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Have a question that isn’t important enough for the advice thread?
Is it something everyone seems to understand but you can’t?
This thread's for you
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Personally, it makes my skin itch and I've also noticed it makes me smell worse when it fades off.
Best tip I learned: Use raw lemon or lime slices instead of deodorant.
It can sting, too, but it's better and actually cleaner IMO.
It's honestly up to you. Try out some dicks and see which is best lol
Personally, I'm not much into those giant ones you see in Pornhub. They scare me. Some people like them big, though.
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Can anyone identify this bag?
A lot of Asian people don't have the gene for body odor, ive heard>>454407
That's interesting, ive heard vinegar can work but ive never heard of people using lemon juice.
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My lactose intolerance is so confusing to me. I've established that I can have most dairy products and things cooked with milk (cake, pancakes, etc) with little to no consequences. I know that I can't have straight up milk in any form, not drinking it straight or even with cereal (I used to wet the cereal with milk and then avoid as much of the milk as possible/throw it out at the end). I made my oatmeal with milk the other day in the microwave and my stomach was fine, but I figured since I cooked it in the microwave that's what made it okay. Last night I made overnight oats with milk (i.e. no heat of any sort was used) and I'm still fine after eating it this morning… Just what the fuck is going on with my lactose intolerance? Will this fuck me up in the long run or can I keep going like this as long as my stomach is fine with it? Those overnight oats were god damn good. I have my own soymilk that I drink, but it's a bit expensive compared to regular milk so I don't really want to use it for oats.
Honestly as long as you don't live in a total shoebox and utilize your space wisely I don't think it would be a problem. Cats love to climb so you can use vertical space to your advantage.
A pair of older cats would definitely be good, they'll just laze around and don't need as much space to run around since they're less energetic than kittens. Each individual cat has their own personality, though, so if you adopt just ask the shelter for lazy couch potato cats.
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Whats the biggest screen less art tablet you can buy? or whats the one that requires the least minim pressure.
I think I would probably ask if she is alright. You never know if she is stuck in there without paper to clean up with or soiled clothes. Or she needs medical attention but is too weak/preoccupied to take action.
However ignoring the situation is also acceptable. This is not like a car accident or a heart attack, so not getting involved is fine if you feel uncomfortable.
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I've recently starting using this natural deodorant and I can't believe how well it works! I always thought I'd forever struggle with finding the right deodorant but all that is changed now. I seriously recommend it
I do every one of those and I try to participate in online conversations of said language. It's easier than IRL because you can quick google the word you need if you feel stuck. Plus if you're chatting to someone you can ask them to correct you.
Tandem is a great place but you will get hit on.
Well first of all, the reason why makeup in porn tends to look flawless is because there's a lot more scene cuts. Some scenes are taped at different intervals, enough time to retouch a smudged eye line or reapply lipstick. And also there tends to be less romantic intimacy like kissing between the actors.
Doesn't mean it's the case for all. If you ever seen blowjob porn the makeup gets absolutely fucked because of all the gagging and tearing up.
It really depends, anon. My makeup tends to get messed up because when I have sex with my partners I'm heavily making out with them. My foundation rubs off and my eyeliner smudges and collects in my eye ducts. The sweat usually fucks my hair too. Sometimes my face gets mashed into a pillow and it's inevitable.
When the sex is less intense my makeup fares better.
Most guys I've been with never commented or cared. The ones who did were weenies and cumbrains who couldn't understand how sweat and friction could take off makeup.
As someone with a degree but has chosen to not go into her field, this is absolutely true lol.
A lot of my friends that I met at my old job struggle to leave because they don't have a bachelors. They're perfectly good workers who are honestly some of the smartest people I've ever met- but because they don't have some fancy shitty paper to prove it, they're overlooked.
Nipple and areola position.
If they're pointing downward, sag.
Pointing outward and horizontal from chest, just shallow set.
Breasts can be both shallow and saggy too.
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Can someone translate what this says?
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thank you anon!
Personality disorder is when you tend to enact harmful (to yourself or others) patterns consantly. Maybe because I am disordered myself it doesn't confuse me as much as the term of personality itself.
People meme that 'Liking/doing X is not personality' which I agree… but then what is personality? Your overall taste in media? Bad coping strategies? The way you treat strangers? Your hopes and dreams? All of this? None?
I don't know what I am
I currently have a temp job at an office and this is my current life. My state's library has an online catalog so on occasion I'll read books through there, but I mostly spend time on LC or reading comics or some shit. I sit at the front desk so I can't watch videos that don't have subtitles available (I don't like to put in earbuds or anything in case we do have guests come by), so I keep it to comfy and cozy videos like Li Ziqi's video, crafting videos, or people who have subtitled videos. I just finish rewatching an anime, but I really don't watch anime in the office that much. I don't read or browse LC at all
at home so that posts can pile up and I can read them the next day (makes my home life nicer because I don't blow hours on here, I also regularly keep up with a bunch of ot threads so I have a lot to read). I started reading Homestuck because I knew it would take a while to finish and would keep me busy.
I originally wanted to spend the time learning useful skills like excel or quickbooks, but I have a hard time applying myself to studies when I'm not in a classroom setting. It sucks that a lot of self study material that I find are un-subtitled videos too. My gig is only temp and I'm slowly starting to get sick of it, so hopefully I'll eventually get off my ass and do some productive shit. I like indulging in browsing LC or social media and not being worry free, but now I'm starting to feel overindulged and it's not the same feeling as when you take a quick peek while taking a break from some long assignment.
I did and all I get is "we'll be busier once the summer is over, don't worry". I certainly hope so.
There are no projects I can take on my own, I can only assist the salespeople. As long as there are no sales I have nothing to do.
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Lol are you talking about pic related? I think it just loads a lighter version of the website…
former health insurance fag here to help bb.
