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Vent Thread #243 Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 03:15:31 AM No. 2334759
A thread for venting about difficult stuff going on in your life.
Previous vent thread:
>>2326676 Follow all the /ot/ board rules & don't reply to bait.
Don't come to this thread to make fun of anons' vents, to demean them, or to try and be funny with some shit snark reply. It's annoying. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 03:41:38 AM No. 2334765
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I don't like how indoor cats track feces everywhere and have smelly paws bc people are too lazy to clean or change the litter, or buy them odor-absorbing pellets. My solution belongs in the unpopular opinions thread tho
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:00:41 AM No. 2334776
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I hate taking the bus, Lately I've been getting weirdos sitting next to me, mouth breathing is fucking disgusting. Off yourself fatty.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:39:06 AM No. 2334796
>>2334792 I feel this way about the adhd community too. There’s a hormonal component to adhd that isn’t well researched or understood. It affects medication dosage, presentation of symptoms, and coincides with major changes in a woman’s health including puberty, pregnancy, postnatal, and menopause. Any discussion about it gets muddied by TiMs wanting to talk about the effect of taking women’s hormones when they are men. I hate them so much I wish there was a
terf adhd and autism community.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:45:46 AM No. 2334799
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The year has just started and things are so off. I hope it doesn’t continue you be like this because I don’t think I can take it.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:07:15 AM No. 2334809
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this is the ugliest piercing i've ever seen and i'm mad that i know about it
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:25:41 AM No. 2334815
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>>2334811 i like some facial piercings depending on the jewelry used, rn i only have a bunch of ear piercings, but i seriously hate the "dots on face" type. i agree they either look like zits or they're so small they seem pointless, like why even have something like picrel?
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:25:56 AM No. 2334816
>>2334799 Nona, I feel the same way. I’m usually excited for the New Year, even though I’ve been dealing with poor mental health for years. I’ve always fantasized, prayed, made plans, and set goals. But this time, as the year came in, I felt a strange mix of apathy and an unsettling sense of dread. I’ll actually pray for us right now,
nonnie .
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:27:07 AM No. 2334817
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God, it's me again. Some minutes ago, my fucking internet crush jumpscared me on my youtube feed, and I realized that today I haven't think about him during all day, I guess fucking God really wants to punish me and laught at me.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 06:01:41 AM No. 2334840
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I don't know how much longer I can last pretending not to be a terf around my normie friends.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 07:08:28 AM No. 2334885
>>2334799 I feel you
nonny . But just because a year starts off as bad doesn't mean it'll continue to be bad!
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 07:50:38 AM No. 2334917
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>>2334906 Do you wanna swap anon? I just enjoy weird fetishes that I find mentally stimulating but my vagina is fucking dead, I never even had an orgasm at 26. (ngl tho sometimes i feel better than most people due to not being coombrained)
(ai outside of containment ) Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 08:15:15 AM No. 2334937
>>2334933 Nonna, this will sound retarded, but drink some water and go to the bathroom, that usually makes the horniness stop.
I've noticed that whenever I can't go to the bathroom properly, like just couldn't poop, I have stomach issues or I haven't peed yet, I feel horny, and then I almost do stupid shit like talking with moids or watching porn. But once I pee/poop, I stop feeling horny and go to sleep.
Of course this happens at night and never during the day.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 09:49:39 AM No. 2334974
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I'm tired. Caring about friends who got sucked into gender ideology shit and each ended up all kinds of crazy is exhausting to worry about. They were reading all those Tumblr posts and memes, at a young age back when we were all teens. And it messed with their heads tremendously. I tried checking up on them, but they haven't grown out of it and gotten worse. At this point, I'm just going to let them go. Whatever they do is whatever they do with themselves. Everything is offensive to them, I feel like I am walking on eggshells with them. They're fine with throwing away friends that care about them all the time, even the ones that share the same ideology, so you know that something ticked them off even with these new friends. It's too draining to keep caring. If they want to go and be a statistic, fine. If they want to make a surgery their life goal with absolutely nothing else and end up not pursuing literally anything then end up broke on the street, okay then. I can't agree more with the whole "so much trans joy" joke on /snow/. People are fucking miserable, even moreso on this shit.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 10:34:19 AM No. 2334987
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I look like if a TIM was biologically female, if that makes sense. I have an obviously female body yet both my face and hair phenotype are associated with your average terminally online white tranny. I've become so insecure about this that I try to avoid accidentally making "the smirk" in photos or I intentionally make a silly face because I'm insecure about even trying to look good. Is there anything I can do about this or am I fucked.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:02:42 PM No. 2335217
>>2335205 Are you seriously getting body dysmorphic over a literal midget. Girl
>>2335212 Tall girls have swag
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:05:41 PM No. 2335221
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I'm so nervous for an interview I have. Please wish me luck.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:19:08 PM No. 2335244
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No matter what I do, I will never be enough. I need to work harder. Relying my self-worth on the opinion of one person who always wants me to be better is really horrible, and I'm not able to change that. I will always try, but any work I do is overshadowed by the work I haven't done yet. Should I just escape this city?
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:41:48 PM No. 2335270
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I want to have sex, I thought my libido would calm down but it has gotten worse as I've aged, I'm going to be 30 soon and this is the second night I've spent sex-roleplaying with bots.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:51:06 PM No. 2335284
>>2335276 I know but I've heard that we shrivel at 30 and that our ovaries are expired for so long, that I'm surprised by how I'm actually even more horny than during my 20's which would've been like, the "ideal" time to have kids according to my family.
It's kind of a pleasant but also not so pleasant surprise because I don't believe in having sex with moids.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 04:59:20 PM No. 2335301
>>2335286 Not really, actually. My brother's girlfriend keeps harping about how she has to have kids before she's 35 because she's afraid of having tard babies and complicated pregnancies.
I was actually feeling self-conscious about it at some point considering I have never had a boyfriend and such, but it's whatever at this point, I just continue having fun with my husbandos.
