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No. 711877

Ask away

Previous Thread:>>703359

No. 711883

Previous thread
>>>/ot/703359

No. 711885

I have an ugly, plasticy feeling art print, like on a wooden frame that I want to paint over with acrylics. Can I just paint over it or should I try to pry it off to reframe some fabric?

No. 711894

>>711885
I think you're supposed to apply a layer of gesso first as a base

No. 711895

I'm in love with the thread pic, OP.
Anyway, what's the safest way to store a large amount of data for a long period of time? Hard drives? USBs? Cloud storage? Or something else? I know for a fact external hard drives can randomly die on you so that's why I'm concerned about using one. I haven't had it happen to me yet but I heard USBs die on you eventually too.

No. 711902

>>711894
Well that's doable! I can order some and maybe some brushes, haven't painted anything since high school and that was a long ass time ago, thanks

No. 711906

>>711895
Tape drives. Unironically.

Actually answering your question, hard drives can be configured to work in a RAID array. You have multiple hard drives that work together to store the same data. If one drive dies, you can swap it out with a new one with no data loss. If you're willing to spend the money, look into picking up a low end NAS (Synology is great for this) with like 4 WD Red HDDs and you're pretty much set for life. And even if a drive fails, you can just swap it out.

No. 711928

Why do sugar free drinks upset my stomach?

No. 711936

>>711928
sugar alcohols? that whole thing about people shitting their pants after eating sugar-free haribo gummy bears was because they're all sugar alcohols which makes people sick in large quantities idk

No. 711951

This probably varies from country to country and bank to bank idk, but can I put someone elses bills on auto pay?

My mother and brother both refuse to learn how to pay via online banking so they shoved all the bills and finances my way, however I'm not sure if I can auto pay bills with my mothers name on it from my bank account. For whatever retarded reason.

No. 711968

>>711877
Aah! The last time I saw this meme I was young…

No. 711972

How is Australian accent regarded in general? Do people find it sexy? Funny? Weird?

No. 711974

>>711972
depending on the type of aussie accent i think it's a little amusing. but once you get used to it i guess it's no different than any other accent. i think you guys have a lot of fun slang that makes your speech more entertaining. (i'm ESL-chan tho)

No. 711978

>>711972
I think its ugly and sounds low class as hell

No. 711980

>>711972
Another ESL here, I find it funny.
It's the high drawn out vowels and the low-to-high melody of speech that make it sound funny.

No. 711985

>>711972
I find it pretty unattractive, the only australian i ever liked was chase from dr. house
kiwi accent is even worse though, on the other hand I love irish accents, even the "low class" ones

No. 711988

>>711972
i think it’s sexy tbh

No. 711993

What happened to tomboys in mainstream culture?

No. 711996

>>711993
they trooned out

No. 711997

Is it harmful to sleep with wet hair?

No. 711998

>>711993
It feels like a whole lot of them have succumbed to the modern reinforcement of gender roles as now espoused by the lgbtqwerty brigade, that you're "not a girl" if you don't conform to gender roles, so it probably resulted in either a lot of them trooning out or diminishing their tomboy tendencies out of shame

No. 712001

>>711997
It encourages bacteria growth, increases likelihood of fungal infections and means your hair is more likely to get damaged during the night. Anecdotally, the few times I’ve done it seemed to cause headaches.

No. 712004

NSFW question:
do you think there is a way to be dominant in bed while also being tied up? or is it inherently contradicting?

context: my bf likes being submissive + female worship, but he also likes tying me up once in a while (i tie him up more). i was just wondering if i can do both together? like how can i be in control while physically restricted?

No. 712006

Do specific meds for ocd exist or do docs just give you anxiety meds?

No. 712007

When did softboys stop meaning pretty sorta feminine guys who are GNC and start meaning emotionally abusive and manipulative exual predators ? Like I feel the change happened over night, like I remember people called Obama a softboy when he revealed in his book he used to pretend to fake read leftist poltical books in order to pick up chicks

No. 712008

>>712004
I would think that he's a switch based on that

No. 712009

Do wireless headphones increase cancer risk?

No. 712011

>>712004
The only way I can think of is through vocally controlling him? Telling him what to do, calling him ‘slave’ or whatever, threatening him with what you’ll do when you’re untied. Basically turn the situation into him tying you up because that’s what YOU want, you are still the one in control despite being powerless, you maintain the dominance.

No. 712013

>>712007
Men love to use shit to their advantage, teen girls like sensitive boys so every creep on tiktok tried to come off as soft all while preying on kids. I think men took it and destroyed it.

No. 712014

>>712004
Whoever is receiving the most attention is running the show, topping from the bottom is how it is most of the time so I wouldn't sweat all the details when women dating sub men are usually being technically topped just by catering so heavily to the man.

If you have to ask 'how do I appear more domme while doing this' surely you have to see its all performative anyway. Do what you want without worrying about fitting the role either he has put on you or you've put on yourself.

No. 712019

>>712004
I suggest breaking up with him, its likely he's gonna troon out one day, like all bdsm comners do and you're gonna have to support a brave and stunning transwoman 24/7 who will ask you refer to your self as a lesbian

Its the not the answer you asked for but its the answer you deserve

No. 712022

>>712013
Okay but softboy used to a specfic physical aesthetic, now it seems to behavior that(from what I've seen anyway) that seems to get applied regardless of physical appearance

Every emotionally abusive soyboy male feminist predator gets called a softboy on twitter these days, even when they don't even fit the original physical aesthetic

No. 712030

I noticed everything women like or find sexy gets reappropiated to some meme nonsense

No. 712032

>>712030
For example? I'm not really sure what kind of meme nonsense you're talking about, but I'm not up to date with the gen Z memes.

No. 712036

For a dark haired woman I have very light brows. Lately (online) I keep seeing women rip into other women with the same thing going on. Now I don't own or plan on ever wearing make up either way but I'm still left wondering whether the women I see everyday at work or whatever are secretly judging the crap out of me for leaving them naturally light?

No. 712037

>>712036
If it didn't bother you before, you shouldn't allow some randos online to bully you into caring now.

No. 712041

>>712037
I mean I don't care to a point where I would ever bother using brow products. Still kind of curious about how people think. I tend to be blind to small details

No. 712050

>>712030
>>712032
Adam Driver

No. 712061

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Someone mentioned this artist in another thread. My question is, how is she able to monetize her stuff (she is selling posters and stuff) if she didn't take the photo of the woman and her computer herself? Or can edits be sold?

No. 712062

>>712036
Doubtful, eyebrows are still a relatively niche part of make up. People criticise them online because they’re petty. That, and the fact it’s more common to see them done online where the instahoe drag make up look is standard. I’d say most women who wear make up don’t do their brows (though it’s more popular with younger women).

Also if they are judging you, it’s because you’re not wearing make up at all rather than specifically the brows.

No. 712090

When will America stop existing?

No. 712093

my mom just told me she was sexually abused as a child, by her brothers no less. She told me it as an exchange, trying to get me to tell her if i was abused. I feel awful for her but only told her about being abused by one person, I havent told her her dad abused me. I don't see the point because it doesn't solve anything but seeing as she told me her story……maybe I should?

No. 712095

>>712061
who is she

No. 712096

>>712061
Not an expert but it might be considered transformative content. Though I’m guessing the original photographer hasn’t attempted to claim copyright and no one has reported her on their behalf.

No. 712099

>>712093
This is the kind of thing where professionals should be involved. Families where abuse happens over several generations can have some fucked up views or coping mechanisms. They can also massively downplay the effects of it because they're so used to living with it. See a professional before you open up about it to anyone else. Even well meaning family members can deal with these issues in a more damaging way.

No. 712119

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I'm about to sound really stupid, but here goes: I've been growing oyster mushrooms and needed a new spray bottle for watering them, so I took a bottle of recently depleted perfumed insect repellent, washed it out as thoroughly as I could, and filled it with water. I thought I'd cleaned the pump well enough, but when I sprayed my mushrooms once (stupid not to test before, I know), I could still smell some residual fragrance. Ofc I didn't continue with that spray bottle after that. My question is, will this badly affect the mushrooms in any way? Whether that be in growth, taste, or even edibility? If it helps, the ingredients of the repellent were alcohol, Ethyl butylacetylaminopropionate, Hexyl cinnamaldehyde, citronella, d-limonene, geraniol. Please help this first time mushroom grower out.

No. 712120

Is anyone here a tarot fag? I have a question.

No. 712123

>>712093
well shit i think at that point id just tell her but the other anon is some good advice. my mom asked if i was sexually abused by my dad since he used to hit me and even though it made me sad to think she'd believe her own husband would do that it also made me glad she wasn't the type of woman who denied her husband could ever do wrong and forever defend him.

No. 712143

>>712120
Here be tarotfags:
>>>/g/144816

No. 712160

What percent of the posters in the left cows thread are like, regular farmers vs people who came from Twitter/reddit? I used to read those threads but now they’re unreadable because of infighting and it just feels different than the rest of the site imo

No. 712168

>>712160
Hard same lmao. There are definitely scrotes from twitter in there who just love to listen to themselves talk… read themselves write???

No. 712171

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Why do asexuals think they're so special? alright you don't like sex,so what?you have never fallen in love,so what?if you don't want have sex or have intimate moments with someone,then good for you. you're either a straight virgin or some misanthropic celibate

No. 712173

>>712171
Finally someone said it. Sick of those cunts.

No. 712175

>>712171
The only asexuals that bother me are the ones that 'have sex for the sake of my man anyway' Because that is the most fucked up thing to normalise or advertise about yourself

No. 712181

>>712171
I think im asexual or at least have low libido and I’d never go on social fucking media and talk about this. It’s actually not so fun and great so idk why people need to talk about this. Free unpopular opinion: people should stop talking about their sexuality or who or what they fuck

No. 712184

So what do people without arachnophobia think of spiders? Like if you saw a house spider the size of your palm just crawling along your desk, how would you react? And if it then scuttled away from there into your skirting board? Right next to your bed? Possibly to then crawl over your face at night?

Like how would you feel about that? I'm usually pretty empathetic but I literally can't imagine what it's like to not be freaked out by spiders. I'm also trying to get my mind off spiders so I don't dream of them again, but it's hard.

No. 712185

>>712171
It's one of those things where if they don't mention it you'll never know so you only notice the ones that do, the more obnoxious ones who make it an idpol thing being the most noticeable.

No. 712193

>>712171
I feel like most of asexuals on the internet are just kids that feel pressured to becoming sexually active by media or their peers when they're not ready yet. Especially since a lot of them are sperging about other people discussing their relationships or sexual life, or media portraying sex, it just comes across immature and self-absorbed, which teens usually are.

No. 712198

>>712184
I would think "oh fuck, gross!" and shoo it away. I think one of the differences between arachnophobics and non is that you've already jumped to thinking it's going to crawl into your bed and over your face, and I just think it's going to run away to some corner of the house where the big fleshy human won't find and attack it.

No. 712200

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This man takes a bite out of your girl’s buttcheeks wyd anons?

No. 712201

>>712184
When I was a kid gardening with my dad he let a big spider crawl over his hand in front of me, I think he was testing my fear or teaching me not be scared of them. Didn't work but what a badass.

No. 712202

>>712200
He likes stabbing, right? Grab a knife!

No. 712203

>>712184
I usually just jump at the sudden fact an insect is in here and kill it. They dont freak me out like roaches or centipedes do. All insect will die on sight if they arent a butterfly, lady bug, mantis, or bee. If anything I kill spiders because I don't want their babies in my vicinity like other bugs and where I live has deadly breeds so I'm not dying over a one inch piece of shit.

No. 712205

>>712184
If it was the size of my palm, I’d be pretty concerned about finding it and getting it outside because I’d be freaked out about it settling in my room. There have been other times where I found where big, non-venomous spiders settled on the awning of my porch at two separate apartments, and I left and named them both. I think spiders are really cool, I just don’t know enough about them off the top of my head and would worry a thicc one is venomous bc we have brown recluses and wolf spiders where I am.

No. 712207

>>712184
I accompany them outside or just leave them be if they're far. And if there was one the size of my palm… well we all die of something I guess.

No. 712209

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>>712171
It's weird how much they make every object into an asexual pride flag. I've never seen other LGBT people doing it with their flags. I think these people have no identity so they just latch onto asexual pride.

No. 712210

>>712209

Its a cope for being spicy heterosexuals

No. 712214

>>712209
That cake looks nasty,at least a gay cake looks somewhat appetizing due to the bright rainbow colors.

No. 712215

>>712209
Don't gay people do this too though

No. 712217

>>712198
>>712203
>>712205
>>712207
Thanks, I feel like all portrayals of spider reactions is from either arachnophobics or spider enthusiasts, know what I mean? That sounds like a healthy reaction, it seems similar to my reactions when I see a silverfish or that one time I crushed a massive roach when closing a door behind me (like the sound of the crunch alerted me, I want to say the size of my thumb?). But I don't think they'll invade me in some way. It's just a bit gross they're there.

Also I guess I took a very northern european view of things, the only spider the size of my palm where I live is the giant house spider, which isn't venomous (but those horny males wander houses looking for a female around autumn, so you're likely to encounter them). I guess it's another thing completely if they actually might cause you harm.

No. 712218

Where's the neetdom rééducation center that's not full of gross scrotes? Reddit, a board, a secret chat? I want in so bad.
I want wholesomeness, encouragements, tips and celebration of achievements!
I would do it myself but I'm a discord/wathever noob and it's probably a shit idea anyway…
I have but a dream I guess…

No. 712219

>>712171
It's funny because asexuality doesnt even mean that anymore. Now aseuxal people can be horny, have fetishes, enjoy having sex, enjoy mastrubation, and they would still be valid. Hell, there are "grey asexuals" who SOMETIMES have sexual attraction and they're still ace!

These people define sexual attraction as, and I quote "looking at someone and thinking, in these words "I want to have sex with them". Which is something no one actually thinks. By that logic, celibates and people with low self esteem are automatically asexual.

I feel like "asexual" now just means "I have a female sex drive because I am female and not Male"

No. 712220

>>712209
mmm.. An I hate sex cake.

No. 712226

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>>712217
I'm also european, so I've never really seen spiders as big as my palm, so I was never really afraid of them. But one night a spider centipede (a centipede, not a spider) was sitting on my door as I was returning from the toilet and I completely froze up. I could barely make myself move past the door and close the door to keep it out of the room, even though it's not even venomous or aggressive in any way.

No. 712227

>>712219
>I feel like "asexual" now just means "I have a female sex drive because I am female and not Male"
Demisexual women are this. We don't need a word to describe people who opt out of one night stands. Liking a bit of romance or connection first is fairly common.

No. 712228

Any of you experienced orgasms or intense sexual stimulation in dreams? It happens rarely but sometimes I wake up knowing I was extremely horny and had really intense feelings during my sleep. It’s kinda cool but I feel it’s not so satisfying

No. 712229

How do people with long hair function without just tying it up and out of the way? Are there any styles or tricks for keeping long hair out of things when it's down or mostly down? I feel like I see other girls/people with long hair and they don't get it caught in shit nearly as much as I do, and mine is only at mid-nip.

No. 712235

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anybody else find fbi agents hot?

they could be average, maybe even ugly, but this jacket with the big yellow FBI letters makes them hot lol

No. 712237

>>712229
During my horse girl hair phase I kept it up in a low or high ponytail most of the time. It would occasionally snag on things or get particles in it, but nothing severe

No. 712244

>>712235
i do want to fuck glownigs ngl

No. 712245

>>712229
Completely unhelpful but I think you just get used to it and subconsciously alter the way you do things and pull it out of the way. Mine’s waist length and has pretty much always been this or longer since childhood. I rarely have issues because I’m used to it. You just learn things like to automatically flip your hair behind your shoulders while eating, and keep a hair tie on your wrist in case you need to secure it.

No. 712249

>>712235
Glownibbas do kinda do it for me but only the ones who look like i could snap them like a twig

No. 712250

>>712228
Yea, but i also tend to wake up to an orgasm during wet dreams.

No. 712253

>>712229
Waist length as well here and i get stuck every day in stuff because I’m clumsy. In my rings, earrings, buttons… i get food there. But yea I just deal with it because I want long hair.

No. 712255

>>712184
I'm probably the only person here who actually likes spiders, I always catch them and let them outside. I've always handled wolf spiders and the like with my bare hands and I've never been bit.

No. 712257

Is being sexually attracted to women enough to make someone bi? I know I sound stupid as fuck but please bear with me. I used to think I was a lesbian (read: hope, because ew men icky), realized I did like men, called myself bi for a bit, then dropped the label because I really can't see myself being in a relationship with another woman.

The reason I thought I was a lesbian at all was because I was never strongly attracted to men physically; I find my bf attractive because I love him, for example. I can't name any male celebrities I think are sexy, but I can certainly point out attractive women.

I probably sound retarded but girls are just so pleasing to look at it, it seems normal to find them sexy. Then I remember that gay men exist and they probably don't see it that way lmao, that way being that women are sexy but just not dating material. Idk, it doesn't really matter in the end, it's just what I've been thinking about lately.

No. 712258

>>712257
Anon are you actually sexually attracted to women? Because most of this sounds like you just think women are nice to look at. Do you fantasize about having sex with women at all, for example?

No. 712264

>>712257
We have a sexuality thread in /g/ where anons have discussed similar things, anon! Have you ever fantasized or wanted to actually have sex and/or romantic shit with women? Because I can assure you, even gay people can look at the opposite gender and think they look nice or beautiful, sext and so on yet wouldn't fuck them as they do not feel like it. You could argue that if you think someone looks hot, you do find them fuckable but I can look at a statue of a man and go "statue hot" without wanting to fuck the statue or even the person it was modeled after. Maybe you are just a hetero who thinks women are pretty? Nothing wrong with that.

No. 712283

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Why are there so many random threads popping up all over the board?? They all seem hateful snd vandetta motivated

No. 712285

>>712258
>>712264
I don't have sexual fantasies often tbh but when I do it is always me having sex with a woman, this is embarrassing but in particular they're of a friend I used to have (well, still kind of have I guess. We just kinda grew apart but I could hit her up if I wanted to.) I used to think I liked her romantically as I got very jealous when she got a bf but I could have misinterpreted it, I was weird and confused back then. I did have all the crush signs that made me feel like a creep, like being instantly hostile towards the bf when he was probably a decent guy, liking how she smelled and getting a little dizzy after borrowing her sweater for a day, wanting to hug her all the time, I also had a sexual dream about her once. I feel silly typing this out but idk, I think I could have just been really attached to/protective of her as a friend. When I think about her now I cannot image us dating or anything.

Tmi but if it matters at all, in the fantasy I'm not a man, I'm myself, but I'm not using a strap-on if you catch my drift.

No. 712286

>>712209
>I've never seen other LGBT people doing it with their flags
They do this shit way more than asexuals.

No. 712288

>>712257
sounds a lot like me when I was "bi" well into my early 20s. your brain is conditioned with special attachment hormones and addictive sex chemicals to your boyfriend exclusively, but those only last for a few years.

I had a serious, planning college together bf all through high school while being physically attracted to every non straight girl, and lost all interest once the hormones wore off and gave back his ring a week before graduation. I'm actually a femme exclusively attracted to butch dykes and was subconsciously choosing men who looked like ivan coyote lmao.

if you're still into the guy 5 years from now, you're probably just bi and more attracted to women. but if youre still fantasizing about women the entire time you're a dyke.

No. 712293

>>712283
scrotes are bored and angry and breached their containment zones?

No. 712298

>>712286
I'd to propose that the fake lgbts (aces, trenders, etc.) are the ones that plaster their pride flags over everything. Outside of a literal pride parade you don't see many older people with pride flags at all. it's always young people trying to fit in with the cool queer crowd that paste it over their water bottles and clothes and shit.

No. 712305

>>712209
Gay and trans people do this way more than asexuals do.

No. 712309

>>712305
But the thing about asexuals is that they have no reason to be proud so why are they making cakes for it? Congrats, you're a sexless virgin. Why do you need to tell everyone?

It's different if you're gay and obviously divergent.

No. 712311

>>712309
You can apply that to any sexuality then. Why be proud of being gay or straight? Why do you feel the need to tell everyone? Lmao.

No. 712313

>>712311
ntayrt but I genuinely do feel that way about all sexualities

No. 712318

>>712309
>>712311
lgbts use the flag as a power move to show bravery against possibly losing your job, getting beaten, murdered, imprisoned, losing friends/family, etc. a rainbow is a choice to always be out even when its dangerous.

kweer QTpie culture uses nuflags as a signal to talk to others like them, exactly like wearing a harry potter stripe scarf. Its fine imo if they arent demanding to make lgbt into their alphabet soup lol.

No. 712322

Speaking of pride flags, why does there have to be a flag for every single gender/sexuality out there? When did this trend start? Does the rainbow not already include everyone who isn't straight?

No. 712325

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>>712229
Braids forever.

>>712311
Yes, this. No one in my life knows I'm bi except my partner because it's not their business what gender I want to bump uglies with? I've known my whole life and never felt the need so it was so confusing when I started to hear about all this 'coming out to my parents' stuff.

No. 712333

>>712228
Constantly. Even had an orgasm in my sleep once. It's funny because my sex drive is pretty low to non-existent during my waking hours kek

No. 712335

For how long I can wear one jacket/coat?
Idk if I should buy new one. This one that I have is fucking the best but I wear it third winter.
Would be weird if I would buy the same coat that I have now, but in a different color?
Also, I have one winter coat and one spring/autumn jacket. Should I have more coat/jacket? I only wear these two.
Sorry for these questions, I never pay attention to what people wear and I hate buying clothes.

No. 712336

>>712311
I'm in my thirties and have never announced my sexuality, had a couple of same sex ONSs years ago but until I actually date a woman I would feel weird even telling my dad. It just seems a bit random to put it out there without the context of 'I'm dating a woman btw' I'm otherwise just telling him what I fantasize about basically lol

No. 712340

>>712235
I find suits sexy in general and the fbi suits are no exception. My authority fetish doesn't help this either. I absolutely hate and want to rebel against authority but if it tops me in bed it's pretty hot. Would prefer the guy wearing the glowie suit be hot tho

No. 712341

>>712335
You usually wear shit like coats until they get too worn out and you can't be assed to fix them. I have bought the same denim jacket twice so i could dye the other one, so I don't think it's all too weird, but also NO ONE CARES ANON. Get shit if you wanna, wear that coat for 100 years if you wish.

No. 712354

>>712341
THANKS ANON, I needed answer like that! I tend to worry/overthink about non-existent problems lol.

No. 712363

Lmao how do i sage?

No. 712368

what can cause someone to have signs of sexual trauma despite never being molested or sexually abused?

No. 712370

>>712368
Isn't a large part of trauma the fact that you often supress the memory of it? Not even that you do it on purpose, that the brain shuts it away to try and cope but the after effects still linger.

No. 712371

>>712368
only thing i can think of is that you may have heavily repressed any memories of abuse happening to you

No. 712372

>>712363
Type sage into the e-mail field.

No. 712374

>>712368
potentially not recognizing abuse as abuse
I can think of a few examples that people often overlook in their own life: online grooming, emotional incest, being abused by child of the same age
could also be memory-blocking

No. 712376

>>712368
could just be trauma from another form of abuse, trauma can manifest itself a similar way across various types of abuse

No. 712382

On the topic of repressed trauma, I know it's tricky to answer but, how do you know you have it?
Do you somehow "feel" It?
If I'm asking myself if I've been sexually abused my answer is a plain no, would it be different I had repressed memories?

No. 712391

I also have a question about sexual abuse, i got molested a lot by my brother and a cousin, but like never got raped so it wasn’t as bad as how other anons had it.
How do I stop being bitter about it and how do I repress or forget about it? I usually Can live normally but I can’t help but feel paranoid at times or get annoyed just by looking at them having normal lives without feeling self-conscious about how they perceive themselves and such.

No. 712399

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Which board is this from?

No. 712400

>>712399
It was on /ot/

No. 712408

>>712391
I’m so sorry that happened to you, I wish I could give you a hug
Have you had therapy like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or Dialetical Behavioural Therapy? They can help change the patterns of thoughts and behaviours into more positive coping mechanisms. You need an outlet for the stress such as someone to talk to or a journal to write in.

Then there’s the question of, have/will you report then, confront them, tell your parents or sue. That does give some people closure but it can also be extremely difficult

No. 712411

>>712391
>but like never got raped so it wasn’t as bad as how other anons had it.
I can't answer your question because I've personally never been through it but, please don't compare your assault to other peoples assault. No ones experience with being sexually assaulted is worse or better than anyone elses experience. Sexual assault is not a competition of which victim is more traumatized. Don't downplay what you went through and don't let anyone try to tell you it's not "as bad".

No. 712417

>>712382
Psychfag here. Repressed trauma is a myth. Countless studies have proven that we are more likely to viscerally remember traumatic events, or really any event that evoked very positive or negative emotions in us. People may have developed techniques for avoiding remembering a traumatic event, but that's more of a coping mechanism, not some kind of function of memory.

If you ask yourself if you've been sexually abused and can't recall any specific instances of such, you either weren't, or there may have been events that perhaps you need to educated yourself about and ask whether or not they may constitute sexual abuse.

At the end of the day, it's really better to seek professional help for these things. People who feel they have been abused, but can't remember specific instances usually have actually been abused, but it was a type of subtle, chronic abuse (ie: neglect) that was normalized because it took place so early in the person's life and continued for a long time. This is the difference between complex trauma and PTSD-type trauma.

No. 712418

Anons with depression, have any of you been able to overcome it? I can’t seem to do anything, I just always feel a sense of impending doom, I just want to know if it could get better someday.

No. 712425

>>712418
I haven't completely overcome my depression, but I know that not having so many stressful things happening in my life has certainly improved it. I was at my most depressed from 2014-2019 because pretty much all I did was work and live pay check to pay check. I lived in an expensive city that I had little option of leaving. I was also a full-time student on top of working two jobs. I stopped doing my hobbies because I was literally so exhausted that all I could find it within me to do during my downtime was lay in bed and watch Netflix. Was also in an abusive relationship for some of those years.

Within the past year, I had the opportunity to move somewhere nicer and cheaper, dropped a number of toxic people and graduated school. Now I have more time to get back into the things I used to really enjoy. I still have pretty bad anxiety unfortunately, but depression is a pretty minor issue for me these days.

I think that some people are more prone to depression than others, but changing your environment really does wonders if you're able to.

No. 712426

>>712418
I did with medication a few years ago, then it came back again so I'm medicating again. I try to remind myself that it's possible to feel better because I did at one point, but it feels different now, like I'm more jaded than I was before.

No. 712429

>>712418
It’s been 10 years and no, despite attempting to in many different ways. Now I’m focusing on learning to live with it. I do have periods of feeling relatively okay - things can feel better at times. I take what I can get and have just accepted depression will most likely always be part of my life. I hope that doesn’t sound depressing, it’s a neutral feeling. It won’t always feel so bad.

No. 712430

>>712418
Yes. It took dropping heartbreakingly toxic people, medication (still on), and therapy (not currently doing, but was great at the time), and I feel better generally speaking and more capable of handling when things are bad. It never goes away for some people, it’s an illness, but it becomes very manageable.

No. 712431

>>712426
Been there too, anon

No. 712437

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I'm from Canada and recently got hired to work for a company in the US. I'm going to be moving there on a work visa (sponsored by my company) and will be living there full-time for the foreseeable future.

I have a boyfriend who has a permanent remote work position for a Canadian company (meaning he can work pretty much anywhere, he's not tied to a specific office). I obviously want him to come with me, but with how things are, it looks like he'll only be able to stay for 6 months at a time and then have come back to Canada for 6 months after his visa expires. While his company has a presence in the US, they said they can't get him a work visa because they don't have any operations in the state I'm moving to (I found that REALLY odd, especially considering that they have an office in the state I'm moving to, which makes things even more confusing).

Have any anons here been in a similar situation before? At this point I'm planning to get my dual citizenship (once eligible) and then marry him so he can live with me permanently. But I'm not sure if I have any other options here. Would appreciate any insight into this! It's very confusing!

No. 712438

>>712429
Have your surroundings changed much in 10 years? Have you seen a therapist for depression, preferably someone who focuses on you as a whole? I don't mean to be judgmental, but I find that people who treat depression as though it's a chronic illness are typically not aware of the reasons why they went on to develop depression in the first place, which makes it harder to recover from. It's definitely not just some illness like diabetes that you "have" to live with, although it is definitely not easy for everyone to overcome.

No. 712456

>>712438
I’ve been receiving help since childhood after being removed from my abusive family (probably the biggest cause of the depression). Help was sporadic at first but became consistent 10 years ago. I’ve been through counselling, CBT, individual and group psychotherapy. Every time medication is discussed, the psychiatrist always struggles to find something I haven’t already tried. I’ve cut off toxic people, moved away, been successful in academics and my career, done cool things and made good friends. I have a decent life now, but can’t shake off the depression despite my efforts. There are physical differences in the brains of people who suffered severe childhood abuse/neglect, which I think helps to explain why I’m fucked up.

No. 712509

Is there a difference between cat whiskers and fish’s whiskers?

No. 712511

>>712509
one is from a cat and the other is from a fish

No. 712512

>>712509
Fish whisker is meaty

No. 712519

>>712512
can you eat fish whiskers

No. 712543

what are the best sappiest Nick Cage movies?

No. 712544

>>712543
Peggy Sue, Valley Girl? Anything from the 80s with him I feel like would be the best place to start

No. 712560

What are some overrated food blogs I should avoid? I know Serious Eats is one

No. 712566

>>712560
I don't have an answer but, my stupid question is: why should serious eats be avoided?

No. 712567

>>712519
Basically u can eat anything

No. 712616

uhhh

Why is it called PT?
What does PT stand for?
like on lolcow

No. 712617

>>712616
Pixie Teri

No. 712633

should I take my college math course online and cheat my way to an easy A? im a dyslexic retard and really fucking suck at math. the jobs i want with my degree do not require any math skill so im not too worried about actually learning it. i just don't want to fail because my brain is defective.

