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No. 1506737

Let it out.
Previous thread: >>>/ot/1499715

No. 1506749

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why's it's whole pussy out

No. 1506750

>>1506749
kek lil miss got a shayna pussy

No. 1506752

>>1506749
she's venting

No. 1506755

>wake up
>itchy vag hole
>feel something weird
>what the fuck
>cyst that's halfway inside my vag hole and halfway outside
>tfw just letting it grow bigger because I'll never have sex anyway

Who wants to see it when it becomes egg sized (it's about the size of a mentos candy right now)

No. 1506764

My boyfriends exes friends are stalking my socials and showing her, making her spiral and go crazy on my boyfriend/his friend(they are in the same friend/work group and she has bpd so he wants to keep things polite). Her friends are also bpd and the exes of his best friend, so its a whole mess. She has him blocked now, which I think its for the best, so I dont get why her so called best friends have to shove our relationship in her face?

I have nothing against the girl, I just feel bad for her. Its so unnecessary of her friends to keep tabs on me and tell her, what good comes of that other than ripping up wounds and causing drama? I know my bf also has nothing against the girl, they just werent compatible in the long run so he broke it off, he has said nothing bad of her, just that their views didnt align and he realised he wasnt in love with her. So no bad blood really, feels like her friends are tormenting her for the entertainment

No. 1506765

>>1506755
that can be a sign of cancer, get it checked out. Also it will be uncomfortable? And your vagina is not just for sex. You sit on top of that thang constantly.
>i have a cockroach burrowing into my left breast but i'm never going to have sex so i guess i'll just let it live in there
headass

No. 1506772

>>1506755
Don't be a fucking retard, go to a doctor.

No. 1506777

My birthday is cursed and extremely bad stuff always happens each year very close to this date. Looks like I'll never be able to celebrate it in peace.

No. 1506784

>>1506777
check those trips though

No. 1506786

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I know nonnies, I know, I shouldn't be expecting even a bit of sanity from twitter and it's stupid of me to be angry at this… But I merely went there to see some fanarts of one my favourite novel 'Clear and Muddy Loss of Love' and instead got to witness this bitch calling my beloved character a 'he/him lesbian' LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. And how is it even 'canon'? It's a lesbian character in a lesbian novel written by a lesbian author, but twitter just can't let a butch lesbian breath without turning her into a gendertard. maybe it could be because she's referred to as a 'Prince' in the novel but it's solely because she's a woman in a position of power and it sticks close to reality to label her like this, the same way Wu Zetian is called the first 'female emperor' of China rather than an empress. It still doesn't make her a he/him

No. 1506790

I don't know if I have mental illness, a personality disorder, or if I'm just really lonely and anyone in my situation would be this way.

I don't have any family, I work from home (alone), I live alone, and I am single. So the only people I really talk to are my friends. I don't see them in person that often, maybe once a week maximum. And we also rarely talk on the phone, it's mostly texting. It's not unusual for me to go a couple days at a time not saying a word outloud just because there's no reason to speak when there's no one to talk to. I cry so often when my friends don't respond to me…some of them are quite distant, or bad at texting back. I'm never really sure if they don't actually like me, or if I just need to get a grip and it only seems like they don't text back quickly simply because I have SO much free time I'm always with my phone and responsive to texts. None of my friends are like me, they all have partners or roommates or work in offices. So I don't think they really understand how lonely I am and how they really are my only social interactions. I don't want to put any weird pressure on them, so I try very hard to play it cool or act like I am busier and happier than I actually am.

The reason I am not sure if there is something mentally wrong with me or if its just normal is that I cry and get depressed SO often. I have extremely intense mood swings when I start to feel lonely..the worst is when coincidentally all my friends are busy at the same time and so I don't get any text replies from anyone no matter how many I send. I start to feel so alone and I spiral so fast. I cry and hate myself and wish that I was dead, or fantasize about killing myself because being so alone feels so unbearable. I start to hate myself for not having more friends, and get confused and upset because I don't know if there's something wrong with me that has made me this isolated and drives people away that I don't realize (am I actually autistic? Mentally ill? so socially awkward it drives people away and I don't realize?), and terrified that there is something wrong with me I will never be able to fix because I don't know what it is, and that means my life will be this way forever.

But then as soon as a friend texts me back, suddenly I feel completely ok again. I am happy and smiling and laughing. When literally less than an hour before that I was wanting to die. and this happens ALL the time, not just sometimes, and it's exhausting. I don't think its normal. But I don't know if its just because of how isolated I am, or if its something more. I don't know if I would be this way if I talked to another person every day, or had someone in my life that genuinely cared about me and wanted to talk to me more than just once a week or so (I never even had that with my parents growing up, they were abusive and horrible and I did not know any of my family outside of my parents).

I don't know. I'm so confused. I wish someone could just tell me if this is normal and fixable or if there is truly something wrong with me. If there is something unfixably wrong.. I probably would genuinely consider suicide. I have no interest in living alone like this until I die.

No. 1506793

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>>1506755
Bartholin's gland cyst maybe? extremely common, and also extremely painful. don't ignore it just go to the doctor, it might need to be drained but sometimes you can also just take antibiotics. don't try to wait it out bc they legit can get to the size of golf balls and women can have them for literally months. they get BAD and its needless suffering when the treatment is so quick (if drained, basically instant)

No. 1506802

>>1506790
Nonna I’m so sorry to read this, this sounds super painful.

Can you afford therapy? It’s the obvious answer but it might help you get some answers.

I also don’t know if I have BPD or am autistic or if the search for a label is futile, but DBT and mindfulness have helped me a lot. There’s lots of self-help available for both.

Also, living a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise (while weight training is the trendy thing for women now, cardio really does the most for mental health), eating well (which means healthy food and also eating enough calories in general), and getting sunshine can help take the edge off of most mental health things.

I think a lot of people are lonely these days and it’s a tough nut to crack. I wouldn’t recommend dating while you’re in this headspace but if there’s any group activity you enjoy it might help you get out and meet people.

No. 1506808

People really hate when you're quiet or you're not super expressive or extroverted and just like to keep to yourself. I feel like everything I say gets me labeled as aggressive or mean. Even just saying "no" will make people think I'm a bitch. Hate it, and I hate how every action and everything I say is over-analyzed.

No. 1506821

I really miss lockdown. Unemployment was paying me more every two weeks than I get monthly even with my 2 dollar raise so I could finally afford to buy my needs and wants, the streets were so nice and calm and empty, I had so much time to dedicate to my art and my online shop as well as my studies, I had time to play games and read books and watch movies and anime online with my friends and got to chat with them all day. Now I'm constantly exhausted and depressed, I can't stand how crowded and fast paced everything is because everyone is so desperate to catch up, everyone is resuming their normal lives so I feel my friends drifting away and I don't have time for my hobbies and the only time I can study language is during my commute to and from work. Even my work is busier now so I can't even multitask like I used to be able to. I just go to work, come home exhausted and unable to do anything and rinse and repeat. I feel like a loser for saying it, but 2020 was one of the best years of my life, 2022 sucked and 2023 is also shitty so far. I realize how bad it was for many people because they lost their jobs, health, and family members but god it was such a good time for me and I dearly miss it.

No. 1506831

>>1506790
I think that's a normal reaction to your situation. humans crave contact, even if you don't feel that you enjoy it in the moment. it may sound deranged when wfh is the dream for most people but consider a job where you have to leave the house and interact with people. buy less at the grocery store so you have to go more often and choose a line with a cashier. if you know someone who will talk on the phone choose that over texting. get a cat, dog or bird. I literally hate people and I am the world's biggest introvert but staying home alone for days on end, can go from zero to "love is a societal construct" real quick.

No. 1506836

>>1506821
I don't think you're a loser anon. I think a lot of people had realizations like this, and it's why so many people are really struggling right now. I was "lucky" enough to stay employed through the pandemic so I didn't get to experience it first hand, but many people I know had a similar experience of making more money than they ever had from their job previously, and suddenly getting a taste of what it feels like to be paid a livable wage. To not have to work your fingers to the bone just to be given scraps. I even had some friends that for the first time in their life were able to put away money into savings, because lockdown meant they weren't commuting and actually had a surplus of money at the end of the month instead of just living paycheck to paycheck. And then to have it taken away when things went back to "normal". I really feel for them. I struggle with these things, and can only imagine how complicated it would feel to have experienced something different during what is considered a terrible period of time.

No. 1506838

Fuck ice. Power went out, and I don't want to use a PTO day for tomorrow in case the power takes a while to get fixed.

No. 1506844

>>1506808
i hate this too, i remember even when when i was kid and all i did was sit by myself and read a guy randomly came up to me and called me a bitch. for literally just being quiet + female.

No. 1506871

>>1506808
>>1506844
They feel entitled to your time and energy if you dare keep them to yourself you're seen as selfish and bitchy. Only people who know they're inferior will get offended by not getting your attention like a child.

No. 1506904

I fight myself and feel guilty interacting with men when I know 100% they’re porn addicts. I don’t want to engage, but I act decent anyways because it’s temporary and really doesn’t matter

No. 1506907

I feel so stupid for staying at my job as long as I have. I feel like a frog in boiling water. I liked my job itself, but I have to work very close with my supervisor who is very aggressive, demanding, and loud. He constantly belittles my co-workers and I've had to stop him from being too aggressive towards them before and my boss has agreed with me. The thing is, my boss won't do anything to stop or deter his behavior. He just sees my supervisor as being the way he is. My supervisor yells at me when I am doing my job correctly and the 1 or 2x I've made a mistake, he doesn't really react. It has the net effect of making me feel like shit all the time and like the quality of my work does not matter. I don't care about being appreciated, I just want neutrality at this job. I am tried of hearing him bad mouth everyone but himself. I'm so glad I had the same job before this one as I knew I was good at it due to all the feedback I received. If I didn't have that experience, I'd probably feel like I actually sucked at this job and sometimes I do feel like I actually suck.

I'm literally sobbing, miserable, and I don't know how fast I can find another job. I'll take less pay. I just don't want to face this moid ever again.

No. 1506908

I'm the girlfriend that doesn't do a fucking thing.

No. 1506916

>>1506908
Based.

No. 1506925

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it hurts really bad to pee and idk if my reproductive problems are encroaching on my uteran tract or if i have a uti again from holding it one too many times
which is kinda funny because i haven't held it that often lately, its just a dull pain where my groin is every time i try to

No. 1506938

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quitting weed again and I'm already fuckin sweating

No. 1506939

Fuck ADD, just lost 2 precious hours of sleep looking for jailbroke switches. Not only I have to wake up early tomorrow, but it also yielded nothing. Fuuuckk

No. 1506945

I just want to replace one of my jobs. I'm so sick of giving bad service because I don't have all the privileges like my other job which are locked behind manager codes. How my manager fails to properly staff the other parts and i deal with the customer who suddenly snaps from ok to unhappy all because i wasn't fast enough with something due to the manager codes and general understaffing. I have no fucking clue what's going on this week in my little town but there's too many damn customers and not enough employees. Because it was supposed to be slow the past few days we didn't put more staff on. I'm sick of my fake manager with her villain tier smile. Everyone gets treated better except me and another worker. We put in the most work to be treated like shit probably because we aren't normie enough talking about pop culture. Fucking hate every genx-boomer that takes their shitty day out on me. Go fuck yourself you miserable asshole. I don't give a shit that you had a terrible day at work. At least you have a house to go back to. That's more than a lot of millenial-zoomer adults might ever have. We're all clawing our way out of the dirt just to afford rent, meager savings, and bills that keep repeating. Serving all these old fucks has made me so damn bitter.

No. 1506952

Castrate men. Moids are worthless, emotionally constipated and unempathetic always.
They don't deserve to be around women.

No. 1506954

i cannot believe how much money i have to fork over to the irs this year.
FUCK 1099-NECS DIE DIE DIE

No. 1506958

I used to know this vocal "blind" moid, like he went to a blind school as an adult and used the ball-tipped cane and everything. His vision was correctable to normal with glasses, but he had a diagnosis of legal blindness despite not needing full correction. My vision's been degrading fast over my lifetime and I'm now where he was back when I knew him (legally blind without glasses but still correctable). Holy shit I cannot believe how pathetic he was about this! Maybe it's because I didn't know I needed glasses until I was an adult and had a whole lifetime of squinting and living with a mass of blurry shapes, but it's honestly not that bad? I still do all of my regular activities and haven't had to change anything? The only new thing is I'll be surprised when I take my glasses off and see (kek) the difference, but it's just life as normal once my glasses have been off for a few seconds and I've adjusted back to blurrovision. Anyway, I thought I was going to have to upend my whole life like he did, but I'm starting to think he was just overdramatic and feeling sorry for himself. Maybe I'm underdramatic about it and should feel sorry for myself, but I can't. It's just not that bad compared to my other issues and I'm annoyed about how much he wrapped both of our lives around his "disability".

No. 1506960

Jack in the Box didn't give me salad dressing and now I'm just eating a very plain salad. These ingredients are so dry, they don't mix well together without a sauce!

No. 1506966

OK if we take into context that having a masters means you're smart and capable I can vent.

I'm the only person in my family with a degree and I have better credentials than my boyfriend. Yet they all mansplain really obvious shit to me and I want to point out that I'm more educated but that causes so much offence but no one cares that I'm offended. Whatever

No. 1506984

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The /ck/ mod banned me for posting this

No. 1506991

I’m an idiot. I have someone holding me from being the better person i can be but I want them to be better but I want them in my arms. I digress.

No. 1507002

>>1506958
Nonna what’s your script? Both my eyes are like -9.00 I’m wondering if I’m on your level or not. I didn’t even know anyone would ever call themselves blind if their vision is correctable.

No. 1507018

>>1506984
What was ban-worthy about it?

No. 1507019

>>1507002
What's the number for "Can't see the 'E' in the first row anymore, but will tell you it's an 'E' because it's always an 'E'"? I forget to read the script so these days I just give it to the lens smith and notice the lenses getting thicker while the gap between glasses and not gets bigger.

No. 1507023

>>1507018
Absolutely nothing. Some scrote in the thread had a tard meltdown at me accusing me of being a "Troll that baits with ai threads across 4chan to make people mad". Even other people called him a schizo but he got my thread deleted
Fuck me for wanting to talk about something that isn't fast food or youtubers they find fuckable right
Another poster on lolcow posted about getting banned for making a thread about sandwiches
The /ck/ janny must be stopped

No. 1507033

I'm working from home but instead of doing anything work related I'm cleaning my room because FUCK work.

No. 1507051

>>1507023
/ck/ is a shithole at the best of times, not as egregious as some other boards but still filled with moidery. sorry your thread got deleted though

No. 1507053

this bitch i work with at work is super quiet when she talks, she's like whispering almost, and clearly she has an anxiety problem. im fairly quiet too so i get it but my deaf ass straight up can't hear her!! and she seems way more at ease when she talks to the other people but when she talks to me she starts stumbling over her words and shit even more and im like…. okay damn am i that scary to talk to? shes a pain in the ass to work with bc she's meant to be helping train me but she refuses to be helpful beyond the bare minimum, also earlier i dropped something and had to pick loads of scattered things up from the floor and she didn't even look at me she just carried on with what she doing when she was right there lmao

No. 1507054

>>1506984
>using 4chan at all in current year
ISHYGDDT
t. Nona who used it for over a decade and stopped browsing last year

No. 1507064

I hate the myth of the meritocracy and the upper middle class so much. I hate that the most average dumbass can get a good job if they have rich parents. I hate that no one ever appreciates that working class people (esp women) are playing catch up from the day we’re born. If I have to meet one more upper middle class wanker and listen to their gap yah stories and self congratulatory vOLunTEerIng work and hear about their 20k masters degree I may scream. Not one of them ever had to work a shitty job because they had no choice. I hate how they look down on me for not living in London because guess what I actually want to buy a house someday and not live in a squalid house share and don’t have the bank of mummy and daddy to rely on. I hate how they think they’re the epitome of progressive but have meandering self indulgent thought experiments over what a woman is. I hate how as soon as they hear even a sniff of a regional accent they look down on you. I hate how they act like it’s no big deal being privately educated. They all make me wanna alog so much.

No. 1507072

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I wish Empress put a popup or something where you need to check whether or not you're a "trans supporter" and if you check yes the file would delete itself from the pc. It's hypocritical that people who leech her hogwarts crack despite believing in "trans rights" and other tranny/nupronouns garbage.
>Lololol I don't support joanne since she's the next hitler but I'm still gonna pirate the game from a terf and comment twans rwaghts
Stop whinging and just kill yourself, you fucking idiot.

No. 1507074

>>1507064
Don't worry anon they're all becoming infertile from cosmetic treatments and drugs, most are doing ivf and they'll likely have tard children.

No. 1507086

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dang I currently have like 5$ in my balance and I don't get paid until next week except I have this week off from uni so I won't be able to do anything fun with my friends like go to the movies or eat out because everything costs money and I'm simply too poor right now
sigh nonas don't be stupid with your money like I am

No. 1507089

>>1507086
too late already did, dropped $60 of a bruxism mouthguard that barely works, wizzy
sorry though nona you gonna be okay?

No. 1507096

>>1507089
Ah one of the worst feeling.. but maybe it'll start working magically out of nowhere let's hope so
I'll be fine dw probably just holed up in my room watching youtube

No. 1507105

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Mfw I see Americans online who are filming their 'first drink' at 21 while I'm 19 and already an alcoholic, I hate my life

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>>1507105
kek anon I'm pretty sure americans start drinking since high school at parties and stuff, just not legally. sorry about your alcoholism though you should look at pictures of fat drunk english men, you'll be too disgusted too drink

No. 1507124

>>1507112
I know nonna I saw a stupid meme about it and it made me depressed. I dropped out of college because when the classes were done I'd get home at 5, get drunk and forget everything the teachers said. I just feel so trapped and it's too embarrassing to admit.

No. 1507131

>>1507124
It's not embarrassing at all you're only 19 nona you're taking so many classes that you finish at 5pm it's normal to get overwhelmed and drinking became your escape it happened to me as well in my first year of uni
It's not too late to start getting better, take it slow and once the semester is finished it'll become way more manageable trust me

No. 1507150

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A lot of women suffer from imposter syndrome in the workplace and think they are doing much worse than they are…but I am not one of them. I'm a fucking dumbass for real, I'm terrible at multitasking and I constantly make small mistakes because I'm not detail oriented, I speedread, I forget to double check, and I'm just all around scatterbrained lol. It's great for low wage retail type stuff because I can do a whole bunch of things at once without getting burned out. But I have an office job now and holy moly do I suck balls. I made the mistake of applying for a manager-type position and somehow bullshitted my way into it and I'm so bad. Even though its been almost a year now my team is constantly having to correct me or point out my mistakes. The people I am supposed to manage have to double check MY work, and I ask them questions on procedures. I'm constantly showing my ass in that I don't know how some things work even though I've been here a while at this point. People who were hired after me but are below me know more and frankly are more capable and on top of it than I am. I have no idea how I haven't gotten fired. I try to make up for it by just being really chill and I never get upset or narc anyone out if they make mistakes in turn since I still make so many. I try to be hands off and I don't bullshit if I don't know something, or I'll fall on the sword for mistakes someone on my team might have made because ultimately I didn't catch it. Things like that. So I hope that at the very least they don't hate me for being a hard ass. But I wish I was less of an idiot.

No. 1507154

>>1507150
Honestly though, this is such a smart way to handle your incompetence. How did you bullshit your way into a managerial position?

No. 1507155

>>1506844
I am this way too and smthn weird I noticed is that when I was a teenager people assumed I was a bitch. Almost everyone new I met at some point later on would tell me "when we first met I thought you were mean or hated me" bc I was quiet. But now that I'm an adult I think other adults just assume I'm retarded or awkward lol. There's no winning and I wonder why it changed from ppl thinking I'm mean to thinking I'm stupid.

No. 1507159

>>1507150
Aww you're not an idiot, anon, maybe other job would be more suitable for you (doesn't mean it should be "dumber" just requiring different set of skills) but as another anon said you found a smart way to handle this situation, and I'm sure your team appreciates you. Eveyone can make a mistake and I think it's a lot better to work with a chill person even if this person is a bit absent-minded than being micromanaged by gestapo perfectionist

No. 1507160

>>1507154
lol thanks anon. I hope so, at the very least I just don't wanna make anyone's job harder. I'll be embarrassingly honest after working like 4 different retail/customer service positions I watched a ton of tiktok videos on how to rework your resume by rewording your previously job roles to sound more impressive than they were but I #girlbossed too close to the sun. Like if I was a cashier at a mall store, instead of saying I worked the register I put shit like "handed customer service and inventory management for 20-50 clients daily". Then I just started applying to positions that had titles like manager, team lead, etc. Before that I only ever tried for entry level stuff. And somehow I had an interview where I vibed with the hiring manager and she brought me on like the very next week since they were looking to get someone hired quickly, and I've been here ever since. So it was a mixture of luck and BS.

If you're ballsy I'd say try it, someone who actually had the skills would benefit a lot. I think I'm just not made for the corporate world.

No. 1507162

>>1507150
Dont put yourself down, nonnie. I'm applying for a job now that I am definitely not qualified for, but as women, we need to do this more since men do this shit all the time. I am hoping to also keep quiet and just learn the ropes through a training program. You get this. Just keep doing you.

No. 1507167

Nonas with hoe ass dads and with half siblings.
Do you consider your dad's childern you full siblings?
It's weird. I consider my brothers and sisters I lived with my whole life my FULL siblings even if some of us have different fathers. I would NEVER call them my half brothers/sister.
But for my dad, i know only one set of my siblings. I do not consider them my full siblings or anything important at all. Yeah we grew up togeather but even if we were close, I still wouldn't consider them my full siblings as I do my siblings I share a mother with.
Like they could live in the same house with me growing up and I STILL would'nt view them the same.
I know other shit goes into this, but I ran into someone who lived in the same house with their "half" siblings and addressed them that way. He was very close to them as well, but never said, "My brother" but "My half brother". They have the same mom, different dads and as far as I know he's not close to his dad at all.
it was very weird, but then again, I guess if you are techincal..

No. 1507182

>>1507167
(adding this after I reread your post, damn, somehow I missed that you consider your dad's children half-siblings but not your mom's, so just have it in mind while you read my response, kek)
I didn't even know this term till I started learning English, surely it exists in my language, too, but I don't think I ever heard anyone using it. But I get what you're saying anon, my brother and I have different dads and my sister and I have different moms, but I would never specify they're not my full siblings if it wasn't absolutely necessarry and relevant to the conversation. We spent so much time together even though my sister didn't live with us. I actually even refer to my brother's cousin as a sister because we were really close growing up and it just feels weird to explain that she's not my blood relative and so on. Saying they're half-siblings seems kind of strange, like it matters to you so much that you don't share one of the parents and it makes them more distant or something. Although it's ok if you're really distant and were growing up separately. Just my subjective feeling about it.

No. 1507183

>>1507182
I'd feel that way even if I didn't know my mom or brothers/sisters I had with her. I'd still consider my dad kids as "Half" but my mom kids as my full siblings. Maybe it's because my dad sucks, I never had that connection he was abusive and his kids treated me like shit, he treated me like shit.
However even before that I always felt it worked that way. They are my siblings, the others are my dad kids/half. In fact, I'd go to say they are nothing to me, kek.
I would'nt dare think or say my mom kids aren't my real brothers and sister. To me the mother always matters the most. Maybe it's because the mother always keeps the kids in my community. There's a lot of single mothers with different baby fathers, but most of the time they keep the kids 90% of the time or 50% of the time, but regardless the kids always share a mom vs. sharing dads.
i guess it depends on the relationship but I'll always considering Sharing a womb with someone more deeper then sharing the same sperm spurt or some shit

No. 1507187

FUCK

No. 1507255

>>1507155
Nta but I wish people assumed I’m an awkward tard instead of arrogant or a bitch because then they’d be right lol. I’m autistic and crowded/noisy places give me headaches so I prefer to have lunch somewhere quiet and avoid loud parties. No matter how often I explain this to people they still assume that I’m actually a stuck up bitch who looks down on everyone. Only after knowing me for years do they admit that they misjudged me. I’m getting pretty sick of those confessions, to be honest.

No. 1507272

>>1507160
I do a fuckload at my job, that's why I'm asking. I'm such a loser that I often downplay what I do. Tonight, I'll rework my resume and make it sound amazing. I'm trying to get out of my job so bad. I'm with a tyrant manager and it's miserable knowing whether you do well or not, you'll be treated the same…poorly.

No. 1507291

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made the realization a few weeks ago that my entire friendship history ( no romantic ones to speak of ) has always been in some way influenced by yellow fever and it makes me feel idk sick. three days ago some girl i was friends with in highschool hit me up again after going abroad and boldly admitted that she fetishized asians and i didn't know what to say kek like umm ok. what am i meant to say to that…
every single one of my past friends has been either a weeaboo ( which was so much fun and i'm grateful even if they saw me as a token piece ) or a kpop fan, or both, or their siblings were and they were copying them thus actually becoming the same with time. literally Zero of the people i've always been afraid of boys and men so i've never had a male friend so i'm only talking about girls, and women. because this includes my mom. she legitimately keeps telling me that she specifically sought after asian men only and eventually did end up marrying one. yes i'm mixed but i don't look even one percent of her race that approached me, and i have deeply thought about this it's not something i'm exaggerating or catastrophizing, have been any other than those two categories of people. everytime someone new strikes conversation with me they start talking about how much they want to get with asian people how much better they are etc and as much as i have a diplomatic personality it's gotten to the point where i'm just dropping truth bombs about how awful the people actually are within the actual continent of asia and how horrible it would be to live there in their current conditions. it's either that or i get harrassed and made a mockery for people to laugh at like a circus monkey. it's the same type of racism delivered differently. can't even escape it here if i'm honest some anons are strangely racist against us it's so odd and genuinely makes me sad and sick. i've posted about this issue itt before i know i don't have it the worst so i'm trying to be grateful for what i have but it's hard. it i think it's maybe something to do with living in the capital that makes it so bad, it's literally neverending, by children to the elderly i get harrassed. i just feel like an object of entertainment

No. 1507299

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When nonnies say "you can't be a radfem and date men", I used to think that was a bit extreme. I can't stop being hetero, right? But after trying to date and put myself out there for a couple of years, I kinda get it. I feel like I keep having to hold back and shut my mouth to not seem too feminist, and having to shut my mouth to not clap back when they have misogynistic opinions. I'm not talking about MRA-type dudes, I mean "normal", chill men. A little woman stoopid joke here, a pornsick joke there. I can get to know a guy, but when we get closer I have to constantly… water myself down? Are we supposed to just leave our core values at the door before visiting our moids house? I don't think I can do it.

No. 1507308

>>1507299
this picture is so fucking real. i've stopped calling myself a radfem because i pick and choose what i decide to follow in my life. i'm radfem-aligned i guess. i rarely ever wear makeup but sometimes i just want to fit in. i don't shave because i can't be bothered, and i try to live as comfortably as possible. but jesus i would have no friends and no hobbies if i lived like a purist. i just can't do it. i'm too weak for this kek

No. 1507309

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>>1507299
i was confused seeing this woman thinking she was a folk singer from my country turns out shes just a stoner?

No. 1507313

>>1507309
nonny… that's Andrea Dworkin

No. 1507315

>>1507313
no it's just some stoner

No. 1507317

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>>1507299
>>1507308
have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe the pretentious writings of a moron who literally ate herself to death might and maybe you should read the writings who actually did something with their lives and helped other women

No. 1507318

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>>1507315
It's Andrea Dworkin. Who do you think she is?

No. 1507321

Guess who sits on her ass whole day and wonders why she feels so awful and is always constipated

No. 1507322

>>1507318
i think she's referring to the meme in which andrea dworkin is smoking a joint. i wish i could find it, it's so funny

No. 1507330

I'm getting depressed again and I'm not sure if it's because of the moid I picked contact back up with. We were cool years ago and he hasn't said or done anything to piss me off yet, but he got out of a long term relationship and I feel like he's trying to use me as a rebound. I got out of an abusive relationship recently and I feel like dating a man is a trap and a giant waste of time.(I've told him this too) Usually I do better without them.

I've started waking up crying, fearing the idea of being in a relationship with anyone, fearing being stuck with a kid, etc. But idk if it's because of him or the fact that I'm traumatized. But I think I was happier before we started talking again, I find myself feeling exhausted already.

No. 1507338

>>1507308
I feel like nonnies point went over your head. Tons of average women don't bother with makeup or shaving often, but most still put up with moids and their shit. I can relate to OP. My tolerance for men is extremely low. I don't want romance with one, they aren't capable of love or anything I'm looking for anyways.

No. 1507341

>>1507330
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself in this potential relationship. You need to focus on your needs. Workout, self care, cook. Men are gonna disappoint you so dont invest until he proves hes worth it

No. 1507345

>>1507308
I get sick of all the make up whining on here, it comes off like it's from the same Nona, and it's always focused on scrote attention. Just like the Ugly girl vs. pretty girl, where the anon always acts like ugly women are below pretty ones and the pretty girls are the true victims of this or that.
It's weird. So much shit that all boils down to troons or scrotes (also troons). Like I do not care if some women want to wear make up, I do not care their reasoning. Who fucking cares.

No. 1507352

>>1507341
The thing is, I have no romantic interest in him or any guy really. He just used to be a good friend that I'd like to still talk to. The "flirting" shit just doesn't appeal to me anymore. Idk

No. 1507353

>>1507345
Same. The average person doesn't give a fuck either way. Same with shaving. The average moid doesn't give a shit, only the terminally online and abusive scrotes care about that stuff. And you don't want them anyway

No. 1507366

>>1507317
that's a bit unfair. andrea's definitely had some questionable opinions (like her zionism) but she was also a revolutionary insightful author

No. 1507367

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my cat is being such a bitch lately. I play with a few hours total every day with a variety of toys to keep him interested, brush him daily, teach him tricks, give him plenty of love ofc. He has a cat tree, lots of hiding spots, various springs and balls scattered around the ground he can play with on his own… but when I'm not petting him or playing with him he just sits at my side and yowls ALL DAY. If I lock him outside of the room he'll just scratch at the door and yowl instead. I'm going to go insane. I work from home but I've started working at coffee shops just to get some quiet. I'm guessing it's boredom but I genuinely don't know what he wants from me

No. 1507368

>>1507338
tbh i was just talking about the image and how i related to it. i should've clarified better.

No. 1507376

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I want to cry and scream from how much I hate rich kids god nonnas I hate them so much. I just found the instagram of this faggot who goes to my uni and his entire page is him and his other rich friends cosplaying us, the poor. their entire pages are dedicated to larping as white trash. their photos are low quality, their clothes are ripped, their skin is blemished, their hair is messy, their furniture is all over the place but no, you don't get it, it's supposed to be "art" it's cool and experimental and nuanced when they do it.
His dad is a fucking real estate developer and his mommy is an art collector. Just why do they insist on acting above all of their money when they wouldn't know how to live a day without it. Why invade our spaces and replicate the working class lives for their aesthetically curated feed

I prefer when rich kids used to bully me because I don't go on vacation or skiing trips, now they're pretending to be starving artists on Instagram

No. 1507390

Nonnas, I am really upset. There is this YouTube Channel (Tina's Life) that I love, it's from a woman living in Tokyo (she claims Tokyo, I am german so no idea if it's really Tokyo). She used to post regularly and since the beginning of Covid she is gone. I can't even stalk her because everything is in japanese. I just want to know she is not dead, nonnies

No. 1507394

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>>1507390
Oh wow I was going to tell you to look at her Japanese comments but it seems like they have no updates on her either.. it's so worrying I hope she's doing fine

No. 1507406

>>1507394
Thanks nonnie, I was trying to find people through her Instagram, but it's difficult. There is one moid a lot of people messaged, but as usual scrotes are useless, he doesn't answer.

No. 1507427

>>1507366
what did she in her pathetic short life that anyone hadn't said, "porn is bad and misognystic towards women" "we live in a patriarchy that is hostile to woman" smarter women had already said what she had written centuries before her
she was the OG fatsoc and you know someone as academically brain rotted as her would have supported troons

No. 1507439

sick of anons coming for me in the sanic thread

leave me alone bitch it's all make believe

No. 1507440

>>1507439
I'm sorry is it the starwars meme i made? i wont do it again

No. 1507442

>>1507390
i also watched her back then. she's from south east asia (or even had a fiance/husband there), i wouldn't worry too much. she was in tokyo to earn money for her family, likely went back and then no longer felt like filming.

if you're interested in similar youtubers i'd recommend nami's life

No. 1507447

>>1506749
Why am i so amused by this kekkk love u nonna

No. 1507448

>>1507299
idk my boyfriend made me go noporn and was celibate before we met so maybe just pick better men. i mean you ahve to sort through literal shit to find one but i promise there are some half decent ones out there at least

No. 1507451

Why am I schedualed today wtf is the point. We are never open on thursdays.

No. 1507459

I'm so tired. I'm so lonely. I just want to cry and do nothing. My father hates me (he hates all women actually) and my mother talks about herself all the time. I don't have deep or serious conversations with them, I don't even talk about the things I like because they'll just laugh at me. I have no friends, like literally no friends. I don't go outside except for when I walk the dog that I love very much. But I'm still tired and lonely. I don't have a partner. But I'm still grateful for what I have.

No. 1507464

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Idk nonnies I think it’s a scrote. I mean cats don’t have belly buttons right??

No. 1507471

>>1506793
I was about to say the same thing, sounds like a problem with the bartholin's gland.

No. 1507473

>>1507464
They also don't wear clothes or play the mandolin either though

No. 1507478

>>1507476
Scum manifesto is valerie solanas, not dworkin

No. 1507481

I wouldn't mind my thin lips if it wasn't for my FAS level philtrum

No. 1507494

hate being so jealous
Why do I think everyone else is better than me?

No. 1507499

>>1507448
Why settle for half decent when most of them demand for women to be "wifey material" (whatever the fuck that means).

Porn sickness/lack of sexual discipline isn't the only scrote issue and the fact you said he made you go noporn instead of you two mutually reaching that agreement gives me pause. But maybe it's my sensitivity from former abusive relationships and what you meant was he suggested it and you gave it a go.

No. 1507509

if you’re that sick of med school drop out dumb bitch it’s almost as if your dad was a shit excuse for a doctor this whole time

No. 1507515

cant wait until i move out, listening to my flatmates talk makes me want to puncture my eardrums they're all so annoying

No. 1507528

>>1507427
Hi paki

No. 1507539

>>1507528
fucking kek, you can't just go "hi paki". you have to add the chan after it

No. 1507549

>>1507427
idk shit about dworkin but she hasn't done anything actively evil to my knowledge. could be a lot worse, she couldve attempted murder (not that warhol was a good guy. he deserved to die but im just saying)

No. 1507575

shhhhhhhhuuuuuuutttttt tttheeeeeeeeeeeee fuuuuuuckkkkk uuuuuuuupppppppppppppppppppppp shut UP I DON'T CARE I DON'T CARE I DON'T CARE I DON'T CARE IF I HAVE TO HEAR ABOUT THIS STUPID FUCKING HOGWARTS GAME OME MORE TIME I AM GOING TO DELETE ALL SOCIAL MEDIA ONCE AND FOR ALL. Why haven't I already? It's all shit. Fuck you. Shut up. Thanks.

No. 1507582

My boyfriend's only fucking weak spot is being so boring it's maddening. If he had 60 days off in a row he would sit and do nothing of value for those 60 days straight. It's like he can't even think of something fun to do, all he does is 10% art, 90% same video game from 2010 with no server support. In every other regard he's such a great guy, but he's so boring I know it's gonna be what makes me leave one day. But then I think, am I boring too? Will it be just as boring alone? Going on ten years of routine now. Even doing street drugs with him is routine and predictable. How the fuck does that happen? The only dates we do are dinner dates but sitting at a table IS NOT FUN. EATING ISN'T FUN.

No. 1507585

I just hit my funny bone really hard and now I am in agony. WOW this hurts.

No. 1507591

>>1507464
Only men have belly buttons?

No. 1507613

Coming here to complain about men makes me feel like a failed woman. Complaining about a man who doesnt treat me right over little things, refuses to try and understand me or my situations. Throws a pity party for himself everyday but if i cry because he yelled at me for "talking back" or whatever then im throwing a pity party… im so tired nonas. My 3 times stroke victim and COPD ridden grandpa broke his leg and is in the hospital. My great grandma calls me on the verge of tears because her daughter verbally abuses her and now i have to consider placing her in my care because i cant hanfdle her crying all while My little sisters were sexually trafficked and im trying to get custody of them and my little brother because my mom is in jail and their father isnt fit. Idek where my dad is… the man whos is like a father to me has advanced multiple sclerosis and my new job is making it very hard to take care of him on the weekends considering they arent working with me to give weekends off so i can do that. I dont have anyone to talk to about these things but him but i dont have to because he knows about all of this. I know i should just leave considering thats what he wants. But I initiated the move into this place out of his moms. You know, HIS mom who has a spare room for him to stay in. If i have to leave i will be effectively homeless… and when i tell him that he says he doesnt care… i pay the rent through my bank account with checks in my name. The electricity had to be switched into my name so we could afford it.

Nonas im so tired. Im so scared. The amount of times ive contemplated killing myself in the past year is scaring me. My aunt killed herself at 17 when i was only a couple months old. And i am scared i might break and do it too. I could never though. When i think about doing it, i know i want it to look like an accident. But i am too scared of traumatizing other people or it not working.

Im so tired.

No. 1507615

I hate women and their low standards so fucking much, talking to my friends about men is exhausting. Especially when I overhear male conversations ALL the time and they aren't even 10% are forgiving as my dumb as bricks friends are about men.

No. 1507621

>>1507613
Can you leave? You should if you can. I stayed for so long thinking it was the best it could get. Now I’m with a male who has empathy and doesn’t make me feel crazy. You know how people are always saying men can’t read minds and try to make it out like you’re the problem for not communicating enough? Well what if I told you there are men who can “read minds” aka have an EQ over 10? You can find something better if you leave. But even if you can’t, being alone is so much less lonely than being with an alien freak moid

No. 1507622

my hair has zero fucking volume and none of the expensive products or pieces of advice work. my hair naturally is straight until about around my ears, and then it goes kinda curly. my roots/scalp get really greasy and my roots go completely flat not even 12 hours since my last shower and it drives me nuts. it looks terrible and when my roots are flat it makes my face look weird. anyone have reccs for oily scalp problems or volume? I eat a pretty good diet, drink a good amount of water, im not sweating, i have no idea why my hair gets so greasy so fast.

No. 1507626

>>1507622
Kek my hair has WAY too much volumen it looks like a giant cotton ball, but I'm seconding this cause my hair is greasy too

No. 1507629

>>1507622
Maybe you need to go to a dermatologist or even to an endocrinologist, I've been having issues with my hair lately even though my diet is amazing and I'm following my dermatologist's directions, he told me to wash my hair at least thrice a week and to only use medicated shampoo and conditioners because my skin is shit, and even so I'm still losing hair.
So maybe you could go to both and see if there's something else you could do, maybe you need a special shampoo or maybe you have some hormonal issues.

No. 1507631

>>1507615
You can post about how much you hate women literally anywhere else on the internet and for some reason you decided we want to hear about it.

No. 1507633

>>1507631
Ntayrt but tbf i think she meant to say "i hate pickmes/handmaiden brained women" or even "i hate women who…" but yeah she could have chose a better way to say that…

To all nonas who want to 'hate' women for silly little reasons, retrospect those reasons… are the reasons you hate them tied to men and the patriarchy? Because if so, youre playing into the patriarchy. Men love it when women hate women. Remind yourself that and then say "i hate the patriarchy"

No. 1507642

Was originally gonna post this in the breasts general thread on /g/ but I can't find it. For the past 2 days I've been having some serious itching and soreness in my left breast in the nipple which has occurred in the past so I wasn't too worried about it.. Until I looked at it this morning and saw a wide red swollen bump near the areola with a red streak going up the breast. Plus the areola skin where the swelling is present has a few pits in it giving it the slight appearance of an orange peel. According to Dr. Google, these are some of the telltale signs of inflammatory breast cancer, an incredibly rare and aggressive form of breast cancer. If this situation had happened 3 years ago, I still wouldn't be concerned and the fact that the chances of contracting this type of cancer is incredibly low would've been enough to put my mind at ease. Unfortunately, this is 2023 and I am clearly still scarred by my mother passing away from one of the rarest forms of cancer ever, so now I'm going crazy at the thought of going out the way she did. It also doesn't help that I got a front row seat to witness how dogshit the public healthcare system in my country is, to the point where having a rare illness is basically a slow death sentence because the best case scenario going through that system is that you'll get your correct diagnosis a few days before you die. I'm going to ignore my current rule of waiting a week to see if the malady clears on its own and schedule an appointment with a private doc ASAP.

No. 1507647

>>1507633
Kek you are so fucking corny if she wants to hate women let her hate women damn, the vast majority of us are unfortunately groveling spineless handmaidens anyway

No. 1507651

this asshole I know is always sick. My thoart hurts right now and I hope it's because I'm having an allergic reaction to the new laundry detergent I for and not because I have caught whatever she has. If it turns out that she is the reason I'm sick I'm going to commit a murder

No. 1507702

>>1507647
Nah, anon makes a good point most genuine hatred of women is more the patriarchal bullshit that women have been programmed to spout, completely untied to the actual women themselves and their distinct opinions.

>the vast majority of us are unfortunately groveling spineless handmaidens anyway

Ever consider why you have this thought in the first place?

No. 1507727

>>1507724
Posts like this is are why I stopped coming on here and posting.

No. 1507728

I sign up for instagram to share my art, I get shadowbanned. I sign up a year later for twitter just for casual fandom stuff, I get shadowbanned! Why????? Those sites that check of you're shadowbanned confirmed it too. What about my activity sets off social media bot detectors? I am seriously so mad. I vented about this to some friends and they had never heard of it happening to anybody, and it happened to me TWICE! Ugh!

No. 1507729

>>1507727
ayrt, sorry for the anger. i should've thought it through, as the radfems here are actually nice.
however, it just doesn't correlate to me how women being self loathing is the fault of men. it seems more like seething and coping because they don't feel as worthy, which no woman should have to go through.

No. 1507730

>>1507131
Latereply but thanks nonna. I'm looking into other degrees and most of all trying to quit. But. when I quit what will be there? I don't want a life without some distraction. I don't have any hopes or dreams. I have no reason to be here.

No. 1507767

>>1507652
>>1507702
Women have a responsibility not to be idiotic and 99% of the time they choose to do the exact opposite, I have no sympathy for handmaidens I expect better from all of us therefore I am constantly disappointed. I see it in women who whine about random online men who “won’t leave them alone” but refuse to stop entertaining DMs or block them because they have this pathological need to be “nice”, I see it in women who joke about dropping out and wanting to be a trophy wife relying on some old shriveled scrote acting like it’s all sunshine and rainbows nevermind that she’d be putting her entire life at risk, every woman who does not live selfishly and with dignity to me is a dumbshit who humiliates me by association because I’m unfortunate enough to be born as one of you fucks too. inb4 I’m a bitter hag I know, I’d rather have been aborted too kek.

No. 1507771

I hate gobshites that gave me shit while I was unemployed and looking for a job calling me a layabout and majority of the cunts work in the civil service here. I live in northern ireland like fucking 26% of our population is civil fucking servants not even accounting the police, NHS,teachers or firefighters. Less than half of the fucking working population are getting taxed and the other half is getting their wages from private workers and then striking fuck off lol. I've been working for a private company for 2 years now and one of the people that gave me so much shit was boasting they're getting £425 a week from the civil service to manage an email inbox specifically for like applications from farmers regarding silage or some shite and last year there was only 6 applications. He was moaning his weed dealer was saying he's getting to much smoke off him cause all he fucking does is sit in his house and smoke weed waiting for a notification. He's been in the job for 3 months and hasn't done anything. I'd have to work 39 hours to get his wage for sitting on his ass. What a stupid country

No. 1507774

>>1507767
What are you on about? Some women humble brag they get male attention that's not a real issue lol.

No. 1507779

>>1507767
As a woman who thinks TIFs should be excluded from feminism and generally holds a very negative sentiment for it in the first place, what is a handmaiden? I'd like to hear it out and understand radfem beliefs before I say something retarded

No. 1507790

>>1507779
What's the point of feminism if you wanna exclude the people who need it the most? Feminism isn't a club for just people you like, it's about affecting change and boy do TIFs need change

No. 1507794

>>1507790
There is no medical,biological or physical reason for transsexuals. Get a life. They all suffer from a strange sexual pervusian in which they want their own set of opposite genitals
I'm sick of this shit being legitimised. Trannies literally are freaks.

No. 1507795

>>1507794
Idk how to spell perversion

No. 1507796

Dealing with an inheritance conflict and it's been wearing on my mind.

My aunt passed away a few months back. My uncle, her husband, was not there when it happened because he suffered a stroke prior to her death. My other aunt and my mom were at the very least by her side when she passed.

Shortly before her death, my late aunt decided she would let my other aunt inherit her apartment. My uncle is American and not a citizen of our country so his name was not attached to the apartment. Because of this, my late aunt was able to fully bequeath my other aunt the property. She also bequeathed some cash to my mom.

The inheritances happened while my uncle was in a coma so he basically had no say in any of them. After my aunt's death, my mom went through the trouble of caring for him in the hospital as well as arranging for his family in America to come pick him up. This was an extremely stressful time for my mom because not only did she have to deal with the trauma of witnessing my aunt's final moments and arranging her funeral but she also had to deal with my uncle's recovery. Furthermore, my uncle was an extremely poor husband to my late aunt and my mom had witnessed the inadequate care that he provided for towards the end. He never did anything to make her final days more comfortable and didn't even do things like help her bathe when she was unable to. Furthermore, my uncle seemed completely emotionless and oblivious to the fact that my aunt was about to die. Things like this really made my mom bitter towards him and made the task of caring for him even more emotionally difficult for her. My mom eventually helped arranged for his family to come over to pick him up and all seemed alright at least. He was extremely thankful for my mom's efforts in helping him recover and reunite with his family.

However, a week ago, my mom started to get really accusatory and passive-aggressive messages from my uncle. He started to accuse my other aunt of basically stealing the apartment from him and wanted my mom to confront my other aunt about this. First off, all the inheritances couldn't have happened without my late aunt's consent. Second of all, he can't even speak the native language here at all. My late aunt likely foresaw that there was no way he could stay in our country alone without even knowing how to speak the native language here. Plus, she had always intended to leave behind some of her estate to my mom and my other aunt.

My mom just told him there was nothing to discuss and that everything was done under my late aunt's own will. She then decided to ignore him and to leave all his messages afterwards unread because of how unreasonable he was becoming. This seems to have infuriated him and he is now sending emails and messages every day. It's gotten to the point where he's even sending them to me and my only English-speaking cousin. The messages have been pretty deranged and the anger he has seems to be escalating. He keeps doing childish things like trying to bait my mom with empty emotional pleas or trying to bait my cousin into replying with supposed (and almost certainly nonexistent) inheritance money. This has left us concerned about what to do. We are not obligated at all to have any relationship to him but we all have concerns about outright blocking him on our chat apps. It doesn't seem like he will stop and we fear that he might do something crazy in the future. In his mind currently, he likely sees himself as a victim and probably thinks us ignoring him is some form of betrayal. The way he's acting is utterly childish and not fitting at all of someone his age. It's honestly concerning. Shit is just really wearing me and my entire family out.

No. 1507807

>>1507794
NTA but are you retarded? Saying feminism should include TIFs doesn't mean supporting trannies in any way, it means they're women so women's rights are inherently for their benefit and in the end we're all in the same situation and on the same team, no matter how hateful or misguided they might be.

No. 1507812

A ‚friend‘ of mine (who is not really my friend but constantly sticks to me like fucking glue, despite me just wanting to be alone and not having to interact with her and her group) just constantly hits me out of fucking nowhere? Imagine sitting and working on an assiment at uni and having a fucking retard just hit you against the head because she is mad and doesnt understand the task or because she is ‚bothered by your presence‘ ? She did this a few times already and I have told her to fucking quit it. Its especially hurtful because of my past as a child abuse trauma which I obviously dont want to tell her since shes a fucking nobody to me and its not in her business to have this information. I have told her MULTIPLE times to stop doing this to which she never responds and just ignores. It was the same situation today: she doesnt understand the task and is bothered by my presence (like bitch what the fuck you sat yourself next to me???) and hits me out of fucking nowhere? I broke my nice happy facade and told her to fucking stop in a cataconic state and started ignoring her since a hour ago. She said something along the lines of ‚Are you sensitive?‘ to which I just told her to fucking shut it. After a few minutes she started saying that I made her ‚feel bad and guilty‘ and that I should tell her why I am mad at her because she ‚doesnt want to feel like this‘. How can someone be THIS selfish and retarded? Fuck you bitch.

No. 1507815

>>1507807
I'm the anon that said the "TIFs shouldn't be included" bit, my reasoning being that they're more misogynistic and hateful than most males in my experience, and actively fight against women's rights because they don't want to be included.
Maybe I'm stupid, but I would like to understand why include them in feminism? I'm not a radfem myself, but it seems counterproductive to me

No. 1507824

I know this is obvious to most, but I'm just going to say it for myself here…
Never EVER try to remain friends with an ex. NEVER.

