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No. 377964[Reply]

Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction toward males it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread (check the catalog, they're usually not on the front page but I promise they exist!). Please ignore obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc rage bait as well. Remember that when we take the bait and infight the trannies win! If you suspect a poster is XY pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (use a VPN, incognito mode, be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).

Topics of discussion may include but are not limited to:
>first crush?
>what’s your local lesbian scene like?
>cute stories about your gf
>favourite lesbian media? lesbian media you hate?
>coming out stories
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
>bitch about being lonely
>tips for coping with being lonely
>butch? femme? how do you feel about labels?
>top? bottom? how do you feel about those labels?
>what's your type?
>when did you know you were gay?
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No. 391067

>>391053
Most successful relationships, even lesbian relationships, have some kind of power imbalance. Like, one makes more money or is more physically attractive or is more independent or more dominant in bed.

No. 391069

>>391067
? This is such a weird thing to assert. I mean statistically speaking, sure, no couple is ever going to be perfectly matched in every single attribute a human can have but I'm sure that's not what the ayrt was saying

No. 391121

>>390969
>>391034
Every now and then, this works out really well, but it also has the chance of going bad. While I’ve never been in this type of relationship, it has the same pros and cons as the straight version. There’s still a chance that the breadwinner might leave the housewife, and she’s completely fucked. It’s worse when it happens with lesbians in my area, cause these women often don’t have accepting families to go back to, so they end up in a shitty situation. But I’d be lying if I said it turns out bad like that every time, I know two women in a relationship like this, and they’ve been married for 10 years.

No. 391272

>>390641
I’m the person who originally posted that question. I’m also the person who likes the ftm. I watched the video I think last night I moved up more into a level 5-6 with her, but I can’t tell if she actually reciprocated or not.

No. 478198

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No. 170405[Reply]

This thread is for everyone who is struggling with pornography, sexual frustration, and masturbation addiction. Post sources and information or your personal experience on how to quit or lower your usage.

Antiporn thread (por a more serious discussion about pornography): >>>/g/159633
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No. 390832

I feel so fucking disgusting. Even though I had managed to not watch porn for a long time, I would still get off to fantasies of the most fucked up shit, like I deserve to be put in the electric chair type shit. Recently I relapsed pretty bad. Fuck. Even though I haven't looked at any of the pictures I have saved in like a year, they're still there, I'm still hesitant to delete. But I'm fucking sick of this I feel so gross I'm getting rid of all this shit. Is there a way to reset my brain? I've been like this for so long. Why am I so fucked up.

No. 437395

My issue is lonliness I guess. I can't go a single day without watching anything. Most of the time I need it multiple times a day. I hate myself for it. I always tell myself I'll stop but I never seem to be able to pull through with it. I really yearn for intimacy with an actual person. Yet I hate the very idea of actually getting involved with someone. I hate myself, I feel ugly and undesirable even if moids tell me I'm pretty. I have no idea how to resolve this issue and I feel too ashamed to talk about it with my therapist or anyone I know. It's makes me feel as though I'm on the same level of a disgusting moid. I'm pathetic

No. 461966

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Yesterday I got ahold of my old laptop’s hard drive that I hadn’t used in years, and it had over 300gb of porn. What the fuck. I didn’t realize how bad it was at some point and it makes me feel so disgusting and depraved even if that was the old me. Needless to say, I’m here to say I lost all of my progress because I went on a porn binge after that. Sad and pathetic. I deleted all of the porn I could find on my laptop and hard drive after though.
I felt so disgusting after watching it, I don’t know why I did it. Monkey brain, I guess. I did it mindlessly, like a zombie and it has made me so paranoid, because I feel like everyone can tell. Post-nut clarity is a bitch and makes me feel suicidal, but also acts as a punishment and confirmation that deep down, my brain knows and understands how bad it is and that I must stop, because when I masturbate without watching porn, I don’t feel that terrible dread.

I remember reading this thread last year and it was what motivated me to stop watching porn, as far as advice goes, some nonny mentioned de-escalation steps and to use vanilla porn as a stepping stone and it really worked because I went from watching and only being able to get off on violent shit to girls kissing naked. I’d still rather not watch either though. This was my second relapse since, and I hope the last one. I deleted everything.