No. 712693

How the fuck do I get out rancid sweat smell from some of my clothes' underarm area? I used to stink really bad until a few years ago and whenever I put on an old shirt or coat, even if I don't sweat at all, my body heat sort of activates' the smell. I tried rinsing them in vinegar and textile refresheners but so far nothing worked. I don't want to throw out my otherwise perfectly good shirts and my winter coat from 2 years ago

No. 712694

>>712693
samefag. I obviously wash them regularly, but it does nothing

No. 712707

Is it okay to be turned on by a phrase, almost like a sleeper agent, that your friend/coworker has said even if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

No. 712719

Do any of you have a nice morning routine you enjoy? I am having so much trouble getting into a routine without work atm. I kinda miss having a schedule.

No. 712727

>>712693
Try baking soda. It gets the rancid smell out of my training sneakers, it'll probably work on clothes too. Put a thin film of it on stinky areas, leave it overnight. For really bad persistent smells do this several times, removing the old and putting a new layer of baking soda each day.

No. 712729

>>712693
This happens to me with rayon/chiffon so I just accepted that I'll never wear them. Maybe your shirts/coat has a material your body doesn't tolerate? I'd try hydrogen peroxide on your whites.

No. 712739

>>712566
Anon Serious Eats is the definition of reddit tier cooking

No. 712749

>>712739
Anything with "Eats" in the name is something you should give a wide berth.

No. 712754

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Am I the only one who has spoilered pics showing up like that? And when I click on them they are transparent, I have to open them in another tab to make them appear clearly. Is this some kind of soft ban/punishment thing?

No. 712762

Does ibs clear up sometimes or should I be suspicious that mine lasted for years and came to a sudden stop?

I had symptoms for ten years, took the meds in the beginning and stopped when the payoff from them was barely worth it. 3 years ago within the space of maybe a fortnight my symptoms eased and stopped. Should I be suspicious that I maybe had some long term infection that finally cleared itself? At diagnosis I was told ibs is for life.

No. 712771

Anons who take Prozac, do you take it in the morning or before bed?

No. 712784

What's the difference between web design and UX design? Or are they the same?

No. 712789

Just got a two week extension on my dissertation (thank god!!) but I still haven’t done anything. How do I get it done when I’m extremely unmotivated?

No. 712794

>>712789
Don't wait until motivation comes. Just do it. Sit down, set your timer for an hour, write, short snack break, then an hour of writing again, rinse and repeat

No. 712795

>>712784
in my understanding, UX design is focused on more psychological aspect?? Like analyzing the way user will interact with our website, what will bring their attention? Is the website intuitive enough for them??

No. 712842

I accidently stabbed myself under the nail with scissors while I was cutting my nails and now it's oozing something. My nail's also changed colour (it has a bluish spot now). Is there something I can do or it's gonna fall off?

No. 712845

Has anyone ever had a nice boss?

No. 712860

>>712845
i have one. she's actually really patient with me considering how stupid i am

No. 712861

>>712845
Me! My direct supervisor, his supervisor and CEO, they're all cool.

No. 712867

>>712845
Yes, my supervisor and chief of our department. All of the supervisors in my dept are wonderful, though.

No. 712869

>>712842
I accidentally sliced like 1/4 of my thumb nail off a few years ago and it grew back almost normal, so I'm assuming you're gonna be okay, anon. Just be careful not to apply too much pressure to the nail so the tissues have a chance to heal up.

No. 712881

My mom wants to know if I was penetrated as a kid, I'm 20 now though, medical examiners can find out so many years later? I don't remember being raped, and I've definitely haven't had sex yet with anyone consensually

No. 712882

Is there a difference between cow-tipping and touching the poop? I've just started hearing the second recently and tbh it's a lot less fun

No. 712888

>>712882
the 2nd term is from twitter/lsa (sometimes also used on kiwi) it's not only dumb as fuck and makes no sense but it's an immediate sign of a newfag or a lame farmer that won't use our cow themed insults.

No. 712909

Do you think someone's fictional preferences can tell what their sexuality is or should it only count with real people? How can someone even figure out their sexuality if they hate being touched by anyone of either sex irl and think everyone is unattractive?

No. 712923

>>712909
Fictional preferences are probably reflective of their sexuality. Second question makes the person sound asexual, though maybe something is getting in the way of their true sexuality, like trauma. Maybe they’re just very fussy. The only way to find out is to work through any issues and try exploring sexuality.

No. 712939

>>712719
I have a pretty strickt morning routine. I get up. Go to pee. Then i go to the bathroom and do my skincare. Then depending on how I feel I’ll have breakfast or just a coffe and watch a short YouTube video. Then go back to bathroom. Brush teeth and put on makeup and brush my hair. Then i choose my clothes. I’m doing this pretty much every day!

No. 712941

>>712860
>>712861
>>712867
Good to know they exist, thank you

No. 712942

>>712881
no they can't, not all hymens are torn during sex or by dildo and some tear from biking or horse riding. my obgyn said mine's still there despite years of fucking myself which I thought tore in my teens.

No. 712943

Why am I unable to take a dump in the morning before having breakfast?

No. 712948

>>712943
maybe you take dumps at night before going to sleep?

No. 712956

>>712942
Thanks for replying anon! when I look down there with a mirror it looks like I have an annular hymen, like it has a little hole, from menstruation probably.

No. 712958

>>712948
i hardly ever. when i try to poop in the morning before having breakfast i can't but immediately after i finish breakfast i have to poop. why?

No. 712962

>>712958
because the newly eaten food pushes your old eaten food further along your digestive system, that includes onto your instestines, and if you have any fecal matter just sitting there, it pushes it out. maybe?

No. 712968

>>712962
makes sense, thanks!

No. 712990

Oldfags, can you give us some essential reading cow recommendations? I want to know about the most WTF cows, whether they’re retired or the milk just hasn’t been flowing for a while & their old threads are good but the new ones are boring/slow

No. 713065

What kind of messages usually get a successful cam girl/OF whore to block someone if they're paying them? Is it normal to block customers who act too familiar with you, or do most just leave them be? totally not asking because of Shayna's splenda daddy and his weird antics.

No. 713068

>>712990
seconding this

I'm newer to lolcow but an oldfag in terms of following internet cows. Kiki Kannibal/Dakota Rose are like the cows that broke the farm OG level. You gotta know them.

No. 713071

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How would you rate the TV programs in your country? (not netflix, actual scheduled TV programming). As a Britfag who has never watched foreign television before, I'd say British TV is pretty good since most of our programming is decent, and we've got some good stuff

No. 713074

>>713071
You have no blood.

No. 713075


No. 713076

>>713074
I think I do.

No. 713077

Does anyone else constantly rub their sweating feet or their fingers whenever browsing the web or just sitting around? I tried to google why it could be, but all I'm getting is disgusting skin conditions or articles about skin picking, but I don't injure my skin. I just keep rubbing it either when my feet are sweaty, or sometimes I even lubricate my thumb with saliva to keep rubbing. I swear it's not a sexual thing.

No. 713078

>>712990
bumping this as a newfag who joined this site in February. I want to find out about the cows here, especially since I don't use the cow boards, aside from /snow/ on the rare occasion

No. 713088

>>713071
What programs do you think are good? I’m in the U.K. too and not renewing my TV license this year because it’s all so bad.

No. 713092

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How is everyone getting this sort of blurry/bloomy/glowy effect on their photos lately? I've tried a few combinations of things in photoshop but I'm suspect this trend started with people who edit on their phones, so

No. 713095

>>712990
I recently read about Gutterface/Joji in the BJD doll thread and it was great entertainment but not really an OG cow I guess

No. 713139

>>713092
I did this for art when I used to draw on Gaiaonline, lol.
Duplicate the layer. Blur the top layer until it you can't make out details but you can still see shapes, then lower the opacity. Apply "soft light" mode.

No. 713141

Do fujos actually masturbate to BL? I read BL and find it stimulating and everything, but in the end I don't have a penis so it doesn't really work as masturbation material. Maybe I just lack imagination tho

No. 713142

>>713141
can't speak for everyone ofc, but i personally don't get off to it

No. 713152

>>713141
To be honest, not really, I just think it looks nice and that the guys are hot. I just can’t see myself in the pictures or scene, it would feel more like voyeurism and I’m not into that.

No. 713165

Why did the alt community become so retarded? Why is it in itself a massive shitfest

No. 713173


No. 713179

>>713141

I used to when I was like 16 but not anymore. I never self-inserted as the uke, anti-fujos keep saying fujos do this and that's why the uke tends to be written so uguu feminine. Could be true in some cases but in my case super feminine ukes always turned me off even as a teenage fujo and made finding "good" (lol) BL difficult.

No. 713181

what’s that subreddit of people who think they’re being followed by groups of people. They claim that they keep seeing the same cars/license plates/people

No. 713185

>>713181

r/gangstalking

No. 713200

>>713181
>think

No. 713204

Can I get banned from Discord for sending an IP grabber through DM?

No. 713217

>>713204
probably not but why are you using an ip grabber anon?

No. 713220

>>713217
I'll post about it soon, I have to check something. Thank you for your answer. ♥

No. 713222

How do you know if you were misdiagnosed with ADHD and actually have autism?

No. 713234

>>713222
you could always talk to different doctors for a second opinion. nothing wrong with that

No. 713247

How common is it for anachans to get to Eugenia level spoopy? I’ve been lurking her subreddit and there’s so many posts about people aperging about how they used to be her current size. Are they full of shit? Eugenia to me seems like she’d be a pretty rare bmi.

No. 713251

>>713247
Unless there's picture evidence to prove so they're likely lying. I would say it's not that common. A lot of anachans aren't even that spoopy, they just think they're spoopy when they reach a low to low normal BMI if they used to be fatties

No. 713263

Why the fuck does shayna's boobs do that? How? The other one is dying as we speak

No. 713272

>>713251
Ok anachan.
>>713247
It depends, cases differ by severity but either way you can seriously die at any weight if you've damaged your heart enough. At EC or Ashley Issacs state you are barely functional. If you want to learn more about the topic seriously watch the documentary Thin.

No. 713276

>>712754
happens to me on mobile but not on pc

No. 713282

>>713247
it's very uncommon to be that thin and still alive but it happens. i knew someone irl a few years ago who was around her size, although she wasn't anachan, she was that skinny because she was homeless and couldn't afford any food

No. 713298

>>713141
I really just read it for the plot kek.

No. 713304

>>712617
Nuhuh what

No. 713306

Fellow anons with tonsils, do you actively remove your tonsil stones or just let them fall from themselves?

No. 713309

>>713306
your what

No. 713316

>>713306
I once tried the qtip method and bled, got tonsillitis or some shit so I never tried physically removing them. I usually can kinda swallow on nothing and move my tongue weird to get some out but I've noticed the older I get, the less I have them and the ones I do have are huge. Gurgling salt water or a mouthwash twice a day helped a lot also!

No. 713338

I got my period on the 4th and it stopped two days ago. This morning I woke up and I was bleeding again, and have been all day. It was bright red at the beginning of the day, and is borderline black/brown now. Am I dying?

No. 713342

>>713306
I just let them fall but I've had some now for a few months. ONE of them fell out and it's less funky but still annoying af. Like >>713316 mentioned, the only time the one fell out was when I gargled mouthwash the night before

No. 713347

>>713338
Don't worry anon you're not dying, it could be caused by something like stress but it can just happen for no reason
I never used to get this but it's become normal to me lately too I'm blaming lockdown lifestyle changes

No. 713377

I know this is a coomer question, but I don't know where else to ask this… where can I find some good bisexual male (mmf) hentai? Does that even exist?

No. 713401

>>713377
I once read a Fate/Stay Night doujinshi which was ArcherxLancerxRin, it was pretty good and I guess it's the kind of thing you're looking for, you need to browse hentai websites and check the tags (like MMF or bisexual male of it exists).

No. 713408

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>>713401
TIL this girl is from Fate/Stay Night

No. 713413

Should I put 'he/him' on my ao3 profile so this surprisingly fakeboi infested fandom won't screech at me for 'mlem fetishization'?

No. 713415

>>713413
No, tell them to shut up

No. 713429

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I wish we could start a thread here that is akin to Reddit’s R/deadeyes (featuring porn stars) but instead we just post the eyes of piece of shit men and discuss how devoid of humanity they look.

Here’s the railway rapist-murderer David Mulcahy with his glassy dead soulless shark eyes

No. 713431

>>713429
Shit, I blocked that subreddit out of my head because it freaked me out. I like this idea tho

No. 713437

Are you or are you not supposed to bleed when it's your first time doing PIV? I keep hearing conflicting accounts. Some people say it's completely normal and it can happen the next few times, others say if you bleed you're not doing it right and you should slow down/do more foreplay. So what's the truth?

No. 713438

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>>713431
Yeah and there’s endless material, for we don’t have to post men who have been convicted of a crime, just any that are definitely evil

No. 713444

>>711877
>>713437
It varies from person to person and I thought it was because the hymen breaks? I thought It never happened to me because I used tampons.

No. 713445

>>713437
it's just one of those things where everyone's experience is different

No. 713447

>>713437
It can be normal for the first few times, equally you might never bleed. Depends on you as an individual. I bled regularly into the tens of times I had sex, looked it up and found something about micro-tears? I had vaginismus though which made penetration more difficult, so that’s probably why. More foreplay and lube is always worth trying. If you’re also feeling tense/nervous that’s likely having an effect.

No. 713472

>>713444
The hymen doesn't tear if you stretch it over time, either through unrelated exercise or deliberate penetration, and you're turned on enough
I believed the lie that a hymen is meant to be torn and you're just meant to keep going through the pain and now I'm mad as hell about it
>>713437
If you don't want to tear/bleed during your first piv you should get to know your own body first, experiment with your own fingers etc. People always say that for it not to hurt you just need to relax, but it's not that simple. We should tell girls to learn how to relax when penetrating themselves alone first

No. 713500

is it really good for laptop battery health to leave the laptop on battery every once in a while? how often should this be done? is there such thing as too often?

No. 713505

>>713437
Haven't had PiV yet but when I used a dildo for the first time (with lube) it didn't bleed at all. I've been using cups for a good 8 years and I never bled or felt some kind of painful stretch, and I'm not sure I even had a hymen in the first place.

No. 713506

>>713500
I'm not convinced it makes a noticeable difference on its own but rather it is the heat generated that gradually degrades a Li-ion battery. Maybe take it off power or take a break when it gets hot?

The effect that discharging the battery has on lifespan is complicated and I reckon not worth stressing about.

Eg laptops I've used daily had their batteries degrade about the same whether they were the desk one on power full time or the one I ran on battery a lot.

The only battery I got to keep pristine beyond 2 years was one I kept at 40% charge in the fridge in clingwrap but laptops these days don't let you hotswap the battery like the old IBMs did so that's just some autism, k thanks bye.

No. 713510

What is the oldest MacBook Pro model that can handle the Adobe CC suite and Sketch? I'm broke but I need a Macbook and want to buy a used one

No. 713511

At what point can you claim that something is yours if you've partly followed a YT tutorial? I've added a whole bunch of my things and customized it but if anyone compared the two works, the inspiration or better put, the starting point would be clear.

No. 713512

Genuine question, what makes trans women and actual women different if actual women stopped having children? I just saw someone say that if women stop reproducing there will be no meaningful difference between us and troons.

No. 713515

>>713512
Because an actual woman just is a woman whereas a tranny is a deluded man whose entire meaning is based on keeping up a lie that is easily shattered?
A woman is not defined by her ability to conceive neither is she defined by her interests or fashion.

No. 713518

>>713512
That we don't depend on hormone blockers and estrogen pills to "be women"? It's like you asked, what makes women and men biologically different lol.

No. 713520

>>713518
This and the fact that sex-based discrimination against women exists outside of procreation. Troons opt into that, actual women don’t get a choice.

No. 713521

Why does taking vitamin D supplements give me headaches and make me feel irritated af? This is not the first time this has happened and now I'm taking a different brand

No. 713523

>>713512
>What's the difference between a steel beam and a wooden plank that was spray painted silver???

No. 713526

>>713515
what defines a woman?

No. 713527

>>713523
I know I’m retarded but this is the stupid questions thread

No. 713528

>>713523
This analogy doesn't even make sense regardless of the point you were trying to make.

No. 713531

>>713526
NTA but a woman is just the female of the human species, ie. the sex that produces the egg. It doesn't stop to be true just because some decide to not have children, this is the main difference for every biological difference between the two sexes. And just because some women are infertile or some people end up with extra chromosomes, doesn't really change it. The social ('gender') builds on the biological, not vice versa. Men have 0% worry to ever carry their rapist's baby, or be threatened with it.

No. 713533

>>713526
Like, having two X chromosomes for starters, if you go to a fucking doctor and the doctor says that you’re biologically a woman since birth, you’re a woman. Whatever happens afterwards is what you as an individual wants to do.

No. 713534

>>713512
One of them has a foetid, shit smelling, mutilated, man made crevice between their legs, and the other has a vagina.

No. 713535

>>713521
Have you researched how much you need to take? Headaches can be a sign of overdosing. The amount you need is individual and depends on factors like the severity of winter where you are, how much time you spend outside, your personal biology. Try reducing the dosage, if the pills aren’t scored you can buy cutters pretty cheap.

No. 713538

>>713512
woman have different heart attack symptoms, we have specific diseases only we have, and a man who takes some female horse pee pills will never experience. There are many female only things because of our biology that are more than just having children.

No. 713540

>>713535
That might be it. I take 50 micrograms per day and live in a Nordic country

No. 713547

Do colleges confirm that you dropped a class? I dropped one of my classes and through my school portal it now says one seat is available, but I’m still in the blackboard. I’m anxious about somehow still being enrolled.

No. 713551

>>713547
It can take a bit before being removed from blackboard, if your school portal allows you to list the classes you're in and it's not there you should be fine.

No. 713555

>>713540
That does sound like too much when the recommendation is only 10mcg/day. May be best to try 10 then adjust if necessary. I believe you can take the pills every few days, so one 50mcg every 5 days. To save you wasting the pills as they’ll be difficult to cut.

No. 713575

>>713521
d, e, k and vitamin a aren't soluble in water meaning you can overdose on them because they're stored in lipids aka fat. with that in mind it's possible you overdosed or something?

No. 713630

Baking fags, what is your favorite cookie recipe?

No. 713631

how did the onision thread manage to go so off the rails these past few months? it's not like there's no milk, but every time i see it it's just the most braindead arguing ever from boomers who fucking love abusing italics. is it just the general influx of twitfags and freaks from LA and KF coming over to LC?

No. 713641

Finland has a population of only around 5.5 million people yet Finns seem to be hugely overrepresented on imageboards. How come?

No. 713646

>>713641
same with balkan anons, I guess we're just miserable terminally online people that tend to be less normie than the rest of the world for some reason

No. 713652

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>>713630
Oh fuck, it's my time to shine

I looove butter cookies, they're my go-to Christmas cookie for gifts. So versatile. They're amazing dipped in chocolate, or mixed with grounded almonds. I use the dough for linzers as well (much better than shortbread, imo). PROTIP for sharp edges: replace 1/2cup (~60g) of flour with cornstarch.

I sometimes make "healthy" cookies with anything in my kitchen. Basic brown sugar cookie dough with rolled oats, ground flax seed, nut butter, maple syrup, dried raisins/cranberries, chocolate chips, nuts.
350F for 10mins.

My super ultra lazy cookie is pie crust cinnamon spirals. Leftover pie dough, rolled up with cinnamon/brown sugar (butter optional) and cut. Pinch the ends into the dough so they don't unravel. 425F for 15mins.

No. 713661

>>713646
Would a Balkan thread even be this active? I guess it depends on how you define the Balkan region, but still

No. 713663

>>712322
It started when the trans flag was made because Trans is very different from LGB and having it under the rainbow flag wouldn't make sense because they are very different expiriences. Later on, bi people felt that their experience was different from gay people and at that point, each letter had their own flag, making people think you need one for every identity. Also, spicy straight people like pastel colors

No. 713668

>>713646
But the Balkans have 55 million people, 10x times the population of Finland. Fins are vastly overrepresented online.

No. 713671

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>>713652
This all sounds good ilu anon

No. 713676

>>713641
Too much free time.

No. 713680

>>713641
It's actually mento illness, luv. Not kidding.

No. 713699

someone plase tell me what

t.

means I can’t figure it out. My best guess is

thintherely (sincerely with a lisp)

No. 713702

>>713699
>t. is an abbreviated form of the Finnish word terveisin (meaning "regards" in English)

of course it's finnish

No. 713706

>>713702
ohhhhh thank you. Do you know the history of how that came to be commonly used here? Or are all the people using it finnish….?

No. 713709

>>713699
I remember thinking i was so fucking smart trying to out someone on an imageboard as a finn for using t.
Turns out i was just retarded

No. 713710

>>713706
We just use a lot of imageboards and sign posts often with t. Someone who knows/something related to the post they are replying. Kinda like
A: "oh she says her cat is growing wings"
B: "that's fucking impossible t. Vetfag"

No. 713736

>>713699
anon thintherely is killing me what have you done

No. 713756

>>713706
It's from ylilauta, a Finnish image board. It was used on by Finns on 4chan /int/ and krautchan which is how it ended up on English speaking image boards.

No. 713774

Would 172cm be 5'7 or 5'8?

No. 713788

How much time needs to pass to break up with your partner because they have never said I love you?

No. 713789

>>713774
5'7.7", so closer to 5'8 i guess

No. 713795

>>713756
> krautchan
I miss that place. It's a shame it went to shit.

No. 713796

>>713788

I lasted 18 months when I was younger with a guy who I was very much in love with who never said it back.

No. 713797

>>713788
I think that if you’re “officially” together, around a month or two months, like, there must be some moments in two months in which two people that are actually in love with each other would sporadically say
>hey boo, I love you.

No. 713798

My roommate's cat makes 'rounds'. Like she boops into my room, goes to my window, goes back to the corner near my door and walks out, always in that order lol. Is this a common cat thing?

No. 713809

>>713798
Yes, she's just making sure the premise is secure, miss.

No. 713812

>>713788
It depends on how he is treating you. If he's treating you like shit then as soon as possible. If he treats you like he loves you but never says it, then you should ask yourself what the actual issue is. Some men and even some women find it very difficult to express their emotions verbally.

No. 713814

Is anyone here a former atheist/irreligious? How do you go back to religion? I find that I'm a very mentally weak person and I wish I could return to some belief system that would give me more hope in life and the world but I find that I'm way too much of a sceptic now. Anyone have any success in brainwashing/indoctrinating themselves into believing something like that?

No. 713819

>>713814
I'm an atheist but I like to read about budha's teachings, meditate and keep in touch with the religion. And you can still be spiritual but not religious. I've always believed in destiny, for example.
I've been in your same position but don't brainwash yourself into being religious. Sometimes real life can give you hope as well, just be tuned in with yourself, nature and the good things in life that make you feel happy

No. 713821

is it okay to eat Reese's candy that just expired this month? they're from october

No. 713822

>>713821
You won't get sick, if they are in wrappers, might be kinda stale though

No. 713824

Please can anyone recommend some movies or series to watch with my mom WITHOUT sex scenes? I'm fucking tired of everything being so fucking explicit.

No. 713828

>>713641
This was asked in one of the previous threads and the explanation was that because Finns have always had an extremely enthusiastic userbase of the internet and the country has traditionally had high speed internet widely and cheaply available they've also created their own sub culture online. And because the snarky, unapologetic imageboard style of discussion and humor sits well with their culture.

No. 713829

>>713819
Thanks for this, anon. I feel really lost right now in life and it's nice to know someone else has had a similar experience. Do you have any advice or suggestions on how to get into Buddhism? Any readings, books or videos I should start off with?

No. 713830

>>713824
My autistic ass first thought was donnie darko because i remember being surprised there was no sex scenes, i have no idea why. Holiday movies are generally safe, what kind of movies or even actors you like?

No. 713834

Is it normal to feel absolute dread when seeing nudity (others)? Like I feel really pained and depressed. What is supposed to be a natural response to nudity?

No. 713838

>>713830
Thanks for answering, honestly me and my mom love anything good, the last good thing we watched was parasite, also we loved inception and the shape of water. It's okey if the recommendation contains mild sex scenes, but not game of thrones level.

No. 713846

>>713838
Those are movies my mom and I enjoyed as well! I would recommend Moon, Seven Psychopaths, Mute, Thoroughbreds, for some lighter maybe Laundromat. They are kinda off beat, similar odd vibes.

No. 713847

>>713846
If you like weird family drama, 3 billboards outside of ebbing missouri or august: osage county were some of my faves last year or so, sorry to dump it out all like this!

No. 713849

>>713846
>>713847
Thank you, these are super nice recommendations, means a lot.

No. 713850

i accidentally cut my thumb with an old x-acto knife yesterday and its about an inch long and pretty damn deep. i tried to get a tetanus shot today but the clinic was closed. will i die if i wait til tomorrow

No. 713851

>>713849
No problem, hope you two have fun!

No. 713859

>>713829
This video it's a good summary and I've also liked the video on buddhism from The School of Life, the Jubilee video of people asking questions to a monk and the Headspace series on meditation (it's on Netflix, the creator behind it was a buddhist monk for 10 years) and I'm sure there are lots of TED Talks.
A really nice thing about buddhism it's that there aren't very strict rules, Buddha himself encouraged people to not blindly trust in his word and approach the buddhist path as they need.
The teachings are simple in theory, they are about making no harm and avoiding suffering by minimizing our desires (that's the hard thing, in this time and age)
Sending you love anon! I hope you can take what you need from buddhism and it eases your worries

No. 713863

so i know a lot of women love deep voices and i think i'm the opposite way? almost all the guys i've liked had higher pitched voices, it makes me more at ease. is this common?

No. 713868

>>713863
i like deep voices on women and soft voices on men

No. 713870

How is whorepobia an acceptable word to use? I thought it was a joke but keep seeing it used by the left. Whore is like the worst word used against prostitutes and women, how is it empowering to use it in this sense?

No. 713871

>>713870
It's not anon, and the left doesn't value women any more than the right does. We're breeders to one and whores to the other and they try to sell you on the idea that it's empowering or some form of sexual freedom so they can keep exploiting us.

No. 713876

>>713870

Its not, people are just retarded.

Left pretends its empowering to be a slut when in reality, only men benefit becauase coomers gonna coom

Misogyny Left vs Misogyny Right

No. 713902

How can I calm myself when I’m both nervous and excited?
I have a job over the weekend that I’m really excited for but it’s high pressure and I’m afraid I’m going to mess it up. I’ve done this twice before, where I’ve been so excited but nervous that I actually did act like a dummy and do worse on the job than I normally do. At this risk of sounding like a fag I think it’s like in Harry Potter when Ron started playing in the quidditch team (if you’re familiar with the series)

No. 713903

>>713868
Same, that shit turns me on

No. 713905

What causes some cities to have worse drivers than other cities? I always hear people complaining about driving in my city (including truck drivers who frequently drive in multiple cities) and I’d like to know why one city would develop a worse driving culture.

No. 713910

>>713905
That’s a good question, I don’t know the answer totally but I know some factors. Florida, for example, is the most dangerous state to drive in. What else does Florida have? A fuck ton of old people. So that explains that one.
I hear Pittsburgh is terrible to drive in, but that’s maybe just because I live near tbere. I hate the park way though, which is a bunch of horrible over passes all stacked on top of each other like a death web spiral of concrete, it’s terrifying, and there’s also a ton of bridges. Infrastructure and bad city planning would play a big role in why drivers are “worse”, it may just be that the roads are the thing that is bad.

No. 713954

Can a mod permaban me? I've wasted too much time here the past 3 years and I'm also a teenager so I'm not allowed here anyway

I said I was gonna quit a month ago, but here my retarded ass still is. This must be what having a coke addiction feels like(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 713958

How do you get over knowing theres a certain part of the Internet that you were personally involved with hating your ass because they thought you manipulated their friends?

No. 713964

>>713910
>What else does Florida have?
florida man

No. 713967

>>713958
develop a paint huffing habbit

No. 713982

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you know how lolcow has themes- - uh style.

Do I have to manually select my preferred theme each time I get on lc or is there an option to permanently keep this site on my preferred theme? bank boo.

No. 713983

>>713958
the internet isn't real life

No. 713990

>>713982
For me it's always the theme I chose though? Do you use lite mode, or incognito tabs or something maybe? (No idea how it's on mobile either)

No. 713997

Is eyebrow sweat a thing? Everytime I go running I have sweatdrops in my eyebrows

No. 713998

>>713997
Yes, it means they're working, that's what eyebrows are for. They're sweat-stoppers, they collect sweat so doesn't drip in your eyes.

No. 714002

>>713998
Ah, today I learned. Thanks!

No. 714009

is it possible to somehow become nicer and kinder to others? i feel like i'm such a bitch to everyone

No. 714011

>>714009
People soften up all the time! But it has to happen gradually from an honest intention to become empathetic to others, not just wanting to appear nicer.
I think just pausing for a second to try to put yourself in other people's shoes is really helpful as well as asking people to explain what they mean etc. Try to think more about people's motivations, sometimes people are just stupid assholes but other times we can react with our own bias very quickly and completely misunderstand them
Books, movies and pocasts that show case studies of characters and people existing outside of our own experiences might help too

No. 714012

this is probably a contested topic but can you delude yourself into liking men (temporarily)? I basically forced myself to look at moid porn that disgusted me so I could feel normal. It's not normal but I had a weird thing "girls watch porn too!!" I wish I never was so stupid as a teen. Anyway, I stopped because 90% disgusted me and half the time I gave up feeling icky. (I did manage enough times with careful selection, so maybe I'm overthinking it.) Fast forward to now, scrolling /g/ and the femdom gifs. I know many anons expressed disgust but even the guys o-facing… they're in pleasure and "hot", that should be attractive right… I jumped out of my skin. Men really are gross to me.
Related, how come I get this urge to impress every man even though I don't want them? It's almost like ocd intrusive thoughts, a scrote is present, he could be old and ugly but I become hyper aware and nervous. As a kid I had this need to have a crush, so I would pick guys I even knew were ugly, just to have someone to fixate on. Wtf is this? The one I tried to have sex with, he could tell I was uncomfortable. We couldn't go all the way. I even felt nothing while kissing after the first couple times, I did get excited but those were clandestine. Social anxiety? fear of intimacy? lesbian? or low sex drive? I feel broken

No. 714016

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>>714009
I found this book while browsing a bookstore ages ago, might be worth a read if you can spare a bit of money? It basically lists every situation you can be kind in, how to do it and why. Basically like a manual for kindness.

