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No. 803906
If you ever think your question is stupid, remember that there will always be someone with a question that’s even more stupid than yours
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>>793965 No. 804035
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Why can't Orajel be used continuously? What happens if I use it for more than 7 days?
No. 804062
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do cuticle cutters work well? And what works better, one of those scissor-types or like pic rel?
No. 804064
>>804057Honestly, Reddit has a lot of good info on this like
https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/ebfkrf/i_just_bought_a_used_car_for_the_first_time_here/Cargurus is a good site for searching. Know what model you want (look for something fairly reliable), how much mileage you’re after, know what price you want/is reasonable/are capable of paying, and do not ever err from those things once you step into a dealership (if you’re not buying from a private sale). The dealers will try to tack on every unnecessary add-on under the sun or try to fuck with your financing. Stick with what you want for as long as it takes and be willing to walk if they act like they’re incapable of doing it. They are desperate to sell and there are MANY other competitors who will accommodate you if they pull back, but they absolutely do not want to lose the sale. You have all the bargaining power even if they try to convince you otherwise. And honestly, if you have anyone at all to bring with you, bring them. Even if you do the majority of the talking, having another set of eyes on all the paperwork and to ask questions will make it harder for them to sneak something in.
No. 804093
>>804072hahaha
>>804075yeah I've heard that too, but I can't say I really care. I've been pushing back my cuticles for ages too and nothing ever happened so I put the risk in the same basket as eating raw cookie dough.
No. 804099
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>>804073Since you usually add milk to scrambled eggs, obviously. Anything you also cook/fry with also gets added to the calories, ex. oil and fat.
No. 804113
>>804099>adding milk to scrambled eggsWhat? Also,
>calories badLiterally never gave a shit about calories and never been a fatty.
No. 804124
>>804115Hungary, I haven't met anyone not adding milk.
>>804121I don't think it makes it rubbery, at least mine aren't. One of my friends uses so much milk it makes them the consistency of snot, but they sure as hell don't become more rubbery.
No. 804130
>>804126Anal could both mean
>she's a freak (in the very sexually open way)>she's willing to give up her boundaries and tolerate discomfort for my pleasureWhich are both A-OK in a man's eyes. Anorectal violence is no joke.
No. 804134
>>804130>Anorectal violence is no joke.ANUS-CHAN IS BACK YAY
>i don't want to sacrifice the literal physical integrity of my assholeNever do something you don't want to just because a man wants you to. If he pressures you, ditch his ass. There are many men out there who'd care about your comfort/discomfort
No. 804195
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>>804152depending on the cameras focal length it can make you look anywhere from massive nose'd caricature to tiny face'd charlie kirk meme, most of them are not set-up to take accurate selfies at arms length which is why so many people just take a selfie in the mirror
No. 804203
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Who's that? He looks like a cliché goth/metalhead from boomer cop shows.
No. 804217
>>804057Cargurus, start with all cars in your area or by body shape. Narrow it down by engines, year, price, color, whatever you need if you have no idea what you're after. Bring someone who's amazing at getting the hell out of the car place if you want to test drive the ones you like and are shy. Be firm that you have somewhere else to be. My friend gives out fake numbers and emails so they can't spam you if you don't like the car or hated the salesperson. Don't buy a salvage and always check the car's crash records. Be aware every car company has different trim levels that will go from basic to leather with a nicer tablet and heated or cooled seats. Stay the fuck away from electric vehicles unless you can afford a Tesla and have CHADmo chargers all over your state. They are the only charger that charges in a few minutes while the others need hours. Don't buy a hybrid unless you're buying new because the battery to replace is 4-8k if I remember. When you're ready bring someone who's very firm to negotiate if you find a car you really love. Bring either full cash or partial if you'd like to pay off monthly to gain credit. Cash also gets discounts because they know you can pay it all, and if you've just graduated school apparently some places will give a discount.
I hope this helps anon, I've been staring at cars and visiting dealerships since I might finally rid myself of this shit car. Please don't be afraid to test drive everything so you don't buy a bad choice down the road. It turned out my original dream car sucked to drive so I'm very happy I moved on to the car I'll probably be buying. I would not have known it was so good if I hadn't gone around test driving.
No. 804263
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My little bedroom gets really hot and humid in the summer, and since I'm taking online classes I'm going to spend several hours working in there. What's the most efficient option for keeping my room cool?
I'm thinking about getting a window unit air conditioner. Idk anything about installing these things, and I'm a bit apprehensive about how much trouble it's going to be to uninstall when I move out later on this year. I know they're heavy enough that you need an extra pair of hands but is it manageable for a beginner?
No. 804290
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Anons, can you recommend me lifestyle porn media, preferably with good plot? I'm working on losing weight while depressed as hell and would like to daydream about life in which women wear pretty clothes, live in stylish apartments and experience joys and tragedies. I don't know how to explain it better… Hm, maybe like a perfume commercial with story and characters? I want to look at something beautiful and sappy.
I would ask somewhere on /m/, but hardly anyone goes there…
Pic kinda related, love that movie to death
No. 804315
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If there was an embroidered patch or a keychain with some sort of nod to lolcow would farmers wear it in public? Like a small “lol” in cow print on the bottom hem of a shirt or dress. I have some design ideas and want to make them, but I wouldn’t sell them.
No. 804327
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>>804263It's easy, anon. Get a really small window unit, I recommend this one:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07RGM11L5/I'm 5 feet and weak as hell and I can lift this thing, install it no problem. New air conditioners usually come with foam or tape for the holes, and you can also tape the shit out of the sides with duct tape to keep out bugs.
To maintain, insert a tablet every month and after every heavy rain. This avoids mold, which means no weird smells. Make sure to also slide out the front filter 1-2x a month and wash the dust off.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000KM3BUYAfter the summer, aim a hose at it to clean out any dust/build-up (air conditioners are waterproof so feel free to go ham but make sure to avoid wetting the plug), let it air dry, then store it right side up, but if you're consistent with placing tablets every month
No. 804341
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>>804275Like
>>804327 said they usually have foam that you tape to the window (it has an adhesive side) to avoid anything crawling in. You can also use tape and seal it in for extra protection. I have a large unit similar to picrel and clean up is easy, you take the tube and the window frame apart and wash them. The unit itself has filters you can remove and clean, I’ve checked and nothing gets inside the actual body. The window frame panel also has a filter that is easily cleaned. You don’t need anything more than soap and water, let the pieces air dry and then you can store it away for the following months. Because it functions as a dehumidifier so it works better than my old fan, but it’s heavier and still uses a lot of power.
No. 804486
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Can someone confirm or deny if medication really works like this?
No. 804488
>>804486nah it’s just fatboi bullshitting as per
>>804461i remember! it was cool. i miss being obsessed w art angels
No. 804596
>>804590We're all mad here
but at least 1/3 of the time it's probably bait
No. 804601
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Can any medfag here explain to me why is it that when I go keto my feet get almost instantly softer? Like all it needs is 2 days of keto and it improves by like 50%, I'd say. When I eat carbs, it's super dry and rough. All of the other symptoms I understand, but not this one.
If it helps, I have PCOS and insulin resistance, a history of diabetes in my family and iron deficiency (one of my doctors explained once that it was due my pcos as well, because my thyroid is kinda bullshity or something like that)
Thanks in advance!
No. 804602
>>804551
>not glued to his phone and lives more in the real worldI think this might be it anon, he doesn't use social media and isn't on his phone a lot. he also really likes talking on the phone so he probably isn't familiar with texting etiquette now that I think about it
>>804580lol possibly, he is a very weird dude. sometimes the texts are fine but he has a habit of skipping words which makes the text not make sense, or switching the orders of the words like
>how's day your been>did go the store? (missing the 'you' and 'to')It's like he doesn't read over the text to check for typos or to see if it's coherent. It drives me crazy so I was wondering if my annoyance was
valid even if our irl conversations are fine haha
No. 804680
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Was there a shoujo manga thread in /m/ or did I imagine that? I checked the catalogue like three times but I swear there was a thread specifically for this genre.
No. 804699
>>804679>MIGHT have the recommended daily dose or not even halfThey're food
supplements not food substitutes. You're expected to eat and get the rest of nutrients that way. Multivitamins just add a little extra.
No. 804719
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>>804684No that wasn’t it, it was a thread active within the last 2 months at the very least. I think I probably imagined it.. So
>>804683 I will make one later! Thank you for checking as well though.
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>>804730Yes!! Nonatella ily, this was the thread. And the last post was only 29 days ago. I can’t believe I was so blind. You’re fucking awesome!
No. 804912
>>804855>(TW)Please no,
Trigger warnings are for idiotic people and kids.
But I think it’s not truly a good thing to be searching for shock content, because you’re just polluting yourself with ugly stuff, you might end up looking for more gruesome pictures as the time goes by and it really can’t be good for the mind.
No. 805169
>>805076Women who support the troon movement basically at the expense of their own rights because they havent realized it's not actually good for them or their kids
>>805136A lot of Americans grow up thinking EU in general is really cool due to their different languages and cultures. By claiming they're irish, french, german, etc they feel more special from the average american despite them knowing nothing and yeah being 100% american. A lot of people in the USA just want to feel special in some way if they aren't half or 1/4th something cause there are a lot of varying people who are.
No. 805188
>>805187They were repeating my address and name
I feel mocked and taunted. Gonna hang up the curtains.
No. 805207
>>805189I don't see anything wrong with feeling and appreciating a connection though, it's the same with Americans whose families are of non-European descent and non-white, yet there is less criticism when they express ties to their family roots. It's not like the connections are completely diminished anyways, sometimes the family maintains traditions or even the language of the culture they came from, and I think it makes sense to feel connected from that. It's not the same as being totally actually Irish guise like some act which is annoying, but imo it's either you're against anyone including
poc from associating with their family's history and roots or everyone should be able to do it (but with more self-awareness than there often is). I think it's a good enriching thing for anyone to learn more about another culture and often it's because their family goes back to it or they even knew family members while alive who spoke the language/etc. The hate is overblown
No. 805213
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Any anons into abandoned places (especially theme parks) here? I'm going crazy trying to find photos of a USA (I think) abandoned theme park with a fairy tale theme. Specifically, I'm looking for photos of a giant book monument that was located near the entrance (?). I think here was a text on it how you can meet all your favorite storybook heroes in the park. IDK what happened in the last few years, but it's like all blogs about abandoned places got purged. Or maybe google just refuses to show me the results - I get pages and pages of shitty clickbait lists of 'top 10 haunted abandoned parks' instead of OC. I feel like I hallucinated that park, but I saw it for sure.
No. 805238
>>804717your phone is ableist
>>804982you get the men limb shortening surgery
No. 805244
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Should I join my town’s Japan-America
Society’s local chapter even though I’m not Japanese but am a weeb who likes their culture?
Also kek at this pic
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Do you wash your hands before and/or after showering?
No. 805353
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>>8052552 weeks for "bait" even tho I wasn't baiting.
I evaded that and many other bans anyway lmao they're all old bans that's currently over now btw so i'm not doing it now No. 805356
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I know it's not gargantuan but is 5'8" too tall to wear heels? are low heels at least doable? and how about long skirts without looking massive? on second thought please just tell me I can wear them I'm not that huge…
No. 805357
>>805255I got banned for 3 months on 4chan once for posting Swami's selfies like three times
The mods here are a lot more reasonable
No. 805368
>>805360>good balanced figureHnnng thanks for the insight anon. I mean I am a healthy weight I guess considered slim, but my thighs/hips are a little wide… and small head kek. but I think I look like the pic actually her head seems smaller like mine. not sure what you mean by balanced.
>>805361you know what… true!
No. 805411
>>805398I don't think it's quite the same because it is a different kind of disability with a different history and different impact on living. Deaf people get excluded from communication in a way that blind people don't while being very aware of it happening in front of them. It makes them not want to become part of the community that shuts them out.
