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No. 1063620

life is gay

previous thread: >>>/ot/1054520

No. 1063624

im first fatties (ah today is a gud day huehue)

No. 1063631

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No. 1063638

>>1063624
Shut up, heavy, you’re ded.

No. 1063642

more ocd rambling: like it's just not the hand washing, i have to eat certain way, i only can touch my food with left hand, i have to use lights certain way, (like at certain time of the day i have to shut off lights from certain rooms and if i'm doing something like going to smoke i have to have certain lights off etc) my face has to be certain way and i fuck up my jaws in the process when i have to adjust my face to be the "right" way, then re-adjust when i realize i'm just fucking up my biting/face, i have to do all these rituals before i sleep like holding my breath and clapping my hands number of times, i can't do this after certain time of the day, i must do this before noon, like living with ocd is fucking hell but people think it's this quirky little thing that makes you be neat

No. 1063644

>>1063642
and these are just half of my retarded ocd shit this has almost ruined my damn life because i just gotta clap hold my breath wash eat shut the lights hold my face breath etc etc in certain way it is hell

No. 1063655

>>1063642
I do a jaw thing and I have to close a certain door halway closed but only if I’m on my way to bed, gotta pat my pet the right way and say certain stuff, fold my towel the right way…yet I never thought I had ocd because it wasn’t stuff like I saw in movies, istfg this isn’t fun at all. Sorry to hijack your vent, I’ve never seen someone do any face stuff like I do kek

No. 1063657

>>1063655
don't apologize i was hoping more obsessive nonnies would like to talk about this because often it feels like ocd has a certain image and it is difficult to share thoughts with people who go through with same things

No. 1063661

>>1063657
like for a long time i thought i didn't have ocd either aside from the hand washing shit i just thought i'm being germaphobic because the image is like oh you're just neat instead of like you gotta clap or pet or hold your jaw in certain way lol

No. 1063662

>>1063657
this is is so nice of you to say! I would love to get a diagnosis but I also want to say how one of my most romantic memories turned into a hard self cringe after I realized what I have to do is ocd. Storytime: I had a girl I liked over and I always have to do a thing whilst opening my door, like touch the key to the lock a certain way and as I was doing it, this girl started narrating it, saying she had noticed I always do it. Bitch must’ve thought I was fucking weird, not in a “anon is cute for that” fuck my life.

No. 1063666

>>1063662
i personally got fed up with therapy because they always focused on other stuff instead of what i wanted help for, like i would like talk about my obsessions and stuff but therapists always were like "yeah you gotta clap your hands 10000 times a day but you drink alot..?" yeah i drink because i can't deal with this shit could you tell me what to do with this stuff instead of telling me i should drink milk chocolate instead of alcohol lol (this really happened)

No. 1063676

>>1063666
That must have been fucking annoying because like, it’s self soothing or distracting in a sick way to either do them things or drink or smoke or whatever. There’s a root cause for that, at least I have a strong hunch about why I’m a weird mistrusting fuck up and I’ve had my fair share of psychs saying dumb shit, my manic depression might have been just me being sad because someone close to me died for example when no one close to me had ever died by that point, fucking weird choccy milk tier shit over here too, sis.

No. 1063677

I have no idea why my nails are always getting dirt under them and I HATE it, they're not even long

No. 1063678

>>1063676
yeah and i was never like this difficult patient often the doctors would tell me that they are glad that i am so self aware and everything like yeah i am self aware i do what you tell me to do could you be more aware of what i need like obviously drinking is a problem but telling me that i should drink more chocolate milk than beer isn't going to help?

like i always wanted to help for my root causes like i know what's the problem that caused all this (there's been death with me too like suicides in my damily etc) so could you help me with the root causes instead of the symptoms

No. 1063680

i am seething right now, my friend wanted to set me up with her longtime friend and i said yes because i haven't dated in 4 years and whatever need to practice etc. i show up and this guy is just…not attractive. his personality was okish, he made some weird jokes about me emasculating him while we were playing pool and his main hobby is playing video games. fucking barf. i'm pretty cute, just a bit overweight but losing it, i have a ton of hobbies and work at really cool jobs, i have varied interests and people tend to like me. i'm insulted kek. this is why blind dates are horrible, it shows what your friends think you deserve. she just texted asking if i like him and i have no fucking clue what to say. do if i say i'm not ready to date that implies i could be interested in him later, if i say he's not my type i'm vain, etc. i fucking hate dating and this just shoved me right back into my hermit hole.
while i'm bitching i'm so fucking mad, i have a newer coworker that's really cute and we have a ton of shit in common. he was flirting really fucking hard, like very prolonged eye contact, complimenting me up and down, getting VERY close/lightly touching me when there was absolutely no need/reason, caught him staring out of the corner of my eye yadda yadda whatever. i never think people are flirting but this was like over the top. come to find out this fucking moid has a gf that he lives with and he just never thought to bring her up until i asked a question that forced him to mention her. i fucking hate scrotes they really should be quarantined on an island

No. 1063690

>>1063678
and since i started venting it kinda annoys me too how some people think suicide is this personal thing you can do without it affecting other people, when my whole life has been shaped by the multiple suicides in my family, i have had to stop my dad from killing himself, i have had to tell my sister not to kill herself, yeah it is infectious i also think about it a lot but i know if i did it that would be the last straw on the camels back and the rest of the family would go down if one of us snaps

and i wash my hands to keep control and think by magical powers rest of them will survive if i keep up

No. 1063693

>>1063642
i only will eat with my left hand too ! do you smell your fingers ? for me its because i obsessively smell my fingers (i have strong sense of smell and want them to smell clean/like nothing and i will literally still smell the smells after multiple handwashes) and i only want the food smell on one hand.

No. 1063695

>>1063680
anon, i think if you were to come out and say hes not your type, it DEFINITELY wouldnt make you vain. i am surprised your friend would get that offended you dont find some guy attractive, like that shouldnt bother her. you gave him a try, you did your part. i would just up front say that you arent interested and that you would prefer to choose your own dates in the future! i am glad to see you view yourself so postively, with that attitude i dont think you should have to settle for someone you dont care for or you feel like you have to be with them just because.

No. 1063700

>>1063572
so true. it was shocking to me bc i’ve never experienced such blatant rudeness a show before. now i know that if an event has like +200 likes on resident advisor (or if it’s even on ra at all) it’s just bad news. atp you might as well just go to some normie straight club. same crowd just slightly different outfits.

No. 1063708

Woke up this morning with a stress rash on my chest and wound up fainting this afternoon for whatever reason. Hit the side of my face and head hard enough where I’m beginning to get a black eye. I don’t ask for sympathy ever but this was scary for me and I just wanted my mom to comfort me. Instead I’m getting doors slammed in my face because…. she’s stressed too and had to do yard work and I didn’t help her??? I’m so hurt right now. I always help my mom. I’m always immediately at her side when she’s sick, injured, etc. The one time I unexpectedly faint I get nothing but anger thrown at me. Maybe next time I faint my neck will snap. I should be so lucky.

No. 1063709

>>1063690
Nonny my beloved, I feel you so hard on this all. I have been suicidal on off since I was like 8 and even then I know I would ruin any semblance of family unit I have left. It’s not even me acting more important than I am, I’ve just seen what it does to people and whilst shit does feel unbelievably unbearable, my mom doesn’t deserve to bury for that. My dad drank himself to death so I have seen the usual suicide and the prolonged one, I still think it’s more of a male thing to try inflict extra pain by certain types of suicide. I also do understand why someone would need to go by suicide, but as of rn, I don’t think I would unless my physical stuff gets to a point of no treatment. What a long ass vent, you opened up something in me, nonny.

No. 1063711

>>1063708
Head injuries are no joke, are you okay? Have you eaten and drunk properly

No. 1063714

>>1063695
thank you anon, i appreciate that. i just replied and said "i dont think we meshed romantically but i enjoyed hanging out with you!" i'm definitely refusing any future blind date offers lol. and thank you, i have been working on myself very hard and i feel like i'm finally in a place where i don't think im scum. i hope you have a wonderful day/night nonna

No. 1063715

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I fucking lost dogmeat and can't find him anywhere

No. 1063717

>>1063655
Holy shit I do a jaw thing too. And a lip thing. I fucking hate it and it's so embarrassing but tbh my ocd acts up only when I'm in my abusive ass house. I'm also an excessive handwasher. Certain things can't be too close to me, certain noises from my abusers fuck up my routine, checking on things way too many fucking times even though I know I don't need to keep doing it, it's a bunch of random little shit that I don't even remember until I'm doing it like a crackhead. It's incredibly time consuming and exhausting. My compulsions also get worse at night time.

No. 1063720

I want to die but not because of an inherent will to die, but because life is incompatible with my ideals and too fucking hard. I went through too much shit it makes me feel ancient, as if I had already lived past 40. I'm tired of people, walking on egg shells around them while they never do it for me. I'm tired of doing everything perfectly but never getting paid or appreciated for my work. I am tired of not having resources. Life in itself, being alive is fine but sometimes it can become such a struggle due to economical and social circumstances the bad outweights the good. I don't want to die, but living such a frustrating life. Is it worth it?

No. 1063725

I just want to exchange my good health with someone for their horrible cancer or degenerative illness so I could just have something that will end me sooner than later.

No. 1063726

>>1063714
proud of you! im glad to hear that. i get what you mean and i think that at this point you clearly deserve someone who is better, no need to settle for less! i hope you do too!!!

No. 1063730

Every once in a while, my brain does what I think might be dissociating. It's been going on since I was a kid. Everything will be normal and then I start silently freaking out because I can't tell where I am, whether or not anything is real, WHO I am sometimes, and it's fucking terrible. I've never told anyone because it very rarely happens and I don't want to be labeled as a crazy person. I just don't know why this happens or how to stop it. I have no trauma, no stress, my life is good, and yet something like this happens? I'm just upset because earlier this morning I had this happen after not having anything happen in over five years.

No. 1063734

My discord friend hasn't replied in a while and I miss her

No. 1063735

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tired of wanting to die. but dear god if it isn't one thing it's another

No. 1063736

It's sad how many anons are often either suicidal or experience suicidal thoughts. Sending love to everyone having a difficult time right now

No. 1063738

>>1063734
same, nonnie, i was happy to have finally found a friend but people get busy. hope your friend will get back to you soon, much love

No. 1063751

I just really want to not wake up, I’m sick of this, nothing that I do is useful at all, nothing is appreciated, all I do is bother people left and right. I’m manifesting not waking up.

No. 1063752

>>1063736
thank you nona I cried like half the day

No. 1063767

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I failed two of my fucking courses because I missed up their dates and slept in and that's it. Two permanent Fs on my record. Two permanent Fs. I was hoping to apply to a couple of internships abroad this summer. Instead I'll be retaking the dumbest, easiest courses. Everything is so fucked up. School, friends, life. I'm not good at remembering dates. I'm not good at anything except behaving like I'm lobotomized. And now those internships are completely gone too. It was a dumb dream. Everything feels unreal.

No. 1063788

I've had my fair share of misfortune when it's come to medical issues and bad reactions to meds, but because of this my scrote's hypochondria has gotten worse. He has absolutely nothing wrong with him but he refuses to take any sort of medicine "just in case" he has a bad reaction. He thinks everything will give him brain cancer because his uncle died from it. He also has severe untreated depression and he does nothing for it because of the what-ifs. I hate how I've become a bad example for him to cling to. I know it's a him problem but I do feel bad, but god if it isn't annoying. He hasn't attempted any sort of medication or therapy at all in his life, and just uses my long-term bad experiences with them starting as a pre-teen to assume everything is bad. He's an adult, big difference.
I'm usually pretty empathetic and understanding with these things but hypochondria is the most annoying thing ever coming from perfectly healthy people. Plus the added bonus of scrote stubbornness and refusal to get help because it seems weak.

No. 1063823

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I'm so sick of trying to understand people and what I did wrong to make them ghost me. I don't want these people back as friends but I want to know the reason. If it is genuinely a bad quality I have then I want to be able to improve. Without them in my life. It's two people who know each other so it makes me think they've been talking shit about me this whole time. I would never do that to someone else.

No. 1063829

>>1063823
Additionally, they never showed me signs of disliking me or that anything I said was a problem. It seriously pisses me off for someone to be so fake. Acting like best friends one minute then dropping you the next. I thought we were good.

No. 1063840

>>1063823
>>1063829
It took me awhile to learn but a lot of shitty people exist who just use others for their own gain or to climb the social ladder. For them it's easy to ghost if they don't see you as being useful to them. Not sure if this applies to who you're referring to, but it's a sad truth and all too common. Sorry you had to deal with shitheads nonna

No. 1063841

i wish mental illness could be physical in some way, or otherwise proven. if i break my leg you can see the bones on an x-ray: how do i explain to someone my brain is rebelling against me? and has been rebelling against me for years? i tell you "i'm tired, so i can't do it right now" but that's a shorthand for so much internal bullshit i can't fully explain. you respond with "ahaha well I'VE been working a shitty menial wage slavery job and i'm totally fine! aren't you just lazy and stupid"?

if i were lazy, would i hate myself this much?

and i live in a shitty southern state with medicaid and therapists are terrible here. the last one i saw pretty much shuffled me out after 12 minutes of talking.

tl;dr – why can't depression or add or whatever has been fucking me up since forever be visible as an identifiable scar on my skin or something. same with tinnitus tbh. i'm suffering from so much shit people can't physically see.

BONUS COMPLAINT: it's actually hilarious how people believe in god and shit but not mental illness. are you kidding me? a magical sky daddy is a more believable concept to you then someone's brain chemicals being out of whack? fucker

No. 1063844

>>1063840
Thank you anon for your kind reply, I guess it's possible that these people view friends that way since it's online? I know it's dumb to have online friends, I mean I especially feel that now after this, but it still hurts. This isn't even the first time. I feel stupid for bothering with them. Maybe it's selfish but I just wanna know what the problem with me is so I can be a better person, plus I'm scared like what is it. What did I do that was the last straw? I genuinely don't know… it is scary like is there something seriously bad enough about me that it didn't even warrant telling me? Sorry I'm venting too much at this point

No. 1063848

>>1063841
Sorry using this as a hook to vent about doctors.

I tried telling a doctor I have severe anxiety issues when I was a minor and he awkwardly changed the topic. My school sent me to a psychiatrist because I was obviously unhinged and my mom was there the entire time to make sure I don't say anything about my home situation. He only got to ask 2 questions before I broke down crying and was sent out and then he talked to my mom for a while and she started therapy later???

As an adult I told a different doctor I feel extremely exhausted all the time and she told me to work out more and told me to leave her office when I said that makes it worse, telling me I'm trying to con her giving me paid time off and that the articles and studies I found that show that my symptoms are part of actual recognized disorders is just me thinking I'm better than her.

Doctors are utterly worthless for anything that isn't blindingly apparent.

At least if you're poor. I know a guy who is wealthy who gets all kinds of diagnostics done for the most vague hypochondriac shit while I read medical studies and ask for specific things to get told to fuck off.

Like I literally cannot even get blood work done, I ask for specific things and they take my blood and a week later they say the numbers are fine. I ask for the raw data and they say sure they'll mail it to me and then don't. I'm certain they bullshit and don't actually run the more expensive specific tests, they use all their budget to keep their precious boomers alive. Three doctors have done this by the way, one of them wasn't even paid by my insurance, but by my employer but she still lied to me. She gave the data to a coworker who also asked for hers, but not to me. Romanian bitch, I could hardly understand you, if that's a problem for you then die.

I had to lie to a nurse to get someone to do an ultrasonic and the guy spent literally under a minute on it and then told me all my organs are fine. Yeah you sure checked.

No. 1063854

I think I have a stye on my eyelid and I'm going to go crazy it hurts so bad

No. 1063856

>>1063844
It's ok. For some, internet friends are seen as expendable or non-human. I had an argument with an IRL friend who also has internet friends, who said that since she can't see them, she doesn't consider them real, and would drop them whenever she needs to. Online friends are great, it's easier to find people with common interests online. I've loved the ones I have had. But for some, they still can't really consider someone behind a screen to be another person. It sucks. You deserve better friends. There are good ones out there, I guarantee it.
I dunno how long it's been since they ghosted you or what messages you sent asking about it. If it hasn't been long and you haven't said much, maybe ask if everything is ok. But if not, try to move on. People like that aren't worth it.

No. 1063859

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I get so depressed when I see people the same age as me. They're so lively, independent and competent. I'm so behind them, I feel like we're from different worlds or something.

No. 1063860

>>1063859
Same anon. I feel like I'm so stunted and childish compared to everyone my age. How old are you? I'm turning 28 this year. I'll be a womanchild for life I guess.

No. 1063867

>>1063856
I 100% agree, for me online friends may be different than irl, but they should still be treated like human beings with value as a friend. I care about them even if I don't see them in person. But in this case I am way turned off from this behavior. I did send a message asking why but I agree it's better to move on. I guess I am being a little paranoid and obsessive over why they did this. I'm scared that I'm actually a bad person somehow and no one's telling me. But you're right, I'll try to let it go whether they reply or not, man it's hard

No. 1063869

>>1063859
Same, what a miserable feeling

No. 1063871

>>1063860
Me too nonita, I feel so stuck and depressed it’s so hard
I see all my friends who are the same age doing so much and even ones younger than me got their own home and engaged and I’m just here like damn.

No. 1063872

>>1063859
I was literally going to vent about the same thing just now

No. 1063873

Sloth is ruining my life, and I'll probably keep letting it happen until my last day

No. 1063875

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>>1063873
but she just vibing

No. 1063876

>>1063859
this is why everyone thinks I'm like 19, 25 year old women don't act like my spazzy crazed bitchass

you're expected to just be mature and boring and I don't have that shit in me, but it forever means people won't take me seriously

No. 1063877

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Sometimes I fantasize about letting some dirty old pervert use my body, just so I can feel someone's touch. Interacting with people and bonding with them is so difficult. I don't understand how other people can do this so easily.

No. 1063878

Every time I make a new connection on Bumble the other person falls off the face of the earth. Yesterday I met someone who's into the same niche interest as me, so we chatted for a bit about it and tv shows. I kept asking questions ('cause I've learned that people like answering shit if it makes them seem knowledgeable), but then she just vanished. God damn it.

No. 1063881

>>1063715
There's a mod you can get where it tracks where your companions are, or you can use a console command to make him appear next to you. It's something like player.placeatme [insert Dogmeat's NPC code here].

No. 1063887

I did a 4 day water fast only to binge on everything in the kitchen just moments ago jfc

No. 1063888

>>1063878
Ugh I hate this. I'm on bumble bff too and everytime I ask someone if they'd like to hang out one day they just disappear. I feel like most just want a pen pal instead

No. 1063889

>>1063876
I’m like you but i kinda realized i have to act calm and passive in social situations, it made making friends who don’t step on your boundaries more easy and people treat me with so much respect compared to when i had the mindset of “i don’t want to be a boring adult” but trust me mentally i’m still a spazzed 19 year old kek

No. 1063893

>>1063889
NTA but I have the exact opposite experience, being calm and passive is why people stepped over my boundaries in the first place and everyone still disrespects me and treats me like a child.

No. 1063897

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>>1063859
I feel you. I'm 24 and never left home, dated, and have zero friends. I also just got my associates and I'm transferring for my bachelors, so I just feel so behind while people my age have their careers. I'd love to finish my education online but I'll be going in person just so I can talk to people. Having 1 close friend would be nice..

No. 1063898

>>1063893
Oh no I definitely don’t mean passive as in letting people do what they want to you, i just meant i acted uninterested and calmed down my emotions even if i was excited i don’t know why but showing my emotions really got people to punch down on me back then so i hold back now to be more “mature”

No. 1063900

>>1063898
Even when I try to act like that they still treat me the same idk

No. 1063913

Just saw a video that was just of a guy yelling something out and then panning over to three women who looked at him. All the comments were about them being Karens and…. what? They didn’t do anything and really neither did he. This misogyny-lite on social media is getting out of hand. Women are allowed to exist.

No. 1063914

>>1063913
The Karen meme has like incentivised antisocial retards to film and harass women they would never otherwise approach.

No. 1063916

>>1063913
Can't wait for the Karen meme to die. I want to a-log every zoomer scrote who films them harassing middle aged women just to get a rise out of them for Tiktok points. Funny how violent psychotic men aren't made fun of, huh?

No. 1063921

I hate edgy 4chan bitches with horrible mysoginistic humor. The kind of bitch that thinks she's so edgy for having dark humor and offending others but if you say something slightly offensive about her she sends her batalion of simps after you. Nothing worse than being a low value pick me that feels in competition with other women and criticizes them for the same shit she pulls

No. 1063928

Boyfriend is obsessed with watching Amberlynn Reid commentary videos, and honestly I'm getting more annoyed with their nasal, snarky voices than I am with Reid at the moment. I find it funny that they all claim to care about her health and want her to get better rather than just admit they love the content she gives them and that aiming for the most low hanging fruit possible is both easy and satisfying. I hate commentary videos in general and have no idea why my boyfriend loves watching them. I guess it feeds his ego since he's a former fatty and now he's finally in a position where he can make fun of them himself, kek.

No. 1063931

I hate being born a woman. Ideologicly and socially as a woman you are not allowed to thrive in society as a genius masculine autist. I am a genius masculine autist and my humor and mind are very masculine but not in the edgy sense necessarily but in the truly rational sense. I think as a woman you are always expected to perform femininity or literally be a prostitute to be accepted socially. The moment you truly turn based society will reject you as a woman. You have to do something sexual or pander to men constantly as a woman. Pander to their opinions or be the "cool girl" that doesn't believe in feminism or simply allign with the stereotype of what women should believe in like magic and astrology. While I do believe in magic to some extent I do it in a rational way. Being a woman fucking suckssssss assss, as a scrote you're so much more respected and have so many opportunities and can truly express yourself. As a woman you need to pull some pick me persona in any field or be a literal prostitutes and show your tits or lick the ears of middle aged strangers on the internet and if you are in academia or have a real job you still have to be a pick me. There is no true liberation. I want to escape to the forest or I want an unlimited suplly of capital so I can live life however I want but I don't want to sacrifice my own ambitions and my own system of values for that capital. I don't want to have to keep a consistent persona or pander to people to get them to like me, I want to be truly free.

At soul I am someone like Slavoj Zizek, a revolutionary philosopher and I would totally be socially allowed to express my inner being as a male and be accepted socially but I am not allowed to be my true self as a woman since my true self is abrasive and the only advantage I have as a woman is being able to get men enslaved to my coochie and get them to pay me for stuff but I don't want to do that. I don't want to play some stupid game to make -100 IQ scrotes like me and pay for.my stuff

No. 1063936

>>1063914
>>1063916
I'm a zoomer and I absolutely despise the karen meme. Filming a woman who got angry for a reasonable thing or a mentally unstable one who is actively having a breakdown is fucking cruel! I thought it was forced by the men Karen's age, who probably disliked attractive blonde women because they were rejected by them back in the day so this is kind of a revenge? I don't know who even finds this funny. Also I have to note the videos of trannies who have much more violent breakdowns are filled with supportive comments saying said tranny is doing a good job showing the cis their place but the basic middle aged women are hated for even speaking up! Tranny isn't getting harassed because everybody knows deep down, he's a man, it's like misogynistic shit all over again.

No. 1063939

men are always absolved of any sort of moral duty and aren't judged like women are. Men can be onlyfans whores look at Jake Munro and nobody fucking cares. Men have the power and are allowed to be anybody and anything with no repercussions, they can have everything and anything at any time. I truly loathe Men so much. I dont want to perform anything for them, not even being dominant. Most of them get off to dominant women, it's another male fantasy

No. 1063955

>>1063928
get him some earbuds and let him indulge
I'm sure it inspires him to stay in shape
(tbh I watch commentary on Amber too, it's more fun than watching her own videos, idk why it just is)

No. 1063961

>>1063955
He's got earbuds and headphones but his poor ears get sweaty, so he can't wear them. No doubt it inspires him to stay in shape, though. Good for him, I guess, if a little tragic.

No. 1063972

>>1063961
I wouldn't use the word "tragic", he's staying healthy and having fun. "autistic" is more appropriate I think

No. 1063976

I might need a loan to cover my health expenses, it makes me want to just die already.

No. 1064005

>>1063972
It can be fun and still be tragic, though. Stopped feeding himself, but is currently overfeeding his ego, kek.

No. 1064070

>>1063961
Sweaty eared anon here, open-back headphones changed my life. Would be a good birthday present to get him a pair.

No. 1064073

>>1063961
This might be weird, but could powdering his ears help?

No. 1064075

GodDAMN do I hate that lying two-faced bitch. I'm gonna bounce back with a vengeance once I pull this knife out of my back… and once I stop crying about it… the worst part about this whole stupid situation is that it genuinely hurt my feelings, lmao. Why did my silly ass get attached to a group of toxic genderspecials & delusional sjws with persecution complexes in the first place? Like girl … how did you not see that one coming … smh

No. 1064078

>>1064073
Uh, keep foreign particles away from your bf's ears, this does not sounds healthy

No. 1064090

Recently I've found out that problem i'm dealing with has a name, "retroactive jealousy", which is great because there are a lot of tips how to get better but also it seems like it's mostly a scrote issue and I hate that there's anything in me that I have in common with men more than women ughhh

No. 1064139

I'm casting a spell right now, any happy couples I see in this airport are doomed to split up and live unhappy lives forever. Everyone has to be as miserable as me. If I'm going to die alone then so should everyone else. Fuck happy couples, fuck anyone who is capable of having a romantic relationship, fuck energy mentally and emotionally healthy person ever. May my bitterness permeate the lives of everyone.

No. 1064140

>>1064139
Sa before anyone calls me retarded, I know spells aren't real, but I have no joy in life, no control over anything and no hope for the future, so fuck it.

No. 1064148

>>1064139
Are you at the airport rn? Get a Toblerone. Airport Toblerone hit different

No. 1064153

>>1064139
Don’t listen to the toblerone anon, go get a sandwich or a bagel, airport bread always tastes better.

No. 1064159

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Everyone in my life thinks I’m 20 when I’m actually 23

No. 1064161

File: 1644755216980.jpg (4.01 MB, 4000x3000, 20220213_132638.jpg)

>>1064148
For you, nona. Go fuck yourself.

No. 1064163

>>1064159
Should there be any difference in your culture anon? In my experience there's no difference between the 20/23 years old face. But good for you anon

No. 1064164

>>1064153
I already had a bagel,it was very nice. Fuck you.

No. 1064167

>>1064139
>>1064161
>>1064164
I'm casting a spell of happiness on you, you will find friends who appreciate your presence and you'll find money on the floor.

No. 1064168

>>1064161
Omg I actually cried some tears laughing at this, godspeed to you and your airport witchcraft anon, may the tears of freshly broken up couples lubricate your speedy path through security

No. 1064253

My ex is getting married in a few months and honestly I can't tell how I feel about it?

Part of me doesn't care since we talk maybe once in 6 months or more and we broke up 5 years ago. Part of me feels, dread? or something uncomfortable and part of me feels relief because I'm not with him anymore.

I'm not invited, since his current fiance is insecure and I'm his hurr duurr last ex, ehich seems to make me evil and the scum of the earth in her and her friends/families eyes, even tho we broke up because we simply weren't compatible. Guess that very slightly bothers me, being judged without ever meeting someone, but eh.

I wish I could pinpoint what feeling it is because I feel dumb for feeling it because I don't even date men anymore and he turned out to be a cheater (cheated on his current fiance too) so it's not like I'm missing out. Maybe I'm just bored and overthinking it.

No. 1064266

>>1064253
There's something about being harder to move on from cheating partners than just "regular" breakups, isn't there? Not even in terms of still having feelings for them but just being unable to stop wondering to some extent. Being judged by strangers doesn't help, not like you can help it but it's not justified so no surprise it bothers you. I feel bad for the future wife though, she's clearly an insecure person and she's getting married to a cheater, this is gonna suck for her

No. 1064278

>>1064159

There's not much of a difference between those two ages. Start whining when you're 25 and people think you're still a teenager

No. 1064284

>>1064163
>>1064278
No, I mean I’ve been lying to everyone about it because I’m starting to experience an emotional crisis about getting older. I get mistaken for 18 by other 17-18 year olds but I’m starting to feel like everyone in their early 20s gets told that because people are just bad at telling age lol.

No. 1064287

>>1064253
My last ex cheated on me and I weirdly stayed civil with him and every few months we would have a short email exchange. I cannot imagine that if I were the cheater he'd be so civil… He's moved on with someone and they got serious real fast which feels weird given I've sat here single and if anything slightly traumatised by some of the events. His betrayal had a lasting effect on me and I dread it bleeding into my future love life.

Keep reminding yourself of his negative traits. Being (an ongoing) cheat being a fucking massive one. Lately I wonder if I'm dumb for not telling him to just go to hell ATT. Why stay sorta friendly with someone who did that to you and keeps hurting women with the same patterns.

No. 1064291

>>1064287
Samefag to add. He cheated on you, he cheated on her.. she's not 'insecure' if he is actually a cheater who keeps on cheating. Her concerns are realistic.

No. 1064293

>>1064284
Oh well that's just kind of sad. But it's not your fault, society implants that fear into women from birth. But getting older is a privilege, so many people die young and never reach their full potential. Your looks don't evaporate once you hit 30, there is no wall to hit. You're just getting older like you're supposed too, and if you pay attention, with age comes wisdom.

No. 1064294

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>>1064075
Elaborate

No. 1064295

>>1064253
I wouldn't invite my cheating fiancé's ex to my wedding either. I also probably wouldn't marry a cheater but some women like struggle love.

No. 1064296

>>1064294
where is this drawing from?

No. 1064297

>>1064287
Oof, very relatable.
They are also together for two years and have been trying for a kid for a year, guess the fact he's tryinh to settle so fast now weird me out too

>>1064291
She doesn't know he cheated on her multiple times

No. 1064298

>>1064296
im wondering the same thing! who is the artist?

No. 1064304

>>1064159
wow you’re such a precious uwu young little girl so young, smol and cute you’re actually 100 years old but you look 18. girl shut your bitch ass up no one probably told you that

No. 1064306

>>1064297
Going back to this then
>his current fiance is insecure and I'm his hurr duurr last ex, ehich seems to make me evil and the scum of the earth
You're not innocent in all this if you're sitting on knowledge about him cheating on her and she's letting him rawdog her to get pregnant.. all while you worry about a wedding invitation and being his friend.

No. 1064309

>>1064304
lel nigga read the follow up, people think I’m 20 because I lie and tell them I’m 20

No. 1064312

>>1064304
lol like clockwork when an anon comments on their appearance or others some insecure vendetta bitch comes in and projects her self loathing out on other anons. bitch she said she looked 20 not like a little girl calm your body dysphoria disorder.

No. 1064320

>>1064159
There's no difference between most 18 and 25 year old women so you should relax a bit. I'm 21 and I do fear aging already because I've had retarded scrotes push their dumb agenda onto me so I do get it but it's just scrotes scaring women into settling down early with the wrong old men(aka the scrotes who push this shit)

No. 1064322

>>1064312
>other women are jealous of me everyone is jealous of me anyone who criticizes me anyone who takes the piss of me is definitely a jealous insecure whore vendetta vendetta vendetta

keep telling yourself that at night you narc, people who dunk on you are never jealous they’re doing charity for your massively sized shayna-anus wide ego you dumbass

No. 1064323

>>1064306
I stopped being his friend when he threw away 14 years of friendship for a chick he met 2 years ago and she shitalked me to all his friends without ever talking to me. You're not wrong tho.

But honestly, not my circus not my monkeys or however the saying goes. My vent was more about me not being able to pinpoint what I feel about him getting married, everything else is less important

No. 1064325

>>1064322
you're not dunking on anyone you're showing your autistic insecure bitch power level over a innocuous post because you were too much of a sperg to read the followup posts. im not that anon btw

No. 1064326

>>1064320
>there’s no difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old

there literally is, the 18 year old is practically still a teenager and the 25 year old needs to stop pulling a princess nokia whining about ageism while desperately trying to convince others that they still young at an old age, how does that make any sense? and your logic is coming from a grown ass woman too I can’t believe it adults are equally retarded who would have thought?

No. 1064328

>>1064325
don’t care, going to forget about you and this convo in 5 minutes kek

No. 1064329

>>1064326
25 year old is le old
you're retarded

No. 1064330

>>1064328
good for you loser

No. 1064331

>>1064326
I’m not 25, I’m 23. I’m aware it’s retarded but it’d be more awkward to come clean about my lies at this point.

No. 1064332

>>1064326
Eh there really isn't much difference physically in my experience. Yeah womens styling, makeup and clothing styles change but their facial features or body proportions dont just magically shrink or grow or get super wrinkly at 25. Everyone's entitled to their opinions but saying fearmongering stuff is weird when the normie woman at 18 and 25 doesn't really change that much naturally aside from her styling, etc.

No. 1064333

>>1064331
If you ever come out with your lies, just pretend you miscalculated. Im a retard and I miscalculated my age a few days ago, also saw some people do during covid because the last 2 years we really wasted doing nothing so it's hard to keep track of time.

No. 1064334

>>1064326
25 is not old but there's a hell of a difference in life experience unless the 25 year old is sheltered af. Let teens date each other ffs

No. 1064336

>>1064334
I'm >>1064320 and I should've clarified I meant physically. Of course experience and choice making skills of a 18 year old compared to a 25 year old is very different.

No. 1064339

>>1064336
I'm in my 30s and people remark I look 21 and above. I even had a 24 year old guy say I could date 18 year olds. I would never feel comfortable doing that. Not to mention age gaps increase risk of autism in kids. I think it gets hard to tell people's age from 20s up until you speak to them. It's usually just quicker to outright ask people's age.

No. 1064340

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>>1064296
Nta but I knew I recognized the artist! It's Annie Stegg.

No. 1064341

>>1064339
You're right that's what I meant and also
>Not to mention age gaps increase risk of autism in kids
I think rather than that, it's having older parents that raise autism risk. A younger woman or man is always going to make healthier babies, don't fall for scrote crap that says men's sperm doesn't decline, it's quality declines faster tham women's eggs.

No. 1064342

>>1064334
I’m the original anon - I don’t have any intention to dating people below 21. I’m lying mostly for social reasons and to cope with my own turmoil.

>>1064332
I think there is quite a noticeable difference in appearance. Its not really like fine lines or wrinkles so much as 18-20 there’s a kind of youthful “glow” (I don’t know how to describe this without sounding kind of creepy kek) whilst people in their mid 20s tend to get more tired looking, even if they still have perfect skin.

No. 1064343

>>1064340
Thanks. I got it from the Lucinda thread lol, didn’t know the artist name though.

No. 1064347

>>1064341
I know anon, but an older woman with a younger man who probably parties and ingests a load of shit will have shit spunk. My cousin and his wife both early 40s had their second child with no medical intervention. They're both healthy and had their first kid in their late 30s.

No. 1064429

This is stupid but im so sick of seeing people compare cappybaras to dogs. They keep calling them dog like even though they are closer to giant rodents. My rant are people who compare everything to dogs. It annoys me so much

No. 1064431

This course is a fucking joke, there used to be a dozen of us enrolled but everyone left when they realized what it's like and there's only four of us left now, the professor just projects pages from a book onto the screen and skips some parts and then talks about other parts, but doesn't even explain the equations, I just I have no idea what's going on, nobody does, and lectures last for 3 hours. I have an exam tomorrow but I have no idea what the questions are gonna be like because we never solved any problems, just sometimes maybe like 3 times the professor said oh you might get a question on the exam to write this proof. And he would talk and talk about some topic but then he'd say oh but don't worry this isn't gonna be in the exam. But then what are we doing? What are we supposed to know? What did we learn in this course that we didn't know before?
And the exam lasts 4 hours. I have no idea what the hell we are going to do for 4 hours!!! I'm sure I'm going to fail because I haven't studied because I didn't know what to study. But at least I'll know what the exam looks like for the next time I take it. What a joke

No. 1064451

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>>1064429
huh? how can you look at this and think dog instead of idk squirrel

No. 1064462

>>1064451
>I still want to call him a good boi

No. 1064540

>>1064451
Big wild guinea pigs.

No. 1064545

I repainted the same thing over and over again for 5 hours and the end product still looks like shit and I feel like I wasted my time. This is upsetting. Fuuuuckkkkk

No. 1064549

>>1064545
Happens to me all the time too anon, I'm sorry

No. 1064550

>>1064431
Maybe it's possible for you to look up past exam papers on this so you can have some kind of idea what questions you'll get?

No. 1064553

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imagine if I put all of my time and effort making master-crafted baits that sometimes get a lot of replies into being a productive human being but when I actually put in the work no one gives a fuck so why should K work hard if no one even notices? are my ideas always bad? why am I always ignored? what am I doing wrong and I don’t know anymore I’m scared and confused tbh

No. 1064566

>>1063823
I'm sorry to hear it, nonna. Ghosting is very close to the cruelest thing you can do to someone. No one should suffer it, unless they very highly deserve it.

No. 1064568

>>1064553
Just keep trying! Never give up! Someday you'll get what you're looking for, I promise.

No. 1064574

I wish I had gotten to be in a fandom. I liked tons of vidya and books that had fandoms but I wasn’t online until I graduated high school, and the only fandom people there were “in to” was fucking Star Wars.

I tried joining tumblr for lots of things I but no one will talk to me. Did people used to interact on tumblr? It feels mostly one sided now, like people on there are trying to be influencers or else are scared to talk to strangers

No. 1064576

>>1064574
yes and you're right, its all about followers now

No. 1064585

>>1064574
I miss old tumblr and deviantart, I made whole friend groups hanging out there.

No. 1064587

I am losing my patience with my boyfriend because he acts like im a fucking child while I'm the bitch with the income. I feel so fucking retarded I have done so much for this man who treats me like a fucking joke. I am either going to kill him or myself

No. 1064589

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>>1064568
I hope so if I ever make it to that day thank you nonna

No. 1064590

>>1064451
This stupid animal was in my dream last night and it kept shitting everywhere

No. 1064594

>>1064587
Dump his ass

No. 1064604

>>1063823
I still don't understand how people can ghost others in a scenario like this. An acquaintance or a creep, sure; but someone close?

No. 1064611

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its V-day tommorrow and i don't have a gf because im too fat and ugly,i hate life.

No. 1064612

>>1064550
Thank you, but last year the lecturers were different, they actually solved problems in class so they had similar problems on the exam, now we don't solve any problems. I found some "problems" the teacher gave us though, they're all "prove this" or "derive this formula" whatever I'll try to memorize some proofs

No. 1064628

wish i could take a shit without the weird ass abusive male i live with counting the amount of flushes i do and screaming at me for it. also someone please fix my toilet so i can shit in my own bathroom. no i dont have the money anon, fuck off

No. 1064635

I thought I was at least a little bit important to my friends but clearly they don't want to talk to me anymore. They give me almost one word answers when we text, they don't tell me anything anymore. I ask them what's up and it's always something like "oh nothing much I'm just tired lol" and I get that they don't have to share everything to people but we're supposed to be friends…
I only have two friends and they're also both moving away so I won't be able to meet them ever again. Won't do much difference because they never asked me to hang out, but I don't know, it feels even worse like this. And it's not like you can just meet new people, no one wants to talk to a stranger. I just feel useless and lonely. I've been alone for all of my life and I thought I finally found people I could click with but I'm just an unlikable stupid and ugly fucker in the end. I wish I could dig a hole in the ground and curl up in there to sleep and not see anyone anymore.

No. 1064640

>>1064431
The uni portal usually has past papers or exams on it you can see how the questions are also ask your professor for clear instructions you pay enough for a course make them work

No. 1064740

i bought super plus tampons because i bleed a lot, and i legit fill them up every hour, it's nuts. I leak like crazy too, no matter what I do. I hate this

No. 1064746

>>1064635
Maybe you're too high maintenance of a friend? This sounds like a normal adult experience to me. Plus they're probably busy with moving or work

No. 1064774

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>>1064740
How long is it that heavy for? Like does bleeding so hard make your period really short or do you just have enough uterine lining to make a blanket out of it?

No. 1064779

>>1063848
>Doctors are utterly worthless for anything that isn't blindingly apparent.
>Like I literally cannot even get blood work done, I ask for specific things and they take my blood and a week later they say the numbers are fine. I ask for the raw data and they say sure they'll mail it to me and then don't.

all of this post hit for me. i'm also suffering from chest pains that no doctor could seem to diagnose; i went to like, four, got bullshit results and bullshit treatment from all of them, and just gave up. it's been two years since that doctor speedrun. so i just want you to know i understand.

it's so evil that people get a job that requires them to care about other people, and just don't. hope every shitty unsympathetic doctor kills themselves – or better yet, loses their license.

No. 1064795

>>1064774
Heavy for 2-3 days. My periods last around 5 days, sometimes 6.
I once had a big clot that was half the size of an iPhone.

No. 1064818

I don't believe when me claim a woman is bad at sex. In my experience every guy who has said I'm bad at sex wanted to abuse me in the bed room and I said no. If a man says "the pussy is trash" he means he didn't get to fuck her in the ass, she didn't do uncomfortable porn positions, she didn't let him hit her and she didnt scream like porn stars do. How is the sex bad if you still came? That's more than what most women get. And a lot of men these days have death grip and take forever to cum because they jack off too.

No. 1064823

>>1064746
They say they're too busy for me, but I know that they hang out with other friends every weekend. I'd be fine talking a bit even once a week, I just wish they weren't completely disinterested with everything I say or ask. I'm not high maintenance, I'm just not their priority and that's fine.

No. 1064827

>>1064451
I think of a rat with a camel-like face. Idk why, but their face reminds me of camels'.

No. 1064886

File: 1644785396168.png (1.42 MB, 1362x765, 1644711354279.png)

>see cute weird doll that looks like she'd be bffs with another doll I own
>visit faceup artist's twitter for more pictures
>fall in love
>the artist also seems to be new
>look at second accounts the faceup artist promotes in their bio
>it's full of hardcore lolicon shit, they even drew for a lolicon magazine
>now can't unsee that they probably designed the doll with some fetish shit in mind too

No. 1064906

>>1064818
I read a youtube comment yesterday where an angry scrote (watching a vid about things like the orgasm gap) declared that women should be the ones paying men for sex because men do all the hard work… yes dude give up your day job and try to make that happen. Have the exact same type of sex you're having right now and then charge for it… see how many repeat customers will pay for your hard work you gigilo level sexual beast of a man. Men who camp out under vids about womens issues and who do nothing but spam harass women are definitely the best lays of all and worth paying for.

