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No. 1823239

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No. 1823251

Any recommendations for bookmark managers in chrome? I just can't seem to find one that I don't find annoying

No. 1823257

are pickles a vegetable?

No. 1823261

>>1823251
What's wrong with the built in one? What more do you need, I'm curious

No. 1823265

>>1823257
I'm going to say pickles are an honorary vegetable. Normally I would say that once something has been modified, it doesn't count as a vegetable, so a carrot cake is not a vegetable, but naturally fermented pickles are good for you. So because they contain lots of vitamins and nutrients, help rebuild your gut flora, and are directly from the cucumber, I think pickles count as vegetables.

No. 1823270

>>1823265
I didn't know pickles were such MVPs

No. 1823277

>>1823270
They have to be the real ones that are fermented, the store bought ones aren't as healthy.

No. 1823282

>>1823261
Better and easier organisation system. For example when I try to drag bookmarks at the bottom of the list to a folder, it keeps resetting to the top, so I need to scroll down every time with the built-in manager. Another manager I downloaded, disappears everytime I click on a bookmark when I want it to stay open to open several bookmarks at once. I want to be able to select multiple bookmarks at once and drag them. It's just a list of small things like that that make using it annoying.

No. 1823317

>>1823282
I wish I could recommend you Arc browser but it's only available on mac right now. It's great for organizing bookmarks but it's also a bit weird about it since they're not bookmarks per say. It'll be available on windows sometime in the new year. You're able to select multiple links (bookmarks) and also separate them into different spaces for separate google accounts, it's really neat. I've been using it to stay organized for my job which requires me to use multiple platforms and its great for that.

No. 1823328

Why are models for online clothing stores always above average height? I get that there's a certain "type" for runway models, but I'm talking about brands shooting product photos and selling to average women. They'll even try to show off their diversity with models of all races, fat models (even really obese ones), models with vitiligo, models with prosthetic limbs, etc., but I almost never see models that are just short.
I admit it kind of makes me seethe because I'm 5ft, I like my height but I always have to try to mentally translate how a garment on a 6ft woman will look on me. I even saw a petite brand who markets itself hard as being for womanlets who can't get a good fit with standard brands and they used a 5'4" model, which is average, not super short like they claim. Idk I don't mean to sperg over it but I'm confused about why it's like the one thing I never see even though over half of American women are under 5'4" and they're fine with showing rarer and arguably more "objectionable" body types.

No. 1823331

>>1823317
Thanks for the tip, I looked it up and it looks promising! I signed up for the windows waiting list.

No. 1823338

Does anyone know how likely the price on an asos product is to drop back to the (supposed) lowest price point in the last 30 days they list? The pair of shoes I'm looking at is out of my price range but the lowest price point is not.

No. 1823345

>>1823277
the store bought ones in the cooler section are good though, just not the shelf stable ones

No. 1823378

>>1823338
Very likely in january or after-christmas sales

No. 1823390

>>1822827
late but i rarely saw this to begin with, even before ipads and during my childhood

No. 1823392

>>1823378
Good one! I'm going to wait it out and hope it doesn't sell out in my size lol.

No. 1823412

>>1823328
I'm also a womanlet and this has always bothered me too. I never see models that are actually under 5ft like I am even for petite clothes.

No. 1823420

>>1823328
Because the gay men who run the fashion industry can't self insert onto short or curvy women.

No. 1823439

>>1823420
I knew there was a psyop, thank you.

No. 1823440

Why do Australians sound so much more like the British than Americans do?

No. 1823454

>>1823440
Australia was a British prison

No. 1823465

>>1823454
So like…the ancestors of most Australians would be a bunch of exiled british criminals? I get that everybody has a violent, rapey ancestor at some point far enough back in their family tree, but Australians being born from British criminals feels like some kind of joke lol

No. 1823468

>>1823465
It's not a joke, it's true.

No. 1823472

>>1823465
For a while England was near crime free because they kept exporting people over here (aus) for small shit too not just murder.

No. 1823473

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Be honest was I really racebaiting? I was being sincere.

No. 1823476

>>1823473
Yeah, because you post the exact same thing in multiple threads whenever you don't get replies.

No. 1823478

>>1823476
I've not posted anything to do with this in any other thread and I don't think that comment got any replies

No. 1823490

>>1823440
Australia is part of the British commonwealth

No. 1823502

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>>1823473
I went back and looked at the context, and honestly no. These interactions are why we could use a white girl thread lol

No. 1823508

>>1823502
that mod hates white women and probably went to a BLM protest

No. 1823515

>>1823508
Yeah, she's pretty weird about it. I wonder if she's not white, or if she's white but fetishistic towards POC.

No. 1823517

Does anyone have suggestions for online shops where you can buy cool iron-on/sew-on patches? I'm finding that a lot of small artists only do enamel pins and that the etsy patch scene is really saturated with meme-y stuff with dumb text, like livelaughlove type catchphrases, shallow ideological slogans, or self-deprecating "im an anxious mess! lmao!" type stuff. I really want to get some stuff that's just nice small art without any cringy text on it, but these are always in pin form instead of patches.
Hypothetically, after seeing hundreds of "beat up terfs! trans crime is valid!" patches… are there any places you could buy gender critical patches or stickers?
is there a better thread to ask this question? Idk if it fits well as either art-related or fashion-related

No. 1823539

>>1823508
>>1823515
No matter who did it the other white jannies should have challenged it. In general liberal white women really need to start practicing solidarity online

No. 1823559

>>1823473
>>1823502
jannies are niggers, shrimple as(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1823560

>>1823559
Anon they will come for you

No. 1823563

>>1823560
i'm not afraid
nigger nigger nigger nigger(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1823584

>>1823563
>>1823559
We don't claim this trannie scrote

No. 1823763

I got a VR headset what’s some fun things to play or do watch with it

No. 1823808

>>1823560
Stop referring to male tourists as "anon" like theyre your peers

No. 1823882

>>1823473
No

>>1823502
That's only going to attract more (actual) race baiting and trolling and shit.

No. 1824120

Came across some girl's social media profile with "they/any" in her bio. What does that mean, like a preference for they but she's okay with just she too?

No. 1824123

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Look I know this is baby related but the /g/ thread is very slow moving and I need opinions.
I took a pee test and it came back positive.
I requested online through telehealth for pregnancy pathology form and I went and got that done. Because it was through telehealth I got to see the results.
I'm going to the dr next week or so for another test result (iron) so I'll ask when I'm there if this means I'm preg.

Does this read as I'm 70IU/L?
The top line is confusing, is it saying I'm 70? Whats the <2? Is it saying I'm <2?

I went and got more pee tests so I'm waiting to pee to take them, but in the mean time what does this test mean?
I feel retarded not being able to read this.

No. 1824126

>>1824123
I'm not sure about the <2 part but it does look like you have 70 IU/L, meaning it's a very very early positive test. 3 weeks is from last menstrual period (I'm sure you know that, just saying to make it clear) so this is a positive test before you've even missed a period.

No. 1824136

>>1824126
I peed and got 2 positive tests from different brands. I'm meant to be on day 6 of my period. Thanks for replying nonna I'm glad I can put it out of my mind now.

No. 1824186

Can I take a small air humidifier in my cabin luggage on an airplane? I don't intend to use it in the plane, it's a Christmas gift. I googled a lot and got very conflicting answers.

No. 1824190

>>1824186
My instinct tells me yes, but I would call the specific airline and ask just incase.
What is the reason that some answers say no?

No. 1824194

>>1824190
Thank you! I will call/chat with them and ask.
>What is the reason that some answers say no?
Some people say there's no way for you to prove that you won't be using in the plane and this would annoy all the other passengers (just like using nail polish would, for example).

No. 1824206

Is it normal to feel hunger pangs all the time? I eat maybe like 400 calorie meals, with a lot of protein, fat, and some fiber so it's not like I'm eating poorly. But I get hungry like only 2-3 hours after I eat, should I eat bigger meals? I seem to only feel satisfied when I eat 600-700 calorie meals but I kinda have to force myself to eat that much. Other people can eat tiny meals and still be fine. What's wrong with me?

No. 1824213

>>1824194
I'd gift wrap it

No. 1824264

>>1824206
What is your tdee? You may be in too big of a calorie deficit. Do you get 25g of fiber?

No. 1824279

>>1824264
Apparently it's 1400 because I'm sedentary (I'm very short, 5 feet and 115 lbs) but if I only eat that much I would feel weak and wake up hungry at night. So I try to eat around 1600-1800, but I am still hungry. I even weigh my food on a scale and everything, so I don't think I'm miscounting. God forbid I exercise too, because it makes me 10 times hungrier throughout the day. I could probably eat more fiber, though.

No. 1824285

>>1824213
I had the same idea but it's an electronic device so they will probably want to scan it individually. But I just called the airline and they said it's fine! Thanks for the help nonnies!

No. 1824305

>>1823808
I'll refer to anyone as anything i want you flhy Nona

No. 1824371

So I chipped my tooth, kind of a big piece in my opinion, but there is no blood or pain and I can't even really figure out which tooth it was. It's Friday evening, everything is closed down except for emergencies and it's obviously Christmas soon as well. I can live with a chipped tooth but would there be a reason to get it checked out later when it's no longer Christmas holidays?

No. 1824509

>>1823763
Watch drone racing. Super fun, especially the one world championship where the obstacle course was through an indoor amusement park.

No. 1824515

>>1824371
Try to figure out where it came from, but if there's no blood or pain, it can wait. If you have insurance, get your teeth checked after the holidays just because the structural integrity of the chipped one may have been compromised and it might break further with time. If no insurance, find the chipped tooth and pick up those dental repair kits on amazon to shore up the enamel.

No. 1824518

Almost every single person I know who comes from areas known to be lower income/lower social standing/known for drinking has that inner eyelid fold, thats pretty much confirmed FAS right?

No. 1824558

Why are men who like redheads so weird and creepy? Like the worst off putting nerds always have a massive red head fetish. I think red head is beautiful, but why does it attract the most off-putting basement dwellers? Like when I dyed my hair red, the creepy weird nerds came crawling out of the woodwork. Never happened with any other haircolour.

No. 1824574

>>1824518
What inner eyelid fold?

No. 1824578

>>1824558
Idk either but it grosses me out cause my stepdad is one of them and is always going off about it.

No. 1824595

>>1824558
I think it's because red hair is so polarizing that moids either hate it or can't help but fetishize it.

No. 1824997

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So you know how blue and green eyes are recessive traits from recessive genes or whatever? How scientists sperg about how they're only a small percentage in the world population? Or how green eyes are the rarest eye color in the world? Well for the anons with blue, green, or gray eyes, how do you feel about all these articles saying that you're only a "small percentage" in the world? Do you feel special? Like, a unicorn?

No. 1824998

Quick! How’s the Jack in the Box boba tea?

No. 1825007

>>1824997
No. It means nothing.

No. 1825009

>>1824997
i have green eyes and ive never heard of this kek. it just seems like a retarded thing to base your personality around.

No. 1825011

>>1824997
I don't care because it's common in my country and I have actual accomplishments in life. The only people who obsess over hair and eye color, breast size, height, nationality or looks have fuck all else to offer the world and are guaranteed insufferable.

No. 1825013

>>1824997
i imagine those nonnas feel about this information the way Asians feel hearing about how most of them are supposedly lactose-intolerant.

No. 1825022

>>1825011
1000%. Genes are just lottery. People who hyperfixate on their eye color or other mundane traits usually have nothing else going on. Its like girls who claim their eyes change color with mood, shut up girl.

No. 1825032

>>1825013
I am east asian and this drives me mad, I even read this "fact" in nutrition textbooks but I don't know a single lactose intolerant Asian and it feels like a huge psyop. My family raised me doing the "you HAVE to drink a glass of milk everyday" thing. They grew up in rural areas away from Western culture and say milk was normal to them but just rare because of the price at the time. I ask every Asian person I know if they're lactose intolerant and at worst they say they don't really like dairy but can consume it fine. I personally love dairy and dairy products.
I wonder if the stat is based off of some really loose definition of "lactose intolerant" where you're technically slightly more sensitive based off genetics but you'd have to consume a huge amount at once to feel the effects. That's the only explanation I can come up with because it doesn't make sense otherwise

No. 1825098

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>>1824574
This fold. And its only people I know that come from places where heavy drinking/alcoholism is common.

No. 1825109

>>1825098
Having an epicanthic fold is not and never will be completely exclusive to FAS pleaseeee find a different stim. Not only are you lying, but you're just purposely acting obtuse to sperg about fas.

No. 1825125

>>1825098
It's an ethnic trait that a lot of people in Eastern Europe, Finland and Russia have lol. It has nothing to do with alcoholism, dumbass. That's like saying all people with monolids have parents with bad eyesight.

No. 1825130

>>1825125
>>1825109
Bruh those people I'm talking about come from places where 90% of the mothers drink heavily during pregnancy, theyre known for being hardcore alcholics there. The people in a much "better" neighbourhood thats across the river do not have that, and I doubt theyre that gentically different. Finns, russian and eastern europeans do not have the fold like that.

No. 1825134

>>1825130
nta but then how come they don’t have other FAS traits then? Epicanthic folds due to FAS are because of the flat nose bridge, no? If someone has a high/normal sized nose bridge and epicanthic folds it’s just genetics because of having extra skin/fat in the area. I doubt like 90% of east asia has foetal alcohol syndrome.

No. 1825140

>>1825130
Yes they do, especially in Russia and Finland. Just stop.

No. 1825141

>>1825130
it's more fat tissue around the eyelids, an evolutionary trait to protect the eyes against cold climates. that's why it's prevalent in those populations, not alcoholism.

No. 1825142

>>1825134
Oh they do, they have the upturned flat nose and no upper lip with a flat philtrum. Also asians do not have the fas fold, the ephicantal fold is completely differnt looking. Look up asian fas babies vs normal asian babies, the fold does not look the same.

But I guess in a place with heavy generational alcohol abuse, its more likely that they have a genetic mutation that makes them differ from people living 10 minutes away than then having fas. Or whatever you say.

No. 1825146

>>1825141
I literally have already written that its not the same kind of fold, you can clearly see the difference. Also why would only there be that genetic trait in the place with massive alcohol abuse and not in the surrounding areas?

No. 1825147

>>1825141
Eh evolutionary race science is always dumb, or this trait wouldn’t be more present in Africa than it is in Europe. Some features are just more common in some races.

No. 1825148

>>1825134
Also having a flat nose bridge is not and never will be exclusive to fas. Anon sounds like a chronic exaggerator who just wants to say hurdur trashy FAS kids all in one area hurdur. I dount she sees it as much as she claims. Even more hysterical if she's from some place like Aus where it's exceedingly common genetically.

No. 1825152

>>1825146
you're the only person claiming that no one from the "other areas" has the fold. i don't know what the fuck you're talking about. you sound like a rich kid from a sitcom talking about the "other side of the tracks."

No. 1825153

>>1825148
Kek I have that same kind of fold and my parents are Muslims who don't drink. It's low-effort bullying.

No. 1825154

>>1825142
>the epicanthal fold is completely different looking
It isnt, youre just not acclimated to seeing it on lighter color eyes and harsher features. There are also a large variety of different kinds of eyelid folds in asia. Your genericsperg sucks, I hate when one of you autists start ranting on weird eugenicist topics for no reason, it's always oddly dramatic and reductive.

No. 1825156

>>1825148
Ah yeah, bc a neighbourhood with generational alcohol abuse where its common mothers drink during pregancy doesnt have higher risk then the neighbouring town that doesnt have that. Its more likely that those two places thats literally 10 minutes apart are composed of two different races of people.

No. 1825157

>>1825152
It's probs the same weird faggot from yesterday claiming short women all have FAS. It really is just a low effort way to bully for no reason and feel superior for something retarded.

No. 1825159

>>1825156
You sound like a pathological liar, we don't care.

No. 1825162

>>1825159
Pathological liar to say places where heavy alochol abuse is common have higher risk of birth defects? Reality is a lie now or what?

No. 1825165

>>1825156
have you heard of chinatown, dumbass?

No. 1825168

>>1825165
Yeah, bc counteyside europe has chinatown and not massive alcholism and drug abuse and related birth defect. This town in my area are just comprised of chinese immigrants despite being homogeneous. Lmao and I'm the genetisperg?

No. 1825210

>>1825098
I'm finnish, have that and my mom has never drank alcohol due to having a traumatic upbringing so idk nona, maybe I got the third hand FAS from the neighbour's Seppo-Jooseppi.

No. 1825275

>>1825162
You're still pretending you just go and survey these specific economic areas, shake all the babies hands, inspect them? Whatever bitch

No. 1825300

>>1824997
I guess it's technically rare, but when you're around people of your ethnicity who have the same eye color all the time it doesn't really feel special, if that makes sense. I actually didn't like my eye color much until I realized how jealous some brown eyed women are of them kek

No. 1825672

>>1824997
I wish I had brown eyes because they'd make my eyes look cuter and bigger. I realize it's just the grass is always greener scenario but still. I don't really feel strongly about my eyes either way.

No. 1825678

>>1824515
Thank you for your opinion nona, I think I'm going to have it checked since I found the chipped tooth and the edge is kind of serrated and I'm concerned it will cause sores later.

No. 1825690

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>>1824997
No, pretty much everyone I know has blue eyes. I think I'd feel special if I were that classmate that had two different eyecolors, or a single brown spot in her iris.

No. 1825706

>>1825098
retarded infight but this just made me realize that I've never mentally registered this fold as a "feature" and just thought of it as a part of the eye, as if everyone had it. It never occurred to me until now that most people I see don't have it. It's kind of boggling my mind because I'd specifically put makeup on my fold to highlight it too and I'm just now realizing that most people probably don't/can't do that

No. 1825712

>>1824997
Having an eye color that is globally rare means nothing when most people around you have it. Not that I'd want to stand out as the 2% in a country where everyone has dark eyes just for the sake of being rare either.

No. 1826048

What's the dumbest thing you've gotten banned for here on lc?

No. 1826052

>>1826048
infights. pretty much just infights kek

No. 1826070

>>1824997
I'm scandinavian, when we learned about eye colors in school we counted our own and 95% were blue. As a little kid I was jealous of my friend with brown eyes, literally only because I thought it was more rare and thus made her special lol I grew out of that before the age of 10 though.

I think people who "aren't special" wish they were special, because from the outside it looks cool. People who are "special" just see themselves as anyone else. And this "I wish I was special" has led to a billion of teens now faking disorders on tiktok.

No. 1826075

>>1826048
saying the guy who dates an age-regressor who pretends to be a literal toddler MIGHT be a pedo

No. 1826084

>>1826048
As the other anon said, pretty much just infights
apparently censorship of women is fine, if you don't agree with her opinions

No. 1826101

>>1826048
calling men whores as a joke

No. 1826118

>>1826101
Why did that get you banned?

No. 1826153

>>1826048
There was a discussion about how much women spend getting ready for a date (new outfit, nails done, using up good make up and spraying expensive perfume on, getting a professional wax?) and how that's why men need to pay for dinner. I didn't disagree with who should pay but said I don't do most of that stuff

No. 1826155

>>1826048
got banned for saying big dicks hurt during sex so I prefer smaller ones (in the unpopular opinions thread). Apparently not worshipping big dicks makes you a moid on lc

No. 1826167

Can doing at-home yoga help your back stop hurting? Are chiropractors truly needed?

No. 1826168

If a friend ghosted you for a year and then tried to talk to you like nothing had happened, how would you react?

No. 1826177

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>>1826168
Like so.

No. 1826182

>>1826168
if the friend acts like nothing happend, I would ask what the fuck that friend is thinking. Maybe the friend found another friend and thought that friend was better than you and now that friendship is over and you are the back-up plan (yes, had that happen to me). If the friend would explain and apologise for ghosting me and I would assume the reasons as valid, I would try to reconnect, especially as I know how hard it can be to have contact to people if you are suffering through some shit and feel like you are a burden to everyone.

No. 1826184

>>1826048
Oh man where to even start?
I've started screenshotting my bans because it makes me laugh

No. 1826188

>>1826048
was banned for writing something like "when I was 14, I did xyz". Guess someone had problems with their reading abilities that day, because I was banned for being a minor.

No. 1826218

>>1826048
I almost got permabanned for what I believe is the most obvious sarcastic comment ever. I saved it too. I said Sam Hyde aged like fine wine, and that the rosaries were seething at him, and I attached a picture of him back then and him now. He looks like stale dog shit, I thought it would be obvious. But nope, you have been banned from posting for that post for unspecified reason, your ban will *not* expire. I had to email the lolcow team to be unbanned. Idk why I thought people would get it but the thread was being actually raided by moids at the time so whoever reported me probably thought it was a moid who actually thinks the red inflamed pork juice greasy hairy retard aged well.

No. 1826222

>>1826048
I know I've been unjustly banned multiple times, but tbh I don't remember a majority of my bans. The most recent one was actually dumb in a good way, I got banned for posting spongebob in the bechdel thread. I thought it was so silly and funny kek.

No. 1826234

>>1826167
Idk what your cause is but a physical therapist gave me pilates exercises to do at home to 'strengthen my core' and help with scoliosis messing up my back muscles. Ngl when I left there I was thinking they're crazy with this strong core talk all while my spine is just perma bent anyway but tbh it helped.

No. 1826237

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>>1826075
>>1826101
>>1826153
>>1826155
>>1826188
>>1826222
All of those are ridiculous reasons to get banned, like at least I deserved most of mine. You all pretty much didn't even do anything wrong and you still got banned. what the fuck kek
>>1826218
Responded to the wrong anon but I'll say my response again: I can't believe you got banned so badly for an obvious joke that you even had to email the mods. Anons complain about tiktok zoomies needing "tone indicators"….but the mods can't identify an obvious joke when they see one? The hell?

No. 1826316

>>1826237
I guarantee you half of the quoted anons didn't "just" say what they stated but derailed entire threads. It's always like this. They say "I just posted that some women enjoy being tied down!" and then you look up the thread and it's 70 posts calling anons whores and sluts or saying women love rape and love being dominated or some shit kek.

No. 1826331

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>>1826237
>>1826316
>>1826222
>>1826218
>>1826188
>>1826155
>>1826153
>>1826084
>>1826052
O ye who bring naught but chaos and jest,

With your words, a burden, a heavy weight,

On those who seek calm and peace of mind,

A refuge from the world, a place to unwind.

You revel in the turmoil, the discordance, the mess,

And care not for the impact of your jest.

Your words, like arrows, fly with careless aim,

And strike without regard to the chaos and pain.

You deserve naught but the consequences dire,

Bans to silence your voice and exile thee to mire,

For in this world, there is no room for such,

For those whose aim is to cause distress and discomfort much.

No. 1826337

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>>1826331
Wooowwww, all I did was SpongeBob-post. I will not be banished from this land!

No. 1826339

>>1826222
I got banned for responding to a post there asking why a post was banned, I dumbly went "cus the men in the pic" kekk it was kinda funny I knew it was coming

No. 1826352

>>1826048
posting a komadea chan copypasta in the COPYPASTA thread

No. 1826358

>>1826048
Making fun of a goth cow by quoting My immortal. The young farmhand thought I was blogposting about my life as a prep-hating goth.

No. 1826360

>>1826358
kek i remember that !

No. 1826478

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Is Zoloft better than citalopram? Please Nonnas help me

No. 1826486

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If you HAD to be a celebrity whose career is an A-list singer, what genre of music would you do?

No. 1826489

>>1826168
That happened to me I just ignored them and they acted all sad that I ghosted them. I wanted to ask why it was ok for them to do it yet when I ghosted them they freaked out but I wanted to save myself the headache from talking to them again.

No. 1826491

>>1826478
I was less of a zombie on citalopram, but I can't tell you if it's actually better because my insurance is being a bitch.

No. 1826494

>>1826486
Either house music or pop.

No. 1826495

>>1826486
Country because those fans are dedicated, it's not the most money but it's the sexiest. Or Jpop because Japanese people are fun when distracted from their horrible lives.

No. 1826499

>>1826486
Indie, seems so low effort look at Billie eylash and phoebe bridges, mutter into a microphone and then make billions then go home

No. 1826583

>>1826168
Really depends on the situation but my friends and I are very in and out of each others' lives already so…

No. 1826608

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>>1826331
amazing nonna

No. 1826637

Was there ever any organized attempts to demand the removal of nazis and similar kinds of users from blogspot, livejournal, wordpress, etc. back in the day? I ask because right now on the website Substack which is kind of the 2020s version of blogs, there is this big drama about whether the admins will remove nazi users or let the site remain neutral about what kinds of substacks it hosts. I experienced the old pre-social media blogs but I was too young to understand any political aspects of it.

No. 1826643

>>1826478
i was never prescribed zoloft but my experience on citalopram was bad

No. 1826669

>>1826643
How come?

No. 1826672

>>1826669
shot my sex drive and no matter how much they increased my prescription i never felt normal, let alone "good". ive been happy on buproprion now since 2020

No. 1826678

How do I stop feeling jealous of people in relationships when I'm hormonal?

No. 1826681

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what's the best email provider? i'm getting ready to switch my email and i'm stuck between proton mail, outlook, and icloud. i use icloud right now but i'm leaning more towards proton mail for the new email.

No. 1826684

>>1826672
Thank you
Did your sex drive return, and has bupropion at any point made you manic or anxious?

No. 1826686

>>1826681
Proton

No. 1826690

>>1826678
The healthier answer is to learn how to process negative emotions in a healthy extent IE feeling jealous and learning how to let go but the more realistic answer is that most couples just exist around each other even if they pretend like they're some fairytale romance online

No. 1826707

>>1826684
ive not had any negative side effects on buproprion except a slight uptick in anxiety. and yea my sex drive returned to normal (until birth control lmao)

No. 1826715

>>1826684
nta but bupropion made me extremely angry and I almost got in actual fights with people the short time I was on it when I'm usually a nonconfrontational doormat.

No. 1826728

It's not too bad to eat one giant meal a day and nap after like a snake, r-right?

Yesterday it was a big bowl of ramen+nap. Today it was a big bowl of loco moco+nap

I'll try eating like a normal human being tomorrow.

No. 1826837

>>1826167
>Can doing at-home yoga help your back stop hurting?
Yes
>Are chiropractors truly needed?
No

No. 1826839

>>1826168
I'd just start talking to them normally and ask them where they've been. I've done this to many people and many people have done this to me. I don't think it's a big deal. If they're not awkward I'm cool with it, if they're acting weird and awkward because we haven't spoken in so long I'd not like it that much.

No. 1826881

>>1826839
Why have you ghosted friends for a year? It would be abig deal for many.

No. 1826886

I'm 4 weeks pregnant and had this awful cramping, like a mix between period cramping and food poisoning that woke me up.
I went to sit on the loo hoping that would solve the problem but the cramping had nothing to do with it.
It's gone now and everyone I speak to says cramping is normal this early on but wtf??
Everything is closed because of Christmas tomorrow, I have a Dr appointment Thursday.
When do people know when to go to the hospital over pain like that?
Surely it's not normal??
It lasted maybe 10 mins max

No. 1826887

>>1826839
Ghosting several of your friends for long periods of time only to reach out to them again isn't normal and pretty shitty. Unless you're talking about online friends which I don't consider to be real friends.

No. 1826897

If you accidentally do queefs all the time, does it mean that you have a week pelvic floor?

No. 1826910

Is deactivating your twitter account the same as removing it? I only needed it for some stupid customer support service so now I want it gone, but deactivating doesn't sounds like it will be entirely gone like I want it to.

No. 1826915

>>1826910
What happens is that if you deactivate your account you'll be able to reactivate it within 30 days in case you change your mind or just want a short break from social media, and after that the account will be completely gone. So if there's anything you want to save before that I suggest you download an archive of your data. Not sure I answered your question properly.

No. 1826919

>>1826886
Mild cramping can be normal, but strong painful cramping is not. Are you bleeding at all? Unfortunately, this early on there’s not much you can do except wait it out and see what happens. If you begin to bleed like a normal period, you might want to prepare yourself to expect a miscarriage in the next day or two (and hopefully it’s obvious, but if you begin to bleed like a hemorrhage, go to an emergency room asap).

This situation happened with my very first pregnancy, where I learned that early miscarriages are extremely common your first time. It’s usually due to a chromosomal issue that’s completely outside your control. I’ve gone on to have two very healthy, complication-free pregnancies since then though! Hopefully your pains are just a fluke. I’m thinking good thoughts for you! Take it easy.

No. 1826921

>>1826881
>>1826887
It has happened to me three times:
With irl people, I moved to another country and I don't use social media a lot, so I visited them again after a long time.
With my pen pal, we only communicate when we have something important to tell each other so it's rare and might take months or even a year to hear from one another.
One online friend I had, I had some issues at the time so I wasn't in the mood to talk. I was also busy with work and other things. I started speaking to them again after I was better.

No. 1826926

Is "Mamma Mia" a phrase anyone in Italy actually uses? Would it just be used instead of omg?

No. 1826928

people saying "I _____ on accident" instead of "by accident" always trips me up. is it a north american thing?
like when americans say "I could give a shit" instead of "I couldn't give a shit". could give a shit means you care?

No. 1826941

>>1826222
This one wins, lol.

No. 1826950

>>1826915
thanks!

No. 1826992

>>1823239
is "9/11 was an inside job" a meme or is it something that a big part of the american population actually believes? my retarded ass can never get if it's a "joke" or an actual thing pls help w/o turning it into a political debate

No. 1826996

>>1826919
I was expecting to bleed but haven't yet so that's why I'm so confused?

No. 1827001

>>1826992
Yes, some people in the US believe that it was “an inside job”.