That said, I remember a blind newsreader from my country talking about how a man on the train told her he'd rather die than lose his sight which made her feel like shit so if people try hard enough, we can get the vision impaired to hate us too.
No. 805431
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Dildos need condoms? Why?
No. 805438
>>805398Deaf people also have a cultural community created by sign language and specific references so some deaf people don't want to lose this culture as they enjoy it within the community. So in a sens they are not exclude for cultural and social interaction.
My born blind friend said once she is kinda sad there is no real blind community like the deaf one. She thinks it's because there is no specific language within blind community. And she get sometimes super frustrated not being able to have access to some media, like comics and video games. She has trouble to relate both with
valid since she miss so many aspects of our lives and other blind people since she don't really relate to them except for blindness.
I never asked her if she would choose to heal if she could. Probably yes when she was young but she is now quite in peace with her disabilty.
No. 805507
>>805255Half a day or so for making a joke about the forbidden man, I think?
It doesn't count for me interesting observation, I've ended up on mobile IPs that have been banned for reasons not pertaining to me at all. I'm surprised how many people in my city have had cell IPs banned from lc for posting inflammatory shit, way more than I would've expected
No. 805518
>>805511My first bf seemed perfect right up until the moment he suddenly ghosted me (and left me to deal with all our shared bills and the lease) My second bf was
abusive emotionally and physically/sexually. He broke up with me in a slightly more mature way though, his one grace lol
I feel you. Having a lack of social supports or coming from a dysfunctional family doesn't help. It can leave you very vulnerable to accepting abuse.
No. 805526
>>805511>>805518My second boyfriend was one of the worst things that ever happened to me, but he was perfect right up until he wasn't. He was a delight. Attentive, adoring, told me things like I was the first thing he thought about in the morning and the last thing he thought about at night. He was actually a little obsessive at times. One night he went to a party, and the next day he completely changed. He stopped being cute and attentive and spent weeks distancing himself. I asked him why once and he turned it around on me. Made me feel like I was being weird when I wanted to know if we were ok. Then he left. A few months later he contacted me to let me know he would like nudes from me. I told him to fuck off.
It was the first time I believed someone when they said they loved me, and the first person Inwas ever totally comfortable around. He was perfect. And I will now spend rbe rest of my life knowing two things:
1) even the perfect people will hurt me
2) Men. Are. Shit
He was always afraid that I'd leave him for someone else, or that he wasn't enough and I'd end up cheating. Looks like he was projecting on me
No. 805531
>>805526I had a partner drastically change overnight and I spent years torturing myself, racking my brain on how such a thing happens.
Then another partner changed in a less sudden way.. That time it was a poorly hidden affair. I hate that no matter how perfect someone might seem I'm just painfully aware that you can't get too comfortable.
No. 805542
>>805531In a way I'm glad it happened. I've learned not to trust people and to be wary of safety. I will never be caught off guard again, and I will forever be aware that beneath the surface all men are less than swine. I gave him more love than he deserved and he traded it all for a strangers pussy. I will
never let myself be vulnerable like that again
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>>805531Running is a good idea, also maybe you could check if there are any workout parks like picrel in your area?
No. 805632
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How bad would it be to go to the gym in shorts, with unshaved legs?
I stopped shaving like 5 years ago but am not super hairy, actually I don't even grow hair on my calves because of tight pants kek. I even went to work last year in pants that were knee length and doubt anyone saw or gave a fuck but in the gym I get really insecure. I'm finally comfortable enough to work in just a sports bra when it's too hot inside but shorts scare lol.
My legs look like pic related if I shave. I tried mens razors, waxing, all the shit you can imagine but I just don't think it's worth the pain, money and my legs look uglier after.
Guess I'm scared of other women judging me (since I'm not into men)? Although I'm 90% sure no one gives a shit
No. 805674
>>805632I'll always remember one time when I was a teenager I was waiting to be seen in accident and emergency. Sitting in a row of seats feeling like I wanted to curl up and die. A man kept looking at me and then over at another woman. Gesturing at me to look.. This middle aged woman had a long skirt on but you could see some hair there. For the love of God my guy we are all here because we're ill or suddenly injured. I'm not joining in with you and making faces because a woman has hair.
I can't imagine being that bothered by someone elses leg hair
No. 805718
>>805443Like everyone, depend of the personnality of the blind person herself :) My friend dated both seeing ppl and blind ppl. Both have their pro and cons. She went to restaurants, cinemas, parties with her dates, and she reached the same bodycount than me ^^.
However, I could add two points :
1/ The dating process meets the same difficulties than others person with physical abilities : you can only have friends and lovers that see the human in you before the disability, and be aware of the fetish guys. It's like extra prudence. And you need ppl ready to face others and support you through your handicap.
2/ A lot of blind kids are not well-educated, because of the lack of structures, the institutions, etc… resulting adults not well socially adapted (I'm not talking about the one whose blindness is linked to mentally disabilities). Some are bullied. And some people losing gradually their sight are really ashamed. These ones often withdraw for social life, self-isolated, became depressed and lost any motivation except being alive. It's so depressing, and of course those ppl don't have enough social interactions and self-estim to date, even others visually impaired people.
No. 805733
>>805721Sometimes I would wear men’s deodorant because women’s won’t be as effective to keep me from sweating or because my brother’s deodorant is the first thing I saw while on a rush.
When I do that, people compliment me more on my scent than when I wear the usual women’s deodorant. So I guess it could actually attract some people more than repel them.
It’s not the same as wearing cologne though.
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>>805730Cologne is less concentrates than perfume
No. 805748
>>805742Yes and no. I don't think there are enough vegans to make a global impact but we could get there if the movement was so massive, the demand for meat was severely reduced = less animals being bred and killed.
However, people who go vegan for ethical reasons, can find peace in the fact that they aren't contributing to the meat industry and aren't paying for an animal to be killed
No. 805793
>>805788I don't think thats normal, but I can relate.
After I moved out to a different country, my friends from home country ended up stopping talking to me. I am still wondering why tf when I never had any beef with them and acted like a decent human.
No. 805808
>>805788Bit different but I was talking a guy online for a few months. He lived 2 hours away and I figured we'd meet at some point. One day he tells me he might move country soon. That made me question what the point was in keeping up our thing. I phased out talking to him.
Maybe your friend hoped for in person meet ups again and that dashed his hopes.
No. 805813
>>805794Yeah, I thought that initially but thinking about it, it just felt kind of sudden, like even that conversation died quickly right after.
>>805793>>805802>>805808You're probably right, our entire friend group used to do a meet up sometimes once every couple years so it probably felt like less of a "long-distance friendship" and maybe that's why he maintained it at first? I feel a little sad now because I actually ended up staying in the country and my moving plans were more castle in the sky than anything concrete, but I guess it sounded definite to him. Maybe I'll reach out one of these days to catch up.
No. 805883
>>805874Older women are considered unconventional attraction for them I think?
So maybe some hot older women ( like 40 or 50)
No. 805901
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>>805602I'm actually an inverted triangle, if I measure shoulder width and hip width instead of circumference, 18 inch shoulders and 13/14 inch hips. If I measure like pic related, not including the side of my upper arms, then my shoulder and hip width is the same, 13 inch shoulders, 13 inch hips. I'm 18/19 bmi, so I must have very muscular upper arms, although to me they look noodly. I guess this means i should avoid long sleeves and go for either cap sleeves or sleeveless tops (?
I rather have a flat butt and wide hips tbh lol.
No. 805940
>>805901Nah anon sleeveless stuff can make you look wider and long sleeves can do the opposite but it depends on the actual garment. The key is balance between the entire outfit. I recommend trying an app like Zeekit where you can try on clothes on your actual frame using AI.
Have you looked into dressing for your face? This might be of interest to you, I like it better than kibbe honestly.
https://www.truth-is-beauty.com/blog/dress-for-your-face-not-for-your-body No. 805943
>>805874Probably like Emma Stone? Neckbeards are always obsessed with white actresses, just see r/gentlemanboners for example.
Or maybe a butterface like Anisa or just random internet personalities in general that aren't sexualized often (leave it to these cumbrains to do that kek)
No. 805964
>>805782>>805778KEK nonna
In all seriousness, I wonder if more "masculine" scents would fit me well, there's already some fragances "for everyone" that I'm a bit interested in.
Anyone has tried this?
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>>806006She might have changed since then but she was a real bitch when she was younger
No. 806287
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>>806258>does anyone else feel like there’s someone looking out for them despite everything? like some kind of higher being.I do!
>i’m worried that one day my luck might run outYou won't, the universe is always looking out for you. Read pic related by Louise Hay, listening to her audiobooks has helped me greatly in my life.
No. 806290
>>806258Samefagging, but here, you can listen to Louise Hay's audiobooks for free on youtube (the one I'm putting as the thumbnail is the one where that affirmaition comes from)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i668Bhg9YQkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LN_tH80c6_Ehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lz16YqpWkz4https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Llvo3YrVVVsRemember: all is well in my world.
No. 806353
>>806345Because he's extremely jealous and I went to a guy's house. I didn't do anything wrong mind you, I went to have him install some underbody lights.
>>806347I've thoroughly gone through all the settings and there's no setting to erase it smh
Maybe I shouldn't delete the address bc I didn't do anything wrong anyways, I just didn't want to have to deal with his rabid barking if i could avoid it
No. 806357
>>806353>he's extremely jealous>didn't want to have to deal with his rabid barkingYou know this is
toxic, right?
No. 806446
What causes blood vessels to pop? I just noticed some in my arm and I'm freaked out a little. Am I exercising too vigorously maybe?
>>806438This is something I also wonder about. I'm sort of a hermit but I would love to go out with some friends. Problem is, I don't have any. I also update my Facebook like once in 3 years so…yeah it seems pretty hopeless. Also I'm not vaccinated yet so can't go out to random outdoor programs in my area either
No. 806491
>>806461maybe bighugelabs
and there was this other site linked in the 'rate my taste thread', forgot the name
No. 806540
>>806490Yeah, I did it twice alone. My advice is don't do it. It's very hard. It also depends on where you go, but basically being alone in another country is super alienating.
Being honest, I only did it because I was suicidal and this was my way of doing a radical change and it worked for that purpose, but it brought with it other problems.
My life is now in perpetual shambles cause of those stupid decisions.
No. 806592
>>806588What like in Ethiopia? What's it like there? I once had a friend from Ethiopia.
>>806591Anyone who is not a citizen: tourists, foreign students, immigrants (without citizenship), refugees, illegal aliens…etc. It's meant to avoid negative connotations.
No. 806617
>>806491>>806471Yeah but then I have to install photoshop or some other program. I just want to make a few moodboards quickly
>>806482>>806491I'll check those out, thanks!
No. 806658
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i am leaving my first apartment at the end of the month and my landlord keeps hounding me about doing showings. Only we are still in covid and i dont feel comfortable having people in my apartment that i dont know looking at my shit and probably coughing and shit lmao. this is a dumb question but when your landlord is doing showings do you have to leave your apartment? Even though i dont feel comfy with people being in my apt i also dont wanna see them because its fucking awkward. why the fuck cant landlords offer showings AFTER the tenant has moved out. This is so inconvienent and annoying and giving me anxiety.
No. 806661
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>>806655Iykyk. I guess it's been lifted or something? Also i'm possibly risking getting another one by posting this lmao. Don't know what the deal is but i'm not complaining since i didn't even do or post anything to deserve it in the first place
No. 806735
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>>806687There's a search button at the bottom of /ot/ homepage, don't know about the other boards though
No. 806768
>>806758It's due to being involved in a male dominated hobby and decent enough at it to draw attention. I don't like having pictures of myself online so that doesn't help, but people have even said it after seeing pictures.
