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No. 2525310

A thread for venting about difficult, weird, or stupid stuff going on in your life.

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No. 2525322

I was watching horror movies last night and my low functioning autistic neighbor autistically screeched in the middle of it and it scared the shit out of me. Then he wouldn’t stop yelling about how much he loved Godzilla. So loud you can hear it in every room of the house. 1 in the fucking morning.

No. 2525326

Someone new moved into my apartment building and keeps purposefully getting the place dirty, last week in the elevator there was yogurt thrown everywhere. Then a jacket and then a pad. Later on the main gate there was another pad stuck to the glass window and rice thrown around - specifically old, stinky rice. Then, last night there was more food thrown out on the main floor, and this morning when I went to throw the trash, there was some sort of sauce all of the floor and the stairs towards the trash cans. I have no idea who is doing this but it’s so fucking repulsive, it’s a student building and by contract I need to live here a few more months before I can leave but this is getting too much to handle.

No. 2525336

I may need some advice nonnies. I joined a new sport and it's great except for one thing, one of the participants brings their spouse and kids (young toddler age) and the kids are giving me serious safety worries. It's a limited-contact sport that requires protective gear, so there's a real risk of injury if someone isn't protected. Problem is that these kids run out onto the field during practice and get close to the players, and don't always listen to their parents calling them back. I know what I should do is keep my head down and mind my own beeswax, but it bothers me and makes me not want to go to practice if this is how they handle safety. I'm trying to have grace because raising children is hard, but it's hard when the adults in that family are glued to their phone while the kids repeatedly put themselves in danger. I do mean repeatedly, I've seen it happen five times so far and I haven't been to five practices.

No. 2525371

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Took a break from a drawing by starting another. It looked soo promising. The my dumb ass while closing reference images accidentally clicked x on the draw and then no, thinking it was asking me if I want to close.
It's gone.
No autosave.
Nothing.

No. 2525373

I wish he would die Now, god if you like me in the slightest you'll kill him before the end of the year.

No. 2525374

Being bisexual is so dumb. I feel like it’d be comforting to have 50% of the population you know you’d never be attracted to.

No. 2525381

I want to finish this shit up and go shower already holy shit how long is this going to take

No. 2525386

>>2525336
Actually you need to speak up because it’s a safety concern for the kids. The parents are neglectful and need to be told to keep them off the court, if talking to them does nothing report this to someone who might know what to do like a coach.
If you see something, say something etc.

No. 2525387

>>2525336
they shouldn't be allowed to bring their kids to practice if they aren't going to take care of them. shit happens and i wouldn't judge the parents if it only happened once or twice but five times just illustrates their irresponsibility and someone could end up getting hurt. it's not fair to the other participants and it's also not fair to the kids since they're too young to fully understand that they could get hurt. frankly they should be shamed for being more interested in their phone than their children's safety

No. 2525393

I think I'm gonna give up on this interview. I couldn't sleep due to how anxious I am. I'm a retard who can't do anything right, it's gonna be simply humiliating. What if I just ghost them and don't show up? Though it would be more respectful to email them explaining I'm too idiotic to have a job.

No. 2525394

I think trump derangement syndrome is hilarious because most mentally ill people don’t know they’re mentally ill, and they just go rabid. Such feeble minds, broken by the media they shape their worldview around.(wrong thread)

No. 2525404

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rip, guess that last downtime was the final nail on the coffin

No. 2525408

>>2525404
way too many trannies, many such cases. I think 4ch doesn't understand they've dug themselves into a hole by enabling the troonification of every board.

No. 2525449

>>2525404
What am I looking at?

>>2525393
Nona. Drink some coffee. Go to the interview. Go home. Sleep.
Your not a screw up but you are very Sleep deprived and anxious which makes it 100x worse. Its gonna be ok just do your best at least you can rest knowing you tried despite your terrible condition. I believe in you.

No. 2525472

I've become so paranoid about noise, I now have to wear hearing protection 24/7, even when it's perfectly quiet out, don't let this happen to you

No. 2525492

I am weighing my food lately and damn it’s really hard to stay in the 1500kcal range. I realized I eat big portions kek, which was fine when I was 20, but I want to manage myself better now. I wish I could just eat to my heart’s content, I love food.