No. 1507839

>>1507815
nayrt because they are female and feminism is the advocacy for females to put it in blunt terms for you to understand.
here's the google definition
>the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes
>sexes
it doesn't matter what delusion they're under because they are still women.

No. 1507856

nonnas i want to die. i was raped and contracted genital herpes as a result and was living w my parents at the time. i was so suicidal bcs of what happened to me and i still am but i didnt want them to know so i told them it was shingles. my mum found my discharge letter detailing the sexual assault and herpes diagnosis and called me crying violently and my dad knows too and was sobbing and said he can never trust me anymore bcs i lied and that he will never know me. my sister told me i was out of touch with reality and that i lied to her as well and basically my whole family feels extremely guilty for letting me go to the event i was assaulted at. i told them i lied to protect them and now i just think i should kill myself bcs i cant live with my body after whats happened to it and ive hurt my family so much and i cant imagine how hurt they feel as well and how my parents feel

No. 1507857

>>1507812
What a fucking retard. Maybe try catching her wrist if she does it again just before she slaps you and holding it for a bit, that might be embarassing enough for her to stop?

No. 1507858

>>1507856
Your family sucks ass, they don't seem very supportive if they make your trauma about themselves like that. Don't kill yourself over these idiots, you don't live for them, you live for you.

No. 1507924

>abusive estranged uncle sends me a snail mail invite for a baby shower with his new girlfriend (who he is already broken up with before the baby is even here)
So tempted to return to sender with a clown sticker on the envelope to create drama in my family but I just threw it in the garbage without opening it. I don't even feel bad for his new gf it's clear from talking to him for 5 minutes he's a piece of garbage so she must be dumb as fuck or just as shitty as him. No clue how he keeps finding women to knock up, that's now 3 kids from 3 different women. Bravo

No. 1507930

I’ve been attending a course lately, making friends, talking to people. It’s going great- except one of the men is so hideous I can’t even look in his direction. He inserts himself into every conversation the women are having, and laughs like a cartoon witch. Like the ones with green skin. I’ve never seen a face so unharmonious, he looks like an egg with acne. My brain conjures a fake smell coming off him. He doesn’t actually smell I think, but I can practically INHALE rotten eggs when we’re sitting close. His nose is wider than his lips. What the FUCK. His existence enrages me and I want to push him off the stairs. Should I just tell him that I’m repulsed by his face? We don’t have beef, I just fucking hate him because he’s an ugly piece of shit.

No. 1507933

I hate my housemate because he's a disgusting piece of trash yet he's clearly trying to have sex with me, it's disgusting that he thinks he even has a chance and now I'm wondering where he even got that idea. I wish I could move out but I can't so I have to deal with his shitty attempts at flirting.

No. 1507941

>>1507930
>Should I just tell him that I’m repulsed by his face?
I would say yes except that he’s probably an incel who would murder you for saying something like that. Maybe just talk to the other women about it and see if they feel the same so that the whole group can exclude him

No. 1507953

>>1507812
Jesus Christ, some people are so dense. Next time she sits next to you, you can get up and leave to get the point across to her. Fuck her.

No. 1507959

>>1507933
I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. I dunno where men get the audacity that just because someone is the opposite sex, they should advance on them. I know it feels like a moot point, but have you spoken to him about it? like "leave me the fuck alone?" I hope you get to move out soon. I hate men

No. 1507963

>>1507856
You did nothing wrong. You just delt with a horrible incident and now you have to seek medical attention. that isnt fair to you. I hope they will come around, but please seek our support groups or friends to talk to you. Dont do this alone and do not kill yourself. I'm so sorry, nonnie.

No. 1507966

>>1507930
this description made me kek, i wish i could draw this

No. 1507979

>>1507812
I know this isn't the right answer but i'd honestly just whack her back

No. 1508001

Why am I so sensitive to smells and why do my neighbours not turn on the kitchen hood when cooking
I just want to let fresh air in, please let me have fresh air
Why did I not buy a house instead, now I want to buy my neighbours a kitchen hood

No. 1508011

>>1507591
No that’s the tip of the penis dumdum

No. 1508019

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this sounds so silly and unimportant but i'm genuinely so upset over this it ruined my entire day. yesterday i was randomly browsing through a local version of ebay and after years and years of searching everywhere, i found someone selling some vintage toys that i've desperately wanted since i was a little girl, they were slightly damaged but in decent condition for their age. i immediately messaged the seller and anxiously waited for a reply… after daydreaming about how happy little me would be if she knew her future self would own her dream dolls, cleaning up the dirt and spots and fixing the damaged doll hair, i woke up to a message saying "sorry it's already been sold". if it's already sold then say so in the listing or just take it down and don't give people false hope. for fucks sake.

No. 1508025

Had a job interview yesterday but when I called at the scheduled time I was told the manager I called to talk to had already gone home for the day. I asked about rescheduling and no reply. My guess is she lined up a few interviews, and picked one of the applicants before me and then just went home and ghosted everybody else. What an asshole. I hope the fucking store burns down with her in it.

No. 1508030

>>1508019
Anon, I fell to the floor crying the other day because I lost out on an auction for some really lucrative vintage figurines I had been looking for because I got distracted. I cried a lot. I completely understand your frustration. those sorta things aren't always easy to come across.

With that being said, this is how I like to think of it: It didn't occur to me to look for this thing until that very moment. I saw it. And wanted it but didn't get it. I was fine before when I hadn't thought of it, it didn't even occur to me that it existed in the moments before I searched for it. There were probably many before available and will probably be many available afterward too.

You will find them again! What was it, if you don't mind me asking?

No. 1508034

>>1508030
> it didn't even occur to me that it existed in the moments before I searched for it.
samefag but when I say this, I mean that it wasn't really a thought in my mind. I knew it existed but did I know I could just search for it and find it so easily? no

No. 1508045

I CANNOT STOP TOUCHING MY FUCKING HAIR. LIKE PULLING HARD HARD HARD HARD HARD

No. 1508048

>>1507621
Its complicated. This will all sound like excuses but they are circumstances so i hope you understand.
I live in cali, everything is expensive. I live in a small town with limited to no section 8 housing and they reserve it for women with children due to deadbeat/absent father pandemic. We got this house that has two rooms and a basement room but we turned the big den into our room so now it technically has four bedrooms. We are paying $700 rent. Again i make the payments in my name using checks from my bank account. We moved out of his moms and i told him. "Im moving out with or without you, if you want out of this relationship dont follow me." He followed me. Played me. Told me he will be better and things will change… why should i have to leave?
He often goes on anger tyrades about being broke and "not wanting to have moved out of moms because we were finally saving money" and says i forced him to do all this. And still wants to kick me out?
One excuse he thinks i wont be able to afford it. I told him ill do fine and thats none of his concern. Now his arguement is "I want to STAY HERE." When he damn well knows i have zero family to go to because they either have full houses, live somewhere else, are in prison, or are too old and being taken care of by other family members.

Theres so many layers and no matter what i do i just feel so hopeless. Like im not going to be able to take care of all the people who need me because i feel so emotionally compromised.

Thanks for that advice though. I just truly do love him so much. I love him for the person her is. Not how he treats me nor our past or our relationship. But the more im around him the more i realize how selfish he is to me. Someone who, i feel, is trying to be most selfless… but then he wants to say im selfish for making him stay in this relarionship.


Im so tired…

No. 1508056

I requested off work like a month ago for this weekend to celebrate a joint bday with my bf's sister then found out ppl from work happen to be going to the same bar/bowling alley for other's bday celebration (important to note bc on my actual bday 0/5 ppl from work I asked to get a drink with me ended up not coming out, feelsbadman), now im sick with a cold and conjunctivitis so fuk this gay earth

No. 1508057

>>1508056
0/5 people ended up coming out*
double negative not intended but you probably knew what i meant

No. 1508063

Food is a scam. No matter how much I eat I want more. Its literally an addiction.

No. 1508072

>>1508063
Careful not to binge eat nonna; add more tea and water with your meals!

No. 1508074

I am looking to a female therapist who is young, but at the same time, a lot of them has this whole she/her bullshit, and I really want to talk about women issues and TERF tier topics, because it's rent free but I actually think they might kick me out because of this.. wat do

No. 1508075

I grew up in a house where I was always hearing that women are 'hysterical' and emotional and ott. My mom would even get nitpicked for being emotional at times when it really wasn't ott to be emotional. Times like the death of her mother, her fighting cancer two different times. Big stuff. But my dad was always in the background rolling his eyes if she expressed something. Making out like women are inherently prone to overreacting to shit. I heard it so much and from such a young age that it really got into my head and became my image of myself too. I thought that I needed to check myself all the time to make sure I'm not coming off as 'too emotional'

A few years ago I found out I have flat affect. Its not even from my upbringing but from a condition I have. That I have always had and always will have. The irony. Its crazy to think that I had no idea how I came across to others. My perception of myself was way off. I'm actually so flat and outwardly devoid of signs of emotion (only outwardly) that that in itself comes off as weird to people. All that worrying for nothing.

No. 1508076

>>1508056
Happy birthday nonna! Rest, and I hope you get to reschedule your social stuff

No. 1508078

>>1508074
Find an older tharapisr

No. 1508082

Thread pic is hilarious, why is the cat so sad? Why is she popping its pussy? So many questions…

No. 1508101

>>1507796
Oof thats tough. You can get a restraining order under the guise that he is harrassing you and he wont be able to contact you anymore without legal action against him.

Honestly fucking american men (im a burgerfag) are some of the worst and im truly sorry you have to deal with such a selfish retard scrote.

No. 1508147

>>1508082
It's a pussy with a pussy.

No. 1508153

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Completely humiliated myself and left one of my groupchats last night, tried not to relapse and instead ended up clutching a stuffed animal and bawling on the floor. I'm not going to be alone all the time soon, so I'll have to make amends with this crazed side of myself. My friends accusing me of being a terrible person even though I didn't do anything with malice and just trotted off and did something impulsive when manic. They're mad because I told them I wouldn't. It's like I've tried to explain to them that I'm mentally ill, suffer to taper off things, and they're now pressing me that I'm not the fun kind of mentally screwy. My life is a rollercoaster, we can't always be at a high cascading down the steep hill. Right now it's in a lull. I'm sad, I'm broken, I'm scared, I'm a little schizo, and it's not improving quickly.

I lost a friend last year due to similar reasons, her not being able to accept my mental problems and some other issues at close distance. People wonder why I don't get close to them. If I aim for self improvement, which I have, September through December last year was rock bottom drowning? Then why don't they see it. I have improved. I was literally self harming and felt like I was going to kms last year. Maybe none of these people were worthy friends, but I cared about them, they invalidated me when I just wanted to stop talking about something, kept pushing the issue, and I exploded. Interventions and tough love dogpiling don't work on me. I run and end up crying. With my obsessive ass personality everything I'm going through has to trickle out gradually. I just left before I could blow up entirely. When I resigned myself to weeping on the floor and wondering why I cant keep any support systems anywhere, I know I'm the problem, but there's also a lot of people who can't handle when you're not at your best.

The truth hurts that most people lack empathy to care about your problems or lose it when your alleged problems are too overwhelming or numerous. I just want someone to love me for who I am, put up with or understand my issues, who's able to resolve conflict and not just dump when the going gets tough. That type of friend is a rare breed.

I have lost part of myself and who I am the last couple years. I may never be able to find her again, but I strive to reinvent myself better. It's not my fault. The things sprung on me and that are hurting me aren't all my fault. But what is my fault is prolonging my exposure of misery and letting them wound me the way they have. I miss the old me

No. 1508160

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My fucking insane abusive scrote ex bf somehow got ahold of my number and started messaging me from a new number that I haven't blocked. I know I should just block him again but I really want him to know how deluded he is because last time we spoke I was too scared to 'be mean' and basically just begged him to leave me alone. This guy really beat me up on so many occasions and he asked if we can meet up for food or coffee after I basically told him to khs and that his life isn't worth living when he first messaged. Dude really thinks this is his redemption arc like hell no you are a danger to society. Worst thing is that I never reported him to the police or filed a restraining order when we were together so now he was able to pass a background check and get a job working with children. I'm somewhat tempted to pretend to be nice and ask him enough questions to find out where he works and let his boss know, but I'm scared he would show up at my house and do something crazy. He also said that the kids remind him of me which is such an insane thing to say tbh

No. 1508171

>>1508101
Yeah, if it escalates even further (i.e. him actually attempting ton visit us), we will consider doing that. Tonight, he sent another angry email to my mom along with a poorly Google translated version to my other relatives. It's absolutely pathetic and just makes us not want to talk to him even more.

I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of American boomers are extremely entitled like him. I get the impression that a good chunk of them are.

No. 1508176

Recently broke up with my long-term BF and am moving into my own place in a couple weeks. I have never been so stressed in my fucking life. The breakup has been crushing, moving is the absolute worst (this will be my 6th place in the decade since I left my parents’ place), I’m dealing with drama from my former landlord, and I’m in the middle of the craziest time at work. Yesterday I literally went into an empty meeting room so I could have a panic attack at the office. I used to have rosy ideas about getting married but fuck that shit, I am never even living with a man again.

No. 1508177

>>1508160
He thrives off of the fear and distress he causes you, so it's better to block him and ignore all attempts at contact, otherwise you're fueling him and giving him more power over you which he craves. As someone who had an abusive ex narc stalker who kept trying to harass me with fake accounts for an entire decade, asking purposefully inflammatory things in an attempt to get a reaction from me because they thrived on my fear, he seems to have finally fallen off and hasn't tried to contact me with his dumbass poorly veiled fake accounts pretending to be other people for at least 3 years or so now. You've got to take the time to protect yourself and try to heal and the more you let him interact with you, the worse you're going to hurt.

No. 1508180

>>1508160
Love yourself enough to stop communication hun bun. Hes not a good man; he will not give you the closure you want.
Companies sell our info to people search sites all the time. Theres not much we can do about it unless you keep on it weekly.
You are a strong woman. You can make the decision on how you direct your energy. Treat him like a troll, block and move on to a project, a treat, a friend date. He was never worth it, and its not fair to you to ever spend a second more on him.

No. 1508182

The guy I started dating told me he would never have sex with a condom because that's uncomfortable. Fucking you then you fucking moid, I'm not having sex with you then, there's no reason for the entire responsibility for birth control to be on the woman's side. I despise men

No. 1508186

>>1508171
Ayrt. Oh yes. Boomer burgerfag men are the worst. They dont let anyone have an opinion other than them, ESPECIALLY not women. They are entitled because they grew up in a golden era. So they constantly harrass the younger generation for "not having a house or a higher paying job or a wife and kids." But then turn around and complain about how "everything is so damn expensive and not like it was in my day." Yeah bitch thats what we try to tell you! We cant afford a house and two cars and a wife and three kids on one income anymore like YOU did in YOUR time. And then they want to blame the fucked economy on the current generation when we have all barely entered the the economical enviornment THEY screwed up! Ugh. They suck.

Good luck nona! Thank god he is in another country because that bastard is fucking delusional.

No. 1508189

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Why does my bf expect me to just accept his immature rages and temper tantrums and pretend I'm not upset or triggered afterwards. I hate scrotes. I can't wait till this lease is up so I can break up and not be screwed.

No. 1508190

>>1508160
Don't even read future messages if you suspect they've come from him, satisfying your curiosity isn't worth losing the peace of mind you'll get from deleting the messages, blocking him, and getting his influence out of your life altogether. Every time you interact, you give him satisfaction and validation that he got through to you. What these types hate more than anything is being ignored because you take the power from them, and place it back into your own hands to take control of your own life. It drives them crazy and "hurts" them more than anything you could do or say to them. Stay safe nonny, you got this. Get on with your own life, focus on you and the things that you enjoy and don't spare him any thought, let him rot like the trash he is.

No. 1508194

>>1508072
ty for the advice but I have been binge eating since I was a child. Always trying to stop tho & I'm not giving up.

No. 1508207

>>1507367
Look into the Feliway spray if you haven't already. My partner has a similarly screaming cat that poops on shoes or in doorways when not getting constant attention, and the spray really helps to calm her down and make her peaceful/happy without acting out. It might not work instantaneously(sometimes it takes a week or two), although for some cats it does.

No. 1508208

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>>1508177
>>1508180
>>1508190
Thank you for your kind words nonnies. I know it's the wise thing to do but this guy has somehow idolised me as this submissive ideal gf he needs to win back, I literally haven't spoken to him in years and he's saying everything he's doing is to get me to like him again. I was hoping if I'm nasty and mean enough he'll get the idea that I've never been this kind of person, I was just scared of him, and he'll leave me alone. I know I should just block him but I really want to send one big nasty message first. Is this petty and/or a bad idea?

No. 1508214

>>1508208
Definitely a bad idea, because it encourages him to try and communicate with you. You might think it's a show of fearlessness, but it doesn't bother him at all and maybe even excites him. YOU know you're not some submissive, weak girl for him to dominate and exert control over, and that should be enough. What I would do, is write him a letter you'll never send saying all the stuff you want to get out of your system. In fact, write several letters if you have to over the months/years whenever you feel like your anger and indignation rising again over what he did to you. Stash them away somewhere, and then someday, when you feel like you're ready to move on completely, burn them and scatter the ashes to the wind.

No. 1508215

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>>1508194
Nonna, I believe in you. I was a binger age 13-28. I recommend (if you can), go to the doc and talk about it. Even a family doc can navigate you. Therapy and a weightloss clinic has done wonders. Reprogram the body and mind.
I havent binged in 3 years besides one or two instances when my period started right after.
If you cant afford it/ having trouble booking, please check out https://www.theprojectheal.org/
They are verrryyyyyyy helpful.
Love you nonna, you can change your relationship with food !!

No. 1508224

>>1508186
Thanks so much. Your post is spot-on about how easy he's had it. He basically was able to get six-figure salaries his entire career while having a very basic STEM degree and below average grades. It's another reason we want nothing to do with him. He isn't lacking in money at all and, again, the inheritances were all under my aunt's will. He still has a decent place to live in and more than enough funds to comfortably live out the rest of his life. My aunt had the same STEM degree and actually pulled more than her fair share during their marriage so she more than deserved to determine where her share of the property goes. He's just basically being an entitled man-baby and it really feels like he cares more about money than grieving over my late aunt.

(Also, I meant to specify American boomer men in my previous post. I feel like the women are much less like this in my experience.)

No. 1508226

>>1508208
I've had several fantasies of replying to my psycho ex and telling him off, but i've never acted on them and I truly believe that's for the better. No matter what stupid shit he's said to try and get to me, I just feel like, "Bitch, why do you think I care?? You must think you really fucking matter a decade later to come and say all that!". The biggest "fuck you" you can say to him is to say nothing at all. Walk away because you ARE strong and in charge of your life, he can't make you do or feel jack shit. You're not a victim to his whims anymore.

No. 1508244

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My neighbor's dog has been barking non stop for literal hours. I don't know if they left it on the balcony or what, but it wont stop. it's a large dog too (pit mix) so it's just barking and barking. I just started a job from home recently and I'm losing my mind. I have to be on the phone with customers and it's making it harder to hear myself think.
I left a tiny note on the door to ask them to be more considerate because it's just awful. I dont know what to do, nonnies.

No. 1508252

>>1508025
Sucks when people arent professional. I had job interviews lined up for me by a recruiter and then out of nowhere she ghosted me. No replies to my emails. Nothing for weeks. Gone. I dont understand unprofessional people like this. I just want a job.

No. 1508254

>>1507824
Why nonny? I’m friends with a lot of my exes. The sexual tension makes the relationship more fun.

No. 1508259

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i'm feeling so lonely and depressed and insane atm but i think my period is coming soon. idk. i have nobody to talk to and i have to isolate myself anyway atm because i feel totally like shit and like everyone is better than me and that i'm just awful and stupid. i'm just not in a good headspace at all atm. can't focus, can't do anything, don't feel good, it's all just shit, kms

HOWEVER my friend sent me this bad lad for my birthday and i received him today and i'm IN LOVE with him. he's fucking giant and squishy and perfect. literally bigger than my head. love him to bits. amazing. 10/10 perfect.

No. 1508260

>>1508244
>pitmix
>shitty owners
of course
>>1508254
If there's sexual tension, then that's not a friendship

No. 1508269

>>1507367
He might need a kitty friend

No. 1508302

I just made a comparison of my weightloss pics. And now Ive hurt my own feelings instead of feeling inspired. I was so fucking fat and now I am sorta fat. I know its a part of the journey, but Im only half way there.

No. 1508309

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Months ago I made a post on some thread that I can't remember(I think it was the stupid question thread?) about how I was confused because I told a group of girls that my uncle died and how it has affected me. And then the girls reacted weird to it by saying that it made them uncomfortable that I told them because they can't deal with emotions.
Earlier this night I approached the same girls in a friendly manner at a party and they told me to come back later because they where having a personal conversation. I don't get it. When we first meet they had no problem telling me about their personal lives and issues and now they don't want me near them when they are discussing it. And why do they suddenly prioritize emotions so much? When I told them that my uncle died they didn't give a fuck. I don't get it. Why do they suddenly want nothing to do with me? I genuinely thought we where friends I wish that they would at least tell me what I did wrong. I'm giving up on making any meaningful human relations ever again I need to admit to myself that I can't make friends

No. 1508311

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I have a good friend that have a zoomer tif sister, and when I mentioned Hogwarts Legacy really quick (it was just to give context to a thing that happened that is unrelated to everything surrounding the drama about the game), and when she heard the name she went "yeah I'm trying to avoid all of that because of the all the antisemitism stuff and because they only have one trans character". When I pointed out that there are more trans characters, and that most of the antisemitism bullshit that is being spread about the game is made up or just huge reaches, she started talking about how the GERMAN TRANSLATION happens to have a lot of similarities in how they talked about jews in the 30's (I don't know enough about what she's talking about, so if any german nonnies know anything about what she's talking about please enlighten me). She also refused to take a stance towards all the streamers that have gotten harassed and the friends we have in common that have gotten death threats and lost friends because they worked with the promotion of the game.
She used to be someone that would question troon stuff, despite her tranny sibling. But said sibling have started using a lot of twitter logic against her, and since they live together and she of course wants to stand by her sister she is slowly getting radicalized I think. Said troon sister also would get upset if anyone "misgendered" Christ-chan when the mommy rape allegations came out, and she just stomped back into her room when I asked if the pronouns really are the most important part when someone has literally assaulted their parent for god knows how long?
She is super sweet otherwise, but last few years she has proven to be one of the dumbest people I know despite being really damn smart. Idk this whole tranny escalation thing is making me want to distance myself from most of my autismo friends, and I'm saying it as an autist myself. I miss when things were easier and everything didn't have to be so fucking black and white all the fucking time.

No. 1508325

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i hate reggaeton!! I hate reggaeton!! I'll never listen to the sounds of the antichrist!! They turned that genre into a malicious product to brainwash my people and the poor into hypersexuality, hyper breeding, misogyny and decadence. You can't even criticize it anymore and It's fucking everywhere, EVERYWHERE, ALL THE TIME. I'll upflift my real cultural heritage, I will uplift the beautiful sounds that the original Latino musical masters once created, our glory, our real sound! I hate reggaeton!! I'll never fucking like it!! Fuck the antichrist, I'll not mass produce more children just so they turn them into slaves and prostitutes!! I refuse! Fuck the sounds of the antichrist!!!

No. 1508331

>>1508311
>GERMAN TRANSLATION
Your friend is dumb, there isn't any antisemitism in the German version because if there where then the game would have been overhauled into something acceptable because of Germany is known for hitler and Germans do not want to the association anymore.
>sibling have started using a lot of twitter logic
Her sister is even dumber then a sack of bricks, she gobbles up twitter hot takes like cakes with even researching herself. Twitter is word of god to her.
>troon sister also would get upset if anyone "misgendered" Chris-chan when the mommy rape
God I hope your friend peaks.

No. 1508338

Why would I get jealous about my bf talking about his life plans with another girl at work? I thought he just shared that kinda thing with me. Makes me feel unimportant

No. 1508341

>>1508325
cope and reggaetonseethe.

No. 1508342

i need 40 dollars so badly right now i feel sick. i wish i was one of those "funny" people on tumblr like that one tif who made a joking post asking for 100 dollars to get a figure linking her account but people actually ended up giving her the money. UGH. i'm so jealous i'm seething. I'M FUMING.

No. 1508349

>>1508331
>God I hope your friend peaks.
I wish, she has no balls and will most likely try to play the neutral game while leaning towards the TRA side because of her tranny sister. She has met an american that lives in a conservative state that she might move to in the future. She used to be on the verge of peaking, when a former male friend trooned out suddenly she kinda called bullshit on it, but had it been today she would probably just thought it's no big deal just to avoid any discussion.
But at least another friend seems to be about to peak instead, she used to be very TRA to the point she really lightened up when a friend said she's giving up and might try to date transwomen (said lesbian friend has luckily since peaked hardcore btw) but now that she has gotten married and pregnant she seems to slowly see this clown world for what it truly is. She will most likely never say it out loud though because some of her oldest and closest friends are very heavy TRA leaning (as in slacktivists that just share pro-tranny stuff without looking further into it and will most likely wave off any issues with it all because it is uncomfortable to think about), but she has shut up a lot more when I and a couple of other borderline terf friends bring up the subject of the misogyny of troon activism.

No. 1508352

God I wish I was more eloquent so I could stop getting upset and raising my voice during debates about subjects important to me, the only thing I'm actually angry at is myself for not being able to get my point across since I am idiot no goody with wordsies during situations like this. I mean it's easy for anyone to tell that my upset feelings is not aimed at them because it is pretty clear that I am struggling to find words to express myself and that's where the frustration is coming from, but it's still embarrassing and one day I'm going to get heated with the wrong person. I should just start biting my tongue and not say anything and let myself quietly seethe instead.

No. 1508355

Moving to America this year and seeing nothing but complaints about it is making me feel anxious and depressed even though I want to be excited and happy. Also wish people wouldn't generalise all of America when they're just talking about their state.

No. 1508360

>>1508349
I forgot to add that my point of my friend moving to the US in the future is that she might peak after possibly being forced to hang out with people that might be more open about questioning the troonery subject. Or at least start to think of it more critically again, I hope.

No. 1508369


No. 1508404

Work problems constantly, nasty coworkers, shitty job, mentally ill mom, mom's financial problems that I pay suffer the consequences from and cause me great worry and stress plus I have to support her financially with my shitty wage, no real goal in life other than constantly working hard to get better jobs, the only thing I feel any kind of pleasure from in the last 10 years is drawing and watching/reading crime and mystery on my free time, no will to socialize because it gives me no pleasure and is often annyoing, I'm really only pushing my years until my mom dies naturally so I can kill myself because she would never recover if I did it now and causing her this much suffering distresses me.. I hate my life so much, not a day goes by without some kind of problem involving the aforementioned things and I have no reason or joy to be alive to make it worth it. nothing that I strive for because I don't like nothing other than drawing and consuming violent content.. I have been depressed since I was ten years old but I'm not even depressed now, I'm just in an abyss, a void, I have sought psychiatric and psychological help for years but it doesn't do much for me.
I exercise every day, eat healthily, meditate. But I hate my life and wish I could kill myself without causing distress to my mom. She's already mentally ill and would never recover. She's the only person who would suffer from this in such a way. I know some other people would be sad but no one like her , I'm not really close to anybody from my family and my dad is an abuser with rage issues so whatever.. I wish I died peacefully in my sleep and that my mom died with me because she doesn't have anybody else either

No. 1508408

I keep being mentally abused by narcissists that claim superiority over me to the point where I am convinced everyone is a narc and we just live in a ruthless power hierarchy

No. 1508411

>>1508355
Where are you moving from? I honestly can't imagine coming here but I guess it could be worse

No. 1508414

I fucking hit my mouth on my metal spice rack. I am in pain. No broken teeth, thank god. Got ice and now going to go cry because pain and my brain is a bastard that loves making me relive one of the shittest moments of my life when I was a young teen.

No. 1508418


No. 1508419

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i can't stand people who constantly joke about having themselves killed. i want to feel bad and i used to but it's seriously getting on my nerves. it's so constant it's impossible to feel any pity. i know it's a cry for help but it's overwhelming to bear that knowledge, yes they're hurting and that's why they're saying it but honestly it's been a decade and a decade ago i was in elementary school and it's still happening today. it's like they completely tune out the awkward silence. dude nobody likes to hear that shit and you're making everyone uncomfortable thus dislike you like you are so afraid of. you are sabotaging yourself which yes is a trait of your mental illness.
this is actually a vent of having to handle my mentally ill older brother. i also found out he's been spending money on his equally as suicidal if not more girlfriend meanwhile we're literally not even living paycheck to paycheck, the only thing he spends on my mother and i is groceries every month and he makes such a big giant deal out of it like this one time when we were putting groceries in "his" car (it's really my father's before he was gone. also he never ever drives us anywhere because "gas is expensive" but can drive to other cities no problem anytime) and he threw an adult tantrum in the parking lot breaking the rice bag and spilling it everywhere embarrassing us enough that the security guard had to help us salvage some of it. he obviously didn't help but can drop money like it's nothing for other people. dude 15 dollars is not enough for anything these days and you know that. my mom always makes it seem like he's such a saint for this and he puts this facade of being nice and hardworking but he literally works from home and talks to his friends all hours he is awake on the job unless he's in a meeting. i used to idolize him and i know he loves me but i really just can't fucking stand him anymore. he's such a manchild and he's nearly thirty years old. i'm not saying you have to act 50 at 30 but you CANNOT be acting that immaturely at that age. speaking of being immature and constantly talking to his friends i keep hearing him and his friends ( including women ) talk about shockingly revealing topics because he doesn't wear headphones and has the volume up so high i can't escape it anywhere in the apartment.
i'm so tired and frustrated but i can't do anything about it. everytime he is away i'm afraid he might kill himself and i found out he's becoming a pillhead a month ago. just as i'm typing this he made yet another joke about ending his life. if you do this you seriously have to fucking stop doing it in front of people who care about you because while you might be hurting know that in their powerlessness you are making them feel worthless. might make you feel worse but you need to know it. it's not like i don't have my own problems but i was highly suicidal to the point where i have permanent irremovable damage dealt to my body and this sort of behavior completely made me reevaluate and change my mindset. i don't know how to go about helping him in that way and honestly i don't think he wants to but i'll try anyway

No. 1508431

>>1508224
Haha some burgerfag boomer women can be bad simply because they have increased internalized mysoginy, but i personally forgive them and direct my hate, if there is any, towards the patriarchy and the shitty men who made them think the way they do. And some are overly conservative and lack the respect for abortion rights. So its hit or miss fot sure.

The more i hear about this scrote the more i despise him. Kek and yet this is such a common occurence your experience almost feels familiar.

No. 1508434

>>1507796
just the fact that this piece of shit moid spent some number of years with your aunt and never even tried to learn her language says everything to me. I hope the next stroke comes soon and I hope it kills him.

No. 1508436

>>1508404
I wish you and your mother peace.

No. 1508437

>>1508434
Ntayrt but kek. Based nonnie.

No. 1508440

>>1508352
This saying has helped me to avoid those exact situations and emotions: "arguing with idiots, makes you an idiot."
Its just not worth it. Your sanity and emotional well being suffers in every engagement like that.

No. 1508441

>>1508436
Thanks nona. It's really hard. I hate to see her suffer. It was bad enough when it was just me but now I have to take care of her and handle the financial debts and everything else that comes with a mentally ill mother when you're mentally ill yourself … I just wish something killed the both of us

No. 1508453

I want to track down every single piece of shit that abused me as a child and kill them. Thinking about my childhood, and questoning it all. What possesses adults to be cruel to children? Did I really deserve all that? The worst part is they influenced other children to be cruel too. As an adult, it's bothering me more than ever to think about it. I could never act that way toward kids, let alone someone else's. I just don't fucking understand. If you hate children, why on earth would you become a fucking teacher or daycare worker? Some of the nastiest, most putrid bitches on earth are taking those jobs, it doesn't make any sense. There's so much I just have blocked out, but the few memories I do have are bad, and I never want to know for sure. The damage is done, addressing it in full wouldn't heal anything. My mom keeps telling me I have "no reason" to be like this, and then I feel ashamed, but then I get mad because from what I know and what she's said (then denied, then confessed to again, over and over) yes, I do, and it all happened when I was too young to even talk about it. You knew something was wrong from the start, you fucked up badly, and that's why you turned into a helicopter parent who locked me up constantly when I wanted freedom. Your own guilt.
I'm sad, asocial and unmotivated and whatever, but it's also turned me into such an angry person on the inside. I wish I could do something.

No. 1508467

>>1508453
Maybe they take the jobs on purpose because they'll have authority over random children…. It's like the trope of former high school bullies becoming nurses and cops because these positions allow you to abuse others

No. 1508470

>>1508418
I want to do the same tbh. Americans complain about how bad it is but it fucking sucks here. There are loads of places outside of London that seem like a nice place to live but are actually extremely boring after spending a few months there, and living in London is becoming so expensive that everyone who can afford to live here is a massive dick or is struggling so hard just to live in a city that isn't even worth it. At least in the US there are loads of different major cities you can live in that all have different pros and cons.

No. 1508479

>>1508470
If moving to another area in the UK isn't worth it, what about immigrating to another country? I know America is really hard to move to, but I feel like there's a lot of radfem-friendly little towns. Avoid the South, especially the deep South if you're lesbian or Abortion Rights are important to you, never go to Utah, LA and NYC are shitholes, but other than that, you're likely going to have a good experience. I'd recommend Southern Oregon or Orange County, CA to radfems. Although, OC has a lot of godawful areas (like Anaheim) places like Orange are nice and have a lot of relaxing areas.

No. 1508514

if your boyfriend took you to a nice trip by the beach and he paid for everything and meals then proposed to you but without a ring would you be disappointed? when we got back home he took me to a jeweler and I got to pick out the ring myself which he paid for but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't disappointing. he got on his knees and held my hands then afterwards he said he was sorry he didn't have a ring and he felt really bad and how it was overwhelming and he honestly wasn't sure what to do about my ring size either. I don't wear jewelry so he couldn't take an already owned one.
he obviously put effort into everything else but the FDS mantra if he wanted to he would is scarred into me. I don't know if it's applicable to this situation though so I need someone else's perspective

No. 1508520

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Nonnies on here are so sensitive and dumb sometimes that I wonder why they're even here for, like bitch can't you look at other threads and stop being prissy about how other nonnies act and like. This isn't twitter where you post about [Insert Interest] and expect everyone else to be like you, AKA a sensitive prissy baby vaugeposted and censored myself since the babies on here can't handle others being right and tend to start a fight over it

No. 1508525

get ready for some word vomit nonsense

i’m sick and tired of being friends with men. i only talk to two of them on a semi-daily basis, but they’re the only ones that play video games with me. my only girl friend that plays video games with me has been too preoccupied with her new boyfriend. but i’m sick and fucking tired of their jokes and shitty anime and perverted bullshit they talk about on our discord server.
i especially hate how my one friend always wants to fucking hang out even though it sucks the life out of me and he only ever leaves if i outright tell him i’m kicking him out. he also talks about the same five fucking stories and says weird shit in front of my husband because he’s fucking autistic and doesn’t know when to shut the fuck up even if someone is telling him what he’s saying is weird. i always flip flop on dropping him as a friend because there are times where he is genuinely kind and helpful and a good friend, but then he ruins it by saying something offensive or standing behind me really close and reaching for something on a shelf if we’re out perusing a bookstore or some shit. but whenever i call him out he just looks confused and upset? holy fuck i’m sorry this just has me seething and i don’t even know if i’m just being a gigantic bitch about it but i’ve told him multiple times i don’t like him invading my personal space or that talking about women in a derogatory way just makes him look pathetic. god i just wish i could get over being an anxious socially inept dumbass and make more lady friends. i also need to grow a backbone and just never speak to this fuck again

No. 1508546

>>1508479
I have a really bad fear of cars and grew up in cities where you don't need to know how to drive and almost no one has a car. I wish I could live that kind of lifestyle but pretty much everywhere in the US outside of NYC involves cars

No. 1508551

>>1508514
Tbh I would prefer that, especially since you got to pick out the ring you wanted.

No. 1508556

>>1508514
The disappointment of receiving a ring that is too small and gaudy/ugly is worse then getting to pick one yourself later on. My cousin cried when she got proposed to, not because of she was happy but because the ring couldn't fit her finger and was tacky as fuck. She's married now and told me later that if he hadn't felt bad about the ring and went with her to the jewellers she would have left him.

No. 1508572

Cute moid at work who seems nice and friendly. Too bad I never get a chance to talk to him and also maybe he’s already dating someone. Just wanted to vent my disappointment. Don’t know how you’re ever supposed to meet guys to date without using dating apps nowadays. Wah wah.

No. 1508579

>make an innocuous post
>you must be X
Some of you are deranged, but I forgive you. I accept you.

No. 1508580

Anons that are like this
>Every nonny I hate is you anon
>Stop posting, you whore, I know that you posted the things that contradict each other and you should leave!!!
>WahWah why are you so cruel and moidish WahWah
>OMG stop sperging

No. 1508610

>>1508546
True, at least OC has bike areas

No. 1508616

Ever since my mom implied she'd live with me after my grandparents pass, I've been really short and rude to her and I can't stop. I just can not handle her constant negativity, her anxiety, her schizo bipolar episodes, and all her Jesus Christian shit. I just do not want it in my life ever again! It's a curse being your parent's retirement plan.

No. 1508631

>>1508579
>>1508580
To add onto this it really feels like some of them think that this site is used by ten people maximum, it's always a good laugh.

No. 1508646

>>1508520
i just know this is about the military uniform thread

No. 1508660

I accidentally wrote this in /w/ (whoops) but I have an ultrasound on March 9th and I'm super excited, albeit nervous to figure out what is wrong. I have a thick, long hair right above my right aeola, my breasts, especially my right, is constantly sore (not just before my period), my periods are extremely sporadic and happen at any time of the month, sometimes two in a month, sometimes once every two months, sometimes once a month, I'm constantly in sharp pains on my right ovary and a dull pain in my groin, I'd post this in a relevant /g/ thread but it legitimately feels like hell on earth and I don't know what to do, other than wait for the appointment. I have a genetic predisposition to a uterine tumor, endometriosis, and fibroids. When I was 4, my mom had to get emergency surgery to get a hysterectomy when she bled for 4 weeks straight, through literal garbage bags.
I honestly hope I get a hysterectomy. It'd fix the pain, permanently. And I have no intention to ever have kids, so all I'd have to deal with is menopause. Which I've heard is hell but I've had hot flashes before, so I know how to deal with those at least
I'm only 19, nonnas. Why must I suffer?

No. 1508674

>>1508514
I would rather that 100% because I would want a blue gem not a diamond and my ring size is small so it couldve been too big. Also wouldn't want silver because rose gold or gold is so pretty to me.

No. 1508676

https://www.foxnews.com/us/arizona-man-arrested-woman-allegedly-sexually-abused-jogging-trail-fought-back-police-say

Steven Michael, the man that groomed and harassed/doxxed romanianon and that used to actively post on lolcow and that many of you sided with is a sex offender

No. 1508677

I wish it didn't take me so long to graduate with a bachelor's. Started going to university right after high school in 2015 and was in university since. It's really embarassing that I took this long to graduate uni. If I was in my 5th year now instead of 8th then maybe I could delay my graduation for a bit longer and try to apply for internships that relate to the industry I want to go to. It's not like the pay of post-grad jobs are any better as a student.

No. 1508678


No. 1508681

>>1508678
Steven Michael used to regularly post on lolcow and LARP as a woman, he was here for years blending in with the crowd. He added Romanianon from the friend finder thread on here. For the first weeks he decieved her and pretended to be a woman then he revealed himself to be a man and they started dating. He kept sexually harassing Romanianion and then he proceeded to doxx her and threaten her. Romanianon posted about it on lolcow and a lot of you harassed and guilt tripped her or simply changed the narrative to bully romanianon and demonize her while she was complaining about a literal sex offender creep that added her off lolcow and that's been blending within lolcow for years

No. 1508683

>>1508681
Jesus Christ
I know there are definitely scrotes who lurk in FF threads and that's why I'll never bring myself to post there
Poor romanianon

No. 1508684

>>1508681
you even said that Romanianon brought him here, which was a complete lie. Romanianon found Steven in the friend finder thread and he told her that he has been posting on lolcow for 6 years actively. Again, when romanianon posted about it you began harassing her and even falsely accusing her of bringing Steven Michael to lolcow despite the fact that she repeatedly stated that she added him in the friend finder thread. You sided with a sex offender that's been posting as a woman on your website for 6 years and managed to switch the narrative and focus all your hatred on an abused woman. I can go back in the threads and screenshot all of it. When Romanianon posted about Steven Michael the man that groomed and psychologically abused her that added her off lolcow you all began harassing her

No. 1508691

>>1508254
Like the other anon said, those aren't friendships. Do you think they'd stick around if they knew you were talking to other men and what the true nature of your conversations with them were? They're merely just opportunists and their ego and pride will inevitably be wounded, things will implode, and you'll be left with nothing but yourself and the regret that you wasted your time on someone who was never truly there for you. Speaking from experience here.

No. 1508701

My narcissist tranny coworker was doing a trivia game with some kids we work with. He asked the kids what group of people's history we focus on in March and gave the kids a clue by saying that he is a "member of this group" (women's history month). Didn't bother mentioning any of the female students. Didn't bother mentioning any of the real women he works with. Didn't mention any famous women. Nope, it's all about how HE is a member of this group of people whose discoveries and contributions have been ignored or stolen throughout history. Of course it's all about the tranny. I know it's petty but I fucking hate this guy

No. 1508707

>>1508701
Don't trannies already have a month?

No. 1508721

Thinking about the time I gave a card to my dad to give to his boyfriend in which I thanked him for taking care of and loving my dad and my dad didn't give a single shit and most definitely did not give it to his bf.
Also thinking about how my brother and mom had 0 reaction when my bf said with tears in his eyes that he's seen me cry endlessly bc of my dad and it's heartbreaking for him.. This was right after my dad told me he's always hated me and called me all kinds of horrible names because my mom and I confronted him with some pretty serious issues. No one in my family cares. No one ever brought it up to me again. I took all that abuse and my mom seemed more concerned about my dad than she ever was about me.
The way she only really spoke to my brother with compassion after that fight. They literally just looked over at me when my bf said that and turned right back to eachother and kept talking about wtf just happened.
The way my dad COMPLETELY changed his tone when my brother showed up, spoke with such shame and compassion with such a meek voice. All he did was call me an asshole and a loser and scream how much he hated me. My mom was right there the whole time and never stood up for me. The rejection I feel from my family makes me feel so alone. I just want a warm, safe woman in my family to help me and counsel me but I am not in contact with any extended family and never have been. Even my female cousin seemed to hate me when we visited one time for a funeral. I feel so alone. I don't think they know how much I cry all the time over the feelings of rejection. My sister bullied me relentlessly as a child and my mom never punished her or stood up for me. It really fucked me up and now I think everyone hates me and I need validation from everyone around me and I KNOW everyone I see in public thinks I'm fucking stupid. The feeling follows me absolutely everywhere. It's even more confusing because my siblings and my mom and even my dad (before he fucked off for good) get along really well and have good times together but when it comes to feelings, they are all so weird and cold and void. I've been hated even as a little girl for my emotions. I am so jealous of girls who had loving fathers and protective sisters. Every time I see my mom all I can think about is how much she thinks I'm an asshole but my bf thinks she thinks I'm the coolest person ever. And she does, in a way, but I'm a recluse loser and I can tell she thinks I'm weak and pathetic.
I don't even know what I'm saying anymore, I just needed to get this out of me

No. 1508735

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I got in a car accident a few months ago in my dad's car and my dumbass thought he took care of the accident report because he took care of all the insurance stuff, well silly me he didn't and now my license is gonna get suspended lmao I just keep winning! One day I'll start feeling like an adult with my shit together but not my mid-twenties apparently!

No. 1508757

I hate slacktivism so fucking much. I'm aware that I'm not exactly one to stand in a soup kitchen but I think slacktivism is nothing but mindless posturing to feel like a better person for five minutes and pretend you did something by sharing some tweet or something someone said on instagram or tiktok that you don't even fact check. It's nothing but empty virtue signaling and pettiness.
I have friends that have doubled and tripled down when I fact checked something they shared or question or even point out how the thing they shared doesn't make any sort of sense when you think about it because they genuinely think they are being on the "right" side for never ever questioning minorities. People are so fucking obsessed with coming off as "good" people that thinking for yourself is now fucking illegal. Fuck I want the entire fucking internet to close down for a few months so people have to actually go outside.

No. 1508803

>>1508556
>>1508551
>>1508674
Thank you ladies I feel better now. fds was awesome but it also kinda stressed me out too

No. 1508828

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how am i supposed to find love and eventually get a family when i can't even make friends

No. 1508829

I wasted so much time in my teen years because I thought I had to be the greatest and do and make something exceptional and remarkable. It didn't even cross my mind that I could be just learning and enjoying whatever I would've chosen to do. Absolutely weird perception of myself and reality.

No. 1508838

>>1508514
Depends on why he did it. Not getting you the ring beforehand because he wanted you to pick one out for yourself so you could get one you definitely fit and love is different from being lazy about it and not giving a shit, which doesn't seem to be the case when he has put effort into everything else. I'd personally rather have the chance to pick a ring out for myself so from my perspective it worked out ideally for you. Congratz on the engagement!

No. 1508843

>>1508828
You don't need to. The more you focus on those things, the less probabilities for you to find someone because you are going to act like a crazy girl.

No. 1508845

>>1508514
When I got proposed to it was the same. He didn't have the ring but we spent that weekend going to jewelers and going out for nice meals to celebrate. I got sized and found out I had child sized fingers so I couldn't just buy a ring on the spot if I wanted to. It took time and some shopping around. He then proposed again with the ring. Did it in a scenic spot. I didn't sweat it.

If you're more worried rn than excited about the engagement then idk if that in itself is a sign that you have doubts.

No. 1508855

>>1508676
>a man that took advantage of and doxxed a camgirl is a sex offender
Omg! Who could've guessed! A man who takes advantage of women sexually took advantage of another woman! Hope he rots in jail.

No. 1508898

I work with 2 nasty bitches who constantly gossip about everyone else and try to fuck others over. Actually everybody partakes in way too much gossip except the 3 men that work there.
I was having my lunch in the kitchen and they started talking shit about pregnant fat girl who I'm closest with out of all coworkers. For no reason. When I leave they probably start talking shit about me too. I HATE FEMALE SOCIALIZATION. WHY DO WOMEN GOSSIP AND SHIT ON OTHER WOMEN SO MUCH.
One of them doesn't even have to work and her daddy got her a position there so she can buy clothes and whatever. Fuck this bitch and her bitch friend for making the job harder for the rest, absolutely awful nasty place in every sense

No. 1508938

>>1508898
>WHY DO WOMEN SHIT ON EACH OTHER SO MUCH
You say as you anonymously shit on two women you know irl, when you could be doing something productive like exercising or becoming more likable or something

No. 1508943

>>1508941
Kek and the way she opened by calling them “nasty bitches”…why is that necessary? Lolcow isn’t your diary lol

No. 1508944

I've quit all vices and larp as normal, but I'm getting tired of that and am thinking of going to sleep permanently. I never had any friends growing up and I'm now distanced from the 1 or 2 friends I had. I talk to my family maybe 3-4 times a year. I only interact with my boyfriend and his parents treat me like I'm stupid because they're from a different culture. My net effect on people around me is fortunately low, so it's unlikely my suicide would be that bad in term sof negatively affecting others. My boyfriend is very tough mentally, so I am not too worried. I'm tired of internally fighting and I wish I could just smoke a cigarette or two. Those used to make me so happy because I'd go outside and just think, but I quit. In October, my boyfriend got a job that tired him out so much we stopped having sex every day. I have SA in my history as a kid and an adult and I have a terrible relationship with sex, I basically need it with my partner or I feel useless. Anyway, that was a hurdle for me and it has made me reconsider a lot about myself and my beliefs. But ultimately, I'm miserable feeling ugly and not having sex with my bf every day. He changed jobs for me so we can now have sex every day, but now I feel sick inside and can't do it because I feel so suicidal and hideous. I try to practice body neutrality and not pay attention to my appearance and it kind of works.

My job sucks, too. I've been told I'm the best person they've filled in for my position, but I also get yelled at every single day for shit I don't do. Half my work at work is documenting everything I do so when I inevitably get shit on, I have proof. I think that's normal, except my manager yells and screams and he belittles me and all of my coworkers.

I wish I were different and didn't have to move from my issues. I wish I were already perfect. I feel like my struggle is fruitless. I haven't self harmed in years, but I wish I could. I haven't done drugs or alcohol in years, but I still wish I could. I just wish I could have some sort of pleasure on this earth, but sex makes me feel so hideous now, I can barely force myself to do it anymore. I've become the person I'd hate.

I can't afford a psychiatrist or a therapist, so it is what it is.

No. 1508948

>>1508943
NTA but this is a vent thread and she's venting. I have no idea why it's such a big problem when she just needed to get this out from her chest. If you care so much about women shitting in each other why do you need to put a woman who's suffering down? You have no idea how things are for her and is judging the situation entirely by your limited perspective.

