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This thread is for discussions and jokes surrounding those who LARP as some variety of "Queer" despite being only attracted to the opposite sex. Although most are in Hetero relationships, some may be on the "ace-spectrum" and/or polyamorous. They may discriminate against those who are same sex attracted by being uninterested in their issues, revising their history and exploiting them for personal profit. Women in particular may be incredibly rude to even libfems, let alone
terf boogeywomen, because she prioritizes her Nigel above all. Men in particular are only in it for sex, so he hits on lesbians if he is ever actually in a local LGBT community and drops the Queer act when it no longer is in his benefit. Consider this a vent thread as much as it is a meme thread.
This thread is not for Homeophobe-chans.
Since there is already MTF and FTM threads, this thread will focus more on the LGB community as a whole and topics that don't really fall under the Trans threads. Please also take note that this is not a Bisexual hate thread and posting about those under 18 is not encouraged, though is allowed is exceptional enough.
Topics of discussion:
-History revisionism
-Alphabet soup getting longer
-Celebs and cows pride-drama
-Spicy Straights
-Fetishists
-Comphet and other popular "queer" trends
-Ace Discourse sightings
-Bi/Pan Discourse sightings
-"Bi-Lesbians" Discourse sightings
-Homophobia from "Queers"/Spicy Straights
-Personal experiences with these sort of people
-Lesbians Until Graduation
For rainbow consoomerism and friends, see:
Pride Month 2023 Thread
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No. 1813526
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>>1812722Amanda Jetté Knox decided she was a lesbian after her husband trooned out, then they transitioned their son, and now she lives as a nonbinary transmasc person.
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I hate whatever this is saying. I like jjba because it’s fun, silly, and stylish. The new jjba fans give off spicy queer vibes
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why do they always look like this and majored in something useless like creative writing kek
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>>1821806don't they always do that well into their 30s and 40s anyway? its like these people have nothing else but larping as ultra tech aficionados just because they do adwords shit or help desk plus insufferable le nrrrrd ecksdee hobbies which only enable their most horrid traits. why are the girls always as ugly as possible too?
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I found a Twitter of a TIM asking to do not "misgender" him because his partner calls him "wife" and is on HTR, but also he claims all couples have a transmasc and a transfem? So everybody is a straight couple, but with extra steps?.
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what “queer specific struggles” could these insufferable losers have except not getting enough ass pats and attention lmao imagine calling it painful to be perceived as straight when you’re straight couldn’t be me
No. 1837983
>>1837923These people want to be so oppressed and they cannot understand what real oppression homosexual people have.
>>1837936Most of them are online teenagers, that's why some of them are changing the narrative as soon as they realize they're going to be legal adults too. "Ok, I'll be an adult and I might have to leave the fandom like I said… Or claim that as long you're younger than 25 years old, you're still immature and you can still enjoy fandom stuff.".
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can someone in plain english explain why this wouldnt be a heterosexual relationship? im serious
No. 1838940
>>1838934Of course bi people in het relationships are still
valid but their relationships are still het, even if it's a bi woman and a bi man ie. 2 "queers". I don't understand why it's so difficult for these people to understand. The relationship doesn't erase their lived experiences or feelings, confident, normal bi people don't need to screech about how uwu kweer they are constantly.
No. 1838976
>>1838965Bi people in queer relationships tend to just quietly live their lives. Bi people in het relationships constantly scream about being the most
valid & oppressed queers on earth due to "bi invisibility", even though they're extremely visible bc they never stfu. And let's be real, if you're bi in a het relationship you simply aren't going to deal with homophobia, marriage discrimination etc. on the same level as your peers, so there's zero reason to be the loudest and center yourself in every LGB related conversation. Being perceived as straight is a privilege, not a handicap in any society.
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It's always the bi nlogs in a straight relationship who say this kind of shit.
No. 1839436
>>1838976I get that and that’s what annoys me, I was with some friends who brought their friends and they flamed me for saying that I actually experience homophobia with my wife because we have to be careful in certain spaces and keep quiet at work/school/when travelling etc but apparently that’s wrong because bi girls with bfs are also queer and they face “invisibility” like I don’t want to be visible or invisible, I want my sexuality to not be my core being and be seen as more and that’s what has me struggling.
I always get lumped into being a lesbian but I’m not allowed to say bi girls who only date men are straight? Those type of bi’s make me so mad because they take over everything.
I don’t know what their obsession is with being persecuted. It’s not fun or cute
No. 1840712
>>1839436>I always get lumped into being a lesbianSame shit, even the only family member that’s not homophobic that I came out to likely thinks I’m a lesbian in denial because I don’t and never wanted to
date men, like…be serious why would I not pick a side when one is clearly safer and better overall.
>but I’m not allowed to say bi girls who only date men are straight?Nonnita we have to face it, we are both lezzies, bisexual is when you only date men and don’t want to vomit after kissing another woman
>>1839406>I've also got that I "shame" women for liking men just because I feel weird if I constantly have to hear about people's nigelsLol some people probably think I’m a bitter evil dyke for sure because I’m disinterested in hearing women complaining about their bf for the 5th time that month.
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>>1840712AYRT it's one thing for them to be upset if someone was rude to their face but acting like 'shaming women/"AFAB people" for liking men' is a pressing kweer issue looks out of touch and pathetic. If a woman doesn't want to hear about attraction to men or is annoyed by it then it's probably due to her experiencing prejudice for being same sex attracted, and because we live in a world where heterosexuality is inescapably treated as the default and relationships with men are treated as the default for bi women. It's not unreasonable for people to want to blow off some steam and say hetty betties are lame sometimes kek
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Hank Green tweeted recently about being bi. which was apparently news to everyone
For me though this is a fairly refreshing attitude to see coming from a bi person in a het relationship. which makes me kinda believe him. Maybe i'm giving too much credit but i'm reading "Yea I realized I'm bi but that was long after I married my wife and I'm a guy and im not exactly dating any men so it's not a big part of my life or online presence. my daily life and relationship is pretty much straight so i don't really make a big deal out of it." that's pretty fair honestly
i imagine it was rewarding to figure out the truth about the attraction and crushes on guys he was denying to himself so much when he was younger. hence the use of the bi label as sort of a self reflection and normalization thing, as with his straight relationship and dating history the label may otherwise seem pointless. he doesn't seem to be obsessing over being lgbt and the performative stuff. but also not hiding his sexual attraction to men in shame anymore but also not mentioning it unless the literal topic of hot guys and male celebrity crushes comes up. so now he can answer honestly and openly instead of pretending only a chick could turn him on. so idk good for him.
I feel like it's guaranteed with heteronormativity that a lot of people born bi, especially from older generations like gen x, will end up in het relationships and repressed their same sex attraction at an early age. with no loneliness or other reason to challenge it if their het relationship is fulfilling. so they don't even know they're bi themselves. if it happens they figure it out later in life after having a sudden homosexual urges moment and doing some self reflection on it and coming to some conclusions, but are actually chill about it and focus on just being an ally i think that's really great.
No. 1842158
>>1842140yea that's a fair assessment imo.
anon
>>1842134 is right that it /could/ be a publicity stunt and brand thing, but he's still a human being facing a scary diagnosis and maybe is just taking a chance to have a more personal self expressing moment or two on his platform
it honestly remains to be seen if he starts going down that attention seeking exploitative path reforming his entire online persona around being a most oppressed and most unique lgbt or not
with the cancer diagnosis and this good start i'm just giving the benefit of the doubt for now because it could easily go either way
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>>1842133Harry Styles fake as shit, straight as shit, just aged like all british men into looking like an old woman and capitalized on it with ugly dresses. and unpopular opinion but Tyler the Creator is NOT gay. He’s straight up dating a woman right now. Seriously, show me
one picture of this motherfucker on a date with a man. He pretended to be gay as a troll - you know, the type of shit he has ALWAYS done? It boggles my mind how many people think he is some smol gay bean now.
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more bi Hank Green shit, but yea it's actually pretty decent behavior to hire someone with lived experience to get some insight from a bi person for your book. this guy seems like he gets it. self aware that retroactively figuring out you're bi after 40 doesn't somehow make you knowledgeable on what being actually out as a bi person in same sex relationships is like. sure you're not exactly straight, but you don't have a clue what other bi people go through in their same sex relationships and in their visibly lgbt life. it's incredibly rare to see this kind of honesty and self awareness from a fellow bihet and i honestly appreciate it.
No. 1842246
>>1842132Someone tell him that calling yourself bisexual isn't enough to be cool these days. Gotta troon out, Hank. That's where the real brownie points are. This is why he got bullied off of Tumblr, he tries so hard to be hip, but he's incredibly out of touch.
Also, I don't believe him, sorry. He's just a soy and I doubt he'd ever actually put a cock in his mouth. Jerking off to TikToks of underage TiFs doesn't make you bisexual, Hank.
No. 1842341
>>1842133>do you think there are any out bi/"queer" famous people or cows who are likely bullshitting and actually straight?Rita Ora. She only said she was bi to deflect criticism she got from 'Girls'. Same with Cardi B for 'Wild Side'.
Dove Cameron is bi in the "I fuck girls and only date men but I will pretend that I am actually open to dating women" way. I still like 'Boyfriend' though.
Lady Gaga is bi in the "I thought about kissing a girl once, so that totally makes me a part of the LGB community" way and for liberal cred.
Halsey and Demi Lovato are just straight up lying for cred.
Jameela Jamil is lying through her teeth, to build her brand as aliberal activist, and to deflect criticism from being a judge on that voguing show.
Willow Smith really, really wants to be into women, so she's not a boring straight girl, but she is just straight.
Miley Cyrus is probably actually open to dating women, if she met one she vibed with, but she wont, cause she is straight.
Brendon Urie is pandering to his fujo fans and doesn't want to be a boring straight guy.
Drew Barrymore is lying to herself cause she's desperate to be relevant again and desperate to not be a boring straight woman.
No. 1842425
>>1842331i get the exact opposite feeling from her tbh. something about megan and her possible attraction to women feels a lot more organic to me than most female rappers who have claimed it. I guess she actually gives off some gaydar when so many of the big pop rap girls rn don't. in particular she has that hyperfemme presentation that you do see sometimes with darker skinned black lesbians who are actually from the hood or whatever with their studs. a white or latino girl from the suburbs dressing like her would be super straight, but the hood gay south/mid west black subculture where megan is from is super different. I feel like context is huge for gaydar to even mean anything cause we can't just use white east coast middle class lesbian trends as the only qualifier, when the person in question is definitely not from there
if she only alludes to it rarely it could be that she's kinda shy about it. Some black women say the homophobia and biphobia in some parts of the black community are pretty bad. so maybe she has some fear around it and a long time habit of keeping it out of her writing. but is testing the waters as other pop artists come out and throw in gay lyrics and things are definitely loosening up. people were pretty harsh on her during that whole incident where a guy shot her? would coming out feel good for her right now or is plausible deniability is her friend? i'm pretty neutral at this point on if she's legit or just experimenting and straight. but i'll firmly say she definitely she doesn't give off those big faking flags for me at all like a lot of others do. she's always come off pretty low on the "trying too hard" scale in general.
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>>1842132>>1842257Yes, it was John , not Hank who got bullied off tumblr. It would be pretty hilarious if he came out as bi though, kek
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>>1842132He was still het in 2020 kek. Reminds me of when that actress who played Matilda came out as a 2 on the Kinsey scale. Having an onlyfans addiction and jerking it to cosplayers when your wife is asleep makes you totes bi, Hank.