No. 1827002

>>1826928
I don’t know if it’s a North America only thing but I live in North America and people say it all the time. But it sounds like you know what they’re trying to say. They mean they accidentally did something, they mean they don’t care, etc. there’s not a secret other meaning. Just the slow shift of language, if we say it wrong long enough it’ll become right lol

No. 1827004

>>1826992
9/11 was an inside job. Many people believe that, or they believe it was at least like Pearl Harbor and the government knew ahead of time and did nothing because they wanted an excuse to start rolling out the police state laws at home and also go to war in the Middle East. Some people even believe there were no planes but they’re in the very small minority, that’s where the casual truther typically checks out

No. 1827005

>>1826992
Among my peers close enough to speak of such things, we openly speak of how it was an inside job. Either deliberately constructed or merely allowed to happen after we set up the individual pieces, our government was aware enough that it could have been stopped if they wanted to, but it served their purpose better to let it happen.

No. 1827028

>>1827004
nta but how do the 'no planes' group explain away the countless footage of it from witnesses who had their own camcorder (therefore no government involvement)

No. 1827091

>>1827028
Honestly I don’t know, they think it’s all doctored? It’s just not interesting to me because they’re not very convincing and it’s like why bother, it’d be easier to have a real plane there than fake that much footage. The plane that hit the pentagon is kinda suss though

No. 1827115

>>1827002
okay nona but also…you know what I'M saying and it's yanks are warping language 'cause they're too literally lazy to figure out what they're even saying? sorry I tried to make that sound as american as possible to get my point across. lol.

No. 1827123

can you change the color of your highlights on windows 10? like when you left click and drag on desktop the default is blue, can i change it?
if i google it i get results for something else

No. 1827129

>>1827123
No idea, but I'd like to know this too. I want to change it to pink

No. 1827135

>>1827115
Yeah I know what you’re saying. Were you actually here to ask a stupid question or just complain about something you hate? There’s another thread for that.

No. 1827147

>>1827135
it was a stupid question and your answer wasn't really sufficient babes. love you though.

merry xmas btw

No. 1827154

>>1827147
Oh. Well no one is doing it on purpose if that’s your questions it’s just sort of happening and once you start talking that way it’s hard to stop. Probably something with the schools being bad could be to blame as well. Merry Xmas

No. 1827163

>>1826928
I think it's just the sinking rate of literacy. You see people writing things like "would of" and making basic grammar mistakes like switching tenses all the time now. And they don't care that they're making mistakes, you're the stuck up one for noticing.
People just read and write less. It's probably worse with yanks because their school system is terrible, but it's a problem everywhere.

No. 1827331

What was that blond white guy from the 1990s or 2000s that looked like Final Fantasy called again? I think he was a singer or something like that.

No. 1827486

how do I store wigs without damaging them? I got a few for cosplay and jfashion wigs but I don't have any space for one of those fake heads, can I just keep the wigs in the bag they came in?

No. 1827491

>>1827486
brush them out and lay them down in a long bag, don't put them away wet/sweaty or they'll become misshapen. getting a styrofoam head and letting it hang on it would be better, or maybe some type of hanger/hook on a wall.

No. 1827494

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Anyone else enjoy punishing a slut by pissing on him? I'm planning on a period blood jar but I have to wait another 3.5 weeks for that.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1827499

>>1827331
The only person that comes to mind is not a singer but the singer that matches that is 2010s and it's Yohio and his weird little earth worm penis

No. 1827500

>>1827494
You're genuinely such a sad loser

No. 1827509

>>1827331
Gackt?

No. 1827519

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>>1827509
Gackt isn't white KEK. If we are talking asians, this would probably be about kamijo. I can only think of one white guy who fits her description and he's a literalwho who was never famous and only got a few TV interviews for being andro.

No. 1827525

>>1827519
Oops, I read it as white-blonde.

No. 1827618

>>1827491
can I hang them on top of each other or will they lose their shape? my main problem is I'm living in a cramped room with zero extra space otherwise I'd get a styrofoam head

No. 1827628

What's the name of that site that lets you pirate books I forgot

No. 1827629

>>1827494
who is that? he ugly

No. 1827630

>>1827628
libgen???

No. 1827633

>>1827618
they will always lose their shape a little but if you learn to maintain them you can make it work, don't get too pressed if they're not like $500 human hair wigs

No. 1827635

>>1827629
Hes handsome, it's random male model Emil Andersson. That picture is years old. He's pubertized since.

No. 1827692

>>1826486
All my favorite genres. Metal, old kpop, city pop, jazz, rock, older eurobeat, maybe even any genre. Just like Taeyeon does. But the exception would be most electronic music except maybe electropop, and hip hop/rap stuff.

No. 1827703

Do you ever watch Botched and think, I'm alright actually

No. 1827707

>>1825098
The ethinic russian face is just FAS face

No. 1827733

>>1827707
No, you just have a weird chip on your shoulder

No. 1827737

>>1827703
I wish the body neutrality movement (doing what benefits your body’s health and doing the best to accommodate any physical disabilities) had a bit more attention than paying $$$ to slap a plastic band aid on problems

No. 1827802

All week I have been caring for my whole family that is extremely sick with covid, but have not caught it (wore masks and tried to stay in my rooms away from them whenever I can). I haven't gone anywhere else, I've been at home caring for the house. However, I have one strange symptom that popped up that isn't like any of my other family member's symptoms, it's very mild but feels like when you run too much and your throat is raw but very far down near your lungs. It stayed that way for two days, then went away for one day, and now tonight I seem to be gathering mucus in that same spot that isn't touched by throat clearing. Absolutely no other symptoms– everyone else in my family started with different type of sore throat and quickly progressed into sever illness within a day. Based on that, if I was sick I should be deep into it by now. Also, I keep testing negative. What is going on? Seriously, wtf is happening? I visited my elderly grandparents tonight so they would not be alone for christmas and I thought it was okay because my symptom abated and I tested negative, but now the mucus is making me rethink everything. I don't want to ruin christmas for them by bailing as soon as I get up in the morning, but I don't want to make them sick. But according to the test I'm not sick, and my symptoms don't match my family members'. I really don't know what to do. I'm panicking.

No. 1827822

>>1827633
yeah they're all synthetic and not super expensive, thanks for the help nona

No. 1827827

>>1827802
Maybe you caught a different bug? I've had an awful cold this week and it felt a lot like the last time I had COVID but I've been testing negative.

No. 1827913

is it safe for a woman to travel alone to mexico?

No. 1827915

>>1827913
lol nope
t. mexican woman

No. 1827936

>>1827913
If this is a sincere question you shouldn't be traveling ANYWHERE alone kek

No. 1827940

>>1827802
It could be any number of the non rona viruses that still peak at xmas. Comes down to the same judgement call. Any time you have an illness its kinda a guessing game on whether the same mild thing you have might be way more serious if a grandparent catches it.

Your call. People are always gonna have different standards on how safe to play it. Some would yell wtf are you doing at their house, others would tell you to chill out and just have your xmas plans.

No. 1827956

>>1827936
I mean, I figured it wasn't but sometimes people tend to exaggerate how dangerous a place is. for example I went to chicago by myself and everyone told me I was going to get shot/stabbed but I was fine, it actually seemed safer than some of the other cities I've been to, probably because I stayed in the more touristy areas, some places are like that.

>>1827915
thanks nonna

No. 1827965

>>1827936
Of course you can travel alone as a woman, but it depends on the destination. I've been fine travelling alone in Scandinavia, UK and France. Obviously more dangerous and patriarchal countries should be avoided, and common sense used.

No. 1827966

>>1827913
Depends where you go and where you stay. Don't trust strangers. Bad people tend to leave gringos alone, specially if you stay at a super hip and cool tourist place like a resort. Where do you want to go?

No. 1827975

Why is there a fucking male Barbie in the Barbie movie? Mattel have never released a troon Barbie doll right?

No. 1827980

>>1827936
Bullshit, there's plenty of countries you can travel by yourself as a woman safely. Don't think Mexico is one of them though.

No. 1827982

>>1827975
You mean the troon Hari Nef? He is male, but he's playing a regular female barbie as far as I know.

No. 1827983

>>1827982
Exactly. Is this based on a TIM Barbie or were we just no suppose to notice that he is a scrote?

No. 1827988

Am I an asshole for not going over to my mother's place for Christmas? She's been sick for weeks (coughing, heavy breathing, runny nose, etc) and I've just come out of a sinus infection. I've asked her to do a Covid test because she has recently seen someone who had Covid, but she refused.

No. 1827990


No. 1827995

>>1827965
>>1827980
I just meant because she's ignorant. Mexico specifically is an impoverished country being ran by gangs, you will be robbed blind for being a foreigner in as many ways as they can manage. My friends, who were born in Mexico and lived there until they were teenagers, said that even foreign-born Mexicans are easy to spot from their Spanish accents and are considered marks as well. To consider solo traveling Mexico is just very naive and silly.

No. 1828013

>>1827988
You're not an ass. If its been going on for weeks it could be that whatever the original virus was has caused bronchitis.

No. 1828053

maybe this is the wrong thread for it but i've been wondering if there's a discord only for women thats not totally dead or about like eating disorders… idc if it's a bit mental and weird just not ana focused. i don't really use discord so i don't even know how i would go about finding one

No. 1828166

When do the best sales happen? I'm looking up laptops now and the sales are only up to 30%.

No. 1828197

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At what age did you have your "full sized" body?
My body really haven't changed much since I was about 12 (I was chubby) when my period started, and I've definitely had the same bra size since I was like 14. It just hit me that I had my "adult body" at that age and that freaks me out in ways I can't explain. I was never a cute skinny petite teenager like it felt everyone else was, I feel like I went straight into "fertile mom body" and that's kinda… gross? like I missed out on my childhood, like gross men were "right" for harrassing me because I "looked like an adult". I'm freaking out a bit over it.

No. 1828200

>>1828197
I don't know, at like 13 I stopped growing taller and by sixteen I had a bunch of acne and stretch marks from filling out and some chubbiness, I reached maximum bust size at 18. Chibiness went away in early 20s and the acne and stretch marks faded by my early/mid 20s I no longer felt all awkward with everything at that point. Puberty never felt like having an adult body, it was so obviously an awkward in-between stage.

No. 1828210

>>1828197
me too only i've never been fat which legitimately made me suicidal at 14 because i thought i had to have a disordered chromosome condition since i literally still wasn't developing like everyone else in my class. best believe i did everything in my power to grow boobs and curves i borderline lived my puberty period as a DIY tranny. it didn't even work and i think i just messed up my hormones because that year i only got my period like 6 times which is crazy looking back but i was always missing it. really didn't belp that i was accused of actually being a tranny due to my androgyny which made me even more suicidal kek. anyway i pretty much only grew into my facial features kek so other than aging in the face ( and maybe hands ? ) i haven't changed at all since, same height same weight and everything and i feel like a ridiculous anorexic gnome. i'm really sorry anon i know i obviously won't understand your situation because mine is completely different but yeah i haven't grown really changed since the age of 14 either. it sucks but i'm living with it it's not as much of a big deal to me as it used to be

No. 1828211

>>1828197
This might be weird but I am convinced my hips got wider at 22.

No. 1828214

>>1828197
Height? I don’t think I’ve grown taller since 13. Body? I actually lost weight in my teen years instead of gained it (almost 19 now) so my boobs shrunk after growing from 10-13, but I think my bone structure has definitely changed. I still don’t really have hips to be frank but most of the women in my family filled out in that area in their 20s so I’m not that worried. Face? I only really lost my baby face recently, I looked like a young kid for a long while. I think an “adult/full sized body” is a combination of things because some girls have an estrogenic fat distribution (chest and hips) but a very small/underdeveloped frame and childish looking face still. On the other hand some people don’t get their breasts or period until very late but the rest of them develops into something adult like at a similar pace. There isn’t really one singular metric and you’ve probably changed since 12/14 in ways you didn’t realise.

No. 1828216

>>1828197
I stopped growing up at 14 years old, weighted around 40kg until covid, lost too much weight from the virus at the beginning of the pandemic so my symptoms were brutal and when I recovered and could finally eat normally I slowly became heavier than before I got sick. And since that happened in my mid 20s I'm not sure if it's because I started pigging out to compensate for how much I was starving or if it's because I just got older, because older women wouldn't stop telling me that all women become fat once they're around 25 to 30 years old. Now no matter how much or how often I eat I'm around 50kg so I guess it'll only change if I get some specific health issues or medical treatment that drastically change people's appetite or weight or when I'll get older. I still feel like I haven't changed since I was a teenager though, I always had cellulite and stretch marks regardless of weight.

No. 1828236

>>1828197
Ugh nonna I really relate to what you said about feeling gross and like you somehow deserved being perved on by adults because your body was “grown up” and not getting to experience having a “cute teen body” or whatever bc I was a little chubby on a tall, leg-dominant frame with big boobs and of course stretch marks from growing fast. I was never going to be my petite little 5’3 waif BFF with the perfect dainty proportions or whatever. My body is totally different now because of fitness and lifestyle however, and I worked really hard. I was 5’5 at age 12, I’m 5’11 now at 27. My chest is a lot smaller and my skin is way WAY better kek why did so many of us fall for Proactiv??

No. 1828238

>3rd repost b/c i am retarded this morning

>>1828197
so i was a fat kid, obese teen, and finally became a normal-weight person at 19. before i lost any weight there were kids who told me they thought i was already 30/a mom, so thats the vibe my body was giving off apparently as a high schooler. then after i lost weight i was lamenting that i looked ~underdeveloped~ (went from c-cups to a-cups) and used to joke that i was gonna go right from looking like wednesday addams to grandma addams, skipping the desirable "morticia" phase.
anyway now i am 30 and literally even within the last year i have i noticed changes in my body-shape. i switched up my birth control and since then my breasts have been looking fuller and i feel like i look curvier. i havent gotten any taller since i was 13, but i look different now than i did 10 years ago, even if my weight has remained stable since then.
>tl;dr i think by the time you are 30 you are truly done ~developing~, but things like weight and your hormones are the biggest factors

No. 1828240

>>1828238
relatable

No. 1828244

>>1828211
Nta but maybe not weird at all, at 30 I got that Incredibles mom ass when I used to be flat as a board kek half of my pants I have since I was 15 don't fit anymore cus my ass is stopping them. Also men are fucking weird, this kind of attention made me so stressed and insecure, I really want to go back also I really liked those pants.

No. 1828250

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Anons should I worry that old guys follow me on tiktok? And why? kek

No. 1828256

Hey do any of you practice magic and can one of you perform a spell on me that’ll make everyone forget who I am? I wanna make a new comeback

No. 1828260

>>1828256
Ok
Bing boom bing make people forget anon bing boom boom bong

No. 1828277

>>1828197
I'm 21 and still not done growing. I was a skelly until like 17ish and vegetarian my whole life so that's probably why? Lost weight but went up a cup size since the summer and I think my hips have grown too, fml.

No. 1828298

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Watching tv us boring
Watching YouTube is boring
I don't have patience for watching movies or anime online
I don't want to read books
Everyday the only thing I do is sleep
What an I supposed to do?

No. 1828304

>>1828298
Maladaptive daydreaming , before you know it your whole life will pass you by

No. 1828307

>>1828197
Height wise I reached 5'9'' at 11, my hips became really noticeable around 14 but I'd say 20 is when I totally grew into my body and became more proportional. I'm 26 now and I look largely unchanged, even went back to the same weight recently so I know it's true.
I feel like even if you develop fast in certain areas, especially hips and breasts, you can still tell a teen is a teen no matter how womanly they are. It gets harder with girls that try really hard to look grown, but men that perv on you when you're a kid mostly do it because they know you're a kid.

No. 1828318

>>1828307
Yeah kids where it's genuinely hard to tell are very rare. Even if she's caked in makeup and lashes it's really easy to tell a teenager from an actual woman once you get close. Majority of teens, even if they're developed, have this weird gangliness to them that adults just don't have.

No. 1828359

How to apply lipstick when your lip shape doesn't suit it? It's not the color that looks weird but when I put it on it makes my nose look weirdly close to my mouth unless I do the kawiwi faded lips thing but that makes me feel like a retard.
>>1828298
Saving this image, it's fantastic.

No. 1828384

>>1828359
Glad u like the picture nonny

No. 1828388

>>1828298
W A L K
A
L
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It’s fun sometimes

No. 1828392

>>1828197
I reached my full size at 13, I can still wear all the same clothing as I wore back then and still own some coats. I didn't get to have a 'teenage' body either because there is no difference in apparent size and shape from the body I had at 13 to the body I have as an adult. Never got very tall or curvy. I'm in my late 20s now and I've noticed my metabolism slowing down but I've been the same weight since I was 13 so this is an additional difference of like, 5 pounds that is evenly distributed so you can't really see the difference. No cool mom ass or late blooming tits unfortunately.

No. 1828393

>>1828359
try using pencil liner instead of lipstick to both contour the outline and fill in your lips

No. 1828404

>>1828197
I was 13 when my main weight and height stopped. so I am 115lb at 5'4 which sucks cause everyone else in my family is taller. they all got to grow up past 13 but mine just stunted.

No. 1828415

>>1828197
About 19, but I'm a late bloomer. My period started at 13ish and I didn't grow boobs and a butt until maybe 17, then they got bigger at 19. I had a scrawny kid body for most of my teens and then I grew into Jessica Rabbit overnight but kept the same dorky kid face. It was very unsettling, I get you. I hated it so much I became a Hetalia cosplaying fakeboi kek, I didn't get harassed but I did get bullied a lot.

No. 1828418

>>1828216
>all women become fat once they're around 25 to 30 years old
Obviously not all women but this is the age when PCOS and other hormone issues start becoming obvious for many women, which causes weight gain. Many people never see a physician for it because they think it's "just what happens", when it's not the case and the human metabolism only starts slowing down around 60.

No. 1828422

>>1828418
PSA: Birth control will not save you from PCOS hormone issues. Not in my case anyway kek, my natural hormones dunked on that fake stuff and I had half the issues anyway

No. 1828427

>>1828418
Makes sense I guess. I always assumed they all said that because all these women got pregnant several times in a row in that period of their lives so they gained weight for obvious reasons and never lost any of it. Given the culture here I'm sure they were assuming I'd also have several kids by now.

No. 1828429

>>1828197
It's hard for me to say because I was overweight when I was around 11-13 so I actually got significantly smaller over time due to eating healthier as I got older. I stopped being able to wear my preteen clothes but it was because they were way too big for me.
I don't have a good record of my height but I've always been short and my final height is 5ft. I think I probably stopped growing at around 12, I hit puberty a little early for sexual development but never had any noticeable growth spurt.

No. 1828430

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Why do I get turned on by the thought of a son having sex with his (middle-aged) mother?

No. 1828432

>>1823251
use the PaleMoon browser, it's better than Chrome imo

No. 1828434

>>1828418
A lot of people have bad lifestyle habits that they blame on getting older IMO. Especially if they drink.

No. 1828436


No. 1828439


No. 1828447

Why can I drink clear liquors like vodka and gin, but beer, wine and brown spirits make me violently ill?

No. 1828448

>>1828430
Mental illness

No. 1828451

>>1828418
Fat distribution is also associated with the illusion of gaining weight, happens during second puberty (mid20's) and during menopause, weight gain is not a symptom but differing fat distribution making you think you have is.

No. 1828466

>>1828447
Get checked for celiac disease

No. 1828470

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Do older women really have less dating options? I'm in my 30s rn and feel like im attracting more people than I did in my 20s. I was a really awkward autist too and it took my my entire 20s to learn how to carry a conversation. Just wondering if any nonitas think the less dating options is another scare tactic from moids

No. 1828473

>>1828451
Also this. I definitely look bigger than I did as a teenager but it’s in a much more womanly way. I have a hips and ass and better boobs and if it means I have a little lunch lady arm that’s okay.

No. 1828478

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Is it worth getting a math degree even if it’s not in the top world universities? I want to go back to school at 26. It was my better subjects in school and I find it interesting.

No. 1828479

>>1823251
Any good bookmark managers from Mozilla?

No. 1828480

>>1828430
This is disgusting

No. 1828481

>>1828470
there will always be people for us to date, "even" in our 30s. the thing is, women realize that men in their 30s and 40s are likely to have children from previous relationships and that they have to deal with the other parent being a part of his life still. meanwhile men often see "baggage" in the form of kids/the other parent as a deal breaker. it's hilarious that they scaremonger about muh biological clock but are unwilling to deal with the result of aforementioned scaremongering. in my experience, if you are a woman in your 30s w/o kids, men will flock to you even more because they can't stand not being #1 in a woman's life or - even worse, the horror - showing a shred of affection to a child that did not come from their disgusting balls.

No. 1828490

>>1828478
There are a few people I know that studied physics and math… In the end they never did anything with what they learned and they just work "normal" jobs (for lack of a better term…)

It all just boiled down to feeling validated. They just wanted papers that validated their intelligence. One of them even said that it was a good feeling and they are glad they did it.

You finish your classes and life goes on… Why would you regret it if you liked it?

No. 1828491

>>1828470
Old women (not older, old) have had males showing up at their door after being widowed, so many never grow out of the idea of being babied, it's the quality that's the real issue.

No. 1828494

>>1827628
Anna’s archive

No. 1828495

>>1828470
I feel like at that point a lot of women would rather date/marry male friends they reconnect with instead of trying to date strangers.

No. 1828496

>>1827703
Yeah, Sometimes I have radical thoughts on changing every part of my body but seeing what surgeons are only capable of doing reminds me to be realistic

No. 1828505

>>1828490
I see. I feel like I want to do something relevant with my life but you make it sound like that’s unlikely to happen. I’m afraid of getting a useless degree

No. 1828507

>>1828505
If you get a degree with some knowledge of where you're going afterwards then it's not useless. That's the issue with degrees, people get them without an idea of what field they want to go into, some people waste time getting degrees when getting an apprenticeship would be better suited to what they want to do.

No. 1828508


No. 1828517

>>1828256
This is so relatable

No. 1828518

>>1828507
Maybe something practical like engineering, like applying known science to existing problems. Maybe material science. I don’t really know how to jump back into school.

No. 1828519

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>>1828430
It's Christmas you guys, it's Christmas don't come at me saying "not everyone celebrates" I know it's a joke

No. 1828520

>>1828518
Shouldn't be maybe's should be yes I want this, think about it and then take the step. An informed and well thought through decision is much less likely to be regretted.

No. 1828560

i think i ate some bad eggs anons. what do i do for the nausea? ive been feeling like shit for hours after my breakfast

No. 1828563

>>1828560
drink a ton of water to help you throw up.

No. 1828569

>>1828470
I dont support sex work but 80 year old women get paid by 20 year old men for sex. Women are desireable at any age, unlike men.

No. 1828586

Could I put a candle on top of a mini fridge? Would it be too much heat?

No. 1828590

>>1828470
Of course it's a scare tactic. It's not even aimed at women in their 30s, it's directed at women in their 20s (ie if they don't immediately settle for a sub par old moid and do everything in their power to be a hot perfect waifu they will die alone, wonder who benefits from that messaging…).

I remember back in the old days of 4chan etc, around when /r9k/ created incels, it was more like
>women in their 30s need to lower their standards if they expect a 10/10 supermodel millionaire prince charming because good men are usually married by that age
Which is fairly rational, if based on a strawman. But these days the misogyny and delusion has escalated to the point it's become
>all women in their 30s are worthless eggless hags and most men would rather die than be with one, but they will never need to be with one as girls in their 20s will always want older men

Anyway it doesn't really matter because men hit the wall at birth and have minimal value their entire lives.

No. 1828606

>>1828586
This is giving me flashbacks to when the fire fighters would come to my primary school to tell us not to put candles on top of the tv. It sounds like a bad idea.

No. 1828619

Dunno if there's a better thread for this kind of tech spoonfeeding but can anyone help suggest a laptop to buy? It has to be light, be thin, and have good battery life because I plan on taking it out with me a lot (a durable outer shell wouldn't hurt either) but I don't need it for anything more than surfing the web or maybe writing a Word doc. Basically, doing this stuff on my phone looks unprofessional and is hard to view with others, and that's the only reason I'm looking for a laptop.

No. 1828623

>>1828606
My dad was a firefighter and candles were banned in our house, I know a girl who burned her room down with one so I accepted it

No. 1828762

>>1828520
Like making a personal step by step guide?

No. 1828803

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If your boyfriend wore eyeliner and painted his nails black and wore thigh highs and was submissive in bed would you assume he’s eventually going come out as some flavor of trans

No. 1828805

>>1828803
Obviously.

No. 1828810

>>1828803
nothing wrong with the eyeliner and painting nails black, the thigh highs are a major red-flag thought and I'm gonna take being submissive as an indicator that if he likes things up his butt, that's a 90% guarantee that he's gonna a troon-out.

No. 1828813

>>1828803
At best this is a loser who has his brain poisoned with "femboy" porn and refrains from trooning out because he wants to milk the "uwu I'm actually a MALE with a DICK hehe tricked u" gimmick. I'm fine with men having some feminine traits/interests but these particular things added up together indicate that specific subculture. would not be or stay my boyfriend

No. 1828815

>>1828803
No, I honestly wouldn't.

No. 1828834

>>1828803
I would not assume, but I would worry about it.

No. 1828837

I was sick a month ago and I still can't stop coughing at night or when lying down, it makes sleeping so hard help nonas how do I make it stop

No. 1828842

>>1828837
If it's consistently triggered by lying down it could be that excess mucus is flowing down and accumulating on your throat because it can't drain when you're horizontal, I had this problem before when I got sick. Maybe try propping up some pillows/blankets to sleep on a slight incline?

No. 1828859

>>1828837
Yeah sounds like your body wants to expel phlegm

No. 1828866

>>1828803
Is that your bf nona? He sounds sexy. If it was earlier decades there would be no concern. But in these troon explosion days you gotta keep an eye out for further red flags.

No. 1828867

>>1828866
>he sounds sexy
Looooooollllll

No. 1828896

>>1828803
You know if it was just the painted nails and maybe the eyeliner you could pass it off as some being part of an alt subculture like a metalhead (I'd even find that hot) but thigh highs? Yeah that's a major risk of trooning out. You should probably ask yourself where he learnt to wear thigh highs as a male anyway.

No. 1828936

>>1828803
Thigh highs imply weeb coomer, weeb coomers means likely being into femboys, femboys are the closest you can get to trooning out without actually trooning out. The rest of the traits aren't a redflag on their own, but all together I feel like you have a storm coming nonnacita.

No. 1828953

>>1828803
You should probably get his porn habits under control before he starts stealing your clothes

No. 1828999

How do you entertain a grumpy 12 year old without tablets etc? He's the only kid in my family so he doesn't have much to do and I don't want him to have a bad time. I thought about giving him some more pg Dylan Dog comics because he likes the spooky roblox games but that's all I can think of.

No. 1829001

>>1828867
Some of us like submissive goth guys. But sadly they're practically an extinct species.

No. 1829022

Any ideas what I could do (not at home) on my own on new years' eve?

No. 1829024

>>1829022
go on a hike. go ice skating or rollerblading at a rink. go watch fireworks. fill a thermos with a hot beverage and go on a walk. book a horseback riding lesson. get a massage or blowout or manicure. go to the movie theatre.

No. 1829041

>>1829001
I would like them in theory, but OP's boyfriend sounds like a wanna-be femboy and that is absolutely disgusting.

No. 1829050

>>1828481
Honestly as a childfree woman I wouldn't want a man who had kids from a previous marriage, being divorced would even be an instant deal-breaker.

No. 1829085

>>1829050
That should be the case even for women who do wants kids. Men with kids from a previous relationship are expired goods, it's always a lose-lose situation to involve yourself with men like that.

No. 1829097

>>1828999
Manga maybe?

No. 1829104

>>1828999
I think those comics are a pretty decent idea. Or go to the thrift store and pick up a box of lego or something.

No. 1829107

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>>1828999
just like any other kid, slime, art stuff, legos and maybe one of those robotics sets.

No. 1829109

How do maggots appear on rotting food or flesh thats kept inside, do they like spontaneously manifest?

No. 1829119

>>1829109
Either it wasn't actually stored that well and flies got in contact with it or the eggs were there all along.

No. 1829130

>>1829109
Flies can live inside too. I imagine you're thinking of "inside" as like inside a house or building? Insects that lay eggs live inside houses and buildings, they don't only live outside.

No. 1829139

When prospective romantic interests ask you to send them your Amazon wishlist…what do men actually want to buy you from Amazon? What do you put on your wishlists?

No. 1829145

>>1829139
Whatever you want. Anon please are you seriously trying to cater even your wishlist to what you think the moid will want you to get? I would just make sure there is range budget wise (but not too cheap either you deserve things that aren’t dollarstore priced kek)

No. 1829148

>>1829145
I wouldn't call it catering per se, but if there's something nice in a particular category that a man would be more willing to buy then I'd want to add that than deal with their attrition over something more specific that I could probably just buy myself with less hassle.

No. 1829150

>>1829139
Jumbo case of pads, duh

No. 1829165

>>1829139
I would put whatever I want kek. In fact, if any generous benefactor nonny is reading this: I have a KitchenAid stand mixer and pasta attachments in my cart right now, just begging to be bought

No. 1829166

>>1829139
just post your wishlist as is. if your wishlist is full of stuff like period pads or other useful necessity things or silly non necessities like makeup or plushies and he complains and/or nitpicks about it, the trash is taking itself out.

No. 1829168

How to recover from being a tragic ugly loser

No. 1829169

>>1829165
Omg actually nonny this is brilliant, thank you for the idea!
Muahahahahaa!

No. 1829177

>>1829168
be a happy tragic ugly loser. you don't owe the world anything. just have a good time and pay bitches no mind.

No. 1829179

>>1829139
Hobby stuff, clothes, books, anything is fine I think

No. 1829181

>>1829139
>>1829148
>in a particular category that a man would be more willing to buy
Yeah there is such a category. It's lingerie. Because it's for them. Don't do that.

Put whatever you actually want on it within a reasonable budget. I know everyone tries to set a certain image of themselves in the early stages of dating/getting to know each other but you're going overboard.