No. 1508951

>>1508938
Yeah, because when people are being nasty to other people, what you need to do is get better for those people to like you, not feel angry about the situation. Seems like the best way out.

No. 1508952

>>1508938
Nts but she's literally talking about two women who she said talk shit about everyone. Did you not read the post?

No. 1508953

>>1508948
I don’t care cause I didn’t shit on her or call her names, but I have more than enough context when I see her repeatedly name-calling and weirdly complaining about women just to try and fall back on “why do women shit on each other so much” kek

No. 1508957

>>1508952
>Actually everybody partakes in way too much gossip except the 3 men that work there.

And the everybody would include herself now, because she’s gossiping about them on the internet kek. Ok the infighting stops here cry to your brick wall if you really can’t see the cog dis in her post lol

No. 1508958

My boyfriend cried and begged harder for me not to delete our shared game file than he does to keep me from walking out on him. It was so pathetic that I could actually feel my pussy drying up. I didn't know it was possible to feel so disgusted by another person.

No. 1508959

>>1508958
Delete it and leave him!!!!

No. 1508962

>>1508957
It's not cognitive dissonance for her to say she doesn't like 2 women who are making her workplace worse, that's not even really gossip. I think you just wanted something to be mad at, or maybe you're just one of those annoying anons that are always itt complaining at other people's vents.

No. 1508969

>>1508953
Nonna, she did this in an anonymous imageboard. She's not doing it in real life and she's clearly angry. To me it seems like the people she was talking about were making the place worse for everyone. Again, it's a vent thread, not her literal workplace. It doesn't say anything about how she acts when she's living her life. You are coming in a vent thread and asking people to be rational with their feelings, you seem pretty fun.

No. 1508971

>It’s not cognitive dissonance for her to shit on other women and then scream Why, why do we women shit on each other?

Right…

No. 1508981

>>1508969
Usually when a coworker is making the work environment unhealthy and uncomfortable its your responsibility to just go to HR to ask them to do something about it, instead of lolcow.farm. She is probably just mildly annoyed with them and doesn’t know how to ask them to shut up, the way many adult autistic women can’t.

No. 1508983

I feel disgusting after masturbating. I took a shower, I changed my clothes and changed the sheets but I can't shake this nasty feeling. I want to flush myself down the drain.

No. 1508988

>>1508981
>>1508971
Honestly, you anon(s) are probably just like the women OP is talking about and that's why your panties are in a twist over someone venting in a vent thread.

No. 1508994

>>1508988
>panties in a twist over venting in a vent thread
if you could use those eyes of yours to read, it was said multiple times that the issue was that she’s verbatim saying “why do women shit on each other so much” while calling some annoying 19 year olds “nasty bitches” instead of going to HR about their unbearable behavior. It just looks pathetic, plain and simple.

No. 1508996

My roomate is constantly scrolling through tik tok and youtube shorts without headphones, meaning that there's a constant shifting of noises coming from her phone or laptop. I've offered her headphones, but she doesn't want to use them. I'm going to saw someone's head off.

No. 1508998

There has been one thing that has been bothering me for some time now. That is my ex from way back. We were together for a long time, and both of us were young and stupid, we were both only like 14-15. Back then I did stupid shit, but now I look back at those things I did and see a sad depressed girl. Anyways, I feel like this ex used my not-so-great state of mental health to his advantage… I remember feeling like a goddamn sex doll, just being there to please him. The day when we broke up was an absolute mess. He came over like a gentleman to break up with me f2f, but when we were in my room, the only thing he wanted obv. was sex, nothing more, nothing less. After that, he started to date some other girl just after the breakup. I have felt so stupid for the past 2-3 years after I realized he might just have used me for his own pleasure… Sometimes I just want to beat him up, sometimes I want to cry so bad, and sometimes I just laugh at it. I really don't know what to do with these feelings

No. 1509004

>>1508994
>19 year olds
You're literally just making things up now.
>>1508995
No she's not, but the "criticism" was stupid and didn't make any sense. It's literally just "how dare you complain about these people that are a nuisance in your workplace!!!".

No. 1509009

>>1508996
Start playing music loud in retaliation.

No. 1509011

>>1509004
That actually wasn’t the criticism, what was said was
>WHY DO WOMEN SHIT ON EACH OTHER SO MUCH, You say as you anonymously shit on two women you know irl, when you could be doing something productive like exercising or becoming more likable or something

And if that’s all you got out of that then maybe you needed to spend some extra time in LRC as a kid. Also, based off how their behavior was described, and the fact that this was posted on lolcow and not facebook or something it’s more likely that they’re younger and OP is too.

No. 1509017

>>1509009
I have, kek, but she doesn't mind it. She can have multiple sounds coming from several devices and doesn't care one bit, which is why she doesn't understand why I hate it so much.

No. 1509019

>>1509011
She's talking about two women who again, "constantly gossip about everyone else and try to fuck others over." which isn't the same as shitting on women who aren't doing anything to anyone and minding their business. You anons are being purposefully dense and it's so weird.

No. 1509020

>>1508951
God, what a stunted worldview you have. You know that just becoming a "better" and likeable person won't exactly make these sorts of people like her and get along all kumbaya? There are all sorts of nasty people that feed off of belittling others no matter if they're likeable or not. Bullies. Let her vent, damn. She has a right to be angry and express emotions.

No. 1509023

>>1509020
That anon is being sarcastic lol

No. 1509026

>>1509020
I don’t mean that as in “become more likable and maybe they’ll change their behavior” kek…I mean, why waste your time crying over these random women in a way that won’t change anything? Why not cry over these women on the phone with HR? Or is that too hard for neurodiverse lolcow users?

>>1509019
Honestly I’d love to hear a recording of what they say cause chances are it’s mild as shit and she’s just easily annoyed. Cause if they were really creating this unhealthy of an environment and being “bullies” she could open that grown adult mouth and tell her boss so that it stops being a problem. End of story.

No. 1509029

>>1509023
lol don't mind me then, I'm just scrolling through this thread and getting irritated by this chain of venting.

No. 1509032

>>1508951
You must be retarded if you thought that when I said “exercising or becoming more likable” would immediately mean doing it because you think that would change their behavior kek. You clearly don’t have the ability to comprehend that I meant that instead of obsessively posting about her coworkers, she could’ve been doing something more productive with her time.

No. 1509035

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I'm crying while eating tamales because I was imagining how I am going to have to explain my cat's eventual death to my future kids and just thinking how much I am going to miss her. There will never be another cat quite like her and I love her so much nonnies. I'm an emotional wreck right now. She's still a baby and she wants tamales but I can't give her any because it will poison her with all the garlic and onion from the sauce. Why am I sobbing about this?? My period just ended and there's no way I am pregnant. I have no excuse to be a train wreck and I'm just this way. Please stop meowing I love you so much I can't give you everything you want.

No. 1509037

Me getting a million wayfair ads on every app and browser after getting my new job

No. 1509042

>>1509029
Nevermind, apparently that anon was being dead serious and I read it as sarcasm kek

No. 1509050

>>1509032
>obsessively posting
Mind you, it was one singular post.

No. 1509054

>>1509026
What if that nona has autism or some disability? So what, can't hold any empathy for her? You come off as such a moid for your lack of compassion. She's experiencing some annoyances at her work and using the appropriate thread to vent about it. Who knows? Maybe she will go to HR or someone else afterwards to take care of it, but she wants to vent it out like the cat in the OP. Like, damn. Stop disparaging her worries and putting down what she has to go through. Your words smell like scrote even though you're not one. This is my second and final reply to you. Feel free to make my day and reply to me though, to get the last word in.

No. 1509056

>>1509042
You never know anymore, right? Best not to interact with that one.

No. 1509075

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>>1509062
Or, you can infight itt and talk about colors in the unpopular opinion thread. Like a true farmer.

No. 1509080

>>1509054
I don’t feel bad for spergs, and calling me a moid just because I said she can go to HR about it if they’re making the work environment so hellish, that just outs that you’re likely aspie too

No. 1509086

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No. 1509090

>>1509085
Neither I like the big california oranges

>>1509086
You too by the looks of it

No. 1509094

>>1509092
Flavor isn’t what I care about I’m just eating vitamin C so I don’t get scurvy

No. 1509100

>>1509090
>Everyone has autism
>You too by the looks of it
>t. autist

No. 1509103

Honestly can't believe one single post I wrote in 5 minutes complaining about coworkers who target EVERYBODY in the wokplace for no reason whatsoever caused so much chaos here. I just wanted a random place to vent, not make a statement.

No. 1509106

Going to the bathrooms is like 100x more inconvenient when you're on your period. Not only do I have to wipe more and with different products to make sure I'm properly cleaned, but I also have to wash my hands longer because blood is gross. Also have to make sure my blood didn't get anywhere on the toilet seat or that also needs to get cleaned.

No. 1509109

>>1509103
Why not send the paragraph you wrote to your human resources lady’s email instead of lolcow though? Like if they’re really bullying everyone and making it an unsafe work environment try doing something about it instead of sitting idle

No. 1509118

>>1509109
she already complained about it to higher-ups and her other coworkers has too
>>1509103
poor reading comprehension and autism = infigting anons

No. 1509119

>>1509103
One nona is a vehement sperg about your issue. Don't worry about it. Keep venting despite triggering her kek.

No. 1509167

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the guy I am seeing recently didn't listen to the album I tald him I am passionate about and he might like it too due to similar music taste and I am still fucking mad about it
and not even the album part: the fact he doesn't see me as a friend for same interests conversations then, he doesn't care for me romantically if he is not curious what I things I like, and he is not interested in me physically, cause he didn't even bother to pretend and make it seem he cares just to make me trust him more for us to get intimate eventually
what the fuck he wants from me then, is he just wasting my time
what the hell, I really am mad, this is important, I don't have autism, I don't!

No. 1509168

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IM SICK OF THESE GENDERSPECIALS BEING THE ONLY ONES THAT I CAN ENGAGE WITH IN FANDOMS!!!!! i know youre a woman you know youre a woman why the fuck are you throwing a fit over being referred to with she/her pronouns to your followers who only care about your art in the first place?? im fucking tired of these species being so blatantly sexist towards their own selves and pretending they're the blushy bottom bitches they draw for fetishization purposes. we're all women who like to fetishize pretty men here fuck off!!!!!! worst is when they get bewitched into making ugly moid art. no one wants to see a pretty boy turn into a smelly hairy fat fuck with boob demolition scars you dumb fuckers take your ugly ass art off the tags and put it up your ass!!!! if that character actually looked or acted like your autistic sexist tranny ass he would fucking kill himself. i know teens do this to feel better about themselves and feel like they belong to a community or whatever but if youre a woman over 25 with "he/tiger" pronouns in your bio advocating for turning fictional men into butchered women like yourself im judging you so hard and think the world would be better without you!!!! i wish i could say all this on social media and push their already low life expectancy even lower!!!!!!

No. 1509190

>>1509167
nonna run, that's a huge red flag. He is either playing stupid mindgame to make you more interested or he is fondamentaly an uncurious an boring person. Both are bad. Also, so many dudes would kill for a gf interested in their music taste, you can do better than him. I had a similar experience with a friend, I kept watching every single recommendations from him while he never did, at some point I realized that he just generaly didn't care about me in the way I cared about him, it hurts but it's so much better now that I don't give him attention.(I realised later that he was actually a poser and he never cared about movies in the level that I did. Maybe it's the same of your guy) Wishing you the best for the futur nonna ! What's the name of the album though ?

No. 1509191

>>1507299
It might have been the most idiotic thing I've ever done but it was so freeing to date someone vocally misogynistic because I could be misandrist as I liked. Whatever misogynistic stuff he had to say I could come back with "listen here you idiot monkey man" and list off stats that'd shut him up. I don't care to fix these moids opinions but I do think I gave him some perspective.

I couldn't imagine doing such a thing with a "woke" man. I couldn't even say I'm against sex work or I'm not cool with him being super close besties with another woman. They're all misogynists in different packaging so why not have one you can openly insult?

Thinking about it, I suppose the core difference is open misogynists do view men and women as inherently different, so it's easier to talk to them on that level instead of having to say "people" instead of men or women. Oh sure, PEOPLE are body shamed in society, PEOPLE are sexually exploited, it's sooo terrible when an older PERSON dates someone 20 years younger, mhm yeah fuck off.

Sorry I just meant to agree but went off on one.

No. 1509202

Is lolcow different since the recent reboot?

I don't know what it is but I feel like i'm just not vibing so well with the nonas here. Not to sound conceited but before when I posted about whatever I'd have a lot more engagement, more nonas relating to what I say and maybe starting a discussion, it's hard to describe but I definitely felt more a sense of community. Now I get nothing back, I feel like i'm yelling into the void and I don't know if something has shifted in me to be more alien or if there's less women here or if the cool ones left. Plus a lot of the content is boring now.

No. 1509203

>>1509191
horseshoe theory situation lol

No. 1509204

>>1509202
I could be wrong but it feels like it's slower still.

No. 1509206

>>1509202
I think it's different too but it's weird. I feel like I'm seeing both more oldfags and more newfags?

No. 1509217

>>1509190
>>1509200
funky kazakh new wave from the 80s

No. 1509218

>>1509202
I’ve been on lolcow for more than five years and even though people complain every few months it’s changed this is the first time I’ve felt like it actually has a little. I wonder if it is underage or very young zoomer newfags who started coming here from that art drama a while ago or whatever that more recent event was. This place seems a lot more autistic and whiny. Everyone wants you to be nice 100% of the time when a big part of the fun of lolcow was being a bitch shitposting about things or posting our real thoughts no matter how unhinged. Also a lot more moid accusations over completely stupid shit and libfemmery the past 2 months. At the same time there’s rarely interesting discussion anymore because low engagement on anything that isn’t one of the 5 really baity topics.

No. 1509234

I have someone I hate who has been a total evil dickhead to literally everyone I know and goes out of her way to bully everyone, especially me, because she’s insecure as fuck and spends all her time openly crying about like how I’m hotter and prettier and smarter and cooler and more liked than her etc. (according to her, bc she’s obsessed with the idea that social interactions are a competition somehow, even though no one else gives a fuck or is comparing anyone like that) and she copes by being completely rude and evil all the time and throwing fits to draw attention to herself and ruin the mood of the entire gathering whenever attention isn’t on her. Anyway against my will I had to see her again, and incidentally I look way better than ever for a number of chance reasons, so I feel some sick satisfaction in seeing how assblasted she was again just for me to be nearby. I spent so long trying to coddle and console her over her terrible childlike behaviors and now I just enjoy seeing how miserable and nervous she looks around me and my friends kek. Play shitty games win shitty prizes, I’m not gonna mope and feel guilty anymore because me literally just being cool and pretty upsets her, according to her. After how deeply shitty and what a bully she’s been to me and others now I feel just like laughing at her for it.

No. 1509245

FINE. IGNORE MY QUESTION RETARDS. YOU'RE FAKE FANS ANYWAY. LOSERS!!!!

No. 1509274

I AM SO FUCKING HORNY IVE BEEN MASTURBATING 10 TIMES A DAY I JUST WANT IT TO STOP HOLY FUCK LET MY PERIOD COME ALREADY SO I CAN GET OVER IT

No. 1509305

That minstrel cat got a fluffy pussy fr

No. 1509312

>>1509305
I'm so happy people are still sporadically talking about the OP image.

No. 1509314

>>1509218
>This place seems a lot more autistic and whiny. Everyone wants you to be nice 100% of the time when a big part of the fun of lolcow was being a bitch shitposting about things or posting our real thoughts no matter how unhinged
Huh, it feels way more meaner than it used to be if anything, especially when it comes to fights over mundane posts

No. 1509318

the fact that I was NEETing for several years and never managed to become decent at any hobby still haunts me. Everyone I know complains about too much of their free time being eaten by work but I'd rather not have free time at this point I just waste it doing nothing

No. 1509350

>>1509318
I could have typed this.

No. 1509362

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God I’m such a fucking inattentive irresponsible dumbass, I waste so much food just forgetting about it in the fridge. I’m stuck in a fucking loop of ordering takeouts and thawing grocery that goes bad from not being used quickly enough reeeee

No. 1509364

I'm going to the gym for the first time in a few days and I'm so nervous I've never been to one and i haven't exercised in years but I'm really determined to finally get /fit/ BUT I'M SCARED OF BEING THAT NEW RETARD WHO HAS NO IDEA WHAT SHE'S DOING AHHHH

No. 1509370

the husbando thread has been hell to read lately and it makes me sad.
is it not enough that we're already there in the retarded hornyposting husbando thread sperging out about our delusional fantasies to each other? are we really meant to instigate fights amongst ourselves as well? gatekeeping what it means to have a husbando? talking down to and shaming nonnas whose husbandos aren't to our tastes?
the thread was supposed to be about love! about sharing the things we love about the men we love, and in a very small way sharing the things ourselves with each other. because who would understand better what our circumstances are like, than the nonnas in our retarded little thread? but all i've seen lately are a handful of nonnas chomping at the bit for the blood of their sisters over the sort of inane bullshit that shouldn't even warrant a discussion, let alone acknowledgment. they constantly poke and prod at one another, name call, insult each other's husbandos–it never ends and i'm tired of seeing it be entertained by women who i know for certain know better than to take the bait.

No. 1509374

>>1509207
Your scrote probably watches porn behind your back anyway. Remember that anon who said her moid was lying to her for years about being anti porn and not watching it and then it turned out he was of course watching it.

No. 1509376

>>1509370
Why did you spoiler all of your post. You're in the vent thread.

No. 1509378

>>1509370
Thanks for saying it nonna. I miss randoposting there but it's so caustic rn I don't wanna bother

No. 1509381

My borderline bf jumped out of my moving car while we were arguing cause he got angry that I was acting too cool after turning us around from going to a movie cause he was yelling at me.
What was he originally pissed about? I don't remember, he always splits over mundane things.
He ruined his new shoes and tracksuit I got him for his birthday from the severe roadburn. Fortunately he did not need the hospital, for as bad as it sounds he knows how to roll out of cars and did it for attention when I was going under ~30mph in our neighborhood.

His ankle has a giant wound, his side is scraped, and then he has another burn wound near his wrist.
At least now it looks like he had a legit accident. He had been worried people were looking at his self-harm cuts he recently inflicted on his arm, or the giant laceration on his head from when he bashed his head on a hotel table while we were away at my work conference, and judging him for it.

Getting him to pick up the phone to call a therapist has been like herding cats. I can tell he doesn't want to although he is in severe need.

No. 1509385

>>1509381
why are you still with him? throw his ass out of the car for real and ditch that drama

No. 1509388

i don't know what took over me on friday. everything was good, my mom, sister and nigel came to visit me and my new kitten, it was awesome and i felt so happy. i also got a zolepidem prescription and i know i need only half a tablet but i took 3,5 along with trigan d, nospa, ibumetin, tavegyl and my head hurts like hell even thou it's been exactly 24 hours. it doesn't help i cut myself all over with not a single limb unscarred. i texted my nigel 23 hours ago that i'm restless and i think my kitten is disappointed to see me cut myself, i distinctly remember walking around my apartment and leaving a blood trail because i didn't realize blood was running down my legs. the curtain, the toilet, the bathroom, the pillows and blankets all covered in my blood. he came over at 2pm because i wasn't responding to any of his 7 calls. i was asleep, but without dreams. i texted random people too and even made plans with my best friend, but i don't know what to lie to cover up why i didn't text her back or call even. my head hurt so much, it still hurts. i think i fried my brain and the scars all over me remind me of this night. i want to cry but my head is so dull. my mom also came over because my nigel called her or else he'd call the ambulance on me. they wouldn't take me, it wasn't a suicide attempt, i don't know what it was. i am sorry to my mom, nigel and especially my kitten. i was such a mess, i regret letting my kitten see me like this. i think i don't care if my nigel leaves me, he saw scars all over me and refused to kiss or hug me. my mom didn't either, she was scared to hurt me. i don't think he was, he seemed disgusted. i bet he thinks "what a freak, why would she do this?". go to hell and leave me if you want. i've been scared of you and your threats to call my mother every time you hurt me and i freaked out. maybe i did all this on purpose, to disgust him, awaken sympathy in my mom and show myself that true freedom is being in charge of my own destruction. thank you for this thread for letting me write all this batshit nonsense kek

No. 1509390

>>1509381
I'm sorry but the image of a seething scrote jumping out of the car and rolling on the ground is so funny to me for some reason

No. 1509393

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I feel like my overall life experience with men can be best summed up with one specific experience in my childhood. I was drawing on concrete with chalk and got really into it, drawing all over the concrete elaborate flowers, swirls and hearts. A slightly older boy came by and settled in beside me and started drawing in chalk with me, and I was happy to let him join. Feeling like this was a sort of bonding experience over a mutual enjoyment for the freedom of drawing. Only to find he was drawing dicks over all my drawings and swear words everywhere. I remember feeling crushing disappointment and hurt seeing that and walked away.

Feel like that experience could be extrapolated to describe what a lot of my relationships with men have been like.

No. 1509400

>>1509393
The moment you introduced the boy I knew he was going to start drawing dicks

No. 1509403

That cats pussy looks like mine

No. 1509407

>>1509202
So much slower now it’s pathetic. Just merge with the grave of PULL at that point

No. 1509409

>>1509390
One certainly never sees it coming.
I was in shock, the sound was…remarkable.

I really would have liked the reason anyone would have done that to me though to have been for a good reason. Not this shit.

No. 1509411

I think I've reached some sort of a calm state that makes me feel indifference in a whole new way, it's not depression or anything the sort though. Today someone I used to consider a friend vented me about another friend of hers who had been very hard to reach and even ghosted her, she shared how shit she felt about it and how she didn't really have that much time because she was at a party bit she wanted to vent to me. She ghosted on me a few weeks ago after almost a year of not seeing each other, shee keeps telling me how she is such a lone wolf, so mysterious and has no friends, this person does not see the irony in this. I am perfectly okay being by myself, every once in a while it's fun to see people but these types of self absorbed, childish, totally unaware people I can do without. I should just be real and a bit mean about it but I have been just slightly ignoring and being very dry about it, need to work on that.

No. 1509414

>>1509411
ghosting here meaning not showing up to a meeting/pretending we had no plans at all, sorry if that's the wrong term

No. 1509415

>>1509407
It was waaayy slower in the few weeks after the christmas downtime and drama. Even the faster threads in /ot/ like dumbass shit would get one reply every few hours. It's speeding up now and beginning to recover, but I almost wish it was back to 10ish nonnies on lolcow at one time because there just weren't enough people for the constant infights we have now. And less nonnies posting allows anons time and space to reply to more posts and have better discussions which gives lolcow a better sense of community.

No. 1509424

>>1509370
Im sorry but isnt that the thread which is mostly for shitposting, hornyposting and retarded husbandoposting? I know I dont browse /g/ much but from the quick looksie I took from the current thread you all seem to be fighting about what could be summed up as
>whether or not shipping should be there
Which according to the thread rules it should
>baits
theres always been baits in every thread and there always been anons that fall for it. theyll learn to ignore it next time as do all anons eventually
>too horny posts
Like the thread has hornyposting in the title, so I would assume it should be there
>not horny posts
>the thread was supposed to be about love? about sharing the things we love about the men we love
Isnt there also another I love my husbando thread similar you could use on /g/? I don't really know the difference but the anons there should be more accepting maybe
Im no husbandofag myself as I view you guys as lonely women that want to escape reality and either wants to hurtfuck or comfortfuck your husbando and general hide your thread since I honestly dont really care about you guys but it will get better if you just report and ignore like everyone else

No. 1509431

>>1509424
On /g/ there's "How to Devote Yourself Completely To Your Husbando" which is even more autistic than the retard hornyposting thread love those nonnies but it's true and a bunch of specific threads like IRL husbandos, gnc husbandos, and robot husbandos(??). hornypost thread is most active

No. 1509432

>>1509370
If you like Rance or piss or violent shit there was never going to be any feeling of 'love' or 'community'.

No. 1509434

I'm trying to crochet this last little square for a project, but my hand is so uncomfortable because of how my hook digs into my hand. And my wrist is uncomfortable. I try to hold it different but it's so hard to get used to. Maybe I should just do hand exercises.

No. 1509437

>>1509431
>How to Devote Yourself Completely To Your Husbando, IRL husbandos, gnc husbandos, and robot husbandos
wow thats a lot more then I thought, I know of the weird smell thread and guess how anon act like irl thread in /m/ that are based on husbandos but like thats a lot. Im actually speechless
>>1509432
>piss or violent
That preference has actually been here for a long time, I remember the old sexual fantasy thread and more had it when I used to browse /g/ more back in the day. and other and weirder things too like that airplanefucker

No. 1509439

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My narcissistic coworker is coming back from her vacation and I fear it. I felt so much better without her. Someone who puts me down every day and jokes about things I have no influence on while still claiming to be my friend, liking me when we agree on something and immediately cutting conversations if I have the opposite view and giving me the cold treatment and saying "this conversation is pointless" or warning me that "we're going to have a fight if you continue". She's so incredibly two faced, constantly talking behind people's back and then playing super nice, she told me I should learn how to say what others want to hear while keeping my actual thoughts to myself, like she does. There were two new coworkers transferred to us from a different department, and they were our manager's colleagues. We all saw the double standards applied to them and us, like we got criticized for the things they were allowed to do, but someone like me was never talking behind their backs, meanwhile my narcissistic coworker was constantly calling them "bitches" etc. One time all of us were invited to the manager's office and we were asked why is the atmosphere so toxic and the manager wanted us to speak up. One girl and me said that we don't feel comfortable enough to talk about it in front of literally everyone and we know that certain people are at disadvantage here and it's not fair to ask them to speak up when it can get them into trouble. One of the newly transferred coworkers asked us if the atmosphere was ruined by them because they feel like it's their fault. Then immedietely my narcissistic coworker, the one who called them "bitches" and stuff, said "Of course not! I would say that the things got actually BETTER since you got here! I'm so so sorry that you felt this way! We greatly appreciate your work" I couldn't believe my ears. What a clown and a bootlicker. I feel like there are only two people, me included, who see how two faced she is. Everyone else loves her because she can be extremely nice, talkative, charismatic. Even I feel fooled often. I'm like "maybe I'm wrong? She's so nice now, maybe I was overthinking stuff". She really makes me question myself. But I started reading about narcissistic friends and narcissists in the workplace and how succesful they are because they know how to play social politics and they're charismatic, and she fits the bill. I even talked to my therapist about her and she also said she might have npd. I don't know how to protect myself. I wasn't like this when I met her. When she started working with us, I was the person she spent the most time with, she was gravitating towards me the most and I didn't know why. I just enjoyed being around someone who talks to me a lot, because I was always a loner I guess? But then being around her started to feel like something sucked the life energy out of me. Then I started noticing how two faced she is and her obsession with gossiping, then other things, like subtle ways she was putting me down. Now I really feel like shit around her. I also know I could never be this successful because I can't act and fake like her, and I'm not as confident, and it makes me feel like shit about myself. Someone like me could never get ahead in a corporate setting. Being against her also doesn't work because the manager loves her and I don't want to get into trouble. Fml

No. 1509446

>>1509437
Does anyone post in the husbando smell thread anymore? Most of these threads seem like they're small and don't get much activity

No. 1509447

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I feel like I'm not truly pushing myself with my art. I would have an idea, but while drawing it I start to have thoughs about how it's not creative enough, or how it's not filling the page enough, or how it looks too similar to other piece of art I saw. It's making me feel tired but no progress is being made.

No. 1509452

>>1509439
Most narcissists and bullies vacillate between extreme friendliness, sucking up, playing victim, and then conversely being petty, judgmental, meanspirited and cruel because it all centers around their own ego. Both cruelty and kindness are ways they can boost their ego because cruelty pushes others down while kindness also increases their social status and raises them up, so it’s all for the same goal. I’m >>1509234 and the asshole I know is similar to the one you know in a number of ways, and because of it I also doubted myself a lot (like “how can she really mean to be so consistently terrible and mean and evil when she also is so extremely sweet and pitiful?”) and took ages to detach from her. Unfortunately I think you won’t be free until you find another workplace because narcissists always find ways to make themselves seem justified, by playing nice enough so that everyone can’t just gang up on them and oust them. They ruin every place they go and can’t be truly discouraged or stopped, especially because no one wants to be the bad guy by telling the dickhead to fuck off when it seems like a grey area.

No. 1509459

>>1509446
I think there are just too many threads for the husbandos to choose from. its also a bit strange that the retarded horny/shit/husbandoposting thread is nearly up to eleven threads already compared to other threads that been there for years and threads that I always remembered as fast paced on /g/

No. 1509468

>>1509452
Sorry for your experience anon, it must've been tiresome. I'm glad you kinda got mentally free from that girl though. Now that you talked about it, it just got to me that my coworker doesn't even have any friends. Like, she's in her early 20s and she literally doesn't have friends and the only women she talks to are those at our job. If it wasn't for her boyfriend and parents, she would be totally alone. She said that she had many friends in highschool years and one best friend, but that best friend suddently stopped talking to her and she didn't know why. Well, now I can assume why… She also said that in her previous work she had a problem with one girl who claimed she was bullying her and bossing her around and she also didn't understand that allegation. I'm seeing a pattern here
Now she's kinda obsessed with creating a new group of friends with me and two other women. Before her vacation she announced to me she plans to go to a bar with the three of us and she wants me to come. The worst thing is I felt scared to refuse? So I basically didn't say anything, but I will find a reason not to go.
But yeah, you are right that I will only get free when I change the job. I can't do it right now but I hope I will manage to change it within a year

No. 1509478

was hoping this hot flush was just shame face from posting dumb today but i've got a bad fever ugh

No. 1509492

>>1509374
Any nonnies who live with a man can easily check if they're watching porn by looking at their router settings, it will show your overall internet history - ever request a phone/pc/tablet makes through your home WI-FI (so you can see if your bf visits lolcow, pornhub, 4chan, fetlife, etc, along with the date and time that the device makes that request).

No. 1509494

>>1509492
What if he uses mobile internet on his phone

No. 1509514

>>1509468
"Sorry, I don't drink."
Easiest solution to ever exist. Best of luck to you, nona.

No. 1509521

>>1509494
Find their passwords of their mobile account, you will see their data usage. Chances are they've attached it to their own wifi, though.

No. 1509524

>>1509514
I told her many times I don't like to drink because my alcohol tolerance is super low and I get nausea and headache after one drink, which is true, but it's like talking to a wall lmao. I will figure something out. Thank you anon!

No. 1509529

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At least half of men smell like pubes from touching their balls and leave that smell on everything they touch and I'm sick of it

No. 1509531

>>1509468
Yeah good call to find excuses to not become closer and tag along with her desired outings. Even her thinking you’re a homebody stick in the mud or whatever if you continue declining is far better than enduring going along with it. It can be tempting to give her the company she wants out of politeness or even because people like that can be so charismatic half the time, but standing your ground and knowing you are right to have noticed her bad behavior and bad patterns is the right call for sure.

No. 1509537

I don't know how to feel about my dad. I love him and he's smart and accomplished but he's an alcoholic and won't admit it. I look up to him but the alcohol abuse is so draining to all of my family yet nobody thinks it's a problem because Europe. He's a good man but I wish he'd quit his ways.

No. 1509540

I've been crushing hard on a skinny sickly long-haired mustached snakebites-wearing punk rock man (36!) and I find out he has a girlfriend and I'm super pissed because he's just my type and it's not fair.

No. 1509575

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>bf of 4 years leaves me for other woman
>new woman taunts me over this, shows up at my fucking house, generally is a smug arsehole and prick, rubbing salt in it at any chance
>he leaves her 4 weeks later for an e/bf
>she sadposts on ig mourning their 4 week relationship an entire 6 months after the fact (cringe)
>she really thought that shit would never happen to her only it did and took only 4 weeks
>if she’d have had some humility during the entire ordeal i’d have sympathy for her

what goes around comes around. the homewrecker gets homewrecked

why do women ALWAYS think they’re an exception to being mistreated by men with a history of abuse and infidelity?

same with all Goiters gfs they thinks it won’t happen to them because they’re ~so special~ and then get humbled in the most painful and humiliating way possible

No. 1509578

>>1509575
That thot MUST eat humble pie and sorry you had to deal with that awful bullshit.

No. 1509580

>>1509578
it was fucking horrible but i’m so glad she got what was coming to her

why do women ALWAYS think they’re an exception to being mistreated by men with a history of abuse and infidelity?

it maddens me that men like jonny depp and jonny craig always finds a new victim who thinks theyre an exception

it’s the same with women who go after men who cheat with them. you think it won’t happen to u because you’re… special? ….better than other women?

No. 1509582

>>1509580
Because they’re pick men who think the way a man treats a woman is solely on the woman’s value and not how he is as a person. They need external validation to thrive and think that if some shit heard scrote treats her better initially then that somehow means she’s better than all of the other poor woman the loser hurt.

No. 1509596

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I'm grinding relationships in FE and am not having fun. Niles you stupid piece of shit stop dying and get it on with Odin.

No. 1509606

My vent is that I thought people were finally done caring about the Jenner/Kardashians and seeing that posted here made me feel weird and depressed like we'll never get through this era of extreme superficiality and low-quality-everything. I just want a new cycle of celebrities who aren't fucked up mentally or botched yet and talented or fascinating people to be celebrities who I actually find interesting enough to gossip about. Non-cape/magic/alternate reality/tech-startup tv/movies, well-made and designed clothing vs cheap/synthetic clothing designed by current "luxury fashion" brands (or any brand lbr) and music has been especially boring for a long time too. We don't seem to ever move on from things anymore. Imagine if people in the 90s embraced Vanilla Ice as a gangsta rapper and continued to follow and support him that way. Hopefully these years will be identifiable and cringey as the early aughts but I think will be much, much worse because of the lip injections, BBL and general tackiness of it all

No. 1509612

>>1509575
fake and gay, i saw this on 4chan hours ago

No. 1509615

>>1509575
My cousin was like this and prouded herself on being the young hot other woman and got pregnant with a 50 something yr old at 18-19, whom had a history of leaving baby mamas and being a misogynist. Guess who ended up a broke single mom at 20

No. 1509616

>>1509615
Are we supposed to make fun of the teenager groomed by a 50-something man?

No. 1509617

I didn't mean to post the vanilla ice video again kek the thumbnail works though

No. 1509618

>>1509615
>>1509616
Yeah that's sad. I mean she's not a child nor probably a great person but she was young and naive. Fuck scrotes and fuck that whole situation. I feel bad for the other women in his life, not that they have no agency but that's shitty.

No. 1509619

>>1509617
anon I lol'd

No. 1509621

>>1509616
>>1509617
Thank you so much for making this mistake, I can't stop laughing.

No. 1509622

>>1509612
i posted jt there but changed the genders bcus 4chan is hostile to women

No. 1509623

>>1509616
ehh i mean, she’s an adult and knew his history and still took a chance on him, really whet outcome did she expect?

No. 1509626

>>1509575
i will never be one of those women who ‘warns’ the new woman about my dangerous ex.

it’s not that i don’t care but at the end of the day, they’re not gonna take the advice and she’ll probably tell him, they’ll laugh at me, and she will think she’s special and somehow better than me up until history reshits itself

i love women but we have no solidarity and most women do not heed warnings about men and think they have a magical pussy that will ‘change’ an abusive. cheater

No. 1509627

I really want to cry. I think she loves her. But I'm still in love with her. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do…

No. 1509633

>>1509627
same

nothing u can do except block and disengage

No. 1509636

All I want is to buy a bunch of cute used clothing or sweets online but instead I'm majorly saving up to move out of this shithole apartment. Also dear lord I want to sell some used clothing but I'm not dealing with another tax form. Sick of paying money to pedophiles.

No. 1509645

>>1509636
you don’t have to pay taxes on selling stuff…

No. 1509649

There’s so much I want to do but so little time. I spent years being too sick to do anything and lately I’m healthier and my body has given me so much energy back but now I’m faced with a backlog. and now that I am healthy again, I can work, and have to, because the time I was sick financially ruined us. I want to do all the things I’ve dreamed of when I was sick but I feel like I can’t. I wake up and I do nothing but things but there still isn’t time. And to cut into that time by working is even less time… and I fear it will exhaust me so that the time I have left with my day can’t be used as productively as it is now. I won’t even have the money to do what I want at the end of the day, it’s all going to go to debt. Things feel so bleak. I know this is a reality for everyone but it’s a hard reality to be re-entering after so long. It feels like there is little to look forward to, I don’t know what to do. I feel like no longer being sick hasn’t given me any more freedom at all. I’m not trying to depression post, I don’t feel miserably. I just feel like I’ve gained nothing, and stayed in the same place but somehow more tired than before.

No. 1509666

>>1509616
At what point do we stop infantizing 18-19 yr olds? At 18 I knew damn well to not be stupid enough to fuck around with a 50 yr old deadbeat dad

No. 1509669

I can't believe the website known for doxxing teenagers over shoplifting lipgloss wants to cry about how an 18 yr old getting pregnant with an old deadbeat dad and being proud of it somehow makes her a victim of grooming

No. 1509674

>>1509616
Don't even bother anon kek. Some anons are dense to this stuff. I still remember an infight in one of the generation/millenial/zoomer threads where anons were calling underage girls whores for being with/being groomed by older men (but of course, the old men don't get any insults like that). Whenever I see 18/19 year olds with older men I always doubt that there wasn't something going on before she was a legal adult.

No. 1509681

>>1509674
Idk why anons forget were all once 18-19 yr old girls before and know how they think, they aren't a different species and most of us aren't exactly far off from that age anyway. Also on social media where you can see people's profile, I notice it's usually only other 18-19 yr old girls calling out stupid behavior in 18-19 yr olds. They arent retarded children and there's very little and rare situations where they were raised in a cult or something with no access to the outside world to understand basic manipulation tactics or the fact that it's wrong to mess around with men in relationships. It's kinda gross to consider homewreckers, who pride themselves on being homewreckers, victims when they were having a blast trying to live a Lana del Rey song irl until consequences caught up with them.

No. 1509689

>>1509681
>>1509681
this this and this

No. 1509691

>>1509681
Predatory middle-aged men thank you for doing the work for them.

No. 1509708

>>1509636
You won't pay taxes because you'll be selling them for less than what you paid, right?

No. 1509711

>>1509691
You're the one doing work for them. Actively speaking about the consequences of fucking around with trashy older men is exactly is what is stopping more and more young girls each day from doing such. Turning them into poor little groomed victims just encourages their mindsets and making them think they were too young to know any better. It's ridiculous, a line needs to be drawn. If you keep shutting down people for talking about women they know who faced shitty consequences for fucking around with older men what will they really learn?

No. 1509715

>>1509711
I really wish there was some sort of archive or database that women could post their experiences about horrible, shit-for-brains men who you KNOW would make an unsuitable partner for anyone on earth so that women who get into new relationships can vet them, sort of like a criminal registry.

No. 1509719

>>1509717
She's not talking about that. SHe's talking about retarded young women who pride themselves on being homewrecking whores then being surprised when their whoremongering, cheating bastard bf subjects them to the same fate as the previous woman.

No. 1509720

>>1509711
>shutting down people for talking about women they know who faced shitty consequences for fucking around with older men what will they really learn
That wasn't the issue and you know it. Arguing about this is useless because you won't see the point either way and I can tell you just want a fight, but no I'm not going to completely blame young girls for being in relationships with older men, especially if the girl is underage No I'm not saying 18 is underage. I'm speaking in general. But most older men who were/are with 18 year olds were with looking at them before they turned of age anyway, and I'm especially not going to do that while basically absolving the men of any blame. Again, predatory thank you for the work you do for them by pointing the finger everywhere but them.

No. 1509724

>>1509720
this has nothing to do with nonnas post youre just making this about some kind of event that happened in ur life even tho it doesnt correlate to what is being debated

No. 1509728

>>1509724
It has to do with what I said and the post I replied to here, >>1509674 . And no, this has nothing to do with my personal life, nice try.

No. 1509730

Why do some old women here hate groomed teenagers? I'm not young myself but I honestly feel bad for them and every old woman I've known irl also feels bad for young girls who get tricked by old men with the exception of some old ugly hags who doormat for men even though the men they worship tend to be incels who think they're expired goods.

No. 1509732

>>1509674
I feel like some anons here are delusional "femcels". I saw one anon say women are expired after 25 and can't even get one night stands after that age on /g/. I feel like they're ugly unlikable women who have bought into incel ideology and instead of realizing their weird personality(like how they're calling underage girls whores for being raped or taken advantage of, keep repeating women expire, etc) is why their romantic life is dead, they keep blaming other younger and in this case literally underage women for stealing their potential men.

No. 1509743

>>1509730
I'm the anon who posted
>>1509615
And I assume you're talking about me. Me and my cousin are the same age, it was so eye rolling seeing her open her mouth about how she was the young hot side hoe and how dudes current wife is fat, ugly, etc. She faced the consequences of getting with shitty men. Do I hate groomed teens/don't think men shouldn't be accountable? Of course not. But why do some of you jump to the most extreme conclusions for even just describing the whole situation? I didn't even mention who's blame for what, it was just not surprising to me history repeated itself

No. 1509744

>>1509732
Can you point out what posts you're talking about specifically?

No. 1509746

>>1509743
Anon I wasn't talking about you, I was talking about the anons who called underage girls whores and so on.
>>1509744
It was on /g/ dating app thread if you're interested in looking but anon was mostly saying as a woman it's over after 25 and you're useless even as a one night stand, kek.

No. 1509747

>>1509720
The girl I am talking about in question met him at a job the required her to be 18 to work and got pregnant at 19, so definitely didn't meet him underaged. There are specific situations where girls are groomed from the moment they are underaged be I am not talking about those situations and typically the Lana del rey-esque girls purposely go for married men and have short term relationships with them if not put in a good bit of the initiation. There's a lot of cases where the girls are genuinely victims of heavy manipulation starting from when they're very young but typically with the homewrecker/old man lover type it's not the case since those girls usually try to cope by convincing themselves their relationship is normal and happy, a groomed girl wouldnt take pride in short, dysfunctional flings

No. 1509751

Okay so I got in a fucking car accident today on my way to work so I was late. These assholes sent me home early for being late even though my car was in the ditch lmfao. I was 10 minutes late. God I hate my job I’m quitting this week fuck this bullshit.

No. 1509756

>>1509747
Nta but I've seen a lot of groomed girls, even young at 13-14 brag about having 25+yo boyfriends so it doesn't make sense.

No. 1509758

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Don't get me.wrong, I actually agree that Celibricows should be saged for non-milk but how's anyone supposed to know that's an actual rule when the reigning rule is you don't have to sage in /ot/? Are farmhands just making up rules on the spot and expect all users to just magically know?

No. 1509761

>>1509756
What I mean is a truly groomed girl would justify her relationship, be more long term, etc. Actual groomed children are in the mindset that what is going on with them is good
i hate that I know this but I worked at a home for abused children, kids as young as 4-15 in situations of grooming see their predator relationship as a romantic/good thing and the trauma doesn't come in until later when their brain processes how fucked up the experience was

Someone who is older and is taking pride in doing something they know is wrong isn't being groomed and it's not fair to women who actually have been groomed since they were a child to be grouped with the same people as 18 yr olds who wanted to fuck around with an old married man just because it's ~aesthetic~

No. 1509762

>>1509747
>I am not talking about those situations
Well I was. My original post wasn't even strictly about that other post.

No. 1509767

>>1509762
Well it sucks there are other girls groomed but it's gross to group actual victims of manipulation together with young adult women who get off on the idea of being the better younger girl

No. 1509768

>>1509730
I'm wondering the same. Either they're moids in disguise (especially those who say women expire at x age), or just bitter and have their own issues. I suppose some are just tired of both the groomers and victims calling them ugly, old and jealous when they're only trying to help, but the victims are usually young and easily influenced.

My vent is that I guess I just don't understand why anyone would want attention from an older guy. If they're not outright creepy and abusive, they certainly will be eventually.
I read an interview with Dick Van Dyke a few days ago, the interviewer asked him how he has so much energy despite being 97. He said it helps that he has a wife half his age that takes care of him.
I'm also wondering how those much younger girls/women never worry that they'll be next on the chopping block once they get too old, or that their grandpafriend loves their age and naïveté and not them in particular. They could be any other girl fitting the criteria and he wouldn't care.

Idk there just isn't a lot in it for the girl, you should be scared that you're pissing away your career, youth and life to play a hooters nurse to some old man who can't even get it up. Most of them are deadbeats who aren't even rich.

No. 1509769

>>1509364
People don’t really care what noobs are doing, I promise. My only thought when I see newbies is “aw a newbie” and when I see a new girl around repeatedly coming in making progress then I just feel a kind of protective, encouraging feeling and affection when I notice her doing her workouts in my peripherals. Since we all were new once too, experienced gym rats tend to be internally rooting for anyone who comes in regularly over time, but they don’t care about anyone they don’t recognize at all really.
I was once a lost weak fuck at my gym and now I’m probably the strongest woman there and get new girls coming up fawning over how much I’m lifting. But no one really bugged me the whole time except some creepy men which is typical. People are too focused on their own workout and progress and only care if they see someone breaking their spine or lifting a really impressive amount. Mostly people just think like “guy nearby is doing deadlifts. Me too today” “oh that’s that big guy. He overhead presses a lot.” “I’ve seen that guy once before.” “the pilates girl is here today, I see her a lot” stuff like that.

No. 1509770

>>1509768
Def moids. Even average to ugly older women will admit it's not hard to find men in your 30s, 40s or even your 50s. IMO it's typically easier since men are more happy to nitpick your looks/play weird manipulative games when you're younger, when you're older you attract more mature men who don't expect you to look like hentai characters, compare you to exes or play the whole "I never text you but always respond .5 seconds when I decide to" type shit. It's so fucking weird how men will abuse the absolute shit out of young girls then try to convince us they're better after just screaming how mid every young girl that crosses their path is

No. 1509774

>>1509758
Completely made up on the spot. There are no celebricow thread specific rules listed under /ot/ rules. OPs have mentioned bannable offenses like repetitive nitpicks and weight sperging but never anything about saging. Can't find anything in meta about it either.

No. 1509783

>spend like 2-3 hours putting together squares to make a bag
>finally finish and I arranged/sewed the swuares together wrong so now I have to undo everything
I'm going to fucking kill myself. This is so fucking frustrating and I've already spent so much time on this. Wasting so much time making a bag that's technically really an experiment since I don't know if I will like it. Fuck all of this and fuck the stupid bitches who made this little retarded pattern. And then people will be in the comments/replies of shitty patterns like "thanks, this was so easy to follow" not it wasn't bitch! Why can't I do anything wright? Actually, it's not even completely me. I'm going to try this one more time, and if it doesn't work I'm showering and going to bed. Done with the BS.

No. 1509784

>>1509207
There's literally nothing wrong with generalizing men because the generalizations are actually true.

No. 1509791

>>1509207
Basically to summarize your post
>Not my nigel
Boring

>We shit bricks when men do it to us but oh boy do nonnies love to do it to men

Because unlike moids unfounded, and unjustified generalizations of women, womens generalizations of moids are correct and justified. If women were responsible for 97% of rapes I'd agree with you. If 1 in every 4 man was sexually abused I'd agree with you. If the source of all crime in the world was greatly disproportionately represented by women and not men as victims of said women I'd agree.

>But your doom posting isn't going to lessen your misery

Who says everyone here complaining about moids are depressed and living in misery lel. Statistically heterosexual and bisexual women have higher quality of life when single, while moids do not.

>If your idea of feminism and raising women up is to belittle, shame and devalue other women including yourself, it isn't fucking feminism.

Scathing review. Just like you are belittling, shaming and seek to devalue women who aren't accepting of moids shit as being "miserable", consider the language you're using here to describe these hypothetical women in your mind.

>you don't just accept that you're going to be alone forever and become fine with it if your desire was to be with a partner in the first place.

Nah, sometimes some women do. Some people prefer to be alone and they are allowed to do so, some women prefer to be with other women romantically, you seething about them not "settling down" for a moid has little impact on them and only seeks to reinforce shitty moid hierarchies. The absolute paragon of feminism you are.

No. 1509797

>>1509761
Nta, but why do you think only children can be victims? It kinda seems like you think that victims (or someone you can sympathize with) should be necessarrily "perfect" in a sense that they're pure and innocent, don't have any flaws and demons of their own. Everyone can be delusional and manipulated, and people don't usually like to see themselves as victims so they cope and put on a facade. Moreover, 18-19-year-olds are still very young and inexperienced, have unresolved (daddy) issues, have low self-esteem and poor boundaries, might have mental issues, might have toxic families they want to get away from (I feel like it's a common reason why young girls get pregnant and marry some assholes), etc. No one becomes mature overnight just because of age. And those older guys that date them know full well what they're doing, they know these girls are still naive and can't see through their bullshit, they're convenient for them. Yes, these girls aren't literal children, but there's still a great power imbalance and older men use it to their advantage.

>>1509732
Nta, I disagree they're necessarrily "ugly" and aren't in a relationship because they're unlikable (not only nice people can date or have sex) but it does seem like they're very young themselves and haven't grown out of black-and-white thinking and nlogism. They surely are inexperienced tho and most probably sexually frustrated hence the slutshaming. Although you know, I remembered some older women who are just like that and some of them are even married (which doesn't mean they aren't sexually frustrated though). I guess it's just good old internalized misogyny.