I'm guilty of having the shittest sex and not saying anything because I'd no idea if the guy would get pissed off or petty over my honest feedback. I've had guys brag about that orgasm I just had when tbh I was left scratching my head because I didn't have one. How do you make belief seeing an orgasm like that? I've had an ex just keep on escalating the amount of fetish shit he wanted when he wasn't even giving me a semi-regular orgasm in return. I wasn't getting basic pleasure and he wanted the most I've ever had a man think to ask (pester, beg) me for. He made it seem reasonable to never give up with these demands and I wondered if I was losing my damn mind arguing this shit with him. I've been berated by that same man for not providing a very 'out there' sex act when I never signed up to do it in the first place. I want to go back and smack the dumb out of my younger self for tolerating so much sexual bs, so much sex that wasn't worth having. I just gave up on wanting sex after being subjected to that guy in particular. Desire gone.

I know that alot of us don't feel like we can give honest feedback and be safe doing it. The older you get the more you see the shortcomings of those early days. Men (especially those chasing young young women) have no idea when they're a bad lay. The ones who brag about what cool shit their past lovers said about them in the sack.. usually the worst and building up a story of sexual success so you feel like you can't complain. I've had a virgin fuck better straight out of the gate. He was nervous as hell and still one of my better memories. Men with years of experience under their belt are somehow fucking worse than virgins are. They're picking up selfish habits and getting too cocky all as they essentially unlearn how to please a woman. Any time I hear a guy say "Well I've never heard any complaints about my performance hehe" … where do I even start in explaining how that comes to be. It's not the brag they think it is.

No. 1064916

>>1064294
ayrt, I spent about a year very patiently playing mediator for some fandom geeks who were convinced everyone else in the fandom was out to get them, because they approached me first and acted like they wanted to be friends with me. They decided one of the normal, well-adjusted girls in the group was a traitor because she was willing to be friendly to someone they didn't like - basically, she was also doing her best to act as a mediator, because all the fighting going on in the fandom was based on petty non-issues like "so and so ships something that breaks up my OTP!" or "this deviant thinks my precious uke should top!" I was not happy about that and I took her side. So… naturally, instead of listening to anything I had to say, they decided I must be a traitor, too

No. 1064970

>>1064906
Great post.

>Men with years of experience under their belt are somehow fucking worse than virgins are.


Because virgins are new and actually try to be more sensual. But they can change too as their egos grow.

I've had 2 men in my life and they both completely ignored my preferences and obvious signs I was uncomfortable. I have no interest in sex or dating when a vibrator is so much better and safer, both physically and emotionally. If I want to stop having an orgasm a day, I'll go get myself a man.

No. 1065173

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>be me
>have a fucked up digestive system
>Only able to eat some things
>stomach aches pretty badly
>see some (allowed) food
>yay
>sister wakes up
>"That's actually for me"
>"B-but could you eat something else? please, i can only eat this atm"
>"No"
>chaos ensues
>family now pissed at me
>stomach aches getting worse, no pills nearby, get frustrated
>call her a dumbass
>chaos ensues again, even though she calls me retard, dumbass, etc on regular basics
>"wow anon that was not okay"
>mfw

No. 1065178

File: 1645552590626.jpg (174.75 KB, 955x1280, IMG_2011.jpg)

I keep having these realizations about how fucking dysfunctional I am. I can't get shit done. I can't even make myself do stuff I genuinely want to, let alone the things I'm supposed to. 85% of the books I have on my shelf I never touched even though I'm interested in them. I have a long list of films in my head that I always wanted to watch but somehow the actual sitting-down-and-watching-them part has never happened. The other day it dawned on me that I've had the Chernobyl TV show on my hard drive ever since it came out and never watched it and it came out in fucking 2019. I recklessly order food and spend a ridiculous amount of money. How do normal people live day-to-day? Like how the fuck do they just do stuff? Also….are my hobbies even my hobbies if I have to force myself to do them and can't even do them consistently?? I feel like every fucking day is a struggle

No. 1065180

>>1065173
This made me second-hand angry. You should start calling her retarded tbh what an asshole.

No. 1065184

I am losing weight and I'm starting to notice how people are treating me differently, and I hate it. Sure I'm overweight and have lost 30 lbs, but internally I'm still the same person. Idk, I know my life will continue to improve health wise, but it sucks to know my value was less with a bigger pants size.
Also I hate all the eyefucking I get at the gym, please kill all the men thank you

No. 1065236

>guys I am interested in and connect with-take days to text back.

>guys I have no interest in and did not vibe with- text me obnoxiously often using bitmoji stickers.


There’s this DILF im super into and we met organically which I like (I hate online dating) but fucking hell he takes like 2-3 days to text me back. I think it’s an age thing cause younger guys are obnoxious and older men are slow. So we usually write novels to one another. It drives me nuts and honestly I find myself losing interest but when we meet up it’s like bam. Maybe he doesn’t have that same connection. I’m so tired of dating.

No. 1065246

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I just got word that my job is planning to lay off people and I told my sister who throws this shit on me. Fuck these stupid ass bitches who think that thinking positive thoughts are somehow gonna make their lives better.

No. 1065256

I really don't want to do the fucking dishes. Holy shit

No. 1065261

>>1065246
Fingers crossed, I hope you keep your job (if you want to)
>>1065256
Set a timer, and start with 10 minutes! take a break and come back to it. just handle it in bits!

No. 1065263

>>1065261
You are brilliant, I will do this. Pomodoro onwards!

No. 1065282

I feel like only people in good situations tend to complain. COmplaining is almost like a privilege. If you are in a truly bad situation you cannot afford to let your vibes deteriorate I also feel like it's easie to get bullied if you are in a truly bad siutation and open up. People are predatory

No. 1065287

>>1065282
>in a bad situation and open up
>only people in good situations complain
You're an idiot.

No. 1065292

>>1065287
it's true and you're probably getting offended because you are not in a bad situation and constantly whining. Only people from 1st world countries or upper middle class or middle class constantly whine and complain. People that were truly abused and in bad situation that I've observed always hide themselves and don't complain

No. 1065301

The baiting already? fuck. Stop.

No. 1065311

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>>1065282
spot on. definitely felt that. if you're really in the shits, you can only ''complain'' to people who are right down there with you, which is bittersweet, since it's usually the people who you care about. the ones who aren't can't relate so they look at you like other, feel relief that they're not you, or pity you. that's why you keep it in. reason for apostrophes is that complaining is different from trauma dumping and trauma bonding. if your ''complaints'' go beyond anything that's the normal and the mundane and the ocasionally out of the norm mishaps, then it's no longer complaining, and something you should take up with a professional or a diary or someone you really truly trust. other people are just trying to live their lives, and don't owe you anything, not even to listen to you.

inb4 don't reply to bait!!! i know im replying to romanian-anon, but this is truly how i feel and this is the vent thread after all.

No. 1065313

>>1065282
You should get a job at child protective services, you'll fit right in

No. 1065314

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I feel like this year is going to be all about growth for me, but I’m at that uncomfortable spot where I need to start letting go of my old self, which I really really don’t want to.
Last night I dreamt I was walking through town on a festival night and I met and started flirting with a cute guy, but when we got to a bar he turned into my ex and all I could do was give him an awkward hug and leave. I went back to my apartment but it was full of my old hs classmates celebrating a joint birthday, and as soon as I stepped in the energy died and they all stared at me and giggled amongst themselves. I can’t wait until this part of it is over and I can start cultivating on all the progress I’ve made because this is just painful.

No. 1065320

HORRAY OT IS BACK¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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another day of writing applications for jobs and internships that i will be rejected from anyways based on my lack of prior experience. at this point i should just take advantage of still being listed as a student and find some minimum wage retail job or barista job before i'll be rejected from those as well because my degree makes me over qualified for such jobs.

No. 1065333

>>1065282
>>1065292
If you were in a truly bad situation, you wouldn't have the time to constantly post on this board, romania anon.

No. 1065335

>>1065311
it's not even fucking bait. If I post something that is an unpopular opinion or that offends the vast majority of people, it's not bait. This is why I use a fucking imageboard, to share out of the ordinary thoughts and observations.

It only seems like bait, because the people which my post seems like it is targeting get offended, but truthfully I am not even targeting anyone, I'm just making empirical observations of the world around me. People in bad situations close down inside themselves and also stay incredibly positive because their situation is so bad that a small shift in their attitude could mean that they are gonna turn homeless. Meanwhile, people that are somewhat financially secure can afford to be incredibly negativistic and also complain a lot. I think everything is tied down to financial privilege.

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>therapy is tough as fuck
>gradually starting to hate my workplace
>trying to deal with my shitty body image
>dating life going nowhere
>pushing myself to continually take care of my personal relationships despite being exhausted
>doing my best to support all of my friends that are struggling with their own lives at the moment
>no one to talk to for emotional relief because of above point

I just want a hug nonas, I want to cry in someone's arms and just feel taken care of for once

No. 1065341

>>1065337
it's okay, you don't have to be perfect

No. 1065348

>>1065335
>Meanwhile, people that are somewhat financially secure can afford to be incredibly negativistic and also complain a lot.
Like you?

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>>1065348
wow you sure got me queen

No. 1065355

>>1065354
Well you're doing the same thing. It's hypocritical.

No. 1065360

if you wear aliexpress clothing DIE

No. 1065361

Great, now my friend group is talking about how blackfishing isn't a thing and asking me obtuse questions like
>so the wig she's wearing means she's trying to look black? Do all black women have this hair? Sounds RACIST to me anon
And the thing is they virtue signal about so much shit, whatever twitters opinions are to be honest (including lambasting JK even though they agreed with my TERF lite opinions before it was taboo). But oh, now it's about a celebrity you actually like? Oh no, now it's wokeism gone craaazy huh? Most annoying is that they all do it together, so its not like I can point out how hypocritical they're being because then they can ignore me en masse for a few days.

It's tiring, actually. And I want better friends. But I want to monkey branch since i'm in my 30s and the opportunity just isn't coming.

No. 1065364

>>1065355
I am not. I just realized this at an early age, that complaining is reserved for people in good situations. When I was in middle school and high school I always hid my issues because my life had been so bad and I never spoke up for myself, but the ones in relatively secure financial/family situations were the ones constantly complaining about le mental illness and how hard is. I've observed this in absolutely all social groups, those truly damaged with truly bad lives are simply not allowed to speak up and those that take up the entire room complaining are those in relatively ok situations, so I said fuck it to all of this and I thought it's literally financial class oppressions. If you have money you are allowed to do anything in society, even complain about being poor, while the actual poor never complain. I wish for people in truly bad situations to speak up and not care about the narcissists filling out the room or the people willing to drag them down for opening up and speaking about the atrocities they have endured

No. 1065365

>>1065361
Wtf. The woke is truly getting crazy nowadays.

No. 1065368

>>1065361
they're stupid mindless drone NPC that change their opinion and personality according to whatever is in trend. FUCK AMERICA HONESTLY. AMERICA HAS CAUSED ALL OF THIS WOKE BULLSHIT. THE MOST CANCEROUS NATION IN THE WORLD

WOKEISM=CAPITALISM

No. 1065374

>>1065364
You complain all the time romanian-chan, that's literally all you do.

No. 1065378

>>1065374
YEA. BITCH READ MY POST I SAID THAT I AM NOT AFRAID OF COMPLAINING AND THAT I AM NOT AFRAID OF SPEAKING UP ABOUT THE ATROCITIES OF MY LIFE OR MAKING PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE AND I WISH THIS FOR ALL THE PEOPLE THAT ARE IN BAD SITUATIONS, I WISH FOR THEM TO JUST UNAPOLOGETICALLY COMPLAIN

No. 1065382

>>1065378
I thought only people in good situations complain? You must have it good then.

No. 1065389

>>1065382
yea thanks kill yourself stupid cunt just suffer in misery I am placing a curse on you

My mom killed herself, my family situation has always been shit, I never had money and in high school and middle school those with le depresshiun and le mental illness were always those in good situations while me and another girl who had horrible home lives had to hide and always stay positive and be empathetic towards everyone and we didn't have mental illness, right????I was beaten, tortured, raped, starved, in misery, full of intestinal worms my entire childhood, neglected, beaten but I always had to act like the personal therapist of richer people than me or try to not step on the feeee fees of those that run social groups and narcissists. Fuck all of you, if you had lived my life for a second you would have already ended up in prison

No. 1065392

>>1065389
But you said so yourself.

No. 1065394

>>1065389
>yea thanks kill yourself stupid cunt just suffer in misery I am placing a curse on you
Nta but kek. Also romanianon I asked in last thread how you larped as a commie but still boasted about being able to make 10k as a camwhore.

No. 1065398

Romanianon I do wish you peace and comfort in your life. You're obviously not perfect, but I want you to feel better. I also want to note that people can have shit parents and decent financial situations and there is no black and white easy way to determine whether someone's personal life is or is not good. There are a lot of things you don't necessarily know about other people and things that other people as well don't know about you. And it's an excuse a lot of abusive parents like to use that "at least we are not starving" to manipulate and gaslight children that they emotionally or physically abuse. Everyone's lives are multifaceted and everyone complains as little or as much as they want regardless of the situation. I find myself being insanely suppressive or oversharing depending on who I'm talking to. It's called being guarded. I do think it's fair to say you've gone through some shit, but why are or were you even friends with people who you hold so much contempt for if their situation makes you loathe your own? I'd rather just be a supportive friend. Maybe I like hearing people complain about their lives. It reminds me I'm not an entirely selfish person, so no matter how annoying or trivial it may seem, I'm learning something about them. There are a lot of people I don't trust or care about though

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>>1065325
Ohhhh that's such a cute pic anon! I love Lolly.

I don't know what field you're in but have you tried to look for temporary contracts through recruitment agencies? You're probably technically overqualified but I had a job like that (and all 5 of my peers also just graduated, first job) and as soon as I had relevant industry experience I was being harassed on linkedin for job opportunities near daily. I only found this out after I got the job, but I guess it's win win. The employers know they're getting a more or less competent person for "cheap" and the applicant gets that all important experience, and since it's so short term you're not judged by future employers for jumping ship.
Or maybe at this point you're sick of job advice actually kek

No. 1065405

and my entire life will be affected by my childhood. Your life is set by your parents and socio economical situation from childhood. My entire life I will be mentally ill, poor and struggling because this has already been set for me and I will probably end up in an unheated apartment starving to death with nobody to help me like my mum, although my mum was a genius nobody helped her. The government and friends are not fuckinng real-friends are a lie. Friends is just economical exchange. If shit hits the fan nobody helps you but your family and if you don't have one or you're poor you're fucked. I had to see my mom, a genius. She could speak 5 languages, draw amazing landscapes and had a Phd in chemistry, I had to watch her die from mental illness and starve in poverty and nobody fucking helped her. With treatment, advice, food, money and her illness became too bad and they fired her from her prof position when I was 5 years old and she ended up jumping from 9th floor and I had to attend her funeral alone at 18 years old with nobody else there and I had no fucking money and I had to lend money from the bank because i had to pay for her funeral.

MONEY= EVERYTHING

if you don't have money, you don't have anything and you could also be very smart and kind person with a lot of skills but that does not mean you will make money. Capital is not distributed by talent or passion or even skill, it is purely distributed towards those that are manipulative enough to make money and that can play social games.

The socio-economical status of your family dictates your entire life forever. You are your parents, their poverty or richness, their trauma, their vices. You cannot escape your family and the world has such organization that if something bad happens and you cannot make money anymore you are literally made to die. To society you are just a disposable object that makes money, the moment in which you cannot make money anymore you're good to be disposed of and go to the trash, no matter how valuable you are as an indiviudal. >>1065394
you never read my fucking posts, you just read what your mind wants to make up about me. I never made 10k because I wouldn't get naked, I said that I could make it if I went through with it, but my values did not allow me to and exactly my communist, marxist values did not allow me to because it felt like I was losing my essence and turning into a cardboard cut out getting naked for coomers and I couldn't allow myself to do that, but I could have made a lot of money if not restrained by my belief system. I've got accused of so much shit on here from being told that I am jealous or ugly whore that totally wanted to be a camwhore although I have posted 1000 of times about my life situation. It's not hard to connect the dots. Sometimes I think about it and wish I could go back to it? Because money could literally solve all my issues, but something inside of myself is not allowing me to do it. I never made money because I never proceeded with getting naked or masturbating, because something inside of myself did not allow for that. I had been abused, raped my entire childhood and the money I could make as a camgirl could literally have made my life so much better but the values I have make it unable for me to proceed with it. I am mentally ill and I will probably never be able to hold down a normal job. But then you're all gonna make shit out about me. Everything you say or interpret from my posts is always a fucking huge lie.

No. 1065409

This is dumb but goddammit it makes me mad how much easier it is for men to lose weight. All they have to do is not eat fast food daily and it melts off, but I have to heavily restrict my intake while going through binge eating disorder which just makes it even harder.

No. 1065412

>>1065325
>WOKEISM=CAPITALISM

You sound unhinged but what you're saying feels right. What's the connection?

No. 1065413

I could have stayed there and made a lot of money, but I didn't because my values did not allow me to and after getting involved with Marxism and radical feminist theory I realized that I am a victim of extreme misfortune and that through working I was only selling my body and contributing to the empire of an ugly middle aged man who was getting parts of my paycheck. I realized that I never even had a choice, that I never wanted to actually be there, that my life had been so chaotic since my childhood and i was in so much need of money that I never had a choice. The choice was made for me by my environment. Some people don't truly have a choice, most people don't truly have a choice but society faces us with the illusion of choice

No. 1065414

>>1065405
>commie values ok with becoming a whore instead of working in a bad job that'd actually be useful for the government
>commie values not ok with being naked
Do you know what communism is? Your own values can dictated your life, you dont have to use some weird extreme ideology as an excuse for your actions when you clearly aren't living by it.

No. 1065417

I can’t stop basing my value on how sexually desirable I am it’s fucking killing me I know its wrong but I need someone to want me and it’s the only wayl

No. 1065420

>>1065417
After realizing most men would see any woman as desirable long as she slept with him you'll care less. You were easy, young and mentally ill, the perfect target for ugly old men who know a normal stable woman their age won't look their way. Focus more on yourself rather than your sexuality or desirability. Unless you become financially secure and truly independent, no matter how many men will want to fuck you, you'll always feel taken advantage of instead of empowered afterwards.

No. 1065423

>>1065405
My parents abused the shit out of me and we started off upper middle then plunged to middle then lower middle class, I don't understand how you can somehow equate money to other factors, just because you can somehow more easily get out of your situation? Spoiler alert: if your parents are abusive or your family situation and mental health is shit then it's shit regardless of situation. I watched mine plunge in socioeconomic status but they were always the same old crazy asshats at the end of it all. And too much money can make one abusive and megalomaniacal on their own. I don't really get your argument, I understand where you're coming from, but there is nuance to this subject beyond money. Money ain't going to solve everything, just look at all the unhappy rich people. You can have a shit childhood regardless of your family's economic status, shit parents don't suddenly cease to be shit parents because you're rich

No. 1065426

>>1065246
I knew someone who was sucked in by the whole 'manifesting' thing years ago. If you look at who is making money off selling books about this shit (and doing classes and events and online courses) its mostly men milking the money out of women. I was dragged to all sorts of angel shit and spiritual events as a teen and it's funny how nearly everyone spending money on this stuff is female and then when it comes to who is making the money suddenly you see a decent sprinkling of men appear.

No. 1065429

>>1065246
>white women who think they control everything
i share your sentiments regarding manifesting but you sound like someone who thinks calling every woman a karen is woke.

No. 1065430

>>1065414
How was me at 18 years old after my mom commited suicide while I was suicidal 24/24 working at mcdonalds more beneficial for the world than leading on coomers on some online platform? I was fucking homeless and tried to kill myself 30 times can you shut the fuck up. I was barely 18 and couldnt hold down some shit 400 euro slave job, I ended up being homeless, someone introduced me to it, I was desperate so I did it and I could have gone through with it in the sense that I could have made being a camwhore my job and I would have made a lot of money by now because I am beautiful, but I couldn't. Do you understand? I couldn't because my values did not allow me to. I am exactly a victim of society and a victim of capitalism. If I had financial stability and emotional stability in my family I could have worked a wagecuck job but how unstable everything was made it impossible. HOW IS WAGECUCK
YOU'RE SO FUCKING STUPID IF YOU KNEW ANYTHIGN ABOUT REAL COMMUNISM YOU'D KNOW THAT MARX WANTED TO OVERTHROW THE GOVERNMENT. WHY THE FUCK WOULD I CONTRIBUTE TO THE FINANCIAL EMPIRE OF ANOTHER PERSON WHICH IS MOST LIKELY A SCROTE THAT USES HIS POWER TO OPRESS OTHERS???? BE IT SOME NARCISSIST RUNNING THE GOVERNMENT, BE IT SOME NARCISSIST RUNNING A SEX WORK WEBSITE, BEING SOME NARCISSIST RUNNING SOME MEGA CORPORATION CHAIN LIKE MCDONALDS. IF YOU UNDERSTOOD COMMUNISM YOU'D KNEW ALL OF THESE ARE ABSOLUTELY THE SAME. AND WAGECUCKING IN ROMANIA IS NOT LIKE 1ST WORLD HERE YOU GET PAID 300 EUROS FOR AN IMMENSE WORK LOAD AND THE FOOD IS AS EXPENSIVE AS 1ST WORLD AND CLOTHES ARE AS EXPENSIVE AND RENT IS EXPENSIVE. I am not even a camgirl and haven't been one in almsot 2 years and I didn't even get naked, hence why i didnt make much money but I could have had if I did, but I never wanted to be a camgirl. I just needed money so I tried to get some simps to pay me for building some parasocial relationship but my groomers and the coomers on the website I worked on wanted to get me stuck there forever and get naked and do porn stuff

>>1065412

Leftists are now a tool used by capitalism and corporatism in AMerica. There's no true leftism anymore due to the extremity of free market capitalism. The overlords running the world don't want an actual movement which actually fights against capitalism. THE MARXIST AND LEFTIST MOVEMENT WHICH WAS THE ONE SUPPOSED TO OVERTHROW THE GOVERNMENT AND TO OVERTHROW CAPITALISTIC OVERLORDS HAS BEEN BOYCOTTED BY THE CORPORATIONS THROUGH BRAIN WASHING AND SOCIAL MEDIA AND BY THE RICH. NOW ONLY THE RICH ASSOCIATE THEMSELVES WITH COMMUNISM THERE IS NO POLITICAL MOVEMENT ANYMORE THAT ACTUALLY FIGHTS AGAINST CAPITALISM OR CAPITALISTIC ABUSE AND AMERICAN CAPITALISM AND CORPORATISM WANTED TO DO THIS TO THE LEFTIST MOVEMENT. NOW WE ARE MEETING THE POLITICAL PARADOX, THE POLITICAL PARADOX MEANS THAT THE RIGHT WING IS TURNING MORE INTO WHAT THE LEFT WING WAS SUPPOSED TO BE. LEFT WINGERS WERE THE ONES THAT SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT AGAINST BIG PHARMA, VACCINES, THE ONES QUESTIONING SOCIETY AND THE GOVERNMENT BUT INSTEAD THEY ARE LITTLE DRONES TO THE GOVERNMENT THEY ARE CONSOOMERS BRAIN WASH ONE ANOTHER INTO BECOMING SLUTS FOR THE BIG PHARMA FOR THEIR ENTIRE LIFE. BEING TRANS ONLY BENEFITS CORPORATIONS. CORPORATIONS WANT YOU TO BE TRANS BECAUSE IT MAKES THEM MONEY. NOT TO MENTION ALMOST ALL PEOPLE INVOLVED WITH THE LEFT ARE NOT EVEN POOR OR THE WORKING CLASS, THEY ARE RICH AND HUGE CONSOOMERS AND THEIR IDEOLOGY HAS TRANSFORMED IN SUCH WAY THAT IS SUPPORTS CAPITALISTIC ABUSE AND THE DYSTOPIAN FUTURE. OUR WORLD IS BEING EASILY DESTROYED BY CAPITALISM AND TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENT. IN 100 YEARS THE LIFE ON EARTH WILL BE DYSTOPIAN AND IN 200 YEARS THE WORLD WILL BECOME UNHABITABLE DUE TO CAPITALISM

>>1065423
Yes, I agree but just think about it, having abusive parents and being poor is way worse than having abusive parents and being rich.

Nobody wants to make a revolution. We need a revolution or the human species might literally end and the only ones with a bit of revolutionary blood left in them happen to be right wingers. If you tell any leftie you want to overthrow pharmaceutical companies and capitalism and kill actual rich people like Hasan Abi they will call you a schizo meanwhile they keep marxist as a way to define themselves on Twitter. Marx would have never written the manifesto if he knew how it has been corrupted by capitalism.

No. 1065431

I want to punch my brother in the face.

No. 1065434

>>1065430
Romanianon, are you diagnosed with something?

No. 1065436

>>1065405
You don't even know who these anons are, for all you know they could have difficult lives too. You just assume you're the only one who understands. You're right though with how money is everything, without it you're truly trapped in whatever situation you're in. Nobody will help you.
>>1065430
I get it, but the average anon is quite conservative and thinks you should just pull yourself up by your own bootstraps. They don't see you as any different from all the other lefties, because you don't think it's worth it to work for McDonalds for pennies. There's no point trying to explain. Go scam scrotes pls

No. 1065439

>>1065436
>the average anon is quite conservative
not really, they're just the spergiest

No. 1065441

What is even conservative? I don’t know anymore. I’m sick of how everything has to be the American way or no way.

No. 1065453

>>1065434
yes but I don't believe in Psychiatry anymore, each psychiatrist I've been to has diagnosed me with something different. I did one of those in-depth personality disorder tests and I scored very high for OCD. The DSM is non sensical and symptoms of mental illness overlap with symptoms of other mental illness, to the point it could be even said there's one huge mental illness, or that if you are abused or have a certain genetical influence you will get symptoms that fit with a lot of mental illnesses.

I was diagnosed with panic disorder, chronic depression, OCD, BPD, schizotypal disorder, Bipolar, all by different docs. I just don't believe in mental health anymore and I refuse to take meds, I used to be addicted to benzodiazepines and used to take medications, but I realized it was just a way of pleasing the world. I do not have delusions, hallucinations, displaced emotions.
>>1065436
it's funny because my values are more aligned with conservative American values than woke values. Real communists don't believe the woke bullshit and see through it. I am Christian Orthodox and I have been keeping this value since my childhood because my country practices it. I literally go to church every weekend and have been for the past 10 years. I hate woke shit, like promoting sex work, pronouns, gender ideology. I am skeptical of the vaccine, but all of these are at core marxist ( a lot of values which modern right wingers in America hold) because Marxism is the ideology that fights against the government and against capitalism. Wokeism is resulted from American capitalism. What the American conservatives don't understand is that the values they fight against so much PURELY EXIST ONLY BECAUSE AMERICA EXISTS. IF AMERICA NEVER HAPPENED WE WOULDN'T HAVE ALL THIS MENTAL ILLNESS WITH PRONOUNS, GENDER IDENTITY, OBSESSION WITH RACE, MEGA CORPORATE CAPITALISM. They say they love America so much, but it is exactly the values that have been born solely because of America that they fight against. America has changed capitalism completely and took it to another level and it is because of America that WOKE values exist. America has shifted the political compass and redifined both Marxism and communism, but in the past it was not as bad and leftist liberals were not as bad, but with the creation of the internet leftists are used as a tool of the government and capitalism. The government, which is ran by capitalism and corporations is trying to get complete control over the population through brain washing techniques implemented through social media

We are entering a new era of society because of modern capitalism and technology and it is very grim.

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>Heard Arthur ended
>Final episode shows kids grown up
>Mfw Arthur looks weird
>Francine appears, not sure how I feel
>D.W. still sports the same haircut as an adult

I feel like it was rushed. I think the Calvin and Hobbes route would have been better.

No. 1065457

>>1065441
Conservative is when you want things to stay the same or roll back. So it could mean you want to ban abortion or prevent abortion from becoming more accessible. Another example is wanting to avoid making health care accessible or privatizing healthcare. Conservative is also generally tied with only wanting the government to spend money on keeping businesses here, roads, military, things like that. It's not just about not being woke. Conservative is difficult to define because it's relative to where you are. It's why a conservative from the US is going to be different from a conservative from Scandinavia. It doesn't mean the entire concept is bullshit.

No. 1065463

>>1065454
Samefag, pic is Francine.

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>>1065454
This is Arthur.

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I had the worst day today nonnies. I need to vent.
I woke up feeling really cold during yesterday's night. I had to get up really early in the morning and I was tired the whole day. I hate getting up before 7.
After work I wanted to sit in a cafe for a pancake with cappuccino. I had to wait 20 minutes before the waitress got to me but the last pancake got sold right before me. I just left.
After that I ran to catch the bus, tripped, ripped my jeans, hurt my leg and got a bloody knee.
When I got home I got ready for a date I was hyped about, waited and waited for a message but got ghosted instead.
Tomorrow I have the longest work/classes day in a long time with 3 combined hours of commuting in the city buses/subway and I won't even have time to sleep enough today. I'm so tired I can't keep my concentration on during classes.
It can't get any worse.
I wish I could turn back time and be 19 again. Choose a different life with the knowledge I have now.

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idk if this is a vent so much but it feels like one but i'm so so tired of anxiety ruling my thoughts and making me think of ALL and every single worst outcome to ever apply to a situation.
i took my moms cat and he lives with me now, i finally took him off her for good because her dumb ass didn't even want to pay £80 to start his vaccination programme or get his health checked up at the vets. didn't even get him insurance.

i'm sorting all those things out for him now even though he's a little older (around 7 i'm guessing) but i cannot help but think as soon as i'll step foot into the vets office they'll tell me something is seriously wrong with him or that i need to pay xyz in order to fix him up. i've started to brush his teeth, improve his diet and the vaccines are booked but i'm just so scared of going in there and my brain is constantly cycling through the worst case scenarios.

i sound stupid yes but this cat means so much to me, i would do anything for this cat. he doesn't even seem unhealthy - his teeth could do with a little work but he still loves to eat, play and likes to be touched and enjoys going outside. his coat is also becoming very shiny and full since he moved in with me.

i wanna punch myself for not getting things booked/sorted for him sooner. i just really hope he lives a long healthy life. i don't even like pet insurance but the only reason i'm getting it is because i couldn't live with myself if i had to choose between money or my cats life. i also hate myself for even having to think about the worst thoughts or have such a pessimistic mindset in general.

picrel, it's my cat.

No. 1065511

>>1065178
>are my hobbies even my hobbies if I have to force myself to do them and can't even do them consistently?
I think about this a lot. I don't get us.

No. 1065513

>>1065466
Stop wtf he’s a neckbeard. I won’t accept this as canon. Is Francine a lesbian? I was hoping she wouldn’t be. It would be cool if she’s just single on purpose

No. 1065515

I hate how people in Venus's thread are saying she's in Japan, so that must be ok because Japan is the most civilized country in the world. Venus has no family to fall back on and was never taught normal skills by her mom, like normal life skills on how to deal with your life without prostituting yourself.

No. 1065518

>>1065515
and Youtube seems like a horrible place where grifting narcs exploit you for money if something bad happens to you. How can society be like this and everyone pushes this fake "accept mental illness" agenda and if shit hits the fan for you everyone sucks you dry like a vampire and nobody helps you. Sick society.

No. 1065523

there are people in Venus's thread that are saying they are envying her top kek

No. 1065525

>>1065513
>>1065454
Clipped from a news outlet: Arthur’s sister, D.W., is now a traffic cop. His best friend, Buster, is a schoolteacher. Francine runs a sneaker company. Muffy is running for mayor. Binky is an enthusiastic weatherman. And George now manages the Sugar Bowl.. No mentions of Brain, Sue Ellen, Fern, Jenna, Pruenella, Emily, or Tibbles. If I missed someone, they weren't mentioned. Also no cameos of older parents. Kate is a student of Buster's? Very confused as 20 years later, Kate should be 20. Kek. Make it make sense.

No. 1065527

>>1065510
Nonny I get how you’re feeling—I always cry whenever I go to the veterinarian’s office because I’m so full with anxiety over possible health problems for my cat. I’m sure your cat appreciates the amount of effort you’re putting in to maintain his health! He’s very cute and I’m manifesting a healthy long life for him!

No. 1065532

I find jealousy to be so odd. I've never truly been jealous in my life because I've never truly had the wish of living my life as someone else, but I wish I had a normal family and more stable environment and when I look at people with more stable life situations, which are most people I think that I want what they have but I am not actually jealous of them. Which is odd because I have been accused of being jealous plenty of times before but I don't feel it.

Sometimes I think all cows must be envied because of either efame or something they have which the farmer does not have and I wonder if the bad energy of the farmers are contributing to the collapse of the cow. I don't think it's good to have people sending you bad energy constantly or hate you.

No. 1065535

>>1065525
Why is binky a weather man? He was so creatively inclined. DW is too based and genius to be a cop fuck this bullshit reeeee

No. 1065537

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No. 1065540

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No. 1065541

>work in call center
>customer support
>old lady calls because "no internet"
>test the router/cables etc
>all good
>tell her it must be her ipad because everything is fine on our end
>she gets mad
>gives me a bad rating

I'm so fucking tired of this type of people, especially old people. Bitch I just tried to help you for 20 minutes because you don't even know what a router is and made sure that everything works ok on your side and you get mad because your ipad can't connect? I'm not fucking apple support, I did my job and I tried to help, fuck off.

I legit try to help people and it happens so often that they get pissed at me like it's my fucking fault the cable died or that they use too many devices.

Had a guy yell at me because he had to wait 1-2 days for his new router and he didn't want a voucher so he would have internet access. Then a day later when I had to call him back to see if the device arrived he was all "tee hee funny story, my daughter plugged the cable in the wrong LAN port". Yea. Very funny.

I understand they're frustrated, I'd be too, but FUCK YOU for giving me a bad rating AFTER I do everything to help and explain that it has NOTHING to do with the company, but with me as a worker. Seriously fuck people like that holy shit.

No. 1065542

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>>1065537
Fuck this gay earth lordt take me

No. 1065546

>>1065510
I had to take my cat to the vet today because someone gave her chicken bones and it got stuck in her mouth, she couldn't close it, eat or drink. I almost started crying when I gor into the vet office because of the stuff you described. Shit sucks but I guess we're at least trying to give our pets the best treatment they can get/we can afford.

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No. 1065550

>>1065549
she looks like a terrible caricature with this design…

No. 1065551

>>1065541
Call centers are the most dehumanizing jobs a person can have, the amount of times I got yelled at while working in one for things that weren’t even my fault is too much too count. I’m sorry you had to deal with that annoying lady anon and I hope you can one day leave that shitty job.

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No. 1065557

>>1065453
I agree post capitalist society is a problem, but it's looking like there's little to stop it. I also agree that I'm hella skeptical of psychiatry, and currently feel helpless without my meds. Pills for the most part have broken my brain with the exception of lamictal and the one anti anxiety med I took. I can relate to you in aspects romananon, my hopelessness in the world has overtaken me and I couldn't care less about the bullshit in it and it's happenings. Just finding security and love that I know I will never have. Even in temporary form. What hurts is that the only thing I can see helping me, since I'm now an adult with a grim future, is money, but more than money. I just want security. I wish society weren't like this either. We are undermining the people at the top who are causing the most damage by feeding into them, but how are we supposed to overthrow them? It's a helplessness that extends beyond america, and as an American, I get you. I think if we could meet halfway instead of infighting all the time we'd gain a lot more understanding. I can sense your frustration, it's sad we don't have a solution for it. I have tried to bend technology to my will not to destroy me, and it has. Over and over. Yet I feel like I've reclaimed some of myself in that. Self awareness. I hate that the beauty of what was once great; our advancements, have become so banal

If it weren't for technology I also couldn't communicate with any of you. Surely there is a way we can take back our power. As people, as women, as the disenfranchised. I want to believe one day I'll be great enough to overcome the hell I've been dealt, and for the rest of you, I wish the same. All I'm down to at this point of nihilistic anger is wishing, hoping, and trying to understand. Even if I don't agree with some of you guys, all the time, I would like to hear you out. I'm not envious or angry, I'm not resentful, i'm so tired that I have freed myself from my concern, all that remains is emptiness. Is this true sadness? That I am feeling? I may not survive 2023 at this point, but our differences and similarities aside, we're all here for a reason, then why does that reason sometimes feel so lonely?

Whole lotta goobledegock, I wish you well romanon, I really do. Other people may shit on you sometimes, but I'm genuinely at the point of unwellness myself where I can't criticize you. Dare I say I understand you.

No. 1065559

i think i pretty much have one friend at this point and it sucks. i regret making so many male friends in my teen years because once my best guy friend essentially left they all followed him even though he never even gave a reason why he screwed me over at the end of our lease almost making me homeless. The girls i knew in high school trooned out, my other girl friend has become distant because her other friend hurt her, and my main friend has a slight drinking problem i'm really worried about because i love her so much. Everyone else i know as a 'friend' is a male that i just dont care for since the relationships are all surface level stuff.

No. 1065573

>>1065557
>but it's looking like there's little to stop it
NTA but capitalism, just as any other old system, will be replaced by a more progressive system (just as capitalism is more progressive than feudalism) when it's time and possibly through violent revolution. Not now though, it's probably got a couple hundred years left. Nothing in history is permanent, even human beings adapt and evolve, so a system cannot exist forever.
I hope some positive changes come about in my lifetime, even if I don't get to see capitalism collapse.

No. 1065618

I tried to kms a couple months ago and I landed in this awful hospital that traumatized me even more I still have nightmares about being put back there. I don’t even know where to start because it sounds so un believable. So I get there late in the night and this nurse starts asking me why I’m here, I explained my situation to her and how I was in an abusive situation. She straight up told me “i need to forgive them and let god into my heart.” I thought it was just kinda funny at first so I didn’t take it to heart but I started noticing a huge trend, everyone here was super super religious, cult like. All of the group ladies there would spew about god and religion just seemed super unprofessional and weird.
They had me on the most dangerous unit, I was on the same floor with the murders and rapists, so lots of creeps and weird people all day all the time. The nurses had all of our cleaning utilities which is normal but they wouldn’t give it to anyone even if you asked, I would ask my nurse 5 times a day for my tooth brush and they’d get annoyed with me? One of the nurses there was constantly on her phone calling people while she worked with us. We had no soap to shower wish literal dish soap was all we had. This old lady who was on my unit was homeless and was clearly loosing her mind but wasn’t a threat or real harm to anyone. She kept bothering the nurses about her cigarettes or something and I guess. This old lady starts breaking down and crying super hard not even yelling at anyone just clearly breaking down and the nurses just started laughing at her??? Saying stuff like “those cigarettes really must be getting to your head, you’re crazy” etc. it was honestly heartbreaking to watch because she wasn’t even doing anything and was already down why tf were they pushing her. Two male patients went into my room once while I was sleeping!

No. 1065622

>>1065618
are you from Eastern Europe? I'm Romanian anon and I was raped and sexually molested by staff at the mental hospital and treated like a literal animal. I promised myself that next time I try to commit suicide I will make it successful.

No. 1065626

>>1065618
Holy shit, Nonna. I'm glad your attempt didn't work, but sorry for the hell you went through. Where was this at? Those nurses sound vile.

No. 1065629

>>1065622
romanian-anon you are a predator, you raped and molested other children. both you and that steven guy are terrible human beings, you need both need to get off the internet and off yourselves. stop trying to appropriate anon’s story she will probably never be as disgusting and evil as you

No. 1065635

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My team leader invited me and a couple of other workers for her birthday dinner because she already considers us "part of the team" yada yada yada but I'm not going because I don't want to miss the premiere of a new episode of Attack on Titan. See this is what I mean when I say autism ruins my social life. I mean, I know that even if I go there, everyone is going to have a great time and I'm just gonna sit awkwardly not talking to anyone, because I don't feel like I have anything in common with them and I have nothing to talk about, and every time I try to talk it's cringe and it's just like 3 sentences and our "conversation" ends. Just being around them at work makes me insane. Sitting with them for 2 hours in a more pirivate setting would be just suicide fuel. I already refused two times when they invited me for a party, I'm scared that it will somehow influence the way my manager treats me, although she already treats me less fair and with bigger reserve than my normie coworker, even though our technical skills are on the same level and I never committed any mistakes unlike her. But she's super friendly and talkative so of course another normie will acknowledge her more than me.
I feel so insignificant and lonely in this world, I will never have any friends or a lover because the wall between me and other people is just too high. There's no possible way to get any satisfaction from interacting with others.

No. 1065636

>>1065629
yeah when she was 8 years old. not that that's normal and not to white knight her but it's different, you're telling an adult to kill herself over something she did as a traumatized eight year old

No. 1065641

>>1065636
you’re acting like she said something simply bad like the n-word a long time ago, she raped a child. it doesn’t matter if she was also a child at the time that does not reduce the harm she has spread and caused to other people just because she was abused too. people think children have the mental capacity of severely disabled people and don’t understand morality but they do, you would think logically the child who understands something really sinister is happening to them and other people they wouldn’t want that to continue to happen to other people. come the fuck on, really anon? she needs to end herself or get locked up permanently along with her abusers

No. 1065645

I said in another thread (some girl was posing in a children's coffin) that I think it's a gross thing to do and they kept bitching at me, calling me oversensitive pro-lifer and whatever. Sorry I care about kids and don't think their caskets should be used as cute props. Retarded.

No. 1065648

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>>1065629
I was 8 years old and a 20 year old male molested me for 3 months and made me drink his piss until I lost my mind, in the village I used to live in all children would molest one another. I started taking the pants off little boys and making them touch themselves. I was a childhood abuse victim in a place with no running water, toilets or basic education. All the kids from that village are now in prison for various crimes and the girls are street hookers. You don't understand how circumstances shape your psyche, especially as a child. I wonder how you would have done in my place? Probably absolutely the same, if not even worse. The place I lived in was literally like Gummo. I was being raped by a 20 year old scrote and all the children in there would mutually molest one another. The levels of trauma I have been through are that of a war veteran or worse and I've never been offered help for it.

No. 1065651

>>1065641
are you Steven or something? she was eight. She was sexually abused and repeated (didn't rape anyone. 8 year old girls can't rape ffs) those behaviors. of course it's horrible but it's retarded to blame her as an adult for it
>people think children have the mental capacity of severely disabled people
they literally do? children who are physically abused at home often are physically abusive towards other kids. They repeat the behaviors they learned at home. Would you also blame an adult for bullying other kids when they were eight?

No. 1065656

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Can’t fucking stand opening my message requests and looking in the spam folder and seeing a bunch of “hey” “hi” “hello gorgeous” from some random pajeets

No. 1065663

My grandma has covid. I mean I just saw her so I know she's ok right now, but fuck my life. It was bound to happen because of where she works.

