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No. 1649202
as the french say: "à question stupide, réponse idiote"
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>>1649048>>1649077>>1649076>>1648950Thanks to the anons who gave me advice! I should have added that i've gone to many different doctors throughout the years and had trouble finding a doctor who specializes/is common with what I have.
The doctors where I live are useless and just prescribe arthritis medication or tell me to get cortisone shots for spots that dislocate constantly.
>>1649115Lol, Thanks for the advice fatty.
But I'm not anorexic; my weight is just in that range because of my height.
No. 1649314
>>1649299I have for most of my life dressed in big t-shirts but in the past year I've started dressing less modestly so I'm just unsure about it. She wouldn't think I was dressing differently if I were to cover up. I just don't know if I'm being insane lol
>>1649301No she hasn't but I can tell she probably lost the baby weight from the other pregnancies by starving herself but I do not know for sure. Maybe part of this is my own discomfort with my body. I have a really nice body. I feel like it's the center of attention but naybe that's not true. I don't have like huge tits or anything but my body is slim and proportional.
No. 1649366
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Are tablets worth it? im tired of reading oldschool capeshit and watching anime on my tiny phone and I cant sit comfy in my bed with my puter but i dont want to get another electronic device just to get a bigger screen. I cant see the other advantages of a tablet when it can do the exact same thing as a phone
No. 1649371
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>>1649219Well, to me, healthy slightly long but not too long shiny 'moist' looking nails are very attractive, with a slightly round shape but a sharp angular tip. Something like picrel. I think it adds to a hand's attractiveness. I don't have a hand fetish to be clear, I just can find them aesthetically pleasing.
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This is more a general "wtf should I do? I saw an eye doctor and it went nowhere (he said it's just allergies after looking into my eye with a light and prescribed some eyedrops that didn't help at all).
So, my left eye has been weird. I've always had eye pressure, fatigue, pain, etc. I have a severe sleep disorder so that's just normal. But this is more extreme and it's very hard to explain. It's like a taut, heavy, kind of painful pressure that's constantly present. It also feels like there's something grainy stuck in that eye a lot too. I don't know if I damaged the eyelid somehow because I had this issue about two months ago and it got better after a a week or two. My right eye feels so much better.
Is this just a normal part of life where parts of your body arbitrarily start feeling like shit?
No. 1649404
>>1649402Sometimes one makes a commotion in the act of kicking someone out, it depends on where the person in white is when they're kicked out and their demeanour. Some people will be like oh cringe and leave quietly, someone who wore white to spite you may make a scene.
Also if the person who wore white is someone important in the family, then kicking them out may result in other people getting mad which is where 'accidentally' spilling wine on someone comes in.
Yeah, it would be weird if you announced someone was wearing white and that was upsetting to everyone.
No. 1649407
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do any of you have the kiwifarms tor link or is it completely down?
No. 1649427
>>1649379ayrt, that's what i thought too! i go to a very progressive liberal arts college and i've heard that used a lot in my american history courses, both gen-ed and not
as a polisci major. my question will be able to be answered there but i'm not back for a few weeks and it's driving me crazy.
No. 1649468
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Gonna rewatch Netflix’s adaptation of Castlevania, I remember I found it really hot for some reason before they jumped the shark with the nasty rape scenes ew… any good fanfics you recommend? I’m normally not into fanfic but I realize that I’m not gonna get good smut out of this show so
No. 1649488
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Couldn't find an unlocked cosplay thread.
Probably very stupid questions anyway because I'm a noob.
>1
Could anyone recommend a spray gun for painting? What kind of paint can be used with them?
>2
EVA foam:
Just started making stuff with EVA foam. Shape overall came out well but had a very hard time working with the paint. I used Plastidip for priming and it gave me a lot of texture which I had to sand off. Used fabric paint on the piece but brush strokes were obvious in some places. Tried fabric spray and it clumped up and basically ruined the surface. Wondering if I could use any kind of spray paint with it?
For the top coat I used the plastidip glossifier coat and it created a couple of bubbles in some places and it started to peel off.
Could anyone give me some advice and tips on what I may have gone wrong? Pic related is what I made.
No. 1649515
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Why do men choose to become gynecologists?
No. 1649575
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can someone rec me some media with females crossdressing/larping as men? i need some inspo for a project
No. 1649591
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>>1649575shakespeare's twelfth night?
No. 1649606
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>>1649575Queen Christina with Greta Garbo. She only larps a little but it's supposed to be convincing enough to fool people.
No. 1649607
>>1649575love your picrel as well as the other nonna's twelfth night.
albert nobbs was a movie that made an impression on me. it's sad, though, and i'm sure lots of people see it ina trans way, but i didn't.
there's a series i've been meaning to watch called gentleman jack.
older kid's adventure book called cue for treason, historical fiction.
i swear there's more but of course i can't think of them now
No. 1649670
>>1649664maybe it's your face that changes shape?
you could be more puffy (rounded) in the morning and more angular in the evening, for example. or if you're losing/gaining weight it's only natural your face is going to change too
No. 1649696
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whats the name of the first manga?
No. 1649778
>>1649717I had a pretty wide face before I had braces as a kid, but maybe it got wider
>>1649739Probably a reference to the earlier discussion about coconut kitty. She was an onlyfans model who was mentioned in the bad photoshoppers thread. Actually a 30some year old mom and longtime camgirl who decided to cash in on warping herself into a neotenous cartoon character, hence the "persona". People really hated her, but it's pretty fucked up that she died of suicide
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>>1649407I wanna know this too
No. 1649869
>>1649850It's just weird how you related those two things as if they were connected. Most people were weirded out by her shoops, doesn't mean they wanted her dead. People can be appalled of serial killer simps and weirded out by extreme photoshopping editing at the same time, one doesn't exclude the other.
>>1649865I am not a 100% but it's usually zoomers who like the looks of a character that gives them "gender envy".
No. 1649870
>>1649863hdd is for hard disk drive. it's the physical medium on which your files are stored
if it gets faulty (it inevitably does), you might experience issues with files (corruption, moving randomly, taking too long to load, etc)
you can check for any hdd issues using:
>chkdsk (an in-built utility on windows)>apps like Hard Disk Sentinel, Victoria, official apps for your hdd manufacturer, etcapps also generally show you the age of your hdd, the manufacturer, its error history and other useful stuff.
note that errors on hard disks tend to accumulate quickly, if you get one large error (i'm not talking about sparse file corruption issues but something on a larger scale) there are bound to be many more in the near future.
No. 1649872
>>1649870samefag but even if you only get some small errors it won't hurt to check, better be safe than sorry because recovering data from a dead disk can be pricey.
also there's a probability you have an ssd (solid state drive) and not hdd, especially if your pc/laptop is a newer one
No. 1649873
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How do you get off to words. What is the real appeal of fanfic? Fuck #slowburn #200k #enemies2lovers I have to see the balls contract
No. 1649877
>>1649875then i guess it'll be easier to deal with because hdds are more sensitive to the environmental conditions like humidity, heat, etc. the only upside to that is you can essentially break the disk into a thousand little pieces by smashing it (when the cops come to your house)
btw if you're on mac there's an in-built app "disk utility"
No. 1649923
>>1649913how are you this much of a dumbass that this is what you take away from my comment?
yes books are unlike fanfic! which is why i am telling her to read a book, because it requires you to use your braincells, use tour imagination, and focus your attention for more than twelve seconds
No. 1649955
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who's that
No. 1649986
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>>1649873Anon are you #5 on this scale?
No. 1650013
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Swans and Michael Gira fans, can someone explain to me the phenomenon around Michael Gira? Not the fascination around him, but the infatuation. Why does everybody think he is ridiculously good looking and handsome? What is it about his face that inspires devotion? I see this from both women and men.
No. 1650082
>>1650012you can try 1337x (
https://1337x.to/ this is their main website). don't forget to use a vpn
No. 1650158
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do males even post on /cm?
No. 1650219
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What are this type of scrunchy called? Any keywords to look for something similar?
No. 1650267
>>1650245Would it take a long time to do both legs from the knee down? I’m afraid I’ll buy it then never use it if it’s a hassle lol
>>1650260Oh, that makes sense that it might not be able to properly grab fuzz.
No. 1650289
>>1649865Like
>>1649869 it's related to the idea of "gender envy" aka a pro-trans or trans-identifying person sees some cool/pretty/whatever chatacter and instead of saying that this character is unique, beautiful/handsome, etc. they would say that the character has "gender" or gives them "gender envy". Gender became obviously a way to describe looks and some vibe of a character/person which ties to how trooning out is pursuing some fantasy of preferred appearance or one someone would be attracted too. Personally I saw that TIFs are more likely to use that phrase.
No. 1650334
>>1650285Second what
>>1650317 said, but issues like vaginismus, nightmare/sleep disorders, bedwetting into early teenagehood, fixations on sex and things a child/young teen should not be talking about, compulsive sexual thoughts/masturbation, being afraid of specific things or places without a clear reason, being easily startled, and biggest of all as an adult dissociating during sex. In the sense that you can actually want to have sex and feel comfortable, but feel just out of it, and once it's over you don't really recall what you were doing the whole time.
This is just my personal experience that led me to dig and figure out what happened to me was abuse, and you don't necessarily "unlock" memories as you work on it, but remember parts of your past more clearly.
>>1650316 is not wrong though, please see a female trauma therapist to talk about it before assuming anything.
No. 1650338
>>1650323 In my experience they don’t help and I’ve tried many different brands from Culturelle to expensive ass VSL #3. The only time I bother taking them consistently (my go to brand is Natural Factors; it’s refrigerated) is to avoid yeast infections and stomach issues while on antibiotics and they definitely work for that.
If your main issues is constipation my main suggestion is simply trying to prevent yourself from becoming too backed up. Going daily might not be realistic but I highly recommend taking stool softeners (docusate sodium) or miralax regularly to avoid horrible constipation.
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Is this that one girl who was talked about all the time on /snow/ a few years ago that had all the really extreme “phases” and the fat emo on and off again boyfriend?
No. 1650419
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who's this girl? i saw her multiple times in some threads
No. 1650496
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i am a retarded neet, do you need to go to a dermatologist to get accutane prescription or can you just order it online? also is it safe?
No. 1650579
>>1650558>>1650561i can abort the lil shit though, its legal where i live
>>1650569yeah gonna do this, or tell them i am a lesbian
No. 1650629
>>1650621Oh yeah haha balls so funny
>>1650627That sounds cute, the only time Ive ever heard any of my male cats do such a call is when they want food
No. 1650635
>>1650559You also could have just lied and not taken the birth control, kek. The blood tests aren’t checking to see if you’re taking the birth control they’re just checking to see if your liver is fucked or not.
Nonnies please learn to lie. I stg so many peoples’ “problems” are just because they don’t realize that lying is the easiest route to fix that shit. I used to participate in clinical trials for acne medication and they always asked me if I was using or had used any other acne meds in the past month, I always said no, I filled out my medicine diary and squeezed the medicine into the trash and kept using my normal skincare routine that worked well for me, KEK. I would just stop using it for a few days before the initial entry assessments for these studies so I would get enough zits to be accepted into it. Easiest $500 ever.
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>>1650638Ayrt and tbf I actually don’t recommend anyone take accutane but if you’re dead set on it just do it. I don’t think any nonnas reading my reply would take accutane and proceed to get pregnant and then make the retarded decision not to abort it if they did get pregnant which is why I made my comment. If I thought someone was actually at risk of getting and keeping an accutane conceived baby to term I wouldn’t say it, but LC farmers aren’t really a typical female demographic, we’re mostly weirdo autists and I think we’re mostly not retarded enough to birth deformed children.
But yeah accutane. About that. I wouldn’t take it unless I’d exhausted all other options, including seeing if birth control and/or spiro could help. Dermatologists aren’t always great and sometimes give people accutane for hormonal acne which is a DISASTER. Accutane can also cause permanent dry EYES and even blindness on top of permanently dry ass skin. In addition to joint and liver issues. It’s a serious hardcore medicine and it should be absolutely last resort treatment for EXTREME acne that has persisted into adulthood (22-24+) and not responded to anything else.