No. 1509816

I genuinely hate going outside and interact with moids. They are everywhere. It's a beautiful day out, i petted the neighbors cat, sun is shining, I get on the train and there's two hideously disgusting moids staring and just smell so bad. Why are they allowed to be part of modern society? Send them to a concentration camp. They are so fucking ugly and a ticking time bomb harassing, staring, and just wrecking havoc with their presence. Moids ruin everyone's day. There is no reason for why majority of them exist especially the ugly ones.

No. 1509817

>>1509797
Being a victim isn't a free pass to not hold any accountability. Men going for much younger girls are creepy for sure and the girls are victims to said creepy men. If you're 18/19 and getting off to the idea of stealing some old creep from his wife and is shocked that you ended up just like his wife it's hard to feel bad or not hold any blame at all. There are situations where adult women are manipulated but at that point you should've known not to fuck with an old guy you know is a deadbeat dad. I also feel like if we give more real examples of how young women having relationships with much older men ended up blowing up in their face, it will steer young girls away. Instead of the constant disgusting shit they're always being fed by the media

No. 1509836

am i mean for ghosting my new bf? we got together in october, but then he committed several crimes, as listed: nearly forgot our 1st date bc he woke up at 3 pm, almost forgot another date bc he woke up at 4pm, gifted me a pre owned sports bra for christmas, would constantly call me “baby, cutiepie, etc” while simultaneously never asking questions about myself and 24/7 forcing me to listen to HIS stupid rap music (drake, asap rocky or whatever) forcing me to watch HIS stupid favorite youtube videos (shit that you’d find on the trending tab) and he also pines after his mom who is obviously a narcissistic abusive personality. he doesn’t care about art or anything deeper than wiz khalifa’s top hits and personally my whole life has been dedicated to creativity and i work in a creative job. he did nothing all day besides sit on his computer on discord and wanted me to “pwease call :3” even tho he lived 15 mins away. i lied to him and said i have a secret klonopin addiction and i’m going away to rehab so i can’t be in a relationship and i haven’t texted him in weeks. he’s sent me selfies of himself and some texts like “i miss you..i believe in you<3” he is such a giant fag and i wish he’d fuck off forever and realize i never wanna be with him. should i just block him? it’s worrying bc he knows where i live

No. 1509848

>>1509836
You should actually send him a text calling him a massive fag and telling him you never want to see him again and then wait up for a few nights with a gun in case he decides to murder you. He sounds like a massive fag, so I doubt he would, but just in case. This is my first time on this website, are there actually women in this thread?

No. 1509858

>>1509816
i fucking hate going to an event and it be infested with scrotes. even the women at the party/event would be with their moids. i went to make friends and socialize with smart and interesting people, instead i spent more than half of the time trying to avoid stupid scrotes who think they deserve to waste my time. as i am making my way talking to a woman a moid comes in between us at any moment. old, unkempt, fat, malding, boring dumbass moids just insert themselves into my space and feel entitled to talk about their attraction to you or even to hit on you. i tried going to events dressed masculine and with my hair ugly as fuck, and it did not help, in fact moids acted worse because they thought i was younger.

No. 1509869

I have an issue where I pass out sometimes. I was at the salon, and the hairdresser is super sweet. But after I passed out in her chair and she woke me up (it was very undramatic and calm), she spent the remaining like 2 hours of my appointment acting almost grossed out by me. Like it was obvious she didn't want to touch me. It was so embarrassing, and I wonder if she thought I was a drug addict or something. She straight up acted as if I'd shit myself in her chair.

No. 1509875

>>1509869
I have that issue too, now less than before though. I used to stay at home as much as possible because of this when growing up and until halfway through uni. Fuck that hairdresser, it's not your fault, I'm glad you're doing ok right now.

No. 1509877

My mom and me sometimes plan to go window shopping in the city but multiple times she's just gone without me because she thought it was embarrassing to be seen with me because my shoes were scuffed or I wore a dark red lipstick she didn't like. We usually plan it more than a week ahead and then she leaves me at home because she doesn't like how I look and even if I change my shoes/makeup/whatever she's still moody for the rest of the day. If I get a new piece of clothing and she doesn't like it (not skimpy or ridiculous but athleisure like adidas) she'll just throw it away once it's in the washing bin. I love her but she's so weirdly narrow-minded and judges people by their looks, I can't deal with it sometimes. She tells me all the time I'm way too fat even though she's close to underweight and my weight is normal/healthy. It's to the point that I don't even spend time with her anymore like we used to because I'll know it will be a shitfest. She knows I paid with my own money for the clothes she throws away (I have a job but still live at home), she doesn't want to be seen with me, she's obsessed with not looking 'poor'. Is this fucked up or am I just bratty?

No. 1509880

>>1509374
Anon will be back in a few months or years when her scrote does something fucked up crying how she didn’t see it coming

No. 1509882

>>1509880
heh lol

No. 1509897

>>1509869
Hairdresser sounds like an asshole, a normal person would think you fell asleep because hair appointments are boring or something, or they’d be worried and ask if you’re okay, not act disgusted. In the future though maybe you can tell people like that you have hypochondria and maybe they’ll understand that.

No. 1509900

I know what responses I'll likely get for this but anyway. My ex has begun to ice me out since getting a new girlfriend and it's so disappointing because I really thought he wouldn't. We moved to a new country together and broke up after about a year because it was clear we weren't long term compatible. Since then we've been friends longer than we were together, we both have a hard time making new friends and we'd hang out every weekend or two, and it was purely platonic (one of the big things was his lack of sex drive so it was definitely mutual). When I started to date someone new (now also broken up with), even though it was easy to get swept up in it I made sure to make time for my friend.

So when he said he got a gf after 3 years of being single I was super happy for him, then remembered we were in fact exes and all the (understandable) stigma that comes with that. So I suggested we all hang out at some point because I wanted to get to know her, be friendly and maybe friends etc and he said it was too soon. Understandable, I guess. Then, I found out he mentioned having an ex as a friend but fudged the details. He brought it up when I asked to hang out at some point only because she asked to meet on the same day, which surprised his gf?

Turns out she didn't know we actually hung out in person. Never mind that we went on holiday last summer, that I stayed at his place for a week because of an autumn event nearby his or that we hung out near every weekend. Like he really played it down to the point that if I were his gf I'd view it as a lie. What I don't get is why he fumbled it so hard. If he were to be genuine about it I think there'd be no issue, but instead he chooses to keep us separate and trickle truth her so there's like the maximum level of distrust from her and it's jeopardising our IMO quality friendship. It's a shit and senseless thing to do to someone who supported you and who you supported. This vent was triggered because he said he was going to a local event with his gf and I said I'd be there too (coincidentally) and he hasn't responded. Where a friend might, you know, say something?

No. 1509904

As Im getting older I realized the only acceptable form of communication with men is no communication. I could’ve saved myself so much embarrassment and pain by just blocking scrotes who are making me sad or uncomfortable.

No. 1509909

i have no sense of smell and ive never told anyone about this because im embarrassed about it. i cant remember ever being able to smell and i first noticed that im not able to smell anything in 3rd grade, when my classmates and i were put in groups, got blindfolded and we had to guess what kind of fruit or vegetable we are smelling and i was the only one who wasnt able to guess it. in that moment i fully realized that i cant smell… its embarrassing because i cant ever smell if i for example smell bad. so i constantly have to ask others. idk it feels so weird not being able to smell… one of my only wishes is to be able to smell nice things like flowers or perfumes

No. 1509915

>>1509909
As someone who can smell, flowers & perfumes smell extremely overwhelming to me. Other people tend to love them but my lungs seize up and I have to take an inhaler due to the strength of it. I don't think a single flower smells good to me, but some perfumes are subtle and nice.

No. 1509924

>>1509900
why do you want to stay friends with your ex!? that benefits him and not you. freak

No. 1509928

>>1509900
He was using you as his source of female attention until he found a gf. Now that he has an actual gf he no longer sees any use for you. Kek at you for thinking it’s possible to be friends with a scrote, you played yourself.

No. 1509932

>>1509928
Sadly this is true. He was using you like a pseudo romantic partner until he found a woman he actually felt sexually attracted to.

No. 1509935

>>1509924
>>1509928
kek you bitches, fair point though.

No. 1509939

>>1509935
Just block him. When this relationship ends or they start arguing he’s going to come back to you.

No. 1509943

I hate my downstairs neighbor so much. List of things he has done since moving in:
>plays gospel or r&b loud af at ungodly hours while singing along
>smokes so much he sets off the smoke alarms constantly but he doesn’t turn them off, he just opens a door until it clears out, so the alarm goes off for at least 20 mins, including at 3 am
>yells at people on the phone for hours and sometimes goes outside and starts yelling unhinged shit to the entire neighborhood
>glares at everyone and voices his displeasure by slamming doors or spitting as they walk by
>stays up for days on end being a nuisance
>always home because he’s a fat, useless, jobless moid
>got a pitbull puppy he abuses and lets bark for hours on end, never takes her for walks
>trains the puppy to be a vicious attack dog because he thinks he needs to guard his worthless shit

He’s been a lot quieter lately because he’s gotten so many noise complaints, he’s being threatened with eviction. I wish they would just kick him out, he’s a dangerous fucking psycho and I worry he or his dog will attack me

No. 1509952

>>1509943
>abused pitbull
>abusive moid
Match made in hell. Your neighbor should die.

No. 1509975

long because i have a meltdown and i'm going to kms anyway.
10 years ago in high school i started learning programming. requirements for web dev jobs weren't high, i could get a job but everyone went to uni so i decided to go too. my mental health was rock bottom then. i'd go to classes and then isolate myself at home. i've also always had issues with finishing projects - overwhelmed leaving them until deadline and then do them in panic.
so despite there being a uni close i wanted to move to a different city so that i'm forced to meet new people and get my shit together. but when i brought it up to my mom she went 'and who will be taking care of me'. we had some family issues and so i thought she needed me close so i stayed. months passed, i applied for uni and then she tells me suddenly she bought a small at for herself. we didn't have money, def not for a flat and i thought she'd discuss smth like that with me but apparently not.
during first semester i didn't finish all my projects. i decided it's better to drop out than to repeat. i wanted to apply again and in the meanwhile get a job. of course i didn't get a job and just neeted my life away for months and lost a year compared to my peers.
enrolled again.
1 year in mom moves out. my mental health was a mess but now being left alone, taking care of the house and having no significant human interraction..not sure how i functioned. i barely remember anything from uni. at some point i did some dumb impulsive bravery and i switched from programming to another program.stopped coding then.
2 semesters left for the bsci and covid hits and we go online. i do well in classes but me being me i postpone contacting the professor i chose for my bachelor thesis. it doesn't help the topic is smth i had 0 interest in. i tried writing the paper multiple times but every time i got overwhelmed. months pass, the deadline ends, i get a letter from uni saying i got kicked out for not submitting the thesis, 3.5 years (+the one i wasted) into the drain. i forgot coding, technologies changed, the industry filled up and ive to start from scratch. kids who were copying my homework,barely passed n leeched off of me in group projects are just fine. i see them looking like people who earn well. while i'm neeting at home going through circle of suicidal thoughts > 'no. i'm going to finish this course and apply for jobs and start life over' > 'i'm a fucking loser i don't understand anything' > back to suicide for over 2 years. i hate myself im the most pathetic person on earth idk what to do idk where the time went i'm done with myself again and i should stop being a problem for everyone and just die

No. 1509976

>friend moved away to be near a different state to work her dream job and be with her friends who lived there
>touch and go communication
>things aren't quite the same as before but it's ok cause she seems happy and is busy between work/friends
>she messaged me to ask if she wanted us to talk 'before' or 'after' 5pm on a specific day
>I say after 5 because my ass interprets this to mean we can talk anytime after 5
>day arrives
>I accidentally take a nap from 5-8
>remember we were supposed to chat so I hop on and message her to see if she wants to talk still
>she does not respond
>next morning
>she still has not even read my message even though she is online
>figure she might be busy or maybe even annoyed, but if she wanted to chat after all my message is still there for her to pick up on
>mentally ill bf says I am being a shitty friend and how could I have been dumb enough to think she meant anytime after 5 and not a bit after 5?
>even though he napped with me and knows the reason why I clearly didn't make it on at 5
>says I should message her more bc apparently I have no real friends so I really need to chase her
>he keeps lecturing me and making me feel way worse about it than what's probably warranted

I mean I did reach out whereas she didn't? If 5 was such a hard deadline then why didn't she call or message me at that time, or at least reply to what I'd left?
And no offense to my friend, but she likely just wanted to drop some hot goss on me (like letting me know last time we chat that a mutual friend who worked for me was gonna quit my company), and whatever drama that she was gonna talk about likely dropped so now there is no reason to have a chat with me anymore.
Like…I know her better than my bf does.

He's making me feel like a crazy and bad person.

No. 1509981

>>1509975
Go on Google or LinkedIn or coursera. Take the data and coding courses there. Speed run them at a pace your comfortable and can afford. Relearn the code and collect certs from them like Pokémon cards. Attach everyone to your job profile. Put your uni on there and end with a gap year. Degree in progress. If they ask why you paused. Say your taking care of your mother. Play the caring sympathy card.
Are you on the spectrum? I can tell you how I got through shit like thesis and finals if you want.
The game isn’t over anon. The jenga tower just fell over rebuild it. You can do it. Have a shower. Have a cry and then put on your adult pants and get that shit done. Half way in is half way out.

No. 1509985

>>1509975
There are plenty of pathetic people working shit jobs in the world, with no good career or skills or qualifications, and they don’t talk about themselves like you are or catastrophize this much. What you need to do is seriously reassess your image of what you deserve in life compared with how you actually act. You’re envious that people who put in less work than you now have good jobs, but it’s you who skipped out on major projects and didn’t complete your degree requirements, when you should have known you wouldn’t be given special treatment as if you’re the main character of earth. So will you work to make up for your failures and attain the success you want, or accept your lot as a mediocre person like many others, or cry that it’s all over and pointless because the world isn’t given to you as someone who hasn’t even earned it? You probably think self hatred and misfortune drives you being a NEET, but it’s actually comfort. Not completing your thesis was more comfortable, lying in bed being upset is more comfortable, imagining giving up is comfortable. If you end your life as someone pathetic after squandering opportunities it’s because you really wanted to. Fight if you want what others have.

No. 1509987

A lolcow from my country has been mentioned in a very serious book about racism against north african women in France and I don't know whether I should laugh or cry because it just mentioned that this faggot isn't just known here but also had very positive news article in American newspaper despite him being a hardcore racist and sexist piece of shit who recently accused a murdered teenage girls of being in love and having sex with her stalker/murderer and calling her a whore online? Journalism truly is dead.

No. 1509998

>>1509730
I'm 90s/vanilla ice chan and defended the groomed teen right away, most older women I know would be horrified by that story. The idea we wouldn't sounds like repackaged "personal responsibility". Which is insane to expect of a hormonal teenager being groomed by a someone half a century old, who has a confirmed history of manipulating and impregnating teenage girls … ????

I'm very concerned if younger chans believe or are experiencing shame instead of guidance from older women about scrotes. That sounds like centuries-old moid propaganda/ape-like binary thinking, I hoped places like fds and ovarit would create a new and protective hive mind for us

If older women are becoming feral in this way, which ones? What about women who aren't competing over men for resources, who have jobs and homes?

No. 1510008

Boyfriend's grandfather passed away, and I cried so much, it's insane. Never had any growing up, so I got hit with a major wave of sadness.

No. 1510011

>>1509981
i've been trying to do courses those 2 years but everytime i get stuck i get into a panic mode. i restarted so many times at this point i just think its hopeless, i have a brainrot. today i had a good morning and decided to go look at job offers to get motivated to start again and there is nothing at the entry/junior level. so even if i wanted to apply i have nowhere to

>>1509985
>plenty of pathetic people working
well then i guess they are better than me. i've always been a failure from a problem home, unable to keep any relationship going, family hating me for just being born. the only good thing about me was being a smart kid parents could brag about and being the first person in my family to go to uni but it turned out that i'm nothing but a weak dumb bitch. i wasn't lazy, i wasn't slacking off, i had above average grades, i put a lot of effort into studying and being stressed out with projects was anything but comfort but you are right and i know it's my fault i'm like this. i'm trying and i'm fighting but i'm ultimately too weak and pathetic. it's been years and if nothing worked nothing will

No. 1510016

>>1509976
your boyfriend has no business making you feel this shitty over such a small mistake. don’t let him treat you like that. tell him to full on stop and try to explain. very weird he’s taking your friend’s side on this so hard.

No. 1510047

>>1509976
You and your friend had a miscommunication, it's not a big deal. Your bf is being unfair.

No. 1510048

>>1509529
i can’t stop laughing at the pic you attached. i fucking hate when i see a man adjust himself in public. have some fucking decency you disgusting animals

No. 1510055

>>1509976
I mean its not like you made plans to go somewhere together and then stood her up while she waited for you in public. Its a missed chat. Unless you have a track record of being flakey all the time.. this isn't major. You can only wait to see what she says but your bf isn't helping by talking down to you.
>says I should message her more bc apparently I have no real friends so I really need to chase her
Having few friends doesn't mean you have to shit yourself and grovel any time a lil thing comes up. Does he just want you to have a low view of yourself?

No. 1510065

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So I used to have a problem crushing on fictional characters to the point where I didn't care about real life romantic relationships. That was as a teen. Whatever. But I'm an adult woman now damn it. And I've known about this character for a while without much problem, it's a very well known and old stereotypical superhero IP. So why do I keep having retarded ideas at the back of my head of this person coming to save me? And why does it depress me so much? Before anyone says I should talk to someone, I'd never say this to anyone without anon even if you paid me. Like yeah wonder woman and all the rest are hot, who hasn't said that before. And who doesn't indulge in being a yume sometimes. But I'm embarrassed to be THIS emotionally moved by some drawn coloured lines, by some fictional person in ugly spandex, granting my childish wish of coming to help me and making everything okay. Like moved to the point of tears kek. Maybe I'm just lonely. But something tells me just jumping on bumble won't fix this.

No. 1510076

>>1509207
Based. I see you, anon.

No. 1510084

>>1510065
lol this is me with Yasha from RG Veda. I feel like I looked at a picture of him at exactly the right moment and had the exact right daydream that was so appealing it imprinted itself in my mind permanently. Similar safety fantasy, genuinely kinda tragic it can't be real. It's retarded but the women of CLAMP came up with a male personality that was so unlike what I was familiar with it blew my mind. I had a recurring dream about it for a couple years. This was over 15 years ago. I guess sometimes things stick in our heads like that. Shrug.

No. 1510091

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Sucks when I inevitably let my obsession with something consume my empty existence for a year or two & end up buying a bunch of merch within that time. Only to wake up one morning and realize I no longer get the escapist dopamine from the series like I used to and now I'm left with a bunch of meaningless objects. Perhaps someday I'll learn …

No. 1510093

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hey nonnas does anyone else have an emotional/probably bipolar dad? how do you deal with that? my dad is in another one of his moods after being in a great mood last week now he just mopes around all day scoffing and huffing I'm not sure if he wants us to talk to him or if he wants to be left alone… Absolutely zero communication he doesn't say a single word it's all silence so like what am I supposed to do

No. 1510096

>>1510093
talk to him like you normally would (meaning dont avoid him or give him the silent treatment, ask him normal questions or communicate how you always do) and otherwise ignore his huffs. once he actually articulates something then maybe you can choose whether it's worth addressing but if he's just moping around, let him and detatch yourself.

No. 1510104

>>1510084
>Similar safety fantasy, genuinely kinda tragic it can't be real

Ok so at least if I'm insane, there are others kek. On a more serious note yeah it is kind of sad to seek a sense safety from something imaginary knowing it'll never come true, but if I don't lose sight of reality in the process maybe this won't become as unhealthy as I used to let it get as a kid? However healthy having an imaginary crush is anyways… Thanks for empathising nona.

No. 1510107

>>1509769
Thank you for the reminder and reassurance nonna. I'm just a low confidence autist in general so my brain goes into overthinking mode all the time, I'm going to try and go during quiet hours anyway at least while I'm getting familiar with everything

No. 1510108

>>1510093
I just tried to stay out of his way and cut contact as soon as I could, the bastard drank himself to death so that's one less problem, hope that helps.

No. 1510150

>>1510108
"cut all contact and eventually someone will call you and tell you he's dead" was gonna be my advice but I think maybe her dad isn't that bad? (hope he's not anyway)

No. 1510175

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I have OCD.
I forced myself to not clean up after my sister this week (she is my roommate).
She hasn't done the dishes or thrown the trash out for a week.


What the fuck do I fo while being on the verge of a nervous breakdown and throwing the rotting trash on her bed.

No. 1510176

>>1510150
I hope so too

No. 1510186

>>1510175
leave the house, go for a walk.

No. 1510194

>>1509633
It's a little more complicated than that…

No. 1510210

>>1509432
i'm not into violence or piss or husbandos that would treat me like shit, but in a fantasy setting, nonnas can playtest those types of scenarios and whatever else their hearts and libidos desire without putting themselves at risk with an actual moid. in this way they can express those feelings in relative safety, and i won't shame them for that kind of exploration, even if the objects of their affection and their preferred fetishes are ones i find personally off-putting.
you don't have to like every single nonna that comes along, or the behavior she projects onto her husbando, or even her husbando himself, but maintaining a bare minimum of civility toward her and all the other husbandofags you don't particularly agree with isn't going to kill you, i promise.

No. 1510211

My friend always complains about how her scrote never cleans or does romantic things for her and how infuriating it is but she just told me she stopped taking birth control because she wants a baby. It makes no fucking sense

No. 1510219

>>1510211
she has low self esteem

No. 1510220

>>1510211
Women need to be made more aware of blatant signs their partners aren't going to be reliable fathers and co-parenter. We need to teach our daughters to vet.

No. 1510232

>>1510210
it's stupid to extend those courtesies to someone who wouldn't even extend them back.

No. 1510235

>>1510211
These women are pathetic and think bringing an innocent baby into an already broken relationship will somehow fix it. All they'll get is a child with no father and the cycle of abuse and neglect will continue.

No. 1510236

Living with an alcoholic parent is the most heartbreaking thing I've experienced

No. 1510237

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>>1510211
A fucking bird is a better mate than her husband

No. 1510238

>>1510175
Sit down and talk to her. She probably expects you to clean up after her and that isnt fair to you. Designate days of the week for you and her to do dishes, take our trash etc. But nothing will change if you just let the trash rot. that's disgusting.

No. 1510240

>>1510236
My mom was an alcoholic my entire childhood and towards to end of her life, she finally quit, but the disease already got to her kidney and liver. It's heart breaking to watch a parent kill themselves with alcohol and you feel so powerless to help. I wish we didn't have so many cultures glorifying alcoholism and more places to help women who suffer from it.

No. 1510258

>>1510240
I'm so sorry, that's awful. Alcohol has/is literally killing a ton of people I know. My mom did some sort of rehab a while ago, but didn't complete it. I don't think she can get with the whole God thing that AA does. I literally do not know how to help her at all and it's taking a massive toll on me. I just want to rip my heart out of my chest.

No. 1510259

I have a narc grandmother(grandma) who abused me for years, and a really, really sweet grandmother (nanna)
I just learned that Nanna has lung cancer. They're going to do a biopsy to find out what kind it is, or if it was just a scary looking benign tumor. She's one of the sweetest people I've ever met, she lives on a mountain in a giant fir forest, she feeds the squirrels, raccoons, and birds while smoking her own joints, and is generally one of the few people I've met who has a genuine hippie "everyone should love who they want & do what they want" attitude. She's an old school feminist & one of the toughest people I have ever met. I really don't want her to die, and it isn't fair that she's dying from one of the most painful conditions out there, when my grandma is still fantasizing about killing me for being lesbian, talking shit to her neighbors, and refusing to speak to me or confront me over it because I'm a "demon." Dementia is not enough I need her to get bone cancer or into diabetic shock.

No. 1510269

>>1510211
I swear some women will not get the point if you’re gentle and empathetic, only until you treat them rudely and insult their intelligence.

No. 1510274

>>1510232
this. i couldn't sympathize with the rancefag once she started shitting on everyone else's husbandos

No. 1510276

>>1506737
I wish to stop being a pussy and just kill myself already. But in the mean time, I want all of those fuckers to know that I did seek help and did work hard to stay in education and employment, it’s their fucking fault for not ever investigating my mental illnesses properly that I’m no longer functional and able to hold down a job. I’m one of those ‘leeches’ on society but I’m only the product of my failed fucking state. A government who doesn’t want welfare leeches should fucking appropriately fix its broken ass mental healthcare so that people like me would never manifest to begin with. I’m done feeling guilty about being a NEET, I’m the only one who gives a shit how I’m doing anyway, and all the guilt tripping I gave myself hasn’t done a thing to prevent it so I might as well enjoy those gubmint bucks in my pocket and not in the pocket of some rich posh inbred pedo childfuckers.

No. 1510279

>>1510276
There’s nothing wrong with living off government/other peoples’ money, the elites just want to spread that message that poor people who don’t work are leeches. Meanwhile it’s the elite class who are the real leeches in society. You’ve been exploited since you were born and the world owes you a comfy life. Don’t kill yourself, just try to focus on enjoying everyday to the fullest. It’s a lot easier when you stop beating yourself up over being perma NEET. Explore spirituality like paganism, commune with nature, go collect stuff in the forest, make a flower crown for yourself, do a ritual to bring happiness and prosperity into your life. Learn about your natal chart. Your life belongs to you when you’re NEET.

No. 1510284

>>1510279
>There’s nothing wrong with living off government money
Right.
>There’s nothing wrong with living off other peoples’ money
Wrong, cope.

No. 1510290

>>1510284
NTA but you assume everyone is miserable providing for you

No. 1510293

>>1510290
You? I'm not a neet.

No. 1510297

>>1510293
It's ok, don't lose hope anon

No. 1510299

God I feel like I'm going to die of a heart attack because of stress idk what to do. Is it just going to be like this forever? and probably worsen??

No. 1510305

>>1510299
Is what going to be like this forever?

No. 1510306

>>1510305
Being incredibly stressed out. Like life is only going to get more complicated and difficult

No. 1510307

>>1510211
Um sweaty didn't you know that wearing and tearing your body from a pregnancy definitely will make a scrote love you more? He'll be grateful for your sacrifice, see you exhausted with your hair in a greasy bun and think "mmm yes baby, no tiny asian teen porn for me tonight!"

No. 1510310

>>1510306
I don't think so, I've been very stressed before and am less stressed now. You learn and grow and some things do get harder sometimes but usually stress gets easier to cope with properly with age.

No. 1510313

>>1510306
It's gonna come in waves, so yeah, it's going to be like this forever, technically. It sucks.

No. 1510315

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Sexual frustration is ruling my life. I've been dressing and planning to dress more stereotypically how people in my subculture do just to get those men in my school to notice me and bond over music. I almost bought a rose quartz charm 2 different times to attract guys but I resisted because I don't want to constantly think about attracting men. A "friend" drove me home after I baited him into giving me a ride somewhere else and thought of launching myself at him even though he's a greasy uggo. All would go down the drain when they realize I don't shave legs or genitals to be a barbie. I'm too scared to ask my type of hot guys out. Luckily I'm bisexual but all the women around me are too feminine(clothes and face) /not tall enough (at least 5'9). LGBTQ+ club is full of you-know-who's. Not out as a bisexual to anyone, I overcame the shame and guilt religion instilled inside but family and society will act stupid if they know. It's just me and my fingers up until now and the near future. HOT MEN ASK ME OUT AND FUCK ALREADY OR BUTCH LESBIANS FREE ME FROM THE URGE TO FEEL NERVOUS AND PANDER FOR MALE SEXUAL ATTENTION I BEG YOU

No. 1510321

>>1510284
Our parents owe us support, if they bred and raised someone incapable of mentally dealing with a job that’s their fault and their responsibility to deal with.

No. 1510326

>>1510321
Yeah but those with shitter parents who act more mature will still look down on them.

No. 1510327

>>1510297
If that makes you feel better, nonki.

No. 1510335

>>1510232
>>1510274
how incredibly self-defeatist!
first of all, this isn't about sympathy, and this isn't about what other trash talking nonnas will or won't do. this is about picking your battles. this about the nonnas that think they need to respond when they really ought to just let whatever potential argument is trying to rear it's ugly head lie.
there's always going to be someone stirring the pot and looking for a reaction, but you don't have to be the one to give her what she wants.
what's more, why does the opinion of some nonna, who you don't even particularly like and barely tolerate, inspire such a strong reaction in you? does her opinion really mean so much to you? why?

No. 1510341

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>>1510335
Fuck this, I say all the husbandofags band together and virtually jump Rancefag. Everytime she posts that motherfucker say the nastiest, most cruel shit about him. Shitting on other anons husbandos will not go unpunished. Fuck her and Rance. I'm just stirring the pot, I don't post my husbando so id even k who Rancefag is or what's going on in the husbando thread

No. 1510342

My narcissistic autistic ass older brother keeps pressing me to tell him my opinions on jk Rowling (he’s asked me multiple times) and it makes me feel like he’s planting the seeds of him becoming a tranny. I really fucking hope this is the case bc he already pisses me off and trannyism would not help our relationship. Id honestly probably cut him off entirely

No. 1510343

I tried to take selfies with my bf today on a date and I looked really REALLY bad but as usual he's photogenic with flawless skin and a happy smile. I look like an albino cabbage patch doll next to him. I'm really depressed these pics are shit

No. 1510350

>>1510341
hey, fuck you.
kek it's fine, just the usual infighting nonsense that happens when nonnas feel the need to sperg over and defend the things they love with unchecked fervor.

No. 1510351

>>1510341
>band together and virtually jump
Now, now don't put those vicious ideas in those nonnies heads, they might just do it kekekekekekekeke
>spoiler
This anon gave a good summery on what happened >>1509424
and scroll down for more. There were even talks about moving the thread back to /m/ here >>>/ot/1509813 but yeah they get pretty prissy at anons that post lewdpics, darkstuff like either being peed on or peeing on their hubbys, violence towards them, topics on shipping and lewdy posts in their hornyposting shitposting thread. Which I find frankly ridiculous since they have like over 10 threads with "different topics" on /g/ and /m/. I think there was also some fighting about lovey-dovey posts belonging in other threads

No. 1510356

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>>1510351
To be honest I don't know if how I feel about my husbandos (and one waifu) would constitute for being posted in any thread. Cause I don't imagine myself with them and find oc x canon or self-inserting disgusting and repulsive and I prefer shipping my favs over anything else. I suppose husbando/waifu isn't a good term but I more so just see them as idols to worship and cheer on and put into scenarios/ships that makes my heart pound fast. I want to talk about them without the context of "yous" or self-inserting. Just character worship and shipping.

No. 1510357

>>1510341
I'm all for this. Rance is fucking gross

No. 1510366

>>1508898
i can promise the 3 men that work there probably say equally nasty shit about other people when nobody else is there lol. maybe im being too anecdotal but ive worked a lot of wagie jobs with male coworkers and once men feel like theyre well acquainted with you theyll say nasty shit about other ppl all the time. worked with a scrote that would call nearly every female customer a "stupid cunt/bitch" for just asking a simple question about the menu.

No. 1510367

>>1510357
Learn2Read
>>1510356
from what I read from the thread description it was supposed to be one for shipping too, but they seem to dislike anyone who posts about them but you can possibly post about your husbando/waifu stuff in the husbando thread >>>/m/188499 in /m/ which was the first husbando thread and was created as a free for all before that thread in /g/ got created for some reason.

No. 1510368

>>1510367
Not the first sorry, I forgot that the bunker happened for a moment kek

No. 1510373

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I can't help but think that a lot of my life has been robbed from me for the fact that my parents decided the ignore the obvious signs of autism as a child and left me to me own devices to find out on my own as an adult. They are so negligent. They threw me into school despite the fact that i was non-verbal at the time, teachers had to call my mum in to make her send me to a speech specialist. i was wondering why everyone avoided me, but all this time it was because i was retarded and didn't know it. All the times they got angry at me for not behaving and being the person they want me to be, they knew i had fucking issues and thought they could aggressively get me to submit to being the child they wanted. I can't help but feel so angry at this, especially since my dad have been gas lighting me literally pulling the "children in Africa card" constantly, complaining about how hard his life was when i used to live in a 3rd world country, meanwhile he sits on his bourgeoise arse not having experienced hardships in the past 30 years and is practically a millionaire now. I don't even understand why they had children, they don't have a paternal/maternal bone in their body, they are not loving and they are cold and rude. My life could have progressed so much if i just had parents who actually gave a shit about me and were slightly more sensitive.

No. 1510377

>>1509207
women generalizing men vs. men generalizing women is barely comparable bc womens generalizations are rooted in things that have been proven to have strong gender correlation (violence, rape, porn use, domestic violence, etc), and often come from real life, repeated bad experiences with men. and yet 90% of mens generalizations about women are either rooted in a false stereotype or in blatant double standards and hypocrisy that has no real proof and is only accepted as reality because it appeals to mens delusions (women cheat more than men, women are whores, women are innately less capable of everything, women are too emotional, women are bad drivers, etc)

No. 1510378

>>1510377
Nobody should generalize anybody, nonna. I think that's why radfems have lost so much support over the years in favor of TRAs, although TRAs are losing support now very few of the people who don't support them are radfems.
Radfems are fun to be around when they're not constantly shitting themselves over breathing around the opposite sex.

No. 1510379

>>1510377
This post made me laugh so hard I almost got pulled over.

No. 1510381

>>1510379
the fuck, don't scroll and drive you dummy

No. 1510383

>>1510379
You're fucking stupid. Get off your phone and pay attention to the road before you hurt someone.

No. 1510387

>>1510381
>>1510383
Read the very last line of the quoted post for the joke to reveal itself. I'm not driving don't worry.

No. 1510388

>>1510387
Oh ok, my bad anon. Sorry for calling you stupid.

No. 1510389

>>1510388
You're fine, it helped the point of the joke anyways.

No. 1510390

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>>1510379
If you careened off the road do you really want lolcow to have been the last thing you were looking at before you died?

No. 1510392

>>1510387
I laughed

No. 1510393

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The fat kid(s?) who live above me are running around and I want to kms

No. 1510395

>>1510390
Yes, I think it would be not only a radical way to die but rather feminist too.
Roll credits.

No. 1510402

Why do people act like young zoomers (early 20s or younger right now) were the start of wokeism? I wouldn’t even attribute it to a specific generation, it’s been going on for decades… I also remember in the early 2010s there being some incredibly popular, pseudo woke racist fantasy game developer who would ebeg- don’t remember their name but they put a Japanese character in a qipao. They definitely weren’t some stupid 14 year old, it seemed like someone in their mid 20s, so they’d be in their 30s now. I don’t think their game ever came out.

No. 1510404

Ah I am suddenly hit with a feeling of loneliness and emptiness again. This usually happens on Sunday nights when I know I have to go in to another work week. Another exhausting 40 hours of work with no one to talk to. Coming home every night to my empty apartment. Counting down the days to the weekend, which I usually spend running errands or maybe getting dinner with a friend or doing a voicecall, but even then I just go back to feeling empty afterward. I have a job, my own place, family, and some friends. So why can't I just be satisfied with this? Is it because I'm lonely? I can't move back home and I can't move in with any of my friends because everyone lives cities or states away (save for my one friend who explicitly said she preferred that we didn't live together because she could be a tough roommate). Is this just how the rest of my life is going to be? Dreading each week and doing menial things to tide me through?

Anyway I'm gonna change into my pajamas and watch a horror movie to take my mind off this feeling.

No. 1510405

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>>1510393
Are you living with me? But tbh, in my case it's some freakishly tall and skinny moid jumping around.

No. 1510407

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5 months since my last break up and I feel like giving up on love. Everyone pales in comparison to him but the shot he’s pulled has made me lose any interest in reconciling. I want him back so bad but I know it wouldn’t work. I either feel super emotionally connected to them and it scares them off, or I barely connect emotionally and they cling on to me because I provide sex/food/emotional support that’s never reciprocated. I have one guy I dated who keeps trying to come back yearly but I know it’s only because I let him just blab about himself the entire time we were “together” and he never asked me a single question about myself. I feel like giving up on love.

No. 1510419

>>1509207
So you think women just become aligned with radical feminism just for no reason? If men were really just all a bunch of misunderstood lovelies, nonnie wouldn't feel how she does. Congratulations for finding you nigel, i guess it means that just because you find the perfect scrote, every other woman has to go fuck themselves and are full of shit. Honestly, you do sound like a pick-me. You ignore that some nonnies are unfortunate to come from cultures that are that misogynistic or completely ignore how men are monetize their hatred of women. None of that matter because you have a nigel and that means everyone else is just a whiny bitch. My problem with people like you is that you need to admit that most people will never have what you have, some people WILL die alone. I personally refuse to act on your hilariously stupid optimism and ruin my life going from low value scrote to low value scrote, especially since i come from a demographic where the most common mode of death got pregnant women is literally getting murdered by their scrote. That doesn't matter because your scrote is nice right? I'm sure every man of the world is crying tears of joy after your valiant efforts to defend their honor.

No. 1510428

>>1510378
ntayrt but what exactly is wrong with generalizing men when it's all based on facts or someone's experiences? I haven't seen anyone give a single good answer yet. I'm going to keep generalizing until men actually prove me wrong.

No. 1510432

>>1510404
Oh my god are you me

No. 1510434

>>1510407
What’s the shot he pulled

No. 1510450

>>1510428
No seriously, all my generalisation literally come from my personal interactions with men and the things that come straight out of their mouths. I don't understand why anons are so hell bent on trying to erase everything negative about men. They are unironically saying we need to pick and choose only the nice things that men do and not expecting to be called a pickme. She also implies that women who get abused did it to themselves. I don't understand what compels A WOMAN to want to defend scrotes so much, but these same women always come crying to the so called miserable radfems to soothe their wounds.

No. 1510463

>>1510432
Damn nona. I wish we lived in the same city then so we could at least keep each other company through our existential spirals.

No. 1510470

Why's it always the brakes that want to act up… WHY'S IT ALWAYS THE BRAKES THE WANT TO ACT UP!!!!!!

No. 1510488

>>1510434
I meant to say *shit but he pursued me heavily after a bad break up on his side then kept acting severely hot and cold. Asked me out first, initiated physical intimacy first, asked me to be his girlfriend, told his parents/introduced me to them first etc. He said he loved me but couldn’t actually say I love you because it scared him. Kept trying to have real conversations about things that were obviously bothering him and either he would shut down and avoid it and twice broke up with me. He said he didn’t 3ant to be with his ex anymore and I think it’s true, BUT he was so in denial about their relationship being toxic possibily abusive that I feel like he projected all the shit she pulled on him onto me. The first time he broke up with me (I know) when I came over to have a real talk about what was going on he said he was relieved I didn’t threaten to kill myself even though I had never talked about being suicidal before? In the end he kept saying that he had too much anxiety to be in a “real” relationship Honestly I do think he saw a future with me but that meant expectations so he chickened out and that we would just end up hating each other so we should just end things now. It’s such a cruel way to discard someone IMO and really condescending as he’s basically decided an outcome for both him and me without even considering that I’m an adult with autonomy and can actually put the work into my relationships and that the way things ended with your shitty high school girlfriend were not inevitable with me.

No. 1510528

even though I’ve been long term dating and fucking women since my teenage years, my completely inexperienced sibling who just recently started identifying as a lesbian said that she’d never date a bi woman (valid)… because she’d ‘find it degrading to be involved with goods used by men’, ‘because as a lesbian you just know they’re likely to leave you for a man’ and ‘so many bisexuals are just experimenting’ (as if people experimenting don’t ever identify as lesbians?)

idk, just don’t wanna hear all of that from someone who just figured out they’re a lesbian less than three months ago, who’s a virgin, and who hasn’t even kissed or held hands with a woman.

And hearing from my sister that it’d be “denigrating” for someone to date me?
I spent my whole life trying to undo feeling like I’m ‘used goods’ because males raped me as a child several times, and felt like an accomplishment at regain control of my sexuality when I could actually enjoy and actually consent being intimate with guys.
I can’t shake the knowledge that others find me ‘stained’ for that. The kicker is that several of those rapes were done by her father when I was like 11.

inb4 “based sister”

No. 1510529

>>1510528
(Samefag, sorry for Reddit spacing and that I can’t delete, jfc. Guessing it’s an iPad thing? My phone doesn’t pull this shit.)

No. 1510540

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god i hate boomers so fucking much, they had every opportunity given to them, ruined economy and then blame us for complaining and being depressed for things outside of our control. I have tried explaining to my mom that i lost half my clients out of fucking nowhere because of AI and she refuses to understand and calls me lazy for it. I also hatenot knowing what the fuck to do, i dont wanna study a career that's going to become obsolete 5 years after i graduated. I wish the devils who puppeter the world would stop making it worse for a while so i can think about my future without wanting to kill myself.

No. 1510547

>>1510540
>I have tried explaining to my mom that i lost half my clients out of fucking nowhere because of AI and she refuses to understand and calls me lazy for it.
what do you work as?

No. 1510555

>>1510547
artist. Now i am trying to learn live2D rigging but that also is probably going to be automated in the near future.

No. 1510556

Considering cutting my sister out of my life because she did terrible shit in the past, always talks about herself for an hour when I work even more than her, so my few hours of free time, doesn't bring anything to the table, and keeps describing in depth sexual shit about her loser boyfriends. Every other month is a new one because they fuck her, ditch her, she crys, finds another one, gets mad if he sees her romantically instead of sexually but then is surprised when he leaves for another woman to fuck. I don't care. I'm so done with hearing about it. I am disgusted. It makes me worry she's going to get pregnant with an ugly retarded male who will run away and she wont abort it then expecting me to possibly babysit when I hate kids. Fuck that. Once my bills are 100% separated I'm out.

No. 1510561

>>1510315
lmao you sound exactly like someone I know, down to the baiting into a ride, and I am a greasy uggo.

No. 1510581

I'm getting a tattoo and of course my sister says she wants one in the same spot all of the sudden. She literally copied exactly one of my other tattoos. I can't bring myself to tell her not to, it seems so petty to bring it up to her. It's even worse because we're both over 30. I feel bad talking this way about her but she shamelessly copies me in so many ways. I'm her younger sister too which makes it worse to me.

No. 1510594

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i can't stop falling out of bed. save me nonnies.

No. 1510615

Man I feel so betrayed, I told my sisters some personal things, and then they ran and told my abusive mom who singles me out, I’m considering not talking to them because they don’t even seem to care about what my mom did to me, they still act all nice to her and I just get stressed being around them because I know she’s right around the corner. And I have to watch what I say around them now. I want to die I know I’m gonna sound so pathetic but it really feels like nobody cares about me, not even my mom, do I just have like really bad luck? Cursed existence? was I a nazi in a past life? I’m so deep in paranoia and resentment and self hatred and I just wish I could swap places with someone better who wasn’t a dumb fugly slut with a normal family earlier I binged because I get stressed and overeat and this is why I’m so nasty and everyone laughs at me

No. 1510625

>>1510615
I’d hug you if I could anon. Seems we’re all having sister problems tonight. I’m sorry that people have made you feel that you’re nasty or worthless. What do you like to do that makes you feel better? Where would you travel to right now if you had the chance? I’m cheering you on for things to get better for you.

No. 1510635

>>1509437
>That preference has actually been here for a long time
This should be the signal for everyone who doesn’t yet get it that the problem is obviously that anon and the way she goes about pissing other anons off on purpose. Defending her by saying it’s her fantasy and “muh safe exploration” is a pointless crock of shit she doesn’t need, driveby posting in the thread to piss in it the way she does ruins the mood. Other degenanons don’t bother me because they were actually funny, it’s her being caustic even in the other husbando thread and the rest of you still rush accommodate or even celebrate her when she is just a shit.

No. 1510638

It's dumb but I'm so bummed over the nasty scars my ear piercings left behind.

No. 1510640

I hate that my mom just assumes traits of myself. She recently said, "You've never been athletic" when the reason why I wasn't able to be involved in sports is because she wasn't willing to pick me up from practice or take me to games. She was a single mom working all the time so it is what it is, but it irked me so much when she said that.

No. 1510641

>>1509645
In burger land yes you do lol, mercari has it

No. 1510642

>>1509747
You can be groomed without being underaged. Idk the term for adults

No. 1510644

I really shouldn't cry over this but I just found out my co workers have been hanging often and even worse going to activity I suggested without me, we're a small office of 6 all women of similar ages and I always thought they liked me but like I guess fucking not, I'm honestly checked out and just going to look for a better paying job now so that's some good that's come out of it

No. 1510646

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i need something to happen that will mass peak women. if i weren't such a dirty fujo i'd put forth effort but alas i'd rather just play with my BL and pray others carry the mantle of creating GOOD f/f content and female characters

No. 1510648

>>1510644
I wouldn't overthink it Nonna. Even in small working environments it's never ever a good idea to hang out with coworkers/talk outside of work.

No. 1510657

Fuck this, I'm way too excited to hear about my ex Nigel.
Dunno why but he agrees on telling me about his dating luck and such knowing fully how much of a gossipy bitch I am. Looks like it's brutal and after some month it has fully sunk in that, yes, I am batshit insane because I stayed for a decade of this shit show and he can't find someone as deranged to date. He has kinda rebranded himself as wholesome (after 10 years of being an edgelord) and has learned some new vocabulary at the shrink. He's now regurgitating some babble about toxicity and codependency. It would be cute if I hadn't been in therapy the whole relationship and tried so many times to broach the subjects.
Ngl, I can't help but missing some of it, tho.

No. 1510659

>>1510648
nta but, why is that nonna? I've been in her position before and felt the same way, but I don't have a ton of office experience yet so I didn't know if I was genuinely being shut out or if it's something else.

No. 1510660

>>1509758
Post this in /meta/ anon

No. 1510662

>>1510657
I feel like Nigel is entirely misused here? To be honest I kind of want to throttle whoever coined the term Nigel, a moid is a moid.

No. 1510663

>>1510662
I used to think he was my Nigel for a third of my life so I stuck with it but you're right. Dunno what would be the updated term? Ex scrote?

No. 1510670

I don't get why my family keeps getting me clothes that are too small. I mean yeah, I need to lose weight but I won't go from a 32W or around size 16 or more to a size 8 in a year.
So they go from gifting me stuff that's too small to gifting me stuff that's too big, like 2XL big and it shows, and it's uncomfortable to wear too because the tops while they're loose, they open on their own or the bottoms are too loose and feel uncomfortable, plus I look extra frumpy.
And I've been dieting my whole life, I also exercise daily, I don't eat sweets, I drink my tea or coffee only once and without sugar or even artificial sweeteners, my diet is balanced nowadays with plenty of vegetables and protein.
But I'm not really losing any weight, if anything I may lose a few centimeters of my waist and hips and that's it, then I get them back, then I lose them again, then I get really fat again, and it's a never ending cycle.
And all of my blood tests are perfectly fine too, maybe I just have to live with being fat forever, and I'm not even unhealthy anyways, I can run, I can walk for long periods of time, I can stand around for long periods of time too and my knees are fine and whatnot.
I wanted to be a skinny legend and wear cute clothes tbh, but maybe that's not for me after all of these years trying really hard.

No. 1510671

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>>1510646
ive been working on a peaking project for two years but it's taking forever to finish because there's just too much shit to radpill women on. i just want it to be finished so I can finally enjoy my maneating gfs having healthy gay sex. im fighting every day to get it done but it still at the scripting and concept art stage, fuck my life

No. 1510673

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>>1509207
>mfw nonnie writing out this essay of a reply while her boyfie is sitting on the shitter jerking off to 18 year old thai trannies and nonnies 13 year old cousins vacay pics

No. 1510676

Might have had permanently fucked up my eye by applying Tretinoin over my eyelids. I read that if your skin can handle it without irritation, then it's okay to do it, and my skin seemed to be fine with it. My eyes have always been dry but they became insanely dry and painful and it was only after months of using it did I make the Tretinoin-dry eye connection, I assumed I was just having really bad eyestrain

No. 1510678

You're not supposed to put actives on your eye lids, even putting them on your undereye is risky.

No. 1510680

>>1510673
All of the women I know with young and pretty boyfriends are chill, not at all bitter like this. I bet “not all men” anon’s man is post-wall.

No. 1510688

>>1510676
…SHIT, this explains my dry asf eyes Jesus fuck

No. 1510691

It's fucking sad and weird I spent my early 20s with asshole friends, I just remembered how I had this nice bottle of some alcohol and I told my friends we were gonna pop it when I get a job or get into a school. My gay scrote friend goes
>so never
like what the fuck even was that, I did get into a school and I did get a job and we did drink that bottle but I shouldn't have let him have a goddamn sip of it, I hope he goes bald.

No. 1510701

>>1510676
>>1510688
Nonnas wtf, y’all worried about your eyeLIDS getting wrinkly???

No. 1510708

>>1510676
Orbital fat loss

No. 1510712

>>1509751
>sent home early for being late
Kek what? That's like a punishment for a school child, I didn't know jobs worked like that.

No. 1510713

>>1510670
Oh I had this issue too, I got around it by saying I'm trying to figure out my style so want to buy my own clothes. Or are you in a situation where you have to have clothes bought for you? Either way intentional or not it's pretty cruel.