Retain your inner bitch though because sometimes you’ll need her. Being kind as an unbending rule isn’t good.

No. 714029

>>714012
Its because you're having sex with scrotes you dont really like

No. 714032

>>714029
lol I think you're right, I guess I'm wondering why I did that, but I can't expect other people to know either.

No. 714034

>>714012
>Wtf is this?
Internalised misogyny and social norms?
There's nothing wrong with having no sexual feelings for men or not wanting to be near them for whatever the reason, you're not broken and I say this as someone who does actually enjoy sex with men so it's not like that it's something that sounds divide you from others.
This is maybe a stupid thing to say but maybe don't worry about it, just do you

No. 714037

>>714034
I think… you're right anon. In fact it's probably low self-esteem. And idk, some anxiety from the social norms you mentioned. I feel really aware of them around men
>just do you
I agree tbh… It's not stupid advice. That is basically my method but every now and then I think myself a storm and try to figure out why I'm like this. It makes more sense to just live life and the answer will present itself. Maybe I will find a moid I actually like.
I guess I'm thinking so hard because I'm afraid I'll repeat it again… It's like I was 100% aware I wasn't attracted, but still thought I had a crush. Maybe I did somehow. Since I wasn't attracted to those guys then I don't know which I am, I don't know how to tell.
I'm overthinking again so I'll try to take your advice and just live, I sound crazy lol, thanks for the answer

No. 714041

>>714037
You don't sound crazy, you just sound like you're figuring out what doesn't work for you but I hope you find what makes you confident in yourself soon whether that's focusing on friendships or chilling out alone

No. 714042

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Why do some women like tinder hook ups? Do you not mind that the men on there usually dont even see you as human?

No. 714045

>>714042
for some people, it's easier to hook up with no expectation of a relationship
some people really don't want to be contacted again
try not to judge, you can probably figure out why some people wind up like that

No. 714046

>>714045
Seems degrading when they could just get a dildo instead of fucking someone who sees them as "cheap sex"

No. 714047

>>714046
It kind of seems like your ignoring some factors
I'm not even saying you're wrong, but it's pretty unkind to the women who find themselves that poorly

No. 714048

>>714046
if you want to feel another warm human body but can't handle the responsibility/implications of staying in contact, it works out

No. 714049

>>714046
A dildo isn't a human being. Sometimes you just want to have sex with another person. I'm not into hookups but I don't really have a hard time understanding those who do.

No. 714051

>>714049
Yeah, but isn't it weird fucking someone who probably doesnt find them attractive or interesting?

No. 714053

>>714051
Why ask a question if you don't want it answered?
I would assume most women don't just hop in the car with anyone who calls them a dumb ugly piece of shit, but it seems like that's what you want to believe, so

No. 714055

>>714053
They might not be calling them that but I'm sure you know that's what they're thinking?

No. 714056

>>714055
Again, why even ask

No. 714059

>>714051
>>714055
Why do you believe that? Most people can be attracted to other people they don't love.

No. 714061

>>714059
You ever heard of post nut clarity? It's when guys fuck girls they dont find attractive because they're super horny then afterwards they feel guilt/depression. Knowing guys will fuck anyone they can would make the experince very unsexy to me.

No. 714063

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Can somebody please explain why the lady on the right is supposed to be empowered? I understand wearing a cover is part of muslim culture which tries to suppress women.

No. 714064

>>714061
then don't do it?
what's your problem?

No. 714066

>>714063
In the context of this image, it supposed to be 'every single thing a woman does is empowering. Empowerment isn't an objective state'. Libfems don't want to admit Islam is sexist

No. 714067

>>714065
anxiety

No. 714068

>>714063
As I see it, she stays true to her faith but seems like a strong, modern woman too. It's as nuanced as the left example, you can ask similar question ofhow is wearing such revealing clothes "empowering"? Basically just two women who do what they want, regardless of what other want them to do.

No. 714070

Does waking up at a random hour in the middle of the night have a medical name? Is it a type of insomnia?

No. 714071

>>714070
it's commonly caused by every form of anxiety

No. 714073

>>714066
Yea that’s what I’m thinking. I mean sure in many countries women can choose what to do and to wear but what’s the motivation behind it. The other anon was right to say why is a revealing outfit more empowering since it could be motivated by scrotes and their desires. I guess I can just relate bc I’m from a western country

No. 714083

I know the meme has been dead for several months by now, but what the fuck was that Mia Khalifa/Hit or Miss song? I never understood what the joke was and why it took off.

No. 714089

>>714083
I think it was a case of 'so bad, it's good'. I think it mainly took off because of this one chick's tiktok going viral.

No. 714097

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What’s a “normal” kink? I know choking, spitting and other degenerate shit that appears in porn is, well, degenerate. But what’s kinky enough to be kinky without being harmful, degrading or simply gross?

No. 714104

>>714097
probably footfagging (personally I don't get it, but it's not harmful in itself and only gross to those few feet-repulsed weirdos)

No. 714105

>>714097
femdom unironically

No. 714107

>>714068
>true to her faith
LMAO more like beaten into submission
>t. exmuslim

No. 714114

>>714097
Roleplaying and dressing up, unless it is made gross intentionally(like ageplay).

No. 714121

>>714097
Would boots be "normal" or is that still degen? The only bad thing I see from that is when someone licks or gets stepped on, but kissing a boot is very mild.

Maybe I'm too degen to see it as degen tho

No. 714127

>>714097
Using sex toys, dirty talk (it can be degrading but it's not necessary), phone sex, fucking in different place settings (nothing public please), painting each other's bodies, sensation play, wearing heels/lingerie, blindfolding, lap dances (just fucking while/after doing some kind of physical activity together is hot to me)

No. 714128

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why does the site look like this? i was browsing and it just… happened. works fine on incognito mode too. sorry if this doesn't fit this thread i don't know where to post this

No. 714129

>>714107
Ex-muslim too, but I do actually know a lot of women who genuinely choose to wear it to dedicate themselves to God. Don’t agree with the concept, and the “choice” thing only applies to the few muslim women with more liberal families. Most are forced though, lol. Controversial opinion, but I love pretty hijabis and like how they look “modest” but hot.

No. 714131

>>714128
You should probably try /meta/

No. 714134

>>711877
>>714042
>every girl is boring and superficial
Let me guess, he likes cars, sports and the gym, fishing, perhaps motorbikes, drinking with the lads. He thinks Myers Briggs is legitimate, he has tribal tattoos or a koi tattoo. He thinks that human beings have a “use by” date but he expects women to look past his below average sized chode.

No. 714135

>>714134
Samefag, he calls himself a “reverse catfish” when really he’s just trying to get away with lying about his age because he’s 35 and balding and still thinks he should be fucking 20 year olds

No. 714141

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>>714129
>I love pretty hijabis and like how they look “modest” but hot.
They look classy like those old Holywood stars with their headscarves and sunglasses

No. 714145

is it weird to have no friends besides your significant other?

i have really bad anxiety and have trouble meeting people. but i (somehow) managed to get my first bf at age 20 and we got engaged after 3 months. i dont really suffer from loneliness, im just really clingy towards him. but he is also clingy towards me and doesnt speak with many people (besides his best friend every once in a while and his mom)

should i try to get friends even though i feel no need to? should i force myself to be social or is it ok to have no friends?

No. 714147

>>714145
You should have friends. Maybe one day something happens with you and your partner and you'll be alone. There is always nice people out there that will be kind to you and you'll enjoy their presence, so try at least.
My mom never had friends as she was constantly moving and too focused on her studies and she regrets it a lot now that her children are grown up, she really wants to spend her time with someone else other than my dad because it's healthy

No. 714152

>>714145
Anon I’m the same. I have literally nobody besides my fiance. But i don’t really know where to make friends and I’m really picky when it comes to friendships… it’s ridiculous

No. 714154

>>714063
Hijabi girl is dressed like a fucking jedi.

No. 714156

>>714154
shit I'd be fucking strutting if i was dressed like a jedi

No. 714157

>>714145
If you had friends they would tell you that getting engaged at 20 after 3 months of dating to your first boyfriend is like 20 red flags in a row

No. 714158

>>714129
>Modest but hot
gross

No. 714162

>>714145
the easiest way to make friends is to find people that share a hobby or interest. You can do this online too, just find a relevant community or platform and be active, ask other people about the hobby/interest etc. Works the same in person, obviously. One of my best friends I met at a figure drawing class, and another I met at the gym (in a cycle class). Takes a while to build a good friendship ofc, but bonding over something you enjoy is easiest.

No. 714165

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I was talking to this one girl, but didn't reply for nearly a week to her messages because my brain is shit.
I did reply 4 days ago, but she didn't get back to me, and I feel kind of bad because it's kind of my fault for being an anxious/easily distracted retard even though I wanted to make friends. Should I try messaging her again sometime, or is that weird? It's probably too late to apologize.

No. 714171

>>714141
Definitely. The girls in the Gulf region are absolutely stunning and so glamorous, I want what they have.

No. 714172

I want to buy a PS vita but how do I find a cheap one? What secondhand sites would anyone recommend?

No. 714179

>>714162
> just find a relevant community or platform and be active
Where can I find these? I tried using disboard but hasn't been working out too well for me.

No. 714180

>>714165
Worst case scenario she won't reply

No. 714185

how long do you guys personally wear jeans and outer coats before washing?

No. 714186

>>714171
Don't ruin the illusion by interacting with gulf arabs, particularly since the ones you're envisioning will be the well-off/rich ones; as a rule they are some of the most unpleasant people I've ever met.

No. 714187

>>714186
What’s your ethnicity race baiter

No. 714188

>>714063
Because left has a killer body. I know it’s just a cartoon but she’s so nicely dressed.

No. 714189

>>714187
an arab of a non-gulf variety.

No. 714191

>>714189
don’t get butthurt when someone compliments them you diaspoo

No. 714200

When and why did lolcow.farm become so gender crit-y? It's so weird because apparently it wasnt always like this, so what happened. (I started lurking in 2018) Apparently at first the fakeboi thread was just for 'transtrenders'(and an mtf thread didnt exist) but now, the MtF thread is the most popular snow thread by far. Was there some infiltration or something like what happened to 4chan?

No. 714201


No. 714202

How would your life change if someone found out u were tranaphoinc?

No. 714204

>>714202
it wouldn’t, i live in a non tranny cult worshipping area

No. 714205

>>714202
It wouldn’t because most people I know IRL feel the same, only with less vitriol. Plus I say outlandish things all the time irl and nobody expects me to have entirely sane reactions to anything

No. 714206

>>714200
In new here so I don’t know, but I love having this space to share with other chicks. Having guys here be fine as long as they also share the same catty bitchy nature, but I would want them to be in the minority. I say that because on 4chan I’m always in the minority and get called out for being female, I’m actually getting harassed on there right now because I mentioned that a troon was harassing me, then saying “you shouldn’t have ever mentioned you were a girl on the internet and you deserve to suffer and die” like the troon couldn’t tell I was a girl by my fucking name. Believe it or not everyone needs a space to mingle with everyone and everyone also needs a space to mingle with people who share the same specific experiences and interests as them. This is my specific place.
It’s also super refreshing to hear a lot of topics being discussed that I would never see on 4chan. This may be the shittiest cattiest version of womanhood but it exists.

No. 714207

>>714097
It's as subjective as can be. Hell, I consider choking to be pretty normie. Basically any kink that is described in the mainstream (BDSM, daddy kink, etc.) To be "normal" while anything from deviantart (feet, piss,giants, transformation, poop, etc) to be "degenerate"

Basically, if people call it kink, its "normal", and if people call it fetish, it is "abnormal"

No. 714208

>>714186
big agree, i went to school with them, revolting people

No. 714210

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>>714206
>having guys here be fine
Get out

No. 714214

>>714202
im actually not but if someone caught me on this site I'd lose all my friends and probably be cancelled. then again I could get cancelled for using they instead of neopronoins so whatever

No. 714216

>>714200
It probably coincides with reddit banning every trans-critical subreddit. You can't have any female spaces if you don't allow MtFs to larp.

>>714202
Nothing, I'd probably be still the most liberal around in my work/schoolplace. You'd be surprised how homophobic the zoomers around me are.

No. 714223

>>714216
Yeah but wouldn't gender crits first think of making their own space? Second, wouldn't the orginal users speak out against it? (At least when it comes to things like "dont use their preferred pronouns call them what they are" stuff)

No. 714224

>>714207
Anon mentioned kinks or sexual practices, ig, that aren't degrading and harmful. That's not really subjective. It has come to a point were submissive/dominant relationship are inherently degrading. Choking and BDSM are harmful, so

No. 714229

>>714223
They do have their own places, they just didn't take off, so it's sortbof decentralized. Also really mean comments are usually still not encouraged, and here you can freely tell how fucking ugly that man in a wig is. Dunno about the FtM/Fakeboi thread, I wasn't here for the transition (badum ts).

No. 714231

>>714202
Fishing for good blackmail targets, modsama? /tinfoil

>>714206
>Being harassed on 4chan
Why are you connecting any kind of name or identity to that place?

No. 714237

>>714200
lolcow was definitely no friend to troons in 2018. actually it's LESS gender crit now since there was an actual GC thread during 2018.

No. 714269

>>714231
They’re either a retarded pickme or a larping scrote

No. 714275

>>714154
I knew it felt somewhat familiar!

No. 714278

How do I get motivation to do things I don't want to do when I don't even have motivation to do things I want to do?

No. 714279

Does it even work to confront a guy over text? I want to make it clear to him that I’m not going to sleep with him if he’s never answering me even tough he is online, but idk if it is childish over text. And due to the lockdown I can’t send him home when we see each other next time, so I don’t want to make it akward

No. 714280

>>714202
But I don’t want to be tranaphobic, what did that commune of Italy did to you? Don’t be an asshole.

No. 714284

>>714279
Block and ghost

No. 714294

>>714202
Depends on your environment, I think normies are likelier to be "transphobic" once they see how gross troons are. I've already managed to peaktrans my brother, I think a friend is on the verge of peaking, and a coworker would be a good candidate as well, so I would not be too worried (and my country hasn't been infected by the tranny craze yet). If you're in a very liberal environment you risk excommunication, that's for sure.

No. 714300

>>714202
Depends on who, I guess.

No. 714301

>>714202
not by much, if anything people would just think i'm a sperg for caring about "insignificant" issues since normies couldn't care less about trans people here. most of them can't even name more than three trans people, famous or not.

No. 714305

>>714301
samefag, in my work whatsapp groupchat someone accidentally sent a trans symbol emoji and no one else (not even the girl who sent it) knew what it meant. she just makes a lot of typos and wanted to type a word beginning with 'trans' so autocorrect took its turn lol

No. 714317

>>711877
Is it worth it to get into k-pop and, if so, how do you get into it? The only groups I know are BTS and Blackpink.

No. 714343

>>714317
blackpink are ok but bts are really overrated imo. i remember getting into k-pop in like 2009? older (90s and 00s, maybe very early 10s) k-pop >>>>>>>

No. 714356

What does nonny mean?

I like it, I use it here, but I have no idea what someone actually means when they say it.

No. 714359

>>714356
anonymous -> anon -> nonny

No. 714367

how do I download stupid youtube videos easily without asshole third party software?

No. 714374

>>714367
Google youtube to mp3 and there is one site that has a mp4 option too

No. 714378

>>714186
I lived in Saudi for most of my life and am non-Arab race they definitely look down on, so I’m under no illusion. They can be rude, sure, but they’re also some of the most generous people I’ve ever met and there is no denying they are beautiful. My fave Arabs by far, sorry!

No. 714379

File: 1610657664643.jpg (135.62 KB, 1080x1302, 20210114_225404.jpg)

Lol am i fucked?

No. 714382

>>714367
Install Python and then install youtube-dl, which will let you download videos from your computer's command line. You can search tutorial videos on youtube about youtube-dl to help you if you've never used the command line before.

No. 714394

>>714379
Delete it fat and rePost in the quiz thread

No. 714401


No. 714409

what does moids mean

No. 714410


No. 714418

Is the mento ilness luv x woman really only like 20?

Genuine stupid question. Also couldn’t believe she is neither British nor a time traveller from 2008.

No. 714419

>>714382
They don't even have to install python noe, they can just run the .exe file on cmd and add commants.

No. 714440

>>714208
You went to THEIR school with them.
>>714378
Exactly. They’re the nicest rich people ever. And the people who hate them are usually just gross people and/or hypocrites.

And politically I do have some (a lot of) things to complain about them but how can you generalize a normal people just like that unless you’re a racist? Lol.

No. 714454

File: 1610663510387.gif (9.3 MB, 520x293, coffee.gif)

>>714185
Until they start to smell or get big stains

>>714278
Pic related. Also, making lists and not doing dumb shit at the start of your day. I found it helpful to not immediately turn on my computer when I wake up.

>>714279
>when we see each other next time
There's going to be next time? Texting him is a bad idea. He obviously gives less of a shit than you so don't expend more of your time/brain. There's always more dick to be had

No. 714462

>>714279
Hes doing it on purpose to get you needy and it's working.

No. 714463

>>714418
I scrolled back on her IG and there was a pic of her from 2016 with her high school diploma so she must be at least 22ish? it also looks like she had a baby a few years before that and was a teen mom lol

No. 714467

>>714463
What’s her insta

No. 714468

>>714467
It’s @yourgirlfriend22 it was on a knowyourmeme page

No. 714481

were any of the 'comfort women' during WW2 ever paid?

No. 714486

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>>714279
>you if you do this

No. 714488

File: 1610669701843.gif (2.01 MB, 211x158, um well.gif)

>>714481
>paying kidnapped slaves

No. 714493

File: 1610670638506.jpg (38.91 KB, 350x500, aaaa.jpg)

How do I get over my fear of mice? I'm literally losing sleep over it.

No. 714498

can an anon please draw me a picture of sailor moon

No. 714510

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>>714498
not mine but here

No. 714525

>>714488
I assume anon meant like restitution

No. 714534

File: 1610677236541.png (22.36 KB, 489x523, dontsteal.png)

>>714498
original art work do not steal

No. 714536

>>714534
What happened to Artemis' tail?

No. 714544

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>>714498
Even framed it for ya

No. 714576

>>714317
To tack onto this I'd also recommend loona for new generation girlgroups, their stans are cancerous but they actually have a variety of songs musically from the girls solo releases predebut

also really like Dreamcatcher, WJSN, NCT, TXT (the younger group under BTS's label), stray kids, contemporary TWICE. For solos BoA, Taeyeon, Lim Kim's old stuff. As anon mentioned SM's entertainment artists, fx, red velvet, girls generation, as examples, release pretty solid albums. If you like r&b I'd recommend artists like bibi, jiselle, lee hi, dean. Mostly listen to female artists but I concur that >>714567 has some good recs and wanted to add more

If you like blackpink, check out 2ne1, different generation but same label, similar producers and sound

No. 714597

>>714317
tbh kpop is super accessible and easy to get into, it's not exactly full of 'hidden gems' and the most popular songs are generally the better ones. And it has historically been dominated by 3 companies so if you go through the youtube channels for SM Entertainment, YG Ent and JYP Ent or look up their individual artists, that will cover a massive % of the most well known music and from there you can just watch recommended stuff. Though keep in mind the view counts are super skewed towards newer groups even if they aren't as influential or iconic as older groups, imo kpop started getting really good around 2008 onwards, the hits around that time were huuuge.

And yes, it's totally worth it if you like catchy upbeat pop. No other music industry has such a high concentration of fun earworm bops, even if it can get really same-y sounding.

No. 714598

Do my employers know if I snoop around the server? I sometimes want to see what my coworkers are working on

No. 714622

>>711877
>>714550
>doesn’t really have anything to do with your partner
Yes it does. They cum and then they realise they don’t want to be around you anymore or you’re not a good partner. Or even feeling outright disgust.

No. 714627

Anons who had Covid, which was more difficult, breathing in or breathing out?

No. 714632

>>711877
Shall I lie and say I have rona symptoms so I get 2 paid weeks off?

No. 714650

>>714632
no, stop messing with this fucking shit. I don't know how it is where you live, but here it's an illness, you have to tell the autorities that you have it, you will be traced and have to tell exactly where you contracted it and it's a pain in the ass and just tampers statistics

No. 714654

>>714650
Ok thanks I needed someone to call me on my bullshit. I won’t do it.

No. 714661

>>714202
I would lose a lot of friends and if it got out at work I'd be in pretty deep shit. Wouldn't be fired but people would absolutely shun me. I work with an enby and a troon (fakeboi variety), both of whom like and trust me, and they'd probably be devastated, and everyone else would think I'm fake for being so nice to them. One of my oldest friends is an enby and he'd probably spiral into depression knowing I'm not as blindly supportive as he thinks I am. I'm so envious of the anons responding who live in places where nobody cares about nor acknowledges trannies. It's hard not to get involved with this stupid shit when it's literally everywhere here.

No. 714698

>>714185
>jeans
when they stretch out or get dirty
>coats
every few years? something like that, unless they get smelly or dirty but that never happened

No. 714700

>>714627
I have covid now and no breathing problems, but for my mom it was breathing in. She could only take very small shallow breaths which caused very low oxygen levels in her blood, which is dangerous

No. 714703

>>714202
It wouldn't, I work with third world boomers so they'd probably agree and at worst wouldn't give a fuck

No. 714708

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>>711877
Why the fuck was I banned for someone else’s 2 year old post? I never even wrote this!!!!!!!!

No. 714710

>>714708
It happened to me once, it might be because you use VPNs

No. 714711

>>714710
I wasn’t using a vpn until they issued the ban

No. 714712

>>714708
>>714711
The bans are IP based. You don't need to use a vpn for it to happen, it can happen to anyone with a dynamic IP.

No. 714713

>>714712
Are they just banning me because they don’t like the posts I was making? Are terfs and radfems not allowed here anymore?

No. 714714

>>714713
You can see that the ban was issued back in 2018. Your IP just happened to match one that got that permaban. I wouldn't think too deeply about it, or just appeal it. You should probably take it to /meta/.

No. 714715

>>714713
we get it, now stop shitting up the threads
>>714712 and >>714714 explained it well enough

No. 714718

>>714713
Is terf not redtexted anymore?
Terf test terf test

No. 714719

Why is pretty much every single female metal singer extremely attractive, yet at the very least half of metal dudes are uggos?

No. 714721

>>714718
Is terfs not redtexted then?

No. 714727

>>714719
you know why. women cant be succesful artist without being hot and men can. it's not only metal music.

No. 714728

>>714727
Sadly true, but the attractiveness disparity seems to be the worst in metal and rap. At least pop boys have to appeal to teen girls.

No. 714731

File: 1610711053032.png (327.71 KB, 409x414, sheeran.PNG)

>>714728
>At least pop boys have to appeal to teen girls.
even there some goblins have amazing careers, it would never happen to a woman on his level

No. 714742

>>714719
cause metal and rap are shitty sexist genres, disco and rnb were woman friendly

No. 714744

What's the difference between having aspergers and being socially awkward?

No. 714754

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>>714547
She is a Disney kid and was the protagonist of the reboot of High School Musical.
There's this whole "drama" behind the song because it's directed to Joshua Bassett, who was his co-star in the series. Apparently they were going to date but she was young and he told he was going to wait for her, but ended up dating Sabrina Carpenter, an older, more accomplished singer/actress. Zoomers are obsessed with this story and have been talking about it for days, it gave the song a lot of fame and now it's like the most streamed song in the US ever, I believe
It's so boring to me, but I guess it's nice that she wrote it herself. As for being noticed by Taylor, Olivia is a huge fan and is always taking about her, so she might be like some mentor for her

No. 714759

>>714744
you can practice your way out of awkwardness. with aspergers it takes more effort to realize what was awkward and reminding myself not do to it. still i feel like an impostor sometimes despite coming off as normal.

No. 714764

>>714744
Aspergers comes with a range of other traits on top of the social ones, sensory processing issues

No. 714772

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> a person who ..has been hating me and trying to turn s/o's family against me is now offering their computer because mine has been dead for a whole year now
> is also trying to uwu invite to play videogames
What is this? Is there some hidden agenda behind it? This adult in diapers always acted pissy and jealous towards me, and now all of the sudden this person is trying to 'support/love' bomb me?

There most likely some agenda behind it going on because this person is known for making up things or doing some hidden shit.

I am not sure what to do because it's awkward. They already forced this PC onto me but I know I am not going to use it because I will also have to return it anyway. But now this person is trying to ask to 'spend time' with me but it's not even them being a bitch to me for a whole year, but also me just not being interested in playing videogames at all anymore. I am lost, and I at least want to somehow say _no_ about timespending, but I know they will push it and it will be awkward, but jesus christ, I do not want to spend time with this person because of all of the shit they've been doing against me when I've always been nothing but polite.

No. 714783

>>714754
the entire thing is so ridiculous. they barely had a two year age difference, it wasn't because she was "too young" or whatever bullshit. tbh i have no problem with him leaving her for sabrina carpenter, the problem is he didn't just dump her straight up but decided to string her along

No. 714784

>>714622
Anon that's literally not what post nut clarity is. That's a whole 'nother emotion entirely. Post nut clarity is just feeling more peaceful and being clear-minded.

No. 714787

>>714786
Anon, I shortened this all up to not turn it into a wall of text. I have tried to befriend them for a whole year when the only thing I would have gotten was them throwing tantrums at me and staring with snake eyes, refusing anything etc. They also think that I do not know their language too well and throughout this day they talk shit about me in their language in front of me, thinking im some silly goose.

No. 714791

>>714783
On youtube I've been suggested tiktoks compilations about the whole thing and it's hilarious the amount of attention it got. Like OP said, she went extremely famous overnight. Fame and public attention are always unstable but it seems that in this generation, with tiktok and twitter, it's even more ephemeral

No. 714852

I'm probably going to sound like a retard, but why are bed frames so important? I often see people criticizing cows for not having one, are they really that necessary?

No. 714853

>>714852
To keep the mattress up so there's some airflow, I think

No. 714856

>>714852
I don't know for others but I wouldn't sleep on my mattress on the floor because if you take 2 steps you'll stir up the dust and dirt and it will get on your bed and you will sleep on it

No. 714859

>>714852
Some might see it as a sign of irresponsiblity or sloppiness, a lot of the time people with no frame have a filthy room, too. As long as your room looks put together and clean otherwise, I don't see a problem with it. Some people have a frame with slats instead of a box spring, some people like using underbed space for storage. It's just personal taste. I think a lot of it is people on the internet like to state their opinions as objective truths.

No. 714861

Genuinely not trying to bait or something, but why are anons in the lesbian thread talking about fujoshi shit? I genuinely wanna know wtf that has to do with being gay and why it belongs there, or why gay women want to watch men fuck

No. 714865

>>714852
Due to some circumstances I had to sleep on my mattress on the floor for a few days and I noticed you need to air it out after sleep because moisture accumulates under the mattress, I reckon it's not good long term
That said I know futons which are designed to be on the ground also have to be regularly aired out and I assume it's for the same reason

>>714861
A lot of lesbians online are into yaoi, imo I think they're a bit bi but the reason why girls like yaoi is because it's porn made by women for women

No. 714866

>>714861
Lesbian media literally doesn't exist, unless it's made for men and most fujoshi stuff is written by women for women. I don't see any issue with that understanding

No. 714868

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Anons with prickly cactuses, how often do you water them? The one I have is a bristle brush and I think the last time I watered it was 2-3/3-4 months ago, and I got it early 2020. It's only been watered twice.

I usually just squeeze the leaves on my succulents to find out when it needs a water, but obviously I can't do that so idk when it needs to be watered

No. 714869

>>714852
Mold and mildew growth guaranteed to be under your mattress after a few years. It's not clean. Not to mention dust and bugs.

No. 714871

>>714866
>>714865
I don't get it tbh. It doesn't really matter who it's made by cause it's still two or more dudes fucking. Do they read gay yaoi stuff that's made by men?

No. 714872

>>714868
Samefag, I should add that I know some people say to water when the soil is dry to the touch or when the pot feels light, but my plants usually still don't need to be watered when that happens, so I just wanted to hear how other people water theirs.

No. 714876

>>714866
Why don't women make the lesbian content they want to see then?

No. 714879

>>714852
I had one on the floor for a year, I'm pretty clean and obsessive about having fresh air in the room in summer and having heating on in the winter.. It still got a bit mouldy and had a musty smell in the colder months. Tried turning it and airing it but its hard to keep a mattress fresh/clean that way.

I'm the anon that just confessed to breaking my bedframe and being near the floor was kinda comfy lastnight but I'll be buying a frame soon I think.

No. 714884

Why is having a guy pay for dates prostitution/gold digging but having an only fans and being a hooker is considered empowering?

No. 714885

>>714871
>Do they read gay yaoi stuff that's made by men
from my experience they don't at all.
I understand where you're coming from, I too find it weird when a lesbian goes crazy for male tiddies or something
But I also understand how porn made by women hits all the right spots in what we women like

No. 714886

Bedframe anon here and I'm actually an ESL retard, I thought bedframe referred to a specific part of the bed (the wooden part behind the pillow) and not the whole furniture. Forget my question, I actually agree with you, I always get creeped out when I see people's homes and they don't have any real furniture.