No. 1065664

>>1065648
>I wonder how you would act in my place

I wouldn’t because even though god is a stinky fictional XY he loves me and made me not be born in a euroshit country like romania which is clearly full of awful people and a clear lack of law enforcement. He also didn’t make me white trash <3

>>1065651
she still harmed other children and might I add she also mentioned killing other animals and torturing them for fun. and honestly yes I would still blame an adult for bullying someone when they were 8 because that’s where children absorb values that will stick with them for life. a bully doesn’t truly learn their listen they are nearly forced to integrate into normal society and play chameleon in order to get a job and maintain long-term relationships unless they hang out with equally obnoxious people. no one truly learns their lesson the right way they are just given the benefit of the doubt and no one usually gives a fuck to obtain justice. i’m tired of this, i get that she was brutally abused and lived in pig scraps but going on here and breaking many rules and trying to get attention acting like we will ever solve her problems is annoying. she is a victim but she clearly has a duty to herself and others to make things right, LC isn’t gonna do shit for her with her constant sob stories (which we will never really know the full story). she is borderline a lolcow yet I see other anons defending that piece of shit? wrong move. i’m not that ugly ass steven it’s frustrating seeing this all the time

No. 1065668

>>1065664
So that's what this is about…

No. 1065670

Steven stop posting challenge

No. 1065673

>>1065664
<3 obvious newfag, go back to Twitter

are you literally jealous of me getting scraps of attention from random strangers on a bottle cap collecting forum because I vent about being brutally abused?

You lack basic empathy or are underaged. I think you might be an actual sociopath. You are jealous over a girl born in a 3rd world shithole and you think that people that are being abused or born in bad situations are at fault for it. You are
1. A mentally incapacitated adult unable of fostering empathy
2. A child.
3. Shitposting(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1065674

>>1065664
>that first paragraph
kys you retarded newfag. or steven, whatever. how you can be such a cunt and proceed to moralize in the same post is beyond me, you're probably a bigger cow than her

No. 1065675

>>1065674
I'm not even involved but this, lol

No. 1065677

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No. 1065678

>>1065664
>>1065629
stfu you faggot, you really think you're morally superior to romanianon, uh? Steven, you're a psychopath, pull your head out of your ass and kys
>i’m not that ugly ass steven
glad you acknowledge that you're fugly, you useless, worthless scrote

No. 1065684

>>1065645
You’re right, nonnie, the anons talking about
>uwu y-you draw the line at coffins when we talk about le twansphobia and fatphobia?!?! How dare you disrespect the fat trans womerinos?! Y-you incubator!
Are brain dead tbh, and either idiotic handmaidens or males. I honestly don’t see how making fun of a nasty ass man or some stupid fatty is “edgy”. That thread is just full of retards.

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>>1065674
>bigger cow than the child molester and animal abuser

kek you anons never fail to make me laugh, not everyone is a male or a “twitterfag” trying to troll I was literally there when she shat up the previous vent thread with her story trying to gather a personal army and the whole chaos with steven posting his ugly disgraceful selfies in typical scrote pride, disrupting the entirety of the thread for a good few hours because she was attention-hungry as any lolcow would be. constantly talking about wanting to commit suicide rather than actually doing it because she’s also a huge broken narcissist. steven and fuck romanian-anon

No. 1065688

I've never posted in ot, but I'm so Fucking angry at my friend I just need to let someone see what I typed out to her months ago, and nothing has gotten better..
Honestly, I'm getting really sick of this. You come at me all the time when you're fucked up and telling me I make your life bad, I guess we can forget the job I got you and getting my boyfriend to go out of his way with HIS gas (if you wanna get on me about beach trip gas which I offered to pay for the trip we both wanted to do) at 5 in the fucking morning on his time off of 12 hour shifts all week prior, I guess I never drove over when you were drunk off your ass unable to eat with protein shakes and multiple grocery delivery runs. You go back and forth from "oh let me do this I'm here and nobody else is babe" to "fuck you, you're awful for not being awake to respond to me spazzing about Trisha (of all people when you can't even be bothered to ask if my sick mother was ok) and that means you use me" and that's a fucking whiplash I don't deserve. Like I don't ignore anybody unless they're actively pissing me off and I'm gonna start ignoring you for real if it keeps up because it is starting to piss me off. You get at me about "you're 25 figure it out" over what? Not responding to you immediately when my partner of almost a decade gets to spend 2 days with me and I don't check my phone for you to talk about nothing or be mean to me? I'm getting anxiety when I see you snap me cuz idk what version I'm getting. Genuinely YOU need the help to realize I have my own shit that doesn't involve you and especially doesn't revolv around you. I got accepted into fucking college this week and your response was to be absolutely horrid to me when you know I'm struggling, like I haven't always tried to make sure you're safe when your disappear after freaking me out about some freaky guy, MULTIPLE TIMES. This isn't friendship when you come at me like this acting like you're having a mature disagreement, you're just drunk and mean.

No. 1065694

>>1065687
You're soooooo convincing, fuck off kek

No. 1065701

>>1065678
they’re both psychopaths that’s the point i’m trying to make and they both need to rope themselves. how much times do I need to repeat that? were you homeschooled by a fucking boulder and can’t read?

No. 1065706

>>1065687
stop acting like an ugly tranny scrote if you don't want to be accused of being one

No. 1065709

>>1065694
steven wouldn’t be able to do the bare minimum such as be able to greentext. you just don’t want to admit that i’m right that they both need to get the fuck off LC because no one cares and can help her from steven

No. 1065714

>>1065709
You larped as a farmer for years, you're not a newfag

No. 1065716

>>1065706
is it because i’m not being emotional~ “like a woman” anon? not typing like a “woman would” right…. come on

No. 1065718

>>1065645
>>1065684
What thread was this?

No. 1065721

The site has turned extremely schizophrenic lately. Any post that anons deem wrong is immediately labeled scrote. It's so tiring. It was not THIS bad before the containment. Wish we could leave this autistic infighting in the containment threads where it belongs. Inb4 I'm labeled a moid because I posted this at the wrong time or anons don't like my written tone.

No. 1065722

>>1065714
take your “hi cow” bullshit elsewhere, someone like steven don’t ever think about women like romanianon for a long time. anyways romanianon is a child molester, animal abuser, narc, I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if it were someone trying to larp as an romanian woman either

No. 1065723

>>1065716
>>1065687
You will always be incel white trash, Steven. Don't bother trying to racebait when we know you hate non-white women too lmao

No. 1065724

>>1065716
no you absolute idiot it's because you have the intelligence and (lack of) empathy of one, and you think a horrifically abused mentally ill woman and the man psychologically torturing her are equally bad
>am I wrong here? no, it's must be everyone else

No. 1065725

>>1065716
nta but I can tell you're a woman, as well as other things about you.

No. 1065732

>>1065718
The current altcows thread. The anons in there sound like cows themselves.

No. 1065734

>>1065724
because they literally are. and I don’t know how to tell you this but women are capable of raping other people including other women. if you used your brain steven is not even smart enough to do what you think i’m doing, he clearly thinks high of himself and that is why he should kill himself

No. 1065738

>>1065734
8 year old girls aren't capable of raping anyone. I don't think you're steven i think you sound like him because as romanianon said in a surprising moment of clarity, you're either mentally stunted or an edgy teenager, or trolling

No. 1065739

>>1065738
I literally don’t care what that degenerate thinks, she has no right trying to call other people a troll or an edgy teenager when she fiddled around with a child and a dead bird’s intestines lmao

No. 1065740

>>1065738
COCSA is a real thing, though.

No. 1065742

>>1065673
You type like you have BPD. Stay as many feet away from children you disgusting pig

No. 1065743

>>1065740
yes, what romanianon did wasn't rape, you can go read her post I don't want to repeat it because it's disgusting
>>1065734
>they literally are
they are not by any measure, you're the only one who thinks this and it's extremely male of you

No. 1065744

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HI MY NAME IS Steven AND I CAME HERE TO HELP YOU NONNA, TO HELP YOU HEAL AND GROW BECAUSE YOUR'E SO, SO IMPORTANT TO THIS WORLD HONEY MUAKS XOXO. NOW TELL ME ALL YOUR SECRETS, YOU DEEPEST FEARS, I WILL HEAR YOU BECAUSE I'M HERE FOR YOU AND I WILL SAVE YOU FROM DESPAIR, I'M YOUR HERO AND YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL

No. 1065746

>>1065742
that's probably the only normal post she's ever typed, kill yourself steven

No. 1065747

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>>1065740
You realize how she doesn’t make any connection as to why she raped other children? She was also abused but she was never forced by her abuser to participate in the molestation which you would think would happen in that situation. She’s deliberately missing lots of details in her own story because she’s probably hiding a lot of shitty things she has done. We fucking get it children repeat behaviors but she still harmed children LMAO

No. 1065748

I swear to god it's like three anons ready to fling moid and scrote at the slightest provocation.

No. 1065749

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JFC I can’t believe you retards are still at it, whether you give a fuck or not about romanianon, nothing we say will be of use to her and Steven should listen to our advice and kill himself already.

No. 1065750

>>1065744
Someone should legit just make a thread on Romanianon, she might be as bad as Steven kek

No. 1065752

>>1065749
Samefag I forgot to add *romanianon should take our advice too and kill herself. Forgot to add that

No. 1065757

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Highkey just want to be a VTuber as a profession, too bad i wasn't blessed with uwu cute anime girl voice kek, my job is ok, i make an ok amount of money for my age, but i feel so lonely, i don't want to make irl friends because of the classic autism but I want to feel like im actually talking to people.

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I hope the moid kills himself soon tbh.

No. 1065770

>>1065757
I know that feel, nonnie, I wish I could become a retarded Vtuber talking about whatever I want and getting paid for it.

No. 1065772

>>1065768
why did you fiddle with kids romanianon

No. 1065783

>>1065772
Ok retard. I seriously don’t understand why you bunch of mongoloids keep talking about romanianon the retard and Steven the waste of resources who should kill himself as soon as possible.
You faggots are samefaging and pretending to be other anons for no reason and it’s getting obnoxious as fuck.
Shut the fuck up already and go fuck yourself.

No. 1065787

Now that /ot/ is restored I can happily post that I want to kill myself.

No. 1065788

I wish anons simply didn't mention romanianon and steven anymore. If we ignore them they'll go away, they thrive on attention.

No. 1065789

>>1065783
What anons is she pretending to be?

No. 1065796

>>1065788
Yes, this, so wise

No. 1065801

>>1065757
>too bad i wasn't blessed with uwu cute anime girl voice
Neither were most vtubers that got popular kek all of the ones I've seen sound so strained trying to keep up the facade of their cute little loli voices

No. 1065802

>>1065789
She’s pretending to be Steven kek

No. 1065866

I gained so much fuckign weight during the quarantine, it’s unreal. I can’t believe I was so stupid to let myself get this big. I’ve been dieting and exercising and lost around 15 pounds but I have like another 30 pounds to lose. I don’t even care about looks I need to lose this shit for health, before my diet trying my shoes were challenging, the 15 pounds do make a difference. But dam it’s hard and I know weight loss gets harder as you lose more and more. I am feeling so frustrated and it’s all my fault

No. 1065877

who the fuck is romanian anon and why is there so much lore to them

No. 1065882

>>1065877
Just a crazy bitch. Move on

No. 1065887

>>1065877
An anon who overshares on the regular and happens to have a bad past.

No. 1065891

>>1065877
>them
Go back to Twitter, newfag.

No. 1065895

>>1065891
i'm not a twitterfag i just don't pay attention to these threads and people kept mentioning a steven so i wasn't sure if it was a moid. sorry for being retarded

No. 1065899

I'm depressed as fuck. Too depressed to masturbate. The only thing I use my vibrator for nowadays is to give my dying cat lower back and tummy massages to help relieve her constipation. The cause of the constipation is kidney failure. If I don't help her, then straining to poop is so stressful for her that she vomits during/afterwards.

I feel like this might be useful information for other people with elderly pets but LMFAO can you imagine trying to tell anyone that? "So I had some unused sex toys lying around and I realized -"

No. 1065905

>>1065899
I used my vibrator on my breast when I had a clogged milk duct when I was breast feeding. Yes it was clean and I had a t shirt wrapped around it. But vibrators have all kinds of uses.

Sorry about your depression and dying cat Nona.

No. 1066013

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I genuinely despise positive people, they're the fakes types of neanderthals out there. I would %100 go with a mean ass girl because at least I know she is honest, but them fake ass "positivity good vibes only" hoes are the WORST because they are lying their teeth off 24/7. I'm low vibration, full on negativity,hope you get the rare type cancer bitch and I love it. Mean Girl Gang for Love.

No. 1066026

my birthday was last week and majority of my friends forgot and i am still hurt by it. I go out of my way to make sure i remember peoples birthdays and try to make them feel loved and yet no one does the same for me. Only my family and bf remembered. It hurts to know that none of my friends go out of their way to do nice things for me.
my bf says that i am the only one in the friend group that is on top of birthdays and reminding everyone, if i wasn't around to remind everyone then no one would know when its someone's birthday and because of that it makes sense no one remembered my birthday since i did not remind them. which totally makes sense but it still hurts and i want them all to know how hurt i am. i have no idea what to do and no one wants to listen to me talk in circle about how hurt i am so… guess ill just dump it here

No. 1066035

My therapist told me to initiate social activities more since I’ve been pretty isolated since I moved. I’ve been trying, but my friends keep flaking on me. It’s possible they might be flaking because they secretly don’t like me, but every week it’s like they say ‘anon let’s go do this thing we talked about!’ and i say ‘ok i’m free this weekend’ and then they don’t get back to me or let me know the weekend of that they have to cancel because their bf was in town, or because it was snowing and now it’s too cold, or because they were tired. might as well just give up. for three weeks a friend and i have been trying to go to this restaurant but then something always comes up and she never gets back to me or even tells me ‘hey i can’t do this weekend let’s do next week!’ i know if i don’t initiate then nothing will happen, but i’m tired of always trying to make plans and then have something come up and i have too much pride to essentially force a date and time to hang out with someone. before i moved, i never had this problem but now it’s like everyone has a life now and can’t spare a night to hang out.

No. 1066045

I am so fucking tired of thinking of random things to look up online or things to post about, only to forget it a couple of minutes later. I take several times longer trying to recall what it was than thinking about it. I don't know how to prevent it from happening.
It's a terrible feeling that drives me fucking mad.
For example the other day I thought about writing a post that would've fit perfectly in the confessions thread but I still can't remember what it was.
And of course, I just wasted half an hour trying to remember what I had thought about googling while I was combing my hair before.

No. 1066051

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hellom im very drunk but ive been reading "stigma" by erving goffman and as someone with a cleft lip/palate i found the passage in the preface explaining that those with physical differences are perceived by others to be "not quite human" to be so incredibly cathartic to my own experience with having to exist in society and with strangers seeing on their faces the judegents and discernments flash across their faces as they first meet you. i just want to sperg out and say that anyone with a "physical difference" even being particualrly asymmetrical without an actual disfunction, that i love you and the whole world is a big fuck. and i am sorry. i am going to watch youtube poops for the rest of the nigjt now goodnight

No. 1066053

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Normally I don't cry a lot but I've been crying everyday recently because of my intrusive thoughts of being molested as a child and sometimes I get so scared to go to bed and wake up abruptly, panicking and struggling to breath.

No. 1066060

>>1065648
Fuck off kiddy fiddler

No. 1066061

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Anon with the dying grandpa from the temp /g/ thread, unfortunately his condition has only gotten worse, he had another stroke yesterday and he’s been in and out of consciousness ever since. He’s got a DNR order so even if I can’t be there with him I know that it’s just a matter of time until he passes and he’s not going to suffer through any resus attempts.
Emotionally I’m a wreck bc his first stroke coincided with me getting a big promotion at work which I can barely focus on. I’ve been working from home all week but had to come in today to sort out a very time sensitive fault. It got me really stressed out and the people I had to work with lost their patience with me, and all it took was one of my coworkers asking me about my week as I was heading home and I completely lost it, I had a breakdown right at the moment that a bunch of people walked through our office, and most of them showed up after I had the chance to explain my grandpa was sick, they could only assume I was in hysterics because someone had a poor tone when talking to me.
I feel so pathetic, the whole time I’ve been there I’ve been working hard to not be seen as some silly little college girl and I feel like I’ve just undone all of it. This promotion was a huge step up in responsibility and it came on because my team senior, who at a time like this I would have been leaning on to help me with my workload, just quit and had his last day on Friday. I feel like all the work I’ve done is worth nothing now, it doesn’t matter how much I’ve gotten done within only eight months of being there, all that matters is that I left the office in tears and made a bunch of people uncomfortable. So fucking over everything right now.

No. 1066081

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>>1066051
oh anon, ive never come across someone else here who also has a cleft lip/palate, its heartening to find someone else like that out in the wild. i feel you, the way people look away in revulsion. sometimes they even continue to stare at you, but never at your eyes, always at the scars and misshapen features on your face. from the moment they see you, and recognise you as looking "wrong" they disregard you completely, you are hardly human to them, just an unpleasant eyesore to avoid. enjoy your ytps.

No. 1066099

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One of my best friends sat down and explained to me that my ex was an abusive fuck, and that I need to stop convincing myself that we were just a mismatch that ended up toxic. I've already gotten told that he was abusive by a couple of other friends but I only thought they were being over protective, but this friend happens to also be a close friend with his current girlfriend that he manipulates the same way as he did with me.
What makes it all hurt, and makes me want to stay in denial, is that my only other adult relationship was also abusive. Knowing I've been in two different kinds of abusive relationships is a harsh blow to my pride and confidence, still trying to cope and the conversation with my friend is making my head spin in all kinds of directions. I don't know what do or think with/about myself. I feel like shit and I don't know where to turn.

No. 1066107

>>1066051
>>1066081
I don't know if this will makes you feel better but I know someone whose mouth/lip shape made them look very cute even though all other features were average and I thought that alone made them attractive. Turns out it was the repaired cleft that gave them that feature and made them stand out like that. Even if a feature makes you stand out, it can be perceived as positive by some. Most human features that make you stand out, like blue eyes for example, are caused by mutations. And blue eyes are inherently less healthy because they're just so sensitive too so human attraction isn't just health or averageness=beauty.

No. 1066173

I'm filled with hope
With colors and butterflies with feelings and hope
I was hurt so much
Other people sucked the life out of me
Life sucked the life out of me
I'm tired of helping people for free
But I thought that in such cruel world
Giving help to people for free
Was the right thing to do
But unfortunately
I attracted negativistic personality disorder whores in my life
That suck me dry that suck me dry
and when I put up boundaries
They call me a narcissistic sociopathic whore
Well, stop sucking out my energy
and start sucking my metaphysical dick
bitch, you are never gonna be me
you have no personality
I'm ahead of even life itself
I have transcended mentally
Completely went against my environment
I understand life in a way you never will be able to comprehend
I tried pulling you out of your misery
but instead of grabbing my hand you started consuming my energy

Personality disordered bitches are everywhere
Most normal people are evil
Fuck off with your fake sympathy

No. 1066188

>>1066099
I'm not in the same situation but also in denial, so I feel for you, anon. I'd never had a significant other till I met my ex and after him I can't let myself be open and vulnerable again, so I try to keep this illusion about our deep connection that just didn't work out because of the circumstances and us being fucked up in a similar way, but in reality, he was still really manipulative and neglectful. It's hard to accept because then it feels like I've never been truly needed and loved by anyone, and it means I'm truly alone. Even though that's probably yet another illusion.

That's what I came here to vent about - how I can't even trust my feelings and how I probably sabotage this good relationship that I have right now. I don't even know if it's good tbh. My boyfriend isn't abusive but I fear that he doesn't really love me and I'm just convenient for him. Makes me want to stop having romantic relationships at all. I can't trust myself and I can't trust another person. And it's all just a big perpetual source of disappointment. At the same time, I just want to have somebody who'd be happy to be with me.

No. 1066201

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Lately I've been procrastinating super hard on things that are important to me. How I spend my time is a reflection of my values, so I get embarrassed when I review my actions and it seems the majority of my free time has been spent refreshing Lolcow, playing video games (each one for only 10 minutes before I get bored and look for a new one), and reading mediocre fanfic to masturbate. Writing that out made it even worse because it's not only unproductive, it makes me sound like a bottom of the barrel scrote who thinks forums and vidya are valid hobbies. I refuse to continue living this way. There are some obvious solutions like making to do lists, working my way through them, forcing myself to redirect my attention when I feel myself sliding into unhealthy activities, etc., but I feel like I can't move past this until I understand the mental deficiency that put me in this hell in the first place? What am I running from? Why am I like this? Is trying to understand myself yet another form of procrastination? I just want to feel proud of myself. I want to be the well rounded, happy, thriving person that I know I can be!!!

No. 1066203

I'm in an LDR and I just keep delaying the inevitable. We dated for about 3 months in person and then I moved. I haven't called my bf in over 3 weeks and we keep texting back and forth, but replying has become a chore for me. I just find him boring knowing we don't have a future together and probably can't meet up for another year…I want to break up, but it would be shitty to do it over text. I also feel like it's shitty to do it over video call so I keep dragging this shit out.

No. 1066221

>>1066201
wish i could help but this sounds exactly like my day to day life

No. 1066229

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>>1066188
I'm happy someone could so eloquently put it all into words, but I'm sorry you had to go through a similar experience anon. I'm sure your current partner loves and cares for you, but your fear is really valid! When you've only been in abusive relationships it's hard to know what a normal relationship is supposed to be, so you can't trust your own instincts anymore. Lots of "is this a red flag or am I over reacting out of fear?" moments and second guessing yourself on top of always keeping your guard up without ever learning how to lower it.

I hope you can move on from the fear anon, one step at a time. I'm sure one day we can let ourselves be loved again, and recognize that love.

No. 1066245

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Sometimes I wish I rode the vtuber train when it was really kicking off.

No. 1066247

>>1066245
>Posting a parasocial moneycuck meme with a mommy fetish included
Alright…

No. 1066250

>>1066245
Sorry nonnie, but you would have only made it big if you were backed by an agency or had a huge following before that

No. 1066279

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>>1066035
So I just talked to my therapist this week and basically told her what I said here. She said I should probably fixate less on these friends and find people who are similar to me (single, care more about committing to plans, new to the city, etc.) because my current friends might be too wrapped up in other things to be able to be as available as I want. I see what she's saying and maybe if I find people in a similar circumstance as me it'd be easier to get close, but how I do that?? And I've already tried so hard to make these friends and now I have to go and make other friends too? I know it sounds melodramatic but I kind of want to cry out of frustration lol. Why does it have to be so hard to make friends who actually want to hang out with me? Fuck fuck fuck

No. 1066290

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I haven't been drinking nearly enough in the past two months, so my hemorrhoids are flaring up again. Never skip drinking water nonas, even if it means to literally force it down your throat.

No. 1066304

>>1066290
Main reason why I’m always carrying around a water bottle. I might look like a giant baby with it but fuck it at least I remember to stay hydrated and not have to bleed when I poop

No. 1066350

I hate having a dead parent because of how people react to it. If someone is only talking about one parent then it should be common sense to not ask about the other. I know it's uncommon to have a dead parent whilst young but I wish it was treated as more of a normal thing so people wouldn't make a big deal out of it. I don't want sympathy or pity for it, especially because I was not even sad about it.

No. 1066361

>>1066350
>If someone is only talking about one parent then it should be common sense to not ask about the other.
>I wish it was treated as more of a normal thing so people wouldn't make a big deal out of it.
This seems conflicting. Making the dead parents a forbidden subject doesn't normalize it.

No. 1066363

I wish I had the space to do more hobbies. I want to get into more creative hobbies like clay and sewing but I have to move around a lot and I pack light so I feel like there's not many options. I mainly just play vidya and watch stuff, which I don't mind at all. I just want to create something physical.
That being said it's weird to me when people criticise other's hobbies. "All you do is play video games and watch things?" Uh, yes, what's wrong with that? I'm tempted to drop friends when they criticise me for shit like that because I find it very pretentious. If someone's happy doing something harmless then why care. I don't get it.
You criticised me for my hobbies but all you do is listen to music and make tiktok videos. You also criticised me but all you do is play video games too and make music. I don't see exercise as a hobby when it's not for fun.
Again, you criticised me, but you don't even have any hobbies. Is watching football a hobby?
I'm not going to change what I enjoy to impress other people but damn do these people annoy me. I don't think your hobbies are interesting but I don't criticise them because why would I care what you do in your free time.

No. 1066368

>>1066361
Idgaf I'm just tired of people's stupid reactions. It's always awkward to have to say "um yeah I don't have a mother she died haha"

No. 1066375

>>1066363
Why not try crochet? All you need is a few hook sizes and a ball of yarn. Or art, some pencils, charcoal, or a small watercolor palette with brush and a sketchbook.

No. 1066376

>>1066363
>creative hobbies
How about digital art, photography or writing? It's not clay or sewing but they're creative and portable hobbies.

No. 1066380

>>1066053
I'm so sorry anon, I know what's it like to wake up panicking like that. I like to distract myself with nature videos on youtube, or colouring or just telling myself 'I am okay. I can breathe. this will pass' anything to take my mind off how I feel. hope you get some rest from this soon nona

>>1066201
well if you're anything like me, there must be something rewarding about what you're currently doing that is stopping you changing your ways. I do much the same as you and wish I were different but I can't deny living this way has its perks. it's cosy and I love being lazy. maybe it's the same for you. I don't think dedicating time to finding out why is too bad but yes, don't let the why take up too much of your time. if you want to form new habits I recommend reading james's clears books 'atomic habits' which I'm also reading now as well as implementing a habits tracker for each day and rewarding yourself when you do well.

No. 1066382

>>1066290
good tip, thanks anon!

No. 1066384

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Anons, I feel so fucking dumb. I burnt myself and ended up popping one of the 8 blisters. That really sucked but it wasn't a big deal. Well, I covered the wound with gauze and without thinking I taped over the other blisters and guess what happened? They burst when I was taking the tape off. Having one open wound was already stressing me out, and even worse, the pus got all over my fucking leg. I don't even know if I should finish popping them since they only partially burst, but I don't want to risk exposing them more. I just hope I don't get an infection.

No. 1066385

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I’m ready to be old so I can just relax. Even if my health is shit, at least I won’t have to deal with men, won’t have to work constantly, can focus on whatever hobbies I want.

No. 1066406

Modern men are such sensitive bitches. Honestly a bunch of sissy faggots. My grandpas generation was the last generation of men, now we just have overgrown boys. They cant handle shit, they cry and whine and they cant even do handywork or go die in wars. They talk about going their own way, being traditional and not caring about what women want, tell a billion misogyny jokes, yet they shit themselves and cry over the tiniest misandry joke. Oh very manly and traditional of you. Plus "traditional" in their eyes is the woman doing everything, whiie they soil their diapers and jerks off to internet porn and gets pegged in the ass. They just want a mommy, pathetic.

"Men should be able to show emotions too" bitch, all men do is whine and cry and be emotional, they need to go back to repressing that shit, sucking it up and growing up. Nobody coddles women like that, we aren't allowed to be emotional crybaby bithes either. They don't cry to eachother, or even cry because they are actually sad, its just manipulative emotional labour for women.

Instead of equality between the sexes, we now have women doing the work of both genders, while men run around like children. I'd rather be a housewife to a strong stoic man, than be a breadwinner mommy maid gf to an even more misogynistic little man boy. They are even more rapey and disgusting due to being raised by internet porn. Low bar, but I'd rather have martital rape in missionary, than be anally raped by a pornsick freak fuck. Its not like we have less rape and assault nowadays, its just normalised to rape and choke and beat women now, its "kink uwu". Shit went wrong when libs decided we needed to care about poor widdle mens feelings and that men shoukd be able to cry too.

No. 1066426

>>1066385
I wanna be a based chill granny just enjoying her life with you nonny. It's the dream.

No. 1066428

>>1066384
Please don't pop them nona! You should leave blisters like that to dry out by themselves, once the skin underneath is healed you can pull it off like a scab. Is it a big burn? Because then you might want to get it checked out, but keep it clean and leave it alone as much as possible. There are creams for treating burns too

No. 1066432

Every single problem of mine would be fixed if I had money, every single one. I hate being poor so much, I hate this. I wish I had money, poorfaggotry will seriously make my family kill eachother. Th tensions are high, no warmth. Just a quiet anger. I hate money problems. I keep exhausting myself crying and hating my life.

No. 1066438

>>1066428
Nta, but I can’t hear you over the sound of me mercilessly popping and scratching at every flaw on my body.

No. 1066458

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I hate how my house, particularly my bed, is infested with bedbugs. It makes me feel filthy. It’s embarrassing. I’m trying to get an exterminator, even though I know that they’ll just come back in 6-12 months

No. 1066461

>>1066406
>Plus "traditional" in their eyes is the woman doing everything, whiie they soil their diapers and jerks off to internet porn and gets pegged in the ass.
Exactly. It is such a projection when they criticize feminists, saying "they want rights but no obligations!".

No. 1066465

>>1066458
Bedbugs suck. If you get an exterminator, see if you can find one that uses biopesticide (name brand is Apprehend but some will just say it's a biopesticide). I got an exterminator who used this because it's pet safe, but also I found that it was very effective! It was one month between first and second treatment, and will last up to three months after so any stragglers and eggs that hatch later on will walk over the pesticide and die off. It's no silver bullet but I found it to be effective. Bonus is that you don't have to remove/move stuff around.

The exterminator I hired offered it as an option because our chemical treatment with another exterminator didn't work well (because my dad's a defensive hoarder), and he talked me out of a heat treatment because I live in an apartment and it would've been waaaaaaay more expensive.

Good luck nonnie, I'm praying you'll be free soon.

No. 1066472

>>1066458
Bedbugs are one of my worst fears and I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy. I'm so sorry you are going through this, nona. I can imagine that it is genuinely traumatizing. I really hope that you can get rid of those fuckers.

No. 1066473

>>1066432
same. If you don't have money in this world you're fucked. Rich people will immediately shut your mouth and say they have issues too. Poor people have the same issues rich people have but with the issue of lack of money on top

No. 1066474

I wish my brain worked normally and I could be around other people. I’m perfectly extroverted and sociable when I put in the effort but I just don’t want to. I don’t want to talk to anyone or hang out with them or be in the vicinity of another person. And at the same time I’m incredibly lonely. I hate animals so that’s not the cure. And I hate the idea of online friends. Any responsibility in nurturing a relationship of any kind seems so pointless and annoying, and yet I crave having a lover or a friend.

No. 1066485

>>1066458
I feel ya. My apartment got infested with moths and carpet beetles and I was fucking dumb and thought they were just butterflies and bugs or whatever (I sleep with a large window open in the summer). As you said, it makes me feel filthy and disgusting.

I've just thrown out like half of my stuff because I can't be arsed to clean them and don't have room in my tiny freezer to kill off the eggs. At least got rid of old clothes I didn't need anymore. I hate those little fuckers. I'm usually a gentle person but god I love to see them suffer when I catch them and flush them down the toilet. I already had one exterminator poison all the corners and cabins, and another one is coming, plus I ordered traps that are designed to kill off all adult males (kek) and prevent them from copulating, so maybe I'll get rid of them finally.

No. 1066498

My boyfriend is probably really excited to see me today but I don't really want to see him. I'm going through a weird phase in my life and I feel like I need time to focus on myself but I also don't want to break his heart because he does so much for me. I wish I could disappear for a little while

No. 1066502

>>1066485
Pantry moths are gross because they breed in your food. Carpet beetles though? I see those in houses everywhere and when I’ve had them in my house I’ve never had anything damaged by them. They can keep doing their thing.

No. 1066506

I made a new friend at a concert and I’m happy to make new friends but it’s a painful reminder of why I rarely make new friends and most of my new friends are introduced to me from existing friends. I’ll sound like a cringey pitiful ~*~introvert~*~ but I don’t care.

This girl is a few years younger than me but I already feel like it’s too much. She’s outgoing and spontaneous and I don’t mind spontaneous plans… if it’s with close friends I’m very comfortable with. She’s in school (or was, she’s a NEET this semester) and I’m a working adult with a very structured life and that’s how I like things. It helps me exist as a happy, functional adult. Plans are always made in advance, because they have to be when all your friends are working. Most of my friends are like me, very low key and easy going and when we’re together it feels like I’m going in slow motion. I enjoy life in slow motion. This girl is like jumping in a ferrari with no seatbelts on and I’m about to throw up from motion sickness and/or fear.

She’s nice and I don’t want to ghost her, but I also suspect she’s a rich girl larping as a poor person and part of that just rubs me the wrong way kek.

No. 1066521

>>1066502
Their population blew up because I have a lot of fur and wool clothes (I tan leather myself and sew stuff so a lot of material laying around), and they absolutely destroyed those. When I removed all fur and wool they didin't seem to care about normal clothes, though. They did infest an old carpet that I had stored, literally hundreds of them.

When it comes to food pests, tbh i don't really care, at least if they don't leave visible feces in my pantry or something. Besides, it's easy to get rid of those by putting all new food in closed containers.

No. 1066542

>>1066375
You see I'm still afraid of packing things like that because of room and they can be delicate. Thank you for the suggestions though nonnie.
>>1066376
Photography is nice but I honestly don't think I have the patience for digital art or writing anymore

No. 1066548

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hurry up and finish using the computer so i can resume my masturbation session

No. 1066558

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NO ONE EVER LISTENS TO ME

No. 1066574

>>1066548
Lmao I keke'd to this post. Why don't you use your phone though? and why do you share your computer with porn in it lol

No. 1066587

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Starting to think I haven’t actually had uncurable depression since age 10 and instead have just been miserable because my life is miserable.

No. 1066591

>>1066574
glad i could entertain you
i do neither of those things. i was complaining because the family computer is located in my bedroom and i don’t feel comfortable doing my business outside of my bed, kek

No. 1066592

My head is filled with useless shit and I don’t know what to do about it. Im basically an airhead and realising it is so painful.
I’m so fucking stupid, I have what is considered to be a pretty good degree from a good university but I can’t get a job due to either nepotism or failing technical tests. I can’t keep blaming nepotism for everything i’m just stupid and i can’t answer these tests. Deep down i always knew that I should have majored in something else but I didn’t really have a choice so i picked something i enjoyed studying and has good job prospects but im dumb as bricks.

I don’t really get much of a choice in life and i feel like a brat complaining about it. Im lucky im so fucking lucky but im too stupid. I’ve been rotting in my room for the past 2 years and my life has become to stagnant. Everyone around me picks up something and gets better but i don’t. I tried improving my hobbies and getting into different career paths but it makes me feel like I failed at my “primary career” i.e what i majored in. Either that or i feel like i’ll get accused of copying people around me since that’s something i was always accused of when i was young.

Everyone around me told me to peruse what they perceived me to be good in. I should have listened and deep down i know that they were right but why give up on a major with good job prospects. Im at a place where my professors are ignoring me so i can’t continue applying for my masters and either way i have that deep feeling again that i just shouldn’t continue my degree’s career field even though i enjoy it.

I don’t need someone to tell me that “work and productivity are a capitalist invention “ or some bs like that, i want to work and i want a job i don’t care, in tried of doing nothing.

No. 1066623

I didn't believe people when they said things like how rail thin does not look good until i started seeing rail thin people in real life. To think i memed myself into believing the whole anarexie manifesto is genuinely a scary realization that i was being brainwashed from a very young age. Like i permanently scarred 2 of my organs for life from starving myself and eating next to nothing because i believed there is no life unless you are thinner and look good in clothes. All those years wasted on being fixated on staying thin while my hair started to fall out and my bones got weaker. I fucked up my life out of vanity because i didnt think i had worth outside of my weight which is the most retarded thing ever. To think they're bringing this fucking shit back like isn't there anything anyone can do to warn this generation of vulnerable girls?

No. 1066629

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I'm struggling to fill out this form for school in a 'high-quality' way

No. 1066635

>>1066406
Your "I'd rather get martial rape'd" is nasty. But in terms of how tolerable men are to be around, it's the same except older scrotes want you to serve them meals and kids, younger want you to serve sexually and emotionally. Both are a fucking pain to be around. But older scrotes atleast were at work for most of the day and women could have bonds with eachother and not constantly be pestered by a y parasite. I think we just traded one shit sandwich for another shit sandwich.

No. 1066638

>>1066623
The rail thin expectation is almost like modern day foot binding. Damaging organs, severely weaken bones, stunt growth, brainfog.

No. 1066642

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I hate this fucking poster. It’s been years and i keep seeing it everywhere like haha funny meme. Peta set out to put out something against wool and sheepskin coats that were popping up everywhere and completely fucked it, just because they used incorrect terminology, and gave a platform to animal abusers.
It’s already been talked about, but the people doing the shearing often hurt and abuse the sheep.
Shearling coats are made out of shorn lamb skin. So the lamb on that picture would be killed and skinned and its inside out skin made into a coat.

No. 1066644

>>1066406
Jesus nona you went for the jugular there but you're absolutely right. The "more emotionally intelligent and sensitive" men are still raping us, killing us, abusing us except now they're also living off us and expecting us to not only clean up after them but also be the breadwinners. This is not equality.
>I'd rather be a housewife to a strong stoic man, than be a breadwinner mommy maid gf to an even more misogynistic little man boy.
Both are hell.

No. 1066647

saw a mtf say he named himself lily in tribute to lilja 4ever….

No. 1066650

>>1066642
I have a lot of emotions about peta. They actually do good stuff but they've become such a meme that their points are completely ignored and misrepresented and it ends up hurting the cause even more. I'm so fucking sad.

No. 1066708

I am incredibly tired. I'm depressed. I keep having these physical symptoms and I'm constantly worrying if I'm going to faint, if I'm going to have a heart attack, if I'm going to die in my sleep one of these days. Every night I get into bed and I'm afraid I'll never wake up. When I'm awake I can't breathe and I can't relax and be at ease, ever. How can other people enjoy their lives and plan things? I live in constant fear of death and I don't plan anything because what if I die tonight or tomorrow? And then when I realize that I may really die I get this urge to see things and do stuff I enjoy doing all at once because it may be the last time. I want to say goodbye to my dog. I want to see my drawings again, I want to call people and tell them what to do when I'm gone, I want to touch the things that give me comfort. For some reason I feel like I'm going to die at any moment. I feel so scared and helpless. I can't enjoy anything.

No. 1066724

>>1066647
That is disgusting. Of course trannies would coom over that movie. Ugh.

No. 1066728

It's always embarrassing when people passionately insult younger generations and generalise about them heavily. It's happened across generations for such a long span of time, and it repeats itself once the youth age themselves. I understand criticising the culture of those younger than you out of concern, and there's nothing wrong with pointing out embarrassing behaviour when you see it, but it's so odd to see people seethe so hard about it. They don't realise they're playing into something that everyone's done before, that there are better qualities to every generation alongside the terrible ones. Really strange when people go "back in my day you had to do [x]" as some kind of own. It's good to take your nostalgia goggles off for a bit and understand that most Millennials aren't lazy insufferable narcissists and most Gen Z-ers aren't BPD TikTok addicts who must document their whole lives. I think people fixate far too much on those generational labels anyway, it's retarded. I don't get people who strongly identify with and must make mention of the generation they belong to. Maybe I'm detached. I just rarely like to generalise so strongly, I feel like it's a setback

No. 1066782

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This isn't really a vent, moreso a mild annoyance. I kinda dislike how one of my peers sort of shamed me for using the St. Ives Apricot cleanser and nothing else. I'd say that my skin is pretty okay- I don't have acne unless I eat unhealthily and I don't even get rid of the hairs on my face. I wouldn't mind if it wasn't the fact that she was calling my face 'unclean' because the scrub I'm using doesn't 'clean' my face. Like mfer am I gonna get sick from my face?

No. 1066787

>>1066782
warm water + friction = removes dirt, your friend is stupid.

No. 1066790

>>1066782
What hair on your face?

No. 1066795

>>1066782
It’s funny how the Kylie Jenner face wash controversy made everyone so paranoid and judgmental about exfoliants and scrubs as if you’re grinding your face with sandpaper every time and creating major damage and THE HORROR OF WRINKLES. Most skincare is bullshit goop anyway so if you want to scrub off your dead skin that’s literally fine and everyone else can go buy their 50 glass vials from the ordinary. All I do is a face wash and moisturizer and it’s better than when I was fooled into following a bunch of routines

No. 1066836

>>1066795
according to most skincare info I've read you're supposed to exfoliate once to a few times a week what are those retards on

No. 1066850

>>1066790
Nta but peach fuzz probably.

No. 1066924

I keep thinking about mortality and it’s making it hard for me to enjoy life. My cat’s getting older and when he goes (hopefully not anytime soon) he’ll be my first pet to pass away with me as a fully independent adult. Every pet before him, my parents would take to the vet to be put down and I wouldn’t go with them because I always wanted them to be alive in my last memory of them. I can’t offload that grief now since it’s just me and him and I just keep thinking how sad I’m going to be when he’s not here, so absolutely fucked up when my buddy’s gone and I’ll just have to feel every bit of that sadness. And it’s fucking me up now!!!!! Now when I should be happy because he’s still here, still blissfully unaware of his own mortality, just filled to bursting with love and loafing and purring in my lap. I’m so fucking autistic that it’s easier for me to accept people dying than it is to accept that this tiny little animal won’t be here forever. And I love him so so much and I know I’ll love future pets just as much so it almost makes me never want to get another pet if it means I’ll just have to lose them someday.

I feel like in general loss is the price of loving and being loved and I can accept that, but I’m struggling to make peace with it.

No. 1066949

Being friends with bpd millenials is infuriating because they always blame everything on 1. White people 2. Republicans 3. Their loved ones 4. Astrology

No. 1066963

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Have two job interviews tomorrow, I'm trying to prep a bit but I keep getting distracted bc nerves. Rethinking if it was smart to schedule them both on the same day. Realistically not amazing odds of getting them bc both have like 100 applicants. Just want a big graduate girl job, god pls

No. 1066972

>>1066949
Now those same people are blaming all their issues on COVID or unvaccinated or some stupid shit. Not to start fights or anything but millennials and Gen Z have extremely screwed morals and really don't know how to detect who's the actual wrong ones in situations

No. 1066974

>>1066850
You have to remove that?

No. 1067009

>>1066963
Good luck with them, anon! Scheduling two in one day is not necessarily a bad idea, if you get a good energy going for the first one you can carry it through to the next

No. 1067035

I am disgusting rn, haven’t showered in 2 days. My kid is getting over a stomach bug, I wanted to last night but mostly I’m sad because I have fucking no one to validate my feelings nobody, nobody wants to help not even his fucking dad. I could’ve showered last night and he could’ve put him to sleep but nooo, I didn’t even get to brush my damn teeth last night or wash my face because right after my kid fell asleep I crashed, I’m so exhausted, my kid had the shortest nap ever today, I didn’t even get to sob in the shower as I planned to, work out nothing I didn’t get to do anything for my damn self today except be told “why are you giving me so many commands” by my retard scrote after I asked him for some wipes, being told I shouldn’t be sad over things I’m sad about And I’m sorry I’m all over the damn place but I haven’t caught a damn break I just want to escape, I to be honest just want to kms

No. 1067043

>>1066949
Then why are you friends with them?

