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I got a job after two entire years of being a depressed neet!! Gonna be normal and productive and succeed!!!
Determination is your best bet!!
Be that annoying person who repeatedly applied if you see positions cycling in and out. You’ll get it eventually anon!!
I think it gets a bad rap because it's THE "default" position
I fucking hate doggy style. It's uncomfortable and it hurts no matter how aroused I am.
It's not photogenic enough for porn so it gets labelled as "boring" and "vanilla".>>408347
With some guys doggy felt nice for me while with others it was painful. I think it's because factors like the guy's height, his penis size and curvature will influence how the penis is placed in the vagina and make it either pleasant or unpleasant.
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I have a crush on this guy who I just find so perfect guys
>friend runs up to me all excited, telling me she has some good news
>I start getting exicted, maybe he likes me fuck yeah
> "Anon, This guy Not my crush really thinks your cute and he wants to go on a date with you!!"
>mfw my crush ends up dating my friend
> mfw Ive been bamboozled
I've been feeling really good the past few days. I've posted here and there on various ot threads about how shit I've felt, how much my shitty retail job made me want to actually kill myself, how much I felt like a worthless, garbage piece of shit after the girl of my dreams broke up with me, but I think I've been doing alright. I quit my job and it's been a struggle trying to apply for office jobs, because even if I do get invited for an interview and turn up my charm, I always get passed over because I just don't have any experience outside of being a sales associate at retail companies. I always try to tell myself that it's just hard because I just don't have office experience, that it has nothing to do with me as a person. While I'm just at home job hunting, I've been trying my best to control everything that I possibly can so that my depression doesn't spiral out of fucking control. I've been going to bed/waking up early so that I can have some semblance of routine. I go on early morning walks (7am to 9am are my favorite hours of the day- I love the way the sun hits the buildings, the quiet hustle and bustle of parents getting their kids to school, and if I need to pick something up from the store, it's usually pretty empty). I've picked up drawing again, and for once, I don't hate everything that I draw and it feels so good to mindlessly create and indulge in a hobby that I've loved all my life. I'm shit at best, but I like what I make, so it's okay. My parents have been sweet enough to not hassle me so much about it. I figured that my mom might've started yelling at me for not having a job yet, but she doesn't really bother me. I told her I have an interview and she was like "oh okay, I'll do laundry tomorrow morning then" so that I could wash my interview clothes. My dad (who's vaguely been aware of my depression since high school) is traditionally really bad at handling my sad shit self and thinks you can just will away your depression, will come into my room randomly and ask how I'm doing, or he'll just give me big bear hugs before he leaves for work. They're getting old, so I'm happy that we get to have loving, tender moments with each other. I think we're closer now than we've ever been.
This post was kind of all over the place. Anyway, I have an interview today, at major foreign media company. They're looking for a receptionist and there's no experience needed, although the pay is just minimum wage and there's no benefits (but I'll be given full time hours) and it's just a temp position for 9 months, but god do I want it. It's a step towards the media/creative industry that I'm trying to get into, plus it's finally experience outside of retail, and it'd be fucking great to get this company on my resume. Wish me luck anons! Really hoping I can win this lady over.
I know happiness is fleeting and I might cry about still not having a job later this week, but I'm happy right at this moment, knowing that I'm trying my best. Even if I don't get this job, it's not the first one to turn me down, so it's okay. >>408311
I'm very happy for you anon! Let's do our best to live our best lives!!
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> girl from high school who’s I kid you not 120kg+ gets offered to study overseas by her parents
> chooses to get gastric bypass instead
> continues to be fat after bypass
>she’s now a body postive model on insta
>She even got a spot on local tv soap opera where she plays a fatty looking for love and breaking a chair after sitting down
It’s stupid and petty to talk about so posting it here
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I like it when I think of something, then find out some philosopher from decades (or even longer) ago came to the same conclusion. Makes me feel like my thoughts aren't completely insane or retarded.
If I had just existed a long time ago, and been born male in a part of the world that greatly revered philosophy, maybe I'd even be praised for speaking my mind.
I guess it's not all that different from overweight women looking at Rubenesque paintings, thinking of how they were once the beauty standard of another generation (though whether or not this is true is kind of a debate), and feeling less bad about themselves. It's self-indulgent, but also comforting.
