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Ask away, dummies.
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Which paint is better for a beginner painter: acrylic or watercolor?
kek cute threadpic>>1416420
acrylics are easier to control, and there's more room for mistakes since you can just paint over as many times as you'd like. but they're so different so if you want to be a watercolor artist then just do watercolors, because painting in acrylics wont get you to be good in watercolor and vice versa
Nta but everyone sucks at art/any craft when they first start out, you have go stick at doing it. With a good enough portfolio you can send it out to as many companies and you'll eventually get a junior position, obviously need to be polite and present as hard working etc. You can do UX design as it's the one you need least artistic talent for. And figma is still
free and pretty easy to use.
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Hi, nonnies, does anyone get weird eye pain and did you fix it in any way? I woke up with my eyes in extreme pain…feeling tense, pressured, dry and extremely strained–it's even obvious visually because they're a lot more sunken looking when they feel like this, with deep hollows.
I'm not even sure if it's allergies. It doesn't go away with Zyrtec.
Btw for >>1416469
no but we have an Sports team. Use the catalog tbh i would love to talk about the wc with another nonnie here
Tried, unfortunately, and didn't really find much in the small tests they ran besides some minor deficiencies that megadosing has barely corrected. And yeah; it is noticeable. In the past I've had people gasp in horror, ask me if I'm ok or need 911, go on about how ill I look. I just always assumed I am just built to be exhausted or something but I guess it's getting so unbearable, especially because the rare good days I have feel so amazing so I know things can be better.
I've lost, like, 7 pounds this month without trying and I'm losing a bit more hair than usual but idk, the eye thing has been going on for years.
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Where can I read "Miss don't touch me"? I need to know how it ends, or can anyone who has read it completely tell me how it ends? I need to know.
looks like the whole comic is up here: http://readallcomics.com/miss-dont-touch-me-the-complete-story-tpb/
the ending is quite sad tho, just a warning her mother steals all of her funds and the man she wants to marry is lobotomized for being gay. story ends with her alone and mourning losing both her mother and fiance.
ESL too but i always understood it as
if that makes sense
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Why do people hate Lore Olympus? I know there’s apparently a rape plot but whenever I try and read up on explanations I just get terribly online explanations.
samefag but I forgot to actually say how I would feel. tbh this is why I don't trust some of the banners in the banner thread, some of them seem extremely male-aligned so I don't really comment on them. If moids lurk the site, then obviously they lurk the drawing board and the synctube. There's no way around it.
I'm not saying it's okay for them to be there, but in some cases we literally won't ever know. I just hope that some of the really cute and cool ones were drawn by actual women.
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Where do I meet cute guys because I never see any. Extinct species.
I don't even want to date one just flirt with one maybe or hang out. My college's filled with neckbeard manlets.
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Is it an abuse victim response to feel like crying and insanely guilty when your SO hurts themself to the point where all you can do is nervously laugh and be a little scared? Or is that how it is for everyone
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My boyfriend is a chef and cooks 80% of the time, if not more. I was thinking about buying him an expensive kitchen appliance + a new cutting knife, but I am overthinking because it feels like an "our" gift and not just a him gift.
It benefits both of us, if that makes sense… and I feel absolutely selfish for it.
My question is, is it normal to gift that? or should I return it.
NTA but I thought you meant they purposefully hurt themself to make you feel guilty.
But if you mean something like they just stubbed their toe on something and they got hurt… I think feeling a little guilty for a few minutes is natural, but beyond that, I think that it sounds like some kind of a trauma response. Some guilt is normal, but with how you describe it, it sounds like a bit of a problem. It's something you can work through though.
Sure it's possible, but it depends on the person. If they have asks open, you could always ask them if they were open to talking on discord.
Also maybe this is dumb, but one ways I met a lot of people o could talk to was by hosting a stupid cards against humanity night for a fandom I was in, and I met people on discord for that. You could also start a discord fanclub for things you like or hobbies you have and invite people to join. Having a shared hobby makes it easier because you have something to talk about.
I feel like such a complete fucking idiot.
Is there any hope for me in this scenario? I sold an item to a buyer, and basically, I completely fucked up on their address, everything is correct, except I thought they lived in Spain, when in reality, it's a Californian city with the same name as a place in Spain, so, the shipping label is all correct for the Californian city, down to the zipcode for it, except I wrote Spain on the package. The tracking shows it indeed went to Spain, but the tracking stops there (back on the 12th)
Am I fucked? Will they realize the issue from the zip code listed on there, and return it to me/correctly send it to the buyer? I can't find a concrete answer online
I met a girl in the lolita tags back in 2011 on tumblr who happened to live in my town. we're still good friends to this day.
my two oldest friends were from a lemony snicket in '05 and they're both americans. e-friendships are dope and underrated imo
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any nonas here like the monster energy drinks? the white ones or blue ones?? please hel me. how do i quit them???
i was in a very stressful and got hooked on them. i know theyre terrible, but i started drinking them everyday for 0 reason. now i have a better job with nice people but i cant stop buying them. they are so fucking sweet and nothing compares to it. i dont care about the energy or the free sugar aspects at all! i only drank them cause they tasted very sweet and i love sweet things, thats it i tried coke zero and its not sweet compared to monsters at all… i want to quit these awful drinks but i dont know how, i need their sugar rush and i hate it!!!
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if youre at a red light behind a car and in front of another car, and the light is green but the car in front of you doesnt move, then the car behind you honks, do you assume the car is honking at you and get mad??
picrel you are the red car
Well, I was
rooting for Aubrey, but I can forget about that. It would be funny if Dolly did a surprise attack.
I love how men freak out any time some young pretty boy celeb/online figure gets alot of female attention. They default to claiming that women have bad taste and then throw a fit rather than.. actually working on their own appearance.
Straight guys think they not only get to decide what's attractive in a woman but they want to dictate what should be appealing in men too. And their idea of an attractive man is surprise.. being ungroomed and making the most minimal amount of effort. I'm older but I fully support young women who very vocally love the whole pretty boy thing. Because it drives old hairy scrotes mad. Bunch of babies
I think people, WOMEN, just want friends and slap a label on it because that’s easier than being foward towards a specific person about your feelings
After you hang out>I had a great time, let's do it more often!
and then be the one to initiate the meeting next time
I think it depends on what your "issue" is, is it too high, too low, too nasal or raspy etc…
The only truly bad voice I've ever heard was a female teacher of mine with a very high and very nasal voice. Sounded like nails on chalkboard, literally. 99% of voices are fine as long as you properly enunciate words properly and speak calmly.
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The only way for my mind to relax around people IRL (or in general) is by drinking. I want to stop 'socially drinking'. I am an extremely anxious person, really shy when it comes to talking (unless im drunk) and i overthink 24/7. I want to finally break this habit and start acting like a normal person instead of being a nervous wreck. Have nonnies dealt with this? I have some 'relaxing vitamins' but they don't do shit, working as nothing but placebo.
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who is this guy
Update: I took it to the vet, they said it’s probable kitten is not gonna make it. Gums are very white, anemic, internal body temperature very low, heart rate very slow, dehydrated, it has an ulcer on its tongue, making it painful to eat, lots of fleas that they say are sucking all its blood and cannot give it flea medicine bc afraid it’ll kill kitten too, no bloodwork bc of aforementioned. They give me something for its eyes, gave it some liquid for its dehydration subcutaneously, gave me some mineral/vitamin food supplement that is supposed to open it’s appetite, an antibiotic. I’ll take it back next week. I have it on a heating pad, going to give it some food now, and try to take off as many fleas off as I can later.
You are already doing more than most actual pet owners, anon don't feel bad for what you do.
I really hope the kitten will make it somehow. But whatever happens it's not your fault.
