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Board rules, no racebait. Ignore & report bait.
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>>1385304you must be new
>kpopersweird transformation and feeder fetishes, they also make a bunch of horny mods for the sims
>dream stanswant to turn him into a chair, bullied him for not being blond with green eyes
>japanese idol fanswill kill their idols if they dare to not be pure virgins/gay
>vtuber fansthe most unhinged of them all, they are the closet ones to the moids so they make their life miserable by forcing them to pretend to be gay for a living
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I respect christian bale as an actor, but I just don't get why studios just don't hire someone someone who already has the proper build, This doesn't seem healthy in the long term, I watched Vice sometime back and he gave phenomenal performance but at the same time I was thinking, why not just get someone whose already a fat guy
No. 1386087
Heterosexual men don't really exist, heterosexual women do. "Heterosexual" men when desperate enough will fuck anything that vaguely resembles a hole, including the pizza in OP pic and are all weirdly homoromantic. In the past "heterosexual" men didn't even exist, they just saw women for reproduction and men for fun (this was the case in several cultures). It was even seen as weird to love your wife and
>The 1901 Dorland’s Medical Dictionary defined heterosexuality as an “abnormal or perverted appetite toward the opposite sex.”
>It was expected and socially acceptable for a freeborn Roman man to want sex with both female and male partners, as long as he took the penetrative role.
>Young men specifically between the ages of 12 and 20 were seen as perfectly acceptable sexual partners for a Roman man, and to an extent, there was a cultural expectation for older Romans to seek these kinds of relationships. However, free Roman boys and young men were strictly off-limits. Essentially, class and status as markers of social difference were far more important factors in determining the viability of a sexual partner than was gender.
>It is not known how widespread the practice of raping defeated foes actually was, or if it existed before the advent of Christianity, but in other cultures which have had as strong an ethic of masculine aggression as existed among the Vikings, the rape of defeated foemen was obligatory.
>The Greeks did not conceive of sexual orientation in our terms (e.g., as straight or gay): Later in life, men would be expected to marry women and to raise families. In Athens and Sparta, homosexuality was practiced to various degrees, and its status was somewhat “complicated,” according to Plato's Pausanias.
>Ancient Iranian society had a tradition of polytheism and pederasty, which came into sharp conflict during the Achaemenid period. Iranian pederasty and its origins were debated even in ancient times – for example, Herodotus claimed they had learned it from the Greeks: "From the Greeks they have learned to lie with boys."
The difference between what is considered a bisexual and heterosexual man sleeping with a pre-op TiM, is that the "straight" one tries to ignore the genitals, just has sex for the hole and femininity performance, meanwhile the bisexual man pays attention to the genitals, Blanchard has studies about this. Heterosexual women on the other hand won't do such a thing, no matter how desperate they get, they can't go through with it, because they are actually heterosexual and also have no split attraction funny business.
Homosexual men are just being honest about their nature and are truly homosexual. No, I don't think they are into TiFs. They are probably less likely to get desperate and fuck weird things, because they can always find a guy who is up for it. However there are also many bi men who call themselves gay, because it's easier and there are pedo's who pretend to be gay, because they see themselves as the next civil rights cause and try to hitch a ride on the LGB, like the AGPs are doing.
Heterosexual men aren't like heterosexual women, men's sexuality doesn't work like that of women. You cannot apply your own feelings and how your sexuality works to them. When men say that all women are bicurious, it's projection. They are the ones who can't be straight, only straight women can be truly straight. "Heterosexual men" won't admit this though, because at this point in history it's an important part of their status to not be seen as anything other than straight. In the meantime they will watch the most fucked up porn, of not just women and probably not just adult humans and their wives will think they have found a true straight Nigel.
No. 1386160
>>1386133She's pretty big on guro, not loli afaik and exposed her cousin to it, so the cousin started to make furry guro art and has a gore blog since the age of 10 and apparently made $200 a month off of it (think about which creeps she's selling it to and interacting with). She also keeps trying to show weird shit to other kids besides the cousin, including
"newborn porn" from A Serbian Film. She also has admitted to compulsively thinking about molesting children, crushing animals and tried to buy CP for $70 because she thinks it's high art and is against the banning of CP
No. 1386185
>>1386170This one
>>>/snow/1189390 Blisters Wournos / fakeboitherottengirl
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>>1386631btw before someone shits on me for going on a date with someone that much older, can you imagine how excited it was to see a woman put "radfem" in her bio front and center? Even if it didn't workout, could maybe be a good local friend! Hahaha yeah, no, I'm a retard and thought wrong
No. 1386757
>>1386087You're right and I most gay men are just bottoms and get off to being emasculated. The only reason they don't want women is because women are incapable of emasculation/penetration.
All "gay" tops are bisexuals.
"Gay" tops are the modern day pederasts and gay bottoms are bath boys.
No. 1387550
>>1387320My social skills deteriorated when I started working full time so I still like drinking to be more outgoing and comfortable around other people. It's easy to bond if you have a fun night drinking together.
I still rarely ever drink though, hate the taste and the cost and the many ways it can potentially make me feel unwell.
No. 1388187
>>1387876I was reading an argument about abortion the other day. All the usual lines were getting thrown about. The classic male line
> If you don't want a baby then close your damn legs, just don't have sex, oh condoms and BC fail.. don't ever have sex then unless you're willing to have a baby Guys ngl.. I hate you but at the same time I wish men were actually like.. yeah babe don't worry about penetrative sex and taking bc and all those worries. Lets just use our hands and mouths and never burden you with that risk. Doesn't exist! You only ever see that 'just live a sexless life babe' argument made by men online. They'd lose their minds if we all did that
No. 1388193
>>1387876I completely agree and I don't think this should be unpopular. Naturally I think BC should be available to women who need it and find that their periods or hormone issues are better while using it, but otherwise why the fuck are we handing out the pill like it's sweets to any woman or girl? It has a lot of negative side effects that many girls and women aren't even told about until it's too late.
Some of my friends have complained about being on the pill or on the implant before and I've just questioned "why are you taking that stuff if you don't have any hormonal issues, your scrote could just wear a condom and you wouldn't be depressed all the time or gain loads of weight" and they look at me like I have two heads when I tell them that it would be much easier for their boyfriends just to wear a fucking condom. Women are expected to put their own health at risk for the sake of moid's ability to coom and it's just seen as normal. There's really no excuse for it anymore especially considering you can get super thin condoms but moids are obsessed with having it their way all the time and never consider a woman's health or needs.
No. 1388195
>>1388188yeah the admins idiocy has also lead to this place becoming a ghost town filled with moids the way they handled this site from late 2021 to mid 2022 was really bad, so many threads that caused us to get scrotes were allowed and the moderation was horrible and almost non-existent ,never gave a explanation for what happened to media, then they also autosaged the kiwi thread way too late when the damage was already done since most kiwiscrotes were here.
>>1388189you know damn well what im talking about, difference between manhate and moid here making bait posts larping as radfems or every discussion here being about men, men and men.
A week ago a thread here which im guessing a retard like you would fall for, was talking about killing men and male children and then later that anon literally got redtexted for being a man who has spammed porn.
No. 1388202
>>1388199There was excellent moderation and communication with the previous admin. Something we dont see anymore.
Now whenever something happens to the site or it goes down we have to beg and plead the admin or mods to tell us something.
Have fun making your manhate posts in every single thread along with the 60% male userabse here being males which adds to the irony.
No. 1388213
>>1388202>excellent moderation and communicationyeah like making polls, having everyone vote on it and then do whatever she wants anyways kek. This situation isn't ideal either with regards to the communication, but you have to admit that the moderation issue has been largely fixed. The farmhands are responding a lot faster, I don't know whether we have new ones, but they are sometimes on absolute sniping mode.
>Have fun making your manhate posts in every single thread along with the 60% male userabse here being males which adds to the irony.are you complaining about misandry to get picked by the supposed 60%? There aren't exactly many online spaces where misandry or troon hating is even allowed.
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Cream cheese tastes fucking disgusting
No. 1388281
>>1388193this, if you do it as extra protection because of major pregnancy paranoia or because unprotected sex is so important to you go off, its your risk. But it sucks that the standard is that the woman has to care for this and take the major compromise here. Also there are so many guys who whine about not wanting to use condoms “because it feels better without” and try to gaslight their girlfriends into it as if STDs arent a thing. Plus too much exposure to external fluids such as sperm can mess with your vaginal microflora.
>>1388195>A week ago a thread here which im guessing a retard like you would fall forI’ve seen a blatant increase in bait here lately on all of the boards, most of it is obviously trolling and fedposting but apparently some anons dont get it. really makes me wish for a hell month after the new website is done at the end of the year ( or so I hope)
No. 1388512
I don't understand people like
>>1388485 that can be super invested in something and could lose all the interest if only it's a troon / genderspecial that made it. As long as the creator is inoffensively mentally ill (meaning no third party suffering), what difference does it make? Good content is a good content still and it's not like you're supporting a criminal
No. 1388681
>>1388656female NLOG = "treat me like a human being"
male NLOG = "treat me as if i'm not a threat"
No. 1389015
>>1388978Same! I like pineapple, mushroom, and banana peppers.
>>1388984Exactly. It must be sorcery.
No. 1389057
>>1388654Yeah what this Nonna says. A big part of femininity was conceptualized by patriarchy and either harms us physically, mentally, keeps us docile and agreeable, weak, fragile etc. Scrotes decided to only wear practical shit at some point and sentenced women to "frivulousness" which can range from harmless fun, to permanently disfiguring or generally affecting health. It's fine if you have your own concept of femininity that isn't retarded, but the culturally and patriarchally constructed concept of femininity is a slave morality used to keep women oppressed. I resent the polilez for inventing cultural feminism and encouraging people to think everything feminine = good, which is how you ended up with libfems or choice feminism and articles about "bimbo feminism". While being gnc is seen as regressive or means you must be a man, because they have made the patriarchally constructed femininity inextricably linked with femaleness and a woman not being feminine is tantamount to evil. Astrology on the other hand, while silly, is quite harmless as long as not your whole life is led by it.
No. 1389188
>>1389057Very interesting points raised re: negative feminine traits. I really want to offer a thought, apologies for the length. From my perspective:
I find that women obviously are less aggressive than men and more conflict-averse. Generally, they'll try to find a compromise when a problem flares up, or race to the rescue of whoever seems like the most vulnerable.
Clearly this behaviour is designed to enable us to better manage a family and build communities, which we do better than men and don't get any credit for. But I also think that this behaviour can sometimes get the best of us and cause problems if we lose objectivity.
The trans nonsense is a good example of this. Handmaidens are rushing to the defense of the crying and whining trannies because they are highly motivated to play the role of 'rescuer' of the poor, defenceless moid. Add to the fact that there is a lot of social status associated with playing this role, and you see how it goes.
In my experience, the most difficult work relationships I've had to navigate have been with women in HR and similar fields. They are very conscious about patrolling speech in order to foster a relentlessly happy and harmonious workplace, and they tend to do this with other women rather than men. Ultimately, when women operate on the value of kindness, rather than truth, it effectively neuters our ability to unpick a problem, because we can't speak truthfully.
Here's an example. This week I expressed, very diplomatically I thought, a concern with an idea proposed in my team. The HR woman basically sent me a novella about curbing my negativity and not discouraging junior staffers blah blah blah. You'll have to take my word for it, but there is very little doubt that she would ever chase me up for my two-sentence Slack message had I been a man.
Since I'm a woman, I have to be kind and inclusive, and if I'm not, I need to be corrected.
No. 1389234
I get grossed out watching gaunt looking people doing tasks, they look like they're about to snap, I think of chicken bones when I see their sinewy hands and wrists, their bowed legs with inches of space where you can see the entire outline of their vag or dick if it's a guy wearing tight pants. Its like the feeling of nails on a chalkboard when I see their bony joints sticking out looking sharp. I legitimately think they look gross and elderly, not waif-like, fragile or delicate, or any of the positive things anas associate with it. the way they move their body reminds me of that viral video of "the goddess princess" hobbling around. Both women and men with long, lean and sinewy limbs have zero sex appeal to me, but at least when dudes are skinny they know it's ugly and try to put on muscle, for some reason many women aspire to have the body fat ratio of a brittle-boned geriatric.