Part of the problem is that so many people in the SJW portion of the same community have this idea that it's not an insult to be called trans in the first place. I'd probably be called a
TERF just for saying "btw I'm cis"
No. 806863
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Why do furries have such a high concentration of trannies?
No. 806879
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Wtf can you do with these? I have a couple from something else I bought.
No. 806901
>>806887>>806898I think they're way too tiny for a terrarium (although that would be so cute, I love terrariums), but I like the other ideas. Thank you anons! I am actually currently on my period.
>>806897No!
No. 806965
>>806879>>806901When people make aquarium acrylic nails, they use a little bit of clear oil as water and green food dye to make a moss ball (it will naturally assume the shape of a sphere). Fun tip if you do wnd up wanting to make mini terrariums
Is it an etsy thing by any chance? You can make tiny spell jar earrings/necklaces/charms for witches and spiritual people to buy from you
No. 806966
>>806957That's actually what they were for lol. I bought nail decorations and those are the bottles they came in, but now some of them are empty.
>>806965Earrings sound cute! I thought about using that aquarium method to make some kind of potion looking thing. And nah, I'm not looking to sell them.
No. 806968
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>>806966Ah, I meant like one of the ones with liquid that you shake and watch it fall to the bottom, sorry. i'm not sure if that'd translate well to a small size though
No. 806991
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how are you going to explain the millions of pictures and screenshots of random cows on your computer and phones? like what do you guys even do with them, delete them? document them? will they become artifacts once this website finally goes MIA?
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>>806991I've been filing all my caps and receipts in dedicated folders for years, I'm like the NKVD of autism
No. 807063
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>>807060Animals that hunt have front facing eyes for better focus and depth and prey animals have side facing eyes for a bigger scope of vision so can they see predators almost in every direction and run away
No. 807070
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Does sex really feel better than masturbation??
No. 807075
>>807071Birds will eat them, they are weak, but venomous and sleezey.
A Lion is never going to worry about an eagle picking it up and eating it, snakes and lizards however will have to worry about lots of things.
No. 807080
>>807077It doesn't hunt traditionally, though. They attack their preys and basically wait for it to die due to infections because his teeth and saliva are full of bacteria.
Kinda like crocs, they hunt differently, do their evolution is different to most hunters. It's not a 100% universal truth, just a rule of thumb.
No. 807108
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Best hangover cures? I feel like ass nonnies
No. 807118
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does anyone have the version if this meme but with sakura card captors??
No. 807163
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Does any of you have any experience of going for women-only getaways? Something like "mindfulness and yoga weekend" or women only short activity camps etc. I found out about things like that being organized and being stuck in very male dominated work environment I gotta say I'm really tempted, but I don't know anyone who's ever went for anything like that being an adult.
If you have zero experience like me, do you think you'd want to go?
No. 807182
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It might be too specific but I use the japanese keyboard on Android and the circled part is an option to show you faster some kanjis with the pronunciation you entered. Is there any way to select which kanjis you want to see first? It always shows me some weird shit before the more common kanji I want to use.
No. 807286
>>807279I have deep a voice from a short phase on testosterone, I like it, some scrotes clearly hate it. I feel like the kind of scrotes that act weird because of it aren't ones I'd get along with anyway. It only really highlights that.
When I show up to work early and my voice is at it's deepest (happens when I'm tired) the guys that'll chat away to me unfazed are the coolest guys. I've learnt that
No. 807289
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>>807279It's nice when there's variation in depth when it comes to people's voices. Makes me curious and I'll probably think you sound super cool when talking with where your voice rests naturally. Let's just, idk, resonate out loud in a room together. It'll sound great I promise
No. 807297
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>>807277Identify their emotional need and fulfill it. If they are nurturing type, be a poor wounded animal they can take care of, if they are shy inexperienced type, be the one to break them out of their shell, if they are indecisive and anxious, take their worries away by taking charge of their life. I know there is a book called Art of Seduction that deals with this type of seduction, but I havent read it myself, so I cant vouch for it.
No. 807313
>>807307Nta but they said
>Identify their emotional need and fulfill itAnd then you went to
>knowingly and purposefully (ab)use my emotional needHow'd you make that leap?
No. 807319
>>807313How is
>Identify their emotional need and fulfill it in order to make someone fall in love with menot
>knowingly and purposefully (ab)using emotional need?
It's literally using someone's emotional need to make something happen for yourself
No. 807325
>>807279Marry me aaaahhhh.
>>807289I like the way you think anon heh.
No. 807334
>>807307I don't think there's a way to "make" someone fall in love with you. Actually,"making" someone fall in love sounds kind of manipulative, like something you would do with black magic, idk
The only thing you can do is to show them who you are, flirt a little and hope this will spark some interest in them too
No. 807376
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Is there any way in hell to contact Japan Post from overseas? I have a package stuck in the shadow realm that left japan in early February but no updates since then, and it wasn't EMS.
Would it be rude to ask a Japanese friend to inquire for me if there is no other option?
No. 807378
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Has anyone here seen an individually wrapped potato irl? These are so wasteful, but I am so curious about them. Why do they exist
No. 807407
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>>807109>>807110>>807114>>807115>>807158Thanks nonnies! Made a big greasy fry up then went on a hike. Feeling fresher than a daisy!
No. 807422
>>807367French and just using english sounding names, it makes you look like a reality TV addict (Kevin is synonymous with dumb dude here). I've never seen any localized version of names like the other anons though.
On the other side of the spectrum there's using some really old fashion names, you can instantly see who comes from a tradcath family, which makes you some kind of repressed loser.
No. 807490
>>807161tbh usually this indicates a history of abuse they need to work out in therapy
but also if you dont want PIV and are enjoying receiving other pleasure from him, don't feel you need to do the same for him if he doesn't actually want you to just because that's the norm
No. 807519
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I got some matches on tinder a few weeks ago but I was busy with other things & haven’t had the time to text these people (back). Is it weird or awkward to text them now for the first time even though those matches are like 3-4 weeks old?
No. 807565
>>807325>>807284Men ain't shit so I'm glad there's women that appreciate my voice type, is far, far more flattering.
>>807286>I feel like the kind of scrotes that act weird because of it aren't ones I'd get along with anyway.>the guys that'll chat away to me unfazed are the coolest guys. I've learnt thatI had a similar experience, my voice kinda works like a test to discard shitty men, and it's very obvious by the first time I talk to them lmao
>>807291>she just demands respect and vibrates strength and leadership through everything from her height to her posture to her voice to her behaviourThat also happened to me too, I'm 5'8 (average scrote height in my country) and as men always get catty with me i had to develop a strong character who takes no shits and people just assume i know what do even tho i don't.
For the record, I'd say my voice does give me some privileges starting with people taking me way more seriously and actually hearing what i say, i didn't notice all of this until other women including family started pointing out that men didn't listen to them like they did with me and some even asked me to help them get heard which made me aware of misogyny to a deep level, I'm not man nor i sound like one but they took me seriously because they could see me as an equal of sorts and that fucked me up, i think it's quite unfair.
No. 807574
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>>807568If you're talking about text, I usually do two # on each side of the text. There's a guide in this post
>>>/meta/6821 If you mean how to spoiler a photo, you just click the button in picrel after you upload the file.
No. 807590
>>807577am lesbo, hate hozier
but i was a music snob long before i realised i was gay
No. 807679
>>807577So I'm not sure if this will make sense because I too am stoned. First of all, Hozier is very pro-LGBT so that's a good start.
Second, he writes his love songs with a more wlw gaze. Like instead of the typical, "oh boy, i want to fuck you" scrote shit, but it is always with respect and admiration. His songs are always about adoring these strong and complicated women, which is rarely seen because when men sing about women they are objects or on a gross pedestal.
Make sense?
No. 807699
>>807660He's a white Irish alt/indie singer with a soft and artsy aesthetic. But exactly as
>>807679 said, his good qualities actually seem genuine. No drama, no partying, doesn't really like being in the spotlight but has still been very critically acclaimed. Also his voice is legit amazing. I'm not really a fan of his genre but hearing him sing this totally unaccompanied was wild.
No. 807776
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would you rather be broken up with because your SO cheated on you but them not telling you this is the reason– only giving you a vague reason because "ignorance is bliss" and they "don't want" to "hurt you" – or would you rather them telling you they cheated and leaving you the choice to either stay or leave?
No. 807808
>>807802emotional cheating is also the worst. Why would you need anybody else if you already have a bond and share mutual intimacy with someone ? how many people do you have to be emotionally intimate with?
>>807807thanks
nonny No. 807820
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>>807307>>807297I downloaded the book, started reading it, and… yeah. Manipulative shit
No. 807827
>>807820Wtf it literally calls the other person your “
victim”
No. 807842
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I have a "special someone" who isn't my boyfriend, but we have agreed to be exclusive to each other. Still, we are basically nothing.
I have 2 guys who want to eat my pussy and one girl. The special someone I'm talking about is a LDR type of deal. Again, we're not in a relationship. And I'm a horny mf, should I just let the 3 people I'm talking about eat my cunt out and obviously not tell this person?
No. 807844
>>807843I do love this person, but like, the opportunity to get free sex is there too you know? I don't love the other 3 people at all. It would just be something casual that no one has to know about
Or do you think it would make me guilty in the end? legit question
No. 807846
>>807842You agreed to be exclusive which is basically a relationship already. That would make sexual interactions with others cheating and make you a worthless piece of trash for doing that.
Just break it off and then you can hoe as much as you want.
No. 807848
>>807844You dont love them if you are thinking of cheating already. Especially in the beginning of a relationship you should only be thinking about that person.
Honestly you sound like such a shitty person, scrote tier scummy behavior.
No. 807849
>>807846>relationshipHe told me he isn't ready for a relationship, and I told him I'm not either. We just want to have sex when he comes and visits me. We literally stablished we're not in a relationship.
Idk, in a way, it makes me happy to see these people actually wanting me, it boosts my ego. I'm not someone who usually gets that many people interested in me. So it's like, "wow I haven't had my tits sucked in a while, I actually wanna see how it feels again" and… yeah.
No. 807857
>>807853>do you think I care what a rando on an imageboard saysNta, but you literally asked for our opinion on what you should do, so clearly you do care. Anyway this anon
>>807851 is right imo.
No. 807858
>>807854Yeah, I guess so
>>807855Hmm… the thing is I don't feel that guilty
>>807856I'm here to ask a question, not to be scolded. There's a difference
No. 807865
>>807864Even more reason to break it off with him. The other person treating you badly means it is time to end it, it is not justification to cheat. Betraying their trust makes you an even worse person than them.
Any sexual act with another person is cheating. You know this. God you are such a turd.
No. 807867
>>807864My whole thing is, if he hurt you so bad then why did you agree to be in a exclusive ldr? And why won't you break up with him if you no longer want to be in this relationship?
>Sucking a tiddie is not sex…what? You said you wanted to have sex with 3 other people and have them eat you out. It would still be cheating anyway.
No. 807868
>>807865The thing is, yes I know it's a bad thing to do. I know this yet I feel no guilt, but it's like, I could tell these people to fuck off anytime for him too. But right now I don't know if I can do much "for him" though. Since he really fucking hurt me when I was very, very in love with him.
>you are such a turdYeah probably, it's weird not feeling any guilt for this, like, I seriously don't know what's wrong with me. But at the same time I feel nothing wrong, idk really
>>807867I still have feelings for him.
No. 807872
>>807870That
is cheating, wtf. That's like saying kissing another person while you are in a relationship isn't cheating. In fact, I would say breast sucking is worse. Why are you doing all of these mental gymnastics instead of breaking up with him
No. 807879
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Anon really isn't gonna give up until we tell her to just cheat
No. 807881
>>807876Don't? Nobody is stopping you. But then don't say you're exclusive when you're clearly lying.
Just one question, do you really want to fuck all those people or are you just doing it to make him jealous/fill a void/prove some point?