No. 1842555
>>1842502john green did not write this btw. if anyone is unclear on that at the time you could edit others posts while re-blogging them. this was a popular insane edit that went around and the last straw that made John Green leave tumblr. idk who actually wrote it but probably one of the infamous "tumblr funnymen" of the era.
it would be pretty funny tho if john came out as the bi brother with this particular claim to fame. i guess because his books are so distinctively straight and his tumblr was always so trying hard to be hip that it would feel a million times more fake if john was claiming bi all of a sudden. the other guy doesn't have the same pattern of behavior so i don't hate it. yet anyway. depends on how much he clout chases or capitalizes on it or not. if he doesn't do any of that bullshit it's probably sincere. doesn't mean he's part of the lgbt community or oppressed mind you i just mean if he behaves and stays low key / in his place about his very straight privileged existence: then no i don't think hes lying about it or exaggerating.
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>>1842564She does have a history of going to gay bars
No. 1842658
I agree with the nonnies ITT;
>>1842133I've got a few,
Megan Fox is always with a boyfriend and literally acts bi for the clout,
Same with Bella thorne ( when she 'dated' Tana Mongeou another fake ass bi sexual)
Katy Perry like girl you made that song, and i still dont believe you.
Ke$ha, i watched some ghost show on discovery + that she hosts and it was so embarrassing,
Jaden Smith, Because he also doesnt want to be a boring straight rich kid.
>>1842341And literally all of your honorable mentions as well.
No. 1842659
>>1842575not all that milky when she's embarrassed about it too and only 18. honestly super understandable and wise for girls to stick to a gay bar for their first few times clubbing or drinking or whatever (americans especially with the 21 minimum admission age for almost all bars and nightclubs). het or not im all for teenage woman finding anywhere that feels safe to venture out into nightlife for the first time. with the kinds of horrific crimes women at straight bars are at risk for in mind here.
i have no patience for grown women doing bachelorette party nonsense at gay bars and gawking like it's a circus for their entertainment. i can't imagine how nauseating that is for gay guys. but when it's like a small group of 18 year old women going out for the first time it's like ok but suck it up dude, she's fine here. the environment is reassuring for vulnerable teens. be an ally to young women who are just trying not to get roofied on day one of legal adulthood you know? as long as they aren't being homophobic whatever.
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Chrissy "being a bimbo is empowering" Chlapecka. For how much she spergs about loving women, the only "gf application" she has posted so far is a themoid.
No. 1845241
>>1844730I'm not entirely sure but I'd like to go out on a limb here and say that equating straight with boring and having to be bipoc and also queer to be seen as interesting is a consequence of a lot of people being afraid of being seen as basic by strangers and friends who are more than likely neck deep in Twitter activism where using straight as an insult is popular.
I think it's easy to ignore for the most part but unfortunately it's hard to ignore that it's also helping create these types of people.
(sage your shit) No. 1845298
>>1844730I can’t speak to why spicy straight
POC choose to identify as “queer”, but a lot of liberal white people have white guilt - they associate being white (and cis and straight) with not only being boring, but also with being an evil bigot oppressor.
Being transracial is generally frowned upon (although some woke white people claim to be 1/64 Native American, and therefore
POC, and some white people straight up pretend to be a different race, like Rachel Dolezal. I think we’ve seen an increase in woke white people converting to Judaism because it gives them a way to have a slightly more “ethnic” minority identity).
Even changing your gender (to be an oppressed tranny instead of an evil boring cissie) requires you to change your hair, wardrobe, and take drugs and get surgeries (if you don’t want other woke people to accuse you of being a theyfab tucute). So calling yourself “queer” is an easy way for white people with white guilt to move from “oppressor” to “oppressed
victim”. Being a
victim gives you street cred and makes you immune to criticism. That’s why a bisexual woman who’s only ever dated men is now queer. A straight couple who does BDSM is now queer. A woman who tells everyone that she loves men “the way a gay man loves men” (in reality she just read too many yaoi fanfics) is now queer. This is why you see woke spicy straights calling themselves “queer” - apparently queer can mean whatever you want it to, you don’t even have to be dating a person of the same sex, but you are now an oppressed
victim minority instead of an evil oppressor.
No. 1845374
>>1844730it began with lgbt teens and young adults gathering on places like tumblr as like a virtual gsa where they can be themselves.
many make posts about resenting mainstream homophobia calling in their real lives that's them weird, broken, sinful, unlikable, predatory etc. many had been bullied for not fitting in, even when still in the closet. for many young gay people, aspects of their personality or interests or self expression fundamentally offended the mainstream culture and was mocked relentlessly.
they post retorts on tumblr with digs back their straight peers. mostly referring to popular crowds who do most of the bullying and mockery. (consider the movie mean girls and rachel macadams character viciously bullying a girl she believed to be a lesbian. a common occurrence at the time). the straight people they most resent are the plastics, or maybe the judgemental christian housewives in their lives that have also been lampooned as painfully dull in movies like edward scissorhands.
the teens make posts calling their straight bullies common mainstream personality traits and interests boring. it's part of a healing process saying "ok then, i like how i am anyway. im glad im not basic like you." for many gay people that's not even an end game point of view in their journey of coming out, and they stop stereotyping straight people or reactively putting them down, as they come into real peace and self acceptance.
straight teens and young adults see these popular posts from their gay peers embracing themselves and aggressively rejecting the status quo. have low self esteem and poor boundaries, take these statements personally. suddenly don't want to be straight if that's seen as boring and basic because the tumblr teen is probably pretty unconventional themselves.
vast numbers of kids conflate the idea that they need to be non cis het for their personal individuality to be recognized and validated by their peers, many of whom on a website like tumblr are disproportionately gay. vast numbers start pushing the boundaries of what lgbt can be to feel included in this cool club.
that's my personal oversimplification of tumblr culture in the last like 15 years anyway
No. 1845394
>>1845381You're trying to use definitions to convey concepts with meaning. There are only feelings here, bigot.
(But fr "ace folx can have sex!" was old discourse that ended with.. well asexual means you can put queer and oppressed on your Twitter bio.)
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>>1845381Oh, no,
nonnie. Asexuals can masturbate and have sex. Fuck, I wish I could find the comic that a friend sent me years ago, it talked about how being asexual doesn’t mean being asexual and shit.
No. 1845440
>>1845404I think Placiosexual is 'Being ok objectifying someone but not being ok with intimacy pt 3, this time with trauma' version 2.
I think 'ok with not being reciprocated' means the 'doing sexual things to someone'. So they want to do sexual acts to other people but don't want people to do sexual acts to them. We used to call that 'stone'.
No. 1845626
>>1842331>I find it interesting how her and so many other female rappers will often throw one line into their songs that imply that they’re bisexual, but then every other line is about how much they love riding dick I honestly feel it's a shout-out to the 2 girls one guy threesome fetish and that the guy can bring another woman in the mix and "the singer" will not make a fuss about it. Pure male fantasy.
>>1845397Asexuality (especially the spicy Demi flavour) has always been a way in which a straight girl who is not a sex-pest can slot themselves in to a friendship group that is nearly all defined by these fucking flags. If your teen huddle is suddenly desperate to define itself as QUEER and you don't want to be kicked out, the Ace Spectrum is for you.
>>1845487>straight, won't fuck on the first date>straight, only does one night stands>straight, horny virgin>straight>straight>straight, only gets off to fanfiction>straight, rapist>straight>straightDanm right
(sage your shit) No. 1845662
>>1845440OH this makes sense, I really interpretted the original text wrong. In a lot of cases for stones I do think there is some trauma involved, but I do think it is a
valid form of sexual intimacy in its own right. However, I don't really see it as asexuality since there is still a desire and pleasure from sex.
No. 1845680
>>1845523OP of the original rant about ace people. I think a lot of it is a weird gravity around sex that can make some people feel scared to just go for it. Not that it isn't something that shouldn't be taken lightly, but it's not a life changing event, you feel the same the next day despite no longer being a virgin.
Personally I found myself way less timid about relationships once I lost my virginity. I realized that humans are all the same and sex is just another thing that people do. As long as you approach it in a healthy way its not anything you should be afraid of but keep in mind its not like porn makes it out to be either. Tbh I think sex is probably one of the most misrepresented things out there, but that doesn't mean its bad. Your mileage may vary.
In the end just find a moid you're comfortable with and talk to them. Preferably a good listener that won't try to immediately get in your pants. Communication is key to a good sexual partner, and as long as you're straightforward with them and they respect your boundaries, you should be not a virgin in no time.
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>>1845379This is reminding me of Elisa Hansen(Maven of the Eventide) who used to review vampire-related media(which is why I watched her). She identifies herself as "Asexual Queer Cisgendered" and has explained her asexuality despite being married to a man and having two children. On her blog, she goes into further detail about how her asexuality doesn't prevent her from having and enjoying sex
https://elisaintime.tumblr.com/post/93616866312/asexual-and-pregnant-and-thats-okay
>To be asexual means that one does not experience sexual desire, yes. I personally have never felt sexual attraction, lust or “turned on” or “horny” in my life (at least not yet, and I am 31 years old). When I was younger, I used to think I was “broken” or “frigid” but now I understand that it is just my orientation. However, the fact that I don’t feel arousal does not mean that I am anti-sex. To me, there are benefits to sexual intercourse that are not physical. When I fall in love with someone (and I have been in love several times in my life, with more than just cismen) it is a cerebral and emotional attraction, and I am now very much in love with my husband. No one I have ever happened to have been in love with has been asexual. This means that sex with me has been a thing that my partners have desired. Even though I did not feel the same desire towards them, the idea that they desired ME made me feel flattered, special. Perhaps this is a bit of vanity on my part, but I have always liked being found desirable. Because desire is something I don’t feel, it seems like a strange and wonderful and amazing (dare I say, alien) thing for other people to feel that I am not part of, and fascinates me. To know that it is felt TOWARD me makes me happy. When I “lie back” as you put it, I am not “thinking of England” or gritting my teeth and bearing it, or being forced to endure something against my will. I am feeling a loving kind of happiness in knowing that someone loves me enough to express their natural and human desires towards me even despite the fact that I don’t desire them in return. It is an emotional boding experience for me. I don’t quite “get” what the other person gets out of it (I can imagine, and people have tried to describe it to me, but I’ll never really understand), but it doesn’t repulse or disgust me. And also, I enjoy knowing that I am making my partners feel good out of love. >My husband gives me back and foot rubs all the time. He does this willingly, though I don’t know that he gets anything out of doing them. I love it when he does it because it feels great. Seriously, ever get a good massage? They’re awesome. I know some people get “turned on” by them, but I don’t. I just like them because they feel good for my sore muscles. And he does it for me because he likes to make me feel good because he loves me. He doesn’t get anything out of it other than that. He never asks me to give him a massage in return, and I rarely ever do (maybe cause I’m a bit lazy. Massages are hard work!) >But my point is, that in relationships, people express love to their partners in different ways. There is no one right way to have a relationship regardless of your sexuality. My husband is very respectful of my asexuality. He loves me for exactly who I am.>I have been in past relationships where my partners have become resentful of my asexuality. They have felt “unwanted” because I never initiated sex with them and because I wasn’t physically attracted to them. Though I did not find them “sexy,” I was mentally attracted to their personalities. I have been drawn to people, and formed deep bonds and connections with them, and that is love to me. >But the main point I really want to make to you is that sexual attraction/orientation is not necessarily the only reason why one might engage in sex acts. It’s true I’ve never given “enthusiastic consent” to sex, but I have given loving, content, peaceful consent. When it comes to being a role model, I feel no shame in that. I think you need to be careful with the idea that asexuals ought to refrain from sex otherwise risk endorsing rape. Please understand that there are so many more reasons (yes, healthy reasons) why someone would choose to engage. I can only speak to my own reasons, of course, but you must not discount that there are others out there who have perfectly healthy reasons of their own as well. So maven is married to a man who works an office job and is the breadwinner, she has two kids and she doesn't have a job and spends majority of her time at home reading vampire books, watching tv and posting pics of her children on Twitter and facebook
what about her is queer exactly ?