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This banner made me wheeze with laughter oh my god
Tron guy's face makes it even funnier
The youtuber: youtube.com/user/Totalgamefreak
His wife: https://kogasana.tumblr.com
You’ll get there too anon!
God knows how fucking awful it is trying to keep yourself together in the meantime, but better things are coming because you’re working to make them happen.
Control what you can control and try to remind yourself that the rest is out of your hands but you’ve given the best you’ve got to give out. The continuous effort to improve your life and happiness says more about you than unemployment does.
Fingers crossed a good job comes your way soon anon!!
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What is even happening right now?! So much milk in so many threads!
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Great timing! We have a new Admin and farmhands and just had Hell Week. Admin added /m/ and /w/ which I think has improved the site. It seems to have inspired anons to create more varied threads. Admin is very communicative and is working hard on improving functionality of the code and hardware.
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I saw a post on 4chan and I'm sure this has been pointed out before, but it mentioned a pattern with shows that autists are attracted to. (Steven Universe, Sonic the Hedgehog, MLP, FNAF, Undertale, etc) I was wondering if any farmers had noticed this before and what they think of it.
>Template characters that allow the autist to be creative but not creative enough to create their own series (-sonas)
>Heavily colour coded characters (makes it easier for autists to decode the character's personality)
>Extremely expressive but single dimensional characters (easy to pick up social cues)
>Fandoms comprising mostly of young people
>Often light hearted cartoons/games (with key exceptions like FNAF)
>No conflict/Fake deep conflict
…That's all i can remember from the post since i couldn't find it. What do you guys think? I don't think it means that these series are nececssarily bad. Heck, i enjoy steven universe and MHA. But just why autists seem to swarm these fandoms is fascinating.
ANON I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I GOT THE RECEPTIONIST JOB THAT I INTERVIEWED FOR!!! There might not be benefits and it'll only be minimum wage but I'm so so so excited to work again and gain the experience!!
The best (??) bit is during the interview they asked me what I do when it's slow/boring and I pulled out the whole "work is never done" spiel and one interviewer said "no I mean, it actually gets pretty slow here. we won't get mad if you do non work related things, but what would you do?" I was so taken aback by how straightforward they were, but if they want to pay me minimum wage to sit around and read then so be it!!!!!!!!! gosh I'm so so so excited!!!
With all this Holly Conrad nonscence I decided to look up her age and - holy moly, she's 32. I thought she was the same age as me, around 25. I had no idea she existed at all until yesterday, it's just thickness of the milk that caught my attention.
But I saw her, and her tattoos, and if she wasn't such a bitch snake, I would kinda have a crush on her. I, myself, am too indecisive to have tattoos or dress like manic pixie at 25 y.o., and seeing women like her makes me a bit more confident in starting to dress like I want and not being seen as an immature idiot. She's a terrible person tho. I wish she didn't close all her accounts, her tats are neat and I'd like to see them better.
IDK, It's not about her face mostly? Just full look, a figure maybe, plus some nerdy vibes. Something between "wow, she's squishy cute!" and "as a nerdy woman i wish i could pull off that look!"
All of that is not so valid
since she's a cunt of course.
Carpal tunnel is a wrist injury so I don't think it's that.
I'm no doctor so take this with a grain of salt but it kinda sounds like the symptoms of arthritis to me? I don't think it's actually caused by just cracking your knuckles but it seems concerning that you need to crack them every 15 minutes or else it hurts. Do you have a history of joint problems in your family or something?
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I know this will sound super autistic but it the fact that moo is getting into Zelda out of sudden just for making cheap ass porn out of it bothers me more than I want it to admit. I love the Zelda series for so long now and I just have so many great memories with it. I haven't played all games but the ones I experienced were a wonderful journey that I loved from the beginning to the end.
Specially BOTW has a very special place in my heart because this game was just so wonderful that I felt in love it in so many ways. Now seeing moolester getting into it out of nowhere feels just so wrong and I don't want it to have it connected to her in any way. I know that everybody can do and play what they want but it just feels so damn wrong to see things that you have such a wonderful connection and have a great artistic value are being dragged through the dirt for ~l e w d i n g~ the shit out of it for the quick bucks.