That being said I know some people genuinely can't gain weight, and that sucks for them but I just find it gross looking the same as obese people
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Grammarly is fucking creepy. This is creepy.
No. 1389266
>>1389213Diplomatically,
please do not
space your posts
like a Reddit male.
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>>1389396low self-steem is why you like ugly men, get well soon nonna
xoxo
No. 1389603
>>1389359twinks are only ok if they're still fit. spoops are just as gross
>>1389384be honest, do you really mean bara or just fit but more on the bulky side?
No. 1389749
>>1389234Agreed. I hated being a spoop and it makes me cringe to see severely underweight people. Personally I don't think being fragile or delicate even are positive things.
One of the reasons I don't like left wing spaces (I'm not right wing), they always glorify either being obese or being super underweight and weak, yet constantly shit on being fit and strong, which is objectively the best thing. What do people have against a healthy body composition?
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not a fan of the inbetweeners. too scrotey
No. 1389864
>>1389832literally the most shit-tier humour ever. no idea why people (scrotes mostly so i guess that explains it) found this dogshit show funny.
back in the day, after moids in my school discovered it, they would not stop saying "im gonna fuck your fucking fanny off you twat" and it made me want to unalive even back then. it's just cringe, shit and relies too much on hahah silly english sarcastic humour ecksdee.
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>>1389864>unaliveCringe. Just say that you wanted to kill yourself.
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>>1389918Kiss you…MWAHHH!!!!
No. 1389967
>>1389965sorry
nonnie it's fandoms forever on mr bone's wild ride. you're here forever
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>>1389918Unalive used to be a sadboy electric memes for depressed teens vaporwave engager word… where have the days gone
No. 1390738
>>1390735reading about fakebois and their boypussys in "mxm" books already does the job. i'm just saying i would rather read a het book with a tomboy or even crossdresser. than a "yaoi" novel where i have to keep checking again if this is actually a guy they're talking about.
>>1390736even men in normal romances aren't like actual guys. what i'm talking about isn't ukes or short guys, it's people writing mxm porn with vaginas giving me whiplash.
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>>1390716god, this. Whenever a woman calls men's pecs ''big boobs/milkers'' i want to punch them for being so retarded. Why cant women sexualize men without treating them like women?
No. 1390837
>>1390788I'm not even a spiritual/religious person but I still agree with you on Halloween. Halloween decoration is so fugly even as a child I thought it was garish. Halloween season is even more painful as an adult because everyone is suddenly trying to prove how quirky they are. I know it's bitchy but I just find it so cringey.
I'm not a Christian but I like Christmas season because everyone is so happy and just talk about hoe much they look forward to seeing their families. Even though Christmas decoration is garish too but at least some people manage to make it tasteful. I have never seen Halloween decoration that didn't look stupid
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>>1390788>>1390837Agreed. Maybe it’s because traditional Christmas decorations are things like a fresh-cut tree, glass ornaments, a house made of gingerbread etc. There’s no comparable traditional Halloween decorations besides carved pumpkins——the rest is plastic imitations of things that are Halloweeny but that you can’t truly decorate with, like real human skeletons, real bats, real spiderwebs. Even a high-budget Halloween display will still be (probably plastic) models of real things. This is why I infinitely prefer broad-spectrum fall decorations (hay bales, gourds and pumpkins, dried cornstalks, etc) because it’s not inherently tacky and ungenuine.
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>>1390880Samefag, and I’d say Halloween goes so far as to be resistant towards things that aren’t mass-produced and fake. Homemade, hand-decorated sugar cookies are very appreciated at Christmas, but giving out homemade candy on Halloween will get your house egged.
No. 1390905
>>1390864Bait
>>1390892"Normies" follow mainstream politics like liberalism and tranny shit, of course they're a menace to niche sites like lolcow. Go back
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>>1390906But what if they're sexy lines and pixels?
No. 1390943
>>1390939no
they don't. I love fat mayo colored boys and nobody shat on me, doesn't matter. You just want to hate on what you don't understand. There's plenty of dick lovers on this site.
No. 1390968
>>1390939Only because the thought of an ugly, smelly 3DPD moid is rightfully
triggering to people with taste.
No. 1390996
>>1390989Ntas. Not into that stuff either but there's a never ending cycle on here of
> Women who date scrotes deserve everything bad that happens to them. I don't feel bad for you when he turns around and he treats you like shit. What tf did you expect?Followed by
> Women who don't date and who look at pics instead are bitter coping losersDate, don't date. The choice is yours.
No. 1391001
>>1390988Both men and women over 30 are fine imo, the most common problem with men of 30+ I know are receding hairlines. My friends are male so I can observe them well. They are all singles in their 30s who barely ever had sex (save for one that has it few times a year) now but so far I couldn't find any particular reason why would have to be if they didn't wanted it, they just lack interest and are busy with work and hobbies. The hair is surely a problem, but if they cut it completely it wouldn't be bad. Can't see anything wrong with women of 30+ either.
In the end it depends on the particular person. I have seen people of both genders in their 30s that looked like 55 and many others that are 35 but look like 23 or something. Another important aspect is that they shouldn't be addicted to anything, be it tv, phones or alcohol. A lot of people older than 30 (I don't interact with the gen z so no idea how they live) I met are either addicted to television or youtube and have no (other) interests or they are divorced, in worst case with children, and this is usually both something making them unapproachable for many. I cannot stand listening to someone talking about their exes or kids and boring life all day and I don't befriend people for long that switch on the tv when you visit them instead of doing anything with you or talk.
No. 1391013
>>1391005Men are unable to love
>>1391009Women deserve everything, men..nothing
No. 1391026
>>1391013Kindergarten-tier "boys are icky" shit, that's how I know even you know I'm right.
>>1391020They "win" much like pigeons "win" at chess.
No. 1391032
>>1391021Men care because it means theres one less woman on earth willing to date them. And their dating options are already limited becuase they're a loser. That's my guess. They think lc is full of awkward women who'd be perfect dating material if they just dropped the cartoons for real dick.
I date irl but its not all roses and given how many women on here are kinda on the vulnerable side for various reasons.. I think it works out fine if some want to just totally opt out of dealing with men.
No. 1391035
>>1391024They should just not respond. If someone is being incendiary about (not you specifically anon) your interests they're only looking to make you upset no matter how you try to argue or good points you make.
>>1391032This is a good point, that a lot of anons here are vulnerable. I think if a man does not know a trade/have valuable skills, does not have good income, or cannot produce children, then there is no point in being with him. Of course he must be decent and not harm you, above all. Men are only as good as they are useful. Otherwise relationships and being compelled to deal with intimacy is purposeless.
No. 1391045
>>1390680I own a house but I haven't had a trick or treater in 5 years of living here. I thought at first it was because I'm new. That maybe kids only went around doors where they kinda know the person already. They know me by now so I guess its just not something they do around here.
Ngl I was looking forward to being that house that gives out the good stuff. Full size bars and none of that fun sized shit. Never even got a chance.
No. 1391050
>>1391045>I guess its just not something they do around hereWhen I was younger, there were not many kids in my neighborhood, so if you wanted to get a good trick-or-treating experience you would either have to go to another neighborhood where there were lots of kids or go to the mall and trick-or-treat there.
On the contrary, I don't think you necessarily have to go out to enjoy Halloween. I just enjoy the vibes: the dark, cold weather, good Halloween/creepy movies and shows, sweet foods. Of course it's always better if you get to dress up and go outside though.
On the topic of holidays, I don't like Christmas very much.
No. 1391057
>>1391055I'm not her anon but its primarily men that get
triggered when women have high standards. Sure most of these women will probably lower their standards a bit for the right guy but in general if I say I like something and a guy doesn't fit that mold he needs to get the fuck over it.
No. 1391072
>>1391050I dread xmas because its such a family thing. I've a deceased mom and a dad I would never willingly chose to travel to and stay with. Any other occasion you can tell people you sat at home and did nothing and thats fine but people have a pretty set expectation that everyone is travelling home for it. It gets awkward when workmates start asking about plans.
I've had quiet xmases with partners before which is a more socially acceptable answer to how I spent the holidays but its still this anticlimactic day. I try to buy and donate toys to those charity appeals at xmas. That's the one tradition I've started up that I get excited about.
No. 1391718
>>1391026>>1390906Imagine caping this hard for real life males. If you manage to find a decent boyfriend then good for you, but I don't get why you lot get so fucking
triggered when someone says real moids are shit (most of them are and you know it) and that she prefers 2D men.
I rarely see you shitting on bisexual women who prefer dating women, because scrotes are shit, this hard.
>it's coomer and degenerate!!Husbandofags who don't date real males have a sexuality just like any other woman and they have a right to coom to their fantasies about their husbandos just like you would coom to fantasies of your boyfriend. Do you think that just because they hate men irl they should be asexual puritans? Also coomer moids are much, much worse than coomer women on average, it's extremely disingenuous to compare them or say that women are just as worse because of the minority who gets off to to truly degenerate shit (for every one of those women, there are like 1000 scrotes).
>>1390939If you mean those in the more serious husbandofag thread, they get mad because that thread is for women who decided to stop dating real men, it says so in the OP. They are way more lenient in the hornyposting thread if you mention a male partner. I've rarely seen husbandofags on here put the blame on the woman for being raped or abused by her boyfriend so you're just talking out of your ass. Also imagine thinking that men shitting on real women = women shitting on real men. Either an extreme case of pickmeism or an actual moid.
No. 1391814
More people should live abroad for awhile (if they can, obviously). I lived in China + Vietnam for several years after getting my degree (worked in art field) and although sometimes it was a rough ride, it really opened my eyes. There are some things that can't really be taught, you have to experience. I went from being part of the crowd - part of the majority group - to standing out big time. I appreciated the Chinese for their solidarity, blunt-talking and family focus. I envy their national push for excellence rather than individual happiness, and although I don't agree with what the government there does, I can say a lot of westerners focus on trivial bullshit way too much. They're all laughing in Beijing every time one of us troons out or we tear down statues, wish we could get our act together. The recent stats in my country for literacy/numerical skills actually make me angry. I've started seriously considering getting into politics in a few years, my platform being transforming the educational system and coming down hard on moid criminals who are shitting up the place. So yeah, go to another country, see what they do better, bring some of that home.(.)
No. 1391880
>>1391035>I think if a man does not know a trade/have valuable skills, does not have good income, or cannot produce children, then there is no point in being with him.This is 1,000,000% the truth, and something every girl should be told by every adult woman. Unless a man can and will provide you with a better life, in assets you can report on your tax papers, he's just a parasite. 99% of them aren't capable of love, they just keep you around to provide services, so make sure you get more services in return. Don't get stuck in millennial "50/50" bullshit where some scrote drains away your whole life while his life improves in every way.
>>1391814I hate how "individualism" and "be yourself" in America have been reduced to ways to validate selfishness and turn yourself into a giant Hot Topic flavored cartoon character.
No. 1392650
not that unpopular, but black supremacists exist. try being the only white person among a big group of uneducated brown and black people and see for yourself how they treat you, even if you go out of your way to be helpful and friendly. stupid people bully, they have low eq, and if you add racial bias into it, they will use it to other you, all while seeming like the victim. i seen it happen many times working my way out at shitty jobs. the non-whites bond over the racism memes and try make you do 99% of the work while being proud of doing fuck all. team work and sociability means nothing to them if they see a white person. no matter how good you are, how hard you work, how much you have ever donated, how you have called out bigotry and racism in your life. they are seething with envy and want you to slave for them or get out. they think it's some form of racial justice to bully the 1-2 white people while outnumbering them.(Global rule 7, read the rules. Racebaiter.)
No. 1392782
>>1392779nta but
>opinion and anecdote i dont like REEEEEEEEE be silentclassic.
No. 1392791
>>1392782Yeah constantly trying to shoehorn how much you hate other races and are sooo
victimized as a white person is an opinion that deserves to be bullied and silenced. You are pathetic and weak as an individual.
