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No. 489135

Not trying to vent? Not annoyed? Not asking a dumb question? Post it here.

Previous thread: >>>/ot/477987

No. 489138

Why can't Manlets have sex? They're to short to ride

No. 489141

>wanting to bang a manlet

No. 489143

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what have u guys done that make u happier/more fufilled?

No. 489145

Lesbian sex

No. 489148

finally got the illustration from my visual novel game

it's nothing big but
i am very satisfied

No. 489150

But how? Do you go to lesbian bars? Tinder?

No. 489153

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After years and years of saving money, I finally bought the laptop I've always wanted and I'm really stupidly happy right now. Cannot stop making random folders and deleting them, because I own this laptop. Only me. Me. I have this much power. I can create it and I can take it out of the computer world.

No. 489165

I followed Heidi on twitter to show ~support~ but gah all that elfie shit is so insanely boring

No. 489180

I was finally able to pop the painful ingrown hair on my big toe! It's been fucking weeks. I'm so relieved.

No. 489206


Yeah, I mean I'm not saying I want to see people being sexually assaulted but it's just a matter of principle for me. Like you're polite, super intelligent, and cunning and also love evil? You must be asexual, no way! Polite and even kneeled people can't be hypersexual unlike those wild and bad mouthed people, impossible!

And then you see the irony hits further when radio demon was a serial killer driving my point further.. which is fucking hilarious because the polite and intelligent serial killers are the most sexually sadistic and lustful and brutal. I'm not saying I wanna see rape but they're pushing some idea unintentionally about rapist or creepy males only being slobs and idiots I

No. 489220

Anon I’m so happy for you well done getting what you want

No. 489239

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Not sure if this belongs in here or elsewhere.
Theres this chatting browser MMO, think Club Penguin, being made as a kind of recreation to a defunct one named Fantage (think CP Rewritten).
The beta opened a few days ago and it was a shitshow of bugs. Its only been like 2 days and the admin implemented a safemode restriction for chatting, where you have to pay 20$ to write whatever you want instead of just using a filter or report system.
I don’t know how hard or easy it is to program a game but the admin always seemed greedy to me ($3k donation page where at 1k we get a functioning inventory, 60$ for a day early of access, etc..) but it’s funny to see everyone starting to get upset and turn their backs.

No. 489286

Did you like the netflix Ted Bundy movie if you saw it? The fiction one. They chose not to show (most) of his crimes but they do show him using sex/sexuality to manipulate his long term gf. He did assault his victims and they reveal it at the trial and don't pull punches with how graphic it was.

It's not a perfect movie but you mind find it refreshing anon.

Also maybe for a fully fiction horror rec The Loved Ones? The villain isn't totally sexual in a straightforward way at first but her whole murder thing is clearly is driven by getting off/getting what she wants in an immature and disturbing way.

I also reccomened this film to a lot of women who like horror overall because it's rare to get a film with a female villain and hero who have interesting motivations (the villain has a very "male" way of wanting to keep and conquer her "boys" and the hero girl is the first character to start investigating her bf's disappearance.)

No. 489288

Why are so many female characters fucking princesses, what's wrong with the story of the regular girl since they always shove the average mediocre man in our faces

No. 489289

Yes I did and liked it. It was respectful to the victims except in the trailer. Thanks for the recs anon

No. 489309

NTA but the evil asexual cliche might be done to appear unnatural and unhuman to the audience? Shitty love interests and sexy scenes sell because they're desirable and relatable and most people associate sex with love. So an evil asexual guy means he's otherworldly with no capacity for love/compassion lol. I loathe those awkwardly prolonged softcore sex scenes in every Netflix show but everyone I know thinks I'm weird for it.

No. 489364

It's a weird cliche when you think about it, I mean some of the most abusive and cold hearted people I've met have had insane sex drives as they are driven by their own personal pleasure

There's an anon on here (at least I think I recognise their style when they post) and they have the most intense disliking of people who call themselves asexual, like why?

No. 489367

The sociopaths who make these movies/shows don't want to alert their viewers to the fact the sex addict who values their own pleasure over all is more likely to be the baddie, not the quiet asexual.
Conflating sex with love is another intentional diversion in movies/shows so we consider pleasure-seekers as "loving" instead of narcissistic

No. 489400

I think it's because Hollywood is run by coked up hypersexual sociopaths that may or may not be pedophiles. They want people conditioned to look out for the wrong warning signs because they want it to be easy to take advantage of them. If lions made movies they'd always show zebras being eaten alive by meerkats.

No. 489401

>Hollywood is run by coked up hypersexual sociopaths that may or may not be pedophiles

Never have I read a truer description.

No. 489422

i'm someone who makes fun of everything tumblr-related and stay away from it and i thought that i'd never kin but..

>tfw i start reading a manga

>i really like it so far, nice plot, characters are well drawn, everything is 10/10
>tfw this girl character looks like me
>tfw the girl character also acts like me
>we are basically the same
>she's just a drawing, i'm a human
>suddenly feels somehow connected/related to her
>is this what they call kinning? is this what the majority of tumblr fags are obsessed with and start legit fights over?

i have to kill myself now

No. 489430

what's the manga title?

No. 489432

That's a really good theory, actually. I suspect it's just sociopaths covering their tracks

Anyone into true crime will tell you the most polite, reserved, well spoken and intelligent serial killer tend to be as sadistically hypersexual and fetishist just as bad as the dumb and openly Brutish ones it not more.

Also to the anon who brought up it's because Hollywood falsely conflated sex with love, you're too correct. It's also another manipulation tactic

No. 489442

Don't worry about it. It's completely normal to eventually find a character or characters with whom you heavily relate. Even normie middle aged people I know will mention sometimes how they identify with characters on their favorite shows like Game of Thrones or whatever. It's only cringe if you say something like you are legitimately Sasuke reincarnated, you were supposed to live as Sasuke and not as you, and all other Sasuke fans are fakes.

No. 489462

nah fam, kinning is when a boring vapid girl likes a characters personality and decides it's "literally them" because they think people will think they are cool.

No. 489464

Going with the picture of this thread…

I am an absolute failure.
I can't accomplish anything.
I can't graduate.
I can't pass any language exams I do.
I can't lose weight.
I can't get a job interview.
Even my hair is giving up on me lmao

I am completely useless and a parasite for my parents

No. 489468

Why people see Elsa from Frozen as gay? Or want her to be?
Like it been like this since the first movie and like there wasnt a lot of characters in it to see her with anyone.The only person I seen fans ship her with was Anna which is her sister…which is fucked up cause that's HER SISTER. But it is very popular ship.
Like Frozen was an okay movie. Cant remember it in detail but people gotta be like pulling on straws (I think that's the saying lol) or some shit to actually see something that makes her gay. Like I dont get it. If people want a gay character then it should not be forced and shit, and I seen people say disney is gay baiting but that's ridiculous, that's there own fault for having that idea.

No. 489471

these days you gotta make every single character out to be gay/trans/disabled in some way or you'll get attacked for "erasure". a lot of people jumped on that trend ever since being lgbt is "trendy" somehow. and it's mostly those people who preach about being woke and identify with mogai xe/xim/they/them bullshit.

disney not having a gay/whatever character? they're being homophobic, committing a hatecrime and here are my headcanons as genderqueer elsa in a wheelchair with vitiligo and autism.

don't even bother listening to them or getting offended by it, it's just completely ridiculous.

No. 489473

Don't take it personally, anon. Gay tumblr just has a habit of reading gayness into everything. I don't think they even know what it's like to have a friendship that isn't based on fucking.

No. 489491

I think she's pretty (in a scary bug eyed anime type of way) and I want her to be gay - that's pretty much it.

No. 489498

Not a Disney fan but I can understand them a bit in this case, I'm not straight and every female main character being straight and ending up with a guy is tiresome. It seems mandatory, in fact, some people were angry that the girl in Brave didn't end up married (!)

No. 489523

she's a literal special snowflake with a song about coming out

No. 489539

Just remembered this scene from the simpsons and how much it reminds me of this place and how males react to it lmao

No. 489543

I'm glad I have a lot of social interactions (many coworkers and a lot of "customer service" type stuff on certain days) because the more you have the less you remember embarrassing ones. And boy embarrassing awkward ones just don't stop coming do they, maybe that's why I've stopped remembering them so clearly every time.

No. 489573

I guess I should've figured the guy who ran SR was a violent little tyrant but holy shit. I'm glad they got him.

No. 489597

The whole trend of people blowing small mistakes celebrities and influencers make insanely out of proportion is annoying and ruins a lot of stuff. Being unforgiving to insane amounts is just childish and doesn't allow you to enjoy things ever

No. 489601

why do people always act like flirting is always sexually motivated?

No. 489603

>Behaving as if sexually attracted to someone
>It's not sexual though

No. 489608

if it's not sexual then it's just banter

No. 489632

Women don't understand how male lust actually operates. Women think that men experience women as "the Beautiful," as something pleasant and trifling that can be enjoyed at a distance and then allowed to pass on. They think that a picture of themselves wearing clothing that shows off all their fat and all their soft skin and warm nice holes is like a postcard with a picture of a beach on it. But to men, female beauty is not the Beautiful, it's the Sublime, it's not trifling but great and terrible, and it stirs something great and terrible and daemonic in man's subterranean depths that impels him forward to fuck things from roughly below and behind the prostate area.

When a man sees a picture of a beautiful sexy woman he feels half a million years of race knowledge thrumming in his veins, an infinity of sexy women reaching around behind themselves to spread their asscheeks and pussy apart with one hand and say "fuck me." He hears the drums from the movie Jumanji, his soul tangibly but invisibly leans forward outside of him grasping desperately for the pussy and gnashing its teeth. He wants to taste her holes and squeeze her fat and smell that combination of smells girls have that when you ask them what it is they say it's just normal shampoo and fabric softener but you know it's something more.

No. 489634

Anon I'm fucking CACKLING. You write so beautifully and vulgar all in the same stride.

No. 489635

Personally cause I’ve never flirted with someone I didn’t want to fuck. Flirting is a signal that you’re interested in the person. Flirting as banter is weird. I’d never banter like that with a man because he’s practically guaranteed to take it as sexual interest in him. That can’t end well. If you’re lucky he’ll decide you’re a massive bitch for not actually wanting to sleep with him and at the absolute worst he’s gonna murder you for not wanting to sleep with him.

No. 489645

people assume all flirting is seduction or coming onto someone. that's not the case. why do you guys assume this is something women do? the most flirtatious people who flirt without intent, and "friendly flirt"/"innocent flirt" without attraction have, in my experience, been popular, outgoing men. have you people never been to parties or in an environment where people innocent or friendly flirt just to be social? flirting is often very nuanced, relies on cadence, eye-contact, subtle flattery, all of which can be very ambiguous, and that's the point for a lot of people. it's not outwardly sexual for flirtatious people, generally. some people, though, take it really far and then it becomes obviously sexual and serious. the spectrum has become too wide and people associate the more heavy stuff with flirting, but just being playful and charming is considered flirting as well.

it's supposed to mean "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions.", but i guess a lot of people seem to conflate all flirting as being hit on, or a form of seduction, but it's not always so.

No. 489656

Ehh, ‘innocent/friendly’ flirting has always struck me the wrong way. Feels immediately uncomfortable.

I don’t consider being friendly and normal flirting but touching your coworkers, making eyes, and even vaguely sexual comments are way beyond being charming.

No. 489658

ive only seen bits of the first Frozen (i worked at a movie theatre when it came out. didnt work there long after) but i could see her being gay

like another anon said she practically had a coming out song. also, and this is just the vibe i get, she reminds me of lesbians of olden times that wore pants and didnt date men only to find out centuries later that she had a collection of journals where shes written a shit ton of poems describing women she came to adore

like i can see how tumblr pushes it sometimes, but if disney was gonna make a princess gay, id expect it to be her

No. 489659

if u entice me, respect my fuck

No. 489663

>making sexual comments
that would be obviously beyond innocent flirting… there seems to be a major misunderstanding of what innocent flirting or just flirting in general is. loveyshy autists appear to think "talking too much" and "laughing a lot" is flirting that indicates serious interest. a lot of gregarious people are natural "flirts" without being sexual or touchy, or wanting to be, they're just complimentary and playful. as i said, the entire thing boils down to ambiguity, just having a positive exchange that's lighthearted, and through slight social cues like body language, is slightly more than just being friendly, but not done with sexual intention and isn't sexual.

No. 489668

Yeah dude I don’t believe in innocently flirting either. Imo it’s all a means to display sexual and/or romantic interest.

It would be weird to be a married woman and flirt with the men in the office. They’re not gonna see it as casual or friendly. Men flirting with everyone in the office is, IMO, more about them signalling they will fuck anyone than them being charming or nice.

Being normal and making a joke (what’s being called innocent flirting itt) isn’t flirting as far as I’m concerned. That’s regular socialisation.

No. 489671

Well sure. I just don't like how every time a character doesn't end up with a guy there's an assumption she must be gay. There are plenty of other possibilities. Like maybe the story just wasn't about romance.

No. 489676

I dunno, fam. To signal/illicit sexual interest does still seem like its primary purpose. Some people do engage in it for bunch of secondary reasons, like fuel their own ego or be popular at parties, but those people are kinda dicks. It just isn't a nice thing to be leading people on.

No. 489677

>Being normal and making a joke
who mentioned making jokes? what do you mean by "making a joke" anyways? we're talking more like, being really complimentary and having 'open' body language, speaking with a certain tone, touching their arm when you laugh. things that, when combined all together, make someone question whether or not it's just a case of being very friendly, or being interested. and obviously it's not intended to be sexual or serious. again, ambiguity is essential.

No. 489679

Has nobody ever told a joke to you at work?
Never made a quip and had a laugh with a coworker?

Everything else like touching them or giving them compliments outside of ‘good job today’ is flirting and imo flirting isn’t the same as socialising. I think you’re calling being friendly, banter, and signalling availability and interest are all just flirting.

No. 489699

>Everything else like touching them or giving them compliments outside of ‘good job today’ is flirting and imo flirting isn’t the same as socialising.
i've had people from all ages and sexes touch my arm when they make a joke or touch me without being romantically or sexually motivated. i assure you it's not always sexual or anything more than playful socializing, or "innocent flirting" with no sexual motivation, at worst. you guys are honestly kind of autistic if you interpret touching someone on the arm, alone, to be sexually motivated or uncomfortable. i've had all manner of people give me all kinds of compliments, lots of which were not done with sexual or romantic intent, and i've done the same and it not be done with sexual or romantic intent. "what's up?" can sound more than friendly with a specific tone, or not. either way, it's incredibly autistic to overestimate that everyone is sexually interested in you, or seriously sexually interested in you because they touch your arm when they make a joke or laugh or give you compliments, especially people who are very outgoing. you guys are going to be woefully disappointed when you realize your 10 minute interaction with a 'desirable' outgoing guy or girl was just them being charming and that their compliments weren't sexually motivated.

No. 489703

Eh, I don’t really need to do it or enjoy it or see it as casual socialising. I’m married and hate the idea of being flirted with. No disappointment here when the “charming” guy has finished trying to be charming.

No. 489714

Holy shit

I just know you're insufferable. Like I don't even have to guess

No. 489719

uh huh. based on? wasn't asked about within the confines of a relationship and whether or not it's acceptable to do in a relationship. i take issue with the fact that some people assume 2 single people want to sleep with each other because they they're """flirty""", when they don't.

No. 489721

i agree with you. other people don't, because they assume to know people's intentions based on their actions alone. like above, some people think someone giving you a compliment and touching you on the arm while making a joke means they're flirting with you.

No. 489722

If it's not sexually charged then it's not flirting. Period.

Is >>489645 your post too? The definition you posted from google even includes these synonyms
>synonyms: trifle with, toy with, tease, lead on, philander with, dally with, make romantic advances to, court, woo, vamp, pull, chat up, make eyes at, make sheep's eyes at, give the come-on to, come on to, be all over, set one's cap at

No. 489737

well, i guess my point (that i couldn't make clearly) is that what someone considers flirting is very subjective, and a lot of people assume all flirting is sexually motivated. i don't even know how to use it because i've had people describe behavior towards me as "flirting" with sexual intent when it wasn't, or my actions as "flirting" with sexual interest when it wasn't, so i have no idea how to even use it at this point because it seems to vary based on interpretation of certain actions. "flirting" encompasses a pretty wide range of behaviors and is up for interpretation. that's why you'll sometimes hear about socially awkward men assuming that a barista smiling at them means they're flirting with them, when they're just being friendly. some people think literally, on their own, touching your hair or smiling is flirting, maintaining eye contact while talking is flirting, certain cadence, laughing, taking a drink when they take a drink is flirting, complimenting, alone, is flirting, using nicknames, etc. and obviously people think playing footsie or saying obviously sexual stuff is flirting, so it's a pretty wide range of behaviors that people consider to be "flirting", and a lot of it, like touching someone on the arm or shoulder, or complimenting them, or giggling, is flirting, and i think can just be playful socializing that may or may not indicate interest. you really can't know without further information or confirmation, but some people think the mild stuff is definitely more than being friendly, they claim it's "flirting" and so it's necessarily sexually or romantically motivated. like above, anon considers complimenting someone and touching their arm when you make a joke to be flirting and so it's sexually motivated, because all flirting -> sexual. i don't, i think that's just a certain form of playful socializing, or, at most extreme, it's some kind of "flirting" but it's not necessarily sexual or romantic. i just think there's a certain grey area of ambiguity where interest can't be assumed, and certain people seem to believe that grey area is definitely flirting and so it's definitely sexual.

No. 489748

People will assume you're flirting when you're just being friendly if you're a woman, especially an attractive woman. It's not your problem if other people misinterpret your behavior because of their own thirst and desperation kek. I think that's your gist and I do agree. But If your intent is to sexually or romantically entice someone then you are flirting.

No. 489767

I hope that when I'm middle aged that I don't turn into my mom or one of those shrill bitchy moms that wont let their kids or anyone around them for the matter have any joy at all. I sure wouldn't let my kids do heroin or something extreme, but why are so many middle aged women so uptight and angry all the time? My mom was fine until her late 40's, I really hope that I'm much more chill at that age.

No. 489768

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This qt girl in a server I'm in dmed me asking to be my friend after talking a bit. I might cry. especially since i have like 2 friends.
I'm a little worried since I'm really not that fun to talk to. I'm just happy.

No. 489798

That's menopause age, increased anxiety is common

Looking back my mom had a pretty rough time with it. Was angry and uptight. As she was getting past the worst of the affects on her mood she then got diagnosed with breast cancer. Menopause affects mental health. On top of that you are entering a whole new risk category for all sorts of illness. I can see how it's not a fun time tbh

No. 489821

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>So, you listen to heavy metal too?
>What are your favourite bands?
>>Slipknot, POWERWOLF, and System of A Down

I'm tired of these people, I have nothing against their taste but I hate that when I make them listen to a heavy metal music they turn away and say that it is 'too heavy'…smh

No. 489822

What bands do you like anon?

No. 489823

Glad you asked. my favourite bands are Terrorizer, Deicide, Morbid Angel, Napalm Death, and Death.

No. 489824

I'll have to check those out, except Death which I already know I don't like.

Honestly metal is such a broad genre that sometimes it feels pointless to say you like metal because there are so many different types that 2 people can love metal but the music they listen to is completely different, so different it might as well be a different genre all together.

No. 489826

IKR! but the dumbasses whom I talk to insist on calling it all metal.
They are good bands, you won't regret looking them up.
happy listening.

No. 489830

Hey Fellow dumb assess. Hope everyone has a good day. I know the that many of you like I take one day at a time and we rather just sleep all day than deal with our dumb ass lives but I am glad we got up this morning.

No. 489845

>Some people do engage in it for bunch of secondary reasons, like fuel their own ego
I know some girls like that, one lead me on for months (and I'm talking about heavy flirting) before finally admitting that it was all "just for banter" and yes, it's a super asshole thing to do.

No. 489860

Wait, some people call SlipKnot metal?? i never heard that. some weird. shit

Nice! I'll check these bands out

No. 489861

Hello, anon! I got up a few hours ago. I made some coffee and breakfast and now i'm gonna enjoy my day off cleaning and playing video games. I hope all anons had a wonderful weekend

No. 489863

Making small mistakes or saying something stupid int he heat of the moment is normal. I agree that not forgiving and being relentless is insane. no one can learn or grow when cancel culture blows tiny mistakes out of the water. But then we get people like Jake paul and Propedo doing whatever they want with no real consequences.

No. 489872

I feel bad for typing this but there's something extremely annoying about my mom how she desperately tries to be more like me, like in appearance. She starts to buy in whatever store I've started buying clothes. Just now she came from the hairdresser with the same haircut I got. She claims to have low self esteem but she doesn't look like it and every time she complains about her looks it comes off as fishing for compliments. I know I sound terrible but there is something about her that makes me resent her and I hate that I feel about her that way.

No. 489883

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I wanna go home and pet my dog so bad.

No. 489890

I love System of a Down because I'm a basic bitch that's never gotten around to exploring the genre further. I know I'm not into sacrilegious bands that evoke dark energy for lolz, and vocalists so guttural that they're completely incomprehensible, but that's about it.

No. 489893

I feel the same way about black metal.
> do you listen to black metal
> yeah, I love metallica <3

instantly dropped. It's not even black metal ffs. Also a lot of hard rock artists that are nowhere near the metal genre let alone black metal.

No. 489895

This guy came into my place of work (retail) the other day and I can't stop fantasizing about him. I've seen him at uni before too and he once smiled at me unprovoked, so I really regret not starting a conversation with him while I had the chance. It's customer service so I could have made small talk but I'm a dummy when I'm around cute lil guys aaaaah.

No. 489897

I remember that for a time, as a teenager, my mom would only talk to me to scold me or ask me if I did this or that in an angry manner. Your posts are now making me wonder if this was a side effect of menopause as she was in her late 40's.

No. 489898

meh, makes it less boring and I like lying to myself that she's gay (but not with her sister -ew)

No. 489905

I work at a sex shop and one of the perks is we can special order stuff and only pay for the cost of the item(s), instead of our usual discount. Which most stuff is between 30-50% of what the retail is, so it’s a really good deal honestly. But we have to go through the manager who orders product, there’s no way to special order things without my boss seeing what it is. And everyone is fine with this! Cause nobody really cares and if anything, it’s good because then we know more about what we’re selling. But I get so embarrassed by it! Every time! I have pretty ‘vanilla’ tastes compared to my coworkers and I don’t feel embarrassed when talking to customers, I don’t even feel weird telling my coworkers about my experiences with certain toys, but for some reason telling my boss I want a specific vibrator KILLS me.

No. 489910

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I went to a convention last year and an artist was doing $5 dog doodles and I got 3 done of my dog. I'm going nuts trying to find the artist again. I want to pay her more money for drawings of my dog.

No. 489923

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I completely forgot that I wanted to buy a climbing harness and some sites have them on sale but I already spent money on a shirt and I'm too much of a cheap fuck to now spend $50 on a harness!!! I want one so bad. I've been sticking to bouldering because I'm too cheap to buy a harness and too much of a coward to ask someone to belay for me but I've been wanting a harness to practice endurance on the autobelays in my gym…

I'll probably suck it up and not buy one because in reality I never spend more than half an hour on the autobelay walls anyway. Bouldering is fun enough for me, but whenever I see new and fun routes on the autobelay walls, I really want to try climbing them too… 70% of my gym is top rope climbing and it sucks. I wish we had more space dedicated to bouldering walls.

No. 489924

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For a year now I wanted nothing more than for my ex-best friend to unblock me and talk to me again. But they just unblocked me and I had an anxiety attack after seeing how much has changed and the people they're talking to again. I want to hate them and block them myself but I can't stop checking my messages to see if they're tying to reach out or if it's just like an unblock-stalk-reblock thing. I'm scared and I feel like this is a big trick. Fuck you, dude.

No. 489925

is this him/her? if so, mega cute!! pls give him/her a kiss from anon

No. 489927


I love this so much


Any similar bands like Death? Just recently started to listen to them I surprisingly LOVE it! I also wanted to get into Napalm Death but idk where to start …

No. 489931

Not my dog but same breed and fur color!! Will definitely give her an extra kiss for you!!

No. 489954

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And me, please! Adorable!

No. 489971

I honestly can't believe that people pay $5 for this. I really need to get into drawing.
Tho no hate, it's cute but not for that money.

No. 489974

That's actually not the drawing!! It's a bit more detailed/less crude than the one I posted. I just googled up dog doodle and this was a cute and funny image so I attached it to my post haha. If I can find the artist I'll post up a better example!!

No. 489978

If it's on sale and you're actually going to use it and not let it sit somewhere at home you might as well buy it now unless you're tight on money. Your climbing sessions are going to be much more fun with the option of climbing routes as well as the bouldering.

No. 489987

aaa she sounds very cute, in your place i'd become a full time neet to spend time with her 24/7

No. 489997

I used to work retail and the most heartbreaking moments were coming home late at night but having an early shift the next day and having to decide whether to spend the 10 minutes I had to spare between a) going to bed immediately, b) stuffing my face real quick, or c) giving some quality time rubbies to my dog.

I'll sound like a shit person but most days I could only give her a quick rub or pat down before heading to bed, and she would follow me around and stare at me for more love. I now work an office job with stable hours and the single best thing about it is having hours to devote to loving her before and after work. She is truly the light of my life and I'm so happy I finally get to spend all the time she deserves with her.

No. 490002

i mean all's well that ends well! if she could comprehend the human concept of shift work i'm sure she'd understand. and besides, now you can spoil her rotten! also congrats on getting out of retail hell!

No. 490003

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Im in love with this girl off Zaras website and theres nothing I can do about it

No. 490015

She looks like a videogame character.

No. 490019

She looks 12 wtf anon

No. 490020

you might enjoy eve frsr on youtube/ig, she's a bit of an egirl but their faces & haircuts (well, rather the blunt fringe) look near identical

No. 490039

Pedo sperg please leave. Having a flat chest doesn't equal a child.

No. 490040

I wish dumb guys would stop lurking on the board and sharing their amazing input with the world. It's obviously an adult woman.