When I was a teen I was low key traumatised by my mom dragging me around shops and telling me to try on clothes that I knew would be too small for me. I'd say so because if a size 8 didn't fit me last time why the fuck would it 30 minutes later? And she'd say try it anyway and I'd go in there, feel like a sausage in too small a casing then come out to tell my mom that in fact yes, I am too fat for this also. So it's a touchy subject for me but also how retarded was she to literally never learn her lesson? There were larger sizes RIGHT there but it was like some stubborn delusion she had that I needed to be skinny?

As an adult coming home for christmas she gifted me more (too small or big) clothes after I made it clear I don't want any, I just left that shit in her house. If you can, just take a hard stance on it.

Your lifestyle sounds quite healthy, much more than mine (pastries, pasta and chocolate every day) and I'm a size 12, but a natural size 16 does sound a bit irregular/unlucky. Could it be some kind of allergy or intolerance to some kind of food you're eating, or maybe medication? Maybe there's some kind of food you're eating that's deceptively really high in calories? Either way so long as you feel healthy that's what's important.

No. 1510714

>>1510701
uh nona, that's a very common concern people have, not that I would slap any actives on that shit

No. 1510715

>>1510701
I'm 32 and have noticed significant loss in elasticity in my eyelids the past few years and it makes me look considerably older, I don't even use makeup but did ignore the "avoid the eye area" thing on any creams. I don't even stress over usual wrinkles.

No. 1510718

>>1510714
>>1510715
NTA but I thought everyone had eyelid wrinkles since birth. That's not a thing everyone has? idk how wrinkle-free eyelids would even look different from wrinkly ones

No. 1510719

I don't think I could ever date someone wasn't familiar with imageboards long term. I've practically been raised by imageboards and I can't remember a single moment in my life that imageboards haven't been in the background. After more than 10 years on the internet it's so integral to my identity I can't imagine involving myself with someone who doesn't know what these sites are.
sorry for my fucked up grammar, I'm tired

No. 1510721

>>1510011
Anon, I say this as someone who had to rebuild my life after it got derailed by severe mental health issues- you're never going to succeed at anything with your defeatist attitude. In a situation like yours, the only thing you can do is map out your goal and what you need to do to work towards it (and get CBT therapy if you can access it because you clearly have harmful thought patterns). Focusing on planning for the future and following the advice here >>1509981 rather than ruminating on your failures is the only thing that will prevent you from spending the rest of your life in a pit of misery.

No. 1510723

>>1510691
I fucking hate little jabs like that. It's those small comments you never forget.

No. 1510725

>>1510718
like folded skin versus dehydrated, elasticity has been lost wrinkled skin is different but I have hooded fatty lids so that's not a problem for me in the same way it would be for someone with huge lidspace

No. 1510726

>>1510723
Yeah like, I wasn't even not trying back then and he said it with such certainty and like it was a fact, I don't think I'm ever gonna befriend men again.

No. 1510729

Everything goes back to thinking "No one cares about me". When people ignore my messages but reply to others, when online friends stop going online for weeks mid-conversation, when no one notices that I reactivated accounts, everything. What's the point of thousands of followers or online "friends", it's all meaningless. I think I need a true connection, but it's impossible with the way I am right now. I know I just have too much free time right now and that's why I'm becoming like this. Once I need to work or study again I won't have the time to think about my loneliness. It's just making me mad that I share so much while seemingly getting nothing in return. I know that my maximum is other peoples regular output and that's why no one cares but it still makes me sad because I don't know how to tell anyone. Other people can share their worries and get comforted, but I can't even talk about mine. It's unreasonable of me to want someone to notice that I'm struggling without me saying anything, but I really can't

No. 1510751

>>1510648
I know but it just stung when I found out they have a group chat going and are all planning a road trip together, like whats wrong with me to not be invited or just like at least talk about your stuff somewhere else, it just makes me feel so lonely especially when most of my not work friends have moved away or gotten married and suddenly the people I'm working with are all super close and just giggling and whispering to each other and I'm two steps back now not being acknowledged at all and the fact they all went oil painting and to a studio they legit only know about because of me? Like all I'm good for is my knowledge but not to come along with?

No. 1510759

>>1510259
I've learned from too much life experience that evil people never really get what they deserve. it's why i stopped being religious despite my family being super christian. I am also a lesbian, so sending a hug. It hurts when people you truly love suffer when people who disown you, wish you would burn in hell, etc are allowed to smoke 10 packs a day and live their life. I am sending nothing but love to you and your Nanna.

No. 1510769

anyone else here autistic and absolutely can't relate at all to the notion that female autists relate more to moids and feel more at ease with them than with girls? while i was bullied and molested by both sexes honestly more visciously by girls than boys i'll still never ever feel comfortable with a guy and i never have even when i was an nlog kid. sure i was a tomboy and almost even wanted to transition at some point but at no point did i ever want to associate with moids, not in a based separatist way but i've always been irrationally afraid of men since i was a baby, and at worst i've been overwhelmed into public meltdowns on multiple occasions. safe to say i've never once been friends with one. but maybe i was just lucky because i spent around 15 years at the same private school so the students were few and ones i grew up with, and also my class in particular had more weird/unconventional girls than normies.
but tbf when i entered uni my sense of reality was shattered because only then did i begin to understand but i'd still accept being a normie girl's pet retard than to try and be friends with a normie moid. morally i can't get behind perverse humor at all and that's what all moids continue to use nonstop even during elementary school and possible will keep doing it into their death bed, with girls while that does happen it's not in the same way ( as in i never have to fear anything ) much less in the same frequency. i just can't be comfortable with them and i've never been

No. 1510777

“American” by Lana has been making me scream cry for a decade straight. I wouldn’t have it any other way

No. 1510782

all you want to do is wallow in your misery. you see how the choices you made in the past are affecting you now, and instead of acknowledging them for what they were and admitting you were wrong to make such drastic decisions, you want to bellyache and pin the blame on anyone but yourself. at what point do your actions finally become your own and you stop denying the involvement of yourself in your own life? i get it, you're tired, and you wish the good things you want would hand themselves over to you and that everything were easier, but that isn't how any of this works. if you want it, you'll put in the effort. instead you end up only thinking about the idea before ultimately giving up and filling the hole in your soul with noise and things you'll only appreciate for a couple of weeks, until they eventually end up in a drawer or shoved in your closet where you can't see them.
get a fucking grip. no one can take back your life for you, you have to be the one to do it yourself. so fucking do it already. i'm right here with you.

No. 1510784

You were a shitty friend and I tried so long to make the effort. Fuck you A, sorry I didnt have a stable life growing up. Sorry my mental health fell apart. Sorry I moved home only to watch my brother die, instead of living with you and your bitchy friends.
Now Im older I see, you were a fake ass friend with zero personality or creativity. You are so rich you never understood my poor life struggle.
I hate you. I genuinely hate you. Stick to your shitty privileged friends and leave me the fuck alone. Keep my name out of your mouth

No. 1510790

I'm having one of those shitty periods where it starts then stops starts then stops. If my body could just get it over with that would be fucking great. And I wanted to get a bunch of shit done today but the cramps are really strong I feel like puking. Might park my ass and watch anime all today

No. 1510803

I'm finally realizing what it's like to have someone always trying to talk to you and being slightly annoyed by it. Usually moids have said I text too often and I never understood how it was a bad thing until now. This one is draining me. Now I see how annoying I must have been to them, but I still think it's different because when I spam text half the time I forget what I said instantly and don't need a response like this guy looks for. I also feel I didn't do it at the same intensity as this guy kek.

But yeah, it's annoying as shit.

No. 1510811

I hate that it seems like it’s really on trend right now to diagnose yourself with ADHD because now that I’ve read about how it presents in women it describes me completely and I feel like such a fool. I just want day to day life to be a little easier, I don’t want to make it my personality or anything. But I feel stupid bringing it up to my doctor when he’s probably got loads of other millennial women saying the same shit.

No. 1510815

>>1510769
Before I was diagnosed I was aware my social life was limited. Just didn't know the reason. I found it hard to really get into female friend groups, like something always kept me on the outskirts of the group rather than being fully in it. Meanwhile with men I didn't feel that barrier. I had those male friendships for maybe a couple of years (18 to 20) and when they one day had a casual conversation about how the start of a girls first period should determine her being of legal age (durr it's biology).. that was the end of me having male friendships. A couple years later I was taking a course. Most people on it were male and we'd to team up for projects. I turned down any invites to hang out outside of the course but you'd spend alot of time together working on things during class hours. The exact same fucking conversation happened with me in the room. Different group of men, same shit.

No. 1510816

>>1510811
If it makes you feel any better, last year I went to an autism specialist for an initial appointment during peak tiktok trender season and said I think it explains my entire life story, and after about 60 minutes of giving my whole life/medical history I was told I absolutely didn’t even need to do the $3-5000 further extensive tests to be sure, that it’s a 100% surety that I absolutely have it, that I’m a textbook case and it does indeed explain everything about my entire life kek. So fuck whatever social media trends are up to, if you have a condition then you have it. And let’s say you don’t end up having it, well there is nothing wrong with pursuing help figuring out your life and finding the correct ways to cope, regardless of how many other people have looked into the same potential issue.

No. 1510818

Why are /w/ farmhands so slow? They left a dick pick and rape threats up for 5 hours yesterday, even after posting about it in the complaints thread. It hurts to see every other board get moderated well and /w/ to get thrown to the wayside. Now there's a tranny shitting up the complaints thread because he got clocked. What to do, nonnas?

No. 1510822

>>1510811
I know what you mean but fuck it nonna. Do what you gotta do. When I was tested, the nurse 100% thought I was in it for the stimulants and basically said as much. Fuck her. She doesn't have to live my life and she was unprofessional to mention how sooo many college kids (aka my age) were coming in to get prescriptions even though they don't have symptoms. Asshole

No. 1510823

>>1510811
I mean who cares. It's several orders of magnitude more embarrassing to deal with the fallout of untreated ADHD than to ask a doctor about a health concern you have.

No. 1510891

>>1510646
the witch trials of jk rowling from the free press (bari weiss' site) might be a good rec and get big. first two eps seem promising.

No. 1510904

i know looks dont matter yada yada just bee urself but i hate my nose so fucking much, i am pretty comfortable with the rest of my body but noses are so detrimental to a face, it makes me look so weird, ugly and overall affects the side of my mouth which makes me look older, and there is no fix to it. I wish i at least had the pretty big noses, but noooo i had to get both a big honker and one with a prominent bridge on it, i look like a fucking toucan and i hate it so much, worst part is that i have been told several times ''wow you are so pretty…except for your nose you could be a model'' lmao, i honestly hope they were lying to make me feel better because wow that would be such an own otherwise.

No. 1510928

>>1506938
OK I tried to look for myself, what is this animal? Little cutie

No. 1510929

Living with scrotes is having your dad screw the pop cap on extremely retard strength tight so when you go to open it you have to use pliers and when you confront him about it he feigns ignorance. Yeah fucking right I know for a fact you strained to screw it on so tight just to get some sick satisfaction out of making it hard for the next person. Honestly glad I'm gone

No. 1510932

skinnyfat bad, dadbod good. Even though girls (who 'skinnyfat' is usually aimed at) are supposed to have a little more fat than males. makes no fucking sense, everything is used to shame women.

No. 1510936

I’m 31 and I’m trying to accept that I will never find love. It took me all my youth to realize the man I want doesn’t exist and if he does he obviously isn’t attracted to me. My standards aren’t even all that high.
>I like pretty boys(obviously not getting that at 31)
>I don’t want someone with a porn addiction
>I want someone who knows how to manage his money and life(he can work at McDonald’s. I don’t care about the job! he just need to know how to take care of himself properly)
>has a car
>isn’t sexist, racist or homophobic
>isn’t a pedophile
>no annoying fetishes
>can spell at least on high school level
>isn’t fat
>isn’t balding
>showers and brushes his teeth at least once a day
>isn’t afraid to clean his butt
>not argumentative and annoying
>has common sense and the ability to think for himself
>a man who genuinely likes me and isn’t just with me because he can’t get access to sex any other way

No. 1510952

>>1510928
It looks like a pangolin

No. 1510961

>>1510751
Oh wow that's really bad, I'm so sorry Nonna. Hate that it seems like typical women putting other women down behavior. Wishing you the best in a better job!

>>1510659
Any connection that is associated with my livelihood I take very seriously. Unfortunately you just don't know people. It's enough to be courteous and make small talk, you don't owe people anything else. To not be so much of a negative Nancy the way I make work friends is after I leave the job. Have about three ex colleagues that I'm close with!

No. 1510962

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>>1510928
>>1510952
that is a silky anteater

No. 1510964

>>1506939
Genuinely thought by switches you mean light switches lmao. I thought wtf are jailbroken light switches and why did Nonna spend two hours looking???

No. 1510972

Drove past a sign for a hotel and they had “we are hiring housekeepers” in spanish but “we are hiring sound techs” in English. Holy shit I can not believe they could be that blatant

No. 1510974

my sister has the worst dumbest boyfriend who charges her rent to live in his unfinished house and share his bed and he doesn't do chores and she could do so much better and I could scream but she does not listen to me

No. 1510975

>>1510974
Tell her to write down the pros and cons of dating this faggot bum

No. 1510996

>>1510975
I already didn't think he was that great after he said some stupid mean shit to her about money in the past, but when I found out he was charging her rent to live with him I flipped my shit over the phone and now she won't listen to me and she defended him saying "he has a mortgage to pay". fuck.

No. 1511004

>>1510996
So she will help him pay off a house he already decided to get on his own and if they break up he will have essentially pocketed the money and get to keep it for himself for nothing. If she’s not on that paperwork she is just being scammed into helping him buy a house.

No. 1511015

>>1510974
Infuriating on many levels, I simultaneously feel bad for women like this and also annoyance. No man should ever expect this from a woman. No woman should ever give in to a demand like that. It has bigger implications and ultimately negatively affects all women.

Never split bills with a scrote.

No. 1511020

I find men physically, visually and mentally unappealing and I am just so uninspired by them that I either feel disgust or boredom. I don’t get how women fuck them.

No. 1511022

>>1510974
Pay someone to catfish him via Tinder or another moid-ridden dating app and expose him to your sis. His type of moid 100% keep a profile on dating sites so it's an easy deal. If she stays with him, she's a lost case and you just have to accept your sister is a doormat.

No. 1511023

>>1511022
Nta but do you really think cheating will make a woman leave? Kek

No. 1511025

>>1511023
To be fair some women do leave after cheating, but handmaidens like that nonna's sister usually don't. I'd say it's the ultimate test to see if there is any hope for her.

No. 1511027

>>1511020
Same. They aren't ever smart enough to creative new and innovative ideas. They aren't good in bed. They arent even appealing because they are hairy and smell bad. Straight women just have shit taste and keep making excuses to fuck them.

No. 1511029

Anytime I hear about a woman being murdered in a horrible way I just wish it happened to me and not someone who probably had family and friends and aspirations in life. I have to avoid true crime related things because they just make me spiral.

No. 1511032

It feels like the internet is really empty and slow these days. Even lolcow is a lot slower than when I joined a few years ago. I can't tell if I'm just imagining this or what.

No. 1511037

>>1510961
Thank you nonny! I just have to vent here some more but literally who tf just gift exchanges right in someone's face and it's again a product I mentioned I'm a big fan off and love (its a flavour of jam from my OWN COUNTRY,) like I feel like it's a bit racist because I'm the only one of my ethnicity working there so I'm just so so fucking tired when they were all giving themselves a round of applause for their stance on Anti Black discrimination and its like! What about me? Like sorry im not either black or white, so its like when I mention the issues i have to face, crickets. Or when I mention how I was almost physically attacked by a racist guy and no one even bothered to care, I'm so fucking tired of all this, I wish I could find a job where I don't have to deal with people and if I have to work a place where I do have to, at least not be so completely excluded and forgotten but at least I got friends outside to keep me sane even if they now live 3 hours away

No. 1511039

>>1511027
Seconded. I just can’t understand why a heterosexual female would want to fuck a male. Truly baffling. Honestly shocked that straight women the world over aren’t denying themselves their sexuality. Why aren’t they living in communes and pursuing pure and chaste female friendships instead of doing something disgusting, like fucking a man.

No. 1511040

>>1511039
I think men can be attractive but most straight women can’t or don’t date attractive men.

No. 1511044

Am I wrong to think my vet is fucking ridiculous?
>make vet appt
>they force us to go to adjoining rescue building instead of normal vet
>we book followup appt
>weeks later I get a text asking me to confirm
>then I get a robocall asking me to confirm
>then they call me asking me to confirm
Is it just me or is this fucking ridiculous? Of course I am taking my dog in I can barely get a fucking appointment and the shit for brains scheduled my dogs at the clinic a door down instead of the normal vet but I took what I could get because I didn't want my dog suffering more. And the CUNT BITCH SLACKJAWED vet lectured me on oooh how much do you clean her ears oooh well they are really bad what have you done..? I've gotten meds for her ears and it doesn't help bitch. I clean them and it doesn't help don't autistically lecture me while staring straight ahead like a robot bitch. I will actually destroy you. Moron. I prefer my main vet he's faggy with an earring but he has bedside manner

No. 1511045

>>1511040
Yes, we must only allow ourselves to date men You deem attractive. To hell with our individual tastes. I can’t wait for Your holy book of rules.

No. 1511049

>>1511045
Most straight women don’t have a type though. Most of them just date who ever has the best personality and is at least the same race but to be fair most women don’t have the luxury of being picky like men can so I don’t blame them.

No. 1511056

>>1507539
Late reply but I'm not the first one to just call her Paki lmao

No. 1511058

>>1511049
>keep making excuses to fuck [ugly men]
But then
>most women don’t have the luxury of being picky so I don’t blame them
You just said they’re “making excuses” to fuck men, which implies responsibility…but now they’re not to blame. Bitch, pick one. Are women responsible for fucking men you think are ugly or aren’t they? If they aren’t, why would you accuse them of making excuses to do so?

No. 1511069

>>1511058
>you just said
I didn’t. You do understand that not all anons are the same person….right?youre triggered so I’m assuming your scrote is probably ugly and you feel personally attacked kek

No. 1511070

my brother ( around 30 ) is constantly on call with his gamer friends ( surprisingly more than one woman are present ) WITHOUT his headphones volume fucking blasting our furnitureless house i'm fuming but i can't say anything because he'll threaten to kill himself or something i'm so fucking annoyeddddddd holy shit i can't get any work done for uni because of his constant degenerate dogs friends. i honestly used to respect him and even idolize every single year when he still used his headphones. i don't want to know that much about you man idgaf i don't want to know yet this shit is imposed on me and i have no say against it. don't say move out because i can barely afford more than 3 potatos kek i'm turning romanianon delusion levels of actual poverty. i literally DO NOT want to know any more about him and my perception of him is completely irreparably shattered. he literally is just like the perverted guy who groped me in middle and high school in terms of mindset only my brother actually respects women to a degree, or i hope it's not again a facade. he's unfathomably immature. i'm not saying you instantly turn into some master of wisdom and courtesy but god he's so fucking inconsiderate. he keeps this up until whenever he decides to sleep which of course is never a reasonable hour and keeps my mother and i up until then, especially her because she's a light sleeper and infantilizes her son to an extreme level. i'm so tired anons. i'm seriously not joking when i say the volume is blaring through the entire house, his door is always closed yet i can't put any music on to enjoy because all i hear is his unfunny immature pervert friends. i'm so angry. i don't want to hear your whore friend moaning or your faggot friend talking about taking prostate busting cock up his ass i'm sick of this shit my god

No. 1511074

>>1511049
>most women don’t have the luxury of being picky like men
Uhhh, wtf are you talking about? Women should always be the picky ones in the relationship. Male attention is abundant and free.

No. 1511077

>>1511074
We should be but that’s not the reality. For example if your type is kpop looking boys or Swedish underwear models you might never see a man out in public who looks like that and even if you did it’s a slim chance he would want to date you. But for men there’s a higher chance of them meeting really pretty women like that because plenty of normal everyday girls have model tier looks. There isn’t enough variety in men for all of us to be picky, so most of us just have to take what we can get or be single.

No. 1511080

>>1511070
I'm so sorry that's happening but you're really good at writing about it, I laughed a lot at your post. if you are this witty on the spot perhaps you could join in on the game and roast them all into silence lol

No. 1511082

>>1511077
tell me about it…. i see pretty girls every time i step outside and i see a good-looking man a couple times a year… it's so bad for us

No. 1511084

>>1511077
Most of the men that immediately catch my eye usually end up being gay upon further inspection because they’re the only ones putting minimal effort into their looks. A lot more men would be passable if they just took care of themselves

No. 1511085

>>1511080
i reread my post thanks to your reply and it's absolutely filled to the brim with typos kek to be fair i wrote it in a fit of rage smashing down on my keyboard kek but i'm glad you enjoyed it nonita that made me smile

No. 1511096

>>1511082
>it’s so bad for us

Yeah and I hate when people say “male attention is abundant” yeah for sex but not relationships and a lot of men have this mentality that they will only date and marry “their type” and all other kinds of women are just to be used for sex and or money.

No. 1511116

I'm just tired. My OCD is off the charts after quitting marijuana, but after working the industry for almost 5 years, I had to quit for personal and ethical reasons. Why sell shit with mold and bugs? The CCB finally started shutting down places because of unlicensed chemicals being put on potential product. I just want to smoke pure, good weed and it seems impossible now unless it's home grown. It breaks my heart knowing people are getting something terrible when it's a plant made to help. These companies really only care about fast money, but people now get sick from it. It's not right.

No. 1511121

>>1511032
No it's very slow nowadays. Especially with popular apps dominating and everyone perpetually on their phones without creating anything themselves, it's like all of the creativity/personalisation went out the window. Even YouTube is fucked now for that reason.
I weirdly miss reading others websites or how Google had that "I'm Feeling Lucky" button and finding so much stuff!

No. 1511123

>>1511077
Most of the men that immediately catch my eye usually end up being gay upon further inspection because they’re the only ones putting minimal effort into their looks. A lot more men would be passable if they just took care of themselves

No. 1511124

>>1511070
girl longterm sleep deprivation is a form of torture. tell that turd to use headphones or you'll kill him yourself in a sleep-deprived rage. and you'd deserve to do so btw that is so fucking dumb.

No. 1511125

>>1511032
i think a lot is now on discord or private chats instead so original, main spaces end up like ghost towns.

No. 1511128

>>1511070
tell him to let you sleep or you will kill yourself, play into his suicide threatening game too.

No. 1511134

>>1511125
Ntyrt but everything is in discord chats now and I fucking hate it. I love servers of 10-20 of my friends but all the servers for randos or interests are full of the most annoying immature people posting unfunny memes and chats that move so fast any meaningful conversation is done and gone in five minutes. I know people have talked about how it's killing search engines but there really are no more discussion forums.

No. 1511143


No. 1511148

>>1511032
Twitter got bought out by elon muskrat and now everyone's scattering trying to find a replacement platform, but also fatigue and boredom after two years of terminally online covid behavior

No. 1511149

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Received 3 rejection emails in a row today. Feeling real bummed out right now.

No. 1511161

>>1511070
Let him kill himself. Men should kill themselves more. People who dont use headsets are selfish pricks.

No. 1511162

>>1511149
Try to make your favorite drink and dessert. So sorry. rejection sucks. jobs are being petty assholes lately.

No. 1511178

I’m 29 and I told a 16 year old to kill himself today because he was making fun of this girl for being fat and dark skin, of course he used the typical zoomer excuse of “I’m young so you can’t be mean to me!”. I don’t care if he’s young he’s going to grow up and forget being nasty to some girl because she didn’t fit his standards but she’s going to carry those wounds around forever.

No. 1511181

>>1511178
I don't care that you told him to kill himself but why were you talking to a 16 year old in the first place?

No. 1511184

>>1511181
ntayrt and I know sometimes it's hard to remember but in the outside world you tend to come into contact with people of all ages. I talked to a 70 year old lady at the grocery store the other day. Wild shit.

No. 1511185

>>1511070
do the same thing he does and blast conversations with your own friends, or some random group of degenerates on discord, talking about the stuff he talks about with his friends but inverse.

No. 1511186

>>1511181
It was a discord server for anime and games for people who live in my state. The first thing I see when I joined the server is him dragging this girl for being fat and dark skin. It reminds me of how back in the day I’d go on stickam and get dragged for being a black girl as a teen and to this day I don’t post any photos or anything of myself online. I could never go on cam and chat and have fun with everyone else only because I was dark skin kek

No. 1511188

>>1511178
>him
literally don't care, no matter the age, you're not in the wrong no matter how much someone try to make you feel, moids talking shit have it coming

No. 1511207

>>1511203
Seriously though, as adults we should be telling these children off anyways. Are these anons really saying if they saw a little girl getting bullied by mini scrotes they would just sit back and do nothing? Fuck no, the little shit needed to learn a lesson. At 16 he 100% knows better.

No. 1511212

i really wish i had a normal home life growing up. i feel like something about having a childhood full of abuse and turmoil just does something irreversible to you. i wish i could just be naturally normal and successful and happy and uncomplicated as all the people i know who grew up with normal, loving parents with little to no abuse. i dont even mean this in like a "woe is me boohoo" type of way, im completely over what was done to me as a child and im ready to move on. but its like my brain is so fucking irredeemably screwed up from it that living life will never come normally or simply to me. Its like my brain is just missing one big crucial piece to the puzzle that makes someone a fully functional human. the way i think. the way i talk. the way i form relationships and friendships. its all so wrong. I got prescribed prozac today, i figured theres probably no harm in giving it a try. from what ive heard antidepressants are pretty hit or miss.

No. 1511214

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Literally everyone here told me not to talk to my abusive ex and just block him but I spent hours arguing with him even though I’m literally on vacation rn. I should have just blocked him while he was still grovelling for my attention but now he started being nasty to me again. I’m sorry for ignoring good advice, I just regret not getting closure on so many things in my life but this was definitely a stone I could’ve left unturned

No. 1511223

>>1511212
I think about this every day. I'm in the same boat nona, it completely ruins how you interact with people, how you view yourself, and the things you do. I feel like I'll always have this scared abused child trapped in my mind and in the body of an adult who is supposed to magically know the true nature of other people's intentions. Even miniscule things like something like a person setting a cup down too hard has me trying to figure out what I did wrong and how to placate them. I can't even bring myself to disagree with my fucking close friends. I really envy untraumatized people.

No. 1511229

I’m noticing most men don’t want to be decent people or have decent lives and I don’t get it. Ever notice how womens self help role models are people who give advice like go to therapy, eat healthy and create boundaries but men idolize people like Andrew Tate who tell them to do drugs, be with women who use them for money, treat your friends like shit and die alone. Men who listen to him don’t even realize they are on the path of dying alone in a nursing home with kids and ex wives who hate them.

No. 1511233

>>1511229
>Men don’t even realize they are on the path of dying alone in a nursing home with kids and ex wives who hate them
Nah, they do, they just don't care as long as they got to fuck as many women as possible before they die. When you realize that is their only true goal, their behaviors finally make sense. "nothing matters in pursuit of coom" is the male species' motto, no different in humans.

No. 1511327

I had a dream visiting houses with my ex scrote and we were happy.
I guess I have to write myself a letter and write down how horrible we actually were together. That shit wasn't worth the safety of having a house.
Anyway, this is a shitty start for a day and I'm so fucking sad.

No. 1511329

I hate random crying outbursts because my add brain won't let me sleep and my mind start wandering to intrusive thoughts of my parents dying and I just don't know what I'd do
Emotionally speaking, mostly
The only future I see is killing myself
I'm sorry, my fiance
I can't won't be strong enough

No. 1511335

I’m so fucking tired of people who I think are “friends”, more particularly men, telling me their fucking suicidal idealization and looking at me for a response. At this rate, I feel like telling them to do it bc idk what they want from me. I listen and listen to how bad they feel about life, like I feel the same, there’s literally no point in living, but they always look at me for the same fucking response of “oh don’t do it, you’re soo amaazing” or someshit.
I’m a complete pushover and I feel like shit for never telling them that I’m uncomfortable with the subject bc of my own mental health

No. 1511350

I'm going to lost my whole life this Wednesday and there is nothing i can do to stop it. Years of trying to build my life only to end up here. The only good side is that i'm young and i have plenty of time to fix it but it leaves me in such a fragile place and i hate fragility

No. 1511358

I'm taken with a good moid for once and I have feelings for someone else out of the blue, fuckin kill me please I was just never meant to be happy

No. 1511361

>>1510671
i want it and I WANT IT NOW!

No. 1511363

Fuck this cough. I'm waking up earlier today to go straight to work so that I may piss out of there early. God bless, it's taco Tuesday.

No. 1511364

>>1510671
Based and sexy pilled

No. 1511367

It’s so funny on dating sites when men who are like 27 bring up our age gap(I’m 31) and I’m like hun you look 10 years older than me

No. 1511371

>>1511367
Instant unmatch. They're trying to neg you but they'll lose their shit if you unmatch in response because you're probably the only non-bot match they got in that day.

No. 1511376

>>1511371
It’s usually not in the form of an insult but they say shit like “do you like younger men?”. I do not consider 26-29 all that young for a man, most of them look 35 already anyway.

No. 1511379

>>1511371
It could be a neg but you’d need context. Guys think they’re supposed to date women younger than them and therefore also think all women want to date men older than them. Moids are stupid, but they’re not all negging red pillers.

No. 1511381

>>1511134
I hate that I’ll probably never have another online friend because I hate discord so much

No. 1511385

>>1511379
Yeah, I'll bring up any age gap between us if it's more than 3/4 years early 'cause it's good conversation fodder. Could let me know if that's a weird festishy thing and I should run.

No. 1511393

Food costs too much and i want to fucking kill myself

No. 1511404

Found one of my chickens dead today.. No idea if bird flu, and ill just get to watch my entire flock die now.. I'm terrified. Doesn't help I habe an exhibition on fucking Sunday opening and I'm not done.. I know they're "just" chickens.. But they're my pets, not my food.. They come when called, love cuddles.. On one hand I am so damn numb right now, on the other I want to scream and cry and just.. Neither helps right now.

What if its the flu and they all drop dead the next two days??

No. 1511405

>>1511367
Imagine not exclusively dating men a decade younger, couldn’t be me. Unmatch that shrimpie

No. 1511407

>>1511404
Can't you contact a vet? No clue if it's possible to get one specialized in farm animals to come to your place to check all your chickens at the same time.

No. 1511408

>>1511404
I'm sorry for your loss and the not knowing would kill me. Maybe you could get a necropsy if just for peace of mind. It could've been a heart thing you had no way of knowing about. Again I am so sorry

No. 1511409

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Anons, you will not fucking believe what happened yesterday, what in the actual fuck. My father decided to keep this car from almost a decade ago. It was a good car, supposedly (Apparently it had already caught fire due to overheating, but dad hadn't told us, and secretly refused to sell it too) Yesterday, while we were driving home, our car caught fire in the middle of the road, I had to jump far onto the sidewalk with soft grass…i injured myself a little but I didn't break anything as I used my back to shield my arms and legs, I just got a lil scratched with maybe one bruise. Luckily, this happened right in front of a hospital, where there were also policemen and services. We all survived, except the car, of course. It also happened near a family home, were everyone attended us.
Wanna know the craziest shit about all of this? in the morning, on our way to work and before all this happened, we saw a random car burning down with no one inside…just there, in the middle of the road, just like our car ended up…I'm absolutely pragmatic and not religious, but, it really seems that something wanted to warn us, and the fact that we had all these incredibly fortunate circumstances (in front of a hospital, with a family home nearby, with grass to jump on, it did not explode right there, no one died)…it seems that something also saved us from an absolute tragedy. I don't even know what to think…I'm just in shock. That was movie-worthy, I'm glad to be alive here to post this to begin with cause what in the actual the hell

No. 1511413

>>1511408
>>1511407
Thank you so much you two.. Was at the vet already, they can't test and he said not to waste the money on an autopsy. Farm vets. I'd have to send the corpse to the government, which would take them a few days too. If its bird flu, I'll know sooner sadly. There isn't anything you can do and most will just drop. It's mostly deadly. If it was bird flu and so and so many were miraculously spared, if I send it in, the rest will still be culled even if they survived it.. Even if they're just my pets.. Which is why I'm not contacting the government yet. If it turns out to be the flu, I can still send them in then to get the warning areas expanded and updated.

I'm selfish, I agree. I don't care, this entire thing is utterly stupid and ridiculous in the first place.

There is a chicken vaccine against the bird flu, but it's not been approved. It would leave markers, making the chicken bird flu positive even if it wasn't, ruining the chicken meat market all over the world. Glad we agreed culling thousands and thousands was just easier. I would've vacced mine immediately. I don't eat them, I don't sell them. They give me eggs and love and endless entertainment just watching.

But hey, capatalism and cheap meat.

No. 1511424

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>>1511413
>>1511408
>>1511407
Picture tax, thank you for listening. Black girl without any bum feathers in the middle. Yeah, that's normal for her kind..

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No. 1511471

Pissed off at my boyfriend for being a tranny supporter who cannot think critically for a second.

No. 1511478

>>1511409
what the fuck. That is super crazy. If that happened on TV, I would call bullshit about the whole thing for being too unrealistic. How's car catches on fire in front of a hospital?
I'm glad you're okay.

No. 1511480

>>1511471
He would vote away your rights in a second and not bat an eye if you had to go to a prison with a penis having rapist, girl, why are you rewarding him with sex?

No. 1511494

>>1511480
an excellent point made, nona

No. 1511497

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I don’t even watch historical costuming channels but I keep getting recommended this shit. Why are these bitches so invested??

No. 1511500

>>1511478
Lmao I know right? The whole situation was just surreal. I'm actually fine, no broken bones or anything, just some bruises. Glad I'm here shitposting with you guys

No. 1511502

>>1511497
People have hobbies and interests nona, maybe you should get one yourself?

No. 1511504

>>1511502
Did you even look at the pic retarda

No. 1511505

Pissed off because my boyfriend randomly mentioned he finds a certain type of perfume attractive and it's the one our coworker wears

No. 1511507

>>1511502
Nta but corsets are awful and so are the people who defend them. Liking medieval torture devices is weird but liking corsets isn't apparently

No. 1511509

>>1511507
Source on corsets being like medieval torture devices?

No. 1511510

>>1511504
>>1511507
What is the problem? If someone likes historical costumes and stuff let them sperg about it.

No. 1511511

>>1511507
Real average old corsets were no worse than bras but I genuinely don't get the obsession either

No. 1511514

>>1511507
What does that have to do with someone liking historical fashion and critiquing period piece costumes?

No. 1511519

made a mistake and read a certain thread on /g/ why are so many anons so racist towards asians

No. 1511520

>>1511514
Nta but there’s this weird push with a lot of costubers to try to pretend like there was never any issues with corsets and they’re like totes feminist actually

No. 1511524

>>1511519
I swear to god it's one or two retards shitting up threads that have anything to do with yearning for a type of male. They'll always come in and post pictures of UGLY ASIAN WOMEN WITH WHITE MOIDS I FIND ATTRACTIVE REEEE HOW DARE THOSE ASIAN WOMEN STEAL LITERALLY EVERY WHITE MAN IN AMERICA REEEE THE WHITE RACE IS DYING REEEEE– oh whoops haha didn't mean to say that last one!! It's all so fucking transparent like they have to be autistic or a moid or something.

No. 1511525

Having the period hungers and I could eat anything and everything

No. 1511526

I don't really understand why some anonymous on here get mad at people when a thread in the off topic or /m/ thread asks for your opinion on something and call you retarded for posting and spilling milk on people, Isn't that the point of this site? why are people here if they hate milk

No. 1511528

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>>1511520
Even back then it was some pickme shit kek. May as well say fillers and the tik tok teen filter are harmless as well

No. 1511529

>>1511497
These are the same women obsessed with vintage wear and heels, acting like this shit was peak femininity, when it was torment for women to be forced to wear this shit every day.

No. 1511531

>>1511528
>>1511529
Stay out of /g/ if this triggers you this much O Holy and Based Modestly Dressed Anons.

No. 1511533

my friend keeps ignoring my messages and texts a random thing after days of ignoring me. i just asked how she is after she asked me it in the first place and she didnt even bother to answer. i feel like she only texts me to have her opinions about our shared interest validated, because even then she keeps ignoring what i say even though i acknowledge and reply to everything she says

No. 1511536

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That thing people say about mothers being a girl's first bully is completely true. At this point in my life I just want to be left alone.
And fuck people who immediately try to find ways to shift the blame to victims or say they need to take accountability. "What were you wearing?" culture is alive and well.

No. 1511537

>>1511531
I use /g/ all the time, i'm just a history sperg who just can't stand "akshually corsets were like bras" people who don't understand the extremely blurred line between corset use and tightlacing and how common and painful tightlacing was.

No. 1511547

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>>1511537
All the big historical fashion youtubers looove corsets and sperg about how great they are all the time and I keep getting recommended this video about them being angry about actresses not wearing corsets. Makes me want to try one on to see what they're raving about. They seem really claustrophobic though and women stopped wearing them in the 1920's for a reason, when more sporty and practical styles and hobbies were popular.

No. 1511548

Turning 27 tomorrow and I feel like a bunch of garbage feelings. Exam in an hour, I am once again jobless. I cannot be 27 and this shit is happening.

No. 1511549

>>1511536
I feel you anon, my mother was my bully as well–but she needed me for emotional supply when her marriages would shit the bed so I had this weird push/pull dynamic with her up until I went no contact with her years ago.
The last straw?
Told me I deserved being deceived after sex because I "slept with the man too early." Then she promptly shifted focus on herself because she wanted me to dote on her third divorce. So I told her she deserved it cause she was frigid, bitter, and unfun so she shoulda seen the cheating to come–she didn't like that taste of her own medicine and went into screaming hysterics.
I have zero empathy for that emotional vampire.

Too many women aren't fit to raise daughters. Maybe my mom could've been a great boymom though with the way my family spoils their loser men.

No. 1511558

>>1511519
I dunno, but i've noticed it too. Asians seem to be an easy target for racism because no one ever speaks up about it. I'm so sick of it. even after anti asian stuff and asian hate pre covid, this shit is still happening.

No. 1511563

>>1511537
I feel like it's another way to treat women like idiots for not wanting to go back to what was essentially a form of torture for them. Women fought for get rid of corsets and wear pants because they were more comfortable. No one wants to be 'dolled up' 24/7. It's not realistic in any way and these annoying hyper femme youtubers push the agenda that women who wore these were overreacting.

No. 1511564

>>1511549
Wow this couldve been a post about my mom before she committed murder and is serving time
Plus,
>3 marriages
>Moved every year
>Untreated bpd
>watches fox news 24/7

No. 1511580

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I'm getting sick of my bf constantly painting me like an asshole just cause he has mental issues.
I got up at 6am to travel to a site for work. He got up with me to help me load some things in my car then went back to bed. His brother employs him under the table but he hasn't worked since the first week of January, he's afloat cause he has a trust fund with stocks so he has no real schedule. He also claims he has long Covid so everything we do has to tiptoe around his "sickness" that he has yet to see a doctor for and seems to be very selective i.e. when he wants to do something he is never too sick to prevent him from doing it.
Anyways.
After I got done at my site, I headed home. Otw I called him to ask if he wanted lunch, he said no and I clearly woke him up so I assumed he went back to bed. I got lunch then drove back to my place. Got home at 11am. Kept my boots on cause I gotta go back out to a different site at 2pm.

Dogs needed to piss, which told me he hadn't been awake at all since I left to let them out. He didn't come downstairs to greet me, I presumed he was sleeping, so I turned on the tv and ate my food with our dogs. After 10 minutes he stomped down the stairs and was giving me a look like I had offended him.
Claimed he didn't remember me asking him if he wanted lunch–not that there isn't food to eat around the house. I asked him if he wanted some of my lunch cause I had an extra chicken sandwich. He snipped "You gonna go back out and get me lunch?" Lol no. "Well I am not hungry for chicken." Ok, sorry then but too bad. "But I didn't remember you asking me if I wanted food!" Not my fault, you said no and I am offering you sustenance.
Anyway, he's really mad because I didn't go upstairs to greet him to hang out and he angrily told me he had been awake since I got home. Why doesn't he just come downstairs if he wants to engage with me? He's got a ton of excuses. It's just always on me to put in that effort to bend to what he wants to do and I didn't do it this time, but because I am doing what I wanted he accused me of trying to force him to bend to me.
He rejected me asking for a kiss and stormed back up the stairs.
Then 10 minutes later he came down to sperg at me more how I "am all set up downstairs to be alone" and so I am discarding his feelings cause I won't go upstairs to be with him.

I just wanted to eat my meal, say hello to my dogs, and watch a show/nap with some peace. I am not asking to be alone, but if he has a million excuses as to why he can't be downstairs with me then tough shit cause I don't want to be upstairs? It doesn't have to be anyone's fault. We are two people who want to do different things at the moment, yet his mentally ill ass cannot grasp this concept so he interprets me as the aggressor.

Still hasn't booked a therapist like what he's been promising me either.

No. 1511586

>>1511580
A tale as old as time. Why do nonas do this to themselves?

No. 1511589

>>1511586
Because society doesn't raise accountable men, we just expect to blame women for how they choose to behave.

No. 1511594

>>1511580
nonna…

No. 1511595

>>1511580
What is there in this overgrown child that makes you tolerate even a little bit of this nonny? There are men out there who can talk and act like adults. If you keep entertaining this man he's gonna ask you to hold his hand while he pees next. No reason to put yourself through this your whole life. I feel about no empathy for women who put themselves through this.

No. 1511610

>>1511595
>I feel about no empathy for women who put themselves through this.

You should definitely be blaming men who put women through this.

No. 1511628

Hoping to god I am not pregnant PLEASE GOD.

No. 1511630

>>1511580
This post gave me flashbacks but not to a past relationship. It reminded me of the dynamic between my mom and my brother when he was going through puberty.

No. 1511646

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i had a mock court assignment for class and i got the feedback back today. i feel so fucking stupid for thinking i did a good job. all the feedback was about how i seemed argumentative, how i needed to be friendlier, etc. i don't know what's wrong with me but people seem to just be repulsed by me. i constantly get told i have a bitch face, that i seem angry, that i'm aggressive. i try really, really hard. but even when i'm trying and i think i'm doing well, i get comments about it, and it breaks my heart. i want so badly to be friendly and likeable, the kind of person people want to be around. i have no idea how i was aggressive or argumentative during the assignment. i thought i was acting normal. i don't know what's fucking wrong with me. i wish i was a man so i could say things plainly and not have to smile aggressively and use a customer service voice with everyone without getting called a bitch. obviously my prof didn't call me that, but i get called it so much, and the worst is how many times i've heard people call me that when they didn't know i could hear. do i seriously have to smile 24/7 and constantly act submissive to be considered 'nice?' i don't want to do that. but it hurts so much to think i'm acting normal then to find out later that i come across as stuck up, angry, argumentative. how can i fix it if i can't even understand what i'm doing wrong? i am my personality. so if my personality is broken, how the fuck do i fix that?

No. 1511648

I think I am going through nicotine withdrawals because I feel so fucking depressed and scared and I can't stop catastrophizing about things I can't stop thinking about the worst case scenario I can't stop crying and feeling betrayed and disliked by my friends and boyfriend I can't stop focusing on my shortcomings and I can't stop replaying interactions in my head trying to look for signs that I am hated I can't stop thinking that I would deserve to be hated I feel so fucking anxious and sick I wish someone could hold me for a while and let me cry but I don't want to be near people because it feels like they all hate me I feel like such a nuisance I just want to be held I just want to be held I just want to be held I just want people to go away I just want to like myself I just want to like myself I just want to like myself

No. 1511649

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I have to go get a transvaginal ultrasound in a few hours and I’m terrified

No. 1511651

>>1511595
>>1511586
"why do women stay in relationships that aren't healthy when the other person is obviously the problem? btw i blame the woman for it. it's kind of the womans fault men are even like this in the first place, if you think about it. anyway, why would women blame themselves and stay with shitty men?"
if you don't feel empathy for the person maybe just don't respond to their vent. just a thought. there are other threads if you feel like reeing about "handmaidens," no need to reply to someone's personal post just to blame them.

No. 1511657

There's a 39 year old moid at work that is dating a 20 year old placement student secretly but I found out so I'm gossiping. All the women are of course disgusted, but god the men. The only ones that get annoyed about it are the ones that also fancy the student. Like one bald mood was giving off to me saying if she dated me I'd be younger. He's 36 and I was shocked when he said I thought he was mid 50s. Anyway I fear for this girl she's giggling to me and other female coworkers that she's not telling her parents and then she leaves and we're immediately concerned and have furrowed brows. Gross.

No. 1511672

>>1511580
What a huge faggot

>>1511657
Why would you not call HR

No. 1511674

>>1511524
You're delusional, honestly. Many, many women (of all races) are racist.

No. 1511676

>>1511651
That's a lot of jumps to end up not saying what she said. At some point, if you hate your job, you have to quit. There can be a lot of reasons to not quit: You'll be in danger of losing your house, you've been at the same job for years, you only have a pension and not a 401K. But at some point, you have to rearrange your life around getting a different job. Because if you stay, you're going to be miserable the entire time. And you only have one life, are you really going to spend it that way?
The abuse is the abuser's fault, but at a certain point, staying becomes a choice.

No. 1511678

>>1511648
Jesus christ nonna were you smoking 10 packs a day? This sounds hormonal (which could be an effect of heavy smoking)

No. 1511680

>>1511651
instead of getting your panties on a twist every fucking time someone questions such behavior in this board, you should realize that no mentally sane person would understand doing all this stuff over a moid to begin with, only someone that is already too deep into it would and its only fair anons find it repulsive, cause is not normal or healthy

No. 1511682

>>1511672
Because I don't trust HR and I don't want to be the scapegoat theh could both deny other people have essentially said it's their business so I'm making sure I'm telling people related or friends with those in HR upper management but I also have a feeling they'll not give a shit really. At least the student has acknowledged it to me and a few other women if something was to happen we would immediately know who to blame. Though hoping something bad doesn't happen and she loses interest or her parents find out lol

No. 1511686

>>1511680
Nya but agreed. Not like either of those comments were mean. At some point she has to take personal accountability her life choices. Assuming this moid isn't violent of course. Nona can and should leave him or be fucking miserable. This is akin to a fatty complaining about being fat and not changing their diet (assuming it's not a side effect of meds or whatever). No one wants to hear it because it's ridiculous. That's not to say she's responisbile for her manchild bf's behavior but come on…

No. 1511687

>>1511680
this is the first time i've said anything of the sort so not sure what you're talking about. anyway if you cant read the vent thread without being compelled to comment about how someone is "repulsive" and bragging about how you have no empathy for them, you shouldn't read the vent thread, because that is literally against the point of the thread. i do not understand people who go somewhere where they know people will be venting about their lives for the purpose of telling them that they're stupid and it's their fault. i'm not debating this with you any further but you seriously need to question what makes you act like this, and whether you could just hang out in different threads if you can't keep yourself from criticizing someone for venting on the fucking vent thread.

No. 1511693

>>1511687
It's not your fault yout moid is a retard but like you don't have to date him.

No. 1511694

>>1511676
this is a lot of assumptions for someone who knows absolutely nothing about her situation except for the what, three paragraphs she posted here? how does it help anyone in a shitty relationship to feel like they can't even anonymously complain without people jumping to tell her it's her fault and she needs to leave immediately right now or else no one should ever empathize with her? i am getting heated about this because ive been in physically abusive relationships and "tested the waters" by complaining about smaller stuff, and it fucking sucks to have people you don't even know trip over themselves to tell you it's your fault based on a few sentences online. again, why is it so difficult to just let people vent without thinking you have to anonymously make them "take responsibility" and let everyone know you don't care? if you think that (and i do reading a lot of posts here), you can just not respond and move on. there's no point, it's never helped anyone, and you do not actually know the situation of the person you're responding to.
>>1511686
it's not the "encourage me to take responsibility for my choices" thread. and if a fatty wanted to complain about being fat here and wasn't currently dieting, that would also be fine.

No. 1511696

I'm bummed by how much I blimped out. I know it's from drinking all my calories and that's a fact because I barely even eat. It's bullshit. I wish they made calorie free alcohol. I'm going to get back into iced tea

No. 1511697

>>1511687
No one is calling you repulsive but the circumstances, anyone sane enough would find such living conditions or relationship to be repulsive, calling who disagrees "psychopaths" is quite deranged

No. 1511702

>>1511697
anon i was responding to initially literally said she had no empathy for her. i didn't call anyone a psychopath. i just repeated her own description of herself. and for the record, it seems like the op that started this also does not like her circumstances? she obviously has a problem with how her partner is acting and doesn't approve. we don't know anything else about her life except that her moid is shitty and she doesn't like how he acts, somehow you all took that to mean what she really meant was "i have no spine, i totally approve of his behaviour, i have no other reasons why i cant leave right now, leaving has never occurred to me, i'm an idiot and i like being treated poorly, i actively chose to make my life worse, i will never leave, i want everyone to tell me how stupid i am for being in this situation in the first place."

No. 1511704

>>1511702
Is it cause he's got a trustfund and where they live is his and anon doesn't want to give up the dogs?