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>>1845691before the gendie fad really took off asexuals were the og spicy straights. in the early 2010s you had a lot of fights online because they insisted lgb was an umrella term and the community should include everyone. asexyphobia was real oppression, gatekeeping was bad etc etc.
they came up with the whole split attraction model which gave us "bi enby lesbians" and "heteroromantic demisexuals" calling themsleves gay.
a lot of the asexual talking points were picked up by kweer and trans types later. the navelgazing essays about their identity. erasure and being made fun of online being the worst oppression ever, worse than rape or aids. the whole pomo "queer just means anyone not normal! It means what you wnat it to mean!!!!" crap. acting like the mean gays are oppressing them.
repackaging sexism and homophobia intio woke rhetoric started in aven and asexy tumblr, the troons just amplified it
No. 1845751
>>1845694yes, i was one of those. i didn't see myself as "queer" though. i have had a pretty negative self-image and negative relationship with sex in general throughout my life. i don't see why it needs to be an "identity" or "sexual orientation". and of course for me, i "grew out" of having no sexual feelings. it was a result of growing up around porn addicts and not seeing the hype. i realized that i just thought porn was gross, but porn is not sex. it's a sad, perverted shell of sex.
>>1845743>I wish all this self-analysis and all these big fancy words could be put to good use and used to discuss the challenges that we sad spergs face when it comes to intimacy instead of making it a stupid queer badge to show off.me too. i haven't claimed to not experience sexual attraction since i was 18. people just know that i'm straight. people that are close to me know i just struggle a lot with my relationship with my body and sexuality in general (not who i am attracted to, but just sex itself). it's not an orientation imo and doesn't need a label. it's like they're often so uncomfortable having an open and honest dialogue about their struggles that they just want to hide behind a cute label and colorful flag. struggling with intimacy, even in a loving relationship, can be awful at times. i don't see how this falls under LGB since anyone, straight or not, can have these issues.
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>>1845757Hi, nona, I have SZPD and considered myself asexual for the longest time.
I am also autistic, so relationships are hard for me. I've been through a lot of abuse from guys wanting to date me and "fix me" because I didn't really want to have sex.
After a lot of growth, I still suck at relationships, but I finally accepted things I am horny for. The disconnect is lessening.
These past years I have figured out I am bi, actually, and always were. But I would never date a man again probably, because of being heavily traumatized by them. I have sexual fantasies about fucking dudes plenty, but I have decided that I will never touch a man sexually ever again. Too much hussle.
So I am one of those bi's who everyone seems to think is a lesbian, just because I am a black-pilled radfem with a lot of trauma.
Sure, thinking about dick and masturbating to those thoughts can be nice once in a while, but dating a guy and fucking a guy? No. Even if I am actually attracted to him. Because I know how this shit ends.
I generally stopped giving a single fuck about how to label myself either sexually or by way of gender. Since "bi with trauma about men" is kind of a ridiculous thing to tell anybody? And concerning gender, I can only say by myself that I am GNC, since it includes pretty well my indefference to existing gender roles and me not understanding why we need gender at all, when just having a biological sex should be enough and you can do whatever you wan already and look however you want wihout transing yourself??
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if you tell a straight woman that not fucking in the first date doesn't make her lgb, you are in fact a terf. hope this helps
No. 1846012
>>1845691>When I was younger, I used to think I was “broken” or “frigid” but now I understand that it is just my orientation.lol
>>1845662If they want asexuality to be grouped with other sexualities wouldn't the definition be "no attraction to either biological sex"? it seems like it requires split attraction retardation (aka tranny nonsense) to work. Im really starting to hate them it is just NLOG bullshit. Way to throw other women under the bus who wont adopt your retarded fake identities
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No. 1846069
>>1845606I'm not shitting you my long-time "asexual" friend tried saying she's actually demisexual after getting her first boyfriend. Demisexual is absolutely a label for straight people wanting to be special. She was also the only asexual I knew closely and it was obvious her "sexuality" was just a cope for her only attracting ugly nerds she wasn't attracted to herself. Once a decent guy showed interest she was all over him.
I don't get how they even think demisexual would be a sexuality, it's literally a dating preference, they're still attracted either to men or women… It has no logic.
No. 1846244
>>1845693One of my favorite tumblr sagas. Straight people would call themselves “heteroromantic asexual” and claim they belonged in the “queer” community because of it. There was a famous unhinged post from one of them that went viral where they made up a story about how in the future a sexually transmitted disease would kill all the “allos” leaving all the pure sexy aces to rule the world. I remember that one being particularly cringe.
>>1842331There’s this line from Captain Hook -
>been texting with a bi chick>we both freaky just trying shitI’m not sure about Megan but to me she seems kinda curious about women at the very least. Feels more genuine than some of these celebrities who whine about being totally bi and queer and enby etc.
No. 1846271
>>1846105literally which is why asexuality was and is initially a good term for people who feel that way realizing "oh ok it's not just me then" and finding some peace in that. but the idea that it is as oppressed as being lgbt was a huge farce and mistake. so was the idea that it's not simply a phase for some people. what a mess. of course it can just be a phase. that's fine. some people are only uninterested in sex and dating because they are literally gay or lesbian and don't realize it yet. so it can be a good way to stand your ground against comp het for those young women who are feeling like "im not really sure if I like girls tbh…it's hard for me to picture myself with a girl or having sex it feels wrong… but I definitely don't like guys!" some people of course are just aroace. but 9 times out of 10 thats just repression!
others are uninterested in dating and sex despite being young adults because they are developmentally delayed or socially delayed in some way. they might not have any desire for it at the same time their peers do, then years later those desires crop up for them. pretty typical for "high functioning" type autism to eventually have most of the same life and personal milestones as other people, just plugging along on a their "own" unique sort of timeline compared to most of their age group.
one of the only reasons it makes sense to include aroace or het ace people in pride demonstrations is as lgbt straight allies, because many of them may realize they were actually gay and repressed. being involved in a gay community irl may help them realize that and may help like closeted lesbians realize "oh so THIS is the kind of woman i'm attracted to. and this is what lesbian couples are like. yes i can see that for myself wholeheartedly". many straight allies in general have this realization and got involved in helping the cause because something in them felt drawn to the community. tho rarely the extra performative and attention whoring ones notorious on this thread
No. 1846283
>>1846271tldr "asexuals marching for 'ace rights'" at pride is ridiculous. but asexuals marching as allies is a great idea. "asexuals for gay and lesbian rights!" is reasonable and nice. maybe more importantly can introduce the pretty significant numbers of repressed young gay people who identify as ace to other gay and lesbian people.
(cause sometimes just not seeing yourself in anyone you know irl can cause a lot of repression) so actually meeting lesbian women who are fully out and with their girlfriends can be a huge turning point in breaking down that mental barrier and realizing "oh that's me"
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>>1845691>>1845882Maven is a somewhat personal cow of mine, I used to watch her Vampire reviews,(cause I'm interested in that stuff). Although she would made some occasional wokeoid statements, I never thought much of it. However, when I saw her appear on "Queer Kids Stuff" (that "trans kids" channel with the teddy bear), I started looking into her more more. It turns out that she identifies as ace for a decade now but still enjoys sexualizing herself, as evidenced by photos where her breasts are front and center and her face is caked in makeup
(sage your shit) No. 1846344
>>1845298you described this mechanic very well. similar to educated, upper middle class asians (esp women) who buy into similar rhetoric and end up making
victims out of themselves being asian with kweer/spicy straight shit mixed in for double oppresion points.
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Demi Lovato ‘got tired’ of using ‘they/them’ pronouns: ‘It was absolutely exhausting’
https://pagesix.com/2023/06/14/demi-lovato-got-tired-of-using-they-them-pronouns/Demi Lovato switched back to identifying as “she/her” in addition to “they/them” because she “got tired” of explaining the meaning behind the latter pronouns.
“I constantly had to educate people and explain why I identified with those pronouns. It was absolutely exhausting,” the “Cool for the Summer” singer told GQ Hype Spain in an interview published Tuesday.
“I just got tired. But for that very reason I know that it is important to continue spreading the word.”
No. 1846625
>>1842132I don't believe he's bi for several reasons. Most importantly, if you follow his videos, this man is utterly desperate to appear relevant to young people. More so than John, who only posts his videos and disappears. Hank is constantly attention whoring on Twitter and now TikTok. He wants to be the good ally, and he's been thwarted by being a dirty cishet white guy for years.
A lot of straights don't realize that attraction to the same sex is just like attraction to the opposite sex, and they take any minor sign of aesthetic interest as evidence of being bi. This happened to me; I thought I was bi because I liked seeing busty women, but I never wanted to date or have sex with any woman, not even the ones I thought were hot. And the women I was mostly attracted to were super hot women, not normal women you see every day. On the contrary, I easily get crushes on random guys around me. You could be charitable and call me bihet, but it's a far cry from actually loving women. Thinking a guy you knew was cute doesn't make an otherwise straight guy gay.
That's the other thing - notice that he's talking about a celebrity, someone whose job is to be hot. He's not talking about some cute guy he saw on the street, he's talking about someone famous for being hot. Only being attracted to celebrities/models and not normal people is a sign you're not really SSA imo. And even worse, he's doing the thing people do where they talk about how Queerz and Straightz are so different, like it's a club. This is a huge red flag, I know so many fakers like this who talk about how "straights just don't understand fashion like us" (pic of a normal feminine outfit from tumblr). Getting deep into cultural aspects of 'queerness' before actually being attracted to normal people is a sign they think it's a club.
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>>1846439this is so fucking true, it's an obvious psyop. typical male "feminists" kek the only reason a man would ever identify as such is to get easier access to women, it's a form of cuttlefishing.
No. 1846695
>>1846564>"having to access the women's bathroom, even though I don't completely identify with it."i don't think most people enjoy using any public restrooms and don't, uhh "identify" with using any
>>1846692i also think it could just be a form of benign envy- instead of "wanting her" it could be "wanting to be her". whatever happened to the terms "man/woman crush"? i've only thought of myself as straight because i am, but lots of straight women would likely say there's more attractive women on average when compared to the amount of attractive men. a lot of women are just cute/attractive, it doesn't ever make a woman bi to acknowledge reality.
>>1846625agree, dude isn't bi. maybe he was bicurious at one point trying to kiss a male friend. staring at a man/woman you think is good looking is normal imo, i stare at and enjoy complimenting cute girls because i appreciate how they look, it's not always an indicator that you actually want someone.