No. 1829182

>>1829139
i'd say it's to know what kind of hobbies you are really into, what kind of gift you'll expect people to buy you, and i'm speaking in term of price range, like are you fine with a 10 dollars pulshie or do you expect people to give you a kitchenaid for your bday ?
kitchenaid are awesome ( a second bowl and Fresh Prep Slicer/Shredder AttachmentT are a must have) but i would be extremly unconfortable if anyone would give me one

No. 1829186

Some time ago an anon linked a paper, I think, on how BMI is bullshit because of muh muscle mass, but not in the way it's commonly used with me having too much muscle mass which is why I'm totally a normal weight actually and not obese but as in like 96.553% of people have less muscle mass than what was average back when it was started to get used as a metric, so it actually tells you you're overweight too late. Does anybody have a link?

No. 1829194

>>1828439
lmao I was thinking if I should post that there or here

No. 1829196

Why is there a Hall & Oates banner?

No. 1829198

>>1829196
Because Hall is the blonde one.

No. 1829200

>>1829196
first day eh?

No. 1829214

why does water taste better out of a steel bottle/mug/whatever? i broke my giant water glass so i'm drinking from my steel bottle that i normally only use during my commute and the water tastes so much better all of a sudden.

No. 1829221

Your husband's brother's wife is his sister-in-law, but would it be accurate for you to call her your sister-in-law too?

No. 1829227

I never had a bf before so help lol is it normal bf behavior to say “i love you for more than your body” but then all he does when you’re alone is touch and grope you and sexualize you? For example im bending over to get aomthing and he comes over and mimics having sex with me. Randomly comes over to lifts my shirt to see my boobs. Tells me to pit my oants on slowly so he can watch when i get ready for work… is this.. normal?

No. 1829231

>>1829227
he's a sex pest and he's harassing you. dump him before he actually assaults you.

No. 1829233

>>1829227
He is disrespecting you and harassing you. You need to dump that moid and and get some self-esteem/boundaries.

No. 1829234

>>1829214
Maybe because steel is cooler to the touch?

No. 1829235

>>1829227
Does it matter if it's normal or not if you don't like it?

No. 1829238

>>1829235
Im just confused about his mixed messages. If he says he likes me for more than my body but then does nothing but touch me … os he telling the truth or just he only enjoy me as a sex objects.

Hes not abusive or whatever. But we were barely a year into our relationship and he was already talking about marrying me. Does he only want me for sex? Hes 30 and im 34 btw. he’s my first everything (pathetically) so idk if im just being mental or of this is normal. I never had a boyfriend until last year so im at a loss.

No. 1829239

>>1829198
Why did this post take off, what's the joke here? I'm not a newfag, I just only saw the original post out of context and maybe I'm missing some cultural references.

No. 1829255

>>1829239
The cultural references of a 64-scroll-long image link?

No. 1829260

>>1829227
Actions matter more than words. So what if he says “I love you for more than your body” when his behavior is the exact opposite of that? He sounds exactly like my first boyfriend who was saying all sorts of corny bullshit like that but surprise surprise, he was groping me and pushing me to have sex the moment we were left alone. And he was throwing tantrums when I said "no" too. You deserve someone who actually respects you and doesn't just use you as a sex doll.
And as >>1829235 said it doesn't matter whether it's considered "normal" or not. What matters the most is that you're feeling comfortable, but I would advice you to dump him before it gets worse because judging by my own ex this will keep escalating.

No. 1829275

>>1829214
Looked it up, says that it doesn't hold flavours from other times you've used your cup

No. 1829314

>>1829177
Thank you so much anon

No. 1829319

>>1829200
No? I’m not terminally glued to a screen and refreshing for new banners.

No. 1829343

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why does bread taste so good

No. 1829345

>>1669888
>>1669891
Just remembered I never thanked you for your effort, so thanks, this really helps

No. 1829372

>>1829343
because carbs makes you genuinely happy, simple as

No. 1829374

>>1829372
but why bread and nothing else. am i just addicted?

No. 1829382

>>1829260
Should i start denying sex and brushing him off when he gets pervy with me and see if his attitude changes ?

No. 1829386

>>1829382
He could just start thinking you're "playing hard to get" and become even more pushy

No. 1829387

>>1829374
it's not an addiction if you can't help eating nothing but bread and it destroy your life.
carbohydrates raises your serotonin level, and you just happend to like bread better than, i don't know, rice or pasta, probably because you have a good baker around,

No. 1829427

>>1829382
I'm not sure if that would really help tbh. How does he usually react when you refuse to have sex for any reason, for example if you're tired or just simply not in the mood? If in such situations he becomes even more pushy or tries to make you feel guilty for "denying him sex" as some may say, I strongly recommend you to think about whether a person who does not respect your will and wishes is the perfect match for you. There are plenty of people out there who will actually listen to your words and respect them.

No. 1829432

>>1829427
The only instance where i said no i can remember he said it sucked i wasn’t in the mood but didnt push it. And that was recently.

No. 1829488

>>1829432
It's good that he didn't push you, but a single instance is not enough to make a decent judgement. His behavior still rubs me the wrong way honestly. As other nonnas said he sounds like a sex pest and like he's harassing you. Of course all that matters is how you are feeling, but I've been in your position and it really didn't feel good getting humped from behind every time I bent over to grab something from the floor or getting rubbed aggressively every time we're alone. I just don't want the same thing to happen to you nonna, if you're happy as things are right now that's great but in my opinion this is not how a mature 34 year old man should behave. He sounds like a horny teenager.

No. 1829503

>>1829227
>Randomly comes over to lifts my shirt
Like a toddler trying to suckle kek, but on topic I had a bf when I was younger who'd say shit like "I love you for more than your body" and he didn't. I started going bald and he left me kek, the fact he even felt the need to say that is suspicious

No. 1829510

>>1829432
>he said it sucked i wasn’t in the mood
ew, saying that instead of an "it's alright" or something like that is a red flag imo in terms of his overall consideration towards you as a person vs npc in their life

No. 1829555

What's the difference between visting a website with the browser on your phone and using the website's app?

No. 1829560

>>1829555
Convenience

No. 1829564

>>1829555
I'm assuming the app might be more optimized

No. 1829567

>>1829227
>>1829238
>>1829382
>>1829432
You're over thinking it. Sounds like you don't like it. It's not normal to stay with a guy who does this if you're not excited about it too. Relationships are supposed to make you feel happy and safe and like you can do anything together. Anytime you're in a relationship and it gives you a feeling that makes you wonder "is this how it's supposed to be…?" that's really bad lol
You're only a year in this is not gonna work, end things in a nice way before it gets bad.

No. 1829568

>>1829555
If you download the app it allows the company to harvest waaaay more information about you

No. 1829676

should i watch jjk? i dont really watch current anime but im starting to get really curious about this one

No. 1829701

I may need LASIK eye surgery to correct my vision. Is it painful? I read about how it's performed and they cut the cornea, fix it, then put it back. And you can see that or something. Sound horrifying.

No. 1829732

>>1829676
How are we supposed to tell you? We don't know anything about you or what you like anon

No. 1829781

>>1829676
it's a typical battle shounen. if you enjoy most shounen anime you will like it. if you don't like most shounen anime it's not worth wasting your time watching.

No. 1829877

>>1829701
Recovery is horrible. My eyes bled but were also dry at the same time. Itchy and full of tears, but i couldn't scratch them. I also had "weed eyes" for 2 whole weeks and sometimes my eyes randomly swole shut. Also, plenty of the crummy white stuff that you get in the morning

No. 1829878

>>1829701
Also I could see during the surgery but only a little bit. My vision was mostly blurred during it and I had floaters

No. 1829966

>>1829701
not me but my friend had it done recently and it seemed pretty straightforward, worst that happened was blurry vision and some nausea for a few days after the surgery. You should talk to an optometrist since it might be a bit different depending on your personal eye condition

No. 1830083

Is there any etymological link between the country names Puerto Rico and Costa Rica

No. 1830086

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>>1830083
"rich"?

No. 1830437

Why do black women wear wigs more than any other population?

No. 1830452

>>1830437
Natural hair discrimination, there’s plenty of info available about it.

No. 1830548

>>1830452
I see. Thank you.

No. 1830608

What work-from-home jobs are in demand? I currently work for the local government, it's a nice and stable job but it's pretty much office-bound, I'd like to explore my options to WFH to improve my chances on the housing market amongst other reasons. I know there's coding stuff, but I also hear that's a tough market rn and I don't think coding is for me anyway. Is there anything else?

No. 1830609

>>1829877
That sounds horrifying. I already have dry eyes so that may make it worse. I hope my optometrist gives me another pair of glasses instead. Thanks for answering though.
>>1829966
I see. My mom had it for a different reason and she said it hurts after but feels like nothing during the surgery and she didn't see during it. I hope mine go well or I get some alternative. Thanks for answering as well!

No. 1830638

I never understood the hatred for 'reddit spacing' and I've been on imageboards for over a decade now. What the fuck are anons on? Isn't reddit spacing when you put two line breaks instead of one? One line break per sentence is more of a symptom of being an ESL than reddit isn't it? the fuck

No. 1830663

>>1829701
I've had it a few weeks ago. They cut a flap in your eye with a first laser then reshape the cornea with a second one and close back the flap to heal. For me the procedure lasted less than 10 minutes and was painless. Recovery was very straightforward too, zero pain, immediate results and I was feeling completely fine the next day and went back to work with my bloodshot eyes kek The big issue was dry eyes for a couple of weeks, you have to keep putting drops and your vision is not the best yet. Still totally worth it for me.

There are different procedures like PRK, which is usually way more painful but might be better suited for your eyes. Whatever you do, go to reputable surgeon and don't cheap out!

No. 1830684

Does anyone know of a good, maybe lesser known stock photo site? I use unsplash and peels but they're kind of trash.

No. 1830685

>>1830638
I agree with this and if im typing a longer post idgaf I'm gonna do reddit spacing. How tf are people supposed to parse the information if its all one block

No. 1830726

>>1830638
reddit spacing is a dumb thing that has appeared on image boards in the past like 6 years, in the past everyone did double line breaks even for single sentences. it's like people have amnesia for the internet before 2018.

No. 1830930

>>1830608
Tech-adjacent jobs like copywriting, graphic design, UX design, customer support (usually chat/email-based), HR, and so on are all pretty solid and things you can learn on your own or transfer skills from your current job.
I'm a graphic designer with a tech job and I taught myself enough design within a year to build a portfolio and land my first jobs, but it took a bit longer to get a fully remote tech job. I'd say maybe 2.5-3 years from scratch. Learning any of the skills I mentioned is a great investment!

No. 1830941

this was the question a few threads ago that i'm afraid to ask because it always turns to infights but here goes…
if gay men can have sex with women and cum in them without actually being attracted to them, then what makes them different from straight men who also have sex with women they aren't attracted to? how do you tell which purpose they're fucking for if they all fuck the same?

No. 1830947

>>1830941
They're both just using the woman to masturbate

No. 1830957

>>1830086
thank you nonny. i actually posted that when i was high and feeling smug but i learned a new fact today!

No. 1830971

>>1830941
99% of hetero men are spititually gay.

No. 1830980

>>1830941
Straight men will temporarily turn gay in prison and cum from fucking men just fine. It's the same principle with gay men who fuck women to be accepted socially. Men just have a preference for certain sexes, but they can and do switch when the situation calls for it.

No. 1830987

>>1830941
Are you naive or just deliberately obtuse because you want to believe gay men are secretly bi

No. 1830989

>>1830980
are you trolling or retarded

No. 1830993

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kiwifarms is down..anyone know where to find it on the clearnet? or what the telegram/tor address is. im kinda retarded so plz.

No. 1830996

>>1830437
ime, the coarser the hair the more time consuming it is to style. slapping on a wig is just easier.

No. 1830997

>>1830987
i was asking sincerely, i genuinely don't see a difference between either group. if gay men are able to do that then logically straight men can also be gay imo. strangely enough this explanation >>1830980 and >>1830947 makes the most sense to me. maybe i'll end it here

No. 1831006

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Did I just see some stray YouTube comment or is it true TikTok has found Anzen Chitai?

No. 1831008

>>1830997
samefag but many straight men aren't attracted to women so it just throws me off, it seems like no man is truly attracted to anyone but themselves or like they don't have a true sexuality. sorry for derailing now i'll stop.

No. 1831033

>>1830993
Kiwifarms.st works for me but there's something wrong with images not loading. Null said he is working on it. If the website doesn't work on clearnet for you it is probably because your ISP works with Cogent who keep blocking KF ips. In that case you can try to access KF through a VPN but not all locations will work. You can also try accessing it through Brave's TOR browser. You can get the KF tor address by accessing KF through archive.md and you will find the tor link at the bottom. That's how I always get it.

No. 1831038

>>1831008
Straight men being porn-addicted misogynists that expect pornified young girls to sleep with them are not comparable to gay men. The cases are entirely different. Straight men like that fantasize about little girls and teens, gay men want giant quivering cock in their butt and mouth. They are not the same.

No. 1831043

>>1830684
I like pexels, but these days I just AI generate most images. If you put "stock image" in your prompt you get pretty decent outcomes. Using the bing bot through Skype is the fastest way to generate them imo. The only downside is that the images aren't very big in size but you can always upscale them (there's tons of decent free websites for that).

No. 1831044

>>1830726
I have been on IBs even before 2018 and have seen the same reddit callouts all the same. I think scrotes are allergic to any post that's long with any spacing whatsoever (and if there was, they would ignore it, it is all about chasing the (You)s). LC overall has always had longer and better quality posts. Still hate to see the retardation here

No. 1831046

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Also tip for all women - if you've concluded that a man isn't gay but he's still a raging misogynist that talks about how disgusting women and their bodies are – hes absolutely jacking it to young girls or even little kids. A pedophile is disgusting by women solely for their pubertized bodies and having rationale. They want a little girl or teen who isn't 'tainted' by puberty and brain development, they fetishize the idea of a fuckdoll who is easy to manipulate. Absolutely worst men of all time and there's a reason why you instinctively sense danger from them

No. 1831047

>>1831033
Thank you very much.

No. 1831055

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>>1831046
I tried explaining that men who hate public hair on women are creepy to r/twoxchromosomes once, but did they listen to me? No, because redditors are always dumb.

No. 1831056

>>1831055
>public
PUBIC. I meant pubic damnit.

No. 1831058

>>1831055
>twoXchromosomes
it's a tranny sub now, just like every other sub that was originally for women

No. 1831060

>>1831058
Heard that's what happened to lesbian subs too. Sad, ain't it?

No. 1831089

>>1830663
I see! Pun unintended. My specific issues are dry eyes, astigmatism, and shortsightedness. And I do have health insurance so I'll be able to go to a hospital specializing in eyes. I hope my parents won't cheap out and not let me do the surgery though, because without glasses, reading is painful.

No. 1831136

How do you go about learning to sing? I have trouble controlling my voice and always sound off-key. I'd really like to get better, but idk where to begin, naively searching "how to sing" just gets a bunch of people shilling their online courses and everyone I've known to be really good at singing says they've been into it since childhood and/or had pro lessons. I'm not even sure how to practice because I don't really understand how it works at all, how should I start?

No. 1831147

Should I go to the drs if I have numbness spreading in my legs? Two days ago I had a patch on my left leg that was numb, felt like it was sleeping or had lidocaine in it, and I hadnt slept on it or laid wrong. Then today it has spread to my other leg too and up to the thighs of both legs. I figured I'd just wait until it went over bc I dint have any pain, swelling or loss of motor skills but now I'm getting a little worried.

No. 1831150

>>1831147
Yes, make an appointment

No. 1831152

File: 1703734737091.jpg (Spoiler Image,54.78 KB, 634x928, 1000012941.jpg)

How do Australians cope with magpies when they're always trying to fucking kill people?

No. 1831155

>>1831152
Omg what happened to her I hope she gripped it and broke its neck

No. 1831176


No. 1831180

Do any nonnas swing between wanting to be heavily tattooed and then not at all? I have a few and even though they're big I can hide them with the right clothing. Some times I think about all the different pieces I want to get and how cool I would look and then I get anxious about the commitment. I'm neurotic about everything and I can't tell if it's something I'm psyching myself out over or if I'm just not meant to be heavily tattooed.

No. 1831188

Does sleeping in a bra damage the bra, or the wire inside the bra?

No. 1831204

>>1831188
It can, the wires can get bent if you move or lay on them a lot. Wearing the same bra for a long time or not washing a bra for a long time can also be damaging because your sweat and skin oils will accumulate and break down the fabric. If you like wearing bras to bed you can get a sleep bra or a simple wireless bra

No. 1831220

>>1831136
Voice lessons. Specifically in classical singing as a basis for healthy vocal technique, then branch from there to contemporary singing (pop, jazz, rock etc.). I recommend this youtube channel for it https://m.youtube.com/@Victoria-Victorious.
First thing to do is to work on your pitch and breath control. To observe your pitch, use a spectogram or note detecting app, and a piano or piano app. Play the note you want to sing then sing after it and see if you hit the same frequency or close enough to it. Do scale exercises to learn the notes and the different between them by ear. Listen to the songs you want to sing on repeat. Learn 1 song at a time and one part of the song at a time until you master it, then move to the next part, and once you're done with all parts, sing the whole thing. Record yourself, always record and listen back to it to see what you're doing wrong and learn to correct it. Watch our for tension, don't tense your neck, jaw, forehead/eyebrows, or mouth when singing, it can damage your voice. Again, learn to breathe properly for singing with your back and stomach muscles. Learn to shape your vowels correctly for singing because that's where the magic happens. Start with easy simple songs with a short vocal range and work your way both ways, lower and higher notes wise to increase your vocal range. Your physical health can affect singing as well so being in good shape is good for it. Don't overwork yourself to not damage your voice long-term. Be careful of vocal fry and popping sounds in your voice before a glottal vowel, that's bad for you voice. Avoid distortion/rasp/screaming because it can damage the voice. You can learn it later once your singing is decent and you know how to keep your voice healthy, but it will still damage your voice inevitably. DON'T practice in a car, the car exhaust is dangerous. Practice standing because it's better for your voice and for projection. Don't be nervous because there's a literal nerve around your larynx that tightens it when you're nervous. Stay hydrated and keep your vocal folds moist. Join a singing group to get feedback. Pick up an instrument if you can because it can help you developing range, rhythm, timing, coordination and more! Hope this helps. But take my advice with a grain of salt because I'm just a hobbyist. I've been singing since I was a kid and it was always an instinct to me, lots of things came naturally to me so I didn't need to learn. This is just what I learned from good vocal coaches online. I recommend Zack Ansley as well. He's a bit autistic but his videos are very helpful.
https://m.youtube.com/@ZachAnsley

No. 1831223

>>1831220
Nta but wow thank you for that in-depth answer.

No. 1831232

File: 1703740020855.jpg (234.02 KB, 1024x1028, RDT_20231222_09133188958374798…)

Can someone help me with a love/obsession/get them back spell on a situationship? I think I'm going to finally end it if I don't get my best friend back

No. 1831250

>>1831223
No problem, I'm very autistic about singing kek.

No. 1831269

>>1831220
I am the anon, thank you so much!! This helps a lot for figuring out how to start and I appreciate the links too

No. 1831279

>>1831269
No problem! Hope you see results you're happy with! Or hear in this case.

No. 1831281

>>1831269
I remembered one more thing which is very important, warm up before and cool down after singing/practicing! Singing is like a sport before you work specific muscles in your throat and core, so you need warm up and cool downs to not damage said muscles. Also, avoid listening to any voice teachers/vocal coaches who shill their lessons or shill metal vocals. I love metal vocals but they're dangerous and damaging. Don't ever compare yourself to any singer and try to do something only they can do, because some of them are legitimate genetig anomalies and can do things the average person can't with their voice, so avoid imitating singers at any cost. For example, I'm just lucky enough to have a singing voice that works on command without warm ups, but not everyone is like this and it's extremely rare. Similarly, there are singers who can scream and screech without damaging their voices, and some who can go extremely low because of unique anatomy. The human voice is kinda like a fingerprint, it's unique to each individual based on genetics and anatomy, so what works for 1 person doesn't work for another. Don't stress out about vocal categories and vocal range as well, it's useless if you're not an opera singer. That's all! I hope this truly helps you in achieving your goals.

No. 1831403

>>1830930
Thanks anon, that's very informative! If you're still here, would you mind telling how you went about teaching yourself (like did you use books or whatever) and how much time you spent on it daily/weekly?

No. 1831416

Anons with PMDD, do you find that dairy makes your symptoms worse? I recently started drinking milk again and I've spent half of the night awake with paranoid and suicidal thoughts. It also seems like magnesium stopped working

No. 1831447

Where can I find tutorial on how to do the fast choppy movement effects in vidrel? I've been a fan of Nana's for years and I'd like create some work inspired by them.

No. 1831513

>>1831447
you can also look up stop motion effect tutorials or use the posterize effect in premiere pro (set the posterize time to a lower value like 8 to get a more jittery effect). would've been helpful if you added what software you use.

No. 1831523

>>1830608
All jobs are wfh if you're high up enough in rank. The ones that are default wfh are too saturated by parents and career switchers.

No. 1831762

People always talk about buying high quality clothing instead of fast fashion but what are some store that offer high quality clothing? Like good fabrics, not ugly, good color choices. I like jewel tones and basics.

No. 1831764

Why do I start to look disgusting the second II stay somewhere that’s not my house? My skin is blotchy, my hair is stringy, and I’m super puffy despite the only thing changing is my location.

No. 1831771

>>1831764
Maybe you have flattering lights at your house and you sleep better at home.

No. 1831780

My cousin acts like she hates my boyfriend as a joke and it’s really off putting. Like she’ll roll her eyes when he comes over and go “ugh why is he here” or call him ugly and annoying, flips him off and sticks her tongue out at him and stuff like that. Sometimes she’ll call him dumb. Is this flirting?

No. 1831781

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How does one get rid of low self esteem and self hate when they already know what causes it and they have spent years in therapy?

No. 1831783

>>1831780
No it’s most likely not flirting.

No. 1831785

>>1831780
it just mean your retarded boyfriend is annoying and ugly

No. 1831789

>>1831780
She's attracted to him, I think, but also might be nervous it and doesn't want him to know she's attracted. I don't think it's flirting so much as being flustered

No. 1831790

>>1831789
>woman hates moid
>umm ackshually that means she's flirting with him
what the fuck is this 5th grade teacher line of thinking. Anon's boyfriend is an insufferable ugly fag and her cousin is just telling her to dump him.

No. 1831795

Does it go back after birth? I gave birth around 2 weeks ago to a relatively big baby. Was kind of surprised how fast my stomach went back into place, my body looks almost the same except for breast feeding boobs, but the other day I looked in the mirror to check on my stitches- WOAH, landscape has changed. I haven't felt around in there much cause of doctors orders but I'm a little nervous honestly. Maybe I need more time, it's only been 2 weeks

No. 1831796

>>1831790
Idk I did that when I was younger. I'd get embarrassed about being attracted to a guy so I'd be extra mean and dismissive toward him so he wouldn't suspect

No. 1831798

>>1831783
>>1831785
>>1831790
She always does all the stuff I mentioned with a smile on her face and she can’t know if he’s annoying or not, when he comes over all he does is sit on his phone silently and wait 3 minutes for me to finish getting ready?

No. 1831799

>>1831781
Since you know what caused it, can you fix it? Get better at what you're insecure about?

No. 1831800

>>1831798
If you want her to stop just laugh and say “are you flirting with him again, [name]?” and tease her. But make sure you say it like a joke and don’t alienate your cousin over a scrote.

No. 1831811

>>1831796
just because you are tarded it doesnt mean anon's cousin is like you. I act like her cousin when my friends bring their annoying scrote boyfriends over and i cant outrigth say ''dump him'' so i make jokes and hope they get it

No. 1831816

Maybe it's because I'm still trying to delude myself that there has to be good in everyone but if a female "friend" turns around to you dolled up and goes "men only look at YOU because you don't have an engagement ring like me. Otherwise they'd be looking at ME"

is there any way they do not in fact, secretly detest you? I work with her and she's forever accidentally trying to sabotage me and makes these offhanded comments. I'm almost at the point of accepting she probably hates me. Help a dumb anon please nonnas.

No. 1831818

Is demisexual a real thing? It just sounds normal to me. I have a friend who loves to say how demi she is and when someone asks her sexuality, that’s how she responds. But that’s not really a sexuality is it? It says nothing about who she is attracted to. I don’t get it.

No. 1831821

>>1831811
You sound kind of insufferable honestly

No. 1831823

>>1831818
of course it’s not real, it’s just queer taxonomy

No. 1831826

>>1831403
So, there's a few ways to go about it depending on the field you want to go into. There's boot camps but those cost a bit and typically it's hard to have a full time job at the same time, there's a range of online courses, and then there's self-teaching. I mostly did self teaching, but I did take a couple courses at a local community college to get familiar with the software first. I was a substitute teacher at the time so I was able to schedule my workdays around my learning days, and I probably spent at least 2-4 hours every weekday studying, working on a project, doing a YouTube tutorial, etc.

I think what worked best for me was a steady cycle of
>build portfolio/resume
>mass apply to relevant jobs
>no takers
>re-adjust resume, keep studying
>rinse and repeat until you start getting responses
Eventually you'll see results! I also just took the first job that was offered to me so I could farm experience fast. The job totally sucked ass but I wouldn't be here without it!

No. 1831830

Im 35 years old, is there a chance for me to find a guy? Or all they all going for 18 year olds.

No. 1831833

>>1831818
Demisexual just means you don't want to fuck the first person you see and need a ~romantic connection~ to be able to have sex with them which is pretty fucking normal.

No. 1831837

>>1831811
Why do you want your friends to dump them? Like you know they’re shit or just because they’re moids?

Either way none are applicable to my cousin, she doesn’t know anything about my relationship and when she did she insinuated I am immature compared to him. On top of that she doesn’t hate moids as a whole, quite the opposite bc she says she likes them better than women and brags about being one of two girls in a group of mostly guy friends. I know for a fact she doesn’t dislike him because I have asked her when she first started acting like this plus she is always commenting on how nice he treats me and how adorable we are when he is not present

No. 1831838

>>1831416
I'm not diagnosed with it, but I suspect I have it. And in my case eating more carbs than protein and vegetables and drinking soda and high lactose dairy products does make it worse once my period approaches. I believe it's because PMDD is affected by hormones and diet affects hormones. Animal products have estrogen in them which can mess up your hormonal balance. I heard that pumpkin seeds can help with it so I got some, and I noticed eating them before my period reduces the pain in my boobs. So maybe give that a shot, and reduce red meat and dairy products a week or so before your period.

No. 1831839

>>1831837
With context it is suspicious behavior. You should tease her for flirting she might snap out of it.

No. 1831842

>>1831799
Well, in theory, yes. I've internalized my mother's critical attitude towards me and I always feel shame whenever I do something that I'm supposed to enjoy. Self compassion should be the cure, but it's so hard to practice it, since shame feels like a reflex almost that comes naturally

No. 1831843

>>1831830
There are normal ones out there, but you have to actively look for them

No. 1831873

>>1831842
I struggle with this too, nonnie. I'm eastern euro, so you can imagine how critical everybody is if you're not immediately perfect and talented at what you want to do. I don't know if this is helpful, but I practice self-compassion by letting myself suck at something, but also not giving others the chance to ruin my mood about not being perfect. So, I just don't show any of my hobbies, especially to my family. There are some friends I have that are good about being respectfully encouraging. If it helps, do everything for yourself and keep your joys close to you. Otherwise, people with their stupid takes and comments will only upset you. Better not to share and just do what makes you happy independently. Maybe we're too sensitive, but what can you do if others around us are thoughtless and discouraging?

No. 1831874

Why do some women cite getting their period on the same # day of every month as proof of it being very regular? Wouldn't that make it irregular, since the number of days in a month varies…?

No. 1831879

>>1831874
It's still very regular if it's a day off on average each month. Some one have irregular periods where there's a week give or take

No. 1831883

>>1831762
Charity shops. I know that's not what you want to hear but realistically that's the best quality you're going to get in 2023 for the best price.
Yes scalping is a thing, yes resellers go and buy up a lot of the good stuff before you can get to it, yes many chains are overpricing their rags. It's also harder than shopping retail because you can't try an item in several sizes. But if you know what you're doing you can get good deals on good garments you'd never be able to buy new, of a quality that can't be found new anymore.

My best piece of advice is to learn how to sew and look for less popular mid-range and upscale brands (think Johnstons of Elgin, John Partridge, Barbour), or if you can get vintage (think 90s and earlier) from big brands like LL Bean and Gap that's good too.
Learning how to sew is really important, at least just learn how to tailor your own clothing so you have more sizing options when thrifting. There's easy stuff you can do like taking in trousers or hemming the legs, and more difficult like altering sleeves or the entire cut of the trouser to flatter you better. When you get better, you can alter your clothes to be more trendy (or not if you don't want to) and it's a valuable skill people will pay money for.

No. 1831893

>>1831874
I thought irregular meant that some cycles are 32 days but the next one is like 25 and the one after that is 29 etc. just all over the place length-wise.

No. 1831897

Should I go swimming by myself? Is it fun to swim by yourself?

No. 1831915

>>1831893
Everyone is different. I have a period every two months which is “irregular” but it’s predictable so it’s also regular. But medically it’s definitely irregular.

No. 1831927

Misplaced my wallet, yippee…
Trying to remember what I need to replace
>My Bank cards
>My DL
>My medicare card
Anything else?
My wallet didn't have much, but I don't know what other "important" things a wallet usually as. It's stupid, but hey this is what this thread is for.

No. 1831933

>>1831927
Identity card? Any insurace-related cards? Library card? University/student card?

No. 1831935

>>1831927
Take a photo of your items in your wallet next time so you won't forget anything.

No. 1831948

>>1831897
If it isn't somewhere you're very likely to drown, yes.