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>>1392795Nevermind I read retardation above. It's so obvious they are full of shit because the actual enemy of black supremacists is black women and white men, they literally worship white women even if they pretend not to like them. Any black woman bullying a white woman over race shit is just a senseless pickme and probably seethes whenever she sees a black woman date a non-black woman and is jealous. Idk, at least if you are a white woman you can just ignore them, it's not so easy when you are a black woman and probably live with people like this day in and day out.
>>1392800but nonna i want to make fun of their meaningless devotion to men that don't even like them!!!
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I hate real life beaches, they are so smelly, gross and filled by gross people that hide their dog's turd in the sand. The only way to enjoy the beach is through cute pictures.
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Dying your hair a hard to maintain colour is probably the most feminine thing out there. You have to go to the hair salon or touch it up way a lot, in general you’re putting way more energy into your hair way way more than the average feminine woman would.
No. 1393253
>>1393205zoomers deserve all they hate they get for ruining everything
t. zoomer
No. 1393283
>>1393253Seconded
t. also zoomer
No. 1394630
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I miss the days when Anime, visual novels and other japanese media weren't mainstream.
The cons are not enjoyable at all anymore, too many annoying and obnoxious people who only consume all of the trending shit
Every seasonal anime keeps copying one another and people keep consume it
Nendroids and figmas used to cost 30-40$ at worst but now its over 50$
You would think having more recently converted normies would make conventions and anime communities any less cringe, but no, it is so much worse now.
No. 1394819
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These cookies are a massive lie! They aren't good, any of them! Even if your mamma does them, NOT GOOD. Gingerbread cookies on the other hand….
No. 1394876
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>>1394819you puny fucking retard!!!! you do not understand the purity, the clarity, the incandescent combination of flavors and textures that is the proper chocolate chip cookie. it must be salty. it must be a tiny lil bit burnt on the edges. they must all be different sizes. you eat half of the dough before you bother to put it in the oven. they are perfect and you are TRASH. you have the tastebuds of a 35 year old man that insists on eating french fries at his OWN WEDDING. any grandmotherly love that has descended on your life has been a complete WASTE. you must cease your heresy and repent by making chewy chocolate chip cookies in your own home at once.
No. 1394885
>>1394876Wtf. Salty chocolate chip cookies? I don't know
nonnie…
No. 1395183
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There is nothing wrong with kids saying shit like "adults shouldn't be in fandoms, go do your taxes". I don't agree with the statement but I did use to say similar stuff when I was a child, even back then I didn't agree with it either, it's literally just trolling. Even if the kids where being genuine when saying this: why care? Why are you even arguing with children on the internet in the first place just block them and move on. Kids are going to say stupid stuff and this is harmless. It's like going up to a teenager who said "adults are lame" after being grounded and then scold her for being ageist it's just not worth arguing and it's better to ignore
No. 1395581
>>1395574Same anon. I always had problems with productivity but it got so much worse when I got a smartphone. I hate that it also expects you to always be available and forces you to always be working because your boss and colleagues can always contact you.
Smartphones also ruined internet culture since everyone can acces any site whenever they want.
I have so many thoughts about this but I don't know how to word them but essentially I agree with you
No. 1395584
>>1395580Not to mention all the constant privacy violations that come with the devices that workplaces/schools hand out to people.
>>1395581I hate that not answering a message is seen as me "ghosting" or ignoring people. To me I see reading messages like opening a mailbox, I do it every once in a while but I hate feeling like I'm under the obligation of answering right away because of that stupid feature that tells people when you've read the message. I hate that everything is recorded, I hate no privacy, I hate mass surveillance, I hate overstimulation, and I hate how social media trends ruin everything.
No. 1395586
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>>1395578same, it was so boring growing up in the 2010's. There was nothing new or interesting to do, the only big thing i remember was minecraft, lets players and fnaf, things that i didnt partake on and will never be nostalgic for me. And also, i am so tired of inviting friends over to watch a movie or do something and them just looking at their phones the whole time, i am pretty much the only person who isnt stuck to their mobile phone 24/7. It's so tiring, wish i could travel back in time.
No. 1395596
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>>1395574Others have already bought up surveillance which I agree is a problem but also the fact that everyone has access to a camera now. One time when I was a teenager I was goofing around with my friends in public (we did nothing to bother people I swear) and then I saw this adult moid filming us. There are so many vines and tiktok that is only about filming strangers. That instagram account "subway hands" or whatever the fuck it's called is taking pictures of people without their consent and people praise it because "the human experience" or whatever.
I'm a very private person and I'm camera shy. Most of my family members don't even have pictures of me and yet I know that I exist on strangers photographs it's legit making me nauseous
No. 1395601
>>1395596The worst are people getting into confrontations with others and whipping out a camera and shoving it in their face. Like, okay? Every single person on this EARTH has been with an argument with someone before. Multiple times, unless you live in some isolated area by yourself with no human contact. We don't need every heated moment on camera. (This doesn't apply to people who film their parents/SO being
abusive for court purposes)
No. 1395605
>>1395596This bothers me so much, but even with kids consensually filming each other. I did some stupid things as a young teenager which I imagine could totally be put online and seen by thousands nowadays on platforms like tiktok, and this kind of thing stays online forever. Growing up before smartphone era meant you'll be able to easily move on from your youth idiocy and there was no risk of being ridiculed on a global scale. Kids need this, not having their mistakes recorded and judged.
>>1395591I do that too nowadays, but it took me years to realize how much constant smartphone use hurts me. For the longest time I felt like I couldn't live without being able to bury myself in scrolling the internet at any moment I want, I legitimately thought I need it to soothe my anxiety, especially around others. Being permanently online is a drug.
No. 1395619
The “burka vs naked” argument is one of the most retarded ones I’ve seen from people with this anti-nakedness stance, I also do agree that not everything is done for men or for the male gaze and that some women just want to wear stupid/cute shit for the fun it or how it makes her feel, there is nothing wrong with that just as how there would be nothing wrong with a woman dressing conservatively or in androgynous styles. I can understand being against burka/niqab/religious coverings but this whole entire thing screams “damned if you do, damned if you don’t”, women are always finger-wagged for nearly every fucking thing we do that it gets tiring, our lives are always policed which is the opposite of what feminists should be seeking, radfem or not. Men never have to make a moral decision about what they have to wear and how it affects other people when they wake up, so why the fuck should we? I also feel the burka vs naked argument is hypocritical as the woman who are all for women being able to wear whatever clothing you want are quick to judge the burka or even women who wear certain types of clothing but were the ones mysteriously there supporting the Norwegian women who were fined and basically policed for wearing “revealing” outfits that were entirely appropriate for the weather and intensity of the event. I just find that strange, why certain women are to be policed and judged for what they wear but others are not? A cute little dress a celebrity wears that shows her boobs is indicative of large-scale patriarchal values that dictates the choices women make, which is true in most circumstances, but it’s clear what type of woman is allowed these graces because it plays into purity politics. Whores are dirty and taint everything they touch, real women are strong women who like to get dirty, do sports, are tall and strong, like I’m seeing a heavy bias towards a demographic of women where feminism has always benefited them. This is so tiring and upsetting to bring up
No. 1395657
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>>1395632Seriously this. I like the celebricows thread, but sometimes, it gets weirdly hair-
trigger and anons jump to insane conclusions. It's like Twitter
No. 1395667
>>1395657Yes. Twitterfags are the epitome of jumping to conclusions. They literally want everything to be all samethink and don't understand the idea of the fact disagreeing with someone on one thing doesn't mean you are the complete opposite
I also feel like this is the reason why people have trouble forming friendships nowadays since no one understands the idea of disagreements without playing mental gymnastics and spazzing out
No. 1395713
>>1394630>Nendroids and figmas used to cost 30-40$ at worst but now its over 50$THIIIISS Why are nendroids so god-damn expensive!!!
I just want to buy cute figure of my husbando, for the love of god.
No. 1396161
>>1396086As someone who actually did live my childhood and adolescence in the 90's without cell phones or internet, it's nice to reminiscence and be all "wow wouldn't that be so cool not to be so connected all the time", something that I also think about, but realistically back then you were also so very lonely. If you lived in a bumfuck nowhere town that was your entire world and it was much harder to get out. Now I can talk to all the nonnies around the world whenever I want and get to know lots of different people, find out information about better places to move to, just overall have the entire world's information resources in my hand.
>making them speak in retarded lingoAnd now THIS you can't get away from in any period of time.
No. 1396248
>>1396163>>1396221You take some and you lose some. I would've quite literally roped if I didn't have my online friends I talked to with a shitty dial-up on the home computer while my parents were
(albeit rightfully) paranoid about predators on the internet. It was absolutely miserable to live in a world where my backwards city was all I had and some of those friends I made online are still my close friends 20 years later.
Of course everything being online has its cons but it has a lot of ups too compared to a time when in order to listen to music you just had to wait until your favourite song came on the radio and be ready to record it immediately. The good thing about that though is that entertainment was held at a higher value since it wasn't something you consoom endlessly for 10 bucks a month but on the other hand it's much easier and faster to find something you actually enjoy instead of crap that you're forced to settle with since there's nothing else. Or having to buy a whole ass CD just to own that one song you listened to again and again. Or if I want to learn a skill it's so much easier to just google tutorials and start practicing based on those. It's opened a lot of opportunities and there's a whole lot of internet outside of just social media.
No. 1396286
>>1396248Napster is from like 99‘ though and once Soulseek got big, you could find everything. The days of having to depend on the radio are more than 20 years ago. That being said no one needs insane access to music, it sure hasn’t increased the quality.
Everyone needs some hobby or something they like to make them feel special and the Internet just destroyed that so nothing ends up feeling special. So you end up with more degenerates and NPCs who are fuelled by self-righteousness. Don’t get me wrong, they’ve always existed, groupthink has always existed, but not to this degree. Maybe the Internet allows for more possibility, but not opportunity.
No. 1396382
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I’m not trying to shit on the girls who like pegging in general, but I’m fucking sick of it being presented as the only radfeminist way to have sex on social media. I’m sorry, but larping as a male in a Greek bath is not le epic female power move irl. It’s annoying that there’s not more discourse on how to successfully channel yonic energy - I mean, a fucking dark mysterious chasm is much more powerful and evocative than a fucking pillar or stick. I think radfeminism is hampered by not being able to capture the same darkened feminine energy that the retarded coquette movement attracts, because as women we want to be empowered as WOMEN not as facsimiles of men. Honestly, maybe this is less of an unpopular opinion than an unhinged rant but still. I’m pretty dominant in my relationship irl but I wish there was some heterosexual aimed help for becoming the dominant partner in a way that didn’t encourage male larp
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>>1396382>I’m fucking sick of pegging being presented as the only radfeminist way to have sex on social mediawhatwhat the fuckI don't have any social media sites; where are you seeing this? Holy shit the zoomers are not alright
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>>1396385AYRT maybe I’m just in the shittiest of tiktok fem spheres but I’ve seen it shilled a lot. I know people here are genuinely into it and I’m not trying to knock it but imo it is not a sex act that honors feminine mystique enough for me to engage in and it should not be shilled to young zoomies and gen alphas like it is online because that’s how you encourage male “feminization” that leads to trooning - females becoming surrogate males in the act of sex.
Idk. Maybe I’m psycho. I just want to create a conversation on sex acts that honor the infinite depth and power of the vagina rather than slap a microplastic shedding penis over it
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>>1396391yeah it’s fucking crazy to me. I don’t want to deny my womanhood to “dominate” a male. I want to dominate as a woman, with all that entails, good, bad, whatever. It’s not anti feminist to celebrate the yonic: the enveloping, world-destroying, primal, fearsome, sacrilegious, ego-destroying true female sexual power. Women are the earth, the water, the air… I’m not whipping on a fake dick just to cover all that shit up!
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I feel like these sandwiches would make an amazing struggle meal. Idaf, i know i could just eat cake, but i will make it anyways.
No. 1396447
>>1396434Yeah I'm pretty sure this tiktok pegging brainrot has very close ties to troon brainrot, of course
males would promote sex a tranny male can do/sex which tends to put males on a slippery slope to trannydom. No woman is gonna be like "yeah this part of me perfectly designed for fucking? Nah, I would like to stick some plastic in your ass instead"
No. 1396498
There's a weird thing with men with sexual problems, is that they just -never- recover from those problems. Drug addicts somewhat have a shaky recovery but can crawl over the line, even if they become weirdo Evangelicals afterwards. But sexual problems? It just seems like it operates on a more fundamental part of the psyche and ties into the limbic system more. It's why "once a cheater, always a cheater" is a phrase. It's why homosexual moid coomers die of AIDS after 1000+ sexual partners. It's why that guy at the park flashing at people has been caught for the same crime five times before.
