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No. 1365818
Ask your fellow farmers whatever, no matter how stupid the question.
previous thread:
>>>/ot/1349972related threads:
help me find
>>>/ot/1288369request thread
>>>/ot/1343869 No. 1366251
>>1365917A regular pencil, a big eraser, sketch paper that tears off the stack or is spiral bound. You can download a Loomis book for free (easy to steal, not a bad thing to own either though) and get started that way, really popular for a reason and those books have been teaching people to draw since the 40s.
Mechanical pencil is good if you like fine lines or you like the feel better or hate sharpening pencils
No. 1366388
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Nonnies can you recommend any good "files" app? The one on my device is crap.
No. 1366409
>>1366388sorry
nonny but your gif reminded me of something.
Is there a safe site that has gif packs? I started a few notebooks in an app and I found out I can upload gifs so I want to use them to decorate them. Gifcities is very cute but browsing takes a long time to download individual ones.
No. 1366426
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is there a name for this style of dress? i want one
No. 1366436
Is it cute or stupid to give someone a birthday gift every day of their birthday week? I had the idea to do that but now I'm thinking I should just group the gifts all together and give it as one gift.
>>1366426That boxy straight up-and-down cut of the bodice is a shift dress, so I would search "long sleeve shift dress." Maybe throw "collared" in there.
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>>1366057Someone answer me damn it! I need to know if I'm wasting my time if I don't kegel with balls
No. 1366473
>>1366464Art streamer/personality. Thing is, I'm not so good that people would watch me for the skill and I'm not gonna pander to scrotes so it'll just have to be how "hip" my art is like fandom stuff or my personality, already things that are saturated.
I just want to know if it's realistic.
No. 1366546
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>>1366529Oh, Joplin. I had been looking for one that isn't as minimalist as Simplenotes (which still is decent) and isn't as messy and distended as Notion. Maybe there's a better one out there, but I have had a good time with it, the web clipper works well, formatting, etc. I also like how I can upload a picture/emote to label notebooks.
Syncing is kind of annoying (though using the Onedrive option with a Microsoft account is okish; 5gb), and the two editor option is kind of weird but not a problem.
Picrel is a dancing duck gif. There's also 8 different themes, including different dark ones.
No. 1366829
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Is that really him on the left?
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>>1366829probably, I swear this can't be healthy for the human body long term
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I want to go to an anime convention and dress up with sporty clothes that could match with a rowlet keychain that I have, since I want to be kind of like a pokemaniac.
Does anyone have any good outfit ideas? Should I go for bone sweatpants or green sweatpants?
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>>1366946this happened to me, i live in a shitty third world country and used to be autistically into politics, eventually the stories of corrupt politicians always winning started crushing my morale as a teen girl. Best thing to do is to stop watching the news, there is nothing you can do about it but focus on your hobbies/things you like, also if you use other chans i reccommend downloading those extensions that block certain sites, i blocked 4chan and i have been more productive and happier since then.
No. 1367431
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What are some ways to get a stronger imagination?
Maybe I should be asking, how do I start having more ideas for drawings?
No. 1367443
>>1367431Looking for inspiration works, try searching for stuff that you would like to draw, like fantastic landscapes, machines and the sorts.
You could also try reading more, trying to imagine the things that are being described in texts can help you with developing your imagination.
Also listening to stories could help you with that, having the sounds of things could be of use for you to have a better idea of what to imagine.
No. 1367614
>>1367609I think the most gracious response is to say "I appreciate that you're trying to help me feel better through gratitude but if that worked I wouldn't be depressed right now." And then tell them what you actually need (eg just to get it off your chest) or if you don't need anything, you were just stating a fact, say that.
This is assuming they had good intentions. If they were trying to shut you up maybe ghost them.
No. 1367620
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>>1367500>looks like evan peters>googles evan peters>unimpressedAny reason why he wouldn't drive 4 hours?
No. 1367630
>>1367500I wouldn't bother. If he's the one spending time and money travelling to get to you then he's more likely to make it a longer/decent session. I can just envision you driving hours and getting 5 mins. I'm well past my casual sex days but I've been in situations where I couldn't accom or where they didn't drive.. if hes worth it he'll find a way to make it happen without you being the one spending/travelling more
>>1367620ngl I see the appeal but I still wouldn't drive 4 hours to fuck the real evan peters
No. 1367655
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>>1367500This Evan Peters?
No. 1367676
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>>1367655Sulking coz
nonnie won't drive 4 hours to give him some sexy time
No. 1367680
>>1367500I’d say it’s worth it
Get that dick
nonny kek
No. 1367728
>>1367727no you missed the joke, twice
maybe you really do need that dicking to lighten up
No. 1367802
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>>1367790apparently women with dense breasts are more likely to get cancer, so take regular screening if you have dense boobs.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/mammogram/in-depth/dense-breast-tissue/art-20123968 No. 1367835
>>1367826this is why i hate rangebans, because of one retard the whole city gets banned from posting lmao.
>>1367831i only visited the semi-normal threads like the manifestation x ones or some of the fashion threads.
No. 1368091
>>1368000Wasn't it just that they saw Reylo as a
toxic relationship? Like you said there have been worse ships, but maybe the push back was stronger because of the popularity of reylo and how much talked about Star Wars was. I remember people who viewed Kylo Ren as some kind of incel allegory or whatever and the interrogation scene being called literal rape, a lot of people felt strongly and that he shouldn't be redeemed, much less "rewarded" with Rey. While some people truly cared about all of that, I also think it gave the opportunity to those who just wanted to be angry for the sake of it and drag down shippers for not being woke. But now that I am thinking back to it, I'm not sure the social justice sentiment was the biggest reason or if it were because a lot of people wanted Rey to be Luke's kid or Leia's kid, thus making Reylo incestuous and disgusting to them. But it was a bit odd, usually you see people hating a ship in favour of another and the other ships featuring Rey didn't feel genuine, Kylo x Hux did, but it wasn't anywhere popular enough to be the driving force behind the Reylo hate.
No. 1368132
>>1368000I was a covert Reylo before The Last Jedi (after it, it was so obvious it would go some way, any way, that I didn't give a fuck anymore and started reblogging art). I remember there being the infamous user lesbianrey (a name that promises everything, since Rey's interactions with women are scarce) and others who would really be mean, and then the famous troll fic who gathered an insane amount of kudos? Honestly, I get that the ship wasn't liked, but it feels like bot/spamming friends was involved. I don't know. Anyway, I don't think Reylo is any more
toxic than the average slash pairing set in a fantasy world Tumblr would have adored at that time, but Rey being a woman and Adam Driver being unconventionally looking had them in a frenzy. After TLJ the fandom started growing really fast and it felt like way less people gave a fuck about the shipping police.
In modern times, John Boyega is also kind of responsible (I remember it being on New Years? Mad), which really shows how dead his career has been.
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bump for cp on main page
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cp below
No. 1368381
>>1368149There's some fun milk happening with pixielocks right now, but her thread is full of retarded tranny handmaiden newfags that keep falling for bait so it gets tiring to read sometimes.
Other than that I can't really think of anything entertaining milk wise.
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Is this liam gallagher’s son? I reverse searched the image but nothing came up
No. 1368448
Love that I got rightfully roasted even after immediately changing my mind after one response kek, never change noneritas
>>1367684For the record he can't drive out to me because I'm living with my parents right now and don't want to deal with getting a room somewhere. Also, we have different weekends but he works from home and I don't, so it's easiest for me to go over to his place on my weekend because we wouldn't even be able to hang out if he came over on mine (I work nights lmao). It's just needlessly complicated, I'm down bad but not that bad kek.
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>>1368341I have some jaw problems, I don't have strong tension around the lips in particular, but I do on the sides of my head, I found that gua sha helps alleviating it, it'll be palliative without jaw treatment, but it does make a lot of difference for me. And I mean the picrel kind, the roller ones don't do much for me.
No. 1368892
>>1368864I want to be a mod. not just a janny. I think I deserve that after all the time I've spent on this site unintentionally generating copypasta fodder. PlEASE
NONNY GIVE ME MODERATO
No. 1369197
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This isn't exactly a question more me looking for advice. Sorry if this is the wrong thread.
I have never owned a pet but I have always wanted to. I also do have depression. I have read that lots of people with depression say that having a pet helped them. It gave them a routine and taking care of something living motivated them to improve their lives overall.
I really love animals so not only do I think a routine would be good for me I would also feel so happy having an animal around and make sure to do everything to give it the best care. I also don't have a social life so I have lots of times to take care of a pet.
But a part of me also feel like it's cruel to take the responsibility of another creature when I barely can take care of myself it is years long dedication after all. I'm terrified of neglecting the pet. So I guess my question is: Is it a good idea for mentally ill people to get pets?
not that anyone cares but I'm considering either getting indoor cats or Guinea pigs (not at the same time of course) because I love both and there are tons of them at my local shelter.Plus I have spend lot of time reading about cat care bur I need to research more about Guinea pig care if I decide to get them
No. 1369266
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have any anons tried the galaxy flip phones?
i'm going to get a new phone soon and i find these really cute but idk if they are just gimmicky
No. 1369300
>>1369253Find a very embarrassing trait about him and everytime you see him, say it out loud or laugh at the thought of it.