No. 714887

>>714884
>why is having a guy pay for dates prostitution/gold digging
The only people that believe this are men and some anons here tbh (see applebees and whatever that shitshow in the twitter or reddit thread was a while ago).

No. 714905

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This is very stupid probably but it's driving me crazy because I don't get it, how the hell does this work, if a decibel is 1/10 bel how is it 10 logarithms??? Please help I am ashamed but I seriously don't get it

>>714886
That is a headboard I think, I never ever heard anyone talking about it besides americans, I don't understand why they are crazy about headboards

No. 714937

Is Netherlands a good country to live in? All i heard about it was that its popular for weed and other drugs.

No. 714962

What’s the difference between Wish and Aliexpress?

No. 714965

>>714962
I haven't ordered from Aliexpress, but I think the items there are more likely to be how they look like the photo. But they're still both chinese websites with cheap as fuck prices and shipping that takes fucking forever

No. 714971

>>714905
It's a logarithmic unit based on power.

decibel is simply one tenth of a Bel, which has nothing to do with logarithms.

Bel is defined as a logarithmic unit.

No. 714974

>>714971
But if a decibel is one tenth of a bel, and a bel is the logarithm of P1/P2, how is then a decibel ten times the logarithm of P1/P2? Shouldn't it be 0.1 log P1/P2?

No. 714976

>>714974
One decimeter is 1/10m.
If something is X meters long, then it's 10X decimeters long.

If bel is log…, then decibel is 1/10 bel and if power of something is X Bel, then it's 10X decibel.

No. 714977

>>714974
>>714976
Another example:
if 1 swedish krona is 1/10th of euro then
x euros is 10x swedish krona

No. 714981

>>714976
Thank you!! I'm so stupid I was thinking of it as if a bel/decibel was a physical quantity and not as a unit of measurement thank you I am so stupid I just always calculate with letters so when I see a number I don't even know what to do

No. 715123

>>714962
Wish fucks you in the ass with shipping and is almost entirely app-based.

No. 715131

Anyone know how to view images on a static page? I'm trying to look at that lilith levesis thread that got deleted but farmhands made it into a static page. None of the images load.

No. 715137

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Anons on antidepressants, how the hell do you get turned on? I've been on meds for longer than I have been interested in sex/masturbation so it's really a struggle. I have been horny a few times but it's usually just a fleeting feeling that's hard to maintain for long enough for me to do anything about it. I've tried to read fanfic/erotica but after a while I just get distracted or bored. Help :(

No. 715138

Why the hell do I still remember classmates names??? literally from the 5th grade?they don't know I exist yet why are their first and last names in my head??
Anons are there any particular names that are just ingrained in your head for no apparent reason???

No. 715141

>>715137
in my experience, you don't

No. 715143

>>715137
quit taking ssris and start taking mood stabilizers or moais

No. 715146

>>715137
Take Wellbutrin.

No. 715147

>>715138
i remember all of my classmates names from 1st grade on and dream of them frequently. im a loner, so that could be a reason.

No. 715154

>>715147
Are you me???
I know most of their names and I regularly dream about the 5th grade and about my former crush too
It feels like a curse since Im already old enough to forget it

No. 715159

how is dating in your 30s? is it really as bad as people describe when it comes to finding commitment? also does the dating pool get worse starting at 25 or have i been browsing imageboards for too long?
>t. 23 y/o femcel

No. 715162

Do you anons have tips for frugal living? I like to think I live cheaply but I've become unconsciously addicted to getting fast food and coffee regularly and spending too much on groceries but not eating all of it, especially since covid happened, I became obsessed with having lots of canned food incase the next great depression or state shut down happens.

No. 715164

>>715159
I find it's the same as dating in your 20s but the scrotes are losing their looks so its worse

>hook ups and fwb. If you agree to it they will proceed to treat you like shit because in their mind a woman giving them what they want doesnt deserve respect

>wanting performative porn sex
>complaining about gold diggers because they had to spend 20 dollars at applebees
>walk dates
>game/porn addicts
>looking for a mommy help pay half the rent
>the ones who are attractive who think they're 18 wanting to start a family "one day" with a 17 year old but need to get partying out of their system despite being 38

No. 715236

Has your brain ever formed any name - looks/personality associations? Like when people say Chad they often (subconsciously or not) think of a white bully/fratboy/douchebag stuff like that? I admit I'm ESL, so most of the associations regarding western/anglo names were formed from American/British media I watched, but I do happen to associate certain names in my language with certain traits based on personal experiences. What are your name associations and what were they based on?

No. 715238

>>714727
Could any woman successfully pull off a masked musician gimmick a la Daft Punk? I've never heard of women doing this, sadly.

No. 715239

does anyone know where I can find reliable voodoo or summoning spells of some sort? I'm bored and I have a very specific goal in mind but I don't want any bullshit, I want something legit, and I doubt the libraries have anything useful. Need it within a couple days

No. 715244

>>715238
Sia? She doesn’t always cover her face but majority of the time she’s hidden behind a wig.

No. 715257

>>715239
There was a demon summoning anon who posted a bunch of resources detailing in-depth rituals either here or in /g/ under the “what has been a life changing experience for you” thread. Demonolatry it was called

No. 715267

Where is belle delphines thread?

No. 715268

Why is there a stereotype of Greeks and Italians having a large family who are all close and are always around each other but other parts of Europe like Germans, Swedes etc don't have it?

No. 715269

>>715267

>>>/w/128835
iirc belle's threads are auto-saged, so you'll have to look for them in the catalog from now on

No. 715270

>>715239
It's all bs anon I'm sorry. Not trying to be rude, it's the truth

No. 715273

>>715268
Just different cultures afaik? Big, close families are also a stereotypical Catholic thing (not sure about orthodox). Some Catholic-majority countries don’t have this stereotype, like France, but keep in mind France’s history and secularism.

No. 715275

>>715137
try changing your meds maybe? I know some people change through meds a lot until they find one without side effects they can't deal with. I'm on escitalopram and I also lost the will to masturbate but fortunately my partner turns me on. Orgasming is hard af though. I'm still not sure if the effects are worth it.

No. 715278

>>715268
because every country is a different culture? Not attacking you, but are you American? In almost every European country the culture is vastly different, that's why it's often so hard for immigrants even from neighbouring countries to fit in with the natives, and they live mostly in areas with other immigrants from their country, consequence being that they never learn the language properly etc.

No. 715316

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what to do when someone is trying to destroy your reputation?

this bitch

>took 10+ year old screenshots nitpicking rage face memes trying to tell people i'm homopobic (literally the seal going GAAAAAYYY)

>got ahold of my web history through work network
>found my shitposting acc and showed it to people
>tries claiming i'm racist because i said something mean to a friend who happens to be black
>tries claiming i'm sexist because i used the word scrote on my shitposting page
>tries claiming i'm homophobic because i used the word something-fag on my shitposting page
i deleted everything and blocked her everywhere, changed jobs and told a coworker that she is insane.

No. 715323

>>715316
idk but maybe this vid can help?
skip to 12:10

No. 715348

What does it really mean, in real life, to be a 2 in the Kinsey Scale (predominantly heterosexual but more than incidentally homosexual)?

No. 715350

>>715268
…because we have completely different cultures and backgrounds?

No. 715359

>>715143
>>715146
My psychiatrist doesn't want to put me on any new meds cause this year I'm supposed to be weaning off them. I guess I'll just have to deal with it then.

>>715141
Did/do you feel the same then? Is it normal to not be able to become turned on at all? Asking because I'm never sure if I'm like this because of the meds or because of my actual psychological issues…

No. 715360

>>715316
I had a similar situation with a colleague before so I understand it’s shit, but honestly I’d just let her run her mouth while gently setting others straight. People probably think she’s insane - wouldn’t you? Even if they’re going along with it, that’s probably because they don’t want her to turn against them. Just don’t retaliate because you’ll look bad. In the end, she’ll expose herself for you.

Though if she’s doing something like posting about you online using your legal name, then you should contact her and say you’ll take legal action if she doesn’t stop. That will probably scare her off, but if she continues you probably should get the police involved. This situation is weird enough already.

Finally, don’t give her new material. Keep your accounts squeaky clean (remember she could be watching if your sm is public, or on a fake account / through a mutual). Ensure any shitposting isn’t connected to you in any way. Help yourself here.

No. 715383

>>715162
I had a long addiction to takeout and these things helped me:
>Reasoning that apps like Grubhub and Caviar are financially predatory towards businesses
>Baking a steady supply of cookies/cake at home
>Learning how to use panko
>Forgetting takeout exists with distraction from doing hobbies (I also froze my credit card every so often)

I also have a go-to takeout, that's restaurant quality and not a pizza/fried food place. It makes it harder to justify spending my money on junk takeout and it would make it weird to order from them every week since it's a lot of money.

No. 715404

>>715348
I think I only know one person who could fit that bill. She dated one girl out of the many guys she dated and purposefully has gone to specific food or stores because she thinks the women are hot. She dressed up nicely when visiting this business woman because she wanted her to think she was hot as well without actually asking her out. I dont think she'd actually date a woman for the loving emotional side of it yet shes gone out of her way to see certain women who slightly or fully turn her on. Thankfully she doesn't actually label herself bi on dating apps because she will always choose a man.

No. 715408

>>715162
Use your freezer, cook at home. Also, use the oven instead of frying if you're lazy, it's healthier too.
>>715268
Because of culture like others said, and also because wages in Greece and Italy are much lower and unemployment is high, so people can't usually afford moving out.

No. 715410

Why is indie considered a genre in itself by many people (whether talking about music, movies, or games)? It's just short for independent (not released by a major company). When someone tells me they like "indie" things that tells me virtually nothing about their tastes.

No. 715440

why does the hannibal fandom (apparently still alive) have such a large amount of fakebois?

No. 715451

>>715440
why does fandom in genreal do?

No. 715470

I have this thing where I don't like to buy anything new and bring it into my house without throwing away some old shit to balance things out. They don't even have to be the same category of item but if I place an order online with 3 items in it I'll make sure to have a mini clear-out before the new stuff arrives. My dad has diagnosed ocd so based on my upbringing I don't know what the norm is there.

Am I entering into weird ocd territory with that?

No. 715477

>>715470
I do this too, except for the ocd and I guess for different reasons.
I use shopping as an excuse to finally throw away something I've been thinking about throwing away. I feel like I have to hold onto things so I can't get rid of them until I have a valid reason to.

No. 715493

>>715440
Same reason lesbians like BL

No. 715496

>>715410
I agree it’s stupid to use “indie” as if it clearly defines specific tastes within such a broad category. I usually find people who say this are normies trying to feel cool for liking 1 or 2 lesser known bands and are looking for an excuse to launch into how sick they are and how you should totally know about them too or else they want to pretend they’re special little hipsters for liking groups that started small but got really popular (Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, etc)

No. 715502

>>715257
Thanks anon, I found it. I know it's a shot in the dark but I've got a decent plan conjured up for tomorrow now…

No. 715506

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How are balloons made? Is it possible to make your own at home? Pic kind of related.

No. 715508

Does it hurt to get braces? I'm getting them on tuesday but I have an exam on sunday so I'm worried if I should postpone my dentist appointment so I don't feel pain during the exam or something.

No. 715532

>>715508
Ime it’s more uncomfortable than actually painful, if you’re worried then delay it but personally I wouldn’t. Your teeth will feel quite tender as they adjust and for the first couple weeks it’s hard to use the incisors. Eating things you need to ‘rip’ like bread is impossible at first (no one told me that, kek). My pain threshold isn’t very high but it wasn’t painful to me.

No. 715540

>>715502
Sure thing, please report back if you go through with it! Been curious about all that myself

No. 715544

>>715508
It was pretty painful for me for the first week or so after I got my braces on, as well as when I would go in and they would have to tighten them. I had trouble eating solid foods for a period, but it's not excruciatingly bad or anything. I'm kind of a baby with pain, so idk if it's the same for everyone.

No. 715554

>>715508
It was quite painful to eat for the first week and when they change the wire. Not really painful when not eating tho. In any case, it's a level of pain you can completely manage with otc painkillers.

No. 715560

What the fuck are the anti-onis and why are they all ugly minus that one girl. You know the one.

No. 715574

Are eos lip balms really dry or do I somehow keep buying defective products?

When I searched online all I could find was that it contained drying ingredients to encourage re-application. My issue is that the balm itself is so dry, it’s impossible to put any on my lips. I have tried them three times now, brand new, stored at okay temperature, but it’s like using a toy plastic lipstick.

No. 715581

>>715532
>>715544
>>715554
Thanks anons! I don't think I'm going to postpone it then. I'm pretty excited cause I've been wanting to get braces for years. My pain threshold isn't that bad and I'm really not supposed to eat much during the exam so I think I'm going to be fine.

No. 715583

>>715574
they suck ass, get DHC lip cream

No. 715586

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>>715574
I remember when they first came out EOS was super nice and creamy, but over time they've definitely gone the way of Carmex. I was super into collecting all of the new flavors they were putting our around 2015-16 but I noticed the texture was much worse and they did nothing for my lips. If you want something better with a loot flavors I'd recommend something like Hurraw

No. 715741

thank you anons
>>715323
oh scarves i love her videos
>>715360
people can be scary. do you think these gossip hags got bpd?
it's reassuring that the crazies will expose themselves. this is what i suspected and hope for. a couple of coworkers since have deleted her and she keeps changing her usernames.

>>715574
they're waxy in that cheap way and the smell and flavor are very artificial. i prefer burts bees or yes to brand lippies.

No. 715743

>>715574
>>715741
burts bees is the way to go, most lip balms have glycerin in which (from what i've read) is a great temporary relief for chapped lips, as it draws moisture to the surface, but then leaves them dryer than before in the long run creating a vicious cycle.

anything with bees wax in it should be way more hydrating and not damage your lips.

No. 715778

so…when are the lolcow award winners being announced?

No. 715792

I was looking for a general female body thread on /g/ to ask this in, but I couldn't find one so here we go.

When does the female body really stop developing? I'm asking because I'm working out, losing weight, and yet for the first time in my life, my thighs are rubbing against each other even though I'm not building muscle in them (just toning). Is it possible my body is still developing? My bmi is in the low 19s at the moment. I used to be anorexic and even before then I was always underweight. I gained weight from bc and I've been trying to lose it so I don't get why all of a sudden my thighs are bumping-bumping when I walk.

Please enlighten me, I'm so confused.

No. 715809

>>715792
anon youre just an anachan, normal people dont notice if their thighs touch when they walk unless their deathfat and are developing sores or something kek

No. 715921

>>715540
Reporting back, haven't seen anything out of the ordinary but did a ritual to summon a specific demon, gave my offering, felt great, and fapped, and had the best gasm I'd had in months. Body shakingly good. Now I am seriously convinced I summoned something but have yet to see anything.

Waiting for 2:30 to roll around due to the significance of the time to me, we'll see what happens next.

My beliefs in the paranormal and otherworldly aside it's also very interesting to read up on a religion that isn't a technical branch of modern satanism but some combination of archaic satanism and other religions and delve into it. Shit is fascinating to read about. Godspeed demonolatry anon, even if I don't get anything out of it, at least I got to go down an interesting rabbit hole

No. 715934

When do you know to see a doctor about heartburn/possible GERD? I literally never got heartburn until some time last year, and now when I eat certain foods it triggers it. I try not to eat too late but I fucked up and now I'm throwing up from the pain. Should I just be more careful or will this be something serious down the road?

No. 715940

>>715934
If you can you should go ASAP as it can eventually lead to esophageal cancer. Don’t mean to scare you but early intervention is important here as the cancer doesn’t have a good survival rate. Take care of yourself, anon.

No. 715942

>>715940
Thank you anon! Tums have finally kicked in so I will sit up in my deathbed for now lol

No. 715943

>>715934
i have gerd and i can't imagine letting it go untreated, literally couldn't eat or move when i wasn't on medication and the nausea was awful. yes, you should see a doctor or at least buy an otc acid reducer. aside from the spooky cancer, it can cause ulcers too.

No. 715949

>>715934
Like other anon said it increases the risk of cancer if you leave it untreated long term. Docs put you on prescription antacids and usually put a camera down to look for damage or internal hernias, ulcers etc.

My dad has been on the meds for years and tbh he has ibs like symptoms now where he suspects the meds are doing it. He has the camera put down once every couple years to monitor it. It's an issue that docs take more seriously than you might think.

No. 715951

Why did scrotes turn on Megan Fox all of a sudden? She used to be everywhere in like 2007-2010 then something happened that they all hated her for years, now they don't care about her anymore.

No. 715953

>>715951
I’m guessing her botched plastic surgery? Idk

No. 715956

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>>715951
Shes got black balled because she came out about micheal bay being a creep

No. 715959

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>>715956
Yeah so micheal bay pretty much ruined her career at the time. Just scrotes being scrotes.

No. 715964

>>715959
>>715956
So they tried to smear her reputation by accusing her of trying to smear his reputation when she was just rightfully calling him out. Not surprising. Also I've heard lots of Angelina comparisons (because every brunette blue eyed white woman who was not the twee Zooey Deschanel type was trying to copy Angelina or something?) but I guess those were just another part of the smear campaign. I remember that Cracked article which even at the time I thought was unnecessarily rude and went on and on about how she's stupid and has toe thumbs and she will never be Angelina Jolie. Michael Bay or his representatives probably paid Cracked to write that shit.

No. 715972

Why are English spelling and pronunciation so arbitrary? I know, English has many words that originally came from very different languages, but why can't it just have specific clearly defined rules, and just adjust the spelling or pronunciation of the new word to fit those rules. Or just make up a brand new word like Germans do. There is no logical reason why 'beard' shouldn't rhyme with 'heard'.

No. 715975

>>715972
It used to be pronounced the way it was written, but the spoken language naturally evolved, while the spelling wasn't updated with those changes in pronunciation. It only seems arbitrary, but the changes in pronunciation followed certain rules. The biggest culprit for the difference between pronunciation and spelling was the Great Vowel Shift where all vowels became higher, but there were other changes too.

No. 715976

>>715975
Unironically fascinating anon

No. 715982

Why is Lana del Rey so popular with gay men?

No. 715989

>>715975
Interesting. Did any other languages evolve that much or quickly that it made current pronunciation seem inconsistent?

No. 715991

Anons who wear primarily wear glasses, do you have multiple pairs?

No. 715999

>>715991
I don't but my dad keeps nagging me to buy more in case I break them. I think it depends on your eyesight, I can see ok without glasses so it would not be a big problem if they broke but if you can't see well without them you should buy another pair

No. 716000

>>715991
I don't. I would love to own multiple pairs but they are expensive and I'm broke

No. 716010

>>716000
You should find out if there are cheaper stores in other cities, there is a store in my country that's really cheap, I got my frames and lenses for about 60 dollars, it's worth it to visit a different city just for glasses if just frames in my city are a hundred dollars.

No. 716012

>>715991
One for home and one for outside. I can't walk in the sunlight with frames, and without a frame I feel like I'm breaking them when I lie on my side, so now it's like this.

No. 716017

>>715991
Yes I have seven and want a couple more.

No. 716025

>>715991
I wear both contacts and glasses, I only have one pair. I cannot keep up with two pairs of glasses being ADHDfag.

No. 716026

>>715991
I only have the one, they were pretty expensive but I didn't want to leave it. I don't really see the sense in having two, unless you're buying really funky ones that don't fit most normal clothes.

No. 716041

>>715991
i have one, i don’t really mind about not having multiples because 1.they’re too expensive and 2. i always end up wearing one pair the most and neglecting all the others

No. 716045

Why are dudes on the internet so obsessed with women's fertility now? I never saw this until maybe 5 years ago

No. 716047

>>716045
Manosphere bullshit sneaking its way into the mainstream, I guess.

No. 716048

>>716045
"make me a sandwich" jokes got too stale

No. 716050

>>715991
I always get two pairs but usually only wear one because I end up hating the other pair. It’s good to have a backup though. Last time I ordered from firmoo and found the quality better than designer brands from the optician so am tempted to buy more. They’re so cheap even with the extras (which I never forego, otherwise I’d have very thick lenses with glare).

No. 716051

so a week ago i got an email from livehdcams.com on one of my side emails that i had just joined. i hadn't, but okay, whatever, someone used my account maybe, or it's a tactic to try and get me to check the site out. i glanced it over and it seemed like your standard shitty, shady porn site trying to charge people for things you can see for free anywhere else. i deleted the email.

this morning though, i got another email from them saying $2.00 had been processed. panicking, even though i knew this side email was not associated with my bank, i ran to check my bank account. no billing for $2.00, like i'd assumed. so my question is, has anyone been the recipient of this? is this normal for a scam? or did someone literally use my email as theirs and proceed to buy stuff with their money even though they're using my email? i've never had this happen to me. i was going to just block the site from sending me emails since i frankly don't give a shit if someone's using a side email of mine on a porn site.

No. 716052

>>716045
"the wall" and everything related to it is a massive cope for them as they try to make women feel shitty for things like aging in order to tell themselves that women definitely don't hold all the sexual power in hetero relationships

No. 716074

>>716051
Maybe someone is using an almost same email address as you, different in some mark like . or _ , my friend almost shares an email with someone like that and sometimes mails get sent to both or the wrong address… I think

No. 716112

I read this comic a while ago maybe on webtoons but maybe not, the author was korean, it was about a group of anthropomorphic animal guards (there was one bird of prey, one doberman, one other kind of dog and one I can't remember) guarding a little white fluffy cat, she was not anthropomorphic and she was a little kid who inherited and estate and they guarded it and her in it. The guards loved to take photos of her and play with her because she was so cute and fluffy. Does anyone know its name?

No. 716113

>>716112
Miss Kitty and her bodyguards
https://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?id=143092
It’s really cute, I got to read most of it even though it got a bit slow.

No. 716115

>>716045
A few years ago their big concern was getting pregnancy trapped, now they're (poorly) studying the number of eggs women have left at various ages. Go figure.

No. 716117

>>716113
Thanks a lot!! I read only the first few chapters. I love the art style because they all look sooooo fluffy

No. 716119

Why the proship and Anti discourse only exist in western fandom?

No. 716131

>>716045
Just men continuing to try to control and shame women, nothing new.

I do suspect part of it is in relation to their careers rather than wanting to have their own kids. Their female colleagues would almost inevitably end up having kids, taking maternity leave or giving up work entirely. Even in cases of women continuing their careers, they likely became less able to work overtime and more stressed. Basically making men’s career progression easier. Now more women are choosing not to have children, their female colleagues are a threat and they don’t like it.

No. 716155

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So, I got diagnosed with alcoholic hepatitis. The doctor just told me to quit drinking or whatever. I can, that's fine. Can I use kratom? Can I ever drink again?

Please I hate being sober 24/7 and weed sucks.

No. 716181

>>716119
Especially American fandom. I guess stereotypical American extremist puritanism has yet to die. And no, I would never condone loli or shota or shit like that, I just don't think shipping two characters who canonically hate each other is "abuse apologism"

No. 716197

>>716181
Since a lot of fangirls self-insert, they'll hang onto every excuse to 'discredit' any pairings they don't want their self-insert to be part of. I'm also sure they're terrified of actual relationships, which makes sense as most are teens. But nowadays even 25 year old women will say they're still kids, so who knows.
There are some genuinely disgusting ships, but people are really calling the internet police if someone draws a 18 years-old kissing a 22 years-old.

No. 716203

>>716197
Then why don't East Asian, Russian or Latin American fandoms have the same "your ship is problematic!!" problem? It seems only English speaking fans pearl clutch that much and make it a moral issue.

No. 716207

>>716203
SJW-culture/pedo-paranoia is more of an american thing, so it's easy to weaponize. I've never seen anyone complain about the work of my classmate who draws cringey shota-con art in the local (central eu) anime art community, while I've seen people canceled for less on tumblr.

No. 716210

Would it be a bad idea to learn how to tattoo, but only for myself? I like tattoos and would like to try to do it for fun, but not as a career or whatever. I don't plan to plaster my body with a bunch of shitty tattoos as practice or tattoo other people btw.

No. 716212

>>716210
The idea itself is not bad, but how would you even practice though?

No. 716214

>>716203
Spanish speaking fandoms has that annoyance, it’s not as huge as with the english speaking fandoms, but it’s basically the same.
I honestly think the only based fandoms are the Brazilian/Portuguese ones.

No. 716216

>>716212
I think you can practice on pig skin but I don't know much

No. 716218

>>716214
I've heard Spanish speaking fandoms also have huge shipping war issues, but I didn't know they also used moral outrage as ammunition. At least you say they're not just as bad as English speaking fandoms… yet.

No. 716220

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>>716212
I was thinking fake skin and fake body parts (they exist) and tattooing myself when I feel like I'm good enough to

Pic rel is fake silicone hand, but there are thin sheets of rubber for tattooing

No. 716222

>>716210
I feel like when you have the option of seeing an artist with 10/20 years of perfecting it versus self learning…if you want good results go to the pro. It's not something you want to fuck up and live with forever.

I spent a fortune on my tatts and while spending money usually kills me, you can't downplay the importance of tatts being well done rather than done by someone with just a year or two of experience. It makes so much difference.

No. 716225

>>716218
It’s just that most of the Spanish speaking fans are in among the English speaking ones, since we all know there’s barely any possibility to gain huge recognition if we only spoke Spanish, it’s better to speak English and interact with them.
The people that can only speak Spanish are relatively small numbers, so you might not find “huge” antishipping accounts on twatter or Instagram that are solely in Spanish, or at least i haven’t found any of the stuff I’m into.

No. 716227

>>716222
I do want to eventually tattoo myself, but it's not like I'm going to immediately jump into it. I still want tattoos from actual artists, I'm not trying to downplay anything at all.

No. 716230

>>716119
why do people say western when they mean american/anglosphere

No. 716232

>>716225
There are far more Spanish speakers than Japanese, Korean or Russian speakers though, yet the latter all still managed to have their own niches without necessarily having to intermingle with English speakers. How come? Is it because of sites like VKontakte or Pixiv existing, while Spanish speaking fandoms nearly always congregate on American social media (tumblr or twitter)?

No. 716242

>>716232
I think it’s because, at least to the artists I’ve talked to and how I see stuff as a fan, feels like there’s just more exposure if you cater to more than just the niche of your own language, since fandoms “feel” smaller than when you get into another language ones, it’s like your group of people you can talk with about the stuff you like grows.
Specially if you’re into obscure stuff like anime or manga that didn’t do well but you liked a lot or certain books that most people wouldn’t read because it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

No. 716244

>>716242
True. I guess it's just that Russians, Koreans or Japanese tend to have a harder time learning and using English than hispanophones do, so they don't bother as much and stay in their own niches unless they really don't have any fellow native language speaker to interact with.

No. 716265

Does anyone have any experience with doing dropshipping?

No. 716275

>>715982
It's just that gay men love certain female celebrities in general. They probably feel like they can identify with the themes in their songs and if they're feminine men they like having famous women to look up to.

No. 716276

>>716265
Iirc there's a subreddit with general advice
Don't expect it to become a full time earning, all those videos promoting it as such are part of a pyramid scheme to get you to buy coaching

No. 716285

>>716265
Not worth it anymore.

No. 716308

>>716265
Yeah, like the anons said, it's not worth it. You might get some meagre earnings but not something you could relly on as a constant stream of income.

No. 716332

does anyone know that rapper that had a song calling out the pedo that was trying to groomer, with all the receipts? She also mentioned adult grooming

No. 716337

What in the world is the spam community

No. 716339

How do I fuck women without my husband knowing?

No. 716340

>>716339
Break up with him first

No. 716344

>>716339
>step one
Divorce
>step two
Meet women
>step three
Get along with them
>step four
Fuck
>step five
Profit!

No. 716353

When you eat at a restaurant or get takeout, do you tend to try different things? Or do you have the same one or two go-to orders?

No. 716360

>>716339
Just tell him

No. 716367

>>716339
Be best friends and have girls nights.easy af

No. 716371

>>716353
The same things all over again kek

No. 716373

>>716332
Zheani? This kinda sounds like the Die Antwoord situation.

No. 716374

>>716353
Depends on the mood. If I want to order quickly or feel down, I'll get the usual order. If I'm with friends or am feeling adventurous, a new order.

No. 716381

why is the celebricows thread…….like that

No. 716387

>>716381
Do you mean the Lana/Ariana sperging or Armie stuff? The celeb thread hasn't been in the best condition since it got moved to snow, it wasn't great before but for some reason the bullshit just increased x10.

No. 716388

>>716276
>>716285
>>716308
Damn, it seems like that is the case. I did some digging around on that reddit and yeesh, not worth it.
I was trying to find a lot of different avenues to find some income since we're in national lockdown and jobs are so scarce it isn't even funny.

Thanks for the replies anons, I'll try something else.

No. 716390

Should I buy paintbrushes and polygel OR a period cup? I would ask sonic but I need a more human answer

No. 716392

>>715502
Did it work anon? The demonolatry anon said you can't break bonds with demons so what're you gonna do now. And please tell why/what you did

No. 716393

>>716390
Google "menstrual cup uterine prolapse". You should be aware of the risks

No. 716395

File: 1610921034509.jpg (36.65 KB, 870x215, Screenshot_20210117_230249.jpg)

>>716387
all of it tbh, like rn with the armie hammer sperging, everyone seems to be aggro as fuck for no reason. Anon in picrel said it best

No. 716397

Is it dumb to do the 3 episode rule to anime that are considered classics? I tend to drop most anime regardless, even Utena because I didn't find them interesting enough to continue, though I tend to finish manga more for some reason

No. 716398

>>716393
Alright but should I get paintbrushes and polygel or the cup I googled it and apparently there's no actual direct correlation between a cup and pelvic floor prolapse. I'm pretty sure I could pull it out, or squat and pull anyway

No. 716400

>>716398
Samefag, you're not even supposed to push your cup out, that's what causes a prolapse. Just break the seal and take it out

No. 716405

>>716397
Nope, you're allowed to like or dislike anything for whatever reason, even very popular stuff.