>premium tax credit is something you get based on income, it's like tax refund for health insurance specifically, and you get it with your refund
the only difference between companies/plans is the coverage, smaller insurances don't have access to as many doctors as larger companies. keep in mind that companies usually offer 2 types of the same plan HMO and PPO. HMO is a plan based around your PCP (primary care doctor) working with their own network of providers, meaning you can't go to any dr or specialist you want, and you'll need a referral from your PCP. downsides to HMO are basically that you're tied to your PCP's network. PPO is easier, allowing you to go to any doctor you want that is covered by your insurance, but still lets you have a PCP. the downside to PPO is that you research your own specialists outside your PCP and doctors outside network are less eager to communicate with one another about your health issues. PPOS are usually cheaper, and designed for people with less health issues overall.
i think i answered everything, but let me know!
Thank you anon! I think I understand it a bit better now! I'll probably get a PPO since that's what I had with my parents! I was on an HMO plan with my old job and it was a fucking nightmare doing anything lol.
I was reading into it a bit more and it says I could get the PTC in advance to help pay for my insurance or choose not to. The silver plan I want is so expensive without it, but I used to earn a lot more at my old job so when I file for my taxes, I'm afraid taking the PTC in advance will make me end up owing a lot on my taxes. Is there a way around this? Or should I just play it safe and not get an advance on my PTC and just get it all (if any) back with my refund next year?
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Does anyone know how to get rid off this weird fluff/dust/whatever it is from my brush?
I just bought a new one and not a week after using it, there are these weird dusty balls, sometimes even sticky on the side of it and among the brush hair. I do clean the brush of my hair after being done with it, but regular cleaning with water doesn't seem to be that efficient.
I use a comb to "comb" out my brushes. Be sure to do it over the trashcan, you don't want that dust and crap on your floor.
From what I've noticed, it's mostly lint and feathers (I have a down comforter and the feathers must get in my hair).
Unless there's something else that's redeemable about him enough to justify this behaviour, just break up. Why be with someone who treats you like that?
It's not even about getting revenge. Revenge isn't part of a normal, healthy relationship. A mature conversation is.
Garbage attracts garbage, fix yourself before you go looking for other people.>>455862>Revenge isn't part of a normal, healthy relationship. A mature conversation is.
Can we get this in future teen films instead of giving kids plots about revenge bodies or trying to incite jealousy?
depends on what you consider nice
i live in MA and it's hella expensive but pretty nice as far as i can tell. been here 10 years or so.
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Any place in America is nice if you have money and live in a high-income neighborhood.
Worst states>midwest and northern east coast
Best States>coastal south, some west coast states like Washington or Oregon
And I wish people wouldn't talk it up as sooo good.
Too many people moving into the western cities, driving up prices and ruining the culture.
The entire other side of the state is mostly conservative farmers you know though. It's not a paradise.
Just moved into Seattle and I concur. The prices are high af because people keep moving here and only in the 3-5 livable cities. Might become like San Francisco in a decade or so.
I would say that it’s not as liberal as people make it out to be. They’re not Portland types. The eastern half is pretty conservative, but coming from the South, it’s not too bad.
The homeless situation here is fucking bad and as bad as the rumors make them out to be, but only in certain areas. I avoid downtown Seattle like the plague. It’s really pretty area, but the bums run things there. A drug addicted schizo douche can attack you and the cops take their sweet time to come. Good luck getting the dude prosecuted.
The surrounding neighborhoods are pretty cool and relatively safe and the suburbs are nice, just watch out for property crime. Hide your valuables.
I live in MA as well. I've only lived in three states so far, but I'd say MA is all right. It's supposed to have the most educated people and best healthcare in the nation, if I'm not mistaken. Boston is one of the most expensive cities in the nation, but as long as you have a car or access to public transit you can live outside of it and commute in. It still hasn't been my favorite place to live by a stretch. It's missing something.
New England is all right, but the cost of living is so much higher than places like in the south. Also we do have a homeless problem, but it's not as bad as places like Los Angeles.
I would say Mississippi and Alabama seem like utter shitholes for women. I've heard worse things about Mississippi though.
As far as I know/have heard the worst states are Alaska, West Virginia and Georgia. I live in New England and most of the states here are nice, but at the same time the region is known for having a terrible divide where most people are either rich or living in poverty.
And even though I’ve never been there Minnesota sounds like a good place to live too.
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Why do the most wholesome animes often attract the craziest and meanest people?
Especially shit like Precure? Isn't the show for young girls, like why are grown women fighting and obsessing over it?
The more I'm exposed to hardcore weebs the more I want to give up anime tbh
>>456164>Too many people moving into the western cities, driving up prices and ruining the culture.
the prices go up because the property and real estate industry is filled with blood suckers, there's over how many homes and apartments in seattle that are empty?
apartment and real estate industries would rather keep a 800,000$ studio home on the market for 100 years than to lower the price, it's not the populations fault, especially since many are choosing to live off grid or in their cars
it's a "don't hate the player hate the game"situation
They do but honestly swiping a few pills from your sister wouldn't have done anything. Oftentimes those medications require a cycle of dosing before you notice a difference, not to mention there's a lot of medications for anxieties so even between doctors and patients a lot of it is trial and error to find the one that works the best. When I was in grad school and having bad anxiety I took escitalopram (lexapro), and then years later when I was having bad episodes at a shitty job, Wellbutrin. Then Vyvanse to be used for my binge eating which was how I was coping, and lack of energy.
I'd say each one made me feel "leveled out" if that makes sense. Thing is I didn't feel like my emotions swung one way or another, it was a constant humming normalcy. Wellbutrin and Vyvanse gave me a much needed energy boost at the time. Although my least favorite insofar as side effects was the Wellbutrin.
They just relax me and make me sleepy. The bad side is, I feel really shitty after they wear off but it goes away.
Cozying up with some chamomile, ASMR and a good book works about as well for me.
Join all the societies you can and get involved
Also actively try to make friends! Instead of being cute, you should talk to people, build up a rapport and invite them to do things, if you don't want it to be weird you can invite multiple acquaintances to something. Be the friend to other people that you wish would find you, take these people out to events and meet more people.
