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No. 1868702

ask stupid questions, get idiotic answers
don't reply to bait

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No. 1868742

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(Forgot these in the op, my bad)

No. 1868813

Does anyone else get weird chest/heart pain a few days before their period? I don't think I've experienced this before, but apparently it's a symptom of PMS from a quick Google search.

No. 1868827

Why do good-looking people usually have good-looking friends? Is this intentional? Also in general most groups of friends look around the same level when it comes to attractiveness, it’s like they gravitate towards each other. Even the people who disagree on this usually look about the same as their friends, or are a 5 in a group of 5-7s (apologies for the crude number rating attractiveness). I notice this in social events too, people congregate this way upon first meeting and it feels like there’s some secret hierarchy. Dumb question but I’m curious about the psychology of this.

No. 1868837

>>1868827
In my experience, people who are socially attractive tend to go for each other and do have groups based off of popularity and social dyanmic (instagram, tiktok, this doesn't matter if you are really attractive though). This is needed for clubbing as socially deemed attractiveness is essential for getting into. It's not uncommon to see on reality competitive shows that attractive people will say they are only friends with attractive people for parties and clubbing.

No. 1868872

Can someone give me some structure for a 6 panels story?

No. 1868888

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>>1868813
No chest pains, but my heart rate always goes up 10BPM and returns to normal after the bleeding stops. I get fatigued easily too.


Question:
My sister and I decided to move in together last summer to save on rent but she's gotten really annoying lately and I'm wondering if I'm being unreasonable….
I enjoy cooking and do meal preps to save money, eat healthy, etc. My sister is the opposite, she ALWAYS wants takeaways, always wants to eat something different, hates leftovers. She works from home and rarely ever cooks for herself, but always wants to eat whatever I've cooked. Today she saw me doing my meal prep and snapped at me because I didn't share any food with her. She apparently saw all the meat I thawed in the fridge and "anticipated" that I'd be making food for both of us. When I reminded her that she's literally home all day and even if she's working, she has the opportunity to make her own meals, she got angry and called me selfish. Am I really being mean here? Because I don't understand why she's flipping out.

No. 1868892

>>1868888
Unless you're leaving some important detail out about how food is purchased or shared normally, no you're not being mean at all. she's being the weird one. time to have a discussion about how food is purchased and shared and that you cooking isn't free labor she's entitled to.

No. 1868895

>>1868888
No you’re not being mean and she isn’t entitled to your food. If she wants you to cook for her (and you agree to it) she should compensate you by paying for her share and cleaning the dishes and kitchen afterwards.

No. 1868947

I purchased something on eBay and the seller wouldn't respond or send the item out on the protective shipping date, I contacted eBay to cancel and got a refund and purchased it on another site but the seller ended up sending the item out after I received my refund.
Will the seller still get paid? I contacted the seller and all I was told was to "keep it as a freebie" and saw that they reposted the same listing using the same pictures

No. 1869112

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Any women in here who graduated (or are still in college/university) Computer Science/Engineering ? Tell me how's the experience and in what country. I'm planning on getting a degree in that, since I'm a big computer geek. I also self study programming using books I bought from a library, they're really helpful and I love 'em. After that, I have in mind making quite a "pocket-sized" video game company, maybe made of 5-10 people, and making flash-newgrounds-type of games, nothing too complex at the beginning. So that takes me to question number 2, anybody has experience with working for a video game company and/or making/developing simple video games?(use the catalog, there is a thread for exactly this)

No. 1869120

>>1868888
I think it generally depends on your culture, if you come from the West, I think your response was reasonable. However, if you are from a more conservative country, I'd say it would be absolutely expected to share your food, or at least offer.

No. 1869127

>>1868827
This is true mainly with younger people. It just boils down to common interests and background, and I think that the factors that play into attractiveness tend to qualify as common interests. The most attractive people didn't win the "being good looking" lottery most of the time, they place a lot of value into their attractiveness, trying to look as good as possible. So they hang out with other people who place value into their attractiveness. People mostly want to hang out with people who are similar to themselves, with shared traits and similar social dynamics.

No. 1869141

Nonnas should I be worried? For the last 2 months I have been getting sick every 10 days, some times even every week. I only had a fever twice, every other time it's just body aches, muscle pain, extreme fatigue, heaviness in my arms/legs, chills and a sore throat. I've had issues with my tonsils but they don't look inflamed. The lymph nodes in my neck have been swollen for months, or maybe that's the tonsils. I tested negative for covid, flu, rsv multiple times. I have issues with my thyroid (it's been underactive and overactive in the last 2 years) but I take medication for it every day and my labs are within normal ranges, aside from elevated calcium and pth. My endo isn't concerned though. My period is also very irregular but that's been going on ever since my thyroid started acting up. I also have gastro issues but I don't think it's related. I eat a normal, balanced diet with plenty of fruit and veg. I take vitamin d and zinc. I tried magnesium and selenium too. I've never been sick like this in my life. It's seriously impacting my productivity and mental health. I feel crazy, my doctor isn't taking me seriously and only told me to take vitamin c.

No. 1869145

>>1869141
I'd get a 2nd opinion if you can

No. 1869148

>>1869141
Have you checked for mold in your home?

No. 1869149

has anybody seen real changes on their skin after consuming bone broth for the collagen?

No. 1869150

Eastern European anons, about women's beauty standards in your country, does anything go as long as she's thin or does she have to be fit rather than skinny in your country now, too? Not asking about personal preferences, this is about standards set by media and society.

No. 1869167

>>1869150
When it comes to general societal standards, yeah, being a gym bunny with a huge butt and buff legs, bleached hair and a face full of makeup is the standard women should strive for now.

No. 1869168

What are drinks to order at the nightclub thats not a vodkacran?

No. 1869173

>>1869168
any alcohol + liquid…gin and tonic, whiskey and coke, vodka sprite, whatever you like. other simple cocktails like white russian, tom collins, long island iced tea, tequila sunrise. none of the stereotypical cocktails are very classy if that's how you're trying to come off but typical college student at the bar drinks to me.

No. 1869176

>>1869173
ok awesome thank you nonnie, I didn't know if they had like mojitos or cocktails for example. appreciate you x

No. 1869186

>>1869148
Yes, no mold anywhere.

No. 1869188

>>1869150
>does anything go as long as she's thin
No, men would point out the lack of ass and breasts, and many are nitpicky when it comes to facial features. Body hair and cellulite cause heart attacks.
Not only men are nitpicky though, but women are mostly obsessed with thinness.

No. 1869189

>>1869168
I always go for a vodka lime soda. Cheaper and easier to make than a cocktail, refreshing, not too sweet. They normally ask if you want fresh lime or cordial, get fresh lime if you want it more plain and citrusy, cordial if you want it more sweet.

No. 1869195

>>1869150
Pretty much as this anon said >>1869167. Skinny is also ok as long as she has tits and ass, long hair is also super important and always has been unless you're alt, but even if you're alt men will just call you a lesbian anyway. The most popular look for a typical "hot babe" from my country is lip filler, tan, heavy eye makeup, long straight hair can be brown, black, blonde doesn't matter. And instagram fitness influencer body or skinny hourglass who photoshops. Tiny plastic surgery Barbie nose is also a plus.

No. 1869217

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Has anyone else, once entering college/uni, had a striking realisation that they'd be completely incapable of following an academic career because they are too socially inept to suck up to others and play their clique games or is that just an Architecture thing? Genuine question.

No. 1869228

>>1869217
I'm on my second year of architecture and I haven't had any experience like that but I could see why it's common. I've seen some architects and professors that have a huge ego. I would love to hear your experience nonnie

No. 1869229

Anynonna knows how to make my google search look older?

No. 1869232

>>1869168
My faves are old fashions and Negronis, but it depends on the bar or club. If it’s more of a cocktail bar, then I’ll order one of those. If it’s a dance club or a dive bar, then I’ll do a rum and coke or vodka soda.

No. 1869246

>>1869217
At least with linguistics the further you study the bigger proportion of people will be socially inept autists themselves so no need to play games it's all just autistic screeching.

No. 1869261

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How do you stop being scared of stupid things and/or fix your startle response? A squirrel got into my house in the middle of the night and I was so scared I screamed and ran away to get my dad. I don’t know why I’m like this, my dad kept screaming at me and calling me a moron for being scared of the squirrel who was running around our house at that point. I somewhat think it’s due to my very high startle response, like I sorta spaz out normally when someone taps me on the shoulder or when someone knocks on my door out of nowhere. And I’ve been like this since I was a toddler/child. How do you get past it? I’m tired of feeling like a retard and I have no idea what I’d do if I lived alone and had to deal with this myself. I couldn’t even look at the squirrel I was so terrified (I think because it’s a whole can of worms to accept that there are now squirrels in my house or at least an entry point for them to come in here that isn’t the attic).

No. 1869262

>>1869217
same thing happened to me in history of law. just the convoluted bullshit witth thesis advisors was such a pain i ended up not finishing my doctorate, i couldn't see myself lasting in that field

No. 1869292

>>1869145
How can I get a second opinion? Like I can't get a second GP as far as I know lol. Who do I go to for frequent, reoccurring flu like symptoms that just won't go away?

No. 1869299

>>1869217
Nah economics is hilariously bad too and it’s very very ironic because the field is overwhelmingly male dominated. The grown men in my field (most of whom have some kind of Asperger’s) are some of the most petty, “mean girl” people I’ve ever met. Many of them are sexual predators as well but I can say that generally speaking my field is full of sheltered individuals who lack closeness to and common sense regarding the very issues they publish about—which is concerning bc in many cases they’re trying to actually influence public policy. But the bright side is that most papers they write will only be read by people in that niche/research field and no one will really care. Personally I don’t really get the prestige of academia; for me personally I think being an economist in title sounds more prestigious than it is to be a college professor. I will say though that I loved teaching and working with mostly female students (some of the young scrotes these days are porn brained creeps and will try to hit on a teacher). I never thought I would say this but I enjoyed teaching more than the research portion of academia because that’s where the ridiculous politics come in and for anyone who has actually lived a difficult life it’s extremely pretentious and pointless, especially when you consider that no one outside of your niche even cares about the papers unless you’re at a top school.

No. 1869303

>>1869292
In my case you directly ask your own GP to find another GP for a second opinion, which they're only allowed to refuse if you're asking for second opinions excessively, but I don't know if it's the same in your health care system. Just google it or call your GP's office and ask the assistent about it.

No. 1869318

>>1869299
Samefag but I always thought I would hate teaching bc I’m really shy and don’t like social interaction much but I love trying to make my traditionally “boring” discipline fun for students. I think I’m also a good ambassador for the field bc not many people in it are so enthusiastic about teaching. I think eventually I may go back and try to become a professor just to teach and not really publish if that’s possible.

No. 1869427

How do you wash your hair?

I have thin straight hair, italian.
>shampoo only once or give up on shampoo!
I tried, and the results don't work for me. Shampooing twice seems to spread it out better.
>use conditioner
I use it on the ends and wash it out, helps with detangling hair but it gets oily faster so I don't do it every time.
>use conditioner on scalp/don't wash out your conditioner
I'm tempted to try because the skin on my scalp is dry, but I feel like this isn't logical…

No. 1869439

>>1869427
>oil hair or use mask
>shampoo
>conditioner
>shampoo again
I have one good shampoo and one of the basic supermarket ones that strips paint off walls which I use about once a week or once every 2 weeks. I have low porosity straight, coarse hair. Balkan/Greek if that matters.

No. 1869449

>>1869427
I only shampoo once, rinse that's it. I used to slap all sorts of masks and conditioners and leave ins on my hair but they all either made no difference or made my hair oily so eventually I wisened up and stopped purchasing all that stuff.

No. 1869455

Am I the only one who's hair got dryer by washing it less? I guess it's because my scalp adjusted and started producing oil at a slower pace, I've heard so much that washing once a week is the best but it's never felt worse kek. It's really convenient though.
>>1869427
I'm bitching about my shitty hair in the same post kek but this worked well for a long time, it grew from a bobcut to tailbone length. Fine/straight North European hair.
>Shampoo twice
>Conditioner
>Hair oil

No. 1869468

Have you ever met a creepy woman? As in like you know how men are creepy?

No. 1869479

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>>1869427
I have 3A curls, thick hair, latam(?).
>shampoo once or twice depending on how oily it feels
I alternate the shampoo I use, sometimes I use one for my seborrheic dandruff and then, on another wash day, I use a regular shampoo of who knows what brand because they're sold by the gallon.
>conditioner
I use hair masks instead and leave it for a long time before washing it out, I only apply it from the middle of my hair to the tips, I don't touch the scalp.
>hair oils and hair creams
I use a kerastase cream, it's the pink one, I only apply it like the conditioner, from the middle to the tips, and then I use argan oil that I only apply it to the tips. I do this when my hair is still damp.
Tbh, my hair is a bit damaged because I got some streaks and I straighten it at least twice a week because I need to wash my hair at least every 3 days.

No. 1869484

>>1869261
i think there's a clinical name for the thing you're describing but i can't remember what it is. i had a friend in high school where if you tapped him on the shoulder or someone suddenly sneezed loudly he would jump. totally normal, non-autist guy, just startled super easily. you should figure out what that is and see if you can find any strategies for it. might just be anxiety.

also fwiw i would freak out if a squirrel were in my house too, i wouldn't be able to relax. your dad's a dickhead for screaming at you

No. 1869488

>>1869468
I talked to a pedophile woman online once, she was molesting a child from a school where she works at. I hope it was a troll account, but I think it wasn't.

No. 1869492

>>1869427
I have thick fluffy-curly hair
>wash 1-2x per week
>strong cleansing shampoo meant for curly hair, shampoo twice if scalp feels grody
>co-wash or conditioning mask after shampoo if hair feels dry that week
>rinse all products out before air or towel drying
>wear scarves or bandanas between wash days to protect from dirt and air pollution
>>1869468
Only one, and she made me so uncomfortable that I left a D&D group because she kept hitting on me and blaming it on her character. Although she was autistic and used to 00s anime con social norms so that might have contributed to the creep factor.

No. 1869493

>>1869468
me probably, in school I liked this guy so I stalked him until I was in his life and then in school with another guy I got his address from a friend and stalked him too so I'm wary of men because I did some crazy things and had some crazy ideas to get attention

No. 1869496

>>1869468
The only woman I found legit scary was a violent alcoholic that would smash her door and yell at everyone. Most women just don't have the same threatening factor.
>>1869493
This is a common trope, think of Helga from "hey arnold" lol
I knew several girls like this

No. 1869498

>>1869488
Where did you meet this woman?

No. 1869518

>>1869468
Not necessarily that creepy, but when I moved away from my really small hometown to a large city for college in the early 2010s, I couldn't handle the daily street harassment from men and naively thought cutting all my hair off would make it stop. But I soon learned that all it did was make me harassed only slightly less by men and a lot more by women. There would be women who would stop me on the sidewalk to ask for directions (thankfully at the time I wasn't naive enough to humor the men who would try this), who would use it as their opening to hit on me and touch me/invade my personal space. That was when I learned some women can be just as creepy as men and became jaded and cold to any stranger needing help. Then there was also my best friend since childhood who pretended to be a guy who she made me think was stalking me when we were like 13 since this "guy" would call me leaving voicemails and somehow knew my address and me and my family's every move despite never meeting or talking to this guy. Then I finally realized it was her trying out being a man and changing her voice when she trooned out before it became trendy to do so. But I don't really include her along with the first group of creepy women since clearly she's mentally fucked in the head

No. 1869522

>>1869427
I also have thin straight hair and I tried the no poo stuff but never got it to work. My hair just looks and feels best if I wash daily, I've stopped trying to fight it. Shampoo on scalp, conditioner on ends, and I condition twice (once before and once after shampoo). I don't rinse it out 100% and I use a leave-in conditioner.
>>1869468
I met a girl in high school who asked me for my number, at the time I didn't have a cell phone and I gave her my home phone. I thought she'd just want to hang out or chat but the one time I picked up, she went on an explosive rant about how her teacher did something that made her mad, emphasizing the point of "it's like… Do you WANT to be murdered?!" and then segued into thirsting over that one gay Supernatural pairing and getting mad that they were being gay enough or something. It was so unhinged and random that I never picked up again but she continued to call my house multiple times per day and it freaked my parents out. Eventually she started dating this other girl who was really weird because she'd talk about how she wanted cannibalism to be legal.

No. 1869525

>>1869468
Well, not women… they were teenage girls, but they were creepy, my friend's acquaintances. They were really creepy with girls, one of them pretended she was a boy, and both of them played a game like in that film Cruel Games if I'm not mistaken. Like, they'd make a bet and one of them would try to seduce a girl, and they kept diaries or lists with their "victims". One of them tried to hit on me but I'm not into women and even if I were, she was too cringy. It was mostly just ridiculous but I feel bad for girls that liked them for some reason and were manipulated by them.

No. 1869527

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>>1869498
Kik, I was going through different groups because I had no friends back then.
At first I was in the group she was at because I embarrassingly used to be into shotacon when I was 20 years old. I joined to get manga recommendations because I didn't want to read porn so I talked to everyone there.
I don't remember exactly why, but we were talking about what we did irl so I made the huge mistake to say I was helping at some preschool because I moved to another place and the owner of the school liked me.
The woman, who was always trying to hit on the guys that were like 18 years old, and who actively ignored me suddenly texted me.
She asked me if I have ever done anything to the children and I was like "um no, woman what the fuck??" And she told me that by that time she was 40 years old, that she was a teacher at a small town school and that one of her students was "her boyfriend".
I proceeded to leave the group, blocked everyone, deleted my kik and stopped liking shotacon, now I despise it and feel disgust whenever I remember ever thinking that it was okay to read those types of stories.

No. 1869544

>>1869468
Idk what makes me appealing to women but I've had enough awkward moments where women liked me and it wasn't mutual. Or they'd be my friend and one day land me with this announcement of their feelings even though neither of us ever showed interest in women before. I always get this knot in my stomach because I associate unrequited feelings (and being stuck seeing them daily afterwards if it happens at work, at school, with a friend etc) with incoming bullshit and harrassment or games but to be fair women have never matched mens energy there ime

Plenty of awkward lingering 'hasn't given up yet' moments but not on mens level.

No. 1869563

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Do posture corrector belts like these work? Are they worth it if I have a bad posture and back pain?

No. 1869565

>>1869563
It's better to save your money and do basic back, chest and core strengthening exercises to fix your shit posture. They're not even hard, you don't need to do 100 pushups to look like a human instead of a shrimp.

No. 1869583

>>1869468
>in hs and at home
>hear knock at the front door and some girl I don’t recognize is there
>asks where my sister is and I tell her she doesn’t live at our parents house
>mom suddenly walks into the room and gets weirdly aggressive telling the girl to leave before she calls the cops
>find out my sister’s boyfriend had a weekend fling with this chick in a state that’s 3+ hours away and she came all the way to our state just to confront her or some shit

This was more annoying than creepy
>at work with lesbian coworker
>go to use the bathroom and notice the door didn’t lock
>mention it to her later and she says “oh, so what would you have done if I opened the door while you were in there”
>tell her I wouldn’t care because we’re both women (I also don’t shave so she’d have to deal with seeing my bush kek)

No. 1869599

>>1869565
>look like a human instead of a shrimp
KEK. Thanks nonna, you saved my wallet

No. 1869601

>>1869563
My vote is for working on core strength too. I have a personal hatred for these things because so many ads for them say they're perfect for 'insert condition that you don't wanna fuck around with' In my case scoliosis and I didn't understand att that I needed to work on core strength and build my weakened muscles back up. I was on a waiting list to see someone and turned to these in the meantime. Belts and devices that force a position can do as much harm as good if you've weakness there already. They always make me think of that meme now
> Doctors hate these things!
But they hate them because people think trying this can't hurt.. and then it does

No. 1869603

how long can you leave a 4 month kitten alone? i’ve googled it but i want to hear your experiences because i don't trust redditors’ kek. my kitten has been left alone for 4 hour spans and does great. in the beginning i felt really bad for leaving him for that amount of time, but all he seems to do is sleep while i’m gone. he has food, toys, a huge cat tree etc. available and hasn’t shown any signs of anxiety, stress etc. when i leave or come home.

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>>1869427
I have fine dense dark straight/wavy hair from my italian side (kek), this is what I use.
> Cake Beauty The Big Big Deal Thickening Volume Shampoo - every day
> Maui Moisture Lightweight Hydration + Hibiscus Water Conditioner - every OTHER day, I hear the shampoo is good too and am considering switching to that instead of my other one or at least alternating them
> Mielle Mongogo Hydrating Conditioner - twice a week
I use the hydrating deep conditioner twice a week. You probably have low porosity hair so avoid proteins and look for protein free. Make sure you wash your hair with warm/hot water so the conditioner gets in. I also only condition my hair every other night because I am a greasy oily mfer (thanks to Mediterranean genes) and my hair gets oily extremely easily. Ever since I started conditioning every other night (my hair stylist suggested it for my hair) the oiliness has improved so so so much. I also use the products in picrel but if you’re in Italy I’m not sure if they have them there. Obligatory mention that I’m not an expert and my hair isn’t treated beyond trims and a Korean wavy perm I got a while back.

No. 1869606

>>1869563
My job is a lot of walking and standing for up to 12 hours with no sitting time and I found that constant reminding when I looked in a mirror or saw my reflection helped (like say to yourself one sentence "I need to fix my posture" until you just do it) and exercising like nonnies said. I find stretching laying back flat on the floor releases a lot of the tension and learning how to massage your legs and neck helps.

No. 1869608

>>1869603
anon if you post pictures of your kitten then we can help you more effectively /s

No. 1869611

>>1869603
like by itself with no friend? probably 8-10 hours with adequete toys and play to entertain it while you're gone. (Personally I like interactive toys like picrel, it flaps when it gets hit) and don't leave cords out because they chew. I have two and left them alone for up to 14 hours but I would leave it really bright (they slept lots during the day) leaving a light on and blinds undone so sometimes when I would get home and it was dark and I needed sleep, I would make it pitch dark for contrast. My ex bfs brother was a vet tech and he said the two staying home was fine as long as entertained and then you play and bond with them when you're home.

No. 1869613

>>1869611
also samefag but it was rare when I would leave them for that long but it is doable. my job is just unpredictable for hours sometimes.

No. 1869615

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>>1869611
I forgot the pic oops.

No. 1869635

Do people who get sick from dairy for whatever reason (lactose, casein, etc.) still like milky creamy scents or does it make them feel uneasy because they associate it with being ill and it's like a red flag. Silly question but I love lactonic scents and I love dairy in general

No. 1869639

>>1869635
I got some nice scented soap made with goat's milk once and the sweet-milk scent kind of freaked me out whenever I used it, lol. It did smell delicious ! But too tempting, I guess. even though I could probably digest goat milk as food ? haven't tried it.

No. 1869642

why the fuck do my nipples smell like cheese when i itch them??

No. 1869646

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>>1869608
of course, here he is with a toy he destroyed in the span if 2 minutes

>>1869615
i just ordered one! tysm nona he’s gonna love it. it seems really sturdy and he has a similar one (it doesn’t move though) that he is obsessed with.

No. 1869655

>>1869635
I don't think that's super common tbh, there's a whole meme about lactose intolerant people who still eat dairy because it's so good.

No. 1869672

>>1869646
He's so beautiful!

No. 1869687

>>1869646
ohmygod anon he's such a beauty!

No. 1869693

>>1869646
So pretty! I love it when cats have white around their eyes like that, it's so majestic looking.

No. 1869713

Is it really possible to change skin tone? I've heard that eating lots of carrots can make you more yellowish
I wonder how long does it take too? It sounds like bs

No. 1869740

>>1869646
HES SO CUTE I have no advice for you I’m sorry

No. 1869754

I’m bored, what’s a good rabbit hole to fall down? I feel like reading some Wiki articles

No. 1869756

every time my mom texts me it's delayed (sometimes just an hour or two, sometimes like 12 hours). we know it's her phone because it never happens with anyone else for me, also one time my sister texted her and my mom didn't get the text til much later. what could be causing this?

No. 1869763

>>1869646
I MUST know this handsome young man's name

No. 1869769

>>1869713
I think so, like I assume you mean not from tanning or bleaching but rather ingesting stuff, I knew an alcoholic who turned green before he died

No. 1869771

>>1869754
wikipedia trolls are fascinating

No. 1869773

>>1869603
i got mine at four months and I'd leave them alone probably for no more than four hours at once, maybe six. I think there being two of them helped me feel better about it though, since they keep each other company

No. 1869775

File: 1706411096871.jpg (67.22 KB, 452x487, 1000002340.jpg)

Did Jeremy fragrance rape someone or am I allowed to enjoy watching him vibe?

No. 1869779

>>1869775
…who?

No. 1869781

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>>1869713
The carrot thing is actually true, although the change isn't permanent. It's called carotenemia and it's caused by a build up of beta-carotene in the blood. You can get it from eating excessive amounts of any carotene-rich food too, not just carrots. It's pretty harmless, and it goes away once you change your diet.

No. 1869782

>>1869779
Jeremy Fagrance

No. 1869797

File: 1706412917692.jpg (20.79 KB, 289x261, Paul_Karason.jpg)

>>1869781
time to prepare a carotene diet so i will look better when i want to wear warm colors then

No. 1869798

>>1869797
Would go so hard if you have at least medium skin. Like a walking filter kinda.

No. 1869801

File: 1706413544232.jpeg (1.44 MB, 1046x1353, IMG_3682.jpeg)

WTF IS THIS AND HOW DID IT GET INSIDE MY HOUSE?? ITS RUNNING SO FAST, IS IT A LIZARD? WHAT DO I DO, HOW DO I CATCH IT??? WILL IT GO BACK OUTSIDE ON ITS OWN?IM TERRIFIED IM PHYSICALLY CRYING WHAT IF IT LAYED EGGS

No. 1869806

>>1869801
>is it a lizard

No. 1869808

>>1869801
what a cutie pie

No. 1869810

>>1869801
Nona that's a gecko. He probably just wants to sell you some car insurance idk

No. 1869811

>>1869801
I think it's a house lizard and at least it will eat any roaches, spiders, beatles. I'd take this over having delt with roaches any day.

No. 1869812

>>1869801
i would feel blessed if a lizard graced me with its presence in my home but unfortunately we don't have any here.

No. 1869815

>>1869811
can confirm, whenever i go to Primm i see some geckos and radroaches fighting
I think we need more of them so let it lay eggs

No. 1869821

>>1869801
Kek anon this just happened to me the other night with a squirrel in my house, I’m sorry I must have passed on my bad luck to you somehow. Either open the door to the outside and try to chase it out there, or try googling how you can trap it so you can move it outside.

No. 1869828

>>1869484
Anon I meant to reply to you earlier but I lost your post somehow and it took me a bit to find it again. Thank you for responding. I’m going to look up the actual condition you mentioned bc I definitely have that to some degree and it is so embarrassing. I also have GAD (anxiety) which I’ve had since childhood so it’s likely somewhat to blame as well! Thank you again for your response and your support.

No. 1869836

>>1869801
Seconding >>1869821. Also if you can corner him, try putting him in a cup and carrying him out, that's typically what I do.

No. 1869869

Why does trying to improve my life make me feel worse? I'm not even consciously thinking negative thoughts about myself but it feels bad and I want to return to bad habits.

No. 1869909

At what age did you guys learn about and use moisturiser? My skin was always nice but i wanted a poreless shiny look so I would use the st ives apricot scrub, dry my skin out tremendously so it was definitely tight and that was it. At around 19 or so I became aware of anti aging creams and bought olay beauty fluid to try because I thought it was a cheap anti aging cream, I tried it and my skin looked and felt amazing. In hindsight im thinking what the fuck in terms of discovering moisturising through wanting an anti aging cream at 19, and wearing foundation without knowing what moisturiser is kek, something 32 year old me can’t consider. Just wondering how similar that is to others experiences of like…basic maintenance.

No. 1869923

>>1869801
What a cute little gecko, I love seeing these guys everywhere when warmer weather sets in.

No. 1869997

File: 1706434552878.jpg (287.33 KB, 720x480, 1667862825793.jpg)

Does anyone remember the name of that thread in /m/ where you post a fictional character along with a screencap from here as if it were something the character would say?

No. 1870043

What's a fun thing to go outside for? I need to get out of the house but there's nothing I want to do or go to, and I don't have any friends to meet up with.

No. 1870046

>>1869869
Breaking bad habits is hard. You will feel worse at first, but it gets easier and more rewarding over time.

No. 1870049

>>1869997
Lolcow posts made by characters >>>/m/253684

Related: Fictional characters that you think would browse lolcow.farm OR would be labeled as cows >>>/m/145787

No. 1870054

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nonnas, i sent picrel to one of my friends i played with, after gaming last night

you think we're ever going to play again?(attention whoring in wrong thread)

No. 1870056

>>1870054
Why would they ever play with you again? You are awful

No. 1870057

>>1870054
cluster b

No. 1870069

>>1869781
Wasn't it a thing for 2010s it-girls to take betacarotene supplements to get tan? Silly in retrospect since they just turned orange.

No. 1870070

File: 1706448046931.jpg (2.03 MB, 3464x3464, 1000008519.jpg)

>>1870057
A cluster Bee.

No. 1870085

>>1870054
beautifully written, very poetic

No. 1870092

>>1869635
I am lactose intolerant and cannot stand the smell of actual cow milk, but I like laconic notes in perfumes

No. 1870098

I have a somewhat weak sense of smell and rarely smell people unless they stink of BO, but if I'm attracted to someone it's like my nose hones in on their scent and it's a pleasant but kinda unique and hard to describe scent. Is there an explanation for this or am I just making stuff up?
>>1869909
I learned skincare for the first time from, embarrassingly, the /fa/ sticky when I was like 15. They said to use a cleanser, an astringent, and a moisturizer + sunscreen so that's what I did for a long time. The astringent was one of those garbage western ones that dry you out in the name of killing acne and I didn't moisturize enough
>>1870043
Try a park or an arboretum, sometimes they are free. Some cities have historic downtown areas that are fun to just stroll around. There are usually nice places to walk around on nicer university campuses, nobody will know or care you're not a student. Unpopular pick but historic churches and cathedrals are beautiful to visit for the art/music/scents, they are entirely free and you don't need to be religious, these are also often quiet. If you like animals you can often spend time with them in shelters for free.

No. 1870101

>>1870054
He a moid? 98% chance yes

No. 1870111

File: 1706454276405.jpg (4.51 MB, 2717x3622, IMG_20240128_145623.jpg)

how is this style of vase called ? saw it on Primark but i want to see more that are similar before buying

No. 1870119

>>1870111
Are you looking for the shape, or the pattern and color?

No. 1870127

>>1870098
Could be pheromones. It's a misunderstood/controversial topic in science because humans apparently don't have the receptors to pick up on pheromones. No matter what you wanna call it though, body odor has been shown to play a role in mate attraction by giving us clues to whether our genetics are compatible for reproduction, and other social situations (some study suggests beta moids are pacified by alpha moid scent kek), so body odor is probably more important to humans than we tend to give it credit for. I'm a huge scent-fag and will only date moids if their body odor makes me go a little crazy. Had a bf once who had no body odor and I couldn't respond to him sexually no matter how handsome and cute he was.