No. 1831969

File: 1703791668476.jpg (80.89 KB, 1024x682, istockphoto-664626508-1024x102…)

i wish i could quit Spotify but i need it and now i have time to organize my music but it changed since the last time i could use it and i have trouble to navigate it or see how to fix it, why can't i see the little heart button of the songs i liked? Is there any way to bring it back? I really needed it on my playlists (I only use it on pc)

No. 1831970

>>1831830
my grandma found a boyfriend even at 70

No. 1832023

>>1831830
Yeah, easy. My husband's sister I'd 32 and got engaged to a 28 year old guy this year my brother is 40 and is dating someone I think a year older than him. I think the dating market gets tighter after a certain age cause people get married

No. 1832025

File: 1703794396670.jpeg (Spoiler Image,87.32 KB, 394x692, IMG_6930.jpeg)

Am I the only one who is embarrassed to NOT have pubes? Pussy shaving feels like a humiliation ritual and I never do it. If I ever did it, I don't want any moid to see me naked until the hair comes back.

Am I the only one like this? I asked this on Reddit and everyone replied that they are embarrassed to have pubes.

No. 1832027

>>1832025
Pubes are pretty on women. It’s just a little neat dark triangle. It looks so fucking weird with nothing there, it’s like a sphynx cat but ten times more cursed. They are meant to be cloaked

No. 1832030

>>1832025
literally what the fuck are you talking about? go back to reddit or lurk more here before you post again. no one is embarrassed to have pubes unless they are pubescent and you have to be 18+ to post here so that better not be you.

No. 1832034

>>1832025
Not embarassed but I do prefer shaving. I also strongly prefer men to be completely bald from the nose down so I don't think I feel this way because of female beauty standards. Actually there's few things that genuinely gross me out more than chest and leg hair on men yuck, I just hate hair in general.

No. 1832040

>>1832030
Nta but there's plenty of adult women who say that they're ashamed to let themselves be seen without a shaved pubes/bikini wax

No. 1832049

>>1832025
>Pussy shaving feels like a humiliation ritual and I never do it.
This is literally it. Most men love it because it makes you seem like a whore their eyes, knowing that you went out of your way to go through an unnatural, uncomfortable experience (shaving fully or waxing) just for the sake of his coom. It's the same reason why they like anal even though it feels worse for them than PIV sex.

No. 1832063

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is 1.65 short or average?

No. 1832067

>>1832063
It's very tall for a gnome.

No. 1832068

>>1832063
1.65 what? A bullet?

No. 1832069

>>1832025
wtf is this image kek

No. 1832073

>>1832067
woah thx nonnie
>>1832068
KEK no, obviously

No. 1832082

>>1832063
Depends on the country? I'm 160 and that's pretty average

No. 1832084

>>1831969
I'm pretty sure they changed the interface a few months ago LIKE THE RETARDS THEY ARE. it was good as it was

No. 1832085

>>1832025
I love having pubes. My body just feels right and complete with them. I’m also a lesbian though and I just love pubes on women in general. I think moids who don’t like it are weak as fuck.

No. 1832088

File: 1703801034659.jpeg (602.85 KB, 1170x907, IMG_1525.jpeg)

I don't get the connection between autism and transsexualism. can somenonnie explain?

No. 1832093

Does anyone know a good wardrobe app?

No. 1832135

>>1832088
just my (semi-informed) opinion here but a major part of autism is constant failure at matching gender norms. this is sometimes described as 'not caring about norms' which is true, but it's really a failure to conform, followed by punishment (often) and a deep desire to succeed and finally belong. it's why autistic girls have a harder time integrating, because they don't catch the subtleties of intra-female dynamics. Also why many autistic men come off as soft, girly nerds with their interests and mannerisms. if you feel deeply uncomfortable about what is expected from you since a young age, you might be more inclined to give 'the other side' a try. autistic men are more likely to develop paraphilias, which is a huge motive. i wouldn't be surprised if this was true of autistic women as well, maybe to a lesser degree. last factor has to be the fixation on gender ideology and its set of rules that may soothe some autistic genderspecials. the accumulated vexations and anxiety around being a proper man/woman would be solved by a transition process with clear rules like 'take hormones' and 'do x and y to pass'. it probably doesn't feel like a blatant lie to say 'i'm actually (x) on the inside' because autistic people already 'lie' to be accepted by peers (autistic women who 'mask', in particular)

No. 1832326

>>1831150
>>1831147
Update, I went to the er bc I couldn't get ahold of my gp. They have referred me to a neurologist to get a full check with a brain scan. Merry christmas to me.

No. 1832395

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how do i stop pining for a moid and feeling sorry for myself

No. 1832431

Why are so many more people more suicidal nowadays? It feels like suicide has become a second option rather than a last resort. It weirds me out.

No. 1832433

Do pornhub accounts delete after a few years

No. 1832437

>>1832431
Life's shittier nowadays

No. 1832456

>>1832431
Social media, shitty economy, less sleep from technology

No. 1832474

What's that word that, I think, means something like something being over the top and sounds something like graticious? Can't say for sure it really means that because I actually googled to find out what exactly it means but even google can't help me with auto-correct. I think it's used mostly negatively.

No. 1832478

>>1832474
Gratuitous?

No. 1832480

>>1832478
I think it is, thanks.

No. 1832495

Why would a moid say they had been thinking about breaking up with you for awhile, refuse to talk about what to do so save the relationship, but then beg you not to leave multiple times when you tried to go home? Was he trying to manipulate me and I called his bluff?

No. 1832502

>>1832084
>>1831969
They changed it and it fucking sucks, only good thing is that I stopped unliking my songs by accident but it still sucks.

No. 1832518

>>1832495
Who cares why. If he's confusing, frustrating, and not giving you fun and making you smile he is for the dumpster. Don't bother pondering males. Just completely disengage contact until he starts behaving, or just dump him.

No. 1832552

>>1832025
I feel this way. I have trichotillomania so I end up plucking them out anyway and then I feel a little insecure about being largely bald there, guess it's really a "grass is greener" thing. It doesn't actually matter since nobody sees me there but it feels a bit disappointing.
>>1832135
>failure at matching gender norms
My boomer dad is autistic and he's always had a bad understanding of stuff being gendered. For example once we were shopping for athletic shoes and he had a hard time telling between men's and women's shoes based on the color/design, he had to check the label and he didn't get why the pastel-colored shoes were necessarily feminine. And admittedly some of these cultural standards are relatively arbitrary so it's hard to explain "why" to someone who can't pick up on the norms.
Instead of accepting that gender norms are sort of wishy washy, it seems like some younger autistic people end up forming easy to understand but rigid and stereotyped rules to cope with not understanding. Like really taking "girls like pink, boys like blue" to heart and thus seeing themselves as closer to the opposite sex or making up custom genders to fit their personal set of traits. Saying "I fit [gender] traits, so I am [gender]" could feel more organized than grappling with being a certain sex and not relating to its gender stereotypes.

No. 1832556

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>>1831232
I need help with a spell. Bump. Please

No. 1832566

>>1831232
just let them go nonnie.

No. 1832571

>>1832556
spells aren't real. get a grip

No. 1832581

why do some posts get deleted and others get just red texted? why not also delete shit threads instead of letting them to be up in catalog?

No. 1832582

File: 1703828079675.jpeg (128.96 KB, 1134x1134, IMG_7429.jpeg)

>>1832556
Call on Amon, #7 from the Goetia. He can reconcile friendships and prompt contact from friends long gone.

No. 1832584

>>1831764
your body isnt used to the water in the new area yet

No. 1832589

File: 1703828621792.jpeg (1.43 MB, 1179x1574, IMG_7430.jpeg)

>>1832582
Also - Duke Dantalion changes minds, Seere can bring someone back to you, and Sitri is good for inspiring and/or rekindling feelings (both romantic, sexual, and platonic) in someone.

Also, here's one of my methods for thought implantation meditation, in case you don't yet know how to invoke or evoke entities. To call on an entity using this method, just recite their enn while feeling the emotions you are pushing to your target.

No. 1832593

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>>1832589
Finally, here is a blank "wish triangle" to use. Draw the demon's sigil in the middle (1), write your target's name 3 times in the space outside the triangle (2), and write your request 3 times in the outer circle(3). Print it out and put it inside your pillowcase while you sleep to send dreams of your request to your target.

(Sorry for posting so much in a row kek )

No. 1832616

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How was tom cruise pushed as conventional by the media when he's a turbo manlet? Is he the only manlet to ever reach (lol) that status? I guess there's Prince but at least Prince had talent and style

No. 1832617

>>1832616
>at least Prince had talent and style
Bingo. Same reason why Hollywood likes to shill old farts as "attractive silver foxes". It's all about makeup, the right suit and PR teams.

No. 1832619

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I saw a video where a cruise ship stopped because the captain saw a life raft floating in the middle of the sea. He I guess radioed it in and the response said that a group of people had been rescued from a life raft recently and that the raft was probably theirs, so the captain didn’t send a smaller vessel out to inspect the raft.

My question is, does it look like there’s a person under that tarp to anyone else? The tarp is there to protect people from sunburn, cold air and freezing sea water splashing on them. It looks like a body is covered by it, I can see knees, head and shoulders

No. 1832620

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>>1832619
Here’s another angle

No. 1832623

>>1832593
Schizophrenia speedrun

No. 1832625

>>1832616
Scientology

No. 1832686

>>1832326
Sorry to hear this nonna. Did they figure out what caused the numbness?

No. 1832695

Why don’t sites have ”m.website.com” adresses anymore for their mobile versions? Or not as often as they used to, anyway.

No. 1832707

>>1832695
Because web design standards changed a bit, basically the default website has to be phone accessible/responsive first, pc accessible second. Google also prioritizes website results based on if the website is phone accessible or not, which would mean that the m.site.com version of the site would be shown first, and that could be confusing for pc users. Site responsiveness is very important basically because most people access the Internet through smartphones nowadays.

No. 1832738

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Are contact lenses worth it? Please share experiences, I am considering getting them but still on the fence. My optometrist mentioned that I'm a good candidate for them (I have picrel unfortunately) but I'm wondering about the practical logistics of them. My mom tried them and quit because she said she could never get used to wearing them and they made her eyes too dry.

No. 1832795

>>1832707
Ohh, interesting, thank you anon

No. 1832875

>>1832686
No I havent gotten an appointment yet with the neurologist. When I joked that my dad said I had the same symptoms as him and he has MS the dr went real quiet though so lol hope she doesnt suspect that.

No. 1832933

>>1832875
Though if you think it's relevant again you should bring it up until it's ruled out.

No. 1832950

>>1832581
honestly the shit threads need to be put somewhere else, not deleted completely. just for remembrance and lulz

No. 1832951


No. 1832953

>>1832707
this is computerphobic

No. 1832961

>>1832589
Thanks, has it worked for you? I've read through hundreds of posts on subreddits like black magic, spells, lefthandpath etc and other forums outside reddit and found nothing useful. I did a petition spell like a week ago

No. 1832965

>>1832433
Please answer I am a dummy

No. 1832970

File: 1703854525541.jpg (66.22 KB, 735x489, 1000000406.jpg)

Is there a word for this color pattern of black white with blue eyes? Can cats have it too?

No. 1833019


No. 1833023

File: 1703859419679.jpg (25.99 KB, 650x620, 1702943209296610.jpg)

How can I get myself to feel sleepy at a reasonable time at night? I know this a common problem but I currently sleep from like 2am-8am and then again until 1pm. Even if I purposefully get myself calmed down and ready for bed earlier, I'm still tossing and turning and not getting to sleep until that time. I'll feel sleepy at 7pm or so but by the time 10pm or so comes around I'm wide awake again, same if I have a nap during the day. No screens before bed either. I know the answer is probably to pull an all nighter and make myself tired that way but any other suggestions?

No. 1833025

>>1832581
Isn't it because a post can be deleted within 30 minutes? If the mods found out about it after 30 minutes, they're probably going to lock it and red text it instead of deleting it, because it's too late.

No. 1833026

>>1833023
>pull an all nighter and make myself tired that way
I don't know why people think this works it's a very temporary fix and it's super unpleasant. It would be a better idea to go to bed at 7pm when you're naturally tired, even if it feels early. using artificial light is probably messing you up but it's hard to avoid so I won't get into that. just go to bed as soon as you feel tired.

No. 1833027

>>1833025
The mods can delete posts whenever they want, only us farmers are restricted to the 30 minutes.

No. 1833028

>>1833023
Sleeping pills

No. 1833042

>>1833023
>2am-8am and then again until 1pm
Am I misunderstanding you or are you saying you pretty much sleep 10-11 hours each day?

No. 1833043

>>1833023
Building sleep pressure is important but it might make you feel a bit crazy at first.
Set a bedtime and wakeup time that works with your usual schedule, like bedtime 10 pm and wakeup 7 am.
Go to sleep whenever youre tired, if that is 3 am then so be it BUT wake up at 7 am no matter what.
Youll loose alot of sleep at first but you will build up the sleep pressure and youll be able to go to sleep earlier and earlier.

This method literally cures sleep issues for so many ppl. Its hard but so rewarding if you can stick to it.

Sleeping pills are addictive and not reccomended for vague and longlasting issues (its more reccomended if youre having an immediate crisis/stressor).

No. 1833044

>>1833043
samfag, also try avoiding spending daytime in your bedroom if possible, never take daytime naps and DONT hangout in your bed for no reason. Bed and bedroom = sleepy time only as much as possible. It helps your mind connect bed and sleeping.

No. 1833054

Has anyone dated a qt goth guy before? What are they like?

No. 1833072

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Just wanted to know if any nonas here are into doll customization, particularly vinyl dolls or dolls with vinyl heads, and if any of you would like to share resources on what helped you get started customizing? I have read a few tutorials and watched a few videos, have a list of materials I'm looking to buy, but I'm curious to see if any nonnie would have any more advice to give or tutorials to link.
Pic for attention.

No. 1833073

>>1833042
Yes. If it isn't obvious I'm a neet with nothing to be awake for
>>1833043
This sounds like good advice. I already force myself to get up early if I do need to (like an outing) but that just causes me to want to nap in the afternoons. I'll try everything else you said.
I've tried taking melatonin but I find it does nothing most of the time, which is a shame.

No. 1833076

>>1833072
I think a lot of anons are, there's a thread on /m/

No. 1833124

>>1832619
>>1832620
Why didn’t anyone answer this, it’s scaring me

No. 1833191

>>1831818
demisexual are idon'tfuckonfirstdatesexual

No. 1833192

>>1833124
Because no one wanted to, retard

No. 1833196

>>1831830
don't believe what moids says, average 30something dudes can't go for 18 years old, they don't even speak the same language, do you imagine an older millenial with a zoomer ? where will they meet in the fist place? at school while he's the teacher ? that's gross
there are single at every age, but the older they get the more likely they are to be divorced or have kids from a past marriage tho

No. 1833226

>>1833124
Because no one felt like studying a video.

No. 1833230

Did any nonnas that participated in Erasmus student exchange have an overall bad/negative experience? I only keep hearing about how it's the best thing ever, partying and making new friends and that at the end the students don't wanna leave, so I'm interested if someone experienced the complete opposite of that.

No. 1833289

>>1833226
It’s a zoomed in screenshot what’s there to study

No. 1833291

>>1833027
>>1833025
If they can delete spam/gore, I was wondering why not also delete pointless posts from moids and unnecessary threads.

No. 1833298

>>1833230
You can google "erasmus negative experience" and stuff will pop up

No. 1833302

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>>1832619
I found the make of the life raft. It has a tent, and when dropped the tent is still somewhat erect in the corners. Pic related is what they look like after they're left behind. When in use they have roofs and propped up like a camping tent.

No. 1833314

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If you saw someone wearing a muff in public, would you think they look silly? Particularly interested in answers from American anons.

No. 1833315


No. 1833321

>>1833314
no i would think you are cool

No. 1833325

>>1833314
Woman? No.
Man? Absolutely.

No. 1833327

>>1833302
Thanks nona, that’s reassuring

No. 1833349

>>1833314
Depends on what they're wearing it with. It would have to match the outfit really well and not seem to stand out from the rest of the clothes, which might be tricky to pull off because it's such a statement piece that's front and center.

No. 1833354

File: 1703879055097.jpg (153.72 KB, 545x954, 1000012984.jpg)

>>1833314
I never saw those things IRL. Ever. But I wouldn't think it looks stupid, but I would probably wonder if you're from England, call people "dahling", and drink tea with your pinky in the air

No. 1833355

>>1833314
If you're a fabulous older woman I will in fact love you forever, other than that it really depends I mean Diana is serving here.

No. 1833357

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>>1833349
Something like this? A different hat though.

No. 1833358

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>>1833357
Samefag, or maybe something like this? I know Carrie is very eclectic but I've been thinking of how to modernize the muff. A think a flouncy, flowy skirt to match the poof of the muff could work.

No. 1833360

>>1833357
I dig that look a lot but i'm also particularly into outfits with blocky colors. this might be harder to pull off irl though

>>1833358
This looks very natural to me, I think you're right about a flowy skirt balancing it out.

No. 1833362

>>1833358
Adding a strap going over the shoulder will not only allow you to rest your arms while using your warmer but the piece will also be transformed into something more familiar, almost resembling a bag. I would definitely wear that if I were feminine.

No. 1833363

>>1833358
Walking around with a muff to keep your hands warm while your legs are bare at night looks silly at best.

No. 1833368

>>1833314
muffs are fine in cold weather as outerwear, with a jacket like pictured here on Diana
>>1833357
this looks silly. that muff is super tiny and she's not wearing enough clothes for a muff to make sense –like how cold could she be if she's just wearing a sweater? instead of looking cozy it looks awkward like her hands are tied up. I like her outfit otherwise though. she should be wearing small white gloves with fluffy trim and it would look way better.
>>1833358
this whole look is weird/eclectic enough I wouldn't think twice about the muff.

No. 1833425

Is there a crazy shit thread? Like the opposite of mundane thread where we talk about the absolutely crazy and insane shit that has happened in our lives? I like the dumbass thread, but I would like something more coherent and centered.

No. 1833453

>>1833314
Not really

No. 1833473

>>1832738
yeah, because in your case having glasses would be difficult. The different lenses needed for myopia and hyperopia makes the eyes look weird. One eye would look too big and the other eye would look too small

No. 1833477

>>1833425
i would read a greentext storytime thread but as the anon who deleted their reply for some reason said, it would get bitched about

No. 1833491

Whats the (vain bitch) redtext about

No. 1833493

>>1833491
Learn2readOPs

No. 1833494


No. 1833498

>>1833494
Learn to read OPs.

No. 1833499

>>1833498
Im retarded what are you talking about kek

No. 1833509

>>1833499
Just nevermind

No. 1833511

>>1833491
>It's not about you, you vain bitch

No. 1833514

>>1833511
Ohhh thank you for explaining that, i was wondering if it was a redtext for a specific anon or something

No. 1833517

>>1833514
nah just the standard redtext for folks who reply to other people's rants in that thread

No. 1833521


No. 1833604

What’s up with straight couples? Take any straight couple that I know more or less as people and they have just as much in common with each other as they would with any random person off the street their age meanwhile they call each other soulmates. Every time acquaintances of mine get in a relationship it feels like they just found a random and decided they can live with this and moved in together. 98% percent of the population and they settle this hard? Why??

No. 1833613

How does X thing increasing your metabolism work? Take green tea for example. You always hear it helps you losing weight, but I can't find a single explanation that tells me what happens in the body to make you lose weight. Does it increase the heart rate or something like that?

No. 1833625

>>1833613
Caffeine and little to no calories

No. 1833638

>>1833604
It's impossible to have true soulmate connection and shared interests with men, they live to coom and consoom. Most women settle for men who at least are tolerable and aren't too shameful to be around.

No. 1833640

>>1833613
compounds in green tea may increase thermogenesis and other medical jargon stuff related to metabolism and weight loss. it doesn't work the same on everyone and is dependent on the person and sometimes the effects are really overblown but research shows it can make a difference. Here's a study where they gave high-dose green tea extract to obese women https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26093535/
and one where they gave green tea to diabetes patients
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3908530/
>Epidemiological surveys have provided evidence that heavy GT (green tea) drinking populations like the Japanese have a lower risk of T2DM[10] as also lower mortality rates of coronary heart disease (CHD).[11] Green tea extract, rich in EGCG, has a beneficial effect on glucose control and weight management[12,13,14,15] and it has hypotensive effects[16] (1) GT catechins have been shown to stimulate thermogenesis,[17] hepatic β-oxidation,[18,19] and hypolipidemic activity by decreasing the intestinal absorption of lipids.

No. 1833642

>>1833604
Because that's generally how it is. People are throwing shit at the wall and seeing what sticks. You can trick yourself into thinking you're in love relatively easily by having sex, being intimate, doing literally anything together, telling secrets, etc. Of course that's not the case for every single person alive, but yeah it's kind of lame.

No. 1833644

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>>1833613
samefag again but picrel paragraph is informative if you don't want to read all the studies I linked here >>1833640

No. 1833648

>>1833604
Most people are afraid of real intimacy and either run away or just never get deep enough to experience it. Most scrotes will run away from the real connections they have with women and then spend years with women they think are just ‘good enough’. Honestly in some ways it is easier to settle because if things end you really don’t lose that much versus actually have to admit you could lose the real love of your life someday. I think it’s really telling in my own experience that the moids I had really special connections with got scared and ran and the moids who barely asked me any questions about myself wanted to marry me.

No. 1833649

>>1833604
Because people are scared of being alone. They would rather be with someone who hates them and who they hate rather than face the fear of being alone and having to settle reflect on themselves. This isn't just straight people by the way, this is everyone.

No. 1833657

>>1833604
Being with someone is pushed 24/7 and now is getting necessary finance wise.
Alsoalotofstraightwomendon'twanttofacewhatmalesaretrulylike but don't tell them I said that, they won't invite me to coffee anymore otherwise.

No. 1833658

>>1833648
>Most scrotes will run away from the real connections they have with women
Scrotes also do this because they know they're not good enough. They'd rather "settle" for some poor woman who has low standards who tolerates anything he does, even though he doesn't love her, over his dream woman who has to work for. This is why women should never have low standards and unconditionally love a moid, because a man who doesn't toil, struggle, and sacrifice for you is settling.

No. 1833666

How do you prevent food and ice from tasting like freezer and fridge? Baking soda?

No. 1833675

>>1833666
I just cover things or put em in a ziplock. Seems to work.

No. 1833686

>>1833666
airtight containers and not keeping them in there too long. also check your fridge and freezer temps becuase if they're too high or low it will mess up your food (and can be unsafe obviously if too warm)

No. 1833755

My sister is zoomer and obsessed with Steven Crowder. Can someone explain pls.

No. 1833808

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how the fuck do i stop being so impatient with my mom? she's kinda slow on the uptake and sometimes her thought processes aren't logical at all/outright stupid and i always get so annoyed with her. it's not like she ever says anything about it but i feel bad for being so easily irritated when she doesn't understand what i want from her.

No. 1833821

>>1833808
Take a chill pill.

No. 1833934

>>1833808
Some of the things you guys say about your mom makes me want to hug my mom and she was really abusive lol

No. 1833956

>>1833808
it's normal to feel frustrated if you're trying to communicate with someone and they don't understand. but you never know what's going on with someone. i dunno if you've ever been sick in a way that impacted your cognitive function. i'm not trying to worry you about you mom, it could be stress, lack of sleep, heavy mental load, grief, etc. that is impacting her cognition so have some grace.

No. 1833960

>>1833956
samefag, i wanted to add "you could easily find yourself in the same position" but it won't let me delete

No. 1833999

I went down the asianmasculinity/ricecel rabbit hole.

How many asian men are seething incels like that behind their polite facade? I was honestly a little heartbroken seeing that stuff, because I thought they were more Nigel-minded, based on how I seen them at college.

No. 1834006

>>1833999
is it mostly mixed asian dudes? the most incel-ly attitudes I've ever seen only seem to come from hapas. majority of asians seem sane

No. 1834011

>>1833999
>I thought they were more Nigel-minded
why would you ever think that? don't you know how sexist asian cultures can be?

No. 1834021

>>1834006
nta but korean men are turbo incels as well, though idk if western raised ones are different.

No. 1834035

>>1833363
You can just wear fleece tights

No. 1834039

>>1834021
I dated multiple koreans and never had anything like that happen, at least something obvious to me. the worst moids i ever dated were mixed

No. 1834048

>>1828197
Super late but nonna there's much more to growing up than just your bra size or height. Just because you were never petite/skinny does not mean you looked like an adult and that men were justified in their pedophilia. I can promise you even at the same height, there's a big difference between a 14 girl and an adult woman.

>>1828236
>My body is totally different now because of fitness and lifestyle however, and I worked really hard.
Pls pls nonna explain what you did.

No. 1834067

>>1833604
How do you know gay couples have more in common? They all have the same personality and hobbies as their partners? It's common to meet people through your hobbies but it's not a requirement at all to have fun or the same lifestyle/goals. How can you judge if acquaintances of yours have chemistry? Don't get me wrong I am aware that a lot of people in a relationship are miserable but it's not that easy to determine who is.

No. 1834077

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has anyone who's started or restarted on lamotrigane experienced weird side effects? I'm not having the dreaded rash but I'm dealing with increased itchiness, acne and salivation. I've also lost a little weight which is a surprise

I was on it for awile, went cold turkey because poor for about two and a half years and just started back on, I'm almost up to 100mg and may dose up further.

I need this for my bipolar and other disorder trifecta quad or else I will go crazy

No. 1834082

>>1834077
You do know lamotrigine is extremely dangerous to quit cold turkey right? I hope you're at least upping the dosage really slowly. Itchiness sounds a bit worrying, definitely keep close eye on your skin.
I had major nausea, double vision and short term memory loss when I started it personally. Nausea caused me to lose weight cause I couldn't eat anything for two weeks without feeling like I'll throw up.

No. 1834083

File: 1703923893841.png (1.27 MB, 1379x853, Screenshot_20231230_025845_Gal…)

Is there a name for my type of keyboard and how do I use the alternate keys? For example, how would I get the § from the O key if shift just switches between o and O? Ctrl, Fn, Alt, and AltCar don't work.

No. 1834099

>>1834082
I quit it a couple years ago because I had no insurance and was poor, nobody would help me get the money I needed either. I am better off now. I learned quitting was not the best idea and had a wild two and a half years. Needless to say i will never do that again

I've been on it about a month and a half now resuming. Doc has upped the dosage gradually. I just don't remember having these side effects a few years ago, probably cuz I was used to taking it

No. 1834104

Why are homeless men always talking to themselves in a crude way?

No. 1834110

I used to binge and purge most days for years and no one ever knew. I told a friend recently that I was Bulimic, and she asked if I was diagnosed. I always thought of myself as bulimic, but now I don't know, does bulimia have to diagnosed ?

No. 1834122

File: 1703932019690.jpg (232.01 KB, 1080x1350, 1000000216.jpg)

Could being irrationally exhausted to the point of being unable to do anything save for lying in bed after a day of work (an office job that everyone else finds easy) be a sign of autistic burnout? Or is it normal?

No. 1834129

>>1834077
My bf took this for a while and he reported the same symptoms (except for the acne). He developed the rash eventually so he had to stop. Be careful anon

No. 1834139

Are postage shipping centers still busy/recovering from the holidays?

No. 1834140

>>1832040
Yes, and those women are retarded handmaidens. This pickme thought perfectly dove tails with >>1832049.

No. 1834143

>>1834077
I did well on this medication but got the dreaded rash. It appeared all over my chest. It didn’t itch or anything but my doctor figured it wasn’t a good sign and I had to be taken off it. I’m bipolar too and have tried a lot of stuff. I’m on trileptal now and it works fine.
The tricky thing moid stabilizers is a lot of thing cause weight gain and lamictal doesn’t which why it’s always chosen first to try out.

No. 1834144

>>1834143
Samefag oops I meant mood stabilizers not moid lmal

No. 1834170

>>1834039
American Korean? Raised outside of Korea? Native Korean men seem to be insanely misogynistic.

No. 1834238

what the hell is transmac

No. 1834270

>>1834238
A word women (usually gender nonconforming, self-hating, lesbian) refer to themselves with when they want to larp as men.

No. 1834283

>>1833314
I mean california, yes. Alaksa, no

No. 1834305

>>1834006
Hapas exist because an evil male purchased a mail-order bride. They're miserable creatures.(racebait)

No. 1834356

How did Noelle Stevenson jump from tunblr artist and web comic artist to working in professional network?

No. 1834374

I just tasted lychee fruits and I found out that some sources say they're toxic? But some say they're good? Are they bad or not?

No. 1834405

>>1834374
As far as I know they're delicious tropical fruit when they're ripe. I looked it up and it sounds like a risk for children if eaten in large quantities or unripe.

No. 1834427

what would be the opposed of Trve ? can't think of a way to kvltify the word "fake" other than just saying it in a scandi language kek

No. 1834431

>>1834356
Job connections?

No. 1834437

>>1834122
Even normies get burnt out sometimes. Even if it's not mentally taxing, I think the grind of going to work or school everyday can be hard. It can be harder on autistic people if their job has a large social aspect (when compared to average social people), but I think burnout is super common. Wish I had advice for how to deal with it.

No. 1834442

>>1834427
fåke?

No. 1834478

>>1834442
but then that would be read foake/fohke KEK. an umlaut would be better, sort of… for the time being i'll just go with the scandi translations until something better comes up

No. 1834506

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speaking of incels, does the "cock carousel" concept have any basis in reality? if not, how and why did it become such a big thing in incel/rp/manosphere circles?

No. 1834509

>>1834506
Moids are pervs and project a lot

No. 1834512

How do you know a man is not only attracted to you but also genuinely interested in you and likes you as a person and it's actually worthy to invest time into dating him vs he only wants fwb? I've never been in a relationship and I've seen so many videos from young women who dated men who treated them so well, kissed them on the forehead, hold hands and shit and then they said they didn't want anything serious and weren't intrested in a relationship and simply bailed out and left those women heartbroken. I'm paranoid

No. 1834516

>>1834506
They just assume that any woman not sleeping with them must be sleeping with 50 other men instead.