It really makes me wonder just how is it going to be like when I turn 40, which is the other age of doom that I've been told about, in which you also should absolutely and totally never reproduce.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:02:57 PM No. 2335309
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Still remembering when I was 11 and was at my (at the time) bestie's mom's funeral after she lost a several years long battle with cancer, and his dad arrives with a fucking hawaiian shirt, resting his arms on the backrest of the pew without even giving his only son a single glance of support. My friend had asked to buy a plushie of his mom's favorite animal to leave on the casket, but his dad kept telling him no and only let him have a single sad rose. It was an open secret that he was abusive (and there had been some brief discussion of him possibly having smothered the MIL to death because of how suddenly she passed), but no adult would do anything. After the funeral he just dusted off his hands and went "well now that's over and done with", right outside the church. My mom was so pissed she immediately dragged me to the car and drove us home, I barely got a chance to say goodbye because she was so disgusted by him.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 05:52:16 PM No. 2335438
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I think I took the most radioactive nuclear blackpill ever. Searching through rabbitholes and finding the tiniest breadcrumbs on how manipulative and corrupt this world is has crushed me up that I don’t feel anything anymore. You will always be on the bottom and treated like shit and there’s nothing you can realistically do about it until you die. Whenever there’s some semblance of peace in my shitty life it’s always up in smoke irl most feels like straight up punishment or mind control, you get attached to things and the it just fucking rips it away from you to cause more distress and helplessness. Everywhere I go nobody even attempts to talk to me and my entire life has always been full of loneliness and feeling extremely misunderstood it’s affecting my health and body where I can actually feel the chronic stress on my bones. This planet could only be thought up by a psychopath
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 07:26:03 PM No. 2335793
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period started and feeling terribly depressed and alone
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 08:23:19 PM No. 2335942
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I have issues with that I have so many thoughts going on simultaneously, like I'm thinking three entirely different thoughts that the same time and it sometimes makes it hard to focus and learning new things because my mind is scattered all the time, on top of occasional brain fog because I'm panicking over how I struggle with my memory. It's like my thoughts are going at extreme speed at all times, which also sometimes makes me talk fast and get annoyed with people that need a minute to respond in a conversation because they need a moment to think an through a reply. Sometimes I don't have much patience with the world around me because everything in my head is going at such high speed. I guess this perhaps is also what makes me highly effective once I get a grasp on something… I definitely don't meet the criteria for ADD or AD/HD so I don't think it's that, maybe I'm just a highspeed retard.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 09:19:36 PM No. 2336023
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>>2336004 Had to crop out the anime slop but kekk
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 09:22:33 PM No. 2336029
>>2335877 Do you realize how ridiculous you look from his point of view? I’d be delighted to have a dog to call too, that comes whenever I want no matter how shitty I treat them. I don’t even have to pay gas money.
An ex is an ex nonna.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 09:26:08 PM No. 2336035
>>2336002 Nonna let us encourage each other if you want. I’m on my seventh day. We can cheer each other in the fitness sub from time to time.
There’s no need to say the x number of calories or our weight, just that we managed to do well that day.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 10:23:12 PM No. 2336109
>>2336060 praying for you
nonnie , either you miraculously don't get evicted, or something new lines right up so you don't have to be on the streets
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 11:14:23 PM No. 2336183
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this year started off so shit. i feel lonely and friendless, and this is the first time in my life i've felt SO much like kmsing. i won't actually go through with it, but the deathwish is there. i hope that this gets magically fixed when classes start again. to top it off, looking at screens makes me feel even worse.
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 11:18:57 PM No. 2336193
I heard my moid aggressively yell at my sensitive dog and i just told him to please don't do that.. then he got aggressive at me and for once i stood up for us. I told him to take his car (well, mine, my second car) to please go home if he can't behave (the home i pay for and insisted he keep for moments just like this— as if I'd ever let a moid move in with me)— and he just kept going and said some truly unsavory things.. and I'm still like "maybe I overreacted", "maybe I was wrong, i should've calmed down" but i also told him yesterday that i wouldn't tolerate this insufferable, angry, bullshit anymore. He could've saved it by saying "sorry– something." But he immediately went off on me and just..
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 11:42:06 PM No. 2336249
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Maybe I should just abandon my few remaining friends and just stay a loner for the rest of my life cause clearly that's my true destiny
Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 11:43:51 PM No. 2336252
>>2336193 i second
>>2336212 , you did the right thing, that's not an overreaction. life is too fleeting for you to let a violent moid stress you and your dog so much. don't feel guilty, nona.
maybe you're even doing TOO much for him by letting him use your car and have you pay for the home but that's not my business Anonymous 01/06/25 (Mon) 11:44:05 PM No. 2336253
>>2336193 Nonna you did not overreact . A scrote who is capable of behaving like you describe is one who will inevitably abuse you and then blame it on you.
You protected yourself, good job. Don’t be afraid of your own judgement and intuition.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:04:09 AM No. 2336289
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Trying not to think about my awful, lying, cheating ex-boyfriend, who has somehow fallen upward into success his entire life. I have no idea how he does it, it's like he's been living life on Easy Mode with cheat codes since he was born. He never had a day job that lasted more than a week, and he's burned countless bridges with his old friends over the years, and now? He has an impressive job title on a massive network TV show. And now has other creative projects that are skyrocketing in popularity. HOW!?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:04:09 AM No. 2336290
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>>2336273 WITH SOMETHING HARD AND SANDPAPERY
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:19:51 AM No. 2336332
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I am going to start college soon and i feel so nervous. I only enrolled because my mom told me i had to pick between working and studying. I feel like a mega retard, i genuinely dont think i will make it past the very first year. I am a very self hating person with extremely low self esteem, i just know this year is going to be insanely rough. God, why cant i just be normal.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:27:29 AM No. 2336351
>>2336332 As a college student don’t hype yourself too much, it sucks. Sometimes I want to die too.
But I’m in med school so take it with a grain of salt.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:33:08 AM No. 2336357
>>2336351 I am in accounting. Good luck med
nonnie , medicine sounds scary as a retard.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:37:27 AM No. 2336360
>>2336352 >>2336164 >People don’t care that they’ve convinced themselves they’re sex repulsed because they don’t want to bang every person they see Imo asexuality
is real in the sense that people can experience it and live perfectly fine with no sex drive (even though it's probably a symptom of a larger problem in most cases) but the community is so fucking annoying kek. It's like a monkey's paw situation where they traded their libidos for an insatiable lust for attention. They're only slightly less retarded than demisexuals (aka gigatards who can't even pretend to be different from the norm.)
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:39:57 AM No. 2336364
>>2336357 Thank you nonna, good luck to you too! A proper advice would be to not put too many expectations and to be gentle with yourself, you’ll take a bit of time to get used to the new rhythm. And also make friends the first day, because the more days pass the harder it will get, people are more friendly when they know no one.
>medicine sounds hard as a retard I honestly feel like a moron and a fraud every time kek, but I’m in my fourth year so that must mean something
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 12:59:18 AM No. 2336381
self compassion is very hard to learn when you have spent 2/4 of your time living suicidal and hating yourself for simply existing, and i am doing my best to be consistent with it (because you need to be) while also juggling goals and obligations. hating myself has taken so much time and intelligence from me (though childhood ptsd is the real issue) and even doubting myself or intelligence isnt allowed in terms of self compassion. today i saw a girl who i feel is prettier, and my mind urged me to dye my hair again, to save up for more cute outfits and go harder with dieting. she was younger, too, and just minding her business. i had to wish her well in my mind, to appreciate her beauty and not envy it because it is so silly. i think i should use a diary again, but even that can be overwhelming when i need to focus on school, work, hobbies, obligation, self compassion, and building other habits. mindfulness/self compassion has made things so much better, but as mich as it helps the consistency is so hard. i an often so stressed and overwhelmed, so much so that my creativity is scared of me and hasnt returned. the body really does keep score, too, because i know i am not as intelligent or capable of doing 28282 things like i used to. but i will do my best anyway, and prioritize if i need to, because i want to trust that i am deserving of life, and i also want to trust that my academic career is temporary and there is no rush for creative projects.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 01:07:43 AM No. 2336390
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I'M SICK AND MY BIRTHDAY PARTY IS SUPPOSED TO BE THIS FRIDAY NONNAS I'M SO ANGRY WHY NOW!!!!