No. 490046

Lately I have been ruminating on stupid shit I do or say. So in an effort to combat that I've been realizing that people around me have done way dumber shit and neither I nor anyone else dwells on it.
>My friends and I went out for drinks a long time ago
>When it was time to leave one of my friends fell over onto the ground in the middle of the restaurant (I think bc she was sitting on top of one of her legs and it wad dead asleep when she went to stand)
>Not only did she fall but for some reason she stayed on the ground kind of whining about it to her bf for a good 10-15 seconds it was really odd tbh
>Then on the way home she got mad and was crying and yelling at her bf for "talking to [me] all night long"
I just remembered this and it's so much more embarrassing than that one inappropriate thing I said at dinner last week. I never dwelled on it and I don't think my friend who fell is an embarrassment. If I did that shit I would be mortified for life thinking everyone would judge me forever based on that one incident. I don't even really care that it happened beyond feeling pity that she went through that and I've thought of it maybe once since it happened. So that must be how others view me! Sometimes I feel so foolish and self-centered because my anxiety really makes me believe everyone gives a fuck about what I'm doing at all times.
>One of my friends, for some unknown reason, pushed a (lightweight, but wtf) stroller into the back of his tween daughter as an impulsive, not-well-thought-out-joke.
>Daughter was also holding a 2-year-old
>On a steep dirt hill
>She was in flip flops
>It wasn't funny.
If that were me I would never show my face again. People are doing way dumber shit than me and it's hardly ever as big a deal as it would be if it were me judging myself.
I can see that this post makes me come off like an asshole but fuck it. It's helping me cope and find balance

No. 490051

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She looks like Motoko Kusanagi. I love effortless "looks" like that, they're admirable.
Not sure why the other anon thinks she looks 12 (small breasts?).

No. 490055

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Work evaluations were today and not only did I recieve high marks but my boss called me one of the hardest workers she's ever had and that I'm highly respected in other departments. Feels good to hear especially since I never thought I would ever find a career I'm actually good at.

No. 490062

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We're in the same boat anon, i cant help but relate so hard on this. A dear friend of mine broke up with me out of nowhere and blocked me instantly after the incident. Sometimes i wanted to check up on her because i knew she'd unblock pp from time to time out of curiosity…the thing is anon, its very rare for a friendship to actually form again after sth like this happens let alone talking to each other, my advice to you is dont try to check up ur ex-friend or any kind of ex-relationship after this (as tempting as it might sound) because its only bring pain, further hurt you and you wont be able to move on afterwards. If they really want your friendship to last they wouldnt do this to you anon, trust me, every relationship ends for a reason and its not your fault. Be strong anon, godspeed!

No. 490087

I'm bitter about my job and am about to say some dumbass shit. I mean congratulations but unless they show you with money it's meaningless jibba jabba. Unless they show you with a promotion and more money, they're jerking you around and you're falling for it.

You know they're taught in seminars, classes, etc, to say things like that to keep decent employees loyal. You probably actually are the hardest worker, but they'll use that to make you work even harder. Beware. This is the exact point where you ask for a raise. Do it. Do it now. If you don't do it now, you're being tricked and used. DO IT.

No. 490099

You both have amazing taste.
>tfw no Cyborg Major GF to boss me around all day.

No. 490108

Not really. she looks like a teen

No. 490111

Nta but her face does look very youthful to me. I don't think she literally looks 12 though.

No. 490120

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More like child-Motoko.

No. 490121

She reads more like 16/17 than 12. But hey, adult women with baby faces and small chests exist, so it is possible that she is an adult and in that case they deserve love too. Would be weird to avoid someone for having youthful features while they are an adult.

No. 490124

I'm always really hesitant to start tv shows because i have to invest a lot of time and emotion into the story, and i would feel really let down if the show turned to shit or didn't have a solid finale. I usually stick to shows that have ended and have a great, consistent and clear plot and ending. Like i wanna start Mr Robot and Westworld but part of me wants to wait until they're over.

No. 490133

Better than getting D&D’d like got fans did.

No. 490138

I stopped watching in Season 5 and made up my own ending for it instead. No regrets at all.

No. 490141

Best choice. I pretended the actors all died in a dragon accident and nothing happened past season 5. There’s no dornish shitplot in my version either.

No. 490149

so whats up with professor tox? was she really as like… edgy contrarian/not progressive as she acted, or was that part just a troll? what the fuck parts were trolling of this act, even?

No. 490153

File: 1575368099762.jpg (260.5 KB, 750x815, ilove.jpg)

i love women…you're all so cute and nice and kind and strong and talented and beautiful

i'm working on this collab with a ton of girls and i'm so happy…the memes are on point. everyone treats each other with dignity and respect and communicates well. i love you all

women are good

No. 490183

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this only really matters to me and only concerns me and I've been more relaxed about it but I'm more confident about my bisexuality now. I sometimes feel like I have to know whether I'm just curious or really bi but I never had a relationship with a woman or great chemistry. Anyhow, I have been really attracted to unfamiliar women in public recently and it feels good. I try not to stress about it anymore but this is nice. Feels like there are opportunities in the future

No. 490192

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Great taste, anons.

No. 490196

I'm watching a walkthrough of a game and I realized that the reason why I don't like the MC's voice is because it sounds like Venus Angelic back when she tried to fake that foreign baby weeb voice for extra princess points. Lmao now I can't unhear her.
>yikes forever

No. 490206

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tfw want to charge earphones for gym but at mall, and all they have is those chargers you pedal except i cant gym 2 hrs after immunotherapy what is this

No. 490219

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Same here.

No. 490227

does anyone else feel like theres something really off about spongebob? like as in the whole show itself.

because i always felt really weird and off whenever i watched an episode as a kid, almost like i was being hypnotised to watch it, i always felt like there was something off and i cant quite put my finger on why.

i remember there was a tv channel in my country that used to broadcast it during lunchtime, and during the summer holidays when i went to a summer camp they used to turn it on during that time slot. i remember being really creeped out because when it came on everyone just stopped eating and talking and… just looked at spongebob in complete unmoving silence. during any other show some people would still be eating and talking but the second you heard "aRe yOU reADY kIdS?!!" you could have heard a pin drop in that lunch room.

No. 490246

Christ, yes. Spongebob kids were weird as fuck. Like the kids who watched Ed Edd and Eddy, but even more autistic, if that's even possible.

No. 490278

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i feel kind of loony saying this but recently i've noticed a ""trend"" i guess? in children's toys and media in general. i didn't know where else to put it so here it goes:

there are SO many children's toys now that are specifically centered around poop and i find it slightly sinister and unnerving. it's EVERYWHERE. there's these weird fetish-esque children's toys that popped up on my instagram a few weeks ago called "The Hangrees" (pic related) which are literally made to "poop" out slime and come with all kinds of poop-related paraphernalia; yesterday an ad for something called "poop game" came out while i had a kid's channel on my tv, today i passed by this claire's-esque shop they have in my country that mostly caters to little girls and there was something called "unicorn poop" (just some rainbow-mashed glittery slime). it's popped up way too many times for it to feel like a coincidence.

call me crazy but i feel like someone is behind this? maybe a company, maybe sth else idk, but there's just SO much centered around poop directed specifically at children and i don't know why. i've read about elsagate being some sort of conspiracy meant to groom children into normalizing perverted behavior but i can't say this is purely related to that, but i DO find it strange. why poop, specifically? why is it ALWAYS directed at children?

No. 490283

i dunno anon but that sounds like some weird ass shit

No. 490287

there is a LOT of weird stuff for girls. the vid related is for these ugly toys that shit or vomit and they have big gaping heart buttholes. you literally syringe drinks into their mouths for them to shit out.

No. 490295

Eh, as a kid poop and farts are just peak funny as I recall it. It seems marketing teams are just trying to profit off of that?
I turned out to be a degenerate though so take this with a grain of salt. I blame the internet and weeb shit more than poop jokes though. And I'm no scatfag or brapfag for fucking sure.

No. 490296

Maxmoefoe made a vid on these and talked about how spitting, shitting and vomiting toys are getting weirdly popular with girls now

No. 490298

I think anon is reading into it too much. I'm a 25 year old and I was gifted multiple baby toys I could feed and clean their shit and piss when it came out (Baby Born). I'm sure some people remember the pooping animal keychains, too.

No. 490299

I remember when pissing and shitting dolls became big one year and I couldn't understand why dirty diapers were being treated like a fun thing to clean up lol

No. 490300

Shit like this has existed for ages, where have you been? Garbage pail kids, those stupid as fuck parody stickers, squish toys that suck poop in and out, baby bottle feeding dolls have been around since like the 70s. Kids like gross stuff. they have gross board games where you pull boogers out of at guys head that was around when I was a kid and I’m old as fuck now.

No. 490302

Speaking as someone who remembers childhood: Because slime is fun and poop jokes are funny.
The actual travesty is how over marketed and expensive that cheap Chinese shit is.

No. 490303

One thing that feels weird is how much assholes are being added to figures and plushies as like a funny thing

I have a kid family member who watches toy opening vids and the amount of times I hear 'booty' and 'bootyhole' when these vids are playing in the background bothers me

No. 490307

god, there was a rich girl in my kindergarten who actually had a baby born and became an alpha stacy of the establishment due to that virtue. she never let me play with it the slag. why were we all so obsessed with a baby doll that shits??

No. 490308

tbh i sort of felt the same at first, but some of these things seem a bit sexual? if the dolls didn't have big thicc asses and fake lashes it would seem different. baby dolls doing that were meant to indoctrinate girls into motherhood, which is fucked up, but it's different than some of these things.

No. 490310

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I think pooping and crying baby dolls are a lot different from what we're getting now with >>490287 which are infantile unicorns with heart-shaped assholes. The vomiting part is just wtf. I know kids think poop is funny but vomiting as a kid was hell.

I like to follow toy lines a lot and the sheer amount of actual shit-themed toys is really weird and the genuine family-friendly toy youtubers I follow don't even like them and are clearly creeped out when doing vids on them for PR. They especially are weirded out with the "OMG Surprise" dolls that have nipples sticking out, all while looking like adult babies, pic related.

I'd rather give my child Bratz, they were just teenagers in heavy makeup. This is really something else and it wouldn't surprise me at all if it were some guys with a pedo-poop fetish behind some of this stuff.

No. 490312

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that's what i was trying to say.
pic related has ddlg written all over it. it has fucking tattoos.

No. 490313

I've seen vids of guys who jerk off onto Bratz dolls specifically

No. 490314

anon's point is that bratz dolls are teenagers not DDLG fantasy babies with booty dimples. do you think guys don't jerk onto literally anything?

No. 490315

I wasn't making any point other than I've seen guys jerk off onto them, don't know why you're reading some extra meaning from that?

No. 490319

NTA but your (unnecessary) comment makes it seem like it's not big deal from dolls then and now, because you've seen someone jerk off to Bratz

No. 490323

Guys jerk off to anything and make porn of everything.

No. 490326

You're reading too much into me laughing at Bratz fapper man

No. 490327

you should follow the conversation you autist.

No. 490331

I am following, I posted about assholes on dolls and my niece watching all the toy openers talking about buttholes throughout these kid vids. I said it bothers me too

No. 490334

lol sorry about your autism. i think the site is too fast for you.

No. 490336

Sorry about you bad mood, feel better

No. 490337

nta, but you're the autist. anon is explaining herself but you're still attacking her. you spergs need someone to vent your bad day out on?

No. 490339

Yeah there is an entire vent thread just in case two posts in a row of 'lol you're autistic' didn't get all the grumpy out for them kek

No. 490341

I've seen this doll all over instagram (am a mom) Is that it's real/original body? I never would've guessed it looked like that

No. 490346

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No. 490353

The weirdness aside, that’s such an ugly body design
Like I actually do like the design of the unicorn poop-puke babies sue me but these are just straight up ugly as sin

No. 490356

I like the unicorn dolls too. The Nicki Minaj looking fat hipped dolls are pretty fucked

No. 490357

Dollfag here, I have avoided all the trash new toys as I'm into art dolls, but I have to say all the current range of toys look cheap as shit. The dummies, pooping, vomiting, "sexy" bodies and thicc asses is something else.
I agree with other anons that it's definitely a fetish thing. Baby dolls that we had as kids was an extremely different thing to this.

No. 490369

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Do not even get me started on LOL dolls

No. 490379

No. 490392

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I started watching The Untamed/Chén Qíng Lìng, I haven't watched these types of show since I was a child. I've only indulged in some Chinese (trashy) literature since.
But wow the cheesy wuxia drama and action makes me incredibly nostagic, the subtle classy twink-free BL, the aesthetics! Gotta say the Netflix English sub can't convey the historical context very well but understandable. Anyway I just wanted to gush a little.

No. 490395

Can you recommend any more available on Netflix? I used to have a bookmarked website for Chinese and Bollywood movies but I removed it and can't find it again

No. 490398

Isn't there an loldoll with a penis

No. 490401

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I'm gonna compile a list of every fictional character I've had a crush on.
Might take a while.

No. 490404

I watched a few episodes of this, I don't have time for the whole thing but god damn the main characters are qt. I'm so into those historical chinese hairstyles.

No. 490405

Unfortunately I don't watch enough Chinese entertainment to give you good recs anon (feelsbad). This one just happens to be on US Netflix. Douban is like Chinese imdb, you'll find what's popular/critcally acclaimed there, then using a VPN, the world is your oyster! Or just get a Viki account lol
Anon I'm so into it, I really like ancient chinese cosplay! All the women in this are impossibly pretty.

No. 490415

i want to be helpful. does anyone have any random questions about wood/building/refinishing old furniture/etc?

No. 490418

These creep me out. The cold dead eyes combined with sexualised toddler's body feels really wrong. Shops are completely saturated with it as well. There's books, clothing magazines, toys, even branded junk food. As a parent with a daughter and someone who works with young children, every instinct that I have tells me there's something sick about.

No. 490422

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I wanna have a wholesome summer fling.

No. 490428

i feel bad for incels they'll never be able to experience the joy of holding tiddy

No. 490446

fuck yeah the untamed

No. 490463


I've been listening to drum covers of 2010's songs (especially trap/hip hop songs) and it makes the songs 1000x better

Listen to this Sicko Mode drum cover and tell me it didn't become better.. it finally got something what was missing

Why don't more current songs use drums like this??

No. 490466

What the fuck? Did they ever bother to explain why dolls would need nipples? It seems like such a creepy, unnecessary edition to a children's toy.
I do like Popovy dolls, and they often have nipples, but they're made as art. These dolls, on the other hand, don't seem to have much artistic merit in mind other than "big eyes cute girl doll pink hair princess toy play", so what was the reason?

No. 490474

I really don't see the problem, they're not even specifically sculpted nipples just a slight point to the overall breast shape. I think it's weirder that we censor dolls into smoothed bodies without nipples, as if nipples are only a shameful sex thing and so children can't possibly be allowed to see them. Free the (doll) nipple!

No. 490505

I agree with >>490474, I don’t think it’s weird that a children’s toy has a feature that all human beings have. However, I do think the doll’s figure is setting up some unrealistic expectations like people always bitch about Barbie doing - but instead of impossibly skinny it’s just impossibly curvy. I don’t think little girls are going to be corrupted by a doll with nipples, but there are a lot of creeps who are going to ruin these toys for little girls just like my little pony.

No. 490537

It's more the fact that they felt the need to add them than the nipples themselves being a thing that might "corrupt children". I don't think any kids thought having nipples was weird or bad just because dolls don't have them or anything (I didn't, at least). There's just no real point to them, as most dolls don't need to breastfeed or perform any real human biological functions.
I'm just having trouble imagining the mindset of an adult who thought "It's time for dolls to have nipples". Like, of all stylistic choices, why that? They didn't think to make the eyes not look like runny eggs with blue yolks, or for the bodies to look anatomically sensible, but that's where they draw the line and demand realism?
I just don't get it. It's a weird thing to zero in on for a designer who seemed to not care much in the first place for aesthetic beauty or anatomical accuracy, and the fact that it's from the same company that makes seedy-ish designs of toddlers in fishnets and seems to have some obsession with scat is also weird.

No. 490543

It’s such a stereotypical bimbofication fetish body type, jfc

No. 490552

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I only watched The House Bunny because I really liked how Kat Dennings looked in it, before the "transformation".

No. 490559


You can't free the nipple before changing what the female nipple means in our culture. First, change the culture, then you'll be free to do as you please with nipples. Just because YOU think they aren't sexual doesn't mean the general population does.

Not that I don't agree with you, I do believe nipples are a natural part of the body, but I also know that they are viewed as a sexual thing. If you imagine breasts without them, they suddenly lose the sex-element and become balloons, lol.

No. 490566

umm they're hard nips… nips arent visible unless hard. why are you adding hard ass nips to a children's toy? fucked up. the entire doll screams "fucked up". there is no rationalizing that granite nips on an hourglassy bombshell children's doll with a baby face is just innocent and in no way nefarious

No. 490573

If admin/farmhands are gonna be so strict about racial discussion and other topics, I wish they'd at least delete (or redtext) obvious scrote bait like >>490428

No. 490575

It's a genuine farmer, we looked into it. Embarassing posts aren't against the rules.

No. 490578

>nips arent visible unless hard

No. 490582

I think this is an example of marketing decisions being done by an alogrythm, shit like elsagate took off because little kids are interested in "gross out" things so click on videos of spiderman taking a shit or whatever, and the same logic of "well the analytics say the kids give this views" mean they make toys about it, even if it's fucking weird and inapropriate, especially when they're coming from non-western countries where they have no idea or care about western cultural norms and just go with what gets clicks.

No. 490586

NTA and I also agree but
>I do believe nipples are a natural part of the body
sounds funny to me, cause what part of the body ain't natural? Vulva is natural as well and we don't want dolls to have defined pussies… (okay, I know that you mean that nipples are nonsexual, it was just an awkward way of putting the idea into words)

No. 490588

idk I think it overpowers the vocals too much. mixed down and restrained a bit it would sound fucking sick though. The transition during the beat switchup and 1:27 especially sounded really good.

No. 490591

obviously there's a slope but that's a sharp point they put on that doll. nips rarely have a point that sharp unless hard. they flatten out more.

No. 490592

Thank you. I didn't want to say it like this, but some people are getting so swept up in this "body positivity" stuff that it's blinded them to some real weird shit.

No. 490593

File: 1575450575384.jpg (353.9 KB, 1600x1000, LOL_doll-43.jpg)

this is relevant
>LOL means Little Outrageous Littles

No. 490611

karuna satori has a personality I don't really care for and I avoid watching her as much as possible. However, her anxiety attack videos have saved me in my most stressful and vulnerable times. I appreciate and personally don't prefer her at the same time.

No. 490615

That post actually made me laugh, it reminded me of that one lane creepypasta where some virgin goes along with everything a spooky girl says just because he's "going to get to touch that boob"

No. 490624

My insta explore feed (or whatever it's called) is full of vids of teen girls in leggings and crop tops dancing lately, I'm not the slightest bit interested in seeing it, have never liked any pics or vids like it and yet insta is pushing these underage yoga pants girls..then the odd time it's an actual adult dancing and they have the body proportions of some of the weird ass dolls above

Insta all I want is cute animal pics, stop ramming underage 'totally innocent' dancing vids down my throat

No. 490626


Haha yeah, my bad.

No. 490638

i read this and it made me think about scarcity and behaviours:

i was neglected as a kid and i remember being so hungry i would swallow air to make myself feel full. i used to eat paper when i was at school and whenever i was given a gift like an easter egg i would break it into thousands of pieces and store them in a hidden place and ration myself to a couple of tiny shards of the egg a day because i never knew when i would get to eat again. i would take my brother and sister to the fields near where we lived to find as much wild fruit as we could because i didn't know how to cook and we never had any food in anyway. i was dangerously underweight growing up and have had health repercussions from malnutrition as a child. my sister had one of the worst cases of scoliosis the queen's medical centre had ever seen, it put so much strain on her organs it would have killed her by the age of 12 if they hadn't corrected it and i think it was made so bad because she grew up malnourished.

unsurprisingly i developed anorexia in my teens and was forcibly hospitalised with a bmi of 13 about 8 years ago. now i'm a few years into recovery and for the first time in my life i'm really, really fat - about 230lbs at 5'9". it's hard to deal with, but i know exactly how i got here - it's because when i have the opportunity to eat i will eat everything on my plate and i'll eat everything that is offered to me, even if i'm not hungry. i don't eat a lot of junk food, i've learned how to cook and mostly make vegan curries and rice but clearly i eat too much of them. my doctor told me my metabolism might have been damaged by my history of starvation but i don't know if that's a real thing.

i keep wondering if this impulse to eat is just because of a lifetime of not knowing when the next bit of food will come. since getting better the thought of cutting down food makes me really anxious now. i don't really know what's normal. i think it might be why poor people tend to be much fatter, like i understand it now and have a lot more sympathy. if you grow up in extreme scarcity then often you feel like you have to eat now or you won't again for a long time.

No. 490639

Isn't "little" used as a noun a literal BDSM term…

No. 490645

While I'm absolutely disgusted by this act this belongs in the Pink Pill thread

No. 490654

> unsurprisingly i developed anorexia in my teens

How is that unsurprising? Do you think history of malnourishment leads to anorexia? Because it doesn't. That's a separate issue you have.

> i've learned how to cook and mostly make vegan curries

Curries are incredibly caloric. Tons of fat and sometimes sugar.

No. 490656

>How is that unsurprising?
I think anon means that a twisted attitude about food leads to a twisted relationship with it.
Not enough food, so you hoard it (many anorexics do this, keeping food stowed away all for themselves without eating any of it). Scared and ashamed of being greedy (and having it disappear on you), so you deny yourself and eat very tiny bits. Being faced with a full meal, being unable to stop yourself, and binging because your brain is worried you may never get the chance to eat so well again. Rinse and repeat.

No. 490661

mostly what >>490656 said, but also my ED doctor said that anorexia often follows a period of inadvertent or controlled starvation like an illness or a first diet. maybe i should have clarified that.

i don't add sugar or a lot of fat to curries, i make them wholly from scratch. mostly tomato based with green vegetables or pulses, though i do occasionally do ones with coconut milk which i accept is highly caloric. i eat healthy food - i still have a knowledge of nutrition from all the obsessive reading i did as an anorexic - but just too much of it, is what i'm saying.

thank you anon, that is what i was getting at. reposted for sage

No. 490665

Seems pretty fucking obvious that having a strange relationship with food in childhood could lead to you having… a strange relationship with food long term too

No. 490666

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I'm self conscious that my ex thought I was love bombing her (she's only had abusive relationships before we went out) when in reality I'm just like a stupidly excited puppy. She was the girl of my dreams and I had been lowkey following her for years before we actually talked (I told her I had been following a lot of her socials ofc- we also have a lot of mutual friends so it wasn't really hard to find any of them).

We're broken up now so it doesn't matter but I'm afraid of future partners thinking I'm love bombing them when I'm just… too excited. I wear my heart on my sleeve and it sucks lol. I say shit like 'I love you' too fast because it's become the norm between my friends and I to say it to each other because I'm scared as shit that one of us will suddenly die and I want the people I love and care the most for to know that.

No. 490669

The excitement is really cute, anon. I’m sure that’s one of the thing your ex will always miss about you

No. 490670

Thank you anon… We broke up on amicable terms and I miss her a lot, but I always think about how she told me that I made her feel safe and warm, and I felt the same way about her too. I hope in the future I'll be able to find someone again where we can be each other's sanctuaries.

No. 490671

I wouldn't take it too personally. I needed a few years of just being single after getting out of an abusive relationship

No. 490684

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sorry reading thru onision milk and this dude is 23? HOW? i'd think he was at least 36. no wonder anons are thinking barely legal guys are their age, it's bc men our age look older than us by far and the younger ones have yet to accrue as much skin damage so they might look similar to our ages. holy shit.

No. 490686

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samefag but also in that same vein, this is billie eilish's brother. does this look like a 21 year old to you guys? how is it that men don't look their ages at all? are they moonlighting as appalachian miners??

No. 490689

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nah, their family has an unfortunate case of looking 10 years older than what you actually are, billie is only 14 in pic related.

No. 490693

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pic related is one of my favourite male models, he is 23 and looks like it also an absolute hottie.

No. 490696

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This isn't a groundbreaking observation by any means but it seems 100% obvious that the body types that are popular on instagram and online these days are trying to literally emulate the bodies from cartoons we grew up with.

No. 490697

Women have to be literal cartoons in current year or else be considered fridge shaped ogresses.
It's funny since the features are clearly just exaggerated femininity because…duh, cartoons…but now we're expected to become the exaggeration. It's like getting PS to look like a caricature someone drew of you lmao.

No. 490699

what the fuck? This dude is MY age? i thought he was in his late 20s-early 30s…

No. 490725

I can't wait to find the man who is perfect for me! I wrote down a list of the qualities that I'm looking for and it made me so excited reading through it again. I was smiling the entire time. I've had bad relationships in the past but I'm finally ready to move beyond that.

No. 490729

This is so wholesome, it might take time but I hope you find him!

No. 490750

Who’s that

No. 490768

I applied for a job that I meet the minimum requirements for, but that’s it. It pays double what I make now so it’d be cool to at least get an interview. The issue is it’s literally the same job as my husband’s ex, just in a different town. And she immediately started dating someone she worked with after she broke up with him, so he’s a little salty about it. Probably not a great idea to work there because it’ll annoy him but if the opportunity comes up… like our household income will literally double so…. he can hate it all he wants, cuz we could use the money and I could use the experience.

No. 490805

Is meditation worth getting into? I don't quite understand it tbh or it's benefits

No. 490814

in lieu of cutting, I used to aggressively pluck out my body hairs. I've since stopped and decided to stop shaving for radfem reasons but it grew back patchy af smh

No. 490820

i feel like meditation is best if you pick the type that suits you best. There are so many different ways to do it and once you start reading around it's actually pretty easy to make your own practice!

I like David Lycnh's approach so far because he's a) described experiences from his past that sound a lot like psychotic episodes. I some due to PTSD which I treat with medication but I need other tools to deal with it when the meds don't work. (i'm not recommending mediation as a way to avoid or supplement medication but they really don't work all the time and meditation has helped me through some really scary episodes!)
b) a creative so his motivations to meditate (to make better art and let your brain rest so you can be more creative) resonate with me in a way "just meditate to be happy!!" doesn't lol.

so find your "teacher" as corny as it sounds, don't worship the ground they walk on and shop around for people you relate to imo. and there are some legit health benefits but if you aren't motivated by that I don't think it would sway anyone's opinion lol.

