penetration easily. If I don't fit the explanation, the explanation is bullshit.
Tl;Dr nobody knows shit about your orgasms except you, don't listen to them
No. 278902
>>278829Probably because your clitoris is being stimulated from within, like this
nonnie >>277875 said. I get vaginal orgasms too. Apparently most women do not, we are very lucky. Enjoy!
No. 279970
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i gotta say it this thing sucks. i hate that all the reviews on it were so positive when the cons are: its not wide, the ridges are too close and small that it just feels rough, the clit part is only good if your clit is low because otherwise it just presses on your urethra and hurts, it has fake skin texture on the bottom that makes it draggy, its curved pretty hard and the weird head doesnt seem to press right on anything, the handle is annoying and easy to accidentally press the buttons because they're light, motor is in the middle or handle resulting in little vibration at the top. i know every woman is different but im so frustrated i wasted so much money on this thing. if my favorite one hadnt broke and been discontinued i wouldve bought it in a heart beat. i get off with large size and vibration which seems to be rare in toys so maybe im just fucked until more are made that way.
No. 280054
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>>279902Pretty much same here, though the position doesn't matter for me that much. I've never owned any sex toys, like why bother? It's just extra trouble when my own hands can do the job.
I used the water stream of a shower a few times though, it was good but a bit too intense so i don't do it anymore. Putting anything in my vagina just feels weird and uncomfortable, like I have no feeling up there at all and I'm afraid I'll accidentally break something. I wouldn't be too worried about it otherwise, but that combined with a low libido and other sexual problems like very specific preferences makes me afraid I'll never have a mutually satisfying sex life with a partner.
No. 280628
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>>280080I like this one. Small with strong vibrations.
No. 282035
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Did any of you nonnas using a vibrator like picrel noticed decreased sensitivity in your clit? It's pretty intense, recently I've noticed it's hard for me to come with just fingers and to be honest I'm a bit worried
No. 282062
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How those phone vibrator apps are supose to be use?
No. 282519
>>282449That's true. Get your pelvic floor muscles checked and then exercise if needed. Too often women over exercise their muscles when the problem is the opposite, they don't relax the muscles enough
>>282035same. It's because the clit gets "conditioned" to orgasm this way. Like every body part, it can develop a habit. What helps is using various techniques. I liked my satisfyer penguin so much I got myself numb to anything else and had to basically detox from it. Thanks to that though I broke some other stupid habits like clenching
No. 282554
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It's really interesting how different everyone's experiece with satisfyers/clit suckers is. I don't regret buying mine, they give me way better, quicker and more intense orgasms than masturbating with my hands (and no hand cramps kek) but I definitely recommend not using them too often to avoid getting used to them. And make sure not to press them too hard against your clit or vulva or else it could cause blood vessels to pop. I've noticed different strengths between different types of satisfyers too. It can definitely be too strong for some, but also just letting them sort of "hover" over your clit helps (along with using the lower settings). Unfortunately bullets don't work for me. Maybe I just have a very small clit? It feels like nothing for me.
No. 282578
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anyone go through phases during the month where your orgasms are super weak and unsatisfying? Every once in a while I'll be horny but the orgasms feel like when you have a sneeze coming on but you don't wind up sneezing. Not a perfect comparison, since I'm definitely still "orgasming", but they're so weak and unsatisfying that it drives me insane. When I was younger I used to go at it for hours trying to get to an actually satisfying orgasm that would never come, but nowadays if the first orgasm is one of those weak ones, I force myself to stop so I don't wear myself out seeking the impossible. picrel is me when i'm in one of those phases.
Most of the time my orgasms are normal though, so that's why I feel like it must be cycle-related as opposed to the SSRI i'm taking.
No. 282625
>>282554The Pro was too weak for me (however I already don't have much sensation there anyway, no it's not from previous toy/masturbation use either), I'd be willing to try a stronger one instead, but I'm super bummed out how "one of the best" vibrators felt like weak buzzing even on the highest setting.