No. 2525500

>badly sprain my ankle
>it heals eventually but is still sore
>decide to go to climbing gym to rehabilitate
>fall from 3 meters and fucking break my other foot
FUCK MY STUPID BAKA LIFE

No. 2525545

Met a little kid whose mom let him win EVERYTHING they played. He couldn't handle losing at all, because in his eyes all adults are supposed to play along and let him win and then praise him for it and that's what a game is. The mom give zero fucks about the games so she doesn't care that he wins or that he gets spoiled from it but she is literally raising the most insufferable kid because of it.

No. 2525549

>>2525492
I feel you on that! Try filling every meal with lots and lots of low calorie veggies so you can still eat a large volume. Also start by just eating half your portion and waiting like 20 min before eating the rest, sometimes you realize you're already full and don't want to eat the second half anymore.

No. 2525582

>>2525386
>>2525387
You both are right, this is too much of a safety concern to stay quiet. Thanks nonnas, I'm going to talk to Coach during next week's practice.

No. 2525589

I like that more cows are being integrated into the threadpics kek. I obviously love the cats and the other shit too like Alfred but cows are always cute ♥

No. 2525606

I can't tell if I have body dysmorphia or if I just actually look like crap

No. 2525611

>>2525500
You're just the plucky protagonist in a goofy anime titled "My Stupid Baka Life"

No. 2525618

>>2525545
Tangentially related, I'm worried about this new generation of "soft parenting". On paper it sounds great, but when I see it IRL the parents never put it in practice correctly and instead they just let their kid rule the house and do whatever they want because they're afraid of using the word "no". We're going to have so many more insufferable entitled scrotes in the future

No. 2525646

I introduced too many products into my skincare routine at once, and now im not sure what's making me breakout RERRRREEEEEEEEE

No. 2525661

>>2525646
I'm betting it's niacinamide. I fucking hate niacinamide.

No. 2525736

just got home after getting stalked in a mall outlet by what looked like an immigrant
>inb4 politics and race bait
fuck no, this shit pissed me off, that fucker was just gravitating there and was following me to different aisles, store was small, I raised my tone at him and pretended to look at something else then bolted out of the store and out of the mall, I saw him exiting the store and looking around for me
time to take my pepper spray again and next time I'll be screaming my lungs in the store, this has never fucking ever happened to me or any of my adult women friends, what in the actual fuck
I am fuming right now, fuck this shit
Europe btw

No. 2525843

I dont even understand whats wrong with my mental health anymore. Most of my relationships with women have just been for sex/hookups and not long lasting at all. I dont know what mental illness I have because all my sexual fantasies involve serious violence and im too afraid to tell a therapist. and I dont even know why im like this because its not even like I have any kind of childhood trauma, im just weird and I hate it. Ive been sleeping with this one woman ive known for a while now but I haven't even been able to cum once from sex, and its not like im about to ask her to indulge in my weird ass fantasies. I love her a lot and I do wanna continue what we have but why why why. I hate my mind so much. why can't I enjoy normal sex

No. 2525846

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my annoying moid flatmate is probably moving out soon, so after two years of retardation i'm free. he refuses to communicate with me or help with the house issues despite being 6 years older. eg the boiler broke, and instead of getting it fixed he ignores it and complains when i use the more expensive timer, try to get it fixed, even spending some of my own money to call a guy in when i'm on half his income and have little cash for this stuff.

he blames me for petty things, bottles everything up and when i try to discuss things politely he shuts down and ignores me. we can't even hang out because he has zero conversation skills and says disgusting things about women he's dated and wants to fuck. sadly when he leaves i'm going to have to pay increased rent and the boiler is still broken, which means higher electricity bills and council tax. currently unemployed and i have no clue when i'll find a new job, so i'm bricking it wondering if i'll end up homeless by the end of 2025. that said i'm still happy i might have the place to myself.

i could talk to him but i would have to force a conversation and he's likely to shift blame to me, take zero accountability and do nothing to help our situation. is it even worth it so i can wait until i have money before he fucks off??