No. 490821

I feel kind of good about my art lately because I’m utilizing references without blatantly imitating them and the results have been decent so far. I’m spending more time making different designs of an idea I want along with more planning and researching subjects.

No. 490830

Just work your new job and make that money, anon! Doubling your pay is always good

No. 490847

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Does anyone else like hamsterfragment 's art? I heard he/she passed away? I hope it's not true.

No. 490876

Beauty community shits themselves over Nisipisa so I checked out her videos. She’s kinda funny and smart, but does she forcefully cape for trannies in every video, or did it just so happened that those are all the videos I clicked on? It was so embarrassing

No. 490908

The OP image makes me so sad every time I scroll past it

No. 490909

I never understood people who laugh at women's bodies that don't fit their standards. Just anyone over reacting to women's bodies not fitting their standard in general.

No one cares if you burst out laughing if a girl in a movie you're watching doesn't have big enough boobs for your liking. Nobody cares if you laugh because you saw a girl with a small butt at the grocery store. You just come off as mentally unstable and entitled when you think all women's bodies should conform to your liking

No. 490911

lol, you're bored right?
came in to say her/his art is cute as fuck. sad to see his/her pawoo hasn't been updated in a while.

No. 490913

Sorry for sperging (I'm >>490911), I thought I was in the art general because of the art post, my bad. Yes I agree, especially the butt thing holy shit.

No. 490916

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>At a new workplace
>All the girls in my office greet each other with big kisses on the cheeks
>Also hugging randomly
>And so many petnames
>Complimented a coworker's leggings and while telling me about how comfy they are on the waist she literally hiked her skirt up to show me
I probably seem uptight but I can't really see myself being so close to coworkers. Good for them tho

No. 490932

I woke up with some weird white film covering my teeth/gums and after looking it up, it looks like toothpaste can cause it (too harsh on your mouth and makes it shed). The thing is, people keep recommending sensodyne to combat this but I'm pretty sure sensodyne is what's causing this for me. My family has used sensodyne for years and I've never had an issue until a few months ago. We switched to colgate (my parents buy from BJs and there was a coupon so we bought a pack lol) and the issue disappeared but I didn't even realize it stopped happening until we ran out of colgate last night and I switched back to sensodyne (because that's all we have at the moment) and woke up with all this gunk in my mouth. I'll also feel it suddenly appear mid day, a couple hours after brushing in the morning…

It's mostly just more annoying/gross feeling than anything. I guess I'll just suck it up and buy my own personal toothpaste until they run out of sensodyne and I can convince them to never buy it again.

No. 490935

Thanks Anon! I am so excited for the future!

No. 490936

> I guess I'll just suck it up and buy my own personal toothpaste

I mean surely you are old enough to just buy your own toiletries without feeling put out by this?

No. 490940

As far as I can remember, I've always been repulsed by pregnancy. But ever since my bf showed me his baby pictures it's like a switch flipped inside my head, he was genuinely such an adorable baby, and even cuter as a kid. His mom also told me he was a really calm and easy child who never got in trouble or caused her any stress. Watching those photos I felt something completely new and weird, and now I really want to have a child with him one day. It's going to sound super cringy but I feel like I want to perpetuate his genes, even cringier, I would like to have a baby boy because I find bf so good looking but not a girl, because I find his sister really ugly and she has a terrible attitude…

No. 490943

uhh any baby is gonna have your genes too, so it might not even come out looking like your bf at all.

No. 490944

Stay on top of your birth control lol

I know alot of women with kids who have learning difficulties, autism, behavioural issues that bring a whole lot of stress. That's life

No. 490945

Are you one of those people that believe that kids are just the continuation of their parents ??

No. 490946

Yeah the main reason I don't want kid is because I don't want to pass on all the crazy genes from my mother's side of the family.

I will lmao. I just wanted to share those weird feelings, because I've literally never had baby fever before.

No. 490947

you are my worst nightmare. if i ever become like you i’ll seppuku.

No. 490952

This was a cute post until the end when your handmaiden side came out.

It's good you are happy with the idea of having a baby with your boyfriend, very natural and good, but please don't put expectations on this idea of a baby. There is no "I would prefer." You get what you get.

No. 490953

Anon, you don't want a girl just because she could be uggo? What the fuck is wrong with you, never have kids no matter the gender.

No. 490958

I do buy and have my own separate toiletries for the most part, but the toothpaste never used to be an issue and it felt weird to have my own tube of toothpaste when everyone could just be using the same tube that's already out. I'm just a little put off because I know my parents will start asking why and telling me it's a waste of my own money, as well as the fact that there's four of us in an apartment with only one small bathroom, so counter/storage space is scarce.

No. 490959

No. 490967

lucas berny

No. 490969

I’m jealous. My workplace is full of old judgy bitches.

No. 490983

nta but keep your secret $3 bottle of colgate in your room away from their judgey eyes then, i support you and the feeling of clean teeth, anon

No. 490992

The 2010's have been absolute shit and I can't wait for this godawful decade to be over

No. 491003

sorry anon but this description is very gay

No. 491014

resident homophobe-chan would say they're all "secret lesbians" that are trying to groom anon for some fun time kek

No. 491018

You sound like a scrote, this is all typical behaviour amongst women.

No. 491019

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No. 491024

Dang your friends are garbage

No. 491029

Felt kind of bad because some others and I were upset about some movie ticket issues (theater wasn't putting them up even though the people who brought the movie here confirmed they would be showing it), and to apologize, the company who brought the movie out here DMed me asking for my mailing address to send me goodies related to the movie. I wasn't really rude or grouchy in my replies when I asked them to confirm stuff, but it just… feels kind of bad lol. I know a lot of it was out of their control, and I at least got backup tickets to another showing.

No. 491124

Are you homophobe-chan from like 2 days ago?
My god, let it go.

No. 491126

not that the whole introvert extrovert thing is real in any capacity but god i hate being shy/scared of social interactions yet craving being around people. why can't i be one of those people who prefer to be alone. i have lots of solo hobbies but i just want to share the fun with someone but literally none of my friends care about in the same capacity i care about them. talked with someone at uni for the first time in this entire term and it was so nice, almost felt normal as opposed to the usual "reptilian obviously failing to pass as human" sitch. i have actually gotten really good at small talk but i can't initiate for shit or make people interested in moving beyond acquaintances. gad am i the biggest retard of them all.

No. 491127

Yeah, you're right, fuck it.

No. 491129

>introversion and extroversion isn't real
They're just words to describe people who either prefer being alone or prefer socializing. Sure, not many people are 100% either but these are definite traits that exist.

No. 491139

guess i meant it in the whole tumblr way of "omg i'm such an introvert i love libraries and hate extroverted sluts!", you know that brand. like i think realistically it is a spectrum and or a fluid thing.

No. 491150

This song fills me with furry

No. 491151

My bedroom smells like fart and I'm not sure why

No. 491154

Sometimes I wish I could see my post history (from my IP) all together in one page, like when Dasha got exposed. But then I realize I really, really don't want to know what a petty bitch I am, or how many hours I waste on this goddamn site.

No. 491159

Same. I think this all the time. Also I wonder what it's like to be a mod and have access to everyone's histories. I bet it's milky af and they talk about it amongst themselves. I would.

No. 491161

Maybe go to furaffinity instead of lolcow, we don't take fondly to your kind around here

No. 491163

I feel like recently the only person who doesn’t annoy the fuck out of me constantly (aside from people I interact with at school or work)is my mom. And I’m oddly okay with that? I thought I would be alone and miserable, especially since it’s the holidays but I’m mostly focusing on making money and school.

Amazing how some stress can disappear when you stop giving a fuck.

No. 491167

wait where did you hear that?? i loved their art so i hope not
their twitter updated last just a week ago but i dont know if they have a different social media that's more up to date

No. 491172

I wouldn't really wanna see the pointless times I've infought with other farmers, but lolcow is like a diary to me because I've posted on ot for a few years now. I like going back to old threads in the catalog and recognizing my old posts and reliving those thoughts and feelings. Stuff that I sometimes forgot happened.

I know it's dumb cause I could just get an irl diary but I have an aversion due to some childhood trauma cause my mom used to read it while holding me back and shaming me. Putting it on paper makes me feel like someone's gonna snatch it and read it and humiliate me for it. But on lolcow my feelings are anonymous and it's just there. It's freeing somehow.

No. 491242

Wooow who would've thought I'd feel less shitty mentally and physically after exercising regularly, eating proper home cooked meals, drinking less and taking vitamins, #lifehack

I don't want to use the surprised pikachu meme because I'm sick of it but you get the point

No. 491256

This is so funny to me lol my sides.

No. 491269

Good on you anon, keep it up!

No. 491303

Just put $2k towards my student loans. Feels good but also feels bad. Only $700 left until I’m done…

No. 491325

I genuinely feel really sorry for kids growing up in this age. If 30 year olds can get hopelessly addicted to their phones it's gonna be so much worse with kids since it's considered a big part of their life from day one.

No. 491335

It's so simple to feel better. i work 10 hour days now at a bakery and i had to eat better or else i'd have no energy on the job and feel faint. It's crazy how a change in diet made a lot of difference. Still eating junk, just way less. Keep on keeping on, anon!

No. 491363

love bread

No. 491366

you're an inspiration anon, I have no self-control but I'm working on it, I'll get there too! Can't wait to be healthy tbh.

No. 491368

Yes! I totally agree! I can tell a big difference in my week if I exercise at least once and not exercising at all. I try not to beat myself up over it when I don't have the chance to exercise, but it's SO important for your mental health to get something in. 30 minutes of cardio within a 7 day period is all it takes.

No. 491377

I sometimes hate reading the vent thread, seeing what awful things anons are going through and knowing I can't help them or make them feel better. Sometimes I wanna say comforting things like 'you have my support' but I don't want to sound cheesy and it probably wouldn't make them feel better anyway.

No. 491385

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I used to buy weed from a telegram group and it was so cash, they delivered to you, it was great. They closed shop for some undisclosed reason some time ago so I went looking for another group (there's tons here). Well, I got scammed out of 25 euro. I feel so dumb now… Guess it's back to buying from random people at the park for me…

No. 491395

The fact that you don’t want a girl because you fear that’s she’s going to be ugly tells me that you’re not mature enough to be a parent yet

No. 491396

same. also have a gluten allergy. so

No. 491402

It would only haunt you.
When I started using lolcow I had no idea mods can see our entire post history in one place so I must have confessed very private things, even now I still shitpost too much. It's good I'll never be important enough that journalists would look into my anonymous posts on a gossip board.

No. 491419

I always wonder what kind of autism the mods with access to post history know we all have. Modding an imageboard is probably a good place to write your psych thesis or some shit.

No. 491422

I never cared for one direction or any of the members but I like the music harry styles has been putting out lately ngl

No. 491426

Wow, thanks for this very sharp analyis.

No. 491428

I've recently started eating boiled eggs and now it's become a constant craving. I want them right now but it's only 4 pm, I'll make some for dinner though.
Same goes for almonds, I've started eating them like crazy.

No. 491432

>tfw vegan but been craving hard boiled eggs
I miss the chewiness and how delicious they are with a sprinkle of salt. Miss mimosa eggs too, this shit is good.

No. 491433

This used to bother me, but then I remember that to moderate a site like this, you have to be sort of autistic yourself. Plus, if I ever become an important person, I plan to lie my ass off about my internet history.
If it really haunts you, just poison the waters and bend the truth about personal shit to destroy any real life connection to yourself. Switch genders, locations, and intricacies of situations. Posting from the perspective of another person helps, too.
If you really need to vent about something, and you're that paranoid about it being linked back to you, come back in the next few days or weeks and post some stupid bullshit scenario or anecdote that has nothing to do with your life.

No. 491434

Are you buying yourself any Christmas presents anons? If so, what?
I want to treat myself and can't decide on which fancy grandma tea set I want.

No. 491435

>I know it's dumb cause I could just get an irl diary but I have an aversion due to some childhood trauma cause my mom used to read it while holding me back and shaming me. Putting it on paper makes me feel like someone's gonna snatch it and read it and humiliate me for it. But on lolcow my feelings are anonymous and it's just there. It's freeing somehow.
Are you me?

No. 491445

I get the feeling! Sometimes I try to post it anyway. I do it in hopes that it might make them feel a little bit better too. Who knows? They could've been someone who said something nice to me when I needed it.

It's really dumb and optimistic thinking, but the world already sucks and a lot of parts of this board are already filled with vitriol, so even a bit of hope and optimism doesn't really hurt.

No. 491446

Post pics!

I missed out on black friday sales for climbing gear, so I might finally buy myself a harness. Or maybe I'll pay a 3rd party to buy me stuff from that 24-jikan pokemon line, all of the items are so god damn cute.

No. 491449

It's so strange that I've been seeing so many things related to my ex the past week. His name, randomly obscure things he liked, places we've been to have randomly popped up in things I've read or seen. We had an amicable break up and after being reminded of him so much I really do want to try again with him. I've taken this time to work on myself and last I've heard he's gone to therapy.

We haven't talked in a year or so. I have a weird intuitive feeling that he's going to reach out to me soon. I know it sounds crazy but whenever I get this feeling, things happen.

No. 491452

I love watching videos of people cutting their own hair and doing it pretty successfully, mainly because the comments are filled with seething hair stylists saying it looks like shit.

No. 491459

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I'm leaning towards this, it's literally called "grandpa" set.
Climbing sounds like a fun hobby!

No. 491461

Ntayrt but that’s so pretty wtf

No. 491463

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Got to ep 17 of the Untamed and bitch I’m big mad. The lvl of anime villainy is too advanced. Also, imagine my disappointment to find out that the main characters are of course cringy boy idols. I’ll just pretend to not know this.

No. 491466

what's the other one you were thinking?

No. 491475

tell me more anon

No. 491481

Really liked the manhua so I was excited for it but as soon as i saw the cast I lost interest. I even watched a few episodes but the acting and the dialogues (like in most cdramas) were sooo bad.
Wang yibo was a big fat miscast.
It's pretty obvious that their main priority was to please thirsty fans.

No. 491486

Anon those are soooooo pretty!!! I'm a fucking sucker for cute mugs and cups and tea sets. I got a teacup that looks like the ones in the back of your pic, but it has a cute floral pattern on it and is white and pink. It's my favorite cup, but it just sucks that I drink so much tea and I have to use a plain huge cup just to get my fill lol.

I only started a few months ago but it really has been fun! A lot of physical and mental challenges to overcome every time I go, but I really look forward to going every week!

No. 491496

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I have this really cute idea in my head for Christmas gifts to give each of my roommates and I'm so excited to make them. I wanna make little personalized drawings related to their hobbies (plus throw in a little chocolate cause who doesn't love free candy?) I'm normally a grinch who doesn't really care for the holidays but I know they're gonna love it and I'm so excited to see it happen. Only thing is that I'm kinda insecure and overly perfectionist about my art so I'm hoping that I'll be able to make something I can proudly give to them. I can't wait though, neither of them even know that I can draw so they're gonna shit their pants.

No. 491504

TWO strangers just complimented me out of nowhere on the bus and i’m like internally screaming because it was so unexpected and nice?? was just talking to one of my classmates in the back and a lady inwrrupted to say “you’re very beautiful” and i thanked her like 3 times and then this guy turned around and said “and funny”!! don’t know what i did to deserve this kindness but i think i’m gonna return it and compliment a stranger later cuz wow that was really sweet

No. 491507

that’s so fucking cute anon, you’re such a sweetheart for wanting to put time and effort into making personalized gifts catered to their interests, that’s a rare trait and i bet they’ll cherish you even more than they already do. you go, anon!!! make this christmas special!!!

No. 491508

that switch fit game (ring fit?) looks like black mirror 15 million merits episode lol. idk why fitness vista are always so depressing just go outside/to the gym bro

No. 491535

I found Yibo cute ngl kek Not that he's a good actor or anything, he only has to make like 2 whole expressions after all. Knowing they're idols and this is essential an idol show just ruins my fantasy. They seem bland and fake to me now.
Where can I read the manhua anon? I read half of the novel and I thought the anime was crap.

No. 491549

The gym is a lot more boring and depressing than ring fit adventure.

Bouldering is a lot more fun, or dancing, or anything other than the bloody gym.

No. 491550

Yeah, I'm one of those people who needs a gimmick that will trick my brain into thinking working out is fun or I'll never do it. Wii sports/fit was how I lost 40lbs when I was a fat teenager. I don't think there's anything wrong with shit like Ring Fit if it gets people off their asses.

No. 491559

i think this is the most painful my cramps have been and i dont want to move. theres so much i need to do but my god i dont want to now.

No. 491568

My sister has hench arms since getting a VR headset and playing beat saber to all her fave songs. She's lost loads of weight too, as she's been on the keto diet. Would recommend!

No. 491569

i'm bored and my butthole itches

No. 491575

I had my hard boiled egg and I'm happy.

F. Would it be that bad if you had one sometimes?

No. 491593

The only time I like the gym is when I’m lifting. Cardio at the gym is the devils work, it bores me so much even if I try to watch something on my phone.

No. 491601

this dumb shit better be scrot's trollololo

No. 491650

I feel genuinely retarded sometimes. I have so much trouble following plots of books, less so movies and shows but I still have trouble. I can usually get the big picture but miss a lot of details. however, I've been trying to watch elementary, and I get lost at the plots in general but can usually put it together at the end. however, I just watched the episode Miss Taken and I'm so mindfucked by it, I think to understand I'd have to watch again and take notes.

does anyone else have this problem, or am I just uniquely retarded?

No. 491652

imo people who go out their way to brag about being 'empaths' are some of the least self-aware humans in existence

No. 491658

I just noticed how jiggly i.e. fat my ass is but of course it's still "flat." I'm going to have a saggy ass for sure. Welp, time to do squats for the rest of my life. I hate having another thing to worry about when I'm already trying to deal with dark under eyes. lol

No. 491674

Me too anon

No. 491682

They tend to be self obsessed and and unaware of how they come across to others. My mom had an empath friend tell her that she brought cancer upon herself with all her negative thinking. The friendship fizzled out a bit after that lol

No. 491685

I really struggled with friendlessness from 19-21 which made me suicidal. Things started turning around when I was 22, but they really changed when I was 23. Just two years later, I'm baffled when people say they have no friends. I guess some people have shittier luck than me. Honestly I can't think of another reason. I'm spergy and I am even pretty vile sometimes.

Friendless farmers, if I can make friends it's proof that anyone can.

No. 491687

I moved from a small town where I knew loads of people to a bigger town to be with a man, and did that classic thing of putting him first and not keeping up properly with my friends. I know, I hate myself too
now he's dumped me and I regret every choice I ever made lol

at the moment tho I'm glad all my friends are hundreds of miles away. I can sit in my flat like a hermit and wallow in sadness

No. 491690

He is cute but he can't act even if his life depended on it, unfortunately.

It's still ongoing but a good proportion has been translated: https://mangarock.com/manga/mrs-serie-100173630

No. 491691

>Just two years later, I'm baffled when people say they have no friends.
out of all people! if you've been in these shoes, how did you forget how they fit so soon? all Chad's are the same kek

on a serious note, hope my luck turns around but I just don't see it happening. my count of opportunities is going down and will flat line in 6 months when I graduate uni. after that I'll need to slave away fulltime at my job that's only 45+ aged people to afford masters (2 years for sure). I'm predicting descent into actual insanity, I'm struggling as is.

No. 491695

A lot of shit has happened in two years. I was on the verge of dropping out of college but I got my shit together and turned things around. I've been on so many adventures since then. Not all of them great, haha.

But my luck was that I reconnected with an old friend from high school. They didn't end up going to grad school like they had planned, and lived at home and visited me pretty frequently. Then they were tired of living at home, so we were roommates for a couple of months. Long story short, that put me back in the mindset of being able to do college and make new friends. It also made me sperg out less. That's why I say that luck is so important, because I don't think friendless people have worse social skills than me or are weirder.

No. 491696

Most people aren't friendles because they're horrible people or spergs, it's because they got older and circumstances change. People start working full time, having kids, moving away, etc and it's hard to replace the friends you drifted away from when you're busy.

No. 491698

Is that the case for most people online? I think a lot of the people complaining about being friendless are under 25 so it's still young enough to have a friend group.

No. 491700

lmao you're indeed really immature as fuck
god have mercy on your kids

No. 491701

She literally said in response to other anons that despite her weird fantasy of having that perfect boy child she doesn't actually want kids. There are no kids here to feel sorry for

No. 491710

** hypothetical/future kids
just for you, sperg

No. 491725

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JK Rowlings other novels really are something

No. 491735

This reads like some bizzare porn fiction ebook from amazon…
Is it from the Casual Vacancy or one of the Cormoran Strike novels?

No. 491737

I always thought that she was an awful writer, even if I liked Harry Potter as a kid.

No. 491739

Its from Casual Vacancy, the Cormoran Strike series is slightly better albeit a bit cliche but its not safe from Rowling self inserting herself into the series

No. 491753

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Why are there suddenly so many cowtippers? Why do anons like cowtipping? It ruins all the fun. Also cows find their threads so easily these days, are they constantly looking themselves up or is someone telling them about it? (or are they secretly farmers?)

No. 491763

influx of newfriends from outside sources is usually what’s behind it i think

No. 491766

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There’s absolutely no reason why I should like this dumbass yet somehow I fucking do how do you even get over someone you know you shouldn’t like.

I even find him physically attractive etc is wrong with me

No. 491779

some of the most notorious cows have been caught farming (see Kiki, Dasha) so I 100% believe even if they're not posting they're at least lurking.
even lower levels like Kelly's FOTR crew have been caught on here, it's not that big of a stretch to just assume.
as for cowtippers, some of them aren't even farmers I don't think? sometimes it's hard to tell. newfags for sure though

No. 491782

This 100% looks like Lady Gaga. Are you talking about Lady Gaga?

No. 491812

its a reaction image, dumbfuck

No. 491818

Is it just me or has there been an influx of really bitchy/salty anons recently? I know this place has never been flowers and sunshine but still. It's like ot and g are infested only

No. 491819

this exchange has my sides in orbit, never change anons

No. 491821

I used to be very into a girl who could be compared to the female version of a neckbeard/incel, and on top of that she wasn't even cute, I've been there.
How did I get over her? By slowly realizing how bad she was, by having my friends remind me how I could do infinitely better that that, by keeping my mind busy and by getting on a dating app and start talking to other girls who were way cuter and nicer and not constantly toxic and negative like her.

No. 491842

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I am really this fucking awkward?
I am really this incompetent when it comes to being social?

Today I sold a backpack on marketplace for $12,man was waiting for me,walked 20 minutes,arrives at plaza,waits 20 more minutes for this man to appear,man has a daughter,they like the backpack I have,he notices my weird Spanish accent,I tell him I'm from another city/department,he says that's not how said person sounds like from said department/city,my simple response was that Spanish isn't my first language,I even spoke so quickly in Spanish that I swore it almost sounded like gibberish,when they are both satisfied and when the man proceeded to give me the money,I say Merry Christmas,when it's not even Christmas yet even though there was this huge fucking Christmas tree next to us,fuck how embarrassing

No. 491845

Half the time I hate selling online. I go through phases of hating it and not doing anything with it for weeks, then I make a sale and go back thrifting weekly and updating my shop everyday. Today I received a bad review from an order a month ago saying it was overpriced despite accepting the offer they gave me. A while later I get someone wanting a bunch of items, reminding me again why I love reselling old clothes. Finding cute and weird items to go to a loving home instead of the landfill.

No. 491867

Lmfao I am one dense motherfucker

No. 491868

I'm leaving for my plane and going to disney in like 10 hours and I'm not even excited about it, I don't know whats wrong with me.

No. 491872

I've felt like this too lately.

No. 491876

>finding cute items to go to a loving home instead of a landfill

If it's cute it would likely get bought anyway. It's the ugly clothes that are gonna get put in a landfill. Buying cheap things and then upselling them on the internet is douchey IMO. Most people go thrifting to find stuff they like, you're taking the opportunity away from those people to make a profit.

No. 491886

there's always some scrot lurking and trying to stir shit up, or vehemently racist or anti-racist anons going on crusades

No. 491887

Nta but this argument is kinda weak since there is so much shit floating around. There's more than enough to go around, and more is being produced every second of every day.

No. 491894

Yeah, that is a good point.

No. 491900

What I find cute, most people might not. And odds are that those things are also hard to find, especially if you live in the middle of nowhere or a country where these things aren't really popular, so online shopping is the only option really.

Sure, most thrifted items are fugly XXL 80s deceased grandmother garb but you can find lots of nice items and some people are just too busy to thrift regularly as well.

No. 491914

I know I'm gonna cry like a bitch at my coworker's good bye party in two weeks. It's going to make everyone cringe and I gotta come to terms with it.

No. 491965

Idk why but when I listen to music really late at night I get so emotional lmao it doesn't matter what the song is exactly I just get this feeling in my heart like I wanna cry. I think I put a lot of sentimental value into music because I don't really have friends and I rarely express my emotions outwards to people so I put it all into music. I don't exactly feel sad I just get emotional because I love music so much and I like gushing over things I find beautiful. Is that lame, it probably is

No. 491977

Hope this isn't too horny for /ot/.
I wish cute guys would send me nudes…and also not expect them in return.
I just want naked pics of some male friends man, idk. I'm also kind of upset that I've never received a Phallus Photo. While this is good that they're respectful, I'm also very attracted to many of them and would appreciate it despite the complications of not actually wanting to engage romantically or sexually with them.
I'm just sexually frustrated and want some nudes!!!

No. 491980

I don't really understand the Laur/Lillie Jean thing. I get that having a billion sockpuppets is crazy and so is artificially trying to get her daughter an 'influencer' career, but from what I bothered to read it's just the same sort of thing ad nauseum. Getting mad at people calling her daughter's career fake and nothing much else. Maybe I just have a low tolerance for twitter ramblings or something?