No. 1834520

>>1834506
Or the idea that all western women have huge body counts and are just fucking every guy when they get a chance (but are also somehow too picky). Where does this even come from? I don't know any women who have had a body count above 3-5, the closest women im friends with dont even go above 2-3, and the women I do know who sleeps around aren't doing it with super hot gigachads they're usually doing it with uggos so shouldn't moids be happy women are giving ugly men a chance of low effort sex?

No. 1834522

>>1834520
They probably get the idea from their porn and their own wish to fuck a billion women before marriage if able to do so.

No. 1834622

I've been so nauseous and I've ran out of one of my prenatal tablets.
Do I pay the $14 shipping to get it today or just try to power through feeling sick and walk down to the chemist (15-20 minute walk away).
I've slept over 12 hours but still feel so tired.

No. 1834649

>>1834512
I wish I had some practical advice nona, but I think the best time to find a relationship is when you're not really looking. All my bfs started out as hook-ups where I felt like I could take them or leave them, basically a true fwb situation where I didn't catch feels, but this is hard because you can't always control how you are going to feel about someone. Whenever I've had crushes and tried to pursue a guy I start acting low-key unhinged which will scare a guy or encourage him to take advantage of you, whereas my emotional unavailability and indifference makes the moid chase me instead. It's a stupid reverse psychology thing that works on both genders btw. Being nice but at the same time a bit stand-offish gives me the opportunity to be more selective with which moid I deem worthy of dating and I commit emotionally once they make the move. It's blossomed into great relationships later on. Basically don't do fwb with someone if there is a risk of catching feels.

No. 1834654

>>1834506
>does the "cock carousel" concept have any basis in reality?
Do you mean, "do the allegations manosphere moids make about women having high 'body counts' have a basis in reality?"

No. Not really. All of the normal women in my life had, as others have said, max 5 or 6 partners (I'm in my late 20s). It's only in strange online spaces like LC, /soc/, 4chan discords that you find huge numbers of women with 30+ body counts being a normalized thing.

My theory is that e-moids interact exclusively with unhinged e-girl 'nerdy girls' on places like 4chan, discord, parts of reddit etc and this ends up becoming their baseline expectation for what all women are like. Fun fact, Japanese pop culture is like honey to borderlines. That's why I think this correlation exists.

No. 1834658

>>1834654
Also, the moids who do this have only themselves to blame. They could if they had a backbone and an ounce of courage try to meet normal women in normal social situations, or through friends of friends etc. But they like interacting with these broken women because it's easy sex/nudes for them.

No. 1834677

What are some easy jobs that pay at least 30 dollars an hour with minimal interaction with people? I need to figure out what I wanna go to school for

No. 1834686

>>1834677
USPS city mail delivery (after 12 years — it starts at like $19 but no school required and recession proof so it’s better than college)
I should add it depends on your definition of “easy” and exactly how little interaction you’re looking for. Lot of them just clock in clock out don’t have to talk much unless you do. destroys their knees or back by the time they’re old but that’s everything

No. 1834689

>>1834654
When I had Facebook, normie women would talk about their count all the time and every single one was over 30+.
One was bragging how she had 3 "dick appointments" in one night.
I guess I don't really interact with other women outside of here at all really more so idk about discord egirls

No. 1834690

>>1834689
>One was bragging how she had 3 "dick appointments" in one night.
People don't talk like this on facebook, this sounds like you made it up.

No. 1834693

>>1834689
Facebook isn’t real nonny

No. 1834702

>>1834689
Like in what groups? I refuse to believe they were talking about dick appts on their feeds. And this is from a "slut" with a bodycount of 14 yeah I'll meme about dick appts in the groupchat but not where randoms could see

No. 1834707

>>1834689
Wtf, not to be rude but do you live in a trashy area? I literally don't know any women irl who have a hobby count higher than like 12

No. 1834719

>>1834690
You can believe that all you want, but I read it with my own eyes. She literally wrote dick appointment.
>>1834693
That's true
>>1834702
It was from one called "girls advice".
>>1834707
I live in aus but the demographic in that group seemed to be 16-25y.o single women.
Alot asking for advice on men and situations that are just straight up retarded and toxic.
I think the group was international but had a big Australian userbase

No. 1834728

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>>1834719
I revived my old Facebook account to check the group, it was called "the ladies room" and I searched dick appointment and many old posts came up. Seems like the group has been abandoned now. Can post more for proof

No. 1834739

>>1834689
>>1834728
But you have to assume a group/post like that selects for women who sleep around, girls who don't wouldn't be interested in talking about dick appointments at all let alone on their personal profile with a bunch of strangers.

No. 1834748

That's true, but there were other advice posts outside of men and sex. I was posting to show "normie" women I've seen have been way bigger sluts than discord online women that I've seen.
Obviously posts asking about sex get women who talk about their sex lives.

No. 1834751

What’s it like being extremely pretty? Are there any downsides like people say or is “pretty privilege” a huge thing like everyone makes it out to be?

No. 1834758

I'm using waterslide paper to make a DIY Bday present of fake tattoo's, is there any tips other than the usual print pic, cut out, wet on skin method that can make it look better?

No. 1834760

>>1834748
I've yet to meet a normal woman who thought it was a good idea to drive hundreds of miles to meet up with crusty internet moids, not even to have a relationship with mind, just gross fetish sex. On imageboards they're ten a penny. Explain that.

No. 1834767

>>1834760
Instead those women go clubbing and fuck dudes who talk to them and buy them drinks..
Same same but different.

No. 1834768

>>1834758
Are you the nona who's giving her brother fake tattoos of his gf because he always buys her gifts that are based around himself? Lol

No. 1834769

>>1834767
No one goes clubbing to fuck random men anymore. Hasn't been a thing for like ten years or more.

No. 1834770

What kind of people do you know..? Everybody around me has a lifetime bodycount of 1-3.

No. 1834771

>>1834769
But they are nona.. idk what to tell you. Tinder and club hook up culture still has a strong hold on society

No. 1834773

>>1834770
I don't personally know them, I just used to observe them without interacting like those groups. I've tried making friends through Bumble friends and 90% of the conversation is clubbing and hookup stuff which I dont relate to or care to talk about. Even when I swipe friends on women that don't "look" that type, just humble nice average girls still are wrapped up in it.
I just want friends to paint and go hiking with.

No. 1834789

Who even fucking cares about "body count", this isn't r9k.

No. 1834797

>>1834768
… yes, they got me really good fun gifts for my day so I'm trynna be fun with it.

No. 1834805

>>1834789
The only body count that anyone should worry about is the body count of a serial killer tbh.

No. 1834907

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>>1834506
It’s fake bullshit men made up by men because of their stupid Madonna whore fetishes.
Men want women to fuck like sluts but be innocent and virginal at the same time. This has been a cultural phenomenon for centuries. The best way to get through life is to ignore men and never listen to any observations they make about women because 9/10 they’re wrong.

No. 1834942

>>1834512
don't have sex early on, don't chase him/act clingy early on, and only allow "girlfriend treatment" from him (once you passed the talking stage). i'm not saying it's the only way to get in a serious relationship, but if your fear is to get used for sex or dumped quickly then it should help. a lot of men act sweet until they get what they want from you, usually sex or short-term companionship. if a man says he's not sure what he's looking for, then he's not trying to find anything serious. if he's not making real efforts to impress you/keep you interested, then he's probably not that interested either. i don't know about the women you mentioned but i've had friends with similar experiences and they were always in "no label" and "let's see where it goes" situationships, hoping that the guy would make up his mind at some point. you should avoid a lot of these men if you only entertain men looking for a serious relationship, with actions that match their words (beyond just kissing you on your forehead and holding hands), men who are not afraid to talk about you/introduce you to their friends/parents etc. now of course i know that realistically, if you're getting closer to some guy you met organically, it's not always possible to know where its gonna go. it's also a matter of feelings and intuition at this point, even if we can never know someone's intentions for sure..

No. 1834943

>>1834942
>don't have sex early on
I could never do that, but even my female colleagues tell me it's laughable to wait for sex for a few months (at least) and tell me I will never stop being a virgin with this mindset. It's sad that even women endorse this worldview. Thanks for the advice though.

No. 1834954

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So, you can have a perineum stretching massage before giving birth.
Could you get a really thick dildo and stretch it close to 10cm and use it daily when you're like a month away from giving birth so the baby doesn't rip your taint?
Serious question by the way, I'm not memeing

No. 1834960

>>1834943
nta but
>even my female colleagues tell me it's laughable to wait for sex for a few months (at least) and tell me I will never stop being a virgin with this mindset.

common advice leads to common outcomes. don't worry about them. my fiancee had no problem waiting for many months, until I was comfortable. use their madonna/whore complex against them and they will either take themselves to the dumpster or admire you as an nlog (so be it).
another thing is the ones who are serious will lock you down as their official gf asap and tell their friends/family. low quality men will leave you confused and frustrated, simple as.

and finally, NEWFAGS USE THE /g/ RELATIONSHIP THREAD, don't be afraid to click on other boards, use the catalog, and ctrl + f

No. 1834961

>>1834954
your a genius you solved world birth

No. 1834962

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Anons who eat raw meat….how do you get yourself to do it? No, I don't mean like just eating sushi, I mean straight up raw meat. How can your body handle that? Are human bodies more resilient than I thought? I mean shit, everybody is always too scared of spores to even eat moldy bread or food that's been sitting out for an hour. So to any anon that straight up eats raw meat, how do you never get sick?

No. 1834964

>>1834962
It has to be fresh like the reindeer in your pic, it was probably just killed moments before. I wouldn't eat raw meat from the store where I have no idea where it came from and whose shitty hands touched it. Also never eat raw meat from pigs or carnivores, you'll get nasty parasites.

No. 1834966

>>1834954
So yes, unironically stretching before birth can help prevent tearing. Of course, it's not a guarantee either way but studies have shown you can actually stretch your muscles in preparation.

No. 1834970

>>1834964
Ooooohhh okay, thanks nona!

No. 1834974

>>1834961
Is that a yes

No. 1834977

I don't understand why the aids epidemic is so sad. Isn't it just because some gay moids couldn't stop fucking

No. 1834982

>>1832093
https://www.saveyourwardrobe.com/
There are probably better ones but I like this one. It's free and it has a feature that's really good at removing the background of photos you take and lets you group clothes together into seasons, outfits, moods, etc. Plus if you're a britbong it also seems to link with local businesses that can repair clothing. It's an eco app in mind so no sketchy business behind it too. But that means there isn't say, a collage feature for outfits like I've seen, nor a huge catalogue of items but it does the job well.
>>1834039
I think a factor is their parents and why they left. If they were well educated in their home countries and left for a better/different life and are able to get citizenship, they'll likely raise better kids. Also the intense study schedule leaves you with no time for friends so less male socialization I suppose kek
>>1834083
They're probably accent keys so you'd need to switch the language of your keyboard on your operating system. Assuming you cannot access the é at the bottom either it's definitely the language. Changing to french or spanish should give you access to them. But changing the language to access accents means that the other keys switch around so if you need that special character you're better off learning the shortcuts for them instead. Here are alt-codes which use the numpad numbers https://sites.psu.edu/symbolcodes/windows/codealt/ and here are some windows shortcuts without the numpad https://support.microsoft.com/en-au/office/keyboard-shortcuts-for-international-characters-108fa0c1-fb8e-4aae-9db1-d60407d13c35. I'd recommend investing in a keyboard and learning alt-codes personally. laptop keyboards ruin your wrists over time. even a 10$ simple one is better

No. 1834987

>>1834977
Over 100,000 people died and
>85.6 million [64.8 million–113.0 million] people have become infected with HIV and 40.4 million [32.9 million–51.3 million] people have died from AIDS-related illnesses since the start of the epidemic.

No. 1834991

>>1834982
I am the laptop asker and you're right, it turns out to be a mixed US English + Canadian French keyboard. Thanks for answering!

No. 1835066

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This image was posted in the TIF thread. Why do most side to side comparisons I've seen draw women with legs closer together while men have legs further apart? Is there an actual reason for this?
Also people often tell me I walk and stand like a man, what do they mean?

No. 1835069

>>1835066
I assume because they have balls. like manspreading while standing literally cause they have danglies in the way.
as for masculine stance, same. it's like standing straight instead of favouring one leg? jusyt guessing. might have to do with where you place your hands if you put them on your hips. I'm curious, do elaborate. I stand like a flamingo with one knee bent and foot resting on the other knee like a retard if it makes you feel any better. I have to stop myself at work kek

No. 1835074

>>1835066
>>1835069
What do you think about this video?

No. 1835093

What the fuck is it that causes certain kinds of gay men to be weirdly obsessed with real housewives to the point that they only use middle aged women as reaction images and videos online, consuming their lives. Is it autism. Weirdest brand of autism possible.

No. 1835095

>>1835066
I think it has to do with pelvis shape, women have a bit of tilt that brings legs together more. But pics are usually exaggerated and it has to do with masculine/feminine pose.

No. 1835184

>>1835093
its the same kind of autism that makes some gay men become trannies

No. 1835185

what was the name of that brunette male actor that progressively looks more and more like a lesbian as he gets older?

No. 1835192

>>1835185
Edward furlong?

No. 1835200

>>1835192
not him. he looked more 'ellen'-esque

No. 1835239

>>1835185
eddie redmayne? lol

No. 1835240

>>1835239
yes, him! ty nonny

No. 1835272

What happens when you get banned? Can you still lurk or are you banned from viewing the boards altogether?

No. 1835274

>>1835272
You can still lurk, you just can't post while the ban is active.

No. 1835281

>>1835272
>>1835274
Unless you get perma banned, then you can only lurk on mirrored LC

No. 1835290

>>1835281
but it can still be visible on any browser incognito mode. but you won't be able to post.

No. 1835294

Anons, do YOU think of drunk drivers as 100% pieces of shit? Checked the comments of this video, and found people actually empathizing with the drunk driving scrote who killed a woman's unborn baby girl twins. Being drunk does mess up your mind and decision making, I understand that part….but what I don't get about drunk drivers is; why choose to drink so much alcohol when you KNOW you have to make a drive back home?

No. 1835299

>>1835294
I've always seen the most vicious condemnation of drunk drivers (the general idea) on the internet. They're sympathizing this time because a male face has been put to it and he's crying on camera for them

No. 1835304

>>1835281
I was once permabanned and this never happened to me, wtf? I was still able to lurk lc.

No. 1835305

>>1835274
>>1835281
>>1835290
Oh that's interesting. Thank you nonnas! Happy new 2024!

No. 1835311

>>1835294
>why choose to drink so much alcohol when you KNOW you have to make a drive back home?
really, you can injure/kill someone after only 1 drink. the question for me is why bars are allowed to still exist anymore when we know drunk driving is such an issue. bars should eliminate parking at the very least, it would encourage the average person to uber it

No. 1835320

>>1835294
I think drunk drivers should have their hands and feet removed

No. 1835323

>>1835311
That would discourage designated drivers too. Maybe they need people monitoring the carpark and breathalyzing on the spot.

There's really no excuse though, my country has been inundated with anti drink driving campaigns for as long as I can remember. If you don't have the foresight to plan ahead, you're an absolute hopeless case who simply doesn't mind committing dangerous crimes when convenient. Everyone knows what the consequences of not having a lift back is.

No. 1835326

>>1835323
its disturbing how many people just straight up dont care. so glad i no longer need to be driven anywhere by my dad anymore. he would literally stop by a package store while we were out so that he could have a ~road beer~ an no amount of guilt or anger could make him think what he's doing was wrong

No. 1835334

Why does instagram suggest “threads” to me from whiny incels and insanely liberal people? It’s like instagram can tell I’m female so I must want to see these retarded posts about masculinity and family values. “Feminism set modern women up for failure.” “It’s ok to be white.” “Y’all folks need to educate yourself on marginalized groups fam.” I fucking hate it. Just show me pictures of fluffy cows and snarky non-political humor for gods sake.

No. 1835338

>>1835334
Social media purposely instills algorithms for creating internet fights to keep people addicted to their phones

No. 1835341

>>1835334
I just got tranny shit on mine when I opened it a while ago. Awful.

No. 1835349

Anyone cried yesterday?I did I feel so stupid that I did

No. 1835350

>>1835349
Nah, but crying makes me feel kind of better.

No. 1835351

If someone is genuinely attractive but they believe they're average or unattractive, is it better to avoid compliments about their appearance altogether? Would it just make them uncomfortable?

No. 1835387

>>1835334
i either see "respecting pronouns is so easy guys, there's no excuse not to do it" or "women over 70 kilos should kill themselves" garbage. i barely touch the app anymore because of this.

No. 1835433

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>>1835338
>>1835387
They’re going to unintentionally kill social media with this stupid bs and it’s for the best honestly. No normal well adjusted person wants to argue with other people all the time about mundane meaningless crap. This is what I get recommended. Racial discourse bullshit with a sprinkle of gay.

No. 1835457

>>1835351
Idk, when people say I'm attractive I always think they're doing it out of pity, I have strong body dysmorphia and nothing people say will change my mind

No. 1835470

>>1835349
Everyday the last week. It’s cathartic.

No. 1835480

What country are you from and how often do the kids throw tantrums there, at what age do you think its unacceptable by, and how much do they get disciplined?

No. 1835489

>>1835480
idk I'm not a mother

No. 1835498

>>1835480
southwest burger, guaranteed tantrum if you see them in a restaurant, no discipline these days it's like parents don't even notice the tantrums anymore. i think it's unacceptable at any age when a parent doesn't take their child outside to let them calm down. idk maybe by five the kid themselves should know better? but i never see parents teaching their kids around here to use their words or find ways to deal with their feelings, so idk why the kid would know better.

No. 1835520

>>1835480
>>1835498
I don't think kids should be beaten or yelled at (like, overly harshly) but sometimes I see a kid that looks too old to be acting like that and think more discipline needs to be put in place kek. I hate to see a parent absolutely losing their shit at their kids, but all the parents I've witnessed doing the soft "feel your feelings, do what you want" parenting style always have the most uncontrollable children.

No. 1835543

>>1835520
honestly the kind of discipline that works well but i never see these days is immediate consequences. like "okay, we can't shout in the coffee shop, so we're going outside." "we can't go inside until you stop shouting, and if we stay outside all day we won't have enough time to get cake before we go home". but that requires parents not to lose their shit at their kids or give into the tantrum and most parents I've met don't have the kind of emotional regulation themselves to set boundaries and keep composure like that.

No. 1835575

There is a methhead in my family and all she does is sleep, and go to the casino. I thought it’s supposed to make you energetic. Is she dying?

No. 1835663

Anyone here an actress? I was into it a bit in high school and am in my senior year of college and want to do it again. Wondering if anyone has tips on where to find projects outside of school

No. 1835664

>>1835663
(And also how to get over myself and not be so nervous getting started again)

No. 1835693

>>1835575
Comedown

No. 1835709

>>1835693
Even like right after doing it all she does is sit in her dirty ass room and watch movie on her laptop and eat nothing but junk. At most she just does her makeup

No. 1835716

>>1835709
i relate

No. 1835775

>>1835663
Local theater maybe? If you have a real arthouse type where you live and have people on board, you could try pitching a show for a future season. Or maybe just some classes if they're offered near you would be good to try.

No. 1835782

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i hate the holidays. I didn't like the time i spent with my family in christmas and i'm not liking nye either, everything is so shit
what do i do to actually enjoy the night? help

No. 1835795

>Apply for job, don't hear anything for a month
>Book flights to see family early Dec (6th-17th)
>Get call for interview for job I applied for a month and a bit ago, tell him over the phone I'm away for 2 weeks leading up to Christmas
>He says that's fine we've already done the roster, come in for interview
>Go in for interview, get the job, remind him again that I'm away for 2 weeks, he says its fine
>While visiting family (10th Dec) a different manager texts me saying to do X task on their website. Website has a horrible design, cant find where hes meaning to do the task
>Ask him if he could link where to do the task, he texts back just the link to a complete different website, ok sure odd no wonder I couldn't find it
>Do task, message him to say I've done task, no response
>Arrive back home, wait until after Christmas to contact.
>Sent him a text 4 days ago telling him I'm back and able to work, but I don't have a roster log in so I'm unable to check when I'm meant to work and if he could assist me with that as its not something I can do on my end
>No reply

I know I'm retarded but what's the etiquette here?
Do I call the store and ask on the phone for him to help me access my roster or when I am to work?
Do I send another text?
The only reason why I have text is because that's how that manager contacted me instead of calling.
Bonus question: I'm 7 weeks pregnant, when do I tell them I'm pregnant?
I was going to wait until after 15 weeks, or until I show. I've been hired casual.
I've worked for the same company 2 years ago, but never under male managers and him ignoring my asking for help makes me nervous about the workplace as a whole.

No. 1835797

>>1835782
Just do something you like, like watch a show you like or play a game. Are you forced to spend time with your family? If not you don't really have to do anything special.

No. 1835812

>>1835782
eat a little treat

No. 1835879

Does anybody know when Steam is supposed to stop working for Windows 7? It's first of January for me already, and it's still working, but I've also did what was advised in the video game thread back when the news first broke, so I'm not sure if it's actually working or if it's simply hasn't been carried out yet.

No. 1836451

American anons, can you tell whether someone is Asian-American by their voice alone? This is not a malicious question, I'm trying to see if something is true.

No. 1836457


No. 1836461

>>1836451
No, but there is a specific male voice (very soft-tone, no discernible regional accent/neutral American accent, hard to describe other than bland and soft) that I've only heard from adult Asian-American men under 60 years old. But I'm sure there's other guys with that voice quirk, just haven't personally encountered them yet.

No. 1836468

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Nonas, what do you think this controversial (on lolcow) actor’s sexual orientation is, and is your opinion of him positive or negative (and why)? I’m curious about something

I think he’s straight and I hate him

No. 1836472

>>1836468
I don't know who this is but he looks like he only jerks off in the mirror

No. 1836473

>>1836468
I think he's bi but also likes to kick puppies.
I don't like him.

No. 1836480

>>1836472
It’s Cillian Murphy, and yeah he does look like that

No. 1836485

>>1836451
I actually usually can. They enunciated a little differently because of the way their parents talk is my theory.

No. 1836493

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Can a man be a good person and… also an online troll??? I check my boyfriend’s history regularly and no pornhub no cheating no onlyfans.. (i’ll confess under diress that he does like normalfag anime shit on twitter though.) and he fights with people on discord all the time and calls them fat retarded pedophiles etc

No. 1836497

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Cillian looks like Count Olaf there

No. 1836499

>>1836493
> he fights with people on discord all the time and calls them fat retarded pedophiles
Kek. I think someone can be a drama queen or kind of troll like and still be a good person, it depends completely on the type of trolling

No. 1836504

>>1836493
kek this question makes me laugh. FWIW I know a man who's very loving to his family and espouses a positive view of women but he likes infighting with other men online over dumb stuff. not even in an alog-y way, just because he has autism and thinks it's amusing I guess. Getting genuinely heated and aggressive would be a red flag imo

No. 1836523

>>1836468
straight, there's many things that suggest he cheated on his wife with sienna miller. i wouldn't be surprised if he cheated with (or at least had the desire to) other women as well, there's just a feeling i get with the way he praises certain movies..
i don't like him either even before knowing all of that because i was tired of seeing his dried prune face everywhere

No. 1836526

>>1836493
your boyfriend is spiritually a farmer

No. 1836536

>>1836493
I think it’s cute when a guy fights other scrotes in private and not like performative virtue signaling on social media
>I check my boyfriend’s history regularly
Based

No. 1836609

Why do IV drug users sometimes lick the spot they just shot up in? I'm binging the show intervention and I am seeing it constantly. The person will be shooting up and after they're done injecting they will go and lick the spot. Is it just to clean up blood or something?

No. 1836621

>>1836609
Just out of sheer hope you're getting a very tiny kickback of smack with the blood

No. 1836697

>>1834270
how is that any different to enbies? they just keep putting themselves into smaller and smaller boxes lmao

No. 1836711

>>1836493
does he fight with men or women?

No. 1836743

Is it precious of me to expect fresh pasta at a restaurant that is solely based around pasta??? yes the sauce was nice but that shit was regular ass dried grocery store pasta.

No. 1836744

how do i get over my fear of the dentist thinking i'm disgusting? it's been years of this, i don't go because i'm so nervous and then things just get worse. same with the dermatologist. i feel like i'll be humiliated in some way when i go.

No. 1836759

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What face shape is this? Sorry if it looks tarded, the original photo was at an angle and I can't draw kek. I was thinking oval but it seems too sharp and angular for that. Possibly heart but it's too long for that, so idk.

No. 1836794

>>1836759
I think heart shaped.

No. 1836894

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please I am genuinely sorry to ask for spoonfeeding but does anyone remember that nona who said that us asking the sanic totem would turn him into a real entity/god as we are technically all praying to him?
side note even typing that makes me appreciate how unhinged this place is.

No. 1836900

>>1836894
I remember it but I don’t have a screenshot sorry. It’s probably in a dumbass thread lol

No. 1836904

Is it normal that my joints make a clicking sound almost every time I move? I've read about people with some disorder having a similar phenomenon and this confused me. I never had any injuries related to joints, why does this happen?

No. 1836913

>>1836904
Sorry for the lame answer but some people just have clicky joints, it's hereditary. I've had them since I was a kid and was sad that I couldn't sneak around the house because my ankles clicked when I walk kek

No. 1836920


No. 1836925

>>1836900
yes I'm NOT insane ty nona
>>1836920
oldfag so I have no excuse tbh thank you. I use duckduckgo and I have safesearch off and it's actually put me off looking things up. the "looking for authentic sources" for my tinfoils really backfired lmao
ty nona genuinely though

No. 1836926

>>1836913
I've never heard anyone else in my family have that though.

No. 1836936

>>1836926
>>1836913
if it helps maybe it's an EDS thing. and not in the taylor dean way. know we hate nigel talk and I'm sorry but my nigel snaps crackles and pops because of EDS. how are your teeth? maybe look into EDS, otherwise I walways got told to "stretch" it out and it seems like regressive boomer advice but sometimes it works.
is there a particular spot that does it or is it all over? if it's all over and you're not used to it go to a doctor. if not recalibrate, getting old fucking sucks but it could just be getting decrepit.
if it helps I'm on the bad hip train and I'm 30 kek

No. 1837036

>>1836936
(same jointfag)
It's almost in every joint. Not painful, just noisy and weird. I'm not even 25, so it's not about getting old. I just want to know why does this happen.
Isn't "EDS" the munchie "disease"? I'm not a munchie, I wouldn't go to a doctor for some weird sound from joints. I have bad and ugly teeth, but how is that relevant to joints?

No. 1837059

why have I met so many mentally ill finnish people online? Isn't their country nice? It doesn't make sense to me

No. 1837060

>>1837059
in places where they get 3 hrs of daylight in the winter and no sleep in the summer everyone's a little off

No. 1837061

>>1837059
It's because normal people aren't terminally online.

No. 1837064

>>1837059
Finnish internet has always had a strong imageboard culture.

No. 1837073

>>1837059
It is cold and dark in here and many people are introverted so it is easy to be left alone to rot on computer/smart phone all day. Also for some reason we always need to tell we are finnfags. Torille!

No. 1837089

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Going for ramen tonight and I can't decide what I want (I don't want to spend 30 minutes deciding so figuring it out now lol). I've circled my finalists and was wondering if anynonna had a recommendation or wanted to choose

No. 1837094

>>1837089
I would eat the black sesame tantan, wish it had bamboo shoots tho

No. 1837095

>>1837089
black sesame tantan sounds so good.

No. 1837096

>>1837089
lower right corner option looks amazing for me ! Upper right would won but slightly too spicy for me. If you have a strong disgestive system, I’d recommend that one instead.

No. 1837097

>>1837096
*upper left , oops. saged

No. 1837099

Does anyone know what to do about depression early morning awakening, please it's ruining my life.

No. 1837105

Is it cringe to ask someone if they’ve had a good day today? sometimes I genuinely want to know. does it make me seem boring?

No. 1837107

>>1837089
Black sesame.
Red dragon if you’re extra hungry but it looks too rich for me with two types of pork and a whole egg. Definitely a better value for the price though.

No. 1837159

>>1837107
>>1837097
>>1837095
>>1837094
Thank you so much! I'll try the red dragon if I'm extra hungry but probably go for the tantan for today. If it's as good as it looks I'll probably go back for whichever one I don't get today next time

No. 1837167

Are admins the same people who run Moovie room? The typing styles and the cutesy pixel doll gifs they use are really similar

No. 1837177


No. 1837200

>>1837167
The movie room and draw room are ran by regular anons.

No. 1837297

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I’m too retarded to understand. How do I most effectively make my skinnyfat self become skinny?

Especially the area in pic related. Should skinnyfats focus on general cardio exercises consistently or should the focus be on building muscles like through lifting? Or through Pilates? Like what am I supposed to do.

No. 1837312

>>1837297
I am in the same boat and I think the general consensus is muscle building through things like lifting squats stuff like that.
Will I? Probably not, I love to run but that's what the internet says.

No. 1837313

Anons who have been in a psych ward or a mental hospital, what are they like?

No. 1837328

>>1837313
; . ' .

No. 1837333

>>1837313
I was sectioned by UK police and put in a mental hospital. It was a pretty big cell with a prison toilet and a bed with no corners that looked like nursery furniture. The longest wall of the room was a two-way mirror into a room with two nurses sat in it monitoring me. They turned the two-way off after a while. I was really distressed when they took me in, so the intake dr prescribed a sleeping pill and a benzo injection. I didn’t get either, so I assume the nurses stole them. They took all my stuff away at intake, including the antidepressants I was on at the time. So I also went into SSRI withdrawal while I was there.
It was one of the worst nights of my life. Really dehumanising. I was reassessed after 24 hours and I managed to hold it together long enough to get released.
From what I hear psych wards are very different, like actually focused on treatment. The “mental hospital” I went into is just jail for people who committed the crime of being mentally unstable in a public place.