If that doesn't work, incriminate him of something so everyone hates him that way your brain will react to the peer pressure to hate him as well, don't feel guilty, it's his fault for being handsome and besides, society rewards even the most mediocre of the scrotes so he'll be fine.
No. 1369331
>>1369286 i just watched this video before posting here lol
>>1369298how does hanging up a call feel?
>>1369271maybe his wife is clumsy? idk i've never cracked any phone that i've had
No. 1369335
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Nonnies, how do I use Discord? I have some niche hobbies and it seemsvlike discord is the only place where ai can talk about it but I just hate using it. First of all finding groups is a bitch and idk how people do it and second of all when I finally join a group I never talk in it. I just find the whole chat format odd and strange.
I'm extremely socially awkward and hate talking to people trough text but I'm desperate and lonely and want to talk about my hobbies and interests.
If it was up to me all internet discussion would be imageboards because I love the anonymity but it can beblike that. How do I get over my dislike of Discord?
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>>1369343Thanks! And yes, being part of active servers is just really overwhelming. I also hate how unorganized things are. Compared to /ot/, /m/ and /g/ and some 4chan boards. They have several threads with different topics centered around the board's theme. It's just easy to know where you can talk about what. But in discord you only have a few chats dedicated to several things which just makes it more overwhelming, ugh. This was also never a problem on forums what I wouldn't do to have them back.
Hope we both will be able to adjust to Discord!
No. 1369391
>>1369197For you I’d suggest fostering a pet. It’ll let you get your toes wet with keeping an animal and it gives you an out if you realize you can’t take care of it. Usually the foster place will provide you with all the accessories you might need, too.
I’ve dealt with mento illness since I was a tiny kid and having a cat was one of the things that helped me most.
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Should I eat oatmeal with pear or yogurt with granola for dinner?
No. 1369484
>>1369441Thx
nonnie, it was yum
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should i save for a rhynoplasty? is it a good idea? does it change something, like your voice? I have a deep hatred towards my nose, i normally think women with big noses are cute but mine is not only HUGE but also crooked and it also reminds me that i got BOTH my mom's and dad's nose, ew.
No. 1369578
>>1369522I don't think hobby relates discord servers are as bad as gaming or anime related servers.
But yeah, most people who use discord are obnoxious at best and creeps at worst. I really don't want to use it but I have to if I actually wanna make online friends. Fate is cruel
No. 1369655
>>1369641WHERE IS THE QUESTION?
take a cold shower, do a couple of squats. If you have time, go for a walk outside. drink coffee. A mixture of all of this should lift you up for a few hours. GOOD LUCK WITH THE INTERVIEW!!!
No. 1369963
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Nonnies, do any of you use foam roller for chronic back pain? does it really help? and should I get one bumpy one or smooth one? sorry for spergingly asking, I just got back into neet life and already my back is trying to kill me.
No. 1370210
>>1370200I wish
nonny, I’m staying with my parents who are angels for taking care of me but they are very much anti anything weed related kek (and for what’s it’s worth I was staying with them before I got sick)
No. 1370364
>>1370325it is not autistic
nonny, do not overthink it, go tell her
No. 1370396
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For any of the smarter nonnies here, what would be the best study schedule and way for a person to learn Japanese? Preferably for only reading and writing to start off.
So far I know hira and kana and a few of the basic of basic grammar and conjugations and verbs.
I apologize in advance for how much of a weeb I sound for typing this, I don't really like anime but I do like reading historical Japanese romance novels since I love history to an autistic degree and I want to read some authentic ones as weird as that sounds.
No. 1370408
>>1370403I don’t think it’s all that weird. 6 years is definitely enough time to where you two would be much more comfortable/stable. Not missing him after a few weeks might be weird but if you’re someone who values a lot of alone time it might not be super weird. Have you actually been apart in real life or are you just thinking hypothetically? Sometimes we can think we’d be fine in a situation but real life reactions might be much different.
If you do want the excitement back there’s a bunch of different things you two can do to bring back the romance. But it doesn’t sound like your relationship is bad at all, just naturally moving through different stages.
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Why do people stay willfully ignorant even when witnessing incidents that should alarm them?
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>>1369440trannies try to skinwalk lain while failing to notice the irony of their behavior mirroring this guy (narcissism, autogynesmile and all)
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How do I get Power Point text to speech thing to work? It's greyed out
I have hundres of slides to get through I'm too lazy to read
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>>1370969
>schizo war
why did this make me laugh.
No. 1371048
>>1371005If you don't want to mindlessly watch videos, might I suggest online puzzles? I used to go on
https://www.jigsawexplorer.com/ and do puzzles at my job when it was super fucking slow kek. Also, maybe read some books or listen to podcasts/audiobooks.
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>>1368559I think non-racist skinheads are adorable and they also make it a point to beat the shit out of neonazis, so them.
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>>1371110NTA, but skinhead subculture started in the 1960s and were working class Brits who had appreciation for reggae, ska, soul music and Jamaican Rude Boy culture. They were like Jamaicaboos. Then around the 1980's neonazis started to prey on some of the younger retarded kids and infiltrated the subculture, but by now they don't even dress or look like skinheads anymore. The nazis are generally called boneheads and the only thing they've got left from the skinhead look is the bald head. Nonracist skinheads call themselves SHARPS (skinheads against racial prejudice) or Trojans/trads (Trojan records is a big ska label), but the latter don't go fully bald (they look more like suedeheads really).
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>>1371121samefag, I know that pic is very generalized and my explanation is shite, but the point is skinhead ≠ racist and it's just a testament to how nazis truly can coopt anything.
No. 1371290
>>1371110It’s more popular in the UK; they are SHARP skinheads and adjacent to punk culture.
>>1371121Thanks anon
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>>1371343
Samefag but lol yes. I became a sellout externally but internally I am still the same angry youth. Keep it up anon.
No. 1371443
>>1371408what
>>1371431 said but then the spammer turned out to be a male who wasn't actually concerned with anal sex but with the way womens assholes looked in porn and was spamming his essays on multiple other sites and imageboards
No. 1371478
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What do anons think about women dating younger men?
No. 1371582
>>1371567Based
Younger men also have an easier time staying hard.
No. 1371760
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>>1371755moids are so autistic, they will call you a whore if you lose your virginity before marriage but whatever rotten cake means if you don't. Personally, i feel like my virginity becomes more ''valuable'', as gross as that sounds, as i get older, and i don't want any gross moid braging about taking mine, yuck.
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my skin looks so good after i take a bath, my pores close and my blackheads are almost nonexistent, but after 10 or so minutes my skin goes back to normal. How do i maiting the skin i get after i take a bath?
No. 1371777
>>1371775maintain*
sorry i am sleepy
No. 1371881
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currently tossing up between these two sweaters im getting as a gift for my grandmother's new rat dog (a little brown chihuahua). which one are we thinking, nonnas?
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>>1371881i vote for the ice cream cone
No. 1371980
>>1367500I'd say have him meet you halfway, unless he has a really good reason to not do so. Let us know how it goes
nonnie, I've had a thing for Evan Peters since AHS so I'm going to be a bad influence and encourage you.
No. 1372078
>>1372038Then start driving with an experienced driver next to you during low traffic hours (evenings, weekends idk) so it's less daunting. If you haven't driven in a long time, maybe don't start practicing on the highway right away either.
Do you even have a license? And what about public transportation, is that an option?
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Nonnas with instagram I really need your help real quick, my phone is broken and I can't check:
Can you please look at your history of story interactions and tell me what's there?
Menu - Your activity - Interactions - Story interactions
Given stories are temporary, do you see only reactions you've given in the past 24h or from entire time of your accounts existence?
No. 1372592
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How many inches do you think this is? (Not a penis)
No. 1372602
>>1372599Yeah starting from the dragons nose to the tail area, on my own back. Already had measuring tape and 2 mirrors angled perfectly to see my back from my seat so figured why not help a
nonny out
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>>1372602Ty nonna I offer this pic of my cat playing under the rug and winking at me as a thank you
No. 1372838
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fuji apples are sweeter than ambrosia and sugarbee? is this true to you anons?
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>>1372838meme potential tbh
No. 1372864
>>1372857off the top of my head I'd say support
terf businesses, send anonymous support to
terf activists, support
terf art blogs by using a side blog, put up
terf stickers in your city, maybe look for radical book clubs in your area or online
No. 1372900
>>1372857what other nona said but I need to remind you to never reblog/retweet/whatever share any troon shit or lgbt shit that focuses on troons. Silence is a big thing, many just share that shit without a second thought or might feel like they need to in order to not be outed as a
terf but it's a big thing you can do.
No. 1372901
>>1372857I'm thinking of making a new email to make a YouTube account (both with a VPN) to upload gender critical videos both in English and my native language debunking troonism, hoping for them to go viral to spread the real facts and fight troon disinfo both in my country and hopefully in the entire world too. I'd explain my points in really simple terms that everybody, even people who aren't acquainted with troon terms can understand, as if I were explaining it to my mom, in the hopes that even some genderspecials are able to grasp the logic of why it's so bad, or at least make them question their own beliefs for a second. I'd explain some things from a radical feminist perspective (without saying it's feminist) such as porn and prostitution, and sex roles, when they're relevant. I'd use plenty of sources and examples like peaking material. Of course I wouldn't show my face or voice, I'd only make PowerPoint presentations and use some TTS software. My goal would ultimately be to make people aware of the trans lobby that's secretly pushing their agenda everywhere, and generate backlash against it.
