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No. 2502644

A thread for the daft, the dim, the silly and the merely confused.

Previous thread:
>>>/ot/2479304

Please follow all global rules and remember to report and ignore bait: avoid infighting.

If you want to ask random questions and hear other anons’ personal answers, check out the Random Questions thread instead. This thread is more for asking silly questions and getting concrete answers.
Random Questions #5 thread:
>>>/ot/2478867

No. 2502645

so is there an issue with me if all I do is think about having unprotected sex all day long

No. 2502664

>>2502645
No, you're probably just ovulating

No. 2502730

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what would I search to find boots like this image?

No. 2502742

>>2502468
Usually they mean what America generally is associated with - ignorance, lack of knowledge on anything that is not american, americentrism, bad education, monolingualism, gluttony, superficiality and so on.

No. 2502747

Why are kids nowadays so obsessed with labels, yet every label can mean anything and its all up to how the person feels? Aren't those contradicting views? Like they identify so strongly with these words, and then they say anything can be that word. How can they have a strong identity as something they themselves claim doesn't really exist? Like they identify more with the word itself than any meaning behind it

No. 2502773

>>2502747
>nowadays
Back then it was no different, except social media wasn't so big.

No. 2502797

>>2502730
A help from an eurofag nonny so beware if this isn't a direct translation but: this is called cuissard style boots

No. 2502849

>>2502730
Try something like “slouchy thigh high women’s boots low heel”

No. 2503039

Is there a biological basis for sexuality?

No. 2503040

>>2503039
Other than heterosexual reproduction is necessary for our species' continued survival?

No. 2503048

>>2503040
? No I mean is there a biological correlation with heterosexuality, bisexuality and homosexuality. How the fuck did you misunderstand this question

No. 2503054

>>2503048
I wasn't sure if you were asking if there were biological incentives or reasonings behind sexuality. It's been theorized, for example, that homosexuality has been selected for in some capacity because individuals who contribute to a group's survival but don't add to its population are an advantage.

No. 2503061

>>2503054
is there a scientific purpose for bisexual people? they can procreate just like straight people, but also engage in homosexual activities, so what's the point of them?

No. 2503065

>>2503061
No clue, honestly.

No. 2503073

>>2503061
>be cave moid
>cave woman is pregnant
>even my miniscule brain can figure out that having sex with her at this time will likely hurt the baby and/or be inconvenient to me in some way (because kek at moid empathy)
>other cave moids are available
>utters first words of spoken language
>"not gay if balls not touch"

No. 2503084

>>2503039
for reproduction purposes yes. for us homos we are just here to vibe I think. my mom's cat is gay and its really cute when he brings his boyfriend over. sexuality is just meant to be a mystery I suppose.

No. 2503102

is it normal to suddenly start getting unexplained (as in even the doctors don't know) heart problems in your late 20s?

No. 2503103

>>2503039
I kind of meant like… the biology of sexual attraction to men and women with this question? I don’t believe that there’s a specific evolutionary purpose for being gay or straight, that honestly seems really retarded to me… As if there’s a biological purpose for the tribe if some people prefer fat women or skinny women or cute men or macho men. Like it just exists, variation exists. My pet hasn’t got a same-sex hubby because the primordial DNA gods thought that would be beneficial some way, and anthropomorphising biological intention is stupid. Like is that not obvious to anyone but me? Things with no purpose or with detrimental purpose happen all the time, in fact probably the majority of the time…?

I’m talking physiologically and neurologically, what is the difference between a gay man, bisexual man, and straight man, and the same for women.

No. 2503104

>>2503084
Can I hear more about your gay cat? Maybe in the cat love thread, or is that too on the nose. It just sounds very cute.

No. 2503106

>>2503061
There's a lot of theories but I think the most convincing is the same that "explains" a subset of troons and gays having a fagcent in basically every language - in-utero hormonal fuckery.

No. 2503119

>>2503061
I really think it's just one of those things which evolution did because it could.

No. 2503122

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My father having a mid-life crisis and is making me learn options and stock tradings because he missed out on it so he's making me do it in his stead to live vicariously through me, he's literally taking $100 out of his paycheck every month to give to me to do it. I don't know the first thing about trading beyond Buy Low, Sell High. Can any nonnie give me some recommended reading and watching for the retarded?

No. 2503129

>>2503103
People have an overly idealistic idea of evolution. The truth is that it's an amazing process, but it isn't perfect or deliberate, it's just the result from billions of years of trial and error. If something breeds faster than it dies, it gets to stay on Earth. Doesn't matter how, doesn't matter about biological drawbacks like immune disorders or cancer or the ability to die from rotten teeth. Evolution doesn't care as long as a species can shit out kids. Sometimes the reason for a function is just "it didn't get in the way of our species' survival so it was allowed to stay in our genes."

No. 2503141

Can you take a bath with a skin fungus or would your entire body become a fungus?

No. 2503146

>>2503141
No bath!!

No. 2503149

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Fandom nonnies, is Voltron worth watching at all for shipping? I've seen and heard terrible things about the old fandom and show but I think the male characters besides the buff one are hot

No. 2503155

are there transbians or agps in thailand? or do the ladyboys bully them out from being trans>

No. 2503164

>>2503149
If you're only interested in picrel then it's okay, but it's FAR from the "almost canon" fujobait the fandom wants you to believe. You won't have a shortage of old fanworks to read, though. Sheith had better chemistry imo

No. 2503187

>>2503155
I feel like with the new wave of trannism they are bound to be but since you have lady boys there I feel like they could be more strict as in a scrote with a beer belly, five clock shadow, 5 months on E would be ridiculed kek.
In these poor countries, like even Brazil, it’s better to be a faggot tranny though, since they are basically all prostitutes, who seek men.

No. 2503192

>>2503155
What's the difference between ladyboys and troons?

No. 2503197

>>2503084
Maybe it’s a way to population control in a way I feel like human beings are like cockroaches, so adding homosexuality as a genetic dead end is quite genius on mother nature’s part.

No. 2503199

>>2503192
They are both trannies. Ladyboys just admit that they are ladyboys, they are also gay.

No. 2503206

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Did he really kill himself?

No. 2503219

>>2503102
If the doctors don’t know then it’s definitely not normal. But do what you can about it & avoid extra stress. A heart condition can be unusual and benign at the same time

No. 2503299

is it weird to have not have been a horny teenager? i didn’t know this was actually the norm and thought it was just a stereotype since they’re “hormonal”. 15-year-old me did not think about sex much beyond crude jokes, i associate being sex-crazed with young adulthood

No. 2503309

>>2503299
Whoever perpetuated the horny teenager stereotype is/was probably on a watchlist

No. 2503322

>>2503299
I always assumed that stereotype only applied to moids

No. 2503323

>>2503299
I've never been as horny as I was when I was a teenager. Used to have horny dreams every night and was just generally obsessed with sex, not that I ever had any. It faded by my twenties. It just depends when your puberty hits and other factors like medication, health, trauma, and just generally is gonna vary from person to person because everybody is different.

No. 2503329

Does anyone else become the inverse of the period stereotypes on their period? When I'm on mine I don't crave anything and I'm way more emotionally muted than I usually am. Inb4 someone says I'm probably tired from the iron loss or something which is true kek

No. 2503353

>>2503329
ME TOO! I’ve heard it’s because your hormones are at an all time low during menstruation. I really like being on my period. It puts me in touch with my body & I’m grateful to have a healthy cycle

No. 2503355

>>2503329
Wait I thought I was the only one! I used to think PMS was a myth until I got the science for it (progesterone and its neurosteroid metabolite that makes you calm dropping at the start of your cycle). I was like ohhh so they actually do feel bad on those days… Yeah no, someone brought up having nightmares around their period on here and I answered about it then too, yeah I lurk a lot, anyway after I started paying attention I realised my main menstrual cycle symptom is dreams and hunger in my luteal phase. I don’t get horny around ovulation either (also thought that was a myth before). I feel best during my luteal phase and menses, I have more creativity and depth during the former but my mind is definitely easiest to manage during my period. After the first day of pain it’s like everything is clear. But my appetite is really low, I can barely eat anything. So I don’t relate to the people wanting sweets and ice cream around that time either. Sorry for sperg I just really like talking kek

No. 2503423

>>2503329
I think the symptoms usually manifest before menstruation, hence the name PREmenstrual syndrome. I feel awful before my period, but when I do get it, it is like my mind is finally at peace.

No. 2503437

>>2503329
Wish I had this, I always feel jaded and suicidal.

No. 2503441

>>2503299
I watched the amazing world of gumball and played Pokémon at that age kek. I started thinking about sex later on but even then it wasn’t crazy , it was just a bit of curiosity and disgust.

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No. 2503621

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For the anons who prefer to trim back their body hair rather than fully shave, like armpits for example, how do you handle scissors with the opposite hand? I might just end up buying one of those "intimate area" razors, but there's gotta be an easier way with the scissors right?

No. 2503647

>>2503423
I remember shouting at my mom, arguing that it was POST menstrual. I was, indeed, experiencing PRE menstrual syndrome kek

No. 2503652

>>2503206
Is this yohio?

No. 2503660

nonnies with good work from home setups what office chairs are you using? i got sucked into office chair reviews and reddit because i want a new chair but am anxious over making a decision. please.

No. 2503708

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does barnes & noble just let you loiter and read like it's a library, last time i went there they had manga and i really want to get into it but can't read it digitally because i have eye strain problems. i don't want to have to pay for it though beforehand

No. 2503711

>>2503708
Barnes & Noble has always allowed a certain amount of loitering. They can't staff the whole store. If it's anything like it was in the 2000s, though, they keep a close eye on the manga section because they're a high theft item. You can always take one, read it elsewhere in the store (like near the Starbucks, if they still have those), and return it.

No. 2503909

I never usually get Starbucks, can someone tell me their favorite order, because I don't want to get the super boring shit I have gotten in the past

No. 2503920

>>2503708
Naruto really shouldn't have a ramen bowl as his cutie mark. A rasengan or a swirl would fit so much better. Like ramen isn't his special talent. Sorry for mlp/naruto sperg

No. 2503978

Is it a red flag if someone you're dating only communicates with WhatsApp or Telegram or any of the encrypted apps?