No. 716406

>>716339
Give him a cuckhold fetish, males are surprisingly easily meme'd into cuckholdry.

No. 716408

File: 1610922373314.jpg (23.97 KB, 360x360, AP_17316795214740-1_H_2500-120…)

How dumb am i if im seriously considering dating a guy with a lenghty-ish criminal record?

Nothing violent just theft and drug charges, dude used to be an addict.

No. 716409

>>716390
That anon's retarded and has no idea how they work, you don't just pull the cup out.. My quality of life (and the smell) during my periods has improved drastically.

I encourage you to ask your local Buy Nothing group on Facebook for any paintbrushes lying around too!

No. 716411

>>716408
Very dumb. Is he some loaded motivational speaker ex-addict? Does this mf at least have his shit together (stable job, his own place) or his life still in shambles? Can't you just fuck him and get it out of the system?

No. 716414

>>716411
Has his shit together in general, decent job but nothing too fancy, not living in his parents basement, all the criminal shit happened during his teens and he has been clean for a few years now, already had sex and i think it just made my crush worse.

No. 716419

>>716339
Don't. I wish cheaters and aspiring cheaters would realize it's so much easier to separate from a person you're clearly not in love with than to be a deceitful, lying asshole.

No. 716422

>>716414
I think you should give it a try anon. If it happened a long time ago, and you're completely 100% sure he's no longer addicted then it might be ok. Good luck! Please just watch out for any red flags

No. 716423

>>716339
You got married too young if you're struggling with these thoughts. Been there! I didn't cheat but the marriage didn't last so I got some w/w action after a while

No. 716424

>>716408
why? and >>716414 why?
Luna is that u?

No. 716428

>>716424
Lol I think Tuna has way worse grammar than I do, and to be honest, I just really like the dude, I never got along so well with someone, sure there's 3 billion men in the world and I would probably also get along with someone else but looking is pretty hard.

No. 716429

If guys never hit on you and you don’t have rbf then what does it mean? I’ve been all over the world and rarely had this problem.

No. 716430

File: 1610924625943.jpg (102.36 KB, 707x347, tumblr_0d64570ed753ab91ac1e3ca…)

Does some of you have experience streaming on twitch ( especially gaming )? Was it worth it ?

No. 716432

>>716429
I have a gay haircut so I spent a long time not getting male attention, starting getting some lately weirdly enough.

Do you come off as gay? Or have a resting bitchface?

No. 716433

>>716409
Yeah I'm a retard like a fox, at least I don't have a prolapsed uterus

No. 716435

>>716432
She just said she doesn't have rbf, anon

No. 716437

>>716429
Disregard males
Discard males
Disintegrate males

No. 716439

>>716435
..I think I need some sleep

No. 716442

>>716429
>>716432
I have the same experience and don't even have short hair.

No. 716445

Do you guys think it’s fucked up for me to use my sick days every time I accrue 8 hours? Like once I have a shift’s worth I just use it. I never get sick so it’s not like I ever really need to use it legitimately. I just think of it as a free day off. For some reason I feel guilty.

No. 716454

>>716445
No? Wtf lol what else are you gonna do with them. Not like your slave driver appreciates you more for hoarding those hours instead of using them. Steal from your job as much as possible, be it stationery or labour hours.

No. 716478

>>716454
Idk anon I have an intense guilt-related association with taking time off from work. American lyfe.

No. 716479

What does dangaronpa mean? I know it's a game mentally ill weebs love but what the hell is that word?

No. 716480

>>716479
it's the Japanese phrase for bullet rebuttal

No. 716485

>>716480
Sounds like bullshit but i'll take it.

No. 716487

>>716479
Literal translation of it is Bullet Refutation. The game itself is awesome and everyone should give it a try, as long as you don't look at its "community" imo.

No. 716490

>>716487
I have avoided it for so long that i don't even know what kind of a game it is, maybe i'll watch a playthrough

No. 716492

>>716487
the art style is ugly and the game looks too autistic for me to want to play

No. 716493

File: 1610930544979.png (1.3 MB, 1280x1258, tumblr_e3ac5b2ae0332007bf96349…)

>>716492
sorry i could not find a good one specifically about autism

No. 716502

>>716479
I thought it was another bullshit random string of sound effects like durararaararrraraaa or bacanononono

No. 716526

>>716487
It looks like one of those games that tries to disguise bad writing as "epic tweests!!1" Also all the characters look annoying.

No. 716541

File: 1610939050097.jpeg (279.4 KB, 600x399, D61F7049-C8DA-4FFB-A02B-7381AB…)

Do you guys wear masks when you go on walks? This just happened to me
>night-walking without mask
>no one else around
>see boomer couple walking toward me on sidewalk
>about to put my mask on just to be safe
>they each stand on the sides of the sidewalk, so i guess they’re making way for me
>stop putting my mask on and keep walking past them
>one of them yells at me to put it on and calls me “selfish”
>reply “there’s no one here”
>he goes “WE’RE here”
>just keep walking past them
Ruined my night

No. 716548

>>716541
they were right

No. 716549

>>716541
Idk, i mean public places i always wear mine but in the countryside picking up mail when i have like 3 neighbors i can see and hear approaching meters away, i dont wear one. Like on a normal street you may not be able to get as far as you'd like and all that.

No. 716552

>>716548
Retard take

No. 716554

>>716541
No they were just being typical entitled, self righteous boomers. It's mask or fucking 6 feet of distance. You were going to put on the mask but they fucking moved to make distance then wanted to cry about it regardless, so it's on them.

No. 716556

File: 1610941949156.png (366 B, 109x108, notblue.PNG)

Please anons, I beg for your help.

Is this blue or purple? I see purple and everyone is telling me it's blue.

No. 716557

>>716556
If you have night mode on your screen it's probably making it look purple but it's def blue

No. 716558

>>716541
I know you put in the boomer thing to make them seem like uppity old people but they're right and imo, their age makes it more reasonable to be worried about that kinda stuff. Even if you only come across a couple people while walking, you should still wear a mask. You don't know what they have and they don't know what you have, hell either of you could even be asymptomatic. I guess don't wear the mask for the entire walk, but you should have kept putting on your mask before you walked past and then took it off after. It's not hard and it's not that much effort to be considerate of other people. They were clearly trying to be considerate of you by getting out of the way.

The
>reply “there’s no one here”
>he goes “WE’RE here”
is completely correct

No. 716560

File: 1610942238524.png (294 B, 225x225, 225px-Solid_blue.svg.png)

>>716556
It looks purple to me, but if you google blue you will see colors that look purple but are apparently blue.

I think pic is the closest to purple while still being blue

No. 716561

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>>716556
I think it would be in the category of a blue purple hue if you were searching for the exact palette.

No. 716565

>>716556
it's blurple

No. 716566

>>716557
I thought of this too but it's still purple when I turn it off.

>>716560
>>716561
Thank you anons, this color has been screwing with me for a bit. I will always see purple when I look at it but it seems a majority of people say it's blue. I can see it being a blue-purple but I'm being told purple isn't even close to it so I was confused.

No. 716568

>>716560
Samefag, idk if it's purple now. If I look at the pic from the top of my screen it's blue, but if I look at it from the middle to bottom, it's purple wtf

No. 716569

>>716556
That's on the brink of being the same color as that faggot teletubby with the murse but irl i would lean more on blue, 97% blue

No. 716570

>>716558
>I know you put in the boomer thing to make them seem like uppity old people
I said boomers because they were both middle aged people… boomers.
>but you should have kept putting on your mask before you walked past and then took it off after.
I was trying to, except they literally stepped out of the way for me? They didn’t even give me a chance to put my mask on before they started insulting me. But they were the “considerate” ones according to you. Ok. Also, no one is going to get covid from briskly walking past someone in an outside space.

No. 716571

>>716570
If you feel that way then why did you ask then? Seems like you just wanted people to agree with you, not actual insight into your situation.
>They didn’t even give me a chance to put my mask on before they started insulting me.
You literally said you stopped putting on your mask and walked past them so what do you mean they didn't give you a chance to put it on? Were you trying to put your mask on or not?

No. 716572

does anyone else look lighter than they actually are? when i look at pictures of people with the same stats they look bigger than me. do i have reverse bdd or am i just a fattychan :(

No. 716573

>>716571
My question was “ Do you guys wear masks when you go on walks?” Reread my post.
>You literally said you stopped putting on your mask
Yes, I stopped putting it on once they stepped to the side of me because I assumed they were “making way” for me. When they stepped to the side they immediately started insulting me. Are you purposely being obtuse?

No. 716574

>>716572
How would skin color make you fat

No. 716576

>>716574 i meant lighter as in “weighing lighter”, not skin color lighter

No. 716578

>>716573
Were they supposed to give you a chance to put it on while or after you were walking past them then? I'm literally just confused to what you mean by "they didn't give me a chance", you could have still put it on. Wear a mask if you want, but you can't be mad when people get upset at you for not putting one on with the amount of people being careless and having no regard for other people right now, even if they were standing to the side to give you space.

No. 716579

>>716578
>but you can't be mad when people get upset at you for not putting one on
I am and i hope they get hit by a car on their next walk

No. 716580

>>716573
Don't ask a question then act like a retard when people respond to you.

No. 716581

>>716573
I don't wear a mask on walks because no one walks or bikes around here so the sidewalks are dead. I wear a mask in public walking areas and getting mail though because I know there will be others. People here don't even care to wear masks while walking around outdoor shopping centers which is bad, just going in stores do they give a damn because then they couldn't enter.

Is 2chan worse than 4chan? Heard it was more rabid or hateful than 4chan but I don't visit other image boards.

No. 716583

>>716580
How did I act like a retard? The anon responding me is purposely being obtuse to piss me off
>>716581
>I wear a mask in public walking areas
Me too, I’m not even an antimasker or anything like that. I wear a mask every time I go to a store or an area where a lot of people frequent.

No. 716588

File: 1610945117928.jpg (99.13 KB, 600x800, d06f1d743ca555afe9472fe6babd7d…)

Generally, voleyball and basketball players (who started young) are tall af and have long body frames, is it because of all the jumping training they do while their bodies were developing? As well as genetics ofc

No. 716589

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>>716573
>When they stepped to the side they immediately started insulting me
OP:
>they each stand on the sides of the sidewalk, so i guess they’re making way for me
>stop putting my mask on and keep walking past them
>one of them yells at me to put it on and calls me “selfish”
???

No. 716590

Any vapers in here?

No. 716593

>>716589
What. Isn’t. Clicking?
>We are both walking towards each other
>As I am walking I reach to put my mask on
>Before I put my mask on I look up and they have stepped to the side so I stop putting my mask on
>They begin insulting me
>I continue walking past them

No. 716594

>>716588
I don't think it's physically possible for jumping to change people's bodies, not to mention other sports that involve a lot of jumping (like figure skating for example) are the complete opposite and favor short people. Sports just select for certain body types over time. Like, the more suited you are to it, the more likely you'll continue doing it, and be good enough that people even notice your body type and choice of sport.

No. 716597

File: 1610946451727.jpg (89.93 KB, 640x360, eh.jpg)

will these kpop/korean facial surgeries age well? i wonder how their bodies will combat aging since they started so young.

No. 716603

>>716597

100 percent do not believe this. there's no proof whatsoever that they turned the old hag into a teen. you can't just change the shape of someone's skull and shorten their face. i can't believe anyone believes this!

No. 716604

File: 1610947608479.jpg (17.71 KB, 318x318, r-ScbsSu.jpg)

>>716597
I think it really depends on the quality of the procedure, what they got done, and if they get repeat ps. Anything where you remove the fat on the face is gonna make you age faster. A lot of Kpop idols get their jaws shaven and that can make the skin sag over time cause the jaw is apart of your facial support. Stuff like whatever the procedure is they use to get double eyelids is probably gonna age fine, but don't quote me on that actually don't quote me on any of this cause I'm not a ps doctor. I think stuff like filler usually migrates after getting it for a while, and if they they go overboard it'll definitely age awfully.

I think most stuff probably ages fine if they go to a surgeon who's actually good though. Like, I haven't heard of nosejobs aging bad unless they go back and keep getting shit done to it. Stuff like implants need to be replaced every ~10 years or so I believe (think that depends on what kind of implants they get, and what method the surgeon used to put them in though) so it could end up looking bad, idk how common that is though. If they size up the implants too fast or too much it'll start looking like like a shitty diaper instead of a nice juicy ass Hi Kim K and Nicki.

A lot of Kpop idols are underweight and don't eat good diets at all, so that's something to consider. The improper diets and EDs could make their surgery heal worse. I also don't think a lot of these idols go to good doctors cause a lot of it looks bad, and even if they do, they still go overboard sometimes, see pic.

I hope this helped you. I feel like some parts of this might not even be related to the question lmao.

No. 716605

>>716590
no, i smoke like a normal person

No. 716617

How in the actual fuck did Kelly Ronahan come in last for worst horror cow?

No. 716618

File: 1610948765313.png (351.23 KB, 954x1099, Screenshot_20210118-064246~2.p…)

Who is this guy? I saw him posted in the fakeboi thread and have seen this account before, but don't remember the context.

No. 716656

>>716617
Myself and a lot of other farmers deliberately ignore her.

>>716590
Hi

No. 716669

How the actual shit do you meet people who are interested in YOU instead of them trying to fuck or use you?

No. 716680

>>716669
Make connections through mutual interests. Avoid dating apps.

No. 716686

>>716680
NTA but that's kinda hard on quarantine

>>716669
Don't hang around or talk to fuckboys

No. 716692

>>711877
How do I make a convincing fake profile so I can follow my ex’s mum on Instagram? Im trying to disguises myself as a generic car-beer-and-boobies man

No. 716697

>>716692
Don't, weirdo.

No. 716699

>>716697
I just want to see how fat and ugly he has gotten

No. 716702

>>716699
Again, don't. It's weird to follow ex's parents (even if you are disguised) and it's not good to be checking on your exs. Just get over him instead.

No. 716705

>>716702
Aw, you’re no fun RationalAnon. Clearly the crazy cunts haven’t woken up yet.

No. 716706

>>716705
I'll support your endeavors, anon

No. 716707

If someone stopeed using their legs and just lied in bed all day, would they lose the ability to walk?

No. 716708

>>716699
This just sounds like a cope. Do you still have feelings?

No. 716709

>>716706
Thanks anon!
Now tell me, how do I make this believable?
She’s a middle aged pick me which is why I’m going for the hypermasculine angle. If she sees I follow models and porn stars she will be flattered right?

No. 716710

>>716708
Idk do you have feelings for any lolcows you follow? No you just want a refreshing glass of milk. He’s my personal cow so let me live.

No. 716711

>>716710
I lolcow you only know through the internet is different from a person you know irl that you dated, dummy.

No. 716712

>>716711
I don’t care, I want to laugh at my disgusting ex and his chav family

No. 716715

>>716692
How long have you been broken up?

No. 716717

>>716707
from what I can find no but you will lose 1/3 the original muscle mass and I know from experience you will have to use a intermittent pneumatic compression device on the legs so you dont get a deadly clot

No. 716764

>>716572
I definitely do. I'm 67kg at 175cm currently and when I look at mybodygallery some girls looks pretty chubby at that weight. Meanwhile I wear M size pants and XS shirts but that's because I'm built like a weird lanky pear so all of my weight goes into my legs. I legitimately cannot tell the difference between me at 58kg and 67kg but there probably is a difference. Sometimes in photos I notice my arms got a bit fatter but that's it.

No. 716766

File: 1610961784299.jpg (46.94 KB, 400x593, 1610723989552.jpg)

Why are normalfags so threatened by the concept of alt fashion? Grugette wear different looking loincloth, so scary

No. 716789

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>>716766
>pic somewhat unrelated

Because it's not considered "in" at the moment and you'd catch shit at the workplace for it, therefore not fitting in.

No. 716841

Do you think I'm the asshole in this situation?
My mom has a dog that I find annoying but that's beside the point. So, the dog is going through some health issues which causes its ass to bleed after shitting which makes its fur in that part around the ass often mixed with shit and blood. Mom took the dog to the vet and it's currently undergoing a treatment but the problem persists and it's been like this for a few months. My problem is that mom is using my pricey hairdryer which I bought to dry the dog's ass and I find it disgusting because she holds it so close that she might as well stick it up the dog's butt. I had no problems with my mom using the hairdryer for herself but I never gave her the permission for this and she's super sensitive whenever the dog is involved no matter how politely I phrase my concern. So I didn't even bother asking her to stop, the deed's been done. I told her in a nice way since she uses my hairdryer so much she could keep it. Later during the day she asked me if it's because of the dog and I told her that I do find it a bit disgusting and now she's angry at me.

No. 716842

>>716841
you're not the asshole but this is the funniest thing i've read today

No. 716846

https://soundcloud.com/nick-sadler-496783571
This is the Nick Sadler from Daughters right? Why does he have only 9 followers?

>>716841
You are not wrong, try to suggest to your mom to buy a cheap hairdryer

No. 716847

>>716842
I feel bad because the dog is suffering but I don't understand how someone can think it's okay to use someone else's stuff without their permission and do some unhygienic things with it. Or she could have bought a cheaper hairdryer that would have done the same job. I'm kind of brooding here because the dog gets a better treatment than I ever got from my mom. Not only that, she feeds it with human food like steaks but wants me to feed my cat in secrecy and give my cat treats when they're away because it makes her dog sad and jealous.
>>716846
That should have been obvious. I don't know why she didn't get a designated dog butt hairdryer but instead she grabbed mine like it's no big deal.

No. 716848

>>716847
Actually the dog itself doesn't suffer, it looks pretty much happy and doesn't seem to be in pain. God, I hate this. Can't wait to move out.

No. 716851

do you think that if we lived in a matriarchy we would be able to have kids without males by now?

No. 716852

I wonder how many gamergaters are uwu trans girls now

No. 716854

>>716852
At least half of them. Those who aren't have gone full alt-right now.

No. 716858

Is it actually true that you can make money doing surveys and stuff? Are there legit sites for it if any anon has experience with this?

No. 716864

>>716858
Yes but it’s not worth your time unless you’re absolutely broke. A lot of the time, the most you can expect to make is a couple dollars an hour. The only site I’d recommend is Prolific, which is for academic studies. I average 40 dollars a month which is a decent rate for online surveys. If I didn’t find the studies interesting I wouldn’t do it though.

You’re much better off doing freelance work if you have any skills, getting a delivery driver job, working overtime. The only “easy online money” thing besides Prolific I bother doing these days is cashback because it’s effortless.

I’ve heard matched betting can be lucrative but requires effort and initial investment.

No. 716865

>>716841
I hope she's not burning the poor dogs ass

>>716858
Idk about money but I get vouchers/gift cards for a certain amout of points made from participating in online surveys, which then I can exchange for stuff at stores

No. 716867

>>716858
You can, and as far as I know it's way easier in the USA, but I have no experience with that. I take surveys for a german company when they send them out, they take like 10 minutes to do and you get almost no money. I made like 30 euros in 2 years, kek. I wasn't the most diligent, and they often booted me out of surveys for not matching their criteria.

No. 716869

>>716867
kek, I think I know which survey company you're talking about but I can't remember the name. It sucks that so much is just for USA/CA/AUS/UK folks. I deleted the profile there the moment I cashed out and it was barely 10 euros or whatever amount was necessary for not getting PayPal fees.

No. 716870

>>716864
nta, but does Prolific work for Eurofags too?

No. 716873

>>716870
I’m in the U.K. and it works here - the majority of the unis that use it are European ime. The number of study invites you get is based on your demographics so the amount you can expect to make is pretty varied.

No. 716875

>>716858
Just adding to what was said before me, there is an app called Honeygain that you can install on your phone and your desktop/laptop and it uses your Internet in exchange for money. Once you reach 20 usd, you can cash out

No. 716879

Does it happen to anyone else that you feel down and pessimistic but when you eat it all goes away? Or am I just a retard because I cannot differentiate between a physiological need and melancholy?

No. 716880

>>716875
How long does it take to cashout?

No. 716882

>>716879
This is a common coping mechanism, an easy thing you can do to feel better. I would say it’s not a problem unless you are binge eating or doing it to constantly to avoid shit you need to address.

No. 716883

File: 1610976447197.jpg (53.95 KB, 540x476, xe2oc3Igl1vdbx3no1_540.jpg)

What does "avatar fagging" mean ? Is it when you post a lot of pictures ? I love posting all the weird photos I find, am I being annoying kek ???

No. 716887

>>716883
When you use the same kind of images to identify yourself in posts kind of like an avatar, for example monster anon. dw anon you’re free to post your weird pictures

No. 716889

>>716885
>>716887
Oh I see so it means two things !I'm safe then and I'm glad that I can post all my folder. I just love seeing them on other post and collecting them. Thank you for answering

No. 716893

>>716715
3 years

No. 716911

>>716858
Try Swagbucks anon. IIRC you get money from surveys/micro tasks, and they give discount codes and cashback options in shops (could potentially add to your earnings too).
I don't have much luck with it myself since I'm not from the US/UK but maybe it'll work for you.

No. 716916

Do you guys think that it's often that men truly love women? What i mean is the kind of love that will actually make him do nice things for you instead of vice versa, settle down after being a fuckboy for a while, or actually initiate most dates, have genuine enthusiasm being with you, etc.? Some simple examples, but Im sure most of you know what I mean. It seems rare that this happens with men, it just seems to me they can't really experience selfless romatic love like women that often, and they usually tend to experience it towards Stacies as well.

No. 716920

>>716916
> and they usually tend to experience it towards Stacies as well.
>implying
No, anon.
I’ve been friends with some really pretty women that have been played like a fiddle by ugly bastards that wouldn’t understand the fact that they were dating upwards when they’re trash.
I think some great guys can exists, like I’ve also hung out with couples in which the girl isn’t some sort of 90-60-90 model and the guy is a great guy who is head over heels for her.
I just think it’s a matter of being able to reject the trash and push away the shit-tier men, which are a lot, in order to find someone who can actually love and respect another person.
It’s a matter of paying attention to the red flags and not getting desperate with the whole finding a partner stuff, like, moids are an accessory, not a necessity.

No. 716927

>>716916
I think "love" will always be a question of mentality. Like it's more about the commitment and consistency of willing to please your partner than the intensity of the feeling. It's just that a lot of men are barely interested in anything that's not themselves or their own few interests, and they certainly won't go out of their way to do something for someone if there's no clear benefit.

No. 716930

>>716916
Personally, doing all those romantic cute things don't really mean anything. I've never loved any of my boyfriends and I would still constantly show appreciation for them. Why? Because I thought you were supposed to. In my culture it is normal to be hopelessly romantic in that sense, but it doesn't mean anything to me other than customs. I will say that women are more emotionally connected than men are in a sense that part of womanhood is learning empathy to a higher extent than men. My sister is very beautiful, and her husband treats her like she's the ugly one. It doesn't matter what you look like, who you are, what you have achieved, if the other person doesn't love you, they will show no love. So to answer your question, yeah romantic men exist, but they won't be in the way you see it on soap operas.

No. 716966

What’s with the anons defending pickmeism? Is this going to be the next vegan vs non-vegans and anti-dog anons sperg fest?

No. 716971

>>716966
They’re larping scrotes

No. 717011

File: 1610992165733.jpg (Spoiler Image,33.66 KB, 237x799, Swagbucks proof.JPG)

>>716858
this anon >>716911 is on the money for swagbucks.
I've been using it for years, I do basic minimal work on it and get about $25 a month with that. If you actually put in effort, you can get more.
I personally don't do the surverys on it except for the reject pity points they give, I mainly do other offers and watch ads.

I also use Instagc for ad watching, Bing Rewards for Tesco cards, and I also have a few other little money making schemes on BlueStacks on my PC so I don't have to download things to my phone.

If anyone is wondering if Swagbucks is legit, attached is just a tiny portion of my earnings.

Remember that it's just Passive income, so it's not gonna make you bank.

I suggest looking at /r/beermoney or /r/beermoneyglobal.
You'll earn more if you're USA based.

No. 717022

>>716916
I believe so, most of the times they don't show that by being romantic but caring I guess? I see anons bringing up toxic relationships all the time but in all the couples I've seen the guys put a lot of effort to please their gfs and are very obedient. I'd say that's a sign of "love"

No. 717040

>>717011
nta but do you think it's feasable to use a VPN or setup your own proxy server as if I were in the US? Pls don't judge, I'm desperate.

No. 717050

>>717040
No judgement here anon, don't worry. But, Swagbucks will ban you for using a VPN, so will instagc. It's automatic detection and account suspension.
I'd say have a look around /r/beermoneyglobal and see what people there do suggest.

My current method is using Blustacks on my pc and I've got Current (paid to listen to music) and appKarma downloaded and I'll see how they both fare. I use Swagbucks on my PC and phone as well but started downloading the apps they pay you to play onto Bluestacks as well to save battery.

No. 717053

>>717050
Thanks! I'll check those out. I know it's not going to be lots of $$$ but anything will help.

No. 717064

>>716858
Idk if someone has already mentioned it, but there is also Microsoft Rewards! They basically have you do short tests or even just have you earn points for clicking a link to see a fact or something, and it's actually pretty fun. There's usually over 5 quiz's to do each day and you can do them over for all the points if you don't get it right the first time. You can also get extra if you use the bing search engine instead of google (I don't do that though). I highly recommend them just cause they're so quick to do everyday even though it'll take a little time to rack up points.

The rewards they have are giftcards, charity donations, sweepstake entries and other stuff. I always use mine on giftcards.

No. 717070

>>717053
My current setup is:
Open bluestacks, start up Current, Coindozer Sweepstakes, appKarma and get whatever apps I need to do up and started. (usually like, get to level 30 in this app and get X amount of points that you then exchange for giftcards)
Next is open chrome, start up Instagc videos and let them autoplay, do bing/microsoft like this anon suggests >>717064, then Inboxpounds (inboxdollar for usa) to do my daily searches and emails.
Swagbucks is relatively easy, the app has game offers that you just leave up and get paid points per minute the app is running.
Do the daily tasks on the left sidebar, do random searches from this list (https://www.reddit.com/r/SwagBucks/comments/bfj0k1/it_works_try_it/) until I get a win.
Do the surverys until I get the 5 rejects (it's 1 point per reject for a max of 5)
Play Alu's revenge until I get the max of 10 points. (two points per second game. Only play the first level, quit it, restart, etc. Max 10pts per day.)

If you're usa based I know you can do ncrave for lots of points for watching ads, and swagbucks has like 8 apps that give you 10pts a day for watching ads.
To note: Literally all of these things are muted on my pc, so I just let them roll while I do uni work or watch videos/play games.

It's all passive income, but at least like $30 a month minimum.
I'd suggest Mturk as well, it's amazon worker tasks. I've heard good things about clixsense but never used it.
Sorry for long post.
Maybe we should have some passive income thread here.

No. 717079

File: 1610999698447.jpeg (94.85 KB, 650x650, 1577233197622.jpeg)

Is a gay female artist drawing sexy ladies as bad as a man drawing sexy ladies?
I have no following and keep it realistic (eg. no balloon tiddies or bizarre coomer proportions, women are clearly comfortable and confident, generally not male gaze-tier) but fear I'm contributing to violence against women or something.

Will the end be the same despite the origin? Is there even a difference between me and a man since I'm still just a horny artist in the end and may provide fodder for some coombrain somewhere?
I wouldn't even consider this if men weren't committing acts of sexual violence against women, alas…

No. 717082

>>717070
Thanks once again! I'll check those out and give my feedback. I hope some other anons find it useful. I think we should definitely have a passive income thread and I'm going to see if I can find something to contribute to it.

No. 717094

>>717079
try not to view your depiction of women as identical to men's objectification. the fact that you are concerned with how your art might effect the well being of women shows your putting in a lot more thought then any man would. if you're really concerned about men getting off to your art, you can try to make it visually unappealing to men by being unapologetically lesbian coded,(ie violently feminist punk women, butch women, hairy women, ect)

No. 717105

>>717079
I think it’s fine if you’re drawing nice consensual scenarios and not disgusting bdsm shit (which you obviously aren’t)

No. 717116

Over in the riots general thread, anons are saying how Riley looks autistic. What makes a woman look autistic?

No. 717196

why are they called nigels?

No. 717224

Does the burning after using retinol stop happening after a certain point or should I just stop using it?

No. 717226

>>717224
It does stop but remember to moisturize and stop using it if it actually causes real pain

No. 717230

>>717196
Nicest guy who ever lived

No. 717241

>>717226
It does cause actual pain if I use it more than once a week.

No. 717243

can you do anything with someone's discord ID? the long one that's all numbers.

No. 717247

>>717241
Then use it once a week, you're supposed to start slow. How long have you used it and also, we have a skincare thread in /g/

No. 717249

Why are men’s penises so fucking ugly? I’ve never seen an attractive looking penis, they always look like an elongated beat up tumor.

No. 717310

>>717249
Because they are built for cock and ball torture

No. 717323

>>717249
You know how some frogs are vividly colored and pretty yet you need to be alarmed? Dicks are the opposite but you shouldn't touch them either

No. 717324

>>717249
The worst: skinny long circumcised peens make me curl up in a ball, I have to get it off my screen (when they get posted here) and try to forget it. circumcised in general look so painful and bad, I can't look for long, idk what I'll do if I ever date a guy like that (burgerland). skinny ones look like it will fall off
I know we all have different opinions. I don't think they all look bad but your post still reached my soul. They are freaky

No. 717325

>>717249
mother earth wanted something for women to laugh at

No. 717335

File: 1611031727640.jpg (Spoiler Image,106.57 KB, 1200x700, box_of_penis.jpg)

>>717249
Penis nearly always looks better when it's hard or maybe I've been conditioned to think that because I'm straight idk. Flaccid intact penis reminds me of sausage wrapped in a garbage bag and flaccid cut penis just looks dry, mangled and uncomfortable.