If it makes you feel better, I have a B.A. and M.A. in a subject I'm not pursuing. I didn't necessarily hate my job, but I wasn't happy, either. I don't regret what I studied; I just wish I had double majored in undergrad. So, I'm currently back at uni as a post-bacc student to get a STEM degree, which is completely unrelated to my other two degrees in the humanities.
It's never too late to change the course of your life. I recognize that this post comes from a place of privilege, but there are certainly ways to redirect.
If they "break" it's due to improper fit, expired condoms, or using an oil-based lube.
The actual failure of the condom itself is a small chance.
Literally the thing busts apart. So after sex there's a very obvious tear in the condom. Sometimes you can 'feel' too much wetness in your vagina and cum always has a distinguishable smell and fluidity to it.
What happens most often is that the condom slips off and cum leaks inside. Sometimes a guy cums so much and keeps going that the pressure forces the cum up the condom and out the sides. It goes back to the improper fit and use issues, some guys are dumb.
You get dumbshits who don't want to spend the extra to get the bigger condoms if they're hung, or you get the napoleon complex small dudes who want to pretend they fit an xl when in reality it's hanging on their dicks like garbage bags.
Always check to see how the guy puts his on.
They do, but seriously seek consultation first to find the right one for you. My doctor prescribed me some Remeron (mirtazapine) after concluding my lack of sleep was the main culprit. Got on it for a month, felt like a zombie on my first week but I was sleeping better and I wasn't having nightly breakdowns anymore. However I was getting increasingly disturbing nightmares.
My doc prescribed Depakote (divalproex sodium) after using up Remeron and so far so good. Additionally, she prescribed Inderal (propranolol) which I take whenever I'm in a middle of a panic attack supposedly to calm me down while going through it.
I wanna give you an example.on 4chan tier is a average of 250'000 users yearly,and these 250'000 are divided among all the various boards,similarity TRP is just as small
4chan and some subreddits may seem big at times but the fact is their incredibly small online communities that 90% people have never heard about
Some do, some don't and some won't let you know their opinion until you're well into a relationship and they've spent the whole time resenting you and thinking you're a slut.
Taking the pink pill is just believing men truly mean what they say, so I choose to accept men feel they deserve a pure virgin despite having no moral highground when it comes to sexual ethics, but I don't accept that their beliefs are fair or accurate so I wouldn't lose sleep over it.
This is super common anyways and you're already generous for paying the extra people fee. But the coming and going of guests can get annoying (for neighbors) with the greetings and door slams, I'd think about how to deal with that quietly, like have them text instead of knock. Also keep track of who you leave every room key with and if anyone is bringing extra guests. You're entitled to know all of it bc its your liability.
I hope you have fun and that nobody throws up or has sex in your bed, kek
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I mean everything I said was objectively true but okay
Its probably not an insult, argentinians for example use it a lot like an equivalent of "dude", so in that context its not a compliment either.
But "flacO" with an o is male adjetive , so why are you getting called a "skinny male" anon?
It sounds pretty cerebral to get off on what your (imagined) partner thinks. You may be projecting onto the woman as the object of the man’s desire.
I think it’s possible to be healthy about this though, like if you were in a relationship of course you’d want your partner to find you ‘fuckable’, the hard part is figuring out if the man is sane enough to respect all the things about a woman that aren’t to do with fucking. You just need the cut out the degrading position part.
you have normal heterosexual fantasies
>I don't want to be this way. I wonder if I can change what turns me on somehow??
Wikihow: how to become a lesbian
I'm in that same boat. Going no contact with a guy I cut a lot of people off for. I was aware of abuse coming out of a past relationship and didn't even recognise any signs again. I let myself get isolated and codependent again. Recently cut contact after finding out about another massive betrayal that concludes I will never know the full truth of what occurred in my own relationship. I so desperately want the wool pulled over my eyes, but for the first time I walked away and didn't confront the betrayal for once. I didn't ask questions. I didn't give him a way to weasel back in. I thought he'd apologise or plead or something by now, he's been sending goodnight texts for days. I snapped yesterday and sent a brief text saying I hate your lies, what would be the point knowing you without knowing you? I also said I'm getting tested by the doctor bexahs sod infidelity scares. That was 24 hours ago and I've heard nothing. He didn't send a goodnight text either. Think it's been confirmed I've been cheated on lol. It's hard to focus at the minute. I have a lot of unanswered questions and I have to make peace I'm not going to get answers and even if I was to ask him, there's no trusting what he says.
Idk if youre cutting off an ex and they're your closest peer, but no contact sucks. Just keep reminding yourself why you aren't contacting them.
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Any anons know how to get back the music bar on here when you're listening on samsung music so I don't have to exit apps whenever I want to pause/skip songs?
It used to always appear underneath here
Someone else will probably have a lot better advice, but personally I do really well when I give myself a daily budget. The last time I went, I took out enough cash beforehand to give myself $100 per day for food and nonsense spending. Using my card was basically forbidden (difficult to use anyway, I only used it once my entire trip to pay for Disney tickets). That might be a little tight for some people so you can adjust it to what you think is more realistic for yourself, but it helped me take a step back and think about all the trinkets I was about to impulse buy ("would I rather buy this or splurge on dinner tonight?" sort of thought process). It was enough for me and I still had some cash leftover at the end.
As for lodging, I've only ever used airbnb when I travel to Japan. The last time I went, I was with two other friends, so we were able to book a small apartment all to ourselves in a pretty central location for about $300 per person. We ended up not paying that much for transportation since we got lucky and our airbnb was right by the Yamanote line (where most of the places we wanted to go was on). The first time I ever visited Tokyo I made the mistake of booking a super cheap airbnb that was so far out, it cost 1200yen one way to get in/out of the city center lol. Another time (my second time) I was travelling alone so I booked basically what was a little hostel spot near Akiba through airbnb that cost about $240 for a week and a half. It was basically sort of like a capsule hotel with shared amenities in the apartment, but it got the job done and was super cheap so I have no complaints about it. I also like airbnbs because some spots come with pretty good pocket wifi, my latest one that I shared with friends did! Definitely saved me the trouble of having to deal with buying a SIM and whatnot.