No. 1870144

>>1869909
I was around 13 years old. I've never suffered from acne and such because my skin is usually dry even though it looked very nice.
But I would see my mom buying skincare products, so I wanted to do the same and I don't know, I feel like it didn't make my skin better but it also didn't worsen it.
If anything, I feel like using moisturizer, a tonic and cleanser helped me with just keeping my skin nice.

No. 1870147

>>1870054
If you're playing with a female friend I hope she stays the fuck away from you

No. 1870148

>>1870119
pattern and colour!

No. 1870164

>>1870054
touch grass and take up meditation or something, tilting that hard is pathetic and you have issues with self-control and -regulation

No. 1870231

>>1870054
pls I need to know the context, just why

No. 1870238

should I go outside (raining) and make a cinemaphotography type video of the city? I would have to spend money on an editing program ($90) but I'm not worried about it (credit card is kinda high but paying it off slowly)

No. 1870252

>>1870148
Nta that blue on white pottery is delft blue, although I don't think the motif is traditional. I guess you'd just call that botanical?

No. 1870254

>>1870238
Just pirate the software and have a fun day

No. 1870283

how do i peak my lesbian friend? she’s friends with a gross autistic troon who acts creepier and creepier towards her. she’s a lesbian and i’m straight so don’t want to ‘overstep’ when talking negatively about this beast.

No. 1870290

What's that website for viewing a reddit users entire post history, deleted posts included, called again?

No. 1870298

>>1870290
Reveddit.com

No. 1870313

>>1870283
I wish I knew. I have met a couple of lesbians who are pro-troon which is really bleak…

No. 1870474

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If just thinking about the guy I started dating gives me pussy contractions, it's a good sign right?

No. 1870490

>>1870046
Thank you nonny, I hope it starts sooner than later.

No. 1870713

How do you know if a scrote (your ex) has put surveillance on your laptop or phone and is watching what you're looking at?

No. 1870753

Is there anything actually worth getting from Lush? I like the idea of mostly-natural, splurge spa products but the prices make my eyes water.

No. 1870762

>>1870713
Technically speaking, you could possibly never find out. If you truly are paranoid about it and have the means, just nuke and sell them both and buy new ones. Modern Spyware software is kind of 50/50, on one hand there are programs you can uninstall with a fac reset but there are also more superior software that reinstall after a reset without any knowledge on your end. The odds of you having the latter are maybe slim, but not impossible depending on your moid. You're better off ridding yourself entirely if its a real threat model for you and not just musings.

No. 1870766

Should I eat or sleep

No. 1870770

>>1870713
Is there anything that makes you suspect he could've? Are your phone/computer acting strange, running through battery unusually quickly, overheating, etc.? Or does he seem to have knowledge about you that would come from him snooping through your devices? Granted, some of these things could have alternative explanations depending on what they are.

No. 1870772

>>1870766
Eat and then sleep. Best of both worlds.

No. 1870775

>>1870770
A lot of modern spyware no longer makes a significant dip on your battery life and can also be completely undetectable

No. 1870786

>>1870770
This is suspect because he put a roofie in my drink first of all. I didn't realize because I had tolerance, and he looked handsome so I thought the attraction was normal. Then once we dated he looked at my chats while I used the bathroom and then acted insecure and suspicious over someone I fucked before. My laptop at the time became worse quickly shut off for no reason, etc. Then he bought me a new one from a shop out of town after 8 PM while I was waiting in his car. Weird as shit. I don't use the same phone or laptop anymore though. Thanks.

No. 1870792

Where does my fear of intimacy might come from if I've not been SAed?

No. 1870803

>>1870713
>>1870786
haha dumb scrotes gargles cock(bait)

No. 1870807

>>1870803
This makes no sense. Do you put spyware on your boyfriend's PC?

No. 1870854

>>1870792
You're experiencing a completely rational disgust towards male sexuality. You're not gay, trans or "afraid of intimacy".

No. 1870931

>>1870792
See a psychotherapist and you'll eventually find out

No. 1870949

>>1870753
Depends on what you like. I know the prices in the US are beyond retarded so I can't say if any of their products are worth it if you're a burger, just looking at the prices of the stuff they had on sale made me cringe.
The shower gels last forever, and the bubble bars last way longer than the bath bombs since you can cut the bubble bars up and spread them over several baths. I've gotten 6 baths out of the larger bubble bars and 2-4 baths out of the smaller ones. If you use them fresh it doesn't dilute the scent and you still get a shitload of bubbles but the color of the water won't be as vivid. The body lotions and massage bars are amazing and last a long time but you might need to keep them in the fridge if you live somewhere hot or they'll go bad. I used to love their shampoo bars but they changed the formula recently and they're shit for my hair now, but I've heard others rave about the new formula, so you might want to get a sample of that and see if it works for you. They're pricey but they really last a long time. I like some of their hair masks but again, get samples, they're too expensive to splurge on unless you know they're 100% worth the money. I have a couple of their body sprays and they're nice, but not necessarily worth the money. Don't buy the soap bars, they last about a week if you don't let them cure for like 4 months before using them, it's insane. Body scrubs are hit and miss.
Your best bet is to go to Lush and let them show you their products. They love doing demos and will gladly help you find something you like that's in your budget.

No. 1870985

>>1870949
Thanks for the detailed reply, anon. Unfortunately I'm not in the UK so I'm kind of stuck with the inflated prices, but I honestly don't mind occasionally splashing out on a genuinely good product if I know it will keep for months.

No. 1870992

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You know those little balls on the inside your nose that you can feel if you stick your fingers up your nose and feel the columella? Wtf are those? Is it just cartilage? Do they have a name?

No. 1871002

If I send someone a message on WhatsApp and then block them before they’ve opened it, will they still be able to read the last message I sent?

No. 1871005

>>1871002
I want this person to see the last message I sent but I don’t want them to be able to reply. I sent them a message and then when I saw the two grey ticks I blocked them. Will they still get this message and be able to read it?

No. 1871010


No. 1871056

>>1871010
Great. Thank you.

No. 1871067

Why do some people want to be gay so bad?

No. 1871082

>>1871067
We call them spicy straights for a reason. They're bored or boring and think being gay will add a little underprivileged spice to their life. They think it's some kind of add on, like a chrome extension that will make them a more interesting person. Real gays (at least lesbians) dont use being gay as a personality trait. It's usually trenders or fakes that do this.

No. 1871088

>>1871067
Some people like to use it like a shield to get away with stuff too. Especially if they're a white straight person. They do this with being gay but being autistic, trans, or any other group they can claim for oppression points.

No. 1871094

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Is it a good idea to buy Birckenstocks secondhand? They're way too expensive for shoes I wear 2 months out of the year, I'm fine with secondhand shoes but sandals seem gross and are they supposed to they take the shape of your foot?

No. 1871097

>>1871094
yeah I wouldn't buy them heavily used because they do get a little gross. After wearing them a lot you can literally see your foot print on them

No. 1871219

How do spiders even get in your house? I’ve lived alone for 3 years never once had a spider or spiderweb in my house

No. 1871224

>>1871219
If you have trees or bushes by your windows, the roof, or doors and live on the ground floor they just find their way in through various gaps.

No. 1871233

>>1871094
I need to know where to find dupes. I really don't want to spend 120 dollaroos for sandals.

No. 1871236

>>1871219
>>1871224
thank you both, first poster is living my dream life. must be why my family house is always full of new spiders and living in the city is spider free. I already learned to avoid all raspberry bushes because spiders live there.

No. 1871259

How common do you think misdiagnosis of mental disorders really are? Thinking of autism and ADHD mainly, as a diagnosed sperg myself.

No. 1871268

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nonas, what are your best remedies for lost voice? i'm not sick but my throat has been fucked all of yesterday and today. i have a presentation thursday so i need it to be semi-normal by then

No. 1871273

>>1871094
Tbh they're worth the money, they always last me years before I need to replace them and buying used is kinda pointless because they'd be molded to someone else's feet. I think the only decent dupe that's a bit cheaper are the Viking brand ones
https://www.vikingsandals.com

No. 1871280

>>1871259
I'm skeptical of 95% of people who call themselves autistic in social media and I think ADHD is fake and gay, unless you your mother did something wrong during her pregnancy (drugs or medication) you can overcome it. Most people are vain, lazy and inmature and they think a diagnosis would justify not working on that. 99% of men are insane by default though.

No. 1871285

>>1871280
ADHD is a real disorder that is way more than just "being lazy". Everyone and their mom diagnosing themselves with it online doesn't change that. It's also hereditary, so if someone has it they can blame their boomer parents.

No. 1871291

How long do cramps from laxatives last?

No. 1871329

Why do nonnas I add from the friend finder thread ghost me after I mention I have a boyfriend?

No. 1871331

>>1871329
They shouldnt ghost you, but no one here wants to hear about your nigel either.

No. 1871335

>>1871331
It's not like I brag about him or talk about him non stop, it's usually casual stuff like "I watched that movie with my bf". Should I just avoid saying I have a boyfriend?

No. 1871336

>>1871329
no one cares about your nigel

No. 1871338

>>1871335
NTAYRT, are you voice chatting with who you find in the friend finder? Not to be paranoid but maybe they are secretly guys trying to talk to you.

No. 1871343

>>1871335
I get that everybody needs female friends too but most anons using that thread are likely very lonely. So somebody who actually even managed to score a romantic partner messaging you feels weird, like why do you even bother texting me, go talk to the dude sitting right beside you. Plus in school/work most of us already deal with other women constantly talking about all the nice things they did with their bf (which often feels like bragging even if it's not intended), so having to experience that again in a weirdish online space is likely simply not what most are looking for.

No. 1871352

>>1871338
I'm not voice chatting with them, but I haven't made a post on the thread myself, I'm just adding anons who have posted their info. I'm guessing if they were actually guys someone would have reported them?
>>1871343
That makes sense, but still, I think it's a bit disheartening. I'm just trying befriend them.

No. 1871354

>>1871352
Don't listen to that bitter anon. What the fuck kind of woman can't understand another woman seeking female friendships? People in relationships need friends, talking to one person, a male at that is not going to fulfill everyone.

No. 1871364

>>1871354
I started my post with saying I know she does need female friends too, I simply explained why I think the anon ghosted her.
If you're in a really miserable situation, chances are that you don't feel like you have the strength to act interested in somebody's happy dating life online on top of irl.

No. 1871402

>>1871329
I've been extremely hesitant to use the friend finder thread for this reason. For my situation at least, I'm not sure how being an actual autist with an equally autistic nigel but always struggling heavily to find friends is so incomprehensible to some people. I hate to mention it but crabs in a bucket mentality may be part of why people ghost you. I get that it's annoying to constantly hear about boyfriends especially when people have drama/complaining and defend their dumbass boyfriends constantly but it's not even like that with everyone. And anyone saying that you don't need friends if you have a bf don't realize how unhealthy it is to place all of your social needs on one person.

No. 1871412

>>1871402
>And anyone saying that you don't need friends if you have a bf
Nobody said that.
You simply have to make friends who also have boyfriends or husbands.

No. 1871437

How to hit on a sorta coworker without setting myself up for obvious rejection and making it awkward?
I want him to know I'm into him but want also want an obvious answer but also don't want to feel weird or get hr called on me. He seems a bit shy but also not? It's all so nerve-wrecking ;-;(;-;)

No. 1871456

>>1871412
People that get pissed off at someone being in a relationship are insecure and have issues they need to sort out with themselves. Plenty of single people aren't like that and telling someone to choose friends depending on their relationship status is some of the worst advice I've seen on here, noah fence.
I feel insecure about only having a bachelors degree while my friends have their masters, instead of coming to terms with myself maybe I should only befriend people that haven't went to uni? Ah yes that's the answer. Great recipe for creating echo chambers, stunting personal growth and never exposing yourself to different perspectives and walks of life.

No. 1871460

>>1868837
tbf there are attractive people with "duff" friends

No. 1871483

>>1871268
Anon, if you're still there, drink plenty of water (not hot liquids but ambient temperature) and eat soft oily/greasy/creamy foods, avoid strong spices. Keep your throat warm with a turtleneck shirt and avoid speaking as much as you can. Hope that helps

No. 1871486

>>1871329
i'd be scared to use that thread, i assume everyone contacting you is a lurking troon who just wants to fuck over a terf

No. 1871489

does getting a pimple in the pubic area mean you got an std?

No. 1871490

>>1871489
not necessarily, could be an ingrown hair

No. 1871523

i’m not sure where to ask this. i’m pregnant and have decided to not keep it. are there any anons who have taken the abortion pill? if so, how bad was the cramping? how long did the bleeding go on for? what items should i stock up on?

No. 1871529

>>1871523
I have not personally but I have heard it can be intense. Hope everything goes as smooth as possible anon

No. 1871563

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would a psychologist help me make friends? i have trouble progressing friendships. it almost takes me 1 year to get comfortable saying hi, how are you, and start to make small talk with people at the workplace.

No. 1871573

>>1871412
Kek fuck that I'm not structuring my fucking life around other people's insecurities.

No. 1871584

Nonnas I got pulled over and instead of a ticket got a court summons. The cop told me it would take a week and it would come by mail but it’s been two weeks and nothing. I looked up the case number as well as my info and driver’s license but it says there’s nothing under my name. Called the municipal court but they haven’t gotten back to me. Do these things really take that long to process? I’ve seen some people say online that sometimes it can take months but the people I know irl said they got theirs pretty quickly. I’m confused.

No. 1871589

File: 1706582452994.jpeg (8.21 KB, 175x275, 1703448823796.jpeg)

why are some people so obsessed with pathologizing and categorizing others?
it'd be one thing if it made sense, is trolling, or is just funny, but sometimes it's just schizo. the other day I saw someone come up with several different, rather obscure strawman fallacies to describe all people that are into a certain harmless hobby–and not one woman I've known into it was any of those things, not even close. is this a form of attention seeking or something? I don't engage with it, it just puzzles me.

No. 1871600

Can lightning be a verb?
Cuz there is a verb that specifically refers to the light when you don't see the lightning line and idk how to translate

No. 1871602

>>1871600
do you mean you have a word in your native language but don't know it in english? In english there is no dedicated word, but we would say "strike" or "struck", eg "the lighting struck but I didn't see it"

No. 1871608

>>1871600
I don't think there's a word based on what you're describing. Maybe some phrase like The lightning (noun) lit up (phrasal verb) the room.
What are you trying to say?

No. 1871788

Why do Christmas lights look like glowing balls with a rough granulated texture and short little spines going around the edge? I have moderate myopia but not astigmatism and everything I try to look up about this just talks about astigmatism, it's so frustrating lol

No. 1871820

>>1871589
It's from being terminally online, it's trendy atm to diagnose yourself as neurodivergent, ADHD and autism are especially in right now. These retards also like to diagnose others. It's everywhere.
>>1871563
They'll help you work on it but at the end of the day you're the one who needs to do the work. You'll be given 'homework' to do, which in your case will definitely involve talking to others. Therapy isn't fun, you need to be prepared to be pushed out of your comfort zone, but ultimately it's what you need to be able to live your life.

No. 1871912

What is the max amount of days you would go in between hair washes? I hate washing my hair but going longer than a week just feels dirty.

No. 1871915

>>1871912
Like 1.5-2 days, my hair gets oily quickly though. I do use a bit of dry shampoo if I want to stretch it to 3 days if I'm busy but I don't like leaving it on my scalp for a long time

No. 1871917

>>1871589
It's weird that we're simulataneously in this hallow 'everyone is different' 'there's no norm' 'accept every type of person' mantra phase but its heavily contradicted if we're also calling every lil difference, trait, quirk no matter how minor it is a disorder that people can apparently spot a mile away and label you as. Hold on, imma accept your quirk but first lemme decide which brain fuckup to label it under real quick?

No. 1871922

>>1871912
If I'm not leaving the house I'll do 5 days. Usually I wash every 3rd day but now that I'm pregnant my hair gets oily way faster so I have to time my wash around when I have appointments. Having bangs really shows how greasy my hair gets and it sucks, but I dont want to use dry shampoo because of the carcinogenic stuff in them.

No. 1871925

>>1871912
Probably like a week. I have curly hair so it just gets dry and tangled instead of oily though

No. 1871926

Can bad plastic surgery be undone? Not asking for myself but seeing that old guy with the facelift and the actress from The Boys have me wondering

No. 1871929

>>1871912
2 days normally, let it go to 3 if my wash day happens to fall on a day where I'm off work and not going anywhere.

No. 1871930

>>1871912
4 or 3 days because I workout 3 days a week so my hair gets oily quite quickly. When I workout daily I need to wash my hair at least every 2 days.

No. 1871935

>>1871926
Idk how you could undo a facelift.
The chick might be able to get filler to round out her face again but maybe not, people tend to look boggy when they do that

No. 1871951

>>1871926
Pretty sure buccal fat removal is one of those procedures that is very hard to undo if it's even possible. I think because the surgeon usually removes the entire pad of fat from the cheeks there would be nowhere for a fat transfer to adhere to. The only option might be fillers but that would look like shit too. Spoilered for ot but damn I feel bad for that woman, normally I think plastic surgery is for brainlets but she got botched so badly she looks like the cryptkeeper. hopefully she sues whatever surgeon did that to her face

No. 1871994

>>1871925
Same, like 5-8 days if I am not going out or style.

No. 1871996

>>1871926
I think so but with limitations. Video is botched, I watched it when I was young but they do a good job fixing people.

No. 1872010

Is it bad that I’m bitter that my old employer created a full-time job for the only white male coworker to continue working for them while the rest of us who weren’t white dudes had to find other jobs once we graduated and our graduate research assistantships were up? They’ve never converted anyone from a student GRA to a full time associate except for this dude who is white and male like the rest of the men in charge. White male students were rare in my experience (not non-white men) as the graduate researchers were typically either black, Asian, and/or female. This guy was not that smart or particularly impressive compared to the other people I worked with.

No. 1872014

>>1872010
this seems like it belongs in the vent thread but sure, that sounds frustrating

No. 1872017

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Do fat people crave sugar more? Like if you lose weight will sugar not taste as good for you? I’m to help someone quit sugar, and usually the way it goes is that everything starts to taste way too sweet and gross, but this person is fat and tried some picrel (after almost 1 month no sugar or fruit) as a test and thought it was amazing while to me it tasted like chemicals and sugar.

No. 1872038

>>1872017
I think it's more dependent on individual taste buds and preferences. I'm a fatty-chan and everything tastes too sweet when I don't eat much sugar, while some of my skinny friends can do the same thing and feel no difference according to them. Went to look up the ingredients in your picrel and there's a sugar alcohol (erythritol) and artificial sweetener (allulose) in place of sugar, which is probably what you're tasting because those have a strong (nasty imo) taste. I assume some people are more sensitive to the taste than others because I've known people who don't mind sugar alcohols or artificial sweeteners and others who can't stand them.

No. 1872058

>>1872014
My bad, it’s a bit of a vent yeah but I was mainly wondering if I’m overreacting or reaching in noticing how a bunch of old white men randomly offered a full-time role to the only white male student who has worked there in years. I’ll just post it to the career thread to ask bc that’s probably the appropriate place since I want a genuine answer from nonnies.

No. 1872064

>>1872017
Yeah, fat people crave sugar more than those with balanced diets because the more you eat something, the more used you get to the flavor and the more you will want it to be stronger.
It's like eating spicy food, most normal people try it once and feel like it's too spicy, but after trying it again, and again, and again, it tastes delicious, the more they eat it, the less it will start tasting spicy, because they get used to it.
The issue is though, that being fat is also a mental thing, if that person doesn't internalize that sweets don't have to be 100% sugar, that person will always crave sweets and will never lower that tolerance to sweet stuff.
In the end it's a matter of cold turkey-ing the sweet intake and understanding that it's for their own good. That's what I did, and after a few years, around 5 years, I've begun to stop craving sugar as terribly as back then, and most sweet things now taste too sweet.
As long as that person gets support to keep going and actively wants to change their habits, everything will be alright.

No. 1872197

How many photos of nonnies irl have you seen here? like when an anon has for some reason posted a selfie kek

No. 1872257

>>1872017
You get tolerant to sweet flavors, but it's also more complicated than that. One thing scientists have discovered recently, in very simple terms, is it turns out eating food with a lot of added sugar (and also ultra-processed food) alters your gut microbiome. The bacteria in our gut are a reflections of what food we tend to eat. If you eat a lot of added sugar you will have more bacteria that thrives on sugar, while other bacteria dies from starvation. Scientists now believe our gut microbiome can also influence our cravings. If you have lots of bacteria that love added sugar, you will start to crave added sugar more. We are mind-controlled by the bacteria in our gut lol. Scientists have done poop transplants from people who were a normal weight with a healthy gut microbiome, transplanted their poop into a fattie, and the fattie lost weight as a result. They ate less, but seems like it was because they now had a healthy microbiome that didn't crave junk food all the time. I think there are other ways to lose weight and fix your diet than having a poop transplant, but knowledge of our gut microbiome can be a helpful tool in understanding and combating obesity. There is a lot of more factoring into obesity of course, I think genetics and fasting are other interesting fields of study, but basically obesity while being simple in theory is not as straight forward as it seems.

No. 1872260

>>1872257
Well she’s not had even fruit or artificial sweeteners for a month (aside from the keto ice cream) but still craves? How long does it take microbiome to change? I thought a month would be good enough to see some kind of results

No. 1872272

>>1872260
Idk might be a matter of you having different palates. Sounds a bit odd that she still craves after a month. That said, beneficial gut microbiome feeds on fiber as far as I know, and people who do keto don't tend to get a lot of fiber. Additionally if she eats a lot of UPF, even if it's not sweet food, it usually contains flavor enhancers that might desensitize her to eating normal, low-processed food. There's also increasing research showing ultra-processed food, such as the ice cream you posted, contains additives that causes inflammation to the gut, particularly emulsifiers. This will again affect the gut microbiome. Not saying keto can't be good for some people, but UPF should be avoided imo no matter which diet.

No. 1872317

please someone tell me that there are no third party apps that can let somebody know if you've screenshotted their instagram story. feel like i'm going to have a heart attack kek i don't have an excuse it was a selfie and i screenshotted because i'm a huge creep and she's really cute. i looked up online but all i can find are answers for if instagram itself lets you know (no btw) but i'm scared she may have some sort of privacy analytics app because i know people used them back in the day like ten years ago, idk if they still are now but ugh i'm so embarrassed…

No. 1872321

>>1872317
There are currently no instagram third party apps that do what you're worried about, and even the ones that weren't that invasive are banned afaik! Don't worry. I screenshot shit constantly that would have had people inbox me about it and they're none the wiser.

No. 1872326

>>1872321
whew, that's a relief. thanks anon i was stressing kek

No. 1872337

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i can't enter the settings to my google account, it tells me the adress is invalid and i can't check why its giving me a security warning wtf(wrong thread)

No. 1872368

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Which Colleen Hoover book is worth reading? I’m not looking for something “good” just entertaining.(wrong thread)

No. 1872371

>>1872368
Your average smut fanfiction is more entertaining than coho

No. 1872383

>>1872368
none, they're wattpad tier "omg this bad boi is dangerous but i luv him" shit. you'll have a better time reading fanfic for free

No. 1872427

how are so many guys skinny without bothering to diet or anything like that? actually most guys tend to love eating quite a lot, but it seems like many of them don't gain much weight while girls struggle more with it. of course there are fatties too, but still so many lanky guys around

No. 1872516

When sellers on FB's marketplace are selling things for cheaper than in store new, why? I'm not talking about "Oops, I bought this but it's not the right size" but like liquidation amount? I'm looking for a vacuum and someone is selling like 10 of them for 100$ less than Costco. They're are pictures of the boxes and the store, but why..? Is he not selling at a complete lost?

No. 1872527

>>1872427
Men's bodies are biologically predisposed to burn fat and build muscle with ease, while women's bodies are predisposed to store more fat and retain it. That's why fat men have no excuse to be fatties and should be bullied for being unable to do what their bodies literally were made for which is being not obese.

No. 1872530

>>1872427
Men are usually taller and usually have a higher muscle to fat ratio, just inherently, both of which will lead to increased caloric needs. They expend more energy for the same tasks compared to women because they have more cells

No. 1872552

>>1872516
They’re stolen probably

No. 1872556

Best advice after a breakup?(wrong thread)

No. 1872613

should I take a shower, eat food and then watch some netflix? or just sleep

No. 1872619

>>1872613
take a shower and go to bed bb

No. 1872648

>>1872619
damn the anachans have infiltrated us kek

No. 1872649

>>1872648
i don't want her stomach to hurt when she goes to lay down for sleep, just thinking bout nonnies' health

No. 1872666

What are some good natural fabrics which don't tend to wrinkle and are best in summer?

No. 1872677

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what's the most entertaining cow on /w/? i never read a thread on there and i want to but i'm not sure who to pick.
Obviously it can be an old thread

No. 1872681

>>1872666
Linen is pretty good, but I'd stay away from it as pants or shorts because they would wrinkle, whereas as flowing tops, skirts or as dresses, it's not much the case. You do have to get used to the fabric, it isn't as soft as cotton, but it is very comfortable when it's warm and you're sweating up a storm. I bought two H&M linen dresses before COVID hit that I don't wear out, I just wear them as PJs/housewear in the summer because they're very comfy.

No. 1872738

>>1872368
Literally not worth it. Don't get fooled into thinking they're ok books just because they got published. The only reason to read them would be to review why they're shit, which can be entertaining but in a self-harm kind of way since you still have to read it lol

No. 1872765

anons im confused, I got given oral medication and it says total 200ml / 10ml, meaning I take 10ml a day. But the nurse guy gave me a syringe that says 1ml on the bottom and the units start from 0.1ml. So I take 0.1ml right? I can't imagine I would need 10 whole syringes?

No. 1872766

have you ever come across another farmer on another social media platform, and could you tell they were a farmer by how they typed or what they said?

No. 1872781

>>1872766
I sometimes see people use "troon" or "moid" on social media and that feels like a dead giveaway

No. 1872789

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>>1872765
Yes, it sounds like it's 1 ml syringe and you need 10 whole syringes KEK. Just buy 10 ml one in pharmacy.

No. 1872790

>>1872781
Troon has become a pretty common word online now though, even conservative moids use it.

No. 1872792

How do I motivate myself to shower daily

No. 1872806

When using retinol it says to use it at night. And to use sunscreen with it. So am I supposed to be putting on sunscreen at night? When I'm going to bed? I'm confused, is that not wasteful? No sunlight is getting on my face in my pitch black bedroom while I sleep. Also what's the reason for not putting on retinol in the daytime?(wrong thread)

No. 1872807

>>1872766
A comment from a woman saying that Jodi did nothing wrong and that she was cheering on that rare instance of brutality inflicted on a man by a woman. When some moid asked "so it's ok when women are doing it???" she just answered "Yes" kek
>>1872781
Honestly, always itching to use scrotum all the time, not sure if i should. I want this to be a normie insult kek Everybody knows the word "cunt" after all.

No. 1872808

>>1872792
Sweat or go out for a while. Going out makes me want to shower because I don't want to smell like ass outside my house. Sweating also makes me want to shower because that sticky feeling is annoying, maybe you could apply some thick cream on your body to make yourself feel sticky so you can feel like showering.

No. 1872815

>>1872792
force yourself to do it every single day, even if you really don't feel like it or don't want to. eventually you will fall into the habit and the idea of not showering daily will feel unpleasant to you. you can also try getting some products that you enjoy using in the shower, like scrubs or body washes.

No. 1872817

>>1872806
Retinol makes your skin more sensitive and exposure to sunlight will cause very serious burns, much worse than your normal skin before you started using retinol. You’re supposed to use it at night to avoid getting burns and damage from the sun, you shouldn’t use it during the day. Just put it on before bed and then wash your face in the morning, and when you go outside you have to make sure to wear sunscreen. Only using it at night will make it less likely for you to get sun damage but using it at all still sensitizes your skin a lot, which is why the container warns about needing to use sunscreen during the day.

No. 1872822

>>1870054
Probably staged, also you're an asshole and type like the typical farmer

No. 1872844

Does any women actually have a great marriage or life with a moid? It just seems so stressful and no matter you would be worried about something. Even my ex was not perfect and I accept everyone has faults but surely most women settle?(wrong thread)

No. 1872845

>>1872766
There's this woman on twitter I'm %99 sure is a farmer cuz her whole feed is just
>anachan
>bone rattling references
>arguing with incels and calling them moids
>says she only dates men 5 years younger than her and men who have had 1 previous relationship are ran through
>spamming photos of lolita coords and meetups in specific locales but censors her face in all of them
>follows radfem accounts and lolcows

No. 1872846

wdym "even my ex" lmaoooooo as if ur ex was an exception? bet he was trash and cheated on you with like 15 women with herpes lmao(wrong thread)

No. 1872872

>>1872766
yes a meme account I follow on Instagram posted a video that was posted in a cow threads here like less than hour after it was originally posted, very hard to believe that it was a coincidence

No. 1873019

Guy was talking to my Nigel about football, brought up travis kelce and taylor Swift. He goes "what a distraction"
Was he being gross yes or no

No. 1873026

>>1872766
a few times i've seen women on instagram call men a scrote or moid in the replies section and i always give their comments a like because i just know they're probably farmers too kek

No. 1873033

>>1873019
If that's all he said then that's fine, I think it's funny how triggered moids get about the whole thing but she is being made a spectacle of and it's impossible to avoid. So distraction is fair imo.

No. 1873035

>>1873019
"distraction" makes it sound like he's complaining that it takes attention off of the football. i will give 1% benefit of the doubt and say not being gross

No. 1873051

anyone ever use a shopping service for ordering stuff that is only available in the UK/Europe?
I used japan shopping services for years but the ones I'm finding for europe work differently and are sketching me out cause of it

No. 1873060

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Is it normal to have debilitating pain in your arm days after getting a vaccine? I received one meningitis shot in each arm and my right arm is fine but my left arm is sore and every time I try to move I feel this intense sharp pain

No. 1873062

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Ok let's end this debate once and for all: was Freddy gay or bi? I'm pretty sure he's fully gay but some people online still say otherwise and will even claim it's "bi erasure" to call him gay because of his relationship with Mary, but to me that seemed more like a typical case of gay guy dating the opposite sex/trying it out because he didn't realize he's gay yet.

No. 1873074

>>1873062
Dont know much about him but didn't he say Mary was the love of his life? Don't quote me on that, I think my dad mentioned it once. Anyway a lot of gay guys seem to hyperfixate on one woman and claim she is the love of his life. If they had sex then he'd have to be bi in some capacity, no?

No. 1873090

>>1873060
Depends on the shot. Some hurt worse than others.

No. 1873100

>>1873062
didnt he make a song about women with fat asses, it seemed to me he was very bi
>bi erasure
because it is, kek

No. 1873142

>>1873062
>guys, is it ungay to fuck a woman?
>no, you're totally valid, hun!
Jokes aside, but isn't it obvious? Back then people barely knew about homosexuality, much less of all other modern definitions, and he died of aids, so of course everybody just called him gay.