I know it's stupid to think this way but I can't help it.
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This is just dumb
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There's something so wonderfully endearing of older paintings depicting women to me.
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The nurse thread made me remember this old confession site called grouphug that’s been defunct for a while. There was a confession a nurse made about how frustrated they were while having to help a person who was dying from a suicide drug overdose.
So now I’ve been using wayback to read all the old posts that got saved for nostalgia
(nta) Now that you say that, the bodies in >>408749
look extremely masculine. The Hank Hill ass and feet, especially.>>408755
I'm starting to just assume all sex fantasies written by anonymous "women" are larping males.
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Shaved my head today. It feels fucking amazing and I love how I look, but my dumbass internalised misogyny is making me feel like I’m doing my partner a disservice by being ‘unfeminine’ even though he was fully on board with the idea (even helped me shave it) and seems love the ease of access he now has to my entire neck. Just hoping this stupid feeling goes away soon, had the same doubts when I stopped shaving my pits/legs/vulva. I’m lucky to be with someone who loves me for who I am and wants to fuck me no matter what, and I need to learn that this should be the case for everyone and that I’m not being selfish by practicing bodily autonomy.
Tbh though I’m also just worried that people will now assume one of three things when they see me now
- I have cancer
- I had a mental breakdown
- I’m an ebil feminazi (i guess they’re not wrong about that one lmao)
Shaved heads are cool anon, especially on girls.
Hair is a pain in the ass to maintain anyway imo
I had two thoughts watching this trailer:
1. This is just Lipstick Alley: The Movie.
2. The director got mad about The Associate, and this is his revenge, lmao
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Today has been a good day and for the first time in awhile I feel peaceful.
Woke up early and had nice passionate sex with my finance. We watched our show for awhile and then went to breakfast. Convinced him to come into WholeFoods with me (normally he doesn't come to the grocery store with me because I get anxious and snippy, lol) and we had a great time just walking around laughing & looking at everything. Came home and did some chores and self-care stuff. Even got some work done in time for Monday. I decided to go for a run 'cause I haven't in awhile. Came home feeling great. All chores are done, ain't got no worries until tomorrow when the finance's family comes over for Mother's Day proceedings.
Always feel like there's something for me to do, but in those moment I feel really peaceful and I am just sitting on my couch in my nice clean apartment with my dog next to me playing OSRS.
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All I want is an appropriate opportunity to use this image.
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Just saw Detective Pikachu and I really hope they make more pokemon movies after this, and hopefully ones that don't feel as short.
My dream would be a CGI pokemon movie based on the mystery dungeons series. Just them going wild with environments and 3D pokemon.
The movie was adorable, I agree it seemed too short. I really wanted to see more Pokemon and more of the universe. Like, it should've felt super corny, but I loved it. The CGI was pretty seamless and didn't look cheesy or creepy at all. I know people have been bitching about the story but what did they expect? A gritty Pokemon reboot?
Also when I went the theater was full of adults, not a single kid in sight, and I went to a early evening showing. It's just cool to see how many people grew up with and still love Pokemon.
he was most likely chosen due to name recognition. you know a way to get more normies in the theater.
that's what happens a lot in hollywood. ppl so unfitting for a role only ever get it due to their name being known
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That sounds hilarious, I would see it if that were case and I'm not even big into nerd culture>>409174>Pic related
I personally wouldn't mind because locals editing is so obvious it doesn't do much good anyway.
It's been known a large group of people are attracted to those who look like themselves or their parents. I don't think it's going to create any issues, it's just a filter.
I used the filter on my boyfriend and he ended up looking like that photo of black Superman you'd see all over the internet in the early 2000s rather than a woman. He's got a sister too and it didn't even look like her lol.
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>>409201>worried they'll start raping their sisters because they may think they look attractive as women
If they weren't going to do that already I don't think it's going to inspire perfectly healthy men to do this, anon. jfc.
Wasn't there also already an app that did this a few years ago? It's not new.
Anyway, personally I'm attracted to men that share my features and would 100% date myself as a man. Or a woman. I'd just date myself in general. Degeneracy or powerful self-love? You decide.
But I'd still never hurt a family member. I have no siblings but this wouldn't inspire me to hurt a little brother if I had one.