No. 2525855

I have a friend, we're not super duper close but I don't really have friends anyways so I want to try my best to get a bit closer her but I dont want to overstep boundaries here. So she's been in a 'situationship' FWB with this guy for over 2 years now. She cheats on him and sleeps with whatever other guy she wants, but also is clearly often very unhappy with this main guy of hers. I haven't met him for the longest time and only saw some pic on insta where he looks kinda generic normie type and average-ish.
But today I was with my Nigel in a park and we randomly ran into them. We only ever hung out either me and her, or us as a couple with her only so it was a first. And I'm shocked. Disgusted and disturbed with how HIDEOUS he is. Like he's shorter than her which is already crazy since she isn't even tall for a girl. Beady squinty eyes (even though he's white, not an Asian ancestry thing), disgusting rat beard, acne everywhere, and just such an aloof expression. Didn't manage to look me or my Nigel in the eyes. Just generally scrawny, unkept incel type. I couldn't fucking believe it.
You need to understand that she is hot. Like she could do modeling. It's crazy she's literally stunning and is out there with the most rodent-in-human form looking dude, and telling me about how he made her cry and was super mean and berating when she was a few mins late to when he picked her up. He doesn't even have a fucking job. I'm literally speechless and don't know how to start another intervention because before meeting him even I already told her multiple times that she must break up this mess and how pointless it is for her to stay. I just cannot comprehend getting played by a fucking facially impaired dwarf that won't even commit to her.

No. 2525910

Went to the hospital for an appointment, came back out and some retard parked behind my car so I couldn't back out. They weren't even in a fucking parking space. It's free parking so there's no tow company signs posted anywhere, called the hospital and they passed me on to security. Waited an hour for security and no one came so I called back. This bitch picks up the phone and tells me "I just walked around that entire lot for 20 minutes" funny because I've been sitting here for an hour looking for someone and no one came. She finally comes out again, basically tells me it's my own fault for not being able to maneuver my way out, screaming at me while trying to guide me out while I'm making a million tiny 3 point turns moving an inch at a time, tells me "no wonder you keep getting stuck" like BITCH I'm in a fucking designated parking space unlike the person behind me, why are you getting mad at me as if this is my fault?
Finally after an hour and a half of sitting there, nearly scraping my front end against a cement wall and nearly coming in contact with both the car beside me and the car behind me multiple times, I'm able to twist and squeeze my way out. I still try to thank her because there is absolutely no chance I would have been able to do that without someone guiding me and she tells me "just so you know, it's free parking so people can do whatever the fuck they want." word for word. Good to fucking know thanks. I'll be sure to let everyone in town know that it's completely free reign at the hospital, park wherever the fuck you want because they won't tow you or do anything about it even if you're blocking other cars in. In fact it will be the other cars fault and not your own.

No. 2525928

does any nona have experience starting a brand new online identity? like completely disregarding the old one and dfe. i've felt very tempted to do it recently and having been going under the same username since i was a teenager. i'm now an adult and i'm not attached to the profile i've built at all, much less any of my followers or mutuals. my only issue is that i still have some friends i still talk to but i'm not quite attached to them either.

No. 2525931

>in bed after a long day
>havent fap in 3 days
>still not horny
feels like a waste of a night, wish i was horny to spend a nice sexy night… ill just watch videos of my husbando instead

No. 2525934

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>>2525661
I actually have been using a new 10% niacinamide serum, wtf. I also use a toner with niacinamide but It's been fine for my skin. My only other serum has niacinamide too, guess I'll have to stop using serum temporarily

No. 2525939

>>2525934
nona I also used a 10% niacinamide solution before and that shit will fuck your skin up. I use a serum with only 2% now and its a lot better. I dont know why 10% solutions are so common because it will irritate the majority of people's skin

No. 2525945

>>2525646
It’s using tons of products, the less you use the better it is.

No. 2525948

>>2525945
I don't use a ton of products, i guess it would be better to say I replaced too many products at once. I changed my serum, cleanser and sunscreen
>>2525939
Aaaahhh that fucking sucks. Both of my serums are 10% but my toner is only 3% so I'll stick with that. Thank you though anon, I'll cut out the serum and see if my skin reacts better

No. 2525951

>>2525736
Nah you are absolutely right nonna. I’m an immigrant too and guess what? I get harassed by the same scrotes too. It’s an XY problem.
They see that we have the same color and they start calling me “sister” “pretty”, why the fuck should I talk to a 40 year old? They also harass you here because they want you to buy their bundles, glasses or whatever shit they sell, so they aggressively tell you that they are gifts only to ask money later. Some of them are at the supermarket waiting for you to give them money, others are in parking lots expecting you to give them money because they point out at free parking spots as if you don’t have fucking eyes kek, I was parking my car once and parked in an easier place, the retard followed me and waited outside and started shouting that I wasn’t grateful.

No. 2525954

>>2525646
>>2525661
NTA but niacinamide can cause a lot of purging, yeah. but it’s temporary! it’s important to keep your face clean (but don’t overwash) and moisturized. i’ve used niacinamide since 2020 and when i first started it i had lots of zits pop up that went away by themselves without me trying to pop them, you just keep using the niacinamide as a spot treatment on zits.