No. 1846711
>>1846692very important point. however i can attest that i started out feeling that way too. aroused by images of hot women especially breasts or exceptionally hot women irl. so believed I was straight. and kind of flexible in arousal like "most straight women" , i was told.
after that over time (i mean over the past 5-10 years after accepting that i have some gay urges) i have found myself getting real crushes on random women i know or meet irl and find myself feeling real sexual attraction on regular normal looking irl women i know. i've been more able to imagine myself in a relationship with a girl, tho that part is always tricky because i've been in a happy het relationship for 10 years so the idea of being with any other guy or any girl is discomforting.
then in hindsight i remembered all the times i wanted to kiss regular girls who were my friend. the times friends and i kissed and touched each other when alone before i met my bf. i wrote all that off as "things all straight women like to do" but idk man. it's not like j was around guys trying to show off! i wanted to get sexually intimate with my friends for real and had little crushes on them and kinda just buried it. cause my feelings for guys were at that point stronger and way more clear cut to deal with. after all i had been open to the idea of liking men since i was born and taught that's what a couple is. i had only accepted the other thing in myself for a few years and some i had only been openly and consciously considering it for a few years at that point. in a way, of course those feelings were weaker?
very sorry for blog posting but point being now i do wonder if i am technically bi (as in thats how i was born. i consider my lifestyle very straight for all intents and purposes).
i am starting to think that sexual repression under compulsive heterosexuality can be insanely mind altering. for me all these un-pornified natural feelings and attraction for women in my life came up for me the longer I accepted the possibility of being bi and not being afraid of that possibility.
(more blog shit context on my repression: the first time i felt attracted to a woman in that way as a pubescent teen i got so nervous about my future and being accepted for something i can't control i went to bed crying and begging god and myself that i wasn't a lesbian. cause i already knew that life would be really hard if i was one. and could tell I would have a lot of self esteem and fear of being judged or seen as wrong and gross if was!) that's a pretty powerful thought and behavior suppressant if you're bi and a woman. if you can still find romantic and sexual fulfillment with guys and be accepted nothing not even loneliness is forcing you to question that conditioning. not until maybe years and decades later when some feelings you can't ignore or explain away happens
No. 1846716
>>1846625>That's the other thing - notice that he's talking about a celebrity, someone whose job is to be hot. He's not talking about some cute guy he saw on the street, he's talking about someone famous for being hot.the issue with this tho is no one (especially when trying to be professional. especially with that massive sized platform and online fame) is going to publicly name a random person irl they caught feelings for. that would be insane. the only example you can bring up is a celebrity crush or vaguely reference a childhood crush since enough time has passed for it to not matter. he named both those things.
>Only being attracted to celebrities/models and not normal people is a sign you're not really SSA imowholeheartedly agree and if that's all you or anyone is feeling you know it's not real attraction. but hank green or other public figure being private and only naming a celebrity same sex crush to protect everyone's privacy def doesn't mean those other private irl crushes don't exist. it's just way too not his fans business. it's just inconclusive
No. 1846726
>>1846716same anon but he's also married! he cant even namelessly allude to a man he knows irl that he has or recently had a crush on without potentially insulting and disrespecting his wife and potentially causing people to question his commitment. extramarital feelings do happen even when you are very in love. but it would be fucked up and unkind to just blab that publically and potentially humiliate your partner in the process as people speculate about the strength of your relationship and if she's "satisfying" you well enough and all else!
he truly has no other option than to mention the kid he liked at summer camp before they even met and his "celebrity crush my wife knows about and we jokingly gave each other permission to act on it given the chance which is never gonna happen anyway" because that's a playful thing most couples comfortably and publically can have
No. 1846735
>>1846721yea that makes sense for how sexuality develops under social expectations for a lot of people. i imagine some straight boys experience this and outgrow it if they're able to break through the women as objects conditioning (challenge level impossible. kidding tho i mean some do enough to the extent that their idea of a beautiful woman expands to mean a real person and a blow up doll or airbrushed model or anime waifu just is kinda gross or does nothing for them).
for me, (anon who started having crushes on irl women friends and intimate urges with normal irl later in life after accepting myself for a while, but liked more pornographic depictions of women initially) i didn't have any crushes on any boys growing up. very rarely only on fictional men and one celeb because he reminded me of said fictional man. i used to try to force myself to imagine maybe liking a guy in my class because it seemed fun / like everyone was doing it. in my teen years i had crushes and sexual urges for girls in my class and close female friends , but still mild enough to write it off as friendship & "straight girl sexual flexibility".
it wasn't until i was 18-19 i had very sudden and intense crushes on guys id met at college and vivid sexual urges for the first time on a few guys i knew and liked. these were all undeniably genuine, nothing like the times i had tried to convince myself to like boys at school or anime boy shit. and it was way more intense and obvious than what i was simultaneously feeling for a few of my female friends (despite literally hooking up in private) so i thought that just meant i liked guys more or was straight.
now i feel like the guy option is more conditioned my entire life and safer, so once i felt it, it came out more pronounced. now j feel like the whole "all straight girls are flexible and think about kissing their best friends. men aren't as flexible because of (bullshit psuedoscience" is some kind of bullshjt conspiracy to keep bi women as good little het housewives.
all of the female friends i fooled around with intimately and had significant crushes on in late hs and college came out as lesbian later or bi. i had some straight girl crushes but they were less intense and obviously we never did anything. it's almost like even when you don't know youre gay gay people can find each other
my (happily straight married) mom were discussing how a few of my closest childhood female friends are out as gay and with women now. she told me recently about this older girl in high school (that imo she obviously had a massive crush on that she was jsut magnetically drawn to and always thinking about and admiring.) and told me the girl ended up coming out as a lesbian after college and married a woman. which my mom felt was ironic as she was so stunning and feminine and all the boys liked her, but she was happy for her. i told her it's ok to have had a little crush, but she kept saying "oh all women feel that way sometimes". idk mom. maybe they don't.
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ty farmhands. back to the milk
i live hiw that sort of posts basically admits that they love the "queer" label because they can have all the cool quirky identities and
victim status without even having anything to do with actual icky gay stuff!
but then the moment they get bored with it or actually face difficulties they can just ditch the whole larp like
>>1846564 No. 1846963
>>1846271 I've meet people who are indefinitely aroace and nothing has changed over the years. its very plausible there's people out there who find neither sex romantically or sexually attractive and they aren't all just gay and don't know it yet. aces themselves don't claim they're oppressed either, just that it's a very misunderstood sexuality and they just want others who arent aware to know its not necessarily due to a cause of internalized homophobia, trauma, or spicy straights who just dont like sex/low libido.
it's considered LGBT because it's a non normative sexuality/sexual minority. lack of attraction is deemed as abnormal in society, or is assumed to be a sign of something deeply troubling. true that could be the case for others but it isnt impossible or wrong for someone to just want strictly platonic companionship.
No. 1846999
>>1845691Married woman with multiple bio kids, addicted to romance stories with much hotter men than her husband who she feels no lust towards anymore = asexual
I know of a married woman in fandom with 3 kids who reads m/m fic everyday, and she calls herself ace. A lot of women in that fandom call themselves queer while having bfs or being married to men while exclusively reading m/m fic kek
No. 1849327
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this shit is spreading.
No. 1849344
>>1849327They have to be trolling.
Not to race bait or anything but like black,spanish,middle eastern,and asians really seem like the last to be accepting of this shit in real life outside of Twitter and stuff.
No. 1849345
>>1849327They have to be trolling.
Not to race bait or anything but like black,spanish,middle eastern,and asians really seem like the last to be accepting of this shit in real life outside of Twitter and stuff.
No. 1849348
>>1849345you would be surprised lol virtually all
POC in the furry community are exactly this. I know furries are degenerates to begin with but still, in nerdy subcultures at least it’s definitely not just white people.
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>>1846564She's such an idiot
No. 1849409
>>1849345troon larpers really sold their appeal to
POC by always comparing their gender feelings to racism, the same way they did w the LGB and homophobia. A really popular myth troons have been spreading for years now is that many
POC cultures recognized more than 2 genders and so were of course super egalitarian and that the white man taught them the "gender binary" when he colonized them. It's the old "noble savage" trope, just dressed up for modern sensibilities.
In reality the cultures that recognized more than 2 genders had stricter gender roles and the 3rd gender role was often "gay/feminine men" who were deemed too unmanly to stay in their original role. There's like, no 2nd gender option for women either, so only men were "allowed" that relative choice to opt out.
No. 1849417
>>1846963>aces dont claim theyre oppressedyouve met somewhat normal people, which are the minority of aces. every ace ive seen compares their plight of being a virgin to homophobia and always implies theyre just as part of the lgb. in fact, they claim that people not knowing or not taking asexuality seriously is oppression on a similar scale as the kinds that the lgb faces. if you saw the number of "gays are PRVILEDGED to be recognized enough to even be attacked for it" posts ive seen… lmao. theyre always throwing tantrums about how no one will listen to them, after spending the entirety of their identity's existence bitching and moaning about filthy disgusting gay people, because don't you know, to them ALL sex is disgusting, they're definitely not targeting the sodomites! especially after they gave themselves a free pass to never work on their homophobia again - because why would they, when they're just as oppressed as the gays? any homophobia is ~horizontal aggression~ at worst, and a deserved comeuppance at best because some kid once laughed at them for being an obnoxious virgin one time
they consider themselves lgbt because of low libido and a need to be more special than just straight, and its still a very recent development. A still stands for ally despite what those attention seekers say. if they want me to take them seriously, they should make a group separate from the lgb and handle themselves for a few years first
the lgb community started as a political rally for the rights of same-sex attracted people. and the widdle acey beans refuse to acknowledge any of the differences between them and us and see us as just a parade to invite themselves to
No. 1849531
>>1849327Bisexual moid and a themie. I don't even have to check their profiles, I just know.
>>1849348This.
POC moids in nerdy spaces are almost just as degen as their white counterparts, they're just better at hiding it.
No. 1849542
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>>1849376Have you ever noticed it's always straight femme women that go "they/them"? They must really want to hop onto the LGBT bandwagon to not be left out and that's the easiest option for them.
They're almost always like this. They can't even attempt to be butch or understand what that is, much less being a tomboy and have a hard time grasping what "gender neutral" would even look like. It's always tits out, a full face of makeup, and something just slightly quirky like short hair. I guess very short hair makes you a "them" now.
>>1846564She is such a straight. She really doesn't understand this hurts the LGB when you come out, then go "just kidding". She doesn't comprehended LGB people can't just backtrack and leave that life when it's inconvenient to them.
No. 1849553
>>1849450The aroace community does claim to be oppressed, look up their claims of conversion therapy or that the very fact that people doubt their oppression counts as oppression because they’re being “erased’.
The aroace community claims you can have queer platonic partners you can kiss, and there are aces who can have sex, seek it out, and even enjoy it. “as long as you don’t experience sexual desire then it’s still asexuality!”
Having low libido is not a sexual orientation, and not finding someone who happens to match with you romantically doesn’t mean you’re literally incapable of experiencing romantic feelings.
The percentage of people who can actually go through literally 0 sexual and romantic attraction is so tiny and it’s often caused by trauma, it doesn’t have any merit being included in the LGB acronym, anymore than vegans who are grossed out by the idea of partnering with a meat eater (and therefore will have trouble ever dating properly) belongs in the acronym. There are furries who have no interest in non furries but live in the middle of nowhere and will likely reach their 50s alone. Are they a sexual minority?
No. 1849566
>>1849553How did aces turn low libido, not currently dating, and celibacy into a gender alignment? How is their "erasure" anything like how gays and lesbians are not even wanted in media or discussions? How is "being told to date" oppression like how gays and lesbians can literally get killed in some countries for being open?
I swear to god, if LGB doesn't cut off all the T and everyone under the +, it's going to erode decades of hard work. It's already doing that recently.
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I know the flags been fucked up for a while but this is hilarious. Had to check it wasnt a joke account, they are very real and very serious.