I am interested in what's going to happen with the creepy guys they don't tell off though. My understanding of them is literally just skimming the few posts I can see on the front page of /pt/ nowadays so maybe I'm missing out on some really wild shit.

No. 491988

I wish I could find some fun Sirius/Remus fanfic. All I seem to find is angsty wannabe serious author shit.

…Yes in the year of 2019 I still want to read HP fanfics. Sue me

No. 491995

They just naturally attract angst like crazy, their lives are too sad to avoid it.

There is lighthearted stuff though, just filter ao3 to exclude the angst tag and include fluff or humour or something.

No. 491998

was chatting with two colleague ladies at work how I will need to come back here when I'm 80 to get my taxes back (am a foreigner) and they said to drop by as they'll probably still be working here at 110 and saying the same dumb shit and then started laughing and dropping their trademark phrases and idk, that little exchange was so cute and heartwarming for some reason? I really like working here, or rather my colleagues, and I know it will end soon due to me moving on with my life/them retiring but somewhere, in an alternate timeline it would all be unchanged as ever.

idk man, I love women and am overly emotional bc period.

No. 492001

it's fucking dried non-fat creamer. that's how not milk their shit is. i don't get why people are so engrossed in those two. like, yeah, the mother is unhinged, but there are literally so many moms who are delusional about their kids that just spam twitter or whatever all day. yawn.

No. 492114

I'm not gonna sue you anon because you got good taste, Remus/Sirius is my fave pairing in Harry Potter lol.

No. 492185

How many scrotes do you think are on lolcow? Just in the momo thread and saw one in the wild and it genuinely was.. alarming? I've always thought of this place as a "girls club" type of thing so when I see an obvious Male my first response is REEEEEE go away

Bless the mods for outright banning them

No. 492219

God, i hate winter sm, its such a sad hoe season.

No. 492223

Exactly I hate sad hoe season. Summer is superior.

No. 492275

This is really dumb but a pic I posted ended up as an OP pic and it feels good to know I'm funny. Lol

No. 492288

I hate that I can't remember important information but I can still remember the birthdays of people I haven't been friends with in 10 years.

No. 492292

idk why but being complimented on being funny here feels so nice, like somehow a random person thought I was funny while knowing fuckall about me, just via text.

No. 492294

I quite like winter. It's an excuse to dress cozy and you can feel the stillness of death in the air for a few months. It's an interesting time for endings and beginnings.

No. 492305

Agreed. I like to let anons know when they made me laugh but I try not to make too many contentless/empty posts

No. 492332

That's not dumb. It's cool anon! Not being sarcastic either.

No. 492337

A straight woman I know shared a meme yesterday that was something like "I identify sexually as hetero but I identify creatively as gay". What does it meeeeeaaaaan????

No. 492339

It means she’s a goddamn idiot.

No. 492348

Maybe some old-fashioned reference to being artistic or creative = gay

No. 492363

What if I'm possibly arguing with an anon in one thread and being friendly with the same anon in a different thread?
What a hilarious circumstance that would be

No. 492394

I've wondered about this many times

No. 492403

Alright if all is us on this website were all under the same roof, would someone die? I think the situation would be very entertaining.

No. 492404

No. 492411

An anon having a bad day would kill a newfag

No. 492417

Everyone freaking out over some asshole who’s entire life was singing about benzos being awesome dying from benzos is pathetic.

Get a better hero than a junkie who can sing fast.

No. 492499

>It's an interesting time for endings and beginnings.

I'm sorry for pushing my dumb brain shit on you but this line hit me so hard. My ex broke up with me December of last year, and even though we only went out for a month, my little bitch self has been struggling with overcoming it for a long time now. I'm starting to finally feel at peace, so I hope whereas last winter was an end to something, this winter will be the beginning of something.

No. 492500

I always think of this when I start arguing with someone or someone replies something really mean to one of my posts that hurts my feefees lol. It helps me not get so worked up over this dumb website.

No. 492519

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Posted about going to see Portrait of a Lady on Fire in the last thread and finally got to go see it on saturday.

Absolutely lovely and wonderful film. My heart aches and I'm still so emotional over it (am also on my period so it doesnt help lol). Any NYC or LA anons, if you can, please go see this movie! It's available until the end of the week, I believe. I think it's also supposed to come out for a bigger release on Valentines.

I'm so tempted to go back and watch it again, but I don't think my lesbian heart can take it.

No. 492530

they literally do surprisedpikachuface.jpg every time a drug addict dies at a young age. like uwu life is so unfair, god took him so young, blah blah.

the same people will signal boost to carry narcan everywhere but never consider rehab or sobriety.

No. 492531

do you all think its ok to wear a mens tracksuit? because ive been thinking of buying one, but the last one i had was a womans one and i swear womens workout clothes are always made of flimsy materials and they never fit right, but when i borrowed my brothers once they actually had a thick material and they fit ok.

would it be ok or would i look really stupid running around in it

No. 492545

Do what you want anon! If it's for working out in, who cares? Even if it wasn't, who cares! Wear whatever you think is the most comfortable.

No. 492547

Absolutely no one gives a fuck, it's just clothes. Just be careful of the sizing so you're not drowning in fabric and getting uncomfortable.

No. 492550

is there a context where a dad calling his underage daughter a stupid bitch, a whore and a devil spawn is ok?

No. 492560

If she murdered his wife or is about to kill him then I'd say yes. Every other instance is a no.

No. 492572

Do you even need to ask?

No. 492596

I stopped cosplaying a few months ago for various reasons, and I've been a lot happier for it, but my dumbass brain went to go check the twitter of this person I hate for the first time in a long time and I just saw she was going to cosplay a character I really like.

I should really stop having a hate boner for her but I can't help it. She's attractive and a great seamstress, and I know she's going to look good as that character, but she's a shitty person and always plays up that 'uwu im just a smol loli' shtick and hams up the fact that she's like a quarter Asian for extra neckbeard points.

I left the community because I hated how catty it was and I'm just trying to let go and learn how to not be such a fucking cunt but here I am, still being a catty fucking cunt. I shouldn't even care because I don't cosplay anymore and don't really intend to go back to it, but fuck. Old habits die hard I guess.

No. 492597

everything okay at home, anon?

No. 492602

She sounds tepid, but then again she wouldn't be where she is if the cosplay community hadn't enabled behaviors like hers. She is a symptom. You're angry because cosplay actually fucking sucks.

No. 492606

I really miss the crafting and sewing, the puzzle of how to make a prop or a costume from scratch, and the satisfaction of everything coming together, but cosplay really does fucking suck.

It's so fucking vapid that no matter how much I slaved away at my costumes, I always felt like I would fall short. There's so little sympathy in the community. Even if you poured your fucking heart out into the best you could possibly do at that time, people would be ruthless and catty. I spent a big chunk of my life doing it, but I'm so fucking tired now lol. It might be easy for some people to say "it's just for fun! don't care about what other people say!" but I always felt like the people who said that were the ones at the top who were always fawned over lol.

I did find my own little corner of people and had a lot of fun, but the big picture of it all really fucked with my head and self esteem growing up. Sorry for cosplay sperging lol.

No. 492609

nta but i agree, though more than cosplay as a hobby sucking, the people suck. i have had more issues with drama, stalking and general sleaziness within the cosplay community than any other communities i've been a part of. so many really lame people who think they're really cool cause the pool of people they're in is skewed.

No. 492621

Yes! That's what I meant- the people sucking haha. It's changed for the worst in recent years.

It was probably the rose tinted glasses of my very young self, but I really miss the days when it was just a weird and cringey niche hobby. It's always been a popularity contest, but with people monetizing it more than ever now, it feels way too cutthroat. It's just fancy, elaborate dress up. We all look like fucking fools to the outside world, so stop shitting so much on other people.

No. 492661

>I really miss the crafting and sewing

See if there's a crafting group in your area. I joined a group after I moved a few years ago. I still enjoy making things and I've met some really good friends.

No. 492665

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Hey guys, I have a dumbass question to ask. Do you guys think you could help me with a short survey I made for class project due next week? It's only 5 questions and anonymous. I don't have any friends to participate in this, so here I am asking you guys. I get it if this is weird though. Thanks and sorry if this is annoying.


No. 492669

Disney world is overhyped the crowds and lines ain’t even worth it save ur $

No. 492670

Done! By "other" when selecting for finding a new place, I meant Yelp.

No. 492675

done! good luck with your project anon!

No. 492679

Is it sad? Does one of them die or end up with a man like we're so used to in media?
I'll watch it or not, depending on the answer to this question. I've had enough of tragic lesbian love stories, just let us be happy

No. 492680


Done diddly done

No. 492690

what's going on in the comments hy r they so violent….??????????????…???

No. 492691

it's still a good film even if it's sad

No. 492737

It’s very bittersweet. No one dies, but one of the women does end up marrying a man (who she is engaged to and sets the groundwork for the both of the women meeting)

No. 492742

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Thank you everyone who participated! You all really made my week!

No. 492746

This got me a lil hungry.

No. 492749

good luck on your project! you better get an A!

No. 492750

Done! Good luck, anon!

No. 492761

Bought a bunch of makeup today and it feels nice. I never let myself splurge on makeup before and now I can finally use all the colors I've wanted.

No. 492767

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That’s awesome anon I really hope you enjoy it all. I hope all you ladies are doing the best you can

No. 492771

sorry i just read ppl in the onion thread describe stevie as "articulate". ummmm? what. stevie sounds like those edgy tryhard guys that bombard you with 'biting' comparisons but take like, way too long to come up with them while speaking, and they're never as good as they think they are. sounds a lot like razorfist/"the rageaholic", for example. not articulate at all. i know so many edgetard guys that speak like this and it's so bad. like, less is more. your rage seems entirely manufactured.

No. 492773

I fucking LOVE marina's the family jewels and electra heart albums

No. 492819

This goes without saying anon

I am actually seriously appreciating Froot and Love and Fear right now.

Marina siempre

No. 492853

People who use words like incel or boomer unironically to make arguments in serious conversations should never give their opinion on anything

No. 492874

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After months of wanting something with reversible sequins on it, I finally got myself a pencil case with bluish-purple and silver sequins. I can't stop playing with it. I love being so easily entertained by sparkly stuff.

No. 492875

god I just spent good 2 minutes at a supermarket playing with a plush dog toy made of reversible sequins. why are they so fun/are we both crows anon? congrats on your purchase!

No. 492877

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nta but I love you girls so much. I hope you're all doing well.

No. 492880

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Saw this ad on the subway maybe like two years ago or so, and it's stuck with me ever since.

No. 492896

Stevie's fucking retarded and I'm sure the people defending him obviously don't know about him or is actually Stevie himself samefagging.

No. 492904

There is a really fucking weird community on youtube of people who hate monkeys and fantasize about hurting them, there's a thread about them >>478353

No. 492911

Cows receiving nicknames is usually kinda funny but lately some anons in a few threads are making it cringy.

No. 492950

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These are really cute, but they are super short. I wish they were longer or were shaped like clips

No. 492952

maybe you can glue them to some clips? they are super cute now i want some!!

No. 492966

every time there's some anime showing on cinemas the same drama happens 'coz of some autists ruining shit for everyone

sometimes i wonder if anime were to become super mainstream outside japan like hollywood capeshit, would it greatly outnumber the screaming autists or it would it make it worse

No. 492981

Probably worse considering how fucking awful the kpop fandom is.

No. 492997

i think it'd make it better, kinda like how ghibli movies are pretty normie and their showings are always very average
the autists would still go, but it'd be less concentrated

No. 492999

Man I used to follow this girl on instagram who was a total cow when I want to post her here so badly but it’s just like… do I really want to be that bitch?? I wish I had saved all of her ridiculous posts but I had to end up unfollowing her because she was so fucking annoying. But it was very entertaining nonetheless.

No. 493000


in hindsight, would that make anime cut down on cliche fanservice/borderline hentai crap just to make it palatable to more normies? i can imagine the autistic screeching about censorship if that happens

No. 493011

I feel like for some people spending too much time in internet communities eventually rots their brains like this. They just can't stop repeating these buzzwords and never seem to have any actual opinions, just parroting whatever arguments are common on the websites they frequent.

No. 493030

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Just gave up on the tiny amount of dignity that was left in me by ordering customized stickers of my favorite 2D characters online at this print shop near me.

Kinda cringe but I am a poorfag and cannot order anything overseas because 1) no money 2) the customized stickers in that print shop are pretty fucking cheap 3) I still live with my parents and my mother refuses to open the door to anyone due to paranoia and mental illness lol.

Still feels like I fucked up somehow and that the people in the print shop are going to laugh at me because of the pictures I picked. Kill me now.

No. 493032

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Damn I'm so grateful for my 2 friends who not only tolerate but appreciate my autism. They let me read the instruction manual and act amazed when I point out a cool function. They let me stiffly follow a recipe and allow me to delegate tasks for that recipe. The best thing is how sometimes they can realize that I'm biting my lips as to not give unsolicited advice, they would go "Aaa Idk what to do~" to casually hint to me that I can give input. They even let me nag at them for stuff like reminding to take vitamins and how they're not mopping the floor in the most efficient way. That's what I'm thankful for today.

No. 493034

That's adorable anon! Think of how happy you'll be to receive the product. Supporting local business is cool as well.

No. 493039

thank you i love you

No. 493042

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I'm on Okcupid again after an awful, unhealthy relationship ended two months ago, and even though I know that I'm most likely not ever going to meet any of those girls as they live far away, it feels good to speak to them.
Hell yes, it feels good to have all those nice, interesting and very attractive girls liking me and complimenting me after that bitch made me feel awful about myself all the time, like I wasn't enough, when the truth is that she was the one far below my league.
Now I know where to put my standards at, and it feels nice to have this positive attention by girls who are a thousand times better than the one girl who pulled an Onision on me.
Life is good

No. 493053

i'm sure you're a nice cutie, anon.

No. 493068

I went through a system of a down phase in high school, and I guess it's called nu-metal. I hate all other related bands though so idk what happened. Also check out some of the music serj has done on his own if you're interested.

No. 493070

i've been getting really into clubland and trance music again. i enjoyed it a lot as a kid and it's been fun to reminisce about the songs and music videos i enjoyed. i still remember the lyrics to most of the really popular songs which has been making the nostalgia trip even better. i've been making a playlist of all the popular songs and my personal favourites. idk i'm just having a really good time right now, just wish i could gush about it with some more people. also ALL of cascada's songs have aged great.

No. 493101

so I work in a womens retail clothing store, and I have a couple of older Vietnamese clients who are always so nice and kind to me, even though their English is sometimes broken. would it be cheesy for me to learn how to say hello and goodbye in Vietnamese? one even remembers my name and even brought her sister visiting from Vietnam to the store to say hi to me, and I wonder if learning hello and goodbye would be a nice way to show I appreciate it? or would it be insulting, like I'm implying their english sucks? idk

No. 493111

Y'all put a smile on my face. It's been a rough day but now it's a bit better.

No. 493117

That sounds awesome anon, i'm glad you're having fun haha. I usually don't pay much attention to playlists unless it's like a house/techno mix or something but it's fun making your own because you decide which songs are best and match the aesthetic. I was thinking of making a new year's eve playlist for dancing and partying, basically any song i can think of that you can dance to lol

No. 493122

instead of learning on your own to surprise them (or you could do that to finesse it first) you could ask them to teach you small phrases like that? that way it shows you're interested in their culture directly to them, and also avoids the awkwardness of not knowing anything else since they'll know how much you know.

No. 493153

No I’m sure they’ll appreciate it anon!! The older vietnamese people I’ve met always showed joy at the those who show interest in their language in culture.

No. 493232

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Thanks, nice anon.

No. 493242

I don't want to get banned for wk in her thread but Holly Brown, despite her issues, is super sweet and I think the pics she posts with her dog are adorable. The last pics of her dressing up as an elf and making faces with Zero are extremely wholesome and I wish the best for her.
This is weird as fuck to be writing at 7am but hey!

No. 493266

>My friend was getting annoyed by a creep who was asking her favorite sexual positions and her chest size while sending pics
>Turns out he's 14

What the fuck is it with preteen/teenage males being "bold" to adult women? It is disgusting. I had a 12-13 year old hit on me while I was walking by myself. How is it even possible for them to act like this?

No. 493273

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My sister wants to circumcise her son, now I'm a diehard feminist but even I understnad how dumb and pointless circumcision is and I argued very hard against it but she's not budging

No. 493278

Not your kid, seems intrusive to push your views about it onto her

No. 493283

Sims 2 is the best

No. 493284

Well, at least I'm sure you did your best to explain to her why it's needless, inherently harmful, and additionally medically dangerous in a lot of other ways. You can't fix everyone or every problem in the world but at least you shared the information you could. Most people, once they have their mind made up, will never budge though because dogma and pride win out over everything especially when it comes to very personal topics like their life choices or their children.

No. 493285


nta but cutting off a part of a baby's penis for whatever non-medical reason is pretty "intrusive" of the parents as well

>inb4 "ew uncircumcised cock is gross unhygienic wah" how about you tell your son early on to wash his fucking dick it's not that difficult

No. 493286

with sims 1 soundtrack modded in.

No. 493287

They have the coomer mindset of your typical man plus all the idiocy that comes with being that young. And there's no consequences for them. It's gross and uncomfortable and I shudder to think of how the little fuckers will be when they're adults, since nobody's bothered to tell them off.

No. 493294

I'm not pro circumcision, it's the parents decision though, not an aunts or an uncles

No. 493298

Unless it's medically necessary, it's so gross that people would want to alter a baby's genitalia for aesthetics or tradition or whatever. I can't accept circumcision, because it makes it ok for the same sickos to cut a baby girl's labia or clitoris if they see fit. Not to say they're equal things, it's the same logic though.

No. 493300

It should be no one's choice but the person who will be circumcised. Its genital mutilation for ~aesthetic~ reasons.

No. 493302

I've already said I don't personally agree with it. Reality is it's still a choice offered to parents

No. 493313


No. 493334

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>want to buy something from taobao and aliexpress
>but what about hong kong

No. 493348

I've spend so much time watching jewelry collections on youtube today

No. 493352

Bruh same

No. 493353

>want to buy a Xiaomi phone because good and cheap
>but what about HK
>but what if the Chinese gov spies on me

No. 493356

I'm circumcised and I still love my parents lol(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 493373

>as if Google already doesn't
Just buy the cheap China phone, it's not like it makes a difference

No. 493375

IMO there's nothing "intrusive" about telling people that cutting up babies for no reason is wrong. It shouldn't be aunts, uncles, grandparents, parents, anyone's decision to circumcise a baby, because it shouldn't happen in the first place. It's fucked up.

No. 493377

fuck off troonscrote

No. 493378

Go away scrotefag

No. 493382

My husband is 5”1 AMA

No. 493388

It SHOULDNT be the parents decision though, and doctors shouldn’t perform the procedure as it is harm being done to a healthy body

No. 493392

The people who sperged out about that one cosplayer who cosplayed as a new Steven Universe character without adding a spoiler tag are silly. The story wasn't even revealed or anything.
Oh no, you've witnessed a screenshot of a character you did not know of before. The whole show is ruined.
Seriously, it's pathetic.

No. 493398

No more pathetic than her taking pictures of herself crying because of shit people said on the internet about it. Lmao.

No. 493399

That, too, but I assumed that she wouldn't be known in the thread if pathetic behavior wasn't standard issue for her.
It's the unknown watchers/followers I'm surprised about. I don't get how group consensus can be so cringy, and all at the same time.

No. 493400

Link? I want to see this drama, kek

No. 493401

No. 493405

>>493382 how tall are you

No. 493409

Has he confirmed, or denied that Wonka forces him to sing and dance while he works?

No. 493445

5”3, he has a growth hormone deficiency but he’s a sweet boi

No. 493447

5’3 not 5”3

No. 493457

Just saw petscop ended and the creator revealed himself. I still don't really get what happened but I'm glad I watched it play out. I'm now itching to go read more theories but will have to hold off until the weekend.

No. 493461

I hope this isn't too personal but how good is his dick ?

No. 493466

Are you now or have you ever been one of /g/‘s manlet fetishists?

No. 493477

No but it is adorable, Ive always wanted to feel tall

No. 493479

It’s average sized, I’ve fucked taller guys with smaller dicks

No. 493480

Does he have a complex about it? (Jealousy, angry little man syndrome)

No. 493485

He can be really sensitive but I wouldn’t say he has anger issues, I’m kind of the one with serious jealousy and insecurity issues.

No. 493488

Try using the argument that the practice has been linked to male aggression, and that sustaining massive trauma at the hands of supposed caregivers so early in life obviously has severe adverse affects on the development of empathy.

No. 493494

this, just cite all the theories that it causes autism and they will think again. then if their son is autistic they will blame themselves.

No. 493498

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is he one of those super buff manlets or a normal bodied manlet ??

No. 493501

is that joe rogan? what happened to his neck ?

No. 493528

As a teen I thought Ramsey was overhyped, but now I'm watching Kitchen Nightmares and it's a lot of fun.

But now I can't live in blessed ignorance of politely ignoring shit cooking.

No. 493551

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I'm leaving lolcow for good, so this is goodbye. So long and thanks for all the memes

No. 493561

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No. 493633

Underrated kek

No. 493637

After I graduated, my department sent me a letter saying that they donated a book to my school library in my honor. It wasn't a book entirely relevant to my studies (it was a book about Korean-Americans I think, I studied International Relations and Asian Studies but with a focus on Japan and my thesis was on democracy and violence in Latin America (long story lol)), but occasionally I think about it. Not sure why they did it for me, or if this is a common occurrence that they do for a lot of graduates, but it warms my heart a little bit to know there's a small little dedication plaque to me in a book in my school's library.

I probably won't ever do anything noteworthy in my life or leave behind any sort of legacy, but when I die that little plaque will hopefully still be in that library. I hope it'll be a useful book to at least one student.

No. 493646

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Lmao koreaboos are so fucking retarded

No. 493649

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Where is this from, i nearly peed myself

No. 493650

Twitter ofc

No. 493652

>>493650 should've known, hoped it was a thread or something w more of this

No. 493684

I work for a Japanese company here in the US but speak minimal Japanese (studied in school, promptly forgot everything after graduating) and now my coworkers are trying to get me to speak only in Japanese so I can become comfortable with it again.

I'm… so grateful that they're nice enough to indulge me in having very casual conversation so I can practice again, but that first step of getting over the anxiety of making mistakes sucks lol. I know it's all in my head and I'm a lot closer and chill with these coworkers but man it's hard to be fully comfortable with making a fool of myself in front of them.

No. 493716

I fucking hate high heels…why does that shit even exist..i wore them once and i'd never do it again.

No. 493751

They can seriously fuck up your arches too, yea they look nice but idk man so does a turd covered in gold. I support this message.

No. 493767

I’ve been walking around with a Dino in a backpack and I’m 28

No. 493809

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If everything falls apart, at least I'm still cute.

No. 493847

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Who's bright idea was it to give Brazilians control of the amazon's safety and well being?
Why does Brazil have the largest population of Japanese aside from Japan itself? I mean, i know why. I've read lots about the history of the Japanese-Brazilian immigration but still, i don't get it. Everything from the language, culture, cuisine and flora are completely different. Don't twist this into racebait shit I'm just being a history nut
t. brazilian

The best way to avoid that line of thought is to understand that native speakers make mistakes too. Native speech is messy in any language! Learn some key words like "place", "thing", "situation", "location", etc. so you can fill in gaps in your vocabulary for when you forget something. If you worry too much about sounding perfect you'll just sound artificial. Go with the vibe! It's all a part of the language learning experience.

>pic unrelated

No. 493905

Thank you anon! I actually did a homestay for a semester in rural Japan and I was able to get over my speaking anxiety because it was like… "oh I need to tell my host mom things, I can't worry about how I sound because she needs to know XYZ thing" and everything fell into place afterwards and I picked up so much and improved so much in just those few months… then I came back to the states and fell out of practice and everything fell apart haha.

I hope I'll be able to become even halfway as comfortable as I used to be…!!

Also I snorted loudly when I finally saw the mirror in your pic lol…

No. 493921

I love those, I've walked past the cushions in shops before and wrote notes in them lol. enjoy your pencil case!

No. 493942

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Virgin Billie Eilish v. Chad Ariana Grande

No. 493945

>ariana grande
>stage presence
massive coping right here

No. 493946


No. 493947

I know, that was my first thought too. Remember this? Skip to ~:50 to be blown away by stage presence!!!!!

No. 493951

dumb bitch meme thread is my favorite

No. 493979

The HR girl told me to not put that I took an hour lunch break because I technically worked by helping them clean up after our company birthday lunch today (my coworker made me go on break but we don't have an official break room/area and the lunch was held in the conference room we usually use for break), but I just helped clean up because I felt like it was going to be too weird to just sit there like a useless person when there was obviously stuff to be helped with lol. Well, works out for me I guess. I need that sweet extra $$$ since my paycheck today was shit because I didn't get holiday pay for Thanksgiving.

This is my first office job so maybe I just sound like a fucking idiot, like of course I should be paid for doing work lol but on the other hand I'm just so used to helping out with set up/clean up for school events and friend's parties lol.

I ate good and they let me have 3 slices of cake. In defense of the cake, they were thin slices and the HR girl tells me they usually throw out the extra slices anyway, so if I enjoy the hell out of cake then more power to me yaay.

No. 493982

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cannot stop laughing at this and needed to share with someone

No. 493985

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thanks anon but consider also this

No. 494015

Just started reading an anthology I got way back in high school that I haven't read yet, and the 4 stories I read so far weren't that great.
Which sucks cause I just read a really good one and I was all excited to start a new one and now I'm not do much

No. 494024

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Can someone please put into words why this is fucking hilarious?

I'm trying to explain to my older, foreign coworker why this is so funny but she doesn't get it. I don't know how to explain it. I just think it's really stupid and dumb humor. Or maybe it's just that my brain is so rotted from internet memes lol

No. 494026

Because it's so absurd it's funny. Like it's just smashing words together to create a verbal sandwich and it looks hilarious. Also the tone of the meme is like hype at the same time but the hyping of it is funny because it's stupidly hype like getting yourself excited over nothing but complete nonsense and dumb shit lol

No. 494030

I actually used to know two guys online who'd argue trumpet v trombone as those were their instruments of choice.