No. 2503980

>>2503909
The brown sugar shaken espresso thing is good or if you don’t mind sweets I like an iced raspberry mocha. If you want to try experimenting you can use a latte as a blank canvas and ask for any flavor with it.

No. 2503982

>>2503978
WhatsApp is a complete normie app

No. 2503986

>>2503980
thank you so much! I will try

No. 2503991

>me looking at 2D men
SEXOOOOO
>me looking at 3D men
Gross, disgusting abomination
Why is that? I'm in my late 20s and still a virgin and I will most likely stay a virgin because I find real men so gross and lacking in humanity and personality department. Other women can somehow look past that and still fuck some men, but I can't. And it's not just the fact that most men are ugly, even I, rarely, see a handsome young man, I still feel gross just thinking about touching him. The only men I actually found attractive were some 50s actors who died a long time ago. But I still don't know if I would touch them if given the chance

No. 2503993

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Are hamsters and bunnies natural? By this I mean, do they exist in nature or are they manmade animals destined to be pets

No. 2503996

>>2503993
No they were manifested into the world for humans

No. 2503997

>>2503991
You may need therapy or take solace in your solitude.

No. 2503999

>>2503993
We used to get wild rabbit infestations every now and then so can confirm they're natural

No. 2504002

>>2503993
I'll forgive you for not knowing that hamster's are native to Europe, but how do you not know about wild rabbits?

No. 2504022

>>2503982
Yes, but only that and nothing else and insists you only use it

No. 2504023

>>2503991
Nothing wrong with this

No. 2504051

Are most skinny adults lifetime skinny or chubby/regular kids who turned out skinny?

No. 2504054

>>2504051
lifetime skinny

No. 2504062

>>2504051
Lifetime skinny

No. 2504071

How much physical affection with friends is normal for you?
>>2504062
I feel weird about the fact I was a really chubby kid/preteen but skinny as an adult.

No. 2504134

does tumblr have a secret feature where if you leave a comment/reply (not a reblog) it also notifies the person who put the post on your timeline EVEN if you don't tag them, just like it would if you were reblogging from them? i almost never interact with posts beyond liking/reblogging but the two times I have left a reply someone has come back wondering if i left it for them to see it

No. 2504171

I really dislike seafood but shrimp and cod are fine to me (not amazing but I’ll eat them) I really hate salmon, tuna and sardines. I want to expand my seafood range. Where should I start? If I don’t mind shrimp would scallops and clams be the next logical step?

No. 2504173

>>2504134
Yes tumblr does notify the person who reblogged it who you commented on. I've had rando 3-way convos with the OP, the person who reblogged it, and me lol.

>>2504171
Personally I really like king prawns

No. 2504176

>>2504071
Hugs are cool. Kisses on the cheek maybe at special occasions like weddings. When I was in HS, we would sit in each other's laps to make space when it was crowded but that was about it.

No. 2504185

>>2504071
All my girl friends are pretty affectionate with one another. Lots of physical contact like hugging, cuddling, sitting on top of one another, doing each other's make up and hair, etc. is pretty normal. In some places a kiss near the cheek is expected as a greeting. As a lesbian I try not to be overly affectionate, and I try not to touch any moid. Many of my straight girl friends will be much more affectionate towards each other than any moid unless it's the one they're dating.

No. 2504218

I'm trying to upload a video on the help me find thread but it doesnt let me…gives me an error page. It's 12 seconds long, i cropped the video to be as small as possible, saved it as new video so that the size shrinks…still nothing…i need to find a song desperately and am willing to donate money as a reward WHAT DO I DO????

No. 2504222

>>2504071
Why would you feel weird? Losing weight, fasting, exercise, even anachan-ing out is rather normal

No. 2504259

>>2503652
No, Frank Wolf

No. 2504263

>>2504022
The use of WhatsApp is so widespread here, even that doesn't raise any flags lol. What else are you supposed to use, facebook?

No. 2504285

What's your max age difference in relationships in both directions?

No. 2504286

>>2504071
I'd probably get accused of being a tranny if I went into any detail… lmao

No. 2504298

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what animal could've dug these holes in My FUCKING Y A R D?!

No. 2504302

In a suddenly matriarchal society, would the ideal woman still follow current beauty standards (makeup, shaving, being small and sexy), or would admiration shift toward more masculine traits (like strength and size)?

No. 2504308

I need some honest feedback. Is it really so bad, aside from my fuel pump, that I drive up to say, 5-10 miles left on my gas tank? I have never had to use my car to go anywhere suddenly in my life. I only ever drive my car to work and back. I don't use my car to get groceries or go to other peoples' houses, so I'm not sure how it would be a risk of someone follows my me (my work has like 4 other individuals who are unlikely to stalk me and if they did, why would they need to follow me, it would be in the employee handbook). If it's at a certain point of the day where I know there's traffic, I obviously fill up if there's a quarter of a tank left or if it's close to that. But if there isn't traffic and I check for that, what's the legitimate harm in leaving like a few miles left? I live in a populated area where there are gas stations on every corner.

No. 2504314

>>2504302
It would be intelligence and reasoning.

No. 2504315

>>2504285
For me personally, I wouldn’t date someone more than four years apart from me, older or younger. Within four years, you basically both went to high school around the same time. More than that it’s getting kinda sketch. I don’t really care as much what other women do, but I will absolutely side-eye the fuck out of a dude dating a girl like 10 years younger than him.

No. 2504316

>>2504285
3 years

No. 2504319

>>2504263
Nta but a lot of American's use iMessage. If you are not using an iPhone it gives you a dirty Android peasant green colour on your messages instead of blue. That could be what he's scared about. It's dumb anyway.

No. 2504321

>>2504302
I think there would still be some beauty standards (for both men and women), because humans admire beauty in general. It just wouldn’t be the most important thing about a woman. And the standards would probably be more like looking clean and healthy rather than having lip fillers and a BBL.

No. 2504322

>>2504022
I genuinely don't know anyone who doesn't use exclusively Whatsapp

No. 2504323

>>2504298
ants??

No. 2504331

Where would I go to find other loser unwashed women into philosophy like me

No. 2504337

>>2504331
You go on here kek. That being said nice to see another unwashed woman into philosophy.
>>2504302
I think beauty standards in matriarchal societies would be a lot more diverse and based on personal effort like the quality of clothing, hair, etc; Like how a lot of women in many subcultures can appreciate women of other subcultures based on how much time they put on their appearance and thought they put into their outfits.

No. 2504358

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How do you lose weight when your partner is supportive on the surface, but doesn't actually care about health nor to help out so they end up enabling you to keep eating unhealthy? I have a big sugar problem but I can't force someone to give up their snacks just because I can't keep my own grubby fingers away…

No. 2504365

>>2504302
In current day studies women prefer skinnier and smaller bodies on other women than what men like, so it's possible the beauty standards even get worse… women are competitive, a lot of trends are to show off to other women, not to actually attract men. Though hopefully it would also mean that following beauty trends would be less relevant, but for those who do it would likely be just as fucked up as now.

No. 2504369

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Would they condone slurs? Since good is bad and bad is good to them

No. 2504372

>>2504358
Have a serious talk. Tell them it's very hard for you to say no to sugar and you need them to support you because you want to be successful. They can have snacks, but maybe keep them out of your sight like in their desk drawer or something. Or let them know it's okay for them to firmly deny you snacks when you try to eat them. If it's really a big issue for you though then they should sacrifice keeping sweets stored in the house for you, sometimes relationships require sacrifices.

No. 2504387

What makes a good lolita coord and a bad lolita coord? Im looking between both lolita threads on /g/ and I'm struggling to find any major differences except for how ugly the person wearing it is. I'm not a lolita by any means, so please be patient.

No. 2504388

>>2504308
I also am curious because immediately this got turned into a "gendered" issue at my male workplace even though I don't know any other women who do this.

No. 2504412

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>>2504369
yes, anon what a great idea for a film, if we lived in a sane worl

No. 2504419

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>>2504387
It's a lot of things, but it all can be chalked up to a lack of taste and inexperience. The more obvious itas are the ones who buy very cheap and poorly crafted dresses/skirts, chinese brands are the most guilty of producing these, but there are still some good quality chinese brands. The print will be shiny and will look like polyester, there may be too many details like ruffles and lace (poorly made too). Another obvious one is blouseless coords, accessories like leg warmers, fishnets or other pantyhose, demonia shoes that do not match, etc. This one can be easy to overlook if you are new but a lot of itas have no understanding of motifs and will mix and match items that clash. Picture a black skirt with a cathedral print paired with some black pumps adorned with bows. It sounds fine but the cathedral motif is obviously considered gothic and the shoes would be sweet, picrel would have been a better match. You mentioned them being ugly, I do think there's some bias in those threads but that does bring up another point. Lolita is all about presentation and that will have to include things like hygeine, skincare, makeup and haircare. Having greasy, dyed hair that's been growing out will immediately make your coord look less put together, it makes you look like you haven't given the outfit much thought. Same goes for clown makeup. Some women, at least in my opinion, have faces that don't suit their chosen style. I don't think they should be posted for having an unfitting face, though.

No. 2504420

>>2504387
It’s also important to look clean and polished. Silhouette also plays a big part (think of petti form matching the dress/style)

No. 2504431

>>2504387
I am yet to see a good lolita coord

No. 2504457

>>2503329
Yeah, my appetite decreases and I suddenly have a lot of energy and breeze through my workouts. My bloat also goes away and I feel like I'm on top of the world. I love being on my period kek

No. 2504462

why dose'nt lc have a pin option, sometimes i just wanna check on relatively inactive threads without typing it out since i forget the specific key words for the more of-topic threads

No. 2504468

Will doing improv help me with social skills?

No. 2504472

>>2504462
Just pin the tab?

No. 2504495

>>2504302
There would be less emphasis on looks overall, but more on health, intelligence, logic and reason.