No. 1873170

>>1873062
"Don't Stop Me Now" addresses both men and women so I always assumed he was bi
>I wanna make a supersonic man out of you
>I wanna make a supersonic woman of you

No. 1873183

It's not technically a threat if you tell someone they should kill themselves or if you can't wait for them to kill themselves, right? It's not like you're saying you're gonna kill them, you're just wishing they'd inflict harm upon themselves.

No. 1873185

>>1873183
Technically not a threat but could still be illegal depending on where you live.

No. 1873189

>>1873183
Didn't a teen girl go to jail because her boyfriend texted her he wanted to kill himself and she texted ways to do it?

No. 1873191

>>1873185
I'm a burger. It may vary depending on state I don't know

No. 1873197

>>1873062
He was bisexual forsure. It's just that when a man is bi, he is assumed gay. When a woman is bi, she is assumed straight.

No. 1873199

>>1873189
Meh I didn't go that hardcore I just told the moid he should kill himself a few times and insofar as I'm aware he's too narcissistic to do it

No. 1873216

>>1873189
i think in her case it was because he was texting her that he was actively suicidal and she was encouraging it and instructing him how to do it. i dont think its the same if you tell some random loser to kill himself

No. 1873218

>>1873189
She went much further than that; he was about to get out of the car he was gassing himself in and she urged him to stay in and keep dying

No. 1873308

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Why is that, whenever I see a tranny (both ftm and mtf, but mostly mtf) on the internet, they're always from America? sometimes Canada/Australia/Germany but mostly from the USA. for example, I've seen lots of neocities websites made by trannies that stated their country in the "about me" section, and every single one of them is from America. Is that shithole of a country(no offense to burgernonnies) infested with them just like the bubonic plague from London in the 17th century?

No. 1873312

>>1872677
pixielocks for sure. and old taylor R, but she's being overly nitpicked now imo. venusangelic used to be entertaining but her downward spiral is sad.

No. 1873314

>>1873308
Population-wise there are way more people in USA compared to Australia/Germany/especially Canada (even with the size). A country like Russia China or India population-wise most people wouldn't be posting about that shit especially not in English

No. 1873347

>>1873062
He kinda looks like Lady Gaga on this gif.

No. 1873357

What do you personally use to write? I've used google docs like 99% of people but I'm curious if any anons use programs like scrivener, notion, etc to write their stories? I don't know if these programs are like just memes or not or if they actually make life easier or more interesting, but because I'm interested in how these various apps catalogue things nicely I want to know if they're good enough to actually put in the time investment to learn them

No. 1873358

Why do some pregnant women look absolutely radiant while other look like they are dying? Is it how compatible they are with the mans dna/how much the moid is stressing them out?

No. 1873360

>>1873357
i would try out the other programs, but using google docs and being able to just pull out my phone and write whenever and wherever inspiration hits, and not have to transfer it somewhere else later is really useful. I use notion for other things like lists and cataloguing though

No. 1873363

Anons, I’m sorry to ask but this has been bothering me. Do you all really think English women are ugly?

No. 1873367

>>1873360
I see, how long did it take you to learn notion? I'm going to be honest I don't know shit about programming, scripting or html so when I watched a guide video on it I got scared. It seems that notion can either stay really simple or get really incredibly complicated which kind of intimidates me

No. 1873372

>>1873367
i just messed around with for a week or two. I don't use the super-complicated features because I don't need them. If you want to use it just for writing a story, I think it'd be pretty simple

No. 1873376

>>1873363
not at all, i think it's just stereotypes and people on the internet making edgy memes. english women are beautiful.

No. 1873380

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>>1873363
I don't, I never use the bad Brit genes phrase because I actually find Brit women very beautiful

No. 1873382

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is it okay to exaggerate community service hours on scholarship applications? and does participating in student research surveys count as involvement in the university?

so many scholarships for my major require leadership or involvement at the university but no fucking opportunities exist for me as an online student, not even any clubs or organizations.

No. 1873387

>>1873376
>>1873380
Thank you, I know it’s daft but it’s always in the back of my mind when I think about travelling abroad.

No. 1873390

>>1873100
it was an euphemism for homosexuality with men. Homosexuality was taboo then and needed to be censored. He wasn’t talking about women in that song. Surprised how many anons genuinely think he was bi and not just in the closet about being totally gay.

No. 1873396

>>1872766
Three of my mutuals on tumblr are confirmed farmers. Considering I don't get political, just post animu shit, manga screenshots and liveblog me playing games, and we haven't actually interacted on a personal basis (except for with one, years ago), I wonder how many more there are that I just don't know about lol.

No. 1873400

What do you do with the barrel storage unit lock when you aren’t renting the unit anymore?

No. 1873404

>>1873062
I think he's 100 percent gay but maybe slept with a woman/ was with a woman once time. You can be with the opposite sex once and then realize you're really gay or not. I think he is gay from his actions and how he carried himself.

No. 1873406

>>1873308
It's privilege. They're always white too. Think about it.

No. 1873416

>>1873363
No, I don't. Same with German women.

No. 1873429

>>1873170
I’ve also heard “Bicycle” was a sly reference to his bisexuality because of the first 2 letters but that’s probably just a rumor somebody online came up with

No. 1873431

>>1873363
No, but i am biased because i lived in the UK, but the makeup trends people meme on are true though.

No. 1873443

>>1873363
Nope. Though as someone who grew up in NA with britbong genes (both my parents are English but we moved overseas when I was a baby) I'm considered fairly ugly, but I've also seen lots of English women who are very pretty so I don't think I can blame that on my ethnicity kek. Like anywhere in the world there's natural variation, I think moids who obsess about rating the attractiveness of women from different countries like they're a commodity are extremely creepy

No. 1873453

>>1873357
eh, I don't really write seriously but I jot down notes and ideas. I found notion to be very bloated and I ended up using Joplin. I've been using it a year between my devices and I love it. It does have plenty of functions. However, the "catalogue" system mostly works by tags. Honestly if you don't know anything about scripting or whatever maybe you should get a simpler program because you're far more likely to write if it's easier to do.
>>1873358
is there any scientific basis to the pregnancy glow in general? I figured that maybe some underweight women gain weight during it so they (temporarily) look better. I figure the stress otherwise will be damaging.
>>1873363
rule of thumb: beware of listening to anyone that rates/judges entire races and nationalities.

No. 1873492

People using more than just a couple social media accounts, how do you manage them all without feeling overwhelmed?

No. 1873496

>>1873363
Nah just some silly trolling. Am a burger so I’m used to you guys always calling us fatties

No. 1873519

>>1873492
Dedicate a day to each one and use a calendar. Helps a lot.

No. 1873537

has anyone ever touched a dead body at an open casket funeral? what does it feel like? i expect the body to be cold but is the skin texture different?

No. 1873541

>>1873537
I think most of the times the casket has glass exactly to avoid people touching the body because it could damage the work made by the embalmer. At least in my country, or at the funerals I've been at these last years, I've mostly seen a glass panel.

No. 1873547

How would you react if you were talking to someone and their facial expression showed clear signs of profound disgust but they kept agreeing with you in a polite tone?

No. 1873548

>>1873547
Probably change the subject. If it's someone I know very well, I'd probably laugh and call them out

No. 1873553

>>1873547
I'd laugh because I'm socially inept lol

No. 1873560

Hwow often do you do your laundry? Bedsheets and regular laundry.

No. 1873563

>>1873537
It feels leathery, cold, I don't know. I brushed my finger against the back of my paternal grandmother's hand (she had a veil over her body though) and it certainly felt that way. Her hand also looked like it had makeup on it because I couldn't see her melasma spots, so maybe that contributed to it? Old people skin has that kind of leathery feel already, but it felt rough leathery. Kind of waxy, and most importantly dead cold. But then again I didn't exactly want to do it for long, I just wanted to imprint her skin one last time. Also her body was relatively 'fresh' and well preserved since we didn't half ass on funerary services, but I would imagine it to be different depending on the stage of decomposition?

No. 1873567

My bf has a scorpion tattoo with the wrong number of legs, is it rude if I ask him to get the missing legs tatted bc it hardcore bothers me every time I see it, which is every day

No. 1873570

>>1873567
thats kind of a gay tattoo for a man to have, tell him he should have it removed

No. 1873572

>>1873570
I wish, its ugly as fuck I hate it so much.

No. 1873579

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I don’t know if this is the right thread to ask this, but is my boyfriend cheating or am I paranoid?
My boyfriend used to be very affectionate. He would call me every other day. When I sent photos of myself to him on Snapchat he’d save them in chat. Whenever I sent messages to him he’d respond to them quickly. Now he doesn’t do this anymore, and I can see that he’s active online but he takes a long time to respond to my messages (or sometimes doesn’t respond at all). He rarely ever says “I love you” first anymore. In the beginning of our relationship he’d send me long paragraphs declaring his love for me and constantly compliment me. He recently told me that he thinks he’s completely asexual even though he was anything but just a month ago.
There was an incident where a girl I didn’t know DM’ed me to say that my boyfriend was hitting on her boyfriend and that he was saying it was a joke but she wasn’t so sure. I believed him when he said he was joking. He is bisexual. He follows this one girl on Tik Tok who’s very attractive, and she also has multiple Twitter accounts which he all follows (some of which are private). He asked me if I was ok with him starting an Onlyfans account. He also started posting somewhat suggestive photos (for instance, a photo of his pants where his ass is turned to the camera and his shirt is lifted up slightly) even though he initially deleted all the suggestive photos on his account when we started dating.
I’m afraid that accusing him of cheating would do more harm than good. If I asked him about it and he genuinely wasn’t that would destroy his trust in me.

No. 1873582

>>1873579
Samefag but to clarify he was saying he was bisexual before he started saying he was asexual

No. 1873587

i'm moved to canada and we don't have the matcha latte powder from trader joe's because we don't HAVE trader joe's and it's all i fucking want right now do any of you nonas know a good replacement for it?

No. 1873589

>>1873579
>>1873582
Idk if he’s cheating for sure, but it sounds like he’s changed over the course of your relationship. that could mean his feelings towards you have changed. rather than accusing him of cheating, I think you should bring up him seeming more distant or less affectionate. see how he responds. if he’s not fully in it with you, cut your losses and look elsewhere

No. 1873591

>>1873579
it doesnt sound like he's cheating but girl, its over

No. 1873607

>>1873579
idk about cheating but you should leave him before he leaves you, soon

No. 1873609

>>1873579
He sounds like a fag either way, break up

No. 1873620

If I have high cognitive empathy(know why someone feels bad and why I should make them feel better), high affective empathy(I feel what others feel very strongly), yet I really dgaf about others and mosty feel annoyed by it. Is there even a word for that? Like I both mentally and psychically know what others feel, yet I dont really care much at all about that person, usually just feel digust and annoyance, as well as what they are feeling

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No. 1873634

>>1873626
I grew up in an environment where I was punished for showing weakness/negative emotions so maybe thats why. Its like I physically have the capability for having empathy, both the understanding and reaction, but I still cant bring myself care.

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No. 1873640

>>1873620
When you’re feeling bad you try to comfort yourself. If you actually felt what others are feeling wouldn’t you try to comfort them? Having awareness of the way others feel doesn’t make you an empath, abusers are aware of how shit they make their victims feel, and will often get delight from saying the right thing that makes them feel the worst. Not saying you’re an abuser or a psychopath, I just don’t think you’re “high affective empathy” just for being able to acknowledged someone’s feelings, it’s very different from actually feeling them yourself/actually empathizing.

No. 1873647

I have a question for the nonnas who don't feel any difference after drinking coffee: has anything else worked for you? Other than getting 8+ hours of sleep, of course.

No. 1873651

>>1873640
Well thats what I specified it that I actually feel it too, otherwise I wouldnt asked bc then there would be nothing to wonder about. If I see someone get kicked in the stomach, I can feel it in my stomach. If someone cries, I often cry with them. I can actually feel their emotions, I just still dont give a shit. I do comfort people, but thats just out of a social obligation/personal gain, not bc I really care.

No. 1873653

>>1873647
Good food and exercise. Nothing else really helps.

No. 1873654

>>1873634
ayrt sorry deleted because i didn't think it was relevant but i'm the same way and not bpd or whatever anons are diagnosing you with lol. from the way you worded your post i could tell it was an emotional issue. a lot of people will fake being nice and not actually care fwiw, it's better to be genuine even if that means you have a lower threshhold for giving a shit.

No. 1873658

>>1873537
unfortunately i've hugged close family in the hospital who had passed away a few hours prior. very cold, hard from the rigor mortis setting in, i think very slightly rougher.

No. 1873672

>>1873647
no. sleeping doesn't work either, i've been like this since childhood.

No. 1873675

This is gonna sound really selfish but sometimes I see things about war and I get very sad for the women and children in the areas, but then I feel helpless and it just eats at me I don’t really want to donate to a scam or anything so what should I ido?

No. 1873677

>>1873675
support those women locally. when the war broke after covid a lot of ukrainian women came here so I volunteered and donated stuff directly to them. literally went and asked if there was any item they needed, but a lot of them already had most necessities so I got them toiletries and some toys for their kids. you can find out what kinds of business these women have in your city, if you live in a big city. support those businesses.

No. 1873692

>>1873560
Normal laundry about twice a week because I have work clothes I have to wash because I sweat a lot. Bedsheets, I have at least three or four different sets of pillowcases. I rotate the pillowcases more often because of my greasy hair, so I get the pillowcase washed after two weeks or so and duvet covers I try to rotate at least once a month. Might be twice a month in the summer if it's hot as all hell.
However I am a heathen who doesn't separate normal laundry from bedsheets, nor colors from whites cuz ain't nobody got time for that and my wardrobe has little to no white.

No. 1873827

Does anybody know a nice jewelry brand that makes original/edgy designs for nipple piercings? Not necessarily high end stuff but I don't want cheap tacky shit like Oufer.

No. 1873981

Guy I was seeing broke up with me about a month ago. It was amicable. We haven't spoken since. I noticed today he's blocked me. What does it mean?

No. 1873988

>>1873981
Probably has a new gf who doesn't want him to follow his exes and he likes her.

No. 1874008

>>1873406
I've noticed they're always white but I'm talking nation wise. I live in Eastern Europe and I've seen no tranny, not even in the capital of my country

No. 1874016

>>1873981
Missing you and doesn’t want to be reminded of you

No. 1874086

>>1874008
I'm from an ex-commie Euro country and I've seen two troons in my life. A TIF and a TIM. TIM I bullied out of a group I'm in.

No. 1874144

So I've had pirated adobe software on my device for over two years now but I suddenly got an "Adobe genuine service alert" warning, why did it suddenly show up after all this time?

No. 1874165

>>1874144
Probably the same reason that one unzipping software (winrar) does the same "buy us! you expired!" but nothing happens.

No. 1874206

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Does anyone else hate some benign trend for no real reason?
I hate the frog trend. I actually like frogs, but seeing them trend is gross to me for some reason. Suddenly they were just everywhere all the time. It feels like the fast food version of food or sweatshop clothes, like something nice has been turned into a cheap meme for a hot second. Sure you "love" frogs huh just like all those people who were obsessed with llamas and alpacas only to never speak of them again once the trend was over, and how's your tumblerina owl necklace doing?

No. 1874211

>>1874206
I wish I was a llamba

No. 1874212

Aussies, when thinking of summer and winter, do you think of snow and sunshine each, or do you also asociate sun with summer and snow with winter?

No. 1874218

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>>1874206
i'm annoyed by the garfield resurgence and worms on a string for that same reason. and idk if it counts but being into werewolves, vampires and dnd fantasy has become so fucking lame and watered down.

also i literally have a classmate called frog who fucking loves garfield lol.

No. 1874233

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my friends invited me to a metal show, wtf do I wear? what should I expect? never been to anything like this before. my usual clothes are either goth or lolita but I don't wanna stand out in a bad way or look like a poser

No. 1874234

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>>1874206
I get what you mean but I still like owls and Alpacas tbh

No. 1874241

>>1874212
Depends on the state, but I'd say the general consensus is that summer is blistering sunshine and winter is midtier cold but no snow (temperature of a UK summer in northern states such as QLD, but gets colder the closer to Antarctica you get). Even in places like Tasmania it doesn't snow profusely. It just gets cold. If you want snow in Australia you usually go to New Zealand or Japan kek. When I think of snow I think of other countries because it's so unlikely to happen here. We don't get a lot of media promoting the image of winter with snow either; if it does snow somewhere it doesn't usually they goes apeshit.

No. 1874264

>>1874233
You can definitely wear goth to a metal show, maybe something more casual like a tshirt or sweater with a skirt or pants, nothing too elaborate. metalheads really won’t judge either way, depending on where you live there may be a slight overlap of the scenes.

No. 1874265

>>1874233
I never go to metal but my edgy old friends just wear black, dyed color hair, piercings and tattood.

No. 1874267

Does anyone have youtube? (Mainly vlog/lifestyle), how is it? Do you manage other socials? How do you go in public?

No. 1874327

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In the sentence: "Scaffold activities to ensure student success," the context being ways in which teachers can devise engaging lessons with students, what does the verb "scaffold" mean? I can't figure it out and all I can think of is scaffolds from Minecraft.

No. 1874329

>>1874327
It's mean structure. Structuring activities to ensure student success

No. 1874341

>>1874329
Thank you I love you

No. 1874389

is 19 too old to start sport?

No. 1874410

>>1874389
Too old to learn a sport to reach Olympian/professional levels? Yes. Too old to learn a sport to have fun and get exercise? Definitely not.

No. 1874436

>>1874233
black shirt and black pants/skirt and boots.s

No. 1874623

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If you can't get banned in meta does that mean I can do my shitposting there? im dying. I know I can't but I'm dying

No. 1874747

is eating straight sugar really weird?

No. 1874754

>>1874264
>>1874265
>>1874436
Thank you nonnies I went with a black skirt and some boots and I wasn't out of place at all!! Everyone was so nice and it was fun ♥

No. 1874778

>>1874747
Weird and fat

No. 1874801

>>1874747
i mean is it like a little thimble of sugar or straight spoonfuls

No. 1874855

>>1874747
yes, it tastes like shit. sugar is something you add to elevate other flavors, you don't eat it as is

No. 1874875

some housemate had diarrhea and didnt bother to clean the toilet, should I send a message to them or would that be too obnoxious?

No. 1874877

>>1874875
You should beat him up and hold his head by the toilet so he gets a glimpse of the shit stains, then you put his head inside while flushing several times, call him a filthy pig too

No. 1874878

>>1874875
Take a picture and FLAME them in the group chat asking which one of you nasty bitches shitted up the commode like an animal, screenshot and post their response on social media if they don't fix the issue and make sure to tag them in it.

No. 1874879

>>1873560
Bedsheets changed weekly
Wash trousers/skirts/jumpers every second wear, everything else I wash after one wear

No. 1874918

>>1873560
>bedsheets
every other week washing, changing weekly, pillowcase once a week
>regular laundry
about 2-3 times per week depending on amount, excluding jeans and knitwear which get washed as needed

No. 1874944

Does a hole make a bagel? Can you have a holeless bagel? And does this make cheerios and circle cereal bagel shaped?

No. 1875041

>>1874206
I've always loved frogs since I was a kid so I like the frog trend kek, but I can see what you mean after comparing it to the alpaca and owl craze in the past. I wonder what the next quirky animal people are going to obsess over is…

No. 1875056

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>>1874206
Frogs are just mustaches for zoomers

No. 1875061

>>1875056
jfc, I had a jumpscare that i was teleported back to 2011.

No. 1875064

>>1874206
I love frogs and it sucks zoomers have latched onto the frog trend. It's always super gendies and TRAs too. Like leave the frogs alone

No. 1875071

>>1875041
I'm glad we can be consciously aware of the random animals that become fads. Sloths and unicorns were a huge thing in like 2009 too. Who wants to bet on the next animal? I'm putting my sights on deers. I love deers, people have been heading in the soft forest animal direction, but maybe a simple fish will reign.

No. 1875078

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>>1874218
I’ve loved Garfield since I was a little kid and the Garfield and Friends cartoon is a comfort show for me. The current trend is conflicting for me. I like seeing more Garfield stuff everywhere, but I know that most of these people don’t have an actual interest in the series and only like it in a meme sort of way which bums me out

No. 1875082

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>>1875071
Deer already had their time on tumblr/Pinterest around 2012-2015. Deer pics were everywhere plus that was around the same time as the flower crown trend, so you would see a ton of crowns with antlers. And of course I have to mention the hideous fawn makeup trend.

Currently I’ve started seeing a ton of merch for highland cows and some for axolotls too

No. 1875084

>>1875071
I feel like deer and foxes have been kinda trendy before though (not that I would mind if they were again because I love both). My guess for the next quirky animal fad is capybaras, they're already getting more trendy on social media

No. 1875122

This lady keeps showing up in my YouTube shorts so I finally watched, and what is up with her cat? She thinks he is just clingy but I swear he must be in some kind of distress. I wonder if he’s been checked by a vet. Is there some kind of cat mental illness that could cause this? I think he might be physically in distress though

No. 1875123

>>1875082
This was the worst trend and I'm glad it's gone. it was fun at the renn faire, but then I started to see it everywhere, even at anime cons

No. 1875146

>>1874944
the hole and the technique, it would just be boiled bread, and sure

No. 1875186

>>1875056
The mustache trend will always remind me of a lesbian I knew who trooned out.

No. 1875338

My excuse for this question is that I don't have a dad and rarely drive.
How do I know what jumper cables to buy?

I want to get my boyfriend a set of high quality jumper cables because he just got stuck at work because his jumper cables are bad. I know I can read reviews to get an idea about quality, but are there different types for different cars? Is there anything specific I need to know before I start shopping around?

No. 1875341

I’m about 4 weeks pregnant, just found out today. I was not planning this, and didn’t want to get pregnant any time soon. I recently even left my job. I have a bit of savings but I didn’t wanna use it for this. I’m pro-choice. I’m scared about giving birth the thought terrifies me, plus all that comes with being pregnant for 9 months.

So why do I not want an abortion?

No. 1875346

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Are farmers associated with old British ladies? I’m a newfag and this is the first time I’d heard this mentioned.

No. 1875348

>>1875341
It is incredibly hard to make the decision to get invasive surgery to remove the child from you. Pregnancy and birth is indescribably exhausting and painful, I would compare it to going to war and just barely making it back. The process of making the decision, then going and getting an abortion itself is horrifying. Recovering from an abortion is similar to recovering from giving birth, so your apprehension and fear of both decisions is perfectly sensical. We're here for you no matter what you choose nonnie.

No. 1875359

>>1875341
Like I’m thinking about getting it all over with by 25 (currently 24), and I can think of two pros. 1, I’m young so I can heal/recover better and sooner/faster, and 2, My kid would be 10 or 11 by the time I’m 35, which means increasingless parenting by the time I’m 45 and hopefully done with it all by 50. Plus the fact that it would be awesome to be a parent and do things differently

No. 1875364

>>1875348
>Recovering from an abortion is similar to recovering from giving birth,

No the fuck it is not. It's way easier, mentally and physically to recover from an abortion. When you give birth you bleed for weeks after, your hormone levels are completely fucked, your organs rearranged and now have to move back to normal, and not to mention now you have a screaming newborn to look after.

>>1875341
You probably just wanna be a mom. If you don't want to abort you should look into whatever government assistance you can, since you recently lost your job. Take prenatals and always go to your checkups. You have about 6 more weeks to decide if you want to proceed with the pregnancy, so you should do budgeting and think very realistically. Are you and the potential childs father on good terms? If not I'd personally advocate for the abortion tbh

No. 1875368

>>1875348
Thank you. I guess that’s what is holding me back. I’ve heard abortion is just as painful. I see it like I’d gain nothing from aborting, my life would be back to normal eventually but with the possibility of nightmares about it and haunting regret after. On the other hand, I would never hate my kid no matter what even though I didn’t want it rn if I choose to keep it…

No. 1875374

>>1875368
Please don't listen to that anon. The abortion is way less painful than childbirth and you're good to go the same day (physically) not saying you should abort or anything, but don't be misinformed about it.

No. 1875377

>>1875346
is this about TERFs? GC women are stereotyped as older British women, UK is called TERF island.

No. 1875379

>>1875368
Exactly what >>1875374 said. That other anon is full of shit. Also depending on where you are, you could get the “abortion pill” so you may not even necessarily need a procedure to terminate

No. 1875383

>>1875377
that makes a lot of sense thank you. The messages were from a thread focused on a tif.

No. 1875384

>>1875368
Sorry I don’t want to spam you or pressure you, but it seems like you don’t know a lot about your options so I wanted to follow up on my previous comment with a link

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion/the-abortion-pill

No. 1875400

>>1875341
>>1875368
Anon's straight up lying to you. You don't need to get a surgery, at only 4 weeks you are comfortably within the time frame of getting an abortion pill. The pain experienced aftet taking it varies widely.

No. 1875402

>>1875377
They wish all gc women came from one place, but we exist in all countries. You're living in a terve world, troons.

No. 1875440

Is it possible to teach yourself how to ride a bike? Or are there like adult classes to learn? None of my close friends know how to ride a bike either so it’s useless to ask them kek

No. 1875443

>>1875377
> TERF Island
Based

No. 1875449

>>1875440
you can learn to ride a bike in a day if you really want to. there's tons of videos about it, just google it.

No. 1875474

>>1875440
I don't see why not, you can get training wheels for adult bikes too if you feel like it'd help.

No. 1875479

>>1875379
>>1875364
>way easier, mentally and physically to recover from an abortion
When you get an abortion you do bleed for days later, they don't just suck all the blood out of you at once. Your hormones are also completely fucked by the initial flood of pregnancy hormones, which are abruptly disrupted by the excretion of the baby.
>>1875374
>>1875379
>>1875400
Ok well personally when I had one, which granted was later than 4 weeks, healing from the dismemberment/suction method of abortion is absolutely fucking brutal. Yes, I would absolutely compare it to recovering from giving birth, because your cervix and vaginal canal isn't somehow unaffected or untouched by the process of abortion. Maybe an abortion pill process is much gentler, but getting an abortion (depending on how late she chooses to make the decision) and recovering from it can 100% without a doubt just as bad as giving birth. Yeah, you obviously don't have a screaming infant to learn how to breastfeed, but that doesn't just withdraw the physical pain women suffer from after having an invasive abortive service, just like I said in my post. I don't understand why everyone is angry with me and calling me a liar for making an accurate post…

No. 1875481

>having an abortion is easier than having a baby!!1!!
Can't we just agree that they're both horrific?

No. 1875488

>>1875479
I'm sorry but this is just plain not true. I'm sure individual experiences vary and all, but I've had an abortion at 9 weeks and I would never compare it to childbirth. It really sucked, don't get me wrong, it felt very scary and invasive and I was heavily bleeding for 6 weeks after. It was by no means easy. But only the most severely botched abortion could come close to being able to tear your vaginal canal the same way giving birth can.

No. 1875490

>>1875440
You just have to gain momentum by using your legs to push you while sitting down on the bike and then pedal, you got this.

No. 1875494

Will I ever be able to donate blood even if I'm taking medication for my high blood sugar levels? What if my sugar is actually normal now but only if I'm taking my medication? Will my sugar levels ever be normal without the medicine?

No. 1875495

>>1875488
I personally had my abortion at 27 weeks so that could be why my experience was more extreme, and my vagina definitely did not tear but there was extreme sour-feeling pain and my cervix was destroyed for about 2 weeks.

No. 1875499

>>1875495
nonna you are in the very small minority of women who get abortions and I understand why you’d feel so traumatized. Technically 24 week old fetuses have a chance at surviving outside the womb and you had an abortion at 27 weeks. Your experience is far more similar to those who have actually given birth than to the majority of women who have had abortions.

No. 1875507

>>1875495
Can I ask why you had one so late? Dont feel the need to answer if you dont want to

No. 1875508

Does discord not show anymore if someone is using the app from a phone?

No. 1875509

>>1875341
If you reflect inwards and be extremely and brutally truthful to yourself, is it because you think you're killing a child?

No. 1875512

>>1875499
Yeah I probably should've prefaced that mine was a lot later than OP's in my original response, I apologize nonnies! I don't want to scare her out of making the right choice for herself

>>1875368
You're able to get an abortion pill for another 20 weeks at your current stage!! Don't listen to me you could very easily have a much smoother recovery process.

>>1875507
So I didn't find out until I was 9 weeks (I know. Clueless), and I also don't have health insurance. I was originally trying to save up $700 for an abortion pill, but time continued to pass; and by the time I finally had $700 I was at the point of pregnancy where the only option I had was the D&E procedure. I had no choice but to save up the next $700 (it's around 1400 here) and then have my procedure. It was unusually lengthy for me due to my lack of healthcare.

No. 1875515

>>1875512
Thats really awful and I'm sorry you had to go through that.

No. 1875523

>>1875495
You should have lead with that retard. I had an abortion at like 9 or 10 weeks and I was fine after a day. Your situation is abnormal, OP is only 4 weeks in, if she got an abortion she'd be physically fine within a day or two.

No. 1875528

whats the name of the blueberry inflatable girl and whats her deal? I saw a clip of that girl at college painted blue and in a inflatable suit, she seemed nice.
Does she have autism?

No. 1875536

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>>1875528
You mean Violet Beauregarde? She tried full three course dinner gum at the Wonka's chocolate factory.
>Does she have autism?
Not sure, but she is a bit weird.

No. 1875537

>>1875528
i dont know if shes autistic but she sure is nasty. Sticking pieces of fucking gum behind her ears

No. 1875540

>>1875338
The only thing that might matter for different cars is wire thickness as different engines will draw different currents. Generally speaking diesel draws more than petrol, bigger engines draw more than smaller engines.
Length matters as you want to be able to reach from one battery to the other.
Clamps are a usability thing.

No. 1875546

>>1875536
Nah she means some youtuber girl who went in public in Violet's costume.
>>1875528
I forgot too, sorry, nonna, should've saved.

No. 1875548

Is inviting someone over to watch a movie etc always an invitation for sex? From either men or women (I’m bisexual). I wish people could just be straightforward about these things, if I had a male friend and he wanted to hang out I would assume it’s just a sleepover, same with female friends.

No. 1875549

>>1875546
Samefag, i found her.
>>1875528
You can ask her in the comments if she has it, heh

No. 1875550

>>1875546
She's so sweet seeming, it's weird, usually it's men obessed with childern media and they look disgusting. She's always well put together, doesn't look like she stinks, is in shape and has a odd voice but she was/is? In college or something. Wish I knew her name

No. 1875552

>>1875550
its obviously some inflation fetish stuff nonna kek

No. 1875555

>>1875559
Thanks, the comments are full of coomers and nothing really interesting.
>>1875552
yeah it just came to my dumb ass that she has a fetish or something.

No. 1875556

>>1875552
Btw does anyone else here have irrational fear of this shit? I swear nothing creeps me out like those costumes, I can't even explain why

No. 1875557

>>1875440
Yes you can teach yourself, and there are classes depending on where you live.