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 01:42:54 AM No. 2336413
>>2336402 Thank you nonna. Sadly what your family has is a very common mindset to have. People don’t seem to realize that humane euthanasia is a gift. It shouldn’t be something frowned upon. You just need to put your personal discomfort aside and realize that keeping your pets alive for the sake of it isn’t benefitting your pet, it’s benefitting yourself.
In my families case it comes down to them not wanting to pay for vet bills and continuing to buy more pets despite not even being able to afford the pets they have. Plus the whole antivax, antidoctor mindsets happening everywhere, but especially in rural places like where I live.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 02:01:29 AM No. 2336434
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I had sex for the first time just before nye and ever since I've been extremely paranoid that I could be pregnant. Here's what's been going on>bled a bit the day of/after sex/fingering, first bright red blood then a bit that looked like period spotting >increased frequency of urination, but my whole area down there was sore and probably swollen from hard fingering and this has become less of a problem >realized that I probably shouldn't have been taking my bc pill at the same time as another medication as it might have reduced it's effectiveness or made it useless. My doctor didn't discuss drug interactions with me at all and I didn't think of it until it was too late >I stg my boobs have gotten slightly bigger but I could be crazy. They're not tender at all though. >I started bc pills at the end of my last period nearly a month ago, I'm now on the placebo pills and no period yet. However I usually get my period in the middle of the month, so I haven't even adjusted to the hormonal changes yet.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 02:03:22 AM No. 2336438
>>2336289 Maybe his life isn't all that it seems and there's a bias to believe it's better than it is because he only presents the positives on social media (i.e. the big house, parties, celebrity connects). Everyone has problems. If he was narcissistic when you dated him it's not like his personality was instantly cured along with the upgrades.
Perhaps with every smiling photo he takes with one person, several people had an unsavory interaction and do not like him. Of course he would never post about that reality if he were even self-aware enough to notice. Disordered personalities sometimes have an effect of upward economic and social climb because they lack the empathy, or rather guilt, to feel badly stepping on whoever it took to rise to the top. It's one of the big issues I have with people assuming people who obtained nice things=morally good.
You know the truth about him at least, I would feel badly for the people who only know his act.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 02:31:59 AM No. 2336453
>>2336193 >take his car (well, mine, my second car) to please go home if he can't behave (the home i pay and he's emotionally fucked up?
why are you dating him?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 03:28:07 AM No. 2336518
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I don’t know what do do with my life. I’m stuck in a shitty country and I cannot think of a way to emigrate. I don’t have enough money to move to study and even if I did, it wouldn’t help me to move to the US with a 100% guarantee. Yes, it’s possible to change it to work visa if you find a job but I basically have to bet on a) getting a scholarship for the studying and the following b) getting the job afterwards. That is, with following c) getting a job from a not shitty employer who will sponsor me. I understand that nothing is 100% guaranteed and it’s sort of a big ask but I’m not that young (in my 30s) and can not waste my time on stuff that won’t work out anymore.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 03:36:29 AM No. 2336530
>>2336522 Well, I can’t move here because I’m not qualified for the work visa, so.
But you wouldn’t want to work at my position anyway, I’m getting about $30k a year. My boss saves up money on hiring me instead of you though, yay capitalism.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 03:43:10 AM No. 2336536
Why am I so emotional? It’s like everything gets to me. I don’t cry much, and I’m not emotional outwardly in general so people don’t see it. But anything, just reading something online, the subtle way in which people treat subjects, people, how it relates to me, it always fucking hurts. One small thing just sticks with me for the entire day afterwards until I finally get over it, until it happens again. How do people just go about their lives? How do people even forget things? Everything makes me suicidal. I’ll go back home, I’ll write paragraphs on the internet, much more than anyone else will, to others it’s just a waste of time and something they’ll forget about later but for me it’s a big deal, it’s everything. There’s just so much that sucks, always, how are you meant to enjoy life?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 04:55:10 AM No. 2336617
>>2336539 >>2336551 Mexico in general is not THAT bad. It has its awful places and cities, you can avoid them easily if you have a basic level of awareness and if you have the chance to pick a place to live.
For foreigners can be a paradise if they:
1. Have a job that is remote and located in a country better postioned than Mexico (online practically)
2. If the currency they're being paid is more valuable than the mexican one
That's why a lot of americans come here and say "omg it's so cheap!!!" It's cheap for them cuz they're not being paid as a mexican. If they were, the would be struggling like anybody else here lol.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 05:04:37 AM No. 2336632
>>2336539 This, basically, just stick to the gentrified zones like Polanco, they're full of "digital nomads" aka people that come from other countries to work remote jobs while living a "more chill life" and buying cheap af groceries. It's safe to stay in those places, I'd say any place specifically designed to keep Americans happy is a safe place (resorts and tourist zones). Don't go to places that are
problematic , ask the locals and you'll know what to avoid. Other bigger cities are fine too. As long as you don't expose yourself or mingle with the wrong people, you'll be all good. Be careful with men they're fucking gross and I hate them, women are very nice and welcoming just avoid wokefags.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 05:26:04 AM No. 2336655
>>2336581 I don’t want to give too much away but I’m originally from Europe (not the part you’d want to visit though) and I’m currently living in South America.
I feel bad about calling the place a shithole because I honestly love the place and the city I live in but the way things are looking it’s going to get harder and harder to live here.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 05:39:17 AM No. 2336674
>>2336650 Yep! Lots of cool stuff to see, lots of people, it's chill and some malls do carry American brands/stores if that's something you're interested in
>>2336655 Argentina or Venezuela?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 07:22:23 AM No. 2336749
>>2336727 im sorry. my sister recently started dating a tranny and i cant say anything about it. it sucks we have to just clench our teeth and move on. how close are you with the friends?
>>2336747 same nona… i wish there was a way to find this exact thing with local people. i would be your friend
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 08:36:17 AM No. 2336797
>>2336793 like holy shit how am I supposed to stomach myself and take care of myself while knowing I look like an actual retard and have dead, animal-like eyes?
it doesn't help that I'm humongous too. I literally feel like frankenstein's monster and have for more or less my entire life
how am I supposed to make it in this world? I have no connections, my family is broken and retarded as well, and I am barely capable of looking after myself. if I'm supposed to compete with people who aren't like this just to have a roof over my head why even keep myself alive honestly?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 08:50:42 AM No. 2336812
>>2336783 You sound a lot like me actually. I can relate so much and I am so glad at least one person can relate to me in this regard. The girl I like the most right now (by like I mean as a friend obviously) takes days and sometimes weeks to respond. I miss her every time. When I don't have a female best friend in my life I feel empty, even if I'm in a happy relationship.