Just be honest, but be nice. It's worse to let it go on because eventually you'll get so sick of it that you say something mean and hurt her.>>409236
omg that's horrible! I am so sorry that happened to you but food is not the solution. It's not going to make the files come back. I have been eating more healthy and less for a while and I already lost 40lbs. I still have treats every now and again. If I really need to eat something bad, I will take small bites and chug water in between bites. That way I get full faster and don't end up eating half a gallon of ice cream.
My older sister(who is a lesbian) is best friends with a straight guy whose she's been friends with since Middle School,this guy is also happily married with kids and swears that he views my sister well like a sister
so I guess its possible
Yeah, especially if he's the kind of guy with a "type" and she doesn't fit it.
I have a straight male best friend but he loves tall alt women (which I'm not) and I like turbomanlets (which he's not) so we've never had an issue.
That's maybe the dumbest reason to dislike a cow though>>409362
I don't know much of who she is but she seems like a cool person
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pic related though
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I don't normally like designer stuff, but these are so great-awful. They're tacky done right. I'm not sure how solid the construction would be irl but they look well made while remaining so tacky and terrible. I kind of love them.
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I wish I could have a job where I get paid to have ideas.
Inspiration is endless, but my concentration is not.
But I eat dairy normally usually. I often have kefir for breakfast or creamer in my coffee and I'm fine.
I ended up throwing up, drinking a chamomille tea and taking a muscle relaxant and now I'm fine just exhausted. I think it's stress.
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I see a lot of people online making fun of french women for having horses faces, especially americans, maybe it's true, but it seems to me that we just have a higher appreciation for different kinds of beauty, american actresses often have a very bland perfect face and heavy styling (full face of makeup, hair always done in curls…), it's kinda boring.
It's because American celebrities are pushed to look like blow up dolls and everyone else is called ugly for not fitting the standard, and then those same people start crying or get creepy plastic surgery lizard faces when they turn 40 and people don't care about them anymore. They're victims
of the system and they can't imagine other kinds of beauty exists other than what is pushed on them by the media.
It's the same as British/American guys who say "why do French girls act like they're the hottest girls in the world when they're nothing special?". What are we supposed to do, hate ourselves and hide under a paper bag or mutilate our bodies because they don't like how we were born to look? They let themselves to be told whether they're allowed to be confident and "act like they're pretty", we are less likely to tolerate that.
met a 19 year old at work who legit had one single widowspeak-located wisp of hair ala kewpie left. thought he was in his 30s at first (he had big beard too ok) so was this
close to vocally expressing support for mature students when he said he's a freshman lmao, so glad I didn't.
tbh the bald patches dont bother me as much, but when they have them in combination with those giant charles darwin beards, they always look at least 20 years older than they actually are lmao. either embrace your balding or wear a wig instead of trying to compensate.
i cant wait for this trend to end
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I would like to address you all to the fact that Buzzfeed and popular culture is so delusional about male attractiveness, with a bar so low, that this is being hailed a 'MAJOR GLOW UP' and people are thirsting. I think that says a lot how women are so accepting of so many retarded and ugly things men do. Men are so lucky.
Yeah, what the actual fuck is cute about that outfit? And I say that as a sucker for anything pink and pastel.
The hair/beard is the worst part though, especially compared to his super cute long hair and youthful face on the left.
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I shaved my head literally 4 days ago and I already have enough peach fuzz for it start laying flat on my head. I had no idea hair grows so fucking fast, I’m digging the look but damn I don’t know if I can be arsed to upkeep it if it’s just gonna grow out so damn fast.
I am enjoying how men seem too grossed out to even stand near me now, helps keep away the weirdos that fetishise pregnant women
When it's short it feels like hair grows hella fast bc you can easily observe the length in relation to the scalp. When hair is a bit longer it becomes hard to tell it's growing.
If you want that specific shortness you will have to maintain it weekly forsure.
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Congrats on shaving your head anon! I've been bald for 3 years now, definitely invest in a decent razor & hair gel. I say hair gel because there will be days where you get too lazy to actually buzz it & the gel will help it from not looking so fuzzy. Weird, but I've seen like 3 other anons saying they shaved their head on this site. Have we all collectively lost it kek
Nta but I wish I could pull of a shaved head or buzz cut like that, especially since I suffer from hairloss and will lose my hair either way, but I don't think it'll look good on me, and in my country a hairstyle like that is unthinkable.