No. 1067047

I have really bad fucking burnout, along with chronic fatigue and every day is the same thing of being demanded of but never being given a fucking break. I just want to feel inspired again, like I have something to look forward to (disregarding the possible war to cap off a two year pandemic of course…) and like I matter. Like I mean something besides being a wife and mother.

I fucking love my kid though, she's incredible and I can't believe she came from me.

No. 1067052

>>1066782

I used St. Ives for years and never had a problem with it. Stopped using it because of all the scaremongering around 'microtears' and damaging your skin - none of which was proven BTW - so I started doing chemical exfoliation only. Found that it didn't really do anything for my skin, so I went back to gently using St. Ives on my face once a week in the shower and my skin is good. It just makes me feel like I'm actually getting rid of the crud on my face.

It's also amazing on my upper arms and legs.

No. 1067073

I hate /v/

No. 1067076

>>1066428
I promise I really didn't mean to pop them! I popped the first one while sleeping. The blisters aren't small and I'm a huge clumsy bitch so it just happened. I don't think it's serious enough to go to a hospital/burn center, but if I notice any signs of anything going wrong I'll definitely seek medical attention. Thank you anon.

No. 1067115

>>1066782
>>1066795
This lmao. I wonder how many of these same people shitting themselves over facial scrubs, lemon, baking soda, etc go and get dermabrasion, micro needling, chemical peels, facial waxing, etc or anything else with the same irritation effect. Maybe it's a consoomer thing spread by dermatologists trying to make more money? Kek "nooo don't put a scrub with little beads in it, it will irritate your skin, instead get a literal wheel of needles repeadly scratching up your skin! It works so much better!"

No. 1067139

if you ever think your life is bad just remember a bpdchan has filled her room with stuff I like so she can, in her words: “always think of me”



I was friends with her for a week.

No. 1067152

>>1066782
I used to use st ives when i was a teen. I think if it works for you, you should continue to use it. The only thing that stopped me from using it was that i prefer chemical exfoliation and using retinols + harsh scrubs sounds like a match made in hell. Maybe i will purchase it again if i ever consider shaving my legs religiously.

No. 1067155

>>1066974
You don't. Women who have darker hair usually remove it because it's highly visible, but bleaching it is something people do alternatively. It's also a thing to remove it because it makes your makeup sit better on your face.

No. 1067162

i think i'm in love with someone and it's scaring me nonas

No. 1067228

>>1067035
Don't be so hard on yourself, 2 days is fine, most people don't shower every day nona, relax, you're not disgusting, you're a mom to 2 kids. Except one's a fully grown adult male who you should probably not be playing mommy to anymore. Leave the moid, the idea of being a single mom can be daunting but I swear it's so much better than dealing with a useless overgrown fetus. At least he'll have to pay child support and he'll be good for something.

No. 1067272

really annoyed with americans right noe making this war situation all about them

No. 1067285

I know people that live in Ukraine and the surrounding countries so seeing all the retarded fucking memes and stupid comments on Twitter making fun of the situation make me wish these idiots would get fucking drafted if they think war is something to joke about, they’re so void of any empathy and understanding of real life I think social media is truly brain rotting and infecting them with retardation

No. 1067291

>>1067285
It's like a little field trip to them, exciting!!! Stuff is happening!!! This is one reason I actually want content about war and genocide shown to teens. Books like machete season and gore-y war pics. But knowing how male teens are they'd just giggle and get off to it.

No. 1067293

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I'm taking out my protective style and being reminded of how incredibly thick my hair is

No. 1067329

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Someone followed me on tumblr a while ago and after a quick look at their blog, followed them back because they posted the same kind of things I do. After a while, they started to post more personal posts and less pretty pictures, and they got kind of annoying (just your typical annoying as fuck tumblrtard, so nothing out of the ordinary, but still obnoxious) and I finally looked at their about and they have a side gore blog linked, so anyone who looks at their about can click it and go to their gore blog. And then they say to block them if it makes you uncomfortable but please don't report! What the fuck. I am so tired of these fucking freaks. Can't anybody online just be fucking NORMAL? I posted this in the dumbass shit thread and deleted because it belongs in this thread

No. 1067361

my friends are retarded and i’m going to leave my friend group which means a very long time until i meet new people knowing myself. i get triggered by even seeing one of them which is so fucking stupid i know but it’s just the way it is for me. i’m a bpdfag (obviously) and i get very intensely attached to people and this friend was no exception. he did a bunch of fucked shit but the worst was abandoning me the night i got raped. literally that night was the night he decided to ghost me. come seven months of radio silence until he randomly decides to talk to me again because we have mutual friends. i tried to talk to him about how he hurt me but instead he just sends memes and makes stupid jokes. he does this every time i try to talk about something past surface level. i wish it didn’t hurt the way it does. the pathetic part of me is still holding onto the hope that he’s the same person he once was but i’m starting to think i fell in love with my idea of him instead of the guy himself.

No. 1067404

i feel like i'm trying to become a worse person these days.

No. 1067448

>>1067404
same

I gave up on hope for other people’s behavior towards me a while back, and finally I’m lowering my standards for myself

No. 1067464

I have a scheduled therapy for today but how do I even go and talk about my pathetic problems when there's war on my doorstep? How to even deal with any individual feelings in the face of major historical events?

No. 1067537

> haven't peaked yet at this point
> my husband and I move in with a TiF and her gf
> TiF met my Nigel at a show his band was playing at
> she seemed nice enough and we were desperate for a room (both lost our jobs due to COVID)
> TiF follows my nigel like a sad puppy
> unbothered because she's a troon and my husband is, well, a total nigel
> tif and gf are always fighting
> seemingly hate each other while my husband and I are happy together
> nigel brings up his old goth phase pictures
> makeup, fishnets, etc
> "wow, you're really comfortable with your sexuality!"
> tif is a goth, while my husband and I are more into hardcore punk
> "nigel, you should wear makeup again!"
> I start to get annoyed with TiF at this point, it's clear she has a crush on my husband
> tif tries to show my nigel a picture of her half naked friend
> continues to do this in front of me until I tell her it makes both of us uncomfortable
> she goes off to my nigel about trans musicians and tra talking points
> troons have always kind of made him uneasy
> "nigel, I'm pretty sure you're pansexual. Have you ever been with a man?"
> "your best friend is gay! Is he a top or bottom?"
> "nigel I bought you fishnets"
> "nigel, you should put on a dress like rozz Williams!"
> husband quits hanging out near TiF and hides In our room
"Why don't you wear your fishnets?"
> invites nigel to gay strip club
> when he refuses invites him to regular strip club
> he refuses
> leaves yaoi out in living room on the table
> "nigel, I think anon is boring and doesn't let you be yourself"
> "she's transphobic"
> started getting into GC and radfem shit
> fucking peak
> nigel peaks too because I show him stuff and tif really creeps him out
> I relapse on heroin
> nigel supports me, asks if I need to go back to rehab, says he'll ask to borrow money from his mom for it
> nah, I'll go to detox and then get back on suboxone
> "you need to divorce anon! She's a piece-of-shit junkie. She won't let you date other people when you've never experimented before"
> nigel flips on her about everything, but especially about calling me a junkie and telling him to divorce me
> tif plays gay porn on tv while we're home
> while im at detox she tries to fucking kiss my husband and goes on about how t makes her horny
> nigel goes to a hotel while im in detox
> tif steals my klonopin and vraylar prescriptions when I come back
> nigel confronts her and she gives them back
> cries in front of me how her sweaty, acne ridden ass deserves my husband, because "he's clearly closeted"
> nigel tells me she tried to kiss him and groped him
> this time I flip and break her nose
> calls the cops despite "acab" tattoo
> we move the fuck out of this psycho fujos apartment during the night
> she cries to nigel and confesses her love to him
> she blows her clove smoke in my face and tells me "you're ungrateful cunt who will never love nigel like me!"
> never see that crazy bitch again

The fuck. She treated my husband like he was some gay animu that she could run away with. Also she was mean to our sweet, sweet dog. I probably shouldn't have broke her nose but I was so livid.

In all my years of going to cons, I never met a weeb that was literally psychotic like that. My nigel looks back on it and profusely apologizes for initially suggesting to move in with her. I dont blame him though, she had an empty room and we both thought it was a good idea. Kinda want to post a picture of her, but don't want anyone to recognize me.

No. 1067542

>>1067537
Kek wtf? This sounds so surreal, I didn't think people like that existed.

No. 1067555

>>1067537
They deserved their nose broken, Anon. I hope you’re at a better place and have a fulfilling life with your nigel!

No. 1067558

Fuck moids and especially Putin. I'm so upset and my heart truly aches for Ukrainians right now. No one fucking asked for this. Moids make this planet unbearable to live on. Everything is just a huge dick-measuring contest to them.

No. 1067591

>>1067537
She tried to show a naked picture to your husband and he didn't object until you stopped them? Wtf? She's so weird but your husband is either awkward or played into her game as well. You're the one who relapsed and broke the girl's nose because of all of thus but your husband didn't even try to move out or distance himself from her after all the times she hit on him in front of you. You both sound dysfunctional and I hope you and your husband don't hang around people like that anymore.

No. 1067594

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>>1067537
>> this time I flip and break her nose
I'm proud of you anon. The crazy fakeboi was straight up sexually harassing your husband, I'm shocked it lasted that long actually.

No. 1067675

>>1066635
Marital rape is illegal now, but scrotes still rape their partners just as much, now they just get off scots free claiming its kink. Hell men can murder their partners nowadays in cold blood and claim its kink gone wrong.

No. 1067701

I'm transitioning to a new project tomorrow, I'm super excited because everyone on my team was insufferable and the most toxic kind of people besides a select few. I've already said my goodbyes to my supervisors. Should I be a formal adult and send out a group wide email saying that I'll be leaving or should I just let it be and leave the group?

These people are fucking insufferable. They made me dread going to work.

No. 1067707

my hatred manifested war on an entire country

No. 1067709

>>1066587
bad life= bad mental health

No. 1067720

>>1067361
Nonnie I’m so sorry that happened to you. Moids make fucking terrible friends.

No. 1067722

Not really a vent but don't know where else to dump my ramble. I'm not on twitter, I only ever go to twitter when something is in the news and I want to check what people are saying real quick. Lately I've been going on to see whats happening with peter monn after the crash.

Years ago I was in a miserable live-in relationship and feeling trapped because of money worries and no family to fall back on. This guy had isolated me from everyone, moved me away with no income of my own and while he was controlling… he would barely speak to me at times. Acted like he hated me but was insistant on keeping me there, home with no friendships of my own. I was going crazy from just not having interaction. I found peters vlogging channel and I think one day when he was mentioning his deceased mom and tearing upover her.. I cried over my own mom and felt like I wasn't alone. My ex would berate me if I ever cried over my moms death. She was dead a few years already so in his mind the timer on how long I can be sad about it.. had passed. I never really watched peters drama or commentary type content but he shat out these consistant background noise vlogs every day and weirdly helped get me through that bad living situation with a hint of sanity left. My ex would often come home and hear peters voice in the background, call him and fag and start shitting on him every time lol. He hated him with a passion.

Anyway I got out of that situation and at some point unsubbed because I didn't need hours of vlogs to keep me company in my new life. I do get the parasocial relationship that alot of people have with him though. I get how he attracts it. But going on twitter lately for updates and seeing how much people insert themselves and demand answers from a guy in the fucking ICU is nutty to me. Whether they love him and are inserting themselves or whether they hate him and are inserting themselves.. you'd swear they know him first hand or that they're the family of the other victims. This is probably the norm on twitter but it's just weird given the seriousness of the situation. He gave an update listing a broken back, head injury, how he can't speak and all these other injuries and people are just demanding more interaction and answers as if it's owed and as if it's personal to them. The price you pay for being so open with yourself online. Lots of people mentioned similar stories of being alone too much during the day and using him for company but fuck me it gets unhealthy.

No. 1067743

please anons, honestly, how many of you have had no friends since high school? i literally just go to work and home home to play games and watch youtube. my
only social outlet is my long distance boyfriend that i call/message and he occasionally visits. i feel like i never got a hang of the social thing. i could only ever handle one friend at a time and all of the ones i’ve tried to make since age 18 have been very short lived and i was never able to connect. but part of me is happy with my solitary life of being alone, only having myself to worry about, drawing alone, watching shit and playing games. but i’m so fucking lonely and i just turned 23, i feel like i want to make memories, to smile and laugh with other people, have things to look back on. but all i have to look back on is my bedroom. i started smoking weed last year and it’s made me even more of a shut in. how do you even fix this? i don’t know where to go to meet people my age who are into the same things as me. and it’s not like i’m some socially inept cryptkeeper either, i’m a hairdresser and it’s a job that requires some semblance of social ability. does anyone live similarly and how do you keep from going insane?

No. 1067745

>>1067743
>please anons, honestly, how many of you have had no friends since high school?
Me except since elementary school and never had a bf either, and am 26.

No. 1067746

i'm uneducated about this situation but my heart goes out to you nonnas in eastern europe and russia. i'm worried about the many ways this situation could further degenerate.

No. 1067756

I wish the older women in my life would stop bringing up my last relationship casually as if it's something I can laugh about. It's not, I'm honestly a bit traumatized over it and I don't want to talk about it at all, let along unprompted, even in the context of "haha your ex was such a loser." They probably think I'm overreacting and that it wasn't that bad, especially compared to shit they put up with because they thought they had to and/or hated themselves. That's not my fault, I'm not the same as you, I'm sorry if you think I'm so weak and fragile and inexperienced for being so deeply hurt by what happened. I should be like you and smile and say it wasn't so bad. Let 1 or 2, maybe even 3 more guys treat me the same way and pretend it's fine because I'm a woman, and let it fester as mental illness later in my life. That's clearly the better option! Who cares that it wasn't that long ago, who cares if it's hard enough bringing it up to my therapist, who cares about how it's still affecting me, I just need to toughen up!

No. 1067763

>>1067756
Please tell them how uncomfortable it makes you. When you don't set boundaries, people walk all over you. Im sure they'd be super mad if you mocked their relationships but they do it to you because you don't react as harshly. I know because I'm like this too, people walk all over you when you dont shut them down when you first do this.

No. 1067764

>>1067743
Stop smoking weed, the friends you make that have that in common are more likely to be losers, there are some chill stoners/casual smokers out there but they're rare. Plus if you stop smoking later you'll realize that the dumb stoner friends you made are pretty unbearable to be around if you're sober. Anyways, just having somewhere to be is enough to make friends. Do you have coworkers you can talk with? Do you like animals? You could volunteer at a shelter or something. Do you like reading? Sometimes libraries have events. What about exercising? You could join a gym, I'm shy as fuck but I'm starting to recognize and be friendly with the people I frequently see attending classes there. That reminds me, maybe take a class at a community college, school is an easier way to make friends. Preferably a topic you're interested in, like art or whatever. It's hard for me too and I honestly mostly stick to my online friends, luckily I've met a few that live near me so I can occasionally meet my monthly friendship quota. Hope this helps a bit anyway

No. 1067771

>>1067763
One of the women is my mother who will unfortunately bring it up more if I let her know it bothers me so much (either as a way to "toughen me up" or to use when she wants to hurt me). The other is my neighbor who probably doesn't mean anything by it, I'll tell her next time it comes up. Or maybe beforehand would be better, when it's mentioned I kind of freeze up and go silent until the topic changes.

No. 1067778

>>1067771
You should tell the neighbor before she brings it up herself, yeah. As for your mother, this isn't healthy maybe but bring up something that makes her uncomfortable when she does this to you and tell her that's how you feel. Whenever she's petty, be petty too. Not too cruel and definitely not something other people could understand is offensive but just little stuff that's going to annoy or make her uncomfortable.

No. 1067779

My guy is so fucking immature he barely texts me anymore because he asked me to shave my legs and I told him no. Do you still think girls don't fart? Do you think I think your airplane obsession and gross hair is sexy? Do I ask you to put on self tanner? Or shave your stubbly beard? I don't ask you to remove your nasolabial folds (I'm serious, his are huge) so don't ask me to shave you retarded pornsick loser. This man is 20 years old.

No. 1067785

>>1067743
Me except this is how I’ve chosen to live
Social interaction is always uncomfortable to me

No. 1067786

THIS FUCKING SCAB IS GOING TO MAKE ME KILL MYSELF. I KEEP KNOCKING MY KNUCKLES AGAINST SHIT AND IT BUMPS THIS FUCKING SCAB AND KEEPS IT FROM HEALING AND IT'S FUCKING PAINFUL. I have to rip this shit off. The pain from picking it off cannot me more than the pain of constantly bumping it into shit. I hate this so much. Why is some little scab so fucking painful anyway. This scab is going to make me have a joker moment ISTG. Every time I bump it I get angry and my mood is ruined.

No. 1067791

>>1066972
Hit the nail on the head
>>1067043
Ive been trying to distance myself from them slowly over time. Like i said they have BPD and I don't want to make life harder for myself than it needs to be. I don't need world war 3 in my own life due to their black and white thinking lol. They aren't rational people.

No. 1067795

>>1067779
I'm so glad that my boyfriend actually loves my hairy self. I only shave my armpit and my legs a few times during the summer.
Do not ever shave for a man anon and never be ashamed of it.

No. 1067796

I like my name, always have always will. I’m still annoyed that it’s a popular troon name though.

No. 1067797

>>1067779
why are you still with him when he treats you in such a way

No. 1067802

>>1067795
I'll never shave for a guy, ever! I really like my body hair and shaving is a retarded concept to begin with. So happy for you though your boyfriend sounds like a sweetheart

>>1067797
He's not a bad guy in real life he just lives far away right now and we can only text. It's not that serious anyway, I just like talking bullshit with him and cuddling and whatnot. He just thinks it's unattractive and I told him 'that's your call, I don't care' or something and ever since he's distant lol. I never thought he was my true love but I didn't expect this from him. He always tells me to be more confident in myself so this is so weird. I guess he's just like all the other moids.

No. 1067803

I hate BPD bitches so much just get your own godamn personality

No. 1067805

>>1067743
I'm the same, but I've come to think that it's better for me to be alone, I don't want to make anyone feel bad because of me or something I did ever again, so I just don't seek out friendships anymore. It's sometimes unbearably lonely and I wish there was someone I could share my thoughts with, but the feeling goes away quickly. I'm an artist and can sometimes talk to people commenting on my posts and that is enough, even if it's just a short exchange. I know I'll never be important to anyone and I can't force it anyway.
If you like drawing maybe you can look into art courses in your area? They are sometimes grouped by ages, so you won't end up in a room full of old ladies in their retirement painting animals and flowers to gift their families (but talking to them could also be pleasant). I did a course like that and met some fun people that I could hang out with outside of it while I was in that city. You can also look into different creative activities like pottery or similar if you can spare the money. Creative fields attract outgoing people and also the nerdy types, maybe you'll find someone to befriend! Wishing you the best of luck, I hope you can find someone to connect with!

No. 1067806

>>1067779
So hes only 20.

No. 1067808

>>1067802
Long distance relationships don't work out. Find someone new before he does, and probably already did if he's texting less often, it's not because of you or your leghair but because of the distance.

No. 1067810

Im so tired of my boyfriend acting like he has a permanent stick shove up his ass, lately i just loathe unnecessary and petty confrontation.

No. 1067811

>>1067806
She's probably 20 too. Should she date 40 yos? Bodyhair expectations were even steicter back than and older men are more misogynistic so it's probably better dating younger guys.

No. 1067813

>>1067802
>He always tells me to be more confident in myself so this is so weird.
guys want you to be confident because they think that's sexy but you've got to be sexy within the box of their preference. Sucks to be him tho kek good for you for standing up for yourself. He can go shave his own legs.

No. 1067816

>>1067813
I don't know why but this made my day lol. Thanks nonna. I told him at the time 'you have leg hair too' he said 'thats different' and when I said 'how?' he just laughed.

>>1067808
He's a giant nerd I hate to say this about him but I really don't see any other girls looking through his tism.

No. 1067820

I cannot take it anymore. Someone is making money copying my entire personality and interests, while my entire life I have had to hide who I really am.

Why does it seem like some people have this immunity and they can say or do whatever they want and they never get socially shunned while others even when they try to please othrrs are hated and demonized.

No. 1067822

the war is not really happening media outlets are blowing it out of proportion to make money off it

No. 1067836

>>1067822
Absolutely. Russia isn't that powerful, their army is full of barely trained kids. And Putin isn't retarded, he knows this.

No. 1067840

>>1067822
I literally only check lolcow for WW3 updates and I like this one. Thank you

No. 1067904

I'm getting really sick and tired of a good friend of mine. She has a crush on her colleague, slept with him a couple of times and is now upset that he only wants to be friends with benefits even though everyone around her warned her. She kept asking us for advice for months and now genuinely doesn't see why we're all sick of her shit.

I told her today to just cut it off instead of dragging it out for months because she's in love but he isn't and all of us are sick of it and she was like "so..are you trying to tell me that dragging you guys along is… supposed to be a bad thing?" UHM YES HELLO??? Don't ask for advice and then complain because things don't go your way! Boo hoo she really thinks her world is ending because a scrote doesn't like her back. My thoughts are with all Ukrainian nonnies today but she thinks she's the one whose world is falling apart. Nah, I'm out.

No. 1067908

I'm in unberable physical pain that I cannot fix due to lack of capital. I need to get surgery on my jaw. Someone is making money off copying my personality and my mental illness and physical ilneses are incapacitating me. It's absolutely impossible for me to move to another country or get a normal job. Some insane grifter BPD is larping as me and copying my entire personality she says and does horrible things but nobody holds her responsible for her actions. My entire life I have walked on shells around people trying to please them and everytime I stand up for myself they start hating me and using me as a scapegoat. In such unfair society murder is absolutely justified. The suffering that has been placed upon me is not my fault and I never did anything wrong. The world is inherently unethical so in an inherently unethical world murder is only justifiable.

I do not want to die but I am living in such pain I cannot continue my life anymore. I was so full of hope but my life is just unberable and I have absolutely nothing. I never had even basic needs assured like food. I always had to struggle to live to fight and I was always punished and judged for things others are loved for.

I am in such extreme pain that I take 4 benzos and 5 pain killers daily. I dont have 4k to fix my jaw and never will and someone is LARPING as me and copying my entire personality.

On 21 May, my birthday I will commit a series of atrocious murders and publish my manifesto and in my manifesto I will mention lolcow because people on here have urged me to kill myself knowing I was in such bad position. I want to bring in as much suffering as possible. I Don't have guns in ny country but I am curious if it's possible to get a hold of them. I don't think I can do much damage with just a knife.

I never wanted to be raped, bullied, neglected, live in extreme utter poverty. I never wanted any of that and guess what. After I will commit murder and publish my manifesto and my murders will mainly be commited by me being unable to make enough money to fix my medical issues which make my life unberable. 1000 of Youtuber commentator grifters will make content about me bringing in recognition to theirselves and money. Making money off my tragedy and people won't see anything wrong with it. People will see something wrong with me snappig after a life of extreme abuse and pain but they won't see anything wrong with an individual making money off using such grim stories. They will think it is "work" it is "content". Now I could absolutely pull myself out of poverty making such YouTube content but I refuse to.

People will make fun of me and call me a beggar for asking for money on Twitch but yet millions of "content creators" aren't begging for money and are working???? You call that work??? That is work??? Sitting on a chair and using the tragedies of others for your own gain??

This world is fucked and my entire life I have been persecuted for things I haven't done. My entire life I have been used. My entire life I have had nothing. I have been giving the worst of the worst and I have put in the most effort. I have kept my morals and my integrity.

I want to commit murder because I do not want to die, but my life is forcing me to commit suicide. I was also innocent. Others are also innocent. But I was also innocent and society only hurt me. Why shouldn't I hurt others?(girl calm down)

No. 1067915

my parents have done such unspeakable things to me I am 22 and my father sexually molests me in my sleep and I cannot move out or get a job. I live in Romania. I am also literally unable to work. I have been daydreaming of commiting murder and killing.myself for almost one year now and I cannot turn back now. My life is completely unberable. My efforts are in vain. My skills are for nothing my knowledge brings me nothing. Others with less knowledge and empathy make money I cannot make money and why can't my life improve? Because I cannot make moneh. My entire life I have been taken for a fool and taken advantage of in absolutely all situations.

I want to murder. I want to commit murder. I want to bring misery and pain to others lives just like they have brought to.mine

No. 1067919

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She's back

No. 1067920

>>1067908
Why don't you use your own personality to make money by streaming if that's such a profitable thing? Most popular streamers are evil or mentally ill too, so that wouldn't stop you from having success.

>I take 4 benzos and 5 pain killers daily

Did you get addicted to benzos again? What are you taking?

No. 1067925

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No. 1067929

>>1067908
How exactly does someone make money “copying” your personality?

No. 1067930

>>1067915
> my father sexually molests me in my sleep
What the fuck.

No. 1067938

>>1067920
because I am not evil or mentally ill and I refuse to do those things. I cannot use the suffering of other people for my "content". Do you understand? I cannot make a 3 million views Youtube video talking about Venus Angelic or a mass murderer because that does not allign with my values but the normal world is so evil. THE WORLD IS EVIL EVIL EVIL THAT IN SUCH WORLD FROM A PHILOSOPHICAL AND RATIONAL PERSPECTIVE YOU CAN ABSOLUTELY RATIONALIZE MURDER WHEN THE AVERAGE MEMBER OF SOCIETY COMMITS SUCH HORRIBLE ACTS YET THOSE ACTS ARE SEEN AS NORMAL. MOST PEOPLE ARE USING OTHERS AND MANIPULATING OTHERS TO CLIMB TO THE TOP, I CANNOT DO IT. I JUST NEED MONEY TO FIX MY FUCKING JAW AND NOT LIVE IN UNBERABLE PAIN. I DONT CARE ABOUT FAME I WAS HOMELESS BEFORE I COULD BE HOMELESS I JUST DONT WANT TO BE IN PAIN ANYMORE. I am not evil, I am the opposite of evil but the world is so evil it has turned me into the biggest evil. THIS WORLD IS COMPLETELYY LACKING SENSE AND KILLING SOMEONE IS GOOD YOU ARE LIBERATING THIS WORLD OF MISERY WHEN WE KILL WE AS A SPECIES SHOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED THE HUMAN SPECIES WAS A MISTAKE. WE ARE THE MOST IMMORAL AND UNETHICAL ANIMAL ON PLANET EARTH. WE ARE MORE UNETHICAL AND IMMORAL THAN ANY OTHER ANIMAL WE HAVE SELF AWARENESS YET WE WILLINGLY CHOOSE TO HURT OTHERS OR USE THEM FOR OUR OWN GAIN. HUMANS STEP ON OTHER HUMANS TO CLIMB TO THE TOP. I refuse. I'd rather murder than grift. I want to commit murder for all that which has been done to me and then millions of grifters will discuss my acts pretending to be moral when they are just amused at me. People will laugh at my laugh and at my suffering while pretending to be digusted at my murders. Humans are fake, evil, immoral inherently bad. HUmans should be nuked.(relax)

No. 1067939

some of my friends who i game with are ukrainian and i haven't heard from many of them in 24 hours and i'm so fucking scared

No. 1067944

>>1067908
>>1067915
just do it already, why wait

No. 1067951

>>1067908
Isn't that "copycat" you're obsessed with ukranian?

No. 1067952

what is normal is evil the normal world is evil and mentally ill all people are mentally ill monsters and people have even brought me to this place it is only people everyone that has ever approached me has brought me to this place. Nobody has ever helped me. I have went through it all abuse, neglect, poverty, bullying, being taken advantage of, having my work stolen, having my thoughts stolen, being accused of things I haven't done. Only people have brought me here. Nobody helps you if your life is fucked and exactly because your life is fucked they see a victim in you and when people see a victim their first thought is not " I could help them" their first thought is " I can use them for my own gain, they are weak and in a bad situation, I can use them to amuse myself, please myself or make money off them" we live in an inherently evil world. HUmans are evil yet they parade around like they have morals humans are so fucking fake(ban evasion)

No. 1067956

>>1067938
paki-chan going strong, huh?

No. 1067962

>>1067956
That's romania chan.

No. 1067967

>>1067951
Oh crap, she said she cursed everyone who hurt her, and now Ukrainian cities are hit by missiles and bombs and Russian tanks are crawling across their streets.

No. 1067968

>>1067962
Does romanianon usually threaten murder like this? I feel like this psychosis has to be part trauma and part benzo/painkiller induced

No. 1067971

>>1067939
I heard about internet outages, and there's hardly any Ukrainian dead civilians, so it's extremely unlikely that your friends are injured or dead. They're probably just offline or on the move.

No. 1067973

i'm scared. so much is happening.

No. 1067974

>>1067968
yes,at least 4 times already, all with threatening to mention lolcow in her manifesto.

No. 1067975

>>1067968
I feel like it's definitely the meds that evoke this kind of behavior. I do feel for her though, hope for the best.

No. 1067977

>>1067971
thank you, that's very reassuring. i hope that's it

No. 1067980

>>1067968
>>1067974
don't forget she also threatened to kill her cat

No. 1067981

>>1067968
When her e-boyfriend that everyone told her sound like a dark triad incel turned out to be a dark triad incel and posted her doxx on lolcow, she had a mental breakdown and spent a couple weeks alternating between traumadumping and threatening to murder people.

>>1067974
Oh, I've only ben lurking these threads since autumn, I missed quite a bit.

>>1067975
To me it feels more like a mental breakdown brought on by something, she was way more normal for a while (by her standards). I hadn't heard about her dad molesting her before, maybe something bad happened.

No. 1067985

>>1067967
please don't encourage her psychosis nonna..

No. 1067987

>>1067968
i actually feel bad for romania anon and if she became a streamer or something i'd watch

No. 1067996

>>1067987
I feel bad for her too, and I even relate to her experiences, though mine weren't as bad and I'm not in a bad place now (ie not Romania), but she can be frustrating.

No. 1067998

>>1067981
An anon asked if she became addicted to benzodiazapines and painkillers again. Benzos can induce brief psychotic episodes. I don't want to armchair too hard, but this feels like maybe she did get hooked again (maybe she stopped for a while but couldn't because of addiction and the benzos fucked with her, I typically ignore her but this is concerning so IDK the lore). That's my theory but I wish she could find out how to immigrate to the U.S. or Canada or something because she sounds like she'll never get better as long as she stays in Romania based on her rants.

No. 1068006

>>1067998
She said she was too mentally ill to work, and I believe her. If even half the things she says about her past are true she would get railroaded into permanent disability in the West.

Then again she maybe finished a university degree? I'd appreciate if a loremaster could fill me in on whether she dropped out or finished with a bachelor or what.

No. 1068018

>>1067962
fuck you are right, I meant romani anon in my jumbled brain

No. 1068020

>>1067938
with all this vigorous energy you could figure out how go into russia and find a way to assassinate putin romachan, use your powers for good

No. 1068029

>>1067779
>his airplane obsession
When a textbook autistic guy is trying to pressure you to shave your legs kek.. I've seen how this usually plays out for these guys. He's only 20 right now so likely doesn't know that by 30 he'll be begging for the affection of even a yeti. Autist males don't age well, mentally or otherwise.

No. 1068032

Can all of the underage newfags fuck off to wherever they came from please? You fit in much better there where they have tone indicators and jokes are frowned upon because everything must be a super serious and supportive conversation. Your literal autism is ruining the fun.

No. 1068033

I'm growing increasingly jealous of my friend being a streamer (only streams once a month basically) who gets a lot money for just sitting on her ass making commentary with her insufferable personality. Everywhere I see "wow being a pretty woman is life on easy mode!" Sure wish I had that! I'm annoyed with myself because I want to be happy for her since she didn't grow up in the best environment and it's great that she can make a living without resorting to selling herself on OF or something but god damn these bitter feelings just won't go away. It's not like my life is particularly awful either! But just something about a person being showered with money and adoration for doing essentially nothing really gets under my skin. I want that so badly..

No. 1068063

I’m very scared but I have accepted I’m going to die soon, I’m very scared of death and what’s gonna happen but my life is ruined and it’s to the point where everyone would be happier without me. I know everyone says that but if you knew my situation you’d agree I should just die

No. 1068073


No. 1068080

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>>1067537
>"nigel, you should put on a dress like rozz Williams!"
Well at least she had good taste in men

No. 1068083

>>1068063
no you shouldn't die the entire world should die but you

No. 1068086

>>1067802
if it's not a serious then have fun and see if you can bully him into letting you wax his leg hair off kek.

No. 1068088

>>1068063
If you can picture yourself being gone from your current world, why not just move far away and start a new life? Your body doesn’t need to die because your relationships have gone south. Zone out/live on autopilot for a while until you can save up if need be.

No. 1068092

>>1068063
do you seriously believe the people in your life would be better off without you? they may be angry, disappointed, or hate you now. but the impact and pain suicide causes is immense. and if it's truly the case they hate you and nothing will change that, then you don't need their approval and can move on and live for yourself.

No. 1068093

>>1068063
What is your situation then?

No. 1068097

>>1068092
this. Reality is you as one individual person hardly have any impact on the lives of the people around you and your passing won't change much besides added anger and griefing.

No. 1068104

>>1068006
I finished my bachelor's in Philosophy. My dream was to get a PhD, but I just couldn't go through with it due to environmental pressures and lack of money and I realized those I was competing against had better upringing than mine.

The world is fucked by politics. There is war in the middle east for 20 years because Americans go in the middle east with their military and cause war. America has been causing war forever

No. 1068106

>>1068097
I'm not encouraging anon but everyone has the right to live or die, you aren't a property of those people after all

No. 1068112

>>1068106
I didn't imply such thing whatsoever? I'm just saying killing yourself because other people are better off without you is a bad reason because they're more or less unaffected by your excistence.

No. 1068155

my little brother is in germany or poland (hes not "allowed" to tell us which) and i cannot stop freaking out and crying. i hate all governments and i hate putin and biden for even putting him and countless others in peril. i hope to god he does not get sent to ukraine. idk how im gonna hold it togeyther with this being all anyone is talking about irl

No. 1068169

Uuuggghhh, I hate how small of a country I live in. Last week I found out a coworker knows my ex and that relationship was a toxic hot mess and how he knows my ex is through drugs. Then today I found out even some of the higher ups have been taking shit on nights out in front of employees and then this dude who was leering at me uncomfortably is another coke head and on one night his wife showed up because he was a mess and she had his bags packed but they worked it out I guess, but in the lunch room today he was creeping on a new start. Drilling her with questions about her relationship status. I hate how open people are with coke now. I'm a hypocrite since I smoke weed, but in my experience, coke can make someone aggressive and too much energy to follow through on it. It's a lot more effort to even start an argument on weed. And weed doesn't have a horrible come down. I'm super annoyed because I had a crush on one of the guys and I'm not dating someone that takes cocaine. There's too many fucking risks and in a party environment they cannot be trusted to be faithful. I hate it.

No. 1068201

>>1068169
I hate cokeheads too nonny and I don’t think you’re a hypocrite bc you smoke weed. Totally different. My cokehead ex ruined my life bc of financially instability and stealing from me and my family and our friends. Spending money on cocaine instead of dog food, getting our power shut off because he stole utilities money, etc. He’s a fucking asshole but like the coke amplified that x100000

No. 1068239

>>1068201
Thank god another similar minded person. I hate that drug. Its so expensive and they go through it so fast and get angry and then start begging for handouts and becoming super irrational. My ex ended up owing a lot to local paramilitaries and they started using his house for gatherings. It felt extremely unsafe and I never want to be associated with any of it, I hate that there's a guy now I have to be pleasant too that was involved in that stuff. When we first saw each other we froze it's so awkward.

No. 1068271

I always get so disappointed when I think I find a nice guy yet he turns out to be someone I don't want to be with. Was messaging someone who I thought was extremely polite and respectful, after a few days we call and he ends up swearing a lot and making inappropriate jokes. He seemed to match everything I was looking for and he acted like I was his dream girl or whatever, yet he can't even talk to me with some common decency?
Even my exes who seemed so kind at first, would eventually subtly disrespect me and ignore things I needed them to address. When I eventually break up with them, they don't even try to fix things, they just give up completely. It doesn't feel like I'll ever find someone who will have a strong love and appreciation for me. I love myself so much and that's why it makes me mad, I know I deserve better.

No. 1068363

I'm going to a con in a few months and I'm excited for my weeby little vacation with friends but ugh my friend keeps trying to get me to do a cosplay with her but I quit cosplaying and I don't want to do it. It's an easy closet cosplay but just going over what I'd need to get, the cost racks up and then I'll be let with a bunch of clothes that I don't want and won't wear normally. I also have to get a wig and a necktie too, when am I ever going to use those again! It's a small cost but even thinking about the photos (because my friend is a photographer) fills me with dread. I hate photos and I am perfectly fine and happy not having photos taken of me. I have nothing against cosplay but it is not the hobby for me anymore.

No. 1068378

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Some man I met from tinder tried to fuck my mom…i think. I met a guy on tinder for a hookup. We had sex, he didn't enjoy the sex clearly and he stopped and left which was fine by me, we were respectful. I blocked him on snapchat, unmatched him and deleted his number. A week later on valentines night he texted me to ask if I wanna hook up again, I was like sure! This time we were chilling in the living room and my mom was there…after hours of drinking and chatting with my mom, my mom gave him her number because he says he does lawn work. We go to my bed room and I tell him I'm not really interested in fucking him and he leaves. After that I get a good night text from him wanting to confirm my mom's number. I confirmed it was hers and he didn't reply. After the meet I honestly was never going to talk to him again. Over the next few days he's texting my mom everyday and it's weird because it's a guy on tinder who I don't even know well yet. Of course my bpd rage came out when I discovered he's texting her behind my back and sent I'm a lengthy text explaining to him why it's fucked up. Of course he claims he just wants to be friends with my mom and I'm crazy/jealous. Idk if I'm overreacting because of my bpd or if I'm justified. Some texts included.

No. 1068381

>>1068271
>When I eventually break up with them, they don't even try to fix things, they just give up completely.
Same here nona. So tired. It would be one thing if I could at least say we both tried our best to grow together, but that's never the case. Always me eagerly putting forth 95% of the effort and the guy acting like his 5% is akin to the weight of the world. I wish men just wouldn't bother when they don't have any desire to make another person happy, they expect everything served to them on a golden platter without offering anything except stress in return.

No. 1068383

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>>1068378
More of the texts.

No. 1068393

>>1068378
Don't introduce random men to your mother if she's this gullible anon. Tinder men are a different kind and I know quite a few that specifically go for "milfs" so it's not shocking but you should be wary. Block his number on your moms phone for her and your well-being.

No. 1068397

>>1068383
hes asking ur mom if she wants to link? hes trying to fuck her. what a weirdo

No. 1068404

>>1068378
LMFAOOOOOOOO

jfc I'm so glad I don't fuck random disgusting men from tinder, what are you doing

No. 1068415

>>1068404
>what are you doing?
Making poor life decisions
>>1068393
He's been blocked plus I went bpd on him. He's not coming back. I didn't want to fuck him so he tried to move on to my mom
>>1068397
He said he sees her as a mom lol

No. 1068418

>>1068415
Don't sweat it. Like I said most tinder dudes are into older women because of their own mommy issues and how they think they'll treat them better and be looser with sexual stuff.

No. 1068423

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>>1068418
He basically denied the whole thing when called out on it

No. 1068429

>>1068381
Seriously. Not to mention I specifically seek out men who seem caring and giving, but it's always some subtle lovebombing shit and in a few months in when I'm love they show their true selves, dismissive and uncaring. I know it's also partially my fault because I should know better, but I feel so bad dumping anyone at the first sign of a problem.

No. 1068431

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>>1068423
This is the text he sent my mom when I called him out

No. 1068432

>>1068423
kek i'm pissing myself what a weird guy, not even owning up to it and going >I FUCKED AN ONLYFAN MODEL as if half of them weren't disgusting fatties desesperate for male validation and money, i'm dead

No. 1068439

>>1068431
come on bpd pussy, ruin his life

No. 1068442

>>1068423
>fucked an only fans model
Everyone and their mom is an only fans model my guy kekkk

No. 1068452

I'm so tired and want to go to bed but my next door neighbor has people over and they're so damn loud ugh why it's thursday night shut up

No. 1068454

Whoever decided that showers should have tiled walls really hates women

No. 1068464

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>>1068442
My last text message post about this. Then he claims he just likes hangout out with my mom. I thought I was just being crazy for a minute.

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>>1068454
>????

Whoever decided to have shower walls like this is a psycho who will bash your head into it

No. 1068481

>>1068464
Is your mom young/he's around her age or something? That shit's fucking weird and honestly I'd find a "yes I'm trying to fuck your mom" a more reasonable answer than "noooooooo I'm just trying to hang out with her!" What the fuck could they possibly have in common?

No. 1068486

>>1068481
He's 25 and she's 50 lmao

No. 1068499

anon who posted then deleted their AFRID and shitty family story; i'm so sorry to hear that. people are cruel and selfish. none of what happened is your fault. your parents sound like dickweeds. i hope you can find something to keep on going for.

No. 1068503

>>1068486
Disgusting

No. 1068518

>>1068503
I think that's why he wanted to play it off like "I see her as a mom" and even that is weird because I just met you.

No. 1068536

>>1068454
I don't follow

No. 1068583

>>1068536
Have you ever tried to clean in between those bitches? The entire walls? The fucking grout man! And the nasty ass caulk!

No. 1068599

>>1068423
you’re more mature than me because i would’ve immediately replied “kill yourself”

No. 1068612

I don't feel welcomed or understood in (large) female communities. I can't stop but thinking that they dislike me, and talk about how stupid I am behind my back. I always feel as I'm about to be banned if I happen to make 1 mistake. I don't understand if some behaviours are harmless fun, or indirect attempts to mock me or try to unnerve me, so that I have a negative reaction, in order to use it as a pretext to ban me.
I don't have this problem in large mixed gender groups, or small groups of female friends.
But in female only groups, such as lolita communities, I often feel brushed aside, or considered like an annoying tard. I'm considering quitting going to meets altogether, aswell as leaving some women only discords. I don't even bother with male dominated communities, because they're 10 times worse, but honestly I don't understand why I feel like this. Large groups should be more chill when you don't have the threat of sexual harassment and scrote entitlement ruining everything. Is there something inherently toxic gender-only groups or it's just me being socially impaired ?

No. 1068623

I'm so used to not going to the doctor because I didn't have enough money and now that I have plenty of money I still don't go to the doctor because I feel like taking care of my personal health is a waste of money. My husband got upset with me yesterday because I still haven't made an appointment with a doctor to check on a serious health issue I have, because he sees me in pain every day and doesn't understand why I keep putting it off. Why can't I make my stupid brain care about my personal health now that money is not an issue? I'm such a dumbass and I'm probably still not going to make a doctor's appointment.

No. 1068636

I don't normally write youtube comments but today I wrote a rude one and the OP replied to politely I feel so bad I'm never doing that again

No. 1068660

>>1068464
Anon, is this guy kind of fat with short dark hair and stubbly facial hair? Did he have armpit sweat? I really want to know

No. 1068663

>>1068499
Thank you I felt a lot better after writing it out.