(I know the person is intersex but still the sentiment they are pushing supports thread topic)
No. 1849752
>>1849553disagree with it or not, the point is they're considered apart of the community because they have a non normative sexuality. that's what the current lgbt+ community is about anyways.
it's less about lack of a libido as its about lack of general attraction. libido is just how bodies function, it doesn't have anything inherently to do with sexual attraction itself.
again maybe it's just from the ones I've meet, but they don't claim oppression, but would rather have others have a better understanding of being ace/aro means and knowing it's fine to feel that way.
I don't agree with some minority of them claiming oppression but I can not for the life of me understand why others give a shit and immediately assume it's sex drive problems or trauma that made them that way.
No. 1849791
>>1846963>>1849752>lgbt+>uwu asexuality is misunderstood>lgb is about anything weird or freaky!fuck back off to tumblr, you're precisely what this thread makes fun of.
"queer" is dliberately vague pomo bullshit for snowflakes to insert themselves where they don'tt belong. if there isn't any degree of same-sex attraction then you're not part of the community.
>>1849664it's just hilarious to me how peple keep missing the point of the rainbow. a rainbow is already all inclusive because it has every component of visible light! but i guess it's too associated with the mean oppresive gatekeeping transphobic gays
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>>1849327why do male spicy straights always look like this? its a look that transcends race and amount of facial hair.
No. 1850115
>>1849752>they're considered apart of the community because they have a non normative sexuality.So is piss drinking and furries who only date other furries; a lack of sexuality isn’t a sexuality just like a lack of religion/atheism isn’t a religion. Asexuality/celibacy/not wanting to fucking for whatever reason has fuck all to do with same-sex attracted people and the community they made originally to fight for their rights, not to be quirky and different and make up flags as an artsy hobby. Same reason transgenders don’t actually belong in a community anymore when all they have to do to claim oppression despite being a whole bearded man is putting “she/it” on their Instagram and get an ugly dye job. They were supposed to be a part of the “community” when they shared struggled as gender non-conforming same-sex attracted people, before the autogynephile fetishistic delusional women-erasing aspect took over. Neither them nor “aces” have necessarily anything to do with same-sex attracted people and their social issues.
You’re going hard to defend the very people this thread is criticizing about. You realize that, right?
> can not for the life of me understand why others give a shit and immediately assume it's sex drive problems or trauma that made them that way.The amount of ‘ace’ women vs ‘ace’ men says it all.
No. 1853374
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Not sure how to embed instagram reels but this one is a doozy
if any nonnies can point me to where I can learn I'll be grateful I can't find it anywhereThe caption for this instagram reel is "SUPER GAY POST BC 3 WHOLE YEARS OF GAY WITH YOU".
Picrel is the poster's comment on the video.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtkJ8gVgsGj/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== No. 1853409
>>1850103I've known multiple she/theys who get extremely angry when not enough people refer to them as "they", to the point where they prefer people alternate between the two within the same sentence so that it's even
It's so nonsensical and self-obsessed
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Apparently if an obnoxious man and an obnoxious woman get together and have the same haircut it means they are in “a very gay relationship”
The dude outright saying he is straight but calling it bisexuality is my favourite part
No. 1858290
>>1850115My only argument to this is that lesbians (and women-leaning bisexual women) and self-declared "ace" women often face several of the same societal pressures, namely that of that they are broken somehow in not wanting to have sex with a moid and should be corrected on that front. Hell, even some of the posts in this thread verge very close to "if ace women have just the right kind of sex, they'll be cured!" which is a very corrective rape thing that I've heard too many times as a lesbian.
Do I think that the spicy straights have coopted the term? Absolutely. Do I think that aces deserve to be in the rainbow? Ehhh, debatable. But I do think that offering specifically ace women sanctuary in sapphic spaces for whatever reason they are choosing it, trauma or repression or whathaveyou, isn't a bad thing. As long as the moids stay out.
No. 1858352
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>what does it mean
It means you’re bi and you have a thing for socially awkward coomers.
No. 1858568
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What does Ace even mean at this point?
No. 1858593
>>1858568This reeks of, "well, this is what the gays asked for, so we have to ask for it too!"
Like, any thought to this for more than a few seconds would have someone asking what rights and protections do they not have? What kind of change do asexuals even need? Not being bullied on the internet?
No. 1858643
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>>1858568There was a Ace Pride March in my city recently. They interviewed the founder woman, and she started by saying that asexuals are not taken seriously, but by the end of the interview she told about how she (and by extention,all aces) still has sex "for their partner's sake, for intimacy or because there's nothing good on TV". It really just sounds like you're just in a generic hetero relationship, lady.
No. 1858987
>>1858290>>1858732>>1858732It takes an
insane amount of gaslighting & brainwashing to make women want to have sex with men, i.e. one of the most dangerous things we could ever do. Moids had to invent global patriarchy to keep us dependent on them so we'd give them access to our bodies. Think about how many women around the world would simply go their own way if they had any choice, and hadn't been raised since birth to believe it was their destiny to serve a moid and have his babies. Plenty of het women will even admit they hate sex with their male partners but don't feel like they have any choice. For that reason alone I support safe spaces for all women who are avoiding moids for any reason, no questions asked. And that includes ace and het women.
No. 1859395
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I didn't know who this dude was until yt kept shilling his Sailor Star Fighter cosplay, but he apparently uses all the pronouns… isn't he just a gay man? And I don't understand why a gay grown ass man is cosplaying 12 year old Wednesday Adams in a weirdly sexual way and receiving nothing but praise for it. I'm not even saying that a woman should be allowed to do the same, but I feel like a woman would receive way more backlash for this. Linking because its a yt short.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4T1DSsOfpjAI also hated his Sailor Star Fighter cosplay and how everyone licked his ass for it. The Starlights were women disguised as men, not trannies or gay men in obvious fucking denial. Yeah, Toei fucked up in the 90s and made them "transform into women" but any idiot with an internet connection can google and see that they're not men. Sorry if this doesn't belong here, but I didn't think he'd belong in the tranny thread.
No. 1881838
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Is it just me or are normie lib/lefty starting to more widely mock spicy straights? The QT in picrel is from a radfem but I scrolled through and virtually all of the replies were calling this woman out for calling herself gay while being married to a man. I feel like even as recent as 2020 the responses would’ve been way different/anti-“gatekeeping”.
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Thought of this thread
No. 1902748
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Asexual activist Yasmin Benoit is complaining about how a character she made that is asexual for the super woke netflix show sex education was turned into a villain.
The character in question was getting hate from the shows watchers for being insufferable and using her asexuality as an excuse for everything wrong she does. Maybe Yasmin should take this as a hint that she is annoying kek.
No. 1902752
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>>1902748Samefagging but she is just mad that everyone hates her self insert
No. 1902759
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>>1842341>>Lady Gaga is bi in the "I thought about kissing a girl once, so that totally makes me a part of the LGB community" way and for liberal cred.Me, but it's strictly Gillian Anderson. I had to realize how stupid it would be to call myself bi or queer just because I want to solve mysteries under the moonlight with Gillian.
No. 1902796
>>1902748>>1902786I just can't understand how you're oppressed for not being sexually attracted to people, or how people made an identity out of it in the first place. No one's gonna know that you're asexual unless you tell them, and the only cases in which you need to tell someone is if you get into a relationship. It's like being a vegan or not drinking alcohol.
It's funny how this season tried so hard to focus on queer storylines, yet the most interesting characters were either straight or LGB. The queer and spicy straight characters spent majority of the time making woke speeches while not really doing anything or facing any obstacles, which ironically represents their community so well, kek.
No. 1902805
>>1902796To be fair there is massive pressure for women to consent to all sex in a relationship. To the point people don't believe rape can happen within a relationship.
But if yasmin is anything like that character then she is a genuinely horrible person. That character literally spent the entire season ignoring people she bullied and bringing up her asexuality everytime she called out. The fact that Yasmin thinks adding a scene about "acephobic bullying" to justify bullying would make people like her character more shows she lacks self awareness. Yasmin is probably a chronic gaslighter
No. 1902852
>>1902748Thanks for posting this, she's so deluded it cracks me up. And she's no doubt one of those asexuals that
does have sex, but says 'oh, but I'm not sexually attracted to people's physical appearance like those other
sluts'.
No. 1906675
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>>1903165Of course her son J ran away for the 3rd time in the 2 month time frame. This time he doesnt have his phone with him. This is really bad guys. Meanwhile the egg donor of a mother is on instagram fishing for pity.
No. 1907185
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What is up with all of these kpop fans that are convinced they’re lesbians yet never thirst over women, want to fuck random kpop men and are obsessed with comphet. This account is just an example but there are tons
No. 1907258
>>1907185KEK people were so
triggered by that OP. Hilarious to see the kind of people insisting in the QRTs that lesbians love dick (spicy straights in denial).
No. 1907420
>>1907238I see this with ethan from måneskin a lot. he's not asian or a k-pop idol (he's italian and in a rock band) and has never indicated considering himself anything other than male. but tons of fauxbians in the fandom are convinced they can lust over him and still be lesbians because he has long hair which makes him female coded or something.
he's not even feminine in anyway he's just a guy with long hair
No. 1908425
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I’m seriously begging women who post things like this to just accept their bisexuality. If you’re even acknowledging you’re between being straight or a lesbian, “bisexual” is right there.
https://reddit.com/r/latebloomerlesbians/s/fuzsg4rHLe No. 1908471
>>1907185>>1907238Fauxbians like this are as bad as troons in using queer theory language to enforce the most regressive gender stereotypes you’ll ever see outside an evangelical church. And the rampant bi erasure isn’t very woke of them either. If being attracted to effeminate men with long hair = “lesbian coded”, does my attraction to butchy muscle girls make me straight? Damn, I guess I’m a comphet
victim too! Kek
No. 1908567
>>1908432Sperg but I blame popular culture/the media from as early as the 70s portraying het relationships as always on the brink of breaking up or with a
toxic dynamic as well as the recent trend of “straight people are boring/bigoted/yucky/etc.” coming from social media and 2020s TV
No. 1908936
>>1908768How
Gay men do not consume lesbian porn lol
No. 1911247
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Ah yes, the epitome of "not straight" is when women dare to go without makeup and men have long hair. that makes sense.
No. 1911259
>>1911247They're so delusional, literally the only "unconventional" thing about them is… she has shaved hair? The guy doesn't even have "feminine" hair.
I can't help but wonder, when other troons and theythems see couples like this and they're so obviously a straight normal couple who thinks they're the epitome of queer doesn't it make them realize how deluded they look too?
No. 1911268
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>>1911247Being ugly and poorly dressed doesn't make you less straight.
No. 1914999
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this might be niche but has anyone noticed this bi4bi thing? So a bi man with a bi woman (or whatever gender identity idk). A lot of people in book/other media communities say they’re looking for bi4bi rep and I’m just like…. So you want to see a heteroSEXual ship?
maybe im just being picky but
No. 1915011
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>>1914884the holy trinity is easier to grasp than this shit
No. 1915339
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>>1914884I feel like I'm incurring brain damage looking at the comments on that tweet.
No. 1915351
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Same anon as
>>1914884 >>1915346 love how these people will call others uneducated but when challenged and given a chance to explain/educate they just say “LEMME DO WHAT I WANT” (repost cuz bad wording last time)
No. 1915400
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Straight boyfriend stays as straight. More at 11.
No. 1915486
>>1915021probably the same people who say queer ships are better, straight ships are boring
scramble to headcanon them as bi4bi so they don’t have cognitive dissonance lol
ridiculous
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>>1915571>>1915581I swear most of the time these TIFs never had to deal with PCOS to see by themselves the risk of T in their bodies. I bet they would whine they want to have PCOS while ignoring the painful periods, no one believing "is THAT painful" and the endo.