>>282578Have you had good orgasms while on the SSRI? That could be why, besides hormones. SSRIs can either cause anorgasmia or weak ones.
No. 283981
>>283979That's actually pretty impressive and I'm kinda jelly
>>283949It's lower if you're not turned on.
No. 283997
>>283986It was better honestly. It lasted longer and it felt more intense.
In terms of sensitivity, I myself always thought I had none. When I touch my nipples I feel nothing and it takes a lot to get them hard. I just touched them non-stop for like 15 minutes and I eventually got there. It's hard to explain, my breasts didn't actually feel good or sensitive but touching them made me feel good and warm down there. I found that you really have to touch both at the same time. I was also super horny so yeah.
No. 285137
>>284943I watched (regular) porn from a similar age. I would try to stop but I found I couldn't picture anything in my head. I started to think I legit have aphantasia. A total in ability to create images in my mind. Zilch. I got stuck in a loop of trying and failing because I'd give in and end up having to look at a visual in front of me to get off.
I don't know how many times that same cycle repeated but I broke it. Turned out I just needed hella practice to engage that part of my brain again.
No. 285166
>>284943Try listening to Japanese R18 erotic audio for women, it's what cured my need for porn to get off
>>285134It's the opposite for me. Cumming before peeing is great, but peeing afterwards is like torture and feels like my bladder is going to explode.
No. 285178
>>285171Soundcloud used to have a big community of people that would straight up upload the full audio, but there was a mass purge of pirated copyrighted content last year.
For me, though, just listening to the NSFW samples on DLsite (where the majority of those audios are sold) was more than enough.
No. 285194
>>284943Tbh I've never managed to masturbate with my imagination alone, maybe it's because I'm a virgin but thinking about sex doesn't do anything, I need some visual stimulation to
trigger arousal. It's not due to addiction, I saw porn for the first time at like 19 and I never even liked it, nowadays I just use hentai of my husbandos to get off barely 5 times a month. I think without drawn porn my libido would be completely dead.
No. 286008
>>286006Nta but I have never found any good lesbian japanese audio. It's all scrotey shite, schoolgirls and squeals.
Give me a woman that sounds like Balalaika from Black Lagoon please.
No. 289787
>>288567>>286286honestly for me, penetration/using a dildo absolutely sucks if I'm not adequately turned on. I don't mean just physically wet, it's still gonna suck if I'm wet. I mean I have be to be completely psychologically turned on. I like to fantasise/touch my clit but wait a while to bust out the dildo, only once I'm really turned on, almost craving it? like at the point I'm almost aching for it, then and only then does it feel good. it's like my nerve endings inside my vag need time to 'switch on' and that only comes with being super turned on psychologically. if I'm not then it literally just feels like a foreign object inside of me that is at best boring and at worst uncomfortable.
>>288567>I wonder if men think women enjoy it because they have a prostate and we don't?I think men are just generally retarded about what women like and don't particularly care to take the time to learn. women need way more time to 'warm up' before a dick (or a dildo) is introduced, far longer than most men are willing to wait. men are often clueless about how much penetration can suck at the best of times, but especially when a woman isn't even adequately turned on enough for it, porn lied to them too.
No. 289998
>>289787>honestly for me, penetration/using a dildo absolutely sucks if I'm not adequately turned on. I don't mean just physically wet, it's still gonna suck if I'm wet. I mean I have be to be completely psychologically turned on. I like to fantasise/touch my clit but wait a while to bust out the dildo, only once I'm really turned on, almost craving it? like at the point I'm almost aching for it, then and only then does it feel good. it's like my nerve endings inside my vag need time to 'switch on' and that only comes with being super turned on psychologically. if I'm not then it literally just feels like a foreign object inside of me that is at best boring and at worst uncomfortable.Same,
nonny. Using a dildo does nothing for me unless I "crave" penetration.