I don't know what will happen, but I'll try my best to never watch that disgusting shit ever again and I made it my New Year's resolution. I'm posting this to hold myself accountable, as I tend to take things more seriously when I know someone else could read it. I want to be normal so bad.

No. 475458

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Can the effects of pornography ever fully leave your mind? Like many others, I was exposed to it at a very young age. By my late teens, I decided to quit cold turkey because of ethical reasons. For years, I stayed away from it. However, a few years ago, I started watching again. It was mostly driven by self-hatred and/or as a cause of being an unfaithful relationship. Watching porn was mostly to compare myself to the women in those videos, and try to imitate their on-screen mannerisms irl, like some weird, one-sided competition between us.
Despite having quit for years, my thoughts and actions were still shaped by it. Like watching or not watching doesn't matter, and I am still going to be stuck thinking and behaving like some deranged porn-addicted moid regardless. This year, I'm committed to quitting again, for good. I was able to go a few months without it last year, but this time I want to make it last much longer. I've made an active effort of being aware of what my "triggers" are, and thus avoiding them. I've also decided to stop masturbating, since it became compulsive, and it only frustrates me even more. It's annoying to see myself trapped in this cycle, because I am fully aware of how exploitative harmful the porn industry is. Feel like I am quite the hypocrite.
After writing this I read the medium article some nonas linked above, and it was just what I needed. Fairly motivated now.
https://medium.com/@kittyit/taking-back-your-mind-a-radical-feminist-approach-to-recovering-from-porn-use-8ae9347c3d8f

No. 476474

I feel like I'm watching myself and my porn compulsions drag me back into extreme hardcore porn. I really want to take control of my life and stop… again. I hate how the cycle of addiction works and you're always starting or stopping, or maintaining, but that's where I am right now. Starting again. I like masturbating, but my experiences of doing it with and without porn are worlds apart. I think I keep tripping up on the 'why' of masturbating - am I doing it because I want to feel good, or because I want to orgasm? I can recongise that, when it's the latter, I immediately start looking at porn. It's funny because without porn I have a really high libedo, but with porn all I have is empty compulsion.

>>475458
We're the same. I was off porn for a really long time after being exposed to it while very young, and having always gone back to it out of curiousity/horniness/loneliness/etc. Self-hatred is a big part of the compulsion for me, and that article makes a really good point about how political awareness isn't a direct fix - a lot of guilt I've felt around this is became I'm so politically aware of how horrible the porn industry is on every level. I feel like this guilt intermingles with the self-harming impulse that comes with watching porn, and suddenly I'm right back in the spiral. Good luck to you, nona.



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No. 85316[Reply]

Do any of you guys have any tips for how to deal with insecurity?

Share ways to cope with body dysmorphia, general insecurities about appearance, or about anything.
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No. 374297

>>374295
>>322043
doesnt work btw

id add a picture of i am a girlboss i am a war criminal anime character but idk if i have that image

No. 374342

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>>374297
here you go nona

No. 389989

here's some milk Abt me ig I'm struggling with everything Abt me. I have anorexia and weigh little but I still see myself as fat. what do I do?

No. 389993

>>389989
>milk
>Abt

No. 390064

>>389989
Sign yourself up to an outpatient program at a clinic for eating disorders before you get worse or hurt yourself. Do what they say. You have other problems or stressors that are manifesting as an eating disorder, only you can find out what those things are and address them. The anorexia is giving you a false sense of control because you lack control is some other important area of your life, but making yourself thinner will never make you happy because it is merely a symptom of a larger problem.



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No. 385442[Reply]

This is a thread for stay at home wives to discuss the stay at home life and related topics.(OP is a bait poster)
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No. 389931

>>389921
Her Nigel is a unicorn nonny he would never pull any moid antics. Sorry to those other women who get mistreated by scrotes but she’s different

No. 389957

The idea of being a stay at home wife is scary, but I think if I ever have kids it's going to be a (temporary) inevitability. My main fear is that if I stay home to raise my hypothetical kids then the blank space in my CV is going to severely reduce my chances of being independent later in life. My mum was a stay at home mum through most of my life and I think she really lucked out by getting a job and becoming a manager after my youngest sister was in her early teens

No. 389962

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>>389916
also nta but same

No. 389981

>>389904
In my case Nigel has a really good job. If it was the other way around he would be the stay at home parent although honestly, he doesn't read the baby's cues nearly as well as I do so I would be a little worried. There's just something about scrotes and babies.. even when it's their kid, bonding almost always seems harder for them than it is for mothers.