Thank you, I did not know that but I have not drank much water today. Maybe I'm being a little hypochondric today, I don't know.>>1418198
Thanks nonna, my blood pressure has always been low and I don't have other symptoms so it's probably something else. Maybe it is just that I haven't been living very healthy lately and have been depressed, going to look into it and see a doctor if I can't find a direct reason.
If it’s stuff like Ajax and brand names. It’s because of the southern United States and left over remnants from slavery and a lack of education. There’s a subset of African American people that name their children household brands and related because they can’t or don’t read well and claim white people took their culture so they’re trying to make their own.
I’m not sure what names you’re talking about.(global rule 7)
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Nothing to see here but a bowl of baby otters
Daqwan, Deionte, Minesha, Travon, A’leeyah, Canisha, Tae, Ja’nasia, Na’kayla, Dria, Derek, Dayen, Jazzeta, Shatara
not anymore i did in the past though, ive become rational and realized its all transactional and conditional.
I think if i saw someone who was my ideal partner in front of me a part of my brain would still try to purposefully sabotage me from getting too involved. I think its a part of me protecting myself since im very naïve and retarded when it comes to relationships so its made me a easy target for abusers.
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What are some good alternatives to the brands by Procter and Gamble for period pads? I just want to be able to buy affordable but soft period pads so I don't end with ass blisters every month, but I also don't want to support Always.
>>1418307>Someone tell me what type of person i am.
Or just avoidant.
Hoping I don't come across as a total dumbass for these, but sure!>"Fitter Faster" by Robert J. Davis I don't even do the exercises in the book kek, the rest of it just really motivated me for some reason>"The Bodywise Woman" from The Melpomene Institute
It's all about research into the relationship between women's health and physical activity. It's from 1990, but I really enjoyed it because there's no troon pandering and it was pretty groundbreaking for its time. >"Walk Your Way to Better Health" by Michelle Stanten
I was already obsessed with walking before I read that one, so it didn't really motivate me. It did help me increase my speed, though.
they will constantly ask for reassurance. say it's just because they missed you. but it's because they need you. then you start to feel pressure from their need, and it slowly kills your relationship, which they quickly notice but become too self-destructive to prevent. they may or may not be emotionally abusive
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Does anyone have that pic of Adam’s face in Eve’s crotch? I think it was intended to show Adam prostrating/worshiping to Eve, but ended up looking like Adam was eating out Eve. Anons suggested that it be the next femdom thread OP pic
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Tea nonnies, please recommend me your favorite sites to buy tea from!
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Is a homemade mouthwash with water and baking soda safe or effective? (I don't have essential oils so I won't be using them)
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Black or silver? The band can be changed
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I saw you cheeky nonnie who didn't understand the question was for a website and not for a flavour
Harney and sons
Dollar tea club
i've been doing >>1418735
and clenching my teeth since i was a child and it doesn't do shit
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So should i make a tiktok? ive been social media free for all my teens and being a neet with no friends im thinking i have a higher chance if making a friend on tiktok. is it possible and easy?
>yes i don like tiktok types (i find the app cringy)
>idk what to post
>lonely as hecc but desperate as well
Data mining >>1419164
You should not, I deleted it and haven’t looked back I would sit there for hours scrolling.
it's like twitter but everyone can make their own instance of twitter that you can join, I think>>1419164
You don't sound in a good place to interact with social media especially something very evocative like tiktok.
Yoga, bodyweight exercise, hiking, free ebooks/library books/audiobooks, volunteering with animals or whatever cause you support, hair braiding, free video games or virtual board games, watching other people play video games, getting into film (piracy or already on subscriptions), joining local board game groups, singing, phone photography/videography and editing if you have a decent one, free museums. Looking on craigslist or fb marketplace for free stuff to use for potential new hobbies. Simply browsing antique and thrift shops is something I enjoy to relax and kill time, there's always interesting and weird stuff.
Next time you see her, just say something like "by the way, thanks for being so sympathetic the other day, it really helped"
(If you also need an excuse to start a conversation with her you could compliment something she's wearing, for example)
I say read a few threads, then go to the current threads and read the threads that have shit like, "Sol Saga" or "Break up", it's a TON of nitpicking, just her getting fatter, just read enough from the 1st to get a taste of the past and then scan through.
She's really just gross, crunchy and repetitive and so are the people in the thread (self included)
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What can I put inside granola and yogurt (other than fruits because I think they're disgusting)
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Most of the women in my family have thyroid issues and I pretty much have all the symptoms of hypo issues, but my TSH has always came back normal and it's pretty much the only thing my regular doctor tests for. I was blocked from seeing a hormone specialist by my insurance so I have never seen one and the way my doctor worded it made me feel like there's 0 way I can see one. However I think I can be referred eye specialist so I'll get that done. Thanks for the advice nonny
. And yeah, idk, I doubt I have Graves or diabetes. Maybe minor insulin issues.
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I spent most of yesterday and the day before working on finals, and ended last night with this persistent dull ache in the center of my chest. Am I gonna get a heart attack if I keep going? My nigel actually got a minor heart attack from over work once, but I don't want to ask him about it because he will make me stop working and go to the doctor
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What's a easy job I can get as a autistic high school dropout with a 12 year gap in my resume? (I have previously done camming/porn/prostitution and my history is easily searchable on the internet so many hiring managers don't want me)
It's over for me, isn't it? Is this going to be my life forever? Any other nonnies left/trying to leave sex work have any advice on building a life after it? I am rapidly losing hope of ever getting out
(Sorry for sperg)
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What kind of sociopath thinks that fruit is gross?>>1419562
It could be a heart attack, but it could also be a multitude of other things, such as pulmonary embolism/blood clot or stroke, indigestion, stress or stress-related tension, swelling, lung-related ailments, or gas. If you're super worried about it, you should see a doctor or go to ER because heart attacks are no joke, especially at a young age.
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what cartoon is this?
It is real, but I would not ever go to TikTok, Instagram or hardly any other social media to find it especially these days.
The topics you listed are very broad, but for the most part they do not work like they are explained and take more work (years of work) to do anything with. Looking up a "crystals for X disease!" And putting on a lofi beats subliminal is not going to do anything.
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Mach a Sebestova, old Czech kids’ cartoon.
It’s about kids who travel through time and space with their magic phone receiver and experience all kinds of adventures.
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I have Firefox and LC on a tab open, I wanted to move the LC tab to a new window but I dragged it to a Teams meeting by accident, did I share the link to all my classmates?? I don't see a message by me but I'm paranoid
>>1419625>It's over for me, isn't it?
Anon, please don't be dramatic. I had a coworker who got her first job in her 40s because she stayed at home until all of her kids grew up.
Changing your name would be a good first step. Or are you ethnic by any chance? It's common for Latinos or Asians to go by a different, anglicized last name or use their middle name as their last name on their CVs. Secondly, there's more opportunities to educate yourself now than before. You could do courses or certificates online, you just have to choose your direction
Good idea nonnie
I had to take a sociology course this year and it focused on gender. I’m not sure how crazy it could get at other unis but ours went over gender bias, for example in one section the professor had us window shop and examine the differences between male/female clothing and hobbies in different age groups. It also went into male and female athletics, careers (women work more service industry jobs and get paid less than men), domestic violence. As it was a US class Title IX was also a large topic. The last section was for transgender topics and we just watched a documentary about kids coming out as trans. Near the end of the class Roe V Wade was repealed so the professor posted about that and it was discussed a bit, too.
Overall I didn’t have any complaints about the class.
Already did, didn't get the hype.>>1420235
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Lmao if you didn't like Breaking Bad I don't know why you'd like Sopranos, maybe watch Octonauts or Peppa Pig, something on your level.
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Has anyone been successfully treated for intense social anxiety? I dropped out of college and have been living as a self-supporting hikki for five years because being around people gives me palpitations. I'm willing to try pretty much anything at this point to alleviate this problem and can pay up to like twenty grand a year if necessary.