No. 290011
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I need to know if anyone else masturbates like this lol, it's something I've done since I first started (before I saw how it's "usually done"), you have to be on your stomach and hook one finger into the right lip and keep nudging it so both your finger and the lip are stimulating the clit, I included an illustration because I know I probably described it terribly, its not entirely accurate because youd be on your stomach and also I cant draw but hopefully it helps
No. 290044
>>290011I think I get what you're talking about? my clit has always been way too sensitive to touch directly so I kind of have to rub through one of the inner lips, usually on my stomach, but side can work too.
Not sure how normal that is though. I really don't like clit stimulation by itself, it hurts too quickly and too easily, even receiving oral is too painful.
No. 296904
>>296282Sex and no masturbation helps me feel more satisfied during sex because we're focused on making me orgasm before him. My clit is more sensitive when I don't masturbate and I can grind on him in some way while inside him and I'm able to orgasm like that. It's also easier for me to get wet when I don't masturbate when I'm horny and save it for him. If I masturbate a day before we have sex, sometimes it just leads to me trying to touch myself while he watches and I get "almost" orgasm but then I'm numb and just finish by having him cum.
My boyfriend recently stopped masturbating for a week and our weekend was filled with us having sex multiple times throughout the days. He's also faster to orgasm when he preserves any outlet for horny to sex.
No. 298786
>>298769TA and honestly to me it’s a
very good substitute. Definitely use lube with it if you don’t get super wet naturally, but I absolutely love the rotating nub as opposed to the dumb fake tongue ones I have tried. Like I said I waited for a sale to buy it but it is legit the only toy I use really anymore!! (Except for when I’m ovulating and like to use a dildo along with it). They just sent me an email for their Black Friday sale and I’m so tempted to grab the new g-spot stimulator + clit sucker or maybe their remote control egg.
No. 299234
>>299229Don't get them on AliExpress, there are zero regulation there and you don't want to put something
toxic near your pussy. There are some cheap vibrators from safe brands, I don't have any names to drop rn but you can easily find them by googling.
No. 299318
>>299244>slopatron3000kek
I've been taking the same medication (100mg) for almost a year now and it has had absolutely zero effect on my lubrication, I still get crazy wet. everyone is different obviously but yeah for me it's not been an issue at all. good luck nona, I hope it helps your acne!
No. 300894
>>205371I hate bringing up old stuff but I do this. I can only orgasm through this. I cant achieve orgasm any other way (clit or penetration) and its so embarrassing bc to get myself to cum I have to cross my legs.
I need help bc I dont know what the fuck im doing wrong i just want to orgasm in a “normal” way. how do i even explain this to partners
No. 302334
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Does anyone wanna rec me a new vibe?
I can't handle penetration and I've never been able to get off any other way.
Because of the scaramouche news I have been unbearably horny lately and want something new/keep running out of batteries/clean toys.
I have:
satisfyer 2 - my favorite but the vibration can be a lil overstimulating. I wish it was rougher on the suction.
Satisfyer 1 - God tier. I dropped it off my bed because I came too hard so now it's kinda rough, but also the battery life is shit now so that's painful.
Satisfyer penguin - ok. It's cute at least.
satisfyer 3 - it's not terrible but idk it's really awkward to handle? It feels so big and bulbous I feel like it can't really suck correctly. It gives me hand cramps and slips around. I have really small hands I guess.
Thus concludes my reviews/plea for help.
I bought all of these bc of LC btw thanks for the recs previously they've been really good.
No. 302451
>>302395For me when this happens it's one of two things
1. Vibrator settings too high, overstimulated
2. Masterbated too much and pussy has become numb/sore
in which case just go slower/gentler or take a break and a cold shower and try again in a couple days
It's really annoying though because usually by the time I realize it's going to be disappointing it's too late
No. 302527
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>>302334we probably don't have the same tastes because suction vibes do nothing for me, but i personally like this bullet vibrator from je joue. I find that it doesn't make me over sensitive and have more of a rumbling sensation rather than the buzzy sensation that makes you numb. I know it says g-spot but i personally only use it externally.
https://www.jejoue.com/collections/g-spot-vibrators/products/g-spot-bullet-vibrator No. 302660
>>302640I get off on that thought alone.
My country is constantly soaked so it doesn’t matter.