No. 2504499

>>2504387
It's a lot of little things that add up, usually. Cheap materials, a bad fit, mismatched colors, thinking that the hair and makeup aren't part of the coord, no or mismatched accessories… the list goes on forever. Like >>2504419 said lots of newbies mix styles that don't go together so it ends up looking weird. Or they'll stick a massive headbow on their flat short hair and forget the petticoat and wear a plain Shein button down with their ill-fitting JSK and socks that come halfway up their calves and make them look obese even if they're thin and pair it with ugly clunky shoes and a bag that has nothing to do with the coord.
You need to pay attention to the tiny details to make a good coord. Simple coords are fine and look great but you still need to make the whole thing look cohesive.
The EGL livejournal used to be full of extreme nitpicking over one brand's shade of sax vs another brand's shade of sax and why it was impossible to wear them together because they were totally different colors and didn't fucking match reeeee. It was hilarious and everyone took it way too seriously but I kinda miss those days, now everyone's a lolita if the frills are in your heart and there are no rules uguuu. It was common to put together collages of coord ideas to justify a major purchase, because lolita is an expensive fashion and you'd have to squeeze as many outfits as possible out of every item. That meant that wardrobes were built slowly and with a lot of intent. If you didn't understand the rules, you'd end up with blouses that didn't match your skirts and JSKs, accessories that matched nothing, and wigs meant for a totally different style.

No. 2504716

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Have you ever met this kind of guy before?

No. 2504719

>>2504716
Pretentious retards, clinging desperately to their fading alt looks, who hang around girls too young for them? Yes, unfortunately.

No. 2504732

>>2504716
>>2504719
Yup, exactly the kind of guy I was thinking about. I unfortunately knew a ton of them. I'm thankful that I don't know quite as many anymore.

No. 2504741

Is Gale from Breaking Bad gay??? I need to know so I can stop fantasizing,

No. 2504742

>>2504741
No way do you find that thumb attractive…

No. 2504744

>>2504742
I’m sorry nonna, I too couldn’t believe it, but his character was so sweet
so is he or not?

No. 2504745

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>>2504744
Nta but I don't think so, it's never been confirmed iirc but does it matter either way? If you wanna yume do so. Be like picrel

No. 2504775

>>2504744
He's like the most retarded character though

No. 2504829

>>2504741
Hes giving child molester vibes wtf anon

No. 2504853

Do any anons know where to get quality (piano) music sheets for free? Any good torrent sites? Everything seems to be paywalled. There used to be piano sheet exchange sites and so on but they don't exist anymore.

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>>2504741
there's been a fan theory for years that he was some kind of sex pest or had an otherwise shady past. it's probably bullshit but maybe that will be enough to kill your libido

No. 2504953

>>2504938
This might be true, that one video where he’s singing? I think the subtitles were Thai
I think I’ll indulge my retarded self though and just ignore all the major red flags

No. 2504964

What's the thought process of people who have beef with random children in public? Like it's perfectly acceptable to tell an adult who rudely cut in line that their behavior was unacceptable, but there's so many middle aged people yelling at literal random 7yos where I'm from. Do they treat children like they're adults in smaller bodies or some shit? It's retarded beyond belief. Inb4 children need to learn manners but being four times a kid's age and screeching like an autist in public doesn't look good on you either

No. 2504974

>>2504741
I always had the feeling that he was some kind of pedophile. Pedos in media are often depicted as childish and somewhat flamboyant.

No. 2505012

>>2504853
are you looking for classical? if so you probably already know this but there's imslp

No. 2505102

>>2504964
I typed a long ass paragraph as a response, but I get the feeling that this was more of a rhetorical question. The short answer is: some people don't like children. A lot of people, actually, don't like children. Some people with children do not even like children. That's basically it, you only care about it because you do like them.

No. 2505112

>>2504964
I didn't have beef with a child in public but I don't like children. Some kids are just retarded beyond belief and sometimes they do know what they're doing but they do it anyways. Destroy stuff, make stuff dirty, being obnoxiously loud etc.. I get it kek

No. 2505151

>>2505012
Yeah, mostly classical but also movie, game and anime OSTs. There used to be a site where you could exchange sheet music or simply ask for it. That's how I got Michael Nyman's official The Piano sheet booklet (scanned) and the Kingdom Hearts piano collection among a few others. Now even poorly transcribed pieces are paywalled let alone anything official.
>but there's imslp
Yes, thanks. That's a treasure trove. One realizes how valuable such sites are after having to look for anything beyond.

No. 2505168

>>2505102
>>2505112
Ayrt. I don't like them either so I don't know what this argument is. I in fact find them annoying and tiring and loud. I'm talking about people who openly go out of their way to talk to or yell at random children in their life as if it's an interpersonal feud. Just ignore the annoying brat, why interact with them? It's a sign you're mentally childish too if you want to interact with them.
If some random child starts throwing a tantrum at the table next to you in a restaurant, would you just go up to their face and scream at them to shut the fuck up? No, unless you're itching for drama. At least yell at their parents they're raising a brat. Not beef with the literal toddler. Those types are too cowardly to tell the parents so they go for the easier target.

No. 2505172

Is early 30s too young for perimenopause?

No. 2505200

Is there a term for people who refuse to learn how to do things just so they can boss others around with it? Like some boomer who can't even turn on the front camera and constantly relies on their kids to do it for them just to foster a forced connection, or to refuse to take accountability for things etc

No. 2505216

Why are theme parks and amusement parks so crowded nowadays? I clearly remember going to amusement parks as a child (over 15 years ago at least) and I remember that we didn't have to wait in lines that much or too long, not even 5 minutes. But the last time I went to one park a few years ago, the place was so crowded it was claustrophobic. And I read an article yesterday that an average wait time to a ride at one popular park in my country is at least 20 minutes. And I'm not talking about a Disney level park or anything.

No. 2505217

>>2505216
They got more popular?

No. 2505218

>>2505200
weaponized incompetence? "Weaponized incompetence is when an individual consciously or unconsciously demonstrates helplessness in order to avoid certain tasks or responsibilities, resulting in others stepping in and doing the task for them"

No. 2505219

>>2505218
Huh, learned something new. Thanks!

No. 2505267

do you think heterosexual-claiming women who watch lesbian porn (sometimes exclusively) are genuinely heterosexual or bisexual? this has always confused me, especially because a lesbian who said she watches gay porn would not be considered lesbo

No. 2505289

>>2505267
Very likely bisexual if tits pussy and ass get them off yeah. Just like moids that watch trap/sissy porn no one would unironically in their right mind say they are heterosexual.

No. 2505299

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>>2505267
I guess it depends if they're imagining themselves having sex with those women or just watch from a voyeuristic point or something like pic related

No. 2505302

>>2505299
Female sexuality is so cucked

No. 2505303

>>2505267
There are many repressed bisexuals on this planet

No. 2505308

>>2505299
I feel like you have to be at least bisexual to “enjoy” it even in a voyeuristic way. Scratch the fact that lesbian sex in porn is never real, it’s more like a hot fantasy seen through the lens of a man.

No. 2505454

Do people assume super-attractive adults were cute kids/teens? I’m extremely insecure about how I looked until about 14 and have a neurosis about people finding out how I looked then, through family photos or social media etc and if someone wants to see a kid pic I get very anxious and say no. (I also used to be way fatter, but as an adult I’m known for my fast metabolism so I’m scared people will think I’m lying about an eating disorder or something.)

No. 2505459

>>2505299
if a man got turned on thinking about gay acts because it turned the fujos on would it be the same?
>voyeuristic view
what do you mean? i feel like being attracted to sex in a voyeuristic way is still attraction to the people

No. 2505462

>>2505454
>super attractive
I’m sorry but kek, keep it humble, anon. The answer is - literally nobody cares. The only reason anyone would care is to make themselves feel a bit better, but nobody thinks about if you were cute as an 11yo or not.

No. 2505467

>>2505462
Kek, I wanted to emphasise because some people tell me I’m the most beautiful person they’ve seen, whether they’re lying or not. Sorry if that doesn’t sound humble to say, I recognise that but we’re anonymous here, so. It’s just there’s more pressure. If someone is just kind of attractive, best-looking-person-at-your-college kind of person, I feel like the way you’re seen is different? Attractive and fuckable but no one’s putting you on a pedestal. Less people interested in how you looked as a child too.
>but nobody thinks about if you were cute as an 11yo or not.
Ok… I hope so. Thanks

No. 2505506

How do I stop my ass crack from being dry and chafing? Like in the middle the skin just like rubs off to the point I bleed sometimes and it stings so I end up peeling the dead skin/scab which just makes it worse and it never really heals properly… I've tried creams to keep the spot moisturised so it won't dry out but it hasn't helped so idk what to do

No. 2505508

>>2504302
I agree with these anons >>2504365 >>2504337
And why would characteristics associated with maleness be praised in a matriarchal society? It would just be that being masculine as a woman would not be some sort of transgression due to lacking appeal to men.

Women have their own intrasexual standards, even outside of what men like, always have. I think it’s interesting. As much as women associate hating fat girls with misogyny and men, as weight increases, the higher the proportion of men coveting your looks compared to fellow women. People don’t talk about this, but thinness is social capital. Among women and girls. When hyper-anorexia is trending is it because men think it’s suuper hot to look that thin? …No, duh, it’s women that think it’s cool and cunty to look thin, want to hang out and take pics with other thin girls, exclude girls who they think are kind of chubby or even if they’re not that mean, subconsciously think they’re lesser. You can even recognize this yourself, if you’ve ever went from average to skinny. Women will compliment you wayy more, treat you like “that girl” kek.
Other standards are presentation and style, and this includes personality. I think if women’s standards were valued over men, your curated look and aesthetic would be a big thing too. This honestly could be tied to the weight standard too with how clothes look on different bodies.
You can kind of see the difference in women and men’s idea of female beauty in games, manga, book (art) and other media that are designed and written by women FOR girls or women and girls. Winx, shoujo, even dress-up games like Nikki. I say kind of because these are still influenced by what men find attractive to a degree and there would definitely be more of less stereotypically feminine presentation.

But this is just referring to what women tend to admire and praise in other women, it doesn’t quite remove the patriarchal edge yet. Removing patriarchal standards would probably lead to a wider scope of what can be considered attractive for women, and less necessity to be considered sexually attractive to men. This doesn’t mean lack of appreciation, but lack of need to conform to what doesn’t offend men. Eg it doesn’t mean no one would want to shave, but that not shaving would not be a big deal or mean anything really.
In terms of what kind of attractiveness would be uplifted, again it’s the wider breadth. I actually think femininity would be even more praised, the difference is whether it’s male-appreciated femininity or female-appreciated femininity, which I think are two very different things. The former would be unimportant. I think qualities like elegance, warmth, romanticism, being ‘cool’ - not necessarily at the same time - would be some well-liked attributes.