No. 1068681

>>1068612
Hey anon, you're not alone in those feelings, plenty of us feel the same (though to a lesser extent for many) and never voice it to eachother.
also maybe small comfort but people are often wondering if you're judging them when you walk into a room, and worried about what you think of them more than they would ever think about you.
You sound like you could be any of the sweet people I've met on discord or cc or lc, and while I can't know if we're in any the same servers, I'd be sad to know someone left because they felt unwelcome or unliked. Not on my watch! I hope you find the courage to tell a few people how you feel. Some idiots might judge you for it, but you will find many more women who care and would want you to feel welcome in any space you're already in

No. 1068695

>>1068681
>>1068681
Thank you nonna. This is why I enjoy this small server dedicated to posting cats.
I'm glad I'm not the only one, I feel less stupid now.

No. 1068699

>>1068612
You're not alone, anon. I feel this way too, sometimes, but I think it's usually all in my head. I spent a lot of time in scrote infested servers when I was younger and I think it kind of rotted my brain. It's much easier to tell how men feel about you than with women, especially when you are even just slightly above average in looks.

No. 1068703

>>1068695
Love you anon, do whatever makes you happiest and remember the quiet nonnies that would notice and miss your absence without ever having the courage to tell you

No. 1068730

i befriended four girls from the English department of my university in my 2nd semester and they're all theys now, 2 years later. one is a she/they, the other two are they/them but use female pronouns in German. the fourth one is still a she/her but since she's rooming with the she/they and one of the they/thems i don't doubt that she'll be a she/they soon. it sucks.

No. 1068760

>>1068612
It sounds NLOG to say but the larger female-only groups get, the more likely you are to encounter the “queen bee” types who enjoy conflict and being bullies and alienating others for the hell of it. Sororities are a good example. Not everyone in the group is like that; in fact 80% of the women in the group are also victim to it. You can try masking to fit in with the popular kids or you can just carve out your own niche. You’re an adult and who the hell has time or patience for bitter high school drama? If you’re feeling it I’m sure other people are too; just find those people and make friends with them.

No. 1068775

>>1068612
I feel the same way and when someone brings up internalized misogyny or NLOG they seem to miss the point. I know for me these feelings are based on childhood problems that I never got over.

No. 1068781

Sorry for delete + repost

Two years ago my family and I found out that my piece of shit faggot father preyed one of my friends when Friend was 11 or 12 years old. When we confronted my dad, lots of words were traded back and forth but the last thing he said to me was "I've always hated you, anon." He repeated it again to make sure I could hear.
I feel like I've been rejected by my mom too, like she also thinks I'm inherently annoying and stupid. When my parents split, I pretty much lost my mom to alcohol abuse. My dad promptly left the country, presumably to prey on young men in a new country (in hindsight). He was a fucking bus driver in the states before that. Disgusting pedo piece of shit. Imagine having the gall to be a pedophile but still shit on your daughter for not being an upstanding human being. The only time he showed interest in me was when he could use me to be around boys. My siblings bullied me really badly when I was a little girl.
Now I find it extremely difficult to interact with anyone at all because I hate myself so much.
I'm so sad and angry. I feel like one day I'm going to kms because my whole life has been a waste. Every time I speak to my mom I can tell she thinks I'm an idiot and doesn't care about what I have to say. We were besties when I was younger though. My dad is disgusted by women and emotions and I could feel it from a young age. I wish I had a loving father and I wish I had grown up around my aunts and uncles and cousins. I feel so rejected and alone. Every time I open my mouth I wish I had just stayed quiet. Things like grocery shopping are more difficult than they should be because my mind goes into overdrive imagining exactly how all the strangers around me rightfully dislike me. Somehow I've found and miraculously managed to keep a really kind a supportive boyfriend for years but I feel like it's not fair to him not to have a functioning adult partner. My life has been on hold for 15 years because I found a way to isolate myself completely and avoid every adult responsibility. No one cared enough to guide me in my adolescence when I started to drop all my friends and stopped going to school. Now I'm an empty husk of a woman with very little life experience. I tried meeting up with friends I knew from online recently and I could barely make it 24h before I dipped because I just couldn't stand myself. I ended up going home while they finished out the trip together. There is no structure to my life. I really just want to grow out of this stupid immature need for my mommy and daddy to tell me nice things (I will never speak to my dad or see him again though). If someone else had my life and healthy body I bet they would do a better job at taking advantage of all the things I've been blessed with but I have shitted it all away being sad. I can't believe others go through much more difficult hardships and continue on to live normal lives.
I'm sure I'll feel better in a little bit but I just got done texting with my mom and it made me feel really bad. I'm concerned about my teenaged niece because her dad has restricted her phone for over 6 months because he went through her phone and saw that she was venting about him to her friends and he found out she is demisexual (or something) and now she can't speak to her family. He owns guns and when my niece is of legal age, my sister plans to move out of state with my niece (they have been divorced for years). We all know how small-dicked, insecure, gun owning men like to own their daughters and wives. As I told my mom this, all she had to say was two word sentences with periods at the end. Okay, fuck me then.
I wish I could get angry instead of feeling like a sad sack of shit all the time. Fuck

No. 1068809

>>1068660
Yes to ecerytyuhg except arm pit sweat. Chubby aran boy.

No. 1068810

>>1068809
Everything

No. 1068822

tried to start a fun hobby club and then one of the members invited three fucking genderspecials without asking me first. One is literally pregnant with her 2nd kid and they/themming, I hate

No. 1068824

>>1068730
we can only hope that one day they come to their senses and detroon

No. 1068847

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>>1068781
Samefag but I'm afraid that the time I've allowed myself to heal away from my mom (I purposefully avoid visiting her for the past year or so because every time I do I get upset by something she does or doesn't say) is time wasted and that one day when she dies I'll regret needing so much space and time away from her.

No. 1068848

>>1068822
I'd be so mad. How many are you in total?

No. 1068898

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>>1068848

10 now.
It was supposed to be a cozy group of 4.

No. 1068900

>>1068848
>>1068898
samefag, i'm gonna try it and see how it goes but i might end up abandonning my own club

No. 1068918

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if i kill myself, then i'm basically proving them all right. i'm admitting that i really am a mentally ill retard who couldn't, wouldn't amount to anything – but if i'm alive, i still have a chance.

i graduate from university next year, in the spring. i am running out of time to learn the things i need to learn to be prepared for the workplace. i wasted so much time on self-hatred, but no longer. i hope no longer. i really do.

so it's pettiness that's keeping me alive at this point. if i die it will be because some outside force took me out – an incurable disease or some shit. but i won't kill myself. i won't. i want to die! but i don't, not before my time.

No. 1068936

Slack on my neck, her rope. When I close my eyes I see hers, and in her absence I burn.

I have to be awake in 5 hours

No. 1068940

>TFW you're excited to share something with someone, and then you look around and realize you have no friends

No. 1068942

>>1068940
You’re my fren now. Whatever you were excited about, I’m excited about. Woohoo!

No. 1068955

>>1068612
>trying to fit in the lolita community
Of course you'd feel like that when interacting with one of the most obnoxious and hostile communities out there

No. 1068970

I told you doing that would just make things worse, you told me you didn't care but look at how things are now. I was right. Grrrrr
I told you this would happen and it did!! Yet you still won't listen!

No. 1068979

wtf what's the point of closing the male behavior thread this late in but not moving it

No. 1068983

My grandpa’s dying. The costing of living is skyrocketing. Six million people have died since the start of the pandemic. There’s war in Europe for the first time this century. I haven’t had a normal, fun, happy day in nearly six years. If I knew everything was gonna fall to pieces after 15 I would’ve been a fucking hellion.

No. 1068985

>>1068918
I’m proud of you anon! FWIW I was a suicidal depressed piece of shit first three years of college, got kicked out for trying to kms, came back after a year and with your same frame of mind and got my shit together and graduated. Now I make double the salary of anyone who said I wouldn’t make it, including my professors lol. You can do it!

No. 1068995

>>1068760
Nta but this is a good reply

No. 1069006

>>1068623
Book the appointment on behalf of all poorfags who can't! I vote for one of those private clinics with a fountain, one that gives strawberries while you wait. Really see you that get the best anon, if you have never seen the difference between rich person health care and poor person healthcare - it's worth getting your health looked after just once for that experience alone

No. 1069017

I hate being a womanlet. I hate being more vulnerable to suffer violence from scrotes.

No. 1069023

>>1068623
Can understand. I've been putting off an MRI for a year and a half. I don't wanna fight my body and the system and insurance anymore

No. 1069027

>>1068029
I've known him for about 5 years and he's studying to become a pilot right now. I think it's super sweet how passionate he is about it and I love it when he talks about it, even though I barely understand it I can tell how happy it makes him. No I really like him and never expected him to be this superficial, I don't give a shit that he doesn't like my leg hair but he's been so distant ever since he found out I'm not some kind of handmaiden. I know it doesn't sound like it but there's a lot of things to like about him. He's super chill, ambitious. passionate, always tells me I'm pretty and talented, he's attractive and loves his family. I knew he wasn't perfect obviously but I didn't expect him to be this superficial. He hated my piercings too but he doesn't really care about them because he actually likes me. At least I thought so, he's a bit of a redneck so he sees it as a 'manly' thing. I just like autists, they understand me better than normies. And I've known him for so long I have a bit of a soft spot for him. Even though he's a year older than me in my mind he's 16, I really like him but this threw me off. I know because I'm a bit younger he thinks of me as a child and I honestly feel the same way about him. It's not like he's uneducated, he's just such a typical moid sometimes (and sometimes he;s a genrlwman. I don't know what to do with him, I like him very much and feel comfortable around him (which is super rare for me) but he can be so childish, it' annnoying as shit sometimes. So I have a bit of body hair, so does he so what does he care? Sage 4 sperg lol I'm a bit drunk.

No. 1069029

I hate my mom so much I have never met a more insufferable person in my entire life

No. 1069034

I'm annoyed with myself. I vent alot, it's how I calm down and it's probably autistic but whatever.

I keep backing myself into corners because I vent about my boyfriend and everyone screams abuse and now I can never say anything positive about him. I need to control myself because it's annoying to vent in frustration and then lose any space to talk about normal day to day things.

I badly need a group of like-minded people who sperg and get over things so we can happily be toxic together with no backlash.

No. 1069039

>>1068979
Convinced admin is some scrote

No. 1069040

I.. I don't know what I just witnessed. Physical abuse in just about the entire family being involved too.

My aunt and uncle got drunk on a family vacation, nothing unusual.

Fight broke out. She's antivax, he believes everyone has their choice. She started giving me shit about getting all my boosters. I told her off.

My uncle goes to bed. She follows. Then my older cousin and me just heard screaming and yelling.

I stayed out of it. This was not my circus, not my damn monkeys.

Until of course.. I did go investigate. The scene.. Was something.

My uncle, sitting on the bed in the far corner, hiding. My male cousin on top of his mother, holding her down. My youngest cousin, standing above them with a knife. Willing to stab her own mom.

I never disarmed anyone that quick. Needed to be done.

Then.. What do you do? My male cousin let his mom go finally.. She was a mess of course, staying on my couch because I couldn't fit all the others.. Seemed fair.

He has scratch marks to the fucking flesh.

I also understand the panic you have to feel to do that.

Against your own son? Against your own mother?

I have no idea what the fuck I witnessed tonight. I don't know what to do.

No. 1069043

>>1069040
Jesus fucking Christ. Possibly over vaccines? Our world is going to hell. I’m full of dread. I’m so sorry, anon. I wouldn’t know what to think either.

No. 1069052

>>1069043
She gave me some shit for it. My uncle defended my stance for making informed choices, and choosing the risk of vaccines over the "harmless flu", shit Karen I get the flu vaccine because it could kill me too. He's a ww2 survivor despite born disabilities.

I Just learning this has been going on.. Fuck. Her as the aggressor. Other cousin got hit too.. Its almost 6am and I just can't sleep. I'll have to take a walk. Anything to not go kick her out of bed right now and give her the fear of hell.

Oh, and my uncle? "a quiet anger", the one that comes after the loud anger, once your done with it all. That's how my cousin is describing him as right now. I hope I'm just watching too much true crime bullshit.

No. 1069054

>>1069043
I've been physically attacked by a coworker for not getting the second vaccine because of my negative reaction to my first one. All of this has caused families to be torn apart and it's insane

No. 1069062

>>1069054
>>1069052
Horrible. I wish I lived in a world before Vax vs. Antivax became weapons that destroy us.

No. 1069070

>Lady across moved out
>Workers are over fixing things
>One is going up concrete stairs loudly each time
>Mom worries about scrote neighbor
>Acts like he's a victim
>Scrote neighbor has been watching/listening things loudly in the past 2 months
>He has a car even though driving for 10-15 mins = ""far"" for him
>Literally could have left at any time
>Workers didn't start until around 1 p.m. so it's not like it's 8:00 A.M.
>It lasted maybe 2 hours
>Has him come over later because "it probably drove him crazy"

I hate this shit so much. Why do men get fucking coddled so much??? I always get told to "suck it up". I wanna scream.

No. 1069073

I feel like my stomachs a fucking void I cant afford right now because I have eaten and now I'm trying to eat more since I feel faint. Of course my digestion or metabolism has gone up to 100 in the few months I've been cheap on food to afford bills. It couldn't happen the other months where I had more disposable income.

No. 1069092

>>1068985
nona is this true. if it is i'm super happy for you but i must admit it feels like one of those false stories i sometimes see to inspire hope within the gullible

No. 1069093

my mom disowned me because she got into QAnon shit because of this fucking plague. she was a hippie libfem before but damn this is so much worse.

No. 1069110

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I don't even feel like a female, I hang out with moids because I have moid interests and I feel like such a creep with a inferiority complex when I talk to girls, I never click with them. Sometimes I have these feelings I should just chop off my boobs and become a man, that's how much I'm alienated by my gender.

No. 1069123

>>1069093
I'm sorry, nonnette. Qanon stuff is a cult. Let me guess, she's listening to rumble and telegram people. Has she started saying "we have to wake the normies up" yet? I'm not making fun of your situation because I literally have people in my life spouting this cesspool shit. It's extremely grating and I can't believe how deeply entrenched people are. I just hope you have people to talk to. If I didn't have my brother, I would have gone off the deep end.

No. 1069125

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>>1069110
>>1069110
>I don't even feel like a female
What does this mean? Really think on it. How do you "feel" like a woman, anon? Through cooking? Through cleaning? Through wearing pink and miniskirts?

> that's how much I'm alienated by my gender.

You probably feel alienated from stereotypes, which is fine and good. It doesn't make you any less a woman. You're a woman because you were born a woman, and it's just that simple.

No. 1069137

>>1068681
>>1068681
Thank you nonna. This is why I enjoy this small server dedicated to posting cats.
I'm glad I'm not the only one, I feel less stupid now.>>1068699
>>1068703
>>1068760
>>1068775
>>1068955
Thank you for your kind replies. Sometimes I think it's good to let off the steam, and have a break from communities that don't feel so good to be a part of anymore. I think it's better to distance yourself temporarily rather than letting negative feelings grow up to the point they explode.

Btw, >>1068760 >>1068775 , any experiences to share with these "queen bees"/narcs in large female groups? Any advice to deal with them?

No. 1069142

>>1069110
Yeah stop hanging out in /r9k/ and grow up. Being female isnt a feeling, its having two x chromosones. Basing your femaleness on stereotypes created by men is dumb as fuck, especially ones created by woman hating moids. They only talk tp you because "you're not like those other girls" ie pander to them, which other women who respect themselves don't.

What makes you not female then? Having male friends? Not liking makeup? Because that has nothing to do with your sex.

No. 1069148

>>1069142
>Being female isnt a feeling, its having two x chromosones.
this

No. 1069152

>>1069142
>>1069125
Nta but I have easier time befriending guys or girls who are like me, usually friends with men. Men are simple stupid and very straightforward, they also do anything you want them to do if you act a bit nice. In female friendships everything has more nuance and especially big groups of girls only friendships in my case almost always fall apart because women are socialized to avoid conflict and not resolving the said conflict ends up alienating one member. Also doesn't help that whenever a guy comes around, female friendships crumble to pieces. Most women put their shitty bfs or crushes before their friends and god forbid their crush likes you instead - your friendship is over.

No. 1069156

>>1069142
Being female is literally just having something men can never have. Men can enjoy makeup, wear dresses, and have female friends, and so can women. Women can have male friends and enjoy doing things seen as 'manly'. Men can never menstruate, give birth, have a body with XX chromosomes that produces female gametes and has female DNA, etc. Our body is the only thing that makes us women, there is no women social role, as say the typical womens social role described like care giving can be done by men too. Only women give birth, but not all women choose to/have bodies without defects allowing them to. Their bodies still have the expected gametes, etc. Man and woman are the words used to refer to the male and female sex. If you are physically female, even if with a birth defect preventing the possibility of pregnancy, you are still female because your physical body is female. People only question this because scrotes reee about religion and shit and try to make it seem as if men are necessary for anything other than biology, making people believe in divine roles to insist on their superiority and therefore necessity.

No. 1069157

>>1069152
Ofc its easier to befriend men, they want to fuck you, and if you are nice to then they think they have a chance. With women, you actually have to earn their friendship and be a good and interesting person, just being a woman isnt enough, like it is with men.

No. 1069161

>>1069110
I also hang out with moids and feel nervous and inferior around girls. It’s called being insecure. Men are easy to befriend for me because I have tits. Women are a little more complicated than that.
Women are always nice to me but I don’t think I’ll ever get over being bullied and ostracised in school. If you struggle with socialising and relating to others then something like that can be very traumatising even if it isn’t that big of a deal.

No. 1069164

>>1069054
>physically attacked by a coworker
Please tell me they where fired?

No. 1069165

>>1069157
Yeah of course they want to but like I said it's just much easier to have dudes do random shit to entertain you and pay for your stuff while you have a few real female friends. That's what I do. It's also easier to get accepted to male friend groups rather than female ones and much harder to get alienated. I've had women cut me off for mediocre men countless times, women aren't always greater because most will prioritize their romantic relationship and men in general since they're just taught that's what they should do. Their boyfriends on the other hand don't value them as much as they value a male friend of theirs.

No. 1069168

>>1069110
Better stay away from women, cringelord. I hate the girls who go all "uguuuuu women friendships are so complicated and hard to navigate!1!!" just like men do. Enjoy your male friends, it's fine to enjoy male company if that's what is comfortable for you. Not that deep. This shit is so cringe. I'm sure you super moid interests are shallow shit like vidya or something similar.

No. 1069170

>>1069165
Then you don't want friends, you want orbiter slaves. No wonder you struggle with actual friendships.

>"Their boyfriends on the other hand don't value them as much as they value a male friend of theirs"

Yeah and your male friends don't value you as much as their male friends either, they only value you as a potential set of tits they can fuck. At least their gf gets the girlfriend label, you're literally bragging about being even lower in their eyes.

No. 1069176

>>1069110
No such thing as a moid interest in the first place anon. Unless women are biologically incapable of holding interest in something (doesn't happen), then it can't really only be a moid interest. Men can be more into certain things on average, but that does not men can only be into that thing.

No. 1069178

>>1068612
Women are conditioned into thinking that every interaction they have with other women is some form of a competition so they're hyperaware of their own and the other peoples' behavior, paying too much attention and overthinking all signals which leads to the false belief of everyone being against you. In reality, even the most confident-sounding women are constantly second guessing what someone meant because we are always told that women hate each other because they're stealing away male attention or prestige, since due to tokenism women are only handed limited amounts of power.

Another reason why all-female group seem more hostile than mixed sex ones is that when you're only surrounded by women you're much more likely to let loose and be your real self. When men are around women are usually forced to be more docile and submissive, making them "nicer". I find myself biting back my words when men are present because I just don't want to make everyone uncomfortable or waste my time dealing with hurt male feelings either so that's something to consider.

No. 1069180

>>1069178
>when you're only surrounded by women you're much more likely to let loose and be your real self. When men are around women are usually forced to be more docile and submissive, making them "nicer".
I find the opposite to be true

No. 1069182

>>1069180
How? It's a widely known fact that women self-censor when men are present. All studies prove that in mixed sex company women are far more likely to speak less than men and that especially in work environments women are even punished for speaking more, i.e. being considered a nuisance.

No. 1069189

Anon with the dying Grandpa again, my failson uncle is the only one of his siblings who hasn’t made immediate plans to come and visit him even though as a childless incel with a nothing office job he would have the least trouble being there for him. His sister is flying in from another country in a pandemic to spend as much time with her dad as she can, meanwhile he’s spending his Friday night partying at a trance club with like seven other people. He can’t drive and doesn’t have a car, and had a flight booked for this coming Thursday (for my sisters wedding of all things) and he’s determined he’s not changing it, even for his dying father. That’s without even mentioning my other uncle who estranged himself from the family before I was even born and has only started weaseling his way back into my grandparents lives in the past few years to keep himself in the will. And the worst part is my grandma coddles them like they’re little kids, because her one useless son and one estranged son who kept them from meeting his children for years are worth more than her three consistent, well-rounded daughters.
I fucking hate males who live on easy mode and are allowed to get away with being the absolute worst. They think they had a hard upbringing because they spoiled as much as their friends growing up were. This is how I know the Y chromosome is defective, watching my mother and aunts live full and happy lives meanwhile their brothers are constantly fuck up their own lives and then cry about how they’re victims. I pray that I may only have daughters.

No. 1069196

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/m/ got nuked, including my pinniped thread.
I don't know what to say.

No. 1069198

>>1069165
>Then you don't want friends, you want orbiter slaves.
This. A lot of the women who struggle with female relationships are shocked that women aren't orbiters like men are and that you actually have to be an interesting, likable person to make female friends since they're not motivated simply by getting laid. And like you said, the women might value their relationship over you but the men will ghost you after they realize they're not getting a crumb of pussy out of you and bought all those Amazon wishlist items for nothing - hell, you're lucky if they don't outright call you a whore and start stalking you, or worse yet, rape you for revenge.

No. 1069203

For fucks sake why did the mods lock the male behavior thread?? It was such a great psychoanalytic thread and a safe place forewomen to discuss the effects of raging moids and how their ape like behavior never gets punished. Seriously why shut off voices like this on a FEMALE board????

No. 1069206

>>1069203
Admins are handmaidens

No. 1069207

>>1069203
The fruit of that thread was lovely.
Just make one in /2X/. That just might start bringing traction and life to that board actually!

No. 1069213

>>1069196
/m/ didn't get nuked, everything was backed up. Your thread is still here >>>/m/178213 Admin is working on fixing it.

No. 1069214

>>1069213
Oh I guess linking doesn't work anymore either. Well look for your thread through search, it still exists.

No. 1069220

>>1069207
What even is 2x I have no idea
One of the best threads recently have been locked, is it because admin is scared of another attack by raging moids? I could understand that but damn. It was such an insightful and validating thread

No. 1069223

>>1069220
If you don't understand what 2x is from >>1069207 and can't find it you're pretty stupid or don't know how imageboards work.

No. 1069224

>>1069220
It’s a hidden board
>>>/2X/

No. 1069227

>>1069223
Yes I don’t understand it and not being a terminally online neet doesn’t equal stupidity

No. 1069232

>>1069182
>all studies
We can't settle for "all" as it's just the available studies out there with the observed groups for data. Studies on girls with ADHD tend to show socialization issues in general, for example.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/labs/pmc/articles/PMC5117588/
If you read specifically under "Friendship" it's extremely depressing.
I think that's probably a contributing factor, but I don't think that I've ever censored much at all around men. I say what I want, they might call me names or retaliate and I've done the same back because I don't care if they don't like me. Meanwhile if I'm with (not all) women, I have to pay extremely close attention to how I word things, because it's easier to be othered and shut out. It just requires a lot more of putting on a mask. If it's the opposite for you, I'm happy that you've had a positive experience with it.

No. 1069235

>>1069227
neither am I a terminally online neet, stop asking to be coddled.

No. 1069238

>>241908
Sorry for the long post but I really have no idea what to do.

I had issues with my sister which I'm living with for college. I had problem wit her attitude, sometime she act very protective of me or has some very strange asocial interractions ( would stay in my room to use my saw at 11pm will I'm trying to sleep and get angry if ask her to do it in her room or during the day ).

I was talking with one of my longest airheaded childhood friends and she asked me if I remember that my sister would beat me ( she don't have a great memorie so I was surprised ). I know I brace myself when my sister get grumpy or do large arms movements near me but I didn't remember her beating me.
One day when I had a sick leave and stayed at the flat I would get a super strange feeling of burning disgust about her while she was chilling in her room. I had memories of very cringe stuff me and my sister did as child ( the kind of stuff you will took to the grave). But that day I really reflected about it and noticed that it was maybe more fucked up than what I was thinking.
I remember that one day we where playing as characters and some sexual things happened, we are 3 years appart, I think she was 11 and I was 8. When I put in perspective and it kind of hit me. At 11 years old I entered middle school (so did she) and kids from 9-7 where in the "kid you have the protection/ right to babysit". I'm kind of wondering if it could be seen as some kind of sexual abuse. Like it wasn't against my will in the moment but she should have been old enought to see it was inapropriate. It get me even more angry with the way she act with me, wondering if she remember it. I don't know if I should talk about it my childhood friend, my parents or just ignore it. Like I don't know if it was even such a fucked thing that happened at the time since I have no exterior input on it.

No. 1069239

>>1069170
Why would I want to be valued by a man I'm not dating though? I don't care if my male friends dont value me, thing is men don't ever value women as highly as other men that's what I meant. Most women put their bfs first but most men don't even put their wives first, that's why I think it's wrong when women give up their family, friends, etc for a mediocre man. Women should stop putting men on a pedestal and give up genuine friendships for guys who don't care about them as much as they do. Both women and men value male approval foremost and that's not healthy.

No. 1069240

>>1069232
> but I don't think that I've ever censored much at all around men. I say what I want, they might call me names or retaliate and I've done the same back because I don't care if they don't like me
That’s interesting. I wonder if female spidey senses identify that as male and that’s why they “other” you. Lol I don’t know what I’m saying.

No. 1069241

>>1069240
This sounds so weird. Why would women consider her to be a male using "spidey senses"? More like female socialization teaches girls to hide their controversial opinions, be less obnoxious and be more submissive so not fitting those ideals is likely going to have you othered and shut down.

No. 1069244

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I can't goddamn live with myself, it may seem minor but I feel like such a pathetic fuckup; I can't stop myself from e-stalking some people which worsens my bpd, blocked all the social media sites and trying my best to stop but somehow I fucking still managed to go on the multistep road of logging in to my secondary socials through incognito mode and went through years of content one person I'm obsessed with posts, now i came back to my senses and I want to off myself, how pathetic can a person be

No. 1069245

>>1069240
I think that it is sort of like that. It's probably very reminiscent to moid typical behavior patterns. I don't know. I've always been hyperprotective with my female friends too, and that's ended in good friendships dying because shitty boyfriends that talk to them like garbage and/or yank them around in public spaces were more important I guess.
>>1069241
It's fine. We're taught to conform to our group norms, that's just how our socialization patterns generally work. If anything, I hate that because it keeps a lot of women from speaking out when things bother them ahem, namely the troon shit

No. 1069246

>>1069241
This makes sense to me. NTA, but the older I get, the more I realize I was socialized like a boy by my family. Everything that other women complain about men doing or how they act is me. I had never given it much thought, but it would explain why I had like 2 friends of any gender in my entire life.

No. 1069252

>every old man's "type" is a young 4/10 guys her age aren't too interested in
This hit home so hard it's embarrassing. It hurt to read because it describes my entire dating history. I just want to be treated like I'm cute and pretty and the only ones who do are older men because they think nearly all young women are hot.

No. 1069255

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this quote in the book i'm reading right now just punched me in the gut. painfully relatable.

No. 1069258

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I have one Instagram account. It’s the only form of social media I’ve ever really had and there’s nothing of me on it. It’s time to let it go. I log on a few times a week and more often than not, it’s not a very pleasant experience. I follow makeup and cat accounts but my noseyness gets the better of me and at best I wind up seeing something that makes me feel down for an hour and at worst leaves me a heartbroken mess. Tonight I’m leaning more towards the latter. I don’t have any irl friends, which is by choice, so this is the only connection I have to non-anonymous people. Going to feel weird at but the deleting needs to be done so I don’t get easily hurt over things that didn’t involve me in the first place.

No. 1069260

>>1069241
Not a male. But male-like. So the instincts feel something is “off” or defective.

No. 1069270

>>1069258
That will be best for you anon, I hope you will follow through with this plan

No. 1069272

>>1069239
Okay, how is it a friendship if they don't value you and are only your slaves in the hope of getting pussy, and how is this is somehow superior to "fake female friendship that put their moid bfs before you!!!"?

No. 1069274

>>1068979
Why didn’t they move it??? Probably a janny without power did it, you should ask in meta to get it moved

No. 1069276

My stomach does not agree with what I put in it yesterday. It wasn't even anything abusive. Except maybe for the three hot peppers.
I wish my stomach was young again, it used to be able to process literal garbage and poison.

No. 1069279

>>1069272
I told you I do have female friendships and men I "hang out with". Getting fucked over by a woman hurts me more because I value women's judgment more and that's why I get so annoyed when a woman chooses to distance you because of her moid, only to come back after he messes up.

No. 1069289

I have no hope for the world. I want to kill myself because of how the world is. We'll never win. Trannies will take over. I pray that in the next 10 year or so the trend (and also them) will die out. I want the world to get a reality check. I want people to see how retarded all this is, and how we're being threatened. But I don't think it's gonna happen.

No. 1069301

>>1069289
live out of spite, us simply existing is triggering moids so why give them that satisfaction

No. 1069303

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/m/ still seems to be down so i want to ask if anyone here has seen/read mysterious skin. i just read it and i feel nauseous and like i’m going to cry. it disturbed me greatly which i guess was the point. i’m curious how they turned this into a film but i don’t think i want to watch it. idk. it was good but sickening. if you’ve read the book then you know that the author goes into a lot of detail about graphic sexual abuse of children and in my opinion it was unneeded and too much. i want to say i don’t regret reading it but i also hate how ill i feel at the moment

No. 1069305

>>1069303
I've always wanted to see the movie, had no idea it's based on a book. IDK which one I should experience first

No. 1069306

>>1069303
I haven’t read the book but seen the movie, the movie was pretty disturbing to me and what they do show unnerved me to no end tbh I felt it was still a bit bordering on dangerous territory and I legit had to skip through some scenes.

No. 1069308

>>1069305
i’m the op so take this opinion with a grain of salt but i feel like watching the movie is probably better and i wish i had done that first. from what i can gather they don’t actually show any csa for obvious reasons and i think they shot the scenes with the child actors so that they wouldn’t know what the story was about. the book is a lot. like it goes into graphic detail about the sexual abuse and the mechanics of exactly what happened. i wasn’t expecting it to be quite like that, i was more expecting something like the perks of being a wallflower or a little life. that being said the book is quite short

No. 1069313

>>1069308
Oh so it's a bit like the Piano Teacher? I've seen the movie and read the book 15 years apart, but I swear that the novel was even worse due to language and descriptions bordering on turpism. The movie also had graphic scenes, but great acting, direction, camera work etc. gave you something else to focus on instead of the vile story.

No. 1069321

These past two years have been way too difficult for me. Mom got cancer, I broke up, dog died, covid happened, med school sleep deprivation and stress, obligatory covid help and now a fucking war. I'm sure we're gonna get 'drafted' as medics again if it gets to my country… Which is very possible might happen soon as we're not far from Ukraine. It's seriously almost unreal. I'm so alone, so lonely, I'm losing motivation to do anything productive. What's the point of doing it when life is so shit when 'achieving'. I should have just been a neet, go on walks and play vidya. Hide somewhere and not be obliged to do shit. I'm losing weight, can't eat, can't sleep, sick every other week. But I can't stop because my family put so much faith and effort in me. And I don't want to disappoint myself. Can't take a break cause I already did 2 years ago.

No. 1069322

>>1069313
i haven’t read or watched the piano teacher but i just looked it up and the main guy looks a bit older? not saying it’s not disturbing but in mysterious skin the two boys who are sexually abused are 8 years old, and the book goes into lurid detail about it. there’s just something about csa that’s so different from sexual trauma storylines about adults/older teenagers. i looked up some stills from the mysterious skin movie and just seeing the child actors made me want to vomit or cry

No. 1069325

>>1069123
yes, she was doing the same shit. the first time she talked about this stuff she apologized for getting me vaxxed as a kid. then she would call me and instead of talking about recipes and bath and body works, she was ranting about insane conspiracies. and she kept sending me links to stuff to read. once i told her i got the vaccine she flipped out and hasn't contacted me since, not even a reply from when i messaged her on her birthday. i actually have a brother and he moved out because of her, during the pandemic last year he barely just finished high school. i reached out to him but he's so depressed. i don't get it, i'm just at a loss.

No. 1069334

>>1069196
anon its been days dont you check meta

No. 1069342

>>1069322
no no no, I did not mean the story being about CSA. It's just incredibly unfucking pleasant. It starts with the heroine cutting the inside of her vulva with a razorblade and it doesn't get better from then on

No. 1069345

Men are such fucking simpletons. I've noticed a pattern with many men…they all only want "love." They don't want to work on themselves or be individuals. They don't care about traveling or finding themselves or bettering themselves. I've talked to so many men and they just want girlfriends and don't care about anything else. Yet the ones that want girlfriends are complete losers. They watch porn, complain about women, don't do anything in life, and/or don't try in life. Men really are peasants.

No. 1069389

>>1069255
That’ sounds heartbreaking nonny, know that you’re my beloved also know that the care you did receive does make you just as loved as anyone else

No. 1069392

>>1069345
Those men are not worth it and desperation is gross and unattractive. I have never been with a man who was actively looking for a girlfriend, which is why I also don't use dating apps. I am only attracted to men who are doing their own thing and don't want to impress women at all costs. Those men are pretty rare but definitely exist cause I found one and he has many passions and is working very hard towards his goals in life.

No. 1069409

>>1069279
But you literally said you prefer men because they do shit for you and just just have to be slightly nice, thats not friendship. And that other women should stop putting their boyfriends up on a pedestal, but you place other men who dont even value you outside of being a potential fuck over other women, because they might drop you for their bf? Tbh you sound deeply insecure.

No. 1069410

>>1069345
And a lot of the time what they call "love" is something no normal person could think of as love, anyway

No. 1069412

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The shit that my boyfriend does, I don't even know if this relationship is worth it sometimes.

He's very much a full blown redneck normie from the south minus the specially nasty stuff like over the top religion, and he pretty much hates that I like to dress alternative, he says it makes me look like a freak and makes him look bad and that he wouldnt want to be seen with me on the street if wore some stuff i user to wear, I stopped dyeing my hair for him, I toned down my clothes, I made a sacrifice for the relationship but…When I look in the mirror I feel so ugly.
I feel like an alien wearing someone elses skin, my cofidence plummeted, fashion used to bring me so much happiness and now i just put on the same tshirt and jean shorts everytime i have to go out and barely brush my hair.

I don't want to break up with him, I do really love the guy and on top of that i always struggled with dating because i am quite obviously autistic, he's a lovely person who treats me above average what the usual straight man does and i feel like i should just suck it up and "grow up". But i look in the mirror and im just feel do ugly and small and worthless.

No. 1069414

>>1067537
That was a wild ride nonnie, glad you got out.
> calls the cops despite "acab" tattoo
this part made me fucking lol

No. 1069418

>>1069412
Making yourself feel ugly for a dick is quite idiotic.
If he started dating you when you were dressing alt, then he either has to stick to it or leave. I mean, what if he just wants to show off to everyone that he can control you and then he gets bored just to leave?
It’s better to not deal with this sort of shit and just leave his sorry ass, males are not some sort of treasure to be kept around in a crystal cage and to dance for so they’re entertained.
Unless you’re going to formal parties and fancy restaurants with hot topic and dollskill gear, then I don’t see what’s his big deal with you dressing alt.

No. 1069419

>>1069412
>He's very much a full blown redneck normie from the south minus the specially nasty stuff like over the top religion, and he pretty much hates that I like to dress alternative, he says it makes me look like a freak and makes him look bad and that he wouldnt want to be seen with me on the street if wore some stuff i user to wear, I stopped dyeing my hair for him, I toned down my clothes, I made a sacrifice for the relationship but…When I look in the mirror I feel so ugly.
Why are you with this piece of sh-
>i always struggled with dating because i am quite obviously autistic
Oh, there it is. Listen nonnie, I've been in the same boat a few weeks ago and I finally dropped my scrote. It's only gonna get worse from now on. Get someone who will appreciate you for who you are. I 100% do not regret breaking up (we are friends now) and I'm looking forward to meeting someone that excites and inspires me well I'm obsessing over someone who seems like my reflection, but we will see how it goes

No. 1069420

>>1069412
Do nonnies even read some of the things they write? Like you'e obviously unhappy and he sounds like a fucking asshole. You don't need a man to be happy anyways, it's fine if you don't date. Break up with him. Also if you guys started dating when you were already dressing alternatively, he should just put up with it. Men love to "conquer" women, in the sense where they strip everything off from her, her dignity, her personality and pride.

No. 1069425

>>1069412
>he pretty much hates that I like to dress alternative, he says it makes me look like a freak and makes him look bad and that he wouldnt want to be seen with me on the street if wore some stuff i user to wear
>he's a lovely person who treats me above average what the usual straight man does
Girl hear yourself, he doesn't like the real you and the only reason he's dating you is because he made you look like his type, but you clearly aren't

No. 1069428

>>1069252
this opened my third eye.

No. 1069429

SPINELESS!!!

No. 1069431

>>1069418
>>1069420
>>1069425
We met in college and i was dealing with a relative's and death and concurring legal bullshit so at the time I was way more toned down because i'd leave class and go talk to lawyers and the police and whatnot, not the time to go out in full cerimonial garb.

And in his own normie way he means well about it, I seriously dont think hes trying to control, he thinks it would be easier for me to make friends or get a better job if i looked normal and people would be less mean about my autistic stuff, more like in a stupid boomer mom way than abusive scrote.

>>1069419
Thanks anon, i just dont even think id put myself out in the market after this one, our relationship is awesome when im just at home wearing my pjs.
Before all of this i genuinely considered myself too autistic to be loved because the only people who wanted me were porn addicted bottom of the barrel scrotes.

No. 1069432

I fucking hate all these "well meaning" women on instagram who post shit about PROTECTING TRANS KIDS. Like holy fuck, i hope more places pull a Texas and make it illegal to fuck with the healthy tissue of a non-sick child. Every single time I see one of these stupid cunts sharing shit, I block the source and unfollow them. Like why would you even want a retard gay child? That should be something to be ashamed of, not aspire to have. I hate trannies, I hate libtards and I hate the current temperature of social media. Fucking troons ruin everything and are ugly permanently. If my kid turned out to be a troon I would tell people that I've never had a child and never wanted children.

No. 1069449

>>1069431
You're repressing yourself for someone who doesn't give a single fuck about how you feel, think about it: would he treat you with respect if you dressed alt again? No, because he doesn't like ""freaks"", he doesn't like you, he likes "his* version of you

No. 1069450

>>1069432
Nevermind, I just realized that the Texas bill didn't pass. Fucking shame. The way all these liberal fucking retards were chimping out about it, I assumed it had passed. Fuck me.

No. 1069451

>>1069431
>stupid boomer mom way than abusive scrote
how are you still sexually attracted to him from this description? kek.

No. 1069455

>>1069431
Just because a man stays in a relationship with you doesn't mean he loves you. He loves the emotional, social, and sexual benefits he can get out of you. I'm sure if you dressed alt again, he would emotionally abuse you until you changed back or he'd break up with you. Clearly you already know this which is why you're repressing your true self. I know you're going to continue making excuses for him, but I really hope you wake up one day and decide to see him for who he truly is.

No. 1069456

>>1069450
greg abbotts not going to fuck you

No. 1069459

>>1069432
anyone against kids transitioning should have the common sense to know aggressive bills like this only make parents ready to be impulsive about getting transition "care" for their kids, and trans activists more paranoid.

No. 1069460

You robbed me of a clear mind

No. 1069464

>>1069459
just an fyi texas government uses things like trans legislation to hide the fact that their cost of living is soaring, ercot, and the fact that abortion rights are basically nonexistent at this point and you people are falling for the psyop instead of focusing on the more harmful legislation and actions of texas lawmakers

i hope none of you actually live in texas if you're not aware of this

No. 1069465

>>1069412
Why did he date you if you dressed alt im the first place and trying to change you now? Think mark think

No. 1069467

>>1069431
You don't sound autistic, your bf does. He's not understanding your feelings and emotions or empahtizing with you even though he's supposed to be in love with you. I'm sure you can discuss this with him and find some middle ground, you can dress the way you like but tone it down a bit so that both of you are happy.

No. 1069472

>>1069431
Deleted my comment after reading this but my point still stands. It only sounds crazy to say he “can’t be seen with you” in the style he basically pursued you in (dyed hair etc). You’re not ugly no matter what but alternative clothes aren’t at all weird to see outside. You won’t marry him and will find someone better that respects you and doesn’t leave you crying over your appearance eventually anyway, so just speed it up. He’s rubbing his own lack of self esteem onto you, nobody cares how either of you look.

No. 1069486

>>1069392
how do you get such a man, by which I mean get him to love you?

No. 1069488

>>1069464
I don't live in texas, trans shit doesn't seem like a distraction if republicans don't give a shit about making life better for people there in the first place. Calling this a "psyop", really? Child transition affects fewer people but vulnerable kids are disproportionately affected and cannot consent to these medical treatments.

No. 1069506

>>1069456
Or you, pickme. He has no loyalty.

No. 1069509

i think what really pisses me off the most about gender nonsense is the alienation it causes amongst girls and young women. you have so much in common with another girl/woman, your interests are the same, your experiences are the same - but then one decides to identify out of her womanhood and claims that she is nonbinary or transmasc or whatever. and you look at this woman and wonder, then why are we so close to each other, why are our experiences the same, why are our interests the same? and then you think "maybe i'm nonbinary/transmasc/whatever too!" and then eventually you identify out of womanhood as well and the next friend looks at you and your friend and wonders what makes you different from her and eventually she troons out as well… i know social contagion is one hell of a drug but it pisses me off so much because of how it keeps us from developing a class consciousness as women and to identify who our oppressors are (men).

even 15 years ago, girls magazines did this. they always talked about how catty other girls are and how to deal with the bitchy classmate who makes fun of your clothes or the slut at school who tries to get with your crush. when my lived reality was that boys bullied me, boys turned girls against me, boys used me as a bad example for how girls shouldn't be to try and flatter girls into ostracizing me out of fear that they'd be bullied and deemed undesirable as well.

anyways, the solution is to kill all men.