>>2336800 Sounds fun. I wish I had female friends to do that with. Can you please tell me how you met those friends?
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 09:38:57 AM No. 2336834
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hey nonnies just got into an argument with my parents over something my extended family did over orthodox Christmas so I’m sitting in this pub by myself at nearly8PM waiting for them to leave. cheers
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 02:10:19 PM No. 2337102
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I finally broke up with my boyfriend of almost nine years. It happened on good terms, and he understood my reasons, this has been coming for a while though. I hope we can remain friends, because thats what we have been for a long time, not lovers.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 02:54:49 PM No. 2337127
>>2337102 It’s retarded to share custody of a dog, it’s not a child.
You’d rather take some time off not being together and maybe you might even resume being friends after a while if you like, although I just tend to keep exes and friends separate, having a clean break is better.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 03:55:26 PM No. 2337178
>>2337102 If your dog is more strongly bonded to you then you are the default owner. There is no benefit for the dog to be swapped between owners as other anon mentioned it is not a child. The only thing I can see that doing is giving your ex an alibi to still be in your life–unless that is something you want.
When I broke up with my ex fiance I took my dog because my ex was neglectful towards it and my dog loved me more. My ex was pathetic and tried to use the dog as an argumentative basis for why we should not break up as if it were a child, and then got angry that I didn't invite him to a small birthday party I threw for my dog and my friend's dogs in the park and accused me of alienation like it was a fucking custody dispute lmao. But because he did not really care about the dog, he did not pursue that further with me.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 04:59:44 PM No. 2337241
>>2337234 Heavens no anon, I wasn't implying you are encouraging orbiting but it's something that scrotes just do.
Honestly it's very difficult making friends period. I encounter the ghosting as you've mentioned. I'm either carrying the friendships by having to be the one to plan and reach out constantly or people just drop off for me. It hurts a lot cause I never feel like anyone's priority and it feels a lot like I am the "backup" friend for when someone has no one else or needs a favor. But you've gotta keep trying until you find one or two that "click" because the males are 100% fake without a shadow of doubt. Also I've made female friends over the years who I do touch base with but have come to accept that I need to view those friendships with permeance even if we don't hang out or chat everyday–they're not bad people, just busy and their lives took different directions and that's ok too.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 05:06:01 PM No. 2337248
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nonnies what do i do if i don't find happiness in anything anymore? i'm so tired and i have this constant tummyache and i'm not sure if it's a byproduct of emotional distress or what
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 05:32:51 PM No. 2337286
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It's not just a misunderstanding borne from autism, it's outright disgusting when men are so unsocialized that they think older women being nice/warm to them is "attraction" or "flirting". Just because your mother locked you in a metal crate and your father threw beer bottles at your head for the first 12 years of your life doesn't mean the old lady who calls everyone "honey" or "sweetheart" wants to fuck you. You have never known warmth or been met with with a sunny disposition (probably because everyone who actually knows you can sense your deviancy), and your porn addiction leads you to think such things can only come from sex. This is a personal issue.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 07:56:35 PM No. 2337590
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>>2336006 ayrt and I've been thinking about this A LOT today, nonna. I kinda wonder if I'm perhaps in denial because when I think of adhd I think of people that are way more sociable than me, energic and super fun to be around (idk I don't think I've met anyone diagnosed with adhd that I've not been absolutely smitten with in one way or another kek) so I thought "couldn't be me, I'm none of that". But checking out signs of adhd in women really got me thinking, on top of both my siblings and 3 out of 4 nephews have it so maybe I shouldn't rule it out completely. I should call my sister tomorrow and check with her how many of my issues aligns with hers.
I'm not a big fan of searching for a diagnosis as an adult, I'd feel like Jill, but fuck it I'd take anything that would help my brain be less of a mess, be able to take in/retain information and help me be more of a normal person at this point.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 08:51:35 PM No. 2337693
>>2337683 Kek, one time a woman I worked with almost started crying when I told her I didn’t want kids. She said I had no idea about the love of a mother (she was one). I swear, I wanted to laugh in her face. I’m surprised I managed to hold it in.
Also, I wish we had an antinatalist thread here.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 09:02:59 PM No. 2337709
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>>2336727 A few years ago one of my good friends (of which I have few) told me that she was "going on a date with a girl" and she was nervous. I was surprised, because she had always dated men in the past and I had no idea she was bisexual!
Imagine my shock when it was a troon, OF COURSE. I eventually met him, and the wildest thing is he wasn't even one of those scraggly-haired, faded pink-dyed, balding men in a dress…He was just a straight-up male-presenting guy, with a male name, who claimed he "felt like a woman" and insisted on being referred to as "she". I felt like I was going insane, like I was on a hidden prank camera show. Thank god they broke up a few months later. To this day, I can't say shit about trannies, or anything remotely critical about gender discourse because literally everyone I'm close to has drank the tranny kool-aid and is a proud
handmaiden ally and I really don't want to lose what little social life I have. Acquaintances of mine have started "naming and shaming" people on social media that they perceive to be twansphobic, and I don't intend on getting that shitstorm flung at me.
On the other hand, I only know one woman IRL who is outwardly critical of the tranny movement, and she's a 21-year-old tradwife and mother of 2 who thinks vaccines are the work of the devil and that Covid wasn't real.
There's gotta be a happy medium out there, right? I know I'm not helping our cause by staying silent - but there HAS to be more people like us out there who are sick of the tranny shit but won't speak up because we're afraid of losing our friends, families or jobs. It's all so tiresome.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 09:03:44 PM No. 2337710
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I’ve been isolating myself in my room lately.I feel like I just annoy my family, when I talk to them about anything they seemed irritated and brush me off. When we do something that I wanted to do like shopping for groceries or clothes for example they will invite themselves and act irritated and rush me. Which doesn’t make sense to me because they invited themselves. I get sighed at if I’m in the same room as them doing something. When I talk about something I get only a “mhm” or I get an eye roll. I try to be understanding and write it off as them not feeling well but it happens so frequently. The only time I noticed them trying to be nicer to me is when they want something from me and they try to small talk with me during that time, it feels weird and awkward at that point. Sometimes during the small talk they will throw an insult about whatever I’m talking about calling said thing stupid. I feel so uncomfortable being around them. Yet I feel guilty for hiding in my room, sleeping all day and staying up all night just to avoid them.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 09:04:54 PM No. 2337712
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I mightbe manic idk, going through weird mood swings rn
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 10:05:05 PM No. 2337769
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My mother is evil. She hates me, wants me to die, and I want to die too. I wish she would've just succeeded when she tried to kill me me but that would've been too nice. Now I'm just supposed to pretend like nothing's wrong with me. I wanna put my head through the wall.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 10:05:58 PM No. 2337770
>>2337693 Sometimes I tell these types of people that I'm an
abusive narcissist and would be horrible to my kids so they leave.