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How do I go back to being lowkey at work? I've always been very quiet but a few couple weeks ago I spoke and said something mildly funny and my coworker moids went kinda loony. Not literally, but now they won't leave me alone. I get serious gangbang-y vibes from them, one of them joked with the others about surrounding me even. Idk, they're not harrassing me by any means but I hate scrotes and the attention is overwhelming. I just wanna go back to being ignored, I was only feeling particularly social for one hour but now they expect me to always be friendly.
Thanks nonnas. To answer your questions:
1. I considered changing my name but idk if employers will look up previous names. Is that something that they do? Also, I live in a place where name changes have to announced in the the local newspaper, so people will find me again anyways.
2. The reason why I say that it's over for me is because my prospects are legit bleak, the other day I applied to work at entry level cashier and call center jobs and even they said that my past "does not align with the company image". Idk, it's just easy to get discouraged after getting rejected from even the easiest, bottom of the barrel stuff. Guess I'll try Amazon or some sort of warehouse job, that sounds like a good idea.
3. I can't modify my name in the content I created because it doesn't belong to me. I was actually employed by porn studios, cam sites, and prostitution agencies, so I don't own the content or the copyright to the content, they do. (I don't make royalties off it either)
Plus like I said it's too easily findable, I was never famous or even 'popular' by any means (a couple thousands of followers at most), but it really is hard to lie and say I was "freelancing" or "caring for family" when the top results when googling me are my porn and escort pages. I haven't fully "left" either, every time I run out of money I'm forced back into it, so recent results pop up too, and noone wants to hire a "currently active" 'porn actress', especially someone who's done 'real' (professional) porn as opposed to, say, nudes or onlyfans or something.
I've tried to no avail to get them removed from Google, but it's nearly impossible because a) I'm not the copyright owner, and b) every time the get removed from one site (rarely), they always pop up on another. It's like wack a mole: hell edition.
4. I have no IRL friends because I'm depressed and ashamed of myself
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>>1419679>What kind of sociopath thinks that fruit is gross?
Only the ones that don't taste like fruits.
Tomatoes, olives, corn, peppers:no
Potatoes, broccoli, beans, spinach:yes
how did you get like that? why do you hate fruits? please tell us more nonny
, i find you fascinating>>1420730
same reason humans don't like cat food, it's not made for them
i don't know, do cats even exist in the wild?
my best guess would be rats and mice, birds, moths and other insects, maybe spiders?
Trust me, I'm not interesting. I'm just another example of the Quintessential American Dietary Failure (TM). I was raised on sugary foods and have eaten them so much that fruits just taste bitter and flavorless now. Same with other stuff like water: Coke and Mountain Dew were my staple drinks growing up, so water is gross and unappealing. I think I have drank about 12 glasses of water this year.
I am trying to do better, which is why I'm forcing myself to eat yogurt (instead of ice cream). Also a non-Walmart grocery store recently opened within 25 miles of my hick town in West Virginia, so I can actually buy real food now.
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what does NLOG means?
By definition a stan is supposed to be a hardcore fan. Doesn't have to be about finding them attractive, you've heard the Eminem song right? It's also casual slang though, context should make it obvious like>stans of this celebrity are so crazy
vs>this celebrity looks cute, we stan
Ok I’ll try to break this down. Your BMR is a part of your TDEE. Any calories burned by exercise are also a part of your TDEE. So, let’s say your BMR is 1200 calories, and on days when you’re just browsing lolcow, picking up groceries, doing some laundry, etc., your TDEE is 1600 or something. The calories you burn doing little things around the house plus your BMR is your TDEE. If you burn more calories through exercise, that is also going to be a part of your TDEE. TDEE just means the amount of calories you burn in a day. The number is going to vary with your level of activity. So if the hypothetical you starts working out twice a week burning 350 each workout, then your TDEE on those two days is going to be 1950. If you’re trying to maintain your weight, you can either eat 1950 calories on those two days and 1600 on every other day, or you can divide it out into your weekly average and eat 1700 calories on every day of the week, including your workout days when you are technically burning more.
If you’re trying to lose weight, you need to be burning more calories than you consume.
can i make a general vent thread after >>>/ot/1413238
reached its post limit or is that something the mods do? idk i'm new
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if you like femdom, tsumi to kai
Spanish and guarani works like world in spanish Word in guarani
they don't mix at all so once you undestrand guarani it's easy. Chile is still the worst by far.
T. Paraguayan and Chilean family
Yeah that’s what I meant, at least where I’m from we also use word in Spanish word of non-Spanish origin
we just aren’t sure of what the origin is so it’s just *our Spanish” to us if that makes sense. It’s like this all over there, as long as you can point at what you mean when you say something differently it’s not difficult.
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I have a mental health problem but I don't really know what it is. It's rare, but there are moments where I become completely still, frozen in my position and mute. If I'm in this state and feeling a lot of stress I'll eventually experience a meltdown and psychotic symptoms. I was told that this happens because I have emotional intensity but I'm not sure what that means.
Why do people want to be victims
so badly? I'm a zoomer and even when I was a teenager I hated being seen as a victim
, still do. It's crazy to me how people way older than me will go on tiktok and complain about how bad they have it (dangerhairs with a regular income). Is it boredom, not wanting to grow up, what is it? I know it used to be big on tumblr but I've never seen that shit outside it, now I know people irl who awkwardly try to fit they/them and other crap into our language even though it doesn't work kek.>>1421831
Nah, eating sambal with a spoon and black pepper by itself is a hell of a difference imo. I think most powdered ones taste the same but there is a lot of difference in sauces and things like chili peppers (they all set your mouth on fire though).
By pretending to be a victim
everything you do is justified and everyone who pisses you off is automatically in the wrong, that's why trannies love playing victim
, it gives them a pass for their shitty actions and everyone who opposes them is "evil" because…why would you doubt someone who is so pitiful and vulnerable?
Its like a get out of jail card. The same people who cry victim
hate to 'take accountability' for their own shit. Even when they hurt others. Thats just my trauma showing! etc
I have some shit in my past, I could cry about it but tbh.. I've also been the person who negatively affected someone with my bs. The best thing I ever did was stop viewing it in such a black and white way where you're either a victim
or a bad guy. Most people will fill both roles at some stage in their life, even if its not in an extreme way.
If a woman is in a straight relationship doing anal then her nigel is just a closet faggot who’s probably cheating on her yet she remains degrading her body for him because of trauma or some dumb shit like that >>1422068>they just enjoy the fact that they have a man to preform for
If this is how you feel during sex that’s ok but it sounds more like projection/wanting other women to “relate to” kek…I personally am a woman who enjoys herself during sex w my nigel, but that’s probably because it’s not something that we do very often since we’re religious
I mean the respondee specifically said “Neither. They don't enjoy themselves at all
in sex, they just enjoy the fact that they have a man to perform for” so >>1422114
Ok so do you hate having sex with your nigel too? If you do, why are you with him? Why do you waste your energy and time on him? Kek it’s not even an “It must not happen because I don’t experience this”, I was just using my own experience as an example
because I definitely can’t speak for anyone else, but… usually if you don’t want to do what someone is asking you to you can say no. Don’t fawn unnecessarily.
All I said was that you can say no to someone instead of backing yourself into a corner and victimizing yourself? That has nothing to do with me being religious and it also has nothing to do with me being a nutjob. I’ve been a victim
of sexual abuse but I grew into a fucking adult and learned that I can assert boundaries within all of my personal relationships, no matter how they may make the other person feel. So many straight women who are fully capable of setting boundaries and saying a firm, steadfast No
to these faggy little fucks who wanna try to analize with their microdicks always just choose not to because they want to be a deer in the headlights, for what reason I do not know.