No. 1069526

>>1069509
Men can be wayyyyy cattier than teenage women. This discovery left me shook.

No. 1069539

>>1069526
they really fucking are. i didn't notice until i had my first real job and the men there were constantly gossiping and ignoring work in favor of chatting with each other and talking about "the girls." mind that the majority of "the girls" were women 50+ and the only young women were a handful of college students in their early 20s, me included. nothing weirder than having a 60 year old carl talk to another guy about how i'm working "too slow" and how he's totally gonna tell the shift supervisor.

No. 1069541

>>1069456
I don't know who that is, so I hope he doesn't fuck me.
>>1069459
I just liked the "punishment" aspect that comes with the inevitability that these parents will troon their kids out. The speed at which they do it doesn't change the fact that they did it. Good point though.
>>1069464
I don't live in Texas and only keep up with Americans through social media memes from libtards, and it's actually kinda funny that none of them are up in arms regarding the cost of living or the lack of abortion options. The only thing they talk about ad nauseum is "think of the twans children!!!1!"
>>1069509
I love this post. I wish this was something I could talk about without being cancelled amongst the kweer arts crowd I'm stuck in.

No. 1069543

i just wanna be skinny literally nothing else matters, why are my bones so fucking large i'm a fucking fridge despite being of a supposedly normal weight, i'd rather die trying to get skinny than keep being this big. why do i care so much about it, size means nothing but i really just want to be skinny

No. 1069545

>>1069543
I’m actually overweight and I want to be skinny, I don’t care if that doesn’t make me feel better with myself, at least I will look nice while feeling depressed and people will actually feel bad for me instead of thinking that I’m a slob.

No. 1069546

My mom almost broke my arm because I talked a little shit about our country. Like, it's a third world, poor as fuck, poorly run place, I can criticize it as a citizen but she started screaming and crying and beat my ass a little too. Like… come on fatty, it's not like you are doing any great things for the nation either. She's so patriotic, she goes completely insane at even the slightest negative opinion when our country is actually really, really bad.
I usually don't talk about this in front of her because I know how bad she can get but the news was on and I accidentally made an off-hand comment.

No. 1069550

>>1069541
there's a chance they are bad parents who are homophobic or sexist, but for many they are also victims of the medical establishment pushing for child transition care and lied to about it being irreversible, kids will kill themselves if they don't transition, etc.

No. 1069554

you sperging about libtards is exactly why these conservative politicians win though, also non amerifags forgetting conveniently that our right wing is significantly more right wing than the rest of the world with the exception of borderline fascist countries. there's nothing based about faggots like abbott who deserve to have another tree fall on them, they're actively doing worse things and it's much more detrimental if you actually live in those states, I just want to be able to get an abortion if I need it in the future. and it's obviously a distraction every time these retard moid gop fags bring up identity politics to detract from what they're actually doing

No. 1069557

I'm laughing so hard. The power of the mind truly exists.

No. 1069564

>>1069554
Thank you. “Texas is good actually” is the worst take I’ve ever seen in my life and I’m unwilling to believe that anyone but scrotes or insane, brain-washed Christian women would believe that losing access to abortion is only a few broken eggs if you can get some bill passed that only affects like what… 0.7% of children? Even smaller still those that want to/are permitted to medically transition.

No. 1069586

why do traditional whores want to shame other women so badly and claim moral superiority to them? Most "trad wivee" are literally egirls just like liberal pro sex work egirls and so many of them use their sexuality to get money from simps. They're literally ewhores with delusional disorder and schizophrenia.

I hate both the modern left and right so much it's insane. I want all these grifting left wing, right wing mother fuckers dead

No. 1069589

I started training at my job recently and I feel so inadequate. I feel like a kid and question why they hired me in the first place. I feel like I have no credentials and am useless. I have the same amount of schooling as my other coworkers, but I can’t stop feeling stupid. This inferiority complex probably stems from abuse and I always had the expectation to be perfect, so I expect to be an expert on the first try of anything. I know they probably aren’t judging me and that I am new, but I can’t stop beating myself up over it and feeling like a screw-up.

No. 1069593

A vent about the situation in Ukraine. It's so sad. I really did not think a threat like this would happen in the current world. If UK or US intervene with military we'll be on the cusp of a global war. I always had nightmares about war and family members getting conscripted. My brother joined the navy a few years ago and I'm terrified especially after the news the Russians murdered an entire warship for not surrendering. I pray there is a way for peace to be achieved.

No. 1069596

the internet and retarded political grifters have changed the meaning of the political compass literally.Politics should have been something reserved exclusively for intellectuals. Not all plebians should give their take on politics. You should graduate with a PhD in political philosophy to even be able to talk about politics to an audience. The political grift is the worst grift, especially for women. Right wing and left wing ewhores are grooming young vulnerable women into hateful ideologies that are dehumanizing for women. Both the left wing and right wing are extremely toxic for women and once you put something up on the internet a lot of people might see you as a role model and take up your path.

Both right wing and left wing are extremely harmful for women and women should not get involved with any of these modern political movements. If you get involved with the left you will be groomed into making an Onlyfans and sucking up to shit men, trannies and coomers. If you join the right wing you will be groomed into putting up with extreme humiliation from right wing incel scrotes.

No. 1069599

>>1069564
I've already stated that I had no idea what Texas' stance on abortion and my take was specifically on the anti-troons-kids focus of the one bill. Are you actually unable to see how someone could think "Texas = good in this specific way" based on a singular, misconstrued reason? I also immediately corrected myself to state that it didn't even pass, so using Texas as a standard no longer even applied to my troon rant. Sorry it pissed you off. It was ignorant of me. I hate troons though. Sorry about your lack of abortions and where you live. That shit sucks

No. 1069608

>>1069593
My parents keep saying that if the US doesn’t intervene, then the world war will be kicked off because China will join in. I don’t know what to think anymore

No. 1069620

>>1069608
Your parents need to stop reading MSM.

No. 1069621

>>1069608
China and Russia are allies so China will back up Russia and idk if its true there assembling on the border of Taiwan or already invaded I reallu hope not. If the situation is because of "sides" i.e. NATO vs Russia and Chinese allies than can't we all just sign a global treaty to get along. Like there's a 180+ countries, why the fuck are we all at the mercy of a few superpowers. I really believe in globalism and what the means to me is equality across the glove. Equal human rights for all, however I realise that is easier said than done since female autonomy is a political issue for some fucking reason (men in power). Like if the issue is Russia doesn't want a former ally to become westernised aka have more 'liberal' views, can't we make a bloc that just has every fucking country as a member. Or remove all the fucking blocs. How does global trade work?? I just don't understand the need to kill and hoard nuclear weapons we are all on this planet and humans. We've all the same goals of survival and having a happy life. I'm sad.

No. 1069622

>>1067537
Damn good thing you got a spine cause your husband sure doesn't

No. 1069629

there's no WW3 incoming and America is doing fucked up things without us knowing because most mass media in the West is controlled by America. America has been going around the world for some time now creating atrocities but then they make it appear like they are saving the situation when they have created it in the first place

No. 1069633

>>1069629
Yeah, but there an invasion happening right now in Europe from Russia.

No. 1069642

>>1069621
Putin wants NATO dead, so no we can't all sign a treaty to just get along lmao they already tried that. Russia does not want to play nice. They are very invested in being the schoolyard bully that inconveniences everyone.
>>1069629
Pearl harbor the US kept sailing into Japanese waters and hitting their boats while saying they were neutral until Japan hit back. Vietnam war the US said Vietnam sunk one of their ships and that started war then it was declassified it was the other way around. Twin Towars the US 100% knew an attack was coming and didn't stop it. America always makes excuses for war to get it's gullible populace on side. This is what happens when a country never fights a war on its own soil unless its against itself.

No. 1069662

>>1069642
America needs to be nuked. It is ran by an incredibly corrupt government which is not a government in the classical sense. It simply is ran by mega corporations and the "conspirational" elites some American right wingers talk about. America have caused all the atrocities of the past 100 years. Including the war of with Japan, Vietnam, war in middle East where they are going to suck up their resources. WE ALL CRY ABOUT WAR IN LE UKRAINE BUT IN THE MIDDLE EAST THERE HAS BEEN WAR FOR 30 YEARS BECAUSE OF AMERICA which has caused aggresive Muslim secret religious organizations to come to the west and take their anger out on innocent people as a message to the world. America is controling media in the West and letting whatever they want us to hear and they always lie and make America seem like they are innocent and just rescuing the world.

America has made covid as a biological weapon and they are trying to establish the technofeudalism regime. America is the most authoritarian country in the world and they are trying to make us slaves to their mega corporations. I really do hope Russia and China form a powerful qualition so that they can combat America. If we let America win in 50 years we will all have no freedom and be connected to machines

No. 1069664

>>1069642
Then Putin needs to assinated. No more sanctions on citizens, there's already protests against Putin in Russia, I don't understand why its feasible to make normal people suffer at the expense of an ego maniac. This is a nightmare situation with Russia's arsenal of weapons. How did we get to the point Saddam was found in a pipe or whatever, how do you get people to turn on Putin am I going to be killed for typing this lol

No. 1069666

>>1069662
get a job already romania anon

No. 1069667

>>1069662
Wtf so let Ukrainians die and give up their country, fuck off. America sits on a separate continent. Russia is invading Europe. What a fucking American centric viewpoint

No. 1069673

I hate how if you mention you have diabetes, people automatically assume you are unhealthy and obese. Yes, you can get diabetes from continuously being obese and unhealthy, but there are people who got it as children who had no way of avoiding it (I am a case of the latter). I hate diabetes. I hate how it's so easy to fuck up your body internally when you have diabetes. I hate that my immune system just decided that my pancreas was a lying piece of shit and destroyed its insulin making capabilities. I hate diabetes and I HATE the thought of any children with diabetes in third world countries who no doubt are sick and struggling with this stupid fucking chronic illness. I hate it. It is a fucking curse.

No. 1069674

>>1069662
You're not wrong and I say this as an American myself. My country is the number 1 evil of the world. altho i don't want it to be nuked for obvious reasons kek

No. 1069678

America wants the population completely ran by capitalism and wants us as slaves to corporations with no capacity to think. America bans freedom of expression when it goes against their mega corporations. America needs to be nuked right now. I pray for the Russians and Chinese to take over because believe me if Americans take over we will live in a dystopian world of technofeudalism. America is trying to instaurate the technofeudalistic regime in the entire world where we all do what they want in the detriment of their capital. America wants us slaves, more than the commies ever will. The free market capitalism liberal kings want us to be their slaves more than communists. Americans are so retarded they have even twisted the meaning of.political compass and doctrines. Communists do not want a dystopian technofeudalistic world, they want to return to tradition and have better distribution of resources. American is liberal right wing and they are peomoting stff they call communist like trannies because they want the population to be mentally ill and in lack of an identity amd be addicted to big pharma. What we associate with communism in modernity has nothing to do with real communism. Real communism is more tradiționaliștic. China and Russia are communist and they are on par with the cultural values American right wingers hold.

I'd rather have China take over than live in the dystopian world America is offering controled by machines, raped by trannies with no real freedom of expression

No. 1069690

>>1069662
>>1069678
>technofeudalism
>technofeudalism
>technofeudalistic
>technofeudalism
Jesus, shut up autist.
I honestly don't think anyone except the most hilly billy of burgers think America is good.

No. 1069691

>>1069666
why? this is my job. I am interested in political philosophy and making predictions about the future. There are many people that have politics as a job but I am not in the socio economical position to turn this into my job and if I become public with my ideas I will get my ideas stolen from me by others that are in better life positions or I will simply get attacked and misunderstood. Most of the things I know and believe about the world are objective and true.

I am 100% sure we are heading towards a technofeudalistic regime and a dystopian future which America wants. America wants the corporations that run their government to have complete control over their population. American freedom and democracy is a big fat joke and illusion

No. 1069694

>>1069691
No one is gonna steal your run-of-the-mill ideas.

No. 1069695

>>1069678
>>1069662
>America is bad because XYZ
>I want country B to rule even though they do XYZ to a far greater degree than America without any of America's redeeming qualities
?????????????????????
Take your medication.

No. 1069696

>>1069599
Probably misconstrued it. Either way the religious rhetoric down south is highly anti women, and only propped up by the establishment. I think a lot of the tactics used by southern politicians to outrage people are distractions from their disastrous choices regarding environment and power as well, although texas is the worst, the way they treated the freeze with the power grid last year. Millions of people were left with no power to their homes and massive infrastructural and financial damages, but the pos governor won't nationalize the power grid and barely tightened regulations. And then ted cruz left the country like the coward he is. Beyond the rising cost of living and the power regulations texas politicians hate women, yet conservatives or people who are fiscally conservative lolburtarians prop it up as a fine great place to live based on low taxes. Whether you're fiscally conservative or not there's really nothing good about supporting politicians like cruz or abbott or anything they push, if it involves identity politics it's probably just a distraction from some deeper thing they're covering up.

I thoroughly believe at this point without being too tinfoily that these bastards all have massive skeletons in their closets and will one day pay for them. Because their hatred of women not only restrict abortion rights but also restrict access to lower cost healthcare or things like planned parenthood. These men hate women, So the way it fizzles out, yes, I couldn't really care about trannies when I see how abominable everything else these lawmakers support is. Same goes for basically any conservative politician in the US, the majority of them are bible thumping moralistic misogynists who force their mistresses to get abortions while condemning female citizens for doing the same, they can burn in hell for all I care

No. 1069697

>>1069690
you're a stupid bitch. Everyone supports America in political action even now people are giving credit to America for saving the situation and supporting Ukraine when they have created this situation in the first place. When America put out fake vaccines everyone supported America

No. 1069698

>>1069691
What do you think about Industrial Society and Its Future?

No. 1069701

>>1069691
I suggest you read more actual politics and not just specific topics you're interested in because you're retarded af.

No. 1069705

>>1069698
it's a disaster anon. Technology inherently is not bad but people are very egoistical and we are on a power trip to control each other. Thanks, nonnie as a Philosopher I am very influenced by Ted's school of thought

No. 1069707

>>1069629
Yeah the US just bombed Somalia

No. 1069708

>>1069696
Thank you for taking the time to explain this to me! I really don't know anything about America, but I remember that Ted Cruz debacle when he left for a bit when shit hit the fan. What a place.

No. 1069709

>>1069703
it's better than what America wants for the future of humanity this is why right wing american political figures want America nuked. Trump is supporting Russia because he knows what America wants to do to the world

No. 1069711

>>1069691
Not to say I disagree with you but how are we supposed to stop the billionaires from harnessing the power necessary to overtake? Just march up to their lawns with guns and start killing them? And what of them impending possibilities of WWIII?

No. 1069718

>>1069709
Trump only cares about one person nona, and that's himself. Don't try and act like he cares about anyone else. That man can barely utter a coherent fifth grade sentence. He is not your ally

No. 1069719

>>1069709
>trump
come on now

No. 1069721

>>1069705
Did you learn about Ted's personal live? I think it's interesting. He developed PTSD as a result of being tortured by sociopaths and broke down to withdraw from society after living a somewhat okay life for a couple years after that. He could never shake his mental illness, even in nature, it kept coming back to him. He thought he could combat it with petty revenge, or by spreading his ideas to many people, but it only got him arrested.

I think what he needed was mental health care and a social environment so he could learn to think properly.

No. 1069726

The only reason i'm not replying to romanianon is because i know she's mentally ill and probably going trough a psychotic episode/in benzos

No. 1069728

>>1069673
If you're talking about that post in the fakeboi thread, I'm really sorry anon. Some people are incredibly ignorant.

No. 1069732

>>1069726
She certainly seems to be having another episode of something.

No. 1069734

>>1069726
she's a shitstain on this imageboard.

No. 1069741

>>1069721
Watch romanianon ignore this encouraging and sound advice. She just wants to ruminate while in her psychotic benzo haze, anon, but good try.

No. 1069747

>>1068809
>>1068810
KEK. Good that you blocked his ass, he's a fucking sperg if he really is who I think (or maybe that's his twin brother). Godspeed anon

No. 1069748

>>1069741
I didn't even realize that that's what anon was trying to do lol. I was gonna reply and say Romanianon need to learn from that

No. 1069759

I think I have the stomach flu and I'm about to work because you have to find a replacement 24 hrs in advance, this shit shouldn't be legal with all the customers I help. Feel like I'm about to throw up just by looking at food send help anons I just wanna eat without feeling queasy…

No. 1069815

>>1069759
You should consider if your employer is in any position to fire you over staying at home sick. I don't know where you are but in a lot of places there's serious employee shortages and they can't afford to fire you over something small like that. And agree, that shouldn't be legal.

No. 1069825

Who is Romanianon? Was she doxxed? Who is Steven? She said that people used to gossip about her so does she have a pull thread? Is she working right now and if not how can she support coming here and rambling which would require a pc and stable internet connection? Romanianon if you're reading this, I really think like other anons have said you could start a twitch and youtube channel and you'd have a lot of followers.

No. 1069829

i hate having crushes nonas whats worse is this dude is into forced feminization and other hentai shit but he's so fucking nice but im so scared he'll troon out. he's already told me he's been enjoying browsing r/egg_irl i can't do this anymore i need to dunk my head in a bowl of acid and never emerge ever again

No. 1069830

>>1069691
Then finish your degree and do something that earns you enough money to get out of your shithole so you can gain some perspective and maybe even empathy.

No. 1069835

>>1069825
>which would require a pc and stable internet connection?
what, even homeless people have phones + internet connections at like fast food places lol. Anyone can have internet access nowadays.

No. 1069841

>>1069829
Ok but where dis you even find him? I've never known these neet types of men irl and even then they don't broadcast their forced fem or hentai shit to everyone, they hide it well.

No. 1069845

>>1069825
See >>1013274
She already had a twitch but dropped it several times because she thinks everyone is out to get her and steal her brilliant ideas.

No. 1069846

>>1069837
based, they know what theyre doing

No. 1069847

>>1069837
If you type the same exact post in the same exact way, you are going to earn a name for yourself and anons are going to be curious as to who the fuck you are. Put down the benzos so you can make rational decisions.

No. 1069849

>>1069835
You're right anon. But wouldn't even homeless people need a job to get food and stuff?

No. 1069858

>>1069837
You're really a huge asshole, even to anons who are being nice to you. I have no idea why anyone still has sympathy for you.

No. 1069862

>>1069845
Amazing work, thank you.

No. 1069864

>>1069849
>>1069825
Last thing I heard she still lives with her family. Didn't she complain about being asked to do house chores recently?

No. 1069875

>>1069870
> Nor am I addicted to benzos.
In this same thread:
> I used to be addicted to benzodiazepines
> I take 4 benzos […] daily

No. 1069876

i really just want to take advantage of a rich old scrote who's not terrible looking so i don't have to deal with the increasing wealth gap. i hate feeling this bout of desperation and sounding like a pickme, but i have no financial skills and am afraid of homelessness, and i have massive baggage and daddy issues that make me crave mentorship. i'm not the worst looking, so i figure I could do it. i hate taking back on my "I want to be a strong independent woman" resolve, but there's literally no way in hell i can survive being as unstable as i am without some kind of support until I put my foot in the door after college, I am unmedicated, and it's fucking killing me to realize how dependent and sloppy i am.

If someone could just give me a boost or provide me mentorship without there being expectations or sexual gratification tied into it, if only there were a woman leader or mentor who'd be willing to help teach me how to be a decent adult. but if im in my mid 20s and this much of a trainwreck im afraid I will never meet someone who wants to help me. being abused into this position sucks, and everyone always tells me who can't afford to help me that it's not my fault, but im tired of feeling pitied and infantized all the same, it's difficult to escape it.

if only I could make money off something inexplicably that would set me for life then I could fuck off and not have to be reliant on anyone. I wish that's what would happen. that's a virtual impossibility in this sexist society especially if your outstanding talents are laid bare by your retardation. also I suck at stem. stem is where the money is, women who are mediocre idiot savants at writing or art are a dime a dozen, nobody gives a fuck about us. that's why im just considering doing some temporary gold digging once I leave college. I'm not down for being a homeless junkie in the city in pursuit of my "dreams" until I succeed like some people, id just kms not being able to handle it. I hate how weak I am, and I hate that I'm considering this.

No. 1069879

>>1069870
Probably because you weren't so psychotic that it's recognizable. You also apparently shitstirred and self-admittedly "trolled" in the server, then gossiped about them in the friend finder thread according to >>1016070 which is why they kicked you out.

No. 1069881

>>1069870
Look at this >>1069875 are you addicted to benzos and taking four a day, or aren't you? Why don't you take the advice of the kind anons who still have sympathy for you? You will keep attracting negative attention if you don't.

No. 1069882

>>1069878
>masturbate to your animu husbandos spend your entire life thinking youre ugly and never develop genuine relationships
Projecting much?

No. 1069884

>>1069878
get a job and get out of your shithole

No. 1069885

>>1069878
>Life gave me shit and I still made something out of nothing.
And what exactly do you have?

No. 1069886

>>1069879
Kek anon. Any more info about the discord shenanigans?

No. 1069888

>>1069878
> I still made something out of nothing.
Becoming a known schizo poster on lolcow while being a NEET living with your family who you dislike as a long term unemployed mentally ill genius with model looks and male brain (rational, not bitchy like ours)?

No. 1069889

>>1069886
Just look at the thread and the linked posts, it's a shitfest and even there she already blatantly twisted details.

No. 1069894

>>1069870
This is how this imageboard works, you'll be undetected and then all of a sudden once you catch the wrong eyes by expressing an opinion they feel personally triggered at (even smth as petty as having a different anime) they go thread to thread accusing everyone of being u since this imageboard is ultimately based on gossiping about weirdos on the internet.

Because most of their cows dried up nonnies are extra thirsty to milk any poster they might deem as a "cow" despite them being barely above any other weirdo who posts on imageboard. Hell, oldmin engaged in that behavior when she exposed an uninteresting group of posters using Opera VPN she larped was a personality instead of admitting she was butthurt at how her shitty admin skills were being clowned. I posted as long as you and LC's gotten really fucking petty and witchhunty in the past months with the scrote accusations and desperate clinging on to any anon they think has an eccentric character.

No. 1069896

>>1069845
>>1069879
Wow, what a deep dive. Ntaytr but I haven't really followed her posts and thought there must have been several mentally ill women sperging about whores and rape and suicide all day here. And it's honestly kind of relieving to see them side by side to compare the writing and formatting style and details and realize it's the same person. Romanianon is really milky. How can she post such absolutely vile shit about women and calling them whores for wearing tank tops (despite claiming to be an actual camwhore? Make it make sense) and telling people to kill themselves then in the same breath calls herself extremely empathetic, rational, and a radfem? Romanianon please get off lolcow like you've said you would so many times and go get therapy.

No. 1069897

>>1069878
girlie at least you have pills. I'm 12 months off my bipolar meds. i don't feel like a whole person anymore. some of us want to help and all you do is ignore us. lots of anons are broken ourselves. we don't all want to hate you, but you have to tone it down a little. i am a total mess who's afraid I'm going to be unable to survive outside my shithole life with deranged hyperfixations and maladaptive coping mechanisms galore, I feel you. I just wish you'd try and find something positive about this life every once in awhile. There are temporary things to appreciate besides your suffering. Go watch a movie, savor some food, take a walk, scroll mindlessly through something on the internet. There has to be something to get you outside of your own head.

No. 1069904

want to play elden ring but idk if my laptop will be able to run it without exploding. also i have like three other huge games i haven't finished yet and am busy with irl stuff like school and self-studying for my future job. fuck lol

No. 1069905

>>1069889
But the bitches on the discord act exactly like that. They rage at something as inconsequential as you disliking K Pop or anime then use that to try to make a cow out of you since they're petty teenagers with nothing to do. A lot of these posters are from PULL/Kiwifarms and are usually the ones shitting up the threads with racebait, hours long infighting, ect. Romanianon may have said stupid shit but farmers on discord are bpd-tier levels of petty and obsessive kek

No. 1069906

Romanianon will never take any of the advice given. She will just sperg endlessly about murdering people and writing a manifesto mentioning lolcow.

No. 1069907

>>1069896
> Make it make sense
She never showed any skin, she only talked to people and would have made 10,000€ per month because she is beautiful and intelligent and creative and funny, but because she showed no skin she made no money at all, but an actual whore from Ukraine saw her and copied her whole personality and intelligence and beauty and creativity and funniness, and because she was evil and stupid she made loads of money that way, so Romania anon quit streaming in disgust to pursue her career as a political philosophy analyst on lolcow instead.

No. 1069910

I haven't seen this supposed sexism and hatred towards other women that Romanianon does. The only "proof" I see is when she said if she were an autistic man instead of an autistic woman she would be celebrated which is true. Men with her kind of personality type get scrote followers and simps all the time.

No. 1069912

>>1069896
I think she's genuinely schizophrenic in need of medication or in a state of constant psychosis and simply unable to see the hypocrisy. She sounded a bit more coherent in the posts that are 7+ months old, so it's definitely some kind of mental illness.

No. 1069915

>>1069912
It's probably the benzos and painkillers.

No. 1069918

>>1069905
Bitches on discord are as namefag, remember than Regina girl, and mentally ill as romanianon so unlike here, they probably ate her up. I've literally seen her be so misogynistic and retarded on here without getting any criticism but some pity points but god knows the bpd-chans on discord probably hated her for trying to get more attention than them.

No. 1069922

>>1069905
the 40 year old kiwifag mom is the one who made me want to leave the discord more than any other users, is she still there? as long as she's there I am never going back either

No. 1069923

>>1069912
She had a massive meltdown when her e-bf posted her IRL name, youtube and twitch on lolcow and allegedly badmouthed her to her clique of mean incelorbiter egirls after she told him about being abused, but she calmed down a month ago or so. Now she said her father molests her currently, so maybe something else bad happened.

No. 1069926

>>1069910
She hates on other camwhores, calls women here incel lingo like roasties and stuff like that, you can see more if you look at the linked thread. Also seems to think she has malebrain which is lowkey true since she's an autist. That's probably why she sees women here aka roasties as inferior to her autistic male genius.

No. 1069931

>>1069905
I agree the discord is cringe but I doubt they're lying with
>>>/g/149416
>>>/g/149420

No. 1069939

>>1069929
We have other schizos in /snow/ so maybe that's a good place for a containment thread, but idk.

No. 1069940

>>1069926
It sounds like shes one of those mentally ill strange people who keep running into other mentally ill strange people so she when she rants about them she ends up appearing more cowish than them. and a lot of her opinions like first world internet sex workers are entitled and shouldn't deserve the same sympathy as third world women forced into prostitution are repeated constantly on this site. I think her main problem is that she presented it in a lengthy tl;dr way and repeats it a lot which comes off as schizophrenic

No. 1069942

I'm so conflicted about the whole ukrainian-russian war going on and how it's portrayed on social media. I don't want to think about it too much because I'm russian and know people who live in the Ukraine and the entire situation makes me very anxious and scared, even though my close family and I are personally safe in another european country right now. Whenever I go online I see people post about it and share donation links, while saying things like "The least you can do is share", which I did with some posts that seemed trustworthy to me. But then those heavy thoughts are on my mind for the rest of the day and I start to resent and feel sick at the sight of those that can continue shitposting right after, seemingly without another thought. I'll just step away from it, it's all too upsetting

No. 1069944

>>1069940
*so when she

No. 1069946

>>1069881
because I am not here to recieve sympathy. Most sympathy is degrading. I don't want people to pity me. I am in the vent thread not in the advice thread. Most people's advice does not help me and does not apply to me and people give advice to make themselves feel good, not to help you.

Today, I simply vented my thoughts on a political issue.>>1069662
and you literally turned the entire thread in a discussion about me which is absolutely nnot even related to my initial post and then you accuse me of personality fagging. If you know it's me, Don't point out it's me, just tell me to kill myself if you disagree with me or ignore me and if you agree with me tell me so. Just don't say it's me. You're causing all of this shit and derailing and then accusing me of it.

No. 1069947

>>1069904
It’s not really a laptop game unfortunately. I read somewhere minimum requirement is 1060 graphics.

No. 1069948

>>1069940
Her problem is that she threatens to murder people and her cat. No other anons do that kek.

No. 1069949

>>1069948
kek yeah thats retarded

No. 1069957

>>1069946
You’re in here on a daily basis talking about how you’re going to murder people. The post you linked that’s “simply vented [your] thoughts on a political issue” was a call to nuke America.

Also why do you care about the global political climate in 50 years, let alone now. Aren’t you going to kill yourself in two months?

No. 1069959


No. 1069977

I'm supposed to believe that romanianon isn't right? she's very mental and…intense, but she's mostly right about everything, specially regarding 1st world radfems and e-thots (and some lc cliques) is actually impressive how she's one of the few anons to call out those things and i can see why she's being persecuted, i feel bad for her

No. 1069978

>>1069977
The murdering people bit was too much but I do think a lot of it is vendettafags feeling angry because she directly attacked them instead of ranting at some phantom group of people who don't exist/are hated on this imageboard.

No. 1069980

>>1069977
Mentally sound people do not threaten to kill people on their birthday and leave behind a manifesto. Are you unfamiliar with her? That's why she's being "persecuted", as you put it.

No. 1069984

>>1069957
>Aren’t you going to kill yourself in two months?
You mean two months AGO kek

No. 1069985

>>1069977
Even if she was wrong she doesnt deserve to be doxxed or have her pictures leaked, i argued with her a couple of times but i feel sorry for what shes been through its not a joke

No. 1069992

>>1069985
She doesn't want your pity, see here >>1069946 she wants you to tell her to kill herself.

No. 1069993

>>1069978
People don't like her because she shits up every thread. When your posting style is extremely recognizable and you're regularly derailing, anons won't like you. It's the same with paki-anon. And it's not like she just shits up threads with her rants, I remember watching her spam (as in post nonsensical shit over and over) one of the previous vent threads. I believe it was over "camwhores"

No. 1070003

>>1069980
>>1069978
I get it, she threatens anons and that's not okay, but some of her opinions are damn right not gonna lie

No. 1070005

I feel so sick I hate developing crushes on the freakiest dudes out there. He's admitted to like hentai and beinh a femboy and browsing egg_irl and laugh at its memes. One midlife crisis this man is going to troon out anytime. Nonas i want out but i cant because he's so SWEET AAAAAAAAA

No. 1070007

>>1069993
(c)rapchan is far more annoying, retarded, and doesn't even have "right" opinions like romanianon's which is often from her (crazy) experiences since it's just sheltered bipolar ranting over the most basic shit (like hip hop) yet she doesn't have near the vendettafags clawing at her throat every thread.

No. 1070009

>>1070005
Sweet how? What does he do for you?

No. 1070010

>>1070005
he'll be asking you to peg him and call you a good little girl or something, i know you're thinking with your pussy but thirst from afar, do not fuck this man.

No. 1070013

>>1070007
(c)rapchan doesn't shit up threads nearly as frequently as romanianon. She is also obviously not nearly as schizophrenic, just autistic.

No. 1070014

>>1069993
Newfags will just ignore this because they don't understand how imageboard work. I seriously doubt that she would get so much hate if she presented her opinions on first world radfems and discordfags (which she is guilty of being based on her posts in the old friend finder thread) in a rational way. She complains about anons gossiping about her but she just shits up entire threads and doesn't even try to make her posting style less recognizable.

No. 1070015

>>1070013
but autism adjacent traits are far more obnoxious and odious than schizophrenic adjacent traits. People who act autistic make aggressive and loud opinions despite being sheltered with little experience. Someone like Romanianon might be schizophrenic and scarily unhinged at times but at least her observations have some basis and she has maturity about her, which is something I can't say about (c)rapchan who acts like a lot of boring retards on the internet.

No. 1070016

>>1069992
>she doesnt want pity
All she does is literally a cry for help kek

No. 1070019

>>1070014
I just saw her older post, and she actually acted less insane, i don't know what happened but i'm assuming shit didn't get better for her
>>1070015
This, i'll take romaninano shitting on fake "radfems" over (c)rap-chan's racist spergouts any day

No. 1070022

>>1070015
>which is something I can't say about (c)rapchan who acts like a lot of boring retards on the internet
There you have it, that's why people don't discuss (c)rapchan like they do romanianon. Because romanianon has such a distinct way of writing and expressing herself and threatening harm and people don't see that shit every day. That is why there people who are annoyed by her, because you see (c)rapchan shit all the time so it's easier to ignore but you don't see the kind of schizo posts like you do with romanianon.

No. 1070023

>>1070007
(C)rap-chan doesn't do it as often and her rants are not nearly as long as Romanianon, and if someone does recognize her they will point it out and go at her. Did you even see the coquette thread? Like I said, if you become a recognizable sperg anons will not like you. Doesn't matter who it is.

No. 1070025

>>1070019
I said that she was guilty of being a dramawhoring discordfag herself, not that she didn't used to be less insane. There's probably a good reason why her old discord clique doesn't like her but she paints herself as the victim always.

No. 1070029

>>1070023
Samefag, but (c)rap-chan could be considered more normal (depending on who you ask, obviously) than Romanianon. I don't think self-hating mixed girls are a foreign concept to anyone, but Romanianon is severely mentally ill.

No. 1070032

Going through those links it looks like someone posted evidence that romania anon did do at least topless streams in 2018.

No. 1070045

One of these days I’m gonna murder my brother because he’s such a lazy entitled pig it makes me want to AAAAAAH-
“I didn’t spend the day home why are you asking me to clean?” Because you live here.
“I didn’t eat what you cooked so why should I clean” Because you live here.
He always leaves his hair on the champoo or conditioner bottles, hoardes dirty plates on his bedroom and then leaves them in the counter to “soften the food with water” and 2 out of 3 times I have to end up putting them in the dishwasher myself because he won’t do it before my mother gets home. Never throws away the trash unless you ask him to. Won’t cook for anyone but himself but then always eat everything I bake almost all by himself, or I will buy something with the intention of cookiing something later and eat it before I can use it.
WHY ARE MEN.

No. 1070047

>>1070009
he just talks to me lmao. This pandemic is taking a tol on my socializinh skills

>>1070010
Noting this…maybe its my pussy thinking…perhaps he'll turn into a hon in a few years. I shall wait and see he's tall and is financially stable i feel sick

No. 1070048

>>1070023
Tbh I think racism and calling people subhumans will always be more offensive than hating on (fake) radfems or ranting about how miserable your life is. A lot of anons' issue with her is her writing style which comes from how people on the current internet really hate lengthy posts and consider it unhinged. I'm sure if romanianon typed in the same simple-minded and borderline retarded way as (c)rapchan does anons would be far less annoyed with her kek.

No. 1070053

I wish i could read people i realized recently that thinking everyone hates me is me reading people and figuring them out so i’m relearning how to actually understand what others feel in my company

No. 1070054

>>1070048
Nobody is saying romanianon's posts are offensive, and being offensive is not the only way to get anonymous board users to hate you or be annoyed with you. It's mainly with how annoying and spergy you are, and romanianon is both. She says she hates the pity users have shown her, yet she has a massive victim complex (as a result of her trauma, I know). She needs psychiatric help obviously, but she's easy for anons to dislike.

No. 1070056

>>1070048
>hating on (fake) radfems or ranting about how miserable your life is
Anons keep trying to reduce Romanianon's posts down to this, but you know it wasn't just that. Anyway, Romanianon sounds like a retard too. Like it has been said multiple times, she makes way more posts way more than (c)rap-chan. Also, Romanian anon's posts have been going before the Steven stuff even happened, so she's been doing this longer than (c)rap-chan iirc.

No. 1070057

>>1070056
tbh crapchan has been posting since around the same period and even admitted herself. I remember when she used to make posts about hating black men and being half black lol

No. 1070063

>>1070057
You're right actually, I remember seeing posts that I now think sounded like (c)rap-chan (it was in the vent thread, actually), but I didn't want to assume it was her.

No. 1070111

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I keep seeing posts on Tumblr about Ukraine that are so out of touch and self-centered. Even the ones that have a slightly better message like picrel still can’t help but say “WHAT ABOUT ME?” It’s especially annoying when people are like “my little brother turns 18 in 4 months I can’t stop crying” bitch what? People are dying or living in fear of dying like right the fuck now. Is it impossible for you think of anyone besides yourself, your “friends,” your little brother - who lives in fucking rural Ohio by the way?

No. 1070121

>>1070111
These people just want to post i stand with ukraine and act like they’re doing something different

No. 1070127

>>1070056
>Anons keep trying to reduce Romanianon's posts down to this, but you know it wasn't just that
This

No. 1070143

>>1070111
>tw swearing

No. 1070153

>>1070056
What did the deleted posts say?

No. 1070159

>>1070127
I agree. Most of her posts aren't dunking on internally misogynistic radfems and how they mock women but instead, her mocking women for being camwhores, stealing her personality, etc.

No. 1070165

>>1070153
Which posts?

No. 1070168

Are these mysterious anons real people or have they been born out of a group-delusion that post you dislike on this site is from the same person?

No. 1070176

>>1070165
These ones, I saw anons replying to them ITT
>>1069870
>>1069878
>>1069837

No. 1070185

>>1070168
you can kinda tell by the typing style? and romania anon and (c)rap anon have both been recognized in other threads and admitted it was them. unless it's some weird moid who's larping as the same insane woman on here but that would be kind of pointless on an anomymous site

>>1069977
she's actually pretty based except for the murder stuff

No. 1070189

>>1070168
They've both admitted to being those anons.

No. 1070200

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>>1070168
Do are these anons in the room with us right now?

No. 1070224

>>1070185
whats the based part? refusing to expose the man that groomed her so he could fuck off and groom other women on lc? being flagrantly misogynistic despite being a ~radical feminist~? inventing histrionic tales of abuse that change every time? or attacking even people who express geniune concern for her?

No. 1070244

>>1070224
NTA, but she did expose him. That's how we found out his name, who he was and that he's been here for a while trying to groom anons

No. 1070256

>>1070224
Based. You know she despises the sex workers that earn more than her more than the men that groomed all of those girls and take huge cuts from their paychecks. She never talks about getting revenge from or exposing the grooming rings which she seems to be aware of when planning her manifesto or murder spree. Also speaking from the anon that compiled her posts, she actually doxxed an Ukrainian(?) camworker's identity which means romanianon probably made that girl into a target for harassment. Such radfem of her to expose a groomed mentally unwell woman just because she earnt more. Also she says she never got naked but there literally is a picture of her performing naked leaked on here.

No. 1070271

>>1069270
I followed through this morning and it's probably just my imagination but I feel better already

No. 1070279

I hate driving

No. 1070287

>>1069110
So glad you got shat on for this retardation

No. 1070289

>>1070256
She said that the girl she posted is involved with an old pimp and that she self admits to the mental hospital to groom girls for her boyfriend's camming studio. I don't see the problem with posting someone like that if what romanianon is saying is indeed is true about the girl. I looked at that girl and she definitely strikes me as someone that would hurt other women.

No. 1070297

I wish putin would just nuke everything already so i can finally die im sick of waiting

No. 1070302

>>1070297
girl same

No. 1070310

>>1070289
Who cares. Romanianon is annoying as fuck and it’s best to ignore her so she shuts up and stops narc raging on lolcow.

No. 1070332

>>1069845
I can't wait until mods/admin makes a cow out of her

No. 1070339

>>1070003
>>1070048
She's such as massive hypocrite though that it's hard to take her opinions seriously.

No. 1070343

I hate my life do fucking much. Nothing fucking works. Therapy doesn't work. Mood stabilizers don't work. My life is fucking shit and I'll be surprised if I make it to 50.

No. 1070344

>>1070289
she literally just made that shit up because she is jealous and thinks that girl stole her camwhore gimmick

No. 1070345

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This shit disgusts me

No. 1070346

I hate my mother so much and I hate so much that I have to fucking provide for that unreliable bitch that never made any sensible decision in her fucking life.
It sucks that my main motivation to get more money and grow in my career is to have the ability to rent a place far away as fuck from me for her to stay with her noisy dogs.
Fuck you mom, fucking womanchild.

No. 1070350

>>1070345
Linkedin as a whole is such a shitshow but I didn't expect to see something this stupid. I hope it's an edit.

No. 1070352

>>1070345
I'm convinced that this is another made up /pol/ image.

No. 1070367

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>>1070352
sometimes life imitates art https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/activity:6903016572370460672
poltards are probably busy fantasizing about prostituted ukrainian women

No. 1070400

>>1070367
>serious situation is going on but there hasn't been a literal series of murder just yet
>social media: time to joke about it because le meme funny xDDDD11!1
>social media 2 minutes later: I-I didn't mean it, I wasn't educated enough yet, I'm sowwy uwu
As usual.

No. 1070581

i wish nonnies wouldn’t spam the euro thread with memes. people are trying to have a discussion and it just feels disrespectful.

No. 1070601

The dogboy meme is getting overused nonnies leave it in the bunker days so it doesn’t lose its legacy and we don’t forget the joy it has given us

No. 1070636

>>1069325
The only thing you can do is try keeping communication open and stay hopeful she realizes it's a cult. As for your brother, just remind him you're there for him. You don't need to talk/text everyday. I send my brother pictures of my silly cat every once and awhile. Try to keep hope.

No. 1070693

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My sister (16) just told me I’m too old (30) to be wearing combat boots, what if she’s right? Picrel is what they look like

No. 1070695

Just saw a dead human hand cut with tendons exposed being poked and grabbed with pliers on YouTube shorts… No warning, age barrier, etc., anyone can stumble upon this from a cute dog video or retarded meme short. Reported that shit so fast

No. 1070696

>>1070693
Tell her she is fat

No. 1070701

>>1070693
I don't think 30 is too old for combat boots. But picrel looks like cheap quality and 30 is too old too settle for super cheapie shit imo.

No. 1070706

>>1070693
>what if she’s right?
Nah. Edgy teens who wear combat boots don't even look that cool most of the time. You can be an adult and still wear them, with other less shitty styles.
>Picrel is what they look like
kinda shitty tbh but that's just my preference. I'd rather wear something a bit shorter and closer to actual military boots. But that's just me

No. 1070707

>>1070695
There's literal bestiality porn on private/unlisted YouTube playlists. I hate the kind of shit that can be put on that site.

No. 1070717

>>1070695
>>1070707
it's too bad youtube doesn't care about these things and care more about wrongthink videos. there are channels with baby monkeys being brutally tortured and other animal abuse that they could give less of a shit about.

No. 1070722

All the music (mostly metal) I listened to as a teenager is so sexist, I wanted to hear it again for nostalgia's sake and I can't listen to it anymore. I used to not care about misogyny but it just feels gross now, the idea that men get off to the idea of mutilating women and it's totally normal and accepted.

No. 1070739

>>1070722
I agree. So much of death metal is incredibly misogynistic, it's the main subgenre that contains lyrics about mutilating and raping women, but it's justified as "ironic", "satirical", "only for shock value", or "a way to let out negative feelings". You rarely hear that in other subgenres as far as I'm aware.