Speaking of hormonal acne! There’s actually a new drug on the market to treat it! No spiro or birth control needed. It’s a topical cream called Winlevi. It can be used in conjunction with Tretinoin (winlevi in AM and tret PM).
No. 1651052
>>1650316>>1650317>>1650334Thank you all for replies. Luckily I'm not the type of person to force myself to believe something I didn't went through. Thinking realistically I had no experiences of sexual abuse in my life but I wanted to be sure and hear what others might say about forgotten memories or signs of trauma of that type.
I was just prompted to ask about it yesterday because I started to think again about my twisted feelings. I have no desire to have sex with anyone (also no desire for a relationship but if I had to be in one, it would be a sexless one). When I started menstruating (quite early I think) I developed a habit of masturbation (and I remember I was only curious about it because I read about it in a book about puberty). I did it for many years, a few times per week but sometimes more. I felt bad about it and decided to stop it at all because I felt I shouldn't do it if I consider myself asexual (not viewing it as an orientation of course and not supporting the spicy straights). In the recent years I had a long time of withdrawal, trying to stop that habit, but unfortunately I relapsed last year and now I'm clean again since the half of December 2022. I want to never do it again and never feel the need for it. At the same time I can still fantasize about certain things (but no penetration because the idea of it disgusts me). I feel bad with how I am sometimes and wish to be more at peace. These are of course things that only concern me and belong to my intimate life but I hate myself for not being "good" enough. This has nothing to do with things like religion or conservative upbringing because they're not the case here but rather my own idea of what I really do VS how I feel I should be. I feel conflicted sometimes about it and scared that the thoughts that are only inside me have a potential to make me feel bad/dirty/disappointed after the pleasure stops.
Thank you a lot for help and sorry for the blogpost but I had to explain.
No. 1651056
>>1651052it's okay to masturbate. it's not dirty. you'd feel a lot better if you decided to accept that.
no offense but your current outlook is unhealthy and you're clearly causing mental harm to yourself. get a grip.
No. 1651076
>>1650745I think it has to do with the proliferation of sun dress as an SEO-friendly keyword. Product titles and descriptions on many clothing sites are packed with those kinds of descriptive terms (sun dress, midi, puff sleeve, ruffle etc.) to help items show up in more searches. Zoomers tend to adopt these descriptors because they do so much online shopping.
>>1651072maybe ensemble cast? that would only be for tv shows, movies and plays though.
No. 1651111
>>1651107Do you workout often? Or do you do any particular sports? Maybe you walk around barefoot? Or are your shoes rough?
And honestly, you should always take care of all of your body parts because as you age, your body changes and nothing goes back to how it was in the past. You lose collagen and other stuff so that makes your skin get all weird.
Do you use creams for your body? You should always moisturize your skin and hair.
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>>1651107>I think my feet specifically are agingnonna they're FEET. oh my god
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>>1651178nonna, why do you post a picture of German cookies when you read or talk about feet? And why didn't you choose a picture of the original Prinzenrolle? (I'm sry, I'm drunk and got hungry for a second, kek)
No. 1651257
>>1651178Okay
nonnie I get that it's not a big deal but it is really weird! It's all crepey and wrinkly like a pale old lady's skin, but its on the bottom of my feet.
It's disconcerting!
No. 1651490
>>1651489Cats can eat rice but I definitely wouldn’t feed them pasta. My cats actually really enjoy fresh rice. You can also give them canned pumpkin.
Try calling around some animals shelters and rescues and someone will likely give you a bag of cat food. Honestly nonna if there’s a way you could link like an Amazon wishlist with a bag of cat food I would buy it for you…
No. 1651499
>>1651490nonono thats very kind but the problem isnt money its that they wont have his brand of cat food until next month and i need to make this last bag last for a lil while, i dont wanna switch to another brand just for a month, i feel like that might upset his tummy. You are so kind though, thanks
nonny. Gonna try to mix it with a bit of rice.
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Kinda meta stupid question but I’ve lately wondered why does lolcow not have many specific boards but many threads unlike traditional image board sites? Here you hope your thread gets approved. As much as I appreciate a catalog, I find it inconvenient to go through the long catalogs and limited boards, hoping to find a thread with a certain topic. I know I may sound retarded, but as I said this has been on my mind lately.
No. 1651565
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Why are blacks and browns segregated into seperate stipes in the new pride flag, isnt that extremely racist?
No. 1651587
>>1649507I understand what you mean. I find the concept of relationship retarded, but I want to have sex so bad and have someone hot to hang out with and go on dates to fancy and fun and luxurious places together without any strings attached and no feelings ruining everything and things getting serious and marriage and commitment and living together. I hate the idea of living with someone, bitch it's 2023, buy yourself a hosue or something and stop waiting for me to house you. (I'm gonna be rich so I'll always be the breadwinner). All the emotional parts of relationships make me gag, I don't like sharing my problems or even things I enjoy and make me happy with others, and I'm not interested in someone telling me about theirs either. I also hate the whole trust and opening up thing, I don't want to tell anyone about my past life once I'm successful and happy, I want everyone to think I'm just perfect like that without any effort or something, my past and origins are embarrassing af. I don't to be loyal to anyone either and deal with their tantrums when I breathe the same air as someone else and they get jealous. I don't need emotional support or whatever or help of any kind from anyone when I'm in a tough situation either, most people will be useless at it anyways because they don't have the kind of resources I need to solve my problems. And even if I find a perfect person that ticks all the boxes I'll still choose solitude over relationships anytime. But I'm not an introvert, never gonna call myself that, it's cringe.
No. 1651889
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does anyone have the photo of this dude without all the filters were he obviously looks like a man?
No. 1652073
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How do I know if I have lipedema or if I'm just fat?
No. 1652100
>>1651922ok theres this one very famous parable in Matthew (25:31) called the sheep and the goats. it tells the story of how a shepherd has to separate his sheep and his goats. he sets the sheep on his right hand and sends them to heaven. and he sets the goats on his left and casts them into eternal fire. modern occultists dont really take that into account much nowadays but during the crusades, when the Christians were trying to convert/murder the Muslims living in the holy land they accused them of being idol worshipers. specifically they thought the Muslims worshiped a half goat half man statue of Mahomet, which in old french became baphomet. baphomet as a figure was then further fleshed out. during the trials of the knights templar, part of their heresy included a worship of Baphomet. Joseph van Hammer really hammered that in about 400 years later and added a lot of the symbolism (serpents/hermaphrodites/sun/moon.) The person who really solidifies the goats place in occultism is Eliphas Levi in his book "Dogme et Rituel de la Haute Magie" where he added a lot of the symbolism traditionally associated with Satan. Levi was a major inspiration then, to Aleister Crowley who fathered modern occultism and used the Baphomet character that Hammer and Levi had been detailing.
or maybe goats just look kinda creepy
No. 1652129
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what do people do at cons?
No. 1652132
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Is it really true that Egypt is dangerous for tourist women? I always wanted to visit the pyramids, but I read on reddit of men claiming women get flash mobbed raped in Egypt. Of course I take it with a grain of salt since it's reddit and they exaggerate everything, but is it really that bad?
No. 1652350
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What do Ariana Grande's gay twink stans think of her cheating scandal?
No. 1652493
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How do I get a webm to play on a 4chan archive site (for ejample: moe) it redirects me to a 404 page. Idk what to do
No. 1652591
>>1652585It's on
toxic tears latest video in the comments there's not many. She's replied to one saying she's considered getting a personal assistant. I want a screenshot of that lol
No. 1652627
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Does anyone have that link to that website that had a bunch of gifs and cute art of chibi gyarus like pic rel? i remember an anon sperged about how it was ‘pedo-ish’ because the characters had Chibi proportions
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>>1652627http://nyancyan.weebly.com/a-lots-of-gyaru-pixelsidk the particular one but i found this page that has a nice collection
http://shibuharaglitter.blogspot.com/2013/06/translated-gyaru-souzai-pixels.htmlthis blog explains they're called "souzai" so you'll find lots on google by looking up "gyaru souzai"
https://gyaru-109.fandom.com/wiki/Souzai/Gallerya big gallery on the gyaru webpage
No. 1652657
>>1652131>>1652226>>1652145did stuff like this lose its appeal to some with the rise of the internet and normalization of nerd culture? Before it was hard to find people who shared your interests but now you can go to the internet and meet them plus almost everyone has a nerdy interests nowadays so finding people irl to talk about anime or comics with isnt hard. Finding merch (both official and fanmade) is also easier now with online shopping.
I can see its more fun to meet these people in person than chating online and it's more fun to show off cosplayin person rather than the internet. Sex is also more enjoyable in person but i still wonder if some feel like cons are obsolete. I have seen some cosplayers say the scene focus more on clout chasing and fame.
>>1652378ouch
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>>1652760more likely he noticed you are monitoring him closely (in a bad way).
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>>1652761I don't understand
nonnie, just get a little trim? It's only an inch. Otherwise, look up tips on how to properly wash and brush you hair, because there are good and bad ways! You can try hair oils, and even just stimulating your scalp with your fingers or with a tool like in picrel helps your hair to grow.
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should I cut my hair like this? my hair is her length (not that I look anything like her) and I miss having bangs… I like her hairstyle
No. 1652798
>>1652640Thanks, now I see that she admitted molesting other kids in her own post.
At one hand I can't speak for
victims of sexual abuse because it surely fucks up a person but on the other hand I feel that if someone experienced it they shouldn't try to cause such pain to others. Creepy on all levels.
No. 1652897
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Does someone have the original picture of this dude? IIRC he was a running joke in the coronavirus thread
No. 1653066
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I need a new keychain, Should I buy this one?
No. 1653133
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>>1653129Nevermind, I found how to do it.
No. 1653229
>>1653220Yes, definitely. I guess I’ll follow up with: Do any lesbians actually scissor? I have dated and slept with numerous women and have never heard of any actually doing that IRL. Like I’ve dated numerous women into
fisting but zero who’ve even tried scissoring.
No. 1653245
>>1653233I’ve never met a man into fisting. Only women (including my high school girlfriend) and no I’m not kidding. It’s probably not quite like whatever you’re imagining, there’s like no thrusting involved and it should never be painful or forceful. If the women is very aroused it’s not difficult.
I know it seems gross and porny but it has always happened organically in my experience.
No. 1653309
>>1653300>Like not a fully closed fist, but one of those pointy fingers together onesHuh??
>a lot of womens fist have a smaller circumference than a big dickWhat kind of ogre dicks are you coming into contact with?
No. 1653358
File: 1691124203437.jpg (94.96 KB, 1024x632, 1691114386504334m.jpg)
Do you think Tate's butthole is yet virgin or no?
No. 1653376
>>1652761>healthyno
>longyes
stop using hairsprays and hot hairdryers
t. horsegirl hairlength with several bleach runs
No. 1653458
>>1653342Fetuses don't start as XX, imbecile. If the sperm carries a Y chromosome, even as a zygote the genetic material is XY. Sexual organ development is different and they all have two systems at the start, if you have no Y chromosome the male system doesn't develop, if you have Y chromosome the female one doesn't develop and that's how the sexual organ development happens in the womb in a very simplified manner.
Man are much more likely to commit crimes and be mentally ill/stupid but they're not deformed females. No male was ever female and they'll never ever be females.
No. 1653470
File: 1691137759162.jpg (87.36 KB, 1280x669, IMG_20230804_133006_318.jpg)
What's this website and the /mhz one?
No. 1653701
File: 1691159811697.jpg (380.45 KB, 693x343, chicago-high-rises-360-chicago…)
Why are there no high rises in Europe? Surely you would start to need some when overpopulation becomes an issue?
No. 1653727
File: 1691161094443.jpg (72.08 KB, 669x908, f1c425f1d2cffbfb5879c3508350b0…)
Can I cut my hair like this and still have it at a long length if it's really thin? My hair is below my butt.