Can't offer much help about restaurants but I find that generally they weren't that expensive no matter where we went (then again, we didn't really go to super high end places either lol. We didn't cheap out completely on food either).
Sorry if nothing here is helpful for you! I do hope you have a good time. It's definitely easy to get sucked into the tourist traps and whatnot lol, ufo catchers are a personal weakness of mine.
Maybe not a highly paid one at first, but many companies will just throw a technical interview at you without caring about your background.
These still have aluminum, it clogs pores.
I use lavanilla but i Still sweat, no odor.
I have this too. It's more common than you would think.
Look up "Severely Deficient Autobiographical Memory."
You can't remember any birthday parties, or your memories are just from what you see in pictures. Also there is no childhood trauma blocking anything out.
I have no idea why they're watching your stories, the explore feature only showcases hashtagged or viral stories. Is the account new? Instagram suggests new accounts to people to follow.
However the uneven view count is from where someone skips to the next story before fully finishing the one they're watching. This is why very short stories have a high view count and if your stories have a sequence to them, people might watch first story but then just want to skip straight to the last story for a conclusion.
Oh gotcha! Didn't know that you had to watch a story for it to count! I figured people skipped but I've never seen the view count go from so low to high before. My account isn't new though, I think I've had it for almost 10 years now.>>458209
I'd get this if I actually did stuff on the app besides occasionally post on my stories and talk to friends via DMs but honestly I don't think I really do much to show up on other people's notifications or pages… I haven't commented on anyone's stuff for a while, and most of the time don't even like posts (I'll usually save stuff though).>>458220
Nope! I completely archived my entire feed and all the highlights I used to have. It's a completely empty public page that I only use for the stories feature. It's so strange!
I assume inviting someone over because you know the place better, you could call the cops and have them take the person away from you, you could run to your neighbors (if you know them), and if you really needed to, you could stash a couple weapon/deterrents around the place
but that's just with the assumption that something could go wrong
There are unemployed neets obsessing over everything anon. Its just that the alcoholics who stay at home and watch dancing with the stars and shitty reality shows all day are not a big meme online and outside of Marvel Movies and mainstream hollywood anime is the second largest media empire there is. So of course man children and womanchilds will obsess over Anime when they are not obssesing over star wars and disney.
Its usually the jobless types who have all the free time to really get deep into a hobbie like that. And in the first world they have neetbux too so the environment enables them. Literally every hobby has them.
I assume because most of them are young and in high school or college or around that age, depends on how old they are and their situation, you can't really expect college or high school-aged kids to have a 9-5, even then most young adult americans no matter what their interest rarely ever have stable jobs due to the economy
as what >>458718
said as well
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Is something wrong with my brain if I've never felt motivated my entire life? I never cared about doing well in school, or getting a career, or doing anything worthwhile with my life. I've had dreams of having some type of artistic job and living in a nice house somewhere, but never have enough drive to ever accomplish anything, and I get burnt out easily. And I can spend days/weeks just sitting around doing basically nothing and not feel bad that I'm not doing something. Is it just depression, laziness, or something else? I really want to have drive, and accomplish something with my life instead of continuing to waste it.
I'm glad you posted this because I'm the exact same. I don't have advice, but it's nice to know there are similar people.
I've been thinking about this more recently because I got a part time job which doesn't give many hours, and I'm still completely content to do nothing outside of it. I thought when I un-NEETed myself, I would change more.
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im in a discord server, and i want to make friends with the people in there, but everyone seem very close and familiar with each other. is it a lost cause to keep on trying to befriend them? especially since im quite shy, and i usually dont have time during the day because of school.
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Is it lolcow behavior to still try and reach out to a friend who deleted her account a long time ago? Her name is Cat, and Basically I contacted her ex (at the time, he was the only one I knew) and a friend of hers to try and see if she’s okay or see how she’s doing, maybe even getting back into contact with her, but it didn’t work out
That is, until I met another chick who has contact with her, after said Chick texting Cat on Snapchat, it turns out she felt uncomfortable by the fact that I contacted people she knew
I didn’t really mean to, I was just worried about her(https://lolcow.farm/info)
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Is their anyway I can turnoff this microsoft soundbar? I hate how it takes up so much screenroom and how microsoft can see all the videos I watch
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i have pale skin and really long dark hair (not in a deliberately gothy lame way) and i would like to wear black or dark dresses maybe like this, simplistic, form fitting to play up the elfy thing a little (i prefer it not be form fitting but my stomach is the thinnest part of me) BUT with sneakers and possibly tights for modesty
are there any sneakers that are not bulky and fit with a 'natural' low-effort style that is not sporty, and not insta streetwear style that could work well with basic black dresses that look more 'natural' and maybe a bit more ethereal than most sneakers
Have you pissed anyone off recently? This sounds like a vengeful male.
Unless the sites are fake garbage spam sites, then your email address might just be a on a list of some sort. If they are legit like match, okcupid etc it's likely the first thing.
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Hey guys…are jews really "evil"? I recently started dating this guy and he keeps trying to redpill me about Israel and how they are trying to save the world lol and all I keep thinking are those memes on 4chan. Anyways, what's your opinion about jews?(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
Cocktail dress with sneakers. Ugh.
Why? That’s not streetwear it’s just terrible.
A dress like that will look hilarious with sneakers. Form fitting and off the shoulder are the exact features that make the dress look stupid with sneakers.
Choose a better style of dress to wear with gym shoes tbh. (If there is one)
Even designer sneakers will look silly with a dress remotely like the one you posted.
Why do you need that specific style?
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also I never said it was streetwear, I said I don't want streetwear styled sneakers. >>459739
not necessarily, pic related looks OK and it's form fitting with sneakers, and in this case, keds.>>459740
yes ty anon, I was considering those exact ones but I don't find them to be very comfortable. not sure why they haven't improved on making them more comfortable over the past like, 30 years. I will probably choose them if I can't find an alternative that looks similar.
Another example that looks meh at best.
Less/Volleys are the only option and they don’t look fantastic. Curious as to why anon has to have this exact outfit?
Try wearing clothes you like and not what you assume makes you most visually acceptable to strangers?