People talk about the porn problem for zoomer men like it's something they can recover from, but for most I think it's literally over for them. There's not going to be a wowie moment when they grow up, get their careers sorted and they get it under control once things are going right in life. No, they're going to be like those flashers at the park, they just won't be able to help themselves and will never get better. And even if they could get it under control short term, marrying one of those moids is going to mean he'll always be at risk of that easy access dopamine that satisfies all his cravings.
I guess my unpopular opinion here is that you can basically write off all of those men as a permanent lost cause. It's not an issue that can be treated or solved, once a moid is porn brained he's permanently porn brained.
>>1396161That's why people used to go to church even though they were secretly atheist.
No. 1396515
>>1396382pegging is cringe and i agree it's been overshilled lately and it usually leads to trooning on the male's part but wtf is "feminine mystique" lol
it's fucking cringe because the focus is still on the male even if the woman is supposedly dominant and it's not at all the same thing as a man fucking a woman in the ass because the pegged male still feels more pleasure than the pegging woman
No. 1396574
>>1396498Anon you hit the nail on the head. I’m deep down the rabbithole about men with p
rn addictions and the attitudes within “mainstream culture” is chilling. EVERY single legitimate book written before the late 00’s about dangerous men will warn you about coomers. It’s not just about morals, their fucking brain chemistry goes through irreversible changes. They will permanently lose empathy for rape victims (if they even had one, then they will instead start believing she liked it) and no amount of repenting or detoxing can make him go back to the way he was before. I feel like everyone has gone crazy, this used to be common knowledge among normies. I’m a zoomer so I had to learn this from older women and legit books. I had no idea until I was 16. I was so apathetic about the women victims of prn trafficking too, but I’m naturally a kind person. It feels like mainstream culture groomed me. I’m glad I caught on but I’m scared for the girls of my generation.
And by the way, it’s illegal to conduct research on the affects of p*rnography addictions. Has been since the 90s, because you can’t put your test subjects in the way of permanent harm for any reason. The science KNOWS it’s irreversible. It’s open & free knowledge for decades now. We just choose to ignore it for our own comfort, knowing every single man you talk to daily has watched rape on tape and wanked to it is maddening information. It’s what some may call a “cognitohazard.”
First, they told us p*rn was just silly fun for all parties involved. Then we witnessed the radical increase in child on child rape or were a
victim ourselves. Our boyfriends groomed us into replicating degrading acts from their rape shows. We no longer believed what we were told, but the cultural programming ran so deep we didn’t even realise what we knew. The wisdom lays dormant in the subconscious and it needs to be carefully fished out with education.
No. 1396666
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I noticed that when nonnies here talk about masculine women and feminine men they're only accepted and ok with each as long as they have certain genetics as opposed to how they present themselves and I wish it was the other way round. You can't control how you look except by undergoing extensive surgery which is stupid but you can control how you dress.
I also noticed that in other terf spaces which just idk defeats the whole purpose? "you can be a feminine man as long as you look like a twink anything else is a rapehon" or "no she doesn't look masc because she has a baby face she's obviously faking it for brownie points/trend" is another level of stupid.
I just want to find an online space that celebrates GNC people without being weird about it. I didn't even tough on the weird hang-ups that I noticed with masc women "she's betraying womanhood" type of shit.
No. 1396678
>>1396666Tradfags masquerading as "gendercrits" are just as regressive as trannies, GNC is only accepted if you can pass as the opposite gender well enough in their books so that they don't have to be disturbed. I'll admit that it's uncanny and sometimes even funny when GNC men look like rapehons and GNC women look babyfaced but they should have full right to present however they want without being persecuted or being told to fix themselves to be more gender conforming. As long as they don't do what trannies do it shouldn't be anyone's business to tell them how masculine or feminine they should be.
>I didn't even tough on the weird hang-ups that I noticed with masc women "she's betraying womanhood" type of shit.Don't forget that you're also a NLOG if you want to present more masculine and possibly even a pedophile if you wear sporty androgynous wear because you're obviously trying to look like a little boy!!!!!
No. 1396698
>>1392791where did you get this from?
>>1392796ikr this ain't twitter
No. 1396700
>>1396498maybe they just don't talk about their recovery because it's not as appropriate in their age group
>>1396574zoomers have come up with "no nut november" and conspiracy theories about masturbation causing low testosterone. there are groups of young men who attempt no fap. maybe there is still hope.
can you link the studies?
No. 1396702
>>1396498>>1396574100% agree
>>1396426you give off skinny pleiadian princess larper vibes
>>1396678We often forget that, because the newer trannies are very different, but in earlier days, said tradfags being arguably worse than trannies contributed hugely to the popularization of handmaiden-ism. Even now trad-pretending-to-be-critical is what trannies and handmaidens think TERFs are, most "beware of the terves" posts are about it, handmaidens are taught that we are all secretly like this no matter what we say.
No. 1396771
>>1396666i literally saw multiple anons making fun of gnc women in the tif thread and saying its ''not normal'' and NO one called those anons out…..idk it is weird.
There seems to be a certain demographic of tradthots that post in those threads and then they start leaking out into other threads too.
Also tradthots and CONservatives only slightly pretend to tolerate gnc or terfs because only we have active communities where we call out trannys. But other than tradthots that they despise radfems for feminists and despise gnc women for dressing masculine.
No. 1396794
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>>1396756Above the line I put the story with the therapists, I misremembered a little, but they were basically useless. One just called Buck male identified and did the gender traitor spiel, the other actively encouraged Buck to transition, both claimed to be lesbians. Under the red line I put the history of Buck, obviously a BPD case with lots of cutting, addictions, being put in the psych ward from a young age etc. Buck's big awakening moment of "I'm a guy" also happened just after escaping being raped. I think dysphoria to a degree might even be real, not in the sense of "oh I should be a man", but more in the sense that you can feel uncomfortable having to perform femininity. Which that first lesbian therapist just called being 'male identified', instead of gender nonconforming or something which doesn't immediately link it to being a man. It's judgmental and chastising. I think language like that (which came from polilez iirc) also just spurred a lot of TiFs on, there's a reason we say TiF now and not MiF. Buck felt uncomfortable having to perform femininity while modelling, on top of the homophobia already dealt with and almost being raped. Boiling that down to being 'male identified' instead of you know, actually traumatized, big mistake. Never mind the next one who actually helped with the transitioning and just uncritically went 'okay'.
No. 1396871
>>1396792Two things:
1. It's woke Canadian r-slurs fault that that shit wasn't stopped immediately, in any case.
2. Everybody I talked to said it was some dude either trolling the wokes or trying to angle for monetary compensation from them (disability or something idk, maybe a discrimination lawsuit).
Anyways, I hadn't come on lolcow in a while but I want you all to know that this website is literally mumsnet. Thanks.
No. 1396876
>>1396700Zoomers have no interest in opposing the rape trade. They view the
victims as demons sucking up their holy man energy or something equally retarded. If there is any hope it's few and far between and only comes from girls. Samefag as the anon you're replying to. And no sorry I don't have any links rn
No. 1396878
>>1396666True, also I hate when people seem to imply being GNC is some inherent trait some percent of the population naturally has while the rest does not. Sure, gender non-conformity in early life is often correlated to homosexuality, but not always. I'd say gay people being more likely to be very gender non-conforming as children is more from the way their homosexuality (actual innate and inherent trait even though sexuality in itself is obviously latent until at least puberty) impacts their internalization of gender dynamics since most gender norms are strongly tied to enforcing heterosexuality, gender norms worldwide follow the general equations of female = feminine (defined by the respective culture) = attracts and is attracted to (exclusively) males, respectively male = masculine (again defined by the respective culture) = attracts and is attracted to (exclusively) females. So for those for whom the last parts do not apply they are often bound to subconsciously internalize some mannerisms from the opposite gender norm to attract the same sex and/or repel the opposite sex. But that doesn't mean straight women (or any women at all) are "naturally feminine" and straight men (or any men at all) are "naturally masculine" so straight people do not have to be gender conforming either lest they "appropriate gay culture", although throwing gay people under the bus and becoming homophobic when you do get mistaken for a gay person as a GNC straight person really is not a good look either.
>you can be a feminine man as long as you look like a twink anything else is a rapehonIn this case there might often also be the matter of taste. A man doesn't have to look like a twink to be a "good" GNC man but he still has to look tasteful, adequately groomed and appropriately dressed like a well adjusted person.
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People on the Grimes/Elon thread are getting way too conspiracy "muh adrenochrome elite cabal" and it just makes them look schizo and retarded, this kind of thought is genuinely one of the dumbest things ive ever witnessed on the internet and the hallmark of stupid people who think they're smart.
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>>1396946>Would you rather have it turn into a nitpick cesspool about the blobfish woman’s declining looks from her botched surgeriesUnironically yes if it meant not exposing impressionable autists to stupid fringe theories based on speculative fiction written by a drug addict with a vivid imagination, guess what the adrenochrome thing was invented for Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson. For a fucking gonzo book. The genre itself is described as mixing reality with ludicrous lies.
But you schizophrenic idiots refuse to read upon anything and just regurgitate conspiracy theories you see on imageboards.
No. 1397051
>>1396986Nta but to be fair some conspiracies turn out to be true, I'm not talking about adrenochrome or whatever but Epstein, Weinstein, Dan Schneider, shady stuff the military has done, watergate, shady stuff the cia has done, political parties dumping memes onto social media to further their agenda, the government poisoning alcohol during the prohibition, police forces that have covered up crimes for their officers, major companies paying off the press to keep side effects of their products hidden. They all start with some random schizo tinfoiling about weird shit
No. 1397063
>>1397036Thats a satanic panic theory peddled by scammers to Noreen Gosch because she couldnt cope with her son Johnny going missing and completely fake.
All written on a fucking shitty 90s era website to boot.
https://educate-yourself.org/cn/goschgannohuntertrublingtale05apr05.shtml>>1397051Not denying that some things are true but rich people are evil in the same way normal people are evil, Epstein is the loaded money version of a creepy uncle who pays prostitutes of dubious age to go in his dingy little middle age crisis yatch. Anything retarded like hunting children for their organs to make a youth serum is pure schizophrenia.
No. 1397153
>>1397063I think it's a lot more technical than people think. Like I get called a tinfoiler for talking about hollywood coverups and the fact that there is a hierarchy of blackmail that trickles down. nobody listens. Fixers still exist in hollywoood and intimidate
victims of powerful men. They never fucking stopped. I don't buy the baby blood shit but I also don't buy that there aren't more weinsteins out there. many of these predators are actors known and loved, and they're protected by lawyers, fixers, and studios for their business interest reasons.
Rich men are degenerate sure, but they're also self serving, greedy and will flatten anyone who blocks their path. People need to realize it's not about solidarity, or a coup, or a cabal, it's selfishness guiding them. They get off on the subjugation of women because it gratifies them. More than anything it's all about and always will be about, power. The only solidarity is the blackmail these men have on one another, less than some sort of cult or cabal
No. 1397194
>>1397180>I don’t get all the hate for polyamory people. They don't shut up about it.
They act like they are better than everyone else.
Polyamory clearly leads to dumpster fire relationships and they refuse to acknowledge this.
A lot of the time it's just an excuse for assholes to fuck other people and keep their SO from leaving them and the polyamory community likes to pretend that this is not the case and that its the SO's problem if they are jealous.
A lot polyamory is cope, like the concept of compersion, and they act their cope makes them better people.
No. 1397205
>>1397180I hate it only cause it's typically very homely women with self-esteem issues coping over their scrote being a serial cheater. Bonus points when they pretend to be bi so they can convince themselves they're also into the women their scrote is into.
Show me the polycule where a decently attractive woman has several orbiters giving her everything and then I'd be more onboard. But alas.