No. 1653748
>>1653701I think a lot of those old cities have laws about how tall buildings can be so that they don't overshadow the historical structures.
There are still tall buildings though.
No. 1653757
>>1653742Layers do not always look good, some people don't have enough hair for it and it makes their hair look very flat and stringy.
When women's hair start to thin generally they have to reduce or completely stop cutting in layers to their hair.
No. 1653767
>>1653762Female pattern hair loss actually typically begins in the reproductive years so before menopause.
In a recent study 12% of women had it by age 29, and 25% by age 49.
If women have it and don't have elevated androgen levels, yes that is usually genetic but lots of women who have female pattern hair loss there isn't a genetic predisposition, as female pattern hair loss is multifactorial.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6322157/ No. 1653837
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>>1653805is it a small book? like a very thin paperback. if so they may just be shoving it in a large envelope which can be pretty cheap…
otherwise they've made a mistake or ebay is lying to you because that's really cheap.
No. 1653852
File: 1691169969240.jpeg (1.13 MB, 1200x1200, 0EB051D1-EAF7-4D0C-8F7E-93E2F1…)
I recently got a new job, and the office is seriously drab and nasty. I have a cork board at my desk behind my monitors and I’m planning to pin pictures of happy things to improve my mood during the day, like pictures of my pets, other cute animals, and family. I’d also like to pin a small picture of a celebrity I like, but I’m not sure how weird that would be. No one would recognize the celebrity because she’s obscure, but I’m worried if someone is looking at my pin board to make conversation and asks me who it is I’d have to say “oh it’s a celebrity I like.”
On a scale of 1-10, 1 being not weird and 10 being very freaky weird, how weird would it be to pin a celebrity picture in your cubicle? And if someone asked and I said she’s a celebrity I like, would they assume I’m gay? The celebrity might look a little gay btw. But she’s not gay. Not that it matters. Actually, at a glance they might assume she’s a man so it might not matter. Am I overthinking this?
Please only answer if you have worked in an office environment.
No. 1653869
>>1653852theyd probably assume its a relative or partner. ngl i wouldnt and would just stick to pictures of pets and cute things but only because i wouldnt want people to assume that its a partner and then ask about them eventually and have to explain.
or you could just make it a smaller picture in a more hidden spot so they might not ever notice
No. 1653920
>>1653907The woman looks good like that so it makes her feel sexier? It might also be easier to pleasure the clit while being penetrated in that position. Some womens vagina also is probably built so that position feels good to them. Some might also enjoy
the balls hitting the clit.
No. 1653921
>>1653907Sounds like you talk to a bunch of edgelords who think missionary is too vanilla kek
If he's not looking at you and you're not looking at him, where's the intimacy, what's the point
No. 1653928
>>1653907What feels good and what is sexy is just different for every woman, no real reason or anything deeper than that.
>>1653921How is doggy style kinky?
No. 1653930
>>1653907Because it feels good. Assuming everyone is being honest with themselves that is
always the answer with sex things.
It's also one of the most popular / well-known positions so it's bound to be chosen frequently when people are asked "what's your favorite position?"
No. 1653935
>>1653928It's not necessarily kinky it just isn't a very loving position IMO and it's the default for edgy sex worker girls who want to act all holier than thou for preferring it to missionary
The crowd of zoomers who don't have actual sex with more than their dildos love to praise doggy and demean other positions, it's like the obsession they have with other weird sexual habits and positions even though few of them are having sex
No. 1654135
>>1653868Yes.
>>1653904Fad diet foods.
Small portions + infrequent meals.
The same food.
Lack of '''weight gain''' food groups like carbs.
Usually hand+hand with Orthorexia so a preoccupation with healthy food.
>>1654121It's natural to drift away from school friends. Maybe try develop new hobbies or turn your current hobby (hiking) into a social exercise to meet new people by joining hiking groups or going to meets. At a certain age, making friends requires real effort and going out of your way.
>>1654127Reddit males will never admit anything that makes them seem less secure than a woman, ever. They could be living in a mud pile with the rest of the piggies and see themselves above all women. Their opinions are trash, everything they believe is due to insecurity, they would crumble and join r/suicidewatch if they ever faced the truth. Plus they all circlejerk.
No. 1654316
>>1649219I think nail art is retarded, unhygenic and a waste of money but wtf what nails have you been seeing that have naked women and bdsm on them?
>>1653300I think you might need to know that while the act is called fisting, that open-palm with fingers together position isn't a fist.
No. 1654322
File: 1691205084417.jpg (108.89 KB, 1029x1029, Amazon_com_ almond nails - Tod…)
>>1649219I know I'm late but what is your general vibe/style and what length of nails do you like? Natural or open to nail augmentations? I might be able to give some recommendations. In general, I don't think of nails as "sexy" (more fashionable, cool and cute) but I think the closest to sexy would maybe be short almond nails. Modern french tip or a plain color like nude or red or black.
No. 1654323
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>>1654322Samefag, but also sexy according to my personal style would also be something like this. It's hard to answer that question because what is "sexy"? And how could a nail be sexy? Food for think.
No. 1654681
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>>1654674why do you hate them? i used to hate colors because i associated them with things i dislike. I used to hate how the color pink was tied in with barbie/bimbo aesthetic, it seemed so fake and plastic to me, then i started liking it when i watched Vice City and older 80s cartoons like Jem and the holograms/Creamy Mami. I like orange/yellow because they are really funky.
No. 1654699
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>>1654695its fine i personally like really bright colors and i hate more muted/pastel palettes, so i get you
No. 1654722
File: 1691231056006.jpg (1.89 MB, 992x1986, 36684440_p0.jpg)
>>1654695nta but I think it's about how you combine the color and how much you use it. You don't need to enjoy neon colors, but bright saturated colors usually work well in small amounts with less saturated colors around it. Her bottom right example is a good example of that.
No. 1654760
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>>1654695i remember when yellow wasnt a popular color but around 2015 every online artist started obsessing over van gogh which kinda created a yellow-boom. i think more people share your sentiment towards yellow than you think.
Yellow and orange are my favourite colors because i associate them with warmth. Maybe if you try to think of them as warm colors instead you can slowly start warming(pun unintended)up to them?
honestly you dont have to force yourself to like colors you dont like.
I really dislike any shade of purple and I used to hate most pastel colors. Ironically i have always been a girly girl but even as a kid i hated pastels and preferred bold colors kek. I learned to tolerate them though and can appreciate them now. I still dislike art pieces where purple is the main color but it can give a good atmosphere when used in the background specially when mixed with blue. When it comes to pastel colors i can acknowledge that there is some art that just looks better with it. Pastel colors have their strength in cute/kawaii art.
if you wanna stop disliking a color its better to learn how to tolerate it rather than forcing yourself to like it. Think of places where it looks good and what mood they create. For me yellow can feel cozy or wild depending on the context. It does create a good atmosphere.
>>1654681>it seemed so fake and plastic to melol same. i had a ton of barbie dolls growing up and i loved them all dearly but even then i never got the appeal of pink and why it was shilled as a color every girly girl adored
red was my favourite color as a kid but the girls in kindergarten told me i couldnt like it since itd a boy color kek. I thought pink was just ok but I mostly associated pink(and purple) with cheap plastic toys that felt gross to touch and smelled weird. The color is also tied to the bimbo and teen nymphomaniac image which soured my opinion of it when i got old enough to understand that image.
>older 80s cartoons like Jem and the holograms/Creamy Mami.Shoujo manga painted with watercolor is what made me like pink since they use pink and pastels to create a dream-like atmosphere. I also like how Jem uses pink. Even if its more glam than cute/dreamy its used more "elegantly" than the over-the-top-pink-on-everything à la Mean Girls that is popular now(I know its intentional that the pink in mean girls looks garish but many people unironically like that look even before the movie was made)
No. 1654828
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>>1654820Camera and lightning really does distort your face. Even if your brain tricks you, there is so much a camera and lightning can do to someone's face. Picrel shows only how lenses can affect, but there is still the quality of your camera, the lightning, positioning etc. Nobody, even models, look the same as their pictures.
No. 1654987
>>1654950Yes, tell your nutritionist it isn't working for you and impacts your lifestyle.
>>1654974I always say go to the doctor for any mysterious lumps. Heard way too many horror stories where they hoped the lump would go away, and then weeks later it turned out to be cancer. Even if it is just an inflamed whatever, better safe than sorry.
No. 1655038
File: 1691261892318.jpg (93.75 KB, 676x520, keeptheanonimityanondontpostyo…)
What do I have to search to get more your birthday + first name initial + last name initial pics? Specifically in tumblr terms. I'm trying to find a mahou shoujo name thingy that always gave great results, no matter the combination that I found on tumblr years and years ago.
No. 1655119
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With the rise of heat-waves globally and a fear of the damage AC's cause as well as their cost, I'm surprised Air coolers aren't more popular in the west or even globally? they cost less and don't further any climate change damage.
they just require being refiled with Ice every few hours
No. 1655208
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what trouble could somebody create for a person using their mobile phone number (in a way that's legal)?
No. 1655217
>>1655199I remind myself that I can pass as younger for a little while longer and learn the ropes of maturity before I start to look too old
I hope.
No. 1655225
>>1655208sms bomber
signing up for random websites/services (same as sms bomber but the bomber automates the process) - they'd have to verify their number by a code in their sms - unwanted spammy messages
posting it on 4chins
posting it on a "phone sex" website
No. 1655244
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So many people where I work (grocery store) admit to being super high while working. I had a coworker tell me she took a big edible before her shift and was pretty much just on autopilot for hours and had a blast.
How? I know it's common for people to work high but I never understood how. Aside from being way too paranoid to function, I imagine I'd be terrible at my job. Maybe I'm retarded but I don't feel like I'd be good at giving back change or lifting boxes of potatoes. I'd probably make so many fuck ups. I already sperg out talking to my managers, but I'll see stoned coworkers go up to managers and chit chat with confidence and clarity. Maybe weed just effects me different but it makes me overthink way too much and get really in my own head.
No. 1655314
>>1655311He wants to engage in anorectal violence and I didn’t say anything about it. Is this pickme behavior? Should I just block him? He said he wants to
lick my butthole and I’m too disgusted to respond. Do I tell him to fuck off? Relationships are too stressful.
No. 1655318
>>1655314asshole licking is degenerate as fuck but at least it's not anal penetration which actually can damage you severely.
>I didn’t say anything about it. Is this pickme behavior?idk, seems neutral. it'd be pickme if you said "yeah… like we can do that uh when" but it looks like you just ignored it as if he said something retarded (that's what happened).
if you're planning on continuing the relationship, tread with caution, he's probably a coomer and it could very well escalate to anal penetration itself. i'd block
No. 1655324
>>1655300Tldr be neutral and polite. Add a tiny bit of humor to show you're not going to go ballistic on her.
"Hi! I'm [client name] from [date]. You [did this and that]. I've been noticing [what went wrong]. I'm afraid [worst case scenario] because I'm lucky like that. But it could also be [best case scenario]. What's your opinion? Should I book another appointment to get this fixed?"
No. 1655476
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Where do you imagine the following people will be in 15 year's time?
>Noelle Stevenson
>Phoebe Bridgers
>Ariana Grande
>Ben Shapiro
>Morrissey
No. 1655501
>>1655429You think you can escape judgement in death??
FOOL, death is the ultimate judgement!
No. 1655511
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>>1655508what are the chances of my icloud being hacked by a moid and him suddenly being able to see all of my screenshots that can lead him to finding me. is it just some of apple that has it or can anyone recover my old screenshots even if deleted from the cloud
No. 1655541
File: 1691303683499.jpeg (141.97 KB, 1000x1595, IMG_8452.jpeg)
>>1655527Apple is the shittiest type of device if you’re looking for security. Next time I get a new phone i’m definitely making the switch. All of the celebrity leaks that some scrotes were able to get away with all because ICloud is so shit.
No. 1655754
>>1654336I got two sentences into that and had to stop.