No. 1511710

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>>1511704
how on earth do you think i would know…? anyway i have to go now but i really dont like this trend that seems to be increasing of treating the vent thread as the 'unsolicited advice' thread. yes it's sappy but i really value having a place where i can get things off my chest without having to justify myself all the time, i hate seeing other people do the same and get responses from people who have the tiniest bit of info and suddenly become experts and have to give their opinions and blame them for their situations. bottom line is we don't know her, we don't know why she's staying (or if she even is staying!) or anything else. if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything. it's just not the thread for trying to moralfag about how you would never be in that situation or tell someone you don't care about what's happening to them. namaste.

No. 1511714

Boyfriends responds "all I can say is she's cute af" when I say I don't really know who I am anymore

No. 1511716

Saw this woman today at the self checkout and she looked like an escort. She had that filler face thing going on and she looked miserable. At times i see women like this who give their life up for moid attention. The road to pleasing moids leads to a very dark place. Reminds me of my ex bf who tried to persuade me into getting lip fillers and get me to vape. I'm so glad I loved myself enough to say no, thanks. At times i think of the "bad girls" from high school, you know the ones who started young and eventually never graduated. If i have any daughters in the future my best advice will be to always stay away from moids and to never listen to them. They are made of the image of Satan, women are made of the image of nature. Their affront to natural femaleness is proof of this. We don't go around demanding moids get xyz things done.

No. 1511717

I hate that 2 of my coworkers are treated so much better than me and have easy scheduales. Of course they're so much happier. The manager favors them!! I just need a different job to replace this one. I already suck at blending in, masking to be normal, but then I'm expected to be fake happy too. Everyone i liked has quit already because it's a sinking ship.

No. 1511722

>>1511710
picrel is killing me

No. 1511736

>>1511714
That would drive me nuts. Tell him you love him and thanks for the compliment but you seriously want to talk about it/vent/get advice (whatever your motive is for bringing it up). Unless you don't really care that much of course

No. 1511758

>>1511687
You could start a diary or journal if anonymous imageboard replies bother you

No. 1511779

>>1511710
Ntayrt but I agree. Having a place to vent is so important for validation and actualization of relationshit problems for women.
I posted about my past relationship problems here and for anons to simply agree that my ex was being a peice of garbo was the mental boost I needed.
Every other place on the internet just blames women outright or says to ~CoMmUnIcATe~ with the scrotes more as if it does fuckall at times.
I think it's fair to have a place to blast their behavior without facing backlash for giving them a chance, we aren't their mothers and we don't owe them shit lest we are at fault if the partnership falls short on their account.

No. 1511789

Recently I've been so tired all the time and I don't get why. I don't even have to go out all that much but whenever I do, even if it's just for a couple hours, I'm so wiped out that I have to spend the rest of the day sleeping. And when I am out I can't focus on anything and just feel overwhelmed and dizzy. I've also completely stopped talking to everyone I know because I just feel too exhausted to engage in conversation. I've always been one of those lazy/perpetually tired people to an extent but this is the worst it's ever been. I'm fucking up a lot of opportunities because of this, it's really annoying.

No. 1511799

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Being in a ~close knit~ family sucks. I'm not extroverted and I've preferred to be independent since I was a child. I regret that growing up and in early adulthood I felt that I had to put every decision I made past my parents, they weren't authoritarian or anything, I just felt because of my upbringing that keeping them happy should have been my biggest priority in life. Now I'm almost 30 and I'm nowhere that I want to be. They talked me out of every interest I had, which is normal for parents to try to do, but it's not normal for young adults to actually listen to. A combination of depression and my parents "reasonable" advice led me to give up on my dreams at first, and then my will to live thereafter.
The past few years I've done a lot of soul searching and realized that I'm just not supposed to be living like this. My family are all boring, sedentary people who obsessively watch the news and consider politics to be the most important thing in their lives. I'm not trying to insult them, I'm just the exact opposite to them and I find their lifestyle boring and unproductive. My parents both spend all day looking at their screens, and then at dinner the retire to the living room to watch TV all night. I guess they like the way they live, but it is so fucking dull and boring to me. As a teenager I would spend most of my free time on the internet like most weird autists my age, and I grew up in a small town so I felt out of place with the people around me. I used to have so much more fight in me, I wanted to run away from home when I was 18, I wanted to try different jobs and different things, I really wanted to go to school but I had no idea how to do any of the steps to get in, and my grades were probably not sufficient.
Over the years it feels like any struggle I had inside me was snuffed out, and I gave up on every being who I wanted to be. It's weird when I see people I went to school with, they look so different, like they found themselves; I still dress like I'm fucking autistic(and I hate it). I'm literally so scared to express myself in any way because other people will judge me. I'm sick of caring.
I love my family but I'm sick of being roped into their shitty lifestyle. I have a "bathroom" health issue that is hard to treat while living with my parents because they will ask me why I'm going to the bathroom so often. I can't tell them about things like that casually because they will take it upon themselves to check up on me, even though I clearly hate it. That's pretty much why I'm in the vent thread right now, I'm just so humiliated to be in this position in my life. My mom is forcing me to go pick up fast food with her tonight. She could literally get it herself but this is ~family bonding~, my parents are always fucking making me pick up fast food, they're not fat but I really fucking wish they were as punishment for eating such disgusting shit all the time and encouraging me to do the same.
Is it selfish of me to wish my parents pushed me more? Sometimes I'm in disbelief that they think that the life I live right now is actually acceptable for someone my age. When I was 22 it was just a minor failure to launch, but at my current age it's just fucking bleak. My life isn't their responsibility, certainly not anymore because I can take care of myself, but I can't help but be bitter that they didn't push me more when I was 18. I am pretty sure I'm on the spectrum, and I just needed a push in the right direction. It's taken me until now for things like entering a new career or signing up for school to no longer feel like it's over my head.
I don't know what else to say, every couple of months I come into the vent thread to ramble on about my life in a way that probably looks incomprehensible and mega gay and cringe to anons, but I'm so helpless here. I stay in bed when I'm not at work because of my current health issue, it should be temporary but honestly I don't have time to see a doctor. Consequently because of that and the fact that I'm just so burnt out a depressed, my room is a smelly mess, I don't wash my bedsheets anymore because the laundry is above my room and I don't like the noise, my cat barfed on my comforter weeks ago and I just left it there. My brother has covid so my mom decided he can have the washroom we share and I had to leave all my stuff in there. I haven't shaved my legs or exfoliated my skin in a week I feel even more disgusting. And since I have to use my parents bathroom and I can't use it before work because they're still sleeping I've been peeing in an icecream bucket and dumping it outside. I could risk getting sick to use my brothers bathroom and a real toilet like a human being but I got covid once already and now I feel like I have fucking alzheimers, I don't need to get any worse. It just feels like everything is being taken from me. I think god hates me. I'm moving out in a month(?) but the more time passes the longer it seems until I get to leave. I feel like I'm literally rotting and going insane. I need to see a doctor and I woke up for work today feeling like I wanted to kill myself. I'm not even gonna proofread this before posting it probably makes no sense anyway. My life feels like groundhog day rn

No. 1511803

I really REALLY hate moids that go on about their fucking “legacy” shit. I was just on IG and got a video on my feed about how women have more choices now than our grandmothers, one of which is the choice to be child-free. Shit there were so many comments from scrote scum saying how “preserving your legacy” is important. What fucking legacy? What have you done that makes you so special? What accomplishments? What makes you think that you HAVE to have kids? What fucking legacy are you leaving behind, your porn folder, mental illness, a couple bucks to your name?! Your mediocre shit genes aren’t special. Besides, they aren’t the ones carrying around a whole ass baby for 9 months, giving birth, and making life-changing sacrifices. It’s easy for bottom-feeder moids to say they want 6 kids for “muh legacy”. GTFO with this crap.

No. 1511804

>>1511803
Men think they are special just because they exist

No. 1511812

>>1511803
their legacy is a greasy bedroom (that their mothers or grandmothers probably clean) and unkempt facial hair. stop giving these moids attention, they will never say or do a single intelligent thing in their lives.

No. 1511819

This is the second time I'm going to the hospital for a congenital condition (it's an easy fix, just requires a little surgery) but my fucking gf is pissing me off. I literally cannot do anything by myself at the moment because I'm on strong pain meds and have a hard time walking around. Apparently having to cook dinner, get me things occasionally so I don't have to limp around in pain, and drive me to my appointments is too much and they are depressed and overwhelmed. What the fuck? I'm pissed. I understand it's stressful and all that but like at what other point in my life are you going to have to woman-up and pitch in a little bit more except for now? I can't talk to her about it either because she flips out and starts crying and bawls her eyes out about how she's so overwhelmed. What am I supposed to do, literally. I've tried being empathetic and kind but it's had zero effect.

No. 1511824

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My pelvic floor issues have ruined my sex life, I hate dilating and I feel so broken and just dysfunctional when I do it. It takes up time out of my day and I just feel like what's the point when it takes around a week of everyday dilating just to have sex that isn't painful. I also feel terrible about my mildly overweight body and just feel like I don't look good enough to have sex anymore. I even had vaginal swabs and general testing done recently just to make sure it wasn't an infection but everything came back clear…yup, my body is just broken. Never got wet before, and the first few inches of my vaginal canal is extremely painful. Almost peed myself at my cervical exam because of the pressure and pain but I got it done.
It's honestly got to the point where I just prefer to fantasize or indulge in escapism like reading fanfiction about characters from video games. That interests me sexually more than actually doing anything sexual because I just associate my body with being broken and not meant for that stuff anymore. But if I escape to a fictional world I can technically dream/imagine anything and it's great, I don't have to worry about my self-image or my health issue.

I also woke up yesterday with some mild pain almost like a cramp in my pelvic floor. It almost felt like a UTI at first but it wasn't at all, then it went after 20 minutes. Idek what's going on. I feel like I am being punished for just being female. I used to be able to cope with this when I was younger because I'd have no sex drive anyway but as I'm getting older it's getting higher and it's insanely frustrating to try and manage. I need a subservient, knightly masculine moid to unleash this frustration on but I realise that every moid out there is either a porn addict or just a highly undesirable scrote with weak calves. I'm losing my marbles!!!!!

No. 1511826

>>1511799
I'm looking forward to you moving out. You're right. Your parents are dull and unproductive that's fine they're content but you're doing right. No point lamenting about what you could have done that time has past but you're moving out and you're working. Just get time off work to see the doctor when you can

No. 1511833

>>1511824
I’m sorry anon. That all sounds very frustrating. Is it okay if I ask a couple questions? Are you taking anything for the uti’s? Like daily supplements? Do you drink lemon water a lot? The acidity can give you utis. Same thing for a highly acidic diet. Don’t use soap in your labia. Have your hormones been tested? Can you sit on the ground with your legs crossed and hands in your lap and in the same breathe can you do ten kegels? How is your glute strength?

No. 1511837

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I know these bitches are going to ghost me and never text me back. Why does this happen EVERY. SINGLE. TIME I try to make plans with other women? They'll be really excited to hang out and then boom fucking nothing and we never end up hanging out. They'll alwyas tell me they're totally free and totally down to hang and then we never fucking hang even if I ask them if they're still down to hang out, I.E. I am giving them an out if they have something come up like JUST FUCKING TELL ME SOMETHING CAME UP!!!! JUST LIE OR SOMETHING!!!! Like this one girl doesn't even have a fucking job and she told me she cleaned her room so she can have guests over and I just know she'll ghost me. Call me a fucking NLOG or whatever but why can't women just gear up and communicate that they can't hang out? I'm not a moid so there's no chance of violence and I've ALWAYS made sure to be understanding with them for ghosting like JUST FUCKING COMMUNICATE YOU RETARD. I always make sure to tell a friend I can't make it whenever something comes up because I know it'd suck if I ghosted!!!! Why do I always have to be the one getting ghosted and the one to constantly forgive and forget. I know it's not a big deal but I JUST WANT TO HANG OUT AND HAVE FUN JESUS FUCKING CHRIST WE CAN WATCH WHATEVER YOU FUCKING WANT WE CAN SMOKE WEED I WILL BE THE DESIGNATED DRIVER JUST HANG OUT WITH MEEEEEE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

No. 1511842

I have a friend who is pretty, thin, white and her parents paid for her education. She’s so privileged that she’s never eaten McDonald’s or Taco Bell yet she still managed to fumble the bag and fail at life.

No. 1511852

>>1511799
Sending you a hug nonita, this is such a miserable and stifling situation to be in. I was a mega retard with zero social skills and was in a very similar situation to yours, so trust me when I say you can absolutely get better.
Don't worry about looking/acting/feeling like a tard because everything's beyond you. Look up how-to guides online and follow them, they might not be the best but they'll work until you get the experience you need. Make sure you have a moving checklist and start sorting your things out now, so you don't forget anything important. Change your sheets if you're too overwhelmed to wash them. Start sorting out your mail, bills, and anything else that you need to change the address for. I know you don't have time to see a doctor, but can you look into having an appointment over the phone? It might fit your schedule better, and your parents won't try to tag along.

No. 1511860

Just saw a woman online call other women “bleeders” under a menstrual post.
>There is no normal. Sure there’s inbalanced but for every bleeder that looks different
What the hell. I hate this clown world. Stop pandering.

No. 1511861

>>1511837
If they all keep doing this you need to take a hint that they hate you and stop pestering them to hang out.

No. 1511868

I always think about Kyiv anon. Is she ok? It's been months since we got news from her and iirc she said she decided to stay in Kyiv because of her grandma or her parents. Kyiv anon if you're reading this tell me if you're ok!

No. 1511873

>>1511861
Yeah except my other friends tell me these girls talk very nicely about me behind my back and seem genuinely excited when they see me in group settings. I'm not going to be a paranoid weirdo about this because they would have to be sociopathic freaks to be so nice to me and joke around with me when they actually, seriously hate me. They're just flakey as fuck all. They often ask ME to hang out and they still ghost. I like them and they like me I just wish they could just fucking tell me they can't hang out.

No. 1511876

>>1511873
Samefag my favorite type of retard anon is the kind that think they 100% know your entire situation and the entire context and then project their own experiences onto your post.

No. 1511879

my friend and i keep getting into arguments. acts obtuse and purposefully won't see my POV and it obviously makes me blow up at him, he (i know) admits that he acts like this on purpose. meaning, he says he tends to raise tension and cause controversy for no fucking reason. i dont fucking get it?? there's more to it but its frustrating. what does that even fucking mean

No. 1511880

I've been trying to find a job for two months and none have replied. It's not like I'm aiming high, most are retail jobs and even they didn't respond. I hate sitting at home all day, it's so tiresome and boring, everything becomes stressful or a big deal if you have nothing to do. I stay in bed until 5 pm, I can't eat, I can't sleep because of doing nothing all day. I'm lucky I see my friends on the weekends because if they weren't there I'd be a complete nutcase by now. I want a job, even if it's shitty retail. The only volunteering I can find you have to be a member of the Christian church for. I'm just so sick of everything. All I have been doing is read my old books, I have no inspiration for art, all my old passions are gone. I feel like such a loser.

No. 1511903

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I hate when men find me attractive. Hate hate hate.
I don't mind having male friends, there is just no longer any appeal to their confessions or interest. It used to give me an ego boost but there's no need for that in my life anymore so instead it's just uncomfortable. I get embarrassed for them, too.
I've leaned more into being gnc lately, both for comfort and to appeal to other women, and it seems to have made it worse somehow. Must be the confidence.
Gonna kys myself, nonas…

No. 1511912

>>1511860
Was it an attempt to edgy NLOG humor or… was it unironic ?

No. 1511918

It sucks being lonely but also hating people. I have no interest in talking to them but I also yearn to be close to someone. It’s the same old shit…I try dating sites and all the scrotes talk the same. The same cheesey lines to try to steer the conversation into sex and they all look like shit too so I’m totally not excited by them. I don’t have any interest in making friends because I’m burnt out.

No. 1511935

Why don't people hate me in a regular way? When people hate me it's in a psycho way

No. 1511936

My male housemates always leave toilet seat flipped up and it drives me nuts but I feel to embarrassed to tell them about it. Fucking hate moids

No. 1511939

>>1511936
remove the toilet seat and hide it for about a week. the next time they shit they'll understand.

No. 1511940

>>1511860
…what? bleeders as opposed to what? the only way to be a non-bleeding woman is careful use of hormonal birth control and even then you usually bleed some.

No. 1511970

i have never known someone as cruel as my ex best friend. she was competitive and unsupportive and single white femal-ed me out of my entire life. i am still living the repercussions even though i cut her off ages ago. i am still so angry and each time i watch her profit off of the personality that she stole from me i want to explode. i've never outed her but i so desperately want to.

No. 1511976

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i hate the cosplay community, i love the creativity, I love crafting and sharing projects but god it’s infested and impossible to be in any more. Every female cosplayer I meet is either a tif, NB, or filters the hell out of her photos. I’m so sick of it. Even the semi normal cosplayers constantly share pro trans activism shit, or fighting about shipping ethics, and anyone I manage to befriend enough to get close to spends all day posting mental breakdowns on their private story / account or self diagnosing & whining about reach and likes!!! I feel like everyone has been zapped by some laser that melted their brains and makes them act retarded, no wonder so many cosplayers distance themselves so severely

No. 1512009

>>1511940
Uhhhh what about post menopausal women or women who don't bleed because of medical or hormonal issues

No. 1512013

>>1511912
This was some normal-looking middle-aged women saying this. I guess she was just trying to be “politically correct”.

No. 1512014

I miss my best friend so fucking much. I know she's icing me out, which is exactly what she's done to other people in the past. When she doesn't want to be friends with someone anymore (justified or no) she stops talking to them and completely disappears. I suspect she's avoiding me now and I'm kicking myself for not realizing earlier that this is how it always had to end. We used to text every single day and now nothing. I'd absolutely love to send her something retarded but then I'd just confirm to her that she's doing the right thing by completely avoiding me. No, better to never initiate conversation to avoid the agony of waiting for an icy response. (so instead I'm posting my retarded ranting here instead)

No. 1512023

>>1512009
Huh. Actually that would make a lot of sense and also be pretty funny if it was the case

No. 1512075

Not much of a vent as it is a positive. I just found out my ex's girl is a total pickme and her room is covered in gross hentai coomer garbage and I highly suspect she sells nudes based on all the thirst traps she posts. I suddenly don't feel so hung up on him anymore, kek

No. 1512096

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my face is gets so delightfully bloated after i wake up or cry i wish there was a surgery to keep it looking that way permanently because i look like a gaunt ghoul after the swelling goes down. i can't cry ot sleep enough to keep myself looking like a (cute) human being for a long time. i look so scary snd disgusting but at least i know i have the potential not to…

No. 1512098

>>1507299
I dont consider myself radfem but I believe in this wholly. I'm completely straight but will never date, and I am holding myself to that. In the past it was "I want to work on myself" but now I realize what is the point of working on myself when the man I end up with wont do shit for me? Even men I met in real life, though I dont know a lot of guys, have a level of scrote to them that I know wont go away. That's just how it is. I don't want to say something like women and men shouldn't be together but ultimately one will end up sacrificing themselves for the other and the relationship and its usually the woman. I don't know how any woman can date someone knowing they essentially disagree with your entire existence. Not me.
I told my sister about this and she pathetically tried to vouch for dating as if theres anything worthwhile in it. It ultimately feels like women date bc they cant handle being alone. Even as a child I thought it would be cool just to live with my sister and we'd be mean old ladies together, and that sentiment is only strengthened now. I only ever imagined having a husband bc I thought I had to marry in the first place.

No. 1512102

I wish people weren't as fat, and I say this as an ex-fat person who grew up fat. It's insane to me that 50% of my country is overweight, it's so unhealthy and terrifying to think this is the direction we are heading in. And I'm not just being fatphobic, I don't care how it looks but I care a lot about the surrounding factors and health risks that comes with it. I don't want people to be out of touch with their bodies and not knowing how to take care of themselves, I don't want them to not even realize (some of) their medical issues could go away if they changed their eating patterns. Especially kids! I truly want people to be healthy for both their own and society at large's sake.

Food addiction isn't talked about enough. I'm not overweight anymore but I'm pretty sure I'm currently addicted to sugar, I can't go a day without it or I get grumpy. Countless friends are addicted to caffeine in the form of sugary energy drinks. I hate that I can't help people or point out bad habits without seeming like a dick even though they all want to lose weight. Ordering 2 burgers, fries, nuggets and a shake is not a normal 1 person meal! You don't just eat "small meals" yet magically put on weight, you snack all day leading to you feeling full at the proper meal times and that's why you think you don't eat a lot, but you do. You're not fat because you don't work out and you don't need to work out at all to lose weight, in fact it's a lot easier to eat less than to work our for weight-loss. Live the exact same life but skip the extra snacks and suddenly you're slowly losing weight. I wish I could help people.

No. 1512103

Feels like i have no one, not even me. Atleast ill have the earth t feel me. The water to to touch me.

No. 1512105

>>1512102
Help people that want to be helped then join a fitness forum and give people advice. Nobody likes the friend that harps on about their habits being bad. Like you aren't my mother. You seem to have a lid on it though

No. 1512108

>>1512103
Thought its my fault for everything and to a degree it is. But i realize the result would always be the same no matter how hard i tried because it was like that even when i gave it my all. Now i realize there are no rights in thia world for a ugly mentally ill early 20's woman in a shithole country with no other family members except for borderline unhinged parents who also hate your guts and are waiting for you to move out.

Maybe i should enjoy human cruelty until my last days. Maybe its written in the stars that this is supossed to be my life so i should enjoy and live every misery because quitting (sudoku) the game would be considered cheating the system and we dont want that dont we. We need to keep the lowest people breathing so we can verbally and physically abuse them and feel better aboout our shitty lived because hey atleast thats bot ours.
I mean even this site too was originally built on making fun of mentally ill people although i am not as retarded as them to post myself online.

No. 1512109

I've had a phase where'd I'd reject my autism diagnosis. I'd recognise I exhibit the symptoms, but I'd blame many other things. Through recent experiments with solving recurring problems in my life, I discovered that approaching them through the lense of autism has reaped the most benefits. This inspired me to consider my life through this lense further and reassess the way I perceive it. I recognised that some interpersonal struggles I had been having were due to my very real sensitivity to abrupt change and a lack of structure, which lead me to raise the topic among the people around me, including my boyfriend. He has been complaining a little about my high sensitivity. I am aware life is unpredictable and I am constantly developing coping mechanisms. What's important is that the people around me understand what those mechanisms are so they can understand and respect my choices (i.e. my need to finish a routine and not be disturbed during it). It saddens me that he has such a hard time accepting my sensitivities and the fact that it's very real and important to me. That my reaction to abrupt changes and surprises is the same as if someone kicked me in the leg. I am not sure whatsoever how to help him understand me better and grow more comfortable and understanding toward my neurodivergency. I think because we started dating before I myself really began to accept my autism again, he doesn't see it as strongly as a part of my identity as I now do. It makes sense because that's how he got to know me. But now I don't know how to convey the realisations I've made and the experiences I have any better than I already have. It's something that time will have to work on…

No. 1512111

>>1512108
Dear feds, I am and i repeat NOT suicidal. What i say is just jokes. Dont raid me.

Atleast the earth will love me and understand me. Ill have value to the bugs eating me atleast.

I dont even have a soul, pretty sure fragments of them already died. Now its just a empty husk, a vessel with bipolar disorder and depression.

No. 1512114

I woke up early but didn't want to leave bed so sad there for a couple of hours. Now I'm gonna be late. This sucks because if I had just gotten out of bed when I woke up this wouldn't be happening

No. 1512115

When i cry i incite feelings of anger. When she cries she incites feelings of sympathy no matter how wrong she is. Well you can have her. Adios. Have fun bozos.

No. 1512165

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>Already has bad knees
>Starts doing squats and stretches whenever I take breaks from sitting down
>Suddenly I can barely get up from squatting position without being pulled up
>Slight, but constant pain in my knees
>Visits a physiotherapist
>"Anon, either your knees are so weak they can't handle squats or you at some point in your life got a muscle inflammation that never healed properly without you realizing it"
>Now I'm scared of doing any exercises at all

No. 1512171

I hate that anywhere co-ed online where the trans issues are discussed critically there are always a handful of moids who want to talk to you about how black people are also whiny crybabies. Gendercrit males are often just aggrieved white guys who wish they could quote FBI statistics. That’s one of the reasons why talking about it amongst women is so much better.

No. 1512208

>>1506737
I'm in the last half of college and this one awful moid I met at the very beginning is still cropping up in my life somehow even though I have blocked him and everyone who associates with him on as many platforms as possible. He has a history of creepiness and a HORRIFIC reputation among women, but because he can appear mildly outwardly "charming"/"nice" he amassed this crowd of men and pickmes who will defend him to their last breath.

I actually lost an entire friend group over this, because he sexually assaulted my best friend in front of me at a party and me and one other girl in the friend group were the only ones who wanted to cut him off or even acknowledge it. Even though the majority of the group witnessed it happen.

Actually, my last female roommate, who I fucking introduced to that group lol, took his side so hard that she cut us (me, my best friend the victim, and my other best friend who allied w/ her) off to go hang with the rapist and his posse of scrotes more. So now I live with a misogynistic bitch who constantly goes around telling everyone that we are all just jealous and lying about the SA. And there's a chance she could just bring this rapist (who she probably fucked after the fact) around my apartment at any given time.

And you know what all the defenses of him are? From women:"Oh, he's so nice, he would never do that." "He's just not that type of guy." Really? I was in a car with him and one other man alone and he made a joke about "feeling like he could rape someone right now". And when I fucked around with him freshman year (I was making terrible decisions and this was before I knew his reputation) he would make all sorts of jokes about date raping me (its a joke tho!!), getting "rapey" around me when he was drunk, he choked me without asking, he forced my legs apart sometimes when I would shut them while kissing him. Same dude also told me he had to switch to watching solo porn only because he was afraid looking at dicks for too long was gonna make him gay. He also was infamous for getting so blackout drunk that he would make out with big fat chicks at parties, which apparently perturbed him so much his frat had to have an intervention with him about it (but somehow none of the other shit).

Annoying women love him because he has thigh tats and paints his nails and shit, but I just want to scream all of the disgusting information I know about him into their faces. I want him to walk around with a laundry list of his disgusting deeds (I honestly haven't even mentioned half of them in this post) taped to his forehead. The problem is even when women know this they take his side anyway for the validation I guess? I've had 2 different women side with me to my face, then go fuck him behind my back later and tell everyone I'm lying. And I only tell them about my friend's SA, not the extraneous offenses. My friend's SA, which was so bad she cannot even get a pap smear now without having a panic attack and when she sees him in passing she starts crying.

And of course, he lives at my apartment complex (just moved here a year after we did). I see him on campus constantly. I see him at our fucking campus gym, even though I avoid the male-majority areas FOR THIS REASON. I feel like I can't escape and everyone loves him for some reason and I am just going to snap one day.

No. 1512210

Overhearing my mom and neighbour giggle and laugh about how useless their husbands are because they never help out with anything until you beg them to, their only priorities being football, sleep and hanging out with friends and they hate to be left alone looking after the kids for 1 hour but its alright and can’t be helped because “that’s just how those darn silly men are!” pissed me off so much. Women are so fucking retarded and brainwashed. To marry a man is to sign up to be a slave in fancy coating. I’m straight myself and this shit looks so fucking bleak.

No. 1512214

>>1512210
The funny thing is those women will still think they are better than you because they have a man.

No. 1512216

>>1512208
I hate when a moid is so clearly an evil retard and people just can't see past like, the shallowest of niceties.
>thigh tats
>paints his nails
Maybe that's why. I take men painting their nails as a red flag now, especially if there is nothing else feminine about them. It sucks that this is going on in a place of education. Men don't deserve college. To them, it's just a place to harass women. He's probably always been a sex pest. Can't you report him? I wonder if he has a ton of money or something. I don't understand when the most grotesque of men get so much love and attention when they are the biggest walking red flags in the area. In my experience, even the most outwardly rapey moids I've met in school have at least one female orbiter, how does this happen?!

No. 1512227

>>1507582
Ugh I feel your pain nonita. When my bf isn’t hanging out with me or engaged in his one hobby, I genuinely think he watches paint dry in his spare time. He listens to the same 3 albums over and over, he doesn’t watch TV/movies, the video games I buy him are collecting dust, he never goes out anywhere besides his college… it drives me fuckin bonkers. The dinner date thing is especially relatable, it’s either that or sitting around at home doing nothing. When I try to do anything else with him he’s bored/uninterested within an hour. Putting up with that for ten years is crazy though, idk how you haven’t gone insane yet. I think if you’re having thoughts like this you’re probably not boring tho

No. 1512228

im trying to learn touch typing and its such a pain in the ass!! i wish id bothered to learn it earlier bc now i just feel super slow and i keep making mistakes

No. 1512233

>>1512216
I'm so glad you understand. Yeah, I think maybe subconsciously women think that defending/befriending these predators will prevent them from becoming future prey. I think a lot of women also buy into the lie that women accuse men of rape falsely because of jealousy or something. I think it comes from a place of not wanting to believe that it could really be this bad, that misogyny runs so deep even through men that appear """safe""" on the outside (i.e, not a literal homeless person in a bush). I think it breaks a lot of peoples' worldviews to discover that a conventionally attractive man can be just as much of a degenerate rapist as an ugly brutish one.

About reporting him, I wanted to. But ultimately, the thing he did that would actually catch university attention, the actual tangible sexual assault, is my friends' choice to report and not mine. He ended up texting her pleading her not to "because she'll ruin his life" (kek, I wish that would happen but realistically it wouldn't). I don't know if this had an effect on her because I think she already didn't want to before he sent that. She seemed humiliated to talk about with the school. I think she didn't want to have to see or interact with him ever again and was afraid it could lead to that. I told her that it could be anonymous and everything, that she almost certainly would not have to face him if she didn't want to, but this didn't budge her at all. I always try to reassure her but she's really against it for now

No. 1512234

Just struggled for an hour with changing propane tanks. My regulator would not make a good seal. Its 98% humidity and I am dreched in sweat and air water and coated in brass shavings but by god I got it to work even at the cost of almost completely stripping the nut…a problem for another day I guess. Fuck.

No. 1512237

>>1512233
> Yeah, I think maybe subconsciously women think that defending/befriending these predators will prevent them from becoming future prey.


Nta but yeah right kek

No. 1512239

>>1512237
Oh yeah, no, I agree. If anything, being friends puts you closer to the danger zone.

No. 1512244

Ugh I hate 2 of my coworkers. Ones a fatty and one's a tranny and they're fucking nightmares to work with at least the tranny is leaving soon so dunno why fatty is alienating the rest of us cause when it leaves who's going to back you up. Fuck sake you could stand to do some work you fat cunt

No. 1512246

>>1512227
This is currently why I'm planning to break up and move out of me and my boyfriend's apartment in a few weeks. He's become so dull and boring it's insane, and thinks watching Netflix with me is spending quality time together, because in his words, we've apparently got nothing left to talk about so might as well just watch something in silence. A few months ago I suggested a breakup already because I took this disinterest as him not being in love with me anymore. He was shocked and cried because he could not stand the idea of living without me, but I'm like how? He barely looks at me or talks to me. No sex, because I don't want to sleep with someone who takes me for granted, so I can't even pin his panic on the idea of losing access to intimacy which I guess is most men's reason for keeping a partner they don't love around.

I truly think most men have to make a sincere effort to be interesting, or else they just go into this vegetative, half-depressed state where they take everything for granted, yet still somehow expect people to want to be around them. Since I mentioned that I wanted to break up he's made no effort to change and will probably feel blindsided when I actually go through with it. Fuck him.

No. 1512263

instant coffee triggers my ibs severely to the point where I have diarrhea every day and it stops the moment I stop drinking it and yet I can't stop drinking it because it's so tasty. I have a coffee grinder and I can have a fresh high quality arabic coffee that won't trigger my ibs that hard but it doesn't taste as good as disgusting full of sugar and other crap instant coffee.

No. 1512267

I wish I could meet someone who also enjoys my interests, every time I hang out with someone we always do whatever it is they like. It's always been like this, even in school. I discuss my friends' interests with them but I always get fucking radio silence when I want support or just an ear for my thing. I feel kind of jealous of people who seem to easily meet people who also like their niche interests. Like that one girl who somehow met another girl who was also obsessed with a robber character from a Sims 2 spinoft and they made a website together. Even when going out and meeting people at cons I somehow always seem to attract more normie types uninterested in things I like. Maybe I should try the friend finder again.

No. 1512274

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>>1512263
Please love yourself nonna. Seriously though, having that much diarrhea is bad for you. Make sure you replenish your elecrolytes and drink extra water if you're resigned to instant coffee shits.

Anyways I can only ever be interested in media if it'a horror-themed and it's pretty annoying. It just doesn't hold my interest if it's not spooky or otherwise dark and fucked up. I probably am missing out on good video games because of this but I can't help it.

No. 1512279

>>1512267
I’ve had to accept taking on some more normie palatable hobbies and interests in order to have common ground with new friends, which is fine with me to some extent. I think it’s usually almost impossible to find someone who truly shares the deeper parts of your soul and anything really niche especially if it’s thought provoking or takes particular effort. I’ve come to accept that I can make tons and tons of friends to chat about crap like video games or whatever with, but when it comes to my real passions I’ll just get a bunch of “wow I wish I had that kind of discipline, that seems hard” “you make me feel self conscious I don’t do anything SMART like that” and shit like that and that’s the end of it. I even tried seeking out likeminded people online but everyone seems kind of stupid and shallow about things, so my opinion is it’s better to just give up and accept that you’ll generally only find human connection over surface level interests. I’ve only ended up upset, disappointed, and feeling strangely alienated among friends/peers when I put more effort into trying to find people like me or get the people I know to relate to me more deeply or about the really specific things I’m truly passionate about.

No. 1512281

>>1512263
>I have a coffee grinder and I can have a fresh high quality arabic coffee that won't trigger my ibs that hard
i'm not making fun of you specifically and i don't imagine ibs is funny, but the way you worded this is kek

No. 1512287

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>>1512263
Is it this one? My sister and I loved this as kids but only got it once or twice cause it gave us the shits lol

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>>1512274

>>1512287
yea I know I'm trying to drink as much water as I can, some lemon juice with salt too. I know I will eventually need to stop bc I don't want to ruin my guts permanently lol, maybe I will just start from drinking less, like a few per week instead of a few per day, and then once per week etc.
>>1512287
no I mean like coffee sachets, especially maxwell house with powdered milk and sugar which makes it even worse, I have like 3 of those a day kek

No. 1512298

>>1512279
Nta but man, I had this same experience. Shits bleak.

No. 1512309

>>1511868
She didn't reply to my post…

No. 1512336

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I'm going to a cousin's religious wedding in a few weeks and I'm really not looking forward to it. I dodged her first wedding with her now ex husband (but went to the religious celebration before that one) but I'm not getting out of that one. I hate having to waste an entire Sunday in a shithole among dozens of retarded muslims for a cousin I talked to like 5 times in my entire life. What can I do to pass time once I'll be there?

No. 1512349

>>1512336
consider leaving without telling anyone shortly after saying hello to the bride and a couple other people.
if that's not possible then hide out somewhere at the venue. the kitchen is usually good.

No. 1512351

I’m chugging some beers in the afternoon in order to quell flashbacks and panic attacks long enough to call the cops to report my abuser now that I’ve escaped. I probably wouldn’t but he’s a pedo and needs to be taken down. Wish me luck nonnas.

No. 1512356

>>1512349
Can't do that, they decided to celebrate everything in another region that's 2h away from where I live, and I don't have a car or a driver licence because I really don't need either. My father will drive everyone there and I'll only go back home once everyone agrees to go back home.

>if that's not possible then hide out somewhere at the venue. the kitchen is usually good.

I'll try that. I have no idea how the venue will be though.

No. 1512357

>>1512351
Good luck, that's not easy to do but you're doing the right thing.

No. 1512360

>>1512351
Good luck. Most importantly stay safe. Keep your footprints hidden until it's confirmed he's getting what he deserves.

No. 1512364

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>meet scrote
>extremely boring like most scrotes
>he keeps trying to steer the conversation to sex, I’m not offended by sex talk I’m just bored of it.
>I tell him he’s not good at conversation
>goes on a rant about how women only want him for what he has and not him as a person
>gets frustrated and calls me an ugly nigger(I’m half black)

I feel kind of icky thinking about how 3 years or so ago I’d be the kind of person to have empathy and give scrotes a chance or try to reject them with dignity. Now I see why Stacy’s will bluntly call scrotes ugly to their face and reject them.

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>>1512364
More from his rant

No. 1512374

>>1512372
>I'm not from nowadays
kek we got a time traveler over here

No. 1512375

>>1512364
Geez nonna, what a catch. I'm glad you got rid of that useless thing before things got serious.

No. 1512380

>>1511424
>>1511404
beautiful chickens, i am so sorry for your loss. animals have such deep and strong energies, we have been taught that livestock animals are less worthy than dogs and cats but its not true at all. its not 'just chickens' theyre living beings who you have formed great bonds and relationships with, let yourself love them and grieve them. i hope the rest of your flock make it out okay, sending love nonnie.

No. 1512382

>>1512372
Did you meet him online? If so, just block his ass. If a man is unwanted by all women, it's because he's really nasty personality wise because even the ugliest men can get women that love them but these misogynistic racist retards will never be loved by anyone.

No. 1512386

>>1512382
I met him online and at first I did block him because I found him to be extremely boring but he made another Snapchat account to reach me so I was like “ok I’ll give him another shot”.

No. 1512421

>>1512386
He violated your boundaries and you found that appealing and worth a second chance?

No. 1512425

>>1512421
He definitely wasn’t appealing. He didn’t seem mean just boring as hell so I added him back to be nice but I know that was a bad move. Im trying to unlearn that scrotes are human and should be treated with respect but it takes time.

No. 1512426

Tried to shave the back of my neck cause I have short hair a d I think it looks good shaved, but I think I cut myself instead. Damn. It's hard to use safety razors back there so I used a straight edge and now it stings.

No. 1512428

>>1512425
Anon you blocked him. That’s my point. You said not interested and he violated that by making a new account. That is mean. That’s a red flag. I just point it out because in the future emotionally healthy men move the fuck on.

No. 1512429

>>1512386
I'm the anon you replied to. He seems like the classic depressed porn addict, I've had similar guys try to call me racist shit when I turned cold on them even though I was more white passing than them, kek. They for real think calling me a terrorist or you a n word will hurt us because they're so fragile themselves. Block and move on, don't waste your time on guys online.

No. 1512441

>>1512429
>depressed porn addict

Seems like that’s 99% of scrotes these days kek

No. 1512471

>>1512096
I don't know how plump you're talking, but try this moisturizer maybe?

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07519S8RF/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It plumped me up too much for my liking so I quit using it, but a little goes a long way. Whatever you do, don't get dermal fillers- they're expensive and essentially permanent, even the so-called temporary ones, so there's no going back to baseline as what once was incorrectly believed. It just migrates and flattens, sometimes causing swelling in the face, which can be detected via MRI sometimes even 10 years after, and the dissolving agent isn't exactly a solution either because it can't tell the difference between your natural HA and synthetic HA from filler so just kind of "dissolves" the underlying tissue and leaves people with more wrinkles and crepe-y skin. I've gone on quite the tangent, but I can offer sources to back up my claims if needed. Just saying because someone's likely to naively recommend them to you and I want to inform as many people as possible because even a lot of dermatologists these days are still ignorant about the issue.

No. 1512476

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i hate that if a woman does absolutely anything online especially on those stupid reels on Instagram the comment section is usually always so negative and full of misogyny. like a woman could just do nothing minding their own business and moids will still always somehow find a way to be sexist and comment hate for no reason. And it’s never the case if were to be a guy in them instead.

i thought tiktok was worse with this kind of crap but if you’ve seen the comment sections on most Instagram reels they are even worse. i honestly should just delete that shitty app at this point.

No. 1512477

>>1512471
To add to that, the dissolving agent (usually hyaluronidase) is also often over injected and tends to spread to other tissues which is also to blame for that effect, but even in small amounts it can affect people badly.

No. 1512480

My father just told me "Just let me handle it, I'm better with people than you are" He's a literal diagnosed autist with atrocious social skills who's completely and utterly oblivious to any and all social cues and norms. I've had to overcome social anxiety as a teen so I'm not exactly a social butterfly myself but I'm perfectly fine with social interactions these days and unlike him I'm actually capable of reflection and have drastically improved my social skills. The only thing he is better at is steamrolling over people, yelling at them and threatening with lawsuits until he gets his way. The cherry on the cake is the fact we have a terrible relationship but we've been on a talking basis recently and he uses the opportunity to insert a sneaky insult, as always. I know I shouldn't be reeing about what a literal autist says about social skills but holy fuck I'm furious

No. 1512484

>>1512480
>steamrolling over people, yelling at them and threatening with lawsuits until he gets his way.
I think that's exactly what he means by being "better with people than you are", unfortunately.

No. 1512491

just started my driving classes and wtf i'm so exhausted. i hate driving

No. 1512503

Can't believe I'm 32 and still fantasizing about what life would be like with clear skin. I want to die nonnies.

No. 1512506

theres been an accident with some guy falling 5 stories nearby lately and of course gorey pictures of him are circulating groupchats bc haha funny crushed skull. i hate moids

No. 1512507

>>1511214
Sometimes we have to experience hard knocks for ourselves, because being advised isn't always enough. I've been there. Although I wouldn't wish that sort of thing on anyone, I hope that it at least makes it easier for you to detach from him for good.

No. 1512508

>>1512503
It would be mostly the same tbh. I pretty much never get any pimples and my skin is clear and I have the same amount of friends and romance and accomplishments and am equally liked compared with my friends and peers who have cystic acne. People are so hard on themselves about it and some randos especially in school when you are growing up can be dicks about it but the truth is no one really cares or thinks it truly impacts your beauty or likeableness. Everyone’s mainly just busy fretting over themselves but when they see a woman with acne they barely pay it a second of thought, and I have friends with very severe acne but everyone including me just views them as beautiful because they are. Hope you feel better anon. Watching a sunset is just as beautiful without a clear face, laughter shared with good friends is just as good, all of life’s true meaningful joys can open themselves to you just the same.

No. 1512510

>>1512491
I felt this way when I started driving, too. It's still a pain, don't get me wrong, but it gets a little better.

No. 1512513

Why is it that my family only gave me actual attention when I was severely underweight and stuck in a hospital? My uncle and aunt almost never talked to me, but they both came to see me when I was ill. They don't talk to me anymore now. And even my parents listened to me more, my father played cards with me (something he normally only does with his friends) and got me chocolates if I mentioned I wanted to eat some. Now he barely talks to me (he still talks to my brother like always though, he's the golden child). Like obviously someone is going to worry more about you if you're in danger, but why do they only do it then? I wish people were close to me even when I'm doing well. Back then I kept thinking that I wanted to "have fun" together with them when I got better, because in my state I couldn't live those moments like I wanted to. But now that I'm better no one cares anymore. Was it just pity then?

No. 1512519

>>1512508
You're nice but you have no fucking clue what you're talking about. I hope you've never given this little speech to any of your friends with cystic acne because it probably shortened their lifespan. Enjoy your clear skin.

No. 1512528

>>1512510
thanks nonita. theres so much shit going on at the same time i can't help but feel a bit overwhelmed. but if my sibling who drives like shit can get a license i guess it won't be that hard kek

No. 1512542

I fucking hate boymoms/grandmas, I get fucked over and have 2k worth of games/consoles stolen from me and I’m the terrible bitch for saying what that moid did to me? I’m not even the only person he fucked over but its my fault if he “gets hurt or even shot anon!!!” well too fucking bad maybe don’t try and con friends out of money and games and he wouldn’t be shitting his pants at work all because three people know about it. Maybe teach him to be responsible and learn from this instead of demonizing me all because your stupid son/grandson did this shit and now people are upset about it. I can’t wait to get my things back or atleast the 2k because I cannot live with my exes family when they’re all coddling a 6ft 250lb man from getting his ass beat for all the right reasons. No wonder this fucker lies and did all this, no one was there to beat his ass and now he’s making other people suffer because of how shit they raised him.

No. 1512558

I took my pet to an emergency vet today because I'm convinced there's a problem but they basically told me she's fine. I believe her unborn babies have died inside her and are poisoning her but they were quite adamant that all she needs is extra food? I can't take her anywhere else… The emergency clinic I took her to called the only other one remotely close to me and they said she's fine. Somehow going from behaving happy with lots of fetal movement to ZERO fetal movement for almost 24 hours and behaving strangely doesn't seem normal to me.

No. 1512568

>>1511649
Holy fuck I have one coming up in a couple weeks and I am terrified.

No. 1512575

>>1512246
Nta, just curious, nonnie, was he different before? I had an ex similar to your bf and after the breakup, I realized he was just as apathetic before we started dating, although he did behave slightly different at the start of the relationship as they usually do…it's just that I'd known him before and, in hindsight, it was silly to expect something else. I don't really know why I'm telling you this lol, but your post just reminded me of that experience and it made me think that women tend to make this mistake, when we simply overlook a major flaw, (sub)consciously hoping that it will change for some reason, and it never does. We should be way way pickier even though it's already hard enough to pick, sigh

No. 1512592

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I only got to leave my a/c unplugged for a couple of months before having to plug it back in. I'm miserable. It's already close to 90 daily, all the shitty pest bugs are back, and I'm cranky as shit. The worst part is that it's only going to get hotter from here until no part of the day is bearable at all and it lasts for months on end. Fuck Spring and fuck Summer. I don't enjoy being sweaty, I don't enjoy the harsh sunlight that stays until 9pm and I don't enjoy the hustle and bustle of everyone being on vacation and having to deal with idiot tourists when I'm just trying to work. Where are my fellow warm weather haters?

No. 1512596

>>1512351
Well nonnies I’m back and im confused as hell and upset and feel like I basically got nowhere but still have so much work to do. I want to share my experience so you can tell me if it’s normal or give advice or just in case you were wondering: spent hours on the phone with the officer so im gonna try to keep this short. He asked me to establish sort of how the relationship was. I told him about some stuff that I could have swore was counted as financial abuse and a lot of emotional and physical abuse. I had various instances of physical abuse I wrote about but only a few were written about from the city we lived in last so he was saying there’s not really much there for them to consider. He said I should call the 2 other cities we lived in to report the physical abuse I have written journals about to them. He was saying that it didn’t seem like there was a whole lot even though there were 2 reports that support evidence for what I told him. But because I wasn’t outright assaulted those times the police came he’s saying they might not mean anything for evidence. He was saying he can only really count things that were strictly physical or sexual assault.

I detailed some rapes to him and he was asking if the perp was 100% sure I’m his own mind that it wasn’t consensual. I tried to explain he’d have to be brain dead not to know he was raping me but basically he said if when he calls the perp he indiciates that he thinks it could have potentially been consensual then I’m fucked. WTF I’m so confused. I thought you could have people prosecuted for domestic abuse? Even if it wasn’t physical, which mine was. I thought keeping someone from being able to work or open accounts with violence and threats etc counted as financial abuse? Is it just because we aren’t married so I can’t do anything about domestic abuse and it has to be separate isolated assaults? Why are we in a relationship enough that me saying the sex wasn’t consensual isn’t enough, but somehow not in a relationship enough for literally any of the torture he put me through to matter?

Also I have a few people I had told about specific instances and one who was trying to help me get into a shelter for months but he basically said that if all they do is corroborate that I told them things on certain dates then that’s basically worthless?? He said they basically needed to have seen me be assaulted for it to matter? What? How is it not helpful for multiple people to have logs of us talking doesn’t that prove that I am not just suddenly making this all up? I swear to god this stuff has been used in DV cases was that all fantasy??? Can you actually not do anything about domestic abuse? Nonnas please respond I’m a burger btw

No. 1512609

This is a very specific vent but it feels so difficult to be a creator and engage with other cultures around the world these days. Most people don't care about consuming stuff from other cultures as long as you're respectful, but creating? It feels awful and like I have to walk on eggshells if I want to incorporate something from another culture in art or writing. I used to be so excited as a younger nonny to experience new media from around the world but now all I can think of is that if I dare to be 'inspired' by anything that isn't strictly from my own country I won't have a chance. It feels so racist and I hate that this is how people police creatives online.

No. 1512616

id give anything to be friends with someone like me. i have 0 friends irl, i just want another girl like me (mentally ill, acts weird in public) and for us to just get through the days together. its hard to do it on my own and it feels pathetic. im so tired of pretending to be like everyone else even when i trip over my words and stutter and hit myself in private going over every bad interaction im so fucking tired of it

No. 1512618

WHY IS YUGIOH ANIME LORE SO FUCKING RETARDED, AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

No. 1512619

>>1512513
Most people only care about ya when you are dead or sick. They don’t want to seem like assholes when you die. It’s a hard truth to accept.

No. 1512622

My mom still thinks of me as someone incapable of independent thoughts and decisions at 22 years old, we fought because I agreed to house sit for one night for a childhood friend (it's a 15 min walk from her house to mine, doing her this favor will cost me absolutely nothing) which according to her is an absurd unreasonable request, by her reaction you'd think she asked me for my left kidney. She refuses to believe that I accepted to help willingly, because I personally don't think it's a crazy favor to ask, and not because I'm being somehow manipulated (how???), literally compared my friend and her mom asking me to "stealing something from a five year old child". I don't even want to talk to anyone irl about it because it's so embarassing that she thinks this way of me lol

No. 1512624

It's my birthday and I didn't get many wishes, my boyfriend went to work and I was busy going through another migraine attack + period pain.
I hate this.