No. 2525960

>>2525954
Niacinamide shouldn't cause purging because it doesn't really increase cell turnover.

No. 2525976

>>2525646
did you introduce any actives like acids or vitamin c? those can fuck you up, especially exfoliating since it can dry your skin
I doubt it's the niacinamide, skincare is very fucking ymmv so it could be any ingredient, take it from a skincare obsessed nonna

No. 2525978

>>2525976
Niacinamide can really fuck your skin up bad, don't know why that's hard to believe.

No. 2525980

>>2525954 is incorrect because only actives ( retinol, tretinoin, vit C, AHA, BHA) can cause purging
>>2525978
I know that, but there are other ingredients that can cause an even worse breakout

No. 2525982

>>2525910
Oh man that sucks. If you want to be evil and get some revenge you could try to leave one (or multiple, if extra evil) reviews on that parking lot google maps review. Letting people know that the lines are just a guidance and that they won't call a toe truck but instead yell at whoever tries to complain. Make sure to describe whoever told you that it's free reign so they'll know who to blame. Karen's will spawn there and ruin their life.

No. 2525997

>>2525976
No, I don't believe so. I do use BHA but only twice (sometimes only once) a week and not recent enough for this breakout

No. 2526041

ngl i'm kind of lonely

No. 2526058

If you’re a failure what kind of career path are you supposed to pursue? There are no jobs anywhere

No. 2526066

>>2526058
Learn to cut hair.

No. 2526077

>>2526058
Doing nails is quite lucrative , but maybe you need talent for that, but I think that with good practice you can be good.

No. 2526115

I fucking hate having bad hearing, I'm only 28 and I'm considering hearing aids. It's not even my fault, my family just has really garbage genetics when it comes to hearing, everyone ends up getting hearing aids by 40. Sucks…

No. 2526120

I did something thats considered to be bad luck across several cultures and now I’m really scared. I can’t handle my life getting harder than it already is or experiencing more bad luck than I already have. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do next.

No. 2526122

I'm really getting tired of just how bad my boyfriend handles shit like taxes and federal loans. Like holy shit dude how are you getting into so much fucking trouble? Can you not fucking read? Like seriously. He's mad he owes the IRS like 100 dollars for wrongly filed taxes… then don't wrongly file your fucking taxes. He knew he fucked up too and even mentioned to me he wasn't going to do anything about it until I convinced him to by reminding him about the fucking IRS.

No. 2526123

>>2526120
what was it… if you killed a ladybug it mightve been a lady beetle instead which is an invasive species and not the same so its fine

No. 2526124

>>2526123
I think I killed a honeybee. I know it wasn’t a bumble bee because it wasn’t the big fat fluffy kind, it was the skinny stripey kind with the wings that sit directly behind them not beside them

No. 2526130

>>2526122
He sounds a little retarded. He needs to make a turbotax account.

No. 2526144

>>2526124
If you do a good luck ritual, it cancels out. Go to the ocean and swim in it, or take a bath with a quarter cup of salt added to it. Make sure you submerge yourself completely underwater.

No. 2526149

>>2526122
It costs money, but he should get someone to do his taxes for him. I have a very specific fear of accidentally committing tax fraud, so I go to a place similar to Turbotax to get it handled for me.

No. 2526217

>>2525960
>>2525980
I don’t ever know what to believe anymore because a bunch of websites will say “niacinamide doesn’t cause purging” and then a million other websites that say “niacinamide can cause purging”. Kek I guess this is how it is with even the simplest of topics when you’re in the age of misinformation and no one actually knowing anything, even professionals,

No. 2526220

>>2526122
Stop dating Ted Beneke

No. 2526223

>>2525855
>You need to understand that she is hot. Like she could do modeling. It's crazy she's literally stunning and is out there with the most rodent-in-human form looking dude, and telling me about how he made her cry and was super mean and berating when she was a few mins late to when he picked her up. He doesn't even have a fucking job. I'm literally speechless and don't know how to start another intervention because before meeting him even I already told her multiple times that she must break up this mess and how pointless it is for her to stay. I just cannot comprehend getting played by a fucking facially impaired dwarf that won't even commit to her.
I've seen this more times than I can count. I just know the sex sucks too, if he can even get it hard. If you wanna do self-harm, do drugs like a functional self-destructive adult. But fuck proper people.