But I'm too busy for that right now so I hope this idea serves as inspiration at least. Plus it would be better if a lot of anonymous gender critical people organized to create more content like this and help promote it through connections.
No. 1372913
>>1372901>>1372906>>1372911I hope you do it one day.
>>1372904Me fourth! Except I was thinking of making memes/edits that wouldn't scare away the already questioning libfem. Mainly on TT though. I don't have a job so even if an autistic troon manages to find me I won't be affected. But thinking about the headache I will have when I have to make five or more back up accounts in case the main one gets banned sounds annoying.
No. 1373085
>>1373048An XXL from any eu country would still be bigger than an asian XXL
>>1373057It sounds like the brand might just have whack sizing, there's no way you could be an XXL at your size anywhere at all. I wish there was a standard, I'm sure these kinds of things create anachans sometimes
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>>1373118Were you under an unusual amount of stress at some point soon before you shaved? Stress can cause your hairs to go into telegen en masse. They stop growing and then after a month or two (on legs) fall out before new hair grows in.
No. 1373203
>>1373155Are you
nonnie from the confession thread who got dumped?
No. 1373256
>>1373248I’m really trying to let him go but it’s hard. He’s sending a lot of mixed signals and I tend to have a good intuition on these things and I think he’s making a mistake but I’ve bit my tongue. Even if what I’m saying is the truth it won’t sit right if it comes from me. I haven’t blown up his phone or begged to take me back even though it’s all I want to do. We’ve only talked once in the time we’ve broken up but it felt like nothing had happened, it flowed so naturally and we were laughing and having a really good time. I know giving him space is all I can do, it just hurts.
Tbf no one I know irl is saying he’s cheating it’s more the consensus online that I read and it’s making me anxious even though in reality I don’t think it applies to this situation.
No. 1373257
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>>1373231Nonny, NTA, but, like, you can't really decide for him whether or not he's denying himself happiness. Happiness isn't as simple as "be with person." Also there is literally 0 fixing mental problems in men. You will spend the rest of your life doing mental gymnastics for his various neuroses if he does magically come back and slowly wire your brain into obsessively trying to correct them as they come instead of seeing the big picture of your life. Moreover he might be a male but even males can have a few reasons for breaking up. And I know some women in general are socialized to overcompensate or read some astrology-tier deeper meaning into a guy's actions, but…just don't. It can be a slippery slope when you start depending on such narratives instead of just taking the visceral reality at face value. There is also a small chance he sent you mixed or deceptive messages about you, or his mental condition, which is something a lot of males absolutely do and it is a red flag.
Again, my condolences, though
definitely step back for now. There is nothing you can do in order to force him or whatever.
No. 1373269
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>>1373262Fuck you I love him and also I once dumped a guy because his sex faces reminded me of picrel
No. 1373271
>>1373257>>1373256Oh, kek, just saw this. Looks like I was right about thinking he has been flipflopping. This shit sometimes leaves a gf or ex confused or trying to work out things…then it turns out a guy is just being a shady, trying to keep his access to somebody while not truly being serious about them. Worst yet, it can be a form of hot/cold manipulation and usually creates anxious attachment in the other party which you are currently exhibiting.
Beware, please. And "giving him space" is a shady choice of words because this implies you will keep on orbiting him when you should be walking away and trying to shift your actions and thought patterns away from him.
also someone saying they have good intuition reminds me of someone calling themselves an empath t b h. It usually just turns out they are 10x more anal about their gut feeling - often one that is a coping mechanism more than anything else - but not actually more accurate about it. Dunning Kruger self-deception vibes.
>>1373269Case in point, you are trying to cope.
No. 1373305
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Who is she and is she a gendie? For context I’ve been getting this ad a lot on tiktok, it’s worded in a gender neutral way and she’s dressed in an androgynous way. I don’t want to assume she’s a gendie but she checks all the boxes.
No. 1373350
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>>1373238Using graphic t-shirts, so basic. pic related is classier and hotter, take notes moids
No. 1373380
>>1373353It's ok if you're into fat men,
nonny.
No. 1373383
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>>1373375>>1373380KEK
I'm into smaller men myself honestly. I just think his shirt is styled a bit strange in that pic. I do not mean to offend
No. 1373389
>>1373383The one time I want to be mean and sassy for the sake of it I fail.
I didn't really find it hot either >>1373386I'm sorry but those are white boy hands.
No. 1373411
>>1373399I think it’s
valid if a guys name is so ugly you can’t even bring yourself to say it. Also hands need to be sexy af
No. 1373413
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>>1373411I love hands and forearms
No. 1373457
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>>1373449Other than the 100 threads worshipping real men is it really that bad?
No. 1373551
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Nonitas pls help me. How can I not look like I have dead eyes in posed photos? I’ve seen other nonas in thread bring up dead ftm eyes, dead moid eyes and dead shaynus eyes and I’m pretty positive I have the same eyes. I always look like I’m taking a passport photo or a mugshot… or even worse I will default to the dreamworks character smirk. Is it just a matter of practicing in the mirror?
No. 1373577
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cute pic to accompany my disturbing question how often do you think a spider or house centipede just crawls over you as you sleep
No. 1373589
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>>1373551Your smile needs to "reach your eyes", also known as a Duchenne Smile. Engage/crinkle your eye muscles when you smile. Try thinking of something that genuinely makes you happy and practice a bit.
No. 1373656
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>>1373653SURELY YOU ARE JESTING…
No. 1373755
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>>1373739i thought it was normal, i tried to ask my mom to get me some new headphones for my birthday(i haven't asked for anything since i was a teen) because mine broke and she told me i am too old for that.
>>1373742yeah
>>1373745i feel the same now, i just wanted some cheap headphones to play games with my discord frens.
No. 1373770
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>>1373413Is this from the Jeffrey dahmer show???
No. 1373925
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>>1373413I should delete this from my phone since I have a boyfriend now and it's inappropriate so pls take it from me nonnies
No. 1373926
>>1373925Omg
nonny I just saw it on the front page and came runnin'.
No. 1373936
>>1373925you are a fool if you delete this! I bet your new boyfriend is looking at porn like all scrotes do and you feel guilty about a pair of nice hands and arms? love yourself more and don't deprive yourself of eyecandy, especially as innocent and nice as this!
on another note: hope your bf has just as nice arms and you are happy.
No. 1373976
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>>1373770ayrt yes KEK sorry
No. 1374105
>>1374088In my personal preference a man with nice veiny and strong arms and hands looks like a man who will work to provide for you
and I am attracted to that kek too bad thats hard to find
No. 1374213
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Where is the thread to post beautiful women
No. 1374220
>>1374213There's just this one now I think…
>>>/g/225178I remember there used to be something like "cute girls" or something on /m/ but that must have been before the purge
No. 1374225
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Nonnies, how do you handle stressful things? I feel like I have the resilience of a beached whale that may or may not combust.
I hear about certain trends in the world and it's hard to get over it even if I don't think about them that much, it's like the stress and existential dread compounds inside me and hurts.
No. 1374290
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I was thinking of making the thread on celebricows ''nicki vs every female rapper'' and using this image but a anon replied that since there were no posts about nicki in this thread it would be irrelevant to make that the thread name but in that case idk what to add other than the generic kanye bullshit.
No. 1374591
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>>1374225basically I think of the Serenity Prayer and either accept and move on or do something based on what the thing is.
I'm not religious I just like it.
No. 1374841
>>1374794ayrt. im obviously an outlier in the neet sphere, but being isolated as a neet makes me motivated to improve and become a better person, to get fit and project my ideal self. I'm doing it all for myself and not to make appearances for others, and there isn't anyone to see me constantly fuck up or judge me. in isolation there is no social pressures wasting my time and energy so I can direct that energy toward myself. i am a neet because of extreme agoraphobia so it's not a cushy gap year situation, but even if its a rats nest of mental illness I'll likely be banished to live in my whole life, its a huge advantage and privelage to have all my free time to myself. I dont want to squander that by feeling sorry for myself and letting my depression sour my one boon. my depression isn't cured, i still have constant panic attacks, and I'm still dependant on people to survive, but im not becoming a moldy hunchback heap of self pity over time. i actually like myself as a person now, compared to years ago. I might feel for other neets succumbing to their depression and not being able to manage themselves, but I still don't think those kind of neets are viable partners.
t. neet for 10 years
No. 1374864
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What the fuck?? It's only a couple bucks extra but yeaaa love being taxed 5 times!!
No. 1374873
>>1374779I wouldnt accept that, it would bother me over time that I'm the one doing everything. Maybe if she kept things tidy, looked after my plants, made dinner, helped unpack groceries, went shopping with me. The only time I considered letting a girl be a neet with me was because she lived in a 3rd world with an
abusive father. She wouldnt be allowed to work as a visitor.
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Nonnas what are some real life examples of codependency you’ve witnessed?
No. 1375037
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Is it normal for a nose to go from easy to breathe through to plugged up, and vice versa? For a while today I breathed better than I have for a while but my nose hurt very sharply for a bit, closed up, but then after a few minutes it we back to ok.
And yes. I've heard of allergies–all I know is that antihistamines don't impact how well I can breathe and doesn't make the random sharp pains go away.
PS: I had to get surgery years ago because I had a nose deformity that made it almost impossible to breathe 24/7. I doubt it's related though.