No. 717342

anyone have good advice for ending a degenerate coomer lifestyle? I ordinarily just come to lolcow for the drama, but reading some shit here today has convinced me I need to stop touching myself.(maleposter)

No. 717345

>>717342
wean yourself off it and get some hobbies.

No. 717350

>>717342
What helped me was looking into how fucked up the porn industry is and how inheritly disgusting my fetishes were. I also feel like a lot of disgusting coomer views also came from being a pick me, so once I dropped that act I naturally became not okay with a lot of stuff that I thought I was into. You also can't really quit cold turkey, ween yourself slowly from porn or whatever. Also trying to masturbate less frequently. I think getting older and my sex drive just naturally decreasing helped too.

No. 717359

>>717345
Thanks. Not sure getting a new hobby would be helpful, I churn through 2 failed hobbies a month as is.
>>717350
Good advice, thanks. The pick me thing isn't applicable as a married man (male), but it's otherwise pretty actionable.(maleposter)

No. 717364

Youtube recommended this video to me and I'm disturbed…why does the guy's face look like a mask? Did the drug do something to his skin texture?

No. 717367

>>717359
Scrotes be gone. You are not welcomed here.

No. 717374

>>717249
Man this conversation made me think about how we don't get to see men's penises until we're doing sex acts. Some of them are so badly shaped and gag inducing that I wonder how do you get away from a situation like that. Like do you still have sex anyway? Break up? Run away? Ew

No. 717376

>>717364
hes just british

No. 717421

>>717374
I mean the penis has to deformed or infected for it to look really THAT bad, they look pretty similiar otherwise. For me it's the micropenis I'm scared of. I started dating a virginal guy, and then it turned out he had a really bad case of it. Like pinky finger bad. I thought he might grow at least a bit, and then he told me he has been ready to go for minutes, and all I could say was "oh", and went through with it, because I was afraid he's gonna anhero if his first sexual experience will be embarassing. Then he had the gall to ask me if I thought it was too small post-coitus.

No. 717426

>>717421
Yikes anon you’re kindhearted. Did you tell him the truth? It’s honestly better that people like him face the music asap, the smart ones develop humiliation fetish.

No. 717430

>>717374
>>717421
I always check the guy's boner through clothes while making out to determine the size. I have to make sure I want to fuck him before we get our clothes off. I'm surprised not everybody does it.

No. 717445

What's up with the influx of people calling Azealia Banks retardation "problematic"? All the youtube comment sections are filled with comments about how "they can't listen to her because she's problematic", but what did she even do other than being completely unhinged?

No. 717453

>>717430
Lol I always do this, and if it’s too small or thin I make some excuse and dip.

No. 717454

>>717445
She said some transphobic stuff so you know how it issss

No. 717456

>>711877
>>717454
What the fuck is up with all the tranny and scrote panderers recently? Did our transphobia and misandry get posted about on another site again?

No. 717468

>>717456
My bet is redditors.

No. 717469

File: 1611048916127.jpeg (72.49 KB, 667x625, AC7118C8-E15D-4672-8525-7B1866…)

How do I get rid of bla lines?? I read it’s about the right size, so does it mean the bra is too big? I saw those cami bras but I’m not sure if they’re padded enough. I often have stiff nipples especially during winter so I need something to hide them!

No. 717471

>>717421
God, reminds me of time when I slept with my coworker I had a crush on. It was all great until he removed his pants, maybe the penis was not as micro as in quoted anon's case but still smaller than I thought it could possibly be, I went with it, meh experience but still acceptable, I was nice about it, didn't want the dude to feel bad too; next day at work on the work chat first thing he messages me "I'm sorry my dick was so small" I'm like, that's ok dude, sex was fine AND THEN he went apeshit, I guess I was supposed to say that it wasn't small? ALL DAY he kept messaging me angrily that i HURT HIM and he has AWFUL INSECURITY and I'm the MOST CRUEL PERSON … cured me from my crush on the guy immediately. I maybe wouldn't even mind a small penis, it could still be made up for with some technique, but an insecure mind of a small penis owner can truly be terrifying.

No. 717475

>>717421
I had sex with a guy with the same penis size. Didn't feel a thing but went through with it anyways. Luckily he didn't ask afterwards though lol
Broke up with him after that, for other reasons as well though.

>>717471
Good on you for cutting him off. He sounds like he'll just stir shit so he can feel justified when exploding.

No. 717476

>>717469
Are you wearing t-shirt bras already? Most normal bras are going to show up on tight clothing no matter what you do.

No. 717477

File: 1611049911460.jpg (67.33 KB, 800x533, SameSexParents.jpg)

Why do so many Lesbian couples often have sons ?, I know a couple of gay men who have kids and their often mixed gendered but for whatever every lesbian couple I know have only sons

also weirdly most of those boys are like super tall most of the time

No. 717480

>>717477
Artificial insemination tends to overwhelmingly produce sons due to the speed/weight differences between the X and Y chromosome sperm. Y sperm is lighter and faster even though X sperm is more resilient.

No. 717484

>>717480
>>717477
Hollywood makes it seem like any jackass can walk into a clinic and become a Donor when the truth is less then 16% men in the US are even eligible to donate sperm, you have 5'10 minimum, college educated, no criminal record, no familial history of mental illness

No. 717488

>>717484
True, but I don't see what this has to do with the original question. Men with better genes don't necessarily have more sons or even produce more Y chromosome sperm. It's just that Y chromosome sperm have a much easier time in artificial insemination because they can't just that die that easily on their way to the egg unlike in natural conception where the vaginal and uterine environment can be quite challenging. In fact, when fertilization occurs, it's never milions of sperm near the egg itself and only one of them is lucky enough like pop culture claims, it's that the vast majority of them died on their way or even trying to enter.

No. 717489

>>717488
I'm talking more with regards to the statement about of why lesbians sons seems taller compared to other children, well its cause their dads were all tall college educated dudes

No. 717491

>>717489
Sure, didn't notice the second part of the question. My bad.

No. 717501

>>717426
I think I said something evasive like "the sex was good" (it wasn't). I just remember being mad that he even put me on the spot with this question, since he was so obviously undersized. He pulled out some noname brand condom and his dick looked like a kid in a bouncing castle.

No. 717508

Are there perfectly healthy men who just don't jerk off?

No. 717512

>>717508
Yeah probably but why would you want that? There's nothing unhealthy about masturbation and it doesn't really make a coomer.

No. 717519

>>717501
>his dick looked like a kid in a bouncing castle
omg haha

No. 717532

>>717501
>He pulled out some noname brand condom and his dick looked like a kid in a bouncing castle.
101 keks, i cant stop laughing

I have a fear the other way of it being too big. I only have experience of my toy which is about 5" and dont know what I would do if a guy was packing serious heat but I think I would be disappointed if he were smaller than that.
My ex room mate always says her bf are big with one being "massive" but I never really got a gauge on what big or massive equates to.
what does big mean to anons here?

also the noname brand condom - is that a such a bad thing? Durex is the only one I know of but surely they are all pretty much the same?

No. 717552

why is the top of my head so oily almost all the time? no other parts of my hair are so oily. is it just the type of hair i was born with or do i wash it too much or what?

No. 717563

>>717552
I think because that's where the hair is closest to your scalp and that's where the oil comes from

No. 717572

>>717501
> and his dick looked like a kid in a bouncing castle.
bwahahaha, this made my day

No. 717573

>>717552
try washing it less if you wash it everyday. and use dry shampoo.

No. 717578

File: 1611064051594.jpg (559.96 KB, 1800x2027, 20210119_204627.jpg)

Are they actually an artist(Illustrator) orginated from lolcow.farm? Like the artist used to post on the site before moving into social media. Example like thdark that used to post on /ic/

No. 717621

File: 1611068557389.jpg (163.93 KB, 1200x1200, oh no elsa what happened.jpg)

Is Jenny Nicholson's sister trans?

No. 717624

File: 1611068781897.png (183.84 KB, 284x340, oh nvm.png)

>>717621
hm i guess she is

No. 717627

>>717624
Yo sauce?

No. 717630


No. 717642

File: 1611071241568.jpeg (236.39 KB, 775x1470, 3E5CA419-56E2-4A71-8E0E-F70431…)

Anons what is your opinion of buying fakes like this? What is better 1. buy the know off because it’s cute or 2. only buy the real thing for tons of money

No. 717646

>>717642
Buying anything designer just for the logo is cringe but buying a knockoff is even more cringe. I think only super fashionable women can pull off these brands, and they for sure aren’t buying the knockoffs

I promise you there are purses out there that look exactly like this for this exact price without that silly logo on it

No. 717647

>>717642
I don't think buying fakes are bad at all and I don't think buying real, name brand is bad either. I've never bought a fake, but I think it would be best to get one that is convincing and not cheap looking. When someone gets a fake that isn't convincing it kind of just looks like they bought it to look like they can afford name brand clothing, not because they actually like how the bag looks and want a quality bag without paying all the money.

No. 717648

>>717624

Got to wonder if someone that passes this well was intersex.

No. 717650

>>717646
I know some logos look bad and are just plastered all over clothes to be there, but the Chanel logo is cute imo, and they never slap it all over their bags afaik.

No. 717661

>>717648
I wouldn't call that passing well, it was more of an "is this person trans or a tragic looking 6' woman" situation.

No. 717662

>>717646
>>717647
I’d actually prefer if the fake has no logo does that make sense? It’s just I think they’re pretty. I ultimately want to buy an original as proof to myself I can save up money and do big girl things. But I need to see if I actually like the cut so I thought get a knock off to kinda see how I like it. I don’t wanna save up month only to find out in the Dior shoo tge purse looks shit on me

No. 717667

>>717662
That sounds like a good plan anon. If you don't like the logo maybe you can paint over it and seal it or something so it'll be "hidden"?

No. 717692

>>717642
What site/app is that ss from if it’s urs?

No. 717705

Can someone explain the Finnish people are Asian thing? is Finland even a Eurasian country?

No. 717713

>>717692
It’s girlypinkboutique on shopify. Are you getting one anon?

No. 717717

>>717705
>is Finland even an Eurasian country?
Anon, everything Europe and Asia is eurasian, it's just the name of the supercontinent. I'm not sure about the "finnish are asian" meme or whatever, probably because they migrated from asian regions back in the first millenium?

No. 717722

>>717717
no one in europe would consider themselves Eurasian, except maybe in case of Russia which actually spreads over both continents.

No. 717724

File: 1611078211977.png (25 KB, 768x570, asia-borders.png)

>>717717
Oh, so all European and Asian countries are considered Eurasian? I always assumed it was just the part of Europe and Asia that are the closest, like the parts that are touching in pic

I'm sorry guys, geography is not my strong suit and I'm American so it's not like we extensively learn about Eurasia anyway. It came up like once or twice in my school, and I feel like I went to a pretty good school for American standards

No. 717729

>>717722
Does anyone even identify as eurasian? I don't even think I ever heard it in russian television. I think it's pretty much only used for ogranisations and geography.

No. 717732

>>717724
I'm European and I don't think I've heard "Eurasia" uttered even once in my entire schoolcareer lol. I thought it reffered reffered to Russia that's partially in Asia, partially in Europe.

No. 717734

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No. 717738

>>717729
Mixed people do. In my country lots of people have Thai mums (you can guess why and how) and that's what they call themselves.

No. 717739

If I was born on January 20, am I a Capricorn or an Aquarius? It's different on every horoscope website I visit

No. 717742

>>717739
Idk too much about astrology, but maybe you're "on the cusp". As in, you were born while one astrology sign was rising and the other one was setting. I believe Jan 20 is considered the Aquarius-Capricorn cusp

https://www.astrology.com/on-the-cusp

https://medium.com/@meraastro.com/learn-about-every-zodiac-cusp-sign-and-dates-bad106c7d5f3

https://www.tarot.com/astrology/cusps/born-on-the-zodiac-cusp

No. 717752

>>717742
serious astrology nerds don't acknowledge cusps at all afaik

No. 717756

>>717752
…so what would a serious astrology nerd say I am? I don't know the exact time I was born, maybe in the afternoon

No. 717774

>>717471
Lmao this reminds me of my last hookup. He wanted to compare hand sizes and surprise, his hands were much larger than mine because he's a man and I am a woman, but he told me later that he did it to determine how small my vagina is compared to his dick?? As if hand sizes have anything to do with that lmao. He told me he was afraid of breaking me in half because my hands were so much smaller, which is just… honey, no.
Anyway, when we we're getting into it he suddenly just kinda declared that he's kinda big and that he hasn't had any complaints about his dick, lol. And then immidiately after finishing he asked me if he was big enough for me. I remember saying something like "it's not about size it's about skill", because he was incredibly average. Not big but not small either, just average. But the way he kept going on and on about his big ol' mighty meat schlong just turned me all the way off and I never saw him again even though the sex wasn't even half bad if we're being honest here lmao. Scrotes are the most insecure creatures I swear.

No. 717780

>>717774
same anon as here >>717532
what size was he? If anything his talk of big dick and breaking me in half would scare me away. its fuuny that after he was so insecure. When the time comes im going with other anons and feeling it through his pants first

No. 717785

>>717734
>Belarus
>Ukraine
I don't think anyone would say they're not strictly european there just because they're not part of the EU.

No. 717794

>>717756
Cusps aren't a thing and you would need to know the exact date for most stuff i'm afraid.

No. 717796

File: 1611084630718.jpg (84.03 KB, 900x823, 25baf74116c6a537c6d4a6cdfde4c8…)

Should I buy a Pepe eye mask or a generic pink fluffy one? Help my indecisive ass

No. 717797

>>717780
I mean he didn't tell me his exact measurements (now that I think of it I'm actually surprised he didn't lmao) but the average dick size is 14-16cm so somewhere around that I guess? Maybe 14cm? My previous partner was fuckhuge compared to him which made the entire situation even more awkward than it already was lmao.

No. 717806

>>717796
Pepe looks like fun

No. 717809

>>717756
No exact time = you can't ever get into hardcore astrology and are better off quitting the hobby if your only interest is analyzing your own chart cause it's not possible to do so without that exact birth time. Some astrologers do try to estimate the birth time backwards, by getting to know the person really well and trying to make that the basis of their guess out of the possible charts but it's messy and you can't do it for yourself imo.

No. 717816

Has anyone purchased anything "legal" from AliExpress? I kinda want to start making videos, and I saw they have adobe available.

I don't give a shit about muh morals, I just want it for free or for 5$ lol.

No. 717817

>>717809
Anon can still find out her moon sign if she's interested in that, and some websites will estimate what your chart is without a time but idk how accurate those are

No. 717818

>>717816
If you're trying to get photoshop, you can find it for free pretty easily.

No. 717819

>>717818
More adobe premier pro, or whatever video editing software it is with adobe.

No. 717825

>>717819
yes anon they will just send you the same as what you get from various torrents just be careful with virus and stuff (even with aliexpress).

No. 717827

>>717825
I was looking into torrenting, however I'm scared because of the whole stupid "hey, it's a monthly sub of xyz" and also, fishy torrents, do you think you have a secure one/website.
I had a few, buyt they werre for ISOs

No. 717837

>>717817
Eh the issue is if you actually wanna get into astrology the sun and moon signs don't matter much. It's the whole chart that matters.

No. 717850

File: 1611090249956.jpg (38.29 KB, 532x525, 4864354867.jpg)

>>717739
Happy Birthday (or almost birthday idk where you live) anon

No. 717855

File: 1611090518916.gif (323.52 KB, 220x153, tenor.gif)

>>717850
thank you thank you

No. 717866

Is it normal to feel some chest pain after starting yoga? Yesterday was only my 2nd day doing it and I woke up with a bit of chest pain today. I'm wondering if I got coronavirus or if this is normal like how you get DOMS after not exercising for a long time.

No. 717870

>>717866
No, I don't think that's normal, anon.

No. 717872

>>717866
Does it feel like muscle? I was in hospital years ago with a woman whose chest pain turned out to just be pain in a layer of muscle that we rarely strain.

No. 717874

>>717866
If you did a good amount of chest exercises like downward dog, crow, plank then yeah it could just be muscular soreness. When that area is tight it does almost feel like being congested because it's not an area that's typically used.

No. 717877

>>717739
Depends on your birth time and year

No. 717906

Non ESL-chans, is there any difference in sound between son and sun?

No. 717908


No. 717909


No. 717917

>>717906
in korean yeah. there's three different types of 'o' in korean, and romanisation is often weird and different people romanise things in different ways.

son 선 is pronounced like 's-on', son 손 is pronounced like 'so-n', sun 순 like 'soon'. sorry in advance if i misunderstood the question and this isn't what you were asking kek

No. 717930

>>717917
I-
ESL means English as Second Language but bless your kboo heart

No. 717935

>>717930
oh god, my bad, sorry! i knew something wasn't right when i was typing it out but i read the OP so many times to check i was actually on topic that i think i gaslit myself into thinking i was making sense. sorry again anon i'm in the middle of writing three essays for uni and my shit is fucking FRAZZLED kek

No. 717940

>>717935
>>717930
love you both, i kiss u

No. 717945

>>717940
thank you, mwa

No. 717951

when people say that (western? US?) society is crumbling from degeneracy, what do they mean? what do they think is gonna happen? things are already pretty bad in that department… how does it correlate to a literal "downfall"/why would china or whoever want this (according to them)

No. 717952

>>717951
samefag btw they will bring up tiktok as an example for china. I could believe it but I don't understand how that works, like why.

No. 717960

can your vaginal canal be curved? When I stick my finger up there is feels like it curls around the pelvic bone. Is this normal? I've never been able to stick a tampon or cup up there

No. 717961

>>717960
You can have a tilted cervix at least

No. 717963

>>717960
Sounds like a retroverted uterus to me, maybe. Maybe not but I also struggle with tampons (in fact can't use them at all but never tried a cup) and have a retroverted uterus which also makes certain penetration angles painful. Ever accidentally get stabbed in the cervix by a dildo or dick during high speed intercourse?

No. 717965

>>717951
Basically because of many factors like income inequality, climate change and other environmental threats, obesity and opioid crises, disinformation campaigns, the loneliness epidemic, etc. a lot of people these days are staring to have the feeling that the Western world is soon going to collapse or enter into a new dark age. However many people are confused about what is causing all these distressing feelings in them so some of them turn to blaming people who "act degenerate" for causing all of these modern problems. They may also look back to the past/"good old days" which seemed better on the surface and conclude that things like feminism and LGBT rights must be the cause of all these problems.

No. 717972

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>>717963
>Ever accidentally get stabbed in the cervix by a dildo or dick during high speed intercourse?

No, I've never had sex and now I'm scared

No. 717987

what’s the name of that couple that whores out their two kids that are completely not functioning or normal or human? I forget the name. Everyone just kept calling the kids aliens, etc

No. 717991

>>717987
Hartley Hooligans

No. 717993

Is it bad that I only want to consume media written by women? I feel like 90% of the time if something is written/directed/produced by a man, I can tell due to weird scrote-y language and portrayal of female characters. Of course I've enjoyed some books in the past written by men but I noticed the trend of all my favorite content being created by women and since then consuming media has just been so much better….

The only thing that has me a bit concerned as that a lot of female authors still use pen names and I might be passing up some good content.

No. 718014

Which thread can I vent my political woes in without getting banned

No. 718018

>>718014
None, unless they align with the mod that happens to monitor the thread(s).
Just go on twitt-

No. 718021

My adhd symptoms are worsening what is happening
I take 30 something mg of ritalin/concerta/whatever
The 20 something worked even less
I have noticed only 120 mg works for me

No. 718025

>>717993
Not at all, stick with what you like (and the frankly superior content). Honestly even with writers who use pen names you can usually do a quick search to find out their sex with minimal digging. These days they don’t really hide it with the intent to be undercover forever but more so that the casual browser looking for a new read doesn’t make assumptions about a book’s content based on a female name.

No. 718027

>>717993
Men proudly do the same so who cares

No. 718031

>>718014
You can just use the vent thread as long as it's not bait-y. Or just keep it to yourself/your friends if you're that worried about being banned. I posted about retarded trump supporters marking a sea creature in the vent thread, and I've seen political vents in there

No. 718034

>>718018
Admin snipers took out anon before she could finish her sentence.

No. 718035

>>718031
It’s not baity I’m just worried about how the right is gonna react tomorrow. Also that was disgusting and I hope whoever did that rots.

No. 718037

>>717993
One of my favorite books is The Picture of Dorian Gray written by a gay man so gay writers are ok in my book

No. 718046

Would it be very stupid of me to spray my mask with perfume? My mask doesn't stink or anything, I just love the smell of my perfume and when I already have the chance… don't have asthma or anything like that btw (only sometimes get very light trouble breathing when spraying myself with deo, but that's never been the case with perfume).

No. 718054

>>718046
Maybe dab on a tiny bit to test it? Better to put on too little than too much

No. 718077

>>718046
Don’t do it. Seriously. Even if you don’t have asthma, your mask is already inhibiting your ability to intake clean air and perfume is chemicals. Fragrance is an irritant—in every synthetic form. This goes for detergent, dryer sheets, perfume, fabric freshener, etc. A little bit of these things aren’t going to harm most people but when you’ve got it against your face and you’re already wearing a mask constantly it’s really not good for you.

No. 718085

>>717965
I guess so but how do we know when we are in a dark age? I'm relooking up the definition but idk what this would be in context

No. 718094

>>718085
Nta but I guess being in a dark age means that there’s no progress on certain, if not, no areas of development for the human civilization.
It could also be like going back in time to another way of thinking that we would know is not a contribution to us as humans.
So, denying science to say that the earth is flat could be a symptom of a dark time for the scientific field, there’s something in which humanity is failing that’s leading groups of people to believe that the earth is flat, after it has been proven that it’s fucking round.
Mostly stuff like those, it will depend on your views on life, and what you consider progressive or regressive, so you can determine whether the world is going through a dark age or not.

No. 718103

how to be into rigorous self discipline without triggering an eating disorder?

i used to be super disciplined but at the same time felt the need to control my eating as well, becoming orthorexic to a degree that in effects bordered on anachan territories

No. 718112

>>718103
Are you sure you're not forcing yourself to do something, and not just acquiring discipline? Forcing yourself to do things you don't actually want can trigger restrictive behaviour.

No. 718133

Have you ever stolen something from your workplace? I always take tiny things - pens, erasers or usb sticks wherever I work

No. 718135

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No. 718139

>>718135
By exposure. Watch videos about mice and look at pictures of them

No. 718142

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No. 718185

This is such a boomer question but how do you guys know when something goes viral? Is there a website that has all the latest viral shit on it?

No. 718198

I know that men are generally looked down upon for being physically weak, but what about women/girls? I know that it's bad for your own sake to be weak, but will people judge you if you're a girl and abnormally weak?

No. 718204

>>718185
I almost live under a rock so to speak, so it's usually by seeing other people discuss it, whether here, on discord or even in real life. I guess theose people find out from what's trending on social media.

No. 718209

>>718206
Why would a scrote use this question as bait? I'm not even trying to be confrontative I'm just wondering what he would gain from it, unless he has some sort of weak-girl/muscle-girl fetish

No. 718213

Call me autistic, but how do I grow out of feeling impacted by group mentality and people being stupid around me?

For example
>in a book group
>one girl makes "spank me daddy" and BDSM jokes about a character
>the guys immediately snicker "see, all women like that"
My choice was to just leave and not deal with that shit, but it always makes me boil.

No. 718222

>>718213
Eh, trying to explain why treating women as anything other than blow up dolls to scrotes (and pickmes) that retarded is basically a lost cause anon. Of course it’s frustrating but it would be even more frustrating wasting your time and energy on something that they’d just get nasty and defensive about. Just try to cultivate the mindset that encountering idiots is a normal part of life but it should cause no more personal insult than if you stumbled across a pile of shit in the middle of the road. Basically a stoic perspective.

“Begin each day by telling yourself: Today I shall be meeting with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will, and selfishness – all of them due to the offenders’ ignorance of what is good or evil. But for my part I have long perceived the nature of good and its nobility, the nature of evil and its meanness, and also the nature of the culprit himself, who is my brother (not in the physical sense, but as a fellow creature similarly endowed with reason and a share of the divine); therefore none of those things can injure me, for nobody can implicate me in what is degrading.“

No. 718224

>>718198
No. Being weak is considered a “feminine” trait, so if you are a weak woman then others will accept it as normal and even endearing, though the traits of femininity only serve to make us helpless and attractive to men who want to use us.

No. 718231

>>718185
By definition, if it's viral you will probably see it whether you look for it or not. If you don't come across it during regular internet usage, it probably isn't legit viral.

No. 718243

Should I get vaccinated with the Covid vaccine? It seems unwise to me to get something that wasn't tested properly but a lot of people around me are getting it

No. 718244

>>718243
Which vaccine specifically would that be? From what company?

Personally I'm in the EU and I choose to trust that the vaccines that have been and will be permitted by the EU have been properly tested and are safe.

No. 718247

>>718244
The Moderna one. It got approved but I recently read about people having allergic reactions to it

No. 718250

>>718247
That's one I'd personally be willing to take. Afaik people can have allergic reactions to any vaccin, that's not exclusive to corona vaccins. If that's all I wouldn't be worried..

Do you have the choice to get it soon?

No. 718251

>>718247
If you know you have allergies and have an epipen, you need to take it with you as the risk of having a reaction is higher than those who don't have allergies

No. 718252

>>718250
>>718251
I mean, I understand that it's supposed to be safe but don't they usually test vaccines for years before they approve it?? Also, its effect supposedly only lasts for a couple of months and who knows what kind of negative long term effects it might have

No. 718260

>>718243
Let them, sit back and watch what happens. If you get Corona you get Corona. You are unlikely to be in the demographic where it will kill you. Also consider:
Vaccine hasnt been tested for long term affects
doesnt prevent you from getting corona, just lessens the affects
hasnt proven to give long term immunity
hasnt proven to work against multiple strains of corona.
Wont stop you from carrying/spreading

People have died from it (usually old)
people (women) have been made infertile (in tests/study groups)
people have caught corona after already having corona - meaning what is the point when the virus mutates, if you havent the (long term) immunity after having actual corona virus then vaccine will do little.

pfizer and moderna are RNA based vaccines whereas the astra zenica is more of a traditional vaccine. If im being forced to take one I'd get that one. Until then Im going to wait until the end of the year. by then you will see if anyone who got vaccinated has caught it and whether this is all a basically a scam

No. 718268

>>718243
Why wouldn't you? It was properly tested, as it's not a vaccine for a completely new virus but just a new type of known virus, so they weren't starting from scratch. Every additional percent of possible protection from getting infected is worth it. Personally I want to get it because I'm pretty sure travelling in the future will be easier for vaccinated people.

>People have died from it (usually old)

people (women) have been made infertile (in tests/study groups)
Can you give a source on that or are you just spreading misinformation?

Of course you can catch COVID after being vaccinated. Same as you can catch flu after getting seasonal flu vaccine. Just the odds are much, much smaller. I have family in medical field, mom's been working with covid patietns, everyone in hospital are getting vaccinated; i see no reason for us common people to distrust it's value if (majority of) healthcare professionals are not distrusting it.

No. 718286

>>718268
>it was properly tested
define 'properly tested'

every additonal % is worth it? really? for a virus that has 0.001% kill rate in the healthy under 80s. maybe for the old its worth it. remember you having the vaccine wont stop you from spreading corona either.

Flu vaccines are for specific strains of flu that are predicted to be going around. These predictions are made months before the Flu season and as such can have literally zero impact if the strain wasn't what they predicted. can be no different with Corona

Everyone in hospital and medical field are getting it because it as good as mandatory and would like to still have a career and not bbe a pariah. the psyops run on the general public and anyone questioning it is insane.

Sars (swine flu) is another corona virus, take a look at how well the efforts to make a decent vaccine for that turned out.
The majority of healthcare professionals dont have a choice and have to repeat the mantra. toe the line or be run out of the field, you wont hear any dissent, its scrubbed from the media pretty quickly.

leave it for the old and vulnerable until you have no choice (it will be coming) by then you may have some feedback as to how effective it really is.

Also factor in that 1 in 3 people (apparently) have/had corona and were asymptomatic so you could have easily had this mega deadly disease without even knowing it.

Until they shut down travel to non vaccinated etc. then ill wait it out. plenty of unhealthy and old people need it before me anyway.

No. 718299

>>718198
>>718224
In my case, yes but I feel like it might be culture/race related. Or it's just my family idk.

No. 718308

>>718299
Are you black American? If so, it makes sense. The black American community abnormally hates women who act in stereotypical feminine roles that may be accepted by the majority outgroup. I used to be subject to relentless bullying by my same race peers of both genders because I was perceived as introverted, shy, and therefore "weak". I noticed Millennial/Gen Z African American boys, especially in the South, despise weak or introverted black women no matter how much their perceived attractiveness is and will do anything to make them feel like shit. They prefer traditionally "masculine" behaviors or dating outside of their race where they used the same excuse of sadistically bullying black girls to praise nonblack girls.

No. 718311

>>718290
"as good as mandatory". you seem good at putting words in my mouth.
never said you would be taking a vaccine from someone else either. Im saying there are more at risk people than me who can/will get it first. There is a limited supply of vaccines currently, it can go to them and anyone else who wants it and ill wait to see the affect(s).

>no one would lose job for not getting vaccinated.

lol… they are talking about restricting travel without vaccine. if you want to work you'll need to be vaccinated. especially in the medical field.

as you apparently are not spreading misinformation you can tell us how these vaccines have been properly tested and how there are no long term side effects for each/any of them?

>you dont know anything

Or y'know, realize you (also) know fuck all, other than what has been force fed to us with any other information/study/opinion that goes against the party line being scrubbed from debate.