No. 494034

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A while back for some reason I managed to get really deep into some orchestra memes, especially trombone section ones. I have no idea why. I've never been a part of an orchestra

No. 494074

I hate how this exact kind of sense of humor feels catered to me but I could never describe why I think it's so funny. I guess "so absurd its funny" like >>494026 said is the closest you can get.

No. 494111

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it's just nonsensical silliness. we know what it's really called, so when we see some silly alternate, idk, it just does something for us. reminds me of these. idk why but they give me a little laugh.

No. 494129

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I… have no words.

No. 494132

Anaphylactic shock is for pussies.

No. 494136

Yeah Bob, because they're all dead.

On a more serious note, allergies can develop depending on what the child is fed and what surroundings it lives in, but it's also genetic.

I have noticed that kids from countries where people normally spend a lot of time indoors, socialize less and rely mostly on supermarket food tend to be more allergic and gluten-intolerant but it could very well be just Anglo and Scandinavian genetics I suppose.

No. 494139

Thanks anon! I’m also Japanese office anon from above and while I was crying laughing trying to explain this to one coworker, another coworker came over and read it in a very heavy accent and it sent me over the edge. I’m not sure if he laughed because the dumb nonsensical phrase was actually funny to him, or if he was laughing at me laughing lol. Later he showed me he had the image pulled up in his phone, but he was also heading up to a meeting with the company president and HR director… I’ll update you guys if I lose my job over a dumb meme lol.

No. 494153


This may be of interest

No. 494198

This is fucking popping kek I want more AI music.

No. 494201

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No. 494235

Pretty much what >>494026 said, it takes you by surprise and plays with your expectations so your reaction is to first be confused and then laugh. Laughter is usually linked to surprise which is why the key element of comedy is good timing, however I personally feel that overanalyzing why things are funny often dilutes the comedy.

that image is funny as shit tho and I actually giggled out loud at it

No. 494241

These don't make me laugh but I kinda think they are cute and wholesome? Like looking at a kitten.

No. 494259

God I hate how people talk on the internet sometimes. Like inept unintelligible morons. They literally can't speak properly sometimes, like this one site I got on I swear everyone on there is an absolute fucking idiot. I need to take a breath and step away for a while before I explode lol

No. 494271

It's almost 5pm and all I did today, except eat a bit, was sleep. I can't help but feel like shit about it, wasting the whole day. I hate being at home.

No. 494275

My parents are sleeping in separate beds again but I did get out of seeing my extended family by pretending to sleep so it's all fine.

No. 494296

I was on an imageboard for one of my favorite childhood series and someone was posting borderline porn there and I expressed surprised at it being allowed on the board [because last time I was on this imageboard that shit was completely banned]. Then someone, presumably a mod, told us to "stop" and told me to "stop acting like a nigger" (whatever that means) and I responded why do you white Americans (it said this at first before I corrected to just say all Americans) have to make everything by race and being racebaiting cunts? Well before you know it, I somehow got all my posts deleted and me obviously banned, with the porn posting moron still having his posts up as well as the guy who was denying this was porn.

Obviously the mods were buttblasted by me since they're clearly white, american, males themselves and thought i was attacking them racially even though calling someone a nigger is racial attacks as well but hey you can use racial slurs directed at non white people but you're taking it too far if you call out a nationality or ethnic group by themselves lol. Fuck i hate scrotes so fucking much and i hate american nerds so fucking much.

No. 494298

by the way I corrected it to all americans because all americans do that race baiting shit and it's obvious.

anyways i just can't relate to male online culture at all,i disagree with literally everything they say and they penalize me for it.

No. 494313

Anyone else had ocd since childhood or is it more common to have it in adulthood?

I never realised i had it cause i thought ocd is just being obsessed over cleanliness and order, until i became more aware of my actions once i got older, and asked myself why i have these rituals and why i'm so overly anxious about trivial things.
I strongly believe i've inherited it.

No. 494318

I had it worse during childhood, in adulthood i cottoned on and learned to hide it/work on stopping it.
think I inherited it too? does ADHD or anxiety run in your family anon?
a lot of weird ritualistic shit my mum does I have picked up. wish I was born in a fucken bubble and raised by aliens.

No. 494325

>male space
>expecting porn-free environment
Idk why you thought it could be any other way. You should stop hanging out in those cesspits anyway if getting called ‘nigger’ is a hard line for you (do you happen to be black? Cause tbf they call everyone that). Not just american thing, males on imgboard are just like this.

No. 494326

My mum tends to overthink, and worry excessively and my dad does seem to have some obsessions but he hides it pretty well.
I think he mentioned that one of his parents was obsessed with health, so it does run in the family.
During my childhood it was more about compulsions but now it's almost always obsessive thoughts, which has been making my life to fucking hell.
I wish i could just be like a regular person for once who just worries about actual important things.
When i tell people, they're almost always like "oh yeah i'm an overthinker, too!" so i kinda go with it now, i or don't tell anyone about it anymore.

No. 494332

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No. 494359

Yeah, no one else in human history has ever been racist outside of America. The US is the only country on the planet where racism exists.

No. 494365

yeah its not like most people on english speaking sites are american and it's not like it's just a way to hit them, right

No. 494398

she should stop hanging out here too tbh.

No. 494412

thinking about how mods read my post history just makes this place another avenue where I cant express anything. if they werent such salty cunts who literally make fun of us publicly then it wouldnt be so bad.

No. 494413

They're doing it for free, remember that anon.

No. 494428

I contribute to the PP threads and many discussions on lolcow since I'm not a shitposter. what do you do besides start arguments ?

No. 494429

If someone can call you a "nigger" then "american" can be used an insult. I am not understanding why the former is considered okay but the latter is like some personal attack when both is some random insult. Anyways that board had little shitposting or fights in it and I also used to interact with the art and fan community on there because it was one of the better boards and active communities where you can talk about it is hard to find. It just recently went to shit, but oh well.

No. 494442

>implying pink pill isn’t shitposting

No. 494449

I had a dream I got killed and now im angry

No. 494450

ah, so that's why the threads have been shit lately

No. 494452

NTA but they're shit because they got merged.

No. 494453

it's not that you're necessarily wrong, but what were you expecting? In their board culture, one word is just jokes and the other is probably assumed to be sjw or something. It's not true outside of their tiny bubble but if you want to hang out there you need to accept it. Just like how here it's fine to express feminist opinions but defending men excessively could have penalties. It's not a reflection of how the rest of the world works, it's just our board culture. You're getting yourself needlessly frustrated by applying regular logic to some niche board.

No. 494456

proof that women can be autistic.

No. 494473

I know im a dumbass for getting mad which is why I posted it here. I think I'm just getting burned out of internet culture in general.

No. 494480

Oof. A guy came into my job today and he had this kind of confidence that drives me absolutely crazy, I jumped at the opportunity to talk to him as soon as my coworker invited me to join the conversation. I’m in a relationship but like idk. Felt good to feel that “fresh” attraction to someone again, even though I’m not going to pursue it.

No. 494494

I understand you anon, I grew up using imageboards because it's fun and anonymous but I don't understand why it needs to be "culture" to call others niggers and other slurs. Some assholes see imageboards as a place to be as terrible as they want but there should be more positive spaces for discussion and sharing as well.

No. 494505

i don't have a problem personally with the "nigger", "nigga" board culture thing when it was, you know, 9-10 years ago. first of all, it's fucking lame to keep using it when we know political landscapes have drastically shifted, and it seems like it's trying REALLY hard to hark back to a time of "old internet culture". it's just not organic anymore. it was never totally kosher to use it, but it wasn't as politically charged back then, the racism on the boards wasn't as obvious, intentional and sought to be spread in the way it is now. it's just totally different and lame to use it still, imo. i get the "board culture" thing, but like, it makes them seem like children trying too hard to integrate based on an old idea of the chans, or a 33 yo that can't let go.

No. 494515

i don't think that it was ever cool or a different enough political climate lmao.

No. 494518

you're delusional or weren't on the boards back then. the political climate is objectively a million times worse now, both online and irl, and chan culture is objectively more politically charged and motivated, and racially charged/motivated now.

No. 494522

It's been about the same, however as an adult I tend to become more reactive to the thoughts. I'm slowly retraining myself with the help of a therapist not to react so negatively.

No. 494523

I am convinced CBD does quite literally nothing and is just a big gimmick to get money.

No. 494528

This. Back in 2004 4chan was edgy and based on cynicism and dark humor, but it wasn't politically charged at all. Everyone got made fun of equally because they were counter-culture and based on having fun without limiting borders. I know it's hard to imagine for zoomers who have only seen the controversial board culture of the 2010s but back in the day something like the "nigga stole my bike" meme was done because it was a funny misinterpretation of a screen from a video game, not a politically charged attack towards black people. I was in my teens in the early to mid 2000s and I shit you not, I could reveal my gender on 4chan without a ton of "whores need to get back in the kitchen" or "tits or gtfo" replies showered on me. The only even remotely similar meme was "there are no women on the internet" but it was done to make fun of basement-dwelling male nerds posing as women to fuck around with people, not to demean women themselves.

Now it's just a disaster of straight out sexism, racism, homophobia and every meme is derived from spiteful intentions. It's still counter-culture, but a reactionary one towards the mainstream PC discourse which I hate as well. Everything on the internet is way too politically involved these days, now I have to take my escapism to the real world instead.

No. 494538

I think you're being nostalgic because 4chan has always been a misogynist hellhole where scrots can masturbate over how much they hate anyone female. Early on they had loli and guro boards.
The general level of political hatred has increased through the years though, yes.

No. 494541

>t. i've been going to chans since 2012 and read this on a wiki!!!!!

No. 494544

Why do you think so? I unfortunately visited the guro board, which was of course filled with misogynist porn.
Anyway, I am glad I never got that extreme reactivity disease a lot of long term users get. It made me scared and hateful towards scrots as a teen though.

No. 494546

Both the guro and the loli board were removed very early on, during the first year in fact, and often ridiculed by the majority of the users. It's straight out retarded to claim that 4chan of 2004 was the /pol/ infested hell hole it's now simply due to muh guro board which relates to nothing in general either. Opening up r9k was the real downfall of the site.

No. 494550

Anon, my point was that the site has always been hostile to women specifically.

No. 494573

anyways, original talk was about the racism. the racism is much worse. 4chan was always misogynistic, but it was never as bad as it is today, just as a general tone throughout the site and throughout like, all chans. the tone is sooooo much more malignant towards groups (women, blacks, jews, and just anyone that isn't white, really) throughout the entire site. everything was nowhere near as bad as today, that's the important part. the nigger/nigga shit wasn't genuinely racially charged because the boards were nowhere near as politically/racially minded and just generally hateful wrt groups. they are nothing but hateful now and they are spreading their ideologies to convert people through "humor" and through that veneer of plausible deniability that was once kind of actually valid in the past, because it really was mostly just humorous and not about race in the past. it's really stupid to use it now knowing that board culture now is so political, but it was definitely different before.

No. 494578

When I was a 14 year old I didn't eat anything except maybe less than 500 calories daily for 3 months or so and when I was sent to this girl group to talk about le trauma this really really REALLY overweight girl seemed nice and here I thought I made my first friend. When we hung out a bit, I remember I got really happy and calm to the point I felt it was alright to buy some warm chips with mayonnaise to celebrate my new friendship. I was really poor to the point I could get only €2,- a month but I still decided to ask my new friend if she was up to her own bag of fries as well, and so I bought 2 bags of fries (it was a cheap snackbar and HQ too so there were a lot of fries) and I guess she started eating her fries really fast, when I looked up it was practically gone. By that time I ate 1/4th of my own content and she fished out like 3 big sticks from mine and I was shocked and felt really betrayed (I'm poor and I thought that she would see how hard I try to be good to her) so I asked her why she did that without asking and she yelled at me and said that she has a binge issue and then she snatched the entire bag and devoured it in seconds. I was legit depressed over this for a week straight but then I got over it and now I laugh at it even though I really wanna poison her when I'm feeling bad.

No. 494684

the confession threads always have the best ops.

No. 494711

I think this is a nice way of thinking about it, but it's effectively wrong
A lot of the racism that exists today is directly stemming from the racism that was there before–people actually started coming to 4chan so they could be racist, and for some reason you think that has anything to do with a specific political spectrum

The whole "nigga/nigger" dichotomy is flawed, I remember thinking 4chan wasn't as racist as people think because quite a few people expressed the view "nigger doesn't mean black person, nigger just means stupid person, anyone can be a nigger"–but that's not actually accurate nor does it represent anything truthful.
I thought the same thing when it came to the whole idea that everyone was a faggot. People new to the site were newfags, people one the site from the beginning were oldfags, it's just edgy humor that isn't really about shitting on gay people. But it really still is.

You can't escape the racism on 4chan and even if you go back 10-15 years from today, everyone who claims to be black/minority/gay/lbt and is okay with the whole edgy humor thing absolutely reeks of the same kind of "pick me" bullshit we get with conservative women sticking up for shitty awful men
Regardless of how people acted, then and now, you'd still be a nigger even if you did everything right to try to escape that.

I've been on 4chan since 2007-8 if that means anything
You're right, 4chan is a completely different beast now–but it's not worse, it's just less subtle which is more often than not really fucking exhausting

No. 494715

Not really a vent, so I guess this goes here.

There's this really cute local-ish grocery store. Caters to mostly an asian/international community, but it's close to a university so it's really modern and sleek. I love it because I can buy freshly made Donburi, Macarons, and south American soda in one trip.

But there's this new(?) worker who is weirding me out. Nothing sexual, he's just so awkward and I never want to see him again.

The first time, I bought a few cans of "Inca Kola" and he took like an extra couple minute just to look over the can, assumedly because he never saw it. I obliged and told him a bit more about it, but really the social cue was "please hurry up and ring my stuff up". He took it kindly, and as a joke he pretended that he was going to keep it by stuffing it in his jacket. It wasn't like, deep within his jacket, but it was popping out of his half zipped jacked inbetween that and his undershirt. Naturally I thought this was disgusting and washed the can when I got home–who the fuck does that? I put my mouth on that?
I really wanted to tell him off or at least demand that I switch the can, but I was too stunned at the moment from the sheer weirdness to think of that right away.

The next time, I see him and I swerve hard. So hard, he had nobody in line at his register and I immediately turn to this older, asian granny who takes forever to ring stuff up. All of my stuff is in my hands, so I put it on the counter next to the register while the granny finishes with another guest. He looks over and I pretend it's too much of a hassle to go over to him "I'll just wait over here" I say. He doesn't take the hint and does the "nice thing"
He grabs a basket, walks over, puts all of my stuff in his basket, and walks back. This is while another customer just starts to get in line. So now, he's created this awkward situation where I'm in line about to get my stuff checked out, another customer is in his line, but now the customer in his line has to wait because he can't just fuck off.
I don't say anything directly to him, but I face the customer and apologize to try to say "hey bud, you fucked up"–but I really doubt he got the hint. At the very least, he seemed slightly pissed off, so he didn't say anything.

Fuck that guy. That's weird, right? That's just weird.

No. 494717

I don't know if this helps, but commercial CBD isn't as regulated as it could be, which means that businesses don't really have to keep track of how much they put in their products.
I can't say I've had any experience with CBD, but I've seen a few tests and quite a few products claim to have amounts of CBD in them but the actual amount differs–both far over and under what is listed.

No. 494762

That is so weird, he sounds either very socially awkward or is just completely oblivious to the fact he’s making you uncomfortable. Either way he isn’t picking up normal social cues - just try and avoid him to the best of your ability. Hope you have happy undisturbed future shopping anon!

No. 494785

I always lowkey check out this cute barista at the starbucks I go to while I look like disheveled haggard shit and he fuckin matched with me on tinder.

I can never go to that one ever again.

No. 494805

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Settle something for me, doesn’t this actress Park Jin Joo totally look like she has FAS?

No. 494826

I have a coworker who sort of flaunts her money, very casually like I’m not totally sure she’s aware of it. She wants to get everyone at work a gift card to their favorite store and today she approached me about it.. and for the first time in my life, I told her exactly how I felt. I politely told her I didn’t feel comfortable accepting that type of gift from her but I appreciate the thought. She was shoooocked, but took it well and said she’ll donate the amount to a charity instead. I need to speak up more often lmao it wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be

No. 494828

anons i’m off to tokyo for a three day trip. aside from moving overseas by myself to live (i live in a nearby country to japan making this short trip easy to do) i’ve never travelled by myself before. i hope it goes well . i’m really nervous but i’ve planned pretty much everything so i hope it goes okay. i’ve heard japanese people are really helpful even if you can’t speak japanese so i’m hoping that rumour is true

No. 494868

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you cannot possibly comprehend my absolute fucking delight upon seeing a dog sleep like this. it is so insanely cute it breaks my heart. my dog sleeps like this a lot and i adore it. it's even better when he's having a dream and does little bubble barks in his sleep. SO cute.

No. 494878

I'm applying to a behind-the-scenes position at the university library's science department and I wish I could just write in my application letter that I am a literal autist who catalogues and edits shit for fun. Everyone applying to a position like this writes that they're super hardworking, thorough and detail-oriented even if that's not really true and they would rather hang around the coffee machine or browse social media all day like normal people. Not me. I genuinely get immense satisfaction from this shit and will work through lunch breaks if I don't set an alarm reminding me to eat. I will even correct the messy grammar on their homepage for free if they let me. In fact, I've already done so. HIRE ME

No. 494893

Wide set eyes, long septum and thin lips indicate yes but tbh if it actually is FAS it's the mildest I've ever seen. Quite probable it's just her face.

Speaking of which isn't FAS so weird. Sometimes you'll meet someone and their face tells you 'my mom drunk while I was a baby' and they might not even be aware of it.

No. 494920

I have to work on Christmas and honestly it sounds pretty comfy. My workplace always has a potluck on Christmas Eve so there’s going to be a bunch of homemade leftovers, and I’m going to park my car away from the building to make it look like it’s closed. There’s only one other person working and we agreed that we’re going to spend the night watching movies.

No. 494930

where do you work? that sounds nice. i'm also working on christmas day. i work in a care home so i'm excited. everyone's going to be too tired by 6pm so we'll likely tuck them into bed and spend the next few hours chilling.

No. 494936

I work at a pharmacy, but it’s not in an area with a hospital so only the store end will be open. I have a few relatives that also work in care homes/hospitals so most of us are fine with having a family party on another day.

No. 494937

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>that combination of smells girls have

No. 494987

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Was about to vent, but this picture sums it all up pretty well

No. 495005

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The kitten I'm looking after keeps waking me up by licking my face and ears, fuck.
>wakes me up
>kinda hurts

I know she's only doing it because she's comfortable and she likes me but I need to sleep damn it, I have work.

No. 495026

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Awwww. I'd like to have a cuddly kitten.

No. 495054

Kittens are a blessing and a curse for the same reasons you list. When I first got my cat, he was SO comfortable with me. He just wanted to snuggle with me all the time. I'd wake up from my sleep so many times because he'd be snuggling in my hair and sometimes under my legs and when he's comfy, the claws come out. He LOVED to "make biscuits" on my scalp. It was adorable, but it hurt like hell and I'm glad he eventually grew out of it. He still loves to snuggle, but way less claw action going on lol.

No. 495104

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There's so much going on in this headline

No. 495162

i'd take my walls down for some people, but pretty sure they don't give a shit about me

No. 495195

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>tfw its been a year since anyone has posted on the Positivity Thread


No. 495198

I know it's stupid to care but my instagram followers keep dropping even though I've been making an effort to post quality content people actually like, I'm proud of the stuff I've been sharing and I'm not even being spammy. I literally never get new followers anymore even though my posts perform pretty well and it just makes me feel bad. The only people that follow me now are doing it to get me to follow, and they immediately unfollow later. I'm not playing any of those stupid games, I just don't understand why people seem to regularly enjoy my content but don't follow me.

Not since I naively clicked on this video >>494937 no

No. 495200

I hope you have fun on your trip anon!! I lived in Tokyo for a year, super easy to get around on minimal Japanese. Even when I lived in bumfuck for a few months it was still pretty alright. Hope you get to eat lots of good food!!

No. 495202

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I'm actually OP of that thread and I made it while in the depths of my depression while a student studying abroad. It made me so happy that people were posting on it and sometimes I want to necro it but I'm scared mods will yell at me for necroing lol

No. 495205

Cute friend of mine who I've had a crush on for forever invited me over to his apartment to celebrate Christmas with him because his family lives in another state and mine doesn't celebrate it anyway. We're getting cake and I hope I get to cuddle him because we cuddled a few months back when we were rooming at a con together and it just felt so nice aaaaaaaaaaa I can't stop thinking about how nice it feels to have someone stroke my hair while I have my face buried in their chest aaaaa. He's roommates with my one of my old managers from my last job and we're not sure what she's doing but I hope she can hang out with us too because she's super chill and I haven't seen her in forever. I'm so used to not celebrating Christmas so it doesn't bother me when I don't get to do anything, but the years when I get to do something, even if it's something as simple as being with other people and hanging out like we usually do, it just makes me feel nice.

No. 495208

Aww. I'd bump it for you anon, but I've had a terrible fucking year. There's really nothing for me to be happy/positive about.

No. 495218

Bump the thread anon, fuck the mods.

No. 495225

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Hey guys, so i always wanted a long furby for a while but they tend to get a little pricey from time to time. Do you guys know where to find them with an affordable price? I dont know how to sew and live outside of the us so it can be a little tricky for me to get my hands on one of these bad bois. Thank u in advance!!!

No. 495344

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I just watched The good, the bad and the ugly and it was great!

Clint was a cutie

No. 495345

If You Bump It, They Will Come anon.
That's to say, I'm sure other anons will react kindly to your positivity. It's coming from a genuine place.
Also sometimes mods redtext a thread or a (necro) post but other anons don't care/aren't deterred and carry on conversing anyways. ALSO also it would be v funny to see a mod on this website in particular ban someone for being positive. It's part of the charm here right? lol

No. 495350


the whole dollars trilogy is great for more clint cuteness. no wonder i loved westerns even as a kid and became a horse girl for a while, just wanted to ride far away with clint-senpai

No. 495354

ask on tumblr, some fakeboi might be willing to make one for you for cheap if you play the autustic lgbt demigirl card right

No. 495361

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Thank you anons! I bumped it and I hope more anons will share good things happening in their lives. It's so weird to come on this site of all places for good feels, but I really love reading people's posts about when good shit happens to them.

Also yes that would absolutely be hilarious if I got redtexted for just trying to be positive hahaha

No. 495364

Oooh i didn't know there was a trilogy!
Looks like I'll be busy heh

No. 495382

pretty sure necroing is allowed on /ot/ and /g/ so don't worry about it

No. 495413

I've always used more detergent than the bottle suggests out of paranoia, and today when I put some bedding into the washing machine I realized they were still soapy and the sink next to the washer was full of soap. I put them back in but I guess I've learned my lesson!

No. 495431

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I miss the days of being a One Direction stan.

No. 495437

I love objectifying men. Keep dancing, whore.

No. 495533

My boyfriend hates cats (he’s a dog person) , but he always gives me cat related things on special occasions and sometimes he’ll send me cute cat memes because he knows I love them. I love him so much

No. 495542

I love how my boyfriends so sheltered. He’s completely clueless to female bodies thanks to never discovering porn and being a virgin. He asked me “where’s the milk?” when sucking my boobs and I couldn’t help but laugh.

No. 495557

be honest anon, are you necessaryspeed sperg?

No. 495583

Breast's milk production is basic common biology knowledge. He should know that regardless of shelteredness from sex. Kind of pathetic.

No. 495716

need this from more lolcows, pls post 'm. I love them.
What is this type of meme called? How do people make it? It's kawaii as fuck.

No. 495721

Your partner sounds like he’s missing a few screws or he was attempting a joke, because this is information that grade schoolers should know…

No. 495722

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I have no idea haha I usually google 'cat/dog heart meme' on google images and a couple of them pop up!

No. 495723

This is so cute! My close friend and I do this for each other! He's a cat person but I'm a dog person and we'll send each other cute/funny dog/cat vids that we come across heh.

No. 495756

A couple of weeks ago, I realized that my first boyfriend was such a stereotypical coomer and overall obsessed with sex. I’ve dated a quite a few guys since and while a lot of them had their own hang ups, not one of them was obsessed with sex like he was. Unfortunately, he sexually assaulted me a few times by making me do stuff I didn’t want to do because of his porn sick brain. And because of it, I was terrified of sex for several years. I’m pretty much over it now so I can at least laugh at some of the cringy stuff he did. But Jesus. Never again. Also I’m pretty sure he most likely jacked it to rape hentai when I wasn’t around (I actually have no proof of this but considering how sex obsessed and rapey he was, plus he was a weeb, I wouldn’t be surprised honestly).

It odd how years later, something so traumatic can also oddly enough give you some amusement.

No. 495770

Lawl, U.S justice system let scum like Tekashi69 get short jail time because they 'cooperated'

Rich people have too much fucking power for no reason in the U.S. Not any just rich people, but even 'regular' rich people like music artists as well. America is a disgustingly Capitalist country that betrays its own citizens every day and shit like this just proves it

when are Americans gonna wake up and protest or some shit. This blatant disrespect and spit on the face is wild man

No. 495774

I agree that the U.S is particularly bad about it but honestly, it’s not like most first world nations are much better.

No. 495783


i'm a bit late with my response (sorry) but enjoy, anon!

No. 495788


it's not just america and not just rich people anymore, pedos and sex offenders tend to get coddled these days for some reason. they get ridiculously short sentences and even get out early for gOoD bEhaViOr because can't have one fucking child rapist not out there grooming now can we. clown shit

No. 495790

I keep asking myself why Americans aren't angrier, but I think we're just tired, tired and fairly uneducated. Americans really believe they don't "deserve" a more dignified life or that they haven't "earned" something. I really miss living in Canada so badly.

No. 495800

Eh, Canada enables that shit too, you know. Not to mention that they sometimes give ridiculously light sentences to criminals who really need to be locked up.

No. 495804

Don't a lot of countries have reduced sentencing for criminals willing to give names and testify?