No. 390028

>>389900
I know you're going to get shit on for this but we have a similar situation. We have a decent house, okay neighborhood, not a great city for sure, but neither of us are exceptional anyway. Life for the average person is a constant climb. Also most cases where there's enough stability people are late 20s or 30s but what's stopping a single woman from getting a bachelor's degree while staying at home initially?



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No. 108748[Reply]

I have a question regarding IUDs. I've been on the pill since early 2017 and I get pretty bad side effects. My breasts swell up (they become REALLY painful) and I get extremely nauseous. I haven't been off the pill since 2017 and the symptoms haven't disappeared. I'm honestly sick of it and decided to get an IUD. Have any of you had experiences with IUDs? I am not sure whether to get the hormonal or non-hormonal one. I absolutely hate and almost can't stand the side effects of hormonal birth control, but I get very painful periods and I heard that the copper IUD makes them 10x worse. ;-;
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No. 372298

First time on birth control. I have endo. I’m on my second month and suddenly got a pain that genuinely felt like kidney stones. It was my entire uterus lining plopping down on the floor. Decidual cast. As big as my palm. I’ve never been that scared in my life.

Do I stop taking this birth control? I’m on it to not bleed and not be in pain. Right now I’m bleeding and in pain so what’s the point?

No. 389453

So is no bleeding at all on the pill normal? I've been on it for many years and I never have bleeding even on the sugar pill days. Is this normal? As a teen I had a heavy period.

No. 389475

>>389453
Please see a gyno, not having a period of might cause endometrial hyperplasia/thickening which is a serious risk factor for malignancies.

No. 389487

>>389475
Nta but I genuinly didn't know this, when I described this to the gyno they said whatever or looked concerned but never told me outright

No. 389533

>>389475
I'll see my gyno again but I remember last time I saw her she didnt care, neither did my gp they said its fine. I am meant to be on the pill because I lost an ovary so the pill helps 'protect'the other ovary. I don't know what my options are..



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No. 258211[Reply]

He’s so hot and many others agree here we shall discuss how cute he is and our beloved himbo.
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No. 389174

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throw back thursday

No. 389228

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A few months ago I had a dream that I was in a European villa with Brendan during covid (but he was younger). I was making tea and comforting him. It was warm, and the breeze came through the open windows. I could hear children playing below.
I ended up on the couch with him, and as dreams cut unexpectedly, I was sitting on his lap. He was saying such sweet things and I brushed the hair out of his face. He kissed me so passionately that when I woke from the dream I felt dizzy and my cheeks were warm. It was so intimate. I keep thinking about it months later… the way he held me and kissed my forehead… wowowowow

No. 389232

>>389228
did it feel as realistic as real life?

No. 389280

>>389232
Yes, and I was dazed for a few days. I wonder if it was some astral projection/lucid dreaming, how lucky would that be!



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No. 58349[Reply]

What medicine are you on farmers? Is it for mental health? physical health? How are you dealing with the side effects?

I just got put on bupropion, it's been really helpful for both my depression and body dysmorphia, but I've been getting horrid headaches.
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No. 385046

>>385014
I've only been on Seroquil before abilify years ago and it turned me into a zombie, I was on it very briefly. I'd rather stick at a low or half dosage of an antipsychotic if it's helping at all. I still have some akathisia symptoms but they're not unmanageable at 2.5mg, maybe we can lower to 2. I was on a "cocktail" of Buspirone and Lamictal once upon a time, but I lost my insurance and had to stop taking my meds for 2 years. Going without meds isn't exactly viable for me. Without them I went bonkers and fell into self harm and addiction the worst I had in ages. When I fell ill as a result of taking Lamictal/lamotrigane two months after I restarted, I was heartbroken. It worked for me otherwise with fairly minimal side effects, hence why I took it in the first place.

I'm afraid to go back on lamotrigane after my reaction at a lower dosage, and so is my doctor. I'm going to tell her I'd rather just stay on a half dosage abilify and try adding a support drug. I hope she understands. She'll understand in the very least that I can't afford caplyta when I tell her it's $400+ and not covered kek. Thank you for your advice!