Seriously a lot of you need to stop acting like these little GMO food eating Joe Rogan listening barista bar coffee maker job boys are anything to be scared of or intimidated by. And don’t try to come and respond with a >mlehh gigachads exist
If you’re on this website I don’t think you’re dating one casually and having anal sex with him. Sorry
I never tried anal but I enjoy degrading stuff. I’m generally more submissive in bed. I think I’m one of the few women who actually enjoy it and have fantasies involving submissive and degrading acts outside of sex that I get off to (and not just fake it all the time for male partners). HOWEVER I think it’s just a result of my past sexual experiences with my first ever bf. He started calling me a slut, slapping me and all that stuff after the first few times we had sex. At first I really hated it but was too much of a pussy to tell him (I was like 18 and inexperienced + stupidly tried to please him as much as I could). And later I started getting turned on by it as well. Sometimes even more than he did and asked for more. Years later I’m still into that kind of stuff. So I guess he’s one of the main reasons why. I think if he had treated me differently during sex, I probably wouldn’t even think of doing those kinds of things now.
So in the end 95% of the time it’s just the influence of men, from what I’ve seen and experienced.
okay you're religious a nutjob and
a sociopath. cool.
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Yes it is don't kinkshame her
I’m sorry if you got confused somewhere but the anon didn’t ask about sexual abuse…she asked about straight women who consensually do anal despite being able to say no. In my response, I said that victims
of past sexual abuse will usually degrade their bodies like this for their faggot bf’s, but that doesn’t make them consenting to anal sex that they don’t enjoy abuse. It means that they’re catering to the needs of a faggot who they’re too afraid to dump. I apologize if you saw the word abuse and thought I was referring to doing anal as abuse.
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I have an empty lotion bottle (this brand and a different lotion but its the same bottle) What should I do with it? It's pretty small but I kind of don't want to throw it out.
and samefagging before someone tries to say >and what go to prison mlehh??
Think about how many men kill women yearly and are never even questioned or considered a potential suspect by police. Use the idiocy of the police force to your advantage for fucks sake!!
Why do you wanna hoard an empty lotion bottle nonnie
? Let’s start there kek
It's a jar nonny
, I would keep it too.
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How do i improve my concentration? is that even possible?
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Does everyone's nose get endlessly stuffy and runny in cold weather or is it only me? Is it because I'm obese?
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What stains the teeth less, coffee, tea or milk tea?
I need a hot beverage that doesnt stain my teeth, halp
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A nona in another thread said something along the lines of ''you arent depressed is the world around you'' or something like that, it was very well redacted but i dont remember which thread it was. I wanna send it to a cunt friend who keeps trying to convince me i can cure my depression by meditating and paying an expensive therapist.
Maybe unpopular opinions thread?
Anonymous 4 days ago No. 1418395>>1418381
That’s what I mean. There’s no blame on the individual. Nothing is wrong with somebody who is depressed while dealing with social and economic pressures, it’s a normal reaction to an inescapable stressful situation. It doesn’t mean they’re ill, it means that there are wider social problems. It’s easier to throw antidepressants at people who are sad and unproductive than it is to change the system which is causing them such stress.
(I hope I explained it well enough, words aren’t coming easily to me trying to describe this.)
I posted that, thanks anons. It’s reassuring to know that it’s not just me who feels like this.
Funnily enough, I spoke to my psych nurse the day after posting that; she basically said yes the world is unhealthy and some people are just badly adapted to live in it. I asked how she was supposed to help someone who was a symptom of a wider problem, she said it’s about managing their suffering.
That seems retarded to me, if you want to reduce suffering you need to help people make material changes to their lives, not teach them just to breathe through it. Meditation and pills aren’t going to help you if you’re living in a shithole with no community around you and no future beyond working in a soul crushing menial job for the rest of your life. No chance of owning a home, no pension, no access to education, and nobody who gives a shit because everyone thinks they have it worse. I think a lot of functional psych cases are just people in bleak situations with self awareness.
Sorry I could sperg on and on, I’m still drunk from last night, but in conclusion fuck the wellness industry and fuck this gay earth
i could hear you sperg all day nonny
. I am currently trying to speak to my snake oil salesman therapist friend about it to no avail, kek. I have been to therapists through all my life(8-19) and it has NEVER helped me, i am so tired.
Anon I loved your post too. The only thing I'm truly sad about is that I may never own a home of my own that I have land and can remodel as I wish. That I am clawing my way out as much as possible working my ass off but still paying high rent because the price on everything is growing and the laws, taxes everything to keep people in low or middle class are succeeding. If we didnt have those 400 rich assholes or whatever controlling the earth I bet there would be a lot less "depressed" people who feel suffocated in a shit job with shit pay being screamed at by middle-upper class probably boomers that are benefiting off the workers large tax chunk taken out. You can do everything right to be happy but if the environment is toxic
it will affect the person.
Crypto means "secret/concealed", so when someone gets called out for being a crypto terf
it means they might be saying terfy things without outright calling themselves a terf
, in an effort to get people to agree with them or whatever. You'll usually see people accusing each other of being crypto terfs on twitter, tumblr etc.
I thought the same
I find /m/ to be kind of elitist and mean. I got told to kms by a bunch of anons for posting about my husbando. They weren’t to know but I’d just had a failed suicide attempt that landed me in hospital for a while.
I’ve avoided posting there since.
Of course it’s worth it if consuming weeb media is that important to you. It’s pain staking, you won’t see progress quickly and you lose progress without consistency. It must be close to 99% of people who try to learn japanese give up in the early stage. >>1423220
Anon please japanese will not be a world language sooner than chinese.
The only 2-3 threads I'm interested in are very very slow (and posting in them regularly results in no more new posts for days, so no that doesn't help). My taste in media is probably too narrow and limited.>>1423214
Japanese is one of the most difficult, time-consuming languages to learn for a native English speaker (assuming you are one). I personally can't imagine it's worth all that time and energy investment just for understanding some media and maybe traveling there. Especially if your taste in weeb media isn't that obscure and most of it gets English (fan) translations. It could be worth it if you enjoy the process of learning the language as a hobby on it's own I guess.
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Why do Americans clown on British looks when every American I’ve ever met has been ugly and heavy?
(I’m not saying Brits are attractive, we’re gross too. The only attractive people I ever see on the street are the British South Asian princesses tbh, picrel)
>Thanksgiving trip with boyfriend
>First time meeting my family,I'm terrified as we come from very different backgrounds but everything goes exceptionally well
>They like him and he likes them.
>He even wanted to stay longer and we would have had he not had a commitment back home.
>Me and him, in our moments of alone time on the trip, get to know each other better than ever.
>We both open up about some personal struggles, give each other advice and comfort. Closest I've ever felt to him.
>On the 6 hour drive home we talk about what a great time we had, we blast music we love and sing together. I've never heard him sing before, he's always been a quiet guy.
>Finally entering the city we live in, my phone has died so the music has stopped and we are just talking
>Having a conversation about moving in together, we've been discussing it for a while.
>"Please move in with me, Anon", he says.
>Actually make a plan, I'll start bringing my stuff into his place next week.
>We kiss and happily chatter about it for a while, discussing where he goes to the grocery store and where I'll put my desk, and so on.
>Very end of the drive, it's been a long one so we're both really tired.
>He's quiet for a bit
>He looks actually super angry/upset/sad
>"Are you okay?"
>He says he's sad
>I can see tears welling up in his eyes
>I ask him why but he won't respond, he is gritting his teeth trying not to cry.
>I keep prying a bit because I'm really concerned, ask if he doesn't want me to move in or if I said something that upset him.
>We've parked. He hugs me tight and still has tears in his eyes.
>"No, Anon. You did nothing wrong. Don't worry."