Just like the tranny issue. anything other than total compliance and agreement and your a transphobe, no debate, no critical thought. If you work in the field get onboard or get run out. We have medical professionals literally denying science and contradicting everything they were taught in school to parrot the lines. Its not much different with Corona propaganda either.

No. 718315

Does the caffeine in energy drinks hit different?

I'm a heavy coffee drinker but have never been kept awake by it. Noticed that if I have even half a Monster in the afternoon I'll be awake half the night. When it comes to counting the caffeine content that doesn't really explain it and it happens with the no sugar ones too. WTf kind of crack is in Monster?

No. 718322

>>718315
Not sure anon but I’m slso intense coffee drinker but I can never drink cola or I’ll be unable to sleep that night! I has probably something to do with how the body breaks it down. I mean cola and energy drinks also contain tons of sugar so it probably prolongs the effekt

No. 718326

>>718315
I'm the opposite. I can throw back an energy drink (including Monster) no problem. In fact, they tend to make me sleepy after I drink them. Coffee, on the other hand, has a palpable effect on me. It doesn't make me feel more awake per se, but I definitely can feel it in my heart/feel more wired. Probably just depends on the person and whichever way you've built up a tolerance to caffeine.

No. 718345

Can one have two Tinder profiles at the same time?

No. 718409

I'm going to spam this in all threads, but I honestly just can't remember applying to this job. I am do desperate, I said yes and they sent me the whole "employment employee" form to fill up, and it's just odd because they have a preferred method of pay and one of them is by fucking PayPal lmao???

Apparently they're HQ is in London, so I can't call myself since I'm NA but
>https://www.glassdoor.ca/Reviews/Partners-Capital-Reviews-E688886.htm
Am I falling for a scam? Thanks.

No. 718438

Is avoiding someone because one of their closest friends might be a wannabe anime girl mtf a valid reason to avoid a person?

No. 718446

>>718438
Anything is a valid reason to avoid someone that makes you uncomfortable or that isn’t interesting/important to you, anon.

No. 718449

>>718446
Thank you anon, I’ll just let this person slowly fade away from my memory.

No. 718469

>>718409
what is the job? do they have NA offices?
if you didnt apply for the job and there is no realistic way that a london company would be hiring you, to work doing what? and remotely? with various GDPR shit and data protection laws you would not be doing anything involved in investment. I cant see what else they would outsource to an anon in another continent.
what is the email address you are receiving the stuff from?
seems scammy. but you could just email the company direct and ask wtf is going on.

No. 718473

What's that old spongebob meme say? something like safe? safe reliable or something like that?

No. 718476

>>717972
Sorry to scare you! Start slow and you'll be fine. The angle of the thrust is what matters, you'll get a sense of what angle is gonna hurt (if it will even hurt, might not for you!). I got stabbed a couple times when I first started fucking but I learned what the right ways were in no time. Please don't be afraid, just use lube and take it slow. Also dildo/dick length and vaginal size is probably a factor so your unique combination of variables might not even be an issue in this

No. 718486

>>717972
This anon is completely correct >>718476, but also some women don't have sensitive cervixes at all the height and sensitivity changes depending on your cycle/ovulation I believe apparently so they can handle having their cervixes touched by other things with no problem. Still though, so matter how sensitive it is, never get cervix-punched by a dick/dildo, you can still get horrible bruising there if it's too hard.

No. 718506

>>718438
Definitely, I would too

No. 718525

>>718345
i think they have to be linked to a phone number soo, no unless you have multiple #s or can use someone else's

No. 718526

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>>718473
You mean Ol' reliable?

No. 718531

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Are there any “stim” tumblrs that don’t have these retarded banners at the bottom of their posts?

No. 718532

>>718526
Ha, nta but I always reference this

No. 718548

>>718531
>anti-anti
What? I’m trying to figure out what it means, is it like anti people that hate people that hate stuff?

No. 718550

>>718548
I think it’s a shipping thing. Antis are someone who are opposed to a certain ship because it’s problematic

No. 718553

>>718526
thank youuuu nonny!

No. 718555

what do in this pandemic if I have no friends? can't exactly make them at this time unless…
my only idea is contacting those I fell out of touch with

No. 718560

>>718555
Reconnect. Some people you'll realise why you stopped hanging out lol, but most times it's a happy reunion.

No. 718575

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What's a decent ad-blocker?

No. 718577

>>718575
Mmmmmwhat is this photo? Looks cool

No. 718578

>>718555
why do you want friends

No. 718606

>>718575
uBlock Origin. do NOT install AdBlockPlus or uBlock (I know, confusing, there's a long story behind it and it involves really shady shit).

t. ITfag

No. 718608

>>718577
It's wayracosplay's Patchouli Knowledge cosplay, though with some artistic liberties. If you like this sorta style, you might like mori kei, pink house kei and otome

https://j-fashion.fandom.com/wiki/Otome_(Classic)

No. 718612

>>718575
I just use Adblock, and it works great.
>>718606
nta, but tell us the story!

No. 718619

>>712789
you started it right? 6 days left b

No. 718629

>>718612
sure, I don't mind!

>the first iteration of the "uBlock" extension is first released in 2014 by developer Raymond Hill

>completely open source, meaning anyone can view the extension's code and even contribute to it if they want
>Raymond didn't want to profit off of his extension, refused donations
>Raymond believes that donations should go towards the people who maintain the blocklists that power adblockers, since those people are doing most of the work (I won't go into detail here, but adblockers are by no means "automatic". there is someone who has manually created a list of blacklisted websites that prevent ads from loading on webpages)
>eventually, managing the repo becomes too difficult for Raymond, so he gives up ownership of the repo to someone named Chris Aljoudi in 2015
>Chris creates the website "ublock.org" that promotes uBlock and asks for donations, essentially monetizing the extension in a way that Raymond disagreed with
>due to the nature of open source code repositories, Raymond immediately forks the uBlock repo (meaning he created a copy of it) and starts working on it again because he realizes he fucked up by letting Chris take over
>calls this new repo "uBlock Origin"
>during this time, around 2016 Adblock Plus announces they're starting an "Acceptable Ads" program whereby ad publishers can pay Adblock Plus to allow their ads through the adblocker (so long as they conform to a specific set of standards), thereby defeating the purpose of an adblocker entirely
>in 2018, the creators of Adblock Plus acquired the original uBlock codebase owned by Chris
>as of 2019, uBlock now has the same "Acceptable Ads" bullshit that Adblock Plus has

let me know if you have any questions or need me to clarify something. I tried to explain the shitshow the best I could.

No. 718636

>>718608
Oh i thought it was some sorta neo babushka vibe

No. 718692

>>714317
bitch it's been 6 days and i hope you haven't already fallen down that horrid loophole but it's definitely not worth getting into unless you're already one of those people who loves being in fandoms/obsessing over forms of media. in that case go ahead and enjoy the curated groups until you realize every group is the same shit differently packaged.

the performances can be entertaining, but the boy groups tend to get overwhelming in their ""manly"" performances. there is an abundant amount of pretty girls because (as usual) the female groups are held to a higher standard than the male groups, so they're expected to be prettier on the average if you want to even dream of being relevant compared to the average ugly gookscrote that debuts and gets away with just 'personality'. the music is usually western producers' throwaways/reject tracks or something resembling what was popular in US pop music n-2 years back, just treat it as junk food. getting into kpop also means you'll associate yourself with people who project so hard onto groups that they start believing the achievements of the group are their own successes in life in order to find meaning with the fact that they just spend x amount of days replaying a music video to break the record of the month like an automated drone. not saying that you will end up like that, but these are the types of people prevalent in kpop fandoms. it happens with western pop too but i feel like kpop purely survives off that unhealthy obsession teens tend to get.

IF you're going to check them out anyway then i will at least try to guide your ears from hearing the atrocious current state of kpop. a few groups do release some gems and godly albums but they're far and few in between and you're likely not even checking for that many artists in the first place. i'll second what the other anon said in listening to red velvet albums. bts have genuinely good songs/albums pre-2017 so check those out, anything after is their sound for when they sold their souls to murica. blackpink are gorgeous and glorified instagram models, their stages are interesting to watch because they're guaranteed to be wearing lavish clothes which matches that artificiality that kpop is centered around anyway. if you want to watch hot girls who can put on a show and look sexy while doing it then go ahead and check more of their stuff out. or just follow them on instagram.
>g-idle
>loona solo & units, not their complete groupwork
>taeyeon
>taemin
>exo (fan favorite album is exodus, personal favorite is ex'act)
>gfriend
>aoa (but don't expect any more new music from them)
i believe taemin's best album is 'press it', some amazing songs. unlisted because i don't usually like their sound but 'ikon - return' is another fantastic album. you can't go wrong with anything on taeyeon's discography and g-idle have consistently enjoyable singles (that's harder for kpop groups than you'd think).

every group/artist has videos on youtube about their daily life/backstage/music video filming/etc if you're interested in that. sorry i sound so negative, i just really don't think kpop has any value whatsoever as someone who liked it for a very long time. like, you'd have to be depressed or just one of those people who enjoy getting really invested in your hobbies to love it.

No. 718743

Why would it be a bad thing to cut off your parents and family that you have a neutral relationship with?

No. 718753

Should I message someone that I've never spoken to but blocked on discord because they indirectly hurt me in a very serious very fucked up way, send them a rude message, and then block them again?

Feeling a bit chaotic tonight ladies

No. 718763

>>718743
You're not obligated be in connection with anyone you don't want to, but if you cut them off without having a negative relationship, they're probably gonna try to contact you again to ask why you cut them off. Or they might think something is wrong and you're inn trouble or something. Idk, I guess it just depends on how you cut them off.

>>718753
No. It may feel good when you send the message, but you're gonna feel bad about it later. It's better to channel that energy into moving on

No. 718769

>>718763
Samefag, it's also not fair to be rude to someone who didn't even mean to hurt you, and probably doesn't think about you at all

No. 718777

>>718753
No that's a horrible idea
You're the better person when you just forget they exist. Don't let them know they rent space in your noggin

No. 718781

>>718753
Everyone is saying no, but i did this to my abusive ex and it felt REALLY good lol

No. 718783

how do i stop a specific ho from living in my head all the time? i don't like her and i've blocked her from everything, but i still think about yelling at her/making her feel bad because she hurt me.
i know that that is crazy and i want to do something better with my time, but i'm still on lockdown so there is nothing to do BUT obsess over some stupid fuck.

No. 718784

What does mog / mogging mean?

No. 718793

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>>718784
Idk what the exact term means, but it's basically when one attractive and someone who's less attractive stand together, making the difference in their appearances super noticeable, pic related, Tom Hiddleston is being mogged by the hot dude. The hotter person either intentionally or unintentionally causes a comparison and makes it obvious they are hotter just from being next to the less-hot person I sound like an incel lmao

Men also use it for when girls with big boobs stand next to girls with small boobs.

No. 718795

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>>718793
Samefag, sorry, Tom is photoshopped in this one. Pic is the original, but it doesn't really matter cause he's still getting mogged in this one too

No. 718796

>>718781
An abusive ex & a person who hurt your feeling but who you've never spoken to from discord are totally situations though

No. 718814

>>718793
i guess i'm just anti-chad now because all the hot guys in my life turned out to be awful. i don't find tom hot but looking at the guy on the left, meh. i doubt incels would actually get that reasoning instead of reeeing about women choosing chad all the time.

No. 718833

>>718795
tom is the one mogging this square head generic man

No. 718838

Is biology set in stone for genders or is it a suggested average? I am a bit confused on that and often hear people use it for gender differences. Sorry, my question is a bit vague I am curious if anyone has an idea about this?

No. 718839

>>718769
Maybe indirect was the wrong word. They said they wanted to be my friend then fucked my then-bf

Either way I'm over it and not gonna do it

No. 718841

>>718838
What does this even mean, are you high anon? Be honest. I mean, if you look at bones of a typical male and a female, like, with no weird tlc docuseries type of disease, you could easily tell them apart. What are you looking for today?

No. 718845

>>718841
no, like I mean in the sense of things like
"men are smarter than women"
type arguments. Not anatomical
sorry, I realize there is a big area in biology.

No. 718850

>>718845
Then you'll have to dive into what "smart" means, what society deems as a valued trait/skill and which gender has had access to schooling for how long and how readily etc. In my humble opinion, men ain't shit.

No. 718853

>>718850
It's an example, I am asking in a general sense for things that do with ability outside of anatomical differences, are they really set in stone or a suggested average?
basically my question is, for things like men being more'logical' than women type studies. I looked into studies and they are treated as proof so I was curious if anyone knew biology knew if parts of biology are suggested averages meaning it is believed by that biologist not an actual fact. This is more or so is parts of biology opinion and not factual or is all of it considered factual until proven otherwise.

No. 718856

>>718853
Nah sis. again you'd have to look into who conducted the research and why.

No. 718858

>>718845
There's no complete answer to this because even among experts in the field there's a lot of debate and uncertainty. The situation isn't so simple that we can say one sex is more "logical" than the other because even that has too many varied and broad meanings. What we know is that there are sex-based influences on the brain but what that means or how it plays out, researchers are still trying to determine. Certain things they discovered:

>The brains of women exhibit significantly stronger patterns of interconnectivity across brain regions-including across the hemispheres-than do the brains of men, which conversely exhibit significantly greater average connectivity within local brain regions

>The hippocampus was more prone to immune-type gene reactions in females than in males, while the superior frontal gyrus was more susceptible to immune-type gene reactions in males than in females.

Again, what this means for us health-wise or what behaviors it may indicate, they're still studying. Hormones in utero (with the addition of socialization) also play a large role in how people develop so nurture is definitely a component in addition to biology. Here's some info in an article: https://www.dana.org/article/equal-≠-the-same-sex-differences-in-the-human-brain/

No. 718859

>>718858
So, what I got from this is that they are suggested I guess? How come people treat all of biology as fact then?

No. 718860

>>718859
Everything in science is very much "until proven otherwise" rinse and repeat

No. 718862

>>718859
Basically we know brains are equal in the sense that all of them have a "mosaic" of male/female traits, but in addition to that, sex-related differences do exist. We know for sure the green text stuff is true, but if that means women are more capable of synthesizing dissimilar data or more at risk for Alzheimer's or any other number of conclusions, that's what isn't so clear yet. Why do people treat certain research conclusions as immutable fact? Ignorance, a desire for easy answers, wanting to confirm a personal bias? No reasons that are particularly logical.

No. 718863

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Does anyone know the name of this one male crossplayer I’m thinking of? I think his online handle started with a W, and I remember one specific video he made and posted about coming back to his room and stripping out of his cosplay (I think it was of chara in pic). He first saunters into frame all sensual before ripping off his boob plate, pulled out his hip pads while yelling, vigorously scrubbed off his make up, and then jumped face first onto a bed. It might not have been this exact character but the outfit was similar design except the base color was red, and the character had a fan.

No. 718866

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>>718863
Mai Shiranui?

No. 718870

>>718866
YES! That’s the character, thanks anon! I was able to finally google him up lol the cosplayer is Wirru if anyone else was wondering!

No. 718871

>>718853
Science is a constant battle to either prove or disprove something. some things can be done to precision (say speed of gravity on earth) some things can only be generalized and we would need to use averages to assume. and until someone comes along with evidence to the contrary its assumed as factual as can be.

for example your question are men smarter than women.
No, on average women are smarter than men. this is proven through IQ tests (ignore whether thats a suitable metric) however that is generalized across the population. looking at the charts you see more men at the top end and bottom end with women in the center of the bell curve. but that is one set of variables measuring a certain type of intelligence.

there are clearly difference between male and female brain activity and function as pointed out by >>718858 how and what/why exactly is unknown. much like anything not fully understood people will come up with theories based on evidence gathered. its then down to the community to test the theory and prove/disprove.

No. 718884

>>718862
>>718871
Okay, so like last two questions then.
Do you think that research in the past and maybe present have underlying sex bias? (Like someone using a study to conclude that men are better than women,etc.) Biology is often used as presentative of differences between genders and sometimes used to justify putting another gender down. I wonder if this also applies to people in that type of work or education, where some people use it for that type of thing. I understand there are differences but I also see that newer studies tend to call out older ones as false.
Conflicting studies like are brains gendered, is one I stumbled upon. One study suggest it is, another one said AI could only tell around 80% of the time the gender of the person(saying 20% of brains didn't follow norm of their gender), and some other one said that conclusion of gendered brain failed to look at other functions of brain and therefore study is heavily flawed.
How do you know which one is accepted theory if they all exist at the same time?I found myself talking to someone about this and I was confused as to why some things are treated as fact but then get proven wrong but still are viewed right.

No. 718904

>>718884
>Do you think that research in the past and maybe present have underlying sex bias
There are bias everywhere, science should be able to eliminate it. generally in the past it would as the scientific process went through its motions and people were eager to discover new things. Now with so many corporate interests involved things get a bit murkier.
>Conflicting studies like are brains gendered, is one I stumbled upon.
we have no real knowledge of how brains work, throw in the troon factor and it gets super messy as anything that could show it in a negative light is usually buried. Most advocates are usually trooned out doctors or super woke allies that are willing to bend aspects of known science to fit their narratives. you will find most respected will either not touch the subject or give a very non committal answer as to not enrage the troon crowd and possibly sink their career.
>How do you know which one is accepted theory if they all exist at the same time?
by proving or disproving them. this can take X amount of time and may not even be in your lifetime or ever
>I found myself talking to someone about this and I was confused as to why some things are treated as fact but then get proven wrong but still are viewed right.
that depends on what subject(s) you are talking about. i mean Flat Earth falls under that, hard to explain why they believe in it as much as they do against all evidence.
With various lobby groups. think tanks, cash and other incentives. its not hard to get a group of funding strapped scientists to agree/publish something 'expected' by using data in 'exotic' ways to push a theory.

science is now a business unfortunately and particulary with social sciences and theoretical where no clear answer is present. its the side that has the most support that is usually heard/recognized more (regardless if it is correct).
If something is repeated enough, long enough. its all people know and they will happily parrot it back unaware of the inaccuracies

No. 718913

I know getting angry at video games is a turn off but what about just screaming in general at games? I'm a super reactionary person in general bc I zone out and then am caught off guard by shit happening around me which is why I get spooked easily. I'm notably loud when I play games bc I get freaked out and scream when I get caught off guard. I guess I'd make an entertaining streamer (jk I'm a woman who cares) but most people tend to dislike this kind of thing bc I guess it seems like I'm overreacting in their eyes. My ex kind of resented it and his roommates did as well (for obvious reasons) so I'm wondering if this is really bad and if it's something that I need to work on.

No. 718919

Are Edwin and Mina still dating? It’s been so long since I’ve been to the Dasha thread and last I heard, Cyr was a cuck and Dasha was whoring herself to pay the bills.

No. 718931

>>718913
I don't know if you reacting to a game in general would be the annoying bit so much as how extreme your response is. It would be funny the first few times but imagining you playing for an hour and screaming every five minutes at an enemy popping out would be very distracting and irritating, yes. I find both male and female streamers like that super grating as well. It's obviously not a big deal if it happens when you're alone but it would be nice if you could try to be considerate when you're around other people.

No. 718932

Does anyone else autistically and repeatedly rewind parts of a youtube video or a show/movie over and over again because you like the way and actor said a certain thing or found it funny?

No. 718938

>>718932
lol yes i also take screencaps if it's really good and memeable

No. 718945

>>718932
Yes! or hot

No. 718949

>>718932
I usually do this when I feel like there's ASMR potential in a video

No. 718955

Where did the slang 41% for suicide come from? I've never heard of it before but I've been on LC for 5 years.

No. 718959

>>718955
41% of transes commit (or attempt?) suicide or something like that afaik

No. 718960

>>718955
I'm pretty sure it comes from an old statistic about the percentage of trans people in the U.S. who have attempted suicide. Not sure where it really picked up popularity as a meme though, sorry. Outside of here, I've only heard it in one of my college classes.

No. 718966

>>718960
I guess in either right wing or terf circles because troons always beat people over the head with that statistic as proof that they're the most oppressed minority ever.

No. 718968

Is there any hope for LGBT communities when galaxy-brained online discourse is leaking in real life? Even separate L, G or B communities (who cares about the T here lol) are so messy now because no one can agree or politely disagree on literally anything regarding our history and culture or even basic definitions.

No. 718974

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should i bleach my hair white? i want to grow it long and i'm afraid a girl will think i am trying to copy her but i don't like my current color, it's a little more yellow than pic related. what should i expect if i do it?

No. 718984

>>718968
nah. there will only continue to be more infighting over shit that doesn't matter

No. 718986

>>718974
Have you tried purple shampoo anon? I bleached my hair platinum blonde and when I don't use purple shampoo it looks like your picture, but when I do it looks like it's almost white. You could try that

No. 718989

>>718974
If you have long-hair goals I'd stay the fuck away from bleach.

No. 718991

>>718974
if you care about keeping your hair soft use toner, not bleach

No. 719003

>>718991
>>718986
i use purple conditioner and my hair is lighter from it. i just love how white hair looks, it's so witchy and otherwordly. i hope to get white hairs early.
>>718989
you are right, yet i think, how worse can it get from one more round?
>>718991
i will learn more about this

No. 719027

why does the word incel even exist? the -cel comes from celibate which means abstinence is what you WANT to do. "involuntary celibate" is basically an oxymoron

No. 719028

>>719027
That suits them well, since they are morons who waste Oxy-gen

No. 719032

>>719027
yeah it's dumb, but what do you expect. ot but in one of their memes, the ddlg girl says something like "my go-to insult is incel because I only measure things in sex" (my memory is poor sorry)
no, you idiots, most of us call you incels because that group hates women and it's gross. if someone's a virgin or celibate I could care less personally. men invented the term "incel" themselves, we're just catching how you act. in fact it's incels who are obsessed with sex anyway. had to sperg on this term it's so dumb

No. 719036

>>719027
I mean after a while they gave up on even trying to make it make sense when decyphering. Their terminology is hilarious when every trait is another form of "incel": ricecel, blackcel, indiancel, tradcel, gaycel, thincel, fitcel, fatcel. Makes me want to collect pokémon stickers of them.

No. 719040

>>719028
kek anon

>>719036
hadn't heard of all those.i only new femcel and volcel.what a masive cope lol

No. 719041

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>>711877
What should I have for breakfast?

No. 719042

>>719036
I always thought femcel was the weirdest because I can't place a woman in the incel category. I guess double standards but… The sex oppression and general less entitlement/aggression is really in the way of it making sense but incels are not so self-aware it seems (they think it's normal to feel they're owed sex idk, even the thirstiest women I've seen would blame themselves first)

No. 719045

>>719041
idk what you have available but the first thing that popped in my head was sweet crepe with a chocolate spread and banana slices

No. 719053

>>719045
anon you’re a fucking genius. I can make pancakes. I have no chocolate but it doesn’t matter.

No. 719054

>>719053
glad i helped somehow. have a good breakfast anon :)

No. 719085

Is it possible to not be bothered by the casual use of the word autistic when calling people dumb? My sibling is on the spectrum and while I know people throwing it on the internet isn’t anything derogatory towards them, it boils my blood to see it being used as an insult. It’s gotten to the point where I’ve weaned off (mostly male) friends from my life. I know it’s internet culture and I need to accept it but it’s fucking hard. I just want to be able to browse the internet without taking shit personally.

No. 719088

Is Nikocado Avocado sexist/does he have issues with women? I found him kind of funny but I had to unsubscribe cause I kept getting bad vibes.

No. 719089

Does anyone know that song with the male singer with a high voice that goes ahahahaaaaa? I know he's Black and American. Probably in the R&B scene.

No. 719095

>>719085
I mean, one thing is throwing it around on an anonymous forum, but actually talking like that with your friends, and possibly irl too, is fucking stupid.
Of course it’s okay to get annoyed if not disgusted by the people using it on social circles, that means they’re some rude fucks that don’t deserve your time nor patience and if they can’t figure out why, maybe they’re just brain dead, so block and move on.

No. 719099

>>719085
I used to have similar feelings and found I just needed to disconnect from it. Like you said, random people on the internet aren’t trying to insult your sibling so why take it so personally? Not only do you gain nothing by reacting, you’re also upsetting yourself. It takes a while to stop reacting but just keep reminding yourself that it’s not about you or your sibling. No point in getting unproductively mad.

Reposting to add that you used “dumb” in your post which upsets some people due to it’s historical associations with deaf/mute people. I doubt it was intentional so maybe it gives you some perspective on how people ignorantly use “autistic”?

No. 719102

>>719089
Same anon; it was Maxwell singing This Woman's Work.

No. 719105

>>719088
he seems to me to be overall unhinged without any specific biases against anyone regardless of gender

No. 719108

>>719099
>>719095

Thank you for the responses. Someone I know thought I was being irrational for being annoyed by it but I feel heard here. There is no point in being mad, that’s true. I will just try harder to curate my online experience.

As for the usage of the word dumb, I had no idea that it made that community feel that way. It’s so commonplace that I never bothered to look up the historical context of the word. That does help a lot with putting things into perspective, thank you.

No. 719126

Anons, how do you stop feeling sad when your longtime triend deletes you off social media or leaves your gc/server?

It's very stupid to feel sad about it because I havent talked to this person in a year, thanks to him selling himself out and hanging out with people who were known for being rude and hurting others, including me. But I saw that he quietly left my private server this morning and now I'm feeling sad about it. Meh. Though in the end I was the one to always reach out and talk to him anyway, he could have msgd himself. But still, he was a nice friend.

No. 719133

>>719126
maybe he doesn't like group chats? i know a friend who hates being in any because they are too active or impersonal. another guess is those friends told him something bad about you. i think with losing friends, it's normal. there will come new friends, and you can always cherish the old memories together. i have old friends who we fallen out with and i don't feel like talking to them to be honest because we became very different, but i still like the memories and would consider them a friend.

No. 719136

>>719133
saged because i'm blogposting, actual advice is, look for new friends and focus on new memories. think what went wrong with this one and improve yourself from it

No. 719184

Are there that many driverspergs here or they're just a few terminally online girls who can't shut up about him? The containment thread is surprisingly active.

No. 719185

>>719184
Tinfoil: The Adam Driver containment thread is a psyop to finally give some speed to the /m/ board

No. 719186

>>719184
>a few terminally online girls
you know lolcow is 18+ right? Weird way to refer to your fellow women

No. 719187

>>719186
what a weird hill to die on. are you one of those who think lolcow is a radfem site just because we don't like trannies?

No. 719188

>>719187
Nah, it just sounded condescending as hell. Maybe I misunderstood your intention but idk from your reply

No. 719189

>>719186
There are a lot of teenagers here, they just don't say it

No. 719190

>>719188
AYRT, anons here call cows and even each other bitches and thots all the time, which I consider far more offensive than girls. Also grown women can easily be terminally online too.

No. 719191

>>719189
You can't prove that though. Also how do you know that the supposed ghosteens are camping in the AD thread? Weird assumption to make.

My question is why is /m so dead? it's literally the coolest board here. Very underappreciated. Do you guys not enjoy talking about books, movies or tv series? Or do you have an outlet for those conversations elsewhere?

No. 719192

>>719191
Even the anime, manga and game threads are almost dead, despite lolcow supposedly having originated in weeb cosplay communities…

No. 719194

>>719191
Nta but I've seen a few threads that belong there get necro'd in /ot/ lately and then subsequently get moved to /m/ so I kinda thought it would be picking up steam by now. I personally check each board several times throughout the day but don't always contribute to the threads. I just like seeing what media everyone else is talking about. The dress-up thread stays poppin' no matter what though. That thread I will contribute to a lot.

No. 719196

>>719191
I can't speak for other anons but I don't think /m/ is a great medium for discussing specific books or shows.

No. 719197

Does anyone else get "rapey" vibes from people they know personally? There's a man in my life who gives me that feeling and I try to suppress it but he still makes me uncomfortable

No. 719202

>>719197
Yes, loads of them. It’s worse when they’re simultaneously attractive, like my manager at work who looks at me like a hungry shark

No. 719207

>>719191
I don't really like discussing anime or books, I never shared it with friends either growing up, and never felt the need, so I don't even really know what you can say other than "I like this!". I do shitpost on /a/ occasionally, but that's not really what the /m/ thread is for.

No. 719210

>>719196
I would ask 'how can we change that?', but I guess we can't since I assume the problem is not enough people…
Do you know any other female-oriented places to discuss those topics?
>>719207
You don't feel the need to analyze specific parts of the story, themes, characters or even technicalities? That's interesting in it's own way, didn't run into people like you before.

No. 719211

>>719210
Nah, I'm the kind who will read the whole wiki and even maybe whole forum discussions on an anime, but I don't feel like I need to say anything about it. It doesn't help that I drop more shows than I finish nowadays though or just watch old shit because half of the new seasons are "The XXXX of Z, season 34 part 3".

No. 719254

does anyone have that meme of Andrea Dworkin with joker makeup that says "we live in a patriarchy"? I'm 98% sure it actually exists

No. 719257

I know this site is populated by weebs and koreaboos but does anyone else like really thin eyebrows?

No. 719260

>>719257 are we talking chola thin?

No. 719269

>>719260
Maybe not so thin but I like them too but on a goth

No. 719283

Is it better to be delusional and confident or self-aware and insecure?

No. 719287

>>719257
I love them on others who suit them!

No. 719289

>>719283
Neither are good imo

No. 719321

>>719283
I would say insecurity is more repellent to other people/opportunities than delusion, so imo delusional confident people get much farther in life and have more friends.
>tfw all four at once

No. 719348

Do guys really make fun of girls with roasties in real life? I’m so scared of having sex because I don’t want them to think my genitals are disgusting and to laugh at me with their friends.
>inb4 “don’t have sex with guys who are assholes”
Men are deceitful and you hardly ever know who they really are

No. 719352

Now that Jojo Siwa is more or less confirmed to like girls, what celebrities do you think are going to come out in 2021? Whether LGB or "i like [the same sex]" or "queer" or troon/fakeboi. I personally think Harry Styles will come out as nonbinary so he can be considered a "queer icon" while still avoiding the sexual orientation question.