No. 807882
>>807877I mean, yesterday he just told me he "loves me as a human being" but that he's "not ready for a relationship" because he needs irl touch. As in, he probably does love me, but he's keeping this up to when we finally hang out irl and do our stuff. The guy is pretty sweet, but very, very stupid. He said he's not looking for anyone else in the meantime or even after we do our do irl, because he just isn't ready (he's a manchild with a fear of commitment, and he wants to "work on himself")
So yeah, I do love him. But tiddie suck is very enticing too
>>807880Ugh, I know, I know, I've thought about the guilt down the line too. But also… it's not like he loves me
loves me. I'm not going to sleep around, it's just going to be some kisses and some tiddie touch and suck and that'll be it, I can make myself forget on command either way tbh, plus I've become super forgiving of myself so… as long as we aren't 100% commited what damage can it really do?
>>807881Nahhh, I don't want to tell him or make him jealous. I just see someone else touching me as not such a big deal, the problem here is actually hurting him though. Which I obviously know it won't happen because I'll never tell him.
No. 807884
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What’s with all the insane autism going on in choachan right now? It reminds me of ashreha’s garden before the fall. Is this all being done by the tumor girl? Who is she btw? All I know is she’s a retarded wannabe vtuber who streamed herself working at a suicide hotline on the board and accidentally doxed herself in the process. I don’t even know her username so I can laugh at her because it keeps getting deleted.
No. 807886
>>807831You
could but it could also backfire and why are you trying to get with a manipulative person anyway? They are damaging to your well being and your soul. Especially if you actively know they’re
toxic then just steer clear
nonny No. 807889
>>807885I missed that. Okay so you're
- in an online relationship
- with a manchild
- who doesn't want to commit
- but tries to keep you on a leash by pretending you're exclusive when you're not
dunno anon you stand nothing to gain here. You can either demand you make it official or you're not and can go fuck other people. I'd straight up tell him that I'm going to fuck other people because we're not in a relationship. That's my final verdict.
No. 807896
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>>807887ata and I don’t have all the details, I only skimmed btsg and the current dumbass shit thread for this information.
Some random retard keeps spamming her fave group of nobodies in every thread that gets bumped on the front page, posting bait comments while avatarfagging for her favorite group. Eventually she gets too comfortable and links to a stream of herself as an attempted vtuber OR she linked a tiktok and anons checked her username and found out her identity and the suicide hotline thing. I think it’s the latter because I saw a reply to her deleted comment and it looked like she was posting her old tiktoks. She regulary posts on imageboards and is trying to get famous. This was the comment summarization I read
>shes a treasure stan (teume=tumor) trying to become a famous streamer/vtuber god knows why. A low point was her streaming her volunteer work on a suicide chat hotline and basically doxxing herself. She’s been banned from a lot of forums for being annoying, offensive and/or endlessly promoting her nugu channelBut it still doesn’t provide any links, usernames, and all the videos she posts gets deleted. Apparently she does this spamming, incoherent retardposting on other boards until she finally gets banned so it’s only a matter of time. Right now she made a thread about how choachan admin is a man and the site is looking for a new admin, and bumped every thread on the main board with a comment that admin is a man.
No. 807921
>>807896>shes a treasure stan (teume=tumor)What does this mean, where does this word come from?
Also she should get a thread here, if not a general choachan milk thread
No. 808050
>>808044You could just go for a safe response like
>wow! How cool!>nice!>looks really Nice!>are those just your favorites or like the whole band?>who are they again?Most of the time they love it when you ask about them so they can start reciting all the information they’ve acquired about them.
No. 808064
>>808046I just think it’s sad to see women creating an onlyfans for attention, I mean, if you want to post saucy pictures on your social media, cool, they’re nice, but most of the time I feel like they end up doing actual porn and it’s shitty because of the way they get treated by scrotes, since they’re unable to treat their fantasies with any sort of respect and such.
Even if you don’t care about the comments and the coomers, it must quite mentally exhausting having to deal with a bunch of scrotes that are your clients and that are willing to pay lots of money to the models for doing degrading stuff.
No. 808110
>>808046I think it's likely many will regret it someday or pay a mental price they didn't expect. That's their own risk to take though. We all live and learn and take risks that may or may not pay off.
I never sold myself but when I was younger I made poor decisions when it came to my sexual lifestyle. I worry that sometimes sex positivity is only helping to lead lambs to the slaughter, so to speak. My 30 year old ass knows things my 18 year self wishes she knew back then.
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This man is autistic, doesn't shower, is morbidly obese, couldn't land a job at Target despite applying seven(7) times, is overall cringe due to his utter lack of social skills, and yet he somehow has a gf.
Women, why are you like this?(scrote)
No. 808126
>>808124Cope. Acting as if a scrote cares about the pleasure of his one-night stand and that fucking random men is in any way satisfying. lel.
If you are horny buy a vibrator that will get you off better than any man can. If you want to have sex with a man there is this cool thing called a relationship in which you can have sex as many times as you want with someone who cares about you and actually will put in work to learn what you like.
No. 808141
>>808139Because you are told that you should enjoy it, when you actually don't. Women only have casual sex cause they are literally brainwashed into thinking it is fulfilling, cool and empowering to be "just like the boys" and have sex without feelings, when that is not how women work at all. It's very damaging to young women so yes, it pisses me off to see that kind of shit encouraged everywhere by libfems and see 18 year old girls brag about "having 200 bodies" and opening OnlyFans on their birthday. It's tragic.
The only reason women do any of this is for validation and you should find your validation not from selling your body and sleeping with random scrotes, you should find it within yourself because you are smart, develop a skill or contribute to society in a meaningful way.
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>>808123Ew looking at this makes my chest itch and feel uncomfortable
>>807921>>807917Mods deleted the thread she made and I didn’t screenshot because it seemed useless
she’s going to get permabanned anyways and there was no definitive proof it was her, also she clearly wants attention from kpopfags so I didn’t want to actively feed into that by immortalizing her via screenshotsbut there’s still her comment on every thread in /kpop/. I’m not linking because I think it counts as advertising, but you can just go to choachan.cafe and go to the bts general thread. Search the thread (there’s only one) for “suicide” and the comments talking about her should be there. But her actual antics seem wiped from the entire site. Picrel I saved a picture she used during her attempt to troll the previous bts thread by calling the members trannies and asexual. Teume is the abbreviation of the korean pronunciation of “Treasure Maker” which is the fandom name she’s a part of, and what korean fans call themselves. The romanization would be like [Teu]rae-jeo [Me]i-keo.
No. 808146
>>808143I think I found that article, according to which only 50% of man and 24% of women view casual hookups as positive. But also
>People who viewed hooking up positively were more likely to have positive experiences with hooking up. If you believe it will be a good experience, or a bad experience, it seems that this becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. So, if we are telling women that casual sex is negative and unfulfilling, it may be that we are creating this outcome in women, who might otherwise be unbothered by just hooking up. A recently published article on the Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality examines the issue of casual, or recreational sex, and finds that for both men and women, casual sex improves their feelings of sexual satisfaction. But, for men and not for women, recreational sex improves their overall feelings of happiness and sexual self-esteem. No. 808149
>>808146 > if we are telling women that casual sex is negative and unfulfilling, it may be that we are creating this outcome in womenDiff anon but surely women would have less nsa sex, rather than still having it and just disliking it more? That seems more likely to me
When I was young I thought sexually active people were winning at life so I stayed pretty sexually active. I had high hopes but it was mostly meh tbh. A handful of genuinely good memories among too many mundane ones. I wish we could get rid of the whole virgin equals loser thing.
No. 808162
>>808152Isn't this just the sad truth.
Attention/validation/feeling hot because a man wants you. Then you realize half the porn out there is freakshow stuff that still gets their dicks hard. If you're female you automatically could bed most men you meet if you wanted to. It's not even an accomplishment but I've been in that messed up headspace. Thought I was proving myself desirable. I didn't value myself all that much in general.
No. 808165
>>808146This is exactly the kind of bullshit they try to push on women. Never trust any of this "science". The reality is just that sex with men fucking sucks unless you train the man how to please you and he is actually attentive and knows your body/your reactions. Women aren't as easy as men when it comes to sex and everyone knows this.
The only "positive" women get out of casual encounters is validation, attention and feeling desired. Which you shouldn't get from fucking random scrotes but from within yourself and for your accomplishments.
Zoomer women are gonna be so fucked up because of this bullshit and I feel genuinely sorry for any woman who has to grow up in this "sex positive" hellworld where your classmates are all waiting to turn 18 to open their OnlyFans accounts.
No. 808174
>>808169Yes, this will also eventually flip back around when people realize that making every woman a whore is going to destroy our society. Then suddenly all the women who had OnlyFans accounts and are now in their 40s will be made to feel like shit again and shamed for it.
You can't unfuck yourself in the ass on camera. That shit is forever and you WILL regret it. Maybe not today or tomorrow but 100% 20 years from now when you want to have your own family.
No. 808184
>>808179I can't say how many times I've randomly come across men complaining online lately 'women on dating apps have insane standards now, who tf do you think you are, you ain't nothing special becky'
Men have been on apps trying to punch above their weight for years now. I'm guessing women are getting a lil sick of it. Tough luck guys. Date within your own league maybe?
No. 808189
>>808174>making every woman a whore is going to destroy our society.Slow down on that incel juice, friend
I don't agree with the normalisation of OF either but maybe put the blame where it belongs instead of slutshaming? I actually hope that the one good thing to come out of this is that slutshaming loses its bite and becomes one less weapon used to control women
No. 808195
>>808189>slutshamingGo back to twitter. Making every woman a whore will absolutel destroy our society because it makes women a commodity and assigns their value based entirely on how good they are at fulfilling men's fantasies. Yes this should be shamed and discouraged.
In fact we should bring back shame for a lot more things. Furries and BDSM kinksters need to be forced back into their basements. Men who wear women's underwear to jerk off should be forced to do it in secret in their bedrooms instead of out in public while calling themselves women. Bring back shaming people for their abnormal and degenerative behavior and lack of moral values.
No. 808214
>sexually repressed freak:|
>>808210Exactly, the only difference is that now moids think they are entitled to free no-strings-attached-sex. How is that a win, exactly?
At least in conservative societies moids had to work hard for sex and after getting it they had to live with the same woman and provide for her for the rest of their lives.
How the fuck is being expected by society to provide free sex for nothing, a win for women?
No. 808218
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>>808208And yet, women have never been this unhappy.
source:
http://ftp.iza.org/dp4200.pdfCasual sex and whoring does not make women happy. It makes men happy. You are debasing yourself because men tell you that you are a cool girl who is free and powerful and not ashamed of her body. You also let the porn industry tell you that people who don't spit in each others mouth and whip each other are sexually repressed.
No. 808221
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My special someone has noticed my moody bpd whiplashes. Uh-oh, what do now?
No. 808225
>>808189Slutshaming is not going to go away because you post about it on twitter.
You are free to live your lifestyle as you please and people are free to judge you based on that lifestyle, just like you judge others based on theirs.
And if you think it is only men who slutshame, you know nothing.
No. 808229
>>808208Women have always been judged by men and assigned a value. It the 50s she was judged for her ability as a housewife and mother, now she's valued for her ability to please men and shove over sized dildos up her ass on OF. Neither is a solution to the problem.
>>808213>dressing provocatively cant be used as defense for rapistRape is increasing in all western societies and the rates of prosecution are declining.
No. 808236
>>808218Your own study remarks that women might finally be more comfortable revealing how less happy they are compared to when they were just coming off of the Civil Rights Act.
>It has been recognized that an individual’s assessment of their well-being may reflect the social desirability of responses and Kahneman (1999) argues that people in good circumstances may be hedonically better off than people in worse circumstances, yet they may require more to declare themselves happy. In the context of the findings presented in this paper, women may now feel more comfortable being honest about their true happiness and have thus deflated their previously inflated responses. Or, as in Kahneman’s example, the increased opportunities available to women may have increased what women require to declare themselves happy.So it's not that conservative society socialized actually happier women, they were just more conditioned to believe they were most likely. Also, this study was published in 2009, so I feel as though we're missing quite a big chunk of data here.