So we kiss and I go back to my apartment. We had such a good time and got so close on the trip, what were the sudden tears about? Were they bittersweet? I've never seen him cry or even come close.
girl what? are you talking about me? >>1423134
i asked bcs ive been following muslim women lately bcs i like their pics + their rich and i like the lifestyle. i was just curious & google wouldnt accurately answer for me kek
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why do you think male groups stans tend to have more "degenerates" overall compared to girl group stans ? while both groups show a level of intensity, boy group stans tend to twist their obsession's further, like you won't find eorticzied child rape fan-fiction of blackpink members but you will hundreds of fics with that premise on ao3 of nearly popular or semi-popular boy group
Thank u nonnita. I was genuinely curious as to why some will cover their faces like draw over it, blur it out or use their hands. I guess they're not allowed.>>1423328
They will say otherwise but het-attracted women are free to express their degeneracy & the "darker" sides of their sexuality without shame. Female-attracted women however are not because they're fearful of not being feminist enough & acting "moid like."
male fans steal the underwear of female idols in smaller groups. There has been some creepy stalker cases where male fans stalk female celebs bith inside and outside of kpop too. Just look up Bjorn's stalker case or don't it's disturbing
I also think Nayeon from Twice had a stalker. Female stans can be creepy but you are mistaken if you think moids aren't
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But do you all really think that moids would look better if they took care of themselves from an early age? Would they really ever reach the level of beauty of the average woman?
>>1423403>But do you all really think that moids would look better if they took care of themselves from an early age?
yes>Would they really ever reach the level of beauty of the average woman?
Not in the face but definitely in the body
>>1423403>But do you all really think that moids would look better if they took care of themselves from an early age?
of course>Would they really ever reach the level of beauty of the average woman?
apples and oranges, why should men look like women? more feminine faces in men are ok, but womanly bodies on men are just disgusting
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Have any of you guys been a maid or housekeeper? I unironically enjoy cleaning and think it would be a great part-time job but I'm scared of hoarder homes or just really gross situations. Pic rel.
>>1423427>why should men look like women?
I mean it in a way that you could look at an average man and think "well, he is beautiful even if he isn't perfect" just like how I view an average woman and think that she's beautiful even if she isn't "perfect".
Honestly, my unpopular opinion is that men being feminine isn't even attractive tbh, men are men and should look like men, they shouldn't try to mimic women's beauty because it's not beautiful on them.
I get what you mean with losing its charm, but I've been learning it since I'm a tween and if anything, hearing Japanese compared to other foreign languages, gonna sound weeby, makes me feel at home because I've been so invested in it for the past decade. Makes me feel at home as in, I can get into new music, shows, books etc right away because it all sounds familiar, while with other foreign media I still feel some kinda distance. Couldn't ever really get into Chinese dramas or kpop for the life of mine for example, even though both of these were, from the sounds of it, right up my alley.
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What's wrong with Always? I use it all the time. Should I be worried?
oh, that's fine. The last time I saw someone say similar to what you did, it turned out she was into stinky men that put 0 effort into their looks, kek. >>1423438
I feel like it could be wonderful, but only in extreme ideal situations; i.e., cleaning a rich woman's home alone surrounded by cats.
Yeah I was talking about my own country. The normal school for worker/normal jobs ends when you are 16 here. Highschool doesn't exist there is only another type of school you can choose if you want to go to university afterwards, that school ends when you are 18.
You don't pay for schools or university here and university is pretty different from school, you only have one or two subjects there, it's more like a complex apprenticeship for a specific academic job.
I never wore makeup once in my live and don't use any (other) cosmetic products but I shave because it's prettier IMO and I go to the sauna sometimes. >>1421539
Normal people yeah but honestly I don't have a tenth of the energy and motivation normal people have, I usually sleep till 3pm on free days and have trouble doing anything at all.
SAME. I mainly care about /m/ but it's so dead.>>1423180
Honestly I try to counter these people because even if I hate an anime or book I hate it even more if someone calls fans out for liking it. This is a board for everybody so if someone disagrees they can tell why and leave it at that or ignore the posts like I do. I don't like this high horse people that call someone a scrote for liking a guy they consider problematique or coomerish, it's some tumblr mindset and I don't need to see that here as well.>>1423228>My taste in media is probably too narrow and limited.
If there are things you like without thread maybe you could make an own thread anon. There are tons of series I would like to discuss and series like Golden Kamuy have own threads as well that work perfectly.
I wanted to open a thread for a franchise I like for a while but admit I was too shy so far.
I feel similar and I am not even from the US or UK. People of other ethnicities often look so pretty and even the men try to look good and take care of themselves. Most white "natives" don't comb their hair properly and I know so many boomers that don't even properly wash their hands after going to the toilet god help me.
I don't use make up either but a person should at least look tidy and clean if they go outside IMO. Might be some mentality thing, I know that Italians look much people than my own people too even though their country isn't even that far away from mine.
The other way around. Men should shave like that too and honestly I know a bunch that do it and they aren't even gay.
Even if they wouldn't, it's about me. I think it's eww so why should I refuse to do it? I also have some muscles because I like them. I don't paint my face or nails or ever used lipstick or anything but I prefer to not look like something I am disgusted of everytime I see myself in a mirror.
Are you me anon lol. I feel the exact same way about learning new languages but especially about Japanese and Korean.
Learning any language is worth it if you're interested in the language and whatever media exists in the language but like other anons have said, it's considered one of the hardest for native English speakers. >>1423220>>1423226
I predict that Korean will become popular to learn because unlike Japanese and Chinese it's actually easier
Women are going to be naturally disturbed by depictions of violence against women even if it's fictional but against men it's whatever because for most it exists in the realm of fantasy or sometimes it's weirdly praised idk ask fujoshis and omegaverse fangirls.
I always thought kpop stans were fujoshis that moved on from anime.
nta, speaking specifically about the omegaversefags, I just fail to understand the cognitive dissonance of eroticizing extreme male violence against women as long as the victim
is referred to as a "boy" and "he/him"
you just used it
channers tend to do this instead
I've been using chan boards for several years and hardly ever see people type like you just did. there's usually two breaks.>>1423667
it's when someone types like this.
breaking up every sentence or two with a new line.
it's annoying and comes off as pretentious. I'm not sure what the point of it is.
but if you see someone making a bunch of unnecessary breaks in their posts it's a sign that they're new/not integrating.
it's called reddit spacing because they use it on reddit a lot.
I don't think you were using reddit spacing, also sometimes "reddit spacing" doesn't look like reddit spacing on a phone.
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What is the secret way to stop being tired all the time? Caffeine? I know exercise and eating healthy are recommended, but I'm too tired to even conceive of those things. Is it that you have to force yourself instead of making excuses? I'd rather start with caffeine lmao
This is a fairly stupid question, so I'll go ahead and ask here. Otome nonas, please grant me your wisdom. I want to get into the genre, and some of the games I wishlisted are on sale. So far I have Piofiore: Fated Memories ($34.99), even if TEMPEST ($42.49), Olympia Soiree ($34.99), Dairoku: Agents of Sakuratani ($34.99), Nightshade ($28.79), Collar X Malice ($27.99), Variable Barricade ($34.99). I was gifted $20 as a gift card, so that brings down the price already. Will probably go with one of the cheaper games, but I'd like to see if any of these are worth playing. Thank you, otome nonas.
Caffeine can perk you up but it's not a good long term solution to fatigue since your body gets used to it pretty quickly and you start needing more and more for the same effect. If you start drinking a lot of caffeine it will start to make it hard to fall asleep which will negatively affect your energy levels obviously. If you can keep it to a reasonable limit it's fine. Best to have it as an occasional treat in my opinion.