No. 2505517

Do you think appearance correlates to personality in any way? Like not strongly but a little? I’ve never met a girl with big crazy eyes who wasn’t kind of crazy and there are def overlapping personality traits

No. 2505547

>>2505517
people subconsciously try to live up to the expectations others set on them, so someone who "looks crazy" may act more wild b/c they feel they have permission since ppl already assume that about them. this is also why we think people tend to "look like their names". people visualize a different type of guy if you tell them his name is Bob vs if he goes by Robert even tho both men have the same legal name. i used to think the talking heads song "seen and not seen" was just heady gibberish but it basically describes this phenomenon exactly except as if it were a conscious choice

No. 2505552

>>2505517
Phrenology might be interesting to you

No. 2505565

>>2504302
It would be less based around designing themselves for male consumption.

No. 2505574

>>2504302
In the current patriarchal society there are barely any beauty standards for men. My guess is that pressure would be put on men to look a certain way and they would be forced into uncomfortable clothes, plastic surgery and self hatred, and women would take on the role males have today where being unkempt in social settings is acceptable. I doubt women would be as dirty and unkempt as men, but women would probably look more relaxed and natural, all feminine body types would be acceptable, shaving would be uncommon, short hair would probably be way more common since it's lower maintenance, and makeup would also be uncommon in women, though I think men would wear masculinizing makeup styles.

No. 2505612

>>2504302
I responded to your post earlier and I changed my mind. I don't think I gave it enough thought and I felt like I could give much more explanations.Most of my writing is based on speculation, like a series of traits that humans prioritize and associate with power. As society currently prioritizes men on the basis of physical strength, I think matriarchal societies would prioritize women on the basis of endurance and survival (as women tend to have better long-term endurance compared to men)

I don’t think matriarchal society would necessarily focus on motherhood, but instead a higher focus on resource allocation and quality of life. The ability to have a household or state last long and prosperous would be a standard among women everywhere.

Men would have the expectation to fulfill the role of physical labor, but would be oppressed as their societal function would primarily be used for war. The idea of men dying in war for their country would be encouraged and romanticized. In a non-war setting, a man’s primary job would be taking care of the fields, and a woman's job would be dividing resources, and human resource directing. During times of war it would be easy for women to take over the fields, leaving young men to go into the trenches and die happily.

I don’t think there would be as emphasis on women being able to give life, as well as women wanting to be skinnier. The reason why a lot of women have stricter body expectations is not only because they’ve been psyop’d by gay men, but also generally having a skinnier body creates effective silhouettes. Hyper Skinniness and disordered eating is also rooted in mental issues regarding control.

Skinniness or fatness wouldn’t be something as polarizing as it is in our society, but will have more stereotypes depending on how a woman looks, like if a woman is chubbier she would have a lot more assumptions from other women to become a mother. There would be judgement towards skinnier women as hunger would reflect a poor state unable to have enough food to divide in excess, and would be associated with poorer decision making. The ideal body type would be much more diverse, but rooted in a sense of robustness, not too fat nor too skinny.

In fashion, women would have a lot more clothes to wear than men, as men would most likely wear less in order to show off their bodies to attract a woman. However the quality, craftsmanship, and coordination would be prioritized. The craftsmanship and quality would be a source of beauty standards depending on the rarity of the material, but it’s composition would reflect the prosperity of the state you reside in, the livelihood of it’s residents (how much do they give a fuck about making your clothes), and coordination would exist to reflect personal values and soundness of mind. I think matriarchal societies would have more trends while also being much more experimental in fashion. Makeup would be used by both men and women, and would also be experimental, less about accentuating the face to fit standards but to create a new face entirely, with new markings, colors, etc;

No. 2505639

What is the difference between lite mode and normal mode on LC?

No. 2505699

>>2505639
Lite uses less data

No. 2505725

I have always wondered. Does the black+red combo being considered 3edgy5u comes from the association with nazi uniforms? or why is it considered an edgy color combo

No. 2505730

>>2505725
I thought it's because emo+blood

No. 2505772

>>2505725
Black is death and red is blood.

No. 2505800

>>2505725
Why would you think it has to do with nazis KEK

No. 2505803

Does the movie get out not make sense to anyone else either

No. 2505804

>>2505725
I’ve never encountered anyone have anything bad to say about red and black outifts? I think it depends on what you’re wearing not just the color alone

No. 2505810

>>2505612
Huh, you know your matriarchial society have some interesting similarities to ancient Spartan society. Women had basically full control over the economies of the family and the men obv died in the wars. Pretty sure some of them killed their own sons for being cowardly and had government officals begging them for cash.

Now that I think about it my grandma had full control over the family's finances, buying multiple properties in the process while my grandpa worked. She also lookedshames her sons to this day.

No. 2505813

>>2503708
as long as you can avoid barnes & noble security you should be fine
(they have orders to neutralize loiterers on sight)

No. 2505835

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No. 2505915

>>2505835
Kekk why is this rendered so good? DeviantArt Sonic fans are stepping up their game I guess. I used to love scrolling through and looking at all the Sonic fan creations because they're so good to laugh at. This one is probably called like "Darkius" or "Evil Sonic" or some shit KEK

No. 2505963

>>2505915
That's shadow the hedgehog and he's an official character.

No. 2505972

I need to photoshop a couple of pictures to show a hypothetical after-situation, what's a good (preferably free) AI-tool to use for that? I haven't really used AI so far so I'm not sure and googling it just gives me a lot of pay walls.

No. 2505973

>>2505915
He’s literally been one of the most loved Sonic characters since his introduction in 2001..

No. 2505974

>>2505172
chatgpt says
>Early 30s is generally considered young for perimenopause, but it’s not impossible—especially if there are underlying health conditions, genetic factors, or certain lifestyle influences.(ai outside of containment)

No. 2506033

>>2505972
Chat gpts new image generation is insanely good, send it the original pic then ask for whatever “after” you are looking for. It should produce something decent if you are specific enough

No. 2506077

>>2506033
>It should produce something decent if you are specific enough
ntayrt but it rarely does ime, it either keeps the image the same or changes a random part you didn't ask it to change

No. 2506239

>>2505810
AYRT, I'd say the major difference between my created matriarchal society and spartans would definitely be the amount of importance placed on men in war. I think war would be a display of power, like "I'm so prosperous I can afford sending my moids to kill your moids", Women would be in the government, clearly since if you're a man and you want political power, you're basically asking to go kill yourself as you're defective. Also your grandma sounds based kek.

No. 2506255

I need your opinions nonas!
2 people are living together. A regularly gets hungry at 5, and the other B regularly at 7. They eat from the same cooked meal.

Is it more unreasonable for A to cook at 5 because they're hungry, and B has to eat it cold at 7, or eat earlier despite not being hungry yet to keep the tradition of eating together just so A can eat at their optimal time.
Or
Is it more unreasonable that A has to go hungry for 2 extra hours before cooking just because B isn't hungry yet? A struggles with weight so also doesn't want to have eat extra snacks before dinner just so B can eat at their optimal time.

Basically if 2 people are hungry at different times, do you think the earlier or the later time should dictate when they eat?

No. 2506258

>>2506255
It depends how fat they are. Whoever is fatter should be fed at the time they don't like so they can lose weight and be normal.

Also if this is about you and your moid (which it reads as) then I say dump him.

No. 2506261

>>2505172
if you had an eating disorder in the past it can contribute to early peri

No. 2506290

Are Korean American guys (born in America) circumcised?

No. 2506297

>>2506255
Eat together at 6.

No. 2506301

>>2506290
How the fuck are we supposed to know that?

No. 2506308

>>2506301
lc is filled to the brim with yellow fever, so I figured some nonnies have slept with Korean American guys.

No. 2506310

>>2506255
Just don't eat together? Problem solved. There's literally 0 reason to eat together. Also, if both eat the same meal but at different times, then they're not eating together, no? Why would the meal be cold? You don't know how to heat it up?

No. 2506316

>>2506308
Why would I ever sleep with someone from Korea. Be for real.

No. 2506321

>>2506308
The yellow fever nonas are into women. Asian moids are sexless and unattractive and none of us would ever sleep with them and neither should you(racebaiting)

No. 2506330

>>2505459
Nta but there is a problem unique to women of being primed to believe we exist as objects to be lusted after rather than active participants in our own sexuality. I have known turbo pickmes who only like lesbian porn insofar as they imagine themselves as one of the porn actresses being watched by men. It isn't about being attracted to women, it is about being attractive to men. Men don't deal with the same pressures and socialization so there is no male equivalent.

No. 2506336

>>2506330
>I have known turbo pickmes who only like lesbian porn insofar as they imagine themselves as one of the porn actresses being watched by men
Ew, insane and gross. Though it also kind of sounds like a weird sexual neuroses where imagining the real thing is too scary and they have to come up with roundabout ways to be desired.

No. 2506343

>>2506258
Kek it's actually not, but I appreciate the concern!
>>2506297
>Eat together at 6.
That's basically what happens when you start cooking at 5, B isn't happy with it. If you start at 7 dinner is basically ready at 8, which A isn't happy with.
>>2506310
Eating the same meal meant "eating from the same cooking batch" as in food only gets cooked once in the evening. So one isn't making pasta while the other is cooking up a stew. They both eat the same pasta.
Not eating together is a "negative" as that's a bonding ritual for most people. And a lot of people don't like reheating meals, for whatever reasons. If you have to eat reheated leftovers every day it can make you feel like you don't matter.

No. 2506345

>>2506308
Where is this yellow fever?

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No. 2506380

>>2506290
From what I know koreans practice circumcision in s. korea due to american influence so chances of a korean american being circumsized are even higher

No. 2506395

>>2506359
and the boogeyman is under your bed?

No. 2506397

I've noticed a lot of plastic surgery enthusiasts/addicts seem to be people who live in other countries than their own. Is that a real thing or am I crazy? Like do they seek out places they don't "fit in" so they stand out more or does not fitting in make them want to pursue change more to fit in?

No. 2506398

>>2506380
Yeah, but in South Korea they get circumcised as young adults, while Americans get circumcised as newborns. So maybe they skip the newborn circumcision, and also skip it when they grow up?