No. 2526350

Why even try if I'm never gonna get to marry a virgin? Why should I contribute to society, if society won't give me what I want most? I'm just going to be a NEET or kill myself.

No. 2526381

>>2526350
Relatable. I thought i found the one and then he confessed he slept with 7 different women. Man whores, not even once.

No. 2526404

>mom never leaves the house
>her bedroom tv runs 24/7
>cell phone she does not use constantly on the charger
>wastes a wash cycle and detergent a day washing a couple clean pajama sets and a towel with maybe three pairs of socks
>room lights always on

>I leave the kitchen light on while I am scrolling my phone in the couch
>A HIGH CRIME AND SHE MUST SPECIFICALLY EMERGE FROM HER ROOM TO SHUT THAT LIGHT OFF THAT HAS BEEN ON FOR LESS THAN AN HOUR TO SAVE NICKELS ON THE ELECTRIC BILL
Bitch ate all my unopened snacks while I was away at work too.

No. 2526405

>>2526350
>Why should I contribute to society, if society won't give me what I want most?
And you offer what exactly?

No. 2526442

>>2526350
Well contributing to society is how you could find your virgin and you’d be a better more well rounded person for having continued to contribute. What if your virgins the kind of person who finds such a defeatist attitude unattractive? You’re letting potential virgins slip through your fingers by giving up so easily.

No. 2526444

>>2525928
i guess just create a new account and go from there. maybe screenshot/record your current page if you do decide to delete it, download your data and/or archive it on the wayback machine kek, it can be fun to look back at later in life.

No. 2526457

>>2526350
on that note, what's a surefire way of knowing if someone is truly a virgin? my first bf was in his mid-twenties and certified to me he never had a gf before, but I could never be sure if that was a lie, since he was genuinely conventionally attractive even if kind of autistic

No. 2526467

i bought a new skincare serum and idk if itll work but it makes me feel nice applying goo on my face

No. 2526471

My life and mental state got 10x better when I accepted I don't have to be with a man if they're so trashy. I do want a child so at worst I'll give some dude his chance, we'll have children, I'll realize he's trash and I'll dump him and still have my child.

No. 2526478

Found a new imageboard that's actually scrotefree (for example there's no scrote larping as lesbians) but it's kind of dead. Can't have your cake and eat it too I guess.

No. 2526492

I hate when people find out you have an issue and they pull the "Why didn't you tell me?" kind of act. We obviously didn't have that kind of closeness, that's why. It's so egotistical that you need to humbly brag that you are such a caring and empathetic person when the issue has nothing to do with you. You mustn't be that caring if people feel like they can't open up to you and be vunerable.

No. 2526495

>>2526492
you're picking on this person for no reason? if the person's saying that it's to reaffirm that you should have felt comfortable to count on them, and that in the future you should know they have your back
your post really annoyed me lmfao people will really resent others for the dumbest fucking shit it's insane

No. 2526497

>>2526492
Well, why didn't you tell them nona? They obviously think that your relationship was close enough that you should have been able to do that.
>You mustn't be that caring if people feel like they can't open up to you and be vunerable
Well you can't. This isn't about other people but about your relationship to this person.

No. 2526502

>post yourself online
>get added hours later while you were asleep
>sends me no message
>removes me before I wake up
>try to add them back
>they accept, sends a message, deletes it, them removes me again before I get to react
>add them back, again
>they ask me "what I want"
>I ask them what their problem is
>they act passive-aggressive and I immediately get removed again
I don't get paid nearly enough to deal with such spergs

No. 2526506

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> Had the worst fucking month of my life, stewing in rage
> Living with parents for my summer break, and my father orders pizza
> Delicious
> Ask father if he put it away after we eat since he gets easily distracted, he did
> 3 hours later
> Pizza is not in the fridge
> Spend 1-2 minutes deciding if the battle is worthy before asking where the pizza went
> He was pleasant, but ate it
> "What? I ate it, nonnie-insert."
> Having a bippie meltdown over not getting a pizza slice when he bought it with his own money
> The final straw with this month and all the police shit that came from it is not getting this stupid fucking pizza slice, I bottle everything up until one tiny setback makes me lose my shit

No. 2526510

I REALLY don't want to study today

No. 2526518

>>2526492
It's okay, nona, I understand. The phrase "Why didn't you tell me?" was used on me by the cruelest, most manipulative people I've ever known. Although I'm sure there are some people with pure and good intentions who say that and I've just been really unlucky.


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