I'm happy to see women being confident in doing that though.
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I don't know where else to put this, but I want to share a very unfortunate and embarrassing story that I have not been able to tell anyone else.
So first of all, I use(d) laxatives. Horrible, I know, but my story has a happy ending because I have since stopped after this experience.
A little background on laxatives… yes, they make you shit, but they also give you horrible half-solid-half-liquid diarrhea filled with undigested food. It's not just one doodie explosion either. These episodes come in bouts over a period of like 6 hours, and it happens 4-6 hours after initially taking the laxative. So, in this story, I was suffering the effects of laxatives taken the night before.
I had an early morning flight to meet my relatives. Had been dealing with the shits all morning and let me tell you there is absolutely nothing worse than having to shit in a crowded airport. The first time I had to go the bathroom was largely unoccupied and I was able to go in peace. The second time I was rushing and the bathroom was exceptionally packed and loud, so I was able to shit but rushed myself.
I had my first flight and then landed at my connection. Shit again and also rushed this time because I only had 14 minutes to board my next flight.
There were a bunch of babies on this flight and before taking off I noted that something smelled horribly like shit. I even texted my mom and boyfriend about it lamenting about being stuck on the plane with a shitting baby. The plane took off and I had the row of seats to myself and I stretched out. I noted that as I lifted my legs onto the seat to sit Indian style I got a waft of shit smell again. In that moment I realized that it was, in fact, me that smelled like shit. Horrified I ran to the bathroom once the fasten seatbelt sign came off and checked my pants. Somehow, because I had rushed myself at some point during my shitscapade earlier, I had managed to get diarrhea on the inside of my leggings. You can imagine the thoughts that might go through one's head when they are faced with the fact that they have been walking around with shit stuck to them for God knows how long, stinking up the crowded airport and the first flight (which had been completely full). I did what I could, threw my underwear out and used bath tissue to remove the chunk of poo. I soaped my leggings and washed them out in the sink and put them back on. The smell subsided luckily but I still had to bare with the fact that I was sitting in wet, shitty leggings and wouldn't be able to change until I landed.
Anyway, it was the experience I needed to stop abusing laxatives. I think it's rather funny but I am also way too embarrassed to tell anyone I know IRL.
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>visit chan's /toy/ board
>decide to check the doll thread
>instantly regret it
Men were a mistake.
A M I S T A K E
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Usually .chartboost just contains video game adds to be played off line, but for some reason my .chartboost had this file? It's just a dude nodding.
feels like some developer joke
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I'm obsessed with these spooky images this artists drew and I have no idea why
Unrelated:I keep fucking running into disturbing shit on pinterest without seeking it out. I feel like an ass reporting shit but it has to end. Why is pinterest like this?? it's like tumblr's back-alley
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the gorefield illustrations are creepy, but they also look pretty awesome
like what? I never see anything too weird on pintrest, but then again I only go for pictures of yoongi.
On a related note, I've been getting recommended gore blogs like crazy on tumblr lately. Not sure why. I can't tell if gore blogs have gotten more intense than they used to be or if I've stopped being an edgy kid and am now skeeved out by gore but it gives me the creeps. I'm also seeing a lot less "this post has been removed for violating community guidelines" on gore pics than I remember… Tumblr needs to reevaluate their priorities.
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this is what my body dysmorphia makes me see in the mirror everytime i wear a dress lmao
That's kind of what pinterest is doing! Please tell me it isn't IRL gore… I've seen stuff like that on Pinterest too, but only because of the aggressive vegan images that also seemed to be spliced in. What I saw reminded me of those comics that someone posted here a long time ago. Maybe someone remembers? I think they were of touhou blob things or something. Maybe MLP? I know anime tends to attract a lot of psychos, so I guess it should be expected to run into that kind of thing.But the content that I saw was just spliced in there among the more wholesome content. It was a sucker punch to my face when I clicked on it and realized it wasn't a cute comic. And there were more too. ugh.