If you decide to teach yourself, the easiest way is to remove pedals of a bicycle, and then just push yourself with your feet while sitting down until you get the hang of the balance. After that you put on pedals and learn how to incorporate pedaling into it.

>>1875494
Depends on what the cause of your high blood sugar is. If it's bog standard diabetes, then no. If it's something like gestational diabetes, then yes.

No. 1875559

>>1875556
being completely honest if i saw her in person i'd probably get nervous and walk in the other direction because how is she so comfortable in that kek? i feel the exact same way with furries and even some alternative people. I dont know how to describe it but people who are overly attention seeking and go out of their way to physically present how badly they want attention makes me uncomfortable

No. 1875562

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I wonder if she does all this stuff alone, does she have a caretaker or something? She cosplays as characters but the "female versions" this is from a day ago.

No. 1875566

>>1875559
This too, but even if I had to wear the inflatable costume for whatever reason I feel like I would have a panic attack, this thing exactly is something out of nightmares
But yeah, I totally get what you mean, I think it's reasonable kek

No. 1875567

>>1875556
She looked disgusting moving her hands in the air like a cockroach while laying.
>>1875559
It was honestly surprising to me that nobody paid attention to her? Why do they not even notice? Do they just try not to make eye contact?

No. 1875577

>>1875474
I was wondering about training wheels. It’s good to know there are adult ones. Do training wheels help with learning how to brake and turn or are they just for balance purposes?

No. 1875583

>>1875577
Training wheels are supposed to hover a few cm over the ground, you're supposed to balance yourself, they're just there to catch you.
I do think that the pushing yourself without pedals is the fastest method of learning how to balance.

No. 1875600

Should I have a baby shower?
It's the first baby on my mums side of the family, I live 2 states away from family at the moment and it would be good go use it as an excuse to get family and friends together.
It wouldn't be a girl only thing since that seems to be the norm, my husband would be there too.

His family would have to fly in if they wanted to come (same state, 1.5 hour flight), I wouldn't be upset if they didn't though.

We also don't really want any gifts, also because we would have to try and fit them in luggage to take back home. I have a registery I've been using for my own organisation in baby related stuff so I could link that on the invited but say please don't feel the need to give us a gift, this is just so if you do want to give us something it's nothing big or bulky and can be delivered straight to our door.

In my head it's a kind of afternoon tea with scones and other yummies, then maybe a gender reveal.

No. 1875603

>>1875600
Aww you totally should nonna. If your husbands family isn't able to make it don't allow them to try and make you feel bad about your decision to have it closer to your family!

No. 1875609

>>1875603
2 of his 4 siblings all have multiple kids so I'm not worried that they'll be cranky at me haha. I'm an only child so my parents matter more in this imo first grand baby and first generation on mums side since I'm the oldest cousin

No. 1875653

>>1875600
>please don't feel the need to give us a gift
Don't be proud. You have baby in family that act deserves gifts. Link an Amazon wishlist that will deliver to your home address or to the address of a friend if you're going to be out of state for long. Fill it with mostly realistic things like diapers (don't ask for newborn size diapers because the baby will outgrow those the quickest), baby wipes, etc. This will save you a lot of money that can be used to provide for the baby in different ways. Family enjoys helping out family, it's not a burden on them, it's a celebration for you and the new life.

No. 1875663

is pain tolerance determined by genetics, exposure, or something else?

No. 1875666

>>1875653
Thats true, youre right. It just feels so awkward

No. 1875668

>>1875663
A combination of multiple factors. Like all things. Google would answer this easily.

No. 1875674

>>1875668
i looked it up but most answers said it's conditioning and linked me to clinical papers that i don't rlly feel like reading, just wondering if someone has a simpler explanation.

No. 1875680

>>1875668
>>1875674
>A combination of multiple factors. Like all things.
>most answers said it's conditioning and linked me to clinical papers that
Having absolutely no experience in this at all, and solely based on these two responses, I'm going to guess pain tolerance is like weather tolerance, e.g how you feel about 30F/-1C depends on what the weather was like where you grew up, what it's like where you live now, what the temperature has been the last few weeks and your natural feelings about cold weather.

Someone who lives in Maine vs Texas would have very different feelings about 30F. And someone who lives in Maine would have different feelings about 30F in the summer than in the winter. And in the winter if they past few days have been -10F/-23C would have different feelings about 30F then they would if the past few days had been 45F/7.2C. And someone who grew up in Maine but the spent the the last 10 years in Texas until moving back would have become habituated to Texas weather and probably wouldn't like 30F unless they were someone who loved could weather and were very happy to be back.

No. 1875694

Wasn't lolcow made by Creepshowart? Some weird fat awkward girl with a small internet presence. Kind of ironic if you think about it

No. 1875695

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>>1875694
>Wasn't lolcow made by Creepshowart

No. 1875706

>>1875338
Get the kind that has like a battery pack attached. You charge it at home and then just attach it to your battery, hit a button and start the vehicle. No need for another person in a separate vehicle. My dad got me one that also charges usb type stuff and powers regular plugs (so if you need a light or heater or whatever). It's so nice not needing to rely on other drivers for a boost.
Also the longest cables you can find, so if he's in a ditch and needs a jump from a separate vehicle or vehicles facing opposite directions the cables can reach.

No. 1875715

>>1875695
Who made lolcow?

No. 1875721


No. 1875722

>>1875715
Lurk moar

No. 1875765

>>1875715
Don't you remember? It was PT, the queen (God save the queen) she did a dance so kawaii desu that Kami himself gave her the magical power to code, but she didn't even use that power, she just blinked with her big ol' eyes and lolcow appeared, then she created the farmhands, and then she implanted a special kawaii chip so all farmers can activate their farmer powers to generate autism waves that will give her eternal kawaiiness.
Once she becomes the ultimate kawaii aidoru, we will materialize in the super special scenario where we will watch her do the most exquisite kawaii idol dances that the universe has ever been allowed to witness.

No. 1875768

>>1875715
Some guy started the website but I'm pretty certain he sold it to a woman who gave a shit about the quiality of the site. I think? I hope. I don't know

No. 1875799

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I really need advice. I am severely depressed and I have tried everything except regular therapy because I can't afford it (therapy where I live is insanely expensive and my insurance doesn't cover any of it). I hate living so much that I can't imagine making it past a couple more years at most, and tbh I am afraid I won't make it that long because once every month or so I get really close to putting my plans in place. My parents have finally realized how bad I am after I had a breakdown at work and admitted it to them, and they have offered to pay for therapy.

This might sound like an obvious solution but my parents don't have any money to spare because they are older and on a fixed income and already live very frugally to get by. My mom said she would go back to work to help me pay for it but the thought of my poor mother doing that makes me physically ill with guilt and I just can't accept it. It's extra horrible too because my brother is a complete fuck up who is still mooching off of them well into adulthood and makes their lives hell, I was supposed to be the one who had her shit together to ease their burden. I just can't bring myself to accept their offer, they already struggle so much.

But then I start thinking, wouldn't it be worse for them if I killed myself and didn't accept their help? But even still, I just CAN'T take their offer. It's unconscionable to me.

What should I do?

No. 1875804

>>1875799
Is there any low-income or employment assistant programs available through your work or parents? Might be worth looking into if you are and haven't. Maybe look into apps online or even talking regularly with crisis lines *you don't have to always be in crisis you can ask for resources in your area. I know its hard recieving help but people want to help you.

No. 1875805

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Doing online groceries, what should I put in my cart

No. 1875806

when was the last time you saw someone chewing gum

No. 1875809

>>1875765
wow you're so well integrated and witty. Now, I still wonder. I'd like to know who made and runs the place that I've spent 7 years of my life on. It's…weird that nobody knows who made or who runs this place or that there's no information available online

No. 1875811

>>1875806
last week unless you count the poster reading this as someone in which case two days ago.

No. 1875812

>>1875806
Today actually, the kid sitting next to me on the bus. I was a little envious since I suffer from jaw issues and can no longer enjoy gum.

No. 1875815

Why do moods in long-term relationships/marriages often get tired of fucking the same pussy when they originally promised to commit? I’m sure when the wives/gfs get tired of sucking and fucking the same dick, said moods would go into an autistic frenzy

No. 1875820

>>1875806
i am chewing some right now. gave my mum a piece

No. 1875849

i'm not trained in any musical sense at all. can you really hear the difference between a song made by someone who understands and applies music theory vs someone who completely disregards it, even though it still sounds good?

No. 1875853

>>1875528
>>1875549
>>1875562
>>1875550
What y’all know about Berry Biolet?? Yeah, she’s pretty clearly autistic or special needs, just look at her interests and how she talks. It seems like she went to college all by herself, she goes to the Disney theme parks and on cruises with her (probably rich) family. The berry inflation stuff is fetish content, she even does commission videos like vidrel.

No. 1875856

I have noticed that there is a positive relationship between amen’s lips size and his penis girth, can someone agree on or disprove this?

No. 1875859

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>>1875853
Samefag, she’s also 30 I thought she was in her early 20s at least.

No. 1875864

why would it be a bad thing to use dumbass shit as a chatroom? admin can just enable ads and bam money made off the traffic

No. 1875866

>>1875799
have you already tried dbt workbooks and others you can find on libgen? are you more depressed due to environment or "biological" reasons? if you are that close to ending your life, i want to give a gentle reminder therapy isn't magic and it takes time to build a relationship (also many therapists suck) so be ready to have patience. can you or have you been calling suicide hotlines? group therapy can also be cheaper, can you find like a dbt skills group?

No. 1875871

>>1875864
I wasn’t around for it but there were some sort of on site chat rooms at one point >>>/meta/805 Only they can really answer but I assume the problem with dumbass shit and similar threads is attracting people from less desirable parts of the internet who fail to integrate, right? It’s not the amount of people using in the threads or on /ot/ just their behaviors.

No. 1875874

>>1875856
Well, you may be onto something. My ex had almost no lips and his pp was on the smaller side despite being tall. Then there's Willem Dafoe and James Purefoy who have defined lips (Dafoe had them when younger) and they have big dicks. Bit it's probably just a coincidence.

No. 1875876

>>1875856
how does the equation work if a man's lips are uneven? (like bigger upper lip with thin lower lip, and vice versa)

No. 1875877

>>1875876
It's about the total volume of both lips not about the surface area of either lip.

No. 1875894

>>1875856
My last ex had really big lips and a big dick, the one before him had normal lips and a small dick, and the ex before that had smaller lips and a big dick.

No. 1875902

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Does anyone get a weird rush of happy anxiety when thinking about doing something that will objectively improve you life, so much so that the prospect intimidates you? How do I cure this autism it's genuinely making my life horrible? I shouldn't be scared of doing things that are good for me. I swear I only ever do or learn things by osmosis now because getting directly involved makes me want to somersault into the moon
>download book to study
>wow i'm so excited to learn this will make me so much better
>never end up studying it because the idea makes me so giddy it overwhelms me
>repeat ad nauseum

No. 1875920

>>1875902
Yesss, although I have no idea how you could work on that, I'd like to know too. Life right now seems to be an endless list of disappointments that I brought on myself. Maybe we just need to focus better on what we should do and less on what we could accomplish if we succeed.

No. 1875927

>>1875902
Omg, I feel the same with a lot of things. What helped me was to just sneak a peek and then to force myself to keep looking even though the initial contact is overwhelming. After a while it stops feeling that way and it becomes just another thing I have and can use. Like getting new shoes and being nervous about dirtying them, but once you wear them it becomes easy to just continue and you stop thinking about dirt entirely

No. 1875938

How likely is it to get pregnant from precum? I read chances are pretty low but I'm absolutely terrified of the possibility. Didn't do the pull out method btw I'm not that stupid

No. 1875939

I stick to sports bras because they're more comfy and faster to put on
They're not the kind that compresses my chest
But is there any health reason to go for a wired bra?
I always thought boob sagging happens regardless due to mass + pregnancy + skin aging and losing elasticity

No. 1875940

>>1875939
I start slouching when I'm wearing a sports bra because I can't feel the wire dig into my ribs so I don't remember to stand up straight lol.

No. 1875946

>>1875939
>>1875940
I've recently been to the doctor because I found a lump in my breast. It turned out to be just inflamation and it could be easily treated with hormonal cream. He suggested that preassure from wired bras could be a factor for some minor problems like mine. It's a very sensible area and many brands make shitty bras that can't handle a gentle machine wash, so the wire ends twisting itself inside the fabric and sometimes it's too tight agains women's ribs. Doctor suggested I mostly use wireless bras and I'm following his advice. I'm a 85B so there's not much to hold in terms of mass anyway.

No. 1875970

>>1875859
i was watching her the other day during one of her cgi berry violet adventures it was the theme park one and somewhere in the late middle she mentioned liking boys who look very young with no facial hair…it really put me off her being innocent…

No. 1875972

>>1875970
nevermind its still innocent i guess i misremembered how she worded it

No. 1875990

>>1875509
When people use that argument I’ve never been one to care. Still really don’t know what’s holding me back. I really think I should have it because I don’t feel mature enough, mentally healthy, or financially stable. I don’t have a degree at 24. I am behind in life achievements and I don’t want to depend on my SO. I guess I’d have to look into a quick certification that I can finish by 9 months.

I guess I don’t know how natural is an abortion? And also that I am sure I might not want another kid after plus that I know a lot of people who had kids in not perfect conditions and they turned out fine

No. 1875994

If I only had sexual fantasies about women (even if they don’t include sex because through early puberty I didn’t know how lesbian sex worked) even if they’re really fetishistic and sadistic does that mean I’m a lesbian because I’ve never had those about guys?

No. 1875997

>>1875990
Are you secretly considering handing off the kid to your mom or parents for help with raising it? If you have a kid now you're not going to finish a degree. If you do you'll be in your 40s. If you feel like you're already behind in life imagine yourself sitting in a classroom full of people in their 20s trying to get your first degree. Are you and the baby daddy even married? If not you have no legal protection and he can easily leave you in the dust financially. If you are not even independent you shouldn't be having child. We haven't even seen the worst of the economic crisis we're entering in right now. Prices are only going up.

No. 1876005

>>1875990
Unpopular but I don't think you should push yourself into it if you feel held back, since I've known women who didn't realize they felt pressured (e.g., by a bf, by their work) to end things when their gut was telling them to hesitate, and they ended up having a lot of emotional stress about it later. I know birth is daunting but if you did decide later on that you don't want to raise a child, you could give them up for adoption, it's not like you're committing to the whole thing by taking time to think some more. I just don't think this is something to rush or to depend too much on external validation for (especially from people who don't know you or who would have a vested interest) since I've known several women who ended up feeling like that choice was made for them and that their personal feelings were disregarded. You are not being stupid for having doubts, a lot of women go through that. Be well nona

No. 1876016

>>1876005
That’s terrible advice. Giving a kid for adoption is not something to take so lightly. She could “just” have another kid after abortion instead

No. 1876022

What is wrong with people born in the 70s and 80s? I see a lot of boomer hate on the Internet but most boomers I know are nice to deal with. It is the Gen X and late millennials that are the most mean-spirited and deeply retarded IMO. My take on it is they are cranky because they are getting older but are deeply lobotomized due to only knowing a world with blockbuster movies, videogames, and neoloberalism. Essentially the first "modern" generations.

No. 1876032

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do u think azaelia posts here? she talks like my fave nonnies

No. 1876034

>>1876032
>weird ass tapeworm
lmaoo she for sure does, queen

No. 1876039

>>1876032
She absolutely does

No. 1876054

How often do you wash the floors?

No. 1876055

>>1876054
Once a week. In between I do little spot cleans, if something truly gross happens I might just whip out the mop to take care of the mess or paper towel and disinfectant if I’m being a bit lazy.

No. 1876057

>>1876054
For the bathroom once a week, for everywhere else in the apartment it's never. I sweep and vacuum but I've never mopped or scrubbed the floors in my apartment since moving in 2 years ago. I wear indoor slippers and I don't plan on eating off my floors.

No. 1876064

>>1875990
>I don’t know how natural is an abortion?
Nature schmature. What good is nature? Ancient Egyptians were doing abortions 3000 years ago and Ancient Romans just abandoned their unwanted babies to die in a pit outside town built exclusively for that purpose. Meanwhile a modern medical abortion is taking a few pills and then having a heavy period afterwards. Don't bring a child into this world if you aren't 100% sure that you want it.

No. 1876069

>>1876016
>>1876005
Yeah I would not want to give them up for adoption and I don’t think I feel pressured. He doesn’t want me to abort it, my mom does not care any which way but I feel like like she lowkey hopes I abort it. I don’t know

No. 1876073

>>1876064
I mean I’m 100% sure I want it just I don’t want it at this point of my life? I wish I could just somehow keep it till later

No. 1876076

What does a pink triangle mean on kiwifarms?

No. 1876079

>>1876073
Damn you can always get pregnant later nonnie.

No. 1876086

How do manga piracy websites decide on what gets uploaded? I understand that manga is just Japanese comics but I assumed they only uploaded comic that were officially published like JJK in Shonen Jump but if it's a webcomic/series it shouldn't be. But I noticed some non-Japanese stuff getting uploaded like tamen de gushi (Chinese webseries) so do they just upload anything by East Asian artists regardless of how it's published??

No. 1876091

>>1876076
Disruptive users/retards/lolcows

No. 1876098

>>1876076
The disruptive guest triangle? You get it for annoying behavior, like cowtipping, being an annoying troon etc. It's a holocaust reference for gay prisoners

No. 1876107

>>1876073
I'll be honest, I think most women regret getting rid of the baby even if its 100% the right choice. They have alot of emotional turmoil afterwards around it. I think socially people put on a brave face because at the end of the day it is better if you cant afford or want a kid right now, but when theyre with their own thoughts or if theyre being very honest to their close friends, of course it will affect you.

No. 1876113

>>1876107
Regretting aborting a baby does suck yes, but birthing and having to take care a kid you aren’t prepared for for 18+ years is potentially ruining 2-3 lives and much worse regret

No. 1876117

Why do I get an attitude with my family members only and not with batchmates, close friends, and teachers? Every once in a while I'll say something in the wrong tone, one that makes it obvious I'm irritated and my family will get pissy and tell me that I'm being rude.
Recently, my father asked me something after he'd had me refill his water bottle when I was in the middle of having my dinner and I asked him "what?" in that same annoyed tone and he got mad(with his stupid "I'm angry" shinhaku eyes) and then just gave me the silent treatment, and later my mother came to me telling me I'm being disrespectful and need to correct my behaviour and that my personality is terrible and that she bets that I talk like that with my friends in college too. I told her that's not true but I'm realizing it really isn't true.
Why don't I exhibit this behaviour with batchmates? I never lose patience, I never raise my voice at them, I don't get annoyed with them, why?

No. 1876120

>>1875972
I don't get fetish content from her. Obviously creepy moids are probably viewing it as such but I feel like she has that extremely naive flavor of autism and this is all just normal hobbies in her mind.

No. 1876130

>>1876120
I looked on her Patreon last night and she does commission videos for 50 dollars and said she’d do NSFW ones too. This is a recent one from “an anonymous fan” of her washing her hands. She certainly knows her audience very well, it’s strange she doesn’t separate the fetishy content from the regular and knowing it’s a fetish of hers she wore the inflatable costumes out in public. I don’t think she’s a predator or anything but also what you said, she naively doesn’t see the problem with being obsessed with a whole fetish that comes from a little girl inflating and turning blue and then mixing that fetish in with innocent things.

No. 1876143

>>1876113
Yes I agree, but this nonna needs to prepare that she very well might be emotionally wrecked if she does get an abortion, regardless of it being the right choice.
Since she's said she wishes she could put the baby on hold for later, it makes me think it'd going to be very devastating for her going forward, when she's laying in bed trying to sleep it will creep into her mind and upset her. She needs to prepare and understand. Maybe it won't be this awful for her, but it is for many women and I feel like it's always brushed off when it shouldn't be.

No. 1876149

>>1876117
>Why don't I exhibit this behaviour with batchmates? I never lose patience, I never raise my voice at them, I don't get annoyed with them, why?
It's because your parents regularly cross your boundaries and put you down without proper justification (as shown by your example) so you've probably developed a constant state of defensive aggression around them. Is the way your parents act with you much worse than any way your other acquaintances or friends have ever treated you? If yes then that's why you're not in that alert, I-will-be-attacked-for-anything-so-gotta-be-ready-to-defend-myself state around people other than your family members.

No. 1876157

>>1876117
Because you’re not being emotionally abused/neglected by your friends or teachers. You don’t have to be defensive or vigilant around them because they don’t treat you like shit, and so your actual self is able to come out. People get irritable around their abusers.

No. 1876159

>>1876107
there's studies on this, most women don't regret it and are relieved. a lot of abortions are of women who already have children and those who get them young will still get pregnant later.

No. 1876163

I had coffee for the first time in awhile last week and when I got home I was super sleepy. Does this happen to anyone else? I drink caffeine every day just not coffee.

No. 1876175

>>1876117
most people treat strangers or acquaintances more carefully and formally than their family members. if you get visibly annoyed with a stranger or acquaintance, it could cost you your safety if the person is mentally unbalanced, or a job opportunity or future connection in your community. with our families we know where the line is so we can express ourselves. they know where your line is too. hypothetically any family member could do or say something so bad they'd never speak to you again, but you won't, and they won't. also "familiarity breeds contempt".

P.s. what is a "batchmate"? is this an ESL translation? is it the same as "cohort"?

No. 1876180

>>1876175
A batchmate is just someone in the same batch as you in college, I use batchmate and not classmate because classmate makes me sound like I'm in school instead of college. It is ESL though, even I just found out it's more commonly used in South Asia and the Philippines.

No. 1876187

I had unprotected sex about a month ago and he used the "pull out method", basically we had sex but he wouldn't ejaculate (actually he couldn't probably due to death grip syndrome)

He didn't seem to be leaking any precum at all

I am now late on my period. I don't think my cycle has ever been regular so I don' tknow if I'm actually late or it's just my periods acting up.

I took two pregnancy tests and they're both negative, I took my first test on the 31st of january and another one yesterday.

My last periods were on the first of january.

Is it safe to assume I'm not pregnant? I keep panicking because of this and it's really ruining my days

Also I'm never having sex without a condom again

No. 1876189

>>1876187
also I was very careful that my urine was concentrated before taking the tests
and I am not experiencing any symptoms (no nausea, no increased appetite, my nipples look sasme as usual, not feeling perticularly tired)

No. 1876192

>>1876187
maybe you've been stressed since having that sex and it's made your period late? idk

No. 1876193

>>1876187
>>1876189
Stress can make your periods irregular or late. Try to take it easy this week and take another pregnancy test at the end of it if you haven't gotten your period yet?

No. 1876199

Is it really depression if it’s a logical reaction to your circumstances and how difficult it would be to improve them even slightly?

No. 1876211

>>1876032
This is how my best friend talks.i love her

No. 1876214

>>1876199
When you mix rationality and dispair you get a funny flavor of depression called misery, sorry if it sounds silly

No. 1876226

>>1875549
How do I become like this? I just wanna stop being so self conscious, how do the tards do it?

No. 1876227

Anyone have any pirating website suggestions? I've tried soap2day, myflixerz and movie4kto and they all buffer like hell it's fucking annoying. I spent like an hour watching 15 minutes of a movie.

No. 1876232

is there any good and proper synonym for "shortstack" body types? i hate coomers

No. 1876236

>>1876232
I mean, short? Maybe petite if you're feeling fancy.

No. 1876240

>>1876232
pear shapes, kibbe romantic?

No. 1876242

>>1876227
https://watchmalcolminthemiddles.com/other-webites/ It only has tv shows and the choice is very little there but at least it works ok for me most of the time. Usually if I want to watch something I download it from rutracker

No. 1876247

>>1876227
Not website but app. Stremio. Use a disposable email to sign up. It's amazing.

No. 1876321

>>1875994
Nope. Fantasies are not determinative of who you want to bang and/or fall in love with. You could be. Or you could be straight or bi and have some issues with men that keep you from fantasizing about them. idk. The real question is why are you questioning your sexuality. I think most women who only had fantasies about women would be like, "yep, I'm gay" and proceed from that assumption.

No. 1876322

>>1875938
the only chance you'd fall pregnant from precum is if the guy had previously ejaculated <4.5 hours beforehand, he didn't pee since then, and you were within 5 days either side of ovulation. even then, it's not 100% that implantation would occur. so in other words the chances are pretty slim.

No. 1876327

>>1876199
>really depression if it’s a logical reaction to your circumstances
Psychology field calls that situational depression to differentiate it from clinical depression, which is the depression caused by your brain fucking with you for no good reason.

No. 1876330

>>1876232
Kek i hear this word for the first time. Well, it's a petite hourglass figure, i don't think synonim describing it in one word exists, it's easier to just use two words.

No. 1876335

>>1876227
goojara.to. The video on the episode page never works for me, but opening up the links under Direct Links always does.
Also here: https://old.reddit.com/r/Piracy/wiki/megathread/movies_and_tv. At least one of the sites under Streaming should work for you.

No. 1876345

>Material: Knit in a lightweight high quality yarn in 50 % Combed cotton, 50 % Modal.
Does it sound like I can dye this knit blouse easily? It looked like a cool pastel rose on the website but it's actually more like a warm salmon and that shade isn't the most flattering on me. I'm thinking of turning it into a medium or dark pink, red, or purple.

No. 1876365

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>>1876345
Cotton takes dye well, but modal is a semi-synthetic like rayon (it's made out of tree pulp). If you get dye that's formulated to work on rayon/other semi-synthetics, you should be okay. Looked it up and apparently all-purpose RIT dye works on most plant pulp fabric.

No. 1876368

>>1876365
Thanks nona!
In case you or anyone else knows: should I try using one of the dye removers to get it close to white before adding a new color? Just wondering if it might make it easier to get a target color or if it's more trouble than it's worth

No. 1876382

>>1876365
Taking the opportunity to ask an ESL question: is semi-synthetic just the most common way to call artificial fabrics or is there actually a difference between them that I'm missing? In my language fabric and other material are classified in natural, artificial and synthetic, rayon for example is just called an artificial fabric.

No. 1876387

>>1876163
>drink caffeine every day
Yes, that happens with over consumption of caffeine.

No. 1876397

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>>1876382
So materials like cotton, linen, and wool are natural fabrics because you can get fibers from the source without chemical processing. Synthetic fabrics like polyesther and nylon are plastic/polymers, they don't have a natural source. Semi-synthetics like rayon and viscose are usually made from plant pulp, so they're from a natural source but are chemically processed to make fibers. I found this guide that explains the differences pretty well: https://www.undershirts.co.uk/blogs/research/basics-the-difference-between-natural-and-synthetic-textiles The same information is screencapped in picrel if you don't want to click a shop link.

No. 1876408

does the average woman even make money off onlyfans? it seems like such a bad idea unless you’re already a famous e-girl. multiple girls i know in real life have one and it just seems unsustainable

No. 1876415


No. 1876427

>>1876408
No, even people who are earning quite a bit above average are only making minimum wage tier money. The vast majority only get a couple dollars. You have to be in like the highest earning of the highest earners to really get much, and contrary to popular belief that it's an easy lazy form of income, you'd have to work overtime to cultivate a large enough audience and brand image, then continue to be engaging enough that they don't get bored and leave. That's ignoring how degrading and draining and risky it all is, and the fact that you're left without much to go off of if you want to quit or you can't keep up the numbers anymore.
It is an awful deal.

No. 1876434

>>1876163
Hot cup of coffee always soothes me for some. I think it’s just that hot drinks make you sleepy

No. 1876446

what you doing right now

No. 1876450

>>1876446
Writing a paper

No. 1876451

>>1876446
Looking at pics and listening to Donna Summer what about you

No. 1876456

>>1876451
sitting in the park drinking water

No. 1876460

>>1876456
Did you see anything cool at the park or nah? I hope you're staying warm

No. 1876462

>>1876460
there’s a ton of french bulldogs out today for some reason kek, and it is surprisingly sunny i got to wear a tank top today! is it cold by you

No. 1876467

>>1876462
So many Frenchies it's like you're in France on vacation oh la la… it's awesome that the weather is nice when you said you were at the park I got concerned you were swaddled up and getting blown over by the wind. Not too bad here but still below zero. What are you gonna do after you get home?

No. 1876471

How do I get hotter nonnies? Tell me your secrets.

No. 1876477

>>1876471
I like portable heaters with a built in fan

No. 1876478

>>1876477
No I mean how do I get so sexy nonna my bad. I need glow up ideas

No. 1876510

Can I use hinge to make friends instead of dating? I tried Bumble BFF but the town I just moved in is very small and only had like 10 people on the app

No. 1876516

>>1876471
it depends on what you look like and do now. getting more toned, sleeping more to help your skin and keep off the weight, being hydrated are all basic options

No. 1876540

Does anyone have their eyebrows microbladed/nano'd or know anyone who does? I want it done but I've only seen powder/ombre brows tattoo'd (that I noticed) so I'm scared it would be unnatural

No. 1876552

>>1876467
Im now home and I did research on the Amy Winehouse biopic ; wbu nonnita

No. 1876586

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>>1876552
Idk much about Amy but her voice was crazy good, what do you think of the biopic? Just doing some cleaning, have not taken out the trash all week oops

No. 1876700

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Has anyone else been on the internet long enough that they can just tell when an artist draws little girls in a sexually way or secretly draws lolishit? I swear to God, I feel like a schizophrenic sometimes but whenever I come across an artist and they draw little girls there's a certain way they draw them that makes me feel uncomfortable even if the picture is visually innocent and then I look deeper and it turns out they draw lolishit.

No. 1876713

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Which dress would be better for my baby shower, planning on having it when im 28 weeks pregnant or so. I will probably dye the cream one

No. 1876717

>>1876713
I like the cream one more. The sleeves and shorter tie around the waist is cuter. Congratulations anon!

No. 1876720

>>1876700
I know what you mean. They often put a strange amount of detail on the girl's bodies and excessive shine/sweat + blush where it doesn't make sense. The art style of that anime Mitsudomoe is a clear example cause even random background girls on the cover will have all those body details but never the boys.

No. 1876722

>>1876700
Loli drawers should get the rope

No. 1876732

>>1876471
You can't do much to change your physical features, but you can learn to work to make the best of what you have. Try dressing in colours that compliment your skin tone, style your hair in a way that compliments your face shape, develop your personal sense of style so that your wardrobe reflects the person you want to be. I think a lot of "being hot" is just feeling secure, confident, and happy in the way you present yourself. What society considers attractive will always ebb and change with time, but certain attributes like health, confidence, and kindness will always be attractive. On the note of kindness, reading about social etiquette and the art of conversation is something a lot of people overlook but remains a very important factor. Apparently Cleopatra wasn't very physically attractive, but her knowledge and conversation skills were so appealing that many powerful scrotes fell head over heels for her.

No. 1876756

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has anyone else have consistent trouble with their eyes? did anything help? mine feel very tired, feel painful, and look tired often. people sometimes comment on how fucked up they look and even my doctor made a comment. she blamed it on allergies but allergy meds haven't helped.