Probably cause my husband committed suicide too. That is so extremely cringe. I cannot imagine ever being that narcissistic.
No. 1655896
>>1654336People grieve differently. I remember a grieving youtuber on my country who got massive backlash because she wore a tank top in her next video and everyone called her a slut whore shameless etc. for wearing a tanktop in summer.
I remember one of the commentors said she herself slept with 60+ men and in the same comment called the girl a whore for wearing a tanktop lmao.
No. 1655906
>>1655903renewal? what's that?
my 6 month premium is 600 US dollars
No. 1656088
If someone sees an interesting thread but it's old and discontinued, would it be better to make a new one with same idea and see if it will get attention or try replying to the old one? There are warnings for necroing though, as I saw them myself but how it would be after someone already necroed it?
I'm talking specifically about this thread:
>>>/m/10453 No. 1656108
>>1656088I'd just post in the old thread
especially because I, for one, always report duplicate threads if the previous one didn't reach 1200 posts yet; the only times I've seen someone getting banned for necroing was on the cowboards because someone just
had to bump the thread to call the cow a hoe or something, without bringing any milk.
No. 1656139
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Am I a bad person/friend for telling my friend that her first serious [now ex] boyfriend is likely not the last she’ll ever have?
My friend has gone off the rails trying to convince herself that it’s meant to be with this guy (like magical thinking, twin flames type stuff) and it pains me to see her clinging to this through “signs” of it being “meant to be” when there’s no guarantees. Like he literally is not talking to her so what does it matter if you get signs that it’s meant to be? For context this guy ended it 2 months into the relationship supposedly because someone else didn’t like her.
She always has good confidence in herself but her confidence is destroyed from this breakup, so now she’s asking me if she’s worthy of love and she’s been suicidal. What do I do? She won’t listen to me when I tell her that someone in the future will be an even better match. She’s insistent that this guy is the one when I know he most likely is not. I feel like a bitch for trying to be the voice of reason and help her move on from this guy rather than enabling the idea that he’ll come back or it’s “meant to be”. Am I a bad friend nonas? What do I do?
No. 1656225
>>1655982Yes because I see family as decided and chosen (I have a good relationship with my family so this isn't in a drag race choose ur family way)
Like my cousins aren't blood but they may as well be in my eyes but my aunts daughter is never around, so i don't consider her family. Technically my mothers boyfriends sons would be step brother if they were to marry but I'd never consider them that, my mothers best friend I've known since Infancy? Family.
No. 1656248
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Is the venture bros show worth watching? I never got into when it aired but I heard it was good.
No. 1656537
>>1656139Fair weather friends support people implicitly, and good friends tell the truth. Honestly if I were you, I would be telling her that him leaving is the real 'sign' and the signs she thinks she's seeing are demons, but I'm also a terrible person.
The reality is that right now she's going to be really deep in her emotions and she might have clarity sometime soon, but if it persists for a long time, that's when I'd start to be worried.
You sound like you care about her wellbeing and that's the part that matters, and I would consider you a good friend, a better friend than most. But sometimes people only want to hear what they want to hear.
No. 1656572
File: 1691378763743.jpeg (157.02 KB, 904x966, IMG_2471.jpeg)
Does anyone know what game this is?
No. 1656580
nonna from
>>1647622. Thanks so much for the advice, daily flossing + tongue scraping + some mouthwash has made all smell completely go away. My new stupid question is does everyone really get cavities? I may have a small one getting fixed in a bit but I was raised to think it means you've failed at hygiene. I seem to hear that basically most people (at least in the West) get them though.
>>1656481Is your issue the noise or getting splashed? If you use the brush really good afterwards you can just aim for the more "slanted" wall to minimize both. It also depends on your diet. When you do a "perfect", it almost just slides with barely a splash.
>>1656521I don't know if you can still jailbreak certain models but check out the massive prompt engineering that goes on on r/chatgptnsfw. Just tweak it to remove the male coomer degeneracy. It took me a while but as of a few weeks ago it could still write crudely, you just have to train it to stop being cringe with wording and repetition.
No. 1656593
>>1656588He seems to self aware to be socially retarded so he can't be that shy to not even make a move to kiss a woman before. I'm telling you I get serial killer vibes.
>>1656591He's real. He's not so good looking that he's a catfish and he wanted to meet up with me today but I declined.
No. 1656603
>>1656586I say 1) he’s probably lying and/or 2) there is something extremely wrong with him. This is speculative but the waiting until 30s makes me think he never cared about women until he realized he’s nearly 35 and is unmarried. What kind of man waits until 34 to finally date? I just get a vibe that this guy is not attracted to women and instead is just trying to check the marriage box off. This is just my tinfoil though.
Please update us if you do find out what is/isn’t wrong with him.
No. 1656715
File: 1691397797893.jpg (11.78 KB, 275x275, 1461173522656.jpg)
my neighbour is throwing his dog's shit over the fence onto my patio, how can I prove that he's doing this whilst also letting the entire village know his behavior without it making me look catty?
No. 1656751
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How do u cut off your own family forever ? For anons who have cut ties with your family, how is it?
No. 1656791
>>1656751First make sure you have everything that is yours like birth certificates and social security cards, make sure your bank is in your name only (lot of parents set up join accounts when you're a teen), your car title is yours only, probably some other things I'm not thinking of because they didn't apply to me… etc. These things will entangle you with them later if you don't take care of it now.
Then you move, doesn't have to be super far away but move to a different town at least.
You can have a phone call or send a message saying you're cutting contact so people don't look for you or reach out asking where you are. I did but I'm still not sure it was necessary… I left pretty quick after 18 so I thought it would keep anyone from reporting me missing but it was also sort of messy and I couldn't keep myself from arguing in emails for a while. Sometimes I wish I just ghosted, but on the plus side it really did keep extended family from reaching out too often since they knew what was up.
Block methods of contact online (filter emails to trash, make any public socials private, that sort of thing), don't send them mail with your return address, don't tell them where you work, basically stop all contact and don't respond to their messages if they send any. For me I also made peace with the fact that I would not be involved in any estate distribution or inheritance
No. 1657077
>>1657071Goddamn, maybe. If a man did it, I would be repulsed, but there's something endearing about a woman being openly autistic in a harmless, silly way in public.
Make sure you're looking hot when you do it. Not like business casual or date clothes or anything, but if a weird juggling lady with a mullet and well fit shirt stopped me to talk and made me laugh, I'd be charmed.
No. 1657134
>>1657127From what I’ve read so far, it seems like healing your inner child means to have some sort of conversation with yourself, send letters to your past self, understanding what happened that hurt your past self and trying to find some sort of “positive” side and the sorts.
While age regression is buying child toys, playing with them, thinking that you’re a baby and that nothing bad happened (repressing your trauma) and that you’re safe in your safe space surrounded by toys and such, getting out of that safe space means having to face the hardships of the real world and feeling really helpless outside of that safe space, making you want to go back again, and again, and again.
No. 1657143
>>1657137Hm, I've been in a similar situation, but I think I would need examples of stuff you have to come up with ideas.
A basic start would be "everything has a home". My music, my lip balm, my keys, my bags, my projects all have "homes" they return to every time I need to clear the area. If something doesn't have a home, then you know you either have to make room for it or rehome it elsewhere (donate, trash, new shelf).
I have a lot of little things I collected over the years, so I use shelves to "display" them, which stops me from having stuff dotted all around the house and looking junky.
If you're having an issue with "usable" stuff (craft supplies for example), then maybe put them into organized boxes, label them, and rent a storage. The extra money you pay will be motivation to use any yarn, beads, fabric, etc.
Can you tell us a little bit more about the stuff you're having trouble getting rid of?
No. 1657157
>>1657137Something that helped me begin trying to be more conscious of the stuff I have is remodeling my house because of a very nasty leakage that was fucking up my neighbors’ apartment.
So maybe try to find a reason to pick like 15 big boxes and put everything inside them, move them somewhere else and if you don’t need them in months, then you don’t need them at all.
Something else that helped me a lot was having a roach infestation at home, so it was either clean everything up or live with them, that helps a lot with cleaning up the kitchen and making sure you don’t have too many “as seen on tv” stuff that your grandma and your parents bought on a whim thinking that it would solve their problems and that it would make everything easier at home.
And the last thing that helps a lot is having other people that you know that they need stuff, clothes, toys, all that jazz. The maids that used to work for my family would always need things, so we would gift them the stuff that we didn’t use anymore, like the majority of my childhood toys that I used to have until I was 23 years old. Maybe try to find some nieces, young cousins, a church, orphanage or the sorts so you can donate all of your past you stuff to them.
No. 1657160
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I'm an autist who collects minerals, I don't really believe in their "power", I'm just fascinated by them and I like symbolism behind them, my coworkers are kinda nice and I wanted to give each one of them their birth stone as a small gift at the time of their birthdays, do you think it's too cringe?
No. 1657168
>>1657136NTA but no, regression is real it’s common for people with people who experienced child abuse or CSA. It is true, however that DDLG shit has coopted regression, in 2 ways. 1 —People pretending to regress or being into regression and “age play” because they’re pedos and 2– Actual young female autists and mentally ill age regressors getting preyed on by creepy men.
>>1657144I agree with this it’s weird. For CPTSD a lot of people recommend pretending like you’re talking to your child self and protecting them from the trauma and apologizing for the past, it’s unhelpful and retarded. My local dance studio does adult lessons and they advertise it as “healing the inner child
uwu” it’s so cringe. You can like ballet or stuffed animals and be a normal adult at the same time kek
No. 1657176
>>1657137I used to yearly sort my stuff into three piles:
>useful to me>useful to others>useless (trash)I kept the first, and separated the second into:
>sell>give away for freeand then disposed of things accordingly.
It's also a nice opportunity to clear out all storage and clean it before re-filling it with stuff that is properly sorted.
After 3-4 years I got a point where I didn't really have much of anything that I didn't actively use. I'm generally not in the habit of buying things I don't have an actual need for though, and am a big minimalist, but maybe you can apply something like that to part of your stuff.
No. 1657183
>>1657181It really helped my nostalgia to take things out of my storage and then put them back in every year. I realized "Damn I haven't, looked at this or thought about it at all, why do I keep it?"
There's so many things that I thought were neat in theory, but I apparently didn't benefit at all from actually having them; they just took up space.
No. 1657228
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>>1657225If you go by this image then some months have 2 options. I wish mine was sapphire too, or citrine, they're beautiful.
No. 1657249
>>1657238Nta, I asked myself that, too, and it the answer is either "first-century biblical historian" or "the Jewelers of America". In Western culture.
Modern birthstone assignments were established in 1912, but there were other iterations before that. The wikipedia page has a bunch of info on it, it's a fun read
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birthstone No. 1657253
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>>1657203I always thought that each zodiac sign has more than just one and not only/not always jewels?
>>1657225I always thought opals were very pretty. My 'main' birthstone is amethyst but I like opals alot. Recently I bought a big green opal and I think it's beautiful
No. 1657258
File: 1691442709079.jpeg (31.24 KB, 540x360, IMG_6742.jpeg)
At 5'2 and 375 pounds, I'm too fat to lose weight, right? Why even try getting to a normal weight (130 or below)? I've always been obese, since childhood, so my body is probably already damaged. I've had high blood pressure, arthritis, joint inflammation, prediabetes, and sleep apnea all before turning 18. I'm almost 30 now. It really is over for me, isn't it? I've lost motivation before even trying.
Please offer encouragement. Is it as hopeless as it seems? Am I damaged beyond repair from being fat my whole life?
No. 1657262
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>>1657258You are not! There’s loads of people who have lost a lot of weight even when they were heavier than you. You’re probably heavy enough to qualify for weight loss surgery too, but it’s doable without it too.
No. 1657274
File: 1691444162037.png (861.22 KB, 760x664, some_girl.png)
Do you think the girl in the photo looks ugly? I look almost exactly like her and wherever on imageboards it was reposted, pretty much everyone called her ugly.
