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This thread passes the Bechdel Test. Do not mention the opposite sex in any context.
If you need to vent about febfem, polilez, horrendous experiences with bisexual women, go to this thread
>>>/2X/17680Please keep posts focused on women and female homosexuality! If you want to talk about attraction towards the opposite gender it probably belongs in the bisexuality thread or questioning thread (check the catalog). Please ignore obvious bihet/troon/tradthot/fujo/etc ragebait as well. Remember that when we take the bait and infight, the trannies win! If you suspect a poster is XY, pls report and ignore instead of shitting up the entire thread with accusations. Newfags pls lurk and read the site rules before posting, and be careful to stay safe and anonymous (be wary of external links/discords, and be very cautious about the personal details you include in your posts).
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Controversial opinion on lolcow, but I like strongfat women. I'm not talking roidpig or deathfat, I just like when it's obvious that she's very muscular, but she still has belly/thigh fat instead of abs. The hammerthrow woman in picrel is close to what I'm talking about.
No. 437958
>>437896Rip. Since she's a TIF she probably gets a kick out of you "chasing her" and making her feel like she's higher on the social ladder. Sorry anon, if she won't even talk to you she's a lost cause already.
>>437701She has to be smart, witty, and reasonably in shape or willing to work out with me. Being slightly internet poisoned tumblr- or imageboard-style is a plus. Also has to have a compatible music taste, hobbies, and a job. I'm not too picky about physical traits tbh, women are attractive in so many varied ways. She does have to be taller than 5'2" though.
>>437880Ooh, I check almost all your boxes. Would you say D cups are big?
No. 438004
>go on a date with an amazing girl but she's not over her ex, icanstillmakethiswork.jpg>>434887 happens
>that woman is her new girlfriendI want to kill people
No. 438089
>>437701I don’t really like makeup but self-expression can be attractive, otherwise the most I can usually take is like, eyeliner with nothing else. Slender figures are the most beautiful to me, on masculine or feminine women. Will probably get shat on for this but I love prominent collarbones, jawlines and hipbones, they’re appealing sensually and I just want to kiss them. Lithe shortish-haired women in a suit with no shirt underneath or an unbuttoned blouse is one of my biggest turn ons, or delicate women in turtlenecks or pretty dresses/skirts. But I do like softness too (much more than muscle). What else? I love pretty fingers especially if they wear rings, and I prefer dark eyes (especially if they’re large) so much it’s like 50% of whether or not I’ll like someone kek. I also prefer people who are healthy, healthy skin is very attractive. Personality-wise? I must have someone who embraces both masculine and feminine aspects of their personality, like one anon I saw mention some time ago. I do tend to prefer nerdy or tomboyish alternative women, or quiet creative women, or weird women. And someone I can have a deep conversation with. + think I’m attracted to rude personalities kek. Height doesn’t matter.
No. 438140
>>438124I relate a lot to this
>When I imagine myself with other women it never feels realistic because no women would look at me like that, would enjoy my presence and company, would want to feel my skin against hers. It leaves me frustrated, it's true that you can't even be happy in your own dreams. But in a way, I’m sort of like your opposite when it comes to this
>what makes me feel this way was more than just not being able to find a dateFor me, I was really comfortable in my ugly skin, I had come to terms with it and wasn’t that bothered, all the way up until I really fell for someone for the first time. Only after I had experienced what love and burning attraction felt like did my ugliness really start to make me depressed and suicidal because it sunk in that no one would ever feel that way about me. I’d never get to experience being mutually in love. After experiencing intense love, everything else feels dull and uninteresting by comparison.
My biggest issue though is that I can’t make friends because I get too painfully jealous of other people for going on dates or having relationships. All the talk about love lives makes me want to die, I get physically nauseated and extremely angry at the universe. It brings me so much pain that being alone 24/7 and never having friends is less painful than being reminded all the time of the normal life experiences I’ll never get to have. I spend almost all of my free time sleeping. At least sometimes I have dreams about cuddling my crush where I feel so happy and warm and unaware of the impossibility of the situation. I honestly live for those dreams.
No. 438209
>>438140>My biggest issue though is that I can’t make friends because I get too painfully jealous of other people for going on dates or having relationships. All the talk about love lives makes me want to die, I get physically nauseated and extremely angry at the universe.Another anon, and I feel this so much and I hate it about myself. I hate that I can't share my friends' happiest life experiences of finding love, getting engaged, getting married etc. because I'm too envious of what they have. I'm not ugly myself (I think), but I'm extremely emotionally damaged, have body dysmorphia and I'm unable to heal. From the already miniscule dating pool no woman my age wants to have someone who dissociates when touched and has practically no love language due to trauma I'm not going to get further into here or has the patience with me as I attempt to work through my issues. When I think about how I will keep coming to an empty home for the rest of my life I genuinely feel like roping, but I've buried myself in work and hobbies to have some semblance of purpose.
>At least sometimes I have dreams about cuddling my crush where I feel so happy and warm and unaware of the impossibility of the situation. I honestly live for those dreams.I have those dreams too and I love them. At least I can be confident and loving and feel loved in my dream form.
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I'm so fucking embarrassed. The cute girl at the gay bar asked me what my favorite Girl in Red song was, but I don't listen to that stuff, so my drunk ass asked if she likes Gangman Style. She and her friends looked at me like picrel, I will never recover from this fumble
No. 438309
>>438031I don't want to go too into detail, but she was just so funny, charming and beautiful. She has such an interesting life I wanted to get into so badly, but of course, I'd never be her type.
Really, I'm nobody's type. Never in my life has any woman been infatuated with me or wanted to court me, so it just makes me seem like a creep whenever I'm really into a woman. I was nervous and really awkward and too giggly and stuttery. The woman she's with now could be a supermodel and she flies her out to different countries and she's totally more normie than me. She's sensible, resourceful, responsible but fun and adventurous. She's just about everything I could want. She had a few things that made her imperfect, so I'm trying to focus on those to make myself feel better.
No. 438326
On this discussion, tbh being a lesbian has made me appreciate myself better. I used to be insecure but these days I look at myself and realise I’d find attributes of myself attractive if they were on other people.
>>438197On the contrary, I hope for it.