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Any interest in a Homestuck general in /m/? Cringe and dead ik but I kind of want a place to talk about it free of aidens
No. 1375072
>>1375069Why hello, I’m fat, hello nice to meet you.
fartsIt depends. Some fat people eat past their fullness because the yumminess is tempting and we overestimate ourselves, teehee. I used to do that, but I stopped doing it, because I’ve noticed it makes me lethargic. No wonder I’m no more gaining weight. Some fatties have for no reason this painful pawn and think eating a lot will curb it. In my case it’s a spectrum, and I bet it’s for many fatties too. I wish I weren’t fat like you, anon. Enjoy your bod.
No. 1375096
>>1375069As a former BMI34 binge eater turned BMI15 anachan turned BMI20 normal person:
I think it depends on the person. If someone doesn't eat on impulse but rather simply eats bigger portions, then that would be them being used to more food and having stretched stomachs causing the feeling of fullness to come later than it should but they still stop when they feel full.
Then the other type of fatties, the one I used to be, use food as a sort of emotional and thought block. As a type of escapism. Thanks to eating and the fog you get after binging I didn't have to think about other stuff. I didn't care much about being full, in fact I'd say I felt full and in need of a 5 day fast all the time.
No. 1375098
>>1375069It can be many factors
>Poor quality food has less vitamins so the person feels the need to eat more to get more energy and feel full>People tend to be on various medications that can cause increased appetite so you simply don't feel fullI'm breastfeeding currently and feel ravenous even though I know I ate enough, I use to just be able to know when I ate enough and I was slim but my cues wore off so I count calories but the hunger feeling is painful
>Lots of things are calorie dense now>Soda, juices, milk etc add calories of a whole other meal basically and lots of people drink them to help digest food No. 1375100
>>1375068Insecure narcs and normies usually.
>>1375069I’ve noticed recently I’ve put on a lot of weight because I eat when I get migraines. I’ve been getting way more migraines lately that my weird monkey brain thinks it’s because my blood sugar is low, or I haven’t eaten properly during the day. It’s a weird leap of logic but I’m in so much pain I’m desperate to do anything to stop it and eating fixes it about 40% of the time.
No painkillers work on me. Not even opioids. I’ve tried cbd weed a couple of times and I’ve had no relief or felt any kind of high.
It doesn’t help that I’m in constant pain from MS and migraines are just the cherry on the shit sundae.
No. 1375102
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>>1375097the bug world is big and diverse, show us a photo
No. 1375105
>>1375101definitely not fruit flies but maybe moldmites? my laptop is new/clean and my room is spotless so idk what is attracting them
>>1375102they are way too small for any camera I have to get a photo - maybe some type of mite like the other nona suggested?
No. 1375108
>>1375100Why would normies do that? I have never been called one unironically until I’ve come more out of my shell and decided to give people more a chance btw. I am opinionated when people ask me to. I can’t lie unfortunately, unless I need to lie to save someone else’s ass for example. Sigh.
Also anon I feel for you, I really don’t know what else I can suggest, you probably have tried drinking a shit ton of water? Chronic problems are so shit.
No. 1375114
>>1375108Normies can always tell you’re different even if you’ve learned how to integrate with them. It’s like some weird sixth sense they have. They know you’re not like everyone else so they’re judgmental and you judge you based on how someone in the past with your similar “vibes” acted towards them.
Sometimes it can be something stupid or petty like you happen to look like someone they hated in elementary school lmao.
Basically they know you’re not one of them and will just already have preconceived notions of you already built in to their minds.
You can’t do anything about this. All you can do is keep existing and hope they realize who you are as an individual as opposed to whatever variation of you they have in their heads.
No. 1375118
>>1375109Yeah but they have a tendency to project their insecurities onto others and use that as a form of bullying and humiliating others because of those traits they hate about themselves.
What I’ve learned about narcs is they project so much that most of their abuse is a product of their self hatred that sees everything they hate about themselves on other people and relentlessly abuse them for it.
No. 1375162
>>1375114I need to blurt out less bullshit maybe. A girl I know is 24 years old and participated in the bullying of a 15 year old. She stopped ignoring 15 year old since I arrived in the picture, a 26 year old woman. Anyways her laugh reminded me of a girl that hurt me, and I made an unfunny joke because I was nervous, and I just said “wait it wasn’t even that funny, you just faked laughed right?”. I noticed she can’t take criticism. Shouldn’t have said it but her fake laugh scared me, I need to be less autistic. She also talks too much about her life. I barely know her and I don’t feel comfortable to befriend her, my sixth sense is knowing when somebody is a boolly or not.
>>1375109That’s what the girl said when I told her I can’t be a narc because I hate myself.
No. 1375178
>>1375167Tbh we should all be covert narcissists who keep to ourselves, if it means that we have to talk about ourselves and listen to everyone’s boring lives and backstab each other instead of just existing and focusing on ourselves to improve as a human bean…I’d rather be that. At least I don’t bully 15 year olds.
I don’t understand psychology and it seems full of contradictions.
No. 1375205
>>1375184I am a nutcase anyways so I don’t care how crazy I sound, I have told everyone who cared about me that I’m already not a person, I’m an empty shell with just a child retarded mind, that I should die because no 26 year old should stay a kid at heart forever and I have already died at 7. I used to think I would grow into a dangerous person as a 19 year old like in the movies if I’d handle my own finances and live alone. Thank god I ended up just being dumb and bizarre. I don’t have self importance, I just want to improve myself to tell all the people who hurt my ass a big F, and maybe also just because I feel it’s right that for once a non-“normie” just has the last laugh.That’s my only fantasy. I have noticed people just take a dump on me so I avoid people who give “bad vibes”. It just hurts to realize it makes me in fact an egoistical person who has no empathy and who can’t change. To realize this, sucks. Wish I could be born again.
>>1375190I feel their emotions and when someone is distressed for a good reason, like getting fired from a job, mistreatment etc… I cry along and I hate it because I’m scared it will make them think I just think of myself because it’s their problem, but it just happens automatically. Life is so tough and I feel them. Sometimes I think the problem is petty, like someone crying that they can’t cut their hair because they prefer a boyish look. (This actually happened) I don’t mock them, I just say stuff like “but your hair looks very beautiful”. Sometimes when someone is chronically lying to me and cries wolf again I don’t display any fucking emotion, because I’m too tired to pretend but when I have the energy I play along. I just forgot kinda I guess. Said 24 year old was having a concert during my damn break time and I wasn’t paying attention to the full song and it annoyed her. She was staring at the ground and she has a damn kid. She’s not my friend and will never be. Fuck all people. Love being crazy and narc.
No. 1375234
>>1375218well I have clownesque behavior to hide my pain so that explains the tism. Also sheer lack of knowledge could also make me look like an autist. Then the fact I do have some charisma because of the fact I hate bragging but that can get mistaken with NPD by adults who bully kids. I think in all honesty it’s more bpd but I don’t fucking know. Bpds can change moods a lot faster, I heard it can happen within a few hours. I like my other looney colleague the bipolar disordered person have week long episodes of manic sadness and some of the sperg of it is displayed in this thread. If I had autism I’d be a lot more functioning, every fucking day I can’t function because I think too much about others instead of about myself. If I were autistic I’d be unironically giving less of a fuck and I’d be educated and working a job in a laboratory or something. But my bullshit made me disabled even though my body works fine and I need to work so hard at entree level jobs and pray I don’t faint or commit suicide at work because I constantly have flashbacks. Sometimes I have good days and I function for a day, then someone knows to completely ruin my day by reminding me of the past or by having a shit existence like the 24 year old. She’s a garbage person for bullying a fucking kid and I keep saying it because how the fuck can she call me a narc.
Btw I have the diagnosis cptsd at the age of 16 and I have never been in therapy for it because of a lack of money. And it took me 10 years to accept my diagnosis. However during this decade I was afraid I’d already “turned” into a bad person hence this stupid question I asked. Let’s pray to the gods I don’t have a penis. Ok last post I need to get on with my day and I smell.
No. 1375249
>>1375218samefag for a more detailed response
>I used to think I would grow into a dangerous person as a 19 year old like in the movies if I’d handle my own finances and live alone. Thank god I ended up just being dumb and bizarre.To compare it to me, I am a dangerous person, but I already was before even entering puberty. I would steal, lie, scam, severely physically harm little scrotes my own age (they had it coming though and my intention was to do worse, but I was physically restrained). If anything I think I got less bad, because I had to learn how to restrain myself and hide those aspects about me, other wise I wouldn't be able to function in society at all.
>I don’t have self importance, I just want to improve myself to tell all the people who hurt my ass a big F, and maybe also just because I feel it’s right that for once a non-“normie” just has the last laugh. That’s my only fantasy.I do have self importance, but it has grown out of extreme emotional deprivation and because whenever I was upset about the fact that I don't have a mother and at the time my father was nowhere to be seen either, people would always just tell me to focus on studying and that it was important that I would get good grades so I could become rich and if you're rich enough it doesn't matter that nobody loves you. They told this to a toddler. So I have always had to cope with fantasies in order to self soothe, since nobody could be fucked to give me a hug and say "I love you".
>I have noticed people just take a dump on me so I avoid people who give “bad vibes”. It just hurts to realize it makes me in fact an egoistical person who has no empathy and who can’t change.This isn't egotistical, that's normal. Normal people avoid people who give off bad vibes. What would be egotistical though, is to avoid people who aren't useful to you.