No. 495816

Not for fucking music industry gangsters going from potentially 40-60+ years in prison just to 1 year in prison

I don't know any non politican/highly connected family person in other Western countries that would get that

No. 495832

>tfw you can't find any good erotic stories
>tfw you are incapable of getting turned on by erotic stories you write on your own
How can you win ?

No. 495835

tbf in europe he wouldn't get any persecutions at all, they love fucking kids (age of consent is 14 in germany lmfao) and there dating a 14 year old as a 20 y old is normall
i like the medieval age of consent laws in the usa, i hate progressive sex positivity that libfeminists forced to brainwash young girls with.

No. 495842

You win by developing a taste for gay porn and enjoying literally hundreds of thousands of stories on ao3 alone

No. 495843

oh he didnt go to jail for being a child molester

he went to jail for gang shit

No. 495846

most EU countries have 15 or 16 as age of consent, not 14 (which is reasonable because teens at that age have sex).

Also in my part of Europe a 14 y/o dating a 20 y/o would not be socially acceptable, please stop over generalizing Europe.

No. 495851

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>not socially acceptable
>not socially acceptable
Sure jan, but do stay on american twitter because as I said america's medieval age of consent laws is the only thing good about the usa.
I heard he snitched le gang, will he get murdered?

No. 495853

Also what's the difference between a 14 y o, a 15 y o and a 16 y o?
Oh yeah I know, a coping europoor LOL.

No. 495862

>please stop over generalizing Europe

You really want people to feel bad about this on a website where generalities and stereotypes are made about countries all the damn time? Go lick your wounds.

No. 495865

ntayrt but these are so fucking broad and without any details to the respective laws you might as well go AGE OF CONSENT IN JAPAN IS 13 because that's the same argument you autistic sperg.

No. 495872

I was looking for gay porn the other day and I stumbled upon a thumbnail of what it seems to be a dick in some animal's asshole and I'm forever scarred.

No. 495873

I'm so sorry anon you had to see that. Shit like that is why I don't fuck with porn anymore.

No. 495877

No. 495882

Just because it's legal for a 14 or 16 year old to date or fuck a 20+ year old it doesn't mean it's SOCIALLY acceptable. It often is not. Even fellow kids at 14 or 16 often don't think it's normal when there's someone their age dating someone older. Coming from someone in Europe.

No. 495911

is this just one anon saying this constantly aligned usually with a nonsense argument?

No. 495913

>it often is not
says who? instead of admitting there's something wrong with how it's legal and socially accepted you just blatantly deny it

No. 495917

i love being able to spot amerifats. most consent laws over countries are different based on each providence (or state or commonwealth or whatever) meaning the law is different than the nationwide laws.

No. 495918

get out of here scrote, 14 year olds are babies and its disgusting to date someone over 16 at that age

No. 495920

Eurofags get awful butthurt when someone dunks on their countries meanwhile seething and obsessing over Americans. As if no one else would crit them.

No. 495921

>everyone who thinks i'm stupid is one and the same person
get a grip

No. 495926

This. I hate smug eurofags (and other non Americans) who act like they’re so better than Americans when in reality, they suffer similar problems as we do. If not the same. Lolcow seems infested with them, for some reason.

If you’re gonna criticize us, as at least don’t be a hypocrite about it.

No. 495928

as an american who's been to other countries at length, you don't realize how wrong this is until you have been out of america.

No. 495932

you should have dumped him to teach him a lesson

No. 495935

travel outside your shithole rural town and see how fucking wrong you are

No. 495941

I’ve been outside the U.S multiple tiimes. And how is traveling outside my country supposed to convince me that European aren’t hypocrites at times? Every country has obnoxious people who think their shit doesn’t stink.
I’m actually from a big city. But stay salty.

No. 495943


No. 495946

I hope I can get down to a similar weight to my mum, we used to share clothes a lot in my early teens (she's in her mid 40s and i'm in my early 20s so it isn't super whack). I don't have any sisters but since my mum is young and pretty trendy it was a nice bonding experience. We never really had a good relationship but I feel like we're getting a bit closer recently and I have no friends so it'd be nice to have things to do together more.

No. 495947

i really don't know what there is to criticize them on that's comparable? like, are we going to pretend america isn't uniquely embarrassing? for its resources, it provides absolute shit to its citizens and we're a global menace. ffs, we're preying on other countries nationalized healthcare systems to fuck them over too. am a burger, before you complain. what do 'smug eurofags' say about americans that's so terrible and not true?

No. 495949

I had a weird dream where I was looking up historical president porn to get off. Like fucking george washington and stuff. It wasn't that Hamilton musical actor either - it was the weirdest thing.

No. 495951

I truly kek'd, thank you so much for sharing

No. 495952

thank you, this is what my point was. other countries have shit people in them of course, but america is fucking notorious, and for good reason. people who don't get that have likely not interacted with non-americans before.

No. 495956

I absolutely agree that America sucks. I never said that it didn’t. It just that a lot of shit that I’ve seen on lolcow in regards to criticizing American culture sounds stupid and uninformed. Some of the shit I’ve seen on this site:
>Americans are obsessed with plastic surgery! Unlike us! (This was coming from someone who claimed to be British. Lol)
>America is obsessed with sex and degeneracy and normalizes pedophilia
>Why does America obsess over Kardashians and people who are famous for no reason?
Again, I do agree that American culture partakes in all of the above. But a lot of these posts seemed to imply that it’s an uniquely an American thing, which, I’m sorry, is fucking retarded. That’s what I was getting at in my original post. I know we were talking about laws and criminal sentencing, something completely different from what I just mentioned but my point still stands. Practically every county in the world doesn’t have their shit together is what I’m getting at.

No. 495958

This. Smarmy eurofags love to talk shit about the US, but if you say one (1) thing about their country in return they have a toddler-tier tantrum.

No. 495959



No. 495963

For real!?
Holly caca, I was so sure that was not going to happen!

No. 495964

No. 495965

It's up to the Senate now, even if he isn't convicted he's STILL IMPEACHED

No. 495966

>people are saying euroshits are absolute babies
>hurrdurr better prove ‘em right

Good job.

No. 495970

Ok I don't even care about this discussion anymore since long time but why are so many of you not proficient in reading comprehension?

No. 495972

those people sound more like self-hating americans than anything

No. 495977

Just a reminder to everyone, this doesn't mean he's not president anymoe. It still has to go to the Senate (Republican Majority)

No. 495978

Congrats American anons!

No. 495991

Can anons spoonfeed me a flow chart of events about how we got here? Why would he still be prez if he's impeached? Sorry impeachment doesn't exist in my country kek

No. 495992

I don’t think anything is gonna happen since most of the senate is up his ass but I’m happy nonetheless. This might be the first time in his life where someone told him no lmfao.

No. 495994

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No. 495995

At the very least it's a huge embarrassment and stain on his presidency, it'll go down in history and he deserves to die seething about it even if they dont convict

No. 496001

Honestly this plays right into the narrative he's been feeding his supporters from day one. They will rally on this. Dems are playing right into his hands.
If biden wins the nomination (which its obviously early but he's polling quite a bit higher than the rest of the nominees) Its pretty likely there will be a trump 2020. The american far left reallllly don't like moderate democrats like Biden and will just not vote, or vote third party (which is basically just a vote for Trump). Its the same thing that happened in 2016. The far left (which IMO was quite a bit smaller than it is now) really didn't like Hillary, and chose not to vote for her in favor of a third party candidate or just chose not to vote at all.

No. 496026

NTA and not American but it seems like a hollow victory when the right will just circle the wagons and protect him. Then ol Trump will smugly tweet about it for the next 4 years when he is inevitably re-elected. It's good that at least the Dems had the balls to impeach him when he clearly deserves it, but I wish they invested more time into finding a candidate that doesn't suck ass and would actually stand a chance of winning. They KNOW the Senate will never convict and his supporters have a combined IQ of 65 so they don't give a shit if he does bad things. Just feels like a last ditch effort to get him out of office since they can't seem to scrounge up an Obama 2.0.

No. 496071

dumbass shit thread for dumbass bitches (me)

No. 496076

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Anyone living in Australia I hope you guys are safe from all the bushfires happening. There’s been a lot today especially around where I live and it really breaks my heart to hear about people losing their homes. Hope everyone’s okay out there

No. 496079


It seems like impeachment really just is a symbolic practice at this point. For a normal politician ,or at least as normal as any politician ever could be, there's a shame that comes along with it but Trump just always wants to be a victim so badly. He embodies a misogynistic, white nationalist mindset that confuses their prejudices being challenged as oppression because they're literally fucking retarded.

I'm far left but swallowed my pride and voted for Hillary. I also fucking hate how American loyalties lie within partisanship rather than what's actually right.

No. 496088

I miss that batshit crazy mom with the two babies born without brains we used to have a thread about. I wonder if the brainless babies are still alive

No. 496090

they're both dead. one of them died recently. the thread got revived when the last one died i'm sure you can find it in the snow catalog

No. 496096

There are two foreign youtubers, they're both stupid and lack any self-awareness, one is a toothless illiterate and struggles with simple speech and is an addict. The other is an obese goblin who ran for president once, and had his dog taken away for abuse. They're toxic, immature, rude towards each other and other people. They're unhygienic, they've pissed/shat themselves on camera, the house they live in is a mess, they refuse to work. People pay to come in and film them. Despite objectively knowing this is pathetic, I can't stop watching them. And despite seeing how they act, I almost kinda like them. Now one has moved away and I'm hoping he comes back and they make up soon. They're so terrible together, it's a perfect match. It's like an ironic OTP but maybe not so ironic after all.

No. 496098

……how can something without a brain even be alive? or do I want to know

This sounds like /snow/ material

No. 496104

This is way too dumb for the vent thread, but a youtuber I'm subscribed to uploaded a video recently and I commented basically agreeing with every thing they said. I came back later and my comment was gone so I guess they deleted it? I'm lost as to why. It's not that it upsets me or anything, I'm just confused because I can't think of why they would have deleted it since I was mostly just agreeing with them. I'm more just embarrassed for commenting now.

No. 496110

pls link

No. 496114

The Hartley babies had just enough brain matters to technically be alive, but were effectively sacks of meat. There’s an extensive thread on kiwifarms.

No. 496126

I want attention, i post my art online and no one cares, jfc why am i such a whiney baby?

No. 496139

No they both died months apart from each other. The last one died as recently as a couple months ago.

No. 496153

I love our radfem/PP sisters and I personally love thier misandry memes, its just I always cringe when they try act "badass" for no reason, badass women should be appreciated and lawded but posting mensuck on twitter doesn't make you a badass and I don’t see how saying “fuck” all the time makes you sound tough when it’s actually laziness incarnate.
This is not about me clutching my pearl necklace in horror over the use of “fuck.”. This is about the ways in which this memey badass feminism feels like a pink aisle at a toy store.

No. 496161

by only having the brainstem present. Which controls bare minimum primitive physiology activity such as the heart just barely beating enough and the lung just bsrely moving enough to live as long as they did. That's why they are literally vegetables.

No. 496226

Would it be cool to also make a "morbid questions" thread or would it just be better to post on the dumb questions thread?

No. 496318

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Apparently my ex is taking his new gf to all the places that he promised me we would visit but never did because he was always oh so busy. Fuck you buddy, just fuuuck you.

No. 496350

No. 496357

Welcome to the dollhouse was my childhood, deep inside I'm an emotionally damaged and spiritually drained Dawn Weiner.

No. 496359

Same, anon.

No. 496402

I forgot the video, but digibro just claimed eh was feminist. Fucking digibro

No. 496422

No. 496433

It must suck being a man, never knowing pure euphoria or what it feels to fall in love or express how you feel. They're always so stoic and boring, no creativity no life in them at all unless they're gay.

No. 496450

why do people find that "mean/dumb bitch" stereotype of 2000s pop culture endearing? the way 2000s mainstream culture portrayed women and even men was so juvenile and annoying lmao

No. 496461

I went to Vicky's first thread last night before bed and reread her self-posts. Made me cackle.
Reminded me of Sindypop and how when I was a Janitor for first mod, I would be the only one who would want her thread to stay up and allow her to keep posting in it

No. 496472

>>496422 ohh gross, a scrote. But he said stuff along the lines "well idk what to say but tou're the kind of a girl i would like to keep till the end". Said in this thick ass country pumpkin dialect lmao. But kinda cute ig.

No. 496477

tbh out of all the crazy ass cows and flakes on here, I still find her one of the most uniquely unhinged. Like, usually narcs try to be a little more covert in their self aggrandizing, even the most arrogant types humblebrag or posture instead of unironically flattering themselves for the most tryhard shit like Vicky does.

No. 496479

Not really though. If they fail to remove him he'll be seen his supporters as the president that stood against a corrupt deep state, and won. Relevant when alongside a wall this was most of what he promised. Heck, he even tweeted himself, "Go ahead and impeach me, numbskulls, you'll just make yourselves look worse". Then they went ahead with it anyway, and according to the polls, only made themselves look worse. Because obviously, right? Unless there's a smoking gun, which so far there isn't, it just makes Democrats look underhanded, and cowardly, and weak. Any party with the confidence to beat him fair and square with a remotely quality candidate would just do that instead.

No. 496481

NTA, but I defo thought it was cute. One woman's thick ass country pumpkin dialect is another's sexy foreign one.

No. 496485

what language is that?

No. 496492

I just got a rejection letter from a job I applied to saying "thanks for your application but we've decided to hire someone more qualified". but I looked on indeed and they're still hiring. I didn't even want it but lmao.

No. 496493

nta but pretty sure it's finnish

No. 496495

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It feels nice to be cool with my ex.
Everything was really fucked up from all angles, and I think most (normal) people would've just ditched each other completely after everything that happened, but we just have fun banter and talk about shared interests, like actual friends. It feels really good.
I knew a full blown relationship was out, but I still didn't want to let them go (and I could kind of tell they didn't want that either). It looks like I didn't have to, in the end. I'm pretty happy. I hope it stays like this.

No. 496532

>I didn't even want it

No. 496594

similar happened to me. Went for an interview and felt positive. They said they'd be in touch regardless. Waited 2 weeks and didn't hear anything so I called them to see if they'd decided so I could move on, and they'd hired someone else. A week later, I hear they've fired that person and are looking for someone else again. Probably for the best I didn't get it. Keep going anon!

No. 496627

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I get on lolcow… Talk a little shit.. Get off… Back to life…

No. 496636

It's so weird the features I was bullied for when I was a teen (short, fat ass, big lips, thick eyebrows) are considered attractive and sought right now.

No. 496641

I wasn't bullied for those features but I absolutely hated that I had them. Now is our time to shine anon.

No. 496646

Same. Too bad I'm almost 30 and don't care about stupid trends anymore lol

No. 496648

Yeah I hated them because of bullying but I can see why you would hate them because all those stupid teen magazines in the 2000s were filled with ana models with sharp features.
I guess the good side is that even we don't follow dumb trends people will consider us attractive because of the way we are naturally.

No. 496651

I keep checking the instagram of this boy who my friend (who was the general manager of my last job lmao) fucked while they were both working at my last job (retail store). It was sorta hush-hush drama but I found out through word of mouth because that boy ended up telling a whole bunch of people. My friend has moved back to her home country now for a year (for reasons unrelated to this, although I doubt they would have ever reprimanded her lol), and the boy quit shortly after I did (everyone assumes it was because he was fucking the general manager) but I came across his instagram because he liked one of her posts. I check it every once in a while out of boredom, I don't follow him, and for the past few days he just keeps changing his bio. He used to have a link to my friend's ig for the longest time, then took it off for a few days, yesterday it said something about being blocked by a girl, and today it just says 'it's a great day to piss people off.'

I get the feeling it's about my friend and now it feels like I'm just watching a soap opera. Or like, a soap opera is playing in the other room and I'm just trying to piece the story together every time I happen to walk by and catch less than 30 seconds of it. Just really, really watery milk but it's an entertaining part of my day to pop over to his instagram and see what he's changed his bio to every other day or so.

I haven't talked to this friend since she left the country. Everyone thought we were kinda close, and I thought so too? I didn't even get so much as a 'bye' when she left. We got along really well and hung out on occasion, but thinking back on it, she was a really secretive person and I found out a lot of things I didn't really need to know through other people lol.

No. 496652

I like this post so much, I do similar things because I don't watch TV. It feels like reading a late-teens novel. I feel like I should probably be above it by now but it's like indulging in a drugless Ellen Hopkins novel or something. Yours sounds interesting!

No. 496661

I'm glad to know I'm not the only one!! I try to keep it to myself because I know people around me will be like "why are you still checking his page?" but it's really one of my long time guilty pleasures haha.

Finding his instagram after everything came out was super interesting lol. I realized that some drawings she posted were of him, and she most likely brought him on her out of state trips because I saw he posted a lot of photos of things she had posted on her stories, and he had some cropped pictures that were obviously her haha. I feel sort of bad that he basically got thrown aside as her boytoy, but not that bad because he was insufferable to work with and something about him always rubbed me the wrong way.

No. 496725

I think scene hair was cute! I wish I knew how to actually do it in middle school, instead of the goofy attempt at it I used to have. As an adult, I wouldn't go for it but it will always be endearing to me.

No. 496726

>>496725 i still sometimes search and watch all these scene hair tutorials on youtube! I used to have quite scene/emo hair and it pains me to wanna try to do it again, i would be able to do it so much better now

No. 496728

So do I. Not the OTT, stripey kiki-esque styles, but a tonne of teased volume on top and big swept bangs. I think it's flattering.

Too bad I didn't have enough hair as a teenager and couldn't pull it off.

No. 496730

It really was, I generaly preffered the style to what we have today, but emo and scene seem to be making a comeback so who knows.

No. 496737

i'm currently making my own religion for the fun of it

No. 496742

It's so weird watching movies made before people new cigarettes were bad

No. 496747

I actually hated how the 2000s seemed to dislike volume and any kind of curls in hair. It was ugly as shit to me

No. 496762

God, agreed. A lot of women (even now) were shoved onto tv with blatant breakage and thinning hair from all the heat and chemicals they threw in their hair, it's not cute. Thank god for the curly girl method and natural hair movement. And wigs.

No. 496776

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I can't believe kiki's spergfest is already 3 years old.

Also, I really really really miss Yuri on Ice.

No. 496784

have you thought about being a youtube personality?
Even doing a sort of timelapse for your art is a good way to create something people can interact with a bit more

hopefully it works out for you, nothing wrong with wanting attention

No. 496799

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>Also, I really really really miss Yuri on Ice.
Ugh yes. They really derailed the hype train with how long it's taking to make this movie, it better be spectacular and have more baldfat than implied.

No. 496804


No. 496828

I miss the love for this series.
Pretty sure the threads on /a/ cured my depression for three months. And then made it worse for three years.

No. 496854

the 80s were 40 years ago

No. 496857

I’m interested.

No. 496864

>the threads on /a/ cured my depression
i just have war memories from yoi threads

No. 496866

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Those threads are my last good memory of 4chan, and the only possible reason I'd ever go back there

No. 496870

Came home to an empty house for once and was looking forward to masturbating in peace but instead I opted to cleaned while my family was out because FUCK trying to clean with 7 fucking people in here. I was just gonna do it when I got into bed but I’m so sleepy. Fuck. At least the apartment is clean.

No. 496871

bless best boy georgi
bless you too, anons. it was a simpler time

No. 496903

Sometimes you just have to pull an all nighter because todays ufc event is in South Korea, meaning prelims started at 2am and the main card probably won’t start until 5

No. 496906

Almost a year ago a stumbled upon a video by a youtuber MissDarcei, her character was likeable and quirky so I subscribed naturally. Turned out she is one of these who think being of some race is a personality trait and cant film a video without mentioning that she is black, and it has been only getting worse, she still hasn't reached the i-think-jesus-was-black stage but she is just so easy to hate and her videos are so unfunny with her repeating the exact same formula literally every video, just try to watch two of her videos and you will see how predictable and boring her videos are. Just awful. Worst thing is that I forgot I was subscribed and kept wondering why I always get recommended her videos.

No. 496909

To go into /ot/ and see best boi Georgi in the first page is a blessing. Thank you Anon.

I personally have a mix of both. God it was a wild, fun ride and how much the fujo shitposting of the show pissed my ex friends off was damn fucking delicious. Those threads were the closest thing I had to actual e-friends for 3 months ;w;

No. 496927

After watching the rise of Skywalker I'm a huge fucking Reylo fag now :(

No. 496933

When is the movie coming out? It's been ages.

No. 496936

I can't believe edwin from edwin's generation is 30 years old. I thought he was like 21-23. he seems like a sleazy fuckboi who never grew out of his scene phase and him being 30 just makes it sadder.

No. 496948

I have been digging into Autism spectrum stuff recently, and reading about Asperger's has been so weird, since I can recognize a lot of myself into it. It seems to resolve almost every social issue I have ever had and tried my best to resolve with little to no result (some things worsened as my peers and I age, I must say)
I don't want to go to all the trouble and go to a doctor, since I am an adult and I know it may be a long procedure to get a diagnosis, and since there is no cure for it I see it as almost useless.
Still, the doubt of being biased is still there and I would like to know if it's my bias or I finally found out what is wrong with me.

Any similar experiences? Has it helped you, having a diagnosis? Should I forget about Asperger's and go ahead with my life?

No. 496949

tfw no gf

No. 496950

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Me too anons, me too. I never had this much fun on 4chan after it ended, even with the hetfags in denial and shitposters using Fairy for their weird infighting attempts. But I'm content the movie will be beautiful and we'll rejoice once again.

A-Any day now. Never. Absolutely never. https://yurionice.com/en/news/detail.php?id=1076222

No. 496954


No. 496962

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It's everyday bro

No. 496986

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This image fills me with disgust

No. 496998

I therefore announce that my harem is complete with 5 different guys.
I'm not proud but I'm really enjoying this.

No. 496999

What is this even depicting? Is he standing on her hip bones? Whats going on?

No. 497005

The drawfag Anon was the shit. I still got their stuff saved somewhere within my hard drive.

>The fairy shitposting

Oh God you made me remember that. Fairyfags were a weird bunch.

No. 497006

That documentary made me so angry. Especially where his male lawyer is talking over the woman who’s trying to bring up him up on charges.

The parts where he’s clearly caught in his own bullshit were funny though.

No. 497007

Have fun anon, but be careful. I've been in one of these and it's fascinating how drama prone, clingy and interest driven beta orbiters are, taking into account all the bullshit that is said about females being cattier. That shit male company made me seek healthier female company and helped me realize how much of fucking losers most of the men you'll meet irl are, and how not worth the drama surrounding them is.

No. 497009

I think if you don't have a full blown autism diagnosis you just should keep going on unless it literally stains your ability to socialize. In that case, therapy and extra help may be a good idea.

In my case I do check many symptoms for the autism spectrum, but I was severely isolated as a kid and that's most likely what fucked my ability for social interaction for some years, so I take the whole thing with a grain of salt.

No. 497010

tall girls are sooo hot, i really want a tall butch gf
too bad im shy, and last time i came out i was told i "look straight".. so guess my chances of being approached are close to zero
anons, if youre 170 and over i love you

No. 497013

175 anon here but i'm a very femme amazonian. you'll find yours!

No. 497016

Pls tell more. How do you even maintain it? How are the guys acting towards eachother? Do they even know?

No. 497018

They're not orbiters though, they're guys I like and I'm willing to fuck if they behave. So far no drama, they know I will drop them at the first sign.
They know they are not the only men in my life but they don't know each other. We chat every other day and meet once or twice a month with each one to have dates and sex. Just like fwb but I see no reason to stop at one. I don't plan to introduce them to one another or have threesomes or stuff like that.

No. 497019

170 is pretty average

No. 497031

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Me after watching three Trey the Explainer videos

No. 497045

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I got like 3 hours of sleep and my dumbass decided to drink coffee at 11, I’ve been awake since 9 AM its 4 now and my body is rapidly giving up on me but I have family over so what the fuck

No. 497047

Girls who have fwbs are pretty pathetic. Seems like you don't have respect for yourself.

No. 497049

Implying that using scrots only for sex and then leaving isn’t the best course of action if you are mature enough

No. 497052

Women can't use men for sex you dumbass. Why would you want to degrade yourself by having sex with a man anyways?

No. 497053

Getting sex and not having any responsibility or strings attached to it is what men want.

No. 497055

Men love to be pumped and dumped, it means they get free sex with zero consequences. But it can be balanced out if they are investing more into it than anon. As long as she doesn't pay for anything, travel to see them, do any emotional labour, service them in bed more than they do her, etc there's a possibility she could come out on top. Since she talks about expecting them to behave if they want sex, it sounds like anon intends on making them work for it to an extent.

No. 497058

OP here and this. I expect them to pay for everything, pick me up if they want me to go out or at their places, please me first if they wanna have sex and hell if I'm doing any emotional labor, I'm not their therapist. I'm old and wise enough to know what I got into, I'm a degenerate but at least I have my freedom.

No. 497060

You're coping and here's why. First of all, the risks of actually having a scrote harem is way too high. What if one of them finds out that theres other guys and goes completely crazy? Also theres an extremely high chance they don't respect you and don't see you as fully human because you give them pussy for free. And for scrotes no woman is lower for them than one who gives it up for free. They're not your whores, you're their whore. Spinning this into some grand feminist act is the biggest cope. The only valid way to have sex with men is if they give you lots of money and stuff for it.

Why buy cow if milk is free?

No. 497064

Sounds like cope. And you're gross. You need help.

No. 497080

Exactly. The only way to get FWB is that the male is in your harem. He’s completely invested in you, cucked emotionally and physically.

No. 497099


Why so much pearl-clutching?

No. 497103

Who here is clutching their pearls? We're just trying to give this poor cuck deluding herself into believing she's a player some advice. I'm not even kidding when I say she should charge. Its almost 2020 and you guys still keep letting males hit it for free? Pathetic.

No. 497104

You sound repugnant.

No. 497105

Sure. Keep sucking musty cock who neither likes or respects you without getting anything in return but degenerate scrote behavior and sleepless nights stressing.

No. 497106

>wtf you have sex because you enjoy it? what a whore
>you should be having sex for money instead, which is how not to be a whore
Your brain on pinkpill.