Also, if you’re actually dumpy like you say, a dress like you’ve shown will look atrocious. Off the shoulder and skin tight are two of the least flattering styles for skinny-fat.
>>459496>possibly tights for modesty>form fitting to play up the elfy thing a little
You have narrow views on what fits you, make sure to try on a lot if styles in the fitting room.Also how does having dark hair and being pale turn you into having “an elf thing” and what does that have to do with tight clothes??
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people make the arwen thing with the light skin and long hair even if you dont look like her tbh so i figure why not go with it? yes, for coverup and i have to battle with unattractive and irritating kp. i meant more like that i would like recommendations on "natural" sneakers and certain dark, minimalist dresses that are a little form fitting, but are more 'natural' and simple. not like, industrial/gothy or sporty, because there's really no natural/delicate and simple, but form fitting stuff that isn't either really alternative or costumey i couldnt find any decent examples quickly for op pic but, just simple stuff that is dark that can look ok with very simple sneakers that look less sporty. ive never heard of a sneaker that was meant to look 'natural' and simple other than maybe eco sneaks? for the dress i meant id prefer form fitting but also not form fitting if possible. realistically it suits the natural aesthetic better to not be form fitting, and i wish i could wear loose stuff, but if you have fat limbs you really cannot>>459771
i know, it sounds weird, but it's a thing. shes chubby but pic related looks TERRIBLE in loose clothes because her limbs are fat while her stomach is pretty thin in comparison. im sure you can imagine why she'd look bad in loose/unfitted clothing. except unlike her no matter how low i go my limbs stay out of proportion and i retain more fat in my lower limbs, mostly lower arms, lower legs than she does, so it looks much worse. since skinnies are too uncomfortable anyways, really cute looser high waisted 90s jeans with a splaying out at the thickest part of my fat knees and calves and adding more bulk doesnt make me look thinner either>>459855
omg thank you, exactly!! it's frustrating too because i much prefer the natural, gauzy, flowing, effortless look, but our limbs just can't handle all of the focus to be on them with no emphasis toward the waist and hip. so i'm the same, relegated to wearing form fitting things when that's really not the aesthetic i'm into. even when i'm underweight i still look so off without it. thank you, will take your advice!
A lot of the pop culture from China that'd appeal to the west seems to be derivative of Japan and Korea.
Plus, the latter countries have their niches. Japan has anime and alt fashion, Korea has pop idols and dramas, and China seems more of a jack of all trades, master of none. Nothing specific putting it on the map.
his faggot ass changed his name legally to James and Taylor changed hers to Kai to disassociate like on Google searches and whatnot from their previous offenses.
he named them both after Evan Peter's characters in ahs bc he liked Evan peters' characters or something. he's so pathetic and suggestible to whatever media he's binging atm. at least don't rip off both names from ahs, you retard.
Dunno what it's called but I get it randomly when I'm thirsty and that sets off a saliva mechanism I guess?
Some fruits that aren't sour randomly do it to me too like bananas
Unfortunately I don't think dresses look good with sneakers at all. It's always gonna end up looking kinda dumpy, especially with something that is form-fitting. >>459753
looks okay-ish but it would have looked actually good
with a shoe that is semi-smart like the dress itself.
If you go for a two piece outfit that has waist definition you'll find sneakers go a lot more naturally. Crop tops that show your waist are also an option since you're slimmest there. Shorts always look good with sneakers, they're a natural match. Shorts that are high-cut but with flaring leg holes might work since you seem to describe yourself as heavier in the lower legs? It's like a reverse flare leg jean, might make your lower part look more proportionate by giving your thighs more volume. Not sure but worth trying some outfits right?
Do bangles or shawls flatter you? I like wearing a kimono or cardigan off one shoulder for an asymmetrical flowy look and it helps give my form-fitting outfits some life. As for the bracelet idea I have never used those but they're kinda fun and might make your lower arms seem slimmer since they'd be loose. Like tricking the eye into thinking your arms are so thin the bracelet is moving freely… make sense?
Hope this helped even a little bit.
most people in that thread are previous kpop fans / followed korean pop music entertainment for years so they congregate to talk shit because anywhere else people will shut you down for it irl or online.
t. old kpop boomer
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I was a weeby animu kid around 2007 and i remember it already being a thing. Its been teenage cringespeak for a long time, right now is probably more associated to furry zoomers and exceptionally snowflaky individuals.
I was right I had to walk from one end of campus to the other and back and my body was like WHAT the FUCK lol
strangely I wasn't sleepy all day and it's midnight and I'm in bed wide awake. My hips and knees are really really sore though.
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Anons who wear makeup, what do you think of women who rarely wear it?
I don't hate kids but I think noise is often what's off putting to people and they slowly start picking up the language of crotch goblin etc when kids cry or tantrum in public
I'm uncomfortable around kids because I have a hearing condition makes me very sensitive to the high pitched noises that come along with toddlers. I find shopping painful if the timing works out bad but then it's not a kids fault that I'm sensitive to noise
The New York public library has an app called 'SimplyE' on the app store where you can borrow digital ebooks. You don't need to be a NYC library card to borrow the books. Only downside is that you'll have to reborrow the books if you take too long to read them, but that's not really a problem unless you're going after really popular books.
That, or just trying googling up pdfs I guess lol.
library genesis, freebookspot, the pirate bay, even just googling "name of the book" + pdf will give you a pdf link in the results.
t. third world poorfag.
i don't know of anywhere where you can read in the browser, but mobilism.org is where i download most of my ebooks. I organize them on my pc with calibre and read them on my phone with moon+ reader.https://forum.mobilism.org/index.php
- you need to create a login to search and make sure you install ad blocker because the files are hosted on slightly dodgy sites.https://calibre-ebook.com/
I just don't like kids, its my opinion which i am entitled to. People are allowed (in paper at least) to be prejudiced about anything or anyone they don't like, opinions are hard to police and should not be.