No. 1837336

>>1837333
What did you do?? This is an anonymous space.

No. 1837339

>>1837313
I have a bunch of weird experiences as in what I witnessed other patients doing but I don't wanna scare you if you're thinking about it. I was in a shared ward. 6 beds per room and then a shared tv room and dining with everyone else. Some of us were in voluntary (me) and others weren't or they came in voluntarily and after being assessed had to stay longer than they wanted.

I'd really dreaded ever ending up inpatient but it wasn't worth half the dread. Most people were pretty sedated. Brand new people would come in acting weird but then a couple days later be all sedated too. If you were still stressed about being there they'd just give you something to take the edge off. Most of the time it was like being in a retirement home but with mixed ages. Spent alot of time drinking coffee that never kicked in because.. meds. Had some art classes. Chatted amongst each other to pass all the hours of doing nothing. Some patients were thiefs so that sucked. Actual appointments were few and far between and they seemed heavily geared towards just wanting people on the right meds before they could leave.

No. 1837365

>>1837312
Damn. Yeah I feel like cardio is more enjoyable. Lifting feels a bit intimidating

No. 1837367

>>1837313
Never been but I like the book Down Below by Leonora Carrington - it's a surreal memoir about her time in a mental institute. Maybe you'd like it. It's pretty short.

No. 1837368

Is it normal for food desert stores to not have frozen fruit? There's a smaller grocery store near the place I'm staying that they have everything else except frozen fruit.

No. 1837387

>>1837336
ayrt, do you mean what did I do to get put in there or what did I do while I was in there? The answer to the first is that I was in an abusive relationship and had been planning suicide for a while but hadn’t finished my plan yet. Boyfriend got violent with me that day and I ran away (both of which happened a lot). Someone called the police, who then went and searched the home I was sharing with the boyfriend. My notebooks and laptop were full of suicide methods research and planning, so the police launched a manhunt. I was downtown by this point, drinking vodka with a homeless guy near the bridge I was planning to throw myself off (after trying and failing to buy a knife at the supermarket where I ended up buying the vodka).
I didn’t jump in the end, went back home and got caught by police on the way. I was in a really bad way and wouldn’t let them wrap me in the silver space blanket because I didn’t think I deserved it, so kept telling them not to give it to me because “I’m not a real person.” They talked me into accepting a ride to the hospital to get checked out, as I’d been out in the cold for like 18 hours with unsuitable clothing and no food. Two police got in the ambulance with me and I didn’t really clock what was actually happening until we all got out of the ambulance again and I saw that the entrance to the hospital had multiple sets of locking doors, at which point I asked one of the coppers if they would chase and tackle me if I ran, and he said yes. So I went in.
I was detained under section 136 of the Mental Health Act, for “being mentally disordered in a public place.” Makes it sound like it’s illegal here for crazy people to go outside kek

No. 1837388

>>1837313
When I was 11 they put me in this place that's like a mental ward, but it wasn't part of a hospital and it was only for minors. It had its own name but I won't say in case it's identifiable, I'll just say I never hear that name applied anywhere else.
I went there 3 times, for durations of 1 week, 2 months, and 1 week. First time was voluntary, others weren't. I was a really depressed kid with no friends but my psychiatrist forced me in because she insisted that me not going to school was a sign of acute suicidality, even though I was feeling better from being away because school sucked. When you start they ask you to sign a form that says that you consent to them using physical force against you if they want but I think on my last visit I refused and they just said it doesn't matter because they'd do it anyway.
I saw them use physical force once, a girl tried to run away and they caught and dragged her back and shut her in a white room that had nothing in it. I only glimpsed it bc we were all herded away and it was covered up, nobody was allowed to talk about her.
It's more like a dormitory than a hospital, there's furniture and it's not all sterile and white. You aren't allowed internet access and you are constantly watched. At night there are people stationed outside your door and they regularly look into the window on your door to check on you.
You spend your time doing stuff like watching TV and playing cards and board games. There are set dinner and bedtimes. Arbitrary rules, like chocolate milk only being allowed at lunch and not being allowed to make friends. Sometimes 2 kids who were friends with each other would both show up and they'd split up the whole group to separate them. I got warned for getting too friendly with a girl.
Your parents can visit at designated times but they have the ability to stop this, once I was crying when my parents came and they threatened to take away my parents' parental rights (so I'd be an orphan).
Everyone there was a teenager, I was the youngest I think. They wanted to send me away to another place that's like this place but long-term, so I wouldn't get out until I was an adult I guess. But since I was 11 and you had to be at least 12, they weren't legally allowed.
The other kids consisted of some clearly BPD but friendly girls, some people who had irregularities but otherwise seemed nice (e.g., a guy who had a tic where he laughed constantly, a girl who was always chewing on her clothes), and people who just seemed normal or shy. You're not allowed to talk about why you're here or anything like that. There was one girl who always lived here, she had some kind of severe autism or intellectual disability and spent all day hobbling around pacing, and had her own meals apart from us.
I could write more but this is pretty long so I'll cut this post off. Feel free to ask if you're curious

No. 1837392

>>1837105
No, small talk is normal and part of life. Asking someone if they've had a good day is normal and only makes you seem boring to paranoid, socially retarded zoomers. Most normal people appreciate it if you ask questions like this.

No. 1837394

>>1836468
I’m changing my answer actually I think he’s bi

No. 1837398

>>1836468
I thought he was very cute in Batman Begins. Currently though he looks botched and I get weird creepy vibes from him. Truthfully I think he's straight but he does give off some very faggoty vibes.

No. 1837405

Is working at festival booths fun? I'm thinking about doing it in the spring/summer.

No. 1837430

>>1836468
I think he's straight but his face is terrifying. I have no idea why he's so popular. I never got the 'people with blue eyes look at you like this' meme until him kek

No. 1837444

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>>1837430
His eyes make him look like a scared monkey

No. 1837449

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>>1837444
I looked up Cillian Murphy With Brown Eyes and found this image. Better?

No. 1837453

When people say to not wash your hair every day, do they just mean that you shouldn't use shampoo every day or do they mean literally don't get your hair wet at all except for the days you use shampoo?

No. 1837454

>>1837449
I’ve seen that movie and I personally think he’s more attractive with brown eyes. Light eyes make him look like a devil

No. 1837455

>>1837453
There’s no point in getting your hair wet if you’re not actually cleaning it, unless you have curly hair and you need to refresh the curls. Water by itself can actually dry out your hair so it’s better to use conditioner when you get it wet

No. 1837456

>>1837453
I use a shower cap to keep it dry on the days im not washing it

No. 1837462

>>1837453
They mean shampoo, it's not about just getting your hair wet. You will find people have opinions on getting it wet too but that's a separate issue.

No. 1837470

>>1837455
>>1837456
>>1837462
I see, thank you nonnas! I have really thin straight hair and can't go longer than washing every other day because it starts to look awful even with dry shampoo. I thought maybe I was supposed to be washing it with water too between those days but it sounds like that might actually make it worse?

No. 1837472

>>1837470
It sounds like you should just continue to wash it everyday. With curly/coily hair, the oil doesn't even go past the roots for a lot of people, that's why a lot of us don't wash our hair daily.

No. 1837482

>>1837470
>I have really thin straight hair and can't go longer than washing every other day because it starts to look awful even with dry shampoo
This is me and even every other day is stretching it, I just wash my hair every day. Despite popular advice it's what works best for me and my hair manages to be long and healthy, I've tried various workarounds to stretch the days out but nothing that really worked well for me. I find that a lot of online haircare advice is mostly geared towards people with waves/curls/coils even if they promote it as a universal tip.

No. 1837483

do you guys think it's narcissistic to think that you were a very cute baby? i'm looking through old photos of myself and i was so fucking cute as a baby/child and it's making me want a child that looks like me. i just wanna cuddle and nurse myself omfg what the hell

No. 1837485

>>1837483
no you're normal

No. 1837493

>>1837483
Nah I was a cute child who grew into an ugly adult and I'm sad I didn't stay cute

No. 1837499

>>1837483
HELL NO. I was cute as hell, still cute as hell.

No. 1837510

>>1837483
I don't want kids EXCEPT when I look at old photos of me and my little sister. We were so cute, especially when we were cuddly together.

ofc the older I got the less cute I was and I became a nightmare teenager so I will never convince myself to have children, the cute babies are a trap kek. I think the effect increases when looking at pictures of your own family because you love everyone in the photo, it's not just some random infant.

No. 1837516

How many people do you think post on this website? There were slightly more than 700 people who voted in the lc awards, if that’s anything to go off of

No. 1837559

>>1837516
100 women tops these days

No. 1837567

>>1837559
that few? damn

No. 1837570

>>1837559
And the other 600 are men (jk)

No. 1837593

>>1837559
Small group of besties

No. 1837608

>>1837570
I felt like that was the implication. Probably true

No. 1837618

>>1837470
My good hair days now tend to be one and two days after washing it but when I was younger I'd just be a self conscious greaseball leaving the house two days after my last shampoo. Sometimes it does change with age but I'd just wash it as feels needed and not worry about people who talk about preserving the natural oils and how doing less eventually works out better. I agree with >>1837482
> I find that a lot of online haircare advice is mostly geared towards people with waves/curls/coils even if they promote it as a universal tip.
Good tips for one hair type tend to end up somehow being promoted as a one method fits all solution. Remember when even people with limp straight hair joined the anti shampoo thing a while back n walked around greasy thinking their hair would benefit and even start looking after itself because your scalp resets and self cleans or some shit. They're shampooing again.

No. 1837652

What are some places I can post about/share animal charities? I don't have Facebook or anything like that, so word of mouth is hard.

No. 1837654

Are proper restaurants not healthy??
My friend told me that she wants to lose weight and avoiding restaurants was something she mentioned, when i asked her she told me it was because she doesn't know what they put in but i'm so confused, we ate in very nice restaurants that have amazing dishes and to be honest it always felt better than eating supermarket store bought ingredients, plus even if they're selling good stuff i doubt she would be able to recognize it because she often goes for cheap or weird brands and things like that. Anyway sorry for derailing about that a bit.

No. 1837659

>>1837654
if your friend is counting calories to lose weight she may be avoiding restaurant food because the calorie amount for dishes isn't always consistent

No. 1837663

>>1837659
I guess that makes sense, she just wants to shape up a little, i don't know much about diets but maybe i'm dumb because i'd still prefer fresh food than packaged supermarket stuff for a lot of reasons, thank you nona tho

No. 1837702

>>1837659
This and also many restaurants don't list the nutritional information, and they won't know if you ask, at least where I live. They can just say the ingredients and let you calculate by yourself lol.

No. 1837705

>>1837663
Wait. Why are those the only two options? What about cooking proper fresh food at home?

No. 1837725

Are all men slow as fuck when it comes to cooking food? Like how the fuck does it take you one and a half hour just to make basic pancakes for two people? At first I thought it was just one guy being slow, then every other man proved to be equally slow. I'm so confused what takes that long for them to do

No. 1837727

>>1837705
The "fresh" ingredients you get to buy to cook proper fresh meal at home here kinda suck, especially if you're vegetarian

No. 1837733

>>1837727
If the restaurants in the area can get the ingredients for food she likes then so can she.

No. 1837739

>>1837705
That takes time and effort and you have to go buy the ingredients so lots of full time working people can't do it every day. Then you have to count up the calories yourself.

No. 1837750

>>1837739
Not to sound like a boomer but you’re just lazy if you can’t cook for yourself every day, it’s not that hard. The processed premade food is so bad for you too and mega overpriced.
I shouldn’t say that because I know some jobs are crazy and have you at work for 80 damn hours a week or people are commuting three hours a day on top of their 50 hour work week in which case I get it. Going out to a restaurant and waiting for food takes just as much time as cooking.

No. 1837756

What is a good first time crochet project? And how much yarn should I buy if I'm trying it for the first time?

No. 1837767

>>1837750
Not a boomer, but you sound like a NEET. I'm not lazy if I come home tired at 6PM after an hour of commuting, possibly gym as well, and don't want to spend what precious little time I have before I have to go to bed cooking and washing dishes. And I don't even work crazy hours because that's illegal where I live.
>The processed premade food is so bad for you too and mega overpriced.
Right, nobody said I was doing that either. I get a lunch bonus card from work so I can eat in a restaurant or order it to go. I'm just pointing out how unrealistic cooking every single day is for a lot of adults. Meal prep exists, but I frankly can't be bothered to waste one of my two days off cooking, freezing and doing even more dishes instead of going on a hike or having fun with friends.

No. 1837793

>>1837767
I'm a NEET because I can cook a meal every day after work, but you're a hardworking adult because you get someone else to make your food for you? That doesn't even make sense. Whatever, I know I was being judgemental and probably hurt your feelings. I actually like cooking and it doesn't feel like suffering to me which I know isn't the case for everyone. Crazy work hours are legal here and even when I worked 70 hours a week I made dinner every day, it was partially how I unwound and it only takes 20-40 minutes depending on what you're eating and it's not overloaded with oil and salt and sugar like restaurant food is. You're just prioritizing your time differently. "lots of full time working people can't do it every day" – No, they can. They just don't.

No. 1837879

>>1837756
Honestly, you don't need much, I have finished a few amigurumi-sized projects and still have some wool left from one regular ball. For starters you should do something very simple like a flat circle or granny square just to get the hang of it.

No. 1837946

Why was Creepshowart's post history outed? I followed the drama when it was going down but I can't remember for the life of me why exactly she was subjected to the punishment.

No. 1837969

>>1837652
twitter is ok for anonymous/semi-anonymous charity sharing

No. 1837975

>>1837767
>>1837793
Cooking, grocery shopping and washing the dishes sucks so it isn't crazy to me that lots of people prefer takeout sometimes. If you're a small woman you can often get multiple meals out of takeout too so it doesn't financially sting so much. Of course it is better to cook for yourself because it is easier to ensure it is healthy, but for working adults it does entail learning a different style of cooking. It sucks how most cookbooks and online cooking content is aspirational and does shit like lie about prep times and meal times so it can be hard to find recourses that are ACTUALLY doable for someone with little time.

I did find a few books that did fit that description, I might share in another thread.

No. 1837980

can weird masturbation positions make your hips hurt? I've been masturbating on my back these few days when I usually masturbate on my stomach, and today I woke up and my hips are killing me.

No. 1837986

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What’s the most Reddit thing you’ve seen today?

No. 1837992

>>1837980
Masturbating in new positions can work out different muscle groups than what you're used to if it hurts like the day/s after trying new exercises. If it's like bad bone/joint pain you might have strained something though?

No. 1837995

>>1837986
I just crossed paths with an overweight white moid with shitty beard, does it count?

No. 1837999

>>1837995
Yes but only if you post pics

No. 1838004

>>1837992
it's painful at the side of my hips but mostly on one more than the other, and my lower back just above my butt hurts too. i haven't gotten a massage in a while so it might be the cause too lol

No. 1838007

>>1837986
One of those random videos that youtube recommends for no reason and its two soyfaced guys gushing over how amazing NFTs are and how they can't wait to buy some hockey NFTs.

No. 1838015

>>1838004
Oh, I've gotten the lower back pain after starting new on-my-back PT exercises, it's totally normal as long as the pain goes away after a couple of days. Please see a doctor if you still hurt after that though, you don't want to exercise on strained muscles! Otherwise, adding hip/pelvis strength/flexibility exercises can reduce the likelihood you get sore after masturbating.

No. 1838017

How do I know if I'm an autist? Non-meme answers only plz

No. 1838022

>>1838015
okay, tysm nona!

No. 1838023

>>1838017
By asking a professional. People online (including some farmers) call anything autistic these days so you might not get an accurate answer from them.

No. 1838025

>>1838017
Go to a psychologist and get an evaluation. If you're too poor for that or it's too much of a hassle, ask people about what they thought about you as a child and a teenager.
If you've never thought about how you feel out of place in a group of people, then I really doubt you could be in any percentile of the autistic spectrum.
T.Autist.

No. 1838090

>>1838025
i am 100% confident i could get diagnosed as anything i wanted just gaming the system. Mental health is a joke, kids to it all the time for brownie points and Adderal prescriptions.

No. 1838096

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>>1838090
I mean, yeah, but if you're concerned about being autistic, and you want the guidance of a professional in the area of psychology, then idk, I would just answer the questions seriously and express my concerns about why I feel a certain way and whatnot.
But do whatever makes you happy, get a DiD diagnosis if you want, go study the symptoms or whatever.
I'm not exactly the biggest believer in psychology, but it helps a bit with identifying what's the problem if you truly want some help.

No. 1838243

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Why do Japanese people like light eyebrows even when their hair color is darker?

No. 1838244

>>1838243
Makes your features appear softer

No. 1838247

>>1838244
Huh I guess. It looks fucking weird when their hair color is jet blsck.

No. 1838250


No. 1838254

Is there a way to remove an auto suggestion in a text field you double click on on firefox? I've had it way too many times now that I almost didn't click sage but my actual e-mail adress when taking auto suggestions instead of typing it by hand.

No. 1838275

>>1838243
many japanese women will lighten their hair to a lighter brunette and will lighten their brows to match for an overall softer look

No. 1838360

>>1837483
I feel the same way. I had huge chubby cheeks and now my face is so gaunt. The difference is crazy. But there’s no guarantee that if you have kids they’ll look exactly like you, esp because I don’t even know where half of my features came from. I keep seeing babies that take after the dad more than the mom and that freaks me out.

No. 1838479

Are most moid's "one who got away" just the first women to actually leave when they started pulling shit?

No. 1838482

>>1838479
Yes. Every time. Occasionally it's because she died before she had a chance to get tired of his scrote ass and he puts her memory on a pedestal that no woman can ever live up to.

No. 1838557

>>1838482
>>1838482
why is this so common? is it because the woman is dead and therefore he can lie/overexaggerate details about her with no proof?
>>1838479
this or they broke up (literally or emotionally) with the woman over some stupid reason or no reason at all then regretted it because they didn't "ruin" the woman by dating her like they hoped for

No. 1838579

>>1838479
I was hatelurking 4chan years ago and the scrotes were lamenting their first loves and how much shit they pulled with them. dozens of them chimed in wishing they didn't "let them get away". one even posted a picture of her from 15 years ago, and his current wife to compare them. others were competing in a "ways I treated my old gfs like shit" contest. a lot of "she was perfect bros idk why she got mad but yeah fuck women she'd probably cheat on me anyway"

No. 1838580

>>1838479
yup. every man has a sob story about his first love from a decade earlier and how SHE WAS SO PERFECT YOU GUISE

No. 1838593

>>1838479
it's usually the one who dropped before they had the chance to put up with his siht to a point they think they lost them because they couldn't break them, so they romanticize the fuck out of that woman who actually escaped instead of changing her personality and pursuits for him. I'd say a moid having one of those is almost as bad as a moid who says all his exes are crazy.

No. 1838609

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How the fuck do streamers stay up for like eighteen or a whole 24 hours to finish games and shit? I just remembered this girl who speedran marrying the Harvest Goddess in Harvest Moon DS, and she stayed awake for so many hours during that stream to finish that game. How the fuck are streamer bodies living like that?

No. 1838613

>>1838609
abusing stimulants like adderal.That shit is rampant among zoomers.

A lot of them have the BIG PHARMA seal of approval to do crystal meth in the form of ADHD prescription which anyone can get since its so easy to be diagnosed.

No. 1838615

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hi nonnies, I'd like to know if any of you have experienced similar, and if I should be worried. it might be a half a month till I can see my doctor and the local emergency clinic is useless so I'm not sure what to do.. so in the past two weeks I've been having on/off nausea, stomach pain and diarrhea though that was mostly just one day I've gotten better being thirsty even though I am normally never thirsty, a horrible headache, and most peculiarly, really bad, burning facial flushing in the evenings. also, my energy levels are always shit but it feels like they're worse than usual, I can barely think. I also did take some electrolytes though it didn't seem to improve my condition.

No. 1838623

>>1838615
Did you take the covid vaxx?

No. 1838627

>>1838615
At the very least you need to hydrate more immediately. With electrolytes.

No. 1838635

>>1838623
nope, kek, I hate needles. I've been wearing a mask for years and I like it, plus I've never gotten covid. also I think the closest thing I could find to describe what I'm going through is mild metabolic acidosis. I found out that aspirin + Pepto-Bismol (salicylate poisoning) could worsen it yesterday and since I've stopped taking it I have been feeling so-so, but honestly I'm sort of worried that I caused myself some kind of damage and I'm feeling beyond retarded right now.
>>1838627
yep, trying. for some reason I feel a bit light-headed after doing so sometime.

No. 1838664

Am I missing something out by not dating?

No. 1838666

>>1838664
depends on your sexuality.

No. 1838668

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Does anyone else experience hypoglycemic symptoms (sudden hunger, shaking, feeling hot, feeling like you will faint) but DOES NOT have diabetes or insulin resistance?
I usually experience it several hours after eating but both my insulin and glucose scores are within the acceptable range and it drives me crazy. The funny thing is, if I don't eat breakfast, I'm perfectly fine. I only experience these symptoms if I don't eat for a few hours after eating, if that makes sense. Will definitely see an endocrinologist, I'm just curious if anyone else has this and if they know what causes it

No. 1838688

>>1838668
Yes, for me it's caffeine. If you drink coffee, maybe that is affecting you.

No. 1838690

>>1838668
What conditions are you in? I've only had this reaction when in a really humid country (only when I haven't eaten) and when I went to the gym after a less than adequate meal, maybe I'm just explaining why now I don't know.

No. 1838697

>>1838668
Yes but in my case it's still because of hormonal issues I was born with, just not these ones. I used to actually faint a lot as a kid and then as a teenager when I still needed to take growth hormone injections everyday, but I've been doing better for a long time. What's ironic is that following a balanced diet didn't help me at all, I usually feel way better when pigging out and a few months ago I had hypoglycemia very often all of a sudden and the issue got solved by drinking a shit ton of soda all the time again. Anyway, always keep snacks on you in case it gets worse. After seeing your endocrinologist if they ask you to do some blood work keep in mind that you'll be asked to not eat and drink anything at all beforehand for accurate results. If you forget, don't lie about it, even if planning a second appointment for that is annoying.

No. 1838732

>>1838668
I get like that if I eat processed carbs for breakfast instead of meat

No. 1838895

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If you had to become the Demi fiend (no choice) which reason would you agree with and which path would you take?

No. 1839003

How to remove dandruff from hair without washing it? I get dandruff before my hair is greasy, I don't want to wash it because it looks fine if you ignore the dandruff. Brushing it doesn't help much, I'm sitting here like a dumbass picking them out when I see it.

No. 1839021

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>>1838895
Isamu's ending was always the most intriguing to me but realistically since I can't really say fuck you to YHVH in smt3 I'd probably go with that one ending that restores the original world.

No. 1839054

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>>1839021
I think Chiaki is the based one, her reason is the only one that poses a world with merit and accountability and where beauty still exists.

The other options is coomers living in a pod generating furry porn all day in their own heads and the other is total globohomo where nothing happens and everything is the same always and entire existence is a one of those corporate memphis blandscapes. Grim

No. 1839125

>>1838668
Have you had your heart health checked out? Do you ever get stomach pressure after eating?

No. 1839303

i thought a vocal fry is when your voice sounds kinda scratchy but i've seen so many videos of women talking normally and the comments being insane men seething about the evil vocal fry. i'm so confused? i've also been trying to speak in a lower pitch for work reasons and i never thought it counted as vocal fry. nonnies, please enlighten me.

No. 1839311

Why is reading considered a hobby but other forms of media consumption (watching shows and film, listening to music) are not?

No. 1839327

>>1839311
I personally consider all of them hobbies (though not the best or most engaging ones) but I've seen the argument that watching a screen is passive whereas reading is active.

No. 1839336

can i put spf lip balm on my face

No. 1839341

>>1838557
> this or they broke up (literally or emotionally) with the woman over some stupid reason or no reason at all then regretted
I’m convinced that’s what happened with him and that I’m going to be the one that got away even though I’m still technically around he’s just too cowardly to come fix things.

No. 1839346

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I don’t get how this works. I’m in my 30s, and I still don’t get this. I’ve read explanations and I just still don’t understand. I might be retarded.

No. 1839348

>>1839336
You can if you want

No. 1839351

>>1839348
will it do anything though

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>>1839346
I did some quick search on this (dailymail article). In the US, chance of rain actually refers to the results of a calculation that accounts for both the likelihood of rain and how widespread the rain will likely be. The result of this calculation, known as PoP, is given as a percentage and is what North American meteorologists use to give the 'chance of rain'. Meteorologists in the UK tend to avoid using the PoP system as well, and instead opt for the more literal meaning. According to the UK's Met Office, its experts will use '30 per cent chance of rain' to mean what any sensible person might expect – the chance of rain.

No. 1839391

>>1839351
Does it have the ability to offer some sun protection? Yes, most likely. However, you'll need to reapply every two hours, and the level of protection offered by the lip balm might not match that of a sunscreen.

No. 1839398

What is the jannies' logic in who is redtexted for infighting, as opposed to all the other posters that are in the same infight? Same deal with bans for baiting and derailing, there's no consistency.

No. 1839402

>>1839398
Just because someone isn’t redtexted doesn’t mean they weren’t banned.

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No. 1839432

Im probably naive asking this but is there anything stopping people from stealing when they use self checkout?

No. 1839435

WHY DO I ONLY HAVE THE MOTIVATION TO DRAW WHEN I NEED TO SLEEP DO OTHER PEOPLE EXPERIENCE THIS??

No. 1839437

>>1839432
jesus will know

No. 1839456

I don't know how long my nail strengthener has been expired for but I'm guessing it's been for a LONG time since my aunt gave it to me. Should I still put it on or is that a bad idea

No. 1839458

>>1839432
Idk if it's true but I've heard when they check inventory they'll notice something's off

No. 1839465

>>1839432
stores here usually have one person overseeing the self checkout but the one i go to frequently doesn't bother so i ring up stuff differently when i check out. like getting a chocolate croissant but picking the regular croissant option or getting organic bananas but paying for the cheap kind.

No. 1839479

>>1839435
Yes, such a curse, never will there be a time I am as motivated as I am in the middle of the night.

No. 1839480

>>1839432
Not exactly but there are ways of flagging repeat offenders and prosecuting them, you're on camera the whole time.

No. 1839486

>>1839480
Does this mean if i constantly steal but just from different locations each time i'll be safe?

No. 1839488

>>1839486
Not sure. I heard about some people getting in legal trouble for ringing up their groceries wrong, it sounds like a modern nightmare.

No. 1839491

>>1839486
Probably, speaking from experience but YMMV if your country is more serious about security. It's best to shoplift as little as you can afford to. I know someone who got caught 5 times in a row because they had no impulse control and didn't quit while they were ahead, or after they had already been caught the previous 4.

No. 1839496

When you can read notes, can you 'hear' the melody when looking at a music sheet?

No. 1839503

>>1839480
I always smile at the camera so they'll never suspect me, I also don't steal but that's irrelevant to my strategy.

No. 1839507

>>1839496
I couldn't hear it, other people might?

No. 1839509

>>1839496
I forgot how to read them now, but back then i would be able to hear them in my mind as if i was singing them

No. 1839511

Is there any way on YouTube to turn off the ability to share videos to any TV that is on? I sometimes go to fullscreen something and will accidentally click the button that broadcasts the video instead and it's cringe as fuck. I accidentally broadcast a gender-critical podcast to my sister's TV and it was so embarrassing.

No. 1839515

Is moving in with a friend really a bad idea? People say it makes you hate each other

No. 1839534

>>1837793
>I actually like cooking and it doesn't feel like suffering to me which I know isn't the case for everyone.
If you know, then why did you start by calling her lazy then bragged about cooking even when you were slaving 12+ hours a day at work kek. That's how you unwind, of course you're going to find time for it. Do you clean your house everyday? Do you workout everyday? That's how some people unwind. If you don't do it, it's not because you can't, it's just because you don't want to and it's lazy!! is how you sound.

>>1839515
It's a bad idea if you have completely different lifestyles, values and standards for cleanliness. Also if they can never pay on time or do their chores when it's their turn. If it's a friend you know well and you know they won't cause that kind of issues, it should be fine. At least it's less of a gamble than living with a total stranger, if you have to have a roommate. But if it doesn't work out, or if you get tired of each other, it can strain your relationship yeah.

No. 1839536

>>1839534
I know her very well and she's super clean - to the point of once taking a 3 hour flight to a different country to help a friend clean their home kek. She's the best.

No. 1839540

>>1839536
Wow yeah she sounds great then!

No. 1839546

>>1839515
A decent test run would be to vacation together in the same hotel room.

No. 1839559

>>1839534
>Do you clean your house everyday? Do you workout everyday?
Kinda, yeah. You have to. Not a deep clean but I keep up on the chores and tidy as I go so it doesn't get on top of me. Now that my job isn't physical I do workout 5-6 days a week, not like athlete-level just basic health maintenance type stuff.
>If you don't do it, it's not because you can't, it's just because you don't want to and it's lazy!!
You're being sarcastic but that's literally true for any able-bodied adult. Ok not every day for the working out since you're supposed to rest sometimes but you should still move around a little, go on a walk or something if your job isn't active (I lucked out there with an active job with the crazy hours I guess, no way I could have carved out an hour for a workout, probably would have done me more harm than good to lose the sleep). Next you're gonna ask me if I shower every day like that's unreasonable. tf?

No. 1839573

is there any point learning HTML and/or CSS anymore? like is there anything you can do with it job wise? I'm guessing not, but I just thought I'd ask

No. 1839576

Does anyone else have this thing where you revert to a certain more childish version of you when interacting with certain family members? Like psychologically you regress and act in ways like you used to years ago even though you already actually don't act like that ever anymore otherwise. I hate it.