No. 1397209
>>1397205Only poly girl i've met was a pretty young blonde girl who had multiple people she fucked with but was closer to one of them.
I don't really get it either way. Seems like a non relationship to me but to each their own
No. 1397226
>>1396878>I hate when people seem to imply being GNC is some inherent trait some percent of the population naturally has while the rest does notOne of the reasons for that is similar to why "born this way" got popular even before there was any evidence. People might finally accept homosexuality, but often still have a MASSIVE problem with gender nonconformity, or they are okay with either, but not combined. So they will say things like "I understand that you're a lesbian, but do you also have to look like THAT?". Sometimes straight people will even call butches the lesbophobic ones for being butch. It's this weird progressive larp where they think it's funny to throw shit like that back in your face, because they think they have caught you in something. Then it's easier to just say it's inherent, to get them to shut up, instead of trying to actually explain to them how it actually works, because they don't really care nor would they understand. Same thing when it comes to the femme4femme supremacy crowd (not shitting on all femme4femmes, just this specific demographic) who consider butches to be regressive and see us as the one thing standing in between their acceptance. They'll go on a spiel about how you weren't born gnc so "why can't you just look normal and PRETTY?" Saying something is inherent is just an easy way to get people to shut up, who wouldn't care about a longer and better explanation anyway.
No. 1397268
>>1397180I don’t either and “because they’re ugly just doesn’t seem like an actual reason like…ok so what if they’re ugly?
I will say that from experience the people i know that that formed poly relationships (as in they were dating 2 people at once) should absolutely not be dating anyone period, they need fucking therapy.
I think it can work but you need to display a large level of maturity that most people in poly subreddits just do not have or you just have to be brutally honest and not lead people on especially someone looking for a same-sex relationship and I speak this from experience.
You also hear the worst relationship drama from them as a result.
>>1396878I agree with everything you wrote. It’s so wild to see people acting like lesbians are just naturally masculine and gay men are naturally feminine especially in
terf spaces, the way they talk about gnc people bothers me it might be a nothing burger but they’re the crowd that says “why can’t you just be a feminine man/masculine woman” then proceed to set strict expectations for gender-non conformity.
No. 1397368
>>1397180Because polyamory is setting the relationship up for a disaster and has high chance of being
abusive to at least one participant. It's different from an open relationship, it's supposed to be 2+ participants in a romantic affair and it just doesn't work that way. Someone always gets cucked and emotionally tortured in one way or another.
No. 1397836
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The whole HD/IG brows trend looks ugly as fuck and always has. Sorry, it just looks like tranny makeup when you paint over your naturally fine brows into something 5 shades deeper with the shape of a slug.
It always makes the person look a bit caveman-esque afterwards, similar to when you see weaves or wigs and the person only has like 2 inches of forehead because it's set too low. I think bare natural brows look way better on everyone.
No. 1397873
>>1397630Most young people don't want to be associated with weird old people sitting in someone's hot tub with chest hair out, olives in champagne glasses, talking about "Nice chicken breasts, Martha! The ones at home are a little
lacking, hehe" with the eerie 2005-quality photos (flash on) of Bob and Macy at the bedbug-infested motel their kids don't know they're staying at. It's all a bit too weird (in the not-fun, creepy way). Same reason nudist communities are typically more full of old people than young ones, why perverted venues often let women in free, etc.
Poly still cringe though
No. 1397996
>>1397968Because words don’t have meanings, they’re just slogans and in words to delineate your in group. It’s easier to just use words however because words mean whatever you need them to mean in the moment you say them, you can even retroactively change what a word means because feelings trump effective communication.
It’s why everyone was a nazi, why man means man but woman means whatever, it’s why net neutrality can mean censorship and why the word groomer got banned. Because words are about signaling what groups and ideologies you align with and not effective clear communication. Welcome to the new world where we speak the same language but mean a myriad of different things depending on where on the political spectrum we fall, how old we are and what values we hold. And don’t dare say anything that might hurt someone’s feelings because that’s the greatest threat to their life.
So that dudes a pedo because that particular group has decided that’s what a pedo is and if you want to signal you’re part of that group and signal you hold their feelings and opinions in high regard then you better jump on board and start slinging that shit.
No. 1398213
>>1397968he's 27 and the girl just turned 18
>>1397996tradthot who got groomed detected
No. 1398227
>>1398198Yes please. They need a word for mid-functioning, or can function well but have high support needs autists too (that one nonverbal wheelchair autistic boy who wrote a book some years ago.) I at least want a separate label from both the mommy beaters and the "high functioning autistics" who wouldn't know a sensory meltdown if it scraped past them while wearing thick-seamed denim.
Midrange autists got thrown under the bus from both autism awareness generations because first everyone expected us to be Rain Man (nonverbal and barely functional savants) and now they expect us to be Sheldon Cooper (hyperintelligent divas who just need a butthole unclenching).
No. 1398351
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>>1397836I do not think they make you looks like a caveman but I have always hated these disgusting fake eyebrows. It makes you look like a clown, they're uncanny. Why the fuck do they need to be so square
No. 1398503
>>1398495Scandinavian woman here and honestly I'm not fond of the fashion here. I find a lot of it very unflattering to most body types. Though it does make it less sexualised and more practical so that's a good thing.
I do agree with you that it's less coomer-y. Many of my tumblr mutuals often talk about hoe sexual teenagers dress but the teenagers I see on the street msotly wear sweaters in the winter and loose tshirts in summer
No. 1398507
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Zankoku na tenshi no thesis is a weebs I Will Always Love You in the way that it's overplayed to death and everyone and their mother who can hold a key for longer than two seconds thinks this is the one song they should be coming back to when randomly deciding to belt one out, not taking into account that the only reason they didn't sound like a screeching cat when singing it all alone in private was because they sung it under the shower.
No. 1399322
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80s cartoons are pretty fun and underrated
No. 1399368
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>>1399347it was cringe but in a fun way, its my comfort show. I am so angry it got cancelled so soon while crappier 80s cartoons have like 80 episodes
No. 1399572
Posting videos of kids stealing halloween bowls online is so lame. Yeah stealing's not cool but it's candy who cares and it's weird to put children online like that.
>>1399478TSA is the mean girl profession
No. 1399997
>>1399872>Reddit is flooded each year on nov 1st with doorbell camera vids of giant candy bowls sitting in perfect view, ready to be emptiedAt this point, I blame the people who put out unattended candy bowls for the candy getting stolen. They know people steal candy from those bowls and yet they keep leaving them out. wtf.
But, I'm still on team "fuck those stealing kids" and don't care if their thieving asses get posted to the internet. And double fuck those stealing adults. I still can't believe grown ass adults will walk up and steal all the candy. goddamn, people are shitty.
No. 1400098
>>1400022"Ummm obviously she shouldn't have left her house unlocked if she didn't want me to loot it judge"
Lmfao get your entitled ass out. If you wanna steal go do it from Walmart or something where you're less likely to be caught, shot, or arrested.
No. 1400225
>>1400129>dressing or acting or doing things to get creepy scrotes on the street or wherever to look at them or comment or catcall or whatever or for guys to flirt with themHow do you even define this though? Sure there are women who like the attention, we aren’t a monolith, but this type of thought leads to
victim blaming just because a woman is wearing shorts or a tank top in the middle of summer. The real question should be is why is it so easy to get attention from random guys on the street?
No. 1400238
>>1400225Its not
victim blaming, we are talking about women who do it
on purpose for male attention aka pickmes, not the ones who are just chilling. Those same women often bully others for not conforming
No. 1400442
I firmly believe straight women don't exist. I believe women are varying degrees of bisexual, with the rest being lesbians. I've seen several studies that show that even women who call themselves straight have the capacity to get excited by other women in a similar manner to bi women. My takeaway from the studies is bi seems to be sort of like "default" sexuality for us.
I think non-lesbian women as a whole are scattered across the Kinsey scale, with most having a preference for men.
Here's the studies in question:
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-017-18372-0https://www.researchgate.net/publication/283260585_Sexual_Arousal_and_Masculinity-Femininity_of_Women No. 1400453
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Lesbians aka female gays should claim the word feggot.
No. 1400456
>>1385176- I love raw sea urchins (is this actually unpopular or just not very common?)
- I generally prefer raw seafood, fish and meat or rare meat
- I love fireworks and -crackers of all kinds. Was scared as toddler but like everything I was scared of once it became a fetish, give me more BOOM BOOM (don't like christmas and other holidays though)
- That
>>1385179 too
- Also agree with
>>1387876. Don't feel pain or anything with my period but lose a lot of blood so docs recommended it to me but I I don't want to touch hormonal shit.
- I don't like families in the houses I lived, never met a silent and non-aggressive family. Depressive singles, homo couples and old couples are the best neighbours.
- I never liked parties (again not sure if this is popular or an unpopular opinion)
- I don't like french fries, nor any form of cheese. Although I tolerate some mozzarella on pizza
- Hate all forms of pies, cookies and cakes
- Mars of Destruction was an enjoyable anime
No. 1400466
>>1400442being "excited"/aroused by other women (particularly the sight of them in explicit contexts) doesn't inherently mean that a woman is not straight. women are sexualised by virtually everyone including ourselves, it makes sense that women (particularly in the age of porn, almost all of which is made to cater to the eyes of a man) would become excited by the sight of women in erotic contexts as that's what they know to be "sexy", women are made to be "sexy" to everyone. this doesn't mean the same woman would want to have sex with another woman or be able to see them in a romantic sense. or even feel comfortable kissing another woman. these kinds of takes always scream not being able to comprehend what a straight woman is purely because you aren't one.
>>1400455the "preference for status and resources" shit sounds incelly and weird. would be a lot easier to let go of men if the former was true though!
No. 1400469
>>1400455i'm sorry i know it's the unpopular opinion thread but i really hate this attitude and i think a lot of moids believe this which is why they think they can trick any women into liking them with money and power and think that they don't need to look presentable or have good hygiene. If you understand that gay men are aroused by other men, and that women are aroused by other women for reasons other than status and security, why is it so hard to understand that some of us are genuinely physically attracted to men ?
Of course many women are dishonest with themselves about why they like men but you're ignoring a huge portion of female experience if you think all hetero women are like that.
No. 1400489
>>1400475it seems so medieval to me, as if women are somehow too simple for the prestigious accomplishment of arousal and therefore must only like men for more straightforward things like safety and social acceptance. Therefore it's perfectly justifiable and preferable to buy and sell women to the most competent moid and never address her sexual needs. /s Like do I really need to spell out that
I become extremely horny from looking at certain men and climax thinking about them? to prove that I'm not lying about being straight?
>>1400478some of them are like that but a lot of them assume chad is rich,well-liked,well-adjusted,strong etc and they take his handsomeness to be about little more than muh strong genes and good health. when they see the weird celeb crushes that women have they do mental gymnastics to explain that actually women only like him because he's a rich and famous actor, never explaining why all straight women don't like all rich and famous actors. they're terrified of being objectified by women so they reduce het female sexuality to an autistic little game about money and natural selection and they wouldn't know a man with genuine sex appeal from a coked up dork in a business suit.
No. 1400498
>>1400489Men are projectors, they wish women objectified them but that will never actually happen because female sexuality just doesn't work that way.
>Therefore it's perfectly justifiable and preferable to buy and sell women to the most competent moid and never address her sexual needsI never implied that, in fact I believe women and men should be kept away from each other unless for reproductive purposes.
No. 1400507
>>1400498>that will never actually happen because female sexuality just doesn't work that way.i'm telling you for a lot of us it does and i don't understand why you don't believe that. i rolled my eyes when trisha paytas said something to the effect of "i like men in the way that a gay men likes men" but i guess it's because of people like you who think that being turned on by men is not the domain of women and only a gay man would understand.
female sexuality is nothing if not varied.
No. 1400531
>>1400514>they either think all bpd-chans are evil one-dimensional narcs (mostly women, hmm…) or they think that we should let all borderline ppl have a free pass when they've harmed someoneexactly. a lot of people can only process "mechanistic disease that targets random unsuspecting people and there's nothing you can do to stop it except seek medical attention" or "series of bad choices made by terrible people who know better."
is it really so hard to understand that many mental illnesses have some aspects that you can control and choose and some that beat down your defenses until you're unable to function?