Hating a kid? sure, punching or verbally abusing a kid? holy shit, no,, but just being biased in your personal opinion against something isn't a problem, no one can possibly force me to like kids when i don't and my opinion on the topic will remain the same for as long as i feel like. Next thing you know people are not allowed to dislike raisins or troons or dogs, like if the dog hate thread means anything irl to dogs or their owners.
Some anons have scathing reviews on things other anons like and find precious, its only natural.
libgen depending on the category you select
also, #bookz on irc is great and easy to use
I think its depressing and unempatheitc especially since LC is a place where we say be empathetic to women, and many children are females and still have the female experience.
I remember being a kid and how it was like, and what it felt like to be a child, it wasnt fun, I didnt ask to be born, but I was, and I had to deal with being a kid, and experiencing things, in my new mind and new being as someone not used to the world and its way yet, how vulnerable and innocent it is, and also delicate, makes me feel hurt that adult s would have hated me for that time. If people can see hating women is bad, why not children a even more delicate time?
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When would you even wear a top like this out? I really love this blouse and found a dupe on amazon for $20 and I'm very tempted to get it, but I don't even know when I would get the chance to wear it… it seems way too dressy/fancy for a casual day out shopping. I don't really indulge in nightlife either which I would think would probably be the next most common appropriate time to wear it.
I don't like kids, the most interaction I have with kids is when i'm out and a friendly kid will wave or say hi cos they're at that talkative stage, and I say hi back and then mom smiles, everybody is happy and that's the most interaction I ever really want with a kid. I can only find them pleasant in very small doses
I'm hardly a monster or affecting anybody negatively
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Okay, secondary question: what makeup looks are most/least tasteful? What kinds of looks are "too much" for every-day wear?
It was on /cgl/ a few years ago, someone mentioned an artist I follow in a thread about either cosplay or artist alleys and shit talked her. I was curious because said artist posted less and less often and her art became shittier and an anon said that drama and vendetta threads weren't allowed anymore and to go back to lolcow.
I found a few cows interesting once I started lurking but their threads aren't entertaining anymore. And the artist had old petty drama between her artist friends and her but she wasn't that milky all things considered. Maybe that anon was an irl "friend" venting on /cgl/ and not a farmer. I only post on /ot/ and /m/ and only read threads about a few specific cows nowadays.
Staminarose migrant who came here after /cgl/ implemented the "no drama" rule.
I quickly fell in love with /b/(now /ot/) because even on 'girlboards' on 4chan there'd never be any women related topics without shitposting and trolling. At least here while the moderation can get heavy-handed at times, there's at least some method to the madness.
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You are not really lactose intolerant, you just have sensitive stomach.>>454979
Avoid drugs and alcohol.>>455420
Fuck 'em. (Not literally) Life goes on.>>455978
No. You have low libido due to reasons. Don't worry about it.>>455980
Because you're immature.>>456696
Yes they do. Shit happened and it was sad.>>456964
First they apply the art of psychological profiling and then the art of pattern recognition.>>457527
That's just bullshit, don't dwell on it, it takes less energy to come up with retarded shit than to explain or debunk it.>>457788
Don't play by their rules, pirate songs and listen them on old mp3 player, smash your phone against a brick wall.>>458504
She wants to feel actually useful. Its a traumatic, ungrateful job, but someone has to do it. Genuine altruism is a rare thing, so it makes her especially beautiful, until her face gets disfigured that is..>>458698
No such thing as "refractory period".>>459056
Wash your dishes.>>459113
That is normal compared to that therapy.>>459117
No, just pretending due to reasons that ere even more disgusting.>>460283
Koreans adopt them before others get the chance.>>460834
That's Billy, he's an misanthrope, he likes to experiment on people.
Got linked to crystalcafe through /co/ on 4chan and then to here, just a few months ago.
I don't give a shit about the drama boards at all.
Literally googled ‘I hate Baylee Jae’
Sometimes I wonder if I’d be less bitter if I didn’t have other women to shit talk others with
Kiki, stayed because it’s a hellhole but at least it’s honest about being a hellhole without the 4chan approach of autism
No one here posts porn and it’s decently moderated besides the time I got accused of samefagging this place is harsh but fair, in the lowest of my depression reading random bullshit here made time pass easily.
He can get shots for it that are almost pun free (botox)
Or it could be his diet >>460903
Nude, work friendly fresh face.
Think a step above boy beat
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i really love sue wong's stuff, or cache beaded gowns. i think you can find something reasonably priced that's not overly done by both of them. pic related is a sue wong dress on ebay rn, so pretty
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she's the bride though anon>>461234
another sue wong. idk if youll like this but her stuff is affordable and i think is not too much, visually for a courthouse wedding
My mum wore a stunning pantsuit and hat to her courthouse wedding, she looked gorgeous in the video
Just wear whatever suits your personality best and makes you feel beautiful anon, who gives a fuck about setting? It’s still your wedding day
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i don't plan to wear white to my wedding either. nothing wrong with that. it's your day anyways, wear the color that you feel comfortable with, anon. and yes, any color can look great for a wedding, either full black or partial or red, just depends on the type of dress and how it's executed imo. congrats and im sure you'll look great in whatever you choose. honestly as long as you don't deck yourself out in gothy or steampunk accessories or go for a "steampunk" or go for designers that are specifically targeting "goths", it won't look tacky or edgy. choose a black dress from a decent designer, imo, rather than subculture designers, their stuff is poorly constructed and it shows
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sry for the dress spam in advance guys
I strongly dislike kids. But for me it's just a set of personality traits that I really dislike, for example loudness, wanting attention, not being able to do stuff on your own, not knowing the unspoken rules of the culture etc.
These grind my gears with adults, but mostly adults have more to them besides these negative traits. Or not, and then I won't like them.
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How do you strictly make out with someone? I can never kiss a guy and it just be a kiss. It always leads to neck kisses (my one true weakness) which leads me to go insane as i whip a titty out and coax him to suck it. Which always leads to a guy wanting me to jerk him off. Its worse if I kiss his neck back because then they think that means I should suck their dicks. Its annoying as hell. How do I stop myself from being a horny fuckwad? Is there a pill I can take? Im more so annoyed at the fact that a guy cant just make out with me, suck a little titty without then needing to cum! Like dude its not about you!!