No. 1839592

>>1839576
My brother and I do that, it's kind of weird to see someone else that does that too. Like, we act like we're 5 years olds with our family members, but we're normal functioning adults outside the house.

No. 1839597

>>1839573
Not just those alone, but just those was basically never enough to get a job. You need to learn a real language and framework or go the graphic design route and learn those tools and art

No. 1839603

>>1839597
>is there any point learning HTML and/or CSS anymore?
No, pajeets and AI killed it

>graphic design route

killed too, its being murdered and dragged through the ground as we speak(racebait)

No. 1839610

Are there any actually new names on the Epstein list or are they just the exact same ones that were already leaked?

No. 1839615

>>1839576
i do it too, out of fear personally. awareness is the first step to change, next try to focus on one thing to actively work on like no longer using a baby voice.

No. 1839622

Has anyone ever volunteered in an animal shelter before? I live with my parents and i am not allowed pets and i don't know anybody who owns pets because i come from a culture where people just ignore animals and find them really dirty. I've always wanted to work with animals in some capacity but the fact that i don't have much experience dealing with animals puts me off. Is it worth it?

No. 1839635

>>1839622
Yes, although only one for cats. When you're new, ime they'll generally have you do more cleaning chores than anything else, so you won't have to worry about lack of experience with animals. Cleaning might not sound fun but it's pretty much the most important part for the animals and their comfort and health.

No. 1839682

is a relationship less than if you meet through OLD? I recently downloaded tinder because as a lesbian it’s hard to find love irl. I met a girl that I really like, but I’m a hopeless romantic and I feel like I’m missing out on a slow burn love story. am I being retarded for being disappointed?

No. 1839685

>>1839682
as a lesbian dating is hell because you're a sexual minority and it's hard to meet each other IRL, as long as you're a good match and happy that's what matters. for heterosexual relationships the problem is men on dating apps are often terrible.

No. 1839695

>>1839432
My mom is a serious klepto and they are building a case on her at Walmart and target and they won’t kick her out, they just watch her and keep track but like why won’t they do anything? I’ve been stopped for stealing when I was like 15 thank god for burger laws it’s not on my record now but I’m really confused as to why they won’t just go up to her and say “enough! You are banished from this store!”

No. 1839729

>>1839695
they are waiting for her to steal $2,000 of merchandise so they can get her for a felony, or they just reallydont give a shit but if you can convince her to seek some kind of treatment that would probably be best if she doesnt have the money to pay fines or bail.

No. 1839732

>>1839559
>I keep up on the chores
>just basic health maintenance type stuff
Yes so you do the minimum and there are people who do the minimum when it comes to their dinner, like throwing something in the pan. People who can cook a meal from scratch, do a proper workout session and clean their house everyday either have shorter working hours or they don't mind not doing anything else with their free time on weekdays, which is great but not everyone's aspiration in life.

No. 1839797

>>1839695
My mum is also a klepto. She stole about 40 sheets of stick-on tile from a Poundland once, over the course of a week. In bongland the police dgaf about shoplifting and the shops can barely do anything about. Her friend works at the shop and told my ma to stop shoplifting from there during her shifts because she was so obvious it was embarrassing. There should be a support group for anons with cow-ish mothers.

No. 1840214

i don't really follow streaming stuff but is it just me or did a lot of streamers appear after the whole vtuber thing? I know that there are companies dedicated to it but i'm talking about "indie" streamers.

No. 1840348

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Thinking about getting a cameo from my currently favourite voice actor for my 29th birthday, but I don't know what to say kek. I know that celebrities don't really care but he always seemed so sweet, genuine and funny with those cameos, I really want to get one. I've seen a few people specifically getting them for their birthdays, like early 30s and the guy sayih nice stuff about life in your 30s (he's in his 40s now). I'm super anxious about my 30s and I feel the pressure to do something "special" during the last year of my 20s but I don't know what exactly. Kinda feeling like the world is ending. What should I say for him to get the memo but not being too oversharing?

No. 1840351

ok unironically, how many of you have been married for 5+ (preferably 10+) years and are very happy and have no real complaints about their husband? keep seeing a lot of nonnies complaining about bfs/husbands but also a huge amount complaining not having one. I almost never see any success stories. it's weird.

No. 1840355

>>1840351
Those in a good relationship don't need to vent about it online.

No. 1840356

>>1840351
Probably because posting anonymously online lends itself much better to venting and otherwise thoughts you're less inclined to share with people irl.

No. 1840363

>>1840351
I got engaged to my highschool sweetheart at 21 and dumped him before 24. I have one friend from that time that is with the same boyfriend and also married but her boyfriend always came on to me on nights out and one new years eve I had to tell him I found him ugly while he tried to get with me while his future wife slept so idk

No. 1840367

>>1836468
as a cillianfag, I like him a lot (especially when he was younger, these days he kinda looks botched… but I'll condone it). I like how he presents himself. I also think he might be bisexual (from the things I read on here..)
fun fact my friend told me his younger self looks like he could be related to me lol

No. 1840369

>>1840355
I know I'm in a good relationship because we've been together since 2022 and I've yet to disparage him on lolcow. I don't mention him online at all lol

No. 1840370

>>1836743
imo yes… if it's a pasta restaurant then why would they buy grocery store pasta and throw it on a plate and call it a day. they should put more effort in what they're cooking

No. 1840372

>>1836925
eyyy another duckduckgo user

No. 1840379

>>1837516
I didn't vote in the lc awards, just letting you know. so don't take that into account

No. 1840381

What’s with men and lawns

No. 1840385

>>1840381
they don't belong inside a household

No. 1840388

>>1839573
well if you want to make a personal website then yes, but job wise no. I started learning both a few weeks ago because I wanted to make my own corner in the world wide web. it's been fun

No. 1840395

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do you guys think we'll ever have a lolcow panel at a convention? just like the 4chan panels at otakon years ago. or not necessarily a panel, but a meetup (with the admins coming as well)

No. 1840399

>>1840395
>adminis showing up
….what do you think we would see?

No. 1840402

>>1840395
How's that work we all go on stage with a bag illustrated with a large question mark over our heads?

I'm stating now I recognise no spokesperson from lolcow, its bad enough having twitterfags claim to be farmers and representative of the overall culture. This is a counter culture to social media fuck all that noise.

No. 1840407

>>1840395
When the site becomes overrun by troons and underage newfags, yes.

No. 1840408

why don't we have a facebook thread? I find the weirdest and funniest posts that i'm dying to share but i don't know where to put them. would anyone else be interested in such a thread?

No. 1840411

>>1840399
greek goddesses

No. 1840414

>>1840402
the twitterfags won't come anyway. they just say that 'cause they want attention

No. 1840416

>>1840408
Wtf would anons be a part of a Facebook group kek. Also it would bring attention to the site
There's a funny posts thread, use that. If you have friends show them the posts and don't tell them where it's from. Especially if they're moids

No. 1840418

>>1840414
Wanting a lolcow panel is attention seeking

No. 1840419

>>1840416
She means why don’t we have a thread on here for Facebook caps, like the Twitter/Reddit/Tumblr hate threads.

No. 1840422

>>1840419
Doesn’t that have potential for doxxing yourself? Like especially for smaller pages people could cross reference and find your profile.

No. 1840423

>>1840419
Ahh my bad, thought it was like the person wanting the public panel

No. 1840424

>>1840419
I could never doxx my favourite personal fb lolcows I never want them to stop oversharing I like to check in on them morning and night.

No. 1840427

>>1840418
how? plus, even if the twitterfags will come(which I'm more than sure they won't), they won't even be the ones on the stage or in front of the audience, it'll be the admins. although, I think a meetup would be a lot better than a panel(but somewhere safe, in case a retard comes and tried to ruin the meetup/panel). how's that attention seeking lol

No. 1840428

>>1840369
1 year isn't really a long time.
>>1840356
Yeah that's why I asked; I want to hear from the ones in those long-term good relationships. Or is the insinuation here that they're not on lc at all?

No. 1840430

>>1840427
lol we should have a meetup where we all show up in masks; retain anonymity

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No. 1840453

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>>1840434
I was thinking more like

No. 1840457

>>1840428
Girl I've been with a dude and engaged and broke up in 8 years was single for 3 months before another 7 year relationship and spent 2 years being single with random flings. My boyfriend and I are doing well for never arguing and coming to an understanding on ant disagreement. I'm old and tired.

No. 1840561

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this meme is racially weird right? i keep seeing this drawn as a human girl and it's alway an asian girl. but it reads as asian to people because of the glasses, hair piece, and teeth right?

No. 1840566

>>1840561
This meme reminds me of all the mousy haired female killers femcels make collages of. Kinda dorky looking but will ruin your life.

No. 1840635

I have a purse whose straps are attached directly to the flap so you HAVE to secure the magnet closure otherwise wearing it on your shoulder makes the flap flip up. Can anyone thing of some way to fix it or should I ditch the bag.

Pic related. The first pair of bags has the strap attached to the top flap, so the flap is only kept downward when it is affixed to the magnet closure. The second pair of bags the strap is attached to the sides of the bag so even if you don't attach the flap to the magnet closure it stays down.

Its a super cute bag it's just annoying to use, having to 'search' for the magnet is tricky and I often need to hold the purse up to look at it in order to close it, its hard to connect the magnets by feel when the strap keeps holding up the flap.

No. 1840638

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>>1840635
sorry I dropped the image but here it is, I did my best with MSPaint

No. 1840641

>>1840351
I've been with mine for 4 years. We talk to each other about any issues we may have so there is no need to talk about him online when I can just tell him directly. We had some fights over the years but always managed to talk it out, and now we don't fight much any more.
I used to post about an ex who started fights and ignored anything I complained about so I figure nonnas in relationships with terrible moids are the ones who post. Even the Nigel bragging thread gives me bad vibes.

No. 1840655

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>>1840561
I see it more as picrel

No. 1840677

>>1840635
Take it to a shoemaker or shoe repair shop (they often deal with purses and other leather-like stuff) and ask if they can install a proper clasp. If they can’t, ditch it. That’s just bad design.

No. 1840696

>>1840677
good idea nona, I will try that

No. 1840742

>>1839622
Do it anon! Especially if people don't take care of animals in your country, shelters must be even more in need of volunteers than other places, and it would be weird of them to refuse you just because you don't have enough experience. You have to start somewhere. Like the other anon said you will probably start by cleaning out stuff and gradually get more tasks where you're directly in contact with animals.

No. 1840790

>>1840677
ugh the more I think about the more inclined I am to just ditch it. The strap is attached to the flap with an O-ring looped around an embedded metal D-ring. So they would need some sort of tool to cut the O-ring and that would be before trying to find out how to attach the straps to the side (it's fake leather too idk if that makes a difference).

I'm glad I got it on sale at least.

No. 1840843

Does exposure therapy work?

No. 1840852

Do weed edibles make you age faster? What about vaping weed? This is confusing to me.

No. 1840864

>>1840852
Inhaling smoke of any kind accelerates the aging process. With edibles though, the plant itself doesn’t accelerate aging to my knowledge. But the other ingredients definitely do, particularly sugar

No. 1840876

Is there any side effect to eating too much magnesium. I bought these peach flavored supplements that are super fucking delicious. You’re supposed to have 2 a day but I’ve been eating 10 a day

No. 1840879

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No. 1840880

>>1840876
You'll probably feel really sick at some point but it's unlikely you'll die.

No. 1840932

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Am I the only one who doesn’t have any big professional goals or a clear career path? The sad thing is that I have a fucking Masters degree and I still don’t know wtf I want to do. Even in grad school I had an interest in a specific field but I squandered the opportunity to study it because I was too lazy to actually try and find professors who would help me write the papers I wanted to write. I ended up in a random job that pays well but has questionable career advancement and I feel like such a failure. I think I might have to go back for my PhD to get anywhere in my field if I want to pursue actual research in my former discipline instead of this corporate gig but I feel like a clown. Why the fuck am I so lost in life? I was a BPDfag and never saw myself living this long which probably is the majority of the reason but also my own laziness and lack of direction.

No. 1840934

>>1833625
Thanks, but I'm asking more on a science-y basis
>>1833640
Exactly what I meant, thank you

No. 1840944

Does anyone else gain like 10 pounds on their period? I know you can gain some weight but I swear it's gone up like 8 or 9 pounds in the last few days. Like wtf. And my acne is super bad this time too.

No. 1840948

On a scale of 1 to extremely inconsiderate, how much of an asshole would I be to use the electric beater to make myself cookies I'm pregnancy craving while my husband is asleep?

No. 1840954

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>>1840932
I’m in a similar situation. Dead end csr job, useless degree, and idk if i can handle full time work and school to try a different career or even what that would be. I feel completely directionless and unmotivated to change how things are. For the longest time I thought I was depressed, maybe I am but it’s at least comfortable enough. Hope you find your way.

No. 1840958

>>1840948
The cookies are in the oven right now

No. 1840984

>>1840958
Enjoy your cookies nona (and baby too)

No. 1841003

what are some super white trash movies/tv shows? something like Duck dynasty. I am fascinated by white trash southern culture.

No. 1841012

>>1841003
storage wars, the pawn shop show, toddlers and tiaras, dance moms

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No. 1841083

Is there some sort of cultural difference in online socialization I'm unaware of irt interacting with Japanese artists?

I follow a few Japanese artists on twitter that do cute animal artwork and I always leave a comment when they post a new work, I've noticed that despite the amount of likes from their fellow countrymen they don't seem inclined to comment very often and I'm now wondering if there's some sort of social thing I'm unaware of where I'm committing a social faux pas and making them feel uncomfortable. Am I coming across like a stalker?

No. 1841095

Why has no one, aside from that middle east cartoon, just stolen South Park's style of animation and production pipeline? They only take a week to make, so why hasn't anyone else made weekly time capsules of culture in a similar style?

No. 1841123

>>1841095
Because southpark already exists

No. 1841157

Googling medical stuff confuses me but is it true that you can get tested for allergies? Does it have to be specific or can i do just onw test and see everything i'm allergic to?

No. 1841159

>>1841157
Afaik there's different types of testing for allergies. How about you call your doctor's office and ask the assisent about the possibilities?

No. 1841167

>>1841159
I've moved out so i don't have a personal doctor anymore but i will try to look more into it. I don't think i've had an allergic reaction to something new yet but i might be have a bit of intolerance to some spices.

No. 1841185

>>1841157
you can get tested for different allergies at once, probably not "everything" tho, but if you already suspect something they can try that and other common/related things.

No. 1841194

>>1840453
that's ingenious rofl

No. 1841246

>>1840944
Sounds like water weight to me. Try drinking raspberry leaf tea or dandelion root tea (nasty tasting though). Your body probably retains water during your period which is why you see such a big change. It might also be mixed with you potentially getting more cravings to replace lost nutrients just before the period which adds up by the time it hits but I'd wager more on the water retention. It's rather common but doctors barely tell women about it in my experience. My bloat can be super bad during my period
>>1841157
Check if your town has an allergy clinic or specialist. They usually need referrals in my country but it all depends. Walk in clinics in my area do referrals if you're having trouble since you're out without a doc currently

No. 1841259

Is elevator music a thing in your country, and if so, where are you from?

No. 1841267

>>1841259
The last elevator I was in had a rapey vibe and no music - UK

No. 1841327

File: 1704556592733.png (24.89 KB, 250x250, 722.png)

Is this blue, green or bluey green?

No. 1841330

>>1841327
I'm so shit at colours is it turquoise?

No. 1841336

>>1841327
Imo main body color is mint green

No. 1841338

>>1841327
More green that blue, like a aquamarine or seafoam green.
>>1841330
Turquoise is typically more blue but there is natural turquoise this color so you're not wrong.

No. 1841340

>>1841327
Looks like Mint/(more greenish leaning) Aqua to me, without going into specific color names

No. 1841355

this song is one of those songs that were made specifically so they'd go viral on tiktok, right? please tell me i'm not going crazy, kek.

No. 1841365

How do people deal with being horny. Are you all just suffering too or am I the weird one. I feel like a moid for thinking about sex 24/7 (especially since I’m into women and it makes me feel a little guilty) and people always act like it’s only men who are super horny, even on here. It’s genuinely hard to deal with on a day to day basis. Why must I be a mammal

No. 1841375

>>1841365
I've never been horny 24/7. Its not about pretending women don't get horny like that, it's just that many don't relate. Maybe your hormones are more balanced or something.

No. 1841378

>>1841365
It’s okay to be this way anon, I used to feel this way before I got on birth control. Now I kinda miss it

No. 1841381

>>1841365
Tbh I’ve gotten reoccurring periods where all I want to do is jack off in bed and be a gross sweaty mammal. I don’t really have much advice since I tend to just go through those days mentally on autopilot

No. 1841397

I live in a big apartment and it's so cold… There's an AC box in here but nothing that can heat up the place, I don't have vents so I think any warmth is just from having walls and it's otherwise at the mercy of the outdoor temp. How can I get it up to room temperature throughout the whole unit? I don't want to be forced to wear bulky sweaters all day and I have cold-sensitive plants.

No. 1841404

>>1841397
Add heaters you can plug in?

No. 1841436

>>1841365
I can relate anon, there have been days where I'm so horny that it's hard to work and even masturbating won't fully alleviate it. I went through a really bad depression and my drive plummeted but it's slowly coming back. It's annoying but it makes me feel human at least.

No. 1841446

Is osu still a thing? As much as it used to be a thing, anyways…

No. 1841470

So if vampires don't have their own body heat and are naturally cold, why do they wear clothes if being cold is natural to their physique?

No. 1841474

>>1841470
Most people don't want to see vampire cock and balls, it's basic decency

No. 1841480

>>1841470
they're vain faggots and need to show off their silk blouses and tight chaps

No. 1841485

I'm kinda high and paranoid right now but am I wrong to think that at my age of 31, I know a kind of high number of people who have died in a fire, 2. Is that a high number? not in a warzone

No. 1841670

Does anyone remember when kids would say "safety" every time they farted

No. 1841672

>>1841485
Well it's unusual.

No. 1841680

>>1841672
right? that shit shouldn't be happening, I don't think it's common at all thank you

No. 1841703

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Anynonna have a reusable water bottle to recommend? Something that's easily hand washable and doesn't leak or weight a ton

No. 1841764

>>1840954
Ty anon I hope the same for you as well.

No. 1841767

What’s the most autistic thing about your dad? Mine only bathes or showers in bottled water.

No. 1841780

>>1841767
That is hard to top, mine is just a WWII nerd

No. 1841791

>>1841767
Liked to drink flat Dr. Pepper. He’s dead now

No. 1841795

>>1841767
There's too much to pick but one time he gifted a swiss knife to his 7 year old son as a birthday present in the current decade, i think this explains it a bit.

No. 1841798

>>1841767
cried at america's next top model

No. 1841809

>>1841767
He built a bunker and every one of his shirts has a picture of an animal on it.

No. 1841812

>>1841767
Am I the only one here with a dad who's not autistic?

No. 1841814

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is there a term for shoes with chunky bottoms like this? i think its fun

No. 1841821

>>1841814
Some brands actually use the term 'chunky'. They'll usually be described as that or platform, or even chunky platform.

No. 1841830

>>1840348
just tell him what you shared with us now, nonna! you'll do fine. happy birthday in advance and ps. your 30s will be better than you think. i promise.

No. 1841847

>>1841814
flatform or chunky, platform actually means a heel + height but brands usually use them interchangeably

No. 1841906

Say you eat like 20000 calories in one day, but it was just one day- where do those calories go? I know stuff just kind of averages itself out and you won't gain weight from a day or two of overeating but what just happens to all those excess calories? Do they just immediately become fat or like… what?

No. 1841910

>>1841767
Mine very likely has actual autism so too many to list kek. Aside from typical autism stuff like having an obsessive fixation on something and being socially awkward, one that's pretty prevalent recently is that he's into tennis and ping pong so he "practices" swings when he's just idling around, like air guitar but with an invisible racket or paddle. He really puts his heart into getting the technique right so it comes off as extremely melodramatic.

No. 1841912

>>1841906
Depends on the person and the food. 20,000 is a lot you might just get sick and vomit.

No. 1841919

I've been friends with a girl since I was 19 and she was 16. I'm 27 and she's 24 now and I want to pursue a romantic relationship with her but I feel like a pedophile because I've known her since she was a minor and I was not but I only felt attraction to her recently. Can I go for it or is it morally wrong…?

No. 1841944

I have been absolutely disgustingly ravenous in these last few days, is there any way I can control/curb this? I don't have any eating disorders and my period just finished so I have no idea what has brought this insane hunger I'm always feeling

No. 1841945

>>1841919
Just do it, you're both adults

No. 1842022

How do you cope with how cruel life is? I've had bad things happen to me but I'm pretty spoiled all things considered. What I can't stand is how much others are suffering and how I can't do anything to stop it. It drives me insane, and the bad news never stops, and I don't think the good in this world outweighs the bad either.

No. 1842026

>>1841767
this cant be real

No. 1842028

>>1841767
Has multiple rooms with walls just full of funko pops. A lot of money spent.

No. 1842048

>>1842022
I wish I could say the same after all the bad which keeps happening in my life. If you ever make a friend who had a bad past and is struggling to me someone cooking a meal, going to the park, giving a ride, offering coffee or dinner out when they struggle financially is a life saver. It sounds small but helps. You could volunteer somewhere you feel comfortable with if you have the time too.

No. 1842049

>>1842028
I hate funkopops. God they're so ugly

No. 1842057

Would you date someone with dwarfism?

No. 1842059


No. 1842060

>>1842057
if I was also a dwarf, yes

No. 1842098

>>1842022
>how I can't do anything to stop it. It drives me insane
I know this is a cliche cop-out answer but volunteering or otherwise getting involved locally helps a lot of people combat despair. Maybe assisting a food drive or soup kitchen won't stop global famine, but it can be the difference between night and day for a hungry woman nearby. Just because the world is big doesn't mean that it doesn't really matter for these people.

No. 1842102

>>1842022
I feel the same way, I'll probably kill myself about it sooner or later

No. 1842108

>>1842057
only if he owned vast orichalcum and mythril mines

No. 1842113

>>1842022
Same, anon. I just don't know. I think that when my parents die, I might volunteer to the red cross or something of the like on warzones as a form of "altruistic" suicide. Everyday I don't die, at least I'm helping someone. Idk.

No. 1842118

>>1842113
Are you me? I literally posted that exact thing a few weeks ago about wishing I had a skill so I could volunteer in Gaza. "altruistic" suicide is a good term, did you make it up?

No. 1842139

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if i look like laina when i smile should i stop smiling in photos or would that be scarier? should i give up and embrace the resting bitch face? what would be less weird in group photos people take to look back fondly on?

No. 1842158

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I have a shower head like this that you can take down and use handheld. Is there a noticeable sound difference in when it’s used as a normal shower head vs when you take it down and use it handheld, that someone outside the bathroom could hear? Extremely important question please help.

No. 1842162

>>1842158
No noticeable difference especially because the water running through the hose will still be audible unless your plumbing is exceptionally quiet.

No. 1842174

If you had necrotizing fasciitis with deep genital involvement would you want to live? I think my family would be pissed off if I said no, but tbh i would not want to live without a pussy. You'd def wind up with urostomy I assume, too.

No. 1842196

>>1842174
i'm no doctor but i don't think most people would survive nec fash spreading to the torso anyway

No. 1842200

File: 1704611169612.jpeg (33.43 KB, 680x680, water.jpeg)

>>1842026
Unfortunately, it is true kek. He would buy a few of picrel from the store and fill up a bucket with them and then go to the shower and use them. He became convinced that any water that came from a pipe in our city made his skin feel slimy. Our city has very good water and it is not particularly hard water so he was just being an autist.

No. 1842201

>>1842118
I'm sorry you also feel that way, nonnie. I honestly don't know if I have the necessary skills for volunteering either, but who knows. Also yeah, I made that up - I don't know if there's an official expression for that type of ideation.

No. 1842203

>>1842196
they do though, im watching lectures on it rn.

No. 1842205

>>1842201
ayrt, I wonder if there's another way to achieve it. Walk around looking for house fires or something? kek

No. 1842211

Am I blind/retarded or is the "lolcows of history" thread on /ot/ gone? The one about milk from historical figures

No. 1842215

>>1842211
this one? >>>/ot/650010
it just got pushed pretty far back bc it's not very active unfortunately

No. 1842217

>>1842215
thanks nona, not sure why none of my searches were turning it up!

No. 1842277

File: 1704618605209.jpg (30.74 KB, 431x320, teenmalebudgeter.jpg)

anynonna "cash stuffing"/using the cash envelope system? does it work for you? how do you deal with coins? do you have all your (main) envelopes at all times on you and if not, how do you keep track of the money spent in each category? was looking up videos on the topic and the channel name in picrel made me chuckle (but maybe it only sounds weird to eslfag)

No. 1842282

Do any of you have painful sensitive scalps? My scalp appears healthy, its not red or flaky or anything but often if I don't wash my hair every other day it becomes extremely sensitive and causes me mild pain to change the part. Does anyone else experience? If so, do you know why?

No. 1842287

what classifies as an outdoor cat? my cat likes to stay in the backyard and the shed but has never left for more than a few hours.

No. 1842292

Why does even AI struggle with making hands?

No. 1842294

>>1842282
same anon, i just accept it and wash my hair/scalp when it gets itchy. guess our scalps just aren't meant for the "wash hair once a week" lifestyle. i tried everything, nothing worked lol.

(i do however suspect it's the hard water where i live that irritates me. can't change that either however)

No. 1842311

>>1842277
Yes! This method has been a game changer!

I didn't start because I was in debt, I just wanted to get some savings built up.

how do you deal with coins?
I put all small coins into a jar and bigger coins go back in until they're broken up. I'm currently doing the penny challenge with them.

do you have all your (main) envelopes at all times on you?
Nope. Whatever envelope I need for that day, I just take out and carry with me.

and if not, how do you keep track of the money spent in each category?
I personally don't.
You can quickly make a table either digitally or in a notebook and just write your before balance and after balance and what you spent it on.


Basically you write down all all categories, your income and distribute it between them all.
I personally keep the money for my bills and subscriptions digitally, but I know many prefer having it in their envelopes then put it back in when it's due.

To just try it out and see if it works for you, get a bunch of mailing envelopes, write all your categories down, and allocate cash into them. If you find you like it you can upgrade to making/buying those fancy binders and envelopes.

Also savings challenges are amazing and I highly recommend them if you find this is something you want to stick with! I make my own but there are many you can print out for free, or just make your own on paper!

No. 1842316

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Should I get a big mac? Are they good? I've never tried one before, looks interesting.

No. 1842323

>>1842316
They have a lot of mayo on them and veg and the burgers have a kind of burnt flavor. I had a really good one the other day it was a spicy version. I'd rather just eat wendys or fuddruckers but its up to you

No. 1842324

>>1842316
>chemical patties
if you want cancer, yeh

No. 1842328

>>1842316
Long time since I had one but I've had oh hell yeah big macs and I've had how did you fuck this up big macs. That hit and miss thing kinda applies to all fast food but the bun on a big mac really needs to not be fucked up or stale

No. 1842364

File: 1704633507431.jpg (72.42 KB, 500x777, sdv.jpg)

How the fuck do amerifags clean their floor if they have this carpet thing on? This is one coca-cola spill away from being stained and sticky for eternity. This is nasty. No one can convince me that this can be effectively cleaned without having issues like mold or build-up.

No. 1842365

>>1842311
Thank you for the detailed answer nonna, it's helpful! I'm going to do this for the coins I think. I just want to save up too and I'm excited to start. I'm just a bit worried about the practicality of it when buying stuff for different categories at the same time/on the same day. I guess yeah it's either writing the balance after every purchase and then matching/redistributing the correct amount in each envelope when I get back home, or battling with my wallet and envelopes at the cashier kek. I'll see. I heard about the saving challenges without really looking into them yet but I will!

No. 1842376

>>1841446
I mean I don't know? never played it, but recently I heard of a friends friend who's really good at that game and plays it a lot lol. I never liked these kind of games anyways

No. 1842378

>>1841703
I just reuse empty plastic watter bottles. you could try and buy a hydroflask

No. 1842381

>>1841814
I'm sorry but that looks horrible

No. 1842384

>>1842139
hello laina, hope you enjoy lolcow.farm(hi cow)

No. 1842393

>>1842364
not an americanfag but a friend has this kind of carpet (but a darker colour) in his bedroom. it always looks clean. he probably uses W5. you can find it at lidl

No. 1842426

Do religious people really believe there's someone actually up there? Or is it more like holding up hope for someone like that?

No. 1842427

>>1841767
My dad works on cargo ships and when he comes back from 3+ months on the sea, every day he goes to some website that shows live movement of all the cargo ships in the world and looks at photos of them. I guess I'm happy for him to have a job related to something he loves lol

No. 1842446

>>1842364
You own a device called a rub scrubber and you curse whenever you have to bust it out because it's a pain in the ass to use.
>>1842426
They truly believe that there is a god. They orient their life around this belief.

No. 1842447

>>1841812
You're on the autism site nonnie, and autism is genetic.

No. 1842450

>>1842426
Not all do. Religions harbor a lot of people that know they can use and manipulate religious people just by pretending to be devout. So you basically have a frying pan of gullible idiots, broken people, loyal people, and actual monsters who have something to gain from all the former.

No. 1842453

>>1842426
Both, the younger ones either believe because they grew up in a religious environment or they fake it to make their family happy. The older ones grew up in times when kids did drop dead regularly from smallpox and measles, getting a cold could be a death sentence, they've been told since before they could walk that if you don't pray you're going to hell and be tortured for all eternity. They believe because they're terrified of heaven and hell not being real and because of the overall trauma from when they were growing up.

No. 1842454

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who is this?

No. 1842460

What do you nonnies think is the socially acceptable amount of drinking? I'm a eurofag and a lot of (older) people I know drink every day, I don't really think it's normal but also it's not seen as unacceptable or abnormal.