No. 302720
>>302527I've never tried anything but suction, but maybe it would be good to shake things up. It's good to know it works well externally. I like the more rumbly feeling too.
Thanks!
No. 303766
>>303746That sounds like something I did. When I was a teenager, I didn't really "get" how to masturbate (I do now that I have a vibrator), but holding in a pee some time felt kind of good. (I'm not into pee type kink stuff IRL though, but I did like it in fiction or doing it by myself, kek)
I don't do it anymore though, but it might be a trained habit since sometimes while masturbating with an empty bladder I have to stop to take a pee break? Unless there's another gynecological explanation for that.
No. 304453
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>>304434>I think I’m an extremely hyper sexual person because when I go through a manic phase I am masturbating at least 4 times a day and literally constantly thinking about sex.Same, though I don't know whether I'm manic. I don't necessarily masturbate often, I can go months without. Then suddenly go through weeks of masturbating everyday for 2-3 hours until it almost starts to hurt.
>I basically smell like pussy juice all day. It’s especially bad towards the end of the day when it starts to “ferment”. I don’t know if nonnies here have any advice.Have you considered washing after every session? I just use a washcloth if I don't have the time for a full shower. You should also probably change your underwear every time, if you're not doing that already.
No. 304916
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Nonnas, the battery in my cheap wand vibrator has died and I need to replace it. What's your favorite model on the market? Mains powered or rechargable? Must-have features? I wanna invest in a more expensive one but I want to make sure I'm getting what I want.
No. 305843
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>>304916It's a bullet, not a wand, but this is the best vibrator I've ever used(and I've bought many) and I will recommend it to the day I die
from masturbating too much No. 307468
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Has anyone used this heart glass dildo before?
I'm curious if it's worth getting or if it's just aesthetic and I should get a more curve glass dildo instead.
No. 307486
>>307468It’s just aesthetic. As
>>307476 said the glass is just weird and it hurts in certain positions
No. 309546
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samefagging because while I'm here I wanted to know if anynonny has opinions on these- store near me has a "one time use" version because the real ones are a bit pricey and I was wondering if it was worth it…
No. 309562
>>309546i got the smaller/cheaper version of the satisfyer and i honestly regret it. it was kind of a waste of money. its definitely not the same kind of stimulation as more standard vibes; it took a longer time for it to start feeling good, and to me it felt more like i was edging myself? it was also a pain in the ass trying to position it correctly so it actually felt good, although iirc this isnt so much an issue with the standard size ones.
lots of women swear by these though so take this with a grain of salt, its just my personal experience.
oh and also it refuses to hold a charge for some reason so to me its basically worthless
No. 309564
>>309546Some women rave about suction toys and others find the sensation strange. If its a cheap throwaway version tho you've not much to lose by trying it.
A while back they were being discussed itt and it was brought up that hygiene wise the luxury ones don't make sense. Stuff (fluid, skin cells) gets sucked into the toy and has no way out. You can't deep clean them without breaking them to get in there. I think cheapo throwaway ones are a better idea til they figure out a way for these to be fully sanitized.
No. 309887
>>309546I'm
>>302334 and I swear by mine still. If you have interest, go for the cheap one since as other anons have supplied, they don't work for everyone. I get the impression it's a love it or hate it kinda deal.
If you don't like or can't handle penetration though they're really worth it. If you get overstimulated easily maybe don't get them.
No. 310390
>>310355yes during sleep! they wake me up most of the time because of the intensity too, even though i'd like to continue the dream from that point kek
>>310369i'm the same exact way!! i had no idea it was a thing. i wonder if it's something related to the mind? i know humping provides some clitoral stimulation but it's never seemed enough to make sense of the intense orgasms
No. 310399
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autosage for newfag
I was always curious about those extra large dildos and ordered one off adam and eve since they had a sale. I think it was their size queen one that's 6 in. I finally tried it and it felt super off and unsatisfying. The 'soft' feature made it even weirder + the overall shape was too straight and had 0 curves. Maybe it's because I'm used to glass dildos that are smaller with curves / ridges but might just be my first and last "realistic" dildo
picrel
No. 310435
>>309546tldr: I'm glad I tried it but equally glad it's one time use.
did end up coming on the highest setting and it did feel more intense than usual but still numb afterwards and not in a pleasant way. very interesting though and was worth a shot.