>>1400518i've often wondered why i feel a rush after posting my tastes there. it feels so immature, it's not like there's anything shocking or risky about an anonymous woman saying something sexual about some uglycute guy. but now i know it's because even today some people do still find it shocking and
impossible to believe kek
No. 1400560
>>1400557You think gay men want to talk about sex with
you? Please
No. 1400580
I think the anons trying to peddle “women can’t be attracted to men” shit are just trying to spread their misery to other people. Women can no longer dream, fantasize, or even demand or suggest solutions on how we can make the opposite sex be motivated to change for the better on their own part. The complacency and piss poor childhoods is why these assholes go out and kill people, destroy, act like delinquents and sociopaths and are starting to embrace anti-woman beliefs, they were never given any sense of stability because they do not have any respect for authority, safety, and morals and boundaries. Years of feminism has been here and feminist parenting has done jack shit to change anything, even the most progressive parents coddle and give up on their sons who fail to pick up on social cues and proper socialization. The way we breed and choose are partners have been decided and planned for years, too much of these men exist, can’t do jack shit, we desperately need to guide them into our plans of nuclear families so we can make money off of property and happily keep them as slaves in our companies. Honestly I have no idea what the hell is wrong with men. I’m attracted to the best hardware, it’s the software that I’m extremely put off by. It’s not society failing these idiots because there’s plenty of resources going into igem, they just dont do anything with it. They never take the help. They never listen to the sad sap who is actually reaching out to their smelly unwashed scrotum hands. They love the idea of their struggle porn story when they know how untrue it is, they love the aws and moans about how mistreated they were like a 5 year old stunted child who can’t comprehend what’s wrong with him. He does not know how to serve others, others serve him. They have thousands of people rooting for these johns every day, thousands talking about how these morons go and blow their brains out because they can’t handle responsibility. Men combust when they are given responsibility, yet they are always spreading propaganda that they should be the ones to handle it all. Just my thoughts tbh because every time you suggest “what should we do?” it’s always fatalistic pink-pilled shit where we all separate, all run away while the problem continues to brew into a bigger one. We realistically don’t demand men of anything, we don’t force them, give them a reason “or else”, I’m always told even on here to ignore and always be conscious of what a man does even when I’m supposed to hate him, everything you do is always in accordance to what a man might do. I can’t post or make jokes or I’m mimicking a scrote, I can’t reply to trolls because the scrote might hypothetically be jerking off so please don’t! Don’t wear that shirt, it might make him go and violate you because you were practically asking for it! Don’t wear makeup! Don’t take care of yourself! Don’t do this, don’t do that, it starts to become about policing other women instead of bettering our options and finding solutions. I’m a radfem but some radfems are truly some miserable smelly bitches that need to stop using their beliefs as a way to control others and stop necessary change. Other women have convinced other women that they are powerless, and it honestly makes me sad as fuck seeing this on here, in real life and on other platforms.
No. 1400589
>>1400586I feel like I can't be attracted to what I'm attracted to without pissing someone off. If I like white men I'm racist. If I like fictional characters I'm a loser and need a real man. If I like a dead murderer OH NO
VICTIMS DED. I just wanna jill off please. IN PEACE.
No. 1400597
>>1400589my preferences are not fucking political. leave me alone, and let me like cute guys in peace jfc.
>>1400592exactly, i don't like anime guys and never will (no disrespect to 2dfags). men in general can't handle women admiring irl hot guys bc it reminds them of their inadequacy kek.
No. 1400618
>>1400606i was being sarcastic in reference to this
>>1400455 comment, i do not care what you're attracted to anon nor am i angry. it was just a funny way of saying that women can indeed be physically attracted to men, enough to disregard other aspects of them in favour of their looks. don't know how you pulled that i'm mad about it
No. 1400627
>>1400473>They have the “capacity to be attracted to other women” in those studies because it is an evolutionary biological defense trait that has been theorized in many studies to come from rape.But… rape is caused by penises, not other vaginas… so doesn't that actually mean all
heterosexual attraction is an adaptive rape defense trait? Kek
No. 1400641
>>1400612I hate this mentality too. The people that say this that I know never even went outside, I am outside at night a lot of times, even on the technically worst places in my city that is know as the gotham city of my country (not true though, my country is generally rather chill) and nobody will talk to you because everybody is hanging around with friends they drink with and talk to and have fun with, just as I do sometimes with my friends when we aren't in hookah bars.
Even if there were issues the solution wouldn't be to force all women to hide, the opposite would need to happen. Women would have to show more presence so that humanity accepts it as a normal thing and doesn't assume there was anything wrong with a woman at night or that it meant she was weak and scared. I hate how it's always women that try to tell other women they were weak and should accept their
victim status.
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>>1400643I think Jim Carrey has a nice, sizeable dick. I honestly see the appeal now
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>>1400658They were practically asking for it
No. 1400674
>>1400670right, gangs of lesbians are prowling the streets looking fir innocent hetties to corrupt, it's a wonder there are any straight women left at all
fucking retard
No. 1400676
>yes woman, never get scrotes to improve
>never get scrotes to wash their ass
>never get scrotes to eat well
>never get scrotes to participate in their community in healthy and productive ways
>never teach your toddler scrotes to clean, wash, instill gender neutral chores and behaviors that are helpful for themselves and other people
>never get scrotes to actually be apart of their child’s life
>never get scrotes to actually learn how to emotionally, spiritually, romantically fulfill their partners
>never do anything, just let the scrotes run around raping, killing, bullying, harassing, and let it all happen, they can’t help it it’s just boys being boys and since boys are boys then we girls have to be magically bisexual/lesbian
I agree that sexuality for many people is not easily defined, but this shit is just ridiculous. You don’t always have to explain why you find this thing attractive, it just is
No. 1400690
>>1400676>>never do anything, just let the scrotes run around raping, killing, bullying, harassing, and let it all happen, they can’t help it it’s just boys being boys and since boys are boys then we girls have to be magically bisexual/lesbianAre you implying that bisexual or lesbian women are only that bi or lesbian because they "gave up" on scrotes? Autism aside, women of all sexualities aren't men's mothers and we don't have to tame them and don't owe them or you anything, including feigning sexual attraction so they'll "behave" or whatever, fuck off. I've never been attracted to scrotes in my life but for any bisexual woman who prefers to be with women because of how shitty scrotes are, that's not "giving up" because women don't owe men anything.
No. 1400699
>>1400676What does this mean?
>>1400689No way anon. I love a good beefy woman, and I think it does make them a little more intimidating (in a hot way). Especially if they have a nice back and arms. Oh the arms…
>>1400692Psycho.
No. 1400743
>>1400718Lolcow isn’t anti-lesbian, the issue is that there is a
minority of lesbians, and it very well maybe just be one, that comes on here and says creepy shit like the manifesto above and expects us to agree with it or something. You’re not going to manipulate the entire imageboard into agreeing with you just because you want everything to be a feminist utopia, you know?
No. 1400759
>>1400746Oh, i don't agree with the notion women are bisexual by default in the slightest but i also that the desire for a partner is also one that needs to be managed and controlled and people shouldn't allow themselves to be slaves to it, hence my comment about hetrosexuality in women being a cope
>>1400718, but a lot of the responses to her are also psychotic too, such as anons proclaiming female companionship as worthless and saying liking muscles is a fetish when fit bodies are generally always going to be appealing to most people, that is my point. That's why i just kind of dismissed everyone here.
No. 1400784
>>1400442both sexes have homoerotic tendencies that gets culturally expressed (and repressed) I dont think its outlandish to suggest a good portion of both sexes might have homoerotic tendencies.
for men its expressed through pedastry, desiring male genitals on a female body, fetishizing femininity over femaleness, feminizing a male through sex, ect. but for women its expressions like desiring males with female faces and bodies but male genitals (ie femboy art), making statements like "women are aesthetically more beautiful", women experiencing lack of attraction and sex drive toward a male partner they chose for themselves, "straight" women expressing they want a wife, ect. i dont think its black and white but I do think a quarter percent or more of all women rest on the kinsey spectrum, leaning towards male sexual preference. a lot of women here love the idea of a majority of presentations of bisexuality in women being a trend for male attention and a result of pornography but there are obvious expressions of same sex preference beyond plutonic behavior all over if you just listen to women and don't dismiss every expression as a byproduct of misogyny.
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The PA guy who ate a rotisserie chicken 41 days in a row? Would.
No. 1400827
>>1400763Maybe i am confused. I am glad the conversation has moved on beyond that fiasco upthread, i don't care to understand.
>>1400780Idk about porn because most of it is ick, but as somebody who has never had sex and has relatively short masturbation sessions, i just know sex will be extremely underwhelming, painful and annoying. I just see sexual shit as something to get out of the way, the faster you get an orgasm the better, having an extra person would be really unproductive to me. I don't really care about getting hugged or physical touch either.
No. 1400928
>>1400837This is a miserable existence jesus.
>>1400919I'm going to take this as an admission to being male.
>>1400844nta but I have completely abandoned the notion of having irl friends. Sometimes you need to accept being friendless. I just find most irl friendships are based on lies, asslicking and people pleasing and it's all a load of bullshit. I like talking to my online friends and anons here and honestly that's enough for me. Trust no one anon.
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>>1401097but they're FUNNY and men deserve to be tilted.
No. 1401120
>>1401055>>1401091>>1401103>>1401105I am still not entirely convinced schizochan is a real woman and not a male troll trying to sow discourse and make actual stalking
victims look retarded.
No. 1401255
>>1401218Semi-related but I hate that you will be ostracized in some jobs if you have no account because the retards there won't talk to you unless they know you online too.
But I refuse to do it. The only social media account I ever had was one on twitter and I use it to post gay robots.
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>>1401573Or how about you just shut the fuck up and let women grow hair down there? Get a damn life anon.
No. 1401722
>>1401711Same
nonny. I shave my pussy, wear heels and wear makeup and I love the feeling and none of these bitches will stop me
No. 1401778
>>14017671. you're just straight
2. love yourself
No. 1401799
>>1401781then just be neutral towards her jfc
>monster fleshy vaginaand do you really think that moids are as picky irl as they're on 4chan reddit or wherever your idea of moid comes from?
No. 1401813
>>1401624>What am I gonna do put pubes all over my partner's mouth?If a moid can't handle eating a woman out when she's unshaved he doesn't deserve to have sex with her.
>Bushes are useless in a straight relationship too.Your moid is useless too but that doesn't stop you from keeping him around.
No. 1401866
>>1401854tbh I think I might have accidentally learned something about myself
no, it doesn't feel like anything, it literally feels like rubbing against any other body part
No. 1401867
>>1401866Figuring out you're asexual on lolcow.farm is wild I'm so sorry for laughing
nonnie someone put this in the lolcaps thread
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>>1401866Glad I could help kek. You do you nonna
No. 1401941
>>1401784They’re like those tradthots who go on and
on about how ~transgressive~ and ~rebellious~ they are for being a housewife and having children.
No. 1402122
>>1401914I agree, but I don't drink and I'm still depressed. My only addiction is caffeine, but everyone has that.
>>1401843Sexual arousal is overwhelming for me, it's like being hit by a wave of warmth and tingles all over. As if I've just taken drugs or something. Like calm down it's just some perfume or a nice voice, wtf. I wasn't taught that I have to be aroused by random stuff from other women, rather the opposite. Then my mind starts racing a million miles an hour, with a lot of shame involved and I turn into a bumbling idiot. I also can
think my way into an orgasm sometimes. For me it's just both cerebral and physical. I wish I could dial it down somehow, it makes me the opposite of a don juan.
No. 1402150
>>1402144True, but both are inferior to larger-than-average dick.
Ideal dick size goes like this:
Micropenis > pencil = small > beer can > very big > average > above average
Small dick will always be inferior to nearly every other size. I don’t care how good he is at eating pussy or fingering. 9 times out of 10 the small dick scrotes who claim to “Make up for it in other ways” are being lied to so they don’t kill themselves.
My unpopular opinions are that obese and chubby men are just as gross as extremely skinny men and that bulldykes fuck better than most straight dudes.
No. 1402170
>>1402150You absolutely used > incorrectly kek. Also I think there are chubby men that are really cute and carry it well.