No. 1657276
>>1657261Btw nonita, nta, but I just want to say this is a very sweet and supportive message. I get wary of people who suggest calorie counting and going 2000/day or lower (especially because I need more than that lmao), but you were very helpful to nonna. So many people have a "weight loss must be punishing" attitude and that is always more detrimental than helpful. I hope she feels encouraged by you.
And now I am going to go have myself a mushroom plate, you have me craving them, kek
No. 1657283
>>1657258I weighted more than you at the beginning of the pandemic, I lost almost 100kg now and I just started eating way less and a lot of protein but I can still snack on bad stuff and I didn't really do a lot of exercise, you just end up wanting to move and walk when everything doesn't feel so heavy and annoying. I also have a shitty thyroid and endo so I did and do have a lot against me, but bitch you can do it. You may have health issues now and sure, you will have some after weight loss but I promise you that your joints will feel so much better, everything will feel so much better, even goddamn sleeping and sitting. You just gotta choose to keep making the choices that will lead you toward somewhere that makes you feel physically better, because once you feel physically better, you will feel better mentally, not a quick fix but it can absolutely be done, I promise.
No. 1657286
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>>1657274I think she’s attractive. That look isn’t en vogue right now but she not ugly she just doesn’t look like a babyfaced Instagram filter she looks more like an Italian renaissance painting.
No. 1657290
>>1657277>>1657280Yeah but it's not just ugly, they literally act as if she's an abomination just because she's not an instragram tier model. I just wonder if that's how people perceive me. I thought I looked average/forgettable/plain so considering how much we look alike, it fucking hurt reading all of what they said. But yeah, who cares what they think. I'll ignore it since there's not much I can change.
>>1657285Yeah, it's perfectly normal and okay. Really don't know why it caused such reaction among anons.
>>1657286You're really sweet!
No. 1657292
>>1657274Normal looking lady profile
>>1657290Chronically online moids are legitimately retarded and anyone who isn’t filtered to look like a loli is ugly to them. Meanwhile irl they’d cum immediately if a girl like that so much as smiled at them.
No. 1657363
File: 1691451934202.png (736.73 KB, 1182x774, earhold.png)
>>1657322get one of these and hang it on the wall where the cat cannot climb.
No. 1657367
File: 1691452145795.png (657.54 KB, 512x494, bleuderess.png)
anons im not black is it wrong if i buy a dress in this print? its my favorite color combo of golden with blue. the print is considered african but the dress shape is normal not referencing anything. both the dresses i want help a small business woman too.
No. 1657371
>>1657367Cute dress, just get it
nonnie. Cultural appropriation is only really only for the terminally online.
No. 1657467
>>1657400Hmm… how did she respond as you? Did she call and pretend to be you on the phone? Or did she submit written correspondence? Did she give you the letter after opening it and fucking your life up, and if so, do you still have it? How did you know she responded on your behalf?
You can report her for mail theft, but it would be helpful to have more information on what happened.
No. 1657592
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>>1657590my dumbass dropped pic. this stuff was still cheaper than the professional i hired who ended up using the same stuff…
No. 1657796
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does anyone else feel like their future is completely doomed to absolute failure yet at the same time you feel hopeful about it like "I can do it, is gonna be okay and I will achieve my dreams"? why does that happens??
No. 1657805
>>1657796i do, and i feel like for me it's the inner battle between what i've been told about me all my life (parents and teachers telling me i'm stupid and won't make it) and what i'm trying to build myself.
maybe you have old insecurities you still need to overcome
No. 1657807
>>1657805damn
nonny that makes a lot of sense
No. 1657980
File: 1691512687849.jpg (97.6 KB, 720x714, f1f73db4d6d7ed5843d739f532306a…)
>>1657160Ok the first stone has been gifted and I think the guy kinda liked it, he specifically asked me about the name of the stone because he wanted to google it. So it wasn't bad I guess
No. 1658306
>>1658219Here nonna.
I haven't watched it myself but the comments under the video seem to say the documentary is objective enough. It's been released seven years ago though, so you know.
No. 1658513
>>1658254>>1658327Im the anon who asked, but I am not >1658292 that anon being dummy contrarian for no reason. I clicked link, looks legit and cozy, thanks so much
nonny <3
No. 1658691
>>1657582yeah knowing those creepy crawlies are living in dark crevices in my house keeps me up at night
>>1657590well the one good thing is that I am in a house with a yard so I cannot get reinfected by a neighbor, and I don't have pets so no cause of worry about dousing the place in chemicals. thanks for all the advice, I just want to be rid of these things for good
No. 1658772
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How do stans know when to be at the airport when a celebrity lands? I get looking at flight schedules etc (I'm not talking about giga celebrities that fly private jets), but how do they know which day the person will be departing? Do theys how up to the airport mutliple days? Inside info?
No. 1658790
>>1658772I worked for an airline call center back in the day.
Basically paparazzi are elaborate liars. They may know some 'insider' info such as the celeb's loyalty number or some general flight info. They call in to the centers trying to pose as personal assistants and attempt to get naive agents who will pull celeb flight bookings and reveal the information that way.
It takes an embarrassingly low amount of information to be able to pull a flight record.
My airline had a scandal or two where celebs sued cause an agent revealed their shit.
I don't see it happening this way as much these days because call centers have become more strict about what information is required to be provided by the caller in order to pull a record (think an ex-husband calling in to fuck with a woman's reservation), and also the call centers can see what agents are accessing the records…granted they check and if there is a pattern.
I'd assume much is simply passed publicly and word of mouth based on some social media sleuthing and what can be found on public flight trackers. Wouldn't be that hard if you knew what to look for.
No. 1658980
>>1658391I am
now, she filed a fake eviction w the sheriff's office claiming she gave me a paper eviction on June 1st which she never did she was making me work in her store bc her empyees kept quitting on her bc she's vile. That was June, July she gave my brother my job & made me stay home to watch his kids so he could work & earn $. Sheriff's kicked me out on July 30th. She did it bc she got fired when her employees reported her to HR for breaking company policy by having us work there, she believes I called them when I didn't. HR called ME and I confirmed with them that I wasn't the one who called them and she still didn't care. She's fucking hateful and can't accept any consequences to any of her actions, she thinks rules don't apply to her and when she gets caught she blames anyone and everything else. She's like a toddler in a 65 year old white woman's body.
No. 1658992
>>1658775I stg someone asked this exact question here and everyone shouted tranny then to kek.
Anyway, undies then tights
but in ballet you wear dance tights with no undies at all No. 1659032
>>1658980Okay. So the first thing you need to understand is to never, ever leave anything you care about in your room, ever again. It goes in your car, your car is locked, and the keys never leave your body, even when you are sleeping. I promise if you put those keys down and your mom wants something, she will take them. You need to confiscate any extra keys your mom may have.
I'm assuming you have a P.O. box for all your mail. Never reveal its location or the number to your mother, and move it if she knows. Never let that mailbox key out of your sight, it lives on your car keyring now.
How did the court papers get served to you? Was it in person, or did they send it via mail? If they were sent to your P.O. box, call and ask what this is all about. At this point, you can get your mother for mail theft and impersonation. As of now, you never heard about the collections letter your mom supposedly responded to and then stole from you again.
Do you still have the papers they served? Is what you owe payable at all? If the amount is like 2k, you should probably suck it up and pay. Get in touch with Legal Aid NOW.
You need to get away from your mother as soon as physically possible. Nobody likes living with multiple roommates, but she sounds like she wants to ruin you. See if there's a friend whose couch you can crash on for a few weeks while you apply to every job you can find.
No. 1659075
File: 1691606689773.jpg (42.99 KB, 563x570, cyberbullying.jpg)
>>1659057Because having terrible fashion sense was bullying worthy back then. Nowadays having bright neon greasy hair and 100 piercings while being a fatass is accepted when back then that would have gotten you burned for being a lardass satanist. It saddens me how uglyness is so accepted nowadays, and i dont mean uglyness as in ''not super model tier hot'', normal looking people are making themselves ugly and it's outright accepted. Neon dyed hair, ugly fashion choices, ugly piercings, ugly makeup, ugly tattoos. This generation has the worst fucking fashion sense of all decades. The other day i went to an expensive clinic and i was greeted by jabba the hut james charles and zoe quinn with 50 piercings. I cannot believe people with such terrible fashion sense are allowed to have work, as receptionist on an expensive hospital no less. Yuck. I think that's also why so many teens troon out, having blue dyed hair, tattos and piercins and dressing quiky isnt especial anymore. If we brought back bullying we could get rid of 2 birds with one stone.
No. 1659106
>>1659057moids had layered hair with some volume that was more flattering to their faces and clothing that showcased them more too. So it was possible to be good looking even if you had a few flaws, provided you were fit and not balding. Nowadays men don't get proper haircuts anymore and dress poorly not to mention their diet and lack of actual exercise. I was wondering one day why moids are so ugly now and then I passed by a decently fit guy with a 70s shag-esque hairstyle and turtleneck and I'm still thinking about his jawline, his pecs and his everything else. Granted he was good looking to begin with but had he worn some cheap hoodie and that retarded undercut everyone has now, I wouldn't have noticed as much. It's about the highlight. Women still care about highlighting themselves in this present day, so the contrast isn't as jarring compared to the past.
But yeah also the pictures weren't as precise and everyone looks better blurred kek. And if you look at old pictures from normie events you'll see some ugly ass moids.
No. 1659417
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>>1659370So it's like spam?
No. 1659445
>>1659392Of course
>>1659417I think so
No. 1659605
>>1659075I guess you would accept being bullied not for appearance but for personality too? It's possible to not look like what you describe and be bullied because you're not conforming as a woman in personality. Guess you would just enjoy being bullied by moids if you like bullying so much, hmm (or just didn't understand the concept at all). Also fun fact, bullying screwed up brains of some people that way that younger ones are more susceptible to grooming and trooning out.
It's possible to be against some trends, I also don't like some, but also not to written such shitty takes. Take them outside lolcow because you gave me impression of someone who just left 4chan.
No. 1659733
>>1659032I'm out of her house now, so I'm OK. I changed my mailing address to my grandma's house as well.
The papers were served to me in person at my mom's about 5 days before she had the sheriffs kick me out. My court date is August 22nd. The amount is just under 2k, but I'm struggling to eat enough to stay over 100 pounds rn. I have no income at the moment and nothing saved up thanks to my mom forcing me to stay home and watch my brother's kids. She was also paying me a full $2.50 less than my coworkers in the same position, but none of them would ever help me prove it bc they were happy to make so much more for doing so much less while I picked up the slack.
This is gonna be the dumbest question in the thread, but: what is legal aid? I'm in Florida if that helps at all.
No. 1659742
>>1659656Analog all the way, or just get a little 4k projector. Trust me, I got a free flat screen Samsung smart TV from my aunt when she bought a bigger one, somehow taking it from her house to mine made it so that it will no longer do anything but turn on, show the Samsung logo, then go black. Everything is hooked up fine, called Samsung tech support & they said someone would have to come fix it or I'd have to take it in to get fixed. "Smart" is a major misnomer when it comes to things like screens. All they need to do is display what you're doing, they don't
need internet access IMHO if you already have the screen plugged into an internet capable device. It just seems redundant to me.
No. 1659744
>>1657127Healing your inner child is a mature and positive thing - you're accepting the fact that your parents failed you and you're trying to give yourself the things that they were supposed to give you. The phrase 'inner child' is taken from pop psychology though, I think the official term is reparenting.
Age regression AFAIK is used exclusively in negative context, like suddenly feeling the need to suck your thumb as a way to deal with stress or feeling helpless and wanting someone to take care of you and do things for/instead of you
No. 1659852
>>1659742Yeah, aside from how stupidly easy these things break, I was mostly wondering if they are "normal" TVs as long as you keep them forever offline since that's what I want, just a huge monitor that can be plugged onto a TV antenna.
I'm finally moving out from my parent's house and finding regular appliances has been a pain in general, even mirrors come with speakers and able to make phone calls now. I have been having more luck looking on local small stores, but for TVs I haven't been able to find huge non-smart ones.