I've had a similar thing happen to me on Pixiv, and it makes me so anxious to browse through anime art now. I don't what is going on>>410408
I am! and I'm can't stop watching it, it's so well made and I love the soundtrack choices!
I'm a sucker for the original Clocktower game. Also 1 million views already? Dang.
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Oh god that picture is horrifying but I can relate. Logically I know I'm a tall and fit woman and I still experience pic related; I was actually amazed when I saw this drawing because I always said my body dysmorphia makes me see my body as Danny Devito's. People think I'm nuts when I say it but I still see it that way lol.
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Lizzo actually has such beautiful features, and she wastes it all on being fat. I didn't realize it until I mistakenly came across a gifset of just her face. It makes me sad.
The body positivity movement is honestly bullshit. Good food is not worth your health and beauty, I don't care what anyone says.
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And sure, health is important, but it's better to be a chubby/fat person and be able to love yourself than be a self-hating wannabe anachan mess. This is a stage a lot of women go through and it's so sad. Not to mention girls obsessing over their weight, nitpicking other women's bodies, constantly bringing up how they need to lose weight etc.
Not everyone will be thin. The world is a better place where people of different body types are able to feel comfortable and happy.
I will take body postivity over 90's-00's belief that only thin women can be considered attractive.
Sidenote - did know know her but now interested in listening to her music. Thank you!
Why it's so popular on lolcow to claim that the other anon needs to 'chill' if they have a different opinion?
Back to the topic. I don't believe that you can be healthy at any size, that is a dangerous myth. Treating fat people like shit is not the solution though.
Some people will seriously harm themselves before they reach the normal size (which is what I meant by wannabe anachans). Sure, it's better to strive to be more healthy, but no need to find your reflection disgusting in the meantime. Low self-esteem can be incredibly dangerous.
Besides, often overweight/fat people have more serious issues than their weight, yet no-one cares about fixing those as much as about weight loss even though tackling them is a necessity to living a more healthy life… Wonder why.
It's true that being fat is not healthy, but most people that constantly talk about that are just virtue signaling.
TLDR women have the right to exist in their bodies and they have a right to love themselves, even if they are not perfect.
I agree with all of your points anon, this is also how I feel about body positivity and all.
As someone who used to be obese (not death fat, but over the 200 mark) I wouldn't have been able to lose weight without first fixing some emotional/mental issues and then accepting my physical existence before exercising. Food was (and still is unfortunately at times) a go-to comfort and changing that can be hard if it's all you use to cope.
Increasing self esteem, then switching to healthier coping mechanisms, then tackling weight loss is the way to go 100%.
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OkCupid is wild
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I know it says right on the tin that it’s just water but I was still expecting something more when I bought it. It was neither disappointing nor exciting, it was just fucking water with a bit of lemon. Exactly what it says it is
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I'm sorry but jesus that's so fucking funny
>bottle literally says "just water">"huh not what I expected"
Bottled water usually has some sort of novelty taste to it, but no, this literally just tasted like tap water with a squeeze of lemon
It was nothing but water
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I saw a farmer here mentioned the show Tuca & Bertie, and I decided to give it a watch.
I was kinda skeptical at first but it's actually really cute and I like it a lot!
Does it get better or more serious/thoughtful in the next episodes or is it like the first one all the time?
I'm not sure if I should continue, the grandma cake thing was a bit too quirky and wacky for me
Is it not supposed to be… Just water ?
I'll never understand yanks and their hatred towards tap water/need for water to have a flavour. Do you breathe lime flavoured air too ?
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why can't a younger(legal) age male character have a relationship with an older female character without retards complaining
mcu Peter is like 16-18 and Carol was kickin it in her 20's in 1995 anon have you seen a single mcu movie other than Endgame
I get that lcf usually hates capeshit but holy cow at least stick to having opinions on ehat you know
I don't know anything about capeshit or the Moomins, but I saw the reaction image and honestly believed for a hot minute that all these people were complaining about people shipping Moomins characters up until I read "Spider-Boy" in the last image.
I can't believe how easily I accepted Moomins shipping discourse as a concept.
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They literally do, it's called vaping
yanks? Certified "yank" here and people drink tap water. Don't got half a clue why the hell you think we all just drink nasty shit like La Croix or whatever the fuck. Like most Americans, "yanks" barely drink water, and the ones who do drink water drink tap because we're not all rich/stupid. A lot of Americans are trying to drink more water so this new fad of flavored water has started.