No. 719358

>>719352
Didn't Jojo just sing born this way? I don't think that makes her gay lmao

No. 719360

>>719191
I just think their taste in most series and characters is awful tbh.

No. 719364

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>>719358
She also posted this, also she is said to have a bond bracelet with a female friend.

No. 719377

Let's say you accidentally get chewy vitamins meant for teens instead of adults (not sure if they even make any for adults tbh), how many should an adult take for it to be effective? The label says teens should take two but nothing about other ages.

No. 719382

How does everyone and their grandmother have Photoshop? Are they all downloading it illegally somehow? From what I remember, the program used to cost several hundred, but now it looks like you simply pay a monthly fee? I’ve never used it and am really out-of-the-loop.

No. 719388

>>719377
I would just take the same dose a teen should

About once a year I find myself thinking about starting vitamins, then I google it and it shows the same results saying they barely do anything. Don't know whether to bother then

No. 719395

>>719382
>Are they all downloading it illegally somehow?
Of course, anon.

No. 719407

>>719382
Yes, you download it illegally. Nobody wants to pay monthly for one program tbh

If you or anyone else is looking for multiple versions of photoshop for free, check birdysources on tumblr.

No. 719414

>>719377
Google what the recommended adult daily intake for the included vitamins is and then compare it to what's listed on the bottle. If you're taking it for general health I doubt it would make much difference because you would still be getting most of your vitamin intake from your diet. If you're taking it because you know you're deficient in something, you would be better off taking a specific supplement.

>>719382
Nearly everyone I know just torrents a crack. I been using the same crack for years. There's also some decent free alternatives. If you're using windows and want an image editor that's better than MS paint, there's paint.NET, Krita and GIMP.

No. 719420

>>719407
>>719414
I think it’s about time that I enter the 21st century and learn how to edit photos properly. Thanks, anons!

No. 719437

Is collagen a meme or does it actually help with skin / hair?

No. 719438

>>719437
It does help skin but it will not do miracles

No. 719440

>>719437
Anon we literally make collagen lol

No. 719443

>>719438
Aw rip. Any suggestions? I am a complete noob.

No. 719444

Would it be retarded to include a little thank u note and a doodle with the books i just sold and am about to send

No. 719445

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No. 719447

>>719443
tbh, gummy vitamins
collagen = gelatin

No. 719449

>>719437
you need to get the 4 type supplement. some types collagen don't do anything for certain people but there is a lot of evidence that the body uses it(when taken as the oral supplement) like our own.

No. 719452

>>719445
Lmao I'm sorry if my post seems obvious. My point was that, yes, it does. We naturally produce it and it helps improve the health and look of our skin and hair, so if you take supplements (or those filler injections) it will help your skin.

No. 719455

>>719444
I always appreciate that shit

No. 719457

>>719444
No! I think it's really sweet when sellers take a little time to write a note and include a lil bonus item.

No. 719462

I just saw the pic of some anon posting her boobs and I'm fucking horny now. I don't even watch porn and since I'm too busy with work and such I don't have much time to read kinky stuff. Now I find myself barely being able to focus on work. Is this how scrotes and their coomer brains work most of the time? I feel like a pervert lol

No. 719474

Can someone explain the pro-ana scumbags thread to me? I feel like I’m reading a different language when I look at that thread. Is everyone ripping on the girls for being too skinny or not skinny enough?

No. 719486

>>719474
I know it's other anachans posting there, but idk. They criticize the "cows" there for being anorexic, but also call recovered anorexics fat so… I think the hypocrisy is just a symptom of being an anachan who feels like they are better than other anorexic people.

No. 719490

>>719455
>>719457
Okay, I was getting kinda self concious whilst packaging, like would it be weird and all that. Overthinking do be making me lose it at times!

No. 719499

What do they be talking about in the finn thread? Idk why, but I feel like it's some crazy shit

No. 719500

>>719474
There's some cows that are "wannarexics", so just people that want to be considered anorexics, because of the attention and pity it brings while obviously being in a completely normal weight range. The sickly girls I think they mock for being in denial or enjoying the attention too much.

No. 719513

Saw a discussion under a music vid lately, about Lady Gaga having fibromyalgia. A bunch of other fibro people were talking about how she absolutely is faking it and how there's no way she'd be dancing in vids if she had it. I googled 'lady gaga fibromyalgia' and the results were pretty much her saying she feels like she's dying the day after vids are shot.

I thought fibro people had this thing where they hate anyones fibro diagnosis being questioned??

I've only ever vaguely known two of them irl and one was a single mother with a load of kids (two conceived post diagnosis) the other was actvely trying to get pregnant when I last caught up with her… I mean raising kids is kind of physically taxing so how is every facebook fibro support group full of women actively adding to their family but dancing is unheard of…what?

No. 719520

When do you guys think you should stop splitting bills on dates?

Imo, it's fine to split until you become "serious" (as in start dating or seriously considering each other as partners), and then either the bf or whoever planned the date should pay. I'm especially interested in what lesbian anons have to say, cause there is no "the man should always pay"

No. 719523

>>719513
Oh my god anon I was gonna post about something similar yesterday! On PULL there was a thread girl who had lots of medical issues most of them being something like pelvic stuff and if I am not mistaken, also fibro. I have lots of invisible medical stuff wrong with me and the fact that these people, including the ones under that gaga video can't understand that you sometimes just have to suck it up, do stuff that needs to be done and be in absolute fucking bits later on is annoying as shit. Especially when it's coming from people who share your diagnosis, like people aren't built the same, some are sicker than other, some can hide their pain better or just long enough for no one to even realise. Gaga's apparent substance abuse not too long ago was also sad, if you deal with a condition like that, being called a tranny and all that, even normies can fall back on drugs and booze in order to handle pain. I hate munchies but I hate it when people just assume you're okay because you are not posting gefunden, all the breakdowns and look presentable most times. Sorry for hijacking your post, anon but I had to.

No. 719524

>>719499
One girl who's a prostitute who ended up on national TV in a mini-documentary about her sex work, and another who was a prominent internet famous makeup artist and has recently trooned out. She said she chopped her titties off due to breast cancer risk on her twitter, but claimed it was dysphoria in an instagram story. In a nutshell.

No. 719527

>>719520
In my experience, men are on their “best behavior” during the first few dates. The more serious men I’ve dated always insist on paying because they’re trying to make a good impression, but the ones who just want to fuck around are more likely to be 50/50 type of guys because they’re chasing several other tinder matches. The ones who really like you want to impress you.

No. 719528

>>719520
Honestly I never split the bill, I'll either just pay for it or I'll get the next one. If it's a first date it's just whoever extended the invitation. I've never been in a relationship where we split the bill when it comes. I think it gets a bit petty sometimes and I'd never want to be with someone who was like "hey you owe me $2.43 can you venmo me" when I could just pay for the next round of drinks or the next dinner.

No. 719532

>>719499
I can tell you: atm it's about old local weeb drama, the ones who were into visual kei, gyaru and shit like that. One dude was a grooming fuck and is now a photographer who shoots young female ice dancers (skating yano), ex gyarus and their ugly bfs aaand the latest is a makeup person ex alt model chopping her boobs off and being a vtuber. There was also this twitter cow who had a mini document done on her that was about sex work: chaos ensued as surprisingly people have opinions and will voice them. She hates it when people who are actually minorities and/or victims of human trafficking try to politely tell her about their own views. We have fun.

No. 719535

Can swagbucks ban you if you use a fake zipcode on the surveys? I just feel weird using my real one to random surveys

No. 719536

>>719535
idk about fake zip code but i always put in fake details in surveys and i’ve never been banned

No. 719543

>>719535
No, though you should probably use the same one every time. I use the same fake details over and over.

No. 719546

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>>719532
Idk what’s going on over there but I saw this bitches tik toks on Instagram and had to block her

No. 719550

>>719546
Her voice is gross, can't blame you. She has gone back and forth claiming to be cis and trans, funny shit.

No. 719556

How do I not get jealous over my bf watching twitch thots? I'm insecure as fuck and I don't think I can handle the stress of it, I think I'd rather be alone than go through insecurity like this

No. 719557

>>719556
You should be jealous anon. He's not watching those girls for their gameplay.

No. 719559

>>719557
Yeah I realize why he watches them

No. 719561

>>719556
Stock lc response but: leave him. No man is worth your mental health.

No. 719562

>>719556
>I think I'd rather be alone than go through insecurity like this
Please do leave him, I promise you'll feel better afterwards. If he's more interested in jacking off to e-prostitutes then he doesn't deserve to be in a relationship. There are so many other decent guys out there who actually enjoy being with a real woman and focusing on her rather than constantly consuming softcore porn and staring at strangers all day. If a partner isn't adding anything to your life and in fact directly taking away from it (by making you feel uncomfortable and unworthy) then they deserve to be dumped.

No. 719564

>>719562
The problem is I am incredibly insecure and it doesn't impact the relationship in any way except for me having the knowledge that he watches them (no idea how often, could be every day, could be not often). It makes it worse knowing exactly who it is, too. I think he wishes he could be with someone who looks like her and he just settled for me.

No. 719575

>>719564
>it doesn't impact the relationship in any way except for me having the knowledge that he watches them
I mean, that's plenty reason right there. You are allowed to have whatever boundaries you want in the relationship. Personally even setting aside the fact he's watching streamers who lean on sex appeal to sell themselves, partnering up with someone who spends a lot of time on Twitch in the gAmInG cOmMuNiTy is such a huge turn-off I'd never abide by it (and I'm speaking as someone who's played video games since I was 12). He's a big boy and can decide if he wants to abide by your wishes or not, and you're allowed to leave over anything you like whether others feel it's a big issue or not.
>he wishes he could be with someone who looks like her and he just settled for me.
Again, if he's not really tuned into the relationship and you as an individual, why is he with you? Why are you with him? The answers to both of those questions are not positive or healthy.
>The problem is I am incredibly insecure
I agree, work on your self esteem so you develop actual standards and feel happy/good about yourself alone before seeking a relationship. You can either waste precious time striving for the love and affection of a braindead scrote only to be disappointed or you can take responsibility for yourself and fix your mindset.

No. 719580

Why am I so tired? I sleep about 15+ hours a day on average and I always want to sleep more. I'm just exhausted.

No. 719581

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No. 719587

>>719580
You probably need a blood test, also sleeping a lot creates a vicious cycle which will make you feel tired

No. 719593

fellow fast foodfags, which franchise would you say makes the best burger?

No. 719597

>>719593
A&W, hands down.

No. 719598

>>719593
not american so i don’t have as much choice but i like five guys a lot

No. 719599

>>719593
In-N-Out

No. 719600

>>719593
Canadian A&W

No. 719603

>>719593
Seconding In-N-Out. I’m an east coast bitch and only got to go to cali once and ate so much in-n-out. It’s so fucking good and so cheap.

No. 719619

>>719593
Carl's Jr. Or Hardee's, depending on the area of the US

No. 719621

>>719600
is there a difference between American and Canadian a&w?

No. 719646

>>719593
habit burger grill in socal, idk how far the chain has spread

No. 719672

>>719645
Oh you.

No. 719679

does anyone laugh when told horrible news or remembering traumatic events? i just upset my mom. Instead of crying my initial reaction is always to laugh, although im just as upset as her. It makes me hate myself sm

No. 719685

>>719679
Yeah but I have managed to control it when I'm with people around so I don't hurt their feelings. My mom knows that I don't think shit is funny but I still laugh so she doesn't mind, when I was in high school and my mom told me my aunt had gotten breast cancer again I laughed. I bet it has to do with me being a severely bullied who turned into a class clown muh humor is muh defense kinda bullshit.

No. 719696

>>719685
I googled it and it sounds like reaction formation. the only way I can stop is by covering my mouth but even then im still trying my hardest to stop smiling behind my hand. I was never bullied so it's so weird. just more proof i'm zany

No. 719708

Why is not wearing makeup considered pickme behavior even if the woman's not putting other women down? Actually what's with people accusing harmless women of being pickmes or NLOGs in general if those women aren't acting like that?

No. 719713

>>719708
Are you assblasted about the hate thread kek

No. 719714

>>719708
internalized misogyny

No. 719718

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>>719708
>Why is not wearing makeup considered pickme behavior

Its not unless you're using it as a means to put other women down. Not sure where you live or what allegedly happened, anon. But I'm totally prepared for the anecdote about how four bitches held you down in the high school bathroom and gave you forty lashes.

No. 719722

>>719713
>>719718
It's something I see online in general though.

No. 719731

>>719708
They've internalized the criticisms towards wearing makeup so they feel judged and attacked by women who don't, even if those women aren't saying anything bad to them personally.

No. 719733

I'm having wisdom tooth surgery soon. Am I dumb for being afraid of taking the pain killer opioids during my recovery? Should I just avoid taking any of them?

No. 719737

>>719708
it is not, the point of qualification for being a pickme is putting other people down. many traddies do it so it's an association maybe. i got called pickme because i had cleavage on a photo so, just remind yourself to take everything on the internet with a pinch of salt.

No. 719741

>>719733
I think you're underestimating how painful it is. If you want to hold off, just take them you start to feel it (that was my surgeon's advice). I tried to power through without them but it just made me miserable lol. You're not going to get addicted, trust me.

No. 719743

>>719733
Do they have to be opioids? I had to look it up, but I read that diclofenac isn’t based on opioids or something and it worked great for me.
Also ice cream, ice and or cold packs are going to become your best friends for the whole process.

No. 719745

>>719733
I didn’t take any when I was recovering from my 4 extractions. Ibuprofen was just fine for me and I was able to manage and stop taking any after 5 days. It’s up to you though and you can have them on hand just in case.

No. 719754

Can you fry frozen fries in butter? I know it sounds weird but I don't like the oily-ness and oil taste homemade fries have. I can't use my oven right now and air fryer too loud to use at night

No. 719776

>>719754
Not a good idea. Fries need very high heat to be done well, but on such high heat butter burns and stinks.

No. 719781

>>719776
I tried it and they came out good. I microwaved the fries first so they would be soft and the butter wouldn't burn, but even when they finished cooking the butter still didn't turn brown. They came out really great tbh! The butter gave them a lil flavor. It's better than oil fried fries imo

No. 719788

>>719781
Okay, Gordon Ramsey. Man, how can people make tasty meals out of any random ingredients they pick put blindfolded, meanwhile I deviate from a recipe by 0.5 grams and it's completely ruined, and am lucky if I don't burn down the house in the process.

No. 719792

>>719788
I feel seen after reading this. I used to think cooking was different from baking in the sense that it's imperative that you follow recipes while baking, but no, I've found with cooking too that if I don't stick to the script then I'm going to be eating a failed dish mixed with tears.

No. 719801

>>719788
Ayrt, I'm super fucking bad at cooking. It's not even a humblebrag, I'm just genuinely bad lmao. I love making sauces (especially for pasta) but I always burn the bottom on the sauce, I forget to wait till the water is boiling to put the pasta/rice in, etc… Last week I made spaghetti burnt the finished product to the bottom of the post cause I forgot to stir it while I was deciding what cheese to use I also usually fuck up baking recipes just a lil because of the deviating from a recipe by like a teaspoon lol

I do like to try random shit in my food tho, but the random stuff always has some rhyme or reason to it. I think that's the key. Yesterday I put part heavy cream and part water in my oatmeal cause I didn't have milk, and it was pretty good. They're both dairy so it just makes sense right? Idk, I think making random stuff work is just a side effect of growing up kinda broke lol. You just have to think about what food is similar to each other.

No. 719809

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any anons here wear wigs and can recommend a website? i did a dumb thing last night

No. 719815

Why do men fuck/seduce women they arent attracted to or dislike just for sex?
Why not just jerk off or use a pocket pussy if they dont like looking at the girl anyway?its one thing that really confuses me

No. 719823

>>719815
for the ego boost of someone deciding to fuck them, same reason women do it tbqh

No. 719830

>>719823
But women only do that to men they find attractive. What's the ego boost in fucking someone you find gross?

No. 719832

>>719830
Men value sex above all else. “I had sex = I’m better than you.” They are that smooth brained.

No. 719833

>>719830
a lot of men are sluts that put quantity above quality.

No. 719835

>>719815
They don't care as long as they had sex. They don't take sex as seriously as women do.

No. 719842

Has it ever happened to you to not be attracted to a particular celebrity, not because you find them ugly or overrated, but because they look too much like a relative or a crappy ex?

No. 719844

>>719842
Javier Bardem looks a lot like my grandma but he could still get it honestly

No. 719847

>>719842
I don’t get crushes easily but there was one girl I followed online who was really hot, until she got the exact same haircut as my ex. She had the same colour too. As soon as I saw, the crush instantly disappeared.

Also realised that my ex looked like a younger, thinner Boris Johnson… I didn’t fancy him but it added an extra layer of repulsion.

No. 719863

why do i attract people who believe that trusting and loving is something stupid that deserves to be exploited?

one come over to my house and steal things and think i'm stupid for going to the toilet and not watching over them. why should i expect a friend to steal from me, or be friends with and invite over someone who i'd have to watch out for in the first place? it makes no sense, when they could have just asked me to lend it to them on the basis of being friends too. and they got a complex over their intelligence and enjoy the power over me. what kind of mental illness is this shit?

No. 719865

>>719842
Samefag, I get why everyone gushes over Gal Gadot, but she reminds me so much of my aunts that thinking of her in that way feels incestuous.

No. 719866

>>719863
Just sounds abusive and narcissistic. If you can you should cut them off, no point in maintaining a relationship with a gaslighting leech.

No. 719874

>>719042
late reply but the term incel was coined by a woman that was an incel kek

No. 719876

>>719874
they called themselves love-shy at first and treated it like an actual condition akin to autism or aviodant personality disorder that normies had to cater to

No. 719883

>>717508
yeah, men in sexually fulfilling relationships who also arent coomers

No. 719891

>>719883
How to find them please? It’s such a struggle and I just want to have safe mutually enjoyable sex but most men are so degenerate

No. 719931

>>719891

Not trying to be a doomer but you might need to lower your expectations a little since this is a hell world.

No. 719958

Has any other anon experienced the sensation of feeling water drops falling on them but there weren't any? I'm at home and it's even dry outside but I was sure my ceiling was leaking because I felt constant dripping on me except there weren't any wet spots on me nor was the ceiling actually leaking. I've searched online and it might be vitamin B12 deficiency but my diet is healthy and I should have no shortage of it considering the type of meals I have. It's not a big issue, it's weird though.

No. 719975

What's with the recent top/bottom obsession in wlw spaces? I mean we always had the stones and pillow princesses, but I thought the majority of women who have sex with women expected their partners to be willing to be both on the giving and the receiving end. Is it just attempting to emulate gay/bisexual male culture?

No. 719989

Why are nearly all Euro countries east to Germany (except Finland and maybe Baltic states for some reason) so utterly fucktarded? Did communism really have us all FUBAR? Does this count as racebaiting (ethnobaiting?)?

t. Romanian

No. 719991

>>719989
>did communism really
yes.
and not only communism but the vultures that came thieving after it to take advantage of the transition period. blame them the most, because it's them and their descendants that are running things around here.

No. 719992

Is it rapey to wake your bf up with a bj? I feel like that's something I'd want to do at some point as a surprise or something

No. 719993

>>719992
You could always just ask his permission in general, and then do it like a week later when he probably doesn't expect it anymore.

No. 719994

>>719991
Of course. Guess I thought other ex-communist Euro states had it slightly better because their anti-communist revolutions weren't as bloody and it seemed to be a more peaceful transition. Maybe we're just even more violent and retarded than the rest.

No. 719996

I'm obsessed with scratching my lips, how tf do i stop??

No. 720005

>>719996
are they itchy or flakey? sugar scrubs brushed with toothbrush help me get rid of the flakes and my lips don't get itchy when they're smooth

No. 720006

how come my most romantic experiences with men have never been dating related? do all scrotes reveal themselves when you actually date them or do i simply have shit taste?

No. 720009

>>720005
Flakey. What scrub would you recommend? I'm an EU anon

No. 720010

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will taking estrogen make me more feminine, nonnies?

pic unrelated, not mine and I'm not a scrote or tranny, I am just a very hairy female with slow growing hair on my head and tired of being masc, also I know that slow growing hair isn't a sign of being feminine OKAY…. It's a stupid questions thread…

No. 720011

>>720010
samefag, *fast growing hair isn't a sign

No. 720022

>>720010
I don't think so unless a doctor tells you you have a deficiency, if you don't have a deficiency taking any supplement can harm you, but especially hormones

No. 720032

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How do I reconcile feeling like a lot of people don't really deserve help with striving to be a more charitable person?

Examples: an obese person who brought diabetes on themselves is asking for money to fix their leg. or, that one case where a criminal teen who fought to get a heart transplant went and got himself killed by his own negligence

Is preserving my efforts for myself and eventually other people who I feel "deserve" it judgemental and selfish?

No. 720038

>>720032
You're perfectly entitled to having those feelings/believes.

And to the last question: no, most people preserve their efforts first and foremost for themselves. We're a selfish race, it's how it is.

No. 720040

>>720032
Stop trying, it's clearly not for you

No. 720041

>>719388
pharmafag, you're right, vitamins are a waste of money. you piss out most of it. You're better off finding out what you're deficient in and eating things that have it

No. 720043

>>720040
What do you mean?

No. 720051

>>720038
Yeah, I know we're selfish fucks on the inside but I'm having trouble with trying to be better and my black-and-white tism brain …

No. 720053

>>720010
You really shouldn't self-medicate that way. You might have the same amount of estrogen as most women, and your body is just not using it efficiently, or your testosterone is relatively high, but that won't lower just because you add in more estrogen. I don't have a full understanding on the subject either, but just don't, or talk to a doctor.

No. 720055

>>720053
>>720010
Seconding. Trannies boast about estrogen making them "soft" and girly teehee but all it will do for you is most likely push your hormones more out of whack and encourage your body to produce MORE testosterone to balance it out

No. 720057

How do I stop caring about politics? In general I mean, I've got sjw brain lmfao.

No. 720077

>>720010
I am a very boyish female (shapeless body, extreme body hair) and I found out I have excess androgens due to PCOS! So the answer might not be estrogen deficiency, but rather reducing male hormones

No. 720110

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how do you tell the difference between a concerning depressive episode and normal levels of grieving? I just want to be happy again anons, I don't know what to do

No. 720117

How do you meet men your type? Physically your type, I mean. Like yeah, you can find guys anywhere, but how do you find your specific type of guy?

No. 720120

>>720117
Figure out where dudes with your ideal body type get their body. Through sports or the gym? They'll be there. For instance I like tall dudes that are athletic my last two boyfriends were into skating and mtb and I fit in easily in those scenes.

No. 720140

Why do I always puke after working out?

No. 720141

if a guy genuinely liked you, would he regularly reach out even if you have a boyfriend?

No. 720143

>>720141
If a guy genuinely likes and respects you, he won't hit on you if you have a boyfriend. Guys like that usually wait until the girl they like breaks up to make their move. Either way, people who hit on ppl in relationships are gross.

No. 720144

>>720140
I think you're overdoing it, anon.

No. 720151

Please explain the renaissence of bimboism to me. I heard about the trend, and watched this video, and it seems like they're implying it's somehow "reclaiming femininity outside the male gaze". How?

No. 720152

>>720151
if you do something that appeals to men of your own volition it's empowering, it's rocket science

No. 720154

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>>720151
Didn't this start from devianart bimbofication fetish shit becoming a meme among "outsiders"? Then zoomer girls and gay troons realized they unironically liked the aesthetic so now they're trying to "reclaim" it from the fetishists or something

No. 720156

Why does Jojo Siwa still dress like a toddler even though she's a teenager? Is it part of her contract?

No. 720158

>>720151
>outside the male gaze

It makes 0 sense because men dont give a shit that they're making a social statement by having sex with older men and dressing like strippers….they still get what they want at the end of the day.

No. 720159

>>720151
in addition to what previous anons said, I think part of it is the huge spike over the past few years in terms of visibility of plastic surgery and exaggerated makeup (IG thot style, etc) - it’s been pretty easy to lean “bimbo” just by following certain recent trends, & that led to bimbo style becoming a trend in itself. also I think there’s an aspect of everyone wanting to be kweer, & bimbo style is a particular mode of high femme, so that makes it appealing to a section of people who want to be “outside the gender binary” without actually being outside it at all

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>>720156
She's appealing to kids so she dresses like how every kid wants to dress if they had the time and money to do so. I think it's better that she dresses like that instead encourage her young audience to dress in a way that appeals to me

No. 720161


No. 720162

>>720156
Didn't she start dressing more maturely last year or so? I remember seeing a picture of her where she looked like the typical instagram hoe

No. 720164

>>720140
You're probably overdoing it..

No. 720167

>>720160
Nta, but I feel like it's pretty weird for Jojo to dress like that considering she's turning 18 soon. People can dress in a way that's not super childish and also not sexual. Idk why you think those two extremes are the only options.

I wouldn't think it's weird if she was just some random girl who happened to like that kind of fashion, but the fact she's a child-star and probably has to do it rubs me the wrong way. She probably only dresses like that for videos and events though.

No. 720170

Are there that many trans teenagers in America that every single recent teen tv show just has to have the token trans character?

No. 720183

>>720170
go back to your containment thread.

No. 720194

>>720183
OK, which one? I thought the /snow/ mtf and fakeboi threads were for certain trans lolcows that didn't warrant their own thread, not for general gc discussion. If only we did have an actual containment thread anymore

No. 720205

speaking of jojo, how did many people suspect she was gay before she came out? what were the signs?

No. 720212

>>720167
If you look on her tiktok she also wears a lot of just leggings/sweatshirt/sneakers, I don’t think she necessarily dresses like a little kid (if a jpop star wore the same things no one would bat an eye?) but her brand is just being very cutesy, I think it’s cool how she combines very cutesy/glittery elements with more of a tomboy style (almost always just wearing pants and a jacket)

No. 720219

>>720205
I guess intentionally choosing a child friendly cutesy image so she wouldn't have to appeal even the least bit to the male gaze counts? Particularly when comparing her to other famous teenagers, like look at Kylie Jenner when she was 17 and all her copycats.

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No. 720223

>>720219
Ooorrr she chose a childlike cutesy image because most of her fans are children and she has tons of products for kids?

No. 720231

>>720223
Samefag, now that I think about it, isn't the way Jojo dresses now the same way she dressed when she was on dance moms as a kid? So it might not even be something she intentionally chose, she just kept the image cause thats how her fans were used to seeing her

No. 720232

>>720205
I definitely did, it was the way she spoke, her voice and just…stance. the over compensating with the bows and shit, idk that's gay radar for you

No. 720238

>>720231
OK, but why keep trying to appeal to little kids in the first place instead of trying to be more "mature"? I just hope she doesn't pull a Billie Eilish when she turns 18, but considering her current fanbase that's already extremely unlikely

No. 720239

>>720238
Afaik, she makes a ton of money from appealing to children so, it makes sense she would keep doing that instead of trying to transition to a more "mature" image. Also, maybe she's in some kind of contract that would prevent her from doing so somehow.

No. 720241

>>720239
The contract part makes the most sense imo, I remember Miley Cyrus already having a huge child fanbase from Hannah Montana that had just finished its last season when she had her first "shocking" transformation with the Can't Be Tamed video.

No. 720409

What’s the best way to go about cheating on someone? Don’t need moral takes, just want to know where to find someone

No. 720411

>>720409
Listen to Call Her Daddy podcast, literally all they do is talk about getting away with cheating and being an extremely toxic partner kek

No. 720412

>>719348
anon, simple answer: it doesn't matter. do not be scared and enjoy your (sex)life.

longer answer: maybe? but lets break it down to likely candidates that you could end up having sex with or not.
a) same position as you, inexperienced. - probably worrying about his own body etc to be hung up on yours.
b) non virgin but unexperienced - would likely compare in their head yours to previous is the extent.
c) someone experienced. - has likely seen different vaginas all different. not a big deal to them.

unlikely candidates (we hope) some r9k tier scrote - hasnt even kissed a girl let alone got far enough to see vagina.

Regardless all 4 of the above are scrotes and just happy to have a women naked. judging the roastie is the last thing on their minds - believe that.

basically roastie/beef curtains/small dick etc are insults usually used by expartners with a grievance as its a cheap shot regardless of accuracy and is intended to insult and hurt.
or online kb warriors who want to do the same but have no other relevant information (or word skills) other than the persons gender.

im sure it has happened and does but the groups of women/men sitting around talking about their parnters genitals are low. Ex partner discussion is more likely but even then names unlikely come into it and would be more of 'yeah i slept with a guy with a tiny/bent/weird/big dick' or yeah i had an ex with big pussy lips. along those lines.

bit rambly so just take the simple answer and dont let this be a thing anon (believe this is a non issue) you dont need mental hangups leading to you not enjoying sex

No. 720413

>>720411
I almost want to get caught tbh. I just hope he either drops dead or finds out, whichever happens first is fine by me, lol.

No. 720415

>>720385
squats, deadlifts, burpees

>>720409
>>720413
Just break up with him?

No. 720431

>>720413
AYRT and literally just break up lmao please provide context cause this is weird.

No. 720442

New thread: >>720441

No. 720555

>>720167
>People can dress in a way that's not super childish and also not sexual
Yes but the in-between way is very boring and boomer-esque. Dressing childish is edgy in its own way.

No. 720586

>>720555
Always gotta be for shock value like a narcissist huh

No. 720644

>>717796 pepe!

No. 723999

what are some gendercrit resources i can read?

like just a masterpost or something.
i need to learn more to fully understand & shake off the sjw shit i learned when i was on tumblr as a kid but i don't know where to find it.

if there even is anything lol idk if it is all just one ideology or a mix of different ones. i'd just like some other viewpoints.



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