No. 1659920
>>1659852Yeah, you're not likely to find a big TV anymore that has good picture quality and isn't a smart TV. Like I said, try a projector/soundbar combo, I highly recommend it.
Honestly the only reason I can think of for speakers, mics and wifi in everything is for hacking/spying, and with all the dat breaches lately… Nah. I don't trust it anymore, and I grew up terminally online, so that says something. I love the internet, but moving forward I want it the fuck out of my house unless it has a dedicated on/off switch.
No. 1660032
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How do I stop being like picrel? Someones tone can rub me the wrong way and make me seeth for days, this can't be normal.
No. 1660201
File: 1691693560192.png (116.27 KB, 664x592, font2.PNG)
how do i get this type of font on my browser? picrel is geocities on netscape 4
No. 1660241
>>1660201What do you mean by the type of font? Like how it's really crisp/you can see the pixel clearly? There are many fonts on your image.
>>1660232Yeah, I did that while I had 10 installed, I think I had to tinker a bit with it with the registry editor. You can find a tutorial pretty easily if you look it up.
No. 1660282
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>>1660272If you're on windows turn off cleartype in the settings.
>Look up cleartype >click on adjust cleartype text>uncheck Turn on ClearTypeIf you're on mac i have no idea, maybe look for cleartype mac equivalent if such a thing exists.
Though even for windows, it's weird, it affected the way it showed text in firefox, but not in chrome. Maybe it would work after a restart idk
No. 1660312
File: 1691698763522.png (15.68 KB, 412x566, smooth edges.png)
>>1660282Oh I found another setting, for windows. If you search Adjust the Appearance and Performance of Windows, select Custom here and uncheck smooth fonts in picrel, it turns off the effect to a greater extent, actually now chrome looks like that too. Also this smoothing effect is called anti-aliasing so that might help you find it for mac if you're on it.
No. 1660322
File: 1691699152738.png (5.31 KB, 263x432, yahoooo.PNG)
>>1660312>>1660282thank you so much
nonnie!! the browser was indeed not affected after turning off cleartype, but after i unchecked the smooth edges it looks excatly how i want!
No. 1660409
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>>1657980Today he asked me about the stone again and he said he read about it and that it actually fits him and he said he would like to make a hole in it to wear it or hang it in his car. I thought it was so cute, like he actually cared about the gift?? If I knew he would want to wear it I would buy him one which already had a hole in it or a hanger. I was scared he would think it was cringe or something but he's been bringing up the stone for 2 days. Now I regret I didn't buy him one with a hole in it
Doesn't help that I have a crush on him but I barely talk to him so well, at least I'm glad that he liked the gift>>1659738None of them is "into" crystals to my knowledge, but as you can see with the guy I mentioned above, looks like some people can like it despite not being into crystals in general
No. 1660579
>>1660481Agree with
>>1660514Since the pandemic people have been making g up their own spin-off phrases of old common sense ones, that actually make 0 sense. It means nothing other than "I want to sound deep but am illiterate and cannot".
No. 1660859
>>1660838>>1660840Eastern too, there is for example an upcoming adult otome game called What in hell is bad where the developers bowed to this.
Aidens already got their yaoi games to self-insert in so it pisses me off that fem mc games must pander to them too.
No. 1661003
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Hypothetical speaking if i where to create a new thread i do i link the previous threads in the discription
No. 1661124
File: 1691773740135.jpg (57.97 KB, 500x400, DessertPizzaResized.jpg)
>>1661109I have no idea, I'm sorry, but it sounds wrong to bring uncooked grill skewers and cook at their place. bring something already cooked. broccoli slaw, dessert pizza (the kind that's just fruit on a cookie). something like that.
No. 1661137
File: 1691775294920.jpg (195.31 KB, 900x1200, summer.jpg)
>>1661109I would say extend the watermelon platter to a fruit platter, if possible. Or even just add a few more melons (honeydew, cantaloupe) and keep it as a melon tray.
No. 1661203
>>1661156Would it be weird if I suggested learning guitar instead? There are probably a lot of online resources for learning piano, too, but I find guitar can be more accessible. Motivation is also easier to maintain if you learn songs you like from online tabs. An acoustic guitar is only a few hundred bucks depending on what you buy, whereas keyboards can be more complicated because different models cost more depending on how big they are and if there's pressure sensitivity, etc. (I suggest a steel string over nylon or classical, but it's up to you!) Another thing to think about is accessibility. It's easy to throw your guitar in a case and go, even if the case is a little heavy, but a keyboard is always going to need electricity. You will never be able to move a real piano.
Of course, if you'd prefer piano, take piano lessons! But I just thought I'd offer the alternative.
You already know this from being an artist, but a lot of people get easily discouraged from playing instruments because they think they "sound bad" or "aren't improving". You just have to keep going! And if you find yourself struggling with a technique or style, do something else and come back in a few days.
No. 1661208
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Should I buy this for my cat? I live in a small space so her litter box is in the hallway but I stillwant my house to look presentable, it’s like $200 before taxes though.
No. 1661217
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>>1661208That's really ugly for $200. Why not one of the nicer fake wood ones for the same price?
No. 1661224
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>>1661208I got this for my cats and its so much better
nonnie. I still have yet to find a litterbox where the cat litter isnt flying everywhere (this one is still better than any cat box ive had, even the one with stairs) but for $230CAD on sale and it hides the litter box and smell very very well!
Kimmel 58" cat condo
No. 1661229
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>>1661208Idk much about litter boxes or if they have some special technology, but I think you should just try to make your own with a storage bin. Would something like these fake plant litterboxes work? It's decorative and seems pretty small, only $60-90 on amazon depending on which one you get. You could probably even turn it on it's side so no one can see the hole.
No. 1661231
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>>1661229Samefag, or what about one like this? $54 but I'm sure you can find both boxes somewhere cheaper.
I didn't even know decorative litterboxes were a thing before this question though. You learn something from lolcow everyday.
No. 1661233
File: 1691782003502.jpg (102.92 KB, 544x548, dress.jpg)
Hey all!
My fiancé and I are getting married with just my parents, his parents, my grandparents and his sister.
Its going to be at my parents backyard because my partner and I who live a few states away are in town for my dads birthday that week.
My questions:
1.This is my dress, do you think it needs a veil? I'm going to have a flower comb at the back of my hair but unsure if it would suit a veil.
Also I have more of the same fabric coming to cover the boob area more because I hate showing cleavage like that.
2. Do we keep it as a surprise from my parents and grandparents?
They know we were going to "elope" in November but mum was/is very sad about that as I'm an only child.
So we had the idea to do it while we're up visiting, we've signed the paperwork so just waiting for the documents to get to the celebrant.
But my plan was to tell my parents and grandparents "Hey fiancés parents want to take you to a fancy restaurant for dinner to meet you all, we're leaving at 5pm." So they dress up a bit nicer)
Then the celebrant shows up instead, his parents show up with sister, we come downstairs in my nice dress and him in a suit with the arch I'll make and hide in my room/the flowers we hid.
I think my mum and grandma would really appreciate it, and I think the surprise will be nice.
My partner thinks we should tell them the day before so they don't feel left out, but apart from his parents showing up there's nothing else to do.
No. 1661240
>>1661237I meant the whole "wedding" is a secret until the celebrant arrives at the house like 10 mins before we actually get married.
I love the flower crown idea too but I dont think its my fiancés jam
No. 1661251
>>1661233I know I'm socially retarded because my heart started racing reading this lol. oh my god I can't imagine combining a week long trip to my parents with a surprise wedding and a dad's birthday party while previously shouldering my parents' disappointment they won't get to go to my wedding but also keeping is a secret they're going to get to go to my surprise wedding aaaaaah
beautiful dress though! stunning.
No. 1661253
>>1661233Beautiful
nonnie and congrats! Maybe you could go with a different colored vail to match the accents on the dress(?) I am unsure if uts a possability, but it is a thought! Or maybe add in some flowers but not neccrsarily a crown? You will look so beautiful, i am so excited for you!
I would tell them about the wedding beforehand, maybe a day or twos notice especially if anything were to come up.
I hope you have a beautiful life and wedding together!
No. 1661830
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Genuinely what fucking causes this?
No. 1661838
>>1661830I don't want to catch covid, the flu, or the common cold. I'm happy wearing my mask and I mind my business. Why does it bother you?
>>1661832Weird take but ok
No. 1661850
>>1661841>>1661846I don't know why you're so upset, all I explained is why I wore it. I answered anon's question, and then I asked her why people wearing masks upsets her. People in countries that are not the US were wearing masks before the pandemic. Were you guys anti-maskers or something
>>1661848That's not how it works, but thank you for your concern.
No. 1661866
>>1661850>I answered anon's questionAnd proved
>>1661832 right because the question wasn’t “why do people wear face masks”. Kek it went right over your head.
No. 1661872
>>1661848Myth
>>1661863Nta but you're being a narc over something really simple
No. 1661914
File: 1691824876487.jpeg (96.19 KB, 750x563, IMG_1317.jpeg)
>>1661900>>1661904Kind of leaning towards a mixture of secondhand embarrassment and being cynical. I only feel it when looking back on late 90s/very very early 2000s kek like picrel really
triggers it
No. 1662044
File: 1691830219001.jpg (214.16 KB, 1024x635, cow.jpg)
Horse girls, former horse girls and maybe famers acquaintanced with horse girls, what is it about horses out of all animals, and why are there no horse boys?
No. 1662100
File: 1691835153407.png (188.21 KB, 1403x996, IMG-71.png)
when did these meme of depicting Finland and Finnish people as this cartoonish asian racial caricature come about, it seems finnish people themselves make these memes.
No. 1662143
>>1662044I would love to be a horse girl but I am not financially secure. When I went to riding schools we had a mysterious horse boy. I think the boys get a bit more doted on in a class out of girls and he went on to do competitive stuff and made a career from it.
Anyway. Horses are just gorgeous creatures. Beautiful manes and tails. I got to learn how to do braids on a beautiful docile horse. Horses are really sensitive there's something about them that I find calming. There was a girl with cerebral palsy at my stables and there was a specific horse she was bonded with and she would just light up with him. It was a great form of therapy.
I love if you're out and see a horse in a field and call it over. Its like being blessed by this big beautiful regal creature. Horses are class. Big up those beauties
No. 1662147
>>1662096Horses were fundamental to big industrial projects and then warhorse and knightd you'd think boys would like that. I guess they appreciate a horses power by meauaring their cars in horse power and horse racing is pretty popular.
I also wonder if girls have a kinship with horses because they maybe gave a sense of freedom. You could travel on a horse and they're also big powerful animals. You don't want to get kicked by a horse. Be like riding about on a bodyguard if you treat it right.
No. 1662150
>>1662133as a child i remember hating my hair color because it was mousy as opposed to deep shiny black like my siblings' or white blonde like my best friend.
i preferred the blonde bc barbie was the main character and i was an attention whore.
now i don't give much of a fuck, still like blondes but i've never seen a fake blonde with roots who wouldn't look better with her actual darker hair color
No. 1662186
>>1662141I understand anon. I'm sure your grey hairs aren't noticeable, my hair didn't grey but I have some strands that are very different than my own hair texture and they're not really that noticeable.
>>1662150>i've never seen a fake blonde with roots who wouldn't look better with her actual darker hair colorI agree and yeah I understand how you feel. I really am jealous of women with natural shiny pure black hair, it's so beautiful but it doesn't suit my skin so I'll never be able to go that color. I'm sire your dark blonde/brown hair looks gorgeous on its own
No. 1662193
>>1662044I have always wondered about this too. Horses are usually depicted in historical war stuff and fantasy movies which usually is popular amongst boys so you would think more boys would be interested in horses. Its not even a cultural thing because horse care and riding wasnt traditionally a woman's job.
Horses are creatures that requires you build a good relationship and an trust. I guess modern boys cant be bothered to do that because feelings are girly so they never gain any interest in horses in the first place.