No. 1512630

>>1512372
>Calls you a nigger
>I'm not like other guys!
Can't believe you pulled such a stud nonny! How old is this retard anyway? I'm guessing mid 20s or early 30s kek

No. 1512633

>>1511868
>>1512309
Dear nonnie, I'm ok! I'm really touched that you remember me, but please don't worry, it's pretty safe here in Kyiv. They still launch drones and missiles sometimes into the city but much less than in autumn and our air defense has been working great. Plus, we don't even get power outages anymore. I wish there was a way for me to report to you directly, haha, because tbh I feel kinda awkward reminding of myself here and turning that dead war thread into my blog, I just don't want it to look like I want to get attention from it, especially considering that comparatively I've indeed been one of the luckiest (damn I'm actually scared to utter these words this boldly kek if universe is hearing this pls be kind to me) I'm probably repeating myself, but anyways I hope you notice my reply and I hope you're doing fine yourself, sending you hugs ♥

No. 1512639

>>1512630
He’s 29. How did you guess his age right?kek

No. 1512641

>>1512372
> I’m one of the really rare ones
kek why do the lamest ones always think like this? who gave them the confidence?

No. 1512644

>>1512568
It was way less bad than I thought it was gonna be. Now I’m just anxious about the results. I called my doctor today and they said they had my results and “don’t worry, if it was something bad they’ll usually give you a call” and I was like okayy but I am worried cause even if the ultrasound showed nothing is wrong, there’s still something wrong with me and I wanna know if it’s still a mystery or not?!? They said the doctor would call me but the office is closed and they never called.

No. 1512645

>>1512592
I’m with you anon. I hate it so much. I love winter here because it doesn’t snow, it’s just NICE for a few months. But then spring and summer and most of autumn are pure misery.

No. 1512656

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Just remembered that FtM girl in my highschool, who, with her stupid toddler looking, binder wearing, 5'1 never passing stupid self asking me about if I saw that another girl in our class had huge breasts. I Wanted to slap her goblin face so much and I still does for commenting like that about another women's body in public. Useless bitch also the girl was pretty in an timeless elegant way, what a cope

No. 1512658

>>1512641
I think men equate being successful and handsome as being an asshole so since they are poor and ugly that means they are a nice under dog like in the movies

No. 1512666

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>am right about an investment (no not crypto); it goes up 10x~ in a few days
>only put a little bit of money into it
>just make, like, 200$
>each time feels like a loss
>not once have any of my calls - which are very play-it-safe - lost me money
>keep on being too fearful to put in anything more
I'm guessing that the first time I get brave I'll end up losing money, kek.

No. 1512678

I’ve never been pretty but then one day I grew an ass and that’s the only thing people compliment me on. How nice.

No. 1512684

>>1512672
We are on the gossip website, anon.
I also sometimes forget that this isn't a just radfems kek. It's hilarious how both things coexist in one spot.

No. 1512688

i hate my idiot drunk ass neighbors so much.

at 9 pm, when i'm about to go to sleep:
>OOOOYYYYGGGGGÅÅÅÅOOOOOOAAAAA drunk fucking bullshit

at 2 am:
>OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPOSPASOIPFJDSFHDKJFH

at 3:30 am:
>OOOOODPSIFDSODFUDOIGFDHLFKHDS

and then, about ten minutes i am about to get up to go to work, these assholes finally get tired and go to sleep themselves. i work in a military base and boy do those all guns they leave out in the open awaken some a-log tier fantasies in me. (dear law enforcement and what not, this is a joke. i repeat, this is a joke)

No. 1512698

>>1512519
Cystic acne shortens lifespan?

No. 1512701

>>1512619
>people only care about ya when you are dead or sick
If you are really, really fucking lucky.

No. 1512702

Men don’t know that women can easily get sex, I mean they claim to know but they don’t really grasp it. Like men will brag to me about getting 200 matches on tinder while most women even if they are fat and or ugly their minimum will be at 1k if they just swipe right in everyone. This is probably why they are so shocked and confused when women aren’t as slutty as them and aren’t as eager to talk about sex.

No. 1512707

I wish I could interact with myself from the pov of someone else.

No. 1512708

>>1512702
They are fully aware of it, and in fact, it is one of the main incel talking points. Let's be real, the main reason why most women aren't slutty is because most women don't have the desire to sleep around, they are looking for their one true love or for the minority, they have given up and no longer care. Women are simply not as sex driven as men, mainly because we have more to lose by being that way and tbh, most women with high sex drives are very mentally ill.

No. 1512711

REEE my big arms ruin everything. I bought a pretty dress and it fits everywhere but my arms.My fault for hitting triceps too hard but I love my big flexed triceps they just ruin every cute dress and shirt for me

No. 1512747

>>1512708
Nta but they're unaware. A male friend of mine who's been using dating apps told me to try them so he could see how many matches I'd get and when I got 100+ in a few hours and the guys seemed interested in actually dating instead of fucking, most wrote like a few paragraphs as first messages and stuff, he got really mad. A lot of men know we get more attention but they don't know how much attention we get.
Though I disagree that ugly and fat girls also get matches because I've seen some anons in dating app thread and some women on these apps who get little to no matches aside from men who swipe right on everyone and then don't message back the girls they dislike. Either that or those anons put some super weird stuff in their bios.

No. 1512754

>>1512747
I’m average/ugly and I do get a lot of matches and most of them only want sex but it still shocks men because they don’t even get that. I usually can get 1k matches in like 2 days.

No. 1512758

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homophobic ex-friend popped into my mind with a memory i repressed. when i was like 10 i was trying to talk about politics with her. i loved her very much, she was smart, passionate about animal rights, and happy and driven. she was older than i am so i thought she would have her own opinions and we could discuss or debate something. then turned out she was more childish than i was and she even got uncomfortable when i mentioned gay rights. and i was very passionate about this and ranted about how people live in fear because of being gay. she said something like "as they should, it's disgusting" and i did not believe it. i said then does she think they should get beat up or something? how would she feel? and she did not respond. i said homophobes should get beat up instead! then she asked something like am i normal, and am i threatening her? she never acted that weird so i was confused and choose to forgot. then she said she has a headache and i should go home. she did not come to school anymore but her classmates tried to beat me up soon after, and i was transferred schools. her mother told me to go to hell or something. i was not even gay you stupid cowardly cunt. i don't remember if her or her mother was the bigger homophobic in the end, but somehow my music teacher sent me away from his lesson lmao whatever i hated that old dickhead. why did she tell her mom though at age 14 i would not talk to my mom like hey my friend said gays should not deserve to be beaten to death what do i do!?!
i thought of messaging her friends and boss about her homophobia but that country is still homophobic as hell even 10 years later so
picrel because it would probably make her cry

No. 1512759

>>1512758
I love your post

No. 1512762

>>1512747
>he guys seemed interested in actually dating instead of fucking, most wrote like a few paragraphs as first messages and stuff

im jelly tbh. I definitely dont get that effort and ive been on a few dating sites/apps

No. 1512763

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genuinely at my lowest point. im in my last semester at this college i hate for a major i regret and i just cant do it. im so behind in all of my classes (literally only 4) and i have no clue what's going on. in theory id graduate this may but at this point i'd be shocked if that happened.

it sucks to waste 4 years of time and money like this but im just mentally at my breaking point. my college put me on the "urgent" mental health list and they got me medicated real quick (antidepressants and some sort of sleeping pill) but i can't even tell if theyre working. ive used up every resource my school gave me and i think my professors are sick of me. i don't know. the worst part is ive been trying to catch up but im too slow and everything else is too fast. thank god spring break is soon because im about to LOSE IT.

No. 1512764

>>1512707
make an asmr type roleplay video of yourself for yourself.

No. 1512765

>>1512762
Same. All I get are cheesy sex jokes and dick pics kek

No. 1512772

why does feminism/woman-centered things have to be egalitarian and progressive

No. 1512773

>>1512759
she only has black and white pics and barely any likes, and no comments lol it looks so lonely, so so lonely…

No. 1512774

I miss my partner so bad

No. 1512784

>>1512758
She might have been a self hating lesbian or bisexual. I had an acquaintance in 9th grade who was from a super fundie Christian background who was vocally homophobic. 15 years later and she’s an out and proud lesbian leftie.

No. 1512785

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>started learning japanese with my friend on our first trip years ago
>go through big effort trying to teach her as i learn, she retains nothing, doesn't study on her own
>get to japan, she can't even read packages in katakana to buy konbini snacks, tries to repeat after me and tells people gibberish, misunderstands people and creates awkward situations
>start just telling people in japanese that she doesn't speak japanese so they don't try talking to her
>tries to do karaoke, cries when she realizes she can't do it because she doesn't know the words to songs she loves and has been singing gibberish all these years and can't read fast enough off the screen to keep up
>second trip comes around, she swears again she's going to really study and learn, i try again to teach her now that i know a little bit
>instead, she watched naruto to "study" and picked up one useless word ("fast")
>continue telling people that she can't speak japanese, she at least can't keep up with what i'm saying enough anymore to repeat me incorrectly
>she cries again at karaoke because she still has not learned the lyrics
>about to go on third trip
>i'm now confident in my basic proficiency at least in the specialized areas i need, starting to build a little, getting compliments from japanese people
>she's playing persona 5 in japanese to study
>test her today by holding up a bag that says "rice" in very clear and easy to read hiragana
>"n-no anon i just d-don't wanna read it right now"
>ends up admitting she's forgotten any hiragana she's learned
>but it's okay, she retained enough katakana to read some character names on a sanrio box in front of her weeb friends and impress them
>still karaoking, still doesn't know the lyrics, is going to cry again
>picrel mfw

No. 1512788

>>1512785
It seems like she probably had a mental break down because you make understanding Japanese a big deal and you judge her for not being on the same level

No. 1512790

>>1512788
how do you even get that from what i said? she wants to learn and wanted to study with me every time, but didn't have the commitment to actually study and retain anything. i definitely judge her for bragging about being able to do karaoke and read japanese to weebs who don't know any better when she couldn't read a bag of potato chips, but she can't understand me telling people to spare her the embarrassment of trying to talk to her. you don't know what it's like to be friends with an immature flake, i guess.

No. 1512791

>>1512790
>spare her the embarrassment

But you’re white. I’m sure Japanese people expect her not to understand.

No. 1512792

>>1512791
her own embarrassment when she realizes she wasn't understood or misunderstood the person, not theirs. which has happened, which is why i started taking the short route because she will cry about it even if no one at all makes her feel bad, just by herself. i don't care what japanese people think of either of our broken japanese lol.

No. 1512794

>>1512792
But would you need to explain to Japanese people about her messing up in Japanese when she’s white and it’s obvious?

No. 1512796

>>1512785
My sister in weebery, she does not want to learn Japanese. she’s never gonna learn Japanese. stop. you call her a flake but she’s literally crying in your story maybe you should lighten up and just have a goddamn vacation. Are you even her friend?

No. 1512797

>>1512794
i literally just tell them "she doesn't speak japanese", why would i have to explain? i say the same thing about anyone traveling with me who doesn't speak japanese and will actually own up to it. it's annoying to me because i have to translate everything for her after she's spent all the time between trips bragging about how she knows things she demosntrably doesn't. it's annoying that every trip, she's the one coming up to me "oh let's study together! teach me!" only to not even pay attention while i'm trying to teach her anything she asked to be taught. idk why you think i think that knowing japanese makes me superior or is some incredible skill, it's not, it's just frustrating to have to act as interpreter for someone, especially when they undermine your work by telling everyone how they got by on their own.

No. 1512798

can a libfem and a radfem find love

No. 1512799

>>1512796
again, i'm not trying to make her learn, she's trying to make me teach her. it's me who gives up because she doesn't put in any effort after asking me to do so. she cries because she thinks she's better than she is, then gets there and can't do what she dreamt up in her head. i am her friend for having the patience to keep talking her down when she's sobbing in a karaoke box because she couldn't meet her own expectations.

No. 1512800

>>1512797
Omg. Ok yeah I see how that’s annoying but you literally made yourself look like the villain in your first post. Maybe you should just talk to her a little about it since you are going to Japan like three times with her.

No. 1512801

>>1512797
Why don’t you go alone then? She’s just a weeaboo who wants to go to Tokyo and she will probably grow out of caring about japan at all in the next 5 years. Why do you even care about translating on a trip? Makes no sense kek

No. 1512804

>>1512800
yeah, i was trying to be short about it and ideally humorous, but i guess it lacks the context that she's just a crybaby who sets herself up for failure. i've tried telling her to get classes on her own or recommending apps but she only wants me to teach her, even though i don't know enough to be qualified to teach anyone. at the same time, she was bragging to me the day she couldn't read the bag about reading the sanrio box to impress her friends. she bragged about singing one of the songs she likes to karaoke in front of her weeb friends here without having to read the words, but that's because she doesn't actually know the words and won't admit that. she thinks she can do all these things but then can't when the time comes that she has to and melts down over it. at this point, i'm just trying to get her to accept her lack of knowledge so she stops being upset that she can't meet the goals she set for herself then never worked towards.

>>1512801
i do go alone as well as with her. this will be the third trip with her over the span of almost a decade, how does that translate to a phase? how can i avoid translating if we go to a restaurant and have to use a japanese menu or order in japanese or order a taxi and they don't have an english alternative? no offense nona but you're the big dumb

No. 1512807

>>1512804
Why do you care about translating on a silly trip though? It’s not like you live there with her.

No. 1512809

>>1512806
yes this is the case. she has asked me every time and expresses a very strong desire to learn at the start. she literally got us cute matching binders so that we could practice together. i don't get mad at her at any point, i just try to navigate out of the awkward situation when it happens. she cries over the smallest frustration, so i just try to avoid her being in those situations to begin with, hence just telling people she doesn't speak japanese. i have no reason to be mad at her, just privately frustrated that i have to do this extra work when she talks big game about being able to do it herself. it's like having a roommate who swears they can cook but then burns everything until you give up and take over, you know?

No. 1512810

>>1512807
lol you're definitely just tilted for some reason because you've lost your own plot here. yeah hold on let me just turn japan's settings to english so that i don't have to translate anything while i'm there? kek which one is it, you're upset someone else is going to japan and you're not, or you're mad that my post got attention and whatever sad thing you shat out upthread didn't?

No. 1512813

>>1512810
The fact that you think someone is jealous of you because you went to japan tells me everything I need to know about you and your friend. And hun I’ve been to japan it’s not a big deal kek it’s just a plane ride.

No. 1512814

>>1512785
Okay I guess I do understand your frustration but also your friend seems kind of cute from how you described her kek. I wish I had a crybaby weeb-chan friend to go to Japan with and translate things for.

No. 1512815

>>1512813
and i feel the same way, so it must be option B. sorry more people were more interested in what i said versus what you're clearly lurking this thread hoping someone responds to!

No. 1512817

>>1512814
she's definitely the my melody to my kuromi, lol. it's a very tough big sister/crybaby little sister thing. she does have a lot of cute and endearing qualities about her or i wouldn't put up with her kek

No. 1512819

>>1512815
>you’re jealous because people gave me attention on anonymous board

You seem a little narcissistic and the fact that you mentioned Japanese people complimenting your Japanese tells me you think this is really important and your unintentionally stressing your friend out. I get that vibe because I’ve had friends like that.

No. 1512820

>>1512819
the fact that you've responded to me so many times and are now trying to psychoanalyze me pretty much solely because you were incorrect in your first assessement and are now on quintupling down for some reason tells me you really need to touch some grass

No. 1512821

>>1512820
Definitely a narc kek just lighten up on your friend or stop going with her.

No. 1512822

>>1512821
i hope someday you have a good enough friend to be irritated by some mild aspect of your friendship and come whine about it on lolcow so a friendless NEET can also try to tell you what you definitely are based on their clairvoyant impression of the 24 sentences you've typed on an anonymous image board, the #1 place to go for individual attention.

No. 1512823

>>1509207
yass slayyyyy girl YASSSSSS you've been picked

No. 1512828

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>>1510450
late but yeah, i was also against generalizing all men until i actually went out and started interacting with men. i think it requires a certain softening of one's mind (soft =/= stupid, soft = accepting) as a woman to remain around men at length without getting pissed off.

barring the most feminized hsts, you will always suffer their casual misogyny ('i hate women haha', onlyfans jokes, references to whatever porn they're jerking off to, defense of other misogynistic men, subtle to severe attraction to gender roles – etc.)

it's like i'm in a d&d server, right? we're talking female-run societies and a moid immediately starts posting coomer shit like picrel. he hears 'empowered woman' and his mind goes to this. nobody calls him out on it, a few woman cheer and say the coomer-orientated doodle is a "girlboss". it's maddening

No. 1512829

>>1512822
The only reason you’re triggered is because you know what was said is true and you care about what people on lolcow think kek

No. 1512830

>>1512829
girl you were the one triggered enough to start psychoanalyzing me and you're doing it unsaged every time. i'm just reporting you and moving on now, there's nothing to be gained in a slapping contest with a retard. sorry your post didn't get picked.

No. 1512831

>>1512830
You don’t need to sage in ot lol you are an underaged weeaboo

No. 1512832

I'm crushing so hard on someone who doesn't even know of my existence and I've never seen in person. I look at pictures of him and my heart starts beating faster and I get dumber because he's just so beautiful and perfect for me. Maybe it's because soon I will get my period but, oh God, please give me that man I promise I will take care of him. I need him, give him to me or I will get dumber I swear.

No. 1512838

>>1512828
I feel this on every level anon. Even in supposed "women only" spaces it's a shitshow right now because troons and their handmaidens. Online it's worse of course because the rampant pro bimbo and SW brainrot. I'm tired.

No. 1512843

>>1512815
Nta but this is exactly how you treat your friend isn't it

>>1512817
>she's definitely the my melody to my kuromi
Insufferable

>>1512830
>sorry your post didn't get picked
This is such a stupid thing to get hung up on, other anon was right you're annoying and narcissistic. But we're just jealous we've never been to glorious Nippon three (3) times

No. 1512845

>>1512843
i mean, you could use your eyes and read the posts where i explained the situation, or you could just be salty. you give me another reason why that anon was so hell-bent on dragging me for their misinterpretation of the situation if not those two options? like anyone lurking in this thread isn't just waiting for a response to something they posted, c'mon. sorry this also triggered you for some reason.

No. 1512858

>>1512804
why not… stop going with her if you hate going with her so much? Seems simple enough to me tbh

No. 1512859

Family estrangement got me fucked up, it does not get easier years later, and my remaining family weighs on me with a sense of guilt, not comfort. I want to run away and take on a new identity, but I know that won't fix things. I loathe every day I am awake and working my silly service job in this stupid city. My wife is the only reason why I even try, but it's been too much lately and I know I've been dragging her down. I started drinking again, I feel so guilty because it only makes matters more difficult for her. If I could just slip between dimensions and disappear without anyone noticing that would be great.
I'm starting therapy when I have money, just tired

No. 1512867

It's so fucking annoying when anons insist that because you like something they don't then there must be something wrong with you for liking it. Fuck you, I will continue to like it and you can't do anything about it!

No. 1512868

>>1512867
Fuck em haters, keep doing you, Nonnie!

No. 1512870

>>1512867
What is it nonna? You're right. Someone always has something to say on here no matter what. It's annoying but also pretty funny how crotchety a lot of anons are.

No. 1512871

>>1512867
please tell me you're the one chimping out over the balaclava guy in /g/

No. 1512872

>>1512868
Thanks nonny. They're currently dogpiling me but they don't know I'll keep going until they stop and after that.
>>1512870
You post about something you like and then a few bitter anons have to pop up and bitch about it and weigh in their opinions (which were completely uncalled for). I don't care about what they think and I'm not going to stop liking something just because anons are seething about it. It's funny how they only reply to you if they hate what you like.

No. 1512874

>>1512867
No one cares that you’re a weeaboo. People are just saying stop being a stuck up bitch to your friend and if you hate her so much just go to japan with someone else.

No. 1512875

>>1512874
Omg is it that poster? Kekkk I should've known

No. 1512876

>>1512874
What are you even talking about? Not everyone is one anon. I don't post in /w/. I'm talking about the anons in the husbando threads.

No. 1512878

me telling my boyfriend about all the things my parents and previous partner did only to realise he thinks they are horrific and not just weird/funny things

No. 1512883

>>1512874

That anon has a completely different typing style you god damn baka

No. 1512890

>>1512885
When you post a man you want to fuck in the 'men you want to fuck' thread, the OP of which is literally
>Post conventionally attractive males you want to have sex with and have no shame admitting.
it's stupid and irrational for anons to jump on you because they themselves don't find the man you posted attractive. The anons in the 'attractive' man threads hate anyone posted in the thread who's not their roided caveman-looking plastic hollywood creations. The thread should be renamed to 'images of modern neanderthals'. My husbando is conventionally attractive - there's a reason there are so many images of him posted on pinterest and thirsty people in the comments of those. Yet those anons hate anyone posted who doesn't look like a carbon copy of the one before.

No. 1512908

>>1512876
Are you the Rance/Adachi/pee lover. Hey if you have shitty fetishes I'm allowed to call them shitty and think you're a weirdo.

No. 1512912

>>1512908
I do have fetishes some judgemental anons have made a fuss about before but human fluids isn't one of them and they aren't anything that would cause harm to someone else (or myself, for that matter). No, I made a post in /g/ about my husbando and anons were quick to jump on me to complain about how he isn't the hollywood neanderthal-looking creatures they wish existed outside of shooped paparazzi pictures.

No. 1512926

>>1512845
I feel like a lot of nonnies lack reading comprehension or just want to pick fights. It's baffling. Reading through your story, I understood what you were trying to convey. Just don't give them the time of day to respond to their posts next time, nona.

No. 1512928

I seriously can't wait to start nursing school and never work in a male-dominated career again. I am literally the only woman in my job aside from a much older female manager and I feel like I get half the level of respect that my male coworkers do, in spite of being just as competent. Whether it's conscious or not, there is a portion of men who will never view women as their equals. Fuckkkk working here another year, I miss how many women were in healthcare

No. 1512937

>>1512926
Yes it makes no sense. I post an attractive man in the attractive men thread and nonnies instantly jump on the hate train, and why? Well, I've explained why a dozen times at this point so I'm not going to go into detail. Along with anons hating anyone who likes men outside of what they personally find attractive, I know for a fact there are some anons who jump from thread to thread solely for the purpose of making judgemental replies. I've seen it myself.
>Just don't give them the time of day to respond to their posts
The only reason I responded to anons in the IRL husbando thread is because I want to be able to post someone I find attractive without getting dogpiled each time. If I argue with them once I won't have to argue again. And now I have multiple anons agreeing with me on his attractiveness.

No. 1512943

I've been sick with respiratory stuff for a whole month now and cannot seem to get out of it. First it was a sinus infection, now a cold /bronchitis. Breathing is hard and my lungs make a disgusting wheezing sound every time I take a breath. When will it fucking end. And I've been taking vitamins, paracetamol, dressing warm, etc

No. 1512949

Found out my boyfriend of 5 years has been fucking his co worker for at least the past two months. And the worst part is I fucking knew it. I knew something was wrong and I let him convince me I was paranoid bc of my last relationship. I finally figured it out today and when I confronted him he got so mad I genuinely thought he was going to hit me. He’s like a stranger to me now

I moved 800 miles with him for his job in November so now I’m stuck in a city I hate with no friends a shitty job. I literally don’t know anyone here. I’m going to have to sleep in the spare room of our apartment bc I have nowhere else to go. I barely have any money of my own and I know he’ll fuck me over and keep our cats. I have no car to drive back to my home town and I don’t think I can afford a plane ticket

I’m literally fucked. My life is ruined. I feel like there’s a hole in my chest. I genuinely just want to kms

No. 1512954

Please god, give me one day when I'm not making a total retard out of myself at work

No. 1512962

>>1512949
Do you have any family/friends that could help pay for a ticket or come get you? don't tell your bf, just grab the cats, your essential stuff one day and go

No. 1512963

>>1512949
Nona HE can sleep in the spare room, HE cheated.

No. 1512964

>>1512949
nona if hes getting violently angry like that you should grab a guy friend or your father or a sibling's bf to come help you pack and move out of there. or a girl friend.

No. 1512966

Why do my feet always feel comfy in ugly shoes and pretty shoes destroy my feet, legs, and back?

No. 1512969

>>1512949
Jesus, how and why do men turn like this? It makes no sense whatsoever. 5 years down the drain and for what? The coom? I truly hope you can get some help out of there. Despicable behavior.

No. 1512971

I spent a fair amount of money on a top, and I feel that urge to go through another selling spree (which I am in the process of doing.) It does feel good to refine my wardrobe but man if it isn't hard to buy new things that catch my fancy.

No. 1512979

>>1512949
I'm so sorry nonna! Do you have any family members or friends (in another city or people you befriended before you decided to move) who could help you out financially in the meantime?

No. 1512989

>>1512949
Sending you love nonna. You are going to make it I promise

No. 1513002

I fucking went from seven years of NEETdom to 4 full days of school and now I have an interview on Friday. I feel like my actions aren't my own anymore, like I'm being powered by one of those bug parasites that snails and grasshoppers get. I am overwhelmed as fuck but continuing to power through each day of crippling fear by experiencing it entirely. I fucking hate this. I went from doing art full time and making my own clothing to being a fucking cog in the machine. This is ridiculous. I am whiny and annoyed, and can only blame my stupid self. I'm gonna chimp.

No. 1513008

No matter how many people I see I feel so lonely

No. 1513013

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Finally told my bf about my drinking problem and he didn’t seem to care in the slightest. I hate asking for help and opening up about stuff like this so it really fucking hurts. Fuck. Why does nobody care until you overdose or end up hospitalized or some shit?

No. 1513014

>>1513002
That's such a drastic change. Like the shock of going back to school after summer vacation x10. I'd feel discombobulated too. I hope it gets easier for you once the routine becomes more familiar and you can still find time for your hobbies. Making your own clothing is cool

No. 1513018

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This will sound silly, but I truly feel like you nonas are the people that I’m closest with in my life. I feel like I can tell you guys anything because you don’t know who I really am, and it feels freeing. So, thank you.

Anyways. I’m currently speedrunning life right now, or it feels that way to me at least. I started driving like less than two months ago and I’m planning to get my license this month. I don’t think I’ll pass because last weekend I drove with my husband at night and made a left turn into the opposite lane. I’m just generally really anxious on the road still. I’m putting a lot of pressure on myself to get my license and buy a car so my husband and I can finally move out of his parents place and into our own house. I also have to start thinking about college, and what I want to major in and where. All of these opportunities that I didn’t have three months ago are suddenly available to me and I’m nauseated with how overwhelming it all is. Sometimes I wish I was smarter and could handle my depression and anxiety better so that I wouldn’t let myself get to this point. Sometimes I wish I was someone else, someone more capable of handling whatever life throws at them.

It’s all so tiresome, nonas. But at least I have you all.

No. 1513021

>>1513018
Practice makes perfect with driving. I've been doing it 20 years and I still get nervous sometimes. You'll be okay and don't get frazzled. Good luck!

No. 1513023

>>1513021
Thanks! If I may ask, how did you get accustomed to driving on the highway? I haven’t done it yet because it feels so daunting, but some say that it’s more peaceful to drive on than local roads.

No. 1513026

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>be me
>meet up with moid who I've known for a while
>cuddle at his place
>we start making out
>he gets horny
>try to tell him to continue watching a TV show so that I don't leave him with blue balls again because I refuse to fuck someone who I'm not in a relationship with
>"but nona don't you like it? I just want to make you feel good"
>continue making out
>I leave him with blue balls again and he gets moody
>tells me it's better for me to leave because he's horny now

Fuck this, I should've known. I've meet up and cuddled with him many times before and he always reassured me that we'd go my pace and he was never pushy before. I could punch him in the face for basically telling me to either fuck him or get out of his house. I'm gonna put him on blast the next time my friends ask about him so that he never gets laid again.

No. 1513032

>>1512817
Just get drunk and have vag ravaging sex already. No one's interested in your reverse Dr House and Wilson latent homoerotic tsundere BS.

No. 1513037

>>1512785
I'm from an Asian country and we compliment every foreigner that try to speak our language even though %99 sound hilarious because we like seeing people attempt to learn our language or history. Your Japanese is probably also shit but people are being nice and complimenting you because of the reason I specified above. Also, if you're only visiting a country for a small trip it's retarded to expect your friend to magically learn the language. A

No. 1513038

>>1513026
Please don't take this the wrong way anon, but don't meet up with men at their house only expecting to "cuddle." You're lucky this scrote only gets sulky and moody, some of them will straight up coerce or rape (although the 'blue balls' excuse is definitely manipulation enough).

No. 1513040

>>1513026
Why are you going to a man's house, cuddling, being there for him emotionally, making out, etc. if you aren't interested in dating him? Block him out of your life, he's seeing you as an easy outlet, get someone that respects your boundaries and loves you instead.

No. 1513043

>>1513040
Where did I say that I wasn't interested in dating him? I was but I wanted to take things slow and not have this turn into a FWB thing, hence why I told him I won't fuck someone who I'm not in a relationship with.

>>1513038
Nah I get it nonny, I'm glad he wasn't violent at least. The only reason why I ever had hope was because my friends have known him for years and told me that he's a good guy.

No. 1513048

>>1513043
Why did you make out with a guy that you're not dating yet? Don't you usually settle things and go on a few dates outside before you usually do this shit?
He doesn't seem to be interested in dating, find someone else.

No. 1513050

>>1513048
We did go on dates before that and have met up and cuddled many times before this shit happened.

No. 1513055

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they finally kicked out the troon pregnancy LARPer from my local pregnancy/mom fb group. some handmaidens complained it was transphobic and he wasn't hurting anyone. i'm not sorry i don't want some stank-ass agp with shitty eyeliner and a diaper fetish getting free fap material, jessica. he can go write about his butt baby on twitter with the rest of the hons.

No. 1513057

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Reeee i'm not sure if i broke my ankle or not and it's driving me crazy. There was a big snap and it feels weird especially when i kind of twist my foot but i don't want to go to the hospital only to hear my ankle isn't broken. Going up and down the stairs is extremely uncomfortable but the first few steps i take are okay??? I hate it i hate it i hate it

No. 1513063

>>1513057
It's likely an inversion sprain. My ankle twisted a couple years ago and your description sounds similar (including the snapping sound). A lot of gentle/non-use and compression gauze helped. Felt better after about 2-3 months, but I couldn't really wear anything with heels for about a year.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/22048-sprained-ankle

No. 1513088

everything that could go wrong just went wrong. I wish I could wake up and find out that all this was just a nightmare

No. 1513095

some women on here are so jealous of happiness… they wait like a fucking snake to say something to demeen your happiness. maybe get off the internet and find your own happiness?

No. 1513120


No. 1513130

The other day there were a bunch of posts in ot i wanted to reply to, i had the sudden urge to say nice things to nonas and yet my browser would crash every time i opened a thread. Now i dont even remember where the posts were.

Also unrelated but i made a moid friend in an online game and we would chat often but he started giving me weird vibes, like he was almost jealous i played with other people and would send me too many heart emojis in chat. I ghosted him for a while but felt bad cause we got along and messaged him again, but he told me some sad things that are going on in his life and I realised I just don't care and stopped replying. Is there a better way to cut someone online off than straight up ghosting?

No. 1513153

>>1513130
It's best to cut off moids by ghosting because you never know what they'll do to you. Dox, drain you emotionally/mentally, etc.

No. 1513171

I can't wait till you have to rot in a retirement home and I can give away your things to random people you don't even know, without even asking you, too. Every single shit you pull right now, you will get back tenfold in a few years.

No. 1513225

It’s actually insane that I have to remember the exact address of every town I was assaulted in over the years by my abuser and call them each separately or else it doesn’t count. They really did make it so that no one wants to call and it’s impossible to have “proof” unless you’re literally actively being murdered

No. 1513235

>>1513063
Thank you so much nonnie, reading that helped me to calm down a bit. I ordered some compression gauze, bless you

No. 1513239

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how the fuck did I get new wrinkles overnight. I'm trying to accept aging gracefully bla bla but I didn't know I could just wake up one day with deep ass nasolabial folds

No. 1513241

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it’s rare that an experience in a school pisses me off but a retard with a bowl cut laughed at a documentary about genocide and i delight in knowing he will fare poorly in life

i will never understand why so many british parents raised spoiled, insubordinate fucking retards and then burden the school system with them. keep them home if they have no drive or ambition.

what’s the point in wasting my time teaching kids who will just be smoking weed on their mums couch on the dole in a few years from now when there are so many brilliant and gifted children who want to flourish?

they need to bring back behaviour units instead of trying to forcibly educate children who don’t want to learn

No. 1513243

>>1513241
i should also add they said kids constantly interrupt the class because they want attention and i get second hand cringe when they try to argue or reason their way out of being sent out. it’s my classroom get the fuck out.

No. 1513244

>>1513239
If it happened over night, are you sure it's not just some kind of hormone fluctuation/water retention issue/you didn't sleep well?

No. 1513250

>>1513241
Well the problem is that you're in Britain

No. 1513259

>>1513250
yeah i know i got to get out of here

No. 1513262

>>1512949
>I moved 800 miles for him and now I'm stuck
See, this is why you don't do shit for men.

No. 1513264

>>1513262
I'm sorry for how cruel my message sounds, I was in a shitty mood myself going through things so I was being pointlessly cruel. I'm so sorry anon, take out a loan, rob a store, do whatever you can and get the fuck out of there. Take the cats with you, he can't do shit about it. Don't tell him anything. I know women who pulled this off before, cats and all. You can do this

No. 1513273

>>1512949
Time to ask family or friends for financial help anon. Also if you haven't yet and you're just assuming, make sure you check if you can actually afford that plane ticket or not and take into consideration that you can get last minute deals at a discount.

No. 1513274

I hate how toxic coworkers and bosses can literally ruin a job. It started out okay, but then I experienced workplace mobbing. I would dread going to work and would sometimes cry venting to my partner. I had to open a case with HR because there was harassment against me (verbal and nearly physical). It was so bad it got to the point where HR made me move to another position temporarily. It’s been months and the investigation is nearly over, but I just had someone told me that those nasty dipshits may still be there and that I’m going to have to just “ignore it, be professional, and continue doing my job”. Yeah right, I turned the other cheek for months and tried to focus strictly on my job, but I couldn’t get work done because my immature coworkers that act like middle-schoolers refused to work with me in what’s a very team-oriented job. And it also was draining hearing them gossip to people in other departments about how “bad” I was. Honestly, I don’t want to go back to such a toxic workplace where I know my coworkers are going to continue to hate me and mess up my shit (I had things in my cubicle broken and stuff thrown out). I know it’s important to focus on mental health and that there’s jobs in other locations, but ugh I can’t help but feel weak and it’s sad that this is the reason why I may have to quit. The job was decent, this is what I went to school for, but the people are just insane. I wish I wasn’t feeling so shitty and guilty.

No. 1513280

This guy in my friend group said that he is sapphic because he enjoys yuri content. I said "of course you like yuri, majority of it is for men by men. That just means you're straight" then he proceeded to tell me that he likes women "in the way women like women." Retard. Men are so stupid, I don't understand how their brains get rotted so easily.

No. 1513281

>>1512949
I’m so sorry Nonna. Same exact story for me except 4 years. There is light at the end of the tunnel.

This is why I don’t date anymore.

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No. 1513287

I should stop being irrationally hypochondriac and start being grateful for my perfect health.

No. 1513289

>>1513280
Kek and how would women love other women according to him? By squishing their boobs together, giggling like idiots and talking about make-up like yuri anime girls?
This reminds me of a male friend that once told me that he felt more in touch with his feminine side because he grew up with his mom alone, and this feminine side of his included consuming pedoish incest porn, writing weird porn, defending incels and spouting sexist bullshit like "women are supposed to be the ones to take care of men because they're softer".

No. 1513291

>>1513241
>>1513243
they're kids. teenagers, even worse. are you sure teaching/being around children is a suitable career choice for you?

No. 1513297

>>1513291
i’m exceptional at what i do and i’m allowed to have bad days lol fuck yourself

No. 1513300

>>1513264
That’s okay Nona, you weren’t wrong. Thank you for your kind words though

No. 1513304

>>1513280
Watch him troon out in a matter of months and then start crying it's transphobia when cis lesbians won't suck his greasy girldick. Can't stand these delusional moids who fetishize and idealize womanhood like it's all sleepovers and fluffy feelings.

No. 1513312

>>1513241
have you ever stepped back to think about how teaching might not be for you?

i get being frustrated with kids but calling one of your students a retard is pretty fucking sad imo.

No. 1513314

>>1512785
I actually feel kind of sorry for your little weeb friend. Sounds like she has anxiety or autism or something and should get help with that first, it might help her learn to study better when she can manage whatever's going on behind the scenes.

I'm gonna drop a resource or two here that's good for beginners. So easy that even a spergy weeb can get it.

1. Hiaragana and Katakana SRS APP: https://nihongo-e-na.com/ios/eng/id846.html

2. IRODORI Japanese Beginner Courses (free): https://www.irodori-online.jpf.go.jp/?utm_source=Tofugu

3. Wanikani Kanji Learning (SRS again): https://www.wanikani.com/

4. Kanji worksheets (they even have them categorized by Wanikani lessons, which I suggest she print and use while simultaneously learning on Wanikani): https://kanji.sh/write

Obviously it's not going to be enough to help her in a short period of time, but if she's serious about learning even in the least, it's a great place to start. She has to want to learn for herself and not just for the trip, though. Otherwise i'd suggest she just learn basic hiragana and common phrases to use while there.

No. 1513318

>>1513314
One more, hiragana and katakana worksheets with practice to write simple words as well. Because it's not enough just to learn by an app, she needs to practice writing them too in order to fully memorize and utilize them: https://www.mlcjapanese.co.jp/Download/HiraganaKatakanaWorksheet.pdf

No. 1513336

>>1513314
>>1513318
Sorry I can't stfu but like, I have a little brother who was inspired by me to start learning Japanese and he's been taking online tutoring sessions for around 2+ years and still hasn't progressed much past a rudimentary level, but won't admit his mistakes and thinks i'm looking down on him when i'm just offering helpful advice and corrections. I've figured that his deal is that he wants to impress strangers whom are easily impressed by a foreigner speaking Japanese (like those annoying ass "white person speaks x language, shocks locals" youtubers) because when I offer advice, he gets defensive and says that it's enough that they get the jist of what he's trying to say and he doesn't need to speak "perfect" Japanese. While it doesn't need to perfect, I don't want him to be halfassing it and fishing for easy compliments, he at least needs to make an attempt to come correct imo. He doesn't break down crying but I see through his excuses and sometimes feel frustrated when he tells me someone complimented his Japanese and said he sounds native… not realizing that Japanese "Nihongo jouzu" practically everyone. Although I was never nihongo jouzu'd during my trip, but I did get an OHASHI JOUZU which made me chuckle. Another time, a waiter in a Royal Host asked me if I was French (because all blonde foreigners are Russians or French, I guess).

Another thing- since she seems anxious, maybe try telling her it's not a competition to catch up with you since obviously you've been studying for longer, and the whole learning together thing isn't working out. Just because someone is decent in Japanese, it's obviously not the same as having the skill to teach, which can even be said for one's own native language.

No. 1513337

I hate when dumbasses reply to my posts. Take a hike mf.

No. 1513338

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I relapsed and did nicotine for the first time in 3 months and I’m not even feelin the buzz

No. 1513345

>>1512698
No but being condescended to by people who 'pretty much never get any pimples' feels like it might.

No. 1513357

>>1512785
People are shitting on you, but eventually the learned helplessness wears on you.

No. 1513370

>>1513357
NTA and agree.

No. 1513379

new lady i was training got frustrated with me, yelled at me, walked off to another coworker, yelled some more about me to other coworker. other people on the floor, down the hall etc hear her yelling about me. had multiple people check on me because new lady was yelling so loud. mind you we work in a hospital. she also never tried to communicate her issues with me. i told my manager what happened, we had a meeting. i still feel uncomfortable around new lady because she is definitely unhinged to think it’s okay to yell like that in a hospital and if she thinks that’s okay who knows what else she is capable of. my problem is that a coworker i am close with is now hanging with new lady quite often, so now i feel uncomfortable being around her too. the whole vibe is off. i won employee of the month this month too and i can’t even celebrate because the atmosphere is so uncomfortable. i’m just going to focus on getting paid and keep my distance i guess? i’m confident she’s not going to stay long but man what a week.

No. 1513388

>>1513018
Good luck nonnie, I'm proud of you

No. 1513390

FUCK!!!!!!!!!! The world is unfair and hates women. Wrote a long ass post but I don’t want to post it

No. 1513392

>>1512785
the only word i learned in japan was deguchi

No. 1513393

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>>1512503
I am 26 and i feel the same way. I can't complain too much because my worst area used to be my forehead and now i haven't had a pimple there in 5 years and I feel really good about it. It's not even just about the aesthetic it's the fact that you have to buy all these products just so you don't get clogged pores, meanwhile people with no acne brag about their 1 bar of soap they barely use. Life isn't fair.

No. 1513398

>>1513393
Are you sure your acne isn't hormonal or dietary?

Ironically for me my skin calmed down around the same time I stopped throwing crap at it every night because I got sick and tired of it not doing shit anyway but that may have just been coincidence idk

No. 1513400

>>1513095
Newfag detected

No. 1513402

>>1513314
>but if she's serious about learning even in the least
She's not. It's obvious. Otherwise she would have put the effort in already. She still didn't give a shit to try even after visiting Japan twice and having breakdowns whenever she had to interact with someone. OP needs to accept it and stop trying to control this person. Leave her behind or resign herself to being the translator for the duration of the the trip(s). Her friend probably wants her to take on that roll but doesn't want to outright ask.

No. 1513408

>>1513398
Oh no, it's hormonal for sure. Ngl i have been stalling going to the doctors to check my hormones, tomorrow will be the day. I did have a dermatologist offer me a medication to stop it but i was too scared and it was expensive. My biggest mistake. But i still do get clogged pores due to having very oily skin.

No. 1513411

>>1513400
You're right but it's fun to be positive outside of the cow boards.

No. 1513412

>>1513408
samefag, but i also get clogged pores some having kp, but benzoyl peroxide keeps it under control and i was told there was no cure. it's just that i have to use one bottle a month.

No. 1513419

I'm tired of men harassing me on the street everytime I walk somewhere alone, it's not an invitation for men to be assholes towards me.

No. 1513431

>>1513088
What went wrong, nonnie? What happened?

No. 1513464

I just had a memory from when I was like 24
>meet Chinese scrote online. He is like K-pop level cute and I couldn’t believe he liked an average black girl like me
>we go to dennys he buys me food and not himself because he’s cheap
>we go to his house and take a shower for some reason. Then he starts bitching because he spent 20 dollars on my meal and I’m not interested in sex
>records my ass and sends it to his friends without my consent and I caught him texting his friend on WeChat in Chinese. My ass is bigger than the average Asian woman so it must’ve been a big deal for him
>I forgive him for recording me because I’m dumb. He loses his phone and then accuses me of stealing it but he found it
>after all that I was not interested in fucking so he offered to give me 100$ for sex and I’m like sure….
>makes fun of my shoes and tells me not to wear goofy shoes like that anymore
>I’m dry as a bone and the sex is awkward
>I start to cry and he sat there looking apologetic because he knows he was acting a whole ass

Now at 32 I wouldn’t care if a man recorded me and sent it to his friends. I would just assume he’s a fag but back then it was so hurtful.

No. 1513467

>>1513447
Yeah it is. I wear headphones when i go shopping and they're over ear so very obvious. It feels like people stare at me more and once in a while talk to me when that wasn't how it used to be. I think people should be happy to know I can't hear them when tiny earbuds are practically invisible and cause people to bash carts into each other. Won't make me stop wearing headphones. My time outside work. I'm not listening to babies cry or barely audible pop music.

No. 1513469

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Nonnies need to stop replying to the obvious BPD-chan that keeps samefagging in this thread, kek. I do feel sorry for her autist weeb friend though. Autists tend to attract assholes.

No. 1513470

I hate how being curvy makes people automatically sexualize you. I could wear the same exact thing as a slender woman, but only I will be the one that is looked at as inappropriate and an attention seeking "slut". As if I can help how I'm shaped or as if it says anything about me. It made me hide my body for so long.

No. 1513478

I'm dead inside and there is nothing to do, but wait for this empty vessel to die too.
I have wasted my life and my cowardly heart is so cold, its disgusting.

No. 1513482

>>1512785
This post didn't deserve the retards criticizing it, your friend sounds annoying.

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No. 1513556

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Sometimes I just want to embrace self destruction. Purposely get totally lost in my bulimia, stick to my shitty part time gig job, waste money, get obsessed with new men knowing they'll fuck me over, be terminally online, and pretend I'm a teenager with no responsibilities.

Do I have any responsibilities, though? Do I owe anyone getting a real job or an education? I never want kids or marriage so who cares? I'm kinda living like Kiki is and I want to remain that way. Sometimes I'll think "nooo I'm 26 I gotta hurry and get my shit together because…" because what? I don't even know. There's no reason. I tried studying and it made me miserable. I tried a full time job and I wanted to die. I tried not being bulimic and it was very boring and I missed my precious binges. I just want to be free and act as retarded as I want.

No. 1513600

im 24 and ever since high school i never made any more friends. It is painful to watch all of your old friendships fall away year after year. Recently I lost my last remaining friend. We still see each other every day but I joined her family business and her poor management and disrespect for me as an employee has made me lose all friend-like feelings towards her. I try my best to keep up the act because we're business partners, but it will never be the same. And since that's my job I can't even make other work friends like normal people. I have no free time to go out and even if I did, how would I find friends at this stage in my life?

It doesn't help that I have uncommon hobbies and opinions that make it hard to find anyone with stuff in common. And I'm not interested in romantic relationships either. So I'm realizing that I will likely be completely companionless in every respect for the rest of my life. When I think about the fun my friends and I had in high school, and how I've never had fun that way since, it makes me want to give up on this dull, unfulfilling life.

No. 1513603

I HATE sensitive people!!! i am TIRED of you! i don't fucking want to overthink every single word i say and walk on eggshells about every slightly negative opinion in fear that my complaints and callout will be misinterpreted or taken personally! FUCK
FUCK! FUCK!! i wrangled my social anxiety down now FUCK OFF AND LET ME LIVE, my life is NOT about YOU you sensitive bee pee dee fuckers, your dramatic ass

No. 1513608

Went to a career night for my major and the way the alumni made it sound so easy to get a job right after graduation. I have co-op experience and other accomplishments like these guys, what am I doing wrong. Why can't I get the job I want? Makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me or if we really are in an economic recession right now.

No. 1513611

>>1513608
we are absolutely in a recession.

No. 1513617

FFFFUCCK WHY IS FINDING A PREPAID CARD SO HARD

No. 1513618

>>1512785
why is she even going to japan with you if she can't muster the courage to learn japanese kek

No. 1513620

>>1513556
ngl I have this urge all the time too. Like yes!!!! I wanna talk to my evil toxic ex-friend that fucked me over!! she was fun and made me laugh even though she tried or did framed me as a child molester. Like yes I wanna get men's attentions and hang out with them, screw around in a shitposty way even though objectively they don't deserve to be near me

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>>1513556
>>1513620
yooo this is the vibe. i'm 25, dropped out of 2 majors. working my way through minimum wage jobs where they don't respect us at all and none of them seem to be aware that we are pinned against each other and are being ripped off, kills me. i am starving myself to save money. literally in pain daily from the physical demands. cancelled all of my subscriptions and memberships. started drinking again. but i wish it was w3ed instead. i do. i imagine myself back in freshman year, fantasizing about a hedonism maxxed life i did not have.
oh to wake and bake, hang around with friends playing videogames and talking shit, doing fuckall but browsing youtube compilations and memes. having toxic tinder hookups, eating junk and cake constantly, jacking off, joking around at parties and cruising around our city… dye my hair 4 different colours, get tattoos, piercings, spend all of my money on new outfits, merch and metal gigs.

No. 1513627

>>1513556
I’m 31 and I’ve been living my life like this. I kind of just hate it honestly because men are kind of boring and they only want one night stands or full blown relationships.

No. 1513628

Why do I torture myself

No. 1513630

>>1513626
>oh to wake and bake, hang around with friends playing videogames and talking shit, doing fuckall but browsing youtube compilations and memes. having toxic tinder hookups, eating junk and cake constantly, jacking off, joking around at parties and cruising around our city… dye my hair 4 different colours, get tattoos, piercings, spend all of my money on new outfits, merch and metal gigs.

God I want a friend group like that with no muh studies or muh wedding or muhhh girlboss clean girl wannabe all beige outfit wearing-rich girl aspirations. And no I don't want to "meet up for coffee", I want to hang out at your place and talk shit while petting your cat and eating snacks. I distanced myself from my last friends because they were busy trying so fucking hard to be classy wine moms in their early 20s.