I would start with sleep hygiene if I was you. Sleep when the sun is down. Don't eat within 2-3 hours of bed time (don't drink alcohol either). Sleep for eight-nine hours. Make sure your bedroom is completely dark, no little lights anywhere, blackout your windows etc. Make sure your room isn't too hot. Keep a bottle of water by your bedside so you don't have to get up if you are thirsty. Just some ideas.
wishing you luck, nonny
. I suffer similar issues. piggybacking off what the other person said, I also have been slamming down caffeine for years and quit, like, two weeks ago after realizing it really had 0 effect on me and looking into how it can actually make you more tired in the long-run. Also you need to accept the loss, and workout more. What do they say? That if the benefits could be put into a pill, it'd be the best drug invented of all kind. >>1423810
I mean, it's shitty but you could always buy one, play it, then return it unless you really liked it. People claim CxM is well written and that Olympia is a bit more lewd and dark than usual–also has a female love interest.
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I saw a meme or something that said all girls sleep like this… I feel attacked Is this usually how you sleep? What is it about this position comfortable?
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yes because that's how my cat wants me to sleep so he can warm himself with my bodyheat and I can pet him with the hand I'm not laying on
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Looks kinda similar to the recovery position taught in first aid, so it's probably because of stability and it's easier to maintain an open airway than on your back.
webm for baka's /formerly retards/
If you're clipping from a longer video you just need to be able to skip frame by frame and get the start and end times in milliseconds so that you can get it accurate.
Affirmations – brainwash yourself into believing you are someone with high self esteem.
Little things like standing up straight can make a big difference for your personal self image (mind/body connection keeps you in the present, feeling solid and aware of yourself) not to mention how others see you.
That's just a general broad answer. Really depends on you and your situation. If you are in a bad situation or dealing with trauma it might not be so simple. No matter what's going on, wether you're at a mundane or exceptional point in your life, you will probably have to make a conscious decision to go in some direction and come out the other side a little different.
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thanks gotta check the calories then! I was mostly looking for healthy options to my binge foods, tried ''healthy snacks'' and i liked them but they just dont fill the dino nuggies void… i need something crunchy and oily and that looks like a dinosaur
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thank you, i will!>>1424243
based and dinopilled
At the school I went to, yes. It was a small, Dutch reform Christian-founded private school (I am none of those things lmao) and most students were very well off and blonde (whether fake or real) and had some of the worst attitudes/ideas I’ve ever heard. I was very alt and very loud about what i thought was wrong in high school and also a first gen child of Slav immigrants so of course many of them mercilessly hated me. A lot of people attempted to bully me but I was too mean/angry for any of it to stick lmao. I got in a lot of verbal altercations with mean bitchy girls, psychotic red necks, AND football douchebags. Once I told the captain of the football team to look into acne treatment and sometimes as an adult I wish I was that based still.
Tldr; yes, in some areas and schools the stereotype is absolutely real kek
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Are you a millennial with a cat and a soyboy boyfriend? Are you a Disney/Harry Potter adult? Just wondering. Picrel comes to mind whenever I read that word.
>>1424302>you smol chonky bean, you!?
You have both triggered
and tickled me in equal measure, nonny
not at mine there were barely any white students to begin with, much less blonde
but it depends where you live like the other anon said. the popular kids i encountered were nice, although mean students existed too but idk if they were actually popular. this was also a school with tons of, like thousands and thousands of students despite being in the suburbs so sometimes not everyone was even going to be remembered by everyone else outside of specific classes or events
it depends on the school. I went to a rural public high school in a wealthier area. the popular kids were the smartest, most athletic, nicest and (usually) the most attractive people. There were both rich and poor kids who were popular, but still smart/nice/athletic/attractive. There was usually one or two boys and girls in the popular cliques that were mean, ugly and stupid, but they were nice to the right people. My school had almost zero minorities, but the popular clique was definitely not exclusively blonde. The nicest and most put together popular girl in my year was blonde, though.
After that, there was the normal/nerd/alt groups. They had a lot of overlap with the popular kids because they were also in the advanced classes. They were invited to the same parties, but they had their own cliques. They did different sports, but were often still athletic, could be pretty attractive, and were usually nice as well.
The weird kids were usually early genderspecials, furries, spergs, burnouts, stupid people and sketchy kids.
Being out as gay at my school was not a big deal, so gay and lesbian people were either popular or in the normal cliques. They avoided the “rainbow hair” types.
Most of the fights and drama happened within cliques, and since it was a small school, it was rare that someone was bullied. If you were disliked, you were really just left alone.
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Does Google snitch to your ISP if your searching for torrents even if you’re using a vpn?
I used to use duck duck go but I heard they were bought off by a corporation that would probably snitch.
I’m literally retarded with piracy and only know the basics. I use Mullvad as my vpn.
Nigel>Exceptionally good guy, usually a boyfriend or husband
Moid>Demeaning word for any guy that irritates you, or is sub-human
I think it takes practice nonny
, do you have any friends irl you can talk to and try to maintain eye contact with? I had this issue for a long time because of my anxiety. I still get anxious about looking at people directly but I have a friend that loves eye contact kek it got me kind of used to it
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Did Kirdede anon get perma-banned from /g/?
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It’s the Japanese adaptation of Tom and Jerry. They’re heavily yassified lmao
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Does anyone else like tokusatsu(Godzilla, Kamen Rider, Super Sentai, Sukeban Deka, etc)? I want to discuss Tokusatsu with other women but the fandom is filled with troons and moids.
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come here then, lets lie in the water like otters
I forget everything except the vivid feeling of relief and joy that I'd finally found the female 4chan I'd been wanting all along. I was so sick of 4chan scrotes at that point but so in love with the anon imageboard format and board culture in general that this place was a godsend, I didn't even care about cows at the time but I knew anons were my people.
Weirdly I still remember the first time I saw 4chan even though that was way longer ago, like 2007. It was back when the front page had a side scrolling list of boards and a blog in the middle, and the blog had a picture of a gravestone on it.
No idea but I remember when I went to Japan I was eating so much macha food/drinks that I was sitting bright green>>1425293
I think I saw LCF mentioned on KF or maybe PULL (I didn't even use the latter that much I was just lurking on some fakeboi cosplayer thread), but I can't say precisely, it makes me kinda sad lol.
i learned to lucid dream when I was younger because of night terrors. I'll still get night terrors sometimes, but if I'm being crushed or drowned, I can wake myself up or escape with a brief window of lucid dreaming. idk how to exactly "train" it but the trick I came up with was imagining myself jumping on a trampoline as i try to sleep. i basically imagined a slight vertigo and freefall in my brain whenever I would picture myself jumping up and down until the psychosomatic sensations feel very strong, usually till I fall asleep. now I can trigger
a super intense vertigo in my dreams to jolt myself awake on a whim, and I can occasionally get a free roam dream where I can do what I want for a section of time. tho doing that consistently also made my brain figure out how to dream realistic pain and dying sensations on the regular, plus some occasional sex sensations. think its a lot harder to train unless you dream a lot but taking melatonin as a teen gave me a headstart on it imo
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Yes, stick a patch on it instead. I've definitely noticed my pimples heal more quickly and are less inflamed when I ignore/put a patch on them instead of popping
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Anons, do you think you will take your partner's name when you get married? Or if you're already married, did you change your name? I'm curious to hear how farmer's feel about this.
For me personally, I would change my name if my spouse's last name was cooler than mine. If not I'd probably just combine our names. My family name isn't too important to me so losing it doesn't bother me.
RIP I'm screwed either way. I got my deadbeat dad's name and it sounds ugly so I don't want to keep it and I hope
I'll marry someone who's a real keeper but I doubt it. I considered changing my last name on my own but the paperwork put me off so marriage would be the only excuse to do it.
I’d be fine with keeping mine, or with him taking mine. I’d only take his if his sounds better than mine, but mine is very nice sounding so I doubt it.
