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A thread for the daft, the dim, the silly, and the merely confused.
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where's the line between a cute girlcrush and a creepy skinwalky obsession
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What do you think of tourist ad anime and what do you think one of your hometown/city would be like plotwise?
No. 2175741
>>2175622Yes! and it tends to be right, surprisingly.
>>2175639Yes. I’ve seen a few people commit suicide.
No. 2175754
>>2175651i only heard men talk about doing this, they use the term "practice girl"
>>2175709>How else is a virgin gonna learn about proper sex acts and how to do them in pleasurable ways??by having sex normally? kek
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Why is my computer about to fail when I only had it for three years? It's brand new wtf. Anything else I should do besides backup? And why is this happening with a new PC in the first place?
No. 2175821
>>2175815I don’t really understand high school suicides at all tbh, your life hasn’t even started lmao
Thank god he didn’t light the rest of us up though loool
No. 2175831
>>2175821It’s easy to say that as an adult but can you remember how intense everything seemed as a teenager? Like when you lack life experience everything seems like a huge deal. Fuck that guy though, he probably killed himself to try to hurt or punish the girl.
>>2175827You said it way better than I did.
>>2175811Just genetics. Are they actually saggy or just low set? Pretty sure Coopers ligaments support the breasts and many factors can cause them to loosen like smoking, having very heavy breasts, and of course weight gain/loss. I had really sad saggers as an 18 year old because i lost like 70 pounds when i was 17. Don’t worry about it.
No. 2175851
>>2175840Sure there are plenty of people in better or worse situations that don’t kill themselves as teens, there are a lot of factors that can contribute to a suicide. But the temperamental nature of being a teenager makes it more likely than I think a lot of people really realize.
Fun fact, teenage suicides are over represented in low income areas and high income areas. There is a teenage suicide rate four times greater than the national average in Palo Alto, California that demonstrates this. This is an interesting article about it:
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/12/the-silicon-valley-suicides/413140/ No. 2175867
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>>2175840>doxxed on 4chanI've heard a lot of nonas say this happened to them and now i want to make my stupid question
how many here have been doxed on 4chan?
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Why did fiona turn into a shrek? She was just a normal human
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>>2175872she was le cursed
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>>2175882Right?? I will never google anything, do not tell me to google.
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is running 3 times a week enough to lose weught by february? i am very limited in the workout i can do because i have back problems, i got scholiosis
No. 2176003
>>2175997nah i am 160cm 70kg which is fat.
>>2175999thanks i will try!
No. 2176006
>>2175999Anon BMR is the minimum amount of calories needed to sustain your body just sitting around doing bodily functions for that day before you factor in exercise or even regular everyday activity. You're not supposed to eat less than your BMR for prolonged periods of time.
>>2175989Most health experts recommend eating at your BMR, but adding more physical activity. If you eat the same as you already do but add running, you'll lose weight unless you're somehow eating more than you're burning from an extra 3+ hours of exercise per week.
No. 2176151
>>2176137Yes. If (s)he doesn't force you to do anything you don't want to do, what's the issue. (S)he just doesn't eat meat and loves animals. (S)he may even cook for you a lot to make you try plant based food, that's a bonus!
>>2176146I never saw an anon admitting that so I guess it's only in specific threads, I'm guessing threads on OF cows attract anons in the same situation or larpers?
No. 2176234
>>2176137You could try but mind what
>>2176221 said. Also if you are not a vegan he must respect your life choices like you do with him.
No. 2176344
>>2176324Oh
nonny being up at the club is not nearly as fun or fulfilling as Disney movies and commercials try to make it seem
No. 2176351
>>2176344I've had all nighters a few times, but those were at house parties, so maybe the atmosphere is different - I don't think I'd ever like clubs, but I think a bar with an open mic/small musician gigs would be better.
>>2176331Noted.
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Do any of you have an IUD for treating endometriosis? I'm scared of them. I want to know if it's normal and I'm overthinking it, or if there are substantial reasons for my fear. I'll still do my research, but I tend to freak out over the worst possibilities even if they are extremely rare.
No. 2176434
>>2175786It's not your whole computer
nonnie, just your drive, SSDs need to be replaced every couple of years, a good SSD can in theory last about 5 years but mine always die around the 3 year mark. You should def do semiregular backups on an different drive and be ready to get a new one when this one kicks it. SSDs don't normally get completely fried jsyk, once they fail you won't be able to boot from them but your data will be stored, they just become read only. If this is a laptop when it fails take it to maintenance and ask for a drive replacement (they usually also offer to do OS installs, but they're really easy to do yourself, just buy a pendrive and format it with the OS installer, windows has a guide, it's super easy, I recommend you do this before your disk fails, and it's never a bad idea to have a pendrive you can boot from anyways, just in case), if it's a built pc they're extremely easy to replace yourself.
No. 2176473
>>2176459tbh I think I have main character syndrome so I kind of jumped the gun and assumed it’s cancer when it’s probably good old hormonal imbalance kek, I hope it’s that.
>>2176466I’m a people pleaser and she was so nice that I didn’t even really press her more but I’m definitely going to seek out more tests now.
Sorry you had to go through that, I did lose weight but no bruises or skin changes. It could very well be coincidental but it feels very ominous.
No. 2176485
>>2176467I don't get banned because my posts are just that great.
I did get a month long ban for posting cowball. I wasn't even the original cowball poster, it was a first time offence.
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>>2176578Funny you mention kids believing in Santa, there was a time when nobody liked me in elementary school because I already knew there was no Santa. It was too retarded for me to believe. Ofc no1currs but your question reminded me of that.
No. 2176592
>>2176583I was
almost out of the Matrix as a kid because, while I did believe in Santa, I innately knew that every depiction of him and the actors you could "visit" in public were fake as fuck kek. Once when I was little, my family tried so hard to convince me to go inside a Santa's Grotto that was set up in the local shopping district and I furiously refused because I was terrified of the imposter.
No. 2176597
>>2176578It gives them something to look forward to, it's also used to make kids behave during Christmas time when used properly and can even teach them that good things aren't some that you can get whenever you want.
And kids get sad because ~the magic~ stops being real, you're probably edgy and don't believe in anything because you're really cool, but it's like, idk, being told all of your life that if you do your very best at work, you will get a raise and everyone will love you, and then, after a few years of really doing your best and working hard, being told that it was all a lie and that from now on you won't get any bonuses because you suck.
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>>2176610I mean, yeah but it's fun to let kids get surprised by magic and shit since pic related, and that's kind of what normal parents want to see.
A happy child that's all full of wonder because of something mysterious that's good to her/him.
You can do anything you want and teach your own kids however you want, don't celebrate Christmas because it's ~muh religious/pagan party~ or whatever, but I really hope you're not going out there just telling any kids that whatever they believe in isn't real, sometimes it's the only thing they have that gives them a sense of security or happiness even.
Having ridiculously serious children isn't exactly cute tbh, I can see why some parents would prefer to keep them, well, with an intact childlike wonder, they can only experience that safely at home if you think about it, and it's so easy to just break the illusion that it's kind of sad, no one feels wonder or illusion the same way after the childhood part of our lives is over.
No. 2176642
>>2176641=! Is "not equal" in a few programming languages.
Nonnie is saying she is starting to see it everywhere so it's becoming interner speak.