No. 1513635

>>1513630
Nonny come to my place you can pet my cat (he won’t let you NOT pet him kek) and we can talk shit about cows and get blazed. My life is pretty carefree but all my friends have kids and/or otherwise busy lives so it’s lonely. My Nigel is still a moid regardless of how much I love him kek. I honestly love my life but I wish I had girlfriends to just vibe with.

No. 1513674

pulled an all nighter for the very important veery important exam and the entire time i was just reading grimes musk and celeb threads i need to be shot

No. 1513682

My life is going good and I’m terrified it could all fall to pieces any moment. I want to run away in the woods and never be known by the internet ever again, I was never famous but I don’t ever want to make the mistake of becoming it. Tik tok is a plague on this planet.

No. 1513683

>>1513600
You’re only 24, nonna. Chill. I promise it isn’t that bad. Check out some local events, get into a hobby group. Talking to people online nonanonmously can even do you some good. 24 is a common age when looking for friendship groups. It’s when you’re 30+ that people start to look at you funny.

No. 1513688

My fwb would rather jack off than have sex with me so I'm going to drop him entirely. I don't have any other friends I'd want to fuck and looking for a fwb through dating apps isn't appealing to me. I guess I'm going celibate then. It's really frustrating though because I'm a sexual person with a high sex drive and masturbating just doesn't replace the intimacy that comes with sex.

No. 1513697

I'm so fucking tired of reading endless vent stories of anons letting men ruin their lives and simultaneously posting deranged shit like "hell yeah I want a toxic abusive dick in my wet dripping pussy omg!!!". I see this in my friends' lives and here. Women constantly just giving the keys to their happiness to worthless scrotes who they know will fuck them over but they don't care. They pretend to be man hating dark triad staceys but in the end they will drop to their knees to get attention from the next basic ass hot brown haired white guy. They think they're based for willingly becoming submissive parasite to a man who controls their finances, wellbeing and opportunities. They actually let men convince them to put their own life completely on hold just to end up being cheated on and basically being held as hostages in their own home. I'm so goddamn tired of seeing this and I feel helpless knowing that I can't grab every single one of them by the shoulders and tell them to appreciate their own value as a human being and stop looking for a reason to live from getting validated by a mediocre dick. Fucking stop. I wish every single man on this earth just vanished so that limp wristed women like this were forced to learn how to take care of themselves and form meaningful bonds with other women instead.

No. 1513702

Everyone in my family got therapy when I was an adolescent except me, the one who was molested. And now it's "you're an adult, you can't keep blaming your upbringing" but I can't afford therapy now. They could have helped me when I was younger and they didn't. I don't understand why not. At what age will I magically get over it and become worthy of love and care?

No. 1513707

>>1513626
>i imagine myself back in freshman year, fantasizing about a hedonism maxxed life i did not have
I do this too. I fantasize about being in the middle of my teenage years again and having a gaming pc where I can screw around with my moid friends I used to have, hell even better I could time travel and bring back the toxic group of girl friends I used to have and game with them instead, gaming, being stupid and making each other laugh with insults, laugh so hard we can't breathe like we used to. Go out to places too with them, bar hop at bars that look like raves inside, stay at a run down shitty hotel at the beach and play around in the sand, splashing water at each other and partying like worthless no goods. to equally shit eletronic music. go out shopping at large malls and overspend money, have lots of big shopping bags hanging off our hands and arms, shoulder. be idiots at all hours of the late night and early morning….. ahhhhh.
FUCK. We could've had it all.
Why does having mentally healthy, successful friends sound like such a pain in the ass to be friends with???? I know they would be way better people to befriend but fuck I can't help but be attracted to the insulting, degrading jokes at your expense types. The former sounds boring.

No. 1513709

>>1513702
>At what age will I magically get over it and become worthy of love and care?
Usually this won't happen on its own. If you are very good at "forgetting" you can get close but there are always reminders. If you can kill the person who molested you that actually works okay but it could ruin your life. If you can undergo some sort of therapy that puts the events that traumatized you in the past so you aren't constantly on guard like a PTSD victim that works too. Always remember you are worthy of love and care, and don't be afraid to be angry at people who disrespect you and treat you poorly.

No. 1513711

I feel bad for my mom. My dad is not the worst, he's not abusive or anything, and my mom actually coddled him because she thought he was such a catch after her first husband that was the biggest and stinkiest piece of shit ever known, but damn…he really does just a bare minimum and have always lived in his own world. I actually think he might be on the spectrum (or schizo-something, not psychotic though). No wonder she misses me when I live separately, although she doesn't really ever complain about him, only half-jokingly sometimes. She's chosen him herself and she loves him but it makes me sad her life could be different…

No. 1513712

>>1513626
>and cruising around our city
I literally love this part so much too omg. Mess around, joke about whatever is on our minds without offense, without having to consider if one person or the other will be offended or not. Not walking on eggshells. Just being generally stupid and freeflowing in the car browsing in the city, the lights of the tall buildings falling into the car and moving, becoming smaller as we drive by. Staring up out of the window at all the skyscrapers with colorful lights on them and some windows lit. Talk about whatever is on our minds with no limits. eat junk ass fast food, smoke cigs and w3ed. we each take a turn putting on our own music. Listening to good music together. do whatever our hearts desire even though we're a toxic group of friends. But at least there's no moids, only just us girls.

No. 1513728

its one of days where i have so many things to do and want to, to the point i get paralyzed with fear and do absolutely nothing.

No. 1513731

I saw my former tranny ex on the bus today after almost 2 years. I don't think he saw me but I swear it paralyzed me for a few minutes, I don't know if fear is the right word but I'm still shaken up. I'm so glad he didn't see me and I hope to never see him again i hate him so much holy shit. I have no one to talk to about since my only real connection rn is my girlfriend and it is in no way fair to her to make her listen to this, especially since she knew him too. God haha. She already knows about the gist of it but I cna't I wanna scream into the void about everything that happened but I can't god god I fucking hate him so fucking much his ugly face shows up right as things start getting better for me. Someone wipe my memory men in black style please.

No. 1513749

>>1513702
You've always been worthy of love anon. You shouldn't punish yourself for something that was out of your control although it's much easier said than done. Try to imagine how you would treat a child who's been through the same things you have. Then remind yourself of that child when you tell yourself you deserve less than. This is advice that helped me with my self esteem I hope it helps you even if it's just in a small way.

No. 1513819

today's dragging so bad omfg i just want to go home. im tired and miserable and i still have 4 hours left. hopefully i can find some time to sit down and do a qiort task for a bit away from people because ive had enough of this shit today

No. 1513823

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Nonnas, I am so stressed out and tired that I feel like I am going to explode.
It took me 2 months to finally be almost done with an art project, and I started asking for opinions about the designs and the people who are not even going to consume it, let alone ever see it are giving me the opinions that I do not like. Suddenly, assymetrical design is not their cup of tea (even if its a tiny detail), but looking at it more, it actually looks super nice! Oh no no, i want the design to be this. No, it doesn't look boring, it looks nice because it appeals to my coomerism. Fuck you!!
And the kitten keeps being a pain in the ass lately. After all, i can tell she is clearly bored. But she almost accidentally put herself in a huge, terrible danger and I had to rescue her asap.
And oh god, how am i tired of being the only one taking care of the place. It's such a damn thankless job!! I clean, i do laundry, i cook, i do everything. But no, not even a single thank you or acknowledgement that hey, i did it! I am so sick, i am so tired!! I want to rip my head off and have a drink!!

No. 1513843

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Men are poisoning schoolgirls in Iran to halt their education. This is going to make me get off lolcow and study more chem.

No. 1513872

I think my gay ass state only recognizes assault as domestic abuse wtf

No. 1513888

A coworker of mine has turned in her resignation and ranted to me about the reasons: how she has 2 degrees and is smarter than to continue doing this copy-paste job that we're doing and how she does not feel respected here at all. It was shocking to hear because I realized that this is probably how healthy people with self-respect probably think and I am miles away from this kind of thinking. I've always been apathetic towards work, struggled to even sound interested in our tasks during meetings and sucked at it because I procrastinate and not very good with details. I start a timer at the beginning of a workday and wait for the time to pass.

I agreed with her in that the work we do could be done by a lobotomized monkey but that did not motivate me to look for something else and I just don't know why. Is it the apathy? The lack of self respeck? Idk what it is but I got confronted with my own passivity and I hate myself again

No. 1513893

Some lady just cut me off so bad in the grocery store parking lot, she pulled in really fast from the road and went in front of me when I was about to turn right down one of the lanes, I had to slam on my breaks. She just gave me a look like I was the one in the wrong. I was so fucking mad. I parked and stared at her. Saw her circle the parking lot then park very far at the edge. She sat in her car, and sat, and sat. Was she waiting me out? I walked in and she was still sitting there. I think about her in the store. What should I do. I come out with my groceries and she is no longer in her car. I get an idea. I drive over to her car. I write her a helpful note. LEARN TO DRIVE RETARD. I add a smiley face so she knows how kind I am. I am about to go put it in her windshield wiper when a woman and man walk towards the car. FUCK oh they go to the car next it, false alarm. I quickly place it in the windshield wiper then get in my car and drive home, happy about my good deed

No. 1513895

>>1513893
Road rage is no joke.

No. 1513899

>>1513895
Are you clutching over a note

No. 1513908

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AHHH I need to save money but every time I try, I have to spend it on health related stuff. I have health insurance but it covers fuck all and all gyno's here are private doctors and you have to pay over one hundred euros out of your own pocket just for a regular appointment. I'm so close to cancelling my appointment but I was lucky enough to even get one because most won't even take new patients ugh

No. 1513910

>>1513709
>>1513749
Thanks nonas, I really really appreciate that. Like, really truly. I love you nonas who come into the vent thread to say nice things to those of us who are hurting.
>Try to imagine how you would treat a child who's been through the same things you have.
This is helpful actually but I guess not in the way you meant. If you put a traumatized child in front of me I would have no clue what to do and probably just freeze up. No wonder I can't self-soothe, I literally don't know how. Maybe I should work on that instead of constantly dwelling on something that's currently out of reach? I'll give it a shot.

No. 1513919

>>1513908
Wow I've never seen the original

No. 1513932

I finally got a high paying tech job even as a beautiful idiot who doesn't know anything and now I just want to increase my quality of life in every aspect and get a nice apartment and a fancy gym membership and I'm going to be poor forever this way aren't I

No. 1513933

>>1513899
Kek no, it sounds like you're still fuming over some bad driver though. It's good that you got it out of your system. That's what counts.

No. 1513935

>>1513933
You sound like the type of person that would get that note

No. 1513937

>>1513556
Not everyone can be a heckin' wholesome big chungus. Be who you are for your prideeee

No. 1513991

>>1513697
hot brown haired white guy? have you been here much?
the dumbasses here are too busy being hopeless and miserable dating obese aloof abusive malformed ill-health broken-dick "men" and stacey-larping their lives away online

No. 1513994

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I think I'm fine, but then I get on Twitter and see girls like me, who are into alt fashion and all this other stuff, with a ton of friends they engage with all over their posts, and I get lonely again. How does that even happen? How do I make friends with people like myself? Is it my location? I'm always so isolated, even when I'm outside, touching grass.

No. 1514003

>>1513935
Never have, I'm always vigilant. Let's keep venting, shall we?

No. 1514008

>>1514003
anon… you're very sexy.

No. 1514009

My speech does not improve and I repel people through the way that I express myself. Even if it is an interesting subject. It makes no sense because I read a lot and my speech and the capacity to express myself or pursue others never improves. I try to express objective concepts that interest me and it just sounds like I'm schizo. Have been thoroughly studying history of religions and even Christianity from a historical point of view is simply absolutely fascinating. It results from thousands of years of Jewish tradition, it is a form of anarchy because Jesus is crucified due to him offending the authorities. It has pagan roots and early Christians practice magic because of syncretism with indigenous Egyptean religions in Alexandria. Then it becomes intertwined with ancient Greek school of thought. For example neo Platonism is resulted from the combination of Platonic school of thought and Christian apophatic tradition. I'm annoyed by Rick and Morty science scrotoids or even by average Christians because they portray this religion not very accurately. Anyway, I wish that I'd be better at talking because these people see me as a schizo when I say these things.

No. 1514013

>>1514003
You will if you aren't more careful

No. 1514015

>>1514009
Maybe your speech isn't the problem but the setting and type of people you're around when you bring these interests up? Most people aren't that interested in the history of religion.

No. 1514029

>>1514009
pretty much what >>1514015 says, plus on a personal level ill say that im kind of a dumbass but im interested in learning about all sorts. the way you spoke about christianity doesn't make sense to someone who isn't already invested in the topic i.e history/theologyfags. basically you gotta explain things a bit more in a way people will understand so that you can accurately convey tje sense of excitement you get from learning about this

No. 1514047

>>1511939
I'm literally doing this right now, I'm taking the fucking toilet seat and hiding it in my room

No. 1514049

>>1514009
Have you tried bringing up your interests in bite-sized chunks based on the other person's interests? For example if the person you're talking to is Jewish and likes ancient Greek mythology you could ask them if they know about how the two are intertwined in history. If they don't, you can tell them a little about it, if they do, you can have a conversation about it (even better).

No. 1514050

i always feel so fake when i try to help people, like a moment ago i saw an old man looking for deposit cans from street trash bins and i felt bad and gave him the coins i had even if it wasn't that much and i told him i don't have much money but i feel like my stupid coins don't do actually shit, he thanked me and seemed genuinely happy but then i think that he and everyone else in the street just thinks i did an empty gesture to make myself to seem better than them or something i don't know. or some other time some guy didn't have enough money to buy some cheap chocolate pudding and i bought it for him and again i felt like i was just bragging about being good or something like it would be better to ignore them. i don't know it soothes my soul

No. 1514056

>>1514049
I'm just annoyed when I talk about my interests and they do not coincide with the interests of another person. I've been attempting to talk about Christianity and history of religion because it is one of the most fascinating subjects to me and simply put Philosophy is about God and divinity and then some low IQ -100 scrote or liberal pops out of nowhere to basically call me stupid or insinuate that I'm some right winger or something. Because I struggle with articulating my thoughts they win me over.

No. 1514057

>>1514050
and i guess i kinda hope that if people notice me helping people like that and acknowledging them then they would do it too like some other time this one drunk immigrant fell down with his deposit can bags and when i went to help him others came too and so on like if they see me doing it then they think "hmm i guess if i have some spare coins and if i see some old person collecting cans i could help that person too" or something

No. 1514059

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I HATE how wide my hips and ribs are!! Sure, they give me an hourglass figure which I guess is fine, but that is the only positive. It is hard to find clothes, and most items that sit around the waist look like they're too small and that I have the weirdest muffin top because of the way my ribs look. I will always look fat because of them and I hate it so fucking much and I hate that I can't do anything about it. Being tall and having most of my height in my torso doesn't help either, I fucking hate my body so fucking much I want to cry.

No. 1514060

>>1514057
You sound like a genuinely kind person anon, keep being nice just be careful

No. 1514062

>>1514060
yeah i'm not gonna go for people who seem dangerous, but like old people like that or beggar women etc i just keep thinking about that they used to be children at some point and did any child ever dream about being an old man going through trash bins at metro station, that if i acknowledge them somehow they would feel better and others would notice them too because people like that are always ignored

No. 1514066

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Oh my god Twitter stop showing me retarded shit from people I don’t follow, piece of shit bird app . I hate it here

No. 1514079

>>1514056
You have to put in a little work to find an angle where your interests overlap with theirs. Sometimes you won't find one, but most of the time you will if they let you try long enough.

No. 1514082

i live in self-defeating hypersexual sorrow, living for lousy anti-me hookups, and it all keeps deepening into this stupid anti-me will. i pretend not to, but i'm always regretting my acts now, more and more and more. they make me more lonely, not less, alienating any real proximity w close people. just like it was w the cuttings. 'oh its just a quick fix of endorphins'. and i feel humiliated by this, that the issue is so simplistic, it's demeaning to my self-esteem too…
i'm so scared of myself. i don't trust the people around me. i don't think i'm aging into adulthood well at all anymore.

No. 1514084

>>1514059
Maybe I'm just an idiot but these sound like model proportions. I think you could look so amazing if you tailored your clothes or paid to have them done.

No. 1514087

>>1514062
I only help female hobos. There’s always a reason for the men to be out there and there’s a 99% chance they assaulted a woman or girl

No. 1514094

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I feel exceptionally retarded because the more I long for human connection the more I isolate myself. This week I ended a 5+ year long relationship due to my own avoidance-related instability and I left most of my friend groups, including one I was particularly attached to/active in. I might sound like a total attention whore but I expected some sort of message like "are you alright?" from some of these people, but the fact that my sudden disappearence didn't rise any concerns only tells me that I never mattered to begin with. The only person that noticed (the aforementioned person I broke up with) got mad at me and right now I want to kms more than ever, I have no one anymore and it's all my fault. And even if I had somebody, I would avoid them and isolate myself even more.

No. 1514102

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I need to learn humility before it's too late. And I have to stop using lolcow, it's really negative.

No. 1514105

>>1514094
People probably don't want to bother you because they think you got out of the group because of personal problems and don't want to interact, it's not that they don't care, they don't know. I have the exact same problem as you, and i have learned that i should act in accord to what i want to get, or else the consequences are going to be frustrating. You have not asked for a solution, but maybe it could help you to get back at the group and interact. If you stay alone, you are going to get worser and worser.

No. 1514107

>>1514009
Anon, I'm like you and all of that deeply interests me, but I don't get to talk about it since most people either don't care or have emotional hangups on either side. There's nothing wrong or schizo with you for liking and wanting to talk about it, but you probably come off spergy for bringing it up to the wrong people in the wrong contexts. Maybe someday we'll run into each other or someone else like us and get to have these conversations as we want. That's all I wish for too, it makes you feel misunderstood, and it's not just about history of religion that people are hard to have an open-minded talk with

No. 1514108

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No. 1514109

>>1514087
Every hobo can lick the sweet and sour side of my ass male OR female. The only degenerate to carjack me was a junkie woman. I hope hell exists so she burns in it for terrorizing me

No. 1514116

>>1514105
Thank you for replying, you're right (and I'm sorry you're dealing with the same thing, at least we're not alone in this). Maybe now it's a bit too awkward to rejoin, perhaps they didn't even see the notice that I had left, but I will ask them to let me in again when things get a little bit better with me.

No. 1514121

>>1514094
I just did this as well, completely isolated myself from the first friends I made in years for literally no reason other than a random surge in insecurity - I've done this with every friend I've ever had in the past too. Somehow being around other people makes me way crazier than when I have no friends kek. Avoidance behaviours suck so fucking bad so know you're not alone at least, I hope you're able to work things out with your friend group.

No. 1514221

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I'm in one of those times when nothing is really wrong but everything is wrong. I wanna talk to someone about it, but I don't even know what I'd say. I just feel like little things are fucking me up, almost making me cry, and I feel like there's some deeper issue with me but I can't figure it out. I can't really afford therapy right now so IDK. I hate whining and trauma dumping but every time I bottle it in I definitely get worse. Even writing schizo wall of texts on image boards makes me feel better than saying nothing. I don't really know why I'm like this. Why can't I just ignore things that bother me and make my own peace with myself? Why can't I separate my feelings and self worth from garbage?

No. 1514240

I am on the verge of death. I am stranded in some place I hate. My mental and physical illness makes it impossible for me to work. I've tried working through the internet but despite me putting in a lot of effort it is futile. I'm constantly being infantilized and isolated by people on the internet, so I have no friendships. My entire life I've been humiliated and degraded by others and I just cannot stand it anymore. I'm slowly losing it and approaching suicide. I have no friends, support, nothing. Just completely isolated. I tried my best to get friends but people on the same level of intelligence as me reject me. I am exhausted from everything and am dying alone.

No. 1514243

>>1514240
people always form parasocial relationships with me and then rip me off. A lot of artists are ripping off my ideas right now because I tried reaching out to them.

My entire life I've never had recogniton, love, money. Nothing. Not even empathy and I have had this brutal realization that the average person is incapable of empathy. It is always something condescending or self centered. I have never had a mature conversation with someone in which their empathy is not degrading.

No. 1514269

>>1514116
Everything will be okay, nonny. You are not alone, i understand doing things that are irrational, but for us it makes sense. Calm down, do something good for you like eating delicious food (not exaggerating, of course), do some exercise and just let yourself get better. It always pass, even if it hurts like hell.

No. 1514292

>>1514009
>>1514107
I'm also a historyfag and I wish I could talk with you nonnas! I can never sperg about historical topics because people are simply uninterested OR they get really pissed, since a lot of history doesn't support a current worldview they have. I wish there was a place for likeminded nonnas like us.

No. 1514294

i know this is such a retarded and privileged sounding vent. i'm trying to recover from anorexia but buying and cooking food is so stressful for me that i don't even want to think about it. but i also don't want to eat just junk and takeout because i want my body to be recover well and be healthy. i really wish my family would at least attempt to cook or help me cook meals but they always say it's too hard and that i should just go get like fried chicken takeout or make instant noodles or something. i just feel like complete shit, i want to cook but it feels so extremely overwhelming and i don't know what to do or where to start and my "support system" isn't doing anything to help me. i don't know what i'd make or how to make it. but if it's between junk food and not eating i'd rather just not eat at all. idk i feel so retarded

No. 1514313

>>1514294
It's retarded.
But I get you tbh, not from an Ana perspective though, sometimes thinking about what to cook is a pain in the ass, even for people with good relationships with food.
I don't even know how I could help you because sometimes I struggle with this and just eat whatever (not junk food, I just make something simple like a sandwich or a salad)
You could try making a menu with limited ingredients so you don't feel too overwhelmed, just make sure it has something like chicken or fish, lots of veggies like cucumber, lettuce, tomato, onion and zucchini, and a carb like a piece of integral bread toast, sweet potatoes, potatoes or some rice.
Buy powdered condiments, they're not too bad for a starter, and get some oil, you don't need to use too much.
Canned tuna and canned chicken are godsends because you don't have to worry about the stuff not being well cooked, and with oatmeal you can make tuna burgers.

No. 1514322

>>1514294
You don't have to cook in order to eat decently, you just have to 'prepare' food. You can easily cut up fruit, make a salad wrap, boil eggs, eat sandwiches etc with canned chicken or tuna. If you're not up to cooking veggies you can buy pre-cooked or frozen stuff and just microwave it. It's not glamorous or delicious but it's a good midway point between fast food and cooking proper meals. If you have more money than skills you can also fork out for the fancier, protein heavy frozen meals.

No. 1514338

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>>1514294
hey anon, I'm in the exact same situation right now. My local grocery chain sells these prepackaged dinners you just stick in the oven and since they're fresh it's a good midpoint between home cooking and takeout, they have been my lifeblood for a bit now kek. Rotisserie chickens are also a good way to get some protein. But my biggest tip is to cook a LOT when you have the energy/motivation to cook. You can make a big pot of stew or curry, freeze half of it and eat off the other half for a few days. I do the same with rice, I freeze single serving portions and it reheats really well. Frozen meals are kind of gross but frozen microwavable vegetable mixes are pretty good, and some of them even have rice or couscous so it's more of a complete meal. Veggies like carrots, asparagus and broccoli can be easily baked in the oven with some olive oil.
I definitely don't come up with a set menu for every day. I just try to make sure I have stuff around the house that is easy or no prep. Sometimes dinner is a bowl of oatmeal, or a microwaved sweet potato and leftover rotisserie chicken, or rice with an egg and soy sauce, and that's fine. It's super important to eat even if it's not an ideal meal.

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>>1514009
>>1514292
>>1514107
What the FUCK I'm also a historyfag! Don't get me started on the 1600's. Holy shit. A-are any of you on Discord or something, I wanna sperg about art history

No. 1514345

>>1512503
23 and getting cystic acne for the first time in my life, i feel your pain. it's easy for people w clear skin to go "oh no one notices it's no big deal!" but people DO notice and when it makes you hate yourself it IS a big deal. i'm going on accutane and hopefully things will get better for me soon, not sure what you've tried but it might be worth a shot.

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>>1514313
>>1514322
thank you nonnies for the suggestions and specific ideas seriously, i know it sounds simple but idk. when it comes to food i just get so retarded lol, i feel like an alien trying to understand what a human body needs to survive. idk why i've been thinking that i need to cook a whole meal in order to eat well. i really really appreciate you all, hugs
>>1514338
oh my gosh, thank you so much!… just seeing these ideas is putting my mind at ease, you make it sound so simple and really it is. im gonna screenshot this and live off of it lolll. i feel so embarrassed now about posting my ana sperging earlier though, but tbh i'm grateful i did because you nonnies always have my back… thank you, thank you!! i shall now go eat something lol, and i wish you a very lovely evening

No. 1514355

I met this girl, she invited me to a party and we had fun, she invited me to go again but now that I texted her if she wants to just hang out sometime so we can actually get to know each other she's backing out on me. It's whatever but I'm just disappointed, she's fun to be around but I guess she just wants party friends.

No. 1514356

>>1514344
one of the ayrt! KEK I love this picture, I don't know much about the 1600s (yet) but I LOVE art history. I wanna hear you sperg about it nonnaaaa. Should we make a discord group somehow

No. 1514357

>>1514356
AYRT hell yes we should. Behold my email field and send me your dang discord name

No. 1514369

i hate it when i vent online (not on this thread) about deeply personal stuff and some complete random responds giving me extremely generic advice ("happiness comes from within! take small steps! try going outside!") and then when i dont appreciate it because a complete stranger who has no idea what im actually talking about telling me advice ive heard literally hundreds of times before isnt actually helpful suddenly turns around and goes "well your nasty attitude is why youre depressed/lonely/addicted!" you arent being kind, youre the internet equivalent of an old guy on the street going "cheer up sweetheart!" then when you dont smile going "what's your problem bitch?" i feel like this is the same kind of woman who has to go up to every other woman who isnt smiling to dramatically as if she's doing okay. even if im not i dont want to talk about it with you because i dont fucking know you. and your advice is worthless. why demand to make yourself a part of someone elses problems without being asked and then get offended when they dont want your help. does anyone know what i mean. maybe i am just a bitch.

No. 1514379

>>1514369
yeah I hate this too. It just comes across as condensed. Maybe part of it's me marinating in my misery but if any of these solutions work, wouldn't I be happier by now? It's worse when you hear it from people who you consider your friends who are trying to be nice about it, but you just want to smack them upside the head. My brain really is perma fucked for me not to have found better coping mechanisms by now, but can't I vent about it without the same mouthbreathing replies begging me to commit to things that just won't work or toxic positivity

No. 1514423

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They removed the dance dance revolution machine from the arcade and I started crying when I drove 45 mins there to play and realized it was gone. The other closest machine is 3 hours away. I love DDR so much idk what to do

No. 1514441

Ughhh I fucking hate stupid clueless westerners lecturing ME on great communism is, as if that didn't destroy my country and my homeland is still reeling from the genocide we faced, wish i could curb stomp these stupid marxist-lenist bitches i gotta work with, stupid fucking spoilt clueless cows with their dumbass "trauma" when a homeless guy is stinky near them

No. 1514442

>>1514423
Maybe you can get a DDR controller that connects to a PS2? Those are really cheap

No. 1514448

>>1514423
You can try a home set up with a dance pad. Didn't work for me admittedly, I couldn't get it to stay stable on my floor but I also got the cheapest one I could find.

Or just play Stepmania to fill the void, it's fun and free at least even if it's not actually DDR.

No. 1514468

UPSET BECAUSE STUPID WOLVES IN MY DREAM WERE NIBBLING/BITING ME WHICH CAUSED ME TO HAVE NIGHTMARED AND WAKE IUP
CANT SLEEP

No. 1514473

I cut myself for the first time in half a year. Im 25. I'll never grow up and I'll always be pathetic like this

No. 1514474

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>>1514468
RIP nonny

No. 1514476

My nigel turned out to be a moid. I'm giving up, they're all the same. My dog has higher EQ than moids

No. 1514484

>>1514423
If you have the money to splurge and an environment that can accommodate it a L-TEK and Stepmania will be a pretty similar experience.

No. 1514499

sinus infection reeeeeeeeee
least I got some dick yesterday

No. 1514515

I was recording my neighbor for being a noisy drunk at 3am again to show the eviction board and actually caught her having a huge spill, taking down furniture with her and yelling "owwww" at 3am. I'm hideously angry but also so happy I have this forever. Haha. I hope her bruise is massive from being an underweight, aged, severe alcoholic. She has been wearing the same pants for about a month. My rage for her is insane.

No. 1514518

What’s with the vents lately where nonas give too many details that make themselves sound absolutely villainous and the person they’re mad at is literally crying or getting hurt? Suss. Baity.

No. 1514527

>>1514518
Yeah god forbid I'm mad at a drunk woman for throwing parties ONLY between 1am to 5am. I'm SO glad she got hurt, because I'm literally powerless in this moment being kept awake by her poor decisions. Me being a grump is baity? Well your post was baity AND worked! I am grouchy but I feel like its well earned.

No. 1514532

My parents are nearing their 70s and more and more, I can't stop thinking about my eventual life without them. I love my parents so much and it hurts thinking about this. I really hope they can take care of themselves and can stay healthy and happy.

No. 1514536

>>1513630
oh gods that kind of classist separation starting with the cleeean giiirl trend had even a get together kind of ruined where i was not allowed to put my glass on her table because it would leave marks, but my rental was no longer fancy enough for her to hang out. mah hart mah soul whatever i moved again so i shall spread out my social circles

No. 1514540

>>1514379
>>1514369
You guys just aren't good at it yet, that's why you're miserable.

No. 1514560

My “friends” completely ignore me yet have time to respond to this tranny they barely know. Seems like a small thing but I’m about done with them. I can’t stay in this friendship where I’m constantly second guessing how they really feel about me because of mixed messaging. It’s either intentionally cruel, or they are oblivious or careless about how their actions make me feel and in either case I don’t want to be around them anymore.

I don’t have many friends left. I’m supposed to move abroad next year (I’m pretty much forced to due to my complete inability to afford living here anymore) and then I’ll really have none, or I guess I’ll try to make new adult friendships, which are notoriously rare to find and maintain, so virtually, I’ll have none. Please don’t have kids if you’re a poorfag, they will lead lives like mine which will probably end up in pathetic suicide after a pitiful, painful failure of a life.

And I have to be up in 5 hours for a big important event where my top mental acuity is extremely important, yet I can’t sleep, its too late to take a sleeping pill, and all I can do is just lay here crying.

No. 1514573

>>1514560
Anon don't be so pessimistic. My mom found close friends for the first time in her 60s, there is literally always hope. Moving abroad is a great opportunity. You just have to have irl hobbies and put effort into socializing and keeping up with people. Good luck with your event, sometimes running on coffee and adrenaline has a better effect than sleep. It'll be alright in the end.

No. 1514576

>>1513991
>>>1513697
hot brown haired white guy? have you been here much?
the dumbasses here are too busy being hopeless and miserable dating obese aloof abusive malformed ill-health broken-dick "men" and stacey-larping their lives away online
Nta but anons here are ugly obese/skelly mentally ill NEETS, who else were you expecting them to date?

No. 1514578

I wish I could engage in my hobbies in a meaningful way and connect with others. The issue is I'm into makeup and fashion. Posting my face on Reddit/Instagram/Facebook groups is not something I'm interested in, I care about my privacy too much and those groups are always filled with pseudo/micro/failing influencers.

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Industrial music is such a mess, i always regret exploring more artists just because i grow bored of the few decent ones i know.
When i browse for any other genre i don't really get anything so concerning and then BAM!
4/5 Industrial artists have some song called "asphyxiating my zombie dick with barbed wire as i march to war" and a list of allegations longer than Christmas time supermarket receipts.
Is it so hard to produce a couple of albums with that artificial GRRGURGRUCLALAKSSSKSKRR sound without posing as either nazis, misogynists or degenerates?

No. 1514595

>>1514338
oh my GOD I love these, I get them all the time

No. 1514605

>>1514354
Your recovering body deserves better than canned chicken. Google simple/one pot recipes. Make a list of what you like and reserve a day for shopping and prep. Buy a whole chicken, chop it up and freeze in individual portions for specific recipes. Throughout the week you can just take it out as you need to. Same with any other meat, just portion it out and freeze. You can also do the same with vegetables, chop them up at the beginning of the week and then keep in fridge or freeze. Stews and soups require absolutely minimal work aside from washing/chopping vegetables. One pot carb dishes with chicken and vegetables have endless variations. If you really can't stand cooking every day either make enough of a dish to eat for 2 days, make stuff that can be frozen and then simply heated up or meal prep.

No. 1514632

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Imagine you're a man. What makes you think saying something like this to me was a good idea and it totally won't make me suspicious about you? Even if you wanted to be totally, completely ironic and meta. Just why?

No. 1514633

>>1514632
He's fine letting you know he's a degenerate, his brain is THAT rotten.

No. 1514646

>>1514632
delete him
sign his email up for mailbait
move on
laugh at scrote
report to lolcow
repeat

No. 1514652

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I thought this was a Tim and my bf got mad at me cause I said she was unattractive then. He said he won’t participate talking about troops anymore to me because of this lol.

No. 1514653

>>1514632
He can't really hide his likes and interests because that's what he genuinely enjoys and spends most of his time on (so there's really nothing else for him to talk about) but he wants to make you think he's somehow different/better than average enjoyers (and probably truly believes it) by being self-deprecating and "self-aware", even though he's already absorbed popular opinions, type of humor and slang of this particular group and is, in fact, its typical representative.

No. 1514668

My father is acting like a literal manchild and is refusing to eat because my mother, who does cook for him, won't get up to warm up his meal for him when he gets home from work. The reason she doesn't want to warm up the food for him is because he's been calling her mean things over petty discussions (in which he is wrong btw). i'm waiting for him to faint so he can be taken to the hospital and they'll clap his ass there.
Men are so fucking emotional. Literal fucking toddlers. I hate them all.

No. 1514669

>>1514668
Lmaoo let him starve

No. 1514672

>>1514669
Let him starve, agree. What a fucking idiot

No. 1514675

>>1514668
Why is it such a huge problem for grown ass men to turn on the microwave or a stove, omg. My ex used to eat ice cold food till his mid-twenties when I taught him to warm it up on a stove. It takes a few minutes max.

No. 1514678

>>1514668
Lmaoo good for your mother for not giving in. What a fucking manchild. He deserves to be shamed to the ground at the hospital.

No. 1514688

>>1514678
What's funny is she gave in a few days ago and warmed up something for him, but he refused to eat it still because "it wasn't the food he wanted" and threw it away. Rightfully my mother got pissed because not only was he refusing to eat, he also threw perfectly good food away when he had it. So she said fuck him and good for her honestly.

No. 1514691

>>1514688
Holy shit how can women put up with this. No wonder unmarried women live longer, the stress of dealing with moid bullshit on a daily basis is terrible for the body

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>>1514704
I should nonnie, thanks.

No. 1514709

>>1514704
samefag, your nigel is a nasty coomer who will leave you for one or troon out himself. leave him now.
your nigel is a coomer and your self worth is past the floor. report back when you've dumped the creature who actively treats you like a living breathing fleshlight.
you've been warned. ask sanic if you need backup
the farms say this is doomed, what do you say for yourself nona? did you want us to explain it away for you?

I love you. this is said through love and experience. sorry to be harsh but this is the truth you need.

again, I love you. I'm sorry.

No. 1514719

>>1514632
He’s testing the water with soft balling the gross shit. Seeing like a little kid if he can get away with the breaking rules and pushing your boundaries anon.

No. 1514723

When I was younger I was one of those girls who only had male friends and I’m starting to regret not having been around other girls. With guys we just played video games or talked about other media, as soon as our time together in school ended they all stopped communicating with me or got into drugs. In college it was awkward because if I did interact with guys they would try to ask me out or get weirdly stalkerish, like finding my email from group messages or asking other people to get my phone number. I get so wary around moids now but I have almost zero interaction with other women my age except for when I go to counseling.

No. 1514726

>>1514632
They think women will brush this stuff off out of fear of 'overeacting' because tbh.. that's what happens alot of the time. And if you try to confront him that'll be his defense. That its just jokes or you're being dramatic. But when men tell on themselves like this.. believe them.

No. 1514739

>>1514668
put something nice and warm in his food for him, like a pipe bomb.
sorry to alog but moids are literally degrading every semblance of progress we've ever made. they're cooming us all into the grave, they can all fucking die off and we can finally live.

No. 1514745

>>1514723
This is exactly my experience. In highschool, our class had two girls counting me and like 20+ guys so my friends were guys. I tried keeping contact with them but they got romantic so I dropped them and in college, the few guys I've befriended asked me out and got butthurt when I rejected them.

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Fail ninja is so disgusting. He goes to family friendly events and subjects people to his degenerate fetish. Likes to get stomped/ stood on.
(This is taken from an adult con so I suppose this is acceptable)
I hate how he subjects con goers to his degenerate fetish. Does he ask the girls who step on him if they’re of age? Why do the family friends cons allow him to attend, it enrages me that I’m subjected into seeing him act out his degenerate coomer riddled fetish. He’ll do it around children who have no idea what he’s actually doing. You know he has a hard on when he’s getting stomped on. I wish they would stomp his groin but I know it’d probably turn him on more. Fuck coomers man

No. 1514825

>>1514476
nona i'm curious. what do you think 'moid' means?

No. 1514827

>>1514476
a lot going on in this post, nona

No. 1514828

>>1514379
i agree, it is condescending. it's treating you like you've just never tried before or like everything can be fixed if you follow really basic advice when in reality it isn't that simple, especially if you're not dealing with just feeling down but you're seriously depressed or you have circumstances in your life that would make anyone depressed. i already follow all the basic advice that people give anyway like keeping yourself and your space clean, exercising, eating well, spending time outside, journaling, whatever shit people suggest i'm already doing, and guess what? i've still been depressed for over a decade. and for some things hearing that advice makes me feel actively worse. like i already know my problems are my fault, i know i should be able to fix them, i keep it to myself because i'm ashamed because i feel its embarrassing and my fault then i finally talk about it and some idiot comes along and goes "well you can't expect to do the same thing and expect different results! you have to try to be happy and make friends!" like i know! i know i have to try harder and i know its my fault that i dont seem able to for some reason, the one time i try and explain how i feel i dont need someone to explain that its my fault and my responsibility! do you seriously think that's never occurred to me before?? i think about it every day! gaahhh it makes me want to scream.

No. 1514839

A friend of a friend went to a Jonny Craig show and took pictures with him afterwards. SO BADLY I want to get my hands on those photos to post in the thread because he looks short and hideous af, but there's no way I could get her to send them to me since we're not close and it would just be weird. Damnit, forgive me nonners who follow his thread

No. 1514843

>>1514825
men. he turned out to be just like the rest of them. what was hard to understand about that, i thought it was pretty damn straight forwards what i meant

No. 1514846

>>1514843
NTA, I understood what you were saying it was just kind of autistic. Like saying "my bf turned out to be a boy", one includes the other

No. 1514848

>>1514843
I'm sorry to hear that tho

No. 1514858

>>1514576
>Nta but anons here are ugly obese/skelly mentally ill NEETS, who else were you expecting them to date?
1) Learn to quote 2) Not even the case for a lot of them, surprisingly. I see idiots just hellbent on turning their relationships into these excruciating depression/frustration coccoons for no good reason. (Which will fail, by the way, since moid uggo is w them for a lack of choice, and as soon as one appears…)

No. 1514863

>>1514843
oh kek, i read it as if you thought that moid meant a particular brand of man and not just men in general. i think the use of nigel and moid in the same sentence tripped me up because it made it seem like maybe you had just learned those terms. i am sorry that he ended up being shitty, i hope you will be able to find someone who treats you well and doesnt end up being a dirtbag.

No. 1514864

Being an adult with a codependent parent is so fucking embarrassing. Sorry, I can't stay over because my mom calls me every night and if I don't answer/want her to call me later/the next day she'll start spiraling and calls me anyway, probably multiple times and insists she knows exactly who I'm spending time with and will likely insist on talking to them as well so she can be sure they're "safe" for me to spend time with and if I don't answer her she might literally call the cops and will also berate and yell at me when she gets to talk to me.

No. 1514875

>>1514864
maybe your mom needs anti-anxiety pills. I hope she gets better

No. 1514892

I always get such meh responses from men, I just want one to go totally heart eyes emoji for me

No. 1514895

>>1514892
Samefag but why do I even want that? I hate their personalities, they're incredibly dull, but I still want one to obsess over me.

No. 1514905

Why can't I be ugly and don't care about it? I hate it that i want to be beautiful and that i feel lesser beacuse I'm not. I hate my body, my tits and belly especially, does they have to look like that?! Everobody is prettier then me and it's slowly eating me up beacuse I want to be pretty to. There was a time when I got compliments but I was starving myself then. And I cannot come back to that state of mind anymore, I'm old and tired. I want accept my ugliness but I know that world revolve around beauty so I never stood a chance. Even if i found sombeody who would like to be with me they would cheat on me, people love beauty. I don't want to be cheated on. I hate mirrors they remind me how I failed. I hate it how I compre myself to other girls, I'm never malicious toward them, I just want to make sure I'm not some monster, that I'm not that far off. But when I'm around them I feel how I'm expanding and how my face is starting to deform. I hate it, hate that deeling that I'm inside of that body. When will i awake from this amock?

Also wtf so many people turn my fav ship into some kind of trans dream, why they turn my perfect pixels into goblins or trolls?? what is going on?

No. 1514929

I feel sad when my bf talks about his dead friends but I think it would be mean of me to tell him not to. His one died young of drugs and another died of suicide pretty recently. His other friends won't let him discuss the latest friend that died. My bf said that he brought up him up just casually and his other friend went "Don't talk about him, he's dead, it's just messed up" and it made my bf feel bad. I don't get why that guy shamed him like that. He showed me a pic of his friend from hs, his family had deleted his facebook but his linkedin still exists. The guy seemed like a cool person especially from the memories my bf shares of him with me I am sad I never got to meet him. My bf will get reminded of him and his other friend with random stuff all the time and I let him talk to me about it but it lowkey makes me sad but I feel like it shouldn't be a bad thing to remember your dead friends so I would never tell him not to

No. 1514932

>>1514929
I don't think telling him is mean, it's an empathetic type of sadness

No. 1514977

my hatred for one half of my race or more specifically ethnicity runs so deep i vividly remember myself at primary school thinking i need to unlearn this language. i'm going to be honest and say that i look at people that hate their countries majorly with disdain and contempt but i truly understand it when someone is mixed. i was already treated so badly like i was a circus animal from both sides that i vowed to end any association i had with that half. honestly the only benefit that came with it is i can pretend to be a foreigner. i have not once felt genuinely proud to be my ethnicity and the more i learn about it the more i bitterly hate it even more. i don't hate the people, and i don't purposely hate the culture, i don't want to. i've come to terms and accepted long ago what i am and i don't want to be anything else but it still makes me cry that i'm permanently this way even if i don't want it to change. if i could choose if i can be either i'd choose the half of the country i was born in and not the asian one. either way both sides don't accept me but… i don't know how else to word this but it just hurts so much when the side that's "responsible" for the pain i endure adds onto it even further and takes it another step. i know that's immature to say but it's really how i feel. if i lived there i would honestly have taken my life from how rigid ( in comparison ) it is, if people bullied me in front of my parents to the point where even they stopped being apathetic and brushing it off and stopped taking me places where i would see them i can't even imagine what would have happened to me if i was there. i really wish my efforts in my cant-understand-to-forget larp worked because they still talk so much shit about me both strangers and family to my face thinking i'm oblivious. i wish i didn't know so much of what i do. i don't care if it makes me a more interesting person as people have told me because i don't want to be unique in this way because its brought nothing but grief to my life

No. 1514986

I think I have cervical and throat cancer.
All I ever wanted was to live a simple life with my ldr bf but now I don’t see that ever happening.

No. 1514994

>>1514986
nigga who diagnosed you? google?

No. 1514995

>>1514986
ok. why do you think that?

No. 1514997

>>1514994
Kek I feel terrible for laughing at this
>>1514986
Anon, at least go to a doctor and see what's up before throwing your life away like that. Idk you personally or your symptoms, but as a hypochondriac I can say that sometimes a lot of things work out ok even when you think it's the worst case scenario. Don't freak out yet, because chances are you are okay.

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>>1514986
Throat AND cervical cancer?! Did you drink river water in East Palestine Ohio recently?

No. 1515000

>>1514986
Don't jump to conclusions and go see a doctor, nona. You can still live your simple life.

No. 1515018

A new roommate moves in tomorrow and I've been cleaning my shitty room for like 4 hours. I've been alone for weeks and my dirty compulsive hoarding depressed ass went full out. I collected 4 bags of trash, I'm so tired and sleepy and it's way past midnight but I still have to wash a shitload of dirty dishes I hid in my wardrobe, everything has to be gone bc I don't know at what time she will arrive tomorrow and I may have no time to do it in the morning

No. 1515023

>>1514573
Nona, my event is over and I just want to say thank you much for your response. I read it before finally falling asleep and your encouragement and belief in me was a huge help in succeeding at what I had to do today.

No. 1515027

>>1514995
I have HPV and haven’t lived a very healthy life, I’m still waiting for my biopsy for my cervical screening. It’s been a week and they haven’t contacted me yet.
I’m looking at my throat and it looks very infected ….

No. 1515028

>>1515027
Throat infection could be a lot of things nonna. Don't lose hope yet. I'm sorry about your HPV, I'll pray for you that your results turn out good.

No. 1515039

I’m kind of a failure, but that’s not news. I’m too fried from having only two months at the most to do this thing. And then the summer months will roll in and I’ll have to be reminded of how much I’ve hurt myself. I did it to myself. I fucked it up. Some of it was because I couldn’t get out of bed and I just wanted to disappear, and other because I am the way I am. I can’t even think about applying to jobs. I want to rot. I brought it all onto myself and moments like these are useless because I want to fix it all and you can’t fix it all now. I hate seeing myself. I hate talking to people. I hate going out and putting this act of Person and I hate the way people speak to me and I want to scream. I want to be left alone and I want to scream. I don’t want to talk to all these people that make me feel halfway insane anyway but I have to talk to them because This Is A Society but I can’t put on the act anymore when everyday is so hard and when it’s not hard it’s just a reminder of how better it could have been if things were different. If I was different. I don’t want to even look at job applications. I don’t want to be reminded of how I’ve hurt myself more than anyone else.

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>>1513630
>>1513626
>>1513707
>>1513712
i'm pushing ya'all around in a supermarket trolley, drunk at 4 am in a public park with everynonny who relates to the rebellious escapist-longing for a destrucvitely hedonistic dieyoung lifestyle

No. 1515101

I ordered a very rare and expensive painting, the seller didn't pack it right and the fame was shattered there was glass everywhere and the image was scratched and damaged. Im not sure what to do and I feel bad that the image is damaged, seller wants me to send the image inside back but I still want it just upset that the frame is shattered and ruin some of the art what should I do?

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>>1515101
It's possible to get the art restored by a professional, but that would be pretty costly.

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>>1515101
That's on the seller for not taking due care for an expensive-ass painting. Want to try and get a partial refund maybe? I think that could be fair since you want to keep it.

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>>1515101
See how much it would cost to get professionally restored and ask for a refund of the equivalent amount you’re spending on restoration

No. 1515153

I’m such an autistic fucking loser that I went to a party and a literal 5 year old came up to me and asked if I had the ability to talk. I wanted to just end my life in that moment. Peak humiliation that even 5 year olds know how fucked up and abnormal I am. Like what the fuck. I can’t even appear to be a normal adult to kids that can hardly form a sentence

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>>1515153
Kids are just weird as hell honestly.

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>>1507051
>>1507023
hey just curious is the guy who takes photos of his diet meals staged in front of his microwave still posting there? he cuts scallions in a weird way (pieces way too long) that he's autistic about. did he ever get skinny? I think he was 199lbs last time I was there.

No. 1517148

I am soo fucking tired that I live in Tranada and that my city and career sadly means I have to meet so many fucking trannies without me wanting to and the racism! Someone asked me after we met what my pronouns were and when I said she/her they got disappointed and asked why not they as well? I was like WTF why and apparently as a not white woman apparently wouldn't I feel comfortable using those more??? I know a large part of it is jealousy that I'm pretty and successful and a lot of these krusty kweer klan love putting down especially woman who aren't white and don't have self-hate/love themselves because they're mad they're some mega hambeast who will never get laid

No. 1521721

Well, my ex and I were going to attempt to stay in civil contact and maybe be friends in the future but I've officially cut contact with him due to how to treats me when I do need to message him (I only message him if I need to like for legal stuff, which has been a slow ass progress) just a bit sad because we were together or many years but these things happen, it just feels weird because he was in my life for so long and during the pandemic he is all I had, we were engaged, moved around 3 times together and what not. He really wanted to have a kid and I'm so fucking thankful to myself that I always said no.

But I'm also upset because I had this friend of many years, she is not friends with my ex, has not seen him since she was 16, does not talk to him or anything and just a few days ago was asking me if I wanted to consider moving in together in a few months. I was ranting to her about my ex about very specific things I only told her and then I got a message about him from it. At the end of the day I get that if you message someone they can screenshot it and send it, but considering she's had nothing to do with him for years I just find it upsetting that she decided to contact him. I was talking to her an hour before hand and then bam she just blocked me on everything and I get the message from my ex. I don't even get why she told him because she isn't friends with him at all, never has been.



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