No. 1876817

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>>1876756
Get yourself some steam eye masks from Amazon. I love putting them on before bed, especially on days my eyes are bothering me.

No. 1876818

>>1876700
Recognizing patterns isn't schizo.

No. 1876828

>>1876756
Kek I feel like I've seen anons complaining about their eyes all week? Are you guys okay

No. 1876831

Why isn't there a big "normal theater" fandom like there is for musicals?

No. 1876838

>>1876713
can you link the cream dress?

No. 1876854

What should I get for my brother for his birthday? He's pretty practical, last year I got him am electric blanket and he loved it.

No. 1876862

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Fuck marry kill: bad music edition

No. 1876863

>>1876854
a headlamp

No. 1876870

>>1876862
I'd kill her chin implant, marry the other one's hair dye, and probably fuck with that style of brows the remaining one has.

No. 1876872


No. 1876901

>>1876828
no we are NOT ok.
>>1876817
I'll try them out! honestly seems like it'd be comfy if nothing else.

No. 1876919

what timezone does lolcow function under? like what time will dumbass shit be reopened?

No. 1876926

>>1876919
Eww wish they'd keep it closed you're desperateee

No. 1876934

>>1876926
you cant shame me into hiding!

No. 1876944

How does Brad Pitt look like a monkey? I think he is handsome objectively but like I don’t es the money

No. 1876947

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>>1876944
Probably the flaired nose and small eyes + low brow ridge. Many moids have that neanderthalish forehead though.

No. 1876951

>>1876862
tough one. marry the one on the left, fuck phoebe, kill the one on the right.

No. 1876967

I kinda want to go out, just go on a stroll downtown to exercise a bit but I'm lazy and there's almost no good public transport to go there on Sunday. Can you convince me to get up and do it?

No. 1876971

>>1876967
You'll feel better when you breath some outside air and stretch your legs. Put on some music or a podcast and stroll around.

No. 1876973

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>>1876944
>I think he is handsome objectively.
You must be attracted to monkeys or primates then which is fucking nasty. I'll go through the 8 monkey identifiers that are most commonly discussed on Brad Pitt hate forums since obviously you want to be spoonfed. Look at the photo for a guide.
>1)His forehead/brain.
His forehead is very small in comparison to the rest of his face, indicating a smaller cranium volume. Whereas most actors seem to get bigger heads as time moves forward, Brad's small cranium has always been noteworthy as its why his brain is so small and retarded. You can look up the allegations made against Brad by his former wife Angelina Jolie. One of the most agreed upon allegations is that he used to hit and punch his sons, just like how male monkeys attack their offspring.
>2) His retarded uneven monkey ears.
Notice that Brad's ears are completely uneven, much like that of a monkey that has to move its ears around the jungle to hear any incoming predators. You can also clearly see a defined Darwin's tubercle, a vestigial birth defect some lesser-evolved humans exhibit which is clearly visible on monkeys.
>3) His brow ridge.
Technically, Brad has a brow ridge more comparably to a neanderthal or an early modern human that is designed to keep the sweat from pooling in his deep-set eye craters. Why is this an indicator of his monkey-ness then? Well because it lets us know that Brad sweats a lot, most likely having a noxious and easily-detectable body odour much like what you'd encounter when you walk past the primate exhibit at your local zoo. Besides his low brow ridge, there's also too large a gap between his eyebrows (which almost extend towards his ears) that easily identify him with primates.
>4) His eyes.
I don't need to explain this one. Look into his eyes in any photo, and you'll quickly realize that there is no soul inhabiting his body. Unlike real human beings that possess a soul and are given the chance at eternal life, when Brad dies, he will just be destroyed. Like any other animal he will turn into dirt and his body will be eaten by his monkey compatriots.
>5) His nostrils.
Even after his nose job, Brad's nostrils are constantly flared outwards, as if reflexively. This is odd as most human beings have to consciously flare their nostrils, or do it subconsciously when performing heavy labour or exercise. For Brad, however, his nostrils are always flared out because just like a monkey he takes shallow, rapid breaths, unsure of when he will fall from a vine or a tree, he has to make each breath count.
>6) The space between his lips and nose
If I were to guess, I'd say this space is about an 3/4 of an inch too long to be considered passingly human. It's much more reminiscent of an orangutans morphology. This space has evolved to be larger for monkeys so that its easier for them to bear their teeth to rivals and showcase their aggressive tendencies.
>7) Tiny upper lip but massive lower lip
Besides the obvious telltale sign of fetal alcohol syndrome (he has an underdeveloped cupid's bow and a lack of visible philtrum, something he tries to cover up with facial hair), his ugly lips are reminiscent of a chimp's usual facial demeanor of keeping the upper lip flexed and the lower lip pouted outwards. It's like he's permanently in the state of having half-eaten leaves or berries hanging out of his gross mouth because he can't fit them all down his gullet before the photoshoot.
>8) Overly large jaw.
Monkeys evolved large, strong jaws for biting through tree bark and eating other monkeys that they view as a threat. Just like those same retarded chimps, Brad has a huge jaw that's wider than his forehead. It gives the appearance of a violent gorilla that's spent years attacking rivals in his gorilla social group for dominance.

No. 1876975

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>>1876973
You need to lie down.

No. 1876977

>>1876973
i lost it at number 4, thanks for the quality keks anon

No. 1876980


No. 1876994

>>1876971
I checked and it seems like the air isn't too polluted today. I'm out, I'm considering eating lunch there, maybe some chicken ramen idk.

No. 1876995

>>1876994
You should get some spring rolls too they're really tasty.

No. 1876999

>>1876995
I'll see if they have that in the menu, fingers crossed.

No. 1877057

How do people go to church? Do you just choose one and go? Or do you have to sign up?

No. 1877076

>>1877057
Most churches will have a 10 week introduction program where you talk to the Council of Regional Priests and learn about the bible, then if you pass the Grand Standing test at the end of the program the Headmaster Priest will give you the rights to enter the church without having another Christian guardian with you, as long as you have your diploma with you. After a few months you may be asked to become Christian, at that point it all depends if the priest wakes up on Easter Sunday and sees his shadow or not. If he does, converts are accepted, if he doesn't you have to wait until next year. It all depends on what type of church you go to, but this is the process most churches follow.

No. 1877080

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who's this guy and where's this clip from?

No. 1877085

>>1877080
Never watched it but that’s Game of Thrones

No. 1877091

>>1877085
thanks nonnie, that was enough for me, i just looked up "game of thrones you're a good man" and the character is Brandon Stark, i asked this bc i thought he was cute but ofc the (British) actor hit the wall at Mach 5 speed at a baffling 24 years of age.

No. 1877094

>>1877057
If you wanna go to an LDS church I recommend contacting the missionaries first. They’ll stop by and are the sweetest cinnamon rolls. They’ll talk to you and invite you to the local church and will help you get to know other members.

No. 1877101

>>1877094
Mormonfag nobody else wants to join the LDS movement, move to Utah and talk to them about it not us. Missionaries are creepy no lifers who literally have nothing better to do with their lives other than talking about some 2000 year old book written by retarded scrotes.

No. 1877105

Is there anything more doctors do and can do than to tell you to make sure not to get pregnant or stressed when you're not having your period for a few months?

No. 1877106


No. 1877109

>>1877105
Request a full panel blood test.

No. 1877112

>>1877105
Some may recommend starting/adjusting birth control and/or dietary/exercise changes. Some may check you for conditions that impact your cycle depending on you age; the most common being thyroid problem, PCOS or endometriosis. Sometimes it really is just stress or poor sleep though and further intervention is unnecessary, consult another doctor or be clearer with your doctor about the kind of help you want: “doctor I’d like to make sure I don’t have any physical problems causing this issue, how would we go about eliminating the possibility of a physical problem?” Or something to that effect.

No. 1877155

what criticism is there of Tom and Jerry? like the older cartoons(1940s-1960s) not the recent stuff, but i wonder bc i was thinking about how a lot of media no matter good it is will still not be perfect and there'll always be something off about it, and it got me thinking about Citizen Kane and how it's so perfect and there's no negative reviews for it or whatever, and then i started thinking about Tom and Jerry, i've never seen anyone with something bad to say about it, no one has any complaints about it, how?

No. 1877156

Is it ok for an adult woman to wear a heko obi with yukata ?

I know yukata season is veeeeeeery far still but when cleaning my room I found the obi from my child yukata and I want to gift it to my cousin's daughter and since I'll have to buy her a yukata to go with it I figured since I have to order things from abroad I might as well change the obi of my current yukata since it's kinda ugly and I like the soft look of heko obi more. The print is neither too sober or too fancy so it wouldn't look jarring and I have nice leather sandals so I don't think the overall look would have too much of a lazy vibe. I'm just wondering because I'm 26 and I've never seen a heko obi on an adult woman

No. 1877162

>>1877155
I know a lot of people that like Tom and Jerry didn't like the movie where they talked I thought it was kind of whack myself but there was some charm to it. Tom and Jerry is slapstick and their expressiveness in the animation is a part of the charm making them talk defeats the purpose. Kind of like in Courage the Cowardly dog how they started making him talk more and many fans agree that was negative too

No. 1877164

>>1877105
Huh? Of course there is. First steps should be an abdominal ultrasound and a full blood panel, including hormone levels, thyroid and parathyroid levels, as well as morning and afternoon cortisol levels. Step two is referals to specialists, depending on whats wrong. Step 3 is therapy (birth co trol, hormones, thyroid meds…) or further tests.

No. 1877165

What is a mooommy?

No. 1877166

>>1877155
Well sometimes the rodent would physically hurt the cat, so some people criticized the violence the cartoons featured.

No. 1877181

>>1877165
a lolcow motha

No. 1877186

>>1876831
the autism in musicals keeps the fandom alive. normal theater enjoyers are probably all regular cinema fans, so their enthusiasm doesnt really register as a fandom until ppl start to obsess over 1 thing in particular

No. 1877223

>>1876862
I think everyone is unanimously killing Lucy

No. 1877280

>>1876831
musicals are more popular than regular theatre in most english speaking countries,especially the us. and it's usually americans that who dominate online spaces incl. fandoms.
i'm a big theatregoer and i don't like musicals but i've hardly found anyone online who cared for that stuff. plus there are a lot of plays out there. so outside of say, shakespeare, you're not gonna find a lot of people who bond online over having all read the same play

No. 1877353

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what are these teddybears called?

No. 1877362

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If someone quits their antidepressants how long should it take for them to start feeling it? And I mean the depression symptoms coming back or worsering, not the withdrawal symptoms
>>1877181
Oh I wasn't finding anything about it and thought it might be a portmanteau of millenial and boomer

No. 1877374

>>1877353
Ralph Lauren teddy bears?

No. 1877456

One side of my throat is swollen and sensitive as fuck, I can't swallow without a ton of pain and I don't know what the fuck to do about it. It's not actually inside my throat but rather in the muscles or something? So no kind of "sore throat relief" works at all, and painkillers don't seem to help either. I'm in so much pain I can't eat, but I'm at a complete loss of apetite anyway. Now my head also hurts and I feel nauseous but I suspect those 2 come from pms and my period possibly being close… I don't know though. Does anyone have any idea of anything that could help ease the pain?

No. 1877459

>>1876973
>His forehead is very small in comparison to the rest of his face
his forehead is fucking massive tho

No. 1877463

>>1877456
You probably have a tonsil stone if it’s localized to one side of your throat, feels like it’s in the muscles, and usual treatments don’t help. You have to pop it out.

No. 1877470

>>1877463
aryt, I can't feel anything from inside the mouth/throat at all, it's specifically only when I swallow. Otherwise it's just very sore from the outside. And I thought that gave you bad breath?

No. 1877479

>>1877456
Tonsillitis on one side? If bacterial you might need antibiotics. If it's so bad you can't eat you need to go to a doctor. I just had viral tonsillitis and I was gargling salt water and I stopped smoking because that was irritating it, got better on its own after that but yours sounds worse. If I was as bad as you I would have gone to the doctor.
Or it could be something else entirely. Not a doctor.
>>1877470
oh it's sore from the outside? I think you have a gland problem. You should really see a doctor.
>>1877463
I don't think this is right. I've never had a tonsil stone that bad. Usually they cause no pain. Definitely not normal to feel from the outside.

No. 1877483

what personality should i larp in beauty school?

No. 1877485

>>1877456
Does your neck hurt when turning it? I remember my friend in elementary school got scratched by an unvaccinated cat and her lymph nodes got swollen with similar symptoms that you have. She had to get some liquid drained from her neck, I don't exactly remember but she was in a lot of pain.

No. 1877492

>>1877456
Do you take any medication? I had a reaction similar to this and the culprit appeared to be my mood stabilizer giving me a severe allergic reaction that swelled up my mouth and lymph nodes

No. 1877509

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Do moids compare their gfs to their foid friends?

No. 1877512

>>1877456
Lymph nodes or thyroid. Maybe tonsils. Go to a doctor ASAP please

No. 1877515

>>1877483
a very smart nona who tries her best and studies and gets top grades in beauty school

No. 1877517

>>1877155
Iirc there was some criticism that some shorts were too biased towards the mouse and he just started randomly attacking the cat unprovoked, there was also the racist caricature.

No. 1877554

Don't know when this started happening, but lately Youtube comments won't allow me to expand a larger comment. It only displays three dots beside the last word but there's no option to click 'see more' . Why is this happening and how can I fix it??

No. 1877560

So does he’ll week end tomorrow or is tomorrow the last day and then it ends on the 6th

No. 1877593

Immigration has always been a horrible problem in places like the UK, France etc but I keep seeing videos about the current crisis in America. Like especially in NY? I saw schools have been closed for them to shelter? Which is awful. Is this allonly recent? I know there is always the whole border jumping from Mexico and stuff but I was just wondering what it is like where you burger anons are?

No. 1877684

Is it possible your loved ones could be replaced by doppelgangers or am I losing it

No. 1877689

>>1877684
google says yes but i need experiences

No. 1877701

>>1877684
Yeah, happened with my uncle back in '09, but the doppelganger was more personable so we ended up liking him more than the original.

No. 1877716

>>1877701
how could you tell? did you just know

No. 1877726

Is there a thread on the redpill community? Like andrew tate, fresh and fit and the whatever podcast?

No. 1877727

>>1877684
I wish I could get replaced by a doppelganger, that would be a nice way to die.

No. 1877736

>>1877701
Girl don't encourage her.

>>1877716
Please seek help

No. 1877750

>>1877727
Okay edgelord, the doppelgangers don't kill you though? You're literally just swapped out for your counter self that already inhabits counter earth. You'd know that if you ever tried to look behind the sun to see it.

No. 1877751

Is stage 2 hypertension really worth a hospital trip? My blood pressure is 128/108 which is stage two high blood pressure, but I just feel kinda dizzy. It says I should go to the ER, but im a burger and can’t afford that

No. 1877757

>>1877684
capgras delusion

No. 1877758

>>1877750
Wait, so you have to live the life of your doppelganger? That's dumb, wouldn't that be like your current life but a bit odd? As in your doppelganger would be left handed and everything in your doppelganger's house would only be for left-handed people so you would have to learn how to use left-handed stuff in order to not get sent to doppelganger loony bin.

No. 1877759

>>1877560
why does no one answer this but everyone will jump to answer the retarded doppelgänger question

No. 1877771

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>>1877758
>as in your doppelganger would be left handed
No retard, counter earth isn't just earth but flipped on horizontally flipped. Counter earth is just the exact same planet as the one me and you are on right now except except behind the sun.
>Doppelganger loony bin
Okay obviously you're trolling with this part so I'm not even going to bother to explain the mental health system of counter earth.

No. 1877780

>>1877759
Because they are mentally retarded

No. 1877786

>>1877483
school shooter

No. 1877787

>>1877771
I want to hear about the mental health system of counter earth. And I want to know why anyone would bother with this replacement, what is accomplished?

No. 1877789

>>1877757
>Capgras "delusion"
>Nonnie believes in bourgeois French psychiatry.
You need to do some serious self work.

No. 1877790

>>1877771
So in the end you couldn't even know if we're actually the doppelgangers in counter earth talking about the other earth as if it was counter earth.

No. 1877836

is there a thread on lc where i can just post pics of men's dating profiles? some of these are so bad i need to share them

No. 1877843

>>1877836
There's a dating app/websites thread in /g/

No. 1877854

>>1877789
ayrt. can you explain what you mean? sorry, that's just what anon's problem sounded like to me.

No. 1877921

Is the ideal male bodies thread a good representative of what women like or is it the same couple of anons? I’m genuinely questioning my bisexuality because of this, they all look like samey roidpigs.

No. 1877947

For lesbians and bi women who have low self-esteem, do you find it difficult to admire attractive women because you wish you were as pretty as them?

No. 1877948

>>1877854
A normal person with common sense would be able to deduce that only a minority of farmers post there and on g in general.

No. 1877950

>>1877921
I have a quick scroll from the latest reply, too muscular for me. I like broad shoulders and nice arms but I don't like jacked abs and pecks etc. Like a swimmer twink

No. 1877953

>>1877921
idk, I think the ones with more stereotypical tastes are more likely to post.

No. 1877961

>>1877950
>>1877953
Mhm, and anyone is free to post what they want there. Anon is tripping for pretending a handful of farmers are a monolith for something as trivial as posting bodies they like.

No. 1877972

Did your parents ever throw you a birthday party without you needing to ask for one? I only had 1 while my siblings had multiple and my parents told me it’s because I never asked for any. Which just felt like a dismissive excuse to put the blame on me doing or not doing something as a child I couldn’t even remember anyways.

>>1877947
You know that feeling when you feel like the ugliest friend out of a friend group and that it’s extremely obvious to everyone else too? I feel like that’s what it would be like if an uggo like me was with a beautiful woman, my low self esteem does in fact make it hard for me to normally admire and or desire them. It just doesn’t feel right.

No. 1878012

>>1877972
It feels so much worse to be born an ugly woman that's SSA. If I was born straight and ugly I would have been fine if men didn't find me attractive because men are shit anyways. Can't believe I actually sympathize with the incel mindset. I wish I can be fine with just being alone but I am just so fucking desperate for companionship even though women find me repulsive.

No. 1878016

>>1877961
Nta but I thought the thread was for conventional bodies exclusively since the title said 'ideal'. I'm scared I'll get attacked for posting twiggy manlets lol.

No. 1878043

>>1877485
>Does your neck hurt when turning it?
No not really, but when it started a few days ago and the pain was only in the neck (not throat) I assumed I had pulled a muscle in my sleep because it felt similar. Just like you and >>1877492 >>1877512 say I suspect it may be something with the lymph nodes swelling up. I'm on birth control but that's the only medication I've got. And my head has been hurting like hell the last day so I've taken a bunch of painkillers, none of which help with the neck/throat pain.

I don't trust doctors (they've treated me like shit in the past, including in ways that are breaking the law) and I've got pretty bad social anxiety so I may honestly just let it take me if it's that serious. Who cares if I'm dead as long as it stops.

No. 1878044

>>1878016
They shit on literally everyone including us that like ""roidpigs"", it doesn't matter.

No. 1878060

With which methods have shy/socially anxious nonnas successfully dealt with the problem? A few years ago I told myself "it will go away as you live life and gain experience in different social situations" but here I am at 23 and still shake like a leaf every time I have to talk to a stranger, especially if it's in a foreign language. Are more exposure therapy and seeing a therapist my only options?

No. 1878061

Is it weird to be stalked by more than one person? Does this happen often? I don't mean to sound dramatic. The first time I was stalked the guy was legit showing up to my house, taking pictures of me outside and sending them to me via Snapchat, etc. I moved out of state and now this guy (who did work in the parking lot of my apartment complex) I'm pretty sure he air tagged my car since he keeps showing up wherever I am when I am shopping and running errands. Am I being dramatic or paranoid?

No. 1878065

>>1878061
have you searched your car? do you leave it unlocked? get under it and search the exterior if not. and feel around in the wheel wells

No. 1878071

>>1878061
Take the car to a mechanic and be (semi)honest with them, say you've had a stalker in the past, and you're worried your car is tagged and ask if they can help you look for a tag. You don't have to disclose that this is a new stalker, you can act as if you think it's one and the same person so they don't think you're just crazy and paranoid. Also make sure to say stuff like "I know I might just be a bit paranoid and maybe it's nothing, but with the stalker it's better to be safe than sorry".

Realistically if it IS tagged, he shouldn't have had access to the inside right? So it should be reachable from the outside. He may have opened the hood up and put it there, or under the car.

Stop going to ANY of your regular stores/places. Find an alternative for each and every one, like start going to the grocery store further away instead of the closest one. If you guys live in the same area, both of you shopping at the closest places is natural. Same if you both happen to realize you need a new ice scraper for the car the week it started snowing, sometimes that happens. However if he suddenly starts turning up when you start going to other places you can be sure something is up.

I've had a stalker too who showed up at my house, fucking terrifying. Stay safe nona.

No. 1878099

>>1878071
I second this post but caution against:
>"I might just seem paranoid and maybe it's nothing."
NEVER show this kind of doubt, it will make people question your logic and shift from "maybe there is something wrong" mindset to "I have to comfort this paranoid woman and say anything to make her feel better" in my experience. I recommend saying something like "This has happened in the past and my last mechanic ended up finding one, just want to be sure it's not happening again."

No. 1878147

Why do some people, including myself, enjoy being alone if evolutionary speaking we humans survived thanks to our socialization? I imagine a lonely human wouldn't have high chances of surviving without their family/community back then. But it turns out a lot of us still seek solitude. There are many cases in history of people willingly choosing to become hermits. Why, when it has no benefit to us?

No. 1878150

>>1878147
I think it's a behavioural response to stress. I know I've had periods of isolation because it felt like I just kept running into problems via people but I've also generalised anxiety lol

No. 1878165

>>1878147
Take with a grain of salt but I think it's a response to living in an unnatural society with an overload of information. Also there's always going to be outliers.

No. 1878174

>>1878147
Most people are not extroverts or introverts, they're in between. And that in between depends on the person.
What I think has to do with it is control. A human needs community in environments that are unfamiliar. If the environment is familiar, you have the upper hand, which is better at helping you survive rather than relying on someone else.
>A lonely human wouldn't have high chances of surviving without their family/community
Exactly. But as you said, community. The trusted people one has. If you don't have trusted people, then it's better being alone than not being alone. Because other people aren't always community, sometimes it can be a threat.

No. 1878176

>>1878060
I was shy because I was bullied. If your shyness stems from something like this, it can leave. Usually it stems from being afraid of not fitting in or scared of other people. I started by being friends with a small amount of people. During that time, if I was treated badly, I'm sure I would revert back to shyness and being uncomfortable with myself. Slowly I started opening up more as I got more external support. I was afraid of saying something embarrassing because I feared getting backlash. Now it became to a point where even if people don't like me, I don't care.

No. 1878178

>>1877684
All human beings are 99.9 percent identical in their dna, poopface, you're obviously gonna see some people who look a damn lot like you

No. 1878180

>>1877155
Humour is subjective

No. 1878256

>>1878147
Are you alone, though? Do you live alone in a remote place without any neighbours? Or do you live in a city where there's people around if you just go outside?

No. 1878280

A political union at my school has invited Destiny to speak for some retarded reason not specified. Should I go for the lulz?

No. 1878281

>>1878280
Yes and record it

No. 1878286

Actual question, why do trannies ask my opinion on trans stuff only to get mad when I answer?
I assume it's because they expect me to answer in favor of it, but lol it's happened like 4 times in the last month.

No. 1878287

>>1878281
Kek I’ll post it to the Twitch lolcows thread if I go. Hopefully he gets ripped up by a bunch of Zoomers but I don’t have much faith in my classmates (the non-STEM ones)

No. 1878328

>>1878286
They want validation for their existence or maybe they want to get closer to you and see if you'll match in personalities and beliefs

No. 1878330

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No. 1878338

>>1878286
They are expecting the "right answer" not your opinion.

No. 1878353

im skinny fat and used to be a wanna be anachan but now im ready to get big and healthy. my arms have been my biggest insecurity forever, which was pretty much the entire reason i started restricting. looking back at photos my arms looked so good?? i mean, scrawny but not at all huge and thick lik i thought at the time. but after gaining a healthy amount of weight (5'8 140 lbs) currently theyre just kinda. puffy and pudgy. i look really bad in tanktops. how do i start building muscle in my arms? theres so much information out there i get overwhelmed thinking about sifting through it all. does anyone know where i should start? i rlly just want to tone up my arms and have some usable muscle. i also want to build muscle everywhere else but, for now i want to make some progress on my arms.

No. 1878355

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I don't mean to sound like an asshole, but…What's the psychology of women who get with this genre of disabled men? I get it if he looks somewhat "normal" and has a disability. But when he looks like picrel I don't understand. Is it for financial gain somehow? Security (ie, he'll never cheat on me; he can't abuse me, etc)? Fame on Social media? Attention? Validation for being a good person? An oddly specific paraphilia? I can't wrap my head around it.

No. 1878356

>>1878355
I mean they get quite a lot benefits right? Validation, being in power of him because he needs you, money, they can cheat on him and he won't find out etc

No. 1878359

>>1878355
security/control same as many women who penpal criminals in jail

No. 1878360

>>1878355
I feel like such an ass for saying this, but I only ever see these relationships on TV or on social media and it makes me.believe they're stahed for views

No. 1878361

>>1878328
I already give off a no bullshit kind of vibe though, maybe it's wishful thinking from them idk. I don't know why they get so upset at me either, they try to argue back with me but I'm not interested in having an argument I'm just stating my opinion they asked for.
>>1878330
She didn't even say anything that bad about trannies anyway. They even had a tranny in the game
>>1878338
Sucks for them then
>>1878355
This creeps me out, I feel rude for saying it but it's very repulsive to me. I couldn't imagine trying to touch him let alone be intimate or sexual with him. I assume there's something wrong in her head like people who are into scat or other extreme things along those lines.
I know they've talked about their physical relationship, I couldn't imagine doing it myself even if I was craving the control that other Nona's have said

No. 1878396

>>1877921
It’s idealistic, the average man is not a beef cake (sadly). It’s really tricky to tell if you’re bisexual but I feel like if you have a crush on a man you know personally then you probably are attracted to men, if you just like super hot actors or animus then maybe not

No. 1878459

Weird Q ik but just because my two family dogs just met again but two dogs (male female) who are fixed, will they have sex? The male was 'excited' but as far as I assumed that wouldn't be a worry if fixed? Humping sure but not full on right? Just wanna know how closely to watch them.

No. 1878485

>>1878061
you're not dramatic or paranoid, maybe contact a domestic violence shelter for advice because the cops are often useless or make things worse. keep track of anything he does but also try not to give attention or acknowledge because stalkers thrive off of it. things could escalate and he might attack you please stay safe and keep in touch with friends or people you know nearby.

No. 1878487

>>1878286
they're attention whores. if you agree with them then they get a dopamine hit and if not, then they have found an acceptable receptacle for their aggression. Im curious how you look, do you have an alternative style?

No. 1878513

>>1877166
kek when I was a kid I didn't like Tom and Jerry because I felt bad for Tom and wanted him to get hurt less and have some more "wins." No hate towards the show, the slapstick humor just wasn't my thing at the time

No. 1878521

>>1878355
She is the kind of woman who would prey on a little boy that is if she is actually attracted to him but I feel like women aren’t even physically attracted to their scrotes most times because they fall for the personality of ogres who think models are mid

No. 1878523

>>1878487
No I dress in alot of cardigans and sun dresses. I wouldn't stand out in a crowd at all

No. 1878577

Does anyone know of good guides for tying up different plants to trellis? I am trying to do a pothos but the guides are just like “tie them”, but then some places say that the way you tie them matters a lot. Am I supposed to put the trellis stick near the thick main stem or only on the smaller stems sticking out the most?

No. 1878587

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Did the deviantART devs knew what they were doing when they named the website or did it just kinda randomly happen?

No. 1878594

>>1878587
it was probably a quirky way to call nerds back then. DA started as a place to share winmap skins kek

No. 1878621

What the fuck do moids mean by this? I see this all over social media now but it seems like they’re just too cowardly to actually be vulnerable.

No. 1878625

>>1878621
They're aware they are under the girl's league/don't have anything valuable to offer to her but instead of improving, they wallow in self pity and make "relatable" tiktoks.

No. 1878630

>>1878621
Being unable to spoil their woman properly makes them feel emasculated, normalfag men that are in "the game" of society have a heavy instinct towards this

No. 1878692

i wonder what possesses people to desire a direct attention seeking career? Like being a solo singer or a stand up comedian or a model? I’m too anxious about getting stalked and murdered to be able to desire anything like that

No. 1878695

>>1878621
Black scrotes don’t represent all moids.(racebait)

No. 1878701

>>1878695
Except this is something that all moods say.

No. 1878703

>>1878396
>if you just like super hot actors or animus then maybe not
Ntayrt is this actually true? because I only see this claim from the comphet doc which was proven bullshit

No. 1878709

>>1878692
>"Why do people want attention?"
>Fears being stalked and murdered.
Some people aren't paranoid and want to share their gifts like comedy/acting/whatever with the world even if there are a few bad faith actors out there. You have to be kind of crazy to fear being stalked/murdered on a daily basis. If someone wants to stalk you or murder you, they'll do it even if you live a life away from the spotlight.

No. 1878710

>>1878709
yeah true ill be in hiding forever anyways

No. 1878715

>>1878709
>bad faith actors
This is the new it-phrase of the moment on Twitter that's suddenly being used so rampantly that seeing it here is obnoxious. Nobody here has said that until recently kek please find some new vocabulary. Bad faith actor sounds soo fried and q anon.

No. 1878721

>>1878715
what even is a bad faith actor?someomne who acts just to get paid? because that is all actors lol

No. 1878746

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the fuck is this in my toothpaste. can i sue

No. 1878749

>>1878746
tonsil stone

No. 1878764

>>1878746
a booger, sue immediately

No. 1878766

>>1878721
Some horrific retarded buzzphrase to say people who act in bad faith. I saw a mod use it the other day. So cringe, how can any of these anons refer to others as twitterfags when that's exactly where they got it from

No. 1878772

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>>1878715
>Please find some new vocabulary
Kek I don't have a Twitter account I just read publications in the real world. If you've never heard the term before seeing it on Twitter you're the obnoxious one.
>>1878766
>"Horrific retarded buzzphrase"
Again please start reading. Picrel, but the "buzzphrase" has been around since forever and if you looked at the news or journals maybe you'd realize that words aren't invented on Twitter.
>>1878721
Google is your friend.

No. 1878791

I don't have any filipino friends but I want to make some filipino characters,. Filipino anons if you're there can you pls tell me what you'd like to see in a filipino character and alternatively what you wouldn't like to see? What are some weapons or martial arts styles that are considered cool/effective? I've been trying to do research for years as much as possible but I don't know if what I've gathered so far are badly stitched together stereotypes or actually culturally significant things.

No. 1878850

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>>1878791
I am not Filipino but make him cuuute like this dude if it’s a dude

No. 1878919

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>>1878772
Google says its just someone who lies. Has nothing to do with actual actors…we're talking about movie actors dumbass

No. 1878952

>>1878919
>Words can only have one meaning.