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 10:56:31 PM No. 2337844
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>>2337838 Obviously it is. Gen Z is really "cooked."
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 11:02:55 PM No. 2337864
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>>2337856
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 11:04:10 PM No. 2337867
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>>2337856
Anonymous 01/07/25 (Tue) 11:16:55 PM No. 2337880
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>>2337826
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:08:45 AM No. 2337925
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>>2337917 (responding to baiting scrotes)
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:12:45 AM No. 2337934
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>>2337925 You should try a menstrual cup. The silicone props up the vaginal walls enough that you can get an additional day or two of open vagina. I’ve been doing this for years and even get three additional days when I am not in heat.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:42:42 AM No. 2337988
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I wish there was a more exact term for the type of social "bullying" when people constantly are shitty to you but the minute you say something back and return the same energy YOU get called the "bully" because the other person is legitimately vulnerable so anything you say is considered a punch down. There's no choice but to gracefully keep taking their shit, all mature-like "bigger person" platitude bullshit when all ya wanna do is give them a taste of their own medicine.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:46:53 AM No. 2337996
>>2337988 Blog but this happened to me during school too. One of the psycho "troubled kids" went
out of her way to pick on me, like full-on gayops, but she got away with everything because she had a sob story (her mum abandoned the family or something) and cried in front of the teachers. It's insidious and annoying.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:56:26 AM No. 2338011
>>2338006 Just call them out for being
victim cry bullies, get to the root of the problem (compared to a more "surface" attack where you simply defend yourself).
The problem though is that those types of people tend to have no backbone and merge onto people just the same as them, so you'll have to deal with a mindless parrot horde of them. They'll bully you to death and then say "have a nice day babes ♥"
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:57:19 AM No. 2338017
>>2337984 I agree with
>>2338005 but on lolcow specifically I always imagine the racebaiter is a moid. I know racist women exist and all, but racebait happens suspiciously often when a lot of moids frequent the site at the time so assuming it's a moid is probably correct in the majority of cases.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 12:59:14 AM No. 2338021
>>2338006 You just have to become the bigger
victim . Say they
triggered you and blah blah blah. Become the Queen of
Victims , and then move to a different town.
im joking Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 01:17:19 AM No. 2338057
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>>2334759 I never insulted your grandmother or your grief over her. So annoying that you ever thought so and got mad to the point of breaking it off. You didn't hear me out at all. You wouldn't give me time to ever converse. Ever. You said that you loved me. That was the lie.
You would at least read my messages/response, thought better of me, or empathized with me. Cared about my feelings. I did a lot for you, it was drastic. You didn't seem to care or want to. Then you revoked it and that hurt. Of course I would be cold after.
Which is fine, but don't tell someone that you love them if that was the case. For next time you're with someone.
I made some jokes that you might've interpreted as rude but it was all to curry your favor with me. It's hard to set tone over texts. I'm also kinda bad with that. Everyone has flaws but you could clearly see that I was struggling and trying.
Idk if I have autism or not but this has been bugging me for so long. I feel deranged for still thinking about you and it. Probably because? I wasn't lying? Whatever, I'm insane.
I genuinely still hope that you get good things in life. Hope you get someone that makes you happier and is more trustworthy. Please don't mock me. I have issues with things staying stuck in my head. I need to write them somewhere or else they don't get off my chest.
I forgive you and I hope that you forgive me too. Also, I hope you're not grieving over anything, pray if you are. Do a few good deeds here and there. Be patient.
(learn2integrate) Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 01:57:12 AM No. 2338101
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>>2338044 An anon after my own heart. I looked him up and he writes unfunny satire articles on an onion knock off about nerd stuff mainly, picrel. Him and Amy Schneider can mald together I guess.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 02:47:22 AM No. 2338136
>>2338131 The only thing I ever got as inheritance from my last living grandparent was $5k and my greedy parents pressured me into signing it away to them because "oh grandpa helped you buy a new car when he was alive.." and I did it because I was a suicidal graduate student grieving a dead family member. I took on a lot of debt for groceries and bills that the money could have helped me with, forget funsies. Now my parents deny having done this.
Tell your friend it could be worse.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 07:27:29 AM No. 2338374
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>>2338072 Damn I really feel you nonna. I’ve tried every diet modification, antibiotic, hormone therapy, prescription topical, and even chemical peels and acne specific lasers and all any of them did was maybe a 50% reduction. I even did two rounds of accutane which did work very well, but the results never stuck past the initial month post-treatment, and on top of that the purging gave me worse scarring than ever before and I had that rare permanent loss of night vision side effect, so now I’m sorta blind, cratered up like the moon and still covered in cystic acne kek.
Now that I’m getting into my mid 20s everyone around me has mostly clear skin and it just makes it even more jarring and disgusting whenever I catch sight of myself. I’m really at a loss for what to do, but my mom (who I definitely inherited it from) had her skin magically clear up at 35 so I guess all I can really do is keep up a good routine so it at least isn’t painful to try to sleep and wait.
Picrel is chronically.riley on tiktok, she has some gastric related chronic illness that prevents her from taking accutane or antibiotics and goes into a lot of detail about her routine, might be helpful for your situation
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 07:32:50 AM No. 2338377
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>see a video of a cute, clearly gay girl singing in a suit >find her social media >she's a FTM troon
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 07:37:32 AM No. 2338381
>>2338085 I second trying spironolactone, it might be the solution you need. I am also cursed with life long acne, but it's working really well along with monthly skin peels. I haven't had clear skin since i was 12, but right now i feel like my skin issues might actually be coming to a close.
>>2338374 omg, i feel so bad for her and people who have horrible cystic acne. I cry when i just have one, having them that huge has to be agonising.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 08:01:56 AM No. 2338401
>>2338377 Reminds me of when I met a cute masc girl working at a pet store, she had tons of tattoos and told me about her wife. The double take I did when she turned around and had "HE/HIM" tatted on the back of her neck lmfao.
>>2338398 Wow she is gorgeous!!
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 02:01:21 PM No. 2338589
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I hate being in the trooner gooner class group in college and I can't transfer either so I'm stuck here for 4 months with three of them in all my courses. Fuck my stupid Baka life.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 02:24:49 PM No. 2338621
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>>2338562 I only McDonald through the offers in the app, where I usually get the crispy mcbacon menu for 5€; otherwise I just go into a normal restaurant, I’d rather spend those 10€ more and eat a proper meal if I have to pay that full amount kek.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 02:27:27 PM No. 2338625
>>2338621 The word buy just flew away kek.