No. 1070740

>>1070722
Me too anon, I used to love brand new but after the news of sexual grooming came out I can't listen to some of the songs anymore.

No. 1070742

i wish my parents took me to the optometrist when i was younger. i developed strabismus from poor vision when i was in middle school and though it’s treatable i’m only gonna get it looked it now and i can’t imagine it’s as effective treating it now than like ten years ago. the last optometrist i saw was so fucking incompetent he told me my eyes are both delayed and i should just try eyedrops. i literally can’t read anything without an eye closed even with glasses/contacts on and even then it gives me a headache. i’ve had friends and coworkers point it out and it’s embarrassing.

No. 1070768

I fucking hate how people are using pop culture to talk about a literal war. No, you're capeshit heroes are literally fiction. Who the hell cares about what Captain American (or any superhero/comic hero) would think or do. He's fucking fiction. Pop culture is cancerous. What the hell is wrong with people? Do they think war works like in Star Wars and comic books? I'm at a loss for words. How brain dead can you be to not differentiate real life from fiction?

No. 1070775

I got a new job that I really like but in the beginning I had like 0 shifts and I vented about it here. Well I probably shouldn't have as now I'm working my ass off, I haven't had a day off in over 7 days and the job is starting to feel like a chore because of it. I have no free time unless I wake up earlier/go to bed later because my shifts can be 10 hours long and it takes me a solid 50 minutes to commute to work one way. Send help.

No. 1070786

>>1070722
Would you be interested in a metal song about killing rapists?

No. 1070802

>“You look stressed. Are you stressed? Are you angry at me?”
>“No I’m just tired”
>“Well if you’re just tired you could at least look happy”

Did you really think saying that was going to work out in your favor?

No. 1070808

>>1070344
she wrote extensive posts on sex trafficking rings from Eastern Europe that run as camming studios and how some women there become pimps themselves. If anything she put herself in danger by doxxing someone that could hurt her like she did with Steven. The camwhore thread is stupid either way, who cares about some anorexic American woman called pumpy that does literally not do anything out of the ordinary. It's funny that you're all calling her a vendetta fag when she explains how in Eastern Europe a lot of women become pimps under studios. Romanianon was also groomed but she did not become a pimp. If what she is posting about that girl is true, then she deserves to be posted if Pumpy and Charlotte charms deserve to be posted in that thread, then why doesn't a woman that apparently grooms young and vulnerable girls from the mental hospital not be posted. It also appears that romanianon knows that woman personally. She didn't lie about Steven, so I don't get why she would lie about her. It strikes me as very mysoginistic to say a woman trying to expose an actual groomer is jealous just because the said groomer makes money from sex work. I watched that girl, she's very odd indeed. She kept mentioning "her father" repeatedly to an audience of 400 simps on a porn website. In her post, romanianon says that the girl is involved with an Eastern European camming studio trafficking ring and self admits to the mental hospital to groom girls and that she works under a pimp. I don't see why you would continously talk about "your father" on a pornsite in front of men that you give sexual services to unless "your father" is actually the pimp you work for. If romanianon was a sex trafficking victim and she quit the industry after she realized and didn't proceed to hurt other women, I don't see why I should have sympathy for a woman that is actually grooming young mentally ill girls out of the mental hospital. It's insane to me how you're attacking romanianon calling her jealous over exposing a groomer. If you read romanianon's posts she says she was always poor, that she was homeless at one point and tried committing suicide which landed her in the Romanian mental hospital where she was groomed by another woman into working at a camming studio. From her posts it appears like she didn't want to work that and she said it's something that she used to do. Her story is very sad and all of the details of her story add up but she has so many posts.

What romanianon said about Steven was true, so I assume that what she says about that girl must be true as well. She spilled a lot of things about sex trafficking in Eastern Europe in her posts and it's really sad everyone looks past that while so many anons claim to feel bad for sex trafficking victims or for groomed girls. The Ukrainian woman she posted is very strange. I wish that romanianon would quit this place because it's very obvious most people on here don't care about her being a sex trafficking victim, or her trying to expose the industry of Eastern Europe while putting herself in danger. I thought these arguments were really stupid, you're literally calling her jealous over a possible BPD groomer. If she really wanted to do SW I think she would have found a way around it. From her posts it seems like she was groomed into, coerced into it by external circumstances and it wasn't what she truly wanted to do which is very dramatic. If she really wanted to be a camgirl/SW I think she would have just continued it. Romanianon quit the industry and did not continue working in a camming studio and did not groom girls, so why should she have sympathy for a woman that sexually trafficks other women? That girl is not like the average pro sex work American woman that tweets about sw it seems that the woman she posted is actually strange and everything romanian posted about her added up after I watched her.

No. 1070810

I've started browsing LC in the regular browser instead of incognito mode (to keep LC out of search history/suggestions when I'm around others) to keep the damn Eurofag thread minimized. That thread is so depressing I no longer want to read it.

No. 1070820

>>1070808
Make the thread yourself then you lazy Romanian whore. We aren’t your fucking attack dogs.

No. 1070824

>>1070820
You're so fucking stupid. Learn how to read you stupid fucking cunt. She posted a camwhore barely 18 year old girl groomer in the camwhore thread and my post doesn't mention anything about creating a new thread. This website is not interested in discussing actually problematic individuals. This website is just vendetta fagging. The camwhore thread is exclusively vendetta fagging towards Pumpy which doesn't do anything evil or bad at all, not even milky. I am starting to believe this place's userbase is negative in IQ because then I don't see why you would talk about making a thread when my post does not even imply that

No. 1070828

>>1070824
You keep banging on and on about this girl and nobody except you cares. Why don’t you fuck off and get a life if we are all so annoying and dumb and terrible? If you’re not interested in the content here you can always roam the streets of Romania looking for some kids to diddle. It’s what you do best.

No. 1070829

>>1070824
>doesn't do anything evil or bad at all
So? Neither of those are prerequisites for being gossiped about on here.
This is a gossip website, not a website for "discussing problematic individuals", that would be twitter

No. 1070831

>>1070829
I’ll tell you who’s problematic and evil. Romanianon. Cat killing kiddy fiddling narc who’s jealous of more successful camwhores.

No. 1070839

>>1070824
Report the abusers to actual authorities instead of spamming them on gossip forums. You're the stupid one considering how shit your life has gone to that you spent hours posting some dumb whore who no one cares about.

No. 1070841

>>1070831
you know none of that Is true. You're fucking insane. You're calling me jealous of other camwhores because I am exposing female pimps. There are millions of camwhores and sex workers out there that I could be "jealous" over. You're also calling me a pedophile for being sexually abused at 8 years old. You're fucking sociopathic and you are most likely actually miserable. How can you tell me I am jealous over someone that grooms mentally ill vulnerable women at the age of 25 years old?

No. 1070842

>>1070841
KEKKK thanks for the confirmation that you have been pathetically whiteknighting yourself pretending to be someone else.

No. 1070844

>>1070839
I did! What do you think the "authorities" do in corrupt Eastern European countries towards sex trafficking rings? Absolutely nothing. I tried talking about someone that does something actually evil towards women. Faking mental illness and self admitting to the mental hospital to groom young women for your "daddy's" money empire is fucking ville. Way more ville than Pumpy being an anorexic or Charlotte Charms destroying herself. You're very obviously cut off from the real world.

No. 1070846

>>1070842
Even the most mentally unstable anon on this site wouldn't defend this girl. Kek of course she was samefagging and wking.
>>1070841
You're jealous, even you admitted she made more and that's why you're jealous. If you want action taken report it to authorities, gossiping or writing manifestos on imageboards do nothing.

No. 1070847

>>1070844
You'd have more luck on reddit with exposing a female pimp. Why not take it there if you want to try to expose her.

No. 1070849

>>1063620
>>1070844
What proof do you have that she’s trafficking? You’re just making shit up like the attention seeking, low iq sociopath that you are. You’re the one that should be in prison for molesting children.

No. 1070852

>>1070846
you're jealous of a female pimp that lives with a 55 year old man and licks milk out of a bowl naked yea sure like I couldn't have done that too kek. You're just coping calling me jealous because you dislike me.
>>1070849
I was 8 years old and I did not molest children. I was sexually abused and I lived in a shithole where everyone would rape each other. Stop.

No. 1070855

>>1070847
>you'd have more luck on a website full of scrotes that love jerking off to any woman. Not on a website which discourse centers around sex trafficking.

No. 1070856

>>1070855
Yes, exactly. Retard.

No. 1070857

>>1070852
You really think you’re justified in hurting innocent people just because you where hurt. You’re a disgusting person. Nobody pities you and you are responsible for molesting other children that where probably younger and weaker than yourself. You act like drinking milk out of a dog bowl is equally disgusting as literally fiddling little kids. Because you’re an eternal victim in your mind and everything you do is justified. Everyone else is bad, but never you. You’re scum.

No. 1070861

>>1070855
Our discourse doesn’t centre around trafficking you fucking retard. Also if she is really trafficking post proof. Guarantee there is none and you just expect us to be your attack dogs like you did with scroteven, even though it’s your fault he was here in the first place.

No. 1070864

>>1070852
Remember a few weeks ago you where threatening to kill your cat, just so anons would reply and beg you not to? Yeah, you’re foul. You belong in the gutter. I pity anyone who knows you in real life.

No. 1070865

>>1070857
what you're saying makes no sense. I was a child being raped by an adult continously. You don't understand extreme poverty in the third world and how societies can function. I was sexually molested by younger children too. It was something normalized where I lived. I am not actually doing immoral acts now like grooming women for my 55 year old pimp

>>1070861
I posted proof but there's no point in actually trying to do anything good. There's no place to expose sex trafficking and nobody cares about it and you're gonna attack and twist anything I say against me. Steven has been around here for years and he would have stayed if I didn't sacrifice myself. doesn't centre what about learning english? I'm convinced most of you also lack reading comprehrension or common sense.

No. 1070866

>>1070864
maybe because humanity has brought me to a state of complete dehumanization after I have tried to do only good things? For some reason. Maybe it's time to completely quit the internet as everyone seems to be a sociopath and it rubs off on me. I would never actually do that.

No. 1070868

>>1070865
>he would have stayed if I didn’t sacrifice myself
Narcissist. You didn’t sacrifice shit. You do nothing but narc sperging and you think you’re some sort of hero for it. You are extremely retarded
>Romania is the 3rd world
No it isn’t. Exaggerating for sympathy. Proves that everything else you say is most likely an exaggerated lie

No. 1070870

>>1070865
That's proper British English spelling ya twat

No. 1070871

>>1070866
At what point did you do good things? You spent your childhood fiddling other kids, and you spend your adulthood whoring yourself out online and raging at people on an image board. You’re so angry at men yet your rage is focused on “first world women” which shows that all of your rage is motivated by jealousy. What good have you ever done in your fucking life? None.

No. 1070874

>>1070865
>doesn't centre what about learning english?
top tier retard

No. 1070876

>>1070868
you're stupid and misinformed. Romania has villages over villages of people that don't know how to read or write, where there is no morality or justice and I happened to spend my childhood in one of those place
>>1070871
if my rage is focused at first world women then why have I been white knighting Venus Angelic, Luna, Moo simply because they don't do anything evil or out of the ordinary.

No. 1070877

>>1070874
Tbf shes probably bilingual and learnt American English. Probably call you a retard for saying “colour” instead of “color”. She’s just bullheaded and can never be wrong, making her extremely ignorant and judgemental of others yet still praising herself when she does and says the most disgusting things.

No. 1070879

>>1070876
You've been white knighting them because you see yourself in them. You are kind of cowish. You should delete your socials just in case there are any anons annoyed enough with you to find them (idk the situation).

No. 1070880

>>1070879
She already deleted them because Steven the scrote revealed her as a kiddy fiddler and posted their discord convo where she admits to it.

No. 1070881

>>1070879
I've been white knighting them because compared to the average internet user they don't do anything bad or out of the ordinary and if anything some of them are actual victims like Venus Angelic. They are not doing actually immoral acts. If I hate western women then why do I have empathy for many of them?

No. 1070882

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I went to make a post in the J-Music thread to drop some more proof that Miyavi stole several ideas from me since 2020, but the thread is somehow suddenly gone.

I figured out it was Richard Frias impersonating Miyavi to troll his fanbase for ideas during Covid, then absorb the most loyal and creative ones to Miyavi's staff. I, myself, was cut out bc I'm not medically able to go on tour, which I explained, and as well I'm not s model, photog, artist or anything thst would justify an otherwise broke nobody being on stage with Miyavi.

When I started seeing my shit like the Miyavi sake and hair wax (2 of my 6+ ideas) I contacted the Hangouts Miyavi account asking wtf. I was promised over a dozen times since mid 2021 to be cut in, but only if I acted like a manic little alt weeb fangirl eager to suck his cock, which as a 30 year old woman I am not.

Cue tonight, I message him to tell him I figured out it was Richard and Yuki, that I've reached out to Google abt my missing chat logs, and that I plan to make a video aboit all this shit. I have screenshots of literally everything, but legally speaking I need the original chatlog to prove my case and get paid. So far all I can prove is that I was connected by at least Richard, despite back in 2020 I did do a breif video call with actual Miyavi where he said my name and spoke to me, before later coming back and having some random black guy claim it was him the entire time. He panicked and asked for my cashapp and another videocall, but I said no. And now the thread I originally posted this in when I started noticing it is gone. I bet Kiki and Dakota wish they knew how that happened.

I literally can't believe this is real life. An Asian girl 5 years younger than me is wearing my skin to get close to a Jrocker I listened to since I was 11, who turned out to be a disgusting egotist, all bc he liked me so much he wanted to make me a groupie but I said no so she hopped into the role. She must need new selfies to copy too, bc "Miyavi"/Richard kept begging me for new selfies and a videocall in order to pay me.

Protip: if you think the nobody scrotes that get posted about here are entitled coomer assholes, I'm here to say they pale in comparison.

No. 1070884

Nonnies, I'm tired of being psychotic. No matter how normal I feel after a while I start slipping back into delusional thinking..I'm sick of being paranoid, I'm sick of the brain fog and I'm sick of pretending that everything is normal when it feels like my world is ending. I want to just rest.

No. 1070888

>>1070881
Why didn’t you have empathy for the children you molested or the animals you killed?

No. 1070889

>>1070884
What age are you? I was psychotic, probably the worst was 23-26, but at 30 i'm quite stable so long as I don't get in a relationship.

No. 1070894

>>1070888
because I was completely uneducated in a place where everyone would kill animals and molest each other. I was molested too and yet nobody cared. You don't understand the effects and conditioning of your environment. I was 8 years old in a fucked up environment where everyone around me would molest one another and I only saw brutality displayed in front of me constantly. Why can't you have empathy now in adulthood for someone in an extremely abusive environment? For a literal child.

No. 1070901

>>1070894
Bitch get off lolcow and find god

No. 1070904

>>1070882
Holy shit, anon. This seems like a nightmare, I'm sorry. I hope they run you your fucking money, or at least that this shit stops. Getting put on blast should be a deterrent if they refuse to be decent. So funny how an industry that thrives on creativity is so lacking in it that it steals from fans

No. 1070905

>>1070894
You’re not a child anymore, you’re a whinging, self pitying adult. You think you’re the only one here who was sexually abused? Grew up in poverty? You’re not. You’re the only one who molested children because of it. You could at least have the decency to feel shame about it but you think you have every right to hurt others just because you where hurt. You see people as objects to vent your rage and frustration and you see yourself as someone who can do no wrong. You are the most insufferable BPD whore on this site.

No. 1070908

>>1070824
romania, you literally call them whores in the camwhore thread, like, with obvious negative connotation. you go back and forth on the "whore" wording and claim no one should use it on this site, but you are one of the most frequent users of it (negatively)

No. 1070910

Why are you all even engaging in discussion with her, you know neither side will come to agreement with the other. Leave it be.

No. 1070911

>>1070889
I'm 20, started experiencing symptoms at 15 and was diagnosed with a delusional disorder at 17. I'm at my worst when I'm forced to be alone, even just having to be alone for 2 hours in-between lectures and tutorials has me close to losing it. I've heard it gets better with age and I'm hoping that it does, keeping myself together and having to act normal is exhausting.

No. 1070916

>>1070904
He blocked me so I doubt it unless I can generate enough buzz about it. Everywhere I try to talk about it though, I get censored or everything gets deleted, and I don't wanna hijack a thread over it.

Yoshiki is somehow involved too, I'm talking with a Russian girl on IG who runs an account claiming a girl killed herself after talking with a Yoshiki account, and discovering that the Baccarat glass collab thing he just did was disclosed to her before it was announced anywhere else.

I think during Covid, when JP artists were struggling with their overseas markets hardest that some staff members began impersonating them to mine the fans for ideas, and reward the obedient, obsessive ones with the groupie experience or primises of a relationship/friendship. Idk how else to explain where Miyavi's 3 random nobodies came from, why they were/are there, or how they could all 3 afford new homes in LA after a pandemic with no steady work history just for goin on tour with Miyavi dressed like me.

I have so, sooo goddamn many screenshots, y'all. I just dunno where to put them. I made collages of my selfies against Yuki's oics since June 2020 and my family could barely tell which ones were her or me through all her filters and makeup. Jokes on her, I'm 30 and there wasn't ever a drop of makeup ony face in any of my selfies, hoe literally did her eye makeup for 2 years to mimic my eyelid discoloration and then went and got permanent makeup done on her lips to match them to my natural shade.

No. 1070917

>>1070910
Who might you be replying to, anon?

No. 1070926

I feel like i'm legit, in the most literal sense, stupid. Like I can absorb and regurgitate information, I got my masters etc, but in terms of like, "getting it", I feel like I don't and I don't even realise it until much later.

Like with pokemon when I was a kid. I loved it, I had the poster and memorised all 150 pokemon, but I completely missed the whole one type is weak against the other, I suppose the basic mechanics of the actual game? I was about 15 when I realised I didn't have to cut my right toenails using my left hand, like you do with your hand nails. It was honestly like a revelation slowly transferring the clippers to my right hand kek.

And fucking forget about social dynamics and power plays in high school, I just assumed everyone except my friends were trying to catch me out and make fun of me, and with my friends I took everything they said at face value, only realising literally a decade later that they were sometimes deceptive. I think I'd basically be able to navigate that social landscape now but obviously people in my environment now are MORE socially advanced and i'm still behind. And like, for very obvious formulaic jokes I will not get it for longer than average. Like if I say "let's pretend this doesn't exist" and they reply "that what doesn't exist?" and i'm like "the thing we were just talking about duh…oh haha OK". You know?

Also, I can count the amount of quick comebacks I've made in my life on one hand, and they were always complete accidents eg someone's complaining "ugh you guys never listen to me" and after a few beats of awkward silence and I didn't hear i'm like "…what was that?" and everyone's like "lmao anon that's hilarious" and I feel like a fraud for going along with it.

I suppose the thing that sucks about it is that I don't know that I don't know but i'm aware that I'm probably missing stuff, and I don't really think there's any way to actually get smarter in that sense. Like with the understanding jokes, I only get it within a few seconds because it's such a common response to that statement, but i'm never any quicker on the uptake.

No. 1070934

>>1070916
>>1070904
>>1070882
Oh, and they almost definitely know about LC as well or else Yoshiki, Miyavi and Yuki's posting patterns wouldn't have all changed as soon as I posted their patterns in the J-Music thread.

Soooo… >>1070910 kek?

No. 1070940

>>1070876
I love that when anyone asks Romanianon what achievements and good she's done, she always dodges the question.

No. 1070955

>>1070940
I've helped many homeless women with money although I have been broke my entire life. I have always stood up for the truth. I have helped people with mental illnesses that are too mentally ill and poor to get therapy or medication. I have tried to go against evil people in power positions, although I put myself in danger. Why do I need to justify myself in front of you? Because you think I want to rape children now and you pull this accusation out of your ass because I did something at 8 years old which according to the environment I was living in wasn't even evil. When evil is normalized in a social group it because the "normal". You tell me that I fiddle with children for me being an 8 year old child that was raped on a daily basis and that saw animals being killed in front of her and that would assist to sexual perversions daily, so I ended up replicating my environment. You tell me I am jealous of a female pimp because I was sexually trafficked. I cannot win.

The world is inherently immoral and we are always taking advantage of one another to climb to the top. There is no help for those in truly bad situations. Those with money don't aid those in bad social positions and the medical system is constructed in such way that people with mental illnesses cannot actual access the resources to improve their lives because often times those that are mentally ill are also incredibly poor. We live in a world where we need to become completely dead inside to put up with our daily lives. The misfortune of another is nothing more but an amusement for the average human being.

No. 1070958

>>1070926
are you autistic?

No. 1070961

>>1070916
Store them somewhere for safekeeping, maybe slowly release things to build momentum, and then go into everything in a video. I've never done this before, but your situation reminds me a bit of Zheani's situation with Die Antwoord where they ignored/denied everything until she came out with the receipts

No. 1070962

>>1070880
Is there actual proof of her admitting to hurting kids? Can someone post it? She seems to deny it so much I'm confused.

No. 1070964

>>1070962
I was 8 years old and I made boys take off their pants in front of me because I was raped daily by a 20 year old man and everything I saw around me was sexual and there was no education. Nobody in the village I grew up in knew how to write or read and there was no adult supervisiom. Children would do it anyway, make each other pull their pants in front of one another. I was beaten and mistreated by other children too. They would gang up on me and beat me with stones and put used needles under my skin found in the garbage pile. Nobody rulled that place. We had no running water, no toilets, no education and the government doesn't want to help people in situations like that. When I was 8 I was pulled out in a better environment but I was still abused and I never recieved any mental counseling until I made money for it and now as an adult I am expected to be entirely functional and normal

No. 1070965

Such a big headache
Surprised I have that many neurons left tbh

No. 1070968

>>1070964
Why did you tell this stuff to a scrote on discord though? If you're not proud of what you did and regret your choices and don't like thinking about your past, why do you always broadcast it? Nothing goos is going to come out of you telling people this stuff, if you get doxxed again and someone makes a thread or something about you exposing your identity and broadcasting your dirty laundry, your future will be loyally fucked and you'll never be able to get a decent job. Please leave this site and try to get an actual job so you can move to a better stage in life.

No. 1070970

>>1070958
Hm, I don't know but that question really makes me think. At 30 years old is there any point in trying to get a diagnosis? I feel like high school was the worst of it, and I kidn of feel like if I went to a doctor and said I might have it they'd be like "and?".

If i'm holding down a job maybe it'd be seen as irrelevant.

No. 1070977

>>1070852
>I was 8 years old and I did not molest children
You literally admitted to doing that. Why the fuck are you still here, you have said in December that you will fuck off. Stop fucking baiting. Pretty sure you also suicidebaited for infinite drama points

No. 1070982

>>1070970
It depends on the financial burden and if confirmation will help you understand and accept yourself better. You may be satisfied with reading about it and seeing similarities to your behavior, without pursuing a diagnosis. Check out articles about experience living with autism and getting an adult diagnosis from women! Autistic women usually mask and get by better than men, but it has its emotional toll. Autistic people often have other mental health issues and physical issues like falling asleep or sensory issues, so knowing if you have it will help you deal with them.

No. 1071032

Yes all men. Just… what the fuck is wrong with you all? So -aha- I /had/ this guy friend who I confided in about somthing and I started crying and he held me. Okay. Normal so far. But then like as I’m trying to breath and confront myself I look to the floor because like, duh, face gross. Let me gather myself? But then he like…was trying to look at my face. First I thought he was just checking on me but then he started to do it incessantly!? Liked I turn my face away and he’d try to look from that angle like uh, fucking read my body language I don’t want you looking at my face right now? And …. Well that’s when I noticed the boner…..

He was getting stiff on wanting to see me cry.

No. 1071067

>>1071032
Jfc i was not ready for this post, i feel sick. Imagine going through a vulnerable moment to the point of crying and then you notice your male "friend" getting off to your suffering, i would have throw hands. I'm so sorry anon

No. 1071074

>>1071032
I keep telling women that we can't be friends with men but you don't listen

No. 1071083

>>1071074
Yup. Had a guy friend that never acted like he was interested in me once, and he met my boyfriend and hung out with us all together, but one time we were baked hanging out alone and he tried putting his arm around me. I freaked the fuck out and he tried to frame it as "I'm just a touchy feely guy I like to cuddle my friends durr". I was so shocked and betrayed, cute pollyanna teen me.

No. 1071084

>>1071032
the thing that disgusts me the most is that he was probably trying to make out with you.
>>1071074
unfortunately some people need to learn things the hard way. dealing with men causes so much heartache though, but we can't save some people from their mistakes.

No. 1071085

>>1071032
Holy fuck anon. That's disgusting, and yes, men get off to vulnerable women. Male friends have a habit of pretending they'll never be sexually attracted to you and that they see you as a sister instead until you get too vulnerable around him and it shows…

No. 1071091

>>1071085
not even. even if they see you as a sister they will pounce when they get a chance. my friend's brother did the reverse of what happened to OP. he was being vulnerable and tried to make out with me when we were vaguely trying to console him. they just use any comforting interaction to try to have sex.

No. 1071093

>>1071084
I think the thing we need to understand is men do not talk to women they don't want to fuck. If a man is your friend that's already a sign he wants to fuck.

No. 1071096

>>1071093
yes. exactly! as soon as they have an opportunity they jump for it. even if you reject them they will try to hover around you and change your mind. and they will all betray eachother to try to fuck you then act like it's your fault. bros before hoes is such a fucking cope.

No. 1071101

>>1071032
I've heard men pop boners at a sight of a woman crying because it happens in porn a lot so they get conditioned. Sick bastard, I'm sorry anon.

No. 1071107

my ex friend who plagued my friend group for years is starting to troon out and i couldn't be happier. he caused one of my friends to peak and my other two friends to distance themselves from him. he's a total agp and even my extremely sjw friend thinks he's full of shit. i just want him to cut off his dick so he doesn't breed with his pickme wife.

No. 1071114

>>1071032
Ugh. Talk about a kick while you're down. Sorry that happened.

No. 1071122

>>1071107
who knew having a villanous phantom of the opera troon in your life could have benefits? need to find me a troon adversary to peak my friends

No. 1071140

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i fucking hate how retarded everyone is and how it's all about appearing hot (very important!!) and (other adjective) to other people. it makes me lose faith in humanity because how would you know if someone is genuinely the person they claim to be when everyone invests more energy into giving off a certain vibe than cultivating actual interests? i don't care if people think i'm weird/boring for not being terminally online on social media and for having a "difficult" taste in books (i read what i like, not what makes me appear cool/mysterious/edgy) and a select few hobbies that don't seem to fit together into a coherent aesthetic. at least i genuinely enjoy what i'm doing and i'm not pretending someone i'm not.

no wonder these kids are in therapy and on anti-depressants when they constantly obsess over how strangers "perceive" them.

No. 1071150

>>1070693
I thought 30 was old at 16 too, i actually thought early 20s were old and wise too i don’t think you should take them seriously at that age kek

No. 1071156

>>1071140
God i hate this shit. Everything is a fucking "aesthetic" now, a costume to wear for retarded zoomers.

No. 1071162

>>1070693
I witnessed an 18 y/o unironically call a 22 y/o a boomer (they knew each other's age). Conclusion: teens are retarded.

No. 1071167

>>1071140
>>1071156
we have a zoomer hate thread btw >>1066254

No. 1071169

>>1071140
This is the worst time line. The fake zoomer aesthetics…everything. I work with zoomers and all that care about is surface level stuff but can't hold an actual conversation to save their life. Not to mention how uneducated some of them are. They always ask if you have a tik tok or snap chat. Like no bitch.

No. 1071192

>>1071093
When I was a teen I got the short-lived idea that I wanted to be a nun (not as uncommon in my home country), when that news spread, suddenly every male that used to chat with me or regularly spoke to me through text or phone dropped off the face of the earth.

Males will view you only as a potential insemination event and someone to stroke their ego. There is no genuine friendship to get from them, they don't even comfort their fellow males when theyre falling apart.

No. 1071204

>>1071140
even in previous times, you'd have girl magazines telling you what things will make everyone think you're the coolest girl etc. i don't see how it's their fault, they didn't create this environment, they were born in it. it's not like they coded tiktok or something. i am sure when their brains are actually fully developed at 25+ they'll turn out as barely ok as the previous gens and will rag on gen alpha and reminisce about their own mediocre youth.

No. 1071224

Each day my hate for trannoids grows further. I used to be a TRA and was so blind to just how fetishistic it is. They deny this, but it's the damn truth. I'm looking back on the ones I befriended and I'm seething.
One did not pass even remotely, and when I tried to suggest ways to improve his appearance and the steps to take it, including things covered by insurance, he denied the help each and every time. He just would rather wear nails and makeup and use purses, instead of getting rid of the fucking stubble on his face. When I suggested trying to get Starbucks insurance to get full FFS, he just whined and said that he wouldn't be able to wear nails at the job so it's not worth it. Oh but of course, talked super excitedly about getting a vagina one day. As if that'll just make your fat hairy ass turn into a woman.
Another I used to support is so deep into coomer shit now and I can't believe I once thought it was a valid thing. Since then, no effort to pass, just ugly 100gecs fashion choices and growing out his hair. No plans for passing surgery. Just hornyposts on twitter all day about getting HRT anally and fetishizing female reproduction. These sick fucks want uterus transplants just so they can get off. Not like it's even possible, but imagine being an organ donor and one day your uterus goes to some pervert using it for fetishy eUphOrIa points.

Yeah yeah I know, inb4 why were you friends with scrotes to begin with? Well I've seen the light so don't worry. I'd post this in /2X/ but it's dead as fuck.

No. 1071235

>>1070693
Your sister is a twit.

No. 1071362

>>1070802
I swear they do this obviously aggravating shit to get a reaction to be entertained

No. 1071380

>>1071032
Broke up with my bf 1/2 bc of this (other half was Ed). Nothing blackpills you quicker about men. And he had the nerve to try to lie with "oh it's bc you're close to me".

No. 1071488

Why do i get ignored in group settings but have heartfelt one on one connections and i can talk and feel no shame or judgment but once they pair up with someone else it suddenly comes out i know half of it is probably in my head but it feels so real and scary

No. 1071500

>>1070786
Thank you

No. 1071523

>>1071488
seems like you are their last option anon and they chose to talk to you only when there isn't someone else to talk to them.

No. 1071538

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Holy fuck. I spent this day with my mother and I feel exhausted. It's pretty hard to be with her in the first place because literally everything that leaves her mouth is a complaint (and literally about everything and anything….we went to a fast food place for instance and she complained about the food right in front of the guy serving us that it 'smelled awful' and that 'it barely has any prawns in it'. The rest of the day she was going on about the Ukranian war, and local political stuff, as well as everything being overpriced, her friend being stupid, her other friend wanting to buy the wrong colored couch because she should be thinking in greens instead of greys, yadda yadda').

But what annoyed me the most was that at the end of the day when she, in a tone that she thinks of as tactful, told me that even though the extra weight works for my face really well, I started to develop a bit of a stomach and should start working out. And I guess as a sort of comforting gesture she told me that she works out too.
I cannot. I just can't.

No. 1071543

I’ve been a NEET for so long that I hesitate whenever I go to new places. I know this is the norm for some people but it’s so strange that you’re supposed to go to this place and sign up for a class with these people you don’t have know. I’ve been wanting to do a lot of stuff but I’ve been hesitant due to this. Places just seem strange now.

No. 1071575

>>1070882
>>1070904
>>1070916
>>1070934

In case anyone is actually interested in this, I just @ Miyavi and Yoshiki on Twitter with the hashtag #MYVscam. I'm gonna keep posting tweets until someone takes me seriously.

I honestly can't believe there isn't more interest in this since a while ago I remember seeing posts curious about all the "random" "Nigerian scammer" Jrocker accounts. In hindsight they were probably also staff members trying to see which fans they could manipulate the easiest. Funny how they all but stopped when I started posting abt all this in the JMusic thread as well, huh?

God. If this wasn't LC I'd post those selfie collages sooo fast.

No. 1071577

I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend with my aboosive ex. All dream-me could think of was that while it was really wrong and shitty of me to do it, his dick was bigger and felt better. Even though my current boyfriend is very attentive and makes sure I come before he does, and my ex never bothered or cared if I did because "it's still fun for you, right?" I want to die. Why the hell am I dreaming about this. Kill me.

No. 1071580

>>1071543
I used to be a housebound agoraphobic. I got out of my parents place, have lived alone and functioned on my own for years now but there's still something about walking into a building that's new to me that makes my knees wobble. Never got over that 'brand new place' fear. Walking through a new doorway feels like I'm walking into hell? lol

No. 1071586

>>1071543
I feel similarly about people. After home office, I finally went to the office last week and I was sort of startled by all the people

No. 1071600

>>1071140
sort of related but i stopped reading in public when i'm alone and easily approachable when i realized it only invites unwanted attention. either you have:

-old people commenting on how young people don't read anymore and how nice it is that i read - those are cute, but still… i'm trying to read in peace.
-fucking teenagers laughing because 'only nerds read.'
-men trying to strike up a conversation because they think you are sorely lacking in male attention and only their lefty bro 'wow ur different from other girls haha' attitude can fix this.

years ago i was in a starbucks (for the first time ever kek), after having signed the contract for my dorm room at university, and this guy struck up a conversation and wouldn't leave me alone. i was actually reading one of the books shown in the video. i thought he was just a weirdo but while i was waiting for my bus home, another dude approached me and squatted down next to me to read the book over my shoulder.

i have an e-reader now so people have no idea what the fuck i'm reading and that already robs them of an easy way to approach me. men are fucking pests.

No. 1071603

>>1071140
Frequent use of social media literally breeds narcissism, and it's sad to watch. People only care about how things look these days

No. 1071605

>>1071523
I figured as much it still hurts

No. 1071610

>>1071140
Unrelated but what the hell is that music kek

No. 1071611

the struggle is real. that is all

No. 1071612

>>1071600
I don’t hold a book up in public for that same reason, i always feel like i’m asking for people’s attention and to approach me (something ive been told before)

No. 1071614

>>1071140
Maybe I'm just dumb but I have no idea what any of these books are and wouldn't give a rat's ass about anyone reading them in public

No. 1071617

I've finally "peaked" and I feel no better than racists and bigots who get "red-pilled". I wish I could have kept living in denial but I can't anymore and the rift between me and my friends is growing and growing.

No. 1071621

>>1071617
Unless your friends are troonies themselves, it'll rarely come up in convo. My sister blasts hontra and philosophytroon videos all day and I just tolerate it.

No. 1071623

My stomach has been hurting recently and it's hard to figure out why. Maybe it's the whole wheat bread I've been having or too many veggies… but I'm afraid I'm going to relapse into my ED now because I'm afraid of eating again in case I get ill again. I don't know what to eat because I don't know what's been making me sick.

No. 1071627

>>1071617
Doing good anon, knowledge is power. Soon you'll break away from the "bigot" "racist" sjw blame game too.

No. 1071629

>>1071577
You are disgusting

No. 1071630

>>1071617
i feel you nonna, sometimes i feel no different from a flat-earthers or some anti-vaxx facebook mom and wonder if i'm actually wrong. but then i see news articles about transwo men sexually assaulting girls and women in public restrooms or creeping on women in single sex spaces gone woke and i know it's wrong. it lead me to quitting social media and abandoning almost all my online friends except for a handful of them because seeing a 25 year old NEET woman with dyed hair, they/them pronouns and an anime protagonist name talk about wanting to burn jkr or shouting that TWAW is just too alienating. i tried to peak two friends with they/them pronouns that i knew wouldn't drop and dox me immediately, but it didn't work, they're still they/thems because they just don't see how their behavior affects all women since they are so alienated from their own womanhood and their fellow women.

No. 1071638

ignorance is happiness, I get it now
a fool's paradise is the only paradise for me

No. 1071644

>>1071140
As a zoomer I'm glad to have grown out of this.

No. 1071648

Friends are something that other people and fictional characters have. I'm so far removed from anything like that. I'll never have friends and I certainly won't get any by posting art online and having small pleasant conversations about it. No one really cares about me and it'll never change no matter what I do. I'm too offputting and dumb and there's nothing behind my words

No. 1071676

>>1071629
I didn't enjoy having it but nice bait

No. 1071684

>>1070824
>>1070808
How are you this bad at pretending to not be you?

No. 1071702

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>changed up my diet a bit and is losing some weight and bloat, yay!
>seeing the progress triggered some part of my brain that now gets anxious over the thought of food and eating
>picrel is me @ my shit brain

No. 1071762

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>be productive for 2 days
>be tired from it for the following 2 weeks
my brain is broken

No. 1071775

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My father (39) to me (21) just now: "Don't worry anon, I couldn't stand children when I was your age either, much less wanted any of my own. You'll grow out of it!". My mother basically picreled him before he even realized what he just said kek. I know dad, I know…

No. 1071788

>>1071617
Feel this way too sometimes. I'm not really right or left leaning, but there's days where I feel more part of the "right wing racists". You can want women's rights, but then get ostracized and berated for saying something as simple as "trans shouldn't be in women's sports" or the biological fact of "mtf's can't get periods". You're no better than a nazi in their eyes if you don't agree. I used to be okay with some trans people, but after peaking, you literally can't see them the same way as before, and your eyes are opened to the sinister goals of their ideology. It really is some brainwashing; you're playing along to appease these trannies that just keep moving the goalposts. You have to ignore all facts and believe in their nonsense so as to not hurt their fee-fees and "be a good person".

Troons rarely come up in conversation with normies at least. I learned that libfems, ugly enbies, and trannies are the only ones that really talk about it. Don't miss that crowd at all, they're as problematic and hateful as the "right-wing bigots", just in different ways. The constant pandering and discourse is annoying.

No. 1071789

>>1071762
Me n the nonnies

No. 1071807

>>1071648
Feels that way to me too. People never want to be more than acquaintances. I have somewhat niche interests, but I'm open to talking about almost anything.
It seems that everyone already has their established friends, and there's no way to push through that defense.

No. 1071929

>>1071788
>>1071617
You two should read about the "paradox of tolerance" and how tolerating all the wrong shit literally caused Nazis.

No. 1071940

my now-ex just told me I dress like a "dike", I'm retarded AND autistic, and I'm a stupid mean bitch because I gently suggested he get a part-time job. because he hasn't worked since like 2019, still lives with his mom at 35 and claims to hate it, but won't do anything about it. and thinks that a $60k-per-year WFM job should just fall in his lap after not working for this long with no good explanation for it.

feels good to be done. fuck him.

No. 1071949

Checking on your favourite funny slav youtuber just to see a video called "all is lost"…damn.
I hope he will be okay. Fuck Putin.

No. 1071955

>>1071940
HELL YEAH good on you Nonny

No. 1071960

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/m/…I miss you…

No. 1071963

>>1071949
I honestly feel so bad for both ukranians and russians

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No. 1071977

Another Saturday. Another hatewatch session of Sono SHITsque doll. I wish I was autistic enough to write episode reviews about why each one is trash. I can't tell if the series completely lacks self-awareness or if it's purposely indulging in the most shameless pandering instead of trying to pass it off as "wholesome. Male orientated romcoms will always be subhuman-tier garbage.

No. 1071978

>>1071960
fuck off seal autist

No. 1071981

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>>1071978
Fuck off seal hater.

No. 1071986

>>1071981
seals are fine animals but you are an insufferable sperg and i hope they ban your avatarfag ass

No. 1071987


No. 1071990

>>1071977
I'd absolutely read your autistic reviews.

No. 1071993

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>>1071986
Wrong person, weirdo.
Anyway, I miss /m/. It's a scandal that it's still gone.

No. 1071997

Watched this video, saw a comment about how it was specifically the Danish cookie tin being used all over the world by everyone's family (German, Mexican, Philippines, etc)
It reminded me of one time when it was posted about here on LC, and some anglo American posters chimped out about how brown and black people were "excluding" them by talking about the cookie tin in their cultures (even though even some European people have it in their own, clearly)
I'm not always burgerphobic or anglophobic, but the way some of those particular people get so pissy and racebait over the smallest things is annoying. I'm glad it's just a wholesome intercultural thing outside of those types

No. 1072005

>>1071960
do you ever get tired of being an attention seeker all over this fucking site by posting your stupid shit nobody cares about you dumb retard you've been doing nothing but shitting this site up with your autism while thinking you're doing everyone a huge favor with your retarded sealposting that's just more suicide inducing that anything else i hope seals go extinct just like you dumb retard you're so fucking annoying and useless holy shit tripfagging as a seal lover so that everyone gives you the validation and love you need you probably giggle to yourself that you're some little mini celebrity on this site but you're just so incredibly annoying i hope you hang yourself

No. 1072007

>>1071960
i thought i was done but i am not because i am genuinely sick of seeing your retarded threads and retarded posts all over this site you're literally just another autist on the list don't act like you're so important for knowing how to go to google and search seal pictures. fucking idiot

No. 1072012

>>1071960
actually you're not even an autist because those at least feel socially awkward and cannot get the hint so they don't say or post anything at all. you're just fucking retarded in the head and your sealposting doesn't make it any better. i bet you're fat irl which is why you feel so connected to your seals. kys(calm down)

No. 1072015

>>1072012
Jesus fucking christ, get some therapy.

No. 1072017

>>1072015
nah let her vent

No. 1072019

>>1072012
All this because I posted a seal (I told you I'm not the seal thread starter). Get mental help now.

No. 1072020


No. 1072023

>>1072020
No I still miss /m/. I miss the music threads, the art threads, the game threads, and yes the seal thread was cute.

No. 1072025

>>1072005
>i hope seals go extinct
NTA but extinct yourself first retard, they are good animals

No. 1072028

>>1071960
I love you anon

No. 1072030

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>>1071960
>checking for people who miss the seal thread

No. 1072035

>>1071960
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No. 1072037

My neighbor who lives above me is fat and as soon as he wakes up at 5:30 every morning I can hear him lumbering around all day long, punctuated with what sounds like someone dropping a 10 lb. weight straight onto the floor.
Never living underneath someone again as I can't complain because he's just living his fatty life up there, not doing anything wrong. Sigh

No. 1072045

>>1072019
nayrt but the seal thread op is an unbearably autistic attention whore so don't avatarfag with seals if you don't wanna get lumped in with her hth

No. 1072048

>>1072045
Wait what did she do?

No. 1072052

join my seal anon hater discord everyone
https://discord.gg/kB8XknrT

No. 1072053

Nta seal sperger bur why is a few people post seals avatarfagging when everyone uses cat reaction pics all the time?

I posted a seal earlier just because I thought the pic was cute

No. 1072059

>>1072048
I think anon hates seal anon because anons think that she’s the anon who did a huge lolcow tapestry.

No. 1072062

>>1071617
Same anon I feel like shit at times because of it. I try to find ways that challenge what peaked me but it just sounds like word salad or make believe. I want to go back.

No. 1072063

>>1072060
How?