No. 2176652
>>2176447This isn't that strange. Irregular periods can be common in women if you skip >3-6 months or greater you should be concerned but I've skipped 1 or 2 and then they went back to normal monthly occurrences. Obviously the pill will stall a period, illness and a weak immune system can make periods irregular if you have a autoimmune disease or endocrine disease this could be a reason. If you've gotten influenza or a virus or bacterial/fungal infection recently. The shock to the immune system/homeostasis can cause this including any sort of stress cellular or psychological, mass weight loss for example anorexic/malnourished women have irregular periods and those severely below healthy BMI.
The COVID vaccine made me miss my period by a few weeks, I started bleeding but went down hard after it and it just shut itself off kek. If you are concerned see a GP who can refer you to a gynecologist/endocrinologist depending on what you think the cause is.
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>>2176606It’s not that you’re allergic to your hair but your hair is trapping allergens and dust which are making you itchy.
>>2176802They’re rare? Pretty much every Mexican restaurant here has them unless they exclusively sell burritos. There’s even restaurants where the menu is mainly gorditas. Wish I could send you a rajas con queso dita!
No. 2177290
>>2177244There’s a decent chunk of them who only date each other.
>>2177192Generally that only happens when you’re banned.
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>>2177566True that.
>>2177567Interesting theory, mine only has a few white hairs but it's still the same place.
No. 2177945
>>2177924/pt/ is for legacy cows and not many flakes deserve that title
There needs to be a long lasting presence and truly memorable moments
Imo not even everyone already there deserves to be, like Cyr's Dasha. Unlike Luna and Onision who obviously deserve it
No. 2178040
>>2178018Ohhhh
nonny. Going back to twitter might do you some good
No. 2178119
>>2178110How is it surprising that some fujos masturbate to sex scenes?
Most bl doujinshi are just sex scenes.
No. 2178127
>>2178110I do watch porn from time to time but only cartoon porn because irl porn is disgusting in many ways, I also use my imagination the majority of the times because it's better.
How do you even masturbate? How old are you anyways?
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Is this moid too afraid to approach me or am I just retarded? He’s always looking at me either directly or out of the corner of his eye, sits somewhat near me even if it means not being next to his friends, whenever we leave lectures he seems to try and time it so that we’re leaving at the same time. I make eye contact with him a lot but I’m kind of a sped and really shy so I don’t act flirty. I’ve been hoping he would approach me but no dice. Thing is there’s another girl in our program who he hangs out and talks to and she seems really in to him but he seems more friendly. He talked to her a lot today but spent the entire morning sneaking glances and mimicking my body language during our lecture. Everyone is telling me to just approach him but honestly whenever I’ve done this in the past it seems to emasculate the guy and I end up running the whole relationship. I feel like the least moids can do nowadays is approach women.
No. 2178189
>>2178119It’s not surprising now but at 14 I was shocked.
>>2178113>>2178127Right, the imagination thing seemed like the most reasonable option but the common sentiment seems to be that masturbating to someone real is disrespectful to the person because you’re sexualising them “without their consent”. It was mostly women expressing this opinion too. Unless it’s just a made up person you conjured.
>do you even masturbate??? I said I used to watch porn.
>>2178128Kek
>>2178148>Female sexuality is just like that.I mean… once a year is an incredible feat. I’m not sure that’s degenerate gooner territory though
No. 2178196
>>2178189It's dumb, we're sexualized for existing the moment we're 8 years old, it's not like we're going to tell the person unless it's some BPD-chan that needs to tell others shit like
>I masturbated while thinking about you lolLike the average moid.
I stopped giving a fuck once while traveling to another country, I was like, why should I give a fuck if I imagine this random waiter naked and moaning in pain? There's no mind police.
No. 2178212
>>2178003They're not obligated to, it's just that it's hypocritical that Chappell didn't since she tries so hard to paint herself as turbo progressive. If she didn't have that kind of image no one would care.
There's other celebs who's opinions no one cares about because they don't try to pander to any group, so there's no expectations.
No. 2178501
>>2178481Stool softeners (docusate sodium) are a safe, gentle method if you can wait a few days. I take them almost nightly to try to stay on top of severe constipation issues. If you need to go by the morning and can potentially risk a bit of cramping milk of magnesia works well. If you need to go IMMEDIATELY try a glycerine suppository (like Fleets) either solid or liquid.
I’ve been hospitalized for bowel impactions twice and must force myself to stay semi regular.
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>>2178481Magnesium glycinate tabs, smoothe moove tea, doing squats or massaging your belly clockwise can sometimes shake up your guts and help stuff slide out
No. 2178568
>>2178223>>2178550Chase is a bit excessive but there is some potential in the situation for sure.
It's completely understandable that he is charismatic towards the people he had no deep feelings for but is awkward towards towards the people he really feels for.
Be gentle though
No. 2178570
>>2178560who gives a shit about norms or nature or whatever
go for what you want
No. 2178578
>>2178572Herpes is specifically on the lips, acne is wherever on the face
>>2178573It's the
stupid questions thread
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>>2178572The differences are pretty obvious, herpes is nasty boils, zits are usually more chill
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>>2178579so is it specifically clusters like that? the guy i saw on tiktok just had a big kind of zit on his lip but it kind of looked like a bug bite. is it always that obvious??
No. 2178590
>>2178582I know about herpes zooster because my aunt had it
I kinda don't think think about it when people say herpes
I guess because it's less common, but you're right
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>>2178610Red Scare women, I would take them under my wing into one of my assassin programs if I was ever a three letter agent. I would entirely brainwash them with repeat stimuli of Chappelle Roan’s retarded drag queen outfits while playing Charli XCX music for the high frequencies while high on euphoric drugs while having Azealia Bank’s anti-faggotry tweets sidescrolling into their eyes at all times, their eyes are left wide open with tongs. I will reprogram them to become super soldier assassins sent to kill any the rest of these people off and when their mission is complete they kill themselves.
No. 2178823
>>2178813>>2178813It's probably
because you're 30. Most retail jobs require their wagie slaves to be either teenagers or in their 20s as they're easier to dispose.
No. 2178854
>>2178850>thawltsfat wash your bourbon. instant taste elevation
but also slow down girl that's a lot at once
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>>2178877Oh my god this post opened my eyes, this explains my dating history and all the issues I've had perfectly
No. 2178945
>>2178853shut up retard
>>2178854>fat washwhat do you mean by this? also it's totally over. no need to slow down now.
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Is Shimeji extension safe?
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What constitutes as acceptable and unacceptable timeframes for answering a message? Is it ever okay to respond to a message like a day later?
No. 2179186
>>2178877Based. I hate the advice from men "just approach us first!!" Of course the vast majority of men would love that because they want women to deliver themselves to him, without him putting in any effort or facing the possibility of rejection. Any women that approaches a moid would probably be a net benefit to his life, while dragging her life down in the process. It's just not practical for women to approach men first because the men who let themselves be approached are lazy and want to put in as little effort as possible. And that's in the best case scenario, at worse, they can be abusers.
>>2179176If anything, it puts you in the position to reject or accept his advances, so you're in a position of power. You can literally crush his self-esteem and confidence with a couple of words. In this case, femininity is not weakness or submission. We are meant to be discerning, we're the ones who choose and decide. If you want to walk up to a moid and claim him, fine, but make sure he contributes and you're not doing everything for him like a mommy bangmaid. For example, if you initiate, and he offers to plan the date or add on to your ideas instead of making you do everything on your own.