I also do wonder if marketing as something to do with it? Most horse toys and media is made for girls. As
>>1662106 says its easy to make horse toys with the focus on styling because of the long hair. So maybe from early childhood we automatically associate horses with girls?
No. 1662203
>>1662133why are women obsessed with being skinny, having big/perky tits, a round ass, tiny waist, thigh-gap, white teeth, big lips, tiny nose, perfect eyebrows, flawless skin, no body hair…
just another beauty ideal, some people obsess harder than others. It's not deeper than that.
No. 1662227
>>1662223Not really. Some finns that have some
or none ancestry to sami or kven equals that to being an asian or like the americans being proud natives while being 1/64. It's the same when people thought Björk was asian because of her eyes
No. 1662241
>>1662201you're telling not a single second in your history class you learned about how swedes treated finns, using the excuse they're a lesser race (not white) to justify colonizing them and even stealing their skulls like
>>1662225 said? lmao I guess you're too busy learning the quran.
No. 1662256
>>1662201You can be whitepassing and have asian ancestry or asian features, Russians are partially asian, some more some less and there are a lot of asian minorities there so it's not that big of a surprise that they'd be mixed.
>>1662241Quran-chan stop baiting. It's not that random anons fault.
No. 1662293
>>1662285Anon you can get addicted to buying anything, it's called a shopping addiction. It used to be a hot topic before Capitalism took completely over, now pointlessly and endlessly buying stuff is seen as the only way to live.
Unfortunately addictioms.are caused by trauma/neglect, so until you figure out why you're compelled to keep buying cards you'll just replace that habit with something else equally as unhealthy. I'm not too sure but I think that's what "shadow work" is.
No. 1662314
>>1662293>Unfortunately addictioms.are caused by trauma/neglectKek nona, trading card games are just a gatcha that's why it's addictive, they're designed to keep you buying them using the lucky factor & rare pulls as a draw, since not knowing what you will get and getting uncommon cards give people a small rush of dopamine. It has nothing to do with trauma/neglect.
And other shopping addictions can happen for whatever reason as well, my friend has a well-paying job, loving family and a huge circle of friends and she got into an addiction simply because going shopping and receiving new things is fun/exciting to her.
No. 1662328
>>1662293Well I never had any friends or relationships and I had a traumatic childhood, but I know I'm too autistic to create bonds with people, I also can't improve my looks, I'm not ugly and I'm quite slim but I was diagnosed with AGA and even though it seems like I stopped balding, my hair looks like cotton candy and is very thin, which is a very typical hair texture for androgenic alopecia. I've been working to save my hair for 3 years and my hair was the only thing I really liked about myself. I don't have literal bald spots anymore but my hair really looks like shit and even mean people point out to me that it looks like shit and tell me to try this conditioner and that shampoo and I tried literally
everything and even though I explain to them that the texture of hair is caused by AGA, and not me being a lazy slob who doesn't wash her hair, they simply don't get it and ask the same questions over and over again. So if I can't be pretty, I can't have friends and I can't have love, my only way of coping is just buying nice stuff that ties to my interests, like pokemon cards or art supplies. Seriously what else can I do to have any pleasure in life? Meditation doesn't work, food doesn't give me pleasure, exercising doesn't help, antidepressants don't help, therapy doesn't help, going in the woods
doesn't help. What else is there to do? Contact with animals eases my pain. A couple of years ago I lost my cat who was my only friend and had him since I was 9. But now I live in a place where the landlord doesn't allow any pets. And I don't have the time to go somewhere where I can touch animals. Seriously I'm starting to think about looking for some kind of animal therapy or something because I just can't cope anymore. But I feel like it's too much of a hussle and I don't have the time for all the formalities. What else can I do?
No. 1662334
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Can you do this with your hand? If yes, are you double jointed or have some other hyper-mobility thing? I am trying to do this but I can't.
No. 1662346
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>>1662334Another pic for reference. It's like I can get close but my thumb isn't long enough or something. I think it must be hypermobility
No. 1662385
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Do any nonnas who are dealing with mental illness deal with the same phenomenon as me with men? I have PTSD and depression. I got icky arms from self harm too.
But I noticed when a man tries to pursue me for a relationship they act absolutely bonkers. They try to play up that they’re sooooo mentally ill but it feels like they’re making it their quirk. They say the weirdest edgiest shit to me. For example one guy would tell me he would black out as a child and bite other kids or claw them till they bled and that he thinks he’s a psychopath. He would also say other weird things to me. But outside of interacting with me, or while trying to get with other girls he would act completely normal. Another guy is doing this to me currently, he DMs me stuff like “what if two bpd people dated hahah that’s would be soooo crazy”..first of all I’m not BPD. I ignored it, so now he’s acting like he’s some crazy obsessed stalker for his coworker, posting about her non stop, making vague comments about how he’s making me super jealous (I have not interacted with him after that weird bpd dm) and then continues to creep post about this married women and plays up how craaaazy he is for being this way. there are many more men that act like this towards me but this post is getting long.
I don’t talk about my mental illness to anyone due to people just never understanding and making wild assumptions about me and my life. There was a time for a few years I tried to never hide my nasty arms because I wanted to get over the shame which is when I met these men. I think my scars are the reason I attract people like this. I hide them now and haven’t had this problem with any new men in my life. Except for the occasional Twitter/discord dork who gets a little unhinged when they see a women post their epic 4chong maymays that they most likely learned about from one of those video essays that spoonfeed you old internet culture, but that’s a different animal.
I feel like because of my scars I’m screwed when it comes to the dating scene. I feel like I’ll only attract unhinged men. Anyone else who is mentally ill or who has SH scars deal with the same treatment as me? Does anyone in here with SH scars have a partner who is completely normal and accepting of you?
No. 1662517
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I'm back on Tumblr (yes, I'm that stupid) and after I blocked 4 persons I followed because of troon bullshit and many other people aren't active anymore, I need some new ones to follow. Don't care about the topic (ok, please no BTS or Taylor Swift and stuff like that), just tell me, what are your favourite Tumblrs? I will look at every recommendation and follow if it fits my taste.
No. 1662521
>>1662385This might not be helpful because I'm a lesbian, so I've never actually dated a man, but I aree it's almost certainly the scars. My thighs are mangled from SH and men treat me very differently once they see them (like when I wear shorts). It's exactly like what you've noticed, they suddenly start armchair diagnosing me, they try to tell me about their own weird sociopathy, and just make really fucked up inappropriate comments (like one who said "we should kill girls together in my basement as a power couple haha"). I think it also
triggers a broken bird syndrome thing in some men, because they try really hard to "save" me in their pursuit of me. I have to assume there are men that are normal about it, but they do appear very rare. Every woman I've dated has been understanding and considerate, but I know that's not really what you were asking. Good luck nona, I hope you do find a guy who doesn't act like a psycho about this.
No. 1662553
>>1662385My arms are covered in scars and yes, people treat you differently if they didn't know you before they saw your scars. With men I mostly get the guys that try to "fix" or "rescue" you, they are annoying as hell because I don't need saving, I need to be left alone by them. Years ago one guy would come up to me at a festival and his first comment was "oh, you have bpd, too", I told him no and went on with my day. That's one thing that makes it quite annoying for me, that people assume I have bpd or was raped or shit like that while nothing of it is the case, they act like they know all about why you have mental health problems and you can't even talk to them that they are wrong.
So if I'm new in a group or try to date someone, I will hide my scars until they know me better. I don't like hiding my scars and don't mind wearing short sleeves/shorts, but socialising and being taken serious is easier if people don't see them at first. Still, I don't think that scars are the only reason we attract unhinged men, we probably act different compared to other women and somehow they can see that and therefore we have to deal with them. The best thing is, you discovered it and can change a little bit to find men that aren't mentally ill and date them and I don't think you are screwed for life, just hide your scars until you know him better and then you can talk about your scars and past, if he is a good and not unhinged man.
No. 1662572
File: 1691864408441.jpeg (139.47 KB, 857x1239, 48CC5B04-9CCF-4BB1-9F29-3CFAA3…)
why does movie tape sometimes look stretched out? are there benefits to it?
No. 1662739
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>>1662715Isnt that brand just popular because of young ana chans wearing it? I’m looking at their website and every model they have looks like a teen or something you would see be posted by some shopped instagram influencer. I think the styling is cute but its so weird to see basic shirts be sold for $18+ when you can just go to other stores that sell xxs or one size only shirts for the same effect
No. 1662878
>>1662860I'm in Netherlands. Tbh I would be scared to have a cat here because I rent a room in a house where other people live and they often leave doors open, I wouldn't trust them and I would be scared the cat might escape because one of the guys got stoned or something and forgot to close the door… Sometimes I think about going back to my home country, where I could have a pet and stuff, but it's really hard to find a job there. Here at least I don't have to worry about employment, I recently got promoted, which costed me a tremendous amount of masking and stress. Now, after 2 years of torture and traumatizing myself in order to be able to work among people, the thought of changing jobs and having to traumatize myself yet again, just to accommodate myself to new environment and new people, it fills me with dread. For now, I think that the stress of going back to my home country to my empty house, where nobody even knows about my existence, and starting employment journey from zero (I never worked in my country) would simply kill me, I would be too paralyzed to do anything and I would start hoarding again and not leaving my house again..
No. 1662975
>>1662953We? Who is we? I don't do group stuff.
>>1662825Don't click on any weird links people send you, can get your account hacked… do good use of your internet knowledge and common sense.
No. 1663171
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How old that moid could be? Found him on Twitter and looks kinda like he is grooming an anorexic 15 year old girl. She calls him her boyfriend. All he has on his account are the retweets of her tweets too.
No. 1663192
>>1663180personally I would get a falafel wrap or platter from a kebab place (assuming they have it on the menu which they always do)
>>1663191definitely get a falafel platter then, it has more calories than a serving of fried chicken that will probably be overpriced. Korean fried chicken would be my second choice of what you posted.
No. 1663197
>>1663195>They don't do that nearbyAw, that's too bad and kinda weird. Every time I've been to a kebab place they've had falafel, I'm married to a vegetarian and it's like our go-to when we're somewhere new.
You should totally give it a try sometime. It's basically a fried bean meatball, everything else is just like if you got a meat kebab (wrap, vegetables, sauces, sides); it's very palatable you'd probably like it.
No. 1663206
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>>1662334I can do this! I have a pretty long thumb, and while I can touch my wrist with the thumb I can't do pic related with it
No. 1663342
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Who are the non-Hermione 3D one and the one between Hinata and Yachi?
No. 1663518
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Where do nonnas live where summers are becoming colder? Can I move there? Even during winter it hasn't snowed in years.
No. 1663529
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I don't think we have a general health thread, so here goes. I'm waiting for my insurance to get resolved but in the meantime I would like to ask if anyone has this. inb4 late 20s, I have healthy weight for my height, exercise on my treadmill/yoga every week, no prescriptions, eat majority fruits/veggies minority meat/grain. No stress right now because the semester has not begun yet.
I have been having bad tachychardia recently, I wanna say since June or so. My heartbeat has always been on the higher side (70-ish) but now? I have woken up with >100 in the morning and it barely climbs down. When my heartbeat is like this at rest, it feels like when I move or do something that my heart is being squeezed and I can't breathe. My blood pressure is also low but not to a level that charts say it's as bad as my heart. Has anyone dealt with something like this? Is there anything I can do to lower it at a comfortable level? I have been taking only herbal help like chamomile, mint, or valerian root tea. I am trying to see a doctor, but in the meantime is this something anyone else has experienced. I'm really scared this is a symptom of some worse thing…
No. 1663533
>>1663476There this
>>>/g/79913 but it's pretty old. If you wake it up, I'm sure others will want to post there again! I think the PCOS thread (>>>/g/117176) has some tips for dealing with pesky hair, too.
No. 1663571
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>>1663567If it's in your budget to buy some, get avocado oil! I swear by it for everything. It's a little more expensive than vegetable oil, but if you can get a deal on it, buy it from Costco, or get it in bulk, highly recommend. As you can see from this chart, avocado oil is OP when cooking at high temperatures, doing even better than veggie oil. Taste-wise it also feels like it clings less to the food than veggie oil and doesn't have a unique taste (IMO, YMMV).