Why can't Southerners drink iced tea without a pound of sugar in it?
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lewd but I saw this on twitter and immediately thought about lolcow due to all the leonfags and obsession with femdom kek
what she means is
"Your not valuing femininity that means you hate women who are feminine"
>>411436>I don't like this thing, so neither should you
Can you calm down? Some people don't care about having hair that much. I certainly can't relate, but it's not that deep and there's also nothing inherently male about cutting your hair.
Do you get this mad about metalheads or male models growing out their hair and insist it's "copying females and praising estrogen"?
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Does this mean that he’s not interested anymore? He has been slowly ignoring me
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How long should I ignore him?
>Tfw he literally looked for me first I didn’t even start this shit and now he ghosted me after I admitted that I liked him
Yeah after typing that I realise how stupid I sound but I’m still unsure how long I should ignore him
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I'm currently pursuing acting and art, and making money from both, but man, I fucking hate it when my confidence is stumbled by doubt, or people telling me to chose one thing.
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I'm about to have sex.
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Terry crews did both, just know you will have to work twice as hard and own it
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Holy shit! I didn't know he did both. This might just fuel me even more to keep going with both. Thanks anon
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I'm not even really mad about troons/AGPers anymore (except when they do tangible damage to women via rape, physical assault, destruction of establishments, censorship of female-centric discussions, etc).
I just find them funny, in a twisted way. Their whole existence, down to the exaggerated male entitlement blended with rampant fetishism is like God shitposting on all of us.
Like, how can you not look at this and laugh?
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there seems to be scrote 'trolling' up this board right now.>>411529
For some reason I'm paranoid I'll upload a picture of myself instead of a reaction image (even though I keep the files in to separate places?) Like I'll click choose file multiple times to make sure I have the right file.
>>411457>Can you calm down?
what did i say that implied i wasn´t calmed? that haircut is ugly as hell, thats just how i feel in a good mood, a bad mood or any mood. >>411457>about metalheads or male models growing out their hair
They´d actually look good, rather than like a skinhead, a reclute or some choir boy.
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I love my friends.
Just carry around a pair of tweezers in your purse if you can't help picking at it.
Lasering is expensive so there's no point doing it for a single hair.
do you have any co-workers that would be willing to escort you? or headsets or anything? I'm sure it's just a building cutie, but it's understandable being that freaked out. I'll still run from the kitchen to my bedroom in the dark because it's terrifying somehow.
unless you believe in like paranormal/spirit imprinting and stuff, I think you're pretty safe. if you're genuinely freaked out, I really suggest watching stuff that will immerse you in the same irrational fear as you feel when you're in a similar place (sorry dude not saying your fear is irrational), the whole exposure-leads-to-comfort thing.
this movie is a great one, lots of hectic unnatural stuff goes down and tbh it makes you feel better, knowing the fiction behind it all. if you're one of those who are seriously freaked out by scary stuff maybe dont tho
but yeah fear-immersion of phobias that aren't full blown can sometimes help. give us an update if you do see anything scary.
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After ages of being depressed and unmotivated I've been suddenly hit with a ton of inspiration to start writing a new story. All I can think of is this idea and how I want to develop the plot and characters. For the first time in months I picked up a pencil to draw, just some simple sketches for character designs, and instead of feeling shame and dread towards my shitty art skills, I was proud at how decent it came out. I don't know what's going on but I'm just so glad that I found something to spark my creativity again. I was starting to think all my passion had dried up and disappeared. It's like I'm 13 again, spending hours writing dumb self-indulgent shit without caring about how perfect it is. I love it.
I just had my first kiss today and it was the weirdest shit ever. Was this the same for any of you? Does it get better because I genuinely am not sure how I feel about it.>>411837
I'm really proud of you Anon. I'm still waiting for my turn lol I just want to draw and think of really creative things but it's so hard. Though I feel it slowly coming back to me.
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I'm having a really good and comfy day watching Nipponese doramas and translating shit as a hobby and even though nothing changed in my life at all and I'm still a trash person I'm feeling really great uwu right now.