>>1402144If it’s small and fat it will hit that spot much better than girthless iktr
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>>1402513well i 100% agree on the 1st part, elaborate on the 2nd
No. 1402658
>>1402652thats just the hard truth tbh
also mini pancakes > full sized pancakes
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I can't find much sympathy for Brittney Griner. Even if it really was by accident that she "smuggled" drugs (however little, even if it was "just weed", countries have different laws), everyone knows to be careful when traveling and she clearly thought herself above the law. And then has the nerve to try to try to avail herself of the protection of being American after having shat on the national anthem, etc. I have no use for it, it's spoiled, privileged nonsense, and she's not a victim. What's happening to her sucks and I can sympathize on some human level with the fact that it sucks, but play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
No. 1402855
>>1402802>>1402852yes, this is in fact the
epitome of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes." it's not even just traveling with weed, it's traveling to a place known to be harsh with drug policy (has she never seen
Brokedown Palace or even
Locked Up Abroad?) in a heightened moment of international tension. it's the sheer
arrogance of it that gets me, it's Ugly-Americanism at it's worst. well, maybe not worst, scrote athletes do way worse on a regular basis, but it's embarrassing nonetheless.
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>>1402699Very ot but she’s 6’9”
No. 1402877
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>>1402867god me too
nonnie. spongebob is kino but i can't help but observe the way that this site is rotting away from its very core. it's okay, just smile and laugh through it all, just smile and laugh.
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>>1402878ok sorry here is one to make you laugh
No. 1402883
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I don't get why people sexualize vampires. I feel like you'd have to be fucking retarded to sexualize vampires. Like seriously what is the appeal? They drink blood, which first of all is gross. Secondly they don't need to reproduce by having sex, they create more of their kind by biting/feeding (depending on the book/movie) so there's no point in having sex anyway. It especially makes no sense to sexualize the Anne Rice vampires as it is specifically said that they can't have sex and don't have bodily fluids. Also they are often described as being cold and having no heart beat. You want to fuck some cold dead guy? No thanks. Tom Cruise was fine as fuck, though.
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>>1402883do you even vampire bro? vampires are inherently sexual because the swapping of vital fluids is a metaphor for sex, hence why a lot of vampires are depicted as being seductive creatures of the night. anyways
>tfw no vampire bf No. 1402891
>>1402883I'm on your side
nonnie, vampirism should be depicted as a horrible curse or illness and not something that makes you cool and fuckable.
No. 1402897
>>1402883A lot of the vampire stuff is about repressed sexuality, the stories and erotically charged attack scenes and "losing control" appeal to people with repressed urges (not exclusively but in general).
Someone has probably written a long essay on how some of the biggest vampire fiction authors (Stephenie Meyer, Charlaine Harris, Anne Rice) are conservative christians and why that's not a coincidence. (RIP Anne Rice you are missed.)
It does not appeal to me either but it's pretty easy to understand. The rare freak who is into it because they literally want to be immortal and have magic powers worries me though lol
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Real unpopular opinion but I think picrel was right, young teenagers are watching porn and they get introduced to a lot of fucked up shit, I do think there should be sex education that has fit but average looking people showing how to have enjoyable sex without any kink shit
No. 1403094
>>1403034besides the actual idea of porn for minors being gross to begin with… You missed something here and it's the implication that "hardcore" porn is okay in the first place/that there's no problem with it being so easily accessible to adults as well
alas this is the Internet era and there's pretty much nothing we can do besides trying to spread anti-porn memes, but I wish we could go back to when most moids just had a few magazines or a tape hidden somewhere in their house
No. 1403103
>>1403034interesting how retards like that women in your pic will make up any shit instead of actual stuff that works which is parents monitoring their childrens tech and parental control.
Parents will literally shove a phone/laptop/ipad in their kids face and let their child be on the internet all day and not even care what their child is doing at all as long as the child doesnt bother those parents.
Just monitor what your child does and put a parental lock on their stuff and you literally reduce the chances of them seeing shit by 60%.
i literally have so many health issues because i was raised on the internet.
One of my parents literally got me addicted to tech because they used that as a way so i can leave them alone so they can relax all day, and now i am a failure of a human being who is LITERALLY addicted to my tech and internet and i cant go a minute without it which has lead to me having no friends, no boyfriend and doing poorly when it comes to work and uni.
I also stumbled upon soft-core sexual content at 8 and then stumbled upon actual porn at 10. And the thing was i wasn't even looking for that type of stuff and i still ended up seeing those sites.
Monitor your kids, use a site blocker and parental control.
No. 1403464
>>140345
Interesting, my husband is Latino and he's stated he just can't find latina women attractive and I'm the same way with white men, being white myself. I think you are biased as i find some brown men extremely attractive - my boyfriend has large, protruding, prominent eyes, a nicely shaped but largish nose, and very thick, full lips, all traits you mentioned, but I think they look great on him. He is very thin, 130lbs at 5'11' so maybe that is why it suits him, I think men are just used to being fat and not keeping themselves fit.
Personally, I think white men are hideous, I don't understand how they're so desirable when they all look like trash to me. I live in a huge city, so it's not like I live in the middle of nowhere either
No. 1403465
>>1402883I genuinely think blood sucking and throat kisses/sex is hot.
Sure it would make no sense for vampires to desire actual sex, but I am borderline asexual too and think the same but still consider some practices hot, sex doesn't just have to be dick in hole. And even if vampires should be 100% asex biologically speaking it's not weird, people sexualise what they consider attractive. There are thousands of women getting wet for Megatron who is a robot that transforms into a tank or gun.
No. 1403542
>>1403456childhood amnesia is real. the real scam is shrinks pretending they can draw the
"hidden memories" out of a patient.
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>>1403501>Personally I find a lot of middle eastern male features pretty like strong noses, big eyelashes and the big droopy eyes etcthen nonna i have just the right guy for you KEK
No. 1403566
>>1403533I've seen a lot of brown men, even indians, I find good looking although on the whole I don't find them attractive as weird as it sounds. Usually the ones I find hot fall into the skinny/lanky male bracket instead of the round/robust one. But yes like the other
nonnie said, it's just personal taste.
>>1403555He would fall into the round/robust bracket kek
No. 1403573
>>1403555I legit believe he's gay, not because "Chantel is so fat and oogly nobody gonna want her for real!! He so "hawt"" but because he just gives me those vibes. Chantel could find a scrote attracted to her and who'd shack up with her forever while working at walmart.
Josh but she wants these scrotes from different cultures/places. She's like Danielle from 90 day fiance.
No. 1403581
>>1403573yeah i'm convinced he's gay there's just something about him, but maybe kuwaiti guys are just like that?
Josh got mogged on by Salah of Arabia unfortunately so that ship has sailed, but i'm curious to see how long this arc lasts.
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I'd much rather have manga I like get a drama/live action adaptation than an anime. Talking almost exclusively about shoujo manga here, I barely read anything else.
No. 1403819
>>1403801idc if they look like kids or not most don’t btw
as long as they’re not hurt why it’s illegal a woman doesn’t deserve to be punished for this, I’m aware all men can be misogynists but virgins or males who got rejected in their development years are the worst, women that are attracted to young boys don’t really have high standards so virgins will be less, and less incels less crimes
(Bait) No. 1403824
>>1403743Gotta admit, I never watched (nor even read) Nana, but I feel you on the series thing. So many manga I wish that had more adaptations than just two hour long movies…
>>1403761Maybe so, but I'm a gaijin living in gaikoku, talking from the perspective of always hearing how live actions suck because of the acting being goofy or stiff, the actors not looking like the characters and the camera being bad
as well as unnecessary comparisons to kdramas instead of me being regarded as the target audience talking to other target audiencees, so I felt like it was more appropriate to post it here than on girlschannel or something.
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>>1403943Kek you’re right and you should say it picrel is the state of US women rn
No. 1404272
>>1403943>it's not socially acceptable anymore to even imply that being overweight is bad for youLiterally who is saying this besides haes? Plenty of people agree being fat isn't healthy. The only thing that's changed is your ability to bring it up irrelevantly and when nobody asked, with the concession as well that many fat women literally get away with it until they die of old age or some unrelated misfortune.
Taking shots at a stranger's health is just a way to conceal your hate for how they look and behave anyway, so.
>increasingly seeing morbidly obese hamplanets blatantly insulting people for being too skinny, calling them twigs and mocking their weightI don't really see this but I will say I am in the older crowd and not in "woke" spaces to witness this myself.
Then again, if "health" is your concern then you should back the fatties mocking twiggies like Eugenias because being underweight and having disordered habits like purging and drug abuse to be thin is not healthy for women either.
>All the while knowing they can just complain to HR or administration if the opposite occurs, and have their complaint taken seriously. Why are you dumb enough to shame people at work and get caught tho lol?
>Asian cultures have it rightWeeb. I stopped reading.
No. 1404306
>>1403943Fat people in the west still get scrutinised. The thing that's making people fat in the west is the standard diets in the country. There also an abundance of skinny fat people who are just as bad as fat people, they get given a slap on the wrist for not looking offensive. Lastly, i only really see skinny people get bullied for their weight if they are male or if they are a woman with no ass or tits. In order for anything to change, the culture around food in the west needs to change. i think it's better people focus on their own weights because crying about fat people all the time has to be tiring especially since fat people have always existed, it's really just the deathfats who are new.
>>1404018Because you are not eating high calorie foods then. There is no such thing as eating whatever you want and never gaining weight. It's not so much how much you eat, it's all about the density of calories per food items if that makes any sense.
No. 1404370
>>1403943All I ever see are unhappy and insecure fat girls who feel down on themselves without taking it out on anyone else. Some examples I've seen recently (mainly from my coworkers, who happen to be a bunch of fatties) include crying over being unable to get a work shirt that fits, a complete lack of enthusiasm for any opportunity to dress up because they know nothing looks good, living in black hoodies regardless of weather because they're hiding their body at all times, constant fretting over failed diet attempts and getting too big for their clothes, 'joking' self deprecation about their size etc. They're all nice girls, I pity them like crazy even though it's clearly evident that they have awful diets and neither the knowledge nor the motivation to improve.
Frankly there isn't much point raging over fat people unless you're just doing it because you enjoy smugly basking in the fact that you're not fat and are therefore superior. Their lives are already punishment enough, you know perfectly well any time they insult a skinny girl it's because they're seething in jealousy, you know their HAES nonsense is a massive cope, they are miserable and don't need to be taken down a peg because they've already hit rock bottom. Actually I take it back, hate on fat men all you like because they have every biological advantage for being fit and significantly fewer social consequences for being unattractive. I only feel bad for the women.
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This is actually the most retarded shit I’ve ever seen in my life. Grow the fuck up.
No. 1404596
>>1401914actually the only people with depression who are so bad at managing it that you would ever find out they have depression to begin with are the alcoholics, thanks
>>1402883i don't get it because men need blood supply to maintain an erection. if you suck his blood out he can't get it up to fuck you. so when moids obsess over female vampire characters i roll my eyes. they can barely finish without death gripping as it is. take out a quart of their jerking juice and they're limp noodles.
a male vampire fucking a female human is more realistic because it's just yet another act of sexual violence. there isn't much difference between impregnating someone with a baby, which will leech nutrients from her blood for 9 months, and cutting to the chase to drink her blood yourself. sexual acts are inherently destructive to women and consume her vitality. hence vampirism is just a PG charicature of normal straight sex. which is why all the original vampire books feature male, not female, vampires.
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>>1404840>I just can't believe they're such big retardsBelieve it
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>>1404840Perhaps it's just that because they have such a good sense of smell, it gets hard to differentiate between all of the scents. Or maybe how we smell isn't specific to us. Bears are very cool though. The truth is that we're just not meant to interact with certain animals, but it unfortunately happens anyway.
No. 1405048
>>1404978Kek my own unpopular opinion is the exact opposite of yours, I consider most "ambiguously brown" colors to be dark blonde. When I do make-up on them, what turns out good looking is closer to what looks good on blondes rather than on women with "true" brown hair. It looks golden in the light and lightens easily when exposed to the sun. It creates a bigger contrast against a medium brown than it does against "true" blonde. If you drew someone with this hair color but only in black and white, would you draw their hair black or white ? You'd leave it white. It's truly just dark blonde.