>I feel their emotions and when someone is distressed for a good reason, like getting fired from a job, mistreatment etc… I cry along and I hate it because I’m scared it will make them think I just think of myself because it’s their problem, but it just happens automatically. Life is so tough and I feel them. Sometimes I think the problem is petty, like someone crying that they can’t cut their hair because they prefer a boyish look. (This actually happened) I don’t mock them, I just say stuff like “but your hair looks very beautiful”.I personally can't feel with other people. I do see they are sad and if I have a reason to give a shit (I have a very schizo worldview in which I have to be very nice to women, because it screws over men and I love that) I will give the correct response. I will mimic the correct emotions for the situation and also offer kind words, or try to do things to cheer them up. It's just not out of an internal impulse from affective empathy or because I'm a kind person.
>Sometimes when someone is chronically lying to me and cries wolf again I don’t display any fucking emotion, because I’m too tired to pretend but when I have the energy I play along.I just don't have many emotions, besides anger, emptiness and self pity. It's not that I'm hiding or repressing anything, maybe I am but I'm not doing it actively at least, it's just simply not there.
>>1375234>Also sheer lack of knowledge could also make me look like an autist.Oh yeah people think I'm just autistic. The reality is that I do understand social cues, I know what I have to do, but I will actively not do it if I don't have a reason for it. I let people think I'm autistic, because it means I can get away with being consistently rude to scrotes.
>pray I don’t faint or commit suicide at work because I constantly have flashbacksYeah that CPTSD diagnosis sounds about right! I personally don't internalize things like that, instead of wanting to off myself, it's more that I want to off others, scrotes. Which is a form of philosophical suicide, because I'd basically be ruining my life.
>Btw I have the diagnosis cptsd at the age of 16 and I have never been in therapy for it because of a lack of money. And it took me 10 years to accept my diagnosis. However during this decade I was afraid I’d already “turned” into a bad person hence this stupid question I asked. Let’s pray to the gods I don’t have a penis. Ok last post I need to get on with my day and I smell.You're not a bad person, you have affective empathy. I hope you do get help one day, because you don't deserve to feel this way. I hope you still have a nice day. I know no1curr about what I typed up, but in the case you do, you can compare your shit to my shit and see that you're not a bad person like me.
No. 1375270
>>1375256>I don’t know if I sound sick to ironically say that it makes you a good person to hurt the demons of the worldThank you, I don't think that you sound sick. I've also heard women express concern and say anyone who is capable of such things, even to other bad people, is a bad person and I get their pov too. Neither is really wrong.
>you’ve been so empathetic to me and kind even though I’m just a dumbass stranger who’s manic, sperging dumbass who hasn’t bathed in 3 days, but you made me stop crying and I’m kind of laughing now. Glad to hear! There's no reason to be mean to you, also you're funny and interesting. Plus it furthers my agenda if other women are more secure and strong.
I don't just relentlessly abuse everyone in my path and sometimes manipulation can even be positive. Like memeing another woman into a better mood or better habits. Btw if you can't bring yourself to bathe, you can use a washcloth at least, something is better than nothing.
No. 1375320
>>1375315Scalp health is key but also take a hair skin and nails or prenatal vitamin (they do the same thing just get whichever is cheaper), hair masks, and scalp stimulation is what
triggers growth so massage your head! Good luck
nonnie!
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>>1375282If it were me I’d try sticking boxes of those filter baking soda containers in the drawers.
No. 1375387
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Is it possible to be anxious about something subconsciously? Yesterday before a big event I felt faint, had a tightness in my chest and my legs shook – so, usual panic attack symptoms – but in my head, consciously, I felt completely at ease about it. I had no thoughts accompanying the nerves, they were just there, when usually my mind races. I know it was due to the event because immediately after it these symptoms disappeared. Never had this happen to me before so just curious to know if it's a normal thing. Thanks
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>>1375336I ended up getting him this!
No. 1375461
>>1375412Here's a good article about the topic listing how specific vitamins and so can influence the way you feel; tl;dr is that it doesn't fix anything but it helps.
https://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/diet-recoveryFor me what was the most helpful in trying to eat healthy was just the very fact I'm trying to do something good for myself, showing I'm still capable of even a tiny bit of self care, which means I'm not giving up on life just yet
No. 1375523
>>1375491I'll add to what other anon said, for starters the smallest actions are enough; clean the space around you, go out just for a short walk, do a few easy exercises along with some youtube video, things like that.
But of course it's important to remember that sometimes depression is so deep that one may need an outside help, pharmacological or therapeutic; and telling someone clinically depressed to just go out and eat well - even if that would be beneficial - wont help.
No. 1375528
>>1375523Other anon here, pharmacological help is a good one, but ime therapists will exactly do
>telling someone clinically depressed to just go out and eat well seems like it's near impossible to find one who is useful
No. 1375560
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Nonnas who have smartphones with big-ass cameras like picrel, do you use cases with camera lens protection (like the panel you'd slide over the lenses) or just leave them to hang out in the open?
No. 1375581
>>1375556Yes, the counter culture today is chopping your tits off and calling yourself nonbinary.
It's sad
No. 1375652
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>>1375069I grew up obese (yes I was shaped like a seal as a baby) and dropped down to a normalish bmi in late college. I also managed to lose 3 pounds this month without really trying which would have been absolutely unheard of for me back in the day. Not too long ago I kept getting these painful impulses to binge that just consumed me….it felt like a drug withdrawal ffs. And it was hard, but I found that if I sat through the impulse, they tended to fade away…so did the hunger. I just know that when I binged, I never felt full. I often felt full maybe…an hour afterwards? Oh. Also, it helped a lot that I tended to never chew food and just swallowed everything like a starving Peligan. Fixing that and making it more annoying to consume huge quantities helped–so did making it hard for me to eat yummy things, intermittent fasting, and trying to get more in touch with my body.
I also learned that I probably have had PCOS for 10 years and never knew it. Go figures.
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Why do I get the shits every time I’m about to leave to go to the gym?
No. 1375680
>>1375069Your stomach is bigger when you are used to bigger portion sizes, so it takes a lot more food to make you feel full. You just get used to eating more.
Also, your gut microbiome molds to the food you eat. The more greasy, carb-filled food you eat, the more the microbes that love that food too will multiply and send stronger signals to your brain to eat that kind of food.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/could-the-gut-microbiome-be-responsible-for-food-cravingsThere was a woman that had a Clostridium difficile infection, and received treatment by a stool transplant from her obese daugher. The woman then gained weight because of the change in her gut bacteria.
https://www.bbc.com/news/health-31168511 No. 1375688
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Hey farmers, oddly specific and unrelatable question here.
I'm scared to invite a girl over (as in a friends way), because I got bullied in lower school (i was an absolute fookin sperg), so I always think girls have bad/underhanded intentions and for some reason most of the only friendships with other girls in school ended up having romantic undertones, if not leading to a bit of cheeky tickle time (which they often initiated). But I'm trying not to be a gay thot. I know no one is forcing me to do it, but I have an odd fear that it will happen yk? 2/3 times of going to a girl's house/vice versa has ended this way. So is it normal to be scared to compliment another girl, or paranoid about coming off as gay? If I am now a known homo, does inviting a straight girl over come off as flirtatious, a predatory lesbo behaviour? Because I'm trying not to do that. What do normal girls do when they go to each other's houses? I just want to be friends with her, she seems kind and interesting. What do normal 18 going on 19 year old girls do? Please help.
>t. autistic lesbo (you may laugh)
No. 1375789
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Anons I can't decide, which backpack should I buy?
No. 1375797
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What is it like to be actually mentally ill to the point of being locked in a mental facility? I honestly can't help but think that most of the people that gets sent there are just being edgy to get attention from others.
Also, do they just cringe when they remember the things they said or did while having episodes?
No. 1375858
>>1375797Think about elderly people with dementia. Their brains are a different shape than those who are in their twenties, because their mind has deteriorated with age. The same can be said for very, very mentally ill people. Although there are a lot of fakers and wierd attention whores, you can tell that some people are truly fucked based on brain scans. A fun rabbit whole to go down is look at brain activity levels for those with schizophrenia vs no schizophrenia. A lot of mentally ill people have shrunken amygdala from brain damage.
The real problem is we're in the baby years of neurology, and we can't tell very easily whose faking mental illness and who's actually nutso easily. Scans can be costly, and interpreting results confusing.
Anyway tldr I'm a Neuro-fag and when you observe the brain of mentally fucked people you can see differences in them.
No. 1375948
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Amanda Chan are you still with us?
No. 1376094
>>1376074The door through which it got in was still open when it disappeared and I don't see or hear any signs of its presence in my room. I'm almost entirely sure that it's not here, and there's no other place it could be if it were still inside. So I'm much more calm now, especially after reading that rabies infection through air is practically impossible except in special situations such as being in a cave full of infected bats and breathing that air. And even then most bats aren't rabid.
If I wake up to find the bat flying around in my room I'll be sure to get the PEP as soon as possible, though. Preferable after capturing it and getting it tested for rabies.