Awh you're so cute anon, that was comfy to read. Hope you have a lovely rest of the week (and more) doing ya thing.
- fellow trash (but we're not really)
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>mfw I can never decide on a damn hair length
HOW DO YOU ANONS DECIDE
Yea that doesn't sound too great. I don't know man, I think I just wasn't ready for it. Like when he did it I had this really weird feeling like it never happened despite it happening literally a second ago.>>411908
I mean you just go with the flow, Anon. But make sure to take into account your face shape, I feel like it helps a lot. I kinda just went ham and had my hair chopped in layers and it came out pretty well.
Dw anon, it's really common. My first kiss was with a guy who was really nice but pretty damn autistic and he almost sucked my face off. It felt like kissing a sea bass. I don't regret it at all but it's not like I remember it fondly either except to laugh at the situation.
You'll have plenty more kisses and you'll have many more enjoyable ones. Take your time.
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Thank y'all so much. I guess it was just so weird because we're both inexperienced (I assume). Definitely felt like I was trying to make out with a snail, but now I guess I won't be so scared to do it again.
Not a fan of country but this would be amazing. I want everyone to act like a cowpoke and country boy/girl in the 2020's.
No more drug romanticism and face tattoos. Cowboy hats, boots, and big trucks.
The chaps seemed to be in at coachella and I've seen it trending to have a laugh about country people. This could happen.
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west Pakistan(khyber pakhtunkhwa formerly NWFP=North-West Frontier Province ) is our wild west that never ended
its littered with criminals with bounties on their heads,bounty hunters,terrorists,spies,bandits and frontier rangers who enforce the law and its just an unreal place thats \why I think the country type music genre would fit in
That's interesting, who knew I'd get educated on lolcow.
I'm sure a lot of countries have had something akin to the wild west at some point. I hope it catches on lol.
anything is better then Rap
seriously Punjabi/desi rap is the worst thing to listen to
It came from Indian artist trying to copy American rappers and then spread to Paksitan
luckily the only one's who like it are Muhajirs and other esthetics are safe for now
I have been a loner all my life, even as a kid. I've worked in jobs like truck driving, where I was alone all the time. I never had any family bonds, and always had to back out of other relationships using any excuse because I just kept knowing I'd be happier alone. I kept trying, because I wanted to be like other people who seemed so happy. I finally married, hung in there for 5 years, but then left, filled with guilt because nothing was wrong.. Again, I just wanted to be alone. That was 10 years ago, and I've been in no relationships since, and don't plan to. I was diagnosed with this personality disorder, and after the initial horror (Seriously, I think "Schizoid" has to be the most mislabled, misunderstood psychology term there is for the general public!) after reading up on it, a lot made sense.
I could function fine most of my life, but now I'm turning 50, and have gotten to the point of being a hermit, unable to face the outside world, like just exhausted from trying so hard to seem normal. There's this detatchment, like it's all fake, all the people, the things, unreality. It makes even a shopping trip pretty tough! I'm confident I seem normal to others when I have to interact, but it's really uncomfortable.
This is the first time I could relate to anyone. It's a yt comment on schizoid personality disorder and everything makes sense now. I wonder how many anons suffer from it. It makes it even better that it's a woman that has written that because it's often expected from us to be social and extroverted all the time.
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I don't give a shit about my facebook account but since I was extremely bored today I decided to log in. I was mindlessly going through the "people you may know" thing which I really dislike but I was really really bored, but then my ex bf appears. It's been months since the last time we talked, so I coudn't control my curiosity and clicked on his name. Not much to see on his profile because we're not friends there, but I noticed a comment on his profile picture that I think it's from his girlfriend. I already knew that he's living together with her, he told me himself the last time we talked. But I had this strange feeling that isn't exactly jealously. We broke up more than 3 years ago and he was an asshole to me many times after that happened. But somehow, after all this time, I still wasn't able to date anyone. I haven't had sex in more than 3 years, the last time was with him. Also, I only kissed another person only once, only because the girl cornered me. I don't like him anymore, but I don't know what's happening to me. He used to be not only my boyfriend, but also my only best friend. Now I'm still alone, with no bf or a close friend. I never thought something like "no one can replace him", but never tried to that either. I'm becoming more and more isolated and lonely but I don't know what should I do…