No. 1072067

>>1070695
I can't count how much gore I saw on yt. They always take time to delete it unlike porn.

No. 1072068

>>1072059
there's at least two haters itt kek. as far as i'm concerned, the lolcow tapestry is cringe but it's mostly bc she's been a nuisance on discord too

No. 1072070

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>>1072059
It's been confirmed it's her.
>>1072063
On her account @sadcats2007 there are seals and she said it's her in one of the threads too.

No. 1072074

>>1072052
Says the invite's invalid/unknown

No. 1072076

>>1072059
>>1072068
Lolcow tapestry?

>>1072074
I joined for a sec then left

No. 1072084

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No. 1072086

>>1071629
nta but it's only a dream, calm down weirdo

No. 1072090

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>>1072070
Holy kek is seal anon a nazi?

No. 1072099

>>1072090
Is she really? I never saw a straight answer for this

No. 1072102

>>1072099
She drew Nazi imagery, anon. I don't know how much clearer it can get.

No. 1072108

>>1072090
You guys mean this specific image is nazi imagery? Where?

No. 1072109

>>1072108
google "black sun"

No. 1072117

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>>1072090
Samefag, I'm still looking through her Instagram and this retard has pictures of herself tagged. Amazing

No. 1072119

>>1072109
Damn, I didn't know about this; thanks

No. 1072120

>>1072117
holy fuck she is ugly

No. 1072123

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>>1072117
I think a surgery would save that severe case of overbite.

No. 1072129

>>1072120
>>1072123
Ehhh even if she is a retard, minor attention whore and a nazi-sympathizer do we really have to drag her that much? LC tapestry is cringe but not ugly, let the girl live, she's probably very lonely and doesn't have any other place to go except lolcow, we're her only friends, farmers

No. 1072130

>>1072129
YES keep defending that nazi girl you rock

No. 1072131

>>1071993
What happened to /m/ and /ot/ anyway?

No. 1072135

>>1072129
>even if she is a retard, minor attention whore and a nazi-sympathizer do we really have to drag her that much?
Anon are you serious?

No. 1072138

>>1072130
Anon, seal-anon is a retard but you’re being unhinged.

No. 1072139

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>>1072129
if you're retarded enough to have your irl face on the same account where you post lolcow shit, you deserve to be dragged
besides she's annoying as shit

No. 1072140

>>1072138
yeah sorry i see the error of my ways now im so unhinged for not supporting this nazi loving cowtipper

No. 1072150

>>1072140
You're so overzealous, just like no-life twitter users; for all we know she's edgy imageboards user who's drawn one edgy image, scrolled through her twitter acc and there's no sign of actual nazi beliefs so I think we really gotta chill on that one

No. 1072151

>>1072140
You don’t have to support her, just don’t be like neetlita and go to the personal cow’s thread to post about her, maybe she could even get her own thread if you find enough milk on her other than “she ugly”.

No. 1072175

>>1072150
nayrt but come on, people are allowed to dislike an autistic poster

No. 1072193

>>1072150
Why do so many anons always excuse the annoying autist lolcow users? Every time there's an annoying personalityfag, the second anons say they're annoying and retarded, other anons will jump in to say "umm yes they are annoying and retarded but stop being mean!" What is this cognitive dissonance? Half of this website is about making fun of autists, so why are the users exempt from this treatment?

No. 1072201

I have zero motivation

No. 1072203

I hope i run into the person i stopped talking to, she’s an awful person but she makes me feel safe and in the loop

No. 1072208

>>1072193
They're defending themselves lol

No. 1072214

>1072053
>everyone uses cat reaction pics all the time
You explained it yourself. Cats are very popular on internet. Meanwhile only a couple of schizos are fixated with seals, which end up revealing their identity when they post something. Also, there's a difference between posting cats from time to time, and posting the same thing in everything single post you make.

No. 1072217

>>1072193
>annoying autist
Not any of those anons but afaik all she ever did was post some fucking seals because she likes those animals. How is that "annoying" or "autistic"? Even if she said she has a autism I haven't seen her act particularly like one.

No. 1072221

>>1072217
she makes it very obvious that it's her posting, basically avatarfagging
there's some discord dramu too

No. 1072226

>>1072221
>there's some discord dramu too
oh ok nevermind then. Discord drama is always bad news

No. 1072227

>>1072217
you gonna ignore the nazi shit or

No. 1072233

>>1072221
Again, just compile everything and post her in the personal cows’ thread, shitting up the vent thread makes you as annoying as romanianon.

No. 1072235

>>1072233
Yeah i never got why she gets posted here

No. 1072236

I wish there was something that eased me just a little bit that isn’t self destructive, I’ve been doing different self help activities for a really long time and nothing stops this horrible anxiety.

No. 1072242

>>1072227
Damn, I guess you're right. She is French too and I know that there are many nazi sympathizers in France

No. 1072258

i know this is an incredibly retarded thing to be jealous about but i cant believe my friend has made more progress in a shitty gacha game in a pair of weeks than i have in two months. i even introduced it to her so we could have something to sperg about together but im being so autistic im frustrated reeee

No. 1072267

>>1072258
I know this isn't relevant to your vent, but the phrase 'pair of weeks' is so adorable and I've never heard anyone use it before, thanks for making my day cuter

No. 1072271

>>1072258
which game?

No. 1072277

>>1072267
Nta but kek

No. 1072279

>>1072267
There are some languages where the word for "couple" (as in "a couple of weeks") is their word for "pair".

No. 1072280

I've been so stupid. I wasted a lot of time on here each time and focused on useless or stupid shit. Same with my fears and thoughts I've been fixating on. I regret negative things I've said, too. I think I'll have to back off for a while or stick to light hearted things. I'm sorry for subjecting anybody to my stupidity, kek.

No. 1072284

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>>1072267
stop ur embarassing me in front of the other nonnies

No. 1072298

I ate hot cheetos and forgot to wash my hands and touched my pussy and now it burns

No. 1072302

>>1072298
in what context did you need to touch your pussy with cheeto fingers?

No. 1072319

I hate my life, I quit my job for no reason and I've been sitting at home smoking week for a month. Now I don't have enough money to move as soon as I was planning to. I know it's my fault but it's like I'm comatose, I just can't convince myself to do anything. it doesn't even feel like any time has passed. Dont' want advice I know what I ought to be doing. Just not doing it.

No. 1072328

Tell me why the fuck my mom keeps blaming my brothers fucking stink on me? This bitch just wants to blame every single inconvenience in her life on me. Like no bitch, have you ever thought that no matter how much you scrub that brat down, he’s still gonna fucking smell like that? Like holy shit she literally hates me so much she doesn’t even want me being near my own fucking BROTHER. Fuck this house, seriously. I wanna fucking die.

No. 1072355

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I don't knowif anyone here knows her, since she is a Dutch spokesperson, but she has featured in international projects. Anyway, I used to kind of admire Eva Vlaardingerbroek, since she is a beautiful Dutch woman who speaks her mind in an intellectual matter and managed to make that her job. Although I thought her points were not always very strong, I was worried to criticise her since others would often claim this was out of jealousy. Now that I don't really care about these things anymore, I decided to revisit her page and see where she is now. Again, I used to take inspiration from her. Watching some of her videos now made me notice how awful she actually is at presenting points and arguing. Her speeches are boring and follow default oratory conventions, her arguments appear as though they've never matured past 2016 talking points and her grasp of her opponent's perspective is superficial. Kissing Tucker Carlson and PragerU's ass should say enough, but I thought she was still somewhat intelligent and educated. Now I see that she doesn't even have that. Usually I would say it is sad for a woman with such potential to waste it the way she does, but I honestly can't even say she has that much potential. She's just an average Dutch woman. Maybe my standards are too high, but she just bores me and her works are flawed. This video alone is so poorly done. I was shocked to discover this is really how she chose to present the topic. She has to know that only neckbeards and tradthot clout chasers take her seriously, right? Them and sexist Dutch magazines who rank women based on their appearance. But it's an icky feminist thing to criticise male porn sickness, and Vlaardingerbroek would never dare offend precious conservative males! Anyway

No. 1072358

>>1072302
I need to know why as well rofl

No. 1072389

my boyfriend booked a trip the same week my university announced what day the graduation ceremony will be on, and his damn trip is the same weekend. didn't even have the audacity to say he would try rescheduling. just a "sorry, haven't seen my friend in a long time and my other friend bought his ticket as well"

i'm not mad, just severely disappointed.

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No. 1072421

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>>1072053
>>1072045
They're just cute animals, I posted a seal with my post originally because it looked sad. That's not avatarfagging.
Seriously some anons need to take their meds.
The actual seal sperg can be identified because she actually spergs facts about seals.

No. 1072423

as of tomorrow i've lost four fucking days of work because of this flooding and me and my partner planned our first holiday/roadtrip in years and the whole road is fucked, we booked flights which is a bummer because i love the three day drive north along the coast and if we can't get to the airport that's so much money wasted and two weeks leave from work and missed pay also fucking wasted

No. 1072424

it’s been over a year since my breakup and it still feels like it was just yesterday. Nothing has changed, im still in my room crying and rotting in bed everyday. I don’t think I’ll ever find another bf again, I’ve become too isolated, anti-social, and depressed to ever try again. I also lost my circle of friends since they were connected to him, Im truly alone.

No. 1072444

>>1072424
I was like they for the first year. It'll be my second year come August and I've very briefly dated two men and I stopped both because I just wasn't feeling it. Give yourself time to grieve but try to focus on personal goals that don't require anyone. A year and a half since the break up I finally made ground on my own goals and now I'm steadily able to make savings every pay day and I'm just focusing on building myself as a person and gaining independence. Take it a day at a time. I've noticed my mood is more stable now I'm out of the ultra depressive state. It's really nice to know my day is not going to randomly get ruined by a partners mood or whatever. I'm also learning what I want out of a relationship so it doesn't feel like I'm missing out. The right person just hasn't come along yet. Treat yourself like a prize cause god knows men are shite at being grateful.

No. 1072447

>>1072221
What was the discord dramu about?

No. 1072455

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coffee doesn't make me sleepy, but i think it might be triggering my restless leg since i usually drink a 2nd or 3rd cup with dinner. it only happens in one leg (right) and it's this really unpleasant, kind of "fizzy" feeling in my calf. i've had this periodically but it always went away after a week or two. now it's been three weeks and it just pisses me off so much. i'm gonna try and cut down on coffee so i'll only have a cup in the morning, but i'm already annoyed. i looove coffee. i also have one of those giant bean grinding coffee machines so i can't easily switch between normal beans and decaf.

No. 1072457

I hate unhealthy food. I hate fast food. I hate white sugar. I hate carbonated drinks. I hate anything deep fried. I hope to never have to be pressured to eat unhealthy food at a social setting again augh I feel like vomiting

No. 1072495

I know women who've been betrayed after 20 years with a guy. I know people who had a really extended honeymoon period and were blissful well beyond the usual time frame but still had the most bitter divorce in the end. I hate when someone I know is a whole year into dating someone and ignores the reality of everyone around them and declares it true forever love that'll never be beat. They've unlocked what everyone around them failed to achieve.. girl no. Look at them and that's your most likely future too. Cross your fingers. You are not a relationship guru all of a sudden. Give it a rest.

I've been there. I married with every expectation we'd be loved up at least long-term. I got 5 years. We're all just taking it day by day. Hope for the best but ffs will you shut up with this patronising 'I found forever love' brag. The worst part is it reminding me of my own naivety at that age. I wasn't obnoxious about it but I needed a lil dose of reality to help break the inevitable fall I had coming.

Come back to earth. Your relationship even started out as an affair. You'll never admit that though.

No. 1072504

So I'm meeting this scrote today that totally acts like he's better than me. We got kind of intimate on his boat last week and he was all over me. I sent him a text with kiss emojis and he got annoyed like I'm not the best thing that has happened to him these past few years. He's 6 yrs older too. Anyway, I'm meeting him today and I'm going to cuck his ass so badly, basically cock block him. He's been left on read multiple times this week and I'm going to wear a corsett and not even kiss him. Any advice on topics to talk about? He hates when I talk about my ex so I'm just going to bring up guys that I'm seeing rn. Fuck this guy, this is the last time he will see me and he doesn't know it. Scrotes are so easily replacable, once a woman shows that she likes you back, dont act all Holier than thou. These scrotes are delusional once they get a taste. No, we did not have sex. Once I leave him he will begin from square one, on to the dating apps and date single mothers your age, ugky scrote.

No. 1072505

>>1072504
cringe LARP

No. 1072506

>>1072504
Personally I'd just ghost him. Wear your corset somewhere else.

No. 1072524

What kind of abuse is it when you intensely enjoy and will go out of your way to see someone being told they’re wrong/that they’ve messed up

No. 1072528

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>>1072505
Boat anon got intimate on

No. 1072535

>>1072504
>6 years older
Assuming this isn't larp, just tell him over text you're meeting a guy your age and need to cancel your date. Tell him he's too old and a bit slow and younger guys are just more exciting/hotter.

No. 1072563

>>1072535
It definitely is larp

No. 1072578

So I've had the hots for my ex ever since we broke up 10 years ago. We stayed friends and in the past few years we've gotten closer and it slowly became really apparent she still has the hots for me too. The sexual tension is thick enough to cut with a knife. However, she's married and has a kid. Yesterday she called me, drunk off her ass, and told me that she and her husband had a conversation about her fucking me and that the husband is totally cool with the idea. I'm technically single (in a situationship) and I've literally masturbated to the thought of this exact situation for years now but now that the opportunity actually presented itself I feel really apprehensive about it. It sounds like a terrible idea that'd destroy not only our friendship but her marriage as well. I'm torn and (sexually) frustrated and I hate everything about this situation. Idk what the fuck am I supposed to do now. I feel weird about ever hanging out with her again, I don't trust either of us to behave ourselves. What the fuck should I do. Send help.

No. 1072589

>>1072578
Your worries are very legitimate in that situation and it can end up really badly especially since she has a child so it's not just a matter of "well, worst case scenario they'll divorce, end of story"; don't go for it anon. I imagine it would be hard for you to completely cut her from your life now (though that would be ideal) but you really need to establish boundaries and keep your distance at all costs and ideally focus on your own sexual life with other people.

No. 1072592

i wish death and suffering on all of you from the bottom of my heart

No. 1072594

>>1072592
Thanks romanianon!

No. 1072596

i cannot believe people have done this to me for merely existing and holding opinion. I cannot believe people tell me I am lying for the atrocious things I went through, yet someone stole my story and is lying about the death of their mother and they get attention and love. I cannot believe my work will never be rewarded and that my stories will never be listened to. This Erath deserves only suffering anf hell for what it has done to me.Only manipulative and lying bitches get to the top In any social situation. I wish to take the entire world down with me for what it has done to me. Most people are evil, truly evil. People care only about themselves. There's no way I can get help or improve my life

No. 1072602

>>1072596
What work? You're a neet and dropout.

No. 1072603

>>1072528
kek

>>1072563
When I see shit larps like this it really reminds me of how scrotes see us as nothing but evil vamps out to get them and being able to step on hearts wearing stilettos as if it was a fun game for us. Of course there's no real threat of getting us fucking murdered by a psycho XY playing games like that first. He's taking out his frustration and justifying his hate for women with this retarded "ugly scrotes are delusional and easily replaceable let me put on my corset and talk about my ex kek based girlboss!!!" fantasy.

No. 1072604

>>1072578
Sounds like her marriage will destruct in time anyway but I'd keep my hands clean and stay away. You don't want any of that weighing on you. Especially with a kid in the middle of it.

No. 1072609

>>1072602
She has helped trillions through discord.

No. 1072611

I wish for nothing but death upon homo sapiens for what humans have done to me. All humans are truly evil, irrational and sensitive bitches. You have to walk on egg shells around them to not offend them and if you slightly offend them by being truthful or having a different opinion they will use their power to crush you, but when something bad happens to me or someone offenfs me I have to eat it up and I am not allowed to have an emotional reaction and if I do I am the one at fault. I am at fault always.

No. 1072615


No. 1072618

>>1072355
No trying to argue or anything, but
>I used to kind of admire Eva Vlaardingerbroek, since she is a beautiful Dutch woman who speaks her mind
>Them and sexist Dutch magazines who rank women based on their appearance.
Uhh…

No. 1072619

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It’s fucking 8 in the morning on a fucking sunday, jfc.

No. 1072620

I wish death upon the entire planet

No. 1072623

>>1072620
Why not just kys?

No. 1072626

>>1072623
Because she's a narc, they never do that because the fault is never their own, just everyone else's.

No. 1072627

>>1072563
Op here, no its not. Ive written about this guy before. He owns a boat, its not that big of a deal in europé. Hes not even that Rich either.

No. 1072629

>>1072589
>>1072604
Thank you nonnies for taking the time to reply. I agree with both of you. I don't want to cut her out of my life because we've known each other for so long and because all of my other friends live kinda far away but I need to establish boundaries. And stop masturbating to the thought of her, hopefully that'll make me less horny for her lmao. It's funny how something you fantasized about for so long can turn out to be a complete nightmare irl.

No. 1072630

I wish death upon everyone that has harassed me, hurt me, misunderstood me. I wish death upon everyone that has raped me, hurt me, used my good intentions, open mindness. You will suffer exactly because I was so eager to learn and express myself and you took away my innocence, you used my suffering for your own gain. You used my extreme suffering and turned it in something about yourself. You are the narcissist, laughing at those who suffer, thinking that you cannot ever be wrong. Most people are narcissists that care exclusively about themselves. The world will collapse under your eyes for what humanity has done to me. I don't need to leave my room to make the entire world suffer

No. 1072636

>>1072630
romani-chan can you please also curse putin while you're at it, I heard he was posting here too

No. 1072639

>>1072627
it's true guys I'm european and own three boats and I also have a carriage that I take to travel from my vineyard in the tuscan countryside to my villa on the cote d'azur (where I keep my boats)

No. 1072641

>>1072627
Guy with a boat is the most believe aspect out of your cringefest post. I refuse to believe the rest of your post isn't some braindead bimbo larp. If real, get help.

No. 1072642

>>1072639
But how many corsets do you own?

No. 1072643

This concert keeps getting pushed back, this is like the third time, but I am a bit happy cause I don’t wanna get poked in the nose for another test.

No. 1072644

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when will /m/ - General Book Thread #2 come return from war

No. 1072649

I don't have to act to make the entire world suffer. It has been proven to me that everything I have to do is simply think when enough hatred has been placed in me.
Homo sapiens is a miserable species. We are constantly using each other. Taking advantage of those that are weaker than us. The human species is a mistake.

>>1072636
No, I am only cursing America. The war is happening because of America either way. America has been creating tensions between them and the Eastern block since before covid. Romania and Ukraine are filled with American military research facilities and America never lets the world know their real political actions, what a big beautiful democracy. America has made Russia declare war. I hate America, it has only caused atrocities, yet it presents itself as the most pristine and democratic nation in the world. America has caused modern marketing, sjws, all modern cancer and it will cause the entire world to collapse. They are planning the most oppressive system that has ever existed. America is the most authoritarian nation that has ever existed. Death upon America.

No. 1072652

I hate how moids into video games and anime are such FAGGOTS. Seriously, look at any of their imageboards or forums no matter what culture they're from it's always full of woman loathing and being a queer obsessed with traps and gay porn. All of these "unorthodox" lifestyles being associated with male homosexuality has made my opinion go down for male homosexuals, to say the very least.

No. 1072653

>>1072649
When America goes down, then europe does too and you might actually be forced to get out of your basement and work.

No. 1072660

>>1072653
no problem. I can easily work when it is in the detriment of improving society and when my work has meaning. Working in American call center or McDonald's is meaningless and brings nothing to society. If anything Im contributing more to society by not having those sort of jobs

No. 1072663

>>1072646
Oh fuck anon you gave to gas up the entire room and get rid of any furniture they might infest, sticky pats don't help. I had the same problem with clothing moths and it took 3 fucking years to get rid of them because of one summer where they were a plague.

No. 1072667

>>1072660
It's not like you get to choose "what brings meaning" to you when you're starving and in a constant state of danger lmao, you will just have to work anything to survive. You know, like actually poor people.

No. 1072671

>>1072660
I wish all of us were as privileged as you that we could afford to only work for some greater meaning and not to survive.

No. 1072674

>>1072649
There's some Americans who hate the state of their country. I hate how my government always conspired against my people and how my fellow Americans act like I'm some invader gypsy group despite me living in this country longer than a lot of them. doesnt mean i should die tho

No. 1072679

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I swear if I don't get this greenhouse job I'm going to blow my top.

No. 1072680

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No. 1072682

I really am majoring in a useless ass degree. Why was young-me this stupid? The field is completely based on research and research in this specific area barely gets funded in our country. What the fuck am I gonna do? I'm in too deep to change now and also, I actually like what I study, it's just, I'm afraid I'll never get work related to my subject that comes with good pay.

No. 1072686

>>1072667
yes but this is exactly what I am saying anon. It shouldn't be like this and Marx is right when he talks about class struggle. If you are born poor all of your dreams are crushed and if you wanna climb to the top you have to do immoral deeds or hurt others. Why are you acting like I'm someone rich? I speak against America exactly because it has created this system in which your dreams can or cannot be achieved according to your social class, yet they make it appear like we all have the same chance

No. 1072689

>>1072627
I'm from Europé too, even know a person who owns a boat and it actually is rare af and expensive af so lmao
>>1072639
kek

No. 1072692

>>1072639
Why is the prince of Monaco posting here now?

No. 1072694

>>1072686
>Why are you acting like I'm someone rich?
Because you have the privilige to sit in your room and shitpost all day, while fantasizing about daddy Marx and shitting on people who are not as fortunate as you and have to work soulcryshing service jobs to survive, who in the same vein finance your cushy shitposting with taxes.

No. 1072712

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>>1072686
But capitalism didn’t originate in the USA, it’s from Europe.

No. 1072722

>>1072660
>if anything I’m contributing more to society by not doing anything
Parasite

No. 1072728

>>1072653
Based post. Coming from somebody who is on disability bux because of my physical disabilities. I’d love to one day be able to work full time like everyone else.

No. 1072782

I hope the moids in my family end up in the darkest depths of hell, i hope they suffer endlessly

No. 1072807

>>1072694
>>1072728
Nta but damn humans do not live long enough and do not have that much value to be boot licking work like this. Must be that some anons mentally handicapped politically conservative which whatever you do you girlboss kek but learn to shut up.

No. 1072813

>>1072807
what the hell are you talking about

No. 1072816

>>1072813
It’s clear where you politically are anon. Stop ripping that bong so hard and read carefully

No. 1072828

>>1072816
Sorry I think leeching of other people who are already at the ground and then shitting on them as if that makes you someone better is pathetic. Not sure what any of that has to do with political left/right bullshit.

No. 1072836

>>1072813
I think she means that you shouldn't put work on a pedestal? (bootlicking work) and that it is not powerful? (girlboss). Don't think anyone disagrees. I don't want to work but I gotta. Being employed sucks, being unemployed also sucks.

No. 1072838

>>1072807
The irony of calling other people mentally handicapped when you refuse to get a job…who funds your parasitic lifestyle?

No. 1072839

That's it I'm waiting a few days and then leaving Europe if the situation escalates. Nonas I am starting to get scared. Not panicking but just very uncertain. Rationally leaving for a while would be the best.

No. 1072840

>>1072839
Hope whatever choice you make works out in your favor. Such a shit timeline.

No. 1072847

>>1072828
I don’t think that other anon was shitting on other people for working for necessity. What they were probably implying is that these jobs and careers that likely ruin the fabric of our society like junk food monopolies should have never existed and the people who are forced to work those jobs out of necessity should be given better and more dignified jobs. It depends whether you find that viewpoint elitist or not tbh and also if you think work should inherently be meaningful/personal or you think should just be a wake up, go to work, and find your meaning outside of it. I agree with anon I think a lot of jobs are bullshit but they are only created to keep rich people afloat, exploiting the desperation of poor people to enter those jobs and have no choice but to stay a lot of the times.

No. 1072848

>>1072839
Where do you plan to go nonna?

No. 1072851

>>1072838
It’s almost like you’re still mad at a screen and refuse to understand or read illiterate-Chan because I’m not that anon lol

No. 1072870

>>1072816
Nta, but you are retarded.

No. 1072871

Why is it that everytime some kind of positive happens to I receive horrible news right after? Did someone curse me at birth?

No. 1072880

>>1072870
No u, take that back

No. 1072882

>>1072848
I have an aunt in USA so I think maybe I'll try to convince my family and go there. It won't be totally safe either if shit goes down but right now we're close to Ukraine.

No. 1072887

>>1072882
I think it really is better if you guys run away from there, it’s seriously dangerous and if nothing were to happen to your country then you will at least have had reunited with your aunt.

No. 1072892

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I have not washed my hair in two weeks. I started my period three days ago and haven’t put on a pad once. I have an extremely heavy flow (like, medically, it’s a problem sometimes) and I’ve just been soaking my pants, blankets, sheets, and bed. I’m not even depressed, I just hate living in a world where people with XY chromosomes exist and it has drained me to this point. I’m a husk. Her smile and optimism: gone

No. 1072900

>>1072892
Mental institution

No. 1072907

>>1072892
Anon go clean yourself and your bed before your mattress starts rotting from the days old blood

No. 1072908

>>1072900
I wonder if she added the fact that she hates men so we pat her on her bloody legs and say “yeah fuck men i also relate to you”. I mean anon doesn’t need to enter a mental institution, she needs a hug and weed.

No. 1072917

>>1072908
no she needs to be locked up who the fuck bleeds into their mattress and sheets for fucking days, I hate men as much as anyone but I know smearing period blood all over my belongings isn’t going to do anything about it. she’s clearly mentally ill as fuck and also nasty

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No. 1072921

Everything in society is based around social class and the outcome of your life is dependent on the social class you were born into. There are people whom are forced to work jobs that they do not want when they could offer something of value to society, but due to financial circumstances those people are stuck somewhere they cannot get out of. People born in bad families in lower middle class or middle class can be forced to work shitty jobs in retail for the rest of their lives. Contributing to empires of things we do not need. Those rich imprison us in society and they lie to us that it's a fair system.

No. 1072924

>>1072918
Don’t forget the lube and menstrual cup.

No. 1072928

>>1072892
I get it's hard but please try to clean yourself nonna, you can get blood poisoning like this and die from it.

No. 1072932

>>1072924
>menstrual cup
Enjoy your prolapse

No. 1072937

>>1072908
the entire point of the post was how much I hate men and how living in a world with them is draining. negative IQ
>>1072928
wait how

No. 1072943

>>1072892
Anon, this can't even be blamed on men at this point…

No. 1072945

>>1072917
imagine being mad about this. you didn’t pay for my sheets anon, and this isn’t a dictatorship where people you don’t like get locked away for it

No. 1072947

>>1072945
Okay have fun sleeping in period blood soaked sheets and enjoy the putrid smell i guess, way to show the males! yass queen!

No. 1072948

>>1072932
Nta, but I wish people would stop saying this about menstrual cups. Yes you can get a prolapse, but only from incorrect removal (bearing down, which you're not supposed to do.).
>>1072937
>wait how
TSS, probably.

No. 1072950

>>1072892
i can relate anon, i free bled into my pants with naught but a folded up piece of toilet paper in my panties all this weekend during a concert. i didnt have anything at my disposal so i just said fuck it. only just got a panty liner in there 3 days after it started.

No. 1072953

>>1072947
thank you honey, enjoy going outside today and interacting with and benefitting men who don’t see you as human
>>1072943
I have absolutely no idea what you mean by this, this is the vent thread not 2X
>>1072948
thanks anon I didn’t know it worked like that, guess I’ll look into it

No. 1072957

>>1072953
>I have absolutely no idea what you mean by this, this is the vent thread not 2X
>I just hate living in a world where people with XY chromosomes exist
???

No. 1072959

>>1072950
absolutely based and I hope you had fun

No. 1072964

>>1072950
when i lived alone and was home for days i'd free bleed too, just into my underwear. gonna wash 'em anyway, whatever. never bled on my furniture.

No. 1072967

>>1072957
if I were attempting to blame them for my chosen actions I would be posting this on 2X. this is the vent thread

No. 1072969

>>1072953
>enjoy going outside today and interacting with and benefitting men who don’t see you as human
I literally haven’t interacted with a male who isn’t my grandfather for years, and I can practice basic hygiene while still hating moids, keep trying to excuse your nastiness.

No. 1072970

>>1072964
this is absolutely disgusting and unsanitary. what if you had STDs?

No. 1072973

>>1072892
>proceeds to detail obvious symptoms of clinical depression
>I’m not even depressed
Anon I mean this in the most sincerest way possible, please get help .

No. 1072974

>>1072964
I have menorrhagia and I had underwear, boxers and pants on. Wish that were me. But based that you did that.

No. 1072981

Gave myself 12hrs to finish two weeks worth of math lessons and homework, one quiz, and my final. It’s my last class before I get my first break from school in a year and my brain has been trying to check out early. Fuck.

No. 1072985

>>1072892
anon no offence but that very much sounds like depression. hope you get help

No. 1073001

>>1072682
Every degree gives you transferable skills. Analyse what skills you are gaining and what you skill you enjoy to do or are good at doing that doesn't cause you stress and suffering and look for jobs that you can apply them. Your education is not a waste anon!

No. 1073007

>>1072969
you don’t have a job or leave the house? you have been in your grandfather’s house solely for years? I have bad news for you, anon… they are everywhere out here! interacting with them is entirely inevitable unless you are employed by a woman who only hires women and don’t go out otherwise.
>>1072970
What are you talking about? She said she lived alone.
>>1072973
>>1072985
I’m truly just jaded. Interacting with men wears on the soul. I feel love for myself and am doing well in college and at my job. The only symptom I can relate to in the list on google is isolation.

No. 1073017

>>1073007
Being so drained that you neglect yourself and can't even perform simple daily tasks like taking care of your hygiene is a classic symptom of depression. I had severe major depression for years and I never even bled all over my mattress on purpose. You're in denial.

No. 1073023

>>1072947
Nta but calm down kek

No. 1073026

>>1072948
>I wish people would stop saying this
Too bad. It's a real risk and I'll say it everywhere.

No. 1073030

>>1073026
Right? If theres a risk of anything i’d rather just not use it

No. 1073031

>>1072892
This is bait and I don't get why anyone fell for this. This sounds like what men think feminists do, not use pads and cover everything in blood and don't wash up like men do when they're depressed.

No. 1073035

>>1073017
Exactly, and I don’t have severe major depression and I do that. It will get stained regardless because of my menorrhagia, I am not going to wake up 3 times a night to change an overnight maxi paired with literal adult diaper. I just don’t care anymore. It doesn’t hurt anyone. I am not saying this with any malice btw, depression anons.

No. 1073036

>>1073031
>only men are capable of neglecting personal hygiene
Lol

No. 1073040

>>1073031
internalized misogyny moment but unironically
imagine caring about falling into a stereotype made by brainless men aiming to silence women advocating for themselves

No. 1073055

>>1072970
What does stds have to do with periods and bleeding? Sounds like the men who are disgusted by periods tbh.

No. 1073056

>>1073035
Anon said she hasn't even bothered to put on a pad. I had a heavy period too while I was depressed but I would at least try not to bleed all over myself during the night, and I could only manage to get myself to shower like once a week.

No. 1073057

>>1073035
>tfw bleeding like a stuck pig and so drained of energy just grab a random towel and shove it between my legs and go back to bed

No. 1073060

>>1073040
>>1073036
I have very heavy periods ig because it gets everywhere even if I forget to change it in a few hours, that's why I thought it was unrealistic for a woman to freebleed onto her bed and clothes and everywhere for 2 days. It'd leak in deep inside her bed and probably stain every piece of furniture too.

No. 1073067

>>1073060
The story is not believable because anon is going to need to piss and go to the bathroom. What type of dirty bitch would then voluntarily go back to sitting on a puddle of blood.

No. 1073072

>>1073057
not sure if you’re saying I should do this or you do this because of the wording but it doesn’t do anything for me unfortunately. it’s like pouring water on a pile of towels, it will just soak to the floor. I wish plastic was more comfy.
>>1073060
Yeah. Just the bed, though. I’m not squatting over the couch for fun, just trying to exist and sleep.
>>1073067
Me! People who use pads are sitting in their own blood again after they pee, too. It doesn’t have any impact on you at all.

No. 1073075

>>1073072
>People who use pads are sitting in their own blood again after they pee
Speak for yourself, I need to change my pad after peeing if I’m bleeding too much, I hate the feeling of moist pads.

No. 1073079

>>1073057
Yeah I have always used a towel whenever my flow felt unmanageable and I was being lazy.
Anon says it won't work for them but…honestly how are they dumping enough blood to soak through a fucking towel and not pass out?
Anon is anemic which contributes to her depressed mood.

No. 1073082

>>1073075
That seems incredibly wasteful, but I piss a lot and drink a lot of water. How do you cope with cold discharge after peeing, do you use panty liners when not on your period?

No. 1073085

>>1073026
I mean sure, but saying "menstrual cups cause prolapses" makes it seem like just using one causes a prolapse. If you cared about informing women of the risks, you could say how those prolapses actually happen.
>>1073030
There's a risk with pretty much every menstrual product, nonna

No. 1073086

>>1073072
>it will just soak to the floor
Cute hyperbole but I live in real life where I don't have gallons of period blood inside me.

No. 1073088

>>1073082
Its not that wasteful

No. 1073091

>>1073085
Hmmm
Tampon risk, if you leave in for way too long, toxic shock. Pad risk, if you wear it too long you could get a yeast infection. Menstrual cup, could cause UTERINE PROLAPSE if you clench the wrong way. Hm, yeah, I think I will take my chances with literally anything else but you do you

No. 1073093

>>1073079
I take iron supplements and am fine, I can still lift weights as much as normal on my period and I eat well. But there was a time when I didn’t treat it and it did cause severe anemia. Luckily I don’t have periods that often, probably every 2 months now. I used to go 9 months without one from time to time. Based towel method anon, I am sorry about the lack of energy though.

No. 1073098

>>1073091
Clenching isn't bearing down. Anyway I'm not telling anyone to use menstrual cups, do whatever you want to do with your body. I've just seen some people say that cups cause prolapses and I wish they would make it clear that that happens in certain circumstances. It's just a little disingenuous.

No. 1073099

>>1073086
do you literally want me to email you a picture of it or something? my parents tried to take me to the ER when it first started because they thought I was dying or having a miscarriage. it’s just severe menorrhagia, anon. just because it doesn’t happen to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen at all.

No. 1073106

>>1073091
>Tampon risk, if you leave in for way too long, toxic shock.
Nta but there's no realistic risk for toxic shock by tampons at all. You've got to leave it in for literal days and even then it's a marginal risk, who's that stupid?

No. 1073120

Why do I look so fat despite being a bmi 21?? Well I KNOW, skinnyfat + most unfortunate fat distribution possible + broad frame but still! Damn it I don't deserve to look this fat. I'm so annoyed. aaaaa

No. 1073121

>>1073082
Just clean yourself up properly, I don’t produce that much discharge anymore, so I don’t use panty liners, I do consider those quite wasteful.

No. 1073146

Eurofag here, I keep dreaming about fucking Russia and Ukraine and I can't stop. I'm so scared there will be an actual WW3

No. 1073167

>>1073146
Bc it is, I had a dream about it at the end of last year

No. 1073176

>>1073146
i keep dreaming about fucking russia also i thought i was the only one

No. 1073206

>>1073146
>>1073176
Are we taking about hetalia

No. 1073209

>>1073146
I stopped reading the news, minimized the eurofag thread here and blocked/avoid other channels of war news. I suggest you do the same.

No. 1073230

I'm scared of befriending girls because of bad experiences I had. I know it's truly retarded but I suck at romantic relationships with men and I always get accused of being a lesbian or a weirdo when my girl friends bring up guys. I also live in a Muslim country where gay men are accepted while most women hate lesbians. I used to be bullied quite badly in middle school after I turned down a popular guy and every girl mocked me for being a lesbian. Still to this day, I get very anxious when my female friends bring up guys. I don't know what to do and I don't want to date anyone right now because I've had other stuff that keep me busy enough.

No. 1073275

Currently pregnant at 11 weeks and extremely sensitive to smells and certain things make me nauseous. I told my fiancé that the smell of his coffee makes me nauseous and he said "stop complaining about it, what am I supposed to do? not drink coffe?" BRO I HAVENT HAD CAFFEIN IN 11 WEEKS! DON'T YOU THINK I WOULD LIKE TO DRINK A HUGE CAN OF MONSTER ZERO RIGHT NOW?! But I fucking can't so you could at least be fucking polite to me and not drink your stinky ass coffe. Maybe I should just vomit on him.

No. 1073291

>>1073275
You should shit on his pillow to be honest. Men should be tending to and obeying their pregnant wives like slaves in my opinion. I'm sorry, anon.

No. 1073315

>>1073275
Ass. A supportive partner/husband should be abstaining from whatever a woman has to abstain from during her pregnancy to show his support. You're already doing all of the heavy work.

No. 1073322

>>1073275
This is a golden opportunity presenting itself to you. You still have time to make whatever decision you want right now. It is clear that he is selfish and will not properly help you in the future. Not only is he not willing to accommodate you like you are doing for him and your fetus, he is also demeaning you for communicating how you feel. Leave and build your own path, either with a baby or without, depending on what you would like to do. Please don’t wait any longer, anon. This is very important.

No. 1073328

>>1073230
Similar experiences anon, I feel for you

No. 1073336

I deleted my vent but I'll post it again, that there are maggots on my ceiling.

Technically larvae because they're from pantry moths, but one fell from the ceiling onto my bed. I hate it and i'm not dirty, my place isn't dirty because it's small and pretty empty (but an old old house) but you come to someone's apartment and there are maggot things on the ceiling you're going to think what a dirty bitch.

I've cleaned the pantry and disinfected and thrown away any open food containers but theyre still coming fuckkk.

No. 1073365

>>1073057
>>1072964
I stopped using pads or tampons completely and just shove a rag down my pants, hated the feeling of sweaty foul smelling plastic and yeast infections and rashes. Should probbaly get some cloth pads but I'm lazy and cheap and rags work fine so meh.

I also have a retroverted uterus so the blood doesn't drip out unless I bear down or squat/sit down so that helps ig. So I also sometimes freebleed when I'm at home and can go to the toilet as I wish.

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I hope that my manchild 33 year old sexually frustrated incel of a manager gets his fingers chopped off soon honestly I am so sick and tired of his passive aggressive self-entitled shit every week because he's still salty that a year later I won't suck his dick or be his girlfriend and instead he tries to shit on my relationship for being long distance while that's hilarious to me because his longterm ex dumped his ass after he constantly tried to cheat on her with big titty ladies from other countries he'd never met, why are some straight cis men such wet flannels? bitch

No. 1073375

>>1073328
Thank you anon. Feels good to know I'm not the only one struggling

No. 1073380

>>1073371
>some straight cis men
Girl it's all men.

No. 1073392

>>1073380

Yeah nonny actually I take it back all men are fucking garbage outside of the ones I know who aren't straight or fully straight, fuck them

No. 1073396

>>1073336
Their lifecycle is short anon dw, once you remove their food source it still needs to finish out but they’ll die off soon after. Buy some plastic or stainless steel containers to store flour, cereals, pasta, etc in. Blog bc I just remembered this but my sister is a huge germaphobe and I remember one day we were visiting my mom and when my sister was out of the room, my mom puts her finger to her lips and then points up. Hundreds of them on the ceiling all throughout the kitchen and living room. They were still all gone in like a month.

No. 1073397

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No. 1073398

>>1073336
Checked the vents? Spray insect repelling essential oils(lavender, citronella, rosemary, etc) on the ceiling, windows, anywhere and everywhere?

No. 1073411

>>1073336
those fuckers can chew into boxed and bagged goods easily. you'll need to throw out any feather pillows or comforters too, they love that shit. i use food grade diatomaceous earth but it's hard on your vaccum if you aren't careful.

No. 1073419

>>1073411

Oh nonnie, I had a big moth infestation some years ago and it made me want to die waking up to I joke you not, two hundred and something or so of the fuckers. Got all over and into my old bedding, chewed my toy's eyes out, ruined clothes and underwear and made me miserable, they sent pest control to my flat and he recommended me this chrysantehum spray you can get on Amazon, and I swear by it. You will need to do all the other things farmers have added but for extra comfort I recommend that and also batch freezing all your clothes and toys.

No. 1073474

>>1073365
You are awesome and I also have a retroverted uterus. Tilted sisterhood. It really does smell much worse when you use pads and tampons in my experience, and it bothers me that they use irritating materials that can’t even contain the bleeding for a full night’s sleep for me. I’m glad you do what works for you.

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No. 1073703

I hate that my dad's coomerism ruined sexuality for me and now it's hurting my partner

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No. 1073717

>>1073411
>>1073396
>>1073398
>>1073419
All advice taken on board, I'll re-do the cupboards and spray essential oils, get crysanthemum spray. I do hope it's only the food cupboard because there are a lot of gaps with exposed brick that if they were coming from or hiding there, I'd have to get an exterminator. I'm growing a bit of weed that I can't hide at this stage so I need to hold off on outsider intervention.

I pray that a maggot doesn't fall into my mouth when I'm sleeping and that these things get BTFO

No. 1073807

Man I think this time I will do it. I fucked up my life so hard I am nearly 25 and I passed the point of no return I feel like. I cry every day, I cannot find anything to hold onto. Even someone I could vent out to would be a blessing. I am hopeless.

No. 1073848

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Man I've been depressed lately. I always try to imagine like 'Things would be better if it was like this' or 'if I looked like this' but it never helps out my current situation. I'm going to try to stop thinking like this

No. 1074371

>>1073807
The only guarantee that life will never get any better is to end it.

Don't do that.

It's hard as fuck, but trust me it's not what you really wanna do. You don't think properly when you're feeling like shit, so keep that in mind. Look up stories of people who have survived their suicide attempts and really take in ehat they have to say: nearly everyone who survives an attempt is grateful they did & regretted it the moment they felt themselves go past the "point of no return" before they got help.

I hope this is ok to say bc I know most ppl aren't really religious these days, but I'm gonna send up a prayer that you find your way out of whatever is giving you these feelings, for good, very soon. Be safe, anon.

No. 1074412

im TIRED i want to fuck off to another country but im too poor and i dont know if i can secure a job overseas fuck my country

No. 1078371

I hate sentience! I don’t like remembering things and getting headaches and eating food and smelling things and washing my gross body! Everyone loves sleeping cause you don’t have to do this bullshit

No. 1081872

I feel like it’d be better if I wasn’t here. I have amazing people in my life but a part of me is always terrified that they’ll get sick of me. I don’t even like me so why should they.

I’m too much of a coward to try anything bc I’m worried about messing up and being stuck alive even more ill. Lowkey feel like I’m stuck on a land mine and no matter which way I go about this it’ll end badly.



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