No. 808244
>>808221Get honest, and of course make sure you're pulling your weight in getting help.
I wasn't yet diagnosed when I was in my first big relationship and I remember trying so hard to cover up the crazy and also not understanding my own crazy. Rough times.
No. 808263
>>808229Difference being that now you are free to choose to work and be independent, you can simply give no fucks if they think you're a prude and you won't be tied to an
abusive husband with 4 kids being marital raped.
Lay off the incel ideas and look into conservative countries, things are much better for you guys, the number of reported rapes being bigger just means women have some hope of justice.
>>808240See a dentist anon, if you're brushing flossing it shouldn't be so bad.
No. 808276
>>808271I don't even care when someone does it irl, it's just a finger.
Mooning and flashing is actually offensive but it's also a self own because it indicates that you know you are horrible to the eyes
No. 808277
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>>808218>You are debasing yourself because men tell you that you are a cool girl who is free and powerful and not ashamed of her body. You also let the porn industry tell you that people who don't spit in each others mouth and whip each other are sexually repressed.nigga take your ass back to /pol/ no one cares
No. 808299
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>>808286>>808277>>808270>everyone I don't like is a scrote, go back to pol!Please get new material, its legit the same shit everytime you talk to libfems who think sexwork is "so empowering UwU"
Cope, seethe, sell your butthole pics to own the scrotes
I am so happy we live in times where women are this empowered that we can livestream our births on OnlyFans! Crafty businesswoman doing it for herself!
No. 808305
>>808263>the number of reported rapes being bigger just means women have some hope of justiceMore women being raped doesn't equal more justice, especially when the number of rapists being locked up is decreasing.
>>808270>every poster that has a different opinion to me on LC is a maleThat's why this place is going to shit. It's like the LC equivalent of Godwin's law.
No. 808308
>>808299>>808305>>everyone I don't like is a scrote, go back to pol!>>every poster that has a different opinion to me on LC is a maleLook, its not about whether you are some incel score, it is that you might as well be, because you act exactly the same.
Also seeth, cope, dilate, fuck you.
No. 808320
>>808316Exactly, nobody cares about scrote accusations we want a discussion. It's frustrating please use actual logic
>>808236>So it's not that conservative society socialized actually happier women, they were just more conditioned to believe they were most likely.Ok what even is this argument. I would like to be conditioned to believe I'm happier, isn't that just being happy? wtf is this doublespeak, apparently women were still happier. You could also say therapy conditions me to think I'm happy.
No. 808322
>>808308I can not understand how someone can be so closed minded as to think that all women are going to agree on any given topic. It's either narcissism to think that only your world view is correct or is retardation because you don't realise that LC is full of women from all over the world how each have different experiences in life.
I actually enjoy that aspect of /ot/. I get to see real anonymous perspectives from other women living a different life to me. Why are you so determined to turn the only place on the internet where this allowed happen into an echo chamber?
No. 808339
>>808334Some women literally believe that selling bootypics to incels is being a crafty businesswoman who is exploiting men instead of them being exploited by the sexwork industry and and stuffing more money into the pockets of the men who own OnlyFans.
The amount of times I have had to read about Belle Delphine being a smart businesswoman is absolutely insane. Young women look up to this and think being a whore is a career choice like any other and because women are now free to do with their bodies whatever they want that means you need to exploit yourself and let men exploit you for financial gain.
>>808338You don't have any actual arguments against what I am saying so you do the old "y-you must be a scrote!" that is so popular on here when you run out of things to say. Again, YAWN!
No. 808351
>>808346Women who do OnlyFans are not vulnerable. They are not streetwalkers in third world countries who need to prostitute themselves to survive.
The only women I feel bad for who do OnlyFans are young girls who are groomed by society and scrotes (like Bhad Babie or whatever her name is).
Grown women chosing to sell their nudes instead of working a normal job are not vulnerable and perfectly fine to shame for their horrible life choices. This whole "women can do no wrong, EVER!" is absolutely libfem bullshit and not helping anyone.
You think
>>808299 this woman is a poor vulnerable
victim? She is literally selling the birth of her baby for men to masturbate to. You think this shouldn't be shamed or criminalized? That baby will come into the world on ONLYFANS.
No. 808353
>>808346The majority of whores on OF and other sites are not
victims in the same way that actual sex trafficked women are or women forced into it due to abuse and poverty. Most women uploading to OF do so entirely by choice. They then encourage other women, including teenage girls to make the same choice. It's sick.
No. 808354
>>808305Yeah anon that's why japan and egypt, paragons of feminism and equal societies, have such a low rape rate! totally not because of the hostility faced when reporting it and no hope of a sliver of justice that makes the whole process not worth it
>>808339And because some women believe that, your solution is to make us all go back to the 50s to be abused at home quietly because that's better than some women being sluts.
If you're not an incel you sure think like one.
No. 808355
>>808354>Saying women were happier 50 years ago = forcing everyone to be 50s housewives againStrawmanning, no real argument
>If you're not an incel you sure think like oneYAWN
No. 808361
>>808351>Women who do OnlyFans are not vulnerable>The majority of whores on OF and other sites are not victimsAll right, in that care what the fuck is your problem? What does it matter if they "encourage" other women into it, as you yourself said, selling porn on OF does not one a
victim, so who cares?
No. 808370
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>>808361I can not believe how retarded you actually are. Do I need to remind you of how much pornography is a detriment to our society, how it makes women into commodities? How it destroys relationships and how it promotes actual sexual abuse and sex-trafficking?
That teenage girls see this shit and think it is normal to open an OnlyFans? That they aspire to do it once they turn 18?
Just because the women doing OnlyFans are not
victims doesn't mean their behavior isn't a fucking plague on society as a whole.
>what's wrong with every woman on the planet becoming a prostitute?Are you REALLY this dumb?
No. 808371
>>808355Anons have already told you that they had an entirely different mentality to what happiness meant to a woman and what they were expected to say, besides all the other economical factors, like you can see for men too.
In my notoriously violent country domestic violence official rates fell, but only a retard would believe it's not because those women aren't now stuck at home with no way of getting help and under 24h watch from their
abusive husbands + no money to escape from the extensive layoffs.
You're doing the same shit and taking data at face value with no critical thinking. Honestly if you're too autistic to grasp such a small amount of nuance in data there is no hope for you, commit an hero.
No. 808374
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>>808371>REEEEEEEEEE KILL YOURSELFDon't you have a custom fart compilation due? You can't let the customers wait.
No. 808375
>>808354I never mentioned anywhere else but the west. More women are being raped (see
>>808342) and less men are being put in prison for doing it.
>>808361Telling teenage girls to sell themselves on OF instead of having a stable and fulfilling career is outright evil. Sex work is not a sustainable life choice.
No. 808399
>>808370>muh commoditiesStop pretending to be a marxist, even having this discourse makes sense only within a liberal framework.
>>808375>selling the idea to women and young girls that it's a viable career to conmodify your body is completely fucked up>Telling teenage girls to sell themselves on OF instead of having a stable and fulfilling career is outright evilNobody cares about careers! People work to make a living, and unfortunately under a current system that means making profit for the worst scum on the planet. Selling yourself in a corporate office or in a factory does not make you any better than a prostitute. If sex work bothers you so much than I heavily encourage you to join your local communist party, because we are not getting rid of it otherwise.
No. 808407
>>808399If you can't see the difference between working in an office and posting videos of yourself destroying your own asshole on OF, I just don't fucking know what to say anymore.
I've worked at a shit office job. As much as I hated it, it didn't require me to mutilate my own genitals as wank fodder for scrotes and I was able to move on to something better with both my mental and physical health intact.
No. 808416
>>808413A lot of the cows are also aware of their threads and selfpost on here and I guess they get offended when you point out that prostituting yourself is not a career.
There is no way someone gets this upset and tells people to kill themselves if they don't feel personally offended because they sell their own anus destruction videos.
>>808399Communism is cringe. The word "commodity" is not marxist in itself.
No. 808431
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>>808413Ideally nobody should be doing OF. People dont do it because they like it, they do it because you need money to live. Anons here talk about how they could pursue better career instead, but that shit is not option for most people. The only social mobility that exists anymore is down. Those 18 year olds are given bunch of shit options for paying bills, and choose the least shit one, which for some of them mean OF. You dont stop it by shaming sex workers, but by creating at the very least, a functional welfare state that keeps people from ever having to prostitute themselves.
>>808416>Communism is cringe.Well the market decided that women selling themselves is profitable, so stop complaining.
>>808428>Marxism as if it's a viable systemIt is not system at all, it is an analytical method. Also your econ 101 is mostly propaganda with no empirical basis.
No. 808432
>>808413The amount of newfags during summer and after PULL being closed, along with activity on art/salt and threads about cows like CH or western animatiors and twitter SJWs ended up bringing a huge amount of weirdos from Twitter.
>>808334it isn't. the whole 'OnlyFans gives you ez money' is a meme, the only way you will ever even be able to make at least decent amount of money on OF is by already having a huge fanbase (see People from trash reality shows). It's still not worth it in the end zz
No. 808555
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Do any anons know which editting app this is? Or that has a similar paint brush blurring tooling?
No. 808593
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We have komaeda kin anons, but where are the kokichi ones?
No. 808597
>>807820This shit is very chuunibyou, though. It's all like "Seduce your prey and make them miserable, but make them love you!!!", but lists no examples of that behavior in action.
It's like someone watched a movie or read a novel and boiled down what the villain character(s) tried to do, but avoided going into detail because they don't want people to realize this comes from fiction.
I know actual abusers/manipulators do this, but all these books avoid actually explaining themselves.
No. 808626
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>>808593my best friend is a mikan kinnie
No. 808656
>>808650Nah, it's completely
valid and understandeable. Do what makes you the most comfortable, only you know what the truth is. Don't let anyone make you like you're doing something bad just because you want to keep your sexuality to yourself. I know social media pressures us to be 100% honest with labels and shit, but there was a time when we didn't have to wear badges saying what we preffer in bed, and it was alright. Just saying
No. 808659
>>808658Absolutely
The first step to get better is acceptance
Try not to sulk
No. 808660
>>808633>>808650It's funny to think what the reaction would be if "lesbian" and "bi" were switched in this scenario, kek. There'd be mass sperging and rage all over.
But yeah you're fine anon. You don't really owe anyone shit unless you're actually dating them.
No. 808717
>>808665It is nearly impossible to smoke just "sometimes", nicotine is as addictive as heroin or cocaine. It takes just a few cigarettes to lose control of it completely and become a cigarette addict for life.
Don't start what you can't stop.
No. 808741
>>808717Eh I dunno about that, I tried smoking a fair few times as a teen and couldn't have gotten addicted even if I wanted to, I found it that horrible.
I have no idea how people actually get addicted unless they actively try to make it a habit. It's a really unpleasant and uncomfortable feeling at first, which is not true for heroin or cocaine.
No. 808758
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>>808665If you smoke clove cigarettes you'll look just as cool/have something to do/excuse to leave and you'll not smell as bad (people might what that smell is bc it's unique) and it's self limiting because it's hard to smoke an entire clove and it's easy to limit it to weekends, events etc because they are more expensive. The Djarum Blacks are pretty goth, I like the specials but Splash are aesthetic af and are good for beginners I think. For a lighter flavor and still nice packaging try Bali Hai.