But I’m an Italian nonna anyway and food isn’t as expensive here as it’s in America and we don’t need to tip, you can eat very well for 25€ (pasta, hamburgers etc..) while a meal at a pizza restaurant is 16€ more or less if you pick a Margherita with a drink.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 03:22:08 PM No. 2338695
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My dad has a deep vendetta against his now deceased father, and now that I got the same mental illness he suffered from, he's literally and actively bullying me everytime I show any symptoms at all. He's a doctor, all of his doctor friends and acquaintances have told him I'm not "making shit up" and that I'm a highly risky case that will only get worse if not addressed, yet he refuses to lock in and leave me alone, all because he's still mad at grandpa even beyond death. Our family is aware he's taking this way too personally and that his anger is misdirected resentment, but still…it feels so wrong and odd to be hated by your own dad, like, why are you mad at me? I'm too young to be tweaking this way, I'm only 22, HE wasn't tweaking at my age I bet because it seems the condition jumped a generation, which is tragic, yet I don't seem to spark any sympathy on him, it's so odd and off-putting
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 03:46:47 PM No. 2338724
>>2338709 The first few times we met he seemed nice, handsome, shared my interests and was really funny and upbeat, had a relaxed vibe, shared my values and had no red flags other than the fact that he smokes. I asked him if he has any red flags and he said that he's actually pretty depressed and experiences bad anxiety. I was like ok, I've dealt with that in the past so it's no biggie I know how it is.
Man, I did not know how it is. He did a total 180 and turned into a mopey ball of anxiety overnight. I could feel his vibe was way off, he stopped texting me as often and he stopped initiating hugs or kisses and when I touched him he would almost recoil. Then when I asked if it's something I did he was like "idk nonna I just feel like shit", then he proceeded to cry, call himself a shithead and ask if I'm upset or disappointed with him. And then he tried to initiate sex in some twisted way to make me feel better about the lack of intimacy I guess?? I was like bro what are you even doing right now you were literally crying two seconds ago.
I know what anxiety feels like and I know how it's like to be depressed but as someone who has gone through all of that and came out the other side as a stronger person I have no time for someone who is still so deep in their issues. Get some help. Stop dating cause you're clearly not equipped for it.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 04:37:58 PM No. 2338772
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It's a special kind of pain to know that you're too poor to achieve the things you want in life and that your past mistakes will forever haunt you until the day you die.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 04:59:21 PM No. 2338793
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im in my early 20s and it feels like i should be socializing and going out with friends but i just spend 98% of my time in my room. i have online friends and 1 irl friend and i go to community college where nobody really talks to eachother from what ive seen, and i live like an hour away from the city, i feel really isolated and understimulated and im not sure what to do about it..? im autistic so being alone a lot doesnt bother me that much but it does feel bad sometimes. needless to say ive never been in a relationship either…
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 05:09:19 PM No. 2338811
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I feel like today is going to be the day I crash. I feel like if I close my eyes even just for a second I'll be out like a light. I'm so stupidly insanely ridiculously exhausted. At least it felt good to have my doctor validate how I've been feeling for the last year and a half instead of making me feel like I'm being a big whiner who is just lazy and exaggerating. I just have to wait for a phone call now and I can get my drips and it will all be normal again. I just have to hold out until then.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 07:30:02 PM No. 2338977
>>2338965 Hormone balance check? You should have enough natural lubrication to not feel uncomfortable if you're using a light flow tampon and not changing it too often
>>2338962 These are two very unrelatable experiences reg. menstruation, for me
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 09:34:29 PM No. 2339139
>>2339108 You're probably just retarded
nonnie its okay
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 09:42:16 PM No. 2339150
>>2339108 Same but I don't feel like a guy. I'm just retarded and proud. Join me
nonnie !
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 09:54:14 PM No. 2339172
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>>2339162 Here you go anon
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 09:56:02 PM No. 2339177
>>2339115 i was kicked out of an autistic women friend group for being too weird for them. like i wish i related to them. and they related to me. they just don’t. they are the ones telling me i’m “different” it’s not self proclaimed unfortunately
>>2339130 how to i enlarge my clit i feel like i could pull this off if i had a big clit (i don’t)
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 10:11:45 PM No. 2339201
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>>2339177 Order this contraption and tell us how it goes anon. I would be so excited if you altered the size of your clit, in the name of science
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 10:14:30 PM No. 2339206
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Why do my ankle boots a half-size too small feel less tight with stockings on. Do I keep you or give you away cmon now
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 11:01:48 PM No. 2339242
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>>2339146 Ewww, you get it
nonny . I needed pads and this guy insisted on touching every single lube possible while getting in the way of where I needed to be. Kept shooting me glances and lingering near me in the aisle. He smelled like mothballs and made me physically nauseous to be around. I should have vomited on him.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 11:09:33 PM No. 2339249
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I need to understand why so many pick mes are anti BL/anti yaoi. I dont even like BL that much, but I think it's nice for women to have a genre geared towards them. So many people in their teens and 20s are randomly like "ahh noo, it's fetishizes men!! Disgusting. It's the same thing as men who watch lesbian porn" which what the fuck. How is that even remotely the same?!
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 11:16:39 PM No. 2339261
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I'm trying to sleep but I can't stop remembering embarrassing things I've done. I want to bash my head against the wall.
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 11:40:38 PM No. 2339284
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>>2339273 I can totally see the appeal of coomer figurines. I don't want to watch hentai but it would be funny to slip these into people's pockets or leave them inside atms (forgot picrel)
Anonymous 01/08/25 (Wed) 11:45:48 PM No. 2339291
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>>2339286 Come on anon you don't think these are kek, even a bit?
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:00:27 AM No. 2339315
>>2339249 a part of it is jealousy. they want x dynamic but x dynamic is primarily in bl and they can't self-insert into or project on hunky twunks.
anyway i came here to complain about tifs. really wish we lived in an era where you could shit on gender nonsense without being called a bigot because how the fuck are you going to make fun of fujos for ""projecting"" onto the bottom in a ship when you projected so hard you sliced off your tits? make it make sense
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:02:01 AM No. 2339317
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>>2339297 No just the figurines like
nonnie >>2339273 said and not even for sexual reasons either. Like this one I would leave at someone's house (but slightly hidden so their spouse finds it) if I didn't like them
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:06:23 AM No. 2339324
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>>2339284 yeah i get it. i would love to taunt annoying scrotes by leaving stuff like picrel if they weren’t expensive
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:06:40 AM No. 2339325
>>2339259 I feel like it (like many other things) got popular after 2020, because people had nothing else better to do in their lives. I've been watching and reading BL stuff since the early 2000s and the fandom was pretty niche back then. Now BL is highly accessible and for some reason people are associating like BL with 3D men and irl gay rights,which isnt the same thing. it's bonkers. Women arent allowed to enjoy anything anymore without some sort of political agenda assigned to it. I hate it. I think 3d men are vile and I don't see an issue only liking 2D fictional men.