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It’s been two weeks since we vacated /shelter/, how are we feeling since lolcurrs return my nonnies?
No. 2179289
>>2178987Definitely being real, I wouldn’t make something like that up and I hate people that use lolcow just to make things up because I like responding to anons questions and problems earnestly. He’s still practicing and I feel the need to do something but idk what.
>>2178989Too many people have blind trust in doctors. My mom was the type to never use baby sitters or leave us alone with anyone so she’d be pretty devastated.
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>>2179260>Seen yo pretty ass soon as you came in the door!Pretty good,
nonnie. More grateful of this place than ever since the outage, really.
No. 2179512
>>2178877>A scrote who is okay with the woman approaching tends to be passive in every other area too. I’m not some tradfag I’ve just been with too many losers to count and want a moid who actually reciprocates my efforts.this is exactly it
>>2178548sorry the guy you liked didn't approach you
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What do you anons use to stitch images together? I’ve been trying to make long posts for fanny’s comics but it’s my first time trying to do something like this and i’ve been unsuccessful.
No. 2179892
>>2179874I have the same body type. Even when i was underweight my legs were still sticky.
I advise that anon to instead love herself because you can't change your body type no matter how little you weigh
No. 2179919
>>2179917sadly yeah i know the reason why i overeat. I normally do it when i am frustrated or want to avoid something. I will tell myself i will grab a snack and then do the chore i have to do. It sucks.
>>2179915i dont know but probably not
No. 2179923
>>2179917Samefagging to add are you sure you don’t feel full? In general it’s best to eat until you stop feeling hungry, not until you feel full. You should not feel uncomfortably stuffed ever and you SHOULD experience actual hunger pangs at least occasionally. If you regularly eat way too much and drink lots of carbonated beverages your stomach is probably stretched out and that can lead to not feeling full with adequate portions. It will shrink back down and you’ll start feeling full again if you stop overeating.
>>2179919Damn, I actually do that too and I haven’t learned a trick to force myself to stop yet.
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>>2179923>It will shrink back down and you’ll start feeling full again if you stop overeating.wow i had no idea! thanks for the kind words. I became a balloon when i turned 15 because my family could finally afford food(lived off rice and water through most of my life) and my mom felt guilty so she would buy me all the snacks she couldnt when i was a kid. I felt like i never learned how to properly eat, i went from being underweight through most of my childhood to becoming overweight. I got pretty bad stretch marks at 16 for that too.
>Damn, I actually do that too and I haven’t learned a trick to force myself to stop yet.wagmi
nonny! i think something that slightly helped me is using a time tracker to track what i do. Ever since i started using toggle track i stopped binging as much, but today i overate again because i was feeling frustrated with drawing ugh.
No. 2179932
>>2179154Same
nonnie, in high school I got mistaken for a teacher once because of my weird for the area 2012 hipster tumblr style and now I get mistaken for a teenager because I dress like Adam Sandler when I'm too lazy to put any effort into dressing well. I also think it's the fact that I don't wear any makeup that makes me look comparatively younger because women my age are still obsessed with the baddie 2016 youtuber MUA makeup.
No. 2179938
>>2179835https://old.photojoiner.com/Picsart (use the freestyle option instead of the pre-set layouts)
BeFunky collage (choose 'create your own' instead of the grids)
No. 2179972
>>2179893I'm gonna assume you're a teenager;
Realistically, if the clips were at all sexual in nature, if you sent it to 10 people, two of them have it saved to a device that's still functional and in their possession
That isn't inherently that bad, hoarders save terabytes of junk files without looking at them again
The main concern here is whether or not you released identifiable information
in the audio; think name, address, school, any numbers attached to your birth name
If you didn't, then don't worry about it, everything else is plausibly deniable if someone were to somehow find you again, which, you should be careful about
Don't duplicate your old persona, you're on lolcow already, so you know there are eyes everywhere, you'd be wise not to post your voice again anywhere
Just be careful from now on and you should be good; reverse-search engines have all fallen to shambles thanks to AI, and remember that if you ever get completely cornered, you can try to call deepfake
No. 2180119
>>2180100Someone who doesn't know anything about online spaces like
>obscure memes that aren't just trends>obscure fashion depending on where you live: J-fashion, Juggaloo, gendershit >doesn't know shit about the gendercult and isn't affected by it in any shape or form >has a job that keeps them occupied but isn't related in any shape or form to arts, any geeky shit, influencers or anything that could potentially make them use the internet too much>has friends>spends little to no time online>doesn't know or just doesn't acknowledges anime, cartoons, dramas and such>doesn't know anything about internet/influencer drama >never heard of anonymous forums>has outdoor hobbies or hobbies that are common and with actual irl communitiesAnd probably more, it's basically like, the less time you spend online, the more normie you are.
No. 2180252
>>2180100People who've mostly gone down the normal/expected path in life reaching most if not all normal achievements and milestones (finishing school, making friends, relationships, settling down etc.) when expected, have no background with trauma or mental illness and have always fit in well in normal social circles. As a consequence of being that normal they're not familiar with more obscure internet spaces.
>>2180119Normies spend ginormous amounts of time on social media.
No. 2180728
>>2180631why would troons be seething? arent they heckin
valid transbians? kek
No. 2180765
>>2180736Rock and metal fell out of fashion after the 00's. Not sure why. I've read theories about how after people stopped purchasing CDs it became hard for bands to make money. But I feel like mainstream music in general became very bland and uniform.
I feel like rock and metal has been getting bigger again lately, though not necesarrily on the mainstream
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How do you summon a demon?
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What is with these fucking new tiktokfags finding this website? The male worship is off the charts and it’s lowkey annoying me
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Do you guys ever make a post (not here specifically, just in general) and have people responding with total non-sequiturs?? I'm so confused. I made a casual "hey has anyone else noticed this?" post in a community and people are responding as if I wrote something totally different, and really negatively. I have no idea where people are getting these ideas from.
I'm feeling really disillusioned with the internet in general because it seems like I always either get totally ignored or responses with wild misunderstandings where they reply as if I said something else, even if I specifically write "btw I don't mean x, I mean y". Like not just minor misinterpretations like people having different definitions for biscuits or something, but replies where I literally don't even know what to say besides asking if they replied to the right post.
I want to find more community and make friends since I have a tough time irl. I can't tell if it's just the internet bringing out weird stuff in people or if I'm insanely bad with words… anyone else deal with this?
No. 2181276
>>2181259Are you ESL? Sometimes I'll write something that sounds right in my head but I misunderstood an expression or word.
If that's not the case, maybe they're memeing or making a reference you don't know. Reddit does that a lot, especially with in jokes (which I find very annoying).
As for being ignored, I get that too. Usually there are stretches of time where everyone seems to completely ignore me even in anon spaces.
People replying angrily to benign comments, that idk.
No. 2181277
>>2181259Like 95% of those times, it's the internet brainrot talking from the mouths of people. They're not looking for actual conversation, but rather grabbing onto the closest related talking point to then cite the feelings they absorbed from their TTT feed onto you to feel better about themselves.
Or it could be bots.
No. 2181286
>>2181273I considered that that might be part of it but a lot of the repliers seem like real people, or are at least specific and prolific enough that it seems really odd that it could be a bot. Maybe they're weirdly complex nowadays though. I just feel bad about writing it off as though every naysayer isn't a real person
>>2181276I'm not ESL but a lot of people think I'm autistic or "talk like a man". I have known one person who was extremely critical of my communication skills and made very specific criticisms… I don't trust that guy since he was seriously an awful person all around, but sometimes I think back on his comments and start feeling a bit worried that he was right all along.