No. 1916644
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This group is balls to the wall insane, peep a woman whose 3 months pregnant asking how to bring a woman into her relationship and a fellow woman promoting paid rape as a compromise. Bonus, in the comments one woman writes
>just here to add that I’m 36 weeks pregnant and been a cuckquean my entire pregnancy (crown emoji) it’s been amazing!
No. 1916709
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No. 1916817
>>1916709The phrasing here is so weird, she likes "admiring other women" like she knows women are all generally better looking than men are, and most people agree they are eye candy, and that doesn't make you gay? Most art is of women, most advertising, most models, it's because women are pretty.
Like she clearly doesn't want to touch a woman or have a relationship with one, no mention of emotions. Just boobs being located a safe distance away.
I feel like some of these "bi" women genuinely believe that anything other than revulsion or indifference to other women makes them gay. Like the most regimented view of sexuality possible where merely looking at someone has inferred sexual meaning.
Either that or they are so lacking in personality they need to drum up any mildly unusual one to prove how wacky they are.
No. 1917155
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Any woman who refers to that accursed PDF loses any kind of credibility.
No. 1917289
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the fact this is a straight woman…
No. 1917481
>>1917291>describing your own art as disabledlol, lmao even. I get calling your art queer and neurodivergent but disa-
>looks at the artOk carry on it's a perfect description. It looks like a child made it in mspaint in ten minutes, I haven't seen art this bad for so long, it's almost nostalgic
No. 1917864
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Imagine this absolute moron being someone's actual mother(she has 4 kids btw)
No. 1917899
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>>1917871According to this she has 8.
No. 1917953
I can't wrap my head around someone pretending to be bi. People, both gay and straight, are so vile to bisexuals (including a few anons itt kek)
>>1842133would probably be shorter to list celebs that are 'verifiably bi' (as in, have had long term relationships with both men and women). Only ones I can think of are Amber Heard and Rebel Wilson, but I don't really know much about celebrities.
No. 1918633
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I joined a “sapphic” meme group on FB and thought there’d be more actual lesbian content, but instead it’s constant exposure to shit like this. I know nonnas. Idk what I expected. Picrel was a comment on a post about someone’s female enby partner not wanting to identify as a lesbian. I don’t know how people get to this point of delusion.
No. 1918831
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Tamsyn Muir's wikipedia page got edited to remove this little factoid. Never 4get.
No. 1918845
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>>1918842He's a classics professor at Oxford. If you're wondering how someone like that marries someone like that, the answer is he used to write Homestuck fanfiction (his username was paratactician)
No. 1918916
>>1918891I only read the first one and it was good but it wasn't like "the best thing ever" it also reads a bit like Tumblr OC, so seeing all this about the author was not at all surprising.
I read a lot of fantasy and it was cool to have a primarily women cast but it was a bit to edge lordy for me to continue the series.
No. 1918917
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>>1918898yeah, these 'lesbian with an exception' types always go for ugly moids.
No. 1920172
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>>1915400this bitch is so annoying, made money in tech and moved to brooklyn to be an art ho
No. 1920729
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I've never seen a gay person say their sexuality was oh so fluid and complex, it's always the spicy straights who say dumb shit like this.
No. 1921009
>>1918831>>1918845Haven't you guys heard of "lavender marriages"? It says Muir is a practicing Catholic. And she describes her husband as a moirail
>>1918839 which is a word for super emotionally supportive best friend. Unless otherwise stated, we can assume they're in a Josephite marriage.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Josephite_marriage There is a Josephite marriage (
Palamedes and Camilla) in her books.
Muir isn't calling herself a lesbian while having sex with a male, like the others in this thread. I don't see evidence that she's faking being a lesbian. Unless you're required to be sexually active with a girlfriend to be a lesbian, in which case frankly a lot of us wouldn't be true lesbians.
No. 1921066
>>1921044Lavender marriage is for hiding sexual preference, but Josephite marriage isn't necessarily.
Some people want the benefits of sex without the commitment of marriage. Maybe some people want the commitment of marriage, without the sex. If they met online, and he's at Oxford or whatever and she's in NZ, then maybe marriage helps visa/citizenship.
No. 1921190
>>1921009Girl, she's married to a literal man. This isn't the 1800s, she could marry a woman if she actually wanted to. The platonic marriage thing is something her fans on reddit came up with as a cope, she's never described the relationship that way (beyond once calling him her 'moirail', a fictional relationship dynamic from the webcomic homestuck which is described as being 'paler' than romantic attraction, which fans sometimes interpret to mean platonic, but which is, again, fictional). She refers to him as her 'beloved spouse' in interviews (carefully avoiding any pronouns), she dedicates all her books to him (PT, which is a shortened version of his AO3 handle kek) and they both live in Oxford, presumably together.
Until I see any evidence to the contrary I'm going to assume your favourite lesbian scifi author is fucking a man, sorry.
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Anybody else finds it hilarious how many 'queer' people were so quick to jump on the anti-Israel trend on twatter?(stop)
No. 1921344
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i think they're faking being a couple or gay at all
No. 1921376
>>1918633So like they are gay in their heads or something I don't get it? Like she is imagining he's a woman and he's imagining she's a man? Is this homosexuality for people who live in backwards places where it's essentially illegal to be gay? I'm struggling to understand like straight sex between two opposite sex people is straight even if said people are bi.
I need this thread to be derailed by some spicy straights because I need an explanation kek
No. 1921382
>>1921376no they're definitely just a normal quirky straight couple except they both have genderfeels and identify as nonbinary so they unironically think that they're totally ghey for each other. I'd bet that neither of them are even bisexual. unfortunately I know people who behave like this irl
>>1921344tbh I haven't seen either of their videos in 3+ years but I just assume that it's gotta be some shit like they used to date but now they just live together as friends and fuck other people. but they definitely used to be a couple
No. 1921912
>>1921344my tinfoil is actually that dan came out after they'd broken up. they both clearly had repressed issues so I feel like if they'd never broken up they'd probably have never come out (and think phill only did cause dan had). Their relationship always seemed a lot more than two guy friends. Like if you compare their relationship to the smosh guys who also lived together for example you can see a whole lot more codependency between dan and phill. granted it could be their (dan especially) mental health issues that created that dynamic but most people around that time were willing to lean into gaybaiting but oddly enough, despite obviously centering each other in their videos, they seemingly hated the "phandom" and routinely ranted about the shipping to the point that a lot of shippers hated their feelings on the matter. Also phill posted then deleted a "joke" romantic video towards dan circa 2012/13(?) and I'll be honest, phill can't act so I believe phill had genuine feelings towards dan at that point (I'll see if I can find it if anyone is interested). that video was what made me think they were probably together but considering how
triggered they were at the thought of them being a couple figured they were repressed as shit and might never come out, especially because the fans would go apeshit if they admitted to a relationship and public youtube relationships pretty much always ended in a firestorm. They also legitimately grew their lives together for a long time despite phill being old and obviously successful enough to have not needed a "roommate" even if an argument could be made that dan did.
If they wanted to capitalise on gaybaiting they would have come out earlier and probably wouldn't have gotten as
triggered by fans constantly asking about a relationship between them. Though I know obviously they could still hate it but leaned into it now since they're increasingly irrelevant but iirc phill made some poetic posts about his and dan's relationship in regards to basically being a close friend-soulmate he'll always hold close to his heart but indicated that that era was over around dan's coming out video which gave me the impression he was going through some things and dan probably ended
something between them. despite being older i think phill was more attached to dan than the other way around even if dan probably can't operate without another person taking over the adult side of things.
Sure this could all be part of their fujo pandering but it seems weird to be pandering and then ranting at phan ships then make cryptic breakup posts around the first coming out video with the second being a year apart instead of riding on the hype train. granted I didn't watch most of their content and haven't in years even pre-coming out so maybe they were leaning hard and I missed it but their old stuff didn't seem like they were trying to pander to anyone and just seemingly lived very codependent lives that dan occasionally seemed to freak out about.
No. 1922725
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at first I thought Yasmin Benoit was a troll, she seems too retarded to be for real. now she is getting backed by Stonewall, cos I guess they needed another new project that actively works against gay people.
No. 1922754
>>1922742whether she is or not, it's still being taken seriously by an organisation that is meant to represent same-
sex attracted people. it's so crazy.
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>>1922984The twitter thread where she posts about fighting for asexual rights is basically all people asking what rights she's talking about and people responding with non-answers
https://twitter.com/theyasminbenoit/status/1675204827196923904?s=19 No. 1923113
>>1923088Your parents asking when you are gonna give them grandchildren is exactly the same as homosexuals getting hatecrimed, nailed it.
Asexuality is just rebranded singledom, except with layers of tumblr where people claim you can be asexual while in a sexual relationship because (insert pretzel logic)
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>>1922984>>1923088she basically wants Asexuals to have a privileged minority status.
No. 1923172
>>1923113it's so retarded as an identity. when it boils down to it, a middle aged married couple could be classed as "asexual" if they're no longer having sex.
it's almost as if they're trying to turn the fact that many gen Zs are depressed + on anti-depressants, contraceptive pill or cross-sex hormones since puberty, into an "identity" instead of a pathology.
and that this current porn culture where people are expected to be kink-freaks before they've even lost their virginity isn't making people think they must hate sex (because they understandably don't want to perform violent porn acts)
side note: i used to think i was asexual (but before i knew there was a term for it) but i think it was just being depressed and medicated for years. plus, just not being particularly interested in sex compared to most. i guess that makes me part of the queer community.
No. 1923341
>>1923168That weave isn't getting conditioned
…but it should be
No. 1923602
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>>1923307David Jay, self proclaimed "founder of the asexuality movement", who started a website called AVEN (asexual visibility education network). He was somewhat of a mini-cow back in the day (still is), especially when he was trying his damndest to become famous. He's still around nowadays, still running his fiefdom, sorry, forum, still seething over not being recognized as the "founder of the asexual movement", and still desparately trying to grab every crumb of attention he can. See: Daily Mail article (likely paid for by him) where he gloats about being third wheel in a polyamorous throuple with 2 of his friends and helping to raise their kid.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6631989/Asexual-man-lives-married-couple-parent-baby.html (kek)
This guy was my personal cow since like 2009, he had so much milk between like 2008-2012 it's crazy
No. 1927294
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>>1923977That's literally it.
No. 1929370
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Yeah, about that.
No. 1929396
>>1927294KEK
>>1929370Literally who? Why do we all need to know about the shit that everyone does in their bedrooms? Unless it’s literally some retard committing a crime, why should we all give a fuck?
No. 1929449
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>>1929370Here's the actual article.