>>2339305 >>2339310 Exactly. They dont care. They just want to shame women because they are pick me bitches.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:19:14 AM No. 2339343
>>2339324 I didn't get it at first and then checked again before realizing it was two men kek
This would make a fine Father's Day gift
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:50:24 AM No. 2339385
>>2339365 I have the same problem and kinda just gave up? When I did successfully gain weight I had to think about food so much and spent so much time cooking/eating/cleaning it made me feel insane and the second I tried to just live normally I would immediately notice my body backsliding and it was so frustrating.
I remember putting in like 4 tablespoons of peanut butter in every protein shake helped a lot, also fatty fish
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:52:54 AM No. 2339387
>>2339368 >>2339365 Seconding what anon says, my best friend was like an ironing table with a huge thigh gap, and when she turned 27/28, she gained weight and got really curvy, she even went from an A cup to a D cup which was honestly surprising to see.
Now she's trying to lose weight, but like, sometimes it takes time to gain weight.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:56:09 AM No. 2339392
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>>2339391 Maybe you should go lay down then
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 12:59:21 AM No. 2339396
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>>2339394 dw I won't be wasting my time debating facts, not today anyways
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 01:12:50 AM No. 2339413
I know, I know stale topic but most people irl have
>>2339386 this attitude and it makes me sad when it comes up here
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 01:26:48 AM No. 2339425
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My boyfriend and I had our first fight in a long, long time today. It was about me no longer doing any of the dishes, which, frankly, is fair. (unintegrated posting style)
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 01:28:25 AM No. 2339426
>>2339419 What I said:
> the whole "I'm too skinny" delusion feels like instagram or tiktok poisoning at best and a humble brag at worst At worst *~gaslighting~*-anon. We see it so regularly that people are already exhausted by the topic in the first place, so yes, I do believe that sometimes ana-chans come here and "show off". If you can't imagine such a thing happening, then go lurk the threads
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 01:38:18 AM No. 2339435
>>2339425 A useless depressed manchild will only drag you down.
>suicide baiting big ole red flag. time to plan your departure
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 01:52:30 AM No. 2339444
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>>2339436
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 02:01:57 AM No. 2339449
>>2339441 >>2339435 >>2339440 It's so hard. I genuinely love him, and I do truly believe in him. I don't think I can let go of it immediately, but I cannot wait for something to happen forever. My beauty is fleeting, my value to the average man will depreciate with time, however unfortunate and shallow that may be. I'm in my dating prime right now, really.
I've already planted the seed in his head that basically gives the ultimatum of:
1) Be someone with me or 2) Be no one with yourself.
He will have to make that (super easy to most) difficult decision soon enough. I need to treat myself with some sort of dignity by letting him know that I am not comfortable with his mediocrity, that, of course, I will not stand by and continue enabling this sort of behaviour. It might end up being a "right person, wrong time" situation, where only until I leave and 10+ years down the line will he realize and sort himself out.
I'm not unfair. He's unfair for expecting a woman to just accept mediocrity for life without some safety net or a man who wants to grow with them. Why are some men like this? Maybe I contributed to this shit show, since I loved him before he even made himself into anything.
All I can do is support him for the next while and hope that he recorrects his path to follow mine. If not soon, then, yeah. I will ultimately break up with him. I've already provided him with my ultimatum, whether he decides that his love and his desire to change (FOR HIMSELF, even) will move him, or he will fall behind and I'll unfortunately move forward without him. I am offering him support while he improves his life and yet he resists me and change. God, people are so FUCKING annoying.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 02:34:33 AM No. 2339479
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>>2339436 >it was originally a lesbian relationship until I got involved
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 02:38:24 AM No. 2339485
>>2339445 im double posting because i remembered more shit to rage about with his stupid family
the mom is the average forced into being a housewife via mexican society and worships her sons. one of her loser sons got arrested so she used money she gets from the gov, to help her grandkids, to instead go on a PAYMENT PLAN for his bail. i was so angry i legitimately thought i was going to have a heart attack. i'm so sick of her praising her sons when almost all of them are total losers and add no value to society. she unironically praised another son for hitting the wall instead of his wife. one of the youngest siblings will just exist and she goes "oooh mi hermoso, tienes hambre? mi nino hermosooooo" puro marianista behavior the guy will just be fucking standing there like a tard and all he did was get a job at target.
every time we take her out to eat shes like "ahh oh noooo!!! [husband]. me puedes ayudar? i need to buy food for [little brother]!! mijo please el no come he works all night…" my husband tells her he's a grown man he can cook for himself and she gets MAD and says "that's your little brother!!" kek
i will give my husband props for being the literally only one who criticizes his brothers and tells his mom "tell [older brothers] to help you clean, they're grown men. they can't help you?" and it's like the brainwashing is so deep she cannot even comprehend any of it
>>2339470 kek my brother is like your husband and i'm so sorry. i truly don't understand how my sister in law tolerates it. i'll ask you this; can you truly see yourself living this life for the next 40 years? over 14,000 days? what are the good qualities? if you say some bare minimum shit like he doesn't beat you ima be mad. if you're hellbent on staying then put some headphones on and ignore him completely til his mantrum is over.
>>2339478 if he's anything like my brother i bet trying to talk to him results in some sort of manipulation like "oh now i'm not allowed to have a bad day? sorry i'm not always fucking cheery!" and some boo hoo shit about how he feels like he can't exist in his own home goo goo gaa gaa baby want baba
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 03:45:57 AM No. 2339573
>>2339449 >My beauty is fleeting, my value to the average man will depreciate with time, however unfortunate and shallow that may be. I'm in my dating prime right now, really. please get off r9k or whatever moid shit youre reading
you really deserve better than that spoiled lazy manchild boyfriend
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 07:16:17 AM No. 2339707
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Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 07:32:34 AM No. 2339724
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>>2339693 I used to think a bit like you, and I got what I wanted. I'm going to be real, people do treat you better on a superficial level, but it doesn't make you a more lovable or loved person. You just attract predators who'll want to ruin your life even more (some will be obvious), and you won't understand why you're always pissed off and unhappy even if your body looks better.
>"but i won't be retarded" Starving and making yourself vomit will make you retarded. All anorexics and bulimics are functionally retarded, they have objectively defective brains and engage in defective behaviors. I can't stress how fucking stupid you have to be. That's why they always cope about muh control and nlog so aggressively hard. It's less adventurous or whatever, but literally just do things the correct way. Eat healthy meals at a mild caloric deficit. Go for a walk or get 30 minutes of exercise daily some other way. Try to think about shit other than your body. Be patient. Also
>mens biggest turn-off Men will literally fuck a hole in the wall. Stop pickmeing and believing their lies about who they would or wouldn't fuck. It doesn't matter.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 07:43:32 AM No. 2339731
>>2339723 I'm a neet and i live with my mom and i can't control myself around the food she buys, shes bi and goes hang out with men and women to fuck and i'm alone and free to go insane, she doesn't care so when i have a relapse i just do it. I swear i have tried so many times to stop and they did work a few times but most of the time it's just me stuffing my fat ass to no end because i basically lose self control. I even got on Vyanse last year and nothing happened.