>>2181277I hope so. I have noticed many people seem to just read the title or first few phrases and latch onto them even if I clarify something later on
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What determines whether a personalityfag is labeled a -fag or a -chan?
No. 2181418
>>2181407I always thought the "-fag" was like
"that one" while the "-chan" is to call the personalityfag by name.
Example:
>that kirbyfag is annoyingVs
>I hope Kirbychan is doing well! No. 2181540
>>2181532Wait, does that mean committing suicide can open your mind? It could be kind of a win-win situation, if you survive and don't end up crippled, you get to have a clear mind, if you die, you die and everything is solved.
If you end up crippled then the only thing left is to try again I guess.
No. 2181926
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>>2178161We finally smiled at each other. I think for whatever reason we both make each other extremely nervous. He’s very chatty with others but when talking in a group together he could barely speak. He’s super attractive too. I feel kind of retarded getting so giddy over a moid I don’t know. It scares me because all of the moids I’ve been with have all turned out awful in one way or another and I don’t want to get my hopes up too high again. Maybe since he’s more normie he won’t pull any extremely stupid shit on me like my nerdy exes. Moids always pull some shit but so many of my exes barely had any dating experience and would just do the most asinine things out of anxiety.
No. 2181957
>>2178161>>2181926>mimicking my body language during our lecturefucking kek nonna
Love yourself and focus on your studies, what are you doing staring at some guy instead of focusing on the lesson?
You need to find out why you keep dating losers before you start fawning for another one. You thinking he's copying your body language when he doesn't even talk to you is incredibly concerning.
Why aren't you seeing the red flags?
A normie guy will only have different asinine behaviour than a nerd. Him being a normie means nothing
No. 2182100
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I keep seeing people saying "Goth is inherently political like Punk, you're either a liberal/ communist or fuck off", is that for real? I know it's not only an aesthetic but a subculture and lifestyle that opposes any establishment, but that sounds at tad far to me. I'm from a failed communist dictatorship, I'll never make peace with that ideology because in my context it means the complete opposite of freedom. I'm also not really super conservative, but not full-on commie neither, I'm not the type to bring up politics in general because of my complex background
What are your thoughts on this? What's the actual "story" of Goth on this issue? I hear y'all
No. 2182110
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native english speaking nonnies, what tense ought the orange paragraph to be in? i've tried it in past and in present and both sound wrong to my esl ear. i've left the rest of the scene in for context if it helps. i feel legit retarded rn kek, like why am i struggling so much with this
it's set in 1882 in new york, if that makes any difference (why would it? maybe noo yawkers have their own grammar, who knows)
No. 2182341
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Nonnies help, if I wanted a laptop to
>discord chat
>play the sims 2, full EPs, modded
>Maybe Minecraft
>photo editing
>digital art
Which laptop should I get? The HP ultra light one has windows 11 in S mode btw.
If anynonny can reccomend me a great laptop about 250 or under that can reliably run what I need with no issue, preferably under 250, please do!
No. 2182757
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Aren’t they the Menéndez brothers?
No. 2182904
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What name do you know these by? I just learned the name I’ve known them by all my life is not something they’re called anywhere else but the area I live in.
No. 2182933
>>2182926My entire life I’ve known of them as jumping balloons but when I googled “jumping balloon” it was almost exclusively results for things in and around my city. My mind is blown. I’ve heard other names in media but always assumed jumping balloon was just as common as bounce house or bounce castle or whatever but apparently not!
>>2182916The inflatable party rental kind that are common at little kid birthday party’s. You jump in them. Do you really just call them castles?
No. 2183055
>>2182942that video has been posted a billion times
nonny kek here
>>2173028 No. 2183722
Does this woman look like Shayna to anyone else or am I just autistic
No. 2183749
>>2181926please disregard the negative replies and update us nonna. stay safe tho
>>2182398no
>>2182577if they're just black leggings, people shouldn't even be able to tell it's the same two pairs, you could have 5 pairs. but either way it's fine. would be weird of your coworkers to care imho.
No. 2184397
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>>2184393What's the color and style of the sandals?
No. 2184405
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>>2184393You can wear neutral colors and take inspiration from twiggy/60s fashion! I think tights and open toe heels can look really cute like picrel
No. 2184411
>>2184397>>2184399light pink with laces rather than thicker bands- more of a type you'd wear in summer but I would like to wear a short dress and I'd just die without tights
>>2184400Nope, I don't know how to describe it– kinda velvety to touch? Not high heels it's like 5 cm
No. 2184572
>>2184517the reasons vary per person. i'm of this opinion generally
>>2184547 and that a lot of them (speaking on women here) don't want to be seriously "raped". a lot of "rape" fiction that involves m/f couplings is just bodice ripper stuff, or a guy they'd happily have sex with being kind of mean and forceful about having them cum – from my experience women into this are just virgins or clumsy about sexual expression and want someone else, i.e. a hot dude, to take charge.
No. 2184636
>>2184600Very good point. However I see a lot more women nowadays admit to wanting to be seriously humiliated, slapped, spit on and hurt by an ugly man who doesn't care about them, so I think porn culture has affected many women who originally just had the soft bodice ripping fantasies, which is sad. I will however say that a woman masturbating to fucked up stuff being done to her in her imagination is not the part that worries me, my hatred is towards the men who now can use BDSM and kink to act out their
abusive tendencies. I think women can think whatever crazy stuff they want, but not allow a man access to do it to them under the guise of kink.
No. 2184878
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i've broken my foot, how long should i stay at home ? it hurst like crazy but i don't want to miss to my classes and i suck at catching up lessons. I also live more than 1 hour away from my university and taking the subway on crutches
No. 2184949
>>2184946>have you fucked an anon on here?No
>would you fuck an anon on hereIf they were able to be kind of normie-passing and weren't NEETs or schizos or annoying personalityfags, or was really into anime (just can't relate) but if she was into vidya, then I think that's cute. If she frequented any of the threads I have made or frequent myself on /m/, then I would absolutely fuck.
No. 2185384
>>2185362That's a tough one, even magical girl shows have moids as supporting cast and such. Even barbie movies have moids, Hello Kitty shows and movies too.
I'm trying to think of stuff I like and it's impressive how there's always moids. Even yume nikki has moids.
No. 2185544
>>2185524slightly tangential but I once read a Catholic saint (i think?)'s account that she had a vision where she saw her friend was in hell, so she asked for her to be moved to heaven, but the friend hated heaven and was in so much pain that she went back. And the moral of the story was like, you aren't sent on a Santa-esque basis where if you're good you get rewarded and if you're bad you get punished, but that you're placed wherever is most merciful and that heaven would be the tougher option if you're aligned with evil. I wish I remembered the name of this person because the concept has intrigued me for a long time. I kinda imagined hell as pure loneliness as opposed to the active pitchforks 'n lava punishment and the idea is like if you love God then you enjoy heaven but if you hate God then you'd hate heaven, so you'd just stay out of it and be on your own. Dunno how accurate that is but at least it's a more interesting system.
i think i am a fairly optimistic person because i can imagine good qualities in most anyone i've known and don't really want anyone to suffer endlessly, especially women. But I hope the really nasty people go through some serious trial by fire stuff and take their time learning the hard way, for good reason, so they can see the harm they did. I guess that's the idea of purgatory. To answer the actual question I don't feel like I'm a good judge of myself but I like to think of myself as someone really, really flawed who's trying to be oriented towards being better. Sorry for the disoriented pseudo-blogpost, just never had a context to talk about this
No. 2185740
>>2185738Please put a
TW: Suicide before writing
suicide, I just slit my wrists because of you
No. 2185746
>>2185738Omg pls censor that s word don't you know it can be
triggering for some!!! What a bigot!