>Years ago, I was walking toward my boyfriend one day. He was standing beneath an archway, and I was suddenly struck with the absolute truth that I would marry him someday. "Oh, my god," quietly escaped my lips. I smiled and continued walking toward him, much like I did on our wedding day.>Nine years later, I was jogging down the steps to a subway station, rushing to reach the platform before the train arrived. Suddenly, something clicked in my head, and I was struck with another absolute truth: I'm bisexual. I stopped dead in my tracks. >I'd been happily married for five years to my husband. I started to panic, wondering how I would tell him my truth when I barely understood it myself.>First, I spoke with other queer people to see whether I was really bisexual>The inner turmoil started to eat away at me. I felt uneasy — like I was keeping a dirty secret from my husband. I was lost, and I had no idea who to turn to>Luckily, amazing LGBTQ people came to my rescue. I had some very eye-opening conversations with my pansexual and bisexual friends. I joined online communities, connecting with many women just like me. I learned a lot about the spectrum of sexual desire and drive.>But I still wasn't sure how to prove I was bisexual if I hadn't been with another woman. One friend put it all into perspective for me. They said, "If a boy had a crush on a girl, you wouldn't say, 'He can't prove he's straight. He hasn't kissed a girl before.' It's about what attracts you to another person. Physical intimacy is just part of the equation.">At that point, I started to remember a younger version of myself that struggled with bisexual thoughts. Looking back, I can see my little bisexual self had tried to come out so many times and that I'd never been comfortable enough to do so. >Finally, I was ready to tell my husband>I figured if I had the right vocabulary and information, my husband might be more accepting. Eventually, I came to my very scientific conclusion: I was a bisexual woman with heteroromantic tendencies and hetero- and homoerotic drives.>Terrified, I approached my husband and gave him the news. >His response? "OK."
>"OK?" I asked back. I had done weeks of research and soul-searching. That was all he had to say? I needed more, so I asked how he felt. >He paused thoughtfully and said, "Honestly? I've known you were bisexual for a while. I was just waiting for you to find out for yourself. But I'm really glad you told me. How do you feel about it?">I blurted out, "I don't know.">And I didn't. I had done all this emotional work to break the news to my husband, but I hadn't really had time to break the news to myself. A brand-new crop of worries arose. Was I expected to go to a pride parade? Should I come out to my parents? >3 years later, I'm still learning about my sexuality>Coming out to my husband ended up being one of the best and most rewarding things I'd ever done. I'm incredibly lucky to have a partner who supports me, understands me, and meets me where I'm at. We've had hard conversations about our marriage and transparent conversations about women, and we've even made jokes about our newfound common interest.>I have not explored my sexuality outside my marriage emotionally or physically. We have kept our relationship monogamous, as that's what works for us.>Coming out to my husband was the start of a much longer journey of coming out to myself. I've realized I might be more pansexual, as I find men, women, trans people, and nonbinary folks attractive. >I know not every marriage has a happy ending like this and not everyone can tell their spouse about their sexual identity. But I'm proof that if you want to, you may just have the support you need every step of the way. No. 1929648
>>1929449Ugh, this is an exercise in pure narcissism and autism. It's not some core part of her identity. She had a thought and latched onto it. Nothing about her is all that different, other than she gets some oppression points and more of an excuse to talk about herself.
>>1929501Kek you're so right
nonnie. She's making such a big deal of something she will never act on. Like, let me know when you've dumped your scrote and eaten some pussy, then maybe I'll give a fuck.
No. 1929985
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>I'm an Asexual who likes sex
No. 1930247
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>>1929449kek reminds me of this
No. 1930518
>>1930397what? no, coomers aren’t asexual
people who just aren’t interested in sex exist and they simply do other things with their time
it’s not an identity any more than not having a dog is an identity
No. 1932118
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"I'm attracted to women but not sexually." Then how are you attracted to them?
No. 1932544
>>1932118what happens when you don't know the difference between a friend you care about and a crush
>>1932378>trauma from "previous cishet relationships where they felt pressured into a certain role"I want to a-log so bad, this man wouldn't know relationship trauma and clearly has no sympathy for those who do to downgrade it to "expectations" put upon them
No. 1932696
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>>1932278Most TIFs don't really have any measure of dysphoria aside from feeling bad about something and euphoria feeling good about something.
>I'm bisexual but the idea of being with an AFAB person makes me extremely dysphoric If the idea itself of being in a relationship with a woman is a problem for her and even the execution makes her uncomfortable, would it really be attraction? Also she specifically didn't include TIMs by saying "AFAB" which is a fancier word for women, which means she is attracted to men.
No. 1935218
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what a self own
No. 1935257
>>1935249>>1935218It's just a man mocking a woman for being single as moids have always done. Woke bros are just as hateful towards women as any other moid. Still, they have a free pass to be just as misogynist as evil "cis straight men" because they say "twans women are women" and bc they choose not to discriminate against enby pussy (bc nonbinary pussy is better than being an incel yk). They can even call JK Rowling c*nt and they will still be better people than a transphobic white karen who doesn't want a grown man showing off his dick to little girls. Sigh.
"Spinster", "cat lady", "die alone with your ridiculous standards bitch", "now women are suffering for not being able to get a man now go thanks feminism for that bitch", etc. Business as usual. As if being single were the worst thing that could happen to a woman. Too bad that so many women buy that not having a nigel means women have no value. I am homosexual, but if I weren't, I'd rather be single and live with my cats than play mom to a manchild and get raped in my own house.
No. 1935619
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>I am sexually attracted to both men and women, but I'm only interested in being in a relationship with a man.
and only gets worse.
No. 1935895
>>1935831I dont know anon,
speaking from experience it's extremely degrading to have sex with a woman who refuses to acknowledge that you have any bond at all and doesn't care about how you feel about it.
This is just another side of that same coin, maybe it's a little less obnoxious but it still speaks to a really unpleasant culturally poisoned view of women and of lesbian relationships as lesser. "let me eat your pussy and go home to my boyfriend" what a horrible and humiliating thing to say.
No. 1935930
>>1935895Reminds me of that article that was linked on lolcow once iirc about how straight women go to sex clubs to perform public lesbianism with other straight women (essentially to give themselves a sexy story for their moid's benefit) and then, you guessed it, go back home to their moids.
Using other women's bodies for sexual pleasure
solely is moid brained and not homosexual imo, those women are objectifying themselves and the other women.
No. 1936402
>>1936398probably because they're just straight women who bought into the glorification of non-straight relationships and the idea that straight relationships are dull and boring, only to find out that they do actually like men and that the romantic feelings still feel like romance even if it's not gay
it's radical to them because they most likely internalized the idea that straight = dull, and then when they find out that that's not the case for them they think it's absolutely groundbreaking
No. 1936422
>>1936419In my experience male-identified bisexuals are even more hostile toward female-identified bisexuals than toward lesbians. It really
triggers them that some women have a choice and still reject their precious Nigels and their magical penii.
No. 1936851
>>1936390>living your truth sometimes means accepting you like cis dickSo, bi/straight women are allowed to say they only like "cis" dick? Good for them, how wonderful that would be if lesbians also were allowed to say "hey, I only like cis pussy sorry, that's my truth". Fucking clown world.
>I chose that over everything elseWoman chooses to marry a moid. Groundbreaking news.
No. 1936965
>>1936390wow, bisexual woman marries nerdy introverted man. say it aint so.
common bisexual L
No. 1937403
>>1936965I find the bisexuals who are real tend to go for less conventionally masculine men, not necessarily ugly, but it's like the attraction to women makes the super "manly" men unappealing (and their personality especially). These girls are the ones who usually like men in makeup and fuck up by landing themselves a bisexual man about to troon out (thinking bi4bi is the same for het couples as it is for febfems). The queerios dating uggos claiming bisexuality are probably girls who felt they needed a label to stand out or used to make out with girls to desperately catch a guy so it's less they're attracted to these guys over a typical jock, and more that they'll take anyone who says they love them. A lot of these girls I think through being online and public and thinking it's the only thing that makes them special can't backtrack their high school "bisexuality" so double down on it.
At least these are my 2 cents based on my experiences.
No. 1937508
>>1937403>can't backtrack their highschool bisexualityI think this is it exactly
>>1936387Like if you are married to a man
and this sickeningly far up men's asses, why mention you're bisexual at all? But they are such dull humans that's all they have to cling to to try and differentiate themselves from a Karen or normie or whatever. Basically the root of the spicy straight phenomenon itself.
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Oh my god. This retard is seriously watching as actual homosexuals are being stripped of her rights, and her first thought is that it's somehow about her because she's… celibate??? The Russian government isn't going to harm you for not having sex. The fucking audacity to even imply that she's being persecuted at all, let alone on the same level as actual gays. Someone stop me from a-logging
No. 1937828
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If a boring old-fashioned female woman artist decided to do a performance art piece about attempting to get pregnant on her owm, it'd be called passé and demeaning to men. When an AFAB theythem does it as a statement about whatever the fuck "rainbow families" are and gets panned, she gets money and news coverage. I want to puke.
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2023/dec/05/casey-jenkins-artist-government-funding-settlement No. 1940991
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comic by a they/them about how she's so special, cause she wears both dresses and shorts.
No. 1940993
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>>1940991The author and her boyfriend
No. 1941002
>>1940991Whoaha she can wear dresses, and women's shirts AND long sleeve women's shirts?
>>1940993Whoa whoa so queer, no way I could gender that queer special face. Definitely no normal ass heteros to see here, no siree. That is a queer woman wears PANTS some days, and her homosexual partner. Everyone knows straight men aren't attracted to long hair and boobs once the boobs are wearing pants. Guys I'm so boring all I can wear are dresses please I just want to be so queer and free help HELP ME I DONT WANT TO BE AVERAGE! I want to be special!!! I don't want to look like Julie Terryberry though, she can keep that
No. 1941024
>>1940993>>1940991lmao, when you're so delusional you think people would judge a girl buying a dress because she was dressing casual that day.
Also I hate these sexist handmaidens who think they're special and different from women because they're not 2d caricatures of airheaded women you see on tv yet are not even gnc. not that gnc is a reason to trans but at least you can imagine there's some actual conflict with society here and not a straight girl thinking she's ascended above other lowly women despite acting totally basic
No. 1941074
>>1940991It's almost like women should see themselves as people first, instead of living in the gender box society has dictated for them. I hate these retards. Women FOUGHT for us to wear pants, and now they'll pulling this shit.
>>1940993How did I know that's exactly what she'd look like. So queer. so brave uwu
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>>1940991thinking about this edit from the tif threads
No. 1941183
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>>1940991>when i look at myself, I don't see a man or woman. I just see meYeah when I look in the mirror i see myself too, i don't profile myself "white woman, mid 20s…" because people don't naturally do that
>I no longer felt confined to present myself only as female. I was free to be anything I wanted to beyeah, that's… all women just want to dress the way we want to. i'm assuming she is a white american? styling yourself is not limited by your gender. most women here don't just wear skirts every day
>in a society that genders you at first glance it can be tough to feel validatedyou mean in a society where women are leered at by men constantly is annoying and you desperately want to escape that right? so do… the rest of women
>if i can't be non-binary, i can't be myselfno you're a woman, saying you're something that doesn't even exist is denying yourself
>i'll always be queeryou're literally straight, see
>>1940993 No. 1941209
>>1941203It's biologically normal but socially unacceptable to be straight and not interested in men. I know that at a glance it sounds as retarded as asexuals who have sex or whatever, but I promise you it's a thing. In fact, not being terribly into males despite having a male oriented attraction schema is a biological norm for most female mammals. It's completely and utterly normative to know you're not into women and that hypothetically you'd be into men, but have 0 interest or drive towards mating with them 99% or even a 100% of the time. It's not "queerness" or asexuality, it's actually the biological default.
Because women are not allowed to exist this way, a variety of maladaptive identities emerge, including women who are repulsed by male bodies yet make themselves date men/"asexuals".
No. 1941219
>>1941216What's objectively false, the fact that women aren't as interested in sex as men are? Or that it's not as satisfying for them? Or that men are objectively less physically beautiful than women? Because those are all objectively true.
Being a straight woman and having low to no sexual interest in men is either incredibly common or close to being the default.