No. 1376101
>>1375040id go for it
nonny, people have been making a lot of fandom specific threads recently on /m/. id recommend putting some starter questions and topics in the top post though, since there's obviously nothing much new to discuss outside of homestuck2 (which i would hope noone on this site is actually keeping up with)
No. 1376115
>>1376111That Anon is a moid baiting, don't pay attention to it. Anyways, being a "bangmaid" is basically living with a moid to please him 24/7 because it thinks it deserves such things. It's miserable, pathetic and degrading, it implies being horny 24/7 or whenever the moid is horny, and doing fucked up shit because the average moid's brain has been fried by porn so now it can't cum unless it's talking about fucking a toddler and choking someone while getting fucked in the ass by an electric rod with fart noises in the background.
You know, just normal guy things.
No. 1376118
>>1376111A doormat who is used for sex and domestic work by a moid. It doesn't even mean being a housewife or SAHM, it's an insult that explicitly means he values her for those two things only.
Video related is the origin.
No. 1376152
>>1376141>As their conditions grow worse and worse, and with the increase of children the woman grows despondent, miserable, dissatisfied and weak. Her beauty soon leaves her, and from hard work, sleepless nights, worry about the little ones and disagreement and quarrels with her husband, she soon becomes a physical wreck and curses the moment that made her a poor man's wife. Such a dreary, miserable life is certainly not inclined to maintain love or respect for each other. The man can at least forget his misery in the company of a few friends; he can absorb himself in politics, or he can drown his misfortune in a glass of beer. The woman is chained to the house by a thousand duties; she cannot, like her husband, enjoy some recreation because she either has no means for it, or she is refused the same rights as her husband, by public opinion. She has to carry the cross with her until death, because our marriage laws know of no mercy, unless she wishes to lay bare her married life before the critical eye of Mrs. Grundy, and even then she can only break the chains which tie her to the man she hates if she takes all the blame on her own shoulders, and if she has energy enough to stand before the world disgraced for the rest of her life. How many have the courage to do that? Very few. Only now and then it comes like a flash of lightning that some woman, like the Princess De Chimay, has had pluck enough to break the conventional barriers and follow her heart's desire. But this exception is a wealthy woman, dependent upon no one. The poor woman has to consider her little ones; she is less fortunate than her rich sister, and yet the woman who remains in bondage is called respectable: never mind if her whole life is a long chain of lies, deceit and treachery, she yet dares to look down with disgust upon her sisters who have been forced by society to sell their charms and affections on the street. No matter how poor, how miserable a married woman may be, she will yet think herself above the other, whom she calls a prostitute, who is an outcast, hated and despised by everyone, even those who do not hesitate to buy her embrace, look upon the poor wretch as a necessary evil, and some goody goody people even suggest to confine this evil to one district in New York, in order to "purify" all other districts of the city. What a farce! The reformers might as well demand that all the married inhabitants of New York be driven out because they certainly do not stand morally higher than the street woman. The sole difference between her and the married woman is, that the one has sold herself into chattel slavery during life, for a home or a title, and the other one sells herself for the length of time she desires; she has the right to choose the man she bestowes her affections upon, whereas the married woman has no right whatsoever; she must submit to the embrace of her lord, no matter how lothsome this embrace may be to her, she must obey his commands; she has to bear him children, even at the cost of her own strength and health; in a word, she prostitutes herself every hour, every day of her life. I can find no other name for the horrid, humiliating and degrading condition of my married sisters than prostitution of the worst kind, with the only exception that the one is legal, the other illegal.>I cannot deal with the few exceptional cases of marriage which are based on love, esteem and respect; these exceptions only verify the rule. But whether legal or illegal, prostitution in any form is unnatural, hurtful and despicable, and I know only too well that the conditions cannot be changed until this infernal system is abolished, but I also know that it is not only the economic dependence of women which has caused her enslavement, but also her ignorance and prejudice, and I also know that many of my sisters could be made free even now, were it not for our marriage institutions which keep them in ignorance, stupidity and prejudice. I therefore consider it my greatest duty to denounce marriage, not only the old form, but the so-called modern marriage, the idea of taking a wife and housekeeper, the idea of private possession of one sex by the other. I demand the independence of woman; her right to support herself; to live for herself; to love whomever she pleases, or as many as she pleases. I demand freedom for both sexes, freedom of action, freedom in love and freedom in motherhood.This was written in 1897
No. 1376161
>>1376155>In the summer of 2017, Jenny Teeson made a horrifying discovery.>Teeson, who had begun divorce proceedings from her husband of 12 years in Minnesota, was looking through files from their shared laptop when she discovered photos and videos of her husband raping her while she was unconscious. Teeson's husband had been drugging her with his prescription sleeping medication and then assaulting her — and she had no idea.>All of the sudden, things started to make sense. Teeson said she remembers waking up many times in the morning feeling lethargic and disoriented but had no idea why. She had even gone to the doctor to try to figure out what was wrong.>"When I found these videos, I was in utter shock, but then it all clicked. I now knew what had been happening and why I had been feeling so disoriented when I woke up. ">Teeson's now ex-husband was initially charged with a felony — third degree criminal sexual conduct — but the charges were dropped the same day. Due to a legal loophole in Minnesota's law at that time, raping your incapacitated spouse was not illegal if you were married or cohabitating at the time of the offense.>"If I wasn't his wife or cohabitating with him when he raped me, the felony charges would have stayed, but since I was … the state didn't consider my rapes illegal. A rapist is not always a violent stranger. It can happen to you right in your own bed," Teeson said.>Teeson's ex-husband was never prosecuted for the felony rape charge due to this loophole, but he was charged with two misdemeanors — criminal sexual conduct in the fifth degree, which was later dismissed, and interfering with privacy in the home — for which he took a plea deal and served just 29 days in jail.>These legal loopholes surrounding marital rape are not uncommon. Many states have exceptions when it comes to spousal rape. Although marital rape is technically illegal in the United States, some states' archaic laws exclude situations where a spouse is unable to consent because they are incapacitated. Incredibly, even if their partner drugged them, it's not considered "forcible" and, therefore, is not a criminal offense.Legal marital rape is still a thing in the US btw. So yeah married women don't get to choose at all, meanwhile an unmarried woman could have a shot at the charges sticking.
No. 1376220
>>1375799>>1375959>>1376068Kek that doesn't help
But now I think that, although I really like how the blue and white looks, it would get dirty more quickly and it wouldn't look as good after cleaning.
No. 1376356
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does anyone have any legit resources that describe disorders such as DID written by actual psychologists?
I like to believe people when they tell me they have X disorder but the way tumblr kinnies and tiktok teens describe DID makes it sound like anime bullshit and now I'm curious of how the disorder actually works
No. 1376397
>>1376396The last thing I would want is any kind of scrote, not attracted to them. I've had to deal with marital rape
victims and they ended up stuck in those situations due to economical circumstances, often made worse if they had kids. Police generally do jackshit with rape cases, but the way marital rape is treated, is even worse. It is seen as acceptable for the same reasons raping prostitutes is seen as acceptable, because the guy is paying her in some way.
No. 1376399
>>1376396NTA but saying "you're bitter because you can't find a man" to a woman isn't the drag you think it is, FDStard. You sound like a scrote. This is why you all get
triggered at the first sight of actual feminist discourse beyond "yass queen, vet well, level up!!"
No. 1376405
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>>1376403those slimy face masks
No. 1376441
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Do Schauma schampoos have a good or bad reputation? My hair is fluffier when I use them, and I like the look, but I don't know if it's harmful
No. 1376460
>>1376441We have these too but it just says "shampoo" instead of "schauma" on the front, that's weird.
Anyway I use the 7 herbs one and I don't think they're any more or less bad than the average drugstore shampoo. They all have silicones, drying alchohols and harsh cleaners that aren't technically great for your hair but it works fine for most people.
No. 1376673
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i'm in a very small fandom and we had a little fan exchange thing this week (like a secret santa, but you'd make some fanart or write a lil fanfic or do a fanmix or whatever). anyway, i received this monstrosity.
nonnies what should i say in response? like kek can someone please write me a nice reply that doesn't make it obvious i'm lying
No. 1376682
>>1376673LMAOOOOOOO
i would say smth like "i love the sense of intimacy this gives off, it's so nice and calm, thank you"
i tried
No. 1376702
>>1376682kek ok i'll say this word for word, thank you
nonnie x
No. 1376709
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Sorry for the scrotey post. My nipples are hard like 95% of my life. Not just kind of hard but SO hard they feel like the erasers on the backs of pencils. They won't calm down and it doesn't matter if it's hot or cold. They only time they 'relax' is when I'm in the middle of my period or I'm sick. In my profession I see a lot of nude bodies and realized most womens nipples are usually soft by default, lol. It's obviously not a huge issue but I really prefer how my breasts look and feel when the nipple is 'soft', plus I don't have to worry about bras as much. Does anyone know how to calm down hard nips?
No. 1376711
>>1376709well lets say this isnt a scrote/troon…
Then you have dense breasts which can lead to serious medical conditions.
No. 1376790
>>1376732I've seen quite a few posts that are critical to capitalism and posts that analyze the patriarchy from a Marxist perspective so I would say left-leaning. Just not the kind of woke leftism that supports genderspecials and other forms of
toxic SJWism.