No. 808761
>>808747>you have to shut up. It's not about you, you medical curiosity, you freak of nature. You're a statistical error. You are to be ignored.wtf, calm down. I'm not encouraging anyone to just give smoking a go, obviously it's addictive. I just never got the impression addiction to nicotine was immediate, rather that it develops over time as tolerance builds and a habit forms. It was only an assumption that I didn't look into until now, but it's not an unreasonable one. This study (
https://tobaccocontrol.bmj.com/content/9/3/313) even says specifically
>It has been assumed that nicotine dependence has a slow onset and occurs only after prolonged daily use of tobacco.And the rest of the research makes it seem like it simply varies between individuals, with 3 main types of smokers (rapid onset, slow onset and resistant to dependence). Rapid onset looks to be the most common so I'm not saying you're wrong, just that you didn't need to sperg the fuck out like I was saying something absurd.
No. 808815
>>808811This one varies by person, region, sexuality, age range etc, you aren't going to get a collective answer on it
My rule of thumb for emotional cheating with either gender is that if you feel guilty and or have the impulse to hide any of the friendship from your partner then maybe you're doing something wrong, but this obviously doesn't work when applied to anxious guilty people or sociopaths
I think it's really unhealthy to make your SO your whole world, I tell my SO everything eventually but I have my friends to talk to too.
No. 808838
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Is it bad to play with toys if you’re not a kid? Like with calico critters, because the sets are fucking cute and I’ve never felt this urge to play with a toy for a really, really long time.
No. 808858
>>808851unplug their chargers
misplace their phone or keys
eat their food from the fridge
stick gum under their shoes
No. 808984
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Would anyone like a nun or religious imagery thread on /m/? I just want to post paintings of nuns and angles
No. 809037
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>>809008I have no idea what you mean and I don't know if she is an influencer but Chrissy teigen looks like a retarded lion to me
No. 809055
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>>809037She reminds me of Ligers and all those crossbreeds between big cats in captivity
No. 809087
>>808851- When they’re walking behind you, walk super slow
- when ordering food, take your time
-use or take someone’s “favourite thing” (shirt, utensils etc.)
- eat their food that they saved
- misplace their stuff (ex.keys)
No. 809168
>>809126Roast vegetable salsa.
>roast onions, bell peppers and tomatoes until soft and sweet>dice then mix in a bowl>add lime juice and chopped coriander/cilantro>>809142Just use a mineral salt deodorant. It's natural and it works.
No. 809169
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>>809145This is the most retarded thing I have ever read on the internet. Bravo.
No. 809174
>>809166>>809169God forbid someone doesn't want to feel like shit for being cheated on amirite?
i'm not going to sulk like you guys sorry not sorry
No. 809178
>>809174Cheating has nothing to do with you. The most amazing people and the worst people in this world get cheated on. Cheating has everything to do with the person doing the cheating being a selfish piece of shit and nothing with you.
You shouldn't take it as a fucking compliment, but you also shouldn't take it as that you did anything wrong and some of their "needs were not met". That is bullshit. You can suck a man's dick 5 times a day and if he wants he will still cheat on you.
There is literally nothing you can do to prevent it from happening, you just hope and pray that the person you love is not such a selfish prick that they would take a dump on your heart just to get their dick wet with someone else.
It sucks but it's true.
No. 809181
>>809162 >I defenitely care, I feel I have to use this cope or I'll do something bad to him…
>i'm not going to sulk like you guys sorry not sorrykek
No. 809187
>>809175>>809177Caring and sulking is not the same. You can care and attempt to not let it change your emotional state at least I'm trying here.
>>809181Oh wait, I know why my question struck a cord with you guys, you probably had boyfriends cheat on their girlfriends with you and you're angry that they wouldn't dump them for you. You're trash just like the boyfriends, just so you know.
>>809182I don't even like giving blowjobs that much tbh, I should've probably let him know before we got together. It got one sided, but he can't say I didn't make an attempt. He said it was clear I didn't enjoy it and he didn't want to make me uncomfortable. He's still shit.
No. 809188
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why do you guys like the argue so much do I need to call mommy admin?
No. 809199
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I want to start watching Castlevania! Is it good?
I like stuff like FMA and binged Berserk manga before.
No. 809218
>>809199As a fan of the games, I got deeply irritated by the dumb dialogue where multiple characters sound like the same sweary juvenile american man. Constant gore too, it gets ridiculous.
Great animation, though, and I really like what they did with the character Isaac.
No. 809272
>>809212doormat would be if i stayed despite knowing? I dipped as soon as I found out and wished him godspeed
>>809222>>809178>>809157Thank you anons this was my first relationship so it's probably why it hurts so much, this
>>809157 anon was right and I should probably allow myself to feel. I'm not even angry anymore tbh, but then my mood does tend to change quite frequently, lol. Also I skipped over your replies because I know you guys are probably right. It's neither a compliment nor indicative of something being wrong with me. I'm obvi going through the 7 stages of grief, prob shouldn't linger too long in denial. introspection is a bitch. Also I'm really sorry to hear you were surrounded by so many gross people
nonny. Like attracts like seems true. I hope you're with someone a million times better now
forgot to sage
No. 809322
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>>809290You need to eat lots of fiber, fruits, veggies and fermented foods like yogurt, which is honestly the only one that comes to my mind.
No. 809371
File: 1621285174070.jpg (234.7 KB, 1620x1080, pick.jpg)
Which one? if you had to pick
Beavis for me
No. 809415
>>809392The blonde is beavis. I'd maybe let him eat me out. Get him to spaz out to the point where he's having one of his vibrating episodes and then take advantage of that.
Buttheads mouth isn't something I'd want anywhere near me.
No. 809430
>>809209none tbh. i feel like everything's getting worse with the constant bait (plus lack of milk on cow boards)
>>809261i guess the same reason people call each other "baby"
No. 809471
>>809457Genetics play a big part, specially with rapid weight loss, while some people go back to normal others aren't as fortunate.
Still, willing to go though such a dramatic surgery just for a little loose skin doesn't seem worth it imo, I've heard horrors about the recovery and the scars idk.
No. 809473
>>809467For a twenty something couple sure, but for people like me on the cusp of 30 and wanting kids, I won't wait 3 years just to see how it's going.
My parents married after 8 months and their marriage was a success. They married when my mom was already 35 though. I don't want to repeat the same mistake.
No. 809475
>>809471Horror stories? Such as?
I read that there's a low chance to get scars idk
Just worried about her
No. 809479
>>809473>on the cusp of 30 and wanting kids, I won't wait 3 years just to see how it's going.…What? You wouldn't wait 3 years to see if you want to
have kids with someone? 3 years is not that long.
No. 809481
>>809477>>809478>>809479My sister has severe low-functioning autism most likely a result of my parents age.
I am terrified of ending up with a disabled kid. I would rather risk a divorce than risk the health of my future children.
No. 809509
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I’m going to a hotel with a whirpool in the room. Is it safe to have sex in it? I don’t mean in terms of not getting pregnant, I just mean like I’m not gonna get an infection or something stupid.
No. 809512
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This painting is very popular, and I see the appeal. But why is the guy’s face so fucking weird? I can’t pinpoint what’s wrong with it but it looks ugly and gross. Is it bad facial anatomy or something?
No. 809520
>>809481>My sister has severe low-functioning autism most likely a result of my parents age. It's not because of your parents' age. Today, many children are born with autism, even in young couples. There has been a BIG increase in autism over the past 20 years.
Nobody knows why autism is increasing, and nobody cares to investigate why it happens.
I suppose it would be a
toxic chemicals that we come into contact with every day (in food, water, air, everyday objects, etc.)
No. 809563
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Maladaptive daydreamer anons, I absolutely can't concentrate at all when studying and I feel like my daydreaming habits became 100% worse with time, to the point where I swear I currently can't concentrate for more than 1 min straight. Even when I'm ""focused"" my mind is still thinking about a million things at the same time. Even right now, as I write this.
It makes me want to kms cause I'm approaching my mid 20s and I honestly feel like I will never be able to properly study and get a degree and be successful in life.
So I need to know, was any of you actually able to get a degree and/or a decent job while being in a constant state of daydreaming? Did you have to take meds to solve the problem? Do meds even work?
I'm really curious to hear experiences living like this because I feels like I'm doomed. It doesn't help that I love thinking about my stupid imaginary stories/worlds way too much. I love being able to entertain myself for hours without doing nothing. But of course, I just keep neglecting my own real life because of that. Anyway, just tell me how you learned to live like this, I beg you
Pic unrelated
No. 809568
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How do you guys do it? How do people decide they want to trust a total stranger to live with them daily for years? It amazes me!
No. 809752
>>809670I use the word gross when I want to use a word that's deemed
problematic these days and don't want to get in an argument about semantics.
No. 809784
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>>809563I feel this anon. I'm 26 and I never had an actual job. Even when someone talks to me directly my thoughts go somewhere else and I can't control it even though I try. Some people know my intelligence is fine but they still blame me, they say I'm just pretending to be retarded because I'm lazy. Next week I'm starting my first job and I'm extremely stressed out. The job itself isn't hard, I'm just scared I will be too unfocused to do it correctly for 8 hours straight and they will kick me out. I feel like a loser all the time
No. 809790
>>809784>>809563You guys will be fine
I fell in and out of short term jobs for something like six years before I learned to plaster on a smile and act like a human. It takes time and a lot of crying but you just have to stick at it, and now I'm one of those adults who can go on holidays and spend lots of money on stupid anime merch
No. 809866
>>809861I've had anal a handful of times and I didn't do an enema but I went for it on days where my stomach was feeling good..where my last poop had been a good one. Gross but it is what it is. I didn't have mess but one time that I thought there was no mess.. the guy afterwards said there was the smallest crumb of poop and he just didn't tell me til after. Just residue. He didn't want to stop because of it.
I've been on the giving end more often and I've had people clean themselves out…and I still got shit on..more than a crumb. It's fairly dependant on your system that day, how you ate recently, how deep you go. Enema or not there's still no guaranteeing that it'll stay totally clean. Anyone partaking in it needs to accept the risk basically. Sometimes enemas if done wrong can cause the very thing you hoped to avoid too. Poop water comes out when you thought you were good.
No. 809890
>>809784>>809790>>809798Thank you for your replies, I feel a little less alone now. It's nice to know that at least some people can manage to be daydreamers and still be present enough in the real world to be able to study and get stable/decent jobs. It gives me some hope at least.
>>809784I don't know if this will help, but I never had an actual "serious" or proper job either. I'm currently working with my mom as a pet groomer, and although I can't make a living out of it, at least it's a job where I can let myself get lost in thought without too much problem. I usually bathe dogs, so I just go into auto pilot mode and wash them while I think about whatever I want.
Worst case scenario, I may take a bit too long if I'm too distracted, but it's such an easy job that it's kinda hard to fuck it up in a serious way.
Good luck on your first job, anon! I really hope it goes well.
No. 810070
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Any law students here? How many hours do you usually study/read per day? It's my first year, I find myself seated in front of a book for over two hours just … reading. Not even studying or producing content. It's not my problem having to do it but I genuinely wonder if this is the norm or if I'm just slow as fuck and need to do better. Excuse the shitty meme kek
No. 810128
>>809767iirc those foods are listed are irritants or whatever they're called on the fodmap diet
..
>Garlic and onion are high in the FODMAP, fructan. Fructans are a type of oligosaccharide (i.e., the O in the FODMAP acronym). Like other FODMAPs, fructans are poorly absorbed in the small intestine and rapidly fermented by bacteria in the large intestine leading to symptoms in some people with IBS. No. 810157
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I want to make a "Lolcow's movie night recommendations" chart, so I need your help nonnas, please recommend me all the movies you might think we all would like here, so far I have these:
Midsommar
Gone Girl
Jennifer's Body
Mean Girls
Potential:
Little Women (please tell me which version)
The handmaiden
Jawbreaker
Confessions of a teenage drama queen
It doesn't matter if the movie is mainstream or not, please tell me your suggestions!
No. 810173
A munchausen can't lie their way into brain surgery, right?