No. 2185949
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When turning on my GBA SP, I have to flip the switch several times until it turns on. Once it turns on, it works as normal, I can play any game and the sound plays normally, too. Once I play for a bit, I can turn it on normally for a few days afterwards, but if I leave it off for some longer, I'll have to try several times again. First I thought it's a battery problem, but both of my GBAs got the same issue arount the same time, and it doesn't seem to make a difference depending on how much they're charged. I put them the same place as I did for the past twenty years, namely a box in my shelf. Do I have to worry about them dying on me in the coming few years?
No. 2186011
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im trying to buy a bicycle off of craiglist. what are red flags to look for? contacted the guy..he wants cash 85 bucks for a road bike and to meetup at 6 pm today. pics look to be in good condition and he posted this like 22 hours ago.
>trying to convince my mom to drive 1 hour with me to a relatively sketchy area..and shes like ooooh i dunnooo…can u even trust craigslist…anddddd its not safe down there…blah BLAH.
>i have no car and bus is unreliable..plus im broke and cant wait any longer. i need this thing.
No. 2186150
>>2186147Where the fuck do you work, that's insanely abnormal
And if they're not noticing the piss and pubes they're certainly not noticing it being cleaned
No. 2186238
>>2186188lesbians are a minority even smaller than gay men, and growing up they are abused by straight girls so while most are feminist they'll have their issues with straight women's homophobia.
it's a psyop that it's in women's interest to be male-aligned, they get brownie points from society even though in reality they get treated like shit by most men, but at least they aren't labelled irrational man haters. it seems like it's necessary to psychological survival under patriarchy, which feminists don't discuss enough.
No. 2186240
>>2186238well said,
nonnie.
No. 2186254
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How do you know if something traumatized you?
No. 2186313
>>2186259There's a few ftm
femcels that have been posting misogynistic stuff and getting constantly banned but nothing stops them cuz whenever they post bait a ton of anons reply
No. 2186429
>>2186325>do you still want and pursue relationships, have sex, will get married with menNo more or less than I already did. I'm ambivalent when it comes to relationships and don't want to get married unless I have a good prenup that protects my assets. What the boards have done is given me a more accurate view of moids, and ironically made it easier to find the "good" ones (inb4 no such thing as a good moid, we get it) by filtering out everyone else. He watches porn? Gone. Plays video games or watches anime? Treading on thin ice. Participates in social media? Gone. Says anything bad about his ex girlfriends or calls her crazy? Gone. Has an IRL hobby? Cautious optimism pending on more information. You get the idea. It's not foolproof (foolproof would be avoiding moids 100% of the time, but that's not always possible), but it's reduced the amount of frustration I have with the opposite sex.
>do you believe that these men are actually good, kind and they actually/geniunely respect like as human and they would a man?No. A "good" man is about on par with the average woman, morally speaking. This does not make him good nor moral, but it does elevate him compared to other men. However, this half-morality vanishes the instant said man thinks he's better than the others, because then he will gradually excuse himself into worse behavior. Every time.
No. 2186464
>>2186325I naturally have a high standard for men in terms of actions and opinions when it comes to attraction, though looks has very little to do with it. I can't even help it, if a man says even 1 sexist thing I legit find him unattractive no matter how hot he looks. I truly can't help or control it and it's an instant effect that seemingly can't be reversed in my brain. I can still be friends with them or work with them, but as soon as they've said it it's like they become asexual beings of another species to me. I don't ever tell any man of this though. I know most would be offended and hurt if they knew, and I don't want them to think they can trick other women into thinking they're not sexist by just shutting up. I act unbothered around men so they let their guard down and say even more stupid shit than they normally would around women because they see me as safe and more chill.
I don't think there's a single person who is fully good or bad, I've still chosen to date a man who I judge as mostly good and who at least for the many years I've known him hasn't said anything gross or sexist, even before we ever dated.
In all honestly my most pornsick friend is a female autist fujo I've known since we were kids. Her whole hobby life revolves around thinking about gay men fucking and violently raping each other. Which she will happily share with people even if we don't want to hear about it. She writes and reads fanfics, she only watches a show, listens to bands, or reads anything to imagine which males would fuck each other. Hanging out irl results in her whispering "he's such a twink uke" over real men, sometimes over teenage looking boys… Even though I will never ever see a fetish/sex-obsessed female as being as bad as a man who does the same, being close friends with a long time pornsick fujo has put things into perspective.
No. 2186466
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does anyone know what this symbol means? it looks like a heart but it has the extra > on the other end. i keep seeing people use it and i can't figure it out. searching online yields nothing. is this a tiktok thing?
No. 2186513
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>>2186495there's whole groups of them.
cheeky answer aside, yes, lots of women are celibate or febfem for reasons other than moids.
No. 2186595
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Does anyone know what happened to Brittany?
No. 2186725
>>2186646Yes my sisters always excluded me from everything and cut me out of family photos because they're besties, made me feel like a freak of nature. Was treated more like the family creature than a sibling. Still not over it, not gonna lie
>>2186714If only you knew, kek.
No. 2186857
>>2186646My older brother is usually the third wheel tbh. Not his fault, he's 5 years older than me while me and my brother were basically raised as twins, being three years apart.
That being said, it switches. There's things only they do together and things I only do with my big bro (we watch taskmaster together).
No. 2186867
>>2186861I'm
>>2186725 and 3 is honestly a terrible number. My parents even agree, looking back on our lives. I'd say do 1 or 2. It'd be cool if we could be the Powerpuff Girls but realistically, it's usually 2 against 1.
No. 2187128
I keep aloe vera plants on my kitchen windowsill. One of them flowered this year and my friend told me that I was a bitch because aloe plants only flower if they're in distress. Is this true?
>>2187063It's not so much that it's a scam, it's that it's marketed to people that don't need it.
Protein drinks - the idea behind this is that people doing exercise routines need more protein for muscle repair and whey powder is a cheap and convenient way of consuming protein. This isn't true anymore. Protein powders are more expensive than ground beef and eggs.
Creatine - Improves athletic performance, aids recovery and gives a bigger pump (this is muscle swelling achieved after working out due to micro tears in muscle tissue). Research indicates that it may also enhance brain function.
Unless someone is doing a exercise routine, it's all useless.
No. 2187185
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>>2187163>It could be men pretending to be womenI wish that were true
No. 2187215
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>>2187163homo sapiens were at war with other primate/great ape and neanderthals for many many innumerable years. brutally hunting and eating eachother. The sight of a small monkey may bring back a primordial blood instinct to "squash" the threat before it grows, like an insect.
pure conjecture, but trying to come up with food for thought
No. 2187392
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what hair product is best for these drier looking updoes? mousse, clay, dry powder, texture spray, hair spray? my hair is medium-thin and straight but minorly wavy stuck in a ponytail for my job.