No. 497107

I know you'll cope, but I'm actually a bystander to this and what you said is disgusting. You don't care about anyone else's self respect, you just want to feel superior and not fucking men is a real low bar for that…….

Might be a maleposter forgetting their LARP.

No. 497109

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I have finally accepted that I am a naive dumb baby

No. 497110

Ntayrt but no one said anything about "being a whore". Nice projection, mate.

No. 497112

Come on dude, you wrote it yourself here >>497060

No. 497116

I'm the one who said the whore thing. Not the person you're replying too. Recognize that my opinion is not some ~repugnant~ extremist view and a lot of women share. Males treat us like garbage every single day and its only getting worse with troons and incels joining. Why are bitches on here are still giving them the time of day without expecting money or gifts in return? You need to start adapting to how gender relations are presently or you're going to stay loosing. But go ahead and call me some unhinged, overly pinkpilled retard. At least I'm not delusional.

No. 497117

Okay, I was wrong, but >>497060 wasn't me. But I still agree that having a fwb/casual sex is basically giving men what they want- free sex with none of the responsibility, emotional labor or commitment attached. A woman having casual sex with a man might think it's just fun sex with a friend but most men don't see it that way. They usually see sex with no responsibilities as an accomplishment and a woman is like an object that they won. There's a reason it's called being a "player" and "having game". In other words, they see you as a slut who is worth having sex with but not worth investing time/labor/commitment with. They will leave as soon as a woman they deem worthy of their commitment comes along and forget you ever existed. At least if a man is giving you money/gifts then you have gained something material out of it.

I'm sure there are probably some men out there who can have a mutual understanding with a woman that he respects and have a no-strings-attached sexual relationship with her, but they are rare.

That being said I hate the phrase "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free". It's cringey and objectifying.

No. 497121

I understand your point but you guys fail to understand that not all of us are looking for committement. At least I don't feel like taking care of a huge baby who thinks I owe him sex, therapy and housework just because he graces me with his presence. There is no real benefit for a woman to be with only one man unless she doesn't want to work outside the house and she's willing to perpetuate the species.

No. 497122

Well I guess as long as you literally don't care what they think of you and understand that they just see you as a talking fleshlight, its fine. I've just had it with women who entertain several casual partners and think they're stone cold foxes. Like these men don't see you that way. They see a woman stupid enough to fuck them. You're not having some light sexy fun with friends. They don't see you as friends. They see you as a whore.

No. 497124

I do understand that you don't want commitment, that wasn't my point. like the above anon said, if you're okay with guys viewing you as a talking fleshlight then go for it.

No. 497125

>Recognize that my opinion is not some ~repugnant~ extremist view and a lot of women share.
The average women who'd hate on a woman for having casual sex do it because of, ironically, internalized misogyny and conservative opinions lmao.
>But go ahead and call me some unhinged, overly pinkpilled retard. At least I'm not delusional.
Well yeah you've fried your brain with an image board echochamber to the extent that you think you're in some sad win/lose gender war scenario where anything good that happens to a man is a bad thing happening to you.

Feel free to never talk to a man ever again but it's mega cringe when you get so pinkpilled you loop back around to basically being a tradthot who slut shames women for not having traditional gender dynamics of only having sex when you're financially dependent on a man which as we all know is the real empowering situation.

No. 497141

Ntayrt but who cares what men "see" in it? Can't women just be complete humans with their own sexual desires and agendas, who may tire of the drudgery of pursuing a relationship, and just want the temporary intimacy with no mental load/duty attached?

You're not giving women any respect, dignity, or self worth by saying those things.

"Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free."
Who gave grandma Esther the keyboard tonight? Imagine yelling at women to value themselves while drawing comparisons of them to lactating milk cows for sale.

No. 497143

My cat's breath is SO bad. Like, he's under the desk I'm sitting at, cleaning himself, and I can smell it, it REEKS. This has been going on for a few months now, so I expected he needed a teeth cleaning. Took him to a consult last week, but the vet said his teeth were fine and not bad enough to warrant a cleaning, and also gave him a clean bill of health. I wish I could give this fucker a mint.

No. 497158

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Absolutely hate the face of this drawing for the 2020 thread. No idea why I find it so unbelievably unappealing, but I grimace at it every time I pass that thread.

No. 497159

Aren't there treats for cats that are like breath mints? I know those exist for dogs

No. 497163

It's the tooth gap and big cartoon eyes. It's very punchable.

No. 497168

For me it's the nose. It looks like a skeleton face.

No. 497174

>reee stop fucking as many men as you want, whenever you want, you fleshlight whore, chain yourself to a true genteman like meeeee!!!
ok scrote

No. 497176

I'm currently on a blog bulk archiving spree and found a really weird but interesting tumblr. Then I looked in the archive and through their oldest (11 year old) posts and there's a shit ton of gore posted by the blogger herself, realistically drawn loli and pictures of actual naked children along with innocent pictures of children. Then I looked at their #me tag and it's actually made by a young, above average woman. Just fucking why.

No. 497179

fucked up people come in all shapes and forms

there was this tumblr artist who used to draw zombie/ghoul gore porn on tumblr and she legit looks like a instamodel

No. 497183

idk i dont buy that these women that look like instamodels happen to be into all kinds of shit that conveniently attract weird men. it's the same thing with taylor nicole dean. i know it's pretty bold to assume but i generally find that these women think they can "corner the market" by catering to certain niches. it's not like these women are just making bone necklaces or make papercraft of gutted animals something. conveniently and consistently, they seem to create porn or sexualized material. i find that sus.

No. 497190

>you shouldn't have sex with pathetic men who view you as an object, feed their already inflated egos and get nothing out of it except stds

Yeah only a scrote would say that.

No. 497196

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I feel like I should kill myself. I'm 25 and I've been trying to get better at drawing for years but I don't draw every day and there have been many years where I just lose motivation altogether and stop drawing for a long time (yeah I know big mistake) because I feel like I'm so bad at drawing and that I'm such a loser and I will never get better at it. I wish I could've taken some classes in uni because they push me to actually draw but I was never able to and I have one semester left until graduation. I feel like I will never be good. I have never really finished anything.

No. 497197

The women who always say they enjoy the sex rarely even get orgasms out of it meanwhile the guy gets endless free blowjobs and also orgasms from PIV. Most likely they're on the pill too, which means decreased pleasure/sensitivity for most women and also actual harmful side effects. Even then, BC is not 100% effective, so she's always putting herself at risk so she can have subpar sex in most cases. Great. Casual sex is almost always at the detriment of the women unless he gets her off as many times, or more than him.

But really, how many men are willing to do that for casual fucks and FWB? Not many.

No. 497199

You act like all women are spellbound to men. You can ditch em any time if they don't please you. Can be said for any type of relationship but it's especially true for those.
It's not farfetched to believe that women keep these men around because they get something from it. Validation, companionship for the evening, apparently the rare gud secks.
Let independent women pick and choose for once, since heaven knows we didn't even get most standard rights up until recent history.

No. 497201

nta but this is literally the opposite of what a scrote would say, god this place is hell lately.

No. 497208

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I'm going to level with you, anon: a lot of career artists will tell you that going to college for art isn't necessary, and they're mostly right. As someone in art school right now, the biggest benefit is the industry connections, and even those can be acquired without college if you're tenacious enough.

All you need to get good at art is discipline. Some people need discipline from an outside source (like a college class/professor), and others don't. If you're someone who doesn't, you can literally just teach yourself how to draw using books.

If it makes you feel better, I'm in art school and sometimes I want to kill myself out of sheer anxiety that I've wasted my money on this degree and I'll never land an actual art job. And I'm told decent at drawing! If you're an artist, the fear that you're not good enough never really goes away, no matter how good you get or however many classes you take. It sucks, but it's a good motivator. When I feel like I suck it drives me to improve– it's way better to think that you suck than it is to think that you're great.

Art is an inherently stressful career, I suppose. In your specific situation, I think you'll be much happier if you just do it on the side for a while and slowly build up your skills. Don't stress about time. I know people who didn't get their art published in books until they were ten years out of college.

Sorry if I made things worse, anon. All I'm saying is that I really relate to what you're experiencing.

No. 497215

Sadly this goes harder than the majority of music released this year lmao

No. 497217

I know. That's what I meant. I was being sarcastic.

No. 497218

>Ntayrt but who cares what men "see" in it? Can't women just be complete humans with their own sexual desires and agendas, who may tire of the drudgery of pursuing a relationship, and just want the temporary intimacy with no mental load/duty attached?

This. I am not into casual sex myself but what's with the anger lately towards anons who are? As long as they have a good time who cares? There are risks but the anti anons don't sound caring, they sound hostile. Either jealous men or women who have become extreme after finding FDS on reddit.

No. 497221

I mean, I wouldn't want to have sex with a guy who sees me as a fuckhole to be discarded, which is most guys, but if you're fine with that then go for it. I wouldn't want it because I don't like feeling used even if it was pleasurable. not to mention most guys are bad in bed, and you don't know if he's bad in bed til you fuck him which means you'll have to fuck a ton of guys til you find one who's good at it, all the while wasting time and risking STDs/pregnancy and by the time you find one is it even worth it? on top of that casual sex spreads STDs into the population, and STDs are getting stronger becoming harder to treat (super gonorrhea). but don't listen to me, I'm just a salty bitch.


uhhh, why would we be jealous of someone who has casual sex with men who don't respect you? any of us could go to a bar and get laid because men are desperate for sex and don't want to commit. I'm jealous of women in committed relationships with good men because that's actually difficult to accomplish.

No. 497224

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>committed relationships with good men
lbr that's nothing to be jealous of either. Their goodness and commitment is conditional, it only lasts for as long as the woman is attractive and useful to him. Get old or sick? Chances are he will seek greener pastures. And you stand to lose a LOT MORE from a marriage with combined finances and especially with kids, it has the potential to be far more life ruining than a fuckbuddy or ONS.

I, for one, am only jealous of lesbians.

No. 497225

I also want to add that the men who you're going to be sleeping with probably don't deserve it, and it's just going to inflate their egos.

yeah, that's a good point. I'm jealous of lesbians, bisexuals and of women with men who do don't leave when the woman gets sick/old but that's incredibly rare, I might as well wish for a unicorn

No. 497231

I don't think you really read my post. I wrote "jealous men", you know the ones reading image boards for women and not getting laid.
And again, it's one thing to be concerned about risks which I am too since I don't sleep around but what's up with the hostility in this thread towards those other anons instead of concern?

No. 497235

I thought anonymous image boards were hostile in general?

No. 497272

they're only hostile if you say something stupid

No. 497280

Something stupid = anything you disagree with.

No. 497286

But like, why take the chance? If you even find one who is somewhat decent, you've already went through an obscene number of them. Having sex with so many people is risky and unhealthy. Also women shouldn't get validation from sex anyway… like that Anon said men are desperate for it. They'd fuck a month old chicken sandwich. It's silly to base any part of your confidence on what they think.

I think it comes from a good place. It's like watching a friend engaging in self-destructive behaviors but they think it's good for them, of course you're going to get worried and a little upset.

Ok, but those aren't good men and that wasn't what that anon was talking about. I'm not saying this is the woman's fault, but a lot of time they commit to shitty men and don't realize until it's too late that he doesn't really give a shit about her. That's why shit like that pic happens and why being "picky" is so important. What I'm saying is, this is easy to avoid if you dump them at showing any signs of low empathy/selfishness and only look at their actions, not their words. A lot of women look past subtle red flags even when it feels wrong and that's why they end up in these relationships. They don't trust their gut instinct.

No. 497292

Oh my fucking god we get it, muh whores muh fleshlights muh STDs. Anon will play and enjoy her harem regardless of how much you whine. You sound like an actual incel, read your own replies. You aren't talking to "a friend engaging in self-destructive behaviours", you're projecting your fears and experiences into an anon who doesn't seem to give a fuck.

No. 497296


The zombie gore porn one actually seemed to be VERY into it, she even had a small collection of themed sex toys and spoke in the classic “yes i am very turned on by this” tone you usually see in genuine weirdos.

No everything is about men tbh.

No. 497297

LMAO. Keep being delusional.

>an anon who doesn't seem to give a fuck.

They all do eventually. When they get old enough they realize it wasn't fucking worth it and the men got way pleasure out of it than they did anyway. Keep risking yourself and your body to have subpar sex though, you go girl.

No. 497299

What the fuck is going on this thread, despite what you may see on the gender critical thread, men are in fact complex human beings not just oooga booga sex thot or mommy.
Get our of the internet and make some actual friends, the fuck.

No. 497300

How old, anon? I'm 30 and I regret wasting my youth pursuing a committed relationship. How much older must I get to regret having fun?

No. 497301

It's just a triggered incel trying to convert anon to "nice guys".

No. 497302

This happens all the time on tumblr. You see some blog posting super fucked up content and literal CP even and the owner is a cute, conventionally attractive woman with a social life, job and bf. The classic image of the unhygenic, socially outcast, mouthbreathing pervert is outdated. The biggest perverts in the world are rich and put together upperclass males.

No. 497303

There are nine million bicycles in Beijing.
That's a fact. It's a thing we can't deny.

No. 497306

You regressed, congrats I guess.

No. 497307

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Yes, these roasties will hit the wall for sure, just you wait. And then they will all come flocking to supreme gentlemen with tears in their eyes, because they spent their youth fucking chads instead of staying in the kitchen like these walking fleshlights should.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 497310

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Posts with a shit ton of (you)'s are satisfying to look at

No. 497313

I hate that fucking song. It's so try hard quirky and cutesy

No. 497314

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No. 497318

Someone posted this a long time ago in one of these threads and I was reminded of it now, having followed the recent J.K. Rowling tranny debacle and seeing the BL thread bumped, but I'm so, so happy to be a fujo. It's the last bastion for women to be in without AGP transbians ruining our fun. Literally everything else that's been made for women now reminds me of ratty, perverted, sexist men in rainbow socks but because they're disgusted by gay men and female sexual autonomy, they're repulsed by BL and stay the fuck away. Even better, this stand is shared by regular straight men too so we don't get them colonizing the genre either. The misogynistic "gay" fakebois mostly like shipping K-pop singers or MHA or Voltron characters or whatever flavour of the month franchise there is and don't actually get involved with the core BL community. Annoying Pickme/NLOG prototypes despise fujos because men hate them. It's perfect. A ton of lesbian/bi girls having fun together. Shoutout to all my fujo sisters (and gay fudanshi bros) who created a safe space together. I love you guys.

No. 497323

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Aw no that didn't make me feel worse. It actually made me feel a little better. Thank you for the kind words anon. I have been self-teaching myself and sometimes through online courses but I lose interest very quickly. I still think I would benefit from some in-person courses if they don't cost a lot. Thank you for the perspective. I always gets so intimidated and jealous by all of these great artists but I know it takes continuous practice. Thanks again, your reply was comforting!

No. 497328

You were looking through a Nicole Dollanganger (or Dollanganger fan)'s Tumblr, weren't you?

No. 497329

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I love when I'm scrolling through /snow/ or /w/ and come across things that make no sense out of context.

No. 497332

I wasted 5 years, tons of money, gave up most opportunities and my social life, my effort to make gifts, keep up with my body for a man who only reduced me to another pair of ass and tits for him to judge, nitpick, and list reasons why I'm not as good as another girl. Great.

No. 497337

This is why being a pick-me isn't worth it. You have to absolutely be 100% you find a man who will treat you right no matter what.(>>>/pinkpill/)

No. 497353

Same thing happened to me. Fucking sucks big time but I guess it's a good lesson.

No. 497355

Fuck yeah fujo sister, love you too.

No. 497377

i disagree with you guys. BL in japan is becoming a hollow corporate shell of it's indie scene because companies realize that female otaku will spend way more money on shit than male otaku. it's soon going to be absorbed by the ecchi anime train and become a mainstream mess again.

No. 497380

I still like fujos tbh

No. 497381

i didn't say anything is wrong with them, just that bl media for fujos is going to turn into that shit they shill to neckbeards.

No. 497385

I don't think so, if that was the case we would have been already flooded with the counterpart of loli moeblobs that plague neckbeard pandering animes.

No. 497388

Saw kenna painting her nails at some airport and my brain just went on this overdrive of thinking how angry i would get over some autistic disney bitch spreading nail varnish fumes at one of the most stressful places, at one of the most stressful time of year. A true spergout from me.

No. 497393

You guys need to accept your true lord and savior. Otome CDs. Nothing makes you cum harder than some dude moaning directly into your ears and telling you how great and beautiful you are. The yaoi industry was always corporate and cynical as fuck. At least with otome you get yours and don't have to sift through a million badly written, badly drawn yaoi manga to enjoy yourself.

No. 497394

Why is this a problem? If men can have their waifu pandering I'll be damned if I can't have gay bishounen pandering. It's an improvement if anything.

No. 497411

that's why i said it's starting. the trend is being noticed on japanese female boards. especially with the switch allowing all content ratings, it's become flooded with cashgrab bl.
it's a problem because the quality of the content goes down. i'm all for having stuff in the mainstream, but when it ends up a saturated market we'll be left with nothing but calculated crap to get us to buy shit.

it's just a worry i have based on some recent things.

No. 497414

Because yaoi was always known for its quality? Come on now. Just don't buy it then. Unless you're the most hardcore fujo that has ever lived, ignoring some releases and just not buying them wouldn't be a problem, right?

No. 497420

i think i have lost touch with reality. i just dont know how it happened so quickly

No. 497426

i'm literally just trying to say that market saturation is a bad thing. why is that so fucking hard to understand?

No. 497443

Idk about JP but the rest of East Asia, BL economy is booming but it will never be mainstream like sexist shounen/shoujo shit due to censorship. They don't give a fuck about otaku women. But because of that, right now we have women creating their own shit and funding their own big dick ops with the power of organic fujo communities (even in China where BL is pretty damn over-ground and corporatized).
I can't believe how advanced and diverse "silly female interest" has come into its own as an established culture and still manages to be grassroots. I'm loving it.

No. 497458

I was just re-watching Fargo and I never realized just how feminist that movie was.

No. 497469

Yeah BL will never become "mainstream" because it's still a niche looked down upon. Just because the content is more accessible and shows I can count on one hand have had canongay characters doesn't mean it's becoming "mainstream". Sure franchises might pander to the BL crowd by including fujobait but as for actually gay characters, you still have to go for the actual BL content created by fellow fujo authors. The big money company-born ones leave the gayness vague enough to catch the heterosexual otomefag market which is much bigger in size (and thus profit) than the fujos are.

And come on anon >>497411 even if this was the case, BL has never been 100% good, there has always been hit&misses. Just skip shitty releases and support dedicated authors.

No. 497502

idk how long ago this happened but anons were talking about how liberal activist open-minded women of african origins almost always end up with white dudes, I didn't think much about it but holy fuck I checked on some black queen type of blogger that I used to watch couple years ago and she is married to the whitest type of dude ever; tall, blond, blue-eyed, and with a posh accent, and from money (he has business abroad). she is still maintaining her pro-black image and maybe it got even more intense but casually she will feel obligated to remind you that she has a white husband. I think it is mainly because her videos with him/about him get easily 2 to 10 times more views so making her online identity involve him is a no brainier, it is a shame because I enjoyed her videos when she used to talk about topics that mattered and not just vlog her exciting life in a foreign country.(racebait)

No. 497515

its simple really, woke black women are often from middle to upper middle class backgrounds and thus are more likely to interact with and start relationships with upper-middle class white men

No. 497516

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A little bit of a tangent, but I was thinking about something related to this, but with woke white people, because a personal lolcow of mine retweeted pic related and it made me snort. It's always the most try-hard woke BLM genderspecial kweer flakes who are the most thirsty for boring white dudes. They'll always be retweeting or reblogging pictures of "safe" popular non-white models and actors and going all YES QUEEN YES KING SLAY UGH SO SEXY STEP ON ME WHITE PEOPLE ARE SO UGLY to pay their lip service and make sure the internet knows how amazingly woke and not racist they are for finding a Brown Person (TM) sexy, and then turn around and slobber exclusively over white male celebrities/characters.
It's like what they say about "the guilty dog barks first". Just admit you're like every other thirsty nerd girl who likes her 2D husbandos and shut up about bullshit representation that we know you don't care about.

No. 497517

It's especially blatant virtue signalling when fans do racebent art. Clearly they like white (or asian, if anime characters) boys and that's why they got into the fandom in the first place. If they wanted anything else they could choose a fandom that has other races already.

No. 497519

I will never not dislike asian being grouped with white. Swear its only because of anime making all their characters pale as hell + Us support of east asian countries. europeans and arabs and indians all have more physically in common yet somehow whites and asians get lumped together. their cultures arent even the same ffs. Asian propaganda I tell you

No. 497520

In my case I've also noticed my SJW ex-friend, poc or white, would definitely act like obnoxious little shits while posting "yasss kween slayyy" shit everytime a non-white model or celebrity was posted somewhere, but acted normal with attractive white people or attractive light skinned anime characters. In my own case I don't do that but with fandom dramas I think many cases like this is because as soon as you say you want to, idk, fuck Dedue or Claude from FE3H to keep that example, you're going to get accused by stupid as fuck Americans of fetishizing them and of being racist against them (and racist against yourself too while we're at it, it happened to me a few times). Bonus if these people are white and act all fucking weird with the same characters but in a different way, posting things like saying "Dedue is super tall and have nice sexy muscles in fics is racist!" while also posting kawaii ugu harmless art and fics of him to make him feel more non-threatening. Not sure if I'm explaining this well.

No. 497523

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If you can recommend good otome CDs that don't have stupid as fuck dialogues and can be found online easily post them.

No. 497526

Holy shit, I’ve noticed this too!
It’s embarrassing how easy it is to see through their fake wokeness. And it’s always fucking Dimitri too lmao
So much for all that excitement about Claude.

No. 497527

It was fake excitement from the start. I don't know if you've noticed how they make Claude ooc almost all the time just so they can pretend they actually care about him. I've noticed the same thing with Edelgard receiving the "yass lesbian queen slay" treatment and her fans justifying her actions all the time because they don't care about her actual character, they just virtue signal or she's their cute poster girl waifu.

Meanwhile you have Dedue and Petra being ignored by the fans because "uuh they were badly written I guess? idk lol I'm a white American but I feel like they were badly written because IS are perverts and racist somehow!"

No. 497528

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Yep, always Dimitri, or sometimes Sylvain or Felix. My personal lolcow is a shoe0nhead-esque "bisexual" and fakeboi who hopped on the tranny bandwagon because she's a hopeless basic fujo. It always makes me laugh seeing her virtue signaling "omg uwu I love girls they're so pwetty and soft" posts meanwhile all she does is look at fanart of Felix and Dimitri or Felix and Sylvain fucking each other in the ass. Oh, b-but she's definitely attracted to women too, look, she retweeted some waifufag's big tiddy art of Edelgard! So gay, so woke!

No. 497531

What would non-stupid otome cd dialogue be like?

No. 497534

>My personal lolcow is a shoe0nhead-esque "bisexual" and fakeboi who hopped on the tranny bandwagon because she's a hopeless basic fujo.
That sounds hilarious, is she on twitter or tumblr? Link?

No. 497536

As if black men art better, The most pro-black dudes just hide their lust for white women underneath a preference for "lightskins". One drop rule made it so that u can be the most pro-black while still idealizing anything closest to white

No. 497538

>My personal lolcow is a shoe0nhead-esque "bisexual" and fakeboi who hopped on the tranny bandwagon because she's a hopeless basic fujo.
As soon as i read this like a bunch of personal cows came to mind. These fujo cows seem to be pretty cookie-cutter these days.
kek i love how she mentions being a ~bisexual woman of color~ as if that matters. Also aren't these the exact type of people flocking towards Raihan from Pokemon?

No. 497540

Twitter, but it's a personal account with like barely 100 followers and she's really not that milky online. I fear I would out myself if I linked to her shit, plus like >>497538 she's a dime a dozen, it's just funny cause I know her personally.

No. 497545

I've never dated a black man, and I purposely avoid them, because I prefer guys who remind me of anime characters. It's just a preference. Also, they're kind of horrible in character. IMO, the same goes for Arab and Indian men, but at least society doesn't expect me to touch them with a ten-foot pole. I've heard and witnessed too many disgusting things to put myself through that. I might get with a mixed guy, at most.
The only reason to ever be pro-black is for the sake of black women and children. Men in general are already pretty bad, but I think black men are some of the worst to deal with.

I always feel weird about this, because I guess I'm "supposed" to be jealous, but I don't really mind. I'd be a hypocrite to be bothered, since it's not like I want black men. To each their own. The only time I feel negatively is if the guys are the type to publicly talk shit about black women, while the girlfriend gets an ego boost for being "not like the other (read: black) girls".
Also, from personal experience, those guys seem to seethe the hardest when black women date out, for some reason. They're not bothered about being hypocrites. They can go on tangents about how black women are bottom of the barrel, but then, when we date men who actually do like us, they scream "bedwench", like we owe them something.
Honestly, if black women so awful, why should the "lucky" conventionally attractive, upper-middle class and/or smart ones punish their future daughters by procreating with black men (who are more abusive, achieve less in life, and are far more likely to commit crime than black women)? Isn't that effectively squandering their good genetics and killing their potential? You can't have it both ways.

No. 497548

You know how some hentai manga or doujinshi have the characters describe and explain everything ever? Some otome CDs have that shit too. And I hate hearing keigo in them too.

No. 497550

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Exactly! When all the fanart started showing up, the only thing I ever saw about Claude were mostly memes about him making fun of Dimitri/other characters for being white or about him being poc. Seemed like they only used him just for the woke jokes then completely ditched him for Dimitri when they wanted to do actual ship/fandom shit.
That was my experience anyway.