No. 2506400

>>2506397
Plastic surgery is way more common than you think, and plastic surgery "addicts" are very rare.
>>2506399
This is incredibly invalidating to the millions of victim of the boogeymen. Do better.

No. 2506402

>>2506397
This is purely speculation, but plastic surgery addicts seem like the type of people who want to "reinvent themselves", so maybe they run to foreign countries where nobody remembers their old face so they can get a fresh start.

No. 2506404

>>2506395
What do you mean? Why are you bringing up boogeymen? What does that have to do with anything?

No. 2506405

>>2506404
Stop talking about the fricking boogeymen. It's frightening and I don't want to discuss them anymore. God.

No. 2506407

>>2506405
I wasn't the one who brought it up.

No. 2506408

>>2506407
Um okay? That doesn't change the fact that I'm frightened now. You basically ruined my entire night and now I have to sleep with the lights on which is gonna put my electric bill up, so thanks a lot.

No. 2506409

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>>2506408
I will protect you nonnie

No. 2506414

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>>2506408
I've talked with the farmhands and they're going to ban that mean nonnie. You're safe now

No. 2506418

>>2506321
>>2506345
nta but they're sometimes in the UMP thread, in any /g/ thread, and just a few days ago there was one in the vent thread

No. 2506448

Do you guys think there is corruption among Amish communities? Do you think their moids actually avoid porn and other "worldly desires"?

No. 2506456

>>2506448
>Do you think their moids actually avoid porn and other "worldly desires"?
Fuck no?

No. 2506457

>>2506398
Somehow that's freakier. Having it done to you as a newborn because your parents are fucking weirdos is one thing, but choosing it for yourself as an adult and it's not even religious? Just weird, must be from porn-dick envy.

No. 2506462

>>2506448
Even if they did, sexual abuse and incest is still very common in their communities

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No. 2506469

>>2506255
whoever is cooking gets to decide when they eat. if the other person feels put out by this, they should cook more

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No. 2506474

>>2506465
What is this? Is it just amish peaky blinders?

No. 2506477

>>2506474
Nah it's a reality show

No. 2506479

>>2506471
Moids from all cultures and creeds are rapeapes. A tale as old as time. There is nothing that will stop them from their primordial urges except physical castration. Remove both the penis and testes, eunuch style.

No. 2506482

>>2506471
>>2506462
Jesus, why are all scrotes like this

No. 2506494

>>2506471
>who woulda thunk
All religions are just covers for moids to rape women and children and you cant convince me otherwise

No. 2506539

>>2506343
Literally just eat alone and bond over something else. Have a dessert or midnight snack when B is done eating or something. Clearly this isn't making either of you happy.

No. 2506543

>>2506255
Whoever is cooking should cook whenever they feel like it. If the other person isn't hungry yet they can sit at the table while the other eats and they can reheat and eat later when they are hungry. If the person who is hungry at 5 is not the one cooking, they can suck it up and wait or have a small snack to tide them over if it's that dire.

No. 2506553

>>2506255
Who the hell eats at 5? If you want to eat together you could compromise and eat at 6/6:30. Otherwise just eat separately or A can eat a light snack , aka some fruits and Greek yogurt.
I’d kill myself if I had to have dinner at 5 everyday kek.

No. 2506557

>>2506343
I don’t know, this seems hella retarded kek on both sides. If you are the one cooking eat when you want , since you are already meeting B halfway since the food is ready at 6.

No. 2506583

>>2506553
>Who the hell eats at 5?
Someone who eats at lunch at 11 maybe? it's the same time span as 1pm-7pm which seems fairly normal. I was forced to eat lunch at 11 at school as the lunch hour for my class was 11-12

No. 2506587

>>2506557
Man I really overcomplicated the question lmao
The real question was at the end: if 2 people are hungry at different times, do you think the earlier or the later time should dictate when they eat (assuming they eat together)?

No. 2506601

>>2506553
I guess it depends on your part of the world because eating between 5 and 6 is normal to me. I couldn't imagine eating at 8.

No. 2506606

>>2506587
You didn't overcomplicate the question, anons didn't want to answer a question that gives you a suboptimal solution to the situation

No. 2506621

>>2506587
Nta but in my own life my solution is cooking earlier and letting others eat whenever they want, as it's their responsibility if they feed themselves whether they reheat the food or cook something new to their own tastes.

No. 2506626

>>2506621
nta but what if you're out? alway sucks being the only hungry person and everyone else forcing you to wait until they're all hungry instead

No. 2506654

>>2506626
A microwave meal or two might work for your use case, but not long-term owing to the price of some of them these days.

No. 2506662

What's the correct response to when your fat gf is in denial about her size and says "i'm not even fat"? like babe i love you but you ARE fat

No. 2506666

>>2506654
>A microwave meal or two might work for your use case
what? I literally said when you're out like in town with a group of friends

No. 2506672

>>2506662
She’ll get mad at you if you point it out, so don’t, because she’s in the denial stage. I
With that being said I don’t understand how people can be attracted to fat people in general, to me they just look unhealthy and therefore ugly , just like smokers, gamblers, bald people etc , but tastes are tastes nonna.

No. 2506673

>>2506290
What about other Asian Americans? Are Chinese American moids circumcised or not?

No. 2506675

>>2506673
I think that if they are born in America they will most likely be circumcised no? Is that not a usual practice in burger land nonnas?
Here in my country it’s not done so men all have their foreskins despite a strong Catholic core here.

No. 2506676

>>2506587
whoever cooks decides when to cook, at least 2 people have said this

No. 2506681

>>2506672
She wasn't fat and was just a bit chubby when we met, and so was I, and now we've both gained some weight but she's gained a lot more than me tbh. I really want to change it for both of us but she doesn't even see a problem with it since she's "not fat". We have a lot of larger friends so in comparison she's a lot smaller than them.

No. 2506688

>>2506672
I think fat women can be attractive but not moids. Attraction isnt always based on reproductive fitness, for example moids being really into teenagers.

No. 2506690

>>2506681
Since you are also a fattie you can tackle it better. Try to tell her that you want to walk more together or exercise, easy way to bond. If you are the one in charge of cooking or groceries switch your diet, don’t buy junk food or snacks. I love food too, but I know that I hold no control so I never buy chips, chocolate etc, I just have Greek yogurt, fruits, honey, dates and granola.

No. 2506698

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>>2506688
How are fat rolls attractive? I can somehow understand chubby people, but fat people like picrel look wrong kek.

No. 2506701

>>2506688
Fat moids are the worst because they don’t get the same amount of shit that fat women do. We need to shame fat men more. It’s even more gross because there is no excuse for a man to be fat, it’s unacceptable. How are you a man and fat?

No. 2506754

>>2506675
Circumcision still requires the parents' consent. So I think Asian (not Korean) immigrant parents won't have it done to their newborns, because they don't think it's normal?

No. 2506779

Is Rusty Lake actually good?

No. 2506816

>>2504964
Im stupid and misread this as “beef with random chicken”

No. 2506817

>>2506698
idk, some people like plushie textures. also I think that nonna was referring to more classical painting type fluff. nothing overly decadent.

No. 2506941

does public transit smell like piss in all countries or is it just a burger/canada thing?

No. 2506942

>>2506698
Im not trolling, but why put the bottoms OVER the fupa? Why not under?

No. 2506943

>>2506941
Why would public transport smell like piss?!?!?!

No. 2506944

>>2506943
homeless people and drunkards mostly. sometimes it's just them that smell but occasionally they will piss in the seats and the busses that have fabric seats should be abolished

No. 2506964

>>2506943
Why wouldn't it kek

No. 2506966

>>2506943
The homeless, drug addicts, etc

No. 2506973

>>2506941
Never smelled piss in London or Amsterdam public transport. One metro station in Paris smelled vaguely like piss. Not comparable to the overwhelmingly powerful and extremely common piss smells of North American public transportation. Nothing compares to how nasty NYC public transport is.

No. 2506978

>>2506973
I live in a sub 500k population city in NA and even the busses here REAK of piss its insane. And my city has an oddly well-funded bus system for a city of its size. The buses are never particularly crowded, but unfortunately, it is usually 10% normies using it, and the rest are vagrants.

No. 2507009

I like masc women but I’ve noticed they’re usually quiet around me, and sometimes they won’t even make eye contact. Are they attracted to me or just extremely uninterested?????

No. 2507075

Is there a way to fix hypoglycemia without eating?

No. 2507114

I'm gonna do my own laundry from now on. Can I wash my cream shirts with my white shirts? Or is that a bad idea..? And why do some of my white clothes get murky looking sometimes?

No. 2507124

>>2506701
Exactly, women store fat easier because it's good for us to have resources to carry and then feed babies, we look cute curvy and round, it keeps us warm in cold weather etc. Even if we want to lose weight it's harder for us.
But males who have optimal bodies for muscles and strength and who can burn calories much easier? Letting themselves go and getting fat? Embarrassing and weak. It's a much bigger failure for a man to be fat than a woman, it's not even close. Especially because even fat women I know put in effort to look good through hair, makeup, clothes, basic fucking hygiene… fat men don't.

No. 2507126

I've heard that German people will pretend that they can't speak English because they think their accent sounds weird/bad in English. Ist das true?

No. 2507129

Need a cute name for a brown and mostly white boy horse

No. 2507130

>>2507129
granola

No. 2507131

>>2507129
Dumpling

No. 2507134

>>2507129
I'll get banned for racebait

No. 2507135

>>2507129
Stracciatella

No. 2507140

>>2507129
Choconilla
Swirly
White chocolate
White caramel

No. 2507141

>>2507129
Oreo.
I like Lightning McQueen as a name too if you don't need to go down the appearance based route.

No. 2507154

>>2507134
Let's hear it don't be a coward.

No. 2507155

>>2507129
Gravy, Maple, Oak, Aspen, Pluto

No. 2507157

>>2507126
As a German I don't believe that, never heard it. A young German will always answer back in English I think but older people just didn't really learn it in school.

No. 2507158

>>2507114
Washing creams with whites should be okay. Not sure why your whites come out murky sometimes though, could be that your machine is dirty or that you're using low quality detergent. There are detergents designed for light laundry specifically, maybe try using those?

No. 2507174

Nonas I bought some jewelry and it looks nothing like the picture online. Their website conveniently says they are not accepting returns right now. Should I e-mail them and complain or should I not even bother and just file a dispute with my credit card company?