(derailing) No. 1941278
>>1941219Nta but this, even OF whores are all over twitter shitting on men, The reality is only men like other men. There really is very little to like, their standards of appearance are on the floor, sex is culturally accepted to be all about penis and male orgasm, and they are not even expected to be friendly or pleasant in order to take part in daily life. Most straight women agree they only like a few men, their nigel and father/brother usually being the limit.
That's different to being romantically attracted to women obviously, but disliking men is absolutely the norm among straight women.
No. 1941338
>>1941314>moids sure absolutely hate being in spaces filled with nothing but other moids. No they don't. They hate it when they are trying to get sex and they hate it when they are confined there, i.e. banned from women's spaces, cause they think nowhere should be off limits to them. But otherwise, they love male only spaces.
>Like damn, is it that weird to jerk off to dick pics?What kind of pics are you jerking off to? Please tell me it's not the ones where some moid just flops his dick out of his pants. You deserved better and should want better. I have seen some nice ones though, but it was because of the effort that went into it, not the dick itself. Like in one, a guy was laying on his bed, the lights were dim and he had wrapped himself in xmas lights. Typing it out, it sounds lame, but it was nice picture. I'm not going to judge you for your weird dic pic ways, just demand that they put effort into it.
No. 1941344
>>1941338"Male only" with female entertainment/care personnel, oh for sure. I also enjoy mixed gender spaces with men as my janitors, for example.
Truly male only? Most of them would rather set themselves on fire.
No. 1943378
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Didn't know being an annoying hipster couple was a sexuality.
No. 1945249
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I was scrolling through tumblr today and found this woman who’s in a totally gay relationship with her husband, lmao.
No. 1945345
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>>1945249Her husband is probably a Ned Fulmer type, men who aren't really attractive or interesting, so they make themselves appear 'queer' and flamboyant to manipulate women.
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No. 1945432
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>>1945388For anyone wondering, "non-assimilationist gays" were gay people who believed that being a perverted degenerate was inherent to being gay. It was mostly gay men (and maybe 5% of pretentious identity-obsessed lesbians), and it's worth noting that many of them were pedophiles.
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saw this and thought of this thread kek
No. 1946222
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trying not to alog.
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No. 1947585
>>1947582Wtf is this post?
>I am attracted to how men talk, look, and act and also want them to fuck me, am I a lesbian?Literal brainrot.
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>>1943378Their podcast might as well be called liberal self-made problems and delusions.
No. 1950220
>>1950202They should call it
>>50% WHITE 0% HORNYyoure welcome. for the free podcast name
No. 1951578
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this shit gets on my nerves so bad, I saw it on instagram but how do they seriously realize how misogynistic they sound? “only enbies can be cool and alt and dress fun, cis women are boring basic bitches and only wear uggs!” literally the definition of NLOG shit
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Grown ass woman loses her shit because another kweerio IRL clocked her as a dangerhair in front of her parents. Christ forbid her ~conservative~ parents find out that she uses "any" pronouns and is asexual. Has any conservative parent in the history of the human race ever been upset that their daughter has chosen to abstain from sex?
No. 1952305
>>1952269Tbh so many young people claim to be asexual nowadays that there is no way that all of them actually are. I think plenty just find sex scary/icky and this is how they interpret that.
For instance, this doesn't prove anything, but it's kinda weird that this girl based her entire profile around an anime boy female fans famously want to bone. Straight male fans don't care about this dude all that much, they don't base their online presence around him. What does she in him if she feels no attraction?
No. 1953690
>>1951578So we agree
It's all just fashion, glad they admitted that.
No. 1956296
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I joined a bisexual fashion FB group because of you all. Got this gem today with insecurity and validation included can people see the groups I’m in on Facebook?
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Won't someone think in the poor trans heterosexuals???
No. 1956514
>>1956296Why do these types care so much about how other people perceive them? It's pathetic.
>>1956364>>1956508Forget the hands. Her face is soft and feminine even with the beard.
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kek
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>>1956397Reminds me of when I stumbled upon a bunch of Beatles yaoi fangirls on TikTok saying that John Lenon was bisexual because of this Yoko quote as if this isn’t just the most liberal pick me man shit ever.
“Oh yeah I would totally fuck a guy, I just haven’t found one that meets my standards!” As if John wasn’t a serial cheater that fucked any woman he could, yeah he had such high standards.
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Censored the name to protect this random normie’s identity, but I saw this in a lesbian FB group on a post about gatekeeping in the community.
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kek
No. 1958920
>>1958802I like that her level of pickmeisha led to her getting an even worse deal than the standard "moid ignores me and new baby to play vidya" and her moid has added a second level of bullshit by actively dating another woman while ignoring her and the baby.
Imo him actively choosing to leave her and her baby alone while she's sick and has voiced her need of support, is parental neglect on his part, hope she is documenting this for the divorce case later (also it's still cheating even if tumblr/reddit/twitter says it isn't!)
No. 1959274
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I hope this is the right thread for this but somehow this…thing ended up on my feed. "Queer" 18 year old drug/porn addict and her moid-in-a-dress "wifey."
(apologies for shitty collage)
No. 1959334
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>>1959274I had to look up "mirror pronouns" because what the fuck is that? Picrel if you were clueless like me. Just when I thought these morons couldn't get more detached from reality. Whatever gets you more imaginary quirky points, but you're just a straight woman.
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>>1959479Binge eating and feederism (since she's a super coomer) maybe
No. 1959875
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A mental gymnastics gold medalist. Gotta find a definition of straight besides "person attracted exclusively to the opposite sex" otherwise OP can't call herself a sooper speshul kweerio.
No. 1960010
>>1959875It's very simple actually:
Straight = heterosexual, like gay = homosexual
Trans people are straight if they're attracted to the opposite sex of what they are, not what they claim to be.
Bisexual people are not straight. They are bisexual.
Sexual and romantic attraction aren't a separate thing, so if someone claims to be aromantic but not asexual and asexual but not aromantic, this is not a sexuality but someone who might have an issue with libido or getting attached to people. They're straight if they're attracted to the opposite sex.
And someone who is complete asexual is not straight. They are asexual.
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sad oppressed asexie art that showed up on my dash, kek.
No. 1963263
>>1963257It's almost as if the LGB exists because it's about people being something that ends with…
Sexual.
No. 1965929
>>1963257It always bothered me how aroaces always scream about exclusion. Why would you feel excluded by couples in love? You don't even want that shit.
You are mixing up "inclusivity" with "attention" and that no on gaf that you are so special and don't fuck. A lot of people don't fuck for many reasons, do we ever see them crying about it?
Sorry for old post ig.
No. 1969253
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>My husband isn't straight, cause I'm non-binary and he's only attracted to vagina.
No. 1970495
>>1969253i actually couldn't watch this all the way through. i stopped after she said she wants him to acknowledge that they are a queer marriage. she is a parody of a person. i couldn't believe:
>i am a non binary woman20 seconds later
>i am not a woman>>1969757agreed
No. 1971185
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>>Yaoi IRL
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>>1971435It's a TIF and her "gay boyfriend" from reddit and was posted on r/gaybrosgonemild
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>>1971185>>1971503Yaoi is real!!!1!!1
No. 1971560
>>1971185Standing on her damn toes but it looks like she's trying to be subtle about it kek
Also her fashion sense clocks her even if she does look a bit like a young girlish boy on first glance. Not to mention the fact that she has one of the straightest-looking men as her "partner". Soyboy sure, but this man would gag at the thought of cock you can tell.
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whathappensnext author and her boyfriend.
No. 1971778
>>1971777He looks like a coomer.
>Shirt says something but all I can see is Dick PillsConfirmed.
No. 1975287
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>He lost a girlfriend, but gained a partner
No. 1975420
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I think this painting is cute whenever I come across it, but knowing the painter and the subject are a quirky straight couple pretending to be gay always ruins it for me kek
No. 1975646
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>>1975420that guy has one of the most severe cases of gayface i've ever seen. i can't believe he's in a relationship with an actual woman. it feels wrong.
No. 1975685
>>1975646KEKKK NONA
You’re so right.
>>1975420I can’t stop staring at this. I love the brush strokes and colors
No. 1976053
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>>1975646Some men just look like that, anon. Like Ben Shapiro for example
No. 1976639
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big day for straight couples at gay bars
No. 1976734
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>>1976639I wonder how many of the self-identified "lesbians" are either trannies or people who are into cock. Bleak how the troons now outnumber regular gay people (even when the poll stretches the numbers by presumably including TIFs in the gay category.)
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No. 1978190
>>1976639The big yellow bisexual bar being so much larger than the others suggests to me all these people are straight and using it as a cool/leftie label for their bio.
"Queer/LGBT" but always in a straight relationship.
No. 1978194
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Am I crazy or is this not even a “straight people” thing, I feel like that these people are more obsessed with gender roles than conservatives are
No. 1978243
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There's a word for what you are
No. 1978919
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if a man and a woman were in a sapphic relationship? what?
No. 1980295
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apparently this guy is an "enby" male.
No. 1980532
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I know what you are.
No. 1980864
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>Seattle Kraken NHL wife says her husband is wearing rainbow because he loves his queer wife and loves publicity
She's telling the world her husband is a heterosexual pussy destroyer who loves watching girl on girl. She's saying that's why he's wearing rainbow. It has nothing to do with signaling support for gay fans or support for hypothetical closeted gay NHL players. No, it's all for his queer wife! She's even doubling down and saying it's all for a photo op kek
>she/her pronouns in bio with heterosexual nuclear family emoji and rainbow flag
>Lexi with an i
She's a PhD, an NHL WAG, a queer wife, a mommy blogger, and she's writing a hockey romance booktok novel
No. 1981313
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Why di these "lesbians" never dump their moids if they are so gay?
No. 1981542
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these two fit better here.
No. 1981552
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this is by one of the creators of high guardian sugar spice.
No. 1981582
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>>1981558yes, she also recently got a mastectomy.
No. 1981601
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>>1981582Checked out her instagram to see how that ugly tranny loser boyfriend she simped for for years reacted to the chop and of course they broke up immediately after. Nonbinary trans acceptance for me but not for thee, I guess!
No. 1983471
>>1981601I hate these comics so much. You know, all these comics made by teens or college girls, that are written like their life is an important life discovery everyone is absolutely interested about, and that are written in the form of one-liners that they believe are so deep and meaningful while they're saying jack shit.
I fucking hate these comics because I can immediately tell the kind of obnoxious bitchy entitled sheltered Karen made them.
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No. 1983747
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>>1983471If she were a teen or college girl it'd be understandable, but she's 35.
Kek looks like she did get dumped by her sensitive enlightened they/them moid almost immediately after her mastectomy, what a surprise.
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>>1983747looked him up and he looks exactly what I expected him to look like.
No. 1983765
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>>1983764and here's the two enbies as they got engaged.
No. 1986085
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out of every single group here, bisexual men will always be the worst.
No. 1986098
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>>1986092well you might not be to far off.
No. 1986146
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"Gay" really is just an aesthetic to them at this point. Exhausting. I hate that normal gay people are experiencing more homophobia because of spicy straights making them look deranged. It's so infuriating.
No. 1986157
>>1986098i'd bet money that gender roles exhaust him because he doesn't want to work or pay for anything kek.
>45 minutes cleaning up the kitchen and dishes after cookingweak. you can clean up the kitchen and put dishes in the washer/hand wash them as you're cooking. if you can't then idk what the hell he's cooking, sounds like he doesn't know what he's doing
No. 1986544
I hate how age regression/kink spergs are trying to rebrand it as nonsexual. They're always gender specials too, they get mad when anyone points out the ddlg baiting
No. 1986545
>>1986544The comment section is dystopian