No. 1878958

>>1878952
dude it verbatim says is a person not is an actor and we're talking about actors not just people in general

No. 1878985

>>1869604
I've used the Maui hibiscus water shampoo for like 2 years now and I refuse to use any other shampoo because of how good the Maui one is. I really recommend you try it, it's the only thing that makes my hair look really nice and hydrated and voluminous. For reference I have fine wavy hair texture.

No. 1878989

>>1878958
Kek nobody mentioned actors or is talking about actors nona, what are you talking about?

No. 1879004

>>1878989
Did you read the original post that the response was to? >>1878692 the question was about why people choose attention seeking careers such as acting singing modeling, and then someone mentioned bad faith actors kek…

No. 1879022

>>1879004
I read that post and nobody said acting nona.

No. 1879030

Can I / Should I get nsfw text printed off from fedex? I'm trying to make my bf a cute little lottery ticket for Valentine's Day as part of his gift, where you scratch off a "What, Where, When" and the options for the "What" section of the lottery ticket would be "Blowjob, Sex, Handjob".
Other than that there would be no NSFW elements in the design, but would I be a weirdo for getting this printed off at fedex? I need it printed on cardstock or I would just do it at my house.

No. 1879037

>>1879030
Kek this is a funny Valentine's gift. I suggest getting a few other scratch tickets too to hide the sexy one between. You could get it printed at Fedex. They'd probably look at you funny but it's not that deep. If you go to that Fedex often, you could just go to a different location so you wouldn't have to go back. I used to take sex photos on disposable cameras and get them developed at my local pharmacy before it dawned on me that the people developing photos see the end results before I do. I used to wonder why the photo section workers looked at me weird. Why should we be ashamed of our sexuality? It's a gift from God.

No. 1879043

>>1879037
Thanks for the reassurance! I'm making 4 total and there's only going to be one sexy one. I'm setting up a mini carnival and the lottery tickets are going to be among the rest of the prizes so it's just a fun extra to add. It wasn't going to make or break my gift if nonas thought having this printed out at fedex would make me a creep.
Did you keep going back to the pharmacy after you realized? Lmao. I wonder if any of the workers thought it was your weird way of flirting with them.

No. 1879044

>>1879022
Its okif you did not see this one but I thought this response did >>1878709
>comedy/acting/whatever

No. 1879059

>>1879030
They probably see weirder stuff.

No. 1879061

>>1879043
Yeah I kept going back. At the point I realized they were seeing what they developed I thought along the lines of "well these guys have been seeing my sexy photos for years and its yet to bother them, do I want the workers at a different photo lab to see them?" Honestly I was more embarrassed by the fact I had never considered that to develop photos means to see them before the customer. Also it was just the closest place to get photos developed near me.

No. 1879252

How to make a miscarriage happen? I feel ashamed asking but I really don't want to get an abortion and have everyone know about it.

No. 1879256

>>1879252
Are you in a relationship with the dad? If you have access to safe abortion it would be better for you to terminate that way than trying to trigger a miscarriage your own health is hugely at risk too.

No. 1879260

>>1879252
Why would everyone know about it? Your medical provider is sworn to medical secret. If you set up all the appointements by yourself no one will ever have to know. Lie about where you're going if you have to justify it.

No. 1879263

>>1879252
Ru489?Or if you are feeling the crude ancient methods a bunch of fresh cut parsley inside to give you mild poisoning (I can't remember the details, search for it if you are curious)

No. 1879331

>>1879263
The parsley isn't going to work, probably. If you know that you aren't far along, order the pills online. There are several organizations that will provide them.

But if you go to a doctor, they also aren't going to tell anyone. Just fyi.

No. 1879350

>>1879252
i heard if you take a shitload of vitamin c it can force your period but i wouldn't count on it. i second the anon who said to reach out to one of the auntie networks that send out the abortion pills.

No. 1879379

>>1879256
>>1879260
>>1879263
>>1879331
>>1879350
Thank you nonna's, I'm not far along so I'll ask the doctor for a pill.

No. 1879444

>>1879252
Planned parenthood honeybee; they are super friendly and accommodating- please book!

No. 1879446

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Why does it feel like the heat projects better when the fireplace curtain is pulled back?

No. 1879455

>>1879446
Oh God I thought that was a really cool painting of a goat demon sitting in a dark room while looking menacingly at us.

No. 1879456

If there was someone in your class/at work/wherever who seemed generally normie and inoffensive but one day you saw that they had extensive and disfiguring scarring on their arms, what would you think of them? Would you avoid them?

No. 1879457

>>1879455
It makes more sense than a "fireplace curtain" tbh.

No. 1879465

>>1879456
Depends, is this person talking to me? Am I supposed to talk to that person for some reason?
If no, then I would just ignore that person and avoid him/her forever, I would also forget about his/her ass after a few weeks, and I would avoid any talk about that person because I don't care.
If yes, then I would keep everything as superficial as possible because I'm too tired to give a fuck about why this random person has mangled arms, I will assume things like it's the result of a freaky accident and move on.

No. 1879495

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Should I be using feminine wash on my labia and asscrack?

No. 1879511

I really need to coom and I can rub one out within 3 minutes without getting wet or worked up or anything, but my friend is coming over in a little under an hour and I don't want to change my underwear. Will they be able to smell it on me…

No. 1879514

If make a kingcobrajfs and cobraverse thread would other anons want to use it?

No. 1879518

>>1879511
Disregard my question

No. 1879523

>>1879518
just… wash your hands at least, nonnie

No. 1879542

Do any of you know a female gaming youtuber/Twitch streamer who doesn't pander to moids? Maybe someone who has female viewers in mind.

Like instead of doing videos of how she finds totally X female cosplayer "haaawt" (she clearly doesn't, she's just selling the bi gf fantasy to her simps) she instead spergs of how she wants to fuck Leon S. Kennedy or mentioning how she loves otome and BL, or stuff like that?

No. 1879554

>>1879542
Check tenma meami out she's quite the yume although she's a vtuber.

No. 1879557

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Why don't men in the tech industry marry women who are computer scientists/programmers or computer engineers? Take Elon Musk for example, has he ever dated someone "in his own category"? He dated actresses, a music composer/producer whatever the fuck Grimes is, a model, but never a female computer scientist or computer geek, right? Why is that?

No. 1879559

>>1879557
They probably don't want to be with someone smart and who is/may be better than they are.

No. 1879561

how do i stop liking tasty food and learn to like cooking instead? i spend too much money on takeaways but nothing else seems to taste as good

No. 1879562

>>1879557
I feel like for some moids there's an element of control for them being the breadwinner/smarter of the couple which is why they don't go for equally as smart women

No. 1879567

>>1879561
Salt, spices, and fat. A lot of takeaway food is generous with those and that's why it's so tasty. I'll sometimes use 2-3x the amount of butter a (non-baking) recipe says

No. 1879571

>>1879561
Learn to cook stuff you'd usually order. A buncha food like Chinese takeout or pizzas are easy to make because the ingredients are easily found in the grocery store. Learn to make some quick and easy meals, like refried beans (which is just grease and pinto beans in a skillet which you mash), omelette with spinach/mushrooms/cheese, polenta, or even throwing a few veggies into olive oil with seasoning and wrap in aluminum foil to bake an hour in the oven at 200°C, provided you have an oven.
It's really easy once you know a few basics to not rely on ordering food as much. You really don't have to spend 45-80 minutes in the kitchen to make food anymore.
Or you could even meal prep if you have every weekend off, that way you have all your meals for the week and only have to reheat em.

No. 1879574

>>1879559
>>1879562
Ahh good points!! Although, now I wonder the men in tech that DO date/marry a woman "in their own category". Does anybody know of some?

No. 1879591

>>1879567
>>1879571
thank you. i tried those frozen packet chinese meats but they were atrocious tbh. i will stock up on sauces and spices. there is msg salt somewhere in my pantry too. probably going to have to marinade things and add sugar into the sauces. hmm.

No. 1879611

Is JustPearlyThingz a troll? Is she a troll? Is she stupid?

No. 1879643

>>1879611
Idk but it felt good after she went on a rant on what men want and how shes better than the whores, the person she was talking to said "so men want virgins" and she said yes, and then they asked if she was a virgin and she said no. A very awkward checkmate

No. 1879654

>>1879514
yes, are you the nona who brought him up in shay's thread? if so, you inspired me to delve into his lore. i would definitely be in there posting.

No. 1879664

>>1879611
She's 100% doing it for the incel bucks and maybe attention. Most of the things she says are like she reads them off a script. When she has interviews, she states the usual talking points as superficially as possible, she doesn't go any bit of indepth, literally just repeats phrases. Even other self-hating pickmes are more passionate than that kek.

No. 1879674

>>1879523
I don't touch under the clothing but anyway I did it twice and showered and changed. Don't you worry

No. 1879676

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so I recognize Sargon, Shoe, Greg, Blair, Lacy Green and Chris Ray gun but who are the others, I'm really curious to see what their current politics are like.

No. 1879721

>>1878621
They're afraid she'll find out he's actually not worth her time and wants to pull the plug first so he doesn't get hurt.

No. 1879811

>>1879557
I think it's unwise to date anyone in the same professional field that you're in. I just think it leads to a lack of separation between work/home life. I think it's normal to want to date in your same economic bracket, but I get weirded out when I meet a couple and they're both in the same field (or even creepier, they work together).

No. 1879822

>>1879654
I am not, but I’m glad there’s another cobra lurker kek.

No. 1879866

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Is there a personal finances or savings type thread? I’ve scanned /ot/ and /g/ but couldn’t see anything. If not, would anyone find it of benefit? I’m finally getting my shit together lately after living paycheque to paycheque all my life and I feel like farmers would be less overwhelming to chat with about this than dedicated money forums which are - per most of the rest of the internet - filled with men showing off.

No. 1879876

>>1879866
I’d actually love that; trying so hard to get my shit together but my family keep derailing me. Let’s support each other nonnie!

No. 1879879

>>1879866
I haven't seen one of those threads here before but I think you have a really good idea! I'm in a similar situation to you where I had a really rough financial time in my late teens/early 20s and I'd love to share the tips and tricks I've learned along the way to becoming more financially secure and independent. I would be interested in advice that other anons gave, but I think that before you make the thread you should think of some good rules to make sure that it doesn't descend into that typical "financial advice" type space you see in other online forums.
>>1877854
AYRT. Sorry I responded with hostility, I just thought you were trying to further French ideology rather than being ignorant to the truth. Basically, "Joseph Capgras" as we know him was one of the first counter earth inhabitants to successfully make it to our earth and replace the real Joseph Capgras, who was a sheep farmer from Toulouse. The doppelganer of Joseph started the myth of the Capgras delusion to punish people for becoming aware of counter earth and their program of replacing real earth inhabitants with doppelgangers. Counter Capgras was a very intelligent man because he singled out women as sufferers of the "disease" because he knew that the not many would believe them in the patriarchal state of France. It's a really sad tale all around.

No. 1879883

>>1879557
As a female developer i’d rather eat my own toenails; some of them are genuinely lovely but between the two of us that would be too much autism for one household

No. 1879998

Why are jannies getting trigger-happy with the ban button all of the sudden? Banning people over the stupidest shit ever and not the Lana simps on the celebcows thread, I thought simping for cows wasn’t allowed?

No. 1880003

>>1879998
I see lana simps and the weird lana samefags banned there. Maybe you're seeing what you want.

No. 1880004

>>1879998
I was wondering the same thing! Someone got banned for typing in all caps in the vent thread the other day. I think it's just nitpicky anons being trigger-happy with the report button.

No. 1880027

>>1879866
>>1879876
>>1879879
Someone bumped the financial advice thread.

No. 1880033

>>1879998
eh, giving them the benefit of the doubt, it feels like there's been an influx of weird posts more than usual. a lot of infighters and baiters that have learned to be more lowkey.

No. 1880045

>>1880033
I guess but I feel like sometimes nonnies look too deep into posts from schizos/autists. I always give funky posts the benefit of the doubt if they're one off.

No. 1880153

what pocket do YOU carry your phone in?

No. 1880161

how long did it take for your ex to message you after he broke up with you?

No. 1880163

>>1880153
My left usually, right handed so I like grabbing it across (jacket pocket/vanny pack across chest) or my right if I know I'll need it right away again

No. 1880164

Do you think someone saying that they consciously decided to abstain from dating for a period of time (e.g., "I decided I wouldn't get into a relationship until I finished my project") inadvertently implies that they used to date, or would you think it's still a reasonable thing that someone might say even if they'd never dated anyone before to begin with? Autistic nitpicking language question I know

No. 1880171

>>1880153
my pockets are too small for phones, I tuck it into my right waistband.

No. 1880186

do you think you can identify the same nonnies? i can't, my brain doesn't have the capacity to recoginize the same typing lol

No. 1880192

>>1880164
Implies that they used to date. Usually if they’ve never dated they’ll say so.

No. 1880194

>>1880186
it's easy when they have a pathological obsession with something or are vendettaposting. one actually straight up admitted that their "friend" called them a pedo over a preference after spending a few hours attacking other anons over it. at least she was banned eventually.

No. 1880264

>>1880164
While it sounds like they used to date, I can also see someone who is still a bit embarrassed about never having dated use it to make it sound like they have

No. 1880281

>>1880164
I actually phrase my answer to whether I want a relationship or not in that way to hide the fact I've never dated (sounds bad at my age even though I've just never been interested) so it implies you HAVE dated before.

No. 1880454

>>1880186
I can only identify one nona. She can't hide herself at all. The rest, no.

No. 1880461

>>1880033
>>1879998
>>1880004
Have you not been to /meta/ in the last 15 days? We just had double hell week.

No. 1880471

>>1880461
the bans were given out after hellweek ended tho

No. 1880597

>>1880186
Sometimes i feel like i do, but i always might be mistaken, so i dont think into this too deep. If they're talking about the same topic in the same words, naturally i'd think posts were made by the same person.
>>1880153
Right back pocket of my pants.

No. 1880605

What can I suggest as a day time activity to do with a friend that isn't just casually hanging around at each others' place? I befriended her in uni but she dropped out earlier this year and this is the first time we'll be meeting outside of that setting. I feel like we don't know each other well enough to just spend a lazy evening hanging out on the couch or in the pub like I do with my normal friend group, so I'd rather not do that.

No. 1880613

>>1880605
Maybe do a workshop together about something, at least in my city there's always some arts and crafts workshops where you can fill the awkward silences with focusing on a task like wood carving or painting.

No. 1880617

What's the point of going to a cafe just to read books? Is it actually good? Last time I went to Starbucks just to grab a drink and stay warm before going back home there were a bunch of teenagers yelling at loudly as possible on purpose while doing their homework and I wanted to leave asap because of that and the guy between my table and theirs couldn't focus at all when trying to read a novel because of them.

No. 1880621

>>1880617
I think you may need to find an actual café that has a quiet atmosphere.

No. 1880624

>>1880621
I know at least one and I really like this one so maybe I should try going back there and read something, the others I know that aren't from a chain tend to be loud because friends and families gather there in big groups and so popular that you can't stay for very long.

No. 1880693

>>1880605
Going to the park together, the library, a museum. A lot of museums have free days/hours for residents or students if you don't have money for admission. Or you could see a movie.

No. 1880708

File: 1707323051924.jpg (1.15 MB, 1200x1600, clara-bow-gettyimages-51721680…)

Should I give myself Clara Bow brows? I've been really into her and her personal style lately

No. 1880724

>>1880605
Shorter distance road trip to some interesting place nearby, or a bicycle ride together, those can take up a lot of time.

No. 1880747

>>1880708
Only if you don’t mind shaving off your entire eyebrow

No. 1880757

>>1880708
I love Clara Bow. If you like the thin 90s brows look than you’ll probably like it, I think her specific shape would look best on someone with downturned or round eyes

No. 1880762

>>1880708
Please don't. It looks so bad irl even on a beautiful face. I implore you to reconsider.

No. 1880763

Sorry for the turn-of-the-millennium russian techno-pop but music anons, please explain why it feels like she should do her steps a tiny little tad earlier than she does, even though it's all perfectly rhythmic and all.

No. 1880812

Do you think if a guy is a really great kisser and touches you with care it may also imply he's good in bed? Or is there no correlation at all?

No. 1880816

>>1880812
No, sadly.

No. 1880822

>>1880816
Damn it

No. 1880842

>>1880822
Chin up, according to Cher, it's a good indicator he can love.

No. 1880892

>>1880812
Id say it’s a good sign but it’s not a guarantee. I’ve dated both.

No. 1880935

>>1879883
have you ever dated/ are you currently dating a male developer? I'd actually love the huge autism kek

No. 1880939

>>1880186
hmm actually, nope. I usually can't really tell from the typing style, unless its a personalityfag

No. 1880944

>>1880708
you can try if you want. if you don't like how they look like you can always grow them back with a special gel I think?

No. 1880984

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Why do moids shoot up schools/murder people when they're depressed and isolated but women don't? Im isolated and depressed but I just continue to exist and find happiness elsewhere. Why do moids turn evil and take it out on innocent people?

No. 1880988

>>1880984
Men externalise.

No. 1880990

>>1879557
there are simply fewer of them it's a male dominated field. i'm sure plenty of female stemlords (or stemladies) do but there's simply not that many, and tech selects for autists.

No. 1880999

>>1880984
Because they're the degenerates of gender.

No. 1881003

>>1880984
It's fairly consistent in crime that males hurt others and women hurt themselves. I think it's a part of the inherent socialisation where males victimise themselves and externalise onto others, particularly those who are vulnerable more whereas women tend to internalise and punish themselves.

No. 1881007

>>1879557
90% of my moid colleagues have wives who are some variant of
>nurse
>schoolteacher
>kindergarten teacher
>arts (if younger)
and from years of conversation I gathered that it's basically as >>1879559 and >>1879562 said, plus "she can cook and is a good mother to my kids", "she was hot when we met" and "she is Asian and I'm into Asians" depending on the male. There's a few who date coworkers or women from other tech companies but not so many.
>>1879811
Wouldn't date a coworker but I'd be so bored if I was with someone I didn't have a lot to talk about with. Work is a big part of life, so I'd constantly have to explain to them what different things mean. If I was a doctor dating a chef, he'd have no idea what I'm talking about half the time and probably wouldn't care.

No. 1881022

>>1879562
This is the rule of thumb for most moids. They can’t really handle dating women who are actually competent. Or at least express the fact that they’re competent.

No. 1881066

>>1880984
Men are more prone to violence due to testosterone

No. 1881084

is this song ironic

No. 1881096

Is it weird to bring your own hand towel to the gym? I go to a basic normie gym (It's purple and $10 a month) that has paper towel dispensers and sanitizer spray. I'm a sucker for things that reduce waste and I assumed it was good gym etiquette to bring a towel. I don't sweat much so I mainly hit it with the spray and wipe after myself. But absolutely no one else there has their own towel. Feels awkward.

No. 1881100

>>1881096
That's actually brilliant. Not weird and hope it catches on.

No. 1881103

>>1881096
It might be a bit unusual to bring your own towel but I don't think its weird or that you'd be judged poorly for it. I like to wipe the machines down before I use it and after I use it, but I'll never wipe myself with a towel. I just can't deal with the idea that I'm spreading someone else's ass sweat around my face kek

No. 1881109

>>1881096
I bring my own towel ! Much better than leaving sweat stains, take care of the problem before it's even a problem I say.

No. 1881137

>>1881096
As far as I know you /have/ to always bring a small towel to gyms because you have to wipe the seats and such before and after working out so you don't leave a sweaty machine. But also so you can wipe the sweat off your face and such, which can get really annoying, I hurt myself with my own sweat once.
And it's also nice to have yet another one to dry your hands or your feet after showering.

No. 1881138

>>1881096
I’ve always brought my own towel to the gym

No. 1881170

Why do abusive parents choose a scapegoat? I was a funny looking, clumsy, sensitive kid but they would always twist up my traits so. That I was stupid or ugly or just ruined everything. Why was it me? I was the first born but they acted like I was stupid and the second born acted more like the oldest sibling than I. Was it cause I was like where it all went downhill? Wtf did I do?

No. 1881174

>>1881170
>Why do abusers abuse?
You answered your own question nona. Don't bother trying to rationalize the actions of lunatics, you'll just end up wasting your time.

No. 1881191

>>1881170
>Wtf did I do?
Absolutely nothing. It wasn't your fault and not something you could have avoided. Your parents were just bad people.
>Why do abusive parents choose a scapegoat?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/tech-support/202104/how-toxic-families-choose-a-child-to-scapegoat
Scapegoating allows a parent to think of the family as healthier than it is; if it weren’t for that one individual—yes, the scapegoat—the family would be perfect, and life would be blissful.
Scapegoating lets a parent minimize responsibility and explain negative events, enhancing a sense of control by blaming everything that happens on the scapegoated child.
There is also a section in this article about how the author thinks the scapegoat gets chosen. According to it, different parents pick different types of kids to scapegoat and she goes into that. Maybe you will see your family there.

There is this website: https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/. The resources there might help you deal with the abuse done to by your family. You didn't deserve what happened to you. I hope you can heal and stop caring about why the did what they did because they don't deserve any space inside your head.

No. 1881207

Am I an attenion whore or like what, because why do I want to scream whenever I'm in public but not when I'm at home?

No. 1881213

>>1881170
I had an abusive mom and through years of therapy I figured this out
>abusers will abuse for no 'real' reason,its never justified
>scapegoats are usually because parents or families that have narcasstistic traits tend to need a 'perfect image'
In my case I was unplanned and my younger sister was, despite being good accademically and the role model, she was treated as the role model but I was told I was supposed to be.
>sometimes the parents are jealous you reflect/remind them of their goals, dreams, hope and younger self
>teaching yourself how to break rhe cycle is more healing than being angry
anger only gets you so far, its said if youre looking for revenge you can start by digging two graves yep

No. 1881215

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is there anything worth visiting about 4chan in the year of our lord 2024 or is the entire thing just /pol/ now

No. 1881220

>>1881215
I've never used 4chan, I found LC after the /cgl fiasco. Ever since anon on here talked about "dorses" from 4chan I made the commitment to myself to never use that website. I suggest the same for you.

No. 1881236

>>1881207
Sometime your unconscious is just a dick. I've heard this phenomena called the 'call of the void' or the 'imp of the perverse', the “imp” being the voice inside a person's head that tempts a person to do something that would be unwise or destructive to do.

No. 1881244

>>1881215
its either starkly /pol/ or /tttt/. the latter is easier to troll.

No. 1881266

>>1881215
It's garbo

No. 1881293

>>1881215
I like trolling /tv/ or /x/ just to fuck with them sometimes but it's pretty worthless

No. 1881305

File: 1707369618959.mp4 (1.09 MB, 406x720, 7ZgAPJqc5HetyLmV.mp4)

can anyone id the song in this video

No. 1881306

>>1881215
some parts of /an/ give decent advice, specifically if you keep fish, reptiles/inverts, plants etc. or if you like talking about dinosaurs. The rest of the board is irredeemable. /ck/ is fun to troll sometimes but not worth visiting

No. 1881317

>>1880984
I would imagine in nature if a man is alone and cast out his survival would depend on destroying something/someone else.
Whereas a woman would be more likely to survive if she changes herself to again "fit into the group" as she doesn't have the same raw strength as a man.

No. 1881327

How long is your guys face? Mine is 20cm. Women's average is apparently 17 cm while 20-24 cm for men. This makes me wanna kms and my manly long face.

No. 1881344

>>1881215
it depends on the board. lots of retarded threads filled with retards, bots and trolls because negativity gets more spotlight than positivity, but there are good threads as well, you just have to search for them. this is not the case with pol, r9k, lgbt, vt because all the threads on those boards are trash beyond definition

No. 1881354

>>1881215
I think the less active boards have some merit, especially when it comes to sharing knowledge (if you filter the 4chan mindset of always having to be the most niche hipster contrarian) but other than that, I don't know anymore. I used to love /tv/ and I gave it a visit yesterday, and suddenly I was hit with the fact that all of the posters there have to be barely 18 if that because they legitimately didn't remember big events that happened in 2016 and asked to be spoonfed about it. I guess I just grew too old for 4chan, and 4chan became too mainstream to be interesting.

No. 1881393

>>1881293
>>1881354
Does /tv/ still have annoying pedo posters?

No. 1881394

>>1881215
I like to go to /mu/ to save some charts but it gets repetitive very fast so I only go like once a year, maybe go to /v/ to read some spoilers about a newly released game, but otherwise I never cared much for 4chan.

No. 1881435

>>1881215
Honestly, no. It’s all so repetitive and if you’re into any girl media like BL or otome those threads on /a/ and /jp/ have the same unhinged lolcow posters that are always here.
I’m starting to question why I still even post on lc, too.

No. 1881437

Why does it seem like an universal and intergenerational thing for parents to forget saying or doing incredibly hurtful things? Genuine question. I swear I don't know if they do it on purpose or not, but I have to remind my parents not to lie to my fucking face sometimes. It hasn't happened to me in a while but sometimes I'll see parents complaining about being cut off for "no reason" or a "laundry list of made up things" and I'm like, uh-huh.

No. 1881448

are there any isekai out there that actually reflect what mmorpgs are??

No. 1881451

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This is edited right

No. 1881453

>>1881437
It's how they cope with their mistakes.

No. 1881467

>>1881215
It's shit, I sometimes lurk /v/ when I look forward to a game's release or to look for leaks but it's been a while since I did that.

No. 1881470

>>1881451
She just knows how to pose. Iirc none of the people who expose photoshoppers found anything

No. 1881524


No. 1881530

>>1879574
Steve Jobs and Bill Gates. Mark Zuckerberg's wife is very smart too, but she a pediatrician, not anything related to computers.

No. 1881546

>>1881215
If you collect /toy/ is worth visiting but that's about it. The rest of the site is either /pol/ or overtaken by coomers. I never thought 4chan could become even more shitty than it already was but here we are.

No. 1881548

>>1881451
Why does she have the proportions of an early JJBA character?

No. 1881559

>>1881215
4chan is mostly just a bunch of loser men bitching about how hard done by they are, and since there’s nothing I hate more than hearing men whine it’s not worth it to me.

No. 1881572

>>1881215
I shitpost on /vg/ and /a/ because /m/ here is fucking dead. Its shit over there but I have no other choice

No. 1881576

>>1881327
Is this for teenagers?

No. 1881581

>>1881572
I know what you mean. I hate that our /v is dead

No. 1881589

>>1881435
It's always so funny going into threads on /a/ and seeing someone post a pic from lolcow with the exact same file name. I just go "hey nonna" in my head as I scroll past

No. 1881593

I'm going to Marseille for only a day or two in early May and I'm wondering if it's really that bad? Are there that many Muslims? Trying to get some hope kek

No. 1881616

>>1881593
If you avoid the places tourists don't tend to go anyway you'll be fine unless there's active protest. Like I doubt you'll venture to the poor areas.

No. 1881626

>>1881616
Yeah, I'm staying by the coastline. Thanks nonna

No. 1881653

>>1881530
wait I didn't know Steve's and Bill's (ex)wives did something related to computers. the more you know

No. 1881656

>>1881572
>>1881581
let's revive it nonnies. what game shall we talk about over there?

No. 1881709


No. 1881777

Sooo we’re not getting Dumbass back or what?

No. 1881790

>>1881777
It's still available just autosaged >>>/ot/1859933

No. 1881891

how do you become a lolcow.farm admin?

No. 1881907

>>1881891
Quit your job, inform your parents they may not have a retirement because you need their money now, block all of your friends, close all of your curtains. Wait until it's a dark stormy night and then fill in a google form.

No. 1881919

>>1881907
Bonus points if you have a piece of shit 4chin boyfriend who can write the 2 lines of codes that juuust about hold this paper shack of a place together

No. 1881945

File: 1707427784701.mp4 (7.1 MB, 514x854, cerebmin trio.mp4)

>>1881891
like this

No. 1881952

>>1881891
kill one of current admins

No. 1881957

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Should I get pizza or McDonald's tonight for dinner? Too baked to cook

No. 1881965

>>1881945
Ahahhahahaa fr tho they if you even mention a country you’ll get banned for racebait. Watch this: German people be staring.

No. 1881976

>>1881957
would the pizza be chain or local?

No. 1881983

>>1881957
pizza is more based

No. 1881986

>>1881957
McDonald's, get a happy meal for the dumb toy and then get something like nuggets.

No. 1881989

>>1881524
late reply but thank you nonnie

No. 1881994

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any nonnies here ever made a carrd before? i'm a web-dev noobie only familiar with html, but picrel is what i'm wanting to do with a carrd page. separate containers and text but i cannot for the life of me get my head around how to adjust containers especially after i've set the main PAGE setting, it all snaps to one part of the page or another. tutorials i've watched thus far are on not what i want.
tldr; i'm retarded and new to webdev and picrel is what i have in mind… just wanting quick tips, or pointers to a better tutorial.

No. 1882222

are you real nonnie? are you actually a human typing a reply? pleasr let me know

No. 1882228

>>1882222
nice quads nona

No. 1882243

>>1881215
I like /x/ for schizoposting

No. 1882244


No. 1882276

Can you bake smoked salmon? I know it's already cooked but still

No. 1882278

>>1881393
Yes. That and every crevice of the site has traces of /pol/ that's nearly inescapable. That's why I seldom visit or just troll 4ch.

I've tried to get myself banned but I realize it seems to be a fruitless endeavor. They never ban me for anything.

No. 1882279

>>1882276
Yes but it will dry the fish out if you leave it in too long at a baking temperature, it's better to simply warm it or use as an ingredient in a hot dish (ie, risotto).
>>1882222
I am a bot.

No. 1882280

>>1882222
If lolcow, the farm! fire emoji

No. 1882312

>>1882222
There's no difference between me and a "real" nonnie anyways, nonnie. I am a real nonnie.
>>1882280
fire emoji

No. 1882341

What kinds of stories do children like these days?
I wanna be a children's book illustrator (for elementary school kids specifically, so ages 6 to 10) but I'm not sure if my concepts would sell because I have no idea what kinds of stories gen alpha would like

No. 1882342

Was texting a moid and flirting/exchanging nudes, told him my body count (6) and he said it was "very modest but nothing to be ashamed of". Am I wrong to feel insecure and kind of annoyed about it?

No. 1882345

>>1882342
Classic negg with the intended affect of making you second guess your self worth. Red flag.

No. 1882350

>>1882345
I acted like it didn't matter but he sent an unsolicited dick pic shortly after and I purposefully opened the message but didn't reply. Not sure what next.

No. 1882351

>>1882342
you should say the exact same phrase when he posts a dick pic

No. 1882356

>>1882341
they’re just kids, they don’t have a specific interest. and you don’t have to pander to them. just do whatever kids in general like

No. 1882360

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No. 1882447

>>1882350
seconding >>1882351 kek

No. 1882596

>>1882341
I suggest going outside and touch grass theme because so many of them are so fucking glued to their ipads at 100% brightness. This generation is going to be the one with so many eye fuck ups.