Hate's a strong word. I think most people dislike them rather than genuinely, truly hate them.
I don't hate kids, I just strongly dislike their behavior(ial tendencies) and noisy nature. That's nothing personal against kids, they can't help it and I know that.
Anyway I do think there's a large difference between holding prejudice against kids vs ethnicity/race/gender because kids will grow up, it's not a permanent state of being like your ethnicity/race/gender is.
Get used to saying no
Him taking his dick out doesn't mean you have to touch it
I think "good for them".
People seem to think that not wearing make-up is generally looked down upon but as a student I notice the complete opposite: people often hate on girls that wear make-up at uni, especially when it's early in the morning.
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Who tf is this loser and why am I seeing him everywhere please someone tell me I feel I'm driving mad
The /g/ board has some good sex advice boards and alot of sex newbs asking similar. Could be useful to read over.
It also has alot of women who've been sexually active for a few years and are jaded/unimpressed by men and sex..
Good luck anon lol
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I don't, I just don't date people who can't handle natural body hair on women. There is a lot of dumb squeamish men out there now because of porn and photoshop and what not, but if a man can't handle hair then it's a real turn-off for me.
Body hair ftw.
But a lot of men do shave off their body hair, i live in hot tropical weather and i would not tolerate a dude that doesn't groom very well and that includes shaving or at least trimming their smelly hairy asses. I am not a huge fan of hairy backs and hairy chests either, it reminds me of some tacky 70s porn star when some men want to show off their stash.
I never found not shaving something so life changing as some other girls make it out to be, some act like shaving is the worst chore ever. I always feel better, fresher and cleaner when i am shaved.
Where I live (not hot) most guys are insulted if you ask them to even trim their pubes
I personally hate shaving my legs so leave them alone but hair in other places annoys me after a while so I shave but pretty infrequently
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I love hairy men too, I think a really hairy chest is the sexiest thing.
According to songmeanings.com, the general consensus is that the song is about being exhausted/frustrated by writing/producing an album —
“The chorus is a metaphor. After spending hours on a song, somebody told you the song sounds too much like like a song that was written by another artist. "It's not confidential" it's been playing on the radio. But don't worry, with a bit of re-write your song as potential.
Well somebody told me you had a boyfriend
Who looked like a girlfriend
That I had in February of last year
It's not confidential, I've got potential"
It's a metaphor.
The girl he's talking to stole lyrics or composition from a song he was writing in February of last year, and she just changed the parts he said 'girl' to 'boy'.
Why are weebs so greasy irl?
Every weeb that I've ever met was a greasy bastard and it is mental.
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The dudes know though, they simply are that fucking lazy. I used to go to a local gaming store often and the magic players are simply like that, even when management and other player ask specifically for people to be considerate with their hygiene because it gets really bad on tournaments when lots of them are in a cramped space they don't take a hint.
Most come from middle class families and receive good education, even do well in school, they are simply filthy lazy edgy and inconsiderate assholes.
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Scared of them trooning out, also, if they turn out to be cheating you with other dudes the chances of him passing AIDS down to you are a real concern.
Any bi guys I've dated have just been anal obsessed and cheaters so my personal experience has put me off dating another, but I believe some are fine
I had shitstorm after shitstorm with one fucking crossdressers behind my back and refusing to get tested while I'm freaking out over the possibility of hiv. I actually contracted HPV from him and had a cervical cancer scare and two years of extra smears and ongoing worry
Then shortly after leaving him a bi male friend wanted to fuck me and after I turn him down I find out the next day he has STD symptoms and was waiting on test results at the same time that he's trying to dick me
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I’m a bi female and I won’t ever go with any bi males. I don’t care if it’s a stereotype, because IME it’s true! Most “bi” males are scared of being considered gay, tend to be more attracted to men than women, they tend to cheat, and are well-known male whores.
No thank you to that dumpster fire.
-People can put together pieces of online history. Just by saying what time it is you eliminate the fact you live in 70% of the rest of the world. Your native tongue, if a certain place is near you, what the weathers like. It can all add up . You should shut up about anything area specific or be sure to give lots of red hearings
-If you are a public figure they could find your address from sites that track that. If you google your name their is a high chance you can find a "X's adress is XXX, phone numebr XX" (Been Verified, Smart Zip and Intelius) type site.
-They can also find you from random articles or legal papers you appeared in. Stuff like "x" went to our collage, snippets from news papers, or friend mentioning you on FB posts.
-Meta data on photos (though some sites wipe this) >https://paranoidsbible.tumblr.com/post/160173700334/the-paranoids-bible-20
It's not one thing it's years of posts combined to doxx. Also this is more of a personal opinion, but only like popular things if you want to avoid a dox. If anything has less than 10,000 views people will connect the two.
My experience with dating bi males is that they want to date women to look normal but then they resent those women for not having the same sex drive a guy would have
Oh and they cheat and then play dumb when you catch something from them, charming
Probably not all of them but there is some overlap due to boards they frequent as well as general rage, victim
mentality, and love of scapegoating. Some notable incels I've seen discussed on here were also racist /pol/tards.
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Does anyone know how i can get nice warm lighting like this girls videos?
I bought a soft box but it just makes me look very white and ugly.
I mean a shower once a day is the accepted standard in most first world countries. If you can manage that, splashing your face with water in the morning and teeth brushing twice a day.. you should be presentable
When I was a kid my parents got me to have a bath once a week too, I had friends that were the same and I think for a kid that's not insane cos they don't sweat or smell in the same way as adults. As soon as you hit puberty though it's diff
If you're in your twenties and struggling with washing/sleeping patterns are you getting proper psych help? Have you had an evaluation to diagnose you?
Thanks! I just… can't figure it out and googling seems even more shameful.
My dad used to wash his hair maybe once a month. It wasn't great. But I thought it was normal.
I have had psychiatric help. I have severe/clinical depression (not sure what the terminology is in other countries, but it's "major depressive disorder" I think?) among other less pressing things, such as a personality disorder and minor psychotic stuff. I've been medicated since I was 13 but it seems I am resistent to it as no drug has ever made me better.