No. 2507179

>>2507114
Whites with creams are fine. Look up laundry stripping tutorials and follow the one that works best for you, that should get rid of the murkyness.
>>2507009
Could be both. Or they're extremely online TIFs and this is their first time encountering a woman who actually likes women and they don't know what to do about it.
>>2506942
If the put it underneath it'd vanish and she'd be arrested for indecent exposure kek.

No. 2507265

am i a bad person if i lurk in lolita communities just because i like the petty drama and can not help but find it funny how they try to excuse obvious fetishists as long as said fetishists are moids.
spoiler for blogposting
the fashion is cool too i guess, i personally find it a bit baffling how you have this very complex beautifully drawn print that you just make it blend into the background with the other elements rather then highlight it but its cute either way, i kinda like the fantasy elements combined with the old timey fancy schmancy euro fashion but its a bit too weebish for me, not to mention i never been the type to wear a dress or a skirt, i would like to take some inspo from it when i made my art or craft dolls but then i would fell like poeple would call me out on it since i only like some aspects of it not the whole ordeal, forgot to mention but i will never use the egl/lolita tags btw just some mild inspo, would people call it cultural appropriation, the modern fandom culture is just to much for me

No. 2507285

>>2507129
coffee foam
caramel dumpling
burned sprayfoam if he is mischievous lil'shit
whipped peanut butter
maple sugar

No. 2507335

Could there be a thread for high income/networth people or are there not many of us here? Can't relate to wagies, and not on neetbux, still kind of neeting but I am working on many things in my life. It could be for people who changed from low income as a child or vice versa or even people who work with hnw people. Maybe just anyone who makes above minimum wage or doesn't need to work.

No. 2507339

>>2507265
No you're not, the lolita community is insanely autistic and also weirdly misogynistic despite its heavy female lean. Also I think the people in the community who laugh at shitty coords probably have shitty coords themselves. I also think part of the attraction is the anal attention to detail and guidelines and it makes the community so unbearably obnoxious.

No. 2507340

>>2507335
There should be, I would love to laugh at the vents.

No. 2507342

>>2507335
you could make a thread and you should, but it would be full of role play just fyi

No. 2507365

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>>2507174
I wouldn't bother with them but don't buy again.
>>2507339
>anal attention to detail and guidelines and it makes the community so unbearably obnoxious
The fashion has strict rules and yes to an extend it's autistic but sticking to these rules is also not hard and they make your coord look how the fashion is supposed to look.
t. Lolita

No. 2507371

>>2507342
>anybody who has a better quality of life than average is roleplaying, only miserable losers use lolcow

nta but I think most users here can probably pass for normies or at least know how to hide their power levels IRL since lolcow is not exactly a socially acceptable site to admit you browse or accidentally drop reference to. it wouldn't surprise me if other nonas here actually have decent jobs and savings and stuff. Also unless the rp is literally 'i am a heiress' The roleplayers are still going to have to back up the fantasy by answering 'how did you get ahead' types of questions. The more likely problem you'll encounter is seething/infighting from nonnies who are genuinely in very bad situations either mentally or financially. We STILL have that banner from 10 years ago where an entire thread derailed from one nona saying she thought she was pretty.

No. 2507376

This is genuinely a rarted question.
Are short men rising in popularity/attractiveness or am I just in a weird online bubble? I mean really short, like 160cm/5'3" and under
I've had a fetish for them since my sexuality formed, and there is comfort in the fact that they're largely undesirable to other women. Or at least not fetishized the way I fetishize them.

No. 2507385

>>2507335
No one wants a thread about a small few whiny bitches with daddy's money. Though I guess this is lolcow so it gives us something to laugh at?

No. 2507390

>>2507174
This sounds like common dropshipping trickery. Look them up on trustpilot and see if it's worth complaining.
It's also very important to check if a site is legit and has good reviews before buying something online.

No. 2507401

>>2507365
Second ayrt, this picture would be considered ita if it was attempted in real life and would probably be posted in the ita /g/ thread kek. The anal attention to detail draws in the most annoying autists looking for excuses to punch down when they're all adult women in frilly 1800's baby dresses just the same.

No. 2507407

If you were to look for a person and you only had a name, general age, a graduation photo and a few place's they've been, how would you look for them?

No. 2507415

>>2507371
>but I think most users here can probably pass for normies
Nta but most vent posts about anon's own lives seem to suggest the opposite

No. 2507417

>>2507401
nta but if you think that coordinate would be considered ita then it sounds like you aren't very familiar with the fashion. it's not a great illustration but this isn't ita in concept nor even what i would call an overly fussy/detailed example.

No. 2507423

>>2507401
Please tell me what is ita about this? You’re the one who sounds elitist without even wearing the fashion.

No. 2507428

>>2507417
If some chubby white girl was wearing it then I have no doubt at all that it would get posted to the ita /g/ thread. Like I said, it's all just frilly 1800's baby dresses so it doesn't matter to me, I just think the internet lolita community is teeming with autistic mean girl cows more attracted to being hypervigilant about adhering to rules than actually enjoying the fashion at all. That's just my take, of course you as a participant are going to have a more flowery and esteemed viewing of the hobby.

No. 2507452

>>2507401
it would only be considered ita if the person wearing the coord was either fat, ugly or a man. get real, this is a fashion hobby, conventionally attractive people will always get a pass while non conventionally attractive people get nitpicked.

No. 2507454

>>2507407
Well within my country? Facebook missing groups, possibly contact a news paper to get some online article out, social media in general.

No. 2507456

>>2507452
Which is autistic mean girl behavior, yes. The more generalized western fashion community is infinitely more accepting of fatties in weird clothes, but the frilly baby dress community absolutely hates fatties with a passion. For some reason. Because it's all just adults in silly baby dresses anyway, may as well just accept that some fatties will like it too.

No. 2507457

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What does it mean if a guy I'm showering with genuine compliments (on his good looks) just replies with stuff like "I know" and "you're not the first one to tell me that" etc?

No. 2507460

>>2507457
It means he's a whore.

No. 2507461

>>2507457
He is not at all interested in you whatsoever.

No. 2507463

>>2507461
Doubt that since he's took me out on several dates and we've kissed more times than I can count

No. 2507466

>>2507454
A bit too out there. Person isn't missing, it's just a sibling that cut contact with family when I was 2.

No. 2507467

>>2507463
NTA but seconding >>2507460. He's a huge whore and probably has several STDs and STIs.

No. 2507468

>>2507463
A man will fuck a fillet o fish, does this mean he genuinely wants to pursue that fillet o fish? No. Men will wine and dine women and still not really give a fuck, and why wouldn't he wine and dine someone constantly kissing his ass?

No. 2507475

>>2507456
lolita is historically a hobby that attracts anorexic women. anorexic women are historically known for wanting to be tiny little smol waifs. at least half of the most popular lolitas clearly have an ED or at least very restrictive eating so they can fit in fashion made for 18yo skinny japanese girls.

No. 2507477

>>2507457
You're inflating his already big ego and he'll throw you out when he's done with you

No. 2507479

>>2507475
This makes sense, and it also makes some comments from some lolitas make sense in their structure kek, women with EDs have a certain kind of essence to their writing that sticks out. I don't want to call it infantile but that's really the only word that comes to mind.

No. 2507524

>>2507475
but we Lolitas are misogynistic? Here you are accusing us of insane ana behaviour, based on what? Were you posted in the ita thread?

No. 2507548

>>2507457
it probably means that he's done this with multiple women before you and they've all said the same things

No. 2507583

>>2507415
i've honestly never used the vent thread, idk if others can relate. that's like going to a therapist's office and asking the women there whether they have psychological problems. of course you're going to get a higher number of people who respond 'yes' than if you were polling people at a grocery store.

No. 2507650

>>2507475
it honestly sounds like you are the mean girl in this situation because you're the one accusing lolitas en masse of having bad personalities and mental problems. I'd say the opposite is true, if anything people here are fed up with hugboxing in their local comms. I guess it's just because you're an outsider and don't actually participate in the community, but every time i go to a meetup i see plus-size lolitas who are happy to share resources on where to find size-accommodating brands. you don't have to be 'smol' to wear the fashion anymore. and when i see people who are posted to the ita thread because 'she fat' but their outfit is actually good then 1-2 nonas at least usually respond with disagreement - that number is amplified 10x when they post on places like CoF or local Discords, where they will just see praise and likes exclusively. I wouldn't take everything you see on imageboards as representative of reality.

No. 2507651

>>2507339
Maybe unpopular but I think there's only "anal attention to detail" when the person looks really bad. Because you can't just say to someone "you look like hot garbage, have godawful taste, and need to lose 50 pounds", you need to hold their hand and say the dress "doesn't suit them" and they have "too many themes" and "should look into the rules" in the coord to asspat them and try to point them in the right direction. And even this watered down critique gets people angry.

No. 2507709

What are some things women are better than men at? I know women have better precise fine-motor control, flexibility, verbal skills and emotional regulation.
Is the thing about women being better rifle shooters true too?

No. 2507713

>>2507475
?. news flash but fat people just don’t look in clothes. It’s not that deep. “Fatphobia” isn’t real, and you don’t have to claim everyone who doesn’t coddle fat person is an anorexic trying to look like a teenager.

No. 2507728

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Where can i find other "based" women on the internet? I just want female online friends that arent gender obsessed TIFs or libfems. I know the friend finder thread is a thing, but based on the anecdotes ive read from anons who've posted on there i feel like i should avoid it. Ive also considered Tumblr because i know it has a pretty sizeable radfem community. Do people use Tumblr to make friends?

No. 2507738

>>2507126
For me it is lol

No. 2507740

>>2507728
Twitter

No. 2507748

>>2507728
>>2507740
While twitter does have some women you may be looking for it's also filled to the brim with retarded scrotes who will harass you, send you death and rape threats etc. so stay safe if you plan on using it. I think tumblr is the better option if you wanna stay safe and if you're not satisfied with what you find go on twitter instead

No. 2507753

Should I delete my Reddit account? I've had it for about five years now and I'm starting to feel overwhelmed by it. I know it sounds silly but I feel like people know who I am and where I'm from, even though all I've really said is that I'm from my country kek. Still, I'm a pretty private person and it's making me paranoid. I don't use any other social media and I kind of regret deleting my Tumblr and Twitter instead of just abandoning them. They were like little time capsules of who I was as a teenager, corny as that sounds. I'm not sure if I want to delete this account just to make another one either because whether I like it or not, everything is so centralized on Reddit now.