A close family member of mine has repetitively claimed to have the mill run of typical facticious disorders. It started off as cancer in the ninties, moved onto chronic tooth pain and then MS in the 00s (a munchie favorite), then it became a misfiring nerve in the brain in the 2010s. She'd also made one of her own kids believe they were going to die from factitious severe health complications in their twenties. She's flying to and from the capitol for surgeries (apparently) and taking a cocktail of drugs. I'm just assuming she's had brain surgery, it could all be bullshit there as well. Even there there's more and more incremental things going wrong like "They left a piece of gauss in and its hitting the nerve" or "they got the wrong nerve" and it's just a repeat. And she has to go back.
It recently has stopped entirely though, as in dead silence about her health problems, which is very unusual. The constant health complaints have dissipated although a generalized "I'M SICK!" comes out anytime she's pressured on anything. I have a feeling the doctors caught onto her lying.
There is a chance it is genuine, but considering her past history and the fact that she's drugged and malnorished her own children makes me think it's sus, especially how it's all died down at once. I think what's happened is the doctors and everyone realized it was all facticious bullshit and she got an embarrassing lecture by the doctors for wasting everyone's time.
Maybe the whole brain surgery arc was bullshit and it never happened, but on the chance it did happen, I'm fucking horrified that doctors would do something on the basis of someone just claiming symptoms. Or maybe it's all genuine idk.
No. 810240
>>810169I once recommended that a friend maybe try out a menstrual cup
It was only today on lc that I learnt menstrual cups cause all your internal organs to fall out
I swear I didn't know at the time
No. 810279
>>810173You think that your relative is smart enough to trick to neurologists? Not just small town GPs, but literal brain surgeons? That's like tricking rocket scientists.
Judging by what your relative said happened to their "nerves" during "brain surgery", they don't know enough about anatomy for fool people who have specialised in that area for a decade.
Also, brain surgery is never done without imaging first. They would have seen no reason to operate on the scans if your relative is malingering.
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>>810300yes. I'm on mobile both in safari and the app won't let me finish my video.
No. 810373
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I know most of you nonnas will find it to be a meme, but does someone else feel like they can sometimes channel their femenine energy?
I'm not talking about being a pickme or a doormat, it's more on the veins of being secure and confident with your body, sexuality, and sensuality, for yourself. Idk, it feels like I've never been in tune with myself until now, I used to hate my body but learning to love it makes me feel, not femenine (I'm NOT typically femenine at all) but at peace within myself and my female body
No. 810390
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>>810373>femenine energy>being a pickme or a doormat>my female body>femenineThis post is giving me 'hi fellow females' vibes
No. 810398
>>810390Oohhh nooo, how dare women want to be confident in their body? woe is me
I'm not a troon, I just believe in things like vid related, women can like whatever they want and believe in whatever they want.
No. 810405
>>810373can's answer this cos I have legit never felt even remotely comfortable with my own body, my own sexuality or sensuality etc. for a lot of reasons. I'm glad you're feeling good about yourself though
nonny. if you find the secret to magically becoming at peace with your body and sexuality do share.
No. 810407
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>>810373I essentially agree. The concepts of femininity/masculinity in themselves are brainwashing tools developed by the patriarchy. This is what being gender critical asks us to examine. Recognizing that society generally defines masculinity as strength, logic, confidence, virtue (basically everything good/leadership qualities) while femininity is softness, submission, gentility and kindness (things that make us more easily controlled by men) and seeing that both concepts are damaging to us. Women obviously have "masculine" qualities in droves and often uphold them far more successfully than men, and not all "feminine" characteristics are bad in moderation, such as being caring. For me, accepting my so-called femininity has been recognizing that I am free to be whoever I want to be in the body I was given, that my physical form doesn't define or diminish me despite what I (all of us) absorbed from the environment.
It's also involved a more cognizant appraisal of how I've been socialized and deciding for myself what traits I want to keep and which are no longer serving me. For example, I'm happy to continue being kind to those who deserve it, but I no longer allow anyone to silence me if I'm cut off during conversations. Other women who have a mature outlook and understand these things (that we do not solely exist to cultivate male approval and are capable of whatever we want) are 100x more relatable and high quality as individuals than even more socially aware/intelligent men. I think that recognition of a shared struggle and shared triumph is the closest concept of "femininity" that I accept, and having that woman-specific perspective makes me a better and stronger person. Even though sometimes I would've loved to have been born a scrote so I could just bumble through life and get asspats and lauded as a hero simply for not being a complete fuck up.
No. 810427
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>>810407>>810373I mean for most of our history as a species, we were barely evolved apes trying to survive, no concept of masculinity or feminity just pragmatism
As a socialist I have a view that the New Soviet Man and Woman as the ideal of what the only substanable human path for us
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>>810407>For me, accepting my so-called femininity has been recognizing that I am free to be whoever I want to be in the body I was given, that my physical form doesn't define or diminish me
>ther women who have a mature outlook and understand these things (that we do not solely exist to cultivate male approval and are capable of whatever we want) are 100x more relatable and high quality as individuals than even more socially aware/intelligent men. Exactly. For me femenine energy is not femininity, it's being your natural self, in tune with the fact you are female, and feeling power because of it. Idk, this is a weird concept to explain, but I feel like this, I am in tune with my body and being, and it shows in me being more confident, accepting no shit from people, feeling like I am a magnetic being in some way.
For me femenine energy is not wearing high heels, but more of a "I'm glad I'm a female, and I'm going to flaunt it, and feel in tune with it" situation
No. 810468
>>810467Tumblrs search engine is shit.
Maybe you could go to the blogs archive? Or use google + keywords?
No. 810691
>>810675I've seen body builder women with bigger clits than most transmen get
And that shit is permanent
No. 810721
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Why does everything seem so boring now? Especially when you’re grown up?
No. 810745
>>810734I like big clits and I cannot lie
You other sisters can't deny
No. 810763
>>810754ita. i was just asking lmao,
damn you're insecure about a body part not many people will see, arent you. grow up lmao
No. 810771
>>810769im just like sooo smol~
teehee!
No. 810791
>>810782England used to make red wine by colouring white wine with color, so it was white wine tinted (teñido) to look like red. When the term got translated to Spanish it made sense to call it vino tinto since it was a lie to call it a true vino rojo.
Eventually the term stuck even though some countries do call it vino rojo.
No. 810792
>>810764TA and I'm not a lesbian, I'm straight. I didn't want to say "lesbian/bi" because I didn't want you spergs to do exactly what you're doing now when I merely mention wlw.
>>810763aren't you the insecure one crying about your teeny weeny widdle cwitoris? what you said wasn't even close to the topic of conversation, where anon said BIG clits were gross, why did you even need to bring your "tiny" clit into this? Like I mentioned, clitorises grow and shrink depending on arousal. So if yours is "impossible to find" you're not horny enough. I'd know because I have a smaller clit too (but of course you didn't see me bringing that up in a conversation on BIG clits) but it presents itself when I actually am aroused.
No. 810798
>>810696Kinda based ngl
Big clit chads rise up
Especially us that are natty No. 810825
>>810814Honestly doesn't matter when you get a tattoo, as long as you want to have one. I have no idea how people in their teens/early twenties can even afford tattoos really, at least the big ones.
Seen some cool calf tattoos but I think it's a weird spot to have an only tattoo. If you have something everywhere or at least plan to though it's cool.
When it comes to obscuring, depends how you dress, I guess anything in the chest area, especially below boobs will be obscured for majority of the time. It's a pretty painful spot though. Thighs are often obscured too I guess and definitely not as painful so maybe there?
No. 810832
>>810814Once you start getting them you can catch the tattoo bug so to speak, as in it can be addictive
I got a bunch done between 19 and 26, I'm 32 now and I still love them and like the not-so-on-show places that I picked for them. They were very much for myself and not fashion or to be seen by others. I felt that addictive buzz though so I'm glad I stopped before getting too covered. If you go for it maybe just pace yourself cause that's a common enough thing. Tattoos artists joke about it. When they get a new customer it tends to quickly turn into good repeat business
No. 810842
>>810825I've always liked leg sleeves and my friend has a very cute tat on her calf that curves a bit round to the front. I do have an idea, I have a couple tbh and they're sort of related so it could possibly turn into a cohesive sleeve.
I've always liked leg tattoos, but I also like when I get to dress up, but my friend who has the leg tats still manages to look classy/elegant when she wears dresses and they're visible but idk if it's because she gorgeous too lol
I also sort of like below the elbow on the inside. When I say obscured I don't mean under clothes, even just from a front or certain angle. I like some arm tattoos because they're not always exposed or can be hidden idk.
If any nonnies have nice tattoos I'd love to see, perhaps I'm having a midlife crisis but these ideas have always bounced around in my head.
No. 811067
>>811047If you don't wanna go outside the most fool proof way (besides edibles obviously) is to first seal up any gaps underneath your door with a towel. Then put a couple of scented dryer sheets in a cardboard tube/paper towel roll and breathe out the smoke through that. This will pretty much neutralize the smell but you'll still get some escaped smoke that you didn't inhale, if you're worried about that a bong is better than a joint since it doesn't stay lit as long. Afterwards you can light some incense to cover up any smell that might be left. You're good unless your landlord barges in two minutes after you've smoked.
Alternatively wait till like 3 am and smoke while hanging out of your window, but honestly if you take the basic precautions I mentioned I doubt anyone will notice.
No. 811136
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Terraria, Minecraft, or Stardew Valley?
Or are all of them fun and I should buy all of them?
No. 811268
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Do you think it says anything about you when most of your closest friends have diagnosed mental illness? (Among my bff circle I've got one bpd, two bipolars, one NPD, and multiple depressed people who take meds). Personally I feel pretty stable, and my life is very normal, but is there a certain personality type that attracts mentally ill people?
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as a retarded american not raised religiouy, is this not what most christians think? is there differences between different regions, like europe and south america?
No. 811889
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Anons! I need help to decide whether I should order a limited (one time only) hoodie or not.
The cons of it:
- It costs 60€ without shipping, my partner will order it for himself which would make it 145€. I am going shopping to mall soon this weekend, thinking that itd be probably be better to spend my cash on something IRL.
- It's a grey colour.
The good things:
- We both love this artist and appreciate them a lot, so having the same hoodie makes it even cuter.
- It has my favourite sea creatures.
- This artist creates merch once a year and there'd never be another chance to order previous design again…so I guess exclusivity?
No. 811909
>>811894>>811899I'm pretty sure it's because no other woman wants them, but they probably use Asian women that need green cards. Additionally, they probably fell into the stereotype that Asian women are submissive and pure.
Men are retarded and their lives are only built around stereotypes that they perceive unlike women that actually use critical thinking skills. Most of those alt-right men are sheep and pretty much live their lives based on what they're told and what they consume via media and that's this:
>Asian women are smol petite submissive pure and will do whatever I say>Black women are loud, aggressive, rebellious but make a good duck because all they do is twerk>Latinas are crazy and mean, psycho but I love that latin fire>Indian girls are off limits>Muslim women are hot because they are covered up and will bear my children>White women are annoying and victimize themselves, too close to my bitch motherThis is all they see of us. I live in a neighborhood that's primarily conservative white men from the military and wouldn't you know, nearly half of the neighborhood is white men/asian women.
No. 811933
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Why are Christians (particularly the hip millennial types) so into Enneagram? It doesn't seem particularly more "christian" than other pop psych models, at least to me.
No. 811942
>>811899>Probably because asians are the closest to "white" as minorities comeNope.. fair skinned Latinos and West Asians from Christian cultural background are the closest to whites. Dont let American geopolitics and fetishisation confuse you.
>In general asian women are more non-confrontational as opposed to black/latina/white women etc..That's more accurate, but this answer is even better
>>811908white people fetishizing minority women based on sexual stereotypes (projection) has been going on since columbus discovered the americas.. look up old colonial post cards youd be amazed how much the sexual stereotypes they pushed on aboriginal and black women reflect on the ones they push on asian women today. Same story.