I struggle with motivation and keeping up a lot. Have been all my life, it's extremely hard and it's only gotten worse. But therapy doesn't really help either. I know I should do those things, but I find myself just… not doing them. Silently yelling at myself that I should get up and go pee at least and continuing staring into the wall. Or I just forget to go to sleep. Or forget to eat for a day or two. It's ridiculous. It's fucking bad. I know about the things I should do, I know the reasons I should, but I struggle to just get up and get into it. I can see a point in keeping myself clean and healthy, but I also see zero point in it since I don't feel like I am a person and that I am alive. I just exist. Not doing anything at all. I can't even get myself to watch a movie really for the last couple of years. Fucking miserable existence.
I don't even fucking feel bad about this shit. I'm just numb and I don't care. But I think I should start to try to get myself out of this. And starting by getting used to simple things should probablt help? I guess? I hope so?
I've had a similar story with starting antidepressants at twelve. I was housebound by agoraphobia into my early twenties but even when I knew I was home all the time I made having baths a priority for some reason. It created a bit of a routine, got me out of my room and I got into nice smelling bath/shower products. Helped me feel a bit more human almost, even if I was the only person that noticed I'm clean
If it helps to hear this: personality disorders are typically at their worst in your twenties. I turned 30 last year and after nearly two decades of unrelenting depression I noticed a huge improvement. Mellowing out with age is possible with these disorders
And if you're low on motivation keeping the hygiene routine I recommend giving your teeth first priority, that counts most in the long run
This is good advice.
Treat your washing as an activity you are engaging with, not a chore. Use nice products, get fun clothes ready to change into afterwards.
Brushing teeth is difficult to be fun, so just think about how much more annoying it would be to have cavities and rotten teeth. Brushing is easy compared to that.
You don't have to do it every day. Have an attutude that anything
is better than nothing.
You can wash just parts at a time -hair one day, body the next, for example - so it's a smaller task.
Whatever you do that's more often than your current routine is an improvement. If you wash once a week, try once every 5 days instead.
Oh my gosh. Thank you for not calling me disgusting first of all.
Second, thank you a lot for the advice and support! I feel so stupid for being a failure that I am, but seeing that I need to improve is a step in the right direction.
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Help I’m going to Japan soon and I’ll like to try shooting something similar to this ty cow what’s the name of this style? Is it a specific period?
Does anyone have any recommendations on places to go in Tokyo?
I can relate a lot, I was never explicitly taught much about hygiene and also struggle a lot with depression and complete absence of any motivation whatsoever. What helps me with staying on top of my routines is using daily lists. I keep a bullet journal, not like the meme bullet journals with the fancy overdone calligraphy and stickers and watercolor drawings and shit, but just a really simple weekly layout where I can write what I'm supposed to get done that day.
Having a concrete list of what I should do helps to keep me accountable and getting to cross everything off is satisfying. If I write down "shower" on my daily to do but end up feeling lazy, I kinda guilt myself into doing it anyway because, well, I wrote it down, and it'd be embarrassing to leave the box unchecked, right? I also have a really cloudy shit memory due to depression so having a record of the last time I cleaned something is also useful and a good wake up call.
Good luck anon, it really sucks being so apathetic and numb but even the tiniest things can help. The hardest part is making that first step, everything after just gets easier.
There’s a lot of kimono and yukata rental shops around japan, even outside of tokyo in other touristy cities like Kamakura. Though these shops specialize in pretty much traditional wear of it only, and you can usually have a shoot or walk around the city in it for a set amount of time. You’d have to go to specialized costume place that offers modified kimono for a shoot like this because… that one is showing so much skin it departs from the traditional design so much…. good luck with that.
As in places to go, fucking google it lmao. Even if you’re looking for niche places related to a certain subculture… Google it. Check instagram and twt because most places also advertise through those platforms different events they’re having, etc.
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anon, you can wear traditional kimono like this lol. pic related. you just need to tell the person to tie it like this for you. it ruins the ohashori usually, but it's not impossible to do. you definitely sound like an uneducated weeb with this post.
I am gonna add something quite small to this! Try to go to the stores, sniff some bath or shower products, lush has odd and cute stuff! Once you find the first smell that really gives you the "where the hell was this all my life?" Feeling, washing up can feel like a treat. Lotions too, i have had many of the problems you have and i also like to do things like putting on certain fragrance only when i go outside after a long agoraphobia stint, in my lil dumb brain i pretend it's gonna give me some immunity to whatever may lurk outside and i am now associating it with me being protected. I am sorry for the scent sperging, i have just found so much calmness and joy in scented stuff, i believe in you anon. You are trying, you're still in the game and if anyone shames you for having these issues, wtf fuck them. Love, scent sperg anon.
Militant self loathing and negatively projecting on any/everyone else.
Hating others for being sexual,feeling owed sex or intimacy, extreme misogyny, and a refusal to accept any personal responsibility or suggestions of change and/or personal growth.
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The guy I’ve been talking to has been doing that in addition to calling me pet names. I think it’s a little weeeeeeeeird. Just be cautious and safe. I don’t think it’s a huge red flag, because of the normie meme about loving good morning/ goodnight texts from guys. He may just be replicating what he’s seen on the internet or what he did in his last relationship.
There’s always different prices, edibles are something that you may only want to try from a reliable seller due to the fact that they could be made with the shittiest trimmings possible.
Tincture is best for everything avoid edibles unless you trust the source
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>dad has slapped my butt since I was a kid
>didn't really mind since a lot of people apparently do this as a sing of affection?
>I'm an adult now and it just plain makes me uncomfortable
>I never turn my back on him or bend over when we're in the same room.
>My sisters never seem to say anything about it but then again they don't really get slapped.
Am I overreacting? Does anyone else's parents do similar things?
Dude say stop, your sisters probably got the same and normalised it on their own heads.
You can and need to set healthy boundaries for your own sake
Ask your mom/grandma/older female family member you trust about how they feel about this situation
A teacher of all fails