>>2339724 >Eat healthy meals at a mild caloric deficit. Go for a walk or get 30 minutes of exercise daily some other way. Try to think about shit other than your body. Be patient. I do this and it's the reason i've been stuck and cycling between chubby and obese for years, at this point i'm considering doing hard drugs or cocaine so i can lose all the hunger i have.
>>2339720 Obese women only have men who settle for them and are ashamed of being seen on public by their side, men settle for anything but what they really want is not a hambeast
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 07:58:05 AM No. 2339740
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>>2339713 It’s okay
nonny , it’s over now. Tomorrow we can try again.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:00:21 AM No. 2339744
>>2339731 >Obese women only have men who settle for them and are ashamed of being seen on public by their side, men settle for anything but what they really want is not a hambeast I know plenty of obese women that are in stable marriages or are in healthy relationships. Your looks do not entirely dictate the way men or people treat you. Again, I'm skinny and above average in looks and have been faced with extreme levels of social rejection, humiliation and harassment. Especially coming from men. I have never had a man be genuinely interested in me. A lot of it is tied to the fact that I am incredibly mentally ill and intellectually disabled. So, I cannot stand up for myself. Being able to properly communicate with people and bond with them is the most important thing.
You're an adult after all if you cannot control your food intake then maybe you should reconsider your existence. Or just accept the way that you look just as many people do. Instead of blaming your mother kek
I don't know why the hell am I even arguing with you. You sounded like a retard from your first post for simply wishing that you were mentally ill so that you can receive pity and have moids want to "help" you
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:02:51 AM No. 2339747
>>2339731 if you get addicted to uppers you're gonna wish you were just fat instead of addicted. trust me, people hate addicts more than fat people. But most of all, you'll hate yourself the most out of everyone even though you may have gotten what you wanted (being skinny). Isn't that somehow worse?
Christ, just save up and get a PT or nutritionist so they can do all the thinking for you and you'll just have to just do the things they tell you.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:04:57 AM No. 2339750
>>2339731 Here's some tips I learned for curbing hunger recently:
Hunger is mostly caused by glucose spikes and you can lessen that glucose spike and subsequent crash by 70% by simply changing the order in which you eat food. Eating vegetables first then proteins then carbs last is ideal. If the food isn't separated (for example, you're eating a chili where everything is combined) try eating a small portion of vegetables first. Same goes for deserts or snacking, if you are going to eat something sweet it's best to eat it after you've consumed some fiber and protein as your glucose levels will spike less. I'm also trying to stop being a fucking fatass this year. We can do it together nonna
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:09:42 AM No. 2339753
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>>2339740 Thank you nona. It makes me feel better seeing your response. I love you…
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:17:08 AM No. 2339762
>>2339744 I never blamed my mom for anything though i know it's my fault
>>2339747 In all honesty i wouldn't hate myself for being a drug addict if it meant i wouldn't be a pig gorging on food anymore, i don't hate drug addicts myself or know anyone that does.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 08:18:20 AM No. 2339763
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>>2339750 Never heard of this before and it's like there was a spark of hope in the distance for me after reading it and i'll genuinely try it out tomorrow, thank you so much, i'm taking anything that can help me at this point, i'd go under a bus and let it run over me if it meant i could eat like a normal person for an entire month at max. Allah willing we will both stop being fat by the end of this year
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 09:32:57 AM No. 2339813
>>2339781 NTA but plant based doesn't mean it's healthy. Avoid any snacks that use vegetables as a selling point, like vegetable crisps, they're just as unhealthy. I assume you're careful with how much dressing you put on your salads, but if you're still gaining weight, switch to a different lower calorie dressing and see if it makes a difference.
Cooking your own food from scratch, whether it's plant based or not, will go a long way towards your weight loss. Don't be afraid to use fat in moderation, it helps keep you full for longer and it helps you absorb more vitamins. Make sure you stick to healthy fats though, no margarine. The low fat stuff on the shelves is shite, they add so much crap to it to make it taste good that it's worse for you than the full fat stuff.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 09:36:45 AM No. 2339819
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Still can't decide if I should buy Animal crossing new horizons. A main complaint has been that the game still feels unfinished/empty and hasn't had an update in a couple years so I'd be annoyed if I ended up bored. Is it even worth it
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 10:20:50 AM No. 2339850
>>2339819 With the happy homes vacation dlc/whatever it's called I can no longer get bored of that game, if I don't feel like doing any main village stuff i just take the boat over and decorate a few houses for villagers I've never even met before.
Basically if you like AC for the villagers personalities and dialogues, you will get less than what you wanted. (Though I will say the new event NPCs are super charming imo)
If you love decorating the village, shaping the island, collecting items, designing villagers houses (including eventually your villagers houses which thank god because some of them have shit taste and won't stop replacing everything with fucking fish tanks lmao) you will have a blast that lasts for a really long time.
I think it's 100% worth it because I love decorating and collecting, BUT I have heard rumors Switch 2 could come with a new animal crossing in 2025. It's pretty much a baseless rumor other than
>it's been 5 years >it's one of the most famous nintendo franchises, it's a system seller >most other big nintendo franchises (like mario and zelda had games in 2024) released a game too recently to release soon again But just to be clear switch 2 coming in 2025 is also just a rumor kek
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 02:22:09 PM No. 2340001
>>2339973 depending on the person, texting is not seen as a primary form of communication. if anon didn't communicate this importance, then she can't expect him to know.
"checking in" is like a once in a while thing for me imo. like for when I haven't heard from you in a while. I don't really need to check in on you if we talked the night before and I just got up.
also people who get up early for work aren't gonna start texting ppl. they're trying to wake up, get to work, get started on the day, assume you're asleep and don't wanna bother you, half asleep themselves, etc.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 02:53:02 PM No. 2340027
>>2339973 Do you get mad at your mom and dad for not texting you first? Does it mean they don't love you?
>Plus anon said that she's super serious with him and he wants to marry her. Exactly, she's being unreasonable. She knows this guy loves her but makes up stupid rules she doesn't tell him about and then gets angry and hurt when he doesn't follow them. He even clarified he thought she was sleeping in, and anon is so mad she wants to kill him… for not texting for just a few HOURS when he's working. It sounds controlling and narcissistic.
Anonymous 01/09/25 (Thu) 03:07:08 PM No. 2340046
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Me desperately but also as softly as possible trying to explain to my heartbroken friend that crying to the fuckboy that pumped and dumped after lovebombing the shit outta her is not going to make him realize that she was the love of his life all along, miss his plane home and show up outside her door, wet from a sudden downpour, and ask for her hand and forgiveness - while also knowing she got just enough main character syndrome to rather believe that's exactly what's going to happen instead of accepting that she is just like other girls.