No. 2187531
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Does Discord notify people when you unsend/delete images and messages? I want to delete messages from a chat with an old friend who iced me out, because I don't want my personal details shared with her anymore. It would be embarassing if she got notified.
No. 2187539
>>2187531There's no notification for deletion. If you send a new message and delete it before it's been read that notification will stay though.
>>2187495It's not only hard but impossible kek even those that use "nta" and "ayrt" could be lying. And I feel like actual lesbians would be posting in the lesbian threads instead
No. 2187561
>>2185740Please censor the
tw suicide before replying to my post about
suicide nona. Smh my head
No. 2187585
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I used to be obsessed with the game Yakuza when I was younger and would always steal Majima's line "what a kick in the dick" to express disappointment. I don't want to talk about dicks anymore, so should I say "what a hit in the clit" or stop being retarded and just shut up altogether?
No. 2187667
>>2187657omg you’re taking me back so much kek the nostalgia
what kind of stuff were you reading? i feel like lc users were all over yaoi and gay youtube ships. i was a ‘w-what if blackpink were your girlfriends?’ reader lol
No. 2188054
>>2188045They're newfags who want attention for being on the "edgy
femcel website" or whatever tf gets said about here
No. 2188088
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>>2187665Apparently it's from fans of a hentai called "Lemon Cream" that had a mailing list for erotic fanfic they called the lemon list. Then the term spread to other fandoms and someone else invented the citrus scale based off the understanding that lemon = sex
No. 2188096
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Is it autistic to love watching journal/planner videos? I don't know what is it about watching women talk about their plans and showing off their planners but is so satisfying to me. I think it's part me being nosy and part me liking to see how creative people get.
No. 2188177
>>2188161YES YES YES i could sperg about this all day but im busy right now. Being small is desired so were weak, cavewomen used to be much much stronger. They want us weak so we can rely on moids. Women are not naturally ana-chan weak. I got into weight lifting to be attractive to women but i got more into the actual strength part of it later. Anytime a woman whines about how lifting will make her look bulky (shes not even taking supplements or anything) i just laugh because it reeks of brainwashed. I think every women should lift a bit or do a sport casually. Either way women need to stop relying on moids for "protection". even a little muscle is good muscle.
>>2188171We also have good endurance, women do great in marathons and distance swimming.
No. 2188350
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I'm going to visit my family during Christmas and be gone for about 48 hours. This is the first time ever I'll leave my cat alone for that long all by himself and I feel awful about it. I'm going to get a sitter to visit him several times during the first day, and gonna try to get one for the second day. Worst case scenario is that he's alone for 24 hours. He's 1 year old and I'm sure that he's going to be fine, but it fills me with so much guilt. He's 1 year old and he loves me so much, the thought that he's waiting for me by the door makes me so sad… How do I think about this in a sane way? KEK I feel like I'm losing it.
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>>2188461If this is about the piracy debate in celebricows, piracy is
not the same as stealing actual physical items from normal people who might need them kek
No. 2188504
>>2188488Wait cargo cult definitely isn’t the term i was looking for but oh well.
>>2188469NTA but i agree with you. Piracy is copying and copying isn’t theft. Pirating an album doesn’t result in fewer albums being available for purchase.
No. 2188690
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>>2188647It's a weird history, women actually pioneered the early gaming scene and had equal representation to men and in the point-and-click adventure and mystery genres, there were more women than men. but as the '90s came around, the shooter genre became widespread and incredibly financially successful. The genre of adventure games as a whole declined in popularity and gaming shifted male. That said, women still have an impact in the AAA scene as art designers, creatives, and writers
No. 2189021
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is it actually true that one drag off of a vape pen is equal in nicotine content to an entire ciggy? i heard this fact a few times back when vapes first became a thing, but after seeing so many people around my age (3rd-4th year university students) sucking on those things like their life depends on it im finding it hard to believe. are they just doing the equivalent of smoking an entire pack? or did they reduce the nicotine content in vapes?
No. 2189049
>>2189021Nicotine on its own is not as harmful as the act of breathing in the smoke created when smoking a cigarette, which doesn't happen when you vape.
It's a completely different experience for me, I don't like smoking cigarettes because of the effect but I can use vapes
No. 2189157
>>2189152I need to wake up at the ass crack of dawn on workdays, between 5:50-6:10 am
On weekends it can be anything from 8 am-12 pm
No. 2189209
>>2189091Pros:
-A bunch of money
-Chance to have a bunch of genetic children with none of the hard work
Cons:
-Self administered injections everyday followed by outpatient surgery to remove the eggs
-The chemicals you're injecting can permanently mess up your health and will increase your chances of reproductive cancer. Unfortunately there are zero studies on how common either of these two side effects are, because the companies that make money from you doing this don't want to know the side effects or else they would have to report them.
-You're not allowed to have any sex during the one to three month process
No. 2189221
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One of my favorite managers at work is heavily pregnant, and her request for different time off was denied (she was originally due in November but the baby is coming any day now). I don't know anything about childbirth but I told her I'd be there for her no matter what. I work security at our job and will call 911 as soon as necessary, but what other stuff should I have on-hand in case she goes into labor at work? Towels?
No. 2189555
>>2189096My mom brought it up when I was talking about how I wish I didn't have a period and that I know I'll never use the eggs anyway lol. The pay sounded good so I got curious, but all the google results were from donation centers themselves so I wasn't really sold
>>2189123I figured as much. I already do it every once in a while for the money and calorie burn kek
>>2189196>>2189209Didn't know it was all that dangerous and complicated. Thanks for the info and responses, guess I'll stick to plasma
No. 2189660
>>2189448>>2189473Lol anon you responded to the wrong post but I want to add onto this. The soaps definitely work but can be extremely drying IME. I had bad backne when I was a teen and the soap I used helped with spots but it left me so dry I felt like my skin was going to crack open.
Lotions and serums containing arbutin are my go to for evening out body skin tone these days. I’m Hispanic and tan (and burn) very easily but I was really surprised with how quickly the Hada Labo whitening toner lightened where I used it. I haven’t used that specific toner in years so I’m not necessarily recommending it as I’m not sure if the formula has changed.
UV protective arm sleeves look a little silly but they’ve prevented me from getting a farmers tan in years. I keep a pair in my car and a pair in my purse.
No. 2189776
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Is the following passage of Dazais No Longer Human meant to be funny? Because I found it very much so.
>The ensuing days were imprinted with my anxiety and dread. I continued on the surface making everybody laugh with my miserable clowning, but now and then painful sighs escaped my lips. Whatever I did Takeichi would see through it, and I was sure he would soon start spreading the word to everyone he saw. At this thought my forehead broke out in a sweat; I stared around me vacantly with the wild eyes of a madman. If it were possible, I felt, I would like to keep a twenty-four hours a day surveillance over Takeichi, never stirring from him, morning, noon or night, to make sure that he did not divulge the secret. I brooded over what I should do: I would devote the hours spent with him to persuading him that my antics were not "on purpose" but the genuine article; if things went well I would like to become his inseparable friend; but if this proved utterly impossible, I had no choice but to pray for his death.
Either way, very relatable lol.