With that said, I’m happy to see there seems to be genuine interest in characters like Raihan from Pokémon. There’s so much lovely fanart of him, but I wouldn’t be surprised if people are trying to pull the same shit with him too.
I just love him so much he doesn’t deserve the disrespect gdi

No. 497553

>hating keigo

No. 497555

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Alrighty, finished the whole dollars trilogy and im officially crushing on clint, about 60 years late lol

No. 497557

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I've been browsing Lolcow since 2014 or 2015, so I've seen my fair share of posts from suicidal farmers throughout the years. Sometimes I wonder how many of them actually went through it, how many farmers are now dead. I wonder if I had positive interactions with them, if they posted something that made me smile or laugh, if our paths ever crossed in some way, no matter how small. It makes me sad.
I know that this is just a random post from a stranger on the internet, but if you're in a rough spot, please consider seeking help. You might not see it now, but there's a way to turn it around, there's a better future, there's better people to surround yourself with, who want to see you happy.

No. 497563

tbf the black american birth rate is actually in decline and the gender ratio between black men and black women is already unequal, If more black women start persuing interacial relationships then that could potentially lead to the end of black americans in 3-4 generations(racebait)

No. 497575

i dont see how is this a problem but even if it was if there is anyone to blame it would be the men who had been having kids with everyone. dont talk about the women because the majority of the birical relationships are with a darker man.

No. 497577

I could recommend you something if you told me what you're into.

No. 497578

jannies i was sarcastic wtf.

No. 497584

its definitely generational, Older bw are all about #blacklove #strugglelove and #nomanbuttheblackman while zoomer bw are more pinkpilled and racepilled about the nature of bm, the smp and our position within it, than any generation of bw before

No. 497585

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James Charles looks like he could be the fourth Property Brother

No. 497586

Put him in the husbando thread! Also, brb gonna go watch it

You’re not the only one anon. I really care about all you girls so much honestly.

No. 497590

For a second I thought I wrote this post LMAO other anons are right, those types of fujos are really cookie cutter.

NTA but I know exactly what you're explaining. I've said this before in a similar way, like they basically exploit non-whites for congratulatory points between each other, but not actually caring about them. Same kind of people who freely share and retweet articles featuring photos and videos of some brown guy getting beaten to a pulp as a means to prove they're woke enough to put this harsh reality on their social media timeline.

No. 497597

African-American men date out more often than the women. In fact, a lot of them go full pick-me and try to discourage other AA women from dating interracially.
I think if it's such a big deal, all the Africans who move to the US can make up for it. AA women who only want black men can just look to African men. They have their own set of problems, but they're financially more successful, are better-educated and commit less crime than African-American men.
At the end of the day, all the races we know today only exist because of various groups blending together, anyway. The entire world will be shuffled and mixed into brand new races sooner or later, and trying to stop time because we're afraid of disappearing is a waste of time. The only way for black Americans, or any other racial group, to truly end is if they are all killed by genocide, war or disease. All mixing does is carry on their genes along with other people's.(racebait)

No. 497598

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i found a really old post i made on a harvest moon forums talking about and rating all the husbandos you could have in one of the games. it's EXTREMELY long and pretty hilarious. it's crazy how childish i sound despite the fact that i was about 16/17 when i wrote the post, lol. guess i was more autismal than i thought. also i apparently really hated one of the husbandos even though i got back into this harvest moon game recently and didnt have any problem with him lmao. it's just cool finding these type of old things on the internet, it's like a time capsule.

No. 497600

Husbando thread is for 2d only i think
All three movies are on yt btw, and have been for years

No. 497604

I feel like this is just me being nitpicky but I can't date someone who's a picky eater lol. A lot of my friends are picky but I'll pretty much eat anything (the only things I definitely know I don't like despite revisiting them every couple of years is bitter melon and liver). If I'm hanging out with one person then it's fine for them to pick and choose where to go out to eat since I don't mind accommodating their tastes, but god forbid I'm out with a huge group of friends who are all picky and it takes forever for them to decide (which has happened once before. shit is so annoying).

I didn't realize how much this mattered to me in a partner until I dated my ex. It was such a pleasant surprise to hear for once that she was down to try any food with me. I was so used to finding a new food or restaurant online and wanting to go and try it, but then having to shift through my mental list of who likes/dislikes what and trying to figure out who would want to go with me, that just having someone who would want to eat anything and everything with me was so fucking nice to hear.

Of course it's not a dealbreaker but there's a friend I've had an on/off crush on over the last few years but he's picky about almost everything and it just lowkey annoys me and I realize I wouldn't actually want to seriously date him because food would probably be an issue lol.

No. 497613

>mfw I'm so traumatized from past abuse from scrots that I literally cannot hear sexual jokes, see couples, or see anything related to sex without being reminded at how judgemental men are towards women's bodies
Literally the other day my friend was talking about how bras that hook in the front are easier for men to take off and all I could think or talk about was how judgemental men are towards literally any boob type that isn't perfect perky round big circles. Even when women do have that they still get nitpicked if their nipples are perfect pink and small.

The other day my friend was talking about smut from the 50s and all I could be reminded about was that men in the 50s actually appreciated women's bodies if they were healthy and proportional and that men actually enjoyed sex with women, unlike men now who beg for sex and act disinterested the entire time.

>Inb4 mods say go to pinkpill

It's locked

No. 497615

I have always have had large and very saggy breasts with a large areola and I can't put into words the absolute mental anguish and self loathing I felt all throughout my teen years and especially when it first hit me that males and even women would find my boobs absolutely disgusting and repulsive, that I would never be seen as desirable or even a real woman because of my saggy tits. I literally can not explain the extreme self hatred I felt towards myself and especially every time a scrote started to casually talk about how gross saggy breasts are or about how they "don't count". I'm 22 now and I've kind of come to terms with them now but you can't imagine what it was like. Even my goddamn gyno tried to talk me into a boob job at age 17.

Also, I understand board culture and everything but it still stings when girls on here rip apart a cow for having saggy tits. I mean I get it but I also can't help being reminded of the fact that my boob shape is seen as the absolute worst shape there is by both males and women.

No. 497622

Feeling both of these things. It's been years since I spent significant time on chanboards (besides this one) and gave over a lot of my mind in general to playing the cool girl to scrotes, but when I'm at my lowest and feeling shitty about my body, I still hear all the criticism in my head as what I saw boys in those places saying about women's bodies. Don't have the breast issues you have, 2nd anon, but I'm not white and have a darker/purplish vulva and I used to cry over it so often.

No. 497628

I have ""small"" breasts (32D) and I use to flip out to the point where I would self harm my breasts and I am not able to be sexual or affectionate with my current boyfriend for that very reason. The amount of men I've seen act as if small breasts are the worst dealbreaker of them all and how many men consider small boobs to be C's is insane. I'm honestly just done with men and refuse to show affection or intimacy towards them until they start being more loving towards women's bodies and the various shaped they come in. I advice other women to do the same

No. 497631

I'm always thinking about what type of male would even be loving towards womens bodies. Millennial males are pornsick cumbrains ruined by constant pandering towards them through the internet and they're literally the worst misogynists I've ever come across. Boomer males are not as corrupted by porn but also have a lot of disdain and contempt in them for women who are too skinny/fat and not pretty enough for them. They're especially judgemental towards plastic surgery too. Zoomer scrotes are still pretty young but are already displaying their porn addictions and cumbrain behavior all over the internet. They're not as obsessed with thinness as millennial males but the only non-thin women they'd consider are thicc insta baddies which is also an unattainable look.

Almost forgot about gen x. I honestly have no clue but I've heard from other women that a lot of them are absolute sociopaths and I can see it.

No. 497637

I'd take boomers who don't want fake or too skinny/too fat bodies over millennial and gen z males who go into in dept analysations of women's bodies in order to nitpick. Hell even boomers didn't shit themselves if women had bushes/puffy nipples/saggy boobs/skin imperfections/outtie labias/non flat stomachs. On top of that most of them are able to support women financially. Nowadays you have to support the man but also be insanely nitpicked while also having to accept muh dad bad, suspicious smells, greasy hair and acne.

The 50s had it's issues and it wasn't perfect but God damnit at least sex was good enough

No. 497639

You're missing the point that races exist not only due to sexual selection but also natural selection. Races of humans are different because they evolved to thrive in different environments.

If you're still bothered by it start lifting weights. Having extra muscle beneath the breast tissue will negate sagging.

No. 497642

>the 50s

slaps you

the boomers were BORN in the 50s and 60s god damn it, not actually adults back then. Boomers were boomin' in 60s-80s. Stop making yourself prehistoric for no reason..

No. 497643

I'm built like a fucking tank and have tons of muscle. My tits still sag though. And I'm trying not to think about "fixing" them anymore. I prefer to not think about them at all. Everything is better than feeling how I used to feel at 15.

No. 497645

Yes, and? How does that actually contradict anything I'm saying?(stop)

No. 497646

Eh my point still stands since extreme nitpicking of women's bodies didn't occur til recently. Other than that there was just a fixation on different levels of fatness, thinness and muscle. Now you have to be fat, thin, and have muscles all at the same time in areas where it's considered attractive. Most sex symbols from the era had a perfectly obtainable looking body, now we have Kardashians and cardi b to look up to which most women have to go under the knife to look like

No. 497647

I spent all my giftcards I got from my birthday 2 weeks ago on christmas presents.

No. 497650

I don't want to ruin your 50s fantasy because I get it but sex in the 50s was absolute dogshit. Everyone was repressed as shit. It was basically just 4 minutes of missionary and then your husband would go buy a prostitute to do all the crazy shit he would be too ashamed to ask his wife for. Also as a wife you were basically a cooking/breeding machine. You'd get beaten by your husband for burning dinner and shit. Literally everyone was openly misogynistic in a sickeningly casual way. It was everywhere. Every time you watched TV. People would laugh you out if the room if you'd ever suggest a female being a politician. I strongly recommend not romantisizing the 50s. I mean gush about the cute clothes and music all you want but marriage was the absolute pits. Everything still sucks for women nowadays but I feel like if a modern girl were to spend time in the 50s, she'd have an absolute mental breakdown after like one day.

No. 497652

>extreme nitpicking of women's bodies didn't occur til recently

lmfao, do you really fucking believe this?

No. 497655

Nta but the woman said boomers and she meant 60s-80s society instead. I'm tired of discussing about women in the 50s when we could be discussing women in the 80s, instead. Why do people always think of the past as the 50s and not the mid to late 20th century which was actually pretty good for female rights and minority rights and progress unlike this time when things are reverting back to a hellish pre 60s state

No. 497657

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Nta, but my parents, King and Queen Boomer, grew up in the late 60s-70s when having a bush both up top and downstairs was all the rage and porn was becoming more mainstream (with the iconic "porno music" we now think of), and looking natural and slightly dishevelled was popular. There was Playboy and other titty magazines but things were a lot tamer compared to now and people were significantly less repressed than in the 50s. They did have it a lot better in the sense of men being grateful for what they get, compared to now.

No. 497659

>natural and slightly dishevelled

yup, that was that time alright. women didnt have to look borderline like animu characters and have extreme neoteny and complete lack of aging on their skin at all to be considered attractive. Hell farrah fawcett was a sex icon in her late 20s/30s and she had lines on her face and a mature face shape during the 70s. That shit wouldn't fly now since we are conditioned to only find the most plastic surgery, symmetrical, cleanly, and neotenous types of women attractive (east asian influence?). Yet farmers wanna pretend somehow the 70s/80s were significantly worse than the 2010s lol

No. 497660

Some couples yes but not for the most part. Men would sexualize their own wives hence why you tend to find a lot of dirty Polaroids from the era of men's wives. Only wealthy men got prostitutes. There's also a lot of 50s smut too and various sex guides for husbands and wives. I'm not saying every single 50s couple was fine and dandy but come on now
Show me anywhere in the 50s-80s of men writing paragraphs nitpicking shit like nipple color and size and bushes and labia's. Literally nowhere. Explain how women were nitpicked during those times >>497657


No. 497661

See this is what bothers me. I see so many radfems talking about the 70s/80s like it was some feminist, progressive wonderland where you'd be respected no matter what and could look like however you wanted. This couldn't be farther from the truth. I don't want to post entire paragraphs explaining the massive scope of casual misogyny in those times but its so obvious. Watch an 80s movie and its obvious. Listen to horrendous 80s hair metal and its obvious. The 70s was the golden age of porn where respectable movie critics reviewed porn movies like they were pieces of art. It was also the "golden" age of serial killers often slaughtering women in inconcievable ways. When will you guys realize that every single time period sucked for women? Just because it was the heyday of Dworkin and schizos like Solanas doesn't mean the general public actually shared their ideology. Dworkin was insulted and ridiculed to absolute hell and back.

No. 497663

Well yeah I mean you're not wrong

Also whether people wanna admit it or not, the 50s-90s pandered more to the female gaze than the shitty 10s then. How many sexy male fashions were out in the 60s/70s/80s compared to 10s?

No. 497664

i agree with this. porn was just less accessible, and yes, standards were different, but it was still sickeningly misogynistic.

No. 497667

I guess. It still leaves a sense of being content when you know your husband is going on Reddit crying about how horrible your body is and how they want you to look like a porn star and considering leaving you

No. 497670

Well back then your bf would go meet his buddies at the bar and complain about your body and how fat and ugly you are and how he wished you looked more like his favorite porn star and how he wished he could leave you because you robbed him of the life he deserves.

Same circus, different clowns.

No. 497671

>You're missing the point that races exist not only due to sexual selection but also natural selection. Races of humans are different because they evolved to thrive in different environments.
NTA but you're the one missing her point. She's saying that race-mixing doesn't equal annihilation.

No. 497672

ntayrt but at least i could easily get a man who was possibly slimmer, more fit, and even younger than him, and liked to dance and shake his tight body to some good music, and didn't worry about looking "gay" (depending on the circle but anyways) so he was just as fashionable and sexy as me. 2010s "men"that are both soyboys and have dadbods and also think everything sexy is gay and can't dance and have no charisma sounds like we lose either way these days

No. 497679

And it's ALWAYS Americans. I have plenty of tan&ethnic animoo characters I'd love to fuck and every time I see some pedantic little upper middle class White/SEAsian/Black American fuck on her soapbox making a scene about how this is "fetishizing" I want to die a little inside. If someone was all over characters of my obscure ethnicity I'd be giddy with joy to tell you the truth. The same goes for when I like a cute twink boy and I get accused of pedophilia because he's not an ugly buff hairy bear despite being canonly like 22 and having an obvious adult albeit petite body.

Reading this post made me extremely happy that the forums I posted on as a spergy teenager are long gone and even if they weren't, my old nicknames couldn't be connected to my current one.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 497694

You don't have any evidence of that however just type in "my girlfriend has -certain unattractive feature-" and you find tons of posts of men considering breaking up and cheating on their girlfriends over one feature, harassing their girlfriends into getting plastic surgery, emotionally abusing women then bragging about it. Men take not finding women attractive to extreme lengths now

No. 497699

I just realized I like teenagers more than adults, talking to teenagers and reflecting on my teenage conversations vs my adult ones. Teens get more excited for stuff and will talk about things other than just sex, their job, and relationships all the time. They will have hobbies and be interested to learn and give information. They will love intelligence. Many adults, even as young as 19, are already burned out and see no passion in the little things and learning of life anymore.

I'm 21, btw

No. 497700

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I hope my sister isn't eating my lobster.

No. 497727

I remember years ago when I was a tween I saw this Space Jam backpack from Value village featuring Lola Bunny and Michael Jordan,thinking about this now I could have sold it for $100 on eBay because it was an extremely rare backpack to come by

No. 497738

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What if I told you that his 30 yr old son looks exactly like him?

No. 497755

it would be pretty SHELLFISH of her. badum tss.

No. 497770

Got up to look if i had oats in the pantry on my way to the bathroom and nearly somehow shat myself. It was so close. Merry happy christmas, anons.

No. 497773

wish we had a christmas thread

No. 497789

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>>497773 be honest, anon. Did you start the xmas thread

No. 497793

Even better when it was yourself that posted the bait. So satisfying

No. 497798

merry christmas bb

No. 497849

I like this website the more it ages, and the more anons on here post their insights. I have a rare feeling of the old internet I can't get anywhere else. Every time I feel content with something it goes crashing down, so when I saw that anon saying this site will be dox'd by scrotes/tras because of the pink pill/gender crit theme on here i feel bad because deep down inside i know its true

No. 497890

don't be so paranoid lol we are gonna be fine

No. 497903

Kek my dumbass government said kpop is at fault for the social revolts which if you have even a superficial knowledge of what kpop is and how capitalism on steroids is Korea you would realize "nah it isn't like that" they really be thinking people are dumb as bricks

No. 497910

This video keeps popping in my head and every time I think about it I laugh my ass off. Truly art.

No. 497915

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Ever since I watched the “Don’t Fuck with Cats” I’ve had that New Order song stuck in my head and I can’t stop listening to it.

No. 497921

Okay but why so many people sneeze or cough right into there hands? The propse of covering your dayum mouth is so you dont spread your germs, like yeah thanks for trying but your suppose to sneeze into your elbow or in shirt.
It so dayum nasty to me that I ain't ever wanna shake people hand or take things from them cause they probaly do this, almost everyone ik does this.
Like you touch everything with your hands and making it worse dumbass.

No. 497924

Agreed, elbow, armpit (lol) and idk a tissue are cool but hands hhhnfg. Also, you happen to be drunk anon? Thems are quite the typos.

No. 497929

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Do you ever think about how you could make a killing teaching troons how to apply makeup? I know my way around makeup (obvs not makeup artist level) but i dabble in natural day-to-day makeup on the daily, i think if i could handle sitting with a narcissist for an hour or so i could make some money.

I think it would be in vain though. I doubt half of these retards could even maintain a somewhat consistent skincare routine to handle daily makeup use. If you have a bunch of acne and your skin is overall dirty, that just shows through the makeup, in fact caking a bunch of concealer and foundation on top is likely to make it worse.

No. 497933

Ahh I kind of just woke up there and haven't eaten yet. I still be a little trippy.

No. 497936

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One of the reasons I hate the holidays is because I can't use the fucking bathroom whenever I want. Literally from December 23rd until Jan 2nd… and of course I'm on my period then too.

It's because our dog hides in there, he's scared of firecrackers and loud noises. I don't blame the poor animal for behaving the way it does, it's not his fault. However he's rather large and the bathroom is really small so he sometimes gets nervous when there's someone inside with him and there's loud noise outside. He starts to bark and growl which makes me uncomfortable since I really don't like dogs. Or he gets bored or wants attention so he tries to put his head on your lap while you're trying to piss. Showering is a no go, he loves water. Sometimes he wants to get inside the rest of the house but he's not allowed in because of the cats and dragging him back to the hallway is a pain in the ass and it makes everyone in the house nervous so there's a lot of fighting between my parents. I don't hate him for being like this, but I sure hate my brother for being a pos and bringing home a pet, without asking anyone and then making my father take care of it.

I can't wait until this is over, I fucking hate the holidays.

No. 497938

Valid, eat well and drink your water bb

No. 497941

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"I am the kung-fu MASTER"

No. 497944

I looked up photos of breast lifting surgeries before and after and now my tits hurt in response to the horrors i saw, yes i stumbled upon porn of fucking course.

No. 497972

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>mfw all these anons living in legalized states/countries talking about weed
I just wanna be able to buy some edibles so I can get through this flu in some comfort at least, or some kind of substance to render me comatose so I can sleep through this shit. There's nothing in this world to be conscious for right now. All these flu functions like the dry hacking don't even serve a purpose since I'm not coughing up phlegm, it's here just to hurt me and contagion others.
Also I'm so delirious I posted this in the dumbass questions thread and not this one.

No. 497975

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I just binged on pop chips last night and today because I haven't felt like eating real food. I'm probably gonna get some coffee later. I feel like a loser y'all.

No. 498000

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>I feel like a loser y'all
Don't we all, anon…

Happy holidays!

No. 498060

My parents keep dropping baby hints to me and my bf, they brought us a tent, airbed and candles for Christmas

No. 498065

I don't get it.

No. 498066

That’s gross anon, it must be awkward

No. 498068

It means her parents are trying to get her and her bf to have sex so she'll get pregnant and have babies.

No. 498070

Ew, I hate it when parents do stuff like that. Just… no.

No. 498071

Sounds more like they want them to go camping. If the parents expect a grandkid surely they would assume anon is be fucking her bf already and doesn't need a tent to have sex…

No. 498084

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I want a based farmer friend to get drunk with, talk shit, and play harvest moon with me
But I'm too boring and insecure to bother

No. 498091

And they'd need a tent and an air mattress to have sex because…?
Also who is dumb enough to light candles inside tents lol.

No. 498115

I don't doubt you're better than them.
I do doubt they'd ever listen. Transwomen are still men, so hating women is part of their schtick.

No. 498122

sounds comfy af, id be down
which harvest moon? i like the gba ones

No. 498132

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My man. I've been playing (More) Friends of mineral town for a while now, it's the best guilty pleasure

I courted Gray with sticks

No. 498186

recently i made a food from my culture that i havent had in over a decade since moving away from an area where there's a lot of us to one where there's almost none. even though i was worried it would come out wrong because it required a lot of uncommon ingredients and i was tweaking the recipes to match my memories, but it came out good! it was so nostalgic and cozy to eat it again after so long. it inspired me to start making more foods from my culture for my partner who's never even heard of them!

No. 498328


I just found out about this and it's so cool.
It's like every internet community made has it's own space for pixel art. Maybe our farms could make some too.

No. 498329

it's cool but

>see kirby and other creative stuff

>a flag and really cool pattern design
>sonic advance sprite
>pokemon sprites
>extremely beautiful graphic designs
aww this is so cu-

>see ponies

>scroll down and see more ponies
>and then pony ass with exposed vagina


No. 498335


OP here, I saw some SFW pony art but thankfully haven't stumbled upon pony porn.

Why do bronies have to ruin everything?

No. 498352

Today i suddenly remembered this girl from high school who sat next me in maths and gushed about Harry Potter and how she was gonna force the books and movies on her kids in the future and if they didn't like it she was gonna disown them lol. She was nice but she struck me as very obsessive - i wonder if she's grown up to be one of those girls who never read another book and bought millions of merchandise and had a Harry Potter esque wedding

No. 498356

Not wanting children really shrinks your dating pool… man this sucks

No. 498365

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Imagine being the kind of person who plays Papers please and does this

No. 498367

Or if she’s decided to burn them and trash all her HP merch since JKR has been branded a “TERF” lol.

It’s rough, but I’m sure you’ll find someone. You’ll just have to sift through a ton of guys demanding to know why you don’t want babies/insisting they can change your mind. Blech.

No. 498369

Oh man seeing bronies giving me horror flashbacks to when I was in the fandom. But like I was part of the target audience while bronies wasn't. I'm glad the show ended but I still cherish like early on.

No. 498372


god i hate bronies, that whole show was a fucking mistake.

No. 498379

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Took the ferry to get into work today. The terminal has a lot of bomb sniffing dogs and I saw a dog who really wanted attention, and kept looking up at his handler. The handler looked down at him and then looked away, and the little pup maneuvered his cute little butt around by stepping backwards so he could get even closer to his handler and sit on his foot, then looked up at him again.

God I wish I could have pet him. I love dogs so fucking much, I always get so happy when I see those good dogs working hard to keep people safe. I know I can never pet them but I wish I could!!!

No. 498381

I knew a lot of other teenage girls who liked the first season. TBF it was pretty cute and wholesome.

No. 498391

Reading about single mothers by choice and my relationship anxiety totally melted away— if I’m single in 10 years, I’ll have a kid without needing a man. Made me snap out of groveling to my boyfriend just to have a man around, and realized my dream was never to get married and have kids, but to have kids. Feels good realizing there’s less and less I need to depend on a man for, and no reason for me to get emotionally involved with men who aren’t treating me right just to have someone around.

No. 498406

Does anyone feel like they have some form of “split personality” at work?

I seem to act more innocent, my voice-pitch gets higher and am more aloof than normal and when I’m at home, I’m still as introverted but normal with a regular (abeit naturally high) voice

No. 498419

I’ve been doing so well with my skincare lately, I literally went months without a single blemish. So why the fuck did I have to wake up yesterday with two huge, angry, painful cysts on my face just when my bf comes home in two days to celebrate NYE? I’ve been slathering them in zinc but it’s not helping. fml

No. 498421

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I got a blood test the other day to test my blood sugar and I'm anxiously awaiting the results. I'm terrified that I have diabetes or some weird issue but I have surgery coming up in a week for something unrelated. I have never truly felt "healthy" my entire life, but for the past several months I've been feeling tired and fatigued all of the time and numbness throughout my body but especially on my hands and feet and it's been getting worse. My sex drive is low. I'm not fat: I'm 5'5 125-130 lbs. When I lost 10 lbs (I was 115 lbs) I had bruises all over my legs and in general I bruise easily. I've had anemia on and off for years and it runs in my family, low blood sugar (I've had hypoglycemia before) and very low blood pressure (like 90/60 is the norm for me). I am always thirsty but I only drink water. I constantly have cravings especially for beef and fish and fatty foods like avocado, beans, etc, but when I eat them it doesn't help. I've also always had a sweet tooth and I eat healthier than I did when I was younger but I still crave sugar badly, but when I do eat it I feel like garbage and exhausted. My PCP also suspects I have Raynaud's. Btw I'm not trying to get a diagnosis on here just expressing my fears.

No. 498429

Have you also been reading about the expected outcomes for children of single parents? You don't need a husband per se, but it's still a two person job if you want it done correctly, so you should at at least get someone.

No. 498431

The other day at the fastfood place I work at a woman came in and ordered food for her family, and started talking to me about how she has always been naturally skinny and everyone in her family is naturally skinny and that they have big appetites but high metabolisms and eat whatever they want. The thing is, she was visibly very chubby and like 5 feet tall.

It was just kind of weird!

No. 498432

I was super into it in late middle school/ early HS until at 15 I became aware of the connotations and became deeply embarrassed.

No. 498433

that's pretty normal, it's called code switching. most people act differently at work vs. home (or anywhere else) because there are different social rules, like professionalism.

No. 498434

as long as she has family who can help or enough money for childcare it's not that bad. most of the expected outcomes have to do with the fact that single mothers on average can't afford to raise their kids. money and/or a supportive family goes a long way.

No. 498436

Like I said, this is a hypothetical “if I don’t get married in 10 years” thing. I grew up with a mentally ill, irresponsible father, and an intelligent, fiscally responsible and driven mother . Honestly, my life would’ve been easier if my parents had divorced when I was a child (long period of separati