Hyphenating isn’t sustainable. What’s your daughter Susie Baker-Jones gonna do when she grows up and wants to marry Jared Black-Parker?
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Anybody knows what happened to misandry-mermaid on tumblr? I feel like she just disappeared one day.
I did, we only did it for a couple of transition periods but homeschooling was the best time of my entire academic life. I was bullied pretty bad growing up so it was a nice respite, and I love learning so my parents didn't have to push me much. They had to send me to a tutoring program for math, but otherwise were able to cover subjects themselves.
My parents are old and were starting retirement at the time though, most people don't have the kind of resources adequately needed to school their kids. tbh homeschooling rarely works even under ideal circumstances. The whole thing can turn messy fast if parents don't have enough time/interest, if kids aren't self-motivated to learn, or if the family doesn't have outside support. I had some of the best experiences someone can have for home-school and I can't actually recommend it unless the whole family is dedicated. Sorry for blogsperg
A lemon a day keeps the voices away, duh
Probably genetics, some people just have weaker enamels and some might just be fine. Or don’t eat lemons everyday and address some possible deficiency in your diet nona. >>1426197
Then I'll be hoping for good genetics. My mom likes them too and she hasn't had any problems as far as I can tell, so fingers crossed>>1426208
No, I eat oranges by cutting them in wedges, lemons I have to cut in slices and then divided into four. I used to to keep them in halfmoon shapes, but the corners of my mouth started to get irritated, so I don't let it touch my skin now. The exact fact that it probably won't last forever is what makes me worried, because I feel like my teeth are getting easier to irritate, but I keep telling myself it's because I'm too lazy to floss or something like that.
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I have no image board culture, i just stumbled upon LC by accident. I know 4chan and Crystal cafe but that's it. I've seen gaypg mentonned a few times but when i look it up i only see naked moids.
Do you have any you frequently visit ? I would be forever grateful if you know a kpop image board (not a retarded one like choachan, one like we use to have on here)
how do I stop slurring my words? I don't know what's wrong, but something is wrong with my speech. I speak two languages, and I speak like an absolute retard in both, so it's 100% me. It's holding me back a lot, academically, career-wise, and social-wise. The last one especially bothers me most, trying to make connections with people is already difficult for me, when I push myself, I end up having to repeat myself so much my anxiety shoots through the roof and I avoid interacting with the person again because it's embarrassing and I assume they won't wanna talk to me again. I try to slow down, but that just gives me ample time to be able to overthink things(I live in my head), making me say incoherent stuff in the process of trying to be clear. I'm just so tired of not being able to express myself like I want to.
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Idk where you're based but look for supplements or teas made out of valerian root
Sort of, they always tell on themselves they just hate hearing it from a woman's mouth. I learnt everything I hate about men from manosphere/red pill types, it's just framed differently. They say>we hate women, they are dumb inferior children who need to obey us
But shit their pants about evil feminazi manhaters when a woman says>men hate women, they see us as inferior children who need to obey them
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Should I still put on moisturizer under a sunscreen that claims to be moisturizing, or is the sunscreen itself enough?
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help me tea anonitas, what’s a good tea for treating hyperactivity? lately I’ve had high stress levels due to my exam week and even though its over I get this rush of adrenaline when I have to go to bed. I’ve taken beta blockers and they don’t help, so I suppouse I need something that calms my nerves spesifically, or just something that makes me more sleepy.
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what should I search to find more shelves like this, I like the shape
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AliExpress has a lot of things like this if you’re on a budget
Background: I agree with a lot of radfem critiques, and am totally down for a genuine identity politics for women (not libfem sex-positive sw-friendly hook-up culture feminism), but I don't feel like I have personal animosity towards men. I kind of view them as an "other" and don't put efforts into friendships with them outside group setting with their girlfriends and wives, but they're fine for what they are and I really love my boyfriend and think he's great.
I know some women here have a bit more acrimonious feelings than I do, so I wanted to ask – how does it work to be attracted to the opposite sex but hate them to some extent? I've never understood when scrotes do it, beyond just literal objectification, so I thought I'd ask y'all here.
, most people here seem to hate K-Pop, you may be out of luck.>>1425293
I had a friend back in college tell me she used this site. I have no idea WHY anyone would EVER tell someone irl they use this place.
Unlike men, women can perceive the individual specimen of male as an individual human being and allows him empathy. That doesn’t have to get in the way of a woman recognizing males as an oppressor class.
You cite your boyfriend (the one singular male) as your reason for not hating men, you said you don’t closely engage with other men outside of him, you view your boyfriend as representative of moid kind. Do you see how that influences your view? I would bet that you have experienced instances of misogyny but you compartmentalize them because as long as the men in your life weren’t the perpetrators of such acts, your idealized view of men can remain intact. It’s a much more comfortable way to live.
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is it normal to look back at the past 5 years of your life and remember almost nothing?? like it would take some time and effort to remember more than what i could count on my own two hands.
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Are any of these shops legit? It looks like they are AI generated by the same person.
That's what I thought, I want to get a nice phone case while avoiding art theft and other dubious shit, looks like it's going to be harder than I thought.>>1427622
Etsy's search engine is trash.
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Asking here because the makeup thread is dead. Does anyone know any good brick colored satin/matte finish lipsticks similar to this one that aren't terribly expensive?
Look on herehttps://lipcolourmatch.com/duplicates?brand=MAC&colourname=Sorry+Not+Sorry&submit=Find+dupes
Colourpop has some similar shades (scenic route and oasis) but I don't think they're close enough to what you're asking for.
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Samefag, for lipsticks under $10 I also saw >Colourpop creme lux lipstick in Gallop>Maybelline Super Stay Matte Lipstick in Amazonian and Globetrotter (Globetrotter is the one in the pic.)>Revlon Ultra HD Matte Lip Mousse in Sub-Saharan
Sorry if these aren't what you're looking for, it's surprising hard to find burnt orange lipsticks that aren't basically brown. You could also look around and see if there are any Asian makeup brands that fit what you're looking for, I think shades like that are more common over there. The pic on the right is from a random Asian brand I found on google, but it seems a little shady.
it is mostly their actions, behavior, and personalities that i hate, and although there are many with appearances i also hate there's some
amount i find physically appealing, so i come up with an idealized personality for them in my head or stick with imagining live action moids that are meant to be fictional characters from shows and movies. i have no interest in actually dating them in the real world.
you won't if you have nothing to pick. do you have allergies?
Maybe try gently wiping the inside of your nose with a washcloth or cotton swab. Also this is a bit armchair but it could be a compulsive thing or a fidget of sorts? Does it soothe you or do you do it when bored?
Nona do you mean you can't remember things off the top of your head, or that you can't remember things despite trying? Some people have poor memory recall, but if you sit down and make an effort to remember things (think about holidays, or look around your room at recent purchases, etc) and write down what you remember, it will help you recall things. I have poor memory recall, and I keep a spreadsheet of "events" (movies or events I went to, concerts/shows, holidays, etc.), as well as a bulleted list of interesting "stuff" that happened every year – this includes everything from new shows I started watching, a new brand of shoes I discovered I liked, etc., to moving houses or starting/ending relationships. I've been doing this since high school and now have a detailed "map" of myself. When I think about the beginning of the pandemic, when all I did was work, I feel like I did "nothing", but when I look at my "map" for that year I find I actually explored quite a lot of interests.
Gender is irrelevant to me I am not more disturbed if it's women, it depends on how much I like a character regardless of gender.
Age is more of a thing. Violence against old people disturbs me and I will most likely drop a series if they resort to that shit I think.
Nothing nobody ever dared to attack me in any way even when I hang around alone at night. It's my powerful aura. Or I am just that ugly that nobody cares.>>1423901
I either sleep on my back with hands crossed over my chest like a corpse or mummy or I lay flat prone.