No. 1376792
>>1376732All types of people here but I'd say Left. Women understand the concept of community and the use of a state and aren't as immediately mesmerized by the false promises of free-market capitalism that the righty moids are so invested in (we have a naturally acquired understanding of the exploitation required to keep that system going). If you're in the US you may be sensing centrism because there is often not functionally a huge difference between the dominant "left" and "right" parties in the US so everyones ideas are all mashed together and a big mess and there's a bigger class divide than people often think about. Also being a
TERF is considered a right wing thing but if you read around the site there is no issue with gender-non-conformism or things of that nature that get rejected in right wing spaces, there is an issue with men pretending they are biological women
No. 1376804
>>1376673Oh my god no, I feel your pain. This is fucking hilarious. If it won't hurt your interaction with the community, perhaps don't say anything or just tell them something generic like "that's so nice, thanks!"
Thanks for making me laugh this evening.
No. 1376825
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>>1376673I find this endearing. It's not technically proficient but it has soul behind it lol. Try to find the beauty in it and address what the artist intended rather than what was produced. I do art critiques all the time on stuff much worse than this, sometimes I honestly can't even tell what someone is attempting to draw, but I've found that if you open up your heart you can find something good in anything.
No. 1376952
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>>1376838I don't use perfume but the other day I was wondering why so many women were spraying stuff on their wrists and I looked it up and found this.
No. 1377086
>>1377066Nta but kneels can smell quite bad.
t. Had a lot of leg injuries and i had to use kneepads for a long time.
No. 1377129
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Why does 350lbs of walnuts cost over 2500 in the US but only 1200 in europe?? What are we fucking idiots over here?
No. 1377222
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>>1377210NTA but you could make stuffed poached apples, baked pears, walnut vanilla cookies, walnut rolls, walnut bread, baklava…
No. 1377225
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>>1377210>2 aubergines>2 medium-sized onions, chopped>1 garlic clove, crushed>A little oil>500 g ground walnuts>3 tbsp pomegranate syrup>250 ml water>Salt and pepper>100 g approx. pomegranate seeds>Juice of 1 lemon>A little parsley, for garnishing>1 Halve the aubergines, place in a generous amount of salted water and steep for half an hour.>2 Sweat the onions in a pan with some oil until transparent and add the garlic.>3 Add the walnuts and pomegranate syrup to the saucepan and slowly bring to the boil with the water.>4 Season to taste with salt and pepper and simmer on a low heat for 45 minutes, stirring regularly.>5 Add the pomegranate seeds and continue to simmer for another 15 minutes, stirring constantly.>6 Remove the aubergines from the water and wipe well with a clean cloth.>7 Cut into each aubergine flesh twice lengthways and sauté in a heated frying pan for 2-3 minutes on each side.>8 Add the lemon juice to the pomegranate and walnut mixture, and spread on the aubergines. Serve with pomegranate seeds and a little parsley as a garnish.Ime you don't actually have to cook it for 45 minutes if you don't use as much water and the pomegranate syrup can be swapped out for a different kind if you can't find it.
No. 1377262
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>>1377129>>1377210these two nonnas performing surreptitious walnut exchanges in the dead of night
No. 1377287
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what's a good alternative to a blazer for an office setting? i find them so ugly and i hate business casual outfits in general too, i need help
No. 1377289
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>>1377210how about some muhammara?
No. 1377338
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Is getting a mini musical keyboard worth it? I want to learn a casual piano to make more content and just have fun, but i can't afford actual big instruments and it's not like I would take any of it really seriously. I want to make melodies and covers.
No. 1377377
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>>1377287Can't go wrong with a cardigan imo. I like blazers but I have a tough time finding a good fit (shoulders can easily made me look too wide, sleeves can be too long and I look like I'm playing dress up) on top of the fact that they can be super pricey. You can go for plain and simple black cardigans, or get patterned ones. Long, short, with or without pockets, etc. The world is your oyster.
No. 1377385
>>1377377Nta but cardigans always emphasize my broad shoulders
Am I just wearing the wrong kind?
No. 1377409
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What are some reputable sites where i can download Sims 4 CC?
No. 1377418
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Should I get an oatmeal chocolate chip cookie or a chocolate brownie cookie?
No. 1377531
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whats this hairstyle called?
No. 1377832
>>1377820yeah exactly I'm sure at one point they were sitting in a hot warehouse or mail carrier van so I'm hoping a few hours of heat wont ruin them
>>1377825it was like 2 or 3 hours inside a black backpack on my cars backseat, the pills don't look melted or discolored or anything
No. 1377857
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Hi nonnies…can I get some advice about blood tests and maybe alternative ways of getting extensive ones done? Look. I am tired. My doctor hasn't been good. It took 6 months for a phone appointment and he basically cut me off in middle of me requesting a specific vitamin I wanted to test for with a "ok, got it, you want labs done, bye" and hung up…it was supposed to be a 20 minute appointment. 4 minutes lapsed and I had probably only spoken a few words because he was talking most of the time. He only ended up getting my basic blood work done (cholesterol, lipids, etc).
I convinced myself it was nothing. Months later my sleep specialist ordered what I had wanted done on a whim because he was very worried about one of my symptoms and turned out I did have a severe deficiency that had been wrecking me for a few months and…that wasn't the only time either. Ffs, I found out I had a genetic disease years late because of similar issues. There has to be a better way to check up on my health.
No. 1377890
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If I'm going to community college does that mean I'm an undergraduate (burger)
No. 1378029
>>1377988>>1378024Nooooo
nonny the piano one!
No. 1378197
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can mens 50-100% wool flannels look flattering on women? or am i better off shopping exclusively for "oversized boyfriend" womens flannels (even though they're hella expensive if you want mostly wool)? i've been trying to search for good image examples so i can judge for myself (i worry the mens fit may be too boxy and the torso and sleeve length will be awkward if i size up) but i keep getting either moid models or women wearing cheap womens flannels. also, tips on what i should look for if i do decide to buy mens flannels?
No. 1378198
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>>1378197I don't see how oversized flannel from women section would be any different from a regular flannel from men section honestly. I guess the only fitting trouble that could be there is having really big breasts and no space for them in the shirt but idk how big they would have to be to not fit oversize.
No. 1378388
>>1378385Michiko to Hatchin
Directed by a woman who worked on Samurai Champloo, iirc. Same studio too.
No. 1378403
>>1378388Thank youuu
>>1378401Hell yeah no problem
No. 1378772
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I have a question for nonnies
1. Does your country celebrate halloween?
2. Did your parents even just put you in a black rubbish bag or a cardboard box as a halloween costume?
No. 1378775
>>13787721.yea, amerifag
2.worst costume ever…i wore a yellow sweater and pants and said i was a banana
No. 1378788
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Went out with friends and met this cute girl at a bar last night. We got along great but I got too nervous to ask for her number. She said she’d been hanging at that bar all weekend. Should I go back tonight and see if she’s there, or wait until next week when my friends and I go again? Is it weird to go to a bar by yourself?
No. 1378794
>>1378775This is so
nonnie of you,
nonnie No. 1379160
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Why do most longer term relationships end at the 5 year mark?
No. 1379176
>>1379160He starts malding yet thinking he deserves better
Men's effort toward you is on a downward slope the moment you meet him. At the 5 year mark he is absolutely done ever pretending to be decent and if the resentment hasn't started yet it definitely will.
No. 1379241
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Were women more masculine bodied on average in previous decades or has the beauty standard just shifted? I see wider ribcages and more androgynous faces in women from decades ago and feel like if they existed today they'd get clocked as a troon. Can't tell if there's something in the water now or there's just more photoshop and plastic surgery. I'm wider in the chest so seeing women like this makes me feel like less of a freak.
Picrel is a shot from 1927 film Metropolis
No. 1379282
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Is moving on from a year-long relationship (actually 13 months) after 5 months normal? I was the one who got dumped, if that matters. I was miserable and felt almost suicidal until about two weeks ago, one day I just felt fine and wasn't really thinking about my ex as much anymore. Now I'm talking to a new guy and planning to meet him next weekend. I'm just worried I haven't actually moved on and this is just my brain playing tricks on me? But at the same time I definitely feel completely different compared to how I felt last month, I don't wake up thinking about my ex anymore. I did plenty of journaling, reflection, and processing, though, so maybe I'm just shocked by how much better I feel?
No. 1379323
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>>1379306You'd be damn surprised at how the slightest wrong angle at the wrong time can completely make or break ones appearance. With modern technology we have the privilege of taking multiple pictures to find the angle that gives us the most feminine face, the most curvy but skinny body, etc. I'd probably even argue that a lot of women are getting more androgynous due to obesity and/or anorexia or bulimia in their developing years or simply just losing their ability to make female hormones naturally due to constant hormones being pumped in our food and birth control being pushed on us as soon as we have periods
No. 1379361
>>1379346We're not the same Nonnas. I'm
>>1379306 and it's just factually the case that my bodyshape is abnormal for my region and timeperiod. Even doctors have commented on it all my life reportedly, but I'm not intersex. I hate the time we're in more than my body. I don't want plastic surgery or anything like that. I'm just upset that when a scrote has a big ass bone structure, huge lung capacity, a lot of strength, broad clavicles, he's a Chad. Yet the image of what a "Stacy" is, is always related to what scrotes find attractive, when I don't even want to appeal to them, but it's like it's assumed I've automatically lost at life, when I'm actually in a better position to defend myself from scrotes than 99% of women around me. Not my fault that you think it's a bad thing to be shaped like a German medieval peasant.