I don't understand why everything that isn't suuuuper light, especially in american media, is considered brunette. I guess moids didn't like seeing it in their porn or whatever. I'm also kind of used to asian media where everything not black is considered light tbh so there's that.
>>1405023It's not compeltely obsolete though. It just went from "I'm not a dumb blonde !! it's light brown !" cope to dyeing it pink to avoid the basic white girl label. Women with "boring" hair colors are more likely to feel like they have to dye it something else in order to look interesting.
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Persona 5 has the worst characters in the series. Joker being featured in so many other games and media is a waste. The graphic design and the music are the reason why the game is appealing.
No. 1405157
>>1405140No problem habibi ♥
>>1405151Maybe u look ethereal? Some people blesch their eyebrows so it can’t be that bad. If it does make you feel bad just get a nice tint for your eyebrows
No. 1405388
>>1405383>good musichuh?
>27bitch looks older
i've actually never met anyone who was into her but ig i dont hang around in circles that care about trends enough
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I don’t understand women who put so much effort into their looks just weird go grab the ugliest scrote they can find. Might as well stay average or ugly because you can get those same men without wigs and 12 layers of makeup.
No. 1405421
>>1405383>her making good musicShe doesn't even make it, her label picks up producers to make trendy music for her to perform, she even said she doesn't even like the tracks she sells. she's useless all around
>>1405393Do you realize her whole persona is a stunt? like, literally every post, every cringe action and everything she does is controlled by a group of moids
No. 1405490
>>1404879Bears seem to be good at differentiating smells. I think it’s more likely that bears simply attack because they’re territorial. Whenever you’re in bear country you should be making enough noise so that any potential bear will know you’re there but even then making noise can
trigger the bear into thinking their territory is being treaded on. I think the ‘surprised bear’ thing is cope by Big Bear Activist Co.
No. 1405893
>>1404371This is sort of related to an unpopular opinion I have.
RSD is bullshit and I'm saying this as a person with ADHD and aspergers. The reason so many people with these disorders are sensitive towards rejection is because we had our needs dismissed and neglected our whole life. It's not because our brains hate rejection.
RSD is setting any advocacy towards autism and adhd back. Rather than trying to improve society and figure out how we can better help people with these disorders we're just telling them "yeah your brain is just built different and there is nothing we can do about it. the reason you are sad is not because we refuse to give you tools that improve your life it's because you are just sensitive, sorry".
RSD is also stupid because people use it as an excuse to embarrassing thing like wiping off dressing with a napkin.
No. 1405909
>>1405898Just came up with an unpopular opinion: No one should eat out anymore. Lets shut down all the restaurants, I'm tired of seeing things like this lol
Hotels should serve hot buffet food and there should be a canteen in hospitals and more 24 hr grocery stores.
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>>1406144Nta but I’m happy to wfh because I don’t have to deal with stupid questions or being picked on for not “smiling enough”.
No. 1406196
>>1406151Kek I was expecting the post to be way different from this response then when I looked all it said was
>wfh is cringe anyway unless you live with a loving family and/or have kids. AndThis isn't even close to what a tradthot would say, the anon is out of touch for sure but tradthot? No. Most tradthots would be telling women they shouldn't be working in the first place, nevermind at home.
I have kids though and WFH is a pain in the ass since you're expected to do basic childcare and house chores while working. It should just be people's choice anyway.
No. 1406529
>>1406268it also saves office space, many companies decided to downsize when they figured out they could make everyone work from home. I can't even find a job that isn't wfh if I even wanted to, because they closed nearly all the offices. They kept the buildings as investment vehicles, but that's it, nothing done with them. Half of the jobs at offices are bullshit anyway or half of your tasks, of the 8 hours you sit in your fluorescent light cubicle or Bürolandschaft, maybe 2 or 3 is actually productive. Some days you go to work and you could literally do fuckall, just have to wait and sit around, because that is what you're paid to do. Plus all the commuting, being in a big building with lots of people, is a disease risk even without covid. It eats up all your time you could use to eat healthily and exercise. When you are sick, you have less of an excuse because you have wfh, unless it's super severe. So they see it as an opportunity to reduce sick leave too.
No. 1406672
>>1406669You should try magic mushrooms. Self love is 100 percent real and it's inside all of us, ready to be discovered beneath our lifelong trauma and biases.
Societal self love/self care is a different beast though.
No. 1406678
>>1406675>you can’t expect people to love you if you don’t love yourselfThis mentality is what I don’t understand. Are you saying kids who get beat up their whole life and put in cp just aren’t loving themselves enough? Or little kids who get told they are hideous everyday aren’t loving themselves enough?
Self hate is stemmed by your previous experiences. If you don’t know what love and acceptance feel like then you can’t love yourself. Self love is a way of
victim shaming and getting people to shut up when they bring up tough issues.
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I think saying shit like sewerslide or unalive should get anons bullied. Maybe even timed out or banned.
No. 1406700
>>1406690Those aren’t extreme examples because those things happen everyday. If you have never experienced love they can’t love themselves.
Also, I can guess you aren’t sitting in your room alone all day getting high off shrooms. You probably have a partner or friends in your life that value you which gives you the confidence to go around and tell people they feel like shit because they aren’t trying to love themselves hard enough…
No. 1406701
>>1406678Wait, what? I don't understand your logic.
No one got abused because they didn't love themselves enough. No. No one is saying that.
No. 1406713
>>1406700nta I think I kinda get where you're coming from but you're not explaining it well (it's a complex issue though so I don't blame you, and it's hard for people to understand in general without experiencing it not that I would wish that on them lol).
>>1406707100% true
>>1406708also true people don't like "debbie downers" which is why traumatized people are often outcasts
No. 1406732
>>1406712do you dislike yourself even now?
>>1406721Sure but they hated themselves first, that's why they had to "learn to love" themselves.
No. 1406744
>>1406740Love isn't inherent, it's taught.
no, hate is taught.
No. 1406758
>>1406735Ok give examples of people who went through traumatic childhoods who just grew out of it and learned to love themselves all their own? I watch a lot of true crime and every child who came out of a shit childhood “strong”is because they got adopted by a better family or found someone later in life who understood them. The majority of them end up having shit lives as adult. It’s all
victim blaming bullshit so people don’t have to hear you complain, kind of like rape
victims are applauded for being strong and not complaining about the fact they were literally raped.
No. 1406769
>>1406758If you get into relationships with others without healing your own shit, you're just going to get in relationships with users and
abusive people because they're the only ones who will tolerate you and your self loathing. (Only until they're done using you though). Stop expecting others to heal you, that's such a scrote line of thinking.
No. 1406774
>>1406769Bullshit. It’s totally possible to find friends and family who will accept you at your worse but a lot of people will never have that.
Even in less extreme situations I think self love really is a way to shut people up and keep them from complaining about anything because it makes people uncomfortable. For example let’s say a person goes out every weekend with their friends and they all get free drinks from guys or numbers from girls but that person is just ignored the whole night while their friends get attention. Of course you can’t ever let these experiences get to you because “lol why do you care so much what people think?love yourself!”.
No. 1406800
Not any of the other anons, but why are some of you being so needlessly cruel and aggressive to the OP? OP hasn’t said anything insulting to anyone but gets responses like this.
>>1406697>ya you honestly sound insufferable and that's why people don't like you>>1406721>do you really think it's everyone else's fault they don't like you?Like what the hell.
Anyway I really get where you’re coming from OP, it is very, very lonely to try and care about yourself when there are few, if any, people who can meet your needs. I wish I had a guide through this too and someone who will just care about me. I agree that we need other people in order to try and see ourselves with love or respect. But half of that journey is also our own responsibility, because the bitter truth is, outside of our parents, many of whom fail us, no one is going to just walk in and love us and give us what we need. Self-love is intended to help us develop skills to navigate through our lives as we seek out the love we want. It’s to help us distinguish between what’s healthy for us and what’s not healthy for us. It can’t give us love but it can help us in finding good love.
No. 1406801
>>1406794so then hate yourself and be miserable. Just know that people who are capable of self reflection all realize that self love is very important in their mental health. Even when others are
gasp mean to them.
No. 1406805
>>1406799I’m not talking about me. It’s an example. Imagine being young and going out thinking you’re going to have a fun night with your friends and your thinner friends get let in the bar and you don’t then later on in the night they tell you that you need to love yourself when you feel sad about it kek it’s a joke.
I think self respect is a more realistic goal than self love. A lot of people with low self image put themselves into dangerous or
toxic situations but they are trying to find love. They need to be taught that their feelings of self hate are
valid but to live a safe and healthy life they still need to take care of themselves.
No. 1406814
>>1406810I think for a lot of people they think people who don’t love themselves are out doing drugs and dealing with
toxic men but a lot of people hate themselves but still function have good liveS on paper. A lot of us have to be super self efficient because no one else will help us when we fall.
No. 1406842
>>1406810i don't entirely agree with it but the hierarchy of needs is relevant as an answer to this. we have survival instincts yeah, but those are a base. is your life just surviving? of course people don't eat and sleep and take basic care of themselves because of "self-love". on a tangent though, when people start failing to do those things and no longer care about anything enough to nourish their body, wouldn't you say there is a complete lack of affection for their bodies, among other things? it's not the only answer but it is at least a small part of it. anyway, you're thinking too deeply about the word "love" in self-love as it has such strong connotations. it is accepting oneself and holding yourself highly and is especially relevant to people who have been made to hate themselves as it restores balance in your attitude towards yourself. it's not an extreme of absolutely adoring yourself, it's not something that should cross into territories of vanity. honestly i think the issue is with the term itself because it sounds stupid given what love means to everyone (some fluffy sentimental thing) when it encompasses having respect, acceptance, and an honest care for your own happiness. it's making life more enjoyable for yourself as much as you can control it. it's coming to understand your needs, what harms you, what will help you in the long-term, rather than reaching 100% happiness/inner peace. there's a unique path for everyone when it comes to this, it's so much more nuanced than those two dumb words
No. 1406875
>>1406842>is your life just surviving?In my case, yes and chasing dopamine and serotonin hits in a semi-responsible way. As it says in the name, they're all needs, in the end the ideal is to have them all and they all contribute to quality of life and your lifespan, which is all a form of surviving. I don't agree that you need one to be able to graduate to the next level, since there are people who have been in poverty who seemed to self actualize. I skipped love and belonging and went straight to seeking esteem, but I do recognize that it makes me not a full rounded human being and that having connections works well against stress and makes people more resilient. Which makes me disagree with professionals who say I'm so damaged that I don't need it and shouldn't bother. I don't think you can fulfill that need on your own, being completely isolated. It's a two-way street, give and take, a form of vulnerability and attachment and in a way it does need to be taught and doesn't come naturally. Other wise people wouldn't end up with massive attachment issues if it's so easy and natural, just look at kids from orphanages who didn't get adopted into a loving family and even those who did are off (no hate, I can relate). They weren't explicitly taught to hate themselves or some weird shit like that. It's just the absence of being taught to love, being hugged and cared for, played with, being remembered, having someone be nice to you etc. They don't necessarily end up hating themselves, but are just in permanent survival mode and even develop aversions to affection, because it's completely alien.
>especially relevant to people who have been made to hate themselves as it restores balance in your attitude towards yourselfisn't viewing yourself neutrally an option too?
>when it encompasses having respect, acceptance, and an honest care for your own happiness. it's making life more enjoyable for yourself as much as you can control it. it's coming to understand your needs, what harms you, what will help you in the long-term, rather than reaching 100% happiness/inner peace.Still reads as survival to me, just using our big adult human brains to be smart about it and realize that chasing the short term pleasures can have long term negative consequences. Isn't it natural to just want to make life comfortable for yourself? A lot of people who would say they hate themselves, still take care of themselves, try to make life enjoyable, try to find happiness, know what harms them and what would help them in the long term. Yet they still hate themselves. I think it has to be very extreme to override that self preservation instinct and usually those people who did override it are extremely obvious to spot, since they will end up as addicts, self harmers or with eating disorders.
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>>1406846nta but I think she means this. faking the "hollow" part via cut crease