No. 2507763

>>2507740
>>2507748
Twitter stresses me out tbh. I had an account that i literally only used to follow artists and the algorithm kept showing me alt right groyper posts. It seems better for socializing compared to Tumblr though. Im not sure because i only lurk on there and never interact or post, but Tumblr culture just seems a lot more… insular?

No. 2507766

>>2507748
Can't say i have had this problem personally

No. 2507785

>>2507753
Just run a script that deletes all your previous posts and let the account sit or start again.

No. 2507872

Should I start posting art on 4chan or am I wasting my time

No. 2507878

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I'm going to a rave tomorrow night. Never been to one before and I'm taking my bf.
Any tips?

No. 2507885

Thinking of deleting my instagram account, should I save all my data? Genuinely haven't used it for years, I was thinking of saving the few stories I posted years ago, but there's nothing else that matters to me related to this account

No. 2507896

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>>2507878
Drink lots of water and don't take drugs from randos that you haven't tested. Have fun!

No. 2507924

>>2507878
Dont leave your drinks unattended. If you do lose sight of your drink, throw it out and get a new one.

No. 2507973

how shitty am i for being annoyed at a friend of mine who sends me random selfies and "OOTD" images fishing for compliments. i've never done this in my life unless i'm out somewhere cool? am i just a jerk for not wanting to be like "omg you're so cute!" to random selfies of someone sitting in their house. i might say something like that to her once in awhile but i'm baffled

No. 2507984

>>2507973
Tbh I use my friend's chats like twitter because it's just fun to share stuff like that with them, I like hyping up my friends too kek. Has she had friends like that in the past before meeting you or something?

No. 2507988

>>2507984
idk, but none of my other friends send random selfies and neither do i (unless i'm out somewhere cool like i said) so maybe i'm just a rude autist

No. 2508004

>>2507988
Kekk you're not rude imo, anyone would be weirded out by behaviour they're not used to after all, especially since you mentioned how your other friends just don't do that unless you're going out, but how someone adapts/reacts to a situation is how other people determine someone is chill or not. You can say you're not used to it and don't wanna do it every day and still be considered a polite friend.

No. 2508013

>>2508004
i have actually known her for 5 years and she's always talking about how ugly she is while doing this so idk it does feel a little manipulative and annoying. i have told her many times she looks great and it gets a exhausting having to validate someone so much

No. 2508020

>>2508013
>known her for 5 years and she's always talking about how ugly she is
Ghost her

No. 2508030

>>2507878
Remember before the VPN ban when some troll spent days baiting about how her sister is going to a rave and how she wants her sister to get raped at the rave because raves are for pedophiles or some shit? The VPN ban is so nice.

No. 2508035

>>2507475
>18yo skinny japanese girls
Nah, this is too generous. More like 10yo kids at best

No. 2508046

>>2507896
>>2507924
Thanks. I'll be taking my own drugs so I won't have to rely on creepy men
>>2508030
I vaguely recall that? Agreed, the VPN ban is nice.

No. 2508058

>>2508046
Hope you have fun anon! I'm also going to my first rave in a few weeks. I think I'm just gonna get drunk and nothing more. I'm just worried about having my phone or keys stolen…

No. 2508069

Not to be insensitive but why do people go to places or do things that might bite them in the ass later? Why are nonnies willingly going out of their way to be in places where they know for a fact that sketchy moids will be there? And why do women act shocked and surprised when the sketchy moids do the sketchy moid thing?

No. 2508080

Why do ESL moids start messages with "hello dear" "hello baby" "hello darling" do they think it's endearing or some shit. Gross.

No. 2508086

Do you really actually need 2 whole fingers of sunscreens to get the effect needed? That seems like a lot and it sounds really expensive but that's what most people say…

No. 2508098

>>2508069
Having fun and being safe and aware is better than staying at home just because something might happen. It's just the risk you're willing to take. Simple really.

No. 2508099

>>2508069
Unfortunately sketchy moids are plentiful and ubiquitous. If you were to avoid them entirely you'd have to lock yourself inside and avoid living a varied life. Risk vs reward has to be weighed up.

No. 2508106

>>2508058
Getting legally high is probably the best way to go for your first time.
>I'm just worried about having my phone or keys stolen…
I'm planning to take a fanny pack type thing with all my essentials, keeps in close to my body and I can see where it is. Might be worth getting something like that.

No. 2508112

>>2508080
They all are imitating what they think is sexy in English. They don't know the subtle difference between "hey baby" and "hello dear". They also don't know that no one (aside from maybe boomers) flirts like that and it sounds weird. That's why you can sometimes tell someone is an ESLfag even if they use perfect grammar.

No. 2508118

>>2508098
>>2508099
But you can have fun without being around strange people. To me the combination of willingly going to a place where you know for a fact there is someone looking to harm you AND being drunk and high does not sound like fun. But then the other confusing part to me is when people act shocked that something bad happened. and yes I know farmers here like to say that moids are waiting in the bushes to rape you when you go out to get your mail but there are ways to reduce the chances of coming in contact with someone like that. I hope the nonnies do stay hyper aware and safe but I just wouldn't risk it in the first place.

No. 2508119

>>2508058
Wear clothes with loops you can attack your keys with with a carabiner. I like using one of those beach protector pouches you wear around your neck for my phone. I even decorate it a bit with a couple of charms.

No. 2508123

>>2508118
I mean if you wanna get real, you can literally get attacked and assaulted in your own home. Like you don't have to go anywhere to get murdered. People break into houses all the time. Trying to moralfag about going to a rave is retarded.

No. 2508135

>>2508123
I'm not moral fagging. I could get murked in the western country I live in but that doesn't mean I'd move to the middle east just because it can happen anywhere. But I am an anachan so maybe knowing that if anyone tries do anything to me I'm done for makes me think the way I do.
>>2508130
Who?

No. 2508138

>>2508118
I was gonna say youre being paranoid but i read the messages youre replying to and getting drunk/high in some public place youve never been before is kinda insane actually

No. 2508144

What's the difference between anxietyfags avoiding eye contact and autists avoiding eye contact?

No. 2508145

>>2508118
>To me the combination of willingly going to a place where you know for a fact there is someone looking to harm you AND being drunk and high does not sound like fun.
I agree, going to bars, walking outside at night with friends high, hiking, camping, even amusement parks, they are all pretty dangerous. There's a reason why people still do it, and it's because staying at home doing the same sedentary activities isn't as fulfilling. Yes playing video games, sewing, crocheting, drawing, is fun, but that's not the end-all of trying to live as human for most people.
>But then the other confusing part to me is when people act shocked that something bad happened.
Most of it isn't shock, it's sadness. People aren't surprised, that's why victim blaming exists. "why didn't you cover up more" "why didn't you say no" "why didn't you just stay inside" "maybe he misunderstood your intentions". People aren't shocked when someone does something risky, and if you don't try to put blame on the individual for getting attacked you focus on the sadness of someone trying to have fun and being deeply hurt.
If we replaced rave with bar, yeah an anon did go to a bar and get hurt, but she just wanted to have fun. She should have known to stay inside and not get drunk in a place she's never been to before. Maybe she should have stayed inside, and let's not focus on the rapist moids, lets focus on what anon could be doing better.

No. 2508146

>>2508118
Raves are pretty safe in my experience, people are nice and look out for eachother. There's a small risk of someone acting weird but thay doesn't guarantee it will happen to you and there's no other way to feel this same vibe

No. 2508150

>>2508145
>>2508146
Ok this makes sense to me. I was thinking that in a rave, if anything were to happen to you, everyone else would be too high and drunk out of their minds to intervene. Idk if bars are the same as pubs but I've been to them before and if anyone was acting strange toward you the people around would be able to help.

No. 2508162

>>2508144
Anxiety

No. 2508180

>>2508150
Every time I looked down or sad/didn't move, been zoned out on drugs etc. at a rave, there would be multiple people coming up and checking if I was okay. Most people there just want to have a good time. I almost always go alone (fuck babysitting idiots who don't know when to stop drinking) and never had a bad experience. I also look out for others myself, especially smaller women

No. 2508183

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>>2508180
>>2508146
damn i wish i lived somewhere with raves now it sounds fun. ive always loved electronic music since i was little too

No. 2508188

>>2507709
not being pedos, not being rapists, not being murderers etc. basic morality and decency

No. 2508214

>>2507885
Yeah, save your data before deleting it.

No. 2508229

are there any careers (besides being a teacher) that offer a decent amount of vacation/holiday time off work?

No. 2508232

How do you recognize a bi and downlow scrote?
To me it’s those who are highly competitive with women, who are fixated on gender roles for women and who sexualize women a lot, anal is a big part of it too. Feel free to share other thoughts.
Keep your eyes open for these demons nonna.

No. 2508237

>>2507709
>empathy
>emotional regulation
>better health
>more safe around children
>less violent
>more likely to help you
>more beautiful
>age better

No. 2508240

>>2508004
Tell her she looks ugly, people like her are annoying.

No. 2508247

>>2508232
Honestly, effeminate or "femboy" types with girlfriends. They're not fully gay nor fully straight. Sometimes they'll act super progressive and be male feminists too

No. 2508299

>>2508247
Good point nonna, male feminists are wolves in disguise, but they are quite easy to spot , their feminism is just “sew work is work!” Kek, you start saying that men are misogynistic and oppress women and you’ll trigger their victim complexes.

No. 2508304

Why do younger women seem to hate older women yet they absolutely love and worship older men?

No. 2508311

>>2508299
Do male feminists even have any other parrot phrases other than sex work is real work or transwomen are women? You ask them for opinions on abortion and they start to back down too.

No. 2508312

>>2508304
Brainwashed pickmeism. They'll grow out of it hopefully

No. 2508313

>>2508304
Misogyny

No. 2508320

>>2508311
They also love “feminism is for everyone and the patriarchy hurts men too!” Kek. Male feminists rarely do anything, they just want pats on their back (more like their dick sucked kek) for being “decent” and seeing women as financial beings (they don’t even do that).