No. 385057

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>>385046
Samefag, turns out caplyta may be covered or my doctors request to exception it was approved. the manufacturer who produces its discount card and my insurance company were part of a massive hack. So nobody can apply any discounts or see approvals at my pharmacy and the doctors office can't see much either because the companies are cleaning up the fallout.

doctor's office will give me some samples for a few weeks for free. if all else fails I'm going back to my original plan of support drug and cocktail. This really isn't the doctors or the pharmacies fault, it's shit luck piled on top of shit luck

I hate America

No. 385600

It's been years since I took abilify, but has anyone else had the side effect of it giving you a walking limp? It worked pretty well for me dealing with a panic disorder, but that one side effect pretty much had me turbo kick my therapy in the ass because I couldn't have the medication for very long. Coworkers thought I had been in a bad car crash lmao.

No. 385603

>>385600
It hurt my legs and my muscles in general yes except most of my pain is/was centralized around me having my wrists cramp up worst of all, and I'd constantly be cracking my joints

No. 389027

>lamotrigane worked for years, stopped taking, restart, works swimmingly for 7 weeks then almost chokes me to death when tiering up dosage
>abilify akathisia nightmare, hopping on the bad decisions train, extremo mania and spergy pacing
>caplyta farts, burps and gerd oh my, followed by crippling return of the crying attacks and cold shivers
>buspirone used to work few years ago, restart, also gives me severe gastro hangups and renders me insomniac for a week

oh nonnies my nonnies will psych meds ever work for me again or is my body now too autistic to handle big papi pharma



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No. 351146[Reply]

So, as we know, men are very malleable creatures that can be trained to obey your will, be it with positive reaffirmation, healthy doses of manipulation, or other means. Share your tips on how to train the men of your life here. (not just your boyfriend or husband!)
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No. 388302

>>388237
No joke. This is sad. Nonas need to read 'What Men Don't Want Women To Know' by Smith and Doe and open their eyes to why doing all this is so useless. You can never truly train a moid. It'll work for a bit until it won't anymore. Love you nonas and want you guys to save yourselves. It's not worth it

No. 388314

>>388248
Yeah dumbest suggestion I've ever read on this site. My pussy is all natural and my nigel begs me every day to eat me out while I hardly ever reciprocate

No. 388430

>>376173
they should rename this thread to "How to train your pickme". all this effort only to still get dumped for a more attractive younger woman who doesn't do any of this.(then leave, stop baiting)

No. 388489

>>388430
KEK mods call this bait but not the anon putting herbs and spices in her coochie

No. 388561

>>388430
are all mods here cockloving whores or men?(ban evasion)



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No. 114987[Reply]

Do it! Positive-self affirmation thread.
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No. 387879

I can make a mean tablecloth

No. 387886

I have cool and very detailed dreams.

No. 388257

i can move my lower left eyelid sideways

No. 388265

I have fun hobbies and appreciate the smaller things

No. 388275

My art may not technically be that good but my concepts are really interesting (I’ve heard)



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No. 369372[Reply]

A thread for discussing hair care, hair problems, hair styles, and hair product recommendations.

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No. 370251

>>370239
A protein treatment is the way to go. I experience my hair feeling like that sometimes and using one fixes it. I personally like aphogee products. if you are looking to buy one.

No. 370281

>>370239
Try switching up your conditioners, definitely do a protein treatment, and see if conditioning your hair less often helps at all.

No. 370318

>>370281
nta but I'm wondering what to use instead of conditioner on those days. My hair gets so frizzy when I don't use it. Just hair oil on the ends instead?

No. 387128

How do you protect your hair at night so it’s not a complete rats nest in the morning? My hair is pretty curly (2b/c?) and every time I wake up it’s such a rats nest it’s like impossible to be able to just style it from there, I have to wash it. I’ve tried braiding it, using silk bonnets and I have a silk pillowcase but nothing seems to help. I’ve always been told not to wash your hair every day but i can’t not because of the state of my hair in the mornings. I feel like it’s a lost cause atp

No. 387552

>>387128
Hey nonnie, I think you want to look up how a curly "refresh" works like. I have very weak curls and they fade into a wavy mess but if your hair is more curly



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