No. 1663574
>>1663529Do symptoms get better if you lay down? How are your eyes and mouth moisture? Do you often have dry eyes or a dry mouth even when you feel like you're drinking enough water?
I strongly suspect that the upper chambers of your heart are beating too fast to fill properly due to faulty electrical impulses. You'll actually be able to diagnosed rather easily with this condition but treatment can range from installing a pacemaker to a one time surgery to taking a daily pill. You don't have to rush to the ER, but you should be actively searching for a way to see a doctor every day. What about free clinics in your city or even in cities within a two hour drive? I don't want to alarm you, but it is possible for people with this condition to very suddenly have a heart attack or stroke, especially if left untreated. As a precaution, you should familiarize yourself with signs of heart attacks and strokes in women as the symptoms are different from what media portrays which are symptoms that men experience.
No. 1663581
>>1663574By lay down, do you mean just resting or sleeping? For both of those, I think it's a no. I used to feel better with naps, but not anymore.
Regarding your second point, yes. I actually have very dry eyes and drink water often. People have commented on my water drinking before, but I never connected it to anything. I use eyedrops every day, but I thought it was due to allergies. Thank you SO SO SO much nonna, I will look for a way to get diagnosed. I will try to keep myself as stress-free as possible in the meantime to lessen the chances of a heart attack or stroke, though I guess it's not really in my hands until a doctor sees what's up. An acquaintance had a very similar thing with irregular heartbeats and had it fixed with a simple surgery. Here's to hoping it goes as smoothly in my case. Hugs and kisses nonna, thank you for your help!
No. 1663706
>>1663581Laying down would make POTS feel better, so I don't think your symptoms are related to that. I still think you are having atrial issues, but they may be related to a condition called Sjogren’s syndrome. It's a disorder where your immune system basically attacks anything that creates moisture. The main symptoms are vaginal dryness, dry eyes, and dry mouth, but many women also report fatigue and joint and muscle pain.
While waiting to see a doctor, you'll want to start supplements that help with inflammation. Green tea is great, and you can easily incorporate it into your water drinking, but with your heart issues you should keep caffeine intake low so make sure the amount you're getting through green tea is equal or lesser than the amount you've been taking with your coffee. If you are going to drink green tea with caffeine, replace your coffee with it.
Turmeric is my number one recommendation, but it takes 4-8 weeks of daily use for you to start seeing results. Liquid is better than tablets, and you'll want one that contain black pepper as the body absorbs turmeric better when taken together. Avoid cat's claw supplements, they might cause kidney issues in people with autoimmune disorders.
When you get diagnosed, let me know in the whatever stupid questions thread is current, my ego will be off the charts if I get this one right.
No. 1664105
File: 1692004405355.png (758.42 KB, 626x628, blowdry.PNG)
>>1663958Blowdry it with your head down like picrel, it depends on your hair though how long the effect is going to last
No. 1664119
>>1663251But isn't it as
toxic as a viewer?
I guess porn is unethical for the actresses, but that aside
Is there a difference between watching someone get fucked and imagining someone get fucked? Or hearing a guy tell me about fucking?
Would it have the same damaging effect on my brain, whether it's pure imagination, audio or video?
No. 1664253
>>1664247here is your spoon, nona.
https://dcf-access.dcf.state.fl.us/access/scrflhomepage.do?performAction=changeLocale&language=englishapply for EBT, tell them you're homeless, couchsurfing is homelessness in the eyes of the state. heres some directions on where to go for your legal aid. i recommend using chatgpt for banal questions, its much more responsive than lolcow.
Florida Legal Services: This organization coordinates the efforts of 13 regional legal aid programs throughout Florida. You can find the regional program that serves your area and contact them for assistance.
Legal Services Corporation of Florida: This is another organization that provides legal assistance to low-income individuals in Florida. They have multiple offices across the state.
Local Bar Associations: Some local bar associations in Florida also offer pro bono (free) legal services. Contact your local bar association to inquire about available resources.
No. 1664282
How do I become better at texting friends back? I try to limit my screentime to only the evenings and have my phone on flight mode most of the time, I just don't want to deal with people during the day but I feel like kind of a bad friend for it.
>>1664263Norway had a pretty high suicide rate back in the 90's, that whole average happiness thing was created so countries could seem better than they are anyway though so I wouldn't trust it so much.
No. 1664303
>>1664282I'm going to sound old, but when the only means of mobile written communication were text messages and we only had 120 text messages per month on a Flatrate, then people/friends/family just had to accept that you're not able to respond and they waited to talk either in person or on the phone.
Unless it's an emergency, don't stress out much,
nonny. Nobody is entitled to your instant response via online text, no matter the app, platform, whatevs.
Besides, depending on the app/program you use, you can usually put a message about how you're unavailable/busy/etc. , so if you have that possibility, use that.
No. 1664678
>>1664263Happy where? Iceland is considered happy but how true is that and based off what? It isn't true for other nordic countries. In sweden no one even talks to each other, act rude and have no manners.
>>1664284>nordic people find it crass to flaunt richesI see you've never been to Stockholm kek. Tackiest place on earth.
No. 1664732
>>1664629If you're stuck in the memory, find something square in your environment and trace it in with your eyes. Don't let your eyes skip around, cover it inch by inch.
>>1664723Don't risk it, wait for the bus.
No. 1664817
>>1664635is this not simply repression?
>>1664629learning to sit with, tolerate, and accept them seems healthier. like with intrusive thoughts in general, the more you obsess about stopping them the worse the experience is. for obsessive thoughts, you have to give it no weight and see it as brain noise.
No. 1664828
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>>1654336I was defending her but honestly I changed my mind I think it's bizarre she and her friends were trying to suction his sperm out to knock her up like right after he blew his head off in front of her. Like uhhh I don't think he wanted a baby with you
No. 1664843
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Is there like an empty image template that looks like this where you can fill it with images, or is there a name for it?
No. 1664862
>>1664855The real question is would your family think you're an asshole and do you care?
Personally I would not be able to do it, but I'm no-contact so it would never come up. I can see a universe where it would be really fun and she would be safer than living at a dorm or something but it totally depends on your relationship with her. And one semester is not that long. ##If you have to do it, can you ask her or your parents for
rent a family fund for utilities and food?
No. 1664928
>>1664927Oh, that's true
I'm not smart enough to extrapolate; nvm
No. 1664953
>>1664950Like three of them.
>>1664949Evidently not enough
No. 1664980
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Is kiwifarms off the clearnet again?
No. 1665015
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>>1665013
sacrifice a chicken
No. 1665111
File: 1692088294638.jpg (958.24 KB, 1920x1080, kEpSyb.jpg)
When you were in middle school did you have female only / male only lunchrooms? I'm just remembering this and wonder if other middle schools did this ;The boys would eat in a newly updated lunchroom and the girls in an old gym room.
I wonder if the school is still like this now that there's woketards.
No. 1665116
File: 1692089022738.png (100.53 KB, 375x250, redux.png)
how do i insert blinkies and graphics of the sort onto my tumblr sidebar? i have the redux theme, picrel for reference, and idk how to code at all. i don't really know what to look up other than what i just asked "how to insert graphics onto tumblr sidebar" it's not yielding any valuable results. pls help sorry for being retarded
No. 1665119
>>1665116This might be a better question for the Oldweb/Smallweb and Personal Sites thread.
>>>/ot/1520815Explore your tumblr settings better and look up html basics, because it sounds like you're asking to be spoonfed really hard.
No. 1665128
>>1665111lol no, did your school have issues with bullying or something? Not in the US?
>>1665109yandex, but I always search with bing first for those sweet rewards points to turn in for Amazon gift cards.
No. 1665175
>>1665116Pretty sure you can just use the standard img tag on tumblr:
<img src="image url here">
No. 1665593
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Could I give a dog a piece of steak or ground beef cooked in salted margarine and seasoned with salt and pepper? There's a little grey dog that comes in my yard and sometimes comes on my porch. I'm scared of him but he seems sweet so I would like to give him a little snacky snack.
No. 1665607
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might as well try to ask…ok, so, can I get some advice on being prescribed modafinil? I've never been on meds before (besides zyrtec), but I feel like shit constantly and was diagnosed with a moderate sleep disorder after doing a sleep study which was off my insurance–that sleep doctor doesn't prescribe meds. modafinil is basically a last resort because I'm not really sure when or if the treatment will work.
No. 1665736
>>1665649Can you give a tldr of the options?
Is there an option that offers something along the lines of speaking with or leaving a message for a person?
No. 1665857
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>>1665848If you’re recovering theres a chance your hair is trying to build up keratin. There’s tutorials online about strengthening thin hair with rice water or hair masks, I used rice water to fix my heat damaged wavy hair and it got thick again
No. 1665872
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Does anynonnie here meditates? If so, what meditation techniques do you use or find easiest? I'm thinking of starting it but don't know where to begin.
No. 1665922
>>1665862>nonita bonitathis is the cutest thing i've seen all day
>>1665872i'm extremely new to meditating but the easiest way i've found to "focus" my mind and eliminate distractions is by box breathing. i guess because my mind is busy counting the seconds. so maybe it's not exactly meditation but it does focus you and the breathing act itself is super relaxing.
No. 1666139
>>1665833I know there was a study published decades ago that said the cervix felt no pain, so most doctors based their beliefs on it.
You'd be surprised by how obtuse doctors can be, and their unwillingness to believe anything that isn't officially published. As if we already knew everything there is to know about medicine and the body.
No. 1666157
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What stores are good for alt / grunge / goth style clothes? The ones I know of (like Dollskill and Disturbia) are overpriced trash
No. 1666178
>>1666157Maybe ask in the fashion thread on /g/ but pretty much everything is overpriced trash nowadays, I suggest looking for old alt brands on secondhand websites or relying on good quality basics and rely on styling, customization and accessories to make the outfit more alt. A lot of stuff can easily be DIY'd too like all the fishnet layering pieces/accessories and legwear you can make in 5 minutes by cutting up some tights, you can distress your own sweaters etc. and I used to embroider little crosses on my shirt collars too, it doesn't take a lot of time and skill and then you can just use a tie/ribbon and voilà you got your alt girl swag. If you have to splurge on something get a pair of good shoes and real leather accessories.
The switch to all polyester everything makes it really hard to find "livable" pieces. Restyle.pl still seems to make decent stuff but I haven't seen them irl in several years. Killstar is hit or miss, I have a couple items that are worth the price, but many people regard it as being dogshit quality like the stores you mentioned.
No. 1666210
>>1666200It has been in the news, there were Quran burnings n I'm pretty sure there have been recent calls for attacks in Sweden enough that the UK has warned the Swedish government. I tried to find a swedish source for you but literally every one required adblock off and I haven't got time for that.
It wouldn't exactly be a surprise anyway, Islam is, at the moment, really into revenge attacks. But the likelihood to be in an attack is so low.
No. 1666231
>>1666180Check what your government's
Ministry of Foreign Affairs (or whatever you've got that's similiar to it) advices about traveling/moving there. My government still lists Sweden as safe like usual.
No. 1666245
>>1666226I guess it depends where I was meeting them but just be yourself like as long as you're not disgusting you'll be able to see if you get along. Heck I met my first uni friend through a coffee talk where she rambled about marvel for 2 hours (autistic) and I wasn't even put off by that now we're still hanging out 4 years later.
A lot can be dealt with if you have some chemistry.
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>>1666265ouch I was (kinda) that girl. I became extremely shy when I hit puberty and had trouble speaking in class. Though I never ran out of the classroom crying. I also only cried in class a few times, though I probably cried more than the average person. But I would start mumbling and stuttering and shake so much when reading out loud that most teachers just skipped me before I had finished reading.
Aside from myself I didn't know anyone else who cried in class. None of the people I met in my adult life has mentioned knowing people like this either. I don't think it's uncommon but idk if it's an archetype