No. 1842464

>>1842426
If we're talking abrahamic religions, many genuinely believe there's a god and that he'll come to punish everyone who doesn't have faith. I sometimes accidently say god damn in front of my mom and she detests it because she genuinely thinks I'm condemning myself to eternity in hell.

No. 1842468

>>1842426
men don't really give a shit, but women are more sincere. religion is used to control women.

No. 1842475

>>1842460
I'm in Western Europe, I'd say socially acceptable here is getting drunk on the weekends but not shit faced drunk and blacking out. I think the amount of alcohol consumed here is on the lower end of Europe though.

No. 1842477

>>1842426
Personally I do

No. 1842528

>>1842460
In social occasions, it's not too bad if someone gets properly buzzed but not if they black out or become a nuisance. I think it's also okay for people to have a glass every evening to unwind, but it's incredibly cringe once they start being a wine mom or unable to function without their glass. Basically everything in moderation. It's important to reflect on drinking habits, especially if people express concern, and not become addicted. My grandpa was an alcoholic and it affected everyone's lives even though he was a "functioning" alcoholic (which is an oxymoron of course).

No. 1842535

>>1842477
Nayrt, but can I ask you about how you feel? I have been nonreligious basically since birth; I have never felt like there's something out there or that I can ever believe in an afterlife, but I marvel at people who do. I am not discrediting your feelings or lived reality; I sincerely want to understand. Do you feel like there is an otherworldly presence that has created or is watching over us? Do you feel like there is something beyond the metaphysical life? If it's okay, what are your religious feelings and views like, nonnie?

No. 1842585

>>1842535
I feel you nonna, I grew up basically non-religious but I felt really lost and confused. Since believing in god I've been way more cautious about the way I act, I used to be a pretty selfish and egotistical person but the idea someone is watching over me has made me a more patient and less self centered person. I used to be completely dictated by my emotions and said/did a lot of bad things because of it. Since I started believing it's much easier for me to look at situations objectively and stay calm, not let people get to me type of thing. You can be a good person without being religious obviously but for me it just makes sense, I can't subscribe to the idea that everything here is just a coincidence. The day I die is the day I find out but until then I'd rather believe in it. Sorry if this is giant ramble lol, basically I can't insist it's a fact but something inside tells me god exists, it's only had a positive impact on my life and it makes me feel a type of peace I never felt before. Life can let me down again and again but in prayer I can always think of things to be grateful for and I return a calmer person.

No. 1842619

Why do some middle eastern people look white if they're genetically not?(bait)

No. 1842623

>>1842378
But that's the thing, I don't buy any bottled drinks but I will look into a hydroflask, I was just wondering if there was a nona with some waterbottle autism

No. 1842631

>>1842585
Do you just believe in the existence of a god or do you stick to a particular faith?

I go through phases of staunchly believing god doesn't exist to thinking maybe a god does exist because I can't find another explanation for the existence of the universe, but I don't want to believe in Christianity (was raised Christian) because I find it to be a misogynistic religion. So I feel lost.

No. 1842647

>>1842619
white isn't really a race, people have started capitalizing it in recent years but it's really just a physical description of what people from various european ancestries look like. when people talk about white, brown, or black people they're over simplifying with the purpose of trying to talk about how people treat each other in (usually) American society based on each person's perception of the other person's race. there's not exactly a rule about how tan you are to be 'brown' or how pale to be 'white'. people are reductive when they are trying to describe situations based on race, sometimes it works to describe what's going on and sometimes it doesn't.

No. 1842651

>>1842619
Found the American.

No. 1842668

>>1834962
you don't eat raw meat without cooking it first, and that mean prepared it ( meat must be extra fresh from the butcher, grounded for tartare or thinly sliced for carpaccio) and seasoned, depending on what you are doing
beef tartare has ketchup, capers, Worcestershire sauce, pickles, salt pepper, some use an egg yolk but i do it without, served with fries or a salad.
Yukhoe is the korean tartar, it has sesame oil, garlic, sliced pear, egg yolk, gochujang and sometimes pine nuts
carppacio is seasonned with a lot of olive oil and salt, usually you can add slided parmesan cheese on top of it, and i eat it with bread on the side

it's the same thing with raw fish, you either season it with soy sauce, or you cook it in acidic sauce like cerviche

and as for food safety, well, as i say, i don't eat any meat raw, only beef and from places and restaurant i know, if you are scare of dying from a little red juice from meat, well, don't eat it

No. 1842691

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anyone else these two look uglier afterwards?

No. 1842693

>>1842691
They surely look more retarded

No. 1842695

>>1842691
mostly it's the first picture had more appealing lighting and color palette. the softness of a little extra fat suited her face as well and obviously theyre both older. I think if they lost the over tanning and took a picture in that same nature place from original pic they'd still look nice, if older.

No. 1842696


No. 1842698

>>1842695
also having just a bit more natural levels of fat on them.

No. 1842702

>>1842691
Not me. They look way hotter in the second image.

No. 1842781

>>1842585
I have a similar situation
In my case I have Christian (leaning Catholic) views but I'm not baptized so I don't technically count as any religion. I was atheist and then just "idc idk" for a long time but now I'd say I definitely believe in God. It's a mix of certain logical arguments and personal experiences. I'm a bad communicator in general but I've read books, etc. that made sense to me. The second is maybe even harder to describe but I've been happier, no longer suicidal, more confident, left a violent man, and other benefits since growing more spiritual and it helps me feel less lonely.
I think it's odd/curious that some people here have strong attachments to fictional characters and build shrines, talk to them, imagine being married, etc. since many Christians have a similar idea with Jesus except they don't think it's fictional. It's not always a "strict dictator in the sky" thing, though I know there are people who think that way, more often it's about a man who really loves you
Also no I'm not one of the tradthots who spergs in threads, I mostly keep my beliefs hidden because lots of people in general are unprecedentedly cruel to me over it. A lot of people do the "well my schizo evangelical uncle thinks women are beings of Satan so you must also have the same unhinged beliefs" thing and so I just avoid bringing up the C-word because it's too misleading. I had a guy force me to strip because he thought I was puritanical and that he had to beat it out of me.

No. 1842795

Anons who learned and became fluent in a second language during adulthood, what's the best way or method to learn and become fluent in a second language while you're an adult? People always say that children are the better learners of language, and I agree. But it can't be impossible when you're already an adult, so do any bilingual anons have any best suggestions?

No. 1842798

What's the deal with Japan and whipped cream?

No. 1842903

>>1842795
I think following a course with a teacher is preferable, but I didn't want to spend that kind of money so I got a beginners course book and worked through it, and then the next one in the same series etc. Eventually I got a grammar book on the side when I started to practice with writing more on my own. Don't do stuff like duolingo. I downloaded a vocabulary deck for the most common 1k words and practiced them every day. I started reading books and consuming other forms of media pretty early on. I tried tv shows at first but that was waaaayyy too hard in the beginning, I really didn't understand more than a few words here and there, but there's also podcasts and stuff specifically for beginners if you look for it. For books you can get books that are specifically written for beginners as opposed to little kids. I was able to talk with natives irl (I live close to the border of the country of my target language) pretty early on which was definitely helpful, but if you can't do that there's language exchange apps and discord communities that can get you in touch with native speakers to get practice in. I kept reading online that neglecting to actually speak the language because you're scared to make mistakes is a common pitfall so I was pretty set on avoiding that. I'm not 100% fluent but I can comfortably hold a conversation and follow movies and tv shows without subtitles.

That said, I did it with a language in the same language family as my native language, so relatively close to my own. When I started to read from like week 2 on I was able to pick up a very general idea of what I was reading because of similiarity in vocab and grammar and because I had been practicing those most common words. I'm not sure if a proces like this is optimal with a wildly different language like Japanese or something if that's what you're after.

No. 1842952

Why do clothing companies call it petite and tall instead of petite and grande if they use the french term?

No. 1842953

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No. 1843001

Would you watch two boxers with dwarfism fight?

No. 1843024

>>1843001
Absolutely. I would never admit this to anyone in real life though.

No. 1843043

>>1842426
It depends on what religion we are talking about. I'm not religious, but I do consider myself spiritual, and atheism never sit right with me, even though I always considered myself one. Not sure if it makes sense, but at some point I realized that my atheism was a mental self-harm that I insisted on inflicting on myself for the sake of being "rational". It's like I got cultist brain poisoning in a form of anti-religion, because it went like I wasn't allowed to experience things I do experience. I was suppressing any "irrational" thought or feeling, almost as if someone was there in my head watching my thoughts.
Abrahamic religions never sit right with me however, I don't think spirituality should be limited by belief into some anthropomorphic entity. In fact, I do think that if there is something out there, then this triad is still deceiving simply because they project human-, culture-, and time-specific, concepts onto these entities.
After meeting my Buddhist in-law, I got curious and most of what I learned after that made a lot of sense to me. No god, no dogma*, and it encourages to draw conclusions from personal experiences based on tools provided by various practices.
*There are dogma-like teachings and sets of rules, but their core idea is more like "do this to achieve that, X leads to Y", whereas in Abrahamic religions it's strict black-and-white "do X and you will be severely punished [by a mass projection of a strict parent…], or do Y and you will achieve a great reward".
I don't really practice anything much apart from things that currently help me recover from mental issues and happenings of the past, but I found comfort in knowing that there is a rather major religion that reflects my experiences with life and feelings about the world. I also finally feel like a part of this world as a whole, it's something I think most Abrahamic concept of reality lacks of, don't know how to explain, and obviously it usually depends on the believer, But it's always some detached entity out there, reaching you only under specific circumstances, and something you work for is essentially controlled by someone else (=god), not you, and your choices are rather an illusion of choice. It's an extremely unhealthy concept to me, and I highly doubt that a metaphysical entity would be so down to earth. Interestingly enough though, considering that Buddhism lacks dogmas, it's possible to be one and follow another religion as well, if you feel like it.
But anyway, all this sperging is just to provide some context into an answer to your question from my perspective: to me, it's both, except it's "something" as opposed to "someone". That something being a stream of consciousness that goes beyond one life. There's no doubt that we don't really know about the universe that much, so partially "something is out there" is already covered by actual rational thought. My hope is, I wish it would be possible to see and experience all this, or at the very least, experience lives other humans and assorted organisms on Earth. The idea that all life around me might be me in future or past life made me feel more connected to the world than any kind of socialization ever did, and I also feel more empathetic and caring towards everyone around me.

No. 1843304

>>1842454
"android raptor", some kiwifarms rando who was apparently shitting up the tradthot thread

No. 1843308

>>1843043
Lmao. Why do all non-asian Buddhists sound like some of the most pretentious people you will ever met.
We get it you did drugs and are now spiritual.

No. 1843310


No. 1843312

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Why do I wake up tired and am tired all day?

No. 1843321

>>1843312
Probably vitamin deficiency.
Main suspects:
>Vitamin D
>Electrolytes
>Magnesium

No. 1843323

>>1843321
Forgot to add;
>Vitamin B complex

No. 1843332

>>1842952
Not a fact I know for sure but my tinfoil is that it's because "short" is viewed as a negative descriptor so they felt the need to sugarcoat it with a prettier word. But "tall" is viewed positively and "grande" implies big/fat which is viewed negatively especially for women. "Plus size" is another sugarcoated term
I am short and people make it clear that they view it as a flaw, I've had people say stuff like "oh dear you're not short, just petite/vertically challenged/fun-sized/[some other beating around the bush term]!"

No. 1843369

>>1843332
I agree with your tinfoil and that's an interesting way to look at it. Where I live being short is seen as cute or desirable so I wonder why and how it originated and became standard.

No. 1843402

Why do people start hating people that they once loved when they get dumped or when they get rejected? Happened to me before but I don't fully understand how love can just flip into annoyance, hate and jealousy so easily.

No. 1843447

>>1843402
You have more leniency for people you have affection for.
Once you break up the affection goes away, the red flags and problems are exposed for what they are because you're not wearing rose coloured glasses anymore

No. 1843660

why do some people on tumblr block you when you've never even interacted with them?

No. 1843662

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Does salted caramel torani syrup smell a little alcoholic to anyone else? Just opened one and I'm trying to decide if I'm going crazy or not. Haven't tried torani syrups enough to know if this is how they smell

No. 1843681

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what happens when you dont take anti depressants at the same hour always? But you still take it daily, just at very different times and without tracking it

No. 1843699

>>1843681
Unless stated otherwise for a specific medication it really doesn't matter, taking them at the same time is mostly to create a schedule that will help you never forget. If you do it daily anyway you're fine.

No. 1843711

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Nonas is this too cunty?
I'm fucking sick of this dog and its shitty crusty old karen owner.

No. 1843764

Where can I view the official epstein list?

No. 1843776

Do any of you use eyelash serum? I have thought of getting the popular Terez and Honor one that's trendy on TikTok but I don't know. Maybe I will get the one from the Ordinary instead. Have any of you had good results?

No. 1843822

>>1843711
It comes across as firm but polite, but I'd remove the sentences between "[…] raised in this letter." and "Please see attached records[…]", since people rarely react positively to strangers telling them what to do in detail. I'd also go over the spelling one more time.

No. 1843823

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What is the best protein powder that is also sort of cost effective, according to anons?
I know whey can cause constipation so I'm trying other types, but am open to dairy-based that won't stop my shitter. Currently trying brown rice, but I heard that it's less effective on its own. Is soy good? Pumpkin? Hemp? I feel frozen in the protein aisle because of all the options.

No. 1843826

>>1843823
I like Quest's vanilla protein powder the best. It's not the cheapest but it's not crazy, but its really great for smoothie bowls in particular if you're into those. It makes them super airy.

No. 1843832

>>1843711
The "barking 6 times an hour" part doesn't make sense to me, it sounds like 6 invidividual barks in an hour. I suppose you mean up to 6 continuous bouts of barking? But I agree with >>1843822, leave out the part about owners' behaviour/actions. Your letter needs to make them aware that 1. it's causing noise issues 2. you are keeping record with intention to report, and I think it does a good job of that.

No. 1843847

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Are there such things as classy men anymore? Like…where and how do you find a guy who takes care of himself and isn't a manchild…and isn't a gross old scrote?

No. 1843861

>>1843847
I feel like those are low bars for classy, classy is 3 steps up from simply 'isn't a manchild' All the males I know closely aren't manchildren but they aren't classy either, they can be rough or just normal but not classy.
The classiest one I know still eats sausages and potato for dinner so in my experience as an answer to your query… no?

No. 1843868

>>1843660
Can't speak for everyone but I block liberally for any random petty reason, like posting troon rhetoric or if I see them being mean or smug to someone else. I also block people who post sexual or scary pictures because I don't want to see that content. It's nothing personal against the person, I just want to curate what I see. I couldn't tell you what the reason was for half the people in my blocklist and I'm sure plenty of them are nice people, it's just that I use tumblr as a content platform and not a social one.
>>1843776
Be careful eyelash serums have been linked to periorbital fat loss (eye area looks sunken/aged) and the darkening of light irises. It's mostly latisse that had the controversy but they're all a little dubious to me
>>1843847
I know men in their 20s who groom themselves and dress up nicely frequently, and it's often to go to church. So there exist guys who are polished but idk if they're necessarily your type.

No. 1843873

>>1843660
If I see you posting shit supporting the eroding of women's rights, I block you. So anything supporting trans or that women working is a mistake trad stuff. Also, occasionally, someone will post an art style picture that I hate but that my circle adores so after seeing it reposted thirty times on my dash, I'll block the artist just so that I don't have to look at it anymore.
>>1843662
It might have started to ferment, it has water and sugar in it, which is all yeast needs to start creating alcohol.

No. 1843890

>>1843847
If you want to meet a certain type of person, you can do it by having a similar lifestyle, going to the same type of places, have the same circles of friends, as that person. If you don't know any "classy" men then it's likely that you are just not the kind of person that "classy" men will want to spend time with.

No. 1843954

>>1836468
Straight

No. 1843961

>>1840561
It's because moids have a fetish for Asian women. When they draw this as a human it's not the features themselves they like (glasses, big teeth, black hair) but rather the Asian girl whomay or may not have them. If they had a fetish for black girls, it'd be drawn as a black girl with glasses.

No. 1843964

>>1840561
And to me it doesn't seem to hint at anything racial at all. It's just a beaver with glasses. But I'm normal.

No. 1843966

>>1836493
He’s just like me

No. 1843972

>>1843711
Go straight to the manager of the building if it’s a rental property, they could be in breach of their agreement and the complex can start fining them. Had a similar problem with my neighbor (as did everyone else in the building) and a few of us complained to management who gave them warnings and told them if they didn’t stop the behavior they’d start getting fined. Guess what’s not happening any more?
We all tried politely asking them to put a stop to it but they kept gaslighting everyone saying it wasn’t their dog and shit, sometimes there’s no point in being nice and going to such lengths because what’re you going to do about it? Go to the council? Well you didn’t, instead you wasted precious time writing and dropping off a letter. I doubt you’re the only one to complain and there have probably been others that directly confronted them. Save your time and escalate to someone who can actually put a stop to it.

No. 1843980

>>1843711
It's way too long, shorten it. The way you detailed when the barking occurs is weird; if you don't know what unit they're in how do you know all those details about where the dog and the owner are and what's happening when the dog barks? Attaching a record of when the dog has barked is strange (what does that even looks like? | 7pm bark | 7:15pm bark bark | ? kek)
I'd be aggravated if I got this letter in my mailbox, partially because I work at the post office in my country and it's illegal to put anything but official post in the box, and partially because my opinion is no1currs.

No. 1843991

>>1841767
He doesn’t exactly have friends. He’s just acquaintances with the people he sees everyday and doesn’t really have a close relationship with anyone

No. 1844003

>>1843681
If it's a 24hr slow release tablet then you will frequently have too much or too little in your system and it will fuck with your mental. Look up what kind of pill it is or just ask your doctor. It can matter a lot.

No. 1844004

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What are some examples of ‘creative’ stuff that involves following set instructions?
>crotchet
>building legosets
>building gundams
>baking

No. 1844016

Are all canadian people annoying?

No. 1844037

>>1844004
Poetry. There are so many different perimeters that you can choose but you're always bound by meter and/or rhyme and/or syllables. You can also choose to do more rigid forms like a sestina or a haiku or something more free like blank verse.

Since songs are poems, those too. Music in general, I guess.

No. 1844045

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>>1844016
The first time I met a Canadian as a burger, he immediately said "DID YOU KNOW that Canadians once burned down the white house???" with a smug face. And I was like okay.

No. 1844047

I potato peeled my finger, how can I heal it so the scar is minimal or nonvisible? The flap of skin was attached at a needle thick thread and I just slapped it back over the cut and waited for bleeding to be minimal then covered it with lanolin and a Bandaid. Should I rip the skin flap off when I change bandaids? The cut isn’t super deep and it’s maybe a few mm long/wide I’m just worried it will heal as a little dent

No. 1844049

>>1844016
I met a Canadian girl once. She would complain about her cat randomly biting her, her boyfriend when he would be a buffoon, and about retarded tumblr users and antis in her favorite fandom. But she peaked me about trannies, so she'll always be one of the most "based" people I've ever met. So to answer your question, I guess just a little bit.

No. 1844076

>>1844016
The only Canadian I ever knew (not long) laughed with me as we took pictures of a dark and rainy city skyline after a orchestra performance and offered me mochi as we took the subway home so my experience is no.

No. 1844080

If you had to put Architecture under one traditional school subject, which one would it be?

No. 1844116

>>1844080
This will be an unpopular opinion but I would say history. The STEM just supports it, but the soul of it is history. The ancient's tech building the first support columns, archways, etc is still derived from and used today, and the more historical knowledge builders and architects have, the more unique and quality buildings can be.

No. 1844133

>>1844016
Canada is pretty big, but a lot are the uber progressive liberal kind (who would proudly support trannies) and a lot have a weird superiority complex over being not-American. Idk how to put it but there's a sort of "twitter" mindset some people have where they're a little self-righteous all the time. I am Canadian but I moved to the US, I like it better here but it's also not like night and day.
>>1844080
Depends on the focus of the class, some are more about studying past cultural developments and some are centered on principals for engineering for the future. I'd say history for the former but science for the latter.

No. 1844264

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>>1843764
There is none. The list that was recently released is just a list of everyone mentioned at any time in the court case. Many had no official association with Epstein outside of being mentioned once in passing in a phone call or something.

Link to document: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VjGuTuVoHtmcbwlZFwEMFpgzLDejSJK3/view
An explanation: https://www.vox.com/politics/2024/1/4/24025802/jeffrey-epstein-list-unsealed-documents-bill-clinton-donald-trump

No. 1844270

>>1844016
They tend to act better than anyone else, despite being massively liberal and tranny welcoming. Also, they have a very dark history involving schools where ingenious people were forced to convert to Christianity and tradition gender roles. A lot of them were children who died there. They are still uncovering mass graves at these schools to this day.

No. 1844271

Where did that newfag redtext drawing come from? is it a doodle from the LC drawing room?

No. 1844277

>>1844016
All canadian men I met online were obsessed with american politics kek
The canadian women I met online all seemed to be very well off and loved to talk about their first world problems. I think I have bad luck with canadians but I'll be honest, my sample size isn't that big. Sorry to all kind canadians in advance.

No. 1844300

What are the grounds for suing someone for defamation? I'm aware actual malice but what are the other pretenses that aren't covered under free speech laws, especially for public figures? It seems like you can say pretty much anything you want within the bounds of anonymity unless you're criminally threatening someone.

No. 1844362

When something fucks you over and you feel like shit with so much weight on your back, how do you snap out of it and quickly feel better?

No. 1844365

>>1844300
"The statement must be untrue and presented as a factual claim rather than an opinion to be defamation. Additionally, there must be evidence that the statement caused or has the potential to cause significant damage to the reputation of the individual or entity targeted."

First thing that came up when I googled your first sentence, may differ from country to country.

No. 1844372

>>1844362
Go out and spend time with friends. Exercise. Cook a nice meal. Avoid drinking, as this will probably only make it worse.

No. 1844376

>>1844362
You don't, you simply have a mental breakdown and slowly go back to that numb mental state where you just don't care anymore, meanwhile things keep piling up, then you have another mental breakdown, an repeat

No. 1844393

>>1844365
So if the plaintiff can't come up with substantial evidence it's the same person posting things online about them they're basically SOL for proof, right? Assuming they can't dox and subpoena accounts of the person who's insulting them because that takes a lot of legal framework and meddling.

No. 1844440

>>1844393
Basically they'd have to have solid proof it's the same person AND that person would have to paint it as fact AND the victim would need evidence the person is hurting their reputation. It is a really hard case to win unless you have very good lawyers. Basically only rich people tend to win this kind of case.

No. 1844466

>>1844440
I just think back to the Vic Mangina case whenever I think of horribly failed defamation case and imagine most celebrities would fare a similar fate if they tried to sue an individual. Especially in a state outside California that doesn't favor or worship them

No. 1844485

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Okay, I've seen BPDfags talk about attracting men and reiterating that men love crazy women, but do you think that's really true? That men love crazy women for being more exciting? Or do you think it's that men go for BPDs because they can tell that BPDs are "crazy" and think they're just easier to manipulate?

No. 1844494

>>1844485
Basically BPDs unintentionally take people on emotional rollercoasters that in hindsight are romanticized by some. This psychologist delves into it. Starts around 2:10, with a timestamped summary in the comments

No. 1844498

my cats ear touched my front tooth unexpectingly and it was sensitive/hurt (imagine a pinch)? I assume my brain just didn't know how to register the feeling (it was a split second his ear touched my tooth) and so it hurt for a second? but is this a sign of dental decay? I never have experienced pain or sensitivity before there

No. 1844628

>>1844485
I've seen many posts on rdrama made by moids who are obsessed with BPD women so I can believe it

No. 1844643

What do nonnies think of Marie Antoinette

No. 1844645

>>1844485
I think it has to do more with how BPDchans read and mirror people well so they present themselves as the perfect partner but most people don't realize it's fake until it's too late. I also think moids love unstable women because it gives them emotional leverage over them as well as fake intimacy without any effort IE some sperg goes on about how amazing he is without actually knowing him at all.

No. 1844649

>>1844643
I feel bad for her, another woman used as a punching bag for people too dumb to understand the wider context that primarily stems from classism and powerful males fuckin' over everyone else, ie. human history tldr.

No. 1844654

>>1844645
is there research on women with BPD being more Machiavellian and good at emotional manipulation or something?

No. 1844656

>>1844643
Don’t really know enough about history to form an opinion about her.

No. 1844659

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>>1844643
I really like the Sofia Coppola movie, and her bedroom and theater room are beautiful. Other than that, despite being into royal history, I don't really care for Marie Antoinette. She was just like any other rich aristocrat and I don't really find her remarkable

No. 1844724

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Has anyone with long hair ever tried doing anime hairstyles like pics related?

No. 1844727

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No. 1844755

What does it say about me that I can't fake that overly cheerful and nice customer service persona? I've gotten grief for it over the years every so often. It's not that I'm rude to people on purpose, but me being so nonchalant comes off as rude to some customers who are more demanding.

No. 1844757

>>1844755
Seems like an american thing. You guys are expected to be weirdly happy and smiley 24/7. Interacting with people like that creeps me out a little, it shouldn’t be expected.

No. 1844765

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>>1844755
I really don't know why Americans made it a thing for workers to act robotically happy, and to get offended when some cashier isn't smiling enough. I wanna know that too: why do Americans want workers to look high on dopamine at all times kek

No. 1844771

after a scab peels off how long will it take for the pink skin underneath to turn brown again

No. 1844772

>>1844771
also will it get back to the same color as the normal skin?please help

No. 1844781

>>1844727
You can put your hair in a bun and then wear fake braids, it looks like a 90/y2k hairstyle irl

No. 1844889

How do I go about trying to reconnect with internet friends I haven't spoken to in about 10 months? I never ghosted them but we just kinda stopped talking…

No. 1844901

>>1844889
Just say hi! Ask them a general question like "how's life going?", What have you been up to? If you have nothing to talk about

No. 1844908

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>>1844724
I have really long hair and last year I did a hanfu photoshoot at a traditional clothing studio, they did my hair in a sort of similar way, picrel real life example. The stylist was enthusiastic since most people don't have real hair long enough to do the style without extensions, but we still used some fake hair pads to make it look a bit fuller.
I guess there are interesting things you can do with super long hair but I usually just wear it in a basic low bun because it gets damaged from dragging around on stuff and gets in the way

No. 1844932

File: 1704780871612.jpeg (Spoiler Image,113.44 KB, 778x607, IMG_3768.jpeg)

Can someone make this transparent for me it isn’t working

No. 1844934

>>1844932
did new gachimuchi just drop?

No. 1845003

>>1844908
I can see Diva wearing this style irl

No. 1845008

What do those fujo autists like in real life? I feel like no irl moid can live up to anime boy looks so I’m struggling to comprehend what kind of tastes they would have

No. 1845014

>>1845008
>liking 3DPD

No. 1845015

>>1845008
I'd sooner neck myself than date a real moid. Ew.

No. 1845019

File: 1704786204628.png (13.12 KB, 414x360, barking.png)

Sorry only just clicked into this thread again
>>1843822
I spliced together the councils pre done letter for this issue and some of my own. Thats fair, should I mention I'm keeping a record at all?
>>1843832
Its continuous marking for different amounts of time, I was going to attach a weeks worth of records like this pic. Thank you for replying
>>1843972
I have looked and cant find any building information so I cant, theyre the building over from us and every unit has different companies, assuming the woman is even renting. I dont want the dog taken off them I just want them to say something to the fucking dog when its barking. Its the lack of action from them that drives me mental, just sit there listening to their yappy rat dog bark over and over and over
>>1843980
I can see the patio the dog is barking from from my unit, I dont know what number it is because I cant see their entrance door as they have their own stairwell thats locked for the whole building. I can see their tv and silhouette when the dog is barking, they keep their lights off when not home but the patio door open 24/7 for the dog to bark from
>Illegal to put anything but post in the box
what cucked country do you live in? lmao

No. 1845040

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what did he mean by this? Brother?

No. 1845065

>>1845040
Probably either protective or fun

No. 1845089

What are some foods to eat when you feel very nauseous and hungry at the same time?

No. 1845090

>>1845089
fridge cold oranges

No. 1845122

>>1845089
Cheese

No. 1845207

>>1845089
Ginger chews or ginger tea. Mint tea also helps.

No. 1845237

If I experience muscle twitches along my spine and occasional dizzy spells that I suspect are caused by pinched nerves, what specialist should I see? Neurologist? Physiotherapist? Rheumatologist?

No. 1845239

>>1845237
Samefag, also tinnitus in one ear

No. 1845276

>>1844080
Like designing architecture or learning about it? Art for former

No. 1845278

How do I stop crying immediately im pathetic crying at work for stupid shit

No. 1845279

How do you know you have a drug problem? Not necessarily addiction, but how do you become aware that you are susceptible to being addicted to a substance?
It's still the national holiday week in my country and I've been on something of a binge, using various stuff (mostly alcohol/weed) on and off, almost every day. Sometimes a lot, sometimes just a bit.
I may be being a bit paranoid but can this turn into an addiction? Or is this just holiday partying?

No. 1845286

>>1845279
it's addiction when you will accept bad product or go through humiliation or strange actions to get it or if it is hurting you physically. otherwise being a lil bit of a junkie can be fine

No. 1845287

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No. 1845314

what character fits this description ?
>yandere furry manchild that eats tv dinners and punches holes through drywall in gamer rage

No. 1845371

>>1845279
Depends how heavily it features in your life. When the holiday season is over, will you still use it? If you do use it at all, do you think it doesn't count in certain situations, like if it's a weekend or you only used a little bit? Do you get nervous when you don't have any of it to hand? If the answer to any of these questions is 'yes' then slow down because it can snowball out of control very quickly.

No. 1845639

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Depending on what you are looking for in terms of performances/free or subscription/privacy. Proton is best for privacy out of the three, but is still lacking. All of them are decent in terms of performance though, so it doesn't really matter.



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