No. 2189952
>>2189049yeah i get that vapes are slightly "better" for you than cigarettes (how much better i dont know, i havent seen many studies on this) so its not going to destroy your throat and lungs the same way chainsmoking a whole pack would, but the nicotine content IS the same then? it just seems like a lot, even if nicotine itself won't really hurt you
>>2189162thanks for confirming the amount, that is very surprising to me given how often i see people taking hits every 2 seconds. yeesh
No. 2190099
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I had a dream that my boss gave me the OK to do something and didn't realize it was a dream (was feeling sick and fairly out of it…) Later got asked what's going on and I said it's ok, boss approved it. Later realized that she didn't, and boss sent me a message basically saying "uhh you can't be telling people I approved you for something we never talked about?"
How do I salvage this without looking stupid or like I'm making up dumb excuses? I swear I wasn't intentionally being careless about it, I just really vividly dreamed that we had a clear discussion about it…
No. 2190114
>>2190099Agree with
>>2190111 you’re gonna have to go really hard with the gaslighting here nonna kek
No. 2190279
>>2190271Use your brain
nonnie, there is a nonzero chance it's from children.
No. 2190327
>>2190300NTA but I quit cold turkey months ago after smoking daily for years and it turns out weed wasn’t making me lazy and apathetic, I’m like that all on my own. Now I just cry myself to sleep every night because weed made it so I could fall asleep the second I laid down and now I actually have to think about how much I suck at life lmao.
Also anon never specified weed. For all we know she’s a crackhead
No. 2190356
>>2190325Make it a 2d horror game that looks like vid related, but make the story where you're trapped in a convention center during a hurricane and get locked in a building for 30 hours full of the following people:
Pick up artist convention
Furry convention
Child beauty pageant and they're all creepy little shits
Foot surgery convention (bad end = no feet, just a cartoon bone at the end)
No. 2190381
>>2190376>grouping pugs with shitbullsTake it back, now.
Also pugs are super long lived, most to 12-16, which is normal for little dog breeds. They just "look like they are suffering" to people that don't know dogs and want to feel like they know something. Do you cape for german shepards and cocker spaniels fucked by breeding standards too no ok just the flat faced ones alright. Also mutt hardiness only works if the og breeds weren't fucked, goldendoodles are cancer bombs and any shepard mix will have hip displaysia
No. 2190391
>>2190381Kek calm down
nonnie, I just think they're ugly. And I actually do think most if not all pedigree dogs are genetically fucked up, just that some are uglier than others on top of that. German shepherds included btw.
>>2190386I'd say they're kind of a mix between ugly and cute. I don't like their faces and the fact that they're kind of annoying, but they're small so that makes them cute. The fluffy long haired ones are very cute, though. I guess I just like cats so I like the dogs that resemble cats the most kek
No. 2190403
>>2190345I'm just tired of them. I want to make something different but I can't into 3D
>>2190356Wow, okay, your idea is scarier than mine, kek
No. 2190454
>>2190412Maybe Elliott Smith? Not necessarily rock but he was definitely sober and had been for a while when he either killed himself or was murdered. Unlike with Kurt Cobain I do think it’s possible his girlfriend killed him but he was also such a whiny depressed sad sack that a lot of his friends had stopped talking to him and assume he killed himself.
Oh, and Buddy Holly.
No. 2190466
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Please explain why multiple anons on here admit to finding this thing sexually appealing
No. 2190474
>>2190470It’s not a great sign and you should really try to get yourself to a dentist. Even a yearly cleaning is better than nothing and will be under $100 (mine are $80 out of pocket without X-rays). Do you live in the US? If yes see if there are any Federally Qualified Health Centers available in your area that do dentistry. If not is there a dental school anywhere near you? They typically offer cleanings at a heavy discounts because it’ll be a student working on you.
Don’t freak out especially if they just started bleeding but you really don’t want to wind up with periodontal disease or some shit. Look into all resources available to you or try to save up to pay out of pocket for a cleaning and checkup.
No. 2190477
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>>2190474>Periodontal disease, also known as gum disease, is a bacterial infection that affects the tissues surrounding the teeth, including the gums, periodontal ligament, and jawbone. It is a leading cause of tooth loss in adults.jesus fucking christ its so over i am sure i have it because the bleeding has been going on for a while holy shit
No. 2190498
>>2190488Idk about reversing but periodontists are literally gum doctors that deal with serious periodontal disease. My mom had to get a bone graft and implant a few years ago but it’s unlikely you’re in that position. Again, are you in the US? If you’re low income federally qualified health centers can likely help you get a cleaning depending on the state you’re in (no dentists in my red state but I border a blue state and my personal dentist actually volunteers at one in the blue state). Dental colleges are also an option as is private pay. If you’re not in a big major city it won’t be exorbitantly expensive and it’s absolutely worth paying for regular cleanings out of pocket to avoid future issues. Even people with the most fastidious oral hygiene need cleanings and some people just have genetically shitty gums. I’m assuming you’re at least 18 since you’re on lolcow so you can always call around and make your own appointment. Make sure you use a soft toothbrush and aren’t applying too much pressure in the meantime.
Here’s a list of FQHC just in case
https://data.hrsa.gov/data/reports/datagrid?gridName=FQHCs No. 2190534
>>2190524open up
nonny its for a good cause
No. 2190546
>>2190523Okay and? You either now know you have gum disease and will figure out a way to do something about it, or you'll make up excuses til the cows come home - from rats, to lack of money, to
abusive mom, whatever will stop you from fixing the issue while still getting asspats. Poor you, bad teeth and a bad life, time to do something about it.
No. 2190584
>>2190568Awesome. Is it a marketplace plan? There’s a shit ton of miscommunication with those ime and a lot of dentists are listed as taking certain plans but when you call they say they don’t take it at all or aren’t taking any more patients on that plan. It’s a pain in the ass. Look at your plans EOB and see exactly what’s covered on your plan if it’s a specific procedure you’re being told isn’t covered. The marketplace plans suck for anyone over 18 (at least the cheaper ones) and cover practically nothing outside of routine cleanings and even then both myself and my sister (on different plans) were not able to find a single local dentist who would actually accept our insurance. I wound up canceling my plan and just pay the dentist I’ve had since I was still on my dad’s plan through his work out of pocket. The insurance I had paid $20 towards cleanings if the dentist was out of network like mine but $20 off an $80ish dollar cleaning wasn’t worth the $14 per month copay when the plan doesn’t even cover fillings.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this nonsense too but I’m kinda glad to know the impossibility of finding a dentist that’ll accept certain plans isn’t because I and my sister are retarded lmao
No. 2190744
>>2190682>>2190692NTA but i don't understand this. If men don't listen or
"stan" female popstars why are they THIS oversexualized? I can understand women liking britney spears and rihanna, but female artists these days are no different than hookers and gay men are a small minority, so why do female singers act like this and why do women like it?
No. 2190978
>>2190957I'm not sure if this will help but here's some things I use to make conversation with people I don't know when I don't have anyone else I know with me:
- Start with small talk. You don't have to be creative about it.
- Ask about the person you're talking to. Pay attention to their replies, don't just pretend to be interested.
- Engage with what they said. If they mentioned their sister, mention you have a sister too. This is still small talk, so don't get too deep into it
- After you talk about yourself a bit, let them talk about themselves again. Try to balance how much you talk and how much they talk.
- Again, be genuinely interested in what they have to say, even if it's superficial. People like being paid attention to and talking about themselves.
- Read the person. If they aren't responding to you, not looking at you, seem bored, etc, they don't want to talk. Don't insist.
Edited to add some other points:
- Let them finish talking, don't interrupt.