No. 811962
>>811933I’m a millennial Christian and this looks like some new age/occult shit, I don’t trust it.
May God help them.
No. 811976
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>>811909I see now that they’re retarded enough to make a fb page based on their fetish and muh gunz.
Just because the guy in picrel looks Asian, it’s not like the irl photos where it’s only white guy with Asian chicks. Muh diversity, amirite?
https://m.facebook.com/libertarianguys/ No. 812066
>>812060No. They're indigestible at best and
toxic at worst.
No. 812068
>>811894>>811976On the reverse end I've noticed that a lot of annoyingly woke
WOC often date/married to white guys, however their dynamic is a lot of different
Racist fugly white men get married to self hating Asian women, that's simple enough, I suspect those relationships are loveless and based purely on fetish
With Woke women they often tend to date a specific type of white Guy, a white guy whose a good guy but also very bland and average, Like imagine a moderately liberal white guy whose not terminally online all the time and has no idea about culture wars
No. 812169
>>812152Oh that could be it! I have a similar issue with my belly button too.
What kind of exercise worked for you? Is there anything in particular you'd recommend?
No. 812242
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I have chunky big arms like picrel, but I am closer to underweight than a normal bmi. What kind of clothes can I wear that don't make my arms be in display aside from burkas and oversized sweaters? Should I lose weight?
No. 812265
>>812242the other anons are wack
i have had comparatively large arms both when fat and skinny. it is what it is. i just never wear anything sleeveless.
i like to go for something with more room/flowier rather than tight on the arms. cap sleeves are a definite no, off the shoulder is fine. just find what you like and what flatters your body. good luck ol' chunky arms.
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who do you think this is?
No. 812335
>>812326From exp in SK, I can tell you that people will talk shit in front of you in their language, thinking that you don't know it (which you don't in this situation). This country is really mean towards non-koreans.
They are disrespectful to people who know Korean fluently, would keep pushing talking in English on purpose instead of responding to fluent Korean, or they would still keep pretending to be anything just to not answer to you. There are a lot of blogs that actually show that even though its nice being in SK, doesn't mean it's not difficult. Streets are also oftenly full of trash during nights.
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How do you stop stress eating?
No. 812571
>>8125041) You're most likely dehydrated, and your brain is tricking you into thinking you're hungry, as we get a solid portion of our water intake through food. Drink a full glass of water and see if you're still hungry. Continue to drink plenty of water throughout the day.
2) Try chewing gum to give your mouth something to do.
3) If you have to snack, try munching on something with high protein/fiber content so you'll feel more full. See: nuts, cheese, fruits/veggies, etc.
4) Do literally anything other than doomscrolling. The internet is a never ending source of stress, so to not be stressful, severing a major stress source will lift a bit of the weight off your shoulders.
Hopefully that helps a little.
No. 812906
>>812882We told you it wasn't okay last time, it's still not okay, and you obviously also still don't think it's okay
I'm sorry this is happening to you but as hard as it is you need to advocate for yourself, you already know it's not going to stop if you don't
No. 812970
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Who is the goth cutie? Some Castlevania character? They did him dirty by getting rid of the hair etc
No. 812996
>>812984If I'm thinking of something I did in the past that was really cringey/embarassing/mean/generally something negative I'll say "Kill myself" aloud.
It's super weird.
No. 813105
>>813104Girl just move on and block him back, he sounds
abusive. Go find someone else to love asap so you can forget about his stupid ass
No. 813108
>>813104>So my question now is, was it normal of me to spam him with “liar?” No, get help. The only times I ever spammed someone like that was when I was mentally unstable.
Also, he's a knob. Move on and find someone else who isn't insecure like that.
No. 813109
>>813105I’m just hurt. I talked to him about using tinder before we got together and sent him these silly screenshots of weirdos. But the funny thing is that was. Then i put the settings to female only bc just for meeting up friends.
i sent him a screenshot of a weirdo guy that sent me a dick pic randomly and above it had a tinder notification bar that there were matches to be waiting or something.
I am sayingg this openly like this because i have nothing to hide. I swear i didnt cheat. I’m confused. I guess we’re both
toxic. I promised him that i’ll get better with this therapy i’ve been attending a few times and work on my social skills. He didnt make me feel good though and I always felt uncomfortable…man…I hate myself. For letting myself so fooled. He didn’t love me did he? That’s why he talked about pregnancy and love so fast. I hate myself so much to be so naive. I have adhd so my mind is so chaotic. It’s why I went for the therapy to no longer be so ugh
No. 813114
>>813110Okay but I already blew it up. He showered me with love and I believed it. I was so vulnerable because my mom was in the hospital having back surgery and I thought she’d die.
shuts up I guess I’ll stop yeah.
No. 813407
>>813397No. Claiming a lack attraction to abc [people] with or without exceptions of xyz [“asexual, _romantic” “aromantic, but _sexual” “asexual but sexually active” etc.] is not a sexual orientation. Even if self claimed asexuals actually were mentally castrated eunuchs,
not being sexually attracted to others (people, even “things”) in itself is not a sexual orientation. It’s just mentally ill or repressed, which is fine. But again, not a sexuality. A straight person isn’t straight just because they’re not homosexual, they’re heterosexual. If you’re not sexually attracted to either sex it has to be consistent and irrevocable for me to buy it. But asexuals are never like that, again disproving it.
No. 813409
>>813397Yes. Some people don't want to fuck, period, and that's an orientation outside the bounds of normalcy. Obviously, that means they'll run into problems IRL, especially when they want to have a relationship. It's made even worse by the fact that society has trouble taking "No" for an answer from women specifically.
Not sure why some people get very angry about it. I've seen the argument that straight people will just use it as a way to "join" the LGBT, but they already do that with the T using genderspecial BS ("I'm agender nonbinary uwu"), and there are self-described asexuals who still date the same sex, or none at all.
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Context: I'm a very small time instagram "artist" like less than 50 followers small and half of then are family and friends, with that in mind today I received a comment in one of a pictures asking to DM a page (_thehouseofthe_art) is it a scam? Is it a bot? Should I report it or just ignore it?
No. 813462
>>813453That's what I'm saying. The absence of something is still accounted for, not excluded. It's the whole "nothing is something" principle. Which is why I personally believe asexuality should be deemed a sexual orientation among the rest. It accounts for
whom (i.e. which group of people) someone is sexually attracted to, not
if someone is sexually attracted to someone.
No. 813467
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How to stop binging please I'm fat already but don't wanna go the ~pro ana thinspo~ route
No. 813480
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how can i encourage my cat to go outside? she used to go outside a lot but the neighbour's cat scared her and now she won't leave the house
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>>813477If zoomers aren't buying fast fashion, every new makeup scam, unsustainable "vegan" junks, Corpse Husband merch and 10 physical kpop albums, it's because they don't have jobs yet kek
No. 813483
>>813462>It accounts for whom (i.e. which group of people) someone is sexually attracted to, not if someone is sexually attracted to someone.But in regards to asexuality it
is about “if” per its own definition. In practice, self proclaimers might have a different story, but heterosexuals and homosexuals in denial is irrelevant. Asexuals [should] have sex with (and be attracted to) no one, the no one being an exclusion of not just physical persons, but the idea and concept of persons. Making “nobody” an all-encapsulating thing including an absence of people, rather than referring to a specific person. That is why despite us agreeing on semantics, I can’t consider it an orientation to be placed among others. In practice, asexuality does not mean what it descriptively should. And if it somehow did, I can’t be convinced the minute few it’d ever apply to would not be a minority among minorities of which whom psychological anomalies are more present for an explanation, rather than being “just is”.
My stupid question: How would someone confirm their asexuality? The act of doing so (i.e. feeling attraction and ever enjoying having sex) would negate the identity even for the sake of experimentation. Throughout someone’s entire lifetime they’d have to abstain, reject, and remain romantically apathetic. I don’t think it’s possible for an individual to be aware of and objectively monitor their feelings to such a great length. And it’d be worse (both ethically and scientifically) to subject them to the judgement of others for testing momentary feelings. However it should be noted that
>>813409 asexual women don’t receive discrimination for IDing as asexual. It’s because they are women.
Including asexuals is like the alphabet circus including intersexuals. One is a medical condition and one is probably just bad luck and repulsion. Exclusion in this case isn’t harmful, I don’t see how an asexual would benefit from whether or not they have sex with anyone being considered an orientation.
No. 813484
>>813476'size matters' =/= 'bigger is always better'. Obviously there is an upper limit and big dicks can cause pain, but you're just gonna have to fuck someone to find out because everyone is different.
The main thing is that too small is straight up awful. What counts as 'too small' depends on the individual, but I'd say anything <5" and thin. It's a psychological turn off, they feel underwhelming and even painful sometimes because they can kinda stab against the vag walls instead of fully rubbing against them, you can't genuinely flatter your partner which is awkward. I've dumped a guy who was otherwise great because I was so displeased by his small dick, never again.
No. 813502
>>813495>>813467Have you tried OMAD? Many people with self-control issues find it easier to not eat at all than eating small meals, so they just eat one big meal a day to achieve that full feeling, limiting calories while at the same time intermittent fasting.
Maybe pick up a hobby as distraction. I can play vidya or practice the piano for hours straight. Alternatively, abuse some typa stimulant. Although it can make you binge on the comedown. Not much you can do sustainably beside raw will power tbh, remember how shit it feels every time.
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>>813501>Do you agree that sexual orientation is fluid and not rigid for the entirety of someone's life? I don’t think it’s fluid. Or rather, I wouldn’t use the term fluid to describe someone coming to a retrospective realization later in life due to circumstances. “Aha!” moments happen, but that doesn’t translate to innate fluidity in my opinion.
>Or are you of the opinion that once someone's had sex, they're automatically out of the running for ever id'ing as asexualNo, I’m of the opinion that if you enjoy sex by any capacity then you are automatically exempt from being asexual. But that would be moreso about a subject that cannot have autonomy over the situation. Having sex itself, as a conscious choice, negates asexuality.
For the sake of giving the topic nuance, I wouldn’t separate asexuality and aromantics because that’s isn’t really done when discussing, for example, homosexuality. Throughout the discussion I considered them a single unit for the sake consistency (despite addressing them as otherwise) but I understand why it would seem an important distinction to make. But if someone isn’t one and the other, then they’re still either bi, heterosexual, or homosexual (-romanticisms incl.)?
>A person can test the waters of being in a relationship without sex, yes?Of course. But that exists for all people, regardless of possible differentiating orientation.
I do like your answer about why acknowledgment of an asexual identity may be beneficial. It’s been an interesting discussion, goodbye.
No. 813598
>>813579Hurting myself/others and wasting time. Specifically with the dumb idiot I put up with shit I shouldn’t have and suffered unnecessary emotional pain. Eventually he became
abusive, at which stage I had invested so much effort into making it work that I stayed for too long. A dramatic consequence but I won’t risk letting someone have such power over my emotions again. With the nice guy I hurt him by leading him to believe I wanted to be with him. I became uncomfortable but also resentful towards him, felt like I owed him all the time and considered cheating because I was so stressed and bored. I really regret hurting him because he was a decent guy.
Massive waste of time and energy overall and my head is still kinda fucked from the abuse. Only you know your own situation so it might not work out the same, but it’s not good to get with anyone if you’re already seeing issues.
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>>813730Nta but ???
For me personally there's no doubt my dehydration is because I don't drink enough but how do you even become dehydrated because of too much??
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>>813744you can still be very dehydrated when drinking plenty of water, but it has more to do with lack of electrolytes. i don't think it works like the other anon is saying
i also don't mean overhydration, that is very rare and generally only happens to hardcore athletes who fail to reup their electrolyte intake during heavy periods of physical activity, like a marathon.
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