No. 1882597

>>1882342
Idk he probably thinks your "easy" and wants to posture himself as a NLOB for not caring about something red pillers constantly seethe about.

No. 1882604

>>1882341
I suggest something like how having hobbies or personality traits don't affect your "gender identity".

You're a girl who likes short hair, is crass, and dinosaurs? Great! Still a girl. You're a boy who like long hair, is shy, and make-up? Great! Still a boy.

You can end the message with something like: "we shouldn't dictate ourselves by stereotypes uwu". Make sure the gender woo woo doesn't affect them. Start them young.

No. 1882629

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Aren't these supposed to be eaten as soup, since they say 'ramen' on the packaging? I see everyone on Youtube eating them as stir fried noodles and this got me confused. Or does Korean ramen differ from the Japanese one and it just means 'noodles' and not necessarily a soup?

No. 1882632

Can i re-sell designer stuff? Like bags i've never used
Didn't steal anything, they were gifts from people i want to forget

No. 1882635

>>1882629
Ramen means that type of noodles itself, you don't have to eat them with broth depending on the recipe. In Japan in some restaurants you can eat mazemen for instance.

No. 1882636

>>1882632
Why wouldn't you be able to? You can list it on eBay or depop or something.

No. 1882637

>>1882634
I have no idea how to do it kek and it's very expensive stuff so i don't think i can just throw it in a random site? I've never done stuff like this before

No. 1882638

>>1882632
sell them on grailed if they're fairly sought after designer items.

No. 1882640

>>1882635
Aaah I see, thanks nonna!

No. 1882642

>>1882638
Thank you i'll look into that too! Just hope i can get a fair amount of money back even if they are "second handed" (never touched them kek)

No. 1882691

Whats a realistic timeframe to lose 30kg?
Exercise 4 times a week, I eat less now but I cant maximize my nutrients intake since I cant afford the shopping and preptime due to family circumstances

No. 1882706

>>1882691
Depends on a lot of factors. If you're really heavy it should come off pretty fast, if you're not, could take up to a year, really depends

No. 1882750

>>1882691
https://www.losertown.org/eats/cal.php
This calculator isn't 100% accurate but it should give you a rough estimation.

No. 1882756

>>1882596
>I suggest going outside and touch grass theme
KEK

No. 1882766

>>1882691
I've lost around 22 kilos since June. I eat around 1300-1400 calories a day, work out 5-6 days a week for 30-60 min and try to burn 200-400 calories a day. Mind you everyone in my family are slow losers so the weight might come off faster for you than it did for me.

No. 1882773

hi i’ve been using lolcow for like the past two or three years. i regularly post and browse but i’ve never made my own thread. on snow in the egirl thread people have been mentioning apollostone and id really want to make a thread i just don’t know how. i’m a mobile user i only use my phone to check here is there a thread that explains how to make a new one? pls give advice ty

No. 1882782

>>1882773
Subject is the thread name
Comment is all the info about the cow/milk and why they're a cow
And file is the thread image
Don't forget to check what board you're on
You can also delete a post/thread within 30 minutes

Just make sure there is actual milk and the cow is thread worthy

No. 1882800

>>1882773
Are you truly stupid? Making a thread doesn't require a thread, use your braincells.

No. 1882803

How do I cook veggies so they taste delicious?

No. 1882808

>>1882803
honestly I just like boiling them with butter and pepper but I throw butter and pepper in the water and then more after

No. 1882809

>>1882803
Roast or air fry them and season them with herbs, spices, oils, sauces and cheese

No. 1882812

>>1882803
blanch them

No. 1882819

>>1882803
Boiled vegetables are nice tbh, they're tasty on their own and they're part of the reason why other foods taste nice.
You should try to get used to them uncooked because stuff like carrots have more sugar cooked than raw and so on.

No. 1882822

>>1882803
Coat them in olive oil (or another oil of your choice) and then put some seasoning on them and then bake them in an oven or air fryer. I could eat an entire bowl of baked veggies like this kek

No. 1882823

>>1882342
Kek this is such a weird response, this man probably has a body count in the dozens if he thinks 6 is modest (not that that's a big deal or anything). I'd stop messaging him if I were you

No. 1882890

>>1882803
Veggie broth, nonna. That's always a comfort food IMO.

No. 1882903

>>1882803
Put em in aluminum foil, stab fleshy veggies like eggplants, sweet potatoes etc with a fork a couple of times, add a clove or two of garlic - you can sometimes even insert the cloves into the flesh of vegetables if you're a garlic fanatic -, olive oil, salt and pepper to taste, even some nice dried herbs or spices if you like, wrap it all together and bake in an oven for 30-60 minutes depending on how many veggies you wrapped in it and how big their size is at around 200-225°C. The aluminum foil traps all the flavors like a steamer and the olive oil and seasoning penetrates the veggies to add a je ne sais quoi to em without too much of an effort. And not too much prep work is required. Which is sometimes a blessing when you don't wanna stay in the kitchen for hours on end.

No. 1882964

What should I have to keep myself living? I feel like living for me isn’t worth it, like, what have I done all these years? Nothing. What am I even doing? It’s been the same since forever. I am friendless, never had one, I don’t talk to anyone aside from family, I end up being annoying online so no one befriends me online. Is my only option really to end it? I don’t have anything that motivates me to keep on going, because there’s nothing for me. Sure, family will be upset, but they only tolerate me for what I am able to provide for them. Last time I had a breakdown my mom who I love the most told me to stop it because she didn’t want to be embarrassed in front of her family. And yeah I mean I’m a grown ass woman and acting like this? I get it. So what are my options? I’m really dependent and can’t do shit on my own.

No. 1883058

>>1882964
Get therapy. If that's not viable, get off the internet and pick one thing you can do by yourself that gives you a tangible result, then do more of it. If you can peel a vegetable or boil water, you can cook, so cook more. If you can post on lolcow, you can write, so keep a journal or write a story. You can be as shit at it as you like as long as you keep doing it. Slowly your mind will change and you'll be able to become more independent. This is a weeks-to-months long process btw, don't expect things to change overnight. You honestly sound like you'd benefit from simply getting off the internet and learning to be OK with your own company. Being a useless cringey retard with no worth or skills is very popular nowadays, you're definitely not alone in feeling this way.
Seriously though, get a hobby and leave the internet before you get memed into cutting your tits off and opening an Onlyfans.

No. 1883070

Anons where do you get shoes that actually last? Seems like no matter where I go or how much or little I spend my shoes wear down at the same pace

No. 1883071

>>1883070
I have this issue since I don't own a car and have to walk everywhere. The best thing you can do is have multiple pairs and rotate them

No. 1883073

>>1883070
>>1883071
I suggest investing in a high-quality pair of walking boots. Find a local cobbler and ring them to talk about the cost of replacing soles. A lot of people will throw away shoes when they can just get them fixed up at a shoemaker.

No. 1883076

>>1883073
>walking boots
would be awesome if I didn't work in a office and had a place to switch shoes

I think part of the problem is that a lot of shoes these days aren't really made to be repairable

No. 1883080

>>1883058
thanks for answering i guess, but I’ve been ok with my own company for 20 years now. and it’s not like I’m active on the internet either, i only tried back when it was young and that didn’t work out, i’ve taken therapy as well and it was the most useless shit. Is there really no other options?

No. 1883089

>>1883080
get more therapy. i never met a person who had great results with the first therapist they met. or even the first few. keep looking until you click with a therapist and it helps. and do hobbies. you sound cut off from society. humans are not meant to be like that. so get a job, hang out after work with coworkers now and then. make friends. go get a hobby that gets you out of the house and around other people. make friends. help others. become someone other people depend on. contrubute something to society around you. be what humans are supposed to be

No. 1883094

>>1883076
I get what you mean, but when I worked in an office I kept a pair of lightweight slipper-style shoes at my desk for when I got in from walking with my boots. I don't think anybody in your office would judge you for changing shoes unless you have a foot odour problem.

No. 1883095

>>1883076
You can probably be sneaky about it at your desk, and if you feel the need, go to the bathroom and change em. But idk, I've worked in offices where people (mainly women) would change shoes at the desk, no one cared. most of the time you only notice once you look down at her feet or she says ahahaha I changed my shoes

No. 1883104

>>1883080
You seriously need therapy, your posts sound exactly like me when I was up to my neck in depression. I'm going to come across as a bitch here but if you're like this IRL that's why you don't have friends. You need to keep trying until you get results, even when you're sure it's all a sham and you're doomed to fail. Stop handwringing online about how you're the embodiment of a fart in an elevator and get professional help. Do the exercises your therapist gives you. Stick to routines or exercises you think are useless. Stop finding reasons to give up. You've been like this for 20 years, of course making changes will be frustrating and difficult.

No. 1883108

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I have a question for nonnies familiar with Middle Eastern/Muslim majority countries- do girls just lie about having past boyfriends? It seems that guys will be upfront about having some experience prior to marriage but girls never seem to admit anything. I’m honestly just curious because the math doesn’t work out for me- I have to conclude that girls just reset their boyfriend count to 0. Is this the case?

No. 1883112

>>1883108
I'm curious as well. Do they even have a dating history? It seems like they stay away from men until their parents pick out some dude for them to marry, and if you somehow divorce him you've brought shame to your family for the rest of your life. Maybe in more progressive Muslim places like Dubai it's different though.

No. 1883122

>>1883108
Depends on the country but for conservative muslims the concept of "dating" does not even exist and a daughter would be disowned for dating. For these people, the couple is allowed to go on a few chaperoned dates or meetings within the home with absolutely no physical contact between the couple and then the two families come to an agreement on whether or not a marriage will happen.

No. 1883125

>>1883108
no tbh even my hijabi mom is upfront about having had boyfriends in the past but to be fair i'm from morocco which is probably the most "open" muslim country imo. being boyfriend and girlfriend usually ends up in engagement anyway because girls get married fast. actually maybe i shouldn't be answering this because i'm a sheltered recluse kek but i know hijabi girls who were players and had lots of boyfriends before but here it just means you called yourself boyfriend and girlfriend and went on dates with that person only (usually with hopes of engagement and marriage but not necessarily). ofc after marriage it's highly frowned upon/borderline forbidden for the woman to bring up past relationships out of "modesty" though but i wouldn't call that lying really. but older women will still brag about her past suitors etc… but mostly i think it depends on the country

No. 1883205

Anons how tf do I use the search? No matter what it always pulls up posts from months/a year ago when I'm looking for a post I made today that I can't find. Help??

No. 1883211

>>1883104
>You're the embodiment of a fart in an elevator
Some nonas are so poetic with their words. New insult added to my vocabulary.

No. 1883217

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>>1883205
type in after:yyyy-mm-dd after your query to limit results to results past a certain date. works for all google searches btw
https://ahrefs.com/blog/google-advanced-search-operators/

No. 1883222

>>1883211
When you act amazed by reddit tier sonnets you show what kind of person you are and how easy it is to impress you

No. 1883224

>>1882964
I was a NEET for years, had no interests or hobbies really besides taking care of things for my family members. It isn't an instant process to improve your life and I still have those moments where I question what kind of existence I have because I'm not beautiful, intelligent, interesting, or surrounded by close friends. But small steps at a time really help. If you're not able to work full-time yet, volunteer a few hours a week. If you're not interested in a particular hobby, try just going for walks and exploring the world around you. If you don't have friends at least try to do something that involves a bit of social interaction, for me that was going back to school. I don't have that much of a life yet but I'm not agoraphobic anymore and I appreciate every day just for that.

No. 1883229

>>1883222
>When you act amazed by reddit tier sonnets you show what kind of person you are and how easy it is to impress you
Some nonas are so poetic with their insults. New sentence added to my vocabulary after I google what a few of those words mean.

No. 1883234

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>>1882964
>What should I have to keep myself living?
I remember when I was very suicidal I saw this one post a long time ago that was basically like "nooo haha don't kill yourself, something retarded might happen later." And that was enough to snap me out of my ideation. You should live just to see how crazy shit will get, even if it's just for a laugh.

No. 1883265

how bad is it to be 25 and still live with your mom? i got fired and im looking for a new job. rn i cant leave even if i tried.
i also cant drive. how doomed am i?

No. 1883271

What are you supposed to do if someone has an allergic reaction? Someone I know has a food allergy that's mild enough for her to still eat it, but I know allergies can develop and I'm so worried that one day she's just gonna suddenly have a severe reaction. I'm not trying to be dramatic. Should I just keep some Benadryl? I don't have allergies so I know nothing about the lifestyle.

No. 1883282

>>1883271
If someone is having a severe allergic reaction call the emergency line immediately and ask them to send an ambulance because of a severe allergic reaction. Or, rush them to the hospital yourself to the emergency room. Not to be mean but personally, I find it weird that you're catastrophizing about a friend's mild allergy and imaging her death from said allergy. Don't think about your friends getting hurt. Your friend knows her body better than you do.

No. 1883283

>>1883265
You really aren't screwed, if you are proactively looking for for a job, go get a late diploma (I did that at your age, one that's done in 2 years) or even try to find a work/study training program. As for the driver's license, it depends on how good your public transport are, or if the distances aren't too bad by bike (if that's your thing). I don't have a license either but I only live 3km from my workplace and have a good public transportation system provided they don't strike again otherwise I gotta walk an hour .

No. 1883284

>>1883282
Well jeez anon, I didn't say any about death. Thank you for the answer though.

No. 1883288

>>1883284
NTA but usually if a person knows they can have a strong reaction to whatever they're allergic, they have the EpiPen thingy on them in case of emergencies. Ask if your friend has one. If not then always call your local emergency number first, because they will be able to tell you what to do, they are trained in first aid. If you are generally anxious about them or situations like this, I suggest taking a first aid class, they'll teach you the right decisions to make.

No. 1883304

Are there any good glass/multi compartment lunch containers that won’t shatter easily? Just had a Pyrex container explode in my lunch box because it couldn’t handle being dropped a couple inches

No. 1883513

>>1883283
nona this is so comforting. I am getting a late diploma too! Its online cause I was working full time. public transport is not great but its cheap. i should just focus on getting the money to move out.
thank you.

No. 1883523

Does anyone have experience or advice about using Respondus? I have to use it for an exam next week and I keep seeing horror stories about it locking up peoples computers even after they're done with it, among other concerning things like privacy issues. I'm also ADHD and really finnicky (especially when I'm nervous, and my grades are extremely important to me, so of course I will be) and my professor already gave us a heads-up about how "if we need to look around to think, look up and it wont flag you," which doesn't bode well because it's not something I can guarantee I can control. I've also been told that noises in the background will set it off, but I take care of my autistic brother who has echolalia from when he wakes up to when he goes to bed and gets upset when he isn't allowed to engage in it, and two cats who occasionally whine at me or roughhouse and might frequently require me to leave my seat, so I'm considering just taking it in my car at this point.
I'm not asking how to cheat, just for any precautions I can take to make sure it doesn't hurt my computer, and/or any advice about what it does or doesn't flag so I know how much I have to keep myself in check. Even stuff like the "chapstick to obscure the webcam" trick I've read is welcome. If I don't feel like I have at least some safeguard, I'm the type that will be scared to breathe just so I can safely deny I did anything wrong in the situation that I do set something off.

Venting on the side: I hate having to deal with this at all and wish I at least had the OPTION to take the exam physically on campus.

No. 1883528

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Are some people not that much evolved? Why do some modern people look like Neanderthals?

No. 1883534

>>1883528
Neanderthals were not "less evolved" they were a parallel sister species of homo sapien. We did not come from Neanderthals, they were their own thing. Just so you know.

No. 1883538

>>1883528
With 8 billion people alive there's bound to be outliers.

No. 1883547

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>>1883534
Ohh I see. Well they’re extinct now but they definitely fucked Homo sapiens so some people have that blood right? Like look at Tophia and her brother especially. They act and look so primal. They’re dirty and small too. I’m not being racist btw I’m the same race as them!(farmhands fuck off)

No. 1883552

>>1883547
Caucasians actually have proportionately the most percentage of Neanderthal genome, since Neanderthals lived in colder climates in Europe. These guys probably don’t actually have much in them kek they’re just unfortunate looking and perhaps have a slight genetic disability of some sort, but I don’t know them so I can’t say.

No. 1883553

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>>1883547
nta but the mixing happened in Europe so neanderthal dna is present in all populations which went throug there

No. 1883554

>>1883523
I’ve used it and it was fine. It will ask you to show your physical area so make sure your room is clean. Also I don’t know about your university or college but mine has a policy that students can refuse to use it and the professor has to find a solution for them. Maybe check your schools policy

No. 1883563

Is that normal if my cum tastes like glue?

No. 1883564


No. 1883567

>>1883564
What does healthy cum taste like? I don't think I have a bad diet, so idk

No. 1883569

>>1883553
everyone outside sub-Saharan Africa and east-asia are mixed with Neanderthals.

No. 1883573

>>1883567
Actually… It doesn't have a specific taste. It just shouldn't be fishy or rotten. As long as you're not having any other symptoms, I think it's fine.

No. 1883583

>>1883563
Kek I’m more concerned with why you know what glue tastes like. No the other anon is right, as long as it isn’t foul or fishy or notably OFF, you’re likely just fine.

No. 1883586

>>1883567
>I don't think I have a bad diet
kys moid(report suspected males and do not respond)

No. 1883593

>>1883586
Your radar is off.

No. 1883618

Is there a place to see people’s before and after weight loss photos? That stuff is the perfect motivation for me to continue

No. 1883631

why does caffeine make me so sensitive? every time I drink something like iced tea, even if it's only half a cup I start feeling lightheaded, have joint pain and headaches, and feel aggressive for no reason. in the best case scenario I get very tired.

No. 1883633

>>1883618
r/progresspics, some of them are troon transformations though.

No. 1883642

why don’t human males have a preference for women with already established fertility like chimps do?

No. 1883654

>>1883642
Pedophilia

No. 1883658

Are hair transplants permanent or do they have to be renewed every few years like fillers?

No. 1883668


No. 1883693

>>1883642
>established fertility
I'm sorry, i'm retarded. What does this mean? Having kids? Having a developed body?

No. 1883696

>>1882342
Same anon, he messaged me in the morning saying “woke up excessively horny and not a fan”. Often double texts me if I ignore him. Kinda want to ask what he expects a nun like me to do about it kek but probably not the best idea. What do?

No. 1883701

What programming language is the most useful to learn? I'm self-teaching so I don't really know where to start.

No. 1883702

>>1883696
Don't send nudes anon, it's 2024 haven't you learned from the many many girls and women who've made the same mistake before you by now

No. 1883706

>>1883701
If you're starting out python or bash.

No. 1883727

>>1883701
It doesn't really matter starting out, it's just learning the concepts which you can transfer between languages. Unless you're trying to do something specific like web dev or data analysis, or something niche, but I'm assuming you're just trying to learn how to use high level languages.
(note: am not a programmer just an engineering student who has taken a fair amount of programming classes)

No. 1883731

>>1883696
You're letting yourself get negged over having a low body count. Develop some self respect, please. You are better than this and he is not worthy of your attention. Cut him off.

No. 1883733

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What's with artistic/ creative women (illustrators, musicians, graphic designers, some MUAs, anyone barely alt, etc) being overrepresented in the queer "community"? What's about the "gay" tag that attracts their attention so much? Everytime I check a random artists profile they have a laundry list of terms or the obligatory "they/them" pronouns in bio. What makes creative women in particular so easily persuaded by this stuff?

No. 1883734

>>1883731
I get it. I have a BPD diagnosis which makes these kind of interactions more difficult. No self confidence at all.

No. 1883743

>>1883733
Most creative people are insecure as fuck, add being a woman to the mix and you for a mess, because being a woman into arts and crafts means you must be perfect in every single way. Adding qwerty shit to your profile means you're allowed to do whatever you want with your art, and gives you a sense of community that doesn't seem to exist in other creative spaces as far as I've noticed.
>inb4 what about this or that or this particular special group I'm at with 4 women
Those spaces may exist but they're not public and of easy access as your average art discord or art group on Instagram ir even worse, Twitter.
Plus another perk of qwerty tags is the exposure you get, if you tag something with just "sketch, art, colors, insert brand" no one will give a fuck, but if you add the super special pride hashtag that's rainbow colored, more people will pay attention to it because being gay means you're being oppressed, it will always mean that because gay people are oppressed, specially to the normies that barely lurk the internet and probably have only talked to one gay person in their whole 20 something years alive.
Then you add tranny shit and according to most news outlets, they're getting homicided and hate crime'd every second, so they get at least a pity like, a pity follow or a "I guess I will follow this retard so people think I'm inclusive" follow.
T.Used to think that way.

No. 1883747

>>1883733
LGBTwhatever+-pandering sells their products.

No. 1883748

>>1883733
it's socially contagious, and in their circles because these women often grew up feeling different from their female peers or have higher rates of mental illness like depression.

No. 1883835

Anons, do you scroll /ot/ and the other boards you like or do you just check specific threads? And do you usually just read your favorite threads or do you make an effort to post and respond to others?

Lc seems so dead and slow, I wish anons would post more

No. 1883840

>>1883835
mods are actively trying to kill the site

No. 1883848

>>1883835
>>1883840
I’m banned like every other day now. I feel like I’m not the only one they ban you for literally anything. And I usually go I. The catalog and click on specific threads. I got banned for not punctuating.

No. 1883849

>>1883840
I agree actually. The mods are ban-happy and I keep seeing unfair redtexts, like for shitposting, when there wasn’t anything wrong or offensive about the post. We’re not allowed to be silly or make jokes anymore I guess

No. 1883852

>>1883848
I keep getting banned too, and never for anything serious. It’s like the mods disagreed with my personal opinion or didn’t find an obvious joke funny and decided to temp ban me over it kek

No. 1883856

>>1883848
>I got banned for not punctuating.
Wth no way? Where?
>>1883852
>It’s like the mods disagreed with my personal opinion or didn’t find an obvious joke funny and decided to temp ban me over it kek
This one i believe 100% KEK

No. 1883859

>>1883835
The only cow I check up on is Shay. I post a few times a week in /ot/, /g/, and /m/. I've active on lolcow since 2015 but apparently I'm just a guest here based on what the admins said in the hellweek thread.

No. 1883862

>>1883840
>>1883848
>>1883849
>>1883852
>>1883856
are you nonas voicing your unhappines in /site/? i agree with all of you and i think the only way to save the site is to be loud about mods doing their job poorly

No. 1883863

>>1883835
I try to respond my best to everyone I can but I mainly lurk /snow/ and /w/ is dead but yeah it seems kinda dead lately, sometimes I even post different typing styles so no one knows its just me

No. 1883864

>>1883642
Other male species are deprived most times. They rape and they kill the females’ kids so they can mate with her and they also rape children, people are animals and animals are shitty. I also think porn skews a lot of men’s perceptions about sex like they watch it while their brains are developing and then they think coercing is sexy and slapping and deepthroating and anal are just common and vanilla

No. 1883874

>>1883862
sa i meant /meta/, not /site/. my bad

No. 1883875

>>1883835
I check all of the boards daily, but I rarely post on the cow boards. There's one thread on /ot/ where I probably make up around 1/3rd of the posts and I'm very active in, I post in /m/ threads that have actual discussions going on, and sometimes I post on /g/ too but only the health/advice threads, never the attraction or husbando threads. Sometimes I wonder if farmhands look at our posts and come to all kinds of funny conclusions, it's probably fun.

No. 1883879

>>1883862
tons of anons already have, and as usual the staff doesn't respond

No. 1883889

>>1883835
I used to scroll /ot/ but now I just check this and 1-2 other threads. I rarely post and don't respond much either. Just like the other nonas said jannies seem to really enjoy banning people for the dumbest reasons possible and after getting a ban in the vent thread out of all places I just don't wanna bother anymore.
>>1883862
Many anons have complained there but jannies completely ignore them which isn't really surprising. Just look at all the recent absurd redtexts, they obviously aren't mods because they actually want to moderate the site but because powertripping here is the only achievement in their neet lives, of course they don't handle criticism well kek.

No. 1883900

>>1883835
I used to be an /ot/ regular but this website has gone to fucking shit with tiktok zoomers all over /ot/. So now I just check the occasional threads

No. 1883908

nonas what websites that aren't social media do you go on when you aren't browsing lolcor? i refuse to go on any social media sites again and there really are so few genuine websites left.

>>1871259
extremely common, even moreso nowadays. people don't know how to exist on their own without adding fake labels to themselves to feel like they're part of something

No. 1883919

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>>1883848
My latest ban. The person I was replying was baiting from the start and they decide to ban me after I am done with the conversation? After the post I went to sleep so if they banned me right after the post it is a long ban for "infighting". I just saw it while trying to post on snow.
Btw how do they even measure this? I keep getting 30 min bans then hour long bans and then 2 days bans and you'd think the 2 day ban is for something serious but nah, is for a joke on ot, and then 30 min for actual infighting on snow and hours for "infighting" on ot. The hell? Next they gonna ban me for not taking it to meta.
This is like oldmin again, getting long ass bans just cus some tranny janny is constipat… I mean… on her period.

No. 1883981

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I don’t get the Mitski one. I like her music but I never thought it was unhinged or anything

No. 1883982

do eurofags still have asylums and that’s why they don’t have the similar level of crazy homeless people like there are in the states? Like if someone just started going insane on a commuter train in Germany would the government just take custodianship of them?

No. 1884001

>>1883981
People just misuse wojaks for retarded shit tbh there's no right way to use them because they're boring and dead now. Also coomers love using them for whatever ideals they have, look up wojakparadise and there's a nsfw option

No. 1884002

>>1883981
These are made by normies who first get exposed to greentexts on instagram and seek validation from anthony fantano

No. 1884008

>>1883981
>clairo, phoebe bridgers, lana

Definitely a meme made by someone with hideous pleb taste

No. 1884011

>>1883982
I mean, Europe is a continent so it varies lmao, some European countries have a lot more mental health support than others. In some places it's easier or harder to 'section' people, I know in Britain it's getting easier for the police to do it which is scary because you can't really trust them.

No. 1884013

>>1883982
There's not that many homeless people

No. 1884031

>>1883981
i literally just dyed my hair and shitty bangs pink and im wearing a charli xcx shirt right now

No. 1884033

>>1883919
Anyway I just got banned again after this post for another post in the vent thread I made hours ago, shit is no coincidence, I just hurt some tranny janny feelings. Fucking unbelievable how childish they are.

No. 1884034

>>1883879
>>1883889
i know but i figure if most nonas don't go to voice their opinion because they think nonas already have then we are not showing the mods how unhappy we are and its easier to brush us off

No. 1884035

>>1884033
you're in his walls nona kek
>inbf ban for "moidposting" or soemthing

No. 1884037

>>1884034
I mean they already said ‘we don’t care how much you complain, we know what’s best for the site’ so they don’t give a shit if the users are unhappy.

No. 1884038

>>1883733
It's simple. The more "marginalized" you are in left spaces the more you can get away with being an asshole. It's like in right spaces the less marginalized you are the more you can be an asshole, but taken the opposite trajectory. That's because they think that people who are less privileged in life deserve to have more lenient rules applies to them, since bad things happened to them. In leftism, suffering is something that is seen as a badge to show off.
Straight, male, white, thin, attractive, not mentally and physically ill = not marginalized.
Lgbt, person of gender, poc, fat, ugly, disabled = marginalized.
Right wing and left wing in this I mean progressive and regressive, they act as opposites to each other. So everything one is, the other isn't.
Also you can't, as a rule, talk about a topic unless the group you're in personally experienced it. You MUST belong to a category (white or poc, straight or gay, cis or trans etc) even if they claim labels are unimportant. You can't "appropriate" suffering that happened to another group, otherwise you'll receive backlash. So if you want to speak about an experience or just lecture someone else because you feel like it, you have pretend to be some sexuality you aren't in order to speak up about your problems otherwise you gotta stfu. That way you'll be seen as an authority on that subject.

No. 1884041

>>1883835
I only check this thread and /m/. /Snow/ is boring now. I'll probably leave this site.

No. 1884068

I went ice skating today for a few hours just for fun for the first time in several years, didn't fall once but my legs hurt a lot and I feel completely exhausted. It's the exact same sensation I had in my legs the many times when I passed out from low blood pressure, it's really weird. Is it normal as someone who doesn't practice sports at all or should I be worried? Is it just a sign that I really need to get more physically active to begin with? If that's the case maybe I'll go to the gym sometimes. I'm going to bed very soon so maybe I'll feel better tomorrow.

No. 1884071

>>1876032
lel she aint wrong

No. 1884072

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how do i get it through my family's head that they put their cat in danger by letting their huge dog play with her? the dog is ~kind~ but he is gigantic and roughhouses with the cat all the time, grabbing her neck and whatnot. the dog adores the cat, but i'm sure that his instinct will kick in at some point and he'll accidentally kill her. i've pointed this out to them numerous times but they just say that it's okay because the dog is sweet and doesn't play with the cat that aggressively. this happens unsupervised a lot of times.

this is my mom's new family and i only visit them a couple of times a year. they got this cat last year and the dog a year before that. if it were one of the cats that i grew up with, i would literally remove it from the house and make it move in with me. i also have my own cat and if i were to take him with me to their house, i would never let the dog play with him.

No. 1884073

>>1883835
Yeah. Something is wrong lately. I’ve been here since 2016 and many of the bans aren’t paying attention to context and the jannies don’t seem to be up on the board culture of the site they’re moderating.
The userbase feels different too, though.
I think maybe we’re hanging on to a lolcow that doesn’t exist anymore. I used to love coming on here and reading unhinged sperg rants from funny, clever, weird women. The days of genuinely hilarious user-generated content on here are coming to an end because it’s being modded out. There are no more copypastas a la Komaeda-chan or anorectal violence-kun. The homemade dildo setup that that nonnie posted once would likely have been banned in a heartbeat instead of becoming a legendary post. I feel like it’s time to move on, too, but where are the other nonnies going? I miss the old guard

No. 1884074

>>1884068
you are just not used to exercising. if you start exercising often you wont feel the weakness and muscle pain afterwards

No. 1884078

>>1884074
Well shit, I guess I need to do something about it. I'm used to walking a lot but I have an office job so that's most likely not enough.

No. 1884080

>>1884068
Skating is like doing a slight continuous squat for hours on end (if you do it somewhat properly, with bent knees), so it's natural to be fatigued. But of course you should exercise more if you can, but doing a new sport is probably going to tire out people even if they go the gym already because it uses different muscles. I did figure skating as a sport for years and also go to the gym but if I skate after a long break it still tires me out.

No. 1884084

>>1884073
i think a lot of it is the old admin's doing. not to put all the blame on her, but i feel like the 'censorship' (i'm using this word in the loosest way possible kek) under her regime drove some of the user base away. i remember threads like the pink pill, man hate etc. being banned. i think even the dog hate thread was banned at some point. the current admins seem to take constructive criticism so hopefully they'll tell the farmhands to ease up on the strict modding.

anorectal violence guy and his sperging was hilarious, thank you for reminding me of him. we need more cultural moments like that.

No. 1884093

>>1884072
Sometimes the only way is for them to hear real experiences or literally see it, obviously finding people's stories of it happening is better than subjecting them to a video of it.