It's a mystery to me as well I eat fastfood all the time, love meat and greasy stuff and never move but I weight less than normal.
I can only assume that fat people do something in their private time I don't know about. >>1424969
I cannot not dream lucid but not sure what causes this, maybe my excessive daydreaming? Since the brain is used to live through all space battle and fantasy bullshit all day it might be more likely to be active during dreams as well. It's cool and legit better than real life because it's like an interactive movie every night or multiple movies.>>1425012
I have paralysis quite often it's real and not supernatural. I usually get it when I am already fully awake and have the eyes open but are too lazy to get out of my bed. It usually happens when I lie on my back which is my favorite position, not sure how this is related.
Not so much a stupid question but more of an intrusive thought: Do mothers always remember what it felt like to breastfeed their children?>>1427950
All of history or specific events? The Great War by Indy Neidell is an excellent week-by-week documentary series that covers all of WW1, and his production company also has a similar series about WW2. Both series have over a hundred episodes and were posted in full on YouTube by the creators themselves. The Death of Yugoslavia and Medieval Lives: Birth Marriage Death both by the BBC are also good deep dives into their respective topics. Others I know of are The Civil War by Ken Burns, Barbarians by Terry Jones, and Connections by James Burke.
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south american moids
there is none. learn korean and follow korean accounts, they feel like imageboard.>>1427950
good documentaries is an oxymoron. i'd suggest reading history essay books instead. that way you'll get information from actual historians rather than people who were trying to make a marketable movie
I cook three meals a day. Here’s my tips for groceries for a week: >>Two to three protein sources. Veg for example: Tofu and Lentils or Meat examples: a pack of chicken and a pack of pork chops. >>At least two major carbs. Either two packs of pasta, a bag of potatoes, a bag of rice, etc. >>Three types of veggies you’ll eat and can use for multiple things. Think carrots you can roast, eat raw with ranch, put in soup, stir fries or Zucchini you can sauté, put in bread, roast, stir fry, etc. >>Fats: Butter and cooking oil of choice I use fruit mostly so olive oil (do not blend olive oil it will bruise and be very bitter, do not bake with olive oil it will make the whole thing taste like olive oil.) >>Other Basics I Buy Regularly: Bag of onions, bag of garlic, carton of eggs, two to three packs of berries for fruit/snack, spices.
the key is ingredients you can flex into different things and use multiple ways. Shoot for a protein and a carb with one or two veggies a meal. Plan around your week. If you know you’re not going to have time prep things like soups and chilies you can heat and eat during the week after one cook session. Rice cookers or instapots are great if you like rice as a carb, but not necessary.
Honestly the more you learn to cook and what you like the faster you get at it and the easier it gets.
Idk if it’s normal or not but I have large portions of my life that are blank. Based on events I do remember, I can more or less figure out what probably happened in those periods of time, but it’s not like real memory or anything. Even though I was working and studying, I was horrifically depressed from 12~26 so I just chalk it up to that. My memory has been what I assume is
normal since starting to recover.
Another anon has given good tips but I also keep a folder on my computer with pdfs of recipes! It takes a while to build up, but eventually I’ll just go through and pick one I want for dinner. I organize it by like “chicken dishes” or “tofu” or “noodles” or “vegetable side dishes” so I can usually just think “what am I in the mood for?” then open up folder and go through recipes.
You can just google basic recipes and then once you land on a food blog, go through their recipes and save others you think you’d like to make in the future! It’s definitely helped me, especially one days when I don’t know what to cook.
People argue that it's not becuase they've made - and never released - a live action one-shot of it before Night Vale started airing; but what can be found from said live action (few screencaps of production) looks nothing like Night Vale and the animation that was released in 2017 (so 5 years after WTNV) borrows HEAVILY from the aesthetic everyone associates with WNTV, and even the wiki states that along with new, animated version of the project they've changed the structure of it to the one that matches night vale closely. TBH i'm annoyed when people claim that "since the pilot was made before WTNV" then it must be wntv that stole it, while it's obvious that it's still the other way around, given the Kirilian Frequency was reconceptualized after night vale's rise to fame.
Ultimately there's no solid proof for either so that's just my opinion.
Specific type of potato, thick cut, often prepared in animal fat. Their specific type of mayo is so important to the Belgian they want to enshrine it in the UNESCO heritage list.>>1428511
if your culture is big on fries, you definitely can tell the difference between all of them
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How do i open a bottle of sriracha…
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Nonnies be honest with me. Do I have an ideal nose shape or do I need surgery? Pic isn't me but its the closest example I could find without posting myself. Thnx
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Thinking about what I should wear next week on my graduation day. I am planning to wear either something cute yet casual or this dress like pic rel because me and my friends will definitely go out afterwards. I'm a bit hesitant because its going to be daytime as well kek
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What are your New Years resolutions? Usually by now we have a thread about it but I haven’t seen one. Yeah NYR are lame wah wah but making goals for yourself is literally fine and normal. Mine are just to consume media online in only a healthy way, be present constantly in reality, save all of my money towards two specific goals, and focus on school when not working.
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Mine is probably getting a decent job that I like, networking with others, getting my driving license, losing a couple of pounds, and learning how to paint digitally. Maybe pick up a few hobbies as well.
made the thread just for you nonnie
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I’m trying to bake some biscuits. It’s calling for an eggwash with buttermilk. I only have buttermilk and no egg. What do??? Pic for engagement.
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Egg washes give a crust a more golden brown and shinier finish. If you don't have eggs, I recommend not doing the wash at all, because it will make the crust even less golden if you use just buttermilk.
Thank you sweet anon!>>1428976
I believe it’s OC by segu_ishida (lewd warning)
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Nothing. He's ugly, a misogynist, and possibly also a discord groomer. That thousand coom stare doesn't liehttps://centennialbeauty.com/viral-female-gaze-tiktok-creator-strange-kevin-cancelled-misogynistic-videos/
update: he rejected my proposal at staying friends. PFFFFT I'm the one who shouldn't want to be friends with him, the fucking gall. Ungrateful faggot.
This is what I get though for being dumb
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I would buy prints from artists I like or print out stills from my favorite movies. Dunno if that would come off as unprofessional though.
No it's "lack of exposition" because everybody is an attention whore.
The thought behind this is that when someone QTs you you aren't getting the "likes" the QT gets. So far it's true, the thing is that they never get many for art and it's always the artists that complain. I draw as well and when someone QTs me they get like 3 likes and the likers will usually click on the image itself as well and like directly too.
I think it's annoying because it's just another case of unnecessary policing to brand harmless fans as evil. Everytime I get QTs it's always the nicest shit possible, with people talking about my art and considering it too important for a reply, so they QT it to have it on their dashboard for followers to see.
It's usually just praise and talking about the artwork in detail so no idea why so many are so adamant about insta-blocking everybody that does this.
Nevermind lol I somehow forgot what private acc were and thought you just meant normal accounts, opposed to official ones.
So forget my entire post. Yeah I assume it's because they can't see it. I doubt private accounts are more likely to say anything bad about art than open ones. I think private accounts are stupid and I don't get the point but that's another thing.
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how to bullshit an essay for scholarship? Any tips on how to write the essay that’ll have the foundation consider me? Any videos that show good examples of what they look for and want?
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I know 2022 isn't over yet, but: Which celebrity death were you the most happy about? For me it's Kevin Samuels, good riddance you old moid.
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Well she talks a lot about how Brittany used to be independent, has it's own language and gets very grumpy if I describe her as French, so I stopped doing that kek.
I love Brittany. Swimming in the sea at Quiberon, eating far breton aux pruneaux
, camping in Carnac… ♥
Felt like a different country to Toulouse and Pézenas, and a million miles away from Paris. A beautiful place.
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Super fucking random but from what manga is moos pfp
yes but i agree with >>1430186
, who cares