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No. 2508339

>>2508324
Bottom second is Macon

No. 2508345

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What is your preferred method to browse lolcow?
Is it to go to the catalog and click on threads that interest you? Is it to scroll the specific boards front page and read all the newest comments?
Do you read the front page?
I have a theory how you browse imageboards makes a difference in how you perceive them

No. 2508363

>>2508345
I like to scroll on my phone and check the threads I am interested in in, which are
>/ot
Vent thread, confession thread, food thread, mundane shit, gender ideology hate thread mainly.
>/g
Because I like to make fun of Nigel fags but sometimes I give solid and real advice. The advice thread is also nice and the nonnas are more nice compared to the vent and confession thread on /ot.
>/snow
I am not interested in in lolcows, so I don’t bother. But I like the MTF and FTM thread because I like making fun of grannies and their stupid shit. I scroll the polyamory thread sometimes too.
I tried going into XX but I found it too retarded and edgy kek.

No. 2508382

How long should it take for discord support to get back to me? I have an active subscription but I'm locked out of my account so it's just sapping money and I can't do anything about it

No. 2508448

>>2508086
I use that much and it covers my face perfectly

No. 2508456

>>2508345
I used to have a folder bookmarked with all my regular threads and opened them all whenever starting firefox and left them open all the time until I turned my computer off. Nowadays I have all the threads that interest me pinned, but I also open the catalogues at least once a day and scroll the index pages like other people scroll through their social media.

No. 2508485

So I have been having my period for 1.5 months now; sometimes it stops for like 2 days but then it comes back. I know I need to go to the doctor but I genuinely can’t afford to right now, I’m very poor. Do any of you have an idea of what it can be? Have you dealt with this? Any tips on how to deal with it in the mean time?

No. 2508489

>>2508485
Are you taking any medication? I had a similar issue and it turned out to be a psych med I was on + some hormonal disruption due to weight gain from the psych med. Once I got off that med and lost the weight, my periods returned to normal.

No. 2508497

>>2507728
I personally just took the black pill and pretend to be guy online within male nerd spaces, the shit they say about women is horrendous but at least they let me be as transphobic as possible and they don't moralize my every move or say I am a bad person if I don't keep up with the latest slacktivim shit, I don't like larping but the only online friends I had turned out to be a stalker tomboy and other a vindictive tif and even before that back in school the other girls would laugh and harass me while the boys with the exception of one would just ignore me which I was very grateful for, I know it would turn bad if they ever find out btw

No. 2508498

>Something went wrong with CREATE_ALBUM_FAIL. Please try later
why can't I upload pics on imgur anymore?

No. 2508516

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Why would stud poker be better for fewer players than draw poker?

No. 2508519

>>2508485
Don't be like Amberlynn. Just go to the doctor and get it over with. Your life is worth much more than any sum of money.

No. 2508538

>>2508489
Yeah! I have been taking spiro off and on, just for acne but I have been forgetting to take it some days and I think accidentally taking it twice on some days. I bet that’s it! Thanks anon, for pointing out something that perhaps is kind of obvious!
>>2508519
Don’t worry anon, I just in a literal sense don’t have any money right now but I will get some financial aid for my summer classes in a couple of weeks and then I will go!

No. 2508613

Have any American nonnies ordered from Japan? How bad was shipping? I haven't ordered from my SS in a few months and I know with all the crazy price increases it might be ridiculous now.

No. 2508621

Am I allowed to monologue to gay moids about my yaoi characters, does this make them not like me? What are the chances an aro ace gay individual does not like fujos

No. 2508643

>>2508621
>aro ace gay individual
You mean a heterosexual person?

No. 2508650

>>2508613
>I haven't ordered from my SS
Your straight shota shouldn't be neglected

No. 2508661

>>2508643
No it would be homosexual with non existent or low libido, I just think aroace is funny to say out of habit

No. 2508692

If my mom leaves me her house as inheritance can I just let it sit there until I want to move into it later in life?

No. 2508694

>>2508692
This is so dependent on where you live and your specific situation nonna. Assuming you’re a burger and the house is paid off I would imagine you need to do bare minimum upkeep on it and taxes.

No. 2508715

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Relating to the topic of the orgasm gap. If a woman makes a man orgasms during sex (vaginal, oral, handsy, whatever) but the man couldn't do the same for the woman no matter how hard he tried—should she be compensated for the nut she gave him? For example, money or gifts or physical services like doing the laundry or cooking for her.

I'm framing this from a boyfriend/girlfriend or married couple scenario—not sex where the man is supposed to pay (like escorts or prostitutes).

No. 2508728

>>2508692
>>2508694
Doesn't the US have squatter laws or whatever it's called where someone can decide lol this is mine now if you leave your house unattended for too long and don't throw them out in time? At least that's what I understood Margo attempted to claim lmao

No. 2508740

>>2508728
I only know about squatters’ rights being an issue in more congested areas/cities. I’ve only heard about it in the context of New York and California specifically tbh. I’m also assuming the house in anon’s post isn’t somewhere that needs regular yard maintenance and or a place with extreme weather. Things like pipes bursting from frozen waterlines and prepping for hurricanes all need to be considered depending on the location.

No. 2508760

>>2508650
I miss that board.

No. 2508776

>>2508715
I don't think you she be in a relationship with someone that can't give you an orgasm on a regular basis. It's okay if you can't orgasm once in a while, but if he's consistently unable to bring you to orgasm then he's not sexually compatible with you.

Why can't men ever pleasure a woman for the sake of her pleasure without thinking of his orgasm? Why can't a man just perform oral sex on a woman without thinking of what he'll get in return, in the same way that men expect oral sex from their partners?

Sex is incomplete without an orgasm. We are exposed to almost endless propaganda, whether it be through film, television, literature, social interactions, or unconscious cultural effects, that the female orgasm is less worthy than the male orgasm. The male orgasm is expected, central, mundane; but the female orgasm is sought, peripheral, rare. This state of affairs is unnatural and artificial.

If you don't enjoy sex with someone, then don't have sex with them. If you don't enjoy sex with your boyfriend or husband, then leave him and find someone else. Thinking about sex in terms of transaction, e.g., "how can I be repaid for this later?" is perverse and profane. It defeats the purpose of sex entirely: which is not to pay and be repaid, but to give and be given.

No. 2508783

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>>2508776
Thank you Amazonian nonna

No. 2508837

Why do so many (young) women put "I love my BF" on their social media accounts, but very little about themselves? I see this literally everywhere and conveniently I never see the opposite. I don't understand what the point is of that.

No. 2508841

>>2508837
Never seen that but from the sounds of it I'd guess to fend off creeps. If they're desperate enough they'll pester you still, but it's probably something similar to how "I have a boyfriend" is more effective than "I'm not interested".

No. 2508854

>>2508715
>money or gifts or physical services like doing the laundry or cooking for her
He should be doing these things already in addition to giving her orgasms.

>>2508776
>The male orgasm is expected, central, mundane; but the female orgasm is sought, peripheral, rare. This state of affairs is unnatural and artificial.
Agree completely. Many straight women say that they feel too much pressure to orgasm and that's why they forgo it, but I think it's because 99% of the time, they aren't attracted to their partner. They feel guilty making him put in the effort when they know it isn't going to happen with the selfish dumb uggo they picked.

No. 2508886

I was thinking, how would you make a tcg that's skewed towards a female demographic? Does that even exist?

No. 2508888

Can you play two melodies at once on a guitar the same way you can do it on a piano?

No. 2508901

Why has there been an uptick in anons who give a fuck about males and male on male violence and male death? I swear to god it wasn't like this a few months ago.

No. 2508905

>>2508888
only if you had an extra set of hands

No. 2508906

My doctor is putting me on the pill for anemia but the leaflet says I'm still going to menstruate during the stop week which I wasn't told about. What's the point of the pill (as a solution to anemia due to blood loss) if I'm still gonna bleed anyway, is it just less blood loss than usual?

No. 2508921

>>2508345
I look at the front page. Then I go to /snow/. Open the catalog. Open all the threads I want to read in new tabs. I finish reading them. Close them all. Repeat with /m/, /g/ and finally /ot/, since that one has the most threads I like.

No. 2508926

>>2508837
It's the only thing they got going for them

No. 2508972

>>2508837
Stops unwanted attention in its tracks lol

No. 2509007

How do dog owners know when their dogs have to pee? And how do you make sure they don't go in the house?

No. 2509010

>>2508906
you can skip that week.

No. 2509012

>>2509007
dogs are usually chillin, so when they stand up out of nowhere and start dancing around thats a pretty good indicator. a well trained/smart dog will also go to the door theyre used to exiting when being let out/taken on a walk.

No. 2509030

What are red flag authors for guys to like?

No. 2509036

>>2509007
They just start begging to go outside. They also do this when they don’t want to go to the toilet, and there’s literally no way you can tell the difference. If you look outside and see a squirrel they’re likely bullshitting but maybe not.

No. 2509050

>>2509030
Richard Laymon

No. 2509078

>>2509007
My dog tells me and from the way he's asking I now he wants to go outside. Sometimes he sits next to the door too, like when he got the shits kek

No. 2509202

why are some people super receptive to the current most popular thing and some people aren't at all? i notice this in my online friend group a lot. there's like an even split between the number of people who will ALWAYS love the current hot shit that everyone is crazy over (danganronpa, the love live mobage, overwatch, ffxiv, jjba, jjk, chainsaw man, to name some fandoms from the past years) and then there's people who seem immune to it and couldn't care less. two friends and i seem to be in the middle, in that we sometimes join the most popular thing but we wait a few weeks/months before we bother with it. i also wouldn't say that the people who don't like what's popular have a super selective taste. likewise the ones who always enjoy what's popular also enjoy indie stuff that barely anyone knows about. am i overthinking this??

No. 2509210

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>>2509202
Have you thought about categorizing your friends into identifiable physical and intellectual categories to find out if there's any connection between them?

No. 2509218

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Is your region's dominant cream soda brand pink or clear?

No. 2509230

>>2509218
amber?

No. 2509239

>>2509218
We don't have cream soda in my country but every time I've had it imported, it's golden brown

No. 2509277

>>2509218
There's pink cream soda?
It's off white where I live

No. 2509310

>>2509218
light brown



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