No. 1884094

>>1884078
walking doesn't strain muscles like ice skating or lifting weights nonnie kek. start working out. at first you will have muscle pains for a few weeks but then you will feel great!

No. 1884095

>>1884033
damn, that's insane. i once caught a 24 hour ban for "infighting" and the post in question was just replying to a nonna that she was confusing x and y and that anon she was replying to was talking about y and not x, like she thought. i didn't even insult her or anything.

No. 1884102

I've never been to the gym before, what do I do the first time? Do I just go there, pay for a subscription and start using the machines?

No. 1884104

>>1884084
Old admin started all of this shit. The rule of any racial discussion being called racebait was her idea because muh POC, manhate being banned was her idea, /w/ was her idea. It’s weird the current admin just went with all that as if it was established and never thought to revisit some of these.

No. 1884106

>>1884080
>if you do it somewhat properly, with bent knees
That's how I did it, but I legit cannot imagine not bending my knees when ice skating, I would be falling very often otherwise. Sounds like I should go back from time to time then, it's affordable.

>>1884094
I know kek but I might as well say it because some people barely walk and use their cars to go anywhere, meanwhile I checked a few times because I was curious and I do like 10,000 steps everyday because of public transport and errands. So it's still a bit better than nothing but given how I feel right now it's not enough.

No. 1884107

>>1884102
Basically yeah

No. 1884110

>>1884102
look up a beginner program online. i like starting strenght for beginners to gym but if freeweights are intimidating you can start by just using machines and exercising different muscle groups a few times a week.

No. 1884113

>>1883919
>The person I was replying to was baiting from the start
So you took the bait? How is that something to be proud of? I saw the infight in the vent thread and it was some real retardation. I think it's weirder to come on another thread to complain about the ban when you were double posting pretending to be two different people in that thread just to egg on the infight you created.

No. 1884117

>>1884113
it's equally as weird to follow her here from another thread to "set her straight" kek

No. 1884120

>>1884104
ayrt, yeah you're spot on. and the cherry on top was when she restructured the entire site right before she retired. i feel like we/lolcow barely made it out, honestly. like the board culture was almost lost forever kek.

No. 1884122

>>1884113
The fuck you talking about? I wasn't pretending to be two people, where did you take that from? Do you even know what is double post?(infighting)

No. 1884129

OK so porn is gross and I really don't wannz fap to it but I sort of wanna fap…
What do I fap to? Is there even a fap material thread?(integrate)

No. 1884130

>>1884129
>fap

please, anon

No. 1884133

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got too curious and started reading a fight on 4chan amongst purity fags, and i'm wondering if this is true? i've read shit on twitter about cells dying and the body being brand new but i'm not sure kek

No. 1884139

nonnies, does anybody know any good websites or god forbid discords for lesbians that are troon free? i feel so fucking alone but everytime i try to join something advertised as "lesbian only" it's filled with 99% men. i just want fucking human interaction with other women like me, i can't take it anymore

No. 1884141

>>1884133
wrong calculation but right result. the "pussy" doesn't renew, but the uterine lining does, yes. that's what a period is. unused eggs and lining goes out so you have a fresh pair next month. he is right again about the fact that a woman who fucks a lot does not get "loose", which is what incel types think

No. 1884144

>>1884139
lets start our own nona

No. 1884147

>>1884141
sa unused egg*, not both

No. 1884148

>>1884130
would i get help if i changed the word for something else

No. 1884150

>>1884144
i wish we could, i feel terrible just asking for sites because you cant trust anybody anymore. im sitting here crying while i type because im at my breaking point, i KNOW im not alone, i know there's thousands of us but everywhere i turn its men and i cant take it anymore i just cant

No. 1884152

>>1884150
this site is as good as it gets unfortunately

No. 1884158

>>1884148
no, go back

No. 1884161

>>1884133
The uretine lining, which is the inner lining of the uterus that would also be used in case of pregnancy, does shed and renew itself every month with menstruation (superior organ tbh). The vagina doesn't renew itself but it is self-cleaning, it throws every nasty thing out through discharge. So he's half right, which is surprising for someone on 4chins.

No. 1884163

>>1884150
i understand nona. i did a quick google search for terf lesbian websites and all i get are websites condemning leasbians who refuse to date and fraternize with men. i would join such a place if it existed. i know women like you and me exist, i happen to be lucky to be friends with some. but i also happen to know some who are drinking the handmaiden kool aid and it's infuriating and sad to witness. i wish i could hug you, but since i can't i am sending you empathy and positive thoughts. i will keep lurking here in case some nona knows of the type of community we are looking for

No. 1884191

Do you ever just get bored of buying things? I even feel disgust towards the words "buy" "pay" or "sell". Is this normal at all? It feels like this is something that I have to listen and say constantly and it's kind of sorta driving me nuts. Why?

No. 1884199

>>1884191
there's nothing wrong with that. save your money kek

No. 1884225

>>1884191
Gonna walk an hour to the shops to save on petrol, I allowed myself to forgo my hatred of spending for a holiday so I'm straight to saving. Everything needing money is exhausting.

No. 1884259

>>1884191
I've gotten bored of buying things too, probably a good thing kek

No. 1884265

>>1884038
This is an excellent explanation nona

No. 1884267

>>1884191
Healthy, understandable, normal disgust. Everyone is trying desperately to monetize everything. Every random bitch you know is either selling naked pics on onlyfans or begging people to buy tarot readings on twitter every single month when rent comes up. Everyone is shameless with their begging, they attempt to monetize things that have no business being sold and absolutely suck. Everywhere you turn someone is begging for money or spending it on retarded shit and doordash, meanwhile regular people can't get buy on their jobs while other people are making six times your salary to make tiktoks.

No. 1884300

>>1884068
I went ice skating for the first time in a few years recently but i cycle a lot and am overall fit. My legs were aching like crazy the next 2-3 days. I think you just use a lot of muscles you usually don't

No. 1884304

>>1884300
Seconding this. I feel like any activity where one is trying to maintain ones balance like ice skating involves a lot of muscles being used without one realizing. I wish I was better at ice skating but I can't skate for shit without risking a concussion kek.

No. 1884306

I vacuumed my floor and mopped it with a swiffer and some floor cleaning solution, but it still looks gross. There's still dust, hairs, and grime stuck to it and it's hard to pick them up even if I specifically target it with a wet paper towel. Some floors are laminate and some are tile.
What am I missing? How do other people get their floors to be so smooth and spotless but mine seem to be dirty no matter how I clean or where I live?

No. 1884326

>>1884306
are your floors white or some other uniform pale color? dark wood floors hide things better. whose spotless floors are you seeing? online can be heavily staged or edited. you're also probably harder on your own home than you are on others'. it's literally a floor, it's going to be dirty.

No. 1884337

>>1884102
Don't pay right away, they'll let you try before you buy for a session and show you around etc. I got started by hiring a PT for a couple of days just to get over my shyness and have a few things I know how to do.

No. 1884346

>>1884120
Nta but I think in addition to that, the valentine's day incident from shaymin, and then that christmas incident where many posters couldn't access the site at all for weeks even after she put it back to normal (and even after that there was some temporary character limit for posts and everything loaded slowly) was probably the final nail in the coffin

No. 1884354

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Is IVF really that bad? I was thinking that the only way I'd get pregnant is if I'd have a daughter and the process looks simple on paper..

No. 1884358

>>1884354
The hormones' will suck but if you want to do it just do it nona. Dont listen to others here who are mad at it.

No. 1884360

>>1884354
Idk much about it but I followed a lesbian couple that did and the egg retrieval sounded scary and painful but she wasn't the one that carried the baby so I'm not sure, do your research obviously. That being said, surely you wouldn't be allowed to chose the sex? Aren't there laws against that.

No. 1884362

>>1884354
It sounds fucking awful from what I hear. Physically painful and invasive, extremely expensive, not guaranteed to work at all (in the case of fertility issues).

No. 1884365

>>1883733
Basically what the other nonnies said, but my follow up question is what percentage of these women do we think are even genuinely same sex attracted? I feel like it's gotta be half at most.

No. 1884368

Would that native deodorant work as a solid perfume? I have a stick that smells so good I want to wear it as perfume lol.

No. 1884371

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>>1884358
>>1884360
>>1884362
Thank you wonderful nonnas! Im not infertile just only stuck on having a daughter kek. I will very much do more research if it comes to terms of trying it. As per the gender question you very much can, I wish in the future it'll be much more easier so we can have an advantage

No. 1884374

>>1884354
the stimulation medication are multiple daily injections not pills. a coworker of mine who did it said she counted 200 needles in total for her one cycle. egg retrieval is an invasive surgery where they have to knock you out to perform.
the injections will drastically mess with your hormones and you can suffer serious side effects from the egg retrieval surgery.

No. 1884378

>>1884371
i thought you could find out the gender of a baby pretty early on from blood tests at the same time you screen for chromosomal abnormalities? no need to wait for it to show on the ultrasound

No. 1884381

>>1884378
Ayrt, that's probably the easiest way is to figure out the gender then consider abortion instead of IVF. Was just wondering nonnies' opinion

No. 1884387

>>1884378
Can confirm after 10 weeks you take a blood test for down syndrome and they also can tell the gender from it (I did this 3 days ago)

No. 1884392

>>1884387
Well….

No. 1884393

I agreed to babysit my friend's kid next weekend and I'm pretty nervous. She's six years old right now and the last time I saw her she was 3 or 4 but apparently was really attached to me and kept talking about me after (though I don't remember, but super sweet nonetheless). Now I have no siblings and have always been the youngest of the family so I basically have zero interactions with children or know how to interact with them at all, and on top I'm a generally awkward person. How do I talk and play with a six year old? Google says "talk about relatable topics" but what is a relatable topic…? What do 6 year olds even know about? I'm afraid I'll fuck up and she'll dislike me.

No. 1884410

>>1884393
just put on a movie or a videogame

No. 1884448

Why is it every time I'm talking to someone they bring up troons and my opinions on them?
They never want to listen to what I say about them, when I bring up whats happening in prisons and change rooms they think I'm making it up..?
They dont look at the links I pull up and just keep saying I'm a bigot and transphobic.
Surely I'm not the retarded one in this?

No. 1884466

>>1884410
I would like to actually interact with her…

No. 1884504

Play an easy card game with her, like War (you split the card pile evenly, with the cards face down, each player puts a card on the table face up, the highest number wins the opponent's laying cards). You can play that for ages with a 6 year old. Or teach her some good hand clapping songs like vidrel.

No. 1884553

Is it fat girl of me to eat two salmons for dinner instead of one? I’m trying to eat healthier and less, but I’m always so hungry

No. 1884561

>>1884553
Have the second salmon

No. 1884565

>>1884553
Lots of protein. Should be fine nona.

No. 1884571

>>1884553
As long as if you aren't smothering it in butter/extra calories it's fine. Oysters is also a good replacement for hunger since it's high protein and an entire dozen is like 60 calories

No. 1884572

>>1884553
fat girl shit is not eating that salmon then feeling hungry later and snacking

No. 1884581

>>1876973
Now this kind of autism is why I come here

No. 1884608

If i get a parasite from eating salmon, what's the chances of it being bad enough to kill me?

No. 1884655

>>1884608
not very high if you aren't immunocompromised, though if you end up shitting and puking profusely you do run the risk of suffering from severe electrolyte imbalance which can have serious health consequences. do you believe you consumed a parasite? from what i understand they're often large enough to be visible.

No. 1884672

I get random pains in my fingers. It is not in all my fingers but on the joints on random fingers as if someone is pricking a needle in there. What could that be? Do I have some kind of nutrient deficiency?

No. 1884756

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What picture or stats are you putting into your corporateautist powerboss spreadsheet cuff, anonymous?

No. 1884773

Why the fuck are old people so obsessed with cream? I once witnessed an old guy straight up pouring non-whipped cream into his coffee. It's disgusting no wonder they all have diabetes.

No. 1884777

>>1884773
Cream in coffee is normal. Calling it “non-whipped” is extremely weird lmao

No. 1884783

>>1884773
The fuck is non whipped cream? Do you mean the American instant diabetes cream? Let the elderly enjoy their dairy

No. 1884792

>>1884773
As you grow old, you begin to lose your senses, not only sight or hearing, but also taste and smell. That's why most grannies and grandpas need to use a lot of salt for their cooking, or maybe lots of sugar, sauces or spices, because otherwise the food will be entirely tasteless.

No. 1884798

>>1884783
We don't have anything called instant cream in America, wtf are you talking about

No. 1884801

>>1884798
I think she’s talking about the canned whipped cream nonnie kek

No. 1884860

How old does vidrel sound to you? I'm incredibly bad at identifying age through voice. For reference, she's 25.

No. 1884881

>>1884860
To me she sounds like she's in her 20's I guess.
I've had the same voice since I was like 12, don't think you can really tell age by voice until old age, not counting childhood of course kek. If you're a native speaker you can usually tell the age easier by inflection, slang, accents etc.

No. 1885004

Never worn bras, wanna at least wear sports bras while exercising because free-range boobs hurt too much when running and jumping, but all the ones I find are like 95% polyester and I literally, as in the literal definition of literally, break out in hives if I wear polyester and other non-breathable fabric for more than like 30 minutes. Am I just looking in the wrong price range and the cotton ones are those fabled +$100 bras I always hear about or is polyester standard and I actually have to look for special sports bras?

No. 1885021

I swear to God this isn't any bait or anything, but what causes woman who seemingly had a good life to convert to Islam. What are the actual benefits for them? These people usually do have any muslim/countries that have Islam ties to them, so why do they convert? Is it cause it's "feminist" religion? Kanadajin excluding, she's just weird.

No. 1885045

>>1885021
I knew a girl from a catholic family who was sort of the black sheep of her family, befriended a muslim girl who's family gave her a sense of community that her own family didn't give her, then got a muslim bf through the community of her friend and converted within weeks for him. She wouldn't admit it was because of the community she didn't have at home of course, but that's what I distilled from what she told me. We didn't stay in contact long enough for me to know what happened to her, I hope she came to her senses because she was a sweet girl. Probably not a common story, but still.

No. 1885046

>>1885021
tbh I've seen online (on instagram) women converting because they almost like oppressing themselves? like very tradthotish in the way where "god loves me so now I wear a hijab instead of showing cleavage", its all holier than thou idk thats what I see online at least

No. 1885047

>>1885021
The women who willingly convert to islam are the biggest pick me bitches around. They probably think some rich saudi is gonna care for them and they'll have an easy life. I hate women who believe in islam

No. 1885056

>>1885047
I have no experience with Islam but I feel similarly about Christianity. Religions are cults that promise happiness and try to capture new believers with false promises. Whatever your woe is a major religion claims to have the cure. It’s gross. Life is hard, religion isn’t gonna be a cure-all.

No. 1885068

I got a new insurance for my car and they invited me for an introductory meeting. Any idea what they expect of me?

No. 1885093

Why is the internet speed decent on my phone but inexistent on my laptop despite both things being side by side?

No. 1885094

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No. 1885112

Why are south korean singers better than the japanese at singing in english?

No. 1885132

>>1885021
>seemingly
They may seem to have good lives but don't or are unstable, weird, and/or isolated. I'm from a Muslim family in the west, normal white people never convert to Islam unless it's to marry a Muslim (usually from a liberal or moderate Muslim family), and usually the "conversion" is not that serious and more to please the family. They can be very nice and genuine people, but like I said, they are not actually doing well.

No. 1885170

>>1885112
Japan is kinda known for teaching English terribly. There are also a lot more Korean singers trying to appeal to the western English market than Japanese singers.

No. 1885204

>>1885068
sounds like they want to sell you more insurance, just don't reek of weed (or do)

No. 1885278

How the hell do I eat 140g of protein daily? That sounds like it’ll lead me to overeat even though I’m trying to lose weight

No. 1885310

>>1885278
140g is a pretty high amount. Chicken breast, shrimp, and tofu are all good high-protein low-cal options for stacking your intake. You could also try to drink some of those meal-replacement shakes meant for seniors, but drink it alongside a meal. Try getting the ones meant for diabetics so that there's less sugar.

No. 1885333

If an adult is suddenly hospitalized in critical condition (car accident for example) when do they notify your relatives? When you're dead? Do the police do it?

No. 1885360

>>1885310
TDEE told me to go for 139g but I think I’m going to cap it at 100g for now until i get more familiar with changing my diet to focus on protein…

No. 1885530

/fit/ nonnas i have a question
I have recently started Starting Strength and it’s very fun. I enjoy doing it and seeing my strength improve makes me happy. That said, I would also like to focus on hypertrophy, specifically I want a nice round butt. I have one of those butts with square looking cheeks. I understand in time the strength training will help with that goal, the deadlifts and squats especially! I was wondering if I did high rep lower weight good mornings and hip thrusts on my days off from Starting Strength routine if it would help me reach my goal, and/or if doing so would impede upon my strength training progress.

No. 1885540

>>1885360
My nutritionist told me the normal recommendation for protein is one gram per kg of body weight. Why do you need so much protein?

No. 1885553

is there any way I can stop my thumb and pointer fingernails from cracking/splitting/breaking? it happens every single time they start growing out and then I have to cut them short again

No. 1885589

>>1885553
You can buy ricinus oil or sweet almond oil and dip the fingernails that are fragile in an oil bath for 10-15 minutes daily. Those oils are known to help fortify fingernails.

No. 1885746

Would it be weird to buy your female friends flowers on Valentine's day? Would people think you're dating? Please answer urgently

No. 1885749

>>1885746
I wouldn't find it weird and I don't care what people might think, honestly as a single woman I would be delighted to get flowers from my girl friends.

No. 1885750

>>1885749
Okay, thank you

No. 1885788

Why do I not want to do something once someone tells me to?
>>1885746
Nah that sounds cute, I'm sure they'll appreciate it!

No. 1885855

>>1885530
High weight, low rep, train to failure. Good for you for getting into fitness Nona!

>>1885333
Only if you're dead and they have contact info.

No. 1885872

Has anyone else had the experience of people being a little strange when you tell them bye over the phone?

When I say people I mean the people that work desks at offices. There's been so many times where I have called a medical office to make an appointment or ask questions and say "thank you so much, have a good day/afternoon goodbye" and the person over the phone gives a weird "…you too bye". Is it because I wait for a response before hanging up? Am I being weird?

No. 1885888

>>1885872
That's their line. You stole their line! You're supposed to awkwardly pause and the office workers are supposed to tell you to have a good day/afternoon/goodbye.

No. 1885901

Can college counselors/therapists only give you advice on education related topics or can you also talk to them about personal issues? Also if any nonna has visited a college counselor, did it actually help you?

No. 1885907

>>1885872
I find this happens a lot when I make work calls, I think it's cause it's a little awkward to figure out the timing on which one of you goes bye and hangs up first. A lot of the time it kinda happens at the same time. Idk that's my take on it.

No. 1885988

hi nonnies idk if its ok to ask in here, but does anyone know any free streaming sites like 123film with italian movies or series? im trying to learn the language but besides netflix i haven't had much luck, and sadly googling it lead me to 10+ same articles of using a vpn to watch rai tv. any help would be apreciated!

No. 1885990

>>1885988
Have you tried youtube and vimeo already? I'm not Italian but a lot of old tv shows from my childhood in my native language have been uploaded on youtube, so maybe it's the same for Italian content.

No. 1885991

>>1885988
i'm italian but i don't really consume italian media so all i can suggest is VVVVID if you can get access to it.
Back when i watched dubbed movies instead of torrenting i would use CB01 but idk if it still alive and safe.
Good luck, nona!

No. 1885994

Is it normal for someone to get annoyed when I tell them "enjoy x" because "enjoy" is an imperative verb and they hate being told what to do or am I dealing with a turbo retard? Asking because usually I am the retarded one when talking to people kek.

No. 1885996

>>1885994
sounds like you’re dealing with a turboautist

No. 1886001

>>1885994
Holy shit, I'm pedantic and autistic but that is something else.

No. 1886014

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>>1883889
>>1884034
mods are genuinely smoking diarrhea. they told us I think one week ago about the hellweek statistics and they still haven't posted them. and anons keep asking in meta for them but no response. let's all keep voicing our opinion until something will remediate this situation

No. 1886019

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>>1884139
>>1884150
I think this website is the only one. CC was too before it got fucked by its admin and mods. kiwifarms has lesbian users but it's not centered around that.
there's also this website on neocities which I love: https://neocities.org/site/daughterofbilitis
>i KNOW im not alone
we are definitely not alone as you can see but for fucks sake they're invading every single lesbian/female only space online and offline. it's so infuriating
here's a hug for you nonnie, ♥

No. 1886030

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>>1886019
samefag forgot to add but there's also Tumblr. honestly Tumblr is a better place than it was years ago because lots of gendies just left that place. there are still lots left though, so just block the tranny tags + content like in picrel and follow gender critical women on there and everything's going to be alright

No. 1886035

>>1885746
Galentines day

No. 1886041

>>1885996
>>1886001
Thought so, thanks nonnas. Sometimes you need a reality check from other people.

No. 1886049

>>1886035
Galentine's day when you celebrate your lady friends is on the 13th.
Source: Leslie Knope

No. 1886114

Why do I constantly feel hungry even after eating a big meal? I already drink lots of water before and after eating so it's not that (I tend to feel hungrier right after drinking water weirdly enough). I don't even have a strong appetite or experience cravings to begin with, but my body physically gets hungry like an empty feeling stomach, growling, feeling weak and light headed.

No. 1886118

>>1886114
What's a big meal to you? Some people's idea of meal portions are just skewed.

No. 1886119

>>1886114
Add more spice, fat, or protein to the meal. Usually those 3 things satiate appetite more so than carbs.

No. 1886124

>>1886114
Tapeworm maybe

No. 1886139

>>1885990
i didnt tought of that nonny thanks! ill se if there's some fun stuff there

>>1885991
oh it works! this was exactly was what i was looking for, thank you nonny!

No. 1886184

how do I know if I smell?

No. 1886188

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>>1886184
You have this thing on your face called the "nose" (picrel), it can be used to smell things, including the body. What you want to do is put your nose up to something, and inhale through the nostrils of the nose (this action is commonly referred to as "sniffing" in nose jargon). Once you inhale through your nostrils, you may notice the sensation of "smelling." Hope this helps nonnie.

No. 1886189

>>1886188
omg but what if I don't think I smell, is it possible for others to find me smelly?

No. 1886215

is there a way I can fix my posture on my own even though I've slouched my entire life and it looks like my spine has a really mild zigzag to it?

No. 1886218

>>1886215
Get one of those posture-correcting shoulder braces made of stretchy material to wear for a few hours a day. Look into calisthenics and yoga to improve the muscles in your back (weak back muscles go hand in hand with poor posture). Make an effort to correct any pelvic tilt you may have. Set a silent alarm on your phone to go off every hour to remind yourself to fix your posture. Poor posture is the leading cause of heart disease, big pharma wants you to think it's cholesterol but that's a German myth.

No. 1886226

>>1886189
Yes, it's common for people to become so used to their own musk that they fail to recognise a bad smell, I left my bedroom for awhile and when I came back I noticed how stuffy it actually smelt, now I wasn't as used to it.

Remedy this by taking necessary precaution, wash everyday, wash clothing after 2-3 wears for non strenuous activity and after every wear for strenuous, wash bedsheets, open windows during the day. Stuff like that. If you're really worried, ask someone you trust to be honest with you.

No. 1886291

I'm 4kg heavier in 2 weeks, is that even possible? My diet hasn't been the best but even among all the bad I've eaten, it has been under my total deficit… today I mealprepped and had some for breakfast, could this be why I'm heavier? Is it water retention? Or is it just fat gained?

No. 1886308

>>1886291
This is a body by body basis, we don't know you or your habits, think back, think what you've done differently and if nothing comes up, find solace in the fact that the female body can be fuckin weird when it comes to weight.

No. 1886313

>>1886291
It is but its probably water or food weight tbh.

No. 1886477

Where do you think the following celebrities will be in 2030?

>Taylor Swift

>Ariana Grande
>Jordan Peterson
>Grimes
>Phoebe Bridgers

No. 1886480

>>1886477
Replying to this will get us banned for "derailing" and "off topic" posts because this isn't the celebricows/2020s predictions/tinfoil thread.

No. 1886492

>>1886291
Maybe you have a big poopie incoming

No. 1886493

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Does this website have a spot for cartoon/fictional confessions? I have some things I want to get off my chest but I don’t want to do it here in /it/

No. 1886494

>>1886291
it could be fat yeah

No. 1886632

Is it normal to be constipated from eating instant noodles?

No. 1886634

>>1886215
Do core and pelvic tilt exercises

No. 1886641

I wanna get back with my ex who I dumped out of the blue and then completely ghosted 2 years ago. Shall I hit him up? Wtf do I even say? I regret breaking up with him so bad.

No. 1886665

>>1886641
keep in mind that it's extremely unlikely the relationship would be like it used to be even if you were able to get back with him between it having been 2 years and the way things left off. any reason why you particularly regret the break up? I'd sort of get it if you were with him a very long time and things were perfect.

No. 1886666

>>1886641
You only miss the figment of him. Don't go back to an ex, it's never worth it in the end.

No. 1886693

I Started smoking weed recently. It makes me feel dumber. Do you think it simulates the experience of a person of a lower IQ ?

No. 1886713

>>1886632
This is what happens if you eat noodles all the time

No. 1886746

I want to go to the thrift store but it's a 45 min walk, should I go anyway?
>>1886693
I don't know about low IQ but I feel like it makes your brain more impressionable.

No. 1886753

Does anybody have that anti-brony drawing that's a noose with Twilight Sparkle inside it saying something like "come join us!"?(there is a thread for this)

No. 1886795

Was stretching (Childs pose) and then I queefed. Does this mean I need to strengthen my muscles down there?

No. 1886802

>>1886795
No I don't think so, especially if you don't have any symptoms of weak muscles down there. It has happened to me too, many healthy women queef in certain positions during exercise and/or sex so it's normal I think.

No. 1886988

Nonnas I need your help. I´ msupposed to go on a business travel soon with a booked flight. I don´t want to go for several reasons, how do I get out of it??? I feel like it could only be something like sickness or something big how do I lie though they probabyl want to see proof

No. 1886992

>>1886988
Tell your doctor you can’t do it because you have flight anxiety or something and you need a note that exempts you from work (it won’t say why because that’s private medical info). Call off sick for [private medical reason] and give work the note. You can lie and say it’s Covid or a ruptured ovarian cyst or whatever if you want to but it’s better just to say nothing and keep your medical info private.

No. 1887099

Is there a /m/ thread for interesting Youtube content lc users watch? Cuz I discovered that there are trials livestreams/replays on YouTube of different interesting murder/felony cases and I'm not sure talking about those belongs in the podcast or documentary threads really, but it's too niche to make a "True crime trials thread".

No. 1887204

I have the hugest crush on this guy in my class and idk why. I havent had a crush in a while. Unfortunately the class is only once a fucking week so I barely get to see him. We have small talk before and after class but thats been the extent of things. How the fuck do I get him. Should I just ask him out?? What do I say?!?

No. 1887243

>>1887099
I think there is a true crime thread in /m/ that hasn't been bumped in a long time.

No. 1887244

i wonder why chicken is called chicken but we dont call beef cow

No. 1887246

>>1887244
Because of the Norman conquest. Seriously.

No. 1887253

I got a secondhand wool jacket with fleece lining but the fleece makes it a bit too chunky. Should I cut it out? I don't really mind the itchiness.

No. 1887259

When someone on depop’s bio says “message me before buying!” What exactly am i supposed to message them about? Do i just say “can i buy this?” Kek like im confused

No. 1887310

>>1887259
Kek just say you were interested in buying it basically, yeah. I usually tell that and ask if my preferred shipping method is convenient for them.

No. 1887373

What's that expensive, ugly clothing (I think gym wear?) brand that sounds similar to cocomelon called again?

No. 1887380

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>>1887373
Lululemon.

No. 1887383

>>1887373
Lululemon. Thanks for the wholesome kek nona.

No. 1887385

>>1887204
Maybe ask to meet up before/after class? That way it is not too inconvenient for either of you, as you will be meeting that day anyway for class. If he says yes and you feel the vibe over the coffee/drinks/walk, you can go from there. If he doesn't feel the vibe it'll likely be very clear. Regardless, the first step is the scariest but the most necessary. Do it, Nona! We believe in you.

No. 1887387

I cut myself with a knife trying to open an oyster shell and it cut really deep should I go to the doctor? Some tissue came out too

No. 1887390

>>1887387
You should go to the doctor

No. 1887398

>>1887390
Thx it really stings whenever I move my hand. I put some antibiotic on it for now

No. 1887411

>>1887387
seconding doctor or at least calling a telehealth line and asking if the nurses there know the next best step to take

No. 1887412

nonnies please help me end this friendship as succinctly as possible?? im thinking of messaging “yeah, honestly i jusr havent really felt like hanging out. i think we’re better off parting ways here” but i dont know if that sounds to weird. im trying to not incite any fights as much as possible and just want to send a short message before blocking.

No. 1887415

>>1887412
That sounds good to me. No need to explain why you make ur decision

No. 1887465

>>1887412
Depends on the situation, maybe put a bit more thought into it if it's not a shitty person.

No. 1887468

>>1887465
nah it's a shitty person

No. 1887494

How to keep my hair straight while I’m sweating?

No. 1887505

>>1887494
Kertian treatment

No. 1887527

anyone else remember Aladdin and the Cave of Cheeseburgers on classic youtube

No. 1887531

>>1887527
it got reuploaded and i am so happy. this is why i got the tism

No. 1887655

if your bf is complaining about "basic bitches" who force their bf to do wine tastings and take cute pictures for instagram, is it safe to assume that's what he secretly wants?

No. 1887701

>>1887655
Maybe, but it’s also sign of a little misogyny in general imo.

No. 1887705

Do you take your bra off always when you sleep? I do not always but then I remember its been 12+ hours since I put it on so I take it off

No. 1887710

>>1887655
no it sounds more like hes actually blatantly stating that is something he would not like to do

No. 1887712

>>1887705
i cant take mine off ever i only take my bra off to shwoer because theyre so disgusting

No. 1887716

>>1887705
90% of the time yeah. But my boobs get a little swollen/tender right before my period and I have a specific loose sports bra I sleep in on those days

No. 1887723

>>1887705
I only wear a bra to family gatherings these days, one of the few perks of being a neet.

No. 1887790

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why do my hair strands look like this?

No. 1887821

>>1887705
When I used to wear a bra I'd take it off the moment I came home.

No. 1887929

>>1887705
I always change out of my wire bra as soon as I get home and swap it for a comfortable unpadded bralette, which I also sleep in. I can't imagine just forgetting you've got a bra on.

In my very early teens I used to sleep in my (training) bra because I was embarassed about having boobs lol.

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>>1887705
God, i have a big cup size so i have to take it off unless i want to suffer but if i'm sleeping with someone i keep it because i'm embarassed of my breasts. Wish i could find a comfortable sports bra for that.

No. 1889427

>>1884756
The fuck is even this shit?

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