No. 1379545
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Have any nonnas ever purposefully ruined a good relationship because of self loathing? I’ve been doing some reflecting recently…
No. 1379672
>>1379657Ayrt, definitely more questionable for moids to be fat as parents. Mothers I can understand easily, but I did find myself surprised by how much running around to keep up with a toddler there is lol. Men have 0 excuses, as parents and in general.
>>1379669True true. Kinda why I said it was more rhetorical, I do understand the logistics of how people get and stay fat, but damn, honestly if you eat like a normal person and follow your kid around, most people would and prob should be a normal, healthy weight. Especially fathers.
No. 1379694
>>1379685Your Fave Is
Problematic is the closest. And how we ended up with cancel culture
No. 1379698
>>1379672Sorry for the mansplaining nonna
(not a moid), I just often see people overestimating how much exercising helps in making you lose weight.
No. 1379734
>>1379722>Misa from death note?Yes
I'm wondering if that's the case for all wigs? I'm going to be wearing a jacket on top of the dress. But since it's going to be braided under the wig I'm thinking it will be kind of a mess to deal with if I take it off.
Would I be risking it too much if I wear the wig and put a jacket on top?
I've never been there but they don't allow costumes in Universal Horror Nights either and I've seen people in cosplay (I also went as Jules from Pulp Fiction last year lol). Wondering how tight they are about this compared to them. I read from their website that people can get away with wearing costumes when they put them on inside also.
No. 1379775
>>1379769Don't know what hat could work for the pig tails. The wig is very yellow and like I said, in contrast with my skin it's very obvious it's a wig.
But I'm always wondering if I could get away with just a wig since there are (black)people who wear very obvious blonde wigs all the time around here.
That, plus what if I have a medical condition? lol
No. 1379777
>>1379766Anon did you document all this? You could try to find resources that would help you get some compensation back for the unfair treatment.
I'm on the same boat (0 training but they expect 99% quality) and I want to quit SO BAD but I can't seem to get hired for another remote job. I just vented on Glassdoor and left them an awful review.
No. 1379784
>>1379777Unfortunately anon, I didn't, it's only through word-of-mouth so even if I reported this it can only be chalked down as he said she said situation and with my manager's sly mouth I don't think I can win this.
I hope you can find a better job soon anon, wishing you luck!
No. 1379821
>>1379815Could be, a few weeks ago I was forced to overeat at a family outing (you can't say no…) and that night I had the worst gas ever. Also had to get up at 3am to shit it all out, literally never happened in my life before.
It could just be a sign of getting older, my stomach is getting a whole lot more sensitive now that I'm entering my mid 20s.
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>>1379851We're in this together
nonnie.
No. 1380127
>>1365818How does one actually strengthen pelvic floor muscles?
vaginal prolapse is like one of my worst fears
No. 1380138
>>1380127imagine you are sitting in a bath full of little eels. you do not want any of the eels getting inside you, do you? clench up everything down there as if you're trying to stop them. that's a pelvic floor exercise, congrats!
do it every time you sit down. doing it 20 times for 5 seconds is better than doing it one time for 100 seconds. repetition is what strengthens the muscles.
hope this helps xoxo
No. 1380154
>>1380123Womens shelter if theres one close enough to you, otherwise sell them or donate I guess.
>>1379874Wtf anon you genius. I never buy bar soap but now I know a method for it.
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>>1380138kek damn it nona I immediately thought of The Mighty Boosh
No. 1380179
>>1380174They're kind of crappy and old but I don't mind helping out a nona!! And if they don't work out for you
nonny here
>>1380150 has the second best idea lol
>>1380154I was looking at my local one but they didn't mention needing anything like that. I was planning on giving them soaps and shampoos I dont want.
No. 1380194
>>1380178I feel like because of the subject matter, it would attract mostly female users. I’m not sure where exactly the radfem and
terf beliefs started coming into play, but it is based as fuck. Going into old mass threads here is funny because of all the male posting which would always be
>my dick my cock wow I’d fuck this cow but she’s crazy>fffemale imageboard omg woww No. 1380504
>>1380497I prefer a more personal approach so I'm fine with that
>>1380502Other colleagues did (teens, at least) and they said it was even worse, but again, i prefer interacting with 1-3 people max at the same time
No. 1380521
>>1380505You're nasty.
>>1380429BATHE. If you already do, then maybe apply lotion.
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I haven't had my period in half a year should i be concerned anons? Is it wise to get it checked out?
No. 1380733
>>1380628sounds like something he pulled out of his ass.
french models tend to have wavy dirty blonde hair and pouty lips (Brigitte Bardot, Thylane Blondeau) and be very typically "beautiful". sometimes there's a focus on looking youthful (a sexy baby face type) which is not unique to french models but somehow seems creepier on them imo, so if you're in an age gap relationship and you're the young one he might be being creepy.
but again, 99% probability he just pulled it out of his ass.
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What is this trying to say? I really don’t get it.
No. 1380771
>>1380379Not everyone here is a white American anon some women just don’t have a choice
Various cultures make it more easy to brainwash women into marriage
Sometimes parents & relatives talk women into marriage, they might even coerce them or beat them if they refuse
Families take pride in locking daughters in a lifetime of rape, abuse and emotional abuse. It is kind of expected and tolerated in many cultures
Workplaces cut off chances of women to progress in their career so their best bet is staying married
No. 1380786
>>1380742If you're in the US: We don't have healthcare but there are some Health Centers that will look at you for free if you're poor, or they'll have a sliding fee scale, especially for things like preventative checkups/primary care and reproductive health.
search for health centers here:
https://findahealthcenter.hrsa.gov/government site where I found that link:
https://www.hhs.gov/answers/health-insurance-reform/where-can-i-find-free-or-low-cost-health-care/index.htmlI used these in my early 20s in a couple different states, once to get a regular checkup and once because I got a UTI and needed antibiotics. I did not pay anything either time but I was making <12k year so I was basically at the bottom of the sliding scale.
No. 1381022
>>1380662Because it looks cool and edgy, or sometimes even the opposite, giving a vulnerable vibe while still looking edgy.
t. 26 year old and whump enjoyer
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what tha hell is going on in the uk
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How the hell do I settle on a new online name?
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What is this referencing?? Who is Eichi??
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>>1381092I'm gonna guess Eichi Tenshouin from ensemble stars, he's not gay though, he's more focused on rebuilding the idol world while he's dying
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>>1381088Username generator
https://jimpix.co.uk/words/random-username-generator.asp>doursotterel>eamstressgul>laidgoh as in hogdial>peacupi No. 1381143
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How can I style my hair to make it look like this? I have a similar texture, but whenever I curl it it gets wavy at the bottom and flat at the top. Should I buy a big curling iron to get volume at the top or what?
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>>1381142I'm GMT too, if I'm up there's surely just one single french anon online that's willing to answer my question
No. 1381165
>>1381137No, I guess it's supposed to be pronounced mo-i-d because of the suffix. Like how we pronounce "androïde".
>>1381142I need to stop being here so late everyday, can someone here kick my ass and help me get a normal sleep schedule?
No. 1381255
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i have dirt on a moid I once loved. once, because he harmed me.. Do I tell his parents, who he dearly "loves", or do I use it as leverage to make him pay me (he's well off) to keep quiet? How can this go wrong?
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Is this site accurate? About half amerinonnies?
No. 1381329
>>1381278It depends. Prion disease is something to worry about, but not guaranteed to happen. Of course there are the regular bloodborne illnesses, viruses and all the stuff you usually have to worry about with meat. NVM that humans ingest a lot of junk and meds, good luck finding "organic". There are tribes which are adapted to cannibalism though
>For a people that presumably has practiced mortuary cannibalism for years, it’s surprising the Fore didn’t die out earlier. Kuru takes up to 20 years to develop, says Volker, but the Fore people’s resilience to the dangers of human-eating could also be chalked up to genetics. Earlier this year, a study in Nature described the discovery of a “prion resistance gene” that was prevalent in the Fore population, theorizing that evolutionary processes naturally selected for individuals whose genes allowed them to withstand the dangers of eating brains.So don't try it at home!
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>>1381379GO NONA, GO!! GO GET HEALTHY RIGHT NOW!!!!
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What do you think is up with my friend nonnas?
She was my best and closest friend in teenage years, we drifted apart a bit when I had to move to a different city but I've always put the effort to stay in touch and meet up every time I came back to our hometown. She rarely ever messages me but said it's because she just doesn't like messaging, which is fine - though when she stayed at my place recently most of the time she spent on her phone texting her other friend (that she told me she doesn't have much in common with and often complained how selfish that friend is) and her sister. Once I found out she actually spend a whole two months in my city (some stationary course her employer had her take) and didn't even tell me that until she was back in our hometown. All this would make you think she doesn't actually like me that much, right? But then, when I didn't meet up with her once when I visited my parents and she found out, she was really upset with me; and then some other time when I did meet her she actually cried seeing me and said that she misses me a lot. At that point I thought that maybe something changed with her but the moment I left and tried keeping in touch by messaging her she'd leave me on read for weeks and respond with few words and most often just a single emoji.
I'm just so, so confused by these mixed signals, someone please help me make sense out of it.
No. 1381861
>>1381858Not true,
>>1381807 you need to look up information on a specific pill you took because it can vary
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What the fuck is BeReal, I keep seeing memes. Is it just another IG type of a social media, I am so tired and confused.