No. 310447
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>>310390AYRT, I'm not quite sure but I have a theory: orgasming in your sleep is probably caused by muscle contractions rather than friction or direct clit stimulation right? I think the same is happening with humping: rocking back and forth using your abs and glutes stimulates your clit on a deep level, hence why some of us orgasm while rope climbing/working out quads etc… Of course rubbing your clit against whatever you're humping helps get you off tho so it's not 100% from muscle contraction unlike when you're asleep so that's why it feels kind of the same but not as intense.
No. 310462
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Am I crazy or is there this unspoken but sort of recognized orgasm that involves the urethra and not the clit or the vagina. Or is it related to the internal clit muscles? A combination of things? I first felt it while I was holding in my pee with my hands at age like 7 (I guess I saw cartoon characters doing it so I did it while walking to the bathroom). It's similar to the sensation after taking a nice piss, or maybe I get that because of the aforementioned experience. Does this then mean women experience three orgasm types? Clit, internal/vaginal, and urethral? Am I just retarded?
No I'm not just rubbing my clit incidentally, my clit isn't that big, and rubbing my clit feels way different/more intense/region-bound to the clit.
Please answer if you can.
No. 310507
>>307468oh i have this! unlike the other anons itt i actually like it, but admittedly it was my first and only glass toy so maybe that's why I like it. i agree with other anons that the bumps don't do much. its good for
anal if that's something you're into, but it works well just in general imo and i bought it on sale so i thought it was pretty good value
No. 310516
>>310477Yes! The urethral orgasms are much better with a little bit-moderate amount of pee waiting. The abdomen aches if there's a lot of pee but it can be good. Then peeing afterwards is also orgasmic.
>>310503Damn you can clench and stop?
No. 315032
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lately my inner thigh muscles are so sore and I think it's a combination of doing physical labor at my job and (mostly) masturbating too much almost every night. My big issue is that i'm one of those people who can have infinite orgasms, the only stopping point for me is being too exhausted to continue, which basically means I go until complete physical exhaustion every time. And despite having like 12 orgasms a night I am never quite satisfied at the end because there's always another around the corner, leading me into the same pattern every night (mostly around ovulation fml). I am desperately fighting the urge to indulge tonight because if I do, I doubt I'll be able to lift stuff at work tomorrow. Does anyone else have this problem and how did you deal with it?
No. 315065
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>>310337The only orgasm I've ever managed to have was in my sleep, and even then I'm just guessing it was an orgasm because of the intensity of the feeling. I wasn't even having a sex dream, it just kind of happened. I wish I knew what caused it because nothing else works. Toys are painful and uncomfortable or boring with no in-between, masturbation does nothing for me, I've never had a partner that could manage it.
No. 315359
>>315318…can't you manually control the intensity of the water flow by the amount that's actually coming out of the faucet? or is this a case where a lower setting isn't enough to stimulate you?
either way, why not just get a vibrator, nonna?
No. 315500
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I have pretty good pelvic floor and abs control and I was always able to make myself feel a bit good just like that. I trained a bit and I now can make myself almost edge and moan without using my thigh muscles. Does any nonna are able to cum from it ? I know some people can achieve it from their thighs alone, but I find it super difficult.
I want to be able to do it hand free, it sound like black magic.
No. 315539
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>>315399Nta but I know what you mean about temp and flow being controlled together, and it sucks. I miss my old tub that had hot and cold knobs like this, I never should have moved
No. 315674
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I think it's working similar muscles to closed-leg methods but for me it's less about legs being closed and more about the legs bending back from the rest of me. Think sort of an upward facing dog yoga pose or anything that would stretch the pelvic area out, like laying on my back on a bed with legs hanging down, that sort of thing. picrel semi-accurate