- Don't listen
just to reply. This is hard to define, but basically, try to stay on topic with what they said
- Alternatively, if they won't let you get a word in or are talking to you just to reply, or they're simply boring, just give up on the conversation. Disengage with something simple, like "Well I gotta go" or "I'm gonna go get a drink". It's possible the person doesn't want to disengage. In that case, good luck lol.
No. 2191236
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Why is Pearl so big? I've seen her next to her sister, and that made her look brolic because she's both tall and wide, but this is her next to significantly tall, large men. It feels photoshopped, but it's not.
No. 2191284
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how do you determine your ring size? i tried doing the string & measure way but i'm getting like 66mm as my measurement and according to this chart that means my fingers are almost fatter than an average mans. i have chubby fingers but i dont think theyre THAT big? am i just in denial? i'm trying to order a nice ring online so i can't just try it on to see.
No. 2191298
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>>2191284Just get one of these. If you don't feel like it, ask to try out someone else's ring that knows their ring size, preferably someone with fatter fingers. That should give you a good idea on where you stand, and if you measurements are correct.
No. 2191318
>>2191227I think Americans in general have much lower awareness that it's even a slur and not just what the group is called. I have no skin in the game but every time it's been relevant for me to mention to someone, I've always gotten the reaction of "wait what? What are they actually called then?" It may technically be insensitive but 99% of the time someone says it in NA they aren't trying to be mean.
>>2191284string method is hard to get a precise measurement from, you're likely going to overmeasure. I'd also ignore stuff that tries to guess a ring size based on your height and weight. As the other replies mentioned you can buy a ring sizer or ask in a jewelry store
No. 2191344
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Does anyone know if these holographic pendants have some specific name? They used to be everywhere and cheap in the 90s and 2000s and now I can't find them anywhere but on Etsy for ridiculous prices. Did they stop making them?
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>>2191344I don’t think they have a name. No idea they sold for 80+ usd now! I bought this same one at earthbound for 15 bucks back in 2016 even though the listing claims it’s authentic 60s kek.
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>>2191344>>2191415>>2191440Wow, I tried to find them too, but no dice. I wonder why they're seemingly not being made anymore
No. 2191610
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Do I have neutral undertones? I have never been able to tell, but I think I might.
No. 2192217
>>2192190That’s fine. I’m comfortable with it lol
>>2192209So glad my personal sex life causes you so much grief anon, I cant imagine being that pressed over someone else getting laid
No. 2192326
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>>2192322
No. 2192357
>>2192329Nta but its pretty reasonable to be depressed or feel hopeless over the state of womanhood. Women are mass raped, abused and tortured by moids, their ideas and concerns are not taken seriously, endless sexualization, their spaces get infiltrated by moids, yet women always choose to put their moids first and engage in ridiculous beauty standards, dangerous sex acts, give them families, their time, money, emotional labour and any criticism is met not only by men but by women shitting you down, women rather women keep getting abused than men's feelings getting hurt. Men engage in pedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia, make ai porn of random women but if women call a man in a dress a man she losea her job and is ocstracized by her peers.
No. 2192370
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Question for the 18 to 21 year old nonnies: Would you think it's weird if a woman in her late 20s wanted to be your friend? There's a super sweet intern where I work, and I'm thinking about asking for her number when she's leaving us tomorrow. We didn't spend all that much time together because we worked in different teams, but we had some nice conversations and share multiple interests. I just don't know if it would come across as odd or make her uncomfortable if I asked to stay in touch since I'm at least 7 years older than her.
No. 2192371
>>2192349This is giving me war flashbacks to the "women's history" class I took in college that was changed after years to a "women's and GENDER history" class with a soy christian scrote who made us read this and then the 70's intersex "female" tennis player that was outed for having XY chromosomes. Having PTSD now THANKS
nonnie…
No. 2192374
>>2192331
there is no shortcut to feeling proud to be yourself beyond working to be the best version of yourself, and a capable and confident person that you're proud to be. the reason there are various pride and education campaigns to highlight the achievements of minority groups–gay pride parades, black history month–is to counteract the efforts of social propaganda that says they're worthless. schools don't tell you about marie curie in march to say that being a genius chemist-physicist is "what's good about being a woman." they do it to counteract the efforts of all the tradwives trying to make a profit by telling you that you're biologically destined to be nothing but a mother. nor is the message that you have to be a genius chemist-physicist to be worthwhile; the message is that you are capable of achieving things, if you try. the bad news is that there's nothing good about being a woman, in the sense that if you feel like there's nothing good about you, then you won't be able to meaningfully fend off that feeling by just tapping into your already existing womanhood and suddenly feeling superior without doing anything to earn it. the good news is that there's everything good about being a woman, in the sense that you're capable of everything and anything that could possibly matter. you can learn, you can create, you can become smart or strong or popular. "but I'll never lift as much weight as–" yeah yeah I've seen the blackpill posts (that were probably written by men pretending to be mentally ill women anyway). as soon as you define your own power in comparison to other people instead of appreciating it for what it is, you lose. "but women get judged so much more harshly for–" sure, but that's out of your hands entirely, so let it go. you simply need to do your best. and I believe in you!
No. 2192434
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What necklace is this, or more broadly, what kind of necklace is it? Like, what it's style would be called.
No. 2192463
>>2192283the shay ass eating infight where 5 anons posted their boobs was way worse than this
>>2192305can i at least call their nigels closet fags
No. 2192481
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The woman sitting in front of me smells SO fucking bad like chlorine mixed with b.o mixed with generic musk
If I stay where I’m sitting will the smell rub off of me?(don't post irl pics)
No. 2192485
>>2192482>goes on anonymous image board>akschualy I was just asking who said it……….I'm not talking to
you specifically, because I do not know who
you is, anon…
No. 2192493
>>2192488ayrt, I just meant that this quote is
valid, because it is relatable to a lot of women. I have no way of knowing if you are genuinely a part of this infight or not.
No. 2192498
>>2192486This is genuinely the worst non-poopy smell I have ever smelled
>>2192490Someone else started coughing it’s so bad
No. 2192499
>>2192488somebody already replied to you
>>2192403 but what does being in a relationship with men have to do with anything? It applies on a societal scale.
No. 2192501
>>2192493i just don’t take the opinion of someone who hasn’t lived through a long term heterosexual relationship very serious, even if other women (who have a new boyfriend every 6 months) claim to “relate” to it. if the men you’ve involved yourself with weren’t capable of forming a relationship with
you, that could potentially just mean you were likely not supposed to be together. not that the entire XY sex is incapable of adhering emotionally to his female counterpart.
No. 2192503
>>2192475I think these anons might be confusing squirting (which is either women suffering from incontinence during intercourse or porn actresses pissing themselves on purpose) with female ejaculation (thick fluid coming out of the Skene's glands after a woman orgasmed). There has been research done on "squirt" and it was like 99.9% piss in addition to the tiniest bit of Skene's gland fluid
>>2192481Don't post pictures from your irl you fucking retard
No. 2192522
>>2192507Even if women's bodies are understudied, I think we'd know if there was an organ that randomly produces a large amount of fluid that comes out of the urethra but somehow isn't piss.
>bedding waiting to be washed that has been peed on smells much different to bedding that has been squirted onThat's probably because squirting outside of porn happens when a woman is well-hydrated and can't fully hold her pee in while she orgasms, so obviously it wouldn't have a strong urine smell since it would be mostly water. Your sheets were pissed on anon and that's ok